I earn more than my wife. I could have stayed home too. I also spent 40 hours working, and not 60-80. It cost me plenty, but the rewards I received are infinitely more precious to me.
Single Parenthood is a mostly preventable problem. It is a mostly* a result of poor choices. Don't punish your kids because you can't choose your mates better.
*I say mostly because in the more rare cases, single parenthood isn't a choice due to a death of one of the parents. In almost all other cases, poor choice in life mate isn't an excuse.
I didn't judge anyone. I said paying for daycare isn't worth it. That is a value judgement. And unless you are part of the mostly preventable "single parent" family, you do have choices. And yes, I can judge others, just like they sneer at my wife who stayed home to raise our family (how quaint).
IMHO the people who keep saying "don't judge" know they aren't doing the right thing, and don't want to be reminded it isn't the right thing. Make the choices you want to make, and I will think whatever I want. If you're okay with your choice, then what I think shouldn't matter to you. I can judge all I want, it is free country (for now)
So, your choice is to have kids or a career. Or is having a career worth sending your kids to be raised by others? Because quite frankly, I hate people who make the choice of having kids and careers, because the kids always suffer.
Or, as my dad always said, "Nobody, on their deathbed, ever says 'I wish I spent more time at the office!' "
Your kids are only kids for a short period. Spend your life with them, not at work.
If you are paying for daycare, you have choices. You might not think of them as choices, but they are there. I have a 20 year old car, because I spend my time with my family, not chasing the dollar. The problem is, you do have a choice if you're paying for daycare.
All the other things you mentioned are necessities, but paying for daycare isn't one of them, that is a choice. Unless you're in the mostly preventable single parent realm, you have choices.
The only secure software is one that is repeatedly tested and fixed to stay that way. Vulnerabilities will exist in both Open and Closed software, the question isn't which has more (or less) it is once discovered, what can YOU (the end user) do to fix it.
In this case Just look at the Android Marketplace and all the various versions of Android out there, and how the Manufacturers support them. If it wasn't for CyangenMod and others many of these usable devices would never get updated. Ever.
And that is my fear when I look at other "systems" out there. And quite frankly, from what I've seen, the security is an afterthought mentality is criminal. Give me access to fix what you can't or won't, or don't do it at all. Period.
Or, as the saying goes... "People who don't learn from history, are doomed to repeat it"
The counter argument is "But DRUUUUGGGGSSSS!!!!"
Yeah, so, making them illegal has stopped them from being used? It has created associated crimes hasn't it?
I am opposed to drugs, because they are bad for people. I am also equally if nor more so, opposed to government making them illegal. In trying to protect us from ourselves, the government actually has made things worse. As it usually does.
Stop pursuing money for gain while you have kids under 60 Months of age. Whatever you spent on daycare it wasn't worth it. Your kids would rather have you, than the things the second job affords.
No, it isn't about lions. It is about human women being, on average (key word) smaller than men. This doesn't mean that there aren't larger women and smaller men, it means, "on average" women are smaller. There are exceptions, as noted in the post, and quoted by me.
Claiming it is "sexism" is indeed "SJWing" because the poster didn't say anything about "all women" or "all men". Apparently noting biological differences is "sexist". I have had people tell me male privilege to be able to pee standing up, and not having a period every month. This is right up there with that kind of thinking.
Being bigger, stronger... ON AVERAGE... is not sexism.
On a side note, I have a daughter who can handle just about any gun made, simply because she is 5'11" (Kind of tall girl). This isn't about girls not able to do things, but that most girls have smaller hands than most men. MOST/AVERAGE etc isn't sexist, it is biology.
Wow, you're an idiot and don't understand the idea of "average". Nor did you read the rest the the post (it was short, but you are an idiot) where he said...
outperformed by exceptional women because the women have the mental attitude necessary to be successful, which can get you a long way.
This is the problem with discussing biology with SJW types like you, is that all you see is "sexism, racism...." when people actually use facts.
I've seen a number of issues with guns in small hands. It really isn't the gun's fault. There is only so much you can do to fit a gun into small hands, and after that, you're compromising the gun.
IMHO it would be MUCH better to have a couple different models, standard issue, Small hands Issue and large caliber issue. Being outside the 95% in size, I know that "one size fits all" approach is woefully inadequate.
SSDs do especially well for Database applications, considering they tend to be IOP bound. Give me a Million IOPs on certain databases, and they will scream.
This is not a chicken/egg problem. This is now a known scientific fact. The Beginning of the universe, according to this information, must have had an observer.
Carriers should support Phones for 2 years after the last day it was available for sale. I mean, they could simply hand over the blobs needed to get CyanogenMod running on said phone, and unlock the bootloader and pay CM to actually fulfill the need, rather than crying "Proprietary" (no, it isn't).
This doesn't account for actual usage of drive space, people with 8 TB drives might need 8TB of space, but most people STILL don't need that much space.
And consider this, in the next 2-4 years, we'll see a huge drop in SSD pricing as new drives come online with new technology giving 16 TB storage with performances exceeding Spinning drives (not to mention new, higher bus speeds needed).
This is one of the clearest signals that the era of Spinning drives is nearing its end. They will be all but gone within 5-8 years. Add in cloud based storage (BackBlaze style) and you don't need 8TB unless you're a Photographer or hoarder.
Those are costs directly associated with Malpractice. There are a shit ton of additional costs associated that aren't direct. It is just like insurance, there is the cost of insurance, and then there is the back office costs associated with it that aren't direct. All these extra costs have driven health care costs through the roof.
There is no incentive to streamline any of these extra costs, because the people imposing them aren't the ones bearing them. Ultimately, it is us the end user/consumer that bears the full cost of all these extra costs.
Porn is, by this definition ( sexually objectifies the women), misogynist. It is one of those rare battles where Liberals should be hating other liberals, but sex wins over Political Correctness, in cases like this.
Women (in general) are desired by men (in general) (Homosexuals not withstanding), and that is simple biology. Without it, our species would have died out long ago.
They don't expect you to click on ads in every case. They expect you to remember WXY Corp when you're about to buy a widget or service they offer. Which is why they want their ads to be so obnoxious, so you will remember.
China isn't monolithic as the west assumes. There are racist Chinese who are racist against ethnic minority Chinese. In the same way that Italians aren't the same as Irish or German.
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I earn more than my wife. I could have stayed home too. I also spent 40 hours working, and not 60-80. It cost me plenty, but the rewards I received are infinitely more precious to me.
Your kid liked day care more than mom and dad, and you think that is okay?
Single Parenthood is a mostly preventable problem. It is a mostly* a result of poor choices. Don't punish your kids because you can't choose your mates better.
*I say mostly because in the more rare cases, single parenthood isn't a choice due to a death of one of the parents. In almost all other cases, poor choice in life mate isn't an excuse.
I didn't judge anyone. I said paying for daycare isn't worth it. That is a value judgement. And unless you are part of the mostly preventable "single parent" family, you do have choices. And yes, I can judge others, just like they sneer at my wife who stayed home to raise our family (how quaint).
IMHO the people who keep saying "don't judge" know they aren't doing the right thing, and don't want to be reminded it isn't the right thing. Make the choices you want to make, and I will think whatever I want. If you're okay with your choice, then what I think shouldn't matter to you. I can judge all I want, it is free country (for now)
So, your choice is to have kids or a career. Or is having a career worth sending your kids to be raised by others? Because quite frankly, I hate people who make the choice of having kids and careers, because the kids always suffer.
Or, as my dad always said, "Nobody, on their deathbed, ever says 'I wish I spent more time at the office!' "
Your kids are only kids for a short period. Spend your life with them, not at work.
Cost of Day Care vs Stay at home?
If you are paying for daycare, you have choices. You might not think of them as choices, but they are there. I have a 20 year old car, because I spend my time with my family, not chasing the dollar. The problem is, you do have a choice if you're paying for daycare.
All the other things you mentioned are necessities, but paying for daycare isn't one of them, that is a choice. Unless you're in the mostly preventable single parent realm, you have choices.
Open == Secure
Closed == Secure
The only secure software is one that is repeatedly tested and fixed to stay that way. Vulnerabilities will exist in both Open and Closed software, the question isn't which has more (or less) it is once discovered, what can YOU (the end user) do to fix it.
In this case Just look at the Android Marketplace and all the various versions of Android out there, and how the Manufacturers support them. If it wasn't for CyangenMod and others many of these usable devices would never get updated. Ever.
And that is my fear when I look at other "systems" out there. And quite frankly, from what I've seen, the security is an afterthought mentality is criminal. Give me access to fix what you can't or won't, or don't do it at all. Period.
Or, as the saying goes ... "People who don't learn from history, are doomed to repeat it"
The counter argument is "But DRUUUUGGGGSSSS!!!!"
Yeah, so, making them illegal has stopped them from being used? It has created associated crimes hasn't it?
I am opposed to drugs, because they are bad for people. I am also equally if nor more so, opposed to government making them illegal. In trying to protect us from ourselves, the government actually has made things worse. As it usually does.
Here is another thought.
Stop pursuing money for gain while you have kids under 60 Months of age. Whatever you spent on daycare it wasn't worth it. Your kids would rather have you, than the things the second job affords.
Freedom works better than socialist feudal states.
No, it isn't about lions. It is about human women being, on average (key word) smaller than men. This doesn't mean that there aren't larger women and smaller men, it means, "on average" women are smaller. There are exceptions, as noted in the post, and quoted by me.
Claiming it is "sexism" is indeed "SJWing" because the poster didn't say anything about "all women" or "all men". Apparently noting biological differences is "sexist". I have had people tell me male privilege to be able to pee standing up, and not having a period every month. This is right up there with that kind of thinking.
Being bigger, stronger ... ON AVERAGE ... is not sexism.
On a side note, I have a daughter who can handle just about any gun made, simply because she is 5'11" (Kind of tall girl). This isn't about girls not able to do things, but that most girls have smaller hands than most men. MOST/AVERAGE etc isn't sexist, it is biology.
Wow, you're an idiot and don't understand the idea of "average". Nor did you read the rest the the post (it was short, but you are an idiot) where he said ...
outperformed by exceptional women because the women have the mental attitude necessary to be successful, which can get you a long way.
This is the problem with discussing biology with SJW types like you, is that all you see is "sexism, racism ...." when people actually use facts.
I've seen a number of issues with guns in small hands. It really isn't the gun's fault. There is only so much you can do to fit a gun into small hands, and after that, you're compromising the gun.
IMHO it would be MUCH better to have a couple different models, standard issue, Small hands Issue and large caliber issue. Being outside the 95% in size, I know that "one size fits all" approach is woefully inadequate.
SSDs do especially well for Database applications, considering they tend to be IOP bound. Give me a Million IOPs on certain databases, and they will scream.
Size matters. Having plenty of empty space is a huge advantage for SSD drives.
Cooling is not a problem for real datacenters. Real data centers have dedicated cooling systems, piping cold air into the racks directly.
This is not a chicken/egg problem. This is now a known scientific fact. The Beginning of the universe, according to this information, must have had an observer.
Carriers should support Phones for 2 years after the last day it was available for sale. I mean, they could simply hand over the blobs needed to get CyanogenMod running on said phone, and unlock the bootloader and pay CM to actually fulfill the need, rather than crying "Proprietary" (no, it isn't).
This doesn't account for actual usage of drive space, people with 8 TB drives might need 8TB of space, but most people STILL don't need that much space.
And consider this, in the next 2-4 years, we'll see a huge drop in SSD pricing as new drives come online with new technology giving 16 TB storage with performances exceeding Spinning drives (not to mention new, higher bus speeds needed).
This is one of the clearest signals that the era of Spinning drives is nearing its end. They will be all but gone within 5-8 years. Add in cloud based storage (BackBlaze style) and you don't need 8TB unless you're a Photographer or hoarder.
What is the difference between "bad guy does illegal stuff" and "bad guy does illegal stuff with drone"?
Nothing. Doing illegal stuff is already against the law. This is right up there with ... "on the internet" style patents IMHO.
Those are costs directly associated with Malpractice. There are a shit ton of additional costs associated that aren't direct. It is just like insurance, there is the cost of insurance, and then there is the back office costs associated with it that aren't direct. All these extra costs have driven health care costs through the roof.
There is no incentive to streamline any of these extra costs, because the people imposing them aren't the ones bearing them. Ultimately, it is us the end user/consumer that bears the full cost of all these extra costs.
Porn is, by this definition ( sexually objectifies the women), misogynist. It is one of those rare battles where Liberals should be hating other liberals, but sex wins over Political Correctness, in cases like this.
Women (in general) are desired by men (in general) (Homosexuals not withstanding), and that is simple biology. Without it, our species would have died out long ago.
They don't expect you to click on ads in every case. They expect you to remember WXY Corp when you're about to buy a widget or service they offer. Which is why they want their ads to be so obnoxious, so you will remember.
China isn't monolithic as the west assumes. There are racist Chinese who are racist against ethnic minority Chinese. In the same way that Italians aren't the same as Irish or German.
It was funny. Because you took offense to a joke, kinda proves his point. Which makes it even funnier. Nicely done, if that was your intention.