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Dealing w/ Relocation Package Bait and Switch?

An anonymous reader asks: "I got a R&D job offer with a large company in Philadelphia area last week. It includes a relocation package that they told me was standard for my position. After I accepted the offer and made plans to terminate my current job, the recruiter handed me off to their relocation department, where I was told that my relocation package is significantly less than what I was promised. The relocation manager tells me that whenever there is conflict between their relocation policy and the offer, their internal relocation policy supersedes. Is this type of switch-and-bait common practice in corporate America? If you have gone through this nightmare before, any advice on how to respond to it?"

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  1. Seriously consider not taking the job by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 4, Insightful

    I would seriously consider not taking the job if they don't try to fix it quickly. If they're going to screw you over before you've even started, imagine what they'll do once you're there.

    FWIW, I took a job cross country about a year and a half ago that included a relocation package. They handled it very professionally, and followed through with everything that they had promised. So far, it's been a good company to work for.

  2. new one on me by davidwr · · Score: 4, Insightful

    I've never run into a problem like that. However, if I were in a situation like that and had already quit my previous position, I would probably

    1) take the job
    2) start job-hunting immediately
    3) see if this was an anomaly or business-as-usual for a company without a moral compass.

    If it's business-as-usual I'd jump ship as soon as I got another job.

    If it's an anomaly I'd work from within to make sure this never happened to anyone else.

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    1. Re:new one on me by hackstraw · · Score: 3, Insightful

      I've never run into a problem like that. However, if I were in a situation like that and had already quit my previous position, I would probably

      1) take the job
      2) start job-hunting immediately
      3) see if this was an anomaly or business-as-usual for a company without a moral compass.

      If it's business-as-usual I'd jump ship as soon as I got another job.


      This would be an appropriate course of action if relocation wasn't an option. But relocating 2x possibly across the country each time back to back sucks.

      In this situation, I would go back to my old job and ask them if I can stay. The last 2 jobs I resigned from offered me counter offers when I resigned. I don't know what this guy's situation is like at his old job, but he may be able to renegotiate with them at least until he finds a better job.

  3. Stock reply to almost all Ask Slashdot questions by corbettw · · Score: 4, Insightful

    Go ask a lawyer.

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  4. Can't be trusted, hope you havent quit the old job by nietsch · · Score: 3, Insightful

    Why would you trust a company that makes these opening moves? My take on it is that use as a selection method and what they most need is sheeple that do not squeal too hard when they get done in the *rse. By screwing them even before they take the job they are weeding out theones that would. But be shure to tell the recruiter that this is why you are declining his offer. If it was an honest mistake he should be able to get it fixed, otherwise he will just don't care.

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  5. Talk to the person who offered the package by oneiros27 · · Score: 5, Insightful

    Before you peg yourself as someone who's unreasonable to work with --

    Contact the person who originally told you about the relocation package, and tell them that the 'Relocation Manager' isn't offering the same thing. Ask them to deal with the issue, or make a counter offer and tell them what you're willing to take in exchange for the lower package (eg, higher pay, alternative benefits).

    I've gotten the bait & switch on jobs before (my second day on the job, job responsibilities changed dramatically)-- my suggestion is deal with it as soon as possible, but don't become adversarial with the HR department -- have the person who hired you deal with them.

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    1. Re:Talk to the person who offered the package by mollymoo · · Score: 5, Insightful

      I second that motion. While this certainly smells bad for the company as a whole, it's quite possible you've just got a jobsworth or jackass in HR dealing with you, so don't write the whole company off just yet. HR never made a penny of profit for any company, their job is to save money by ensuring staff retention and quality recruitment. In this instance, they are not doing either and are just getting in the way, so bypass them. Speak (as in phone, not email - practice what you need to say and make notes if you're not great on the phone) to whoever actually wants you to work at the company - the person who gave you the technical interview. Let them know you're unhappy with the situation (you evidently are) and how significant a factor the relocation package was in your decision to take the job (it evidently was significant), then give them some time to deal with the situation. Expect to have to negotiate to some extent - the person who hired you will likely be negotiating within the company too (it may have been their screw-up giving you incorrect information or exceeding their power).

      I'm assuming, as you've posted to slashdot, that this is a technical job. If it's HR or admin take the job anyway - you'll have more power than you deserve and will enjoy weilding it! But let us know where it is your new job is, so the rest of us can avoid it :)

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  6. Re:Stock reply to almost all Ask Slashdot question by Otter · · Score: 4, Insightful

    There's that, but an earlier step that's also missing in almost all of these questions is -- did you ask anyone before flying off the handle and coming here? In this case, did you go back to the recruiter and ask him what's going on and whether he can untangle it?

  7. Speak personally to someone senior by currivan · · Score: 5, Insightful

    Call the VP or Human Resources and tell him what happened. Chances are he'll be furious that this is happening and straighten out the recruiter or whomever gave you the wrong information. He'll probably also be able to arrange an exception to give you what you expected, or at least a compromise. No large company would do this as a matter of policy. No one wants employees who feel cheated; they don't work hard and might steal from the company.

  8. There's more to this: by Gr8Apes · · Score: 5, Insightful

    Even if you have it in writing, this first taste of the job is already quite sour. If you do have it in writing, do you really want to work for this company?

    If you don't have it in writing, talk to the person that extended you the original offer. Depending on what they do, you may or may not decide to take it/stay. Make sure whatever you agree to is in writing. Basically, any company that did something like this would be way in the hole and would have to work to keep any reasonable person.

    If you haven't quit your old job, or you gave notice but haven't left and they're really sorry to see you go, indicate you might be interested in staying. This would involve playing the "what can you do for me" game. You certainly don't want to be honest about why you're reconsidering. Say something to your boss along the lines of "I would have liked to have seen project X to completion. It is going to be great!" or something like that. Perhaps they can sweeten your current job and you can both save face and your sanity by "accepting" the offer.

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  9. Re:You do by avronius · · Score: 5, Insightful

    Always [that's ALWAYS] get your COMPLETE offer in writing first. Ask for a couple of hours to review it [not unreasonable]. If the relocation dollar amount is not there, get it added. Accept NOTHING on faith where money is concerned.

  10. Don't Forget by WebHostingGuy · · Score: 3, Insightful

    That while many posting here think the company is screwing this person, maybe the fault really lies in the hiring manager. Quite often the hiring manager may make promises or say things they don't have a clue about.

    In any of these questions there are not enough facts to really figure out what happened. Yes, while this person accepting the new job may get screwed don't jump to the conclusion that the company is backstabbing and that the new employee should quit. This just might be some dumb manager who doesn't have a clue--or maybe a smart manager who didn't get the email on what the standard relocation package is now. There is way too much missing information.

    Legally, there may or may not be a contract. You can have a verbal contract which is binding, however, the hard part is proving the existence and details of the contract. Also, the newly hired employee might have a claim for induced reliance--the company induced him to quit his or her old job (maybe, because we really don't know when things happened) and because of that promise of relocation money he is out of a job. There is a potential claim here, but there is so much more that is needed before the new employee heads off to court.

    Like someone pointed out he should go back to the hiring manager and find out if they can do anything. But the real lesson is that you don't quit your old job before you have all the details of the new job worked out first.

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  11. Run. by GodInHell · · Score: 3, Insightful

    Run, don't walk, out the door.

    This kind of bullshit is endemic to a company, if you have to deal with it here, you'll have to deal with it once you get there and start working. This is how you end up stuck in a job you hate, and stuck in the city they moved you to.

    From a contract point of view, his claim is utterly false. It dosen't matter if it's not in writing, since you relied on the promise, it was reasonably foreseeable that you would do so, and this has harmed you - but that means suing your employer. That never ends well.

    Seriously, don't work for these people.

    -GiH

  12. Uh, Hanlon's Razor? by jalbro · · Score: 5, Insightful


    Uh, did everyone forget Hanlon's Razor?

    Make a polite phone call to the person who made the original offer and tell them what happened. Maybe they can straighten things out. If they can't fix it, or they don't admit they promised it, you have learned something useful about a possible future employer with no risk to yourself or reputation.

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  13. You forgot to add by passthecrackpipe · · Score: 5, Insightful

    That you quit. Right now. They may promise you more money, more women, more booze, anything to make you accept the offer while look for someone else that is "less trouble". Trust me, you don't want to work for them. If they screw you around before you even start, then they will be even worse when you actually turn up. You will probably be miserable there anyway. If you are still unsure what to do, go out for a beer with you new co-workers. After a few drinks, you will be in a much better position to gauge the mood of the workforce. Something tells me it won't be positive.

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  14. Call list by Spazmania · · Score: 4, Insightful

    Step 1. Call your new boss and tell him: 1. The company is refusing to honor the terms of the offer, and 2. If the company does not honor the terms of the offer, your acceptance is rescinded. Wait 48 hours and find out if he has good news for you.

    Step 2. Call the HR Director, tell him you're hopping mad and you expect him to honor the relocation terms specified in the job offer. Wait 24 hours and spend the time tracking down the phone number of the relevant office at the state corporation commission for the state in which you were to have worked. Call and get the name of an actual case worker there. If the HR Director does not have good news, advise him that you have spoken with so-and-so at the state corporation commission and intend to file a fraud complaint.

    Step 3. Beg your current boss to keep you on for a while. You'll still have to find a new job pronto but at least you'll keep the paychecks coming for a while.

    Step 4. Call your would-be boss again. Advise him that you rescind your acceptance of the offer due to fraud on the part of the HR department.

    Step 5. Spend $200 with a lawyer to see if you are entitled to any damages as a result of the company's fraud.

    Step 6. Post a hate-page on the web, but stick to the straight facts so they can't sue you for libel. Step 6 is optional but it feels so good.

    Note that if they refuse to honor the terms of the offer they made you, the job is lost. I know you don't want to give up on it but do yourself a favor: walk away. If they'll screw you this blatently at the front end, they'll screw you far worse down the line when you're already moved.

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  15. Re:You do by B'Trey · · Score: 4, Insightful

    Certainly they're not obligated to put anything in writing. However, refusal to do so is at least a strong clue. Ignore anything they've told you during interviews or negotiations, and consider the offer they actually give you - the one that IS in writing. If you're willing to accept the offer as it exists in writing, then consider anything extra you were promised that actually comes through as a bonus. If you're not willing to accept the offer as written, then tell them so and walk away.

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  16. Re:You do by lcsjk · · Score: 5, Insightful
    Talk to the HR manager, and tell them the problem. If the recruiter is not part of the company, then he/she can say anything and the company has no control. However, an honest HR manager will stop using the recruiter, and may even intervene on your behalf if company policy permits.

    Sometimes your new manager will intervene, but the main thing is to make sure the person you are working for is given a chance to help.

    An external recruiter may possible have mis-interpreted the information, or may be using old information.

    Finally, were you so interested in a new job that you did not hear or read? It could be your own fault if you were listening and not reading the information from the company.

  17. Re:You do by timeOday · · Score: 3, Insightful
    Always [that's ALWAYS] get your COMPLETE offer in writing first.
    Here's what would have happened if he got it in writing:

    Employee: wait! the hiring manager said the relocation benefit would be $X! This says it's only $Y.
    HR: It's company policy.
    Employee: but I have it in writing. In Writing!!
    HR: But there's nothing to say we still have to give you the job. If you want to be pedantic we'll hire you for 5 minutes and then fire you. Now do you want the new deal or not?
    Employee: but I already quit my job and sold my house!
    HR: just sign on the dotted line.

  18. Re:You do by DShard · · Score: 4, Insightful

    That is why you assume that, if it isn't in writing, then it isn't going to happen. If they refuse to put it in writing, you don't quit your current job. blaiming others for your lack of skepticism doesn't reflect badly on them. Remember, no one is responsible for your life except you, even if it is easier to blaim your problems on something else.

  19. Re:You do by PylonHead · · Score: 4, Insightful

    Yeah, but in the current situation, the prospective employee already had a job.

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  20. So then don't take the friggin job. by timepilot · · Score: 5, Insightful

    Listen, if they're screwing you before your first day of work, they're going to continue screwing you once they get you into the job.

    Unemployment does suck, but relocating to a new city with no support system (family, friends, etc.) and into a job where they are doing this kind of thing the first day sucks more. You think you're going to have any kind of job security there?

    -j

  21. Thank you Dr Cynicism by Monkeyboy4 · · Score: 4, Insightful

    If the company does react that way, then he is better off not working for them.

    I know I may come across casual and naive, but years of experience working in and with companies has told me that if they are screwing you at day 0, then every day from that point forward will be misery. In a way, your cynicism is well placed - something is wrong here. But to roll over and present your genitalia without stating something just screws you in the long run. Better to have a clear contract upfront and know where the lines are, instead of having some bureaucrat use their discretion.

    The thing is, there are people and places that are fully above-board. Even in corporate America. Even corporations. The problem is when people use their psychological contracts instead of real contracts. Business is business,and you should never expect more than a written contract asserts. If all you have is someone's word, you don't have anything. If their word is truly good, they won't have a problem writing it down.

  22. Why are you even asking this? by DrVomact · · Score: 5, Insightful

    I'm surprised you're even bothering to ask advice about this situation--it seems like a no-brainer to me.

    Moving across the country to accept a new job involves significant risk. You are taking a leap into the unknown. You might decide that you really hate your new location, or that you can't find a place to live at a price you can afford. You might find that the job is not to your liking, that your boss is an abusive jerk, or any of a long list of other possible negatives. Plus there is the possibility of financial loss, and the certainty of high stress involved in making any geographical move. If you have a family, the risks and stress become much greater.

    The only factor to counterbalance all these negatives is your faith in your new employer: you are trusting them to deliver on the promises they made to you with respect to your job duties and working conditions--and with helping to compensate you for the financial cost of moving, as was promised to you.

    The key word here is trust. Sometimes, you just have to go with your gut instincts, and trust people. But trusting people whose actions show a lack of good faith is a dumb thing to do; it's like asking to be abused.

    It may be that the headhunter knowingly made false promises to you so that he could get his commission. But the headhunter represents the employer, not you--he is their agent. Depending on exactly what happened, the employer may very well have a moral obligation to keep the headhunter's promise to you--but even that isn't the heart of the issue. The bottom line is this: if these people really wanted to hire you, then they would go out of their way to make you happy, to make you feel good about taking this job. They haven't done that, have they?

    As for legalities, like "get it in writing, stupid", they're irrelevant in a situation like this. A deal is a deal, whether it's written on paper or spoken. If the other party breaks the deal before you've made any real investment in it, walk away. It really doesn't matter if the law is on your side or not. The law won't buy back wasted time, suffering or broken marriages. This is not a legal matter, it's a matter of common sense.

    I hope you don't feel any moral obligation to take this job. You have been released from any such obligation by their show of bad faith. Write a letter to the employer's HR department telling them politely that you are refusing their job offer and why; be sure to cc it to the CEO and the headhunter.

    I hope you haven't already given notice to your present employer. If you have, do anything you must to get them to let you stay. Chances are that you are a valuable employee, and they will be glad you're not leaving.

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  23. reflections by Gary+W.+Longsine · · Score: 5, Insightful

    Yes, it does reflect badly on them. In fact, it's a huge warning sign. If this company treats prospective employees this way, imagine how crappy it will be to work there.

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    1. Re:reflections by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 3, Insightful

      Two things:

      It is a little unclear if it was the recruiting agency that is being shady, or the company itself. If it is the recruiting agency, maybe you can shake it off (while still being pissed about eating those costs). However, if the company itself is being shady, I would continue looking for another job, either while you are at the new place, or just staying where you are.

      This is a BAD sign of things to come. I am interviewing right now, and I have a test I give to companies I interview at. I give them a very reasonable salary range 10k wide, but if they don't come in at the highest end of it, I don't accept the offer. Why? They either didn't like me enough to really want me on the team (I might just be filling a seat needing to be filled), or they are cheap, and every salary negotiation you are going to have in the future is going to be a battle, and similar to squeezing water out of a rock. The market, at least in my niche of the software world is very good, and I can afford to do this. I also take the risk that by not reaching a little bit, I might be cutting myself short by 5-10k or so, but I make a comfortable living as it is.

      Remember the company is getting interviewed also. That interview continues until you are sitting in their chair. If during the interview they offered you a free coffee and then charged you for it on the way out, would you even consider working there?

  24. Work with your hiring manager... by stmfreak · · Score: 3, Insightful

    ... especially if you were wise enough to insist on the relo package details in the written job offer. Remember, if it's not in writing, it's not yours.

    Your hiring manager is your champion. They are the one that justified your extravagant salary to the higher-ups. They are the one that made HR find you. They are the one that wants you and not those other scrubs that applied and even interviewed. They know the ins and outs of their company and can get the right wheels greased in seconds. Just give them a call and tell them there is a snag on their end that you would appreciate some help with.

    Be reasonable, but firm and insist that they correct this and stick to the agreement or you are going to be in a very awkward position. While already quitting your current job may make it feel like you've lost leverage, you are still in a strong position because you haven't started working with the new company yet--they don't want to lose you! Especially over something they already said you could have.

    As a regular hiring manager, I've seen my share of great candidates get lost because of HR's mistakes. One of my peers lost a great candidate because HR stood too firm on the salary offer, when he called the candidate to find out what happened he discovered that they guy only needed $2K more to say yes!! For some reason, HR failed to discover this and had too much ego to make the deal happen, sending this hiring manager back into the process over $2K.

    Call your new boss, he'll sort it out. If he doesn't, walk--you didn't want to move anyway.

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  25. Re:You do by azuretek · · Score: 3, Insightful

    I don't understand why people let companies walk all over them. I know having a job is important but your self respect is also important. Don't let companies jerk you around and if there's anything in the offer letter you don't like then take it up with them. If they don't want to change it then it's up to you to decide to reject the offer.

  26. Re:You do by Mattcelt · · Score: 5, Insightful

    Absolutely right. Why would someone work for a company which would do such a thing in the first place? Face the fact that if they can't get the sales pitch right BEFORE you come on board, it's not going to get any better once you're on the payroll!

    ALTHOUGH...

    As I understand the law (not being an attorney myself, of course), you do have some legal recourse... anyone that makes an offer (written, verbal, or otherwise) that you have accepted and relied on (to your detriment if they don't hold up their end of the bargain) has entered into a legally binding contract, and you are entitled to hold them to the terms of the original agreement. The person who first made you the offer was acting as an official representative of the company, and you were negotiating in good faith relying on their promise. They are obligated to give you what they promised, or you can sue.

    But really now, do you honestly want to work for a company:
    -that can't keep its hiring practices straight?
    -where one hand doesn't know or care what the other is doing?
    -that has to lie to you just to get you to accept the offer?
    -is willing to renege on even the most simple of promises?
    -thinks you're not worth dealing honestly with BEFORE you're an employee?

    If you answered "yes" to any of the following questions, you should just accept the new offer and accept your honorary 'Dilbert' pin.

  27. Repeat After Me by umbrellasd · · Score: 3, Insightful

    The relocation manager tells me that whenever there is conflict between their relocation policy and the offer, their internal relocation policy supersedes.
    Whenever some HR monkey conflicts with the stability of my financial life (home), my desire to tell said monkey's company to piss off supersedes my previous acceptance of their offer.

    Don't put up with that crap. When you get that vascillating prick on the phone and he spews superseding reprioritization of denatured pre-hire compensation, you can say, "Well, that is very interesting to know. Will you please communicate to the hiring manager that I can no longer accept the position because you, Mr. HR Monkey, saw fit to breach good faith and contradict the offer that the manager made and reduced the relocation package that I was relying upon in making the decision to sell my home and relocate to your state? Yes, please do go ahead and explain that to him. I'll let him know to expect your call. Good day."

    Then you hang up, and shit gets fixed.

  28. Five Minutes? by fm6 · · Score: 3, Insightful

    But there's nothing to say we still have to give you the job. If you want to be pedantic we'll hire you for 5 minutes and then fire you.

    Pah, another amateur lawyer. Legally, firing somebody is not that simple. Yeah, technically you can fire folks for any number of reasons. In the real business world, firing people is not something you do if you can avoid it. For one thing, it's is expensive, because you need to document that you did everything correctly. If you don't document a termination carefully, you could end up getting in legal trouble for what someone claims you did, and have no proof that you acted correctly.

    (I'm actually speaking from personal experience, and no, I'm not going to share the details.)

    The fact is, this dude's problem is not "bait and switch". That's when somebody knowingly makes a substitution. No sane manager is going to start a new hire out by screwing him: it's formula for disaster. What obviously happened was the manager making promises that the HR department doesn't feel bound to honor. The left hand doesn't know what the right hand is doing — not an uncommon thing in large organizations.

    Confrontation is a lose-lose here. If the potential employee goes in thinking, "They're out to screw me!" it's going to be a self-fulfilling prophecy: either he'll walk away from a job he disrupted his life to take, or he'll start a new job totally pissed off at the people he works for (not a formula for professional success!). For their part, the company has invested a lot of effort into hiring this guy, and made business plans on the assumption he was going to start work. They have a vested interest in making him happy, even if they show the usual bureaucratic stupidity in fulfilling their own interests.

    So forget about who's the good guy and who's the bad guy. The dude needs to express his disappointment, respectfully but firmly, to both the HR bureaucrats and the manager that made him the negated offer. Everybody here has motivation to work out a comprimise; nobody should waste time being self-righteous.