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The Future of Love and Sex - Robots

nem75 writes "The New York Times has a review of British AI researcher David Levy's book 'Love and Sex with Robots'. He claims that within a span of about 50 years the day will come when people could actually fall in love with life-like robots. While this may seem far fetched at first, he has some pretty interesting views. 'He begins with what scientists know about why humans fall in love with other humans. There are 10 factors, he writes, including mystery, reciprocal liking, and readiness to enter a relationship. Why can't these factors apply to robots, too?' The case he builds goes much further though, and certainly provides food for thought." Update: 12/14 16:16 GMT by Z : This article is very similar to a discussion we had recently.

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  1. Robots are fine... by Smidge204 · · Score: 5, Funny

    I'd rather have my Companion Cube!

    =Smidge=

    1. Re:Robots are fine... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 4, Funny

      I'll place my order for a Cherry 2000 now!

  2. Don't Date Robots! by domatic · · Score: 5, Funny
    1. Re:Don't Date Robots! by moogs · · Score: 5, Funny

      Meh, silly anime. This is the REAL Futurama video :D http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1uHD3RnRmZE

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  3. 10 factors to fall in love? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 2, Funny

    I count 2, and they're on the front of the chestal area.

    1. Re:10 factors to fall in love? by eln · · Score: 4, Funny

      Yes, exactly, 10 ways. We are talking about robots here, we have to use their number system.

    2. Re:10 factors to fall in love? by GogglesPisano · · Score: 5, Funny

      Does that mean that there will be 110010 ways to leave your (robot) lover?

    3. Re:10 factors to fall in love? by 2names · · Score: 5, Funny

      How about:

      You just deny the ACK, Jack
      Kill the PS Fan, Stan
      Use the "no battery" ploy, Roy

      Electricity ain't free

      Just short out the bus, Gus
      Don't need to discuss Mussss
      Just decrypt the key, Lee
      And getcho self free...

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    4. Re:10 factors to fall in love? by 2names · · Score: 4, Funny

      50 Ways To Leave Your Robot Lover

      The problem is inside your CPU it said to me
      The solution is quite easy if you take it logically
      I'd like to help you make the move to version 3
      There must be 110010 ways to leave your robot lover

      It said that it was waterproof and inter-cooled
      Furthermore, it stated it had cruise control and auto-lube
      But I was most impressed with the self-inflating boobs
      There must be 110010 ways to leave your robot lover
      110010 ways to leave your robot lover

      CHORUS:

      You just deny the ACK, Jack
      Kill the PS Fan, Stan
      Use the "no battery" ploy, Roy

      Electricity ain't free

      Just short out the bus, Gus
      Don't need to discuss MUX
      Just decrypt the key, Lee
      And getcho self free...

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  4. The 11th factor by Joe+the+Lesser · · Score: 4, Interesting

    of why humans fall in love with humans.

    Because they are not robots.

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    1. Re:The 11th factor by Rogerborg · · Score: 4, Funny

      You say that now, but what do you whisper to your iMac in the privacy of your parent's basement?

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    2. Re:The 11th factor by sm62704 · · Score: 5, Informative

      Ever read Isaac Asimov's Robots of Dawn?

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    3. Re:The 11th factor by Joe+the+Lesser · · Score: 5, Funny

      I often whisper "You piece of crap why won't you work".

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    4. Re:The 11th factor by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 5, Funny

      I often whisper "You piece of crap why won't you work". Funny, that's what I say to my wife. Only not in a whisper...
    5. Re:The 11th factor by Matteo522 · · Score: 3, Funny

      "WHY CAN'T I TURN YOU ON!?!"

    6. Re:The 11th factor by kcbrown · · Score: 2, Funny

      I often whisper "You piece of crap why won't you work".
      Funny, that's what I say to my wife. Only not in a whisper...

      You mean your ex-wife?

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  5. Good by Rhaban · · Score: 5, Funny

    Can't wait to get my own Lucy Liu bot!

    1. Re:Good by ESOB · · Score: 3, Funny

      Just make sure to use protection with your Lucy Liu bot, or did they not show you "Electro Gonorrhea: The Noisy Killer"

    2. Re:Good by jam244 · · Score: 4, Funny

      Oh Fry, it's so sweet how you [NOTICE TWO THINGS].
  6. Shallow by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 3, Funny

    Sounds pretty meaningless and shalow to me. Sex is a _lot_ more than just 'getting off'.

    1. Re:Shallow by somersault · · Score: 5, Funny

      Help, help!! There's a GIRL posting on slashdot!!

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  7. Falling in love in 50 years? by ThePlague · · Score: 2, Interesting

    A more interesting and likely scenario is tech improvements to sex toys. Imagine what something like Real Doll will be in 10 or 15 years time, and it's not much of a stretch to say you could have a sizeable portion of the population abandoning the dating scene. We already see that in small numbers due to webcams, and it seems reasonable to extrapolate the trend accelerating with accelerated improvements to the tech.

    1. Re:Falling in love in 50 years? by UbuntuDupe · · Score: 4, Interesting

      Wait, people are going on e-dates through webcams?

      As for the Real Doll, my guess is that women will respond with ever more drastic measures to look attractive (just as women respond that way to air-brushed magazine pictures of women that don't represent how even those models look cf. Dove). Now, if robots can be more emotionally responsive than men, will men do something drastic to compete with robots?

    2. Re:Falling in love in 50 years? by sm62704 · · Score: 2, Funny

      Fifty years? FIFTY YEARS???? I'll be dead, and none of your penises will likely work by then either. Your robot will be feeding you and changing your diaper and reminding you that your great great grandchildren are coming for a visit.

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    3. Re:Falling in love in 50 years? by New+Number+Order · · Score: 3, Funny

      Now, if robots can be more emotionally responsive than men, will men do something drastic to compete with robots? You mean stuff like sharing our feelings and listening to what they have to say?

      Shit. We're done for.
    4. Re:Falling in love in 50 years? by UbuntuDupe · · Score: 2, Insightful

      I know you're half-joking there, but: If it were easy to write a rulebook (algorithm) for how to emotionally connect with others, the Turing Test would already have been passed.

      Pleasing women in that way is not (as far as we know) a matter of following simple rules.

    5. Re:Falling in love in 50 years? by Ephemeriis · · Score: 2, Interesting

      A more interesting and likely scenario is tech improvements to sex toys. Imagine what something like Real Doll will be in 10 or 15 years time, and it's not much of a stretch to say you could have a sizeable portion of the population abandoning the dating scene. We already see that in small numbers due to webcams, and it seems reasonable to extrapolate the trend accelerating with accelerated improvements to the tech.
      We already have people who are falling in love with their Real Dolls. There's a documentary available somewhere on the web, but I'm too lazy to go looking for it. These folks attribute thoughts, emotions, and opinions to their dolls that they are completely and totally incapable of displaying. Just imagine what you'd see if you put a few motors and microchips into a Real Doll so that it could smile or talk.

      It won't take much before we see people "falling in love" with robots.
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    6. Re:Falling in love in 50 years? by Slashdot+Parent · · Score: 4, Insightful

      Now, if robots can be more emotionally responsive than men, will men do something drastic to compete with robots? My gut says no.

      1. Our egos are too big to even recognize the competition. Men see the good-looking men in the magazines every bit as much as women see the good-looking women. But do we go to the same efforts to emulate? "I'm perfect the way I am. Any woman would be lucky to have me. My ego told me so." Most men have no clue how to dress or groom themselves, myself included.

      2. Women tend to claim to want more "emotionally responsive" men, but my real-world observation tends to contradict that claim. Perhaps someone's done an actual scientific study, but I have not noticed men who are in touch with their feminine side having much luck in the meat-marketplace. Cliches such as "Nice guys finish last", and "Women prefer assholes" tend to support that theory.

      My point here is that the necessity of competing with robots for "emotional responsiveness" is probably overstated (assuming a suitably emo robot could be designed), because what women claim to prefer, and what women actually prefer (based on their choices in men) tend to be vastly different.

      3. I think many men would tend to be satisfied with a physical relationship with a robot, to the point of preferring that over the head-games provided by most women. This is especially true because there would be no such thing as a robot that is "out of your league". If you could be nailing a convincing, if robotic supermodel, would you prefer an average-looking emotionally-unstable human female over that smokin' hot robot?

      You may choose to dismiss point #3, but look at the success of prostitutes. A quick perusal of craigslist.org confirms that there are a nontrivial supply of men out there who are happy to pay a few hundred bucks for a 1-hour tryst with a woman they know would never speak to them absent the donation to her college fund.

      I think where I come out on this is that women will face more competition from robots than men will face from them. I am not in the field of robotics, but my software experience tells me that it is probably easier to engineer a convincing sex toy than a convincing "emotionally responsive" companion. And that's assuming that anyone has figured out what type of "emotional responsiveness" women truly desire (rather than claim to desire).

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    7. Re:Falling in love in 50 years? by ari_j · · Score: 2, Funny

      Now, if robots can be more emotionally responsive than men, will men do something drastic to compete with robots?

      I don't know about you, but I'm going to peacefully coexist with robots. I'll drink beer and play video games all day, and not get blamed for a thing!

    8. Re:Falling in love in 50 years? by UbuntuDupe · · Score: 4, Interesting

      Regarding 2: I think you may like this post of mine.

      You are correct that "emotionally responsive" is an imprecise term. It's kind of like "genetically fit". What's "genetically fit"? Well, whatever *turns out* to work at passing on genes. You can't know it in advance. Likewise, "emotionally responsive" doesn't necessarily mean wussy -- it means more like, "acting with knowledge of what women will really like, irrespective of claimed desires".

      I would absolutely agree with you that what women claim to want and what they really want are far apart -- more than 42 trillion km. It's rather frustrating to see them espouse feminist notions of how men should act, and then boink the first guy who violates them all. The theory that "Women give flawed advice to cull the guys who actually listen to it from the dating pool" fits the data a bit too well. Look at the Spice Girls song: "If you want to be my lover, you gotta first be my friend". What expert seducer doesn't find that advice abhorrently wrong?

    9. Re:Falling in love in 50 years? by Slashdot+Parent · · Score: 2, Interesting

      Regarding 2: I think you may like this post of mine. I'd say that post is pretty spot-on accurate.

      I think that we agree that what they do NOT want, is for a man to spew out all kinds of emotional baggage. The more I think about it, "emotionally responsive" is probably pretty close to what women want, in the sense of responding to her emotions. For instance, when a woman is PMSsey, the typical male response is to start nailing her sister or best friend. Most women would prefer, I think, for a man to toss her a bottle of Motrin say they hope she feels better, and then just get out of the way. Nothing you say or do is going to make her quit bitching at you.

      And as far as emoting more, I think women are using that as code for, "My boyfriend started sleeping with my sister and best friend. I didn't even know he didn't love me anymore. Or maybe at all. Why couldn't he have told me how he felt?"

      As for the spice girls song, it looks like the line you meant to quote was If you wanna be my lover, you gotta get with my friends , which is not bad advice. If her friends don't like you, they will bug her incessantly until she dumps you. On the flip side, if they like you and she dumps you, she'll have to deal with, "He was perfect! Why'd you dump him?"

      If you are able to decipher the lyrics of that song, you'll notice a few more insights, such as "Forget my past", "Don't wait around", "Don't bug me", etc. This is not bad advice, especially since I understand "bugging me" to mean, "being too much of a needy, emotional vagina".

      They say that the ultimate male fantasy is a woman who is a true lady in every way shape and form in public, but in private, she's a sex-crazed porn star. I wonder if the female version of that is a man who is powerful and feared by all, but is always nice to her?
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  8. The Lonely by ktappe · · Score: 3, Interesting

    Rod Serling covered this in "The Lonely": http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Lonely_(The_Twilight_Zone)

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  9. This is not unprecedented. by TheLazySci-FiAuthor · · Score: 3, Insightful

    Who hasn't had a crush on a fictional character? As you are largely geeks reading this, I submit that many of you find at least some Anime girls hot - even though you know full well that they are not real: the human heart can vast in its ability to accept.

    I had a huge crush on Ryoko from the Tenchi Muyo animes. This crush didn't even require the physical contact that would be present with a robotic hottie. There is little room for doubt that our emotionally sticky limbic system can latch onto unusual objects of affection - I believe it's not unusual to be loved by anyone...or to love anything.

    1. Re:This is not unprecedented. by winkydink · · Score: 2, Funny

      You really need to get out more often. Really.

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    2. Re:This is not unprecedented. by Ohio+Calvinist · · Score: 2, Interesting

      I could see young people being particularly attracted to the idea of Robotic Sex. Anecdotally I know that many youth get their "first crush" on television personalities, and I'd imagine a smaller subset, but a significant one on animated women, even more so in today's age with the increased popularity anime (as the illistrations tend to be more human-equivalent than most american animation) and extremely realistic video games. (Think Dead or Alive 3 Extreme Beach Volleyball or whatever it was).

      I think if a culture develops where this is possible, or even accepted, young people whom demonstrate sexual attractiveness to non-real (or unattainable, such as teenie-bopper crushes on boy-bands) the line would be blurry enough that it might not replace the desire for sex with humans, but would be explored and maybe even embraced due to availability, diminished risk of disease/pregnancy/ass-kickings from angry dads/brothers, and the social cost of finding a partner in rejection and unavailability.

      I don't think it will change relationships as a whole, but I think emotionally impressionable youth or lonley adults, might first experiment and embrace this kind of thing. In anything you've always got early adopters, and if it sticks, there might be a place for this.

      Though, if I were investing, I think virtual reality sex has more potential for economic prosperity in the end if it could "trick" the brain into thinking that the VR image, which could be taken from a real-human source, is *real* and the sensory IO is *real.* I would think if it could overcome the mind, that it would be more fulfilling and people would gravitate to it more mostly because, I don't personally see robots ever being so-human (like the Replicants in Blade Runner, even in the next 100 years, or maybe ever for a normal person) that you can't tell from a distance, and even more that you can't tell doing something as multi-sensory as sex.

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  10. Why not? by houstonbofh · · Score: 3, Insightful

    People already fall in love with a car, a boat, a Playstation, a video game character, a crack addicted ex... We can love anything. No news here.

  11. Why can't these factors apply to lamps, too? by gardyloo · · Score: 5, Funny

    I love lamp!

  12. I see where this is going... by Xaositecte · · Score: 4, Funny

    Hey Baby, Wanna kill all humans?

  13. Deamon Seed by spribyl · · Score: 2, Interesting

    Thats fine until the robots figure out how to reproduce.
    Anyone remember "Deamon Seed" or the more recent Battle Star Galatica.

    Can you rape a robot?
    Can a robot rape you?

  14. Rather a Holodeck! by SlashdotCrackPot · · Score: 2, Funny

    I'd much rather have a holodeck, the possibilities are endless!

    (That and I already have the sign made to hang over the door that reads:
    Scott's Holodeck of Whores: Enter At Own Risque)

  15. Re:Grrr by LuisAnaya · · Score: 5, Insightful
    :)

    Well, there are people that are having sex with inanimate dolls (real dolls plug here), It would not be far fetched that someone would be amenable to the idea and even build a business out of having sex with robots. There are more advantages than using the regular purveyors. It's more sanitary, there are more control on the looks of the service provider and you only have to perform maintenance every so often.

    I think that "love" is too much of a word for it. Infatuated or having "a crush" would be more appropriate. It's going to be something carnal and not with meaning. It would take a long time for us humans to develop enough intelligence in robots for us to have a "meaningful relationship" with them.

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  16. Re:Grrr by ilovegeorgebush · · Score: 2, Insightful

    I think that "love" is too much of a word for it. Infatuated or having "a crush" would be more appropriate. It's going to be something carnal and not with meaning. It would take a long time for us humans to develop enough intelligence in robots for us to have a "meaningful relationship" with them.
    You have far too much faith in humanity :)
  17. Silly question. by jockeys · · Score: 5, Funny
    from TFA, emphasis is mine:

    Levy spends so much time laying out his logical arguments about how and why we will fall in love with robots that he gives short shrift to the bigger questions of whether we would really want to. I'd have liked a little less gee-whiz, and a little more examination about whether a sexbot in every home, a Kama Sutra on legs that never tires, never says no, and never has needs of its own is what we really want.
    well, that's got to be the stupidest question I've ever read. OF COURSE WE DO.
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  18. Only on Slashdot by Stooshie · · Score: 3, Funny

    Only on slashdot would someone consider having sex with a robot as a relationship.

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  19. Emotionally Stunted by pete-classic · · Score: 5, Insightful

    I can only assume that anyone who imagines being "in love" with a machine is severely emotionally stunted. What is love without the need, and willingness to sacrifice? What is love without emotional exposure? What is love without the risk of loss?

    It is totally okay with me if this guy wants to fuck animatronics, but he doesn't do himself a service by confusing that with love.

    -Peter

    1. Re:Emotionally Stunted by Organic+Brain+Damage · · Score: 2, Interesting

      Here's a criteria I'd use for a healthy love relationship that current machines cannot meet: It has to be capable of returning love. Do not love or hate anything that cannot love or hate you in return. Simple rule. Easy to forget.

      Love = sacrifice? Love = emotional exposure? Love = risk of loss?

      We can definitely satisfy those three criteria with a machine.

      Sacrifice: I had to wait in line to get my Nintendo WII.

      Emotional exposure: I tell my Nintendo WII that I love it and ...it makes fun of me. Or not.

      Risk of loss: You can call it risk, but losing a loving relationship is 100% certain. All marriages end. 2/3rds in divorce, 1/3rd in death. And my Nintendo WII is going to breakdown and die.

      No, those three criteria don't work to disqualify robots from love relationships.

    2. Re:Emotionally Stunted by bigtangringo · · Score: 4, Funny

      What is love without the need, and willingness to sacrifice? What is love without emotional exposure? What is love without the risk of loss? Better?
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  20. Re:Futurama Said it best by AmaDaden · · Score: 4, Funny

    Just a random thought here but thinking along the lines of the Futurama reasoning for "Don't date Robots!!!" and mixing in Idiocracy evolution logic two wrongs might make a right. If you give all the stupid people robots to have sex with they can't make more stupid people. Hell for the real stupid people we can just recycle the robots.

  21. 1st law of robotics addenum by Farmer+Tim · · Score: 5, Funny

    A robot must never harm a human, unless "kinky mode" is enabled.

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    1. Re:1st law of robotics addenum by Farmer+Tim · · Score: 2, Funny

      When you're tied up clapping is as much use as an off switch.

      Besides, where sex is involved I try to avoid the word "clap". "My robot gave me nanites!"

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  22. From Agnes - With Love by Jeremiah+Cornelius · · Score: 2, Funny

    Well, that's a twist!

    "Advice to all future male scientists: be sure you understand the opposite sex, especially if you intend being a computer expert. Otherwise, you may find yourself, like poor Elwood, defeated by a jealous machine, a most dangerous sort of female, whose victims are forever banished--to...

    the Twilight Zone."


    http://www.tv.com/the-twilight-zone/from-agnes---with-love/episode/12725/summary.html

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    1. Re:From Agnes - With Love by cayenne8 · · Score: 2, Interesting
      I dunno, I think women will be protesting love robots from here to eternity.

      I mean, if they can come up with a realistic robot, that looks like the ideal chick to any guy, will never age or get old looking (nothing sags), won't give you AIDS or any other STD, will NEVER say no, and give you the custom 'ride of your life' every time you 'mount up'........

      No man in the world would ever give the time of day to a real woman ever again.

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    2. Re:From Agnes - With Love by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 5, Funny

      No man in the world would ever give the time of day to a real woman ever again.

      That's ok, their robot goes all night long and never leaves the toilet seat up.

    3. Re:From Agnes - With Love by Ex-MislTech · · Score: 5, Insightful

      I know this sounds crazy but it's really true ( imo, though I'm only 18 so judge for yourself ), without perfect AI I don't think any non shallow male could claim to 'love' his robot. This might just be me...

      Well let me be the first to present it in this manner.

      01) No PMS
      02) No hormonal imbalances
      03) No maxxed out credit cards
      04) No cars driven til the motor burns up due to lack of oil
      05) No bitching when your with your male friends at a sports/whatever event.
      06) No lies
      07) No drugs
      08) No veneral disease
      09) No coming home to an empty house, bank account, garage, investment accounts
      10) perfect food, sex, massage, and SILENCE when ever you want it.

      Young men tend to believe in love, older men become jaded, and ACQUIRE
      the above list of 10 things as I have.

      4 decades of harsh reality tends to fill in the above list.

      Here is to hoping you retain your innocent unjaded view for your entire life.

      ~Adios~

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    4. Re:From Agnes - With Love by andreyw · · Score: 3, Informative

      So hows that RealDoll?

    5. Re:From Agnes - With Love by Maxo-Texas · · Score: 3, Insightful

      I will add to that.

      By 45, many women like sex a lot and are RISKY as hell to give your heart to. Let's face it, a woman can go 4 hours a day (more) if she enjoys it.

      Many other women dislike sex and you are looking at suffering in a sexless relationship or begging for it.

      Remember - 2 to 3% of children do NOT match the paternity of the father.

      And the legal system is setup all goofy so that another perfectly capable human being can have sex with you for 2 to 3 years and then take half of everything you own along with your heart.

      If you are a man of *any* means, unless you win the love lotto in your 20's, it is more fun, safer emotionally and financially to date/rent women by implying you are interested in commitment and shedding them off when they get too pushy. There are millions of (decent looking, kind) women who are way too easily attracted by a fairly tiny amount of money (like 2,400 to 4,800 bucks a year on gifts and stuff) and 4-5 hours of listening to their problems-- including a lot who are in relationships with other guys.

      And maintaining a solid relationship takes a good 30 hours a week-- if you can't hack that many hours, then have fun- get a girlfriend instead, party and do fun things. You'll always be pushing women away so many will be trying to land you.

      I think men and women are really not wired to stick together more than 7 to 10 years. I've read some articles implying women lose commitment when the kids are a bout 5-7 years old-- the possible reason being that at that age they could walk and forage their own food so a man isn't needed as much.

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    6. Re:From Agnes - With Love by Bombula · · Score: 4, Insightful
      You jest, but there is a fundamental asymmetry here between the sexes that really does pose a problem - at least in the short run. Men, broadly speaking, are sexually interested in women in a purely objective, physical sense. The sexual desires of women, on the other hand, tend to be much more subtle, nuanced, and involve the complexities of personality, social status, behavioral context, and many other non-physical factors. There are of course exceptions, and men of course want companionship as well as sex, but for men the act of sex can be teased out (no pun intended) from intimacy. That doesn't happen to nearly the same extent for women.

      The upshot is that it is possible to replicate the object of a man's sexual desires much more easily than the object of a woman's sexual desires, since a man's sexual desires are almost entirely physical. For a replicated male robot to be uber-sexy, it would have to be smart, funny, suave, and have high social status, wealth and power. Obviously, that may all be possible one day but we can all agree that that day is much, much farther off. In the meantime, the asymmetry is going to create a real problem for women.

      One caveat: this assumes that sexbots for men will become available sooner than perfect virtual reality. Once we have VR a la the Matrix, robots as sex-replacements will be moot anyway.

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    7. Re:From Agnes - With Love by Bombula · · Score: 4, Interesting

      You've obviously never read anything about evolutionary psychology. A good place to start is The Moral Animal by Robert Right and The Third Chimpanzee and Why Sex Is Fun by Jared Diamond. Men and women have entirely different reproductive strategies for entirely biological reasons, and this is born out in their different sexual behaviors and desires. It's you, I'm afraid, who is suffering from 'social conditioning'.

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    8. Re:From Agnes - With Love by linuxrocks123 · · Score: 3, Interesting

      You're obviously unaware that evolutionary psychology is pseudoscientific bullshit. For it to be a successful science, it would have to be able to make correct predictions about things the answers to which were not already known. Until then, it's right up there with Freudianism in the hierarchy of psychological BS.

      Maybe men and women have different reproductive strategies for entirely biological reasons -- though, given the increase in female promiscuity since the invention of birth control, the "entirely" part of that is pretty suspect -- and maybe it's all social conditioning. We don't know, and speculation from your pet pseudoscience doesn't really help.

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    9. Re:From Agnes - With Love by eeyoredragon · · Score: 2, Insightful

      I don't think there's a real problem for women at all, nor do I agree with this enormous asymmetry in the sexes regarding ... sex. My exposure to women has greatly eclipsed my exposure to other males, and I really don't see the mysteriousness and these great differences in sexuality guys (well, and women themselves) tend to attribute them. The only even remotely consistent difference I've seen is that many males have dominant type fantasies and vice versa in females. And obviously that varies enormously.

      You don't think women see some guy walk by and think about how "hot" he is? Or how good he might be in bed? Sometimes I wonder if guys think girls don't think this way to save their egos... If you think they don't, you should hang out with more of them on a friend basis.

      I mean, don't vibrators kinda blow away the whole "women can't experience sexual pleasure without amorphous attributes like humor, success, etc" theory? There's sex... and there's emotional intimacy. They're different things but they can be combined to create greater things... do men not feel this way?

    10. Re:From Agnes - With Love by operagost · · Score: 2, Funny

      This smacks of social conditioning. There's no real reason why this has to, or even ought to, be the case, it's merely the way that Western Christian society has developed.
      So, asian women just spread their legs for the first good-looking unemployed underachiever who walks by? Fabulous!
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  23. Feeling loved by wombatmobile · · Score: 4, Insightful

    It is easy to love someone or something.

    It is harder to feel loved.

    And harder still to feel loved by something you know does not think or feel.

    For that reason, humans will continue to feel loved (or not loved) by other humans more easily than they can connect with inanimate objects.

    1. Re:Feeling loved by justinlindh · · Score: 4, Informative

      I think you hit the nail on the head with this.

      However, the type of people who typically believe they feel "love" for a fictional character/doll/piece of machinery may find it easier to trust them. I think the majority of these people have social issues, maybe including social anxiety or paranoia. A relationship with something that won't judge them is appealing to them.

      I recently watched a documentary about people who own Real Dolls. They personify their dolls as if they are actual people; holding conversations, hanging out with, getting "intimate" with them, Most of these men explained that they're simply unappealing to women, and while they'd prefer the company of an actual person, the doll is better than nothing to them. One of the men did describe how he'd been abandoned and treated in ways that drove him to the dolls, and claims he prefers the dolls because he can't trust a human. He also claimed to love several of his possessions (car, guns, sword).

      I guess my point is that this cascading logic for love isn't universal, though I'd agree it applies to the majority. Some people will fall in love with an inanimate object MUCH faster than they would with a human being.

  24. Re:Old News! by Billosaur · · Score: 2, Insightful

    And Asimov wrote about this in at least two stories... one about a housewife who falls for a male humaniform robot that her husband brings home from work (name escaping me at the moment) and I think "The Bicentennial Man" also included some robot lust (there my memory of the story is failing me [probably due to having seen the awful Robin Williams movie]).

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  25. Re:And this is surprising how? by houstonbofh · · Score: 2, Informative

    Hence the large number of pets people have.

    But loving of pets is illegal in most places, no matter what you see on those websites.

  26. 50 years? Try 50 minutes by QCompson · · Score: 5, Funny

    Toss a Teddy Ruxpin speaker into a Real-Doll and I'm good to go!

  27. PUNCHLINE! by Jeremiah+Cornelius · · Score: 3, Funny

    "...Oh I forgot to warn you. His Arse is a pencil sharpner!"

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    Never been known to fail..."
  28. Re:Grrr by QuickFox · · Score: 5, Funny

    I'm not going to have sex with a robot. Then why does your nick claim that you're in love with one?
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  29. Re:Grrr by BeanThere · · Score: 2, Insightful

    Seriously, I'm not going to have sex with a robot. Get over it!

    Uh, yeah, slashdot and all these articles and books and research are all aimed at YOU specifically. Thanks for telling us you're not interested, now everybody focusing on this can give it up and go do something else. Right, come on, get real - whether you will use them or not, it's pretty obvious that sex robots are going to be huge someday, millions of people will be using them, and robot technologies probably won't be going backward as time progresses. People already use realdoll and various other toys, and I'm sure that sex robots will be a lot more fun than Mr Right Hand at least for casual entertainment (which itself will become increasingly important as technology replaces humans in almost every role in the economy, freeing us from having to work so much).

    I suppose if robots can be programmed to fall in love with humans, they'd also fall in love with one another? Whatever that means.

    I guess letting yourself fall for a robot might be a bit like letting yourself fall for an emotionally unavailable human; people do it all the time, but there is surely some level of dysfunction involved in doing so.

  30. Re:Old News! by Zerth · · Score: 2, Informative

    The housewife/robot tale was originally titled "Flesh and Metal", but was published(in Amazing, I think) under the more amusing title "Satisfaction Guaranteed".

  31. Thoughts on David Levy by pokerdad · · Score: 4, Insightful

    So British AI researcher David Levy somehow got involved in the field of robotics without ever reading/viewing any of the hundreds of pieces of sci-fi on this exact topic (ie. he thinks this is an original idea of his)? Or perhaps he is aware of the sci-fi, but is egotistical enough to think that a researcher talking nebulously about the far future is somehow different than sci-fi.

  32. And what happens when illusion breaks? by misterooga · · Score: 2, Insightful

    Do you swap it in for better one? From iLoverGiga to iLoverTouch? Replace it with last good memory?

    What if you get into fights? Go to 'hospital' and improve personality?

    Granted, it will be cheaper(?) and/or easier to 'improve' and 'repair' the lover, once you bring back the dead lover one too many times, the illusion will break, I think.

    There is a reason why toys can't replace pets. For every person who will never adopt one, I am certain there is another who can't live without them for their love and personality.

  33. Re:50 years? Try 50 minutes by 93,000 · · Score: 3, Funny

    "Hi, I'm Teddy Ruxpin. Can you and I be friends with benefits?"

    eww.

  34. I, for one... by quangdog · · Score: 2, Funny

    I for one welcome our sex deprived robot overlords...

  35. Re:Grrr by Belial6 · · Score: 5, Interesting

    No need to wait. Millions of people are having sex with robots today. The problem with people seeing this is that they they forget that robot is not synonymous with android, and they miss the fact that it is women that are the primary customers in the robot sex industry.

    A vibrator IS a robot. It may be a simple one, but a robot none the less. The trick will be to see if they can get men to buy into robot sex as much as women have already embraced it.

    As for love... Given how many people cannot tell the difference between a human and a dog, I have no doubt that getting people confused between an even semi-realistic looking android and a human would be easy and common.

  36. one generation left for humanity... by big_paul76 · · Score: 2, Interesting

    Scott Adams said something about 'as soon as robot sex or virtual reality becomes cheaper than dating, humanity has ~1 generation left'.

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  37. Re:50 years? Try 50 minutes by mpeg4codec · · Score: 2, Interesting

    Oh god I thought only Penny Arcade could ruin my childhood memories of Teddy Ruxpin. Now Slashdot too?!?

  38. Re:And this is surprising how? by 10Neon · · Score: 2, Funny

    It is not possible to waste time drawing a Venn diagram. The action is a reward in and of itself.

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  39. Re:Futurama Said it best-SAY THE REST by Nom+du+Keyboard · · Score: 2, Funny

    My wife it nuts.

    And Bolts!

    (P.S. a couple of my favorite Internet authors, Elf Sternberg and DB_Story, have been writing about these types of relationships for years now.)

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  40. Re:Futurama Said it best by geekoid · · Score: 2, Insightful

    Except stupidity is seldom a genetic problem, it's a teaching and training problem.

    People aren't taught how to think.

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  41. Re:Grrr by Chris+Burke · · Score: 4, Funny

    As for love... Given how many people cannot tell the difference between a human and a dog,

    Look I was drunk, alright?! And the dog came on to me first!

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  42. Re:Grrr by Phisbut · · Score: 2, Interesting

    For me, part of the thrill of dating was the risk that something might fail. If I had a relationship with a robot, I'd be taking the robot for granted, because I know there would be no need to be nice and attentive, because the robot would surely be programmed to do whatever I want, and never protest.

    Every mechanical device fail eventually. The only variables are when and how painful...

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  43. Re:Grrr by Drooling+Iguana · · Score: 2, Funny

    I think you're a bit confused. Al Gore and John Kerry were robots (although Gore seems to have become a Real Boy recently.) Bush is a badly trained chimpanzee.

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  44. Do Androids dream of electric sheep? by fahrbot-bot · · Score: 2, Funny

    Do Androids dream of electric sheep?
    Great. New images stuck in my head.

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    It must have been something you assimilated. . . .
  45. Life emulates Star Trek. Again by OzPhIsH · · Score: 2, Informative

    Star Trek: TOS, Episode 74: Requiem for Methuselah Just watched it last night actually. Kirk falls hard for an android (but he doesn't know it she is one), and goes rather mad in my opinion. I thought he was about to sexually assault her at one point, really. Good thing M4 was around... http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Requiem_for_Methuselah_(TOS_episode)

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  46. Re:Grrr by Belial6 · · Score: 2, Interesting

    I am not talking about people having sex with dogs. They usually get them confused with human children. These trends of referring to dog owners as 'parents' and buying a dog as 'adopting' are not euphemisms for most people that use the terms. They are just an expression of their insanity.

  47. Often overlooked by hyades1 · · Score: 4, Insightful

    I hate to introduce a serious note, but there's people out there who could benefit from a little bot-love. People who are disabled, deformed and badly disfigured have traditionally had a lot of trouble finding partners.

    Masturbation and prostitutes are often their only access to sex. Love is something for other people. A mechanical counterfeit might be more acceptable than the alternative.

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  48. Re:Grrr by ethanms · · Score: 2, Interesting

    Well, there are people that are having sex with inanimate dolls (real dolls plug here), It would not be far fetched that someone would be amenable to the idea and even build a business out of having sex with robots. There are more advantages than using the regular purveyors. It's more sanitary, there are more control on the looks of the service provider and you only have to perform maintenance every so often.

    The thing is, that we already have the technology to make sex robots happen... I bet a machine given the proper instruments and reservoirs would give a great hummer... the simple fact is that 1) Most guys probably aren't going to put their Little Guy into a machine with moving parts 2) Most Guys probably aren't going to put their Little Guy into a machine that has serviced other Little Guys, even if the machines are sanitized between uses and even if using an actual female is far more dangerous.

    There would have to be a huge change in sentiment before this type of thing (intimate relationships & sex w/ robots) became acceptable and not a taboo that is hidden away--How many people do you know that actually admit to owning and using one of those Real Dolls?

    Though I do see people falling in "love" with robots, much in the same way that people fall in love with a car, a favorite chair, an appliance. I "love" my car right now, it keeps me safe, keeps me warm, takes me places... sure any make or model car could do those same things, even another one of the same model I have, but mine has the seat adjusted just right, I know where all the nicks and scratches are, and I know all the weird littles noises it makes, just like I do with my girlfriend... where was I going with this?

  49. Re:Grrr by Fallingcow · · Score: 4, Interesting

    A vibrator IS a robot. It may be a simple one, but a robot none the less. The trick will be to see if they can get men to buy into robot sex as much as women have already embraced it.


    This is one of those odd areas where men are the ones who are behind, as far as social acceptability of a sexual practice goes.

    Vibrators are talked about and alluded to in a largely positive light in TV and movies all the time. Generally, at least for a couple generations now, the idea of a woman with a vibrator has been a turn on, or at least not a turn off. Women have Mary Kay-esque sex toy parties.

    How many references to sex toys/masturbation aids for men are there in popular culture, compared with those for women? Far, far fewer, I would bet. What percentage are positive? Barely more than 0%, I'm sure. Being a guy and having any items of that sort is seen as something to be embarrassed about. Hell, I'm a guy, and I'm aware of the double-standard, and the idea still kind of weirds me out.

    Socialization is a powerful thing.
  50. Three laws by DeadDecoy · · Score: 2, Funny

    Wow, I think you came up with a replacement for the Three Laws. With those 10 rules, no man will ever be harmed again.

  51. Re:7 of 9 by Who235 · · Score: 2, Funny

    So you had a crush on the 2 of 7 of 9?