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Possible Monogamy Gene Found In People

Calopteryx sends in a New Scientist summary of research from Sweden pointing toward the existence of a gene that influences monogamy in men. (The article doesn't mention women, and the study subjects were all men at least 5 years into a heterosexual relationship.) "There has been speculation about the role of the hormone vasopressin in humans ever since we discovered that variations in where receptors for the hormone are expressed makes prairie voles strictly monogamous but meadow voles promiscuous; vasopressin is related to the 'cuddle chemical' oxytocin. Now it seems variations in a section of the gene coding for a vasopressin receptor in people help to determine whether men are serial commitment-phobes or devoted husbands."

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  1. George Clooney dubs it: by Kingrames · · Score: 5, Funny

    The pussy gene.

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    1. Re:George Clooney dubs it: by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 5, Funny

      The pussy gene is typically found in people with XX chromosomes and prominently displayed in XXX movies.

    2. Re:George Clooney dubs it: by Sponge+Bath · · Score: 4, Funny

      Of course.
      Those in monogamous relationships get sex on demand and home cooked meals!

      All my married friends tell me that.

    3. Re:George Clooney dubs it: by KGIII · · Score: 5, Insightful

      They lie to you. Oh man do they lie. They probably do it so that you will join them in their misery, misery loves company and all that.

      Anyhow, now that there's a gene for it and I obviously don't have it, I have a scientific excuse. ;)

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    4. Re:George Clooney dubs it: by OeLeWaPpErKe · · Score: 5, Insightful

      Or rather : in different circumstances monogamy may provide an evolutionary advantage. If you intend to wage unceasing war ("live off the land" (and the passersby)), for example, monogamy would be a bad idea, since lots of men will die, leaving behind women, even though some limit would be good (say you expect 50% of the men to be involved in war, then you should allow 2 women to one man, if you expect between 75 and 90% of your society to be dedicated to war, then 4 women to 1 man seems appropriate (and obviously only to men who can afford not to be on the frontlines, who should basically stay away from women, except the occasional rape of a succesful raid) (then again, in war, are limits like these really going to be respected ?). If you allow without limit (or allow polygamy + concubines) then clearly you expect to do nothing else than warfare, and marriage means nothing except for inheritance.

      In peace, you'd need to prevent men remaining behind alone without partner (because for every extra woman one man has, another has to do without, 4 women to one man would become 75% of men without contact with women in extremis, realistically, say 50% of men, 4 women + unlimited (and exclusive) concubines would mean something like 999/1000 of men without partner, in some cultures that is normal, or was normal not too long ago), as that will certainly not be helpful in helping them build instead of destroying society, therefore in a peaceful setting, you'd want monogamy.

      The fact that genes start expressing it is not very surprising. Polygamous cultures are known for being more than a little agressive, and genes are how humans adapt to their environment. If the environment or the culture changes to be less suitable for agriculture (or the culture doesn't know, or incorrectly conducts agriculture, e.g. predatory agriculture, or not doing anything about overpopulation, or ...) the genes will adapt to become less monogamous.

      If raiding is basically impossible, for whatever reason, building things will become important, and monogamous relationships become an evolutionary advantage. Certainly after 10 generations the effects will be very noticeable.

      Since this gene will very much influence how agressive people are against "other tribes", it is one of the prime parameters that will determine the layout of the resulting society, and may introduce all sorts of limits (e.g. agressive societies will never have any population density for obvious reasons, which can easily translate in a very low maximum population limit)

    5. Re:George Clooney dubs it: by Crazy+Taco · · Score: 4, Insightful

      They lie to you. Oh man do they lie. They probably do it so that you will join them in their misery, misery loves company and all that.

      Actually it's not a lie. Like everything, there are of course exceptions, so I'm sure some people do lie, but I get all of the above. And my wife is wonderful. I love being married. So yeah, if you wanna delude yourself out of the fun, go ahead... but consider the fact that you haven't tried being married, so how would you know the truth? Married men are inherently credible when talking about this issue, and unmarried men are without credibility, for the following reason: all us married men have been both single and married, and I personally can say that after trying both, marriage is far superior.

      Anyhow, now that there's a gene for it and I obviously don't have it, I have a scientific excuse. ;)

      Sorry, but as a creature of reason and logic (which your appeal to science shows that you are), you are still without excuse. Anyone who claims reason has the tools necessary to rise above base animal instincts and live differently. Whether this alleged gene actually is proven to be true or not, the "serial non-commiters" still have no excuse to use the women around them.

      As humans, we have to rise above this non-commitment, because regardless of a specific gene, societies in which commitments are made and upheld are inherently more stable and peaceful than those in which no one can trust anyone's word. As humans, our goal should be to form stable societies that are best for us, not to follow our genetic dispositions.

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  2. A whole new round of testing by TXISDude · · Score: 5, Funny

    I see a whole brave new world of testing before pre-nuptials . . . But, if I have a defective gene, will that qualify me as handicapped under something like ADA? Will there be a high risk pool that I will be forced to "date" out of? So many questions . . .

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    1. Re:A whole new round of testing by joelwyland · · Score: 4, Funny

      After reading your post, it's clear to me why you are having trouble finding a woman who is willing to let you touch it.

    2. Re:A whole new round of testing by philspear · · Score: 4, Funny

      Does it have anything to do with the phrase he coined: "insanely monogmous"? Spelling aside, how are you insanely monogamous? Isn't that a little like saying someone is "Extremely not on fire?"

    3. Re:A whole new round of testing by Artifakt · · Score: 4, Funny

      I just looked around - I'm in an air conditioned office, no sources of ignition around me, sitting cool and comfortable and extremely not on fire... No wait, Bob just lit a cigarette, so I'm down to thoroughly not on fire... No, Bob's running around with his tie in flames right now, so I guess I'm moderately not on fire... Whoops, dodging a flaming Bob, but I'm still marginally not on fire...

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  3. And the Slashdot Gene by MyLongNickName · · Score: 5, Funny

    which renders someone unable to get any at all.

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    1. Re:And the Slashdot Gene by smittyoneeach · · Score: 4, Funny

      And with this post, the discourse, if not the intercourse, was won.

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    2. Re:And the Slashdot Gene by pilgrim23 · · Score: 4, Funny

      Honestly; would ANYONE want to cuddle a meadow vole?
      Too much time, large research grant on their hands...

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    3. Re:And the Slashdot Gene by lena_10326 · · Score: 4, Insightful

      And like winning the lottery twice, the slashdot men that do marry are quite unlikely to find another. A predisposition for involuntary celibacy is a predictor for monogomy.

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  4. Great!!! [whatever] Control pills by starglider29a · · Score: 5, Funny

    In the early 60's we got birth control pills, which (some say) facilitated women being promiscuous. Now, we have 'husband control pills'

    What happens if we miss a day? Do we take two then next and use alternate husband control methods. -- Sarcasm transmits across TCP/IP as well as it does other media

    1. Re:Great!!! [whatever] Control pills by Anachragnome · · Score: 4, Insightful

      Hate to kick the barstool out from under y'all, but Jeebuz, you folks act like a gene sequence removes all thought from the equation.

      I don't sleep around because I love my wife and extra-marital affairs have a tendency to remove MARRIAGES. Quite frankly, it is my head, and the thoughts within, that decide my actions, not the genes passed on to me. Genes may have some effect, but if the result is not acceptable to the thinking part of me, they are simply over-ridden.

       

    2. Re:Great!!! [whatever] Control pills by starglider29a · · Score: 5, Funny

      See... she has him on it already, and the poor blighter doesn't even know it.

    3. Re:Great!!! [whatever] Control pills by sckeener · · Score: 4, Interesting

      Congrats on the impossible to prove otherwise post!

      There is no way to prove that your genes are not influencing you.

      However since identical twins separated at birth have many mental similarities, I'm going to go with gene's influence you more than you know.

      http://www.washingtonpost.com/wp-srv/national/longterm/twins/twins2.htm

      statistics have shown that on average, identical twins tend to be around 80 percent the same in everything from stature to health to IQ to political views. The similarities are partly the product of similar upbringing. But evidence from the comparison of twins raised apart points rather convincingly to genes as the source of a lot of that likeness. In the most widely publicized study of this type, launched in 1979, University of Minnesota psychologist Thomas Bouchard and his colleagues have chronicled the fates of about 60 pairs of identical twins raised separately. Some of the pairs had scarcely met before Bouchard contacted them, and yet the behaviors and personalities and social attitudes they displayed in lengthy batteries of tests were often remarkably alike.

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  5. Gene also known to recede by dedazo · · Score: 5, Funny

    When confronted by large quantities of beer protein.

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  6. Not always a gene... by Leomania · · Score: 5, Funny

    In my case, it's a "Martha" that has the greatest influence over my monogamous inclinations.

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  7. Oxytocin? by ThanatosMinor · · Score: 5, Funny

    That's not the cuddle chemical we used when I was in college

  8. Re:Hhhmm, by EnergyScholar · · Score: 4, Insightful

    Just as a guess, which strategy works better (from a 'survival of the genes' perspective) probably varies in different circumstances. This would explain why neither gene sequence has dominated.

  9. Re:Hhhmm, by Millennium · · Score: 4, Insightful

    Shouldn't evolution sided with either monogamy or polygamy? I mean even if there is only a one percent difference between the successor rates should that have not been reflected by now?

    If monogamy or the lack thereof were genetic and there were an evolutionary advantage to either strategy, then you're right: that should have been reflected in the general population.

    Since it doesn't seem to be, that would seem to indicate that perhaps there is no evolutionary advantage to either side. With no advantage, there is no pressure for humanity to tend in one direction or the other. That could yield a pattern closer to what we are seeing now.

  10. Re:Disablites Act by Adriax · · Score: 5, Funny

    "No really babe, I've got a mutation in my monogamy gene. I HAVE to sleep around, or I'll die."

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  11. Re:Hhhmm, by dkleinsc · · Score: 4, Informative

    No. It shouldn't have, because either strategy can lend itself to evolutionary success for men.

    If you're a powerful man, polygamy is an excellent strategy. You want to be impregnating every woman you can get your hands on, and you can by force and/or intimidation (among other motivators). Genghis Khan is an exemplar of this (at least according to one study that something like 6% of the world's men are his descendants). With that many kids, you don't need to invest very much in making sure each kid survives long enough to reproduce.

    If you're a powerless man, then your best strategy is monogamy: you aim to have one woman who you reproduce with, and devote lots of time and energy into making sure that those kids survive. This leads to the nerds who will love a woman forever and stick with her through sickness and health.

    If you're somewhere in between on the power scale, then the strategy seems to be pretending monogamy while having at least one mistress on the side. The theory here is that you get the greater number of kids and genetic variation from having more partners, but a fallback position of the kids from your "monogamous" relationship. Hence middle-management types cheating on their wives.

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  12. Re:Hhhmm, by bonehead · · Score: 5, Funny

    In our current society, monogamy makes more sense.

    Until you see the hot little redhead that just moved in across the street from me. Then polygamy starts looking pretty damn good again.

  13. Re:Hhhmm, by geekgirlandrea · · Score: 4, Interesting

    Because which strategy works better would depend on what strategy everyone else in the local population is following. You end up with an stable equilibrium proportion where both strategies work equally well, all things being equal, but if you perturb it slightly the one becomes slightly more advantageous than the other and reproduces faster until the equilibrium is restored.

  14. Exciting news. by JPMallory · · Score: 5, Funny

    Does this mean we may be able to finally develop a cure for monogamy?

  15. Re:i don't believe it by Gat0r30y · · Score: 4, Funny

    I've never had the slightest interest in anything except strict monogamy.

    You sir, lack imagination.

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  16. interesting... by Coraon · · Score: 5, Funny

    Being polygamous I wonder if I have this gene...hehe I know my wife her girlfriend, and my two other partners don't. ;)

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    1. Re:interesting... by need4mospd · · Score: 4, Funny

      Your Second Life account doesn't count.

  17. Re:Disablites Act by The+End+Of+Days · · Score: 4, Insightful

    The day nerds become a protected subspecies is the day I give up on humanity.

  18. Re:No Monogamy Gene by blueg3 · · Score: 4, Insightful

    Why would a man not screw around as much as possible?

    In short, because our young are vulnerable after birth, require a fairly large energy investment, and are few in number.

    Monogamy actually appears in a number of different animal species.

  19. Re:No Monogamy Gene by vux984 · · Score: 4, Insightful

    Let's say that we go 10,000 years back. Why would a man not screw around as much as possible?

    Lots of reasons...

    Inability to find good mates... Ideal mothers for your children would reject you knowing that you wouldn't provide for them?

    Low chance of offspring surviving... mothers would be unable to care for your children, and unable to find mates willing help them?

    Societal acceptance... e.g. The other men would stone him? Stone the women he cheated with? Stone his offspring?

    Monogamy exists in nature. There are reasons for why it works where it exists.

    And if love existed, who's to say that it lasted for long periods?

    Indeed. Monogamy isn't necessarily 'till death to we part' in modern society at least it simply means not cheating on your partner. It is entirely possible to marry, raise a child, separate, marry someone else, and even raise another child, all within the confines of monogamy.

    Hell when I was a teen, most of us were pretty monogamous; its not that we all married our first crush, but rather that our teen years were a succession of monogamous relationships of varying lengths, some quite brief, and punctuated with periods of being 'single'.

    And yes some people who were supposedly 'in a relationship' cheated, and when caught it carried a stigma, one that I would say definitely impacted their dating prospects in the circles where it was known that they cheated (applied to both males and females).

  20. Re:Hhhmm, by megaditto · · Score: 4, Insightful

    I think you might be wrong there.

    In a welfare/socialist society, polygamy and promiscuety make more (evolutionary) sense for men.

    Which would you rather be: 1) the guy that sleeps around with lots of women and gets lots of kids, or 2) the guy that stays with a single woman and gets taxed to death to support all the single mothers, left over from the first guy.?

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  21. Re:Study shows 1 in 2 people are monogomous...(fix by russotto · · Score: 4, Funny

    Seen it too many times. 1 in every 2 people is poly meaning if your mono, chances are your partner is not.

    This is slashdot. Which means that a lot of those non-polys ain't mono, they're zippo.

  22. Monogamy is great! I want to promote it! by Tetsujin · · Score: 5, Funny

    If I had one of those monogamy genes, I'd want to help it thrive - so I'd go find a bunch o' girls and get 'em pregnant...

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