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Possible Monogamy Gene Found In People

Calopteryx sends in a New Scientist summary of research from Sweden pointing toward the existence of a gene that influences monogamy in men. (The article doesn't mention women, and the study subjects were all men at least 5 years into a heterosexual relationship.) "There has been speculation about the role of the hormone vasopressin in humans ever since we discovered that variations in where receptors for the hormone are expressed makes prairie voles strictly monogamous but meadow voles promiscuous; vasopressin is related to the 'cuddle chemical' oxytocin. Now it seems variations in a section of the gene coding for a vasopressin receptor in people help to determine whether men are serial commitment-phobes or devoted husbands."

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  1. George Clooney dubs it: by Kingrames · · Score: 5, Funny

    The pussy gene.

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    1. Re:George Clooney dubs it: by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 5, Funny

      The pussy gene is typically found in people with XX chromosomes and prominently displayed in XXX movies.

    2. Re:George Clooney dubs it: by Sponge+Bath · · Score: 4, Funny

      Of course.
      Those in monogamous relationships get sex on demand and home cooked meals!

      All my married friends tell me that.

    3. Re:George Clooney dubs it: by KGIII · · Score: 5, Insightful

      They lie to you. Oh man do they lie. They probably do it so that you will join them in their misery, misery loves company and all that.

      Anyhow, now that there's a gene for it and I obviously don't have it, I have a scientific excuse. ;)

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    4. Re:George Clooney dubs it: by OeLeWaPpErKe · · Score: 5, Insightful

      Or rather : in different circumstances monogamy may provide an evolutionary advantage. If you intend to wage unceasing war ("live off the land" (and the passersby)), for example, monogamy would be a bad idea, since lots of men will die, leaving behind women, even though some limit would be good (say you expect 50% of the men to be involved in war, then you should allow 2 women to one man, if you expect between 75 and 90% of your society to be dedicated to war, then 4 women to 1 man seems appropriate (and obviously only to men who can afford not to be on the frontlines, who should basically stay away from women, except the occasional rape of a succesful raid) (then again, in war, are limits like these really going to be respected ?). If you allow without limit (or allow polygamy + concubines) then clearly you expect to do nothing else than warfare, and marriage means nothing except for inheritance.

      In peace, you'd need to prevent men remaining behind alone without partner (because for every extra woman one man has, another has to do without, 4 women to one man would become 75% of men without contact with women in extremis, realistically, say 50% of men, 4 women + unlimited (and exclusive) concubines would mean something like 999/1000 of men without partner, in some cultures that is normal, or was normal not too long ago), as that will certainly not be helpful in helping them build instead of destroying society, therefore in a peaceful setting, you'd want monogamy.

      The fact that genes start expressing it is not very surprising. Polygamous cultures are known for being more than a little agressive, and genes are how humans adapt to their environment. If the environment or the culture changes to be less suitable for agriculture (or the culture doesn't know, or incorrectly conducts agriculture, e.g. predatory agriculture, or not doing anything about overpopulation, or ...) the genes will adapt to become less monogamous.

      If raiding is basically impossible, for whatever reason, building things will become important, and monogamous relationships become an evolutionary advantage. Certainly after 10 generations the effects will be very noticeable.

      Since this gene will very much influence how agressive people are against "other tribes", it is one of the prime parameters that will determine the layout of the resulting society, and may introduce all sorts of limits (e.g. agressive societies will never have any population density for obvious reasons, which can easily translate in a very low maximum population limit)

    5. Re:George Clooney dubs it: by Crazy+Taco · · Score: 4, Insightful

      They lie to you. Oh man do they lie. They probably do it so that you will join them in their misery, misery loves company and all that.

      Actually it's not a lie. Like everything, there are of course exceptions, so I'm sure some people do lie, but I get all of the above. And my wife is wonderful. I love being married. So yeah, if you wanna delude yourself out of the fun, go ahead... but consider the fact that you haven't tried being married, so how would you know the truth? Married men are inherently credible when talking about this issue, and unmarried men are without credibility, for the following reason: all us married men have been both single and married, and I personally can say that after trying both, marriage is far superior.

      Anyhow, now that there's a gene for it and I obviously don't have it, I have a scientific excuse. ;)

      Sorry, but as a creature of reason and logic (which your appeal to science shows that you are), you are still without excuse. Anyone who claims reason has the tools necessary to rise above base animal instincts and live differently. Whether this alleged gene actually is proven to be true or not, the "serial non-commiters" still have no excuse to use the women around them.

      As humans, we have to rise above this non-commitment, because regardless of a specific gene, societies in which commitments are made and upheld are inherently more stable and peaceful than those in which no one can trust anyone's word. As humans, our goal should be to form stable societies that are best for us, not to follow our genetic dispositions.

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  2. Disablites Act by JohnHegarty · · Score: 3, Funny

    Anyone want to start suggesting a relevant text for the update to the americans with disabilities act

    1. Re:Disablites Act by Adriax · · Score: 5, Funny

      "No really babe, I've got a mutation in my monogamy gene. I HAVE to sleep around, or I'll die."

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    2. Re:Disablites Act by The+End+Of+Days · · Score: 4, Insightful

      The day nerds become a protected subspecies is the day I give up on humanity.

  3. A whole new round of testing by TXISDude · · Score: 5, Funny

    I see a whole brave new world of testing before pre-nuptials . . . But, if I have a defective gene, will that qualify me as handicapped under something like ADA? Will there be a high risk pool that I will be forced to "date" out of? So many questions . . .

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    1. Re:A whole new round of testing by joelwyland · · Score: 4, Funny

      After reading your post, it's clear to me why you are having trouble finding a woman who is willing to let you touch it.

    2. Re:A whole new round of testing by philspear · · Score: 4, Funny

      Does it have anything to do with the phrase he coined: "insanely monogmous"? Spelling aside, how are you insanely monogamous? Isn't that a little like saying someone is "Extremely not on fire?"

    3. Re:A whole new round of testing by Artifakt · · Score: 4, Funny

      I just looked around - I'm in an air conditioned office, no sources of ignition around me, sitting cool and comfortable and extremely not on fire... No wait, Bob just lit a cigarette, so I'm down to thoroughly not on fire... No, Bob's running around with his tie in flames right now, so I guess I'm moderately not on fire... Whoops, dodging a flaming Bob, but I'm still marginally not on fire...

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  4. And the Slashdot Gene by MyLongNickName · · Score: 5, Funny

    which renders someone unable to get any at all.

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    1. Re:And the Slashdot Gene by smittyoneeach · · Score: 4, Funny

      And with this post, the discourse, if not the intercourse, was won.

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    2. Re:And the Slashdot Gene by pilgrim23 · · Score: 4, Funny

      Honestly; would ANYONE want to cuddle a meadow vole?
      Too much time, large research grant on their hands...

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    3. Re:And the Slashdot Gene by lena_10326 · · Score: 4, Insightful

      And like winning the lottery twice, the slashdot men that do marry are quite unlikely to find another. A predisposition for involuntary celibacy is a predictor for monogomy.

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  5. Great!!! [whatever] Control pills by starglider29a · · Score: 5, Funny

    In the early 60's we got birth control pills, which (some say) facilitated women being promiscuous. Now, we have 'husband control pills'

    What happens if we miss a day? Do we take two then next and use alternate husband control methods. -- Sarcasm transmits across TCP/IP as well as it does other media

    1. Re:Great!!! [whatever] Control pills by thermian · · Score: 3, Funny

      In the early 60's we got birth control pills, which (some say) facilitated women being promiscuous. Now, we have 'husband control pills'

      What happens if we miss a day? Do we take two then next and use alternate husband control methods.

      Well to be safe you'd need to avoid monogamy for at least a month after missing a pill...

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    2. Re:Great!!! [whatever] Control pills by Anachragnome · · Score: 4, Insightful

      Hate to kick the barstool out from under y'all, but Jeebuz, you folks act like a gene sequence removes all thought from the equation.

      I don't sleep around because I love my wife and extra-marital affairs have a tendency to remove MARRIAGES. Quite frankly, it is my head, and the thoughts within, that decide my actions, not the genes passed on to me. Genes may have some effect, but if the result is not acceptable to the thinking part of me, they are simply over-ridden.

       

    3. Re:Great!!! [whatever] Control pills by starglider29a · · Score: 5, Funny

      See... she has him on it already, and the poor blighter doesn't even know it.

    4. Re:Great!!! [whatever] Control pills by Mr.+Slippery · · Score: 3, Insightful

      Genes may have some effect, but if the result is not acceptable to the thinking part of me, they are simply over-ridden.

      The point is that the genes determine, or at least influence, what the "thinking part" of you find acceptable.

      You are not consciousness inhabiting a body. You are consciousness generated by a body. The nature of that consciousness is determined by the nature of the body. The nature of the body is determined by genetics and by environment.

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    5. Re:Great!!! [whatever] Control pills by sckeener · · Score: 4, Interesting

      Congrats on the impossible to prove otherwise post!

      There is no way to prove that your genes are not influencing you.

      However since identical twins separated at birth have many mental similarities, I'm going to go with gene's influence you more than you know.

      http://www.washingtonpost.com/wp-srv/national/longterm/twins/twins2.htm

      statistics have shown that on average, identical twins tend to be around 80 percent the same in everything from stature to health to IQ to political views. The similarities are partly the product of similar upbringing. But evidence from the comparison of twins raised apart points rather convincingly to genes as the source of a lot of that likeness. In the most widely publicized study of this type, launched in 1979, University of Minnesota psychologist Thomas Bouchard and his colleagues have chronicled the fates of about 60 pairs of identical twins raised separately. Some of the pairs had scarcely met before Bouchard contacted them, and yet the behaviors and personalities and social attitudes they displayed in lengthy batteries of tests were often remarkably alike.

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  6. Gene also known to recede by dedazo · · Score: 5, Funny

    When confronted by large quantities of beer protein.

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  7. Not always a gene... by Leomania · · Score: 5, Funny

    In my case, it's a "Martha" that has the greatest influence over my monogamous inclinations.

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  8. i don't believe it by circletimessquare · · Score: 3, Interesting

    monogamy in general seems to be a mirage

    there are of course places in the world where polygamy is openly accepted, but in places where monogamy dominates publicly, everyone is polygamous in secret

    and i am talking about men AND women. male polygamy gets more attention only because male polygamy is more public, male sexuality full of more bravado. women are just better at keeping secrets

    and it makes perfect sense for men and women. men for for the obvious ability to spread more genes, and women for access to more resources, or simply to get better genes in secret than the genes of the publicly acknowledged mate (it has been speculated something like 10% of children before the era of genetic testing were raised by fathers who weren't really their genetic fathers)

    i think that any gene that regulates vasopressin simply regulates how discrete or not discrete a male is going about being secretly or openly polygamous

    there is just too much incentive, genetically, to spread your seed as wide as possible, no matter what

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    1. Re:i don't believe it by Gat0r30y · · Score: 4, Funny

      I've never had the slightest interest in anything except strict monogamy.

      You sir, lack imagination.

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  9. Oxytocin? by ThanatosMinor · · Score: 5, Funny

    That's not the cuddle chemical we used when I was in college

  10. Re:Hhhmm, by EnergyScholar · · Score: 4, Insightful

    Just as a guess, which strategy works better (from a 'survival of the genes' perspective) probably varies in different circumstances. This would explain why neither gene sequence has dominated.

  11. Oh great.. one more test to take! by Pontiac · · Score: 3, Funny

    Now your GF/Wife will want you to take the "Cheating bastard" DNA test too.

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  12. Re:Hhhmm, by Millennium · · Score: 4, Insightful

    Shouldn't evolution sided with either monogamy or polygamy? I mean even if there is only a one percent difference between the successor rates should that have not been reflected by now?

    If monogamy or the lack thereof were genetic and there were an evolutionary advantage to either strategy, then you're right: that should have been reflected in the general population.

    Since it doesn't seem to be, that would seem to indicate that perhaps there is no evolutionary advantage to either side. With no advantage, there is no pressure for humanity to tend in one direction or the other. That could yield a pattern closer to what we are seeing now.

  13. Re:Hhhmm, by dkleinsc · · Score: 4, Informative

    No. It shouldn't have, because either strategy can lend itself to evolutionary success for men.

    If you're a powerful man, polygamy is an excellent strategy. You want to be impregnating every woman you can get your hands on, and you can by force and/or intimidation (among other motivators). Genghis Khan is an exemplar of this (at least according to one study that something like 6% of the world's men are his descendants). With that many kids, you don't need to invest very much in making sure each kid survives long enough to reproduce.

    If you're a powerless man, then your best strategy is monogamy: you aim to have one woman who you reproduce with, and devote lots of time and energy into making sure that those kids survive. This leads to the nerds who will love a woman forever and stick with her through sickness and health.

    If you're somewhere in between on the power scale, then the strategy seems to be pretending monogamy while having at least one mistress on the side. The theory here is that you get the greater number of kids and genetic variation from having more partners, but a fallback position of the kids from your "monogamous" relationship. Hence middle-management types cheating on their wives.

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  14. No Monogamy Gene by eebra82 · · Score: 3, Interesting

    I seriously doubt that humans were holding on to each other for lifetimes before the dawn of religions. After all, the whole idea of staying together forever and ever is all taken from a few books that people wrote hundreds of years ago.

    Let's say that we go 10,000 years back. Why would a man not screw around as much as possible? And if love existed, who's to say that it lasted for long periods? I remember reading an article that stated that "love" is a chemical reaction that lasts roughly six months, given or take a couple of months. I guess it's enough time to bond and mate.

    Maybe this "monogamy gene" relates to something totally different, but has altered effects because of traditions that have grown with religions?

    1. Re:No Monogamy Gene by blueg3 · · Score: 4, Insightful

      Why would a man not screw around as much as possible?

      In short, because our young are vulnerable after birth, require a fairly large energy investment, and are few in number.

      Monogamy actually appears in a number of different animal species.

    2. Re:No Monogamy Gene by vux984 · · Score: 4, Insightful

      Let's say that we go 10,000 years back. Why would a man not screw around as much as possible?

      Lots of reasons...

      Inability to find good mates... Ideal mothers for your children would reject you knowing that you wouldn't provide for them?

      Low chance of offspring surviving... mothers would be unable to care for your children, and unable to find mates willing help them?

      Societal acceptance... e.g. The other men would stone him? Stone the women he cheated with? Stone his offspring?

      Monogamy exists in nature. There are reasons for why it works where it exists.

      And if love existed, who's to say that it lasted for long periods?

      Indeed. Monogamy isn't necessarily 'till death to we part' in modern society at least it simply means not cheating on your partner. It is entirely possible to marry, raise a child, separate, marry someone else, and even raise another child, all within the confines of monogamy.

      Hell when I was a teen, most of us were pretty monogamous; its not that we all married our first crush, but rather that our teen years were a succession of monogamous relationships of varying lengths, some quite brief, and punctuated with periods of being 'single'.

      And yes some people who were supposedly 'in a relationship' cheated, and when caught it carried a stigma, one that I would say definitely impacted their dating prospects in the circles where it was known that they cheated (applied to both males and females).

  15. Re:Hhhmm, by bonehead · · Score: 5, Funny

    In our current society, monogamy makes more sense.

    Until you see the hot little redhead that just moved in across the street from me. Then polygamy starts looking pretty damn good again.

  16. Re:Hhhmm, by geekgirlandrea · · Score: 4, Interesting

    Because which strategy works better would depend on what strategy everyone else in the local population is following. You end up with an stable equilibrium proportion where both strategies work equally well, all things being equal, but if you perturb it slightly the one becomes slightly more advantageous than the other and reproduces faster until the equilibrium is restored.

  17. Exciting news. by JPMallory · · Score: 5, Funny

    Does this mean we may be able to finally develop a cure for monogamy?

  18. Re:Hhhmm, by fuzzyfuzzyfungus · · Score: 3, Informative

    Interesting question. The answer, though, is more interesting still: various flavors of "not necessarily".

    The adaptive value of a trait can and does vary depending on its environment and the environment is different depending on how common the trait is. For traits having to do with deception, you tend to see some sort of equilibrium. Typically, a naive and honest population does better than a dishonest and suspicious one, because they don't waste resources on deception and deception detection. If, however, a lone cheater shows up in a naive and honest population, the cheater will do extraordinarily well. This will cause cheating to increase in frequency, and will create a selective pressure in favor of being able to detect cheaters. Sometimes, the cheaters tip the balance, and a naive and honest population becomes a suspicious and deceptive one, sometimes cheater detection is good enough to wipe out the cheaters, and often the two traits find an equilibrium point. The suspicion required to eliminate all cheaters will be too costly to be adaptive; but cheating will only work sometimes, and on a limited scale.

    With the possible exception of simple deleterious mutations, traits are not absolutely better or worse, their value depends on their environment, and their environment depends in part on them. Just looking at the values of the traits at the beginning isn't good enough, you need to use a game theory approach, and look at the value of the traits across repeated rounds.

  19. interesting... by Coraon · · Score: 5, Funny

    Being polygamous I wonder if I have this gene...hehe I know my wife her girlfriend, and my two other partners don't. ;)

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    1. Re:interesting... by SMS_Design · · Score: 3, Informative

      Until you're married to multiple partners, you're not polygamous. Perhaps polyamorous?

    2. Re:interesting... by sesshomaru · · Score: 3, Informative

      Don't blame the grand-parent, the article refers to a "monogamy gene" but I doubt prairie voles are getting married. (If I'm wrong, please post video of a prairie vole wedding, because that sounds neat.)

      So, he's misusing "polygamous" the same way the article misused "monogamous."

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    3. Re:interesting... by need4mospd · · Score: 4, Funny

      Your Second Life account doesn't count.

  20. Damn that love thing ..... by tinkerghost · · Score: 3, Insightful

    One researcher found that the overwhelming contribution to the increased rate of divorce is the modern concept of marriage for love instead of position/wealth. The current divorce trend is simply the end result of a curve started in the years following the civil war.

    So if these conservatives want to go back to an idyllic time with low divorce & happy families - I say bring back arranged marriages.

  21. Re:Hhhmm, by Hatta · · Score: 3, Insightful

    And the women, they're looking for a powerful man to knock them up, and a nice dedicated man to stick with her and raise a family.

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  22. Re:Hhhmm, by megaditto · · Score: 4, Insightful

    I think you might be wrong there.

    In a welfare/socialist society, polygamy and promiscuety make more (evolutionary) sense for men.

    Which would you rather be: 1) the guy that sleeps around with lots of women and gets lots of kids, or 2) the guy that stays with a single woman and gets taxed to death to support all the single mothers, left over from the first guy.?

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  23. Re:Hhhmm, by Mr.+Slippery · · Score: 3, Insightful

    Which would you rather be: 1) the guy that sleeps around with lots of women and gets lots of kids, or 2) the guy that stays with a single woman and gets taxed to death to support all the single mothers, left over from the first guy.?

    How about 3) the guy that sleeps around with lots of women and has no kids?

    Effective birth control exists. Use it.

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  24. Re:Study shows 1 in 2 people are monogomous...(fix by russotto · · Score: 4, Funny

    Seen it too many times. 1 in every 2 people is poly meaning if your mono, chances are your partner is not.

    This is slashdot. Which means that a lot of those non-polys ain't mono, they're zippo.

  25. Monogamy is great! I want to promote it! by Tetsujin · · Score: 5, Funny

    If I had one of those monogamy genes, I'd want to help it thrive - so I'd go find a bunch o' girls and get 'em pregnant...

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  26. Re:Hhhmm, by dlenmn · · Score: 3, Informative

    Since it doesn't seem to be, that would seem to indicate that perhaps there is no evolutionary advantage to either side. With no advantage, there is no pressure for humanity to tend in one direction or the other. That could yield a pattern closer to what we are seeing now.

    Or it could be that it's a mixed strategy equilibrium in which case it makes sense for a certain percentage of people to be monogamous and the rest not to be.

    Would one non-monogamous guy be at an advantage in an otherwise monogamous society? Possibly -- he'd be able to father more children that way. Would one monogamous guy be at an advantage in an otherwise non-monogamous society? Possibly -- since everyone else doesn't really stick around to take care of their kids, his children would be better cared for and thus more likely to survive.

    If those two statements are true, you'd expect some sort of mixed strategy equilibrium.

    See:

    Robert Axelrod, The Evolution of Cooperation (the book -- I haven't read the article of the same name).

    http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Strategy_(game_theory)#Mixed_strategy