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A Broken Heart Really Does Hurt, Scientists Claim

Death Metal writes "Psychologists at the University of California, Los Angeles say the human body has a gene that connects physical pain sensitivity with social pain sensitivity. The findings back the common theory that rejection 'hurts' by showing that a gene regulating the body's most potent painkillers — mu-opioids — is involved in socially painful experiences too."

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  1. Feel No Pain by DirtyCanuck · · Score: 5, Funny

    "Individuals with the rare form of the pain gene, who were shown in previous work to be more sensitive to physical pain"

    Isolate and manipulate.

    Do The Evolution ;)

    1. Re:Feel No Pain by girlintraining · · Score: 4, Insightful

      Do The Evolution ;)

      You idiot... If you can't feel pain you can't learn. Adversity breeds character, but it also breeds common sense. People who can't feel pain have to be very careful because they won't know they're hurting themselves -- they will happily hold on to a burning-hot sauce pan and have no idea that in the process of making eggs they've just caused 3rd degree burns on their hand.

      Besides, if you ever want to see the kind of damage not being able to feel pain can do -- go visit the hospital and head up to the department labeled "Chemical Dependency". You'll have a hundred new reasons to treasure your pain receptors after that...

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  2. They've discovered the Emo Gene! by StealthyRoid · · Score: 5, Funny

    Finally, parents can know ahead of time if their kids are destined to grow up into whiny little John Hughes emo assholes, and vacuum the little bitch out before they have to end up paying for 20 years worth of Hot Topic clothes.

    Up next, the Goth gene!

  3. isn't this obvious? by phantomfive · · Score: 4, Insightful

    I've been punched in the face, I've had torn muscles, I've stubbed my toe, I've hit my thumb with a hammer, and nothing has hurt as much as a broken heart. This seemed pretty obvious to me, but I am glad that researchers are paying attention to feelings, and figuring out what is there.

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    1. Re:isn't this obvious? by Jafafa+Hots · · Score: 4, Insightful

      Shit... I've been hit by a pickup truck, had a shattered pelvis, fractured skull, internal injuries. Had to learn to walk again. Went through withdrawal from Demerol. Had a total bowel obstruction that required emergency surgery. Had a catheter removed without the little balloon being deflated first.
      Broke my arm four times. Had a barium enema (doesn't sound like much but those fuckers HURT)

      Those things took from days to months to repair and grow adequate scar tissue.

      Broken heart? Well, I think I'm pretty much over it now... and it's only been 25 years. (Well, I'm over when she's not around anyway...)

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    2. Re:isn't this obvious? by wgoodman · · Score: 5, Funny

      you're just trying to distract yourself from thinking about her.. i know the feeling :/

    3. Re:isn't this obvious? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 4, Funny

      Dude sounds like you're better off staying in the basement

    4. Re:isn't this obvious? by ijakings · · Score: 5, Funny

      No offense dude, but im pretty sure god is trying to kill you

    5. Re:isn't this obvious? by Dan541 · · Score: 5, Funny

      Considering he once downed the entire world, I'd say he's no longer on top of his game.

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    6. Re:isn't this obvious? by Ihmhi · · Score: 5, Insightful

      Irony - A year later I saw her on campus and she wanted to know why I stopped calling. She claimed I had hurt her. As if rejecting me four times didn't hurt. (rolls eyes). A typical, socially-inept, clueless female nerd.

      That's not irony, that's an attention whore. Once you stop doting on them they'll come to you and try to get your hopes back up.

    7. Re:isn't this obvious? by PopeRatzo · · Score: 4, Funny

      Shit... I've been hit by a pickup truck, had a shattered pelvis, fractured skull...

      That's nothing. I've had my eyes plucked out by rabid bats. I've all my fingers broken, heal badly, and then broken again with a nutcracker. I've had my head chopped off and sewn back on backwards, only to have it done all over again after the lawsuit. I've had the skin on my penis peeled back like a banana with lasers and BBQ tongs.

      A broken heart? I don't get them, I give them.

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    8. Re:isn't this obvious? by Cylix · · Score: 5, Interesting

      That's nothing...

      I've had my intestines removed and used as a personal restraining device. All of my toes and fingers removed and subsequently re-attached to one hand. Said hand was than forcefully punched into my own face with some guy shouting, "Stop hitting yourself" over and over. After that was over I had my abdomen sliced open by a light saber and some Jedi Knight used my womb to shelter from the cold for hours.

      A broken heart? I really do miss that Jedi

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    9. Re:isn't this obvious? by commodore64_love · · Score: 5, Insightful

      >>>>>This study might explain why some women can treat men like toss-away toys, and not care.

      >They can't treat men like that, only whiny little pussies.

      Really? Well I know just such a woman. She married a guy, then she divorced him because she was flirting with guy #2. Then she married guy #2, but meanwhile she was flirting with guy #3, so divorced guy #2 about five years later. She married guy #3, but was flirting with guy #4, and then divorced guy #3.

      Three men. NONE of them were pussies, but she still managed to hurt all three of them with her actions, because she doesn't care about other person's feelings.

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    10. Re:isn't this obvious? by Mister+Whirly · · Score: 4, Insightful

      Any man that chooses to be with a woman who is already either married/in a serious relationship when they start up should expect at some point it will happen again, with him getting dumped for the new flame. They may not have been "pussies" but they weren't being smart or didn't want a monogamous relationship. Cheaters aren't going to just up and change their behavior "just because it is you".

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    11. Re:isn't this obvious? by budgenator · · Score: 4, Insightful

      Obviously you've never had a vampyric, somatic narcissistic woman sink her fangs into you. Bedroom skills have nothing to do with what makes them happy. what makes them happy is taking every social, psychological and financial resource you have for themselves, they feed off your pain.

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  4. Oblig. Simpsons quote: by benwiggy · · Score: 4, Funny

    "You may say she died of a ruptured ventricle; but I know she died of a broken heart."

  5. Makes Sense... by BJ_Covert_Action · · Score: 4, Informative

    Not to undermine the work of the researchers but this makes sense from a theoretical standpoint in terms of evolution. Humans as social creatures that reproduce sexually. It makes sense that, over the years, those individual genes that allowed humans to learn to flinch away from social stigmatization and learn from sexual/romantic rejection would survive more generations than those that didn't as, such genes would produce more socially acceptable creatures. For the human species, being socially acceptable is an instinctual desire as we tend towards the safety in numbers lifestyle. Loners, stragglers, and folks that never learned that rejection is a *bad* thing would/could have been picked off by predators easier and such. Hopefully, of course, that doesn't mean that slashdotters will start dying off anytime soon.

    All jokes aside, though, I think I would have been more surprised to have learned that heartbreak and social rejection does not cause some kind of negative reinforcement within the human psyche. It is, of course, still interesting research.

    1. Re:Makes Sense... by jameskojiro · · Score: 4, Funny

      NO NO NO, God designed us 6,000 years ago to feel real pain on rejection from other humans because he is a sadistic control freak.

      You people who reject the Bible's completely 100% accuracy really sicken me, how dare you attempt to think logically and critically!!!!

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  6. Painkillers? by dunkelfalke · · Score: 4, Insightful

    Does it mean that painkillers like Ibuprofen would help to lessen the pain of being dumped? That is a kind of an acute issue for me right now.

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    1. Re:Painkillers? by wgoodman · · Score: 5, Interesting

      Some of us actually don't really go for the meaningless sex all that much.. i've given it a go, but i'd much rather actually feel something for the person i'm giving it to..

    2. Re:Painkillers? by girlintraining · · Score: 4, Insightful

      Those are the two things I applied a year ago (and am still applying) to get over a broken heart. I left my country, started travelling and kept travelling, and have shagged lots of different lovely girls along the way. It really works. And I've met some great people.

      Oh isn't this typical! Someone says they're hurting because they've lost the one they love and the answer is "Yeah, I'd miss the sex too." A broken heart doesn't come from a lack of nookie you insensitive bastard. It comes from the gut-wrenching experience of having invested months or years into a relationship that suddenly ends. And usually because of that kind of investment, the other relationships in that person's life have suffered neglect to maintain the romantic one. So it's a double-whammy -- not only are they suddenly alone, but everyone they used to know is either gone or distant to boot. It's not just the rejection of a former lover that hurts, its waking up from that and discovering you don't have any friends around you either -- possibly because your ex has them all now!

      Sex is not going to fill that hole if you have any kind of heart, okay? Every man seems to think it will and they go on a massive f*ck-fest. It doesn't work. After their 15 seconds of fame is over, they're still lonely. And it's not just men either -- women with low self-esteem do the same thing. That hurt you feel late at night that makes you want to clutch a pillow and imagine someone holding you does not come from a lack of sex. It comes from a lack of love. And for that, there's only one thing to do; Start meeting new people. Not just people you're sexually attracted to (chances are you're too depressed anyway to be objective about this) -- I mean anyone that seems even remotely interesting. Reconnect with the human race. Don't take pills, don't buy a big sack of condoms, and don't hit the frozen dairy aisle -- get up, go outside, and don't come back until you've learned at least one new thing about someone you didn't know before. And find friends that don't say things like this idiot did -- sex is not everything. Any real friend will tell you this.

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  7. Re:slashdoters by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 5, Funny

    Don't let the door hit you on your way out, Mr. Drama Queen.

  8. You left one part out. by FlyingSquidStudios · · Score: 5, Funny

    The Psychologists later added, "if you're a total pussy."

  9. Sounds like they isolated the "whiner" gene. by znerk · · Score: 4, Interesting

    The article seems to state that those who reported higher levels of physical pain also reported more easily feeling rejected in a social situation. Therefore, it stands to reason (at least to me) that they have isolated the gene which causes people to complain, rather than any link between physical pain and emotional distress.

    Yeah, I know, what kind of slashdotter am I, if I actually RTFA?

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  10. Thanks Slashdot. by Goalie_Ca · · Score: 4, Interesting

    I just got home. It's 3:30 am. I missed my bus. I cockblocked her "ex" or whatever he is all the way to the bedroom door. Had a brief chat (clenched fist ready to pound the shit out of him) but really it was both of them and not him alone. I need to be able to trust her too! I walked the fuck out at first swearing like a mother fucker in my best québécois i know all the way down broadway street vancouver. I finally calmed down enough to feel the pain. It really hurt. I turn on my computer to try and calm down (can't sleep in this state) and wtf do I see? A study that says i feel pain right now. Well duh! I physically feel pain and my gut is wrapped up like a turban.

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    1. Re:Thanks Slashdot. by Lumpy · · Score: 4, Informative

      dude, kick her to the curb, because you will feel that again and she WILL do it to you again.

      If you like feeling betrayed, stay with her. If you want to stop the pain, throw her and all her crap out the door. There are 10,000 more just for you that are far better than she is. Out there waiting for you.

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