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Facebook User Arrested For a Poke

nk497 writes "A woman in Tennessee has been arrested for poking someone over Facebook. Sharon Jackson had been banned by courts from 'telephoning, contacting or otherwise communicating' with the apparent poke recipient, but just couldn't hold back from clicking the 'poke' button. She now faces a sentence of up to a year in prison."

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  1. No communication is no communication. by log0n · · Score: 5, Insightful

    The system works!

    1. Re:No communication is no communication. by MozeeToby · · Score: 4, Insightful

      Yep, not really news. Would "Woman with a Restraining Order Against Her Arrested for Calling and Hanging Up" make the front page? Even "Woman with a Restraining Order Against Her Arrested for Texting" wouldn't raise any eyebrows.

    2. Re:No communication is no communication. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 2, Interesting

      If she really wanted to annoy this person, she should have gone the old school covert route of signing them up for news letters, catalogs, brochures, pamphlets, etc, going to the victims address. Then do the same electronically by going to every app download site, church, and political site and give them their email addy... evil yes, anonymous... not fully but close enough.

      Curious question, does anyone else when downloading software that asks for an email address, give the company their own email address back to them? i.e. go to apple.com to download quicktime, they ask for a email address, and you give support@apple.com? Just wondering if I'm the only one that likes returning the spam to sender so directly...

    3. Re:No communication is no communication. by cjfs · · Score: 5, Insightful

      Yep, not really news. Would "Woman with a Restraining Order Against Her Arrested for Calling and Hanging Up" make the front page? Even "Woman with a Restraining Order Against Her Arrested for Texting" wouldn't raise any eyebrows.

      It's not newsworthy that a restraining order was violated. It's newsworthy that law enforcement are looking at the violation regardless of the communication channel. It's one more step towards realizing we don't need to create new laws with "e-this, or cyber-that" to have them apply to Internet traffic.

    4. Re:No communication is no communication. by Renraku · · Score: 3, Insightful

      Actually, I'm glad they had common sense here.

      Would her updates appearing on his web page get her arrested for 'contacting' him? What about if he were subscribed to a mailing list or newsgroup that she posted in? What about if she had one of those Facebook apps that likes to spam send him a message saying something like, "I know a secret about you! Click here to learn it!"?

      There are gray areas for technology, but this isn't one of them, unless the program 'poked' him automatically. Also, if they're still 'friends' on Facebook, the restraining order should be nullified.

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    5. Re:No communication is no communication. by mysidia · · Score: 4, Informative

      Is a poke really communication?

      I'm thinking of people who send random pokes to their contact lists all the time, without any actual communication meaning to them.

      Moreover... poking on Facebook only actually works if the person has added you as their friend.

      If you went to court to get a no-contact order against someone else, why the heck would you add or keep them as your friend on facebook?

      Everything status update, every message you post shows up as a communication to all your friends... so you're actually initiating contact with them!

    6. Re:No communication is no communication. by baka_toroi · · Score: 2, Informative

      You don't need to be friends with someone to poke them.

    7. Re:No communication is no communication. by Idiomatick · · Score: 3, Insightful

      Uhhh... how many restraining orders does she put out that she can't be expected to track them all??? How'd you get an informative mod :/ He didn't say leave Facebook... And on that issue it would be dealt with the same way restraining orders deal with public places.

    8. Re:No communication is no communication. by DarKnyht · · Score: 4, Interesting

      I thought the story should have been "Moron That Got Restraining Order Kept Woman as an Unblocked Person on Facebook" myself. Seriously if you go through the hassle of a restraining order, perhaps you should add them to your block list.

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    9. Re:No communication is no communication. by Orion+Blastar · · Score: 2, Insightful

      I removed friends from Facebook but they still show up in my user profile updates and it still gives me the option to poke them. Obviously she was Friends with the one who did the restraining order, and her friend removed her, but Facebook still gave her options for a friend that was removed. It is a bug in Facebook that they are trying to fix.

      I write for Uncyclopedia and other humor web sites and people add me as friends via email address, and sometimes it autoaccepts them even if I didn't hit "approve" it just says "John Smith accepted your friend invite" and I didn't invite such a person. So when I remove John Smith from my friends list he still shows up in my updates and I still have options to send a poke or anything else a friend can do.

      If you know of a way around this Facebook bug please let me know so I can permanently remove these people who forced a friendship somehow without my permission. Maybe it is a Facebook hacking script or something? I didn't think that I was that popular on the Internet that random strangers are friending me on Facebook.

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    10. Re:No communication is no communication. by karnal · · Score: 2, Funny

      I'm thinking they need a "Send Lawyers" button to the right of "Ask mafia to attack"

      Or "Create Restraining Order"

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    11. Re:No communication is no communication. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 2, Insightful

      You're assuming that the woman who took out the restraining order was aware that person the order was against had a Facebook account. If the order was the product of, say, harassing phone calls, then why would she think to look the harasser up on Facebook just so she could block her?

    12. Re:No communication is no communication. by breakfastpirate · · Score: 2, Informative

      I'm almost positive they changed it so that you can only poke someone who's profile you can actually view, regardless of whether you are friends with them. Used to be you could poke anyone in search listings, but now if you get the whole "This user only shares certain information with everyone" upon viewing their profile you can't poke them. You can poke strangers as long as they have their privacy settings set to everyone or a network you are in.

    13. Re:No communication is no communication. by Eivind · · Score: 2, Insightful

      It sure as fucking hell is "communication" in the spirit of it.

      Listen, it's very bloody simple: A judge ORDERED you to leave some person alone. Do NOT approach them. Do NOT contact them. Do NOT communicate with them in any way.

      If you show up outside their house, and wave at them, or at their facebook-page and poke them, or send a SMS, or in any other way directly contacts the person you're -NOT- allowed to contact, you're in violation. It's completely mindboggling that this is even a question.

      Now, if she claimed she didn't do it -- say someone else used her account, that's a different thing, and then it'd come down to evidence. But assuming she did, she's guilty as hell. End of story.

    14. Re:No communication is no communication. by booyabazooka · · Score: 4, Insightful

      Also, if they're still 'friends' on Facebook, the restraining order should be nullified.

      Likewise if she didn't change her phone number and move to a completely new residence the restraining order should be nullified. see how absurd that is when you apply it to the physical world.

      The victim probably has so many friends she didn't think to remove the offender.

      While she was filing a restraining order, it seems like de-friending the person might have been a reasonable thing to think about.

      Facebook de-friending is at most a 60-second process. Even if she "forgot" to do it, she can notice the poke, and then do it. Yes, we have restraining orders so that people don't have take drastic steps like change residences to get away from someone. But shouldn't there be SOME aspect of personal responsibility in this process, so the government doesn't have to protect you from your own voluntary connections on social networking websites?

    15. Re:No communication is no communication. by drinkypoo · · Score: 2, Insightful

      There's also no reason the person with the order against them should have initiated an action which they knew would result in a message being sent from them to the user with whom they were ordered not to communicate. They made a personal decision to flaunt against the restraining order, and now they are paying for their decision. If they were intelligent and responsible, they would have unfriended the other individual as soon as they got the restraining order. I can't feel too bad for them, although I do think it's clear that their parents did not do their job if they still think it's cute to harass people. Sending an electronic "poke" to someone when they have a restraining order against you is clear harassment, poke being a synonym of prod. Well, they certainly succeeded in prodding the other party into action! Too bad about those results, huh?

      If you want people to take responsibility for their actions, you have to start with the idiot with the order against them, and you might as well stop there, because they're clearly a moron.

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  2. First POKE! by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 3, Funny

    POKE! POKE! POKE!

  3. Ok, and? by cdrudge · · Score: 4, Insightful

    A person had a protective order that was allegedly violated. That user was arrested and is getting their due process. News at 11.

    1. Re:Ok, and? by Nimey · · Score: 3, Funny

      But it's got a "Web 2.0" social site involved, so it must be New! and Exciting!.

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  4. Re:Duh, that's what a restraining order is by spun · · Score: 5, Funny

    I hope she enjoys getting poked in the pokey.

    I don't think you understand the mechanics of lesbian sex...

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  5. In an interview by tecnico.hitos · · Score: 4, Funny

    Interviewer: Ms. Jackson, how have been your life since you was prohibited from comunicating?

    Sharon Jackson: ...

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  6. And she should get a year by davmoo · · Score: 5, Insightful

    There is a restraining order in force that says "no contact". No contact on a restraining order means just that...NO contact. Just because its a "poke" doesn't mean it doesn't count. Haul her stupid ass in and make her face what ever consequences were specified in the original order.

    No sympathy what so ever. The stupid deserve what they get.

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    1. Re:And she should get a year by Brian+Gordon · · Score: 3, Insightful

      I definitely would not unfriend them. If "Sharon poked you!" is a violation then I'm not confident that "Sharon unfriended you!" is different.

      Then again, if you don't unfriend her, everything you do shows up on her feed (right? I don't use facebook), which is even worse. I guess I'd stay away from the facebook account.

    2. Re:And she should get a year by Zordak · · Score: 3, Informative

      "Un-friending" them wouldn't be a problem because FB doesn't notify people that you have "unfriended" them. And it's irrelevant, because FB lets you "poke" people who aren't your friends.

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    3. Re:And she should get a year by RalphSleigh · · Score: 3, Insightful

      I just checked, they could be unfriended, but if they both remain in the same public network (city usually) then they can still view profile/poke. Unless ofcourse there is some way of blocking a person completely that would override this.

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    4. Re:And she should get a year by Orion+Blastar · · Score: 3, Informative

      Facebook Help says:

      "What do I do if someone is harassing me on the site or through Inbox?
      We suggest that you block the person by listing his or her name in the...
      We suggest that you block the person by listing his or her name in the "Blocking People" box at the bottom of the Privacy page. If this does not resolve the problem, please report the user by clicking the 'Report/Block person' link that appears at the bottom of the user's profile. To report a user for a message you have received, use the report link located next to the message in your inbox."

      Victim who got the TRO should have blocked that woman from his/her Facebook profile. Then there would have been no poke.

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  7. Re:Duh, that's what a restraining order is by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 5, Insightful

    I don't think you understand the mechanics of prison sex.

  8. Its too obvious... by confuto · · Score: 4, Funny

    That last poke pushed the "victim" over the edge!

  9. court order by wizardforce · · Score: 4, Insightful

    The court order prohibited communication between the two directly or indirectly. A poke is a form of communication that was recognised by the court as being in violation of the order. The order its self could be wrong but the interpretation of the poke as being a form of communication and thus breaching the court order is correct.

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  10. Good by harlows_monkeys · · Score: 5, Insightful

    Restraining orders aren't jokes. If the poker really was the person subject to the restraining order (and not someone else spoofing), she deserves whatever punishment would have come her way if she had telephoned, dropped by in person, or in any other, more conventional way, violated the order.

  11. Re:redefining "pokie" by rev_media · · Score: 2, Informative

    I would say it's closer to leaving them a voicemail. That's not really the issue though. Would you or I wave to someone in a public place after a court issues a no contact order? I sure as hell wouldn't. There's something wrong with that woman.

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  12. In my day... by lobiusmoop · · Score: 5, Funny

    a poke got you infinite lives, not arrested. /get off my 8-bit lawn

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    1. Re:In my day... by Bill,+Shooter+of+Bul · · Score: 3, Funny

      Oh, the flat lightgreen space next to the white rectangle with a black isosceles triangle on top? Sorry, I thought your house was a rocket. My bad, I'll stop trying to pick it up now.

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  13. Re: burden of proof / implications on free speech by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 5, Insightful

    How can they be 100% sure it was the restrainee that did the poking?

    (Yes, I'm serious.)

    If restraining orders include Internet contact, then it means you can send someone to jail if you can forge a packet from their machine. That's really scary. Sure the restrainee shouldn't have done whatever they did to get the restraining order in the first place, but making it so anyone in the world can send them to jail seems excessive.

    Also, what if they're both bidding on the same online auction? What if they're both Anonymous Cowards on /. ? What if they meet by accident on an online game? Does teabagging in Halo violate the restraining order?

  14. Okay... by FlyingSquidStudios · · Score: 4, Informative

    I admit I don't know what this woman did exactly to get the restraining order, but I've been a victim of harassment. Even though a Facebook poke is a pretty negligible sort of contact, the psychological toll is takes on who she is being barred from communicating with could still be pretty great. I know that just seeing a photo of the person who was doing things to me was enough to make my pulse race and my stomach churn. Poking someone on Facebook after a restraining order tells the victim, "I still have ways to get to you." I'm glad she's being prosecuted.

    1. Re:Okay... by Rary · · Score: 2, Informative

      You can poke non-friends, but that's irrelevant. The point is this: If Bob has been ordered by the court not to contact Sue, and he contacts Sue, he is at fault. Period. It is not up to Sue to prevent Bob from contacting him (she already did that by getting the fucking restraining order in the first place). Bob is responsible for his own actions.

      This is an issue of personal responsibility. Yes, there are steps Sue can take to avoid Bob. Yes, some of those steps may be smart things to do. But, even if Sue does not take those steps, it is Bob's fault, and only Bob's fault, if Bob decides to violate the restraining order and contact Sue.

      Why is this so difficult for so many people to understand?

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  15. Re: burden of proof / implications on free speech by HeronBlademaster · · Score: 5, Funny

    Does teabagging in Halo violate the restraining order?

    Ah, the great questions of the universe...

  16. Re: burden of proof / implications on free speech by dougisfunny · · Score: 5, Insightful

    This doesn't mean they need to create new laws for "e-this, or cyber-that" just that they have to do due diligence to confirm the guilt of the accused.

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  17. Re:Heavy-handed? by HeronBlademaster · · Score: 3, Insightful

    Heavy-handed? No. If you've got a restraining order against you, you shouldn't be trying to push boundaries like that.

  18. Re:redefining "pokie" by dark_requiem · · Score: 4, Insightful

    I wouldn't say it's equivalent to a wave in a public place. A wave is directional. You could always claim you were waving to someone else. A Facebook poke is far more directed and specific. It's more like walking up to someone in a crowd and saying "I see you." There's the issue of this being far more direct and obvious a form of communication. If this can be substantiated by facebook, I'd say it's perfectly reasonable to say she violated a protective order.

  19. Re:redefining "pokie" by 0100010001010011 · · Score: 4, Informative

    You have to confirm pokes. TWO random accidental mouse clicks is highly improbable.

  20. Re: burden of proof / implications on free speech by _Sprocket_ · · Score: 5, Insightful

    How can they be 100% sure it was the restrainee that did the poking?

    (Yes, I'm serious.)

    If restraining orders include Internet contact, then it means you can send someone to jail if you can forge a packet from their machine. That's really scary. Sure the restrainee shouldn't have done whatever they did to get the restraining order in the first place, but making it so anyone in the world can send them to jail seems excessive.

    You'd be amazed with what you can do with a piece of paper, a typewriter, an envelope, and a stamp. Just because it involves the Internet, doesn't mean it's ground that hasn't been covered before.

    Also, what if they're both bidding on the same online auction? What if they're both Anonymous Cowards on /. ? What if they meet by accident on an online game? Does teabagging in Halo violate the restraining order?

    What if they're both submitting write-in bids to a well-established auction house? What if they're both writing commentary to their local newspaper? What if they're both competitive Scrabble players climbing through the ranks of the local Scrabble circuit? As for teabagging - that's the sort of immature behavior that leads to retraining orders as it is. Once again - this isn't scary or even all that novel. What's scary is that people will treat it as if it is.

  21. thought you could only poke a friend ? by Brigadier · · Score: 2, Interesting

    I thought you could only poke a friend, which would mean they both agreed to add each other and thus allow interaction. If the facebook friendship was initiated before the initial court order wouldn't that require that it be ended by both parties and the act of keeping it would mean there was an agreement between both parties ? That's sorta like getting a restraining order and continuing to live with the person you had teh order againts.

    1. Re:thought you could only poke a friend ? by greyhueofdoubt · · Score: 5, Informative

      You can poke strangers as long as their profile is public, I just checked.

      -b

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  22. The obvious question? by atmurray · · Score: 2
    Wouldn't you BLOCK a person on facebook before getting a restraining order out on them? However, I don't disagree with this decision at all, and strongly agree with the previous comment:

    Yep, not really news. Would "Woman with a Restraining Order Against Her Arrested for Calling and Hanging Up" make the front page? Even "Woman with a Restraining Order Against Her Arrested for Texting" wouldn't raise any eyebrows.

    It's not newsworthy that a restraining order was violated. It's newsworthy that law enforcement are looking at the violation regardless of the communication channel. It's one more step towards realizing we don't need to create new laws with "e-this, or cyber-that" to have them apply to Internet traffic.

  23. Re:Duh, that's what a restraining order is by circletimessquare · · Score: 5, Funny

    I don't think you understand how many here understand mechanics way more than they understand sex.

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  24. Re: burden of proof / implications on free speech by Un+pobre+guey · · Score: 2, Insightful

    I agree completely. Forgery, blackmail, fraud, all have existed since time immemorial. It gets more sophisticated, but not fundamentally different.

  25. Re:Heavy-handed? by Zordak · · Score: 4, Insightful

    I don't think it's heavy-handed. You generally have to do some persistent and crazy stuff to get a restraining order, so nerves are already pretty raw. Think of it like walking up to somebody and giving them the finger right in their face. It's stupid and obnoxious in any case (and yes, I think the Facebook "Poke" feature is always stupid and obnoxious), but what might be a mildly annoying jab when directed at a good friend could be a much bigger deal when done by a crazy stalker, crazy ex-, or whatever. In other words, you made yourself a persistent nuisance. A judge ordered you to stop on threat of fine or imprisonment. Flouting that court order, you got on Facebook and "poke" your victim, essentially saying, "You're still on my radar." I don't think it's terribly heavy-handed to punish the offender according to the terms of the restraining order.

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  26. Re:Duh, that's what a restraining order is by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 2, Funny

    I understand quantum sex.
     
    No wait...

  27. Why is this news? by John+Hasler · · Score: 3, Insightful

    Such restraining orders may or may not be justified or reasonable, but she clearly violated the order. I don't see that the fact that a "Facebook poke" was involved is relevant.

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  28. Re:Duh, that's what a restraining order is by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 2, Insightful

    Shut up. You are annoying as hell.

  29. Make that Jail by ksemlerK · · Score: 2, Insightful

    ...up to a year in prison...

    More then 365 days = State Prison
    Less then 365 days = County Jail

    Jail is for pre-trial flight risks, and sentences which are less then one calander year. Less then 1 year, you stay in county lockup, more then that, and you're shipped off to the state pen. A weekend of incarceration is not prison, it's jail. It sucks, yes. But it's not prison. The bodily risk in my experience in county is very minimal, (don't start anything, and you'll be left alone). It's hours upon hours upon hours of sheer boredom, no tobacco, and no freedom, but your probably not going to end up somebody's bitch, or anything. You'll just be bored. Besides, if you behave, you can get work release, and be outside the walls for 10hrs a day. (or depending on the facility, be back before lockdown).

    Jail sucks, but it's not prison.

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  31. Sounds fair to me by WillAffleckUW · · Score: 2, Funny

    There are way too many poker-faced people who should be in the pokey for poking someone.

    That said, they should have forced her FB status update to read "In Prison For Breaking the Law" and changed her FB picture to be that of someone wearing an orange jumpsuit.

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  32. Re:all i have to say is by Valdrax · · Score: 2, Funny

    brb, jail

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  33. Re:Duh, that's what a restraining order is by genericpoweruser · · Score: 2, Funny

    Quantum sex you say? There's a app^Wcomic for that! http://www.smbc-comics.com/index.php?db=comics&id=1666

    (I'm not affiliated with them in any way--I just think the comics are funny, and that you might too)

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  34. The last of the true blue /.ers? by pongo000 · · Score: 2, Insightful

    I seem to be the only person here who doesn't get this "poking" business. In more ways than one, it would seem.

    1. Re:The last of the true blue /.ers? by dbIII · · Score: 2, Funny

      Well I thought it was about putting stuff at a memory address. Yet another bit of meaning overload.

  35. Re:Duh, that's what a restraining order is by dakameleon · · Score: 4, Funny

    I don't think you understand how many here understand mechanics way more than they understand sex.

    Great, more car metaphors.

    Well Timmy, when a daddy car and a mommy car love each other very much...

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  36. captain obvious here..... by gemada · · Score: 2, Insightful

    why wouldn't the pokee have just blocked the poker from even seeing their profile on Facebook before it reached this stage?

  37. Re:Duh, that's what a restraining order is by gid · · Score: 2, Funny

    Really, I don't even understand how two women can make love, unless they kind of scissor or something.

  38. Re:Duh, that's what a restraining order is by Dahamma · · Score: 3, Insightful

    This is slashdot, I bet more people thought "physics" than "cars"...

  39. Yes, it is communication. by rantingkitten · · Score: 4, Insightful

    It's not a meaningful message in the sense of a letter or phone call, but it's still a form of communication, yes, especially when viewed in the context of something like a restraining order, which says, in essence, "leave this person the hell alone". So while your "poke" on Facebook might not be the same as showing up at their door, it is still a deliberate, concious attempt at reminding the target that you are still watching them. That violates not only the letter but the spirit of a restraining order.

    Consider this. Let's say that instead of a "poke", the perp had instead placed a call to the victim's house and hung up after one ring. That kind of nonsense occurs all the time in these situations, and everyone pretty much agrees it is a form of harassment that violates the restraining order. The ring itself is exactly the same level of "communication" as the one-ring hang-up move -- it's a way of saying "I'm still here..."

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  40. Re: burden of proof / implications on free speech by Golddess · · Score: 3, Interesting

    Are they? Forget AC, lets say both people have accounts, but they don't know each other. Through random chance, the person with the restraining order against them happens upon the person they are to avoid contact with, and in various discussions they get into heated arguments. This goes on for a few weeks. Eventually, the second person realizes that the first person is someone that they got a restraining order against, while the first person remains oblivious who the second person is. So now what?

    I can certainly imagine what _should_ probably happen (second person informs the first person, _then_ if contact does not cease, the first person has violated the restraining order), but I'm finding it difficult to match that to a real life situation, so I can't imagine such a situation is already handled.

    Though.. I guess a possible real life analogue may be something like the first person writing a letter that appears in the local newspaper, with the second person writing a letter to the newspaper in response to that, going back and forth using the newspaper as the medium instead of /..

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  41. Re: burden of proof / implications on free speech by sumdumass · · Score: 4, Informative

    Most if not all restraining orders require a level of knowingly to be in violation. In other words, you need to prove your actions where completely innocent of being in violation of the order when happenstance places you in violation of the order. If you hang out somewhere where the protected person usually goes, then chances are, your not going to get away with it. However, if your shopping and happen to run into the person, then your obligated to correct anything that might be in violation. When the circumstances are outside of your control, like maybe you were in an auto accident and rushed to the same emergency room the other person might be at for different reasons, then it waits until you are able to control your own actions.

    What this means is that if the contact is unknowingly, then as soon as it's reasonably known or suspected, you have to take corrective actions to be in compliance with the order. So if two AC accounts or pseudonyms turn out to be in violation of the order and there is nothing to suggest it was intentional, they aren't technically in violation until one or the other figures it out. If it's the protected person who does it first, then the cops will inform the restrained, if it's the restrained who figures it out first, they have to cease any actions that would violate the order as soon as they are aware of it.

    This isn't really something new to E-law as it happens all the time in real life. Imagine how many times you randomly run into an ex somewhere when it isn't expected. Now imagine that Ex is the restrained person of a protective order who didn't do anything to cause the run in. It's actually that common outside some court order will list specific places where the person isn't allowed to go. I've seen them list places of employment, parks close to homes of protected people, schools, and so on when trolling court documents. Here is a site that explains a little more about them in my state. I have no reason to believe they word much differently in other states. That site deals mostly with domestic violence but it does have some input about when you find yourself in the same place as the restrained further down the page.

  42. Re: burden of proof / implications on free speech by Scarletdown · · Score: 3, Funny

    Does teabagging in Halo violate the restraining order?

    Or what about teabagging in City of Heroes?

    http://i4.photobucket.com/albums/y129/Scarletdown/COH/COH-Teabag.jpg

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  43. Re:Duh, that's what a restraining order is by muckracer · · Score: 5, Funny

    > I understand quantum sex.

    Me too! With my eyes closed I have the most awesome sex ever with gorgeous women but the moment I look I'm all alone :-/

  44. Re:I don't agree with the consensus! by Eivind · · Score: 2, Insightful

    The most common reason for restraining orders is harassment and/or abuse. It's a judge saying: You leave that person the hell alone, or face the consequences.

    And a wink, a smile, or a wave sure as hell counts as communication in this context, as do calling the victim and hanging up after one ring and a million other ways of harassing someone.

    The part which you're missing is that though a wink, or a poke, or a wave, doesn't by itself contain a lot of communication, if someone who has a history of harassing or abusing you, persist in showing up in your life, despite being ORDERED by a judge to stop doing that, it sure as hell is harassment. And the judge sure as hell is correct in slapping that kind of behaviour down with whatever punishment seems appropriate.

  45. POKE 788,52 by Gunstick · · Score: 2, Funny

    c64 rules!

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  46. Re:Duh, that's what a restraining order is by drsmithy · · Score: 4, Informative

    Really, I don't even understand how two women can make love, unless they kind of scissor or something.

    Exactly. There's other options too.