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Student Banned From Minnesota Campus Over Facebook Comments

Be careful just how you vent online is the lesson from this story pointed out by reader kungfugleek, from which he excerpts: "A University of Minnesota student has been banned from the Twin Cities campus after three of her instructors felt threatened by some of her Facebook postings. Amanda Tatro was patted down and questioned by campus police when she got to class Monday. The 29-year-old mortuary science student had posted comments on her Facebook page after breaking up with her boyfriend. She told her Facebook friends she wanted to stab a 'certain someone in the throat' with an embalming instrument. Tatro said she was 'looking forward to Monday's embalming therapy.' When the instructors learned of the postings, they contacted police." The Star-Tribune's account offers more detail.

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  1. My god. by alexborges · · Score: 4, Insightful

    What the fuck is it that you american's live in such state of paranoia?

    Yes, I understand that you guys have had some gruesome stuff happen at schools and all, but some dark and frustrated writing on a wall is no threat at all. Man, if Nietzche or Sartre studied in today's america, or even burroughs or kerouac, they'd be behind bars by now.

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    1. Re:My god. by girlintraining · · Score: 4, Insightful

      What the fuck is it that you american's live in such state of paranoia?

      Relentless public announcements that we should accept our neighbor and be considerate of each other's differences. It's to the point now where people can't even make self-deprecating comments about their own race or sex without being fired for being racist or sexist. Jokes have become illegal. We've made negative feelings essentially taboo -- you can't express anger, dissatisfaction, or anything but sunshine and kittens.

      The laws of thermodynamics also loosely apply to social problems: In this case, the rate at which negative emotions are created hasn't changed, but the available space they exist within has been constrained. This has led to a rise in pressure and temperature. Naturally, leaks develop, which result in high pressure discharges into the relative vaccum of positive emotions, which are suspiciously absent right now due to an economic turndown, a lack of socialization amongst our peers (due to the constant fear of them), and so yeah...

      We've made it illegal to cry tears, and so... some have started to cry bullets. I'm sorry to say, America -- but life is shit. We need to square with that and be honest. A few more fuck you's and honest brawls between people would do us all a lot of good. Yes, I'm advocating violence here -- because a few punches in the face is a lot easier to get over than a few bullets in the back.

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    2. Re:My god. by interkin3tic · · Score: 5, Insightful

      What the fuck is it that you american's live in such state of paranoia?

      Better question: what the fuck is up with everyone else besides Americans assuming that one or two school officials in isolated incidents means ALL americans are paranoid? I'm not paranoid. Had I been a school administrator, I wouldn't have done shit about this. Maybe I would have e-mailed the dude and told him that no matter how cool his ex said she was, he should not come to her embalming class "just to practice."

      I happen to not be the administrator though.

      Some parents are irrational about school safety, but that's a universal. Every country has parents overreacting to isolated incidents. Japan is one of the safest countries, school children can ride the subways on their own many places. I remember hearing about a suicide at shinjuku subway station, and reading opinion articles by parents saying they were thinking about not letting their children ride the subway anymore because they might see someone commit suicide. Based on one incident. That's overreacting. These weren't American parents either.

      If americans are paranoid more than anyone else, it's about lawsuits. The administration in question was probably being overly cautious in this case not because they suspected the woman would do anything, but to cover their own ass on the extreme off chance that she did, they wouldn't want to get sued.

      Speaking as someone who has been sued for $300,000 for a skiing accident involving nothing more than a torn ACL, THAT fear isn't completely irrational.

    3. Re:My god. by Hijacked+Public · · Score: 4, Insightful

      Certainly more than 1 person is inconvenienced, since events like these further discourage expression of similar thoughts.

      From my perspective the question is whether or not these types of actions actually make anyone safer. Since we've implemented zero tolerance policies; started kicking students out of school for expressing darker thoughts;began monitoring their activities outside school...are students any safer than before?

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    4. Re:My god. by lena_10326 · · Score: 4, Insightful

      Americans are a bunch of knee jerky reactionists that really are about as dense as a brick of lead, and that's coming from an American

      Self & group deprecation won't win you friends across the pond. Also, piling on isn't constructive.

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    5. Re:My god. by Moridineas · · Score: 4, Insightful

      I can understand that you didn't RTFA, but not even reading the summary?! Really?! From the top:

      The 29-year-old mortuary science student ...

      Secondly, perhaps this is an example of stupid people with a knee jerk reaction, or perhaps these people who actually KNOW the woman in real life have a little more reason to be concerned? You and I know absolutely nothing about this woman or the teachers (beyond what's in the article...oh wait) and it's just so easy to make kneejerk reactions without knowing the facts.

    6. Re:My god. by Foolicious · · Score: 4, Funny

      I apologize for the generalization. Its wrong on my part, as you justly point out.

      Hmmm...you must be new here...

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    7. Re:My god. by IICV · · Score: 4, Insightful

      Tatro said she was 'looking forward to Monday's embalming therapy

      Is reason enough to be concerned.

      A mortuary science student looking forward to her class on Monday is reason enough to be concerned?

    8. Re:My god. by IamGarageGuy+2 · · Score: 5, Funny

      I am very interested in your ideas and would like to subscribe to your newsletter.

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    9. Re:My god. by BarryJacobsen · · Score: 4, Insightful

      Yes, I understand that you guys have had some gruesome stuff happen at schools and all, but some dark and frustrated writing on a wall is no threat at all.

      So you acknowledge this bad stuff happens.

      Can you acknowledge that it can be prevented?

      I would much rather a student be banned from 1 school for Emo behavior then having them run amock and killing several students.

      Seriously, get you're head out of where its stuck. People could have been killed. 1 Person is inconvenienced.

      Outlined are two scenarios. Which of these two is MORE likely to cause a violent incident at school?

      1) A girl was dumped then had a private meeting with school administrators showing genuine concern
      2) A girl was dumped and then kicked out of and humiliated by a school

    10. Re:My god. by girlintraining · · Score: 4, Insightful

      The teachers were worried about violence not about a joke.

      The teachers had nothing to do with this. the administration was worried about getting their asses sued if that 0.1% chance that the student acted on the stated impulses. It looks very bad in this political climate to advocate a reasonable position like "it did not seem like a credible threat." That statement does not protect a person or group from millions in lawsuit damages, or in legal fees. It's easier to throw the baby out with the bath water.

      It was a joke-- A morbid joke, a joke in bad taste, and possibly it could even be said that the person who made the comment had a serious lapse of judgement, but it was still a joke. Why? Because I've said things like that during finals week, which is exactly what this poor girl did! It's not like she's sitting at home polishing her gun and muttering "the time of purification is at hand" over and over again and has a date circled on the calendar or anything. She is a young adult who was frustrated with academic life. zomfg.

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    11. Re:My god. by merreborn · · Score: 4, Insightful

      Typically I'd agree with you, but this statement here...

      "Tatro said she was 'looking forward to Monday's embalming therapy"

      Is reason enough to be concerned. When some kind of school shooting happens, there is typically a message before hand. Sure, you can shrug off the "I wana cuta bitch" but when you make statements like the one posted above, there needs to be some kind of action.

      Let's take for granted that "When some kind of school shooting happens, there is typically a message before hand". That does not, in any way, imply that every time you encounter such a "message", there's a statistically significant chance that a violent act will follow.

      In fact, most people will agree that most "threats" of this nature do *not* result in violent acts. There thousands, if not millions of "threats" like these, uttered idly every day -- a simple hyperbolic expression of frustration. Meanwhile, school shootings happen a handful of times a year, at worst.

      Similarly, I can guarantee that almost every school shooter will have imbibed some form of liquid before committing their heinous crimes. It does not follow that everyone who has a drink with their breakfast is going to shoot up their school.

      "A usually precedes B" does not necessarily mean "A has occurred, therefor B MUST occur."
      It doesn't even necessarily mean "A has occurred, therefor B is even 1% likely to occur".

    12. Re:My god. by feepness · · Score: 5, Funny

      I apologize for the generalization. Its wrong on my part, as you justly point out.

      That's okay. All you Europeans do it.

    13. Re:My god. by PhreakOfTime · · Score: 5, Insightful
      and started running the school even more like a prison.

      Dont worry, It hasnt occurred to anyone that running a school like a prison in the FIRST place, might be a problem.

      The adults who make these rules honestly believe every problem has something to do with anything but themselves.

    14. Re:My god. by AlamedaStone · · Score: 4, Insightful

      She told her Facebook friends she wanted to stab a "certain someone in the throat" with an embalming instrument."

      That's a threat.

      If you say that to a close friend who can see your face and judge your affect, they would understand that you are not going to follow through.

      If you post it up on a web page without any context, people are forced to consider the possibility that you're about to go postal.

      And the only responsible thing to do at that point is call the police and ban her from campus.

      Oh wait. That's insane. Make a phone call, have a counselor sit down with her. Lesson learned, and they aren't giving a student a criminal record for blowing off steam by shooting her mouth off.

      This shit really gets under my skin. The school had every "right" to do what they did, but the actions they chose were the most destructive ones they had available to them.

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    15. Re:My god. by GrumblyStuff · · Score: 4, Insightful

      The 29-year-old mortuary science student ...

      Just because someone ages, doesn't mean they grow up.

    16. Re:My god. by eldavojohn · · Score: 4, Informative

      This shit really gets under my skin. The school had every "right" to do what they did, but the actions they chose were the most destructive ones they had available to them.

      Before you let shit get under your skin, you should really read the article:

      Police are not filing charges and consider the matter closed, U spokesman Daniel Wolter said by e-mail. Privacy law prevents the U from commenting on the specifics of Tatro's case, but Wolter said that "in a case such as this, the case is typically referred to our Office for Student Conduct and Academic Integrity, which will interview the student, review evidence and make some kind of finding."

      Emphasis mine. Sounds kind of like they're doing what you suggested. She's banned until they're more comfortable with her presence (reasonable) and she was patted down because they couldn't exactly prevent her from showing up for class. The problem was that this isn't like high school, they can't immediately get her into a room with a counselor first thing. So it sounds like they banned her until she undergoes counseling. I suppose she has the option to comply or remain banned.

      How is that destructive? If you think that's the "most destructive" you are dead wrong. They could have pressed charges, voided her transcript, not offered to counsel her, etc. In fact they won't even give official word on the counseling to protect her privacy. It really sounds like they have her's and the teacher's best interests and safety in mind.

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    17. Re:My god. by girlintraining · · Score: 5, Insightful

      This will serves as an example to others. She doesn't own the campus and getting tossed therefrom isn't different than being fired for cause by an employer.

      First, I'm not sure it's the example we want to set. Second, unlike being fired -- she's got thousands, maybe tens of thousands, of student loans now that she owes and possibly no way to complete her degree. She may need to start over if those credits aren't transferable. Also, she didn't say this in the classroom. She said it in a semi-public forum, and if it was a credible threat, where are the police?

      Because if she isn't charged with a crime, she's being punished for something that is apparently completely legal to do in public -- and being punished for doing so. Is that the lesson we want to teach? That someone merely needs to be offended to visit personal hardship and grief on their head?

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  2. Profile as private? by overlordofmu · · Score: 5, Funny

    I always make sure I am an anonymous coward (or at least have my facebook status to private) before I make my homicidal feelings known.

    By the way, I am gonna get all you suckers!!!!

  3. I think the question is... by DotNM · · Score: 5, Insightful

    I think the question is if written comments like that should be construed as threats, or more like a journal where you'd just write for yourself. I'm also wondering if there's any other evidence that anyone on campus was targetted. The ban should have been lifted after the full story was found out.

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  4. stupid by girlintraining · · Score: 5, Funny

    Morticians have a morbid sense of humor? SAY IT AIN'T SO! *face palm*

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  5. Silly. by TaggartAleslayer · · Score: 5, Funny

    This whole thing makes me want to beat someone in the face with a keyboard. I'm looking forward to Tomorrow's "development therapy".

    No, I actually mean I'm going to qwerty some bitches foreheads here. Sorry for any confusion.

    1. Re:Silly. by TheCreeep · · Score: 4, Funny

      Don't you mean you're" going to ytrewq some bitches foreheads"?

  6. Modern times by fastest+fascist · · Score: 5, Insightful

    A society that expects a group of people to judge the actions of other people, but is too large to allow these people to know each other well enough to be able to make such judgement combined with an increasing amount of private information being publicly communicated = recipe for trouble.

  7. never a good plan by farble1670 · · Score: 4, Insightful

    threatening to kill someone publicly is never a good idea.

  8. Will people learn to watch what's said online? by Kyrene · · Score: 4, Insightful

    Yes, she was upset and "venting" but what you put on the Net stays on the Net. I always treat EVERYTHING I post online as public and manage my words with care, as they may come to haunt me someday. It's a shame. What she needed was to be forced to attend counseling, not have her entire college career ruined. But maybe people will learn from her mistake.

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    1. Re:Will people learn to watch what's said online? by Chees0rz · · Score: 5, Insightful

      It's a shame. What she needed was to be forced to attend counseling, not have her entire college career ruined. But maybe people will learn from her mistake.

      Learn what? Last time I checked, saying "I want to stab someone in the throat" is different from:
      a. Stabbing someone in the throat
      b. Threatening to stab someone in the throat
      c. Planning to stab someone in the throat
      d. Having any intentions of stabbing someone in the throat, at all
      e. Being capable of stabbing someone in the throat


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    2. Re:Will people learn to watch what's said online? by TaggartAleslayer · · Score: 4, Funny

      Indeed. Words are our most precious form of expression. Even the most well intentioned statement can be ruined by one penis misspoken or mistyped word.

  9. Re:Threats are threats by TheLostSamurai · · Score: 4, Insightful

    Threats are threats.

    Yup, sounds about right.

    Next topic, please!

    I believe saying I want to is quite different from saying I'm going to.

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  10. For whatever reason? by Deosyne · · Score: 4, Insightful

    "For whatever reason, this professor took it personally."

    Hrm, was it the part about stabbing, "a certain someone in the throat with a trocar," or maybe the part about spending, "the evening updating my 'Death List #5' and making friends with the crematory guy," all in the context of, "looking forward to Monday's embalming therapy?" And yet the dumb bitch actually doesn't get it. Being pissy is one thing, making very specific public remarks about killing someone and disposing of the body, on the other hand, pretty much guarantees a visit by the po-po, and not to pat you on your angsty little head and tell you it's going to be OK.

  11. A good life lesson for her by Dutch+Gun · · Score: 5, Insightful

    Consider this one to grow on, Amanda. Don't publicly threaten to stab others in the throat with an embalming knife. It makes people nervous.

    According to the article, the Ms. Tatro complained that for whatever reason, the professor was "taking it personally". Excuse me? She was talking very explicitly about her "Death List #5" and what exactly she would do with her very sharp instrument the following Monday in class.

    How is a professor to know who is "just ranting" and who might be mentally unbalanced? I say, a prudent move by the prof.

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  12. Re:Threats are threats by Buelldozer · · Score: 5, Insightful

    Yes, but how do you know the difference?

    At Columbine and Virginia Tech the perpetrators had made public statements like this and it was blown off by the authorities.

    What if had happened in THIS case? I'll tell you what, "The Authorities", would have been publicly eviscerated for "ignoring the clear warning signs that this student was disturbed and homicidal".

    So if you're in Authority you're damned if you do and damned if you don't! In the end the only safe way is to err on the side of caution and have the situation checked out.

  13. Re:mortuary science? by CannonballHead · · Score: 5, Funny

    On the contrary, I'd say it's quite the active field; people are dying to get in.

  14. OK, message received! by earlymon · · Score: 4, Funny

    As anyone here ever subject to a break-up can attest, the ex will always want to kill you, certainly at least for the first week.

    (Regardless of cause, or who did or said what, or who initiated it - and regardless that this is /. and I must be new here.)

    So, today's lesson is simple - always date girls attending school in Minnesota.

    The negative press she'll receive after her tirade will have you mercy-dating as the good guy in no time!

    As Homer likes to say - SWISH!

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  15. Re:Because death threats are illegal and a felony by amiga3D · · Score: 4, Insightful

    I can understand not being able to say "I'm going to kill you." I'm not so sure that "I would like to kill you," is the same thing.

  16. Re:Because death threats are illegal and a felony by DJRumpy · · Score: 4, Insightful

    Understandable, but the information in the second link (yes I know I should never read TFA) seems a bit more threatening.

    "told her Facebook friends that she was "looking forward to Monday's embalming therapy. ... Give me room, lots of aggression to be taken out with a trocar [a sharp surgical instrument used in embalming]."

    Now she's banned from campus because three instructors in the mortuary science program felt threatened after being made aware of her Facebook posts, prompting a police investigation.

    According to the police report, Amanda Tatro, 29, followed her first posting with one that read: "I still want to stab a certain someone in the throat with a trocar though. Hmmm ... perhaps I will spend the evening updating my 'Death List #5' and making friends with the crematory guy. I do know the code ..."

    If you are a student or a teacher at such a university, wouldn't you rather they err on the side of caution? At least until an investigation is completed?

  17. Re:Because death threats are illegal and a felony by sonnejw0 · · Score: 4, Informative

    Exactly. The instructor should take her aside while in class and say something like "I heard someone mention your facebook status, if you need anyone to talk to let me know and I can help or find someone that can help. Facebook is a public place, though, and in this day and age anything can be interpreted in many different ways so be careful what you post."

  18. Re:Because death threats are illegal and a felony by sonnejw0 · · Score: 4, Informative

    Oh, and she was learning to become a mortician? Of course she uses dark humor!

  19. Re:Because death threats are illegal and a felony by pnewhook · · Score: 4, Insightful

    I think people need to realize that when they post stuff online, that it is the 'real world' and not a virtual world where actions don't matter.

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  20. Re:Because death threats are illegal and a felony by Anachragnome · · Score: 4, Interesting

    Actually, no, it hasn't.

    When I was in High School, the campus had an open layout. DOZENS of entrances to dozens of buildings. Completely impossible to put metal detectors in every entrance because every classroom was a separate building.

    We also had a smoking section.

    In short, the school trusted their students, even to the point of allowing them to make their own informed decisions regarding smoking.

    Now, with Columbine in the mix, would I have felt safer with all the metal detectors, cameras, etc in place?

    FUCK no. If something similar had happened at my High School, I would have had dozens of EXITS to get away from any danger. Instead, today, we have High Schools that are basically a trap for anyone caught inside during such an attack. Now, attackers only have to cover a couple exits to keep their victims from escaping.

  21. Re:Because death threats are illegal and a felony by FiloEleven · · Score: 4, Interesting

    Which obvious signs are you referring to? We are inundated as a society with killing. Movies, TV, news, video games, music, even the fucking opera is usually about killing. So now we're unstable when we parrot all these horrible things that we see every/hear day? You're not unstable if you watch killing, but you are unstable if you write about it...

    Your last sentence is the most important one. What has changed most is the medium. Before people felt the need to express themselves at near-strangers using text, a medium notoriously bad at correctly conveying emotion without a lot of hard work, talent, and luck, the sort of outbursts unearthed from TFA by DJRumpy would have been delivered passionately, in person, amongst friends. The friends, seeing the outburst delivered in such a rich medium, and having a good working knowledge of this woman's personality, would in the vast majority of cases easily discern whether she was seriously disturbed and dangerous or only blowing off steam.

    Contrast that with a Facebook post that shows little more than text on a page. Facebookers are willing to friend just about anyone they barely recognize, and that goes double for college campuses. These people, and the teachers and authorities later alerted to the post, have little to no frame of reference in which to place the comments made. We as a whole tend to be cautious when it comes to strangers, and when the only data are a few notes threatening attack, the stakes are high.

    I'm approaching my late twenties and like many of you grew up online. To me those posts barely register because I've seen and used such expression enough to understand the medium and the likelihood that she's just blowing off steam. Still, by posting that content in that context, it's also obvious to me that her risk of bringing the wrong sort of attention to herself is also high. This looks to be just another case of someone who doesn't understand the privacy ramifications of putting her information online.