Facebook Adds Friend Stalker Tool
nk497 writes "Facebook has added a new tool that brings together conversations and photos between friends onto a single page, but — as usual — has crossed the creepy line. Not only does clicking the See Friendship tool let users view photos, comments and events shared between themselves and their friend, it also offers a search tool to do the same between any two mutual friends, making it easy to see everything any two people have ever said to each other Facebook. As usual, the site should have tested the function out on their users first, with one saying: 'I've always wanted this! And yes, I'm a creepy stalker.' Also, as usual for Facebook, all users are automatically opted in, and there's currently no obvious way to turn it off."
of reasons not to use Facebook.
As if you needed more.
Sweet, this will make it much easier to jump to conclusions about which of my friends are secretly bumpin' uglies
If this information was already extant, and this functionality is just an aggregation and compilation of said extant data, then there is no problem. No new information is being provided: public information has simply been correlated, something any person could do on their own at any point prior.
Making already legally accessible data more readable is not in any way wrong. Anyone who fears or is angry about this is in for a shock over the next decade or so as technology reveals all sorts of already public things about them, and younger generations simply won't care.
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Here's a helpful Venn diagram for people who still aren't sure:
http://graphjam.memebase.com/2010/10/25/funny-graphs-never-forget/
"Always forgive your enemies; nothing annoys them so much." - Oscar Wilde
Well duh. If you don't want your friends seeing who you're talking to, either don't friend them, or change your privacy settings so that they can't read your wall posts etc. Otherwise they have exactly the same information already available, just in a slightly less convenient format.
Sure it's a little creepy, but you already see a lot of this stuff on the main updates page anyway, this is just making it more comprehensive.
which is totally what she said
What else can you expect from a datamining company.
Stop blaming facebook!
They're merely capitalising on the realities of the relationships that we give them. Blaming them each and every time a new feature is added that is simple common sense and intelligent programming/design/utilisation of the information we permit they use is childish; if we didn't use these tools then they wouldn't feel obliged to innovate and refresh their featureset.
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Why the worry about your "friends" doing stalker-ish things to you? Didn't you accept their request (or they yours) based on some level of familiarity and/or trust? It's not strangers watching you. It's people you agreed to let into your little online life.
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Personally I think it jumped the shark about two months ago.
I rarely look at it.
I've filtered out about half my "friends" because if I wanted to know what they had on their toast this morning I'd sign up for twitter and follow their stupid tweets.
Delete your Facebook account like I did. Although I'll admit that the first week of not knowing what crops my friends were growing was a little hard on me..
I'm as big of a facebook hater as the next guy, but it seems like Slashdot's favourite pastime is getting on a social network for being, well, social.
If their inference is that facebook should become an antisocial network, I think Slashdot honestly has that market segment covered pretty well already.
I normally agree with slashdot... but this article protreys this in WAY to negative of light. FB has screwed up in the past, but just because it releases a new feature does not mean that it instantly violated privacy of its users. As I understand it, you can only view this page if you have permissions any ways.... so basically.... its just moving everything onto one page. Hardly a stalker tool if the info was already there, you just had to look
...doesn't anybody remember the 'See wall-to-wall' feature? It would simply display a mashup of all of the wallposts between two mutual friends.
I believe it was ditched after comments were implemented, as it was initially difficult to go back and forth between friends walls to read a conversation.
And as usual, Facebook is discussed as if it weren't opt-in. There are plenty of other ways of communicating with people.
And if do or say anything that you are ashamed for(or will be ashamed for in some years), you should not have done it in the first place.
And don't forget advertisers already have this information available to make better targeted ads, so this only equals the balance.
Oh, and don't forget thefacebook really cares about what privacy is.
To paraphrase Dr. Ian Malcolm (Jeff Goldbloom): "Yeah, but your programmers were so preoccupied with whether or not they could, they didn't stop to think if they should."
I call it 'The Aristocrats'
People need to be aware that Facebook is hardly anything more than a modern version of Geocities without the ability for it's users to violate the Geneva Convention with exceptionally bad Webdesign. It adds in a little tools that enable linking and conecting for total webdev-n00bs and makes it attractive to use your real name and real contact data, as it has amassed users in ways never seen before. Mostly due to the aforementioned n00by-friendlyness.
Whenever I search someone online, their Facebook entiry pops up first, if they have one. That should hint where Facebook is headed.
Bottom line: If it's on Facebook, it's public. In more ways even than it would be if you'd post it on some obscure website that hasn't been scanned by the searchbots yet. If you behave accordingly, you won't be too surprised whenever something like this happens.
We suffer more in our imagination than in reality. - Seneca
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ws: Facebook Adds Friend Stalker Tool
Gosh, within one line, asking people to join Facebook and then yet the Xth article about how dangerous facebook is for your privacy.
We know this, but we don't care because we care more about our friend count.
Facebook is a nudist colony. Fine if you want to air your tonker but then don't complain people can see it. You can't share all your personal details withour your personal details ending up shared.
I wonder how people who use Facebook and complain about privacy go through life in general:
Omg! I bought this phone with a subscription, but now I do the math I actually end up paying much more for the phone! How can this be?
Oh no, I bought this gadget with monthy payments and now the payments are more then the original price, why!
I borrowed money for my house, now the bank thinks it owns it. Why didn't anyone tell me!
I streaked naked down the high street, now people are claiming they saw me! I didn't know that what I do in public can be seen by others!
I gave a full confession to a cop and now they using it against me in a court of law! Won't someone safe me!
If you do NOT want everyone on facebook to see what you do, don't use facebook. It ain't hard. It is not an essential product. Billions life happy lives without it. You can too. And the first person to claim that it allows them to keep in touch with friends they never bothered to keep in touch with before I will beat until they learn the difference between a friend, a distant aquintance and a stranger.
MMO Quests are like orgasms:
You may solo them, I prefer them in a group.
To reference an episode of Seinfeld...
GEORGE: Ah you have no idea of the magnitude of this thing. If she is allowed to infiltrate this world, then George Costanza as you know him, Ceases to Exist! You see, right now, I have Relationship George, but there is also Independent George. That’s the George you know, the George you grew up with — Movie George, Coffee shop George, Liar George, Bawdy George.
JERRY: I, I love that George.
GEORGE: Me Too! And he’s Dying Jerry! If Relationship George walks through this door, he will Kill Independent George! A George, divided against itself, Cannot Stand!
People on Facebook could always see posts between mutual friends (Wall-to-Wall, anyone?). This just expands and cleans up the feature that's always been in place.
Nothing to see here, move along.
That's the whole point. I've tried to turn off some of those features, but there's no way to turn off separate features on facebook. You can't block people from seeing what you comment about on other people's walls without preventing people from commenting on your own wall. I would like to be able to have more control over what I'm sharing and with whom. This takes it to a whole new level. And for all the "don't use facebook then" replies, that's not possible. It's the only option available to be able to communicate with all of my family members on a frequent basis due to some of them being in different countries.
Learn to use the privacy settings or go fuck yourself.
Troll? Maybe. Correct? You know I am.
That's not a link. That's a link to a link. Please label properly next time!
It's a pain to turn off all the default features that facebook conveniently opts-in for you. By WHY should we have to?
He who knows best knows how little he knows. - Thomas Jefferson
You can turn it off in the registry:
HKEY_FACEBOOK\Erxyngf
Clear bit #7 at byte offset 976 in the REG_BINARY value Ftavggrf.
Reboot your face browser.
You could always just not be on Facebook -- that strategy has been working just fine for me. I am still in touch with my family, I am still in touch with my friends, and I still get invited to parties.
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Again Facebook does something unbelievably stupid and further cements my position that I will never, ever sign up with them.
Diaspora and Appleseeds are going about it the wrong way. We don't need a piece of software to get from them in order to social networking to go public. We need a public spec. A whitepaper that describes the input and output the system should have, so anyone can write their own software that conforms to that specification. And submit it to the W3C.
If they want social networking to be more like email, then that's the way it needs to go.
Technoli
If you are still on Facebook, you are there with full knowledge of what you got yourself into. I am so fucking tired of this "wash me but don't make me wet" attitude.
Im usually critical to facebook, and how "respectful" is to users, and would be screaming because of this one if werent quitted it a year ago. But the trend in something as big as facebook have a potential.. What if facebook and their "bad according with our culture" privacy measures instead of making a mass exodus of users actually do a big change on the global culture around that? I mean, IS already doing changes in our culture, in most countries (maybe except north korea and a few others), but usually taking the way of lesser resistence, but what about harder to do changes?
Internet is a disruptive technology, is making changes in our civilization and culture, some of them facing resistence (i.e. *AA, patents and copyright groups) and some not. And some popular enough sites (from google to 4chan) are doing its share of changing us. But what if they move us to dangerous waters? Things could get worse than mothers killing their kids because don't let them playing Farmville.
you don't get to post things on the internet, and then complain when people see it on the internet
if you don't want people to see something DON'T POST IT ON THE INTERNET
because the fine level of control you desire: "only this person, at this time, in this context, can see this piece of info" is a nonstarter, because it takes 10x more time and effort to define the context of the info you are sharing than it takes to post the info. there is no better way to completely and utterly destroy the pleasure of a social life than weighing it down with such weighty micromanagement
so just don't post the info! no one is going to micromanage their social lives to the point where no information is leaked in the wrong context, mainly because people aren't machiavellian supergeniuses with omnipotent future sight to know every miniscule fine grain social context in which their information is not being told to someone they didn't want that info told to
the better solution is far simpler: SHUT UP and DON'T POST. or post freely and talk freely, AND GIVE UP YOUR RIGHT TO COMPLAIN ABOUT MISUSE. that's really your only choices
the control you seek starts with your mouth, or your keyboard. blaming facebook is just shifting responsibility and personal accountability away from you when things go wrong because you weren't discreet
intellectual property law is philosophically incoherent. it is your moral duty to ignore it or sabotage it
It's starting to look that way.
I disagree. You should still have done it, just get over your shame. Hatera are jealous because they never get invited to orgies involving transvestite strippers and rottweilers.
Exactly what I'm been waiting for; more interesting ways to find out about trivial and mildly interesting things that people I barely know are doing and for them to do the same to me. See you on FB, guys.
Signed,
The last man on Earth not (quite yet) on Facebook
Hehe. From the very beginning, I used Facebook only for stalking my friends. I have only the barest minimum of contact information on my profile, and nothing else. And the people I don't want to share my barest minimum of contact information with? I don't friend them, whee!
I for one, love any new features that let me stalk people easier. People who are concerned about this sort of thing lost all their privacy years ago anyway, because they're dumb.
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Remember when Facebook used to have a Wall to Wall feature? You know, you'd be able to click on someone's post on your wall, and then you'd see every wall post either of you had ever made to each other. I'm pretty sure you could use it on two friends, but this was a while ago and I can't quite remember. I also believe they removed the feature when they added comments on wall posts. If they didn't they sure hid it from me.
Now we have the See Friendship tool. It does... the same thing, pretty much, perhaps a little more extensively. Essentially you're all complaining about Facebook adding a feature they removed earlier out of redundancy. Do you have a right to complain? Yeah, of course you do. However, if you were fine with that feature before, don't you think it's a little hypocritical to criticize Facebook for putting it back in now, just because it's shiny and "new"?
I guess Zuckerberg was sick on the day they taught the software development lifecycle.
You don't mind if details of your sexual encounters were shared with all your friends and family?
Sounds great, where can I sign up? Oh wait...
Facebook implements a new feature and within seconds is turned into a glaring privacy violation tool. The silence of no one being surprised is positively defeaning.
Creepy, creepy /.
. It's the only option available to be able to communicate with all of my family members on a frequent basis due to some of them being in different countries.
Which is clearly utter bullshit.
Use email. Use online forums. Use the phone. Use a fucking boat, your legs and your physical presence.
There have never in human history been a broader set of options and opportunities to communicate with geographically dispersed people, so pretending you absolutely must use Facebook or you'll be cut off forever (and lose your inheritance) stands out as being the complete tosh it clearly is.
Hasn't this been around the whole time as "Wall to Wall"? I remember there used to be links where you could see a "Wall to Wall" conversation between yourself and your friends, and you could change the PID in the URL to other mutual friends and see conversations between them. I envisioned making an app to basically do the same with an interface....I thought it would help in searching for conversations. There currently is no good search tool for stuff on facebook as far as I know. For example, I'll remember having someone post a link to me, or mentioning something in a comment but I have no way of finding that. If I could view all of the history between them and myself, I could at least ctrl-f for it.
Good to see Facebook making this easier!
You can't block people from seeing what you comment about on other people's walls without preventing people from commenting on your own wall.
Actually I completely agree about that being annoying. The way the privacy settings are worded is rather poor. I thought I had simply disabled people from seeing my posts to friends' walls (ie the friends that they aren't friends with), but I think it just disabled people from being able to post on my wall.
You could create a private group for only your family and post all your pics etc up there?
which is totally what she said
I think this should be enabled by default on all friends, and then take time to configure it
for those whom you do not want this to be on, I think would be the safest bet.
Cool, a facebook bashing thread. I thought I was going to have to go a day on slashdot without one.
Billions of dollars are not being made off my info. If they're extremely lucky, just enough money is being made off my info to pay for the service.
Given the aggressive AdblockPlus settings and Greasemonkey scripts I have, they sure as hell aren't making much in advertising.
Guess what? Shit ain't free! Don't like it, stfu and don't use it.
It's official. Most of you are morons.
So, you monitor your mom from her basement?
Because you're using their service and they get to choose how the default state is? Don't whine about something you're voluntarily using and have the option to stop immediately.
It's a pain to turn off all the default features that facebook conveniently opts-in for you. By WHY should we have to?
Because Facebook is *for* sharing information. The less you share, the less useful it is. Yes, I am interested in photographs taken of my friends by friends of theirs that I haven't met. Yes, I'm happy for them to see similar photos of me. Yes, I want to converse in comment threads with friends-of-friends.
If the default FB privacy settings were very tight, most people would not find the site useful. Not enough people would delve into the settings and open them up. Most people would try it, find little of interest, and never visit again.
It's the openness that attracts people to the site.
People who are concerned about this sort of thing lost all their privacy years ago anyway, because they're dumb.
I think you have just hit the nail on the head. The thing that's been annoying me whenever people whine about this stuff, yet they are the ones who have shared all this information in the first place, and continue to do so, then get affronted when everyone else can see it. I find it really hard to put into words sometimes how stupid it all is, but you have said it perfectly.
I've even traced the life story of an AC on Slashdot (who jeered my "easily trackable" Slashdot account, despite me not using this nick anywhere else) just by using the initials they signed at the bottom of their AC posts..
which is totally what she said
Data aggregation attacks http://books.google.com/books?id=Y9sCjLBKtzgC&pg=PA258&lpg=PA258&dq=classified+data+aggregation&source=bl&ots=bJ55DKAE7w&sig=s53j8mXqwAYQFH4-IJA1SgyYDgY&hl=en&ei=leDKTPHCGoT68AbZr6nHAQ&sa=X&oi=book_result&ct=result&resnum=3&ved=0CCMQ6AEwAjgU#v=onepage&q=classified%20data%20aggregation&f=false are a genuine threat and one of the reasons the military objects to Wikileaks release of classified documents which per document contain no information that would appear to merit being classified. (grr, the civilian population was a lot better educated about the existence of aggregation attacks when we were fighting in WW I and WW II).
The issue here is not that Facebook has automated aggregation of the data you have permission to access. The real issue is that Facebook does not provide the ability (or makes it functionally inaccessible) to apply proper, fine-grained, access permissions to the data you share with any one person.
Why bother....
Getting real time stats on how well the trap works is double the fun.
20 clicks so far...
Oh come on now, Facebook has always been a stalker's paradise. A stalker will meticulously look at someone's profile anyway - how does this help them? They're gonna see everything their "stalkee" posts already.
This only really a helps stalkers stalking multiple people - that way they can see all the juicy details both stalkees are saying to each other
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HA-ha-ha-ha-haha-hahahaha-haha-hahahaha, NO !
If Facebook users didn't deserve this, they wouldn't be using Facebook.
Knowledge is power; knowledge shared is power lost.
As one of my friends likes to say, changing the name Echelon to Facebook was the most successful rebranding exercise ever.
Nostalgia's not what it used to be.
I remember when everybody started yelling when the phone books were first being put onto CD-ROMs
For justice, we must go to Don Corleone
Hey this is slashdot. I bet most sexual encounters are with their family.
America, Home of the Brave.
Things like this will eventually kill Facebook.
Probably everyone knows by now that it is not a good idea to post that picture of yourself in a dress at the Halloween party, but even innocent things can come back to bite you in the ass. I remember reading one story about a woman who was denied disability for extreme clinical depression because someone searched Facebook and found a picture of her with a smile on her face at a beach.
Facebook is the first stop after Google for HR people. It is possible to make many innocent comments or jokes that an HR person may not like and decide to see that you never get the job.
There is that much snooping going on. I knew a woman who was doing amateur beauty contest/modeling pictures. She never mentioned the name of her company at all on the web sites where she appeared. She never mentioned those web sites at work. Yet, somebody found those sites and gave her an ultimatum.
I did a search for someone earlier and saw wall posts between friends and non-friends (who had similar names as the search term) show up in the listing.
Answer: No. So what are we whining about, exactly?
One last thing: Sometimes I wonder; "Is that someone's signature? Or do they type that at the end of each post?"
So, Lone Star, now you see that Facebook will always triumph because good is dumb.
Google is awesome for letting people search the web. Facebook is ultimate evil for letting you search Facebook. If you posted information publically, that all your facebook friends can read...in what way did you have an expectation that your facebook friends wouldn't read it? Were you hoping it would get lost in the flood of bullshit and nobody would read it? Really? You were relying on signal:noise ratio for privacy, rather than actually sending a PM? That's beyond absurd.
ASCII stupid question, get a stupid ANSI
And if do or say anything that you are ashamed for(or will be ashamed for in some years), you should not have done it in the first place.
What a horrific waste of the handful of decades were are granted in this world such a mindset would lead to!
"You can't take something 'off' the internet, its like trying to get pee out of a pool, once its in there its in there."
facebook is a creepy public place and this is par for the course. anyone who thinks they are doing anything in secret is mistaken. What i want to know is why it's so easy to do this, but a simple search to let me find my own posts by date or content doesn't exist?
the last line of my post should have been a giveaway that this was meant sarcastically, but you and a moderator thought otherwise.... ;)
Everything about you,
and your whole family too
Take a look, it's on facebook,
I'm reading your facebooks
I am a stalker! Your friends, I know, and where you go,
It's all on facebook
I can see anything!
Your life history, isn't a mystery, when it's on facebook
It's all on facebook, I'm reading your facebooks,
Okay, this sounds terrible in the article, but I can't see how bad it is until I see it in action. But because facebook has NO DOCUMENTATION TO SPEAK OF, I can't figure out how to do it. Even the cheerily sinister official announcement spends the whole time talking about how great the friend stalker tool is, but gives zero information on how to find and use it.
Anybody know what buttons to push?
Facebook adds a stalker too? Seriously? apparently someone didn't get the memo.. Facebook is one huge stalker tool to begin with.
Probably only Americans care. Legacy of puritanism. Root out your ineffective memes.
"Who is the Journal of Quantum Physics going to believe?" --Stephen Hawking
I feel exactly the same way about political donations. Yeah it's public knowledge, but it shouldn't be so easy as putting my name into a Google search.
I'd prefer if there were something like this for twitter. Or at least some way to interleave two feeds chronologically.
Being "Social" means respecting other's boundaries while interacting with them.
A site which breaks down those boundaries to the point of discomfort of it's users is bordering anti-social.
Not surprising given it's founder's attitude.
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An employer is someone who gives you a job which provides money you need for food, shelter, and clothes.
And you "provide" work from which your employer derives a profit, but that doesn't really count as providing cause you are not the one giving money and there are plenty people like you or better BEGGING for a job like that.
BULLSHIT!
You WORK for your PAY so you could "provide" for YOU AND YOUR FAMILY.
Your employer does diddly-squat in that relationship unless there is money in it FOR HIM, through direct or indirect profit.
Mit der Dummheit kämpfen Götter selbst vergebens
Because it's a private business, not a public commodity.
that new Facebook features are written simply by some kind of weird combination of /dev/random and http://www.php.net/manual/en/ with the noise being supplied by a 1000 monkeys?
I'm not a lawyer, but I play one on the Internet. Blog
If you don't want something seen on the front page of the newspaper, don't post it online.
I think as long as this tool abides by the privacy settings on your Facebook account, it should be ok. If you don't want people seeing your communications on Facebook, why have them as a friend? Or put them in a group that doesn't have access to certain areas. If you want communication between you and another friend to be private, use a more private means of communication. Secret posts to your mistress don't belong on a Facebook wall post.
The information this tool makes available is already available anyway. If you're concerned about one of your Facebook friends having access to all of that information, why not just remove them as a friend?
Having a smoking section in a public restaurant is like having a peeing section in a public swimming pool.
Diaspora, hasten to our rescue.
I've said for a long time that anyone who uses facebook gets exactly what they deserve.
Isn't there something a bit creepy about people who are disturbed by making it more convenient to see information that their friends have already decided to share with them?
Hey this is slashdot. I bet most sexual encounters are with their electronic devices.
FTFY.
...the future crusty old bastards are already drinking the Kool-Aid.
It's a pain to turn off all the default features that facebook conveniently opts-in for you. By WHY should we have to?
Because you want to use a free service supplied by a commercial entity.
Consider credit cards with X days interest free. How can they do it and be profitable? Simply because most people won't be disciplined enough to pay on time. If you make some default behaviour that alerts people so they are more likely to pay on time, you won't improve the service, you will eliminate it. If too many people pay on time the service will no longer be offered.
Facebook et al are designed to harvest information for profit. You can refuse to use it and give them nothing, you can be disciplined about your settings to guard what you give, or you can be undisciplined and give info without thought. It is people in the third group that provide the profitability that allows the service to be offered at no charge.
I am not really all that worried about the (lack) of privacy of Facebook all that much. (Selling out my info to corporate shills is another matter entirely; if anyone's going to make a profit off of me, I want it to be *me*). As more and more people are born into the "Facebook generation" and as they age and find careers and start running the world, this kind of stuff won't be all that important because nearly everyone will have this kind of documentation about them available in one form or another. It's just all that much more noise to process, without a whole lot of signal.
Geeky math jewelry!