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Delayed Fatherhood May Be Linked To Certain Congenital and Mental Disorders

New submitter optimus_phil writes "New Scientist magazine reports on findings that suggest that delaying fatherhood may increase the risk of fathering children with disorders such as Apert syndrome, autism and schizophrenia. The article reports that 'although there is a big increase in risk for many disorders, it's a big increase in a very small risk. A 40-year-old is about 50 per cent more likely to father an autistic child than a 20-year-old is, for instance, but the overall risk is only about 1 per cent to start with.'"

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  1. In other news.. by AlanS2002 · · Score: 3, Funny

    You have a 100% chance of dying over time.

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    1. Re:In other news.. by fuzzyfuzzyfungus · · Score: 1

      There are substantially more and less pleasant ways of reaching that end, with what we call 'medicine' having a considerable focus on nudging our trajectory...

    2. Re:In other news.. by rusty0101 · · Score: 1

      Not necessarily in a substantially more pleasant way of reaching that end.

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    3. Re:In other news.. by Rosco+P.+Coltrane · · Score: 2, Interesting

      More to the point, the way the world is going, a kid born today as a very high chance of leading a life of debt, unemployment, poverty, starvation, war, and whatever else the future has in store, before dying.

      As far as we're concerned, my s.o. and I, the best time for fatherhood is never, as we reckon giving life today isn't really a gift.

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    4. Re:In other news.. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 3, Insightful

      But consider what potential your children might have. For all you know, you could father a genius who brings peace and harmony to the world. Or you could father the greatest genocidal maniac of all time who finally puts the world out of its misery.

    5. Re:In other news.. by Anonymous+Brave+Guy · · Score: 4, Interesting

      I have a somewhat more optimistic view of the future than you seem to -- I do think we're heading for a low point in some areas right now, but I also think these things often go in cycles and that since most people are basically decent human beings we will learn to deal with the problems and fix them with time. There will be more later, but that's life.

      Personally, I wonder how much the kinds of health effects we're discussing here make a difference compared to the potential benefits of having parents who are a bit older. For example, if older parents tend to be more financially secure, they can probably afford a better home in a safer neighbourhood and a safer model of car. Maybe they can afford better educational toys or more books or to take their children to more places and given them more positive experiences as they grow up. More mature and experienced parents can also share the benefits of that experience with their children, perhaps giving the kids a head start in academic life or more emotional support when they have to deal with difficult situations.

      There's got to be some sort of balance here. Very young parents don't tend to do well by their kids, because they can't. Maybe they lack sufficient resources to care for them properly, and maybe they are still barely more than children themselves emotionally. On the other hand, relatively old parents tend to have kids with more health problems as we've been discussing, and obviously at some point in your life you can no longer mother a new child at all. The interesting thing to me is how to figure out what gives kids the best outcomes under different circumstances, so would-be parents can make informed decisions based on seeing the whole picture.

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    6. Re:In other news.. by hcs_$reboot · · Score: 3, Interesting
      In other news, Children with older fathers and grandfathers 'live longer' And quote:

      It might be possible that the advantage of receiving long telomeres from an old father is more than offset by the disadvantage of higher levels of general DNA damage and mutations in sperm

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    7. Re:In other news.. by DamnOregonian · · Score: 1

      There is most certainly value in some property of post-child rearing folk (grandparents?), otherwise natural selection would not have seen fit to suffer our relatively long life spans in relation to our metabolism and fertility age. I think evolution hasn't had time to account for the trend of young parents not being so close to their own parents. I also think that will change with time- our species will become better at having offspring later in life as it becomes less common to be very close to your extended family in our societies.

    8. Re:In other news.. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

      Speaking of medicine, how much of that risk increase is due to the advanced age of the father, and how much is related to the extra medical procedures he was subjected to ? I would think a 50 year old father has underwent allot more CT scans, radiographs, MRIs, and has taken allot of genotoxic pills during his lifetime than a 30 year old father.

      About 1% of US cancers are linked to CT scans and the strong magnetic field of the MRI was proven genotoxic in mice.

    9. Re:In other news.. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 2, Interesting

      There's got to be some sort of balance here. Very young parents don't tend to do well by their kids, because they can't. Maybe they lack sufficient resources to care for them properly, and maybe they are still barely more than children themselves emotionally. On the other hand, relatively old parents tend to have kids with more health problems as we've been discussing, and obviously at some point in your life you can no longer mother a new child at all. The interesting thing to me is how to figure out what gives kids the best outcomes under different circumstances, so would-be parents can make informed decisions based on seeing the whole picture.

      I've always wondered if we may be better off looking outside the box here on childbearing ages.

      I think most of us would be in agreement that biologically speaking, young parents are preferred. They have the best quality genetic material, and in the case of the mother childbirth is easier (at times significantly so) on a younger mother than an older mother. And yet at the same time, older parents are socially and economically secure in a way that most young parents cannot match, essentially making them better caregivers.

      Meanwhile there's no reason to believe that parents (as an average) are going to start getting younger again. And I'd actually be surprised if they stopped getting older for at least the next little bit, as we continue to stretch out that early insecure adulthood phase through increasingly rigorous and time consuming education and career building phases.

      So what if instead of trying to find a less-than-ideal balance, we decouple child creation and child rearing entirely? Admittedly I wager this idea is completely infeasible, but it's an interesting thought to me all the same.

      The idea is essentially this: what if we made adoption the preferred method of starting a family rather than procreation? Older parents, socially, emotionally, and financially secure, could adopt healthy children produced by young parents. This provides them with the biological benefits of younger parents, with an added kicker that an adopted child is going to be less disruptive to one's career than bearing a child directly, especially in the mother's case.

      Meanwhile on the supply side we essentially incentivize young couples to have children so that they may be adopted through this system. The ideal age would probably be the late teens, so you'd have the young parents graduate high school and then spend the next 2-3 years producing children. The young parents would be compensated, and from there they could start college at 20-21, with the ability to use that compensation to help cover the lofty costs of college. Finally, in 10-20 years when their own lives are secure, they can become the older parents that adopt children through the very same system.

      This plan has some pretty big flaws, not the least of which is that there's an extremely strong preference among parents to raise children that are biologically theirs and not adopted, so on that basis alone I don't really think such a plan would work. But socially and biologically this seems like it would be a win-win; you get all the biological benefits of young parents and all the social benefits of old parents, minimizing the problems that either scenario alone comes with.

      As a soon to be married woman I'm facing that all too familiar dilemma about career and family. Biologically speaking it's best if I don't wait much longer to start a family, but I know long term it would be better for my family if my career was farther along so that I don't miss out on lifetime earnings and career advancement. The above is probably just a frustrated uterus talking, but given the number of women who are in the same predicament like me, it does make me wonder if some method of decoupling child making and child rearing is the best way to go here.

    10. Re:In other news.. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      our species will become better at having offspring later in life as it becomes less common to be very close to your extended family in our societies.

      Either that or schizophrenia will just be considered normal. Who said that? Good point, me. I agree.

    11. Re:In other news.. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Based on previous collected data on other organisms. Based on the observations I have made of my own organism the chance of death is 0%!

    12. Re:In other news.. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0, Insightful

      "More to the point, the way the world is going, a kid born today as a very high chance of leading a life of debt, unemployment, poverty, starvation, war, and whatever else the future has in store, before dying."

      You're talking about the US I guess.

    13. Re:In other news.. by Anonymous+Brave+Guy · · Score: 1

      I've heard it suggested that one of the major evolutionary advantages humanity has over other species is middle age. Most of us will have a significant period in our lives when we are no longer producing children but still able to work productively and to help younger people to develop.

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    14. Re:In other news.. by Anonymous+Brave+Guy · · Score: 2

      I'm not sure how effectively a complete separation would ever work, given the strength of parent-child bonding in humans. I do think you're on to something there, though.

      I've sometimes wondered whether we've lost some useful structure relatively recently, as a side effect of the easy travel and communication over long distances we enjoy today. Having a local community or extended family where children are not only raised by their parents but also supported by others of their parents' generation, who collectively have both broader experience to share and more reliable survival rates, seems like it has a lot of evolutionary value. That value isn't necessarily carried over to having just parents, professional teachers at school, and maybe professional childcare help to bridge the gaps, with other people the parents know and trust not necessarily living nearby or being regular in-person visitors who can develop relationships with children.

      As another little piece of food for thought, if we're considering the idea that having children later has an advantage in terms of parents' greater maturity and means, we should also consider whether having them earlier has an advantage in terms of support from the grandparent generation, whose means and maturity will typically be greater still.

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    15. Re:In other news.. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      There was this article. i forget the exact headline but it was something like "X food increases your chance of death by 10%".....no it doesnt. every single human, every single animal, every single plant has exactly 100% chance to die. no more, no less. exactly and unequivocally 100% :)

    16. Re:In other news.. by smallfries · · Score: 1

      But on the bright side, it is unlikely that your negative views on continuing the human race will be passed onto another generation.

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    17. Re:In other news.. by Sique · · Score: 1

      I would consider this influence very small, probably not even noticeable right now, compared with the risk due to the higher age of the father. It is a far cry from an 1% increase of risk (which is just a link, not a known causal connection right now) for cancer by the CT and MRI scans one gets during life, and the 50% increase in risk for autism, especially when we know already about the increased health risks for the child if the woman is 10 years older. It would be rather surprising if an older father doesn't add to the risk for the health of a child.

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    18. Re:In other news.. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I think so.

      I guess I am at odds... I think I have a very unique datalogger / HMI design and would like to build it... a nice building became vacant down the street from me, but I could not afford it.. guess what moved in? A reverse-mortgage banker. I would like to build something, but just get flak from taxing authorities... but bankers seem to provide such a needed business to our society - printing money out of thin air, charging interest on it, and now encouraging debt in our parents by taking the last of a family's assets.

      Not only is today's younger generation going into debt big time with these damned student loans, these same students can look forward to the bankers wooing their parents with yet more debt to repay obligations that will require yet more "creation" of dollars to satisfy. This whole thing stinks, but all the people who seem to be able to legislate the environment seems to be in bed with these guys. I hate to see young kids starting off on their first job getting paid barely enough to pay the interest on all the loans they took out just to make them suitable for employment - then have our lawmakers give ear to owners of the means of production that they need to increase immigrant workers that can work cheaper.

      Someone try to do the same thing they are doing and the first thing you see is "intellectual property" lawsuits fly as the wealthy, "working with" Congress to pass law, codifies intellectual property as defensible for the purpose of maintaining an artificial monopoly, but not of all that much value when it comes to assessment of property tax.

      If I printed money, its counterfeiting, but if a bank does it, its adding liquidity to the market. If I loan something I do not have, its theft. If a bank does it, its fractional reserve lending. This giving of authority to coin law to our Congress is backfiring big time - I fear in the very near future, all we will have is the ownership class and the debtors - all on welfare - with few having the resources to even gather up the tools to do a job - that is if anyone will even be able to do a job without violating some special rightsholder's virtual property as defined by lobbied congressional lawmakers.

    19. Re:In other news.. by ShanghaiBill · · Score: 4, Insightful

      Speaking of medicine, how much of that risk increase is due to the advanced age of the father, and how much is related to the extra medical procedures he was subjected to ?

      And how much of it is because Aspies have difficulty with relationships, and get married later in life, after both their social skills and finances have improved? The correlation may be backwards. It may not be older fathers creating autism, but autism creating older fathers.

      disclaimer: I got married when I was 43.

    20. Re:In other news.. by scarboni888 · · Score: 1

      Ahhh.... so easy to take that gamble with *someone else's* life now isn't it?

    21. Re: In other news.. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Such defeatist, weak-minded people have no business being parents anyhow.

    22. Re:In other news.. by sumdumass · · Score: 1

      You mean as apposed to ending the life before it begins?

      It is not someone else's life until such time it begins and can survive on it's own. At that point, it is not a gamble but destiny of sorts.

    23. Re:In other news.. by scarboni888 · · Score: 3, Insightful

      The unborn are in a place of peace. Who are we to disturb that?

      Every year 2,000,000 people on this planet commit suicide and untold others make the attempt.

      Why bother taking the chance of subjecting some poor unfortunate soul to what amounts to misery and suffering? What gives you the right, especially in a day and age when effective and safe sterilization methods exist?

      Because it was done to you, maybe? I would hope not.

      Every day millions of unfertilized eggs get flushed down the toilets. There's nothing sad about that now is there?

    24. Re:In other news.. by JoeMerchant · · Score: 1

      Also, correlation != causation.

      Is delayed fatherhood the cause, or is there an underlying root cause that also leads to delayed fatherhood.

      In other words, are fathers who are statistically more likely to sire children with these problems also subject to behavioral or other biases that lead them to more often have children later in life?

    25. Re: In other news.. by BESTouff · · Score: 1

      Just leave your kids to their grandparents, so you can still see them as often as you wish. Best of both worlds.

    26. Re:In other news.. by FuzzNugget · · Score: 1

      Very young parents don't tend to do well by their kids, because they can't. Maybe they lack sufficient resources to care for them properly, and maybe they are still barely more than children themselves emotionally

      News to me. If you're still behaving petulantly by your late teens, you have no one to blame but yourself (and maybe your parents, maybe because they were too old, ironically). Maybe that's because so many Americans are too busy focusing on being temporarily embarrassed millionaires.

      Where I live (not in the US), it is very common for people to marry and start families in their very early twenties and sometimes even late teens. There is no insurmountable financial strain to speak of, but that has more to do with a stable economy, good financial planning skills and a general satisfaction with life.

      My sister is 25 with children of 3 and 1. She is a stay-at-home mom and her husband pulls in between about 30-35k a year. Yes, money is tight, but they are financially responsible with no major debts outside of the mortgage and car loan. They are incredibly happy with a very good outlook on life.

      Consider this: younger parents have more energy and are still that stage of life where lack of sleep less of a problem, so they can keep up with their kids and give them the full attention they need. Their families are stronger and collectively larger for longer. I'm in my late twenties and both sets of grandparents are still around.

      So you think the better balance is to have older parents cause a greater chance of life-long afflictions in their children rather than younger adults to just stop being oversized children and give their kids the best possible biological chance at good health?

    27. Re:In other news.. by sumdumass · · Score: 1

      The unborn are in a place of peace. Who are we to disturb that?

      Well, that is if you are some sort of whackjob that thinks that which does not exist does exist. But then you would have to have some sort of doctrine or religion explaining the purpose of the existence before the existence and deviation from that doctrine or religion would be the only way you could say "Who are we to disturb that?".

      Every year 2,000,000 people on this planet commit suicide and untold others make the attempt.

      And what is your point? People are able to make their own choices.

      Why bother taking the chance of subjecting some poor unfortunate soul to what amounts to misery and suffering? What gives you the right, especially in a day and age when effective and safe sterilization methods exist?

      I'm sorry to put it to you this way but nature gives me the right. survival of the fittest and life goes on. If I wanted to be religious on your, then it is a moral duty to multiply. If you do not want to participate in either natural selection or religion decree, that is fine, the world may be better off without your genes swimming in the pool. But don't expect others to give up on what is either a 6000+ year old obligations or a natural obligation that has existed for millions of years.

      Every day millions of unfertilized eggs get flushed down the toilets. There's nothing sad about that now is there?

      Nope, it's part of life. why do you bring it up?

    28. Re:In other news.. by scarboni888 · · Score: 3, Interesting

      Well if you're a whackjob that believes in 'a destiny of sorts' then my rationale will never make it through your selfish shield of emotional appeal will it?

      Fact of the matter is we're all born to die due to a runaway genetic program that, due to the second law of thermodynamics, is clearly a dead end road. It doesn't care about you and uses you only for it's insanely dead-end process of creating more robot producing genetic robots to no real purpose. Through programmed death it discards us as only so much used-up tissue paper so why should we have any more respect or reverence for it than it has for us? We toil and labour under the guaranteed threat of our own demise and for what? This insane loop that seeks to preserve itself in a perpetual birth, life, and death process that will, ultimately, in the heat death of the universe, amount to nothing anyway except for maybe all of the suffering it laid waste to along the way?

      You can unthinkingly promote the subjucation of those who never needed to be subject to it in the first place if you like. I personally think a short circuiting of the entire process is far more (and pre-emptively) compassionate. That is all.

    29. Re:In other news.. by hey! · · Score: 1

      Human being have never lived in a utopia. We've always had problems and we always will. And since we're incorrigibly ungrateful creatures, we never give ourselves credit for problems solved of ameliorated. So as far as we've been concerned the world's always been going to hell, and always will be.

      We act as if having problems is an unnatural state of affairs, but we've always had problems and always will. And that's good, because you can't build a meaningful, satisfying life without problems to work on.

      So don't throw up your hands at the problems you cite. *Do* something about them. Everybody can do *something*. Even if it's just a little bit, a little bit added up over everyone would be a lot.

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    30. Re:In other news.. by timeOday · · Score: 1

      That is interesting. I would love to know if the children of older men in that study lived longer (or shorter) than their older siblings - i.e. other children of the SAME fathers conceived at a younger age.

    31. Re:In other news.. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      That's sort of a Darwin award right? You selected your genes right out of the gene pool.

    32. Re:In other news.. by mrchaotica · · Score: 1

      Replace "older parents" with "grandparents" and you'll see that this already happens reasonably frequently by accident, especially among the lower socioeconomic classes. Making it more "normal" and "planned" (and thereby reducing the amount of stress experienced by the parties involved) might be worthwhile.

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    33. Re:In other news.. by Anonymous+Brave+Guy · · Score: 1

      If you're still behaving petulantly by your late teens, you have no one to blame but yourself

      You're reading things into my comments that weren't there. I'm not talking about behaving like a 5 year old throwing a tantrum. I'm talking about things like teenage parents having little if any experience of living independently, managing budgets, planning their time, dealing with dramatic life events like losing a job or having someone close to them pass away, and so on. I'm talking about exhibiting poor judgement due to lack of experience, the same way that young drivers tend to have far more accidents and young adults are more prone to wind up with avoidable financial problems.

      My sister is 25 with children of 3 and 1.

      Then your sister is not at all who I was talking about when I referred to "very young parents".

      So you think the better balance is to have older parents cause a greater chance of life-long afflictions in their children rather than younger adults to just stop being oversized children and give their kids the best possible biological chance at good health?

      I didn't express any opinion on where the balance should be, other than implicitly suggesting that it's not at either extreme.

      But one has to be careful interpreting results like this those in TFA here. It sounds scary to say that a 40-year-old is 50% more likely than a 20-year-old to have a child with an undesirable condition. It sounds less scary when realise that also means the child has a 98.5% of being healthy in that respect rather than a 99% chance. When life expectancies can vary by a decade or more depending on your general quality of life and socioeconomic status, among other relevant factors, it isn't absurd at all to suggest that the advantages of having children a few years later could outweigh the advantages of having them a few years earlier.

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    34. Re:In other news.. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      And how much of it is because Aspies have difficulty with relationships, and get married later in life, after both their social skills and finances have improved? The correlation may be backwards. It may not be older fathers creating autism, but autism creating older fathers.

      disclaimer: I got married when I was 43.

      That was my first thought, as I'm 32, and at this point it's looking like the only way I'll ever be able to marry/have a child is if some chick marries me for my money :/ women don't seem to care at all for my quirky aspie personality, though I love it.

    35. Re:In other news.. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I knew a guy that got married at 43... and before that at 36, and before that at 27, and before that at 19... Slow learner, he was.

    36. Re:In other news.. by ColdWetDog · · Score: 1

      The same could well be said for the vast majority of human beings born at any given time in history. The position that we first-worlders hold today is pretty much unique in the quality and quantity of life and life's experiences. Look back at what even upper class people had to deal with throughout the last, say thousand years and rejoice at how easy we have it.

      Certainly things could get worse. Things will get worse for a lot of people and your personal decision to have progeny is just that, but life has always been rather much of a gamble with a lot of people (and animals for that matter) suffering through there existence.

      It's not like the universe cares or anything.

      Now I'm all depressed again.

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    37. Re:In other news.. by The+Grim+Reefer · · Score: 1

      the strong magnetic field of the MRI was proven genotoxic in mice.

      Can you provide a link for this? I'd be very interested in what is considered a "strong magnetic field". Compared to the earth's, a standard 1.5 Tesla mri is strong. But I know of no issues with that. The RF pulses can be an issue as they could literally cook you. But the FDA has very conservative requirements as to how long you can be in a scanner. All scanners have a built in cut off that you cannot override. The only possible way would be to enter the patients weight in to the console incorrectly.

      Research scans for mice can last 24 hours. I believe the highest Tesla animal scanner is 17 T. Currently the highest field strength that the FDA allows for is 3T. There are experimental scanners for humans that are 7T. But due to the RF pulse frequency that is needed to disrupt the magnetic field of this strength, the time a person can be scanned is very limited.

    38. Re:In other news.. by ColdWetDog · · Score: 1

      Here, read this.

      You will feel better in a moment.

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    39. Re:In other news.. by ColdWetDog · · Score: 1

      Yelling 'get off my lawn' is helpful?

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    40. Re:In other news.. by The+Grim+Reefer · · Score: 1

      More to the point, the way the world is going, a kid born today as a very high chance of leading a life of debt, unemployment, poverty, starvation, war, and whatever else the future has in store, before dying.

      As far as we're concerned, my s.o. and I, the best time for fatherhood is never, as we reckon giving life today isn't really a gift.

      It's kinda funny how the last three or four generations have felt the world was a better place and is going "down the tubes". I know the people I've known in the last three generations before me felt this way. And now I do too. And everyone I know in the two or three generations after me seem to think so too. I don't know about most people, but I tend to remember most things as being better than the actually were. We also have the 24 hour news channels that do their best to scare the shit out of us. After, that's what sells. We can also find even more news about how horrific the world is on the internet now. And even more people who agree with us. I'm not sure which is worse. If the world is falling apart, or that continually thinking it is, is just a failing of human nature.

    41. Re:In other news.. by AthanasiusKircher · · Score: 4, Insightful

      More to the point, the way the world is going, a kid born today as a very high chance of leading a life of debt, unemployment, poverty, starvation, war, and whatever else the future has in store, before dying.

      I used to think this way too. But I think the one thing that stands out as irrational in your argument is "today." What is so bad about "today"?

      Go back a hundred years, and the chances of a lot of these things was significantly higher. Go back a few centuries, and most kids died in early childhood, many women died in childbirth, and most people who managed to get to adulthood faced much, much more harsh conditions than the vast majority of people would in an industrialized country would today.

      So, if you want to have a pessimistic worldview, and you think that's a good reason not to have a child, that's fine. But just be honest with yourself and admit that -- by that logic -- the human race should have become extinct a long, long time ago. It has to do with your philosophy and beliefs, not some terrible conditions that are supposedly so much worse "today."

      As far as we're concerned, my s.o. and I, the best time for fatherhood is never, as we reckon giving life today isn't really a gift.

      Life is neither a "gift," nor is it some sort of "punishment." It is simply life. Frankly, while I myself had thought the same thoughts in the past, I have since realized the hypocrisy that often comes with it. If so many things are so terrible in the world today, why not commit suicide right now? If life is "suffering" and having a child is only to bring a new life into a world of suffering, why do you yourself continue to exist?

      And if your answer is simply, "Well, things are getting worse... so I'm still okay, but my child would have a terrible future," then please see above and read some history books. Miraculously, millions of those people in the past didn't commit suicide either, despite the horrendous suffering in their world -- and they even chose to bring more kids into it.

      Don't get me wrong: I have no problem with people who decide not to have kids for whatever reason. I think fewer people probably should have them, since it's a significant responsibility, and people should think about it seriously. But try to be honest with yourself about what your motivations are.

      (Otherwise, you end up going down the bizarre irrational path of philosophers, like David Benatar who advocate that the human race commit collective suicide (see Benatar's book Better Never to Have Been: The Harm of Coming into Existence), but the philosophers themselves -- despite horrendous suffering in the world, and their likely contribution to more of it every day -- somehow decide that they should themselves continue stay alive. Life really must not seem that bad to most people who make this argument, if they're still living in this world.)

    42. Re:In other news.. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      "No grandparents" is a pretty high price to pay, though.

      Instead of trying to manipulate our own feelings by saying autistic people are just "different" or there are tradeoffs to age, how about science comes up with some things we can do to avoid autism other than "be younger," like an (oooooo so controversial) genetic test combined with IVF, or eliminating toxins from the environment, or not doing certain things during pregnancy, or using a certain parenting style, or not moving children to a different school more than n times between grades x and y, or preschool exercises, or something. I know it's hard work, but with all these autistic people we should have plenty of eager scientists, not political bureaucrats too afraid to attempt real work who instead flick around spreadsheets and announce splashy results.. Is no one paying scientists to work on this for real?

    43. Re:In other news.. by Maxo-Texas · · Score: 1

      Jean-Paul Sartre was sitting at a French café, revising his draft of Being and Nothingness. He said to the waitress: âoeIâ(TM)d like a cup of coffee, please, with no cream.â The waitress replied: âoeIâ(TM)m sorry, Monsieur, but weâ(TM)re out of cream. How about with no milk?â

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    44. Re:In other news.. by gIobaljustin · · Score: 1

      You mean as apposed to ending the life before it begins?

      You can't end a life that never existed to begin with; that's nonsensical.

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    45. Re:In other news.. by gIobaljustin · · Score: 1

      If you're still behaving petulantly by your late teens, you have no one to blame but yourself (and maybe your parents, maybe because they were too old, ironically).

      Well, literally billions of people should be blaming themselves, then, as a grand majority of people are hardly different from children.

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    46. Re:In other news.. by sumdumass · · Score: 1

      Exactly my point. Once the life has began, it's no longer a gamble, it is what it is.

    47. Re:In other news.. by sumdumass · · Score: 0

      Well if you're a whackjob that believes in 'a destiny of sorts' then my rationale will never make it through your selfish shield of emotional appeal will it?

      Your rationales should have never made it through your ignorant mental state either. You are the one ascribing supernatural concepts here not me. I'm not the one who said the unborn are at peace.

      Fact of the matter is we're all born to die due to a runaway genetic program that, due to the second law of thermodynamics, is clearly a dead end road. It doesn't care about you and uses you only for it's insanely dead-end process of creating more robot producing genetic robots to no real purpose. Through programmed death it discards us as only so much used-up tissue paper so why should we have any more respect or reverence for it than it has for us? We toil and labour under the guaranteed threat of our own demise and for what? This insane loop that seeks to preserve itself in a perpetual birth, life, and death process that will, ultimately, in the heat death of the universe, amount to nothing anyway except for maybe all of the suffering it laid waste to along the way?

      For the amusement of others.. But what is your point? You have no control of impact on the universe or anything in that kind of scale so you should ignore it completely. People find what is important to them and work from there.

      You can unthinkingly promote the subjucation of those who never needed to be subject to it in the first place if you like. I personally think a short circuiting of the entire process is far more (and pre-emptively) compassionate. That is all.

      I would suggest killing yourself then. It is the same thing after all. But wait, if you do not want to kill yourself then you are essentially admitting your worldview is flawed and there is something worth more than yourself here that keeps you here. That something may only be your fears of dieing or it may be completely external to you but it certainly is something and it certainly negates your entire it's all pointless argument.

      You should actually think about it sometime. It isn't hard to see, even if you cannot understand it. If you still insist it doesn't exist and kill yourself, I offer my condolences to your family and friends but the world will likely be better off without you.

    48. Re:In other news.. by tlambert · · Score: 1

      Yelling 'get off my lawn' is helpful?

      What an egocentric view! You might as well know the truth...

      "Human middle age" was invented by lawns to keep people off them. Not every evolutionary advantage targets humans as the beneficiary. ;)

    49. Re:In other news.. by squiggleslash · · Score: 2

      A kid born today has a considerably lower chance of leading a life of (crippling) debt, unemployment (for the most part, 1950-1970s excepting perhaps), poverty, starvation, or war than in the past, at least, if they're lucky enough to be born in the West, which I assume they would be if you were the parents.

      I used to use the same justifications to myself, FWIW. The reality is that I was finding justiifcations for not having children, which was the real issue. I didn't want them. I didn't want the loss of freedom and imposition of responsibilities a child would entail. But such an argument feels selfish (it isn't, but it feels selfish) and so I pretended I didn't want children for the good of the world, and for their own good.

      If you're like 99% of the population, you'll change your mind. Biological programming will overwhelm you when the time is right. You'll view having a child as one of the most wonderful things you could possibly do. You'll recognize that you can actually build a stable environment for your child to come into the world, to learn what they need to do, and to ensure they're equipped with the tools needed to make it in this world.

      One of those tools being, of course, their mere existance.

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    50. Re:In other news.. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Delayed Fatherhood != Abortion

    51. Re:In other news.. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      how much of that risk increase is due to the advanced age of the father, and how much is related to the extra medical procedures he was subjected to ?

      More precisely, how much of that risk increase is due to age, and how much is due to the fact that you've had twice as long to be exposed to ALL environmental factors, ranging from medicine to pollution to cosmic rays pounding his scrotum?
      Answer: We didn't bother to even try to take that into account because it wouldn't result in flashy headlines and money for more research.

    52. Re:In other news.. by Darby · · Score: 1

      Now, Dude...

      You've been around these parts for some time and in my experience you always have something of value to add when you say something...

      But

      What the heck happened with your formatting there?

    53. Re:In other news.. by sumdumass · · Score: 1

      No one said anything about abortion other then you.

    54. Re:In other news.. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      You are a beta whore, posting funny UTF characters for others to see...

    55. Re:In other news.. by nihilistcanada · · Score: 1

      Shut the fuck up Rust.

    56. Re:In other news.. by pnutjam · · Score: 2

      Maybe the pool of woman available to marry older men are either older and "quirkier" themselves, or emotionally damaged young women who my have their own mental issues.

      It's impossible to correctly control for this type of "science". Luckily I snagged a hottie while we were both young, so the human race will have ample access to my excellent genetic material.

    57. Re:In other news.. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      New Scientist is SUSPICIOUS to me after one of their articles DID match what I was proposing to do in a google groups thread, a physics simulation achieving (?) a two dimensional fluid near the Big Bang. Once said, this article is thoroughly SUSPICIOUS of being banal, for the simple reason that ALL EXCREMENT COLOR ANTHROPOIDS and ORIENTALS are NATURALLY SCHIZOPHRENIC. And they DO HAVE an interest in not letting Humans reproduce our ways. This article is giving ISLAM, yes ISLAM, tools to achieve itself on US!!! THis article disregards food SABOTAGE, pretends ALL IS HOSPITALS and ALL HOSPITALS ARE TRUSTFUL, etc. No swapped babies, eh? No surreptitiously arranged couples, eh? No need to have a completely monotonical age schedule for reproduction and very animal fixed ways to do it, eh? BIG ETC.

    58. Re:In other news.. by Maxo-Texas · · Score: 1

      I KNOW!

      It was in text when I copied it... here' I'll fix it.

      Jean-Paul Sartre was sitting at a French cafe, revising his draft of Being and Nothingness. He said to the waitress: I'd like a cup of coffee, please, with no cream. The waitress replied: I'm sorry, Monsieur, but we're out of cream. How about with no milk?

      It looks like the apostrophe's were not normal apostrophe's.

      And this being slashdot, they can massively change the interface but are unable to let you edit your posts for even five minutes after you post! LOL.

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    59. Re: In other news.. by cthulhu11 · · Score: 1

      Order a wife from the Phillipines. Two guys I know seem to have done so. My son was conceived when I was 42. I'd had multiple abdominal analog and CT imaging. Supposedly the germ plasm wasn't irradiated, but it's hard to be sure. And yes my son is autistic. Had I known about the correlations with older dads and other factors I wouldn't have had him.

    60. Re:In other news.. by CHIT2ME · · Score: 0

      I like your style and your sig, AlanS2002!!!

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    61. Re: In other news.. by yakirice · · Score: 1

      That was the truest and most accurate post I've read anywhere on the internet in years. Beautiful even enough to warrant me logging in.

    62. Re:In other news.. by AlanS2002 · · Score: 1

      I like your style and your sig, AlanS2002!!!

      Yeah, I know I rock.

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  2. correlation, causation, not the droids, etc by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 4, Insightful

    On the other hand, maybe waiting until you're 40 to have a kid is a symptom of the genes responsible for these disorders.

    1. Re:correlation, causation, not the droids, etc by Rosco+P.+Coltrane · · Score: 3, Insightful

      More likely a sign of the effect of society on the decision of having a child: either the couple is poor and decides they can't offer the child a good life, or they're still student and they prefer to wait until they're done with their studies and have stable jobs and incomes... that sort of thing.

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    2. Re: correlation, causation, not the droids, etc by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      At least someone is sensible enough to be fruitful and multiply. Live long and prosper, welfare mothers. Our future depends on you.

    3. Re: correlation, causation, not the droids, etc by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      A future of crime, violence, drugs, sex, and recklessness. And this future will be almost entirely black. Oh how excited I am!

    4. Re: correlation, causation, not the droids, etc by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      White people have chosen to enrich themselves rather than their progeny. Selfish white people will be the death of their race, and they will deserve it.

    5. Re: correlation, causation, not the droids, etc by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      And when there are no whites left, watch the world enter the stone age. Good luck having them invent or even be able to repair the technology that's around them. So watch what you wish for...

    6. Re:correlation, causation, not the droids, etc by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      As is having enough resources / wherewithal at age 40 to have them diagnosed. Or perhaps there was a commonly used chemical carcinogen 30 years ago that confounded the results. It's hard to say and I'd be cautious about advising men to have children earlier in life because of this data. (That said, I doubt that a potential 0.5% absolute increase in risk is going to affect most men's decision, especially given that women have a much stronger incentive to have children early.)

    7. Re: correlation, causation, not the droids, etc by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

      for most of recorded history, europe was the backwater of the world. it was only after the Turks finally destroyed the Eastern Roman Empire did the scientists and artists from there move to Europe to jump start the renassaince. only because the eastern peoples' governments screwed their countries at the time did europe get ahead

    8. Re: correlation, causation, not the droids, etc by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Why is this modded troll?
      This is exactly what happens. Poor people are less likely to use contraception and because of that are more likely to have more children earlier in their life.
      Usually it's due to less education and the expectation that the girls get out of the house as soon as possible.

    9. Re:correlation, causation, not the droids, etc by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Yes, we all have lots of mentioned disorders here in /. After all, why else having sex would be so difficult?

  3. and the risks of marriage delays parenthood by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 5, Interesting

    With a 50% divorce rate in the US, if you have children and you're the primary wage earner, it is likely you
    1) Pay for kids that you only get to see 20% of the time
    2) Pay your ex-spouse for his'/her's decision/ability to make less money than you do
    3) Pay your ex-spouse's legal bills so that person can cause you as much pain as possible in court
    I think it is a horrible deal.
    And the legal system becomes the other person's weapon to abuse you.
    Miss a payment, and you're screwed.
    If you want children, donate your source code.
    If you want to raise kids, date someone who has nice kids.

    1. Re:and the risks of marriage delays parenthood by fuzzyfuzzyfungus · · Score: 1

      Makes you wish for the good old days, when people didn't defer marriage because the social costs of doing so were overwhelmingly high, and divorce rates were low because they were hard to get...

    2. Re:and the risks of marriage delays parenthood by Calydor · · Score: 3, Insightful

      Yes, because being locked into an unhappy and possibly abusive relationship for life is so much better.

      If your spouse wants to drag you through hell in the legal system, what do you think it'll be like to be forced to keep on living with them?

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    3. Re:and the risks of marriage delays parenthood by fuzzyfuzzyfungus · · Score: 2

      Just in case I didn't make it sufficiently clear, I was attempting sarcasm there. The 'good old days' weren't. Hence the heavy drinking and high levels of coercive violence.

    4. Re:and the risks of marriage delays parenthood by Calydor · · Score: 0

      One of those cases where you can't be sure if something is serious or sarcasm. I'm glad we at least agree.

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    5. Re:and the risks of marriage delays parenthood by houghi · · Score: 1

      If you want children, donate your source code.

      Court Says Craigslist Sperm Donor Must Pay Child Support. So that is not a real option. So if you are male, you are out of luck.

      Having kids as a male is a bit like the beta slashdot version. You are fucked and have no influence on the outcome.

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    6. Re:and the risks of marriage delays parenthood by Kojiro+Ganryu+Sasaki · · Score: 2

      We need the sarcasm font to be made into a standard.

    7. Re:and the risks of marriage delays parenthood by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      If you want children, donate your source code.

      Court Says Craigslist Sperm Donor Must Pay Child Support. So that is not a real option. So if you are male, you are out of luck.

      Having kids as a male is a bit like the beta slashdot version. You are fucked and have no influence on the outcome.

      Donate sperm anonymously!

    8. Re:and the risks of marriage delays parenthood by Kojiro+Ganryu+Sasaki · · Score: 2, Insightful

      There are two reasons for that.

      1: Feminism is reacting to the historical fact that it has usually been the reverse that was true. It is only contraceptives which have managed to change this.

      2: This is compounded, and this is where it probably gets "too complex" for a lot of people, by the fact that this behavior IS inherently sexist. Of course, here a lot of people fail to understand that the famous "patriarchy", which feminists decry, is also sexist toward men.

      Women, it says, are all harmless victims who cannot abuse children. Women are perfect parents who should stay home and care for their children. Men are child abusers and rape monsters and are not fit to care for children.

      Note that there's some overlap between a certain subset of feminists (known as radical feminists) and conservatives to confuse the matter further.

    9. Re:and the risks of marriage delays parenthood by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      If you want to donate sperm, go to a fucking sperm bank.

    10. Re:and the risks of marriage delays parenthood by cascadingstylesheet · · Score: 2, Insightful

      Makes you wish for the good old days, when people didn't defer marriage because the social costs of doing so were overwhelmingly high, and divorce rates were low because they were hard to get...

      You mean, the good old days when families actually were more stable, and tended to be happier?

      No, don't throw me in the brier patch! Anything but that!

    11. Re:and the risks of marriage delays parenthood by will_die · · Score: 1

      Please go read about that case. It was ruled that way because the donor did not go through the legal method to donate sperm.

    12. Re:and the risks of marriage delays parenthood by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 2, Insightful

      If you want children, donate your source code.

      Court Says Craigslist Sperm Donor Must Pay Child Support. So that is not a real option. So if you are male, you are out of luck.

      Gee, if only there were an entire industry designed around allowing men to donate their sperm while legally shielding them from responsibility for that donation.

    13. Re:and the risks of marriage delays parenthood by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Women don't want anonymous sperm. It might be from a loser.

    14. Re:and the risks of marriage delays parenthood by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Do NOT under ANY circumstances donate your source code. There have been recently the legal beginnings of a precedent that says that a sperm donor can be held liable for child support if the donation recipient falls on hard times, or otherwise loses the man who had been acting as the father and provider.

      Family courts care about only one thing - the welfare of the child - and family law allows them to make any decision necessary to that end, no matter how asinine it may be. It is well within the power of a family court judge to compel the revelation of the donor's identity and compel him to contribute to the financial burden of raising the child he fathered.

    15. Re:and the risks of marriage delays parenthood by JoeMerchant · · Score: 1

      Or, don't marry until you can tell the difference between an evil witch and a good hearted princess.

    16. Re:and the risks of marriage delays parenthood by bill_mcgonigle · · Score: 1

      because the social costs of doing so were overwhelmingly high

      We can probably argue all day about which is 'better', but it's worth noting here that those social pressures may have evolved for a reason (at least for an evolutionary sense of 'reason') and that more modern social pressures (higher standard of living requiring higher earnings, government regulation of marriage, etc.) have genetic diseases as an outcome.

      Giving individuals more choice in marriage arrangements may be the best thing we can do societally to make marriage less daunting, if our goal is to reduce genetic disease in the population. It's hard to believe that there are still so many supporters for the "one size fits all" model in the Internet age.

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    17. Re:and the risks of marriage delays parenthood by rubycodez · · Score: 1

      industry? it's a real estate thing, we have whole areas of major cities designed for that. the result is high enough percentage of children with no respect for life or property to make the whole area a high crime zone.

      terrible social experiment with horrendous results

    18. Re:and the risks of marriage delays parenthood by rubycodez · · Score: 1

      not possible, it's a quantum mechanical cat in box question, marriage changes some princesses into witches

    19. Re:and the risks of marriage delays parenthood by JoeMerchant · · Score: 1

      Happened with my first wife, but upon later introspection, I had the information (even though it was masked), I just willfully chose to ignore it and go with wishful thinking that the witch within had the good sense to realize that the relationship wouldn't work in witch mode.

      Wrong, I was. Better, I have learned. Not look so good when 900 years old, you are, I think.

    20. Re:and the risks of marriage delays parenthood by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      1: Those statistics are skewed by a small portion of people who have married 2, 3, 4 or more times.

      2: Most of the marriages that break apart are youngin's.

      3: Depending on the statistics you read, between 10 and 25% of men are eschewing marriage (as in, have never been married, have no kids). About half of those men make upper 90th percentile incomes and the rest are in-between.

      Our society needs a serious re-think.

    21. Re: and the risks of marriage delays parenthood by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Hysterical! I love you Yoda! If only you had fathered me. My childhood; good! It would have been.

    22. Re:and the risks of marriage delays parenthood by fuzzyfuzzyfungus · · Score: 1

      I'd be inclined to suspect that economics has more influence than culture when it comes to the 'one size fits all' aspect: the degree to which you are pretty screwed without a degree(and often with one) has reached rather alarming levels across the developed world. This creates a certain incentive for people with that option to pursue economic stability first, breed second; because their odds of achieving those things in reverse order are not pretty, and for people who lack that option, or try anyway, to enjoy some seriously adverse family-raising conditions.

      A plan doesn't really need supporters when it has those sorts of mean, ugly, numbers available. Now, if the developed world is interested in having their wrinkly asses wiped by anybody other than immigrants or robots in their old age, they might want to do something about that; but barring economic change, culture warriors of any persuasion are of deeply secondary relevance.

    23. Re:and the risks of marriage delays parenthood by fuzzyfuzzyfungus · · Score: 1

      Some sort of metadata tag might be better. I'm pretty sure that the Unicode Consortium would object if they were informed that "Y'know planes 0-2? Those ones you've spent ages fighting about? Well, it's time to carve out three more, exactly like 0-2, except sarcastic. And no, I don't actually care whether 'line feed' or Linear B can be used for sarcastic purposes, they are getting defined anyway."

    24. Re:and the risks of marriage delays parenthood by cascadingstylesheet · · Score: 1

      Just in case I didn't make it sufficiently clear, I was attempting sarcasm there. The 'good old days' weren't. Hence the heavy drinking and high levels of coercive violence.

      Well, actually they were, on average and compared to the average now. By almost any measure you want.

      Just because something seems counter intuitive to you doesn't make it not true.

    25. Re:and the risks of marriage delays parenthood by swillden · · Score: 1

      With a 50% divorce rate in the US, if you have children and you're the primary wage earner, it is likely you...

      Or you could choose to take care of your marriage. Keeping a relationship strong is a lot of hard work, and requires a lot of sacrifice, but it can be done. Note that it's important that your spouse understand this and be willing going in to invest the effort required, but your willingness can and will affect your spouse's willingness.

      Some specific recommendations, though this list is more descriptive than prescriptive. The specifics may vary; it's the attitude and intent that matters:

      1. Keep the courtship going. Establish a standard that, barring some extreme circumstances, you and your spouse go on a date at least once per week. On your date, make a concerted effort not to talk about kids, house, etc. You need to continue finding and building common ground, because both of you will gradually change over time and it's very, very easy to let your shared responsibilities become the whole of your topics of discussion. Don't let that happen. People don't "fall out of love", they allow themselves to grow apart. My wife and I go on a date every Friday night -- generally just dinner & a movie, but something every week, without fail (or close to it).

      2. Find/build some shared interests. Both of you will likely have to give a little and do things that you don't really love in order to do something that the other does really love. For example, my wife has taken up Scuba diving because I love it; I have taken ballroom dance courses because she loves it. She likes diving and I like dancing, and we both love doing both together.

      3. Maintain the attitude that your spouse is the most important thing in your life. More important than your kids, more important than your job, more important than anything else.

      4. Take care that you do not allow anyone else to get close enough to you that they begin to encroach on what should be your spouse's territory. If you find yourself sharing your very personal feelings and beliefs extensively with another person (especially of the opposite gender, if you're heterosexual), STOP. Allowing those sorts of relationships to grow risks supplanting your relationship with your spouse. It's not a bad idea to take it a step further and simply refuse to spend time alone with other women (or men, depending). Sometimes work demands that you, for example, meet with a female subordinate or manager, and you do what you have to, but keep it strictly professional and limit the frequency and duration as much as possible.

      5. Don't be afraid to avail yourself of professional help, and to do it at the first sign of discontent. A good marriage counselor can help you both understand things that you can do better to maintain and improve your relationship.

      In every way, focus on first and foremost defending your marriage and keeping it strong. If this seems like too much work and/or too limiting, then accept that you're likely to get divorced, and plan accordingly.

      Personally, I've been married for 23 years and I don't expect ever even to contemplate divorce.

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    26. Re:and the risks of marriage delays parenthood by phorm · · Score: 1

      If your spouse wants to drag you through hell in the legal system, what do you think it'll be like to be forced to keep on living with them?

      Or we could just fix things so that one spouse cannot weaponize the legal/custodial system and bankrupt/ruin the life of another spouse through it...

    27. Re:and the risks of marriage delays parenthood by LoLobey · · Score: 1

      Reminds me of the old joke- Do you know why divorce is so expensive? Because it's worth it.

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  4. Optimal age for women by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    is after 55, by that time you'll have made your fortune. Time is money! Don't waste valuable time on children until you have lots of money.

  5. So guys, don't delay that task. by rusty0101 · · Score: 1

    Become a father at your earliest opportunity! Onset of puberty being optimal it appears.

    Disclaimer - this is to be taken in a sarcastic vein.

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    1. Re:So guys, don't delay that task. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I have to wonder if these articles are published with the thought of driving up teen pregnancy. Just last week I saw an article saying that mentally-challenged women have a better chance of conceiving than regular women.

      After the TP explosion of the 90s/00s, I know a lot of people don't even want to think about kids until their mid-30s. Add immigration to the mix, and some couples don't even want to parent at all.

      "Won't someone please think of the children?"

    2. Re:So guys, don't delay that task. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

      Career women are making a habit of waking up one day and suddenly realizing they forgot to do something: have children while they still could.

    3. Re:So guys, don't delay that task. by JoeMerchant · · Score: 1

      What are the paternity laws effects for minor fathers?

    4. Re:So guys, don't delay that task. by rubycodez · · Score: 2

      maybe that study just confirmed mentally challenged women are more likely to be careless sluts

    5. Re:So guys, don't delay that task. by Intrepid+imaginaut · · Score: 1

      Given that underage boys who were molested by women who subsequently got pregnant and forced the boys to pay child support upon reaching adulthood, pretty much the same as for adult fathers.

  6. Re:I was asked to pass on this note... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Children are collect calls from God. Will you accept the charges?

  7. Re:I was asked to pass on this note... by Lord+Kano · · Score: 4, Insightful

    Consider this alternative.

    • Excellent choice. You had been scheduled to be the parents of the world's next Hitler but your decision to not procreate will spare untold misery and suffering.
      #Deity

    Basically, some things in life are enormous responsibilities that you should face with your eyes open. If you think that you shouldn't have children or own a gun or fly a plane, you're probably right.

    LK

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  8. Hitler's father was 51 by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    That explains Adolf.

  9. Re:I was asked to pass on this note... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Hitler was a necessary part of God's plan to create the European Union.

  10. Explains by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    All the 90 year old with those 12 year old graduating from University...
    ~(COUGH)~ PRO BABY MAKING PROPAGANDA BULLSHIT....

  11. Re:I was asked to pass on this note... by someone1234 · · Score: 1

    But, some say the EU should be nuked from orbit.

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  12. Bah by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    People who want kids are the ones with the disorder!

    1. Re:Bah by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Kill all humans!

  13. Actually, Alois Schicklgruber was quite abusive by IgnorantMotherFucker · · Score: 5, Informative

    Swiss Child Psychologist Alice Miller devoted twenty years to treating the very worst kinds of child abuse, then decided to stop all treatment of actual patients in hopes of putting a permanent end to that child abuse by writing a great many profoundly insightful books.

    Her book For Your Own Good: Hidden Cruelty In Child-Rearing And The Roots Of Violence has just four chapters. One of the chapters makes a pretty good case for Adolf Hitler, World War II, NAZI Germany and the Holocaust all being to the fact that Alois Schicklgruber beat the young Adolf Schicklgruber every single day of his young life.

    One day when he was thirteen or so - I don't clearly recall when - Adolf stood stoically and calmly for his beating, then at the end of it, told his father how many times his father had hit him, thanked him then calmly walked away. Everyone who witnessed this thought Adolf had gone insane. Perhaps he had.

    Most of Miller's books are hugely popular with mental health professionals. Powells always has a whole bunch of copies of each book on its shelves in Portland, Oregon.

    Quite likely you can find For Your Own Good in any decent bookstore.

    I expect they've been translated to many languages. I'm not sure but I think Miller's Mother Tongue was German. She spoke English, but not very well, so the English-language editions of her books are all translated by experts.

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    1. Re:Actually, Alois Schicklgruber was quite abusive by DNS-and-BIND · · Score: 1
      I hate when people try to explain away Hitler by saying he was insane.

      He wasn't, he was quite coldly rational about what he wanted. He was an ordinary man, much like any other. Saying he was insane just cultivates the field for another like him to appear.

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    2. Re:Actually, Alois Schicklgruber was quite abusive by Sabriel · · Score: 1

      He was quite coldly rational about what he wanted? Really? I thought it was rather clearly established that his irrational actions contributed significantly to Germany losing in WW2.

      And how does "X was insane" cultivate the field? Are you suggesting we view insanity as something desirable?

    3. Re:Actually, Alois Schicklgruber was quite abusive by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      It's not an excuse, but rather an explanation as to the underpinnings of Hitler's path in life. His whole antisemitic stance could have been just an easy outlet for him to vent. The pressure all stemming from years of abuse when he was younger. In effect, it's an amplification problem. One man abuses a boy who grows up to inflict the wrath of hell on Earth. Has his life been different growing up, he could have been just another so so staving artist that enjoys painting and living his life among a small circle of friends. Nothing wrong with that, just that pointing out a butterfly effect of what child abuse can do to the rest of society.

    4. Re:Actually, Alois Schicklgruber was quite abusive by DNS-and-BIND · · Score: 2

      His "irrational" actions resulted in Germany being the master of most of Europe, but nobody ever remembers that one.

      By calling him insane we excuse anyone from examining how he came about. We fail to learn from history. "Oh, he was a madman, nothing to see there," is the attitude.

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    5. Re:Actually, Alois Schicklgruber was quite abusive by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      There are enough people on this planet to have had at least one "Hitler" of every generation and every nation.

      What is needed for people to listen to them is some people feeling opressed and unjustly treated. Just as the germans after the Versailles peace of WW I where they were blamed by the western winners for the whole fucking war. Had the WW I winners done something like the Marshall "plan" / investment / help / bribe call it what you will after WW I instead of waiting 'til after WW II, probably Hitler would have been marginalized.

    6. Re:Actually, Alois Schicklgruber was quite abusive by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      His "irrational" actions resulted in Germany being the master of most of Europe, but nobody ever remembers that one.

      Yeah, that's 'cause you've cherry picked the middle of the story and left out the ending. Whether he was rational at the start is debatable, that he certainly wasn't by the end is historical fact.

      It's also generally accepted that his increasing meddling in military matters was a contributing factor to the fall of Germany. As for "excusing anyone from examing how he came about" - there's a library worth of literature on this, so I wouldn't let it keep you awake at night.

  14. Actually, no by dutchwhizzman · · Score: 3, Informative

    Mortality has only been the case for about 90% of humans ever born. Statistically speaking, you have a 10% of living forever.

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    1. Re:Actually, no by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Actually, it's about 6.66%.

  15. Re:I was asked to pass on this note... by nospam007 · · Score: 1

    "But, some say the EU should be nuked from orbit."

    Catalans, Basques, Scots etc who want their own little piece of Geography for some nostalgic reason or other.

  16. What Crap by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    What a bunch of crap. All the men in our family had late children either planned or not and none of them have had these issues. We've broadened our definition of certain diseases so much we're just looking to categorize everyone as defective so they get special treatment for being unexceptional. What idiocy.

  17. women over 40 by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    women more aged than taught youngins also make bad babies. downs syndrome, etc. i recommend pumping out babies at 25 or 30. your life might not be on track yet but if you're planning on babies, sacrifice one of the parents career for a few years.

    1. Re:women over 40 by Trax3001BBS · · Score: 1

      women more aged than taught youngins also make bad babies. downs syndrome, etc. i recommend pumping out babies at 25 or 30. your life might not be on track yet but if you're planning on babies, sacrifice one of the parents career for a few years.

      You got knocked down to zero yet you have a very valid point.

      An older woman has a huge chance of giving birth to a baby with downs syndrome; I found out in an adult manner. Dated an older woman who became pregnant and from then on that was the concern. Amniotic fluid was drawn and tested every month, her being a pro lifer I still wonder if one of the test registered positive.

      I was also in my 40's and of course didn't know of this "Older dads' mutant sperm".

      I was also working in a field where I was receiving my maximum radiation dose each week when she conceived.

      Use protection solves a lot of problems.

      I should mention my son was very healthy when he as born and to this day, but the odds were against it; radiation did take it's toll, he was born with no hair or teeth.

  18. That was the case with my father by IgnorantMotherFucker · · Score: 2

    I have Bipolar-Type Schizoaffective Disorder.

    My father's part-time job during high schools was performing mineral assays for the Sierra Nevada, California gold mining industry, so he was accepted to study chemistry at UC Berkeley with wild enthusiasm, right out of high school at the age of eighteen.

    Unfortunately he realized just before the last day to withdraw without any grades being recorded, that he'd blown off his entire first term of school by partying with the UCB marching band. He played the sax in the marching band, and was always heavily into music. So he withdrew just before the deadline. When I was a boy, he quite sadly told me that his Berkeley transcripts just say he "attended". No grades, no credit, no fails, but he is recorded to have attended.

    He returned home to Grass Valley, and took up the traditional trade of the men in his side of the family, that of carpentry.

    When he was twenty-three or so, he joined the Navy as an enlisted man. The Navy sent him to study EE at the U of Idaho, in a program meant for enlisted men who were recognized to have leadership potential. He wasn't actually in the U of I's NROTC, but he studied along with the NROTC students.

    When I was born in 1964, he had a BSEE and was a lieutenant in the Navy.

    In 1970, a couple of his fellow officers were visiting our home. "Your father is very smart," one of them said to me. "You should ask him questions."

    One of my happiest memories is of a contest he proposed, where he and I spent all day long attempting - but both of use failing! - to make working telephones out of random stuff we found lying around the house.

    I was accepted to study Astronomy at Caltech in 1982. I was the third coauthor on some Astrophysical Journal articles during the Summer of 1983, as a result of my summer job with Jeremy R. Mould, who is now regarded as the world's most highly-cited Astronomer. I later changed my major to Physics.

    I was PERSONALLY tutored in Quantum Mechanics by Richard Feynman.

    I was forced to leave the Institute due to my mental illness, but transferred to University of California Santa Cruz, where I earned a BA in Physics. I received an Energy Department grant to write my undergraduate - UNDERGRADUATE now! - thesis at CERN, in Geneva. My advisor Clem Heusch was searching for non-conservation of Lepton number. That was very exciting work; had Clem found what he was looking for, he would have earned the Nobel Prize, and my name would have been on the paper.

    I've been a coder now for twenty-six years. My resume is seven pages long.

    Could I have done all that had I been born before my father joined the Navy? There's no way to really know but for sure I had many advantages over what I would have had available to me, had he fathered me much younger than he did.

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    1. Re:That was the case with my father by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I was PERSONALLY tutored in Quantum Mechanics by Richard Feynman.

      Oh yeah? Well I graduated with honors from public schools, I was taught by nobodies, my resume is barely one page long, and I've never ever been able to find a real job in the real world. Thank you very much for your anecdotal evidence that social connections make the difference between success and failure. I know this, and yet I still refuse to join LinkedIn. Fuck you very much, SocialMotherFucker.

  19. Re:I was asked to pass on this note... by mikael · · Score: 0

    More because they feel they can manage their own land resources better than the Eurocrats in London or Brussels can.
    As an example, have a look at the situation in Somerset and Devon. Eurocrats pay farmers to cut down trees and clear land, but those trees helped remove water from the ground. Then the Eurocrats fund a scheme to return the rivers to their natural state and create a bird sanctuary. But those rivers helped remove heavy rainfall from the ground. Result? Third world living conditions for thousands of people for weeks.

    http://www.theguardian.com/env...

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  20. There are also significant risks to old mothers. by queazocotal · · Score: 1

    So, if you are an older father, seeking to reduce their childs risks, simply pick an 18 year-old wife.

    For the sake of the children.

    http://pediatricbioscience.com...

  21. Pre-U.S. Civil War President John Tyler by smittyoneeach · · Score: 1

    There are two living grandsons of John Tyler.
    Which proves nothing, because this sort of discussion is not about proving things.
    What I want to know about the research is how much dope the old coots under consideration did. I submit that the quality of life lived may have as much impact as the quantity, but not quite get teased out as well in the research.

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    1. Re:Pre-U.S. Civil War President John Tyler by damn_registrars · · Score: 1

      There are two living grandsons of John Tyler. Which proves nothing, because this sort of discussion is not about proving things. What I want to know about the research is how much dope the old coots under consideration did. I submit that the quality of life lived may have as much impact as the quantity, but not quite get teased out as well in the research.

      This type of health research is largely about probability. It is not that far distant from research that shows that cigarette smoking is generally a really bad idea from a health perspective. You can't disprove that idea solely by showing a 70+ year old heavy smoker who managed to not get lung cancer, but you can support it by showing millions of people who died of it at a much younger age than that without a family history of it.

      Similarly, we know that some conditions with poor outcomes track with the age of the father (and of course others with the age of the mother). It doesn't mean that every child of older parents will have that condition, but they are more likely to have them then kids born to younger parents.

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  22. Re:There are also significant risks to old mothers by g00ey · · Score: 1

    I'm still doubtful with this research because how common is it that a 40 something male marries a 20 something female and have children with her? I think such couples are too unusual to yield any statistical significance to such a research.

    According to a Wikipedia article the "Average age difference between couples in developed world is between two to three years, with the female partner being younger". The article supporting this statement can be found here.

  23. Re:There are also significant risks to old mothers by Lairdykinsmcgee · · Score: 2

    I am a 24 years old male and in a serious relationship with someone who is 38 (female). Our situation is, of course, rife with stigma and expected impracticalities, but one of the larger ones we have faced is the dilemma of at some point having a child. We are both aware of the extensive research done on maternal age in relation to congenital problems and disorders, but we were always under the assumption that paternal age doesn't present too much risk. Obviously, my being young does not exactly 'decrease' the risk of the development of congenital disorders, but certainly it seems to not 'increase' that risk. Looking forward, it's a precarious and frightening decision for us to make for a number of reason, the risks involved with maternal age certainly being one of them.

  24. Re:There are also significant risks to old mothers by drinkypoo · · Score: 1

    FFS, adopt. Unless your genetics are so precious that they must be preserved, why would you want to fire that old cannon anyway?

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  25. "Just" 1% ? by cellocgw · · Score: 5, Insightful

    Personally I view a significant cogitative or social defect that has a one-percent chance of ocurring to be unacceptably high. That's several kids in each class year in any medium-sized elementary school.

    So, yes, I would consider an increase from 1% to 1.5% to be important. Granted, reducing the base probability would be far more useful than dealing with the age-related increase, but either way, these are large numbers compared with, say the usual "cancer risk increases by 5x" headlines which ignore the base risk being maybe 1E-6.

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    1. Re:"Just" 1% ? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Oh yes... if the Common folk wont fit the compulsory schooling and mandatory "free" slave of bank concept... then of course there's something inherently wrong with their brains and they need to be medicated or some how eradicated...

    2. Re:"Just" 1% ? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

      That's several kids in each class year in any medium-sized elementary school.

      But an individual waiting to procreate until 40 doesn't increase everyone's chances from 1% to 1.5%. It only increases that individual's. So it's not several kids in each class unless one individual, whom waited until age 40 to father children, is fathering all or a large majority of the kids at said medium-sized elementary
      school.

  26. The Kid Bank by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Well another variation of your suggestion is to make it common practice to store your eggs/sperm when you are young, preferably in a way that doesn't increase birth defects beyond that of being old parents (otherwise what's the point), and use them when you want to have children when you are older. The problem with this is most young people wouldn't think ahead... that's why it would have to be common practice (or make it part of the standard check-up?). I really don't see how it would be accepted except for smart young people who plan ahead... maybe that's a good thing ;)

    Posting Anon to keep moderation

    1. Re:The Kid Bank by sumdumass · · Score: 3, Funny

      Screw that. I stored them so I can have clones made to harvest organs from as I age. I will likely live forever with the hopes of an entirely new body. And as soon as we can transplant a brain, 15 years later I will finally be able to get laid in high school.

  27. You brought a smile to my weary eyes. by IgnorantMotherFucker · · Score: 1

    But I should say, other than being well-taught by my father, it wasn't any kind of connection that got me into Caltech.

    An ex-girlfriend of mine at Tech was from a deeply impoverished family. When her father broke the bad news that he could not pay her fees anymore, so she would have to leave Caltech, she burst into tears. Someone advised her to consult the financial aid office, who fixed her right up.

    She went on to earn a PhD in Mathematics, and is now a cryptologist for the NSA. Sorry but I feel it would be a bad idea to tell you her name.

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    1. Re: You brought a smile to my weary eyes. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Fuck off you douche. Bragging about your disorder.

  28. Your child is unlikely to be born a slave by IgnorantMotherFucker · · Score: 1

    If you murder someone, your male children are unlikely to die for your crime in a Vendetta.

    Yes that's the original meaning of Vendetta. Renaissance Italian courts decreed them. Fuck up bad enough, and any male from the offended party's family, had the right to murder any male from three successive generations of the offending party's family - but only when that right was provided by a court of law!

    If you have the wherewithal to post to Slashdot, then the life expectancy of your children is likely to be around seventy years. While there are parts of the world that have not made much progress in life expectancy, people in those parts of the world tend not to have computers or Internet.

    I reiterate the points that some others have made: your children could be the ones to bring peace and prosperity.

    I myself am deeply in debt, profoundly mentally ill, totally busted broke even if I weren't in debt, but I know a great deal, mostly learned through hard-won experience. So I work to educate others, for the most part mostly through my writing, all of which is available online for free, none of which earns me a penny.

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    1. Re:Your child is unlikely to be born a slave by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Not to let the Italians off the hook but the Abrahamic Hebrews & the Ancient Greeks had similar customs.

  29. Academic researchers know all about that by IgnorantMotherFucker · · Score: 1

    I expect that if you read the actual journal paper, it will go to great length to measure and state just what the correllations are, but is unlikely to do more than suggest avenues of further research into the cause.

    I have no doubt whatsoever that if a paper were to claim a cause based purely on a correlation, then the peer reviewers would kick it back. It just wouldn't get published until it stopped making that claim.

    It seems reasonable that genetic damage caused by aging could be the cause. For example it is well-established that our Telomeres become damaged with age. But that's the best one can hope for - a reasonable speculation.

    Instead the actual cause could be something that is correlated with age. For example high blood pressure is common in older people, so they are advised to eat less salt. Maybe eating less salt makes your children Schizophrenic or Autistic. Young people tend to eat a lot of salty food you see. Now this is a contrived example, but it could work that way, where some other factor that is correlated with age is the actual cause.

    On the other hand, I repeatedly point out online, that smoking a lot of marijuana before your brain finishes forming at the age of twenty-five, increases your chance of become Schizophrenic as an adult. Note that the actual cause of this has not been established, but the correlation has been established for many years.

    Quite commonly, I am met with the response that those who are predisposed to later become Schizophrenic, like to smoke dope when they are young.

    The people who respond to me this way just pull this statement out of their asses. We do not know yet, whether those who are in any way predisposed to become Schizophrenic, also tend to smoke more pot. We only know that they tend to become Schizophrenic after they have done a lot of the evil weed.

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  30. And to discover the Higg's Boson! by IgnorantMotherFucker · · Score: 1

    Almost forgotten these days is that CERN wasn't established to discover anything. Much like the Olympics, it was established to give World War II's former enemies something peaceful to do with each other, in hopes of preventing World War III.

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  31. Re:I was asked to pass on this note... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    I just realized one of the reasons Christians don't approve of gays so much. Because they hate the competition for the faggoty things they say.

  32. I just found out I've got no sperm by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Wife and I have been trying forever. Finally got tested. Apparently it's still possible if we want to go through IVF, but do I want to pass on this and other problems to a future kid?

    It hit me a lot harder than I realized it would. I guess I need to suck it up and figure out what I want to do.

    1. Re:I just found out I've got no sperm by rubycodez · · Score: 1

      why worry about passing "the problem" on to a kid? the kid will have the blessing not having to not ever worry about having a child until he chooses to use technology to have one. what's the problem?

    2. Re:I just found out I've got no sperm by s0nicfreak · · Score: 1

      Adopt.

  33. Re:I was asked to pass on this note... by JoeMerchant · · Score: 1

    If you think that you shouldn't have children or own a gun or fly a plane, you're probably right.

    Same could be said for getting out of bed in the morning, driving a car, having sex, going to crowded public places, etc.

  34. Re:What humans are SUPPOSED to do by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    We're also SUPPOSED to die around 35-40 due to illnesses, malnutrition and saber-tooth tigers. The fact that we aren't is the reason we're seeing an absolute explosion of explosions.

  35. Re:What humans are SUPPOSED to do by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Humans are SUPPOSED to do anything. We, and our instincts, are a result of evolutionary chance. Nothing more.

  36. Re:I was asked to pass on this note... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Charge will be a quarter of a million dollars. Unless you get the extra special snowflake that costs millions to keep alive as it struggles, tortured through each extra special day while Republicans jeer at you for having a baby you can't afford as if there was an option.

  37. Re:I was asked to pass on this note... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Tell doG to fix his own damn mess.

  38. Re:I was asked to pass on this note... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

    If you think that you shouldn't have children or own a gun or fly a plane, you're probably right.

    Actually, thanks to the Dunning–Kruger effect, the people who think they should not do something are typically far more qualified to do that thing than the people who believe they are qualified and that nothing could possibly go wrong.

    Humans are strange.

  39. The traditional way by Immerman · · Score: 1

    The concept of older people raising the children of younger people is hardly anything new, in fact it's the way things have been done for much of human history, without any ugly parent-child separation via adoption. How? Easy. Children are raised primarily by their grandparents. It's only the modern shift in culture that expects young adults to stand on their own and carve their own path in the world that has disrupted this pattern. It's still somewhat common in some cultures though - American Hispanics spring to mind.

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  40. Screw these researchers... by RogueWarrior65 · · Score: 1

    ...And the horse they rode in on. Some of us are having enough trouble dating women what with being a geek and all. Now they go and poke us with pointed sticks. Thanks for nothing, morons!

    1. Re:Screw these researchers... by rubycodez · · Score: 1

      there are women out there who like geeks. you just need to get yourself in situation/location where you meet more women.

    2. Re:Screw these researchers... by RogueWarrior65 · · Score: 1

      Clearly you misunderstand the nature of geekdom. ;-)

  41. Late Bloomers? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Perhaps the reason behind it is not due to any age degeneration of genes itself but because of the genes of the father themselves. Essentially the autistic traits of the parent end up delaying the age that they have children either resulting from social awkwardness leading to later forming romantic relationships or they imply choose to reproduce later.

  42. Re:There are also significant risks to old mothers by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

    I was reading that research and it's very interesting. At first glance it appears as though marriage between men 30-35 and women 20-25 was really common (about 60% of marriages) until about 1994 and then plumetted to around 35% practically over night. Looking at a 2nd graph you can see that the women didn't start marrying men their own age, just women aged 20-24 stopped marrying altogether (similar dips in 15-20 and 25-30 but not nearly as pronounced as 20-24). I wonder what is significant about 1994 (other than the Great Pedo Scare starting)...

  43. Our genetics are stupid by kheldan · · Score: 1

    Older
    Wiser
    Better able to provide for offspring due to more career development
    Higher likelihood of genetically fucked-up kids

    Congratulations, DNA, you win the King of All Trolls prize.

    ..and the Great Cosmic Joke continues. Keep laughing, Universe.

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  44. 1% risk is "very small?" by boguslinks · · Score: 1

    I guess there's some subjectivity in calling something "very small", but I'd call a 1 in 100,000 or 1 in 1,000,000 chance of a disorder to be "very small", not 1 in 100.

  45. Shorter d_r by smittyoneeach · · Score: 1
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  46. Re:There are also significant risks to old mothers by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    FFS, adopt. Unless your genetics are so precious that they must be preserved, why would you want to fire that old cannon anyway?

    My genes are vastly superior to your genes; they told me so themselves. So screw you buddy.

  47. Some problems can't be fixed by The+Cat · · Score: 1

    Women, by and large, are no longer interested in having children by means that would provide for their care and upbringing. They don't want to be wives. They don't want to be mothers in any recognizable traditional sense.

    They'd sure like to fuck you if you're tatted-up, drug-addicted, illiterate, unemployed and likely to move to another continent if she gets knocked up. Then she'll go out and find some nice guy to pay for her new "family."

    The current legal situation facing would-be fathers makes starting a family more painful than not.

    Any man who fathers a child has armed the mother with an incredibly destructive weapon which she can fire at will. The results for the father are financial ruin, loss of his home, loss of his marriage/girlfriend/whatever-the-hell-she-calls-herself, loss of his children, litigation and potential criminal prosecution.

    The wife/girlfriend/whatever has significant incentives to fire that weapon: decades of financial support, a free home, the freedom to go fuck some other guy/guys/appliance/porn actor, the satisfaction of destroying her new enemy emotionally as well as practically, total control of the process, the ability to be the center of attention for months and possibly years and the ability to cast herself as the hero and her new enemy as a monster. Why, she can even star in her own reality show.

    Although I have never been married, I can't see any reason why any intelligent man would risk all that just to father children. Among other things, this also probably explains why so many men are simply opting out of society altogether.

    A 1.5% chance to father an autistic child is really not high on the priority list of things to avoid in 2014.

    It's also why millions of women will never be mothers and never be married. Their potential husbands have given up and God bless them one and all. They are only trying to protect themselves from a society that is literally holding a gun to their wallet.

    There is nothing wrong with feminism per se. It's only when it became an excuse to hate and destroy men that it began destroying women and our children.

  48. Yes, it is called other things too by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    In other words, video games play with themselves more often and therefore can't get their sticky fingers off of the keyboards long enough to hold a woman.

  49. Creating a genius? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Someone here said this:

    "But consider what potential your children might have. For all you know, you could father a genius who brings peace and harmony to the world. Or you could father the greatest genocidal maniac of all time who finally puts the world out of its misery."

    You mean like fathering Khan Noonian Singh? I'd be proud to have Khan as my son! I'd have to have a long talk with him about the whole 2 dimensional thinking thing and the Z-minus 10,000 meters deal though? My boy.............?!?!

  50. Re:I was asked to pass on this note... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    The breakup of the Scots from the UK, is good for the US EMPIRE by potentially recognizing the Scots as independents
    http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/United_Kingdom_and_the_American_Civil_War

  51. Re: too many problems with older fathers by g00ey · · Score: 1

    If that's you opinion then you are really out of touch with reality. I can agree that it is likely not as nice to grow up with older parents as it probably would be with younger. An older person may not be as physically fit and capable of sports activities and such things as when he was young. And sure it is a sad thing if being older means that the children will not be as healthy. I'm saying *if* here because I'm not entirely convinced that this really is the case.

    But the rest of what you write is naught but hogwash. It's not a parent's job to be 'hip' with what you call 'current culture'. It is his job to represent his or her own and be a good role model for the child. Age has absolutely nothing to do with this. A person does not go obsolete because he older either, on the contrary! Just because you think you're cool using your iPad, iPod, iPhone and all manner of social channels it doesn't mean that you are anything. Pretty much all this technology that is around you is made and founded by the ones you would like to call 'geriatrics' and not the younger generation.

    The thing is that there are a lot of people out there who spent a lot of time and energy on their education and careers, simply because they have the genetic capabilities to do so. So I find it kind of sad that such gifted and talented people don't get to have children and pass their talents on to them. The world needs more smart people and to be rid of the low gifted ones. Now that's a sad truth that cannot be denied.

  52. Vitamin D deficiency from lack of outdoors time? by Paul+Fernhout · · Score: 1

    That all may well have some truth. Also, many decades ago, social roles and courtship procedures were more clearly defined (as "manners", and also religious systems). So, it may have been easier back then for Aspies to marry at a younger age with less unstructured social situations to navigate?

    Still, another factor could be that vitamin D deficiency may also cause autism, and I wonder if older parents may spend less time outdoors in the sun and so have their young child outdoors less? Older skin also has more trouble making vitamin D. And certainly many Aspies may have intense indoor hobbies and jobs.
    http://www.vitamindcouncil.org...
    http://www.psychologytoday.com...

    This recent study somewhat questions the link through for mothers and kids though (except they cite the population mean which itself seems to be low, which may confound the study IMHO):
    http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pu...

    Contrast with supplements needed to adjust for our indoor lifestyle:
    http://www.grassrootshealth.ne...

    Maybe also of interest on the implications of living in a world with so many artificial toxins in the air and food (like lead and artificial colors) -- where a lack of things like vitamin D and iodine make it harder for kids to deal with the toxins:
    http://www.huffingtonpost.com/...

    Anyway, a complex topic, with pros and cons about everything relative to different situations.

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  53. You must not have met many insane people by IgnorantMotherFucker · · Score: 1

    Plenty of them are coldly rational, yet completely unaware that they are floridly delusional.

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    1. Re:You must not have met many insane people by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Plenty of them are coldly rational, yet completely unaware that they are floridly delusional.

      That's not full-tilt psychosis, which is what lay people mean by 'mad'. Someone is the grip of a schizophrenic breakdown does not make much sense at all: fragmented speech patterns, distorted perceptions, bizarre beliefs and florid hallucinations (voices and/or visions) make them pretty much obviously "mad". But most episodes of paranoia and delusional beliefs do not represent an ongoing psychotic disorder like schizophrenia. These have been found to be very common in the allegedly "normal" population. In one study, one in ten "normal" people reported experiencing an episode of paranoia in the previous 12 months. People just don't talk about it, but there are also many "high-functioning" psychotics who otherwise live normal lives.

      Coldly rational self-serving people with a total absence of any moral compass and who experience no guilt are called psychopaths. That has nothing to do with psychosis although a psychopath can also suffer from other disorders. Management layers of large companies and government are full of psychopaths, they can be totally ruthless high-achievers. I've worked for at least one. It would be interesting to know if Hitler was a high-functioning psychotic, a psychopath, both, or neither. He could have been just another asshole with a narcissistic personality disorder ie what we usually think of as a nasty person. Disclaimer: IANAPs

  54. You just answered your own question. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    If the new life would rather not live he can go jump off a cliff or something. If oyu don't create the life the life never gets a chance to decide for itself. The unborn aren't in a place of peace, they are nowhere. The dead aren't in a place of peace (unless you count a grave as a peacefull place. But I'm sure the corpses don't care about peacefull or not..)

    So. Breed. Fill the earth. Exploit resources. Kill all animals. Kill eachothers. Or try to live anf let live, take care of animals. Develop methods of living sustainably. Conquer other planets, stars, galaxies. Each and every person must decide for themselves.

  55. Quick answer by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Roll back the times a bit. Have Grandparents live very close or in the same building. Kids basically get youg healthy parents, and resources and life wisdom from grandparents. Parents will also get some support from grandparents, and grandparents will get help from physically able bodied adults. Also, mentally very good for everyone, as you get the feeling of belonging there. (yes yes, mother-in-law living with you doesn't soud good eh? ;) ). Yes, there are problems, but I think the total effect would be hugely positive.

  56. Re:I was asked to pass on this note... by Roachie · · Score: 2

    Dunning and Kruger seem to be awfully sure of themselves. Just sayin.

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  57. That depends by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Your response is essentially meaningless as it impossible to validate your theory that it is peaceful there and that they would therefore be better off than if they came here.

    Being impossible to validate scientifically we are left with religious answers to that question. Every faith has a different answer for your theory, and the question of "is ir right to take them from the peaceful pre-mortal existence to this crazy world?"

    As a Latter Day Saint our faith tells us that when God put forth the plan that included mortality and the suffering associated with it the host of heaven cheered. The KJV New Testament states that life without a body was so painful for some of the spirit children of God that they chose to multiply inhabit a single body and were known as legion. So my faiths answer to your question would be yes we are doing them good bringing them here. However we hold that this is entirely a personal choice so we would in no way interfere with your choice not to produce children.

    I'm sure there are other faiths that would argue the opposite meaning bringing children to life is wrong, but I'm hard pressed to find one as such a practice tends to reduce the congregation quickly and that religion quickly fades away.