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How Academia Still Struggles With Sexual Harassment (buzzfeed.com)

New submitter Dr. Scatterplot writes: Richard Feynman is celebrated as a brilliant scientist and idiosyncratic character. He is also someone who today might be accused of sexual harassment. That is, if his students felt empowered to report him. Whether his department would have done anything back then is a different matter. How far should academic communities go to protect their intellectual capital, at the expense of further harm to their students, past and present? UC Berkeley and exoplanet astronomers are walking that line with prominent professor and exoplanet discoverer Geoff Marcy. "Four women alleged that Marcy repeatedly engaged in inappropriate physical behavior with students, including unwanted massages, kisses, and groping. As a result of the findings, the women were informed, Marcy has been given 'clear expectations concerning his future interactions with students,' which he must follow or risk 'sanctions that could include suspension or dismissal.''

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  1. Academia is willing to protect total dicks by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 3, Insightful

    It's the conflict between universities wanting to be an open environment of learning, education, and research (i.e. their fucking job) and actually making money. Universities literally make money on the discoveries of their researchers. So unfortunately they get plenty of leeway when it comes to this, because most universities aren't willing to actually fight a tenured professor on this.

    Meanwhile, universities adopted extremely stringent rules on campus rape. It's not like they don't believe this is a problem. But they sure as hell do believe that students are expendable but professors aren't.

    (Personally, I think university sexual harassment and rape proceedings should have power to fire tenured professors - tenure is supposed to protect professors with unpopular opinions, not professors who sexually harass their students.)

    1. Re:Academia is willing to protect total dicks by HiThere · · Score: 5, Interesting

      Unfortunately, accusations of sexual harassment are often easy to create to punish politically incorrect beliefs or actions.

      It's a real problem, and I don't see any easy solution. There is a strong cultural tradition that says that women are supposed to protest against pursuit, even when that's what they really want, and there's no easy way to tell.

      Clearly the only safe procedure is to immediately desist upon request, but there's also a strong cultural tradition that says this is "unmanly". Whoops!

      We seem to be groping towards a tradition where honesty is demanded on both sides, but getting there is causing a lot of people a lot of problems. For a minor example of the kind of problem from a few decades ago "Should a man hold a door open for a woman?". For awhile you would receive abuse no matter HOW you answered that. (From different groups, but still abuse.) For that matter just last week I heard a woman saying (as a compliment) to a man that it had been years since the last time a man held a door open for her. She still saw that the the proper polite behavior.

      Now note that the question of holding a door open never had the degree of seriousness attached to it that "inappropriate advances" had. OTOH, under the old standard the professor would be forbidden to approach the female student no matter how provocative she was. So (as reported) he was following neither the old standard nor the developing standard.

      In this case the only answer I see is "life logs". If either was wearing a life log, then the situation would not be in doubt, and in *THAT* case I think that there should be the ability to remove tenure. But there should also be a right of appeal, though to who? The administration or the faculty? Whichever of those two groups wasn't running the prior proceedings would be my first cut at an answer, but one might also consider whether the students should have a say in this.

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    2. Re:Academia is willing to protect total dicks by PseudoThink · · Score: 3, Interesting

      I offered to pay for a recording device for my friend, who was regularly sexually harassed by her faculty adviser. She decided against it, mainly because she felt trapped in her situation. Getting another adviser (either by seeking one or reporting the abuse of hers) would mean abandoning years of work (and racking up more debt), which could not simply be resumed with another adviser.

    3. Re:Academia is willing to protect total dicks by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 2, Insightful

      Try reading the comment before posting a reply.

    4. Re: Academia is willing to protect total dicks by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Yeah...that's totally what they implied. /s

    5. Re:Academia is willing to protect total dicks by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 2, Insightful

      There is a strong cultural tradition that says that women are supposed to protest against pursuit, even when that's what they really want, and there's no easy way to tell.

      Clearly the only safe procedure is to immediately desist upon request, but there's also a strong cultural tradition that says this is "unmanly". Whoops!

      Are you fucking serious? If they say stop, you fucking stop. End of discussion. No matter how much of a blow to your manhood you perceive it to be.

      No easy way to tell? Jesus Christ.

    6. Re:Academia is willing to protect total dicks by godrik · · Score: 4, Informative

      That is the main problem with sexual harassement. Once a sexual harassement case appear, the consequences of being wrong will be terrible in either case:
      1/ either you let a sexual harasser free.
      2/ or you destroy the life of an innocent.

      Neither of these options are preferable. And because it is so hard to get evidence of these, it often ends in "he said/she said". So everyone wants to tiptoe around it.

    7. Re:Academia is willing to protect total dicks by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 2, Informative

      " There is a strong cultural tradition that says that women are supposed to protest against pursuit, even when that's what they really want, and there's no easy way to tell. "

      Wrong. If a woman likes you she will let you know subtly.Do you seriously think a woman is going to protest against the advances of someone they are romantically attracted to? Understanding the nuance between friendliness and flirting is something most geeks fail to understand or realize it even exists.

      "Clearly the only safe procedure is to immediately desist upon request, but there's also a strong cultural tradition that says this is "unmanly". Whoops!"

      Wrong. You stop. Don't be a creep.

    8. Re: Academia is willing to protect total dicks by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

      Except in this case four different she's said it, and still nothing happens.
      He's just a man can't control his urges right! It was all just a joke! Those women are so up tight!

    9. Re:Academia is willing to protect total dicks by Cederic · · Score: 1, Insightful

      Sure, I stop. I also see other men that don't stop, and end up with her on top riding him screaming in ecstasy.

      Any fucking wonder it's confusing for some men?

    10. Re: Academia is willing to protect total dicks by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Without proper evidence, how do we know that any of the four are trustworthy? We want justice, not a witch hunt. It's important to root out harassment, but it's also important to be certain it exists before destroying careers.

    11. Re:Academia is willing to protect total dicks by Intrepid+imaginaut · · Score: 1, Interesting

      A lot depends on the woman, the culture, her personal attitudes and experiences, and how she actually feels about the man in question. For myself I've found Eastern European women to be quite forthright about what they want or don't, while American women run the gamut. In some places and for some women immediately responding in the positive to an approach, even a welcome one, is considered somewhat slutty. And it must be said, by far the most ferocious criticism of women for so-called "slutty" behaviour comes from other women in my experience.

      Just to be clear, I'm not talking about unwanted kisses, groping and massages - that's not acceptable in a professional environment or indeed any environment (and let's not kid ourselves that men are the sole perpetrators either), but rather approaching a woman with the aim of perhaps beginning a romantic relationship.

      Again personally I take rebuffs at face value but I recognise there are other nuances which aren't as cut and dried as they may seem at first glance.

      Oh and never, ever date a feminist.

    12. Re:Academia is willing to protect total dicks by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

      The question itself is sexist.

      "Should a person hold a door open for another person?"

      Is how I would rephrase the questions and of course answer yes.

    13. Re:Academia is willing to protect total dicks by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I think he means that women expect a man to try and try again, she will be playing hard to get.
      But as she says no the first time, a man is not allowed to continue, even though she wanted to.

    14. Re:Academia is willing to protect total dicks by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      ... women are supposed to protest against pursuit ...

      Really, when? I haven't heard a woman say that. There may be complaints about several specific men but that's a woman claiming she can choose which men pursue her. Despite women being 'encouraged' (via an archaic leap-year tradition and a vague promise of gender equality) to propose marriage, they wait for a man to say how important she is, which according to the post-modern chick-flicks should be done while grovelling on his knees. Women still don't say "I'll fuck you now" but use an overload of ambiguous flirting gestures, leaving men to guess what her flirtations mean. Women don't try to gain men's attention with free drinks and meals, because they don't have to: They wear revealing clothes, that men aren't allowed to wear, then claim it doesn't mean anything. Plus, there's women ready to slut-shame their sisters for enjoying the single-life 'too much'. The feminine role still depends greatly on men pursuing women.

      ...cultural tradition that says this is "unmanly" ...

      That translates as it's manly to ignore a woman's life choices. I think it's tradition to take advantage of the fact that women, contrary to the feminist ideology, depend on men to perform the 'heavy lifting' of family life. The feminist revolution of the 1980s removed a lot of the dependence women have on men via equal pay, cheap contraception, education opportunities, job opportunities, maternity leave, access to finance and the power of men to control her social activities. But something hasn't changed: What 2 themes are in every chick-flick? 1) Men choose love, and 2) Stalking a woman has a happy ending. There is a strong cultural tradition telling men to behave badly.

    15. Re:Academia is willing to protect total dicks by Nidi62 · · Score: 2, Interesting

      Sure, I stop. I also see other men that don't stop, and end up with her on top riding him screaming in ecstasy.

      Maybe you would have better luck with women if you didn't stalk them home during their one-night stands?

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    16. Re:Academia is willing to protect total dicks by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      .

      Oh and never, ever date a feminist.

      Just to say -- maybe never date someone who chooses to twist every event into a story about the oppression of the female sex. But let's remember that the definition of a feminist is someone who supports women's rights based on equality of men and women. I don't think this is a remotely worrying or avoidance-worthy position.

    17. Re:Academia is willing to protect total dicks by tnk1 · · Score: 5, Insightful

      In the context of this case, I quite agree.

      The professor is in a position of power, or at least respect, in an organization like a university. He shouldn't be hitting on the students. Period.

      I know there is a long history of professors banging co-eds, and sometimes that's fully consensual between adults, but even so, professors should not be playing cat and mouse intimacy with their peers let alone their students. This is a workplace matter, not a mating dance. If a woman does want to get busy with a professor, and is playing a coy game with him, who cares? It isn't unmanly for him to refuse to play the game, it's professional for him to refuse to become involved. Surely a professor should not be taking a page from the caveman manual on intergender relationships to justify his pursuit.

      As a manager, I don't get to give my female employees massages, and I'd demur even if a particularly attractive one straight up asked me to. Why? Because the workplace is the wrong place for that and I have a substantial effect on her career if we were to get involved or if there was even the suggestion that we were involved. So why are professors supposed to be special? Do they have no professional ethics?

      All that should be necessary is that there are witnesses to the behavior. The woman herself shouldn't even need to come forward if third parties can vouch for it.

      I admit that there is a potential for issues when anonymous claims are made. There does need to be a way of dealing with that fairly and honestly. You should be allowed to face your accuser if accused of such a crime, but at the same time, there has to be understanding that the victims are in a difficult position.

    18. Re:Academia is willing to protect total dicks by TheLongshot · · Score: 2

      "Should a man hold a door open for a woman?"

      The answer is easy: hold the door open no matter if it is a man or woman. Why should sex matter in being polite?

    19. Re:Academia is willing to protect total dicks by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

      The question itself is speciesist. What if one identifies themselves as a dragonkin or potatokin?

      "Should an animal, plant, mineral or combination of these hold a door open for another animal, plant, mineral or combination of these?"

      Is how I would rephrase the questions and of course answer: only if the animal, plant, mineral or combination of these obtained the door's written consent in the presence of two witnesses and both parties' lawyers. Without the door's consent - which can be withdrawn at any moment before, during or after the holding - approaching the door is rape.

    20. Re:Academia is willing to protect total dicks by Krishnoid · · Score: 2

      "Should a man hold a door open for a woman?"

      I bet the answer is the same as "Does this dress make me look fat?" :-)

    21. Re:Academia is willing to protect total dicks by tnk1 · · Score: 2

      There's nothing confusing about it. It's like everything else.

      You stand a higher chance of getting banged if you take that sort of risk, but it's a risk. And even if they fuck like crazed, consenting weasels, it isn't necessarily "happily ever after".

      Think about all the sexual abuse accusers out there. At least some of them are likely people who played the game, got what they thought wanted, and then realized later that they were actually "molested". I'm not one to dismiss accusations of molestation lightly, but probability states that at least some of them are actually false charges. And if you did take that risk with a partner, then no matter how good the sex was, you just set yourself up for trouble down the road.

      Also, when others in your field see you making moves on students or subordinates, your reputation can suffer. Even if he or she really wants it, you're now pegged as a creep. Just look at this guy. Even assuming all of the anonymous girls are lying about him, he's been seen in public doing creepy things. It doesn't matter if each and every girl he massaged got hot and rode him for the next three weeks afterward. He's still got a reputation for that shit.

      Seriously, sex isn't all that hard to come by. Probably less so for some famous academic. The only way to end the whole "playing hard to get" stereotype is to refuse to play that game. Especially when you are in a position where you could do real harm if you are wrong about her real intentions, or even if you're right and still manage to fuck yourself over.

    22. Re:Academia is willing to protect total dicks by sjames · · Score: 1

      Try watching any movie involving romance up to the late '80s or so. You'll be surprised.

    23. Re:Academia is willing to protect total dicks by jedidiah · · Score: 2

      You're just trying to commit the "no true scottsman" fallacy.

      You can only judge a movement by it's followers.

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    24. Re:Academia is willing to protect total dicks by Krishnoid · · Score: 1

      If they say stop, you fucking stop.

      Interestingly, the codes of conduct for fan conventions are the venues I've seen which state this almost completely unambiguously and with the most clarity.

    25. Re:Academia is willing to protect total dicks by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      A communist is someone who support equal right of the rich and the poor.

      A islamist is someone who support equal right for muslim and infidel.

      A feminist is someone who support equal right for men and women.

      You can chant that non-sense all day it will not make it true. Feminist are women supremacist. Judge the movement by their actions, not some abstract definition that is no way near reality.

    26. Re:Academia is willing to protect total dicks by caseih · · Score: 1, Insightful

      Oh really. You know nothing of this woman and nothing of her situation beyond what little was shared with us. It's okay to not pass judgement on a case because one lacks facts. But you have absolutely no right to make such a broad, casual judgement. In fact your attitude is part of this very problem.

    27. Re:Academia is willing to protect total dicks by guises · · Score: 2

      Are you deliberately misreading that? It's not like "playing hard to get" was a phrase that some rapist just made up one day, it's a real thing that really happens. A lot. It doesn't matter if you don't like it, it's still a real thing that really happens. A lot.

    28. Re:Academia is willing to protect total dicks by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I take your point, but I believe many people would self-describe as feminists without exhibiting many of the traits people ascribe to, and dislike about feminists

    29. Re: Academia is willing to protect total dicks by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      For reoccurring issues, it should be easy to gain physical evidence: video, audio, emails, text messages.

    30. Re: Academia is willing to protect total dicks by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      You are being dimensionalist by assuming 3 dimensions in which the above can take place. On behalf of the inhabitants of Flatland, I demand you retract your dimensionalistic statement and proceed to HR for re-education.

    31. Re:Academia is willing to protect total dicks by gweihir · · Score: 1

      Actually, academia _needs_ to protect "total dicks". The history of great scientific discovery has quite a few ow them. For example, apparently Newton was a "total dick".

      Incidentally, the traditional countermeasure to this behavior is a full-arm slap to the face. Apparently, many women are to wimpy to administer these today, so the bad behavior continues.

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    32. Re:Academia is willing to protect total dicks by Etherwalk · · Score: 1

      If it was real criminal harassment she would have done the recording. This whole thing was probably her trying to get attention.

      Worst case, she genuinely feel uncomfortable. So what? Women expressing their sexuality make me uncomfortable on daily basis; Stupid cleavage, stinking perfume, annoying clapping shoes and distracting cloth. I don't go around accusing them of sexual harassment. Maybe I should, maybe I should claim victim-hood status and gain women privilege. LOL.

      Unless real actual rape (not stare rape, regret rape, drunk rape, revenge rape, etc. Real rape under duress WITH a police investigation) was involve I don't pay attention to these whore any more.

      You clearly was hoping to get sex and I understand why you try to help her. But man up; you should have told that bitch to fuck off. Being a white knight mangina will get you no where.

      Completely wrong. Just because you would protest does not mean another person would. A huge percentage of rape cases are actually cases of miscommunication where a woman perceives a rape and a man does not, because she did not protest assertively and he does not realize he is having sex with her without her consent. Criminal harassment occurs every day against a huge number of people who do not report it.

    33. Re:Academia is willing to protect total dicks by Etherwalk · · Score: 2

      Are you deliberately misreading that? It's not like "playing hard to get" was a phrase that some rapist just made up one day, it's a real thing that really happens. A lot. It doesn't matter if you don't like it, it's still a real thing that really happens. A lot.

      It does happen--studies show somewhere in the 20-40% of women range at some point refuse sexual advances when they want them. But you shouldn't assume that's what's happening, because 20-40% at *some* point saying one thing and meaning another, no matter how big your ego is, you should not assume they are talking about YOU.

    34. Re:Academia is willing to protect total dicks by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

      Seriously, sex isn't all that hard to come by.

      Get lost, normie.

      Your kind aren't welcome here.

    35. Re:Academia is willing to protect total dicks by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Besides, I also hear it is a thing where women who get what they want too easily have less respect for men who give into them.

      So just consider your attempt to not be a douchenozzle as a pro move that also makes her extra wet and craving of your not-inconsiderable man meat.

    36. Re:Academia is willing to protect total dicks by PseudoThink · · Score: 2

      My friend is lesbian. Apparently, her faculty adviser found this fascinating. During their regular meetings, instead of keeping to the purpose of their meetings (ie. her research), he would do things like ask whether she found particular women attractive or not. He also repeatedly commented that she would be more attractive it she wore more feminine clothing, or wore her hair differently (ie. past her shoulders). According to her, these kinds of inappropriate digressions happened regularly. She not only felt objectified and creeped out by his behavior, but the digressions took substantial time away from making progress with her research. Sometimes, she could not proceed further in her work without his input, and he would spend their whole meeting on stuff like that. Keep in mind, she's a student, racking up loans while getting her degree, so these kinds of frequent delays were costing her money as well as time, aside from the whole issue of harassment.

      I don't know why she would make this stuff up. She's not an attention seeker, and obviously doesn't intend to seek retribution or punishment against the guy. She's quiet, introverted, and non-confrontational.

      Furthermore, I have a male friend who had the same faculty adviser. The adviser was a total asshole to him. He regularly implied or directly called my male friend an idiot. Again, my male friend is quiet, introverted, and non-confrontational, so he got walked on. I'm not sure how much of a difference it would have made if he weren't, though, due to the power dynamic. I attended his defense, and actually met the adviser. There were five professors at his defense, including his adviser. Among these, only his adviser interrupted his defense to criticize his presentation. Frequently, and usually for something completely trivial. Several times, he insisted that my friend change the phrasing of a statement, to the point where he would literally tell him exactly what to say, then have him repeat it out loud, word for word. It was embarrassingly obvious to everyone in the room that this adviser just loved the power, and loved to exercise it in ways that would trivialize or demean others. It was absurd to watch, even if it weren't my friend taking the brunt of the abuse.

    37. Re:Academia is willing to protect total dicks by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      The correct answer is always

      "No, because you don't need that dress to look fat."

    38. Re:Academia is willing to protect total dicks by jedidiah · · Score: 1

      That's not politeness, that's treating someone as a weak inferior. It's too easy to be mistaken for chauvanism.

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    39. Re:Academia is willing to protect total dicks by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Old or new standard, no matter how "provocative" an (assumed-male) professor finds, or afterwards claims to have found, an (assumed female and younger) student, this has no bearing on the fact that it is inappropriate for him to initiate a sexual relationship with her, or even agree to one initiated BY her.

      Not so long as he provides part of her academic input, or has any say over her grade.

    40. Re:Academia is willing to protect total dicks by R3d+M3rcury · · Score: 3, Funny
    41. Re:Academia is willing to protect total dicks by St.Creed · · Score: 0

      Women expressing their sexuality make me uncomfortable

      maybe I should claim victim-hood status and gain women privilege. LOL.

      ...these whore ...

      ...man up; you should have told that bitch to fuck off.

      I guess you nicely illustrate the issue at hand.

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    42. Re:Academia is willing to protect total dicks by hoyle · · Score: 0

      OTOH, under the old standard the professor would be forbidden to approach the female student no matter how provocative she was

      That's the whole point! Under any standard, the professor should be forbidden from having any romantic interaction with a student. Period. There is no scenario in which the power differential between a faculty and a student leads to a fully consensual relationship.

    43. Re:Academia is willing to protect total dicks by St.Creed · · Score: 2

      So true! I too, slam the door in the face of my co-workers. It teaches them to keep up with me and walk faster.

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    44. Re:Academia is willing to protect total dicks by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      No, the ggf and you are implying a strawman. Almost no feminist is the way you suggest they are, a large majority of feminists fit perfectly in the definition of the anonymous gf: "someone who supports women's rights based on equality of men and women". That's how the movement started over a century ago and that's exactly what it is today. Of course, today like the day feminism begun, there are some people (mostly men) who caricature the movement and attack and obvious strawman because, deep down, the feel uncomfortable competing in equality with women.

      I'm a feminist, my gf is a feminist and I would never ever date someone who wasn't a feminist.

    45. Re:Academia is willing to protect total dicks by ADRA · · Score: 1, Insightful

      You weren't going to screw her anyways. She wanted 'that' guy and not you. If you want to be a raping piece of shit, that's your business. You're an anonymous voice on the internet, but don't expect sympathy. Yes means yes and no means no.

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    46. Re:Academia is willing to protect total dicks by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

      You are wrong on two counts. 1) Sexual harassment allegations are not easy to make. Honestly, think about what you are saying! Just telling somebody it happened is a major battle. If you make a formal allegation be prepared to lose years of your life reliving the experience again and again. Easy as pie. Oh, and be prepared to lose decades of your life if the allegation is false. False accusations can of course cause temporary harm to the reputation of the accused but are exceptionally dangerous to the accuser. 2) Fake allegations are a real problem - in so far as they theoretically exist - but study after study has found that they are so exceptionally rare as to make them statistically irrelevant.

    47. Re:Academia is willing to protect total dicks by amiga3D · · Score: 0

      Without proof, it never happened.

    48. Re: Academia is willing to protect total dicks by Stewie241 · · Score: 2

      I wouldn't judge her for not recording the transactions, on the other hand, given that it was unlikely to stop I wonder if it would have been possible to record and wait until she was finished in order to prevent it from happening to future students. I doubt this is isolated behaviour and it sounds like he was generally an asshole.

      Additionally, enduring and keeping the records might have underlined and highlighted the bleakness of the situation a student might find themselves in - forced to endure unwanted attention because of the stakes that are on the line.

    49. Re:Academia is willing to protect total dicks by Zero__Kelvin · · Score: 0

      No. It is reasonable to suspect that nothing is going on if we take PsuedoThink at his word. It makes no sense that somebody wouldn't want a clear and easy way out. Claiming her work would be abandoned is ridiculous, and no university would try to collect on tuition from a student could prove they were being sexually harassed. Since the claim is that the woman is very intelligent, the further claims are contradicted by logical induction.

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    50. Re:Academia is willing to protect total dicks by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      The guy doesn't seem condescending, and the advice is pretty good. He's not even passing judgement. In fact, I think the only problem here is *your* attitude.

    51. Re: Academia is willing to protect total dicks by guruevi · · Score: 3, Insightful

      So how is that rape? Miscommunication happens in every interaction including sexual reproduction. If your mechanic says your brakes are on their way out and should be replaced soon does not make him a murderer when they fail 6 months later. Soon is ill defined but for a mechanic it may mean a few weeks but you may think before the next inspection.

      Rape is pretty well defined legally. Regretting after the fact or going along with it for whatever reason does not fall under the legal definition of rape. And yes, I know feminists are trying to reclassify all male advances towards females as rape but it doesn't make it right.

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    52. Re:Academia is willing to protect total dicks by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Nope, you've been brainwashed. The movement has been largely hijacked by crazies and those with other agendas, hence why the term "feminist" is taking on an increasingly negative connotation. Also, women aren't nearly as oppressed as they used to be in the US and Europe, and especially now with all the PC crap going on they wield more than enough power to protect themselves with but a word about potential "sexism" or "bigotry". You really want equality, focus your efforts on the Middle East and Africa. Those areas are truly awful right now for women.

      But go ahead and cover your ears and claim it's still the 1960s if you want, and fight the easy battles because the hard ones have all been won before you were born.

    53. Re:Academia is willing to protect total dicks by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      It's a minority of feminists who don't believe the myth of rape culture, and they don't call out the liars who do. It's a minority of feminists who don't believe the wage gap myth, and they don't call out the liars who do. It's a painfully small minority of feminists who tell the vapid harpies to shut up when those harpies whinge about things like man spreading or shirts scientists wear. It's a rounding error when you talk about the feminists who call out the feminists who post things like #killallmen. It's feminists who kill dogs of a woman and threaten her family that ran the first DV shelter in a country when she realized that men were DV victims too. It's feminists that insist facts don't matter when a man is accused of rape. It's feminists that make sure rape won't be defined to include made to penetrate under the legal charge of rape. Get your head out of your fucking ass and wake up.

    54. Re:Academia is willing to protect total dicks by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Bullshit. You've been watching too much porn.

      You open your mouth and ASK THE LADY IF SHE WANTS TO HAVE SEX WITH YOU.

      If you are the lady's boss or teacher you DO NOT ATTEMPT TO HAVE SEX WITH THE LADY, BECAUSE THAT IS UNPROFESSIONAL.

      It's not difficult.

    55. Re:Academia is willing to protect total dicks by Dog-Cow · · Score: 1

      If they say stop, you fucking stop.

      If they say stop, you stop fucking.

    56. Re:Academia is willing to protect total dicks by joe_frisch · · Score: 1

      Yes this is a serious problem. A graduate adviser has a tremendous amount of power over their students and its easy for that to lead to abuse. It makes sense for universities to ban any sexual / romantic contact between students and professors for this reason.

      I haven't personally seen this, but it doesn't surprise me at all that it happened. I have no practical advice to offer to someone in her situation either. Even with proof enough to get her professor fired, or even convicted - her career is badly damaged.

      Abuse of students can take many forms, but sexual harassment is one of the worst.

    57. Re:Academia is willing to protect total dicks by joe_frisch · · Score: 1, Insightful

      But that doesn't matter.
      The imbalance of power between an academic adviser and a student is too large for there to be any reasonable concept of consent. He can take years from her life, possibly ruin her academic future. It is his responsibility to avoid any sort of sexual contact. His only excuse for any sort of sexual interaction with her is if she raped him.

    58. Re:Academia is willing to protect total dicks by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 3, Insightful

      You just called someone that agrees "Yes means yes and no means no." a raping pieces of shit. Reflect on that.

    59. Re: Academia is willing to protect total dicks by Etherwalk · · Score: 0

      So how is that rape? Miscommunication happens in every interaction including sexual reproduction. If your mechanic says your brakes are on their way out and should be replaced soon does not make him a murderer when they fail 6 months later. Soon is ill defined but for a mechanic it may mean a few weeks but you may think before the next inspection.

      Rape is pretty well defined legally. Regretting after the fact or going along with it for whatever reason does not fall under the legal definition of rape. And yes, I know feminists are trying to reclassify all male advances towards females as rape but it doesn't make it right.

      Rape is actually *terribly* defined legally. The legal definition of rape often requires "forcible" rape, but many states have read it out of the law. Most states also have different laws around statutory rape that on average people aren't really sure about but have guesses about, like "we think there's a 3-year difference that's okay".

      It is rape in that scenario because there is sex in which one of the parties did not consent. They may not have *protested*, but they did not *consent*.

      Nobody said regretting it after the fact made it rape.

      "Going along with it for whatever reason" can fall under the legal definition of rape, depending on what you mean by "going along with it." The fact is that if you participate in sexual activity where consent is ambiguous, you may be raping someone. If you decide that this is not rape, congratulations, you have a view taken by a large minority of society, but *definitely* not by everyone, and much less likely to be taken by women.

      This problem is fixed by making consent explicit.

    60. Re:Academia is willing to protect total dicks by arglebargle_xiv · · Score: 1

      For a minor example of the kind of problem from a few decades ago "Should a man hold a door open for a woman?"

      For those who weren't around then, the term that was applied to this at the time was, and I kid you not, "non-contact rape". Yep, holding a door open for someone, a.k.a. "common courtesy", was labelled as a form of rape when it was a man holding the door for a woman.

    61. Re:Academia is willing to protect total dicks by caseih · · Score: 1

      Oh wow.

    62. Re: Academia is willing to protect total dicks by PseudoThink · · Score: 1

      I commented about this lower in the thread. Basically, recording covertly isn't really an option (legally), and recording openly would have likely been too confrontational for her and/or too easy for him to raise a fuss about. While undoubtedly an asshole, the adviser is a theoretical mathematician. Literally a smart, calculating villain.

    63. Re:Academia is willing to protect total dicks by PseudoThink · · Score: 1

      Her work was in theoretical mathematics, on a thesis for which (as she explained to me) this adviser was her only option, at her school. If the work was generic or potentially transferable research, it might make sense that she should be able to simply find another adviser. It's something both of my friends would have certainly done, if that were an option. I think once one gets to that level of material, though, specialization is the rule, and one typically selects an adviser based (in part) on their specialization. You're kind of locked in, then, and become more so with time.

      I'm not sure your statement "no university would try to collect on tuition from a student [who] could prove they were being sexually harassed" is viable. Couldn't the university claim that the adviser's offense is not the university's offense? Also, "proving" sexual harassment is easier said than done. Covert recordings are usually illegal/inadmissable as evidence, and overt recording would simply result in the adviser censoring themselves, or not allowing the recording. Even assuming one could obtain legal, indisputable evidence...would you want to put your academic and professional career on pause, in order to take it to court? I know I probably would, but just because I would doesn't mean others would.

      What surprises me here is all the vitriol and hostility being directed against my account of my friend's difficult situation. I don't get the point of it. Why would she make this stuff up, and why would I? Rhetorical questions, of course...I'm fully aware of what Internet anonymity does to discourse.

    64. Re:Academia is willing to protect total dicks by NicknameUnavailable · · Score: 1

      There's also the glaringly overwhelming truth that feminists don't produce anything for society aside from feminist propaganda.

      Weighted against even the shittiest most senile and offensive scientist I'm going to have to lean on the side of the scientist.

    65. Re:Academia is willing to protect total dicks by HiThere · · Score: 2

      It's because a lot of men have internalized the cultural bias that anyone who is easily discouraged is unmanly, and that women do (and should) deny interest even when they are interested. Try figuring out how to act with those beliefs if sexual harassment is penalized.

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      I think we've pushed this "anyone can grow up to be president" thing too far.
    66. Re:Academia is willing to protect total dicks by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      The poster you're responding to didn't say you don't stop, he explicitly said you do. He also said the culture strongly encourages otherwise. To simplify this down to "You stop. Don't be a creep." is all well and good, but it probably isn't going to solve the problem.

      Look around at contemporary characters in fiction. Christian Gray, Don Draper, Drogo, Edward Cullen. Men see women loving these guys. The stories these guys are in aren't new. When I was a kid one of the biggest movies being shoved at us was Beauty and the Beast. There's so much wrong with that story it's insane.

    67. Re:Academia is willing to protect total dicks by HiThere · · Score: 3, Insightful

      It is often abused even without any sexual overtures.

      Let me rephrase that.

      The power of graduate advisors over graduate students is extremely often abused in ways that would be illegal in most other circumstances. E.g. demanding unpaid labor for over 40 hours/week.

      That is would also be abused in other ways shouldn't surprise anyone.

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      I think we've pushed this "anyone can grow up to be president" thing too far.
    68. Re:Academia is willing to protect total dicks by quantaman · · Score: 1

      That is the main problem with sexual harassement. Once a sexual harassement case appear, the consequences of being wrong will be terrible in either case:
      1/ either you let a sexual harasser free.
      2/ or you destroy the life of an innocent.

      Neither of these options are preferable. And because it is so hard to get evidence of these, it often ends in "he said/she said". So everyone wants to tiptoe around it.

      I've been wondering about the idea of changing how we deal with sexual crimes. I think there's a lot of women who don't report things because they're worried about the degree of consequences to the man, or of the process they'll be put through when trying to report and get charges filed.

      For sexual harassment or assault women I wonder if women could have the option of making a report, having an investigation done, informing the defendant of the accusation, and then having the whole thing sit on the shelf.

      Nothing happens that the defendant doesn't want to happen.... unless the defendant ends up reported again. Then all his (or her) past victims are notified that there's a new offense and they have a chance to pursue charges again or at least act as a character witness in the new trial.

      Now two things happen. First the predator is warned and will hopefully stop after the first report. Second, if they do continue it's easier to find the ones who are actually guilty.

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    69. Re:Academia is willing to protect total dicks by HiThere · · Score: 1

      They may be rare, but they have happened to politically destroy individuals. It's generally impossible to prove that the scenario was set up by an opponent. One recent example that I think was probably of this variety was Julian Assange. The evidence is not complete, but is persuasive.

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      I think we've pushed this "anyone can grow up to be president" thing too far.
    70. Re:Academia is willing to protect total dicks by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      While I disagree with the GP, there is a germ of a point there.

      These "grey area" situations are vanishingly rare. They're remarkable precisely because they are rare, and selection bias goads us into thinking that they're common.

      Having said that, I have little time for the "professor + student" scenario. If it's your student, then you hold a lot of power over that student, and it's very much inappropriate. If it's not your student (just "a" student), that's a bit different.

    71. Re:Academia is willing to protect total dicks by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      A huge percentage of rape cases are actually cases of miscommunication [...]

      Got a figure for that? Not saying you're necessarily wrong, just curious what constitutes "huge".

    72. Re:Academia is willing to protect total dicks by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Oh and never, ever date a feminist.

      You do that. All the more for me.

      Obviously stay away from second-wave feminists, but third-wave are great. You can have actual intelligent conversations with them, for a start.

    73. Re: Academia is willing to protect total dicks by cyber-vandal · · Score: 3, Insightful

      This problem is fixed by making consent explicit

      Unless it's a signed and notarised consent form how do you prove that? This is a private act with no witnesses possibly under the influence of alcohol.

    74. Re:Academia is willing to protect total dicks by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      1/ either you let a sexual harasser free.
      2/ or you destroy the life of an innocent.

      Neither of these options are preferable.

      No. It is a fundamental principle of the justice system that it is better to let a hundred guilty people go free than to punish one innocent person.

      If it is proven, beyond reasonable doubt, that the accusations are true, then you punish the accused. If it is proven, beyond reasonable doubt, that the accusations are false, you punish the accuser. If neither is true - then you do nothing.

    75. Re: Academia is willing to protect total dicks by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      A gun would be useful.

    76. Re:Academia is willing to protect total dicks by serviscope_minor · · Score: 2, Insightful

      Without proof, it never happened.

      No, without proof, there is no proof.

      Doesn't mean it didn't happen.

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    77. Re:Academia is willing to protect total dicks by serviscope_minor · · Score: 0

      It makes no sense that somebody wouldn't want a clear and easy way out.

      So in your world, covert recording of someone followed by institutional and/or legal proceedings is *easy*? Especially given:

      Claiming her work would be abandoned is ridiculous,

      It's amazing how people can hold such strong opinions on things they know so very very little about. Generally changing advisors part way through a thesis means abandoning the old work because the new advisor can't really advise effectively on someone else's sub-sub-sub-sub speciality. Doing a thesis single handed is almost impossible.

      and no university would try to collect on tuition from a student could prove they were being sexually harassed

      The tuition fees have already been paid for her time there. The tuition fees for the extra time needed due to the years of abandoned work will still have to be paid.

      Since the claim is that the woman is very intelligent, the further claims are contradicted by logical induction.

      Apparently wild speculation on the basis of extreme ignorance counts as logic in your world.

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    78. Re:Academia is willing to protect total dicks by serviscope_minor · · Score: 1

      Well hey, on the plus side at least the advisor didn't try too hard to prevent them from graduating... /sarcasm

      I love how the peanut gallery with not even the slightest knowledge of the academic system and the american one in particular (I assume, given the presence of the advisor at the defence along with the number of faculty there) making such judgement calls that obviously she was a liar/cowardly for not doing the covert recording etc.

      Asshole advisors abound because the power is stacked so heavily in their favour. And, most other faculty would only do something if absolutely forced, because well, the student will be gone soon enough and they'll have to work with the asshole for decades.

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    79. Re:Academia is willing to protect total dicks by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Sex is VERY hard to come by for a young male lacking confidence and assertiveness. I accepted that "no means no" and I never got laid in college! While I observed others experiencing sexual relationships left and right; the secret they told me, "no means yes, some of the time." I am still upset about it to this day.

      Women can initiate sexual relationships much more easily than men, with much higher chances of success and with much less fear of negative consequences. I tried with so many girls in so many ways. They all turned me down. I have never raped or forced myself on anyone. I always acquiesced to their wishes. I have a very high sex drive and no acceptable way to express it. My life is miserable. Note that I am and was always physically fit and active. Some say mildly attractive. Just not confident or aggressive.

    80. Re:Academia is willing to protect total dicks by serviscope_minor · · Score: 1

      Yep, holding a door open for someone, a.k.a. "common courtesy", was labelled as a form of rape when it was a man holding the door for a woman.

      Smells like bullshit to me.

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      SJW n. One who posts facts.
    81. Re:Academia is willing to protect total dicks by Zero__Kelvin · · Score: 3, Insightful

      "Her work was in theoretical mathematics, on a thesis for which (as she explained to me) this adviser was her only option, at her school. If the work was generic or potentially transferable research, it might make sense that she should be able to simply find another adviser."

      Or another school

      "Couldn't the university claim that the adviser's offense is not the university's offense?"

      No

      " Covert recordings are usually illegal/inadmissable as evidence without a warrant

      Sexual harassment is illegal where I am from. I don't know about where you live. If it is indeed illegal there she should talk to a lawyer, who can involve the police and secure a warrant for the recording.

      I am not one who is vitriolic, but I can assure you that the US jails have many, many inhabitants who are in jail because a women made up a story. I don't know where you live, but where I live men are very sensitive to this. Regardless of where you live the world is full of women who lie (not all by any means, of course) so most men take such accusations with a grain of salt, and even more so when the woman grows reluctant any time a way of proving it is discussed. You'll note that I emphasized the word suspect in my first post. It is certainly possible that the professor is every bit the lech that she claims, too. You'll note that I am spending my valuable time addressing this. This is because I despise both lecherous professors and woman who make up stories about men that are not true. Each is equally dangerous and offensive, and I would love it if the actual truth came to light, whatever that truth might be.

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    82. Re:Academia is willing to protect total dicks by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I have been told SPECIFICALLY by a woman: "Can I give you some advice? Women like the chance to get chased".

    83. Re:Academia is willing to protect total dicks by Antique+Geekmeister · · Score: 1

      > Without proof, it never happened.

      Like Higgs bosons, which didn't exist until they were verified in a particle accelerator. They couldn't possibly have been involved in nuclear physics before then.

    84. Re:Academia is willing to protect total dicks by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      So. Basically, he was a dick to all of his students. Except that if the female student sued him he'd get fired, possibly sent to jail, she could sue the university for money and so on. The male student? Would just get laughed out of court if he tried the same.

      Gender equality at work.

    85. Re:Academia is willing to protect total dicks by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      > many inhabitants who are in jail because a women made up a story.

      As I said to my mother when she'd say "there are starving childrenn in China": name 2.

      > Each is equally dangerous and offensive,

      Each is dangerous. The lecherous sexually harassing, abusive professors outnumber false accusers by a factor of at least 100 to 1.

    86. Re:Academia is willing to protect total dicks by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Pulling figures out of your ass surely helps a rational debate. Fact is: People harass others in professional environments all the time, men are also customarily harassed by other men and there is no job on earth where not at least some of your colleagues are assholes. My advice to everyone is to grow some balls (figuratively).

    87. Re:Academia is willing to protect total dicks by Zero__Kelvin · · Score: 1

      " The lecherous sexually harassing, abusive professors outnumber false accusers by a factor of at least 100 to 1

      How ironic that the woman is into math, and you clearly are not. Here is a math exercise for you. Figure out the total number of woman and the total number of professors. Now figure out what percentage of professors have to be lecherous for the number of them to outnumber false accusers 100 to 1. Even if you only include woman who made it to college, and are currently attending college, your claim is phenomenally absurd.

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      Guns don't kill people; Physics kills people! - John Lithgow as Dick Solomon on Third Rock From The Sun
    88. Re:Academia is willing to protect total dicks by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Your friends should have changed their adviser, or, if necessary, even the whole university. It is important to get along with advisers and supervisors and trying to drag things out and endure it is counterproductive and hard to reconcile with serious research and learning goals.

      You and your friends have to understand that not everyone can get along with everyone all the time. A certain amount of personal sympathy and respect is extremely important with supervisors, and if that person is an asshole (from your limited perspective), he or she is the wrong supervisor for you. It's a bad or too small university if there are no other choices, but it's also unrealistic and unfair to try to criminalize every behavior that you do not deem appropriate. It also doesn't matter at all whether some harassment is sexual in nature or not -- the sexual case is overweighted in comparison to other forms of harassment in many societies as a result of "nipple fear" , which is a sign of their patriarchal structure or past. ("Women are so weak, they need to be protected in all forms", typical thought pattern in these societies.) In any case, if you cannot get along with your adviser or supervisor, it's best to go somewhere else rather than trying to force people to get along with you.

      My 2 cents.

    89. Re:Academia is willing to protect total dicks by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Scene: You've had a romantic dinner and a long and exciting evening at the disco. The moon is shining, it is a wonderful midsummer night. You have escorted her to her apartment because she was afraid to be alone in the dark.

      "So, would you like to have sex with me?"

      I can see how well that works...

    90. Re:Academia is willing to protect total dicks by AmiMoJo · · Score: 1

      There is a strong cultural tradition that says that women are supposed to protest against pursuit, even when that's what they really want, and there's no easy way to tell.

      There isn't. There is a tradition of women giving in if guys keep pestering them for long enough perhaps.

      If a woman dismisses you, you stop bothering her, simple as that. If you can't read obvious signals, that's your problem. It's in your own best interests, because you won't waste so much time on women you have no chance with, you can move on to someone who is actually interested.

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    91. Re: Academia is willing to protect total dicks by Etherwalk · · Score: 1

      This problem is fixed by making consent explicit

      Unless it's a signed and notarised consent form how do you prove that? This is a private act with no witnesses possibly under the influence of alcohol.

      That is a different problem--one of false accusation. The problem I am identifying is the problem of ambiguous consent involved in a huge percentage of cases that end up being considered rape because of ambiguity about consent. False accusation is much less common. Still, the solution is recorded consent, e.g. via app, etc... Someone can always change their mind or say they did, but it's much less likely to be a problem for you if you have a record of them saying yes.

    92. Re: Academia is willing to protect total dicks by cyber-vandal · · Score: 1

      What a world we live in where you have to record everything you do in order to avoid your life being ruined.

    93. Re:Academia is willing to protect total dicks by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      What's with the slash after the number to delineate a list? Nobody does that.
      Using the word innocent in this way is liberal double-speak claptrap

    94. Re:Academia is willing to protect total dicks by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      This is the attitude that continues to foster this issue. Is it valid to kill 10 people to save 1000? Where do you cross the line.

      You are also assuming that "great scientific discoveries" can only be done by "total dicks".

    95. Re: Academia is willing to protect total dicks by Znork · · Score: 1

      This problem is fixed by making consent explicit.

      Yeah, see, the fact that you actually think that is one of the biggest problems I have with consent advocacy.

      The problem is that in reality, mens rea means you don't have to have any actual consent, you just have to think you had consent. That means that consent law changes doesn't change what you seem to think it would change. As long as someone acts in a way the accused could interpret and motivate why they thought they had consent. And going along with it explicitly does mean that they are exhibiting behaviour interpretable as consent, which means that there was affirmative consent.

      If you want the kind of consent law you seem to believe you want, then you'll have to advocate for specific and explicit consent requirements, or you're going to be complaining about why consent law didn't change anything but the margin between 'going along with' and 'not actively resisting'.

    96. Re:Academia is willing to protect total dicks by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      a) the work place is where most people spend most of their time. Interfering with their right to a sexual life is deeply wrong.

      b) there are completely simple, appropriate ways to handle having sex with over/underlings. Just before or immediately after you have done it make sure that both sides get out of each other's

    97. Re:Academia is willing to protect total dicks by amiga3D · · Score: 1

      And now they're real.

    98. Re:Academia is willing to protect total dicks by amiga3D · · Score: 2

      For all practical purposes, it never happened.

    99. Re:Academia is willing to protect total dicks by ebvwfbw · · Score: 2

      Try reading the comment before posting a reply.

      He did, you didn't, obviously. Stop being an AC. Get an account.

      I've been accused a few times myself. One time it was really definitive. I supposedly had sex with this woman one evening. That evening I was with my to be wife and a lot of other people. She was really sure until we told her about that, then it was the day before, which I was also photographed at another event, then it was last week, also I was photographed at another event. Then she admitted she was full of shit.

      Now suppose I didn't have that? Today I'd be in trouble. I've seen it in many other cases.

      Here's a clue people - women sometimes lie. Some of them lie all the time. They can be just like men. Imagine that.

      BTW, the more attractive they are, the more likely they are liars. Not always, however I found that to very often be the case. Once again, sex doesn't matter. The attractive men can be real good liars just like the real attractive women.

    100. Re:Academia is willing to protect total dicks by serviscope_minor · · Score: 0

      Oh I understand: you're stupid. Thanks for explaining.

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    101. Re:Academia is willing to protect total dicks by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      That's the problem with trying to read "obvious signals." I have gotten it wrong often enough to know that there is no such thing. Women I thought were totally interested have acted like I held I dead skunk in front of their face when I suggested a date.

      My rule is, no game-players. I can't stomach the mind games so many women like to play, and I only date women who don't fuck with my emotions.

      Yes, it means I don't date as much, but the amount of drama it spares me is worth it.

    102. Re:Academia is willing to protect total dicks by amiga3D · · Score: 2

      No, you don't understand. You don't realize that for all "practical" purposes that without proof, as far as anything can be done about it, it can be considered to never have happened. Rave all you want. it is the equivalent of beating your head against a wall. Considering that the way you use yours it might just as well be empty.......bang away.

    103. Re:Academia is willing to protect total dicks by PseudoThink · · Score: 1

      First, thank you for your time and reasonable responses, Zero_Kelvin. I appreciate your candor and insights.

      "Her work was in theoretical mathematics, on a thesis for which (as she explained to me) this adviser was her only option, at her school. If the work was generic or potentially transferable research, it might make sense that she should be able to simply find another adviser."

      Or another school

      I noted the "at her school" for this reason. Yes, finding another school was technically an option. However, the difference between "technically" and "practically" is significant. I was never a graduate student, but I know enough about the process to understand that [Boromir] one does not simply pick up and find another school [/Boromir]. The degree of harassment was relevant--it was not a black-and-white matter of violent, physical abuse. This was a real world situation, with all the fuzziness, complexity, and difficult decision-making that goes along with that. It was undoubtedly* harassment, but obviously it was not intolerable for her. I'm sure it crept into their interpersonal dynamic in an insidious fashion, over time, like a slow boil. This is part of the reason that sexual harassment is such a problem, for both the accused and the accusers.

      * Undoubtedly to me, based on my familiarity with her as a friend, and on how her story was revealed in bits and pieces, over months/years of our casual conversations. Of course, it would be impractical and difficult to convey this in words, online. My trust in my friend's honesty would never get imparted to a stranger, just as it would be very hard for me to put myself in someone else's shoes in a similar manner.

      "Couldn't the university claim that the adviser's offense is not the university's offense?"

      No

      IANAL, though I suspect you're probably correct. The question was rhetorical, intended to illustrate some of the uncertainty we faced. It's easy to simply say "No", but that is not the same as seeking answers from a qualified lawyer or legal advocate. That takes time and energy. For a graduate student who is already lacking both, being further drained by such a negative dynamic, I think it's understandable for them to avoid the stress as much as possible. We may be the kind of proactive people who focus on this kind of problem until it gets solved, but I know others (including my two math friends) sometimes opt to avoid the stress of dealing with confrontation or emotional situations.

      " Covert recordings are usually illegal/inadmissable as evidence without a warrant

      Sexual harassment is illegal where I am from. I don't know about where you live. If it is indeed illegal there she should talk to a lawyer, who can involve the police and secure a warrant for the recording.

      Seeking a warrant to gather evidence is a good idea, if that's actually an option. We didn't think of that, probably because of our unfamiliarity with legal process, and because of the time/energy that would take. However, this is part of why I posted about this, so that others facing a similar situation might have the benefit of such suggestions. Thanks!

    104. Re:Academia is willing to protect total dicks by serviscope_minor · · Score: 1

      Except you didn't say that, you outright declared it didn't happen.

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    105. Re:Academia is willing to protect total dicks by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      There was a time when couples would meet at work and sometimes the man would indeed pursue the woman for some time before she'd go out with him. And all of this would not be predatory or forced. I think your rules would make perfectly good relationships impossible. What should be taken seriously is any evidence that a man or woman abuses their position such that refusal of sexual advances result in punishment or providing sexual favours results in favourable academic results. To that end it would be enough to put a stop to direct student/teacher supervisor/supervisee affairs but there would be collateral damage even there. If you actually enforced the rules that exist today there would be very little problem.

    106. Re:Academia is willing to protect total dicks by KGIII · · Score: 1

      This... I had a great advisor and my defense was "easy" and helpful. I had no major issues. However, there were a lot of people who claimed to have issues. The number of people complaining were high enough to reasonably conclude that there was, indeed, systemic issues of abusive behavior in academia. I'm not sure if it is of benefit to relegate this to a matter of gender so much as it would benefit to simply realize that there is a problem and fix that rather than make it an emotionally charged issue about gender.

      In my experience, the number of people complaining seemed (I did not compile data from anecdotes) to be fairly equally split amongst the genders even with proportions taken into account. (There were fewer females and fewer female complaints about advisors lording power and being abusive.)

      I'd hoped this would have resolved itself by now. It certainly appears that it has not. My opinion? Open it up to public scrutiny and avoid letting it be emotionally charged and limited to simply protecting one gender. The abuse obviously happens and it obviously needs to stop. This seems like the perfect time for making it about all people as opposed to a single gender. In short, there's no excuse.

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    107. Re:Academia is willing to protect total dicks by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      .

      Oh and never, ever date a feminist.

      Just to say -- maybe never date someone who chooses to twist every event into a story about the oppression of the female sex. But let's remember that the definition of a feminist is someone who supports women's rights based on equality of men and women. I don't think this is a remotely worrying or avoidance-worthy position.

      No in my experience a feminist is a woman who puts women's rights well ahead of men's rights, believes that all women are oppressed by all men, and are happy to put down any male concern or male right in a heart beat, usually shouting it down with some "worse" oppression visited upon women that has nothing to do with the men's right issue that you have raised. Those women are bullies and are part of the problem. If you call yourself a feminist you're associating yourself with that bile.

    108. Re:Academia is willing to protect total dicks by KGIII · · Score: 1

      Your two cents don't buy much. I'm guessing you've never been involved in the process. Changing your advisor and/or university is damned near impossible if you're even remotely specialized. It's not like there are infinite slots available in candidacy programs and the number dwindles ever smaller the more specialized you become.

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    109. Re:Academia is willing to protect total dicks by KGIII · · Score: 1

      Actually, it goes both ways, I guess. I have someone whom I'm reasonably interested in and they've made a number of advances. For reasons of my own, I've yet to take them up on it. They're beautiful and all that but I am not yet comfortable and need to have a long discussion with them before going further. I've yet been able to figure out my own thoughts so that discussion hasn't happened.

      It's not a game. It's caution. For such a normally cautious group you seem to throw reason to the wind when there's a vagina involved. Don't get me wrong, I understand. I've done my share of sexing the opposing gender for fun and profit. Well, no profit really.

      I really need to do an Ask Slashdot. ;) It'd be just way too long. I'm *still* in Buffalo. Only now I'm paying for two hotel rooms. It's a very long story.

      Anyhow, patience is a good thing. I've had better luck, and experiences, with ladies who didn't put out on the first date. I've had much better luck with the ladies who I developed a relationship with. I've had terrible luck when it comes to sleeping with friends, though. Don't do that... Don't fuck your friends - don't fuck your friend's friends either. Don't - do not ever - sleep with your buddy's wife. Never ever, ever sleep with your buddy's daughter. Do not do! Trust me on those... *sighs*

      Control your cock, don't let it control you. We geeks get irrational where a moist wet spot is concerned.

      --
      "So long and thanks for all the fish."
    110. Re:Academia is willing to protect total dicks by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Case in point. A lot of excellent MIT lectures were also removed from general public access due to this:
      https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Walter_Lewin

    111. Re:Academia is willing to protect total dicks by KGIII · · Score: 1

      I am pretty sure that this is me NOT helping but...

      I can assure you that the line, "... Wanna fuck?" or "... So, sex it is, then?" Or even, "... Yup. I'm hung like a wild studded gerbil! Want me to prove it?" Those actually do work in some certain circumstances.

      The "trick" (stop thinking of it as a game, I guess) is to know where and when those are applicable. You'd be surprised at how often being up front and honest and open actually helps. It takes some balls to come out and ask it but alcohol helped with that. I no longer drink but I certainly have the courage to just ask. Sometimes, if done right, you can even use those types of lines with people you've barely met - if that's what your goal is.

      Sometimes I think we're like animals with our mating rituals. There's some science done on this and I've chuckled at a few articles over the years. Quite literally, at this moment in time, I have a fairly attractive, many years my junior, female sitting on my hotel bed and she's pecking at a laptop and eating left over Chinese food from last night. I could sleep with her, in fact she's insinuated as much though not overtly stated such.

      How to make this short? Hmm... A helpful Slashdotter suggested I go on a trip due to a conversation we had. A while back, I'd sold my business and retired. This put me into a very different class financially. It also has some complex issues associated with it, I'm not really able to judge the way people treat me or trust their motives. I also insist on being honest - no games. So, I've gone on a trip and avoided mentioning anything and I am, for all accounts pretty normal but just some dude out seeking to see what life has on offer. A late mid-life crisis, as it were.

      How to make this short?

      Now, in my travels, I've come across a young lady who's technically legally old enough. They had some major issues - her parents have been put in jail for the manufacturing of methamphetamines. Because she's still not graduated but is old enough she had been living off the graces of a few friends and a local (state or private? I've not asked) group who had put her up in the same hotel where I happened to be staying.

      I bumped into her abusing her laptop and helped her out with that (yay! Linux on a live USB) and we decided we were hungry. So we went to eat. The money was running out to keep her in housing so I've since just given the hotel a credit card and had them bill weekly for her stay. She's aware of this but unaware of much more. I've simply avoided discussing it. I refuse to lie. We've spent a great deal of time together since. I think she may have figured some of it out as I do drive a rather expensive car and haven't yet bitched about money.

      Given the nature of our relationship, the differences in age, and my own personal beliefs you can bet your ass I'm going to get a clear and definitive affirmation before having sex with this person. This is not some sort of game. There is no game involved, nor should their be. Women aren't meant to be conquered. You aren't meant to master the art of woo. Try just being honest with yourself first and then learning to be honest with others.

      Finally, yes... I know... I need to have that conversation with her. No, I have no idea how to nor do I know how to explain it. I think my best solution is to just set up a small trust that will enable her to go to college and whatnot. Then I can just move along. Picking flowers usually means you kill them. Even if you keep them alive for a while in a vase, they're still not the same. Transplanting is an option but, frankly, I can't do so objectively.

      Before you ask, yes... I've tried:

      man life
      man woman
      man advice

      So I RTFM. No, it didn't help. You fuckers told me Linux solved everything too. ;)

      --
      "So long and thanks for all the fish."
    112. Re:Academia is willing to protect total dicks by KGIII · · Score: 1

      You can only judge a movement by it's followers.

      It took me a while to come to grips with this. It's why I've since chosen to use the moniker "Classic Libertarian" instead. The party was usurped by morons and zealots. Now, everyone believes that those people represent the whole and I can't blame them. Instead, I blame us for letting them into the tent in the first place.

      --
      "So long and thanks for all the fish."
    113. Re: Academia is willing to protect total dicks by KGIII · · Score: 1

      Oh sure, you're a life apologist. How about us specterkin? I lack height, width, and breadth. I find your privilege distasteful and demand an apology!

      #heartbeatgate2015

      Seriously, can't we just admit people suck and work to change that instead of making it about one gender or the other?

      --
      "So long and thanks for all the fish."
    114. Re:Academia is willing to protect total dicks by amiga3D · · Score: 1

      Are you really that obtuse? Have you never heard that phrase used before? Or are you just pissed off at the world and looking to argue over nothing? The phrase basically means that, as far as the world will ever know, it didn't happen. How can you show that it did without proof?

    115. Re:Academia is willing to protect total dicks by Pseudonym · · Score: 0

      For all legal purposes, it never happened.

      FTFY

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    116. Re:Academia is willing to protect total dicks by Zero__Kelvin · · Score: 1

      Well, if I helped in any way I am glad. I believe you when you say it is a real situation, now that you have elaborated about the specifics of how things unfolded rather than just being a kind of" "Hi, my name is [name_here]", followed very shortly by "My professor is harassing me"! A agree, based on what you are saying, that the likelihood that she is making up a story is very slim indeed. I hope this all works out well for her somehow. I really do.

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    117. Re:Academia is willing to protect total dicks by gweihir · · Score: 1

      May aim is not to fix this issue. I am point thin out that "fixing" this could and likely will be hugely expensive and hence should not be attempted.

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    118. Re:Academia is willing to protect total dicks by guises · · Score: 1

      Uh huh. You're saying two separate things there. One: "The imbalance of power between an academic adviser and a student is too large for there to be any reasonable concept of consent." and two: "He can take years from her life, possibly ruin her academic future."

      The second thing is possibly true, and we can all agree that that situation is very bad if and when it happens. When you say the first thing all that I hear is, "I am the one who decides who can and can not be a couple. People must ask me for permission before they are allowed to fall in love, and woe onto they who defy me."

    119. Re:Academia is willing to protect total dicks by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Well, more in the context of making out.

      You'd start by asking if you can come inside, with a cheeky grin on your face. That's called flirting. If she's genuinely afraid to be alone in the dark and not that interested, she'll turn you down, you wish her a nice night and you go home. Otherwise you go in, flirt, perhaps lean in for a kiss. You're allowed to actually ask "can I kiss you?" if you're unsure. If she wants you, she'll say yes. It's not going to be like a record scratch scene stops time to go home everyone, unless she happens to be batshit crazy and you've dodged a bullet.

      The point I'm trying to make is you can actually ask. Not "beep boop I'm a robot will you fuck me?" out of nowhere; you're hardly about to just attempt to do it right outside her apartment door with narry a word exchanged either, now are you?

      You can flap your mouthparts and as a result, find out if your ladyfriend is as into the situation as you are and wants to continue.

    120. Re:Academia is willing to protect total dicks by pipedwho · · Score: 1

      Also, importantly, it creates the opportunity to properly educate the 'harasser' that specifically they are doing is considered harassment. They may also be able to learn the appropriate behaviour. All with a legal hammer hanging over them if they ignore it. In many cases this is more than enough - and would be greatly beneficial to those that truly didn't understand they were crossing boundaries. Sometimes the underdog just needs a powerful ally to be on their side to overt a problem - and they don't need their ally to go nuclear on the problem.

      Have you ever been to a class on harassment and had more than a few people (including women) present some hypothetical situation because they aren't sure if it is considered harassment? Even though the rest of room can clearly see it is (o isn't), there are people that really don't fully understand to complexities human interaction to know.

      BTW, this applies to both sexual harassment and harassment in general.

    121. Re:Academia is willing to protect total dicks by joe_frisch · · Score: 1

      Most companies prohibit relationships between managers and employees, and the adviser / student relationship is much more unbalanced. What I'm suggesting is nothing new.

    122. Re:Academia is willing to protect total dicks by guises · · Score: 1

      That's certainly true, this has a long history. We are even now engaged in a public debate over whether gay people should be allowed to get married where the principle argument is, "Why should someone else get to decide who is allowed to fall in love?" Prohibiting relationships that certain people don't like is a longstanding tradition.

    123. Re:Academia is willing to protect total dicks by antdude · · Score: 1

      That is why I always ask for proofs like "prove it". ;)

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    124. Re:Academia is willing to protect total dicks by serviscope_minor · · Score: 1

      You were unclear. That's your fault not mine. You see, I can only go by what you say not what's in your head. Given there are plenty of people here very much of the idea that every claim without video evidence is fake, then yes you could easily have meant exactly what you wrote.

      --
      SJW n. One who posts facts.
    125. Re:Academia is willing to protect total dicks by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      On the contrary, I've been working in academia for a long time and can only repeat my advice. Go abroad if you cannot find the right advisor, but never stick with the wrong person.

    126. Re:Academia is willing to protect total dicks by aaaaaaargh! · · Score: 1

      I understand that what you "explain" to others as if they never had any sexual experiences in their life might be the bizarre romantic ideal that people have invented in the US after the political correctness wave of the 80s, but the sad truth is that what you describe as "correct procedure" might be reason why so many guys and girls in the US have serious problems getting laid. I can assure you that at least in the rest of the world, you do not ask things like "May I kiss you?". I'm also skeptical that this "ideal" really exists in the US because I've never seen any US movie in which people acted like you describe.

    127. Re:Academia is willing to protect total dicks by goose-incarnated · · Score: 1

      Yep, holding a door open for someone, a.k.a. "common courtesy", was labelled as a form of rape when it was a man holding the door for a woman.

      Smells like bullshit to me.

      One would hope so, but FTFA Feynman was misogynistic because:

      "Feynman documented various strategies he adopted for trying to get women in bars to sleep with him"

      "Feynman used to pretend to be a student so he could ask undergraduate women out"

      "[Feynman had] documented affairs with two married women, "

      "the propensity to lie on the beach and watch girls"

      The sexism-is-everywhere brigade is insane if they think that lying to pick up women, or looking at them on the beach, or hitting on them in bars, or adultery... is sexist.

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      I'm a minority race. Save your vitriol for white people.
    128. Re:Academia is willing to protect total dicks by serviscope_minor · · Score: 1

      One would hope so, but FTFA Feynman was misogynistic because:

      lol! Brilliant. If you can't argue on the main point of the subthread, just change tack completely and argue that!

      You're funny and I enjoy your posts. Keep up the good work! :)

      --
      SJW n. One who posts facts.
    129. Re:Academia is willing to protect total dicks by amiga3D · · Score: 2

      Hell, I give up. I'm sorry I wasn't clear enough for you.

    130. Re:Academia is willing to protect total dicks by tehcyder · · Score: 1

      It's a real problem, and I don't see any easy solution. There is a strong cultural tradition that says that women are supposed to protest against pursuit, even when that's what they really want, and there's no easy way to tell.

      Clearly the only safe procedure is to immediately desist upon request, but there's also a strong cultural tradition that says this is "unmanly". Whoops!

      You appear to be a time traveller from the Nineteenth Century, so congratulations on learning how to use the internet!

      --
      To have a right to do a thing is not at all the same as to be right in doing it
    131. Re:Academia is willing to protect total dicks by tehcyder · · Score: 1

      Wow, looks like some TRP/MRA buffoons have mod points today.

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      To have a right to do a thing is not at all the same as to be right in doing it
    132. Re:Academia is willing to protect total dicks by tehcyder · · Score: 1

      Sure, I stop. I also see other men that don't stop, and end up with her on top riding him screaming in ecstasy.

      Any fucking wonder it's confusing for some men?

      It's best not to take your sexual politics from porn.

      --
      To have a right to do a thing is not at all the same as to be right in doing it
    133. Re:Academia is willing to protect total dicks by david_thornley · · Score: 1

      The evidence suggests to me that the complaints about Assange were real, not false.

      --
      "When you have eliminated the unacceptable, whatever is left, however improbable, must be the truthiness" - Holmes
    134. Re:Academia is willing to protect total dicks by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Says every witch-hunter ever.

    135. Re:Academia is willing to protect total dicks by Some_Llama · · Score: 1

      You are wrong on two counts. 1) Sexual harassment allegations are not easy to make. Honestly, think about what you are saying! Just telling somebody it happened is a major battle. If you make a formal allegation be prepared to lose years of your life reliving the experience again and again. Easy as pie. Oh, and be prepared to lose decades of your life if the allegation is false. False accusations can of course cause temporary harm to the reputation of the accused but are exceptionally dangerous to the accuser. 2) Fake allegations are a real problem - in so far as they theoretically exist - but study after study has found that they are so exceptionally rare as to make them statistically irrelevant.

      I call bullshit on your points. 1.sexual harrassment allegations are entirely easy to make with support and sympathy immediately given to the accuser (if female). The accuser is immediately thought to be guilty and has to fight tooth and nail to repudiate the accusation, even if proven that the allegation is fasle there is little to no repercussion to the accuser. 2. Fake accusations exist and happen all the time. see i can make statements with no proof to back them up, oh yah i forgot to add that study after study proves my statements to be true.

      although i guess it means something that i have been sexually harassed but because i was a man it wasn't taken seriously and I was the one fired (because you know, it could have looked bad for the company). I have also been falsely accused of rape and nothing happened to my accuser but i was arrested, forced to under go a rape kit and psychically assaulted while under arrest because i was guilty automatically.

      tell me that the same outcome happens if you are female and give some proof.

  2. slashdot by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1, Insightful

    quickly turning into SJWdot

    1. Re:slashdot by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

      Except the degree that SJW idiocy permeates the culture at large, much of that is going to be (and has been) dropped at the door of geeks and nerds. It is just /. reflecting what's already there.

      Not that there is anything wrong with having standards of acceptable conduct with regards to minimizing problems, supposing that goes both ways. The problem with the SJW narrative is that it is largely unidirectional and turns into a witch-hunt, and quite a few nerds have been on the receiving end of that.

    2. Re:slashdot by 0100010001010011 · · Score: 1

      Dice heard they might be profitable.

      I guess they haven't realized the entire narrative is bullshit.

    3. Re:slashdot by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Funny, from these comments I thought it was going the other way, to friendzoned-neckbeard-dot.

      Wait, it's already there. Nevermind.

  3. We should not protect them by godrik · · Score: 4, Insightful

    "How far should academic communities go to protect their intellectual capital, at the expense of further harm to their students, past and present?"

    As a male university professor, my answer to this is very clear. We should not protect them. For many reasons:
    1/ You begin brilliant does not mean you can do whatever you want.
    2/ For most of us, we can do our research from a prison cell.
    3/ Our students are the main product of academic life. We all love to believe that our research is the most important. But realistically we have the opportunity to touch the mind (the mind I said!) of hundreds of students each year. They will be our legacy, let's make it good one!

    1. Re:We should not protect them by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      1. Lots of those aren't even brilliant, more often they're socially dumb.
      2. Not even remotely true.
      3. That would be papers and titles, no one gives a damn about students.

    2. Re:We should not protect them by Austerity+Empowers · · Score: 1

      Exactly, it seems like if you have an employee who is incapable of not causing harm to your business and/or customers, he's more of a liability than an asset and you let him go. If you can keep him around but out of contact with female students, you can possibly still leverage what he brings to the table with minimal risk of damage assuming he can produce sufficient to compensate for losing him on the cash cow. If he is such a liability that no amount of brilliance can compensate, you must let him go and hope that whatever great advances he is capable of bringing, somehow happen in spite of what is almost certainly a ticking bomb. If not, someone else will, some other time. Nobody is so great an asset that immoral behavior can or should be tolerated, down that road lies a nightmare.

      I don't really understand the comparisons with Feynman, what was (not entirely) acceptable in the 60s is totally not acceptable now, and hasn't been since I was a kid. And professors know it, I don't care how decrepit they are, there should be no debate. Perhaps Feynman should have been disciplined back then too, but I don't see the point in what-ifs that are impossible. If the culture then was the same as now, maybe numerous men would have exercised more restraint? If owning slaves was illegal in 1820, very likely very few would have owned slaves then too. It's not really a reasonable comparison.

    3. Re:We should not protect them by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      1. Lots of those aren't even brilliant, more often they're socially dumb.

      I recommend a lobotomy. Should raise their social IQ a few points.

    4. Re:We should not protect them by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      3. That would be papers and titles, no one gives a damn about students.

      I really hope your job doesn't include the supervision of any students.

    5. Re:We should not protect them by InfiniteLoopCounter · · Score: 1

      "How far should academic communities go to protect their intellectual capital, at the expense of further harm to their students, past and present?"

      As a male university professor, my answer to this is very clear. We should not protect them.

      What about a scenario such as one of your female students takes a dislike to you and writes a blog that you sexually harassed her, gets a friend to back her up, and take this to your university administration staff? It might be a fun thing to do for someone who's lagging academically for instance. Would it be fair to just sentence you and lock away the key because your work could be continued from prison? From a societal point of view this could also be beneficial because your productivity would go up if you had little else to do, but I doubt you would see it as fair.

    6. Re:We should not protect them by godrik · · Score: 1

      In this scenario, the university can not know if I am guilty or innocent. Therefore, it can not side with me and it can not side with the student. The only position for the university is not to protect me and let the legal system sort it out.
      At no point did I say that the university should throw the instructor to the lions. I am saying that it should not protect the instructor because it is not its institutional responsibility. The university should leave it to the lawyers. There is no upside for the university, let's look at the two cases:

      If the university sides with the instructor and the instructor is found guilty, it will be said that the university encourages sexual harassment.
      If the university sides with the instructor and the instructor is found innocent, it will be said that the university covered it up.

    7. Re:We should not protect them by Goldsmith · · Score: 1

      If you're at Berkeley, your students are not the main product of academic life. Direct research funding provides more university administrative funds than student fees at just about every UC, and the schools are structured around that economic reality. The guy we're talking about here is an astronomer; there hasn't been growth in professional astronomy jobs in 40 years. Overproduction of astronomers is not a legacy anyone is shooting for here.

      At high levels, there are serious dollars involved. UCSD and USC are in a legal battle over a single professor who controls over $100 million in research funds. He employs somewhere around 30 full time staff in his lab, and funds collaborations around the country. Professors like that don't teach classes on the same schedule as others, they pay their departments to have someone else do it when convenient. School sue each other to determine who has the right to employ these guys.

      Just like in the business world, it's these high flying folks who are the most difficult. It's not being brilliant that enables inappropriate behavior, it's being powerful. No one is going to worry about dismissing an assistant professor who crosses a line.

      Does a school give up millions in overhead income and fire staff because a star faculty member gets anonymous complaints? Which causes a greater loss in prestige: losing an internationally recognized research program or the articles being written about this guy at Berkeley?

    8. Re:We should not protect them by InfiniteLoopCounter · · Score: 1

      Seems like an excellent response and quite right for institutions to act in this manner. Only thing I would question is the practicalities of the time in-between the legal system sorts out cases of sexual harassment. These things can end up on the front page of a local newspaper very quickly and before the case is played out pressure can be applied to an institution to "sort it out". Also, the mud may stick on the staff member in the spotlight even if, like in this article, the surrounding published content is required to have an addendum that says some of the content may be of dubious accuracy. Perhaps over time this might cause issues with retaining male lecturers and lead to a shift to a bias in recruiting more female lecturers or segregating departments in a natural selection manner based on gender rather than academic ability.

    9. Re:We should not protect them by NicknameUnavailable · · Score: 1

      #2 suggests you aren't a professor of anything relevant.

    10. Re:We should not protect them by aaaaaaargh! · · Score: 1

      #2 is complete nonsense. So I agree with you.

    11. Re:We should not protect them by Electricity+Likes+Me · · Score: 1

      Conversely you definitely aren't a professor at all.

    12. Re:We should not protect them by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Which does not preclude that he's right (which he is). Sometimes even non-professors get things right.

    13. Re:We should not protect them by goose-incarnated · · Score: 1

      If the university sides with the instructor and the instructor is found guilty, it will be said that the university encourages sexual harassment. If the university sides with the instructor and the instructor is found innocent, it will be said that the university covered it up.

      This is the only sane response: the university should hand off (with whatever evidence may exist) to LEO and abide by a courts ruling in terms of who is telling the truth and who is not. The university is usually neither equipped nor experienced in running a trial.

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  4. Who benefits? by Kohath · · Score: 1

    As long as there's something for someone to gain, expect the "struggle with sexual harassment" to continue. Here's to the day no one can benefit by dividing people and organizing one side against the other. Maybe someday our society will reach that level of enlightenment.

  5. I sure am glad by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0, Funny

    I'm glad I live in a nice tropical paradise where the women aren't so damn uppity and know how to enjoy their lives. You fuckin' people all need to lock yourselves up in solitary confinement... Ooo, he touched me! Ewww!.. Fuck off!

    1. Re: I sure am glad by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Lol awesome, you mean you live on a society where gripping women you don't know is ok?

      Where is that btw? I want to make sure I never go there on holiday with my wife.

    2. Re: I sure am glad by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Hmm... India?
      At some point your wife will outsource your job to one of them anyways.

  6. What about women harassing men? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Oh, right, I forgot. That "doesn't happen," so there's no mention of it anywhere. Only people with a penis can be guilty of sexual misconduct, and only people without one can be victims, especially in academia.

    1. Re:What about women harassing men? by preaction · · Score: 2, Insightful

      Since you need power structures in order for harassment to carry any weight/threat, yes, a disproportionate amount of harassment is men against women.

      Don't fall into the common techie trope of expecting everyone else to explain everything to you by spouting a pathetically-informed opinion.

    2. Re: What about women harassing men? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I complained about sexual harassment at my work, mostly cause it was creeping me out. (When the girl sent me a huge box of roses was the last straw)
      I didn't want to get her fired, but I reported it as I was a contractor there, and if she was crazy enough to harass me, i figured she was crazy enough to get angry after I told her I wasnt interested for the fiftieth time and get me fired.
      Reported it to make sure the bosses knew my side of the story.

      The thing that actually stopped the harassment was a stern letter from my wife it turns out. (Saying thank you for the lovely roses).

    3. Re:What about women harassing men? by Cederic · · Score: 1

      Since you need power structures in order for harassment to carry any weight/threat

      I don't need power structures to feel uncomfortable, insulted, distressed, stressed or angry.

      yes, a disproportionate amount of harassment is men against women.

      No. You're lying. You have no evidence for this. In fact..

      by spouting a pathetically-informed opinion.

      I think this describes superbly your post.

    4. Re: What about women harassing men? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

      "since you need power structures"

      But you don't need power structures. Racism, sexism and harassment are not defined relative to power. Not outside of Marxism anyway. It's perfectly possible for a person of low power and status to hold bigoted opinions and it's perfectly reasonable to criticise those opinions regardless of power.

      You can't just apply a Marxist power analysis and declare whoever has less power to be in the right. This kind of shallow and simplistic moral thinking opens you up to all sorts of hypocrisy.

    5. Re:What about women harassing men? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      And when I tried to report a woman for groping me, first I was laughed at, then mocked for being gay.

      There are more power structures at work here than you would like us to believe, pretending that they don't exist is dishonest. Once you start censoring your data to suit your ideology, you will never solve your problem.

    6. Re:What about women harassing men? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      a disproportionate amount of harassment is men against women

      I've been in academia for six years, as a research student and postdoc, and my experience contradicts this. A slight majority of sexual comments I have witnessed, and a large majority of physical interactions, were directed at men by women rather than vice versa.

      I suspect there's a bias in these events, though, because, when it comes to harassment, men are typically subject to harsher penalties for the same actions, and so (I guess) would be more likely to harass in private; that is, I see mostly acts of harassment by women because they are more confident of being able to do it in public and get away with it. You can get around this by surveying people to ask whether they've experience harassment, but then you run into another source of bias: women, more so than men, are taught to regard sexual comments or actions directed at them as harassment, and so men will generally report less harassment even if their experience is the same.

    7. Re:What about women harassing men? by preaction · · Score: 2

      You're right. You personally don't need an entire system of oppression to feel uncomfortable, but you would need that system of oppression to be (not just feel, but actually be) helpless in the face of that feeling. Your singular anxiety does not create a system of oppression against you. My anxiety does not make the people who make me feel anxious into bad people.

      If harassment is defined by the system of oppression, and the current system of oppression is patriarchal consisting of toxic masculinity, then what I said is not a lie.

    8. Re:What about women harassing men? by Hashead · · Score: 1

      "If harassment is defined by the system of oppression, and the current system of oppression is patriarchal consisting of toxic masculinity, then what I said is not a lie."
      Harassment isn't defined that way, and there is no patriarchal system of oppression consisting of toxic masculinity. So it was a lie.

    9. Re:What about women harassing men? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Yeah, as a man you don't count. Shut up and accept your fate.

    10. Re:What about women harassing men? by preaction · · Score: 1

      You mean that feminism is over? It won? Women are equals in all things and all places? Holy crap! This is big news! Start the presses! Spin up the blog engines! Feed the buzz!

      Oh, wait, yeah, there still is one, and no, feminism isn't over. Damn. So close...

    11. Re:What about women harassing men? by Hashead · · Score: 1

      Where is the proof of this patriarchal system of oppression consisting of toxic masculinity?

    12. Re:What about women harassing men? by preaction · · Score: 1

      The proof is in this new place called "everywhere". It was formerly in another place called "throughout history".

    13. Re:What about women harassing men? by Hashead · · Score: 1

      So you are refusing to honor your burden of evidence.Truth is you can't provide a single piece of evidence to support your claim.

    14. Re:What about women harassing men? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      You got called out and offered nothing of substance. You're done, see ya.

    15. Re:What about women harassing men? by preaction · · Score: 1

      No, you're ignoring the entire span of human history, from the classic stories of female betrayal (so classic they're in the damn Bible), to the medical concept of "hysteria" that could be cured by a fingerbang, up to the long-standing idea of husbands "owning" their wives that survives today in many places in the world (including such things as "marital sex can never be rape"), so clearly no individual instances I pick will satisfy you.

      Oh wait, I just picked some. Will they satisfy you? Do I care if they do? We'll find out!

    16. Re: What about women harassing men? by cyber-vandal · · Score: 1

      And of course no men were oppressed throughout the history of the human race and no woman ever did the oppressing.

    17. Re: What about women harassing men? by cyber-vandal · · Score: 1

      If you want to see sexual harassment of a type that would result in prison sentences if it was men, wear a kilt to a bar in England.

    18. Re: What about women harassing men? by preaction · · Score: 1

      Classic! A single counter-argument invalidates general trends! "Well, it happened to us once or twice, too!" Amazing!

    19. Re: What about women harassing men? by cyber-vandal · · Score: 1

      Once or twice? Try reading a history book sometime genius. Most men were not oppressors they were oppressed, usually by male rulers bit sometimes by female rulers as well. The post was a terrible time for just about everyone. How many women were forced to fight in wars? Do you think only women and girls were sexually assaulted? 75 years ago the terrible white men you so despise died in their thousands to overthrow one of the most evil regimes in history. Give the left back to people who know what to do with it and stick your micro aggressions and your trigger warnings up your arse.

    20. Re: What about women harassing men? by preaction · · Score: 1

      You're right, most men weren't oppressors, but most oppressors were men. That's the entire point.

      Those male oppressors did some things to women, and other, different things to men. Neither of these experiences invalidates the other, no matter how much you'd apparently like to think it does.

      That evil regime you're talking about, funny story, if it's the one I think you're talking about, it was made by ... white men.

    21. Re: What about women harassing men? by david_thornley · · Score: 1

      Power is not relevant to racism or sexism. It is relevant to harassment, since that implies that the victim can't just walk away, and can't stop it. If I hit on a woman, I may be being rude and crude, but that isn't harassment. If I hit on a woman I have some power over, that is likely to be harassment.

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  7. The challenge is keeping this issue gender-neutral by Applehu+Akbar · · Score: 5, Insightful

    Because sexuality and talent in any given academic discipline are independent variables, academia has to deal with various kinds of harassment in exactly the same way as any other place of work. Unfortunately it is unable to, because campuses are increasingly being colonized by the sort of toxic misandrists who could not find a job anywhere else, and so are making academia their private fiefdom. So long as their definition of harassment is "anything that men like," the Feynmans of the future will have to find homes in private research institutes.

  8. Power dynamics in graduate academia by PseudoThink · · Score: 5, Informative

    Two of my friends were trapped with a faculty adviser who was incredibly abusive (verbally) toward one, and regularly sexually harassed the other. On a daily basis, for years. They tolerated his abuse for so long because they felt they had no choice. Getting a different adviser would mean abandoning their work (in theoretical mathematics), setting them back a ton of money (in academic loans) and years of work/research. Reporting the adviser's abuse would result in the same penalties for them.

    It was a messed up power dynamic of which their adviser was likely fully aware and certainly took full advantage. Even after obtaining their PhD's, my friends can't do much about it. They still need the adviser's support as a reference, for getting published, and they just want to put it all behind them.

    1. Re: Power dynamics in graduate academia by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

      Perhaps, if the universities and the abusing professors were required to reimburse those students for their expenses and lost income (due to the delayed degree) then they might take these issues more seriously. Universities have got students convinced that the university is the last arbiter concerning anything that happens on campus. This is not true. More victims should sue in a court of law. If the university forced students to indemnify the university and professors, then that should be challenged in court as well.

    2. Re: Power dynamics in graduate academia by PseudoThink · · Score: 1

      Agreed--it seems like there are obvious ways this could be fixed. Whenever I've discussed these issues with my graduate school friends, though, they seem to clearly understand and explain why these issues won't get fixed. Complicated situations involving politics, grants/funding, tenure, etc.

    3. Re:Power dynamics in graduate academia by ADRA · · Score: 1

      Gee, that couldn't possibly propagate such behaviour on and on forever now could it. I feel sad for your friends, but ultimately their inability to act is why nothing changes. Call me victim blaming, I see it as being very clear. If you don't change your circumstances and nobody knows about it, how would you ever expect a different outcome? What could you do when your friends were being torn down?

      Small story, similar vein. A lady friend of mine worked as an accuntant at a firm and her boss (the last one anyways) was constantly belittling her, denying basic dignity, and a few other things that I am sure are firable offences (at least where I live). Anyways, she tells me this long after she was fired, and I was soo frustrated because she not only refused to do something about it (report behaviour to HR, etc..), but she couldn't even tell her friends/loved ones until afterwards and forced herself to deal with that misery alone.

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    4. Re:Power dynamics in graduate academia by PseudoThink · · Score: 1

      I agree that I wish my friends had been endowed with the personality traits and logistical means to champion their own causes. But they weren't, and I can't blame them for that. Not everyone has the character, energy, time, or desire to be an activist. As their friend, there wasn't much I could do for them, other than to offer my support. If I tried taking matters into my own hands, I would have likely been ineffective (since I'm not even a student there), and I could have inadvertently caused major problems for them. It wasn't my decision to make for them.

      Taking the time to tell this story is part of my way of trying to bring it to light, in a public forum. Perhaps someone can suggest some specific, helpful ways this type of problem could be addressed in the future, so that others can do something about it, if they find themselves in a similar situation. My friends and I gave this considerable thought, and we didn't think or or find anything that would let them handle the situation without potentially causing major problems for them.

  9. How many female students... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 3, Insightful

    How many female students approach their male professors each year, attempting to use sex as a bargaining chip? Those visits during office hours, exhibiting cliched behaviour like dropping a pencil to bend over and retrieve it. Flirting, quick furtive touching, inquiring about "extra credit," occasionally even flatly and outright making a proposition to trade sexual favors in exchange for a passing grade. I'm old, paunchy, balding, unattractive; I know precisely what these misguided young women are up to, as they're certainly not after my good looks or great fortune. Such harassment is common at many campuses and yet I see no prominent feminists standing up to decry this behaviour.

    1. Re:How many female students... by x0ra · · Score: 2

      but, how can this be ? Aren't women always the victims of perverted ugly old fat tenured professors ?

    2. Re: How many female students... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      In my experience it probably happens, but not as often as on tv. (Nor as often as you probably think - ie I would find it a struggle)

    3. Re:How many female students... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Because when women use their assets to advance, they are using their power and ok to do. I can't find the discussion but I read one once where the women were talking about how easy it is to get out of speeding tickets if you show some cleavage.

    4. Re:How many female students... by techno-vampire · · Score: 3, Interesting

      I sympathize with you, but as a male, I don't personally consider that to be harassment because there's no threat, either explicit or implicit involved. When a professor treats a student like that, there's always the implication that the student's grade depends to some extent on what happens, but unless the student tries to blackmail the professor with false claims of impropriety, it's hard to see how it can be called harassment. ICBW, of course, but as of right now, that's how I see it.

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    5. Re:How many female students... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      There is always a threat of crying rape when nothing happened.

    6. Re:How many female students... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      All the classes I took had strict grading guidelines. If you found someone with similar answers graded differently than yours you could complain to the office and get someone's grade adjusted. No grading was completely at the whim of the professor.

      If I slap you on the ass and you didn't like it then that's sexual harassment. Harassment doesn't require threats. And the for males, there's an implied threat from the females that if you don't accept her advances she'll turn around and accuse you or harassing her.

      As a CS tutor, around 15-20% of the females asking for help were just there to let the males do the homework for them. A little flirting and they got the other students to effectively write every line of their code. (Worse were the people complaining that since they spent a lot of time on a project they should get an A no matter if they understood any of concepts or not.)

    7. Re:How many female students... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      First of all, one issue doesn't diminish the other, which is exactly what you're doing. Also, there's a very significant difference: your alumni aren't in a position of power, you are. They cant harass you because they don't have power over you. Harassment happens from top to bottom, not the other way around. I'm a professor and, although I've never seen (nor receive) any kind of proposition, I do notice during exam revisions how some female alumni dress... let's say "not according to the climatic conditions outside". Nevertheless, I choose not to let that influence me and, if one of them does something I find uncomfortable I make it clear to her. If the professor is the one doing inappropriate suggestions, she would be trapped: she doesn't want the professor to keep on his behavior but telling something might jeopardize her present and future in the University.

      Also, this thing does happen but it's definitely not common nor widespread. Some years you see a couple, maybe three alumni dressing inappropriately, some years you see none.

      And one last thing: I'm old, paunchy, balding. Attraction isn't something purely physical. A man or woman doesn't have to be after anything as specific as money or a hairy scalp to find someone attractive. Being self-confident is of the essence, nobody finds people with an inferiority complex attractive, only those who seek to exploit said complex, be it because they want to take advantage of it or hide their own inferiority complex.

    8. Re:How many female students... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Well, there actually is a threat, or at least the possibility of one, to one's career and reputation. It may not be of the same magnitude as when the advances are made by the superior, but it's still there.

    9. Re:How many female students... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      There is always a threat of crying rape when nothing happened.

      Exactly. When the female student demonstrated (through the cliched behaviour mentioned) that she would go that low to get better grades, it was also a hint that falsely accusing you of rape, or even easier, sexual harassment, is also a likely result if you do not comply.

    10. Re:How many female students... by serviscope_minor · · Score: 1

      If you're actually an academic, then I cry for my former profession because you're a complete fool.

      In the case in TFA, the harasser has the power, in your case, you do. That is why there is a vast, vast difference between the two.

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    11. Re:How many female students... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      So many women, especially in their thirties, would find the reverse situation non-harassing. Does this mean that there was no harassment from Macey? Can we just find someone who thinks it isn't, then claim it isn't? Or don't we have an actual description of what harassment is, and can apply that here to see if it's harassment? I think we do.

      This, from the student, is grooming. Nothing more, nothing less.

      If it's OK because they're both adults, then there's no harassment EITHER.

      If "Oh, no, the prof can push out good grades for sex", then "Oh, no, the student can put out for good grades", and they are precisely equal. No good grade? No sex. Why is making the man sleep on the couch done? To punish the man. If it's punishment, then it's a tool for harassment.

      Then add on the fact that all you need is the accusation and the current meme is to believe the accusation unless proven innocent (in which case, just don't mention it officially, just gossip about it and "no smoke..." allude to it being the wrong conclusion anyway, then you have an actual harassment option here for the female student.

      Unfortunately, the male student, especially if the prof is female, gets fuck all apart from disgust, amazement, and slut shaming if THEY tried to say they were sexually harassed, or even raped. To quote Zap Brannigan, everyone would be telling him "What are you? GAY???".

    12. Re: How many female students... by cyber-vandal · · Score: 2

      Being able to make a false harassment allegation that could destroy a career and a life is not a huge amount of power?

    13. Re:How many female students... by aaaaaaargh! · · Score: 1

      I work as a postdoc at university for the past seven years and have 20 years of total university experience, and I have never encountered the behavior you ascribe to female students. Neither personally, nor with others or from hearsay.

      So let me quickly ask you: Which university are you working at? Are there any job openings at the moment?

    14. Re:How many female students... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I sympathize with you, but as a male, I don't personally consider that to be harassment because there's no threat, either explicit or implicit involved. When a professor treats a student like that, there's always the implication that the student's grade depends to some extent on what happens, but unless the student tries to blackmail the professor with false claims of impropriety, it's hard to see how it can be called harassment. ICBW, of course, but as of right now, that's how I see it.

      You dickhead, being seen as sexist due to a single joke can instantly end the career of a nobel laureate:
      http://www.nydailynews.com/news/world/nobel-laureate-sees-career-collapse-sexist-comments-article-1.2258310

      And you see no threat? Again, you're a dickhead.

    15. Re:How many female students... by Magnus+Pym · · Score: 1

      When I was doing my Ph. D. too many years ago to count at a large public university, I TAd an introductory math course (undergraduate, 101). Thsi was a course that was required for a good number of majors, and a large percentage of the student population (both male & female) had no interest whatsoever in the subject beyond scraping together the required passing grade. I have been subject to advances and come-ons that even a creator of T&A teen flicks would reject as unrealistic. These were from women who were very aware of their sexuality and the effect it had on men, and were willing to use it to the full extent of their abilities to get what they want. Anyway, my experiences have made me rather skeptical of feminine claims that they are traumatized by dick jokes.

    16. Re: How many female students... by david_thornley · · Score: 1

      A random harassment allegation will do nothing. If there's some proof that Magnus Pym had sex with a woman he was tutoring, that would be significant. (When I was a TA, I was told that, if I was sexually involved with a student, they would believe her over me if she claimed harassment, and therefore the smart thing was not to get sexually involved.) If multiple women complain of harassment, independently, the institution is going to investigate.

      Like in most power situations, it's the ones at the bottom who get screwed, sometimes literally.

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  10. Like athleticism, genius gets a pass sometimes by rmdingler · · Score: 1
    Exceptions are made for the exceptional. It is not a right or wrong moral conundrum so much as it is the way the World works.

    The problem with social justice is not with its primary mission; striving to make the World a fairer place is a lofty goal indeed. It's just that, realistically, the World and life itself are inherently not so fair... and attempting to eradicate unfairness from life is every bit a fool's errand.

    The World is not black and white. If a Nazi child molester with leprosy showed up at your door with a cure for the cancer your spouse was dying from... you sir, would likely make a deal with that devil.

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    1. Re:Like athleticism, genius gets a pass sometimes by Gravis+Zero · · Score: 3, Insightful

      Exceptions are made for the exceptional. It is not a right or wrong moral conundrum so much as it is the way the World works.

      you are morally bankrupt.

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    2. Re:Like athleticism, genius gets a pass sometimes by preaction · · Score: 1

      I could swear there was an episode of Babylon 5 with a Nazi scientist. Some favors come with too high a price.

    3. Re:Like athleticism, genius gets a pass sometimes by rmdingler · · Score: 1

      Exceptions are made for the exceptional. It is not a right or wrong moral conundrum so much as it is the way the World works.

      you are morally bankrupt.

      I don't know about bankrupt.

      Sure, there's an occasional supply & demand imbalance, but that's precisely the point.

      If every slight, real and imagined, continues to create great umbrage... well, this power held by the electronic mob will prove fleeting as folks tire of the wolf-cry of injustice.

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    4. Re:Like athleticism, genius gets a pass sometimes by gweihir · · Score: 1

      Very insightful. It is always shades of gray (and worse, which shade it is depends on perspective), even though a large part of the population is too dependent on being told what to think to be able to see that. People that can only see black and white end up destroying morality utterly.

      Case in point: What kind of Nazi? On that only talks, or one that does? What kind of child? A real-world one (e.g. below 14) or an "American" one (i.e. 17 years, 11 months and 29 days)? And what kind of molestation? Actual rape or "statutory" rape which was actual sex with her enthusiastic cooperation or even instigated by her? And was the person in any way responsible for getting leprosy?

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    5. Re:Like athleticism, genius gets a pass sometimes by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      The World(tm) isn't some magical entity completely decoupled from the realities and necessities of its inhabitants. We, the people, make The Wold. "The World is like that" is a tautology, of course things are the way they are, but guess what? They aren't the way they were, because things change when people change. Less than 200 years ago, in the United States, some human beings could own other human beings, and that was the way The World was.

      If you see a problem with social justice, you fight and fight, protest and point fingers, until the problem is no more. We've done this many many many times throughout history, and we will keep fixing things despite people like you.

    6. Re:Like athleticism, genius gets a pass sometimes by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      You take the cure from the nazi or beat it out of him, shoot the nazi, and then cure your spouse. I don't see what the problem is.

  11. Academia is not struggling with sexual harrazment by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Colleges do whatever they can to HIDE the sexual assaults that happen on campus and continually victimize the victim by harassing them until they either drop out of school or retract the allegation. They even go as far as threatening the victim if she (or he) reports the crime to the local authorities.

    In the mean time, the abuser (not necessarily a man) is given a free pass and allowed to continue life as usual. He (or she) can walk around like nothing happen while the victim is continually monitored by the school.

  12. It's buzzfeed by kuzb · · Score: 5, Insightful

    Case dismissed. Why does this trash keep getting posted here.

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    1. Re:It's buzzfeed by chrism238 · · Score: 1

      Agreed; why does all of academia get tarnished by citing this single case? Wither Science.

    2. Re:It's buzzfeed by preaction · · Score: 1

      If you did even cursory research, you'd know it's not an isolated incident.

    3. Re:It's buzzfeed by starless · · Score: 2

      It's more than just buzzfeed.
      Here's Science magazine if you prefer:
      http://news.sciencemag.org/sci...

    4. Re:It's buzzfeed by chrism238 · · Score: 1

      I'm not stating that it's isolated (how's your comprehension skills?); I'm in academia, and I'm stating that it's sufficiently rare to not tar the whole academic community with it.

    5. Re:It's buzzfeed by preaction · · Score: 1

      My comprehensions skills are better than your ad hominem skills, apparently. If you want to be understood, perhaps you should communicate more clearly.

    6. Re:It's buzzfeed by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Oh.. It's not on the article writers to do the cursory research? It's on us?

    7. Re:It's buzzfeed by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      No, it's not. I'm also in academia and the exact acceptable number of harassment cases in academia is 0, otherwise there's something profoundly broken in the system. And it's not just a single case, it's a continuous trickle of harassment cases not unlike this one. And yes, when this kind of thing happens, we all get indirectly involved. Moreover, those who turn a blind eye the way you just did are a direct part of the problem.

    8. Re:It's buzzfeed by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Jesus everything you post is inflammatory attacks with no substance. Why are you making the world a worse place?

  13. Buzzfeed? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

    Seriously Slashdot?

  14. Re:Here's a thought... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

    It is only BS when you are the abuser. Real men don't need to harass women to get in their pants. Only losers with the personality of a turd need that kind of tactics.

  15. A sexually active heterosexual male seduced grls.. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    news at 11.

  16. Witch Hunt by bobeil · · Score: 1

    The empowerment reporting sexual offenders by students has turned very much into a witch hunt. It does not really matter any more what male scientists have actually done. It matter what femele students feel. And the indecent mind has a vivid fantasy. You can interpret something indecent into everything you like, report your teacher and put him into trouble. This is very much how witch hunts used to work. What happend with Emma Sulkowicz, the lady who carried the mattress in order to get her ex-boyfriend ejected from university? She has not been charged with false accusations. And she never will, according to feminist double standards. Instead, she is celebrated as performance artist by the feministe SJWs, and she is doing porn movies. Instead, she had just unsuccessfully blackmailed her ex to return to her.

  17. Re:The challenge is keeping this issue gender-neut by preaction · · Score: 1

    [citation needed]

  18. Re:What is this SJW bullshit? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    SocialInjusticeWarrior.com

  19. No shit sherlock .. by nickweller · · Score: 4, Insightful

    "when he was a young, boyish looking professor at Cornell, Feynman used to pretend to be a student so he could ask undergraduate women out .. Feynman .. trying to get women in bars to sleep with him .. documented affairs with two married women"

    Have these fragile flowers ever thought of saying no to sexual advances. What Feynman does/did with his dick - as long as it's between consenting adults - is nobody's business except his.

    "It's not surprising to find these anecdotes disturbing and even offensive"

    Well then, don't read about them.

    "the propensity to lie on the beach and watch girls"

    OH, shock horror !

    "actions .. that were considered acceptable or amusing in 1950 would quite rightly cause instant outrage in 2014."

    No they wouldn't, it's just that the political-correctness-feminista dictatorship would try and get you fired if you say any different.

    Richard Feynman, sexism and changing perceptions of a scientific icon

    1. Re:No shit sherlock .. by godrik · · Score: 5, Insightful

      You quote : "when he was a young, boyish looking professor at Cornell, Feynman used to pretend to be a student so he could ask undergraduate women out .. Feynman .. trying to get women in bars to sleep with him .. documented affairs with two married women"

      I have no idea whether this quote is correct or not. But pretending to be a student seems to pretty much rule out sexual harassment. You do not sexually harass by pretending to have less control on the other person than you actually have. Or you are the worse harasser in history...

    2. Re:No shit sherlock .. by Antique+Geekmeister · · Score: 0

      > But pretending to be a student seems to pretty much rule out sexual harassment.

      It would suggest sexual harassment, not rule it out. He had access to privileged information and control over the student's carrers as a professor that provided quite unreasonable opportunities to abuse the students.

    3. Re:No shit sherlock .. by misexistentialist · · Score: 1

      That is the traditional definition formulated by oppressive males, the progressive definition lets the little girls run to Big Daddy to punish any sexual behavior. If you make an advance towards any woman you work with, even if you have no authority over her, of course you could be fired; this same doctrine is applied to expel college students, convention attendees, train riders--in any environment controlled by a private authority and the civil courts. The girls also want to be able to expel men from public areas (into jail), which will soon come to pass since female voters view the world as one big daycare.

    4. Re:No shit sherlock .. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      > opportunities to abuse the students
      Except he didn't abuse anyone as far as I can tell.
      He made advances and they responded no knowing that he was a professor.
      It doesn't even say they were his students.

    5. Re:No shit sherlock .. by arglebargle_xiv · · Score: 1

      "the propensity to lie on the beach and watch girls"

      OH, shock horror !

      They forgot to mention that he was once overheard calling someone .bro. He should have been deleted on the spot for that transgression.

    6. Re:No shit sherlock .. by quantaman · · Score: 1

      "when he was a young, boyish looking professor at Cornell, Feynman used to pretend to be a student so he could ask undergraduate women out .. Feynman .. trying to get women in bars to sleep with him .. documented affairs with two married women"

      Have these fragile flowers ever thought of saying no to sexual advances. What Feynman does/did with his dick - as long as it's between consenting adults - is nobody's business except his.
       

      How is it you're allowed to criticize the author's opinions but the author isn't allowed to criticize Feynman's actions?

      And on the topic of consent it carries a lot less weight when it's predicated on a lie. While it's legally nowhere near rape it's still really greasy.

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    7. Re:No shit sherlock .. by serviscope_minor · · Score: 1

      The world is not your speed dating service. If you can't understand why you can't hit on women on the train without coming across as incredibly creepy than you lack the social skills to do such a thing. Public transport is very, very very very much not somewhere people go to get hit on, especially as the riders are essentially trapped, easy to follow off and probably not in a great mood. In order to do such a thing you have to be incredibly well attuned to social situations.

      The fact you're complaining about means you are not even slightly well attuned enough.

      Most people on public transport simply want to be left alone to get to their destination in peace. You would do well to leave them alone.

      I'm not even talking about women here. No one wants random strangers talking to them on the train because mostly the people who do that are random weirdos who can't read basic social cues and keep pestering you when you want to be left alone.

      You should actually try catching a commuter train and observe. Round here, the commuter time trains (i.e. before 9:30) are astonishingly quiet. You could hear a pin drop. It's quite delightful really. No one's in a great mood having to get up and go into work and no one wants to deal with other people. Social convention dictates everyone keep to themselves and let everyone else commute in peace.

      I like that.

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    8. Re:No shit sherlock .. by Uberbah · · Score: 1

      How is it you're allowed to criticize the author's opinions but the author isn't allowed to criticize Feynman's actions?

      Because that's a complete non-sequitur, that's why.

      And on the topic of consent it carries a lot less weight when it's predicated on a lie. While it's legally nowhere near rape it's still really greasy.

      So, you're saying women who lie about their age should be charged with misdemeanors, rather than felonies? Interesting. Maybe let them off with probation in exchange for community service?

    9. Re:No shit sherlock .. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      The world is not your speed dating service. If you can't understand why you can't hit on women on the train without coming across as incredibly creepy than you lack the social skills to do such a thing. Public transport is very, very very very much not somewhere people go to get hit on, especially as the riders are essentially trapped, easy to follow off and probably not in a great mood. In order to do such a thing you have to be incredibly well attuned to social situations.

      But he's not saying that. And that's not his point. His point is that it shouldn't be illegal or cause for other official sanction.

      That his hitrate is going to be low, is neither here nor there. If you're being a pest to other passengers on the train that could be cause for official sanction, but whether that's because you're soliciting sex or selling cigarettes shouldn't have anything to do with it.

    10. Re: No shit sherlock .. by cyber-vandal · · Score: 1

      Creepy is in the eye of the beholder.

    11. Re:No shit sherlock .. by argStyopa · · Score: 1

      Except, that's sort of the second-order point here: that what is ostensibly a clear situation that would cause anyone to feel sympathy for the women on the face of it, is clouded by the feminist overreach that calls ANY approach to intimacy and indeed ALL hetero sex as sexual assault and rape.

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    12. Re:No shit sherlock .. by aaaaaaargh! · · Score: 1

      What you consider creepy is completely normal and friendly behavior in other parts of the world.

    13. Re:No shit sherlock .. by serviscope_minor · · Score: 1

      What you consider creepy is completely normal and friendly behavior in other parts of the world.

      Irrelevant. What is the core of creepyness is a disregard for personal boundaries. Personal boundaries are often related to local social conventions. It doesn't matter if you don't like it, or think it's better elsewhere, trying to tell someone how they should feel and what their boundaries should be makes you creepy.

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    14. Re:No shit sherlock .. by russotto · · Score: 1

      "Creepy" just means "Unattractive and perceived as making a move".

    15. Re:No shit sherlock .. by quantaman · · Score: 1

      How is it you're allowed to criticize the author's opinions but the author isn't allowed to criticize Feynman's actions?

      Because that's a complete non-sequitur, that's why.

      How is it a non-sequitur? It's legitimate for the author to judge and criticize the morality Feynman's actions, just like it's legitimate for nickweller to criticize the author, for me to criticize nickweller, and you to criticize me.

      And on the topic of consent it carries a lot less weight when it's predicated on a lie. While it's legally nowhere near rape it's still really greasy.

      So, you're saying women who lie about their age should be charged with misdemeanors, rather than felonies? Interesting. Maybe let them off with probation in exchange for community service?

      I answered your criticism in my post "While it's legally nowhere near rape it's still really greasy". Ie its not, nor should be illegal, but it's unethical. As for women lying about their age I'd say that's also unethical.

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    16. Re:No shit sherlock .. by serviscope_minor · · Score: 1

      No it doesn't.

      Creepy is generally ignoring someone's boundaries. That's what gives the creeper vibe, because you now don't know how they're going to behave and don't know what other boundaries they're going to violate.

      And here's the thing, everyone gets to choose their boundaries with everyone else. Complaining someone's boundaries are wrong or unfair is you saying you do not respect their boundaries. And that's when behaviour starts getting into the creepy zone.

      If you are merely ignorant and want to find out more about such things, then you may find this an enlightening read:

      http://www.doctornerdlove.com/...

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    17. Re:No shit sherlock .. by russotto · · Score: 1

      And here's the thing, everyone gets to choose their boundaries with everyone else. Complaining someone's boundaries are wrong or unfair is you saying you do not respect their boundaries. And that's when behaviour starts getting into the creepy zone.

      Well, no, not everyone sets boundaries which are reasonable to respect. Some people set boundaries which make simple things like saying "hello" or simply being looked as one passes in the hallway "creepy". These are not respectable boundaries.

      If you are merely ignorant and want to find out more about such things, then you may find this an enlightening read:

      http://www.doctornerdlove.com/...

      Looks like a reject from Penthouse Letters. I believe this video, while perhaps exaggerating slightly for comic effect, gives a truer picture of the situation.

    18. Re:No shit sherlock .. by serviscope_minor · · Score: 1

      Some people set boundaries which make simple things like saying "hello" or simply being looked as one passes in the hallway "creepy"

      Weird fantasy you've got there. In the real world that doesn't happen in more than a minute number of cases. Unless by "looked at" you mean laser like focus on her boobs, in which case... yeah.

      Looks like a reject from Penthouse Letters

      Have you never been hit on at a time/by a person such that the attention is unwelcome?

      And on what planet is "I was hit on by drunk person I wasn't interested in and eventually managed to get her to go" a penthouse letter?

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    19. Re:No shit sherlock .. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      You quote : "when he was a young, boyish looking professor at Cornell, Feynman used to pretend to be a student so he could ask undergraduate women out .. Feynman .. trying to get women in bars to sleep with him .. documented affairs with two married women"

      I have no idea whether this quote is correct or not. But pretending to be a student seems to pretty much rule out sexual harassment. You do not sexually harass by pretending to have less control on the other person than you actually have. Or you are the worse harasser in history...

      Don't you understand?
      Man pretending to be something he isn't and getting sex = rapist
      Woman pretending to be something she isn't and getting sex = mysterious, and it's none of your business

      THE biggest problem with "feminists" is that they aren't trying to rid the world of sexism. They are trying to increase it and apply it in their favour.

    20. Re:No shit sherlock .. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      " Richard Feynman, sexism and changing perceptions of a scientific icon

      Whole fucking article was treading on egg shells but still got removed before being reinstated. The feminazi are strong in their influence at Sci Am.

    21. Re:No shit sherlock .. by pipedwho · · Score: 1

      I can't imagine they were his students, as you'd think he'd need a pretty good disguise not to be instantly recognised. Besides the fact, that back in '60s (and still true today) the humanities subjects would have had a much wider selection of female 'talent' than you can find in the sciences.

    22. Re:No shit sherlock .. by Uberbah · · Score: 1

      How is it a non-sequitur?

      It's facile. If people are free to criticize Sam Harris's avocation of torture and racist profiling,, whyyyyyyyy isn't Harris free to criticize Islam? There is no line connecting the dots between A and B.

      Ie its not, nor should be illegal, but it's unethical. As for women lying about their age I'd say that's also unethical.

      So, academic suspension for coeds wearing makeup? Civil fines for women in their 30's who use college graduation pictures on dating sites? The point I'm getting at here is the selective outrage at misrepresentations while dating.

    23. Re:No shit sherlock .. by quantaman · · Score: 1

      How is it a non-sequitur?

      It's facile. If people are free to criticize Sam Harris's avocation of torture and racist profiling,, whyyyyyyyy isn't Harris free to criticize Islam? There is no line connecting the dots between A and B.

      He's free to criticize Islam, the question is whether his criticism of Islam is just, useful, and accurate.

      Ie its not, nor should be illegal, but it's unethical. As for women lying about their age I'd say that's also unethical.

      So, academic suspension for coeds wearing makeup? Civil fines for women in their 30's who use college graduation pictures on dating sites? The point I'm getting at here is the selective outrage at misrepresentations while dating.

      Again I never suggested penalties of any kind.

      You're also conflating deception with marketing, there's certainly some overlap but there are significant differences.

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  20. Re:What is this SJW bullshit? by x0ra · · Score: 1

    Hacker News.

  21. Re:What is this SJW bullshit? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    What goes on between the hands, mouth or cock of some guy I've never heard of and the soft bits of some women that aren't named is something I couldn't give a rat's arse about.

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  22. Um... wtf? by rsilvergun · · Score: 0

    Punish which politically incorrect beliefs? Specifically, because I'm asking. I've never once heard of a man getting in trouble for holding a door open. But I've seen plenty of cases of sexual harassment. People abuse power all the frickin time. This isn't hard. There are culturally acceptable places for sexual advanced (Bars, concerts, etc). There are culturally inappropriate places for them too (the workplace). Wanna ask a cute girl out. Go for it. That's non sexual. After you get her to the bar then you can hit on her all you like. It's that bloody simple.

    You're having a knee jerk reaction to something that isn't there. Your doing that because you're being manipulated by a right wing conspiracy that's trying to turn your attention away from economic issues and towards nonsensical social ones (there's a few on the left that benefit too, Jesse Jackson comes to mind, but they're few and far between). The trouble with conspiracies is they're associated with loon balls thanks to the JFK and Moon Landing folks, so when there's an actual one you can't get anyone to believe. Just googling some of the Shit Karl Rove and his think tanks say would prove me right, but I used the 'c' word so you've probably already stopped reading...

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    1. Re:Um... wtf? by Cederic · · Score: 2

      I've never once heard of a man getting in trouble for holding a door open.

      I've been accused of harassment before for holding a door open. But this is the same woman that assaulted me in the workplace on another occasion..

    2. Re:Um... wtf? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Punish which politically incorrect beliefs? Specifically, because I'm asking. I've never once heard of a man getting in trouble for holding a door open. But I've seen plenty of cases of sexual harassment.

      And I've seen plenty of cases of either non-existent or inflated issues ruining a man's career in federal employment, higher ed, and government contracting.

      No shit, we had a fucking GS-14 back in the day (a pretty nice rank to hold in federal government; think over 100k) average THREE sexual harassment complaints a goddamned YEAR! She had rank, she knew the ropes, and the management was afraid of her.. normally they'd show a guy the door, but if the guy was savvy and had it together they'd offer him a fairly plum 'transfer' to another unit or location. The last one I was aware of was when she didn't like that the guy talking to her was making eye contact. This dude was a straight shooter who would look you square in the eye when speaking with you to let you know he was serious, and did it to men and women alike. Apparently she felt it was inappropriate.

      He had balls, so he got a transfer AND a promotion, because he was about to lawyer up.

      I had a female African American contractor try it on me because she didn't like that I expected her to do her job. I built an air-tight case, she filed the complaint, and ended up fired for her trouble while I ended up with an apology from management. It doesn't always end like that for men.

      You're having a knee jerk reaction to something that isn't there. Your doing that because you're being manipulated by a right wing conspiracy that's trying to turn your attention away from economic issues and towards nonsensical social ones (there's a few on the left that benefit too, Jesse Jackson comes to mind, but they're few and far between).

      I'm a centrist independent; shut your fucking hole until you have some life experience in varied environments, not the Kumbaya leftie-loonie echo chamber. Both sides do it.

      I work a mid-level position at a university of over 35,000 students. The other day one of my coworkers (not making this up; women's studies major at the masters level) and I were laughing because she bought the same model of Honda that I had. I said "Yeah, if I can't make this car last 200k miles I'm doing it wrong" (with a nod to the internet meme). She's my age, completely socially savvy, and turned to me with wide eyes and said "Doing WHAT wrong??!!" Yes, she went there. I clarified "apparently taking care of the vehicle improperly." After having worked with her cordially for over a decade, we no longer speak (MY choice).

      I'm a prior military white male with centrist voting tendencies (fiscally conservative, socially liberal). If you don't think I've got a target on my back every day of the fucking week you're smoking crack. I've been in this position for a decade, and thank $Deity I'm moving on in six weeks.

      General rule: people (those in power, observers, et al.) assume that 'she' is telling the truth. Deny it at your peril, you disingenuous fuckhead; look at any rape accusation BEFORE anything has been proven and his name is trashed while hers is anonymous.

    3. Re:Um... wtf? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      It does happen. Not incredibly often, but enough to make it sometimes hard to tell what the right thing to do is.

      I dated a feminist once who would get angry with me for holding the door open.

      Then I dated a woman who wanted me to and was angry when I didn't.

      Some people may never experience that sort of dating whiplash, but when you do, it is disconcerting to say the least.

      Just another day as a privileged member of the Patriarchy, I guess.

    4. Re:Um... wtf? by Pseudonym · · Score: 2

      Right, so probably not the most representative sample there.

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    5. Re:Um... wtf? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Yeah, it's almost like different women are different people.

    6. Re:Um... wtf? by tehcyder · · Score: 1

      I dated a feminist once who would get angry with me for holding the door open.

      Then I dated a woman who wanted me to and was angry when I didn't.

      You seem to have a gift for making women angry.

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  23. Comparing Feynman with Marcy by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 5, Interesting

    After reading the linked piece about Feynman, it doesn't seem that his alleged sexism (and I'm not claiming it did or did not exist) is at all comparable to what Prof Marcy has been accused of. Feynman may have been a "typical sexist male of the '50s", but Marcy is being accused of criminal acts including sexual assault.

    1. Re:Comparing Feynman with Marcy by TapeCutter · · Score: 2

      No matter how you slice it, it is grossly unfair to judge the behaviour of a 1950's "ladies man" by 21st century social norms. The thing that upset some people when he was alive was the fact that Feynman was not ashamed of his sexuality and often bragged he had played the bongo drums at a "strip joint".

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    2. Re:Comparing Feynman with Marcy by cascadingstylesheet · · Score: 1

      After reading the linked piece about Feynman, it doesn't seem that his alleged sexism (and I'm not claiming it did or did not exist) is at all comparable to what Prof Marcy has been accused of. Feynman may have been a "typical sexist male of the '50s", but Marcy is being accused of criminal acts including sexual assault.

      Assuming that they did what they are accused of, there are far more Feynmans than Marcys.

      Which is precisely why the SJWs want to treat the two as the same. You can't make much hay out of rare straws.

    3. Re:Comparing Feynman with Marcy by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      > often bragged he had played the bongo drums at a "strip joint".

      Oh, is "bongo drums" what he called them?

      I miss Professor Jerry Lettvin. Jerry was one of the smartest human beings I ever met. He explained, in class, that when he was in medical school, in pre-WWII Chicago, that he used to bring his books to a local strip club to study anatomy. Then he'd look up and study anatomy. And then look back to his books and study anatomy. Then the manager asked for his help dealing with a medical issue backsage, and very strange and fascinating friendships with the more.... interesting side of Chicago culture began.

      His wife, Maggie of the aerobics show "Maggie and the Beautiful Machine" before aerobics existed, was also amazing. (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gdVw7b8t-y0). If I remember Jerry correctly, she was a pro working at one of the strip clubs when Jerry met her, and she was still stunning when I met her in one of his classes in the 1980'.

    4. Re:Comparing Feynman with Marcy by NicknameUnavailable · · Score: 1

      Feynman would routinely fly into a fit of rage and beat his wife for interrupting his solo bongo practice, according to files recently declassified by the FBI.

      As a man of science, that was also his right.

  24. Proof? by JimSadler · · Score: 1

    Accusations without strong proofs mean nothing. If there is a single incident that has serious factual credibility then the man should be fired on the first offence. But these situations are rarely filmed or witnessed by several bystanders. At some point we need to have vey severe punishments for people who make complaints with no evidence at all to back up those claims. The sports team at Duke leaps to mind. Those boys spent a fortune on lawyers. Their team was ruined and their school year and future prospects were also damaged. So just why is the crack whore that made the false claims not doing a fifty year prison sentence?

  25. Re:The challenge is keeping this issue gender-neut by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

    SO MUCH THIS.

    It is awful how these toxic people have slowly been taking over and colonizing the education system.
    Everything is racist, sexist, homophobic, nationalist.
    Oh, well, unless you are not a white male, in which case you are always the victim of those white males. Damn dirty white devils they are.
    The worst part is these people that actually sound like that don't realize their horrific double standard and hypocrisy. You try explain it to them and they will maliciously attack your character, even lie about you. (and in some cases, even fabricate evidence against you to get others to attack you!)

    But the worst part, the worst part of all of this is those naive sheltered people that have NO IDEA what actual harassment is, so they call any simple levels of contact as being abusive. These sheltered people that have had zero contact with people outside close friends and family, usually overly religious families.
    Or worse, those people who didn't like the sex they had, RAAAAPE. FUCK. People that scream rape due to disliking sex need to be imprisoned for perverting the law. You can bet 90% of these people would cave at the mention of a lie detector (even though they don't work, but most people think they do, which is what matters)
    This sort of stuff is causing so much bullshit on campuses and dorms right now.

    People go on about "ohhhh, think of the children!", think of the poor sheltered adults that have had zero experience with actual life so think everyone is out to get them and end up coerced in to lying by others. There are millions of adults abused and lied about every year by people abusing the law. Children don't have shit on the problems that adults face with harassment. Those little squits have it easy.
    Children can't think for themselves? What about the millions of adults that get abused by insurance companies in to buying things they don't need? What about the millions abused by salesmen in general?
    You do not gain a sudden level of experience when you reach, say, 18. It is the most retarded concept ever. But let's not get in to that matter, lest we start a discussion war on pedophilia as well! That's all we need.
    But seriously, those sorts of people can have stupidly childish mentalities well in to their 40s. It is a damn shame. More needs to be done about combating it. It just leads to so many problems for them as well as everyone they come in to contact with.

  26. Shock-Horror: man propositions women .. by nickweller · · Score: 0

    "Four women alleged that Marcy repeatedly engaged in inappropriate physical behavior with students, including unwanted massages, kisses, and groping. As a result of the findings, the women were informed, Marcy has been given 'clear expectations concerning his future interactions with students,' which he must follow or risk 'sanctions that could include suspension or dismissal.''"

    And once upon a time, a) that wouldn't be an issue for the facilty, b) the women would have been expected to deal with it themselves like mature adults, c) instead of trashing his reputation in public, threatening his livehood and bringing controversy to UC Berkeley. If I could hazard a guess, this was a put-up job by the resident feministas.

    "Ruth Murray-Clay .. in her capacity as student representative to the Berkeley astronomy faculty, she says, she spoke with him several times in December 2004, directly confronting him with complaints from undergrads and graduate students." ref

    1. Re:Shock-Horror: man propositions women .. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

      This attitude runs completely contrary to everything those working in the sciences are trying to achieve with regard to gender equality.

      Students should never be propositioned by academic faculty. Whether it's inappropriate physical behaviour, inappropriate verbal behaviour, or even respectful courting. Deliberately or not, this is unreasonably leveraging a position of power that educators have over their students -- students who usually have a desire to impress, be noticed by, and be liked by their supervisors.
      Students need to know that they can rely on their professors for academic or career advice, without having to worry about other motives.

    2. Re:Shock-Horror: man propositions women .. by TapeCutter · · Score: 2

      Richard Dawkins, Bill Maher, and many other outspoken progressives have lamented the growing trend in universities to control speech on campus, going so far as to ban speakers they disagree with. The push for this self-censorship is coming from the student body itself. Berkley was singled out by Dawkins as particularly disappointing since he (rightly) sees it as the "home of free speech during the civil right's movement". As a "boomer" myself, it's disappointing to see the next generation throwing out the civil rights that we fought for in favour of the same kind of intellectually claustrophobic political correctness we fought against.

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    3. Re:Shock-Horror: man propositions women .. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

      What the fuck is the point of working at a university if you can't hit on the women?
      Are they supposed to stay celibate or something?
      They aren't allowed to fuck their colleagues, because muh work place relationships.
      Now they aren't allowed to fuck their students.
      They spend 90% of their waking time there. It's the only place they will meet hot 20 year olds.

    4. Re:Shock-Horror: man propositions women .. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

      They aren't allowed to fuck their colleagues, because muh work place relationships.

      Academic couples within a university (or even department) is not only acceptable but quite common. It's even something that some places go out of their way to encourage and is commonly referred to as a "two-body problem". It's also common for couples to split and rearrange within universities, usually fairly amicably. The important thing is generally that there not be an imbalance of power in the relationship.

      I'm in an academic couple since graduate school and there were periods where we worked at the same place, but different departments. We're currently in different divisions of the same university but write proposals together where one will be PI and the other a Co-I (depending on the focus of the proposal). We're both very senior and have substantially independent careers, and as long as we aren't in a situation where the bulk of one of our funding is controlled by the other, our ethics people are ok with it. I know other couples that have worked in very close proximity without issue, as long as there's some mechanism to prevent favoritism or relationship issues overflowing to the work.

    5. Re:Shock-Horror: man propositions women .. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

      As a Berkeley student in the 90s, I think the roots were already quite evident back then.

      The 60s legacy of activism and outrage stuck around like some kind of standing wave. Students poured through and temporarily compressed in this crucible but nobody taught them real values. In fact, by the 90s we were already seeing people act outraged at the suggestion that any issue or idea might be more important than another. The act of outrage and activism was carried forward as a cultural identity and aimed at whatever pointless issue of the day there happened to be. Rather than a means to an end, activism became its own purpose. Places like Berkeley accumulated more of this type through self-selection, while non-activists often became cynics and slackers elsewhere.

      I am supposed to be Gen X. I was raised by Silent Generation parents, while many of my childhood peers had Boomer parents. It was plain as day to me that the Boomer-raised cohort tended to have more self-absorbed activists with no purpose. My Silent-raised cohort seemed to have more idealists, slackers, and misanthropes who saw it as mostly futile. It's probably no coincidence that we echoed our parents' dip in the population curve, moving through life with schools and other institutions shrinking and around us between the larger Boomer-fed pulses. We were and remain outnumbered and under-represented in the popular conscience.

  27. Re: Here's a thought... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Didn't you get the memo? Turd personality is a huge turn-on for lots of women.

  28. Re:The challenge is keeping this issue gender-neut by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Not so. If I find my workplace intolerable, and I quit, I risk not having a good reference. If I'm in the fourth year of a degree program, and I quit, I throw away a lot of time and money that I can't get back. Professors have more power over students than a boss does over an employee (even in the US, where the employees are basically neutered).

  29. Re:What is this SJW bullshit? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    "Hacker" News is full of SJWs and idiots who think literally everything is hacking.

  30. Easy Solution: by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

    Eliminate tenured positions. Problem solved!

    That will be $24.95, Check, Cash or Money Order?

  31. Doors by Skewray · · Score: 2

    For a minor example of the kind of problem from a few decades ago "Should a man hold a door open for a woman?". For awhile you would receive abuse no matter HOW you answered that. (From different groups, but still abuse.) For that matter just last week I heard a woman saying (as a compliment) to a man that it had been years since the last time a man held a door open for her. She still saw that the the proper polite behavior.

    Door opening is initiated by the female, and so cannot be harassment. She slows down, and the man gets to the door first. If she doesn't slow down, then the man has to run ahead, which makes him look silly. If she doesn't slow down, then she isn't a lady, and he shouldn't run for her. We don't have a shortage of polite men, we have women instead of ladies.

    1. Re:Doors by AmiMoJo · · Score: 1

      Door opening is a western thing. They don't do it in Japan or China. Whoever gets to the door first opens it, and there is no expectation that either gender will make an effort to facilitate the other other.

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    2. Re:Doors by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      It's the same in Europe, although I suppose that was different a century ago.

    3. Re:Doors by KGIII · · Score: 1

      I open and hold the door open for everyone. :/ It has been a bitch before - I'll end up sitting there and holding the door open because I just don't want to let it close when someone's approaching. I've resolved this by just holding it for a group of people and then letting it go. However, I've stood there for a while before as I was unsure of how to proceed. I typically will wait longer and hold the door longer for the elderly. Gender isn't the reason I do so. I do it because it's the polite thing to do.

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  32. Richard Feynman & Scientific American by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

    As soon as I saw the Richard Feynman article was on SciAm, I knew it was a POS.

    Around the early 1970's SciAm's staff underwent a radical change in an effort to
    become "politically correct". Instead of drilling down on the science, their articles
    watered down any results that might be offensive to the politically motivated segment
    of its readership. Since that time it has gone to hell.

    If you think SciAm is good. find a library with archives going back to the 50's and 60's.
    The difference between then and now is astounding. I really used to look forward to
    every new issue, but by the mid 70's, I let my subscription lapse. Every month had
    become a disappointment.

    Richard Feynman lived in a very different world with different norms and standards.
    Too bad the muck suckers at SciAm aren't interested in anything except their bottom line.

  33. How about if it's the other way around? by sethstorm · · Score: 2

    It seems like it only counts if the victim is female - especially in cases like Amherst where they prosecuted the victim (male) and defended the perpetrator (female).

    Do something when the rules are consistently applied to everyone.

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    1. Re: How about if it's the other way around? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Haven't heard about this. Can you give a link?

  34. No protection but still a dilemma by Roger+W+Moore · · Score: 1

    As a male university professor, my answer to this is very clear. We should not protect them.

    I completely agree...but we need to be careful that these accusations have evidence to back them up. If you just rely on a handful of students to make accusations then you risk scenarios where students can threaten false accusations for better grades. I think the real dilemma is when is the evidence strong enough to act on so that the guilty do not go free and the innocent do not get punished? Set the the threshold too high and you protect the guilty, set it too low and you can't effectively teach and do research.

    1. Re:No protection but still a dilemma by godrik · · Score: 1

      I completely aggree with this. I am not saying we should throw them to the lions. Just let the process work in the most transparent way. When the story reaches you, contact the authorities and let the investigation take its course. In the meantime, offer administrative leave to the instructor and to postpone the class to the student, offer legal and psychological advice to both. I don't know what else the institution can do.

  35. Feynman sexist, what proof? by MouseTheLuckyDog · · Score: 2

    I don't see any proof that Feynman was sexist.
    The only thing I see is a a bunch of stories of how he tried to get laid in his off hours by women he had no professional relationship with.

    Is it trying to get laid? That's called being a man. ( Well at least wanting to get laid is. Trying is also a function of courage and moral values. )
    Is it telling stories about it? That's just being honest.
    Is it trying to pick up women at bars? Ever been in a bar?

    1. Re:Feynman sexist, what proof? by Applehu+Akbar · · Score: 1

      "I don't see any proof that Feynman was sexist."

      He was an out heterosexual. You young whippersnappers won't believe that this sort of thing went on at campuses everywhere in the Fifties and Sixties, before the Maoist committees cracked down.

    2. Re:Feynman sexist, what proof? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Feynman did some very unprofessional things (I think he banged the wife of a co-worker at one point), but he also lobbied for the first female faculty member at Cal Tech to get tenure. People who claim he was sexist are being sloppy. He was horny and unprofessional, but it doesn't look like he was sexist or sexually harassed (or assaulted!) students like Marcy apparently did.

    3. Re:Feynman sexist, what proof? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I find it hilarious that anyone could believe that Richard Feynman was unprofessional...

  36. Should follow the same rules as everyone else by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Academia should follow the same rules as everyone else. If allegations are found to be with merit, then the professor should lose his job. Period. I don't care if the guy is the next Albert Einstein, no one person is so important to the advancement of science that we should be willing to sacrifice our ethics.

    Who knows, maybe the next Albert Einstein is thrown out for sexual harrassment, emboldening the next Alberta Einstein.

    1. Re:Should follow the same rules as everyone else by russotto · · Score: 1

      Academia should follow the same rules as everyone else. If allegations are found to be with merit, then the professor should lose his job. Period. I don't care if the guy is the next Albert Einstein, no one person is so important to the advancement of science that we should be willing to sacrifice our ethics.

      OK, so you lose John Nash right off the bat (courted a student). Presumably you lose Feynman. How about Einstein himself? Well, he cheated on his first wife with his second, who was also his first cousin on one side and second cousin on the other (her maiden name? Einstein). Niels Bohr married a woman he had hired as a typist, so sorry, gone. Werner von Braun married his first cousin also. Boltzmann married a student. Hmm... science is getting kind of thin.

    2. Re:Should follow the same rules as everyone else by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      John Nash - courting a student is not the same thing as inappropriate contact. Many businesses allow this within certain bounds, usually involving one not in power over the other and the relationship is mutual.
      Feynman - contributions notwithstanding, the guy is a bit of a douche. However when this happened with Feynman, this kind of thing was accepted and happened in many businesses. The point is today most businesses have shaped up and follow the rules and people who do not are punished. Academia needs to get back on track.
      Einstein - Elsa Einstein was not his student. It was his cousin, which is it's own seperate issue, but was not something he oversaw professionally. that has nothing to do with sexual harrassment in the workplace.
      Niels Bohr - his wife was not his typist. It was the sister of his colleague.
      Werner von Braun - marrying your cousin has nothing to do with sexual harassment in the workplace.
      Boltzmann - Henriette was a student, but not his student, and by all accounts the relationship was mutual agreed as they married and were together for the rest of their lives.

      Do not try to justify sexual harrassment in the name of science. The science would have been figured out, if not by these men then by others, and those theories would just have a different name attached. In no way does scientific advancement justify a repressive practice.

    3. Re:Should follow the same rules as everyone else by russotto · · Score: 1

      John Nash - courting a student is not the same thing as inappropriate contact.

      You think there wasn't any "inappropriate" contact? Might want to double-check with an anthropologist, but I'm pretty sure courting behavior among humans generally involves such contact. Nash was a professor, Alicia was his student. Couldn't get any more clear-cut than that. Backpedal away, but like it or not, with your standards, we lose the Nash Equilibrium.

      Niels Bohr - his wife was not his typist. It was the sister of his colleague.

      Who he hired to type for him. So a little nepotism along with sleeping with someone he had power over. You're setting physics back quite a few years.

      Boltzmann - Henriette was a student, but not his student,

      A student at the institution he was a professor at.

      and by all accounts the relationship was mutual agreed as they married and were together for the rest of their lives.

      That's the way a lot of student-professor relationships go. You're the one insisting they're always wrong.

      Glad to hear you're OK with incest though; wouldn't want to lose Einstein and Von Braun.

  37. IMHO by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

    I am a male working in academia, and first rule of academia (they teach you this, even in TA training),
    do not have a relationship or encourage such things with students. There are plenty of other places to meet people,
    but it is inexcusable to show such interests in a student who you are teaching.

    1. Re:IMHO by Antique+Geekmeister · · Score: 1

      Fenman apparently wasn't teaching these students. How to handle such interest in students whom you do _not_ teach is territory that harassment guidelines try to pretend they've addressed without actually addressing. And it used to be quite common for male professors to marry female students, even female advisees in their own program. I know of at four such marriages that are at least 20 years old.

  38. How I would handle getting laid as a professor by Theovon · · Score: 2

    First of all, I’m happily married and would not want to violate what my wife and I have agreed to, whether she knew about it or not.

    But the university I work for (along with most others) take inappropriate behavior very seriously. I have had to pass certifications on this, so I have put some thought into the issue. When you are in a position of power relative to someone else, there is just way too much potential for abuse of that power. If you understand that underlying principle, then you can safely date without causing any harm.

    Unless your university has very specific fules, I would suggest perhaps a few rules of thumb that should keep you out of trouble:
    - Don’t ever date a student in your own department.
    - Staff in your own department, maybe, but have to be handled carefully — avoid any you might have some authority over.
    - Faculty in your own department are pretty much free game, especially if they’re tenured.
    - Faculty and staff at any level in any other department are free game.
    - Graduate students in other departments, maybe, but have to be handled carefully — prefer older ones.
    - Never date an undergraduate student, even if they’re nontraditional.
    - Any student who has graduated and is no longer a student is okay, but you have to be careful about others suspecting that the relationship might have started before they graduated, which could get you into trouble.

    Also, just because you first meet someone off campus (at a bar, say) doesn’t mean that these rules don’t apply. If you find out that someone you’re talking to at a bar is an undergrad at your school, you really need to break it off immediately. I don’t care how turned on you are by each other at that moment, the risk of that biting you in the ass later is just too great.

    And remember, this isn’t all about you protecting yourself from getting into trouble. It’s about protecting your students from psychological harm. I’m in Computer Science, and we just don’t have enough women in STEM fields. We have to make sure women (and men for that matter) feel that they’re going into a safe educational environment where people in authority are not going to prey on them. Students should earn their education and their grades, not buy them with favors, and they need to be able to be awarded the education and grades they’ve worked for without predators interfering.

    1. Re:How I would handle getting laid as a professor by Alomex · · Score: 1

      - Never date an undergraduate student, even if theyâ(TM)re nontraditional.

      I disagree, a very good friend of mine, a 35 year old divorcee who was a mature undergrad student dated and eventually married a young professor from another department who was 3 years younger than her. Are you suggesting she's incapable of approaching this relationship of her own free will? Does she suddenly become mentally incompetent by virtue of her gender?

    2. Re:How I would handle getting laid as a professor by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

      Your missing the point. This is sort of like dating an employee when you are a manager in a different dept, just because the employee is "Older" does not make it any less in appropriate. I don't believe OP was referring in any way about gender, your threw that in.

      Let me just recap, its not appropriate to date a student of your school when you are a member of the faculty. Period. Age and gender are moot.

    3. Re:How I would handle getting laid as a professor by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

      This is the real problem at universities with sex--acting as if the students aren't grown adults with the ability to make decisions for themselves, and not allowing due process. Ironically, this is all sexual prudishness and male chauvinism all over again, damsel in distress, etc.

      The OP, although being sincere in outlining one perspective on all of this, fails to recognize the fault in their argument, which is this: where exactly is the power? If someone in a supervisory position engages in a relationship, even if it's consensual, and things go sour, guess what happens... they end up on the front page of Scientific American, or Buzzfeed, or a Gawker site, or wherever stereotyped as a sexual predator. Does the supervisee really then have less power in that situation?

      Sorry, but here's the way humans tend to work on average: women tend to be attracted to males in positions of power. What that means varies from woman to woman, and there's lots and lots of variation in that, but on average, that's what tends to happen. Guess what else? People who work well, and work close to one another, hours on end, tend to develop feelings for one another. What do you think that leads to?

      Does harassment happen? Sure. Rape? Sure. But there's also a lot of completely consensual relationships that happen.

      Here's the way I see it: people should be treated as innocent until proven guilty, which basically means that if I hear of some sexual interaction between two people, I assume it was consensual until there's a ton of evidence to the contrary.

      I'm sick of people playing off of sexist stereotypes of males, or playing off the victim role, as a way to avoid dealing with the feelings of regret that they have for a decision they made, or as a way of being vindictive. Yes, it happens: I've seen it happen with colleagues and friends firsthand.

    4. Re:How I would handle getting laid as a professor by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I'm in Computer Science, and we just don't have enough women in STEM fields.

      I'm starting to wonder about this kind of assertion. I see it everywhere, but there's nothing backing it up, really.

      Let's put aside our preconceptions for a minute, and ask:

              What if a STEM career isn't the pinnacle of achievement?

      More specifically, let's say that someone with the chops to be a success in STEM would be better off in some other field by some meaningful metric (physical health, emotional health, income, quality-of-life, etc.).

      The fact that women are under-represented in this field might indicate good sense. We also see women under-represented in well-compensated fields where we're not worried about it (e.g., plumbers), because there are more choice positions out there for them.

      And when I look at STEM, I see... long hours, often solitary work, under high pressure to perform tasks with hard constraints (does the code compile? Does the equation product the correct answer? Does the widget work?) where success basically just means you get assigned the next most difficult task.

      Okay. Okay. Enough with the thought experiment. It's obviously all bunk anyway, and that pitting your mind against the inflexible universe is self-evidently the Best Thing Ever. Everyone, regardless of gender, race, or orientation, should deeply desire my job.

      It must be that awesome.

      Right?

    5. Re:How I would handle getting laid as a professor by goose-incarnated · · Score: 1

      - Never date an undergraduate student, even if theyâ(TM)re nontraditional.

      I disagree, a very good friend of mine, a 35 year old divorcee who was a mature undergrad student dated and eventually married a young professor from another department who was 3 years younger than her. Are you suggesting she's incapable of approaching this relationship of her own free will? Does she suddenly become mentally incompetent by virtue of her gender?

      I agree with you, but in a slightly different way - just because a relationship lasts into a long marriage doesn't mean that there's anything wrong with short relationships. A week after my first divorce filing [1], I was 35 years old and banging a 19 year old biochemistry student at a university I sometimes visited friends at (I lectured at a different university but networked properly). We only spent a few weeks dating before happily parting ways, but that doesn't mean there was anything dysfunctional in the relationship.

      Of course it helps when they aren't *your* student and especially when they aren't in your university, but my point still stands - nothing wrong with a short relationship.

      [1] I view marriage like I view git commits - do it early, do it often :-)

      --
      I'm a minority race. Save your vitriol for white people.
    6. Re:How I would handle getting laid as a professor by Alomex · · Score: 1

      Ok, so students in general are retards. They can't possibly make up their mind in any situation and circumstance.

      By the way, I also think that a manager from a different department should be allowed to date a person not reporting to them.

      At some point you have to assume that people are adults capable of making their own decisions.

    7. Re:How I would handle getting laid as a professor by Theovon · · Score: 1

      MOSTLY, I had in mind the idea of a professor (who is likely to be at least 30 due to the time required to get both undergrad and doctoral degrees) dating an undergrad, many of whom are under 20. Whether or not someone that age is capable of making good decisions about whom to date (many are) does not change the fact that the professor is in a position of authority over all students, regardless of what department they each are in. It's either an abuse of authority or a great risk of authority abuse.

      Now, the counter example doesn't disprove the general case. Say you have a 30 year old junior professor in Chemistry who starts dating a 34 year old undergrad majoring in Fine Arts. That 34 year old is VERY likely to have the maturity to make good dating decisions (at least compared to a 20 year old), but that professor could still cause the student trouble. If those people get together, and it works out, GREAT FOR THEM. I hope they have a great life. We can come up with more unusual cases, like a prof and a student both in their 40's. Honestly, most people wouldn't take notice, although some may still ask them if they're sure this is a wise idea.

      We can argue these corner cases all we want, but the rules are there to deal with the majority of cases where the professor is substantially older than the students. Even if we didn't have the prof/student issue as a factor, there is still a power imbalance that comes from large age differences in relationships, and that power imbalance can be abused.

    8. Re:How I would handle getting laid as a professor by Theovon · · Score: 1

      Gender isn't an issue here. Female professors can cause trouble for male students. What matters here is that power imbalance is bad for any relationship. There's a great deal of risk in any situation like that for the one with less power to be squelched or even abused. It doesn't mean abuse ALWAYS happens, but one reason we want to empower women in our modern society is so that they have more choices. If a woman is undereducated, for instance, she may find it harder to get out of an abusive relationship. A more educated woman will have the ability to get a job and get the hell out. Again, this doesn't mean a majority of relationships are abusive. But when there is more balanced power, relationships have lower occurrence of abuse and more viable escapes.

      So maybe 95% of relationships between profs and undergrads would work out just fine. Sure. No problem. Let's assume that most people are genuine and don't want to cause anyone harm. What we're dealing with here is both the subtle and major effects of the power imbalance that is inherent in relationships between professors and students.

      A professor simply doesn't have the right to take that kind of risk with a student.

    9. Re:How I would handle getting laid as a professor by Alomex · · Score: 1

      there is still a power imbalance that comes from large age differences in relationships, and that power imbalance can be abused.

      I'm personally against 40 year old dating 20 year olds for the reasons you cite, but that is not enough of a reason to forbid two consenting adults from doing so.

      Also a professor from another department has no power over a student in any large university I'm aware of.

    10. Re:How I would handle getting laid as a professor by david_thornley · · Score: 1

      Professors don't usually have undue power over undergrads, particularly undergrads with a major not in their department. All a professor can do is give a bad grade, and if the professor overreaches the student will complain and have evidence. As long as it's not a result of a power disparity, I don't care what consenting adults do in private.

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      "When you have eliminated the unacceptable, whatever is left, however improbable, must be the truthiness" - Holmes
    11. Re:How I would handle getting laid as a professor by Theovon · · Score: 1

      It's enough of a reason to tell 40 year olds, "you should be responsible and choose not to do this."

    12. Re:How I would handle getting laid as a professor by Alomex · · Score: 1

      Again there are many things people should do, but I'm not willing to legislate. It's part of being a free society. You have the right to make stupid decisions, such as drop out of high school, eat junk food, marry too young, date the wrong dude....

  39. Re:Here's a thought... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Having been inside some female pants before, and not being super macho myself, I've found that women do find ways to let you know they like you if they really want to get to know you better.

    #1 They will talk to you for long periods of time without trying to politely get rid of you.
    #2 If they can, they will get close to you and even make physical contact with you. There will be plausible deniability, but it will be pretty clear that suddenly a girl is pressed up against you or are touching you when most women have very specific personal space requirements.
    #3 They smile a lot when they're talking to you.

    and #4 occasionally they will just start making out with you.

    Now, I admit, I am not someone who gets laid on demand, but I no longer have much concern about my ability to get laid. Just be an actual nice guy (ie. not the type who says what a "nice guy" they are) and observe what is going on. If she's doing any of the above, especially #2 or a lot of #1, when you have to go, you can ask if she'd like to hang out sometime. Nothing is 100%, but that's the zone of opportunity.

    In the case of #4, you really don't need a date, you need a bed... or a patch of comfortable grass. And don't worry about figuring out what to do. She already knows.

    I love #4.

  40. Correct definitions. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

    Male professor / teacher sleeping with an adult, consenting student = rape.

    Female professor / teacher sleeping with an adult, consent student = wonderful.

    Thanks, feminism!

  41. Disappointing choice by Bruce66423 · · Score: 2

    Try to do it covertly, get the qualification you are after and a new job, and then sue the individual and the institution on the basis of the evidence you've got. Should pay off the debts nicely. Ultimately hitting institutions in the wallet is the way that will make a real difference, and the technology now exists to ensure that decent evidence can be obtained.

    1. Re:Disappointing choice by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      > Try to do it covertly, get the qualification you are after and a new job, and then sue the individual and the institution on the basis of the evidence you've go

      And get expelled for illegally recording someone without their consent, and have any evidence thrown out of court. Very few states allow unauthorized audio recording of private conversations..

    2. Re:Disappointing choice by PseudoThink · · Score: 2

      I thought of this too, which led me to consider/suggest the more reasonable, less dramatic approach of simply doing it the opposite way: give her a voice recorder to use in plain sight, for its traditional purpose of recording notes for later review. The intention was to get him (the adviser) to stop his bad behavior, not to get him in trouble. Once he knew things were being recorded, he would be smart enough to discontinue the unprofessionalism. But realistically, this probably wouldn't work, and she knew it. He'd simply refuse to let her use it in his office or something, and then she'd have to deal with the fallout from the resulting situation.

    3. Re:Disappointing choice by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Very few states allow unauthorized audio recording of private conversations..

      Actually, a majority of states are one-party consent, meaning as long as you're aware of the recording, you can record the other person without their consent.

    4. Re:Disappointing choice by KGIII · · Score: 1

      Don't ask. "I want to be able to go over this later, I've been finding my notes are inadequate so I'm going to record portions of this meeting to help me make sure I understand you properly."

      --
      "So long and thanks for all the fish."
  42. Re:Here's a thought... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    You sound like you're going to be taken for most of your assets in divorce courts in the future.

  43. UC: always the symbols, not the real problems by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1
    Below is the text of an email sent to the UC Berkeley Department of Astronomy faculty by Gibor Basri, chairman of the department and Vice Chancellor of UC Berkeley for Equity, Inclusion, and Diversity.

    Aside from the appallingly tone deaf support for Geoff Marcy while simultaneously none for the unfortunate recipients of his actions, I post this to point out that the UC system has an amazingly hard to admit / change institutional desire for certain symbols of diversity, regardless of how dubious a goal they actually achieve, while at the same time overlooking real issues in their midst.

    The UC reflected by Vice Chancellor Basri (who took the job at $202,500 / year thank you very much, and leads a bloated "diversity"-driven bureaucracy), routinely flouts the law in terms of admissions based on merit, and is in constant search of symbolic diversity for its own end. Yet they're so busy funding symbolic "diversity" that they don't have time to fix or acknowledge what's right under their nose.

    Dear Colleagues - this has been a day of drama and difficulty for many of us, each in our own way and with our own context. It is hard to process for those who know Geoff well. It is hard to process in relation to our colleagues here and elsewhere. And it is difficult for the department as a community. For those for whom these issues are triggering or raise strong passions, please seek support. This is very strong and emotional stuff, and it would not be surprising if more is yet to come, given its very public nature.

    I have called a faculty meeting for next Monday at 1pm, and am willing to work to have some representatives of students and postdocs present for part of it (I know that some of you are talking to them). There is a need for our community to process this in a number of ways and forums over time. Clearly folks are organizing some of these already and I'll try to help when such help is welcome. Mostly, everyone will need support from other and should offer support to others.

    Of course, this is hardest for Geoff in this moment. For those who are willing and able, he certainly can use and understanding or support they can offer (this wouldn't include endorsement of the mistakes he acknowledges in an open letter on his website). I ask that those who have the room for it (now or later), hear him out and judge whether there is room for redemption in all that will transpire.

  44. Here's One Example by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    They claim all of Academia is struggling with sexual harassment, while managing to list a single person accused of it.

    One of the foundations of science is LOOKING FOR EVIDENCE AND FOLLOWING THE EVIDENCE. One guy being a dick != all of academia.

  45. Re:What is this SJW bullshit? by Mashiki · · Score: 1

    Hacker news is already sucking on the SJW bottle.

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    Om, nomnomnom...
  46. Re:Academia is not struggling with sexual harrazme by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Colleges do whatever they can to HIDE the sexual assaults that happen on campus and continually victimize the victim by harassing them until they either drop out of school or retract the allegation.

    Quite the opposite, colleges are happy to support idiots like Emma Sulkowicz who continuously re-victimize innocent men by portraying them as rapists even when no rape occurred. And the media eats up stories like "Jackie" that are complete fabrications, with supposed attackers who were invented out of thin air and don't even exist.

    If there's one thing today's feminists have demonstrated they're good at, it's making shit up for attention.

  47. You wouldn't get fired in industry, either by msobkow · · Score: 1

    I've seen several cases of sexual harassment filed in various companies I worked for over the years, and not once was the guilty party fired. They were required to attend "sensitivity" courses. They lost their bonuses for the year. They were passed over for promotions. Sometimes they were reassigned to lesser roles in the business.

    But they were not fired.

    Why should academics be held to higher standards than those in industry?

    --
    I do not fail; I succeed at finding out what does not work.
    1. Re:You wouldn't get fired in industry, either by aaaaaaargh! · · Score: 1

      Academia very small. If you're fired for such a reason in academia, everyone in your field will know and you will never be able to work in your profession again. It's a complete death sentence to your career - not just in your country but internationally.

      This is not generally so in the industry (except a few very specialized areas perhaps). You might have to scale down your financial expectations or slightly change the field but usually there are many more jobs and possible employers than in academia.

  48. NAWBO by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    "Four women alleged that Marcy repeatedly engaged in inappropriate physical behavior with students, including unwanted massages, kisses, and groping.”

    If that had happened in Yakima, WA, the female cops with the local po-po would have removed Marcy’s manhood, limbs, & head with a machete. They then would have taken his remains to the local NAWBO temple, and offered them as a sacrifice to The Grand Matriarch.

  49. Segregated schools the only solution by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

    All schooling, up to, and including, university must be single-sex education systems with no mix of gender. We must also not have any lesbians or gays in school since they'd happily cop off with each other if they were segregated or not, so they must be taught in isolation.

    This includes teachers. No rug munchers or fudge packers, only heterosexuals segregated into their same sex school.

    That is the only way to stop sexual harrassment.

    But please remember, a woman molesting a child (11 years old) is seen as "Rather unwelcome" but even the boy's dad gainsays what the boy says about his feelings of the rape, AND THE JUDGE AGREES WITH THEM.

    It's just not possible for a woman to rape a man. Because the man ALWAYS wants sex.

  50. Re:The challenge is keeping this issue gender-neut by Uberbah · · Score: 1

    Pick any "yes means yes" campaign. Ask the proponents of such measures how long women who initiate sex should be sentenced to jail, if they failed to first obtain explicit affirmative consent from their would-be partners.

  51. Re:Academia is not struggling with sexual harrazme by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    For every ONE fake report there are HUNDREDS of REAL ones.

    The fact that you think that they are all fake shows that you are nothing but a moron.

  52. Re:The challenge is keeping this issue gender-neut by preaction · · Score: 1

    That's not a citation, that's a personal anecdote. It's also putting the burden of proof on me, when you're the one who made the claim.

  53. Still Struggles With Sexual Harassment? by frovingslosh · · Score: 1

    My school isn't struggling with it at all, they are doing it extremely well.

    --
    I'm an American. I love this country and the freedoms that we used to have.
  54. thanks to feminism, I don't believe this by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Thanks to feminists and their constant cries of rape for looking at a woman wrong, and their propensity to withdraw consent after coitus and being proud of such inanity, I don't believe a word of this article. It's also buzzfeed, which is garbage clickbait no better than kotaku.

    He probably patted somebody on the shoulder or hugged them, and the delicate flowers felt their crotches explode from his masculinity.

    Well done feminism for poisoning things. Ten years ago I'd have believed you.

  55. Illegal recording - only some jurisdictions by Bruce66423 · · Score: 1

    Certainly English law accepts covert recordings as valid evidence.

    1. Re:Illegal recording - only some jurisdictions by david_thornley · · Score: 1

      In the US, it differs between states. In some, you can record a conversation covertly, others require permission from the other parties.

      --
      "When you have eliminated the unacceptable, whatever is left, however improbable, must be the truthiness" - Holmes
  56. Re:The challenge is keeping this issue gender-neut by Uberbah · · Score: 1

    Then you need to Google the definition of the word "anecdote". Asking for evidence that affirmative consent will be equally applied to women is as banal as asking for evidence that 70's feminists left the draft out of their demands for "equality."