Scientists Say Smart People Are Better Off With Fewer Friends
HughPickens.com writes: Christopher Ingraham writes in the Washington Post that a new study finds that when smart people spend more time with their friends, it makes them less happy. "The findings in here suggest (and it is no surprise) that those with more intelligence and the capacity to use it ... are less likely to spend so much time socializing because they are focused on some other longer term objective," says Carol Graham, a Brookings Institution researcher who studies the economics of happiness. According to Graham you should think of the really smart people you know. They may include a doctor trying to cure cancer or a writer working on the great American novel or a human rights lawyer working to protect the most vulnerable people in society. To the extent that frequent social interaction detracts from the pursuit of these goals, it may negatively affect their overall satisfaction with life. (More, below.)
Hugh Pickens continues: Kanazawa and Li's theory of happiness starts with the premise that the human brain evolved to meet the demands of our ancestral environment on the African savanna, where the population density was akin to what you'd find today in, say, rural Alaska (less than one person per square kilometer). Take a brain evolved for that environment, plop it into today's Manhattan (population density: 27,685 people per square kilometer), and you can see how you'd get some evolutionary friction. "Our ancestors lived as hunter–gatherers in small bands of about 150 individuals," Kanazawa and Li explain. "In such settings, having frequent contact with lifelong friends and allies was likely necessary for survival and reproduction for both sexes." If you're smarter and more able to adapt to things, you may have an easier time reconciling your evolutionary predispositions with the modern world. Accordingly smarter people may be better-equipped to jettison that whole hunter-gatherer social network — especially if they're pursuing some loftier ambition. "Whatever the explanation might prove to be, this obviously doesn't mean smart people don't like having friends," says Emma Cueto. "But it does probably mean that they don't enjoy having too many — after all, keeping track of lots of people does usually involve, you know, talking to them. So if you're naturally more of a loner, congratulations! It might be a sign of intelligence."
Better to have fewer friends, but spend more time with them, than more friends, and only shallow interactions ...
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You see, guys. I'm not a smelly, pantsless loser, I'm just ahead of the curve.
Scientists Say Smart People Are Better Off With Fewer Friends
I'm doing very well.
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Evolutionary psychologists.
http://dilbert.com/strip/2013-10-10
... then wasting time socializing on bullshit topics likes (un)reality TV, soaps, social media, etc.
That's not to say they don't check social media like /. or Reddit -- they do -- but they would rather be creating then socializing the majority of the time.
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"Stop telling your big dreams to small minded people"
Smart people just feel annoyed by idiots and assholes.
It sounds like this article is mixing up “smart people” with “introverts.” What about the really smart extraverts? Richard Feynman was very extraverted, he had lots of friends, hung around with them a lot, and was very successful.
There are a lot of things wrong with this article. The idea that doctors spend their time curing cancer - hmmm, maybe one in ten thousand. Great writers don't tend to be highly intelligent (if they were, they'd get work that pays better). And I have yet to meet any lawyer IRL who was both intelligent AND spent all their time doing civil rights cases.
I also don't buy the "evolutionary" or sociological explanation. The population density of our ancestors might have been tiny, when measured over a whole country. But because they stuck together, it was clearly much higher in the groups they lived in. Since it took much more effort to build a house, they tended to be small and close to each other (within the village walls).
I would suggest that one reason that intelligent people would have fewer friends is the difficulty they would experience in finding like-minded individuals to be friends with. It wouldn't be very fulfilling for someone with a brain the size of a planet to spend all their time with people who only talked about soaps and sport.
politicians are like babies' nappies: they should both be changed regularly and for the same reasons
I have a few friends, and that is enough.
Much of the summary assumes that happiness is important. And that it's important to smart people.
I propose that the desire for happiness is inversely proportional to intelligence. I have no statistical proof, only personal and historical experience. As one learns about the discerning and creative people around them and the ones that they read about in biographies and historical documents, one must consider how often did these people sit around to chat with neighbors and chums. If they interacted with other people, it was probably in pursuit of some greater purpose.
On the other hand, I will be meeting with 5 'developmentally disabled' people this morning who are very happy and who value that state of being very much. What's your experience in this regard?
...omphaloskepsis often...
Lots of posts saying "Yeah, smart people understand me, but people I don't understand are dumb."
The Daddy casts sleep on the Baby. The Baby resists!
I wouldn't be talking about a level of intelligence specifically but I want to point out that anybody who is focused on a goal will feel irritated when detracted from the task in front of them that works towards that goal and having friends invite you to various social interactions is taking time away from those tasks. I know it first hand, I had to decline quite a number of invitations over the years because I do not have time for this, I am busy and what I am busy with is part of my overall goal.
You can't handle the truth.
I call it the relativity theory.
Socializing with friends and working on a long-term goal are not mutually exclusive. If your friend is also a doctor and also working on a cure for cancer, then socializing with them can significantly speed up your progress. Even if they're in a different field, discussing your ideas with them can bring new insights. I've gotten some good ideas from talking to people, sometimes even before they started speaking. Formulating my problems into words that an outsider could understand forces me to think about it in a different, easier-to-solve, way.
In other words, get better friends.
Just saying.
You need better friends. I have a group that I hang out with and none talk about any of the topics you listed.
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You're just saying that to make me feel smart and less lonely.
Intelligence is the ability to not ignore reality. The stages of getting there can be difficult when our species is still in the early stages of evolution. The first step in getting out of the "survival of the fittest" stage is to realize that discrimination and prejudice is merely a genetic reflex. It is difficult to hate everyone Equally and still have close friends. But still, a small price for intellegence.
But everyone *knows* that if you want to do something alone it means you have a mental disorder! I went on a trip to the Caribbean once (there were several couples and we all went together). First day we were headed down to the beach, I brought a book plopped down in a chair and started reading while everyone else went in the water. At least two others came by and asked me if I was OK, and if I was feeling well. I'm like, "yeah, this is awesome!" The silly thing is they were mostly psychologists, but they've been steeped in the cult of "positive energy" or something, I guess. My wife understood and didn't bother me, but it was a little off-putting to have people assume something was wrong with me.
Besides, most of the "normal" people you talk to just repeat the same old stuff about magnets healing their sore elbows, or some device they put on their car that splits water into hydrogen and oxygen and gives them better fuel mileage, or about whatever they saw on Fox News or CNN last night. Giving them serious looks and nodding your approval all day does get really tiring. You can call it introversion if you want, but I'm pretty sure an actor would be tired if they had to give a 12 to 16-hour performance very day too.
"I have never let my schooling interfere with my education." - Mark Twain
I'm a smart person and I like to spend time with my friends.
Of course at some point I need some time alone, but mostly I can spend every day with them as long as there are some breaks in between.
I can't imagine anyone can spend 24 hours per day with other people and not have it be an exhausting experience.
Having friends imposes intellectual demands on you. First of all you need to learn to speak clearly. Speaking clearly and writing clearly are different things and people don't usually speak how they write and are often expected not to. Knowing how to speak under a variety of contexts (ie: a public speech vs a casual conversation with your friends vs a debate, etc...) requires a variety of different skills and is a skill in itself. Secondly you may be required to know what you are talking about when conversing with others to some extent without having the luxury of always having to verify every detail on the Internet. It's too inefficient to have to look up every detail on the Internet in a casual conversation yet if you want to be able to converse with others about various subjects you need to know what you are talking about and how to express yourself with little pre - thought in response to how others may respond. Social interaction has intellectual demands. You will be required to remember names, locations, relationships, experiences, events, etc... quickly and accurately.
This is why commissioned sales and managerial jobs tend to be higher paid jobs (ie: real estate agents, etc...). People in sales not only need to know their product well they need to be able to answer questions on demand and often to those that know very little. Knowing how to express yourself is important. Managers need to interact with the public, the press, and employees and they need to know how to answer questions in various contexts. All of these things are intellectually demanding.
and having a wide array of people you interact with will help you think more broadly and be able to do so on the fly.
Smart people don't confuse then and than, you fucking gobshite.
A well known propaganda think-tank, linked to tobacco industry lobbying, and the general right-wing think tank network spewing forth bullshít.
The angle on this article? "Society isn't becoming more insular, you're just smarter than everyone else! Keep putting your intelligence to use by working harder, and forget about having any time for a social life - it's better for you!"
Don't like seeing this kind of shíte creep through on Slashdot.
The study was done by Satoshi Kanazawa, so take it with a grain of salt:
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/...
"...his critics claim that what he does is 'bad science'[3] and 'racist.'[4]"
"In response to ongoing controversy over views such as that African countries suffer chronic poverty and illness because their people have lower IQs and that black women are objectively less attractive than other races, he was dismissed from writing for Psychology Today. His employer – the London School of Economics – prohibited him from publishing in non-peer-reviewed outlets for 12 months, and a group of 68 evolutionary psychologists issued an open letter titled 'Kanazawa's bad science does not represent evolutionary psychology', and an article was published by 35 on the same theme."
Study is 18-28 year olds with self reported levels of happiness.
Smart people don't confuse intelligence with knowledge; I know *many* idiots who're well aware of the grammatical differences between "then" and "than" but otherwise couldn't think their way out of a wet paper bag. Alternatively, I've met some pretty smart sons of bitches who simply never had the opportunity to learn the distinction between two identical-sounding words. However, none of the smart people i know (including a fair few Brits and other Commonwealth folks) have the word "gobshite" in their vocabulary...
Capital "I", shitegobbler.
Bah. Friends take away from my KSP time. I don't need friends until they get a good multiplayer KSP.
People don't want to hang around you because you are smart, they don't want to hang around you because you are an asshole. If you were actually smart, you'd know the difference.
You got it. Who wants to waste their time
dealing with idiots.
I find I have three circles of friends. inner is people I can talk about anything with, middle I can stay smart around, outer, I just nod and smile when they say stupid shit. Just let them be wrong and smile, it's not worth correcting them. Just hand them another budwiser while they make fun of your fancy pants dark beer.
Do not look at laser with remaining good eye.
Bull. Smart people as just as likely to piss away their time on this earth as the rest.
Having fewer friends probably comes form being barely tolerable person. Just look at the comments here. People dicking around in Slashdot are probably on the smarter side of the bell curve, have few friends, and contribute fuck all to the world.
And I though economics researches were all about cash. :/
Oh BTW I'm a scientist, and fuck You Facebook is my thesis.
... the #1 objective for those who frequent FB is to have as many 'friends' as they could possibly gather ...
how dare you call those folks 'brainless' !!
Ok, picture this. You are a very intelligent person. You have some set of fields that you are really, really into. For this discussion, it doesn't really matter what they are or how "cerebral" or "topical" or "mainstream" or "whatever" they are or aren't. Whatever they are, you dig into them, think deeply about them, master them, maybe even obsess about some of them. You love to talk shop about them, given an opportunity with a mutually interested audience. Even when it comes to stuff you don't know much about and aren't really into, you still love learning new things and usually don't mind picking up at least basic knowledge on things you haven't encountered before. Maybe one of those things will turn into a new hobby or passion, or maybe you'll just file it away and move on.
Now walk into a room full of people that simply exist. They pass their days with bread and circuses. They seem almost pathologically incapable of independent thought or critical analysis and take anything their preferred talking head or celebrity on TV says as the truth, the whole truth, and nothing but the truth. They have no patience for details, no time to consider any thing outside the immediate present, no interest in learning anything beyond the bare minimum they have to know to not die, and no concept whatsoever of the forces at play, both scientific and sociopolitical, that shape their lives and the world around them. They possess neither understanding nor any desire to understand. They simply drift along dimly whichever way the current takes them and truly cannot fathom why anyone else would bother knowing or doing. Any attempt to communicate them or assist them will be met with resentment for disturbing their ignorance.
Interacting with such people will only be a miserable experience for the both of you, so why not confine your circle of friends to only those bright sparks in the darkness that can provide mutually beneficial fellowship?
Most intelligent people soon learn that knowledge is useful, so they tend to learn as much as they can. Not all, but most.
On the other hand, people who know a lot are not necessarily intelligent.
I am sure that there are many other solipsists out there.
It is quite easy to start seeing lesser folk as idiotic, or even a roadblock to a better world. You may also not understand at all why they enjoy many things making you sort of a wet blanket in their eyes.
Smart people can read people, and choose not to waste time with those who have little or nothing to offer; and/or those who are jealous or controlling. This naturally dictates a small circle of friends.
Also, there are only so many interesting things going on in life. Hanging out with more people doesn't make life more interesting. It merely dilutes the interesting stuff.
I come here for the love
I must be smarter than I thought!
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Yeah, similar. Inner friends who will drink anything, middle who have a drink hangup or two, and just nod and smile at smug beer elitist cunts.
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Lookie here, we got a bud light drinker!
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To stereotype mercilessly, most Americans are seen as energetic, conscientious, achievement-oriented team workers.
And how are stereotypes formed?
- Peoples' personal experiences with the subjects of the stereotype, followed by their communicating about it.
- Media presentations.
And what sort of sampling bias does this introduce?
- Extroerts will be out interacting with others and going to other places while introverts are tooling away in private or small groups.
- Media production is a quintesentially extrovert activity and its personnel - especially those making the decisions about what to portray and how to portray it - tend to be outliers on the extrovert end of the scale.
It's something like how the post-WW II stereotypes for Germans, British, Americans, and Japanese, look substantially more like the distinctions between the symptoms of the different performance-enhancing drugs fed to the various armies than distinctions between their national cultures at the time. If the experience of a few hundred thousand people from your country with those from another are mainly from interacting with doped-up soldiers in battle, soldiers with varying personalities and from different subcultures, but all on the same dope, it's easy to read the dope's common symptoms as the nature of the country's culture.
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Imagine if your IQ is 160. Hanging around with the average person is the equivalent of you hanging around with someone who has a 50 IQ - severely retarded. It's not fun I tell you.
I'd rather be stupid, and have a lot of friends
Forgive me, I don't get out much, but when I saw the word "gobshite" I automatically assumed the poster was from England or at least somewhere in the UK, am I a racist?
I have plenty of common sense, I just choose to ignore it. -- Calvin
Intelligence is overrated
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...that nerds like doing nerdy things better than not nerdy things.
because most of those friends would not be as smart as them and take too much time to bring up to speed whenever they try to have a conversation.
No shit, I don't have a lot of friends because I don't have that high a tolerance for stupidity and ignorance.
And yes I am a hostile asshole because I'm actually paying attention to what's going on in the world. I know that the people who are fucking things up the most are actually doing the best job they can do and sincerely doing what their deluded little hearts are telling them to do.
So, fuck all-y'all
Statistically, theres less people in the side of the bell of what you would call "intelligent" then the whole mass of people that will be around you on average, is probabilistically hard to find those people on which you can form real meaningful relations also when there is this "filter" of your intelligence checking on the ports of the human in front, it gets old, quick. I really admire people that being intelligent manage to be extrovert without the context or field of work demanding it. I would not say being by yourself improves your chances of success, me, being an introvert, I just mind having a decent SO who can provide all the levels of interaction I might need, and sometimes just one person gets to be too much. happiness\loneliness It's a spectrum! like almost any physiological trait but that will never stop psychologists (which I respect) to try to create all those little lockers where they classify people and their states of mind.
When wants > needs then happiness is unobtainable
When selfish ambition > selflessness then happiness is unobtainable
When you need to continuously rebalance work/life then happiness is unobtainable
When you miss out on more and more of your kid(s) firsts then happiness is unobtainable
When you search for ways to cram more into a day then happiness is unobtainable
You're a nationalist!
I find that my best friends are the ones I can relate to. Since there's not a lot of 3D artists (relative to the norm in day to day life, not the industry), programmers, engineers, science geeks, philosophical types, or artists in general, there's not a lot of opportunity to make really good friends. When I make a friend like this, its rare for both of us and we hit it off right away.
Incidentally the one asking me to hang out all the time is the one who does nothing but play video games. Also, turns out you can't make people interested in game development just because they really really like games. In fact it might be an impediment...
Well you sure as shit haven't been working on learning the difference between the words "then" and "than."
busy right now ;)
Self-importance and self-indulgence is the root of ALL evil.
Really? I have to tell friends who are nerds to socialize. I tell my kids to socialize. You may be smarter but you will be a lot more frustrated, less happy in many other ways and probably less successful financially if you don't socialize. This is one of the stupidest articles ever.
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No, really :-)
(But I have too many flaws to be a good date in the first place, so.)
The thing about Hitler was, that the Germans failed at logistics.
Your argument is correct, that the Gerries went so far, that they overextended their supply lines, but they â" or Hitler, rather â" probably did not expect the land mass between Eastern Europe and Moscow to be a total swamp, with all their then-high-tech land-based gear built for traversable roads, and manpower equipped alike, continuously failing.
The success of having taken Easten Europe and a number of other territories so easily most likely contributed to Hitler's overconfidence.
But here's a problem: Had Germany instead taken all of Eastern Europe except Russia, and held the line at that, then it seems difficult to me (at least) to think of what could have happened next.
One option could have been destroying or hampering all of Russia's supply lines siege-style to keep the Soviet Union weak. This would potentially have bought Nazi Germany precious time to keep up the fight well beyond 1945.
Of course, the losses of some of the populations so far extant in Europe would have been even greater (the Jews, the gays, the Gypsies, and all anti-Nazi resistance). Wernher von Braun would probably have gotten off with a German nuclear bomb. And that would have changed the geopolitical equation completely.
Another possibility is this: Were Russia proper not invaded by the Germans, Russia (aka the Soviet Union) would have been able to gather enough strength to conquer back some of the territories it had invaded and annexed in 1940. Well, it did so anyway in 1944.
OTOH, Germany's mission profile would then have been one of defense, yet its supply lines would not have been worn thin across the vastness of Russia.
I suppose, if Germany did not invade France and other countries to its west, it would have been in a better shape economically. The fight, then, would have been viewed as one between Germany and the Soviet Union, and the West would have sat and looked on. Alliances would have been different. (Unless, of course, such a West would have decided to gang-up on Germany much later into the conflict.)
The externality, though, would have been conflicts of even greater intensity on the battlefronts between Germany and the USSR. The absolute losers would have been the poor countries and peoples stuck between the two.
In many ways, it was like that in real life in WWII, but the difference would have been in greater conflict intensity concentrated across territories of overall lesser land mass.
Given that you're interested about WWII, I'd like you to watch two Estonian films: "In the Crosswind" (Risttuules, 2014), and "1944" (2015).
Wikipedia links:
* In the Crosswind
* 1944
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