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American Express Will Give All Parents 20 Weeks Of Paid Leave (cnn.com)

Starting in January, the financial services giant will expand its paid parental leave policy for mothers and fathers to 20 weeks at full pay, plus another six to eight weeks for women who give birth and require medical leave. Full-time and part-time employees who have worked at Amex for at least a year are eligible. CNN adds: That's a big shift from the company's current policy of offering six weeks of paid leave for the primary parent plus another six to eight weeks for birth mothers who require medical leave. Secondary caregivers, meanwhile, have gotten just two weeks. Under the new policy, parents will also have access to a 24-hour lactation consultant. And mothers who go on business trips will be able to ship their breast milk home for free.

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  1. All parents? by Oswald+McWeany · · Score: 4, Funny

    I'm a parent, I don't work for American Express... will they give me 20 weeks?

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    1. Re:All parents? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I'm a parent, I don't work for American Express... will they give me 20 weeks?

      They'll let you quit your job and maintain your current lifestyle for 20 weeks if you charge everything to Amex for that time.

    2. Re:All parents? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Do you practice being a moron or does it just come naturally?

    3. Re:All parents? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Of course they will. They'll even double what they're paying you now!

    4. Re:All parents? by The-Ixian · · Score: 1

      They will give you all the time you need. And they will even pay the rate that they are currently paying you!

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    5. Re:All parents? by Penguinisto · · Score: 1

      Good Lord... half of Seattle doesn't take AMEX due to the higher-than-otherwise merchant fees, and they focus their money on *this*?

      Ugh.

      I don't mind that they do nice things for their employees, but a potential problem: should AMEX come into financial troubles, the incentive to offshore/contract employees (and use them as replacements for the existing ones who get fired or laid off) will now get much bigger if the money flow ever gets tight (or the board decides they really need to bump the stock price by end-of-quarter...)

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    6. Re:All parents? by pr0fessor · · Score: 1

      Are you sure they haven't already gradually offshored most of their staff?

  2. so we single folks by anthony_greer · · Score: 3, Insightful

    get to pick up the slack with no extra PTO or a larger salary? I understand the need to help parents, and i don't dispute it. I get that maybe parents needsome time out for a new birth or to leave early or come in late or take time off now and again to deal with older kids, but 20 weeks at full pay? doesn't that put a huge burden on those who dont have kids to pick up the slack?

    1. Re:so we single folks by Shinobi · · Score: 4, Insightful

      Only if the work environment is already completely fucked up

    2. Re:so we single folks by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 2, Insightful

      The benefit is to you as a human. Your parents, had this policy been in place, would have been better able to care for you as an infant.

      Non-breeders needn't look at this as discrimination. The kid is the one who really benefits and we were all kids.

    3. Re:so we single folks by MightyMartian · · Score: 1

      Presumably PT positions would be upgraded to FT or temps would be brought in. This is about attracting and retaining talent, not about fucking people over.

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    4. Re:so we single folks by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 2, Funny

      I'm single and don't plan to marry of have kids. But other people do. That's just a fact of life, and hardly the only instance of life not being "fair".

      Since some people are going to have children, it makes sense to me to accommodate this reality in the most constructive way possible. Its either pick up the "slack" for someone on parental leave, pick up the "slack" for someone who is stressed out with a new baby or pick up the "slack" while someone is replaced. IMO, the first option is preferable.

      Plus, I would totally give up 20 weeks pay to not have to stay home for 20 weeks with a baby.

    5. Re:so we single folks by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

      It's not even single folks. It's anyone that chooses to not have kids. It's horseshit.

    6. Re:so we single folks by anthony_greer · · Score: 2, Interesting

      I dont look at it as discrimination, I think parents should be given help making sure they can care for their kids. But 20 paid weeks off while the non parents get what? two or three weeks a year of sick/vacation time? Lets flip this on its head, lets say some company did say "we evaluated things and saw that non parent singles worked more hours and got more done so we are giving the single childless people 20% higher pay"...how fast would that land in court?

    7. Re:so we single folks by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Most of these companies are making shit tons of money off the common worker's back. a 20-30% interest rate if you miss one payment? Another 2-3% skimmed off practically all transactions?

      20 weeks PTO is nothing.

    8. Re:so we single folks by Jason+Levine · · Score: 1

      This isn't "20 weeks anytime a parent feels they need time off." This is 20 weeks from the birth of your child. As the parent of two kids, I can tell you that the first three months of a child's life is basically hell on the parents. The new baby has no set schedule and will wake up at all hours of the day or night to be fed, changed, held, etc. The baby might sleep for an hour before waking up for a diaper change and then sleep another half hour before wanting to be fed. Since the parents basically need to be available for their baby 24/7, they wind up extremely sleep deprived.

      It's amazing how little sleep you get by on. I've done 3 hours - total, not in one block - and then went into work because I had exhausted my vacation time (no paid paternity leave at the time). Still, the quality of the work being done by a parent with only 3 hours of sleep who stumbled into the office isn't going to be great. Plus, this then burdens the other parent with taking care of the baby 100% - likely the woman who just had a major medical event and is still recovering.

      Twenty weeks of parental time off would get the parents comfortably past this point and would let them have some stability in their house before returning to work. As far as others taking up the slack - remember that this isn't going to be all parents taking off twenty weeks every year. It's going to be new parents taking time off to be with their family for the first few months of their baby's life. This would likely be one person out at a time (maybe more in a larger organization like American Express, but likely only one in each department at a time). If the rest of the department can't pick up the slack from one employee being out, then they might need to look into hiring more staff in general. What would happen if that employee had a medical issue and was out on extended leave to recover?

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    9. Re:so we single folks by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1, Insightful

      If parents simply decided that children had priority over wealth, and one of the two gave up their job to care for the children they decided to have, that would be better still. Fuck their "I want it all" attitude and the expectation that society should support them in achieving it. And fuck those who would provide support which allows them to breed more easily.

    10. Re:so we single folks by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1, Insightful

      No. This will sound harsh....but I do not care about your kid. It's not my job to care about your kid. Perhaps in a "make the world a better place" mentality, I should. But I don't. You should not get a paid vacation and I do not because you chose to have a child.

    11. Re:so we single folks by anthony_greer · · Score: 0

      Mod this parent up! if i could i would. Live within the means of one salary for a few years if you value one parent being with the child/children around teh clock for some amount of time. My folks did it, and many of my friends parents did too. They gave up the shiny new cars and yearly vacations for what for me was a pretty great family life.

    12. Re:so we single folks by networkBoy · · Score: 2

      not really.
      In a small company, yes, but in a company as big as Amex you always have people on vacation/out sick/etc. your headcount is likely actually +1 or +2 of what you need in an idealized model anyway because of that (within an org level that 1-2 heads == ~8% of staff).

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    13. Re:so we single folks by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      no.

      infact, 20 weeks is rather lame compared to 52 weeks that most of the normal world gets to enjoy.

      The fact of the matter is, giving benefits to those who procreate benefit you in the long run, even if you're too selfish to realize it now.

    14. Re:so we single folks by 0100010001010011 · · Score: 2

      Travel to a country outside of the US. Their companies have managed to not collapse under the weight of parental leave. Perhaps ask them how they do it.

    15. Re:so we single folks by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      You should not get a paid vacation and I do not because you chose to have a child.

      LOL if you think taking care of a newborn is a 'vacation'.

    16. Re:so we single folks by msauve · · Score: 1

      "this then burdens the other parent with taking care of the baby 100% - likely the woman who just had a major medical event and is still recovering."

      It's amazing you're even here, what with all the harsh realities your ancestors had to actually deal with in life. If you're unable to make life choices which you can handle yourself, you have no one to blame but yourself.

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    17. Re:so we single folks by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Who said it would "collapse?"

    18. Re:so we single folks by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      That's the parent's problem, no his/her coworkers.

    19. Re:so we single folks by The-Ixian · · Score: 1

      You get the benefit of not having to deal with a screaming kid ever. You can just decide to shoot heroin or play world of warcraft for 30 straight hours and nobody will call you a bad person for neglecting your kid...

      You make up the 20 weeks in just leisure time that you can spend how you will...

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    20. Re:so we single folks by phorm · · Score: 1

      It doesn't seem to add all that much burden in Canada or other countries that similarly don't treat new parents like garbage. If you can't do without sombody in a planned absence (parenthood has some pretty predictable dates), then you're even more SOL if they change jobs, get hit by a car, etc etc.

    21. Re:so we single folks by alvinrod · · Score: 1

      Presumably you get the benefit of being at work and not missing 20 weeks of project work and product development. If you can't use this to impress upon your managers or bosses that you're worth more or use your extra time to become more vital to the company and get promotions than either you don't actually provide any additional benefit over someone who was taking leave or the management isn't capable of realizing what their employees are worth and you're stuck with some arbitrary system for advancement that may have little to do with your abilities, in which case you should probably change jobs as soon as possible.

    22. Re:so we single folks by Piata · · Score: 4, Informative

      This is such a bizarre and staunchly American attitude. In Canada you automatically get 17 weeks paid leave when having a child. You can also take an unpaid parental leave for up to 35 weeks and your employer cannot penalize you in any way for taking these leaves. The Canadian government is currently look at increasing the paid leave and applying it more equally to men and women in the future as the current system is felt to be inadequate.

      Typically when someone goes on parental leave in my workplace a new employee is brought on temporarily under contract to "pick up the slack". If you choose not to have children or are not in a position to have children well then that's just too bad for you. Raising children is a huge commitment, both in time and money and there absolutely should be support from government and business to make major life events like this easier. It also encourages new mothers to do what's best for their health and the baby's by staying home and taking care of the newborn.

      As someone from the outside looking in, the American system seems downright barbaric and more companies need to be doing what American Express is.

    23. Re:so we single folks by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      What shiny new car? What yearly vacation?

      My family has never taken a vacation. Our newest car is a 2004 Ford Freestar. My house is a 3-bedroom, 1450 sqrft, in a relatively cheap neighborhood. Oh and my most recent "child" was taking custody of my nephew which prevented him from going into foster care after children service removed him from his parents care. But yes, I think its completely unreasonable that I get extra time off to try and help care for him. While uncle sam does provide medicaid for him, they don't provide any support for food, clothing, and shelter; that's all on me. At the end of the day, I would assume I'm saving the taxpayers quite a bit of money since I am supporting him and preventing him from entering foster care, but why let an employer help us out? Why should we care that he's in a good, stable ,loving environment vs foster care?

    24. Re:so we single folks by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Looks like someone else already responded similarly. If you have a decent work environment. No, someone being gone from a dept for 20 weeks should have little impact on the rest of the dept. Nobody, I mean nobody is irreplaceable. The founder and owner who still runs the day to day operations of a small company is replaceable. For all of those who always complain about management and HR, well boys and girls, this is what they get paid for. To deal with this shit.

      I applaud American Express. Now, how do we get the rest of the country to wake up to the benefits that this gives to the kids and the parents?

      One last comment, you're not going to be single forever (most likely). So wouldn't you want to get the same benefit when it comes time for you to have a family? Trust me, you will want the time off when the baby comes. The first few months are utter hell, you get very little sleep. This is another life event, like so many, that you really have no understanding of until it happens to you. Just like all of the stuff you thought your parents didn't have a clue about and you later find out you didn't have a clue and were pretty fucking stupid for not listening to your parents to start with.

      FMLA is a total joke. Few parents have the saved up vacation (if even allowed) to be able to be off work for 3 months and still pay bills. It should be a Federal requirement that all companies over X number of employees have a similar benefit. I'd really like to see us follow Sweden. That first year is so important in the growth of a child and it's a sad fact that most children spend more time at daycare than with their parents. So who is really raising our children in America?

    25. Re:so we single folks by chispito · · Score: 2

      In addition to everyone else's comment, think of it as an investment in the people who change the diapers of the people who are going to change your diapers.

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    26. Re:so we single folks by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      get to pick up the slack with no extra PTO or a larger salary? I understand the need to help parents, and i don't dispute it. I get that maybe parents needsome time out for a new birth or to leave early or come in late or take time off now and again to deal with older kids, but 20 weeks at full pay? doesn't that put a huge burden on those who dont have kids to pick up the slack?

      What if the 20 weeks time off were for another reason - such as a special assignment in the company, OR, a horrific accident which puts them on short-term disability, OR, (insert reason here)? You are part of a team composed of many different individuals with different backgrounds and different lifestyles. Learn to work as a team and back each other up if somebody cannot be at work for ANY reason.

      To answer your question, yes, inevitably the slack needs to be picked up. Over a long enough period of time working with a team the favor will be returned in kind - that is, you will want to be away from work for an extended period and your team's ability to "pick up the slack" for you will dictate whether or not you can go away and not come back to steaming pile of crap on your hands.

    27. Re:so we single folks by dfghjk · · Score: 2, Insightful

      "Non-breeders needn't look at this as discrimination."

      But they should, after all that's EXACTLY what it is.

      "The kid is the one who really benefits and we were all kids."

      No, it's the parents that benefit. Kids weren't neglected when this wasn't available.

    28. Re:so we single folks by dfghjk · · Score: 1

      The topic is paid time off, not the benefits of not having children.

      The work NOT done by employees who don't come to work for 6 straight months has to be covered by someone.

    29. Re:so we single folks by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Canada also isn't the technological innovator that the US is. The US works people harder than most developed nations but companies tend to get more done here. If anything, more liberal time off policies may reduce the value of the American worker rather than actually making American labor more vital.

    30. Re:so we single folks by DogDude · · Score: 1

      If you can't do without sombody in a planned absence (parenthood has some pretty predictable dates), then you're even more SOL if they change jobs, get hit by a car, etc etc.

      Absolutely not. If somebody leaves, you replace them. If somebody has a kid, you have to find somebody to do their job temporarily while they're away. Completely different situations, and the latter is significantly more difficult for a company to deal with.

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    31. Re:so we single folks by Gilgaron · · Score: 2

      That'd be a like a healthy person complaining they pay the same insurance premium as their obese coworkers.... technically correct but still going off on a bit of a tangent

    32. Re:so we single folks by Anubis350 · · Score: 1

      A lot of big companies that give this time off usually have spare capacity on staff to be assigned to cover such things. I once started at a job where my nominal boss had already been out for 2 months on maternity leave, my temporary manager (not a temp, a full employee on staff who had literally become a floating manager for these kind of assignments) was my boss for my first 5 months, and she had been assigned the position before my real boss had gone out, so that she already knew the dept when my manager went on leave. When my manager came back, my temporary manager got a new assignment. No one did extra work to cover the nearly 7 months my boss was out. It's typically not startups that offer this kind of benefit, Amex can definitely afford to shift staff to accommodate maternity/paternity leaves without piling double work on a lot of people.

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    33. Re:so we single folks by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

      What, you mean when our ancestors lived in villages and the entire village helped out the new parents?

      It is only recent behaviour that new parents are living within other people and both working full time in a job located away from your dwelling

    34. Re:so we single folks by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Presumably you get the benefit of being at work and not missing 20 weeks of project work and product development. If you can't use this to impress upon your managers or bosses that you're worth more or use your extra time to become more vital to the company and get promotions than either you don't actually provide any additional benefit over someone who was taking leave or the management isn't capable of realizing what their employees are worth and you're stuck with some arbitrary system for advancement that may have little to do with your abilities, in which case you should probably change jobs as soon as possible.

      This.

      And what's with people who reduce this issue to their relative ability to get paid to not work?

    35. Re:so we single folks by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      "Non-breeders needn't look at this as discrimination."

      But they should, after all that's EXACTLY what it is.

      But it is perfectly legal discrimination.

      Of course, any single person can always go to their bosses and inform them that they won't stand for this BS and demand 20 extra weeks of PTO every 9 months. Free country.

    36. Re:so we single folks by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Of course it's a huge burden. We had two project leads take maternity leave during the middle of the project, and their replacements weren't up to speed or as knowledgable. Suffice it to say we were not on time in our deliverables. And a lot of women don't tell the company that they don't plan to return, so they get paid the full time off and then let you know. It could have been better handled by assigning other leads up front - but management didn't want to offend anyone. So the company didn't make money on the project.

    37. Re:so we single folks by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Good! Please stay away from the places I work that offer this type of support; I don't want co-workers like you. I want co-workers who want to make the world a better place, who want to support diversity and each other's life decisions. While I have benefited from paid paternity leave (3 weeks), I don't plan on having any more children, but I still support such policies even if they won't benefit me directly.

    38. Re:so we single folks by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      "No, it's the parents that benefit. Kids weren't neglected when this wasn't available."

      Maybe not neglected, but the fact is that society has slowly shifted to consider that both parents work, and prices have gone up accordingly.

      In high cost of living areas, one spouse basically has to be making double income if the other stays home, and that's not to afford fancy mansions, cars and vacations...that's just to not be broke or living off a string of home equity loans and credit cards. Having a company offer something of a work-life balance perk is a good thing. It compensates for the lower fertility rates. Look at Japan as an extreme example of what happens when people are too overworked to have children, or the Scandinavian countries as a less extreme one. In both cases, the government is stepping in to offer things like parental leave and direct payments. In the case of Japan, the demographics are bad enough that they're worried that Japanese society can't be sustained since they typically don't allow immigration.

    39. Re:so we single folks by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Oh fuck you. I'm single too. But grow up. They'll be dealing with a baby. That's not fun. it's a shit ton of work.

      You're one of those fags who's unhappy unless everyone gets a trophy, aren't you?

    40. Re:so we single folks by SirSlud · · Score: 3, Interesting

      Ask them if what they think about this policy. I bet they'd love to hear how their son thinks that everyone should sacrifice just like they were 'happy' to. Man, nothing is more pathetic than a grown adult bragging about the sacrifices his parents made.

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    41. Re:so we single folks by SirSlud · · Score: 1

      Yeah, ask your parents how much of a vacation it is to take care of a newborn for 6 months. In fact, I'm fairly sure I couldn't pay you to do it.

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    42. Re:so we single folks by SirSlud · · Score: 0

      You can't discriminate against people who choose not to have children. It's a choice.

      And having kids is a natural biological function of life. Good luck trying to convince people that you deserve anything more than the inherent independence and freedom you get from choosing not to have kids.

      We're also sorry that your parents raised such a whiner.

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    43. Re:so we single folks by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      No because unless you're Indian you won't get a chance to work at Amex any more. They're now actively laying off white people in favor of indians. Mostly because they've already reached enough critical mass in the company that indians are running everything there now.

    44. Re:so we single folks by The-Ixian · · Score: 1

      Yeah, it's not like everyone has kids all at the same time of year or anything. You are distributing the workload among other co-workers, those with as well as those without kids.

      On the surface, this seems like just because someone decides to have a kid, they get all kinds of extra perks. The thing is, yeah, they get extra perks, but they also have to work their ass off to be a parent.

      I am perfectly fine being the single guy with no kids. I love my freedom. No amount of minor perks is going to get me to give that up. Those 20 weeks are going to be spent in intensive child rearing, then the 20 years after that....

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    45. Re:so we single folks by AmiMoJo · · Score: 4, Insightful

      Look at the bigger picture, in 30 years time you will need the children of today to be around to maintain a viable society and economy. If you make it so unattractive to have children that people don't, you will have a major problem like Japan. The only solution will be massive immigration, and you probably won't like that either.

      Another way to think of it is that by deciding not to have children you already saved yourself a tonne of money, while still benefiting from other people's kids in the long run.

      Rather than being jealous of new parents and the time they get off, maybe you should demand more time off for everyone. In Europe a year for new parents and a minimum of 28 days holiday (which can include national holidays, so typically around 20-22 days you can pick) is normal. We don't have "sick days", you just take time off for illness as you need it, and if you get sick on your holiday you get those days back. I realize this seems insanely socialist to Americans, but honestly our economies don't collapse because of it and in fact it's actually the minimum level you can expect.

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    46. Re:so we single folks by eth1 · · Score: 2

      get to pick up the slack with no extra PTO or a larger salary? I understand the need to help parents, and i don't dispute it. I get that maybe parents needsome time out for a new birth or to leave early or come in late or take time off now and again to deal with older kids, but 20 weeks at full pay? doesn't that put a huge burden on those who dont have kids to pick up the slack?

      As a single person with no kids, even I won't complain about giving a new parent a break.

      That said, no way am I working a bunch of extra hours for 20 weeks to cover for an event that you knew damn well was coming for the last nine months. If you didn't get temp help, that means you're OK with stuff falling behind while they're gone.

    47. Re:so we single folks by Ogive17 · · Score: 1

      You're acting like staying home with a newborn baby is something easy.

      I can assure you those first few months are far more stressful than just about anything going on at work, especially with a first child.

      This new policy from AmEx is a recruitment bonus for young professionals. I think it's excellent.

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    48. Re:so we single folks by The-Ixian · · Score: 1

      Exactly this.

      I used to think that it was unfair that breeders get all kinds of breaks. But then I learned how difficult it is to raise a child. I don't envy parents at all and they really do deserve every break they get (and they don't get that many, really).

      I am perfectly happy with giving them all these breaks and more because I can do whatever I want, whenever I want. They can't.

      Yeah, they may have chosen to have children. But on the other side of that, I chose not to have children knowing full well that our society values one type of person more than the other... Not exactly fair... but to quote Marcus Cole on Babylon 5:

      "I used to think it was awful that life was so unfair. Then I thought, 'wouldn't it be much worse if life *were* fair, and all the terrible things that happen to us come because we actually deserve them?' So now I take great comfort in the general hostility and unfairness of the universe."

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    49. Re:so we single folks by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Let's be honest. This policy is that they will pay parents for not working for the first 20 weeks after they have a child. This is just making official the current policy. Seriously, how productive do you think something dealing with a 0-20 week old baby at home is being at work?

    50. Re:so we single folks by Luthair · · Score: 1

      Worth noting this is through Employment Insurance - as a Canadian, but not a parent I assume this means most people don't get their full wages.

    51. Re:so we single folks by bill_mcgonigle · · Score: 1

      doesn't that put a huge burden on those who dont have kids to pick up the slack?

      The beauty of the situation is you can choose to work at a company that offers parents such leave or not.

      As a single person, you can make this choice, as a couple wanting to have kids you can make this choice, as a couple not wanting to have kids you can make this choice.

      What would be a problem would be a one-size-fits all solution. You're right on the math, so by choosing your employer you can choose for a better chance at a raise or a better chance of helping out new parents. The only problem is the morons who want to force things to be one way or the other, and thereby eliminate the competition for employees.

      When employers are competing for employees, the employees do much, much better.

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    52. Re:so we single folks by CanadianMacFan · · Score: 1

      You probably can get someone in as a temp for 20 weeks for most jobs. It is around 5 months after all.

    53. Re:so we single folks by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      > You get the benefit of not having to deal with a screaming kid ever.

      I guess you've never been on an airplane or in a restaurant, have you?

    54. Re:so we single folks by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      So think of it as a benefit given to the kid. New kids get 20weeks of PTO to give to each of two people.

      There. Everyone gets the benefit when they are born. It's not about choosing to have kids or not, it's about choosing to be born.

      You were born, just like the rest of us. It's OK.

    55. Re:so we single folks by markdavis · · Score: 1

      >"This is such a bizarre and staunchly American attitude."

      So you think it is not at all unfair that people who choose to have children get 20 weeks of paid off-time while people who choose to not have children get nothing? Even though those non-children people might have, in their minds, equally important family or life things they might have to deal with? Those same people who choose to not have children might have a new pet and get no time off to care for it, train it, bond with it. They might have a crisis that causes them to lose their home. They might need to take care of a dear friend for a month. What about having children automatically makes employees more valuable than those who don't?

      Flip it around some and think about it- what if an employer PAID employees with children more money than those without? Would that be fair? What if an employer gave employees with children more paid sick days than those who don't? Or gave only them flexible hours?

      I am not saying it is wrong for parents to get time off for having children. I am saying it isn't necessarily fair to those who don't have children and that people who can't at all understand this fascinate me. If I put your work department in a room and give everyone there $100, except you, is your being upset about it bizarre? Is my rewarding everyone else actually punishing you, even a little?

    56. Re:so we single folks by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0


      "Non-breeders needn't look at this as discrimination."

      But they should, after all that's EXACTLY what it is.

      Ha! Said by someone who's either never been a parent, or doesn't really know anyone very well that has recently.

      The first few months of a kids life are a nightmare. Giving parents leave is important.
      Now, there ARE some issues with people being on leave, and others having to pick up the slack. That's an issue for the people that work there, parent or not. But my point is really that if you think this is some kind of vacation for the parents, you're crazy.

    57. Re:so we single folks by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      >...doesn't that put a huge burden on those who dont have kids to pick up the slack?
      statistically, you will be a parent one day. (Statistically likely). So at that time, someone will help pay for your absence and so on.

    58. Re:so we single folks by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Isn't this age discrimination against those past child bearing age?

    59. Re: so we single folks by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      That's for your employer to budget in. If you can't take on the extra work because you're busy, ask them to prioritise and tell you what to drop. Stand up for yourself, or find a more ethically sound employer. I'd bet Amex in this case are already considering this anyway.

    60. Re:so we single folks by pr0fessor · · Score: 1

      Yeah, it's not like everyone has kids all at the same time of year or anything.

      September is the most common birth month, I would assume it's because more children are conceived during the cold months because people stay home and warm in bed.

    61. Re: so we single folks by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      You mean a public place where other people go?

    62. Re:so we single folks by swillden · · Score: 1

      "Non-breeders needn't look at this as discrimination."

      But they should, after all that's EXACTLY what it is.

      It's exactly the same sort of discrimination as non-breeders having to pay taxes to support schools.

      Kids weren't neglected when this wasn't available.

      This clearly enables parents to take the time to bond more strongly with their young children, and that pays dividends later. Can that be done without? Sure. We also used to have our kids breathe lead fume-filled air and society got by... but had a significantly higher violent crime rate. Stronger, more stable families benefit everyone, including those who don't have kids.

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    63. Re:so we single folks by ghoul · · Score: 1

      Its even worse. Its age discrimination. Say I am a 35-40 year old. I join Amex. I have kids and I have already gone through the hell taht is infancy and toddlerhood. My kids are now in school and I pay for after school day care so that I can work. Now I have to pick up the slack for 20 year olds who go off for 6 months ?

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    64. Re:so we single folks by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      get to pick up the slack with no extra PTO or a larger salary? I understand the need to help parents, and i don't dispute it. I get that maybe parents needsome time out for a new birth or to leave early or come in late or take time off now and again to deal with older kids, but 20 weeks at full pay? doesn't that put a huge burden on those who dont have kids to pick up the slack?

      In Canada you get a full year (split however the couple wants between themselves) with unemployment benefits. If one parent themselves (often the mother) takes the whole year for themselves, the company hires a contract position. This is actually good, as I've know quite a few people who got their foot in the door in various companies and industries starting as maternity / paternity contracts.

    65. Re:so we single folks by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      ... huge burden on those who don't have kids ...

      There's a shortage of women embracing celibacy, with the result that sooner or later, every woman pushes out a squalling money pit. Those women getting nothing out of it are a statistical anomaly. As for the men; look, pregnancy, look, babies; your argument is invalid.

      What leave program is available to the father/husband of the child/mother? The opportunity for men to trade work-days for childcare days is nearly non-existent in most government and employer schemes.

      The task of pregnancy and breast-feeding is a minor reason for women earning less than men: On the one hand it's a personal choice to have sex, avoid contraception, allow the pregnancy and keep the baby. OTOH, society wants women to have babies and should pay compensation to mothers losing their income to supply those babies.

      But paying female employees to have sex, which is what maternity leave really is, raises some issues. If employers or governments are going to buy a service, then it needs to be paid in response to market forces. First is price: It's cheaper (wages, pension and healthcare) to pay a teenager to push out babies than a shop/department manager. Second is scale: Likewise there will be savings by paying 1 woman to deliver 3 babies, instead of 3 women to deliver 1 baby. Third is social improvement: Any savings on the cost of sex can then be spent on the baby; better teachers, better healthcare, after-school programs. Or instead, by making community services better: policing; transit system; parks, pools and beaches. The real issue will be changing leave programs so that it enables this price-driven favoritism.

    66. Re:so we single folks by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Let me tell you as somebody who lived 15 years in the US and Canada starting with startups in Colorado and California during the dot com boom and is now living in the UK that you're wrong and very short sighted. Yes we have 21 days statatory minimum time off (I've never had less than 25), and yes I can share a year of parental leave with my wife, but I do work much harder (more intensely) than I did in N. America. Americans think they work hard, but in my experience they equate long hours with working hard, which is daft given the slower pace of work.

      As for innovation, you have to think that California has more people than Canada or most European countries, so of course there'll be an absolute number of innovation that's higher, but there are whole swathes of the US that are simply backwards. The tech startup scene in London is bigger than Silcon Valley, although often doing different stuff. If you look at the US on a state by state basis, or break it up in to 30 million people chunks, tell me how many of those innovate more than Canada.

    67. Re:so we single folks by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      20 weeks is nothing!

      Parents in Sweden get 480 (working days) shared between the mother and father, not at a 100% pay but for most high enough to get by. A colleague of mine is off for about 6 moths, they are spending 2 of them in Thailand.

    68. Re:so we single folks by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 2, Insightful

      Exactly. If people don't come to work sick, they don't get everyone else sick, etc.

    69. Re:so we single folks by phorm · · Score: 1

      If you look at it that way, I suppose. However a correct way to address either situation is to ensure that your processes, documentation, etc allow for staff turnover of any type. Given the number of mid-large companies that also tend to make use of contractors, it's not much different than what's necessary to get a contractor up to snuff to temporarily fill out a project team.

    70. Re:so we single folks by DogDude · · Score: 1

      That doesn't help small companies. What if the person leaving on maternity or paternity is 1/10 of the workforce? What if they're 1/8? What if they're 1/4? It's devastating to have to hold a position open for somebody for smaller companies.

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    71. Re:so we single folks by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Fuck off, you sanctimonious prick.

      It's not a matter of prioritizing wealth over children. It's not about "I want it all". It's about giving your children the best life you can. There's no evidence suggesting that having a stay-at-home parent is better for a child than having two working parents, and if you only have one child (as more and more people are choosing), that kid is probably better off spending some time in a day care environment so that they can learn how to interact with their peers.

      Also, not all children are planned. How are you going to quit your job for the benefit of your child if you need both salaries to pay the mortgage? What good is it to have a stay-at-home parent if you don't have a home to stay in?

      I mean, if you can work it so that you can just quit your job to stay home with you kid, good for you. Seriously. But, like it or not, the reality is most households REQUIRE two incomes these days. Only an asshole would throw shade at parents doing the best they can do for their own child, even if it's not how you would do it.

      So, I repeat: Fuck off, you sanctimonious prick.

    72. Re:so we single folks by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      "So you think it is not at all unfair that people who choose to have children get 20 weeks of paid off-time while people who choose to not have children get nothing?"

      Yes. It's a choice. Want that sweet 20 weeks off? Have a kid. Don't want to deal with the hassle of the kid? No 20 weeks off. It's up to you which scenario you take, so it's not actually discrimination. Also, just because a person doesn't have children at the moment doesn't mean they won't decide to (or have it happen accidentally) in the future.

      What I find so baffling about your attitude is that you aren't actually out anything in this scenario. You wouldn't be getting more vacation or pay if the policy weren't in place. You're just getting pissy because someone else has something you don't have, plain and simple.

    73. Re:so we single folks by phorm · · Score: 1

      And yet, again, it works in so many countries.

      Better than forcing staff to choose between losing their job and having offspring,
      Better than forcing staff to come back to work to come right back to work without time to bond and heal, then give their kids up to a caregiver during the daylight hours

      And this is AMERICAN EXPRESS, so I'm pretty sure they can afford to do it, and I'm also fairly sure that if it was a big impact on revenue they wouldn't have done so.

      Also pretty sure that neither you nor I work at Amex, so neither of our opinions matter worth two f**ks in this case. I did enjoy my own short stint of paternity leave as time to get closer to my daughter, however. Somehow my wife's employer also managed to get through it OK despite her literally being 1/8 of their workforce too...

    74. Re:so we single folks by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Guess what... Single folks.. Were once CHILDREN..
      Yea' I know.. It's hard to understand that at one point you were a child, and that parents or the foster system provided for you. But it happened.
      You also went to school, most likely one funded, at least in part, by the adult taxpayers when you were a child.
      Now that you are an adult, it is both your genetic as well as your civic duty to help on some level with the upbringing of the next generation.

      One thing we have decided is that having parents bond with newly born children, as it was in the past, is a good thing.
      The recent change to having parents spend little if any time bonding with newborns has been shown to have negative outcomes for the newly born citizens.
      As such, the 'burden' of working while you are being payed to 'pick up the slack' while other actually genetically productive member of our species birth a new life into the world, is one you must tolerate.

      If you don't like it you are free to go into the wilderness of Alaska and eat bark and berries until you die a natural death at 32. Civilization can get by fine without you.

    75. Re:so we single folks by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      So.. YOU were never a child?
      Like.. YOU did not have parents? They did not need to take care of you?
      Adults did not pay taxes to educate you? Did not pay for social services and cops to keep you from being abused?

      Yea' thought so/
      Horseshit indeed!

    76. Re:so we single folks by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      we call it club 55 - avg of about 55% of what your last 6 months wages were. eh.

    77. Re:so we single folks by RockDoctor · · Score: 1
      Oh it is about fucking people over. Specifically, making life harder for recruitment and retention people who work in the credit card industry, but not for AmEx.

      Who knows - perhaps this desire to harm your competition's recruitment and retention will substitute for corporate America's long-established policy of bum-fucking their employees morning, noon and night.

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  3. Why is this news for nerds? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Because it certainly isn't "stuff that matters" !

  4. Re:What do you get by Oswald+McWeany · · Score: 2

    Blue balls.

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  5. Re:Okay by Oswald+McWeany · · Score: 2

    They must not be impressed with your work today.

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  6. ship their breast milk home for free by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    They leave it in a bottle on your front porch

  7. Re:lawsuit incoming... by MightyMartian · · Score: 4, Informative

    Unfortunately, population growth isn't happening in the industrialized world, but rather in the developing world. So unless you want to start letting in a lot of immigrants over the coming decades, you're going to have to accept that people in the West need to have children as well.

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  8. Re:lawsuit incoming... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 5, Insightful

    Only in America.

    I guess that this policy is far too wimpy and liberal for the USA. IF you don't like it, sue it to death!

    Other countries are implementing policies like this. No lawsuits there!
    Some are even making it transferrable between parents.
    The USA is becoming more socially unequal by the day. This policy would help the lower paid more than the bosses (who can afford nannies).
    You really are going to the dogs.

  9. Re: lawsuit incoming... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Sounds eerily like 3%

  10. Re:lawsuit incoming... by sims+2 · · Score: 0

    This sounds like a bad argument: We need to have lots of children to keep people from other countries from coming here by keeping them from being able to find work.

    But it doesn't do that it just drives wages down further by increasing the supply of labor.

    Limited immigration and low birthrates would eventually lower the labor force potentially to the point companies would pay to keep people they have spent the time to train instead of swapping through people like they are disposable.

    I'm not against immigration i'm against the current complete fkup of an implementation that's another post though.

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  11. Re:lawsuit incoming... by chispito · · Score: 4, Informative

    this is america, it's going to happen. discrimination against those who don't want or can't have children. the latter being a medical condition that surely someone will consider an ada-covered disability... and they just might find a judge to agree with them.

    Read TFA:

    And employees who wish to have a child will receive up to $35,000 for adoption or surrogacy for up to two children. Those undergoing infertility treatments, meanwhile, will receive up to a lifetime maximum of $35,000 to help defray costs.

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  12. like smoke breaks by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    As a single guy who doesn't smoke, I'm starting to think I'm getting screwed here.

    1. Re:like smoke breaks by SeaFox · · Score: 1

      Just take extra breaks for about the same length of time.
      If they say anything, point out that the smokers take extra unscheduled breaks, too.

    2. Re:like smoke breaks by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      When I worked in fast food I did that. I'd say I was going for a 'smoke break' and just sit outside and enjoy a few minutes of silence. Nobody ever argued with me.

    3. Re:like smoke breaks by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      When I was in a convenience store, I did the same thing. The assistant manager did argue, but I pointed out that it was simply a break, as required by law. Just because I didn't smoke didn't mean I didn't get a break.

  13. Just Imagine by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    If the Duggar's worked for AMEX... 7+ years of paid vacation over the course of time...

  14. Re:lawsuit incoming... by msauve · · Score: 1

    "you're going to have to accept that people in the West need to have children as well"

    So, you're busy breeding cannon fodder?

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  15. Congratulations America by Computershack · · Score: 3, Informative

    ..you're only now 19 weeks behind Statutory Maternity Pay in the UK.

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    1. Re:Congratulations America by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Well, Trump did say he wanted 6 weeks of paid maternity leave. (If you haven't heard about it, it's because the media is too busy casting him as the second coming of Satan.)

  16. News for Nerds? by nycsubway · · Score: 0

    I'm curious how this story is technology or science related?

    1. Re:News for Nerds? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Didn't you get the memo? Slashdot is now dedicated to posting flamebait for social losers. In this case, it is a good opportunity to complain about women and/or men who actually manage to have sex with one.

  17. Re:lawsuit incoming... by dfghjk · · Score: 1, Insightful

    What an incredibly un-insightful post.

    Does the earth care where the population growth is? What's wrong with letting immigrants in? It's not a contest.

    Unequal benefits is a problem employers should solve, not one they should accelerate as an incentive to do harm to the environment.

  18. Here come the complaints about "breeders"... by ErichTheRed · · Score: 1

    I already see comments from single people or people who choose to not have kids saying we "breeders" are taking advantage of them. A policy like this makes sense. Families are already screwed up because unless you want to live in the middle of nowhere, a two-income household is becoming a requirement. Either both parents have to work low end jobs to make ends meet, or the cost of living is so high in regions with jobs that both parents have to be able to cover that so they can do the work they're qualified for. I have 2 kids, and will not be able to have more mainly because of that (and because I like my sanity...) The problem is that society and markets at large have adjusted to the 2-earner family being the default. The only families I know who have a stay-at-home parent live in very low-cost areas, have an incredibly well-compensated spouse (doctors, execs, etc.) or are working for something like state government where the lower household income is balanced by the job security. Everyone else has to pay through the nose for childcare, a not-insignificant expense. (And before you say we're consumer robots buying toys with our 2 incomes, we're not...but we also want to be able to save and not have 19 cents in the bank right before our next paychecks hit.)

    If the 2-earner household is now the default, then AmEx's policy is a response to that. I think that even with all the crappy MBA-driven offshoring, outsourcing and layoffs, many companies really do want to find people who will stick with them, do beyond the bare minimum to avoid getting fired, and not be a basket of stress ready to keel over at a moment's notice. This seems to me like a decent response to these demands. Having a family is stressful enough -- I know I get into work in the morning, and the clock starts ticking so I can avoid working late after everyone goes to bed. Replacing an employee is expensive. The company I work for is on the downswing of a fad where all we do is hire contractors, and it absolutely stinks having to retrain someone every year. When that someone is doing a complex job that really requires an FTE, this goes double!

    So, are we breeders? Maybe, but we do have a not-insignificant amount of extra responsibility, stress and financial burdens. Having a company actually extend a little help here and there is a good thing. The place I work was very understanding when my kids were born, even though there's no paternity leave policy...my bosses had all been in the same spot and made sure i didn't have to go all over the world during those first few months -- and they realized that there were some days I'd be a total mess and rolled with it. I think AmEx is going the right way with this, because I'm still with the employer who cut me slack...and I could have left for worse conditions and more money.

    1. Re:Here come the complaints about "breeders"... by cayenne8 · · Score: 4, Insightful

      Families are already screwed up because unless you want to live in the middle of nowhere, a two-income household is becoming a requirement.

      Well, depends, I guess, on your definition of "middle of nowhere".

      IMHO, unless you consider anywhere outside of LA, NYC, SF and other hugely $$$$ places to live, middle of nowhere....there are plenty of places with reasonable cost of living in the US. And you can still live in a decent place, in a safe neighborhood, where children still play outside, and get by on a single income family. Yes, I am talking about a 'real job', not a burger flipper, but I believe that's what we're all discussing here.

      No, you won't have the latest toys, not the newest car....and you won't be going out that much, but hey, that's what my parents did. Mom stayed at home with me till I was in about 2nd grade and then gradually began working again, up to full time by the time I was old enough to come home from grade school and stay on my own will they got home from work. No problems.

      We cooked at home most all meals, nothing wrong with that, forced us to eat a bit healthier, AND, I was taught from a young age how to cook myself.

      Sure, being a parent is tough, it takes sacrifice both personally and fiscally, But this isn't a new thing...parents have been doing this forever till now.

      Don't have them, unless you are willing to make those sacrifices. I never wanted to be tied down with the little fiscal boat anchors, so I chose not to have any...I like my time and my disposable income. A choice you make. I could NOT have both, and I chose my path and am happy with it.

      If you choose to have kids....you need to take what goes with it and if you have to move to an area with a lower cost of living, then be prepared to do that. Don't expect others to take up the slack for you.

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    2. Re:Here come the complaints about "breeders"... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      IMHO, unless you consider anywhere outside of LA, NYC, SF and other hugely $$$$ places to live, middle of nowhere....there are plenty of places with reasonable cost of living in the US. And you can still live in a decent place, in a safe neighborhood, where children still play outside, and get by on a single income family

      I grew up in the Bay Area and worked there until I was in my 30s. I got an opportunity to move to one of those low-cost-of-living middle-of-nowhere locations. The cost of living part didn't seal the deal, but it seemed like it would be a bonus.

      Big mistake on my part. There are really no "free lunches". Granted, Bay Area housing prices are nuts and the traffic sucks, but pretty much anywhere in the US with good job availability also features either high housing prices or long commutes to the cheaper areas.

      In the end, costs are lower but so is pay. Moreover, unless you get all your cultural stimulation from TV and chain restaurants, it is pretty dismal out here in the sticks. Sure, there is always that one good Mexican/Chinese/Pizza joint.

      This area works for me personally for reasons that are specific to the region and my interests. If I were going to have kids though, I would bite the bullet and move back to the Bay Area.

      I'm not saying it never works out, but I would recommend that anyone be extremely careful about what they are getting themselves into.

    3. Re:Here come the complaints about "breeders"... by mikeasu · · Score: 1

      Fine post, I couldn't agree more. Engineer/analyst (defense industry), married, four kids, my wife was an engineer also until our first was born, and is now a stay at home mom. Plan when we got married was to eventually move from AZ to the DC area, so huge CoL increase. Turned down a decent gig in DC in 2004 (pre-kids), since we weren't certain she'd have the choice to stay at home - looked at other areas, not quite in the city, but say, Dahlgren, Charlottesville, etc, lower CoL than DC. Kept plugging along with our plan - 3, then 4 kids, but took advantage of a work-reimbursed masters degree, upsized the house in AZ first, then finally moved outside of DC (Carroll County, MD) about two years ago - still on one income. Would love for her to go back to work eventually, but more for the intellectual stimulation - not a financial necessity. We cook at home a lot, but go out for dinner at least once a month. No CC debt, and paid cash for the last two cars. It's certainly possible, helps that we paid down a lot of debt in the DINK days, didn't go nuts then. It isn't w/o sacrifice, for sure, but for the benefits to the kids having her home, figure we've come out ahead in the game.

    4. Re:Here come the complaints about "breeders"... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Good for you, but that's not typical of most families in this country. You're an anecdote, not data.

  19. Re:lawsuit incoming... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    It changes the culture and culture matters. Whether people lie or tell the truth, expect a bribe to do their job, work hard or slack off as much as they can get away with is cultural. By objective measures quality of government is the single most important factor in economic development, success and well being of a country and culture is a bigger factor in quality of government than form of government. This delusion that people are all the same and fungible in a global open borders sense is just wrong. To the extend that cultures differ and those differences matter people are in fact different and replacing one culture with another can and will have negative impacts on a country if the culture that is replaced is more beneficial to society that the one that replaces it.

  20. Re:lawsuit incoming... by MightyMartian · · Score: 1, Insightful

    If you don't like that your company offers maternal benefits to people with children, then quit.

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  21. Random comments about it. by CannonballHead · · Score: 2

    Random comments...

    Workers with families may actually be beneficial to companies. Why? Speaking as a parent in a single-income household, I would think they are less prone to job-hunting/switching frequently. It'd be interesting to see statistics on employee turnover rate for single vs. married vs. married-with-kids (or vs. single-with-kids, whatever). My income is very important to me, because I have three other people to provide for (plus associated "life" activities). It's stressful to not have a job; it's more stressful when you have a spouse and kids to provide for and, well, not starve, get into debt, lose your house, that sort of thing.

    That said ... heh, 20 weeks is a lot, that's like 5 months. I'm happy with 2-4 weeks of paternal leave, but it's not a huge deal if a company didn't give paternal leave. I think it's great, because IMO, it's a statement of the importance of family and the importance of fathers in family life. I mean, I wouldn't complain about 20 weeks! But I can see how someone might think 20 weeks for a *father* is a lot.

    Also, that said, 20 weeks for a mother is *not* that much. Even the official pediatric recommendation is to breastfeed, exclusively, if you can, for at least 6 months. It's really, really, really hard to exclusively breastfeed while working if you have any milk supply issues at all... because pumping just doesn't work the same. Sure, maybe companies should take that into account when working out pay, or maybe some of that should be without pay, or whatever, but unless we want to say to women that having kids is unimportant, or that making them healthy is unimportant, then time off for those critical months in a baby's development is a big deal to me. As a father. ;)

    1. Re:Random comments about it. by godrik · · Score: 1

      That said ... heh, 20 weeks is a lot, that's like 5 months.

      Actually I am not sure I agree with that. It is not just about the kid being taken care of, it is about ensuring that the parents (both of them) will actually bond with the little one. Bonding with the kid happens for both the mother and the father in the first few month after birth. If society want its fathers to be invested in the life of their kid so they don't bail out, it makes sense in investing in that relationship.

      Assuming you take two 20 weeks leave (~ 2 kids in average), that's only about 2% of your active time (assuming people work about 40 years). For the company, it is not that expensive, (assuming you don't hire exclusively 20-35 years old): a 2% overhead to ensure your employees would love working for you, that's not bad. And if employees only have a 2% RoI, your business is in trouble.

    2. Re:Random comments about it. by CannonballHead · · Score: 1

      If society want its fathers to be invested in the life of their kid so they don't bail out, it makes sense in investing in that relationship.

      You said that better than I did, by far, and I totally agree.

      I guess I might be in a slightly different position in that I actually work from home anyways. Sometimes I forget that most people are gone from 7am to 6pm or whatever. :)

  22. Re:lawsuit incoming... by cayenne8 · · Score: 2, Insightful
    But, what about those that do NOT want to have kids?

    Seems unfair and discriminatory against them, in that they don't get this 20 week PAID BENEFIT...?

    Not to mention, that often those childless folks will be just exact folks that have to work extra hours and pick up the slack for those new parents taking time off to care for the result of fucking without protection.

    So, not only do the childless not get the free 20 weeks paid leave/vacation, they also will likely have to work EXTRA to cover for the breeders, and since they are probably salary, that will not come with any overtime.

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  23. Just need 6 wives or so... by linatux · · Score: 1

    and I could stay home on full pay for a very long time

  24. You want to tell me a couple things? by p51d007 · · Score: 1

    HOW can a business afford to have employees off for that long. And, if a business CAN afford to have employees off that long, do they have too many employees working for them?

    1. Re:You want to tell me a couple things? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

      HOW can a business afford to have employees off for that long.
      And, if a business CAN afford to have employees off that long, do they have too many employees working
      for them?

      While you're at it, ask why competitors that don't offer these type of benefits never seem to have significantly lower prices.

  25. Re: lawsuit incoming... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    You do know the lawsuit remark is just an opinion, right? It's not an absolute guarantee that someone will sue AMEX over that.

  26. This Just In by AnalogDiehard · · Score: 1

    A baby boom has been reported at cities where offices of AmEX are located, the same areas where Trojan and other condom makers have posted an abrupt drop in sales. Maternity wards are overwhelmed with demand and retail stores are having trouble keep their shelves stocked with baby accessories. More details at 11.

    --
    Eternity: will that be smoking, or non-smoking? I Corinthians 6:9-10
  27. Re:lawsuit incoming... by FatAlb3rt · · Score: 1

    Property owners already pay school taxes whether or not they have kids, why is this any different?

  28. Re: lawsuit incoming... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Why do they need to have children? I thought automation was going to fill a large number of jobs.

  29. Re:lawsuit incoming... by narcc · · Score: 1

    But, what about those that do NOT want to have kids?

    I suppose, then, that they won't advantage themselves of those benefits.

    There's a box of Donuts in the break room. I don't want a donut. Have I been harmed by this in any way? How selfish do you need to be to complain about that sort of thing?

    So, not only do the childless not get the free 20 weeks paid leave/vacation

    With a newborn? It's not vacation.

    they also will likely have to work EXTRA to cover for the breeders

    Imagination land? If they're not already overstaffed, they'll hire a temp. If they are overstaffed, I suggest they downsize. Preferably starting with toxic, selfish, employees to improve workplace conditions of the remaining staff.

    those childless folks will be just exact folks that have to work extra hours and pick up the slack for those new parents taking time off

    People like you should be happy about that, were that delusion true. After all, some overtime sure beats drinking alone in an empty apartment while trolling Slashdot and wondering why women aren't interested in a cool guy like you.

  30. 20 (Father) + 20 + 8 (Mother) = 48 by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    20 (Father) + 20 + 8 (Mother) = 48

    So no, we are now 9 weeks ahead.

    But all this is ridiculous, if global warming is half as serious as claimed we should in no way be subsidizing increasing the population. The number one worst thing you can do to increase carbon footprint is to have a child.

    1. Re: 20 (Father) + 20 + 8 (Mother) = 48 by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Fathers in the UK can get parternity leave but I am pretty sure they can't get maternity leave

  31. Re: lawsuit incoming... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Nah, I'd much rather sue for a 40% raise.

  32. Re:lawsuit incoming... by cayenne8 · · Score: 0

    So, not only do the childless not get the free 20 weeks paid leave/vacation

    With a newborn? It's not vacation.

    It is *STILL* 20 weeks of Paid Time Off.

    What you do with should be your choice...have a newborn or go to Tahiti....Again, it is a paid benefit for some workers and not for others. That is unfair.

    they also will likely have to work EXTRA to cover for the breeders Imagination land? If they're not already overstaffed, they'll hire a temp. If they are overstaffed, I suggest they downsize.

    Ok, who's in imagination land now? What company is going to go to all that extra trouble, of hiring temps, or adjusting staffing just for people going on parental leave? Nope, they're gonna target the poor schmucks that are left behind working to take up the slack for the new parents.

    those childless folks will be just exact folks that have to work extra hours and pick up the slack for those new parents taking time off

    People like you should be happy about that, were that delusion true. After all, some overtime sure beats drinking alone in an empty apartment while trolling Slashdot and wondering why women aren't interested in a cool guy like you.

    Well, if I weren't having to work so many LONG fucking hours, to make up for the new parental units taking paid time off that I don't get...I'd not be home nights sleeping, but I'd have time and energy to go out and get laid.

    Going out drinking with ladies and getting laid is fun to do....maybe they should give me 20 weeks of paid vacation to pursue my lifestyle CHOICE.

    I choose not to have kids, they choose to have them. Why should their lifestyle decision be more important than mine?

    --
    Light travels faster than sound. This is why some people appear bright until you hear them speak.........
  33. A plug for American Express by OneHundredAndTen · · Score: 1

    I have been an American Express customer for twenty years. In those twenty years, I have had a few issues, like card numbers stolen and irregular charges. In all cases, they solved the problem immediately, at no cost or headaches for me, sometimes taking it in the chin for me. In one occasion, I had a dispute with a hotel about a $400 charge, and a call to American Express fixed it. They said to me that I did not have to worry about the issue any more, and they were true to their word: I don't know how they negotiated with the hotel, but the bill and the charge just disappeared. I have no complaints about paying American Express my annual fee - they really have gone the extra mile for me more than once.

  34. Re:lawsuit incoming... by JediJorgie · · Score: 1

    Um... we are supposed toworking to make sure that everyoneis compensated equally for their work race, gender, or religious belief.

    Are you saying that giving one group20 WEEKS of extra paid time off is compatible with that ideal? What are you smoking?

  35. Re:lawsuit incoming... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

    But, what about those that do NOT want to have kids?

    Seems unfair and discriminatory against them, in that they don't get this 20 week PAID BENEFIT...?

    Not to mention, that often those childless folks will be just exact folks that have to work extra hours and pick up the slack for those new parents taking time off to care for the result of fucking without protection.

    So, not only do the childless not get the free 20 weeks paid leave/vacation, they also will likely have to work EXTRA to cover for the breeders, and since they are probably salary, that will not come with any overtime.

    Tell you what, if you're that butthurt about it, take the fucking condom off.

    Seems there isn't a fucking thing that can be brought up at any time that someone won't find a way to bitch about. Fucking hell, shut the FUCK UP already, and go home and start breeding if you want this so fucking bad.

    Then you can enjoy a couple of decades of "EXTRA work"

    TL; DR - If you're not a parent, SHUT THE FUCK UP.

  36. Re:lawsuit incoming... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    When you're 70 and need your diapers changed you'll be glad someone had kids and raised them to care for selfish people like you.

  37. Re:lawsuit incoming... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    There's a box of Donuts in the break room. I don't want a donut. Have I been harmed by this in any way? How selfish do you need to be to complain about that sort of thing?

    Er, what? Buddy, I'm on your side, but that analogy just doesn't work.
    If you wanted to, you could choose to partake of the "donuts in the break room" benefit.
    A person who does not want to have kids has no choice but to not partake in 20 extra weeks of PTO.

  38. And then that extra experience is used against you by mpercy · · Score: 1

    When women chose to drop out of the workforce to have children, whether it is 20 weeks or whatever, their non-childbearing cohorts--usually males--continue to accrue experience and visibility. They earn raises and promotions. The child-bearing women then sue because they were not given raises or promotions, or at least complain about the "gender gap" and push for laws that force employers to ignore the raw fact that the child-bearing women (and their partners who might also choose to sit out for weeks or months) are, in fact, now behind the experience curve. Repeat for second kid, and somehow it's discrimination because woman A and cohort B (probably a man) who were hired on the same day into the same job now are paid significantly differently due to woman A being 3 or 4 years behind the experience curve. And more lawsuits fly.

  39. Re:lawsuit incoming... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    ...I choose not to have kids, they choose to have them. Why should their lifestyle decision be more important than mine?

    Do the rest of those who have kids a favor and just shut the fuck up now while you're ahead. Your lifestyle decision will afford you to enjoy life in ways those with kids will only dream about for quite a long time, if ever.

    You're already demonstrated you wish to prioritize *you* in this life, and the overwhelming majority of your paycheck and retirement will be dedicated to *you*, so go off and enjoy it.

  40. Re:lawsuit incoming... by chispito · · Score: 1

    I choose not to have kids, they choose to have them. Why should their lifestyle decision be more important than mine?

    Well I guess you'll have to vote with your talent and keep on not working at Amex.

    --
    The Daddy casts sleep on the Baby. The Baby resists!
  41. Re:lawsuit incoming... by narcc · · Score: 1

    It is *STILL* 20 weeks of Paid Time Off.

    What you do with should be your choice...have a newborn or go to Tahiti....Again, it is a paid benefit for some workers and not for others. That is unfair.

    Unfair to who? This doesn't make any sense to me at all. Who is being cheated?

    While you're not a parent now, should you opt to have children, and you can find a willing partner, you're welcome to take that time off. It's there for when you need it!

    Are you saying that you want 20 weeks paid leave ... for no reason whatsoever? Because someone who is not you advantaged themselves of that benefit? On what basis? That you think you'll never have children? How would it be decided when that leave was granted? What would you do? Turn in your imaginary future wife's uterus along with your testicles in to HR?

    The only thing I can see here is your fear that someone is getting something that you're not. I'm not convinced that that something is paid leave.

  42. Re: lawsuit incoming... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Thankfully natural selection will remove your genes from the pool. Ironically selfless of you.

  43. Watch the first 10min of Idiocracy by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    And you see the people who 'plan' when to have kids often Never find the right time until it is to late and you get into IVF hell. Benefits like this can help make the decision easier. If you single folk need a rationalization think of having kids as the same as getting sick - you wouldn't begrudge a sick person taking leave.

  44. Re:lawsuit incoming... by narcc · · Score: 2

    People without newborn babies are not a race, gender, religion, or any other class of person subject to discrimination. We have all been people without newborns. People with newborns will, in a very short time, be people without newborns.

    If you are an AMEX employee, and you want to take 20weeks of paid leave, you need only find a willing partner and have a baby. (I understand that the first part might be very difficult for you.)

    I'll bet you'd complain that sick days are unfair to healthy people!

  45. Re:lawsuit incoming... by painandgreed · · Score: 2

    But, what about those that do NOT want to have kids?

    Seems unfair and discriminatory against them, in that they don't get this 20 week PAID BENEFIT...?

    Well, if they'd stop slacking and do their proper duty to their country and have kids, everybody would be happy. If the nation is to prosper, it needs more population and particularly from well off people who will raise their kids to also be well off. Even ancient Rome had incentives to get people to have kids. Now this is a company, and not a country, but since IIRC the US is the only industrialized country to not have mandatory leave for havign children, I expect that American Express is just doing this to unify policies across all their operations and keep their American employees from getting pissed about not getting what employees in other countries get.

  46. Re activated card by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Was so pleased to read this article, I reactivated my amex. Companies that care beyond the level prescribed by law are the ones to do business with in my opinion.

  47. Re:lawsuit incoming... by dlenmn · · Score: 2

    But, what about those that do NOT want to have kids? Seems unfair and discriminatory against them, in that they don't get this 20 week PAID BENEFIT...?

    Yeah, I'm sick of this kind of discrimination! It's everywhere! Why should I be forced to pay for public schools if I don't have kids?!? Why are there tax credits and deductions only available to parents!?! Why are babies allowed to scream on aircraft but I'm not allowed to??? Discrimination! Discrimination! Discrimination!

  48. Re:lawsuit incoming... by swillden · · Score: 1

    Does the earth care where the population growth is?

    Doesn't matter. Population growth is not a problem. The developed world is already at negative population growth overall and the whole world is already at negative growth in annual births, which means that all of the net population growth worldwide is due to filling out of the age categories. That in turn means that, barring significant increases in lifespans, as soon as those are all filled out worldwide population growth will go negative as well. It appears we'll hit that peak population point in the 2050s, at around 10B people.

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  49. Re:lawsuit incoming... by franciscohs · · Score: 2

    How is this discrimination? there is a benefit that you decide not to use, period. It's available to everyone who wants to use it and they will even cover all the expenses to be able to use it y you have trouble doing it naturally (adoption, insemination, surrogacy, etc.)

    By your same logic any benefit is discrimination, I don't want to save in a 401k, so I should get the matching money anyway. I don't like the food that is given for free and I decide not to eat it and should get money instead. I don't go to the gym, so that paid gym benefit is discriminatory.

    I can't believe the weird logic people get to use to complain about everything.

  50. Re: lawsuit incoming... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Have a kid and then give it up for adoption after 20 weeks.

  51. Re:lawsuit incoming... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    But, what about those that do NOT want to have kids?

    Seems unfair and discriminatory against them, in that they don't get this 20 week PAID BENEFIT...?

    Well, if they'd stop slacking and do their proper duty to their country and have kids, everybody would be happy. If the nation is to prosper, it needs more population [...]

    It's not even about "more", but about keeping (at least) even, which means two kids per couple. (Technically 2.1, because of unfortunately deaths.)

  52. Re: lawsuit incoming... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Schools raise property values which benefits everyone in the town. Not really seeing any solid analogy in this case, though.

  53. Canadian Express by Roger+W+Moore · · Score: 1

    Other countries are implementing policies like this.

    If the company had been "Canadian Express" they would have to offer just short of a year off per family which can be split between parents almost as desired (the mother must take some minimum)...and they would have been doing this for well over a decade. So well done American Express for finally managing to catch up with late 20th century employment conditions only a few more decades to go...

  54. Unexpected by manu0601 · · Score: 1

    I am gladly surprised, as I did not expect a big multinational company to give anything to workers without fighting. Perhaps there is some fine print somewhere?

  55. Re:lawsuit incoming... by cayenne8 · · Score: 0

    Unfair to who? This doesn't make any sense to me at all. Who is being cheated?

    While you're not a parent now, should you opt to have children, and you can find a willing partner, you're welcome to take that time off. It's there for when you need it!

    Are you saying that you want 20 weeks paid leave ... for no reason whatsoever? Because someone who is not you advantaged themselves of that benefit? On what basis? That you think you'll never have children? How would it be decided when that leave was granted? What would you do? Turn in your imaginary future wife's uterus along with your testicles in to HR?

    The only thing I can see here is your fear that someone is getting something that you're not. I'm not convinced that that something is paid leave.

    Well, one can have oneself fixed pretty readily and easily, so as not to risk kids.

    I for one, am getting past the age of even thinking I'd ever want to deal with kids, I do not want to ruin my later years with kids. Most of my friends who have them, have them now getting out of HS and into college or maybe even out of there.

    So, people in my age group are starting to free themselves up....and on the times I do date more age appropriate women, their kids usually are about out of the house too....

    So, I'm pretty much settled that I DO NOT WANT kids.

    So, you should have the option to have that 20 weeks for whatever you want...childbirth, motorcycle tour of the US...etc.

    It is not fair that one set of people are offered this PAID BENEFIT, and other are not...that is discrimination, and in this PC day in age, its hard to believe that everyone wouldn't see and jump on this too.

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  56. Re: lawsuit incoming... by rantrantrant · · Score: 1

    Those kids are gonna be paying your pension and looking after you in the years to come. Don't piss them off now ;)

  57. Re:lawsuit incoming... by narcc · · Score: 3, Insightful

    It is not fair that one set of people are offered this PAID BENEFIT, and other are not.

    All those childless AMEX employees are offered that same paid benefit. All they need do is have a child. That's what it's for.

    .that is discrimination

    You're kidding right? Everyone is being offered the same benefit. No one is being excluded. That's not discrimination by any stretch of the imagination.

    its hard to believe that everyone wouldn't see and jump on this too.

    They don't see the discrimination because it doesn't exist. Again, everyone is being offered that same benefit. No one is being excluded.

    I'm pretty much settled that I DO NOT WANT kids.

    First, let me say Thank You. I couldn't be happier with your decision.

    Moving on, just because you don't want to participate in a particular benefit, does not mean that you're being excluded. If a coworker brings in a plate of cookies, and you decline to take one, you don't get to complain that Alice and Bob each got a cookie, but you didn't. If you don't want it, then no one should have it, right?

    What I'm seeing here is a disturbingly childlike selfishness. You're absolutely terrified that someone, somewhere, got a bigger cookie than you.

    Still, even though you don't want to participate, that benefit is still being offered to you (assuming you're an AMEX employee). You can take your 20 weeks just as soon as you find a willing partner who ultimately delivers.

  58. Re:lawsuit incoming... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

    Society needs children to keep on going. Nobody is forcing you to have kids, but kids are a benefit to society, so we encourage that. You've received innumerable benefits from living in a human society, complaining about something you choose not to participate in is ridiculous.

  59. Re:lawsuit incoming... by goose-incarnated · · Score: 2

    I choose not to have kids, they choose to have them. Why should their lifestyle decision be more important than mine?

    Because their decision actually is more important than yours. They're producing the next generation who you will want to care for you when you're needing medical care in your 70s.

    You don't want to contribute to the next generation? Fine, no one is asking you to. However society has always catered for and helped those who produce the next generation because you and your generation will one day stop being a contributing member of society and you and your generation needs to be replaced by another contributing member of society.

    Selfishly proclaiming that society should end with you is (like I said) selfish, but also stupid - no one really buys your arguments because most (everyone?) knows that the current population will one day be non-productive. People who have kids ensure that there will be a new population of productive people. You aren't ensuring shit.

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  60. Re:lawsuit incoming... by ahaubold · · Score: 2

    In civilized countries payed leave is a parental right by law and not dependent from goodwill of employer.

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    Nope, I think you mistook me for someone else.
  61. Re: lawsuit incoming... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

    It's not discrimatory. The time is to take care of the child and bond, not play video games and pick your nose.

  62. Devil's advocate by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    So who is the executive at AMEX that had a power in that decision that will become parent in 2017?

  63. Re:lawsuit incoming... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    For the people who do not want to have kids but want the benefits, companies should allow that, but with the caveat that enforcement personnel will show up at said kidless-but-benefitful employees randomly through the night and ring the doorbell. For the next 18 years.

    Then the enforcement personnel need to live in the basements of those individuals, maybe steal jewelry and cash to simulate a drug problem. And when those individuals retire, the company needs to dump them into the cheapest old folks home possible and never visit.

  64. How do you do this? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

    Mothers get a year in Canada. 52 weeks. Every one of them. The first 16 or 17 are at full pay, the rest are part of everyone's unemployment insurance, so it's 55% pay. It's considered too short, and they're thinking of extending it to 18 months.

    Our kid just turned 11 months, and we're preparing for daycare. I can't even imagine that at 20 weeks.

  65. Re:lawsuit incoming... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    You're being obviously trolled. You fail internet.

  66. More Time! by tmjva · · Score: 1

    Now they will have more time to work on their resumes, they'll need it.

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  67. Re:lawsuit incoming... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    There's a box of Donuts in the break room. I don't want a donut. Have I been harmed by this in any way? How selfish do you need to be to complain about that sort of thing?

    If it was bought with company money, then you have been harmed.

    If you are too dumb to realise that, please come work for me. I need some gullible idiots to accept less pay than they earn.

  68. Am I eligible? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

    Does this apply to current cardholders only? I'm thinking of getting an American express credit card if this applies to new members as well.

  69. Re:lawsuit incoming... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    If you don't have kids, you'll be able to retire MUCH more than 20 weeks earlier than someone who did have kids. You're bitching about someone else getting a slight discount when you have chosen a path that gets you a massive one.

  70. Re:lawsuit incoming... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    "Are you saying that you want 20 weeks paid leave ... for no reason whatsoever? "
    Yes, if the company is handing out 20 weeks of paid leave why have a restriction on what i can do with it.

    "Because someone who is not you advantaged themselves of that benefit? On what basis?"
    on the basis that a benefit is being provided to some employees but not others due to their lifestyle choices. HR is determining that one lifestyle if better then another. What if they decided that only straight people get 20 weeks off. Would it be wrong for a gay person to complain that they didn't get the benefit because of their lifestyle choice? Would your reply be well you might turn straight one day and if so it'll be there if you need it.

    "How would it be decided when that leave was granted?"
    I would simply notify HR i was taking leave. the same way it is granted to new parents. Its on the parents schedule, so it would be on my schedule

    What would you do? Turn in your imaginary future wife's uterus along with your testicles in to HR?
    No there should be a 20 week leave policy that can be used for whatever you want. The unfairness comes from only giving it to parents. to make it fair it would be granted to anyone.

  71. Re:lawsuit incoming... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Moving on, just because you don't want to participate in a particular benefit, does not mean that you're being excluded. If a coworker brings in a plate of cookies, and you decline to take one, you don't get to complain that Alice and Bob each got a cookie, but you didn't. If you don't want it, then no one should have it, right?

    thats not what happening. you want the cookie (paid vacation). but a condition has been placed on the cookie (being a parent). its not worth it to you to become a parent just to get a cookie so you have to go cookieless while you parent coworkers are swimming in cookies. Is it fair for you to go without while others get more.

  72. Sweden provided 12 MONTHS, last time I checked (pr by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Subj says it all.

    Cf: SI.SE to learn more about Sweden.

    A land that's - by Law - stayed out of Other People's Wars for generations.

    "USA needs more Sweden"

  73. Re: Sweden provided 12 MONTHS, last time I checked by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    My Title got clipped short. The missing bit was:

    (Provided Dad takes enough of the Parental Leave)

    You got a Long Way to Go, USA. :-)