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Game Company Fires Two Employees Who Complained About 'Mansplaining' on Twitter (theverge.com)

An anonymous reader quotes the Verge: On July 3rd, narrative designer Jessica Price tweeted a 29-tweet thread dissecting the challenges of writing player characters in an MMORPG. A streamer who goes by Deroir responded, "Really interesting thread to read! However, allow me to disagree slightly," and shared a three-tweet explanation of how narrative design influences player expression in the sort of games that Price narratively designs. Price both replied directly to Deroir, tweeting "thanks for trying to tell me what we do internally, my dude," and retweeted his response with the caption "today in being a female game dev: 'Allow me -- a person who does not work with you -- to explain to you how you do your job....'"

Price's suggestion that Deroir was mansplaining game development -- an area where he does not have the same knowledge or experience -- sparked anger among the ArenaNet community. She subsequently responded to those criticizing her on Twitter. [Here's the first lines of that tweet. "Since we've got a lot of hurt manfeels today, lemme make something clear: this is my feed. I'm not on the clock here. I'm not your emotional courtesan just because I'm a dev. Don't expect me to pretend to like you here. The attempts of fans to exert ownership over our personal lives and times are something I am hardcore about stopping."] Price was fired shortly after. Although many fans are comparing this to something like working in a restaurant -- be polite to the customer, or get fired -- Price says it's impossible to talk about this incident without larger context about systematic online harassment, particularly the sometimes abusive relationship between fans and game developers and the failure of game companies to address it. "Game companies are generally unwilling to be honest with themselves about how they're complicit in creating and sustaining that environment," she tells The Verge...

Price adds that she believes her firing was an emotional reaction on the part of ArenaNet co-founder Mike O'Brien. "He fired me personally, and the meeting was mostly him venting his feelings at me," she says. "I understand being afraid when you see the Reddit mob coming for you, but if people with less power can weather it -- and we do, regularly -- so can he...."

"We can probably fire anyone on the GW2 dev team as long we make a big enough stink," wrote one user on the Guild Wars 2 subreddit. "Nobody at Arenanet is safe from the hand of reddit. We're literally running the company now..." UPDATE (7/12/18): That user eventually clarified that their remark was satirical, identifying themself as an angry Reddit user who felt powerless and "surrounded by individuals who are so thoughtless and shitty I was hoping I'd appeal to some sort of sense of decency by writing the most vile shit I could think of... I took it down because I realized that nobody was going to disagree with me."

ArenaNet also fired Peter Fries, a writer who'd worked for them for 12 years, apparently for defending Price in a series of now-deleted tweets. (For example, "Here's a bit of insight that I legitimately hope [Deroir] reflects on: she never asked for his feedback.")

"The message is very clear, especially to women at the company," Jessica Price tells the Verge. "If Reddit wants you fired, we'll fire you. The quality of your work doesn't matter."

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  1. Good by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 5, Insightful

    Someone who is unable to take valid criticism, immediately making a fuss about on it on social media, generalizing members of both genders, isn't good a look for a company.

    1. Re:Good by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 2, Insightful

      What ever happened to ignoring stuff you don't agree with.

      You forgot a question mark there, mate.

      A lot of today's generation have always got to have the last word regardless.

      This has always been the case. Expecially on the internet.

      On another note, I frankly don't care a whit about this spat, it playing out on twatter, or whatever else. But looking at it from the summary (you didn't expect me to RTFA or TF twatter barf, did you?) it looks like the whole self-victimisation through gender backfired wonderfully on the perpetrator here. Even if it took a (male) boss going a bit hysterical in return. Though he certainly didn't discriminate on gender, firing both a girl and a boy over being twats in public on company time.

    2. Re:Good by Luckyo · · Score: 4, Insightful

      The company she answered as a representative of (discussion was specifically about main product of ArenaNet), and that she put on her twitter as being representative of.

      Essentially pillorying for "sexism on twitter" is finally starting to go both ways, rather than being a one way train that it was for last few years. And the standard misandrist crowd that is used to it being a one way street is reeling.

    3. Re:Good by fazig · · Score: 4, Interesting
      In several of her tweets she wrote about GW2 at least two times and implied that she was working on it using words like:

      Specifically in GW2, in the Living World, we can write the Commander with

      Source: https://twitter.com/Delafina77...

      So I'd assume that she works for whatever company develops GW2, which is ArenaNet.


      Now I'm not sure whether or not she deserved to be fired over this incident. Given her twitter I can only assume that she not a very pleasant person. I can understand that ArenaNet does not want to be associated with that part of her. But that doesn't tell a lot about her actual work at ArenaNet. For example I think that Orson Scott Card is an asshole, but his Ender's Game is still a fine piece of writing and worth a read. If this was the first incident I think she deserved a warning and not to be fired right away.

    4. Re:Good by Hognoxious · · Score: 4, Insightful

      Deroir's post (though I don't understand the half of it) is at least polite in tone.

      Her post was the one with the obscenities and personal attacks.

      Do you even know when you're lying?

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      Confucius say, "Find worm in apple - bad. Find half a worm - worse."
    5. Re:Good by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 2

      There are actually several issues at work here:
      1) Game companies treating devs and testers like disposable crap. Churn isn't just expected, but encouraged.
      2) Companies turning against their own employees.
      3) Putting your company in bad light officially. It should be possible, but not wise to bite the hand that feeds you.
      4) Over-eager bosses at companies thinking firing people solves their issues.
      5) Lack of skills for polite discussion.
      6) Mistaking feedback for criticism, taking feedback too seriously (I know I'm right!!1one)
      7) Lower threshold to trash on female devs / testers, lower regard due to male dominance and culture.
      8) Ruling techniques by upper management infecting whole company culture.
      9) "Mansplaining" and "manfeels" being used as ruling techniques.
      10) Gender or race discrimination.

      In that order.

      Captcha: egghead ;p

    6. Re:Good by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 4, Informative

      What ever happened to ignoring stuff you don't agree with. A lot of today's generation have always got to have the last word regardless.

      Never existed.

      You think previous generations sat still and ignored gay or interracial marriage just because they didn't agree with it?
      They lynched people that they didn't agree with back then.
      You see those nazi-meetings happening around? Had this been 50 years ago they would have been shot on sight. Now we allow them to speak their opinion.
      Heck, after WWI fourteen states even made it illegal to teach German in schools. So much for that free speech.
      There were also the thing where dachshounds where almost entirely eradicated from the US because they where considered being a German breed. Many of them were killed it brutal ways to send a message to their owners.

      Current generation is a lot more tolerant towards things they don't agree with.

    7. Re:Good by goose-incarnated · · Score: 5, Interesting

      Are you talking about the developer or her boss? Seems like he was the one who overreacted to criticism.

      She was the one who previously expressed joy on twitter when someone died from cancer (leaving behind a widow and child) simply because he refused to join the anti-gamergaters.

      The person she attacked is a content contributor to the game in question, and has such is considered a business partner by the company.

      She launched an unprovoked attacked on a business partner, and got fired as a result.

      (PS. You're doing a poor job of hiding your self-loathing these days.)

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    8. Re:Good by Daemonik · · Score: 2, Insightful

      Given her twitter I can only assume that she not a very pleasant person.

      Or, she's a very pleasant person and you just don't like how her twitter sounds in your head, but you'll never meet her so it's easier to just dislike her based on a few internet sentences.

    9. Re:Good by fazig · · Score: 5, Insightful

      It's certainly a possibility that they're nice in person.
      But from my perspective the way they chose to portrait themselves on twitter and that is all I have to base my assumption on. I've got nothing that urges me to assume otherwise - Occam's Razor.
      But since you appear to resort to questioning the person who makes the statement instead of the statement on its own merits: let me ask why you assume that my observation is due to how their twitter sounded in my head, based on a few internet sentences?

    10. Re:Good by fazig · · Score: 4, Insightful
      So? People make first impressions and others make their assumptions based on that. It may not be fair, but sometimes it can be a very important thing to keep in mind when interacting with certain people, like customers.
      We are talking about a person who states on their twitter that they work on a specific game for a specific company. People who read their twitter are going to judge them based on their statements there. And the readers are going to assume that they're at least speaking in a somewhat official capacity of that company. The way they stated their affiliation is also used to claim some sort of authority here and there:

      like, the next rando asshat who attempts to explain the concept of branching dialogue to me--as if, you know, having worked in game narrative for a fucking DECADE, I have never heard of it--is getting instablocked. PSA.

      Source: https://twitter.com/Delafina77...
      And if you act like that, affiliating yourself with a company you have to expect that said company may not like the publicity that you're creating for them. Will that company ask people who are upset to get to know that person on a more intimate level? Maybe they should, but that's not very economic for them to do so. So they're looking for cheaper solutions. Like I said, I don't think that firing them was the right choice, especially if they were doing good work.
      But unfortunately that is how the business world works. If you manage to piss off/alienate a bunch of people - (potential) customers - while associating yourself with your employer, you'll get into trouble.

    11. Re:Good by Hognoxious · · Score: 5, Funny

      Heck, after WWI fourteen states even made it illegal to teach German in schools.

      I thought that was a child cruelty issue?

      I bet they have a word for that. A word. A long one.

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      Confucius say, "Find worm in apple - bad. Find half a worm - worse."
    12. Re:Good by Bing+Tsher+E · · Score: 4, Interesting

      The person she attacked is a content contributor to the game in question, and has such is considered a business partner by the company.

      This might be a bit of an aside, but it's a sad state of affairs that a parasite like a streamer is now considered a 'business partner' with the gaming company. A 'golden customer' who 'the staff' should not be allowed to displease.

      We have progressed beyond the point where companies like Blizzard sell 'level-boost tokens' that allow people to not have to actually play the game they (apparently) regret having written, which interferes with 'the endgame.'

      Now, game companies consider 'streamers' who potential customers can simply watch playing the game to be 'partners.' Some beancounter must have done a study that showed that "Lottery Box" sales aren't impacted if people don't actually play the game.

    13. Re: Good by Ol+Olsoc · · Score: 5, Insightful

      Reading comprehension fail; that's hardly what happened. What happened... was that on a public forum, in front of the world to see, she - and her more experienced colleague who had his tongue up her ass - revealed some particularly entertaining personality flaws... and got what they - and far too many others clearly fucking deserve.

      what is impressive is the double standard employed by some folks.

      While she was on her "mansplaining" tirade, she didn't seem to mind giving a tour de force in "womansplaining" and incredibly rude and bigoted sexism on her part.

      My non-genderized advice to the woman is simple - You were acting like an asshole, Ms Price. Don't act like an asshole does.

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    14. Re:Good by Raenex · · Score: 3, Insightful

      a parasite like a streamer

      How is a streamer a parasite? Has he infected the host, and is taking value away from them? Or is he part of a larger community of fans?

      A 'golden customer' who 'the staff' should not be allowed to displease.

      The employees should not treat any of their customers that way.

      Some beancounter must have done a study that showed that "Lottery Box" sales aren't impacted if people don't actually play the game.

      Oh, I see, you think because people watch they won't play, as opposed to people who play and also watch, or people who started watching and became players. What a sad state of affairs.

    15. Re:Good by Ol+Olsoc · · Score: 2

      Essentially pillorying for "sexism on twitter" is finally starting to go both ways, rather than being a one way train that it was for last few years. And the standard misandrist crowd that is used to it being a one way street is reeling.

      Because eventually people figure out that the woman who always brays about men - especially "white" men, being sexist and racist are both sexist and racist themselves.

      While I don't know that this woman is racist, but she has more than adequately shown that she is sexist at a level that needs to maybe find a job at HuffPo, where bigoted sexists are celebrated.

      She definitely needs to be directed away from public commentary if she cannot be polite and non-sexist.

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      The shepherds did so well protecting the flock that the sheep no longer believed that wolves existed.
    16. Re:Good by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 5, Interesting

      Former ArenaNet dev here, posting anon for obvious reasons... I don't know Jessica, and I only know Peter in passing (I'm a programmer, and didn't interact with him much). So, I can't say anything about them personally, nor would I wish to. And I certainly don't condone the harassment they've subsequently received. No one deserves crap like that, even if they made a serious mistake themselves.

      However, I can tell you this. ArenaNet makes it very clear to employees, at least when I worked there a few years ago, that if you're representing the company in any official or unofficial capacity, you have a very clear responsibility in how you communicate with fans. They even have a class you take to go over all this, for heaven's sake. Everyone should know the rules up front. And this is pretty much the norm for any company in the industry. They tend to give you very clear direction on what you can and can't say in public about your job. I'm a little flabbergasted that Price could say that she had no idea what the rules were.

      How you choose to display your social justice (or whatever) views on your own is up to you, of course, and most companies are pretty hands-off about what you say - I'm pretty sure the HR person was talking about this, not when talking about how one would talk to fans about the game. But as soon as you start representing yourself as an ArenaNet developer, you're now representing the company, and you're expected to behave like a professional, not get into internet pissing matches.

    17. Re:Good by Ol+Olsoc · · Score: 4, Interesting

      Now I'm not sure whether or not she deserved to be fired over this incident. Given her twitter I can only assume that she not a very pleasant person. I can understand that ArenaNet does not want to be associated with that part of her. But that doesn't tell a lot about her actual work at ArenaNet. For example I think that Orson Scott Card is an asshole, but his Ender's Game is still a fine piece of writing and worth a read. If this was the first incident I think she deserved a warning and not to be fired right away.

      You do realize that a woman who takes sexism to setting 11 is a hand grenade with the pin pulled, I hope.

      Taking advice and turning it into "mansplaining" (did she just assume his gender?) is the mark of a misandryc bigot. If a male told a woman he didn't need to listen to her because "she's only a woman" would have a mob at his front door after being Doxxed

      But here's the problem at the company level. #metoo has men being very careful about any and all interactions with women in the workplace.

      Given her proven record of trying to turn everything into a sex issue, and how she has shown definitively that any input from a man will be rejected as "mansplaining", it is going to be difficult to find males on staff that will work with her.

      I wouldn't be in a room with her without a witness present. Such is life when you decide to be a hand grenade with the pin pulled. So she pretty much got exactly what she deserved.

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    18. Re:Good by hairyfeet · · Score: 2

      Dude? Yeah the game I have sunk like $400 over the years into? Because I saw a streamer playing it and it looked fun. Same holds true for quite a lot of others. A good player that can build excitement and keep momentum going? Worth a thousand shitty fake CGI demos because you can see what the game is really like and not some pre rendered horseshit.

      And personally I don't give a flying flipping fuck what you think about streamers, to cheer when someone dies of cancer leaving a widow and child? Yeah fuck you, you are a piece of shit, and the fact she did it because he wouldn't wave her little political flag just shows what a worthless waste of space she truly is.

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    19. Re:Good by Ol+Olsoc · · Score: 5, Insightful

      ...let me ask why you assume that my observation is due to how their twitter sounded in my head, based on a few internet sentences?

      Because you yourself said you "assume she's an unpleasant person" because of her Twitter, which implies you've never met her. Interpreting sentences is a fill in the blank process rather than hearing what someone is saying in context.

      You are right. She might be a sweet loving person who only wants the very best for everyone in this world, man or woman, race creed or religion.

      But here's the problem. What she wrote is the sort of thing a sexist bigoted man hating asshole might write.

      So yeah, she might not be a sexist bigoted man hating asshole.

      She's just writing using the language that a sexist bigoted man hating asshole might use. That doesn't mean she is, just that she argues with those tool

      So you can understand a lot of people's confusion with thinking that she might personally reflect the qualities of such a person when she writes that way.

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      The shepherds did so well protecting the flock that the sheep no longer believed that wolves existed.
    20. Re: Good by Bing+Tsher+E · · Score: 2

      the fact she did it because he wouldn't wave her little political flag

      Dude wasn't a spectator who would't cheer for her. Dude was a major warrior for the other side. Her dancing on the grave comment was distasteful. Not that much worse than calling somebody you disagree with a 'piece of shit' however.

      It's clear that a lot of people are reeeeeaaally threatened by this stuff.

    21. Re: Good by Ol+Olsoc · · Score: 4, Funny

      And "asshole" is gender-fluid.

      Especially after eating at Taco Bell.

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      The shepherds did so well protecting the flock that the sheep no longer believed that wolves existed.
    22. Re:Good by azcoyote · · Score: 4, Insightful

      Exactly. When I was developing Dark Deeds on StarCraft 2, I had plenty of people telling me how to do things that I already knew. Many were children who were imagining changes that were sometimes just not practical. I admit that sometimes I did not receive criticism or suggestions well, but I learned that I needed to do my best to be courteous because people had good intentions, and the children in particular were just exercising their creativity.

      The dev probably is correct to some extent that she was not being taken seriously, but she should not assume that it's simply because she's a woman. In the end, it's rude of her to respond so crassly to a fan, and it does not built up her fanbase. Instead of treating him like scum, she should have found a way to turn what he said around, showing not only that she has already done what he said, but that she is well beyond him in knowledge. In other words, if she is uncomfortable being addressed as a student, then she needs to use her voice to make herself into a teacher. Instead, she chose to be combative.

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    23. Re:Good by pablo_max · · Score: 2

      No.. It's two words.
      Kind Grausamkeitsproblem

    24. Re:Good by jwymanm · · Score: 2, Interesting

      I'm sick and tired of people losing jobs over social posts. Smearing people that have worked for decades because of a frigging tweet is way worse than the 5 minutes of bad press a company gets for stupid comments nobody will remember a week from now. Even ones that drive people to the streets do not matter. Internet idiots take themselves too seriously and think they are changing the world when in fact the only power they have now is getting random people fired for one off statements usually made in the heat of the moment. I'd rather 600 racially insensitive comments from someone than one smug asshole getting their social masturbation on by having someone fired for saying the sky is green when we all believe its blue.

    25. Re: Good by GrabbaTheButt · · Score: 4, Informative

      Not everyone who works at a company is representing that company. Your status as an employee is a simple fact; it does not make you a representative to simply state your employer. The Twitter feed was her own private feed and she should be able to say what she wants without fear of retribution.

      Every employer I've ever worked for would disagree with you 100%.

      Most have very specific policies about social media behaviour and the minute you identify your self as an employee of Company X you have put yourself in a position of representing that Company.

      If I decide I want to walk around town carrying a sign that says "Gays should be shot" then my employer isn't impacted and doesn't have much to say about it. Change that to "I work for Company X. Gays should be shot" Then I'm going to get rightly fired as I've now tied Company X to my hate speech. The fact that I'm carrying that sign not on company property while not on company time is completely irrelevant.

      PS Apologies to the Gay community for using them as my example above. For the record, people are people and Gay people are perfectly fine and I do not advocate their genocide.

    26. Re:Good by hey! · · Score: 4, Insightful

      Well, I never automatically cheer someone losing their job, because it's so damn hard to apply "do something embarassing, lose your job" consistently. Oh, it's satisfying when somebody is fired for doing something outside work you see as odious, but that's an emotional reaction, not a principled one. For every firing that by your feelings is justly dismissed, there is another whom you feel is an injustice, and people will never agree on which case is which. Which tells you feelings are a lousy guide in this situation.

      The fact is in the Age of Internet Shaming there is no such thing as "off-the-clock". I don't think this is a good thing. I think people should be allowed to have time when they aren't responsible to their employers, even if they use that time to be assholes.

      The dev's reaction here wasn't criminal; it was uncivil; a childish overreaction which prompted an even more ridiculous overreaction. There's been a lot of talk about "civility" recently, but it all ignores why the civility of others is important to us: it is something people give to us voluntarily. When you start enforcing civility, it is no longer civility, it's conformity.

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    27. Re:Good by Chibi+Merrow · · Score: 5, Insightful

      She publicly celebrated TotalBiscuit's death on her Twitter.

      She's an awful person and ArenaNet should've dumped her then, as it proved she's a huge PR risk. Now they've learned their mistake on keeping people who are awful monsters in public while flashing their ArenaNet badge around.

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      Increases in truth directly with the length of time spent explaining them
    28. Re:Good by religionofpeas · · Score: 5, Insightful

      He didn't get her fired. She got herself fired.

      And if you don't want to get yourself fired over social media posts, then don't go represent your company on a social network.

    29. Re: Good by HornWumpus · · Score: 2

      Break your taco smell habit. It's easy.

      Get a can of Ol Roy brand (WalMart house brand) beef dog food. Open it, smell it, get a good strong smell (then feed your dog). Go to Taco Bell. Breath in through your nose. You will never eat Taco Bell again.

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      John McAfee 'It was like that time I hired that Bangkok prostitute; to do my taxes, while I fucked my accountant'
    30. Re:Good by jwymanm · · Score: 3, Insightful

      We need to get to the point where we help each other rather than knee jerk attack one another. Social platform doesn't matter, that is what I am trying. If you say it in a lunch room or on Facebook. Instead of hatred towards one another for thinking certain things, even if they aren't what we really feel or are just silly/wrong, we should go towards acceptance and help one another. Peace with freedom of speech. If you wanted to fire people for what they thought at moment XYZ then we'd all be fired a few times in our lives. At least if you let people say what is on their mind you have an understanding of where they are at at the moment and can adjust your hiring guidelines better in the future. Right now with the way corporations are ran only people tight lipped and either emotionless or worse really good at hiding things they are feeling are promoted and it's creating a sociopathic world. Less and less freedom is happening before our eyes and all we have are social justice warriors and others with frigging pitchforks ready to kill anyone with emotion.

    31. Re: Good by Crashmarik · · Score: 3, Insightful

      That's odd, because 40 years ago the aclu fought for the rights of nazis to match in skoki.

      Seems pretty tolerant of abbhorent political views to me.

      What's more they don't do that anymore

      https://www.nationalreview.com...

    32. Re: Good by bistromath007 · · Score: 4, Insightful

      Even if you believe that this woman was a victim of mob harassment, it is immaterial to the fact that she started the fight by dumping on some guy giving an honest opinion. "Mansplaining" is one of the most disgusting ideas in the world; it casts in a villanous light the act of making conversation.

    33. Re: Good by bistromath007 · · Score: 2

      Blaming young people for the 80s/90s deregulation wave is the most powerfully boomer move I've ever seen.

    34. Re:Good by snapsnap · · Score: 2, Informative

      I worked with her nine years ago at S&T and kept up with her until Microsoft Flight imploded due to the fact Microsoft couldn't find decent programmers and no one that knew anything about planes would work with them after Microsoft treated their SMEs for that project like garbage. She was toxic, and she has been getting worse. She made the decision she would rather show her true self how she interacts in person rather than keep her job of six years.

    35. Re:Good by superdave80 · · Score: 3, Informative

      She was being an asshole to someone after they SLIGHTLY disagreed with her take on something. This has nothing to do with 'mansplaining'.

    36. Re:Good by lgw · · Score: 4, Informative

      What self victimization? She wrote some tweets about how challenging her job is (was) and when a guy chose to explain to her how she should do it, she shut him down. That's not victimization.

      Missing from TFS was that "the guy" who responded to her was a well-known GW2 player (there's an NPC named after him somewhere IIRC), with more knowledge of the game and game lore than this particular dev. So, she went off on someone not only more knowledgeable about the game than she, but someone the community liked a lot more.

      Specifics aside, she publicly attacked a customer. Reason enough.

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    37. Re: Good by Maxo-Texas · · Score: 2

      Here's the thing. I'm old. and I've seen women do it to both men and other women too, my entire life.

      Tossing out "SJW", "Mansplaining", "Homophobic" is a way to stereotype the other person and shut down real communication while also getting in an insult at the same time. It also promotes dividing any discussion into "teams" and identifies the 'team' members really quickly.

      It would be easier to understand, more civil, less divisive, and less insulting to say, "You are telling her how to do her job in a condescending or patronizing way." ("mansplaining") or "You are ignoring the rights of men and assuming women and minorities are always honest and always right" ("swj") or "You comment shows you dislike or are excessively afraid of homosexuals or homosexuality."

      And those are clear statements of your opinion that can then be discussed or addressed. "Oh, I didn't mean to be patronizing. I've also been playing this game since it was released 8 years ago and my opinion has merit too." "Yes, my religion is against homosexuality so I am against homosexuality." or "Wow, I guess I do have strong negative feelings about homosexuality even tho I play video games with some gay friends. Something about this particular topic is setting me off." or "Yea, I guess 58% of women to 42% of men being students in college is an unfair level. While I want more women to be in college, we should get the number closer to 50/50 again."

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    38. Re:Good by Maxo-Texas · · Score: 2

      She wasn't fired for saying she did or didn't like Nickleback on social media while representing herself as "MsPrice" or "MsP2379" relatively anonymously on some random social site.

      She was fired for representing herself as a company developer and attacking a customer.

      Business 101: Do NOT attack your customers.

      (Business 102: Do not disparage the company products) (That didn't happen but just fyi).

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    39. Re:Good by Maxo-Texas · · Score: 3

      I've seen quotes of the post. He complemented her, said her post was interesting and that he agreed with most of it. he had one minor fairly technical point about having multiple dialogue trees so customers could customize their own experience of the character.

      I saw nothing about Deroir's post that even displayed inciviliit

      She then went nuclear on him. She reacted badly. She attacked one of the companies long term customers who was known to other customers too.

      Perhaps you can help me out.

      What part of this is trollish?

      " âoeReally interesting thread to read! However, allow me to disagree slightly,â and shared a three-tweet explanation of how narrative design influences player expression in the sort of games that Price narratively designs."

      She responded with the mansplaining comment here

      https://www.theverge.com/2018/...

      her comments upset many other fans and so she tweeted...

      "âoeIâ(TM)m not on the clock here. Iâ(TM)m not your emotional courtesan just because Iâ(TM)m a dev. Donâ(TM)t expect me to pretend to like you here.â

      That's very abrasive, confrontational, and was directed at *many* of the companies customers.

      I would have fired her too.

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    40. Re:Good by Ol+Olsoc · · Score: 5, Insightful

      Taking advice and turning it into "mansplaining" (did she just assume his gender?) is the mark of a misandryc bigot. If a male told a woman he didn't need to listen to her because "she's only a woman" would have a mob at his front door after being Doxxed

      And now she apparently has the same, so I'm not really sure what you're arguing except that people like overreacting.

      The point is that unless we are going to have some sort of magic mind where women are the exact equal of men, yet are not held accountable for what they say and do, we are reaching a point where mansplaining and other derogatory sexist statements from women are going to be treated like the misandry that they are. It is just awkward, to be the victim all of the time, even when you as the victim spout your hatred of males while demanding that if a male disagrees with you, he is a misogynist. That isn't equality, that is demanding untouchable superiority. Is untouchable superiority what you demand for women?

      Well I ain't seen that and I've not modified my behaviour.

      Well then, I suppose that settles the matter, amirite?

      Maybe if you felt you had to then your behaviour was problematic in the first place.

      Maybe. Or maybe the guy might have performed a simple risk/reward analysis.

      This isn't rocket surgery. There are plenty enough examples of false harassment and false rape claims. While they are not a large number percentage-wise, they exist. if there is no particular upside to male-female interaction, a prudent man what values his career is going to focus on his career, not whatever benefit there might be in unnecessary interactions at work.

      It is glaringly obvious that this woman had a rather low threshold for going ballistic. Just sayin' But we are digressing

      Saying "a sex issue" is a mighty strange way pf phrasing it.

      What is a better phrase? Takin to the patriarchy? Putting men in their place? Drinking male tears? Exposing mansplaining?

      And apparently she was well know for it and the company knew and it came up in the interview:

      I warned people in my interview that I was loud about these issues on social media and had no intention of shutting up, she told Kotaku of when she first got hired at ArenaNet. They reassured me that they admired [my] willingness to speak truth to power.

      This is a fine example of the Mike Tyson defense, where you claim that since people know how you "are" their understanding that leaves you always guilt-free. That since they know that, they are perhaps the guilty party. https://www.indianapolismonthl...

      Um, it didn't work with Mike Tyson, and it didn't work with her. And she wasn't speaking truth to power either, just being rude and jumping at the change to play the sex/gender card. And that's a card trick everyone has seen played too often. It isn't a win every argument card any more, even if it was at one time

      There is nothing wrong with a woman taking down some asshole who is acting like an asshole. But if she is going to act like an asshole acts in the attempt, there isn't much difference between her and him, unless you always give women a free pass, as if women have no control over what they say and do. Which seems kinda like a prejudice based on a person's sex and is rather demeaning to women.

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    41. Re:Good by zugmeister · · Score: 2

      I was wondering if a male had been the one to correct a commenter, would the same thing have happened.

      If a male is a jerk while correcting a male commenter, that's the Internet. It means nothing. Now for fun imagine a woman corrected the male commenter and he told her to stop bitching at him until she was off her period. Would the guy deserve flack? Hell yes! Would he get it? OMG yes! Why should she not get pushback for talking about his "hurt manfeels"? Is it ok now to make derogatory assumptions about people based on their gender? Or is this only OK if a woman does it?

      It feels like a double standard, as rude men get a pass all the time...

      Rude PEOPLE on the internet are a very common occurrence. I'm surprised you haven't noticed. OTOH, as soon as you start shitting on people based on their gender they start getting upset.

      We're conditioned to assume that if men are aggressive that this is normal and expected, whereas we're supposed to assume that women are polite and agreeable.

      Men ARE more aggressive (on the whole). They are also physically better equipped to be that way. Traditionally, they do the fighting and the heavy building. Women ARE more polite and agreeable. There are exceptions of course but that's just how we are.

    42. Re:Good by Ol+Olsoc · · Score: 2, Insightful

      Certainly sounded like mansplaining to me. Maybe those predisposed to metoo and gamergate conspiracies that the entire world is hating on men might see it differently. But some men like to be the victim.

      A new movement among feminists is #mentorher, where men are told they need to "lean in" and mentor women. But how can the guy do that if his mentoring is mansplaining? https://leanin.org/mentor-her

      Pretty damn complicated if you ask me.

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    43. Re: Good by Nidi62 · · Score: 2

      Bund, not bundt. Bund is a German word meaning "federation". Bundt is a cake.

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    44. Re: Good by malkavian · · Score: 2

      Just like womannagging does? It's bollocks, completely and utterly. It's a general mode employed by both men and women, yet singled out to make fun of a man, all the while saying that women are sacrosanct, and anything remotely disparaging a woman is grounds for dismissal. I work in a very heavily female environment (hospital) and I've seen women use it frequently. I tend to assume that the rephrasing is simply a memory aid, as vocalising helps concentration and memory, and I've seen many a tech talking through what they're doing as they do it, so they don't lose train of thought.
      I find it sad though, as Arena loses two good devs. However, the 'sexist' argument is now starting to be applied starkly, and the whole ideology of "women can't be sexist because " is stopping being used (as it simply has no proof, and generally isn't the case, as most moderates are now quite happily agreeing). And what seems to have gotten men fired in the last few years has now been applied to a woman, and there's a general stink about it.
      What is rotten about it is the abuse afterwards. That, I find petulant, unwarranted, and just plain antisocial (and if identified, I hope they get the book thrown at them).
      Basically, if the Dev had just blown a fuse and said "Really, you think I don't know this, as I do it all day?", and kept the gender disparaging out of it, it's fairly likely that she'd have been cautioned, and maybe told a little leave would be in order, as she was stressed (and I can entirely believe being a game Dev is extremely stressful, day in, day out).
      However, she had to throw misandry into it. If a male game Dev blew a fuse and told a female customer that she was just nagging because it was the time of the month, or something, he'd rightfully be fired (hell, I think the internet would explode!).
      So, that leaves people with two options. Allow misogynist and misandrist lexicon to be used as a way to blow off steam (and have an offended person placated by whatever means necessary on the PR front, maybe disciplining the Dev for exploding at a customer).
      Or, you can say neither male, nor female can use any gender keyed disparagement, with penalty of firing. As men have had to deal with for years. That's equality.
      Personally, I'm all in favour of letting people blow off steam, and maybe offend someone (and apologise later, or face medium penalties for painting company in a general bad light same as any old rant at customers).

    45. Re:Good by h33t+l4x0r · · Score: 2

      I'm not even sure that was mansplaining. It seemed like good-old-fashioned talking out of one's butt (aka Cliff Clavin'ing) which has no regard for gender.

    46. Re:Good by Opportunist · · Score: 5, Funny

      Of course there is. Kindesqualproblemsvermeidungsgesetzesinitiativantrag. Which eventually led to the Kindesqualproblemsvermeidungsgesetz.

      But it's not a long word, sorry.

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    47. Re:Good by hey! · · Score: 2

      You are putting me in the position of defending every claim of "hate speech", which of course is an intrinsically untenable one. My position is that not every ugly or unpleasant utterance is "hate speech", but by the same token not everything that isn't "hate speech" is acceptable, either socially or legally.

      In this case the developer's speech is something we've almost lost the concept of: it was rude. In the absence of the concept of impoliteness, people struggle to put offensive behavior in some kind of useful category, and they end up mischaracterizing it as something more toxic than it is. People turn to laws because there are no social rules through which people gain and lose social capital by their behavior.

      If we still had ways to express formality and familiarity, none of this would have happened. It's common on the Internet to assume people you're talking to don't know everything you want to talk about; if expressed in a formality register appropriate to speaking to a stranger, it wouldn't sound offensive. But we all speak as if we know each other, and the dev reacted emotionally as if someone who should have known better disrespected her expertise. And what's more having no means for expressing social displeasure other than outrage, she went nuclear, with all the collateral damage. In an earlier age she'd have made a chilly reply that would have left the offender chastened -- which is the whole point of politeness. It gives you a less damaging way to deal with these kinds of mishaps.

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    48. Re:Good by Dutch+Gun · · Score: 4, Informative

      But she was responding to someone who seemed like a woman hating asshat who wants women to stop gaming and leave it to real men instead.

      I didn't see that at all. Please read what kicked off this mess. I'll quote it exactly.

      Really interesting thread to read! However, allow me to disagree *slightly*. I dont believe the issue lies in the MMORPG genre itself (as your wording seemingly suggest). I believe the issue lies in the contraints of the Living Story's narrative design. When you want the outcome to be the same across the board for all players' experiences, then yes, by design you are extremely limited in how you can contruct the personality of the PC. But, if instead players were given the option to meaningfully express *their* character through branching dialogue options (which also aren't just on the checklist for an achievement that forces you through all dialogue options), then perhaps players would be more invested in the roleplaying aspect of that particular MMORPG. Nonetheless, I appreciate the insightful thread!

      The person who responded to her seemed very polite and had compliments for her post, but disagreed with one point of hers. From my perspective, he was trying to start a conversation with her about a topic he was very interested in. The guy is a well-known GW2 streamer and superfan, and actually seemed to admire her and the other devs. When he got rudely shot down, he even apologized and intended to just leave it at that (note: English is not his first language).

      You getting mad at my obvious attempt at creating dialogue and discussion with you, instead of just replying that I am wrong or otherwise correct me in my false assumptions, is really just disheartening for me. You do you though. I'm sorry if it offended. I'll leave you to it.

      How you could characterize this as some sort of female-hating tirade is beyond me. Did you just make that assumption without actually knowing what was said, or are you reading something more into this than I am?

      I'm not defending the later attacks on her (and Peter) later, as that's inexcusable as well. But the initial exchange seemed fairly innocent to me, and for some reason, she took great offense to it and lashed out at him publicly (several times, in fact).

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    49. Re:Good by Ol+Olsoc · · Score: 4, Insightful

      Maybe. Or maybe the guy might have performed a simple risk/reward analysis.

      I was fine acting really crappy, but now it's risky so I'm being more careful.

      Hey Serviscope minor, this is the second thinly veiled accusation you have made that I am harassing women. Homie does not play that game. If you want an intelligent conversation, that is cool - but you are using the tactics of the people who get fired for being sexist bigots.

      Sorry, no - I don't "act really crappy" toward women. I tend to be very reserved with women I do not know very well, because I don't want to upset them. I want to get some idea of their personality first. I have some lady friends who are reserved, and a couple who have incredibly filthy minds. So I eventually tailor my interactions to the lady I am interacting with. But that is hardly treating them crappy.

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    50. Re:Good by meerling · · Score: 5, Informative

      In this case he was very polite and was disagreeing on her statement that you can't make compelling characters for MMOs, and he was obviously trying to open a dialog, but she replied by a verbal attack, which included an emoticon the above blurb didn't include. He then simply stated that he was trying to open a dialog, apologized, and politely bowed out. Of course, that wasn't good enough for her, so she put him on blast and escalated even more and making sexist attacks accusing him of "mansplaining".
      That wasn't even her last post attacking him. Mind you, this is the same dev that said something pretty unconscionable about the death of Total Biscuit.
      It's odd how she also implies that Deroir is a "rando asshat". The truth is that Deroir is a well known youtuber in the GW2 community, works with the company a lot, and even has an NPC in GW2 named after him!

      Deroir was nothing but professional and polite in his limited part of the entire exchange.
      Jessica was vitriolic and toxic in the extreme.
      Then Peter jumped in both feet right into Jessicas pile of shit to defend her extremely inappropriate actions.

      Mind you that many other posters were seriously pissed off at both of them, but I in no way think Reddit is why she got fired, rather I suspect that may be why her bosses got wind of this brewing shitstorm. Her actions are totally in line with policy violations that result in firings. Peter trying to defend this garbage is most likely why he got swept away as well. It's very possible that after the ruckus about her celebrating the death the Total Biscuit, she was already on a watch list for F-ups.

      As to the extremely weak excuse that this was a "private" account, Peter obviously doesn't understand the difference between private and personal. Jessica tweeted this whole mess on the same account that allows everyone to see it. She started this by talking about being a developer on GW2 and her viewpoints on it. Whether she'll admit it or not, she was acting as a company representative to the public when she went ballistic in full view of everyone, which is something you NEVER do if you want to keep your job.

      I find it rather strange how some of those reporting this kerfuffle seem to be leaving out many of her negative actions, and even leave out important parts of the few posts by Deroir. It seems as if they are either not very good at editing, or are trying to make him seem like the bad guy by having a polite and respectful opinion as well as refusing to get involved in an online spat in public. It makes me wonder if somebody has a deceitful agenda of some kind.
      Of course, you don't have to believe me, or those writers, just look up the relevant records, but you'll need to check some archives because some of the ex-employees of Areanet later deleted some of their relevant posts.

    51. Re:Good by UnknownSoldier · · Score: 4, Informative

      You DO realize this is the SECOND time she has been fired for harassing customers, right?

      The first time was from Paizo Publishing.

      Lastly, Deroir isn't just any Guild Wars 2 streamer, he is an ArenaNet partner and even has an NPC named after him in the game.He is one of the largest Guild Wars 2 streamers around.

      Furthermore, he even apologized BEFORE she was fired.

      So much for an open discussion I guess. I meant no disrespect AT ALL. Never did. Never will. Neither did I imply I knew better. Nor has this ANYTHING to do with gender. Never did. Never will.
      I will retract my comment, cause obviously I'm in the wrong forum for this kind of talk

      Frankly, you don't know what the fuck you are talking about.

    52. Re: Good by theshowmecanuck · · Score: 2

      She played the "mansplaining" bullshit card. That is playing the victim. Someone disagreed with her, and she immediately went to the, I won't accept criticism from a man, mode. Game devs, any devs, who act like that when getting feedback especially feedback placed on an open forum, isn't worth keeping anyway. It displays arrogance and shows a person who likely doesn't work well with others. Hope I'm not mansplaining that.

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    53. Re:Good by Opportunist · · Score: 2

      I don't even know exactly what GamerGate is. Only thing I learned over the years is that if something has to end in "gate" to make it interesting, it probably wasn't in the first place. I remember reading about it and I remember that I felt like my underlying theory was verified, aside of that I didn't bother to remember much about it.

      But maybe you could inform me why it is important.

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    54. Re:Good by Ol+Olsoc · · Score: 2

      But she was responding to someone who seemed like a woman hating asshat who wants women to stop gaming and leave it to real men instead.

      I didn't see that at all. Please read what kicked off this mess. I'll quote it exactly.

      .

      This. Its a big mean world, and if she cannot abide anyone disagreeing with her, she is simply not qualified to be in a workplace. If a man disagrees with you civilly - and he did - and your response is to go full potato with a string of hatred directed at men, and not his civil discussion, then no - you shouldn't be allowed to work in a career that has any interfacing with the public. It is painfully obvious that given her white hot hatred of males of the species - and after all, did he display misogyny in his post - no he didn't - then it is her who has a problem, one shared by those in here who defend her.

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    55. Re:Good by AmiMoJo · · Score: 2

      I do wonder if this is what happened in the 1930s. You have Nazis marching in the streets and murdering people. You have a populist who cages children leading your country. And your answer is, "oh it's just some trolls, I'll ignore them".

      Even if you lack all humanity and don't care about anyone else, aren't you at least worried that eventually they will come after you? I'm just trying to figure out how bad things would have to get before you do care.

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    56. Re:Good by AmiMoJo · · Score: 2

      The bit about GamerGate being used as a gateway to the alt-right, and the techniques pioneered by it being adopted by the alt-right to gain popularity.

      GamerGate started on 4chan (before even 4chan banned it), and the politics and harassment lives on via /pol/ which is where young guys get radicalized. Don't take my word for it though, just head over there and have a read. It's all Jewish conspiracy theories and white supremacy ("is X white" is such a common question they had to ban it), which traces directly back to GamerGate.

      And this is 4chan we are talking about, if they have to ban something it must be pretty bad.

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    57. Re:Good by AmiMoJo · · Score: 2

      No, I think that they saw how powerful GamerGate was and adopted it. And it has brought them political power. Steve Bannon was Trump's guy, Brietbart manufactured a lot of the fake news that supported him and used the 4channers to build and disseminate the memes onto social media via fake accounts, exactly as they did with GamerGate.

      Not to mention the violence... Not just Nazis, look at how many "incels" have been radicalized to commit mass murder in the past few years.

      It's not about 4chan, it's about the techniques that GamerGate pioneered and the way it went from simple misogyny and trolling to hard core far right politics. And unfortunately the narrative that it's just some 14 year old 4chan trolls so don't be so silly is a great cover for them. It's the same as with Russian interference, some people dismiss it because how can memes have any effect? But that's a gross oversimplification, as I have explained.

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  2. Not her first rodeo by ToTheStars · · Score: 5, Informative

    Quoth Jessica on the death of John "TotalBiscuit" Bain (dead at age 33 by cancer): "The kindest thing I can say is "I'm glad he's no longer around to keep doing harm.""

    1. Re:Not her first rodeo by Calydor · · Score: 2, Interesting

      If that's true (it's the internet, I assume everyone makes everything up) it does sound like she has a history of hitting enter before she thinks.

      <tongue-in-cheek>But she's a woman, so whaddya expect.</tongue-in-cheek>

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    2. Re:Not her first rodeo by Luckyo · · Score: 2

      Which he apologised for asap.

      I'm not in any major way a fan of TB, specifically because of his behaviour on live discussions left a rather sour taste of the man's personality. Truly, you don't want to know how the sausage is made. But his consumer advocacy was top notch regardless of it. Which is exactly why the aristocratic types of media journalists and devs hated him so much. He didn't pull any punches on calling bullshit bullshit when it actually happened.

    3. Re:Not her first rodeo by Raenex · · Score: 4, Informative

      Right, there's a difference indeed â" one hurts someone, the other doesn't. Except perhaps posthumously self-declared advocates of the deceased

      Like his wife or kid?

      defending the desceased's misbehaviour against possibly legitimate criticism even after his death

      Celebrating when somebody dies a horribly painful death from cancer at a young age is magnitudes more disgusting than whatever supposed "harm" TotalBiscuit did.

    4. Re:Not her first rodeo by Raenex · · Score: 5, Insightful

      The social "justice" idiots that are for Political Correctness were never about civility. They reserved the right to be as uncivil as they wanted, while constraining their opposition with the most stringent edicts.

    5. Re:Not her first rodeo by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 3, Informative

      Celebrating when somebody dies a horribly painful death from cancer at a young age is magnitudes more disgusting than whatever supposed "harm" TotalBiscuit did.

      People celebrate other people dying from horribly painful deaths all the fucking time. And, again, TotalBiscuit wished cancer on someone else. That he retracted it afterwards is great and maybe it shows that there was a level of decency to the man, but it doesn't really undo the real schadenfreude. It is, after all, not like he was tweeting at a ripe young age (he was 27) when he wished cancer on another person.

      Note, I don't celebrate TotalBiscuit's death. But I don't believe that trying to underplay the vileness of a dead man is someone some great service to society nor that family and friends should be shielded from the truth of who a person was. They either should accept that person's faults or really have left/disowned the person quite some time ago.

      PS - Seriously, just google Totalbiscuit get cancer and you'll find at least one other example of him saying it. Meanwhile, it looks like he really only apologized years later to Seanza after talking to Seanza about why they were blocked.

    6. Re:Not her first rodeo by goose-incarnated · · Score: 2

      The GamerGate harassment from a few years back.

      She attacked people who then responded in kind. Are you seriously arguing that people shouldn't be allowed to defend themselves?

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    7. Re:Not her first rodeo by goose-incarnated · · Score: 2

      So, how long have you been a GamerGater? Cause your argument right now is sounding like a Nazi complaining about the Jews not going into the ovens willingly.

      Are you saying that people aren't allowed to respond when someone attacks them? That's a pretty regressive view.

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    8. Re:Not her first rodeo by goose-incarnated · · Score: 4, Insightful

      I'm saying if you're going to be a Nazi, don't be surprised when people fight you. You want to pretend like GamerGate wasn't about silencing women developers and keeping women out of gaming but whine about how those mean women said mean things about you like it fell out of the sky from nowhere.

      So stop being a disingenuous butthurt snowflake.

      You think all black people are nazis, or just me?

      By now it's obvious to all but the most ideologically cemented that gamergate wasn't about silencing women devs.

      This article is a good example - the woman in question launched an unprovoked sexist attack on a male, but it's the men who are snowflakes?

      Just because you are a self-loathing male don't go around hurling insults at the non-self-loathers.

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    9. Re:Not her first rodeo by Raenex · · Score: 2

      People celebrate other people dying from horribly painful deaths all the fucking time.

      It doesn't make it right, and it's generally reserved for the worst of people that have done actual harm. If a social "justice" idiot got cancer and died at a young age I would still feel sorry for them. Political disagreements is no reason to lose your basic humanity.

      And, again, TotalBiscuit wished cancer on someone else. That he retracted it afterwards is great and maybe it shows that there was a level of decency to the man, but it doesn't really undo the real schadenfreude.

      Yes, it does. Sniping at somebody in a moment of rage, which TotalBiscuit is known for, is not the same as celebrating somebody actually dying from cancer. The two are not even remotely close.

    10. Re:Not her first rodeo by Hognoxious · · Score: 2

      She isn't a game dev.

      She's a narrative diversity coordination operative, whatever the fuck that is.

      I mean she was.
      #ANOVWL.

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  3. she still does not understand why she got fired? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 4, Insightful

    let me make it crystal clear:

    you responded to simple criticism with sexist remarks.

    that shit don't fly.

  4. Is "mansplaining" a pejorative term? by piojo · · Score: 5, Interesting

    First, let's get the obvious out of the way: women also try to explain and argue things they have no clue about.

    So if I say "you're cluelessly explaining", versus "you're cluelessly explaining in a MAN way", does the second add any information besides the implication that men are bad? If "mansplaining" is a pejorative term, this situation becomes simple: in the US, if someone is a bigot in public and gets caught, their company typically fires them.

    On the other hand, I think that response is a problem in US culture. Everyone has ugly aspects in their personality. Firing should not be a standard response whenever a bit of ugliness rises to the surface. This seems like a bit of Puritan legacy which our European friends don't share.

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    1. Re:Is "mansplaining" a pejorative term? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 2, Insightful

      First, let's get the obvious out of the way: women also try to explain and argue things they have no clue about.

      Well, but the man/woman scenario indeed in many many cultures creates an implied assumption of competence differential baked into interactions that goes all the way from slightly annoying to thunderously ridiculous. Of course, there is also a difference in perception since for the perpetrators this is more of a one-off experience whereas for the victim it is a constant barrage of condescension.

      Providing a consistently nice response here is a challenge that mostly women are expected to be up to gracefully, delivering a response that acknowledges the individual's intellectual capacity, the same individual that denies this acknowledgment to the expert.

      Nobody wants to be blandly hit with the label "mansplaner" in response fo blandly hitting the expert with what amounts to the label "doll", a woman incapable of competent independent thought.

      Yes, Price was not exactly acting gracefully here but she was responding on her private blog, and despite of what social injustice warriors want to insinuate, that's not at all akin to using Nazi ideology on your private blog, something which indeed can (and likely should, depending on the circumstances) get you fired.

    2. Re:Is "mansplaining" a pejorative term? by Calydor · · Score: 4, Insightful

      Game programmer writes lengthy post about why their way of doing things is right.

      Gamer says, "Hell no, this is how it looks from the PLAYER's perspective."

      Gender doesn't enter into that discussion, and you do see it almost DAILY on any game's main forum or Reddit. How many times have you seen gamers going, "If I was in charge of this project, this is how I would do it."? Hell, doesn't even have to be about games, can be about anything. Armchair psychologists, backseat drivers etc. It's been going on forever.

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    3. Re:Is "mansplaining" a pejorative term? by Raenex · · Score: 5, Insightful

      Providing a consistently nice response here is a challenge that mostly women are expected to be up to gracefully, delivering a response that acknowledges the individual's intellectual capacity, the same individual that denies this acknowledgment to the expert.

      Oh please. She wrote fiction. She's not a rocket scientist. Furthermore, anybody is allowed their two-bit opinions to your public posts. If you don't like it, don't post publicly. The only person being sexist was Price.

      Yes, Price was not exactly acting gracefully here but she was responding on her private blog

      No, she lambasted the guy on Twitter and then took it to her blog. She was "verified" on Twitter because she worked for the company, which she listed in her profile. She was talking about her work for the company on Twitter. And then she had a meltdown because a fan of the game respectfully responded to her with a differing opinion.

      She deserved to be fired. This is what happens when you hire social "justice" idiots.

    4. Re:Is "mansplaining" a pejorative term? by Hognoxious · · Score: 4, Informative

      You consider this relatively mild?

      ''Like, the next rando asshat who attempts to explain the concept of branching dialogue to me -- as if, you know, having worked in game narrative for a fucking DECADE, I have never heard of it -- is getting instablocked,''

      This is about her work. It's traceable to her employer. It doesn't exactly radiate professionalism, does it?

      Have you stopped taking your meds or something?

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    5. Re:Is "mansplaining" a pejorative term? by TheRaven64 · · Score: 4, Informative
      The quoted post in the link from TFS does not paint her in a very good light. The response to her initial thing is:

      Really interesting thread to read!

      However, allow me to disagree *slightly*. I dont[sic] believe the issue lies in the MMORPG genre itself (as your wording seemingly suggest[sic]). I believe the issue lies in the constraints of the Living Story's narrative design; (1 of 3)

      That sounds like a polite disagreement. Her response was:

      Today in being a female game dev:

      "Allow me--a person who does not work with you--explain to you how you do your job"

      This was a personal attack, a mischaracterisation of the post (at least the first one, I've not seen 2/3 or 3/3). As a game developer talking to a fan, she was the one in the relative position of power and she uses this to belittle someone.

      Her Twitter profile says:

      Game producer, writer, editor, howling maenad. ArenaNet Narrative team. Obsessed with lionesses. Salty language. I block often. I won't play demure for you.

      i.e. she is explicitly associating herself with ArenaNet. There is no statement that her views do not necessarily reflect the views of her company, she is representing them in public by belittling and insulting their customers. She also seems to think 'play demure' means 'interact like a reasonable human being'.

      I'd be willing to bet that if she had a gender-neutral avatar and removed the gendered terminology from her posts and profile then people would think she was a male asshat.

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    6. Re:Is "mansplaining" a pejorative term? by Kjella · · Score: 4, Insightful

      So if I say "you're cluelessly explaining", versus "you're cluelessly explaining in a MAN way", does the second add any information besides the implication that men are bad? If "mansplaining" is a pejorative term, this situation becomes simple: in the US, if someone is a bigot in public and gets caught, their company typically fires them.

      I don't think you've quite gotten the definition of "mansplaining", it's men making simple, condescending explanations to women on the assumption that women are either ignorant or less intelligent. Basically she's accusing him of being a bigot and that he'd not talk like that to her if she was a man. However the world is full of armchair quarterbacks who offer advice or opinions on things they know very little about, often dismissing or belittling experts with many years of experience. Like for example every time dust on the Mars rovers' solar panels comes up somebody goes "Duh, should have put windshield wipers on them." like they got the answer. And if you go into a parenting forum as a male you'll see plenty "womansplaining" too.

      Now sexism, racism, ageism, discrimination of sexual or gender identity and various other forms of bigotry are real but you need to have some sort of smoking gun or pattern of behavior to go on. If you're just jumping to the conclusion that everything negative anyone says is because of your sex, skin color and so on throwing out accusations in every direction you're a SJW nutter. And for the longest time you couldn't touch them because that'd only invoke an even bigger accusation of bigotry. I'm sure this woman is now going around saying she got fired for being a woman and standing up for women's rights and the male leader and the male gaming community aka the patriarchy got her fired.

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    7. Re:Is "mansplaining" a pejorative term? by dentin · · Score: 4, Interesting

      So if I say "you're cluelessly explaining", versus "you're cluelessly explaining in a MAN way", does the second add any information besides the implication that men are bad? If "mansplaining" is a pejorative term, this situation becomes simple: in the US, if someone is a bigot in public and gets caught, their company typically fires them.

      I don't think you've quite gotten the definition of "mansplaining", it's men making simple, condescending explanations to women on the assumption that women are either ignorant or less intelligent. Basically she's accusing him of being a bigot and that he'd not talk like that to her if she was a man. However the world is full of armchair quarterbacks who offer advice or opinions on things they know very little about, often dismissing or belittling experts with many years of experience.

      As a multi-decade game developer, I can't even count the number of times somebody has "mansplained" various aspects of game design to me. Thing is, I'm male, and everyone knows it. The world is indeed full of armchair quarterbacks, and men aren't exempt from it.

      God, if only my typical armchair quarterback message was as polite as Derior's. What wonderful world that would be.

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    8. Re:Is "mansplaining" a pejorative term? by Mandrel · · Score: 2

      As a game developer talking to a fan, she was the one in the relative position of power and she uses this to belittle someone.

      Yes, strange from someone whose Tweets show her to be left-leaning, which should mean empathy for the relatively powerless. I guess her feminism trumped this.

    9. Re:Is "mansplaining" a pejorative term? by Cylix · · Score: 4, Interesting

      This isn't a one time offense.

      I invite everyone to search her name, twitter and mansplaining via google. It's not a pleasant trip.

      That's the kind of association companies want to avoid and she screwed up enough to get noticed.

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    10. Re:Is "mansplaining" a pejorative term? by Oligonicella · · Score: 2

      Consider this: Her "expertise" is in crafting the written word. Now.... How well did she craft her responses?

      From here it doesn't look like she's much of an expert.

  5. NO, it was not the result of a Reddit witch hunt.. by ChodaBoyUSA · · Score: 5, Insightful

    She got fired for being a sexist jerk. Her co-worker got fired for joining into the sexist attack. The person that responded to her, Deroir, said nothing sexist, demeaning, belittling, or insulting to her. SHE is the one who took things too. She could have simply ignored the comments if she did not want to interact with him. Reddit did not do the damage, she and her co-worker did this to themselves.

  6. Cry cry cry by aliquis · · Score: 3, Interesting

    She was being an asshole, fueled/excused by her idea that men are enemies, while somewhat representing the Company (which customers likely are 90% men), and got burned. Big deal.

    It's weird how the left whines about how we talk about each other (here in Sweden at-least, once we've finally started to trash-talk them back) and how supposedly now the dscussions are so toxic / uncivilized even though their method operandi has always been screaming and trying to put shameful words onto people rather than actually meeting an argument or having a conversation. They used to be such great fans of it. And I still think they are. And I still think they will continue. It's just that it's pretty boring to be on the receiving end .. "There's a problem people don't dare to speak what's on their mind!" - yeah⦠can't imagine anyone having had such problems before!!

    Anyway, feminism is cancer and sexist.

    1. Re:Cry cry cry by Kokuyo · · Score: 4, Insightful

      I disagree partly. Third-wave feminism is cancer and sexist.

      However, I will uphold my opinion that first-wave feminism was long overdue.

  7. Re:NO, it was not the result of a Reddit witch hun by ChodaBoyUSA · · Score: 5, Interesting

    And, of course, The Verge tries to spin this 180 degrees to make HER the victim. Nope. SHE is the one that caused her own firing.

  8. To accuse someone of mansplaining is sexist by def by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 5, Insightful

    That's 50% of the population right there. If I have to walk on eggshells because you might make it a gender issue, who is the one using gender as a weapon?

    Not denying sexism exists, it does. It also exists in these hardcore gaming feminists, who are shooting themselves in the foot with really rather terrible arguments and soundbites.

  9. What a mess. by AbRASiON · · Score: 4, Insightful

    My understanding is, the guy who messaged her, was very tame in his reply, it was a direct reply to her tweet and I believe he works or worked with them or he was some kind of official partner.

    He also was quite tame in his response and gender had nothing to do with it. Furthermore, his behaviour the remainder of the night, was very much polite and lite, he really wanted nothing to do with an internet lynching and was just disapointed by her reply.

    Her reply was a quote tweet (ie: a shaming) to make them look bad and went on to a gender whine.
    I've become very sick of this gender politics / identity politics bullshit, she was foolish to defer to the "I'm a woman so he's not allow to question me" however that being said, firing her seems a bit excessive.

    I'm not sure why this belongs on bloody slashdot though, more political stuff eh?

    1. Re:What a mess. by AbRASiON · · Score: 5, Interesting

      Oh wait, I just checked, this stupid girl is definitely part of the "my politics or nothing" crew. I've never, ever interacted with her, but she's taken time out to subscribe to a twitter blocklist and I'm blocked by her. Thanks Randi Harper / Wil Wheaton, sigh.

      Gotta shut out that 'other think'

    2. Re:What a mess. by AbRASiON · · Score: 4, Interesting

      One more thing, "DeroirGaming" or whoever it is? Their tweets regarding it in full are still up and completely polite / not offensive and not looking to stir shit.

      https://twitter.com/DeroirGami...

      This girl brought this on herself. Considering she's a blocklist user, I change my stance, fuck her. Soak it up girl. You're obviously a politics player.

    3. Re:What a mess. by NicknameUnavailable · · Score: 2

      I've become very sick of this gender politics / identity politics bullshit, she was foolish to defer to the "I'm a woman so he's not allow to question me" however that being said, firing her seems a bit excessive.

      The people operate by getting people who disagree with them fired, they should always be fired on sight because they are absolutely toxic in a workplace.

  10. Re:NO, it was not the result of a Reddit witch hun by The+Evil+Atheist · · Score: 2

    Yeah, because Slashdotters never get their panties in a twist when someone they perceive as a layman in a subject tries to correct a person working in that field...

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  11. Let's take gender out of the equation by 91degrees · · Score: 4, Insightful

    So, a person - presumably a customer - posts his opinion on a subject.

    A developer, with a huge following immediately publicly shames him, and retweets, using their large public following to embarrass the person who deigned to weigh in on a subject that apparently only developers know about.

    The publisher then sacks the employee for bringing the company into disrepute.

    Sacking seems a little heavy handed here, but I don't think the employee was in the right.

    1. Re:Let's take gender out of the equation by Luckyo · · Score: 4, Interesting

      Not just a customer, but an official PR partner. She basically made a sexist attack on someone who had official channels in the company reserved specially for people like him.

      It was stupidity to the extreme. She would have likely gotten away with it if it wasn't someone who actually had people inside the company who's jobs are to address their immediate concerns related to the company.

  12. Re:NO, it was not the result of a Reddit witch hun by thegarbz · · Score: 3, Insightful

    Is she? Did she formally issue a position on something on the clock? Did she waste time at work? Did she fail at her job? Yeah she came across as an arse, but in her own time.

    She is the victim here in terms of her firing. Just not in terms of people being pissy at here. Don't conflate the two. Employers should not have power over our personal lives.

  13. 100% lies by slashmydots · · Score: 4, Informative

    She celebrated TotalBiscuit's death, she's a hateful, evil, sexist, racist feminist lunatic, and according to management this was the last straw after a string of far left nutjob bullshit. That's the REAL story. This is not even about reddit. This is about another SJW getting what she deserved.

  14. Re:NO, it was not the result of a Reddit witch hun by Leuf · · Score: 2

    Not only was he not insulting, he was right. The player's choices usually can't affect the outcome but they can certainly allow the game to develop an understanding of how the player wants to play and respond to them accordingly.

    I would also completely disagree with the "she didn't ask for his input" defense. Putting something on twitter is asking for a response. He didn't break into her house and read her diary and then leave her a note disagreeing with her.

    But I wouldn't fire either of them over just that nonsense.

  15. Re:NO, it was not the result of a Reddit witch hun by HotNeedleOfInquiry · · Score: 2

    You still read Slashdot...

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  16. Re:she still does not understand why she got fired by Ecuador · · Score: 4, Interesting

    I think the problem started even before. She apparently started a 29-tweet thread (which should automatically tell you it was not the right medium), expecting no criticism/feedback/etc.
    If you don't know what twitter is, stay away. That has worked great for me so far!

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  17. Re:Arguing with Children by Luckyo · · Score: 2

    She didn't argue with a stranger. She argued with a streamer who has some kind of a contractual PR agreement with her employer to promote the game.

    That's how this series of events went this fast. Streamer in question likely went through official channels within the company reserved for people like him, which was rapidly escalated within the company to the top.

  18. Re:she still does not understand why she got fired by Calydor · · Score: 2

    29 tweets? Sheesh. Doesn't ArenaNet have a forum or something?

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  19. Re:NO, it was not the result of a Reddit witch hun by Phydeaux314 · · Score: 4, Insightful

    Um. If you're discussing what you do at work with a customer of your employer, it doesn't matter whether you called the twitter feed a "personal account" - you're speaking for the company. How you behave reflects on your employer, and your employer is justified in telling you not to do that, or, in a particularly egregious case, firing you over it.

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  20. Re:NO, it was not the result of a Reddit witch hun by Phydeaux314 · · Score: 4, Interesting

    Disclaimer: I do game dev.

    You're not wrong, but there's a fair bit of debate that goes on about "superficial choice." If the choice has no consequences, is it really a choice, or is it just virtue signalling for the player? How much of an impact does a choice need to have before it becomes part of the story, and how much is just "fake depth?"

    Basically, if every choice you make leads to the same place, do any of those choices matter? It's a complex question, both for philosophy and for game development. People get pretty worked up over it.

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  21. The rest of the story by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 5, Informative

    Deroir is not just some streamer. He has an NPC in the game named after him i.e. he has a special relationship with the company. There were other pillars of the fan community also taking part in the twitter discussion and Price insulted them as well. She called Deroir "rando asshat." Price has been with the company less than a year, so she probably didn't even realize that she was taking a dump on the company's biggest, most high profile fans.

    The reddit quote about the "hand of reddit" was almost immediately downvoted to oblivion i.e. the community at large didn't agree with it at all. It was probably posted with the express purpose of including it in the news stories about the incident.

    That being said, this isn't really about politics at all. Jessica Price clearly has issues. Even before the incident her twitter was so full of negativity and toxicity that she can't possibly lead a happy life. You don't fly off the handle like that when your things are in order. I hope she eventually gets the help that she so obviously needs.

  22. Re:I am a game developer. Arenanet made a big mist by fahrbot-bot · · Score: 5, Interesting

    He was polite, but it was a REALLY condescending response.
    She unloaded on him pretty hard, but it was the right way to nip that idiocy in the bud.

    I'm a guy and I had to deal with stuff like that when I was younger. For example, when I started with SAIC at the NASA Langley Research Center in 1996. My first time on-site, a much older admin literally started explaining to me how Unix worked. I interrupted him and said that not only was my BSCS degree focus in operating systems, but that I had actually taken a course in BSD internals from Kirk McKusick when I was an admin with Unisys at the NASA LaRC supercomputing group -- I was an admin for their Cray 2 and YMP supercomputers and 3 Convex mini-supercomputers from 1988-1992 -- and that I knew how Unix (and, more specifically, SunOS) worked. He shut up and we got along pretty well after that.

    Unfortunately, sometimes pushing back hard is the only way to get any (initial) respect and, unfortunately, I've seen it be worse for women.

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  23. Re:she still does not understand why she got fired by JaredOfEuropa · · Score: 4, Interesting

    In many sensible countries, publicly making sexist and inflammatory remarks that are related to your work and employment can be sufficient grounds for getting fired. Personally I think firing her just for this isn't warranted... but I wouldn't be surprised if there's a prior history of similar behaviour. Maybe she handled criticism or suggestions from her co-workers with the same grace and tact. From the interview on the Verge, it sure sounds as if she tends to take criticism as a personal attack.

    I'm actually more interested in why Fries got fired after defending her on Twitter. As far as I can tell he was perfectly polite.

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  24. It is not "the left" by aepervius · · Score: 5, Interesting

    I am what you would call a "leftist" or even worst an egalitarian "socialist" which is probably a gross word for msot american ;) (e.g. everybody no matter skin color, gender, sexuality , wealth or political affiliation should have the same equality of opportunity + as a specie we fare better when we protect each other so social net to catch those who fall in the crack e.g. illness, financial problem, rehabilitation etc...).

    She was rightfully terminated. She was toxic, obnoxious.

    As for the "loud mouth" and the whiner as you call them , they are a problem from all political parties. You would better off to recognize that there are loud mouth in the right wing , mysoginistic racist bigot, and loud mouth on the left wing, ultra "mansplaining manhating" "human are the problem ecologist" and I pass many others. They are a minority but both side are using them as a scapegoat to accuse the other party of going too far, and get brownie point from their base. I doubt all dems are as you describe, just like I doubt all reps are nazis racist. But if you believed the minority yelling, that is the impression you would get

    My advice : ignore the extreme left and the extreme right yelling, fight them rationally without name calling, and consider they are truly a minority. So if somebody from your party is trying to use the other party loudmouth as a scapegoat, then get skeptic and look closely at the man behind the curtain puppetting the show, because chance are they are pointing at the loudmouth from the other side to bamboozle you , and withdraw attention from the problem of your own side. Just a friendly advice, and if many of you take it, this should bring back the US politic discourse to the center rather than the ultra extreme. And chance is that it would force head of both party to work for the mass, rather than the extreme ideology. Win win.

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  25. Didn't have to be a thin skinned sexist asshole by Uberbah · · Score: 4, Insightful

    The guy (Deroir I think is his name) replied to this with a suggestion so insultingly simple it deserved scorn.

    Assuming that's all true - then you roll your eyes and brush the question aside, answer it with some friendly sarcasm, or even with (gasp) a professional response. Not by losing your shit and going on a sexist rant from out of nowhere.

    Bottom line; your customers are the most important thing you have, so don't treat them like crap just because you're exasperated.

    Fixed.

    Personally I will now never even consider working with Arenanet's leadership and other devs I know are saying the same thing.

    Uh huh. And if you're willing to throw your customers and community under the bus because one of your employees is a snowflake - let me know when you go public so I can buy some put options.

  26. Here's the text, make up your own mind by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 2, Informative

    Jessica Price:
    Since I spent all kinds of time saying it on a Reddit AMA, and I haven't talked about actual game dev on Twitter in a while, here's a thread about writing for the PC character in an MMO.

    The dirty secret is I'm not sure if it's possible to make an MMORPG (or CRPG) character compelling, because people have different expectations about what that character will be, as opposed to a pre-designed character in a single-player game.

    People booting up Bioshock know they're playing Jack. People starting Dishonored know they're playing Corvo. People beginning Tomb Raider know they're playing Lara Croft. So in those games, you have more wiggle room to make the protagonist an actual character.

    Whereas in an RPG, where the player chooses all kinds of character options and names their character and designs their face and so on, they feel more ownership over that character. They're not playing a character YOU designed--they're playing a character THEY designed.

    So if Jack or Lara or Corvo says or does something the player doesn't feel that THEY would say or do, the player's more forgiving, because they have the expectation that they're piloting a character someone else created.

    N.B. that I'm not talking about overall plot objectives/quests. Players know going in that the game is going to be telling them what to do, and their character is going to do it, and that holds true even when they've "created" the character.

    But the *interpersonal* stuff, the PC's REACTIONS, players respond strongly to. Some people don't like it if they think their character's responding in ways that make them too much of an asshole. Some don't like it if their character's responses seem weak.

    So, basically, most things that you'd do writing-wise to give a character, well, CHARACTER, are going to upset a large contingent, maybe even a majority, of your players.

    So--I know I've said this before on Twitter, but it's still going to weird people out, but please bear with me--you have to construct your MMO/RPG's PC character's dialogue as if they were Bella Swan from Twilight.

    To be clear, I don't think Twilight is good writing. I don't think Bella Swan's a well-constructed book character. And I think people who criticize Twilight for the latter are correct but also missing the reason for Twilight's popularity.

    Because Twilight isn't the love story of Bella and Edward. It's the *experience of being loved by Edward.* Which is why Bella's constructed the way she is.

    Bella Swan is a carefully constructed blank space, with JUST enough personality to function. All of her personality traits are chosen to avoid preventing the reader from inserting themselves into the space she holds in the story.

    She's a bit of a klutz, but JUST enough to make her endearing, not enough to prevent her from actually doing anything the story needs her to do. She's a little bit awkward. JUST enough to be relatable but not enough to actually hinder her. And so on.

    And essentially, we have to write the player character in an MMO/RPG the same way.

    Specifically in GW2, in the Living World, we can write the Commander with a bit of wry exasperation, a hint of impatience, a touch of "okay, I'm done fooling around with this crap and I'm going to take charge," but most of their lines have to be pretty devoid of personality.

    Because if we give them too much personality, it might clash with how the player is imagining Their Commander.

    So, how do we tell a TV-like season of story with a protagonist who can't

  27. Re:NO, it was not the result of a Reddit witch hun by piojo · · Score: 4, Informative

    When the mentioned her company by name, she immediately became a PR person.

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  28. Re:I am a game developer. Arenanet made a big mist by klingens · · Score: 4, Informative

    The guy (Deroir I think is his name) replied to this with a suggestion so insultingly simple it deserved scorn. He was polite, but it was a REALLY condescending response. Imagine you drive a truck on a really tricky route and write about all the things you contend with. You've been doing this successfully for years. Then someone says, politely, but meaning to educate you, "if you turned the wheel and used the gas at the same time, how about that?" That's a thing deserving only scorn.

    She unloaded on him pretty hard, but it was the right way to nip that idiocy in the bud.

    No it was not right, it was hateful by her.
    In your professional workspace you have to deal with morons. Everyday. Customers, or like here business partners. You can tell them off, but you cannot insult them like she did, publicly.
    Also there are the different areas of engagement to consider. If you deal with such a person personally at the office, like the two Unix greyboards in the other response, then yes you can, maybe, call him an asshole while personally talking directly to him. You cannot do this on Twitter which is a public forum. It's very different if you call someone in person an asshole or publish it in a trade magazine for the whole industry. Same words, totally different outcome, for good reason.
    What's more: the greybeard had to work with this guy everyday, could not avoid him so a clearing of the air is necessary one day, the sooner the better. She could have easily avoided and simply ignored the replies without any consequences to her work, her posting or anything else in her life.

    Bottom line: it's not what she did, telling him off, but HOW she did it that got her fired.
    If you and your other writers can afford to screen for companies where you can insult business partners, then more power to you. I doubt it will be many companies to choose from unless game text writers are a suddenly very sought after profession.

  29. She's a walking victim by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 5, Informative

    Honestly, she's a real walking vicim looking to express victimhood at the slightest comment. But I doubt this comment alone got her fired. People like that are toxic to work with, if she does that at work, everyone would be frightened to point out the tiniest of problems to her for fear she's explodes.

    Deroir's comment is valid, mostly agreeing while making a subtle point. She didn't address his (her?) subtle point, or even take the time to be civil.

    She could simply have said, "we do address that, for example [character name] in [game] changes personality based on your choices through the game in ways [example1] [example2]... I understand that problem fully and we do address it"

    --------------------
    Deroir:
                    Really interesting thread to read! However, allow me to disagree *slightly*. I dont believe the issue lies in the MMORPG genre itself (as your wording seemingly suggest). I believe the issue lies in the contraints of the Living Story's narrative design;

                    When you want the outcome to be the same across the board for all players' experiences, then yes, by design you are extremely limited in how you can contruct the personality of the PC.

                    But, if instead players were given the option to meaningfully express *their* character through branching dialogue options (which also aren't just on the checklist for an achievement that forces you through all dialogue options),

                    then perhaps players would be more invested in the roleplaying aspect of that particular MMORPG. Nonetheless, I appreciate the insightful thread!

    1. Re:She's a walking victim by MacDork · · Score: 5, Interesting

      I doubt this comment alone got her fired. People like that are toxic to work with

      Good point, but I think the company could have handled this in a better way. To start with, by outright firing her, they've given her more of the attention she wants. It's a weaponized Streisand effect, and people like her have learned how to use it to their advantage.

      I would suggest, in the future, to make her recant her statements publicly, start giving negative performance reviews, then finally firing her for failing to meet performance expectations.

      Most companies have this down to a science. They should have multiple levels of managers above her. She would be called in to long meetings with each one of them to discuss the issue she created. Some good cop/bad cop action. Some "Why aren't you done with your project that's due yet?" knowing full well its because she's been stuck in meetings about her little tantrum. Wearing her down psychologically until she publicly retracts her statements. Once she retracts fully, all her little followers will be deflated and the people she offended will feel a small measure of triumph.

      I think this game company should look into hiring some professional management drones. The company seem really unprepared to handle her outburst properly.

    2. Re:She's a walking victim by SoftwareArtist · · Score: 5, Interesting

      After reading Deroir's tweets, I really can't tell what you're referring to. His/her comments were polite, civil, and totally on-topic. They were entirely about issues of game design. There's nothing in them even tangentially related to gender: not his/her own gender, not Price's gender, not depictions of gender in games. They even go out of their way to complement her, calling the original thread "interesting" and "insightful". And Price responded with a bunch of insulting, sexist comments. (Yes, calling someone "my dude" is sexist. Talking about "hurt manfeels" is sexist.)

      Sure, there's a long history of discrimination in the game industry. But this particular interaction didn't have any hint of that until Price decided to introduce it.

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    3. Re:She's a walking victim by malkavian · · Score: 2

      It's borne out by fringe evidence. In any group there are statistical outliers. That's the way statistics works. And yes, the troll army can be sizable (when you're in the target group of millions, or tens of millions, then a couple of thousand is a very small fraction; a statistical outlier).
      There is a huge current of pro-female out there in the gaming community (probably several orders of magnitude greater than the anti, though as they're quiet and 'in the background', they're not counted).
      Of course there are men who feel discriminated against just for being men. When people are openly advertising that there are jobs for women only, and that women can't be sexist, and that it's ok for a woman to be as sexist as she wants, because patriarchy, and that same theme spreads right through all the media, then sure men are going to feel oppressed. Because it's getting enshrined in policies that they are.
      On the games getting dumbed down so that girlz can play, hell, on some of them, I enjoy them not being so hardcore because I'm getting older an reactions are slowing. Any good young gamer gal can blow me away. That's some (probably young and insecure) guys being dicks. The larger (quiet, background) part of the community detest them just as much as the women they're trying to get a rise out of. It would be nice if there was a way to punish dickishness by people getting dick votes, and you set your dick threshold to a level that blocks out people who are more dickish than others (while allowing perhaps a bit of ribald dickishness in good fun!).
      Hoo boy. Women as second class citizens. That's a whole can of worms right there for the European world. Women were (over)protected as humanity didn't have a massive expansion rate prior to modern medicine. Every woman was a huge asset (she produced children) to communities on the edge of dying out. No children, and people could expect to die young and badly. The vast majority of men would protect the woman in their life with their life. The women, on the other hand, got on with the job of building communities. In essence, the women decide what shape the future was, and the men went out and built it.
      The ability to mate was never assured, as women often died in childbirth, leading to an early dearth of women available to procreate with. That, of course, plays silly buggers with the biological imperatives. Men, of course, did silly things to secure a mate.
      With modern medicine, the population has exploded. Women don't die in childbirth so much, and so aren't such a precious commodity anymore, so the species/culture isn't dependent on them being protected so much. Once that's the case, feminism was inevitable (And needed, certainly in 1st and 2nd wave; 3rd still hasn't got a clue what it's all about yet, apart from that men are bad and Patriarchy).
      There's always been a symbiotic balance between men and women, a bargain struck that a man meets certain standards, and the woman allows him to procreate. The standards that men need to adhere to have just been altering with what the survival of the species has demanded. Crap times meant a crap deal for women (and a crap deal for men too). Better times have meant a better deal all round.

  30. Deroir's Tweets by vix86 · · Score: 5, Informative

    I was pretty pissed that the Verge left out the Tweets from Deroir in the actual article. It really paints a one-sided picture and sets him up to be the bad guy.

    Really interesting thread to read! However, allow me to disagree *slightly*. I dont believe the issue lies in the MMORPG genre itself (as your wording seemingly suggest). I believe the issue lies in the contraints of the Living Story's narrative design; (1 of 3)

    Source

    When you want the outcome to be the same across the board for all players' experiences, then yes, by design you are extremely limited in how you can contruct the personality of the PC. (2 of 3)

    Source

    But, if instead players were given the option to meaningfully express *their* character through branching dialogue options (which also aren't just on the checklist for an achievement that forces you through all dialogue options), (3 of 4 cause I count seemingly...)

    Source

    then perhaps players would be more invested in the roleplaying aspect of that particular MMORPG.
    Nonetheless, I appreciate the insightful thread! (End)

    Source

    Personally, nothing about this came off as sexist or trying to "set a woman straight;" its simple, civil criticism to something someone plastered onto the web publicly. Maybe this was the straw that broke the camel's back and set her off. Verge stated that her posts were motivated by the whole "Dev & Community interaction" that is expected, but if that's the case, then I think the better option would have been to post her 27 tweets into the ArenaNet forum or on a company developer blog where Community Managers could moderate the discourse. Either way, Deroir's not at fault here any more than anyone replying to posts here on Slashdot are.

    1. Re:Deroir's Tweets by sinij · · Score: 2

      Well, sort of a simplistic retort, isn't it?

      Twitter is not the right medium to have an in-depth discussion on anything. By design.

  31. Re:I am a game developer. Arenanet made a big mist by ColaMan · · Score: 2

    That most certainly was not the right way to nip it in the bud (unless you're Linus Torvalds)

    Despite a lot of publicised blow-ups, they're actually pretty rare. If you look at all his interactions on LKML, Linus shows a lot of patience with new people.

    He only really blows up if (a) you're someone he knows and you're pushing something or done something he thinks is dumb and you should know better, or (b) you're new and you haven't listened to something sensible he's given as an answer, a couple of times already.

    If you pursue something with him in an intelligent debate, he's quite amenable to having his mind changed on things.

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  32. Grandmother rolling in here grave by prowler1 · · Score: 2

    I hate how the phrase, 'Teach my grandmother to suck eggs', which doesn't try and belittle either sex has been mutated into mansplaining so it can be used as a political weapon against ~50 % of the human population.

    Guess what, I am a guy and I get people trying to teach my grandmother to suck eggs constantly from both side of the fence, it happens. If I have the time, I just nod my head and make the appropriate noises at the appropriate time and move on with my life. Otherwise, when I realise it is happening, I tell them I have something else I need to do and go.

    It happened to me last week. Bored the hell out of me but I was polite and listened and surprisingly picked up one or two useful tidbits which will help me with the subject at hand in the future. I still found the whole thing frustrating but that's life.

  33. Re:NO, it was not the result of a Reddit witch hun by Hognoxious · · Score: 2

    Because Wired has too many big words.

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  34. Re:I am a game developer. Arenanet made a big mist by Solandri · · Score: 5, Interesting

    The guy (Deroir I think is his name) replied to this with a suggestion so insultingly simple it deserved scorn. He was polite, but it was a REALLY condescending response. Imagine you drive a truck on a really tricky route and write about all the things you contend with. You've been doing this successfully for years. Then someone says, politely, but meaning to educate you, "if you turned the wheel and used the gas at the same time, how about that?" That's a thing deserving only scorn.

    He made the insultingly simple suggestion because ArenaNet wasn't doing it. By your analogy, it's like you've been driving a truck successfully for years while operating the wheel or the gas one at a time, but never at the same time. Then someone suggests why not try using both at the same time.

    The problem the guy was getting at (the dialog choices don't have any consequences in the plot) is much older than MMORPGs and even CRPGs. It existed back in pen-and-paper RPGing. It's called railroading. The GM (or devs) have a set idea for how the plot should progress, and forces your character down that path. Pretty much all computer RPGs do it, with free-form games like Skyrim or Fallout (outside the main plot) being the rare exception. Mainly because it's a helluva lot easier to write one plotline, than to write a choose-your-own-adventure type plotline with multiple branches and possible endings. A proper, respectful reply would've been simply to state that while a branching plotline is desirable, it would require an order of magnitude more resources to produce. And so it becomes an economic choice between players getting only one new branching plotline each year, or multiple linear plotlines throughout the year.

    I discussed RPGs a lot with Raph Koster when he was working on Ultima Online. I threw a lot of suggestions at him, some good, many dumb. I developed a tremendous respect for him because he always responded to my suggestions politely (the dumb ones only needed a short reply to shoot down). He was never insulting, and always provided thought-provoking responses which usually demonstrated why the problem was much deeper than it seemed at first glance. He didn't view dumb suggestions as an insult. He saw them as an opportunity to teach the person making the suggestion, so they themselves could perhaps become better game developers in the future. And that ultimately is what allows our civilization to advance - by helping pull people up to your level if you're clearly higher up. Not by getting offended and trying to tear them down because you think their suggestion is insultingly simple.

  35. Re:she still does not understand why she got fired by goose-incarnated · · Score: 4, Informative

    Ah okay, my bad. She said "manfeels". On her personal Twitter account. After being bothered by numerous people.

    I guess that's a fireable offense at that company. Glad I don't work there, wouldn't want to be walking on eggshells all the time.

    She claimed misogyny where there was none. To be honest I don't want to work in any place where false claims of harassment are honoured.

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  36. Re:she still does not understand why she got fired by TheRaven64 · · Score: 4, Informative

    The link in TFS shows only the first post that she responded to, but from the quoted section someone politely suggested that she was generalising from her personal experience to an entire industry and she then immediately launched a personal attack in response. If you do that in private, you're an asshat. If you do that after publicly associating your online persona with your company, there's grounds for disciplinary action. Worse, her response explicitly drew attention to her link with her employer.

    Twitter makes no difference, if you go around saying 'as an employee of FooCorp, I am an expert in this' via any communication channel, then if you subsequently act in such a way that reflects poorly on FooCorp then you'd expect issues. It isn't private communication when you're broadcasting it in public and using your company's name.

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  37. Private social media accounts by 110010001000 · · Score: 3, Insightful

    "These are our private social media accounts"

    Do Milennials really believe that? They aren't YOUR accounts and they aren't private. They aren't your "space". They are owned by Twitter and their corporate partners. Get off Twitter.

  38. Re:Some people see inexistent hidden meanings? by 110010001000 · · Score: 2

    I wouldn't have hired you either. Why bother explaining "how she could have avoided it in the future"? Just ask for clarification and move on.

  39. Word to the wise by Jerky+McNaughty · · Score: 2

    As an employer, I always do a quick web search for the candidate's name. It almost never produces anything that sways my hiring choice. But, in this case, if I saw the nonsense she posts on twitter, I definitely wouldn't hire her even if she's fantastic at her job. I, and I'm sure many others, try to construct a great team of people who are low ego, accept criticism, and won't create drama. This person, I'm pretty sure, would make a real mess of my team, and a quick web search in the future will tell all potential future employers that.

  40. Reality just bit someone ... by johnlcallaway · · Score: 3, Informative

    "The message is very clear, especially to women at the company," Jessica Price tells the Verge. "If Reddit wants you fired, we'll fire you. The quality of your work doesn't matter."

    The reality has ALWAYS been the quality of your work doesn't matter if you embarrass the company in a public forum or are a total asshat that doesn't work well with others.

    I'm reminded of the quote (I don't know where it came from), don't ask a question unless you want to hear the answer. Or, in this case, don't post something unless you can tolerate the responses.

    Nothing to see here, just another snowflake that can't handle differing opinions and wants to play the victim card to justify their original position and blame others for their inability to play well with others.

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  41. Re:NO, it was not the result of a Reddit witch hun by wisnoskij · · Score: 3, Interesting

    She was a sexist jerk for years before she was ever fired. She was fired because her policy of hatred, anger, and insult slinging finally garnered her a big enough following to potentially affect the profits of the people she worked for.

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  42. Re:NO, it was not the result of a Reddit witch hun by dontbgay · · Score: 5, Insightful

    That's simple. Don't put your employer in your profile and never refer directly to that employer when talking about things at work which bother you. When you list your employer, you're associating yourself with that employer. When you put that you're in an elevated position with that employer, expect to be held accountable. It's the height of ignorance and entitled behavior to think the two are not interrelated

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  43. Re:Some people see inexistent hidden meanings? by Whibla · · Score: 2

    While I sympathise with your plight it sounds like you've had a lesson in how not to respond to someone else's mistake.

    When she sent me the time for our informal interview, she made a mistake with the time zone and proposed me a time 1 hour after what she meant.

    By and large, telling other people what they meant tends to wind them up. Given this, asking them to clarify what they meant, perhaps pointing to the area of confusion, would seem to be a more 'user friendly' option.

    Is this right? Or fair? Is this even the 'best' way of avoiding any recurrence of the mistake? Perhaps not, depending on your context for 'best', but it is what it is...

    Whether you take the lesson on board, however, that's on you!

  44. So make her take a class or two by rsilvergun · · Score: 2

    Reddit definitely did the damage here. I'm nervous about how Mob Rule just got vindicated. I felt the same way when all those Neo Nazi's were being fired from their jobs. Firing people for being jerks doesn't make them less jerks. It cuts them off from their income, the pressure of which is going to make them worse, not better.

    On a side note, she probably can't ignore the comments though. It sounds like she's expected to engage with the community as part of her job. And yes, that means outside of work. Being forced to work off the clock is pretty common in America and it was one of the things she was complaining about in her posts.

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  45. Re:Excellent News!!! by JustNiz · · Score: 2, Informative

    You apparently don't know what a White Knight is.

  46. attitude by nten · · Score: 2

    Damore is a troublemaker, but his writing wasn't actively abusive. It cited journals and drew conclusions in what was obviously a carefully worded communication he knew would be controversial and even hurtful in some cases. In this case the wording is actively abusive, using derogatory terms that play on gender stereotypes. There is a clear difference in attitude and behavior here even if both people are potentially
      sexist. One person walked the line, the other didn't even try to.

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  47. Quality writing, don’t steal by inking · · Score: 2

    Jessica Price tells the Verge. If Reddit wants you fired, well fire you. The quality of your work doesnt matter.

    That is truly insightful coming from an MMORPG character writer, an occupation known for producing quality writing that repeatedly receives not only multiple industry awards, but is up there with the Pulitzers and Nobel laureates for literature.

  48. Foolish management put the company in the news. by Futurepower(R) · · Score: 2

    The underlying issue is that many people in the U.S. have very limited social ability.

    An example: The game development company management did not have the social ability to realize that dealing with this social issue in a foolish way would become widespread news.

    1. Re:Foolish management put the company in the news. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 2, Interesting

      No. The company realized that this was a quick and effective way to get rid of a toxic employee and one of her enablers. The original article indicates that the woman churned out 19 tweets and a simple 3-tweet reply caused her to go ballistic.

  49. Re:NO, it was not the result of a Reddit witch hun by corydoras · · Score: 2

    This is what a reasonable response to Deroir would have looked like.

  50. There absolutely is off the clock by SuperKendall · · Score: 5, Insightful

    The fact is in the Age of Internet Shaming there is no such thing as "off-the-clock"

    It's very easy to have multiple Twitter accounts (or indeed on pretty much any social media platform), where someone has no idea who you you work for in some of them and only knows as much as you care to reveal.

    It would be plenty easy to set up some anon account that argued about game design, where you just let on you worked in the industry.

    But then that would not provide the same level of cache about who you work for, winning arguments by the appealing to authority method...

    You can't have your cake and eat it too. If you want to be off the clock, remove ties to where you work from where you post.

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    1. Re:There absolutely is off the clock by hey! · · Score: 4, Insightful

      You have to be careful enough to avoid leaking enough information for your identity to be crowdsourced by doxxers, which if you want to blog about your profession is extremely difficult.

      But I'm also talking about people who get fired from their work for spouting racist rants that are captured by cell phone cameras and are then identified by rando acquaintences. Now I think accosting someone with a hateful rant is an odious thing, but I'm not sure that it should be a firing offense for someone who is not in a public-facing position like a spokesman or C level executive.

      The basic problem is that is that shame costs $0 to produce, and it rewards bandwagon-jumpers with that little hit of self-righteous pleasure. This makes drawing lines almost futile, because there's an endless supply of outrage and companies will make the simple economic decision that it's easier to get rid of the employee than get rid of the distraction. If you had to spend a little of your own social capital to take someone down, then maybe things would be different.

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  51. She assumes disagreement is chauvinisism by raymorris · · Score: 5, Insightful

    She wrote her thoughts. Someone replied saying what she said is interesting, but on one particular point he disagreed about the relative importance. She went off on her "mansplaining" sexism rant, because they ONLY reason anyone could ever disagree with her on anything would be if they were a sexist pig. Totally impossible for people to have different viewpoints. Disagree with her on just one of her several comments and you're automatically a pig.

  52. PS after 20 years studying my craft by raymorris · · Score: 5, Insightful

    The dev who got fired said it's because she's been doing it a few years that nobody should disagree with her about what makes the most fun game design ("telling my how to do my job").

    I've been doing my job, and actively studying to learn to do it better, for twenty years. I make sure all my code gets peer review, because I'm still not perfect. People can have ideas different from mine, and they might be good ideas. I actively encourage new people to peer review my work, reminding them "you don't have to be more experienced than me, or better than me, to see where I might have made a mistake or where I could do something better". I actively seek opinions from other people and never once have I attributed their opinions to their genitalia.

  53. Re:Yes, "mansplaining" adds information by Oligonicella · · Score: 2

    getting criticism that a man would not have

    You left out "she thinks".

  54. Re:she still does not understand why she got fired by lgw · · Score: 2

    There's clearly more going on here that we in the public don't see, but it's good of ArenaNet to not put up with employees attacking customers. There's too much of that going around right now, and companies that let their people tell customers "we don't want customers like you" in response to complaints are finding themselves hemorrhaging customers. Good to see ArenaNet's smarter than that.

    We do know she publicly celebrated TotalBiscuit's death, so it's a safe bet that she's not nice to be around. And personally attacking critics in your own industry right up there with ranting at customers, in terms of stupidity. (Seriously, what's going on the mind of a game studio manager when he hires someone who has attacked the most popular and influential PC games critic in the world?)

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  55. Re:she still does not understand why she got fired by lgw · · Score: 2

    On her personal Twitter account.

    ArenaNet's social media policy is quite clear that if your social media account isn't anonymous, you're publicly representing the company. Which is appropriate for a game studio, especially an MMO (-ish) given the typical interactions between customers and "devs", with forums deep-diving anything ever said by a dev for clues about game changes.

    She knew she was speaking as an employee of ArenaNet.

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  56. ONE person involved acted stupidly by Uberbah · · Score: 3, Insightful

    You have to go to eighteen levels of straw manning, word twisting mischaracterization to describe Deroir's comments as anything other than polite and constructive.

  57. Agreed by raymorris · · Score: 2, Interesting

    > The left is dividing into a group who is traditionally liberal and favors a diversity of opinions and fairness (and many other left wing policies) and a group who insists on compliance, attacks heretics, and isn't in favor of fairness ("it's okay if innocent men's lives are destroyed")

    Agreed. And one group makes the other look really bad. When leading Democrats like Maxine Waters call for harassing the family members of the president's staff, so "they can't go to a gas station, can't shop, can't go to a restaurant ... absolutely harass them", it makes Democrats look bad. Really bad. Kinda like how Trump makes Republicans look bad when he - well when he acts like Trump.

    When David Souter was nominated to the Supreme Court, the left held protest rallies and all that, pumping up their donors yelling "he'll overturn Roe vs Wade, and probably force states to make abortion illegal". Of course Souter not only upheld Roe v Wade, but generally was more liberal than even Ruth Bader Ginsburg, or Clinton's other pick, Breyer. I wouldn't be too concerned about Roe vs Wade. It's stare decisis, settled law.

    Even in the very unlikely event Roe v Wade was struck down, consider what that would mean. Before Roe, most states allowed abortions. Since then, public opinion has shifted more toward allowing abortion, so absent Roe v Wade likely all states, certainly the vast majority, would allow abortion. A few more conservative states, such as Texas, might require the clinics performing abortions have procedures in place to transfer a patient to a nearby emergency room if complications arise. Texas might ban partial birth abortions, in which the baby's head is crushed as he or she is born. You may agree or disagree with the policies, but the sky isn't actually falling.

  58. Re:she still does not understand why she got fired by Opportunist · · Score: 3, Insightful

    That shit doesn't fly? I say it did, and hit the fan right in the middle.

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  59. Re:she still does not understand why she got fired by Uberbah · · Score: 2

    but the hooligans watching from the sidelines are waving their torches and hooting now, and that's not a good thing.

    No more or less than the people who high-fived when Roseanne was fired.

  60. Re: The managers didn't help create social cohesio by nitehawk214 · · Score: 2

    You got it right. This is a woman that expressed she was glad at the death of Total Biscuit.

    This was just the last straw.

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