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Gamers Aren't (Always) Geeks

wo1verin3 writes "CNN is reporting that not all gamers are the anti-social folk they are hyped to be by parents and the media. Roughly two-thirds of college students play video games, but the image of a nerdy guy who spends all day in a dimly lit room blowing up computer-generated bad guys is off base, according to a new study. Full story here."

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  1. They socialize with other gamers by Mirell · · Score: 3, Funny

    No, they might not spend it alone, but they still only socialize with other gamers in a LAN gaming shop or whatnot. Not saying that all people in a LAN game are anti-social nerds, far from it. But still, just because they get out and socialize with other gamers is not saying much in it of itself.

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    1. Re:They socialize with other gamers by mjmalone · · Score: 4, Informative

      Actually a lot of people I know are occasional gamers. They arent obsessed with them and associate with "normal" people... The problem is when you become addicted and sit in front of your computer all day.

    2. Re:They socialize with other gamers by notque · · Score: 4, Insightful

      "Actually a lot of people I know are occasional gamers. They arent obsessed with them and associate with "normal" people... The problem is when you become addicted and sit in front of your computer all day."

      Every Lan party I've ever been to, an hour into the gaming, even the normal gamers are addicted.

      It is just fun to play a competitive game with friends. Especially when you don't have to run or jump to do so. It's pretend!

      Girls also have a realistic chance to be competitive. Stupid starfall.

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    3. Re:They socialize with other gamers by simong_oz · · Score: 4, Insightful

      ... occasional gamers. They arent obsessed with them and associate with "normal" people...

      Those people are not what I call a "gamer" - they just happen to enjoy spending some time playing computer games, but computer games are not the dominant activity in their lives.

      The problem is when you become addicted and sit in front of your computer all day.

      I'm not sure if that alone is the problem - to me it's more the people who do this to the exclusion of going out and seeing people (non-gamers!) face-to-face in the real world (and I don't mean at LAN parties). I suppose it's like anything that has the potential to be addictive.

      The real difference (and danger I guess) is that it is entirely possible to create another world and not have to interact with anyone through gaming, effectively withdrawing themselves from society - most other activities don't have this "potential".

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    4. Re:They socialize with other gamers by notque · · Score: 4, Insightful

      I'm not sure if that alone is the problem - to me it's more the people who do this to the exclusion of going out and seeing people (non-gamers!) face-to-face in the real world (and I don't mean at LAN parties).

      What is wrong with meeting people at lan parties?!

      Or BBS gatherings. Or Chess clubs. or any other perceived geek gathering place?

      There is nothing wrong with it. You just dismiss it because it isn't the way that you would meet people.

      Science Fiction conventions, and model airplanes, tis the life for I!

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    5. Re:They socialize with other gamers by Old+Uncle+Bill · · Score: 2, Funny

      Uh yeah, especially if they went to a school known for engineering.

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    6. Re:They socialize with other gamers by Dumbush · · Score: 2, Funny

      Hey let's socialize

      A/S/L?

    7. Re:They socialize with other gamers by Austerity+Empowers · · Score: 2, Insightful
      Actually a lot of people I know are occasional gamers. They arent obsessed with them and associate with "normal" people... The problem is when you become addicted and sit in front of your computer all day.

      What's wrong with this? I know, so-called (and self-dubbed) "normal" people who sit around and watch/play sports all day. I know others who go to parties all night long and even if they don't end up stoned or drunk are pretty much useless during the day. What's wrong with planting yourself in front of a game?

      It's wrong when it starts to interfere with your ability to function in society, be it as a student or a member of the workforce. Other than that, who the hell cares.

    8. Re:They socialize with other gamers by Ian+Wolf · · Score: 5, Insightful

      If I enjoy playing golf, am I not a golfer even if I don't play every weekend? Likewise, am I not a paintballer if I don't play every weekend.
      If I am not mistaken this is what adjectives were made for. "Avid Gamer" "Obsessed Gamer" IMHO, the fringe should not define the majority. The CNN story simple states that not all people who play games are anti-social geeks who do not interact with the greater society outside of LAN parties and online chat.

      My clan has an architect who surfs, a storm chaser, a cop who is an angler, a psychiatrist, mothers, fathers, and even a grandfather in addition to the programmers and sysadmins. You don't have to be a full time hermit to be a gamer.

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    9. Re:They socialize with other gamers by Ian+Wolf · · Score: 2, Funny

      I used to love it when my mother would yell at me for spending a couple hours in front of the computer, while she's watching TV.

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    10. Re:They socialize with other gamers by WinDoze · · Score: 2, Funny

      F/17/Your town

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    11. Re:They socialize with other gamers by drinkypoo · · Score: 4, Insightful
      People seem to think that there is something sick and/or sad because you met someone via the computer. They also seem to think it's pathetic when you meet someone because of the computer, IE you meet them online and then after a short time to go see them in person and get to know them in meatspace, not cyberspace.

      I have a number of friends who I occasionally see in the really real world who I talk to online all the time, and who I got to know online before I ever met them. Their behavior online is well-representative of how they act in meatspace, as is mine.

      I met my girlfriend, who is not a computer geek (though she is fairly competent in the use of computers and the internet) through an instant messenger. I love her, and we are very happy together. If that's pathetic, then you can stick your whole social scene up your mainstream ass, America. What am I supposed to be doing, going to church meetin's? Picking up chicks in the produce section, making eyes at her over the broccoli? (I know that's hard to do because the broccoli is usually off against the wall, but please, grant me a measure of suspension of disbelief.)

      One nice thing about the internet is that it's inexpensive. I get enjoyment out of my high-speed internet access every day. I am exposed to people and media that I would otherwise never have had a chance to experience, and it only costs me $720 a year. That's not enough even to take a serious vacation. It doesn't stop me from doing things outside, either, we go camping more or less year round and go on walks and drives and so on, but even if we didn't, what's wrong with that? Some people are simply more comfortable behind their computer, and there's nothing wrong with those people. Well, not all of them, anyway.

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    12. Re:They socialize with other gamers by SaturdayNight · · Score: 2, Interesting

      'Normal Gamers' don't go to Lan parties. I know plenty of 'normal' gamers, well adjusted, fairly into the hobby, and pretty knowledgable and up on the latest stuff, and not one of them would be hard-core enough to go to a LAN party...

    13. Re:They socialize with other gamers by notque · · Score: 2, Funny

      'Normal Gamers' don't go to Lan parties. I know plenty of 'normal' gamers, well adjusted, fairly into the hobby, and pretty knowledgable and up on the latest stuff, and not one of them would be hard-core enough to go to a LAN party...

      Oh I'm sorry, by normal I meant hardcore.

      Not only did I not read the article, I didn't read the title.

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  2. Quite a few gamers in college... by Randolpho · · Score: 4, Interesting

    ... are jocks. It's true. Or at least it was 5 years ago. Not a single one of the guys on the football team didn't have a Playstation or N64.

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    1. Re:Quite a few gamers in college... by garcia · · Score: 2, Informative

      exactly. College football games and NFL were played CONSTANTLY by the members of the football team. I hung out with a few in college and there was always a house full of guys playing PS2 and N64 games.

      I was a Quaker at the time but quickly picked up on Madden. Quake was great but too much garbage was beginning (botting, 12 year olds spamming the messsages, etc). Consoles brought a group of guys together in one location and was quite a bit more fun than sitting in my dorm room huddled over my computer watching a moron axe a lagged player to death.

    2. Re:Quite a few gamers in college... by Transient0 · · Score: 5, Interesting

      It's true. And when I was in university, all my friends who were ravers, punk rockers and football players were seriously into games like starcraft and quake.

      The difference is that, although they played them heavily, none of them would have dreamed of subscribing to a gaming magazine or going to a LAN party or gaming event.

      Point being, the gamers that we tend to call "hard-core" are the ones who look to video games to provide them with a social life or community of friends through things such as mailing lists, on-line forums and even live events. These are the gamers who are almost inevitably "geeks".

      The gamers who are the "cool kids" see gaming as something that they do for fun but which isn't really an important part of their life. They see it this way because they get their social life and sense of community from other things such as sports, fraternities or concerts.

    3. Re:Quite a few gamers in college... by notque · · Score: 4, Funny

      Quite a few gamers in college are jocks. It's true.

      And the only reason we let them play is because we kick their asses.

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    4. Re:Quite a few gamers in college... by lvdrproject · · Score: 3, Insightful

      Er... that may be so, but how many of those jocks had their N64s and PlayStations almost solely for playing racing, sports, and the occasional shooting game? I don't know what the article's talking about, but when i think of "gamer", i think of somebody who plays A LOT of games, and very involving, generally time-consuming games. Like RPG- and CounterStrike-players. Those are the people that "parents" and "the media" are talking about, i think. Not the 3-or-4-hours-a-week kind of gamer. :/

    5. Re:Quite a few gamers in college... by Randolpho · · Score: 3, Interesting

      You may make that distinction (probably because you like to be distinguished ;)), but the world at large does not.

      And these jocks were hardly 3-4 hrs a week. A couple of hours every other day is more in keeping with their schedule.

      Of course... our football team really sucked. Hmm... coincidence?

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    6. Re:Quite a few gamers in college... by jebell · · Score: 5, Funny
      I was a Quaker at the time but quickly picked up on Madden.

      Geez, you people sure do take your games seriously. What was the conversion like? Did you have to be baptized again?

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  3. Yay! by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 2, Funny

    but the image of a nerdy guy who spends all day in a dimly lit room blowing up computer-generated bad guys is off base

    Take THAT, mom! *goes back to GTA:VC in my darkened room

  4. Duke Nukem 4-0 - balder, fatter by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 4, Funny
    Garland, TX

    Looks like middle age hasn't been kind to action hero Duke Nukem. In a prerelease press preview, presented by Joe Siegler, the studly hero is bald with a huge beer-gut. "We wanted to flesh out the character of Duke", Siegler said, "we want to make him more a character that his fans can directly relate to".

    In the new title, Duke is in a custody dispute with his ex-wife. Apparently, since he lost his job, he's in arrears on his child-support payments. When his (alien) wife kidnaps their kids and leaves for her mothers on Vega VII, it's butt-kicking time!

  5. Ouch... by BobRooney · · Score: 2, Insightful

    It pains me that this is news 2X over on slashdot in 2 days. Although it points out that while not all gamers are geeks, many of them ARE or this wouldnt be news. BTW, I'm both a gamer and a geek and proud of being both.

    1. Re:Ouch... by muffen · · Score: 4, Insightful

      BTW, I'm both a gamer and a geek and proud of being both.

      Dude, seriously, there is a limit to everything.
      I like playing games, probably spend an hour a day in average (I sometimes play an entire weekend, bringing up the average quite a bit). However, I am not the least proud of it, nor does it bother me. I do it because I think its fun, and I don't let it become my identity, which it appears is what you have done.

      My opinions anyways...

  6. Newsflash by pubjames · · Score: 4, Funny

    Newsflash: Not all users of pornography are losers who can't get girlfriends!

    Not that I look at porn. I'm not suggesting that. Oh no.

    Even some girls like porn. A girl told me. Well, a friend who knows a girl told me.

    1. Re:Newsflash by SlayerofGods · · Score: 2, Funny

      Actually I read somewhere that women actualy buy more porn then men(cause I guess we down load it all) I would give you a link but its hard to google "women and porn" with out over 1 million porn site links.

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  7. whatever by claude_juan · · Score: 3, Interesting

    bullcaca!

    yes there are lots of non geeks who play video games. but all the people who i know who are "gamers" do spend their days in dimly lit rooms, not showering, and eating crap all day.

    the non geeks play gran turismo for an hour or so while chilling with a few friends on a lazy day. don't deny the existance of geeky gamers. they created the stereotype because of the truth.

  8. Comparison study... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 2, Interesting

    I'd like to see a comparison study of gamers vs. non gamers from the same demographic. Included would be what thier GPA is/was, how far their career has progressed, amount of income, etc... My experience is anedoctal, but in virtually all cases, non-gamers seem to do better then gamers.

  9. Hmmm by Matey-O · · Score: 4, Interesting

    So Pale Nerdy folks _aren't_ responsible for all the NHL, NFL, Baseball, and NBA games sold each year? (Which HAS to be a racket bigger than Quicken [current year]/TurboTax [current year])

    And here I thought they were just playing out their latent desire to be coordinated.

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  10. Uh oh... by chrisgeleven · · Score: 2, Funny

    ...guess I should go outside for the first time in my 21 years of life

  11. Obvious by Timesprout · · Score: 4, Funny

    but the image of a nerdy guy who spends all day in a dimly lit room blowing up computer-generated bad guys is off base

    We all know daytime is for posting on /. and downloading pr0n and the odd bit of coding. All night should be spent in a dimly it room blowing up computer-generated bad guys

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  12. Yes, we believe you, mass-media by Lieutenant_Dan · · Score: 4, Insightful

    Articles such as these, just make me mad. Why do people have to conform in society in order to be accepted? Why can't we leverage from richness in variety within our organizational fabric in order to attain greater heights intellectually?

    Different points of view are important for progress in technology and science. It's absolutely vital that we continue to nourish the development of the nerdy kid in the dimly lit basement playing Star Wars galaxies. It's more valuable to have him focus on this activity than to obtain social skills that will just hamper him in the pursuit of his research once he completes his post-graduate degree.

    I say, bring back the pale geek! Cherish him! Protect him! Buy him the latest Everquest expansion pack! But do not send him out in the wild where he, God forbid, has to interact with other people. They're are a precious resource and should be treated as such.

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  13. And this is news? by PincheGab · · Score: 4, Insightful
    Wouldn't you think this is the case if there are waaaay more games sold than there are nerds?

    Yes people: Even beautiful girls play Wolfenstein!

  14. Re:Also on the BBC... by WIAKywbfatw · · Score: 2, Informative

    Doh! I mean here.

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  15. crazy by Boromir+son+of+Faram · · Score: 2, Insightful

    What exactly is the point of this story? Not all alcoholics beat their wives, but that doesn't mean we should give people cart blanch to get drunk.

    It's obvious and scientifically verified that those who play video games are far more likely than their non-gaming piers to avoid social interaction, do poorly in school, resort to violent behavior, and lead unhealthy lifestyles (leading to problems like obesity and depression later in life).

    This study shows that there exists a glimmer of hope for chronic gamers, which is good. However, spinning it as if it makes gaming healthy is irresponsible, and indicates a bias on Slashdot's part.

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  16. So this "girl" I met in EverQuest... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 4, Funny

    could actually be a 100% real female in real life?!

    groovy.

  17. More Info by fobbman · · Score: 4, Informative

    More info on this topic can be seen here.

    In other news, it has been determined that not all of the editors at Slashdot post dupes.

  18. platform, genre, etc... by thoolihan · · Score: 4, Insightful

    I think it still depends on how you do your gaming. Non-geeks are way more likely to be into console games than PC.

    Also, the genres of games being made show that it's not just for geeks anymore. A lot more sports games, GTA3, etc.

    I think the tendency for FPS and RolePlaying games to be online first, still shows the PC is home of the geek gamers (leading tech edge).
    -t

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  19. Re:and like - shock horror... by op51n · · Score: 5, Funny

    New discovery: not all stereotypes are valid!

  20. ...but there's still hope! by Tackhead · · Score: 4, Funny
    > [...] not all gamers are the anti-social folk they are hyped to be by parents and the media. [ ... ] the image of a nerdy guy who spends all day in a dimly lit room blowing up computer-generated bad guys is off base, according to a new study.

    But there's still hope! And you - yes, YOU - can make a difference!

    Clearly, we've been slacking off. This article is a clarion call for all us nerdy guys who do spend all day in dimly lit rooms blowing up computer-generated bad guys, to stop reading this and get the hell back to those pimp gaming rigs we spent hours casemodding, and get back to what's important in life: fragging n00b azz!

    We've got an image to uphold, dammit!

  21. Another newsflash: by swordboy · · Score: 5, Funny

    Not all netadmin's are geeks either. Some of them are MCSEs.

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  22. Re:Not all good news. From the article: by garcia · · Score: 4, Insightful

    I consider that bullshit.

    It's either they were talking to the wrong people or the wrong people were responding to the survey.

    I was a "gamer" since the C64 days. I was not allowed to have a console machine when I was younger (parents told me I had a computer and it played games, that was that... fair enough). I got hooked on Quake1CTF in my freshman year of college... I still went out w/my friends drinking, I was an active D1 athlete, and I was dating. I had several friends that I played CTF with that were exactly the same.

    I figure that they interviewed Internet junkies or the "typical gamer" which is not interesting to the opposite sex.

    I want better information on the type of individuals interviewed before we start jumping to conclusions.

  23. So... by TamMan2000 · · Score: 4, Insightful

    they still only socialize with other gamers

    Excuse me, but what is your point? Golfers hang out with other golfers, quilters hang out with other quilters, runners hang out with other runners...

    Anyone with a hobby, likely socializes with others who have the same hobby.

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  24. Whatever. by notque · · Score: 2, Insightful

    wo1verin3 writes "CNN is reporting that not all Slashdot readers are the anti-social folk they are hyped to be by parents and the media. Roughly two-thirds of college students play video games, but the image of a nerdy guy who spends all day in a dimly lit room blowing up computer-generated bad guys is off base, according to a new study. Full story here."

    Every lan party I have ever been to has been anti-social folk. That is why we are at a lan party, and not out drinking, and sleeping with the opposite sex.

    Nerdy guys, and Nerdy girls shooting each other, and vying for mines.

    Since we've grown up, we are more attractive, hold better jobs, drive nicer cars, etc.

    But we are still all a mangled verison of that.

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  25. Re:Not all good news. From the article: by gowen · · Score: 2, Informative
    It's either they were talking to the wrong people or the wrong people were responding to the survey
    Or that PhysicsGenius, a long term troll, simply made this up to entrap people who make knee jerk assessments but haven't read the article.

    This means you.
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  26. This BETTER not surprise anyone by chia_monkey · · Score: 4, Interesting

    Oh come on...this better not come as a surprise. Has the media really warped everyone's minds enough to have us all believe the only people that play games are geeks? Since the dawn of time, games were fun. My parents used to play the Atari 2600 (Mmm...remember Yar's Revenge?) with me all the time. And they are far from being geeks. And my grandmother was addicted to Burger Time on Intellivision.

    I think the perception is that when you walk by the computer cluster at school, you see the kids playing Netrek and go "games are for geeks" and then you step outside and see the "jocks" playing football. What you DON'T see is everyone grabbing a beer and blowing each other up at Halo or Twisted Metal. In fact, I can think of more metal-heads and punks playing games than geeks...

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    1. Re:This BETTER not surprise anyone by Moraelin · · Score: 2, Insightful

      Well, when people don't understand something and/or it deviates from what they've been taught as the Proper Way (TM), they'll either:

      A) be against it and claim it's dangerous ("it's turning kids into mass murderer snipers!")

      B) find some way to make it sound like an insult (e.g., "it's only for geek who have no life")

      C) both the above.

      It's not even just about games. Just about anything reasonably new and even slightly different has went through the same things.

      Mozart's music was called decadent at the time. Just like rock, metal, punk, rap, and just about every other music genre were called in this century.

      Einstein's theory of relativity was called "bolshevik". (Just to show that scientists are _not_ always smarter than to act that way.)

      Basically the whole gaming hype is nothing new. It's just the current step in this neverending chain of new stuff, and of angry self-righteous respectable parents and citizens being against it. But it's not the last. There'll be another such hype after it.

      Basically people don't like changes. They don't like learning to understand and deal with new stuff.

      It's been like this always. I bet that at the dawn of time, some cavemen were discussing about how this new "fire" thing is just for geeks and turning kids into bad members of the tribe. And then it probably was about how wearing sabertooth tiger skins instead of the traditional wolf skins is decadent, immoral, and turning kids into dangerous maniacs. And then it was about how this "wheel" thing is for nerds without a life, and turning kids into dangerous criminals. And so on, and so forth.

      So what else is new?

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  27. Pr0n is a multi-billion dollar industry by xtal · · Score: 3, Insightful

    ..that doesn't exist, and produces product nobody consumes.

    hahahaha!

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  28. The "surprise" is that CNN is surprised... by tibike77 · · Score: 5, Interesting

    CNN has "Surprising findings about video game players"

    Well, if you are a 40+ year old person who uses the computer only to play Solitaire and solve spreadsheets, yes, that could be surprising (the fact that most computer players are NOT geeks or recluses).
    This should however come as a natural for everybody who maybe learned to type sooner than (s)he could handwrite...

    The "game world" is just an extension of the real world, with several advantages (interaction possibilities, a huge potential community, somebody "available" to talk to at any given time) and disadvantages (Life is like a box of chocolates, you never know what you're gonna' get (F.Gump) - never know who will be or how will be the next person you encounter and interact with).
    I hope I don't need to remind anybody that information can be both a curse or a blessing, and that's what you get when you're "on-line-gaming" - sometimes too much information... It's up to you to deal with it.

    In conclusion: everybody's playing, has played or will be playing...something... sooner or later. There are no limits to the categories that will play computer games.
    So, stop acting surprised :)
    On-line games are all about interaction and socual aspects, how do you expect to find somebody else playing it?
    I mean, you wouldn't expect to find nuns playing American football, but you would definetely expect mathematicians playing chess...

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    1. Re:The "surprise" is that CNN is surprised... by TopShelf · · Score: 2, Insightful

      No kidding - a few months ago, the Economist had an article (premium content, can't find it right now) about how the videogame industry had surpassed Hollywood in terms of annual sales. Somebody other than the pencil-necked geeks (RIP, Fred Blassie) has to be buying, then!

      Bottom line, this is just another slow media day filler - why else would an article like this get posted? I'm sure the next story will be something insightful like, "economic status found to correlate with computer use/internet access."

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  29. Re:Missed the point. by urbazewski · · Score: 2, Informative
    most interesting point of the article, IMHO:

    Of those surveyed, 60 percent of women said they played online and computer software-based games, compared with 40 percent of men. About the same number of men and women said they played video games on PlayStation, Xbox and other systems.

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  30. Oh, great... by halivar · · Score: 3, Funny

    ...now I'm not even cool compared to other gamers.

    Thanks Slashdot, you ruined my day.

  31. Creeping Doom by mobileskimo · · Score: 3, Interesting

    IMHO I believe everyone is attacking the wrong side of the problem. Social issues are just budding only recently. Why is this? Gamings been around for a while. It hasn't been common widespread until the last 5 years. And now its about to explode. What is going on here? Much of it has to do with the fact that these games are now Internet Multiplayer.

    [1] Internet has made the gaming activity less non-social over conventional games from past. I guess this is good atleast people are interacting with others instead of just "the machine"
    [2] It has also made gaming more anti-social by reducing accountability through anonymous screen names and providing a means to act out fantasy irresponsibilities. ie. killing, stealing, maiming, torturing among other players. This is bad. Even if we understand this is fantasy, are we letting the dark side enjoy too much time out of its box? Nobody would call you deranged if you pulled the wings off a fly. Do it all day and I'd say its getting to you.
    [2] It has made the activity more addicting due to the unpredictable nature of other player interactions, almost replacing social real life interaction.

    So now they are spending the time socializing in virtual environments, when they could be with their next door neighboor in the vacinity of moms, dads, other kids, older, younger, shop owners, policemen, firefighters, accounts, doctors, garbage collectors, and any other people that might be wandering as they ride on their bike down their street.

    My point being our children are growing up spending a good chunk of time in an environment where consequences are not real. And please nothing about "They know the difference between real and games". Judgement be what it is, behavior is learned. Especially when its repetitive. Everyday. For 3-5 hours a day.

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  32. I disagree. by pecosdave · · Score: 2, Informative

    In my findings, at least in the tech field, hardcore gamers tend to fair better than non gamers. Hardcore gamers tend to know something about hardware and how to get the most out of it. Even when it's not strictly hardware, the hardcore gamers I've known have known enough to fix a multitude of network and other issues. You can't overclock and case mod sucessfully if you don't know your hardware.

    That was the tech field. In other fields I find that casual gamers fair better in many cases than non-gamers or hardcore gamers (yes, hardcore gamers have their place). Face it. Gaming requires large amounts of abstract, or at least alternative thinking. I've found myself implementing the types of strategies I've used in video games to organize my work habbits. Item placements, order of operations, that sort of thing, all honed from video games. Hardcore gamers in other-than computer fields can do well, but based on what I've seen they don't work in other fields, and when they do it's usually flipping burgers or something until they can get another techie job.

    I don't think I've worked with a single person on a job simular basis who wasn't at least a casual gamer since I've been in the tech field. I've only seen non-gamers in other fields, usually the ones that hired me to take care of their computers.

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  33. Anti-social is bad? by Austerity+Empowers · · Score: 5, Interesting

    There are a few meanings of the word "anti-social", everything from mass murdering rapists and software pirates, to people who prefer their own company. I will accept that the mass murdering rapist type definition of anti-social as being bad, but this does not appear to be the topic of the article. For the purpose of this post, consider anti-social to mean someone who prefers their own company.

    What I do not understand is why people who prefer their own company are considered somehow "broken". I do not know of any facet of human physiology which REQUIRES other human contact beyond a base desire to procreate. Why is there such a bad connotation to being anti-social?

    Society itself does not need a hive mind. In fact, I would argue just as strongly that it is dangerous, irresponsible and something we all should actively try to prevent in our children. The world needs independent thinkers, people who think outside the box and come up with original solutions. People who don't let the hive mind dictate their response. Somehow I see from high school that civics classes about the glory of democracy has led people to a very wrong conclusion: that the majority is always right. That's such a horribly incorrect thought that is so pervasive (esp in MTV pop-culture) that it makes me want to lock myself in a room and slay myself with a BFG-10k.

    I am hard pressed to come up with any thing the hive MIND has produced that has either been correct or somehow useful. The hive mind has historically resulted in: slavery, bigotry, religion (in the "belief in unfounded/unproven philosophy in the face of contrary evidence" sense), senseless wars, mass murder, and most horribly reality television. Let's face it, "society" is valuable only as a workforce commodity. When it comes to thinking, we're better off with Forrest Gump than any 10 people.

    Why is it that those who choose to not "join in" are persecuted? I contribute to the whole, and I make it possible for us all to walk forward. I do so just as much as the next guy. I am not taking anything away by not talking to you. Even if I firmly believe that you are all incredibly stupid and not worth my time, I'm not really hurting you am I? As long as I do my job & earn my keep, I have fulfilled my obligation to others. Leave us alone.

    1. Re:Anti-social is bad? by dtfarmer · · Score: 2, Insightful

      I think you have hit the nail on the head - and I agree with you in so many ways. I keep wondering why everyone makes this association between games causing people to be anti-social, when that isn't it at all - in fact, I think it's exactly the opposite. Games are an outlet and are chosen by people who are inherently anti-social. Games are also played by social people as well, just as reading, watching tv and many other activities are enjoyed by social and anti-social people alike.

      I am fairly anti-social, so I choose to game, read, watch tv/movies, etc to pass time - these things did not make me anti-social. I do socialize, but it often seems a chore, so I generally do not enjoy it - and I don't imagine the people I talk to do either - except those few who I have a connection with where conversation doesn't seem like a chore at all.

      There is nothing wrong with being anti-social.

  34. Far from it. by mantera · · Score: 3, Interesting

    Ironically, I introduced my senior at work, who is more than twice my age and approaching retirement, to PDAs and he reintroduced me to video games. After less than six months working together he bought a handheld and i bought a PS2. Erik Erikson, the Einstein of psychosocial stuff, had a book with the title of "Play". In that book he mentions a follow-up to a study of some children, whom when interviewed decades later were found that those of them who managed to retain a playful attitude to the world had the most satisfying lives.

  35. I'll be the first to admit this... by Rahga · · Score: 2, Insightful

    Yeah, CS _was_ a rather addictive fad. I wish I could regret the fact that I dedicated at least an hour per day (for several months) playing it.

    However, something good did come from it. Once you decide to stop playing CS, you honestly don't miss the crappy game, and it makes it so much easier to swear off video game addictions completely, and simply feel content with gaming only in moderation.

    I just feel sorry for those of ya'll still addicted to Everquest. Unlike Half-Life (cs), that game really is junk.

  36. But they are missing out on a different childhood. by adzoox · · Score: 2, Interesting
    I played Intellivision a lot as kid. I also played Tetris on my gameboy in high school. However, I didn't have a budget for games. I never bought them. I depended on my parents to buy them or exchange games with friends.

    The next door neighbor boy spends his average summer day inside about 4 hours playing video games. He also spends a substantial amount of his allowance and money I give him to wash my car on video games. To top it off, he spends a good portion of his time thinking about video games, talking about video games, and buying/trying out video games.

    In my day, we would blow an allowance in an arcade, but it just seems kids spend a lot more money and invest a lot more time into them nowadays.

    In part, I think it accounts for the decline in event sales. (Termed Arena events) Kids just aren't interested as much in live action / interaction anymore. This contrasts to my childhood where going to play a video game was just that, GOING to play. Video arcades at least allowed interactions, walking, standing, and well... an event. What is eventfull about sitting on your bed?

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  37. I think a faith based initiative is really needed by Adam+Rightmann · · Score: 3, Funny
    I see all these geeky, undersocialized young men, afraid of the opposite sex, and only able to relate to other people through obscure, intellectualized, estoreric knowledge, and I say to myself, these boys would do very well in a seminary.

    It's a shame that priestly vocations have been so vilified, when many of these young "geeks" might thrive in an intellectual, all male, celibate atmosphere. I know I do my part, whenever I hear of a "LAND" party near my parish, I stop by with flyers advertising the local Mass. Sometimes I even bring in a young priest who "cut his teeth" on games like Asteroids or Space Invaders, who can better relate to these gamers.

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  38. Duh... by m0nkeyb0y · · Score: 2, Interesting

    Being a college student, and having spent two years in dorm life, I can tell you it's a rarity not to see a came console in most people's rooms, be they jock, geek, or otherwise. The most commonly played titles are sports games, mostly Madden 200X and NBA games. Bond and Mario Kart were the N64 games. Fighters are popular, but you only really saw various iterations of Mortal Kombat. I never really saw any of the female population playing console games, but quite a few enjoyed PC games like The Sims, Rollercoaster Tycoon, and simple puzzle games like Snood (which tookover everyone's life during exam week).

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  39. Living Proof by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 3, Interesting

    If you walk into my room you'll find monitors, cases and parts all over. I don't know a single person at my school who knows half as much about video games as I do.

    Meanwhile, I was the president of my junior class, and during my relationship with a very *hot* and certainly not geeky girlfriend, I had to be pretty damn careful because other girls seemed to be trying to ruin our relationship (but don't we all *think* that). All this, and the only nights I spend out are with my girlfriend and with my silicon friends. And yes, I have plenty of other friends, otherwise I wouldn't have gotten where I am now.

    I've seen plenty of people balance these out. And I'm not including the people with an xbox and an n64, I'm talking about the kids who brag about their graphics cards. I admit the two conflict. During my relationship I came to a point where I decided, "You know what, I haven't been playing enough video games" and so I would stay up a couple of hours later after spending the night with her. Certainly there are the couple that feel awkward away from the flickering screen, but I've known that's a horrible generality for years

  40. Gamers aren't geeks by Seft · · Score: 2, Insightful

    Almost everyone at my college plays counterstrike. I suppose that as soon as it reaches a certain penetration, it becomes a social norm.

  41. Re:Not all good news. From the article: by mr_luc · · Score: 5, Interesting

    The geek/gamer revolution is really incredible, and an insane (probably not isolated) case of what happens when teen gamers grow up can be found in the evolution of the (recently troubled! hosting issues) tribalwar.com forum community.

    This largely teen/early twenties group of gamers started off like any other gaming community, but they just blasted off from there. The LAN's these guys have organized have had 200-300 attendees, and they ALL KNOW EACH OTHER! Some of these kids are growing up, getting good jobs, and they're all helping each other out, staying in touch. They go out for a night of clubbing in New York -- and they bring their digital cameras to document it, and they post their pictures on the forums for others to live vicarously through them. "Pics or it didn't happen" has become a mantra there.

    They help each other find apartments, sometimes even jobs, they room together, and they have LAN's whenever the urge arises.

    An interesting example: one member of the TW community grew up and joined the Navy. With all of the money he's been saving, he was able to buy a beachfront house and property in the Florida Keys, all while being a 'internet geek'. He grew up, got responsible, and has more girls than he can handle (pics or it didn't happen) -- and he's a gamer geek. He's on the forums, he's playing the games. And he opened his house to ANYONE in the game community that could make it down to Florida, for a massive "Beach Party Extravaganza".

    From the 35-year-old dude who wielded a claymore as UVALAN's "Security guard" (CF I think), to the people that proudly post pictures of their brand new BMW's, houses, chic 4-star restaurants, and children -- this is a community with a great proportion of thriving, economically stable, responsible people, who also happen to be part of a massive gaming subculture.

    At what point do these people stop being "geeks"? At what point does the gaming "subculture" stop being "sub"?

  42. Only surprising to the ignorant! by D_Fresh · · Score: 4, Insightful
    I wrote my entire Masters thesis (for an IT degree) based on a comment my professor made in class one day. He's about my age (30-ish) and an avid gamer, and one day he sheepishly admitted to the class that he still played computer and video games. Of course, so do I - but neither of us truly fit the stereotype of the socially maladept high-school or college loser male (both married, successful careers, homeowners, active social lives, etc.). I got to thinking about how outdated the gamer stereotype is, and how my prof shouldn't have to feel silly or immature when he plays games. Eventually, I wrote a broader thesis about the cultural of digital gaming and how it's evolved from a niche culture to something that pervades nearly every medium, but the core impulse was based on my intuition that the public perception of the gamer was not only an overgeneralization (to be expected from most stereotypes) but also outdated and quite harmful.

    Which is why it (mildly) bugged me that the headlines for this study's results said something like "Surprising Facts About Gamers." Why should this be surprising? It's only those who never lost their narrow view of what these games are about and who plays them who are surprised - anyone who plays the games, reads about them, or looks at the people in EB could tell you that there's no one subculture surrounding them. Yes, perhaps the hardcore gamer still mostly fits the picture, but why should the extreme examples define the majority? With games moving into the mainstream in a huge way, it's damaging to the industry's and the individual gamer's image to allow these ignorant stereotypes to be perpetuated.

    Just my $.02 + karma bonus. Now I'll be thinking about Jedi Knight II all day until I can get home and play it...

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  43. Pictured Above, Right: Not a Geek by autosentry · · Score: 3, Insightful

    Is this some kind of perverse Onion article gone legit? Maybe CNN could do a "Not All Old People are Angry Can-Wielding Geezers" article and see how well that goes over with the mass audience. Grr.

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  44. Female Character Problems by carambola5 · · Score: 3, Insightful
    She hopes to become a character designer for a video game company and is convinced that even more women would play video games if there were more characters geared toward them.


    This is something that has bothered me...well, barely bothered me, but bothered nonetheless. Why is it that almost every female video game character is, in some way, a sex object? I'd be perfectly content with playing a game that had, as a main character, a female that didn't have a rack bigger than her head. Tomb Raider immediately comes to mind.

    OK, maybe a sorceress in Diablo qualifies, but you hardly get a good view of the character... Blizzard can afford to make the character unattractive because she's too small to matter. Seriously, when was the last time you played a game that had a male main character that, in another situation (ie: not shooting at bad guys), would be a sex object?
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  45. and not all non-geeks party by SolemnDragon · · Score: 2, Interesting
    stereotyping is bad. Oh, wait, that's a generalisation- generalisations are- oh, wait... darn. Never mind that, i'm going in cirles...

    Stereotypes are there because they are perceived, whether the perceptions are actually accurate is another question. I'm the chick who hides in the kitchen at parties, (first grab at food and the company of those creative enough to be putting things together and not just consuming the results.)Not all non-geeks are living it up. They have hobbies, too, they have everyday obsessions. I've asked.

    I'm not really a geek. Do i have an active social life? Yes, although it probably isn't 'active' in the college coed sense. Do i game? yes, occasionally, although see above re: college coed. I'm just not as into the social games, EITHER kind, and it would never occur to me to pay for an online group game. My point is that i agree with Saige: 'social' needs to be a little more clearly defined here. (i can hear bill watterson of Calvin and Hobbes fame... 'Define "well adjusted."')

    For me, a lot of my social does get done online. Group conversations (not random chatrooms), posting boards, things like that, because that's where my mobility lies. I do get out, i do meet people, but i don't go to bars and clubs like my work peers do. I do have an S/O and we did meet in a bookstore. (A science fiction bookstore. Technically, right outside a science fiction bookstore.)

    I think we had this discussion somewhere about the stereotype against girls playing pinball, too. There are girls who hide in basements reading comic books and playing computer games and there are some of them who are fantastic and some of them who aren't. Not all girl geeks are alike, either. Stereotypes by nature only describe a spectrum, not an individual (that's a generalisation again. *sigh*) Adding 'girl' to a label might shock some people, but it won't shock girls, because we know that we're people, and that we do things. Some girls play football, some girls play rugby (and tend to be even tougher than the girls who play football, in my opinion, and i mean BOTH kinds of football) some girls can sew renaissance costumes and then wear them to beat the tar out of some unfortunate SCAdian, some girls play video games. some do all or none of the above. (My rugby days are over.) The world works that way.

    So i see no reason why the geek world should work any differently, namely why it should consist, well, completely of geeks. There isn't some threshold at which point the robot trundles up and stamps your forehead with the secret seal- (and if it were, i wouldn't tell you what the threshold was it was or what the seal looked like, although i will say that it's only visible by the light of a monitor, a flexible worklamp, or a librarian's special geekreader lenses) so while the rest of the world gasps in shock, the geeks will peacefully keep on with what they were doing. Including the girls.

  46. I have seen... by UrGeek · · Score: 2, Insightful

    ...two anime ("Serial Experiment Lain" and "Legend of Black Heaven") that have scenes were a mother is sitting down and playing a Playstation with her young son. We need more parents actually playing video games with their children, sharing in the experience with them, and offering their point of view. This needs to be done the very first day that a game console is brought into the home. It needs to be done at least once a week or so. You must engage yourself in your child's life in order to know them.

    I have seen far too many people using a game console as a surrogate babysitter and never, ever playing with their children. These people are irresponsible parents. There are far too many.

  47. Re:and like - shock horror... by Pionar · · Score: 2, Insightful

    Everyone who uses stereotypes are racist, bigoted, neo-Nazis!

    (If you don't get the irony, go back to school.)

  48. I thought... by peterprior · · Score: 2, Insightful

    but the image of a nerdy guy who spends all day in a dimly lit room blowing up computer-generated bad guys is off base

    I heard the Oval Office is very well lit, and the computer-generated "bad guys" are now so realistic its hard to tell the difference between them and real people.

    *rimshot*

  49. Think about this... by SunPin · · Score: 4, Insightful
    ...all of them had the hand eye coordination of Ray Charles.

    Why are you knocking Ray Charles? The man plays piano without his eyes. You probably can't play piano with your overrated hand-eye coordination. I'm certain that if there was a way to convert different areas of a game screen into audio, he'd kick your ass at hockey.

    Since you are severely analogy-challenged, perhaps you should stick to simpler language like, "all of them have poor hand-eye coordination."

    But this is /.--a place where some geeks act out on their desire to be cool.

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  50. Re:and like - shock horror... by Lemmy+Caution · · Score: 3, Informative

    Ironically, that was sarcasm.

  51. Re:Consoles == Masturbation by FunkSoulBrother · · Score: 3, Interesting

    having played much counterstrike, I feel qualified to say that CounterStrike does not require (Nor does the counterstrike community possess) more braincells than a console game.

    Thats a ridiculous distinction.

    Sure, the highest end computer wargames are more complex than the highest end console games, but the popular games on both are at the same level.

    Its not 1989 anymore, PC games are no longer aimed at sn audience that is comprised of well educated programmers.

  52. Once met a chick from a MUD... by Magus311X · · Score: 2, Interesting

    I've played a MUD (GemStone III) for about 8 years.

    About two years in a met a girl and hung around with her in game, and after 4 or so years, she decided that we should meet and hang out for the week, despite about a 1500-mile distance issue. She was a pretty hardcore player. Definitely consumed 15-20 hours a week of her time (I played about 10-15 in comparison).

    Well, went to T.F. Green in Providence to pick her up. Just waiting around... holding up a sign with her last name on it. Then all of a sudden some attractive, blonde, Britney Spears lookalike comes up to me and hugs me shouting "Rob" quite happily.

    Yeah, I'd say that the stereotype is pretty off-base! ;)

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  53. and the poll goes like this? by pimpinmonk · · Score: 2, Funny

    Do you play videogames?

    1. Yes
    2. No

    Are you a big huge dork?

    1. Yes
    2. No

    C'mon, how valid do you think this survey is?