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The Shady Business Practices of Classmates.com

eldavojohn writes ""Some of your classmates are trying to contact you!" reads one e-mail. Attempts to remove yourself from the mailing list may only result in more mailings from the site of ill repute. Well, Ars Techica brings us news of a suit against Classmates.com. You don't need to look far for anti-classmates.com sentiment spreading like wild fire across the tubes." Good next target: ads that say "you've already won" some expensive toy.

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  1. Damn by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 5, Funny

    "Some of your classmates are trying to contact you!"

    Does this mean they aren't? I'll just lay down and cry!

    1. Re:Damn by Iphtashu+Fitz · · Score: 0

      I guess you weren't as popular as you thought you were.

    2. Re:Damn by Andr+T. · · Score: 5, Funny

      My self-esteem has been low since I received an e-mail saying a hot girl would send me pics and all I got was a computer trojan.

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    3. Re:Damn by morgan_greywolf · · Score: 2, Funny

      Tom? Is that you? We've been looking for you over on Classmates!

      Well, okay, not really. But does it make you feel any better?

    4. Re:Damn by Ethanol-fueled · · Score: 5, Insightful

      Your self-esteem should be low if you paid money to use Classmates.com as it does what MySpace and FaceBook do for free.

      Classmates did come out before MySpace and FaceBook but they made a mistake in trying to get money out of their customers before they had a reasonable userbase. They could have started out a completely free service(by completely, I mean allowed all features for free and not have to pay to contact people like dating sites...and even dating sites allow you to see somebody's complete profile without charging!) and then charged small fees as necessary.

      I can't stand when Classmates sends me mails telling me how many people viewed my profile, only to find that it was only a ruse to get me to build a profile in the first place! Reminds me of trillian when I always had annoying AOL or Yahoo(can't remember which) mail notifications which served no purpose but to nag me into signing up for the respective mail service.

    5. Re:Damn by beadfulthings · · Score: 4, Funny

      Don't worry. They (the classmates) probably just want to collect the money you owed them when you finished school.

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    6. Re:Damn by duguk · · Score: 1

      FriendsReunited tried to do a similar thing (without the spamming or heavy advertising) - charging for sending messages. They've now been bought up by ITV (a UK television company), and I presume they're not doing so badly, but clearly not as well as facebook.

      They do still send out emails far too often that aren't anything to do with what schools or colleges you've been to though. I don't think companies like this will make their money through customers for contacting other users. People will always find a way around it.

    7. Re:Damn by Jason+Levine · · Score: 5, Interesting

      I can't stand when Classmates sends me mails telling me how many people viewed my profile

      I kept getting messages from Classmates.com telling me that former classmates of mine sent me messages. Of course, you can only view those messages if you pay Classmates.com. I knew this was a scam, but decided on a test. I altered my profile (first time I did that since setting it up years back) to include my e-mail address and a short message: "I don't read messages posted here. If you want to contact me, e-mail me at USERNAME at DOMAIN dot COM." (That e-mail address gets enough spam that I didn't mind exposing it like that.)

      I keep getting "people" leaving me messages on Classmates.com and no real classmates have sent messages to my e-mail address. My theory is that these "messages" are:

      1. Nonexistent with the e-mails serving only to goad people to pay for their "premium" service.

      2. From Classmates.com itself or some third party company trying to get me to buy stuff from them.

      3. From an actual classmate who is such a huge idiot that he/she doesn't know how to read in which case why would I want to pay money to contact them back?

      Classmates.com is nothing but one huge scam.

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    8. Re:Damn by STrinity · · Score: 1

      Your self-esteem should be low if you paid money to use Classmates.com as it does what MySpace and FaceBook do for free.

      Not quite. MySpace and Facebook exist so you can keep in touch with your friends from high school and college. Classmates.com exists so your entire graduating class can keep in touch and organize reunions. The fact that Classmates.com charges crazy amounts of money for this little service is outrageous, but it's not the same service as other social networks.

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    9. Re:Damn by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 3, Funny

      I got the same message and I was home schooled.....and an only child.

    10. Re:Damn by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      > Classmates.com exists so your entire graduating class can keep in touch and organize reunions. That claim falls apart on the assumption that your entire graduating class is going to join Classmates.com!

    11. Re:Damn by Sentry21 · · Score: 3, Funny

      You have to open the trojan to see the pics! Duh!

    12. Re:Damn by Porchroof · · Score: 1

      Mails?

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    13. Re:Damn by Slooze · · Score: 1

      "Some of your classmates are trying to contact you!"

      Does this mean they aren't? I'll just lay down and cry!

      Since you went to such a crummy school (it's lie down), probably no one is trying to contact you.

    14. Re:Damn by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      My self-esteem has been low since I received an e-mail saying a hot girl would send me pics and all I got was a computer trojan.

      Dear Person, Hello. I am a Nigerian Princess that has been trying to get my family's fortune out of Nigeria. I am a very hot girl and I will reward you for helping me. All I need to do is borrow a few hundred thousand dollars to get my ill parents out of my home country. Our family fortune is sewn into the lining of their clothes. I will pay you back, big boy-- I mean kind sir.

    15. Re:Damn by xycadium · · Score: 1

      I first got a classmates account about nine or ten years ago. Back then, it was cheap (no more than twenty for a year) and they typically had promos that were even cheaper. Now a days, I wouldn't dare pay the price they charge. I always get promo deal emails from them for being a previous gold member which typically offer 20% off, but even then it's too much. I recently got duped into buying an account from reunion.com! I wasn't happy about that one but knew if I tried to get a refund, they'd just laugh at me. All these types of websites have turned evil.

    16. Re:Damn by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Reminds me of trillian

      Tricia McMillan to you!

  2. Google FTW by networkBoy · · Score: 1, Informative

    Fortunately my Gmail spam filter hides these e-mails for me.
    -ML

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    1. Re:Google FTW by Spazztastic · · Score: 1

      Fortunately my Gmail spam filter hides these e-mails for me. -ML

      Except you see the stupid advertisements all the time. Thank Firefox for Adblock+ and NoScript.

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    2. Re:Google FTW by networkBoy · · Score: 2, Informative

      ?!?
      What advertisements? Seriously, haven't seen one.
      Sometimes I forget what I'm not missing with FF ABP and NS installed.
      -nB

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    3. Re:Google FTW by MBGMorden · · Score: 2, Interesting

      Luckily my ISP subcontracted their normal email out to Google, so while I don't have the Gmail domain name on those accounts, I get the Gmail interface with no ads displayed. Best of both worlds.

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    4. Re:Google FTW by naetuir · · Score: 1

      Advertisements only exist if you make them out to be a huge issue.. Or if you have a ridiculously small screen resolution (like.. 800x600).

      I've used gmail since 2003, and I barely even notice the ads. Once in a GREAT while I even see something worth clicking on (and do!). Ads are not necessarily evil things. Particularly the targeted kind (though I find the whole privacy issue kind of...iffy). They're irritating when they take up your entire screen. The old Web1/90's banners were hideous, yes.

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    5. Re:Google FTW by windsurfer619 · · Score: 2, Insightful

      Ssshhh stop telling everyone. If everyone started using adblock, I'd have to start paying for Slashdot.

  3. Never got anything from them by Iphtashu+Fitz · · Score: 4, Insightful

    And they'll never get anything from me. Hell, if I wanted to (not that I do) I could simply go to the website of the college I graduated from and look up the contact information of other alumni who have registered there. Some universities, like Harvard, offer lifetime e-mail addresses, etc. for alumni. There's a whole post.harvard.edu domain just for alumni there. Even my high school keeps track of alumni and has mailing lists, etc. available. I've never gotten spammed by classmates.com and I wouldn't bother visiting if I did. I'll just go straight to my schools websites.

    1. Re:Never got anything from them by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      It's true, I've never once seen a banner ad saying "You've already won!"

      On the contrary, it's usually "You've already won*!" or "You've already* won!" or sometimes "You've* already won!"

    2. Re:Never got anything from them by LandDolphin · · Score: 1

      Their service is not for people with the knowledge, and intelligence, to do it themselves. It's for the people who would have no clue on how to find someone they lost contact with. There happens to be a lot more people like that then like you in the world.

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    3. Re:Never got anything from them by dgatwood · · Score: 5, Funny

      Or worse....

      You've already won!(tm)

      And then in the fine print:

      Note: "You've already won!" is a trademark of [insert company name here] and is not meant to state or imply that the reader has, in fact, won anything. More to the point, the mere fact that you clicked on this guarantees that you cannot possibly have won because you are a loser.

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    4. Re:Never got anything from them by i+love+pineapples · · Score: 1

      Lucky you. Neither my crappy uni nor my hick high school has alumni lists. Well, I am sure the uni does, as they manage to send me letters begging for money once a month, but none of that info is available to me.

      I've managed to find my old friends on facebook and linkedin; hopefully none of those sites become as shady as classmates have become, though facebook is starting to get there.

    5. Re:Never got anything from them by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Hey, NYU isn't crappy :)

    6. Re:Never got anything from them by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      And they'll never get anything from me. Hell, if I wanted to (not that I do) I could simply go to the website of the college I graduated from and look up the contact information of other alumni who have registered there. Some universities, like Harvard-cock, offer lifetime e-mail addresses, etc. for alumni. There's a whole post.harvard-cock.edu domain just for alumni there. Even my high school keeps track of alumni and has mailing lists, etc. available. I've never gotten spammed by classmates.com and I wouldn't bother visiting if I did. I'll just go straight to my schools websites.

  4. Already illegal by wealthychef · · Score: 1, Interesting
    Good next target: ads that say "you've already won" some expensive toy.

    I'm sure this is already illegal. I've never seen such an ad. Perhaps you are thinking "you may already have won," but I don't see why that should be illegal.

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    1. Re:Already illegal by ZekoMal · · Score: 2, Informative

      I've never seen such an ad.

      I have; usually reads something like "Congratulations! You have won a ps3! Click here to claim it*" Or some such. Never received an e-mail stating this, but I've seen plenty of pop-ups and ads embedded in sites with this.

    2. Re:Already illegal by neoform · · Score: 3, Interesting

      Perhaps you are thinking "you may already have won," but I don't see why that should be illegal.

      Because it's misleading and the actual probability of having won is statistically insignificant? Why not have a banner ad that says "You might be able to play the piano with your feet!", cause then, by some fluke chance it might be true..? In the end, it's lying, plain and simple.

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    3. Re:Already illegal by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0, Troll

      Sounds like you don't understand the meanings of the words "may" or "might".

    4. Re:Already illegal by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      "Congratulations. You've been selected to receive a new Nintendo Wii. All you need to do is fill out a brief survey. So what are you waiting for? Fill out a survey today, and once again, congratulations."

      I recently switched from Firefox 3 (with Adblock Plus and NoScript) to WebKit for a very welcome speed boost. Unfortunately, the above ad (rather my attempt at transcribing the damn thing from my mind), spoken aloud, is now my biggest problem on certain websites that link to some great TV shows.

      Find them. Destroy them.

      Subpoena them with: "You have no chance to survive make your time."

    5. Re:Already illegal by Haoie · · Score: 1

      Not just prizes, but also those ads claiming you've won cash.

      Then you find out it's not real money, you need to sign up to some stupid offer, and your 'money' can only be redeemed for some inane clutter.

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    6. Re:Already illegal by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      That's funny, I've never seen ads on EZTV.

    7. Re:Already illegal by evilphish_mi · · Score: 1

      Sad thing is a large portion of my user base is stupid enough to reply to those messages.

    8. Re:Already illegal by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I'm still waking up, I guess, as I thought you wrote "Why not have a bumper sticker that says 'You might be able to play the piano with your feet!'" and imagined drivers seeing said sticker and putting their feet on their dashboard to mime piano playing, at which point hilarity ensues.

    9. Re:Already illegal by Gr8Apes · · Score: 0

      You should just run with NoScript. AdBlock appears to have a significant performance hit of late. Guess the black list is getting long....

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    10. Re:Already illegal by ZekoMal · · Score: 0, Troll

      Your user base? Sad thing is, a large portion of people have an ego when they have no reason to have one.

    11. Re:Already illegal by Zenaku · · Score: 4, Insightful

      Feeding the Anonymous troll, but. . .

      Putting "may" or "might" in there doesn't make it any less false. It is simply not true that you may have already won. There is ZERO chance that you have already won. It would be accurate to say "You may win, just as soon as you click here," no matter how slim the chance is, but you absolutely have not "already won" if you haven't clicked on the banner yet.

      Unless you seriously believe that they have created their list of winners beforehand, and just need your information to check against this established list.

      And if you believe that. . . well, um. . . Good! Because you may already have won the Zenaku Cash Prize for Exceptional Cleverness! Just give me your real name, social security number, date and place of birth, and the middle names of your parents and grandparents so I can open the top secret "Envelope of Winners" and see if YOUR name is inside!

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    12. Re:Already illegal by andymadigan · · Score: 1

      The blacklist for NoScript must be pretty long too, seeing as they seem to have an update every time I restart firefox, and of course that (they believe) requires them to open their home page in my browser. How difficult can what NoScript does possibly be? Is it really needed that they open their home page on every update?

      Note: I know that NoScript doesn't use a blacklist, but as a developer it doesn't make any sense to me that they have so many updates, nor does it make sense that they have to open their home page.

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    13. Re:Already illegal by alanshot · · Score: 5, Informative

      "I've never seen such an ad"

      how about the "you're the site's 2,000,000th visitor. click here for your prize!" banner ads? Funny thing... several of these sites I have been the 2 millionth visitor every time I visit for the past month, and no matter which computer or internet connection I use I still am the 2M'th visiitor.

      I especially like seeing the ads for dating sites where they stole users profile pictures to use them as examples of who is in your area that "wants to meet you". Funny thing; I travel alot on business. There is one very memorable user picture that I have seen "in my area" as I surf from hotels all over the eastern half of the country, every time she is in my city. At least some of those sites have started putting disclaimers of "photos are for illustrative purposes only" in fine print. Better but still not good.

      This reminds me of one of the dating sites where a whistleblower came out a while back telling the story of how they were instructed by management to watch for expiring accounts, and when someone appeared ready to drop off the system they would send an email from a bogus user account feigning interest in the member. This would prompt the member to renew for fear of losing contact with this possible newfound love. Once the account was renewed the customer service person would stop corresponding with the person because the bait was taken and they had their money.

      And I too have received those classmates emails. too bad I was a social outcast for the most part and those I see with classmates accounts generally I dont care about (and they probably dont remember me anyway). Luckilly I am smart enough to know better so I just ignore them.

        Besides, now that I think back, I remember being a gold member and getting "you have a new message" email from the system and not finding anything in my inbox. I cant remember what the help desk's response was, or if there even was one when I asked about it.

    14. Re:Already illegal by daremonai · · Score: 5, Funny
      There is one very memorable user picture that I have seen "in my area" as I surf from hotels all over the eastern half of the country, every time she is in my city.

      Dude, she's following you! Either get her phone number, or get a restraining order.

    15. Re:Already illegal by AmberBlackCat · · Score: 3, Funny

      You can have even more fun if you get both...

    16. Re:Already illegal by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I suspect that it is their way to remind you they exist. I found it extremely annoying.

    17. Re:Already illegal by spiralx · · Score: 1

      There's an advert on Facebook I keep seeing which is using the picture of a particular porn star whose work I'm aware of... I'm fairly sure she doesn't live in my area :)

    18. Re:Already illegal by V+for+Vendetta · · Score: 1

      [...] nor does it make sense that they have to open their home page.

      Here's your solution to that:

      about:config -> noscript.firstRunRedirection:false

      (Courtesy of a yesterday's ./ comment)

  5. Why use that? by Drakin020 · · Score: 1, Insightful

    Why use Classmates.com when you have Myspace.com or Facebook.com

    Seems to be the best way (For me at least) to stay in touch with old High School pals.

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    1. Re:Why use that? by Onaga · · Score: 5, Funny

      Because they don't care about you. They are looking for the 10 year old alumni from psychology browsing some employment site for the 3000th time that gets a big ad in her face talking about classmates. She hopes to reunite with her undergrad sweetheart hoping he's made something of his life and will take her out of her life of futility.

      Well, no, bitch. I'm through with you. Mark might have been better looking and knew how to talk and stuff being a communications major, but who's laughing now? Me! Hah! hahahaha...

    2. Re:Why use that? by MightyYar · · Score: 4, Interesting

      I signed up a long time ago, before myspace or facebook existed. It's a totally worthless site.

      I've done my part to screw with their business model... they let you post a picture, and my "picture" is a gif of my email address. :)

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    3. Re:Why use that? by Mr.+Underbridge · · Score: 4, Insightful

      Why use Classmates.com when you have Myspace.com or Facebook.com?

      Many of us who are 30+ associate those sites with the "OMG PONIES!" crowd. I'm sure that's probably changing as their userbase ages, but that's first impressions for you. If anybody my age had a myspace page, my first reaction would be that he's a total loser or way too interested in teenagers to be healthy.

    4. Re:Why use that? by morgan_greywolf · · Score: 5, Funny

      You're not bitter at all are you?

    5. Re:Why use that? by jonnythan · · Score: 4, Informative

      That's true for MySpace, but not for Facebook. Sounds like you're basing your opinion on Facebook on MySpace.

      Go check out Facebook. You might be surprised. Virtually everyone I know with a computer uses Facebook - more than half of my friends on FB are over 25.

    6. Re:Why use that? by thegnu · · Score: 1

      Yeah, but Timothy Schnell wants to get in touch with you!

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    7. Re:Why use that? by genner · · Score: 2, Funny

      That's true for MySpace, but not for Facebook. Sounds like you're basing your opinion on Facebook on MySpace.

      Go check out Facebook. You might be surprised. Virtually everyone I know with a computer uses Facebook - more than half of my friends on FB are over 25.

      Agreed facebook is laregly poney free.

    8. Re:Why use that? by Mr.+Underbridge · · Score: 1

      Go check out Facebook. You might be surprised. Virtually everyone I know with a computer uses Facebook - more than half of my friends on FB are over 25.

      Odd, I don't think any of my friends 30+ use facebook. I remember I was a few years out of college when it became popular, so I didn't get into it. But maybe that's just me and my friends.

      I do agree that I'd think a lot less of someone my age using myspace than facebook. Of course, my nieces who are in college now use myspace, with no stigma attached.

      I think the site going after people roughly my age is LinkedIn, though of course that's more of a professional nature. I get those invitations quite a bit, so I joined that one.

    9. Re:Why use that? by Reality+Master+101 · · Score: 1

      Why use Classmates.com when you have Myspace.com or Facebook.com [...] Seems to be the best way (For me at least) to stay in touch with old High School pals.

      If you've graduated in the last five years or so, then this is probably reasonable. But very few people over the age of 30 (if not 25) use Myspace or Facebook. Those sites are oriented toward young single people with enough idle time to do that sort of thing.

      I've connected with a couple of people through classmates.com. They're obnoxious, but they do provide a useful service on occasion.

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    10. Re:Why use that? by JLDohm · · Score: 1

      Facebook definitely started as a college thing...mostly a place to post drunk pics of yourself...but then they opened it up, and my mom joined. Facebook has gone straight.

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    11. Re:Why use that? by An+ominous+Cow+art · · Score: 1

      I feel about the same way about Myface/Spacebook :-). I do have an account with one of them, I forget which, because a friend invited me to take a look at some pictures she had posted and I couldn't see them without an account.

      I have used Classmates to get in touch with a couple of people I lost track of 20+ years ago. I don't think I ever gave any money to the site. I do occasionally get the email that "Someone has looked at your profile!!!1111", but I ignore it for the most part. If someone had sent me a message through the site, the email would say so, and I'd be interested in seeing it.

    12. Re:Why use that? by InlawBiker · · Score: 1

      I was going to say the same thing. Classmates has been around for a long time and frankly the ship they missed is larger than an aircraft carrier.

      Rather than open up a community with free communication, they did what amounts to holding a list of email addresses hostage and trying to charge a monthly fee to access it. Then they bombarded us with spam to sell it.

      The people as Classmates.com should be gazing longingly at the pile of cash Facebook & Myspace have acquired in 1/4th the time.

    13. Re:Why use that? by AuMatar · · Score: 1

      Funny, I'm in the computer industry and I don't know anyone who uses Facebook- except my younger sister and her friends who are part of the ponies crowd. It may be more popular than it was, but I'd be shocked if more than 5% of the over 30 crowd used it. The only social networking stuff that they seem to use is LinkedIn, and that's for pretty specialized purposes.

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    14. Re:Why use that? by LandDolphin · · Score: 1

      When MySpace started out, you had to be over the age of 18 to sign up (or lie about your age). So, there is a good portion of people on MySpace that were there before the teen revolution.

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    15. Re:Why use that? by AndrewNeo · · Score: 2, Interesting

      Except for all these 'Ride a pony!' apps requests my friends keep sending me..

    16. Re:Why use that? by Gr8Apes · · Score: 1

      Or Doostang now. Seems LinkedIn is getting too many unwashed masses in there and not enough "professionals".

      And isn't MySpace just the place that's going to kill music distributors once and for all? (with some OMG PONIES hung on the side?)

      FaceBook is seriously for those ~23-28 that opened accounts and got hooked while in college and those that try to take advantage of them. No one else uses it.

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    17. Re:Why use that? by Jaysyn · · Score: 1

      Is this a regional thing? The only person that I've ever met that had a Facebook page was a guy (fresh out of highschool) that I was working with in Maryland 2 years ago. None of my friends or co-workers in Florida use Facebook to my knowledge, but my 10 year class reunion was basically organized via MySpace.

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    18. Re:Why use that? by Jaysyn · · Score: 3, Interesting

      MySpace does the exact same thing but for free. In my opinion Classmates is a scam. I signed up, paid for 3 months, decided I didn't need it & canceled my account. 2 months after the original 3 months were over those fuckers were still billing my account. Even though I a.) didn't sign up for any kind of auto-renewal to start with & b.) canceled my pay account.

      Fuck Classmates. I hope a lawyer jumps into their collective asses with both feet.

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    19. Re:Why use that? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Pedophile!

    20. Re:Why use that? by caymanbum · · Score: 1

      Jennifier? Is that you?

    21. Re:Why use that? by negRo_slim · · Score: 2, Interesting

      Except for all these 'Ride a pony!' apps requests my friends keep sending me..

      We can stop dancing around the obvious... Facebook/Myspace=GeoCities

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    22. Re:Why use that? by negRo_slim · · Score: 1

      If you've graduated in the last five years or so, then this is probably reasonable. But very few people over the age of 30 (if not 25) use Myspace or Facebook. Those sites are oriented toward young single people with enough idle time to do that sort of thing.

      I know plenty of people over 30 on MySpace... Most 25+/-, same as me... but as for the time comment, I would say anyone with the time to fill out an online order form would have enough time for a social networking site. Once the profile is established it's really no more time consuming then adding a couple extra clicks to get to the equivalent of e-mail.

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    23. Re:Why use that? by genner · · Score: 5, Insightful

      Except for all these 'Ride a pony!' apps requests my friends keep sending me..

      We can stop dancing around the obvious... Facebook/Myspace=GeoCities

      Close....the real formula is Facebook/Myspace=GeoCities/AngelFire

    24. Re:Why use that? by maxume · · Score: 1

      Perhaps it is a social network thing; people who interact in the real world with several people who have an account on a particular site are a lot more likely to setup an account.

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    25. Re:Why use that? by Culture20 · · Score: 1

      70% of my friends on FB are over 27. I'm pretty sure the average age in my list is 30-31

    26. Re:Why use that? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      OMG P0NIES!!!

    27. Re:Why use that? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1, Insightful

      That's true for MySpace, but not for Facebook. Sounds like you're basing your opinion on Facebook on MySpace.

      Go check out Facebook. You might be surprised. Virtually everyone I know with a computer uses Facebook - more than half of my friends on FB are over 25.

      Except Facebook is increasingly turning into MySpace these days.

    28. Re:Why use that? by vux984 · · Score: 1, Interesting

      Go check out Facebook. You might be surprised.

      Check what out? There is nothing to see unless you sign up. So you are basically saying: "Go join facebook to decide whether you want to join facebook."??

      You are right, I am surprised. Surprised by the level of idiocy.

      Why exactly should I have to join facebook to see the information facebook users have made 'public', anyway?

      Virtually everyone I know with a computer uses Facebook

      Of course they do. Because its like a contagious disease. If one friend starts putting crap on a website (remember geocities or angelfire or even myspace?) it was fine, because anyone he wanted could see it. They didn't ALL need to go get geocities accounts first?

      But with facebook you DO. If you don't sign up, they can't see what the pictures or whatever that their friends/family actually want them to see. My father has a facebook account simply because my sister was too stupid to understand that everyone she wanted to see them would need a facebook account. And it was simpler for my father to join facebook, than to successfully explain to her why it was stupid. Once half your friends on the thing it becomes hard to communicate with them off of it... they keep droning on about how they've put such and such on facebook... the address to the party, the schedule for the soccer league, their baby pics... you get excluded... its like being the only person without an email address.

      Except with email you can pick your provider. So you can find one with Terms of Service you actually agree to... or even run your own.

      So far I don't have a facebook account, and I have no desire to get one. I don't remotely agree to their terms of service. I'm sure sooner or later some fucktard is going to put something up on facebook that I truly do need to see, and getting them to publish the information in an actually appropriate manner will be futile, and at that point facebook will get me too... but I've got my fingers crossed they'll die off and be replaced by the next social-idiots-fad before it happens.

    29. Re:Why use that? by gatesvp · · Score: 1

      As a guy who spends 20+ hours / week on Facebook (it's my job (no I'm not kidding))... Facebook and MySpace are very different.

      My friends and family are mostly regular Facebook users (yes that includes 50-year old aunts and uncles). Facebook has a 35-40% penetration in Canada, they didn't get there without having a few people over 35 :)

    30. Re:Why use that? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I'm too old for Facebook and MySpace. I like to meet my friends in person. :D

    31. Re:Why use that? by knarfling · · Score: 1

      Yes and it was amazing how many 87 year old grandmas from Florida (according to their MySpace profile) were attending a junior high school in my home town in Arizona.

      Don't get me wrong. I am not claiming that there were a lot of liars on MySpace. I was just amazed that the jr. high allowed so many out of town grandmas to sign up and attend.

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    32. Re:Why use that? by drpt · · Score: 1

      I don't have any friends

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    33. Re:Why use that? by Dachannien · · Score: 1

      They're not exactly equal. On GeoCities, everybody had a hideously god-awful web page because so few people had any talent in web design. But on MySpace, having a hideously god-awful website is you're supposed to do.

    34. Re:Why use that? by Red+Flayer · · Score: 3, Funny

      Close....the real formula is Facebook/Myspace=GeoCities/AngelFire

      Fatal error: divide by zero.

      The real formula is Facebook/|ln(Myspace)| == something somewhat useful over an absolute log of shit.

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    35. Re:Why use that? by kencf0618 · · Score: 1

      Thanks to LibraryThing my old high school girlfriend and I have been back in touch for a couple of years, and it's quite pleasant for what it is. We're middle-aged; we have lives.

    36. Re:Why use that? by genner · · Score: 2, Insightful

      How in the world did I get modded insightful for that.

    37. Re:Why use that? by coolsnowmen · · Score: 1

      There are always going to be regional trends. As any social site will have to spread by word of mouth and the internet.

      I read an analysis relating areas where college is expected vs. areas where HS reunions are all-the-rage that you might be interested in.

      I *think* this is it:
      http://www.danah.org/papers/essays/ClassDivisions.html

    38. Re:Why use that? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      OMG! The proper use of "you're" !!

    39. Re:Why use that? by cpicon92 · · Score: 0

      great, now other annoying websites can send you spam

    40. Re:Why use that? by MightyYar · · Score: 1

      Only if they are combing classmates.com for the like 3 people that have used this trick. I don't think an image of my email address is much of a risk.

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    41. Re:Why use that? by Jaysyn · · Score: 1

      That article makes sense but doesn't exactly hold true for my friends list. I've got burn outs, holy-rollers, atheistic geeks & college grads up to & including doctorates. Every single one is a personal friend, no bands or any of that other crap.

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    42. Re:Why use that? by ultranova · · Score: 1

      I know plenty of people over 30 on MySpace... Most 25+/-, same as me...

      Yes, most people are indeed either over or under 25 years old. Even more shockingly, most people who are over 30 are also over 25. I think you're on to something here, and should get a federal research grant or approach venture capitalists to further research these amazing phenomenoms :).

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    43. Re:Why use that? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Hey! I'm something somewhat useful over an absolute log of shit (at least when I'm on the toilet), you insensitive clod!

  6. Class Action.... Hopefully the law suit will by davidsyes · · Score: 0

    OUTCLASS classmates.com. "F" them...

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  7. Case in point by Sockatume · · Score: 0, Offtopic

    Flash banner instructs me that I should go to specsavers. I did, in fact, go to specsavers several years ago, where I purchased the spectacles I now look through, if not the actual lenses.

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  8. Lower internet prices... by ohxten · · Score: 0, Offtopic

    Maybe Comcast will start charging less now for their internet if Classmates.com goes out of business, what with the huge decrease in used bandwidth thanks to the absence of these God-forsaken ads.

    Oh, nevermind, we're talking about Comcast here.

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  9. Unilateral Action: Denied. by CorporateSuit · · Score: 1

    When I see "One of your classmates wants to contact you!" I just say to myself "If they're someone I wanted to keep contact with, they would know how to get ahold of me."

    I also get a lot of those Crushmail...

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    1. Re:Unilateral Action: Denied. by Lobster+Quadrille · · Score: 1

      This is my line of thinking as well- I've lost touch with most of my old friends, and frankly, I don't really miss them.

      The ones I do want to talk to... well, I have enough google-fu to hunt them down if I want to see them. If they can't do the same, it's not a big deal to me.

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  10. Accountability? by CopaceticOpus · · Score: 4, Insightful

    The sad thing is how surprising it is to see classmates.com being taken to task. I've reached the point where I hear of an organization sending unsolicited lies to people in order to trick them and flood them with advertising, and I think nothing of it. It's the way he world works - but maybe it doesn't have to be the way the world works.

    1. Re:Accountability? by stewbacca · · Score: 1

      It's worse than just trying to get ad dollars out of you...they actually are trying to get you to "upgrade" your service for a fee. Hmmm..sounds a lot like freecreditreport.com

    2. Re:Accountability? by aztektum · · Score: 1

      Snake oil salesmen have been around for a long time. The only difference between those selling vials of "cure alls" and todays swindlers is that it's a lot easier to hit up millions of people with a few keystrokes and hope just a few take the bait.

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  11. classmates service that people would pay for by jollyreaper · · Score: 4, Funny

    "Which one of your former classmates is doing hardcore pr0n now? Find out!"

    Reminds me of that 4chan motivational poster, I think they called it "expectations," showing the yearbook photo of a girl and her "what I want to be when I grow up" quote with a close-up of her a few years later taking a facial on some gonzo pr0n shoot. Funny in a "yikes, not really" sort of way.

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    1. Re:classmates service that people would pay for by turtledawn · · Score: 1

      I know at least one of my classmates is getting close- she was on Flava of Love last year, and seems to be milking it for all she's worth. Funny how if you implied she was anything but lily-white back in school, she'd try to kill you but she's working it now.

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    2. Re:classmates service that people would pay for by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 5, Funny

      I laughed at your post, then thought, "you know, I really would pay for that."

    3. Re:classmates service that people would pay for by 192939495969798999 · · Score: 1

      My blood runs cold, my memory has just been sold, My angel is a centerfold!

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    4. Re:classmates service that people would pay for by dkleinsc · · Score: 1

      My blood runs cold,
      my memory has just been sold,
      My angel is a centerfold!
      I'm a complete slave to
      Burma Shave

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    5. Re:classmates service that people would pay for by Lobster+Quadrille · · Score: 1

      I'll bet it's Sandra. She always acted like she wasn't white trash, but we all knew better.

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    6. Re:classmates service that people would pay for by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

      I remember that picture. It was horribly saddening

    7. Re:classmates service that people would pay for by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      "A Lawyer or a Computer Engineer" :[

  12. on the other hand... by conspirator57 · · Score: 5, Funny

    i still owe three or four of them money...

    classmates.com aren't a collection agency for them...

    guess it's not that bad.

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    1. Re:on the other hand... by Larryish · · Score: 1

      Oh, snap.

      I rolled a buddy's truck shortly after high school and didn't pay for it.

      The classmates.com people don't have names like "Tony" or "Vinny", do they?

    2. Re:on the other hand... by conspirator57 · · Score: 2, Funny

      "Oh, snap."

      Hope that was the saying, not the sound of Vinnie breaking your leg.

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    3. Re:on the other hand... by Larryish · · Score: 1

      Oh, snap!

  13. Excellent! by swordgeek · · Score: 5, Insightful

    OK, bla bla bla, social networking, bla. Classmates.com, facebook, myspace, and everything else like it exist for two purposes: Selling advertising, and collecting aggregate data. We all know this. All pretense of "keeping in touch" is nothing more than the carrot to collect your information. No big deal, although it does bear repeating now and then.

    However, the people behind classmates.com have gone one step farther--they're actively lying to get people to (a) sign up, and (b) pay for a "premium" membership. This is absolutely clear fraud on their part, and I hope they get kicked to the curb for it. Being a sleazy company operating within the law just wasn't enough for them.

    Hopefully "eCrush" is next. The fact that they keep getting in trouble and keep popping back up with the same crap is reason enough to throw them in jail.

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    1. Re:Excellent! by jellomizer · · Score: 3, Insightful

      Well they make their money selling advertising and collecting data for marketing information. That isn't necessarily bad as they offer a service that people actually like, and means if you are going to get advertising you will probably see more that is based on what you are interested in and less in the random stuff. However you must realize these services will not be around unless they know of a way to use it to maintain revenue. Not that being said. Trying to trick people into paying for a service is wrong. Yes it works but good business is to make people want to on their own free will happy to pay for the service. Not try to trick them into it.

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    2. Re:Excellent! by qoncept · · Score: 1

      "Selling advertising, and collecting aggregate data ..."
      "Being a sleazy company operating within the law just wasn't enough for them."

      I don't disagree with anything you said, but I think calling the main premise of these sites sleazy reaches a bit far. That's pretty much the reason 90% of profitable websites exist (with the caveat "profitable" because it excludes 99% of websites that don't matter). In the end, the point is turning a profit, whether by offering a free service with the above annoyances or charging for the service (often with the same annoyances).

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    3. Re:Excellent! by bmajik · · Score: 2, Interesting

      IIRC, classmates.com bought-out highschoolalumni.com. The former was a 100% free site and I encouraged a few of my highschool classmates to settle on "that one" as the place to go to try and stay in touch. (I used to run a majordomo of people I went to school with, but that got unweildy and fizzled out)

      It was really damn frustrating to have all of this data entry we did end up being locked away in someone else's pay-ware database after the fact.

      I have basically eschewed all social networking sites since that time. I'm not interested in investing anything into it, only to have someone else try and figure out how to monetize my effort. Usually by spamming me.

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    4. Re:Excellent! by swordgeek · · Score: 1

      It's a tough call. My "sleaze" threshold is very low, and gets lower as I get older. 25 years ago (ugh, when did I get so old?) I predicted that western-style capitalism and democracy as practiced in the late 20th century would eventually collapse or be replaced by something else, as every political and economic system before them had. Now I'm starting to think I'll see it happen in my lifetime, and while it won't be comfortable, I'll welcome the change on some level.

      However, here's why I call the various social websites sleazy: They do their utmost to distract you from their purpose, and make you believe that they exist for your benefit. The idea with some (i.e. facebook) that it's "free" is misleading; and the idea that you get the benefit from it is downright disingenious. They don't say, "we provide this service by selling aggregated information to our clients" (which may or may not be sleazy in and of itself), but rather say "free free free! Sign up now, don't forget your birthdate and annual gross income."

      That's sleazy, in my mind. Being aware of it, you can make your own choices--but trying to keep people from being aware of it is sleazy.

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    5. Re:Excellent! by qoncept · · Score: 1
      Who knows if anyone will ever read this, but here goes. I agree that they are sleazy, but I don't really agree with how you're saying it. I think providing a service free of charge to people while making money off advertising that isn't so thick that it ruins (yeah, subjective) the experience is just fine. Even a bit of data aggregation is alright. That's the way of the internet.

      What's sleazy is how Facebook (I'm not as familiar with myspace) and its apps spread this data. Hundreds of completely worthless facebook "apps". Want to take an IQ test? It'll let you get all the way through the test, THEN tell you you have to give your friends' names to see the results. Why? No good reason. Should they have told you ahead of time? Of course. Is it worth it? I don't even think it's worth the time to click, let alone give the information up. But facebook has the benefit of millions of kids with absolutely nothing better to do.

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    6. Re:Excellent! by ultranova · · Score: 2, Interesting

      That isn't necessarily bad as they offer a service that people actually like, and means if you are going to get advertising you will probably see more that is based on what you are interested in and less in the random stuff.

      Which is a bad thing because it is harder to resist an advert for something you're interested in than for random stuff. "Targeted advertizing" is another way of saying "hit the weak spot for massive damage".

      The most common portrayal of the Devil in folk tales is as a salesman, trying to get people to buy something. The difference between modern day salesmen is that in those stories, the Devil usually delivered on his end of the bargain. That's something for all the "marketers" to thing about.

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  14. I need to adjust my attitude. by BuhDuh · · Score: 1

    Damn! Wish I had thought of it. As a baby-boomer who only emigrated to the U.S. in 2001, I thought it hilarious when I got these emails, Guess us Brits are just not litigious enough.

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    1. Re:I need to adjust my attitude. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Correct term would be 'immigrated to the US'. You could have 'emigrated from Britain'.

    2. Re:I need to adjust my attitude. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Dude, you're correcting him? He's from Britain, the mecca of grammar-nazis. He probably did it on purpose.
      Wait, I get it! You replied to your own post as AC. Absolutely bloody brilliant!

      Or then again, maybe I'm actually BuhDuh - and you've all just fallen into my ultimate grammatical web of extrodinary paradoxical rationale, with verbose nomenclature and Ewan McGregor's tale of a goat...
      Ha, victory for Britain!

  15. Doesn't surprise me by Mike+Rice · · Score: 2, Informative

    Quite some time ago I browsed the site, and found contacts there to several long-lost friends and acquaintances.

    In order to contact them cold, I had to buy a membership, which I did (yeah, my stupid).

    Of course having signed up and provided my email address, I was immediately inundated with hundreds of unsolicited offers for 'penis growth factor' and get rich quick schemes & etc... along with many messages which claimed an old buddy was trying to contact me, and all I need to do was buy a membership (which I already had).

    I never heard back from anyone I tried to contact through Classmates.
    And I never heard from anyone else who tried to contact me through Classmates.

    After a while I wrote it off as a learning experience. Doesn't surprise me at all to see the organization is being slammed and sued... just another on-line shyster.

    1. Re:Doesn't surprise me by v1 · · Score: 1

      I run my own mailserver, and I make up unique email addresses (aliases to my main address) for pretty much everything. So when I get a spam, I can identify where it got loose. I've gotten spam from some amazing places. Ford and NewEgg are the big two so far. Ford from what I can tell got me bagged by the "have dealers in your area contact you" with at least one of the dealers' PCs owned.

      As for NewEgg, a quick google search shows this is a widespread problem, so I assume one of NewEgg's machines (in ordering or shipping etc) is compromised.

      So I can either just delete the alias, or sit back and see how long it continues. Ford spam took about a month to die out. NewEgg took over three months. Emails and phonecalls to NewEgg and Ford got nowhere, both of them insisted it couldn't have been them, and that they had "never heard of this happening to anyone before". (plausible with Ford, but certainly a brazen lie from NewEgg)

      Anyway, I made an email for classmates.com when I signed up, I was interested in seeing where some of the members of my rather small class were nowadays.

      I have never received spam to the email address I submitted. EVER.

      I do have one minor gripe with them. When I browse and look at a classmate's profile, the web site, without asking me, "signs" their guest book. This triggers them to receive an email at the end of the month to say "xxx people have signed your guest book this month, login to see who". It's honest about what it does, and you can turn off the (on by default) auto sign on visit option. From time to time I get an email indicating someone has signed my guest book. I realize this doesn't mean they signed it, it merely means a registered user looked at my profile. (not even necessarily from my class)

      But I can live with that. Of a class of 143 from '90, we've already lost seven and we're spread pretty thin. I appreciate the opportunity to meet back up with them from time to time. We don't do reunions anymore so this is about it.

      This lawsuit looks like someone that didn't read the fine print and is disappointed with the results. In a way I'm happy in a way about this, because it just might attract enough press to get a few more of my classmates to sign up so I can hook back up with them again.

      There are so many ways to get your name on a spam list. I think these people just don't realize all the things they've done and that several of them have gotten them spammed. I get maybe 1 spam a month if I'm lucky and have a pretty large and well-established internet footprint so I think I know what I'm talking about. My mailserver doesn't run any sophisticated antispam, it's just subscribed to 7 DNSRBL lists, mainly to help the other users of my mailserver.

      On two occasions I've gotten spammed from a friend. I figured out who by examining the headers and finding that I was getting a certain variety of spam and that same mail was also going always to one specific other user of my mailserver. (spam engines that have two email addresses to one server will connect to the server once and cc it to both users, to save bandwidth/increase thruput) So I know that either I got him on the list (unlikely!) or he got me on the list. Turns out he used a friend's PC to email me once... thanks. I've considered handing out individual addresses for my friends to use but so far have not implemented that.

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  16. They are also giving out your credit card... by jarrowwx · · Score: 5, Informative

    We found a bill on our credit card statement from some company. We called them, and they claimed that we signed up through Classmates.com. We never actually received ANYTHING from this company except a charge on our credit card. No emails, no snail mails, no services, nothing. Classmates tried to claim that by clicking some button, my wife was authorizing them to send her credit card information to this 3rd party. Anybody else think that a single-click, deceptively labeled, is adequate for disclosing credit card information? If there IS a class-action lawsuit against them, I want in on it. No joke.

    1. Re:They are also giving out your credit card... by hansamurai · · Score: 4, Informative

      Anybody else think that a single-click, deceptively labeled, is adequate for disclosing credit card information?

      Deceptive and infringing on Amazon's One Click patent!

    2. Re:They are also giving out your credit card... by NewWorldDan · · Score: 1

      Classmates has also billed my credit card without authorization. They still owe me $30. If I ever meet one of the assholes that works there, I'm going to beat that money out of him with a baseball bat.

    3. Re:They are also giving out your credit card... by secretcurse · · Score: 1

      They wouldn't have your credit card number if you didn't give it to them...

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    4. Re:They are also giving out your credit card... by taustin · · Score: 2, Interesting

      If they're doing that sort of thing on a regular basis, disputing the charge is trivial. I had it happen once with a one-time membership fee at a web site that was not only turned in to a recurring membership, but double charged, to boot. I didn't even have to fill out the usual chargeback paperwork when I called my credit card company. It was the usual, skeptical, "Well, let me just pull this up and see what we have" attitude until I told him which charge, and he pulled up the chargeback history on that merchant, and told me "The credit will be on your account by tomorrow."

      From the sounds of it, classmates.com is either in, or rapidly headed to, that category.

    5. Re:They are also giving out your credit card... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      You were stupid enough to give them your credit card number?

      Or they used their magical web 2.0 powers to suck it out of your skull?

      One should be looked into. The other... Not.

    6. Re:They are also giving out your credit card... by AK+Marc · · Score: 1

      If you didn't do a chargeback, then you deserve what you got. One phone call and you'd have your $30. If you are too lazy to do that, but want to spend time ranting about it on the Internet all day long, then you are beyond help.

    7. Re:They are also giving out your credit card... by dedazo · · Score: 1

      How did they get your CC number to begin with? Seems to me there's something more here than "I just clicked on a button".

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    8. Re:They are also giving out your credit card... by Piranhaa · · Score: 1

      Agreed. A similar thing happened to me with GoDaddy. I had purchased a domain for a friend with some type of premium advertising add-on which would flaunt the domain name over the internet. After my friend decided he no longer wanted the domain name, I canceled the auto-renew on it thinking I stopped everything. This was NOT the case. The domain name itself was canceled, however, it still dinged $30 off my credit card for the advertising bit. Why would I want to advertise a domain I'm not getting?? Long story short, I emailed GoDaddy about it, and they refused to refund me because I didn't stop the auto-renewal (even though I clearly did - on the domain). So I called Visa, and said I wouldn't have to pay the charge while they were investigating it. In the end, I was refunded that charge.

      I still go through them for my domain name, since they do have very good pricing, but that experience is going to stick with me for a very, very long time.

    9. Re:They are also giving out your credit card... by Gr8Apes · · Score: 1

      There's this little number on the back of your card. Call it. Dispute the charges.

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    10. Re:They are also giving out your credit card... by Jaysyn · · Score: 1

      I know they are crap & I've had issues with them as well, but how the hell did they get your credit card info?

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    11. Re:They are also giving out your credit card... by stewbacca · · Score: 2, Insightful

      Not saying classmates is right, but had you never given them your credit card number in the first place...

    12. Re:They are also giving out your credit card... by db10 · · Score: 1

      One Click was invented by Shampoo.

    13. Re:They are also giving out your credit card... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Actually, that's not possible. I used to work for them (doing billing) and they don't actually keep your CC#. When you sign up it goes to a 'Trusted' party, and they have to pay fees to charge it for renewals. They don't actually keep it, and can't send it.

    14. Re:They are also giving out your credit card... by squallbsr · · Score: 1

      Defect from godaddy.com, use namecheap.com

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    15. Re:They are also giving out your credit card... by HardCase · · Score: 1

      The settlement for your class-action lawsuit will be $5 million for the attorneys and three free months of upgraded classmates.com for you. Outstanding!

    16. Re:They are also giving out your credit card... by Raenex · · Score: 1

      We found a bill on our credit card statement from some company.

      No doubt this is Webloyalty. What they do is wave a "rebate" coupon of $10 or something in your face, but in the fine print they are actually subscribing you to some worthless "rewards" program for a monthly fee that they hope you won't notice. Pure scam company that partners with a lot of online sites like Classmates.

      If there IS a class-action lawsuit against them, I want in on it. No joke.

      http://www.google.com/search?q=webloyalty+class+action

  17. Social networking, web 2.0 - all crap. by zerofoo · · Score: 0, Troll

    If you need a website to keep in touch with your "friends" you may need to seriously re-evaluate your friendships.

    Nothing can replace real-life dating or drinking a beer and watching a game with your friends. It's also nice to get your kids and your friend's kids playing together in real life.

    Myspace, facebook, classmates, twitter - they are all crap and can not replace face to face interactions with humans.

    And to those that say "but, but, but....they are great for keeping in touch with distant friends" - ever heard of email? And while you are at it - try meeting some new friends close to you - it isn't hard.

    The web is making all of us lazy when it comes to personal relationships. I don't care if you are the CEO of a multinational firm or a mother of 10; make time - it's worth it.

    -ted

    1. Re:Social networking, web 2.0 - all crap. by RobinH · · Score: 2, Funny

      Ok sir, I'll get off your lawn.

      --
      "I have never let my schooling interfere with my education." - Mark Twain
    2. Re:Social networking, web 2.0 - all crap. by MosX · · Score: 1

      What's wrong with sending a Facebook message to a friend saying, "Hey, wanna hang out and have a beer?" Because that's how many people use it. Not as a replacement for real interaction.

    3. Re:Social networking, web 2.0 - all crap. by Reality+Master+101 · · Score: 4, Funny

      Wow, you have contact information on every person you've ever met in your life?

      I congratulate you, sir, on your extensive record keeping.

      --
      Sometimes it's best to just let stupid people be stupid.
    4. Re:Social networking, web 2.0 - all crap. by Ringl · · Score: 1

      If you can't keep in touch with your friends on the web, you may seriously need to re-evaluate your friendships.

      There's nothing like a game of scrabulous with your friend on the other coast. Later on we even show each other pictures of our real life kids!

      Social Networking sites - They're all great! Unless you're frequently described as "crotchety."

      And to those that say "but, but, but...you just call a bunch of people friends and you don't even know them" - how about letting people use the services they want to, and you can choose not to use them. Problem solved.

      The web is a great way to organize with local friend, and have a hub to constantly keep in touch with distant friends.

      -stevens

    5. Re:Social networking, web 2.0 - all crap. by Vancorps · · Score: 1

      Why on earth would you want to waste time sending the same picture to ten of your friends at different times because they became interested. It makes more sense to post content and interested people can see what you want to share.

      No one is advocating replacing face to face interactions, Myspace hookups are quite common with people meeting friends of friends first online and then in real life.

      As for distant friends, are you saying email is the same as chatting in real time? Why not choose to call them on the phone instead of email? Are you too lazy to pick up the phone and call them? There is plenty of room for all kinds of communication. No, none of it is necessary, neither is posting on Slashdot, we do it for entertainment and as such, Myspace and Facebook are quite entertaining for millions of people.

      Finally, for meeting friends close to me, I'm at work a lot, so are several of my friends, we plan events and collaborate online to get it all organized. Social tools can be very handy when used appropriately. I've also become friends with people I don't get to interact with very often by messaging on Myspace. So then when schedules line up we get together in real life and much fun is had by all.

      I really don't understand your hostility towards social networking. People that create drama on Myspace also unsurprisingly create drama in real life so where's the harm?

      We aren't lazy, we are legitimately busy people who want to arrange our social time so that we will have fun while we're out rather than going out on our own and risk not meeting anyone worth talking to.

    6. Re:Social networking, web 2.0 - all crap. by i+love+pineapples · · Score: 1

      Wow, so you've never, ever lost touch with someone you knew in a former life (job, school, neighborhood) and/or never had the desire to look them up? You must have one hell of an address book.

    7. Re:Social networking, web 2.0 - all crap. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Short version of my reply: Strawman. These sites do not replace interpersonal interaction, they facilitate it.

      Long version:

      If you need a website to keep in touch with your "friends" you may need to seriously re-evaluate your friendships. Nothing can replace real-life dating or drinking a beer and watching a game with your friends.

      Who is making this claim? I find Facebook very convenient for keeping in touch with friends and family. Is it the only way I keep in touch? No.

      It's also nice to get your kids and your friend's kids playing together in real life.

      What this has to do with Facebook use is anyone's guess.

      Myspace, facebook, classmates, twitter - they are all crap and can not replace face to face interactions with humans.

      Of all the people I know using Facebook, not one of them uses them to replace face-to-face interactions. Far from being a replacement, Facebook has brought me closer to family and friends and lead to more face-to-face interaction.

      And to those that say "but, but, but....they are great for keeping in touch with distant friends" - ever heard of email?

      Yes. In fact Facebook offers me a way to share my email address with others.

      And while you are at it - try meeting some new friends close to you - it isn't hard.

      Simply speaking to strangers is terrifying for me. Rationally I know my fears are absurd, but no matter how often I interact with strangers these fears don't go away. One of the most terrifying things I've done in recent memory is serving on a jury with eleven strangers. Yes, I know how ridiculous that sounds. I think it's ridiculous.

      I am telling you this so you understand that making new friends is hard for me because I have to overcome intense fear and anxiety many times in order to make a friend. Perhaps ironically I am also much more open and direct with people than most people, so I do tend to make friends quickly when I make the effort. But genuine friends are rare, so generally speaking the payoff is generally not worth the effort I have to put into it. Still, I have made some new friends in my new home.

      It's beside the point, though. Facebook helps me stay in touch with my existing friends. Just because I live thousands of miles away doesn't mean I don't want to maintain those friendships.

      The web is making all of us lazy when it comes to personal relationships. I don't care if you are the CEO of a multinational firm or a mother of 10; make time - it's worth it.

      A valid conclusion, unfortunately completely unsound due to your ridiculous premises.

    8. Re:Social networking, web 2.0 - all crap. by Just+Some+Guy · · Score: 1

      And to those that say "but, but, but....they are great for keeping in touch with distant friends" - ever heard of email?

      That's great for you, kid. For those of use over the age of 30, email didn't come along for average people until we had already befriended and then lost contact with a lot of people. It's only been widely popular for, what, 10 years? That doesn't extend back to my high school friends or people I was in the military with.

      Maybe you're young enough that all of your friends have had email addresses, but that's not true for most of us.

      --
      Dewey, what part of this looks like authorities should be involved?
    9. Re:Social networking, web 2.0 - all crap. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1, Interesting

      I wouldn't go to the extent of writing off Facebook and other social networkings sites as "crap" (with due respect to those who do). But yes, I do agree that social networking sites have the effect of making one lazy. In my personal experience, I would miss friends if I hadn't heard from them in a while and phone calls were made, coffee was consumed, gossip was exchanged (FYI: I am male and I'm not ashamed to admit I love gossiping!), hugs were exchanged (FYI: I am male and ....you get the picture). But with Facebook's ubiquitous status updates (and a lot of my friends DO use it), I now know when my friends have elation, depression, anal retention (don't ask!) or any other -ion possible. It kills my desire to call them because I'm TOO well informed and I hear from them pretty consistently. Yes, there are those few with whom I would meet regardless of what they have to say on Facebook, but for the most part, I've stopped making those phone calls and the personal meetings simply because I already know what they are up to and vice-versa. Incidently I DID meet someone recently for coffee dispite the facebook updates. The conversation seemed pretty redundant for the most part (yes facebook updates :()

      I want my coffee. I want my hugs. I don't want daily updates - weekly gossip works just fine.

      And yeah, like ted said, the personal touch is sooo worth it. Consequently, I have deleted my facebook/orkut accounts and my desire to make those phone calls has returned swiftly, not to mention, now that my personal information is not reaching the multitude of friends, I'm the proud recipient of many concerned phone calls. :-) Now if only I can get off slashdot long enough to return them missed calls...

      Although I do think account deletion might be too drastic a step - I could have simply stopped updating my profile and left a window open for lost friends to keep in touch. Oh well, no regrets. I'm loving the offline attention so far ;)

    10. Re:Social networking, web 2.0 - all crap. by Anton+Styles · · Score: 1

      Ok sir, I'll get off your lawn.

      Who's the sad bastard that modded this guy troll? Someone had to say it, and this guy said it well!

      --
      "I don't know half of you half as well as I should like, and I like less than half of you half as well as you deserve."
    11. Re:Social networking, web 2.0 - all crap. by hansamurai · · Score: 1

      Well, I'm glad you live within bar hopping distance of your friends. My college friends are scattered across the country now: California, Minnesota, Illinois, Wisconsin come to mind immediately (we went to UW). And my work friends are so busy with their real lives we can barely find time one night a month to get together and have some drinks. It happens, Facebook is convenient for all those relationships.

      And yes, I've heard of email, that archaic means of communication that is all push push push when interacting with friends should be a healthier balance of push/pull. I've been extremely busy the last week and I can hop on Facebook and learn about all their lives in a span of 10 minutes. Emailing them individually would take how long? Plus I'm just interfering with their lives and asking for a response when they might be as busy as me.

    12. Re:Social networking, web 2.0 - all crap. by antdude · · Score: 1

      How old friends that you lost contact with? I'd love to get back to them, but they are long gone (old contact information don't work anymore/are invalid).

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    13. Re:Social networking, web 2.0 - all crap. by stewbacca · · Score: 1

      I'm nearly 40. It is impossible to be in 42 geographically different locations to get some face-to-face time with all my friends I've accrued over the years. Facebook is a great tool in this regard.

    14. Re:Social networking, web 2.0 - all crap. by Cro+Magnon · · Score: 1

      Of course, you can do the same thing with a phone call/email/text message.

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    15. Re:Social networking, web 2.0 - all crap. by stewbacca · · Score: 1

      Excellent point. I'm still trying to get in touch with college and military friends (impossible with just email). I've found some of them, but most of them are too busy yelling at kids to get off their lawns and don't have time for new fangled myfacespacebooking or whatever it's called.

    16. Re:Social networking, web 2.0 - all crap. by Repton · · Score: 1

      Wow, you have contact information on every person you've ever met in your life?

      It's easier than you'd think.

      Mum: Upstairs.
      Dad: Upstairs.

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      Repton.
      They say that only an experienced wizard can do the tengu shuffle.
    17. Re:Social networking, web 2.0 - all crap. by Bones3D_mac · · Score: 1

      If you need a website to keep in touch with your "friends" you may need to seriously re-evaluate your friendships.

      Normally, I wouldn't "feed a troll", but this guy makes a valid point. Are slashdot users so collectively insecure in their own lives that they need to vote down a posting like this to make themselves feel better?

      While services like myspace and facebook can be useful tools on occasion, the reality still remains that these services have also created a generation anonymous, online stalkers, constantly running background searches on each other for no reason other than to satisfy their own curiosity.

      This idea that we "need" to know everything about someone simply because we "can" know everything borders on insanity and perversion.

      Where has all our faith in humanity gone? Why this constant need to fear each other over what we don't know? Is it so wrong to simply leave the past alone and look forward to tomorrow when it comes to our personal relationships?

      --


      8==8 Bones 8==8
    18. Re:Social networking, web 2.0 - all crap. by crossmr · · Score: 1

      I was probably one of the last graduate classes to come out of high school in the time just before email took off. Email probably became quite popular 1-2 years after I graduated and finding people from those graduate years is much easier than finding myself. For our reunion 1.5 years ago we only managed to contact about 50% of our class, the rest are completely off the grid. No one talks to them anymore, and they have no web presence that anyone can find. Girls obviously being much harder than guys, but still plenty of missing guys. Some of the younger generations take that for advantage. Any class graduating now could probably expect 100% contact for a reunion except in the case of someone passing away or a stray amish kid.

    19. Re:Social networking, web 2.0 - all crap. by petermgreen · · Score: 1

      It seems to me the main thing the likes of facebook offer is the ability to restablish contact.

      A lot of people seem to change thier contact info at the drop of a hat for no apparent reason. This means that unless you are in regular contact with them when you try and contact them again your information will not work.

      --
      note: i'm known as plugwash most places but i screwd up registering that here somehow in the past and now can't register
    20. Re:Social networking, web 2.0 - all crap. by iainl · · Score: 1

      I don't. But if I don't know how to contact them, I probably don't want to.

      --
      "I Know You Are But What Am I?"
    21. Re:Social networking, web 2.0 - all crap. by Just+Some+Guy · · Score: 1

      Well, let me give you a counterexample. I made some great friends when I was in college and in the military. Those people are scattered to the winds now, but I still think of them sometimes and wish them well. You say "stalking", but I say "seeing that my old pal in Hawaii just had a kid". I don't think that's insane or perverted. It's nice to know that these friends are happy and making careers and families for themselves.

      I think the troll mods are because he didn't allow for this possibility. Sure, these sites could replace some relationships, and that's not (usually) good. I don't think that's how most people use them, though.

      --
      Dewey, what part of this looks like authorities should be involved?
    22. Re:Social networking, web 2.0 - all crap. by MosX · · Score: 1

      You're right. They're all options. Nobody's telling you not to use a phone or email just because you can also write a letter instead. What's nice about Facebook though is that you can keep in touch and set up a time a place to meet while also checking up on the person's new pictures and comments. It might not be for everyone but I don't know why people are pretending it's so hard to understand.

  18. Sorry Old Man Underbridge by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Do you mean 60+?

    I ask because I'm in the 30+ group and my parents and aunts and uncles are on Facebook. It's never been an "OMG PONIES!" kind of place (with the exception of folks who have "OMG PONIES!" types of friends) so I'm not really sure where you got that "first impression".

  19. Classmates blew it by elrous0 · · Score: 4, Insightful

    Classmates could have been the first myspace/facebook (they had a jump on the market). Instead they went the "pay us" subscription route, forever ensuring that they would be a fringe player at best (rendering them worthless in a field where mass participation is so essential). Their advertising scams are just a sign of their continued cluelessness and a reminder of their lack of foresight and failure.

    --
    SJW: Someone who has run out of real oppression, and has to fake it.
    1. Re:Classmates blew it by blair1q · · Score: 1

      Myspace and facebook were free because they had to find a way to compete for traffic. Other sites were making money off of customer subscriptions because it still worked. Once the newer sites decided that they would rather have zero subscription income and get all their revenue from ads, that's how it went.

      It could have worked either way. It worked this way. Nobody predicted it.

    2. Re:Classmates blew it by ChefInnocent · · Score: 1

      The major problem I had with Classmates was that even after getting their "Gold membership", I was still inundated with extreme amounts of ads. You'd think that paying members should get less spam and ads, but not so with Classmates. Maybe it has changed since '03; I've never been back.

      BTW, it was worth it in a way. I found a good friend from HS, and my current gf.

  20. I signed up for classmates.com by Mesa+MIke · · Score: 2, Interesting

    ... but I've left instructions there to look for me elsewhere, since classmates.com wants money for anything useful.

    If all the other social networking sites can do it for free, why use classmates.com?

  21. I'll tell you, sonny. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 2, Insightful

    Go check out Facebook. You might be surprised. Virtually everyone I know with a computer uses Facebook - more than half of my friends on FB are over 25.

    So they're 26,27, and some old farts who are 28?

    LinkLn is the site for professionals.

    BTW, I have neither. I do not want my information all over the internet.

    I'll be curious to see what you young'ins reap with all this in a few years.

    1. Re:I'll tell you, sonny. by duguk · · Score: 1

      Maybe I'm being thick, but who are LinkLn? I can't find them anywhere on Google, unless you mean the *nix command?

    2. Re:I'll tell you, sonny. by cyberfunkr · · Score: 1

      Sorry to say but you are being thick. Your PP said "LinkedIn". As in, "I am linked in to Kevin Bacon by only 6 degrees of separation."

      http://www.linkedin.com/

    3. Re:I'll tell you, sonny. by negRo_slim · · Score: 2, Informative
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    4. Re:I'll tell you, sonny. by shot151 · · Score: 1

      try linkedin

    5. Re:I'll tell you, sonny. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0
    6. Re:I'll tell you, sonny. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      grandparent is not being thick. greatgrandparent did put LinkLn instead of LinkedIn.

      it's useless for uk residents anyway

    7. Re:I'll tell you, sonny. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      That was so not funny I think you should hang yourself. However, you would probably fail at that worse than your weak attempt at humor.

    8. Re:I'll tell you, sonny. by duguk · · Score: 0, Flamebait

      OP here, wasn't a joke - I'd never heard of it before. Tried google, couldn't find it. What else can I say!?

    9. Re:I'll tell you, sonny. by DavidTC · · Score: 1

      Yes, the professional way...of finding old classmates? Cause I've never actually seen that as part of any job description.

      Plenty of normal people have facebook. It's a good way to keep in touch with people regardless of changing email addresses.

      LinkedIn is just the Facebook for professional relationships, instead of friends. It's not magically 'better', it's for a different set of people.

      As for 'information all over the internet', I have no idea what you're talking about.

      --
      If corporations are people, aren't stockholders guilty of slavery?
    10. Re:I'll tell you, sonny. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      > Plenty of normal people have facebook. It's a good way to keep in touch with people regardless of changing email addresses.

      Sure, if by "keep in touch with people" you mean "fork over your personal information in exchange for advertisements."

  22. Class of Cellblock R-85 by CNO+Dave · · Score: 1

    I graduated from High School at the Arizona State Prison. Wonder what the guys are doing now??

    1. Re:Class of Cellblock R-85 by Chosen+Reject · · Score: 1

      Wow, I was in cell block 1138 for a while, but then I got transferred to detention block aa-23. How have you been?

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      Stop Global Warming!
      Just say no to irreversible processes!
  23. This could be scary if... by AnalPerfume · · Score: 1

    ....all your classmates used to bully you and genuinely are trying to contact you after all these years. Or if someone remembered you owed them money and finally found a way to track your ass down.

    1. Re:This could be scary if... by Culture20 · · Score: 1

      Interestingly enough, the "bullies" from my school days are quite pleasant now that they finally matured.

    2. Re:This could be scary if... by Cro+Magnon · · Score: 1

      Interestingly enough, the "bullies" from my school days are quite pleasant now that they finally matured.

      Maybe because the ones that didn't mature wound up in prison. Do prisoners HAVE access to FaceBook?

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      Slow down, cowboy! It has been 4 hours since you last posted. You must wait another few hours.
  24. or maybe by BitterAndDrunk · · Score: 1

    He's a stand-up comedian/in a band and wants an easy way to compile a fan base?

    --
    You better watch out, there may be dogs about . . .
  25. I always seemed to have 24 people looking for me by Rastl · · Score: 1

    Before I finally got fed up and opted out of any contact from them Classmates always said there were 24 people looking to reconnect with me or viewed my profile or some nonsense like that. In every message from them. So either they were lying or there were 24 people with nothing else to do but read my sparse and uninteresting profile.

    I'm guessing Classmates was lying to me.

    For a while it was a good thing. But now LinkedIn is my medium of choice since it is more relevant than people I haven't seen in 25 years and am glad for it.

    I'll need to see if the class action suit is worthwhile or just another one where all the money goes to to the lawyers and the plantiffs get a year's worth of Gold membership.

  26. not always true by ClioCJS · · Score: 1

    Not always true. I've had numbers I never gave charged by companies that had past business relations with me. They simply called up MasterCard (or whatever they did), asked for the new number, and got to charge me without my permission. I know this because my card was hacked and replaced with a new number, which I never gave them.

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    -Clio
    Karma: Bad (mostly from not giving a fuck)
    Blog: http://clintjcl.wordpress.com
    1. Re:not always true by Attila+Dimedici · · Score: 1

      Not always true. I've had numbers I never gave charged by companies that had past business relations with me. They simply called up MasterCard (or whatever they did), asked for the new number, and got to charge me without my permission. I know this because my card was hacked and replaced with a new number, which I never gave them.

      If that happened, you need to cancel that credit card and inform MasterCard. That is a clear violation of the law and MasterCard's merchant agreements.

      --
      The truth is that all men having power ought to be mistrusted. James Madison
    2. Re:not always true by ClioCJS · · Score: 1

      I believe I got my money back after considerable phone time. Many years later (i.e. this year) I learned that you can't just break an agreement by having your number change. You still have to like.. formally cancel with the company and such. I have no idea what the agreement says about that. I remember the days of "the customer is always right". (Actually, I don't.)

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      -Clio
      Karma: Bad (mostly from not giving a fuck)
      Blog: http://clintjcl.wordpress.com
    3. Re:not always true by Zenaku · · Score: 1

      More likely they just continued to charge the old number, and MasterCard "helpfully" added the charges to your new account.

      Several years back I had a problem with unauthorized charges showing up on my MasterCard -- they came in once a month, like clockwork, from AT&T's Wireless division in the Netherlands (I am in the US). What apparently had happened is that someone set up automatic billing for their wireless phone bill, and someone at AT&T keyed in the wrong card number or something. I was able to dispute the charges, but the next month a new one would just show up.

      I tried calling AT&T Netherlands, but that was useless of course, since I didn't have an account with them and didn't know whose account was using my card. They would not just check all their automatic billing accounts for my credit card number and remove it, because I'd have to be the account holder to change the payment information -- even if they were using my damn credit card number.

      So finally I had the credit card company cancel my card and issue me a new one, with a new number. I was very clear when I explained to them why I was doing this. The next month an AT&T Netherlands charge showed up again on my new account. I called the credit card company again, and found out that they automatically apply new charges posted against the old number directly to my new account. It's a "convenience" so you don't have to contact everyone you have set up automatic billing with.

      And that is why I no longer do business with MBNA.

      --
      If fate makes you a motorcycle, you become a motorcycle.
  27. All the contact information I want to keep. by zerofoo · · Score: 1, Troll

    I don't care to keep in touch with everyone I've ever met in my life.

    I do, however, have contact information on everyone I choose to keep in touch with.

    It's an amazingly simple process.....but I'm sure some PHP/Ruby/MySQL jockey will tell me there is a better way. All I have to do is sign-up, pay some money, and endure some flash ads.

    No thanks.

    -ted

  28. Re:I always seemed to have 24 people looking for m by HikingStick · · Score: 1

    As best I can tell, the number of people trying to contact you is an aggregate of all the users who wanted to view additional information about you--the type of information only paid users can post. I've watched my number of people who want to connect with me climb over the years.

    I would completely pull out of the site, but it is, perhaps my best shot at figuring out when my 20-year reunion will be held next year (since I now live far from my old home).

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    I use irony whenever I can, but my shirts are still wrinkled...
  29. Next in my sights . . . by LMacG · · Score: 3, Insightful

    reunion.com

    Same misleading type of message, but I've apparently gotten signed up for them by some chucklehead can't type his own gmail address. The first email I got from them said "confirm your membership" which of course I didn't. And big surprise, there's nothing in that email that will let me say "hey, you've got the wrong man." (I spell my name . . . Danger). And even though I didn't confirm "my" membership, I still got additional email with "1 Search for Joe Doaks - Find Out Who!"

    Thank $DIETY for gmail's instantly trainable spam filter.

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    Slightly disreputable, albeit gregarious
    1. Re:Next in my sights . . . by mcmonkey · · Score: 1

      So Danger is your middle name?

  30. haha, sad old man by ClioCJS · · Score: 0, Flamebait
    Because everytime I type something that takes 15 seconds, I *really* want to spend 5 minutes going through my addressbook of 1200 contacts to figure out who my 100 actual friend are. Over, and over, and over. And I just love managing lists and having to add friends to it one at a time. [extreme sarcasm on] It especially works well with all the people I lost touch with and didn't have the email address of! [/sarcasm off] You know, the ones that populate my friend list these days? The people I liked and thought I'd never see again?

    Indeed, we should all get off your lawn.

    Nevermind the fact that everything you said could (and was) said about email 10 years ago. It's almost like you became an old man when it was past being cool to do so, haha.

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    -Clio
    Karma: Bad (mostly from not giving a fuck)
    Blog: http://clintjcl.wordpress.com
    1. Re:haha, sad old man by Lobster+Quadrille · · Score: 1

      This really isn't flamebait. Offtopic, maybe. Not flamebait.

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    2. Re:haha, sad old man by ClioCJS · · Score: 1

      yea. thanks. hadn't noticed the moderation. if anything i felt i was the one who had been baited and was responding to someone else's flamebait with a valid (to the thread, not necessarily to the slashdot article) point...

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      -Clio
      Karma: Bad (mostly from not giving a fuck)
      Blog: http://clintjcl.wordpress.com
  31. How about some positives? by mschuyler · · Score: 5, Interesting

    Mostly negative stuff about classmates here; and I don't disagree with the lawsuit, which is about tactics, not content. But let me tell you a couple of stories about how classmates contributed positively to a couple of situations.

    I had a colleague who told me an intriguing and sorrowful story. She got pregnant during her very first sexual experience. Her mother was in denial until the baby started kicking. Her mother then proceeded to put her daughter in an apartment in a nearby city, cut her red hair and dye it black, and wait for the baby to come to term. It was born and whisked away for adoption before my colleague laid eyes on it. (What a mother, eh?) The father was never informed and told my colleague was spending the semester overseas. Mother arranged letters to be sent from France until they dwindled to nothing. I was told this story maybe 20 years ago, and the thing is, I knew the father slightly because I knew I had see a picture of him on the swim team in my annual, who had gone to my high school (along with Ted Bundy). About 5 years ago my colleague, through her own research, found her long-lost son. We decided to try to contact the father. I went through classmates.com and found him. My colleague paid for my gold membership for a year. I contacted the father via email, set up a meeting, and he and my colleague were re-united. He was, of course, very surprised to know he had a grown son. Father and son got into contact, and, for better or worse, both natural parents are in contact with their son. Naturally, they do not replace the 'real' family who raised the kid, but it certainly expanded all their lives. I didn't re-up with Classmates. I get an email once in awhile, but it's certainly nothing overwhelming or particularly bothersome.

    The second thing classmates has allowed me to do is researh in genealogy. A few of us were into DNA analysis of the family (for our own reasons) going back to the late 1700's when our ancestor in question lived. His name was Jeremiah Pack and we wanted to know his ethnic background along with that of his wife. We found direct descendents of Jeremiah pretty readily, but finding direct descendents of his wife was a daunting task because surnames of females change every generation. After several years of research we finally found a 4th cousin or so who had a complete chart with names. I was able to go onto classmates.com and find the names, and write to the likely suspects. I found a couple of women who were direct descendents of Jeremaih's wife through the female lines, therefore their MtDNA was a match. We were able to do the testing and come to a suitable conclusion. This is not as 'heart-rending' a story as the first one, but I have to tell you it settled a generations-old mystery and legend for our families.

    In both cases, the positive conclusions would not have been possible without classmates.com. That doesn't forgive their questionable marketing tactics, but let's not claim the service has no value. It depends on what you are looking for.

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    1. Re:How about some positives? by blair1q · · Score: 1

      And somewhere there's an even more complete database that could help with such searches, but is used only to ensure that anyone with the name "Richard Johnson" (or one of ten thousand other names) is not allowed onto an airplane without an extra search procedure and ID check...

    2. Re:How about some positives? by Jah-Wren+Ryel · · Score: 1

      In both cases, the positive conclusions would not have been possible without classmates.com.

      I doubt that. It isn't like you tried all other possible methods of doing those searches. You just used the option that seemed most obvious to you. Your stories are certainly not unique, people have been finding each other across long distances and times for centuries.

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    3. Re:How about some positives? by mschuyler · · Score: 1

      How do you know? You don't know what avenues I tried over the years, which would have been beside the point anyway--I didn't want to bore you. Even if there were other methods, so what? Classmates worked this time. Get over it. Is it politically correct to have classmates be a bad guy here?

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    4. Re:How about some positives? by Jah-Wren+Ryel · · Score: 1

      Classmates worked this time. Get over it. Is it politically correct to have classmates be a bad guy here?

      It is scientifically incorrect to use the words "not possible" when its not been proven or even provable. You could have said "unlikely" or "more difficult" but your word choice (and your subsequent "politically correct" freak-out) suggest a bias for classmates. If you really are biased for them, then that calls into question your entire story, what other parts of it would a biased teller exaggerate? If you want people to take your story at face-value, don't give a critical reader reason to doubt it.

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    5. Re:How about some positives? by Hao+Wu · · Score: 1

      "I never would have met my spouse if not for being in a concentration camp. Thank you, Mr. Hitler."

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    6. Re:How about some positives? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      fishing for new marketing material?

    7. Re:How about some positives? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I had a colleague who told me an intriguing and sorrowful story. She got pregnant during her very first sexual experience.

      [rest of long story deleted]

      But are you banging her now? We know she puts out.

  32. Happens often. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 5, Insightful

    AS part of my job, I get calls from angry card holders who've have been billed fraudulently by websites such as this one.

    Another scam is when websites require a CC for their "Free Trial" and all you have to do is cancel before 30 days so you don't get billed. Well, in most cases, folks who do cancel somehow have their cancellation "lost" or "never received" by the company. And those are the folks who actually remembered to cancel on time. Unfortunately, there wasn't much the CC company would do for them. Call your own company and see - some will back their card holders a bit more than others. Credit Unions are the best in my experience. Big monster mega banks are the worst.

    Never give a CC for a "Free Trial". Take your business elsewhere. As a matter of fact, I knew an operator that counted on most people forgetting and then when they get their bill the following month, canceling in writing, and then being billed for another month because they were already in a second billing period. He made at least 2 months of revenues off of those people. He was actually honest. When you canceled, he canceled you.

    And for the very few legitimate businesses out there that use that technique; well, find another method to limit free trials.

    If you do have a problem with those cheating assholes, file a complaint with your State's Attorney General's office of consumer affairs, your bank, the FTC, and if your bank gives you a hassle, the Office of the Comptroller of the Currency will kick their ass. The BBB is worthless.

  33. Facebook for dummies? by harmonica · · Score: 4, Interesting

    Many of us who are 30+ associate those sites with the "OMG PONIES!" crowd.

    I'm one of those. Ehm, the old guys, not the pony crowd. I took the opportunity to try to find out what Facebook is like because someone recently asked me if I had a page there, but it seems that you can't do anything unless you have an account and are logged in. The help section of the site doesn't seem to feature screenshots. Is there a way to get a feeling of what the site's about without creating a fake account? My old age keeps me from just entering all my personal data and worry later. Maybe there are some pages set to "public for everyone", so some URLs would be nice.

    1. Re:Facebook for dummies? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      http://www.bugmenot.com/view/facebook.bug (facebook.com is banned from bugmenot, hence the facebook.bug entry)

    2. Re:Facebook for dummies? by Bill,+Shooter+of+Bul · · Score: 2, Insightful

      Is there a way to get a feeling of what the site's about without creating a fake account? My old age keeps me from just entering all my personal data and worry later. Maybe there are some pages set to "public for everyone", so some URLs would be nice.

      That is a very rational approach, I see you're taking. BUt you seem to be hung up on a bit. You don't ever need to supply them with any personal data at all if you don't want to. Oh sure it asks for things like birthdate, place of birth and various other personal information. Why on earth do you think you need to supply it with valid data? They aren't going to do a fbi background check to see if your information is valid. It will still work just as well.

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    3. Re:Facebook for dummies? by prestomation · · Score: 1

      You can even change all that information AFTER you sign up. Everything from birthdate to place of birth to your NAME can be changed at any time.

    4. Re:Facebook for dummies? by DavidTC · · Score: 1

      Actually, the only thing it requires besides your name (So it can call you something) is your data of birth, and that's so it can deny access to people under 13 or whatever that stupid law is.

      Oh, and your email address, so you can recover the password, duh.

      And note you can stop it from showing your birthday. (Or just the date and not the year, if you want that instead.)

      You don't even have to lie on the rest of the stuff, nothing's making you fill it out at all. So you can have a profile that literally just shows your name and no other information, with facebook only additionally knowing your birthday and email. That's less than slashdot knows about me.

      Although note that if you don't, people could have a hard time finding you and their automatic 'friend suggester', which goes off things like your high school and hometown, won't work very well.

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    5. Re:Facebook for dummies? by couchslug · · Score: 1

      "Is there a way to get a feeling of what the site's about without creating a fake account?"

      I'm old too, but IMO a fake account is the best kind. I want information, not to broadcast information.
      There are no negatives to using a fake account, and you can always add a legit account later.

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    6. Re:Facebook for dummies? by Elbowgeek · · Score: 1

      I've got a Facebook presence, but I'm damned if I can figure out how to do anything with it. The opening page presents you with the most confusing array of messages of various sorts about how Howie is now clipping his toe nails, and Jenny is feeling shitty after a big night out. Who the f... cares.

      Then there's the stupid surveys and quizzes your "friends" take then spam you to take as well. That alone is reason enough that Facebook must die a horrible death.

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    7. Re:Facebook for dummies? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Don't I know it. My favorite prank is to have multiple birthdays a year. People are just so used to posting " happy birthday" on your wall when they see the day is coming up they often forget that they've already done that three times this year.

    8. Re:Facebook for dummies? by Bill,+Shooter+of+Bul · · Score: 2, Interesting

      Yeah, I understand the under thirteen rule. But why actually give it your real birthday? Thats semi sensitive information that can be used (albeit with other pieces of info) to steal your identity. Do you really trust facebook and/or its slimy advertisers and/or app developers with that information? I sure as heck don't.

      As for being unfindable, That can have its advantages, but I took the liberty of simply finding my friends by exchanging info offline and then befriending online. So together by our social graph and correct first names others can find us. But you have to know what who you're looking for. None of this random, "We sat together in first grade for a week" crap.

      So yeah, I'm very anti-social in my social networking. I also use a client side css file to darken the harsh blueness of the site.

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    9. Re:Facebook for dummies? by piers_downunder · · Score: 1

      The opening page presents you with the most confusing array of messages of various sorts about how Howie is now clipping his toe nails, and Jenny is feeling shitty after a big night out. Who the f... cares. Then there's the stupid surveys and quizzes your "friends" take then spam you to take as well.

      Dude, I think the problem isn't so much with Facebook, but more with your friends...

    10. Re:Facebook for dummies? by Snwbeast · · Score: 1

      I dunno, I'm with the parent here. I signed up and I'll be damned if I can figure out why people spend 10 minutes on that site much less the hours and hours people claim to fill their day with on Facebook. Seriously, what do you *do* after logging in?

    11. Re:Facebook for dummies? by Mr.+Underbridge · · Score: 1

      Then there's the stupid surveys and quizzes your "friends" take then spam you to take as well. That alone is reason enough that Facebook must die a horrible death.

      Sheeebus, it sounds like an unholy combination of Cosmo and chain-mail. Looks like I'm not missing anything.

  34. Way to prove yourself wrong by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    If anybody my age had a myspace page, my first reaction would be that he's a total loser or way too interested in teenagers to be healthy.

    Do you mean 60+?

    I ask because I'm in the 30+ group and my parents and aunts and uncles are on Facebook.

    Thus proving that pedophilia does in fact run in families.

  35. Accountability by A__ (was: Accountability) by Lead+Butthead · · Score: 1

    Accountability is when the douche bags that runs the joint get send to pound-me-in-the-a__ prison for all their misdeeds. Otherwise all they will do is shutdown operation and start up another one under a different name (SCO comes to mind with their current scheme (see groklaw for details))

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    1. Re:Accountability by A__ (was: Accountability) by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I don't understand why someone with your username would actually avoid using the word "ass". Are you a fucking imbecile who still believes the AOL TOS applies to the entire internet?

  36. Thank God by kenp2002 · · Score: 5, Funny

    Thank God I was universally hated, loathed, ridiculed, and mocked in High School for my interest in history (WWII, Pacific Theater) and computer science. Anyone from classmates.com trying to reach me is either:

    A: Trying to kill me because I stole their girlfriend after college because I actually had a decent paying job.

    B: Trying to kill me because I ended up as their boss and fired them for showing up to work drunk after I stole their girlfriend.

    C: An ex-girlfriend planning to sue me for emotional damages after they found out I in fact did a piss-poor job writing thier final paper.

    D: A former classmate who is going through a mid-life crisis and is desparately trying to reach a former classmate in hopes thier life turned out worse then their own.

    E: A former classmate named Robert who now is named Donna and want's to meet

    F: A former classmate that needs help hiding a body in a New Mexico desert.

    G: A former girlfriend who was in band class who's boyfriend turned out to be a sexual predator and needs someone to talk to...

    H: A former classmate I owe money too!

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    1. Re:Thank God by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Hi I'm Misty Hadrick, but you knew me as Misty Morrison in High School.

      Do you want to meet your twelve year old son?

    2. Re:Thank God by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      You still owe me that $20 I loaned you!

    3. Re:Thank God by Lobster+Quadrille · · Score: 1

      We IT types live dangerous lives, and the enemies keep piling up.

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    4. Re:Thank God by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      A-D, nice fantasy world you live in

    5. Re:Thank God by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      E: A former classmate named Robert who now is named Donna and want's to meet

      It's Roberta, you insensitive clod

    6. Re:Thank God by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Thank God I was universally hated, loathed, ridiculed, and mocked in High School for my interest in history (WWII, Pacific Theater) and computer science.

      Here's a clue: you weren't mocked for your interest in history or computer science. You were mocked for your inability to socially integrate with your peers.

      When I was in high school, I was shocked to find out that some of the "coolest" kids in the school were into some of the same things I was: D&D, board games, computer strategy games, etc. The difference: they ALSO knew how to socially integrate themselves with people.

    7. Re:Thank God by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      E: A former classmate named Robert who now is named Donna and want's to meet

      G: A former girlfriend who was in band class who's boyfriend turned out to be a sexual predator and needs someone to talk to...

      I: A former english teacher who would like to have a word with you.

  37. I've never been more popular by singingjim1 · · Score: 0

    I was a stoner in high school and had a small group of close friends, but ever since I signed up a long time ago to find out about a class reunion I've been getting emails from Classmates.com telling me that people were signing my guestbook and were looking for me. I was never so popular until Classmates.com. If I was lacking any self-esteem at all I'd be thrilled, but I know better and I'm just annoyed. Just another example of marketing at all costs even if it makes your enterprise look ridiculous to all but the most desperate losers.

    1. Re:I've never been more popular by roc97007 · · Score: 1

      I'd make the same statement, but in my case I *did* recognize many of the names, and oddly enough they were all women from my class (or the classes immediately before or after).

      I have a theory about this. My personal information and photos tended to highlight my successes in life, and I've had a few (mostly during the dot com boom), although my lifestyle is much more pedestrian now. My photos included items like watching the space shuttle launch, sparring with a famous mixed-martial-arts fighter, my teenage daughter going to summer camp with a well-known teen actress, various travel photos, and so forth.

      You have to understand, I'm from a small farming town, where high school graduates tend to aspire to management positions at the local Ace Hardware. My theory is that since my profile shows a higher than average degree of life achievement (for the area), I suddenly become appealing to former classmates who, incidentally, wouldn't give a poor geek the time of day when I was of dating age. Suddenly, I experience a popularity all out of proportion to anything I actually achieved in high school. Recently, from a guestbook entry, I've become pen pals with a former classmate on whom I had a fairly intense crush my junior year.

      Re-reading this, it sounds like a commercial for classmates.com. Really, not. My situation was a combination of very low expectations and a few lucky events. Your mileage will almost certainly vary.

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      Oliver's law of assumed responsibility: If you're seen fixing it, you will be blamed for breaking it.
  38. also by ClioCJS · · Score: 1

    I was later forced to convert to Visa! (Just sayin'.)

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  39. Ok, I will admit it... by LessThanComma · · Score: 4, Interesting

    ... I am the one who took the bait and signed up for the gold membership. Classmate.com emails were already going to my spam folder, but I look that over before I empty it, and their's claimed that I had "2 New Guestbook Entries!" or something like that. At that point I decided to see if anyone I knew had recently added themselves to the list, and sure enough, and old friend had not very long ago.

    Suspecting that this person may have left me a guestbook entry, I bought the gold membership, instead of just tracking down his phone number. Upon logging in with my new gold status, I was rewarded by finding two guestbook entries from names I had never heard of and not from my school.

    In my defense, I am usually smarter than this. However, the good news was that when I emailed support asking to have any and all of my information removed, they complied without complaint in a timely manner, and even refunded my payment. I was shocked.

    The moral here is, if you get caught in a moment of weakness and stupidity like I did, send them an email demanding to have your info removed immediately, and maybe you will get a refund too.

    1. Re:Ok, I will admit it... by cheros · · Score: 0, Troll

      Maybe not *that* nice..

      Any idea how many times they resold your email address as live and equipped with a user who can be fooled? You're smarter now (at least, I'd hope) but you have flagged yourself as someone willing to follow through on spam. You do that with the wrong people (that is, the ones that haven't been arrested yet) and you'll earn someone cash by showing you don't just reply, you actually part with money..

      I'd hold back on the Songs of Praise for now - remember that it started with them spamming you. That data has to come from somewhere.

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  40. re: Facebook by King_TJ · · Score: 2

    Yep! Same experience here. I avoided those "social networking" sites for a long time, because I'm 37 - and didn't see a need to put my profile right next to all the teens and early 20-somethings. I wanted to post pictures of interesting events I attended, or of my kid, or what-have-you. No point putting that up in the same place everyone else has their 250 poorly focused snapshots they took from last night's big party.....

    But Facebook really did let me re-connect with a lot of people I last saw as long ago as 3rd. or 4th. grade! Within a week of making a profile there, I had 5 or 6 friend requests, all legitimate and from people I really lost touch with. I was impressed.

    I also had some luck with Friendster, since it seems to be a much less "hip" or "trendy" site these days. It seems like an older crowd uses it, just because they started out with it before competing sites really got off the ground, and stuck with it after that.

  41. Welcome to the social by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    I just hate these "social" websites. They are focused on getting content on it, but people barely put any content on it. The worst implemented idea they got is the let-me-get-into-your-hotmail-account-so-that-I-can-spam-everybody-you-ever-knew. It already happened to me three times. And in the three times, the site was not used at all by the people that invited me.
    If that is not enough, some sites are prone to create lots of spam. I always state that I am a boring person, that I hate people. Somehow, nice looking women want to me to have them as a contact. That cannot be true, I tell you.
    Now, let me get into the basement.

  42. Spoke.com is (also) evil. by wiedzmin · · Score: 1

    IMHO next target should be spoke.com

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  43. Myspace is joining in? by scorp1us · · Score: 1

    Has anyone else gotten a birthday reminder on myspace, only to log in and find that no one is actually having a birthday?

    Seems like a great way to drive up the hit count.

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    Slashdot's rate-of-post filter: Preventing you from posting too many great ideas at once.
    1. Re:Myspace is joining in? by toadlife · · Score: 1

      Yes, that happened to me too. It was annoying.

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  44. D: - So fvcking true. by israel_zayas · · Score: 1

    D: A former classmate who is going through a mid-life crisis and is desparately trying to reach a former classmate in hopes your life turned out worse then their own.

    So fvcking true... I can't count how many people contacted me out of the blue (name and phone number searches) only to find out they are doing worst than me, lol. These were the same popular boys and girls who would not give me the time of day if their life depended on it, then it kills me when they tell me I am so lucky with success. Fvck you! Dumbass! Should have gone to college or not knockup your girlfriend during/right after high school.

  45. yea, they're both MBNA by ClioCJS · · Score: 1

    Nice story! You did the right thing! So, who do you use now?

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    Blog: http://clintjcl.wordpress.com
    1. Re:yea, they're both MBNA by Zenaku · · Score: 1

      Chase, for several years now, but that isn't an endorsement of them or anything. They just haven't fucked up yet. There are enough credit card companies to choose from, and my credit is good enough, that I can afford to have a zero tolerance fuck-up policy. If one of them ever inconveniences me in the slightest, they lose me -- account closed.

      I only wish I could take the same position with my broadband provider.

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    2. Re:yea, they're both MBNA by ClioCJS · · Score: 1

      believe me, I know the feeling (823 credit rating, and am on my 7th broadband provider since 2000)

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      Blog: http://clintjcl.wordpress.com
    3. Re:yea, they're both MBNA by Zenaku · · Score: 1

      You have 7 broadband providers to choose from? My envy is yours! Where do you live?

      I am limited to Comcast cable, or Qwest DSL -- the proverbial Giant Douche or Turd Sandwich -- and it was 2001 when I swore I would never do business with Qwest again. If it were in my power, I would see every single person who has ever worked for them ground into a fine paste and cast into the fires of an erupting volcano.

      Long story.

      Why can't I get fiber to the premises? Why, damn it, Why?

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      If fate makes you a motorcycle, you become a motorcycle.
    4. Re:yea, they're both MBNA by ClioCJS · · Score: 1
      Virginia, inside the D.C. beltway. It's getting harder and harder to find the ones to choose for. They've blocked that information now by making it's release only available to those who signup for spam. Broadband reports stopped carrying it now. I'm not sure how you find out what the market is anymore.

      Of course, if I called the phone company or asked anyone who lived around me, anywhere, they would have said exactly what you said.

      Your ISP doesn't even have to be on the same coast as you.

      Look around. If you're lucky, you may be surprised.

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      -Clio
      Karma: Bad (mostly from not giving a fuck)
      Blog: http://clintjcl.wordpress.com
  46. Re:numbers I never gave charged by companies that by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Yup, my towing insurance company just did that last month.

    I was too lazy to send them the new card number, so they got it themselves I guess?

    I don't care about that one since it saved me a bit of hassle.

  47. Insensitive Clod by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 2, Funny

    "Which one of your former classmates is doing hardcore pr0n now? Find out!"

    Dude, I'm nearly 50. Just, no. Ick. Really didn't need to think that.

  48. Re:numbers I never gave charged by companies that by ClioCJS · · Score: 1

    nice that it actually worked out for 1 out of the 3 of us talking about it right now :)

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    -Clio
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    Blog: http://clintjcl.wordpress.com
  49. confession time... by roc97007 · · Score: 2, Interesting

    I have a confession to make. Hi, my name is Ron and I'm a user of Classmates.com.

    I got an account when they first started in the mid nineties, when the service was entirely free. When they went to a 2 tiered scheme, I paid for the extended service for awhile but let it lapse when I was laid off during boom.dot.bust. Went back to the free tier at that time.

    I wonder if classmates.com started out legit and then more recently drifted to the dark side. I did not have billing problems when I quit the paid service in 2001, but that was seven years ago; don't know what they're like now.

    They *do* send a lot of cruft in the mail. No doubt about that. I wrote a rule to trash most of it. But as far as the service itself goes, I have to admit, I really have been contacted by former classmates and renewed a few relationships. Not many, probably 12 - 15 in 13 years, most of them after the turn of the century. But if someone held a gun to my head, I'd have to admit that the service has worked as advertised. Forced to rate the experience, I'd give it an ambivalent-to-mildly-positive.

    That said, if they really are doing all the stuff in the article, they deserve to have the crap sued out of them.

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  50. HOT GILF ACTION by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0
  51. Screw myclassemates by Lord+Apathy · · Score: 0

    So am I the only one out there that hated every one of them son of a bitch's he graduated with? If mom hadn't of held a gun to my head I wouldn't even went to my graduation ceremony. I would have just picked my diploma up at the office the next day. I'm talking high school not college. Once I was out of there I really didn't care of any of them fuckers lived or died at that point.

    I got a reunion notice from them a few years back. I though of wiping my ass with it and mailing it back but though that would be in bad form. I sent them notice that there would be a $50 appearance and speaking fee. Never heard anything back. Didn't get my 50 bucks so I didn't go.

    It even surprises me some what how much I hated them fuckers.

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  52. eHarmony is much worse... by Emperor+Shaddam+IV · · Score: 5, Interesting

    Yes, I fell for eHarmony. They are much worse. You know, us technical guys get so wrapped up in our work, we don't have time to meet any decent women.

    Well, eHarmony will bug the heck out of you and "convince" you to sign up for a 7 day trail. During that 7 days you will get all kinds of "Matches" with interesting, and attractive women. Some will start communication with you.

    You're thinking to yourself - this is great! I'm meeting more women then I've ever met in bars or anywhere else! Multiple matches keep showing up and your communicating with more of them. And you are thinking: "Wow - I'm going to be dating 3 or 4 woman!".

    Then the 7 days passes. All the sudden, the matches slow down. A lot of the ones you were talking to suddenly stop communication with you. ( were they even real women in the first place? Or just employees of eHarmony.com masquerading as potential dates? ) Down to 3 or 4 matches a week. None very interesting. Not nearly as attractive as the matches in the first 7 days.

    You email eHarmony and you call them ( finding the phone number takes a little work - they didn't have it on their website when I was trying to contact them ). A refund is not available after 7 days. You are out 165 dollars, if you paid for the 6 months.

    They say you need to tweak your match "settings" to get more matches. Well, heck, I have every race and religion checked, plus I have from 23 to 38 in the age range, and I have 100 miles from my zip code checked. I live in a city with over 5 million people in the metro area as well.

    After a few weeks, the matches are 1 or 2 a week. One a few ever respond. Most don't even communicate. After 3 months, the "trickle" of women is a steady 1 to 2 a week.

    If you call eHarmony at this point, they either give you the "you have to be patient, it takes time to find the perfect match" line of BS. If you keep asking for a refund, they start getting annoyed with you.

    Emails aren't responded to. I even wrote a snail mail certified letter to the CEO of eHarmony asking for a refund. Nothing. Not even a phone call or a letter. No response. It's like your emails and snail mails go to /dev/null.

    Classmates.com? Just a minor annoyance. Someone needs to sue the heck out of eHarmony.com. They are the real scammers. I wish they would get sued big time. I would do it myself, but I didn't keep good records and this happened over a year ago.

    Somebody please sue eHarmony??? Please!!!

    1. Re:eHarmony is much worse... by Grishnakh · · Score: 1

      Wow, that's pretty scary.

      I did a lot of dating through Match.com and Matchmaker.com (and a few smaller ones) about 5-7 years ago, before I met my wife on match.com. It was an... interesting... experience. It finally paid off, obviously, but it was a major PITA until that point, and not really fun at all. Lots of really flaky women, lots of women that don't look anything like their photos, etc. And that was on the pay sites. The free sites, like Yahoo Personals, were just filled with fake people (literally), trying to get you to buy stuff.

      Overall, I didn't find online dating to be much fun, and really just a big PITA, but unfortunately I didn't see much alternative (and still don't) since I don't drink, don't have any friends who know available women, and am an engineer so I don't work with any available women, and I'm not religious so I don't meet women in church. But I can't say I felt like any of the sites were committing fraud the way you describe.

      As for women not communicating, that's perfectly normal on all dating sites, because the male:female ratio is so high. Most women feel overwhelmed by all the responses, and just don't have time to write back to everyone. Don't take it personally. Of course, some of them may be fake entries made by eHarmony, if they're as bad as you say.

      Try out some different sites like the ones I mentioned. If you live in a metro area with 5 million people, you should be seeing a lot more matches than that. I was more selective in my searching, and I had tons of dates (but almost no second dates...). Some things that I found narrowed my selection of women a LOT: 1) I didn't want to date someone with kids. Most available women have kids, unfortunately, and of course are divorced. If you're 30+ and looking for a wife, you may have to break down and date women with kids. College men, take heed: find your wife NOW, while women haven't been spoiled by some other jerk. Don't expect to find the woman of your dreams after you've gotten successful in your career. 2) I didn't want to date someone who smoked. It seems that most younger women are smokers these days. 3) I didn't want to date someone who was a big sports fan. Yep, it sounds weird, I know, but a lot of available women had in their profiles how much they loved football and sports. I hate sports. Of course, many of these women were probably lying, but it still shows they want a man who likes sports. 4) I mostly avoided women who had big dogs. Big dog lovers and sports lovers seem to go hand-in-hand.

      If you're looking for a nice, quiet, marriage-minded woman who isn't a religious nut, and isn't burdened with kids from a previous relationship (which also means you have to be involved with her ex, remember--visitation), you need to start EARLY, like in high school or college. After that, the really good women are mostly taken, and what's left is women with emotional scars and other serious issues that make being in a relationship with them extremely difficult.

  53. reunion.com by keepingmyheaddown · · Score: 1

    is even worse, fall for their spam and their system will scrape your email address book and spam everybody in your name.

  54. It's not all bad by Ollabelle · · Score: 1

    I found out my old girlfriend's married name through Classmates.com! Now I can start stalking her....

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  55. Advertising is Evil? by bill_mcgonigle · · Score: 1

    Selling advertising, and collecting aggregate data. We all know this. All pretense of "keeping in touch" is nothing more than the carrot to collect your information.

    Yeah, and reporting news and making TV shows are just about selling advertising and doing market demographics.

    When did advertising become evil?

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    1. Re:Advertising is Evil? by swordgeek · · Score: 1

      Well, you could look at it in a number of ways--some might say "has there ever been a time when advertising hasn't been evil?" I'm not a big fan of ads, but I can't really agree that all advertising is evil--and I never claimed that it was. In fact, my very next statement was, "No big deal, although it does bear repeating now and then."

      I just wanted to remind people that the social websites are a means to someone else's end.

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  56. Re: Facebook by DavidTC · · Score: 2, Interesting

    Within a week of making a profile there, I had 5 or 6 friend requests, all legitimate and from people I really lost touch with. I was impressed.

    Exactly. I'm almost 30, and I felt the same way for the longest time. I just missed facebook in college, and had see the ghetto-geocities look of myspace.

    But I went to my high school reunion a year ago and a guy I knew was like 'Get on myspace. I know it's lame, but just get on it so I can find you again.' I did, and it was lame for a while. I think I still have less than eight friends there, and two of them are family.

    And then when I was trying to track someone down I got on facebook...and it turned out literally half the people I know were on there.

    What's more, it started snowballing, with people friending people I hadn't seen since HS that I'd been looking for, but had no idea they were in touch with...or maybe they weren't, and just happened to search for them at the right time, who knows.

    I fact, I've actually made a prediction about the future WRT this: The current generation of children will reverse decades of the trend in this 'mobile society', and actually keep in touch with friends their entire life. Which is an incredibly huge societal shift that almost no one has noticed.

    Granted, this was supposed to happen with email, heck, it was probably supposed to happen with telephones or even postal service, but 'social networking' has changed the rules because it lets people actually find each other and get themselves put in each other 'address books', where writing a message literally takes five seconds, and people can actually stay current on their friend's life.

    Even if facebook goes away, it doesn't matter. As people become used to such sites, they might move to a different one, but the point is they will sign up, and reconnect with everyone again, their entire life.

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  57. Re:I always seemed to have 24 people looking for m by DavidTC · · Score: 1

    Contact your old high school, make sure they have your address and telephone number.

    In fact, you can probably find out contact information for the class president and just send them an email.

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  58. Re:I always seemed to have 24 people looking for m by Lobster+Quadrille · · Score: 1

    ...get a year's worth of Gold membership.

    As long as they supply their credit card information for the account. No, not for billing purposes. They just need it to... um... identify you. Yep.

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  59. reunion.com no better by hurfy · · Score: 1

    Maybe because those didn't exist for our last reunion but classmates did...

    Of course i just got the same annoying crap we are talking about from reunion.com that is every bit as bad as classmates ! Exact same things saying someone is looking for me (altho the name was right) I don't see any interesting info (less than classmates as i recall) except every other page wanting me to pay them.

    Only difference i see is a tagline on reunion.com saying 700 million profiles...huh, i must be the last HS graduate in the world to sign up i guess....?

    Don't see the advantage in expecting everyone to make a new profile there before next reunion when the majority are already on classmates :(

    Could have sworn i bought a lifetime membership at classmates when they started but can't prove it ATM. Of course the same applies for gamespy...no more lifetime anything for me.

  60. Yeah, spam is like that... by jonadab · · Score: 1

    > Attempts to remove yourself from the mailing list may only result in more mailings from the site of ill repute

    Will wonders never cease? I suppose next you're going to tell me that the luck hasn't really traveled around the world seven times?

    The headline makes it sound like classmates.com is a real, more-or-less legitimate website that happens to have some shady practices. I was under the impression it was nothing more than a source of spam, just like bluemountain.com and that African outfit with the all-uppercase keyboards.

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  61. For the record - i'm over 30. by zerofoo · · Score: 1

    I'm 33 years old. I've had an email address since I can remember.

    Even my Mother and all her living friends have email addresses.

    -ted

  62. I have received this mail by Douglas+Goodall · · Score: 1

    I remember getting email from them claiming someone was trying to contact me. Then they wanted me to sign up to find out who. I did and there was no one. I don 't know why I was surprised. I don't remember having to pay, just being disappointed that there wasn't actually someone trying to communicate with me. It is true, I am a lonely guy nerd, but it is still false advertising.

  63. Not so bad. by leabre · · Score: 1

    I actually paid for classmates for the past 4 years. I'm annoyed that I pay and they still bombard me with advertisements when I visit and am logged in. But, I have been able to get in contact with former school mates and military friends than I could find through any other means. It worked for a while but not everyone uses classmates and it seems to be growing stale. They require payment if I would send a message to the recipient. But I don't feel ripped off nor do I care. I get out of their service what I wanted though their price is hefty for what it has to offer (including adverts when you're already paying).

    Thanks,
    Leabre

  64. Re: Facebook by Grishnakh · · Score: 1

    Does Facebook keep info on what schools you were in, like Classmates does? My problem is that, even if I really wanted to reconnect with people I knew in school 20 years ago, I have absolutely no idea what their most of their last names were. Classmates at least organized everyone by school and dates attended, so it was easy to find people you knew. Of course, I always refused to pay for "Gold" membership, so I've never gotten much out of the site.

  65. Classmates does kinda suck by Control-Z · · Score: 1

    They send out all these pointless e-mails practically every time someone you know logs on.

    And I initially signed up for a year, what I didn't realize is they would automatically charge me again after that year was up. That took some trouble. If you have a credit card in their system and don't want to get auto-renewed, go there and remove the # now.

    I really found there wasn't that much activity on Classmates.com anyway, Facebook is where my former classmates are.

  66. Lazy "journalism" by ReedYoung · · Score: 1

    Classmates.com "knew at all times that the individuals, members, and/or users who were making attempts to contact Plaintiff and the Class were not former classmates when they... made false representations regarding the attempted contacts," reads the complaint. "The Defendants... intended to deceive, and did deceive Plaintiff and the Class by concealing and failing to disclose the fact that the individuals, members, and/or users who were making attempts to contact Plaintiff and the Class were not former classmates."

    As a result, Michaels hopes that a judge will approve his case as a class-action and award general, special, and punitive damages to him and the rest of the class. He also asks for injunctive relief against Classmates.com, as well as restitution, attorney's fees, and pre- and post-judgment interest.

    At first glance, it certainly seems as if Michaels has a case against the company, but this isn't just any false advertising claim. A number of websites--especially dating sites--use similar tactics to nudge people into paying, so a win for Michaels could change how these sites advertise their services. Even a simple change, like adding the name of the person trying to contact you, would make things better, as it would at least show that the person is real and allow the potential customer to make a judgment call on whether to subscribe (and offer proof that the person is real, too).

    No, just "adding the name of the person trying to contact you" would not "show [me, or any other recipient] that the person is real" because so far, the persons trying to contact the marks have not been real, nor known to us. To show classmates.com's victims that the persons are real, those persons must be both real and known to the recipients of their SPAM messages. So unsurprisingly, classmates.com's unethical business practices are the direct result of an untenable business model, in which they serve the non-existent [at best, inconsequential compared to the number of recipients of their fraudulent messages] market for persons desperate to contact former classmates, but unable to do so via alumni offices, informal networks of common acquaintances, or search engines.

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