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Can a Playground Be Too Safe?

Hugh Pickens writes "John Tierney writes that the old 10-foot-high jungle gyms and slides disappeared from most American playgrounds across the country in recent decades because of parental concerns, federal guidelines, new safety standards set by manufacturers and — the most frequently cited factor — fear of lawsuits. But today some researchers question the value of safety-first playgrounds. Even if children do suffer fewer physical injuries — and the evidence for that is debatable — critics say that these playgrounds may stunt emotional development, leaving children with anxieties and fears that are ultimately worse than a broken bone. 'Climbing equipment needs to be high enough, or else it will be too boring in the long run,' says professor Ellen Sandseter. 'Children approach thrills and risks in a progressive manner, and very few children would try to climb to the highest point for the first time they climb. The best thing is to let children encounter these challenges from an early age, and they will then progressively learn to master them through their play over the years.' After observing children on playgrounds in Norway, England and Australia, Dr. Sandseter identified six categories of risky play, although fear of litigation led New York City officials to remove seesaws, merry-go-rounds and the ropes that young Tarzans used to swing from one platform to another."

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  1. This "safety net problem" by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 5, Insightful

    is far broader than our playgrounds.

    1. Re:This "safety net problem" by Opportunist · · Score: 4, Insightful

      The "safety net problem" is far bigger than that, indeed. Mostly, it's due to parents who would love to pack their kids in cotton boxes 'til they turn 18. Oddly, the same parents then kick their kids out as soon as they're 18, unprepared and unfit to survive in a world they have never seen.

      Parents, your job is to prepare your kids for the life when they're fully responsible for their actions. It doesn't say anything about them not having had a single cut or bruised knee in their time 'til then. Bones heal. Scars heal. And you'd be surprised what damage children can sustain, where you witness it and you're sure they have to be dead, only to notice the child is wiggling his limbs, dusts himself off and climbs back onto the tree. Kids have tremendous healing ability, unparalleled any time later in their life. In other words, childhood is the perfect time to learn what is possible with your body and what is not. Your chances to survive stupid stunts will never be higher.

      The problem is also a psychological one. If you keep your kids locked away 'til they are 18, you not only limit their development and their ability to judge their own abilities, you also prepare them for a life of missed chances. They will look back at their childhood and realize that they "lost" 18 years of their life. Also, their social development will suffer. They will not be able to interact sensibly with peers, and they will not be prepared for the dealings of social life and interactions. In short, they will be the tool in whatever company they will work in.

      That's called bad parenting. Not having a child that has a skinned knee every now and then. Bad parenting is simply not preparing your child for the life after you're no longer responsible for them.

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    2. Re:This "safety net problem" by Pope · · Score: 3, Informative

      The "safety net problem" is far bigger than that, indeed. Mostly, it's due to parents who would love to pack their kids in cotton boxes 'til they turn 18. Oddly, the same parents then kick their kids out as soon as they're 18, unprepared and unfit to survive in a world they have never seen.

      Nope, it's worse: they still don't let them go, accompanying them to job interviews and trying to make sure their university profs are assigning them homework. Do a search on "helicopter parents" to read the true horror of what these morons are doing to their poor kids.

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    3. Re:This "safety net problem" by spaceyhackerlady · · Score: 2

      Will this "risk adverse" affect our future explorers? Will we have fewer people climbing on top of rockets to go into space or testing state of the art aircraft? We need risk takers, people who push the envelope. Imagine some of the accomplishment that would have been lost if these people didn't take risks.

      Of course. I see a younger generation who are terrified of failure, terrified of risk, unable to attempt anything that isn't a 100% guaranteed success. Not to mention the fragile-as-eggshells mentality that goes with it.

      The way I look at it, if you don't risk failure, you don't risk success, either.

      ...laura

    4. Re:This "safety net problem" by tlhIngan · · Score: 2, Informative

      It's partly parenting, but I think it's the lawsuit factor that gets people scared.

      Where once parents let their kids play and get cuts and scrapes, they now look at it as a sort of lawsuit jackpot. "My kid got hurt! Sue!" in the hopes of extracting a five or six figure settlement.

      It only takes the court to issue one judgement in favor of the parent before all the stuff comes down. Then said idiot parent goes in front of all the TVs and bleats about how dangerous stuff is, etc.

    5. Re:This "safety net problem" by Renraku · · Score: 3, Interesting

      I'd vote this up if I had mod points. Anyway, 'controlled risk' is the key word. All the playgrounds I've ever been on in my entire life have been controlled risk environments and decently safe. Compared to the other places children can find to play, playgrounds are a fucking safe haven.

      Playgrounds aren't supposed to have no risk. No place is supposed to have no risk, because that's impossible. You cannot construct a place where people can't find a way to injure themselves. Even padded rooms can cause injury if someone wants to ram their heads into the walls at full speed. Playgrounds are supposed to have LESS risk than other choices. As a kid, I often had to choose between cool places like construction sites, abandoned buildings, and playgrounds. A lot of kids played in the others, and a lot of them got seriously injured. Making playgrounds shitty and devoid of cool things to climb on will just lead to more kids getting hurt.

      It's basically shifting the blame. The city can now say, sorry folks, we can't make flat ground any safer, and we aren't responsible for your kids that went to play in an abandoned building and died when the roof collapsed. They do this by necessity, because so many people feel like they're owed something for nothing. My kid sprained his ankle, I want a hundred grand for medical bills and pain/suffering. Which won't go to the kid even if they win, it'll be used to buy things for the parents anyway.

      I guess what I'm getting at is that there's a level where you can't make playgrounds any safer without just removing them. Kids need to learn that the ground is hard and to watch where the hell they're going or they'll never learn. Running full speed into a metal post when they're a kid is less damaging than doing it as an adult.

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    6. Re:This "safety net problem" by Paul+Fernhout · · Score: 4, Interesting

      Some books related to your excellent points:

      "In defense of childhood: protecting kids' inner wildness"
      http://www.chrismercogliano.com/childhood.htm
      "As codirector of the Albany Free School, Chris Mercogliano has had remarkable success in helping a diverse population of youngsters find their way in the world. He regrets, however, that most kids' lives are subject to some form of control from dawn until dusk. Lamenting risk-averse parents, overstructured school days, and a lack of playtime and solitude, Mercogliano argues that we are robbing our young people of "that precious, irreplaceable period in their lives that nature has set aside for exploration and innocent discovery," leaving them ill-equipped to face adulthood. The "domestication of childhood" squeezes the adventure out of kids' lives and threatens to smother the spark that animates each child with talents, dreams, and inclinations."

      "Last Child in the Woods"
      http://richardlouv.com/books/last-child/
      "In this influential work about the staggering divide between children and the outdoors, child advocacy expert Richard Louv directly links the lack of nature in the lives of today's wired generation--he calls it nature-deficit--to some of the most disturbing childhood trends, such as the rises in obesity, attention disorders, and depression."

      "Underground History of American Education"
      http://www.johntaylorgatto.com/chapters/16a.htm
      "A huge price had to be paid for business and government efficiency, a price we still pay in the quality of our existence. Part of what kids gave up was the prospect of being able to read very well, a historic part of the American genius. Instead, school had to train them for their role in the new overarching social system. But spare yourself the agony of thinking of this as a conspiracy. It was and is a fully rational transaction, the very epitome of rationalization engendered by a group of honorable men, all honorable men -- but with decisive help from ordinary citizens, from almost all of us as we gradually lost touch with the fact that being followers instead of leaders, becoming consumers in place of producers, rendered us incompletely human. It was a naturally occurring conspiracy, one which required no criminal genius. The real conspirators were ourselves. When we sold our liberty for the promise of automatic security, we became like children in a conspiracy against growing up, sad children who conspire against their own children, consigning them over and over to the denaturing vats of compulsory state factory schooling."

      And a TED Talk:
      "Gever Tulley on 5 dangerous things you should let your kids do"
      http://www.ted.com/talks/gever_tulley_on_5_dangerous_things_for_kids.html

      We've taught our kid early on to use a sharp knife to cut up vegetables and fruits, in part because US emergency medicine to deal with knife injuries is far better than US medicine to deal with chronic health problems that come from not eating enough vegetables and fruits. Related:
      http://www.drfuhrman.com/children/default.aspx
      http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ffJAePZFg90

      Unfortunately, we listened to advice from doctors to "protect" our kid (and ourselves) from the sun and ended up with vitamin D deficiency and related health issues.
      http://www.vitamindcouncil.org/health-conditions//kids_fall_short_on_vitamin_D.aspx

      We're slowly learning. There is a l

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    7. Re:This "safety net problem" by gknoy · · Score: 2

      I'm sorry to nitpick, but I believe you mean "err" on the side of caution.

      Great points about there being many kinds of indicators that are much more indicative of abuse than of a normal active lifestyle. Good pediatricians (and neighbors that know what kinds of things your kids do) go a long way. However, all it takes is one crackpot saying, "How did he REALLY break his arm?", and the authorities often are obligated to interfere. One guidance counselor at school who doesn't know your kid does gymnastics or rock climbing or martial arts or parkour, one fellow church attendee that sees your kid's black eye and broken arm, and decides that it's better call CPS "to be on the safe side" or "just in case".

      There was a comment a few days ago (yesterday?) about an SCA fighter lady (who regularly gets LARGE bruises from full-contact hitting-with-sticks sports) who is constantly having to explain that no, her husband doesn't beat her, and sometimes feels it's easier to give photo/video evidence of her participating in the active sports. People tend not to listen to kids as much when they say such things.

    8. Re:This "safety net problem" by Antisyzygy · · Score: 2

      I would also include "cleanliness" and "antibiotics" into your rant. Your immune system develops to be strong the more dirt and filth you are exposed to, and the less antibiotics you use to help yourself out when you get sick. I was a super clean little kid, and I used to get sick all the time. My parents fed me antibiotics so I would get well. Around 15 my parents heard that antibiotics are bad to give kids too much and I stopped being made to take them. Later I stopped caring if I get dirty and clean my hands only if I get too much dirt, or I get poop or pee on them. Right now I am "lucky" if I get sick once a year. I haven't been sick for over a year at this point unless you count hangovers or something.

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    9. Re:This "safety net problem" by davester666 · · Score: 3, Funny

      Why phone when you could just yell up the stairs...

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    10. Re:This "safety net problem" by Eivind · · Score: 2

      Fear in general, is a awfully poor guidance.

      My 6-year old will stay at home alone while I go to the store, assuming it's just a short visit (30 minutes max) Yes there's issues that could arise, that he'd be unable to handle himself. But he does know how to call me, and he does know how to ring the doorbell at the neighbours. (I guess fire would be the big one, but even then, 'get out and alert adults' is *likely* a sufficient response to ensure his safety)

      As he grows and becomes more capable, he'll get more freedoms. It's not only a question of age, but also of maturity and behaviour. We observe him, and do our best to estimate what he can handle. So for example we are pretty confident that he behaves well in traffic -- simply because that's what we've consistently observed over the last several years, even on those occasions when he's not aware that we see him, while we're -not- confident that he respects the dangers that deep water represents to a poor swimmer.

      "No you can't go there without us accompanying you, not before you can swim better." "But I wanna !" "Then you'll better start practicing your swimming, do you want me to enlist you for a course ?" "Yeah!"

      When given a chance, I much prefer teaching him how to handle potentially dangerous things, instead of simply shielding him from them. I'd rather he swim well, instead of being protected from water. I'd rather he knows how to cross a street, rather than being protected from traffic. I'd rather he knows how to use an axe or a knife, rather than having to hide sharp object from him.

  2. I don't understand the perceived problem by idontgno · · Score: 4, Funny

    Mom's basement is perfectly safe, and I grew up JUST FINE.

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  3. What's the most dangerous thing on the playground? by cervesaebraciator · · Score: 2

    It's not the equipment, the sandpit, or the tether-ball. It's the other children. Now, if we could only remove the children then we'd have safe playgrounds.

  4. Learning by zget · · Score: 2

    It's mostly fear of lawsuits, and that's what's stupid. I did some pretty incredibly stupid shit as kid, but I'm glad I did them and I, nor anyone else really, ever got that seriously injured. But it teaches you to be careful. If todays kids never get to experience that, how are they supposed to be responsible adults? It's the same with women. If the girl didn't have some fun when she was a teenager, she will regret it later and try it when shes 30-40 years old, and usually married. That's why you should be able to experience stupid things when it's allowed and ok, so that you can learn from it.

    1. Re:Learning by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 5, Insightful

      Fear of lawsuits isn't stupid. It's quite sensible.
      Lawsuits are stupid.

    2. Re:Learning by ZamesC · · Score: 2

      >> It's the same with women. If the girl didn't have some fun when she was a teenager, she will regret it later and try it when shes 30-40 years old, and usually married. Interesting that you apply that only to women.... Do you: a) find it inconceivable that a man NOT screw around as a teenager or b) feel that such a man would nevertheless NOT regret it later or c) Think it's OK for a married 40 yo man to play around ??

    3. Re:Learning by Coren22 · · Score: 2

      Personally, as the ex husband of a woman who acted this way; I would say that it has more to do with that daughters are more likely to be sheltered due to their perceived fragility.

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    4. Re:Learning by Chruisan · · Score: 2

      I would say it has less to do with the daughter's 'perceived fragility' than the fathers knowing what is ( or is not) going on in other boys heads at that age.

    5. Re:Learning by RussR42 · · Score: 3, Insightful

      I believe it is a reference to the double standard. Guys are championed for their sexual prowess while girls are considered sluts when they get around.

      Perhaps it's a reflection of the effort it takes for most guys to get laid compared to most women who can just stand up and say "Next!".

  5. risk/reward by Hazel+Bergeron · · Score: 4, Interesting

    The whole risk=reward philosophy is just a way for people who are comfortable and have never needed to take any risks to push others to do so, so they can leech off them. Tell people that something will make them a man and they'll run into the middle of a battlefield.

    A society's advance is measured by risk reduction, so stuff can be achieved without a large proportion of people being harmed in the process.

    1. Re:risk/reward by g0bshiTe · · Score: 5, Funny
      so stuff can be achieved without a large proportion of people being harmed in the process.

      You obviously don't work in Aperture Labs do you?

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    2. Re:risk/reward by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 3, Insightful

      A society's advance is measured by risk reduction, so stuff can be achieved without a large proportion of people being harmed in the process.

      Says who?

      By removing the risk of physical injury in these cases, you add the risk of psychological "injuries". A child locked in an empty padded cell is perfectly safe but the adult resulting from such an upbringing will be a broken mess.

      Granted, that's an extreme. However, to some degree w're already seeing this in today's society: people ruled by abstract fears, nobody taking responsiblity, everybody blaming/sueing somebody else and so on.

  6. In other words by FrkyD · · Score: 5, Insightful

    Generations are being deprived of the chance to learn to deal with the process of overcoming their fears?
    In a society whose political and media culture centers around obscuring debate by preying on fear?
    Whodathunk?

  7. No evidence by goodmanj · · Score: 5, Interesting

    Like most of Tierney's articles, this one is iconoclastic but has no evidence to back it up. The "study" he cites is just one psychologist's opinion, with no actual data behind it.

    Speaking for myself, I do think I'm more well-adjusted psychologically as a result of all the dangerous stuff I did as a little kid, but given the medical bills and the permanent scars, I can't honestly say it was worth it overall.

    1. Re:No evidence by goodmanj · · Score: 2

      Thing is, it's not like every kid who's coddled by a hyperprotective society ends up schizophrenic as an adult, just like not every kid who plays on a steel-bar jungle gym ends up paraplegic.

      Which is a bigger problem? I dunno, but at least we have some statistics on childhood playground injuries. The folks who argue that the psychological damage is a big deal are bringing *zero* data to the table.

  8. Yes they can by Bob+the+Super+Hamste · · Score: 4, Interesting

    At the park nearest my house they recently put in a new playground. Thankfully it still has some "unsafe" equipment. My oldest (almost 3) wanted to swing on the big swings a couple of weeks ago. So I put him on and started pushing him. Eventually he wanted me to get on the swing next to him. When we were both swinging he fell of and did a nice face plant from falling forward off the swing. He had a few little scrapes and a mouth full of sand, he cried a bit but I told him he was ok. He then went and got right back on the swing. He has also fallen off slides and rope things (a cargo net like structure) and still goes back. There is an older "safe" playground at this park but he never want to go there.

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    1. Re:Yes they can by clong83 · · Score: 4, Interesting

      I took my one year old nephew to a playground in my neighborhood, and as soon as I set him down he crawled up to the very top of the biggest slide and flung himself down it headfirst. Nobody was there to catch him and he did a nice faceplant in the sand at the bottom. He was fine. Cried for a minute, had a bunch of sand in his nose, but then calmed down and crawled back up and did it again (with me waiting to catch him this time). From then on, he was a little bit more cautious and wouldn't go down unless I was there waiting.

  9. How to Land Your Kid in Therapy by Jah-Wren+Ryel · · Score: 5, Interesting

    On a similar note, the Atlantic recently ran this article about how
    coddling children robs them of an important part of childhood.

    When a parent says something like that they want their child to "just be a kid for one more year," that's just selfishness on their part. It isn't about letting the kid enjoy childhood, its about the parent holding their child's development back in order for the parent to take pleasure in the kid's innocence.

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    1. Re:How to Land Your Kid in Therapy by Opportunist · · Score: 4, Funny

      Could someone hand that guy a "dammit, couldn't you have told my parents 30 years ago" insightful mod?

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    2. Re:How to Land Your Kid in Therapy by stephathome · · Score: 4, Insightful

      Too true. This is why I liked my college professor who describes parenthood as raising future adults, not children. I want my kids to keep growing up. They get better as they get more mature. Sure, babies, toddlers and on down the line are fun, but seeing kids grow up is much more fun than treating them as younger than they are. They're people, not my personal toys.

    3. Re:How to Land Your Kid in Therapy by need4mospd · · Score: 3, Funny
      You know if you visited home more often you wouldn't think like that.

      -Dad

      P.S. Don't forget to call your mother this weekend. You know how she gets when you forget her birthday.

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  11. When parents complain about bruises ... by MacTO · · Score: 4, Informative

    I work with children, and sometimes they get sent home with bruises and scraped knees just because they were playing so vigorously. Most of the children I've seen will cry for a little bit, accept a bandage, then will be eager to do the same thing again.

    Parents though, well, some of them will assume that the supervisors were negligent or abusive. Not all of them, not even many of them, since they tend to know how their kids play. But it is the ones that wrap their child in a protective coccoon that you have to be petrified of. Even those parents aren't so bad once they get to know you, to trust you, but a lot of them don't even bother.

    The unfortunate truth is that those overly protective parents count for a lot because the consequences are many. Lawsuits is the often cited one, but losing your job or your license is an even bigger and more real concern. So all of the children suffer.

    1. Re:When parents complain about bruises ... by kevinNCSU · · Score: 2

      The unfortunate truth is that those overly protective parents count for a lot because the consequences are many.

      This. And the fact that more and more we are entrusting our children to be constantly supervised by others instead of taking care of them ourselves. If it's not your kid, you're generally twice as worried about them getting hurt in your care because not only is the kid hurt, but you're also worried about the parent going off the deep-end.

    2. Re:When parents complain about bruises ... by the+Dragonweaver · · Score: 2

      Social services folks are taught to look for specific types of bruises, not just a highly bruised kid. If a kid has bruises up and down their shins and scraped knees, that's an obvious active kid. Even a black eye by itself doesn't call for suspicion. The types of bruises they look for are the more subtle injuries—bruises on the insides of the arms, or fingerprint bruises (looks like—and is—the result of a digging grab.)

      It's also the attitude of the kid. I gave myself a rather spectacular black eye by running into the corner of a wall at home—my second day at a new school. The teacher asked me to do show & tell about it when I got back and it took me years to realize that this was her subtle form of investigation, because no abused kid in the world would give the performance and details of the event that I did. "I fell" or "I ran into a door" is typical for abuse, not "I did this, and this, and this, and then I turned the corner too quickly and BAM, and then my brother started laughing, and so on..."

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  12. Re:Umm...yeah no shit. I could have told you this. by MozeeToby · · Score: 5, Insightful

    Common sense goes out the window when there's a gallon of hormones flooding your system telling you that this child in particular is the single most important thing in the universe. Everything from over childproofing to being against a public healthcare options to over prescribing antibiotics to giving up freedoms for perceived safety can be traced back to the psychological changes that occur when people become parents.

    As a new parent myself I can feel the invasion of these lines of thinking, and it is only through conscious, concerned effort that I maintain my pre-parent sense of right and wrong.

  13. Re:Umm...yeah no shit. I could have told you this. by Opportunist · · Score: 2

    And this is exactly why parents should have no say in laws concerning children.

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  14. Re:Think of the children! by Wonko+the+Sane · · Score: 4, Insightful

    Sure I'm not saying let kids play in a forest alone or something

    Why not?

  15. In Canada by Rev.+DeFiLEZ · · Score: 5, Interesting

    My 3.5 year old broke her arm at the playground, and I was very proud of her. We made the whole thing, including the hospital trip all part of the fun.

    It does seem that the playgrounds are becoming less fun, but I let my kid do all sorts of stupid things, so the way I see it, as an adult she'll be at an advantage over her peers.

  16. Interesting presentation on TED re: Child Safety by dr_canak · · Score: 3, Informative

    Came across this TED presentation last year:

    http://www.ted.com/talks/gever_tulley_on_5_dangerous_things_for_kids.html

    Definitely an interesting take on this whole issue of child safety regulations. The book (written by the presenter in the video above, Gever Tully) entitled "50 Dangerous Things (You should let your kids do)" is a really nice read.

    jeff

  17. Stop pussyfying our youth by pak9rabid · · Score: 4, Funny

    Treating kids like pussies turns them into pussies.

    1. Re:Stop pussyfying our youth by Rude+Turnip · · Score: 3, Informative

      The word "pussy" describes someone that acts like a scared cat and can be used as a word for female genitals. The "scared-y cat" connotation, however, does not derive from the reference to female genitals. The two connotations share the same origin but for different reasons.

  18. now sure what they are talking about by vonshavingcream · · Score: 2

    they just built a brand new playground buy us. they did add a really nice rubbery type of padding on the ground, but they have a 15ft high slide and a really cool rock wall and crazy jungle gym type things. plenty of places for kids to fall to their "death", just like when I was a kid. you know what ... that playground is always packed. Not like "geeze there are so many people I can't move" packed, but there are always people there with the kids. It's a really cool place.

  19. Talk about risky behavior.... by pyneiii · · Score: 3, Funny

    "After observing children on playgrounds in Norway, England and Australia..." Did anyone else picture a weird guy in a lab coat with a clipboard standing around a jungle gym?

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  21. Re:Think of the children! by Bob+the+Super+Hamste · · Score: 3, Interesting

    I take it you were never were in Boy Scouts. When I was young there was nothing better then chasing each other through the forest, often with big sticks, climbing pine trees and dropping stuff on others. Truth is kids are probably less likely to get hurt in a forest than in an urban landscape since forests tend to be squish compared to concrete and asphalt.

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  22. Re:Umm...yeah no shit. I could have told you this. by 2names · · Score: 3, Interesting

    Far *greater* than half of the world's population are below average intelligence. If you do not understand the previous sentence, then I say to you - albeit very slowly - you are in the lower portion.

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  23. Re:It's not just playgrounds. by SethJohnson · · Score: 3, Insightful

    How can we encourage children to be active if anything "active" thay they would think about doing (running, playing tag, climbing trees, skateboarding, etc...) is seen in a negative light?

    I just Google+ friended you for that statement. There are so many activities, such as the great examples you gave, that the author could rewrite this study substituting for the word 'playground.' One of the bees in my bonnet these days is how diving boards are being phased out at public swimming pools.

    It started with phasing out high-dives. Now low-dives are also an endangered animal. New public pools are built shallow with water slides instead of diving boards. From the first to the 10,000th time a kid slides down a waterslide, they've developed exactly zero skills at doing anything. It's passive entertainment. There's no sense of performance or challenge. With a diving board, there are a whole host of dynamics a child can attempt to master. Our society is taking that structure away from children in so many areas.

    If you watched the 2008 Beijing Olympics, you might have seen the Chinese divers dominate in all categories. American children might have seen that and said, "Mommy, I want to become a diver and win a gold medal at the Olympics." To which an honest parent would have to say, "Unfortunately, you live in America and aren't permitted to engage in that activity. Perhaps if we move to a dangerous country like China you'll have that option in life."

    Seth

  24. Adventure Playground by Jeremiah+Cornelius · · Score: 5, Informative

    "C. Th. SÃrensen, a Danish landscape architect, noticed that children preferred to play everywhere but in the playgrounds that he built. In 1931, he imagined "A junk playground in which children could create and shape, dream and imagine a reality." Why not give children in the city the same chances for play as those in the country? His initial ideas started the adventure playground movement.

    The first adventure playground opened in Emdrup, Denmark in 1943, during World War II. In 1946, Lady Allen of Hurtwood visited Emdrup from England and was impressed with "junk playgrounds." She brought the idea to London. These "junk playgrounds" became known as "adventure playgrounds." "
    http://adventureplaygrounds.hampshire.edu/history.html

    "The Adventure Playground at the Berkeley Marina was opened 31 years ago in 1979. It is a wonderfully unique outdoor facility where staff encourage children to play and build creatively. Come climb on the many unusual kid designed and built forts, boats, and towers. Ride the zip line or hammer, saw, and paint. By providing these low risk activities Adventure Playground creates opportunities for children to learn cooperation, meet physical challenges and gain self confidence. Pictures of a fort building project. The concept for Adventure Playgrounds originated in Europe after World War II, where a playground designer studied children playing in the "normal" asphalt and cement playgrounds. He found that they preferred playing in dirt and lumber from the post war rubble. He realized that children had the most fun designing and building their own equipment and manipulating their environment. The formula for Adventure Playgrounds includes Earth, fire, water, and lots of creative materials."
    http://www.ci.berkeley.ca.us/contentdisplay.aspx?id=8656

    And here's a song:
    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YQtwb3lQ_c0

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    1. Re:Adventure Playground by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 2, Interesting

      I grew up with my parents divorced. We had an awesome house with a huge yard that backed into a ravine. Mom had to look after 4 kids, which is a hard task, so we had a lot of time to make our own fun.

      We used to make forts out of whatever sticks and branches we could find, sometimes making chairs and toilets (every good fort has a toilet). Usually onve the fort got good enough, some older kids would destroy it, and we would start all over again.

      The ravine had lots of poplar trees, which are great for climbing. We used to climb up the trees seeing how high we were brave enough to get. None of my siblings or I fell out of any tree, but several of our friends did, with minor injuries (bruised tailbone was the worst). One tree behind the house was particularily good for climbing, but the lowest branches had been trimmed off. We cut some plywood with a saw, and grabbed a hammer and nails, and pounded the strips of plywood into the tree to make a ladder.

      One day, we decided to make a fort in that tree. We had this grand vision of a tree house that would be just like Bart Simpson's tree house. My brother and I found some scrap wood and cut a few pieces (I was allowed to use the circular saw when I was in grade 6 or so, as long as I was careful) and climbed up the tree with wood in one hand, a pocket of nails, and a hammer in the other hand.

      We climbed soo high in the tree (a trip back when I was an adult showed that we were only about 20 feet in the air, maybe a little lower) and nailed down a few boards. We got 3 boards in the tree before we realized that the tree house wasn't going to happen.

      About that time, I was given rock climbing lessons for my birthday, and so I had a caribeaner. We climbed up our favourite tree with a rope and tied the rope to the bottom of another tree to make a rope slide. Another ring of rope attached to the beaner, made the seat.

      Being so young, a 15-20 foot drop seemed a lot higher, so we were a little scared to try out the rope, so we convinced our sister to try it first. She climbed up the tree, hooked onto the rope, and down she went. Everything wen't well; a little rough landing, but nothing too bad. Now that the rope had been tested, we had a blast for several months.

      While we were in the trees, my sister used to make chairs out of plywood and 1"x1"s. The first chairs woudn't stand on their own, but eventually they would, and one would even support her weight! My brother, who was into skateboarding thought he could make a funbox, so the tried that out. For about a year we had this ugly, deathbox on the driveway. It was super unstable and was about to fall apart, but it just begged to be climbed on. It caused a few minor injuries. One day I tried to make Napalm. Another just pounding nails into wood. One time we made a jump and landing ramp, and would go down our steep driveway at top speed, and hit the jump. If it was successful, we would pull back the landing ramp and try again. Eventually, my brother fell short, made a huge dent in the rear wheel of the bike, and took a little spill.

      The best memories I have of playing when I was younger, were the moments where there was danger. Even when I was young, I had a sense of danger, and would be careful. Even today, danger is fun. My top speed on a snowboard is 95kmph. That is very, very dangerous, but it sure does make you feel alive! I don't think that kids today know what danger feels like.

  25. One thing I learned from kids ... by MacTO · · Score: 3, Interesting

    I was on the swings one day with a bunch of children, then noticed that they were all swinging higher a few of them were flipping their heads back for the thrill of it. So I decided to try it, and it was scary. Especially the vertigo from flipping my head back.

    It made me realise how safe I, as an adult tend to act and how it takes all of the thrills out of life.

  26. Case in point - City Museum by turtle+graphics · · Score: 5, Interesting
    The City Museum in St. Louis is a crazy, dangerous, and incredibly fun "playground" in an old industrial building. Most people who go there think it's incredibly fun. Some people who go there get seriously injured (often by exhibiting stupidity they should have learned to avoid on the playground).

    The musem's founder, Bob Cassilly, says that $1 of every $12 admission ticket goes to pay insurance, and he has posted a 'wall of shame' listing all the lawyers who have sued the museum.

    There's an excellent and relevant article in the WSJ about it: http://online.wsj.com/article/SB10001424052702304159304575183463721620890.html?KEYWORDS=city+museum

  27. Re:What a load of crap by snspdaarf · · Score: 2

    I'd rather have playgrounds that let kids *PLAY* rather than tackle challenges that I don't yet approve of as a parent.

    So, do some of that parent shit and don't let them. Don't fuck up the playground for the kids that need greater challenges.

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  28. It isn't just playgrounds by gubers33 · · Score: 2

    I mean when I was younger on a nice day you would be playing sports, at the pool or exploring in the woods out back. Today it's too hot and kids stay in and play video games or watch TV. If I did that when I was little my parents would have yelled at me and said go out side, it is a nice day. I mean I am not against video games, by any means. I think they are quite fun, but play them at night or when it is raining. I mean the babying of kids has happened at more than just playgrounds, look at community pools. When I was younger the community pool by my parents house had two diving boards and a slide, now it has none of the three. I fell off that slide and got a concussion, but I was back on it the next week. Many pools that once had diving boards no longer have them for insurance reasons and fear of being sued. I think that is the real issue behind this, anytime someone get a little hurt it is the people's fault who own the property, so they make so that you can't get hurt.

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  29. At our park.. by roc97007 · · Score: 3, Interesting

    Our homeowner's association has a park across the street from my house. Some time back they pulled out the swing set and monkey bars and put in an attractive looking rubberized steel play structure with several platforms but kind of low to the ground and really nothing to climb on or hang from. The kids ignore it and climb the trees instead.

    Life finds a way.

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    1. Re:At our park.. by bhcompy · · Score: 2

      Same thing at our schools and parks in suburban SoCal. Also gone is the high dive from all the local public pools. No one ever got hurt on the high dives mind you, but someone might think the diving board goes the other way and they would jump off the ladder, so the insidious device needed to be removed. Well, there were those kids that hurt their stomachs with bellyflops off the highdive. Red stomachs are a menace apparently.

      Shitty thing is that this affected my son tremendously. I asked him why he didn't play tag, freeze tag, or butts up at school and he said that the teachers didn't allow any physical touching or violent games. Also, the teachers frown on competition and you get sent to the principals office for telling a kid you don't want to play with him(because it's mean).

  30. Re:Think of the children! by idontgno · · Score: 2

    If you ask my older children (the ones who are adults now), they'd probably tell you the most fun they had growing up is the three of them plus the neighborhood kids romping around the forested sides of South Mountain, looking for unexploded ordinance*, catching crayfish in the creek, and lots of stuff they still won't tell me (because the statute of limitations isn't completely gone, I think.)

    They have all their limbs, all their faculties, both their eyes (each), all their fingers and toes, and some good memories.

    *This particular part of South Mountain was part of an Army post, and this particular part of the forest used to be an artillery practice range, allegedly. Yeah, it could have gone spectacularly badly, but I did the same stuff in Okinawa 30 years before that, and the elementary schools had recurring training from the local EOD guys who always told you the gruesome story of this year's "ooh, I found an old artillery shell" victim. And I still have all the bits I was born with.

    This is the kind of thing that makes me believe in God, so that I can also believe in guardian angels. YMMV.

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  31. Re:Umm...yeah no shit. I could have told you this. by LunaticTippy · · Score: 2

    I understand your claim, but I disagree with it. Intelligence is widely assumed to be normally distributed, making the mean the same as the median. Statistically, half of the population would be below the mean, half above it. For example, IQ is defined as having an average of 100 with half the population falling above and half below it. As the human population gains/loses intelligence the IQ test will be weighted differently to maintain the statistical distribution.

    Being somewhat cynical, I suspect that outliers are not evenly distributed. I suspect there are more morons than geniuses. This would pull the distribution away from normal, but make a majority of people above average intelligence. I have no data to back up this suspicion.

    Can you elaborate? I am curious.

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  32. Re:Each generation coddles the next by Shark · · Score: 5, Insightful

    What bothers me most is that if I want to raise my kid like that and let them have a real childhood with all the bumps and bruises and scares it entails, I'll be the evil parent and CPS will come take him/her away.

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  33. Not being overprotective by Animats · · Score: 5, Interesting

    As a horse owner, I see how various parents approach risk. Some parents hover, constantly watching their kids ride. (One barn in Silicon Valley caters to those parents. They have bleachers where the parents watch the kids take lessons.) The kids whose parents just drop them off do better with the horses. Kids do fall off, but it's better if they have their falls when they're 10 or 12 and on a pony.

    An old friend of mine is the complete opposite of the overprotective mom. Her kids (one son, one daughter) grew up riding, and by their early teens, were competent to go off alone on horseback into the mountains. By their late teens, the kids were taking road trips of hundreds of miles on bicycles. Both kids are in their 20s now. The son is still in school, taking a year off for a startup right now. The daughter has graduated, and took a trip around the world alone, bicycling across whole countries, riding in a cattle roundup, surfing, kayaking, and coming home cheerful, uninjured, with hundreds of pictures. She works as a lifeguard (ocean rescue/climbing/EMT).

    Interestingly, these kids are cautious. When encountering something new, they tend to hang back, carefully watch others, see how it's done and what goes wrong, then do it. They don't charge in blindly. It's not about being bold. It's about being competent.

    1. Re:Not being overprotective by Em+Adespoton · · Score: 2

      It's not about being bold. It's about being competent.

      Really, it's about having the skills to build competence, and the boldness to use them.

  34. Re:Umm...yeah no shit. I could have told you this. by Nadaka · · Score: 2

    Intelligence as measured by IQ is defined as a normal distribution.

  35. Ironic Duality by SuperTechnoNerd · · Score: 2

    In an ironic duality: We as a nation no longer have a manned space program because it's too high and we may fall and hurt ourselves. This kinda thinking is pervasive on all levels and taking over our society. Play it safe - play it safe. We have forgotten how to take risks in this country. Taking risks is vital for our future, and is what made this a great country. Instead we have become a fearful bunch of whiners and pussies.

  36. Re:This "safety net problem" - grownups by tombeard · · Score: 2

    Our local Montessori school actually wrapped their tree trunks in foam so the kids wouldn't get hurt if they ran into them. The kids adjusted by intentionally running into the trees to enjoy the bounce.

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  37. Re:Think of the children! by demonlapin · · Score: 2

    Yeah, it could have gone spectacularly badly

    And if it happened today, you would have had to cope not only with the loss of a child but with being hounded by the media and other parents for being so negligent. You might even face criminal charges. Look at Arlington's standards for when children can be unsupervised. And they think that is the minimum acceptable oversight.

  38. Children of acrobats by MobyDisk · · Score: 3, Interesting

    Last weekend I went to a local art festival and they had a giant picnic table that you could climb on. Perhaps 20 feet high? You needed a ladder to get up on it. It was installed on a grass median and had no fence. As I was on top with my 2 year old, an 8-year old kid ran by me, jumped off, and vanished over the side as he went down. For a moment I thought the kid was crazy! But shortly thereafter, 2 more boys joined in, only they flipped off of the top. It was quite impressive.

    It turns out that they were 3 brothers with their dad. The father was a martial arts instructor and he was coaching his middle boy to use his ankles to cushion his landing, and telling his youngest how to roll if he falls too hard. They weren't crazy - they just saw this stuff growing up and learned to do it safely. The dad told the youngest one that he was only allowed to flip off if he could do one from a standing position. It isn't that they had no rules, they just weren't overly afraid. They had a coach, and they knew their own limitations and followed instructions.

    Amazing what a trusting, confident parent can teach an 8-year old kid. I want to know what they are like in 15 years.

  39. Re:It's not just playgrounds. by compro01 · · Score: 2

    Even if a single dose is sufficient to halt the reaction, they're still going to be spending at least the rest of the day at the hospital, even if just for observation (biphasic anaphylaxis).

    Also, anaphylaxis can result in less obvious symptoms than the classic bronchoconstriction everyone knows about, which happens about 70% of the time. Possible symptoms include fainting and cardiac arrhythmia, which most people wouldn't associate with an allergic reaction.

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  40. Re:This "safety net problem" - grownups by Obfuscant · · Score: 2

    Ultimately a human is hard-wired with a specific risk tolerance, all you do by adding safety features is make them behave in a manner that will bring the risk tolerance back to where they are the most comfortable.

    Which leads to the behaviours that the parent talked about. Those who "tolerate risk" more than others will revert to risky behaviours when the perceived risk is reduced. If you have anti-lock brakes, you will tend to assume that the dangers are less and the risks are similarly reduced. This leads to more risky behaviour because it takes more risk to return to your "most comfortable" levels.

    In other words, nuts who would go 80 MPH except they don't feel safe about it on wet pavement will start going 80 MPH on wet pavement again because the ABS has reduced the risks to where they are once again comfortable taking them.

    This totally ignores those who are totally ignorant about the levels of risk associated with any activity, who see "safety equipment" as an excuse to exceed truly safe operating limits.

    I can tell you, it was a remarkable experience driving my new full-time all-wheel Subaru when I first got it. I assumed it would handle better in the snow than my old front-wheel drive car. Nope. I realized partway into a slide towards the outside of a curve that my new 4wd car had two wheels in back that weren't just following along for the ride, they were actively pushing me towards disaster, while in my front drive car the front wheels would pull me around the curve and the back would go where the front lead. Anyone who didn't find that out on a relatively uncrowded low-snow road would be in a world of hurt, and maybe take others with him, because he trusts the AWD to keep him safe instead of good driving.

  41. Re:what some judge needs to do by geekoid · · Score: 2

    That sort of happens with most cases. The lawsuit issue isn't nearly as big as the belief of the lawsuit problem. Many decisions out of fear from lawsuits don't come from lawyers. They come from upper mismanagement afraid they will get sued for whichever ridiculous thing they happen to think of. As well as meeting where someone is trying to show they did something.

    The media also has a tendency to boiled down case o the most stupid blurb.

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  42. I could've told them that years ago by reboot246 · · Score: 2

    In fact many of us in the older generation were opposed to "safe" playgrounds when they were first introduced. It's about time common sense is coming around again.

    Why reinvent the wheel? Humans are human and have been that way for thousands of years. We grow and mature by being challenged, even if that challenge means sometimes getting hurt (or killed).

    Now, anybody want to listen to wisdom next time?

  43. Remembering old times by Chicken_Kickers · · Score: 3, Interesting

    I grew up in a traditional village in Malaysia during the early 80's. I know this is going to sound like one of those get off my lawn stories but my experiences while growing up there was very beneficial. At that time, my playground was the snake-infested semi-jungle around the village, the monitor lizard infested nearby river and the limestone quarry lake where they were blasting rocks with explosives. We kids will form roaming bands of 10 or more and play soldiers and communists (it was only 1 year after the communist insurgents surrendered), make our own "hand grenades" (got scars to prove it) out of firecracker fillings and spark plugs as detonators, even our own bamboo cannon filled with carbide. We will climb trees, slingshot monkeys, take a swim in the river and fish for tilapia and catfish in the quarry lake all the while explosives were going off nearby. On Eid days and the Chinese New Year, we will go to war with the kids from the neighbouring village, launching firecracker raids and ambushing the counterattack which will sometimes end up as fist fights. Looking back, I couldn't believe I lived that life now that I am living in a modern suburb where everything is gated and sanitised. Firecrackers are now banned in Malaysia. I look at my own two kids and see them playing video games, and the only time they can play outside is when I am supervising them out of fear of speeding cars or kidnappers (this is a real problem).

    Now, everything revolves around the nuclear family. I could do all those risky things in the village because all the adults in the village will keep an eye on you, regardless if you are their kid or not. All adults may scold or cane any child in the village if they cross the line. Complaining about this to your parents will result in another round of caning. You could drop in on your friends house and their parents will serve you food and treat you like you are their own. Now get off my lawn.

  44. It's not just the lawyers... by thejuiceisloose · · Score: 3, Interesting

    My son (23 months) loves the "big kid" playgrounds. He is a cautious child, and he definitely follows the progressive learning model in how high he climbs. However, he is adopted, and we have to worry about social workers disapproving of how we raise him, and we could get in big trouble if he got hurt, so I am one of those mothers who tends to hover around her child on the playground. It's not because I am overprotective, but because society has gotten to the point that the state will take away your child if he cuts his finger, practically. In a civilization's progress, I think sometimes we start to go overboard, and that's when society becomes corrupt and a new, younger society takes over. Look at the cycle of civilization. Ancient powerhouses are no longer around. We don't just get more civilized, we go back and forth.