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Prominent GitHub Engineer Julie Ann Horvath Quits Citing Harrassment

First time accepted submitter PvtVoid writes in with the story of Julie Ann Horvath alleging a culture of sexism at GitHub. "The exit of engineer Julie Ann Horvath from programming network GitHub has sparked yet another conversation concerning women in technology and startups. Her claims that she faced a sexist internal culture at GitHub came as a surprise to some, given her former defense of the startup and her internal work at the company to promote women in technology."

710 comments

  1. That's capitalism. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0, Troll

    Trade is by definition objectification, as you're reducing people to what they can do for you. Of course it's in men's interest to keep women subordinate so they can be more easily exploited (and it would be in women's interest to do the same to men, which is why you have "feminism" going far beyond simply asking for equality).

    1. Re:That's capitalism. by kthreadd · · Score: 5, Insightful

      I'm a guy and after reading her story I would feel the same if I were in her shoes. This is not a gender problem, this is a people problem. A lot of people simply don't know how to behave civilized with other people.

    2. Re:That's capitalism. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0, Offtopic

      Stop abusing the phrase "by definition". You can only use "by definition" if the definition includes some mention of the thing you're claiming belongs to the class "by definition".

      The definition of "trade" doesn't including anything about objectifying anything so you can't say "by definition".

    3. Re:That's capitalism. by AmiMoJo · · Score: 4, Insightful

      Unfortunately we don't have enough information to know if it is a gender discrimination issue or not. If she had to deal with this because she is female, if people treated her differently and if there are persistent problems for women then it is sexism. If not it's just a crappy place to work full stop.

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    4. Re:That's capitalism. by Stellian · · Score: 1, Troll

      I'm a guy and after reading her story I would feel the same if I were in her shoes. This is not a gender problem, this is a people problem.

      You would fave picked a fight with the husband of your female boss then quit you job in a hissy fit citing "a sexist culture" ? A people's problem indeed.

      I wonder, can we legally go full throttle on this "borz culture" for a tech firm ? It has been proven, time and time again, that despite major effort by the companies to accommodate females they still make up no more than 10% of some firms (most gaming companies for example), and they are still rejected/discriminated/unable to fit in/whatever.

      It stands to reason that a firm who openly promotes a male culture, without actively discriminating against females, would be far more productive and retain the best male talent. Unisex lavatory. Alcoholic beverages allowed and provided. Unlimited fastfood allowances. An in-house Bunny Ranch (legal for a Nevada campus). No bullshit anti-discrimination training and assorted brainwashing. Crash couches where you can chill or sleepover if you don't feel like going home. Generous basements for those of us who can't stand direct sunlight anymore. We hire females but they never stay more than a few days, with the exception of the Bunny Ranch of course. Man, I'm excited only typing this, where do I send my CV ?

    5. Re:That's capitalism. by K.+S.+Kyosuke · · Score: 2
      To be honest, when I read things like

      "I had a really hard time getting used to the culture, the aggressive communication on pull requests and how little the men I worked with respected and valued my opinion"

      , I wonder how many men, if going away with perceptions like these, would be ready to ascribe it to some "them vs. me" issue. I mean, one can't conclude on basis of statements like these that some sort of improper discrimination wasn't going on, but neither can one conclude that it was.

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    6. Re:That's capitalism. by Arker · · Score: 5, Insightful

      After reading the referenced article, and the github response, I am still finding myself pretty meh.

      The actual sexism in it seems overblown at best. They had a party, girls were hulu-hooping, guys stared. She seems to somehow have been shocked and perturbed by this, which makes me wonder about her. Is she shocked and perturbed by the affects of gravity or the inverse square law as well? Yet this completely unremarkable scene is cited as the 'last straw' before she left.

      For the most part the real problem appears to have been a founders wife. FTFA: "In her email to TechCrunch, Horvath says she felt "confused and insulted to think that a woman who was not employed by my company was pulling the strings." She also said she felt bullied by someone with perceived power and influence over her personal relationship and her career at GitHub."

      Now I dont know about where Julia is from, but here on Earth a  founders spouse having what might be technically inappropriate involvement in the company business is not exactly unheard of. It's also typical for that spouse to have what we gamers would describe as a great intrigue score - a manipulative deceitful personality that will bluff or lie about her current position in order to improve her position 10 moves later in her game, and who will use you up and throw you away without a hint of remorse if she sees a gain in it. This sort of woman is always scheming, and employees that just want to keep punching their clock and spending their paycheck have to be vigilant to avoid getting involved in her schemes, usually to their detriment.

      Now I dont blame our heroine for being uncomfortable in that spot, Everyone is. I am just saying it's odd that she would actually be surprised by something so common, and odder still that she would attribute it to sexism.

      Github indicates the spouse in question has been dealt with, so frankly it sounds like they may have won on both ends of the deal. Seems an easy bet that at least some of the employees are breathing much more easily in the office today with both of these ladies gone from it.

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    7. Re:That's capitalism. by kthreadd · · Score: 3, Insightful

      That's the whole point. There is no "male culture." There's a number of "cultures" and men are not an homogeneous group that can be classified under just one of them. We're all mixed between different "cultures," spanning both genders.

    8. Re:That's capitalism. by MrL0G1C · · Score: 1

      Whilst the journalistically juicy part of the story is the relationship between the crazy founders wife and Horvath, there could be more points about sexism that didn't make it in to the story, after all - she was hired in part to deal with this issue.

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    9. Re:That's capitalism. by Bazman · · Score: 4, Insightful

      Which is why in civilised countries we have unions and employment law. If I have a grievance like she did with my employer, I go to my union, I don't resign. They understand employment law, contract law, case law, and I have a right to a union rep at meetings with management. Why resign? Does she have a legal case for suing the company? Because I know that's how you leftpondians prefer to do it.

    10. Re:That's capitalism. by genik76 · · Score: 2

      Of course it's in men's interest to keep women subordinate so they can be more easily exploited (and it would be in women's interest to do the same to men (...)).

      I fail to see why - what has this to do with gender? Does your statement still make sense if we replace "men" or "women" with "people"? Do you believe that men are women are natural enemies?

    11. Re:That's capitalism. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      true it's just that men a rarely in womens shoes... at work...

    12. Re:That's capitalism. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

      It stands to reason that a firm who openly promotes a male culture

      Quick, someone alert the Cisprivlegetriggeralert Police - we have a sexist posting on Slashdot.

    13. Re:That's capitalism. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0, Funny

      This is a worldwide social problem.
      Taking a PRACTICAL view of it, one can see it could be eliminated if; we went back to older standards where men worked and women stayed home to nurture family.
      The equality in the workplace concept will never work. People THINK about sex every few seconds as it is. I have women in the workplace, they can fill most of the less physical positions, they work and have few complaints and I have none to speak of. Everyone behaves themselves. ( Of course there is whispered sex talk like, Lookit that! Id ride her bumper..etc. and of course there is some flirtiness on the womens part, even married.) There is still the underlying problem that mating thinking CAN cause problems. Affairs happen, Ive worked more than one place where people screwed at the workplace. For some, the urge to attempt mating is periodically overwhelming and unwelcome sex talk happens. To put the men back to work and the women back in the kitchen straightens out more than one social ill.
      It gives everyone a definable life that can be planned, it solves economics problems, jobs availability, puts an emphasis back on marriage and nurture of family and puts the family unit back in a position to thrive instead of getting more and more disfunctional. You may think that cutting a family back to one income wouldnt be helpful, but, you must also consider that we live far above our means as it is and getting back to some basics would be mentally helpful and free up enough stress to be beneficial from individual to national levels.
      I find women capable enough individually to work as is, I find women incapable as a group to benefit the world by working alongside men. Its implications have so far caused nothing but trouble for ALL. We have done better in the past.

    14. Re:That's capitalism. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 5, Insightful

      Don't forget that the founder's wife treated her the way she did, precisely because she couldn't see Horvath as an engineer, but only as a potential lust object for the founder. And the founder let her. And then there's the atrocious meeting incident, where HR also proved to be totally useless.
      By themselves the points may not seem all that bad, but together they're more fishy, and when you put them in a context of a company with gender issues they're quite damning. This is one of the problems with cases like this: gender discrimination usually pervades the atmosphere of a company and provides the context in which events happen. (I've seen this myself at a Dutch IT service company. I'm a man and even I could see it, so I'm pretty sure the women must have felt it too.) The events themselves aren't that bad by themselves:
      * A competent woman doesn't get promoted. So what, you cannot promote everyone. But the guy who didn't promote her, always promoted only men, and some of them were incompetent.
      * A junior colleague jokes that rape is just a case of economics. The colleague was a guy who regularly mistreated women. Not so funny now, eh?
      * There were no women in management. Okay, that happens sometimes, women like management less anyway, and some women preferred to promote out of the company. But when you know that management consisted of a bunch of sex-obsessed baboons who did nothing but continually laugh at each other's misogynistic ‘jokes’ the picture changes.
      That IT company was sort of an extreme case, but I've since seen more subtle variants elsewhere. These things aren't always that easy to put in words, and every example you might cite will be wiped off the table by someone who doesn't want to understand that there is a problem, but they create an incredibly sickening atmosphere.
      It's hard enough to take for a man; if I were a woman, I would have permanently left IT ages ago.

    15. Re:That's capitalism. by sphealey · · Score: 0

      = = = Alcoholic beverages allowed and provided. Unlimited fastfood allowances. An in-house Bunny Ranch (legal for a Nevada campus). No bullshit anti-discrimination training and assorted brainwashing. Crash couches where you can chill or sleepover if you don't feel like going home. Generous basements for those of us who can't stand direct sunlight anymore. = = =

      I can't tell if this is Swiftian satire or not - which I guess makes it a brilliant piece of writing either way.

      For the record a very large percentage of men would find a work environment such as the parodist describes disgusting and depart within a few days as well. Leaving the rest to surf "game" web sites until the organization collapsed and the bankruptcy trustee started filing clawback lawsuits.

      sPh

    16. Re:That's capitalism. by vlad30 · · Score: 2

      Even the first lady and will tell the president where and when to shove it in and he will listen so whats different about the founder (sounds like DS9 a bit)

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    17. Re:That's capitalism. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      And the founder let her.

      Isn't that statement a little sexist?

    18. Re:That's capitalism. by denzacar · · Score: 3, Interesting

      This is not a gender problem, this is a people problem.

      Quite.
      THIS, as in this particular case, it is primarily obvious mobbing performed on her by the WIFE of one of the founders of GitHub.

      Sure, there are other issues, like the other employee who came out of nowhere professing his love and then started to bully her passive aggressively for "rejecting him".
      Though she was already in "a committed relationship" with another employee of GitHub.

      But this is primarily mobbing, plain and simple. Done by the proverbial "bosses wife".
      FFS - founder who's wife had issues with Horvath demanded her boyfriend to resign cause it was ",bad judgement' to date coworkers".

      I.e. She was pressured by "the wife", while her boyfriend was pressured by "the husband".
      That's NOT SEXISM. They clearly took precautions so it would not be seen as sexism.
      Founder and his wife were MOBBING their employees.

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    19. Re:That's capitalism. by Sla$hPot · · Score: 1

      Please mod up. This has got nothing to do with trolling.

    20. Re:That's capitalism. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

      Maybe you are 48 have 2 kids and a loan to pay? You will not stay 28 forever.

    21. Re:That's capitalism. by AmiMoJo · · Score: 3

      That's just a variation of the "no true Scotsman" argument. Of course there is variation, but there are a lot of common problems too.

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    22. Re:That's capitalism. by AmiMoJo · · Score: 2

      I guess you are referring to the recent call not to label girls who take charge as "bossy". IMHO they have a point - men who take charge as seen as leaders, women are often derided as bossy for doing exactly the same thing. It's not just men saying it either, women call each other bossy just as much if not more.

      But hay, a feminist said it so there must be some underlying man-hatred motive, right?

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    23. Re:That's capitalism. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 4, Insightful

      Oh bull, quit sucking down the kool-aid

      I've worked under the leadership of both women and men, good and bad. The only women I've seen labeled as "bossy" are the same kinds as men who would be labeled "bossy" - Middle management pointy haired people who feel they need to inject themselves into your work to validate their jobs instead of actually LEADING.

      Good leadership is universal, regardless of gender.
      This social engineering campaign doesn't serve women at all well and instead enforces the stereotype that women need to be coddled to be considered as equals.

    24. Re:That's capitalism. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 4, Insightful

      And the founder let her.

      Isn't that statement a little sexist?

      No. As an executive of a company, the founder has the responsibility to act to prevent anyone interfering with the company, either taking action himself or hiring someone to do it within legal means.

      As his wife is doing the interfering, he himself is the most appropriate person to put a stop to it. By taking no action, he is "letting" it happen. "Let" not as "giving permission", but as "not taking action against", i.e. "let it happen".

    25. Re:That's capitalism. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      No, just because you demanded so. Baby does not always get his way.

    26. Re:That's capitalism. by H0p313ss · · Score: 1

      Well it's clear why you posted that as anonymous.

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    27. Re:That's capitalism. by Kielistic · · Score: 4, Insightful

      "Bossy" is probably less offensive than anything I've ever called a male boss that behaved like a dick. If a word like "bossy" is preventing you from being a leader then you just aren't leadership material. If you try to ban words as a means to assert your dominance- you aren't leadership material. But that does make you bossy.

    28. Re:That's capitalism. by BronsCon · · Score: 2

      By themselves the points may not seem all that bad, but together they're more fishy, and when you put them in a context of a company with gender issues they're quite damning.

      What if, and I'm just posing a scenario here, the entirety of the gender issues consists of those points, and those points only? Are those points, themselves, enough to provide a damning context of gender issues?

      I'm not denying that there are companies out there that are just horrible to women; usually they're just as horrible to men, but we're bred to take it with a grin and keep on going. What I'm asking is... Have we all become oversensitive?

      Were they calling out *her* character on pull requests, or was it more widespread? Was it done in seriousness, or in jest? The answer to the first question should lead to the answer to the second; if it was widespread, it was also likely in jest, and sometimes it's difficult to pick up on that if you haven't been around long enough to know all of the inside info, things that have happened in the past that people are poking fun at, and whatnot. If it was just her, just women, or just a handful of the team who had to deal with it, then there certainly was a problem and nobody can deny that.

      The thing is, we don't know. None of us are there. Well, I'm sure a few of us actually are there, but they can't speak up because, no matter what the situation is, we, as a group will tear them apart; either they'll admit it's true and we'll hate them for it, or they'll deny it and we'll decry them as a liar, whether they are or not. Even if they didn't participate. Because, clearly, they didn't do enough to prevent it or put a stop to it. Like anyone here could possibly know that; perhaps they did and it was those in power who didn't act. Or, perhaps, there was actually no problem. We don't now, and will never, know.

      If this was a "just her" issue, then it wasn't sexism; if it was an "everyone" issue, it probably wasn't even negative or malicious. Only if it was a "just women" and, at that, an "all women" issue; only then was it sexist. After all, it is possible that a woman, or a group of women, may be disliked and people may wish to drive her, or them, away, without sexism being the driving force. To put that another way, a sexist man will never respect a woman; so if it wasn't happening to all women within the organization, if any of them were respected, it wasn't sexism.

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    29. Re:That's capitalism. by BronsCon · · Score: 2

      Careful with that talk, you may be decried as a sexist for it. After all, it's not natural that men and women may have different biologically predetermined roles. It's not like one of us was built to reproduce and wired to care and nurture, while the other was built to work and wired to gather and provide. We don't see this anywhere else in the animal kingdom, either; certainly not in other mammals.

      Wait. We do?

      That said, there really and truly is nothing preventing us all from working together. Those willing to give it a go just need to be aware of, and willing to deal with, the reality of the situation, which is that a mixed workplace differs from a nightclub only in the lighting, volume level, and amount of booze and dancing. Hell, drug use is similar at both. Am I saying that's right? No. Fuck, I can't stand the club scene. Would I rather work just with men? I'm sure my wife would rather I did.

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    30. Re:That's capitalism. by BronsCon · · Score: 3, Insightful

      Or, you'd treat your wife or girlfriend with respect. Of course, the knife cuts both ways; I was removed from my position at a company because I turned my *female* manager down for a date, because I was already in a relationship. She was absolutely stunning and, were the situation different, I would have been all over her, but that doesn't change the fact that I was already taken.

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    31. Re:That's capitalism. by Oligonicella · · Score: 2

      And you're a gal seeking to make men look universally bad by your generalized, sexist comment. See how that works?

    32. Re:That's capitalism. by Bazman · · Score: 1

      You sound like you think you own your employees and consider them your private property. Didn't you guys have a war to stop that a couple of hundred years ago?

    33. Re:That's capitalism. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      If you were going to nit pick a sexist statement from the GP, this one seems to be much more appropriate:

      There were no women in management. Okay, that happens sometimes, women like management less anyway

    34. Re:That's capitalism. by BronsCon · · Score: 0

      This. Sort of. If things really are that bad at GitHub, then it needs to be talked about. However, whether or not any of this is true, who is going to hire her now? Anonymity is important, here; at the very worst, had she blown the whistle on this anonymously, someone could reveal her name and open the door for her to sue for enough money to live comfortably on without having to work another day in her life. But, because she's now gone and labeled herself as someone who will make trouble for her employer, she's going to have to find herself a man who's looking for a woman willing, ready, and able to fill her gender-stereotypical role. She will never find another decent job after this.

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    35. Re:That's capitalism. by nschubach · · Score: 1

      I know many... many bosses that I've not respected their opinions on things (and they weren't female). Being the boss does not immediately mean everything you say should be valued and respected. Throughout time, people have always talked poorly about their bosses.

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    36. Re: That's capitalism. by chaboud · · Score: 4, Insightful

      That is classic Slashdot. Oversimplification and grand declarations regarding the behavior of others at the helm of businesses.

      How about this: Social interactions, personal conflicts, and politics are all part of business (and, really, any team environment), and you'd better be ready for it or be ready to get out.

      It is completely unrealistic to expect business to somehow be an antiseptic environment, like some ideal altar of pure motivation. When people hide behind claims of protecting shareholder interest, it's the same shit.

      It's still a group of people, behaving like, shocker, people...

    37. Re:That's capitalism. by Arker · · Score: 1

      "Don't forget that the founder's wife treated her the way she did, precisely because she couldn't see Horvath as an engineer, but only as a potential lust object for the founder."

      And that is different from how we would expect her to approach a male engineer she was trying to ensnare exactly how?

      "And the founder let her."

      So you are saying the man should have kept better control of his woman?

      There might be some sexism here but not in the direction you are pointing...

      "It's hard enough to take for a man; if I were a woman, I would have permanently left IT ages ago."

      Do you say that because you believe as a woman you would be less well equipped to deal with such situations, or because you believe as a woman you would have simply been less willing to deal with them, perhaps because you would have had better opportunities elsewhere? What's the logic there?

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    38. Re: That's capitalism. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      If the roles were reversed, I as the female would puke a little on the inside having to turn down another sweaty developer after another because typical male behavior believes that their dating pool is within the work environment. The difference between IT and other fields are usually the quality of the man - which I've found to be quite disgusting in IT. This is why I left the field and started my own company. Now I can fire the creep and keep my other employees productive.

    39. Re:That's capitalism. by misexistentialist · · Score: 1

      Which brings up the issue of how do you "change" a Scotsman into, let's say, a Chinaman, like they demand that men become something else, namely women? Only solution is some sort of bioengineering or of course a "final solution".

    40. Re:That's capitalism. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Mod Parent up!
      Same thought.

    41. Re:That's capitalism. by SecurityGuy · · Score: 4, Interesting

      Right. Github is located in a civilized country that also has unions and employment law. Unions aren't active in every company, and not active in most for that matter. Gender discrimination and harassment is illegal pretty much everywhere if not everywhere in the US. IANAL and I'm not going to go check all of the jurisdictions to confirm.

      Everyone who has an opinion about unions seems to have a strong one. My own was formed at my first job where I made around $4/hour and got 1.5x overtime over 40 hours. The union guys got a lot more than that, though in fairness they were experienced and I was a kid, so "more" was quite reasonable. They got overtime and double overtime (3x base rate, or what they called "golden time") if they worked something like > 12 hours in a day, which happened from time to time. None of that really bothered me. Obviously, they just negotiated from a stronger position.

      What bothered me was that they could spend a significant amount of that time just sitting on their butts and no one could do a thing about it. They had a "supervisor" who literally sat in a car all day long "supervising". Eventually, the company managed to get rid of that particular leech and just made one of the regular guys a shift lead or some such, and we got along just fine. The leech's parting words of advice to me were to find a job that paid a lot where I didn't have to do anything. In other words, do exactly what he had done. And then there's seniority. With a union, it doesn't matter if you're any good at your job or not, the only question is how long you've been there. Unions, in my experience, promote mediocrity. Oh, and then there's double dipping. Our work was primarily moving freight from one mode of transport to another. Typically from a ship to a train or truck. One of the enterprising union guys figured out how to sign up to work two ships at a time and only show up for one. He got paid for both. It was widely known that he was doing this, but no one could fire him for what amounted to blatant fraud. Maybe it's more precise to say it wasn't worth the fight with the union to get rid of the guy. Those instances of brazen exploitation turned me off unions.

      Unions do have their place. When employers are abusing the workers, unions can back them off. Unions have enough power, though, that they can also screw over the employers AND the employees, and unchecked, they do.

    42. Re:That's capitalism. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Thanks, kindred spirit.

    43. Re:That's capitalism. by Kojiro+Ganryu+Sasaki · · Score: 1

      The given problem: Environment X sucks for population Y.

      Your solution: Forbid population X from working in environment Y.

      You also conflate thinking about sex and being sexist. Those are distinct.

    44. Re:That's capitalism. by Kojiro+Ganryu+Sasaki · · Score: 2

      Swapped X and Y by mistake.

    45. Re:That's capitalism. by BitZtream · · Score: 3, Insightful

      Then you're a pretty drama queen kind of douche bag guy then.

      I read her story and I see someone who can't accept the reality of working at most small companies - nepotism. Not exactly whats going on here, but close enough. Could be worse really, they could have just put her on the payroll, then Julie would have nothing at all to bitch about other than being naive.

      She's pissed off because some women respected did some hula hooping and some guys watched them ... in public ... Jealous much? Thats what this is, she's jealous that those women are getting the attention, that then gets twisted into OMG GUYS ARE SCUM FOR WATCHING ... you know WHY those women used the hula hoop AT A PARTY? TO GET FUCKING ATTENTION AND GUYS TO LOOK AT THEM. ... So she's pissed off because those women got EXACTLY what they wanted ... and she didn't.

      And she can't deal with the fact that the bosses wife has a great deal of influence of the boss ...

      I'm sorry, if you can't deal with that last one, you are well and truly FUCKED in this world because that is a reality of EVERY BUSINESS ON THE PLANET.

      The bosses wife (or husband) IS ALWAYS GOING TO HAVE MORE SAY THAN YOU DO. Perhaps one day get in a relationship and you'll understand the dynamics and you'll understand why the significant other carries so much weight.

      If you continue you ignore it and pretend like it doesn't happen, you'll simply never get anywhere ... and you'll probably remain single as well.

      Hope she likes being a figure head for feminism (I did not say women's rights), because thats all anyone is going to think of her for the rest of her life. She had something[ to bitch about and turned it into a men vs women thing. She's more sexist than anyone she's bitching about.

      You don't scream sexism and then exclusively talk about how a member of the same sex harassed you, and then casually mention something SOME ONE ELSE DID AND SOMEONE ELSE LOOKED AT ... which Julie had ABSOLUTELY NO INVOLVEMENT WHAT SO EVER with ... as your reason for leaving. She's a worthless trouble maker doing nothing other than making women look bad.

      If the bosses wife did try to job assassinate her, which is more or less what she's claiming, then leaving is the right thing to do. Ranting and raving about it on some sensationalizing blog so you get some attention? That just makes you look like you're causing problems.
      If you feel the same as her, you are part of the problem and need help. You guys are truly fucked up and WAY to sensitive about shit that has nothing at all to do with you. Get help, the problem is yours, not ours.

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    46. Re:That's capitalism. by BitZtream · · Score: 3, Insightful

      If calling you bossy makes you not a leader, you aren't a leader in the first place.

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    47. Re:That's capitalism. by BitZtream · · Score: 1

      FYI - when a guy does it, he's a: dick, asshole, blowhard, cocksucker, <insert any insult you can think up>

      Its not that it doesn't happen to men, its that they aren't bitching about it. And neither do most women, just a few loud mouths, generally calling themselves 'feminists'

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    48. Re:That's capitalism. by Wootery · · Score: 2

      You're a troll, and/or a moron, but I'll bite anyway.

      one can see it could be eliminated if; we went back to older standards where men worked and women stayed home to nurture family

      Your solution to women not being empowered to pursue personal achievement and happiness is to... revert to a culture which prohibited women from even getting to the first rung of the ladder? Right.

      For some, the urge to attempt mating is periodically overwhelming and unwelcome sex talk happens.

      You use for some as if there are unfortunate individuals out there who simply can't be blamed for behaving inappropriately in the workplace. Other than in the case of genuine disorders such as Tourettes, this is just nonsense - most people manage it perfectly fine.

      it solves economics problems

      You think sweeping aside half the workforce of a country will benefit its economy?

      You may think that cutting a family back to one income wouldnt be helpful, but, you must also consider that we live far above our means as it is and getting back to some basics would be mentally helpful and free up enough stress

      A family bringing in half the money it usually would, causes a reduction in stress? I had no idea.

    49. Re:That's capitalism. by BitZtream · · Score: 1

      Heh, why so you can have another party in the process fucking you over?

      Unions don't help you, they help themselves at the cost of the company. If that HAPPENS to help you, fine, they won't prevent it, but you're an idiot if you think its about protecting you.

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    50. Re:That's capitalism. by misexistentialist · · Score: 1

      These things aren't always that easy to put in words

      Anything that exists can be precisely described and quantified. But you don't care about that, because you like to see yourself as a grunting silverback charging through the undergrowth to rescue a vagina from the "sex-obsessed baboons"

    51. Re:That's capitalism. by BronsCon · · Score: 1

      Your point? If you truly think that's what I was getting at, you must not have read my last paragraph.

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    52. Re: That's capitalism. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Which is why companies have controls in place. But these controls, in this company, failed as well. So it is a systematic problem.

    53. Re:That's capitalism. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Yup, one guy makes inappropriate advances on her, and suddenly the whole company is sexist.

    54. Re:That's capitalism. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      While I don't necessarily agree with everything you've said, the way she added that hula hoop incident was pathetic. It's the kind of desperate last ditch effort someone makes when they have no ground to stand on.

    55. Re:That's capitalism. by iluvcapra · · Score: 1

      And that is different from how we would expect her to approach a male engineer she was trying to ensnare exactly how?

      Why is it that a woman "ensnares" a man? Have men no self-control? Or is male infantile sexuality simply "the law of gravity" as you seem to claim in OP?

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    56. Re:That's capitalism. by squiggleslash · · Score: 1
      What the fuck does this:

      never allow a union in my company

      have to do with this:

      because there is nothing civilized about government destroying my individual right to own and operate private property the way I see fit and interfere with my hiring and firing decisions

      Or are you saying you don't want unions in your company because then you'd be "forced" to demand the government step in and use lethal force against striking workers, as they did frequently during the 1800s?

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    57. Re:That's capitalism. by datavirtue · · Score: 1

      Anyone else want to see her O face?

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    58. Re:That's capitalism. by Sri+Ramkrishna · · Score: 2

      She was wrong to ask you on a date as a subordinate. Your position was removed because the whole relationship became really awkward.

    59. Re:That's capitalism. by iluvcapra · · Score: 1

      With a union, it doesn't matter if you're any good at your job or not, the only question is how long you've been there.

      This really depends on the union. Entertainment unions in the US don't run on seniority-- a lot of craft guilds don't, the SEIU and many of the newer Change to Win unions don't put as much weight on seniority, even the UAW has come around over the last few years (though I would note that seniority, in principle, didn't hurt the US auto industry for the decades it was the world juggernaut.)

      Unions, in my experience, promote mediocrity.

      Not in Germany, or Scandinavia, or Canada, or even the United States between 1930 and 1980. Militating against your perception is the fact that unionized jurisdictions uniformly have higher median real incomes and standards of living.

      Everybody's got an anecdote about some union chicanery, politicians have been eating out on "lazy union bosses" stories for 30 years. Everybody's also got an anecdote or two about CEO salaries and corporate greed. Anecodotes notwithstanding, the data tells us one is a much bigger problem for our society and our economy than the other.

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    60. Re:That's capitalism. by iluvcapra · · Score: 1

      No no, you misunderstand. The Civil War was over slavery as an agrarian, quasi-manorial system of farm labor. The north was fighting for the much more palatable capitalist wage slavery :)

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    61. Re:That's capitalism. by BronsCon · · Score: 2

      I could just as easily have been transferred to another location; she didn't have to go up the chain and have me removed at the district level. In retrospect, it was a shit retail job, so I'm better off for it; and she did admit what happened several months later and was let go, as well. As far as I know, she still hasn't recovered from the 9 year gap the incident left in her employment history. That's not the kind of incident that results in keeping an employer on your resume.

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    62. Re:That's capitalism. by roman_mir · · Score: 0, Insightful

      Wrong, I consider my private property to be my private property and I treat my employees well enough for them to work for me, clearly offering them conditions better than they could get somewhere else, otherwise they would have been there and not here.

      Since you can't comprehend simple things like that, I am not going to expect you to understand anything else beyond that, like what individual freedoms are. Good luck to you and your economy.

    63. Re:That's capitalism. by phantomfive · · Score: 2

      I know someone who went to the union for help with a problem with a boss. The union did nothing.

      In America, unions are too focused on political issues to worry about the little guy. That's why their membership is falling.

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    64. Re:That's capitalism. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Should you not then extend the game analogy to account for Horvath's move? Why is it so odd? You say it is effective. Is it necessary that she was surprised or believe her treatment is attributable to sexism?

    65. Re:That's capitalism. by cheesybagel · · Score: 1

      She didn't like abuse in patch comments. Good thing she isn't a Linux kernel developer then. You know how Linus is.

    66. Re:That's capitalism. by cheesybagel · · Score: 1

      When you realize that monogamy is a relatively recent concept in human society than you start understanding these behaviors more.

    67. Re:That's capitalism. by BronsCon · · Score: 1

      As I was attempting to point out with my comments re: pull requests, there is a distinct difference between abuse and ribbing based on inside knowledge; to someone lacking that inside knowledge, the two, however, are indistinguishable. Your response seems to be in support of the "yeah, she's just weak" position you appear to think I was taking. You to make a good point about commit comments in the Linux kernel repos, though :)

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    68. Re:That's capitalism. by datavirtue · · Score: 1

      Agreed...her employment prospects are going to be lame from here on out....she should have shut her mouth and got another job. Having formulated this clear statement it is apparent to me now that she probably could not have done that (tech skill deficiency) and she jumped the gun by launching an emotionally charged public diatribe. The hula hoop incident didn't really appear to have anything to do with anything...she was emotionally rattled from the boss' phsyco wife and HR and couldn't deal with or interpret the emotions from the "hula hoop incident" appropriately.

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    69. Re:That's capitalism. by rochrist · · Score: 1

      Common? Not sure what universe you're working in, but you ought to consider leaving. In over 25 years working in high tech, many of those with small startups, I've never, ever encountered someone's spouse interjecting his or herself into the running of the company. Not even close.

    70. Re:That's capitalism. by rochrist · · Score: 1

      And yet she somehow already has another position.

    71. Re:That's capitalism. by rochrist · · Score: 1

      She already has.

    72. Re:That's capitalism. by AmiMoJo · · Score: 2

      It's not about people who behave like dicks, it's about a normal and generally good manager being called bossy because they are female. You have to remember that in the 50s the ideal woman was subservient to her husband and not too strong willed. We are well past that now, fortunately, but there are still some underlying issues around particular words.

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    73. Re:That's capitalism. by Grishnakh · · Score: 2

      There was no sexism at all, what my reading of the Techcrunch article which only presented Horvath's side of events. Her allegations of sexism are ridiculous and completely unfounded.

      Mind you, I completely believe her version of the events as presented here. It's just that they're not "sexism", and I resent that card being thrown for things where it's not appropriate. It's just like how certain people will scream "racism!!!" for things which aren't racism, such as disliking Obama: "If you don't love Obama, you must be a racist!"

      The real situation is that GitHub is simply a horrible place to work, and one of its founders has an evil and manipulative wife who clearly doesn't want any other women working there. This is the real problem with women in the workforce. Men aren't the problem, it's other women who are jealous and controlling. They don't want other women working with them, and when they do, these women want to be the ones in control of things, and direct all their energy to building alliances and backstabbing potential rivals. Not all women are like this; I don't think Horvath is, however, a certain percentage of women are, and it ruins it for everyone. It only takes 10% of female workers to be this poisonous to give them all a horrible reputation. Just ask any normal, non-backstabbing working woman you know: does she have more problems with the men at her workplace, or the women?

      The only remotely "sexist" thing presented here was men gawking at a couple of female employees using hula hoops. That's not sexist, that's human nature. Geeky guys who don't get any action are naturally going to gawk at women who display themselves like that. Did the man say inappropriate things? Touch or grope them? Harass them by asking them out and not taking no for an answer? Or did they just look at them? Staring at someone isn't wrong when they're intentionally putting themselves on display. Did the men gawk at these women when they were just sitting in their cubicles, or only when they were making a spectacle of themselves? I don't see the problem here. We have a workplace that has very few female employees and a bunch of socially-awkward men who don't get out much and probably don't get laid much; WTF do you expect when some girls gyrate in front of these men? Did these women even complain about the gawking? Did they gawk at Horvath? I suspect the answer to that is "no", since she wasn't doing hula hoops in front of them.

      This all sounds like typical small-company bullshit, with an evil boss's wife thrown in, and a completely incompetent HR department. The problem with this last part is that I don't think there's any small company in America with a competent HR department.

      This story is a good illustration, IMO, of the idea that you shouldn't get too emotionally tied to any job, especially at small companies. Small companies, in my experience, are a total mixed bag; some can be OK, others are just a horror show, with harassment and other bad behavior the norm. There aren't many consequences for harassment at small companies (it's hard to prove, and they don't have deep pockets to sue for), so you should be ready to pack up and switch jobs at a moment's notice. Big companies are much better in this regard; you probably won't have anyone hula-hooping at them, harassment is usually dealt with far more strictly, etc., but the work quality usually sucks compared to small places so that's the trade-off.

    74. Re:That's capitalism. by Grishnakh · · Score: 1

      That's a bunch of crap. I'm pretty sure I've seen studies showing fathers are generally more nurturing and caring than mothers (the whole "women are nurturing and caring" idea seems to me to be a completely false stereotype; maybe some women are like that, but not the majority). And in the pre-agriculture days, it was the women who did the gathering; men did the hunting.

    75. Re:That's capitalism. by Grishnakh · · Score: 1

      Sorry to reply to my own post, but since Slashdot is too shitty to let me edit my own post....

      To add to the "women are caring and nurturing" BS, think about this: how often have you heard of evil step-mothers? It's so common it's a huge stereotype. Now, how often have you heard of evil step-fathers? I don't think I've ever heard of that.

    76. Re:That's capitalism. by jedidiah · · Score: 1

      > Or, you'd treat your wife or girlfriend with respect.

      You're assuming that no female is capable of "sharing". It's almost like you are attributing an anti-bellum notion of female moral purity to women. How chauvanistic of you.

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    77. Re:That's capitalism. by Grishnakh · · Score: 1

      These "older standards" never existed anyway. Women have long been employed in various jobs, namely schoolteaching and nursing, as well as various other menial jobs like maids. Middle-class and up women who got married did tend to become housewifes, particularly during the US's postwar economic boom, but poorer women and women who never got married (derided as "spinsters") generally had to work for a living, even during the bad old days when women weren't allowed to work at many good jobs. Don't forget, even during the 60s or so, telephone operators were generally women. Not to mention secretaries. The idea that women generally stayed home to raise kids is not only sexist, but completely false.

    78. Re:That's capitalism. by BronsCon · · Score: 1

      Then she was smart enough to have done so before making publicly coming out against her previous employer. Good on her, let's hope this job works out, then. Don't take my comment as being unsupportive of her or her actions, as I certainly support anyone's right to move on from a bad situation, and to make that situation known. I'm simply stating a fact; one which she was clearly aware of, as she had a new job lined up before all of the publicity.

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    79. Re:That's capitalism. by jedidiah · · Score: 1

      > Wrong, I consider my private property to be my private property and I treat my employees well enough for them to work for m

      Well. Fortunately we don't live in a feudal society anymore and there's some limits to your raving megalomania there. There's such a thing as law and order and equality and no one is above the law.

      Although such things are the only thing that allow petty Robber Baron wannabees like you to even exist in the first place. Otherwise, you would just get crushed under the heel of a bigger bully.

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    80. Re:That's capitalism. by BronsCon · · Score: 1

      I think you missed the point of my post. Clearly, I'm not misogynistic enough to even have a clear picture of what the roles should be; if your posts are at all accurate, there is more of a parallel with Lions (and likely many other large mammals), where the females are the hunter-gatherers by nature. If you actually read the entirety of my post, however, it should become clear that I was pointing out that it really doesn't, or at least shouldn't, matter; anyone should be allowed to fill any role they're physically, mentally, and emotionally capable of filling, and respected based on the merits of their performance, rather than their gender. I didn't put it quite that way, and the part of my post that was making that point didn't use as many words, so I can understand how you may have missed it, not having been slapped upside the head with tit and all.

      And this is why these topics never see any reasonable, mature, and progressive discussion.

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    81. Re:That's capitalism. by Grishnakh · · Score: 1

      No, I think he's saying that all groups of people are natural enemies of each other. You can replace "men" and "women" with any other group names:

      Of course it's in white peoples' interest to keep black people subordinate so they can be more easily exploited
      Of course it's in business owners' interest to keep immigrants subordinate so they can be more easily exploited
      Of course it's in politicians' interest to keep citizens subordinate so they can be more easily exploited

    82. Re:That's capitalism. by jedidiah · · Score: 1

      > Not in Germany, or Scandinavia, or Canada, or even the United States between 1930 and 1980. Militating against your perception is the fact that unionized jurisdictions uniformly have higher median real incomes and standards of living.

      No they don't. They have lower standards of living and lower real incomes. Much of this is driven by the (oddly) higher cost of living inherent in high density urban centers and the amplified tax burdens in more union friendly nations.

      You might be lucky enough to get more "downtime" but have no money to really do anything with it.

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    83. Re:That's capitalism. by graffic · · Score: 0

      Unions are made from employees. I'd like to see a worker's union in the SF bubble.

    84. Re:That's capitalism. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      "you know WHY those women used the hula hoop AT A PARTY? TO GET FUCKING ATTENTION AND GUYS TO LOOK AT THEM. ... So she's pissed off because those women got EXACTLY what they wanted ... "

      This right here is exactly what I think she is talking about. Did she overreact? Maybe, I dunno, obviously wasn't there. But if you think that naturally a couple of women deciding to hula-hoop was to get attention from men (party or no), then you illustrate exactly the problem.

      For you it was for your benefit (or the benefit of the men present), instead of oh I dunno, just having fun at a party (perhaps reliving childhood, bonding with each other, basically a million other fucking reasons other than "BOYS!!!!!!"). They are doing something fun for themselves and bunch of douchebags turn it into something sexual.

      I say this as a man, whose obviously more grown up and respectful of women than you.

    85. Re:That's capitalism. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      She sure told him to zip it with the selfies and rightly so.

    86. Re:That's capitalism. by BronsCon · · Score: 1

      I sincerely hope this post was pure satire.

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    87. Re:That's capitalism. by Sri+Ramkrishna · · Score: 1

      Yeah, I agree. It would have been a bad bet to even have dated her too because a) integrity b) if you're dating, that could lead to favoritism, contributing to a hostile work environment No, that was not the girl for you anyways, especially if she makes such bad decisions.

    88. Re:That's capitalism. by roman_mir · · Score: 0

      So funny, so funny.

      Tell that to the non-union members that get jailed for working in all-union shops, jailed by the government.

      I don't have a problem with people that unionise as long as it does not mean that special privileges would be granted to them at my expense by some government, because they end up lobbying governments and getting themselves such privileges. As things stand, I will not allow any union in my company because I know exactly where it leads to, which is why I structure my company in a way that distances the employees from the actual company that all business contracts are signed with, to be able to dissolve the child corporation, whose parent is a corporation in a different state altogether.

      Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice..... and go see W's quote.

    89. Re:That's capitalism. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Agree 100%. Honestly, I think the whole sexism-in-IT thing is generally overblown. However, I would prefer that my workplace be a generally-asexual environment. I'm there to get something done, ideally aligned to my skills and interests. I don't mind chatting with coworkers about work, and even though I don't care much about football I don't care if they want to chat some about football at lunch. I don't really care to have a pole dancer in the lobby and feel like I need to wear gloves when opening the restroom door.

      I'm all for punishing firms that engage in nonsense like what was described above. That would include most law firms, by the way...

      Where I draw the line is when we basically set up preference programs that favor somebody based on belonging to some group, such as preferred hiring of women, or mentoring programs for women, or scholarships for women, or whatever.

    90. Re:That's capitalism. by Arker · · Score: 1

      In this case, we expect her try to snare a man for the same reason she (apparently) tried to snare the woman - to further her own plots in the company.

      Don't read more into it than is there.

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    91. Re:That's capitalism. by nwf · · Score: 1

      And that is different from how we would expect her to approach a male engineer she was trying to ensnare exactly how?

      Why is it that a woman "ensnares" a man? Have men no self-control? Or is male infantile sexuality simply "the law of gravity" as you seem to claim in OP?

      I think for many men it is a "law". Self control in the US is declining in general, and many men didn't have much to begin with, particularly when culture encourages such behavior. Everyone wants to blame someone else for their failures, anyway. It's a convergence of a society not valuing self control nor personal responsibility. It's only like not worse because it's politically incorrect.

      Disclaimer: I'm a man, but I see this all the time, everywhere.

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    92. Re:That's capitalism. by BronsCon · · Score: 1

      I'm sure my wife would agree :)

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    93. Re:That's capitalism. by Dr.+Evil · · Score: 1

      "You don't scream sexism and then exclusively talk about how a member of the same sex harassed you"

      Who said that women don't discriminate against women?

      Women are a BIG part of the problem. They don't get a pass for discriminating against women just because they're women and they "should understand".

      They also don't automatically get a degree in feminism, nor become experts on gender politics.

      Julie's description certainly sounds like a pattern of abuse. The media attention is because she's a woman in IT. There's a world of complicated issues around this whole article, and a huge amount of it is gender related.

    94. Re:That's capitalism. by Kielistic · · Score: 1

      You go right ahead and call your male boss a cocksucker. Then you can go on to explain that it's totally alright because you weren't challenging his authority. Bonus points if you add: "it's not like you're a woman- why are you mad?" (which appears to be your point here)

      Men get called names all the time for "merely exercising their authority"- sometimes even "bossy". Do you really believe women are so pathetic that they can't deal with the consequences of authority? What happens when a woman is genuinely a terrible leader? Are they immune to criticism because it might hurt some other woman's feelings?

      This whole campaign was so horribly ill-conceived from the get-go that it would be funny if not so sad. "Let's show how great women can lead by publicly advertising they are incapable of taking criticism". I'm offended by that idiocy and I'm a man.

    95. Re:That's capitalism. by Kielistic · · Score: 1

      No one gets called bossy solely for being female! They may get called bossy for actually being bossy (not a gender issue) or maybe for giving a command someone does not like (also not a gender issue). This is about people not liking criticism and using a social movement with lots of clout as a pulpit for complaining.

      "Underlying issues around particular words". How much cognitive dissonance do you have to suffer through to type that? In what universe do you think "particular words" can utterly crush a leader? "Cold war over guys, the Ruskies called us capitalist pigs. How can we fight against such unwavering oppression." The entire concept is complete nonsense. This is petulant children running to mommy and daddy (some higher authority figure in this case) and screaming "they called me a bad word!" Definitely leadership material.

      And in what world do you think your red herring about what you think women in the 50s were like helps make your point?

    96. Re:That's capitalism. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Nobody is a leader in the first place. It's learned behaviour. The claim is that using this language to girls of three years and upwards provides continual negative reinforcement: that girls aren't leaders, that any "leadership" behaviour they are demonstrating is outside the norm and not approved of by adults.

    97. Re:That's capitalism. by Sri+Ramkrishna · · Score: 1

      :) Well, I thought you were not married at the time,right? :)

    98. Re:That's capitalism. by BronsCon · · Score: 1

      Not at the time, but it's unlikely I would have met my wife if things had played out differently.

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    99. Re:That's capitalism. by Sri+Ramkrishna · · Score: 1

      Looks like it all worked out for the best then!

    100. Re:That's capitalism. by BronsCon · · Score: 1

      So it's alright to call my female boss a cocksucker? After all, not treating a female the same way you would treat a male is sexist, right? Or is it really just not okay to call your boss a cocksucker, regardless of gender? No matter how much we all really want to.

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    101. Re:That's capitalism. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      What you are saying is not as simple. Because of switching cost and collusion, the labor market must be controlled like any free market.

      No free market with significant switching costs works well without regulation.

    102. Re:That's capitalism. by epyT-R · · Score: 1

      But hay, a feminist said it so there must be some underlying man-hatred motive, right?

      Yes, actually. Man-shaming has always been part of the narrative, since the whole "women need men like fish need a bicycle" and scum manifesto thing.

    103. Re:That's capitalism. by epyT-R · · Score: 1

      I'm sorry, but if you think women's 'equality' depends on banning the use of certain words, then women aren't leadership material. Leaders lead in SPITE of competition/subversion. The ones who can't hack it are the ones who forget that 'sticks and stones' nursery rhyme.

    104. Re:That's capitalism. by BronsCon · · Score: 2

      This. And it's damaging the the valid points of the movement.

      Honestly, if equality movements, be they gender, racial, or whatever else, want to be taken seriously, they need to crack down on this behavior. You can't have every Tom, Dick, and Harry, and their sisters, Tammy, Dottie, and Harriet, speaking in the name of your movement, saying things your movement doesn't actually stand for; and there needs to be some standard punishment for doing it, as well.

      Women have every right to the same rights I have as a man; if they choose to reject the responsibilities that come with those rights, society has the same right to deal with them they way they'd deal with me if I did the same. If a woman can't deal with that, then she can't handle those rights; just like a man who can't come to terms with their own personal responsibility. That's what equality is, and that's what I'm a huge proponent of; gender/race/status equality, across the board. If you can't get behind that, then I would ask you to either explain why I'm wrong (I'm open to hearing it, but nobody has ever tried -- not that they've tried and failed, but nobody has ever stood up and told me that across-the-board class equality is wrong) or spend some time considering your perspective on the topic.

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    105. Re:That's capitalism. by BronsCon · · Score: 2

      I'd like to clarify on this point. I know several feminists and none of them are whiny little bitches. Weak women (and men) are whiny little bitches; feminists are, by and far, stronger than that. And they hate the whiny "I'm a feminist, I'm powerful, but I'm going to whine about you not recognizing that" girls (I won't degrade women by calling these girls women) with a passion.

      Feminism is real. Feminism is powerful. Feminism is something men can and should support. Feminism is also invoked by girls who have no real self-image, to the detriment of real women everywhere, feminist or not; and I just can't support that.

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    106. Re:That's capitalism. by DrGamez · · Score: 1

      Having a bad day?

    107. Re:That's capitalism. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      You have obviously never been married. When it is good, it is great. When it isn't, you lose objectivity in your search for making the pain stop. Just because he became the CEO of a company doesn't mean he turns in his humanity card. Sure, he might not be a human with equal concerns as we have in our positions, but we can all be satisfied in knowing that those bonds of marriage work the same for the executive suites.

    108. Re:That's capitalism. by Arker · · Score: 1

      And while it's certainly possible you have by chance avoided companies where that happened, it honestly seems as likely you just never saw it, or realized what you were seeing. These women are good at this game and we geeky technical guys (in the vast majority of cases) are pathetically outclassed. And the one in this story sounds like a bumbling child compared to another person in a similar position I have known.

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    109. Re:That's capitalism. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      In other words, it was the perfect Poe.

    110. Re:That's capitalism. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Dear Strawman;

      Your argument as it applies to adults does not matter to the goals of the organization - they are trying to help out children and teens. They don't care much what you call an adult, but they hope to ban the word bossy for girls as it is often misapplied to them when they try to take a leadership role.

    111. Re:That's capitalism. by iluvcapra · · Score: 1

      There's a difference between "is" and "aught." We hold people responsible for failing to do as they aught, not for what they are.

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    112. Re:That's capitalism. by Bazman · · Score: 1

      Wow the union situation in the USA is so screwed up compared to us lefty commies in the UK. Can you seriously stop your workers getting together and discussing their wages and conditions? Appointing a spokesperson to come and ask you for an extra two minutes toilet break every day? Would you just fire the lot of them and re-hire?

      But crudely put, employment law is there to try and bring the dicks up to the level of the good guys, rather than bring the good guys down to the level of the dicks. So if you're not a dick, you shouldn't have to worry about it.

    113. Re:That's capitalism. by Kielistic · · Score: 1

      Care to point out where I made a strawman argument? Replace "boss" with "young adult in a leadership position" and the point stands. No effective leader is handed leadership on a silver platter. How is banning a word really going to help women. How exactly do you ban a word from a specific usage anyway? The whole thing screams of knee jerk reactions, lack of thought and completely impossible goals. Which are all really bad traits for leaders.

    114. Re:That's capitalism. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      If they try to get an unfair advantage over me by using gov't violence, I will immediately stop that threat

      I hate to break it to you, comrade, but they've been using government violence to gain an unfair advantage over you since the beginning.

      It's call the fiat currency you're using. You may avoid them, but your employees don't (nor your customers or suppliers)

      As an employer, you're screwed by both sides when you deal in fiat.

      When customers pay you fiat, government is threatening you to accept those worthless pieces of paper or bits in a computer in exchange for valuable goods and services.

      You might think "oh but I pay my employees and suppliers in fiat so it evens out". No, it does not even out. Your employees and suppliers use government-created inflation against you, demanding higher wages and prices. If you are as principled as you make yourself to be, you won't ever pass this cost to the end customer, for that would make you no better than the collectivist thugs who threatened you to give them raises.

      In other words, if you truly want to stop the threat, the only solution is the John Galt solution. Stop dealing in fiat. Don't even start a business. Get out and disassociate yourself with all society. Only when a majority of productive people do this would the beast be starved.

      Every moment you're running your business producing valuable things helps the beast more. You are actually helping the threat more than the jobless welfare leech who is draining the beast.

      Please, comrade, wake up and stop what you're doing!

    115. Re:That's capitalism. by yenic · · Score: 1

      Your points are valid, more or less. But honestly I'd rather have unions in our world than not. I'll take a leech here and there if that's what is required to not go back to the days before unions.

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    116. Re:That's capitalism. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      She's pissed off because some women respected did some hula hooping and some guys watched them ... in public ... Jealous much? Thats what this is, she's jealous that those women are getting the attention, that then gets twisted into OMG GUYS ARE SCUM FOR WATCHING ... you know WHY those women used the hula hoop AT A PARTY? TO GET FUCKING ATTENTION AND GUYS TO LOOK AT THEM. ... So she's pissed off because those women got EXACTLY what they wanted ... and she didn't.

      Nah, that is no different than a rich asshole saying "they are all just jealous" to justify paying themself, on average, 243x more than everyone else.

      I am not saying it is a valid viewpoint, but it is far more likely she, in HER MIND, saw that coworkers did not seem to respect women except as bodies to look at outside of work, so IN HER MIND wondered what the coworkers really thought of her at work, and IN HER MIND was afraid that is all they thought that she was.

      That is not reality, but it is hardly "she was jealous of the other women" and hardly "she wanted to be gawked at" ... it is more likely she felt like if she stuck around, that's all she would ever be -- someone to be gawked at.

      It is more likely she was worried she WOULD be gawked at, or already that's how they viewed her, and that whatever she did, that is all she would ever be to them.

      Calling her "jealous" just emphasizes this -- she may have been COMPLETELY ok with coworkers giving blow jobs to the executives -- hey, if it makes them happy, go for it -- and STILL felt like if that is how things are ran, she wants nothing to do with it.

      Not out of a "that is wrong" kind of thing, but out of a "if that's what it takes to get ahead here, I will walk away calmly and go elsewhere."

      Maybe it broke her poor little heart -- she had some false image of men that they would not be men outside of work, and she freaked out and couldn't deal with it.

      That has nothing to do with "she wanted what those women had" and everything to do with "her expectations of reality fell far short of how things actually were."

      Your view is that noone has any feelings, and everything is just to get something out of someone, and that is just not true.

      People do not behave according to reality, they are swayed all the time by emotional reactions, that may not have ANY basis in reality but nevertheless are real to that person or people.

      She MAY not have any emotions, I may be completely wrong. But I wouldn't assume she has no feelings and is just "jealous" and this is all a calculated move on her part to destroy github.

      There are people like that, I have met them, but they are MORE emotionally-crazy than anything. That is how they end up going on vendettas -- they can't deal with their emotions and have to try and push them off on others.

    117. Re:That's capitalism. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      It is also INSANE to assume women dance so men can watch. What a sad little world you live in.

      Sure, some people, some times. But lumping everyone together like that is insane.

    118. Re:That's capitalism. by Ash+Vince · · Score: 1

      Man, I'm excited only typing this, where do I send my CV ?

      Just put it in the bin where it belongs :)

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    119. Re:That's capitalism. by Rakarra · · Score: 1

      "And the founder let her."

      So you are saying the man should have kept better control of his woman?

      It is his job as a company executive not to let his non-employee wife interfere, not his role as her husband. Maybe if she were head of HR the discussion of whether this was appropriate or not would be different.

    120. Re:That's capitalism. by Rakarra · · Score: 1

      Appeal to nature is certainly a logical fallacy, but that's what what the grandparent was doing.

      It's a mistake to appeal to nature, but it's also a mistake to pretend that nature and natural processes don't exist, or that we have somehow entirely separated ourselves from them.

    121. Re:That's capitalism. by Rakarra · · Score: 1

      if your posts are at all accurate, there is more of a parallel with Lions (and likely many other large mammals), where the females are the hunter-gatherers by nature

      Birds too, especially raptors. In fact, female hawks and eagles are larger and more muscular than the males since not only do they hunt the same amount, they have to lay eggs as well. This difference lets them catch larger prey than the males can, which benefits the family since the pair can hunt and catch a wider variety of animals.

    122. Re:That's capitalism. by Rakarra · · Score: 1

      you know WHY those women used the hula hoop AT A PARTY? TO GET FUCKING ATTENTION AND GUYS TO LOOK AT THEM

      Geez, and I liked the rest of your post so much too. But that conclusion is a terrible one. Awful.

    123. Re:That's capitalism. by Rakarra · · Score: 1

      Which is why I would nevere allow a union in my company, because there is nothing civilized about government destroying my individual right to own and operate private property the way I see fit and interfere with my hiring and firing decisions

      What if it was an open shop? Would you not then be guilty of interfering with your employees' rights of free association?

    124. Re:That's capitalism. by BronsCon · · Score: 1

      Huh. Learn something every day. Thanks!

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    125. Re: That's capitalism. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Ban a word that is misapplied? Who gets to judge whether it's misapplied or not and who graced these people with the power to choose for me they are the source of truth. This entire argument in favor of banning words is being waged by retards in liatards. My response is to ban you from using the word 'ban' because you egregiously misuse the term.

    126. Re: That's capitalism. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Ban a word that is misapplied? Who gets to judge whether it's misapplied or not and who graced these people with the power to choose for me they are the source of truth. This entire argument in favor of banning words is being waged by retards in leotards. My response is to ban you from using the word 'ban' because you egregiously misuse the term.

    127. Re: That's capitalism. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Well that's not what happened here, rtfa. She was clearly harassed. This isn't a platform for griping about personal pet peevs. Look at what's in front of you, instead of going on some pre canned rant about feminism.

    128. Re:That's capitalism. by nctritech · · Score: 1

      Humanism is real. Humanism is powerful. Humanism is something everyone can and should support.

      Feminism is only about women. It even says so on the box.

    129. Re:That's capitalism. by BronsCon · · Score: 1

      Until women are treated as equals in all aspects of life where physical differences don't preclude that possibility, Feminism will be necessary. If you want to take any and all power from the Feminist movement, it can be done in a few simple steps, but we all have to get on board and do it. Here's how:

      1. Treat all women with respect based on the merits of their actions. If you would respect a man for acting a certain way, respect a woman just the same. Likewise, if you would lose respect for a man acting a certain way, a woman acting the same way should also lose your respect.
      2. Provide the same level of assistance to a woman that you would to a man; expect the same response from both. That is, hold doors for both nearby men and women, expect a "Thank you" from both. If you would do something for a man, do that thing for a women, but, if you would rather teach a man how to do it himself, likewise teach a woman.
      3. If you cling to the magazine-cover ideal of a woman, stop. First of all, none of that is real, so you're only alienating the women in your life by lusting after that image. Second, none of that is real, so you'll only ever be net with disappointment. Letting go of it is a win-win.

      As long as Feminism is necessary, as long as the movement by and far has a point, and they very well do, those of us who do treat women as our equals will still be called out by the "fake" Feminists as not doing enough, because we don't respect all women equally, we don't go out of our way to "raise up" the weaker women, and we still hold on to societal ideals of what a woman should look like. Well, the flipside of that is that we don't respect all men equally or "raise up" the weaker men, and we most certainly still cling to societal ideal of what a man should look like. Once we're able to honestly apply the same measures for respect to both men and women, truly provide the same level of aid and assistance to both men and women, and admit that both genders hold ideals for the appearance of the other which are neither realistic, nor healthy, true Feminists will be satisfied and the whiny bitches from my previous post lose their teeth.

      Then, and only then, does it become acceptable to call a girl a girl, a woman a woman, and a bitch a bitch. And we all know there are bitches out there that make even the most empowered Feminist wish there were a third gender to assign to them; just like we have douchebags, who do nothing but serve to make all men look like woman-users.

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    130. Re:That's capitalism. by BronsCon · · Score: 1

      Before I get flamed to hell and back, "take any and all power from the Feminist movement" may have had some sarcasm behind it.

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    131. Re:That's capitalism. by nctritech · · Score: 1

      This is not the proper place to have a full discussion about what you've typed (especially since Slashdot will lock the comments soon) but I should at least contest the overall sentiment. A "war on douchebags" (so to speak) is no different than a "war on drugs" or "war on terror." You cannot eliminate people being jerks. No one will ever succeed with goals like "make people stop being unfair." It is an impossible goal, largely because the definition of things like "fairness" and "manners" and any number of other social moral judgments are subjective and highly fluid. Who decides where the boundaries are? Who gets to tune what constitutes equality? There is no one person that can sit in that chair and be truly "fair," especially with so much of the composition of equality being compromises, and in the absence of compromise there is only favoritism. To illustrate: in exchange for men giving up certain things for equality, will women do the same, i.e. all women (in the U.S.) at age 18 being legally required to sign up for selective service?

      As long as people have autonomy, they will behave in the way that they want to behave. The only three ways to eliminate that are to allow them to make a profound personal mistake that teaches them to behave that way, to convince them to make an effort to change their own behavior, or to take away their autonomy. The first is out of anyone's control while the third is on the same overall moral level as things like Big Brother, Hitler, or eugenics, leaving the second option: convincing someone to change.

      Feminism as it manifests publicly doesn't change anything; it violently pushes away the people it would need to convince to change. Until feminists can come to the table with a civil and convincing set of arguments, the only people who will listen will be the feminist echo chamber.

      One final note: most of the oppression of women today comes from other women, not men. Who do you think operates all of those beauty magazines? If you want to see how modern female oppression really works, this comic illustrates it best (even though there are some English usage issues.)

    132. Re:That's capitalism. by BronsCon · · Score: 1

      You didn't contest the sentiment of my post, you failed to understand it. I never called for a war on douchebags. Keep reading until that thought falls from your head. Also, how many Feminists do you know? Actual Feminists, not whiny "I'm a Feminist, I'm a strong, empowered, female" bitches, because those aren't Feminists.

      I'm not sure what you're getting at with this post, but it sure sounds like a whole lot of "we'll never get everyone on board, so there's no point in anyone getting on board". When you recognize the first half of my post as satire (I mean "but we all have to get on board and do it", come on -- if it were that simple, we'd have no social ills whatsoever, right?), the rest, after the list, should just fall right into place for you.

      This is the first time I've been called out for doing too much, though. Thanks, it's nice to see the flipside of the coin, for once.

      Also, why the fuck did Slashdot eat my <ol>?

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  2. Time to fork Git? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0, Troll

    This is really bad, especially given the high adoption of Git. I really like Git, but being so closely connected to GitHub will probably make a lot of projects move to competing version control systems if this type of behaviour continues. Anyone know how much of Git's source code that is open, can it easily be forked to rely less on GitHub?

    1. Re:Time to fork Git? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 2, Informative

      Git doesn't rely on github, at all. It is also completely open source (GPL) so if you wanted to fork it for some reason, you could.
      What would make a lot more sense would be creating a community run alternative to github itself. Something without a business behind it.

    2. Re:Time to fork Git? by jones_supa · · Score: 3, Funny

      Aaaand the Millennium Technology Prize goes to Anonymous Coward.

    3. Re:Time to fork Git? by EthanV2 · · Score: 2, Insightful

      GitHub relies on Git, not the other way around. There is nothing stopping you (apart from technical expertise) from starting your own GitHub clone.

    4. Re:Time to fork Git? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      This is really bad, especially given the high adoption of Git. I really like Git, but being so closely connected to GitHub will probably make a lot of projects move to competing version control systems if this type of behaviour continues. Anyone know how much of Git's source code that is open, can it easily be forked to rely less on GitHub?

      No worries, Mercurial here to save the day! ;)

      And anyway, Bitbucket is nicer... and works with both Git and Mercurial.

    5. Re:Time to fork Git? by BitZtream · · Score: 1

      Its like you guys have no clue what history is ... that or you like watching failure repeat itself time and time again. Show me 'community driven' that didn't fail in the first year, go ahead, you can look for a while, we'll wait.

      Note: Linux is not community driven, 99% of the dev work comes from people PAID to WORK ON LINUX BY A COMPANY. That is not community driven or controlled.

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    6. Re:Time to fork Git? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Actually that dumb?

    7. Re:Time to fork Git? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Seriously? SVN, KDE, GNOME, GTK, GIMP, Apache, NGINX, Postgresql, GCC and so many others it is impossible to name all

    8. Re:Time to fork Git? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      By many companies, in fact. Those companies form a large part of the community.

    9. Re:Time to fork Git? by Antique+Geekmeister · · Score: 1

      Such as https://www.bitbucket.com/ which has an interestingly different business model. Github represents, in technology, a great step forward from the older https://sourceforge.net/. But this sounds like they have some serious employee relationship and morale problems to deal with.

    10. Re:Time to fork Git? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Its a complex concept to realize that hosting and publicity cost real things. One money the other actual people time.

    11. Re:Time to fork Git? by JonJ · · Score: 1

      Its like you guys have no clue what history is ... that or you like watching failure repeat itself time and time again. Show me 'community driven' that didn't fail in the first year, go ahead, you can look for a while, we'll wait.

      I'm going to go ahead and guess that you're going to call every place where someone somewhere has been paid to be involved 'not community driven' even if there are only a very few people being paid. So no thanks.

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    12. Re:Time to fork Git? by BitZtream · · Score: 1

      Primary development on all of those was paid for by a company, with the exceptions of kde, gnome/gtk/gimp) which I don't know the history off but I'd be welling to bet a good bit that it leans in my favor. The others ... Apache, NGINX, Postgres, GCC ... MOST CERTAINLY PAID FOR by companies. GPL3 dropped the number of contributing companies to GCC by a ridiculous amount and created LLVM, but you don't remember that, do you? Postgres kicks ass because of all the work EnterpriseDB puts into it. Apache and NGINX? Apache is old, I can see your confusion, but nginx ... seriously? It was freaking created by a hosting company for fucks sake.

      One person my have started those projects, but they got where they are today because of companies investing time and money into them.

      You better go take a look at the commit logs of those projects, then come back with another try. When the majority of your commits come from someone working for a company paying them to work on your open source project, then its pretty fucking hard to act like your project is independent of company support.

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    13. Re:Time to fork Git? by BitZtream · · Score: 1

      Sure, and I'm not arguing that. But the silly idea posted originally here is that git can magically be awesome without any 'company' pushing it, and thats just silly, there are A BUNCH of companies pushing it.

      The original implication is that companies are the bringer of ruin, when in fact, companies are what allow open source to REALLY thrive.

      Okay, actually git might be able to pull it off, because of Linus himself ... but it'd be an up hill battle cause most of us care more about practicality than being a fanboy.

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    14. Re:Time to fork Git? by iluvcapra · · Score: 1

      GitHub relies on Git, not the other way around.

      Eh... GitHub is a huge brand presence for Git, if we consider Git as a business concern. I'm certain a lot of people elect to use Git because they know that they'll be able to host it with GitHub. If we lived in a world where BitBucket had been the more aggressive first mover, I'm sure things would be different.

      The other thing Git has going for it is Linus, but just because Linus uses $X DVCS doesn't mean that people are clamoring to use $X. Very few people need to pull kernel diffs and Linus is atrocious at marketing.

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    15. Re:Time to fork Git? by greg1104 · · Score: 1

      EnterpriseDB is an important part of PostgreSQL development with several contributors, but they still work within the larger development community of contributors. There are other companies with just as many contributors, with one example being how 2ndQuadrant is adding logical replication features.

      One way you can tell if an open source project has a real community is whether the project would go on even if the largest company contributing code disappeared. Linux would survive RedHat disappearing, and PostgreSQL would certainly survive EDB going out of business. That's not even a theoretical question, because the PostgreSQL community is informed by having seen it happen once already. A company named Great Bridge hired a good percentage of the PostgreSQL community once, and then failed after running out of VC cash.

    16. Re:Time to fork Git? by vilanye · · Score: 1

      GitHub is closely connected to Git, not the other way around.

      GitHub would be called HgHub or something if Git didn't exist. Git would be completely unaffected if Github didn't exist.

    17. Re:Time to fork Git? by vilanye · · Score: 1

      Linux started out community driven and was like that for most, if not all of the 90's.

  3. One side of the story by abies · · Score: 3, Interesting

    So we know one side of the story. But what about the other side? Maybe she was really bad worker and used 'discrimination' card each time to defend her work? "You are saying that this code is bad not because of the code, but just because I'm a woman". It would be nice if somebody could anonymously 'leak' some of her pull requests plus entire conversation around it - and then we could see how much harrasment was from reviewer and how much unfair pushing from her side.

    Problem is that GitHub is at lost position. However bad she was, they will be always painted bad boys for throwing dirt on her, so they will probably keep silent...

    1. Re:One side of the story by schappim · · Score: 5, Interesting

      They haven't kept entirely silent. They put a post on the issue up here: https://github.com/blog/1800-u...

    2. Re:One side of the story by ohnocitizen · · Score: 2

      Not true. If they are upfront and transparent and in the right they can easily win back the day. The question is are they in the right. Did a single creepy and jilted co-worker (who aggressively professed his love) remove her code? Is there a data trail to prove this one way or the other? Does the founder's wife act like an employee? If so, I bet other employees have similar stories. When someone acts that unhinged at a company it generates a lot of eye witnesses.

      If I was a C-level guy at github, I'd come right out with as much info as I could to counter the claims, or to address them seriously and productively, as soon as possible.

    3. Re:One side of the story by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      So we know one side of the story. But what about the other side?

      I just RTFA. If so much as 1/4 of the allegations are true, Github have a lot to answer for.

    4. Re:One side of the story by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

      Ohh... 'wife'... sounds like some serious drama~

    5. Re:One side of the story by Alarash · · Score: 5, Informative
      GitHub's CEO has posted something on this:

      This weekend, GitHub employee Julie Horvath spoke publicly about negative experiences she had at GitHub that contributed to her resignation. I am deeply saddened by these developments and want to comment on what GitHub is doing to address them.

      We know we have to take action and have begun a full investigation. While that’s ongoing, and effective immediately, the relevant founder has been put on leave, as has the referenced GitHub engineer. The founder’s wife discussed in the media reports has never had hiring or firing power at GitHub and will no longer be permitted in the office.

      GitHub has grown incredibly fast over the past two years, bringing a new set of challenges. Nearly a year ago we began a search for an experienced HR Lead and that person came on board in January 2014. We still have work to do. We know that. However, making sure GitHub employees are getting the right feedback and have a safe way to voice their concerns is a primary focus of the company.

      As painful as this experience has been, I am super thankful to Julie for her contributions to GitHub. Her hard work building Passion Projects has made a huge positive impact on both GitHub and the tech community at large, and she's done a lot to help us become a more diverse company. I would like to personally apologize to Julie. It’s certain that there were things we could have done differently. We wish Julie well in her future endeavors.

      Chris Wanstrath
      CEO & Co-Founder

    6. Re:One side of the story by gweihir · · Score: 2, Insightful

      Looks like something went seriously wrong there. Does not necessary mean there was a cultural problem though, might just have been a few big egos with small social skills that nobody reigned in. These exist everywhere, not just in the tech field.

      That said, I think what Julie Ann Horvath did was highly unprofessional. You do not badmouth your former employer, no matter what they did. You may sue them or come to an agreement that makes suing them unnecessary. I would not hire her now for the sole reason that she seems to believe discretion and loyalty to a company becomes optional after you leave. Not so.

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    7. Re:One side of the story by Truth_Quark · · Score: 2, Insightful

      Maybe she was really bad worker and used 'discrimination' card each time to defend her work?

      The articles seem to refer to her as Influential developer.

      I don't think that "really bad worker" is likely.

      And her story isn't incredible. There is a lot of sexism in the industry.

      Problem is that GitHub is at lost position. However bad she was, they will be always painted bad boys for throwing dirt on her, so they will probably keep silent...

      Their response (linked by others) is probably the best they could do. But also it looks like they are taking her allegations seriously themselves.

    8. Re:One side of the story by Tanuki64 · · Score: 2

      Did a single creepy and jilted co-worker (who aggressively professed his love) remove her code? Is there a data trail to prove this one way or the other?

      Did you ever try to rewrite the git history so that really no trace of a commit can be found? Sounds interesting. I would like to know how this can be done.

    9. Re:One side of the story by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      >I would not hire her now for the sole reason that she seems to believe discretion and loyalty
      >to a company becomes optional after you leave. Not so.

      WTF? Professional discretion, yeah, but loyalty after departure? Follow one's agreements, but in today's "at will" environment the only ass you have to cover is yours.

    10. Re:One side of the story by abies · · Score: 4, Insightful

      Their response (linked by others) is probably the best they could do. But also it looks like they are taking her allegations seriously themselves.

      This is my point. Even if she is wrong, they would have to pretend she is right. There is no way of them saying "She overreacted and tried to play 'harrassed woman' card when in reality she was just bad'.

      And regarding 'influential developer'... "influential developer known for helping make GitHub a more attractive place for women programmers to work". Sounds like she was known for being women activist and influencing the view of the company in female circles, rather than influencing the code base/architecture/whatever. She _might_ be a very good developer - I just don't see it claimed anywhere yet.

      Issue is that it is not any longer possible to say "this particular woman is horrible and crap programmer" without being understood as "all women are horrible programmers and I'm chauvinist pig". And while I agree that industry is quite sexist and in many cases attacks are underserved, I refuse to give special handling to a worker doing bad job just because he/she comes from some opressed minority.

      To be honest, I would find it a lot more sexist to give the hell to the guy producing bad code routinely, while being all time calm, smiling and forgiving to woman doing same thing. I'm probably 'chauvinist' enough to put a line at physical violence (like effectively defending myself against physical assault of man versus assult of women), but I'm not going to hold back on opinions just because of gender (or color of skin, disability or sexual orientation).

      Again - not saying she is bad. I'm just stressing that in current PR climate, we will probably never learn, because it will be always better for company to sacrifice a good male programmer than try to fight to expose bad female programmer publicly.

    11. Re:One side of the story by gweihir · · Score: 1

      No problem. After you said that, I would not hire you either.

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    12. Re:One side of the story by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Looks like something went seriously wrong there. Does not necessary mean there was a cultural problem though, might just have been a few big egos with small social skills that nobody reigned in. These exist everywhere, not just in the tech field.

      That said, I think what Julie Ann Horvath did was highly unprofessional. You do not badmouth your former employer, no matter what they did. You may sue them or come to an agreement that makes suing them unnecessary. I would not hire her now for the sole reason that she seems to believe discretion and loyalty to a company becomes optional after you leave. Not so.

      Let's assume her story is true. If you as a woman in tech want to raise awareness that this is a real problem. Or is a whistle-blower on any issue really. How would you go about that if discretion to former employer is the most important thing?

    13. Re:One side of the story by thejynxed · · Score: 1

      I would imagine that such info is kept in some sort of database using variables. Such metadata is more than likely easy to manipulate or make "disappear" if one has enough knowledge of how the entire system works. I would also make a guess that there are also some master keys and master locks in the entire thing where they can change the access level of such metadata, where by all intents and purposes it vanishes and never exists unless you've been assigned the permissions to access it.

      I don't use git or github, so have no inside knowledge of how it works specifically, but I've seen similar systems in use on the backend at enough corporations to know how some of these systems work (and have seen entire data trunks seemingly vanish out of the streams when someone up the chain made it so).

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    14. Re:One side of the story by gnasher719 · · Score: 1

      So we know one side of the story. But what about the other side? Maybe she was really bad worker and used 'discrimination' card each time to defend her work? "You are saying that this code is bad not because of the code, but just because I'm a woman". It would be nice if somebody could anonymously 'leak' some of her pull requests plus entire conversation around it - and then we could see how much harrasment was from reviewer and how much unfair pushing from her side.

      So you are saying that it would be nice if any woman who claims to be harassed would be further harassed? If a woman claims to be harassed, we have to go over her work with a fine tooth comb? Fact is, if there was harassment, then the quality of her work is of no concern whatsoever. Harassing an exceptionally good employee or a not so good employee is harassment, in each case. And somehow I think that being harassed could have negative effects on the quality of someone's work, which would not be her fault at all.

    15. Re:One side of the story by mwvdlee · · Score: 2

      OTOH, she only started badmouthing after she was being publically badmouthed.

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    16. Re:One side of the story by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

      OMGHERD FIRE ERRYONE

    17. Re:One side of the story by mwvdlee · · Score: 2

      In the end, Git is just a large amounts if bits.
      So "yes", it can be manipulated.
      It's not some easy database though; removing something from a Git repositiory without leaving a trace is very, very hard.
      Git is also distributed, so it seems quite likely that there are many copies of the repository everywhere, including in her posession.
      Each would have to be changed very meticulously in order to not look suspicious upon investigation.
      It's not impossible, just something completely out of scope of anybody except the few people who fully understand the inner workings of Git.

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    18. Re:One side of the story by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Harassment is illegal. If you want to raise awareness you start a lawsuit. Without one everything is just rumors and 'he said she said' drama. Lawsuits provide measurable statistics. You can't go around counting up each time someone complains about their work but you can go around data mining lawsuits and see if things are getting worse or better.

    19. Re:One side of the story by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

      You agree that the industry can be sexist and that in many cases attacks are undeserved yet you refuse to treat a fellow employee differently because they are from the group that is oppressed. Does that mean you have conviction to stand up for the rights of the oppressed in front of others or just that you won't oppress them yourself? If you are choose the first it makes you a decent, caring, responsible person and if you choose the second it means that moral courage is not one of your virtues.

    20. Re:One side of the story by Cenan · · Score: 2, Insightful

      You do not badmouth your former employer, no matter what they did.

      And had she not done so, you would still be able to read the quoted statement, right? Wrong. Nothing happens if people don't speak up, and if it has to be in a public statement about the hows and whys, so be it. It can only be construed as illoyal or unprofessional if your first course of action is whining on the Internet. That is not what happened, according to both Julie and GitHub.

      Suing is not going to fix the problem, it is most likely to end in a dismissal or a settlement (with an NDA), both outcomes less than ideal for the other employees.

      If your company culture is so sick, that it cannot survive the light of day, I'm not sure you deserve to hire Julie, or anyone else for that matter.

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    21. Re: One side of the story by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      What company are you hiring for? I'll just skip over those postings and save both of us some time.

    22. Re:One side of the story by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

      Harassment is illegal. If you want to raise awareness you start a lawsuit. Without one everything is just rumors and 'he said she said' drama. Lawsuits provide measurable statistics. You can't go around counting up each time someone complains about their work but you can go around data mining lawsuits and see if things are getting worse or better.

      Ok, so if there is a lawsuit then you can publicly badmouth your former employee? I did not get that from the post above, it seemed to imply that you should sue or settle in silence (would there be statistics on the content of settlements?).

      To just wait for malpractices to be discovered as an issue at a later time when someone is counting the number of law suits seems not very efficient if you want to affect change.

    23. Re:One side of the story by Barsteward · · Score: 1

      As an employer what are you scared off? If you run your company properly, you'd never face this situation.

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    24. Re:One side of the story by BitZtream · · Score: 1, Insightful

      Sneak a push in that now one notices immediately and the ability to notice it sneaked in goes away RAPIDLY and completely as soon as everyone syncs up again.

      Removing stuff from git is trivial, and it cleans up the fragments left around for you.

      It does require unfettered access to the git database, but beyond that, its trivial.

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    25. Re:One side of the story by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      The complete history of a particular commit is securely hashed into the commit ID. This ID is individually stored on every developer computer. This means you can't rewrite history without every developer getting a warning about this.

    26. Re:One side of the story by gbjbaanb · · Score: 2

      and if she hadn't said anything, nothing would have changed.It seems, from the CEOs response, that many things were very wrong at that place.

      So you do badmouth your previous employer, its the way you do it that's important. You keep things as unemotional and factual as possible. Of course, you also have to consider suing to be "badmouthing" too, but with a nice payout at the end.

    27. Re:One side of the story by gweihir · · Score: 2, Interesting

      Except if somebody is ticked off or angry without the company being at fault. For example if they have unrealistic expectations, an unrealistic view of their skills, etc. A common situation. If that combines with them being unprofessional, that is a sure combination for causing serious problems.

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    28. Re: One side of the story by gweihir · · Score: 1

      We would not hire cowards anyways.

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    29. Re:One side of the story by AmiMoJo · · Score: 5, Insightful

      And regarding 'influential developer'... "influential developer known for helping make GitHub a more attractive place for women programmers to work". Sounds like she was known for being women activist and influencing the view of the company in female circles, rather than influencing the code base/architecture/whatever. She _might_ be a very good developer - I just don't see it claimed anywhere yet.

      Issue is that it is not any longer possible to say "this particular woman is horrible and crap programmer" without being understood as "all women are horrible programmers and I'm chauvinist pig". And while I agree that industry is quite sexist and in many cases attacks are underserved, I refuse to give special handling to a worker doing bad job just because he/she comes from some opressed minority.

      Sorry, but that is complete bollocks.

      Firstly she says that her code was deleted/reverted without explanation, or with hostile comments left. It doesn't matter how terrible a programmer she might be, that kind of thing is unacceptable. Criticism and reverts are fine, as long as they are constructive and don't amount to bullying.

      You can freely criticise women as long as it is constructive, and the rule is the same for men and gay people and black people and every other minority. You don't have to treat women differently, just fairly as you would any other human being. Giving someone "hell" for writing bad code is rarely appropriate and unlikely to create a good, productive work environment compared to, you know, helping them improve. Arguably men are more likely to put up with it but that doesn't make it right.

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    30. Re:One side of the story by Antique+Geekmeister · · Score: 2

      It can almost be done by rebasing and replacing a central master. But this deteriotes the history and interaction with _every single cloned repository_ and is generally noticed quite quickly. The validity of all the potentially independent, separate cloned repositories is one of the very useful, decentralized powers of git.

    31. Re:One side of the story by mvdwege · · Score: 0

      Shitheads like you is why far too many women put up with harassment for far too long.

      Enjoy it while it lasts, because the tide is turning.

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    32. Re:One side of the story by mwvdlee · · Score: 2

      A push does not remove anything from history, nor does reverting a change or removing files.
      Git has no "official" way of completely removing something from a repository.
      Once something has happened to a repo, it can always be traced back.

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    33. Re:One side of the story by Mdk754 · · Score: 1

      This! We will never learn the full story.

      I wonder if the screenshot from "Secret" has any credence? It would seem to backup this theory, but is too small of a sample.

    34. Re:One side of the story by Tanuki64 · · Score: 1

      That's what I thought. So it is practically impossible to do it and erase all traces. In that case it should be fairly easy to prove or disprove her claims.... if this is allowed and not sexist to doubt her word.

    35. Re:One side of the story by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      You just called Julie Horvath, the woman who reported the harassment a ‘cunt’.

      In the light of this statement by GitHub’s CEO, would you like to retract that? https://github.com/blog/1800-update-on-julie-horvath-s-departure

      Unless you know something we don’t?

    36. Re:One side of the story by gbr · · Score: 0

      If I had mod points, I'd mod this comment down.

      Your choice of words and attitude disgust me.

    37. Re:One side of the story by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I am appalled that Slashdot moderators would vote for a post that uses such language. It is not called for, no matter what has happened.

    38. Re:One side of the story by PhrostyMcByte · · Score: 1

      That said, I think what Julie Ann Horvath did was highly unprofessional. You do not badmouth your former employer, no matter what they did. You may sue them or come to an agreement that makes suing them unnecessary. I would not hire her now for the sole reason that she seems to believe discretion and loyalty to a company becomes optional after you leave. Not so.

      I wouldn't badmouth a former employer, specifically because future hiring managers would see it as a huge red flag. And that's kind of pathetic, if you think about it -- if you're having a terrible experience that your higher-ups show no care of fixing, is it not ethical to warn others away from a poisonous company? The industry has scored fear into us under a facade of "professionalism".

    39. Re:One side of the story by sFurbo · · Score: 1

      Firstly she says that her code was deleted/reverted without explanation, or with hostile comments left.

      But we don't know whether this is a fair representation of the events. Especially with hostile comments, that is a subjective call, and it is easy to mistake " harsh criticism" for "hostilily". If we imagine a world were she were a bad coder, it could look exactly the same to us, so we have no way to tell whether we are in the world where she is a good coder and the company has a bad working environment, or we are in the world were she is a bad coder who can't take criticism (at least from just this story. There might be prior information that could help us make an educated guess).

    40. Re:One side of the story by nctritech · · Score: 2

      Women are not the sole targets of harassment.

    41. Re:One side of the story by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Given the fact that women in jobs requiring brains underperform is not a rarity, this is probably the case. Afterwards, it's all the same sap story "my company didn't appyusheathe me, because I'm a woman"

    42. Re:One side of the story by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Don't worry, she not even the last person I would consider to hire.

    43. Re:One side of the story by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      So which of the co-founder's wives was banned from the GitHub offices in the aftermath of the resignation? Why is the CEO apologising for alleged but as yet unsubstantiated claims made by the departed former staff member? Why has a specific engineer and another individual been placed on leave status pending the outcome of an internal investigation? What is the nature and details of the alleged claim of harassment? How will hiring an "HR Lead" improve the culture within GitHub's offices? In my experiuence, HR destroys companies from within by creating a culture of anymosity as well as person claiming harassment of various types generally are poor performing employees who've been called-out by a co-worker. I have been harassed my entire career because I make some people on the various teams look less intelligent, less knowledgeable, or less competent than they try to project.

    44. Re:One side of the story by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I would. I don't believe in keeping my mouth shut if my employer is an asshole. In fact the more assholes outed, the better it is for my organization.

    45. Re:One side of the story by gweihir · · Score: 1

      As my comment had absolutely nothing to do with her being a woman, I take it "the tide is turning" means women will turn into oppressors? That is something just as worthwhile fighting against.

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    46. Re: One side of the story by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Are "we" hiering anyways? Have "we" ever had anything to do with a hiering process?

    47. Re:One side of the story by abies · · Score: 2

      Firstly she says that her code was deleted/reverted without explanation, or with hostile comments left. It doesn't matter how terrible a programmer she might be, that kind of thing is unacceptable. Criticism and reverts are fine, as long as they are constructive and don't amount to bullying.

      Yes, "she says". If you look at greenshirt post in their magic forum, it looks quite the opposite - he (or she?) claims that Julie has "history of raging against professional criticism" and other bad things. If what greenshirt says is true, then all of us are being just manipulated by drama queen.
      Now, given that entry, ask yourself, why do you believe her side of the story by default?
      1) Because she went to the press first and started smearing her coworkers in public, while they stayed on private forums?
      2) Because she is a woman?

    48. Re:One side of the story by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      "cunt"? And people mark this as insightful?

      You are the problem here. Please go away, and do not come back.

    49. Re:One side of the story by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      And her story isn't incredible. There is a lot of sexism in the industry

      Throughout my IT career I have worked with men and women with a higher prevalence being women while contracting with the federal government. In every case there have been good and not good male and female co-workers and managers. However, I found working with female co-workers much easier for the most part. The only men causing problems in the workplace seemed to be the low performers, the political operatives, the very people who'd be terrible in any organisation or on any team. The workplace can be worse than the school playground at recess; this is the real sign a workplace culture is toxic for everyone.

    50. Re:One side of the story by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      That said, I think what Julie Ann Horvath did was highly unprofessional. You do not badmouth your former employer, no matter what they did.

      That said, you admit you are a criminal - so why should we take your advice?

      Aggravated accessory to murder or rape are serious crimes. Your admission that you would commit such a crime simply because of your standard "you don't badmouth your former employer, no matter what crimes they commit and laws they break" is sickening.

      It's only a shame such crimes couldn't have been committed against someone such as yourself, who doesn't feel such actions are even crimes let along wrong. At least then the evil in the world wouldn't be harming anyone.

    51. Re:One side of the story by BronsCon · · Score: 1

      I'm a huge proponent of the c-word. In a positive light.

      This post disgusts me.

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    52. Re: one side of the story by unimacs · · Score: 1

      Doesn't matter if she's good or bad. If her code is removed, she should be given an explanation. She said that the guy she rejected began to routinely pull her code without any giving any reason at all, or even telling her it was removed.

      Someone else said it, but I'll repeat it. Individually you could write the things she experienced off as bad behavior on the part of particular people. Collectively it must have made working there a nightmare. Lots of people here have identified the hula hoop incident as nothing more than men and women acting like men and women sometimes do at parties. That doesn't mean it doesn't make some of the people there uncomfortable. I've seen it. It's one thing to go to bar with some co-workers knowing it's a meat market. It's different when it's a company event.

      And again, while that incident alone might not be a particular concern, lump it in with all the other stuff that happened to her and you've got a problem with culture of the organization.

      The key question is would any of this stuff have happened if she were a guy?

    53. Re:One side of the story by BronsCon · · Score: 1

      If the claim of harassment is directly related to her work, then yes, that would be how one would verify that claim. If it is not, then no, it would be unnecessary and could be (rightly) viewed as further harassment.

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    54. Re:One side of the story by Gavagai80 · · Score: 4, Informative

      Seems like they don't dispute any of her accusations, and readily endorse them.

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    55. Re:One side of the story by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      That said, I think what Julie Ann Horvath did was highly unprofessional. You do not badmouth your former employer, no matter what they did. You may sue them or come to an agreement that makes suing them unnecessary. I would not hire her now for the sole reason that she seems to believe discretion and loyalty to a company becomes optional after you leave. Not so.

      As soon as you pledge this kind of loyalty to a company, organization, country or other collective, you may as well throw away your brain, because you no longer have any use for it.

    56. Re:One side of the story by GoCrazy · · Score: 1

      This picture from the article alone might be a good indication of the other side of the argument.

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    57. Re:One side of the story by gweihir · · Score: 1, Informative

      Very far from it actually. There is however a specific type of woman that likes to complain loudly at the slightest opportunity and think any and all things she does not like are intentionally done to hurt her. There are also some women that like to use these claims as basis of power-plays, up to and including false claims of rape.

      These women are a serious problem, because they make it hard to recognize whether a complaint about "harassment" by any woman is just this thing or actually genuine. While most women are not this stupid and selfish, the minority that is seems to be far larger than similar groups among men.

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    58. Re:One side of the story by gweihir · · Score: 1

      Actually, the problem is more complicated. Sure, if a honest person points out issues that are serious and are not being fixed, that may be desirable, depending on the way this is communicated. Going to the press is almost always the wrong way. But not everybody sees things the same way and not everybody is honest. In fact, those that scream the loudest are often those that are least trustworthy and they more often than not have a hidden agenda.

      That does not mean you cannot say anything. The highly unprofessional thing is the finger-pointing she does. If she had just said she left because of "cultural differences", that would have been fine. It would have told others to be careful. But giving specifics and blaming people is completely unprofessional as there is no way to verify the truth. It is no better than spreading rumors.

      That "red flag" is not undeserved, no matter what actually happened.

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    59. Re:One side of the story by gweihir · · Score: 1

      Indeed. And because it is completely impossible to verify any accusation she makes, it is completely unprofessional for her to make these accusations.

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    60. Re:One side of the story by Stan92057 · · Score: 1

      I would say yes true

      https://github.com/blog/1800-update-on-julie-horvath-s-departure

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    61. Re:One side of the story by mellon · · Score: 1

      Maybe you should stop doing that...

      (Seriously, if this has been happening your whole career, the constant is probably _not_ that you are always the smartest person on the team. And if it _is_ that, maybe you should try to find a position where you _aren't_ the smartest person on the team. Either way, if you said this to me in a job interview it would be a huge red flag.)

    62. Re:One side of the story by mellon · · Score: 3, Insightful

      This is why harassment continues. You're damned if you speak out, and damned if you don't.

    63. Re:One side of the story by gweihir · · Score: 1

      There is also the possibility that she is a good coder, but not a team player and did ignore agreements with others, broke interfaces with ones that may have been better (but caused problems elsewhere) or she may even have rewritten stuff by others without talking to them or having a clear task to do so. In short, she may be highly competent technologically, but may have made a complete ass out of herself and the things that she got in response may have been well-deserved.

      If she claims her code was "deleted", that stinks of dishonesty right there. In modern version control systems, no code is ever "deleted".

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    64. Re:One side of the story by mellon · · Score: 1

      A lot of what she says is verifiable, and github seems to be acknowledging that it happened.

    65. Re:One side of the story by gweihir · · Score: 1

      Well, that would explain things. Being able to take criticism is an absolute requirement for any professional. And so is not taking your dirty laundry to the press. But somebody with a huge ego may do both, especially if they can play some "harassment" card.

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    66. Re:One side of the story by mellon · · Score: 1

      It's in the bloody commit logs! Or if it didn't happen, it's not in the commit logs. Harsh criticism and hostility are the same thing. And it's easy enough to read the code and see if the comments are about something that was in fact bad code. It's actually pretty difficult to believe that she isn't telling the truth—this sounds like a classic case of "poorly socialized male geek gets disgruntled when pretty geek woman doesn't return his interest, and does something butt-stupid in response."

    67. Re:One side of the story by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      You do not badmouth your former employer, no matter what they did.

      And had she not done so, you would still be able to read the quoted statement, right? Wrong.

      The people abusing their power and influence COUNT on you not speaking up or sharing information with others.

      Nothing cleanses like the cold light of day.

    68. Re:One side of the story by MSG · · Score: 1

      You do not badmouth your former employer, no matter what they did

      To quote Chris Rock, "Ain't nobody above an ass whoopin."

      It's certainly true that if you publicly air your grievances against a former employer, you'll probably never work there or with those people in the future. However, there is definitely a time when you are certain that you no longer want to work with those people, and a time when it's appropriate to warn the community that they hire from that employment comes with serious issues.

      Personally, I think we have just as much responsibility to our community of co-workers as we do to our employer. People who never speak up are abdicating the responsibility that we have to each other.

    69. Re:One side of the story by gweihir · · Score: 1

      My experience is that women and men do not really perform differently. There are a few stellar ones, a lot of mediocre, and quite a few bad ones. Given that women in technical fields are still a minority, I would have thought they are better on average, but 25 years of observation do not support that. That said, the one area where women seem to be worse is controlling their aggression. While that very rarely was an issue, the few times I have seen it, it turned ugly in a way it would not have with men of similar background and education.

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    70. Re:One side of the story by HornWumpus · · Score: 1

      For the record. I've reverted changes and left comments threatening to break all a programmers fingers (and toes so they can't program with their feet) if they did _that_ again.

      If she was that bad a coder, getting rid of her was worth all the bad press.

      Not saying she is. Just that some people should not be coding and they better toughen up.

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    71. Re:One side of the story by Stan92057 · · Score: 1

      Your right But...they are vastly far far more harassed then anyone else.

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    72. Re: one side of the story by gweihir · · Score: 1

      No, the key question is why she did not resolve the issue. Code pulls clearly show up in the log. She can be professional and confront the person and come to some kind of working agreement. If that fails, she can escalate. If that fails as well, she can leave quietly, maybe stating "cultural differences" as the reason. But whining about it to the press, with details and finger-pointing? Unbelievable. How does she expect to ever be taken seriously again?

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    73. Re: one side of the story by unimacs · · Score: 1

      She did leave quietly. It was only after someone trashed her on the secret social network that she decided to come forward with her side of the story.

    74. Re:One side of the story by nctritech · · Score: 1

      [citation needed]

    75. Re:One side of the story by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      "pretending to have loyalty to a company becomes optional after you leave."

      Fixed that for you. Companies are not loyal to their customers. Employees are not loyal to their employers.

    76. Re:One side of the story by ThePhilips · · Score: 3, Funny

      What you describe (exaggerating a lot though) sound very much like the "drama queen" archetype.

      Ironically, in workplace, all the drama queens I have met were male.

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    77. Re:One side of the story by Stan92057 · · Score: 1

      [citation provided]

      http://researchnews.osu.edu/archive/sexharass.htm
      http://all.net/games/sex/larsen.html

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    78. Re:One side of the story by phantomfive · · Score: 4, Insightful

      I would not hire her now for the sole reason that she seems to believe discretion and loyalty to a company becomes optional after you leave.

      Pro tip: your company will never be loyal to you even while you are working there. They will fire you as soon as it matches their profit/cost equations. Don't expect to get anything from your loyalty.

      Be loyal and cultivate relationships with people, not companies.

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    79. Re:One side of the story by nctritech · · Score: 1

      The first one doesn't support your statement. There is no information about male harassment at all, only female harassment, and the content is comparing how often women are harassed based on male-to-female ratios; "women are harassed far more than anyone else" is not covered at all. The second link is over 20 years out of date, is based on surveys (which go back into the 80s), and doesn't seem to support your statement, particularly since one of the points given is: "It seems that when men are privately surveyed whether or not they've experienced unwanted sexual attention, a relatively high percentage of them say yes (approaching the percentage of women). However, the percentage is a lot lower (but still significant) when only the number of formal complaints are considered."

    80. Re:One side of the story by nctritech · · Score: 1

      I'd also add that the second link and its age suggests that men have been oppressed by society for decades, as they are not comfortable speaking up when harmed due to societal pressures that perhaps would label them "weak" in some way. I'll be adding it to my list of sources for proving long-term pervasive male oppression by American society.

    81. Re:One side of the story by Blakey+Rat · · Score: 3, Insightful

      Sexist claims aside, the critique that a non-employee is allowed to hang-out in the office and harass employees-- and is still there even after being repeatedly banned from that area of the building-- that is a real HR problem, and that alone would be enough for me to quit a company.

    82. Re:One side of the story by drinkypoo · · Score: 2

      You do not badmouth your former employer, no matter what they did.

      Your way creates a nation of slaves. I, personally, oppose slavery.

      You may sue them or come to an agreement that makes suing them unnecessary.

      Your way creates a nation of excessive litigation. I, personally, would prefer that the courts are used for those cases when where is no other recourse.

      I would not hire her now for the sole reason that she seems to believe discretion and loyalty to a company becomes optional after you leave.

      You would not hire her now for the sole reason that you could not subject her to abuse without her telling people about it. If you meant to behave honorably, you would not need to cherry-pick employees who will condone your bad behavior by not reporting it to those who wish to know: potential applicants, and potential customers who might not want to do business with you.

      There is no reason to have any loyalty to an entity which failed in its responsibilities to you, and to suggest that there is would be simple hypocrisy typically engaged in by business owners who enjoy a status quo based on treating workers like slaves.

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    83. Re:One side of the story by ogdenk · · Score: 1

      I would not hire her now for the sole reason that she seems to believe discretion and loyalty to a company becomes optional after you leave. Not so.

      And you are exactly what's wrong with corporate America. Last I checked I was born free. Corporations aren't my daddy. Corporate policy is not law. When I leave I owe my former employer NOTHING. Nada. Zip. Zilch.

      If I'm treated poorly, I may retaliate in a legal fashion if it's justified.

      If I'm treated well I might consider consulting for them later if they need a hand.

      But in the end, it's up to me. Discretion and loyalty have absolutely no place when your rights are being infringed upon by folks with a lot of economic weight to throw around. And not all of us make enough to blow money on parasitic lawyers and legal games.

    84. Re:One side of the story by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      No, they're the appropriate doublespeak to cover their ass.

    85. Re:One side of the story by AmiMoJo · · Score: 1

      I can't believe anyone mods this shit up.

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    86. Re:One side of the story by gweihir · · Score: 1

      git has forward-hashes. Unless you recreate the complete repository, you cannot "delete" or manipulate anything already in there. You can just do an additional commit that reverses the previous one. In all likelihood the logs will be complete and accurate.

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    87. Re:One side of the story by Stan92057 · · Score: 1

      Both support what is a commonly know fact.Women are harassed far more then anyone else in the workplaces. Wheres YOUR citations proving me wrong.?Your comment is only that a comment with no proof so [Citations please] I knew no matter what i provided it wasn't going to be good enough for you

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    88. Re:One side of the story by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

      My guess - for some reason, you run into this "specific type of woman" much more often than the rest of us.

    89. Re:One side of the story by gweihir · · Score: 2

      Unfortunately, it is not exaggerated. A woman in a neighboring country was recently sentenced to 6 years because of a false rape claim she made to get rid of a competitor for a promotion. The poor guy spent 8 years in prison and she nearly got away with it.

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    90. Re:One side of the story by gweihir · · Score: 1

      People may have made different observations from yours. Or you may be selectively blind.

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    91. Re:One side of the story by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      You are the problem here. Please go away, and do not come back.

      No one cares what you think, you pathetic spineless faggot.

    92. Re:One side of the story by gweihir · · Score: 1

      That seems highly doubtful. Systematic studies so far find no significant difference, just that women complain about it more. That also matches what women engineer colleagues told me when I asked.

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    93. Re:One side of the story by nctritech · · Score: 1

      You made an assertion, therefore the onus is on you to prove the validity of the assertion. Your links don't support your assertion at all and at least one seems to support the opposite of what you are claiming. Provide something to look at that supports your premise; that's all I've asked for, and what you provided didn't even touch your premise. There can't be a factual discussion if anyone is to simply assume everything we hear is correct without proof.

    94. Re: one side of the story by gweihir · · Score: 1

      Not a justification. Not in the least.

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    95. Re:One side of the story by UnknownSoldier · · Score: 1

      I'll probably get down-voted but you know the old cliche ...

      - There is his side of the story,
      - There is her side of the story,
      - And the truth probably lies somewhat in the middle

    96. Re: one side of the story by unimacs · · Score: 1

      So she should shut up about what she considers harassment even if it continues after she leaves?

      Ever think that she might be doing the other employees who may have or would have experienced the same things a favor?

      You don't think that it never occurred to her that blowing the whistle might limit her own future employment opportunities?

    97. Re:One side of the story by rochrist · · Score: 1

      That statement is pretty telling.

    98. Re:One side of the story by rochrist · · Score: 1

      They can not discuss the indecent with the general public unless they want this cunt to sue them to all hell and back after the fact for any of the many reasons she can come up with.

      Ok, well, I guess we can dismiss your concerns.

    99. Re:One side of the story by rochrist · · Score: 1

      And yet, someone has already hired her.

    100. Re:One side of the story by rochrist · · Score: 1

      Yes, of course, that's it. It's the uppity wimmins!!

    101. Re:One side of the story by rochrist · · Score: 1

      Even if she was bad (which seems highly unlikely, especially given that she was an early hire), it would not come close to excusing the behavior she was subjected to.

    102. Re:One side of the story by rochrist · · Score: 1

      Because of course, THE BITCH IS LYING has to be the one true position.

    103. Re:One side of the story by rochrist · · Score: 1

      So the appropriate response to poor performance is to have a founder's wife (who does not work at the company) bully and attempt to imtimidate her?

    104. Re:One side of the story by rochrist · · Score: 1

      Ask yourself why you believe his side of the story first?

    105. Re:One side of the story by rochrist · · Score: 1

      Uh....yeah. Right.

    106. Re:One side of the story by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      She seems like one of these women that has ridden the gender unequality gravy train to the top. I can't find any code that is of interest that would rate her as an "influential developer". That's probably why she kicked up a big fuss about removing the "meritocracy" rug from github because she knows she's done jackshit to get where she is. Women like her just ruin it for all women.

    107. Re:One side of the story by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      If your code is constantly being cleaned up I think we all know it's because you've fucked up. Not some grand gender conspiracy.. and no wonder they were hostile if she kept wasting their time with shitty commits. I'd be pissed too.

    108. Re:One side of the story by BasilBrush · · Score: 1

      It's shitheads like you that have kept discrimination in the workplace going for so long.

    109. Re:One side of the story by AmiMoJo · · Score: 1

      Link to a news story? Come on people, anecdotes are worthless but it's easy to grab a link and turn them into something useful.

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    110. Re:One side of the story by abies · · Score: 1

      Ask yourself why you believe his side of the story first?

      I don't. I'm saying that it is next to impossible for any company to stand against the woman playing the harrasement card, regardless of what was happening there. And reactions to saying "we should know the story as seen from other side" are "poor woman, it is obvious she is a victim, because she says so, we don't need to listen to other side, because woman is always a victim".

    111. Re: One side of the story by RebelWebmaster · · Score: 1

      I guess we know Tim Armstrong's slashdot handle now.

    112. Re:One side of the story by Grishnakh · · Score: 1

      Wow, that's quite a post. Usually companies just say all the accusations are false and try to sweep things under the rug. They basically corroborated most of her story, particularly the part about the founder and his evil wife, which IMO was the most important part. Her other complaints were mostly lame (esp. the hula hoop thing), but the part about the founder's wife, the founder's behavior, demanding her partner to resign, etc., were all quite horrible and rung quite true.

    113. Re:One side of the story by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      "the tide is turning" means women will turn into oppressors?

      Already happened, been that way for at least a decade. Welcome to Centrist Amerika.

    114. Re:One side of the story by H0p313ss · · Score: 1

      They haven't kept entirely silent. They put a post on the issue up here: https://github.com/blog/1800-u...

      And for those too lazy to actually read, the CEO appear to completely agree with their now former employee, serious misconduct by the founder in question and the wife is no longer allowed in the building.

      This weekend, GitHub employee Julie Horvath spoke publicly about negative experiences she had at GitHub that contributed to her resignation. I am deeply saddened by these developments and want to comment on what GitHub is doing to address them.

      We know we have to take action and have begun a full investigation. While that’s ongoing, and effective immediately, the relevant founder has been put on leave, as has the referenced GitHub engineer. The founder’s wife discussed in the media reports has never had hiring or firing power at GitHub and will no longer be permitted in the office.

      GitHub has grown incredibly fast over the past two years, bringing a new set of challenges. Nearly a year ago we began a search for an experienced HR Lead and that person came on board in January 2014. We still have work to do. We know that. However, making sure GitHub employees are getting the right feedback and have a safe way to voice their concerns is a primary focus of the company.

      As painful as this experience has been, I am super thankful to Julie for her contributions to GitHub. Her hard work building Passion Projects has made a huge positive impact on both GitHub and the tech community at large, and she's done a lot to help us become a more diverse company. I would like to personally apologize to Julie. It’s certain that there were things we could have done differently. We wish Julie well in her future endeavors.

      Chris Wanstrath
      CEO & Co-Founder

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    115. Re:One side of the story by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      "You do not badmouth your former employer, no matter what they did"

      You're a submissive motherfucker who likes to get buttfucked by strap-ons aren't you?

      "might just have been a few big egos with small social skills that nobody reigned in"

      Or maybe they just think she's cunt?

    116. Re:One side of the story by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      If the wife looks hot / sexy, she can hang around all she wants.

    117. Re:One side of the story by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      From a neighboring country!?! Why, it must be an epidemic! At least, that's the broad conclusion I would draw from a single data point.

    118. Re:One side of the story by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Why bother asking for any real response when you can make up a slew of bad actions she could have taken / how she was as a co-worker? Wow, I seriously underestimated how completely insane people in this industry are until I read comments like this.

      Yes, don't take everything at face value. At the same time, don't make up excuses. Asking questions is good. Making up shit and asking to see her pull requests is just asinine.

    119. Re:One side of the story by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      On Slashdot we don't really do [[citation needed]] but in this case I've looked really hard and this story is nowhere to be found.

    120. Re:One side of the story by Yakasha · · Score: 1

      I can't believe anyone mods this shit up.

      Stupid is never alone.

    121. Re:One side of the story by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Agreed, it seems to me the issue is more about putting people down rather than raising them up, acting like a dick to somebody (even if they were acting like a dick first) is not going to help the situation, rather it is going to inflame it and anybody who can't figure that out is certainly not as smart as they think they are.

    122. Re:One side of the story by DrGamez · · Score: 1

      You honestly believe this happens willy-nilly? Or whatever amusing adjective of choice you need to convey a semi-regular occurrence.

      I don't want to live in your world.

    123. Re:One side of the story by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      loyalty to a company becomes optional after you leave

      Actually it's optional at all times.

      Plus, show me any medium-large company that's loyal to its employees beyond what the law requires and maybe you have a point.

    124. Re:One side of the story by ahabswhale · · Score: 1

      They didn't endorse anything. They said they were investigating the situation.

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    125. Re:One side of the story by CodeBuster · · Score: 1

      This is why harassment continues. You're damned if you speak out, and damned if you don't.

      Exactly, only the lawyers ever seem to win. It's like they're working both sides against the middle when it comes to employment law.

    126. Re:One side of the story by gweihir · · Score: 1

      http://www.spiegel.de/spiegel/...

      and here are two more:

      http://www.spiegel.de/panorama...
      http://www.spiegel.de/panorama...

      These are German, but google translater should do a good enough job to verify. I was mistaken on the first case, the guy was "only" 5 years in prison.

      This is just from the last few months. Seems women falsely claiming rape is a rather common occurrence, and prosecutors are already filtering out the obvious cases. Personally, I think a woman claiming rape when no such thing happened should go away for rape herself.

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    127. Re:One side of the story by gweihir · · Score: 1

      Seems your world is a bit smaller than what is actually out there. Hint: The US is inly about 3% of the world.

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    128. Re:One side of the story by sFurbo · · Score: 1

      I'm not saying it has to be that way. I am merely pointing out that we can't distinguish the different scenarios based on the evidence at this point.

    129. Re:One side of the story by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Dude. You been burned by a woman or something? You really seem to have it out for them.

    130. Re:One side of the story by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Fire.

    131. Re:One side of the story by Stan92057 · · Score: 1

      Here more data you can swish around that women hating mind of yours.
      http://abcnews.go.com/blogs/politics/2011/11/one-in-four-u-s-women-reports-workplace-harassment/

      http://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2009/08/090810025247.htm

      You can choose to ignore the facts because well they just don't fit you needs so you will troll around making excuses for not backing up your assertions for what ever bullshit reason? Get shot down too many times by pretty women? Ugly women?? cant be an asshole with out getting into trouble?? what is your problem son. If ya cant give me proof of your claims troll someone else.
      there's like 50 more pages of duckduckgo results,i havent even tried google yet.

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    132. Re:One side of the story by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      a classic case of "poorly socialized male geek gets disgruntled when pretty geek woman doesn't return his interest, and does something butt-stupid in response."

      Alternatively, a classic case of "talentless professional harassment-victim takes advantage of poorly socialized male geek's harmless romantic interest, to gain fame and possible monetary settlement". We see that one a lot more often these days.

    133. Re:One side of the story by wolja · · Score: 1

      So we know one side of the story. But what about the other side? Maybe she was really bad worker and used 'discrimination' card each time to defend her work? "You are saying that this code is bad not because of the code, but just because I'm a woman". It would be nice if somebody could anonymously 'leak' some of her pull requests plus entire conversation around it - and then we could see how much harrasment was from reviewer and how much unfair pushing from her side.

      Problem is that GitHub is at lost position. However bad she was, they will be always painted bad boys for throwing dirt on her, so they will probably keep silent...

      Whilst it's true GitHub can't prove a negative the demeaning, belittling attitude in your first paragraph may give a clue to what Women face in life let alone Tech companies.

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    134. Re:One side of the story by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      It seems, from the CEOs response, that many things were very wrong at that place.

      Only seems that way if you have already chosen a side in the matter. Are you one of the new /. gender equity scientists?

      captcha: dissents

    135. Re:One side of the story by Ash+Vince · · Score: 1

      You can freely criticise women as long as it is constructive, and the rule is the same for men and gay people and black people and every other minority.

      You can replace "women" in the above sentence with "people" and it is more accurate.

      The truth is that learning to give people constructive criticism is very difficult for many people (myself included). The trick for me is to be aware that as soon as you lose your rag or behave in a condescending manner you are utterly in the wrong, no matter how valid the point you are trying to make is.

      I think the big problem for many of us is that when we were young we spent far too much time in front of computers or with very geeky peers who did not mind when we spoke to each other with a bit of a lack of respect. That built up habits that you have to break. I guess geek culture has this idea of being tolerant of being rude, whereas when you have to start working with people in the real world you discover that not everyone has that same level of tolerance and should not be expected to develop it.

      I think you should try and treat everyone in exactly the same manner, that means no special treatment for men, or people of any other minority. Everyone should be treated with politeness and respect at all times.

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    136. Re:One side of the story by Ash+Vince · · Score: 1

      Sexist claims aside, the critique that a non-employee is allowed to hang-out in the office and harass employees-- and is still there even after being repeatedly banned from that area of the building-- that is a real HR problem, and that alone would be enough for me to quit a company.

      Apparently they never felt the need to invest in HR until recently.

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    137. Re:One side of the story by russotto · · Score: 1

      The truth is that learning to give people constructive criticism is very difficult for many people (myself included).

      Learning to take it is as difficult.

      I think the big problem for many of us is that when we were young we spent far too much time in front of computers or with very geeky peers who did not mind when we spoke to each other with a bit of a lack of respect. That built up habits that you have to break. I guess geek culture has this idea of being tolerant of being rude, whereas when you have to start working with people in the real world you discover that not everyone has that same level of tolerance and should not be expected to develop it.

      That's a problem with geeks dealing with people outside of geek culture. It should not be a problem within it. It is not up to mainstream culture to demand that geeks conform to the mainstream norms of politeness; if you wish to deal with geeks on their own terms, you in fact MUST develop a level of tolerance for what you see as rudeness, or you mark yourself as an outsider.

      Everyone should be treated with politeness and respect at all times.

      Politeness and the forms of showing respect are not absolutes. In mainstream culture, a comment such as "This will not work for reasons, X, Y, Z; please fix" would generally be considered rude. In geek culture it is not. Again, it is not up to the mainstream to demand that geeks communicating with geeks conform to mainstream norms.

    138. Re:One side of the story by Rakarra · · Score: 1

      I'm remembering reading a review for an American Idol episode where a contestant grumbled that drama follows her wherever she goes.
      The review point was that if drama follows, it's often created by you, and it's like getting roommates -- if you have several bad roommates in a row, then YOU are the bad roommate.

      Amusingly, Jon Snow learned this lesson when he reached the Wall in Game of Thrones. He was a better fighter than most of them and showed them up, and earned a lot of enmity for it. It doesn't matter whether you really are better than everyone else -- if you make a habit of embarrassing and showing them up, they will bear that grudge and you will be treated poorly for it.

    139. Re:One side of the story by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      The way she handled it makes her a grade-A Cunt.

    140. Re:One side of the story by vilanye · · Score: 1

      Funny thing is that Jonathon Martin was absolutely vilified for speaking out against him being harassed.

      Guess male on male harassment is still okay in many people's eyes.

      I have known women "programmers" who couldn't write a hello world program by themselves who cry discrimination when confronted with their incompetence.

      Until that sort of thing stops, and vile people like that entitled brat in the Donglegate farce go away, women claiming harassment in IT will always go under a microscope.

    141. Re:One side of the story by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      No matter how much you white knight, you aren't getting any pussy.

      Women don't like pussy males.

    142. Re:One side of the story by vilanye · · Score: 1

      It continues and always will because of how people are.

    143. Re:One side of the story by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Not for long. Expect another drama-filled post within the next 12 months as she is yet again 'victimized'.

    144. Re:One side of the story by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Excellent advice in the "pro tip". Odd that anyone could think differently.
      A corporation's duty is to its shareholders. Treating employees well is (very) optional and companies will treat employees just as well as they need to to remain competitive in the employment marketplace. However, anyone suggesting that the whole incident can be written off as "a woman who couldn't take criticism" must be a real joy to work with.

    145. Re:One side of the story by nctritech · · Score: 1

      The Science Daily link compares the harassment of female supervisors to the harassment of female non-supervisors. Your assertion is that women are vastly more harassed than "anyone else" which implicitly means "men." I don't see any way that this backs your assertion. As for the ABC News story, I read their full polling data and the issue of sexual harassment is presented as something that is generally only done by a male to a female, so sexual harassment of males (required to show that "women are vastly more harassed than men") is not present in the data, and therefore cannot support your assertion.

      I don't understand how questioning your assertion qualifies as "woman hating." So far you've failed to produce anything that backs your assertion in the slightest. But hey, feel free to call me names if that makes you feel better.

  4. Maybe, but by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0, Informative

    Men can be very rough to their coworkers and subordinates.

    Women often think that the rough behavior they're enduring is specific to their sex. It's not. If gender is involved at all it's simply as a pretext. It could just as well have been height, hair length, or anything else that makes one a little different from the crowd.

    The ruthless men (and a few women) of the business world only care about gender or race or any other difference only to extent that it helps them climb the ladder to the top.

    This attitude seems foreign to most women.

    If you really want to know how bad it can get, watch Glenngarry Glen Ross.

    1. Re: Maybe, but by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I agree with you - groups do test their members - and women get this; we're social beings too. But once a group that is predominately male is satisfied that another man has been sufficiently tested and has him slotted into the group, the testing stops. For a woman, that time may never come, and whether or not the purpose is actually to drive the woman out, that is the effect. Like I say, women get this. Furthermore, since groups have to adjust every time a new member joins, what frequently happens is that a new man will target his intial efforts to find a place in the group by attempting to subordinate or displace one of the women, or see if they can bond with their fellows against the women. (Yes, women pull this kind of thing, too; there are plenty who want the alpha-female spot). And then there's the fact that the challenging is frequently cast in gendered terms, and women do NOT associate that kind of thing with friendly tussling. A suggested rule of thumb: if you wouldn't do it to a male colleague, don't do it to a female.

    2. Re: Maybe, but by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      But once a group that is predominately male is satisfied that another man has been sufficiently tested and has him slotted into the group, the testing stops. For a woman, that time may never come,

      And it may never come for a man, either.

      Tested men (and women) have to pass the test to be accepted. Men more often pass the test because they're less likely to tolerate the testing.

      It much like bullying. You pass the test by standing up for yourself and refusing to let the teasing get the better of you.

      Many women so fear conflict that they never manage to stand up for themselves. I recall a video where a woman literally held back the man that was physically trying to protect her from aggressors. She took an elbow to the face and her boyfriend immediately began to fight the two other men off. She literally grabbed his shirt in an attempt to restrain him.

      Many men don't respect that sort of behavior at all.

    3. Re:Maybe, but by westlake · · Score: 3, Insightful

      Men can be very rough to their coworkers and subordinates.

      This doesn't say a hell of a lot for the traditional male dominant corporate culture, Even in professional sports there has been a push-back against this kind of adolescent behavior.

    4. Re:Maybe, but by Gavagai80 · · Score: 1

      Does it matter? Whether or the ruthless assholes prey on gender/race/orientation/hair/height differences because of personal prejudices or because they feel they gain advantage by it, they have to be stopped. (And whether it's opportunistic general malice or specific malice, they are able to harass minorities more effectively as racist/sexist slurs tend to be more hurtful than insults about hair length. Although of coursethat harassment should also be grounds for firing the harasser.)

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    5. Re:Maybe, but by walshy007 · · Score: 1

      Actually it speaks volumes. It's a thing of "get the job done, if niceties get in the way, prioritize the job over niceties" kind of thinking.

      And it can function quite well, or not, depending on the situation.

      I'm not sure whether I'd consider being willing to go the extra mile in competition adolescent or not, more.. determined.

  5. Not sexism, but bitchiness by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 5, Insightful

    Her problem wasn't sexism, it was with the founder's wife (so she says). 75% of the article talks about her problems with the founder's wife.
    So it's just a tale of one woman being bitchy to another.

    Nothing to see here. Move along.

    1. Re:Not sexism, but bitchiness by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Her problem wasn't sexism, it was with the founder's wife (so she says). 75% of the article talks about her problems with the founder's wife. So it's just a tale of one woman being bitchy to another.

      Nothing to see here. Move along.

      well, even if you think it is ok for a wife that doesn't work there to have such access as described here, there is also the minor detail of a male co-worker pulling her code contributions without notice or stated reasons after she turned down his attempts to date her.. and HR/management ignoring these issues.

    2. Re:Not sexism, but bitchiness by 3247 · · Score: 3, Insightful

      So it's just a tale of one woman being bitchy to another.

      That's a sexist remark, you know?

      --
      Claus
    3. Re:Not sexism, but bitchiness by Tanuki64 · · Score: 2

      That's a sexist remark, you know?

      Much less than her claim.

    4. Re:Not sexism, but bitchiness by Draugo · · Score: 5, Insightful

      How? If the matter was about two men and AC had said "It's a tale of one man being asshole to another" you would never have raised the sexism flag.

    5. Re:Not sexism, but bitchiness by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      But the matter wasn't about two men, and AC said (and I quote) "So it's just a tale of one woman being bitchy to another. Nothing to see here. Move along." implying that women being bitchy to each other was normal & expected, because they were women ... which is about as sexist as it gets.

    6. Re:Not sexism, but bitchiness by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      "Implied". Let me rephrase GP's question - if someone said "So it's just a tale of one man being a dick to another. Nothing to see here. Move along", would it imply that men are dicks to you?

      PS: I'd make a comment about her barking up the wrong tree, but I'm afraid someone like you'd go all "So, you're implying she's like a dog - way to go, you just called her a bitch!"

    7. Re:Not sexism, but bitchiness by KeensMustard · · Score: 1

      So it's just a tale of one woman being bitchy to another.

      Interesting choice of words in the circumstances.

    8. Re:Not sexism, but bitchiness by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      It isn't implying that women being bitchy to each other is the normal & expected, but rather that these two women being bitchy to each other is not news worthy.

    9. Re:Not sexism, but bitchiness by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Her problem wasn't sexism, it was with the founder's wife (so she says). 75% of the article talks about her problems with the founder's wife.
      So it's just a tale of one woman being bitchy to another.

      Nothing to see here. Move along.

      well, even if you think it is ok for a wife that doesn't work there to have such access as described here, there is also the minor detail of a male co-worker pulling her code contributions without notice or stated reasons after she turned down his attempts to date her.. and HR/management ignoring these issues.

      Where did you get this idea that I thought it was OK for the boss' wife to poke her nose into company affairs?
      It most certainly is *NOT* OK and nowhere in my post did I imply that it was.

      And why should her co-worker have pulled her code due to sexism? That's her interpretation of the situation. It could have been entirely unrelated, either because it was crappy code, or it was a mistake or any other reason.

      Assuming what she wrote was actually accurate, the worst thing that happened was routine assholery from co-workers. And it's quite possible that she just misinterpreted the whole situation. For example, how does she know that the co-worker actually made a pass at her? How does she know that *he* knows she's taken? Even if it's all true and he did make a pass and was rejected, it's fair enough for him to be disappointed. It's not OK for him to make life hard for her because of it and it's certainly not sexist, it's just unprofessional.

      Sorry, total non-story. Next please.

    10. Re:Not sexism, but bitchiness by BitZtream · · Score: 2, Insightful

      Not really. If it was men, you'd say they were assholes too each other.

      Stop trying to read more into it than there is asshole.

      There are different terms used for people with differences ... and guess what no how much you like it, men and women are different from each other ... I know this because I Can't pass a bowling ball through my penis, yet my wife can spit out a baby (with a lot of effort!).

      Pull your head out of your ass and stop acting like we're all exactly the same and you'll find yourself a lot less concerned with being politically correct to the point of uselessness.

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    11. Re:Not sexism, but bitchiness by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      You can also say "It's a tale of one woman being an asshole to another."

      'Bitch' has other connotations, which exclude men. I'm not saying it's extremely sexist, but it's at least a little bit sexist to mark a woman by her 'bitchiness' level.

    12. Re:Not sexism, but bitchiness by Nephandus · · Score: 1

      Dicks, among other gender terms, would also be acceptable. Hell, males gender slurs are way more publicly acceptable with no sense of sexism, ironically particularly when coming from a woman.

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      "A soft answer turneth away wrath. Once wrath is looking the other way, shoot it in the head."
    13. Re:Not sexism, but bitchiness by hsmith · · Score: 1

      Your failure to see the problem with the wife having any influence inside the walls of the building indicates you clearly have no idea what you are talking about.

    14. Re:Not sexism, but bitchiness by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Because he/she doesn't like what's being said. That makes it sexist automatically, for some at least.

    15. Re:Not sexism, but bitchiness by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      You can't say women are bitchy to each other. That's sexist!

    16. Re:Not sexism, but bitchiness by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      So!

    17. Re:Not sexism, but bitchiness by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Most of the voted up comments for this summary are pretty disgusting (like the OP). It's like everyone (the posters and the mods) on slashdot have the same sexism issues as those described in the article. Immediately minimizing her complaints and calling her a "lunatic" and "bitchy" without knowing anything but half the story -- it's disgusting.

    18. Re:Not sexism, but bitchiness by Oligonicella · · Score: 1

      So you admit in your own response it's only sexist if it's two women being talked about, not two men. You should not be flinging "sexism" around.

    19. Re:Not sexism, but bitchiness by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Your failure to see the problem with the wife having any influence inside the walls of the building indicates you clearly have no idea what you are talking about.

      If as alleged the co-founder's wife and Ms. Horvath had a contentious relationship why were two co-workers placed on leave status? I doubt the truth will ever come out of these claims. I cannot see a claim of sexism being upheld if the primary actors are two women.

    20. Re:Not sexism, but bitchiness by westlake · · Score: 1

      Her problem wasn't sexism, it was with the founder's wife (so she says).

      How often does a founder or CEO's wife become a power in the workplace?

      How often in the last five or ten years have you met and spoken to the spouses of the senior execs in your own company?

    21. Re:Not sexism, but bitchiness by loonycyborg · · Score: 1

      Where did you get this idea that I thought it was OK for the boss' wife to poke her nose into company affairs? It most certainly is *NOT* OK and nowhere in my post did I imply that it was.

      And why should her co-worker have pulled her code due to sexism? That's her interpretation of the situation. It could have been entirely unrelated, either because it was crappy code, or it was a mistake or any other reason.

      I wonder if such situation would be thinkable if wife's and founder's genders were reversed? Would it considered to be normal for some random guy to hang around the building and interfering with company's operations just because he's one of high level manager's husband? Perhaps it was just allowed in case of wife due to stereotypes of women being meddlesome meddlers of little practical importance..

    22. Re:Not sexism, but bitchiness by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      well, even if you think it is ok for a wife that doesn't work there to have such access as described here, there is also the minor detail of a male co-worker pulling her code contributions without notice or stated reasons after she turned down his attempts to date her.. and HR/management ignoring these issues.

      For the sake of argument let's assume the code contribution by Julie Horvath was removed by a male colleague at some point in time after she turned down his desire to pursue a personal relationship with her. The question boils down to a simple form: was the code removed because she refused to date him? For all we know the code in question might have been inappropriate in terms of the implementation versus the specification, the code might have been not in keeping with the coding style guidelines established by the organisation, the code might have not worked correctly or at all, the code might have been submitted after a freeze was placed on the repository but before the branch was locked down. If a co-worker asks another co-worker if he/she wants to "pursue some form of personal relationship" be it seeing a movie, having dinner, sexual encounter, etc. and the request is turned down, preferably in a civil manner, then the requester should respect the other person and drop the matter. No need to involve human resources or the managers. In the other hand, if the requests continue or the requester begins bad-mouthing the requestee, there should be a complaint filed with human resources. We don't know anything more than the wife of one of the co-founders and Ms. Horvath did not see eye-to-eye and someone allegedly removed a source code commit by Ms. Horvath. Anyone jumping on the harassment bandwagon with only these claims and allegations as "proof" should refrain from commenting.

    23. Re:Not sexism, but bitchiness by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Your failure to see the problem with the wife having any influence inside the walls of the building indicates you clearly have no idea what you are talking about.

      Jumping to conclusions much?

      The title said a female developer left Github, allegedly because of sexist behaviour.
      The article spends most of its time talking about her problems with the boss' wife. That's a bog-standard people problem, nothing more. No sexism there.
      Of course the boss' wife had no business messing with the company's employees.
      Of course the male developer should have checked before apparently chatting her up (so she says).
      Of course he then shouldn't have sulked when she apparently gave him the cold shoulder (if indeed he did. That's her version of events...)
      There were quite a few things wrong here. But this sort of thing is bog-standard daily life in some companies. It's nothing to do with sexism.

    24. Re:Not sexism, but bitchiness by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      How often does a founder or CEO's wife become a power in the workplace?

      Have to post anonymously for this one and be somewhat circumspect. =)

      We had a client who ran his business decisions past his wife. This was not some minor player, either. This was the top dog in a major service industry which directly impacted half a million people, and indirectly (but arguably significantly so) everyone in the country and (less significantly) everyone on the planet.

    25. Re:Not sexism, but bitchiness by HornWumpus · · Score: 1

      Bitch is often applied to males as well. For example: Male or female, you are a bitch.

      --
      John McAfee 'It was like that time I hired that Bangkok prostitute; to do my taxes, while I fucked my accountant'
    26. Re:Not sexism, but bitchiness by kyrsjo · · Score: 1

      Except the word "dick", used as you describe it here, doesn't really refer to a body part. The word can be used about either a man or a woman, describing "dickish" behaviour, which really isn't sex-dependent.

      "Bitch", not so much. Calling a man a bitch would have other conotations than just being a bloody anoying idiot.

    27. Re:Not sexism, but bitchiness by kyrsjo · · Score: 1

      Even if they are women, they can still be assholes. Calling a man a bitch have other conotations.

    28. Re:Not sexism, but bitchiness by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      What do these questions have to do with sexism?

    29. Re:Not sexism, but bitchiness by Gregg+M · · Score: 3, Insightful

      If a woman is treating you differently, because you are a woman, then it is sexism.

      --
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    30. Re:Not sexism, but bitchiness by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      No, our problem is that we only know half the story. And being a group of techie people we have an ingrained fear and distrust of that other half of the story, because when a client only gives us half the story to quote on, there is often 90% more work that could have just been started at the beginning and saved us all the trouble.

    31. Re:Not sexism, but bitchiness by AmiMoJo · · Score: 2, Informative

      Asshole is gender neutral, bitch is a pejorative used exclusively for women. More over it has a history of being used in a sexist way, much like "nigger" has a history of being used in a racist way.

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      SJW, n: "Someone I don't like, and by the way I'm a fuckwit" - AC
    32. Re:Not sexism, but bitchiness by c2me2 · · Score: 1

      Oh, so is that why the CEO issued a public apology? And why the founder was put on leave? And why the founder's wife has been ordered never to come into the office again?

    33. Re:Not sexism, but bitchiness by Nephandus · · Score: 1

      You don't call women dicks. I've never heard of it, and it's always been genderized with usually more gender slurs thrown in. How about snarking about the "male ego" or using the phrase "testosterone poisoning"? Women do that all the time when talking down to/about males. A guy calling that sexist will just get more of the same and likely be called misogynous then creepshamed, ostensibly, if not explicitly, for talking back to a female.

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      "A soft answer turneth away wrath. Once wrath is looking the other way, shoot it in the head."
    34. Re:Not sexism, but bitchiness by rochrist · · Score: 1

      There's also the question of whether this would have been allowed to continue if the employee was male, or if it would have happened at all.

    35. Re:Not sexism, but bitchiness by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      so, when one women is "bitchy" to another, its wrong to use a pejorative, used exclusively for women?

    36. Re:Not sexism, but bitchiness by Tharkkun · · Score: 1

      Bitch is often applied to males as well. For example: Male or female, you are a bitch.

      Which means you're acting like a woman. How is that not sexist also? :)

    37. Re:Not sexism, but bitchiness by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Well, yes and no. Sexism is a mis-created word whose initial use doesn't follow words of similar use like racism and nationalism (which imply belief about the superiority of on thing over another). Its first uses were to describe gender discrimination, chauvinism, prejudice, and even misogyny-- all of which are very different and, ethically, have very different impacts on interaction. To be most clear, the word "discrimination", not "sexism". Moreover, if you're discriminating against someone for being a woman, it's gender discrimination. If you were discriminating due to the person being a female, it's sexual discrimination.

      Below are the relevant terms ranked from 0 - 6 with 0 being "non-offensive" and 6 being the most ethically/morally reprehensible action according to my observations of common opinion.

      (0) Characteristic - An observed and/or substantiated descriptor or common action of a particular person or group.
      (1) Stereotyping - The unsubstantiated belief that a particular group of people have certain characteristics.
      (2) Prejudice - The establishment of opinion prior to acquiring sufficient information and/or experience to form a rational opinion.
      (3) Discrimination - The action of showing bias for/against another person on the basis of a particular characteristic.
      (4) ____-ism - The belief that one person/group is superior to another person/group on the basis of characteristics.

      Additionally:
      (5) Misogyny - Hatred of women
      (6) Sexual Harassment - The use of words or actions that are interpreted as sexual in nature in a such a way that (directly or indirectly) makes the person feel uncomfortable. Within the legal
      (6) Male Chauvinism - The generalized collection of a variety of beliefs and actions of a males detrimentally affecting females; may include all previously listed concepts.

    38. Re:Not sexism, but bitchiness by Grishnakh · · Score: 1

      At big companies, probably almost never. At small companies, however, anything goes, and nepotism like this is actually very common.

    39. Re:Not sexism, but bitchiness by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

      Asshole is gender neutral

      Technically.
      Nobody ever says "She's such an asshole".

      bitch is a pejorative used exclusively for women

      No, it isn't. You whiny little bitch.

    40. Re:Not sexism, but bitchiness by farble1670 · · Score: 1

      bitch is a pejorative used exclusively for women.

      not anymore. calling a man a b* is quite common, and most certainly pejorative.

    41. Re:Not sexism, but bitchiness by DNS-and-BIND · · Score: 1

      LOL no, asshole is for men. If you want to insist that we retcon this and pretend it never happened...then sure, we have always been at war with Eurasia.

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      Shutting down free speech with violence isn't fighting fascism. It IS fascism!
    42. Re:Not sexism, but bitchiness by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I don't really have an issue with this per se, this client of yours obviously values his wife's view and decisions, who you gonna run your ideas and decisions by? Someone who works for you or pitching you? Or someone who has probably shown at some point in your relationship/marriage to have your best interest in mind? I don't make big decisions without consulting my significant other, not because I am a chick who cannot make up my own mind but because he has shown consistently, even when we aren't getting along, to care about what is best for me.

    43. Re:Not sexism, but bitchiness by Dr.+Evil · · Score: 1

      "so, when one women is "bitchy" to another, its wrong to use a pejorative, used exclusively for women?"

      Yes.

    44. Re:Not sexism, but bitchiness by HornWumpus · · Score: 1

      Not just a woman. A Bitch.

      --
      John McAfee 'It was like that time I hired that Bangkok prostitute; to do my taxes, while I fucked my accountant'
    45. Re:Not sexism, but bitchiness by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I would argue that the term "bitchy" is just a feminine spin on "asshole". I would describe many male acquaintances as bitchy, myself--on occasion--included. One of the problems with pejorative nouns is that they are all-encompassing. They leave little room for the individual and encourage undue generalization. Adjectives like "bitchy" are descriptions of behavior, not labels. In the admittedly fucked-up world of modern English, as defined by its native speakers, this makes a difference. A big one.

    46. Re:Not sexism, but bitchiness by kyrsjo · · Score: 1

      No, I don't (it's not really a word I use very often/ever anyway) - but I honestly (unfortunately lacking hard data) I still don't really feel it is a "gender slur" even if may be mostly used against males - i think "bitch" etc. has a stronger aspect of gender in it. Maybe the reason is that for some words one (subconsciously or not) think that the gender is relevant for how the person acts and why that word is used, but for other words the gender aspect is only relevant for which word one picks? But then we're really discussing small nuances in language, where different persons may use slightly different definitions, depending on dialect/other language background and social background...

      The two other you mention I've never heard anyone use. The "talking back to a female" stuff you mention is also pretty foreign to me - but then I'm from a culture where equality is quite far progressed. The nice thing is, it works both ways - i.e. it isn't expected that the male almost *always* picks up the tab when you're out eating etc. / fixes stuff / drives / etc., and there is no shame in the woman have a larger income than the man in a relationship. I appreciate that fact of our culture :)

    47. Re:Not sexism, but bitchiness by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Men treat women differently, otherwise women treat other women the same. See schools and colleges.

    48. Re:Not sexism, but bitchiness by maestroX · · Score: 1

      If a woman is treating you differently, because you are a woman, then it is sexism.

      Transgender am I, woman be sexist.

    49. Re:Not sexism, but bitchiness by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

      Riiigghhtt...because people use the term 'Asshole' a lot in reference to women right? It is NOT a 'general neutral term', but besides that 'bitch' has been used in many situations when referring to men. While it has generally been more used when being pejorative to women that's clearly from its historical and correct grammatical usage as referring to a female dog and as such has female overtones implicit in its usage. Asshole on the other hand, like opinions, belongs to both genders but is almost restricted exclusively to men, at least to the same extent that 'bitch' is used with women. But of course a man complaining about sexism because he may have been referred to as an asshole will go about as far as a lead balloon (Mythbusters version excluded).

      The story I read had only 2 clear indicators, the woman in question had 2 STALKERS both of which she should have taken court orders out against to get them away from her. O, and a mild hint of a 3rd 'issue', the woman in question takes slight against harms she PERCEIVES against others...e.g. the 'hoola-hooping incident', if the women in question didn't mind why the fsck should she care?

      I do not in any way believe that the veracity of the woman's story should be downplayed for the extent that she was harrased by some individuals, but outright labeling this 'sexism' given the story I read is not at all clear nor warranted. That doesn't mean that GitHub doesn't have some 'splaining to do Lucy' or that they don't have to clean up their act. Their new HR person better be making 'how to act in business' a top priority for the company.

    50. Re:Not sexism, but bitchiness by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      So guys never bitch?

      News to me, because you seem to be bitching about nothing.

    51. Re:Not sexism, but bitchiness by KeensMustard · · Score: 1
      I see that you've reacted with some agression to what most people would regard as a mild observation, attempting to instruct me on my personal conduct and outlook, and imagining that I would be taken aback by personal attack and screed.

      Interesting.

      Not really. If it was men, you'd say they were assholes too each other.

      No we wouldn't. 'Bitch' has exactly the same connotation for either gender, it is just used as an insult.

      Stop trying to read more into it than there is asshole.

      Interesting. According to your own nomenclature you assume I'm male. And no need for me to 'read anything into it', here is the relevant section from the article:

      According to Horvath: “I met her and almost immediately the conversation that I thought was supposed to be causal turned into something very inappropriate. She began telling me about how she informs her husband’s decision-making at GitHub, how I better not leave GitHub and write something bad about them, and how she had been told by her husband that she should intervene with my relationship to be sure I was ‘made very happy’ so that I wouldn’t quit and say something nasty about her husband’s company because ‘he had worked so hard.’”

      In short, the problem was that this structure in which someone outside of scrutiny employs devious means to affect the structure and direction of the company makes it unworkable for employers - they are not accountable to this person, yet they are answerable to her. To carry on in this manner is to court disaster.

      Horvath called the situation, aptly, “bananas.”

      . I wouldn't work there if I was pulled aside for that sort of conversation (apparently approved in secret by one the founders) and I would think it was bananas as well.

      There are different terms used for people with differences ... and guess what no how much you like it, men and women are different from each other ... I know this because I Can't pass a bowling ball through my penis, yet my wife can spit out a baby (with a lot of effort!).

      What an impressively meaningless anecdote. Grow up.

      Pull your head out of your ass and stop acting like we're all exactly the same and you'll find yourself a lot less concerned with being politically correct to the point of uselessness.

      So you feel threatened by 'political correctness' - get over it. You lost that argument. Do you want to know why you lost? You weren't smart enough to listen to what the other side was saying, thus carried on as if nothing could possibly change, and then it did. Now you are bitching about it.

      Get over it, bitch.

    52. Re:Not sexism, but bitchiness by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      > Moreover, if you're discriminating against someone for being a woman, it's gender discrimination. If you were discriminating due to the person being a female, it's sexual discrimination.

      Those two are the same.

    53. Re:Not sexism, but bitchiness by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      0-3 is something everyone does and it is impossible to eradicate.

      Discrimination is required whenever information is missing in order to make a decision. When you walk down a street at night and you cross it because you see what you perceive as a potential threat, you discriminate.

      Whenever you act, you discriminate. It is only when you have full information available that you can avoid discrimination. That is why in the workplace, it is possible to avoid a lot of discrimination. In daily life, it is impossible to not discriminate.

      Stereotyping is extremely important. Stereotyping is NOT the unsubstantiated belief in something. Rather it is a belief in a characteristic for a given group. Stereotypes can be TRUE or FALSE. True stereotypes are what we use when we need to take actions quickly on scarse information. When we discriminate.

      I personally hate the word sexism because the definitions make no sense to me. Gender discrimination makes a whole lot of sense. Sexism is just... very hard to understand.

      To get anywhere we must stop pretending that we can eradicate stereotyping or discrimination. It's impossible and we don't get anywhere. What we must encourage is rational decision making. Decisions made backed by information. We must identify quick decisions that will be discriminatory. We must identify false stereotypes, but we shouldn't attack true stereotypes. Etc.. the debate is too boolean.

    54. Re:Not sexism, but bitchiness by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Stop being a pedantic bitch.

    55. Re:Not sexism, but bitchiness by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      What I don't understand is.. reverting code means nothing in git.

      Hell, in the linux kernel, people spend years getting patches in.

      Reverting code is not what typically happens. What happens is that you cannot get code in. If you get code in and it gets reverted, it means that the code review process is broken. And that again means that a lot of bad code gets in, and thus gets reverted.

    56. Re:Not sexism, but bitchiness by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      ...which is why I abandoned my SlashDot account a couple of years ago.

      This joint has turned into a typical clickbait outhouse; just like all the other sites out there.

      Enjoy /. while it lasts. It's already in a nosedive.

    57. Re:Not sexism, but bitchiness by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      No, 'bitch' isn't sexist - it's just gendered, like the 'HIS' and 'HERS' towels in some twee hotel bathroom.

      There are plenty of equivalent gendered pejoratives mostly reserved for men behaving badly, such as bastard, cock, creep, dick, douche-bag, jackass, jerk, motherfucker, prick, son-of-a-bitch, twit and wanker.

      Furthermore there's no exclusivity to the word 'bitch'. Either sex can call either sex 'bitch', or accuse either sex of bitching, being bitchy, making someone their bitch or being made someone's bitch.

      So there's really nothing sexist about it. There's abundant and equal opportunity to insult either sex, using the same or similar terms.

    58. Re:Not sexism, but bitchiness by nctritech · · Score: 1

      She shows her true colors in her own account of the situation. Men watching (with visibly discernible interest) people who are performing entertaining acts is "gawking" with all the "I wish to have sex with this hula hoopist at full force in her mouth, vagina, and ass" connotation that specific term carries. Yep, that's bitchy lunatic social justice inflammation at its finest. It may seem disgusting but it's quite down-to-earth and realistic, even more so with the implications of male-to-female sexism in a situation where a female is the primary instigator of the other female's stress.

    59. Re:Not sexism, but bitchiness by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      While asshole may be gender neutral, dick, and bastard are not, but you don't see men crying foul every time they are called one of these things. These are just more specific terms. If I call someone a bastard it means I am referring to someone that is in fact an asshole and also just so happens to be male. If I use the term bitch, it means I am referring to someone that also is in fact an asshole, but is female. This whole dancing around which words are permissible is all a bit silly. It is really about how we are treating people as a whole.

    60. Re:Not sexism, but bitchiness by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      exclusively for women

      No it isn't you whiny little bitch. ...and note, I don't know your gender or care.

    61. Re:Not sexism, but bitchiness by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Not really. If it was men, you'd say they were being dicks.

      FTFY?

    62. Re:Not sexism, but bitchiness by uninformedLuddite · · Score: 1

      Poor /.

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    63. Re:Not sexism, but bitchiness by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      actually, one soldier being an a-hole to another is not new. there are some immature young soldiers who are tougher and jerks who treat smart and agile soldiers with a bad case of bullying. in the private sector and the military sector, a bully is a bully.. male or female. A 1st Sergeant with a few tips on the issue could watch and manage the issue just fine --

      back on point - if the wife was bullying aka bitching, then the company is not necessarily at fault. it's a civil matter and should be taken offline...

  6. Funny by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    It would be funny, if it was not true. BUT, i know about even worst examples of men abusing women at work, in more obvious ways, and in more subtle ways....

  7. Serious and Worth Reading by ohnocitizen · · Score: 2

    The article details some serious allegations, and is worth reading in it's entirety. I'm eager to read github's side of the story as well. Some of the claims ought to give users pause about trusting their private data with github. That's hugely problematic. Other claims show an unprofessional and hostile environment, and a company whose HR department (if they have one) is screwing up very badly. I hope they are able to resolve all of this, as I am a very big fan of git, and of github. But at the moment the claims sound plausible and distressing.

    1. Re:Serious and Worth Reading by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

      The article is definitely worth reading in its entirety because at the end you find out that Julie Ann Horvath is some sort of Neopuritan who feels unsafe and is finally pushed over the edge by coworkers watching women who were just trying to do a little hula hooping at an office party. Do you think the rest of the allegations are as serious as that one? Maybe she is unduly sensitive and prone to hyperbole.

    2. Re:Serious and Worth Reading by mellon · · Score: 1

      Read it again. She was okay with the women hula-hooping. She was not okay with the men sitting around staring at them while they did it. Even if the women who were hula-hooping were okay with being spectated, that sort of thing really is inappropriate in an office environment, because there are too many power dynamics and opportunities for misunderstanding. Being uncomfortable with this doesn't make you a "neo-puritan."

    3. Re:Serious and Worth Reading by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      So, what is the problem, with the men watching?

    4. Re:Serious and Worth Reading by Grishnakh · · Score: 1

      So the men are supposed to look the other way when women are hula-hooping? Please.

      Maybe they shouldn't have brought any hula hoops to the party to begin with. But they did, and women used them; you can't expect men not to look at them when they put themselves on display like that.

      If some male in the office got up in front of everyone and tried dancing (in a horrible, Elaine-like way), you don't think everyone would stare at him too?

    5. Re:Serious and Worth Reading by deek · · Score: 1

      That was, for me, the bizarre bit of Julie's side of the story. The hula-hoop thing. Why did she single out those who were spectating the spectacle? Sure, it's inappropriate in an office environment, but not as much as the hula-hoop dancing itself. It seems a very strange tipping point. Why didn't she say something to the girls who were doing the hula-hoop dancing in the office? The AC said it was at an office party, but I didn't sense that from the article.

      Otherwise, she seems quite justified in her claims. She certainly appears to have been harassed in the workplace, though some of the harassment I wouldn't class as sexism (spurned colleague, intimidation from wife of boss). Definitely agree that you can't work in such a hostile environment.

    6. Re:Serious and Worth Reading by ohnocitizen · · Score: 1

      If you have a group of female programmers exercising at work, and a bunch of male co-workers lined up to watch them, it reinforces the idea that "you are here to be pretty objects for the men to look at". In combination with everything else, I can see why that would be the straw that broke the camels back.

      A spurned colleague taking revenge for being spurned is textbook sexual harassment, actually.

    7. Re:Serious and Worth Reading by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      If you have a group of female programmers exercising at work, and a bunch of male co-workers lined up to watch them, it reinforces the idea that "you are here to be pretty objects for the men to look at".

      That's absurd. Those co-workers aren't the ones making hiring decisions. That's done by HR or management.

      Occam's razor suggest that those two guys only represent themselves. I wager there were and are many more male workers in that company who couldn't care less and did NOT line up to watch them.

    8. Re:Serious and Worth Reading by deek · · Score: 1

      That type of reaction is a reflection of the person who reacted, not of the situation at hand. When I read the described situation, it appeared to me as a spectacle at work, being watched by spectators. It seemed incidental whether the hula-hoop dancers were female or male.

      A spurned colleague taking revenge is certainly harassment, though I'm unsure whether it could be classed as sexual. The actual harassment wasn't sexual in nature, though it did result from an incident which could be classed as such. It's definitely not sexism, though, as I originally stated.

  8. A bit slow Slashdot? by mystuff · · Score: 3, Informative

    There's already an update to this story here: Update on Julie Horvarth's Departure

    1. Re: A bit slow Slashdot? by segedunum · · Score: 1

      Doesn't really tell us anything and certainly doesn't deny any of what Julie has alleged.

    2. Re: A bit slow Slashdot? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      It tells us how they're responding to the situation, and isn't intended to deny anything.

    3. Re: A bit slow Slashdot? by fendragon · · Score: 1

      Doesn't really tell us anything and certainly doesn't deny any of what Julie has alleged.

      It doesn't deny it, but it does suggest that the problem is restricted to one or two people and not represent GitHub's office culture generally. It may not be quite as simple as that, of course, if the claims of chatroom spying turn out to be true.

    4. Re:A bit slow Slashdot? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Wait, so you were fine to use GitHub while that happened, and now that she's been banned from entering the premises you decide to "move to some other company" where, for all you know, the exact same thing is going on...?

      Logic, meet Anonymous Coward.

    5. Re:A bit slow Slashdot? by gbjbaanb · · Score: 1

      there are reputable companies around, or ones who have been doing this stuff for decades (eg sourceforge, just as an example)

      Whereas github was acting unprofessionally, the people who work there are still there, and are the kind of people who acted unprofessionally.. so you see that even though the wife is no longer allowed access, the rest of the workers are.

      Do you trust a company that you have the assumption they treat your data well, or a company where you know they didn't? Do you think they'll suddenly turn things around and suddenly become the most ethical company there is, or will they just wait for the fuss to die down before continuing with their old ways?

      This is no time to be a fanboi of a particular hosting company, not when there are many more to try. Besides, voting with your feet is the only way to remind these companies that they can fail if they, well, fail.

    6. Re:A bit slow Slashdot? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      What kind of logic are YOU using?

      Original situation: NOTHING known about github.
      Present situation: Negative information known.

      Are you some kind of magician that can reach back in time and undo commits on github because of information that will be made available in the future?

    7. Re:A bit slow Slashdot? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      there are reputable companies around, or ones who have been doing this stuff for decades (eg sourceforge, just as an example)

      And how do you know sourceforge doesnt have exactly the same problem? Until a couple of days ago you didn't know this about github either.

      Do you trust a company that you have the assumption they treat your data well, or a company where you know they didn't?

      Employees are not your data. How exactly is it that they did not "treat your data well"?

      Do you think they'll suddenly turn things around and suddenly become the most ethical company there is, or will they just wait for the fuss to die down before continuing with their old ways?

      Who is "they"? Are you suggesting this is some big conspiracy against one woman involving an entire company's staff? As far as I could see it involves a couple of people and they have been put on leave pending further investigation.

  9. she's a nutcase by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 5, Insightful

    There was a party at Github headquarters attended by employees and their friends. There was music and probably alcohol. Also, hula hoops.

    Two women, one of whom I work with and adore, and a friend of hers were hula hooping to some music. I didn’t have a problem with this. What I did have a problem with is the line of men sitting on one bench facing the hoopers and gawking at them. It looked like something out of a strip club. When I brought this up to male coworkers, they didn’t see a problem with it. But for me it felt unsafe and to be honest, really embarrassing. That was the moment I decided to finally leave GitHub.

    Yes, those MEN had the GALL to WATCH two women hula hooping. Which made her feel unsafe. In other words, she's a lunatic and you can safely ignore anything she says.

    1. Re:she's a nutcase by Chrisq · · Score: 4, Insightful

      There was a party at Github headquarters attended by employees and their friends. There was music and probably alcohol. Also, hula hoops.

      Two women, one of whom I work with and adore, and a friend of hers were hula hooping to some music. I didn’t have a problem with this. What I did have a problem with is the line of men sitting on one bench facing the hoopers and gawking at them. It looked like something out of a strip club. When I brought this up to male coworkers, they didn’t see a problem with it. But for me it felt unsafe and to be honest, really embarrassing. That was the moment I decided to finally leave GitHub.

      Yes, those MEN had the GALL to WATCH two women hula hooping. Which made her feel unsafe. In other words, she's a lunatic and you can safely ignore anything she says.

      This is very strange. If you have activities like hula hooping, karaoke, etc. at a party then people do it because they want to be watched. If everyone looked the other way it would be very strange - if that's what they wanted they could have set out a "hula hooping cubicle" where people could do it in private - but its not very party like!

    2. Re:she's a nutcase by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      This sounds like the ramblings of a lunatic.

    3. Re:she's a nutcase by Craefter · · Score: 4, Insightful

      I wish I could mod the parent up. Really, she was offended because men were men and woman were woman. If they didn't like to be the center of attention they should do their hula hooping exercises at home, with the blinds down, doors closed..... in the basement.

      That being said, maybe she had some other more valid issues but it seems that this is a case where she blames the world for her own sensitivities.

    4. Re:she's a nutcase by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Think think GP is a parody but then again Poe's law

    5. Re:she's a nutcase by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

      This ends the case for me. Female employees were dancing in the *public space* in the office, and then you expect the men to turn their face away? Come on. Agreed with the parent post - she's a nutcase and a *liability* in every company she works on. I for one wouldn't be feeling secure working with her knowing her attitude. It is sexism all right - from a woman toward men!

    6. Re:she's a nutcase by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

      Maybe evidence that what she says is true will emerge. At this time, however, we only have her word and her words, quoted above, demonstrate that she is not a reasonable person. Therefore, it is perfectly rational and not at all idiotic to discount her other statements.

      She got bent out of shape and felt unsafe because men failed to avert their eyes when women were hula hooping. Why shouldn't I believe the rest of her story is more hyperbolic ranting from an unduly sensitive and neurotic person?

    7. Re:she's a nutcase by AmiMoJo · · Score: 2, Insightful

      I can see how a situation where female employees were encouraged to gyrate their bodies while the male employees watched and gawked at them could be off-putting. I'm male and I'd find that uncomfortable to watch.

      If it was just a bunch of people of both genders hula hooping that would be fine, but it sounds like there was a very different atmosphere. Where do you draw the line? Most people would probably say that hiring strippers would be unacceptable, but there is a huge grey area of acceptable behaviour at a work function.

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    8. Re:she's a nutcase by gweihir · · Score: 1

      Indeed. If you do things in public, others have the right to watch. Get used to it.

      If people are staring, tell them off. Form my experience, I have seen significantly more women staring inappropriately than men, usually at behavior they did not like.

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    9. Re:she's a nutcase by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Back to Dumblr with thee, fecesbaroness.

    10. Re:she's a nutcase by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      No I have to agree with the parent on this one. Of all the things she said in the whole story, the only one that could be considered sexist was this one and... well unless the women were being forced to hula hoop for the entertainment of the men or something, this seems normal enough to me. Were they whistling and wolf howling too?

    11. Re:she's a nutcase by Tanuki64 · · Score: 1

      That being said, maybe she had some other more valid issues

      Most likely she is already on the way to make them up.

    12. Re:she's a nutcase by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Why use the word "gawking"? According to a dictionary that means "to stare in a stupid way", how do we know that they weren't just casually observing or just simply admiring the beauty of the women?
      Additionally it seems that the actual hulahoopers didn't seem to mind but that this problem was created exclusively in the mind of one induviual.

      One good rule for if something is a real problem or not is to ponder if it would continue to be a problem if you stopped thinking that it is a problem.

    13. Re:she's a nutcase by MrL0G1C · · Score: 3, Insightful

      Too right, what next, dancing and showing their ankles? Parties and alcohol clearly need to be banned.

      Note: you changed "were hula hooping" to "were encouraged to gyrate their bodies".

      Drunk people are often embarrassing, but the uncomfortableness that is embarrassment is something that a reasonable adult puts up with when they see that the other people are having harmless fun.

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    14. Re:she's a nutcase by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      You need to check MY privilege... /leer

    15. Re:she's a nutcase by joe545 · · Score: 4, Informative

      Julie Horvath complained and had removed a rug at GitHub which she objected to because of the word "meritocracy". As that would imply that the fact there were so few women in IT and in GitHub in general was because women were not as good as men.

      She also headed-up a female-only lecture project within GitHub.

      Take these facts into consideration when considering her claims of hula-hoop-sexism.

      Source: http://readwrite.com/2014/01/2...

    16. Re:she's a nutcase by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 5, Insightful

      To paraphrase Robert Heinlein, "if some men like to stare at women hula-hooping, then at least some women must enjoy hula-hooping while being stated at by men, otherwise there is something fundamentally wrong with the human species".

      Being offended by proxy is a totally self-inflicted punishment. If that was the thing that made her leave (and not the behaviour of the co-founder's wife), then indeed she is a nutcase. If that wasn't the trigger, but it's what she's using as an excuse, then she's a manipulative hypocrite, trying to blame "sexism" simply because she hopes it'll get superficial readers on her side, and generate more bad press for GitHub.

    17. Re:she's a nutcase by MrL0G1C · · Score: 3, Insightful

      Anyway, I decided to break with form and RTFA. It's not about sexism, it's about one of the founders and his wife being bonkers and victimising the woman, she probably has a good case of constructive dismissal.

      The hula thing is a red herring and this amounts to victim bashing.

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    18. Re:she's a nutcase by Tanuki64 · · Score: 1, Troll

      Interesting. In other words a typical feministic parasite. Meritocracy really must be evil. Makes it obvious that women are underachiever.

    19. Re:she's a nutcase by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      There's no indication that it was anyone's decision but the hula-hoopers' to gyrate their own bodies - and, given the context, if there had been any pressure to make them do so, it almost certainly would have been mentioned in the article.

      To be honest, as a man, I found that paragraph of the article a bit offensive, when she said that "it felt unsafe". Did it feel like the men sitting on a bench and gawking at the hoopers were going to attack them, just because they saw a couple of hula-hooping women? Does she believe men to be that violent? Imagine if she'd made the same sort implication for some black people - that would be as racist as all get out.

      That said, I read the rest of the article, and that's the only paragraph I feel that way about. The rest of it (another link for the lazy) sounds like a serious case of a founder and his wife bullying an employee.

    20. Re:she's a nutcase by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      She's the one who brought up the hula hoop incident in the first place. So she's bashing herself?

      Maybe the founder's wife took a dislike to this woman because of BS like that.

    21. Re:she's a nutcase by AlterEager · · Score: 1

      To paraphrase Robert Heinlein, "if some men like to stare at women hula-hooping, then at least some women must enjoy hula-hooping while being stated at by men, otherwise there is something fundamentally wrong with the human species".

      If some men like to kill and dismember women then at least some women must like being killed and dismembered, otherwise there is something fundamentally wrong with the human species.

    22. Re:she's a nutcase by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Have you noticed that serial killers do get groupies?

    23. Re:she's a nutcase by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      If some men like to kill and dismember women then at least some women must like being killed and dismembered, otherwise there is something fundamentally wrong with the human species.

      You have a point if the hula-hopping women were forced to perform by the crowd. More likely in this case the hula-hopping women were performing willingly and actively enjoying the crowd's attention.

    24. Re:she's a nutcase by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      You conservative, Puritan not-a-man queer.

    25. Re:she's a nutcase by stdarg · · Score: 1

      Red herring for whom? It was brought up by Horvath and cited as the last straw.

    26. Re:she's a nutcase by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      You can politely say "no" when pressured to hula-hooping if you don't like it. There should be no further consequences to that.

      Killing and dismembering is usually done with no prior consent on the part of the one who is the target of said action.

    27. Re:she's a nutcase by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Great, another neutered queer "thinker".

    28. Re:she's a nutcase by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      There's a contingent of people these days who think that their belief in X, combined with their membership of arbitrary social group Y means all members of group Y should or even do believe X. This is messed up, it's the sort of thing you should learn isn't true in primary school when you find out that some of the other kids don't agree that you're the best at everything. But evidently some people make it to adulthood without this being challenged. Horvath would never hula hoop. Therefore women should never hula hoop. People were enjoying something that she'd decided would never happen, and that conflict between how she'd pictured the world and how it actually is made her feel "unsafe". That's how simple it is in her head.

      The existence of this contingent poisoned the word "feminism". When you list the key tenets of feminism without naming it, the vast majority of undergraduate women in the US support the idea. But name "feminism" and it calls up memories of other women telling them how they ought to be, what they should believe, how to fit into a jigsaw puzzle in which a handful of old, white women redirect feminism to support their own power structures. And on that basis they'll tell you they aren't feminists - and who could blame them?

    29. Re:she's a nutcase by mwvdlee · · Score: 1

      The subtle difference is that serial killer victims aren't actively involved.
      Hula-hooping women have a choice to stop hula-hooping.

      Also, I'm pretty sure if some attractive, half-naked guy was hula-hooping, women would stare as well.

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    30. Re:she's a nutcase by MrL0G1C · · Score: 4, Insightful

      It's a red herring for the people who want to take a bash at Horvarth.

      It may have been the straw that broke the camels back, but that's the point, she had been driven to the point where the straw became a back-breaker by the ill-treatment issue.

      The whole point of the straw proverb is that it's not the straw that matters (red herring), it's the prior weight.

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    31. Re:she's a nutcase by AmiMoJo · · Score: 1

      To paraphrase Robert Heinlein, "if some men like to stare at women hula-hooping, then at least some women must enjoy hula-hooping while being stated at by men, otherwise there is something fundamentally wrong with the human species".

      I doubt anyone enjoys shovelling shit all day but some people have to do it in order to earn a living. There must be something fundamentally wrong with the human species.

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    32. Re:she's a nutcase by AmiMoJo · · Score: 4, Informative

      As that would imply that the fact there were so few women in IT and in GitHub in general was because women were not as good as men.

      The article you linked to explains it far better than that. GitHub is saying that it isn't a perfect meritocracy yet and needs to do more to encourage women to join. It's just accepting the idea that there are women who want to work in IT but are put off doing so, and that GitHub can do something about it.

      Also, from the Passion Projects (female speaker only lectures) web site:

      Can I attend a Passion Projects talk if I'm not a woman?
      Absolutely. The typical Passion Projects audience is usually split down the middle, half men and half women. And we wouldn't have it any other way. It's just as important for men to see these women as role models as it is for women to.

      In other words they are just trying to help encourage women to give lectures on IT related subjects because they feel that they are otherwise under-represented. It isn't some rabid anti-man feminazi group, and more than scholarships for underprivileged students are run by rich people haters or support groups targeting black communities are racists.

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    33. Re:she's a nutcase by AmiMoJo · · Score: 0

      I have to admit that I'm not one of those great looking guys. If the reverse happened and the women where I work were encouraging the guys to take their shirts off or dance on the tables or whatever why they watched I'd be a bit uncomfortable. I'd either feel excluded because of my very average looks or upset at being objectified rather than appreciated for my skills and value to the company. Maybe I'm overly sensitive, but I don't expect to have to put up with that at my place of work or an official company social event.

      If they want to go to a strip club in their own time that's fine, because I'm not forced to chose between being employed/attending a social event I'd consider a "bonus" on top of my regular pay and putting up with that stuff.

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    34. Re:she's a nutcase by MrL0G1C · · Score: 4, Insightful

      Note - I don't think she's a nutcase, I think she has been treated very badly and I hope she gets a sensible amount of compensation.

      But at the same time, she wasn't being asked to hula hoop and she didn't say the woman didn't start hula-hooping of their own volition, some people like to be looked at, I don't think the men gawping is a big deal. I think by the time this happened she had gotten so sensitive to the harassment she had received that this was the final straw.

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    35. Re:she's a nutcase by bill_mcgonigle · · Score: 4, Insightful

      In other words they are just trying to help encourage women to give lectures on IT related subjects because they feel that they are otherwise under-represented.

      This misses the point of Jane Elliott's brown-eyes-blue-eyes experiment. Women don't need separate-but-equal facilities to excel - there is no functional difference between a man and a woman in an IT role. Telling them they need a special venue is telling them they're not good enough for the "men's lecture". It's an insidious form of sexism.

      Do individual women need encouragement? Of course - our culture favors quiet little mermaids, not bold warrior princesses. But do encourage those women who need the encouragement and *don't* tell them they're not good enough for the men's group, but also encourage the quiet nerdy guy who's terrified to speak in front of a group. And if you do encounter this fabled guy who is trying to keep women down in IT - kick 'em in the balls and tell him that women don't have that weakness.

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    36. Re:she's a nutcase by IamTheRealMike · · Score: 4, Interesting

      There's more hints of this in her article. It starts out by complaining about "aggressive communication on pull requests" and how little the men respected her opinion.

      In quite some years working in the software business I have occasionally seen men and women genuinely be dicks on code review threads, but I have never once seen an entire group of people be dicks simultaneously. What I have seen, repeatedly, is people who do not have any engineering background bump up against the no nonsense, no bullshit get-it-done-now attitude that is pervasive in the software world. This is especially a problem for people from fuzzy marketing-type backgrounds, which is what this woman has, and especially on code review threads, where reviewers always have a backlog and writing each line-by-line comment as if it were a formal business letter would waste staggering amounts of time.

      My experience has been that men love it when a woman turns up and gets real, respectable work done! What men definitely don't love is when they reply to some request saying "That won't work because of X" and this is interpreted as aggressive by the person whose work was not up to scratch (whether it be men or women). If she couldn't get respect on her code review threads and perceived the communication as aggressive, I bet the real story is that nobody was being aggressive but her work simply contained lots of mistakes, and having them pointed out without any cushioning (as is normal) hurt her ego.

      Reading this story has not made any difference to my desire to work for github. It has reminded me of other times in my previous job where similar issues cropped up, though not normally so publicly. The genuine fault ALWAYS lay with the complainer.

    37. Re:she's a nutcase by jhd · · Score: 1

      If some men like to kill and dismember women then at least some women must like being killed and dismembered, otherwise there is something fundamentally wrong with the human species.

      This is the most nonsensical and insipid comparison I think I have ever seen. Please go back under your rock.

    38. Re:she's a nutcase by nctritech · · Score: 1

      That's how you know you're dealing with a highly unreasonable "social justice warrior" and shouldn't listen to her any further. This woman is the only person who assigned the "ultra creepiness" factor to the simple actions of the men looking in a direction. When you have a problem with people watching other people that are doing something at a party that is supposed to receive attention, you are the one with the problem. Not the watchers, not the actors.

    39. Re:she's a nutcase by sFurbo · · Score: 1

      Do we know that the women were encouraged to hula hoop?

    40. Re:she's a nutcase by serviscope_minor · · Score: 0

      When you have a problem with people watching other people that are doing something at a party that is supposed to receive attention, you are the one with the problem. Not the watchers, not the actors.

      If it's a random party, then fine. Once it's a work party and you (a) have less choice about attending and (b) have to act professionally with these people afterwards then it is more of a problem. This is why hooking up for a one night stand at a party is fine, but screwing your co-worker in the broom closet at the christmas party is a dumbass idea.

      Some people feel uncomfortable when the workplace gets sexualised. Some people includes men and women. She's the one complaining, but that doesn't mean that there aren't others who don't like it.

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    41. Re:she's a nutcase by Oligonicella · · Score: 1

      The women were encouraged but not the men? Or were women the only ones who voluntarily chose to hula-hoop?

    42. re:she's a nutcase by unimacs · · Score: 1

      If the hula hoop thing were the only incident then I would agree with you. However, you have to look at it from her perspective having experienced everything else that she says went on prior to that. She seemed to endure a great deal of harassment over things that had to do with who she was dating and who she didn't want to date. Would this have happened to a guy? I don't think so.

      As far as the party goes, I think if you go to a bar with a bunch of coworkers and the bar turns out to be a meat market, well... don't go there again if that kind of behavior bothers you. If on the other hand, it's a company event, -that's a little tougher.

    43. Re:she's a nutcase by Oligonicella · · Score: 1

      I'll presume you're intelligent and so recognize the dishonest equation you're using merely to snark on the paraphrased quote. If, on the other hand, you honestly equate women who freely choose to hula-hoop with women who are murdered, you sir or ma'am, are in severe need of a realignment of your values.

    44. Re:she's a nutcase by Kielistic · · Score: 1, Insightful

      You're first problem is equating hulahooping with stripping. Your second problem is feeling entitled to holding everybody else down because you do not think you are attractive enough to get the same attention.

    45. Re:she's a nutcase by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      One can always trust a feminista to dissect cromulent words into tools of patriarchal oppression. It's the main focus of women's studies these days since the low hanging symbols of inequality have all largely been addressed.

    46. Re:she's a nutcase by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      "If they didn't like to be the center of attention they should do their hula hooping exercises at home, with the blinds down, doors closed..... in the basement."

      You don't need to be put off by the men's actions alone. She can find the whole situation distasteful, maybe alienating to herself. She doesn't want to be a part of a culture where women are hula hooping in front of men, whatever their reasons. This is why harassment cases are challenging: everyone has their own sensibilities. What offends one person is fine with another, but you can't ignore someone who has an issue (within reason).

    47. Re:she's a nutcase by T.E.D. · · Score: 1

      Yes, those MEN had the GALL to WATCH two women hula hooping. Which made her feel unsafe. In other words, she's a lunatic and you can safely ignore anything she says.

      This incident was a very small aside after a long history of (unrelated except in a common culture) horrific events that happened to her. It was only brought up as the straw that broke the camel's back, not as THE reason she left. If that same series of events had happened to me, I would have left far before the hula-hooping thing happened. If it had happened to one of my daughters, I'd be lucky to not be in jail right now.

      Anyone who sizes upon this as a reason to "ignore anything she says", pretty clearly came into this story looking really hard to find a reason to do just that. It says way more about you than about her.

    48. Re:she's a nutcase by gweihir · · Score: 1

      The picture becomes clearer...

      The sad thing is that people like her make it harder for all the female engineers that actually are professional, competent and do not suffer from excessive entitlement syndrome. Which is most of them.

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    49. Re:she's a nutcase by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      no sh!t?! WTF is this woman a psycho job or something?

    50. Re:she's a nutcase by gweihir · · Score: 1

      I completely agree. Well said.

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    51. Re:she's a nutcase by HornWumpus · · Score: 0

      You don't get it: If a woman dresses hot for work, it is harassment if any man, other then the one she is dressing up for, looks at her.

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    52. Re:she's a nutcase by gweihir · · Score: 1

      Well, I remember the first times my code got reviewed, and initially I was pissed on a few occasions. After cooling down, I understood that it is not personal and quite a bit of is made a lot of sense. This type of relaxedness needs to be learned, and it is an absolute requirement for being professional.

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    53. Re:she's a nutcase by squiggleslash · · Score: 1

      Not watch. Gawk.

      You know, if I never had to start a tech company, I feel increasingly, reading these threads, that employeeing anyone who reads Slashdot would be a liability...

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    54. Re:she's a nutcase by HornWumpus · · Score: 1

      I can spin a hula-hoop on my schlong with my Kegel muscles. Yes they stare.

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    55. Re:she's a nutcase by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Pleaseexplain how actively choosing to hoola-hoopa is in any way like a strip club, or "meat market" as you put it. Absolutely ridiculous.

    56. Re:she's a nutcase by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Nobody is sexualizing the party EXCEPT the women who freely made the choice to holla-hoop in full view of men who are going to look. If the women were forced to hoola-hoop you would have a point, but they weren't so you don't. Don't ignore facts to suit your argument.

    57. Re:she's a nutcase by ThatsDrDangerToYou · · Score: 1
      Well, by the time this happened she was already mentally checked out from Github.

      As for the hoola hooping, I would consider it my obligation to be the one goofy dude hooping. Do it for Julie, of course. Please Julie, lift the restraining order. I promise to be every man you have ever wanted if you just leave what's-his-name and go out with me. Sincerely, Every Other Guy in the Office

    58. Re:she's a nutcase by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

      Actually, you are wrong. Most people are sheep. Or wolves. When they see someone vulnerable, and f&^&^, and screwed by the big boss, most of the people will follow, and even do worse, as the theory of the mob says. And, don't forget, it is just a job, they need the money, they don't give a sh&*&* for your feelings. Take it or leave it, is their motto. So, man, you are wrong.
      Oh, and the men who love smart women.....IDIOT.

      I know, i know, you don't even realize how disrespectable your comment is, but maybe it is because you are as bad in english as you are bad as developer.

    59. Re:she's a nutcase by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      To paraphrase Robert Heinlein, "if some men like to stare at women hula-hooping, then at least some women must enjoy hula-hooping while being stated at by men, otherwise there is something fundamentally wrong with the human species".

      If some men like to kill and dismember women then at least some women must like being killed and dismembered, otherwise there is something fundamentally wrong with the human species.

      that's cute. if only killing and dismemberment led to procreation and the continuation of the species, you wouldn't sound like an idiot.

    60. Re:she's a nutcase by Blakey+Rat · · Score: 1

      Right; let's ignore the 47 strong claims in the article and focus on the one weak claim. Then we can dismiss the weak claim, and suddenly the other 47 fade away into the ether and you have earned your debating wings, little angel!

    61. Re:she's a nutcase by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I see two possibilities here, either you are being deliberately disingenuous or you are a moron.

      Generally it seems that the people who are the most sexist are the ones who cannot get the mate they want. Their frustration turns into anger since it is easier to be angry at a whole sex than to face the fact that their own deficiencies are causing them to be perpetually single.

      Good luck with that.

    62. Re:she's a nutcase by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      The only evidence we have right now is JAH's word and her words include totally ridiculous garbage like getting upset and feeling unsafe because men were watching women hula hooping. She even pointed out that the women hooping didn't bother her, so we wouldn't think she was on the same level as the Taliban or something. This is the same person that led a campaign to remove the word "meritocracy" from a rug at the office. Why shouldn't we believe the rest of her story also consists of the insane ramblings of an neurotic misandrist?

    63. Re:she's a nutcase by AVee · · Score: 2

      She seemed to endure a great deal of harassment over things that had to do with who she was dating and who she didn't want to date. Would this have happened to a guy? I don't think so.

      From the article: "Horvath later learned that the founder had a similar talk with her partner and demanded that he resign". So yes, it would also happen to a guy.

    64. Re:she's a nutcase by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      she sounds like a wack job. I hope no one hires her again.

    65. Re:she's a nutcase by AmiMoJo · · Score: 2

      The problem is, as I already stated in another comment, we don't know what happened. What I'm saying is that I can imagine a scenario where I would feel it was inappropriate, not that I know for certain that is what happened.

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    66. Re:she's a nutcase by AmiMoJo · · Score: 1

      Women don't need separate-but-equal facilities to excel - there is no functional difference between a man and a woman in an IT role. Telling them they need a special venue is telling them they're not good enough for the "men's lecture". It's an insidious form of sexism.

      You missed the point of doing it. There is an imbalance and part of it is because there does not appear to be equal respect for women's views. There should be, of course, no-one is arguing that women are inferior and need special help. So how do we get to a point where there is more equal respect? Well, one obvious way is to give women a platform to showcase their lecturing skills and knowledge.

      I really don't get what people who object to this sort of thing are thinking. If I find a part of my car is broken I don't say to myself "well that shouldn't be broken, so why should I take any action to fix it?" and then expect some kind of universal karma to put it right. I do something about it and then it is fixed so I stop.

      our culture favors quiet little mermaids, not bold warrior princesses.

      Actually part of the problem is that we don't value quiet women enough. They shouldn't have to become warriors just to get on in IT. Of course the same applies to quiet men, but it's a more common issue for women.

      Particularly in IT assertiveness is often required to get your voice heard. I know a lot of guys who are like that, and after I get back from an extended stay in Japan I always have trouble with it for a while because I'm not used it. You have to push a bit and speak loudly and quickly just to get a word in edge ways, and for the sake of everyone it shouldn't be like that. Most people don't even realize they are doing it, and I get caught up in it myself at times. It's not really anyone's fault, it's just the culture and we can change it.

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    67. Re:she's a nutcase by rochrist · · Score: 1

      Don't confuse them with facts.

    68. Re:she's a nutcase by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Men watching women hula hooping at an office party is not a "straw" capable of breaking a back. It is perfectly normal and reasonable thing to happen. That male employees of Github or their friends would be so incited at the sight of women hula hooping at an office party that other women must fear for their safety is totally absurd. That women need protection from the gaze of men not related to them (hell, they weren't even looking at her!) and men must be protected from the sight of dancing women lest uncontrollable violence be released is the exact same position held by the Taliban, Saudi Arabian moral police, and other unsavory characters. I don't want to live in a place like that, thank you very much.

    69. Re:she's a nutcase by fahrbot-bot · · Score: 1

      Do individual women need encouragement? Of course - our culture favors quiet little mermaids, not bold warrior princesses.

      Indeed. I saw a sign over a door in a photo Chelsea Handler tweeted that said, "Well behaved women seldom make history." which is a quote from and name of a book by historian Laurel Thatcher Ulrich.

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    70. Re:she's a nutcase by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      (a) have less choice about attending and

      No one's going to force you to go to a fucking party. Ridiculous bullshit on your part.

    71. Re:she's a nutcase by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      We have no evidence other than her statements, which include some that are ridiculous. If she is so far off the mark on the hula hooping incident, why shouldn't we skeptical of the rest of her statements? She also objected to Github striving to be a "meritocracy" because we can only presume she prefers Github to hire/promote people based on gender, ethnicity, seniority, or relationship.

    72. Re:she's a nutcase by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I have been in the same situation,

      One major point that you realize when going through dealing with a constructive dismissal situation is that, reasoning with people does not work, they treat you like you are spinning in your chair no matter what you do. It does not matter who you talk to about it, because then you are guilty of character assassination and they use that against you. Your workload increases and you are harassed by idiots like the founder's wife, which I am unclear on here, why is she even at Github in the first place? Doesn't she have a job? Is it just the situation that her husband who does work there is too much of a noodle to handle his own work issues? (that seems on the money)

      Julie is fortunate however, usually after you leave in a constructive dismissal situation, people (and the media) can tend to pidgin hole you into being viewed as a "disgruntled ex employee" and everything you say is painted as you seeking revenge against the former employer and even against people you didn't even have a problem with. It is sad, but happens a lot in the tech industry. Sometimes you have to sue to get it to quit and to shake people out of believing the person with the highest paycheck or with "Manager" or "Founder" after their name as being beyond reproach. In my personal situation I am being actively slandered by a manager who was trying to pad his bonus by trimming IT expenses, and I am a professional with 16 years experience and had a wonderful record, and he started making policy changes that ended up with my department not getting equipment for new hires, Executives being locked out of their phones due to password policies being changed on the fly (I had and executive actually throw a blackberry at me and shatter the screen on my desk!) I was even criticized because I wrote an email to the executives explaining that the manager (the one who has been linked in stalking me and slandering me to my previous employers and new places of employment among others) had put a hold on equipment purposes and that the paperwork he had required for exceptions to the rule had been filed and I provided links showing that the forms had been both submitted immediately by me and had (as the current date was evidence... months later) been ignored. After this I was treated no different than if I had been spinning in my chair doing nothing, every piece of work I did after that point had been sabotaged by the same group of people and I was even told by people on a different floor that worked for a different company that they had heard rumors that I was quitting. A week later I did quit after I sent another email to the same group of executives explaining the situation that was happening and why it was unreasonable and resigned. The manager immediately called my former employer and so far I have counted approximately 50 people and businesses he has slandered me to. The lawsuit against this manager is pending. Julie sounds like she is in the same situation as I am. She has my sympathy.

    73. Re:she's a nutcase by Grishnakh · · Score: 1

      The hula-hooping women surely weren't forced to display themselves that way, just like people who sing karaoke aren't usually forced into it by someone. If you don't want to be the object of attention, there's no one forcing you to grab a hula hoop and spin your hips around. You can complain about this being "unprofessional" all you want, but the fact remains that these women did this on their own.

    74. Re:she's a nutcase by Grishnakh · · Score: 1

      There's no difference between watching and gawking. Gawking and staring are the same thing, and it's pretty hard to not stare at someone who's intentionally making a spectacle of themselves, with the intention of gaining attention. If you don't want people staring at you, stop making a spectacle of yourself.

    75. Re:she's a nutcase by RightSaidFred99 · · Score: 1

      Lol, which is nonsense. Tons of people in the IT/software world date and it's not an issue at any reasonable company. If there is a supervisor/subordinate relationship then there is an issue and usually a transfer or something would be in order, but otherwise they almost never give a shit.

    76. Re:she's a nutcase by RightSaidFred99 · · Score: 1

      Employing any male 18-35 is a huge liability, and hiring any male 35-60 is probably a pretty big one too. Face it, we're all fucking pigs.

      Good luck with your low liability company...

      And no, I'm not excusing unprofessional behavior simply stating reality.

    77. Re:she's a nutcase by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      EXACTLY! Setting up 'special programs' to 'enable A minority' is a 'ism' in itself (pick your poison)! Setting up processes to enable anyone not getting a 'fair shake' or otherwise not able to promote themselves well etc. is useful.

    78. Re:she's a nutcase by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      The existence of this contingent poisoned the word "feminism". When you list the key tenets of feminism without naming it, the vast majority of undergraduate women in the US support the idea. But name "feminism" and it calls up memories of other women telling them how they ought to be, what they should believe, how to fit into a jigsaw puzzle in which a handful of old, white women redirect feminism to support their own power structures. And on that basis they'll tell you they aren't feminists - and who could blame them?

      See also "meritocracy" Here is the Oxford New American English dictionary definition of meritocracy:

      meritocracy |meritäkrs|
      noun ( pl. meritocracies )
      government or the holding of power by people selected on the basis of their ability.
        a society governed by such people or in which such people hold power.
        a ruling or influential class of educated or skilled people.
      DERIVATIVES
      meritocratic |meritkratik|adjective

      Gee, who wouldn't want people to be hired/promoted on the basis of their ability? Yet many otherwise intelligent people seem to think that meritocracy means the people there must be the most qualified bestest people anywhere and not just the most qualified amongst those who actually applied for a job at Github. Since Github is mostly white or jewish dudes, it couldn't possibly a meritocracy because there exist qualified women and colored people who don't have jobs there and never applied for one. *derp*

    79. Re:she's a nutcase by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Removing that rug was an excellent decision.

      It was a good decision to pull that rug.

      Only idiots think that real "equality" exists. That doesn't mean that women are discriminated against. It's just a fact of life and statistics that there is no such thing as equality and it's just stupid to believe so in a company that is anywhere close to "big data" (i.e. statistics).

    80. Re:she's a nutcase by dwarfsoft · · Score: 1

      Nobody actually READS Slashdot. They only read snippets and come to their own conclusions, and berate the OP about how they are wrong. If they were actually reading slashdot they would be a far better prospect. You could also choose to only employ people that RTFA, which would discount most /.ers.

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    81. Re:she's a nutcase by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      There is an imbalance and part of it is because there does not appear to be equal respect for women's views. There should be, of course, no-one is arguing that women are inferior and need special help. So how do we get to a point where there is more equal respect? Well, one obvious way is to give women a platform to showcase their lecturing skills and knowledge.

      They already have a platform for that, it is the same one that the men use. Creating more segregation is not going to effect positive change, it is going to worsen the situation. Do you really think people disrespectful of women's views are going to turn up to such lectures?

      I really don't get what people who object to this sort of thing are thinking. If I find a part of my car is broken I don't say to myself "well that shouldn't be broken, so why should I take any action to fix it?"

      Of course you take action to fix it, but if your car is broken you don't just hit it with a hammer, that's only going to make things worse.

    82. Re:she's a nutcase by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      They were probably told they would be fired and [***TRIGGER WARNING***]raped if they didn't by the oppressive, privileged, white-male shitlords. Just look at all the mansplaining going on in this thread. Disgusting.

    83. Re:she's a nutcase by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Yeah, I'm not at all convinced of anything she says. I've worked with men who've had their asses handed to them in code reviews and had their code pulled. I've also seen many men not have their opinions respected because frankly they weren't very good. Now, should we all assume that the company was a hostile workplace for men? It seems that when women are criticized that it's always because they are women rather than because they actually fucked up. Some women just suck at programming and that's all there is to it. I have no idea if this Ms. Hovarth is any good as a developer but you cannot just automatically claim sexism because people don't like your code.

    84. Re:she's a nutcase by epyT-R · · Score: 1

      What 'horrific' things then? Stupid jokes? Wise cracking? Sarcasm? Dark humor? Welcome to reality, especially in realms with 'high functioning' people. Society should not be responsible for propping up ultra-sensitive spineless sorts. How could one 'feel unsafe' in an office building with a few colleagues joking around? Really? Is society that soft now?

      The fact that girls are apparently allowed to 'express themselves' without a care in the world while guys are demonized for simple glances should tell you who the real 'victims' (if this could even be called victimization) are, as well as the real perpetrators.

    85. Re:she's a nutcase by epyT-R · · Score: 1

      Well, you've got nothing to worry about as you're never starting a tech company.

    86. Re:she's a nutcase by epyT-R · · Score: 1

      Assuming this isn't sarcasm..

      Wow, you must have a lot of built up self-loathing to make statements like that. That, or you're suffering from a crazy case of stockholm syndrome. This would be understandable as hatred of masculinity oozes from every public orifice these days. ..and stop misusing the word 'professional.'

    87. Re:she's a nutcase by epyT-R · · Score: 1

      Twitter posts by the claimant are not proof of anything.

    88. Re:she's a nutcase by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Not sarcasm, nor self loathing - simply a statement of fact. I'm a dude and I've hung out with a lot of dudes, we're almost all crude horny pigs. Those that aren't actually scare me more than those that are, because they're probably the ones with heads in their freezers at home.

      As for professional, I did not misuse it. In this context, it means behaving in a way consistent with the norms of a work environment.

      Maybe my problem isn't self loathing but yours is self awareness.

    89. Re:she's a nutcase by squiggleslash · · Score: 1

      There's no difference between watching and gawking.

      One is a subset of the other. Sorry, but we've decided to go in another direction, but good luck with your job search...

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    90. Re:she's a nutcase by squiggleslash · · Score: 1

      This is actually complete nonsense, even if widely believed. In fact, I wonder actually if there's more likely to be problems with older men than younger men simply because younger men have been brought up (for the most part) in an environment where sexual harassment and disrespect for women's equality are much greater issues, and generally considered very bad things.

      I've worked with men of all ages, and most are perfectly capable of acting like adults around women, most are perfectly aware of what can cause anxiety and how to steer away from it, and so on. Those rare examples that aren't aren't necessarily members of any particular age group - indeed, the one person who immediately springs to mind - and was a target of private complaints by women co-workers when I worked for the same employer - is about ten years older than I am (I'm in my 40s.)

      The assumption being made is that because men are attracted to women, they're suddenly unable to control their impulses when surrounded by them. It doesn't make any sense on any level. If it did office rapes would be common, not simply elevator eyes or the kind of gawking described in TFA. This is about learned behavior, about what's acceptable. You don't pee in your pants because you need to go to the bathroom. You don't steal your neighbor's potato chips because you're hungry. And you avoid more than a passing glance at the women you work alongside when you notice they're attractive and, well, sexy.

      Most men are perfectly capable fo doing this. Most men do. It's that minority that doesn't, or who feel the need not to because of an inherently sexist office culture, that cause the problems.

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    91. Re:she's a nutcase by T.E.D. · · Score: 1
      Didn't read TFA I see.

      Actually, not a horrible or unusual policy on /. , but you probably should read it before making assumptions about the contents. It keeps you from saying stupidly wrong thing like this.

    92. Re:she's a nutcase by david_thornley · · Score: 1

      Yes, ideally there would be no need for all-woman forums, because women will be on regular forums. In many cases, that does not seem to be the case, and forums tend to be all male. That isn't necessarily deliberate sexism, but it can have the same effect.

      This isn't telling the women they're not good enough for the men's group, because they're already getting that message. This is providing a group where they can show what they can do.

      Ideally, there would be no need for separate-but-equal, but it isn't clear we're there yet.

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    93. Re:she's a nutcase by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      It's just accepting the idea that there are women who want to work in IT but are put off doing so

      False. These excluded women, and the discrimination they face, exist ONLY in the vivid imaginations of professional sexists.

    94. Re:she's a nutcase by stdarg · · Score: 1

      I think you're being a bit too strict with your interpretation of the idiom. From your own link, "This also gives rise to the phrase "the last/final straw", used when something is deemed to be the last in a line of unacceptable occurrences."

      Therefore the straw is an unacceptable occurrence, not a red herring. To explore the difference, would putting a single straw on an unburdened camel be an unacceptable occurrence, e.g. would a single straw be too heavy?

      While related, I don't think you can fairly call someone's characterization of something as "the last straw" to mean that it was a perfectly acceptable incident except for the buildup of past incidents.

    95. Re:she's a nutcase by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Yes, ideally there would be no need for all-black drinking fountains because blacks will be using regular fountains. In many cases, that does not seem to be the case, and fountains tend to be used exclusively by whites. That isn't necessarily deliberate racism, but it can have the same effect.

      This isn't telling the blacks they're not good enough for the white's fountain because they're already getting that message. This is providing a fountain where they can drink as much as they want.

      Ideally, there would be no need for separate-but-equal, but it isn't clear we're there yet.

    96. Re:she's a nutcase by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      From the article: "Horvath later learned that the founder had a similar talk with her partner and demanded that he resign". So yes, it would also happen to a guy.

      Definitely.

      It goes unsaid, but the sexist men and women in my experience, are more than equal and fair about dishing things out.

      In other words: the sexist men I have met not ONLY expect women act a certain way -- any guy who does not act that way must be gay or a whiny little bitch, etc.

      There is no room in their mind for either gender to deviate from their bigotry.

      The sexist women I have met not ONLY expect men to act a certain way -- any woman who does not act properly is just faking, just needs a man to put her in her place, etc.

      Sexist environments are lousy for everyone, of any orientation, for all the same reasons. Even the people not being targeted suffer when that kind of crap gets pushed on everyone. Everyone loses when you have to play by imaginary rules because others can't deal with the fact the world does not match their imagined perceptions of how people are supposed to be, so rather than deal with it, they have to try and fix people for their own good.

      It also goes unsaid -- sexist people think they are doing good and doing the right thing. That is why they are so destructive and hateful -- they really think, in their little minds, that they are doing the whole world a giant favor. That is how they get so twisted and angry at others -- they really think their way is "right" and any other way is "wrong."

    97. Re:she's a nutcase by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      What I have seen, repeatedly, is people who do not have any engineering background bump up against the no nonsense, no bullshit get-it-done-now attitude that is pervasive in the software world

      It sounds like you refuse to see that as sexist. Which is not entirely inaccurate -- it really isn't, it is much worse than that.

      It is the idea that sexism is OK if it gets the job done.

      It is the idea that whatever gets the job done is all that matters.

      Which is a total lie and just an excuse to be a dick.

      People who are dicks are dicks whether they have an engineering background or not.

      Engineers aren't special, whatever they might need to boost their ego and the years and dollars they spent buying their background.

      The "who do not have any engineering background" reads like cognitive dissonance of the purest grade.

  10. Sexism angle way overblown by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 5, Insightful

    Having read all of that, it seems like maybe 10% sexism and 90% people just being horrible in a completely gender-neutral fashion. Inexcusable either way, but pitching this as a "culture of sexism" seems a bit over-the-top given that most of the negative interactions mentioned in the article are between two women.

    1. Re:Sexism angle way overblown by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Considering its females that decide whom with they sleep&have kids... you've understood sexism completely wrong :D
       

    2. Re:Sexism angle way overblown by shiruba3094 · · Score: 1

      Maybe the boss's wife was sexist? She was nice to all the hot guys and a bitch to the only girl?

    3. Re:Sexism angle way overblown by shiruba3094 · · Score: 1

      At any rate, in all seriousness, I agree that most of the complaints seemed to be of a general nature. Specifically of what I would call "Small Company Syndrome", where companies are small enough that gossip about people's personal lives permeate 100%, and there is no independence between departments like HR, IT, etc.

    4. Re:Sexism angle way overblown by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      It's clearly sexism when one of the founders sends/allows his wife to harass only the female employee while leaving the male employees alone. Sexism is discrimination based on gender, not sexuality. You're thinking of sexual harassment, which she tossed in as a side note.

    5. Re:Sexism angle way overblown by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Can't argue against ideology, feminists even believe that child abuse perpetrated by mothers is caused by male dominance, because the source of all power, inequality, violence and everything bad in the universe is men.

    6. Re:Sexism angle way overblown by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      If anything, 10% sexism is much lower than it used to be when I started about 35 years ago. I think we've come a long way, and it would be sad if all of that was ignored because of a few jerkoffs. I don't know enough to say that's what happened here, but it's pretty vile to have the "sexism" card raised so high when it seems less like sexism and more that the men were being men.

      And yes, I'm aware that some people will hear that and say "but they shouldn't be, you're being an apologist". But those people apparently don't live in reality, where men ARE men, and us women need to remember that. It sometimes seems to me that men are the only ones who are trying to slowly reach a middle ground, and only a small minority of women are willing to do the same. A lot of women make heavy demands without any concessions. That was fine a long time ago, but we're quickly reaching a stage where it's not (if we're not there already).

    7. Re:Sexism angle way overblown by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Completely false. You're trying to create a statistically significant truism based on an incredibly small sample size. Go back to school.

    8. Re:Sexism angle way overblown by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Yup. He should have kept her barefoot, pregnant, and in the kitchen to prevent sexism.

    9. Re:Sexism angle way overblown by cbhacking · · Score: 1

      To be fair, it's completely possible for women to be sexist against other women. A woman (A) who worked her way up in a business may see another woman (B) trying to do the same but getting stymied by things that A didn't let stop her may consider B to be weak for failing. Another woman (C) who came in from a completely unrelated angle - such as the non-technical wife of the head of the company - may assume neither A nor B can possibly be as technically skilled as a man, because C is bad at technical things and in her worldview, men start successful technical businesses, and women marry them.

      The whole problem of cultural influence towards sexism affects women as well as men, and individual success (for whatever metric of "success" you care to apply, including success in a male-dominated world) doesn't mean they won't think (consciously or subconsciously) that they themselves are just an exception to the otherwise valid stereotype. This applies to racism as well, incidentally.

      It's also possible, though less common in my experience, for men to be sexist against other men. The only place I can recall personally seeing it is in kitchens, where even some male cooks will assume women are better than men, although I wouldn't be surprised if it happens other "traditionally" female roles like nursing and child-care too.

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  11. So hula hooping at work is okay, by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    but people watching the spectacle with interest is not?

    1. Re:So hula hooping at work is okay, by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

      Watching the men who are watching the hola-hoopers is however just fine. As long as you look at them in scorn and not lust ofcourse.

  12. Yet another reason to not hire a woman. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Oh wait, she didn't actually fucking work there. Lmao.

  13. Really Bad Title + Thoughts by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    When I first read the title, I thought it mean she has stopped citing harassment as the reason for her quitting. Instead it means the opposite of that: she quit and is claiming harassment as the reason why. Well, assuming harrassment is supposed to be harassment...

    What I don't understand stand in these situations is why don't the people wear a wire and record the harassment, then sue the company and/or person. That's a valid reason for suing. Instead they rage quit without providing specific details so we're left to wonder if their claims are true, embellished, revenge driven, taken out of context, or poor communication between workers. The people doing the harassment keep their jobs, become better off, people mimic them to become their buddies and get ahead, and ultimately hurt the reputation of the industry.

    Since I had to wait to post this as AC I've read the article and she does point out some specifics. Good for her. Though one of the main people in this affair is another women.

  14. Re:If you can't take the heat, by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    I take offense to that statement and politely request that you keep her out of mine!

    Sincerely
    A Male Chef.

  15. Even worse by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    If they'd averted their gazes away from the two possibly drunken hula-hooping dancing girls due to vast amounts of DO NOT WANT (or even just vastness), she would have been doubly as insulted.

  16. Psychotic wife by LordLucless · · Score: 5, Interesting

    It seems the lion's share of the problem was a founder's psychotic wife, who basically stalked her - which doesn't seem to have anything to do with gender discrimination, and all to do with one person being a nut-job.

    Of the other issues she raised:
    * Another engineer made a pass at her, got rejected, and didn't handle the rejection will.
    * Some girls were hula-hoop dancing, and guys were watching them

    The first issue might have been a problem, but if it was at all proportionate to the page-space dedicated to discussing it, it sounds like a fairly minor issue, and one that should really be able to be solved by HR. The second is just, well, petty. Sounds like she'd made up her mind to hate the place by that stage, and was finding fault with every little thing.

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    1. Re:Psychotic wife by OzPeter · · Score: 1

      and one that should really be able to be solved by HR.

      From reading between the lines it sounds as if she feels that HR was somewhere between ineffectual and complicit in all of this.

      However as someone has already pointed out we have only heard one side of the story. And while I have no reason to doubt here story (I've worked in places that were bad on a similar level so I can appreciate her situation) there is no way I nor anyone else here can judge truth from fiction or pronounce judgement on her statements or actions.

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    2. Re:Psychotic wife by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Of the other issues she raised:
      * Another engineer made a pass at her, got rejected, and didn't handle the rejection will.

      no, she said he "hesitated." so, she got the outcome she wanted, and still managed to find something wrong with it. was he supposed to sprint out of her cube? how about asking for forgiveness while prostrating himself before her? no, he would still smell bad or kiss her toes wrong or something..

    3. Re:Psychotic wife by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Some girls were hula-hoop dancing

      Not hula-hooping! What is this world coming to? Next thing you know women will be allowed to drive.

    4. Re:Psychotic wife by LordLucless · · Score: 1

      He "hesitated", and then (according to her) started abusing her on commit messages, and pulling her code out. It was the that, not the "hesitation" that I was labelling as "not handling it well".

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    5. Re:Psychotic wife by anyGould · · Score: 1

      and one that should really be able to be solved by HR.

      From reading between the lines it sounds as if she feels that HR was somewhere between ineffectual and complicit in all of this.

      Which is most likely true.

      Protip, employees: HR is not on your side.

      HR is in the business of keeping the company out of trouble. If you're lucky, keeping the company out of trouble will include solving your problem. But that's nowhere near a guarantee. If the letter of the law says the boss can screw you over, it's a safe bet that HR is going to side with the boss.

  17. Read the TechCrunch FA and... by MikeRT · · Score: 2

    I could be mistaken, but it sounds an awful lot like this is just a bad attempt to blame the big bad men for what the founder's wife did. She sounds like a bitch on wheels with a jetpack strapped to her for good measure. Sure, the one engineer was a problem, but if the wife wasn't involved and out to get her HR would probably have put him in his place if she asked.

    1. Re:Read the TechCrunch FA and... by gnasher719 · · Score: 2

      I could be mistaken, but it sounds an awful lot like this is just a bad attempt to blame the big bad men for what the founder's wife did. She sounds like a bitch on wheels with a jetpack strapped to her for good measure. Sure, the one engineer was a problem, but if the wife wasn't involved and out to get her HR would probably have put him in his place if she asked.

      It doesn't really matter _why_ there was a problem. It looks like the problems were in this order: 1. A "founder" who allowed a non-employee (his wife) to interfere with the company, and who didn't stop that non-employee in their tracks as soon as it was apparent that her interference caused problems. 2. A bitchy woman interfering with the company and causing problems. 3. HR not jumping on the fact that a non-employee was allowed in the company and causing problems. 4. An apparently insane male employee trying to chat up a colleague knowing that she is an a relationship, and then going bonkers when he is predictably rejected. 5. HR not jumping on the fact that an employee is sabotaging another employee's work.

      There was harassment by three people. And the company has to ask itself if there is a climate that encouraged this.

    2. Re:Read the TechCrunch FA and... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Well, whether or not there was sexual harassment (illegal as hell, BTW, so that's a serious charge), it sounds like some bully (or bullies) found her achilles' heel, and exploited it.

      That's what bullies do. They find your weakness, then go for it. If you are homophobic, they pretend to be gay, and hit on you. If you feel discriminated against, they pretend to be one of the discriminators, and pound on you that way.

      In reality, there may not have been a systemic problem of sexual harassment, but some bullies figured out that was her button, and made it worse.

      The founder's wife thing was inexcusable. It sounds like HR was completely complicit in the affair. That's often a problem with HR. They like to stay employed, so they tend to overlook transgressions by the folks that sign their paychecks. HR may also have been unwittingly complicit in the harassment issue, by refusing to take it seriously.

      Bullying is harassment. Many HR departments only look at illegal harassment as an issue (non-sexual harassment isn't necessarily illegal).

      Most folks don't understand that HR is not there for the employees. It is there to protect the corporation from its employees.

    3. Re:Read the TechCrunch FA and... by Assmasher · · Score: 1

      This https://github.com/blog/1800-u... seems to indicate that she's pretty much right on about the two major factors though.

      GitHub has banned the wife, the founder involved was put on leave, as was the engineer who apparently handled rejection well (he should be used to it...)

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    4. Re:Read the TechCrunch FA and... by Jiro · · Score: 1

      It doesn't really matter _why_ there was a problem.

      It does if you're playing the sexism card and the problem is real but not sexism.

    5. Re:Read the TechCrunch FA and... by russotto · · Score: 1

      It certainly does matter _why_ there was a problem, considering the ongoing campaign to paint male geeks as worse than frat boys in terms of sexism and sexual harassment.

      Taking her claims at face value, 90% of the problem was with the founder's wife. If she really is the type described, there's no way her husband could have stopped her, really; she'd never have married anyone she couldn't control. This is unfortunate but it's not sexism by men. The other 10%, again taking this at face value, is a guy who didn't take rejection well, which is certainly bad on his part but isn't indicative of a "sexist internal culture" in general.

      Then there were the non-problems: Men watching women hula-hooping at a party, and the guy "hesitating" when asked to leave (sorry, men are human too; mere hesitation after being rejected does not make us monsters).

      None of this paints a picture of a sexist internal culture; mostly it paints a picture of an internal culture made disfunctional by the founder's wife.

    6. Re:Read the TechCrunch FA and... by locofungus · · Score: 1

      Well, whether or not there was sexual harassment (illegal as hell, BTW, so that's a serious charge), it sounds like some bully (or bullies) found her achilles' heel, and exploited it.

      Sexual harassment, like all other instances of harassment is not the case of "something really bad that should never have happened." That would come under sexual assault, or assault if it isn't sexual.

      Harassment is when there's a prolonged course of incidents that individually are not particularly serious but when viewed as a whole, make someone uncomfortable and feel unsafe.

      You're allowed to ask that co-worker out. You're allowed to say someone is looking lovely. But you'd better be sensitive to whether that comment is well received because constantly repeating it when it's not appreciated could constitute harassment. And if you cannot tell whether it's well received or not then better to not start at all.

      Harassment is Chinese water torture. One drip never hurt anyone.

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    7. Re:Read the TechCrunch FA and... by jmcvetta · · Score: 1

      And if you cannot tell whether it's well received or not then better to not start at all.

      And there you have captured the real point of the new Feminist jurisprudence: To impose on the population, at the literal point of a gun if necessary, an abhorrently Puritanical anti-sex morality.

  18. Prominent? Not! by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Shoulda just made out with the wife, that's all she wanted. Just a little petting goes a long way for the wife of a flounder.

  19. I Can Believe That by segedunum · · Score: 1

    It wouldn't be the first company to have disappeared into its own fantasy world like that, especially one with ridiculous amounts of spare seed funding they don't actually need.

    The hula hooping episode could have been dismissed as some high jinx but taken into account with everything else, no.

  20. Sexism? by joe545 · · Score: 1

    I don't understand the clamour to define this as sexism when 90% of the alleged harassment was from the founder's wife. Simply watching someone hula-hoop in public at a works party is not harassment and paints "Julie" in a bad light when she compares it to a strip-club and that she felt "unsafe".

    1. Re:Sexism? by Tanuki64 · · Score: 1

      ...and paints "Julie" in a bad light when she compares it to a strip-club and that she felt "unsafe".

      It simply paints her as a female sexist.

    2. Re:Sexism? by joe545 · · Score: 1

      She is also effectively calling her two female co-workers strippers. I wonder if she asked for their permission before airing that grievance. It'll be an awkward return to work for those two after that comparison.

    3. Re:Sexism? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      She is also effectively calling her two female co-workers strippers

      No she isn't. You can't just bend sentences around to mean anything. The order of words matters. (Except in Feminist Theory :p)

    4. Re:Sexism? by westlake · · Score: 1

      I don't understand the clamour to define this as sexism when 90% of the alleged harassment was from the founder's wife.

      How does the wife of the founder become a presence and power in the workplace without the support of her husband?

    5. Re:Sexism? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      paraphrasing..

      how does wife do X... without the support of her husband?

      Said no married man ever...

    6. Re:Sexism? by Arker · · Score: 1

      I believe the correct word is androphobe.

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    7. Re:Sexism? by Tanuki64 · · Score: 1

      Might be. But I think this word is too subject-specific . The connection of 'female' and 'sexist' is IMHO better. Makes it clearer that women too can be sexists. This goes far too often under the radar.

  21. Re:"Boo-hoo! People give me attention! Wah-wah!" by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Females.... They are never satisfied.

    Your dick's to short

  22. 'twas the wife by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 5, Interesting

    after reading the story it seemed to be almost nothing to do with sexism, and everything to do with the wife not liking the woman. women not liking women, news at 10.

  23. Spite of women by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    This sounds more like that founder's wife had it out for her and was doing what I can only describe as the kind of hatred I have only ever witnessed amongst women. Not that men are not vindictive and petty but this specific kind of abuse and picking an "arch enemy" for petty reasons of "status" and "I am the founder's wife", I have only seen amongst women. The "old boys" would do it differently.

    The "sexism" part is just an add-on to give it more news potential and really had nothing to do with the actual thing at hand: incredibly unprofessional work environment.

    What I am wondering: how can you land a job at a hot-shot place like GitHub and be so completely gullible and defenseless and clueless how to protect yourself? Founder's wife is abusing you and threatening you daily at your desk? Hold a camera in her face, let's see her do it then. Whole company seems abusive? Lawyer up! Get everything you can in writing and audio proof along with it.

  24. Sexism by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    I must have read a different article then some of the other people on this forum. A culture that allows a rejected suitor to vindictively punish a woman would certainly qualify as sexist. A culture that allows a bench full of men to gawk and stare at co-workers would qualify as sexism. That the majority of the issues were caused by one of the founder's wife is irrelevant to whether there is a sexist culture. You could take it out of the article and there would still be enough to suggest that github has trouble treating women with respect and dignity.

    1. Re:Sexism by russotto · · Score: 1

      A culture that allows a rejected suitor to vindictively punish a woman would certainly qualify as sexist.

      Well, maybe; presuming it did not allow rejected women to punish men as well (if it did, and those rejected women exist, it's still dysfunctional but not sexist). But nothing here says there's a culture that allowed it. Just that he reverted her commits; if no one else realized he was doing so or had any idea why he was doing it, there's not necessarily a wider cultural probem.

      A culture that allows a bench full of men to gawk and stare at co-workers would qualify as sexism.

      As Jesse Pinkman would say (to a person of any gender) "Context, bitch!". It was a work-sponsored party, not the regular work day. And the women were doing something interesting to look at.

  25. What's the big deal by Attila+Dimedici · · Score: 2

    Since I do not recall seeing articles about her citing harassment, I don't understand why it is such a big deal that she isn't doing so any longer.


    OK, I read the summary and realize the headline is inaccurate. What they meant to write was, " Prominent GitHub Engineer Julie Ann Horvath Quits, Citing Harassment" rather than the headline they did write. All I have to say is, "Commas, learn to use them."

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    1. Re:What's the big deal by mrjimorg · · Score: 2

      "Let's eat, Grandma"
      "Let's eat Grandma"
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    2. Re:What's the big deal by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Colons: Learn to use them.

  26. Too much drama by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Article read like a day in junior high school. GitHub needs adults.

  27. Good riddance by msobkow · · Score: 1

    Everything I've read on this subject sounds like a prima donna drama queen. Good riddance.

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    1. Re:Good riddance by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      This incident is why you never hire a Californian woman with "Feminist Studies" on her transcript. They see themselves as culture warriors and create problems so they can fight for their cause.

  28. Don't be so quick to judge by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Don't be so quick to judge the founder's wife. We have only Horvath's version of the story, and I got to admit I become a little skeptical of her because of her hula-hoop bashing. That seems a little like grasping at straws for something to smear the company with. Men gawked at women who were voluntarily hula-hoop dancing in the context of a party? Really.

    1. Re:Don't be so quick to judge by DoofusOfDeath · · Score: 1

      I got to admit I become a little skeptical of her because of her hula-hoop bashing.

      Agreed. The way I see it, there are basically two kinds of people in the world: people who like hula hoops, and people who are joyless humorless busybodies. I think we can all agree that Julie's unfortunate problems were completely predictable from her distaste for hula hoops.

  29. Re:"Boo-hoo! People give me attention! Wah-wah!" by AlterEager · · Score: 1

    Females.... They are never satisfied.

    Your dick's to short

    And he only uses his tongue to whine.

  30. HR is not on your side by emj · · Score: 4, Insightful

    Which is why in civilised countries we have unions and employment law.

    I was a bit sad when I read that she had to request HR to be present at a meeting with the boss, you need a union on your side when you have those conversations.

    1. Re:HR is not on your side by David_Hart · · Score: 1

      Which is why in civilised countries we have unions and employment law.

      I was a bit sad when I read that she had to request HR to be present at a meeting with the boss, you need a union on your side when you have those conversations.

      I wonder how that conversation would have gone if she had brought a lawyer....

  31. Was there any encouragmenent though? by Sycraft-fu · · Score: 1

    That doesn't seem to be claimed. You have to remember, some people like to show off and have fun. Back in my partying days I saw all kinds of people, men and women, do all kinds of things that they enjoyed doing, but also with the intention of having an audience. That was part of the reason they were doing them at a party, in public. They wished for an audience. Also people usually did watch because, well, when something is going on it is natural to watch. One of my friends loved to breathe fire, he'd get some 151 in his mouth, hold a lighter near it, and spew it out, causing it to catch fire. Looked pretty impressive and always drew a crowd.

    So ya, if the women were pushed in to then and/or if men were making inappropriate comments then I see a problem. However if the women decided it would be fun to do and the men watching because it was something going on then I don't see a problem.

  32. Well with that by Sycraft-fu · · Score: 1

    I'd say I personally want more information before determining who is the psycho. I have on more than one occasion seen a person claim that they have a psycho who is out to get them, only to discover that the person making the claim is the one who's psycho, not the person who's allegedly out to get them. Or, sometimes, both are psycho.

    There's a situation like that where I work. One of the advisers HATES the head secretary. She will tell anyone who will listen about what an evil bitch the secretary is and so on and so forth. Ya well, observational evidence does not bear this out. In fact it shows the opposite is true, the adviser is the source of the issues and is the one who's being a jerk.

    So not claiming that this lady's story is untrue, but I'm not willing to believe it without some more verification. Particularly in light of the other trivial issues like the hula-hoop thing. Often a sign of psycho behaviour is making a big deal out of little things.

  33. Women in the male-dominated workplace by ikhider · · Score: 2

    This is a tough one. I had the privilege to work for exceptional men and women in male-dominated industries, such as finance. Yes, there is sexism. Women are propositioned, stared at, condescended to, recipients of sexist comments and so on. I have seen some women capitalize on this and turn it to their advantage. I also observe other women who obsess over the power dynamic to the point where they are always checking, verifying and asserting their power. This usually causes resentment. A leader is not effective if s/he keeps asserting 'I am in charge'. Then there are some women who 'just get on with it'. They are there to do business and get the job done effectively. Politics, stares, sexism are like water off a duck's back. They are focussed on their work and getting the job done. Now this is in an arena among the 'captains of industry' types. Imagine an arena of shy and awkward geek boys who obsess on code? No everyone has the strength to get past such environs and 'just get on with the job'. Horvath tweeting about office politics is a bad move. You cannot express much in a tweet. It is a poor way to explain situations. I feel bad for the next woman, who will probably be treated like a vial of nytroglycerine.

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  34. take action by Charliemopps · · Score: 1

    In retrospect, Horvath said she feels like she should have handed in her resignation following the episode..

    Yes, she should have.

    If GitHub is really run the way she claims, they are doomed already. If women refused to be treated like this (and I know many that would) companies that allowed this kind of behavior would find them selves lacking in a very large section of the talent pool.

    1. Re:take action by Tanuki64 · · Score: 1

      companies that allowed this kind of behavior would find them selves lacking in a very large section of the talent pool.

      Oh, really? I constantly hear: Very few women in IT. Not enough women here, not enough women there...so, so deep can this talent pool not be.

      And every business will be better off, the fewer women are employed. No company needs female hate mongers, who pull the reputation of the company down to further her own agenda.

    2. Re:take action by BitZtream · · Score: 1

      ... Contrary to what you might think, even IT businesses are not involved with ONLY IT when it comes to running a company.

      If the companies purpose is IT, its not inconceivable that half the company is NOT directly IT related. Sales, marketing, management, office staff (secretaries, janitors, repair workers, someone to water the plants) generally make up more of the company than the people who do what the companies primary focus is.

      I've done a lot of development as well as some sysadmin and desktop support in my younger days, I've never seen a development firm where at least half of the firm was developers. Its always been less than 50% actual developers, and a bunch of support staff, and that happens to pretty much any company that doesn't operate out of a shoebox.

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    3. Re:take action by Tanuki64 · · Score: 1

      Sales, marketing, management, office staff (secretaries, janitors, repair workers, someone to water the plants)

      This might be true, but it is irrelevant. Or do you think if there is again a complaint 'waaahhhh.... not enough women in IT' sales, marketing or office staff is meant?

    4. Re:take action by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Not saying women can't be as capable as men, but I'm sure companies can function fine without female employees.

    5. Re:take action by rochrist · · Score: 1

      Return to your cave.

    6. Re:take action by Tanuki64 · · Score: 1

      Grovel in front of your Misstress.

    7. Re:take action by rochrist · · Score: 1

      Jealous?

    8. Re:take action by Tanuki64 · · Score: 1

      Disgusted.

  35. Doesn't pass the smell test. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    She goes out of her way to say that the wife invited her for drinks (presumably while before any of these issues appeared and she was happily employed) and then uses that meeting to tell her not to smear the company when she quits.

    Founder's wife then becomes enemy number one for the rest of the article.

    So I'm being asked to believe that a psychotic wife of the founder daily harasses a poor innocent female employee (which is certainly possible) or is it more likely that Ms. Horvath was already having conflicts with the workplace AND THEN the conversation happened?

    THEN a jilted suitor rips her code out (a true professional issue) but she goes to HR about the wife's discussion "off company time"?

    And THEN the hula-hooping is what finally made her feel unsafe?!

    I'm not denying that she doesn't feel she's been wronged - But given the story and the responses from the employees on the secret message board - I suspect there was really a *non-sexual* power play going on here.

  36. Well... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    ...if she walked around showing off her cleavage....or wearing tights as pants in the workplace....what did she expect?

  37. easy to know who's right by tommeke100 · · Score: 1

    She says many women joined GitHub after her.
    Let's check their story of perceived sexism. If all women feel their is somewhat a culture of sexism, than she's right.

  38. Some people are pathetic. by MouseTheLuckyDog · · Score: 1

    ...to turn this into a feminism issue.

    The whole hula hoop thing feels like "we don't have enough to make sexism sound reasonable, so let's just throw this in,"
    The coworker thing is a coworker from hell, but nothing big. Don't accept other projects with this guy, devote less time to the projects with this guy and more time to other projects.
    The wife thing. Oh she sounds like a real harridan. Acting to cover her husbands back like other some other evil wifes, what were their names? Oh yes. Rosalind Carter, Nancy Reagan, Barbara Bush, Hillary Clinton, Michelle Obama. Just be nice and don't hang around her too much.

    1. Re:Some people are pathetic. by MouseTheLuckyDog · · Score: 1

      Checking her linkedin profile, she doesn't exactly sound like she's tearing up the development scene either.

    2. Re:Some people are pathetic. by shadowrat · · Score: 1

      i've got to agree. My wife and sisters-in-law are all big into hooping. Here's what happens when they go someplace and put on shows or something: The girls hoop and a bunch of people stand around and watch.

      Then the girls in the audience try it, but the guys just lean on the wall and watch only. It's not really sexist. It's the same thing that happens whenever there's a dance floor. Dudes don't like to get out on the dance floor. It's not leering. It's just dudes uncomfortably wishing they could loosen up.

      sometimes i will go out and hoop as well. just to prove that a guy can rock a hoop. then there's a bunch of dudes watching a guy hoop. still doesn't seem sexist.

    3. Re:Some people are pathetic. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

      Actually from what I've seen so far, I'm not sure she's a developer, or even technical, at all. She's called herself a "designer", a "web generalist" (whatever that is), marketing manager, and product marketing coordinator.

      Also, GitHub's "Team" page talks about their "pixel stylists", and with nearly 300 employees, I'm sure there is a lot of scooter-driving, foosball-playing, meeting-holding "overhead" (read: cost centers) at the company.

    4. Re:Some people are pathetic. by mrjimorg · · Score: 1

      If you saw me hulu hoop you'd understand why I don't. Same for dancing. It's like a blind man trying to paint - it can be done, but the results are not pretty.

    5. Re:Some people are pathetic. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      The women who complain loudly about sexism in the tech industry pretty much never know how to program. If they did, they would be too busy fighting off recruiters and job offers to have time for complaint

  39. false dichotomy by globaljustin · · Score: 2, Insightful

    If she had to deal with this because she is female, if people treated her differently and if there are persistent problems for women then it is sexism. If not it's just a crappy place to work full stop.

    So it's either sexual harrassment OR just a crappy place to work???

    Not a chance, AmiMoJo...both go hand in hand...sexism in the workplace is a **symptom** of a greater problem...it's **one way** unprofessionalism can be expressed. These things do not happen in compartmentalized little spaces...it's a sign of institutional rot.

    This woman was an **engineer** she's one of us. She obviously is trying to use careful language to not seem inflamitory...if anything, she is ***downplaying*** the level of sexism in her workplace...like a humble geek/engineer would!

    from TFA:

    Horvath told us that she “participated in the boys’ club upon joining,” but when her “character started being discussed in inappropriate places like on pull requests and issues,” the situation changed.

    I object to the notion that because she sent tweets, when she *first started working* about how she liked her job, that means we should some how be critical of what she is saying now...things change at a job after the first few months, everyone knows this.

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    1. Re:false dichotomy by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Not a chance, AmiMoJo...both go hand in hand...sexism in the workplace is a **symptom** of a greater problem...it's **one way** unprofessionalism can be expressed. These things do not happen in compartmentalized little spaces...it's a sign of institutional rot.

      no they don't. you can have a crappy place to work in the absence of sexual harrassment. and, you could have a great place to work with the presence of sexual harrassment. say, for instance, a woman gives as good as she gets and a good laugh is had by all. i'm not advocating this scenario, but merely pointing out that the two do not go "hand in hand".

    2. Re:false dichotomy by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      If she had to deal with this because she is female, if people treated her differently and if there are persistent problems for women then it is sexism. If not it's just a crappy place to work full stop.

      So it's either sexual harrassment OR just a crappy place to work???

      You seem to be implying GP's statement had an exclusive or statement, when clearly there wasn't one. Let me break it down for you:

      Problems specific to women: Sexism AND a crappy place to work.
      Problems not women specific: JUST a crappy place to work.

      I know English is hard, especially for those of us for whom it's a first language. But it's pretty clear AmiMoJo in no way implied an either-or situation.

    3. Re:false dichotomy by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Absolutely untrue.

      For every conceivable group X:
            Problems specific to group X: Discrimination against X AND a crappy place to work.

      Every human is a member of multiple groups: the shy, the fat, the old, the ugly, the women.

      Don't pretend there are only two groups in the world. There isn't. There are as many ways to discriminate as there are subsets of the human population.

    4. Re:false dichotomy by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      She hardly has an engineering mindset. She was one of the ones complaining about GitHub's pro-meritocracy stance less than a month ago.

  40. false dichotomy - gender problems=people problems by globaljustin · · Score: 4, Insightful

    This is not a gender problem, this is a people problem.

    Gender problems are people problems you fool!

    This false dichotomy you purvey, that this social situation is "either A or B" is reductive and shows how far our industry has sunk.

    So, is murder not a violence problem, but just a people problem? Rape...by your logic not sexual in nature...just a people problem!

    Racism? Naw...that's just a people problem...by your logic.

    Your reductive contextualization **insures** that you will misidentify the cause of the problem and whatever you do as a fix *will not work*

    Until *men* in the tech industry mature beyond adolesence we will have this problem. It's **our fault** and we must be **proactive** to fix the problem.

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  41. Face it by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    When this issue comes up, people more often than not shove the accuser into the 'hysterical' category, forget the whole thing and never consider how gender discrimination harms them or society.

    It is the same social mechanic that works against 'whistleblowers', 'snitches', 'activists' or anyone else who exhausts their ability to change a destructive situation and is forced seek mediation outside of 'channels'.

    When organizations are no longer capable of receiving feedback from their own people, they're dying and unfortunately it's usually a lingering death that destroys a lot of good work and lives.

    1. Re:Face it by GoCrazy · · Score: 1

      If by "shove" you mean analyzing her story instead of blindly believing her without accountability, then sure these topics are shoving her into that category. Here is part of the other side, FYI.

      When you lie to demonize a company, you are not a "whistle blower", you're just a liar.

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  42. Drama baby by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    She's just playing the sexism card after the company got sick enough of her to finally fire her. And you see from the colleagues reaction that many, many are happy for her to finally leave.
    AC for obvious reasons

  43. hula hooping at the office by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    I don't comment on the rest, but this part cracked me up:

    "Two women, one of whom I work with and adore, and a friend of hers were hula hooping to some music. I didn’t have a problem with this. What I did have a problem with is the line of men sitting on one bench facing the hoopers and gawking at them."

    So the women were hula hooping at the office, but the men are inappropriate for staring...

    If I started hula hooping at the office, people would be staring too (I am a guy), not because they are sexist, but because a person doing this is a weirdo...

  44. Neither are unions by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0, Flamebait

    Unions are never on your side. They are on their own side.

    1. Re:Neither are unions by plalonde2 · · Score: 1

      You need to give back your weekends. The only reason you don't work 6 days a week is unions.

    2. Re:Neither are unions by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      The only reason you don't work 6 days a week is unions.

      No, the reason we don't work 6 days a week like people did in 1900 is the increase in the marginal productivity of labor caused by capital investment.

  45. Mostly agree by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Reading the story though, and looking at how responsive the company has at least attempted to be, it doesn't seem like this is a gender based issue, but a personality based issue. Julie had a lot of power, which rubbed some people the wrong way, same as it does for men. I'd just say to Julie, that's exactly what happens to men too, so it's definitely harassment, definitely not cool, but gender related, no the evidence you presented doesn't make it appear that way from the outside, though i can see how it could appear that way from the inside. Julie should continue her evangelism, as it seems she really genuinely did good, but I agree with you and think she should use a bit more discretion because the way that she did this caused her to lose a lot of respect from the people that she needs to convince that there is a problem. I can understand her frustration, and possibly desperation, but Twitter isn't the place to air your dirty laundry, a well written blog post would have done far better to address the issues and given more space to given a well thought out response.

  46. I know exactly what happened. by DaveV1.0 · · Score: 5, Insightful
    This was because of the founder's wife and the founder believing what his wife tells him. This isn't about her being a woman, it is about her failure to see what was going on and the politics involved.

    the wife went on to claim that she was responsible for hires at GitHub, and asked Horvath to explain to her what she was working on. The wife also claimed to employ “spies” inside of GitHub, and claimed to be able to, again according to Horvath, read GitHub employees’ private chat-room logs, which only employees are supposed to have access to.

    This sounds like the founder's wife is a loose cannon with a her own little unofficial organization within the company. I have seen this before. This seems like the founder's wife was trying to recruit her into her network of spies.

    Horvath called the situation, aptly, “bananas.”

    Yeah, I can guess who the head banana is, the founder's wife

    In her email to TechCrunch, Horvath says she felt “confused and insulted to think that a woman who was not employed by my company was pulling the strings.” She also said she felt bullied by someone with perceived power and influence over her personal relationship and her career at GitHub.

    As anyone would be.

    Horvath then told her partner, also a GitHub employee, about what was happening. She warned him against being close to the founder and his wife, and asked him not to relay information to them.

    This was good idea.

    According to Horvath, her partner “agreed this was best.” He had talked with the founder’s wife, who agreed to give Horvath space.

    This is where things are going sideways and neither she nor her partner see what is going on. By Horvath's partner talking to the founder's wife, they both made it onto her enemy list and became targets.

    Instead of the issue blowing over, Horvath received a meeting request from HR at GitHub, and was asked to “relay the details of that personal conversation that took place out of the office.” Horvath recalls that she was “uncomfortable with this but complied to the best of my ability.” Her partner was also asked to relay past events.

    This is an indication that HR has been made aware of a situation and is investigating it. This was probably initiated by the founder's wife via the founder because of Horvath's partner.

    Radio silence ensued for a month, according to Horvath, while rumors cropped up that the founder was asking other employees about her, as well as her relationship with her partner. To Horvath, the silence made her think that she was “being bullied into leaving.”

    This is the investigation.

    At this point, Horvath said she began to feel threatened.

    Why exactly? Was it

    She said that having her personal relationship dragged into her work life and put on show for her coworkers didn’t sit well with her.

    That is always a danger when one dates or is married to a coworker. Or was it

    The aforementioned wife began a pattern of passive-aggressive behavior that included sitting close to Horvath to, as she told TechCrunch, “make a point of intimidating” her.

    Or was it something else? The fact that the founder's wife is sittng close to her raises the question of whether the founder's wife has an official capacity in the organization which would partially contradict what Horvath has said thus far.

    This stalemate ended when the founder asked to see her. Horvath said that she “wasn’t going to put myself in a position like that, so I required HR be present if we were to meet.” The meeting did not go well.

    If she thought it would, she was a fool

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    1. Re:I know exactly what happened. by JonJ · · Score: 1

      This was good idea.

      I absolutely disagree that this was good idea. Buying into the wifes drama and secrets makes no sense. This is a typical situation that you don't escalate anywhere. Don't talk to your co-workers about it, don't discuss it. Pretend it didn't happen and continue your work. The wife is bonkers, do not play along at any level.

      this isn't about her being female.

      I agree that her situation with the wife and the hula hoops aren't really a sexism thing, but the coworker that started reverting her patches silently after professing his love certainly is. The problem with the pathes should be easy enough to show, but it's going to be difficult proving that he actually did confess his love.

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    2. Re:I know exactly what happened. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I have a mod stalker who is modding down my past comments and is too much of a cowardly pussy to admit it or face me.

      Yeah. Sorry. I'll stop now that you've outed me.

      mod stalker

    3. Re:I know exactly what happened. by uninformedLuddite · · Score: 1

      What I take from this is that if she felt unsafe because men were watching women hula hooping then we aren't far away from the scared person next claiming that github encourages a rape culture mentality. Chopper has always said it best.

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    4. Re:I know exactly what happened. by DogPhilosopher · · Score: 1

      My two cents, freely speculating here until we get more facts:

      This sounds like the founder's wife is a loose cannon with a her own little unofficial organization within the company. I have seen this before. This seems like the founder's wife was trying to recruit her into her network of spies.

      Wouldn't it be more plausible that the founder (Asshole Entrepreneur or AE for short) and his wife (Colossal Bitch or CB) were teaming up to create the `spy network'? It would explain why AE let her come to the office when she had no bussiness being there. AE let CB do the dirty work so that he has plausible deniability.

      This is where things are going sideways and neither she nor her partner see what is going on. By Horvath's partner talking to the founder's wife, they both made it onto her enemy list and became targets.

      Indeed. Horvath had turned down the offer, and was now a liability because she knew too much. Partner talks to AE, now he's also a threat to both.

      This is an indication that HR has been made aware of a situation and is investigating it. This was probably initiated by the founder's wife via the founder because of Horvath's partner.

      AE and CB want to fire the couple and sic the HR department on them.

      This is the investigation.

      "Investigation" = "thinking of ways to get rid of the couple".

      She said that having her personal relationship dragged into her work life and put on show for her coworkers didn’t sit well with her.

      That is always a danger when one dates or is married to a coworker

      AE and CB see this as a weakness they can exploit. The colleague making a pass at Horvath is a spy for CB and clumsily attempts to drive a wedge between Horvath and partner. Or maybe provoke a complaint to HR, which AE might then be able to twist into a reason for firing the couple.

      The meeting did not go well.

      >If she thought it would, she was a fool

      She didn't, that's why she wanted HR there. She was a fool for thinking that HR would protect her against AE though. He's their paymaster, so they do what he says (probably a good cop/bad cop routine).

      Never trust HR slime! They won't stick their neck out for you, and even if they did, it'd be chopped off. They don't have any real power.

      Did she ask when she supposedly did that or ask for evidence?

      Horvath cried during the episode,

      What? Seriously? Instead of acting offended she acted like a child.

      She probably didn't get a chance to talk about evidence or anything else, This was not a conversation, just a shouting / bullying session. Not everybody can deal with that kind of psychological pressure.

      It is a bad idea to to date coworkers.

      It seems they had been dating for a while, so why didn't AE bring it up much earlier? He was just looking for weak spots.

      This is why I think the founder's wife said Horvath's partner delivered threat or something similar. That iis the most likely scenario. There is no proof, so he can't be fired for it, and the probably have no paper trail to fire him. But, I have little doubt they are building one.

      I don't think threats were involved, because they'd have fired him on the spot. There is probably no paper trail for anything, because managers like this don't like to commit *anything* to paper. Why document your own diabolical schemes and incompetence and build a case against yourself?

      Regardless of what Horvath thinks, this isn't about her being female. It is about power plays by the founder and his wife. Horvath and her partner were too blind to see what was going on. The founder's wife wanted Horvath on her "team" and things would have been OK if

    5. Re:I know exactly what happened. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      They wanted to get rid of her because she's a troublemaker who talks to the press. Just look at all the crap about the rug over the prior six months. That was the situation before CB "tried to recruit her for her network of spies." I mean seriously, a network of spies? Sounds like a pretty lame pretext to me.

      Github got a >$1B valuation on their last round. They are headed for a massive IPO/acquisition and with all that money on the line they can't afford to have troublemakers on board.

  47. Engineer? by the+eric+conspiracy · · Score: 5, Informative

    How is this person an engineer?

    Her linkedin profile shows a degree in marketing and job titles in design and marketing. Not any engineering background to be seen.

    http://www.linkedin.com/pub/ju...

    Sorry, but no.

    1. Re:Engineer? by JonJ · · Score: 1

      Social Media Engineer of course.

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    2. Re:Engineer? by c2me2 · · Score: 1, Insightful

      I don't even have a college degree, but I've been working as a software engineer for 20+ years. So what's your point? Also, should open source projects begin requiring college degrees from every submitter? And, let's see your most recent kernel submission, eh?

    3. Re:Engineer? by rochrist · · Score: 1

      Because NO ONE EVER has moved over to development from some other sort of degree. It's UNPOSSIBLE!

    4. Re:Engineer? by the+eric+conspiracy · · Score: 2

      Do you suffer from poor reading comprehension?

      I pointed out none of her job titles indicated any engineering responsibility. Not just her education is lacking, but work experience as well.

      Come on man.

  48. Gramatical Ambiguity by bradgoodman · · Score: 1

    Did she quit her job because she was being harassed, or did she stop asserting that she was being harassed. (I'm not a grammar Nazi, but the headline did confuse me).

  49. Geeks by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    They didn't know how to talk to girls in H.S. and they don't know how to talk to them at work now.

  50. logic is invalid by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Have you ever read women's magazines, watched television, been part of real life? The way women interact is different than the way men act. That's a fact. Women tend to be more passive aggressive, men tend to be more aggressive and domineering. Does that preclude one from acting like the other? Nope. Is that sexist? Nope. It's just how some things are, and why we are a species and a culture are continuing to get better. I'm not saying it's okay and shouldn't change. I'm not saying that it's right, but it is how things currently are and things don't change overnight. That doesn't mean it's sexist to say two women being bitchy or two men being douchey is inherently sexist. Two men can be bitchy, it's a term that describes a specific way of interacting regardless of gender, but happens to describe something that is more commonly ascribed to how women interact. This kind of tone about things makes me lose so much respect for the community saying women are being excluded, because it shows that you only see things painted in the color you happen to be able to see. Everything about the founder's wife shows classic power struggle. The creepy brogrammer isn't uncommon and was probably being addressed, but proper HR can take a while to create a paper trail, even in large companies.

    1. Re:logic is invalid by mellon · · Score: 1

      This is in fact sexist, both toward women and toward men. Let me focus it down a little for you. Suppose a guy on a bus hits on a woman, and she says "not interested." And he keeps hitting on her. And she keeps saying "not interested." Eventually she tells him loudly to piss off. He yells "you're a stupid cunt who's probably on the rag" and walks away.

      If I were to say "oh, this isn't surprising—most men engage in this kind of rape-y behavior, so it's not surprise," then that would be sexist. Because I'm explaining away one man's bad behavior by saying it's typical of all men, and hence unremarkable and not in need of correction. If it makes you feel uncomfortable to be grouped together with this proto-rapist who happens to be male, then you now understand why sexist remarks are offensive. If it doesn't make you uncomfortable, you might want to check in with that a bit...

    2. Re:logic is invalid by Grishnakh · · Score: 1

      If I were to say "oh, this isn't surprising—most men engage in this kind of rape-y behavior, so it's not surprise," then that would be sexist. Because I'm explaining away one man's bad behavior by saying it's typical of all men, and hence unremarkable and not in need of correction.

      The problem here is: this kind of behavior is entirely typical of men, and not of women. It is extremely, extremely rare to find a women who behaves in such a manner towards men (or women for that matter). You'll pretty much only find men acting this way. This doesn't mean it's typical of ALL men, however with women you simply don't need to worry about it. Women, however, have their own problems; the evil/crazy founder's wife in the story acted in a way that many (but again, not ALL) women act.

      This doesn't mean that these behaviors don't need to be corrected, but there's no practical way to correct such behaviors. What are you going to do, go beat up the asshole guy on the bus? That's illegal. His actions weren't illegal, though they were horrible and distasteful. Or are you going to go tell the guy how rude he was? You think he gives a shit? He's an asshole. Same goes for the evil founder's wife; you can't use violence with her, because it's illegal. You can try to get her in trouble by publicly outing her, but as Ms. Horvath is probably going to find out, this will very negatively impact your career since America hates whistleblowers. Or you can tell her how bad and hurtful her actions are, but again, you think she gives a shit? She's evil. The people who exhibit these bad behaviors are sociopaths. They have no conscience, and don't care about who their actions hurt. There's really nothing we can do about them in modern society because violence is illegal; in the really-old days, they'd be shunned from their tribes if they pissed off too many people, or pushed off a cliff or something if they fucked with the wrong person. But the smarter ones are really crafty, which is why they get into high-up positions, like Governor of New Jersey or Vice President of the US, and these days there's just no way to deal with them except to avoid them whenever possible.

      Anyway, the point I'm getting to is that there's nothing wrong IMO with pointing out that a certain behavior is only done by a certain group, even if it's only a minority of that group. All groups have their Achilles' Heels.

    3. Re:logic is invalid by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Groups are concepts we use to explain things in the world.

      Although every action and interaction is done by individuals, the concepts we use are based on group concepts. A concept that is statistically correlated with a group is best expressed by concepts related to that group.

      This is true no matter what. The statement in your example is a description of a stereotype that is wrong, that "most men engage in this kind of rape-y behavior". That's it, it's an untruthful stereotype.

      Other stereotypes are true, they do explain traits for a group. I think in some cases what you refer to as sexism is using an IRRELEVANT group characteristic, namely that a person is of a given gender. But in other cases the action is actually representative for the group.

      So again the stereotype in your example is wrong. However, if you said "a convicted sex offender would do something like that", implying that the guy might have been a convicted sex offender is just a logical fallacy, and maybe not a use of a false stereotype.

      My point is that some group characteristics are true, some are false. If you are perceived to belong to a group (the group of men or the group of women or the group of bad drivers), and the stereotype used is true, then using the stereotype in describing the situation has great explanatory power, and trying to remove this from the language is bad.

    4. Re:logic is invalid by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Making unsuccessful passes at a women and then calling her a cunt while retreating is "rape-y behavior" ??? WTF, do you even know what rape is??

    5. Re:logic is invalid by mellon · · Score: 2

      You're still not getting it. Consider the original statement: Her problem wasn't sexism, it was with the founder's wife (so she says). 75% of the article talks about her problems with the founder's wife. So it's just a tale of one woman being bitchy to another. First of all, if 75% of the article is about her problems with the founder's wife, 25% is about the other problem. So turning the narrative to a stereotype about how some women behave toward other women would be bogus even if the 75% part was truly just "one woman being bitchy."

      But the bottom line is that the behavior of the founder's wife, if it was as described, is behavior that we've seen both men and women can exhibit. Labeling the founder's wife's behavior as "one woman being bitchy to another" takes a very specific dynamic between two individuals and generalizes it into a stereotype that isn't actually true, and then dismisses it on that basis. If a man had done the exact same thing, it would neither have been generalized in this way, nor dismissed because of the stereotype. We would think of it differently because the bad actor was a man. That's sexist.

    6. Re:logic is invalid by nctritech · · Score: 1

      "Proto-rapist?" What the FUCK is that supposed to mean? Nothing to see here, typical feminazi lexicon salad.

    7. Re:logic is invalid by mellon · · Score: 1

      You're completely missing the point. The stereotype is that it's just a woman being bitchy to another woman. So that means she doesn't do it to men, right? If so, then it is in fact sexist behavior, and Ms. Horvath is right to complain about it, even though the perpetrator of the sexist behavior happens to be female. So dismissing it as not an issue because it's one woman behaving badly toward another is sexist. Alternately, you are saying that if she also does it to men, it would be a different type of behavior in that case than in the case where she does it to women. That makes it a sexist statement, because you are saying that it is different when a woman behaves this way toward a man than toward another woman.

    8. Re:logic is invalid by mellon · · Score: 1

      Rape is when you engage in sexual behavior of any kind with someone without their consent. When you hit on a woman and she says no, and then you persist, you are indicating that you do not respect her "no." This very strongly suggests that in the right circumstances, you would rape her, because to you "no" means "keep trying." That's why this is rape-y behavior: not because it's rape, but because it's disrespectful and scary, and could turn into rape.

    9. Re:logic is invalid by russotto · · Score: 1

      Rape is when you engage in sexual behavior of any kind with someone without their consent.

      No. You can flirt with, make catcalls at, make lewd remarks to, make lewd gestures to, expose your genitals to, or even jerk off in front of them (without anything touching them) and you may have committed any number of offenses, but rape is not one of them. Rape has a specific meaning, and does not cover all "sexual behavior".

      When you hit on a woman and she says no, and then you persist, you are indicating that you do not respect her "no." This very strongly suggests that in the right circumstances, you would rape her, because to you "no" means "keep trying."

      Since that isn't even the scenario proposed by the GP, I'm not sure why you bring it up. The scenario is "Making unsuccessful passes at a women and then calling her a cunt while retreating". Nothing about "persisting". That's not "rape-y" by any reasonable definition -- see the last word, "retreating"?

      Your scenario is BS too; that's just being a pest, not "rape-y".

    10. Re:logic is invalid by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      People your whole life have told you that talking to people, even if it asking to fuck them or telling them that they are a cunt, is not sexual behavior. When people try to explain this to you, and then you persist, you are indicating that you do not respect the law or common sense. This very strongly suggests that in the right circumstances you would rape someone because you have no idea what rape is.

    11. Re:logic is invalid by mellon · · Score: 1

      You missed the part where he keeps hitting on her. Refusing to hear no when it is said to you doesn't mean you are a rapist, but it's a good reason for the person you are hitting on to treat you as a potential rapist, which is what I mean by "rape-y behavior."

    12. Re:logic is invalid by Grishnakh · · Score: 1

      The problem here is that men don't do this kind of thing. You will never hear a story of a woman who's a company founder or executive, and her stay-at-home husband targets other men in the company and intimidates them and tries to get them fired. This kind of underhanded behavior is entirely female. It doesn't mean that most women are like this, but a subset of them are. It's just like how most men are not beefy, bald-headed biker gang members who like to get into bar brawls, but you won't find a single woman like that, only men. I'm sorry if that's "sexist", but it's reality, and the reality is that men and women ARE different, no matter how much people try to deny it.

    13. Re:logic is invalid by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Come to San Francisco. We have plenty of beefy, biker dykes who cover their head with a bandanna because they aren't bald.

    14. Re:logic is invalid by Grishnakh · · Score: 1

      You've proven my point. They're not bald, so they don't count. I added bald there for a reason. There's no beefy, bald, biker-gang members who get in bar brawls who are female. Also, are the biker dykes in gangs? I added that in there for a reason too. Not all bikers are in gangs and wear gang vests; that's almost universally men.

    15. Re:logic is invalid by mellon · · Score: 1

      Well, you certainly seem to have strong opinions. However, I don't see any data backing up your prejudice here—just assertions that "only women ever engage in this behavior," which certainly isn't something anybody who's studied human history would be so bold as to say. What it is is a tactic whereby someone with no formal power can control events through the application of informal power. How many male advisors to kings and queens do you think have done this? If your answer is "none," you are ignorant of history, and might want to read up on it.

  51. never hire a woman by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    yet another example of why

    they do half the work
    they cry when they are criticized
    they claim harassment to get what they want
    if they are in their 20s its an almost guarantee they will get pregnant at some point and be even more of a drain

  52. Re:false dichotomy - gender problems=people proble by BronsCon · · Score: 5, Insightful

    No false dichotomy there. Gender problems are people problems, but people problems are *not* gender problems. This was not a gender problem, but it was, and is, a people problem.

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  53. She Should Work in the Philippines by CalenMartinD.Legaspi · · Score: 1

    Female engineers and executives are normal and plentiful here.

    1. Re:She Should Work in the Philippines by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      You should hire her. Let us know how it goes.

  54. TechCrunch did NOT report the story accurately. by Futurepower(R) · · Score: 3, Insightful

    According to Horvath: "I met her and almost immediately the conversation that I thought was supposed to be causal turned into something very inappropriate. She began telling me about how she informs her husband's decision-making at GitHub, how I better not leave GitHub and write something bad about them, and how she had been told by her husband that she should intervene with my relationship to be sure I was 'made very happy' so that I wouldn't quit and say something nasty about her husband's company because 'he had worked so hard.' "

    (Should be "casual".) These things seem like a reasonable opinion:

    1) A lot happened that Julie Ann Horvath is not mentioning. It is impossible to judge the situation with the small amount of information, especially since it comes from only one person.

    2) The major incident mentioned in the TechCrunch story involves 2 women.

    GitHub says it is investigating the matter: "We're looking into this."

    3) TechCrunch damaged its reputation by acting as though the story is extremely important when clearly the TechCrunch writer knows only one side. That story calls into question whether TechCrunch is adequately edited. Can we trust TechCrunch to be sure stories are reported accurately? Or is TechCrunch the Fox News of technology?

    4) Many companies have a somewhat unhealthy social environment. Most men would just get a job elsewhere. At present, a woman can claim that there was discrimination against her, and people will say that the problems can be understood as men against women.

    5) A book about feminism a woman friend gave me many years ago said, "In Italy feminism is pro-female. In the U.S. feminism is anti-male." The way the story in reported seems to indicate that Julie Ann Horvath was using the company as a target for her anger, anger that was there long before she joined the company.

    1. Re:TechCrunch did NOT report the story accurately. by rochrist · · Score: 2

      Uh, yeah, whatever. I thnk not. There's no evidence whatsoever that 'her anger' was there 'long before she joined the company'.

  55. Looking forward to reading... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Her Encyclopedia Dramatica entry.

  56. so women are bitchy and men are assholes... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    yes, thanks for verifying you're sexist

  57. So by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    So, it was time for a job change, and what better way than to be paid -- "on leave" -- to search. Plus, getting your name in the press helps with self-promotion. What's not to like?

  58. Timid female geek fails to understand male geeks by Jmc23 · · Score: 1

    news at 11

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  59. Re:she's a nutcase - even more by yeupou · · Score: 1

    The link you provide also indicate something overly suspicious about this rug story: "One employee, Horvath says, thought she was rejected for membership in Double Union, a feminist hackerspace, because of the rug. Double Union did parody the rug on its crowdfunding page, but denied that it would reject a possible member because of the rug."

  60. That's good by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Maybe now that she's no longer citing harassment they can get to the heart of why she left.

  61. Engineer? Are you serious? by Atypical+Geek · · Score: 4, Insightful

    Horvath has a background in marketing and virtually no examples of code to be found anywhere. Being able to sprinkle a little script onto some markup does not make you an engineer.

    And keep in mind that this is not the first time she's played the sexism card. Horvath led a 'geek feminism' campaign to get rid of a rug (yes, a rug) because she objected to the word 'meritocracy'. Because we all know that meritocracy is a myth and that everyone's contribution to Open Source is equally important. Focusing on the people who actually write code is just sexism. *Gag*

    1. Re: Engineer? Are you serious? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0, Insightful

      If there is even a kernel of truth in Horvath's claims of victimization and marginalization then it had everything to do with the fact that she is an obnoxious, self righteous wannabe with poor technical skills, and nothing to do with her gender.

      "They keep discussing my character when evaluating patches."

      Yes bitch, it's because they're wondering what pointless crusade you're on that would motivate you to keep trying to participate in a field you are not qualified for. Having a vagina and an inflated sense of entitlement does not mean others have to applaud your work.

    2. Re: Engineer? Are you serious? by drstevep · · Score: 1

      Some trolls are subtle.

    3. Re:Engineer? Are you serious? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      It sounds like there's a combination of things going on here.

      Some percentage of male engineers really have no idea how to treat women in a professional environment. Not long ago, I saw a company-wide email from a recent grad who thought it would make sense to make a joke about female anatomy. This sort of thing is not unusual, and even though it's a relatively small percentage of men who are this clueless, they can make a work environment really difficult for women.

      On the other hand, as a male engineer myself with many years of experience and a CS degree, I have certainly worked in places where I had to spend a year or so proving my value to a bunch of ivy-league alum egomaniacs (who, to be honest, have been very smart). Gender is not always the issue when your ideas are met with criticism and character judgment.

    4. Re: Engineer? Are you serious? by rochrist · · Score: 1

      And some are not.

    5. Re: Engineer? Are you serious? by epyT-R · · Score: 1

      and some aren't trolls at all.

    6. Re: Engineer? Are you serious? by BronsCon · · Score: 1

      I smell a GitHub employee with a grudge, here. Even if what you're saying is true, kind Sir, the way you're saying it is making us all look bad.

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    7. Re:Engineer? Are you serious? by epyT-R · · Score: 1

      Some percentage of male engineers really have no idea how to treat women in a professional environment. Not long ago, I saw a company-wide email from a recent grad who thought it would make sense to make a joke about female anatomy. This sort of thing is not unusual, and even though it's a relatively small percentage of men who are this clueless, they can make a work environment really difficult for women.

      Apparently, feminists have no problem with jokes about, or actual male genital mutilation on public television, so I don't think equality is the real issue. It's more likely a power grab. Women play the feminist card quite a bit these days.

      I'm sure if the joke in that email targeted male genitalia, it would've been fine because the feminists on that list would've laughed, and the insecure simps would not have felt the need to 'defend' the women around them. Frankly, I tire of this victimhood behavior from women as well as the white knighting bullshit from pantywaisted male apologists. Ultra-sensitivity and confidence/leadership/productivity do NOT go hand in hand. Part of becoming an adult is learning to laugh at jokes instead of taking them personally. This adult generation has become a generation of insecure reality-tv drama queens who fume and squabble over the most useless bullshit imaginable. I blame identity politics in public schools, university campuses, and media programming.

      On the other hand, as a male engineer myself with many years of experience and a CS degree, I have certainly worked in places where I had to spend a year or so proving my value to a bunch of ivy-league alum egomaniacs (who, to be honest, have been very smart). Gender is not always the issue when your ideas are met with criticism and character judgment.

      character assassination is a fallacy. Just tune it out and remind them to focus on discussing the idea instead of name calling. You'd be surprised how many people get this stunned look on their faces when you dismiss their 'witty' tirades against you with one sentence: "My ${trait} has nothing to do with ${argument}." Most get very angry and defensive. A few, though, are self-aware enough to see the error and (usually) don't make it again (with you, anyway). Be prepared, though, for them to eviscerate your position if it isn't really solid (this is as it should be).

  62. Can't take her serious by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    According to her Twitter profile, she listens to rap music. 'nuff said.

  63. This isn't the typical cry wolf story by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Sounds like a lot of scumbags worked there. The guy who professed love for Horvath and then ripped out her code when she rejected him ought to be fired. If HR there is like most HR departments, they're completely worthless when it comes to protecting workers from harrasement. Their inability to protect her from her stalker and the founder's wife (who had no business being there since she's not an employee) are pretty typical. Horvath needs to lawyer and sue Github and file a complaint with the EEOC.

  64. Women in Software Dev Jobs by mrjimorg · · Score: 2

    What is it with Women who work in Software Dev? They seem to think that men just sit around making generalizations about them...... oh wait

  65. Our first reaction by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Has anyone else noticed from all the comments here that everyone's first reaction is to try and find a reason why there was no sexism going on?

    Cue the "I'm not sexist but..."

    1. Re:Our first reaction by orgelspieler · · Score: 1

      Obviously you did not RTFA. This was about harassment, not sexism. So of course the comments spell this out. It's not some deep-rooted conspiratorial meta-evidence for rampant sexism on Slashdot. Crazy boss's wife had a jealous streak and was creeping out on Horvath. The only sexism claim has to do with some ill-explained aversion to hula hoops. Not entirely sure that it had any place in the article, but whatever.

  66. Re:Timid female geek fails to understand male geek by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Blaming the harassed for being harassed: story at 11.

  67. Sounds like she needs some good dick. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Cunts like Horvath always ruin situations.

    I bet the people at GitHUb are glad she is gone.

  68. Re:she's a nutcase - even more by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    I looked at their website, and then wished I hadn't.

    Their whole concept of a "feminist hackerspace" goes completely against the whole idea of what a hackerspace IS.

    PROTIP: hackerspaces are for PEOPLE. ALL people. Going "wurr burr we ban men lolololol because SUM MEN AER BAD" makes you exactly the equal of the kind of men you seem to loathe so much.

    Grow the fuck up and live in the real world, "Double Onion".

  69. Assholes all around. by RightSaidFred99 · · Score: 1

    First assholes would appear to be boss + boss's wife. It's amusing this is painted as some sexist outrage when the prime mover seems to be the boss's wife, a woman.

    Second asshole would seem to be the jilted co-worker, if her allegations are true. What kind of misfit weirdo just goes up to a co-worker and starts blathering about his love. Learn social cues, you neckbeard loser. If she's interested in you it will be apparent at least to some degree, respond in kind.

    Third asshole would seem to be Horvath. The whole "meritocracy rug" incident proves this out. More than likely she's a mediocre engineer at best and blames the lack of people worshiping her code on "teh sexism".

    None of this really surprises me. People are just assholes, and yes men are pigs. But really I would chalk a lot of this up to people being young. I was (an even bigger) asshole until I hit about 30. So in a company of young neckbeards and chip-firmly-on-shoulder Feminists I can't imagine things working out well.

    1. Re:Assholes all around. by epyT-R · · Score: 1

      The word 'meritocracy' should be no problem for people wanting equal opportunity. It WOULD be problematic for people who are claiming they want equal opportunity, but really just want everything equally distributed regardless of work put in.

      I see you have no problem negatively stereotyping men as 'pigs'. Interesting. Not very convincing when you're apologizing for feminist man-hate, but interesting.

    2. Re:Assholes all around. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Lol, you crack me up. You seem to be one of those Meninazis. Let me guess - you were circumcised and are very, very upset about it. Lolzers.

      First, I'm a sexist to some degree and I admit it. Second, I'm a pig - by that I mean I start at asses of any hot chick over 15, joke about horribly inappropriate shit, etc.. Most men are the same and just hide it to more or less of a degree. That's what I mean.

      So I'm a healthy sort of anti-feminist, you seem to be the kooky, nutty kind.

  70. Re:false dichotomy - gender problems=people proble by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    All gender problems are people problems, but not all people problems are gender problems. Come on, this is logical reasoning 101, chapter 1. When he says "this is a people problem, not a gender problem", he is not saying "gender problems are not people problems", he is saying "this belongs only in the super set of people problems, but outside the subset of gender problems."

    Work on your reading comprehension.

  71. 'relationship management' by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    The reminded me about the way scientology seeks to 'manage' their members' relationships, even so far as dictating who they can and cannot marry.

  72. wat by toby · · Score: 1

    Why is it okay to mistreat non-engineers? Why does job title make any difference?

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    1. Re:wat by Grishnakh · · Score: 1

      It depends on what the non-engineer is doing, or trying to do. If for instance they're a PHB and making technical decisions about things they don't understand, it's perfectly OK to belittle them.

  73. Not surprising- sexism is a form of assholism by WOOFYGOOFY · · Score: 1

    I am not saying my experience is despositive, but i have never worked with a group of developers in which assholism was not the order of the day. Since sexism is a form of assholism, then it's not surprising this is what she experienced.

    And it's not just developers. When NASA sent up astronauts in the beginning, one of the first theigs they discovered was that sending up teams of three was a mistake *because two of them would would gang up on the remaining one* .and that represents the behavior of high functioning , high intelligence success stories.

    AFAIK no one has stuidied how to identify and join groups which are not domionated by assholes or how to stop your group from devloving into a pit of vipers. aIt's a topic worthy of investigation, that's for sure. I know people who joined non- profits just to try to get away from assholism. I don't know if it worked or not for them.

    For the record, assholism has been given a two part test (from Wikipedia's article on the book "The No Assoles Rule"

    1 After encountering the person, do people feel oppressed, humiliated or otherwise worse about themselves?

        2 Does the person target people who are less powerful than him/her?

    We'll have to see what she does in the future to asee how she solves this problem for herself. I have no solutions except two-person companies. I wonder if any readers who share this interpretatiion of these events have ideas.
    The best

    1. Re:Not surprising- sexism is a form of assholism by epyT-R · · Score: 1

      Dark humor goes hand in hand with 'high functioning' teams. Social interaction would be quite dull without it. In contrast, most of society has been programmed to think emotional sensitivity is more important than any other trait, no matter what. Society needs to decide what's more important at work: intelligence/hard work/results or feelings. I think we should focus on getting youth to handle jokes better. It's always the ultra-sensitive types who blow up later. The ones who don't blow up their highschools become little bossy tyrants in the offices they work in, making everyone's lives miserable. When we gave them political outlets with identity politics, it got a lot worse.

  74. Seems like the problem is not limited to her by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Chances are this behaviour goes on with lots of people there. More than just herself.
    The wife of the executive sounds to be a completely raging jealous type, whose relationship with her husband, she was very protective.
    The Hula Hooping thing at the end, seems something dumb to add on. She had no problem with women hula hooping in the office, but the *MEN* oh those *MEN* how dare they not avert their eyes. Seriously ladies? If they didn't want to be seen hula hooping, they should have gone to a private conference room, or better yet, not done this in the office. Otherwise yeah men are going to look. I know women would like the office to be a sexually free place, but if that is so, then women have to do their part too. Don't wear clothes with a deep diving neckline, and not expect some glances. Don't dance to music (or hula hoop,) in the office. Yeah these may not seem like sexual things to a woman, but you have to remember men are not women. We are completely driven by visual stimuli. So don't fucking put on a show.

  75. Slashdot response to this article by WOOFYGOOFY · · Score: 2

    From the book : The No Assholer Rule

    Their (assholes) unpleasant behaviours were catalogued by Sutton as The Dirty Dozen:[6]

            Insults
            Violation of personal space
            Unsolicited touching
            Threats
            Sarcasm
            Flames
            Humiliation
            Shaming
            Interruption
            Backbiting
            Glaring

    looks like she pretty much got a clean sweep of all available asshole behaviors. That deserves some kind of award.

    Sorry but her story has the ring of truth for anyone in the industry more than a five years. Companies are by and large run the way a pirate ship is run and guess what, they're happily populated by would-be buccaneers who have a pirate's lawless and coersive mentality. Arbitrary authority, nepotism, verbal abuse, threats, intimiddation, you know, the above list.

    What's REALLY enlightening here its to filter slashdot comments by their ratings. Filtering for "5" comments yields not the usual collection of insightful or funny stuff you want to read and reflect on because it's obviously drawn from personal experience, but rather abusive and or jocularly dismissive "rebuttals" to her story, myopically focused on some detail (hula hoops !) many of them authored by Anonymous Cowards who, presumably, started with scores of zero and "earned" their way to the top, despite the self imposed filter bubble of most readers.

    I take this to mean one of a number of things. Github aficionados friends and supporters know how to jack the ratings system of Slashdot when the cause suits them. Slashdot is primarily populated by just the kind of knuckleheads the article's author is complaining about or the article itself did not attract the attention of people who accepted the headline as truthfuil and accurate, as if the headline had been: "Politicians are liars" claims small time campaign donor !

    At any rate, as it stands, it's an interesting glimpse into Slashdot "culture" as it presents itself in reaction to this particular article at least. Not my tribe, that's for sure.

  76. She's from Seattle by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Explains it.

  77. when a woman is treaded poorly by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    its sexism
    when a man is treated poorly its life and we move on and harden the fuck up.

    i don't see any references to actual sexism just a woman who doesn't play well with others grasping at any reason other than herself for an excuse

  78. Workplace. Hula hoops. WHAT? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    The more I read, the more I think that it's less a problem that Github is "a sexist environment", and more likely that GitHub is an *unprofessional environment".

    Hula hoops at the office? Give me a break.

  79. Read the freaking story by halfstop · · Score: 1

    If you haven't read the TechCrunch story, you don't know what you're talking about and should shutup. The woman was clearly harassed. If it were me I'd have gotten punchy and fucked up someone at the company before leaving. She's way too kind.

    1. Re:Read the freaking story by gmhowell · · Score: 1

      You apparantly haven't read the comments that you are bitching about. The vast majority of comments on this thread agree that there was at least some harassment. Most of the debate centers around whether or not the harassment was motivated by gender or some other issue.

      BTW, given that your proposed solution to Horvath's situation is violence, you may have some issues yourself. That is, provided you aren't just being an internet tough guy.

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  80. strawman by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    is bored today

  81. sexism by any other name is still a *big problem* by globaljustin · · Score: 1

    however you arrange it, the distinction is not helpful to this discussion whatsoever...what you say makes sense logically but in application its nothing more than an excuse to minimize sexism

    sexism is a huge problem...whatever words you use...the actual behavior needs to change

    seriously, the choice to contexualize the question as being dependent upon different "types" of problems is reductive and stupid

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  82. evidence would be nice by globaljustin · · Score: 1

    GitHub considered her an engineer.

    Your assertions demand evidence, espcially this one:

    Horvath led a 'geek feminism' campaign to get rid of a rug (yes, a rug) because she objected to the word 'meritocracy'

    I saw this article: http://valleywag.gawker.com/st...

    Doesn't mention Horvath...***does*** mention other employees who didn't like the rug

    Your bullshit is piling up fast...unless you have any evidence whatsover you're just a dumb troll

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    1. Re:evidence would be nice by kumanopuusan · · Score: 1

      http://readwrite.com/2014/01/2...

      GL HF, hope you learn how to use Google soon.

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  83. its about her language by globaljustin · · Score: 1

    WTF you're an idiot.

    Why is it okay to mistreat non-engineers? Why does job title make any difference?

    You have to do some serious linguistic gymnastics to infer that from my comment.

    She is *not* being inflamitory...she is using careful language.

    Some have accused her of using inflamitory language to describe non-sexism...others have said she should have "spoken up sooner" citing her tweets from her first days at work saying she liked the job

    whateverthefuck you thought i was saying is wrong

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  84. sexism isn't only a woman's problem idiot by globaljustin · · Score: 0

    Problems specific to women: Sexism AND a crappy place to work.

    you missed my point entirely

    sexism is **a problem for everyone**...it is *not* a singular behavior but an expression of selfishness & narcissism

    if a team of coders has one woman who endures sexist comments & actions there is one *victim* but ***ITS A PROBLEM FOR THE WHOLE COMPANY***

    In fact it's our whole industry.

    And this doesn't even touch male/male or female->male sexism.

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    1. Re:sexism isn't only a woman's problem idiot by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I didn't miss your point, I chose not to address it. I actually agree with your thoughts. I disagreed with your interpretation of AmiMoJo's comment. Again, some reading comprehension on your part would be helpful here.

    2. Re:sexism isn't only a woman's problem idiot by globaljustin · · Score: 1

      I admit I could be misinterpreting AmiMoJo's comment. If so that's my bad.

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  85. Oh, Gods. A Company Full of Brogrammers by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    I would hate to see the quality of their code.

    Glad I host my FOSS stuff on BitBucket. Atlassian is a very well-organized company.

    Of course, only an idiot uses Git for commercial code, but, as these companies show, there's plenty of those. I know of at least a couple of Fortune 100 companies that use GitHub as their primary source code repository.

    I use Perforce for the code that I get paid to write.

  86. How? Non-verbal communication. by Futurepower(R) · · Score: 1

    It is VERY necessary to be excellent at non-verbal communication. The little we know about the communication indicates that Julie Ann Horvath was angry and already thinking about leaving before the angry incidents, of which there were apparently MANY.

    If you are at all involved with women from the U.S. culture, you should be aware that the woman culture in the U.S. is going through some very unhappy decades. If you want to learn more about that, you could read the book Learning to Play With a Lion's Testicles. The woman who wrote it is angry toward her family and toward a man in Africa who hosts volunteers. She is also angry with an elephant that doesn't like her. Later in the book, after many pages of calling her host a "Neanderthal" she is sexually attracted to her host. Typical confusion.

    You said, "Uh, yeah, whatever. I thnk not." That's verbal and partly non-verbal communication. It shows disrespect for the person with whom you are communicating. It indicates that you feel disrespect and that you think only you know the answers.

    I'm guessing that you don't do well with women in the U.S. culture. When they feel crazy, they don't want to be with someone who thinks that it is okay to be crazy. They want help.

    1. Re:How? Non-verbal communication. by rochrist · · Score: 1

      What the actual fuck?

  87. Re:sexism by any other name is still a *big proble by BronsCon · · Score: 1

    How does pointing out that this may or may not be sexism at work minimize sexism? Calling something that is not sexism does nothing more than dilute the meaning of the word and the power of the concept, thereby trivializing and minimizing it. Calling into question whether an act is truly sexist actually does the opposite, as does making the effort to accurately define the concept.

    When you paint everything the same color, that color begins to lose all meaning, as that color becomes normal, and normal is acceptable. Do you want sexism to become acceptable? If not, you'd best make sure you're not calling out normal and/or otherwise non-sexist behavior as sexist. That, my friend, is precisely why the distinction is not only helpful, but essential.

    Point to the sexism, here, and back up your position. My ears and eyes are open.

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  88. Re:Slashdot response to this article by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Filtering for "5" comments yields not the usual collection of insightful or funny stuff you want to read and reflect on because it's obviously drawn from personal experience, but rather abusive and or jocularly dismissive "rebuttals" to her story, myopically focused on some detail (hula hoops !) many of them authored by Anonymous Cowards who, presumably, started with scores of zero and "earned" their way to the top, despite the self imposed filter bubble of most readers....I take this to mean one of a number of things.

    You missed the obvious one. The folks being rated +5 are the same folks that get +5 ratings in every other topic, but they've learned that suggesting that sexism isn't the #1 problem in IT is a fast-track to never getting another job.

    Political correctness is alive and well in IT.

  89. Can't take it by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Boo hoo hoo.
    I'm a strong woman but the boys are so mean.
    Woe is me.
    I quit.

  90. Does no one remember being a nerd? by Valdrax · · Score: 1

    I wonder how many men, if going away with perceptions like these, would be ready to ascribe it to some "them vs. me" issue. I mean, one can't conclude on basis of statements like these that some sort of improper discrimination wasn't going on, but neither can one conclude that it was.

    Not many, for much the same reasons that polls show that white consider us to be living in a post-racial worlds while nearly everyone else in America disagrees strongly.

    You don't generally notice discrimination if you're not the one being discriminated against, since most of it will happen out of your sight. You may have some awareness that "some people" still act that way, but it will seem remote to you and likely overblown.

    Does no one remember what it was like to be a geek or nerd in high school? Sometimes people act against you with open, gleeful hostility, but most of the time, it's just a subtle undercurrent of preconceived notions and dismissive attitudes. Guess what? It doesn't really go away when we get older. It just happens to different people.

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  91. yeah sexism & not-sexism can exist by globaljustin · · Score: 1

    How does pointing out that this may or may not be sexism at work minimize sexism?

    you can't point out the obvious and then make it seem like you're representing a "side" of the argument

    ***of course*** the behavior described could be misrepresented...pointing that out is redundant

    ***if the allegations are true*** then it is *sexism* by the Federal workplace standards

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    1. Re:yeah sexism & not-sexism can exist by BronsCon · · Score: 1

      And you managed to completely gloss over my point about diluting the meaning of sexism. Bravo. This is why it's impossible to have intelligent public discussion on this topic, and many others. Discussion which would go a long way toward solving some tough societal problems.

      I'm not representing any side of anything; I'm representing my own opinion. In case you missed it, that is as follows: If the facts, as presented, are accurate, there was no sexism involved. She was confronted by the wife of a founder of the company, not even an employee, regarding the wife's own insecurities; there is no sexism in that, only one person's insecurity and lack of trust in their life partner. She felt she was treated unfairly via some commit comments, which we are not privy to and, therefore, can not evaluate as fact, nor form opinions on; there is no sexism there, and if she is purporting that there is, then we need to see it. She was mistreated by a male coworker, who viewed himself as her jilted lover; at most, this is sexual harassment, not sexism; not that one is any more or less despicable than the other. The company's response to her complaint about how this employee had treated her was certainly a bit underwhelming; but, then, we don't know what details were provided in the complaint, in the first place. I doubt there was any sexist motivation to the mishandling of her complaint and prefer, in the light of the rest of the situation, to attribute it to incompetence (on behalf of the company, not that of Miss Horvath, with whom I have previously interacted) I have no doubt she was actually wronged, as she claims, and am only stating my opinion as to the likely nature of the actual offenses against her, of which only one might possibly fit any reasonable definition of sexism or gender discrimination.

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    2. Re:yeah sexism & not-sexism can exist by globaljustin · · Score: 1

      man, i didn't gloss over it...i ignored it

      i don't put any stock in your opinion b/c it is exhibiting selection bias

      you're doubting *only* the things that could discredit her...ignoring the ways the doubt could go her way

      i wanted to get you to put away your bias...or if not at least admit that its pure opinion

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    3. Re:yeah sexism & not-sexism can exist by BronsCon · · Score: 1

      What indication did I ever give that my opinion was anything but? As for admitting that it is my opinion, in case it was not already clear before I did so, I did that in my previous post. My point, however is based in fact, which is why I'm more than a little perturbed by your inclination to not only gloss over, but ignore it, based on your perception of bias in my opinion.

      In fact, my opinion only came into this in my last two posts; it was all point and fact prior to that, so your stated reasoning is not only flawed, it's complete and utter lame-attempt-to-cover-your-ass made-up bullshit. Good day, Sir.

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  92. link doesn't disprove anything by globaljustin · · Score: 1

    your link mentions the rug but not in any way that proves your point...

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    1. Re:link doesn't disprove anything by kumanopuusan · · Score: 1

      Now you're just being an idiot. It's clear evidence of what you said there was no evidence of. Please don't waste any more of my time in the future.

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  93. if so you should be able to demonstrate by globaljustin · · Score: 1

    show it...I read the article, it doesn't claim what you say it claims..

    copy and paste the applicable text, if it's so blantantly obvious to you it should be easy for you to demonstrate

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  94. Re:she's a nutcase - even more by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Calling it a 'feminist' hackerspace does not deflect from the simple fact that it is in itself sexist.

  95. RTFA by bigsexyjoe · · Score: 1

    Are you saying that another employees wife was harassing her and yelling at her for being a bad employee? What the fuck are you talking about? Read the fucking article!

  96. Hormonal issues by PC_THE_GREAT · · Score: 1

    "In short, Horvath said that she felt she was being treated differently internally simply due to her gender and not the quality of her work. " Pfft chicks and their hormonal issues, they always screw everythings up, from the article, it seems even the boss's wife contributed in making the situation... messy.

    According to Horvath: “I met her and almost immediately the conversation that I thought was supposed to be casual turned into something very inappropriate. She began telling me about how she informs her husband’s decision-making at GitHub, how I better not leave GitHub and write something bad about them, and how she had been told by her husband that she should intervene with my relationship to be sure I was ‘made very happy’ so that I wouldn’t quit and say something nasty about her husband’s company because ‘he had worked so hard.’”

    That's a face palm!

    +pc

  97. The Wrong Stuff by buybuydandavis · · Score: 1

    If you're deterred from leading by someone calling you bossy, you're probably not suited to be the Boss.

  98. Caesar's Wife. by westlake · · Score: 1

    She sounds like a bitch on wheels with a jetpack strapped to her for good measure.

    This woman was not an employee. Her abusive - dictatorial - power came solely from being the founder's wife ----

    and the men who let her run riot,

  99. Re:Slashdot response to this article by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Thank you. I needed to see that someone else was opposing the views of the that seem so prevalent in this thread. Your post and it's karma level have restored my faith in the goodness of some of the members of slashdots

  100. Completely unacceptable behavior. by snappa · · Score: 1

    I read the article on TechCrunch and going on the premise that it's factual (since it's the only source of info beyond comments here that I have) I find the behavior of the founder's wife to be completely unacceptable. HR should have stopped this when they first got wind of it. The founder's wife had no business being in the work place let alone intimidating Julie Ann. I won't comment on the hula hoop behavior other than to say it doesn't shock me as these guys probably don't get out much. If it's in front of them they're gonna look. That issue muddies the waters here and if anything HR should have stopped the activity if it was a problem. Sorry, it's a business and if something like that is distracting it has to move elsewhere. Julie Ann being intimidated and treated the way she was is unacceptable. The co-worker that was rebuffed that constantly changed her code and worked against her should have been dealt with sternly. Doesn't matter if he was well liked or not. He overstepped his bounds and should have been warned and possibly let go if his behavior didn't change. It's a shame this came down to a harassment issue as this is more of an unhealthy work environment issue where she as an employee wasn't taken care of as a priority.

    1. Re:Completely unacceptable behavior. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Why assume it's factual when most of it is hearsay which is unreliable? Furthermore, the authors character is called into question when she writes that she felt unsafe because guys in the office were watching a couple of female hoopers (at a party or not.) Assuming men are going to get violent when they see dancing women is misandry, pure and simple. You should be skeptical of such people when they say they have received poor treatment at the hands of men. Just as you should be skeptical of misogynists when they make accusations against women.

    2. Re:Completely unacceptable behavior. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      If you use any form of the word "misogyny" your argument is already invalid.

  101. Unserious and Dumb by blofeld42 · · Score: 1

    I didn't see any serious allegations, just some picayune nonsense and hurt feelings. She's upset by "aggressive communication" on pull requests. The founder sends his wife around to have a chick-to-chick talk to see if there's anything to be done about keeping her happy. She blows up at that and complains to the net.

    1. Re:Unserious and Dumb by ohnocitizen · · Score: 1

      Hopefully you aren't in charge of people at whatever job you work at, as it would be liable for sexual harassment lawsuits. A spurned love interest deleting your work in the way he did is - alone - serious. A non employee trying to exercise power over employees and intimidating one when it doesn't go as planned is serious. If I worked at a company and the spouse of a higher up pulled that on me, that would feel like a hostile work environment.

  102. Sad, but necessary to promote change by Buellshite · · Score: 1

    It's not enough to be a brilliant engineer and designer these days. You also need to exhibit some semblance of social skills, tact, and etiquette. Despite all the general dislike creative designers often harbor towards management personnel, there are equally brilliant and effective management staff capable of preventing the issues alleged to have happened at GitHub. Whether it's a large corporation that requires a dedicated managerial department or a small team of 20 designers, someone has to step up and control negative office politics. Some of the alleged behaviors from other team members is simply unacceptable and indicative of extremely ineffective and totally incompetent management.

  103. True, we don't have enough information about what by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    +1

  104. Sounds like she is a shitty programmer. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    how little the men I worked with respected and valued my opinion

    I don't value dipshits who don't know what they are doing, regardless of gender.

    Basically, she is shit and wants to blame others.

    Fuck that. I hope she never gets a job in the IT sector again.

  105. Coder nests are toxic, deal with it by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    If you can't stand the heat, get back in the kitchen.