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Facebook Apologizes To Drag Queens Over "Real Name" Rule

An anonymous reader writes Facebook apologized to drag queens and the LGBT community after an outcry over the social network's policy of requiring members to use real names on their accounts. While the policy itself will stay in place, Facebook says, it will be changing how the rule is enforced. In a Wednesday post, Facebook's Chief Product Officer Chris Cox apologized to "the affected community of drag queens, drag kings, transgender, and extensive community of our friends, neighbors, and members of the LGBT community for the hardship that we've put you through in dealing with your Facebook accounts over the past few weeks."

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  1. Re:its their own fault by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 5, Interesting

    So drag queens can use fake names but the rest cant?

  2. What real name policy? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 3, Insightful

    If fb is serious and enforcing the policy, their user count will be reduced by at least 60 percent which essentially cut the worth of the company in half.

    1. Re:What real name policy? by mwvdlee · · Score: 1

      I dare bet fake names also account for a disproportionally large amount of activity.
      Why would you bother signing up a fake account if you're not going to use the account?

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    2. Re:What real name policy? by Karl+Cocknozzle · · Score: 4, Interesting

      I dare bet fake names also account for a disproportionally large amount of activity.
      Why would you bother signing up a fake account if you're not going to use the account?

      Anonymity is part of the Internet--it creates problems, sure, but it also allows people to say what they actually think without fear of being punished for having the "Wrong" viewpoint. For example, your bleeding heart liberal ways will likely run afoul of your boss' staunch conservatism, and if he's a jerk, might damage your career if he knew about it.

      There's nothing wrong with having any specific point of view, but about having the ability to selectively determine who knows you have this belief without being constrained about expressing it.

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    3. Re:What real name policy? by LordWabbit2 · · Score: 1

      This retarded idea is probably going to kill fb off. It's amazing sometimes to watch some company implement a goddamn stupid idea and shoot themselves in the foot.

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    4. Re:What real name policy? by skovnymfe · · Score: 2

      That's why you have Linkedin for your professional network, and Facebook for your private network. If your professional network can't handle your private views, then don't mix the two.

    5. Re:What real name policy? by tepples · · Score: 1

      Because someone might be trying to sign up for some third party web site that has outsourced its authentication to Facebook Connect. Spotify and Answers.com used to have Facebook as the only login, and commenting on Huffington Post still does.

    6. Re:What real name policy? by oodaloop · · Score: 1, Funny

      Anonymity is part of the Internet--

      You don't say, Mr. Cocknozzle.

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    7. Re:What real name policy? by NotDrWho · · Score: 1

      Yeah, but now Facebook--though still requiring you to use your real name, real address, real phone number, and real place of work in your profile--will allow you the option to check a box saying "I'm a transexual!!" for everyone in your small town to see. Isn't that apology enough???

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    8. Re:What real name policy? by tibit · · Score: 4, Insightful

      Given that most of the people I know on FB don't use their real names, I think FB is just being super-silly.

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    9. Re:What real name policy? by i+kan+reed · · Score: 1

      I've been saying for a while now that Facebook knows their headline product is doomed. They seem to be doing everything they can to assure that the company doesn't go down with its flagship site. Rushing its demise to squeeze a little more short term value out of it is entirely in keeping with that notion.

    10. Re:What real name policy? by geekoid · · Score: 1

      "Anonymity is part of the Internet"
      no, it's an option on the internet. Companies don't need to allow it.

      Then don't accept friend request form people you don't want to see your account.
      Or is telling someone know to direct and not passive aggressive enough?

      "but about having the ability to selectively determine who knows you have this belief without being constrained about expressing it."
      then don't fucking announce it in a public forum.

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    11. Re:What real name policy? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 2, Insightful

      That's why you have... Facebook for your private network.

      Ha Ha Ha! Good one!

    12. Re:What real name policy? by tepples · · Score: 1

      So what should a user of Outlook (formerly Hotmail), Yahoo Mail, ISP-provided mail, or employer-provided mail use?

    13. Re:What real name policy? by orgelspieler · · Score: 1

      Or is telling someone know to direct and not passive aggressive enough?

      Eye sea sew mini heir oars inn thee sin tents their.

    14. Re:What real name policy? by K.+S.+Kyosuke · · Score: 1

      Do self-chosen names create anonymity? To me, anonymity would imply you can't connect the writer of two distinct anonymous writings: all anonymous writings can be assumed to be written by any number of people. This is more like pseudonymity.

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    15. Re:What real name policy? by schlachter · · Score: 1

      Many people have valid concerns and needs to obscuring their online identity. Facebook should be aware of this.

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    16. Re:What real name policy? by Karl+Cocknozzle · · Score: 2

      then don't fucking announce it in a public forum.

      Utter nonsense: Anonymity is a requirement for true free speech. Much of the muckraking done to start the American Revolution was done anonymously because the authors of the papers didn't want to be hung by British loyalists. Ditto France. Ditto most major popular revolutions in truly oppressive countries: The real "thought leaders" publish anonymously to keep themselves alive.

      "Free speech" is meaningless if there isn't a way to publish something without your name on it--requiring a "real name" for someone's expression to be considered valid negates free speech because it creates a weapon for the powerful to punish people with the "wrong" opinion. Yes, part of free speech is taking responsibility for what you've said, but I'm not sure it's reasonable for that to include the concept that you should be willing to be executed or murdered for publishing your anti-government opinion, and if you're not, you're too much of a pussy for your opinion to matter.

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    17. Re:What real name policy? by skovnymfe · · Score: 1

      Yeah, that probably should've been personal...

    18. Re:What real name policy? by BalthCat · · Score: 1

      Uh, you do realize people can search for your private things using your real name, right? If your privacy settings aren't iron-clad, as well as everyone you're friends with, your private life leaks out. The point is that you have a right to identify yourself as you see fit, and sometimes the only way you can exercise your free speech (yes, I get it, private network) without great cost is by using a pseudonym. They have a right to ask people to use real names, but they *should not* because it is harmful to marginalized groups.

  3. Good by kthreadd · · Score: 1

    Good to hear that they apologized.

    1. Re:Good by NotDrWho · · Score: 4, Insightful

      They're very sorry for this policy which they intend to continue. But they're very sorry about it. And that's coming from the heart, man.

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    2. Re:Good by Bill,+Shooter+of+Bul · · Score: 2

      Yeah, I love corporate apologies. They value my business, appreciate my concerns, and are always sorry for the way I felt about their behavior. No one else every says that to me on a regular basis.

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  4. Reverse discrimination is still discrimination by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 5, Interesting

    I see no reason why any person with a private Facebook page should be given special status or exemptions from the rules just because of some arbitrary, momentarily popular PC BS category.

    1. Re:Reverse discrimination is still discrimination by OzPeter · · Score: 4, Informative

      I see no reason why any person with a private Facebook page should be given special status or exemptions from the rules just because of some arbitrary, momentarily popular PC BS category.

      Except that there are whole classes of FB profiles out there that do not have real names attached to them and were not targeted .. EG Profiles named for/after pets.

      This is not a case of PC gone wild, but genuine discrimination.

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    2. Re:Reverse discrimination is still discrimination by Karl+Cocknozzle · · Score: 1

      I see no reason why any person with a private Facebook page should be given special status or exemptions from the rules just because of some arbitrary, momentarily popular PC BS category.

      "Momentarily popular?" Are you joking? Men dressing as women has been part of the theatre since... since there was a theatre. Drag is a performance art, dude, and just because you don't personally like or approve of it doesn't delegitimize it as an art form, or magically erase the real physical danger drag queens in certain intolerant societies actually face.

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    3. Re:Reverse discrimination is still discrimination by MrL0G1C · · Score: 3, Interesting

      Profiles for pets, WTF? Can teddy bears have profiles too? Are the pets allowed to have political opinions?

      Why are facebook apologising to all LGBTs and not just Drag Queens? Why do drag queens get to have an alias and not straight people who wear straight peoples clothes. If women wear trousers do they get to call themselves cross-dressers and get an alias? If the pet cross-dresses can it have an alias?

      This is all fucking insane.

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    4. Re:Reverse discrimination is still discrimination by CaptainDork · · Score: 1

      Meanwhile, back at the ranch, people of common sense have NEVER signed up with Facebook using a real goddam name.

      How fucking dumb can one human be?

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    5. Re:Reverse discrimination is still discrimination by Bill,+Shooter+of+Bul · · Score: 1

      Because Its facebook's system, they can decide and enforce their rules as they see fit. Discrimination is a fact of life, and a good thing in many cases [Facebook discriminates against those under the age of 13! The Horror!!]. Weather or not you like a particular discrimination, is your viewpoint.

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    6. Re:Reverse discrimination is still discrimination by n6kuy · · Score: 1

      Yes, yuarite.

      Meanwhile, the rest of us can whine about how "unfair" Facebook is to others who would like to use fake names.

      The one thing most people won't do, no matter how pissed off they are, is quit Facebook... and Facebook knows that.

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    7. Re:Reverse discrimination is still discrimination by pla · · Score: 2

      Profiles for pets, WTF? Can teddy bears have profiles too? Are the pets allowed to have political opinions?

      "My" Facebook page exists solely for my pets. And yes, they have political opinions (they favor absolute monarchy justified by the doctrine of the Divine Right of Cats).

      See, I have zero interest in what my 6000 closest "friends" do. I have zero interest in sharing details of the texture of my morning bowel movement with half the planet (or even just with those 6000 "friends"). I have zero interest in seeing targeted ads based on my preferred types of breakfast cereal or cars or sex toys.

      Far, far too many people (and even many small businesses), however, have Facebook pages as their primary online presence. Seeing their "public" pages doesn't require "friend"ing them, but it does require having a Facebook login. As a result, I do have use for a functional Facebook login; I just have no interest whatsoever in the entire fad of "social" networking.

      Thus, my cats / teddy bear / couch has a Facebook page. If Facebook really decides to crack down on the 80% of users with fake profile info, hey, they own the site and can make that decision. And honestly, I would love that to happen, because I would no longer need a Facebook, because they would no longer any content worth remembering yet another password to access.

    8. Re:Reverse discrimination is still discrimination by rwise2112 · · Score: 5, Insightful

      Profiles for pets, WTF? Can teddy bears have profiles too? Are the pets allowed to have political opinions?

      Why are facebook apologising to all LGBTs and not just Drag Queens? Why do drag queens get to have an alias and not straight people who wear straight peoples clothes. If women wear trousers do they get to call themselves cross-dressers and get an alias? If the pet cross-dresses can it have an alias?

      This is all fucking insane.

      Well what about writers with pen names? Musicians and actors with stage names?

      Sting has a facebook page. His real name is not Sting, so why should he have special privileges?

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    9. Re:Reverse discrimination is still discrimination by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

      Real name policy does not apply to fan pages - which are different than a facebook profile. There aren't any special privileges being given except to drag queens.

    10. Re:Reverse discrimination is still discrimination by MrL0G1C · · Score: 1

      Thankfully there has not been anything exclusive to Facebook important enough to make me want to join up.

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    11. Re:Reverse discrimination is still discrimination by Velex · · Score: 4, Insightful

      Ah, it's been a while, Green Site!

      Why are facebook apologising to all LGBTs and not just Drag Queens?

      Ok, there's a great deal of confusion I see here. It's a question of use-case.

      Drag queens are performing artists. See Rue Paul or Pandora Boxx, neither of which iirc use HRT or intend to transition to adopting their performing identities as their own 24/7. Companies get FB pages, so why shouldn't their performing identities get FB pages in addition to their own personal pages?

      I find it odd that FB is apologizing to drag queens or that they would even target drag queens. (I'd also like to add that one curious thing I read in Whipping Girl is that drag queens are often welcomed into the female restroom, but trans women are shunned from that place.)

      In the case of trans men and women, if FB has targeted them (I haven't been), FB is clearly wrong and the apology is justified. Especially in the case of trans women, proceeding with a legal name change is a risk that can land one homeless in a gutter. I'd also like to add that in my personal experience that I'm gendered female by others quite often (just lucky I guess), however changing my real name without being able to go without a job for a year or two would be suicidal. Employers have this little habit of demanding documents that contain one's legal gender. If one's legal gender doesn't match with the gender of one's identity and the gender others assign to one, it's OMG fucking holy shit GTFO.

      There's also the complication that a name change is not enough to get those documents to match one's lived gender. My state requires bottom surgery before the documents can be amended, although some clever trans women are able to get the gender on their driver's license changed at the DMV with a little social engineering (others aren't so lucky). Other states make it impossible to change those documents even with bottom surgery.

      My friends know me by one name. My employer and clients know me by another. However, FB is not a network for professionals so instead I have a LinkedIn profile with one name and a FB profile I haven't touched in probably two years with another name (just a few more years and it'll be my real name), the one my friends know me as.

      Why do drag queens get to have an alias and not straight people who wear straight peoples clothes.

      What is straight peoples' clothes, exactly? Do homosexuals wear something different to the office? In my experience, gays and lesbians tend to dress just the same as their heterosexual peers.

      Yes, I'm intentionally being obtuse. I hope I addressed the confusion about drag above. This is a question of identity.

      I'd also like to give you something to think about. Currently I'm between genders, so it's all wibbly-wobbly. However, should I obtain bottom surgery after going full time as a woman, I will then be a heterosexual woman and indistinguishable from any other straight woman who cannot have children due to whatever medical problem.

      Your head will asplode the day the procedure for a barren cisgendered woman to receive a transplanted uterus (I'm too lazy to find the link, but I believe the procedure involved transplanting her mother's uterus into her so that she could have children) is expanded to transgendered women.

      If women wear trousers do they get to call themselves cross-dressers and get an alias?

      Why would a cisgendered woman want to have a male identity? If this is a case of a trans man or somebody experimenting with presenting a male identity, then I would say it's justified.

      I've met a few trans men, and the decision to undergo gender transition is an even bigger hurdle for them than trans women. There is no bottom surgery they can hope for, and they have to be absolutely certain before they expose their bodies to testosterone. Estrogen is easy, and its changes to the body can be hidden or even reversed. That's

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    12. Re:Reverse discrimination is still discrimination by Eponymous+Coward · · Score: 1

      Don't forget that the rule itself is some arbitrary thing made up by Facebook. It's their rule and they can define and enforce it any way they want (as long as they don't violate anybody's civil rights).

      I suspect they will change the enforcement of the rule so that only people trying to cause somebody else grief will be punished.

    13. Re:Reverse discrimination is still discrimination by Khyber · · Score: 1

      "Why are facebook apologising to all LGBTs and not just Drag Queens?"

      You do your user name a great disservice.

      Drag Queens are a huge part of the LGBT community. When you piss off the Queens, everyone else comes after your throat.

      We're a tightly-knit group like that.

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    14. Re:Reverse discrimination is still discrimination by geekoid · · Score: 1

      He shouldn't.

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    15. Re:Reverse discrimination is still discrimination by BarbaraHudson · · Score: 1

      Did Facebook ask YOU to prove your identity when you created an account? Would you send them a photo of your drivers license, bank statement, or whatever just to create an account? Did slashdot ask you to prove who you are, Mr Anonymous Coward?

      It's not reverse discrimination - only people who other people wanted to "out" (in this case, one individual reported the 200 cases in question) are suddenly under undue scrutiny, based on their gender expression. That's not reverse discrimination - that's discrimination.

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    16. Re:Reverse discrimination is still discrimination by tehcyder · · Score: 1

      Weather or not you like a particular discrimination, is your viewpoint.

      It's not like choosing a football team to support, you know.

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    17. Re:Reverse discrimination is still discrimination by MrL0G1C · · Score: 1

      You know my post was mostly tongue-in-cheek, truth is I don't have a Facebook account because I think Facebook stinks like Google and google+ stink. The "real" name policy is not to prevent bullying, it is to increase advertising/data mining revenues.

      The whole issue with employers seeing an employees Facebook profile just shows what a mess the maze of privacy settings are. Employers should not be able to stalk employees anyway, but good luck stopping them without technical means, means like aliases!

      Now, I'm off to capture an insect, call it my pet, name it Tory Dick Head and open a FB account for it! (Tory = Conservative party for anyone who doesn't know UK politics). Can dead pets have FB pages? I'm feeling lazy, dead insects are easier to catch.

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    18. Re:Reverse discrimination is still discrimination by geekoid · · Score: 1

      It is. You notice their is a FB page for Sting. A stage name.

      If you are a professional entertainer, then yes you can get a page for your performance personality.

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    19. Re:Reverse discrimination is still discrimination by BarbaraHudson · · Score: 1

      Just a few points in support:

      Why do drag queens get to have an alias and not straight people who wear straight peoples clothes.

      What is straight peoples' clothes, exactly? Do homosexuals wear something different to the office? In my experience, gays and lesbians tend to dress just the same as their heterosexual peers.

      In times past, a woman wearing trousers would have been absolutely scandalous! And is anyone stupid enough to question the sexuality of a Scotsman for wearing a kilt? Or a male judge for wearing a robe that looks a lot like a dress (no coincidence that "robe" is french for "dress")?

      I'd also like to add that one curious thing I read in Whipping Girl is that drag queens are often welcomed into the female restroom, but trans women are shunned from that place.

      The only women who get upset are those who (a) know and (b) reject the idea of transsexuals to begin with.

      Case in point: The ONLY people I've ever had even raise the question were some of my sisters (I have 5, and 4 do NOT accept it). A few years ago they were still saying things like "which washroom do you use?" "Same as you." "You can't do that!" "I've been doing it since the turn of the century, so I guess you're wrong."

      They don't "get" that, for example, when I'm in a restaurant with friends and I ask where the washroom is, that I'm directed to the women's. They still insist on seeing me as "the old me", and years after saying "give us a few years to get used to it", they now admit they will never be able to. Oh well.

      Then again, one of them is jealous that I'm on HRT and they weren't able to get it (menopause).

      I would like to add a word of encouragement. Last fall, a property developer outed my previous gender at a public meeting hosted by the city and attended by between 100 and 200 of my neighbors. The support I received from the other women in the community - whether they were fundamentalists, catholics, muslim, whatever - was amazing. Some I had told previously, some didn't know, but they all said what was done to me was not right. For those who say the sisterhood (the equivalent of the old boys network) doesn't exist, I would just say "you're doing it wrong." And for employers who would make an issue about my past gender, it's their loss, and I wouldn't want to work there anyway. Times have changed. People "get" it.

      Believe me - never having to worry any more about possibly being outed is a huge relief. Openly putting the "T" in LGBT gives me both a sense of pride and community. I'm not alone. And neither are you. (Hmm - maybe I'll change my sig to that. Too bad my personal troll, who keeps on trying to embarrass me by exposing me as a transsexual who's damaged my brain by taking estrogen, etc, can't read the sigs since he never logs in).

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    20. Re:Reverse discrimination is still discrimination by hodet · · Score: 1

      Because the world is comprised of totally different kinds of people with personal opinions, values and beliefs. Facebook wants every last person on the planet to give them their real name and all of their private info. They need to keep their "product" happy.

      Lost in all of this, is the notion that people who don't like the service don't have to use it.

    21. Re:Reverse discrimination is still discrimination by mujadaddy · · Score: 3, Insightful

      The policy isn't the issue.

      Yes it is.

      Where is this insistence on real-naming coming from? Not the users (ie, 'the product'), but the advertisers (ie, 'the customers'). The users know their friends' aliases, but the advertisers can't or won't make that leap without some help in the form of arbitrary Terms of Use.

      The policy IS the issue. The drag performers are just a symptom.

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    22. Re:Reverse discrimination is still discrimination by Khyber · · Score: 1

      " You have people who have nothing in common other than a mental disorder"

      If you are going to call the mindset of drag queens, which are entertainment in our LGBT community, a mental disorder, then we reserve the right to call Chris Rock, George Carlin, and other straight people a mental disorder as well.

      I think you just lost your ground.

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    23. Re:Reverse discrimination is still discrimination by Bill,+Shooter+of+Bul · · Score: 1

      Some forms are illegal. Some are not.

      There is nothing prohibiting this:

      Bus driver: "Everyone must sit on the back"

      Guy wearing RedHot Chili Peppers shirt:"Then why is the guy with a phish shirt sitting in the front?"

      Bus driver: "We simply don't enforce it on phish heads."

        Or this

      Bus driver: "Everyone must sit on the back"

      Young healthy guy:"Then why is the old woman with a broken leg sitting in the front?"

      Bus driver: "We simply don't enforce it on old women with broken legs"

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    24. Re:Reverse discrimination is still discrimination by Bill,+Shooter+of+Bul · · Score: 1

      Sure it is. Not buying Team A's apparel, and always buying Team B's is discrimination.

      Also, have you followed politics lately? People self identify with the "team" regardless of the actual policies. Just like you might always like Team B, regardless of the players or tactics used.

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    25. Re:Reverse discrimination is still discrimination by sudon't · · Score: 1

      Meanwhile, back at the ranch, people of common sense have NEVER signed up with Facebook using a real goddam name.

      I think there's a divide between people who've been online a while, and people who came to the internet more recently. Those of us who've been around a while learned to always use a nick online. Newer people, many of whose first experience online was Facebook, did not absorb that culture. Then, here's FB telling them explicitly to use their real names online, so it's not surprising many of these people did.

      I tried having two profiles: one with my real name, simply so that people could find me, (and I could sort through who I wanted to find me and direct them to my real profile), and then my real profile with my fake name. But it became too difficult to deal with because of the cookies and other stored data, and FB's habit of blabbing that the two were related, so I finally just deleted the "real name" profile.

      This "real name" policy may have made sense when FB was strictly for college students, although that's arguable too, but since it became public, it only serves the purpose of allowing FB to build up and sell a dossier on you. And then there's the problem of employers, and the like. But you're right, in spite of the policy, you needn't, and probably shouldn't, use your real name.

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    26. Re:Reverse discrimination is still discrimination by MrL0G1C · · Score: 1

      off-topic.. Your troll? Is that the Hosts guy? I'd love to hear a shrink explain how someone gets like that.

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    27. Re:Reverse discrimination is still discrimination by BarbaraHudson · · Score: 1

      Who else? Here's my perspective on the whole mess. I basically ignore him nowadays, but every once in a while he tries to get my attention again. We see this type of behavior (a resistance to change), expressed in different fashions, every time something changes too fast for a portion of society. In the case of my troll, means that people no longer give a damn about tweaking a hosts file - we have moved on. And yet if you check the online forums this is his "raison d'etre"

      This is akin to those people whose religious beliefs required them to be against the LGBT. They fought tooth and nail against same-sex marriage, lost in so many places, and the dire predictions of the sky falling down didn't happen. So many of them then had to question at least the interpretation of their religious beliefs. They either came to an accommodation that works for them (same as Catholics and Fundamentalists who use the pill, etc), or abandoned their religion, or dug their heels in even more, thus isolating themselves from society at large.

      When that last group passes a certain point the general public just loses sympathy and patience. Interesting things start to happen. Individuals like myself can be far more open because there are more positive than negative consequences - and I for one feel a need to "pay it forward" for all those who stood up in the past to make my life possible.

      And yet to a certain extent I sympathize with the haters, because I know how hard it is to change. After all, I had to :-)

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    28. Re:Reverse discrimination is still discrimination by uninformedLuddite · · Score: 1

      I joined up and was inundated with friend requests from people I went to school with and others. I tried to do the whole proper facebook thing but unfortunately I discovered I don't really give one flying fuck about what these people are doing in their lives or having any contact with them at all.

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  5. I'm Special Because I'm A Queen? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1, Insightful

    Drag Queens shouldn't get an extra right to use fake names just because they're Drag Queens. If an apology is in order, it's for everyone. Otherwise, tighten up the panties and use the real name - or spend the money and change the name legally if it's that big a deal.

    1. Re:I'm Special Because I'm A Queen? by CaptainDork · · Score: 1

      The thing that is not that big a deal is Facebook.

      Use any fucking name you like.

      What are they going to do?

      Their only recourse is to down your account.

      Just get another one.

      Facebook is not a goddam government entity.

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    2. Re:I'm Special Because I'm A Queen? by geekoid · · Score: 1

      It's about a Drag Queen aka a performer, using the stage name. Just like any other performer can do. ex: Sting. Not his real name,. but he gets to have a FB page for it.
      Someone who make money as a performer can not change their name all the time.

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    3. Re:I'm Special Because I'm A Queen? by ganjadude · · Score: 1

      FB page != FB profile

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    4. Re:I'm Special Because I'm A Queen? by CaptainDork · · Score: 1

      Why doesn't anyone understand that you can have any fucking name you like.

      Facebook is simply a free advertiser site like all the freemails (Yahoo!, Gmail, Hotmail, etc.).

      Facebook is an entertainment venue and not like the Geneva Convention or stuff.

      Facebook is going to have to change its rules for everyone. That's when the wheels fall off the truck.

      That started precisely when Facebook went IPO. Shareholders are a bitch.

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  6. Why only LGBT? by Rob+Kaper · · Score: 5, Interesting

    Why would LGBT members require more of an apology than heterosexual cisgenders who desire to use another name?

    1. Re:Why only LGBT? by PeeAitchPee · · Score: 3, Insightful

      Orwell said it best: "All animals are equal, but some animals are more equal than others."

    2. Re:Why only LGBT? by bluegutang · · Score: 1

      You might try asking that question to Marshall Mathers.

    3. Re:Why only LGBT? by operagost · · Score: 4, Funny

      One gender identity good, two gender identities BETTER.

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    4. Re:Why only LGBT? by joe_frisch · · Score: 1

      Could just be an oversight.
      I support anyone's right to self identify gender, dress as they want,engage in consensual activities with anyone they want, If I'm missing something on this list I likely support that as well. But - I don't actually know the correct all-inclusive term to use and had though that LGBT covered everything.

    5. Re:Why only LGBT? by I'm+New+Around+Here · · Score: 1

      One gender identity good, two gender identities BETTER.

      Mod points! Mod points! My kingdom for mod points!

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    6. Re:Why only LGBT? by bill_mcgonigle · · Score: 1

      Cis is just a term cooked up to pressure people that are straight up men and women to be forced to adhere to a pretty restrictive set of gender restrictions

      That's a good point, despite the tone posting AC has given to your comments. I know people who are "mostly straight" - forcing them into a particular mold helps nobody other than the sexuality-OCD.

      Also, I can't help but think of organic chemistry when people use these terms, but it's entirely the wrong kind of organic chemistry. IIRC there's no way to double-bond the identifying groups on a cis isomer, so even the weak-linkage arguments would fail as a metaphor.

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    7. Re: Why only LGBT? by johnamadsen · · Score: 1

      Yes, let's compare a random drag queen to a multimillion dollar brand. Think stupid.

    8. Re:Why only LGBT? by CaptainDork · · Score: 1

      I have 17 Facebook accounts and I never use my real name. I don't have to. I challenge anyone to provide a citation.

      All the bastards can do (and have done) is block an account.

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    9. Re: Why only LGBT? by Pharmboy · · Score: 1

      So you are saying only rich people should be able to break the rules? Do you have any fucking idea how patently offensive and elitist your comment is?

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  7. Apologize and continue doing it? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1, Interesting

    The spirit of our policy is that everyone on Facebook uses the authentic name they use in real life

    Note the singular. And all other names one might be using he calls "fake names". Has it ever crossed his gender-normative mind that people might be using more than one name in "real life"? And that their drag persona and their day-job/legal identity are two spheres that many people want to keep separate?

    1. Re: Apologize and continue doing it? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

      Has it ever crossed your mind that non lgbt people can also have professional and personal identities that don't mesh? It's not just an lgbt thing and that's the issue. They should apologize to everybody for that. totally ridiculous that you , being someone that thinks they see past the norm could be so ignorant to think this is special for lgbt

  8. Ok by MikeRT · · Score: 4, Insightful

    "Our policy has never been to require everyone on Facebook to use their legal name," Cox said. "The spirit of our policy is that everyone on Facebook uses the authentic name they use in real life. For Sister Roma, that's Sister Roma. For Lil Miss Hot Mess, that's Lil Miss Hot Mess."

    So if Fred Phelps had gone around calling himself God's Fag Killing Machine, Facebook would obviously have let him use that name under this "understanding" of their policy. Right? Right?..

    1. Re:Ok by thegarbz · · Score: 3, Funny

      So if Fred Phelps had gone around calling himself God's Fag Killing Machine

      Well I always did think Fred Phelps was a pseudonym.

    2. Re:Ok by bill_mcgonigle · · Score: 2

      Facebook's most practical approach would be to punt to the courts. Would the courts allow "God's Fag Killing Machine" as a name change? That kid who was taken away from his parents for being named "Adolph Hitler [smith-or-whatever]" will be old enough to sign up for a Facebook account in a few years.

      The bind they're in is that by not adhering to the legal regime, they're having to make judgment calls - so far they can sit on their terms of service and tell those who are offended by everything to take a walk, but just watch some court tell them people have a right to a Facebook account, and then they'll be in a world of hurt (in many, many ways).

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    3. Re:Ok by CaptainDork · · Score: 1

      Facebook's best practical approach would be to stop taking themselves seriously.

      Facebook is not a government authority like the freaking IRS or anything.

      It's a goddam social network where people post pictures of their Starbucks coffee cup.

      Facebook's goal is to have all members be "real," so they can tell the advertisers that.

      The advertisers get really pissed when Facebook over-reports the "realness" of their membership.

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  9. Taking Offense is Taking Over by rmdingler · · Score: 4, Insightful
    Heaven forbid a publicly traded company or individual should make a social faux paus that bucks conventional political correctness.

    Alternative lifestyles are free to be offensive to some niches of society. Thus, neither are you, Lil Miss Hot Mess, guaranteed the right not to be offended.

    Being driven by ratings based on the viewing habits of folks who have checked out, the fourth estate is there in force to address every imaginable social injustice.

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    1. Re:Taking Offense is Taking Over by mvdwege · · Score: 2

      conventional political correctness.

      Otherwise known as being considerate and polite. Old-fashioned, I know.

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    2. Re:Taking Offense is Taking Over by hink · · Score: 2

      Odd how people who aren't in the affected group always call it "political correctness", and the people who are in the affected group call it "politeness" or "considerate".

      How exactly does this change in policy hurt your tender feelings?

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    3. Re:Taking Offense is Taking Over by AmiMoJo · · Score: 2

      She didn't demand the "right" not to be offended, she just said she was offended and Facebook decided to do something about it because they realized they had made a mistake.

      Honestly, stop trying to be a victim here. There is no political correctness, no agenda, no-one is out to take away your rights. It's just a normal complaint about something Facebook probably never intended in the first place and was happy to fix.

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    4. Re:Taking Offense is Taking Over by ganjadude · · Score: 1

      political correctness has nothing to do with being considerate or polite. In factI see it as the exact opposite. Political correctness is a way of thought control on the population. OH you say THAT!!! no, its not THAT anymore, its offensive. now we call them sea kittens and if you dont you are a bad person. Political correctness is the single worst thing to happen to america

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    5. Re:Taking Offense is Taking Over by mvdwege · · Score: 1

      Yeah, but you're the typical narcissistic basement-dwelling 'libertarian' who would say that, just to excuse his own lack of social graces.

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    6. Re:Taking Offense is Taking Over by ganjadude · · Score: 1

      narcissistic basement-dwelling

      That sir is OFFENSIVE. I prefer the term abode challenged and if you dont like it, im going to complain to the masses and shame you!

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  10. Now apologize to whistle-blowers. by briancox2 · · Score: 2

    OK Facebook. Now apologize to all of the affected whistle-blowers that can't openly protest and embarrass you into action.

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  11. I'm a disembodied brain floating in a jar by DavidCBillen · · Score: 2

    I guess they think my account "bob disembodied brain" is a real person.

    1. Re:I'm a disembodied brain floating in a jar by Chrisq · · Score: 1

      I guess they think my account "bob disembodied brain" is a real person.

      Seems legit to me.

      As real as you are!

    2. Re:I'm a disembodied brain floating in a jar by neo-mkrey · · Score: 4, Funny

      I thought your name was Abby-something...

    3. Re:I'm a disembodied brain floating in a jar by ganjadude · · Score: 1

      no thats his cousin abby-normal

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  12. Whoopi, Triple H, Gaga, and RuPaul by tepples · · Score: 3, Informative

    And that their drag persona and their day-job/legal identity are two spheres that many people want to keep separate?

    Not everyone uses the legal identity on the day job, especially in entertainment. Consider Caryn Johnson, whose day job identity is Whoopi Goldberg. Or Paul Levesque, who goes by Hunter Hearst Helmsley professionally (or Triple H for short). Or Stefani Germanotta, who took the name Lady Gaga from a Queen song, possibly to escape No Doubt-related jokes. On the other hand, RuPaul Charles's drag name is just that: RuPaul.

    1. Re:Whoopi, Triple H, Gaga, and RuPaul by I'm+New+Around+Here · · Score: 1

      And that their drag persona and their day-job/legal identity are two spheres that many people want to keep separate?

      Not everyone uses the legal identity on the day job, especially in entertainment. Consider Caryn Johnson, whose day job identity is Whoopi Goldberg. Or Paul Levesque, who goes by Hunter Hearst Helmsley professionally

      Those two have the worst drag queen costumes I have ever seen.

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  13. Being An Ignorant Dipshit is Taking Over by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 3, Interesting

    Newsflash: Drag queens, drag kings, and other people in the LGBT community can often go by pseudonyms because they might happen to live with a family that would put them out on the street if they found out. Drag queens, drag kings, and especially transgendered people are subject to not just that, but downright assault as a result of their lifestyle. This isn't about people being offended, this is about the fact that Facebook's policy could cause actual, physical harm to people. Fuck you, you ignorant fuckstick.

    1. Re:Being An Ignorant Dipshit is Taking Over by I'm+New+Around+Here · · Score: 2

      Oh come on now. Just tell your parents what you do at night, down in the city, and see if they accept you for who you are.

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    2. Re:Being An Ignorant Dipshit is Taking Over by hink · · Score: 1

      If they thought it was a right, they would have involved the government.
      WHY do some dumb people seem to equate asking for a change or voicing dissent to a private company as asking for "special" rights?
      And because you don't use FB you can't imagine why anyone else would want to. Shocker - other people want do different things than you do.

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    3. Re:Being An Ignorant Dipshit is Taking Over by hink · · Score: 1

      Yes, that is always the reply from the "majority", the often heard "If you don't like it you just can leave" response.
      These people ARE considering leaving. They are asking the company to change BEFORE they leave.

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    4. Re:Being An Ignorant Dipshit is Taking Over by ganjadude · · Score: 1

      newsflash, the world is a shitty place. and if these people want TRUE equality, they should be fighting for equality, NOT exceptions to rules (which it seems is the case here)

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    5. Re:Being An Ignorant Dipshit is Taking Over by MacDork · · Score: 1

      From the king of ignorant fucksticks:

      "If you have something that you don’t want anyone to know, maybe you shouldn’t be doing it in the first place." -- Eric Schmidt

      And yet, even G+ repealed it's real name policy.

    6. Re:Being An Ignorant Dipshit is Taking Over by MacDork · · Score: 1

      its*

  14. Re:its their own fault by LWATCDR · · Score: 1

    Exactly. If you must use a real name you must use a real name. I know that Facebook has exceptions for "famous" people like authors, actors, podcasters and so on.
    So I would be okay with Rue Paul getting a pass but to give it to just one group is wrong.

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  15. Re:its their own fault by BlueMonk · · Score: 1, Insightful

    So I would be okay with Rue Paul getting a pass but to give it to just one group is wrong.

    It's not wrong if the one group who's getting the exception represents the group who's unfairly burdened by the original requirement. I'm not clear whether you're supporting or against the decision, but transgender people are unfairly burdened by a requirement of using their birth name when that doesn't agree with the different name they're getting most people (hoping eventually everyone) to use in the real world.

  16. tempest in a teapot by Rich_Lather · · Score: 1

    They got their panties in a wad over nothing just to make political hay. Nobody I know uses their real name in FB.

  17. Re:catering to the mentally ill by mythix · · Score: 2

    This is totally besides the point.

    It's FB wanting to force people to use their real name, so they can identify you to do more stuff they shouldnt with your data.
    And now that there's a giant move to Ello, or at least it's starting, they're backtracking.
    They are catering to their profits, not to any subset of their users.

    Lots of people use fake names, just because they dont want to use their real names. Not because we were all molested.

  18. Re:its their own fault by Rockoon · · Score: 4, Insightful

    represents the group who's unfairly burdened by the original requirement.

    I would say that the group is fairly burdened by the requirement. Burdens arent unfair just because you dont want to be burdened.

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  19. Re:its their own fault by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

    My understanding is famous people can't either. They are told to use fan pages.

  20. Way to be offensive in the apology by ugen · · Score: 3, Insightful

    The so-called "apology" is in itself offensive and patronizing. "Drag queens" to LGBT is what "Exotic dancers" are to being a straight woman (or a man, I suppose). The choice of names they used in the example is also not coincidental.

    I wonder if reaction would have been different were facebook to require all married women to use their husbands name (Mrs Robinson), and then apologized by way by letting them keep their "Lil Miss Makemeasammich" monikers.

    It's only "PC bullshit" until it's your problem.

    1. Re:Way to be offensive in the apology by geekoid · · Score: 1

      Since it was a non apology that seems to complete miss the point, the posters bring up a good point.

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    2. Re:Way to be offensive in the apology by Drethon · · Score: 1

      If you are looking for a proper apology from facebook I'm thinking you may be looking in the wrong place.

    3. Re:Way to be offensive in the apology by mjm1231 · · Score: 1

      You're an asshole. Oh, wait, let me apologize. I'm sorry you're an asshole.

      There, everything is better now, right?

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  21. Re:its their own fault by style7711 · · Score: 3, Insightful

    If their birth name is that much of a burden they can legally change it. Problem solved.

  22. Re:its their own fault by kilodelta · · Score: 1

    I wouldn't say that. A good friend of mine is on facebook under an alias. Plus I won't admit how many facebook accounts I have.

  23. What about me? by PPH · · Score: 1

    I'm a lesbian, trapped in the body of a man.

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    1. Re:What about me? by geekoid · · Score: 1

      The undergo the procedure to become a woman.

      Whats that, you're a man who like a women? You don't know what lesbian means, do you?

      Oh, you were being 'funny'. It's ok I remember when I was in 6th grade.

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    2. Re:What about me? by PPH · · Score: 1

      Whats that, you're a man who like a women? You don't know what lesbian means, do you?

      I find your definitions of gender and sex roles to be too restrictive to suit myself.

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  24. People who who work with kids also use fake names by cout · · Score: 5, Insightful

    Teachers and counsellors often don't want the kids they work with to be able to easily find them on facebook, so they use fake names. I have many friends who do this. So far they haven't been affected by any rule enforcement.

  25. Re:its their own fault by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 5, Insightful

    You have such a fundamental misunderstanding of some very basic concepts of justice (which have been tackled over and fucking over throughout the last 100 years of jurisprudence) that I'm not sure whether to bother replying to you.

    Consider the following rule: "Anyone whose hair holds a pencil when inserted into the hair is not permitted into the party."

    Is it unfair?

    Well, no, on the surface of it, it isn't. Pretty simple rule, really? Applies to everyone. Everyone's treated the same. If you don't like it, don't spray/curl your hair, right?

    No, of course not. It's a test for blackness. A person who has black skin is way more likely to fail the test than a person who has white skin. It's inherent to black people that they have curlier, tougher hair which is more likely to hold a pencil.

    Just as it's inherent to transgender people that their sex organs do not reflect their psychological gender, so there is a very high likelihood that they are misnamed at birth.

    Justice does not just consider whether a rule is equally applied to everyone, but whether a rule in effect treats everyone equally. Only in exceptional circumstances do we consider as just a rule which somehow disadvantages a group because of some innate feature of that group.

    Reality: deal with it.

  26. Re: its their own fault by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

    hams can use call signs so it's not completely unique

  27. Re:its their own fault by BringsApples · · Score: 1

    Exactly. This is what (almost) every married woman does, and a lot of divorced women do again. All you have to do is submit paperwork with your full old name, and your full new name. It all depends on your state, and and as far as I know, as long as you're not trying to evade the law in some manner, it's possible for everyone to change their name.

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  28. Re: its their own fault by Anon-Admin · · Score: 4, Insightful

    use your real name like us normal folks

    Wow, I have now met the real person called "Anonymous Coward"

    Is it me or is it just funny that someone posted anonymously that you should used your real name like "Normal Folks"

  29. Re:its their own fault by tehcyder · · Score: 1

    represents the group who's unfairly burdened by the original requirement.

    I would say that the group is fairly burdened by the requirement. Burdens arent unfair just because you dont want to be burdened.

    Neither are burdens fair just because they're imposed by a religiously-based conservative majority.

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  30. Re:catering to the mentally ill by BlueMonk · · Score: 1

    I think you misunderstand what it means to be transgender. Although "Drag Queens" may make a show of their situation, which might imply some degree of pretense, to be transgender in itself is not to be mentally ill nor does it generally involve any pretense (it's not "fake"). People who are transgender generally experience great emotional and psychological turmoil over their condition (which might lead to other mental illnesses) before finding out that the source of it all is a mismatch between their birth-assigned gender and their self-identified gender. But once these are aligned, they're much better off and can live much more normal lives. The transition, however, can be very difficult, especially when laws and rules don't support the transition (name change, gender change, etc).

  31. Re: its their own fault by geekoid · · Score: 2

    He is saying the rule(regardless of what it is) should be evenly applied.

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  32. Re:its their own fault by geekoid · · Score: 1

    Which has nothing to do with a private company having a rule for a real name.
    The fact that groups are given except is appalling. They should either have the rule, or remove it.

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  33. pseudonym .. by CaptainDork · · Score: 1

    ... . you mean like, "asshole."

    Hey, look at me, I'm using a pseudonym.

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  34. Re:People who who work with kids also use fake nam by swillden · · Score: 1

    Teachers and counsellors often don't want the kids they work with to be able to easily find them on facebook, so they use fake names. I have many friends who do this. So far they haven't been affected by any rule enforcement.

    Well, that's one solution. Another is for them to use their real name on Facebook and a fake name in class... some hilarious options come to mind.

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  35. George Orwell's Animal Farms says it best: by charles05663 · · Score: 1

    All animals are equal, but some animals are more equal than others. George Orwell

  36. Re:its their own fault by BarbaraHudson · · Score: 4, Insightful

    represents the group who's unfairly burdened by the original requirement.

    I would say that the group is fairly burdened by the requirement. Burdens arent unfair just because you dont want to be burdened.

    If you actually read the news stories (it's been widely reported) you'll find out that one individual reported 200 xgenders. Sounds to me like someone who was targeting a group based on their gender expression. Facebook said they didn't catch what had happened at first because they get thousands of reports.

    Facebook clarified it's policy by saying that you can go by the name you're known by to the general public. How would you like it if you couldn't go by the nickname you've been using since grade school, but had to use your "real name"? "William Robert Doe? Who the heck is that? Oh, you mean Billy-Bob?"

    Transgenders who are not transsexuals generally retain their legal birth name for things such as banking, etc. However, in the context of social interactions, what is the harm in letting them use the name that their friends and the general public know them as? Isn't it supposed to be a social network, and not a courtroom?

    For transsexuals, do you have any idea of how long it takes to do the paperwork in some jurisdictions? Some places will refuse to change your name without a valid reason, backed up by documentation. And what is someone supposed to do while they're transitioning? Go by their old name (one that conforms to their old gender) on Facebook when their co-workers know them by a different name and gender? The Standards of Care for transsexuals require that you live and work full-time in your target gender for at least a year. So you've got a year when you don't have that documentation, and then another year while it goes through - minimum. Sure, YMMV, but that's the way it is where I live.

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  37. "LGBT community" by Cammi · · Score: 1

    Dear Facebook, All you have to do is restrict your audience to mature adults. This non-issue would no longer be an issue. Perhaps the "LGBT community" should grow up for once. There is absolutely no reason to cater to their kind (aka kids)

  38. Re:catering to the mentally ill by BarbaraHudson · · Score: 1

    Seriously, that's all they're doing. Someone who wants to put on the opposite gender's clothing, make up a fake name, and act like a giant stereotype of that gender with a fake name and made up personality needs mental help, not bent Facebook rules. Did you know that every study ever has found that 80-90% of drag queen, transsexuals, etc were abused as children?

    Even if we take your claim at face value, what is the percentage of adults overall who were abused as children? Depending on how you define abuse, it could also be 80-90%.

    Go watch "It's A Wonderful Life" this holiday season and ask yourself if George Bailey wasn't abusive towards his wife and kids.

    Also, if you're a transsexual, you'll probably get bullied by other kids because, after all, they can sense you're different. It just leaks out, and kids can be really cruel, same as adults. You're confusing cause and effect.

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  39. Whats in a name? by TheCarp · · Score: 1

    Maybe its because I have been in online forums since I was a teenager, but, as far as I am concerned your "real name" is exactly whatever you say it is, and, you can have as many real names as you want, because your real name is whatever you accept that people call you. Period. That is as much realness to your name as I recognize.

    You tell me your name is voltron. Your name *IS* voltron as far as I am concerned. your real one.

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  40. Re:its their own fault by ganjadude · · Score: 1

    I wouldnt be so sure about that. The whole equality thing that has been pushed over the years. We will see if equality is the real goal, if they LGBT community will stand up with the straight community to help us get to use fake names as well. If not, It shows its not about equality but about special rights.

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  41. Re:its their own fault by ganjadude · · Score: 1

    perhaps they should legally change their names then? no more problems!

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  42. Re:its their own fault by ganjadude · · Score: 2

    voter id laws are in no way racist. you need an ID to buy beer, smokes, or enter the whitehouse (legally, not just hopping the fense)

    If obama requires an ID to meet the president, why is it unfair to need one to vote for him?

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  43. Re:its their own fault by mariox19 · · Score: 1

    Perhaps they do it professionally; and since people get sick of their jobs, perhaps some don't even like doing it.

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  44. Re:its their own fault by ilparatzo · · Score: 1

    You have such a fundamental misunderstanding of some very basic concepts of justice

    This statement, followed by an analogy that creates a dotted line between the original poster and racism, and is a poor analogy to boot. Not that most analogies used in the wild are much more than poor attempts to link a statement to racism, sexism, nazis, psycopaths or something similarly "evil" ... versus truly clarifying a situation.

    Should the use of my real name truly burden me and psychologically harm me, I have a recourse that for hundreds of years has been taken by women upon marriage ... I change my name. Rather unlike a physical trait. I would argue that my name is not an innate trait ... it's something that can and every day for someone in the world, does, change. Should the harm I suffer by using it day in and day out be so great, the difficulties caused by changing it should pale in comparison.

    Now should I not want to change it, but still be allowed to use any name I can think of any day of the week, the fact that I identify as transgender doesn't suddenly give me more rights than someone who is not to do so. Who is anyone to say that one reason is okay and another is not? And how do we go about deciding who it is okay to be unfair to and who not? These questions usually end up falling on politicians who will ram into place something that will help them get/stay elected.

  45. Re:People who who work with kids also use fake nam by geekoid · · Score: 1

    Yes, but there livelhood won't be impacted of there accounts are closed, unlike profession entertainers who don't want that chance. These specific entertainer have a grope of people who are ALWAYS trying to cause them problems, so getting reported to facebook is much more likely.

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  46. The hairy lot of Babylon by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

    In response to this incident, I hope the Bishop of Rome will ban all catholics from using Facebook, because pandering to homosexuality and bestialism is a lethal sin. According to Law V. of Moses, the sodomite shall be punished by stoning.

    1. Re:The hairy lot of Babylon by messymerry · · Score: 1

      The Bishop of Rome, , , , ...is he like,,, somebody important?

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  47. Re:its their own fault by LWATCDR · · Score: 2

    ", but transgender people are unfairly burdened by a requirement of using their birth name when that doesn't agree with the different name they're getting most people (hoping eventually everyone) to use in the real world."

    They want people to use that name. So why doesn't everyone have the right to pick the name they want to be called on Facebook?

    You allow everybody pick their name or you do not.
    Or if you really do not like your name you can always have it legally changed.
    In discrimination. You are saying that those people are so not like normal people that you must make a special exception for them.

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  48. Re:catering to the mentally ill by tehcyder · · Score: 1

    Waste of a troll really, you'd be better off with "Did you know that every study ever has found that 80-90% of Linux users, paedophiles, etc were abused as children?" on slashdot.

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  49. Re:its their own fault by Gliscameria · · Score: 1

    It seems to be a running theme. If you center your life around one of your attributes then all advantages and disadvantages are a directly related to that. I wore red shoes and found a $10 bill, must be lucky shoes. I wore red shoes and the cashier was grumpy to me, he must hate red shoes. Facebook is being a shitlord because I can't be "RedShoes Webber" anymore.

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  50. Easy Solution by Drethon · · Score: 1

    I haven't logged onto facebook in like three, four years now?

  51. Re:People who who work with kids also use fake nam by cout · · Score: 1

    Explain to me again why entertainers are groping people?

  52. yeah, the integrity of Facebook is at stake by supernova87a · · Score: 2

    Kind of hard to believe Facebook really is trying to protect the integrity and reputability of its users, and applying rules to people equally. Mark Zuckerberg's dog has a fucking account -- tell me how that's ok?

  53. There are no real names by mjm1231 · · Score: 1

    What the fuck is a "real" name? All names are made up... or were, at some point in time.

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  54. Re:its their own fault by mythosaz · · Score: 3, Interesting

    Voter ID laws shouldn't be racist. Everyone should have ID, especially if they want to vote exactly one time.

    Unfortunately voter ID laws were foisted on counties and districts where those enacting them knew that it would impact urban (and thus likely democratic) voters disproportionately. It's the sort of change that you make an election or two in the future, and send a state ID team out to major polling places now, so people are prepared when your sensible change rolls around.

    ...or, you rush it into place when you know it turns away those filthy liberals. Whichever fits your agenda.

  55. Its less expensive to allow them to hide by Stan92057 · · Score: 1

    Its less expensive to allow them to hide their names then to have to enforce the TOS against people who would harass them. Its all about the $$$$$$$ boys and girls.

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  56. Re:its their own fault by praxis · · Score: 1

    The AC you are replying to did not claim voter ID laws were racist. Since you did, though, I will answer why it is unfair to require an ID to vote. In 1965 we as a country enacted legislation to prohibit discrimination in voting. Unless the proportion of people with the required identification (which is above and beyond what we require today) is the same as the proportion of people that can vote legally today, then passing a voter ID law discriminates against that skew. That skew happens to be towards black people. Until we decide we are okay with discrimination and repeal the Voting Rights Act of 1965, we should do our best to not discriminate.

    Buying beer and buying cigarettes from another person and has nothing to do with voting so I'm going to ignore it as it's not really germane here.

    Look at who is pushing for voter ID laws: those getting a smaller proportion of the black vote with an interest in reducing the proportion of blacks in the voting public. Look who is pushing against voter ID laws: those getting a larger proportion of the black vote with an interest in keeping the current proportions. THAT is exactly why voter ID laws are bigotry by proxy. They are worded to sound innocuous and sold to people like you as "fair" but their entire purpose is to discriminate in a back handed way.

  57. Re:its their own fault by ShanghaiBill · · Score: 1

    voter id laws are in no way racist.

    Except that people at the bottom of the economic ladder, which are disproportionately minorities, are much less likely to have a valid ID. They are also much more likely to vote Democratic rather than Republican. Politicians are well aware of this, so voter ID laws are passed with Republican votes, and volunteer ballot monitors checking for compliance are nearly 100% Republican. In a theoretical perfect world, voter ID laws would not be racist. In reality they are.

  58. Re:its their own fault by praxis · · Score: 1

    Changing your legal name because you don't identify with it anymore makes sense. Many transgender people do that. Here, though we are talking about people that identify with their legal name most of the time but a different name some of the time. They want to have an online profile that represents that some-time facet of them.

    A rule to force a user to always use their legal name has one purpose: to prevent people from having profiles other than their "real" self. Not everyone fits that rubric. If Facebook exempts cross dressers, what about cosplayers? What about schizophrenics? What about double agents?

    They should just drop the rule.

  59. Re:its their own fault by BarbaraHudson · · Score: 2

    Obviously nothing is stopping the "straight community" from using fake names on Facebook. Look at how many people have more than one account.

    It's only when someone complains that Facebook gets grumpy. In this case 1 individual spent their time targeting 200 people. Sounds to me like that 1 individual has a problem.

    Also, many transgenders and transsexuals are members of the "straight community." The definition of "straight", for transgenders who are not transsexual is straight-forward (pardon the pun); "straight" for a transsexual is defined by their sexual preference in their target gender. For example, a male-to-female transsexual can be either "straight, bi, or lesbian," while a male cross-dresser can be "straight, bi, or gay."

    Facebook has clarified their position so that you should use the name you're known by publicly. For example, "Billy-Bob" instead of "William Robert", or "Mary-Ann" instead of "Marienka Anastasia". You legally have the right to use the name you're know as publicly. All that's happened is that Facebook has acknowledged that the same applies to LGBT as to everyone else. Sounds to me like it IS about equal rights, not "special rights."

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  60. Re:its their own fault by ganjadude · · Score: 1

    look, im all for making it mandatory that people can get free legal state IDs that are valid for voting and all of the above, but i see no reason whatsoever that people should not have to prove who they say they are when they are making the biggest decision for the country as you need to decide if you want an ale or a lager

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  61. What is it About this Topic? by sudon't · · Score: 1

    What is it about this topic that compels certain boys to proclaim their hatred of queers, loudly and emphatically? Why so sensitive about this topic? Your insecurity is showing, kid.

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  62. Re:its their own fault by K.+S.+Kyosuke · · Score: 1

    There are no "real names", all names are made up.

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  63. It's a bullshit "policy" in the first place by msobkow · · Score: 1

    Just how many people have the last name "420" or "Fourtwenty", or a first name like "Saskboy"? The policy is bullshit and applied on the whim of power mad Facepolice, not an *implemented* or *enforced* policy. As far as I'm concerned, the drag queens were being persecuted for their lifestyle, not because they were using "fake" names.

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  64. My real name by gelfling · · Score: 1

    Is Sandnigger McSizeQueen

  65. Re:its their own fault by mikechant · · Score: 1

    You seem like many other posters to have missed the actual effect of the facebook announcement. Firstly it is not about the right to use 'fake' names (i.e. ones that you do not use 'in real life'), it is about the right to use the/a name you are generally/frequently known by, which is arguably more 'real' than your so-called real name.
    And secondly it appears to apply to everyone, so if you are a straight male whose parents called you 'Dick Shit' but everyone apart from your bank (say) knows you as 'Richard the third' then you have the right to be known as such on facebook. So this decision gives exactly the same rights to everybody.

    And yes, I realiize you might have been misled by the fact that the facebook *apology* was directed at transgender people and drag queens/kings. But that was because these groups had been specifically targeted by one person reporting them as having 'fake names'. The actual *policy* change benefits *anyone* who in real life goes by a different name to that on their birth certificate etc. I know several male and female straight people who have gone by a 'different' name for their entire adult life, e.g. just because they have a strong dislike of their birth name and this policy should benefit them if they choose to take advantage of it.

  66. Re:its their own fault by BarbaraHudson · · Score: 1

    It's their own fault for being gay.

    Is it "your own fault" for being straight (assuming you are)?

    Inquiring minds want to know.

    BTW, most drag queens and cross-dressers are heterosexual.

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  67. Re:its their own fault by BarbaraHudson · · Score: 1

    The problem is that the US is behind the times.

    Up here in Kanuckistan, you don't actually have to do anything to be registered to vote. It's automatic. Change your address on your driver's license? You'll get a note in the mail saying your voter's information has been updated. Same with income tax, government benefits, medicare card (pretty much everyone has one of those), etc. Change your address on any of those, and your voter's info is updated.

    Somehow fell through the cracks? One piece of photo id, one piece of proof of residence, you vote.

    If you had opted for a universal freely-accessible health single-payer health care system, everyone would have the necessary photo id to vote.

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  68. Re:catering to the mentally ill by BlueMonk · · Score: 1

    No on can know what it's like to be someone else.

    Exactly. They were born only knowing how to fit into society as a gender that conflicts with their anatomy. And they can't pretend that they are the gender that they were assigned at birth because they don't know how to be someone else. I know 3 transgender women, and from what I understand of their tales, their choices were basically suicide or gender transition because they simply could not live with the gender they were assigned based on their anatomy.

  69. Re:its their own fault by shutdown+-p+now · · Score: 1

    The obvious solution is to ensure that everyone has (or can get) an ID. It's not rocket science: most European countries do require an ID to vote, and no-one considers it discriminatory there, because the procedure of obtaining the ID is not.

  70. Re:its their own fault by BlueMonk · · Score: 1

    It's unfair because others don't have to bear the burden of accepting a name that conflicts with their gender.

  71. Re:its their own fault by ShanghaiBill · · Score: 1

    look, im all for making it mandatory that people can get free legal state IDs that are valid for voting

    That will change nothing. Democrats will be less likely to acquire IDs, even if they are free, and will be more likely to lose them. Democrats just tend to be more screwed up dysfunctional people. But that is no reason to deny them their right to vote.

    i see no reason whatsoever that people should not have to prove who they say they are

    The reason is that laws should address actual problems, and there is no evidence that individual voter fraud is a problem.

  72. Re:its their own fault by BlueMonk · · Score: 1

    I've heard from people in the transgender community that often times it's much harder to change your name outside the context of marriage than inside. I think this is because the process is streamlined for marriages because they are so common. The process is not at all streamlined for transgender name changes (at least in some states).

  73. Re:its their own fault by BlueMonk · · Score: 1

    I think the point is to limit you in virtual space to the same number of identities you have in reality. You only have one body, and so Facebook wants you to have one identity with them. Even a schizophrenic has to accept the fact that their many personalities have to share the same body, and, just like their body, Facebook can't automatically adjust to their new identity as it comes forward. So they have to pick a single identity through which to present themselves to others, even if they are separate internally. Cross dressers similarly have to make a choice. You only get one identity, so make it the one you want to share with everyone. You can either be transgender or not, not both... pick one identity to share with others, and make it the one you're sharing in reality.

  74. Re:its their own fault by BlueMonk · · Score: 1

    Changing your legal name for anything except marriage is much harder in some states than changing it for marriage. The process seems streamlined for marriage because it's so common, but is sometimes prohibitively difficult and/or expensive in other cases. I see this decision as Facebook wanting to be like one of the "easier" states and be available that way to people in all states regardless of how hard it is to change your legal name there. Kudos if they can accomplish that goal without significantly compromising the integrity of peoples' identities in other ways.

  75. Streisand Effect? by k6mfw · · Score: 1

    Just wondering. It seems there's all kinds of characters besides drag queens that use fake names. Plus so many entertainers use stage names, but their drivers license and passport don't have those names. I'd not be surprised there is a Randall Stevens promoting people to let him handle their investments even though he does not exist ("Shawshank Redemption").

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  76. Re:its their own fault by praxis · · Score: 1

    The obvious solution is to ensure that everyone has (or can get) an ID. It's not rocket science: most European countries do require an ID to vote, and no-one considers it discriminatory there, because the procedure of obtaining the ID is not.

    Absolutely agree, but as it stands not everyone can get an ID easily. Giving out ID to everyone is too socialist I suppose.

  77. Re:its their own fault by praxis · · Score: 1

    People do not have one identity in the real world, they have multiple identities. With the confines of time and space one can choose which identity to present at any moment. If the point is to equate online identities with real world identities, then Facebook would have to offer multiple identities. But that is not the point, the point of Facebook is to compress all a products identities into one over-all identity that can be easily quantized to sell to users.

  78. Re:"famous" people by nickol · · Score: 1

    It depends on the definition of what "famous" really is. My friend is a musician, and well, she is famous. In Russia. But Facebook apparently does not know abou this. They forced her to change her last name in FB account to real, and the problem is, her fans do not know (or did not know) her real name.
    On the other hand I see many people who are using nicknames or invented names on FB for years without problems. This could be because they are _not_ famous, and there is no way for FB to tell that "John Smith" is actually "James Kowalsky". Especially if this another name is actually is in a language other than English.

  79. Great news! by Spugglefink · · Score: 1

    Now my neckbeard is the last remaining obstacle I have to passing fully for a woman!

  80. Re:its their own fault by ganjadude · · Score: 1

    I just read a story 2 days ago about a republican who got caught voting in multiple places. If it happens 1 time, its a problem IMO

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  81. Re:its their own fault by LWATCDR · · Score: 1

    The funny part of your comment is this.
    "Just as it's inherent to transgender people that their sex organs do not reflect their psychological gender"
    followed by
    "Reality: deal with it."

    If the rule is anyone can use any name they want then fine. Maybe I do not want my name to be used on Facebook because I do not like. Maybe everyone knows me as a nickname like Slim.
    This is not even about justice it is simply a rule.
    I feel it is unjust to give special rights to a group that wants to use a different name than other groups that want to use a different name.

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  82. Re: its their own fault by mauna+kea+ranger · · Score: 1

    Look at those pushing for NO voter ID laws! FTFY!

  83. Social disenfranchised voter disenfranchised by tlambert · · Score: 1

    voter id laws are in no way racist.

    Except that people at the bottom of the economic ladder, which are disproportionately minorities, are much less likely to have a valid ID. They are also much more likely to vote Democratic rather than Republican.

    Then that's a fantastic incentive for the Democrats to stage "Get your ID, get out the vote!" events, and help these disenfranchised people get their IDs. It's not like they can open a bank account, or cash a check without one, and they're more likely to be run in or hassled (at least temporarily) in any police interaction without an ID.

    Unless, you know, it's not about them being disenfranchised in society - they can stay that way - as long as they can vote, then as long as they vote, to heck with all the other stuff, right?

    Both political parties are only out for themselves; it'd be nice if there were rules in place that made them actually positive social forces, rather than opposing ruling classes. Voter ID requirements does that, to a degree, and addresses at least one real social issue that neither party would otherwise spend money on helping resolve otherwise.