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Fortune.com: Blame Tech Diversity On Culture, Not Pipeline

FrnkMit writes: Challenging a previous Code.org story on tech diversity, a Forbes.com writer interviewed 716 women who left the technology field. Her conclusion: corporate culture, and the larger social structure, is the primary cause for these women leaving the industry and never looking back. Specific issues include a lack of maternity policies in small companies, low pay which barely covers day care, "jokes" from male coworkers, and always feeling like the "odd duck." In reality, there are probably many intertwined causes: peer pressure at the high-school and college level, female-unfriendly geek culture, low pay, a lack of accommodations for pregnant/nursing mothers, the myth of "having it all," stereotype threat, and repeated assertions that women aren't biologically suited to writing software and therefore there's no problem at all.

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  1. Oh lord by nctritech · · Score: 4, Insightful

    Here we go again. This topic is becoming horribly redundant.

    1. Re:Oh lord by Oligonicella · · Score: 1

      Ha! Those were my exact thoughts before I came to the comments section.

    2. Re:Oh lord by nctritech · · Score: 0

      It wouldn't be so bad if we hadn't already had plenty of articles over the past few months on the exact same subject, each of which hovers close to or goes beyond the 1,000 comment mark. All that is going to happen is "MUH SOJINY" "MUH SANDREE" "MUH THERFUCKERS" "HITLER DID NOTHING WRONG" "Hi, I'd like to have a level-headed reasonable discu-" "SHUT UP, SHITLORD!"

      This is not even worth grabbing popcorn for at this point. Sigh.

    3. Re:Oh lord by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 5, Interesting

      https://www.schneier.com/blog/...

      "One of the things I routinely tell people is that if it's in the news, don't worry about it. By definition, "news" means that it hardly ever happens. If a risk is in the news, then it's probably not worth worrying about. When something is no longer reported -- automobile deaths, domestic violence -- when it's so common that it's not news, then you should start worrying."

      That pretty much sums it up.

    4. Re: Oh lord by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      "News for Nerds. Stuff that matters."

    5. Re:Oh lord by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      1) Gender inequality in software engineering
      2) Global warming
      3) Corporations exploiting the system through H1b visas.

      The meat and potatoes of the Slashdot diet.

    6. Re:Oh lord by DNS-and-BIND · · Score: 3, Insightful

      "Of all tyrannies a tyranny sincerely exercised for the good of its victim may be the most oppressive. It may be better to live under robber barons than under omnipotent moral busybodies. The robber baron's cruelty may sometimes sleep, his cupidity may at some point be satiated, but those who torment us for our own good will torment us without end for they do so with the approval of their own conscience."
      -- C.S. Lewis

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    7. Re:Oh lord by narcc · · Score: 1

      Got it. Ignore any problem because you read somewhere that it exists, therefore, it does not.

    8. Re:Oh lord by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      WHOOOOOSH! The point clearly just flew way the fuck over your head.

    9. Re:Oh lord by ganjadude · · Score: 2

      you forgot

      4) 3d printed guns

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    10. Re:Oh lord by K.+S.+Kyosuke · · Score: 1

      The one in the middle could destroy world-wide civilization as we know it. The other two are US problems of no interest to me.

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    11. Re:Oh lord by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Too true. Bullshit flamebait summary trying to turn a non-issue into a major societal problem. WTF is in these idiots' heads.

    12. Re:Oh lord by mjm1231 · · Score: 1

      I don't know your personal situation, but most likely you aren't obligated to read every article on Slashdot. Don't like this topic? Go read a different one.

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    13. Re:Oh lord by nctritech · · Score: 1

      This is like the argument that is made by some in the free software community that if you're going to criticize something, you should go code it the way you want it. It is more deflective than productive. I would like Slashdot to post interesting things. I would not like them to post the same things they've posted umpteen times over the past three months with the same discussions and same outcomes. It is pointless to have the same discussion ad infinitum and I do not feel that it is wrong to express a critical view saying so.

    14. Re: Oh lord by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Well it got you (and me) to reply, so more money for Dice (assuming we don't use adblocker)

    15. Re:Oh lord by dibdublin · · Score: 0

      The news is also good for spreading government & corporate propaganda, not to mention it makes for a good marketing vector.

    16. Re:Oh lord by Karmashock · · Score: 1

      Given gamergate, I question whether this isn't a multi-industry propaganda campaign.

      This whole issue stinks of coordination and collusion at this point.

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    17. Re:Oh lord by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Doesn't make it any less of a problem. The topic of racism is horribly redundant too, should we just ignore it and pretend everything is fine and that the laws/social structure/ job prospects disproportionally favor white men? I didn't think so.

      So sorry that people keep "bothering" you with their social injustices. I guess women should just shut up and get back to the kitchen (sarcasm).

    18. Re: Oh lord by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      So anyone who expresses annoyance at hearing the same feminist things ad nauseam is somehow dehumanizing women and hand-waving human rights as "inconvenient?"

      Uh, no. That's not how it works in the real world. Nice try though.

    19. Re: Oh lord by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Well said!

    20. Re:Oh lord by Mashiki · · Score: 1

      Welcome to #gamergate, Strange that this has been the same responses that the anti-side has been screaming about for the last month. My personal favorite are the feminists who attack other women and minorities, including making statements that "they know better" then the people they claim they're "trying to protect."

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    21. Re:Oh lord by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      but it won't

    22. Re:Oh lord by xski · · Score: 1
      The news is for spreading government & corporate propaganda, not to mention it makes for a good marketing vector.

      FTFY

    23. Re:Oh lord by pepty · · Score: 1

      Is that 4a) worry that the gubmint will take our 3D printed guns, or 4b) H1b visa holders are taking the 3D gun printing jobs?

    24. Re:Oh lord by AmiMoJo · · Score: 1

      This isn't news, it isn't reporting on current events. It is a study, carried out by a journalist. A report, an investigation.

      Schneier was clearly talking about the "man bites dog" effect.

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    25. Re:Oh lord by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

      Everyone knows racism is insurmountable. That's why a black man will never be elected President.

    26. Re:Oh lord by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      #gamergate

      YAWN

      Speaking of non-issues...

    27. Re:Oh lord by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      While I'm sure there is international variance, I really doubt the first one is just a US problem.

      The third one is a US problem that inherently intersects with non-US individuals.

    28. Re: Oh lord by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Are you saying that nerds are unaffected by the STEM workforce? And that nerds can't be female? You're part of the problem.

    29. Re:Oh lord by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Yes well. The Social Justice Warriors are busying trying to swamp slashdot in propaganda.

      It used to be flinging shit at each other regarding actual technolgy.

      I suppose that says something about the most recent generation - the ones that have been forced through mandatory gender studies reeducation in universities.

      Basically - we're fucking done as a high tech civilisation.

      This lot will spend their time discussing the gendered nature of the binary chop and picketing conferences that lack a transgendered dwarf mauri - rather than remaking technology.

    30. Re: Oh lord by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      It's good to know that you're so goddamn clairvoyant that you can divine all this and even establish a level of blame from repetition of the Slashdot tagline.

      Way to look like a total fucking idiot.

  2. Low pay? by 14erCleaner · · Score: 4, Interesting

    I guess the lure of the big bucks in teaching and nursing is too hard to resist.

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    1. Re:Low pay? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Nurses make good wages, better than most entry-mid level IT pros.

    2. Re:Low pay? by ShanghaiBill · · Score: 2

      Nurses make good wages, better than most entry-mid level IT pros.

      Teachers are paid pretty well too, as they should be. People fed the myth of "low paid teachers" are often surprised when they see the numbers. In my county, the median annual salary for a public school teacher is $79k, plus generous benefits, and summers off.

    3. Re:Low pay? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

      The problem is not in our staffing, but in our society. Why does the media constantly produce dumb stories speculating on what's special about IT, when IT is only one of many professions that have a gender gap? Trying to get women into IT is good, but lets not pretend it's* special.

      Teaching and nursing must be horribly sexist and need fixing, just like IT.

      * can be read as "it is" or as "IT is", readers choice

    4. Re:Low pay? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

      That is certainly not the case in public schools in the USofA, at least the rural ones with which I have experience. My father works as a school teacher, and my mother used to. Starting pay with a master's degree (which they both have) is about $35k, master's pay tops out at about $60k. Knock $5k to $10k off if you only have a BA or BS. Summers off (with the expectation that you will prepare for the following year) and moderate benefits included does not make that "pretty good" pay by modern standards.

      I would say that the "myth" is corroborated by fact in many cases, with regards to "low paid teachers."

      Compare that to, say, engineering, where starting pay is usually about $60k-$70k with benefits (of course there is a wider range depending on a number of factors), and that's with just a BS.

    5. Re:Low pay? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

      Except teachers don't really have a 9-5 job during the school year. It takes many more hours of the day.

    6. Re:Low pay? by TechyImmigrant · · Score: 1

      And they get to be respected and work in a huge hospital and have one of those upside-down watches attached to their clothes.
      In tech they get to sit in a grey cube.

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    7. Re:Low pay? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I am replying to myself, but here are some stat to back that up http://nces.ed.gov/programs/digest/d13/tables/dt13_211.60.asp

    8. Re:Low pay? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Making $50-60K/yr in a rural area IS being well-paid. What is the average salary of the community the teacher teaches in? In almost every case we see teachers making above (mathematical) average salaries in the communities they work in.

      In NJ, teacher salaries start around $50K/yr - that's for first-year teachers, and the average HOUSEHOLD income is around $60K in NJ.

      The starting at $60-70K/yr engineering jobs aren't in rural areas, and when they are, the pay is typically commensurate with the cost of living in the rural area.

    9. Re:Low pay? by ganjadude · · Score: 1

      the issue with your comment is that you are thinking about NYC or san fran living, well yeah, 35 K sucks in those places (as does 100K) I can tell you this because I am currently in the process of moving to NC from NYC suburbs, I will get to keep 40% MORE of my own money compared to now, by simply moving to NC from the burbs of NYC even if i take a 5K a year paycut. This is just due to taxes and cost of living.

      35K a year in 95% of american is ok money, not enough to raise a family on but for a single person 35K will give you enough to buy a home, and save some money in the vast majority of the country

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    10. Re:Low pay? by the+eric+conspiracy · · Score: 2, Insightful

      Comparing teacher salaries to private sector salaries is misleading. Often teachers have benefits that cannot be matched in the private sector including generous defined benefit pensions, retirement health care and time off. Total teacher compensation is heavily back-end loaded.

      http://www.ed.gov/oii-news/tea...

    11. Re:Low pay? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 3, Informative

      And speaking as a murse, you can expect lower pay since there are disciplines you are verboten to work in unless you are gay, so there are gaps in your experience. Hell, there is sweet clinic position I am disallowed to work simply because I am male (oh noes, sexual impropriety, except the last three people who were fired for that have all been female). And no use complaining that it is sexual discrimination, especially when your employer is the government and sets the rules (really, you should read the handbook that justifies this, stating female patients would be more comfortable with other female nurses, but no same consideration given to male patients. Unless they are Muslim. Then it becomes a religious issue).

      You can expect the same jeers and jibes about your capabilities from your female co-workers, and you can expect to be called on to deal with the obese and violent patients or otherwise lift anything heavier than a stack of papers. You are also tagged to cover for everyone else's maternity leave or sick child call-ins, meanwhile it takes a near act of congress to take you own leave for an eye operation while your co-workers get medical leave for a boob job (I am not making this up).

      You are also expected to police the work environment for any signs of sexual harassment, but you are shit out of luck to get the same consideration from your female staff. Oh, and you can expect to have your budget slashed so a room can be remodeled for any nursing mothers to operate their breast pumps (apparently a private bathroom is degrading) while needed repairs to the call light system is put on hold.

      On the plus side, nearly all the supervisors are male since even female nurses find them less capricious and easier to deal with. But this is obviously a sure sign of a glass ceiling.

      Welcome ladies to being the odd man out. It isn't any easier over here.

    12. Re:Low pay? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Pay is low relative to the high cost of keeping up in the field (buying gear and training materials), living in high cost of living areas, and the all-consuming nature of the work. Education and nursing have only the last one. Pay is going down in the computer field, and people are expected to do more and more of their own training.

    13. Re:Low pay? by Maxo-Texas · · Score: 1

      Teachers have terrible salaries for the first 20 years of their career. I know several teachers personally. They also have IT like 50-60 hour weeks. Their classes have been increased from 22 students to 30 students since 2000.

      Once they get their 20 years and various advanced certifications in, the recent pattern is to lay them off and hire two younger teachers. A teacher's pay doesn't reach the national average until they are in their late 40's.

      The teacher pay scale is seriously messed up and incents laying off experienced teachers.

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    14. Re:Low pay? by ShanghaiBill · · Score: 1

      Comparing teacher salaries to private sector salaries is misleading.

      It is even more misleading when the teacher salaries are from 12 years ago.

    15. Re:Low pay? by werepants · · Score: 1

      Not where I'm from. I worked for exactly one year as a teacher, at a charter school where the entry pay was $28k. I was making that without a degree in IT, and left teaching to take an engineering job making almost twice as much.

      The low-paid teacher thing is reality, especially if you look at people with 4-year degrees, which are required for teaching. The situation is even worse in STEM, where the teachers could be making much, much more in industry, and probably working less hours.

    16. Re:Low pay? by pepty · · Score: 1

      Remember that most teachers aren't eligible for social security benefits when looking at that benefits package, and that median teacher is also working during the summer. Median teacher salary in the US is around $56K and is dropping. So are the benefits packages.

    17. Re:Low pay? by pepty · · Score: 1

      You're comparing to average household income, not average income for someone with one or two degrees, which most of the low paid rural jobs don't require.

    18. Re:Low pay? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Having worked in a hospital (and in IT) for over decade, I can tell you that most nurses earn every penny of it.
      yes, some of them are idiots, I know, so don't tell me about that one nurse who did ...

      For one thing, there is this:
      http://well.blogs.nytimes.com/...
      and this:
      http://www.medicalnewstoday.co...

      Also, the body of knowledge a RN, PA, or LPN has must be constantly maintained and updated. Medicine is changing faster than any other industry. Seriously, IT does not even come close.

      And then there is the other problem.
      Sick people are fussy and cranky and a pain to deal with. And then there's the patient's family who raises hell because the nurse didn't do some thing that they read about on the Internet. It's a customer service job at its worst.

    19. Re:Low pay? by ShanghaiBill · · Score: 2

      You're comparing to average household income, not average income for someone with one or two degrees, which most of the low paid rural jobs don't require.

      The additional degrees have no correlation with better teaching. Teachers with a masters do not do better in any measurable way than teachers with just a bachelors. Taxpayers might be willing to give more money to schools if they see the schools stop spending it on stupid things like useless degrees.

    20. Re:Low pay? by ShanghaiBill · · Score: 1

      I worked for exactly one year as a teacher, at a charter school where the entry pay was $28k.

      Charter schools and standard public schools have completely different pay scales.

    21. Re:Low pay? by werepants · · Score: 1

      True, but most are hardly better. My wife taught for several years and was paid ~32k at a public school, with her master's . The point still stands - low paid teachers are not at all "a myth".

  3. Not biologically suited? How does that work? by __aaltlg1547 · · Score: 4, Interesting

    Women seem just as capable of sitting at a desk pounding a keyboard as men.

    I suppose I could hand-wave up an argument that men's more object oriented approach to language might be more amenable to being adapted to write code compared to womens' more personal-perspective oriented approach (http://citeseerx.ist.psu.edu/viewdoc/summary?doi=10.1.1.5.1172). But I don't believe it. Male and female brains are both wonderfully adaptive and there are plenty of brilliant women out there. (Leave aside the fact that you only have to be moderately intelligent to write code.) Also, there's no evidence yet that men and women use language differently innately as opposed to having learned different uses of grammar along with their gender roles.

  4. Not where *I* work. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 4, Informative

    We have two female programmers on our team of 10 devs (total). They are paid equivalently to the males, receive the same training opportunities, and each holds expert status in some region of our offerings. The men do not joke about about them (I would know, being one of the male devs and all, I would hear it). If that kind of thing started up it would be nipped in the bud......as it was a few years ago when we hired, then shortly thereafter fired, a guy who turned out to be outright misogynistic.

    I am not denying the trend in the industry, I am just pointing out that there *are* places that refuse to hire unprofessional jerks, and will treat all their employees with respect.

    1. Re:Not where *I* work. by paiute · · Score: 2

      Good for you. You recognized a potential dysfunction and prevented it from becoming a problem. But look at the larger picture from a female perspective. You hired a male who was going to mistreat your female peers in a negative way. 1. What percentage of the pool of potential male employees fits that profile? 2. What percentage of potential female employees are liable to come in and disrupt your company by mistreating their male peers?

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    2. Re:Not where *I* work. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Companies I have worked for have had female developers, QA, marketing, and positions of management at all levels in all departments, sometimes including CEO.
      If I was going to complain about anything, it would be a case of a female coworker treating _me_ like a piece of ass. I rejected her so hard that our working relationship never really recovered. Meh. But you know, most women I've dealt with have been professional, aside from some bitchy ones. But you, there are some bitchy guys, too. You just learn to deal with it.

    3. Re:Not where *I* work. by alphafive · · Score: 1

      So this creates an interesting discussion. Does the work simply attract/harbor the culture, or is it actively feeding the culture? Do men who fit the misogynistic stereotype feel drawn to the STEM because it fits into their line of thinking? Is it the typical male nerd we see in media who is driven by inadequate social skills and female rejection to seek solace in a computer or devote vasts amounts of time to a specialized skill like required in most STEM fields? I've been working in software engineering for a long time and I don't find management/employees to be anymore harboring of misogynistic temperament than they are in any other business or field. I think we are dealing with the a culture that has for whatever reason been drawn to a field, and not a field that breeds misogyny.

    4. Re:Not where *I* work. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 2, Insightful

      You just learn to deal with it.

      Well, not if you're a woman. If you're a woman you complain about it and get laws passed so you don't get your feelings hurt.

    5. Re: Not where *I* work. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Does being paid "equivalently" mean being paid "equally"?

    6. Re:Not where *I* work. by Curunir_wolf · · Score: 1

      We have two female programmers on our team of 10 devs (total). They are paid equivalently to the males, receive the same training opportunities, and each holds expert status in some region of our offerings. The men do not joke about about them (I would know, being one of the male devs and all, I would hear it). If that kind of thing started up it would be nipped in the bud......as it was a few years ago when we hired, then shortly thereafter fired, a guy who turned out to be outright misogynistic.

      I am not denying the trend in the industry, I am just pointing out that there *are* places that refuse to hire unprofessional jerks, and will treat all their employees with respect.

      I'm not really convinced it's a trend in the industry - if anything, the trend is more toward the kind of environment where you work. I've worked at many organizations, both technology organization and it IT in other types of companies, and what you describe is more the norm, while the hostile-to-women places are the outliers. In fact, I've only worked at ONE place that was like that (I'll go ahead and name names - it was Capital One), and I only worked there three days before I quit - and I'm not even a woman.

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    7. Re:Not where *I* work. by tylikcat · · Score: 3, Insightful

      "...and female rejection..."

      Yo, where I'm from of a guy doesn't like a gal, she's expected to grow a pair (of ovaries) and cope. Being all embittered is considered pathetic and a personal failing, not something that men have driven her to. (And, y'know, that's sad, and counselling often can help a lot.)

      And women experience rejection all the time. Seriously. All the time.

      This stuff is hard, make no mistake. But I'm wondering more and more how much the mythologizing the great force that is female rejection is really more about male introverts who don't interact with women, and never learn to interact with women, and create this whole mythology about women that is mostly not tempered by experiences with actual women. Because really, the girl in your eighth grade class who didn't want anything to do with you (or whatever) isn't something you should obsess about for the rest of your life. And I think it used to be that people had to deal with each other, face to face, enough, that it kind of wore the sharp edges off of the neurosis, at least for most.* And it's now a lot easier to form insular subculture where men come up with all these theories about what women are like, etc. etc. and don't actually interact with women in meaningful ways.**

      Because really, I read all this stuff about what women are supposed to be like... and I am a woman. And, okay, I'm fairly atypical, but I spend time around a lot of women, of all varieties. I date both men and women. And these stories have so little in common with the actual people I know, it's pretty absurd.

      * Not that I'm advocating the generic superiority of social interactions with the people who happen to live near you. You can have my internet connection when you pry it from my cold dead hands.
      ** Note, if this doesn't turn around and get expressed as misogyny in the workplace, or shooting sprees or whatever, go right ahead. It takes all kinds.

    8. Re:Not where *I* work. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 2

      I have worked with some women who are professional, competent, and respected.

      I have worked with some women who are perpetually complaining that they can't have it both ways. They want to be seen as an equal in every way (one of the guys) but get hurt whenever they aren't given special treatment that they feel women deserve. That same special treatment, of course, is basically the type of chivalry that men engage in when *taking care of a weaker being*.

      Everyone wants to feel valued. But some women demand more of that than men, and when they don't get it they say that the male-dominated culture has done them harm.

      I am not saying the statement is false. There *is* a problem with misogyny in software development. There is *also* a problem of the victim mentality among female programmers.

    9. Re:Not where *I* work. by alphafive · · Score: 1

      "... Is it the typical male nerd we see in media who is driven by inadequate social skills and female rejection..." Its an entire stereotype/mythology (although maybe the shoe fits for some). I never said it was factual.

    10. Re:Not where *I* work. by alphafive · · Score: 1

      There *is* a problem with misogyny in American/A lot of world cultures.

    11. Re:Not where *I* work. by Austerity+Empowers · · Score: 2

      I don't see any active misogyny where I work. No one picks on the females for being females or makes those demeaning comments that would make Al Bundy proud. I do see some dissatisfaction however with gender culture clashes. Men have a way of getting along, while I will be the last to defend it, it's how things have been done since we first set foot in school. Women have generally another way of getting along, and I find it at least as obnoxious as male methods, but I assume they have reached the same form of quiescence.

      These two mechanisms do not frequently get along with each other, however, and for equally sexist reasons it is very hard for someone of the opposite gender to effectively play the game on the other's turf. Women who try the macho, alpha dog thing get labelled bitch. They talk the talk, but we secretly know we could beat them up, so they can't possibly be alpha, right? Alpha isn't about being right, it's about fear and intimidation. Men who try to play the clique game are seen as gay, weird or otherwise "creeps". The only reason that misogyny makes the news is male dominated fields pay more, in many cases.

      The flip side is without the other gender present and forcing awkwardness, these cultures get out of control. Many men in male dominated fields and many females in female dominated fields complain about how tough a place can be to work in when these gender-specific culture mechanics are allowed to run unabated. Not all men like the macho bullshit game, I find in engineering that many a company has actually been ruined by meetings and decisions being dominated by the confident idiot who drives snappy decisions and overrides the thinkers. I have heard women complain about how resistant to change elementary school teachers can be, when the wrong clique gets in the way.

      I'm not sure how we solve this problem, except to DEemphasize social behavior in children, and promote independence, self-reliance and critical thinking beyond these cheap interactions we seem to push hard (play dates, putting them in school ever younger, rushing them to certain milestones). Anyway this doesn't make as good of a headline as men are being sexist pigs.

    12. Re:Not where *I* work. by russotto · · Score: 3, Insightful

      So this creates an interesting discussion. Does the work simply attract/harbor the culture, or is it actively feeding the culture? Do men who fit the misogynistic stereotype feel drawn to the STEM because it fits into their line of thinking? Is it the typical male nerd we see in media who is driven by inadequate social skills and female rejection to seek solace in a computer or devote vasts amounts of time to a specialized skill like required in most STEM fields?

      Or how about neither? How about if a generally "misogynistic culture" among men in tech is a fabrication, and individual misogynists actually less prevalent in tech than in fields like sales or advertising which attract the more "alpha male" type (and are yet less male-dominated). How about if we're being sold the idea of a misogynistic nerd culture because those doing the selling feel that as nerds, we'll be more likely to accept that idea than the completely un-self-aware and unapologetic "bro" type?

    13. Re:Not where *I* work. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I'm not sure how we solve this problem, except to DEemphasize social behavior in children, and promote independence, self-reliance and critical thinking beyond these cheap interactions we seem to push hard (play dates, putting them in school ever younger, rushing them to certain milestones). Anyway this doesn't make as good of a headline as men are being sexist pigs.

      It would be a much better headline, this headline is just bad.

    14. Re:Not where *I* work. by russotto · · Score: 2

      Women who try the macho, alpha dog thing get labelled bitch.

      So if they are female and act like a dog they're called a bitch? What did they expect?

      Men who do the macho, alpha dog thing get called ALL sorts of names by those they stepped on, usually behind their back. Do it in front of them and you'll be fired or at least humiliated. They don't care what their underlings think as long as they remains outwardly submissive; that's what being alpha is about.

    15. Re:Not where *I* work. by tylikcat · · Score: 1

      I hear you. Second or third day of reading about gender issues on /. in a row, but you don't deserve that frustration. So tired of all the special snowflakes going on about how they've been traumatized by female rejection, because the world has coughed up their promised female trophy.

      (Seriously, back in my SCA days, there was an informal big sister program where someone would take newly arrived nerd boys under their wings and talk them through everything from personal hygiene issues to how to ask a girl our or what was the secret subtext of this or that conversation.* But though that was great and all, that's a lot of care taking.)

      * My personal bias: probably none. Okay, maybe there was one, but you'll only drive yourself crazy trying to figure it out. Be clear, be sane, and if she can't reciprocate you're so much better off without.

    16. Re:Not where *I* work. by Dutch+Gun · · Score: 1

      Asking for the state of an industry from people who leave that industry seems pretty likely to get you negatively biased results. If you asked *men* who left the industry, you'd probably hear about a lot of negative experiences other than sexism, but still just as negative. I'm not saying it's not a problem, but just pointing out that there may be a selection bias here. It would have been interesting to compare and contrast the views of those who left and those who remained to see if the perceptions were similar.

      While female programmers are rare in the videogame industry as well, they're not unheard of. I think the situation there is probably a bit healthier (on the development side, at least), because there are lots of female artists, designers, QA, management, etc, to help balance things out. In general, I've worked at about half a dozen game companies, and they all seemed fairly female-friendly to me. At least, the women that worked there seemed happy enough, and didn't seem like the type to put up with any nonsense in the first place.

      Incidentally, the audio department seems to be another place staffed almost exclusively with men. For some reason, there are extremely few sound designers or composers, rather similar to programming. Not sure why that is...

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      Irony: Agile development has too much intertia to be abandoned now.
    17. Re:Not where *I* work. by werepants · · Score: 1

      How about if we're being sold the idea of a misogynistic nerd culture because those doing the selling feel that as nerds, we'll be more likely to accept that idea than the completely un-self-aware and unapologetic "bro" type?

      This is a bit too tinfoil hat for me - you honestly believe there's some secret committee somewhere coming up with these schemes, and constructing elaborate narratives to propagate their agenda? Occam's Razor says it is more likely that the simple claims are true, and that many women do in fact get driven out of tech for the reasons they reported.

      I've personally seen several (relatively benign) examples of workplace misogyny firsthand. It's no surprise to me that many women would choose to seek work where they are more welcome.

    18. Re:Not where *I* work. by AmiMoJo · · Score: 1

      Notice how TFA mentions many reasons other than misogyny. Even TFS mentions many of them. Honest question: did you just not read the summary before posting or are you trying to set up a straw man?

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    19. Re:Not where *I* work. by XopherMV · · Score: 1

      Indeed. I find it more than coincidence that the majority of women stay away from fields where they need to work alone with machines. IT, auto mechanics, construction, and engineering are all male-dominated fields. Why? Sexism? Yes, some fields are more sexist than others. However, medicine and law were also extremely sexist in the recent past. And yet, we have tons of women doctors and lawyers. The main difference I see with those fields is that doctors and lawyers actually work with other people. The work is often group work. Frankly, it appears that most women simply don't like IT work once they get a chance to perform it in the industry. If they truly loved the work, I'm sure we'd see many more women rushing to come into tech and stick around.

      This brings to mind an interesting solution. You want to see more women in tech? Then make tech work more social. We already have an answer to that: Pair programming.

    20. Re:Not where *I* work. by reanjr · · Score: 2

      Perhaps no conspiracy, but I find it reasonable that the same effect could stem from a predisposition to look at "alpha male" types in a positive light, and "beta male" types in a negative light. Given identical misogynistic behavior, I feel like the "beta male" type is much more likely to be branded a creep or asshole, while the "alpha male" type is much more likely to be assessed with something like "boys will be boys".

    21. Re:Not where *I* work. by reanjr · · Score: 1

      You want to tell an industry who constantly complains about a lack of talented workers than they should switch to a system where you hire twice as many workers to do the same work, and promise them this will somehow create even more available labor? Tough sell.

    22. Re:Not where *I* work. by jedidiah · · Score: 3, Insightful

      It's like any other hurdle that life can place in your path. You either deal with it and get past it or you whine that you are a victim. There are plenty of people that can manage the former as the latter is actively discouraged in many parts of western culture.

      Tolerance of the damsel in distress mentality is far more harmful to women than "misogyny".

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    23. Re:Not where *I* work. by XopherMV · · Score: 1

      We can't change the fact that we work with machines. However, we can change the fact that we work alone. Make programming more social by adding pair programming at all levels, including academia, and you'll get more women willing to join and stay. You'll also get the rest of the benefits which come along with pair programming such as fewer bugs and higher quality code.

    24. Re: Not where *I* work. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Why are you assuming women can't handle work without a significant social aspect?

    25. Re:Not where *I* work. by Maxo-Texas · · Score: 2

      There is a great "College Humor" on youtube that satirizes this.

      The less attractive nerdy guy says "hi" and gets hit for sexual harassment and while the attractive guy gets away with murder and gets dates.

      I know from experience this happens some. It also happens that pretty females get treated better. Right now an older female friend of mine is being victimized by a younger female who is slacking, dumping her work on my friend, and then flirting with the male managers to (and this is the crazy part) agree it's my friends responsibility to get it done on top of her other assignments even tho there is a clear paper trail showing it was originally assigned to the pretty girl. It's like something out of a bad TV show.

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      She was like chocolate when she drank... semi-sweet at first and then increasingly bitter.
    26. Re:Not where *I* work. by unimacs · · Score: 1

      I agree with most of what you are saying. I'm often surprised by the bitterness I see in comments from some of the men here (I'm also a guy). At the same time, while both sexes experience rejection, the whole process of dating in our culture is pretty stacked against nerdy male introverts. As you correctly point out, they often don't know how to interact with women but yet they do want to date. And frankly, an introverted nerd is not exactly the type that most women are interested in anyway. So what will happen is that they will ask out some woman who was just being friendly and she'll say no. Not because she's mean, but because she's simply not interested. And this can happen multiple times. How many women do you know that have asked out a guy and was rejected?

      The differences between a nerdy guy and a more social guy is that the social guy can pick up on clues more readily. He will likely be more attractive to women due to his social skills anyway. He's is less likely to experience rejection in the same way. Either he knows he's on a fishing expedition and will take the rejection in stride or he'll have a pretty good idea if the woman is interested before he even asks.

      It's funny that you mention 8th grade because my son just finished 8th grade last spring. Guys often make the mistake of thinking it's all about looks or how athletic they are. But you could see it in my son's class. The boys who were way ahead in terms having "girl friends" were not necessarily the best looking ones. It was the ones that knew how to talk.

    27. Re:Not where *I* work. by tylikcat · · Score: 1

      Well, actually, I know quite a few women who have - but let's just start with me, because I've most often initiated relationships, and I've been turned down pretty frequently too. (And while this seems to be highly regional, my research undergrads, at a very geeky midwest university, seem to do a lot of trading back and forth on the asking. And to me the gender roles here seem a bit on the calcified side.)

      One of the things I wonder about is the social context from which dating relationships emerge. I mean, I assume that there are people who ask out relative strangers (I have certainly been asked out by relative strangers, and honestly, it weirded me out*) but the dynamic I most often see is that you'll have a larger social context, a group of people who hang out together and get to know each other fairly well (this can be a pretty geek group of people who watch anime together, play RPGs, carpools to cons, or what have you) and have casual flirtations in that context. So the whole "asking someone out" often is a lot less of a fraught proposition. (I mean, it's still pretty fraught, especially if you're nineteen and crushed out on them.) And if you have much of a social clue at all (and yes, this is a major factor) you probably have some idea how well they're inclined towards you.

      This is a lot of what I see from our undergrads, to the extent I'm aware of their dating relationships. (I seem to alternate between being assumed to be old and clueless to being a stand in older sister.) It's fairly consistent with my own college days. (I mean, I was a bit of a menace, if not in a mean way. But... Oh, just imagine me and one of my girlfriends trolling for quiet young geek boys to take home and blow their minds.)

      So yeah, there's a whole set of skills to learn, but the idea that everything is all on the guy... is at least not true in many contexts. And women can fail just as hard, though there isn't a subculture about how men are colluding to control them by withholding the cock they have so obvious earned. There are a lot of skills for everyone to learn. No one is born knowing this stuff. And it takes work.** And while some people are more socially inclined, it's perfectly learnable with work. And I suspect if you (I mean the generic you) aren't actively putting yourself in a social situation in which you'll be interacting with folks you're sexually attracted to, you will never learn these skills.

      The entitled whining just drives me up a tree. For that matter, the idea that if some random guy asks a random woman out, and she says no - oh, no, the trauma! Yeesh. I mean, first off, that's a pretty stupid set up. And yet, most of us have been through some variant of it.

      * Especially when it was from relatively strangers who were clearly not part of my subculture. Major culture shock of moving to the midwest, random guys in suits would ask me out on the train. Or in the airport. While I was practicing martial arts forms in an empty terminal. *blink*
      ** Do not draw the conclusion from any of this that I was born socially adept, oh, no. I mean, I generally had more male friends because a lot of my interests (computers, electronics, RPGs) skewed that way, but, no. And then I went to college when I was 13 (well, the first time, it's complicated). But, y'know, hard work and paying attention - these things can be learned.

    28. Re:Not where *I* work. by russotto · · Score: 1

      There is a great "College Humor" on youtube that satirizes this.

      The less attractive nerdy guy says "hi" and gets hit for sexual harassment and while the attractive guy gets away with murder and gets dates.

      It's actually from Saturday Night Live, unless "College Humor" also did it. Anyway, while it may be an exaggeration it's not much of one. Exchanges like
      Nerd: "Hi"
      Woman: "Eww, get away from me you creep".
      do happen in real life.

    29. Re:Not where *I* work. by unimacs · · Score: 1

      So yeah, there's a whole set of skills to learn, but the idea that everything is all on the guy... is at least not true in many contexts. And women can fail just as hard, though there isn't a subculture about how men are colluding to control them by withholding the cock they have so obvious earned. There are a lot of skills for everyone to learn. No one is born knowing this stuff. And it takes work.** And while some people are more socially inclined, it's perfectly learnable with work. And I suspect if you (I mean the generic you) aren't actively putting yourself in a social situation in which you'll be interacting with folks you're sexually attracted to, you will never learn these skills.

      The entitled whining just drives me up a tree. For that matter, the idea that if some random guy asks a random woman out, and she says no - oh, no, the trauma! Yeesh. I mean, first off, that's a pretty stupid set up. And yet, most of us have been through some variant of it.

      * Especially when it was from relatively strangers who were clearly not part of my subculture. Major culture shock of moving to the midwest, random guys in suits would ask me out on the train. Or in the airport. While I was practicing martial arts forms in an empty terminal. *blink* ** Do not draw the conclusion from any of this that I was born socially adept, oh, no. I mean, I generally had more male friends because a lot of my interests (computers, electronics, RPGs) skewed that way, but, no. And then I went to college when I was 13 (well, the first time, it's complicated). But, y'know, hard work and paying attention - these things can be learned.

      You are absolutely right, these are skills that can be learned. And rather than whine and complain that "women don't like nice guys", they need to get a clue that being nice isn't the problem. And it is rather interesting that a culture of men who will spend days and weeks mastering gaming or some computer related skill, won't spend time on such a key element to happiness.

      However, I will still maintain that a shy, geeky guy is at a major disadvantage when it comes to dating. How many geeky males (shy or not) have random women approaching them in airport and train terminals? ;-)

      Thing about it, you and a friend could go trolling for geeky guys with a reasonable expectation of success. It doesn't work that way for geeky guys.

      That's not to say there aren't women who struggle with dating. I think a big difference is that these women will more than likely blame themselves rather than blaming all men.

    30. Re:Not where *I* work. by UnknownSoldier · · Score: 1

      > If that kind of thing started up it would be nipped in the bud.....

      I see what you did there .. :-)

    31. Re:Not where *I* work. by minstrelmike · · Score: 1

      That's how social change starts.
      The ones who want it to occur faster ignore the inertia of society.
      imo, we (most folks) have accepted Global Warming/Human-Caused Climate Change fairly quickly. The ones who think we haven't done it quickly enough probably don't recognize their own input which delayed acceptance. We've kinda, sorta known about it since 1990 so that's a fairly quick change in attitude. And the ones who want it quicker want it to go on their time schedule. It's like a religion almost. If they were convinced (converted) in 1996, then _everybody_ who still doesn't believe is part of the problem. Yet they don't consider themselves being part of the problem in 1993.
      I think acceptance of women as actual equals will occur fairly quickly in American technology. It takes awhile. The Bab was the first religious prophet to declare men and women are equal and need equal access to education. That didn't occur until 1844. We're moving ahead.

    32. Re:Not where *I* work. by tylikcat · · Score: 1

      I don't think many shy geeky women have random men approaching them in airports. (Nor do I expect many shy geeky girls have the lack of shame that it takes to practice martial arts forms in airport terminals.) I may have been poorly socialized all those years ago, but these days I'm outspoken, socially fearless*, and... well, I'm almost six feet tall, I train a lot, and if I'm awfully utilitarian about my clothes, I do know what suits me. (Of course, I also would expect that few shy geek men have random strangers across the street calling out to bring that ass over so they can stick their dick in it. Ugh, Cleveland. For a while I really didn't think I was going to get through my work here without doing someone serious bodily harm.) I am not conventionally beautiful, not do I participate much in beauty culture, but I'm smart, verbal, look decent enough and do a good charismatic. I'm not contrasting their problems with mine - really, if all I wanted was attention and to get laid, I've generally been spoiled for choice. But I'm a terrible example. (Finding someone who can keep up with me and doesn't eventually decide that actually they aren't really that thrilled with me being smart and competent - that's a bit more of an issue. Or decide that they have rights to my body that are not predicated on my consent, for that matter. But, y'know, I persevere somehow.)

      I think in most ways the random approaching strangers on the street - or even relative strangers, such as coworkers or classmates one does not already have a social relationship with - is a major red herring. It is the spam of social interactions, where it takes a bazillion queries to generate one hit, because even women who aren't automatically fearful of strangers who are hitting on them are seldom interested in following up on such encounters. (And yo, I once seduced a man who bought me at an SF slave auction - a charity fundraiser, he won dances with me - because he seemed nice and I was at loose ends. Still run into him sometimes, actually, he really is a nice guy.) And guys who take getting turned down from that kind of request are kind of the equivalent of a business who has sent out five pieces of spam and can't understand why they don't have customers. It's multiple levels of fail, not in the least because it's a lousy way to meet people in the first place.

      But worse, it create this whole sense of false equivalence, where women are seen as being spoiled for choice, without having a clue about the experiences of actual women.

      * This might come from fatalism, or just not having the damns to give, but it certainly seems to read as fearless.

    33. Re:Not where *I* work. by lsatenstein · · Score: 1

      It's like any other hurdle that life can place in your path. You either deal with it and get past it or you whine that you are a victim. There are plenty of people that can manage the former as the latter is actively discouraged in many parts of western culture.

      Tolerance of the damsel in distress mentality is far more harmful to women than "misogyny".

      In small shops, the culture is not malliable. If there is a misoganist, and that person has seniority or "power", then promotion and recognition are not going to appear. And eventually, people leave because of fatigue or for more $$$$$.

      In very large (200+ departments), this is less apparent. Transfers help to move on with a career.

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    34. Re:Not where *I* work. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Anyway, while it may be an exaggeration it's not much of one. Exchanges like [...] do happen in real life

      Does it really? Has that *ever* happened to you, or anybody you know?

      Or are you relying on "I read once on the internet that this thing happened," as your barometer of how hard real life is?

    35. Re:Not where *I* work. by bitSmiter · · Score: 1

      My wife has degrees in Programming and Mathematics, not to mention an MBA.

      She discovered, upon graduating, that she really didn't like programming-as-work, and moved into IT systems consultation and management instead – which she rocks at. Beyond one very inappropriate joke by a salesman accepting an award at a company function, she doesn't feel like she's encountered anything like the anti-woman culture that has been trumpeted as the norm in geek-dom lately. In fact, she feels like her peers bend over backwards to make her feel included. From college all the way up to the consultant management position she holds today.

      Likewise, I spent a good part of my career in the video games, movies, and other graphics shops. Even in companies that were 100% male and prone to extreme guy-humor without women around, we all cleaned up our act and did everything possible to welcome new female employees and make them feel comfortable. Nobody balked at that one bit, because we loved having women around more than making crude jokes.

      So where is all of this misogyny? I'm not saying it doesn't exist anywhere, but it's certainly not as rampant as some would have you believe. I've not seen it in the 8-odd companies I've worked for, and my wife doesn't see it in the 50+ companies that she does work for every year.

    36. Re:Not where *I* work. by russotto · · Score: 1

      Does it really? Has that *ever* happened to you, or anybody you know?

      It has happened to me.

  5. Bullshit. by jon3k · · Score: 4, Insightful

    Blaming corporate culture is bullshit because most women from birth are told to not go into tech. The problem isn't graduating millions of female computer scientists and then they all get their first jobs and quit because of misogyny. They never studied tech to begin with. The problem isn't a office policy one, it's a cultural and societal problem that discourages women from pursuing careers in tech from about the age of three when they're given their first barbie doll.

    1. Re:Bullshit. by __aaltlg1547 · · Score: 5, Interesting

      But these 716 women who had made it past all that shit and were working in the tech sector found that once you get there, it sucks to be in a job where you're treated poorly because you're a woman, or you feel isolated because everybody else is a guy.

      There are exceptions. My sister is a successful electronics engineer. But she works in a big company where she's not the only woman. She might have left the industry too if she had worked her first job in a smaller company where it was all men except her.

    2. Re:Bullshit. by itzly · · Score: 1

      Also, when given equal chances and opportunities, men and women simply have different interests. Here's a Norwegian documentary about this: https://www.youtube.com/watch?...

    3. Re:Bullshit. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 4, Interesting

      And yet we expect men to put up with that in female dominated professions. Teaching is just absolutely miserable for men, most teachers are women and you get the constant suspicion that your a pedophile if you take too much interest in the girls and you're a misogynist if you take too little interest in the girls. There's the feminist indoctrination that's couched as educational materials on things like sexual violence.

      I like teaching, but the profession barely tolerates men.

      Here's a hint, perhaps rather than obsessing over why women don't hold as many jobs in an area, perhaps we ought to realize that they are overrepresented in other areas and that if that isn't a problem, then underrepresentation shouldn't be either.

    4. Re:Bullshit. by Livius · · Score: 3, Interesting

      Why they left matters. Consider:

      Specific issues include a lack of maternity policies in small companies, low pay which barely covers day care, "jokes" from male coworkers, and always feeling like the "odd duck."

      The first two are contractual terms they freely agreed to, the third is illegal, and the fourth is inside the person's head, not the environment.

      I don't doubt that there are cases of actual sexism, and they should be investigated and addressed, and maybe this anecdotal evidence by one Forbes.com writer with no clue about research methodology is something to start with. But it's not clear that the women interviewed were any more objective about their career or their former employer than any other disgruntled ex-employee.

    5. Re:Bullshit. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 4, Informative

      This is now mostly just sour grapes on the part of women. I should know, I'm a woman who went into tech almost 40 years ago. Things have improved so vastly over those years that it's become clear to me that we women are the ones holding ourselves back now.

      Why do I say this? Because it seems like all we're doing is complaining these days. We even ridicule our own kind just as much as the men apparently do. Hell, I still get exasperated looks from younger women who can't believe I would get a job with computers... and not because they're worried about sexism. I even get dirty looks from girls who think that me joking around with men diminishes me, without even realizing that I've just met the men halfway, and they've responded in turn to accommodate me (no one ever seems to care about that part of the equation).

      No, the real problem is that not enough women are willing to get tech jobs. If you want to change a culture you have to change the culture, not wait for it to change for you. Men and companies have played a tremendous part in changing themselves over the years, and now it's time for women to stop blaming others and pick up the slack themselves. Come on sisters, some of us have been fighting this fight for decades. Time to join Rosie in numbers, or just drop the charade that we would, if only we could.

      Girls in tech, if you think you have it bad, think about all the crap I went through back in the day in addition to what you're dealing with. And I'm not exactly the most tomboyish adrenaline junkie out there, I'm just a gal who looked past societal gender roles and decided that I'd like a decent wage working with computers, because they were actually pretty interesting. If I can do it, so can you. If you don't want to "suffer" the lowest levels of sexism in the field to date (and lots of other male-dominated fields) that's fine, but don't just pretend it's someone else's fault that the field isn't changing as quickly as you'd like it to.

    6. Re:Bullshit. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      You are correct about the first three.

      The third is not always in the person's head....if you are the different one in a culture (academic, corporate or otherwise ) you may be treated differently and thus there can be signifigant extenal and internal factors at play in "feeling like the odd duck".

      Yes I have seen it happen as well as had it happen to me. I didn't feel like the odd duck but I was treated like one because of my differences until my similarities and their comfort levels overcame the external odd duck behaviour.

    7. Re:Bullshit. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Thank you for speaking up. We need to hear these things to restore some balance to this discussion.

    8. Re:Bullshit. by ShanghaiBill · · Score: 5, Interesting

      Blaming corporate culture is bullshit because most women from birth are told to not go into tech.

      This is nonsense. I see the exact opposite. Parents and schools try to push the girls into tech, and it is the girls themselves that are uninterested. I coach a Mindstorms robotic team at an elementary school. We work hard to recruit girls, but only get a few. We get way more boys applying than the classroom can accommodate. So boys are turned away, girls are not. Then when I talk to the parents, the parents of the girls say they had to cajole and convince the girls to participate. The parents of the boys say the opposite, that it was the enthusiastic boy badgering them to let him join. We do everything we can to recruit girls, and make them feel comfortable so they stay on board. We have a geek woman as a co-coach, so they have a role mode. We let them work in an all-girl group, which they prefer. Yet they still drop off the team to go try out for the school play. It is frustrating, and I don't know what else we can do. I have heard several of their parents express similar frustrations.

    9. Re:Bullshit. by itzly · · Score: 3, Insightful

      But why is it really frustrating ? I don't see the same kind of frustration when people are dealing with getting more women in sewer cleaning jobs, or more men in nursing/teaching/child care. What is the problem with different people have different interests in life ?

    10. Re:Bullshit. by Livius · · Score: 4, Insightful

      Being treated 'like the "odd duck."' is a legitimate grievance, but it's a completely different issue from 'feeling like the "odd duck."'

    11. Re:Bullshit. by Loki_1929 · · Score: 1

      But these 716 women who had made it past all that shit and were working in the tech sector found that once you get there, it sucks to be in a job where you're treated poorly because you're a woman, or you feel isolated because everybody else is a guy.

      There are exceptions. My sister is a successful electronics engineer. But she works in a big company where she's not the only woman. She might have left the industry too if she had worked her first job in a smaller company where it was all men except her.

      So.... the problem is still in the pipeline? If suddenly, tomorrow, there were twice as many women as men in the tech pipeline and that continued for a decade, which of the things these 716 women identified as problems in the industry would continue? Being the only woman? Rarely. Being treated poorly because you're a woman? Unlikely when more of them are working there. Your sister is actually the counter-example to the Forbes article: put more women into play and suddenly the culture is no longer an issue.

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      -- "Government is the great fiction through which everybody endeavors to live at the expense of everybody else."
    12. Re:Bullshit. by narcc · · Score: 1

      Says the AC mysteriously repeating MRA talking points...

    13. Re:Bullshit. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      There are plenty of unpleasant people out there. Some employers will tolerate such people, to the misfortune of their other employees.

      If you've worked at one place and found yourself working with unpleasant people, especially if it is a relatively small place, leaving the industry is an overreaction. At least try a couple of employers before you give up on the industry.

      That said, I have a degree in computer science and 27 years experience in the industry. I know a lot of programmers who have left the field for other work. Just because you enjoyed writing code in school (or on your own in your parents' basement) does not mean that you will enjoy doing it for a living. Programming in the corporate world is, very often, far different from school and not everyone will care for that environment.

      I'm not certain why they talked about small companies not providing day care. I've worked for a variety of companies, from 6-person to multinational. None of them provided daycare. If you want to have kids, figure out what it costs and deal with it (no offence intended, but I'm really tired of these "oh I've had a kid and I cannot afford to raise it so please, taxpayers, bail me out" stories).

    14. Re:Bullshit. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Blaming corporate culture is bullshit because most women from birth are told to not go into tech. The problem isn't graduating millions of female computer scientists and then they all get their first jobs and quit because of misogyny. They never studied tech to begin with. The problem isn't a office policy one, it's a cultural and societal problem that discourages women from pursuing careers in tech from about the age of three when they're given their first barbie doll.

      Have you ever considered that girls CHOOSE the Barbie doll?

      I raised my daughter as gender neutral as possible until about 6. I offered her choices in toys, mixed gender television and movies, introduced her to activities typically favored by each gender, and so on. By age 6, however, by her own choosing, she had already picked barbies over cars, fairies over dinosaurs, and dancing over sports. About the only exception to this is that she doesn't like the color pink (green is her favorite, not exactly a manly color either).

      So from six or so on, I realized she was set in her ways and basically said "fuck it" and just let her choose girly things without focusing on being neutral. Perhaps girls will be girls after all.

    15. Re:Bullshit. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      It is indeed, but mostly because engineers need real, hard skills. With women graduating less than 5% of the courses of study that feed into engineering jobs in HW/SW, it's no wonder that the gender balance is so skewed in industry. All the problems enumerated by the author make things worse not better, but if you have a high dropout rate out of the 5% and you fix it, you still end up with 5%.

    16. Re:Bullshit. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      From my personal experience, tech workers are treated poorly, period. Doesn't matter so much what your gender is, the atmosphere in the industry sucks for almost everyone.

    17. Re:Bullshit. by ganjadude · · Score: 1

      or is it perhaps they felt like their shit dont stink and want to be treated different?

      before modding me down here me out. I was making this argument earlier on buzzfeed on a slightly different topic (internet trolls harassing women)

      How many of you guys here have been on the net for 10 + years???

      Of you guys how many have been told to go kill yourself? or that your a faggot? or that you suck at life and your mom should have aborted you??

      I would wager every last one of you would raise your hands. so whats the difference here? Is it just because more women are getting into it so they see it and are just more vocal than guys are? is it because they want the attention?

      Im not saying there is not a real problem, I just think the problem is no wheres near as big as its made out to be, and as i said im sure if you compare things guys say to each other, they are not much better than what is said to women

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    18. Re:Bullshit. by ganjadude · · Score: 1

      are you a male teacher? if not shut up because he is correct

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    19. Re:Bullshit. by Kojiro+Ganryu+Sasaki · · Score: 2

      But what the schools are doing isn't necessary what the culture at large is doing.

      You'll have to look beyond school. What is media telling men and women about IT?

    20. Re:Bullshit. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Yes.

    21. Re:Bullshit. by Roachgod · · Score: 1

      A quick bit of googling finds that there are women in the MRA movement, and they are even leaders.

    22. Re:Bullshit. by Zxern · · Score: 1

      It is a culture problem, just not a male vs female one. Just reading slashdot shows how much people in the tech industry enjoy talking down to others. It's not a male vs female issue, its a I'm smarter than you are therefore I call you whatever I want to. The difference is that when you do this to women they take it personally and feel you're only doing that because she's a woman.

    23. Re:Bullshit. by Zxern · · Score: 2

      The same thing it's been telling people for decades. While it may be "cool" and ok to be a geek, you're still basically a social outcast to the rest of the world.

    24. Re:Bullshit. by ganjadude · · Score: 1

      thank you! thats what ive been trying to say

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    25. Re:Bullshit. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I'm in this for genuine equality, not just for my own gender. That said, it's plain to see that women are still the ones who need the attention here. I definitely don't agree with most of what comes out of the MRA, nor other organizations on the flip side of what passes as "the debate" here. Still, I understand that it's easier to casually dismiss someone by labeling them in vaguely negative-sounding ways, so go right ahead. It doesn't take a genius to see that people are angry about this to the point of being intellectually bankrupted by it. I've been there myself.

      In fact I'm perfectly ok with being treated like an "Uncle Tom" by people who don't even understand what that term means. If others want to be miserable I won't stop them, but I'm genuinely thrilled to have lived in a society where these issues aren't just known, but are being dealt with. I've seen that fight being fought my whole life. Constantly pretending everything is still just as awful as it was has never made things better. It's a combination of being positive about the good and negative about the bad that causes progress. If you don't understand that, you will some day. In the meantime, enjoy pretending you're better than I am.

    26. Re:Bullshit. by Jiro · · Score: 1

      "Low pay which barely covers day care" is misleading, anyway. This doesn't say that the pay is lower than that of men--it just says that the pay is low. Pay being low is a problem that everyone has; the fact that women have different things to spend it on is irrelevant. It's by no means a women's problem. This is like complaining that outsourcing to India is a problem because women whose jobs are outsourced to India have a hard time paying for daycare.

      (Indeed, raising women's pay because they spend more on day care than men would be illegal as reverse discrimination anyway).

      TFA also has other oddities. For instance, "Literally 28 of the 30 people in our company were white, straight men under 35. I was the only woman. I was one of only two gay people. I was the only person of color other than one guy from Japan." Uh-huh. One Asian person out of 30 in your company. Very typical.

    27. Re:Bullshit. by ShanghaiBill · · Score: 1

      You'll have to look beyond school. What is media telling men and women about IT?

      Not many third graders pay attention to "the media". Why didn't the media keep women from becoming doctors, lawyers, police officers, and soldiers? Why is it ONLY with professions that involve solitary interaction with inanimate machines, that women suddenly turn into delicate snowflakes and collapse in the face of the slightest, almost undetectable, pressure from "the media"?

      I am not buying this crap about it being "society's fault". We even tried to get girls interested in tech earlier, by doing robot demos to the kindergartners, and having the older girls do the demo. It made NO difference. You could see it in their eyes when we did the demo. The boys looked at the robots. The girls looked at the faces of the demonstrators. You could also see it in their questions. The girls would ask "What else can it do?" The boys would ask "How does it work?" and "Can I try it?" When offered a chance to run the controller, all the boys raise their hands, with far fewer girls. It is not just that the boys are more assertive. If you ask "Who wants to feed the guinea pig?", the girls are happy to volunteer.

    28. Re:Bullshit. by dibdublin · · Score: 0

      "...and you get the constant suspicion that your a pedophile”

      That constant suspicion doesn’t last for very long. Here in the real world, men that are accused of pedophilia end up dead, missing or thrown into prison and pulverized by the resident prisoners. All it takes is one accusation of being a pedophile, and you’re dead, that’s it.

    29. Re:Bullshit. by canadian_right · · Score: 1

      What I got from this story is that the USA has terrible labour laws, and that some small companies have very low levels of diversity among their employees. From an outsiders point of view the USA has a very strange culture that puts companies and the abstract idea of the "free market" on pedestals while doing the bare minimum to help out regular people.

      The USA is the last 1st world country to implement universal health-care, and you did it in the most strangely bone-headed manner that guarantees that large insurance companies continue to profit from human suffering. Single-payer is cheaper, more efficient, and proven to work. The USA is the only 1st world country without federally mandated annual vacation time for full-time workers. Your so called "right to work" laws are just union busting, and your politicians take great glee in taxing the middle class, berating the poor, and handing out tax breaks and other largess to the rich and hug companies. And your middle class keeps on voting for these clowns.

      The USA is no longer a model of freedom, human rights,or progressive policies. I hope one day the electorate comes to its senses and starts voting for people who want to pass laws and policies that help people - not profit.

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    30. Re:Bullshit. by ShanghaiBill · · Score: 2

      But why is it really frustrating?

      Because I want to see flying cars, robotic maids, and real AI, in my lifetime. The chance of that happening is a lot lower if we waste half of humanity's brain power. If there is something we can do to get more girls interested in science and tech, then we should at least try to do it.

      I don't see the same kind of frustration when people are dealing with getting more women in sewer cleaning jobs, or more men in nursing/teaching/child care.

      Unlike engineers, sewer cleaners and nurses don't change the world. Teachers do, and there actually is an effort to get men, and especially black men, more interested in early childhood education. Boys, and especially black boys, do better if they have a strong male role model early in their life, especially when the role model is missing at home.

    31. Re:Bullshit. by Oligonicella · · Score: 1

      Yes what and who are you? You're not the target of the comment, you're an AC.

    32. Re:Bullshit. by Oligonicella · · Score: 0

      The media is telling every constantly that females are just as capable. Many of the controllers and geeks in movies and TV are women. You're merely posing the question, but if you look into it, "the media" isn't pressuring women to avoid IT at all.

    33. Re:Bullshit. by Oligonicella · · Score: 1

      Presumption, and a bad one. First, we're not 'wasting' half of humanity's brain power. You couldn't prove that if you tried. Second, we *are* trying - hard. Workshops, conventions, awards, grants, etc, etc, etc. They're not interested. You said so yourself.

      If self-selection directs the most competent and driven into a finite number of jobs, that is the best solution. If we pressure the hiring of those less so, that is an inferior solution.

      As for nurses not changing the world, I present Florence.

    34. Re:Bullshit. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 2, Informative

      Despite caring being perceived as a normal and natural expression of one’s humanity as a complete person, whether as male or female, “men are viewed as sexualised in predatory ways in our culture” (King, 1998, p. 76). For example, one expression of care, notably hugging, is regarded ambivalently in the wider society: “Society allows men to hug children at home. But outside of home, men don’t hug children or other men. They hug women” (King, 1998, p. 79). This ambivalent attitude toward men expressing care in physical ways (hugging, hand holding, permitting a person to sit on their lap) means that men who choose to work in elementary classroom contexts with children are monitored. Male teachers seen by others as performing atypical gender-identified behavior for men are marginalized and treated with suspicion (King, 1998).

      Source: Hanson, P., & Mulholland, J. A. (2005). Caring and Elementary Teaching: The Concerns of Male Beginning Teachers.

      In this study, the author used ethnographic and focus group interviews to examine the lived experiences of men who teach in the primary grades. Several themes arose from the men's narratives. First, the men are under closer scrutiny than their women peers regarding contact with the children. Second, there is considerable ambiguity regarding the kind of “male role model” the men feel they are expected to portray. Third, there is a sexual division of labor that reinforces the image of men as having different teaching styles than women teachers. In response to the cumulative effects of these phenomena, the men must adopt compensatory behaviors causing them to unintentionally reproduce traditional forms of masculinity.

      Source: Sargent, P. (2000). Real Men or Real Teachers? Contradictions in the Lives of Men Elementary Teachers.

      One of the common reasons given for this, including within the Male Teachers' Strategy, is that many men have a fear of false paedophilia accusations. The response of Education Queensland is to suggest setting up a support framework for teachers who are accused of sexual misconduct. While false claims of sexual abuse are devastating to those accused, there is little in this strategy that will help to develop challenging attitudes to the creation of this fear. The fear is most pervasive when men move in to non-masculinized areas of the curriculum and/or schooling sector. For example, when men move into early childhood their motives are often questioned (King, 2000, p. 9; see also Murray, 1996; Smedley, 1998; Sumsion, 1999). Such work is constructed within patriarchal societies as women's work and is devalued. The consequence of this is that men who want to teach young children risk being positioned as deviant, abnormal or lacking. That is, they are at risk of being seen as gay, 'effeminate' or a paedophile.

      The risk that men pose to children in early childcare, and other educational settings, however, is an important topic that should not be trivialized (see Skelton, 1994; Cameron et al., 1999, chapter 7). There has been a significant amount of feminist political work carried out to get the issue of child sexual abuse on to the political agenda (see, for example, Kelly, 1988; Scutt, 1990; Segal, 1990). This work has seen the development of a number of institutions and legislation designed to protect children-in Queensland the Child Protection Act 1999 is one such law. It would be unfortunateif much of this work was undone in an attempt to attract more male teachers into the system. Rather, what is needed is not so much greater protection for men accused of sexual abuse of students, but rather a more thoughtful response. This would acknowledge that particular men, practising specific masculinities

    35. Re:Bullshit. by Mashiki · · Score: 1

      So the best response you have to someone saying you don't like is "in just about every group of bigots there are token uncle toms" well I guess that makes it easy to see who the bigot really is. After all "if it doesn't fit your view point of the world, it's wrong."

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    36. Re:Bullshit. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      You should feel pretty ashamed that you couldn't say something that simple.

    37. Re:Bullshit. by werepants · · Score: 1

      You are full of shit. I worked as a teacher and encountered precisely zero of that - maybe you are a creepy asshole and that's why people think you are a pedophile or a misogynist. I also have numerous teaching friends that have had no problems like what you describe.

    38. Re:Bullshit. by XopherMV · · Score: 1

      But why is it really frustrating?

      Because I want to see flying cars, robotic maids, and real AI, in my lifetime. The chance of that happening is a lot lower if we waste half of humanity's brain power. If there is something we can do to get more girls interested in science and tech, then we should at least try to do it.

      Sorry, if end goal is to turn out engineers, then I don't see the logic in pushing uninterested girls to become interested when we're turning away boys who are already interested. From my experience, the kids that do best in any field are the ones most interested in that field. If you really want to see all those technological marvels, then we should be focusing effort on the kids with the interest, motivation, and drive to learn the topic. Let's focus on the kids who are interested regardless of their gender.

    39. Re:Bullshit. by AmiMoJo · · Score: 2

      The lack of men in teaching is a recognized and serious problem, especially at primary school level. Aside from being unfair to men, it also harms the development of the children. If it isn't a problem where you live then that in itself is a big deal, but I think most places recognize this issue now.

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    40. Re:Bullshit. by AmiMoJo · · Score: 1

      The first two are contractual terms they freely agreed to

      The reason we have employment law is that contracts of employment are usually not freely entered in to. Everyone needs a job, and it's rare to get one where you can dictate the terms. That's why we have things like maximum working hours, minimum wage, health and safety that can't be "freely" opted out of by contract etc.

      Maternity and reasonable pay/child care costs are actually really important for all of us. As more women work they are less able to have children with these problems. In Japan you can see the end result, where the fertility rate is dangerously low. More over we want to encourage those most able to support and nurture children to have them, and to do a good job of bringing them up to create the next generation. If the most capable and intelligence find it hard to have kids, or are forced to bring them up in poverty, that isn't good for anyone. In 30 years time I want there to be plenty of highly trained people to look after my health and pay taxes.

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    41. Re:Bullshit. by XopherMV · · Score: 1

      You'll have to look beyond school. What is media telling men and women about IT?

      Not many third graders pay attention to "the media". Why didn't the media keep women from becoming doctors, lawyers, police officers, and soldiers? Why is it ONLY with professions that involve solitary interaction with inanimate machines, that women suddenly turn into delicate snowflakes and collapse in the face of the slightest, almost undetectable, pressure from "the media"?

      Exactly. Why are auto mechanics overwhelmingly male? It's the same damn reason. Most women aren't interested in working alone with machines. If women were interested in this work, then they'd already be doing this work.

      Whenever I see articles like this, I keep getting the feeling that we're trying to hammer square pegs into round holes. Then we sit and wonder why we see a problem.

    42. Re:Bullshit. by stephanruby · · Score: 1

      But these 716 women who had made it past all that shit and were working in the tech sector found that once you get there, it sucks to be in a job where you're treated poorly because you're a woman, or you feel isolated because everybody else is a guy.

      Millions of men could say something similar about the sector. Not everybody is cut out to be in IT, or to be a developer. Also, the time commitment can be huge (unless you're one of the few lucky ones). It's also very difficult for men to maintain a normal relationship, let alone, raise a family, with the kind of performance they're expected to maintain at work.

      That is why. Those 716 women are not alone. Countless men have called it quits in those types of jobs, and moved on to other jobs that are more administrative or managerial in nature.

    43. Re:Bullshit. by narcc · · Score: 1

      After all "if it doesn't fit your view point of the world, it's wrong."

      That's one way for you to justify your bigotry. Surely, your opinion that women/blacks/Jews/whoever are inferior is just as valid as my opinion that they're equals.

      After all, you have a few token members of your particular hated minority that agree with your particular brand of insanity, so you couldn't possibly be bigoted!

    44. Re:Bullshit. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      No it's not. You can feel like the odd duck without external factors but when external factors are also added in then you can be both treated like the odd duck and feel like the odd duck.

        If you have been treated like the odd duck but have learned to overcome the treatment then you are unlikley to feel like the odd duck. But if you are not used to being treated like the odd duck and have not learned to overcome the treatment you can soon be feeling like the odd duck because of how you are being treated.

      If it was mostly or all internal factors and you are feeling like an odd duck then you need to get out of your own problem ;-) which is the issue you want to claim is totally different.

      Oh and it's often enough that there are both signifigant internal and signifigant external factors that make women feel like the odd duck in certain academic and career paths.

    45. Re:Bullshit. by reanjr · · Score: 1

      Any job where you are treated poorly sucks. That's when you find a new job. In my 12 years in this industry I've never been in an environment where women were treated differently in any significant manner.

      Now isolation is a concern, but in this industry that applies to blacks and Hispanics way more than women. I feel isolated at companies that want me to be friends with all my coworkers. I don't blame the company, or its hiring policies, or the gregarious people who work there. I blame bad luck at being in a sub-optimal situation, and rely on myself to fix it. At some point, it's up to the individual to get over their own issues.

    46. Re:Bullshit. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I don't think you even understand what the word "bigot" means, do you? Somebody can fight for the cause of equality while realizing that women have to do their part, and that men (and women) have done a lot to get us this far. That isn't bigotry.

      Bigotry is seeing yourself as unquestionably correct, and thus others as unquestionably incorrect. Which seems to be what you're being, not the people you're speaking with. Apparently they're automatically members of a group you disagree with, insane, and hate women, just because they didn't immediately align themselves with your beliefs. No research required, and yet somehow THEY'RE the bigots.

    47. Re:Bullshit. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      You're full of shit as a Christmas turkey and you're the problem.

      Fuck you.

      The OP isn't entirely wrong.
      Male teachers do fine in high school, but in elementary school it's pretty much as stated. I cannot speak from personal experience, but I have two close relatives, both female elementary school teachers, and they told me some time ago pretty much what the OP said.

    48. Re:Bullshit. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      It's the codenamed elementary and pre-school teachers, it's been said elsewhere in this thread, but those botched are as sexist and vile as they come. If your average feminist believes everyman is a potential rapist then any man who cares for his children is a potential pedophile and that's just the ten yard line. Legos, Barbie, Diego, Dora, transformers, etc. There are many, many vested interests, but never forget that it's your heart and soul they attack when you care for your little ones.

    49. Re:Bullshit. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Amen to that, brother! When we go to the hardware store, my toddler son gets really excited and wants to know the name of every tool he sees, while his kindergartener older sister just likes the fact that it's shopping.

      My daughter has a friend who is so obsessed with garbage trucks that he has memorized the ones in our city by the numbers painted on them. Meanwhile she likes to assign them family positions (dad, mom, sister, brother) based on their size.

      My daughter is always getting into trouble by digging through clothes to try on, while my son is always getting into trouble by taking things apart.

      Nobody teaches them this shit, it's just the way they naturally are. I would like any job my children choose to be welcoming to them, but I would not be surprised in the least if my daughter becomes a fashion designer and my son becomes an engineer.
      dom

    50. Re:Bullshit. by serviscope_minor · · Score: 1

      And yet we expect men to put up with that in female dominated professions.

      Ah the old "it's worse in North Korea" argument. A clue: it's bullshit. Juts because it's crap elsewhere is not an excuse to leave it crap here.

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    51. Re:Bullshit. by serviscope_minor · · Score: 2

      This is nonsense. I see the exact opposite.

      Then, frankly, you are blind as a fucking bat.

      Yes there are already all these initiaves and they always meet with limited success. Must be girls, eh, right?

      Well, answer this for me:

      A few months ago my 4 year old neice declared that "girls can't do physics". Her dad's a physicist and clearly is not the source of the bias (her mum is not either). Certainly none of her family on my side are. And she's 4: she doesn't even know what physics is! Where did it come from?

      You can have all the robotics competitions you like for girls in school. If girls of 4 are being indoctrinated that they cannot do something then it's already too late by the time those competitions arrive.

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    52. Re:Bullshit. by roman_mir · · Score: 1

      Wait, WHAT??? You want technological progress but to achieve it you reject people who are naturally interested to attempt and lure in those who are not? What are your REAL priorities, because they are not what you are saying they are?

    53. Re:Bullshit. by __aaltlg1547 · · Score: 1

      We were talking about the WORKPLACE.

    54. Re:Bullshit. by __aaltlg1547 · · Score: 1

      In light of there being a general pattern of women being paid less than men for the same jobs and being passed up for promotion in favor of men, it may be more of a problem for women than for men.

    55. Re:Bullshit. by __aaltlg1547 · · Score: 1

      What? We don't need none of your European Socialism over here, buddy.

      Honestly, it's a fact people that promote more worker-friendly policies and the government stepping in to make people less dependent on employers are accused (and yes that's the right word) of supporting European Socialism -- as if that were a BAD thing.

    56. Re:Bullshit. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Indeed. I'm an INTP working with a bunch of ENTJs. talk about feeling like the odd duck out. but it's *my* issue, not theirs.

    57. Re:Bullshit. by russotto · · Score: 2

      But if you were an ENTJ working with a bunch of INTPs, you'd say it was their issue, not yours.

    58. Re:Bullshit. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      its a I'm smarter than you are therefore I call you whatever I want to

      Reminds me of something I read in this article - the bit about Ego resonates especially well with this sentiment.

  6. Mixed by Midnight+Thunder · · Score: 1

    Small companies often have barely enough to pay employees that are present. To be paying for employees on leave is something else, male or female. I recently had to take leave and if it wasn't for my insurance I wouldn't have gotten a dime. At the same time all the tech companies I have worked at treated everyone fairly and had policies about 'poisoned workplace'. Sure there are people who have discriminatory attitude, but in a healthy work place they shouldn't be staying long.

    As for pay I don't know enough about the realities and individual cases to know the truth. What I do know is companies will often give you a pay that you negotiated, which may be worse than you are worth. A good company will try give up something fair knowing that unfair salary if it becomes knowledge hurts them more. My current company makes it a fireable offence to talk salary. Other companies I have worked for have a ladder according to position.

    Good colleagues come in many shapes, form, sexuality, culture and variations of gended, just as do the bad colleagues. We all screw up sometimes, but we should endeavour to treat each other fairly and with respect.

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    1. Re:Mixed by __aaltlg1547 · · Score: 1

      Small companies often have barely enough to pay employees that are present. To be paying for employees on leave is something else, male or female. I recently had to take leave and if it wasn't for my insurance I wouldn't have gotten a dime. At the same time all the tech companies I have worked at treated everyone fairly and had policies about 'poisoned workplace'. Sure there are people who have discriminatory attitude, but in a healthy work place they shouldn't be staying long.

      As for pay I don't know enough about the realities and individual cases to know the truth. What I do know is companies will often give you a pay that you negotiated, which may be worse than you are worth. A good company will try give up something fair knowing that unfair salary if it becomes knowledge hurts them more. My current company makes it a fireable offence to talk salary. Other companies I have worked for have a ladder according to position.

      Good colleagues come in many shapes, form, sexuality, culture and variations of gended, just as do the bad colleagues. We all screw up sometimes, but we should endeavour to treat each other fairly and with respect.

      If your current company that makes it a fireable offense is in the USA, and I assume it is because your use of English seems American, it's breaking US employment law. Only managerial employees can be restricted in how they talk about pay.

    2. Re:Mixed by Bigbutt · · Score: 0

      When I commented that I had received a raise and the company found out about it, the raise was rescinded. Others in the group didn't get a raise and were upset. There are other ways of dealing with folks who flap their lips as I discovered.

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    3. Re:Mixed by Midnight+Thunder · · Score: 0

      If your current company that makes it a fireable offense is in the USA, and I assume it is because your use of English seems American, it's breaking US employment law. Only managerial employees can be restricted in how they talk about pay.

      It is American, but the offices where I am at are located in Canada. Either way, even if it is against the law, I am not sure I want to chance it until I leave the company.

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    4. Re:Mixed by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      IANAL, but I'm pretty sure you could sue the fuck out of them if they did that. It comes in to using blackmail and intimidation to bypass laws. If anything, it'd probably get hit under RICO.

    5. Re:Mixed by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Responding to myself, actually, if they did rescind a raise after you talked about it, then yes, it was definitely illegal. It comes in to retaliation laws. If a company is participating in something illegal, and you bring light to it. and then they punish you for it, it's called retaliation, and is HUGELY illegal. It's usually used in the area sexual harassment and the like, but can go to any illegal practice the company is involved in. If you had a spine, you'd let them know you'll be suing them for all lost wages.

    6. Re:Mixed by stephanruby · · Score: 1

      Small companies often have barely enough to pay employees that are present. To be paying for employees on leave is something else, male or female.

      Some European countries deal with maternity/paternity leave at the government level. This way, even if your start-up has three employees, and if one goes on leave, it's the government that pays the 80% of his/her salary. The same goes for child care. Child care is heavily subsidized at the government level.

      Of course, this increases the tax-burden on everyone, but this makes maternity/paternity leave much more feasible for even small startups where a long maternity leave could make or break the company, and would therefore could lead to drastically different hiring decisions.

    7. Re:Mixed by Bigbutt · · Score: 1

      It's been a while and I simply quit, taking a better job at Johns Hopkins APL. Longer commute and a stepping stone to an even better job at NASA.

      [John]

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    8. Re:Mixed by __aaltlg1547 · · Score: 1

      That is retaliation for a legally protected act and it's also against the law.

  7. In surprising outcome by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

    People who leave the tech industry after already having finished school tend to leave because of issues in the industry, rather than issues in school.

    In other news, people who leave the Olympics without medals usually fail to win medals because of their performance at the Olympics, rather than during earlier competitions.

    This is completely non-news and in no way contradicts the Code.org story. The author is bad and should feel bad.

  8. Maternity Leave. by wisnoskij · · Score: 2

    So they men get maternity leave then, I guess is what you are implying.

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    1. Re:Maternity Leave. by Livius · · Score: 3, Informative

      In civilized countries they already do.

    2. Re:Maternity Leave. by wisnoskij · · Score: 1

      But in the same companies where women are refused maternity leave?

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    3. Re:Maternity Leave. by amyckono · · Score: 3, Informative

      My husband gets paternity leave, so yes, some companies are very into equality. He works for a large, global company, so maybe some of those European practices have rubbed off. It's funny because most people see the company as an evil slave-driver, but their policies are actually rather enlightened.

    4. Re:Maternity Leave. by K.+S.+Kyosuke · · Score: 1

      but their policies are actually rather enlightened

      That's because the sun never sets on global companies!

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    5. Re:Maternity Leave. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      And tell me, does he get the same amount, with the same guarantees that his position will be available to him?

      Let me answer that for you: no.

      Some enlightenment.

    6. Re:Maternity Leave. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

      Oh rly? Where is that? In Belgium I get two weeks paternity leave at 80% pay. My wife gets three months. We also both get 3 months parental leave in which the state reimburses 60% of pay. A 40% pay cut is hard to swallow when you're the higher paid half of the couple, which men usually are still. Further, your employer has to approve the parental leave, and in my case they won't.

      So where is your civilization?

    7. Re:Maternity Leave. by Mashiki · · Score: 1

      Can you point out any company in the west where this is true? After all, that would be illegal.

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    8. Re:Maternity Leave. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Calling cultural differences "uncivilized"? Chauvinist.

    9. Re:Maternity Leave. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      So in this context both Sweden and Norway would be civilized. We have a year of maternity leave and a minimum of ten weeks of paternity leave. We also have state-sponsored kindergardens and various other benefits. We also have almost no female software engineers. In my company (which is pretty progressive) we're actively recruiting females, but of the about hundred engineers/product managers we have there are only two female engineers, two female product managers, and that's it. The rest is support staff of various kinds. The women we have are smart as hell, there just are not that many of them that want to work in tech. The "bad corporate environment" hypothesis may be true in some places, but I'm pretty sure it's not true in our company/country, but the number of females is still very small.

    10. Re:Maternity Leave. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      But in the same companies where women are refused maternity leave?

      In civilized countries women and men can't be refused parental leave.

  9. Missed The Point by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    They're missing the point. Regardless if a lot of women leave the tech field, if 18% only ever go into it, you're unlikely to have more than a 18% female workforce in the tech part of your company. Attempting to get a 50/50 split when 3 women and 200 men apply for 10 jobs is impossible.

    The culture will change if more and more women enter the field and stick up for themselves instead of leaving. The first step is getting more women into the field, which means starting early. Few people want to switch into a tech field later in life.

    1. Re:Missed The Point by tylikcat · · Score: 1

      Yeah, but young women are more likely to look into careers in tech if women in their communities are in tech. (On my phone, can look up the reference later if you'd like.) So if you lose the women who are there you are also losing the women in the pipeline. Tech had to look like a reasonable option if you want to attract more than a few mavericks (like me.)

      (And I eventually went into research, though I contribute to actively contribute to the pipeline on the teaching side. And hey, if industry sounds more entertaining than research, i might switch back. The paycheck was fun but I just got so bored.)

  10. Re:Not biologically suited? How does that work? by itzly · · Score: 1

    Of course there's a biological difference. In fact, just looking at the group of men, most of them aren't going to be good at writing code.

  11. We really must blame someone? by briancox2 · · Score: 2, Interesting

    Is it not even remotely possible that it could be caused by a naturally occurring preference of one gender to enjoy the field and a preference for another field to not find the activity as fulfilling?

    You'll never see this kind of desperate hand-wringing over the lack of diversity in the nursing field for the last 100 years. But that's because we have a current sociological neurosis that says we have to force women into every field whether they want it or not. And we don't care what men do as long as they aren't getting in the way of women.

    I know that sounds intolerably cruel and snide, but I really don't mean it that way in the slightest. It's a very accurate analysis of attitudes that I see in our current culture. And if people would be honest with themselves, I think they could see that. They have justifications for that attitude. But they still have it.

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    1. Re:We really must blame someone? by amyckono · · Score: 2

      We women care less about whether men/women enjoy the field. We DO care that once we are in the field and working, that we receive equal pay, treatment, and opportunities.

    2. Re:We really must blame someone? by tylikcat · · Score: 2

      And if women were leaving because they didn't like the work, you might have a point. But that's generally not the case. It's really common for women to love tech, love coding, and get totally burnt out on a inimical work environment.

    3. Re:We really must blame someone? by Chaos+Incarnate · · Score: 2

      I'm all for equal pay, treatment, and opportunities; but the OP seems to be saying that women want unequal treatment (maternity leave, accommodations for nursing).

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    4. Re:We really must blame someone? by K.+S.+Kyosuke · · Score: 1

      Historically, women had to be treated differently because men found to have some difficulties regarding their ability to bear children. Why is that a problem? You want the mankind to die off that bad? If there's ever been a reason to treat some people differently, I don't see anything more worthy than this simple matter of biology.

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    5. Re:We really must blame someone? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      The human race is in no danger of dying off because a few western women don't get maternity leave. Stop being ridiculous.

    6. Re:We really must blame someone? by Chaos+Incarnate · · Score: 1

      Mankind isn't nearly in danger of dying out - we're still increasing the population faster than it's dying. Unless and until our population levels off, I don't see why my company should be paying women to not work.

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    7. Re:We really must blame someone? by narcc · · Score: 2

      Bad analogy time. That's like saying "I'm all for equal treatment and opportunities, but handicapped people want unequal treatment (wheelchair ramps, elevators)."

      If you want equal opportunity, you can't just sit there and pretend that everyone is the same. Different groups have different needs and face different obstacles. By refusing to make appropriate accommodations, you perpetuate inequality.

    8. Re:We really must blame someone? by K.+S.+Kyosuke · · Score: 1

      Yes, because those people growing up in poverty in Africa are going to be adequate substitutes for retiring college-educated middle-class Americans. :-p

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    9. Re:We really must blame someone? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      You can choose to not get children. Getting disability is almost never a choice.

    10. Re:We really must blame someone? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      And if women were leaving because they didn't like the work, you might have a point. But that's generally not the case. It's really common for women to love tech, love coding, and get totally burnt out on a inimical work environment.

      I don't think getting "burnt out an an inimical work environment" is unique to women.

      That being said, it depends on what one considers "inimical" doesn't it? If "inimical" means they don't cater to all your wants/needs then in a lot of ways... tough cookies, they're job is to make money, not cater to every whim of their employees.

      I'm reminded of an event at my last job... one of my coworkers (and a friend) collapsed on the floor and was taken away in an ambulance - the next day the boss called us all together, the coworker was going to be out for at least 2 weeks (doctors orders) and he (the boss) needed us to help cover his on call and some of his (the coworkers) work. I, of course, volunteered to help out. Out of 5 other people on the team, I was the only one, I covered my own work and his for the next 2 weeks. What irked me the most was that after the meeting two of my other coworkers came to me and said how it "wasn't fair" that I was stuck with both my and his work for two weeks! I mean, seriously?!? My first response was "I didn't see you volunteering, we could have split it up between us" - to which they both replied "oh, well I have kids and things to do after work" (and FYI, both of them had 2 children each, all late teens (16-18) with drivers licenses so they could get themselves around without a parent). Sorry, but that *really, really* pissed me off - I spent the next 2 weeks on call (and often on late night calls) knowing that with 5 of us we could have easily just split up the week (one night each) or something to cover his time. Before then I'd almost always been willing to cover them for 'family' things (school plays, birthdays, etc), after that I made a point of rarely, if ever, offering to take their time - in effect what they were saying was "their time" was more valuable than mine because I was single with no kids. (On the flip side, the boss was great when it came to me being late a few times those weeks because he knew I was putting in 14+hr days covering things and taking his on-call).

      Trust me, I've mostly had really good bosses who would work around schedules and be pretty flexible as long as the work got done... and then I've had a few that were total idiots and would ride your butt for everything (it doesn't matter that you worked until 2AM the night before, you weren't in until 8:15AM and that's a "problem"). The solution to that is to find a job that doesn't have that kind of environment... or, well, if you *choose* to leave the field entirely that's your choice too, but to blame "the industry" for it is ridiculous - there's good management and bad in all fields.

    11. Re:We really must blame someone? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      We're either equal or not. You can't cherry-pick differences which you prefer, or else the whole scheme is nothing but arbitarily chosen rights for parties of personal preference.

    12. Re:We really must blame someone? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      So women are essentially cripples compared to men?

    13. Re:We really must blame someone? by thesandtiger · · Score: 1

      I don't mean to sound intolerably cruel and snide, but you're too ignorant to be taking part in this discussion, and the fact that your ignorance was modded insightful says loads about the person who modded you up as well.

      There is a shortage of men in nursing (a lowish pay, low prestige field) and people are absolutely bothered by it and trying to remedy it. Just because you aren't aware of it doesn't mean it isn't a thing people are bothered by, and moreover, the arrogance you display in assuming that because you haven't heard of the issue means it doesn't exist is pathetic.

      Further, women aren't being forced into tech, we're being pushed out of it by shitlords like you who assume we have a fundamental weakness that prevents us from being as good as men in the work. Do you not think that maybe - just maybe - the fact that you do think we aren't as naturally adept as men could be might influence the way you interact with women in the field vs. how you interact with men?

      You aren't being cruel and snide, you're just ignorant and arrogant, and a fucking idiot on top of it because you're pretty clearly incapable of refraining from spouting off your factually incorrect opinion on the subject. If you would be honest with yourself, you'd see that, and you'd probably be pretty fucking ashamed of yourself.

      Who am I kidding? People of your ilk aren't capable of feeling shame because feeling shame requires the ability to admit you could be wrong.

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    14. Re:We really must blame someone? by briancox2 · · Score: 1

      My wife is a nurse. And neither of us have heard of any dedicated effort to hire men and encourage men to pursue education in the field of nursing. Do you have a link for one that has a significant exposure? Because my lack of finding any makes me believe that our culture doesn't care about the idea too much. That's all my point was.

      I graduated with an Engineering degree in 2011 from a major state university. There were groups, posters and promotions ALL over campus to encourage women to be a part of every field of STEM. I never saw a single one encouraging a man to be a nurse, psychologist or educator.

      I'm not against being educated about this interest in promoting men to be nurses. Please, help me get rid of this ignorance. Show me.

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    15. Re:We really must blame someone? by russotto · · Score: 1

      Further, women aren't being forced into tech, we're being pushed out of it by shitlords like you who assume we have a fundamental weakness that prevents us from being as good as men in the work. Do you not think that maybe - just maybe - the fact that you do think we aren't as naturally adept as men could be might influence the way you interact with women in the field vs. how you interact with men?

      Keep up the abuse, it only confirms the idea that you're not in it for equality, you're in it to use "equality" as a way of bullying men. Further, I checked the parent post and nowhere did it mention anything about women not being as naturally adept as men; it suggested that men might have more interest in the field, not more aptitude. So your bullying has no basis.

    16. Re:We really must blame someone? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Here's the thing. This article refers to evidence that your preconceptions on this issue are incorrect.

      On any other topic we would debate the evidence. We might say, well the study was flawed because X and Y, or we might say, shit, science has proved something we thought was naive and wrong. But no, with this topic, we ignore the evidence and go on from our on ax-grinding station with the exact same opinion we held before. Even the guy posting this was using it as an excuse to say, no, this *obviously* isn't right, it's actually because of some misogynist claptrap like the "having it all" myth, whatever that's supposed to be, or that women aren't biologically suited to programming (read the summary again, the poster *actually says that*, not to dispute it, but as an example of the complexity of the "intertwined issues" which allow him to ignore the simple and now proven fact that there is sexism against women in this industry and that this causes women who *did* get through the other issues to *leave the industry anyway*).

      I'll refrain from critiquing your entire post from the point of view of feminist theory, but read it back and note your own choice of words, like "forcing" women into every field (are we?) or "naturally occurring preference" (you really think we have any means to distinguish naturally occurring sociological phenomenon from culturally-determined ones?) up to the actual in-your face sexism ("we don't care what men do ..." yada yada yada feminism is sexism bullshit). Your last paragraph defies critique as it makes no logical sense at all, by the way, although calling your own analysis "very accurate" is rather narcissistic, don't you think?

    17. Re:We really must blame someone? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Oh, wow. Um, here's the thing, kids have fathers too, and the fathers benefit from not having to leave work to look after young children themselves, therefore for every woman on maternity leave there is a father not on maternity leave (I'm not talking about 3 weeks to bond, I'm talking about four years before they start school). Maternity leave is not a female requirement, it is a social requirement, because of the nature of human young. Citing this as an example of how women want better treatment than men is acting as if children are the woman's responsibility entirely, and not the man's. That, my friend, is called sexism.

    18. Re:We really must blame someone? by strikethree · · Score: 1

      You'll never see this kind of desperate hand-wringing over the lack of diversity in the nursing field for the last 100 years. But that's because we have a current sociological neurosis that says we have to force women into every field whether they want it or not.

      Not EVERY field. Just the fields that tend to pay better than average and are physically easy. For example:
      http://www.theguardian.com/mon...

      Oil rig workers tend to earn a lot but the work is physically hard. How many women do you see yelling and screaming about the even worse numbers there than for "sitting at a computer typing all day" type jobs?

      I have a daughter. She has zero technical interests at all. I have a son. He has some technical interests, but just barely. It appears to me that the majority of people just have no interest in learning anything past about the 4th to 7th grades. After examining their friends to see if what I was seeing was normal, I found out that my children are fairly representative of their peers. In fact, they do have a slight edge on their peers because most of their friends have no interest at all in the society that has been left to them. There is nothing in it for them so why try? My children are at least trying somewhat but they do not appear to be hopeful at all about their futures. :(

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    19. Re:We really must blame someone? by david_thornley · · Score: 1

      I'd suspect you don't know many nurses. There are efforts to get more men into nursing (they're not a century old, of course, it not being that long since men were expected to be doctors and women nurses). It's just that, since we're more in tune with STEM fields around here, we tend to miss such things in other fields.

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    20. Re:We really must blame someone? by briancox2 · · Score: 1

      My wife is a nurse and we actually know MANY nurses. Mostly female nurses and a handful of males. There is interest in getting more men into the field if you ask them about it. But there is no dedicated "desperately important" effort like you see to get women into IT.

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  12. Nursing. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

    Al the nurses I know make around $70 - $80K working 36 hours a week with rock'in benefits. And they do not have to put up with idiotic laydry lists of skills or the bullshit of "Americans do not have the skills so we need H1-bs"

    1. Re:Nursing. by cyber-vandal · · Score: 1

      No they just have to clean up various bodily fluids and watch people suffer and die. Nurses deserve to be treated well.

    2. Re:Nursing. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      The nurses I have met (precisely 2) told me that they frequently face situations in which they cannot provide the required care in the allotted time. Its not a matter of working overtime, its a matter of having ten patients who each require a minimum of 10 minutes of care per hour. You can't provide 100 minutes worth of care in 60 minutes by yourself.

      This causes quite a lot of stress, especially when they start feeling responsible for the consequences suffered by their patients from inadequate (or sloppy by virtue of being hurried) care.

      There are long hours on top of that, but that is true pretty much everywhere.

    3. Re:Nursing. by Kohath · · Score: 1

      Everyone who works and earns a paycheck deserves to be treated well.

    4. Re:Nursing. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      No they just have to clean up various bodily fluids and watch people suffer and die. Nurses deserve to be treated well.

      Not to mention that some of those fluids can kill you if you make a mistake cleaning them up.
      How often does a programmer die as a direct cause from making a mistake?

    5. Re: Nursing. by cyber-vandal · · Score: 1

      Agreed but the post I was responding to was implying that developers have it harder than nurses.

  13. Sexism in the workplace is a symptom by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    of a larger underlying social issue. You can't fix the symptom, even though americans seem to love band aid solutions like that. You have to fix the cause, otherwise you're playing security theatre. And sexism in society is something that's been here since society has existed. Hell, on almost half of your shit hole of a planet women are still considered property. Until you fix the broken society, you can't fix any of it's symptoms. And let's be serious here, you can't even reliably leave your own gravity well, something that is child level of intelligence here, so the chances you hairless pig apes will be able to do something like equality between the sexes is laughable, at best.

    1. Re:Sexism in the workplace is a symptom by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      If you think you're a sexist, work on it yourself. Don't blame others, and don't try to impose fixes for your shortcomings on the rest of us.

  14. Maternity Leave and Small Companies by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 3, Interesting

    Specific issues include a lack of maternity policies in small companies

    Greetings from Silicon Valley where I've worked at five startups. In one of them, with about 25 employees, our female Director of Marketing started her several month maternity leave two months before we shipped our first product. This left a huge hole and being a startup, no new person was hired and all the existing management was required to chip in to get her job done. In the engineering department this was especially a touchy subject and needless to say, when she came back from leave she was not welcome in the engineering part of the building. I think startup companies and maternity leave are mutually exclusive.

    1. Re:Maternity Leave and Small Companies by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

      All of the things that the article seems to imply that women would need to work in "tech" are things that men do not enjoy. These companies - particularly startups - do not leave much time for them to be boyfriends, husbands, fathers, or anything else remotely domestic or approachable. Sure, it's not quite the same thing when you've got to haul around the little one in your uterus for ~9 months, but the general point still applies.

      If women are leaving in no small part due to the low pay and overwhelming demands of tech jobs (especially entry-level tech jobs), while men are staying in these jobs, then that should tell you that there IS a difference between the sexes. The women demand respect and decent pay, while the men do not.

      I'm sure we can do something positive to stop misogynistic behavior towards women once we teach men in competitive positions to stop destroying one another as well. What do you think woman-haters do when they aren't destroying the lives of women? Often times, they destroy men they see as competition.

    2. Re:Maternity Leave and Small Companies by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      who gives a shit? it's a startup. it will be out of business in a year and probably contributes nothing to society anyway.

    3. Re:Maternity Leave and Small Companies by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I'm sure the investors and employees care. From my perspective of someone who works at startups, I expect that all my coworkers have bought in 100% to build a company. If not, they should be somewhere else. Maybe the Dir of Mkt should have gone to work at some large corporation where her absence for a few months wouldn't be critical.

    4. Re:Maternity Leave and Small Companies by AmiMoJo · · Score: 2

      In that situation what would you have liked her to do? I can honestly only think of two possible options. She could get an abortion for the good of the company, or she could take less time off which might negatively affect the child's health and certainly mean she would miss out on much of its early life. Oh, well, there is a third option, which is that women of child baring age just shouldn't get jobs where they can't easily be replaced at short notice.

      Personally I think that if a company can't cope with any member of staff taking maternity leave then the company has severe problems. What if she had been hit by a bus or had a long term serious illness or something?

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    5. Re:Maternity Leave and Small Companies by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

      I think your management team at a 25 person startup was full of morons for not dealing with the situation correctly. They knew she was pregnant and did not rip the engineering department for treating her poorly upon her return. If I was your tech lead ( a position I have held on more than one project for more than a few employers) I would have ripped the department a new one for even trying to mistreat a parent returning from maternity (or paternity) leave.

    6. Re:Maternity Leave and Small Companies by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Specific issues include a lack of maternity policies in small companies

      Greetings from Silicon Valley where I've worked at five startups. In one of them, with about 25 employees, our female Director of Marketing started her several month maternity leave two months before we shipped our first product. This left a huge hole and being a startup, no new person was hired and all the existing management was required to chip in to get her job done. In the engineering department this was especially a touchy subject and needless to say, when she came back from leave she was not welcome in the engineering part of the building. I think startup companies and maternity leave are mutually exclusive.

      I was in a similar situation, except instead of maternity leave this coder was out a little over two months from a motorcycle accident.
      Yeah there was some resentment at this happening during a crunch, but when he came back he wasn't unwelcome anywhere.
      What a bunch of assholes. I bet they still have their moms do their laundry.

    7. Re:Maternity Leave and Small Companies by roman_mir · · Score: 1

      Well it will teach them, wouldn't it? Do not hire women for key positions in startup companies. And yes, in a startup there aren't enough mechanisms to cope with absentees, these are not established companies with established cash flow and product lines, these are like volatile chemical experiments that haven't been done before and can either produce something great or implode/burn fairly easily and disappear in a flash. They are not places for people that need stable incomes / benefits / maternity leaves, they are for people that take risks and put it all in.

    8. Re:Maternity Leave and Small Companies by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Op here. Have you ever worked at a startup? I wouldn't want you at mine; maybe everyone at yours would get a few months off and the schedule would slip and slip before the company closes down. The management dealt with the situation correctly, which was to focus on getting the product out the door, and the VP of Sales & Mkt had some closed door meetings with her. Our tech lead was a leader in ripping her since she let down a company full of risk takers. She went onto the black list of the VC.

    9. Re:Maternity Leave and Small Companies by AmiMoJo · · Score: 1

      So basically, if you are unlucky enough to have a womb don't expect to get a good job where people rely on you because the assumption is that you might have to go on maternity leave. Never mind that there will be at least six months warning for the company that it is going to happen, your biology means you are a second class employee.

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    10. Re:Maternity Leave and Small Companies by roman_mir · · Score: 1

      Startups do not provide "good jobs", if you are looking for a "good job" you may want to consider an established business.

      If you have a womb and are in a startup, you may want to wait with your personal life, the fact that people do not removes incentives for startup to hire women.

    11. Re:Maternity Leave and Small Companies by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Your shitty little company should have fucking planned better, no? I'm sure she said NOTHING and NO ONE noticed her smuggling that basketball around.

      You're a fucking asshole, as were the others in engineering for not welcoming her back.

      The only way it's preferential treatment is if your shitty little startup doesn't allow equal paternity leave, which I'm guessing it doesn't.

      Man up and grow a pair.

    12. Re:Maternity Leave and Small Companies by BobSutan · · Score: 1

      > In that situation what would you have liked her to do?

      How about letting employers offer benefits that they want instead of forcing them to subsidize other people's lifestyle choices? Forcing employers to give mothers time off makes no more sense than forcing employers to given people off if the get a new puppy. It's a personal choice, plain and simple.

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    13. Re:Maternity Leave and Small Companies by AmiMoJo · · Score: 1

      Employers benefit from a supply of healthy, educated and well adjusted staff. To maintain that supply we need people to have children and bring them up well. Seems like since they get some of the benefit they should contribute towards some of the cost.

      I don't mind contributing either. Even if I don't have kids myself, I'm kinda hoping there are some to look after me and pay taxes when I get old.

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  15. Most women are INSANELY good at tech... by MindPrison · · Score: 0

    ...I used to believe the opposite, until I became a teacher and noticed that Women are actually quite good with technology if the environment is right.

    When was the last time you sat in a classroom full of kids/students? Take a look around yourself, most if not all females are heavily into their smartphones, they quickly share apps and use their cellphones as it would be a natural part of their body. I've been working with computers since I was 12 years old when I even programmed my first videogame in the 80s, still - the women I've seen handling their phones, are nothing short of amazing when they solve problems with their phones, dealing with technical difficulties etc, it's almost like a science fiction movie that you just wouldn't believe would come true. Yessir, they did. Wake up and take a look around.

    Also, beware - these kids grow up now, and will take their place into science and technology workplaces, you're going to witness a revolution.

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    1. Re:Most women are INSANELY good at tech... by itzly · · Score: 4, Insightful

      Being good with tech is not the ability to play with a smart phone. It's the ability to design one.

    2. Re:Most women are INSANELY good at tech... by MindPrison · · Score: 2

      Being good with tech is not the ability to play with a smart phone. It's the ability to design one.

      Programmers are often the worst designers in the world. They understand logic and how to code, but often lack the design skills to make the code actually useful to the masses.

      The super users of a product often understand the products way better, and even use their products in ways the original designers couldn't even dream of. I've seen kids design their own apps just because they're THAT much into their smartphones.

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    3. Re:Most women are INSANELY good at tech... by itzly · · Score: 4, Informative

      There's plenty of design work at the lower levels where you don't need to know what appeals to the masses. In fact, that's going to be most of the work. Squeezing an extra 0.1 dB of sensitivity out of the RF receiver path, for instance.

    4. Re:Most women are INSANELY good at tech... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

      That's an awfully low bar to set. When I was a kid using a computer required technical knowledge, you'd have to know what commands to type in in order to make the thing do what you wanted. Before that it was punch card machines. Later when Win 3.0 came out it got a bit easier, but there was still a ton of technical knowledge necessary in order to free up enough RAM to get things to run.

      It's rather ridiculous of you to suggest that the ability to use apps that were designed for people with no technical knowledge as evidence that women are good with technology. The evidence that women are good with technology would be female sys admins and computer scientists.

    5. Re:Most women are INSANELY good at tech... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Actually, I have a theory -- and it's a revolution, just not a positive one.

      There is an amateur study done on Internet access and women in computer science: http://blog.bethcodes.com/is-t...

      It shows that access to the Internet tends to decrease the ratio of women to men enrolling in computer science. Your post also helps prove my point (which I have yet to make). Women are very good at using technology, they are all over social media and various reports have stated that there are more women gaming today than men? Great right?

      Not really. These are all distractions to a good education. It has affected both men and women. It's not that our schools have gotten so much worse over the last few decades (they have gotten worse however) but it is that there are way too many distractions both socially and technologically for people these days -- particularly young people and particularly young women.

      Even when video games were a big deal in the 80's women were largely excluded -- and this ended up being a positive for them because they weren't wasting time pressing buttons and were instead focused on their education. Now we pat each other on the back for dragging women equally into this unproductive, time-wasting quagmire we call being a young male.

      When I was young, I was cut off from my friends (and enemies) whenever I wasn't in the halls in school or on the playground. The rest of the time I was in class, at home, or (later) at work. In the summers sometimes I'd go months with no contact with the very people I'd see everyday during the school-year. Yeah, you could write someone a letter or make a phone call (on the one phone in the living room) but that pales next to what our smartphones let us do. We had time to ourselves. Time where maybe we would think, "I wonder if they're talking about me?" But we wouldn't know, so we got on with life. Now people obsess over this, maintaining the image you wish to project to the world consumes your entire day and year. It's not healthy and we suffer emotionally and intellectually.

      I could probably keep going on with this and I know I'm not proving anything, but until I see something better (and I haven't) I really do feel that many women (and many, many men) are simply wasting more time on technology than they used to and they are not able to devote the time and energy that a good education in the STEM fields require.

      And the revolution we will witness (and are witnessing) is indeed something to beware. Unqualified workers kicked along by a lazy education system where the overall competency curve continues to drop due to our continually decreasing attention span. These are idiot savants, not well-rounded individuals.

    6. Re:Most women are INSANELY good at tech... by MindPrison · · Score: 1

      Actually, I have a theory -- and it's a revolution, just not a positive one.

      You have many valid points there.

      However, I'd still like to challenge the belief that the technology of today is creating noise rather than giving people the focus and energy they need to concentrate on good education. You have to see these devices as a PART of their education.

      Their smartphones, iPads, Android-tables etc. are like carrying around huge stacks of books with all the information they could possibly fit in their heads, the more information you have at hand - the more material you have for making better design decisions rather than book-smarts from the past and gone times.

      I can however agree that constantly using smartphones during classes when they're supposed to focus on what the teacher say etc. can create noise and take away their focus from the current lessons. We're already onto that at our schools and we plan to forbid the use of Cellphones during lessons. However, iPads will be available to them during self study.

      My impression (and you have to understand that I come from a life as a service tech, designer AND a teacher) of these kids (especially women), are that they are quick to learn, quick to pick up anything technical, even theory. As an example I can mention their Science classes. They had to explain how a computer mice works in technical detail, how a radio works, how their electrical appliances worked in detail (it's a part of their curriculum) - and I took it upon me to explain to them in detail how these things worked, I drew outlines & theoretical schematics on how the various components worked and what they do together, and surprise surprise, they picked it up like NO ONE I remember from my time as a student, it's amazing (at least to me).

      I could mention numerous examples like this, but I guess we have to agree to disagree, and basically lean back and watch the show. However, I really thought you had a LOT of valid points to you theory, your theory isn't uncommon at all.

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      What this world is coming to - is for you and me to decide.
    7. Re:Most women are INSANELY good at tech... by Salgat · · Score: 1

      Stereotypes being bad works both ways. A positive stereotype is still bad; don't generalize women as being very bad or very good at technology.

    8. Re:Most women are INSANELY good at tech... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      no, i think he meant the design of the smart phone. Somebody designed each little board and chip, designed how they could interface together, designed around physical size constraints, electrical limitations, acceptable response times, etc.

      If you look at a current phone, with wifi, cellular, gps, accelerometer, cameras, ..... somebody is very very good at doing the design of the smart phone. Its star trek technology in real life.

    9. Re:Most women are INSANELY good at tech... by K.+S.+Kyosuke · · Score: 2

      When was the last time you sat in a classroom full of kids/students? Take a look around yourself, most if not all females are heavily into their smartphones, they quickly share apps and use their cellphones as it would be a natural part of their body.

      Let me know how that translates for them into being able to solve differential equations or quickly understand the behavior of electronic circuits from schematics, once you find that out. :-p

      --
      Ezekiel 23:20
    10. Re:Most women are INSANELY good at tech... by K.+S.+Kyosuke · · Score: 2

      They understand logic and how to code, but often lack the design skills to make the code actually useful to the masses.

      "Design" in this context means "engineering design", not a fancy skin.

      --
      Ezekiel 23:20
    11. Re:Most women are INSANELY good at tech... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      When was the last time you sat in a classroom full of kids/students? Take a look around yourself, most if not all females are heavily into their smartphones

      The last time I sat in a classroom smartphones weren't a thing. The last time I sat in a class-room with less than 95% male students there wasn't a single cell-phone on the school.

  16. ummm... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    ...examining the reasons why a subset of a group who entered a field and subsequently left is completely different then examining the reasons why that group tends not to enter that field in the first place. The author could draw those same "conclusions" whether the gender ratio for applying for jobs in the field was 18% or 98%.

  17. Political cultures by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    It does seem popular on average to hate libertarianism and how the tech culture is not liberal enough for them...

  18. can't afford day care? by argStyopa · · Score: 0, Troll

    There's a solution for that...

    Don't have a baby before you have a stable job by which you can afford day care?

    Comparing about it is like complaining that I'm paid too little to afford the Ferrari I just bought.

    Or are the rest of us required to subsidize your irresponsible bearing of womb-fruit?

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    -Styopa
    1. Re:can't afford day care? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Slow down there you disgusting misogynist. That would require some responsibility and foresight which are tools of the patriarchy!

      P.S. You just raped me.

    2. Re:can't afford day care? by narcc · · Score: 1

      Phil Mason? Is that you?

  19. good for us by slashmydots · · Score: 4, Funny

    I'm proud to work at a place where the last few women that quit did so because, as they put it, we're disorganized beyond words and the way we handle customers is unacceptable and the entire workflow is a gigantic shitstorm, not sexism or a manly working environment.

    1. Re:good for us by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Wow, that actually sums up what wound up happening with my last job to a "T". :D

    2. Re:good for us by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      If you're proud that all the women quit, then you ARE sexist, though not at all manly.

    3. Re:good for us by frank_adrian314159 · · Score: 1

      OK, so you work at a company. What's the prob?

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      That is all.
  20. Stop by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Please.

  21. Re:Not biologically suited? How does that work? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    "Leave aside the fact that you only have to be moderately intelligent to write code."

    And even a person with minor mental retardation can still write an essay or build a bridge, but does that mean we would consider them sufficiently skilled?

  22. Re:It's like my Grandfather used to say ... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Your grandfather was an idiot then. The saying is "If you can't stand the heat, stay out of the kitchen." Kitchens were always hot places to be and commercial kitchens still are. So, why one who couldn't stand the heat would want to get back in the kitchen is beyond me.

  23. Selection bias by Livius · · Score: 2

    Did they also interview men who left the technology field?

    I've interviewed at companies and been disgusted at what I saw of their culture. But that's not a feature of technology, except to the extent that current demand for technology allows dysfunctional businesses to survive longer than they should.

    1. Re:Selection bias by pem · · Score: 1
      Or did they interview women who were still in the field?

      Interviewing disgruntled people will certainly tell you why they think they are disgruntled, but most of the I know manage to be disgruntled no matter what.

    2. Re:Selection bias by wisnoskij · · Score: 1

      Well the study does not even seem to be that women are treated at all differential than men, just that "look at these poor women who have not be coddled and protected, above and beyond their peers"

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      Troll is not a replacement for I disagree.
    3. Re:Selection bias by BobSutan · · Score: 1

      Good point. It could entirely be explained by women's propensity to disengage from a career for a variety of reasons unrelated to what the article holds. For example, a lack of socializing, which women naturally gravitate towards as was discovered in this documentary:

      http://rixstep.com/2/20111127,...

      --
      "On a scale from 1 to 10, people are stupid"
  24. If you write good code it doesn't matter by musixman · · Score: 1

    If you write good code, gender, race or background doesn't really matter. It's the great equalizer.

    Guys are the butt of "jokes" everyday to in the office place. It's not something directed only at women lol.

  25. Interest by charronia · · Score: 2

    Not indicative of anything, but during the conversations I've had with the small number of female students in my vicinity, they told me programming was something that simply didn't interest them. They often went into other, but related fields rather than sticking around in software design.

  26. Nonsense by JimSadler · · Score: 0, Flamebait

    Women do get robbed a bit across the board and not just in the software industry. But their complaints do not reflect certain realities. First an employee that shows up for work is far more valuable than an employee that misses work. That is just an economic fact. It doesn't matter why an employee misses work at all. If they miss work they are less valuable. Some people feel that their reproduction is a big deal while other people may feel that most people have an obligation not to reproduce. Pregnancy disrupts business and pregnancy is not a requirement of one's personal life it is an option. Next problem is babies keeping workers awake at night and having employees show up that are essentially unfit for work. And an employer's insurance issues increase when married people with babies are hired. Then we have problems with women's monthly cycle. Some women show no difference in function during their period but quite a few either physically or emotionally are a mess. And in this era we see quite a few women with rather strident attitudes over their rights or perceived insults. Somewhere the concept that the best employees are those that bring in money for the firms has been lost. Life is unfair. To some extent we have no capacity to make life fair. We must compete with foreign powers to survive. It may be next to impossible to survive as a nation if we fail to consider the economic productivity of workers and put all kinds of factors in play which we need to avoid. And not all customers are stupid. I walked into the parts department of a motorcycle dealership and the parts clerk was dressed in a formal, gown as if she were going to a prom. The carpet was lush. I did a 180 turn and left the dealership. No way in the world do i want to support plush carpet and evening gowns on a parts clerk. I would far prefer to run into some old person who had twenty years experience wearing greasy Levis who actually knew bikes and parts. Sometimes society is too dumb for words.

    1. Re:Nonsense by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      And not all customers are stupid. I walked into the parts department of a motorcycle dealership and the parts clerk was dressed in a formal, gown as if she were going to a prom. The carpet was lush. I did a 180 turn and left the dealership. No way in the world do i want to support plush carpet and evening gowns on a parts clerk. I would far prefer to run into some old person who had twenty years experience wearing greasy Levis who actually knew bikes and parts.

      Why does her dress mean anything about her knowledge of bike parts?

      Sometimes society is too dumb for words.

      Yes you are too dumb for words.

    2. Re:Nonsense by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

      Call it flame-bait, but is seems that you mommy should not have opted for pregnancy. According do you it would have being a double whammy -
      economical benefit and one less asshole in the world.

    3. Re:Nonsense by K.+S.+Kyosuke · · Score: 1

      Well, for starters, an older person with hands-on experience is unlikely to have a lesser knowledge in the subject matter than she had, regardless of sex and fancy clothing. Second, the dress was a financial consideration, wasn't it?

      --
      Ezekiel 23:20
    4. Re:Nonsense by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Well, for starters, an older person with hands-on experience is unlikely to have a lesser knowledge in the subject matter than she had, regardless of sex and fancy clothing. Second, the dress was a financial consideration, wasn't it?

      Who says she doesn't have hands on experience? Why do you assume an older person has more experice just because he's older?

      You basically saw a women in a dress and immediately assumed she knew nothing. It prejudice and sexism plain and simple.

    5. Re:Nonsense by K.+S.+Kyosuke · · Score: 1

      I didn't see anyone and didn't assume anything. And I don't know what he saw, but honestly, neither do you. Since you weren't there, you can hardly claim the right to come to the conclusion that he didn't experience the right stimuli to make him go elsewhere. And I definitely don't see how customers don't have the right to go to businesses they like. There's plenty of choice on both sides.

      --
      Ezekiel 23:20
  27. men and women are leaving tech by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

    Check out http://www.todaysengineer.org/2010/feb/satisfaction.asp

    This article is one of the few that I've found that contains statistics about retention in various tech fields of both men and women. The differences in retention rates do vary but not by as much as is commonly portrayed in the media. In fact, based on what I'd previously read, they are surprisingly similar. Men and women may have somewhat different reasons for leaving the field, but that doesn't change the fact that roughly 40% of both sexes ultimately leave engineering.

    1. Re:men and women are leaving tech by clovis · · Score: 1

      Check out http://www.todaysengineer.org/...

      This article is one of the few that I've found that contains statistics about retention in various tech fields of both men and women. The differences in retention rates do vary but not by as much as is commonly portrayed in the media. In fact, based on what I'd previously read, they are surprisingly similar. Men and women may have somewhat different reasons for leaving the field, but that doesn't change the fact that roughly 40% of both sexes ultimately leave engineering.

      Well, well. here we have a post that addresses the original article in a relevant way with data.
      How did that slip through?

  28. Re:Not biologically suited? How does that work? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Women seem just as capable of sitting at a desk pounding a keyboard as men.

    But....math is hard. Just ask Barbie.

  29. Complete opposite at our corporation by Konowl · · Score: 1

    At the corporation that I work that, the CTO is a woman. *Every* single person that reports to her, is a woman. Most of management is female.

    It's so anti-male, for instance, we recently had a tour of our department by upper management (approximately 15 people I'd guess) and there wasn't a man amongst them. I jokingly told my coworker the only way we'll ever get promoted is to cut off our penises, and... well it's partly true.

    Majority of the IT sector is male. Majority of management is female. This is how my corporation works.

    1. Re:Complete opposite at our corporation by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      get out...really dude...

  30. Re:Not biologically suited? How does that work? by alvinrod · · Score: 3, Interesting

    There's probably nothing that prohibits anyone with capable intelligence from learning anything, but there may be underlying differences in the sexes due to the way our brains are physically different, which is just as good of an explanation as to why men and women have different writing styles. I lean towards that explanation as opposed to social factors, simply because there is other research that points to biological sex determining behavior. For example, young children of opposite sexes have different toy preferences. There's evidence to suggest that some things are certainly acquired due to social factors: color preference for example.

    I've heard other interesting theories for the disparity as well such as autism-spectrum disorders being more prevalent in males than females and that people who are have more mild forms of disorders along that spectrum tend to be more attracted to computers and machines than they are to occupations that involve dealing with people. This also explains the stereotype of engineers and computer scientists being socially awkward, which there is some truth to.

  31. Bias in the precis.. by malkavian · · Score: 4, Interesting

    Ok, so they chose women who'd left the field completely. That means getting out full stop. You don't do that for career progression, you don't usually do that for more salary. You get out because it's not for you.
    Now, if they'd gone and surveyed an equal number of women who chose to stay in the field as well, and an equal number of men who had left the field entirely and also ones who chose to stay, they'd at least be showing an attempt to remove bias. But no. They chose to skew the numbers completely and then write that it's all the fault of men (again).
    I nearly got out of the field because the women in management above me didn't really understand how to run an enterprise class department, which did nasty things to my health.
    I'm pretty sure that if you choose men who leave the field with women management as a bias adjuster you'd find a lot that just say "management often sucks". Gender isn't necessarily the decider. Hell, where I work, the women are often far more lewd and crude than us men (for the simple reason they can; if we crack those jokes, we stand a very big risk of being had up for sexual harrassment if the gal in question is having a bad day). Politics these days are hideously misandrist, yet nobody seems to give a damn about that.

    1. Re:Bias in the precis.. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Ok, so they chose women who'd left the field completely. That means getting out full stop. You don't do that for career progression, you don't usually do that for more salary. You get out because it's not for you.
      Now, if they'd gone and surveyed an equal number of women who chose to stay in the field as well, and an equal number of men who had left the field entirely and also ones who chose to stay, they'd at least be showing an attempt to remove bias. But no. They chose to skew the numbers completely and then write that it's all the fault of men (again).

      Menstruation, menopause, mental health issues... all women's problems start with "men".

    2. Re:Bias in the precis.. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Ok, so they chose women who'd left the field completely. That means getting out full stop. You don't do that for career progression, you don't usually do that for more salary. You get out because it's not for you.

      If you leave the field, it's because it's not for you. OK, got it.

      I nearly got out of the field because the women in management above me didn't really understand how to run an enterprise class department, which did nasty things to my health.

      You nearly left the field, but it was womens fault. Um, wait...?

  32. Skill set? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Can't blame the poor defenseless women, or the children. It's the white males!

  33. That time of the month again for Slashdot by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Another month goes by... another agenda driven article dripping with feminism.

  34. women, go home and enjoy your family by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    No wonder our society is mentally sick when kids hardly ever see their parents. There is only 24 h in a day. 12 h wasted on work and commute (12 left), everyone needs to sleep 8 h gone, 4 h left... and this is all you get for kids and "your time". Is that normal? No, it is not.
    Women, go home, take care of your kids/family and enjoy your life.
    Working moms concept is bull shit and this has to stop.

  35. Out of curiousity... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Has anyone ever run a similar study of women that leave retail, food service, nursing, teaching, and any other "female-dominated" career and "never look back"? I strongly suspect they have similar reasons for leaving... Certainly some reasons listed are unique to computer/IT work, but are those the real reason women are leaving the field? (I felt out of place, so I abandoned my career and took up something else... really?)

    The one reason that jumps out at me is the high cost of child care compared against wages - that issue, if present in tech careers for women, is similarly true for other occupations (day care providers don't charge workers moe if they work in IT).

  36. Are these issue really female-specific by antifoidulus · · Score: 4, Insightful

    Did they try to find men who left the field as a control group? The reasons cited in TFA also applies to a lot of men I know that have left the industry. I would like to know if it really affects women, also whether or not a higher % of women leave the tech industry vs men, esp. if you control for being a parent.

    1. Re:Are these issue really female-specific by Oligonicella · · Score: 1

      Heh. Try being a single father of a daughter. I've been asked to bring her into work when I needed to trouble shoot.

    2. Re:Are these issue really female-specific by AmiMoJo · · Score: 1

      Men would not be a valid control group for issues like a lack of maternity leave or feeling excluded due to be the only person of a particular gender in the group.

      I take your point that some places are just bad places to work, but there are also specific issues that only affect women because they have different biology and are a minority in the industry.

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      SJW, n: "Someone I don't like, and by the way I'm a fuckwit" - AC
    3. Re:Are these issue really female-specific by clovis · · Score: 1

      That was addressed in an AC post:
      http://www.todaysengineer.org/...

  37. To you tech entrepreneurs by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    ...you could easily build a tech company that's pro-women, even if you're a guy. And I bet you'd be pretty damn successful. Who's gonna complain, some anti-woman jackass? Not even Apple/Microsoft would try and destroy you, simply to save face.

  38. Fantastic by Tyr07 · · Score: 1

    Low pay is causing women to leave. This just in, let's pay women more than men so they work in this field.

    Or maybe, fuck you suck equality. Life isn't all roses for men either. Low pay, jokes, attitudes, we deal with these things as well.

  39. Re:Please stop the redirection to beta by ganjadude · · Score: 1

    you know what. If you would log into the damn site, you wouldnt have to deal with it. Ive not once seen this beta site everyone is bitching about simply because im logged in.

    If you dont like it, log in, otherwise just STFU, we have choices

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  40. Re:It has to stop ... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    If you could just stop everyone from being an asshole, then this problem wouldn't exist. Carelessly lumping all asshole acts together as a civil rights issue is just inane. That, and brushing the progress we've made to whine about it isn't going to solve anything.

    We often forget how lucky we already are to live in a society that wants to make this change and is working toward it. This is not a simple thing to solve, and only time will solve it. Our progress has been nothing short of astounding so far, all things considered. We must support the men who do help, and do our own part as well.

    It may be cathartic to vent about the remaining problems, but painting it in such a glib manner risks forgetting the past. Any female who disagrees isn't fit to inherit this increasingly egalitarian society from the women and men who have made it possible.

  41. Re:Not biologically suited? How does that work? by davecb · · Score: 1

    When I was starting out, we had tons of women in what was a low-status industry, where programming was described as "teaching mechanical children". I think there's a broader discussion in Kraft's "Programmers and Managers" (Springer-Verlag).

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  42. No rage over roofers, drillers, and boilermakers? by pla · · Score: 5, Insightful

    Jobs in order of % male.

    I find it strange that we talk about discrimination in high tech, when we have literally dozens of fields over 90% male, with and only a handful of niche tech fields even in the top 100. Hell, from that chart, we have sixty-one fields more male-dominated than CNC programmers (at 93.5%), the highest of the male-dominated tech fields. And general purpose coder only pushes 78.5%, with over a hundred non-tech fields higher on the list.

    Yes, Slashdot has the byline "news for nerds". Until I start hearing people whine about why we don't see more female pipefitters, however, fuck right off about the "culture" in IT as somehow magically the core of the problem.

    More relevantly, if we have a problem, that problem comes from human culture, not tech culture. Women don't do construction and men don't teach (at least not below the HS level), simple as that. However - And this counts as the simple most important point you will read in this entire discussion - They can! If a woman wants to get trained as a master pipefitter, she could have a well-paying job a week after completing her apprenticeship (usually 4-5 years); and even the apprenticeship phase doesn't suck all that bad, they make enough to live on in most of the US.

    But we - as a species, not as a niche community of high-tech misogynists - view fitting pipe, welding, roofing, well-drilling, etc as "dirty" jobs that women don't want to do. We view dealing with disgusting snotty little 6YOs, much less trying to cram facts into their head, as something males don't want to do. Does that come from the fact that each side really doesn't want to do "off-gender" jobs, or the fact that society has conditioned us to believe that?

    Short answer: it doesn't matter. Do what you want. If, however, you discover that the conditions in your chosen profession don't agree with your personality, don't blame the job, blame what you see in the mirror.

  43. Women get married and become babymakers by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    It's what many women dream of doing. There's nothing wrong with that.

  44. Re:It has to stop ... by Oligonicella · · Score: 4, Insightful

    Swap the sex of the pronouns and it reads with exactly the same amount of worth.

  45. It's a problem of basic gender balance by Maxo-Texas · · Score: 5, Interesting

    I have a friend in the medical field. It is female dominated. She reports that the females there

    a) sexually harass the younger, good looking men
    b) are generally verbally abusive and dismissive to the men
    c) exclude the men from lunches.
    d) preferentially break up the shit duties based on seniority.. which means mostly women have the 'good' duties and schedules and mostly men have the shit duties and schedules.

    I.e. they are in the majority and they rule the roost. If the men don't want their working lives worse than they already are, they just "go along to get along" and tolerate the abuses.

    The current IT field starts with self selection by gender before high school. For what ever reason, girls don't prefer IT things as a group. It gets worse in college. I have personal experience with this. We started with fewer females to begin with and when we hit the weedout courses, the females dropped out or transferred to other easier degrees at a higher rate. Keep in mind 70% of everyone of both genders who started as freshmen didn't get a degree at all. By the end, the ratio was about 99% men and 1% females.

    Now we go to the work environment. Of men, I knew over 30% who would leave work and go home and "play" on computer with .net, java, html, etc. An other 10% would work after hours on project management certification or advanced degrees. Of women, I knew exactly ONE woman in 10 years who behaved like that. About 10% of women would work on pmi or advanced degrees.

    After a while, those who loved computers and "played" on them outside of work hours excelled technically. More females tracked off into management than males.

    Which leads to a majority male environment. There just aren't enough females interested at a young age, those who are interested drop out more in college, most that graduate don't "love" computers-- they just see IT as a job/career not as "play."

    And in a majority male environment, it's hard to prevent
    a) Males excluding females when they socialize over fantasy football and the latest html changes.
    b) Hanging out with females socially is fun but risky. You could do something and get a complaint.
    c) Males despite being in the majority still tend to get the shit duties (such as working at night to install a program while the female gets to stay home because it's "dangerous" at night).
    d) Males in a majority can get *too* comfortable making off color comments or telling off color jokes. This can lead to complaints.

    At the last place where I worked, females were about 70% of the managers and team leads. There were some sexual harassment issues around 2005 and after that it was annual training and an extremely dust dry environment socially. It was also an older crowd (about 42 average) so the sexual hijinks were gone.

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    She was like chocolate when she drank... semi-sweet at first and then increasingly bitter.
    1. Re:It's a problem of basic gender balance by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      a) Fantasy football is a jock thing anyway. Not an issue in a nerd culture.
      b) There is no risk whatsoever in hanging out with females socially. None, zilch, nada. Unless you think sexual assault is normal behaviour. Just don't sexually assault anybody and you'll be fine.
      c) You just made this up.
      d) "Off color" covers a multitude of sins. IME women love off-color jokes as much as men, but maybe you can learn some that refer to *sex* while not being *sexist*? Jokes which are clumsily sexist or racist aren't funny even for people who disagree with sexism or racism, let alone for the class who are the brunt of the joke.

      Also, sexual hijinks don't go at 42. They just become more discreet, and they get proper consent first so there are no complaints. "I'm not getting any" doesn't imply "nobody is getting any". And with your attitude towards women, I'm not surprised.

  46. WOW my experience has been the opposite by Archfeld · · Score: 1

    I worked in an R&D email implementation unit for a very large financial institution, staff was about 20 employees, 9 of which were female. We did a large amount of project driven interaction with many other groups and the women seemed to do better than men in that area. The only area that I never saw a woman working in was M$ contractors, and they were all but one low caste East Indians, their mouth piece was the stereo type Oxford English sounding East Indian who spoke for them most of the time.

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  47. Slashdot is a front for feminazis flame air by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    whatever trace of journalism Slashdot had probably left about a year ago. All that's left is ticked off SJWs looking for attention. You know what? Instead of wasting my time coming here I'll just waste my time contacting the sponsors to let them know how I feel about this crap taking up valuable Internet space.

  48. Mend leaving tech. by jklovanc · · Score: 1

    Has there ever been a study on why men leave the tech industry? I bet many have and for reasons similar to why women leave the tech industry. Looking at one side of the industry creates a slanted view of the situation.

    1. Re:Mend leaving tech. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Yes: http://www.todaysengineer.org/2010/feb/satisfaction.asp

  49. Shut the fuck up by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    I'm so sick of this stupid topic. NOONE I know is anything but EXCITED to have females in their tech groups. They think it's COOL and the biggest problem is the 1 douche who refers to them as "m'lady".

    The whining and bitching about terrible stuff like rape is only due to non-geeks getting into tech. What do jocks and creeps do when there's tons of money in tech? Well they get into tech! The problem is assholes, as always, not tech or tech culture.

    1. Re:Shut the fuck up by gweihir · · Score: 1

      Having had one really, really bad women in my PhD group (hiring failure on the part of our professor...) I do not agree. On the other hand, competent women are very welcome, it makes for a better and nicer work environment. On the engineering and scientific side, I have not noticed any difference, people of female gender are just as diverse in their skills, insights and ideas as the other variant.

      Sure, there are less, but there are indications that women tend more to the average than men, i.e. less homeless ones but also less scientists and engineers. That would be consistent with what evolution requires. But whether this is true or not does not matter: In CS, I have yet to find a competent women that claims she was discriminated against or things were harder because of her gender. I have met quite a few female whiners of rather moderate skills that thought they could have it easy though, but fortunately that did not work out for most (some left, some started to do the work that was required). So the solution is rather obvious: Do not make it harder for women to get into the field, but also do not make it any easier. If it turns out that it is 1% of all men, but only 0.5% of all women that can be good engineers, so what? We really do not want to lose that 0.5%, they are desperately needed. Also, such a distribution would say nothing relevant about the others.

      Incidentally, the reason why there are few female CEOs is entirely clear: CEOs are routinely psychopaths and that is one of the most important "qualities" to get into such a position. Women have far less psychopaths than men (one number I found is 7x as many male psychopaths as female ones) and of course that means less female CEOs. When it comes to screwing up, the female CEOs are just as good as the male ones though, just look like Charley Fiorina killed HP for a good example.

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  50. Salary != Compensation by tomhath · · Score: 1

    Don't forget about:

    1) Summers off

    2) 5 hour work day

    3) Layoffs and other terminations almost unheard of

    4) 30 and out retirement with full pension and benefits

    5) And (if you don't get caught) group sex with the students

    1. Re:Salary != Compensation by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Actual high school teacher here.

      1) Summers off

      Depends - certainly we don't have to get up and go to work. But, many teachers spend a large part of the summer updating lesson plans, making new ones, and sometimes creating entirely new classes. Many do professional development in the summer as well (taking classes, attending seminars, etc. - a certain number of hours are required to renew your license).

      On the flip side, teachers have almost no time off during the school year. At my school we get 2 personal days for the entire school year. And this is understandable - we have to be there for our students. Almost every year I miss weddings, birthdays, reunions, or other family events because I cannot take the time off.

      2) 5 hour work day

      Hahahahahaha, that's a good one.

      Oh, you're serious? Get real. During the school year, I work between 60 and 80 hours a week and 12 hour days are not uncommon at all. Teachers usually have about 1 hour a day when they are not teaching - under our current schedule, content teachers teach about 6 or 7 classes a day. All the grading and planning happens either before or after school. We also have duties (lunch room, outside after school, etc.), meetings, professional development, as well as coaching and other extra-curriculars.

      Sure, some teachers with years worth of lesson plans may phone it in and not do much work outside of school hours, but even they are working at least 8 hours a day.

      3) Layoffs and other terminations almost unheard of

      Maybe not at the scale of businesses, but they do happen. Also, many places have first-in-first-out systems of hiring / firing. Which means that your job is insecure until you have established some seniority. Dumb system, I agree. But newer hires don't exactly feel safe.

      4) 30 and out retirement with full pension and benefits

      "Full" pension varies. Some places, iirc, start at about 50% of your salary at about 20 or 25 years and add a couple of percentage points for each additional year you work. I think my state's retirement system is currently 80% for 30 years of service. Health care and the such costs money, of course, though I am not sure how it compares to other pension plans' insurance.

      The bigger issue, in my mind, is that a teacher's job involves being (usually) the only adult in a room full of children all day, everyday. It is about as much fun as it sounds. I would be willing to bet that many a strong businessperson would be reduced to tears (and then he/she would quit) in a matter of weeks, much less 30 years.

      5) And (if you don't get caught) group sex with the students

      No comment. That guy (if it is a link to the recent case in NY (?)) should spend the rest of his life in prison. Going to school is not optional for the students, so teachers have a heavy responsibility to the students and their families.

    2. Re:Salary != Compensation by pepty · · Score: 1

      1) most teachers still work at the school over the summer, if they didn't the median salary figures would be much lower

      2) bullshit. 6 hrs in school, 4 hrs afterschool/at home for the teachers I know.

      3) Yep, job security is still better than the private sector.

      4) Full pension - but remember to subtract social security, which most teachers aren't eligible for.

      5) Or getting put in jail because the kids said you had group sex with them when you didn't

    3. Re:Salary != Compensation by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      1) True, but you have no income then either. If you're on the low end of the scale, you're going to be taking a second job.
      2) More like a 12 hour workday. Yes, it's only 6 classroom hours. But you have tests to grade, student evals to fill out, papers to grade, lesson planning, parent calls, student activities, "voluntary" attendance at student functions...
      3) Got me there. Except not really. Yeah, you have utterly corrupted (not corrupt, but corrupted) places like NYC and LA Unified, but with cutbacks at the state level for primary education, you have the double whammy of declining enrollment and charter schools, which add up to school closings and thus layoffs.
      4) Yup. As with all government pensions, though, this is under attack right now, and you can bet that in small districts, the pensions are way underfunded.

  51. Re:Shut the fuck by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    up. We have lots of female programmers at my company. Nobody harasses them or makes inappropriate jokes because if they did, HR is right down the hall.

    I have never worked in a professional environment where female co-workers have been harassed or otherwise subjected to inappropriate workplace behaviour by either men or women. I have been the target of a passive-aggressive male co-worker which ultimately drove me away from the organisation due to management's coddling of the offender. I am a heterosexual male by the way.

  52. Re:It has to stop ... by Oligonicella · · Score: 1

    Your eloquence is breathtaking. But I must point out, you couldn't rebut my statement.

  53. Re:It's like my Grandfather used to say ... by n6kuy · · Score: 1

    Whoosh.

    "If you can't stand the (male-dominated workplace) heat, go back to the kitchen."

    It's a play on the earlier saying, sure.

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  54. Re:It has to stop ... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    This seems to be how Internet feminism works. It tosses out claims. Claims get checked. Feminists close down the conversation. Rest evidence instead? Feminists refuse to contribute their "labor."

  55. Re:Not biologically suited? How does that work? by TemporalBeing · · Score: 1

    Well...programmers tend to be more introverted than most of society; and there's fewer introverts in the female gender - women are a very social gender. But that's about the only "biological" argument that could be made - the programming culture is just not very suitable to attracting women.

    All said though, the culture is slowly shifting to more amenable; but it's still going to take quite some time.

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  56. Diversity needed by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    in Slashot's choice of articles.

  57. Re:Shut the fuck by sponse · · Score: 1

    And then you leave the organization,
    NOT the industry.
    Seems the proper decision to me.

  58. Re:It has to stop ... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    I like how you only have an issue with treating women like shit. Not ANYONE, heaven forbid, no. Apparently treating men like shit is okay.
     
    You are a terrible person and I hope we never have the misfortune to meet.

  59. Well, most women cannot write good software... by gweihir · · Score: 1

    The same is true for most men. The problem I see here is not women leaving the field, but men staying in it that hove not business staying.

    The thing we should be doing is to sack bad coders. A bad coder is worse than no coder, after all.

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  60. Who is doing the telling and why? by westlake · · Score: 1

    Blaming corporate culture is bullshit because most women from birth are told to not go into tech.

    but who is telling girls not to go into tech and why?

    corporate culture has been influencing curricula, teaching methods, and career tracks down to the elementary grades for generations.

    it's a cultural problem that discourages women from pursuing careers in tech from about the age of three when they're given their first barbie doll.

    it's perhaps worth mentioning that the Barbie doll, unmistakably adult and independent, entered the American market at a time (1959) when almost all dolls were portrayed as infants.

  61. Because tech jobs are seen as "good jobs" by Sycraft-fu · · Score: 1

    The people who bring this up are not interested in equality as in making sure that there is a perfect split in all things. They are interested in making sure women have access to what they see as desirable careers. They don't go after the blue collar jobs because those are seen as undesirable.

    Mike Rowe has given several good talks about what he calls the "war on work" and how it is seen in America as somehow a bad thing to have a skilled trade. You are "successful" if you have an office white collar job. This is despite the fact that many blue collar trades pay extremely well and, according to Rowe, the people in them are generally very happy.

    Hence why you see people take issue with tech jobs. They are white collar jobs and are perceived to be good, and they have less women than men. So they wish that to be changed. They do not care about change in jobs that are perceived to be bad, an imbalance is perfectly fine there.

  62. We see similar at a university by Sycraft-fu · · Score: 2

    I work for the engineering college and so of course getting more women is something they work at. You find a good number of women in the intro courses, 175 and that kind of stuff, but most of them vanish by graduation, off to other degrees. So one of the things they tried is having a women's only honour section taught by one of our female professors.

    She is an excellent role model: She's a women who has not had to give up on either her career or family. She's a full professor with tenure, her own research lab, multiple papers to her name and so on, however she also has two boys, just about to become teenagers. She's an engineering geek, but it doesn't mean she can't be girly when she wants (she got a pink laptop she just loved). She's also passionate about engineering and teaching and a very engaging and caring lecturer.

    So a great example. The result? No retention increase. The women in her class weren't any more interested in staying in engineering than those in regular classes.

    1. Re:We see similar at a university by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I attended a talk a couple years ago by someone from Harvey Mudd who talked about how they increased their CS undergrads from 10% women to 40% women. The most relevant change was probably

      As part of this first step, the professors divided the class into groups—Gold for those with no coding experience and Black, for those with some coding experience. Then they implemented Operation Eliminate the Macho Effect: guys who showed-off in class were taken aside in class and told, “You’re so passionate about the material and you’re so well prepared. I’d love to continue our conversations but let’s just do it one on one.”

      I'd like to highlight that while this helps women succeed, it does not involve any sort of preference for women: it helps everyone in a way that is most visible by the increased retention of women.

      The other major thing they did (and this does not scale at all) was taking all of their CS women undergrads to the Grace Hopper Celebration of Women in Computing, so they could be in an environment where they were not the minority.

    2. Re:We see similar at a university by russotto · · Score: 2

      Then they implemented Operation Eliminate the Macho Effect: guys who showed-off in class were taken aside in class and told, âoeYouâ(TM)re so passionate about the material and youâ(TM)re so well prepared. Iâ(TM)d love to continue our conversations but letâ(TM)s just do it one on one.â

      Ah. So the trick to increasing female participation isn't to encourage women -- it's to discourage interested men.

    3. Re:We see similar at a university by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      "They went from 10% women to 40% women"

      So something like 50 out of 500, to 40 out of 100.

  63. Re:It has to stop ... by gweihir · · Score: 2

    You know, that is why men routinely do not do that. But there are always some female underperformers that keep complaining and want it all for free (there are about the same number of men doing underperforming, but they tend to be embarrassed about it), and these do understandably not get any sympathy.

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  64. It's not the barbie doll's fault by Kohath · · Score: 1
    1. Re:It's not the barbie doll's fault by sysrammer · · Score: 1

      Interesting article. It mentions something like "boys like balls and girls like dolls", and I hypothesize that boys like geometric shapes.

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  65. Primal difference between Man and Woman by Simonetta · · Score: 1

    There is a primal difference between men and women that is applicable to software engineering.
    Software writing is basically the manipulation of symbols to change the operation of physical machinery. This definition can be extended to mean that software creates functional machinery through the manipulation of symbols (text typed on editors that is compiled into machine-controlling patterns of 1s and 0s).

    Men get a primal Promethean thrill and ego boost from creating machines from symbols.

    Women get the same thrill and primal sense-of-purpose from creating new living human beings (i.e. babies), instead of machinery.

    This, I believe, is the subliminal reason that so few women go into the software development field.

    1. Re:Primal difference between Man and Woman by xvan · · Score: 1

      Men get a primal Promethean thrill and ego boost from creating machines from symbols. Women get the same thrill and primal sense-of-purpose from creating new living human beings (i.e. babies), instead of machinery.

      And you base that on what?
      And Even if those affirmations were true, they'd be meaningless unless:

      Women don't get a primal Promethean thrill and ego boost from creating machines from symbols.
      Men don't get a primal sense-of-purpose from creating new living human beings.

  66. Re:Not biologically suited? How does that work? by AmiMoJo · · Score: 2

    If children can have such fundamental things as colour preferences influenced by societal factors why do you think that things like choice of toy or later choice of study options is somehow down to genetic differences?

    The study you linked to is pretty weak, and doesn't seem to have excluded societal factors at all. Even at only a few months old a child will have been dressed in gender specific colours with gender specific styles of clothing, surrounded by gender specific toys in their home etc. Perhaps females just recognized the doll because they had one at home. That type of study is pretty much pointless because unless you bring the test subjects up in a completely neutral environment you can't preclude the possibility that there were influenced.

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  67. pay conversations by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Indeed, discussions about pay and workplace conditions are protected as concerted activities under the National Labor Relations Act (even if there's no union involved).. By the way, that protection only extends to your conversations with other employees, not the general public, because otherwise it is not a "concerted activity". Posting on your blog or facebook page? may not be protected, unless lots of your "friends" are also employees.

    However, do *you* want to be the person who carries that flag into battle? Hey, Bob, thanks for coming in my office, I've invited Nancy from HR talk about your discussing pay here at ACME MegaCorp. We know that this is protected under the NRLA, but we also think it causes some workplace stress and disruption. As you know, we all want to have a productive environment with minimum distractions, and to help reduce those distractions, we've decided to promote you to a new position in a new operations monitoring facility some distance from here, about 49.7 miles from here to be exact. Oh, and the new facility has different work hours, but you probably won't mind that. Your new day starts at 4AM and runs until 9AM, then you have a 4 hour lunch break (but you have to remain on site for security reasons), and then you will be back on duty at 1PM, and you'll be off at 7PM. That's on Monday, Nancy will explain the different rotating hours on the other days of the week. Don't worry, you'll get at least one day off in 7, averaged over a month. I wish we could pay for parking at the new facility, but we have a policy of not paying for parking, to encourage carpooling and keep our AVR up. There might be on-street parking available, but be careful about the no-parking times on some days of the week.

    Yep.. carrying the flag can be a real pain sometimes.

  68. Re:No rage over roofers, drillers, and boilermaker by XopherMV · · Score: 2

    Why are companies pushing women into IT? Simple. Follow the money. If companies could find a way to make IT interesting for women, then they could double their workforce. Doubling the supply of workers for the same number of jobs means that companies could cut salaries in half. Cutting salaries means increasing profits and bonuses for executives. That's the real motivation, not some altruistic concern over womens' rights or equality.

  69. Re:Bullshit. Former teacher. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Yes. I have taught kindergarten and early elementary grades. I was appreciated for being a male teacher in an elementary school. I never heard of any suspicion of myself being a pedophile nor a misogynist and I like to think my fellow teachers (all female), the school principal (female) and the district adminstrator (female) would have brought that to my attention if they heard anything from parents or other staff members. The teaching profession was more than tolerant of myself and other men I knew working in our school district. I know of other school districts where all the teachers (male and female) were over stressed or had just given up hope and only wanted their paycheques and retirement package, but not my school district.

    So the original AC (http://tech.slashdot.org/comments.pl?sid=5788027&cid=48062853) is not correct for all environments.

  70. Re:It has to stop ... by CaptainDork · · Score: 0

    And that's why you are part of the fucking problem.

    Re-read your goddam statement and notice the segmentation.

    Men over here and women over there.

    You have to think about it before you can stop it.

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  71. Re:It has to stop ... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    That would be you in this case. I'm getting real tired of hearing all this highly-abrasive, hostile language about my gender for problems that I haven't caused and am not contributing to - and the more I hear it, the more antagonistic I feel towards you and your type (feminists, not women, and women != feminists). It's part of why I've decided to refuse ALL feminist orders and just continue with whatever I was going to do anyway. That, and it fucked up my ideas of masculinity in ways that weren't healthy. It's MUCH healthier to just completely ignore you lot.

    I'm sure you felt real badass writing "you are the problem", but you got it backwards - it's you, or rather, you're PART of the problem.

  72. Double Standard by davydagger · · Score: 1, Insightful

    Sexism in tech is part of a larger trend of sexism in US culture. I am somewhat offended by the insinuations of sexism in tech, because of wholehearted denial and refusal to deal with sexism in larger US culture, and I feel that nerd culture/tech is being singled out. I also feel that most sexism in tech stems from stereotypes and myths about women that are present in larger culture, and your asking nerds to have morales that larger society doesn't have.

    At very least please don't tell me there is no connection between rape culture and celebrity culture, and even some of the most ardent feminists stick up for rapists who are RIAA/MPAA sponsored musicians, because most of them are part of organizations that are tied to eachother politically.

    I recoiled in horror as people suggested changing rape laws to let roman polanksi off the hook after admitting to raping a 13 year old girl.

    Nerds are blamed for "booth babes" present at industry centered conventions, which also grace other industry conventions like automobible conventions, and completely ignore the CEO/Business types who they are there to slobber all over them.

    A quick google finds that sexism is pretty prevelant in other fields

    Sexism in law/legal:
    https://www.google.com/search?q=sexism+in+law&ie=utf-8&oe=utf-8&aq=t&rls=org.mozilla:en-US:official&client=firefox-a&channel=np&source=hp

    http://ms-jd.org/blog/article/what-no-one-tells-you-you-go-law-school-youre-entering-sexist-profession
    www.legalweek.com/legal-week/feature/2259318/sexism-and-the-city-why-female-lawyers-are-afraid-to-speak-out-against-discrimination
    http://abovethelaw.com/sexism/

    Sexism in medicine:

    https://www.google.com/search?q=sexism+in+medicine&btnG=Search&oe=utf-8&rls=org.mozilla%3Aen-US%3Aofficial&client=firefox-a&channel=np

    http://www.buzzfeed.com/erinlarosa/stories-of-everyday-sexism-as-told-by-women-in-medicine

    http://gender.stanford.edu/news/2012/nuanced-sexism-reflections-female-surgery-resident

    Sexism in business:
    https://www.google.com/search?q=sexism+in+business&btnG=Search&oe=utf-8&rls=org.mozilla%3Aen-US%3Aofficial&client=firefox-a&channel=np

    http://www.topmba.com/blog/harvard-study-confirms-sexism-business-mba-news

    http://www.businessinsider.com/sexism-leads-to-feminist-manifesto-2014-5

    http://www.washingtonpost.com/blogs/answer-sheet/wp/2014/02/01/harvard-business-dean-apologizes-for-sexism-on-campus/

    So thats just other "proffesional" fields. Now lets look at the source of sexism. mainstream culture:

    Ganster rap, promoting pimping, forced prostitution. No one wants to touch this with a ten foot pole. Gone are the socialist days of Martin Luther King, or even the more extreme black panthers. Today, black power, at least as what corporations let broadcast on TV is about domination, gold chains, material posessions, to include other human beings.

    Lets even get into rock'n'roll. In mainstream rock'n'roll. Men are rock stars, and women are groupies. Few if any women front mainstream rock bands.

    Lets look at underground like hardcore punk, and modern HC influenced metal. Then you get to see some of the girls shine as front women, bassists, and are capable of fufilling the same hard hard hitting roles as men.

    Rape culture - its well visable from a young age, that certain cliques such as the football team are more or less allowed to have sex with anyone they want, despite what that anyone would say about it. The trappings of success and what it means to be a leader as violence are embedded pretty early on. Every 2-3 years on que there is a national story about the football team raping someone. Nothing is done.

    Low social status is conferred to men who haven't raped anyone. Utter refusal to break this up and replace it with more postives.

    Sexual shame and denial. Even in many liberal progressivist circles, people are told to be affraid of their bodies. It seems the onl

  73. Re:Not biologically suited? How does that work? by alvinrod · · Score: 1

    You should probably read the studies. The researchers found no statistical difference in color preference at the time of testing, which suggests that color preference is socially acquired as children age. That and the differences in preferences across multiple cultures also suggests any color preferences are arbitrary in and of themselves. However, they did notice the difference in toy preference. If dressing children in specific colors had an impact, why didn't the infants show a difference in color preference? Why would that effect only be noticed in terms of toy preference?

    Also, the reason they believe that it's not a social factor is because they found similar results in monkeys. Infant male monkeys had a stronger preference for wheeled toys as well. Given that monkeys are unlikely to naturally have toys for their offspring or socially constructed gender roles, it seems to point to biological underpinnings that evolved at some point before humans became divergent as a species, although it would be necessary to conduct a similar study with other groups of primates in order to ascertain whether or not it's something that evolved independently in both species.

    Humans are sexually dimorphic. It's been known for some time that male and female children develop at different rates (e.g. boys tend to develop fine motor skills more slowly, but develop gross motor skills more quickly) and once puberty hits have rather stark physical differences in terms of muscular development and strength. Is it really that difficult to accept that there are differences in the ways that the brain develops between the two sexes and that this manifests in subtle differences such as toy preference?

  74. Re:It has to stop ... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    And that's why you are part of the fucking problem.

    As are you, it seems.

    Re-read your goddam statement and notice the segmentation.

    Men over here and women over there.

    That's exactly how your original post reads, too. To wit:

    Men are shooting themselves in the foot when they treat women like shit.

    Now, if you had instead said human beings instead of men and women, you'd have the right to complain, but seeing as you began with the gender segregation in your first sentence this is how the discussion flows. And when this post tried to show you that, what happens? True colors come out.

    YOU are the fucking problem. Because people like you are why balanced answers to problems can't exist. You are worse than those you claim you're fighting.

  75. Re:It has to stop ... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Do not allow people like CaptainDork to co-opt feminism. They are feminists of the radfem breed. They are toxic. They are destructive. They are awful human beings. They are usually some of the most vile, racist, sexist, anti-social justice groups out there. They are not interested in equality. They are interested in female dominance over males, or even the eradication of males. They are feminism's equivalent of Christian fundamentals. Though, unlike the Christian fundamentalists, this breed really needed the Internet, particularly social media, to get the ball rolling. They seek to shut down all conversation, hence the "you are the problem" or "check your privilege" sloganeering.

    Ignore these whack jobs and seek out the more reasonable feminists who are not scream at the top of their lungs, "Yes, all men! Kill all men!"

  76. "female-unfriendly geek culture" by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Complaining about "female-unfriendly geek culture" is the sadest piece of victim blaming i can imagine. Think about it. There are these tech-loving guys who all through high-school and even college get little attention from women and therefore have little experience. Many react by doubling down on their job and try to be successful in CS. Of course, it is not that they don't want to know more women, they simply have a hard time and many are suffering from it. The result is the typical geek-culture where many men (not all but many) who don't have much female attention seek refuge. And then, 20 years after starting to ignore them, women turn around and blame those very guys for their geek-culture. After all, why didn't they just go out and meet more women and learn to interact with them - right?

  77. Re:No rage over roofers, drillers, and boilermaker by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    The women find themselves competing with men who are fascinated with the subject and devote long hours to becoming expert at it.

    Do women:

    a) Spend long hours becoming experts
    b) Whine until the playing field is artificially tipped in their favour

    A woman decides to get pregant, does she:

    a) Realise that she's making an important life choice (a choice that men don't get incidentally) - and accept that it's her choice and her responsiblity and will have an affect on her life from then on.
    b) Petulantly demand that everyone else financially support her choice. Pay for her childcare and give her months/years off paid. Ensure that despite years off, allow her to walk back into a career and be on a level with people who spent their time working and developing their career.

  78. Re:Not biologically suited? How does that work? by RobotBorg · · Score: 1

    Considering a Harvard president (Lawrence Summers) was forced to resign for even suggesting they *talk* about what you're saying - let alone actually argue it - yes it is that difficult for many to accept. It flies in the face of 50 years of cultural ideas about self-determination and the utter supremacy of nurture over nature.

  79. Re:It has to stop ... by gweihir · · Score: 1

    You have to recognize reality before you can change anything in a meaningful way. One fact of the matter is that there are about as many male assholes as there are female ones. They do behave differently though dud to cultural and biological factors. Ignoring that gets you exactly nowhere.

    And no, I am not part of the problem. But maybe I know a few female engineers and scientists that are competent and do not need any help and hence have reason to believe that those calling for help loudly are not in that class.

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  80. Re:It has to stop ... by gweihir · · Score: 1

    Well said.

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  81. Re:It has to stop ... by CaptainDork · · Score: 0

    Your immaturity doesn't give you the insight to be even vaguely aware that you are part of the problem.

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  82. Re:Not biologically suited? How does that work? by alvinrod · · Score: 1

    So what? The truth (whatever that may ultimately be as I'm not suggesting that my own current understanding is the final say on the matter) is still the truth whether anyone likes it or not. We can stick our heads in the sand and pretend it isn't, but invariably we'll have to accept it if we want to get anywhere. Let's just be brave enough to conduct the necessary experiments and improve our understanding of world whether those results tell us we've been horribly misguided or not.

  83. Re:No rage over roofers, drillers, and boilermaker by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    We do have a problem, and that problem does come from human culture, but a culture can only be changed one person at a time. Pointing at pipefitters and calling them sexist is not addressing the sexism that is local to you and your situation, it is an excuse for personal inaction.

    If you have this much energy to devote to this topic, try applying it to the right side of the equation. One does not need to expend energy to maintain the status quo. If you love the status quo this much, shut the fuck up, because you have got your way already.

  84. Re:It has to stop ... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Translation: This does not align with my preconceptions or agenda. Therefore, it must be wrong. Facts shall be rejected.

  85. Re:No rage over roofers, drillers, and boilermaker by BobSutan · · Score: 1

    Doubling the pool of potential workers is exactly why wages have stagnated for the past 40 years and the middle class is being hit so hard. My parent's generation could afford to raise several kids with one breadwinner in a solid middle-class neighborhood. Those days are over now that women have entered the workforce en mass. It boils down to supply and demand. Women entering the workforce equals a surplus of labor, hence wages went down in the aggregate. And people wonder why women are less happy with their lives today than they were 40+ years ago.

    The disservice feminism did for women was convincing them that joining the rat race was "empowerment". Most guys would trade places with women in a heartbeat if it meant having all of their worldly wants and needs provided for them in exchange of keeping the house clean and spending time with their family.

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  86. Re:No rage over roofers, drillers, and boilermaker by pla · · Score: 1

    Pointing at pipefitters and calling them sexist

    Wooosh!

  87. Re:Not biologically suited? How does that work? by RobotBorg · · Score: 1

    I personally agree with you, and the trend to deny reality that exists among the PC crowd is something I find mildly irritating. But careers are at stake and some people are going to take the easy road - it's simply human nature.