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Tech Pros' Struggle For Work-Life Balance Continues (dice.com)

Nerval's Lobster writes: Work-life balance among technology professionals is very much in the news following a much-discussed New York Times article about workday conditions at Amazon. That piece painted a picture of a harsh workplace where employees literally cried at their desks. While more tech companies are publicly talking about the need for work-life balance, do the pressures of delivering revenues, profits, and products make much of that chatter mere lip-service? Or are companies actually doing their best to ensure their workers are treated like human beings with lives outside of work?

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  1. TL;DR by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    I'm too busy working to read this nonsense.

  2. This one's easy by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 5, Insightful

    "do the pressures of delivering revenues, profits, and products make much of that chatter mere lip-service?"

    Yes.

    "Or are companies actually doing their best to ensure their workers are treated like human beings with lives outside of work?"

    No.

    Next.

    1. Re:This one's easy by rioki · · Score: 1

      Fun fact, creating a good work life balance for your employees may actually have a positive outcome to the bottom line. First, motivated workers generally have something like a 10x higher output. Second, when you have a nice place to work, employees are ready to be payed less; generally they tend to favor a better place to work over a higher salary. Third, having a nice place to work will attract talent and retain it. At least for the tech sector, creating a nice place to work is the egoistical approach.

    2. Re:This one's easy by l3v1 · · Score: 1

      "creating a good work life balance for your employees"

      Well, what I expect from an employer is not to "create" a good work-life balance, but to provide an environment where a day's work can be ended (I didn't say 'finished' on purpose) at the 9 hour mark - unless the employee explicitely wishes to make longer hours for whatever reason - and not have any influence on the out-of-work time at all aside from making it possible to actually have out-of-work time.

      "when you have a nice place to work, employees are ready to be payed less"

      Yeah, I call BS on that. Most people actually work for a living, and deserve proper compensation for their invested talent and time. A "nice place to work" should not be a perk, but expected, and should not feel as something extra that one should be thankful for.

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    3. Re:This one's easy by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Just don't work for Bankster Bezos and his High Performance Hamster Wheel.

      There are alternatives. Many. Including moving to Moscow, Singapore, Shenshen, Berlin and lots of other places.

    4. Re:This one's easy by slashname3 · · Score: 1

      Sign on the message board at work: "The beatings will continue until morale improves!"

    5. Re:This one's easy by david_thornley · · Score: 1

      Some people will be willing to give up some compensation to get better working conditions, and some won't. In cases where money isn't that strong a motivator within a certain range, employees may well decide where to work based on working conditions.

      You might put it that, if you have a crap working environment, people had better be paid a lot better than other places or you'll lose them.

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    6. Re:This one's easy by mongothesecond · · Score: 1

      I think your argument is flawed, as much as I want to agree with it. Like almost everything else, people fall into some bell-curve shaped measurement for any number of traits. Amazon certainly isnt the only company selecting for drive, endurance, capability, and other factors out on one side of the bell curve of a population. At least in the startups I have been part of and seen (mostly in California), there is a clear division between the public relations effort of a company culture, and the fact that results are what matters. You get to have a fun culture that is generous and helpful to its participants as long as the investors think that giving you more rope is going to make them more money. The moment you get past the wild optimism phase, the tone abruptly shifts.

  3. i have emotion by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    I got rejected for amazon twice and may cry now because I only wish they would accept me and I hear about this now and I have sad that people don't appreciate what they and Jim Chen have.

    1. Re:i have emotion by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Maybe your cure your "love" with the Hamster Wheel that is Amazon. Seriously.

  4. Re: Why is the title in red? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Light red text in a bright red background is a terrible choice, but I se the moderators here marked your post as a troll for drying to complain about an ad.

  5. It's not a sound strategy by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

    to think about your employees well being. If someone has a meltdown, they're replaceable. Nobody is special. The innovators are the ones who founded the company and you're the chump that has to do the easy part of making stuff function. Anyone could do it but you qualified and made a good impression during the interview.

    Now quit your whining, cash in your paycheck, and meet that deadline.

    1. Re:It's not a sound strategy by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      You're actually right, even though you're trying to be sarcastic, but you're only half right (at best) since you miss the critical difference between a wage slave and someone who is successful.

      When you are at work, you work your ass off for your employer. When you're not, you work your ass off to promote yourself and develop or your skills so that you can get a better job. Employees are interchangeable, so are employers.

      Also, stay out of debt. Debt is a form of slavery.

    2. Re:It's not a sound strategy by Opportunist · · Score: 1

      It's time some managers learn that they are much, much easier to replace than most techs. How much experience and training does it take to drive a company into the ground and beg for bailouts?

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    3. Re:It's not a sound strategy by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      a. You're confusing managers with executives.
      b. Executives don't have training or experience, but connections.

    4. Re:It's not a sound strategy by swalve · · Score: 1

      And that's why you have to be your own advocate. If they won't tell you what your working hours are when you start the job, don't take it. Once you've put in your time, go home. If you are halfway decent at your job, you don't need to work extra hours.

    5. Re:It's not a sound strategy by Provocateur · · Score: 1

      And last but not least, did the firm bother with composing a mission statement? Did they care to let You --the new employee-- know about it? Or did they skip that and went straight to your work hours? This is the answer to the question, Do they care about you as a human being?

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    6. Re:It's not a sound strategy by RabidReindeer · · Score: 1

      If you think debt is a form of slavery, you don't know what a powerful lever debt can be.

      Some of the most successful companies, explorations, and other major human works started when one or more person mortgaged themselves to finance their efforts. Virtually no company considers itself prepared to grow until it has an established line of credit.

      Getting into a debt you cannot get out of is slavery. For everything else, there's collateral. And insurance.

    7. Re:It's not a sound strategy by 91degrees · · Score: 1

      Personal debt is slavery. As you say, business debt is quite a different animal. The debt becomes part of the business, which you can relatively easily divest yourself of. You no longer have the business but you also no longer have the debt.

      Of course, personal debt being slavery is a bit of a simplification as well.

    8. Re: It's not a sound strategy by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      My household has two full time incomes (one with a lot of overtime) and a part time income. With economy the way it is here in upstate NY, we are still having financial trouble. I don't give a fuck how "good" the workplace is... PAY ME.

    9. Re:It's not a sound strategy by jellomizer · · Score: 1

      On the average the cost to replace an employee is 150% More over a year. Making a culture where people just get kicked out only to be replaced by someone else, who will need to learn how the business operates the written and unwritten rules, knowing what trends will kick in, what breaks more often, isn't economical.

      Normally a new employee will need to stayed hired at an organization for 3 years for them to break even. Years 3-5 are critical time to make sure that employee stays that is where you need to make sure you are ready to offer a raise or some other additional benefit, to make sure he doesn't jump ship for a better job.

      Now that doesn't mean a company should keep all its jobs. Sometimes the companies focus shifts and you don't need particular jobs, Such as how Netflix is transitioning from DVD mailing to Online streaming. That means those guys who are in the mailroom have their jobs at risk, unless they are able move to a different area which is more to the company's new focus.

      However Bad behavior is firing people then replacing them over again, with newer,greener,cheaper employees who will bring a couple of new fresh ideas to the table, however they will need to reinvent hundreds of best practices that had been learned in the past.

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    10. Re:It's not a sound strategy by jellomizer · · Score: 1

      Managers are quite aware of that. That is why they may feel the need to push down on the employees to keep their numbers up.
      The execs who come up with these performance numbers out of their butts are the real problems.
      Their Ego states, because they are so high up that they must be smarter than everyone.
      But the organization is so large they cant grasp what is going on, as it is very complex. So they try to make a simple metric so they can spot what is going on.
      The problem is this metric needs to be easily calculated and none of that Statistical stuff with margin of error, but a hard and fast number of good or bad.
       

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    11. Re:It's not a sound strategy by Ol+Olsoc · · Score: 0

      And that's why you have to be your own advocate. If they won't tell you what your working hours are when you start the job, don't take it. Once you've put in your time, go home. If you are halfway decent at your job, you don't need to work extra hours.

      Rigid fellow aren't ya? Not all careers can be fit into an 8 hour day. Maybe if you work at McDonald's, or the mailroom, or are a low level code monkey.

      I put in much extra time. Field trips, prep for field trips. Meetings and prep for meetings - when you have people coming from across the country for big meetings, they happen whether you are ready or not. Even business or post meeting dinners, which I didn't consider work, but you probably would.

      Had nothing to do with my competency - in fact, the biggest problem was high demand for me.

      It's a different world, for different people. Your rigid world would drive many of us to distraction out of boredom.

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    12. Re:It's not a sound strategy by david_thornley · · Score: 1

      GP said that you need to find out what your working hours are up front, not to make sure it's an 8-hour day. I make it clear in my interviews that I do understand the concept of limited crunch time, and will work longer hours temporarily as actually needed. If they offer me the job after that, I figure they've agreed to reasonable normal working hours. I may have lost some offers because of that, but I really didn't want to work there anyway.

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    13. Re:It's not a sound strategy by Ol+Olsoc · · Score: 1

      GP said that you need to find out what your working hours are up front, not to make sure it's an 8-hour day.

      Might not be a sound strategy if a person demands to know exactly how many hours they will be working. You somehow figure that when they demand that as a condition of working, they aren't demanding a 40 hour week?

      Someone asks me that in an interview, it's over, thank you very much.

      I make it clear in my interviews that I do understand the concept of limited crunch time, and will work longer hours temporarily as actually needed. If they offer me the job after that, I figure they've agreed to reasonable normal working hours. I may have lost some offers because of that, but I really didn't want to work there anyway.

      Yup, and I wouldn't want you working with me either, so it's a match made in heaven. I much prefer professional people who will work to get the task finished. People who have time constraints they place upon their employer should be working non-exempt and punching in and out on a time clock.

      Yeah - I worked a lot of extra hours. Along with other people of the same bent. We were a team, and we enjoyed the heck out of it.

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      The shepherds did so well protecting the flock that the sheep no longer believed that wolves existed.
    14. Re:It's not a sound strategy by blue9steel · · Score: 1

      People who have time constraints they place upon their employer should be working non-exempt and punching in and out on a time clock.

      There is a difference between being flexible and willing to put in extra hours as truly necessary and just being taken advantage of.

    15. Re:It's not a sound strategy by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Technically not. Only personal debt that cannot be erased through bankruptcy is slavery. i.e. student loans

    16. Re:It's not a sound strategy by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Personal debt is in no way slavery unless you use too much of it. Not very many people could ever afford to invest in a house for instance if they didn't mortgage it. The hard part is maintaining disciplined use of it which many have deemed impossible despite the majority of the world doing it everyday. Of course credit card interest rates have gotten out of control which makes judicial use of credit even more difficult.

    17. Re:It's not a sound strategy by Ol+Olsoc · · Score: 1

      People who have time constraints they place upon their employer should be working non-exempt and punching in and out on a time clock.

      There is a difference between being flexible and willing to put in extra hours as truly necessary and just being taken advantage of.

      Sure. Problem I see is way too many slashdotters think that putting anything other than a bare minimum is being tasken advantage of.

      I worked a lot of hours, had a lot of fun, went to a lot of interesting places, met a lot of interesting people, went to a lot of meetings - the least fun part - but still worthwhile as a learning instrument, and was paid pretty well. Then got to retire 10 years early at 55 on my own terms. If that's being taken advantage of, sign me up.

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    18. Re:It's not a sound strategy by blue9steel · · Score: 1

      I worked a lot of hours, had a lot of fun, went to a lot of interesting places, met a lot of interesting people, went to a lot of meetings - the least fun part - but still worthwhile as a learning instrument, and was paid pretty well. Then got to retire 10 years early at 55 on my own terms. If that's being taken advantage of, sign me up.

      I'm glad your anecdotal experience worked out well for you, but that has nothing to do with the broader situation.

    19. Re:It's not a sound strategy by xanthos · · Score: 1

      "Now quit your whining, cash in your paycheck, and meet that arbitrary deadline".

      FTFY.

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    20. Re:It's not a sound strategy by micahraleigh · · Score: 1

      "too many slashdotters think that putting anything other than a bare minimum is being tasken advantage of."

      Slashdotters want to work 20 hours a week. Managers want them to work 55 hours a week.

      The problem is people looking at superficial metrics. A lot can be accomplished in 40 hours when you're not thinking about hours, perceptions, etc.

    21. Re:It's not a sound strategy by micahraleigh · · Score: 1

      Interesting strategy on the 3 years. So how do you address the "critical time" if most tech workers don't make it to 2?

    22. Re:It's not a sound strategy by Ol+Olsoc · · Score: 1

      I'm glad your anecdotal experience worked out well for you, but that has nothing to do with the broader situation.

      Its anecdotes all the way down.

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      The shepherds did so well protecting the flock that the sheep no longer believed that wolves existed.
    23. Re:It's not a sound strategy by TranquilVoid · · Score: 1

      It's partially a zero-sum game. If everyone worked as many "lot of hours" as you, then chances are you wouldn't have been able to retire at 55.

    24. Re:It's not a sound strategy by Ol+Olsoc · · Score: 1

      It's partially a zero-sum game. If everyone worked as many "lot of hours" as you, then chances are you wouldn't have been able to retire at 55.

      His eyes wide open!

      Everything is relative. And I'm not even telling people this is how they should act. Merely a little bit about effort, attitude, and rewards. There is enough laziness and fear that someone may take advantage in most people, that I'm not even worried about sharing this knowledge. Most think my approach to work and career is stupid. Good for them. I'm certain that they reap the rewards of their smarter outlook. I dunno, most of the posters here seem pretty miserable, or brag how they only work 40 hours a week as if it were the core of their job.

      To your accurate point of the concept of the effect being destroyed if everyone did it - a restaurant analogy

      I am a big tipper, as in a really big tipper. And I almost never get bad service. The same with my wife. In the places we frequent, our drinks are often ready when we enter the dining area. We're not overly demanding, we're pleasant, we respect the staff, and we tip big.

      Now if everyone did that, it would destroy the effect. In the meantime, I'm taking advantage of it.

      But just like my approach to career and my work habits, I know that will never happen. Most people simply cannot comprehend it.

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      The shepherds did so well protecting the flock that the sheep no longer believed that wolves existed.
    25. Re:It's not a sound strategy by david_thornley · · Score: 1

      I am task-oriented, and want to get it done well. I really can't function on any other basis.

      If there's things that come up occasionally that require me to work extra hours, I understand that and will do so. If the job normally requires extra hours, I'm not interested.

      Moreover, if the development job typically requires in excess of 45 hours a week, the employer is not getting its money's worth. After that point, employees tend to burn out and are overall less productive. Moreover, suppose you have a scheduling issue and need some extra work. If people are normally working 40 hours a week, they can usually work much longer for a short time. If they're normally working 60 hours a week, they're tired and additional hours are just going to make the situation worse.

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    26. Re:It's not a sound strategy by Ol+Olsoc · · Score: 1

      I am task-oriented, and want to get it done well. I really can't function on any other basis.

      If there's things that come up occasionally that require me to work extra hours, I understand that and will do so. If the job normally requires extra hours, I'm not interested.

      Moreover, if the development job typically requires in excess of 45 hours a week, the employer is not getting its money's worth.

      Odd. My employers had no issues with my productivity. I didn't specifically get paid for working OT, but I made much much more than the other employees in my department. Most had your outlook

      After that point, employees tend to burn out and are overall less productive.

      Especially if you feel very put upon. For the most part, I felt rather appreciated. I also rode through the occasional downturn while some folks got themselves a lot more free time.

      Regardless, just my outlook and attitude, seemed to work very, very well for me.

      By the way, given that I retired at 55 on my own terms, and that typically people retire at around 67, that's roughly 24 thousand hours - assuming 2 weeks of vacation per year - I won't work - that many will.

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    27. Re:It's not a sound strategy by swalve · · Score: 1

      I'm in a similar position, but I get my work done in the allotted time. I've just noticed that a vast majority of people who work long hours do a hell of a lot of fucking around.

    28. Re:It's not a sound strategy by Ol+Olsoc · · Score: 1

      I'm in a similar position, but I get my work done in the allotted time. I've just noticed that a vast majority of people who work long hours do a hell of a lot of fucking around.

      And people who can't work over 40 hours are often lazy. Spare me the innuendo. You're amazing productivity wouldn't work if you had my job. Very often the work came in at 1655, and was due at 0800. Or I was in a remote field test, where things happen when they happen. Or the meeting I was in started early, and ended late.

      Oddly enough, a fair number of co-workers always had a reason they couldn't come in early or leave late, or go on field testing. Car pooling, making dinner for the husband, so there were even times I took over their tasks to get them finished. I'm not certain that counts as their productivity. I was probably a dillemma for some as well, because while they might dislike me making them look bad by comparison, my willingness to get things done sort of kept them out of problems at times.

      I've noted before, when downturns came, and people had ot be cut, it wasn't the highest paid guy in the group, but the person who was so productive they never worked more than 40 hours? Gone.

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    29. Re:It's not a sound strategy by swalve · · Score: 1

      So you are bragging about being the whipping boy.

    30. Re:It's not a sound strategy by Ol+Olsoc · · Score: 1

      So you are bragging about being the whipping boy.

      No. I'm merely offering an alternative to the almost universal Slashdotter opinion that you dare not work more than 40 hours.

      The scientists and engineers I worked with were right there with me in most cases, except whne I was preparing something in a real panic for the director. And despite slash dotters view of the suits as sociopaths, most aren't, and when I made the big guy look good, I look good, and that has its rewards.

      Maybe I come from a different world, maybe the almost universal slashdotter is a wage worker, with a fear that any extra time is a violation ot their dignity and human rights.

      We were professionals, doing professional work and research. And it doesn't always conform to a time clock punch.

      And "whipping boy"? Oh dear, not even remotely. Not a whipping boy, not a house boy. The only thing my employer took advantage of was my abilities. Probably something you and many wouldn't understand, I'm beginning to believe. It does seem like an impediment to upward mobility, to be frank.

      But I'm curious. When slash dotters brag about how no one will take advantage of them and make them work more than 40 hours a week, and I offer an alternative viewpoint, its so curious how many people take this as a personal affront. I worked hard, was well respected, and was well compensated, and had a rather nice career. Why that's aa apparent personal problem with some people is worth investigating.

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    31. Re:It's not a sound strategy by david_thornley · · Score: 1

      There's always exceptions to every rule that involves humans. Most people can't work extended hours for a long time and still be as productive.

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  6. Example must be set by team leads / managers by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    If the team leads and managers of projects have no life outside the company, they'll establish a no-life culture among their team. No one wants to be the first to exit at the end of the day.

    1. Re:Example must be set by team leads / managers by Opportunist · · Score: 4, Insightful

      If your company has a "first to leave is a slacker" culture, don't expect me to show up before noon.

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    2. Re:Example must be set by team leads / managers by phantomfive · · Score: 3, Insightful

      No one wants to be the first to exit at the end of the day.

      I am always happy to be the first one to leave at the end of the day. We shouldn't be unduly affected by peer pressure.

      I can get away with it because my work is good, and I work hard during the hours I'm at work. If a company prefers "sitting in a seat" over "doing quality work," then I can find a better company.

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    3. Re:Example must be set by team leads / managers by jellomizer · · Score: 1

      Normally I was the first to leave, but I was also the first to get there. My projects are on time, and the quality is up.

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    4. Re:Example must be set by team leads / managers by Ol+Olsoc · · Score: 1

      If your company has a "first to leave is a slacker" culture, don't expect me to show up before noon.

      I wouldn't expect you to show up at all.

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    5. Re:Example must be set by team leads / managers by swillden · · Score: 1

      If your company has a "first to leave is a slacker" culture, don't expect me to show up before noon.

      Don't expect me to show up at all.

      I've had a few interviews over the years with companies who felt that such a "work ethic" was important. I declined their offers. Were I to accidentally allow myself to be hired by one such, I'd be around just enough to avoid getting fired until I had found another job.

      Of course, these days I refuse to consider any position that doesn't allow full-time telecommuting and that pretty much eliminates any concern about face time-based evaluation of my "slacking".

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    6. Re:Example must be set by team leads / managers by david_thornley · · Score: 1

      I'm usually among the later to leave. That's because I'm usually among the later to arrive. Worst part is that all the good parking spots can be taken when I get in.

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    7. Re:Example must be set by team leads / managers by tehcyder · · Score: 1

      If your company has a "first to leave is a slacker" culture, don't expect me to show up before noon.

      I don't think you understand how it works. Anywhere with that attitude will also have a "last to arrive is a slacker" culture too.

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    8. Re:Example must be set by team leads / managers by Opportunist · · Score: 1

      You can have me early or late. Pick one.

      Sorry, but IT security is a pretty specialized field, with lots of demand and very few people able to offer the skill set needed. In other words, "my way or the highway" means that people will go travel elsewhere.

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  7. Work-life balance thrives where it is prioritized by i+work+on+computers · · Score: 5, Insightful

    I've had three employers: one Fortune 500 company and two 50 employee consulting companies. At the big company, I worked 50-60 hours/week in a high stress environment, but the work was exciting and I really enjoyed it.

    At the two smaller companies, it is rare that I would work over 41 hours/week. I've never done it in 6 months at my current company. I think it is easier for small consulting companies to offer a balance like this because our clients won't pay for more than 40 hours/week except under exceptional circumstances, and our company does a great job being realistic about timelines so we almost always deliver on time.

    You can find work-life balance, but you have to look for it and prioritize it in you job search. I would probably make 10-20% more had I stayed at the large company, but the relaxed hours are worth it to me.

    I'll also note that this is in the Midwest, where all you tech people from the coasts complaining about not finding jobs should move.

  8. Re: Why is the title in red? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Careful. Complaining about ads here will get you banned.

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      ... they once would when posting a link to "sister" sites ...

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      Just a friendly reminder that Nerval's Lobster is a Dice shill account, and posts articles for Dice.com. Oh, and that editors either refuse to, or are banned from, putting a disclaimer that Dice.com is owned by Dice Holdings, Inc., the parent company of Slashdot, as they once would when posting a link to "sister" sites prior to being purchased by Dice.

      There's like this thing. It's called Who Gives a Damn? If Dice wants to submit a story, then fine. And if they want to say its from Nerval's Lobster, and that pisses you off, then start over at the beginning of the italicized part.

      It's a story, its kinda interesting. Bitching about the source is a little silly, especially if it isn't about Dice, but a subject people might be interested in.

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      Bitching about the source is a little silly

      Not when the source holds a status of privilege above other sources and the connection is not disclosed.

      My personal problem isn't Slashdot having articles linking to Dice, or even using a shill account; it's the refusal to post a disclaimer about sharing a parent company. /.ers cry foul over any article where the author has a potential conflict of interest and does not disclose it; why should we do any different when Slashdot editors post a Dice story?

    5. Re: Reminder: This is a Dicevertisement by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I think the implication is that if the story were really of interest to the community, then someone would have submitted it organically instead of disguising it to make it look like it came from the community. This article (like all of Nerval's stories) is astroturfing, and there's nothing inherently wrong with pointing that out.

    6. Re:Reminder: This is a Dicevertisement by RyoShin · · Score: 1

      I think Beta was actually their attempt to monetize Slashdot, but the community reaction was so horrendous (and rightfully so, IMO) that they had to cancel it, which is why they're looking to sell off Slashdot. These Dicevertisements are just a little side action for them, for whatever ads I'm sure they have plastered over their own page.

    7. Re:Reminder: This is a Dicevertisement by RyoShin · · Score: 1

      I'm talking about when it was owned by Geeknet. Any time they posted a link to, say, SourceForge, they would mention that SourceForge and Slashdot are both owned by the same company.

    8. Re:Reminder: This is a Dicevertisement by Ol+Olsoc · · Score: 0

      Bitching about the source is a little silly

      Not when the source holds a status of privilege above other sources and the connection is not disclosed.

      So what? You have a problem with Nerval's lobster don't read it's postings, you kno how to avoid getting all pissed about it.

      Your bitching about it is just like the people bitching "Why is this even on Slashdot?" Its here because it's here.

      Sucks to not have absolute control over what is written eh?

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    9. Re:Reminder: This is a Dicevertisement by RyoShin · · Score: 1

      You have a problem with Nerval's lobster don't read it's postings

      I didn't; I just saw "Nerval's Lobster" and made my post. While you know about Nerval's Lobster, and I know about Nerval's Lobster, there are many who don't, especially newer users. Therefore, I do what Slashdot editors will not.

      Incidentally, you seem to be rather pissed about my comment. Why did you not take your own advice and simply not read it? :)

    10. Re:Reminder: This is a Dicevertisement by Oligonicella · · Score: 0

      Pissed? Seems quite a reach.

    11. Re:Reminder: This is a Dicevertisement by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Business is evil, and so are corporations that make money so they can meet payroll for stretches lasting more than a few months.

      - clueless Slashdot morons hiding in their parents' basement

    12. Re:Reminder: This is a Dicevertisement by Ol+Olsoc · · Score: 0

      I'm talking about when it was owned by Geeknet. Any time they posted a link to, say, SourceForge, they would mention that SourceForge and Slashdot are both owned by the same company.

      Keep workin' it RyoShin, you're more annoying than moo cow guy at this point. A little more, and you'll be on the same level as hostfile guy.

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    13. Re:Reminder: This is a Dicevertisement by Ol+Olsoc · · Score: 1

      Incidentally, you seem to be rather pissed about my comment. Why did you not take your own advice and simply not read it? :)

      Au contraire, mon frere, I'm not pissed, I'm agitation engineering with someone who is posting AC caliber stuff while using an ID.

      I have no intention of not reading your stuff, it gives me mirth - showing me someone to make fun of for their pettyness.

      Now to drop to seriousness for a moment, if the posts from Nerval's Lobster were the self serving stuff posted by say, Microsoft shill propagandists, maybe there is a reason to take umbrage.

      But this? Work-life balance for tech pros? Hardly even qualifies as clickbait, such as the Women in STEM stuff.

      I hope you are a pretty old fellow, since people tend to get crankier in their old age. If you aren't old, I forsee a future of chasing those consharned teenagers off your lawn in your golf cart, while shaking your cane at them. Drive careful now.

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    14. Re: Reminder: This is a Dicevertisement by Ol+Olsoc · · Score: 1

      astroturfing,

      You keep using that word. I do not think it means what you think it means. https://www.youtube.com/watch?...

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    15. Re:Reminder: This is a Dicevertisement by tehcyder · · Score: 1

      editors either refuse to, or are banned from, putting a disclaimer that Dice.com is owned by Dice Holdings, Inc.

      Maybe I'm missing something, but isn't that pretty self evident because of the names? If Dice Holding Inc was called Randomnoun Inc, then fair enough.

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    16. Re:Reminder: This is a Dicevertisement by RyoShin · · Score: 1

      Yeah, I was just making sure the relationship was clear (that /. is owned by DHI, not by Dice.com)

  10. Re: Why is the title in red? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Not understanding a good UI is the mark of a Republican.

  11. I wonder by khelms · · Score: 2

    I wonder if someday "going Amazon" will be part of our vocabulary.

  12. Re: Why is the title in red? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    What is wrong with red text on top of a red background?

  13. Work-Life Balance Isn't Profitable by Irate+Engineer · · Score: 1

    1) Hire new STEM worker, reset pay scale to minimum.

    2) Drive worker to burnout in two years or so, worker leaves/commits suicide/has heart attack.

    3) PROFIT!!

    4) Start process again at 1)

    Keeping employees around that expect periodic raises and sensible work-life balance will never increase profit margins in the short term. Only companies concerned about the long term and brain drain (and few are) will do anything to change this. Most just want billable hours.

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    Vote for Bernie in 2016!

    1. Re:Work-Life Balance Isn't Profitable by Opportunist · · Score: 4, Informative

      That works as long as you don't need to train your staff. But, well, you know how managers are. "Burger joint, IT security consulting, I can manage anything, what's the difference anyway?"

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    2. Re:Work-Life Balance Isn't Profitable by Ol+Olsoc · · Score: 1

      That works as long as you don't need to train your staff. But, well, you know how managers are. "Burger joint, IT security consulting, I can manage anything, what's the difference anyway?"

      That should be marked insightful or informative.

      Modern business and elsewhere now wants MBA's as managers. No experience needed in the working field. My last manager had absolutely no idea about what I did, and very little about my co-workers. During one of our meetings I told him that I could bullshit him into anything, and he'd have no idea ifI was being truthful or not.

      He was a nice enough guy, but having no idea about how or what we did was a disaster.

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      The shepherds did so well protecting the flock that the sheep no longer believed that wolves existed.
    3. Re:Work-Life Balance Isn't Profitable by Irate+Engineer · · Score: 1

      That works as long as you don't need to train your staff.

      Yes. However, in a lot of places, "training" is a terse statement to the worker to "figure it out [dumbass, or get fired]*" All that "self-motivated, quick learner" BS in the job description, remember? "Training" == "stressed out monkeys Googling shit like their next meal depended on it."

      *The bit in square brackets is rarely said aloud, because HR, but there is a special low frequency managerial growl that gets this across quite succinctly.

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    4. Re:Work-Life Balance Isn't Profitable by Provocateur · · Score: 1

      And Mr. I ate an Engineer do you hate gotos so much that you forget we really start counting at 1 (one). See your step 4 to get more confused.

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    5. Re:Work-Life Balance Isn't Profitable by Provocateur · · Score: 1

      The bit in square brackets is rarely said aloud, because HR, but there is a special low frequency managerial growl that gets this across quite succinctly.

      If you know this quote, you know what it's talking about:

      Third prize is you're fired

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    6. Re:Work-Life Balance Isn't Profitable by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Damn. I really wanted the steak knives.

    7. Re:Work-Life Balance Isn't Profitable by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      There are corporations who know better. My impression of Google and Apple is that they indeed know what they do. At least until Steve was alive.

    8. Re:Work-Life Balance Isn't Profitable by jellomizer · · Score: 3, Insightful

      This is what I was taught in Business School.
      Employee turnover cost 150% more to replace then to keep. So you will break even if you replace a $125k with a $50k assuming that the new guy is capable of doing the work. The period of burnout means you will not be able to recoup your costs, as you are just paying the employee to be trained to work for your competitor.

      I don't know where a lot of companies went to business schools to get their MBA. But I went to an accredited one that focused a lot on ethics, and long term planning.

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    9. Re:Work-Life Balance Isn't Profitable by david_thornley · · Score: 1

      I worked for a Director once who didn't understand the first thing about software, and it worked well. He knew what he didn't know, and trusted us to know that instead of him.

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    10. Re:Work-Life Balance Isn't Profitable by david_thornley · · Score: 1

      There's a book called Peopleware, by DeMarco and Lister. In one chapter, they had a quiz for managers: what is your turnover, and how much does it cost you to replace someone? At the end of the chapter, they said that if the manager actually answers both questions, they pass.

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    11. Re:Work-Life Balance Isn't Profitable by Opportunist · · Score: 1

      That can work if, and only if, the manager knows that he doesn't know the subject and concentrates on his strengths, i.e. getting the stuff his people need.

      If such a person insists in micro managing his people, it's time to start reading job ads.

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    12. Re:Work-Life Balance Isn't Profitable by Ol+Olsoc · · Score: 1

      I worked for a Director once who didn't understand the first thing about software, and it worked well. He knew what he didn't know, and trusted us to know that instead of him.

      Well now, that's a different kettle o'fish. If a person knows what they don't know - that's a basis for a constructive work relationship. I had a similar relationship with my director(s), and the folks directly below him and the department heads.

      It's when you get an MBA who is clueless, but doesn't think they are - that the problems develop.

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      The shepherds did so well protecting the flock that the sheep no longer believed that wolves existed.
  14. Re: Why is the title in red? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Because Republicans don't pay attention to what they're doing.

  15. What does the contract say? by __aaclcg7560 · · Score: 3, Interesting

    As an I.T. support contractor for the last ten years, my contracts prohibits me from working overtime. I'm only allowed to work from Monday through Friday, during regular business hours. Which is fine with me.

    1. Re:What does the contract say? by Jack+Griffin · · Score: 1

      I've been around IT a bit, and found the demands vary greatly between industries. I don't like working much, so over time have maneuvered myself into what I consider the one of best work-life balance roles, in one of the least demanding industries.
      I now work Mon-Fri, two days from home each week. Supposed to be 9-5 but quite often start late and finish early, and have long lunches.
      Fuck working, it's for chumps.

    2. Re:What does the contract say? by Ol+Olsoc · · Score: 1

      As an I.T. support contractor for the last ten years, my contracts prohibits me from working overtime. I'm only allowed to work from Monday through Friday, during regular business hours. Which is fine with me.

      We have that too, except we're only allowed to charge for 40 hours. How much we work is a "gray" area.

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    3. Re:What does the contract say? by Oligonicella · · Score: 2

      I billed the number of hours I worked. I never had to work over forty hours. "You realize that will be time and a half." always stopped any request for more.

    4. Re:What does the contract say? by __aaclcg7560 · · Score: 1

      My contract is black-and-white with no grey areas. If I worked overtime without authorization, I will get fired.

  16. Re: Why is the title in red? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Because red means warning, dumbass.

  17. Re: Why is the title in red? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Go away troll.

  18. Re: Why is the title in red? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    You sound angry like you need a vacation.

  19. Here's what my employer said... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    "We need you to work bell to bell (12 hours) 7 days a week until further notice. If you don't then McDonalds is hiring." I did, but then it cost them over 3 million dollars in medical bills.

    1. Re:Here's what my employer said... by jellomizer · · Score: 1

      McDonalds is hiring, but so is your biggest competitor who would love to get their hands on a trained employee with insider knowledge.

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      If something is so important that you feel the need to post it on the internet... It probably isn't that important.
  20. Bail by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Unless you're running your own show you're being run at a profit.

    Tech has low upward mobility and if you're smart enough to do it you're smart enough to do something else.

    Do something else that pays real money, save a few hundred k, then go do whatever the hell you want.

    I got off the tech treadmill a few years ago when I saw the writing on the wall. I work in investment finance now; I leverage my background as a EE routinely. I mop the floor with my colleagues on any metric. You can learn how to interact with people confidently. Fake it 'till you make it. It is a puzzle like any other.

    Conservative estimates will have me able to retire at 45 with a replacement income to cover base living costs in area of the country with FTTH and sane living costs. Then I can do what I want.

    Don't believe the lies. Bail. Fuck 'em. Find another way to live. There is no other life. Do you want to spend it crying at a desk or searching Dice (ha!) for your next bullshit coding job?

    1. Re:Bail by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      This.

      Same AC here who's thinking about giving commercial fishing a try. I've also thought about finance. I just think about people who have no computer skills doing things by hand or using limited software and I wouldn't doubt I could, like you, mop the floor with them using my data analysis skills and and creating custom tools. Right now, all my skills accomplish is a modest paycheck to paycheck lifestyle while making other people rich.

      I certainly wouldn't mind being a banker and driving a Lambo instead of being a dork driving a subcompact. Who cares if I'd be fucking other people in that position? This world is "I've got mine, fuck you!" because every two years all the temporarily embarrassed millionaires go out and re-elect corporate tools that will implement a proper healthcare system and basic guaranteed income around the time hell freezes over.

      If you're a tech worker, get out now. Certainly get out before TISA's on the table.

      If you're good at tech, there are plenty of other ways to get paid what you're actually worth. The H-1B floodgates are just starting to really open, and it seems like just a matter of time until you're falsely accused of sexual harassment or some microaggression and crucified by an internet lynch mob as being yet another example of how tech workers are all just a bunch of sexually frustrated misogynerds who create a "toxic" environment that drives women out of tech.

      I have been told to my face by laypersons that bugs in a 3rd party proprietary piece of shit I didn't have any say in purchasing or deciding to use were caused by some supposed "sexism" I'm guilty of and if the company had hired a woman for my position, that software would be bug-free. That was before this SJW shit really started to take off.

  21. Go away greenwow by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    You are an idiot. And stop replying to your own stupid posts

  22. Incompetence & inexperience by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    throughout all layers of a company are the main causes why work-life balance is so horrible.
    Kids come right out of high school thinking they are the next Steve Jobs or are entitled to earn +150K because their are fresh and excited.
    But the only way to make up for the lack of skills and experience is working long hours and hope you might just get lucky.
    Einstein, Tesla (the real one), Edison and Franklin were innovators. Jobs, Zuckerberg, Musk and Schmidt are nothing more than lucky leeches that prey on the inanity and efforts of young people and pretend they came up with the whole solution themselves.

    1. Re:Incompetence & inexperience by Opportunist · · Score: 1

      The only EFFICIENT way to make up for lack of skill and experience is gain skill and experience. Working long hours will not get you jack. Working long hours gets you tired and worn out, and neither is good if you plan to gain skill and experience.

      If you lack skill and experience, get a job that allows you to set enough time aside to gain that skill and experience. Because yes, you may learn a thing or two on the job, too. But it's inefficient. At a job, you usually do the same things over and over (especially if you're not in the "skilled and experienced" personnel group), because you have to do routine work, too. Routine work does not let you learn anything new.

      Don't let anyone bullshit you into "oh, you'll learn that while working, just tack on a few more hours and you'll learn faster". Bullshit. Learning requires doing what's necessary to learn. Not what's necessary to get work done.

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  23. Oh, muh feelz ! by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    What the f*ck is that bullshit ? Who cares about "work/life balance" in a world where you know that as some point you always get downsized, and you have to scramble finding another job while your savings dwindle to zero.
    Another piece of "muh feelings!" bullcrap to catter to the "women in STEM" affirmative action hires demographic ?

    1. Re:Oh, muh feelz ! by PopeRatzo · · Score: 1

      What the f*ck is that bullshit ? Who cares about "work/life balance" in a world where you know that as some point you always get downsized, and you have to scramble finding another job while your savings dwindle to zero.
      Another piece of "muh feelings!" bullcrap to catter to the "women in STEM" affirmative action hires demographic ?

      I think I'm starting to understand why you're the one who always gets downsized.

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    2. Re:Oh, muh feelz ! by Oligonicella · · Score: 1

      Only a fool will sacrifice their personal life for work. That, or a person with no personal life to begin with.

    3. Re:Oh, muh feelz ! by david_thornley · · Score: 1

      It can be a good investment, provided it's limited in duration. I work in order to have a personal life, and am aware of my priorities.

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    4. Re:Oh, muh feelz ! by micahraleigh · · Score: 1

      A subtle but inexpressible difference between surviving and living.

  24. Dupe Ad by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Wow, a dupe from months ago to generate more ad traffic for Dice by writing a news article on a previously covered story. Slow news day?

    Reminds me of another story a few years ago about news agencies 'refreshing' articles by changing timestamps to get the stories picked up again by search engines and listed as new news.

  25. I refuse to work beyond shift by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 5, Insightful

    If I'm hired to work days, which is all I will take, I work from the minute I start until the minute it's time to leave. I don't work for free. I'd rather be an hourly worker because they will not be so quick to take advantage of you. Currently I'm salaried, but my boss knows I'm 8-5, no nights, no weekends. I might work a special event if I get a comp day. My time is valuable, I'm in my 40s so I know how the game is played, and I do push back when pushed. I do my job, they like the results, so no one messes with me when it's time to find warm bodies to work odd events. My time at home is more valuable. I cannot hit the rewind button. The time I have with my children can never be given back to me.

    1. Re:I refuse to work beyond shift by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

      I find it interesting that 8-5 is getting quite common as being considered regular work hours, and used as an example of what's considered reasonable when compared to the bullshit that a lot of other people have to work with. It's interesting to me specifically because I still work the typical, old-fashioned 9-5 hours, with no sign of that changing any time soon (I don't live in the US).

      To me, the fact that companies have managed to scrape in that extra hour at the beginning and make it seem typical is a good example of how if you change things very slowly, very quietly, then people won't notice the reduction in free time (and ability to sleep in a bit) until it's too late. It's only an extra hour per day, sure, but incremental changes like this will be seen as ridiculous compared to what people used to find acceptable.

    2. Re:I refuse to work beyond shift by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      What does the contract say? If salaried or no statement about hours, core hours are in effect and you can basically be flexible any way you want around that.
      It's not like they'll give raises above inflation anyways (~3%).
      If some manager give you BS about it, calmly explain to go through the contract and see where there is disagreement.
      Modern leaders will recognize that flexible hours really goes both ways. If not, they're being unreasonable and you can call them out on it based on the facts.
      On the flip side, it's harder to be compensated overtime after office hours, unless for clearly odd hours. However, that's part of the "flexible" package too.

      Just stop being an easily exploited pushover.

    3. Re:I refuse to work beyond shift by AmiMoJo · · Score: 1

      It's interesting that this post is currently at +4 Insightful. Here is a guy who puts his family first and refuses to do overtime, yet still expects to be paid properly for his time and won't take any crap. All well and good, except that people complain that women who want to avoid overtime so they can see their families are not working as hard and thus don't deserve to be paid as well.

      It's just just an anecdote. there is data showing that after having children men's income tends to rise and women's tends to fall. With men it's seen as them being mature and no-nonsense, both attractive qualities that command higher wages, while with women it's seen as compromising their career and forcing colleagues to pick up the slack.

      We should all be more like this AC, and treat a willingness to do 60 hour weeks as a negative quality. It's basically self-harm, or like selling a kidney.

      Okay guys, mob bomb away...

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    4. Re:I refuse to work beyond shift by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      The time I have with my children can never be given back to me.

      That's why I chose to not have children.

    5. Re:I refuse to work beyond shift by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      when you say that data shows that mens income rises after having children and women's falls
      did they (whoever provided the data) control for work-home balance of the people involved?

      I ask because my assumption would be that
      - men are the provider .... therefore they tend shift work-home balance more to work on having children (cause more to provide for)
      - women are the nurturer ... therefore they tend shift work-home balance more to home on having children (cause more to nurture)
      at least compared to each-other

      if they didn't that data doesn't say squat that's worthwhile,
      if they did I'd be real interested in reading their study cause I haven't seen one yet that properly controls for this crucial variable

    6. Re:I refuse to work beyond shift by radish · · Score: 1

      I actually wouldn't want to be hourly. The reason is, my work (and that of my employees) is measured by success, by what we do and what we produce - not by how long it takes to do so. Paying by the hour is, in my view, rewarding slowness. My workplace gives me the flexibility to work when/wherever I need to - yesterday for example I took the morning to go to an event at my kids school. Had I been on some 9-5 hourly rate that would have cost me $$$, as it was, no big deal.

      I literally Do. Not. Care what hours my staff work, with the exception that if I notice someone overdoing it (which is a temptation for younger engineers) I'm gonna talk to them about it. We agree on the work that's going to get done in advance, and as long as people are pulling their weight it's all good.

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    7. Re:I refuse to work beyond shift by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Bullshit.

      First of all, non sequitur, but point me to all these women who are taking classes to learn programming and are being denied jobs. You can't. They don't exist. The people steering them away are parents, teachers, high school counselors, and now, sadly, "feminists." (We can only take their word for it, but I don't think they're really feminists.) If a woman does go into tech, guess who chases her out. Not her technical co-workers! It's gaslighting asshole pinheaded managers.

      I have seen two women with excellent skills get chased out of tech by sexist gaslighting asshole managers. One of them is currently pursuing a discrimination lawsuit, at my suggestion. I did not know the other personally so I was unable to help her outside of reporting sexual harassment she'd made me aware of to upper management. I have a feeling she was retaliated against by said asshole manager and that's why she ultimately left.

      Lawsuits are how you fight this bullshit, not by blaming tech workers because of their assigned gender at birth. You want to keep blaming all people, whether male or female, who were assigned the male gender at birth for this shit? This is how you chase people out of the field who want to help. I am sick and fucking tired of idiots like you presuming that I'm a sexist and a racist. I am so fucking sick of it. I am not a hiring manager. I do not set others' wages. How dare you blame people like me for these problems and let the asshole managers causing them off the hook?

      I will be leaving the field in roughly two years, and I doubt I'll come back. You can keep your toxic, sexist environment and keep right on gaslighting and blaming "misogynerds" and telling trans women they're not real women but just "mentally ill misogynerds."

      Second, it's been shown that women pay women less than men pay women, at least for academic positions. Explain to me how that works if women are victims of the patriarchy. No, women are complicit. Don't get me any "internalized misogyny" bullshit. That's an excuse and a piss-poor one at that.

      Third, the difference in pay between men and women with four year degrees in the same line of work, working the same hours is a rounding error.

      Fourth, if you want to see a pay discrepancy, what you do is look at people with only a high school education and ignore career choice. Then you get that huge pay gap everybody likes to gaslight about by saying it's across the board. Why? Women get minimum wage jobs. Men tend to become pipe fitters and machinists and HVAC techs and plumbers and work on fishing boats.

      I don't have a reference for the children thing, but I would guess one's income would go down after taking a 12-14 year hiatus from the workforce. That's just common sense. That's what my mother did until she thought I was old enough to look after my brother for a few hours after school.

      You keep repeating this delusional statistical lie that women are paid much less than men across the board.

      I refuse to feel guilty about the gender I was assigned at birth.

      I refuse to feel guilty for the actions of others.

      I am not a rapist who has yet to be caught in the act. I am not an "invader." I am an individual person. My mind was female from the day I was born. That's the body part that defines who I am. I don't know why you shitlords focus so much on an oversized clitoris.

      Fuck you.

    8. Re:I refuse to work beyond shift by Lorens · · Score: 1

      Here is a guy who puts his family first

      Hmmm . . . you may be right, of course, but actually I cannot see anything the GP post that indicates the author's gender!

    9. Re:I refuse to work beyond shift by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      There's nothing special about it. 8-5 is 8 hours of work and one hour for lunch. No one is scraping in anything unless you let them.

    10. Re:I refuse to work beyond shift by toddestan · · Score: 1

      Used to be that 9-5 included your lunch and other breaks. At some point employers managed to change lunch to unpaid for white collar workers while still expecting you to be at your desk for 8 hours so now it's 8-5 (or 9-6). For a lot of blue collar jobs, especially when there multiple shifts, it's still an 9-5 or a similar eight-hour block (for first shift).

  26. ha by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

    One of the "core values" of my company is work/life balance but you wouldn't know it looking at the IT department.

  27. A lot of it is driven by the engineers themselves. by Shados · · Score: 4, Insightful

    Yes, companies sometimes push employees too hard. Lately in engineering though, you can punch the CEO in the face and he/she'll say "Sorry, please don't quit", with the current market. Obviously not true of all IT positions, but in engineering, it almost is.

    So there's really no reason to screw over your work life balance, aside for maybe a pager rotation for emergencies (but the company should have a level 2 or 3 support to handle he common cases...I guess those guys work/life balance is fucked. Sorry)

    Engineers however, are arrogant as fuck, and want to be at the top of the food chain, so a couple of them will willingly fuck over their work life balance. Then they'll get promoted for it (which is a problem with the company...but its hard to say no to someone who delivered twice as much for the same pay, even if he/she screwed over their life over it).

    Then, people will feel they have to do this to compete. And thus, the New York Times Pseudo-Amazon is born.

    Employers should not reward those people, and other engineers should NOT worship them. You don't need a union to make things reasonable, but please for god's sake, don't encourage your peers who do that shit.

  28. Re: Why is the title in red? by Ol+Olsoc · · Score: 2
    Hey AC's

    When a story is first posted, it's in red. Now be good boys, and take your blood pressure meds.

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  29. Re:Work-life balance thrives where it is prioritiz by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

    > worked 50-60 hours/week in a high stress environment

    That doesn't sound very high stress. That still gives you plenty of time to do personal things. Comeback when you work Seattle "hundreds" for a few months.

  30. Re:Work-life balance thrives where it is prioritiz by Bengie · · Score: 1

    I also live in the midwest. 40 hour weeks are the norm. I've only recently started to have to work weekends. About 2 hours on Saturday or Sunday, then I get a full day floating paid vacation time. I have to work another 2 hours next Saturday, so I'm taking a work day off before the Christmas holiday.

  31. Re:A lot of it is driven by the engineers themselv by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    "Engineers however, are arrogant as fuck, and want to be at the top of the food chain, so a couple of them will willingly fuck over their work life balance"

    To me, an engineer, I see management as being arrogant as fuck. They fuck the work life balance of their resources in order to put themselves at the top of the food chain...

  32. Re:A lot of it is driven by the engineers themselv by killfixx · · Score: 2

    It's not just engineers. I work in education and there are two of those people I can think of off the top of my head. Both of them gave tons of free time to the company to get promoted and now everyone else is held to their standard.

    Already have my resume out.

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  33. Re:Work-life balance thrives where it is prioritiz by StormReaver · · Score: 1

    I'll also note that this is in the Midwest, where all you tech people from the coasts complaining about not finding jobs should move.

    I think you're an H1-B Visa loving CEO of a midwest company looking to reduce your payroll expenses, because you've just invited a whole bunch of tech people to flood the midwest. If that were to happen, midwest tech wages would plummet.

    If you're really who you claim to be in this posting, then you are actively sabotaging your ability to have a work/life balance.

  34. Re:A lot of it is driven by the engineers themselv by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Are they still working hard or were they just kissing ass?

  35. what the market will bear by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    My simple advice... whatever you choose to do... work hard in your early years and save lots of money so that later in life you have options. Life is all about choices and options.

  36. Re:Work-life balance thrives where it is prioritiz by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    My work-life balance was to work 70 hours a week for fourteenteen years then retire. YMMV. Work is for suckers.

  37. Re:Work-life balance thrives where it is prioritiz by KermodeBear · · Score: 1

    I work for a company with about 250 employees, and it is rare that I work more than 45 hours a week. Our managers will tell people, "Go home, you've worked enough today," and when you go on vacation, "Don't check your mail or anything, you're on vacation, the rest of us are here and can handle any emergencies while you're gone."

    My company has a TON of problems: Product owners make promises to clients we can't keep, our release process changes from product to product, logging is inadequate at best, requirements are often vague, and we have to deal with way too many terrible contractors from India, but unless there is a major emergency at least you won't be overworked.

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  38. Re: Why is the title in red? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    It's communism! (Common foreground colour, common background colour, get it?)

  39. Re:A lot of it is driven by the engineers themselv by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    should have a level 2 or 3 support to handle he common cases...I guess those guys work/life balance is fucked. Sorry.

    Posting as AC. Work in one of those job roles. We get comped with vacation time proportional to the amount we work on weekends + extra pay. Even if nothing comes in we still get comped partially for the inconvenience of being on call. Still not a true win as the company should pay for extra staffing on weekends - but also not a total loss.

    Net result: I usually end up with 1-2 extra weeks vacation per year.

  40. Make sure projects are planned by manu0601 · · Score: 2

    Quote from TFA

    If we can make sure projects are planned and time is allocated for the right tasks, we can really improve balance.

    Good joke!

    1. Re:Make sure projects are planned by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Quote from TFA

      If we can make sure projects are planned and time is allocated for the right tasks, we can really improve balance.

      Good joke!

      Nah, not a joke, that's true enough. It's just that reality usually takes place in the "...else..." part of that "if" statement :-)

  41. A solution by leed_25 · · Score: 2

    It is really easy to solve this problem. Hire more tech workers.

    1. Re:A solution by Provocateur · · Score: 1

      That's like saying, Throw more money at the problem

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  42. I can relate. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    I use to work for a large auto insurance company. I was a level 4 Lead Systems Analyst. I won't say more than this one example where we had to sit at our desks at designated times and do a routine procedure within 15 minutes. No mistakes. No excuses. Any errors and you were going to hear the shit hit the fan. Don't get sick. No excuse. Don't have an emergency. There were no excuses. It was a bit humiliating at my level to be doing that work but since the pay was the best in town (everything else was outsourced) I stuck with it. No, it has been outsourced as well.

    Life is GREAT now that I'm out of there.

    1. Re:I can relate. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Some companies are just run by idiots and we need to exercise freedom to leave them. Only that educates them.

  43. Re:A lot of it is driven by the engineers themselv by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    I have worked in more than 5 companies over a few decades, and everywhere I can see the same nonsense. The day and night employees are the little gods created by the management to exploit the workers without proper compensation. In most private companies, especially in countries where the labour laws or their enforcement is lax, such manipulations are rampant. I also have to admit that I was one such a little god in the past and I regret it to my bone now. I dont know how many I screwed up!

    It all starts with a fairy tale of success in other companies (Microsoft) or countries (Japan) where working hard is worshipped. Once the management expresses their favourings in one way or another few good for nothing !@@# heads jumps in to become the favourites without thinking of the cost to be paid by others. The management help them as much as possible ( in the pretext of helping the best working employee) to make sure that they are the stars in the team. Eventually with the support from management and the shit load of time on the job, they get farther than others. Eventually this guy gets promoted and anybody others who want the promotions, sacrifice like he did! Slowly and steadily the management makes this guy's efficiency as the norm in the team and everyone else has to toil away forgetting their family or personal life even to be in the team.

    My vote also goes to discourage such guys from the beginning itself before it all goes south.

  44. Re:Work-life balance thrives where it is prioritiz by Oligonicella · · Score: 1

    Nawh. He knows they won't move here, the salaries aren't as high as on the coasts. People on the coasts just look at the number, not the overall cost of living.

  45. I've watched a few die this year by rsilvergun · · Score: 1

    the only way to get ahead is to kill yourself. That's cause nobody trains, and if you want a new, better paying job you have to either get another degree (good luck while your working a full time job, in real life (tm) nobody does that unless their ftj is a cake walk) or get hands on experience. Nobody will hire to train or even to polish. They can just go crying to congress for more fully trained H1-Bs... So you work two jobs hoping to get the next one and hoping the raise you get makes up for the 20 years without raises that weren't eaten up by inflation.

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  46. Re: Why is the title in red? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    That's not correct. The top story has white text on a green background for me, and the obvious farther down ads have light red text on a red background.

  47. Leave Policies Won't Truly Help by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    As long as companies keep rewarding employees for working longer and harder, then there is no set of policies or procedures that can prevent this from happening. Doesn't matter if it's family care leave, or vacation time, or what have you.

    And I'm not sure how we fix it. While engineers in particular seem to believe a certain amount of objective coding "productivity" is all they need to advance, that metric provides diminishing returns above a certain seniority level without being able to also engineer human relationships. Influence and pull around how decisions get made inevitably begin to eclipse coding productivity in importance. And the higher you go, the more you need to influence people who are not themselves technical, and for whom face-to-face presence and time-intense relationship building becomes paramount.

    Thus, those who are physically present or available at all hours, and are most responsive, will always, always have a natural advantage over those who don't. They will end up having a larger perceived human-side impact and thus be recognized and promoted more, because perception is everything. And it doesn't matter how much you rah-rah family leave policies or vacation time -- all that does is prevent people from being fired for taking it. It doesn't address the real soft pressure that's causing this problem in the first place.

  48. Re:Work-life balance thrives where it is prioritiz by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    You did 24.5 years worth of work in 14 and probably did a million dollars in damage to your cardiovascular/nervous system in the process. You didn't cheat, you just prefer to get the unpleasant part done as quickly as possible. Enjoy your ridiculous healthcare costs as you age.

  49. Re:A lot of it is driven by the engineers themselv by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Managerial failures usually end up playing the confidence game with geeks hoping they can solve the worlds problems.

    The net result is people get burnt out and the system the manager builds fails. Often to the financial detriment of the organization.

    Then the bank comes in, and the contractors come in (who the bank loans money to and has investments in), and it's game over. Parasite installed.

    Contractors are great but they aren't looking out for you, they are looking to line their pockets. They hire very intelligent people to make the sounds managers in other companies want to hear, and build systems that appear to work. And that's IF they are good, because you can really make a failure run well with enough capital and goofballs running around on overtime putting out fires. People expect constant, nagging issues to be there to ensure their jobs. For years.

    Helpdesk's primary responsibility is user education, followed by breakfix.
    Administrations primary responsibility is requirements gathering, understanding the business and how it applies to technology.
    Engineering is automating all the work to nothing.
    And Management is about establishing a cycle between these disciplines.

    Good engineers, software or systems, are red herrings these days at any pay rate because the market is so awash in scams, failed organizations, and failed infrastructure. There's too much investment capital and everyone just hires people in foreign countries to make junk.

    If I'm putting in extra hours salary or hourly, I expect it to result in my further education. If it does not, I refuse. There's always a few weekends a year or afterhours work that needs done, if you can prepare on company time great, if not. Fuck it.

  50. Re:Work-life balance thrives where it is prioritiz by jdgoulden · · Score: 0

    NOOOO! NO NO NO NO NO NO. The MidWest is AWFUL. It's filled with rednecks, guns, churches, pickup trucks, and so many other horrible things. Much better if you stay on the coasts. MUCH BETTER. You can thank me later.

  51. Re:Work-life balance thrives where it is prioritiz by TapeCutter · · Score: 2

    Office boys don't know much about hard work. When I was a young bloke I worked the fishing boats in Bass Straight (the notorious stretch of water that separates Tasmania from mainland Australia). Pay was ok if the weather allowed you to get three trips into two weeks, but working conditions were brutal, 70+ hours straight with a 30min break every 5hrs, it was not unusual to have visual and auditory hallucinations toward the end of the trip due to lack of sleep.

    That was 1980-81, long before I got a decent education, I now work for as a "senior software engineer" for a Japanese multi-national, 40hr week, 3 out of 5 days working from home, lots of autonomy, six figure pay pack, and a great deal of institutional respect for old farts with decades of experience.

    Even if I wanted to go back to fishing boats my aged body would be unable to handle the conditions.

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  52. Day in the life.... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    You have a good title, but the Junior Guys are continents away. so you get the menial, mind numbing tasks. Frustrated co-workers depart, and are replaced far far away... no.. that not attrition - am am comforted by my manager. Standards get changed every 2 months, and you do your best to stay compliane... but .. the task is given to a third party without those compliance / restrictions. Training is on hold.. while the prospects of OJT is the only alternative. Sales force focus selling disruptive technologies to Suits who expect things to go swimmingly when the glossy brochured, slick-sold half-baked products are setup by third parties with no responsibilites 6 seconds after the contract is over. Ratio of worker bees to execs inverts and the inefficiencies that trickle down make real progress even less likely. Add more ...

  53. Re:Work-life balance thrives where it is prioritiz by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Nawh. He knows they won't move here, the salaries aren't as high as on the coasts. People on the coasts just look at the number, not the overall cost of living.

    Does your software license cost less in Nowhere Idaho? How about your car, health insurance and kids college tuition? No? The F250 isn't sold for 75%off in Kansas vs Houston? So what is cheaper? Land, and... what exactly?

    Sure, your housing may be cheap, but... you're not in an interesting city - which is fine if you don't like a city lifestyle, but otherwise its not a plus and you've already lost on every other material factor mentioned.

    Granted, Houston's not an interesting city, but I'm not there either :D

  54. Little boxes, little boxes by GrantRobertson · · Score: 1

    Little boxes made of ticky-tacky.

    (Yes, it's actually relevant. Google it.)

  55. Re: Why is the title in red? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    The most common type of colour-blindness happens to be the inability to comprehend red on white. And it's surprisingly common.

    You'd have to be a complete moron not to override colour schemes locally when you have such limitations in you, but still.

  56. lip service by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    It's all around push. Between my own goals, the goals of my startup, and the needs of our users, there is no way to slow down.
    I prefer working and looking behind at my trail of achievements over raising another whiny brat (or fleet of them as is some of your cases).

    You can attempt to shame me and my desire for getting things done, but in my eyes, you all are slow, dull, and not driven.

    Do some math. Too many people and too many problems to solve. Maybe in a few generations, we can all look to slowing down, but for now, everyone needs to stop whining and get on-board; we have problems to solve, mouths to feed, and lives to enrich.

    1. Re:lip service by pnutjam · · Score: 1

      I doubt your app is solving world hunger. Your users can wait afew days for an update to their photo app.

  57. Re:Work-life balance thrives where it is prioritiz by redmid17 · · Score: 1

    This is basically my experience, but after my fortune 500 experience the two consulting companies were 150+ (one was smaller when I started). 40 hours a week or more was expected - at least 80% billable -- but that was countered by higher pay, more WFH flexibility, and more widespread responsibilities.

  58. Re:Work-life balance thrives where it is prioritiz by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0, Flamebait

    Yes! There are no jobs too! And the women are vapid and slur like truckers. In fact they probably are truckers. The food is terrible. Everything smells like cows and there is nothing to do except listen to country music in our trucks out in the field after work. .>
    You are so much better off and all the smart people are on the coast. Why would anyone but a complete idiot want to live anywhere else?
    Yes. Stay on the coast.
    Far away from here.

  59. As a post-doc researcher, I have good balance by blind+biker · · Score: 1

    My context is widely different from a US-living IT worker: I live in Finland and am a post-doc researcher in a field related to chemistry. I work very close to exactly 40 hours/week, even though sometimes I could get away with less. It's just that I really enjoy what I do. But even so, I never let myself work more than 40 hrs/week because family.

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  60. Re:Work-life balance thrives where it is prioritiz by jafiwam · · Score: 1

    Nawh. He knows they won't move here, the salaries aren't as high as on the coasts. People on the coasts just look at the number, not the overall cost of living.

    Does your software license cost less in Nowhere Idaho? How about your car, health insurance and kids college tuition? No? The F250 isn't sold for 75%off in Kansas vs Houston? So what is cheaper? Land, and... what exactly?

    Sure, your housing may be cheap, but... you're not in an interesting city - which is fine if you don't like a city lifestyle, but otherwise its not a plus and you've already lost on every other material factor mentioned.

    Granted, Houston's not an interesting city, but I'm not there either :D

    Land, rent, property taxes, many types of consumer goods, vehicles (lot easier to run a clunker with no emission laws), insurance are all cheaper.

    I think you are underestimating the difference in property and rent. Around here, even the difference between college town and middle of nowhere is 900 - 1500 a month. That's a whole stinking mortgage out in the boonies, and then some. Where I live now in NYC would cost 3500 to 5000 per month to rent. I pay 870. Even if you assume cost of car vs walking in that, it's still outrageous to be in NYC.

  61. Re:Work-life balance thrives where it is prioritiz by serviscope_minor · · Score: 1

    If you're really who you claim to be in this posting, then you are actively sabotaging your ability to have a work/life balance.

    It's kind of sad that you believe everyone is so viciously self-interested as you make out. Most people actually aren't and will happily do things for the greater good even if the eventual outcome is worse for themselves.

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  62. Work-life balance is irrelevant by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    If what you're working on is not worth you dying for it, it's not really worth working on.

  63. Re:Work-life balance thrives where it is prioritiz by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Sleep deprivation in a job ? Are you a Nork propaganda operative trying to badmouth capitalism or something ?

    Well, I guess it is the truth. But why did you do this ???

  64. FIRST get the job! H1B visas won't let you. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Techies have great work life balance. They just won't get the job. So they have plenty of time to spend with their family. But no money to do so.

  65. Re: Why is the title in red? by Ol+Olsoc · · Score: 1

    Sumpin's wrong with your setup then. For me, a brand new story is white text on a dark red border, after that, it's white on green, and black story text.

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  66. Re:Work-life balance thrives where it is prioritiz by sdinfoserv · · Score: 1

    I have just the opposite experience. I moved from the Midwest to the cost (Seattle). The famous 'work ethic' of the midwest means that to get ahead I regularly worked 70+ hours per week. Sure, I got ahead, was paid REALLY well - but it cost me my first marriage and most of the friends of my youth. The good old boys club and women glass ceiling are very much alive and well in the Midwest. I have had several IT jobs from public, private, manufacturing, consulting, and even took public company private.... At the end of the day the truth is that if your name isn't over the door, you are a disposable commodity. You're a tool to be used for ownership profit. At one company literally, the CEO would say, 'well, that's nice, but what have you done for me today?'.

  67. Re:Work-life balance thrives where it is prioritiz by jellomizer · · Score: 1

    Most of those problems are not your fault. Having you go home early is to make sure you don't get stressed out due to poor efforts of others.

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  68. Re:Work-life balance thrives where it is prioritiz by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    let's do the math...
    100% of the normal salary at 40 hours... that means you get paid 100/40 = 2.5% of that normal salary per hour
    compared to 110% of that normal salary but at 50 hours... that means you get paid 110/50=2.2% of that normal salary per hour
    compared to 120% of that normal salary but at 50 hours... that means you get paid 120/50=2.4% of that normal salary per hour

    you're not getting paid less (per hour) at the small company, you're getting paid more

    which means that the only way working 50-60 hours at the big company is a rational choice
    is IF the 100% salary we're comparing to is not enough to make ends meet

  69. Re:Work-life balance thrives where it is prioritiz by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    At one company literally, the CEO would say, 'well, that's nice, but what have you done for me today?'.

    http://www.businesscat.happyjar.com/comic/job-description/

  70. Re:Work-life balance thrives where it is prioritiz by khallow · · Score: 1

    So what is cheaper? Land, and... what exactly?

    We don't need to go any further. The cost of your home is dependent on the price of the land. The cost of everything you purchase locally is dependent to some degree on the price of the land, including most of the things you mentioned.

    a city lifestyle

    One pays quite the premium for that lifestyle.

  71. Paid Time Off (PTO) by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

    I earned 19 hours of PTO after working one year. They subtract PTO when I visit the doctor, but do not add PTO when I work nights and weekends performing database updates or testing web updates. Also my cheapskate employer requires all "managers" (those who get paid salary) to work every other Saturday for 5 hours, without earning PTO, to the tune of ~120 hours a year worth of essentially free labor.

  72. Re:Work-life balance thrives where it is prioritiz by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Midwestern IT jobs are in shambles -- there's not many of them, and employers feel no desire to pay a competitive wage.

  73. Millennials Strike Again by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    These so-called millennials are really getting on my nerves. They need to sit down, shut up, and start performing.

    IT Pros sometimes have to work weekends or after hours. It's what we do. But many of the younger generations bitch and moan if they have to work after 5PM. Or heaven forbid, they are on call and get a call on the weekend.

    The "Look at me, I'm important" generation is going to implode on their own narcissism. The few who do have a good work ethic will have no problem rising to the top. Their lazy, selfie taking peers will continue to live in their parents' basement wondering why the world passed them by.

    Cripes, I hope Millennials' kids learn from their parent's mistakes.

  74. Re:Work-life balance thrives where it is prioritiz by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    You missed one...bars, more bars, corner bars, main street bars, country road taverns, small town pubs.

  75. Re:A lot of it is driven by the engineers themselv by swillden · · Score: 2

    Engineers however, are arrogant as fuck, and want to be at the top of the food chain, so a couple of them will willingly fuck over their work life balance. Then they'll get promoted for it (which is a problem with the company...but its hard to say no to someone who delivered twice as much for the same pay, even if he/she screwed over their life over it).

    I suppose I resemble that remark, probably including the arrogance, though I don't care about being at the top of the food chain. I just like what I do, and really feel it's important and makes the world a better place, so I sometimes work extra hours to get stuff done. On the other hand, I sometimes work a bit less, and I usually feel no compunction about dropping what I'm doing for a while for family-related activities, or to go out for a hike in the summer or skiing in the winter.

    I'm posting mainly to make the point that work/life balance isn't some fixed thing that is demarcated by a specific number of hours per week. It's not the case that if you work one minute more than 40 hours in a week you've "screwed" your life. It's about your total quality of life. If you enjoy what you do for work, a few extra hours may be personally rewarding, completely unrelated to what your company or peers want from you. On the other hand, everyone needs time away, and family time will likely have a greater impact on your short- and long-term happiness.

    Balance is a dynamic thing.

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  76. Re:Work-life balance thrives where it is prioritiz by david_thornley · · Score: 1

    I've worked in the Midwest all my life, working 40-hour weeks. Well, there was that testing gig where I worked long hours, but it wasn't as intense as software development and I was getting paid hourly, and really needed the money. I minded long hours a lot less when the meter was still running.

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  77. Re:Work-life balance thrives where it is prioritiz by quantizationnoise · · Score: 1

    Knock yourself out, 40 hours is what most people are paid for so anything more than that is just reducing your hourly rate.

  78. Re:Work-life balance thrives where it is prioritiz by tehcyder · · Score: 1

    My work-life balance was to work 70 hours a week for fourteenteen years then retire. YMMV. Work is for suckers.

    When I was younger I preferred to work as little as possible and enjoy myself as much as possible.

    Working's much easier when you get a bit older and more settled, there is no longer the opportunity or desire to be partying four or five days a week.

    Who wants to retire at forty with no memories or experience of anything much except working?

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  79. Re:This one's easy-- realism by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    These kind of expectation only work for employees who are in high demand. Even then there is 'tension' in larger companies because 'tech' workers cannot reasonably be provided 'too many perks' that others don't get. For instance amazon has warehouse people, banks have tellers, supermarkets much of the same, that is even mentioning janitors , security, administrative assistances. Are these people less worthy? Don't they also contribute? So why should the IT staff be treated differently? Do you really expect that low wage low skill jobs will be provided with any kind of work life balance when weighed against the goals of the organization and profit? How about esp. when a company is having a hard time making a profit?

    Investigation a little history of why we have labor laws might help in giving some perspective on the whole issue.

    Although the deeper problem of motivation and investment are institutional and require institutional changes. For instance , why are people 'employed' rather then being considered to own a share of the company they work for? Why don't there salaries automatically fluctuate as a function of the profit the company makes? Surely in modern times it is possible to have a better formula for calculating reasonable compensation based on work output and profit as a partnership rather then as a owner who possesses and an employee who has no investment in the company. That is not intended to take anything away from a capitals economy , but only suggest that there may be other corporate models that could be more highly productive then top down.

  80. Re:Work-life balance thrives where it is prioritiz by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    That's just how working on a fishing boat is. You work like mad around the clock in brutal conditions for 3 months. Then you take home enough pay that you don't really need to work the next 9 months.

    I've been looking into it as an alternative to IT. I am tired of being presumed to be a sexist and a racist because of the gender I was assigned at birth and the color of my skin. I am tired of having skills I've honed over 20 years being trivialized in the media, and I am sick of the disrespect and disinterest. I am sick of being a "wizard" who works "magic." It's not fucking magic. It's logic.

    When I used to flip burgers, I got along with my co-workers fine and we respected each other well. These days it's either "you're so smart! I just don't get these computers" or "Why haven't you done this yet?! Are you illiterate?! What you needed to do is right here five forwards away from my change request!" I might just go back to flipping burgers, but I want something that pays a bit better. I look back on those burger flipping days, and I always think about how I didn't appreciate what I had. Being on my feet 9+ hours, running a grill with 20+ burgers from raw to almost done on my side and also keeping an eye on 2 chicken fryers, a chicken grill, a 4 fry baskets, I didn't need to do crap like dieting to control my weight. Hell, the guy running the other side of the grill didn't speak a word of English and I not a word of Spanish and in spite of that we were the only team the manager really trusted to get the place through the lunch rush. I was part of the team.

    Now that I'm in IT, I'm just a sexist racist. I'm an asshole who makes everything "too technical" by pointing out where some request is self-contradictory and proposing an alternative that makes logical sense. I get blamed for bugs in closed-source software I had so say in purchasing that the vendor refuses to fix. I'm sick of it. I'm sure a fishing boat involves the same multitasking and is far more strenuous. I'm not sure commercial fishing is for me, but I think I'd like to try it at least once.

    I hear there are even more women on fishing boats than women in IT. From what I've read, those women are just as capable as the men. That works for me.

    Until geeks are ready to start acting like the professionals they claim to be and form a professional association like lawyers and doctors, you are always going to be under constant assault. Your skills will always be trivialized, and the SJWs won't stop until most of you have come under fire from an internet lynch mob. It's not even about the pay.

  81. Work-life balance? by whitroth · · Score: 1

    In the US, back in the old days, folks who worked on-call got a fixed amount for that time - I think 10% was common - and the on-call hours were fixed, and you were off call the rest of the time.

    Oh, sorry, that was when unions were strong, and about 25% of the working population were in them.

    But we're techies, we don't need unions, we *love* being on call 24x7x365.25 from work, and love dropping whatever we're doing to respond, and not getting anything more for all of this, and not having any off-time. We *adore* the egoboo of being told "whatever it takes", and gladden the hearts of management that we're such suckers, we live to work for their profits, rather than working to live for ourselves.

    No, no, we don't need unions.

                        mark "there are two kinds of Republicans and
                                                libertarians: millionaires, and suckers"

  82. Re:Work-life balance thrives where it is prioritiz by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Uhh... I'll take retirement at forty. What, do they lock up retired persons and throw away the key where you live?

  83. Re:Work-life balance thrives where it is prioritiz by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    What about the strip clubs that let you get away with anything and the bourbon and the bbq?

  84. Re:Work-life balance thrives where it is prioritiz by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Wait ... there are midwestern IT jobs ?? I dearly wanted to relocate to Indiana, but on monster it was the difference between 15 or so options in Indianapolis vs. 200 - 300 in RTP.

  85. Re:Work-life balance thrives where it is prioritiz by tendrousbeastie · · Score: 1

    Not at all - it makes perfectly rational sense if the marginal benefit of an extra few dollars is greater than the marginal benefit of an extra hour of free time.

    For example, if I'm saving for a deposit on a mortgaged house purchase then an extra 15% on my salary might be great even if it comes with a 25% increase in my working hours.

  86. Re: This one's easy-- realism by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    The plus side to a flat (or reasonably flat) salary is that your paycheck doesn't go down if the company is having a bad . The trade off for having a steady paycheck is that it's doesn't go up if the company is having a good .

    Whichever way a company does it, you can always try to negotiate being paid the other way.

  87. Re: This one's easy-- realism by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    * bad unit_time
    * good unit_time

    The forum software ate them for some reason.

  88. It is your fault; to fix it by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Have you tried not sending email after hours? What about blocking off time in you calendar, so you can do your work? Do you avoid working on the weekends?

    Unless you change your habits, don't expect things to do better. Your move, please.

  89. Join the Only Tech Union by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    If you don't like what is going on, join the Washington Alliance of Technology Workers. It is not local to Washington, but rather it was born in Washington when Microsoft hired everybody as a consultant to take advantage of them.

    And with all of our tech abilities, imagine we joined and helped this organization grow and protect our rights.

    H1B's NEED APPLY, we are all one in this and the union was talking about how to attract even H1B's to join in.

    http://washtech.org/

  90. Re: Why is the title in red? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Fuck /. and ANY website that thinks intrusive-advertising is ok. Evolve your business model, stop being greedy or fuck off and die says this free-market consumer. If you can't survive when your advertisement lights go out then go cry a river, somewhere else.

  91. Re:Work-life balance thrives where it is prioritiz by cthulhu11 · · Score: 1

    Having to have most of one's food shipped in would be a real drag.

  92. Re:Work-life balance thrives where it is prioritiz by i+work+on+computers · · Score: 1

    In 5+ years I've never experienced anything like this. Maybe you need to look at yourself and your position and figure out where the real problem is.

  93. Companies say one thing.... by MoarSauce123 · · Score: 1

    .... but do not often act upon it. They may honestly encourage to have folks not work long nights and weekends, giving employees a stern talk that do anyway. But next planning meeting the backlog to be tackled for upcoming release makes it quite evident that with the resources available the work cannot be done in the time available. And then add the 80/20 program to it where 20% of the time is intended to be used for being creative and innovative. That leads to employees being stressed, frustrated, angry and unmotivated dragging down productivity. The work will take the time it needs. If management wants to get stuff done quicker then make decisions faster and give employees better tools. It does not even need more people.

  94. Join the Tech Union by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    There is a programmers Union, it is called the Washington Tech Alliance - http://washtech.org/ - they lobby for things in our favor. And if you think unions are "bad", just wait until you see what your employer lobbies for...

    just saying, I learned a long time ago, that if they aren't willing to give you a fair workday, they are also not willing to offer you fair wages. Go to Robert Half Technology and download their IT Professional Salary Guide, you will be beyond amazed at what salaries programmers make, and if you aren't making that money, it is time to go somewhere else.