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Female Engineer Sues Tesla, Describing a Culture Of 'Pervasive Harassment' (theguardian.com)

A female engineer has spoken out about a discrimination lawsuit against Tesla that she filed last year. AJ Vandermeyden, 33, has accused Tesla of ignoring her claims of "pervasive harassment" and says she has suffered "mental distress" and "humiliation." From a report on The Guardian: Vandermeyden, 33, shared her story with the Guardian at a time when Silicon Valley is reeling from the explosive allegations of former Uber engineer Susan Fowler. Offering a rare public account of discrimination from a tech worker who remains employed at her company, Vandermeyden said her dedication to Tesla motivated her to advocate for fair treatment and reforms -- despite the serious risks she knows she faces for going public. "Until somebody stands up, nothing is going to change," she said in a recent interview, her first comments about a discrimination lawsuit she filed last year. "I'm an advocate of Tesla. I really do believe they are doing great things. That said, I can't turn a blind eye if there's something fundamentally wrong going on." Vandermeyden began at Tesla in 2013 and was eventually promoted to a manufacturing engineering position in the general assembly department, which consisted mostly of men and where she was paid less than male engineers whose work she directly took over, according to her complaint.

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  1. Shop mentality vs office mentality by TWX · · Score: 4, Insightful

    I'm not exactly surprised. In most cases where I see the office/design part interface with the shop/implementation part there is the potential for this kind of friction. Even in cases where harrassment is not of a sexual nature, it's common for simple vulgarity to creep in even if just as a reaction to the minor cuts and body wear and tear when working and the need for a certain amount of toughness in order to do the job.

    Don't know enough about the salary aspect. She well might be underpaid becase of sexism, or she might have been brought in to do the job because they wanted someone that cost less in that role, and they didn't feel that the role justified the salary they previously paid.

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    1. Re:Shop mentality vs office mentality by msauve · · Score: 4, Insightful

      "Don't know enough about the salary aspect. She well might be underpaid becase"...

      This could be as simple and common as the person she replaced had been in that job a while, advanced in it (including pay raises), and was now moving to an even more advanced job. She, OTOH, was new to that position, so might be expected to enter at the low end of the pay scale for it.

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    2. Re:Shop mentality vs office mentality by TWX · · Score: 4, Interesting

      Absolutely.

      The only real metric is comparing salary scale across multiple people in the same position or with the same effective job duties. If someone's role is unique then it is difficult to gauge whether or not salary is fair. If there was only one ME in this type of capacity, and a previous staff member left for a new one to be brought in then it's hard to demonstrate any particular reason for differences.

      I remember Dad talking about one at his work when he was getting close to retirement- they decided to replace technical managers as they retired with non-technical managers. The technical managers came up through the technical working side of the shop and could essentially do all of the major jobs in addition to managing, and their pay was essentially the senior technical person's plus a reasonable bump up for their managerial duties. Eventually it was determined that they spent more time managing than they did directly touching technical matters, so as they retired or otherwise left they were replaced with nontechnical managers. This theoretically resulted in a cost-savings as the new managers probably made half to two-thirds the salary of the senior non-management tech staff, but caused problems when those managers could not themselves offer technical solutions when stressful periods required them to work harder, and it also pissed off technical staff by depriving them of a wrung on the org-chart. In the end I think they had to switch back to technical managers as someone finally realized that underlying understanding was necessary in order for the managers to make good decisions. Only took half a decade...

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    3. Re:Shop mentality vs office mentality by TWX · · Score: 2

      I don't think my HR department would agree with you. Vulgar words that relate to human anatomy, even when not directed at anyone, would probably be grounds for action if someone that heard them chose to complain.

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    4. Re:Shop mentality vs office mentality by Rei · · Score: 4, Insightful

      The auto industry in general is terrible for women. I once ran a small console software supplier for the auto industry. I think my attitude toward the industry is best summed up by the time when (at a meeting with major figures of a major auto maker) my sales rep privately informed me that they're skipping the third step of how they usually make deals, on account of me. The first step being discussing the project over a ridiculous-priced dinner. The second step being discussing it at the bar. The third step - skipped - being discussing it at a strip club.

      I had previously heard rumours of stuff like this, such as a HR rep at a startup automaker complaining to me that their sales rep was submitting strip club receipts for reimbursement as business expenses. But I got to see the culture firsthand.

      So when I hear about this sort of stuff at Tesla, I'm not surprised. Sad - I'd like to hope that they'd have a different culture, since they're trying to make a different kind of car - but not surprised.

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    5. Re:Shop mentality vs office mentality by Archfeld · · Score: 5, Informative

      I was working in a print shop many years ago, and as far as I was aware there were only 2 of us in the area, both guys, and we were telling blond jokes. An hour or so later my companion and I were summoned to the department directors office and told that we had been the subject of a sexual harassment complaint for telling inappropriate joke at work. A women had let herself in the back door and was literally stealing special forms paper and had overheard us telling the jokes and complained to management. We, both guys were forced to take a sexual harassment education class and issue a formal apology to a woman who was then fired for stealing supplies. The bottom line is it is not how you intend the joke or to whom you are directing it to, but how anyone who hears it interprets it, whether you intended them to hear it or not.

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    6. Re:Shop mentality vs office mentality by Zeromous · · Score: 2

      Receipt for the drinks you fucking idiot.

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    7. Re:Shop mentality vs office mentality by TWX · · Score: 5, Insightful

      I think they subjected you two to the sexual harassment classes so that they would have latitude to fire her.

      My workplace can be very uptight and on first offenses that don't involve physical contact they usually just leave it with a warning. It sounds like they figured they would have to play rules-lawyer all of the way around in order to preclude her from having grounds to complain for being fired when she was doing what she wasn't supposed to be doing.

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    8. Re:Shop mentality vs office mentality by TWX · · Score: 2

      I call bullshit. Have you ever tried to get a receipt from a stripper while sitting in gyno row? It's impossible, I know.

      "Well you see, I ran my card through the slot presented to me, but the printer must've been broken..."

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    9. Re:Shop mentality vs office mentality by HornWumpus · · Score: 2, Insightful

      The only point I see: Some people don't like that others might go for entertainment they don't like, especially on business trips. Want to have veto power over client entertainment they are not even present for.

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  2. ass|u|me by bhcompy · · Score: 4, Interesting

    I'm assuming the culture at Tesla is similar to the culture at SpaceX, which is a culture of "fuck you, work 90 hour weeks because you're just here building your resume and I can work you to death if I want to", which is to say any pervasive harassment isn't a female problem, it's a cultural problem that is applied to every peon in the building. If that assumption holds true, the fact that she was paid less isn't because she's a girl, but because the market bears that salary for that position for a girl and Tesla can and will get away with anything it can to further its goals in the most cost effective way possible. Basically, it's the assassin saying "It's not personal, it's just business", which the courts tend to be okay with because it's not special treatment.

    1. Re:ass|u|me by bhcompy · · Score: 2

      Most people just look for a better job. They don't care about "what the company stands for". Shitty work conditions are normal in startup culture.

    2. Re:ass|u|me by meta-monkey · · Score: 2

      Bad culture isn't something you can win a lawsuit over. If you treat everybody like shit, you're not exactly singling anybody out for unfair treatment. And I've heard the same thing as ~bhcompy about SpaceX, that it's basically "you're lucky getting to work here at this badass company so we're going to treat you like shit and if you don't like it fuck off." Probably really cool for somebody in their 20s who wants to make space rockets, but if you've got a family, fuck no.

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  3. Horrible...if true by grasshoppa · · Score: 4, Insightful

    Forgive me, but past accusations haven't exactly primed me to believe this. If true, it's absolutely something that should be corrected, and she should be lauded for having the courage to make it public. ...however, if it's sour grapes because she didn't get the promotion she wanted, I wonder if we'll ever hear about it?

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    1. Re:Horrible...if true by Baron_Yam · · Score: 2

      The problem is the minor stuff gets ignored (and honestly, a good deal of it is just innocent human being human stuff which is WHY it gets ignored), and a lot of the genuine complaints are so beyond our experience that when they're brought up they sound just as outrageous as the false ones.

      I'm kind of on board with "Don't make a big deal of it in the press until it's gone through the courts". There's no reasonable way to judge what happened based on whether the claims seem credible or not, when reality is so variable in this regard.

    2. Re:Horrible...if true by grasshoppa · · Score: 5, Insightful

      In my experience, I'd say a majority of sex and gender related claims are false. People use hotbutton issues to throw a fit when things don't go their way. Didn't get the promotion? Obviously it was because of your gender. Group of people laughing near you? They're obviously making fun of you. and so on...and so on.

      That said, I have seen situations of real, honest to goodness harassment and discrimination. Worse, I've seen companies try to "quietly" handle it ( ie: hush it up ). Those who step up and refuse to be victims have my utmost respect.

      However, they appear to be the minority.

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    3. Re:Horrible...if true by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 2, Insightful

      It sounds like sour grapes. She seems to believe that getting promoted into management is a meritocracy, when it is anything but. There are even people who avoid being promoted into management because of the stigma of having to deal with things they don't find interesting (anything that is outside of their field). In reality, managers do very little work related to their field of expertise. They use their years of expertise to help guide the project along, but they deal with all the bureaucratic nonsense, a lot of paper work, keeping people happy, etc. For a role like that, technical expertise takes a backseat to soft skills like charisma. I've seen highly qualified candidates rejected for management positions, only to be filled by "weaker" candidates regardless of the genders involved. That's just how it is.

      And honestly she shot herself in the foot by being a huge asset in her current role. She's shown she has a lot of value doing the current job she has. She even found errors that her other highly qualified colleagues had missed! Why would you make her a Suit when she clearly kicks ass at what she does?

      I've seen a lot of engineering types struggle with this. Corporations are not a meritocracy. The guy above you doesn't necessarily make more money than you. The guy above you isn't necessarily more knowledgeable than you. You will not be promoted simply for doing your job really well. These things *can* be true, but they don't have to be, nor are they normally true.

    4. Re:Horrible...if true by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 2, Insightful

      There's no such thing as reverse sexism. When women are sexist towards men, it is still sexism. Sexism isn't a gender specific term, and it can occur both ways.

    5. Re:Horrible...if true by thinkwaitfast · · Score: 3, Interesting

      I had a coworker who got in trouble with HR for making racists remarks to another Africa-American friend of his (they played football together outside of work and were joking around). The guy who called HR was a few desks down and white. Offensensitivity

  4. Let's take a second and think about this. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 5, Informative

    "which consisted mostly of men and where she was paid less than male engineers whose work she directly took over" This seems to imply this just because she is a woman, I'm a dude and I've been in this position myself, hell I've even been in a engineering management position and made less than the guys I was in charge of of.

    Sure this all could just be because she's a woman, but there is at least a real possibility that there were other reasons contributing to her situation.

    1. Re:Let's take a second and think about this. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 3, Insightful

      Same here - my last project manager was also in his early 30s and in charge of directing me, gathering product requirements and ensuring my work met specifications made far less than I did (but more than he did in his last position).

      We also, as an established team, ribbed him for being the new guy and for trying to implement new processes (mostly good naturedly but there was a definite attitude of "I'm going to increase our productivity because I'm cool" - Think the Lieutenant in Aliens and you've got the right idea)

      He didn't work out. Not because we didn't produce but because he couldn't wrangle his superiors to settle on requirements.

      If he had been a woman I could've easily seen the rationale of "This only happened because I'm a woman - the whole environment was hostile" (Yeah - it was - your typical business political BS)

  5. She is not an "Engineer". by Jahoda · · Score: 5, Insightful

    Ok, well, first off, this woman is not an "Engineer" in the sense that she holds any academic credentials or certifications (neither am I). The article clearly states she started working at Tesla in 2013, was *promoted* to vehicle assembly. She is an "assembly engineer" in the same way that a guy working on the floor at Ford making IC cars is.

    After this, following claims that she was held to unreasonable performance standards and subject to sexual harassment on the shop floor, , she transfered to the "purchasing department", which Tesla was apparently glad to accomodate.

    These are simple facts which may or may not be relevant to the case, which appears to me that Tesla hired this woman, and has been happy to allow her to shift roles in the company and build her skillset. Apparently, she just purchased a Model-S. I have worked in IT for 15 years, and I sure can't afford a Model-S. So, anyway, sounds like a pretty damned good job to me.

    1. Re: She is not an "Engineer". by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 5, Funny

      She is an Engineer in the same way that someone working at the Apple Store is a Genius.

    2. Re:She is not an "Engineer". by aicrules · · Score: 5, Insightful

      She definitely shouldn't have mixed the harassment and equal pay claims. That will only hurt her case. The "equal pay" claims will be impossible to prove anything and will make her just look like she nagging and therefore draw more skepticism into her harassment claims. The harassment, if true, is unacceptable. That kind of behavior is impossible to ever get away from completely, but management's reaction to it especially within a company that public, should be way better.

    3. Re:She is not an "Engineer". by Jahoda · · Score: 3, Insightful

      The sexual harassment is one thing. If the facts are what she says they are, then I agree she should have a right to be treated respectfully by co-workers on the shop floor. (I don't for even one second believe that Tesla's culture condones or excuses such behavior - but that is my opinion and irrelevant here.)

      However, having regards equal pay, the deal is this: Her public linked in shows her to have been a pharmaceutical sales rep for ~4 years before joining Tesla. After a year in Tesla sales, she became a project coordinator. 7 months after this she was transfered to "assembly engineer". Now, I have no idea the quality of persons that she replaced, but if she, a 31 year old with zero previous mechanical and assembly experience (as evidenced by her resume), I certainly wouldn't expect her pay to be the same as a guy who has been working in a mechanical assembly position for even 5 years, to say nothing of if these were guys with 15 years on her.

    4. Re:She is not an "Engineer". by Nidi62 · · Score: 2

      She definitely shouldn't have mixed the harassment and equal pay claims. That will only hurt her case. The "equal pay" claims will be impossible to prove anything and will make her just look like she nagging and therefore draw more skepticism into her harassment claims. The harassment, if true, is unacceptable. That kind of behavior is impossible to ever get away from completely, but management's reaction to it especially within a company that public, should be way better.

      To be fair for Tesla, if the previous holders of the position she took over have extensive experience at other manufacturers it is quite possible that they qualified for a higher wage based on experience alone. I work with people that do the exact same job I do but have 30 more years with the company than I do. I would expect them to make more than me. Same job rarely equals same pay between people unless it is a very cookie-cutter and dead end job.

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    5. Re: She is not an "Engineer". by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 2, Informative

      Most replacements make less than the person they replace. Often the new person has less experience doing that specific task.

  6. Re:let's not prejudge either side. by Applehu+Akbar · · Score: 2, Informative

    "No we have no evidence Musk is a rapist. Yes I know he's got a penis, that is not evidence."

    In California, possession of a penis without a valid marriage license is prima facie evidence of being a harasser. Given a marriage license, conviction requires in addition the sworn testimony of a SJW.

  7. Re:It's all about experience by aicrules · · Score: 4, Insightful

    It is pretty common for people at that level not to understand more than basic comparison. It is very difficult to make ANY comparisons though without making that sort of assumption first. She should have kept the harassment separate from the allegations of unfair pay/advancement. The latter being found inaccurate will make her other claims suspect.

  8. Re:Apps for harrassment? by Hylandr · · Score: 2

    This has led to more than one occurrence where I have about fallen over when a Tesla has passed close to me in the parking lot. Once the car started moving on it's own with little else as visual reference I found my body compensating against the movement. Because there was no sound I assumed the car was stationary and I was not. Glancing away and grabbing another car for balance was the only thing preventing becoming one with the pavement.

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  9. Re:Why isn't Uber being sued? by Tailhook · · Score: 4, Insightful

    there is a shitton of evidence

    Blog posts are not evidence. If you are aware of any actual evidence point it out.

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  10. Re:Two things I don't understand by Hylandr · · Score: 2

    All claims should be met with skepticism. You know, innocent until proven guilty.

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  11. Re:Huh? Harassment? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 4, Funny

    If they're under me, I already made my move!

    BAM!

  12. Re:Apps for harrassment? by HornWumpus · · Score: 4, Funny

    When I was a kid in HS we used to harass other drivers. 2 or 3 of us (separate cars) would pull up next to an old lady at a red light. On cue, we'd all start to reverse slowly, while watching the old lady freakout, thinking her brakes were letting her roll into traffic.

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  13. Looks like its a legal specialty now by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 5, Informative

    >Therese Lawless, Vandermeyden’s lawyer,
    > who represented former Reddit CEO Ellen Pao in her high-profile discrimination lawsuit against venture capital firm Kleiner Perkins Caufield & Byers.

    Well, we know how that turned out for Ellen.

    >Vandermeyden recently took out a hefty loan to buy the cheapest version of the Model S Tesla car and has a reservation for the upcoming Model 3

    So after launching a potentially very expensive lawsuit you decide to get a "hefty" loan and buy a Model S? Huh.

  14. Re:Huh? Harassment? by Oswald+McWeany · · Score: 2, Insightful

    >

    Women then complain that men don't make the first move anymore.

    I don't think women EVER wanted to be cat called and hollered at- and they still don't. Yes, you probably have to use more caution and common sense when asking someone out now-a-days, but this article has absolutely nothing to do with that. She wasn't complaining about being asked out.

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  15. Maybe she was just too dumb to negotiate better... by argStyopa · · Score: 3, Insightful

    " where she was paid less than male engineers whose work she directly took over, according to her complaint."

    So why accept/keep the job if she's unhappy with the compensation?

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  16. Re:Huh? Harassment? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 4, Insightful

    Yes, they did. This is just your PC re-education brainwashing talking. When middle-aged Québecoise housewives come back from their cheap all-inclusive trips to Cuba, they all gush about how "real men" hit on them aggressively over there.

    Try the same thing in Montreal? "RAPE CULTURE!!!!!!!!!"

  17. Re:Huh? Harassment? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 2, Insightful

    There are many people in this world who are in happy relationships precisely from the job.
    Making the statement that you are making is pissing on the life happiness that many have gotten, and many will in the future,
    which would not happen if they followed the pseudo-intellectual opinions of a few self-absorbed ideologists on the Internet.
    Keep that bullshit lesson giving to yourself if you can't look people who actually found happiness in the eyes and tell them that they are wrong,
    without looking like an imbecile in the process.

    Dismissing a general act for the stupidity of a few, akin to asking for sex to be banned because some people rape or fail at it,
    is idiocracy at its finest. People asking to date someone is fine. It's when shit is being forced that it is a problem.

    The problem is also that we are being taught to abandon critical thinking when it comes to women. I want to hear both stories, i want to hear the
    statements from the onlookers even if it is anonymous, i want to see the cameras, i want to talk to the families of both parties and friends, their histories, and then
    i can start making judgments. I want to first KNOW the individuals, before judging what's true and what's bullshit. Something Feminism is rarely doing these days,
    as is the media.
    Till then, the story here is just an empty husk with lots of assumptions but none of the substance, constructed in a way to create ideological debates but never provide a spotlight on the truth or rational solutions.

  18. Re:Huh? Harassment? by HornWumpus · · Score: 2, Informative

    Yeah, they just accidently walk around with their tits half hanging out.

    Women _want_ to be pursued, but only by the one man they are sending 'fuck me' signals to, not the rest of you nerds. Cat called/hollered? Not usually, but sometimes definitely, especially when young and insecure.

    You realize that stick on perky nipples (to be stuck onto the outside of Bras) are a thing?

    Have you ever noticed the unique body language of women with nice big tits when frustrated? They stand on tiptoes then let themselves drop down onto their heels, usually with a verbal 'herrup'. To make their boobs jiggle and get what they want from nearby men.

    Women will absolutely complain about 'being asked out'. 'Be attractive, don't be unattractive': Is the key to not being charged with sexual harassment.

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  19. Re:Apps for harrassment? by ghoul · · Score: 2

    OK thats evil but funny. Am I a bad person that I find that funny?

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  20. This whole summary is misleading... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 2, Informative

    This whole summary is misleading.

    • She's not a engineer, she worked on the assembly line.
    • She's upset that men were promoted to certain positions when she wasn't. She said she was the only woman working on the assembly line, so logic would dictate that if 99.9% of the people working with her were men, chances are pretty good someone will get promoted to a position you wanted.
    • She leaked information to the media, so is she really surprised the company doesn't want to promote her when she goes around doing that. My work places had a NDA I had to sign, I'm surprised she wasn't required to sign one.
    • The sexual harassment claim was all summed up to one event where some men were up on a platform and whistled and "cat called" when her and another lady walked by. While the action is inappropriate, I can't see it meriting a law suit.
    • She transferred from the assembly line to sales.

    From the little information that is provided as proof of her claims, sounds more like a employee upset about not getting promotions and trying to get money out of the well known company.

  21. I am a bit skeptical... by nobuddy · · Score: 3, Interesting

    Note: I am pro union, and think Tesla workers are making a mistake by rejecting UAW. I also disagree with the UAWs tactics in regards to Tesla.

    The UAW has been sending workers in to Tesla to incite problems and try to rally workers to unionize. Her claim may be valid, but needs thorough investigation to verify. It is entirely possible she is either a plant, or paid off by the union to make a rallying point.
    By all other records Tesla pays exceedingly well, has stellar benefits, and treats workers well. Tons of overtime requirements- but that is normal in the auto industry, and Tesla pays generous overtime rates. The workers are not interested in a union because they don't need one and as such don't want the fees. This may bite them in the ass later, but for now their wishes should be honored by the union.

  22. Re:aww poor little flower by WillAffleckUW · · Score: 2, Insightful

    Technically, that's illegal.

    it doesn't matter if it's customary.

    And in a lawsuit, illegal actions are ... (wait for it) ... illegal.

    News flash: you're no longer in a frat at Stanford.

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  23. Re:Why isn't Uber being sued? by TangoMargarine · · Score: 4, Funny

    she says she has

    Does she or doesn't she have them? I can say I have a pet unicorn in my back yard, too.

    (It's a double-twist since I have neither a unicorn nor, in fact, a back yard.)

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  24. Re:Huh? Harassment? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 5, Interesting

    Agreed. Living in California. My wife is French. In her own words "most men here don't seem to have any balls" Its amazing how many guys are afraid to look at and try to interact with women (regardless if they are married or single); so many US men have been conditioned to be soft/nurturing types. And women have become conditioned to believe any male interaction is harassment. However, many women actually like guys who act like men and give women attention. Not talking about the attention from aggressive alpha-males who are macho and groping. Rather, guys who understand and appreciate that women are different than men and rejoice in the feminine side.

  25. Re:Huh? Harassment? by Immerman · · Score: 4, Insightful

    Power imbalance.

    When one person wields authority over another, there is both a temptation to abuse that power, and a temptation on the part of the underling to acquiesce to "requests" from above to avoid retribution. Even if the boss genuinely has no intention of coercion, the underling can't know that for certain, so it's best to tread *very* carefully around such things, or better yet avoid them altogether.

    Because even if there is in fact mutual interest - it's going to be almost impossible to keep your professional and private lives separate. Especially when one relationship ends. How would you like your ex being in a position to fire you and tarnish your professional reputation? Or your lover being required to fire you for unrelated reasons? You're both going to have to possess near-superhuman reserves of levelheadedness and emotional compartmentalization for that not to get ugly fast.

    I mean sure, if you meet an underling/boss where things just "click" powerfully, maybe it's worth the risk. But if you're smart, you'll make transferring one of you to break the chain of command a very high priority, because it's quite likely to sour both your personal and professional relationship otherwise.

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  26. Re:Why isn't Uber being sued? by hey! · · Score: 2

    Well, I don't know about the amount of evidence adding up to a proverbial shitton, but let's suppose for sake of argument Folwer's accusations are true. It doesn't automatically follow that she'd want to or ought to sue.

    On the other hand suppose she is fabricating this story. It doesn't necessarily follow that she'd want to sue either, for obvious reasons.

    CONCLUSION: Fowler not suing Uber is not evidence of anything one way or the other, because you can start with either assumption and concoct perfectly plausible explanations for her not wanting to. You have to decide whether you believe her based on other evidence.

    Now for the record I find Fowler's accusations credible, because they're consistent (a) with what I've seen in dysfunctional organizations and (b) what I've heard about Uber. That said, that's not really conclusive. But if I were considering employment with Uber, I'd be very, very cautious, even though I'm not a woman. A place that tolerates one kind of mistreatment against one kind of employee isn't a good place to work, even if you're not that kind of employee.

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  27. Re:Why isn't Uber being sued? by meta-monkey · · Score: 2

    In Fowler's case I would expect she'd be able to get the testimony of the other women who reported the manger who harassed her. The big problem there was Uber HR saying "well it's his first offense there's nothing we can do" but many women told Fowler they had also reported him.

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  28. Re:Huh? Harassment? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 2, Insightful

    Please describe this "power imbalance" when a woman can simply say "sexual harassment" with little to no evidence and immediately the "suspect" can lose *his* job?

    Who has the power here?

  29. Re:Not an engineer. Maybe a snowflake? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 2, Insightful

    - Ignoring her complaints of “pervasive harassment”.

    The article has specifics later: "harassment by men on the factory floor including but not limited to inappropriate language, whistling, and catcalls".

    Not nice, but not wholly unexpected either.

    This should be wholly unexpected and anyone fighting against this sort of culture should be given the benefit of the doubt. It is a travesty that this is considered "fine" in this day and age and I'll applaud anyone who bucks this trend.

  30. Re:Huh? Harassment? by Immerman · · Score: 3, Interesting

    >Try the same thing in Montreal? "RAPE CULTURE!!!!!!!!!"

    Let's be clear here - *you* can't try the same thing. You don't have the skill.

    Those Cuban fellows have spent their whole lives, from long before puberty, learning how to flirt aggressively and attractively, while picking up the subtle cues that let them know when their attention isn't wanted so they can disengage gracefully and keep the door open for future possibilities. It's a dance to make the Tango look trivial in comparison, and they've been steeping in it their whole lives as a cultural pastime.

    Barring phenomenal good luck, any attempt by a socially awkward geek to do the same will probably end about as well as letting a cat fly a fighter jet. Even most "players", skilled by their own countries standards, are going to look like awkward teenagers in comparison. But those players will mostly be good enough to not get called out, because they've learned at least enough nonverbal communication to determine if a woman is open to him flirting with her before he's said two words.

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  31. Re:Why isn't Uber being sued? by Tailhook · · Score: 2, Insightful

    If you're gonna demand proof all the time

    Yep, pretty much. Proof or fuck off. The tyranny you'd inflict without due process is unacceptable. And if you either can't be bothered to capture the necessary proof or the facts are too subtle to detect then I'm not interested in your plight.

    if getting by on your looks is NOT how you want to live

    Lots of unattractive women that can't rely on their looks are richer than me. They get by just fine.

    And for the record, zero evidence surfaced in this thread. Susan Fowler made an evidence free blog post. The rest is Internet sperg. At least Vandermeyden filed suit; her claims will be tested.

    ....being subtlety, constantly, subconsciously (on both sides!) told by society that your purpose is to be ogled, and then come back and tell me that you are not frustrated with how pervasive and draconian it feels....

    Do you know what paradise is? It's when you're forced to invent new problems because all of your actual problems have been solved.

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  32. Wolf-crying? by lucaiaco · · Score: 5, Interesting

    I have been working in the US for several years, and I have noticed this dangerous trend of constantly labeling as misogynist or racist behavior anything that targets a woman or a minority for things that have nothing to do with race or gender. As an outsider (I am from Europe, and worked in Asia), I can say that nowhere I have seen such an obsession with these two topics. If a white person sucks, and get fired, you talk about the actual causes of the firing. If it's a woman or a minority doesn't get hired, or get fired, it's often sexism and racism. I am sure there are real cases of racism and maybe even sexism, but this constant and indiscriminate wolf-crying is going to delegitimize real victims and actually make people hire fewer of these people.

    If I were to hire in this country, I'd be damn sure not to hire a woman or a minority which had a background in social justice (even a blog post or some classes in college would be a no go). There is just a chance that the person is some sort of fanatic. It sounds awful, but from what I can tell that equates to having a ticking bomb ready to explode under my ass. I don't care what your race or your ethnicity is, if shit hits the fan bad things may happen, and the last thing I would want is to have a lawsuit for discrimination and a wave of bad publicity for my business. Aww, yes, I am a such an awful person. Well, sorry, and welcome to the real world.

  33. Women's privilege by Sqreater · · Score: 3, Informative

    This seems just another case of a women who has had a lifetime of women's privilege deference and accommodation running into the hard truths of equality in a tough work environment. The courts will probably force the feminization of the work environment--women's privilege at work once again. The result, of course, will be the destruction eventually of an aggressively creative and forward pushing company.

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  34. There is that lovely "Women are wonderful" effect by Kartu · · Score: 3, Interesting
  35. I hope this doesn't hurt my chance at promotion by bobm · · Score: 5, Insightful

    from the article:

    She is hopeful her lawsuit and public comments wonâ(TM)t end her career at a company she loves.

    Would a sane person really think that suing the company they work for won't impact their future with the company?

  36. Re:Huh? Harassment? by Immerman · · Score: 2

    Overcompensation.

    Women have only even been able to vote in the US for just under a century. The pill (another major leap forward in women's autonomy) has been around for half that. We still don't have many women executives, etc. In terms of economic and political power in the US, men still unquestionably have a firm grip on the reigns, and institutional sexism is still a very real thing in most places, with things only slowly changing.

    It's going to be at least a few more generations before we really get this "gender equality" thing worked out, and it's going to be ugly in the meantime, with the pendulum swinging back and forth searching for a balance point, and breaking a lot of noses along the way.

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  37. Re:Huh? Harassment? by Immerman · · Score: 4, Insightful

    I agree.

    Just keep in mind that pretty much every woman out there has faced at least a few, possibly many, shady situations where she has had a legitimate reason to fear the possibility of real harm from a man, and that has skewed her perceptions. (Humans are prey animals, over-generalizing threats is what we do best)

    Make sure your attempt is done in consideration of that, and can't be taken as a threat, otherwise you're walking a fine line of with assault charges. And perhaps more importantly to you - shooting yourself in the foot before you even begin.

    Also, be a F-ing professional and don't shit where you work. Work relationships are usually a bad idea anyway. If you haven't already established a good rapport with a woman there, and genuinely think that she might be interested in more, then don't complicate both your lives by making unwelcome advances. And if you just can't resist the temptation, and she shoots you down, drop it. Trying to pressure someone into something they don't want is harassment, pure and simple.

    And for $deity's sake *definitely* don't get involved with anyone in your chain of command, the potential for abuse and complications are far too high.

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  38. Re:Huh? Harassment? by rainmouse · · Score: 3, Insightful

    Please describe this "power imbalance" when a woman can simply say "sexual harassment" with little to no evidence and immediately the "suspect" can lose *his* job?

    Who has the power here?

    Citation needed.

  39. Re:Huh? Harassment? by Immerman · · Score: 3, Insightful

    No, it's okay when someone *competent* does it in a way that leaves everyone feeling good about the encounter.

    It's not harassment if the target enjoyed themselves both at the time and in reflection. Cuba just seems to have a very high percentage of really competent flirtation experts.

    Harassment comes in when you force your attention on someone against their will. Doesn't much matter if it's incompetent flirtation or intentional bullying - the effect on the target is the same.

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  40. Re:Not an engineer. Maybe a snowflake? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 2, Insightful

    Noting that both males and females are harassed is not a defense against sexual harassment; you don't have to be female to be sexually harassed. Plus we expect (and require by law) that workplaces be free of harassment *in general*, not just in the case of sexual harassment, so if your factory floor harasses people of any gender for any reason it's another problem, not an excuse.

    It's *not* unreasonable for people to expect to go to work and not be harassed. It's the law. Attitudes like the one you express here are not only anti-social, they're actionable, and the only "snowflakes" in the process are the ones you can't control themselves well enough to act civilly for the few hours a day they are at work.

  41. Re:Huh? Harassment? by bobbied · · Score: 5, Insightful

    Who has the power here?

    No no. Sexual harassment is a very specific kind of action and although it seems like the accuser has all the say about this, in most places I've worked there where clearly defined parameters necessary to establish that harassment actually took place. In order for it to be harassment it must be unwanted behavior that is either obviously harassing or behavior that continues AFTER it was communicated it was unwelcome.

    Asking a peer out on a date, once, is not harassment. Continuing to ask after being told to stop asking IS harassment. Giving complements on appearance or dress is not harassment, unless it's communicated that it's unwelcome. Telling off color jokes *might* be harassment if the joke is obviously inappropriate for the office, continuing to do so after somebody asks you to stop IS a problem.

    The biggest issue most folks have understanding this is with manager subordinate relationships. This is where things get dicey at times because the subordinate may not feel free to object. The smart manager stays clear of such entanglements and complications by making it a policy NOT to fraternize with the lower ranks. It is here where most of the serious mistakes and career ending events happen. Don't be stupid and don't give a chance for any false accusations to gain root by always having your guard up. Have "private" meetings in public places, offices with windows or don't close your door, make sure your office has windows and if you have an admin that they can observe what's happening in your office. DON'T socialize ALONE with your subordinate, but always make sure there is a group or other parties there. Also, if you catch wind of ANY inappropriate possibly harassing behavior among your subordinates, dig out the HR mandated training because it didn't take the first time and DEAL with the behavior BEFORE it gets out of hand. Project professional behavior and expect the same.

    It's not hard, just don't be stupid, keep it professional and if you are the boss, keep witnesses around when dealing with subordinates.

    If you do these things: 1. Keep things professional, 2. Stop any behavior when asked, 3. keep your interactions with subordinates appropriate and in public view, you won't have an issue when HR receives a complaint. If you DO have an issue and you where not caught being stupid, then you need to bail anyway because HR is messed up where you work.

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  42. Re:Huh? Harassment? by Immerman · · Score: 3, Insightful

    >It should not be any easier ruin a man's reputation (and life) with sexual assault accusations, than it is to do the same with any other suspicions of criminality.

    I *absolutely* agree.
    But you have to also accept the fact that we live in a country where monsters like that Stanford rapist walk away scot-free even when caught in the act, and that rape is normally an incredibly tricky thing to prove. Barring actually being caught in the act, it will always be a he-said she-said charge.

    It's an ugly situation all around.

    We have a problem with two kinds of monsters
    Women who unjustly ruin men's lives with false accusations
    And men who unjustly ruin women's lives with rape

    We need to rid ourselves of both of them, and I don't see any easy answers. I think though, that the false accusations shall prove a far more tractable problem - if by nothing else than the growing ubiquity of video recorders. For rape though - we've got a very old cultural demon to face. There's an awful lot of folks like that monster's father, who just don't see why a boy's life should be ruined over "a few minutes fun".

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  43. Re:Why isn't Uber being sued? by amiga3D · · Score: 2

    It depends on the environment. In a place with very few women the likelihood of ugly women getting hit on rises exponentially. Everything is relative. Beauty is after all, in the eye of the beholder. Typically there are always going to be some creepy bosses that think for some reason they have a right to expect favors from women that work for them. These guys should be removed for the good of everyone including the company. I really do not understand why a company is willing to expose themselves to the expense of litigation and the humiliation of being publicly outed as a misogynistic organization. All to allow some perv to grope and harass his employees.

  44. Re:Huh? Harassment? by dbIII · · Score: 2

    There's one of those playing out in the courts in Australia at the moment between the head of a broadcasting company and his former lover - be honest this time, who do you REALLY think lost their job. Like just about all of these cases in reality the person who started with the most power is the one who get to keep their job while the woman is painted as a whore. Sucks, and is that really what you'd want your daughter to go through? It's not about feminism in any way it's about people being treated unfairly.

  45. Re:Why isn't Uber being sued? by jandersen · · Score: 2

    And thus the posturing and dick-waving continues, on and on ad nauseam.

    Can I invite everybody to take a step back from the namecalling and the petty squabbling over insignificant details? I think, if we look at it calmly, we will probably find that there is definitely a certain culture of bias against women in science and technology; this is not surprising - it was not all that long ago, when women were expected to stay at home and do "female things", and the men were supposed to go to work and make all the money a family needed. I remember feeling vaguely ashamed that my mother had to have a job; and there is still a lot of than hanging over in the background - I think it is clearly visible.

    But that's not to say that there aren't any women who hide behind complaints about misogyny, when it is actually just that they don't quite have what it takes - of course there are some. But given the historical background, I think we should always be willing to consider the possibility that the complaints are based on reality. After all, there are far fewer women in certain jobs than there ought to be, when you take into account the number of women with the skills and the talents that are available - which means that there is a lot of talentes that are wasted, in a time when we hear about skills shortages; that doesn't make sense, I think.

    The other point I want to make is that we, as males and engineers, should make the effort to take a look at ourselves. Most of us were the nerdy kid at school and were not part of the wider, social context that should have taught us the skills and mindset that go with relating well to the other sex, among other things, and we have taken it with us into adult life. Thus there is an above average risk that we don't have all the tools to judge whether complaints about misogyny are real or not - that should inspire a bit of humility in us, so we don't just sweep them off the table. Personally, as a nerd, there are things that I am absolutely brilliant at, but if I have to make smalltalk to a sales person, for example, I absolutely stink; I just don't have the skill. This is my failing, it isn't because the man or woman I talk to is an idiot. But, being a skill, it is something that can be learned - and mindsets are changeable too.

  46. Re:Huh? Harassment? by david_thornley · · Score: 2

    If I were a manager in my company, and hit on a woman working for me on her first day, I'd expect to be in deep trouble. There are three things that may constitute sexual harassment, and making employment decisions contingent on sexual favors is one of them. Hitting on a subordinate is likely enough to trigger that, even if there is no explicit threat or promise. A manager who harasses an employee is a liability for their employer, and propositioning a new employee seems like a reasonable firing offense to me.

    In the case you're talking about, the woman went to HR, which is a reasonable response. HR said she should expect retaliation, and lied to her by claiming it was a first offense. That's also probably illegal.

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