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Men Are Affected By the Biological Clock As Well, Researchers Find (theguardian.com)

An anonymous reader quotes a report from The Guardian: A new study reveals that a couple's chances of having a baby fall with the man's age, to the point that it can have a substantial impact on their ability to start a family. Laura Dodge, who led the research at the Beth Israel Deaconess Medical Center and Harvard Medical School in Boston, said that couples should bear the findings in mind when planning a family. "When making this decision, they should also be considering the man's age," she said. Scientists have long known that a woman's chances of conceiving naturally drop sharply from the age of 35, but fertility research has focused so much on women that male factors are less well understood. To investigate the impact of a man's age on a couple's chances of having a baby, Dodge and her colleagues studied records of nearly 19,000 IVF treatment cycles in the Boston area between 2000 and 2014. The women were divided into four age bands: those under 30, 30-35 year-olds, 35-40 year-olds, and those aged 40-42. The men were divided into the same age brackets with an extra band for the over 42s. Some of the couples had received up to six cycles of IVF. Dodge then looked at how age affected couples' chances of having a live birth. As expected, women in the 40-42 age bracket had the lowest birth rates, and for these women the male partner's age had no impact. But for younger women the man's age mattered. Women aged under 30 with a male partner aged 30 to 35 had a 73% chance of a live birth after IVF. But that impressive success rate fell to 46% when the man was aged 40 to 42. Whether they can hear it or not, the biological clock ticks for men too.

209 comments

  1. Younger Sperm Donors by mentil · · Score: 3, Interesting

    Sooo, younger sperm donors are better, is the takeaway? I thought this was common knowledge.
    Usually, a prospective mother will want to use her partner's sperm for IVF, and won't say "I'm gonna use someone else's sperm because you're old so the chances of success are lower, sorry honey." even if that means higher cost for more rounds of IVF. If a woman has a partner 10+ years older than her, chances are he's rich enough to afford those extra rounds.

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    Corruption is convincing someone that the selfless ideal is the same as their selfish ideal.
    1. Re:Younger Sperm Donors by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Sooo, younger sperm donors are better, is the takeaway? I thought this was common knowledge.

      That's one thing science is for. "Common knowledge" is so very often wrong, it's always wise to actually verify such things properly.
      This just happens to be one of the rare times common knowledge happened to be correct.

      I'd dare say it's so rare for such a finding, that alone makes it news worthy.
      (Although news worthy for Slashdot? I'm not so sure about that one, but meh so be it I guess)

    2. Re:Younger Sperm Donors by BESTouff · · Score: 3, Insightful

      If a woman has a partner 10+ years older than her, chances are he's rich enough to afford those extra rounds.

      I'm exactly 10 years older than my SO, that smart gorgeous girl and mother of my lovely daughter, and rest assured she didn't choose me for my wealth.

    3. Re:Younger Sperm Donors by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      It's both CLICKBAIT and SCIENCE.

      captcha RIMJOB

    4. Re:Younger Sperm Donors by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      "I'm exactly 10 years older than my SO, that smart gorgeous girl and mother of my lovely daughter, and rest assured she didn't choose me for my wealth."

      Ditto.

    5. Re:Younger Sperm Donors by Luckyo · · Score: 0

      In that case, you should start getting ready for divorce. There are several studies that find that if women are more wealthy than their husbands, divorce rates spike sharply.

    6. Re:Younger Sperm Donors by Dog-Cow · · Score: 1, Insightful

      If you stop making stupid assumptions, people might start to like you. Don't bet on it, though.

    7. Re: Younger Sperm Donors by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Oh look, you're on Slashdot again, after I said no more. I want a divorce!!!

    8. Re:Younger Sperm Donors by peragrin · · Score: 2

      That's because the woman isn't bound to be her husband's slave. She has choices when he is a dick.

      The solution is to be nice loving caring partner and you don't have to worry

      Treat her as an equal and she won't drop you on your ass

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      i thought once I was found, but it was only a dream.
    9. Re:Younger Sperm Donors by MangoCats · · Score: 1

      An awful lot has to do with attitudes learned (on both sides) long before the relationship started - these attitudes rarely change much through adulthood, and some of the things the "women want" in a shorter term relationship ultimately destroy a longer term one.

    10. Re:Younger Sperm Donors by peragrin · · Score: 0

      Your attitude can change if you want them to change. If you don't want them to change get then you can't blame the woman for leaving. In regards to what "women want" in a shorter term relationship, that does not destroy the longer term one. She's simply weeding out the losers to find her soulmate. She is not destroying the relationship, she's simply not settling for less than she deserves.

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      i thought once I was found, but it was only a dream.
    11. Re:Younger Sperm Donors by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      "Treat her as an equal and she won't drop you on your ass"

      But she's not. She has the entire legal system and public sympathy on her side. Not very equal IMO.

    12. Re:Younger Sperm Donors by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      2 things:
      1. No fault divorce
      2. 50% divorce rate

    13. Re:Younger Sperm Donors by goose-incarnated · · Score: 2

      She's simply weeding out the losers to find her soulmate. She is not destroying the relationship, she's simply not settling for less than she deserves.

      Neither are men. That's the reason she's single and complaining about it on tumblr.

      --
      I'm a minority race. Save your vitriol for white people.
    14. Re: Younger Sperm Donors by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      No Beau, it's a study. Science is a process, not a result.
      But it's 100% clickbait whether or not there is science involved.

    15. Re:Younger Sperm Donors by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

      Sort of, most women around here think they can get pregnant into their 40s because they hear about a fraction of the population that manages. I think the point though is that while men have longer to reproduce, the quality of the sperm and the related pieces does decline over time.

      But really, considering how many women are under the delusion that they can ride the cock carousel through their 20s and most of their 30s and still expect to have children, it doesn't look good for humanity's continued existence.

    16. Re:Younger Sperm Donors by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 4, Insightful

      That's a load of crap right there. First off, why should men have to adjust to women being selfish?

      Secondly, those "losers" aren't necessarily losers, they're the 90% of men that aren't the top 10%. Yes, some of them are losers, but most of them aren't. She's looking for a soulmate, which is great for her, but let's be honest, why should men have to do all the work to earn her stamp of approval? It takes men a significant amount of effort to get a date, but women pretty much just have to say yes and show up.

      She definitely is destroying relationships. That's what women do. At virtually every stage of the process women kill a disproportionate number of relationships. Claiming otherwise is rather silly, we know they're the ones that generally say yes or no to requests for dates and that they initiate divorces more than twice as often as men do.

      What's more, if you haven't actually had to do anything to earn or even deserve to be loved, then you're not going to feel a meaningful attachment to the person you're with. Women get all this messaging about how wonderful they are and how they should have Mr. Right or Prince Charming and they don't. Mr. Right is married to Prince Charming because they got sick of dealing with the bullshit.

      Eventually, they hit the wall because men that are "Mr. Right" and haven't given up on women completely are either already taken by somebody else or they've got the financial means to date 20 yearolds and leave the older women to their own devices. Which is karma. You can't treat men like that while you're young and expect that men will treat you better when you're old.

    17. Re:Younger Sperm Donors by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      And the plural of anecdote is not data.

    18. Re:Younger Sperm Donors by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I'm exactly 10 years older than my SO, that smart gorgeous girl and mother of my lovely daughter, and rest assured she didn't choose me for my wealth.

      How exactly? To the day? Hour? Minute? Second? Moving on, I'm approximately 23 years older than my GF, we have a son, and she loves my big fat ..... wallet. So what?

    19. Re:Younger Sperm Donors by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

      That's a load of crap right there. First off, why should men have to adjust to women being selfish?

      Secondly, those "losers" aren't necessarily losers, they're the 90% of men that aren't the top 10%. Yes, some of them are losers, but most of them aren't. She's looking for a soulmate, which is great for her, but let's be honest, why should men have to do all the work to earn her stamp of approval? It takes men a significant amount of effort to get a date, but women pretty much just have to say yes and show up.

      She definitely is destroying relationships. That's what women do. At virtually every stage of the process women kill a disproportionate number of relationships. Claiming otherwise is rather silly, we know they're the ones that generally say yes or no to requests for dates and that they initiate divorces more than twice as often as men do.

      What's more, if you haven't actually had to do anything to earn or even deserve to be loved, then you're not going to feel a meaningful attachment to the person you're with. Women get all this messaging about how wonderful they are and how they should have Mr. Right or Prince Charming and they don't. Mr. Right is married to Prince Charming because they got sick of dealing with the bullshit.

      Eventually, they hit the wall because men that are "Mr. Right" and haven't given up on women completely are either already taken by somebody else or they've got the financial means to date 20 yearolds and leave the older women to their own devices. Which is karma. You can't treat men like that while you're young and expect that men will treat you better when you're old.

      What he said, 3x more.

    20. Re:Younger Sperm Donors by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      why should men have to do all the work to earn her stamp of approval

      Because evolution. The male is asking a female to be a host for his DNA. She can and will be picky.

    21. Re:Younger Sperm Donors by chuckugly · · Score: 1

      Men have to try harder the older they get, but the odds of the eventual child being defective doesn't rise precipitously like it does for women over 40. Some studies suggest the odds of a defective child rise slightly but perhaps detectably with the age of the father, while the drop in fertility is no secret and never has been. This article is hardly news. The good news? If an older guy wants a kid, all he has to do is have his career in order and find a younger gal who's willing to try, try again. The trying isn't that rough, as near as I can remember.

    22. Re:Younger Sperm Donors by dugancent · · Score: 1

      My, fairly large, family has about a 50/50 mix of men or women higher earners and it doesn't seem to matter. My grandmother always made significantly more than my grandfather and they did fine. At present, my SO makes more than me and neither of us care.

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      SJWs are the new boogeyman. -Me
    23. Re:Younger Sperm Donors by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

      And the female is asking the male to provide for her and her children for 18+ years. A contract that used to be enforced through marriage and social shaming, but which is now enforced through divorce courts.

    24. Re:Younger Sperm Donors by jellomizer · · Score: 1

      Common knowledge is usually correct. However you should use the scientific process to back it up. Because they are often factors that cause this that hasn't been studied or a wrong cause and effect relationships.

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      If something is so important that you feel the need to post it on the internet... It probably isn't that important.
    25. Re:Younger Sperm Donors by phantomfive · · Score: 1

      It takes men a significant amount of effort to get a date, but women pretty much just have to say yes and show up.

      Let's be honest, women put a tremendous amount of effort into getting a date, too.

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      "First they came for the slanderers and i said nothing."
    26. Re:Younger Sperm Donors by BarbaraHudson · · Score: 1

      why should men have to do all the work to earn her stamp of approval? It takes men a significant amount of effort to get a date, but women pretty much just have to say yes and show up.

      So what you're saying is that men are desperate and think with the wrong head.

      Johnny and Sally were playing, and Johnny pulled down his shorts and said "Ha ha, I've got one of these and you don't." >br> Sally hiked her skirt and said "I've got one of these and my mommy says that with one of these I can get as many of those as I want."

      --
      "Transparent" is a shit show that trades on every stereotype going. A man in drag is NOT a transsexual.
    27. Re:Younger Sperm Donors by epyT-R · · Score: 1

      So what you're saying is that men are desperate and think with the wrong head.

      Right, but when she decides to do it on impulse, it's somehow ok? How about when she decides to have the baby knowing full well she can bilk it out of him whether he wants to or not, forcing all three of them to live in poverty.

      Men don't have a monopoly on sexual stupidity.

    28. Re: Younger Sperm Donors by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Bah! This is kind of foolish, because unless they weeded out every couple where the female partner had issues they have dirty data. For every woman that isn't healthy, you're introducing her problems into the dataset to be counted as men's problems. Thus, simply doing it by age bands is not really reliable. A guy could be 100% healthy with completely viable sperm, but if his wife has more pronounced issues it's counted as his failure.

      I guess some people just can't stand that men don't lose fertility remotely as fast as women do I guess.

    29. Re:Younger Sperm Donors by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Because evolution. The male is asking a female to be a host for his DNA. She can and will be picky.

      A lot of men, including myself, don't want to be breeders. The women are the ones obsessed with breeding. Men want to fuck women but we don't want kids so much.

      Women can afford to be pickier because men are just much easier to get than women. Women are hard to get even for other women. Also because women don't seem to need to be in a relationship as much as a man. Women don't seem to need sex as much either.

      So basically men want to always be in a relationship and always be having sex, but don't want children so much. Women don't care that much if they are in a relationship or not and know they can have sex whenever they want anyway and know that men are so ridiculously easy to get that it's not something they have to worry about. Even for the woman DNA isn't really that much of an issue. If it were she would be going for intelligent guys more than dumb giants with pretty faces.

    30. Re:Younger Sperm Donors by 0111+1110 · · Score: 1

      Let's be honest, women put a tremendous amount of effort into getting a date, too.

      Only if they are old or ugly. The young pretty ones that are the ones we all care about don't give it much thought at all. They just choose among the most handsome suitors and that is that. They put a lot of effort into looking as beautiful as possible but that is more of a power thing. Being a beautiful girl gives you superpowers and they want to be as powerful as possible just as anyone would. They don't worry about getting dates.

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      Quite an experience to live in fear, isn't it? That's what it is to be a slave.
    31. Re:Younger Sperm Donors by 0111+1110 · · Score: 1

      So what you're saying is that men are desperate

      Men are more desperate because men actually enjoy relationships more than women do. Women often don't care if they have a boyfriend or not. Men always care. Men always want a girlfriend and always want to be having sex. Women often don't care that much if they are having sex or not. So basically one sex cares more because they enjoy the experience more.

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      Quite an experience to live in fear, isn't it? That's what it is to be a slave.
    32. Re:Younger Sperm Donors by Luckyo · · Score: 1

      Again, studies do not support this view, and support the opposite view.

      The likely reason lies in the fact that we cannot deny our own biology. Males in our species exist to provide for females, while females function as selectors from pool of available males for who gets to procreate. That's why all of us humans living today have twice as many female ancestors as male ones.

    33. Re:Younger Sperm Donors by Luckyo · · Score: 1

      I wish you the best of luck in your representation of the more positive minority of the statistical reality.

    34. Re:Younger Sperm Donors by phantomfive · · Score: 1

      They put a lot of effort into looking as beautiful as possible

      So you said a lot of words but you agree with me.

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      "First they came for the slanderers and i said nothing."
    35. Re:Younger Sperm Donors by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      You have some perspective bias.

      To get a date with YOU all a woman just has to "say yes and show up"

      At virtually every stage of the process women kill a disproportionate number of YOUR relationships.

      Because YOU are not Mr. Right - or even Mr. Right Enough.

      I discovered when I became a moderately active feminist that respectful men get insane amounts of sexual advances. And why not? I cook, clean, support career choices, try hard to not be bigoted, and honestly discuss feelings. It turns out trying to be a feminist is just trying to be a good person, and - without even succeeding necessarily - trying to be a good person makes one incredibly attractive to all the right people.

      So attractive that "let's be in an open relationship" gets the aye, because they know I'll be honest.

      And the very best sex? Not freaky Catholics. Liberated group sex. Wow. Wow.

    36. Re:Younger Sperm Donors by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Building on the logic of the dolls, then the next hysteria, could be large age gaps between a couple!
      Next big worldwide thing/scare could be to push for a worldwide ban on couples with more than 2 years between them! :-)
      That would of course also extend to the use of a donor that is younger or older than the user of the donor :-)

    37. Re:Younger Sperm Donors by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      LOL, nice shaming tactics.

      And no, that's not true even remotely. The fact that you're a feminist pretty much completely disqualifies you from having an opinion on this. No, women do not go for nice guys, no they do not go for respectful either. The women like that are relatively few and far between. You see that in places like the East Coast where there are so few men to go around that women have to actually accept great men rather than expecting perfect.

      BTW, I've had plenty of women hitting on me over the years, doesn't make it that much easier to have a real relationship. Feminism ruined most of the women around here. They'll mostly wind up settling for somebody that's a pretty bad fit because they deluded themselves into thinking they could have perfect. Possessing female genitals does not entitle them to perfect.

    38. Re:Younger Sperm Donors by Paradise+Pete · · Score: 1

      She's simply weeding out the losers to find her soulmate.

      That finding your soulmate stuff is bullshit. You find someone you get along with and then you both choose to make it work. It's only much later that you become "soulmates".

    39. Re:Younger Sperm Donors by BarbaraHudson · · Score: 1
      Never said that "men have a monopoly on sexual stupidity."

      How about when she decides to have the baby knowing full well she can bilk it out of him whether he wants to or not, forcing all three of them to live in poverty.

      You're responsible for your own contraceptive practices, she's responsible for hers. If you're too stupid to take precautions, how is that not your own fault? It's clearly not like you don't know the long-term risks.

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      "Transparent" is a shit show that trades on every stereotype going. A man in drag is NOT a transsexual.
    40. Re:Younger Sperm Donors by BarbaraHudson · · Score: 1

      Are you sure about that? Nature has equipped women to enjoy sex far more than men - multiple orgasms being one example.

      --
      "Transparent" is a shit show that trades on every stereotype going. A man in drag is NOT a transsexual.
    41. Re:Younger Sperm Donors by epyT-R · · Score: 1

      If you're too stupid to take precautions, how is that not your own fault?

      If it's her body, her right, her choice, then it should be her responsibility, too. If she didn't like the outcome, what was she doing sleeping with a guy without protection who didn't want to start a family?

    42. Re:Younger Sperm Donors by BarbaraHudson · · Score: 1

      If you're too stupid to take precautions, how is that not your own fault?

      If it's her body, her right, her choice, then it should be her responsibility, too. If she didn't like the outcome, what was she doing sleeping with a guy without protection who didn't want to start a family?

      If you didn't want a kid, what were you doing sleeping with a woman without protection who wanted to start a family? Or do you not have autonomy over your body, your right, and your choice to use contraception, or even forego sex? (oh, right, you don't want to use a condom because it feels like wearing a raincoat, you don't want to get a vasectomy because the thought of losing your virility makes you cringe, you regard unprotected sex as your birthright and you'll never refuse sex when you're drunk or horny or just plain desperate).

      --
      "Transparent" is a shit show that trades on every stereotype going. A man in drag is NOT a transsexual.
    43. Re:Younger Sperm Donors by epyT-R · · Score: 1

      If you didn't want a kid, what were you doing sleeping with a woman without protection who wanted to start a family?

      If it's not ok to withhold abortion and rope her into marriage because of unwanted pregnancy, it is not ok for her to rope him (or just his wallet) in either. If he refuses, he should have that right (he should not have father's rights until he commits either). She should abort and/or find a guy who is actually ready for fatherhood, raise the kid on her own, or give it up for adoption. While I'll agree that using some form of protection is the best way to go, it doesn't always happen nor does it always work.

      Since abortion and birth control offer pre and post conception choices, the rest of your argument is out of date, a strawman, as well as sexist and hypocritical.

    44. Re:Younger Sperm Donors by BarbaraHudson · · Score: 1

      You have the power ahead of time - you don't have the power post hoc to change your mind. Tough shit if you lack self control.

      Once you create a situation - and in this case it's entirely voluntary on your part - you can't cry about the consequences later when you were aware of them ahead of time. Grow up and stop your whining. You are the one who has the power to not become a father. Don't exercise it - then accept the consequences. That's not sexist - that's telling you to take your share of the outcome when you do something stupid.

      What's hypocritical is you saying that somehow you don't have the same power to prevent conception as a woman does, that somehow only the woman has a responsibility and an ability to prevent conceptions, when you know damn well you're lying because you don't want to take responsibility for controlling your own fertility. Because you think with your dick.

      --
      "Transparent" is a shit show that trades on every stereotype going. A man in drag is NOT a transsexual.
    45. Re:Younger Sperm Donors by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Want to bet? Considering how much women have abused that in the last couple decades, that's going to change rather quickly. You can already see it changing as men are no longer as concerned about being shamed for not being willing to make sacrifices for spoiled women and refuse to marry spoiled women.

      There's hormones and genetics involved, but men do have the ability to reason critically. It only takes a fraction of the male population opting out of all that BS in order to put women in a position where they have to actually fight to get a guy worth having. And if they keep pissing off the Mr. Rights and Prince Charmings out there, they're going to have to do stupid bullshit like marrying themselves.

      https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=p9npxknro5w

    46. Re:Younger Sperm Donors by Luckyo · · Score: 1

      Considering that most of the world lives by the same principles as before, and state of some Western countries in this regard is a massive outlier, I'll readily take that bet provided we agree on large enough statistical sampling. My own opinion/analysis is that current state is actually a reaction to female employment. This is on the rise world wide as people realised that it's actually very economically efficient to push women into employment. It drives the costs of employment down for men, as women compete with them. This does however accrue what is essentially a social debt within society, which generates destructive impulses among both sexes. We're observing the effects in most feminist of Western societies already, where social costs (which are essentially interest on aforementioned social debt) are starting to eclipse economic benefits.

      My point goes well beyond the current "toxic feminism" debate, and well into how our species is actually designed by evolutionary process to work. Again, there's a reason why both me and you have twice as many female ancestors as we have male ones.

    47. Re:Younger Sperm Donors by epyT-R · · Score: 1

      Once you create a situation - and in this case it's entirely voluntary on your part - you can't cry about the consequences later when you were aware of them ahead of time. Grow up and stop your whining.

      When is society going to start telling women this? You know, 'empowered' single mothers who were too stupid to do the right thing and abort, figuring they could bilk it out of his (also broke and unwilling) ass? I bet a lot more of these girls would've aborted if they knew beforehand they couldn't rope him in, at least not without his legally documented consent (or valid marriage license). This is a net win for society's welfare system too.

      I was suggesting a system that gives him a post conception choice as well so that neither can take advantage of the other... AFTER the mistake/accident happens. It would separate the choice of having children from the act of sex for men (like women already have), which would encourage it only when both parents are willing and able. Hopefully, she'll quit shacking up with the guys who run and gun if she wants someone to father children. Hopefully, he'll stop chasing girls on the party scene if he's looking for a decent mother for his children.

      What's hypocritical is you saying that somehow you don't have the same power to prevent conception as a woman does, that somehow only the woman has a responsibility and an ability to prevent conceptions, when you know damn well you're lying because you don't want to take responsibility for controlling your own fertility. Because you think with your dick.

      No I didn't say any of these things. In fact, I was talking about balancing out the recently acquired power of ending conception with a male equivalent that protects his rights while not impinging on hers. You just suck at reading comprehension or your ideological lensing is so great you only see what you want to see. Considering all your ad hominem strawmen, I'm guessing the latter.

    48. Re: Younger Sperm Donors by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      100 % legit. This is just a biased study to knock older men when the problem is actually women's fertility

    49. Re:Younger Sperm Donors by BarbaraHudson · · Score: 1

      When are you going to learn that you don't have a right to sex without responsibility? Or even sex? Use a condom or face the consequences. Everything else flows from that. Pick the right partner or face the consequences. This applies to both men and women, but you don't want to accept that you have the responsibility and the ability to prevent an unwanted child.

      You really are a whiny baby. The whole "post conception choice" is bullshit. You don't have a say over a woman.s body any more than she has a say over yours. You can neither force her to carry a child to term or abort. It's her body, her choice. That's part of the whole package, because that's how it works. Forcing someone to carry a child they don't want is involuntary servitude, and slavery was supposed to be over. Forcing someone to have an abortion is also involuntary servitude. Either way, you're forcing someone else to do what you want. You made your decision by not using a condom, and there's no take-backs.

      Women have always had the ability to abort; it's why the Hippocratic oath talks about not procuring an abortifacent even in Greek days. So no, it's not some "newly acquired power."

      There is no way in hell women, who are the majority of the population, will accept you having a say over what we do with our bodies, same as you would object if we started pushing for mandatory vasectomies at puberty.

      --
      "Transparent" is a shit show that trades on every stereotype going. A man in drag is NOT a transsexual.
    50. Re:Younger Sperm Donors by BarbaraHudson · · Score: 1

      NEWS FLASH - Announced a few minutes ago, starting in September, we will be distributing the abortion pill for free. Good for the first 7 weeks of pregnancy, the doctor's exam, ultrasound to confirm pregnancy, the $300 pill, and medical follow-up are all free. You have no say. None. So wrap your pecker or get a vasectomy if you don't want to make a kid. Otherwise you're stuck with the results of your decision not to.

      --
      "Transparent" is a shit show that trades on every stereotype going. A man in drag is NOT a transsexual.
    51. Re:Younger Sperm Donors by epyT-R · · Score: 1

      When are you going to learn that you don't have a right to sex without responsibility?

      When are you going to learn that repeating yourself doesn't make a better argument?

      Pick the right partner or face the consequences. This applies to both men and women, but you don't want to accept that you have the responsibility and the ability to prevent an unwanted child.

      So rather than make that process of responsibility more amicable for both, you'd rather keep the passive aggression and squabbling intact? Why? Just so she can continue to insulate herself for her own dumb choices at his expense?

      That's part of the whole package, because that's how it works.

      Why not just ban abortion then? Just tell women "have sex, have a baby, now get back in the kitchen," and tell men "go work that 16hour helljob to meet your child's needs." After all, that's how it has worked for thousands of years. It's ok for women to have choices in the outcomes of their sexual behavior but not men?

      Women have always had the ability to abort; it's why the Hippocratic oath talks about not procuring an abortifacent even in Greek days. So no, it's not some "newly acquired power."

      Yeah, but it wasn't the low risk (medical and social), reliable process like it is today. Equating the two is extremely fallacious.

      There is no way in hell women, who are the majority of the population, will accept you having a say over what we do with our bodies, same as you would object if we started pushing for mandatory vasectomies at puberty.

      Who said I did? When will you quit the strawman arguments? I said she can have (or not have) the baby if she wants, it's just selfish of her to rope him/society into paying for its upbringing without consent. This is especially egregious when coupled with all that whining about 'my body my right my choice'. You babble about responsibility but apparently only for men.

    52. Re:Younger Sperm Donors by epyT-R · · Score: 1

      Um.. ok. I haven't advocated against abortion rights, nor using protection. Lay off the feminist kool-aid powder, will ya?

    53. Re:Younger Sperm Donors by BarbaraHudson · · Score: 1

      Your bullshit solution doesn't make the process "more amicable for both." Use a condom or go fuck yourself. You have two hands, right? And an internet connection. And lots of experience fapping t porn with Thumbellna and her four sisters.

      Your "solution" is a way for you to both abrogate your responsibility to police yourself, and to try to control a woman post-coitus. It is entirely within your power not to become a parent. Use it or pay. After all, it's your body, your choice. If you choose to have unprotected sex, again, your body, your choice. You didn't get "roped into it." It was YOUR choice. Same as a vasectomy - your body, your choice.

      "Roped into it." Yeah, all these guys were raped ... sure ... all these guys were "tricked into it". You're supposed to be an adult, act like one. You don't want kids, don't have unprotected sex. That's what responsible adults do.

      As for consent, you consented to the consequences when you had unprotected sex. You knew the possibility of making a kid. You continued anyway. Again, grow up. Or better yet - don't. This way your personality will be all the birth control you ever need, and if it takes some woman making you pay for the child's upbringing to make you learn to be more responsible, well, hopefully you will have learned your lesson and behaved more responsibly with your own body in the future.

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    54. Re:Younger Sperm Donors by BarbaraHudson · · Score: 1

      Um.. ok. I haven't advocated against abortion rights, nor using protection. Lay off the feminist kool-aid powder, will ya?

      Buillshit. Here's exactly what you said:

      I was suggesting a system that gives him a post conception choice as well so that neither can take advantage of the other... AFTER the mistake/accident happens. It would separate the choice of having children from the act of sex for men (like women already have)

      Men have already taken women to court to have a say in whether they can get an abortion. So yes, your proposal has already been used against abortion rights, and continues to do so. And people are trying to make it into law:

      A bill advancing in Oklahoma would require a woman to get the written consent of the fetus’s father before obtaining an abortion.

      The bill, which passed out of a House committee Tuesday, would also require a woman “to provide, in writing, the identity of the father of the fetus to the physician who is to perform or induce the abortion,” according to the bill’s language. “If the person identified as the father of the fetus challenges the fact that he is the father, such individual may demand that a paternity test be performed.”

      The bill’s author, Rep. Justin Humphrey (R), could not be reached for comment Tuesday. But in an interview with The Intercept earlier this month, Humphrey said that men should be able to have a say over the fate of a fetus, and suggested that a woman has greater responsibility in a relationship for preventing pregnancy because she would be the “host.”

      So cut the lying. Just grow up and accept that you need to behave more responsibly if you don't want kids. It is entirely within your control to prevent yourself becoming a father. The act of sex is already separate from having children for men. Use a condom or get a vasectomy. We don't need you breeding any more people incapable of logical thought and responsible behaviour.

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  2. Responsible Progressive analysis by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0, Interesting

    Identifying the inequality is the first step in resolving any social injustice.

    Since we know men and women are equal and that means exactly the same, time to move forward with adjusting society until both men and women reach peak fertility at the same age. I vote for 40.

    1. Re:Responsible Progressive analysis by aliquis · · Score: 3, Funny

      Since we know men and women are equal and that means exactly the same, time to move forward with adjusting society until both men and women reach peak fertility at the same age. I vote for 40.

      Yeah yeah yeah, women and men.

      But what about trans-men furies MLP-lovers?
      Has anyone studied us?

      Such intolerant bi-gender society. Fuck you all.

    2. Re:Responsible Progressive analysis by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

      If you identify as a tortoise, like myself, you can live for quite a while and reproduce during a good deal of that period. You of course have to be open minded and really being a tortoise trapped in a humans body.

      Some days, I identify as an android and we live much longer then simple turtles... provided the spare parts are available.

      Most days, I identify as a member of the borg. I really truly feel as myself when I'm part of the hive mind acting as one. Yeah, I said it, the dirty word hive mind! All you racist anti-collective-borg hating bastards can burn ... from the heat of my sweet arsenal.

      I really jive as a borg when I'm assimilating whole planets and assimilating their unique biological features. It just kicks my day up to second gear after nuking some backwater planet that had a cool water purification system and species #1142131 were really good at hiking too.

      Off to wipe out some culture of hippies!

    3. Re: Responsible Progressive analysis by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Unfortunately not (certainly not the Greek furies). However, inbreeding has been extensively researched so they've got you covered aquilis!

    4. Re:Responsible Progressive analysis by Ol+Olsoc · · Score: 2

      Identifying the inequality is the first step in resolving any social injustice.

      Since we know men and women are equal and that means exactly the same, time to move forward with adjusting society until both men and women reach peak fertility at the same age. I vote for 40.

      You jest, but are not far off the mark. Many women a few years back decided that they were going to wait until their mid-40's to have children. I even watched a TeD talk with a woman claiming that women are not biologically ready to bear children until they are well into their 30's. A good rationale, but bad biology.

      Very strange, when humans are physically capable of childbearing in their early teens, yet aren't supposed to be actually ready until an age when they originally started dying off.

      Regardless, humans are capable in their early teens, and the social engineering of teens not being considered adults until the late teens, and waiting at least until then to procreate has been pretty successful, but men and women both have some "best by date". Women's dates tend to be more of a hard stop, and men kind of dribble off more slowly, but for best freshness, nature has shown us when, and social engineering, not so much.

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    5. Re:Responsible Progressive analysis by cryptizard · · Score: 2

      "Originally" (meaning before the 19th century) girls didn't reach puberty until 16-17 on average because of poor nutrition. Arguing anything about the intent of biology or that it "shows" us anything is nonsense. What makes humans different from animals is that we are not slaves to our biology, things are a lot more mutable than that.

    6. Re:Responsible Progressive analysis by Ol+Olsoc · · Score: 2

      "Originally" (meaning before the 19th century) girls didn't reach puberty until 16-17 on average because of poor nutrition.

      Allow me:

      What we know about the onset of pubery in females"

      From early historic times

      Ancient Rome was 12 to 14 years of age

      Middle ages in Europe was 12 to 14 years of age

      Middle ages in the Middle East was 12 to13 years of age

      In the 1800's

      Manchester, England in the 1840s

      lower class women was around 15 and a half years of age

      upper class women was around 14 and a half years of age

      London Hospital patients in 1855 was around 15 and a half years of age

      Germany in 1869 was around 15 and a half years of age

      Scotland 1870 was around 15 and a half years to 16 and a half years of age

      London 1880 middle class females was around 15 years of age

      U.S.A. late 19th century was around 12-14 and a half years of age

      USA in 1905 was around 14-15 and a half years of age

      Today it is around 12 years of age for menarche. much of this is attributed to weight of young ladies, perhaps some to estrogen and phytoestrogen exposure. from http://www.mum.org/menarage.ht...

      Arguing anything about the intent of biology or that it "shows" us anything is nonsense.

      So let me know when I ever argued about the "intent" of biology. Because biology does not have intent, and you are correct to imply such is indeed nonsense. But muchacho, don't be a jerk and attribute to me things that I never wrote.

      Regardless of the specific age of menarche, the concept of a young lady who becomes fertile at 12 years of age, and one who waits until her mid 40's to have a child as being functionally equivalent certainly ranks as nonsense. If it were advantageous in the evolutionary sense for 45 year old women to have children, and for younger ones to not, simple selection would ensure that women did not become fertile until they were much older.

      So your argument is a bit specious, with the reduction in age of menarche being over a fairly short number of years, and the signaling of fertility over a span of roughly 5 years, not decades as would be required for a superior outcome of a woman giving first birth in her thirties or forties.

      Even if we give some credence to the idea that there is a superior outcome, then there must be some advantage to waiting 30 some years after fertility is achieved to make use of that fertility.

      What makes humans different from animals is that we are not slaves to our biology, things are a lot more mutable than that.

      So give me the biological background to the limits of your socially based mutablility. We gonna have gills and wings soon?

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    7. Re:Responsible Progressive analysis by cryptizard · · Score: 1

      If it were advantageous in the evolutionary sense for 45 year old women to have children, and for younger ones to not, simple selection would ensure that women did not become fertile until they were much older.

      The flaw in that argument is that since we, as a species, have achieved an expected lifespan long enough to consistently make it to 45 years of age, no significant biological evolution has occurred.

    8. Re: Responsible Progressive analysis by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

      The human race is still evolving; specifically in regards to the increasing size of the cranium. Being that childbirth was in the past, and in some parts of the world still is, the #1 killer for women; specifically pre-teen and teens. So while a young women is fertile, the rest of her body isn't yet fully developed to handle the birthing process.

      Did you ever stop to think WHY young women are often protected from marrying so young in many cultures? The parents don't want to risk their daughter's life from birthing so young!

    9. Re:Responsible Progressive analysis by Ol+Olsoc · · Score: 1

      If it were advantageous in the evolutionary sense for 45 year old women to have children, and for younger ones to not, simple selection would ensure that women did not become fertile until they were much older.

      The flaw in that argument is that since we, as a species, have achieved an expected lifespan long enough to consistently make it to 45 years of age, no significant biological evolution has occurred.

      Right, but it isn't my argument. Spending fully half of our lives being fertile (or not) doesn't make much evolutionary sense for a species with a long juvenile existence. We are fully grown by our late teens/early 20's. We are at our physical peak around that time. We have the energy for child rearing. It would make sense to bear and raise children in that neighborhood. The extended childhood experiment that we tried out some time ago worked pretty well, it allowed for teenages to gather a little bit of wisdom before getting out on their own. But there are limits to extended childhood, and the extreme narrowing of fertility.

      A couple that starts their family at 45 will be at around retirement age when their first child reaches 21 years of age. If their first child delays fertility until 45, they will be 90 years old when they become grandparents. Then maybe 115 when their first grandchild graduates college.

      Let us not forget that life expectancy in the US has gone down. http://www.webmd.com/healthy-a...

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    10. Re:Responsible Progressive analysis by BarbaraHudson · · Score: 1

      That's still only a small fraction of human existence. Homo Sapiens remains have been found that date back to 340,000 years ago. Humans didn't live long enough then for the woman to reach menopause, or men to reach the male climacteric.

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    11. Re:Responsible Progressive analysis by Ol+Olsoc · · Score: 1

      That's still only a small fraction of human existence. Homo Sapiens remains have been found that date back to 340,000 years ago. Humans didn't live long enough then for the woman to reach menopause, or men to reach the male climacteric.

      Very true. Our state of existence at this time is artificial in the extreme.

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    12. Re:Responsible Progressive analysis by BarbaraHudson · · Score: 2

      It's been calculated that for most of our existence, the average lifespan was just under 20. This was due to high infant and child mortality, high mortality of mothers (hey, big heads come with their own problems), and things that we just shrug off today after a visit to the doctor could leave one uncompetitive, or dead.

      As one example, I tore the cartilage in one of my knees when I was 19. The knee works fine, but without surgery I would have been crippled. That's a serious problem in a nomadic hunter-gatherer society.

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    13. Re:Responsible Progressive analysis by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      But what about trans-men furies MLP-lovers?
      Has anyone studied us?

      Yes, as part of "abnormal psychology".

    14. Re:Responsible Progressive analysis by 0111+1110 · · Score: 1

      We are fully grown by our late teens/early 20's. We are at our physical peak around that time. We have the energy for child rearing. It would make sense to bear and raise children in that neighborhood. The extended childhood experiment that we tried out some time ago worked pretty well, it allowed for teenages to gather a little bit of wisdom before getting out on their own. But there are limits to extended childhood, and the extreme narrowing of fertility.

      Yes biologically speaking this makes sense, but our species also wants to be happy and breeding tends to make us unhappy and want to die soon. Children suck all the life out of you like little vampires and makes the mother less attractive (breasts like half deflated water balloons and mega-vagina) and sometimes less interested in sex. In some species the mother dies soon after giving birth. I think it is true in our species as well except that the death is a psychological one: the death of all enjoyment of life, of all happiness and it applies to both parents and not just the mother. So if you want to live a happy life it makes sense to have children only after most of the enjoyment of life has already passed. So I think waiting for the last few eggs to have children is a great idea. Yes it's more selfish, but we only get one life. Why not surf that wave right to the beach?

      For men I think the ideal time to have kids is in your 50s or even 60s. For women early 40s is optimal if you are going for the one child ideal. 38 or 39 if you want 2 or 3 of those life-stealing, mole-rat looking creatures. I'm not yet 50 and have never had any desire to have children but it is too early now anyway. Child rearing is something you do when you are getting ready to die.

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    15. Re: Responsible Progressive analysis by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Resistance is fertile!

    16. Re: Responsible Progressive analysis by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      So true! But some people like me, have children earlier, because life gaves us no enjoyment, so procreation atleast gave some meaning in addition to misery. However being miserable all my life for various reasons, a little more made no difference.

  3. it ticks but on different tune by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

    >> women in the 40-42 age bracket had the lowest birth rates, and for these women the male partner's age had no impact.

    >> Women aged under 30 with a male partner aged 30 to 35 had a 73% chance of a live birth after IVF.
    >> that impressive success rate fell to 46% when the man was aged 40 to 42.

    For men after 40 it means they have to go against the time and select much younger woman.
    One more research confirming common knowledge.

    1. Re:it ticks but on different tune by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 2

      What if, like me, the man looks nothing like his biological age? I have no gut, no wrinkles, full head of brown hair (widow's peak, though), no interest in the usual middle-aged stuff. I look at women my age and I'm shocked and revolted. Women 20 years younger get all smiley and touchy around me, which they never did when I was 25.

      I bike 50km a day, I don't break a knee when I miss a stair, I can stay out, I can drink, eat whatever I want.

      Why would I date a wrinkly, out-of-shape, pre-menopausal senior citizen shut-in with no modern interests, and that goes on and on about her grown-up children and how big her ex-boyfriend's cock was?

    2. Re:it ticks but on different tune by Oswald+McWeany · · Score: 1, Troll

      Why would I date a wrinkly, out-of-shape, pre-menopausal senior citizen shut-in with no modern interests, and that goes on and on about her grown-up children and how big her ex-boyfriend's cock was?

      Sounds like you must have a small cock.

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    3. Re:it ticks but on different tune by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 2

      Yes, it's pretty much average. So? Does that mean I should date a grumpy middle-aged agoraphobe? Young women are nice to me, they talk to me, they smile at me now. 45 year old women subject me to never-ending interviews, ask me questions like I'm a potential serial killer, and if I surmount all those obstacles, I end up with a snoring, boring butterball with a gut? No thanks!

      Yeah, I'll make the extra effort to talk to younger women, and I'll gladly live with the envious stares of 45 year old men stuck with their living nightmare, and the angry stares of the cold fish.

      Man, one of my best memories of working downtown was going to eat lunch with a young female coworker (absolutely platonic), and enjoying the vicious, acidic stares from the next table; a pair of fat, wrinkly, rough-skinned middle-aged housewives staring at me and this 23 year old graduate.

      Fuck them! Where were THEY when THEY were 23??? Rejecting men their own age because he was shy or awkward or inexperienced?

      Somehow THAT'S OK, but when the man finally gets into his own, he's supposed to just "get over" the horrific abuse from women and date the same women that rejected him before?

      Ha ha! NO

      Nature makes women sexy when they're young. It also makes men look better as we age.

      So the hell with women, they enjoyed their power in their youth. Now they can reap what they sowed.

    4. Re:it ticks but on different tune by Ol+Olsoc · · Score: 1

      Why would I date a wrinkly, out-of-shape, pre-menopausal senior citizen shut-in with no modern interests, and that goes on and on about her grown-up children and how big her ex-boyfriend's cock was?

      Because all of the other ladies think you're an asshole.

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    5. Re:it ticks but on different tune by cryptizard · · Score: 1

      Wow dude you have a lot of baggage to unpack...

    6. Re:it ticks but on different tune by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Its like a living embodiment of those cartoons on The Onion.

      "Sophisticated older male" "nagging she-harpy" "enthralled younger woman"

    7. Re:it ticks but on different tune by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I didn't pack it. When I was younger, all I needed was ONE woman to not immediately push me away. That's all. Women who were entirely able to sleep with the first stranger they met in a bar, and STAY when he turned out to be a cheating abuser. Yet they saw me as a "friend" that strangely they only ever needed to fix THEIR problems. When *I* needed something, oops, they disappear like Clark Kent.

      Well, I grew up. Your bitterness and your misery in your life doesn't concern me anymore. You were probably the kind of guy making fun of the shy inexperienced guy like me instead of helping me back in our 20s.

      So fuck you! I don't care anymore. I don't care about you, I don't care what you think, I don't care what women think. I don't want to see other men's sperm walking around me either. I don't care about your kids.

      So yeah, I didn't pack that baggage. YOU did. Instead of unpacking it, I lost it on the flight towards middle age. Now I just don't give a shit anymore.

      But keep those middle-aged women away from me. Maybe your brain can do the mental gymnastics to see 45 year old women as attractive, but mine can't!

      And don't hold up Hollywood outliers as "average". The average 45 year old woman doesn't look like Sandra Bullock or Monica Bellucci.

      More like this

      http://i.dailymail.co.uk/i/pix/2013/06/15/article-2342207-1A55A15E000005DC-825_306x510.jpg

      Looks like my Mom's friends at the retirement home exchanging knitting patterns.

    8. Re:it ticks but on different tune by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      ...or simply the reality that those cartoons are trying to deny, because it doesn't fit into your narrative.

      You suck, you're old, your girlfriend is old, her pussy smells like bad breath, and her gums are receding.

    9. Re:it ticks but on different tune by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      cryptizard is right, you could use some professional help. That level of anger and resentment is clearly eating you from the inside.

    10. Re:it ticks but on different tune by ooloorie · · Score: 1

      For men after 40 it means they have to go against the time and select much younger woman.

      I'm not sure what you mean by "against time"; men taking much younger women is hardly unusual throughout human history.

    11. Re:it ticks but on different tune by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      No. That experience is par. Science backs him up.

      Unless you are a flat-earther that thinks scientists made up global warming, you agree.

    12. Re:it ticks but on different tune by BarbaraHudson · · Score: 1

      Don't bother. If he's still not learned the lessons of life at 45, he's too set in his ways to change. And let's face it, he's just not worth the effort.

      He claims "I don't give a shit any more" but obviously he does. He doth protest too much.

      I bike 50km a day, I don't break a knee when I miss a stair, I can stay out, I can drink, eat whatever I want.

      Why would I date a wrinkly, out-of-shape, pre-menopausal senior citizen shut-in with no modern interest

      "pre-menopausal; senior citizen?"

      You obviously don't know what you're talking about. Senior citizens who are pre-menopausal? That would be impressive. Also, more men break their hips than women. And "out-of-shape"? I'll probably outlive you. That's the problem with men, when the body starts failing, it fails fast and hard. Why do you think men die younger?

      And androgen replacement therapy for men has risks, unlike estrogen replacement therapy for women, which protects against stroke, heart disease, bone decalcification, and muscle and strength loss, and adds 3 years on average to life span over untreated women, who already have an advantage over men. And now that HRT is no longer "as little as possible, for the shortest time possible", expect more improvements in life span.

      And there are plenty of women who don't look their age, without resorting to botox or face lifts, just a healthy lifestyle.

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    13. Re:it ticks but on different tune by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Actually, he has just the same baggage as all men, and he knows who packed it.

    14. Re:it ticks but on different tune by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      No, actually he sounds as though he is free, and that must really piss of a lot of other men (the trapped ones), including you.

    15. Re: it ticks but on different tune by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      It's not baggage, it's being honest. This is something more men should do instead of sparing some gal, with "Princess Syndrome", feelings.

      I watched guys, pretty darn good looking guys at that, get rejected because they didn't have some status shiat. I watched, and was, Joe Average twenty-something (think blandly average, not too tall, not too short, brown hair and eyes, not overweight but not skinny) who got rejected by average women who thought they could score better.

      Fast forward ten years, and boy was I (educated like before, but add a good job, house, car, and Cessna 340A in my case) suddenly hit shiat to the same women that wouldn't give me the time of day before much less the average gals who rejected me. Of course now I was able to get the attention of younger women who were much better looking than the aged out gals.

      Not much is better than telling a former gal with princess syndrome, "No, let's just be friends." They typically don't respond well to it, because they're used to being the ones saying it. Well, there is one thing better than saying that: living your life and doing what you want.

    16. Re:it ticks but on different tune by 0111+1110 · · Score: 1

      Sounds like you must have a small cock.

      Well you need an enormous cock to have sex with an older woman because of their ginormous whale vaginas. So yeah if you are average sized or less it's best to stick with girls in their teens and early to mid 20s which is what we all want anyway. Let the guys with the enormous tent-poles have the soccer moms. The rest of us can stick with the fresh-from-the-factory ones that still have that new car smell and a vag that hasn't been pounded a hundred thousand times and still has some elasticity and muscle tone.

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    17. Re: it ticks but on different tune by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      You still need to be good looking like tom cruise if you want a much younger woman without having a ton of money

    18. Re: it ticks but on different tune by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Amen! If I had not had such a fucked up life growing up, then I would hve done the same! More power to you man!

  4. Ohohohoho wait there's a pill for that... by future+assassin · · Score: 1

    Someone will cash in on this soon.

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  5. Quality by kamapuaa · · Score: 0

    Rates of genetic disease are also much higher with older dads, and the father being 40 or older is the main known risk factor for autism.

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    1. Re:Quality by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 5, Informative

      "father being 40 or older is the main known risk factor for autism."

      SIMPLY NOT TRUE.

      "In the case of autism, the risk associated with parental age is DWARFED by the impact of inheritance."

      https://www.nytimes.com/2014/03/30/opinion/sunday/how-to-think-about-the-risk-of-autism.html

    2. Re:Quality by 93+Escort+Wagon · · Score: 2

      I didn't know Jenny McCarthy hung out on Slashdot!

      What have you been up to lately, Jenny?

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    3. Re:Quality by goose-incarnated · · Score: 4, Insightful

      Rates of genetic disease are also much higher with older dads, and the father being 40 or older is the main known risk factor for autism.

      It's a narrative being sold because men are checking out. The odds are so slightly higher than they are almost insignificant.

      The "story" being sold is due wholly to reality not matching feminist ideology, and almost all of these stories about how men have a biological clock are hyped to get men to play the game again.

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    4. Re:Quality by serviscope_minor · · Score: 1

      Whiny MGTOW's are checking out for sure, but honestly, everyone else is glad about that.

      I also like how you invent bits of feminist ideology to be angry at.

      Out of interest, are you one of the men who has checked out?

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    5. Re:Quality by goose-incarnated · · Score: 2

      Whiny MGTOW's are checking out for sure, but honestly, everyone else is glad about that.

      I also like how you invent bits of feminist ideology to be angry at.

      Out of interest, are you one of the men who has checked out?

      The shaming language stopped working. If it still worked younger men wouldn't be checking out. You can continue using it, it makes no difference as the shaming language is being ignored.

      You throw histrionics while they are ignoring you and playing video games. Continue clutching pearls, they'll continue playing MMOs.

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    6. Re:Quality by Ol+Olsoc · · Score: 1

      Rates of genetic disease are also much higher with older dads, and the father being 40 or older is the main known risk factor for autism.

      It's a narrative being sold because men are checking out. The odds are so slightly higher than they are almost insignificant.

      The "story" being sold is due wholly to reality not matching feminist ideology, and almost all of these stories about how men have a biological clock are hyped to get men to play the game again.

      You aren't wrong. Younger men are indeed checking out. While women's interest in marriage and children have increased, the number of young men who are interested in marriage is something like 29 percent. And many of the older men have already been through the divorce mill, and can't afford a new romance.

      So think about that for a minute. most young men are not interested in marriage and children, and the selection process for the women tends to exclude deadbeats and psychos, so we are looking at a pretty dire situation for young women. that 29 percent is much smaller yet. Society and the legal system is not the friend of the male of the species. And many women just view men as a utility that they've been trained since birth to dislike. The results are that many males just retreat into less dangerous environs. Xboxes and motorcycles are fun, and people shaming them for "not manning up" is much less expensive than handing over half of their paycheck and the house to children they may see for a few hours every week.

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    7. Re:Quality by goose-incarnated · · Score: 1

      Rates of genetic disease are also much higher with older dads, and the father being 40 or older is the main known risk factor for autism.

      It's a narrative being sold because men are checking out. The odds are so slightly higher than they are almost insignificant.

      The "story" being sold is due wholly to reality not matching feminist ideology, and almost all of these stories about how men have a biological clock are hyped to get men to play the game again.

      You aren't wrong. Younger men are indeed checking out. While women's interest in marriage and children have increased, the number of young men who are interested in marriage is something like 29 percent. And many of the older men have already been through the divorce mill, and can't afford a new romance.

      So think about that for a minute. most young men are not interested in marriage and children, and the selection process for the women tends to exclude deadbeats and psychos, so we are looking at a pretty dire situation for young women. that 29 percent is much smaller yet. Society and the legal system is not the friend of the male of the species. And many women just view men as a utility that they've been trained since birth to dislike. The results are that many males just retreat into less dangerous environs. Xboxes and motorcycles are fun, and people shaming them for "not manning up" is much less expensive than handing over half of their paycheck and the house to children they may see for a few hours every week.

      Not just shaming them for refusing to play the game, but shaming anyone who doesn't join the mob who is shaming the men - see this for an example: this poster leads with insults (a compelling argument indeed) purely because I refuse to join in the shaming of men.

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    8. Re:Quality by kelanos · · Score: 1

      well-sighted, friend

    9. Re:Quality by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I'm probably one but ... MGTOW ?

    10. Re:Quality by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Victim much?

    11. Re:Quality by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      They sound like whiny little children. So to be honest, we don't need them. There are plenty of immigrants happy to take their place.

    12. Re:Quality by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      You think women need a husband to have children and raise them? That's so cute.

    13. Re:Quality by Ol+Olsoc · · Score: 1

      Whiny MGTOW's are checking out for sure, but honestly, everyone else is glad about that.

      Then be glad. This isn't about whining, and if you and whoever everyone else is is happy, then life is good.

      I also like how you invent bits of feminist ideology to be angry at.

      The courts, the laws, and society are not feminist ideology. They might have been shaped a bit by feminists, but society as a whole has merely made the rational decision for men to avoid relationships with women. The numbers aren't lies. But the ladies and their supporters should be happy about that.

      That there are men who are butthurt by their experiences, and them choosing to complain is merely warning for men who have not ben caught in the utility web. Yeah. We hear about sitting with your legs too far apart on public transit is a male enabling rape culture, so if a guy is upset that his wife left him with the children and ende up with the house, the car, and he pays a thou or more a month until the kids are in their early 20's, and he gets to see them once a week and every other holiday - well I'm going to allow him to complain. That's a tangible complaint, not some weird complaint about how men sit that has now been made a crime.

      And it's all a product of the "thou doth protest too much" effect. Males have been whined at about how awful they are since birth, and women taught how awful all men are. So at this point, the endless male shaming has little effect. It's just one more thing young males are bitched at about, so another data point supporting the rational decision to seek their enjoyment of life elsewhere than in the company of those who don't like them. And given that "A woman needs a man like a fish needs a bicycle http://www.phrases.org.uk/mean... a phrase adopted by Gloria Steinham but coined by Irina Dunn, it is pretty much a victory, because women simply do not need men at all.

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      The shepherds did so well protecting the flock that the sheep no longer believed that wolves existed.
    14. Re:Quality by Ol+Olsoc · · Score: 2

      Not just shaming them for refusing to play the game, but shaming anyone who doesn't join the mob who is shaming the men.

      The problem is, once the rational decision to check out of the game is made, any shaming is just a fine example of the continuous bitching than men endure. So it is counterproductive, reinforcing the very reasons why young men are avoiding relationships with women.

      But the part that I do not understand is why is this not celebrated as a huge victory for women? The incessant complaints and the treatment of all men as rapists and pedophiles, now coming to fruition by men dropping out is a big plus, is it not?

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      The shepherds did so well protecting the flock that the sheep no longer believed that wolves existed.
    15. Re:Quality by Ol+Olsoc · · Score: 1

      Victim much?

      No, those are the guys who play the game.

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      The shepherds did so well protecting the flock that the sheep no longer believed that wolves existed.
    16. Re:Quality by Ol+Olsoc · · Score: 1

      You throw histrionics while they are ignoring you and playing video games. Continue clutching pearls, they'll continue playing MMOs.

      That's the problem. The histrionics don't stop. And it turns out that everything is an excuse for the bitching.

      The only odd thing is that we would think this would make the ladies very happy. If a man is ignoring you, he isn't bothering you. He isn't harassing you by talking to you, or touching you, or interacting with you in a way you do not like. If he walks by averting his gaze, and trying his best not to be a problem for you, you've not only won the battle, you have achieved dominance. So why complain?

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      The shepherds did so well protecting the flock that the sheep no longer believed that wolves existed.
    17. Re:Quality by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Yes, then and now. They're just married to Uncle Sam now. If not for alimony, child support, and welfare, all of which are government interventions, single mothers would be rarer than hen's teeth.

      You can argue whether that's a good thing, a bad thing, or a necessary thing, but it is nonetheless the truth: Single motherhood is only possible due to the state.

    18. Re:Quality by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Men going their own way.

      Sure it's full of assholes, not unlike the feminist revolution in the '70's it's modeled around. Difficult to get accurate information on as there appears to be a full-on propaganda campaign larger than the movement itself by people like servicescope_mirror up there.

      The main points are:

      Men are treated as disposable when they are valuable human beings.
      Men are at a disadvantage in relationships with women, particularly marriage, so it would be wise to avoid that.
      Men are at a disadvantage in all aspects of the law, but particularly family court, so avoid that.
      Typically, men spend most of their time chasing money and status instead of their own happiness so they can attract and keep women.

      Their solution is to "go your own way" by making rational decisions and looking out for yourself instead of sacrificing yourself for others.

      Avoid marrying. You don't need to be contractually bound to give 50% of your stuff to have a relationship.
      Avoid having children unless you really want them and are independently wealthy enough to fight for and retain custody.
      It's okay to treat yourself as well as women treat themselves. It's okay to chase your happiness instead of sacrifice for a society that will throw you away.

    19. Re:Quality by serviscope_minor · · Score: 1

      Claiming that Disagreement = histrionics really means that you = exceptionally butthurt.

      while they are ignoring you and playing video games.

      Some of my friends are avid gamers, and if they were ignoring me then they wouldn't be my friends. I like how you try to equate gamers with "checked out".

      Out of interest, have you checked out?

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      SJW n. One who posts facts.
    20. Re:Quality by serviscope_minor · · Score: 1

      Then be glad.

      Already said I was.

      This isn't about whining,

      Clearly you've never spoken to the GP then.

      The courts, the laws, and society are not feminist ideology.

      Then why are you bringing them up?

      but society as a whole has merely made the rational decision for men to avoid relationships with women.

      You keep telling yourself that. People happily in relationships might look at you kinda funny if you keep insisting on the point.

      Males have been whined at about how awful they are since birth

      Sounds like your life sucked then.

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      SJW n. One who posts facts.
    21. Re:Quality by goose-incarnated · · Score: 1

      Claiming that Disagreement = histrionics really means that you = exceptionally butthurt.

      You didn't merely disagree, you lead with insults on every line. That's fairly melodramatic by any measure. Histrionics, indeed.

      while they are ignoring you and playing video games.

      Some of my friends are avid gamers, and if they were ignoring me then they wouldn't be my friends. I like how you try to equate gamers with "checked out".

      I didn't. Your poor comprehension skills lead you to believe that "checking out by playing video games" means the same thing as "playing video games is checking out."

      You should seek a refund from your educational providers.

      Out of interest, have you checked out?

      Ah - more histrionics. Tip: wait for your arguments to fail before turning to insults. If you have to resort to insults it displays that even you have very little faith in whatever argument you think you are making.

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      I'm a minority race. Save your vitriol for white people.
    22. Re:Quality by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Whiny MGTOW's are checking out for sure, but honestly, everyone else is glad about that.

      Don't kid yourself, you wouldn't have a chance with women even if you were the last man on the planet.

    23. Re:Quality by Ol+Olsoc · · Score: 1

      Then be glad.

      Already said I was.

      Well congratulations! How often do I have to congratulate ya? You need a cake?

      This isn't about whining,

      Clearly you've never spoken to the GP then.

      Did you think I was? I was talking about the situation.

      The courts, the laws, and society are not feminist ideology.

      Then why are you bringing them up?

      It isn't like I gave the reasons in the next sentence. was it? But if you are having troubl following, the situation is such that if there were no feminists, however they might define themselves, men would still be getting longer prison sentences, are still sent to the modern day version of debto's prison, and still tend to get the short end of the stick in matters of divorce.

      but society as a whole has merely made the rational decision for men to avoid relationships with women.

      You keep telling yourself that. People happily in relationships might look at you kinda funny if you keep insisting on the point.

      Males have been whined at about how awful they are since birth

      Sounds like your life sucked then.

      I've been married to the same woman for 40 years now, I'm pretty wealthy. Life's been pretty decent. We're both retired early, and on permanent vacation and travel to interesting places a lot. Just because I have an opinion on something doesn't mean it is my personal life. But as they say, jus' sayin'. Live long and prosper.

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      The shepherds did so well protecting the flock that the sheep no longer believed that wolves existed.
    24. Re:Quality by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      ... is a big plus, is it not?

      Alas, the combined feminist ideals of "it's all men's fault" and "women don't need men" is marred by reality: Someone has to pay for the baby and house, which for centuries has been men. With young men actually living upto the ideals feminists preach, women can no longer find that happy ending: A man to supply a house and childcare. Thus, feminists have a new reason for proclaiming it's all men's fault: But ignore that feminist hypocrisy.

    25. Re:Quality by serviscope_minor · · Score: 1

      Ah - more histrionics.

      I think Inigo Montoya would like a word with you.

      I like how on the one hand you claim it's reasonable to have checked out, but on the other hand when I ask you if you have you consider it an insult. So which is it? Who cares, either way blame it on feminists!

      So have you or have you checked out. And if not, why not?

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      SJW n. One who posts facts.
    26. Re:Quality by serviscope_minor · · Score: 1

      It isn't like I gave the reasons in the next sentence

      You sure did, but those reasons were utterly irrelevant to the point I was making, so why did you bring it up?

      Just because I have an opinion on something doesn't mean it is my personal life.

      Oh I see, you have opinions on what other people should do, but just not you. Got it. It's funny with all your claims about how not having relationships is rational, you're in one.

      Well, I guess that makes you the irrational one, either for being in a relationship or for having such peculiar opinions about it.

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      SJW n. One who posts facts.
    27. Re:Quality by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Well, they won but realized it wasn't what they wanted. Women always want something else.
      My wife asks me which restaurant we should go to just so she can say no.

    28. Re: Quality by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Simple answer, they don't know they won. Next time you're in a sexual harassment meeting at work, look how many women are paying attention. They think that since we all want to rape them, we all would welcome their attention, hence sexual harassment policies do not apply to them. They have no idea what draconian rules have been enacted.

    29. Re:Quality by BarbaraHudson · · Score: 1

      The "men" checking out are too busy playing with their xbox. No woman want's a 40-year-old never-employed bro.

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      "Transparent" is a shit show that trades on every stereotype going. A man in drag is NOT a transsexual.
    30. Re:Quality by BarbaraHudson · · Score: 1

      Men are treated as disposable when they are valuable human beings.

      Value is relative. Ultimately we are all disposable - it's called death.

      Men are at a disadvantage in relationships with women, particularly marriage, so it would be wise to avoid that.

      Given that more women are graduating uni than men, and that men's traditional jobs are being automated like crazy. women are the ones who don't want marriage, since they are more likely to end up having to pay alimony. So, since you don't like marriage, be happy that women increasingly don't either.

      Men are at a disadvantage in all aspects of the law, but particularly family court, so avoid that.

      There's this thing called a vasectomy ... if it won't damage your fragile male ego too much ...

      Typically, men spend most of their time chasing money and status instead of their own happiness so they can attract and keep women.

      And who's fault is that? It seems that men also compete amongst themselves through money and status. Also, you're living way in the past. Marriage has nothing to do with the awarding of child support.

      Women don't like whiny men. And men nag just as much.

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      "Transparent" is a shit show that trades on every stereotype going. A man in drag is NOT a transsexual.
    31. Re:Quality by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      If you want the men to be interested in having sex, try telling the women to lose some weight...

    32. Re:Quality by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      If you want the men to be able to have sex, try telling them to lose some weight. You can't use it if you can't see it. And who would want a whale laying on them anyway.

    33. Re:Quality by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      You throw histrionics while they are ignoring you and playing video games. Continue clutching pearls, they'll continue playing MMOs.

      That's the problem. The histrionics don't stop. And it turns out that everything is an excuse for the bitching.

      >

      If a feminist shrieks and no one is around to hear her, does she make a sound? MGTOWs will never know...
      Oh, incidentally, my raid party is ready to start.

    34. Re:Quality by wildsurf · · Score: 1

      "In the case of autism, the risk associated with parental age is DWARFED by the impact of inheritance."

      What about the risk of Dwarfism?

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    35. Re: Quality by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      A lot of young men are "checking out", enough that it worries economists. The average man has a few hobbies. Many of these hobbies are cheap. Therein the "checked out" male doesn't have to work as much, tossing a monkey wrench into societal economic pressures.

      I didn't "check out" years ago because I love flying planes. My hobby is expensive, but I didn't have a wife/kids so I could easily afford to learn and buy my own plane with my salary. I also could take time off work (guilt/debt free) to travel in my plane and around the world.

      However it is a personal choice. I hold no judgment of men who choose to play games and ignore societal pressure about getting married (or even dating) and having kids. They aren't doing anything wrong with that choice.

    36. Re:Quality by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      You sure did, but those reasons were utterly irrelevant to the point I was making, so why did you bring it up?

      So you had a point that is utterly irrelevant to what he was saying. Why do you think your utterly irrelevant point matters?

      Oh I see, you have opinions on what other people should do, but just not you

      No, you don't see anything. He's not talking about what people "should" or should not do. You fail at reading comprehension. Not surprising since you somehow thought it was a good idea to respond to him with an utterly irrelevant point of yours, whatever it was.

      Well, I guess that makes you the irrational one

      You guess wrong, as you failed at comprehending what was said.

  6. Need more data by GeekWithAKnife · · Score: 3, Insightful


    Have we factored in lifestyle into this as well?

    Something tells me that men that do not smoke, don't indulge in alcohol often or at all and keep fit will have better results...(seems obvious right?)

    The men I know at those later ages seem to have given up on a healthy lifestyle at least in terms of fitness. Also family stress factors in.

    More data needed. Time to crowdfund a study on the subject?

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    1. Re: Need more data by funky_vibes · · Score: 1

      And still, those are the men who tend to end up with lots of unwanted pregnancies...

    2. Re:Need more data by Gravis+Zero · · Score: 1

      More data needed. Time to crowdfund a study on the subject?

      You speak as if we actually need more humans on this rock.

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      Anons need not reply. Questions end with a question mark.
    3. Re:Need more data by GeekWithAKnife · · Score: 2

      More data needed. Time to crowdfund a study on the subject?

      You speak as if we actually need more humans on this rock.

      We don't need, in an existential sense, most of them but then we have an issue of never ending reducibility.

      You see, we can easily say that one in a billion humans is a waste of space. We can say that with ease about a single human in a million. Perhaps even one out of a thousand. We can carry along this line until we have to wonder who's left? -who the fuck cares about all the stuff that some scientists or "useful" people care about.

      We might end up with one very efficient autistic human that is entirely self-sufficient and he won;t reproduce because the human condition is deterimental to the planet -by his or her own observation. More humans might be exactly what we need just as long as they do not infringe on the lives of others.

      Sure you may think we need some humans just to reproduce but we might soon be able to clone ourselves en mass.

      But back to what I meant...we do not necessarily need people to reproduce more but it would be benficial if they do a better job at it. Ergo be more responsbile, provide a better framework for their child and not fuck off when raising a family gets hard. There is a tendency for older people to be more reliable in this manner. Sure they might be as bad as any teen parents and any given teen couple might be great parents...but on average older parents are better at providing the necessaries for the basis of a family.

      If men and women take better care of themselves at least in the first 30-40 years of their lives then they might have all that time for study and work to create that stable financial base without having to factor in serious fertility issues later.

      Also, as an aside, we need to have loads more young people so they can work and pay off the wasteful ways of the previous few generations. Just a thought.

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      A 'singular oddity' is an event that cannot be explained and only happens when you are alone.
    4. Re:Need more data by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      There isn't a point here. Either you're 16 and wanting 500 kids or you're 21 and jaded enough to realize the world doesn't need more kids.

      Most kids are going to be born to 16 year old parents. The negatives of being 40 and a first time dad aren't relevant to the discussion since these are the minority midlife-crisis kinds that think "omg I need to procreate, yesterday". The large part of these midlifers are too busy trying to find a job that pays enough that they can:

      a) Find a woman even remotely interested in their RV lifestyle.
      b) Find a woman of childbearing age that isn't a sass or skank-ass coke-whore.
      c) Find somewhere to park their RV near a good school district.

      No woman is interested unless the guy owns 3 small islands and an airport for each. Also, each airport better trade $100bil of diamonds daily and have an attached exclusive Starbucks and day spa. There are 2 billion moms and 3-8 dads in the world.

      "research has focused so much on women" - remember this.

    5. Re:Need more data by geekmux · · Score: 3

      If men and women take better care of themselves at least in the first 30-40 years of their lives then they might have all that time for study and work to create that stable financial base without having to factor in serious fertility issues later.

      We can't even create a world that offers financial stability to the younger generation, and you want to demand personal responsibility for maintaining a good diet, an active lifestyle, and practicing safe sex 100% of the time? Understanding human behavior, I'd say there's exactly a fat fucking chance of that happening.

      Also, as an aside, we need to have loads more young people so they can work and pay off the wasteful ways of the previous few generations. Just a thought.

      Automation is going to destroy many of those jobs that young people rely on for employment, and remove their ability to climb the proverbial ladder and seek out educated positions. Imperfect AI that's merely good enough will destroy the concept of human employment altogether. Welfare 2.0 will encompass the globe in ways we cannot even fathom yet. In short, future generations won't be paying off jack shit. They will be consumers, just like the other 99.9% of the human race. Earth doesn't want or need more added to make the parasitic infection worse.

    6. Re:Need more data by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

      But we do need more births, in the first world, where birth rates have fallen below replacement level, leading to people bringing in uncultured and often violent "refugees", sometimes even the worst people from the places that they come from. It's in Africa, India, and China where most of the births are happening. Our birth rates in the first world are falling specifically because we've reached a point in social evolution where children become more of a liability than a benefit to our lifestyle, and the third world hasn't reached that point yet.

    7. Re: Need more data by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Indeed we do, even if misanthropic pricks like you want to reduce the human population back to hunter gatherer levels.

    8. Re:Need more data by GeekWithAKnife · · Score: 1

      We can't even create a world that offers financial stability to the younger generation, and you want to demand personal responsibility for maintaining a good diet, an active lifestyle, and practicing safe sex 100% of the time?

      I'm not demanding nor am I suggestion everyone lives and dies by my beliefs. I am suggesting it would be beneficial to the people partaking in said activities.

      Automation is going to destroy many of those jobs that young people rely on for employment, and remove their ability to climb the proverbial ladder and seek out educated positions.

      Automation has been destroying jobs since the industrial revolution its just that the machines have become better. Very much like how some jobs become obsolete there will be need for other things. Something tells me that robotics engineers will become the new "mechanic" and so on.

      Just become some things are changing does not mean everything else is static. If you look at data from decades ago we are supposed to be suffering a worldwide food shortage. You see the factored rate of human growth did not match the current agricultural production so you pick a point in time, assume all things remain static and draw lines on a graph -disaster! in 40 years no one will have anything to eat!

      Future generations always pay, one way or another. Earth has no thoughts/emotions/reaspon to exist...and what if people will be consumers? maybe they'll play my favourite multiplayer game and we can all join in VR gaming together. :-)

      I do apologise this is far more optimistic than your doom and glood thoughts on the matter of having more humans around.

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    9. Re:Need more data by McGruber · · Score: 1

      Have we factored in lifestyle into this as well? Something tells me that men that do not smoke, don't indulge in alcohol often or at all and keep fit will have better results...(seems obvious right?)

      That's an interesting thought. The only example I can think of is Donald Trump, who never smoked, never drank alcohol, and doesn't appear to exercise, yet managed to father a child at age 59.

    10. Re:Need more data by jezwel · · Score: 1

      What about Mick Jagger? Still having kids into his 70s.

    11. Re:Need more data by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      omg I need to procreate, yesterday

      What guy would think that? Mostly men have children to please their wives or girlfriends. Especially if they are the ones who have to pay for the expensive little pests.

    12. Re:Need more data by strikethree · · Score: 1

      More data needed. Time to crowdfund a study on the subject?

      Why do a study on it? Are we lacking in population?

      This study is to sell a story. Nobody cares if older men can produce healthy children. Responding to this "study" is a waste of any man's time as all responding will do is reinforce the narrative being sold.

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      "Someone needs to talk to the tree of liberty about its ghoulish drinking problem." by ohnocitizen
    13. Re:Need more data by geekmux · · Score: 1

      We can't even create a world that offers financial stability to the younger generation, and you want to demand personal responsibility for maintaining a good diet, an active lifestyle, and practicing safe sex 100% of the time?

      I'm not demanding nor am I suggestion everyone lives and dies by my beliefs. I am suggesting it would be beneficial to the people partaking in said activities.

      People have known that for decades now, just like they've known that smoking cigarettes is deadly. As a result over 400,000 Americans die every year from tobacco use (our #1 preventable killer), and heart disease holds the #2 position. Needless to say, the vast majority doesn't give a shit.

      Automation is going to destroy many of those jobs that young people rely on for employment, and remove their ability to climb the proverbial ladder and seek out educated positions.

      Automation has been destroying jobs since the industrial revolution its just that the machines have become better. Very much like how some jobs become obsolete there will be need for other things. Something tells me that robotics engineers will become the new "mechanic" and so on.

      Previously, when automation destroyed jobs, the answer was to go get an education. When good-enough AI is coupled with automation that is ever-advancing, the end result is a destruction of more human jobs than are created, along with removing the jobs that comprise the bottom rungs on the proverbial ladder of success. The first few jobs I had growing up that enabled me to fund my education and ultimately create success are being decimated by automation now. When the 18-year old has no job opportunities, is the answer simply perpetual education? Paid for by whom exactly? When AI starts destroying educated jobs, will there even be a point in educating a human?

      This version of automation will not be like the past, because the impact is far greater. When they automated a car assembly line years ago, it impacted a finite amount of jobs, and in the big picture is created a very small impact on employment opportunities. Replacing every human cashier in every store with a smartphone app has an exponentially larger impact. And that assumes that brick and mortar stores will even survive as online marketplaces take over every product we consume, with drones delivering it right to our doorstep. Automation won't target some cab drivers. It will target every cab driver in every city. And so on, and so on.

      Just become some things are changing does not mean everything else is static. If you look at data from decades ago we are supposed to be suffering a worldwide food shortage.

      Oh, we "solved" for that problem alright; by creating an abundance of what we like to call "food" that ultimately generates hundreds of billions in additional revenue by creating an infectious disease we call obesity.

      You see the factored rate of human growth did not match the current agricultural production...

      Oh, humans are growing alright, in all the wrong ways. Obesity rates continue to climb, as does every type of related disease and illness that feeds the Greed that created the Medical Industrial Complex. We don't cure a damn thing anymore; we design and create perpetual treatments that create perpetual revenue streams. This, along with keeping the most deadly of our products legal helps maintain population growth by guaranteeing death, often prematurely.

      Future generations always pay, one way or another.

      Nothing will stop automation and AI from destroying the concept of human employment and education. Greed will guarantee this. The future will be comprised of the 0.001% that hold the worlds wealth and power, and the rest of the unemployable masses will be enslaved under the Welfare 2.0 plan. The future will pay alright. It just may not be an improvement as previous generations have enjoyed.

  7. Sample size? by Jamlad · · Score: 1
    There seems to be a relative good correlation but I have to wonder how many women under 30 go seeking IVF. And how many of those women have husbands >10 years old than them?

    Furthermore, given the assumption that most people have in that male age plays little role in fertility, why would their doctor then recommend IVF unless they already had some pre-existing fertility-related medical condition?

    1. Re:Sample size? by TooManyNames · · Score: 1

      I wondered this too. Moreover, I would suspect pretty strong selection bias, given that this considers men, over 40, seeking procreation -- with much younger women -- via IVF. There's probably only a fairly specific subset of men that those conditions apply to, and I wouldn't be shocked to learn that that subset has depressed reproductive capabilities to begin with.

      This article suggests a correlation, as you said, but hasn't shown that those men, for whom a biological clock is assumed to be ticking, ever even had a good clock.

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  8. Not Soon Enough by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    since vasectomy is banned around here I'd be happy, but I'm way too young to be happy about this

    if only I was infertile

    1. Re:Not Soon Enough by amalcolm · · Score: 3

      Be careful what you wish for. I can tell you, infertility is no joke when the time comes when you do want to have children. It's a cause of a lot of pain and grief

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    2. Re:Not Soon Enough by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

      Freeze some sperm and/or eggs and then get a vasectomy.. No need to worry about unplanned pregnancies, and when the time is right you can have your own biological children...

      Or the better thing would be to adopt some young orphan. There are even babies you can adopt.. This way you prevent someone from having a crap-life at the same time as you get a child without having to worry about all the things that can go wrong during a pregnancy / birth. Sure it may not be your biological child, but does it really matter that you don't have the same DNA?..

    3. Re: Not Soon Enough by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Agree completely. Adoption is a net win for the world. You take an unhappy child and improve their lot in life. Birthing your own spawn just introduces one more unhappy idiot with your DNA into the mix. Shameful.

    4. Re: Not Soon Enough by 0111+1110 · · Score: 1

      Only for dumb people. If you are intelligent and you breed with another intelligent person they probably won't be an idiot. So it depends. If you have an IQ of at least 140 then you should probably be breeding for the good of humanity. If you are smart your genetic code includes instructions for building a proper brain and that is what makes us human.

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  9. Old news by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    https://www.theguardian.com/society/2008/jul/07/health.children

    Same article author in 2008

    Also, surely this is common sense?

  10. Unimpressive by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    It has been known for a while , and is well studied , that fertility in men drop sharply at some point between 40 and 50. Abnormal spermatozoide, slow one, etc.... All known phenomenon - in fact also correlated to trisomie 21 incidence too. I fail to see what's so different with this result to the precedent ones.

  11. Need more meat bags by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    We do. Too many of the ones we currently have aren't really worth anything.

    1. Re:Need more meat bags by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      We do. Too many of the ones we currently have aren't really worth anything.

      If at first you don't succeed, try a few more billion times? Oh yeah, great fucking advice, especially considering there are a finite amount of resources left on this rock.

      And if you really want to know what happens when your goal is to breed enough smart humans, then look at China or India. They have more gifted children than America has children in total. The "reward" for that activity is poison for air, and shitting in the streets.

  12. How to stop slashdot from spamming my inbox? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Slashdot has been spamming my inbox with their headlines

    Can someone tell me how to stop it?

    Thanks !

    1. Re:How to stop slashdot from spamming my inbox? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      https://slashdot.org/prefs then click on Messages, then hope you aren't having the same kind of problem as me where my thresholds are fucked up and they won't save when I try to change them.

  13. Re:IVF?!?! by amalcolm · · Score: 1

    Do you really think the imperative to procreate goes away if you or your partner are infertile through illness etc. at any age?

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  14. much of science is bunk by weedjams · · Score: 0

    History has sterilized what would otherwise be natural human life. Throughout history, men who wear un-bifurcated garments have proven to be more virile and STAY fertile, no matter their age. Modern, tight-fitting underwear and pants, jeans, trousers etc impair male fertility by increasing the temperature inside the testicles by as much as 3.5 degrees Celsius. This not only slows sperm production, but it causes the testicles to produce substandard sperm which can not swim to fertilize an egg and produce normal embryos. Add in the thoroughly documented dramatic increase in testicular and prostate cancers men who wear pants have suffered since their invention and its a wonder anyone would do a scientific study and not mention this.

    1. Re:much of science is bunk by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I wish the kilt would be considered formal dress code in more than just scotland.

      You have it for all kinds of situations:
      https://kiltsandmore.com/uploa...
      http://www.kilts-4-u.com/media...

  15. Age ~ Quality by DrYak · · Score: 2

    Rates of genetic disease are also much higher with older dads,

    [Citation needed] - it does interest me : I've never seen such information before.

    Also, unlike ovocytes which are stored longterm from birth onward (and thus can over time accumulate damage - even if they have mecanism to try to avoid it. That's also why women experience menopause once they run out of ovocytes), spermatozoon are constantly produced over the lifetime, they are all relatively fresh cells and are thus a little bit less likely to suffer from environmental damage (environmental toxic substance could still cause damage to the gonia cell producing them, but at least they are not siting cold, exposed to risks).
    Thus I would expect that, for physic-chemical reasons, dad's age is a tiny bit less impacting than mom.

    and the father being 40 or older is the main known risk factor for autism.

    In addition to criticism behind the "main" part of this sentence as mentioned by other in this thread,
    I would add criticism to the "risk factor".

    The same mantra as usual goes : " correlation doesn't necessarily means causation ".
    There might be a mechanism (like the defect accumulated over time in dad's cell - albeit at a lower rate than mom's - could by random chance be a mutation that influence autism).
    But there might also be a confounding factor (an independent factor that cause both of the observed manifestation)
    And here there's clearly a well known one : high intellect.
    - high intellect sometime borders on autistic spectrum, the same kind of gene that can influence a high IQ (attention to detail) might also push over to the pathology. (See studies about higher rate of autism in some regions like silicon valley).
    - also these parents tend to do long academic studies and/or carrier, and thus tend to reproduce later in their life.

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  16. Am I missing something? by gravewax · · Score: 1

    have we stepped into a time machine or something? I thought it was common scientific knowledge that men also had biological clocks in that with age sperm numbers diminish and they slow down which directly affects the chances of a successful fertilization. this has been known for decades

    1. Re:Am I missing something? by misexistentialist · · Score: 2

      women need constant reassurance that their poor decisions are men's fault, of course the more they nag the more men will get sterilized

    2. Re:Am I missing something? by goose-incarnated · · Score: 1

      have we stepped into a time machine or something? I thought it was common scientific knowledge that men also had biological clocks in that with age sperm numbers diminish and they slow down which directly affects the chances of a successful fertilization. this has been known for decades

      It isn't common scientific knowledge because it isn't true. The fertility rate for men does flatten as they age, but at ages 40-50 it's only slightly lower than at ages 20-30. Successful fertilisation is actually common with 50+ year old males, while next to impossible with 50+ year old females.

      With few exceptions (outliers) females have a sell-by date that starts at 30 and completes roughly ten years later when they are completely infertile. Men have a sell-by date that starts when they're 50 and frequently doesn't complete until death ends it.

      In no way is the biological clock for women relatable to the one for men. With very few exceptions, men would be fertile their entire life.

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    3. Re:Am I missing something? by anegg · · Score: 2

      My impression from my (brief) read through was that the two variables "Female fertility as a factor of age" and "Male fertility as a factor of age" are confounding variables with respect to each other. In other words, you can't just measure the female fertility by age without considering the male fertility by age, and vice versa. The male fertility is less sensitive to age than female fertility, but the effect is still present (no necessary similarity as to cause, just effect), and they interact in a not unexpected way. Whether the observed behavior of older males pairing with younger females is an innate expression of the biology is an interesting question; it can certainly be explained by other factors such as wealth/security paired with vitality and youthful good looks.

    4. Re:Am I missing something? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      It is.

      This is still more agenda driven research - which is then trumpeted by a press that's increasingly aimed entirely at women and is full of feminists... that has completely lost the plot.

      Big news:
      Older man have less 'effective' sperm, but it doesn't happen at nearly the rate it does with women and it never reaches zero (until he dies). A can man impregnate a woman well into his dotage. Whether he should is another matter.

    5. Re:Am I missing something? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      you are playing word games. It is fucking true. while men don't have the sharp fall that women do, men after the age of 35 are on a steady downhill run with fertility rates which can definitely be called a biological clock.

    6. Re:Am I missing something? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      "an innate mechanism that controls the physiological activities of an organism which change on a daily, seasonal, yearly, or other regular cycle." men have a biological clock, no it isn't directly relatable to women but we aren't comparing it to woman. Men have a definite clock where fertility decreases with age, being able to be fertile their entire life doesn't make it any less a biological clock.

    7. Re: Am I missing something? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Laughable. On January 1st, 2018 take 100,000 60 year old men and 100,000 55 year old women. Give the men a 25yo female partner, and give the women a 20yo male partner. Now, without scientific/medical intervention, which group will have more children in two years time?

    8. Re:Am I missing something? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      How often do older men marry younger women because they want children, and accept that the biological father may be someone else?

  17. Some men defiy logic by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    My grandfather was capable of giving children even in his 70s.

    1. Re: Some men defiy logic by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Gross.

    2. Re:Some men defiy logic by Oswald+McWeany · · Score: 1

      My grandfather was capable of giving children even in his 70s.

      My Dad gives children in his 70s too. He gives children candy, toys. Sometimes even books.

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    3. Re:Some men defiy logic by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Even more amazing is how they looked like the gardener, the plumber, the mailman...

    4. Re:Some men defiy logic by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Is one of the toys cylindrical in shape?

  18. Bloody obvous and known for decades. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Sperm are created continuously and that means lots of copying and therefore lots of chance to mutate into something not as effective or with a genetic defect to carry on in a viable organism.

    Been known for decades.

    And that's not a biological clock like a woman, who has one set of eggs and that's it, so the reproduction just stops because there's no more eggs (a simplification, but a broad gist of the reality). With a man, that degredation starts from day zero and continues until death, cos the boys keep coming.

  19. Case in point by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Jimmy Saville.

  20. Old fsckers Grover Cleveland / Pierre Trudeau by haruchai · · Score: 1

    Grover Cleveland, the only POTUS to serve 2 non-consecutive terms, was 49, and already President, when he married 21 year old Frances Folsom and was 54 when their 1st child was born and 66 for their fifth.
    Canadian Prime Minister Pierre Trudeau was also already in office and 51 when he married 22 year old Margaret Sinclair and 52 when their 1st son, current prime minister Justin Trudeau was born on Xmas Day of the same year, was 56 for the birth of their 3rd and 72 years old when he fathered his only daughter with Deborah Coyne, then aged 36

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  21. It is true. by Charcharodon · · Score: 3, Funny
    Yes I agree men are most certainly affected by biological clocks. There is the constant nagging, the weight gain, demands for a baby, the impending crash into "the wall" in terms of her looks, and god help them the hair style that she just "loves" that makes her look just like her mom. Not to mention the hoards of friendly and attractive younger women that seem to come out of the wood work once a guy gets to that point in his life.

    Something must be done.

    1. Re:It is true. by drinkypoo · · Score: 2

      and god help them the hair style that she just "loves" that makes her look just like her mom.

      Or yours. *shudder*

      --
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    2. Re:It is true. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      > There is the constant nagging, the weight gain, demands for a baby, the impending crash into "the wall" in terms of her looks, and god help them the hair style that she just "loves" that makes her look just like her mom.

      Bitter much?

      > Not to mention the hoards of friendly and attractive younger women that seem to come out of the wood work once a guy gets to that point in his life.

      So the person you're with isn't friendly? Sounds like a you problem, in that you didn't decide to be with someone you could find friendly and entertaining over years.

      > Something must be done.

      There is: don't marry someone you dislike. If you can't picture yourself being wrinkly and 85 with this person before you tie the knot, then find someone else.

      Given the rest of your comment, I've adjusted your quote from a different perspective:
      > There is the constant tinkering with never finished projects, the weight gain, demands for a man cave, the impending crash into "the wall" in terms of his physique, and god help them the desire to do anything but help take care of the children.

      20-something male here. You're bitter because you picked the wrong person to be with, not because women are deceitful witches out to ruin your life.

  22. Indeed by nospam007 · · Score: 1

    I didn't want any kids even at 18 years, the biological alarm already had gotten off, so I got myself snipped.

  23. and John Tyler , 10th POTUS by haruchai · · Score: 1

    His 2nd wife Julia Gardiner was 24 & he 54 when they married and he was 55 & 70 respectively for the birth of their 1st and 7th kids.
    Tyler remains the champion stud among presidents as he had previously fathered EIGHT children with Letitia Christian

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  24. Re:Old fsckers Grover Cleveland / Pierre Trudeau by Oswald+McWeany · · Score: 1

    Grover Cleveland, the only POTUS to serve 2 non-consecutive terms, was 49, and already President, when he married 21 year old Frances Folsom and was 54 when their 1st child was born and 66 for their fifth.

    I'm in my late 30s and feel like I'm too old to have any more kids. There's no way I want to be having kids now and not getting them out of the house until I'm probably in my 60's.

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  25. Another case of unintelligent science by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    According to the study, there is no knowledge of the reasons for IVF.

    This literally proves the opposite of what they are saying.

    You need to ask what is the rate of males over 40 that had fertility issues vs under 30?

    I'd propose that it's likely males at late age looking for a family with a sub 30yo female are probably very likely (in comparison) the reason why the IVF program had been taken up, and therefore the lower rate of fertility for this cohort is not indicative of such a large difference towards male age related causes.

    It would be a much more normal spread in the younger brackets (for the reason for the IVF treatment), because sub 30 yo rates of success without treatment in women are fairly good. Again, the number show this out with a massive reduction in the number of cases of sub 30yo women and over 40 men that exceeds the standard deviation of that groups relationship numbers.

    So meaning if in the world there are 100 couple in that (40 male) bracket, with normally 8 women needing IVF and 4 of men over 40 needing IVF.

    Compare that to say where 100 couple in the 40/40 bracket, with 60 women needing IVF and 4 men. here you can see that male rates have not changed with age, and as per the data, there is very little impact from an older male.

  26. Our anectdote by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    My girlfriend performed oral sex on my on my 42nd birthday. She commented that my semenal fluid didn't taste as "tingly" as every other time over the previous 12 years. An examination of her tongue with a microscope showed a lifeless wasteland covered with dead, old man sperm.
     
      Thankfully we already had a family started before that fateful birthday.

    1. Re:Our anectdote by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      "An examination of her tongue with a microscope showed a lifeless wasteland covered with dead, old man sperm"

      Are you sure all of it was yours? Can your father, uncle & brother account for their whereabouts around that time?

  27. Men don't care by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    We're there for the fun, not the Diaper changing and 18+ years of bs...

  28. Femsplaining by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Like someone noted, this is another attempt at the 5th wave feminplainers to spout negative research in the interest of their cause. Like many have stated, we need less people in the world and everything goes against procreation since the law is stacked against fathers.

    MGTOW is the only way.

  29. So stupid by holophrastic · · Score: 1

    ...among IVF patients. Great. So we're talking about men who likely already have some kind of problem.

    Rewrite: for men-with-problems, those problems are more significant with age. Again, big surprise.

    I'd bet that older men, who want children, and can't seem to have children, experience more stress than younger men. Possibly due to the very simple fact that they've spent more time trying and more time failing.

  30. Bad Science by LeftCoastThinker · · Score: 1

    The problem with this study is it was biased from the start. By starting with couples seeking IVF to begin with, your sample is people having difficulty conceiving, rather than a cross section of the general population.

    The conclusion to this study should be: Of people with problems conceiving, IVF is less effective at helping couples where the man is over 40... There are plenty of examples of rich old shriveled bastards getting their 22 year old trophy wives pregnant with normal, healthy babies. And that is the other side to this coin. For women, not only does the pregnancy rate go down, but the risk of fetal genetic defect goes up exponentially after 35.

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  31. If you look around a bit, you'll see by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    The LAST thing mankind needs is help with reproduction. What we need help with is ADOPTION, pity they don't make a pill for that.

  32. Tell it to Mick Jagger by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    I'd like to see a woman get pregnant at 72. Sorry sweetie.

  33. So over 50 is out of the question? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    By my mid-40's I gave up on the idea of becoming a daddy. Even if my swimmers could produce a viable baby, I'd be 70 when that child would be going off to college. It just wouldn't be fair to that child. The error rate on my swimmer's DNA code is likely too high to produce a viable baby let alone producing a viable adult. Unless my brother has more children to supplement his two daughters, my dad's male lineage is at an end. :-(

    1. Re: So over 50 is out of the question? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Personal choice I guess. Although I think you're exaggerating the whole defects in DNA. We'd be awash in defective kids if that were the case, as many women are plenty happy to marry older men.

    2. Re:So over 50 is out of the question? by 0111+1110 · · Score: 1

      By my mid-40's I gave up on the idea of becoming a daddy. Even if my swimmers could produce a viable baby, I'd be 70 when that child would be going off to college. It just wouldn't be fair to that child.

      Are you kidding? It would be better for the child because when you die he gets your stuff. Also you may have more time to spend with him than when you were younger and might not be as bothered by the mind-numbing boredom of interacting with kids.

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  34. Men aren't checking out by rsilvergun · · Score: 1

    we're too broke to date let alone have kids and there's not much religious opposition to birth control left. Most still want to raise a family, but we're reasonable enough to know we can't afford to and even when we're not, well, there's that 'too broke to date' thing rearing it's head again.

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  35. Yeah, that's not what a "biological clock" is, by jpellino · · Score: 2

    but I get what the story means.

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  36. Re:F,ailzo8s by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    I think it's trying to communicate with us.

  37. Princesses and Reality by DarthVain · · Score: 1

    While it is a generalization and doesn't apply to all women, it does apply to many women.

    The inability to distinguish reality from fiction and the preferences of ridiculous romantic comedies (or romantic dramas, or anything "romantic" really) and the likes of Sex in the City etc... is ruining a lot of women. Where basically their expectations are set so high, and so one sided, that eventually even the most patient male is going to get pretty frustrated. It is the time old tale of the "princess" story but retold over and over again. From Cinderella, when they were a kid, from Pretty Woman years ago, to the latest 50 shades of grey etc... Always involve some poor woman getting swept off her feet by some prince or billionaire (millionaire is no good anymore apparently) for some arbitrary reason. Oh and now the billionaire is also somehow in his late twenties or early 30's and apparently also goes to the gym 5 times a week, but yet somehow finds the time (between earning billions, and working out so much) to spend every waking minute with the girl spoiling her with gifts and extravagant lifestyle. Anyway it is all so silly. I guess a normal, healthy relationship that is an equal partnership between two people that respect each other doesn't make for an entertaining story... but it would certainly give women something much more realistic (and better) to aspire to.

    I know I've actually said "You know that is fiction right? That it isn't real?" to which the response is "But so much of it is so true...". Uh huh. And before someone tries to defend Sex in the City (which might be odd for Slashdot) in saying that some of the stories aren't like that, they also feature 4 women that just happen to be millionaires themselves apparently living in NYC, while doing seemingly no work, though one is a writer and another a lawyer... To which I would ask are you also a successful millionaire fashion writer in her 30's living in NYC, because if you're not, it doesn't really apply to you.

    Then there is the whole body image thing, particularly in movies now. Every guy is ripped. "Why can't you look like that"? That is his job. He is getting paid millions of dollars to get a trainer and work out constantly for like a year for that brief 5 second spot on that movie. However if you go to the gym a lot, you're never spending any time with them because "you're always at the gym". Anyway, a general absence of reality in many cases, you literally can't win when a warped reality is against you.

  38. Gotta call BS on this by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Every few years Feminists squawk and this is recirculated... Just plain old fashioned BS as the "older" men in the study all had "older" wives... Men with 20 yo wives have healthy children - but then we can't be saying women have healthy children when they are younger... Can we... Facts are the anathema to liberalism...

  39. Dumb study by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    These women are undergoing ivf so they already have fertility issues and you blame the problem on the man ? Lol. And what kind of study only looks at an age range of 40-42 ? This is a biased study to make feminists feel better about themselves

  40. Is it so hard to get sperm? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Young men don't mind giving it away. I've been to a lot of places where you can scoop it off the walls.