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Sean Parker Unloads on Facebook 'Exploiting' Human Psychology (axios.com)

Sean Parker, the founding president of Facebook, spoke to news outlet Axios about the ways social networks have made hundreds of millions of users addicted to their platforms. He said, from the interview: When Facebook was getting going, I had these people who would come up to me and they would say, 'I'm not on social media.' And I would say, 'OK. You know, you will be.' And then they would say, 'No, no, no. I value my real-life interactions. I value the moment. I value presence. I value intimacy.' And I would say, ... 'We'll get you eventually. I don't know if I really understood the consequences of what I was saying, because [of] the unintended consequences of a network when it grows to a billion or 2 billion people and ... it literally changes your relationship with society, with each other ... It probably interferes with productivity in weird ways. God only knows what it's doing to our children's brains. The thought process that went into building these applications, Facebook being the first of them, ... was all about: 'How do we consume as much of your time and conscious attention as possible?' And that means that we need to sort of give you a little dopamine hit every once in a while, because someone liked or commented on a photo or a post or whatever. And that's going to get you to contribute more content, and that's going to get you ... more likes and comments. It's a social-validation feedback loop. He says people like him, and Mark Zuckerberg knew the potential consequences, but they did what they did anyway.

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  1. Its your fault by DarkRookie · · Score: 2

    Sean Parker, it is your fault for creating the thing.

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    1. Re:Its your fault by cayenne8 · · Score: 3, Interesting
      Hm.....I don't get it.

      I've never felt the need to join FB or other social media to date.

      I have no problem interacting and deal with friends and meeting NEW ones in meatspace.

      I guess I've just never felt compelled to being a voluntary part of their product they sell.

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    2. Re:Its your fault by Cajun+Hell · · Score: 5, Insightful

      No, it's We The People's fault, for being drug addicts. Don't blame the dealer.

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    3. Re:Its your fault by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

      Few people I know use Facebook. A couple do, but I mostly hang with a techhie crowd, who are exactly the people most likely to know better than to use Facebook.

      So all coordination is done over email or voice.

    4. Re:Its your fault by stabiesoft · · Score: 3, Insightful

      Umm telephones and text messages still work last I checked. Nope not on FB.

    5. Re:Its your fault by fahrbot-bot · · Score: 1

      Sean Parker, it is your fault for creating the thing.

      Well... the Winklevoss twins created Facebook and Sean and Mark just stole it. :-)

      I guess "To-may-to, to-mah-to".

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    6. Re:Its your fault by CaptainDork · · Score: 2

      But you're OK with /.

      I'm not being argumentative, just observant.

      This, too, is social media.

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    7. Re:Its your fault by cayenne8 · · Score: 2, Insightful

      You must be old or not very social.

      I admit I"m starting to get a little older, but I"m quite social.

      I have a large number of LONG term friends, measured in decades....I text, email and phone with them almost daily...and meet with them to do real things mostly on weekends, but some weekdays.

      For those friends not in my immediate area...email, phone, text, FaceTime...etc.

      I am lucky that I live in New Orleans...where something is going on all the time, I meet new people at all the music and food fests I go to here...meet folks at the gun range. There are still lots of neighborhood bars here, I know people there when I go for drinks.

      And no, not a lick of this is done on social media.

      Yes, I was alive before social media, maybe that gives me a leg up on doing all this without it....but seriously, it was done for most of mankind's history before social media...worked fine then, works fine now.

      I don't need a ton of "friends" that aren't truly my friends...just clicking a fucking link doesn't make you my friend.

      Hell, I have many friends that have keys to my house, I trust them. Those are real friends.

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    8. Re:Its your fault by gnick · · Score: 4, Insightful

      I've never felt the need to join FB or other social media to date.

      That fix that users get from "Likes" and "Replies" on FB is very similar to the fix you get from "Mods" and "Replies" on /. . A lot of my interaction on FB is discussion of news articles, similar to my interaction on /. . (Yes, some actual headlines make it to FB. On my feed it's CNN, BBC News, or whatever sources my friends post.) I see you post on here all the time - You've got the same bug as the FB users. You just feel superior because you're on a different platform (doing the same thing) and FB bashing is popular here.

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    9. Re:Its your fault by CaptainDork · · Score: 1

      Another thing ...

      If you are not engaged in any social media, that disqualifies you from commenting on matter of media, social.

      I'm a techie and there's no way in hell I avoid the shit pile.

      I am unwashed, but experienced.

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    10. Re:Its your fault by MightyMartian · · Score: 1

      It's kind of like Mao declaring Khrushchev ideologically impure.

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    11. Re:Its your fault by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

      And thank goodness you do! What with this comment and yours we should be able to get the ratio of signal to noise a little more managable.

    12. Re: Its your fault by gnick · · Score: 2

      When organizing an event for more than a few people, FB offers several advantages over text messages. It's not the only alternative, but it's a popular one. In this case, popularity helps.

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    13. Re:Its your fault by pr0fessor · · Score: 1

      It could be an age thing or educational. Most of the people I associate with are my age didn't grow up with the internet or cell phones and have some kind of college education. Most of them do not use facebook on a daily basis.

    14. Re:Its your fault by cayenne8 · · Score: 1

      This, too, is social media.

      LOL....

      I"ve never considered Slashdot to be social media...it is more of a basic forum you post on...to me more akin to the bulletin boards of old and USENET.

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    15. Re: Its your fault by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

      Fuck that. Facebook is where your parents are!

    16. Re:Its your fault by CaptainDork · · Score: 2

      I grew up with those, too.

      They are social media.

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    17. Re:Its your fault by Captain+Splendid · · Score: 1

      Found the Vegan.

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    18. Re:Its your fault by irrational_design · · Score: 1

      I'm not the OP, but neither my wife nor I use Facebook (or instagram, snapchapt, tumblr, linkedin, etc. ad naseum). Usually someone will email us the information. That works fine for friends or family that know and remember that we aren't on facebook. But, sometimes acquaintances don't remember. My wife in an art literacy volunteer at the kids elementary school (basically teaches a class about an artist and does an art project with them in the artists style). This year the art coordinator elected to use facebook to coordinate things. That's fine. My wife just told her that she's not on facebook (much shock ensued) so the coordinator said she'd email my wife the information. Well, the coordinator constantly forgets. This isn't really a problem for my wife, but it is a problem for the coordinator since my wife isn't showing up to meetings she doesn't know about so the coordinator has to come to our house to do a one on one meeting with my wife. Hopefully at some point the coordinator with make a note reminder herself that not everyone uses Facebook.

    19. Re: Its your fault by irrational_design · · Score: 1

      Not OP, but my groups use Signal since supposedly it's supposed to be the most secure.

    20. Re:Its your fault by irrational_design · · Score: 2

      Or young. I have teenagers and college age kids. They used Facebook years ago, but have not used it in a long time. Facebook is now perceived by that generation as being for old people. They've all moved on to places like Tumblr. They actively mock people that still use Facebook.

    21. Re: Its your fault by irrational_design · · Score: 1

      Exactly. Facebook is for old people. I recently attended a talk by a teenager (maybe 17) show mentioned Tumblr and then said "for you old people, that's like Facebook". That got a big laugh and nods of agreement from the other young people.

    22. Re:Its your fault by AuMatar · · Score: 4, Interesting

      I worked at Facebook. We had graphs of ages of users. Basically, it stayed low until a spike at 18 (when people went to college) and a huge spike at 22 (graduating college). Facebook isn't so much for old people, as it is for people who want to keep up with old friends. Until you're old enough to have those it has lower value.

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    23. Re:Its your fault by Hognoxious · · Score: 1

      If they're social media then so is a bit of animal skin, some soot and a feather.

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    24. Re:Its your fault by I'm+New+Around+Here · · Score: 1

      Another thing ...

      If you are not engaged in any social media, that disqualifies you from commenting on matter of media, social.

      Well then, when the conversation palls, it's a good thing I have serial killing to fall back on.

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    25. Re:Its your fault by irrational_design · · Score: 1

      I will be interested to see in 5-10 years if this holds true. They hold facebook in such derision at the present time (no offense) that it's hard to imagine them adopting it later.

    26. Re:Its your fault by gnick · · Score: 1

      Could every member of FB or Twitter suddenly drop their account, come in and post truly anonymously?

      Some of my old pets have FB accounts. Not anonymous because they have to "friend" anyone they're going to interact with, but they can access FB without providing much information about their true identities. They're not real active - I created them to help me during a short-lived "Candy Crush" phase.

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    27. Re:Its your fault by citylivin · · Score: 3, Insightful

      "That fix that users get from "Likes" and "Replies" on FB is very similar to the fix you get from "Mods" and "Replies" on /."

      I disagree personally. From what i understand, facebook is what you say, for narcissists. People who want to see their opinions retweeted or acted upon, in short, people looking for attention. That is not me at all. Personally I don't even read replies on slashdot, because i really don't care to argue with people on the internet. I have what I have to say and that's the end of it. I am just commenting to add something to the discussion, or clarify some point, and primarily to pass time between tasks at work.

      Plus I also think that writing every day is good practice to keep the mind sharp. Facebook to me, as a non user, is what you were always warned about. Posting your personal information on the internet, data collection by advertisers, and profiling by basically anyone (police, employers, co-workers, friends).

      So to sum up, facebook = narcissists and spooks, Slashdot = engineers and technologists who have opinions on things that matter to my job and life.
      A cat picture, that it is someones birthday, or someones IRL political leanings, absolutely do not interest me one bit. I also don't care about your holiday photos or childrens photos.

      It's all just fluff, because people need something to do with their phones. And like TFA says, its designed to be addictive.

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    28. Re:Its your fault by gnick · · Score: 1

      I don't even read replies on slashdot, because i really don't care to argue with people on the internet.

      I often have interesting replies to my /. comments. My FB comments too. If every reply you get is an argument, maybe you're doing it wrong.

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    29. Re:Its your fault by CaptainDork · · Score: 1

      I do parallel.

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    30. Re:Its your fault by CaptainDork · · Score: 1

      When found around a campfire.

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    31. Re:Its your fault by gr8dude · · Score: 1

      I believe there is a difference, which makes Slashdot a much better place - it doesn't go out on a limb to make you stay on the site.

      Here we have many interesting comments and we spend a lot of time reading them because they're thought-provoking, and because their authors invested some cognitive effort into putting them together.

      On Facebook you're most likely doing "micro-interactions" - likes, smiles or very short, tweet-like comments, that take almost no intelligence to construct. There are exceptions, of course. But overall - Facebook is a place with shiny toys, optimized to appeal to that part of your personality that isn't much of a thinker.

      I've discovered many great things by reading Slashdot comments - references to great books, interesting documentaries, programming languages and useful technologies. Slashdot also shaped my thinking - I've learned to spot logical fallacies by reading people's responses to other people's responses. The ROI for my time on Slashdot is great, this site has influenced my career trajectory in very important ways.

      With Facebook the ROI is not just zero... it's negative! Like I said, there are exceptions, and there are useful groups there too - but that little kernel of utility cannot be enjoyed without exposing yourself to photos of someone's fancy breakfast, check-ins and piles of useless junk. The signal-to-noise ratio is just not worth it.

      It's quite challenging to get out of there. I have my hosts file redirect that domain to localhost, on all my devices. I've changed the password to a random one that I store in a password manager, so I cannot get there easily even if I could not resist the temptation. Only after taking these measures I was able to reach the "Facebook escape velocity".

    32. Re: Its your fault by MoaDweeb · · Score: 1

      Email?

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    33. Re: Its your fault by gnick · · Score: 1

      When organizing an event for more than a few people, FB offers several advantages over e-mail. It's not the only alternative, but it's a popular one. In this case, popularity helps.

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    34. Re:Its your fault by thegarbz · · Score: 1

      Umm telephones and text messages still work last I checked. Nope not on FB.

      For what? Communicating with other people who don't use FB? The problem we have now is not so much a FB vs non FB issue, but rather a fragmentation of communication methods. It kind of resembles the really early days where only 1/3rd of people had email. Do you give out your email address or your phone number?

      The difference now is complete fragmentation. It's not a case of FB vs non FB, but also what'sapp and various other systems and services. There's generally 2 options to adopt: All of them, or fragmentation.

      I'm not all that active on Facebook, though I still have it to send messages to people who are, people who don't generally reply to text messages. It's the same reason I also use Skype and WhatsApp. I don't need to be active on 4 different platforms, but I need to be present.

    35. Re:Its your fault by swillden · · Score: 1

      Umm telephones and text messages still work last I checked. Nope not on FB.

      Well, they work if your friends and family use them.

      Unfortunately, for lots of people -- me included -- if you're not on Facebook, you don't know what's going on in their lives, because they no longer communicate in other ways. I don't use Facebook, but if my wife didn't I would probably have to. It's the primary communication mechanism of my extended family, and my community.

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    36. Re:Its your fault by gnick · · Score: 1

      On Facebook you're most likely doing "micro-interactions" - likes, smiles or very short, tweet-like comments, that take almost no intelligence to construct.

      It's interesting that you know what I'm most likely to do. There's a lot of fluff on FB - The signal-to-noise is lower than /., like you say. That's not to say there's no noise on /. - There's plenty here too. The level of fluff depends entirely on your set of friends. My political discussions are centered more around FB than they are here and knowing the people I'm talking with changes the experience positively. The people that post "very short, tweet-like comments, that take almost no intelligence to construct" are people that I don't interact with. FB is what you make of it - Except for the ads it's entirely tunable. (Actually you can even tweak the ads you're presented.) /. is much less flexible and you're stuck largely unfiltered.

      With Facebook the ROI is not just zero... it's negative!

      Maybe your FB feed offers a negative ROI. Maybe you haven't figured out how to use FB constructively.

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    37. Re:Its your fault by gnick · · Score: 2

      When you engage in a discussion you are obliged to come back and back-up your views, lest you not do a disservice to this community.

      What an interesting view from an AC.

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    38. Re: Its your fault by Jesus+H+Rolle · · Score: 1

      ICQ?

    39. Re:Its your fault by rtb61 · · Score: 1

      A forum is slow social media, near the pace of snail mail. Make a comment wait for response maybe and day or more latter respond to that latter again. It is pretty slow and all around the exchanging of ideas, rather than socialising.

      Face book was all around forcing you to interact and if you fail, accidental making others feel bad, who then purposefully make you feel bad or vice versa, a game, a trap purposefully engineered to be such. Only resolution, drop it and go back to phone calls and email, far more controllable rather than controlling, although the land line was better than mobile because you didn't have to offend people not to answer, so more polite communications.

      Just remember to use digital to enhance personal relationships and not to substitute for them. I dropped facebook as soon as I recognised it's purposeful design features to drive empty communications but if you fail to respond you damage healthy relationships and responding just weakens them over time. Dropping facebook has a cult like high initial social hit but after a while social interactions recover and when they ask, say meh, didn't like it, felt all too pervy like facebook prying into my life at all times to sell me junk and just damaging existing relationships to replace them with fake plastic ones, just like the junk they sell.

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    40. Re: Its your fault by gnick · · Score: 1

      I admit it; that's one I didn't think of.

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    41. Re: Its your fault by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

      Ha! That will show those sheeple how quirky and interesting you are!

      Or maybe they'll realize you're a tool that goes out of his way to waste their time and stop inviting you to things

    42. Re:Its your fault by tehcyder · · Score: 2

      I don't even read replies on slashdot, because i really don't care to argue with people on the internet.

      I often have interesting replies to my /. comments. My FB comments too. If every reply you get is an argument, maybe you're doing it wrong.

      I think the subtext is "I am so fucking brilliant that I merely cast my pearls before you swine and do not expect any cheeky bugger to disagree with me".

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    43. Re: Its your fault by mdervin2001 · · Score: 1

      email won't work because you'll have the one guy who'll just reply to the sender some critical information instead of replying all. Then you'll get the guy who replies all with some private information. And there is the guy who'll take the same email chain and just start a new discussion and topic, but keep the same subject matter. And finally, there's that one time you'll forget to add somebody and his feelings get hurt.

    44. Re:Its your fault by CaptainDork · · Score: 1

      Previously:

      I"ve never considered Slashdot to be social media ...

      Now:

      A forum is slow social media ...

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    45. Re:Its your fault by Etcetera · · Score: 1

      I disagree personally. From what i understand, facebook is what you say, for narcissists.

      You understand wrong. I'm a low UID Slashdot user and cranky Unix sysadmin. Facebook is not "for narcissists" any more than any interaction site is. It's simply much, much more efficient at both passive and active communication.

      It's clear that not being actually on Facebook (and, presumably, not using social networking services more generally) has distorted your view of them and the issues (and benefits) they raise.

      Although the cord-cutting movement has changed this in recent years (at least technically), the "I don't even have a FB" is the "I don't even have a TV" of yesteryear. Snobs who point that usually are ill-equipped to discuss the relative merits and concerns of various forms of broadcast serial media.

    46. Re: Its your fault by scorp1us · · Score: 1

      You don't start out addicted to opioids, either. You've got to be a regular user to develop the addiction. If you started using Facebook you'd post a much different message.

      Social is waning. Originally it's arrival coincided with mobile. Without that you'd not be able to get the fix often enough to get the levels of addiction that we have. But of you look at what's posted now, it's no longer pictures of people's dinners from the camera phone. It's more social, political, and ads, though they number of cats is about the same. The politics, fake news, and ads actually create adverse (no pun intended) experiences. Also, work people's parents on there, you can't really post what we used to.

      Social has a use that is becoming more utilitarian. We are adjusting to it and someone like me only checks every other day if I don't have a notification. That I need to respond to. Eventually we room up against a very real limit of social interaction and hours in a day, our social group stabilizes. I've only added 2 new friends in the past several years. You also age which changes your social focus.

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    47. Re:Its your fault by Hognoxious · · Score: 1

      Merriam Webster's definition is wrong. It omits "so they can be milked for advertising purposes".

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    48. Re:Its your fault by dddux · · Score: 1

      I've been a Facebook addict for a couple of years but I eventually realised there's not much point to it. It wastes so much time. It is good as a way to re-connect and possibly stay connected to some people you used to know and still want to know. It is also useful as a way of spreading news, but lately that point has been blurred by so many fake news. It is certainly not a good way to spend your day, that was my point. Get out, meet with real people, party. In the long run FB can make you quite depressed, too. That's when I realised I have to get out of it. Nowadays I just post some crap from time to time, just to keep it running. I also check what my friends who are also real friends are doing. Essentially I use it to make real appointments with them, too. It's just one of the additional ways to communicate with people. But if you find yourself "facebooking" for more than a couple of hours every day, you should seriously think about what you're doing with your life.

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    49. Re:Its your fault by dddux · · Score: 1

      Indeed, SMS is the best way to get in touch with people.

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  2. Re:And I would say, 'OK. You know, you will be' by vux984 · · Score: 4, Informative

    But if you come back to /. to see if any one replied you'll get your little dopamine hit. Same shit.

    PS: Your welcome.

  3. Facebook is getting boring by i286NiNJA · · Score: 4, Interesting

    It might have been addictive for awhile but it's getting pretty dull and feels more like myspace every day. I have a feeling the culture will eventually become dumb and toxic enough that the thing implodes an people will move to some other format for social media. Given Zuckerberg's interest in other social media platforms I have to wonder if he feels the same way.

    I don't have much proof but it's happened to every similar service and website before it.

    1. Re:Facebook is getting boring by Kazoo+the+Clown · · Score: 1

      Yeah, I spent about a year on Facebook, and decided most of what people post that I know casually is crap. Those I'm close enough to to email, aren't spamming their friends with such crap, they target info based on what they know the recipient will be interested in and are fine with email. About a year ago, I got fed up with FB entirely and haven't looked back. I signed in once over that time just to see if anything had happened that was of any interest, and found there wasn't a single thing.

    2. Re:Facebook is getting boring by UnknownSoldier · · Score: 1

      > I have a feeling the culture will eventually become dumb and toxic enough that the thing implodes an people will move to some other format for social media.

      If history is any indicator, I sadly concur. Consider the landscape of Social Media "platforms":

      Timeline/History of Social Media

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    3. Re:Facebook is getting boring by i286NiNJA · · Score: 1

      I find it very useful for staying in touch with old friends and family actually but I think we'll all eventually move to whatever's next. I also love arguing with randos, meme spamming, trolling.

      The Russia thing has taken the fun out of trolling. I can never trust that I'm interacting with an actual moron.

    4. Re:Facebook is getting boring by CaptainDork · · Score: 1

      You're old enough to know the difference between bullshit and wild honey, and so are we.

      All the cheap shots you have for current technology came out of the woodwork for the fucking Internet itself.

      That and, "Rock & roll is the devil's work."

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  4. The Oppenheimer Moment by Rick+Schumann · · Score: 5, Interesting
    A distillation of what Sean Parker had to say about Facebook:

    I am become death, the destroyer of worlds.

    Yes, Mister Parker, you have. Facebook is a cancer to humanity, a virulent disease. It should never have been created in the first place, and I for one am glad that I have nothing to do with it.

    ..and NO, you can't find anything about me on Facebook. I don't have an account there, no one I know is allowed to reference me there, and I defy anyone who says different.

    1. Re:The Oppenheimer Moment by Baron_Yam · · Score: 3, Insightful

      >I don't have an account there

      OK.

      > no one I know is allowed to reference me there

      And just how do you enforce that???

      >NO, you can't find anything about me on Facebook.

      So, you haven't heard of shadow profiles, then. Maybe your average Internet user can't find anything on you, but odds are someone at Facebook could look up all sorts of things about you.

      > I defy anyone who says different

      Well... I guess I'm defied, then. Doesn't change much, though. Facebook's still evil, you still shouldn't be confident they don't know a lot about you.

    2. Re:The Oppenheimer Moment by forkfail · · Score: 4, Insightful

      I would be willing to bet a significant amount of money that if were you to sign up with Facebook right now that you would have at least a few dozen friend recommendations that were accurate and reflective not only of your current life, but also, of your associations of several years ago.

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    3. Re:The Oppenheimer Moment by Rick+Schumann · · Score: 1

      Blah blah blah WORDS WORDS WORDS

      There's always at least one of you in the crowd, isn't there?

      Projecting like the damned

      What makes you think I use my real name online, anywhere, ever? What makes you think the people who know me can't be trusted to keep their word? I don't exist on Facebook. Never have, never will. You, on the other hand, are caught in their web, no doubt, and realize you're screwed -- and, no doubt, it burns you that someone else might have escaped your fate. You may as well become an exhibitionist, because you already traded away your privacy and now you can't get it back, LOL.

    4. Re:The Oppenheimer Moment by Rick+Schumann · · Score: 1

      More trolling

      Guess what? Pretty much everyone I know, knows me by a name that is not my real, legal name. Therefore I am not on Facebook, anywhere. Enjoy being under a microscope, because you fell for the Facebook meme.

    5. Re:The Oppenheimer Moment by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 3, Insightful

      this is one of the dumbest things i have read here and clearly you have no idea about shadow profiles work.

      Shadow profiles are based off of data provided through people who you interact in real life. that means while you may have never have used your real name online, if one of your real life contacts have then they know about you. this happens when someone with facebook uploads their email or phone contact list, has the app active on any network that you have a device active on. that is the point of facebook, to accumulate as much information as possible

      "What makes you think the people who know me can't be trusted to keep their word?"

      How do you know that those people can be trusted to understand everything about what they are doing online and how it affects you in real life. In order for you to not exist AT ALL on facebook you must make sure that you do not interact with anyone who is on facebook or hope that you are not on any 3rd party databases that facebook has access to (including the government ones!)

      To make the argument that you do not have a shadow profile on facebook requires you to provide sufficient proof that none of your data has been ingested by their algorithms. Given that their revenue stream is based on how much information they collect and that we know they not only get their information from individuals but from third party databases that they pay to access, I would consider that such a claim to be grand enough that direct proof from facebook would be the only way to conclude such an argument. I'm pretty sure that unless you work for them you will not receive such proof and its been documented that in order to work for them you must have a profile, maybe it is you who should reevaluate your idea of privacy and how you have over-valued the amount that you have.

    6. Re:The Oppenheimer Moment by thinkwaitfast · · Score: 1

      I don't have a mobile phone. Even a landline for that matter. All of my friends have been on email for more than thirty year.

    7. Re:The Oppenheimer Moment by Rick+Schumann · · Score: 1

      He thinks I ever put my phone number online, anywhere, EVER
      Trolololol

      Good game, AC.

    8. Re:The Oppenheimer Moment by Baron_Yam · · Score: 1

      Well, you're extremely defiant in your ignorance, so you have that going for you. Good for you!

      At least I know why your friends aren't a risk of data leakage for you - with your social skills its unlikely you have any.

    9. Re:The Oppenheimer Moment by rastos1 · · Score: 1

      > no one I know is allowed to reference me there

      And just how do you enforce that???

      Isn't that obvious?

    10. Re:The Oppenheimer Moment by rastos1 · · Score: 1

      Several years ago I created an account just to see what's the fuss about. Not real name, not real birth date nor location, did not log in for years etc. Your post made me curious so I logged in and looked at the list of suggested friends. Several dozen names showed up. May be ~50. I recognized at about 2. One could be (based on the name) a son of my cousin. I did not talk to the cousin for 30 years except "Hi" on random encounters. His son must be ~20 years younger than me and does not probably know that I exist. The other name I recognized is a teenager who has (in my country) an unusual name and who won several international competitions and thus was mentioned in a news site I follow. So I count both as statistical noise. What do you say to that?

  5. I Don't Believe Him by VorpalRodent · · Score: 1

    He says people like him, and Mark Zuckerberg knew the potential consequences, but they did what they did anyway.

    I'm going to go out on a limb and say I don't totally believe that. At least, not insofar as it implies a deep understanding of the true impact.

    I think what they knew was that if people really liked the product, then they could get lots of people to engage with it and that they'd make lots of money. That's true of pretty much any product, and it's why we have marketing and the like. It's what every inventor and app-maker and whatnot wants, and it's not a bad thing to want to provide something so useful that everybody uses it regularly.

    What I don't actually believe that they knew was that there would be a truly addictive (ie, no hyperbole) effect on millions of people, to the extent that they've legitimately ruined lives. I find it hard to believe that some of the deeper, more insidious aspects of this were as foreseeable going in as they are in hindsight.

    Furthermore, and I realize this is me being an optimist, I'd like to believe that if they had a deep understanding going in of the impact it would have, they would have done things a little different - "We can make $100bln and destroy lives and burn villages to the ground, or we can make $75bln and reintroduce the now extinct unicorn."

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    1. Re:I Don't Believe Him by JonnyCalcutta · · Score: 1

      I consider myself more of a realist, and whilst I agree they didn't know the full impact before hand, I have no doubt that they would have carried on regardless had they known. They weren't playing for stakes, they were playing for the world championship and to win they had to dominate. If all they cared about was gifting social media to the world and making a lifetime's worth of cash on the side then they would have created something much more open - perhaps even a protocol and a reference platform.

      The folk that came before the commercialisation of the Internet were the Lewis and Clarks, the homesteaders and even the gold diggers. These guys are the robber barons of the Internet.

    2. Re:I Don't Believe Him by BronsCon · · Score: 3, Insightful
      Pretty much spot on. I mean, seriously, Zuckerberg literally called all of his users "dumb fucks" early on in Facebook's life. You think that's the kind of person who would have hit the brakes if he realized what he was doing was manipulative and damaging? I certainly don't and I'm fairly certain he knew it was manipulative and damaging, even if he didn't know the extent of it.

      Zuck: Yeah so if you ever need info about anyone at Harvard

      Zuck: Just ask.

      Zuck: I have over 4,000 emails, pictures, addresses, SNS

      [Redacted Friend's Name]: What? How'd you manage that one?

      Zuck: People just submitted it.

      Zuck: I don't know why.

      Zuck: They "trust me"

      Zuck: Dumb fucks

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    3. Re:I Don't Believe Him by BronsCon · · Score: 1
      He may well be saying "If I don't think about this, no one will", but he he saying it in a very different context than you imply. He's not saying "It's good that I thought of this, because nobody else would have -- I'll stop what I'm doing now"; instead, he's saying "Nobody else is going to think of this, so I can forget I just did, too, and forge ahead."

      Given Facebook's history, you'd be willfully ignorant to believe otherwise.

      Back to my point, though, which had nothing to do with Zuckerberg "being mean to me", because I really could care less -- I have a Facebook account, after all.

      I said:

      You think that's the kind of person who would have hit the brakes if he realized what he was doing was manipulative and damaging?

      You pointed out that he clearly suspected it was manipulative and damaging:

      The thought behind it is ambivalence and worry about the social changes he's instigated

      Yet he didn't hit the brakes, ergo my point was proven, you just missed it.

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      APK quotes people (including myself) without context and should not be trusted. Just thought you should know.
  6. Much ado about [null] by cellocgw · · Score: 4, Insightful

    So it (maybe) changes children's brains. So does everything. So did letting them learn to read, or to use a telephone. Just because social dynamics are changing again, just as they did when cities were invented, and then suburbs were invented, and then TV was invented, doesn't mean this (Facebook / social media) is suddenly the Work Of The Devil.
    Heck, we may be moving towards a society where interaction is primarily online rather than meatspace. So what? Who are we hurting?

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  7. Then perhaps Sean Parker... by Khyber · · Score: 4, Interesting

    ...should pay the social and monetary costs for the damage he's done to society. He knew the consequences, and took the action any goddamned way. Full responsibility lies on him and Mark and they should pay dearly. Slam them straight back to middle class.

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    1. Re:Then perhaps Sean Parker... by datavirtue · · Score: 1

      That's pretty much middle class.

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  8. Re:And I would say, 'OK. You know, you will be' by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 3, Insightful

    You dumb shit.. this is not 'social media', IT IS A NEWS AGGREGATOR SITE WITH COMMENTS. You're just projecting because you're a Failbook addict and can't leave. Try getting real friends in real life (yes, that means taking a shower and leaving the basement) and you won't need cancerous shit like Faecesbook.

  9. This is a bigger problem by schweini · · Score: 5, Insightful

    This is a huge problem - advertising, marketing and shadier news outlets are systematically exploiting the innate cognitive biases we all have.

    They have always done this, but instead of an artform, this has become scientific. And it seems to work quite well (for them)

    It's similar to Casinos, which also exploit well-known human mental defects - which is why casinos are usually heavily regulated. But you obviously can't do the same for communication.
    The only kind-of protection against these assaults on our mental defects is education, and a change in the mind-set. But noone really has a short-term incentive to change either of those.

    1. Re:This is a bigger problem by Wycliffe · · Score: 1

      But noone really has a short-term incentive to change either of those.

      More importantly, they have a major incentive to continue to exploit it. For instance, the top 10% of drinkers drink more than 10 drinks per day (over 70 drinks a week). Most people will admit that these people have a problem. The problem is that this group of problem drinkers buy over 50% of the alcohol. Think about that, if Budweiser cut them off, they would lose over 50% of their sales. If instead of cutting them off, they limited them to only 5 drinks per day (35 drinks a week), they would still lose over 25% of their sales. A substantial portion of Budweiser's sales (and everyone else's) are people with addictions. Likely most if not all of their best customers are people with addictions. This likely holds for facebook, casinos, and possibly even department stores. Try telling a business that they need to cut off their best customers.

      https://www.washingtonpost.com...

  10. Re:Much ado about [null] by Rick+Schumann · · Score: 2, Insightful

    Yeah, sure, let's totally hamstring the social development of an entire generation, so they're so afraid of interacting with real, live people in real world situations, that'll just be so wonderful for our civilization.

  11. they did it anyway...? by 140Mandak262Jamuna · · Score: 1

    He says people like him, and Mark Zuckerberg knew the potential consequences, but they did what they did anyway.

    They might not have realized the full implications. And they might not even agree on the full implications even now. So it is not correct to claim they knew it would be this bad and still did it.

    Secondly, even if they agree on the full implications, they might argue, "if I don't do it the other guy will do it. So why not me?". When the financial crisis was brewing and when the bubble was about to burst, so many people knew what was going on. 1 to 30 leverage on questionable securities? To shoot for an additional 0.02% return? It was crazy. They knew it was bad. All securities carried AAA rating but some would fetch a full percent or 1.5% over other AAA securities. Why? Collectively the market was not buying the AAA rating and were demanding lower rated security interest for those bonds. That shows the the entire market knew the rating was bogus. Still they argued, "If I don't do it others are doing it, and if I will be punished in comparison".

    Free market is like evolution. It does not plan ahead, it does not do short term sarifice to get long term benefit, Every adaptation by every individual life form must improve its fitness locally at that point in time for that conditions.

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  12. Giving themselves too much credit by Dan+East · · Score: 4, Informative

    I think they are giving themselves too much credit. Let's strip away the advertising machine that is FB and distill it down to the most basic fundamental. A person can post information, and others who are connected to that person can see that information and react to it. That's it in a nutshell. The fact that people get a "little dopamine hit" when someone they are connected to reacts to something they did is not something Facebook engineered. It is human nature. It is why we like to sit around talking to one another, or why we like to see a person smile when we do something. This is nothing FB engineered or calculated or anything like that. For any virtual social network to be compatible with human nature and be accepted it must provide a way for people to provide feedback with one another. Calling it a "like" or letting someone comment on it is not exactly the height of software or social engineering.

    Methinks he is giving Facebook way too much credit to stoke his ego that he had a hand in reshaping people's "relationship with society". Facebook was inevitable, and in fact had existed in many, many different forms in the past (Usenet, America Online dialup, MySpace, Slashdot commenting system, ad infinitum). Facebook was nothing more than a simplification of existing social networks to the point that anyone could use it. It hit a critical mass, like MS Windows, the iPod, etc, where it had to resources to outgrow the competitors.

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  13. Cow Clicker! by s_p_oneil · · Score: 4, Insightful

    Cow Clicker! IMO this was a much better commentary: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/...

    Seriously though, what about WoW? What about EverCrack (as its own players referred to it half-jokingly)? What about the new e-Sports games like LoL, Dota2, or any multiplayer game that does its best to avoid falling into obscurity? What about TV shows that do their best to try to keep viewers hooked? What about Hollywood trying to keep people coming back in to see movies?

    What company goes out of their way to make a product that no one likes very much (and that will fail as a result of it)? He'd be better off blaming people for being sheep than for blaming a company trying to provide the best possible service/product. It's what companies do. No one is forcing them to sign up, to spend all their time on it, to get hooked on "likes" (or people clicking their cows).

    1. Re:Cow Clicker! by UnknownSoldier · · Score: 1

      NPR did a fantastic interview with Cow Clicker's creator, Ian Bogost, back in 2011.
      Cow Clicker Founder: If You Can't Ruin It, Destroy It

      > Seriously though, what about ...other addictive games ...

      The difference is that other addictive games aren't data-mining the shit out of you compared to FecesBook because they don't have access to your contacts.

      But your point is that other addictive games are bad definitely should be noted. They certainly don't get a "free pass" just because "See, we aren't as bad as FailBook!"

      There needs to be a US law that a person can request all the data a company has collected about you.

    2. Re:Cow Clicker! by s_p_oneil · · Score: 1

      Actually, the addictive games ARE mining the shit out of their players. They gave psychologists prominent positions in game design with the specific goal of keeping players addicted for as long as possible, and the psychologists requested very detailed tracking to help figure out what was working and what wasn't. It was akin to performing psyc experiments on the players. Sure when it comes to mining, they only had access to in-game contacts (where the contacts in FaceBook are RL contacts), but I believe far more people had lives ruined due to addiction to games like WoW than to FaceBook. Most of that would be due to flunking out of school/college, but in some cases jobs and spouses were lost, and in some really extreme cases theft/suicide/murders. That puts it close to the level as actual alcohol/drug addictions. Yes I know it's really not the same, but that seemed to be their goal, and they came pretty close.

      When it comes to privacy, IMO visiting FaceBook is no different from visiting a physical store. When you go to WalMart, they have hundreds of security cameras filming your every move. They try to track how often you shop there and what you buy. They collect as much as they can about anyone who walks into their store or shops at walmart.com, and they use it to figure out what works and what doesn't just like the WoW designers did. Why should FaceBook not be allowed to do what the other big companies are doing? (Actually, even the small companies are doing it, they're just more inept at it and less likely to adequately protect really sensitive information like your credit card number.)

      "There needs to be a US law that a person can request all the data a company has collected about you."

      No, there really doesn't. That law wouldn't stop companies from collecting it. All it would accomplish is making it easier for other people to access that information. The worst thing I've heard about FaceBook is that some potential employers use it to dig up reasons not to hire you (or existing employers dig up reasons to fire you). Although in some cases instead of firing, it results in discrimination, blackmail, or sexual harassment. That's not a problem with FaceBook though, it's a problem with the employers. Imagine your employer being able to access all of WalMart's video footage of you. It really is the same thing. It is completely immoral when employers do that, and where it is not illegal with extremely harsh penalties, then lawmakers should correct that ASAP. Employees are expected to keep their personal lives out of the workplace because it is extremely inappropriate. It is even worse for employers to force their way across that boundary, and it wouldn't be hard for them to impersonate you to exploit that law you suggested. They gather all the info they would need to do that when you apply.

    3. Re:Cow Clicker! by UnknownSoldier · · Score: 1

      Oh, I agree, that analytics has gone completely nuts / overboard in games.

      And I definitely agree that addictive games, such as EverQuest, WoW, etc, destroyed lives.

      But games aren't accessing your photos, scanning them using facial recognition to detect who your friends are, accessing your contacts, etc. to the same depth as FailBook.

      > FaceBook is no different from visiting a physical store.

      There is definitely a difference.

      1. They only keep the video feed for a limited time.
      2. They don't know who I am -- there is some (small) guarantee of anonymity in public.

      With FecesBook people are voluntarily giving HUGE amounts of information over.

      Yes, the amount of information collected at games, stores, and FazeBook are all bad, but FaceBook is by far worse.

  14. Almost there by jf_moreira · · Score: 1

    Good. I am near three years after deleting my Faceshit account. Do not miss anything there. Still have a ghost account to access company websites, from those who insist in having presence only in Facebook. And that's it.

    1. Re:Almost there by Opportunist · · Score: 1

      Companies that only exist on Facebook ain't worth my time. If they can't even be assed to create a fucking webpage, how should I expect them to get any of their shit together?

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  15. commentsubject by Falos · · Score: 1

    Well, it's here to stay. I don't use it, but if I want to discuss things going forward that doesn't matter, the fact is millions do, many to very engrossed degrees, and the inertia alone is cement for the scenario.

    In a dream scenario, this would be fine, good even. We have the masses, especially the type who are easily influenced, all nice and corralled. In the hands of more competent and benevolent minds, this is great. It's sort of like how we'd want to heap lavish taxes on an ideal government, who would use every dollar optimally.

    In practice, we have a large chunk of humanity vulnerable to the whims of those holding the reins. We worry about Google and Apple Disney and Do No Evil and what they do with their massive power, but the facetweets are the hamster water bottle that everyone sips at. Voluntarily. Faithfully. You could put anything in that water, you can steer people down to their deepest beliefs.

    It's like Inception - diluted, of course, but no need to dream dive.

  16. Let's be serious by OneHundredAndTen · · Score: 1

    2 billion Facebook accounts do not equate 2 billion people obsessed with checking out what is going on in their network. Most of the people I know with Facebook accounts use them the same way as I do - to log in effortlessly into sites where you have a passing interest, can't be bothered to supply a username and a password, and couldn't care less what garbage that will generate into your Facebook account. I do not know what is in my Facebook account, which I never visit, and I do not give a damn. As an all but infinite capacity garbage bin, Faecesbook is invaluable.

  17. Sounds like television by avandesande · · Score: 1

    'How do we consume as much of your time and conscious attention as possible?'

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  18. Ditch Facebook by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

    I was on Facebook in the very early years and have now been gone for many, many years. I have had no major problems going about my social and professional life as a result and have saved tons of otherwise-wasted time. Plus, who wants to give all their data to creepy Mark Zuckerberg?

  19. Dumb fucks. by DaveyJJ · · Score: 1

    FB users, I mean. Well, at least according to Mark Zuckerberg.

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  20. Re:And I would say, 'OK. You know, you will be' by doconnor · · Score: 1

    I'm pretty sure Slashdot was one of the first websites to introduce "likes" for comments. Can anyone find Zuckerberg's old account?

    Select my dopamine hit below.

  21. Well... by argStyopa · · Score: 1

    ...while I appreciate his candor, let's be blunt: we're PEOPLE, not rats in a Skinner box.

    We have brains, and it's up to us if we choose to engage them or not. Whether we chase that dopamine hit of 'ooh, someone liked my post' and sit on Facebook for another 5 mins, or if we say 'you know, I should probably play with my kids'.

    While certainly FB and other entities take advantage of mammalian psychology as much as they can, we are ultimately responsible for OUR OWN CHOICES. For good or ill.

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    -Styopa
    1. Re:Well... by VeryFluffyBunny · · Score: 1

      ...while I appreciate his candor, let's be blunt: we're PEOPLE, not rats in a Skinner box. We have brains, and it's up to us if we choose to engage them or not. Whether we chase that dopamine hit of 'ooh, someone liked my post' and sit on Facebook for another 5 mins, or if we say 'you know, I should probably play with my kids'. While certainly FB and other entities take advantage of mammalian psychology as much as they can, we are ultimately responsible for OUR OWN CHOICES. For good or ill.

      You clearly either haven't studied or haven't understood human psychology.

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    2. Re:Well... by argStyopa · · Score: 1

      Oh, I understand the current trends in human psychology, and I consider them more indicative of conventional wisdom than scholarship.

      Personally, I'm more of a humanist than that; apparently the scientific literature has circled nearly all the way back around.

      I mean, if humans are simply mechanical organisms that respond predictably to stimuli and thus any choice can be 'explained away' as not really the individual's choice, how is that pragmatically different than simply saying "It is as god wills it"?

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    3. Re:Well... by VeryFluffyBunny · · Score: 1

      Using a dichotomy as an argument, i.e. it's either we have Spock-like rational free choice OR we're automatons, isn't persuasive.

      Prof. Bruce Hood is well worth reading; both a talented cognitive psychologist and a clear, concise, accessible writer. He investigates cognitive biases and all the different ways our brains can hi-jack our rational selves, extending the work of Daniel Kahneman (Who won the Nobel prize for Economics by showing that stock market traders are far from rational decision-makers). Bruce Hood on Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/result... His book on the self: http://www.harpercollins.ca/97...

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  23. It's all about inception by cloud.pt · · Score: 2

    New technology always starts out with a basic idea: What do people need? That's the embryo stage of unicorn tech companies - they go for popularity, growth, adoption, novelty.

    Not long after, either the people in charge, or those that want to be in charge such as investors, start thinking about exit: what do I need people to need/want? How do I make them do it to such an extent it starts providing something I can monetize? ...and this second step is where things really start getting out of hand. Thats problem no.1 of capitalist society - as it doesn't regulate until a fault is so big it has an effect, you can't really make perfect symbiosis with the user base. It's something we were expected to cope with, as the rational beings we consider ourselves, as a mild trade-off for innovation and economic growth. But in the age of information overload, we don't adapt fast enough and consequences might not be offset by the benefits.

    The problem with innovation these days is that it has no sense of direction. I'll make this very, VERY basic analogy with the youtuber modus operandi: they find a weak interest group like gamers, children, compulsive consumers, extreme-left/right minds, religious types, nerds types... or a combination of the above, and then proceed to broadcast low or questonnable, definitely biased (read: sponsored) comment on whatever topic. You get low quality data on weak, influenciable people and you get a lot a disinformed community.

    Fake news or trivial shares are not the problem - the problem arises when opinion is so influenced by trend that it becomes determination. Just look at the Catalunia issue: they really had no bad quality of life, nor that big a sense of identity to really make a fuss about separating from Spain (I am close, and unbiased to the issue as a Portuguese national), yet the simple fact some parties insisted on pushing the buttons over and over again, for very personal interest to acquire power for themselves, and you get populism, which is "old" english for trend.

    I have seen the Facebook trend evolve - some years ago, Facebook was being used by everyone I thought was of reasonable character and technologically OK (let's put an age/social status label on that and say high-level educated millenials such as me and most of us here). facebook was getting trendy but it still managed to have actually relevant, valid information. Then it became meta-mainstream with the explosion of Android and the consequent WWW ubiquity, reaching the "septemberists" that had no idea on how to interact in an evolved community (both uneducated oldies as much as infant new generations). What do humans do when in a harsh environment? They attempt to thrive, Dunning–Kruger style: pack, gang up, and hoard the place with unfounded comment they believe as fact with the slightest argument. And this is not Facebook, this is the entire social web, today. And people, this september will last forever unless someone has a bright idea to stop it.

    How you might ask? Well, I surely don't know but for starters, surely something better than FB/Twitter/Reddit must come forth and replace current use-patterns - and by better I mean it gets people to move there. With a bit of luck, whoever invents that acosystem also manages to place some core rules that prevent an idiocracy state all over again. But it might take some iterations, yet some systems such as Wikipedia made it on the first try (despite some nay-sayers, Wikipedia is still asserted by most as a decent platform, perceptibly preventing abuse by about 99% of relevant issues, and arguably with a lot more good than bad).

    1. Re:It's all about inception by cloud.pt · · Score: 1

      I agree with the first replacement, since some business ideas are definitely not new technology yet they still go the same route. About the second replacement, I think the original fits better - some things people don't even need to spend money on for monetization. Big Data has made that clear.

      Other than that, you're on point.

  24. Old classic social network by DrYak · · Score: 3, Insightful

    How do your friends arrange meetings?

    At the pub used to be answer, and for some is still the most relevant.

    Meet in the bar for an afterwork beer, and while there discuss interesting new plans for a trip on the upcoming week-end.
    And hook up with a nice girl while you're at it.

    The whole internet or the mobile network could go down in flame, the above mentioned method can still work.
    (And if you're a regular enough at the bar, even the banking, payment processing and ATM systems can go down, and it still works for a couple of beers "on the house" or "I know you well enough, you can pay me tomorrow when the system is back up").

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  25. There's a missing quotation mark somewhere by wardrich86 · · Score: 1
    And it's bothering me...

    'We'll get you eventually. I don't know if I really understood the consequences of what I was saying, because [of] the unintended consequences of a network when it grows to a billion or 2 billion...

    It just goes on into forever...

    Also - does the term "social media" make anybody else cringe like nails on a chalkboard? The term sounds so fucking stupid.

    1. Re:There's a missing quotation mark somewhere by Opportunist · · Score: 1

      Social Media is up there with the other oxymorons. Like Military Intelligence. Or Microsoft Works.

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    2. Re:There's a missing quotation mark somewhere by DontBeAMoran · · Score: 1

      It's getting so bad, even the FBI is getting into other markets.

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    3. Re:There's a missing quotation mark somewhere by Opportunist · · Score: 1

      You think this is bad? Remember how in the good old days the intelligence service was at least secretive about how they filled their secret accounts and funded their black projects by selling drugs?

      Not anymore.

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  26. Yes, none of us use social media. Uh huh. by Cajun+Hell · · Score: 3, Insightful

    I've never felt the need to join FB or other social media to date.

    And yet, nevertheless, you just posted that thought on social media.

    Check back later to see if you got modded up! Maybe getting some karma points (or replies that agree with you -- they're just as good as upmods!) will get you to come back for more.

    I guess I've just never felt compelled to being a voluntary part of their product they sell.

    Slashdot's advertisers should be unhappy to read this, but considering where they're reading it, I suspect their frowns might be upside-down.

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    1. Re:Yes, none of us use social media. Uh huh. by irrational_design · · Score: 2

      Is a discussion board like this really social media? I don't think it is.

    2. Re:Yes, none of us use social media. Uh huh. by HornWumpus · · Score: 4, Funny

      Old discussion, long settled.

      /. is antisocial media...you festering malodorous gob.

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      John McAfee 'It was like that time I hired that Bangkok prostitute; to do my taxes, while I fucked my accountant'
    3. Re:Yes, none of us use social media. Uh huh. by lister+king+of+smeg · · Score: 1

      I've never felt the need to join FB or other social media to date.

      And yet, nevertheless, you just posted that thought on social media.

      Check back later to see if you got modded up! Maybe getting some karma points (or replies that agree with you -- they're just as good as upmods!) will get you to come back for more.

      I guess I've just never felt compelled to being a voluntary part of their product they sell.

      Slashdot's advertisers should be unhappy to read this, but considering where they're reading it, I suspect their frowns might be upside-down.

      Facebook Friends will never mod your post as "TROLL" or "FLAME-BAIT", let alone "OFF-TOPIC" or "REDUNDANT" or "OVERRATED". No negative feedback just thumbs up and smilliefaces and if someone posts that you full of shit you can just block them.

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  27. You are still on facebook. by DrYak · · Score: 3, Informative

    NO, you can't find anything about me on Facebook. I don't have an account there, no one I know is allowed to reference me there

    Yup, you don't have a Facebook profile, and you've politely asked your closest friend to not upload pictures with your face on them to it.
    Good for you.

    The problem is that Facebook will data mine the living shit out of everything it comes by.

    Maybe one person with whom you didn't communicate using throw away accounts (but, e.g.: you mailed using a regular e-mail, all called them with your called-ID visible) had facebook's app installed on their smartphone (and the app will automatically mine any contact details it comes by, including caller list and e-mail addresses auto-added to the replied-to list)

    Maybe someone you don't know personally uploaded a picture of a crowd while you were out in the public without wearing dazzle make-up (forget about usual clothing accessories like sun-glasses, Facebook face recognition system is fine-tuned well enough to be able to recognise you even with these).

    etc.

    Add all these small crumbs of information together over time and facebook ends up having quite some idea about who you are without you or any of your direct friend ever giving out any such information.

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    1. Re:You are still on facebook. by DarkOx · · Score: 5, Insightful

      ^^THIS^^

      I resisted facebook for a long time, but ultimately I signed up and created a basic profile, with information about me that is already mostly public and things I would generally want the world to know about me. I keep it pretty impersonal and rarely post about being anywhere or doing anything that isn't documented elsewhere publicly, but at least I get to bring the attention to those things as opposed to attention being on everything else for lack anything else being there.

      Its nice to ask your friends not to tag you in stuff but sooner or later someone forgets, making an honest mistake, after that facebook's photo recognition will start to suggest you everywhere you appear. Combine that will all their other data mining and yes they know a lot about you and publish a lot about you whether you like it or not.

      At some point you have to make a decision do YOU want some control over the message about you that gets put out by facebook or do you want to continue you protested at the cost of not having that control? If you do you have to create an account, and play some of their game. You can ignore facebook all you like but others don't and you can't make them, because of the that facebook has you and I over a barrel.

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    2. Re:You are still on facebook. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

      Ha, ha, ha, oh, you definitely have a FB profile, you're just too stupid to believe it.

    3. Re:You are still on facebook. by Rick+Schumann · · Score: 1

      Trolololol..

  28. Re: And I would say, 'OK. You know, you will be' by vux984 · · Score: 1

    anonymity or pseudo anonymity has nothing whatsoever to do with whether it is social media.

    Your not wrong that facebook is a whole extra kind of evil with the real world ID layer, and your not wrong about that making facebook 'totally different' in that regard.

    But in the way they 'create' engagement -- they aren't that dissimilar.

  29. People just have the wrong values by Opportunist · · Score: 1

    If they had said "I value my privacy", they'd be pretty much immune to the addiction.

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  30. Re:And I would say, 'OK. You know, you will be' by CaptainDork · · Score: 1, Funny

    This.

    I don't use the goddam Internet because I knew when it first started that it would be monetized and tell all my secrets and rob me of my powers so that's why I never use the Internet and stuff.

    I hope this gets a +1 anything.

    I'll check back later and it dam well better not be a -1 or I'll hold my breath and turn blue and pass out and then hit my head and then how would you feel and stuff?

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  31. Re:And I would say, 'OK. You know, you will be' by CaptainDork · · Score: 1

    Try getting real friends in real life ...

    "Real," as in AC?

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  32. Re:Drama waste of time petty big threat to privacy by Opportunist · · Score: 1

    Funny how old Soviet Jokes apply again:

    Don't think.
    If you think, don't speak.
    If you think and speak, don't write.
    If you think, speak and write write, don't sign.
    If you think, speak, write and sign, don't be surprised...

    (just replace "write" with "post" and "sign" with "post with your real name attached" and it works in our "free" world)

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  33. Re:My kids don't bother with Facebook by Opportunist · · Score: 1

    They say that so they don't have to friend you.

    The funny thing is that this will probably lead to contemporary kids being far more privacy-conscious than their predecessors. People now in their 20s don't understand why privacy is important. Their parents weren't on Facebook.

    The parents of the current kids are. And they learn VERY quickly that sharing something on FB that isn't supposed to be seen by the wrong people (i.e. their parents) is bad for them.

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  34. Does it really though by SuperKendall · · Score: 1

    I totally agree Facebook incorporates aspects of human psychology to try and draw people in.

    But for myself, and other people I talked to, I am actually repelled by Facebook to the point where I don't use it that often. I dislike the UI, I find it super confusing/annoying that the main feed you look at when you go into Facebook is essentially random - so random that re-loading the page often means I cannot even find something I wanted to read earlier, it lots of cases it is just gone.

    I don't fear Facebook that much because while they are mining a lot of data, what they are mining seems to be a pretty crappy level of quality.

    It sure seems to me that Facebook is ripe to have people's social networks migrate elsewhere, we just haven't seen the company yet that has a compelling enough offering to draw people away. But I do not think it's impossible by any means.

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  35. Re:Solutions? by Opportunist · · Score: 1

    Solution 4: Nuke the site while everyone at C-Level and above is known to be inside and start over.

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  36. Electricity ... by CaptainDork · · Score: 1

    ... I never use it.

    It's so fucking boring.

    I'm 71 years old and it's the same goddam electricity, day in and day out.

    Sure, billions of people use it NOW, but just wait until the next technology comes along and replaces it.

    Water ... ... I never use it.

    It's so fucking boring.

    I'm 71 years old and it's the same goddam water, day in and day out.

    Sure, billions of people use it NOW, but just wait until a replacement comes along.

    Air ...

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    1. Re:Electricity ... by DontBeAMoran · · Score: 1

      I think you should rename yourself CaptainBadAtMakingAnalogies.

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  37. Re: And I would say, 'OK. You know, you will be' by gnick · · Score: 2

    ...learn the difference between a forum and a social network...

    The difference is that you see the same discussions on both, but in the forum people feel superior to the people on social networks. See too much crap on FB? Get rid of the "friends" posting that crap and keep the ones posting the stuff you're interested in.

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  38. Re:And I would say, 'OK. You know, you will be' by boudie2 · · Score: 1

    It's a question of scale.
    Slashdot: 2 million visitors a day
    Facebook: over 1 billion visitors a day
    Anyone care to dispute my stats which I spent 2 minutes googling for?

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  40. Re: And I would say, 'OK. You know, you will be' by datavirtue · · Score: 1

    Social media defined by people who don't know what social media is.

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  41. "soul searching" as a service by superwiz · · Score: 1

    This is nothing if not another ad for Facebook. Anything inducing stress forces an addict to crave the next dopamine hit. And any reminder of the opportunity cost associated with addiction is stress-inducing. So this "soul searching" is designed to get people who haven't been on Facebook in a while to get back on. Well, at least assuming that they stopped checking in because they viewed it as an addiction.

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  42. Re:My kids don't bother with Facebook by superwiz · · Score: 1

    People did used to want to be found though. Almost everyone had a listed phone number. Which meant that your name, address and phone were in the phone book. Today most people would be terrified at such a prospect.

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  43. Re:Much ado about [null] by datavirtue · · Score: 2

    You just listed three things that progressively robbed people of their soul.

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  44. FOMO by HockeyPuck · · Score: 1

    Fear Of Missing Out.

    I see this all the time with high school students today. The reason they're checking their phones (instagram/FB/snap etc) is that they always want to be up to date on whatever is happening in their lives (circles of friends etc).

    This and the need to always be connected to their circle of friends or influencers. Always on internet with social media is creating a generation of kids that don't know what to do when they aren't connected to them (being bored or disconnected isn't a bad thing).

  45. Re:Solutions? by datavirtue · · Score: 1

    Don't do anything to Facebook except mandate that the platform is open so people can write competing apps. Migrating to another social media fork or forks would be seamless since everyone would still be connected at the most basic level. Check boxes to choose where you want stuff posted. Chat without having everything tracked.

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  46. I'm not on Facebook by DontBeAMoran · · Score: 1

    I'm not on Facebook, so that kind of shit will never happen to me.

    P.S.: please mod me up, I beg of you! I need to feel good and validated about my point of view!

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  47. Re:And I would say, 'OK. You know, you will be' by irrational_design · · Score: 1

    Slashdot is not social media.

  48. Re:And I would say, 'OK. You know, you will be' by irrational_design · · Score: 1

    Can you tell me more about this? I don't use any social media (Slashdot is not social media). I never use my real name online. I'm not sure what would be in my shadow profile. Or is this just a profile from public government documents?

  49. Re:My kids don't bother with Facebook by irrational_design · · Score: 1

    My teenagers and college-age kids used to use facebook, but they stopped years ago. They now consider it a platform for old people. They, and all their friends, moved to other sites like Tumblr. They now actively mock anyone who still uses facebook. And this isn't just a local phenomenon. They have online friends all of the US who feel the same way.

  50. Re:My kids don't bother with Facebook by cloud.pt · · Score: 1

    This might not be the case with every kid.

    I don't have kids but have a 5yo sister whom I pretty much try to educate as a parent, despite "acting" the much younger brother when playing. I teach her a lot and she does learn fast, which to us "old dogs" entering the 30's, is already an amazing feat as we no longer have that spongeability to learning by inference. I believe the most important thing on children is the fact they can be apolitical while still maintaining a basic sense of morality/ethics, and that's why they surprise us so much - we can't make the same assumptions as them because we are already tainted by society. And this is probably why they learn so much - they want to have an identity to themselves, they want to know what to like and not, and thus, have more care (not caution, but affection) and openness for new facts.

    Nevertheless, I believe that we, as "grown ups next to our own kids" are very biased to thinking "the kids will be allright". We see our children, we know them, we love them, so we kinda only see the good stuff, and most of all, we rarely see them in difficult situations socially. Even teachers have trouble inspecting real interaction between their students and thus not even they know how well that interaction is going until something really bad happens.

    While adults, teachers, and the social environemtn towards a echnological society do manage to be solid playgrounds for most kids, you could as well say that part of education - interaction between peers - is probably the area where there is less homogeneity, since kids have all very different personalities and backgrounds, and most of all, varying opportunities to acquire knowledge on this specific field. I doubt any 5 kids in most contemporary junior-high, let alone the same class, would have a cohesive opinion on how to act or protect their web social life, which they already have been establishing the moment they got a smartphone, likely years before entering junior high.

  51. Re:My kids don't bother with Facebook by Opportunist · · Score: 1

    Mostly because you had to pay to be removed from the register. At least in my country.

    Legislation made it illegal for the phone companies to charge for being listed. So they charged for not being listed.

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  52. Re:Much ado about [null] by iMadeGhostzilla · · Score: 1

    It's OK. Someone had to do it. Now that we know what it does to us we can slowly get off of it, like we did with smoking/transfat etc.

    That said, occasionally I find some facebook posts from a very small number of people in my feed *very* useful. I've actually unfollowed everyone in my friends list (350+) except for that small group of about 10. As much as I loathe facebook, I would actually prefer the setup I have now over no facebook at all.

  53. Re: And I would say, 'OK. You know, you will be' by rogoshen1 · · Score: 1

    nothing like some stale pasta to get through a thursday morning in november.

  54. Re:And I would say, 'OK. You know, you will be' by thinkwaitfast · · Score: 1

    Good thing they only know false information about me. I only aware of one person who uses(d?) fb

  55. Re:And I would say, 'OK. You know, you will be' by whyyisthissohard · · Score: 1

    Slashdot is literally and definitively social media. What difference does it make if the social identities are abstracted?

  56. To quote W.O.P.R. ... by powerlord · · Score: 1

    "the only winning move is not to play."

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  57. Facebook is the new MySpace by logique · · Score: 1

    And according to my 16 year old; 'Facebook is for old women"... (his mother facebooks every day :-) As for me, I guess I am just plain anti-social (don't myspace/facebook/instagram/snap-whats-twitt).

  58. real vs fake age by bingoUV · · Score: 1

    How do you find the real age of Facebook users? 18 is a nice fake age - says "I am an adult" in many places. As for 22, I think between 21-24 is the start of drinking age in many places - just in case they end up posting pictures showing themselves drinking.

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    1. Re:real vs fake age by dddux · · Score: 1

      Really? I started drinking when I was 13... well not actively, but that's the first time I remember [wagely lol] being drunk for the first time. I was 16 when I got involved in drinking parties, though. Once a week or so. 21 is a bit too late IMO to let you do whatever you want. Too conservative. And how about sex? Children these days involve in sexual relationships in their very early teens. Doesn't that mean they are kinda adults? That being said my first sexual experience was when I was 18. With a 15 yo that practically raped me. Now that I think of it it feels a bit weird.

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    2. Re:real vs fake age by bingoUV · · Score: 1

      No, not really, just in law, that too only in some countries. You could have read https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/... to avoid having to type so much.

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  59. Re:Much ado about [null] by bingoUV · · Score: 1

    Death of democracy.

    1. Soon (could be already) Facebook has a pretty good idea about who you are going to vote.

    2. Soon (could be already) Governments ask them for this information, with or without an NSL.

    3. We have already, in the name of the war on terror, given discretionary power to Governments to hide, kill, intimidate citizens.

    4. We also don't mind when our elected political officials hide information from us, or lie to us.

    So because of we wouldn't know when / if 4, 3 is done based on 2 as per 1.
    QED

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  60. Re:And I would say, 'OK. You know, you will be' by justthinkit · · Score: 1

    "Likes" aren't the problem. Lack of "Dislikes" is. And by the way, Amazon removed the "Dislike" button so that it could become more like Facebook.

    Yelp does this as way. Three ways to praise a post, none to mod it down.

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