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Some Students Say Having To Speak in Front of the Class is an Unreasonable Burden For Those With Anxiety and Are Requesting Alternative Options (theatlantic.com)

An anonymous reader shares a report: For many middle and high school students, giving an in-class presentation was a rite of passage. Teachers would call up students, one by one, to present their work in front of the class and, though it was often nerve wracking, many people claim it helped turn them into more confident public speakers. "Coming from somebody with severe anxiety, having somebody force me to do a public presentation was the best idea to happen in my life," one woman recently tweeted. According to a recent survey by the Association of American Colleges and Universities, oral communication is one of the most sought-after skills in the workplace, with over 90 percent of hiring managers saying it's important. Some educators also credit in-class presentations with building essential leadership skills, and increasing students' confidence and understanding of material.

But in the past few years, students have started calling out in-class presentations as discriminatory to those with anxiety, demanding that teachers offer alternative options. This week, a tweet posted by 15-year-old high school student declaring "Stop forcing students to present in front of the class and give them a choice not to" garnered over 130,000 retweets and nearly half a million likes. A similar sentiment tweeted in January also racked up thousands of likes and retweets. And teachers are listening.

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  1. Bravery by alternative_right · · Score: 5, Insightful

    It scared the crap out of me, but I came out of my shell with encouragement from some kindly teachers.

    It's a rite of passage because in life, we have to be brave about many things. Not just big stuff like warfare and hurricanes, but life choices and eventually confronting mortality (put it off as long as you can).

    We need to raise people to overcome their disadvantages, not revel in them. We can be compassionate and help them do so, but they need this ability to be brave and we need them to have it.

    1. Re:Bravery by DivineKnight · · Score: 4, Interesting

      Indeed. Standing in front of the class is a problem for people, as they want people to like them; they need to learn the comedien's trick (Thank You, Dethklok): hate the audience.

    2. Re:Bravery by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 5, Interesting

      I have an anxiety disorder. Well, technically I have a sensory processing disorder which overloads my brain which then causes my mental state to break down to severe anxiety. I have had the problem since birth. This makes me incapable of handling just day to day life let alone stress. Things that are slightly stressful for normal people are nearly completely impossible for me (eg. going to the doctor).

      Anyway, I did all the public presentations. I even took speech specific classes in college where I was giving speeches 3 times a week. I didn't like it. It didn't get easier and it didn't better my life in any way. I wouldn't do it again.

      Back then I didn't know something was wrong with me so I forced myself to do a lot of stuff like take speech classes. I never got the help I needed as a kid or even adult which was really hard on me but I kept pushing myself. Turns out I was just making myself worse because this wasn't something I was doing wrong but instead something is physically wrong with me. I finally started getting treatment at 40 years old but honestly it's a bit late and there isn't anything that helps much.

    3. Re:Bravery by brunes69 · · Score: 5, Insightful

      Agreed.

      There are no free passes in life, and no participation trophies.

      If you get a free pass on giving class presentations through your whole school career, how do you think you will fare the first time you have to give a powerpoint presentation at the office?

      You can't live your life in a bubble.

    4. Re:Bravery by GregMmm · · Score: 4, Insightful

      Wait, I don't think you're an exception since you have a disorder. You found out something about yourself. By going out and forcing yourself to take the classes and give speeches, you discovered that it not only didn't help, but you wouldn't do it again.

      You would never know if you could work yourself out of it till you tried. BUT you tried, and you're a better person for it. It helped you on the road to get some treatment as you say at 40.

      But, if you hadn't gone through that trial, would you have had the insight to get help? Who knows. I think what is important is people need to push through some discomfort to find out who they really are.

    5. Re:Bravery by spire3661 · · Score: 4, Insightful

      Regardless, people need to learn this or get smacked hard in the face by life. No one owes you success.

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    6. Re:Bravery by gweihir · · Score: 4, Insightful

      If you cannot get the panic under control or work around it, then you should not get that degree, as you are disabled to the point of being unqualified. That is not a value judgment, but holding that degree is an assurance by the institution you got it from that you have certain skills. And public speaking is part of that.

      The only other alternative is starting to hand out meaningless toy degrees to people with various problems. That would be really bad. So I am all for providing help to people affected, but if they cannot hack it despite the help, they must not get that degree.

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    7. Re:Bravery by IcyWolfy · · Score: 4, Informative

      I had panic attacks in Junior High, and near break-downs at times. Still, I forced myself to suffer through the presentations, and the participation.
      I got better at holding in the stress until after school, and breaking down when no-one was around.
      By the time college came around, it clicked that if I can hold back the break down, for hours, and then have it later -- when all the stimulus was gone, it was just me wanting it to happen. Not entirely sure how it came about, but I didn't feel the need to have my head fry over it anymore.
      I still hate it with a passion, and get stupidly nervous, and self-conscious, and pretty much every other aspect of it. But, the actual overwhelming breakdown doesn't happen anymore. I just grin and bear it. And can give 2hr presentations at work. And can speak in meetings. And otherwise fake being extroverted.

      If I weren't forced to suffer for 4-5 years to learn how to control it, I doubt I'd have such a good career, doing work I enjoy, and be able to travel from client-site to client site around the world.

    8. Re:Bravery by gweihir · · Score: 5, Insightful

      Well, on high-school level there is also a pedagogic problem with students being able to bypass requirements in this way: It teaches them that they just need the right kind of problem or "victim" status an they can get away with not trying hard. This way we get incomplete and problematic adults.

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  2. I have math anxiety by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 5, Funny

    I have history anxiety.
    I have grammar anxiety.
    I have science anxiety.
    I have PE anxiety - in spades.
    Can I just go home now?

    1. Re:I have math anxiety by hambone142 · · Score: 4, Funny

      I have grade anxiety.

      Give me an "A" or I'll cry.

    2. Re:I have math anxiety by larryjoe · · Score: 4, Interesting

      I have grade anxiety.

      Give me an "A" or I'll cry.

      More seriously, tests, reports, and lab projects are huge stress-inducers, often prompting even more anxiety than oral presentations. Should passes be given for tests, reports, and projects? School is about learning things that are not already mastered and are usually challenging, which causes stress, anxiety, and frustration in most people.

      If there is a true need to excuse students from major requirements, then the grade report should reflect the excuse. If the excused activity doesn't affect grades, then the activity can be considered optional. However, if grades are affected, then giving full credit for an excused activity directly penalizes other students. In that case, the choice is no longer solely whether to excuse a student but rather whether to penalize the excused student or to penalize the other students.

  3. bubble wrap by fluffernutter · · Score: 5, Interesting

    I just asked my 14 year old, who has social anxiety. Even he realizes that it is an important skill to have experience with, even though it scares the crap out of him. This seems to be a 'bubble wrapped child' problem.

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    1. Re:bubble wrap by The+Original+CDR · · Score: 4, Interesting

      For a final project in Small Group Communications, my four Vietnamese classmates appointed me to do all the work and be the speaker because I was white. So I did all the work and spoke in front of the class. Our instructor, a black woman, gave me all their credit for the assignment and forced them to retake the class. They screamed "white privilige" all the way to administration and their complaint landed on deaf ears. They couldn't prove that they did anything to merit a grade and cheerleading from the back of the room doesn't count.

    2. Re:bubble wrap by Comrade+Ogilvy · · Score: 5, Insightful

      No, the students are correct to question and challenge the requirement. "We" should be able to explain to them why it is important, how those who are poor at this can learn to improve, and how/what kind of assistance is available to those who experience extreme discomfort.

      Throwing a label at these students only buttresses their suspicion: those adults who claim authority do not know crap.

  4. Next Up by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 4, Informative

    "Stop forcing people to interview in front of employers and give them a choice not to".

    Learning should include uncomfortable situations.

  5. It's for real by Bruce+Perens · · Score: 5, Interesting

    I have an opposite fear: Sometimes I have to sit in an audience while someone who knows diddly squat about Open Source gives a speech about it (or even a keynote), and I would really like to engage them right in front of the audience and point out all of their mistakes, but in general that doesn't work for the audience. I just hate to sit through those things. About my most productive response was to write this in response to a completely clueless speaker.

    But how did I become a speaker? I had a neurological deficit resulting in a speech impediment and coordination problems. Throughout 1-12th grade, I took at least 10 years of either instruction from a speech pathologist or year-after-year enrollment in the school's rhetoric class (which wasn't really addressing a problem in speech pathology). So, any fear of audiences was beaten out of me.

    Most people hate and fear being in front of an audience. For some, the solution really is for them to one-on-one with a teacher. But for most, the solution would be early instruction that makes them more comfortable with the situation. The sink-or-swim method of just putting them in the front of the room is probably not the right way.

  6. discriminatory presentations by sdinfoserv · · Score: 5, Insightful

    Ya, in 20 years when you're too afraid to walk out the door, you be demanding that "universal basic income" because you never developed communication or personal skills and it's society's fault -you're just another victim.

  7. Death metal helps by alternative_right · · Score: 4, Interesting

    Not just with standing in front of the class, but with dealing with humanity in general. Or technology, really.

    1. Re:Death metal helps by ShanghaiBill · · Score: 5, Interesting

      Public speaking is an important skill, but it has nothing to do with, say, math. So should a kid get a bad grade in algebra because he gets nervous in front of a classroom?

      Martin Gardner turned down all invitations to speak, and said that he never felt comfortable speaking to a group of people.

      Seung-Hui Cho suffered from selective mutism, which caused him to be bullied by other students, and humiliated by a teacher who threatened to give him a failing grade if he wouldn't talk. On April 16th, 2007, he murdered 32 of his classmates.

    2. Re:Death metal helps by gweihir · · Score: 4, Insightful

      Communication of Math is part of doing Math. There can be exceptions for world-exceptional practitioners (think Perelman), but that is it. The rest must develop reasonable communication skills or they are not Mathematicians. Any scientist or engineer can be expected to be able to communicated meaningfully with an audience. Also, getting a degree serves to extend your skills and abilities and, in particular, should allow you to find ways to work around limitations you have (and we all have some). If you are successful at getting there, no matter how (that is up to you but you can ask for help) then you deserve that degree. If not, you do not.

      The only other alternative is to start handing out meaningless degrees. This is a slippery slope. Eventually we will have people that cannot read or write getting literature degrees or people that have no understanding of Physics getting engineering degrees. That must not happen. It also would be a huge disservice to these people, because lowering the bar for them does not encourage them to find a way to solve their specific problem. And on the ethics side, if we start allowing people with specific problems to get degrees easier, would we not be obliged to give advanced degrees to stupid people? They cannot help that either and it can be seen as a legitimate disability.

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    3. Re:Death metal helps by bane2571 · · Score: 5, Insightful

      As someone that was heavily into Math and science in High School, not learning proper public speaking has been an extreme detriment to my career. IT is honestly the difference between a 75k back room support job and a 100k+ consulting position.

      "Knowing" is a super important thing for any person. "Demonstrating" that knowledge is often the key to success and if you can't speak publicly, you can't demonstrate.This is why we also teach handwriting and grammar in schools.

    4. Re:Death metal helps by AmiMoJo · · Score: 4, Insightful

      Having a mental illness is real life too. Yes, disability means you are unable to do certain things.

      I have a disability. It sucks, I wish I didn't, I wish I could do an the stuff I can't do because of it. And the most frustrating thing is when people say stuff like "maybe if you just tried" or "you need to get over it".

      I know you mean well but it's not something a person can just push though. Maybe instead of just throwing kids in at the deep end they could have classes helping them understand and maybe overcome their issues, if that's possible for them.

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  8. Re:It's fine by rogoshen1 · · Score: 4, Insightful

    What if those great thinkers became the great thinkers they were because they were pushed into uncomfortable situations constantly from a young age?

    Had they been allowed to retreat into their shells and play gameboy (or insert era appropriate menial diversion here) would they have amounted to anything?

    Struggle is what leads to character, maybe a bit of social anxiety is actually a gift.

  9. Re:Buddy of mine had the opposite by Immerman · · Score: 5, Insightful

    Who said anything about liking public speaking? You don't have to like it, you just have to *do* it. One of those life skills that, unless you never have to interview in your life, is going to come in handy no matter how much you hate it.

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  10. Gradual assistence by Tablizer · · Score: 4, Insightful

    If somebody has trouble in that area, perhaps special classes or work-shops can be provided whereby the student works their way up: speak to progressively bigger groups/crowds for progressively longer times rather than dive into the deep end on Day One.

    We all have weak areas that we probably need special classes and/or assistance with.

    I've seen no definitive evidence that traumatizing children makes them better adults, and perhaps has a net negative impact. Barring clear evidence for either side of the cowboy-vs-coddle debate, I believe my suggestion is reasonable and common-sense. However, it does require resources that poorer students and/or districts cannot afford.

  11. This is a necessary requirement by gweihir · · Score: 4, Insightful

    Any scientist or engineer must be able to clearly and correctly explain things in front of an audience, even if that audience is larger. If somebody has anxiety (a serious mental condition, no argument) then they must find a way to still be able to do presentations to a group and interact with that group during and after the presentation or they will not be able to fulfill the requirements for the qualification they are aiming for. Sorry, no exceptions. You can't do it, you are not qualified.

    I am all for helping them finding a solution or a workaround to the anxiety, but the presentation skills are a hard requirement.

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  12. Re:Buddy of mine had the opposite by gweihir · · Score: 4, Insightful

    Indeed. If we all limited "work" to only things we like, not a lot of it would get done. An academic degree is a sign that you can read and write documents and that you can present things in front of people. For some degrees, that is the most important final job qualification. You must be able to competently do it. You are not required at all to "like" it. And yes, I know what anxiety looks like. You may be tripping sweat and shaking while doing this. You still need to be able to do it and that can only be achieved with practice. If you later go for a career where you have to do this only rarely, not a problem at all.

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  13. Re:It's fine by chiefcrash · · Score: 4, Insightful

    The article doesn't appear to be talking about anxiety disorders. These aren't kids with a note from their doctor or something diagnosed. They're near-adults complaining that âoeNobody should be forced to do something that makes them uncomfortable"

    Further, isn't âoeExposure therapyâ commonly used as a behavior therapy to help treat anxiety disorder?

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  14. Re: Buddy of mine had the opposite by Immerman · · Score: 4, Insightful

    >A meaningless kind of role-playing. ... and you just described 90% of high school. The entire environment is horribly artificial, and generally manages to completely miss the point of even the education. Knowledge rots without usage, and it's a rare class that teaches you the skills to effectively use that knowledge outside of class.

    I am sorry nobody challenged you to make your presentations worth the time to listen to, much less prepare. I seriously doubt you had any presentations that were literally regurgitating classroom content, where a little independent research couldn't have added a great deal of additional information and classroom merit (and maybe even improved your grade). I had some teachers early on that made it clear that was the *point* of giving a presentation, and never encountered one in all my years that objected. I was shy and pretty much always hated having to give presentations, but at least I learned early on that the point was to practice conveying information, wish I had caught on earlier that it was also about engaging the audience. If you can engage an initially utterly indifferent classroom audience about an arbitrary topic... that's a skill set that will serve you well whenever you need to convey information or influence decisions. Sort of throwing you into the lion's den on that front, but it's a large enough audience that you can probably interest at least one or two enough to pay attention. Probably help if there were an explicit speech-giving course squeezed in there at some point.

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  15. Re:Buddy of mine had the opposite by Darinbob · · Score: 4, Interesting

    I had to present my grad school research to a smallish group of people once. So I got up there and did all the typical smooth talker thing, the opposite of how I really am, hand waving, always sounding confident, etc. Afterwards they shook my hand and said it was a good talk. When they left I then told my prof that I was nervous since I hadn't prepared as much as I should have and was winging most of it. She blew up and told me I wasn't being professional, yada yada yada. But it worked. I can still pull out that character and put on a good handwaving show when I need to, or even when listening remember to ask relevant questions to make up for the fact that I wasn't paying as much attention as I should. It's a useful skill.

    (Later the prof was upset I hadn't signed up for a local conference, and she said "it doesn't matter if you're interested in the topic or not, you need to get out there and schmooze!" Good advice that's better to learn earlier than later.)