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Social Network Users Have Ruined Their Privacy

Steve Kerrison writes "'There's little point in worrying about ID cards, RFID tags and spyware when more and more people are throwing away their privacy anyway. And the potential consequences are dire.' I've written an article on the dangers of social networks and how many users seem to forget just how public the information they post can be. This follows a warning sent out by the CS department of Bristol University, advising students that they risk lost job opportunities, getting in trouble with their parents and more, if they don't take care. The warning, however, really applies to all social network users, be they college students or over-zealous blog posters."

308 comments

  1. Social Networking is a dangerous idea by ZahnRosen · · Score: 0

    Between sexual predators, kids who tell all and then regret it when it comes time to look for a job, our daughters posts nearly nude photos and our sons enjoying that a bit more than is healthy, these are a bad idea. I just checked the traffic numbers for Myspace, 3rd most popular in the US and 5th on the planet... Where are the safeguards?

    1. Re:Social Networking is a dangerous idea by maximthemagnificent · · Score: 5, Insightful

      >> Where are the safegaurds?

      With the parents, of course. Adults control the world children live in, right? Once your kids are adults
      (and the transition to adulthood starts around age 8, earlier for the smart ones), if you haven't taught
      them basic common sense (not common whatsoever IMO), then it's on you. We're supposed to limit
      the ability of people to communicate with one another? Communication is, after all, what you make of it.

      Maxim

    2. Re:Social Networking is a dangerous idea by silentounce · · Score: 2, Insightful

      "Where are the safeguards?"

      It's called common sense. There should be no safeguards. If you're stupid enough to blab to the world about drunken panty raids then you deserve the consequences. As for the sexual predator thing, well, you have to educate your children about the danger and make sure they never meet anyone from the internet in real life without some heavy digging and never by themselves. Besides, the person they are meeting will probably have this same issue about privacy so you can find out a lot about them. Anyway, I know others are going to say this. It is not myspace's responsibility. It is the user or the user's guardian that is ultimately responsible.

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    3. Re:Social Networking is a dangerous idea by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      our daughters posts nearly nude photos and our sons enjoying that a bit more than is healthy

      Yeah, if my sons were enjoying the nearly nude photos of my daughters, I'd be a bit worried too.

    4. Re:Social Networking is a dangerous idea by SatanicPuppy · · Score: 5, Insightful

      Sounds like more of a problem with your kids, frankly. The danger of sexual predators has been blown way the hell out of proportion...Your kid is still far more likely to be molested by someone you know. It's typical media scaremongering...The number of reported cases of actual assault/molestation are crazy low.

      Might as well ask where the safeguards are at your local high school...The opportunities for trouble there are way the hell greater than on MySpace or similar.

      The concern for privacy, however is much more real. You don't have to show your tits to be compromising yourself to future employers and current school administrators. I wish like hell I'd never started posting under my own name...I ought to change it, but Satanicpuppy has such a nice ring...

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    5. Re:Social Networking is a dangerous idea by GreggBz · · Score: 5, Insightful

      Good grief we live in a culture of fear... How many young people have been damaged on Myspace? I know a few teens that spend lots of hours on the site, and I must say, they are pretty normal. But you know if one girl gets abducted out of the gazillion like her that are registered on Myspace it will be bloody HEADLINE NEWS!!!! How long have we had these stories of the big bad Internet? I feel like the producers at (major cable news network) are just hoping that there will be some sort of weird sexual predator mania with a million victims across the USA that propagates from the dark corners of Myspace just so they can say, "I told you so!"

      The young people on this country that are in trouble are from impoverished households, have abusive parents or suffered some real life trauma that did not involve a website. They have problems not because of myspace.

      Yea, spending your life on-line gabbing is probably not healthy, obviously, but relax folks. Tech-savvy, pop culture suburbanite kids are not the troubled delinquents of society.

    6. Re:Social Networking is a dangerous idea by owlnation · · Score: 3, Insightful
      Between sexual predators, kids who tell all and then regret it when it comes time to look for a job, our daughters posts nearly nude photos and our sons enjoying that a bit more than is healthy, these are a bad idea. I just checked the traffic numbers for Myspace, 3rd most popular in the US and 5th on the planet... Where are the safeguards?
      Where are the safeguards? In your home. In your school, and in your church if you believe in that. The behavior of your children is YOUR responsibility. Not mine, and nor it should be the Government's - there is far too much censorship already. Stop asking the Government to think of the children, and start thinking about your own. Spend time with your children, ask them to explain how MySpace or whatever works and educate them in how to use such things safely. Or ban them from them if you're that kind of parent.

      Social networking adds nothing new to the World, it just makes it easier to see it. Which is a good thing. (I'm willing to except, rather than accept, MySpace as a good thing though, just from the tech pov.)

      Ok, I'm a pornographer and biased. Freedom of speech is still the most important thing on Earth, social networking is an important aspect of that, so please don't spoil it with some foxnews-fud-fuelled family values jihad. Predators make good cheap easy copy, but they are far more dangerous in a shopping mall than they are online.

      The irony of Fox News spouting fud about MySpace while being part of the self same organization that owns it is not lost on me. Nor is the fact that other networks will spout fud about MySpace for reasons of competition.

    7. Re:Social Networking is a dangerous idea by joshetc · · Score: 1

      Author is a dumbass. There is a huge difference between some idiot putting their information on the internet and the government forcing us to broadcast our information via RFID. If he doesn't realize that something wrong with him..

    8. Re:Social Networking is a dangerous idea by kfg · · Score: 1

      ... Where are the safeguards?

      The only place it has ever been; in our own hands.

      Yes, our hands are frail and prone to error, particularly in youth. Such it is, such it has always been, such it always shall be.

      Oh, what fools these mortals be. Get used to it.

      KFG

    9. Re:Social Networking is a dangerous idea by The-Ixian · · Score: 1

      Quantify "crazy low" please.

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    10. Re:Social Networking is a dangerous idea by neimon · · Score: 3, Interesting

      It's hard to create safeguards when we're not even sure of all the negatives.

      I remember before there were consumer protection laws, and if you bought a defective car, too bad sucker. That was the way for years. Am I going to argue that all safeguards are an infringement? No. Am I going to argue that we're figuring it out? Yes.

      Please don't apply simple "take personal responsibility for the fact the world sucks and hates you" rules. We can make it better, but we have to know what's wrong first.

      It's nice once in a while to talk about what's right, but, yeah, that's not nearly as sexy and frightening.

    11. Re:Social Networking is a dangerous idea by SatanicPuppy · · Score: 1

      Search for "MySpace" on the National Center for Victims of Crime website, and you get a staggering 12 hits, mostly to articles talking about parents groups freaking out.

      There is also a victim report(pdf warning) from the DoJ, but the most recent one is 2000, so not much can be made of that. However, searching the DoJ website itself turns up a big 29 hits for MySpace, which drops to 12 hits if you refine the search to include "sexual".

      That's pretty damn low.

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    12. Re:Social Networking is a dangerous idea by Fujisawa+Sensei · · Score: 1
      Where are the safeguards?

      Welcome to the real world, your actions have consequences; deal.

      Don't the price of freedom? You're free to relocate to Saudi Arabia.

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    13. Re:Social Networking is a dangerous idea by autophile · · Score: 1

      Where are the safeguards? In your home. In your school, and in your church if you believe in that. The behavior of your children is YOUR responsibility. Not mine, and nor it should be the Government's

      I've often wondered if future shock renders parenting obsolete. It may not be possible for a parent to keep up with all the changes in a child's world. In this case, what would be needed is some kind of professional parenting. This would naturally create a cultural conflict between the impulse to have and own children, and the impulse to teach them. Fun times ahead.

      What we appear to be running into is too much "own the children" and not enough ability to "teach the children".

      --Rob

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    14. Re:Social Networking is a dangerous idea by HappyHobbyist · · Score: 1

      Where are the safeguards? There is an private profile option on myspace in the settings to change it to a private profile. Here is how to do it . Just click on home then click account settings , then click on privacy settings. Under Who can view my profile check on friends only. Scroll to the bottom of the page and then click on change settings. You are done. Your personal stuff can be there be only viewed by your friends. No big deal. No need to panic the media hype over myspace is just insane. Myspace is the most popular social networking site with over 100 million profiles. There are safety precautions on the myspace site for parents and ways to keep a private profile.

    15. Re:Social Networking is a dangerous idea by Ruff_ilb · · Score: 2, Insightful

      The lessons taught don't need to be specific to technology or anything; I was always taught, for example, the whole "Don't go with adults you don't know" line of reasoning, and it just seemed natural to obscure my information from the outside world at first. Now, obviously, my information is a lot more accessible, but I have less to be afraid of.

      My point, though, is that if the children learn a basic framework for what is and isn't a good idea, the parents don't have to teach them individual applications within the framework.

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    16. Re:Social Networking is a dangerous idea by WilliamSChips · · Score: 1

      Just about everybody on MySpace is damaged by the horrible color sense of the average MySpace page.

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    17. Re:Social Networking is a dangerous idea by hemorex · · Score: 2, Insightful

      The irony of Fox News spouting fud about MySpace while being part of the self same organization that owns it is not lost on me. It's called building street cred, I believe.
    18. Re:Social Networking is a dangerous idea by tompaulco · · Score: 2, Interesting

      As a parent, I was blissfully unaware of the dangers of myspace. Having gottent the general idea of how stupid and pointless it was, I never bothered to visit. Of course, I have repeatedly informed my children of the danger of carrying on conversations with total strangers. So I thought I was covered. Bu the other day, out of curiosity I checked myspace to see if my stepson had an account. It turns out he did, but that the profile was private. Now, I would guess that his profile was private because he doesn't want us (his parents) to see, not because he doesn't want some stranger to see. He probably has all kinds of inappropriate stuff on his myspace page that we would get upset about, so he has it private. This is just a guess, but the fact that he has a picture of himself wearing only boxer shorts on his front page, with a description of himself as a wrestler and his interests as looking to meet people on the internet pretty much means that everything we have told him he has pretty much thrown away and done the opposite.
      Now I am sure that a legitimate operation like myspace properly notifies parents that their underage child wants to create an account and automatically grants the parent full access, so I am sure they will be sending me that information shortly.

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    19. Re:Social Networking is a dangerous idea by Fulcrum+of+Evil · · Score: 2, Insightful

      Remember when it was AOL chatrooms that were full of perverts (still are, I'm sure)? There's always some big bad scary thing, and most of them can be disregarded.

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    20. Re:Social Networking is a dangerous idea by Khabok · · Score: 1

      Isn't that the part that redeems the social networking system? The sorts of dark, scary, emo thoughts that teenagers tend to have a lot are a problem when locked up without communication, but pepper them across a big, ugly group of userpages and they start to look like the absurd rubbish that they are.

      Remember, a bad idea that seems logical simply hasn't been seen in the correct light. In this case, that light happens to be red text on a blue background.

    21. Re:Social Networking is a dangerous idea by Ultra64 · · Score: 1

      because myspace somehow knows how old a person is when they sign up. and furthermore they have this amazing genealogical computer to tell them who everyone's parents are.

    22. Re:Social Networking is a dangerous idea by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      "Tech-savvy"? Myspace users??? Christ, boy, you need to talk to programmers more.

    23. Re:Social Networking is a dangerous idea by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Well MSNBC simply thinks MySpace is bad because it's owned by Fox/Rupert Murdock...

      And the whole fear thing is just a way for the government to seem like it's actually needed... after all who else is going to protect you from the evil terrorist, sexual predators, the scare of the week...

      Of course you're more likely to win the lottery then be hurt in a terrorist attack, and I don't even play the lottery....

    24. Re:Social Networking is a dangerous idea by flimflammer · · Score: 1

      You are assuming that just because there isn't a report about it, that something hasn't happened.

      This is a quite short-sighted view, especially considering that site doesn't say/have a chance of knowing simple things like "{13yogirl} had sex with {37yoman} she met on MySpace"

      Unless someone gets caught, there is of course that little issue that there will not be any report. Sure, getting raped by someone who they met on MySpace seems a bit low in number, no one was saying that the danger of this is exclusively victimizing acts like rape. There are many other dangers as well that parents can't always control without blocking social networking sites from their kids in general (which is tough since your house is not the only portal to these places [libraries, schools, friends, etc...])

    25. Re:Social Networking is a dangerous idea by WilliamSChips · · Score: 1

      I was talking more along the lines of physical damage to eyes.

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    26. Re:Social Networking is a dangerous idea by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Absence of evidence is not evidence of absence!

      Hehehe.

    27. Re:Social Networking is a dangerous idea by sowth · · Score: 2, Insightful

      Aside from your "sexual predators" comment (there are no more sexual preditors on the internet than any other form of social gathering or communications), all those other problems are due to self righteous bastards who should minde their own business.

      When a person hires an employee, it should only matter that they will show up on time, do their job, and not cause problems in the workplace--like harrassing people because they don't follow a "one true religion" and such. And excluding someone from a job because they appear naked somewhere on the internet or even in pr0n, is doing exactly that. Beleiving it is wrong to be naked or have sex is a religious edict, nothing more. The manager who makes decisions based upon people's personal lives should not be hired. They are there to make the company run smoothly, not to try and enforce their moralistic beliefs on others.

      I used to live in a place where the majority was a particular religion. They would constantly complain about perceived wrongs against people of their faith, yet they would be prejudice against everyone else. And if you looked into where they were "wronged" you would find out the people attacking them were really just defending themselves or retailiating against some really evil thing the "one true followers" did. They got to the point where the military had to be called in, and they'll mention how the government sent troops, but they'll leave out the fact they murdered nearly a hundred people including smashing in the heads of babies. Do you think it is right to smash in the heads of babies just because they weren't born into the "one true religion"???

      If you didn't go to their church, they would not only refuse to be your friend, they would tell lies about you behind your back and do everything they could think of to screw you. They want to kill you, but they are afraid of the government, so they just do everything else they can think of. Just try holding down a job when after the wrong person/people find out you don't go to the "one true" church, they do everything they can think to either get you fired or make you quit. The others go along with it because they believe it is the right way to act, but they are to afraid to start things on their own.

    28. Re:Social Networking is a dangerous idea by ZahnRosen · · Score: 1

      1, I have no children, so this isn't a 'my daughter this' or 'my son that' post... 2, Every couple of months I see a couple of kids get involved in things that are illegal or immoral that is traced back to MySpace. I'm not picking on them for any other reason that 80% of social networking traffic is on their site. The Aol chat rooms were just as dangerous and in 5 more years MySpace will be gone and something else will be the most popular thing on the web. The danger is real, although a bit sensationalized. I just don't want to see any more kids in trouble when we know unsupervised time online due to parental neglect or lack of knowledge or whatever cause gives kids more freedom than they can handle. Sure, its 'harmless'. Until its your daughter in lingerie or your son who can't get a job... And thats before you start talking about the more serious types of trouble they can get into.

    29. Re:Social Networking is a dangerous idea by SatanicPuppy · · Score: 1

      Heh. So what's your point? That there is a vast conspiracy to keep myspace-related sexual assaults secret?

      This stuff is tremendously over-reported in tv media because it improves ratings, so a relatively few cases, which affect a tiny minority of users, have become this nationwide "cause for concern", and people want to buy into it because they like to believe that sexual predators are out there lurking in their vans with the tinted windows more than they like to believe the truth...that you're far far more likely as a child to be sexually assaulted by your dad than by a random stranger you meet on myspace.

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    30. Re:Social Networking is a dangerous idea by pbaer · · Score: 2, Insightful

      If you really wanted to get information about your stepson's myspace account go make a myspace account and pretend to be a hot girl close to his age. Then send a friend request. If he accepts you now have access to his myspace account. If he doesn't accept then maybe he is following your advice because he is rejecting a complete stranger.

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    31. Re:Social Networking is a dangerous idea by Marxist+Hacker+42 · · Score: 1

      As opposed to the horrible color sense of the average Your Rights Online Slashdot Page?

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    32. Re:Social Networking is a dangerous idea by VJ42 · · Score: 1

      Or perhaps you should do some actual parenting, rather than rely on a third party to do it for you. Here's a starter for you: talk to your kid about it directly, and discuss the issues. Maybe he'll give you access to his myspace profile without argument, and take down any inappropriate material; if not ban him from the internet for a week, and try again, if he still refuses to cooperate, ban him for two weeks, then three and so on.

      Disclaimer, I'm not myself a parent, but I am from a large extended family so I've seen a lot of parenting styles in action.

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    33. Re:Social Networking is a dangerous idea by krotkruton · · Score: 1
      You are assuming that just because there isn't a report about it, that something hasn't happened.
      You just missed the point and changed the subject. The original post by the grandparent said: The danger of sexual predators has been blown way the hell out of proportion... The key word there is "proportion". There is a lot of talk in the media about how social networking cites are filled with sexual predators and that it is exceptionally dangerous for kids, but there isn't any evidence to support that claim. The evidence is completely the opposite and shows that your kids have a better chance of being molested by someone that they know as opposed to someone they meet on MySpace (or other social networking cites, but I'll just refer to them all with MySpace).

      For the case of MySpace vs. People You Know, there are two good figures to look at: the number of sexual abuse victims abused by someone they know or someone on MySpace, and the percentage of sexually abused MySpace users versus the percentage of sexually abused people a country or other region (MySpace numbers might have to be sliced to get a certain region as well). You'll find that neither of these figures support the Media's view on Social Networking cites.

      (which is tough since your house is not the only portal to these places [libraries, schools, friends, etc...])

      I guess you'd like this law. Takes care of the problem that people have with their kids getting access to things at school... of course, it also prevents them from using a lot of useful sites (wikipedia can be lumped into that law). Instead of blocking information from your kids, it might be a better idea to teach them about what is right and wrong and how to act properly on such sites. People (that includes kids) always find ways to get to the other side of a wall.
    34. Re:Social Networking is a dangerous idea by jacksonj04 · · Score: 1

      Trouble is, the other emo teenagers think red on blue is showing some deep internal conflict and they must all rally round their partner-in-emoness immediately by adding them to their friends list.

      What amazes me even more than the emo kids is art students and graphic designers who have MySpace profiles with no sense of colour balance, contrast, tone, typefaces... if I can manage to get it non-painful without expert tuition how can the designers of the future with months of tuition not?

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    35. Re:Social Networking is a dangerous idea by WilliamSChips · · Score: 1

      I actually like the way Your Rights Online pages look. But MySpace pages make my eyes scream and beg for mercy.

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    36. Re:Social Networking is a dangerous idea by Marxist+Hacker+42 · · Score: 1

      For me, and it might just be due to my Asperger's syndrome, bright orange is not the best color in the world, no matter what. In fact, just about anything brighter than the forest green of the front page can trigger migraines.....

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    37. Re:Social Networking is a dangerous idea by bewareofblog · · Score: 1

      I am a parent of teens who use myspace and facebook. I do have access to their accounts and I routinely snoop. My rule is if you'd be embarrassed for me or any other parent to see it, don't post it. It's just good manners. And any kid whose parent raised him/her well should be aware of that. That's not to say they don't do it when they think I am not looking because they think they are secure to talk freely in their world of blogs. What concerns me more is the instant gratification mode we all live in and how fast trouble can brew and false rumors can fly because kids can respond quickly. There is no "cooling off" period or time to reflect before words become actions. Blogs, text, IM's cells allow kids to alert the masses faster than anyone can keep up or any parent can catch on. Instead of the day when you had to plan an underage beer party or ruin a girl's reputation by making phone call after phone call to reach friends on their family phone during appropriate hours (with a rotary dial and no private voicemail to expedite the process), today's kids have instant access at all times of the day and night. It's much sneakier and more sinister. There is not thought to the harm words can do. These kids are our future and they have not learned restraint. Add to that the stress of always being accessible ("I'm sleeping but text me anytime", "I'm at the 7:20 movie at Center St Cinemas with Tammy, Dave and Alisa, call me", "I'm in the shower getting ready for Janie's party but call me in 10 mins". Who really needs to know that I had spaghetti with clam sauce for dinner and that I'm soaking in a bathtub? Their lives have no mystery. The problems kids face today are not any different than problems we faced as teens....it's just they are facing it earlier and it's uglier and more intense because they can hide behind a screen instead of face to face which make us think twice. Mean girls still exist, drugs and alcohol are there to tempt them. Sex is still something that preoccupies every young man's mind and something good girls and bad girls do (just the "good" girls deny doing it and "bad" girls flaunt about it on myspace while their male counterparts do as well). There is no innocence at 12 any more.

    38. Re:Social Networking is a dangerous idea by timmarhy · · Score: 1

      your that hysterical idiot yelling WONT SOMEBODY PLEASE THINK OF THE CHILDREN aren't you? the internet doesn't need any safe guards, thats what parents are for. and once your in college, your an adult and if you post stupid shit on a myspace blog that gets you into trouble... welll welcome to being an adult and having to take responsibility for your actions.

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    39. Re:Social Networking is a dangerous idea by QuestionsNotAnswers · · Score: 1

      Unfortunately even with care, other people may leak YOUR private information. Even done anything stupid at a party that you would rather were not published?

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    40. Re:Social Networking is a dangerous idea by Crizp · · Score: 1

      Then don't keep a diary on your computer, use the good ol' pen and paper.

    41. Re:Social Networking is a dangerous idea by TapeCutter · · Score: 1

      "...means that everything we have told him he has pretty much thrown away and done the opposite"

      Having raised two children to adulthood I can tell you that this is what teenagers do. It is the way of life that your kids will challenge the status-quo after reaching puberty. There is a old saying that goes something like...

      "When I was 16 my parents knew nothing, now I am 21 they listen to me and I can't belive how much they have learnt in just five years".

      As for predators on the net, the overwhelming majority of kids are molested by trusted relatives and family friends.

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    42. Re:Social Networking is a dangerous idea by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      "The concern for privacy, however is much more real."

      Privacy is an illusion in a market society, every time you enter onto coproate private property or make a financial transaction at your local bank, or go online you are being watched and studied. All this data can be easily correlated to build a picture of who you are, what sex you are and partial half-truths about you and its only getting deeper and more accurate with time you spend in these places.. internet... electronic transactions, businesses you purchase from using electronic or that leave other trails. This has been going on for a long time with and without technology, google psychoanalysts and do some research on corporate marketing and its history. Corporations just have new tools and now unprecedented technology at their disposal to get rid of the last vestigal organs of privacy. The truth is governments and corporations have been spying on people since the dawn of civilization. Our modern technological development makes privacy in practice impossible to enforce. Camera phones, security cameras, etc. The only way to save your privacy would be to wage war on other peoples property (EMP, and other vandal behaviours).

      People really need to get a clue, go do some research on spy equipment, microphones, camera's, etc. Walmart uses their camera's to learn from theives and implement policies that prevent theft, they purposely allow theifs to steal and show them their tactics on purpose as the cost of learning about new methods and ways they are defrauded. But of course one could also argue that people or the so called 'consumer' was always being stolen from anyway by corporations through the enormous power and capital at their disposal that reinforces their power and ability to squeeze money out of people by taking advantage of their emotions through advertising, trigger words, and near universal religious symbolism... and the reason why I say religiou symbolism is because religion works the same way as modern marketing, through stories, emotionally loaded or loaded terms and phrases, symbols and association through building false images that tug and manipulate peoples emotions.

      i.e. just as you are more likely to trust someone who has the tittle "Dr." or "PHD" after the end of their name then you are to trust someone off the street, you are already under propagandistic influence of little rules you use to quickly judge things that may in fact underneath be totally irrational.

    43. Re:Social Networking is a dangerous idea by alib001 · · Score: 1
      ... if I can manage to get it non-painful without expert tuition how can the designers of the future with months of tuition not?

      They're playing Twister with their color wheels.

    44. Re:Social Networking is a dangerous idea by mabhatter654 · · Score: 1

      exactly, if you go to a wild party at spring break, some picture of you may still end up on somebody's myspace... don't think just because you didn't put it there, that you're not online.

    45. Re:Social Networking is a dangerous idea by dastardly_villain · · Score: 1
      They won't and they shouldn't have to.

      Your child's actions are his own, and if he's under a certain age, they may also be considered your responsibility by some parties. MySpace is simply providing a service that your child (in your mind) has abused. Hopefully he will not be abused by someone looking to take advantage of such naivety but please tell me where and how policing your child's actions becomes MySpace's responsibility instead of yours or your son's?

      The owners of MySpace *could* take it upon themselves to police the actions of children, if they so desired, but they should not be forced to.

    46. Re:Social Networking is a dangerous idea by Ultra64 · · Score: 1

      The owners of MySpace *could* take it upon themselves to police the actions of children...

      How? How could they possibly police the millions of profiles on myspace?

    47. Re:Social Networking is a dangerous idea by CaptPungent · · Score: 1

      As a parent of two, I hate parents like you. Oh, you don't trust your child, and so you fault everyone else but yourself? It's the big bad internet's fault, right? Take responsiblity for your own child and PARENT them. It's like those parents whose children are running about tearing things up on the street or harassing other kids or beating up homeless people, and the parent blame TV. No, perhaps YOU should have put some discipline in them from the start! My children aren't rude to other people because ever since they were little I reprimanded that behavior. My kids rarely lie because ever time they ever have I have punished them for it. My kids don't disrespect other people because...I think you get the point. Even if you think "it's their friends, they get around other kids and do this stuff", well why don't you try reprimanding THEIR FRIENDS when they do stupid behaviors around you? Some harsh words is all that is needed, and it shows your child that Dad trumps even their friends. They will consider the consequences of "what will Dad say if I do this?" every time they are away from you as a result. Every one of my son's friends become respectful in my presence. Try being a parent instead of expecting MySpace to do it for you.

      --
      C Pungent
    48. Re:Social Networking is a dangerous idea by dastardly_villain · · Score: 1

      I agree, it's absurd, but If they wanted to make it their burden to appease parents they could certainly try. That won't happen and it shouldn't in my opinion, as I explained to the parent.

    49. Re:Social Networking is a dangerous idea by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Paragraphs. Use them.

    50. Re:Social Networking is a dangerous idea by bewareofblog · · Score: 1

      Paragraphs, a novel idea! FYI...I did use them and there was obviously a formatting issue on this site. But thanks for your intelligent rebuttal.

  2. Keep in mind by denstark · · Score: 5, Insightful

    There is a difference between throwing your freedom away, and having it taken away against your own will.

    1. Re:Keep in mind by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1, Informative

      Perhaps, but privacy and freedom are not the same thing.

      Freedom concerns the ability to make choices and take action. Privacy concerns other people knowing things about you which you might not want them to.

    2. Re:Keep in mind by Potor · · Score: 3, Interesting

      That's true - unless social networking is being set up as a sort of honey trap encouraging people to compromise their futures. Hence, I would not stress this difference as a dichotomy - but rather as two moments of the same phenomenon.

      People are giving away their freedom within a now-corporate framework that encourages this kind of activity. Just remember that.

      As with fidelity/client cards, purchase-rewards, and fast-tracking at airports, the web 2.0 is training us to surrender our personal lives for the most meager of rewards. This kind of surrender almost seems propaedeutic for a greater, involuntary loss of privacy. But then again, Americans have already lost their freedom to credit reports.

    3. Re:Keep in mind by Potor · · Score: 2, Informative

      if knowledge is power, then there is only a theoretical difference between freedom and privacy. what people know about you severely affects your ability to act.

    4. Re:Keep in mind by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      What is powerful is unique to each individual and relies on what that individual empowers. Nothing is "power" in and of itself. The people who believe in and live by such ideals as "________ is power" are obviously suffering more from their own loss of em-Power-ment than any outside threats.

    5. Re:Keep in mind by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0
      There is a difference between throwing your freedom away, and having it taken away against your own will.


      Just for the record. Is that your personal opinion?

    6. Re:Keep in mind by Potor · · Score: 1

      Agreed, but I did not limit K to P. Knowledge can be power without exhausting the set of power. And anyway, technology is proof that power is at least knowledge, et vice versa.

    7. Re:Keep in mind by foniksonik · · Score: 1

      "propaedeutic" - nice word

      --
      A fool throws a stone into a well and a thousand sages can not remove it.
    8. Re:Keep in mind by Anonymous+Brave+Guy · · Score: 1

      There is a difference between throwing your freedom away, and having it taken away against your own will.

      Yes there is, but it isn't usually in the consequences of the loss.

      --
      If you disagree, post your argument. (-1, Overrated) isn't your personal censorship tool for views you don't like.
    9. Re:Keep in mind by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      "what people know about you severely affects your ability to act."

      That is an untruth. You can always act, regardless of knowledge aforethought. What it severely affects is your ability to act unpredicatably. It severely affects your ability to survive the chains of control and manipulation.

    10. Re:Keep in mind by Potor · · Score: 1

      You seemingly can't read. I said "affects," not stops or blocks. How this is an 'untruth' escapes me.

  3. It's true more and more are loosing privacy... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    but at the same time, more and more people losing that privacy are becoming more and more popular than they would have been any other way... Blogging, etc. makes Geeks today turn in to the popular cheerleeders and football players of yesteryear....Just as those cheerleeders could have lost a job opportunity by being the town slut, the bloggers can get in to hot water if they don't watch what they say and do all the time.

    1. Re:It's true more and more are loosing privacy... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0
      Blogging, etc. makes Geeks today turn in to the popular cheerleeders and football players of yesteryear.
      Only among other losers that don't count though.
  4. Anti-social. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    I advice us all to not be social.

    I HATE YOU ALL!!

  5. @Generation by TodMinuit · · Score: 1, Interesting

    To those born in the 1990s, the @ symbol is more familar than the dial tone. Gone is pen and paper, replaced with keyboards and pixels. Friendships are made via mathematical graphs instead of face-to-face contact. Teenagers no longer crave privacy, instead opting to publish their entire life in a blog. Small circles of friends now strech around the world. Graphical paradise has replaced your own backyard.

    Welcome to the @Generation.

    --
    I wonder if I use bold in my signature, people will notice my posts.
    1. Re:@Generation by gogodidi · · Score: 2, Interesting

      puh... close one, I was born in 1989... but seriously, a lot of my friends at school are pretty stuck in this social networking thing. One girl at school even flew to aberdeen to date someone she met over myspace... I am so glad I hate myspace... After reading a book called "crypto" by Steven Levy, and reading about Diffie and Zimmerman made me realize how precious privacy really is. I am not as private as I could be, I gave my website URL to slashdot, and on my website I have my real name somewhere, and on other websites I am not nearly as private as I should be, but I am not telling every schmoe out on the internet what I did last weekend.

      --
      ugh...
    2. Re:@Generation by silentounce · · Score: 2, Informative

      Kudos to being on slashdot at age 16-17, but please tell me that you're really some creepy old guy or a dog posing as a teenager. I don't think I can take the fact that some born in 1989 is posting on slashdot. And seriously, you should do everything you can to erase all links between your online persona and your real one. Have two, it's fun. You can be careful what you say with your real one, and do what you like with the other.

      On the internet, no one should know you're a teenager.

      --
      There are many tongues to talk, and but few heads to think. -Victor Hugo
    3. Re:@Generation by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      puh... close one, I was born in 1989... After reading a book called "crypto" by Steven Levy, and reading about Diffie and Zimmerman made me realize how precious privacy really is. ... I gave my website URL to slashdot, and on my website I have my real name somewhere, and on other websites I am not nearly as private as I should be, but I am not telling every schmoe out on the internet what I did last weekend.

      Thanks for sharing.

    4. Re:@Generation by It'sYerMam · · Score: 1

      I was the born the year after, but have been posting on slashdot for a a few years (I have been using linux for longer than that, and coding for longer still!)

      --
      im in ur .sig, writin ur memes.
    5. Re:@Generation by budgenator · · Score: 1

      On the internet, no one should know you're a teenager.
      and no one does, everyones who claims to be 18 is more likely 13, everyones who claims to be 21 is more likely to be 16, and everyone who claims to be 24 is more likely 48

      --
      Apocalypse Cancelled, Sorry, No Ticket Refunds
    6. Re:@Generation by LunaticTippy · · Score: 2, Funny

      You forgot one: anyone who claims to be 13 is an FBI agent.

      --
      Man, you really need that seminar!
    7. Re:@Generation by Eli+Gottlieb · · Score: 1

      I don't think I can take the fact that some born in 1989 is posting on slashdot. Learn to live with it. Born 1989.

      Have two, it's fun. I have three, possibly four if I forgot one. All the stuff I would want connected back to me goes to this one and another (which is roughly the same but with a different name on different sites).

      On the internet, no one should know you're a teenager. Pray tell, why? It might surprise you to learn that not all teenagers are fools.
    8. Re:@Generation by gogodidi · · Score: 1

      I mean.... Woof Woof.... Bark Bark *does shifty eye movement* Yeah, I get what you're typing though, Kids are scary, even myself, being a little toddler and all, I notice that there are little 13-15 year olds roaming the internet with their "RLY IMPORTANTXOR POSTS LOLS". Some people just don't know that the caps lock key is also the uncaps lock key. I have multiple persona, this one, another one, and.... yet another one. Also I'm almost 18 (I hear you shaking your head... "So what? That's still nowhere near 21") What I say in this persona (and the other, really safe one) is safe, as in it's nothing incriminating that could prevent me from being allowed access to a university... Not that I am involved in any activities that could make that a threat, but Its being safe. Being known as a teenager is kind of annoying, on another website, a 21 year old insulted me, at which point I insult his musical preference, and he said "No, your musical taste is sucks, youre just a little kid". His musical taste was somewhere along the lines of a miss Britney Spears...

      --
      ugh...
    9. Re:@Generation by silentounce · · Score: 1

      "Pray tell...."
       
      That was a play on this. A poor attempt at a joke I suppose. And I know teenagers aren't all fools. I never said that they were. I was one not too long ago.

      --
      There are many tongues to talk, and but few heads to think. -Victor Hugo
    10. Re:@Generation by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Here's your medal. Run along now.

    11. Re:@Generation by afedaken · · Score: 1

      A creepy old guy posting as a teenager is... well, creepy. But if he is *IS* in fact a dog posting to slashdot, it's impressive. Canine hackers are even more rare than teen females. So... ...pics or GTFO. :-)

      --
      If there's a castle floating upside down in the sky, then there's a castle floating upside down in the sky.
    12. Re:@Generation by OriginalArlen · · Score: 1
      ...give it seventeen years. Then check how you feel when someone born in 2006 is suddenly popping up in your favourite fora giving it all "this" with the well-constructed arguments and so forth. Believe me, kid, there's nothing like suddenly realising how old 37 really IS, to sober one up. It's ineffable, or more precisely, it's a moment that one has to experience personally to understand. I suddenly find all the stuff my parents tried to tell me coming out of my own mouth when I talk to my brother's kids... of course, they don't understand it any more than I did - or than you do.

      I mean... I went to college in 1988 (and I was 19, not 18.) OK, suddenly my old school friends are breeding rug rats and swapping stories about mortgages and endowments and the best way to avoid the A303 around Taunton... *shudder!* I'm doomed, doomed I tell 'ee!! Arrrrrr.

      --

      Everything I needed to know about life, I learnt from Blake's Seven
    13. Re:@Generation by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Age 18, Born in 1988, now in college.

      Now I'm getting off your lawn...

    14. Re:@Generation by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      you write for Wired, don't you?

    15. Re:@Generation by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      it's not so terrible. back in my day, girls would write fan letters to davy jones of the monkees and other such celebrity worship activities and drivel.

      now people are more into each other and celebrity worship is waning. that's a good thing.

  6. There's no there there by catfood · · Score: 3, Insightful

    News flash: If you say dumb things on the Internet, someone might notice.

    How this constitutes a hazard unique to "social networks" is neither explained nor hinted at.

    The article presents a non-issue wrapped in snark and hype.

    1. Re:There's no there there by phoenixwade · · Score: 1

      Although I agree the material isn't presented very well, it's not a "Non-issue"

      There are already a number of situations where enough personal information is presented on a MySpace or similar social networking site to use for identity theft.

      --
      A positive attitude may not solve all your problems, but it will annoy enough people to make it worth the effort.
    2. Re:There's no there there by catfood · · Score: 3, Insightful

      But it's not the "social networking" aspect that does it. The same sort of leakage can occur with a blog, on an ordinary personal page, or via a much-forwarded email message. The article doesn't say anything at all that would indicate a special risk inherent to social networking sites.

    3. Re:There's no there there by in10d · · Score: 1

      > News flash: If you say dumb things on the Internet, someone might notice.
      >
      > How this constitutes a hazard unique to "social networks" is neither explained
      > nor hinted at.

      Maybe it is not explained in the article, but both you and I, and many slashdot readers know why it is so.

      I can tell it in one sentence:

      Explosion of social web networking (think: blogs) makes content creators from people, who otherwise would never become authors.

    4. Re:There's no there there by plover · · Score: 1

      He hinted at it in TFA. Social networking sites "encourage" such behavior via peer pressure. "I gotta get a hundred people on my friends list!" or "I have to have more friends than Jane just to make her jealous." And one proven way to get people to notice you is to be more shocking on your page, via nudity, stunts or whatever.

      --
      John
    5. Re:There's no there there by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Old comments on USENET from a decade ago are already coming back to haunt politicians these days. I guarantee both the Republicans and Democrats are archiving all sorts of things off of the internet, just in case these bloggers and myspace users decide to run for office when they're older.

    6. Re:There's no there there by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0, Interesting

      The answer is simple. You edit your myspace/blog/whatever to fit your current view; don't keep old entries lying around, especially if you don't agree with what you once said or you've otherwise changed. If you're really afraid of the past coming back to haunt you, be just as smart as your perceived adversaries: post entries of apology explaining why what you said or did was wrong and make up for it now, while the apologetic entry is going to show up in logs just as old as the cache of whatever is so incriminating. Don't slack, write a whole essay about it. Put a copyright on it. Push the agenda.

      Don't fear the day when they drag up the old mud and you have to stand at a podium or in front of a press conference, or across the desk from your boss and say, "Yes! I said and did that -- I also made up for it. And if you look at the bigger picture, I'm a more valuable person overall, far outweighing the small blemish in my history this mudraker is flapping." Don't forget that you did what you did because you were confident in the fact that there world had supplied you with an environment and a situation in which your behaviour was acceptable to yourself and to others. If you see that window of opportunity shrinking, then congratulations -- you aren't the same person you were before; your perceptions have changed. Either that, or you were having a panic attack, watching your freedom erode while your person developed, and you experienced a frenzy of mad behaviour like a rat in a corner. Rat on yourself. But be confident in who you are, including who you were.

      Confidence is what drives markets, and if you want to market yourself effectively, you have to be confident in who you are. Loss of confidence is what's really driving down the economy in America, but information brokers are having a heyday. So if you don't find confidence in yourself, but you do have confidence in all of your demons, there's one other option: start storing information incriminating others in your blog or journal. Start being the one who keeps track of all the bad things people are doing. Rat on everybody else.

      If you're right about all this, then one day you'll have a fortune in greymail. Start with these comments in this forum. Track down all of these anecdotes about RL/OL gone awry, follow up on all of them, every bit, and seal it in seperate manila envelopes marked "do not open til doomsday". But don't forget the number one rule of blackmail: if you're not ashamed, you can't be had. And since we've all been informed for decades, now, that shame is caused by shaming and that shaming is a component of abusive homes, we should know better than to be ashamed of ourselves, and that shaming others is abusive.

      Extortion is far more worth worrying about than blackmail, but if you're afraid that just because you put your home address online, you're going to be made a target any more than if some psychotic walking down your street decides they don't like you because of the numbers on your door or the look of your vinyl siding, then what you're really talking about is some trend in dangerous psychotic people showing up in higher numbers online than in the everyday carbonspace world.

      If that's true, than that is the final and sole crux of the matter, and the question no longer lies anywhere in the realm of "information" or "privacy" but really becomes about psychiatric treatment and deprogramming. So don't let history's most primitive confidence scheme rule your life: either invest in commodities, or go see a shrink. Otherwise, bad people will continuing bad things.

    7. Re:There's no there there by khallow · · Score: 1

      I think that aspect is relevant. Not all forms of public information are equally well propagated. A google search probably would rank a blog page competitively with the equivalent "social network", but my take is that the social network pages have more modes of propagation and it's possible as other repliers have noted that there are synergistic effects. For example, you might become associated somehow with a group of less employable people (ie, "losers"). And emails aren't so easy to propagate over the internet. If you have to post on a high profile mailing list, it might rank well too, but most emails just don't get forwarded much. So I think that there is special risk associated with social network sites.

    8. Re:There's no there there by Fulcrum+of+Evil · · Score: 1

      The big deal is that stuff on the internet lives forever - pictures of naked, questionably adult women will be circulated until the sun explodes, and you can't really get rid of them either.

      --
      "We returned the General to El Salvador, or maybe Guatemala, it's difficult to tell from 10,000 feet"
    9. Re:There's no there there by Grishnakh · · Score: 1

      News flash: If you say dumb things on the Internet, someone might notice.

      This is why it's a good idea to use a pseudonym for online message boards like this.

      Even you and me, who have personal website addresses linked to our Slashdot IDs, still retain a decent amount of privacy since it'd take some work to find out what our real names are, and our Slashdot comments wouldn't simply appear in a Google search.

  7. Stupid is as stupid does by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    advising students that they risk lost job opportunities

    fear of sexual predators and other unsavoury types These are the reasons I decide to post anonymously at Slashdot. I think you can guess which one is my biggest concern.
    1. Re:Stupid is as stupid does by IkeTo · · Score: 2, Interesting

      > advising students that they risk lost job opportunities

      Strange. When I seek for jobs I worry much more about employers not knowing me enough rather than they know me too much. And no employer will be bored enough to actually read every message in your blog to find your "most silly moment" before he decides whether to hire you.

    2. Re:Stupid is as stupid does by unts · · Score: 1

      Hi, I'm the article's author.

      I see your point, but like I said in TFA, if somebody can write a script to seek out predators on myspace, so too can somebody write a script to profile somebody based on their social networking posting, saving them the trouble of reading the boring (i.e. most) bits.

    3. Re:Stupid is as stupid does by silentounce · · Score: 1

      "fear of sexual predators and other unsavoury types"

      Don't worry, CmdrTaco doesn't really have time to read comments anymore.

      --
      There are many tongues to talk, and but few heads to think. -Victor Hugo
    4. Re:Stupid is as stupid does by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      You're a sexual predator?

    5. Re:Stupid is as stupid does by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      That's disguisting.

      When was the last time you washed your asshole?

    6. Re:Stupid is as stupid does by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      > so too can somebody write a script to profile somebody
      > based on their social networking posting

      Or they could type your name into google, read that article and still conclude the author is a moron?

    7. Re:Stupid is as stupid does by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      "And no employer will be bored enough to actually read every message in your blog to find your "most silly moment" before he decides whether to hire you."
       
      Not true. I work in recruitment (my director prefers "talent acquisition") for a very large organization, and we will "skim" everything we can find easily. Granted, we're not going to waste a ton of time. If you have one ridiculous post, that's fine, but if you're like this guy... this isn't BS, he actually applied and listed himself as owner of simplyNOTRIGHT.com LLC in the employment history section of his app. And if you think the site isn't that incriminating, do a little digging.

    8. Re:Stupid is as stupid does by Artifakt · · Score: 1

      Before we even consider someone analyzing a poster's whole history, remember some of the people doing the analysis will be the sort who become one issue voters. What happens when an employer has access to a script that will take a list of job applicants and see which of them have ever posted anything relating to abortion, or the war in Iraq, or any political hot topic of the month? Then there are specific topics an employer is not supposed to broach with a prospective employee - how long before a script based exactly on that list is available to effectively bypass the law?
              I'm sure a lot of people on Slashdot don't agree with that law, but there's still a big difference between the general act of writing a script to look for certain connection between data points, and deliberately taloring that script to do an end run around the courts. Ultimately, this technology will lead to someone creating some more software with no purpose except to circumvent the law. If the government's response is the same as we have seen for file sharing, it won't surprise me, but if the government doesn't respond the same way that will gravely concern me.
              Worse, it's easier for the lazy minded to just sort the list for people who have made no comments on controversial subjects than to read enough comments to see if the person agrees with you. It becomes a great tool for getting more bland, 'I don't have any opinions unless you tell me to' people into higher positions.

      --
      Who is John Cabal?
    9. Re:Stupid is as stupid does by Technician · · Score: 1

      These are the reasons I decide to post anonymously at Slashdot.

      I just post under a nickname and don't post addresses, photos, etc. You may know me by Technician, but you would be hard pressed to associate to me at a local store. Hmm.. What town?

      --
      The truth shall set you free!
    10. Re:Stupid is as stupid does by CmdrSam · · Score: 1

      An employer who was willing to peer into your personal life and reject you based on that [i]before[/i] they hire you will no doubt be willing to do the same thing [i]after[/i] they hire you.

      So, all that you've gained by keeping your information off the internet is a job where your employer doesn't trust you, you don't trust them, and they're constantly trying to find your secrets against your will.

      Congratulations?

    11. Re:Stupid is as stupid does by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      looks pretty innocent to me... I'm just not seeing anything bad.

  8. Dire, I tell you, dire by MarkusQ · · Score: 5, Insightful

    While the consequences may be as dire as you claim, this is not certain. Even if true, it may still be rational for people to tell all on the web.

    In the mid nineties a friend of mine who was putting a game-theory heavy education to work as a top notch security consultant claimed that we had passed a phase boundary and that privacy was essentially dead. At which point he started "living publicly," doing things like making his daily schedule (in detail) available to the world, sending all his receipts (for everything) to the IRS,etc.

    When challenged on this rather odd behavior, and asked what he was trying to prove and to whom, he replied that he wasn't trying to prove anything to anyone except perhaps himself. His thinking was that having no privacy isn't nearly as bad as having no privacy and not coming to terms with that fact. He then walked us through a few cases (such as blackmail) and showed whywhen you were better off not getting in the bind of acting as if you had secrets when in fact others knew them.

    Perhaps the MySpace people are at least subconsciously reacting in the same way to the growing threats to our privacy--by getting it all out there, so if anyone tries to use it against them they are effectively immunized.

    --MarkusQ

    1. Re:Dire, I tell you, dire by PeeAitchPee · · Score: 1

      Perhaps the MySpace people are at least subconsciously reacting in the same way to the growing threats to our privacy--by getting it all out there, so if anyone tries to use it against them they are effectively immunized.

      Man, I wish I could agree with you, but I don't. The vast majority of MySpace "tell-all" users are either a) stupid kids who don't know any better and don't realize there are long-term (permanent) rammifications of what they post when they're 13 or b) stupid adults who *should* know better but don't, and get busted after someone finds their near-nekkid weekend party pics etc. MySpace has made having a personal website accessible to the unwashed masses, and the unwashed masses don't even understand the Internet well enough to realize that maybe, well, showing *everything* to *everyone* can be a bad thing sometimes.

    2. Re:Dire, I tell you, dire by gad_zuki! · · Score: 1

      >Perhaps the MySpace people are at least subconsciously reacting in the same way to the growing threats to our privacy--by getting it all out there, so if anyone tries to use it against them they are effectively immunized.

      Umm no. They're just trolling for booty.

    3. Re:Dire, I tell you, dire by neimon · · Score: 1

      Here's the thing: No one tells kids that someone they don't expect will be looking at their online personna, judging them, and denying them employment. This is done in secret.

      Telling them that "duuh, nothing you do is private" isn't the same as "hey, there are people looking for reasons to exclude you, and there always will be. Conform externally, shut up, and take it like a man/woman/both." The consequences aren't real enough of they're

      a) hidden
      b) not for n years

      This is a reason why, for example, healthcare is a mess: The consequences of denying treatment may not show up for decades, long after insurance companies are gone. It's not a free market if the back end of the loop is in 2045.

      The consequences for "bad" behavior are unfair if there is no way for the person to know that might happen. How can anyone know what some search firm is going to judge us on next when they won't tell us?

      What's next? Phrenology?

    4. Re:Dire, I tell you, dire by urmjbud · · Score: 1

      "Living publicly" - I love it! One of my core ideas about humanity is that we profit collectively by the exchange of information/experience/etc., and that the profit depends on the quality (truth, accuracy, detail, etc.) of the information. Your friend's experiment raises some great questions - why should there be secrets? What are people hiding and why? If they're hiding from other people's biases, let's fix the biases, not hide from them. And so on... If the web and/or corporations are forcing us to express the truth of our lives (and didn't we cross the whole "public/private life" false dichotomy years ago?), or simply capturing it when we do, I dare say that's a good thing, even if the motivation behind it isn't.

  9. I always tell everyone by Sycraft-fu · · Score: 2, Insightful

    When posting something online about yourself consider is it something you'd want your mom, your boss, or a sex offender to know about. Why? Because all three of those will have access to it. If the answer is no in any case, then don't post it. Don't assume that they aren't savvy enough, Google has lowered the barrier so almost anyone can find what they want. Don't rely on technical protections of sites either, especially sites explicitly designed for sharing information.

    The web is public, that's just how it goes. Don't put personal information on it that you don't want the public to see, and yes your mom is part of the public.

    1. Re:I always tell everyone by Snorklefish · · Score: 3, Insightful

      I work for the courts (OMG IAAFL). It is understood that judges live under the spotlight. To avoid the risks created by the spotlight, the rule judges live by is to say nothing they wouldn't mind seeing on the front page of the newspaper... too many "private" conservations have created the downfall of too many judges and politicians. The thing about the internet... is that you never know when lighting will strike and make YOU the target of public interest.

    2. Re:I always tell everyone by SatanicPuppy · · Score: 1

      I think that's a pretty good rule for anyone, though I can see why it's doubly so for judges and politicians...You never know when that one, off-the-cuff remark will be picked up out of context and trumpeted as proof that you're biased against

      --
      ad logicam Claiming a proposition is false because it was presented as the conclusion of a fallacious argument.
    3. Re:I always tell everyone by Kjella · · Score: 1

      When posting something online about yourself consider is it something you'd want your mom, your boss, or a sex offender to know about.

      The thing is, we don't live our lives in SCIFs (Sensitive Compartmented Information Facility) and most of the real compromises happen when artifial barriers you've built up are broken down. Yes, I have a "slashdot id" which is different from my real id, but it's not like friends and such don't know about it, it's not like it's a deep personal secret. And if you compile everything I've ever said about life, education, work etc. on slashdot perhaps even the other way around.

      Throw in some bloggers writing about me (I don't blog) and maybe you can hook up me (find some "official" photo somewhere) with this vid you found on YouTube. Or just all the times I've been playing devil's advocate or just tried to argue a position just for kicks (or semi-trolling) without ACing, I doubt an excellent karma will keep anyone from present me like a psycho dirtbag. Same goes for my IRC logs (I know a friend of mine has ~10 years of logs now) or if you get into my email account and hooked up all my purchase confirmations, memberships etc. etc.

      The point is, we have all these bits and pieces of our lives, but we won't and can't and shouldn't keep them compartmentalized like that, it just doesn't work. It's fine to say "I don't mix business and pleasure" but it's not a crime to have a beer with a colleague. All of it is really security by obscurity but for the most part, that's good enough. But just because it's not up to military protocol, doesn't mean I'd like someone to compile it all up and show my mom or boss.

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    4. Re:I always tell everyone by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      When posting something online about yourself consider is it something you'd want your mom, your boss, or a sex offender to know about. Why? Because all three of those will have access to it.

      You could be right, those 3 types of people are regularly found on 4Chan

    5. Re:I always tell everyone by Samrobb · · Score: 1
      You never know when that one, off-the-cuff remark will be picked up out of context...

      And the answer is: "As soon as it is politically profitable".

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    6. Re:I always tell everyone by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      >>When posting something online about yourself consider is it something you'd want your mom, your boss, or a sex offender to know about. Why? Because all three of those will have access to it.

      >You could be right, those 3 types of people are regularly found on 4Chan

      Only if your boss and your mom are twenty-something otakus.

    7. Re:I always tell everyone by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      This thread seems to've taken up arms to discuss the "boss" and "sex offender" parts of this, while largely ignoring the "mom". I've always been most concerned about that end of the question, and even more about people one knows who are outside the intended audience. I think that's where being careful tends to break down. People seem more likely to think about the consequences of someone they don't know reading their posts, or someone they know quite well reading them, but they forget about me.
      A lot of the things kids post on the internet are the sort of thing they might have written in math class and passed around. The assumption is that the only people who care enough to read them are the people who might have been in that math class. Perhaps even complete strangers, and who cares about that. I'd even say it's usually pretty easy to determine whether there's much chance of mom reading it, or at least whether she has. Your friend's mom, on the other hand... maybe that young-ish new chemistry teacher? Your friend's older sister - that's me. These are the forgotten readers.
      I collect instant messanger screen names. I read your away messages. I read your profile. I collect those screen names you quote and figure out whether I know them, too. Then I add them and begin again. I even got some the honest way, from friends-of-sister seeking homework help. Guess how many had blogs? Guess whose blogs I read? And I was mortified. Because I saw myself, at that age, only instead of sharing those adolescent poems with peers, keeping them in my notebook and passing them around, there they were for all to see. For me to see.
      Even my friends' blogs started to seem odd. There they were, ranting away, sharing details of their lives we probably never would have discussed. I felt like a peeping Tom.
      I stopped reading the blogs of people I knew. I felt much better.
      I remain convinced that there are things you don't want the world to know, and not necessarily because they are bad, or because they will hurt you in any serious way, but simply because they are private. Because they belong to the trajectory of your personal growth, an ephemeral thing which should be allowed to vanish, rather than archived.
      This is what young internet artists need to stop and consider.

      (I still read your away messages.)

  10. A bunch of dumb exhibitionists get exposed. by Unknown+Poltroon · · Score: 2, Insightful

    So what? Cry me a river, but how stupid do you have to be to put up embarrassing personal info and pictures damaging to your reputation, and then be surprised when they are used to be embarrassing and damaging?
    I had a friend who put up a simple myspace page, and thought it was anonymous, and was shocked when using just the nick and e-mail she had, i was able to trace it through other pages to get her home address and phone number. Took 3 minutes. People don't think. And no amount of legislation or news stories will change that.

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    1. Re:A bunch of dumb exhibitionists get exposed. by MoonFog · · Score: 1

      Kids and teenagers have done stupid things througout every generation. They are simply incapable of seeing the consequences of their actions, whether it's driving way too fast on narrow roads ("there are never any other cars here") or if it's giving every info on their life to anyone who's willing to "listen" on the internet. This is nothing new is it? It's just a different approach that parents have to understand and inform.

    2. Re:A bunch of dumb exhibitionists get exposed. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Indeed, perhaps I should never post my email ehh?

      Or at least my university email. Said email can be searched at said university and reveals information including my home address, dorm address, and their respective phone #s. It's probably not just my university either.

      I suppose I could have prevented this by not going to college, but that seems a bit extreme.

    3. Re:A bunch of dumb exhibitionists get exposed. by barzok · · Score: 1

      They don't even need myspace. A few years ago we were weeding through resumes of college kids who wanted to interview with us, and many had URLs for their university webspace on them. We checked a couple out, and one of them had drunken pictures of the "candidate" front & center.

      Helped us narrow things pretty easily.

    4. Re:A bunch of dumb exhibitionists get exposed. by Nimey · · Score: 1

      On one hand, there's no guarantee that what people do on their own time affects what they do at work.

      On the other hand, what kind of utter fucking moron would do a thing like that? FFS, set up a separate page you give to potential employers.

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      E pluribus sanguinem
    5. Re:A bunch of dumb exhibitionists get exposed. by barzok · · Score: 1
      On one hand, there's no guarantee that what people do on their own time affects what they do at work.
      Yes, you are quite right. What you do on your own time is your business, and as long as it doesn't bleed into the office, you're free to do it.
      FFS, set up a separate page you give to potential employers.
      Exactly. I consider this a "moron filter" - if you're applying for a web developer position, you should expect that someone will be looking at any URL that you put on your resume. This is not a first impression you want to make. It's akin to telling a story that starts with "I was soooo wasted" right in the interview.
    6. Re:A bunch of dumb exhibitionists get exposed. by dangitman · · Score: 1

      On the other hand, what kind of utter fucking moron would do a thing like that?

      The type that thinks of drunkeness as a badge of honor, as a sign of being an adult. Frat boys, basically. That kind of moron.

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    7. Re:A bunch of dumb exhibitionists get exposed. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      We checked a couple out, and one of them had drunken pictures of the "candidate" front & center. Helped us narrow things pretty easily.

      So I presume you avoided hiring joyless puritanical wowsers and hired someone able to graduate from college, having mastered the work/life balance?
    8. Re:A bunch of dumb exhibitionists get exposed. by Unknown+Poltroon · · Score: 1

      Actually, i had that happen. WEll, i didnt say it, but one of the guys i was interviewing with asked "do you drink?" AS in youll be insane to take this job if you dont.

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  11. old ... by eneville · · Score: 1

    in California you can always find social network, in Soviet Russia socialist find you!!

    1. Re:old ... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      In Soviet Russia they shoot you for these jokes... then charge your family for the bullet...

      Ahh, the good ol' days........

    2. Re:old ... by caffeinemessiah · · Score: 1

      that is TERRIBLE. It should have been: "In soviet russia, social network find you!"

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    3. Re:old ... by eneville · · Score: 1

      that is TERRIBLE.It should have been: "In soviet russia, social network find you!" i've tried to get the joke right for about the last 6 postings on other threads. i really suck at this joke.
  12. so? by Lord+Ender · · Score: 3, Insightful

    One of the benefits of having a more open and honest society will be the acceptance of practices most people do but few admit to doing. In this respect, social networks mean social progress.

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    1. Re:so? by petes_PoV · · Score: 1
      ahhh, the idealist!

      That's a very fine sentiment my friend. But just wait until you get rejected from a plum job because of something you posted after a couple of beers several years before (and had probably forgotten about).

      On the upside, I can see a whole new industry (apart from blackmail) emerging from the need for individuals with aspirations to have their murky/ill-considered online postings tidied up or "lost"

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    2. Re:so? by bohemian72 · · Score: 2, Funny

      Mr Kinsey? It's nice to know you're still around and kicking.

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    3. Re:so? by Lord+Ender · · Score: 3, Interesting

      The generation that went to college in the era of Facebook/Myspace already expects to be able to find drunken ramblings and absurd photos of themselves and their friends online. This generation thinks less of a person who has a web presence that indicates no social life. Who wants to work with a boring person? Once these people are in charge of hiring (another 10-15 years) this won't be seen as a bad thing for many companies.

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      A slashdotter who didn't build his own computer is like a Jedi who didn't build his own lightsaber.
    4. Re:so? by Fulcrum+of+Evil · · Score: 2, Interesting

      If they care that much about me being a sarcastic ass on usenet in college, maybe it's not my kind of job, is it?

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    5. Re:so? by bconway · · Score: 1

      No, but it's nice to have options.

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    6. Re:so? by dangitman · · Score: 1

      This generation thinks less of a person who has a web presence that indicates no social life.

      That's a pretty stupid way for them to think. It's perfectly possible to have an active and fun social life, without being self-centered enough to want to document it on the web. It also raises the question - if you are really having so much fun, then why are you devoting such an inordinate amount of time to documenting it, rather than just living it?

      Remember that old saying about the 60s/70s? "If you can remember it, you weren't there." Has that been reversed to "If it's not on MySpace or Flickr, it never happened"?

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    7. Re:so? by Lord+Ender · · Score: 1

      Obviously, you don't know how these things work. OTHER PEOPLE put pictures online, then they tag you as being in the picture. You don't have to document your social life for it to appear online, other people do it for you.

      Also, if you think of socializing on the internet as "documenting your social life," you already miss the point. Using websites to chat, share photos, and organize parties is just one of the many ways social people do social things.

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    8. Re:so? by dangitman · · Score: 1

      Actually, I was responding to a post which was specifically talking asbout someone having a drunken picture of himaelf on his own home page. So, obviously, this person did take the time to document his own social life.

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  13. It's a simple principle by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    People forget that if they put something online for their friends to read, other people can also read it.

    A perfect example of this is my wife (soon to be ex-wife). About 7 months ago, she decided that she really didn't want to be married anymore, and that she would be moving back to her parents' house. As she expressed it to me, she just wasn't "attracted" to me anymore.

    Well, about a month ago, my sister called me up and said that she found my wife's MySpace page (no, I won't link to it here), and that she listed herself as a lesbian there. Now, my wife had told me years ago (before we got engaged) that she was bisexual, and so it was no surprise. At that time, I had promised not to tell anyone about it (a promise that I kept). In the course of going to file our divorce papers (just waiting for the hearing to make it final), I mentioned to her that my sister saw her MySpace page, and my wife was surprised at it. (As a result, she released my from my promise, but I'm still posting this anonymously.)

    It simply hadn't occurred to her that someone outside of her circle of online friends would actually look up her MySpace page. She didn't even try to hide it (her normal email, used her real maiden name, the user ID was one of her usual online nicknames, etc)!

    People just don't seem to grasp the full ramifications of all this "neato" technology.

    1. Re:It's a simple principle by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Sounds like you're making this too easy. Now that you're free from your non-disclosure promise, tell the divorce court that you only married her on the promise of threesome action.

    2. Re:It's a simple principle by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Why would I do that? As it is, I've worked very hard to keep the divorce amicable, and I intend to continue doing that.

      It does me no good to try and make it any messier than it already is. It won't make me happy, it won't make her happy, and I don't need "revenge" for the breakup of my marriage. I knew what I was getting into when I married her.

      Besides, I made a commitment to her when I got married that I would only share my bed with her, and vice versa. I married her because I loved her and wanted to spend the rest of my life with her, not because I wanted a threesome or anything like that.

    3. Re:It's a simple principle by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Well, there's your problem right there.

      If you'd gone for the threesome, you would probably still be married today.

      WHAT WERE YOU THINKING, MAN??!!!???

  14. Which is more dangerous? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Which is more dangerous; the measures by which we "lose" our "privacy", or the people who care about the content of our blogs/lives? The argument that we have to be absolutely status-quo when in view of any camera/search engine/profiler I think is more dangerous than the perceived demons. It's funny how people who are paranoid of losing their "privacy" are really losing it every day, whether they're giving it away or it's being taken, but instead of realising that whatever you would like to do or say or think or feel is more important than the demands made on your experiences by some other person, they go into a panic mode and start putting the muscle behind the "Big Brother", telling people to "behave themselves". That makes them nothing but the jackbooted intellects of the fascist ideals they are anti-promoting. And as for
    "privacy", I always hear the same thing about "a little liberty" shed for "a little security", but few people today have even pinpointed on their own whether their "privacy" is liberty or security. Saying "a little bit of both" is a cop-out, when the matter is up for judgement.

  15. This is bullshit. by entrigant · · Score: 5, Interesting

    Erosion of privacy is when personal details about your life are taken from you. It's when police chiefs talk about tapping everyones home or looking up library records without a warrant. If I willfully give away information about myself then I never did consider it very private then, did I? This crap about lost opportunities, while perhaps partially true in today's freakishly religious climate, will not be such an issue as these things become more common. This is absolute proof that the minority voice controls the world. Damn near everyone has to lie about who they are because they're afraid everyone else lives some higher "moral" standard and will look down on them. This is simply not true. Even the noisy types who push this false sense of morality on us hardly practice what they preach. As a global community develops and communication with the entire world becomes simple and cheap the world will shift as knowledge becomes free. You will no longer have to worry about losing your job because there is a picture of you with a joint on someones myspace page or your hair is dyed neon blue. The transition period will not be smooth, but I welcome the day. All this article does is beg us to continue living in fear of some invisible and nonexistent moral majority. I, for one, refuse.

    It is already happening. The company I work for was founded by two young entrepreneurs that grew up in the age where knowledge was free and they learned that masturbation won't cause hair to grow on your hands or your dick to fall off. They learned that the D.A.R.E. cop that told them the story of the young man who died from ONE hit from a joint was LYING. They realized that nobody else they grew up with believed this horseshit anymore either. They only care about your skill and your work ethic. As the younger generations start to take back this world it will become a better place to live because of the global community and available, simple worldwide communication.

    Do not fear it. Embrace it.

    1. Re:This is bullshit. by aliquis · · Score: 1

      I agree with you that I don't consider much private. I'm very open in forums and in private messages to unknown people (even thought that isn't open to everyone, but it's still pretty much information for being to an anonymous unkown receiver), but I don't give a shit. It's my life, thoughts, ideas, arguments and so on, take it or leave it. If you don't like it? Fine.

      21500 hits on google for the combination of my nick name and the forum I visit the most.
      1430 for the combination of my irc nickname and the word irc.
      1310 hits on my name.

      Go figure =P, information wants to be free ;)

    2. Re:This is bullshit. by Mahler · · Score: 2, Insightful
      As the younger generations start to take back this world it will become a better place to live...

      This statement has been proven wrong so many times. The people frmo younger generations think they can do it so much better, but in the end the are still human and most of them lose their ideals when they get families and things are getting tough. And it will get tough one day... and the change of heart then seems to help them out in so many other fields that they'd rather not be so idealistic anymore, but rather take care of their families.

      I just believe that the evolution of mankind isn't going so fast, that humans become completely different beings in just a few generations. And as long as we are human, we will be freakishly religious... even the ones that think they are not (they just don't see it, because it all seems so normal to think like that)
    3. Re:This is bullshit. by zettabyte · · Score: 2, Insightful
      As the younger generations start to take back this world it will become a better place to live because of...

      Yeah, because the WWII generation certainly didn't step up help the world, and those hippie civil rights activists (in the US) didn't do nothin' fer nobody.

      In case you didn't know, every younger generation has all the answers to fix all the problems of the world. Generation Noobs, your generation, is apparently going to fix the problems with torrents, blogs, and 2 minute videos.

      Personally, as a Gen-X-er, I'm happy with being disenfranchised and disillusioned.

    4. Re:This is bullshit. by entrigant · · Score: 1

      This emerging generation has one thing all of the others did not have, however, and the changes it is bringing to the world are already noteworthy for such an early stage. That is ubiquitous world-wide cheap communication. Communication has always been responsible for significant large scale changes in societies, and never before has such a level of communication been achieved. From wikipedia to the rise of the blog to the formation of a unique internet culture, and this is only the beginning.

      Besides the point about morality has nothing to do with idealism. Being tolerent is not being an idealist. It takes more work to be in-tolerent and fundamentalist. It's much easier to say "whatever, I don't care if you are gay" than it is to fight tooth and nail to pass legislation to ban it because of some "higher order" you think you are following.

    5. Re:This is bullshit. by jafac · · Score: 1

      Yeah, that would be nice and all.

      But it does not matter that those who claim a "higher moral standard" are hypocrites.

      That "higher moral standard" is used as a weapon to control others, through fear.

      You can share all the details of your life. Your arrest record. Your past indiscretions. Your National Guard records. Your life is an open book, and you can be judged. Those who would compare their "moral" life to your immoral life, will not return the favor. The power they wield is tied up in the fact that they have privacy, and you do not.

      If you disagree with them, or challenge them, or question them, your indiscretions will be on the 6 o'clock news, and your character and credibility called into question. Whether you've ever done anything or not. We can be certain that they have (done things). But the evidence won't be shared. And that won't be what the news commenter will be talking about.

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    6. Re:This is bullshit. by dangitman · · Score: 2, Interesting

      The company I work for was founded by two young entrepreneurs that grew up in the age where knowledge was free and they learned that masturbation won't cause hair to grow on your hands or your dick to fall off. They learned that the D.A.R.E. cop that told them the story of the young man who died from ONE hit from a joint was LYING. They realized that nobody else they grew up with believed this horseshit anymore either. They only care about your skill and your work ethic. As the younger generations start to take back this world it will become a better place to live because of the global community and available, simple worldwide communication.

      I dunno. The guys you are talking about probably grew up in the 60s or 70s, when idealism was very strong. This current generation of young people is scarily conservative, but even worse, they seem to be corporate whores. I wouldn't expect many of them to rock the boat in substantial ways. Sure, they may have their dyed hair, tattoos and their genital piercings, but that's just the new conformity - it doesn't demonstrate actual rebellion or subversion. Even those idealists from the 70s sold themselves out pretty quickly. I think much of the younger generation is already sold out - they just stick to the corporate-accepted level of "flair" and naughty behavior they are allowed as long as they keep buying the products.

      As an example, you mention drugs. When I was using marijuana, we protested for legalization, we had organizations to promote the truth about drugs. I don't see many kids doing that now. Instead of pushing to change the laws, they know they can get away with it if they are discreet with their usage or know the right people. In many ways it is regaining its "taboo" status, and is consumed with a wink and a nod, not in proud defiance.

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    7. Re:This is bullshit. by edunbar93 · · Score: 1

      but in the end the are still human and most of them lose their ideals when they get families and things are getting tough.
      [...]
      And as long as we are human, we will be freakishly religious... even the ones that think they are not (they just don't see it, because it all seems so normal to think like that)


      Hi, I'm an Atheist. My wife is an Atheist. In the past month and a half, we moved into a new townhouse and had our first child. That's a ton of stress all at once. Nevermind the credit card bill. I suppose it could be worse inasmuch that we have the income to pay for it all.

      No, we're not getting freakishly religious. In fact, we're not getting religious at all. Funny that how changes in your life don't change your base personality.

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    8. Re:This is bullshit. by edunbar93 · · Score: 1

      I was about to say something about this, but you did it so much better.

      The fact of the matter is that being gay (among other things) is no longer the sort of thing that will lose you your job. If it is, then it's probably a good thing that you don't work for bigoted assheads like that anymore.

      The same legal protection afforded GLBT folks also protects those with other "alternative" lifestyles. As it becomes obvious to society that what we do in our bedrooms isn't really all that weird and that *lots* of people do that sort of thing, then keeping it private won't be so very important anymore.

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    9. Re:This is bullshit. by rohan972 · · Score: 1

      This is absolute proof that the minority voice controls the world.

      All this article does is beg us to continue living in fear of some invisible and nonexistent moral majority.


      The "moral majority" religious in USA are neither a minority nor nonexistant. The question "How important would you say religion is in your own life: very important, fairly important, or not very important?" got 55% very important, 29% fairly important.

    10. Re:This is bullshit. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Hmmm, very interesting numbers, so religion is very important for 55%, but only 28% go to church each week.
      That makes at least 27% of all Americans hypocrites or liars. Interesting indeed....

    11. Re:This is bullshit. by entrigant · · Score: 1

      This suffers from the same problems, however. The numbers will be inflated because there is still a huge pressure on people to put on a front because of the worry that their views are not shared. I freely admit to having no polls or studies to present, but I do not believe a reliable measure can be made of this sort of thing because of its very nature. I meet new people all the time, and once you take the time to get past the facade and they start to open up to what the really believe the world is an incredibly liberal place. There are still the bigots and the racists, but they suffer from a different problem than fundamentalist religion based morality presents. However I believe there is some overlap. For example, the gay hater who does what he does out of fear that he might be one. Why does he fear it? The answer to that question is obvious. The gaining popularity of willfull and selective public living facilitated by cheap and easy global communication will slowly erode the global social facade that anyone who is paying attention sees every day they interact with the world. As it becomes more and more acceptable to have public ideas that go against the grain the world will have no choice but to accept what it really is. Humanity is growing up, and it is time we learn who we are.

    12. Re:This is bullshit. by entrigant · · Score: 1

      I understand your point of view, but the marijuana legalization movement is stronger now than it ever has been. It's come to state law enforcement facing off with federal law enforcement with guns drawn. The fight has moved out of the streets and into the halls of power. It is no longer as visible, but it is more powerful. The people are slowly starting to learn that action is better than complaining, and they are slowly but surely beginning to prove it with their votes, and not with a hand painted sign dancing in the streets.

    13. Re:This is bullshit. by rohan972 · · Score: 1

      Hmmm, very interesting numbers, so religion is very important for 55%, but only 28% go to church each week. That makes at least 27% of all Americans hypocrites or liars. Interesting indeed....

      Perhaps you need to consider a bit further

      At Least Once a Week - 28%
      Almost Every Week - 14%
      About Once a Month -14%
      Total attending church once a month or more 56%


      Or perhaps many people who regard monthly church attendance to be sufficient for their very important religion.

    14. Re:This is bullshit. by rohan972 · · Score: 1

      I freely admit to having no polls or studies to present, but I do not believe a reliable measure can be made of this sort of thing because of its very nature.

      Am I to take it you're a man of faith?

      Hebrews 11:1 ...faith is the substance of things hoped for, the evidence of things not seen.

      Just joking! Still, it's a stretch to say that because you meet a lot of liberals that the "moral majority" is either a minority or nonexistant.

    15. Re:This is bullshit. by dangitman · · Score: 1

      The people are slowly starting to learn that action is better than complaining, and they are slowly but surely beginning to prove it with their votes, and not with a hand painted sign dancing in the streets.

      Marijuana protests were not just dancing in the streeat with signs. How the hell do you think it got to this point? Because protesters initiated action, and got the science on our side. It's pretty ignorant to think that people speaking out back in the day did not have an effect, and that there's no point to protest. And by the way, protest is not "complaining."

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    16. Re:This is bullshit. by entrigant · · Score: 1

      They initiated action? They didn't vote. You think people protesting a few decades ago is responsible for action happening this decade? Pot smoking scientists got the science on our side. Scientists did what they always do. They saw false science and debunked it. The other problem was the hippie mentality of separating themselves from the world. Marijuana isn't as taboo now as it was back then because everyone, and I mean everyone, knows a pot smoker that is a productive and normal member of society, and also, to further my original point, because people are more open about it.

      I honestly do not mean to trample over their efforts. Their hearts were in the right place. I also do not mean to imply that protesting is worthless, but it becomes much more effective if the protesters are voters as well. I strongly believe in the right to protest and respect those that take time out of their lives to do it.

    17. Re:This is bullshit. by entrigant · · Score: 1

      Oh, and I agree 100% But I do believe it. I feel it. The information age is as unstoppable as the industrial age, and its effects will be just as profound. Even if the polls show otherwise currently, I explained my reasons for not taking them too seriously. Another poster mentioned comparing how many people say religion plays a serious role in their lives to those that go to church every sunday, or twice a week for that matter. Politicians feel the need to fake religion for the very same reason people feel the need to lie about it to pollsters or even their own family. The civilized world is so use to religion being here that we cannot seem to figure out that it isn't wanted anymore. "God is dead", and the sooner we understand what this means, the better off we'll be. Because without a desire for religion the existence of religion becomes corrupt.

    18. Re:This is bullshit. by dangitman · · Score: 1

      They initiated action? They didn't vote.

      What? Who didn't vote? I certainly voted, as did many of my pot-supporting friends.

      You think people protesting a few decades ago is responsible for action happening this decade?

      No, I'm talking about stuff 10-15 years ago.

      Scientists did what they always do. They saw false science and debunked it. The other problem was the hippie mentality of separating themselves from the world. Marijuana isn't as taboo now as it was back then because everyone, and I mean everyone, knows a pot smoker that is a productive and normal member of society,

      Which is exactly the shit I'm talking about. Scientists are not particularly good at effecting political or social change. It doesn't matter what scientists say, if popular opinion is against the facts. If it wasn't for people like my friends in the legalization movement, it would be much harder. They dispelled myths. Your average mother isn't looking at scientific journals - but if her son has the courage and honesty to tell the truth - that's what makes all the difference in political/social acceptance.

      and also, to further my original point, because people are more open about it.

      But I don't think that is accurate. people are getting much more closed about it, it's becoming a taboo again. Or at least something that is discussed with a nod and a wink. People were much more open about it 10-15 years ago. And there's less understanding among users about the drugs they are using. Old myths are rearing their heads again, when they should have stayed debunked.

      If anything, marijuana has become more of a taboo in our society of hyper-consumerism and overwork - because it's a more "sleepy" drug than say cocaine or speed.

      Their hearts were in the right place. I also do not mean to imply that protesting is worthless, but it becomes much more effective if the protesters are voters as well.

      Pretty much every protester I know votes, so I'm not sure who you are talking about here.

      --
      ... and then they built the supercollider.
    19. Re:This is bullshit. by rohan972 · · Score: 1

      Oh, and I agree 100% But I do believe it. I feel it.

      Feelings are not valuable tools for determining objective reality.

      The information age is as unstoppable as the industrial age, and its effects will be just as profound.

      Yes, possibly even more profound effects, but the industrial age did not remove religion and it doesn't seem likely to me that the information age will either. There are plenty of religious people using the internet.

      Even if the polls show otherwise currently, I explained my reasons for not taking them too seriously.

      You said there is a huge pressure on people to put on a front because of the worry that their views are not shared. In a poll taken anonymously, I don't think this is likely to have a large effect. Sounds more like wishful thinking. You also said something to the effect of "I meet a lot of liberals". Speak to a homosexual, they likely meet a lot of homosexuals, speak to a Christian, they likely meet a lot of Christians, speak to a Muslim, they likely meet a lot of Muslims, speak to a pot smoker, they likely meet a lot of pot smokers. Your impression that most of the people you meet share your views probably has a lot more to do with what you're tuned into and where you sociallize than anything else. Buy a different model of car, you'll be surprised how many of them you start to see.

      The gaining popularity of willfull and selective public living facilitated by cheap and easy global communication will slowly erode the global social facade that anyone who is paying attention sees every day they interact with the world.

      Joh Bjelke Petersen, is that you?

      we cannot seem to figure out that it isn't wanted anymore.

      If people haven't figured out that religion isn't wanted, that would mean it still is wanted. Unless of course people think they want religion, but you know they really don't. People don't really know what they want, they need YOU to tell them! I can see why this appeals to you, but no thanks.

      "God is dead"

      Nietzsche's famous statement. However, over time it has turned out that Nietzsche is dead and religion is still kicking along. As they say, history repeats itself.

    20. Re:This is bullshit. by entrigant · · Score: 1
      Feelings are not valuable tools for determining objective reality.

      You are of course correct, but I hardly consider polls to be either. At least not when it comes to hot topics such as this. I will trust my instincts before I trust a poll. See the Spiral of Silence for one of many examples of how these kinds of polls are inadequate.

      ... but the industrial age did not remove religion and it doesn't seem likely to me that the information age will either.

      Going on instincts are we? These two "ages" carry with them completely different properties. Just because one thing did or did not happen in one does not mean that it will or won't happen in the other. The industrial age brought with it mass production of material goods. The information age brings us unparalleled mass distribution of knowledge. To use polls, if I may, and also the effects of the Spiral of Silence it is widely understood that as intelligence increases religiousness decreases. Granted, knowledge does not equate to intelligence, but it does have an effect on it.

      You also said something to the effect of "I meet a lot of liberals". Speak to a homosexual, they likely meet a lot of homosexuals, speak to a Christian, they likely meet a lot of Christians, speak to a Muslim, they likely meet a lot of Muslims, speak to a pot smoker, they likely meet a lot of pot smokers. Your impression that most of the people you meet share your views probably has a lot more to do with what you're tuned into and where you socialize than anything else. Buy a different model of car, you'll be surprised how many of them you start to see.

      Indeed this can be the case depending on how you meet people, but there are plenty of ways to interact regularly with a random cross section of the population. Anything from people you work with to meeting random people in a restaurant or while sitting outside of a public building to have a smoke (not just conversing with other smokers). I would bring the internet into this. People often claim the internet has a liberal bias. Do you believe this to be because of the type of people who use the internet? If so what about it attracts only those kinds of people? I meet as many people who'd hang a pot smoker if given the chance online as I do in the real world. Just the other day I read a forum posting of a guy who could no longer comfortably drive his car because he knew drugs had been in it at one point. How sick is that? So, if it has this liberal bias compared to the real world, perhaps it is because the internet is the great facilitator of the information age, and as people who use the internet become more well informed their views change? If this were the case it'd be direct proof of the impact this age will have on religion.

      As another note, I use to be active in the mormon church, which as you know almost puts caffeine in the same category as cigarettes. I along with many other people from that congregation have left because we understood the value of freedom and learned the many things in life that were frowned upon were only a danger if done irresponsibly. An even greater number of people stayed in the church, and because they are human did these things anyways. Because of the church, however, they had no idea how to do them responsibly. There are the people who think their way is absolute and everyone who doesn't follow their standards should be prosecuted by law. Oddly enough, they often do not follow their own ideals. There are a small handful of people in that church who actually truly believe and practice what they preach including tolerance and free will. I have seen the same situation in many church's of many types.

      If people haven't figured out that religion isn't wanted, that would mean it still is wanted. Unless of course people think they want religion, but you know they really don't. People don't really know what they want, they need YOU to tell them! I can see why this appeals to y

    21. Re:This is bullshit. by rohan972 · · Score: 1
      You are of course correct, but I hardly consider polls to be either.

      No problem. As you mentioned "Politicians feel the need to fake religion". Politicians do that for one reason only: votes. And people don't vote according to their religion unless they want to. Regards polls however you like, but when people will elect their government representative based on it, then it's time to acknowledge they're taking it seriously. They may not be living out their religion very well, they may not attend services often enough to convince you of their devotion, but it's definitely important to them.

      Going on instincts are we?

      No. You compared the information age to the idustrial age, presumably to strengthen your arguement. I merely pointed out that the comparison does nothing to say that the information age will result in a decline in religion. Now you're talking about the differences between the industrial age and information age. You seem to be confused as to whether the similarities or differences are making your point.

      So, if it has this liberal bias compared to the real world, perhaps it is because the internet is the great facilitator of the information age, and as people who use the internet become more well informed their views change?

      Or perhaps it's because the conservatives are not posting on the net so much because they're busy owning and running the companies that provide your internet service. Maybe they're just as involved in the net, but they've positioned themselves on the money collecting side rather than the money spending side. What's the golden rule again?

      Have you ever watched the mental state of an in the closet gay church goer deteriorate as he is forced to face what he is?

      I've seen men's personal struggles and weaknesses used against them to attack the validity of their faith. It is, IMO, one of the worst things to be found in religion, and also seems to be what you're doing actually.

      One way or the other I wouldn't exactly call them religious.

      They may not be interested in your opinion of their religious faith. I propose that they may not be holding to that faith in an effort to please you.

      Nietzsche's famous statement. However, over time it has turned out that Nietzsche is dead and religion is still kicking along. As they say, history repeats itself.

      One lesson to be gleaned from his works and the various studies on it are the dangers of a society that does not realize this.


      As opposed to the societies which to realise "God is Dead" and become utopian paradises. Oh wait, hang on that hasn't happened yet, they tend to become brutal totalitarian dictatorships so far. Let me know how that goes.
    22. Re:This is bullshit. by entrigant · · Score: 1

      This discussion has been interesting. Now, however, you are being as short sided you are claiming I am.

      No problem. As you mentioned "Politicians feel the need to fake religion". Politicians do that for one reason only: votes. And people don't vote according to their religion unless they want to. Regards polls however you like, but when people will elect their government representative based on it, then it's time to acknowledge they're taking it seriously. They may not be living out their religion very well, they may not attend services often enough to convince you of their devotion, but it's definitely important to them.

      This is exactly my point. They are paying lip service and nothing more. At best they are held captive by their fears of damning some mythical immortal soul. At worst they are just hypocrites.

      Or perhaps it's because the conservatives are not posting on the net so much because they're busy owning and running the companies that provide your internet service. Maybe they're just as involved in the net, but they've positioned themselves on the money collecting side rather than the money spending side. What's the golden rule again?

      Because all liberals are poor hippies and all conservatives are rich beyond measure...

      I've seen men's personal struggles and weaknesses used against them to attack the validity of their faith. It is, IMO, one of the worst things to be found in religion, and also seems to be what you're doing actually.

      Do tell how I am doing this. I am not attacking the validity of their personal faith but the validity of the institution that defines it. No man or women should be ashamed of who they are solely because somebody says an invisible entity that nobody can show exists says they should be. There should be real, tangible, valid reasons, and there simply are none for this case. It is that institution which creates the personal struggle to begin with. It is that institution that makes them feel ashamed, alone, and unclean.

      They may not be interested in your opinion of their religious faith. I propose that they may not be holding to that faith in an effort to please you.

      I'm failing to see where I claimed that they are or should be. They are doing it to please their friends and family, or at the very least to avoid standing out and confrontation.

      As opposed to the societies which to realise "God is Dead" and become utopian paradises. Oh wait, hang on that hasn't happened yet, they tend to become brutal totalitarian dictatorships so far. Let me know how that goes.

      Once again putting words into my mouth. I expect a world without religion (or at the very least reduced influence of religion) to be a better place, but I never claimed it would be perfect. It would force us to reevaluate our morals and base them on reality instead of on a foundation made from the whims of the men of powerful positions in religion. Imagine if you had to justify your moral ethics based on more than "this is as god intended". There are many people like that already. They don't murder or steal, but they might smoke weed or bang members of the same sex. People like that still have a strong moral compass, but one based on life and not on god.

      What if everyone had to live for today instead of some imaginary eternal afterlife? I posit that would help improve the quality of this world.

    23. Re:This is bullshit. by rohan972 · · Score: 1
      No problem. As you mentioned "Politicians feel the need to fake religion". Politicians do that for one reason only: votes.

      This is exactly my point. They are paying lip service and nothing more.

      Try to stay with me on this: Polititians have a reason to fake religion. Votes. They only fake religion because they know that many people take religion seriously enough to swing their vote. People do not vote in secret ballots according to what other people might think. Therefore, your assertion that polititians fake religion is evidence that a significant number of people take their religion seriously.

      Slow down, take a deep breath, read the previous paragraph again. Twice if you need to. Meditate or something. Try to focus. Why would a polititian fake religion for no benefit? It's because they know it gets them votes. There are more voters than polititians. There are many voters who take religion seriously enought to vote accordingly.

      People like that still have a strong moral compass, but one based on life and not on god.

      Like Buddha. Buddha did not teach to follow a god, now people pray to him. If your philosophy becomes predominant, it won't be long before people attach a god to it. Maybe it'll be Nietzsche. Maybe it'll be entrigant. But the people will demand to have a god, even contrary to the teaching of the appointed "god". You can count on it.
  16. Lost job opportunities? by WWWWolf · · Score: 2, Insightful

    The only thing that the social networks can change is that previously, you could be an idiot and no one noticed until it was too late. Now, it's easy and fun to make your idiocy known to the world.

    I once got a job because someone saw me writing somewhat-smart-type comments on Usenet.

    If I had a web design company, I'd hire people who can make their MySpace page have interesting content, look good and pass W3C validation... =)

    1. Re:Lost job opportunities? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0
      If I had a web design company, I'd hire people who can make their MySpace page have interesting content, look good and pass W3C validation... =)

      Well, yeah, but there's a big market out there for miracle workers.

  17. Change Your Name by Detritus · · Score: 5, Insightful

    I used to have a friend whose name was Robert Smith. I felt sorry for him, having such a common name. In today's world, it has its advantages. Anyone trying to dig up dirt on him with Google is going to have a difficult job.

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    Mea navis aericumbens anguillis abundat
    1. Re:Change Your Name by CaptainPotato · · Score: 1
      Yeah, yeah... very tough - let's see:

      - Lipstick-wearer - "he was even sent home from school once for wearing his sister's make up to school";
      - Opium-taker; and
      - Described as being the "unkempt poster child of doom and gloom".

      Second link from a Google search on your friend. I'd say that he's blown his privacy...

      --
      I heard that your library burnt down and destroyed your only two books - and one was not even coloured in yet.
    2. Re:Change Your Name by hackrobat · · Score: 1

      Yes... I am change my names to Borat Sagdiyev. WHY NOT?!!

    3. Re:Change Your Name by rmccann · · Score: 1

      Even better than a common name would be the same name as a very popular person. Trying to narrow down a google search for Bill Clinton would be very difficult.

    4. Re:Change Your Name by ENIGMAwastaken · · Score: 1

      Wasn't he in the Cure?

    5. Re:Change Your Name by LunaticTippy · · Score: 1

      It's sad that kids these days don't know who Robert Smith is.

      --
      Man, you really need that seminar!
    6. Re:Change Your Name by khedron+the+jester · · Score: 0

      google: "bill clinton" -president
      Problem solved?

    7. Re:Change Your Name by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0
      OK, since your subscription to Google has expired, I'll try that out for you.

      Results 1 - 10 of about 1,560,000 for "bill clinton" -president. (0.22 seconds)
      The vast majority of the results appear to be about President Bill Clinton.
    8. Re:Change Your Name by curecollector · · Score: 1

      Wasn't he in the Cure?

      He pretty much is the Cure... or the cowboy from Howdy Doody. Or one of a gazillion others... Robert Smith is an insanely common name. A girlfriend once told me that there was a group of men, all named Robert Smith, who'd gather every year somewhere in the UK for a toast or dinner or some other gathering, merely because they were all given the exact same name, and that there are so many of them.

    9. Re:Change Your Name by RyoShin · · Score: 1

      I have to agree. Having a very common name can be helpful if HR tries to google it. I have this "blessing" myself. A very common first name and last name, as well as a very common combination.

      However, it's amazing what people can find if they have a little more than your name. I maintain a LiveJournal for my personal benefit (it's a good anger outlet) as well as to keep in touch with some of my friends, both online and off. In one post a year or two ago, I commented on my disgust with some of the professors at my college. In the same post, I also mentioned one of the professors I greatly respect and admire, as well as the name of my college. With those last two pieces of information, the respected professor found my LiveJournal, read through some of the entries, and was able to figure out who I was. (My name isn't as common at my college, and I talked about a grade I got in his class later on.)

      Receiving a comment from him on my grade in my own LJ was quite jarring, to say the least. I've since been more careful about who and what I mention; I'm not worried about someone finding it (I'm passed that), it's more out of fear of retribution for criticizing some professors.

      In short, the more information a person has about you to begin with, the more they can track down. Perhaps you share the same name with lots of other people, but how many of those like to drink at a certain bar? Or drive a blue sedan? Or was born in Washington but now live in New York?

    10. Re:Change Your Name by WilliamSChips · · Score: 1

      He could be any of these.

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      Please, for the good of Humanity, vote Obama.
    11. Re:Change Your Name by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      wasn't he some sort of wrestler? =P

    12. Re:Change Your Name by bladesjester · · Score: 1

      I find it amusing that I have the makings for HR confusion.

      You wouldn't think that my name is that common, but apparently it seems to draw people who are interested in tech. There are three of us - me, another software developer, and a former VP at Sun.

      I once decided to email "myself" at Sun but he wasn't there anymore. =]

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      Everything I need to know I learned by killing smart people and eating their brains.
  18. Downhill after first paragraph by melonman · · Score: 1

    The quote from Bristol uni is sensible and even mildly interesting. After that, it's just another tired rant about blogs (some someone who appears to be using forum software to run his own blog, which doesn't help to convince that he "gets" blogs at all) and various other sites he clearly doesn't like.

    Obviously it's a dumb idea to post information you don't want published in public. Sites like MySpace have introduced a lot of newbies to social networking, and they'll take a while to get the hang of it, but it doesn't follow that social networking sites are inherently about loss of privacy.

    And chat rooms are dead because of sexual predators?! I still see a lot of chat rooms, and surely a lot of that traffic has moved onto virtual worlds. Do we have a story about why Second Life has been shut down because of sexual predators? Thought not. A lot depends on much the site creators think about security, privacy and so on, preferably before going live rather than after the first six crises are reported in the international press. From the little I've seen of MySpace, it looks like a "bolt on safeguards in response to crisis" sort of outfit.

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    Virtually serving coffee
    1. Re:Downhill after first paragraph by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      >And chat rooms are dead because of sexual predators?!

      Yes. Have you tried the chatrooms on irc, aol, or yahoo recently? AOL chatrooms are populated by a few diehard users and annoying teenagers and sexbots. IRC is now solely the domain of geeks. Yahoo chat, which used to have a vibrant community, is completely dead after closing down user created chatrooms, and the remaining chatrooms are solely populated by bots.

      >I still see a lot of chat rooms.

      Where? Are they any good? Do enlighten us! I currently attempt to chat in CamFrog, Jmeeting, AIM chat (occassionally), and in Yahoo Games. Second Life...doesn't work for me so well.

      IMHO, if you want to post a profile on MySpace or whereever, thats fine. Put up your picture, share a few interesting details, but be smart about it! Don't post anything you wouldn't want your mother or boss to see. It is as simple as that. It is also possible to do a MySpace Anonomously.

    2. Re:Downhill after first paragraph by Artifakt · · Score: 1

      Obviously it's a dumb idea to post information you don't want published in public.

      I tend to agree overall, and certainly a lot of the cases we see with photos of drunken partying by underage beauty pagent contestants and such bears this out.
              But (you knew that was coming didn't you?) there's a very inobvious side to it. Society's standards for what's deplorable, offensive or un-cool change, especially over decades. What if, 20 years from now, anti-smoking movements have made tobacco actually illegal, and a photo of a person with a cigarette has the impact on hiring and such that a photo with a joint can now? What if, 10 years from now, a backlash against non-green practices makes that picture of you with your new SUV as unpopular as a picture of you in KKK robes would be right now?
              Personally, I'll admit to owning a polyester leisure suit in the Disco era (just one), and if that makes me a figure of fun, I'm glad somebody's day was brightened. But back when I bought it, no one was laughing yet, and it wasn't yet 'obvious' they someday would be.

      --
      Who is John Cabal?
  19. Privacy by Elentari · · Score: 2, Insightful
    Perhaps kids are just more open about their lives these days. It doesn't have to be a case of accidentally releasing information; most people are well aware that the things they post will be accessible to many, and they choose to do it.

    Things aren't "private" if they're willingly disclosed. Warning people against providing genuine home addresses, or phone numbers, via the internet is, perhaps, valid advice - however, teenagers regularly disclose mobile numbers to people they barely know in "real life" scenarios, and there's as much chance of something happening in that kind of situation as there is in an electronically-based one.

    I believe that these concerns are just left over from an ageing population that doesn't really trust modern technology, or thinks that anything besides face-to-face communication is unnatural. I'm sure people once thought this about telephones, too.

    1. Re:Privacy by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Here's my question:

      The answer is whichever way of life is least likely to cause you a nervous breakdown or slowly cause you to become a deranged psychotic. With the pressure of constantly worrying "what if they know" and changing yourself to conform to whatever is popular for the sake of "friends" (btw, where were "friends" during your crisis of info-paranoia), defined as "people who don't avoid you", I'm sure you'll arrive at one of the two eventually. But you won't be alone, it's a growing trend; abnormal psyche diagnoses, cog. therapy hours and psychoactive drug sales are way up! You could always join AmWay while you're at it! :)

      In any case, the biggest problem here is when people are afraid of their own thoughts and ideas, or dislike the way they are. It's only if you dislike the way you are that should try to change, not just because people might dislike you. The whole idea of keeping two personas, RL and OL, has bothered me since I started BBSing in 1991. Who are you that you can't show to people and let them know? Why should you hide something about yourself if you're still always going to be in the know and can't hide from yourself? Why do people need to pretend they are someone who they aren't, when really they are who they are and can't deny it? SysOps and online peers have warned me about my online footprint for over a decade, now, and it's never come to cause me any problems. Most of them, on the other hand, pushing themselves so hard to do better, get the better IT job, keep up appearances, always be "right", have made messes of their lives in all of the imaginable ways; drug abuse, dangerous acts and jail time, psychotic behaviour, just plain burning out, you name it. I'm living in relative peace and harmony.

      And all of this seige mentality, this attitude that at any time the data paratrooper jackboot is going to come down and crush your skull, is just that: a mentality. An attitude. Just as much an "ideal" of its proponents as it's an "ideal" of people who talk about the dreamland of future generations. The truth is, it's not going to go extremely in one direction or the other without something unprecedented happening. If Islamofascists or Christian Phalangists or Gush Emunim or any other terrorists take over the world, then I'm sure your Blog will be the least of your problems, but I'm sure that you'd be partially to blame, at least in your own mind, for not having been more brave when you had the chance, and I'm not talking about putting your life on the line: at least all I'm saying is put your life out in the open.

      I mean, personally I don't give a rat's ass if the feds want to put a camera in my shower. People who have a problem with that probably have a problem with the fact that people undress each other with their eyes almost constantly. The people you pass on the street have more access to your life and information about you than people trying to squeeze your identity through tubes online. For starters, haven't any of you heard of something called circumstancial evidence? Or what about freedom of speech? Or how about the fact that if you have access to "the logs" then you probably had access to editing them in the first place? Tell me you didn't think something was fishy about Martha Stewart's trial, and I'll remind you that the federal investigator whose findings prompted the trial had to have his own trial for falsely testifying against her -- and THAT wasn't even publicized! And how about Enron? Tell me you don't think something's queer about feds fishing through a bag full of evenly-shredded paper documents, all of which were printed by the same software using the same letterhead and the same margin spacing and form template, and just picking and choosing which numbers should fall into which columns, and calling it "evidence" and receiving enormous salaries and huge praises from their bosses and the "grateful American public" for having put away so many big fish?

      Datacrime isn't always perpetrated by the

    2. Re:Privacy by Dameian · · Score: 1

      however, teenagers regularly disclose mobile numbers to people they barely know in "real life" scenarios, and there's as much chance of something happening in that kind of situation as there is in an electronically-based one.

      Tell me about it. I had a young lady once give me her cell number which I called the next day. She was actually surprised and a bit offended that I called her. I asked her then as to why she gave me her number. She said, "I was just being nice." I scratched my head in confusion and said that she could have just given me a fake number instead. She said, "Well, that wouldn't be nice."
      More head scratching ensued.

      Women.

    3. Re:Privacy by galatea2.2 · · Score: 1

      Uh, no, not "women". One specific woman, who couldn't just be nice within the context of the encounter for some reason. I couldn't tell you why either.

  20. case in point: Tom Stephens by sjwest · · Score: 1

    was an english suspect in the recent english street walkers murders (it was reported in germany), Tom had an myspace account, the media thus determined he alone was guilty becuase he had a myspace account.



    Tom was released, but he must be regarded by all persons now as a deviant pervert for having a myspace account and knowing the persons. His employer is Tesco's (a walmart type operation).



    1. Re:case in point: Tom Stephens by pafrusurewa · · Score: 1

      He was also a frequent customer of all five victims and chose to tell the world (or at least the BBC) about it. He even pointed out that there were very good reasons to suspect him of being their murderer.

      I'm not saying that what the media (mostly British tabloids) did to him was right but his MySpace account didn't have anything to do with it.

  21. The New York Times by Slashdot+Parent · · Score: 2, Insightful
    I have created a family blog, and the blog entry page contains the following instructions:
    Friendly Reminder: "Would it be ok if this were published on the front page of the New York Times, taken completely out of context, along with your name and address?"
    Something to think about before every post.
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    They don't grade fathers, but if your daughter's a stripper, you fucked up. --Chris Rock
    1. Re:The New York Times by hackrobat · · Score: 1

      For what it's worth, my blog has actually been quoted in the local newspaper (India), at least once (and maybe more because I don't read the newspaper). So it can (and does) happen.

  22. I see this somewhat differently by Junior+J.+Junior+III · · Score: 4, Insightful

    The right to privacy is an important one, because it provides us with refuge from totalitarian authority that would seek to enslave us, to use information about us against us. But even more important than the right to privacy is the right to live freely. One might say that the right to privacy is important insofar as it is one of the pillars that support the right to live freely.

    How can one live freely if one must hide behind privacy in order to avoid getting in trouble with various authorities? If one can only be a dissident, contrarian, or black sheep if one hides within the safe confines of one's own skull, is that not what we used to call in oldspeak "oppression"?

    I see a bolder way, in living openly, freely, and standing up against those who would punish us for exercise freedoms. To use an easy example, if recreational drug users were a unified voting block, they could take over the country in an election cycle. But because the law makes it dangerous to use drugs recreationally, users are forced to protect themselves with a shield of privacy (which has been steadily eroded by the war on drugs over the years). If everyone would just stand up and openly do what they believed in, they would not be politically isolated and would not be able to be pushed around.

    Similarly, the gay rights movement really started picking up steam only after people began coming out of the closet in droves. Privacy protected them, but it also contained and enslaved them. By stepping out into the public realm, they have forced society to deal with them, and through the necessary struggles that are still ongoing, have found increasing acceptance in our culture.

    It's true that if you are a fool, and do stupid things, and people find out about it, your life will become more difficult. But there is a difference between foolishness and good people standing up in order to live the lives they wish to choose. Let the fools of the world weed themselves out of the breeding population, but let oppressors and would-be oppressors everywhere quake at the thought of a brave world of proud, public freedom-weilding citizens who are unashamed to let the world see their lives in a warts-and-all nakedness, which really is more beautiful than the idealized, airbrushed nakedness once you realize that the latter is a hollow lie, and that truth is the only substance out of which we build our lives.

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    You see? You see? Your stupid minds! Stupid! Stupid!
    1. Re:I see this somewhat differently by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I agree with you, but your idea of "slavery" isn't the same as everyone else's. For many people here, the idea of "slavery" is the thought that somebody might not give you the job that you lose sleep over before you're even hired.

      So when it comes to exercising their rights versus being enslaved, they're more apt to do nothing at all due to the possibility of losing the amazing chance to be Joe Business Next Door's wage slave because he datamined their online profiles during the interview. I mean, since when is working for somebody else's business, putting more money in their pockets than they're putting in yours, the opposite of slavery? Since when is cringing at the thought of not working "a better jobby" making Joe Business #2 even more money and earning relatively less not extremely slavelike behaviour?

      Maybe if people don't have the common sense to figure out how to start their own businesses, market their selves, and incorporate, then thinking and acting like a rat caught in a cheese-maze is just second-nature, and it simply makes some people more comfortable believing that more people around them will be exactly the same.

      Some people see the digital revolution as an opportunity, and others see it as a horror. The latter tend to argue more about it and utilize more fear in their responses. The reasons why the former feel the way they do is apparent, but as for the reasons behind the latter, we'll probably never know. But like Hitler, I'm sure we'll remember them all as "Genius, but Mad... hateful of masses of people... used communications as a terrifying device of war and enslavement."

    2. Re:I see this somewhat differently by fyoder · · Score: 1
      but let oppressors and would-be oppressors everywhere quake at the thought of a brave world of proud, public freedom-weilding citizens who are unashamed to let the world see their lives in a warts-and-all nakedness, which really is more beautiful than the idealized, airbrushed nakedness once you realize that the latter is a hollow lie, and that truth is the only substance out of which we build our lives.

      Hear, hear. And be sure to post naked pictures of yourselves at my wartsandallnakedness.com web site. I'm gonna clean up with adsense. ;-)

      --
      Loose lips lose spit.
    3. Re:I see this somewhat differently by Frank+T.+Lofaro+Jr. · · Score: 1

      To use an easy example, if recreational drug users were a unified voting block, they could take over the country in an election cycle. But because the law makes it dangerous to use drugs recreationally, users are forced to protect themselves with a shield of privacy (which has been steadily eroded by the war on drugs over the years).

      Plus in many cases if you are caught, you lose the right to vote forever. Which obviously means the people who are allowed to vote are going to be more anti-drug on average that the population as a whole. Control who is allowed to vote and you control the government.

      --
      Just because it CAN be done, doesn't mean it should!
  23. Where is the shift exactly? by dweebzilla · · Score: 1

    Perhaps they are just redefining the boundaries of "reputation" for themselves.

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    Get your tagline off my lawn.
    1. Re:Where is the shift exactly? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      You'll tend to find the shift directly above the control.

  24. nice, saves money for christmas cards by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Happy Christmas to my mom, my boss, sex offenders and the police.

  25. Tellyphone? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    That's the Devil's Instrument!! ESPECIALLY in Soviet Russia. Unless you're apostate, you should use a satellite uplink headset. That's what ALLAH uses!! Not the same thang as a tellyphone!! Hide in the mountains and talk to the one God ALLAH on a satellite uplink headset, and keep a close eye out for damn Soviet Russian Secret Invaders. If they catcha doin' what you shouldn't be doin' THEY'RE GONE TAKE AWAY YER JOB OPERTUNITIES!! PRAISE ALLAH!! AMEN!!

  26. I hope you're right by poptones · · Score: 1

    I really do, because if something like that doesn't happen, the future country of my grandson is royally fucked.

  27. Facebook is far more secure than MySpace any day by master811 · · Score: 1

    Yes even though it is now technically open to "anyone", the privacy controls on there allow you to lock your profile down to the point so that only those you know or trust can access it even to individual sections (i.e. photos/personal details etc). I feel far more secure using that than MySpace, where its either all or nothing (in fact its like that with all the other social sites that I have used as well).

  28. I call B.S. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    So, what's his name, date-of-birth, SSN, Driver's License Number, Address and Phone Number?

    Oh, wait. Maybe privacy isn't dead, and there ARE limitations and ramifications to living publicly.

    Your friend is either a hypocrit or a twit. I find it best to avoid both, let alone follow the advice of a fool.

  29. Social Networking is a global coffee shop by msobkow · · Score: 1

    The only difference between "social networking" on a forum or one of the Web 2.0 sites and the chit-chat in a local coffee shop is that everyone can hear the gossip and commentary unless the content is deleted. Even then, archive sites still sometimes keep copies of the "embarassing" content.

    If you're not willing to take the heat of people looking for someone to blame or hate, don't post. And never, ever forget about issues like libel and slander, because even the best of wisecracking comedians get tagged as producing "hateful" material by people and groups that have a chip on their shoulder.

    --
    I do not fail; I succeed at finding out what does not work.
    1. Re:Social Networking is a global coffee shop by letxa2000 · · Score: 2

      It's even more simple than that: If you feel that you'd be ashamed of something you say or do, you really need to ask yourself why you are saying or doing it in the first place. Perhaps you could more easily get away with it before, but that doesn't make Myspace the bad guy for allowing others to see who you really are.

    2. Re:Social Networking is a global coffee shop by msobkow · · Score: 1

      True enough. But people and all sorts of organizations have a responsibility to get the whole picture instead of taking fragments out of context. Otherwise their ire could lead them to stepping into a defamation suit.

      --
      I do not fail; I succeed at finding out what does not work.
  30. Privacy by Rie+Beam · · Score: 1

    It's one thing to discard privacy in the name of a liberating freedom of expression, but with that you have to accept the fact that people now have the ability to make presumptions about you based on how this information is leaked to them and what information is true. If you make certain of revealing all of your dark secrets -- dirty sexual things, for instance -- then the latter is no longer a problem: they have the story. Now comes the disconnect, however, as a lot of people really aren't as open as you and still cling onto values at odds with what you say and do. Ever try running for office? It's the same effect and it has destroyed politicians over some of the simplest falls from grace to underground things that were never intended to get out.

    Here's my question: is it safer to bear all secrets and have none, and risk offending a lot of people and putting yourself in harm's way if one of them takes it personally, or should we just use some basic common sense, be open with a lot of things but hold the things that might get us in trouble as secret as possible? We can never assume how every person will act, so taking at some precautions is always a social necessity. I'm not saying you should hide all of your pornography and put Bibles on the table in fear of someone noticing -- if you can get away with something, then you're fine. It's when people start avoiding you that you should either change, make new friends, or try to change them, aka, when it's a bit too late to remove that factor from the equation.

  31. You have become what you dispise... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    no... I'm not kidding

  32. An example by Snorklefish · · Score: 3, Interesting
    Not long ago, Skadhi Myers blogged about anti-homosexuality attitudes in her high school. In doing so she quoted the bigoted facebook comments of jock and student body president Andrew Jallon:

    Okay this is really random but it has to deal with the comment about homosexuality issue that Sibley brought up. Honestly why must our country keep discussing this issue. We all know it's wrong and that it just shouldn't be that way. If you want to go with the same sex move somewhere else. Please before we ship yah off. Honestly just get rid of them and then we won't have this issue. Just ship them to Canada. But yah homosexuality is just wrong so just say no and get over it. It's never gonna be right so yah!!
    Then someone from ScienceBlogs linked to her post because it was well written and she's the daughter of P.Z. Myers... a fairly well known blogger. So the meme really picks up speed. The next thing you Andrew finds he's coming under attack for quotes he never expected to be disseminated across the continents.

    But reading the quote, one wonders who is this Andrew Jallon guy. Well, a quick google and you can see check out his discus and shotput attempts (not very good). PUBLIC real-estate tax records give a strong implication as to where he lives. And finally, Andrew Jallon's bigoted comments end up on Slashdot. Did he expect this? Should he have expected it. Should we all be paranoid about every post...lest someone take it and run?

    1. Re:An example by Fulcrum+of+Evil · · Score: 1

      Watch out Andrew Jallon, the Gay Mafia is coming for you!

      --
      "We returned the General to El Salvador, or maybe Guatemala, it's difficult to tell from 10,000 feet"
    2. Re:An example by pclminion · · Score: 1

      Too bad she couldn't make her rebuttal a bit more cogent. Jallon was ranting, and Myers' response reads like just more ranting (although this is expected from somebody who isn't a fully mature adult yet, it really does hurt her point). What's worse, she seems to shoot her own mouth off about religion, calling it all "bullshit," as if religion is the only source of homophobic views. She may find that she has shot herself in the foot just as fully as Jallon has.

    3. Re:An example by dangitman · · Score: 2, Funny

      And they'll make him look faaabulous.

      --
      ... and then they built the supercollider.
  33. I fear not the loss of your approval by ShawnMcCool42 · · Score: 1

    I've always been blatantly honest with my family and friends. If an employer won't give me a job, his/her loss. I'll find a good one elsewhere because I'm good at what I do.

    What a load of horse shit this article is. This is the internet age, nobody gives a shit what random joe #3512351 is doing.

  34. Re:Facebook is far more secure than MySpace any da by Rob+T+Firefly · · Score: 1
    Yes even though it is now technically open to "anyone", the privacy controls on there allow you to lock your profile down to the point so that only those you know or trust can access it even to individual sections (i.e. photos/personal details etc). I feel far more secure using that than MySpace, where its either all or nothing (in fact its like that with all the other social sites that I have used as well).
    Sure, that'll limit it to only the people you trust... or that happen to work at Facebook... or that discover some present or future vulnerability in Facebook's system... or shoulder-surf one of your trusted few while they're logged in.. or obtain one of your trusted friends' passwords through any of the standard innumerable technological or social engineering methods.

    If it's on the Internet, it is not reliably private in any way, shape, or form, from the most popular MySpace or Facebook down to the tiny Linux box I hooked up two hours ago behind a pro-grade firewall.
  35. Some things you can't immunize yourself from by hellfire · · Score: 2, Insightful

    The privacy issue du jour in these past two decades has been homosexuality. You can't tell by looking at someone if they are gay. It shouldn't matter if they are or not, but many people (who I will declare as narrow minded pricks) do think it matters. Not only will these type of people judge homosexuals unfairly, another subset of these people may commit violence upon homosexuals.

    Employers can judge you for any number of reasons. Employers are also looking for any reason to filter you out and judge you even before you can prove to them that you'd be a great employee. I don't like the fact that employers judge me because I have a socially and politically charged blog of my own, but I must come to terms with that by hiding it from them so they can't use that against me.

    People make bad judgements for stupid reasons, and make stupid decisions based on those bad judgements. Those decisions affect people's lives. The fear of you or your family not being able to survive is a great motivating factor to not post intimate details of your life online for everyone to see. If you must, keep it anonymous.

    Society isn't open because there are too many closed minds. There is then no other choice but to hide information that close minds should not see. The last thing I need is my son or my job taken away from me because of some idiot reading something I posted which has nothing to do with either my work ethic or my ability as a parent.

    --

    "All great wisdom is contained in .signature files"

    1. Re:Some things you can't immunize yourself from by MarkusQ · · Score: 1
      You can't tell by looking at someone if they are gay. It shouldn't matter if they are or not, but many people (who I will declare as narrow minded pricks) do think it matters. Not only will these type of people judge homosexuals unfairly, another subset of these people may commit violence upon homosexuals.

      I might point out that you yourself seem to fall into your "narrow minded" category, since you obviously think it matters as well. You clearly wish it didn't, but that's neither here nor there.

      And, you might be correct. But there are also those who will tell you that life in the closet is far worse than life in the open, no matter what fears say otherwise. I don't know which view is correct, but I can tell you that you are wrong when you claim that:

      There is then no other choice but to hide information that close minds should not see.

      Since this is clearly not the case. You may not like the other choices, but they are there whether you like them or not.

      --MarkusQ

    2. Re:Some things you can't immunize yourself from by hellfire · · Score: 1

      I might point out that you yourself seem to fall into your "narrow minded" category, since you obviously think it matters as well. You clearly wish it didn't, but that's neither here nor there.

      I don't get what you are saying. You think I think it matters, but then you say I think it doesn't. which do you think I think? :) I'll tell you what I think. It doesn't matter to me, and it should not matter, but to many closed minded people it does matter, so one is forced by society to be discrete. I wasn't trying to make a value judgement one way or another but as far as my values go, I'd like everyone to be accepting of all people, despite race, color, ethnicity, gender, or sexual orientation.

      Since this is clearly not the case. You may not like the other choices, but they are there whether you like them or not.

      My point was not that everyone should simply hide their personal info and go into the closet, though I see why you think that and I'm sorry for making it seem like that. Some people can manage social perception just fine. However, many cannot, simply because of the limitations it imposes on them. Being a gay fashion designer may be considered a plus by those in the fashion industry, but being an openly gay lawyer in a major law firm with many good old boys who's clients are also good old boys is not always conducive to either keeping your job or advancing in the ranks.

      My point is that culture should be this way, but you can't change culture overnight, so those on the fringes must keep secrets from those who would make unfair judgements on their character in order to survive within the culture. Many do come out of the closet and have no problems, but not all can for myriads of reasons.

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      "All great wisdom is contained in .signature files"

    3. Re:Some things you can't immunize yourself from by P3NIS_CLEAVER · · Score: 1

      You have obviously never heard of the term GAYDAR. Everyone that grows up on the east coast or california has it.

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    4. Re:Some things you can't immunize yourself from by ArtDent · · Score: 1

      My feeling is that this situation is changing rapidly.

      Personally, I have a blog that would reveal to even the most casual observer that I'm gay. I have photos of Pride and other gay-oriented events posted on flickr, carrying tags like "gay" and "GLBT". It was very much a conscious decision that I made when I first started blogging and posting photos. I figure if anyone is going to hold any of this against me, I want nothing to do with them in real life, anyway. When it comes to employment, the most cited concern, I've already decided that I won't work for a company that scores less than 100 on the HRC Corporate Equality Index. Any company that doesn't fully embrace its GLBT employees isn't worth my time or effort.

      I'm almost 30. These days, more and more queer kids are growing up without ever experiencing the closet. I suspect this is partly a result of the myspace culture, but no doubt it's also related to the growth of gay-straight alliances and non-discriminatory sex education in schools.

      Of course, this is just one gay geek's perspective, from arguably the most queer-friendly city in North America. I realize that it's not like this everywhere, but it's only getting better, and the 'net is leading the change.

    5. Re:Some things you can't immunize yourself from by Elwood+P+Dowd · · Score: 1

      I put most of my laundry out in the open. My homepage, http://www.littleblur.com, has a link to my google calendar and my livejournal, both of which contain many very personal details. There are social benefits to this kind of openness that I would not want to trade in for a job.

      The closest thing to creepy that has ever happened to me because of this openness is that some gay guys who are into beards favorited a few pictures of me with my shirt off on flickr. Once, someone pretending to be Congolese royalty said they wanted to lick my ex girlfriend's armpit. This I can handle.

      This Sunday I got friended on LJ by this cool/weird girl who took the bus with me in junior high. She's... surprisingly hot now.

      If some potential employer has a problem with my vanity, I don't want to spend eight hours with them anyway. I'm delighted if they can figure that out before the interview. Thankfully, I live in a city filled to the brim with people who really don't care about shit like that. It's quite a privilege.

      --

      There are no trails. There are no trees out here.
    6. Re:Some things you can't immunize yourself from by MarkusQ · · Score: 1
      I don't get what you are saying. You think I think it matters, but then you say I think it doesn't. which do you think I think?

      The point seemed quite clear to me. You clearly think it matters if people are (openly) gay since, if they are there may be repercussions (e.g. acts of violence against them). But in the same post you decried as narrow-minded (in rather harsh terms) anyone who thought it mattered if people were openly gay. This is a simply logical conflict.

      Further, you stated that this fact left no other option than living in the closet, despite the fact that trends noted in the article itself shows many people have discovered a rather simple other option, namely not living in the closet. Now, you may not think this is a good option, but others disagree with you. That doesn't make it an absence of other options so much as an absence of other options that you like.

      As for changing culture, what you (and the author of the article) seem to be missing is that you can't change culture by trying to fit in. And, when there is a crunch coming, you have to pick sides anyway--fit in with the old or fit in with the new? Either way you are in for some pain, which is why the old saying "May you live in interesting times" is considered a curse. Now I, personally, find myself taking the side of the status quo, with modifications: I like the thought of personal privacy, resent creeping bigbrotherism, but don't think personal information should be used to discriminate against people should it become public.

      But I can't quite fault those who've made the opposite call and decided to welcome our new information sharing overlords--not by trying to become big brother themselves but rather by learning to live "in the open" and shape the mores and expectations of the new wave rather than clinging to the old and trying to fix it. Yes, they are paying a price for this, but it may well be worth it to them.

      --MarkusQ

  36. And I call troll by MarkusQ · · Score: 1
    So, what's his name, date-of-birth, SSN, Driver's License Number, Address and Phone Number?

    While you may keep such information on people you worked with over ten years ago, I don't. The fact that he was living in such a way that he "had no secrets" doesn't any any way imply that I (or for that matter, anyone else) followed him around collecting the information. His first name was "Dave," he would be about 40 now, and that's about all I recall.

    And to forestall another line of troll-attack I can see coming: he would not reveal passwords, etc., though he did point out that working on the assumption that all his personal information was public knowledge forced him to think carefully about his password policy.

    --MarkusQ

  37. You never had privacy by MoneyT · · Score: 3, Insightful

    Never. The only difference between now and The Good Old Days(TM) is the distance that information about you can be obtained from. Where as in TGOD(TM) you actually had to get off your butt and travel to the town a person lived in to have a chat with the local town gossips, now you just need to check google. But it's all the same. Small towns meant everyone knew everyone and all about them. Larger towns and cities gave us anonymity but people don't want that, so large cities breed loud and bold types to stand out so that people see them. The internet and social networking just makes it easier for us to stake our claim in the public square and let people know about us. In the end though, it's all the same, anyone interested can find out anything they want about you, they just have to search for it.

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    T Money
    World Domination with a plastic spoon since 1984
  38. Behave by tinymarc · · Score: 0

    Hi.

      Internet is much more like a big mall.

    Like in the real life a bit of well behave is good to everyone (even to the bad ones hehehe).
    You got drunk, well ok. Even in a bar for many reasons this could happen once. Just think on how you will show yourself when you'll be out...
      But that does not make you a real bad person ? Some may think yes.
    Somebody can have fun telling that story to someone else at work. And maybe you will regret it. And it will really get you down.
    But yet again, the bad person is maybe the one spreading around the story (and of course he do not drink).

    Depending on how/what you think the internet is you might act accordingly to your "feeling" (especially if you are drunk and alone and upset for whatever reasons...). You can see discutable things on the net which are due to loneliness and alcohol... And evil behavior too. Good to know. But these things ruin the reality of life and make it trivial...
    I meant that is not because you are alone in your rooom that then, you can dirt the world...
    My point is that the internet could be a clean place if you keep it clean.Just... Behave.
    Watching violence doe not make you a violent person (if you are naturally not one) But diffusing it, yes it is. Especially on your own will.
    If someone or your boss think it is his concern to know if you like drinking or he might arrange something . And you too.
    Yet again knowing this should bring more knowledge on how informations and message can travel to you.
    I am off topic i guess. But if you have to give information on the net. Behave.

    1. Re:Behave by WilliamSChips · · Score: 1

      Internet is much more like a big mall. But it's not a big truck.
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      Please, for the good of Humanity, vote Obama.
  39. You can't tell by looking at someone if they are g by way2trivial · · Score: 1

    speak for yourself please..

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  40. pseudo and nick name by tinymarc · · Score: 0

    Just try your hotmail or msn or every thing else nickname in google and you will know all about the comments somebody did about a topic. Spooky.

  41. can you share some of the photos on 4chan? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    pictures or GTFO

  42. Social Networks != Social Networking by sottitron · · Score: 1

    Just to clarify: We are all part of many social networks whether or not we participate in social networking websites.

  43. Depends on the Employer by bill_mcgonigle · · Score: 1

    That's a very fine sentiment my friend. But just wait until you get rejected from a plum job because of something you posted after a couple of beers several years before (and had probably forgotten about).

    Personally I'd rather hire someone who's very open about their personal life. If I hire someone who hides everything I can be pretty sure he'll hide things from me at some point.

    Would you hire someone who claims to have never seen online porn?

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    My God, it's Full of Source!
    OUTSIDE_IP=$(dig +short my.ip @outsideip.net)
    1. Re:Depends on the Employer by Qzukk · · Score: 1

      It's still idealism. We wouldn't have to have whistle-blower laws if corporations were falling all over themselves to hire such honest people. After all, which would YOU rather count on when it comes to hiding your corruption?

      --
      If I have been able to see further than others, it is because I bought a pair of binoculars.
    2. Re:Depends on the Employer by bill_mcgonigle · · Score: 1

      It's still idealism. We wouldn't have to have whistle-blower laws if corporations were falling all over themselves to hire such honest people. After all, which would YOU rather count on when it comes to hiding your corruption?

      Right, so it's a good way for honest employers to hook up with honest employees. Which probably covers 95% of the small businesses out there, which in turn make up 60% of the economy. Not awful odds.

      I rather expect that the open blogger isn't going to feel comfortable in a big-suits workplace anyway.

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      My God, it's Full of Source!
      OUTSIDE_IP=$(dig +short my.ip @outsideip.net)
  44. ...but most people still don't known this by bagofbeans · · Score: 1

    Yeah, you know how to install an OS, ignore phishers, and you won't execute a virus or rootkit. So you're in a few percent of the internet 'consumers'.

    I wish he'd mentioned emails, too. Here's the lecture: Don't ever put something in an email that you wouldn't want everyone to read.

    Here's the more subtle lecture: Always send to your personal email account any work email involving you that you might want a copy of later for legal reasons... and if it's for very legal reasons, cc your personal email account when communicating to HR or Legal at work...

  45. BIG difference! by Opportunist · · Score: 2, Insightful

    On a blog, I can write what I want and give up as much or as little of my personal information and thus my privacy as I want. An RFID tag in my passport is forced onto me, with or without my consent.

    The key difference here is whether the person wants to give up his or her privacy. It's their decision. I'm a firm believer in personal freedom, and if someone wants to hold their naked butt into the webcam, together with their phone# and address, it's their decision.

    Today, more and more decisions are taken out of our hands to "protect us". I don't want to be protected. I want to be free. Freedom of choice is what makes us human. That's one of the few things I agree with with the bible boys. After all, according to them Adam ate from the tree of knowledge and thus we're forced to choose between good and evil.

    I kinda don't want to revert that.

    Let them choose. Inform them of the implications, but the choice is theirs.

    --
    We used to have a Bill of Rights. Now, with the rights gone, all we have left is the bill.
  46. archiving+republishing questionable by oohshiny · · Score: 1

    I think we should re-think whether permanent archiving and full republishing of web pages should be permitted at all. Not only does it arguably conflict with copyright law, I think it also has a chilling effect on on-line discussions and free exchange of information.

    1. Re:archiving+republishing questionable by frogstar_robot · · Score: 1

      I think we should re-think whether permanent archiving and full republishing of web pages should be permitted at all. Not only does it arguably conflict with copyright law, I think it also has a chilling effect on on-line discussions and free exchange of information.

      How do you intend to prevent such a thing? Yeah, I suppose more dumbshit laws can be passed but it won't alter basic realities. I've long considered ANYTHING I put online to be permanently available for all time. If you cannot stand behind what you're willing to say in public then don't say it. That goes double for those who choose for whatever reason to use their real names rather than nyms. I used to use nynms based on my real name. Having a stable career and a family to think of changed my mind on that score. I'll not have my family suffer because someone who didn't like what I have to say traced it back to me. I most certainly won't count on copyright law or any other sort of law to prevent that from happening.

    2. Re:archiving+republishing questionable by oohshiny · · Score: 2, Insightful

      How do you intend to prevent such a thing?

      Right now, there is only one site that I know of that archives+republishes old web pages on a large scale: the Internet Archive. Google News and a few other sites do it for USENET. It is neither possible nor desirable to prevent the archiving part, but it is easy and simple to put restrictions on wholesale republishing, and to enforce them.

      If you cannot stand behind what you're willing to say in public then don't say it.

      No, I'm not willing to have every word I ever said available for quoting out of context. If you don't understand why, then you don't understand how conversations, debate, and free speech work.

      I used to use nynms based on my real name. Having a stable career and a family to think of changed my mind on that score.

      And that's precisely why we should think about stopping republishing of archived materials in the way that the Internet Archive is doing.

      I most certainly won't count on copyright law or any other sort of law to prevent that from happening.

      These are not black-and-white issues; restricting sites like the Internet Archive and Google News would not give you complete protection, but they would permit people to participate in discussions significantly more openly.

    3. Re:archiving+republishing questionable by frogstar_robot · · Score: 1

      It is neither possible nor desirable to prevent the archiving part, but it is easy and simple to put restrictions on wholesale republishing, and to enforce them.

      Chuckle! Snort! It would indeed be easy and simple to "put restrictions" on things as you say. Enforcement is another matter altogether. Do words like Tor, Gnutella, and "overseas hosting" mean anything? Even without such technologies, law enforcement is only going to go out of its way in such cases when the rich and powerful have been offended. Since publically excoriating the utterances of such people is on of the few checks and balances on them, I'd be highly reluctant to give them yet more tools of unaccountability.

      If you say something in public then it is out there. Period. If the public forum in question is part of a worldwide network that crosses almost every jurisdictional boundry then that goes double. Even in the most ideal of societies, there is no such thing as public speech without consequence.

      No, I'm not willing to have every word I ever said available for quoting out of context. If you don't understand why, then you don't understand how conversations, debate, and free speech work.

      You can specify "verbatim" terms in a copyright license. However, enforcement will be up to you and various types of "fair use" will still apply. You seem to want the ability to speak publically then control all uses to which those utterances are put. It simply isn't going to happen. I understand "conversations", "debate", and "free speech". I arguably understand the last better than you do: Public speech is an action and all actions have consequences. There is also "human nature" to consider: The things you say publically will reflect on you and some will cast them in the blackest possible light. It boggles my mind that anyone thinks yet another law will prevent that. We can't even stop it on playgrounds for crying out loud.

      I used to use nynms based on my real name. Having a stable career and a family to think of changed my mind on that score.

      And that's precisely why we should think about stopping republishing of archived materials in the way that the Internet Archive is doing.

      I wasn't thinking of the secret police busting my door down when I said that. If things in our society go seriously south then that could happen but I'm NOT censoring myself because of a possible Stasi-to-be. I make a little money doing IT work on the side. Prospective customers could google me and not hire me because of something I said. That isn't an infringement of my free speech; it is a valid consequence of it. I can either shut up about the things I care about or I can be anonymous. Provided things like libel aren't involved that is perfectly valid. Of course, some statements are more powerful with a real name behind them. That power comes from the conviction to face what others will think and do because you've put your name to what you've said.

      I'm also thinking of the fact that at least some of my opinions aren't popular. Yet I have to live and work in a community. People without families to support are better able to behave like firebrands. All the laws in the world won't prevent others from forming negative opinions of your words and acting on them. Since I'm not the only one who is affected by the consequences of running my mouth then I'm careful about how I run it. An aspect of that care is the realization that the Internet is world-wide and as public as anything can possibly be.

      What you seem to want is both self-contradictory and in opposition to principles of accountability. Yes, someone can google you holding forth in a blog and refuse to hire you because of it. But then things like the memoryhole and the Internet Archive also allow us to catch the rich and powerful rewriting history to their convenience. You can't have it both ways.

    4. Re:archiving+republishing questionable by oohshiny · · Score: 1

      Chuckle! Snort! It would indeed be easy and simple to "put restrictions" on things as you say. Enforcement is another matter altogether. Do words like Tor, Gnutella, and "overseas hosting" mean anything?

      Such restrictions don't make the data completely unavailable, they make it hard to get. That's sufficient for most privacy concerns.

      If you say something in public then it is out there. Period. If the public forum in question is part of a worldwide network that crosses almost every jurisdictional boundry then that goes double. Even in the most ideal of societies, there is no such thing as public speech without consequence.

      Again, you have a stupid black-and-white view of the world. In fact, in reality, information doesn't exist in two states, "out there" and "not out there", it has a complex set of costs associated with it, depending on who wants to get the information, for what purpose, and who can legally and illegally provide it.

      What you seem to want is both self-contradictory and in opposition to principles of accountability. Yes, someone can google you holding forth in a blog and refuse to hire you because of it.

      There is nothing wrong with that. Google can, and would continue to be able to, index and archive things. What they shouldn't be able to do is provide access to the contents of my blog after I have removed it, except under limited, specific circumstances.

      But then things like the memoryhole and the Internet Archive also allow us to catch the rich and powerful rewriting history to their convenience. You can't have it both ways.

      Yes, one can have it both ways. Wholesale and indefinite republishing, like the Internet Archive does, should be prohibited. Republishing of specific pieces of information of public interest, on the other hand, should be permitted. That's a distinction that already exists in the law and it's a distinction that has worked well traditionally. It would work just as well on the Internet.

  47. OTOH why do 'employers' care? by gelfling · · Score: 1

    It seems to be that anything that employers want to use to exclude you and depress wages they will do. That's common sense but in a way it's pretty creepy. After social networking, maybe they can say no based on where you live, or if any of your relatives are in jail, or the number of speeding tickets you have or your medical history.

    1. Re:OTOH why do 'employers' care? by Big_Al_B · · Score: 1

      Here's the thing. It's not really always about "The Man" oppressing the "little guy".

      Employers want employees to have good judgment, y'see. And it takes several layers of bad judgement to get weeded out of a job opportunity for having idiotic social network content.

      First Layer: Doing the stupid thing in the first place, be it drunkeness, lewdness, or a "brilliant" combination of those and some other stuff that's even more creatively asnine. This is a layer of irresponsibility obtained by many, many people who go on to have fine careers and leadership roles--even obtaining high-ranking gov't positions (you know who I'm talkin' about).

      Second Layer: Take some pictures! Woo who! Now you're cooking! These are the moments that you'll be proud to brag about to the grand kids. Might as well put them on film. "Hey kids! Wanna see pictures of Grandma's 'swimsuit area' tatoo?" This layer is teetering on a problem, but many still get away with it okay.

      Third Layer: Post those pictures (and some witty captions!) to the greatest publicly accessible information archive of all time--the interweb. There's no way *that* could be a bad idea, right? This is the layer of idiocy that tells potential employers that they have *definitely* found the right person to handle that critical contract with Acme Widgets. Or not.

    2. Re:OTOH why do 'employers' care? by neimon · · Score: 1

      It's not the data. It's the interpretation.

      The internet makes all this available to everyone, and we're grousing over the quality and intent of the people READING it.

      Will no one ask just what the hell an HR person has done in his or her life that he or she wasn't proud of?

      This isn't a matter of privacy. It's a matter of dignity, and both posters and the invisible interrogaters in big business/gove'mnt/pervcirlces don't get that.

      Act with dignity. Afford someone else the same if they screw up.

    3. Re:OTOH why do 'employers' care? by gelfling · · Score: 1

      As long as you can reliably demonstrate that one has to do with the other, that's fine. If you're all working on is a vague prejudice then just call it that.

    4. Re:OTOH why do 'employers' care? by Big_Al_B · · Score: 1

      So it's my responsibility to "reliably demonstrate" that I can tell that your freely-offered evidence of bad judgement applies to your business life just as well as it clearly applies to your personal life? I think not.

      Quite the opposite, if *you* can reliably demonstrate to me that your personal silliness will not adversely impact my business, then welcome aboard. Otherwise, I'll pass thanks.

    5. Re:OTOH why do 'employers' care? by gelfling · · Score: 1

      It's incumbent on you to demonstrate that any non specific 'feeling' about the general qualifications of a whole class of candidates invalidates them. It's easy to look at someone's criminal record for example and exclude them, or their citizenship or any number of other real facts, but the existence of a photograph is shaky ground. You of course are free to do that but you better be prepared to monitor all of your employees 24/7 to more or less the same standards. For instance, you need to craft a policy that states categorically that any online presence of any employee at any time, under any guise whatsoever is actional grounds for dismissal at any time, without notice or appeal. Again, I am fine with that, but I'm sceptical you'll find many willing employees or candidates who would volunteer for that scruntiny.

    6. Re:OTOH why do 'employers' care? by Big_Al_B · · Score: 1

      Forgive me for keeping this aging coversation alive, but I find this exchange interesting and worthwile.

      I've never argued that some generalized classification of potential employees (such as social networkers) should be invalidated out of hand. I've argued that it's reasonable for an employer to balk at hiring an individual that has compounded bad judgement by volutarily documenting it--often in some detail--in a freely accessible public archive of information. You had originally implied that it was symptomatic of companies oppressing their employees. I argue that such oppression, is the exception not the rule--assuming its statistically significant at all.

      Regarding the consistent application of standards, I assert that using the "best available evidence" regarding the judgement of potential hires and current employees is a consistent, fair and honest standard.

      During hiring, one must rely on sparse documentation (such a resume), a relatively short interview process, and perhaps background checks to ascertain the quality of a candidate. In that context, any freely available online content constitutes that much more evidence regarding the candidate. Even minor red flags raised by such content may be useful for discerning one candidate from another, because they may be the best available indicators of good judgement.

      There is, in most cases, no reason to be draconian regarding the private online presence(s) of an existing employee, because an employer naturally has extensive visibility into an employee's ability to perform his/her job. In this context, actual performance of duties over time is the best available evidence of an employee's professional judgement.

  48. Terms of Service / DejaNews by bill_mcgonigle · · Score: 1

    Don't rely on technical protections of sites either, especially sites explicitly designed for sharing information.

    Good point. This happened with Deja News - most people figured Usenet expired after a few weeks.

    Also, most sites' Terms of Service have elastic clauses. Some bankruptcy acquisitions have even sold off data as "assets" without ToS protections that were formerly afforded to the data. It would be nice if there were some case law establishing protection on this kind of data.

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  49. Privacy by DaMattster · · Score: 1

    Seems like the myspace users are now paying the price of lack of privacy, agreed. Why would anyone want to post all the details about their lives? Myspace becomes a giant warehouse to get information that people can use against you. Imagine, you are interviewing for that job that you want and you loose your chance because your potential employer decides to do a myspace query and doesn't like what they find. It has already been shown that employers have some defacto ability to regulate what their employees do in their off time by threatening them with termination. If you are concerned about privacy, by all means, do not use myspace. Privacy is not such a bad thing and Americans do need to be better at observing the TMI rule (Too Much Information)

  50. It doesn't have to be conscious by MarkusQ · · Score: 1

    It doesn't have to be conscious.

    In other words, they could be just as clueless as you say and still be following a rational approach to a shift in privacy norms. This could be a result of low-level tendencies to "do the right thing" in changing social conditions or even a specific evolved response to exactly this sort of societal shift. There's no reason to suppose that they have to be going though any sort of conscious analysis, any more than we have to assume that sheep start each day asking themselves "to flock, or not to flock, that is the question."

    While the technology involved is new, the demands it places on individuals is not. It may well be that we have an innate sensitivity to gradual loss of privacy and a linked and equally innate desire not to be seen as "the guy with secrets" when the shift is complete. In pretty much all such cases that I can imagine occurring in pre-history there is a smaller upfront cost to "coming clean with the tribe" than the eventual cost of getting caught. Since we haven't seen this play out yet, it may well turn out to be the case here as well.

    --MarkusQ

  51. Overreaction? by mattpointblank · · Score: 1

    Here's the thing: I'd rather not be hired by somebody prepared to discriminate against me because (for example) I like to get drunk with my friends. Who doesn't? Find me a working stiff who doesn't enjoy a few beers or didn't get up to drunken antics in their teens. They're few and far between. I'm not saying go all-out and tell the world you're a borderline alcoholic, but I'm not going to stop being who I am online because of worries about careers. Society focuses far too much on careers and jobs and I wish it wasn't that way. I'm a good guy, I don't feel embarassed about anything on my Myspace besides the joke "Who I'd Like To Meet" which reads something like "Girls who would consider sleeping with me". Anyone who knows me will know this is tongue-in-cheek and I'm 100% certain that if my current employers had stumbled upon it they would have just laughed and made a joke about it in the office, not refused to hire me. I wouldn't want to work for a company who would.

    Just for the record: I don't actually drink, but you know, I might!

  52. Stupid people won't learn. by bryanp · · Score: 2, Informative

    This little tidbit from the blog of a LEO (sheriff). And yes, his boss knows about it and he doesn't say anything in it that he wouldn't want the whole world to know.


    Had a young gentleman put in an application at work last month. Looked sharp! Sounded sharp! Folks everywhere were all sorts of happy.

    Unfortunately, the officer doing the background checks put the applicants name into Google and came up with his MySpace account.

    Tip for the Wise: if you're going to apply at a Law Enforcement agency, take the paean to the Mighty Marijuana Plant off your MySpace page, along with the albums dedicated to photos of you imbibing the Wonder Weed in various ... interesting ... locations, hmm-'kay?

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    "An unarmed man can only flee from evil, and evil is not overcome by fleeing from it." Col. Jeff Cooper
    1. Re:Stupid people won't learn. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Haha! And he deserved to be cut from consideration. Not because he uses marijuana, but because he glorifies it. Friend, it's a drug. You toss it in your pipe and smoke it. It makes you feel good. THAT'S ALL IT IS. You do not have to get down on your knees and pay homage to the pot gods, throw marijuana leaves up on your bedroom walls, and Fight The Maaan, Duude. Keep it private, discreet, reasonable. There's nothing wrong with a little pot now and then.

      But turning the image of cannabis into some sort of weird idol just puts you in the set of 15 year old stoner retards. I'm glad some doof like that isn't on the force.

  53. Re: Same as Presidential Names by TaoPhoenix · · Score: 1

    Not quite as difficult as you may think.

    You need a couple 'more important details on the Non-President, such as racecar driving and business owner, and include those as "must words". Then put a lot of things in the "do not include" field like "Do not include President".

    Yes it might take a small amount of time measured in hours, but it's far from impossible.

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  54. Mod parent up by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Mod parent up, that's a good-ass post. Succinct.

  55. Re:Leakage by jc42 · · Score: 2, Informative

    The same sort of leakage can occur with a blog, on an ordinary personal page, or via a much-forwarded email message.

    Actually, it's quite a lot worse than that. It's quite easy for things on your computer that you consider "hidden" to become public knowledge.

    For example, I've had many discussions with people over ways to hide things online, so that you can access them if you know the URL, but the URL can't be found by any method other than guessing. The best-know is hiding stuff behind an index.html file, but there are other methods.

    A problem with this is illustrated by recent discussions of leakage via the google toolbar. This is a useful tool, and lots of people use it. But there have been many reports from people doing web testing (and thus watching the server logs) of an interesting phenomenon: If you have the google toolbar installed, and use your browser to access a "hidden" web page on your server, you will sometimes see a visit by Googlebot to that URL soon after, often within a minute or so. And soon after that, a google search will find things in your "hidden" page. Google "google toolbar googlebot" for more information.

    What's going on is that the google toolbar is running as part of your browser, and it has access to the browser's data. This includes the URLs of all the pages you visit.

    I mentioned this case first because it's not a Microsoft product, and I didn't want to distract people by starting off with MS bashing. But, of course, MS is notorious for leaks like this, and they're generally not accidents or bugs. When the very first MS internet capabilities came out, engineers quickly reported seeing unexpected modem activity when "nothing was accessing the Net". Investigations showed that the activity was due to listings of the contents of the disk being transmitted to a .microsoft.com address. Similar behavior is known within pretty much every release of MS's systems. If you're running Microsoft software, you should assume that anything on your computer is accessible to Microsoft any time you're connected to the Net. Not understanding this is simply naive.

    In a similar vein, there was the fuss a couple of years back, when msn.com was caught extracting things (mostly images) from customers' "private" data (mostly email) and using them in advertising. The first reaction was for msn.com to point out that the TOS stated that any data on their servers was their property, to do with as they wish. They quickly realized that this was a major PR blunder, and publicly backed off. But again, if you think they aren't doing such things now, you're just naive. You should expect that any ISP will behave this way if they think they can get away with it.

    We also had a lot of discussions here of the Sony CD rootkit. Who would have thought that just "playing" a CD would install spyware in your computer? Well, we now know, and some of us are a bit less naive.

    Open-source software is much less likely to contain spyware, but it's not guaranteed. The mozilla-suite browsers are open-source, but have you actually dug through the code? If not, you could easily be victimized by any new release, or by any plugin that you install. Granted, there are lots of people on the lookout for spyware in the most-used open-source software, but they might not have spotted the more subtle problems. And the google toolbar shows how easy it can be to trick users into opening their system up to outside access. MS isn't nearly the only culprit here. (They're just the most brazen and unapologetic. ;-)

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  56. Re: Blinding Speeds of Change by TaoPhoenix · · Score: 1

    I have to disagree here. Depending on how many years each, in the past 4-5 generations we have irrevocably altered what it means to be human. Someone else said "the tech is new, the demands are not". This is also untrue.

    I would restart the clock with the arbitrary round date of Jan 1 1990 as its own "new generation". This is the age of information connectivity. (First 5 years open to discussion, absolutely in full swing in 1995 with the advent of GUI browsers and Win95 unleashing the floodgates.)

    I wasn't QUITE "unwashed" - I had sponged off - but I still walked into the trap of mis-understanding exactly how archiving works in search engines.

    I do not expect to have any serious secrets withstand a full scale expert profile; no one but the best can block that. I feel/hope the happy medium is reasonable shielding, enough to keep the worst damaging pics away from a casual search.

    What used to be a serious part of classical manners was "none of your business". Now, that piece of advice is gone forever. Anyone can visit the restroom and google the guy from the party on their cell phone, and come back armed.

    Even if you did stunts at college ... that wouldn't be *downloadable* ten years later. There's still current rules against recording people without telling them, but those laws are going to creak at the seams very soon.

    Web 2.0 is all about the cheap fame; but pretty soon the costs are going to catch up (say in 5 years).

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  57. That's why I am ... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    That's why I am ... an anonymous coward !

    I don't want to leave a trace trail online because I cannot erase it.

  58. The gain outweights the risks by aussersterne · · Score: 2, Insightful

    Social networking sites increasingly get you friends, appointments/engagements, and jobs. Yes, people who previously didn't might now exclude you based on the public information about you, but so many more people know about you and can connect with you that you may just be better off.

    What we're seeing is the tipping point at which the risks of giving up some kinds of privacy are overcome by the undeniable power of the network to create and maintain social circles (and all of the advantages that they confer) by uniting like-thinking folks at a rate never before seen.

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  59. The blogodreck problem by Animats · · Score: 1

    Look, when posting blogodreck about something somebody wrote, link to the actual article. This is supposedly about an article written by Prof. Nigel Smart at the University of Bristol. And it doesn't have a link to the article, or any useful reference to it. It doesn't even link to Prof. Smart's home page.

    Here's Prof. Smart's home page.. He's a cryptographer, and one of the people behind elliptic curve cryptography, one of the alternatives to prime-number based systems. But I can't find any reference to risks of social networking on his pages.

    So all we really have is some unknown blogger saying the obvious.

    1. Re:The blogodreck problem by harryman100 · · Score: 1

      The original was in an email, it wasn't actually published as it was only written as a warning to students at the university (and I think it was only sent to CS students).

      Which explains why you can't find it on his home page.

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  60. Sort of what I've been saying by istartedi · · Score: 1

    I've been saying for a while now, "in order for Big Brother to be a problem, he has to care about you". While a lot of the things I've said online have been embarassing in retrospect, I haven't confessed to anything that could land me in jail, and I haven't done anything that will land me in jail. Beyond some anonymous person smirking at what an idiot they think I am, or perhaps a friend thinking I'm a bit odd, there are no real consequences to this stuff. Also, people first would have to know me, and do a lot of data mining. This would be especially complicated by the numerous handles I've used over the years, and the possibility that someone might steal my handle, and the fact that there's actually someone with my name out there too. It's not like I'm Joe Smith either. I have a fairly unusual name in real life. If you are Joe Smith, BB's job is even harder. At some point, all this information has to be processed by a human being, and if it's merely embarassing, what's the big deal?

    This kind of stuff is usually only a problem if you're running for office. In the previous generation it was "did he smoke pot", well... duh! A whole bunch of them smoked pot, and then they all turn around and use it against eachother. What a bunch of dolts. Today's generation doesn't care if you're gay, or like to do it with stuffed animals, or have done drugs, etc. Good grief. In part of my city, they don't even care if you are still smoking crack, they will still elect you (I live in DC).

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    For all intensive purposes, "whom" is no longer a word. That begs the question, "who cares"?
  61. how is this news? by nanosniper · · Score: 1

    I think everyone who reads slashdot is well aware of the loss of privacy associated with social networking sites.

  62. Internet = Stupidity amplifier by edremy · · Score: 1
    I think back to my growing up days and the dumbass things we used to do and say. It's part of growing up- you do stupid things until you figure out how to stop doing them. (Adults get to make more expensive stupid mistakes)

    But back then only our friends&family knew about it. I wiped out on my bike really badly once; I went home and Mom took me to the doctor and dentist to patch me up. These days someone would have filmed it and stuck it up on Youtube with a funny audio track. I said stupid things growing up, but only my friends knew about it- they weren't blogged all over creation.

    Luckily, it's an intelligence amplifier too- you do something really great and a million people hear about it, not just 4-5. Too bad there's so little of the latter. (Or perhaps it is good- I think I'll go browse FARK for more utter stupidity stories now...)

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  63. Mod Parent Up. by localman · · Score: 1

    Amen.

  64. The Internet is Real by Flip102 · · Score: 1
    Many of us that read Slashdot are used to the idea that the internet provides anonymity and that we can keep our "real lives" separate and private from what we do online. Perhaps this comes from the fact that the internet, for us, began as minor and very much separate part of our everyday lives. But things have changed. The internet is now pervasive. Today many people, young people especially, do not recognize a separation between the internet and real life because there is no separation.

    My point is that people are willing to give up their privacy online because they are used to doing so in "real life." Talking to strangers, telling people your name, letting people see what you look like are all part of being social. Not everyone understands why this should be different online, especially since the opportunities to be social online are often more abundant. Are there dangers from this? Of course there are. Are they different and new (and OMG SCARY!) compared to the dangers of being social offline? Yes, but that doesn't mean they are worse. It just means that people need a different skillset to deal with the dangers.

    Privacy is important, but so is being social. Just because something done voluntarily erodes privacy, it isn't necessarily bad.

  65. Its Human Physc by Hades1010 · · Score: 2, Insightful

    When it comes to privacy and accountability, people always demand the former for themselves and the latter for everyone else.

  66. immunize yourself from whom? by beaverfever · · Score: 1

    "Society isn't open because there are too many closed minds." ...and the writer of this article is a fine example of a closed mind.

    "Then came what some people like to call 'Web 2.0'. On that wave of "let's pretend we've upgraded the Internet, LOL" came the social-networking websites... along with those terrible pages of drivel people like to call 'blogs'. It became cool to talk about mundane things and show other people what had been happening in your life. In essence, all the chat room goers had something to do once again."

    "My name is Steve Kerrison. I don't have a FaceBook account, or a MySpace login. I do have a blog, but it's work-related."


    Obviously the writer has some very strong negative feelings about "Web 2.0", and so he's painting everything involved with it with the same brush. It's a horrible article which doesn't really say anything except that this guy prefers keeping secrets and believes everyone else should too.

    People with closed minds will judge people by their online content (and by their clothes, their hair, their car), and that is unavoidable; everybody judges everybody to some degree. It might be argued that some people could judge people simply because they have online content, regardless of its nature.

    This article stresses that we should cater to the close-minded set such as Kerrison, without considering that as time goes on it is the open-minded set who will be taking over. It wasn't too long ago that long hair on a guy could cost him a job opportunity, even for mundane jobs (I faced this in the late 80s/early 90s). Times change, and former long-hairs are doing the hiring now. All those people for whom it is perfectly natural to have blogs and myspace pages today, and who are perfectly comfortable with an elevated level of publicity about their lives, will become the new norm before long; there will be new criteria for what could cost you a job opportunity. Keeping the emphasis on catering to the closed-minded set will only delay this change.

    1. Re:immunize yourself from whom? by unts · · Score: 1

      Hi, Steve Kerrison here.

      Obviously I do have some negative feelings towards "web 2.0", parts of "it" more than others, but always the buzzwords. I disagree that I'm closed minded, however. The community spirit that the Internet can foster is fantastic. Alas, I am also a cynical person.

      My worry is that people who don't appreciate the spirit in which content it published onto social networking sites might take that information and use it against people. That's a cynical and perhaps pessimistic view, but not a closed-minded one.

      Coincidentally, I have long-ish hair, so I'm glad we're beyond only giving jobs to short-haired men. :)

      Reading through many of the comments here, it's good to see so many people identifying both the potential problems <i>and</i> the reasons why many of them <i>shouldn't</i> be a problem, provided society and culture continue to "open up".

      Still, I do think that some people don't realise just how much information they give away to potentially anybody, and while certain people should think a little more about what they write/post, I'm not saying they should quit participating; just because I don't like the things doesn't mean I think people shouldn't use them. As for the idiots, let's leave them to it. As somebody has said on here somewhere, it'll make it easier for us to identify them and ignore them.

    2. Re:immunize yourself from whom? by Intrinsic · · Score: 1
      My worry is that people who don't appreciate the spirit in which content it published onto social networking sites might take that information and use it against people. That's a cynical and perhaps pessimistic view, but not a closed-minded one.



      pessimism (ps'-mz'm)

            1. A tendency to stress the negative or unfavorable or to take the gloomiest possible view: "We have seen too much defeatism, too much pessimism, too much of a negative approach" (Margo Jones).
            2. The doctrine or belief that this is the worst of all possible worlds and that all things ultimately tend toward evil.
            3. The doctrine or belief that the evil in the world outweighs the good.

      cynical
      1. like or characteristic of a cynic; distrusting or disparaging the motives of others.
      2. showing contempt for accepted standards of honesty or morality by one's actions, esp. by actions that exploit the scruples of others.
      3. bitterly or sneeringly distrustful, contemptuous, or pessimistic.
      4. (initial capital letter) cynic (def. 5).

      I dont mean to point out the obvious, but to be pessimistic is to have a negative view of the world. Negativity and close mindedness goes hand in hand. When you have a negative view of the world, you are closing yourself off to the good that is in each and every situation, regardless if you can see it or not.
  67. Faulty logic! by Dcnjoe60 · · Score: 1

    You are assuming that the information that people are posting is honest. What would have change from the pre-internet days, when people divulged what they wanted you to think about them, versus who they actually were? It happens all the time in ads for new homes and in personal ads, why would it be any different in blogs or postings elsewhere?

    Social networking doesn't do anything towards social progress, it just makes people feel protected in spouting their opinions, when in reality it has the opposite effect. If anything social networking hinders social progress, because it eliminates the need for social interaction.

  68. I guess it's time... by hobo+sapiens · · Score: 1

    ...to take down my site, http://snarfmyssn.com./ Whodathunk, I can't put sensitive personal information on the web anymore?

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  69. Who could possibly imagined... by symbolset · · Score: 1

    That our re-introduction to accountability for socially inappropriate public behavior would be brought to us by MySpace and Google?

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  70. the problem: People grow up and change by frogstar_robot · · Score: 1

    If you are concerned about privacy, by all means, do not use myspace. Privacy is not such a bad thing and Americans do need to be better at observing the TMI rule (Too Much Information)

    Agreed. When I was a youngin, people had much more of a "That's NONE of YOUR business!" attitude. And it is high time for the return of that mentality.

    When I was younger I did a lot of stupid things that I'm not proud of. But then, I didn't have something like MySpace to chronicle them on. These 13-17 year olds (hell maybe even older) kids don't realize that what they think is important will change and it will change sooner than they think. The 16-year old knocking over mailboxes today, pounding beer bongs, and bragging about it online will looking for work at age 22. As a 22 year old, he would never dream of smacking mailboxes with a ball bat but the sins of his 16 year old self will be held against him if he was foolish enough to parade them in front of the world.

    It's bad enough to cringe over 10 year old USENET posts. It's a pity that many of today's youth will be cringing over old stupidities well into old age. Ah well, it is the same as anything else I suppose. The stupid ones will weed themselves out. I wouldn't dream of forbidding young hooligans to chronicle themselves online but I advise them against it.

  71. Privacy != Liberty by kbs · · Score: 1

    The only reason that privacy and liberty are seen as being correlated is because in our current governmental structures, there's an imbalance of privacy. But that doesn't necessarily need to exist. If nobody had privacy, and everyone had the tools to see what everyone else was doing (think internet-enabled webcams monitoring police actions) then in essence government action would be checked by the possibility of public outrage. Suppose that everyone had an equal footing: instead of the NSA wiretapping you, all phone conversations, especially all conversations by the power brokers in Washington, could be tapped and listened to by everyone.

    It's a world that most people would probably not voluntarily choose to live in, but if one lived in such a world one would be forced to be more open lest one is seen as a hypocrite. ...at least, this is the view suggested by David Brin in his book "The Transparent Society"...

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    1. Re:Privacy != Liberty by AugustZephyr · · Score: 1

      In the words of Benjamin Franklin: "They that can give up essential liberty to obtain a little temporary safety deserve neither liberty nor safety."

      I agree that there is no rule that defines liberty as privacy or vice versa. Also, I concur that sacrificing privacy so that all members of a society are held accountable to all others would aid in eliminating hypocrisy and deceptive practices. However, this totality of public knowledge could lend rise to a whole knew set of problems in our society. The ability to monitor eveyone at anytime is exactly the type of problem that this article addresses.

  72. Privacy & Social Blogging... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    While many of the reasons for blogging your existence are baffling to me. Having visited MySpace once several years ago before its growth...wasn't impressed with it at all. On the other hand...did post on one of these high school graduate sites what I thought was a profile which was innocent. What happened was all of the scumbags I didn't want contacting me did by clicking on a "Contact Me" link. While not putting my email address out there for anyone to read...the messages came hot & heavy. After that one experiment in using a social blogging site...I do a google search on my name & any user name I may use that is delivered to me everyday. In addition...I use an free email service in the former Soviet bloc for email. Anyone wants to take the time & trouble to bother me...good luck from the former Soviet bloc.

  73. This isn't a problem, it's a generation gap by roamingapril · · Score: 2, Interesting

    Gee, he's warning kids that if they post on myspace, then the older generation (parents and future employers) might disapprove. Of course, the kids don't care, and why should they? They don't WANT to live in the same culture as their parents. Personally, I find the myspace culture to be preferable to the older culture. With everybody's flaws exposed on the internet, people will learn to be more tolerant of others' shortcomings, and tiny mistakes and personality quirks will no longer seem scandalous. (For example, do you remember the Howard Dean scream? Why should something like that disqualify somebody from the presidency?) The older generation is just a bunch of stuck-up, blissfully ignorant whiners, who are upset that their children aren't conforming to their expectations.

  74. Privacy sucks. by MikeFM · · Score: 2, Informative

    I think the reason why people throw away their privacy so easily is bcause privacy is a stupid concept anyway. What do you really gain from privacy? People can do what they want without other people knowing? Oh that's a good one - so instead of openly admitting and discussing things we allow silly tabboos to fester while we scurry around trying to hide our sins. We allow true crimes to stay hidden. We hide from ourselves and each other. Hell yes, gimme some of that.

    Stop hiding in the shadows. Step into the digital sunlight and shout your secrets to the world. You'll find some criticism but with it you'll also find a lot of people with similar interests, problems, and lives. You'll find friends and lovers. You may even find a good job.

    You don't have much choice anyway. We're quickly moving into a society where it's possible that you're being seen, heard, and tracked anywhere, at anytime, by anybody. That is both a curse and a blessing but it's just the way things are going to be. We'll all be better off if we let the skeletons out of our own closet, on our own terms, than if we try to fight and let someone else expose us.

    Ready or not, you're no longer alone - ever.

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    1. Re:Privacy sucks. by Potor · · Score: 2, Insightful
      When you call privacy stupid, you seem to be equating privacy with dirty secrets:
      Oh that's a good one - so instead of openly admitting and discussing things we allow silly tabboos to fester while we scurry around trying to hide our sins. We allow true crimes to stay hidden. We hide from ourselves and each other. Hell yes, gimme some of that.
      Privacy is simply what I want to keep quiet, for better or for worse.

      But even if I accept that you expand the realm of the secret beyond dirty secrets, your attitude of embracing a totally open lifestyle is about as likely to succeed as the last century's attempt to socialize the means of production. People want to be different, and secrets, like capital, are a big part of that.

      In fact, as I suggested in my original post, those who benefit the most from the newly-open lifestyle are corporations and our ever-increasing security apparat (especially that of the UK and USA). These, of course, live in the shadows. Shining ever more light on our own lives will never lead to more light being shone upon theirs.

      Finally, of course I have a choice. Europe has sued SWIFT for vomiting up my banking data to the bloody Yanks. I can avoid the UK and USA, including their airlines. I can avoid social networks, or use them wisely. Total privacy is impossible - I agree. But I can still remain off the grid to a surprisingly large extent. It is a question of choice, and sacrifice (to some extent). It is not fatalism.

    2. Re:Privacy sucks. by dangitman · · Score: 1

      You'll find some criticism but with it you'll also find a lot of people with similar interests, problems, and lives. You'll find friends and lovers. You may even find a good job.

      Or maybe you won't get any criticism, and people will just ignore you because they don't give a shit. This whole trend seems pretty egotistical and shallow. Rather than deep, dark secrets, much of it seems to be trivia and superficiality. Kind of like a reality TV show.

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    3. Re:Privacy sucks. by MikeFM · · Score: 1

      That too. With everyone's dirty little secrets exposed it no longer has any shock value and quickly becomes boring. In the end, most people won't care and a few people will be interested and a few more will be critical. Most of us just aren't very interested and most of us are to lazy to spend a lot of time worrying about what other people are doing.

      This is why, while I'm against spy cameras placed in public (for business owners and the government use only), I don't care if there are public spy cameras in public places. Let everyone peek at their favorite cameras and see what people are doing so long as they are usable by everyone and clearly identified. It's really pretty boring and still helps to control crime and avoids a lot of concerns over abuse by the government and others in power.

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    4. Re:Privacy sucks. by UpnAtom · · Score: 1

      Abused people, celebs, witness relocation & undercover reporters all have an absolute need for privacy.

      But the main reason for privacy is that if the Govt doesn't know who you are and what you're doing, they can't persecute you.

  75. Having an online "history" is not a disadvantage! by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Quite frankly, as someone doing hiring in the ICT field, I would say that having zero online presence is way worse than having some politically incorrect stuff pop up with your name. We all do dumb things at various points in our lives and having a crazy video clip or a weird opinion or two online under your name is not a big deal.

    However, if a person has *no* online presence at all, I get somehow suspicious. Either the person is paranoid (usually not a good thing) or doesn't really know the ICT field's new inventions and tools if he/she is not using them.

    For example, having a professional-looking blog / homepage is a definite advantage when applying for a job.

  76. Expressing yourself in the Information Age by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    OR society could grow up and take the eventual step of allowing people to express themselves in peace.

    Perhaps the problem isn't social networking, but society.

    Why do we live in a society where out of touch wealthy individuals hand down the idea of morals through an employer employee relationship. Am I the only one that find this disturbing. That your boss or clients actually shape your own personal ability to express yourself.

    Human resources departments should be fined for using peoples sociological differences against them when hiring. They shouldn't even be allowed to do credit checks and drug tests as means for background unless your job has some very specific and realistic requirement that this information directly verifies.

    The more we ALLOW employers, schools and others to shape our ability to express ourselves for fear of rejection or job loss the more of a conformist society of inbreds we become.

    The problem isn't social network. It's the internet ability to broadcast a persons actions into the public with such effectiveness. I don't need myspace to post a video of some person making an ass of themselves. Myspace is just an easy way to search for this content. Employers may be using it now, but they can use a host of services to get content on people. As the technology increases to data access and truly smart web searches the fact that social network is not the problem will become more apparent.

    The problem is that we are allowing employers and other individuals to act as if we are doing something wrong by posting a comical video or a blog of out personal political thoughts.

    Will the internet ultimately become a way to limit information and enforce conformity or force anonymity on anyone who wants to share their views.

    I think not. The current trend seems more likely to reshape society than it does to be shaped by society. People will embrace more open expression and churches, parents, and employers are just going to have to get used to not judging people on their internet posts or being sued for doing so.

    1. Re:Expressing yourself in the Information Age by RLiegh · · Score: 1

      >The problem is that we are allowing employers and other individuals to act as if we are doing something wrong by posting a comical video or a blog of out personal political thoughts.

      That's only half of the problem; the other half of the problem is that people are unwilling to accept the fact that what they say will be used against them in the court of public (and private) opinion.

      >Will the internet ultimately become a way to limit information and enforce conformity or force anonymity on anyone who wants to share their views.
      Yes, in exactly the same way that pop-culture and majority opinion has served to reinforce the dominant society and repressed dissenting views (eg liberals). It will perpetuate a social reinforcement feedback loop of people wanting to do only what is approved of by the most uptight member of society for fear of reprocussions.

      This is already happening in Asia, eg the korean person who was harassed after having pictures posted online of her not picking up after her dog.

      >I think not.
      Then you are wrong, and you need to reasses what is realistic.

      >The current trend seems more likely to reshape society than it does to be shaped by society.
      This is what the punk rockers thought, as did the hippies before them; both groups were assimilated and their subcultural strenths and uniqueness blended in and used to the advantage of the dominant society. The exact same thing will happen with this.

      > People will embrace more open expression and churches, parents, and employers are just going to have to get used to not judging people on their internet posts or being sued for doing so.

      This is what the hippies said about the mores and repression of the 1950s; but the 90's made the 50's look like the 60's, and 9/11 and served to turn all of us into good little neo-cons.

      This too will be assimliated and used to the advantage of the dominant culture; probably to cull out those who are unfit or unwilling to conform to the standards of the community.

  77. Social networking by Lisala72 · · Score: 1
    This follows a warning sent out by the CS department of Bristol University, advising students that they risk lost job opportunities..."
    But, when your boss and supervisor are sharing their deepest (or most shallow) thoughts on Facebook and myspace, it is dificult to be weary of the consequences.
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  78. This is silly. by rantingkitten · · Score: 1
    Despite the sort of hyperactive hand-wringing that surrounds issues like Myspace and privacy, there are always a couple of key issues people seem to miss.

    First is that, by and large, there really aren't that many incriminating things that people post on Myspace, unless you count the barely-coherent crap they try to pass off as English, but the fact that they're inarticulate goons would have come out on the application, resume, or interview anyway.

    The implication always seems to be that a potential employer could find your Myspace, notice that you have pictures of yourself mooning the camera or blogging about how much weed you smoked, and refuse to hire you and so will everyone else and your entire career is ruined before it even got started.

    However, how many people really do this? I've been around Myspace a lot and I just don't see much of this going on. The few brain-dead twahns that think it's a great idea to post photos of themselves doing stupid shit are just displaying lousy judgement -- something that would quickly become apparent to any potential employer even without Myspace, so what's the difference?

    Consider also the ages involved here. The complainers are usually middle-aged up-and-outs who barely understand what the internet and web are about anyway. The people they complain about are usually teenagers or young twentysomethings who have a solid grasp on the implications of the digital age.

    Not to put too fine a point on it, but the Baby Boomer's opinions are only going to be relevent for a few more years. In five or ten years' time most of them will be retired or out of positions of authority, and people my age (mid-late twenties) are going to be running the show. And people my age, well, we just don't care that you had a silly Myspace when you were a teenager, because everyone else did too, including us. If we start picking and choosing our potential underlings based on who had a stupid Myspace page, we're going to have a very dry pool indeed.

    In the meantime, before those Boomers get out of the way, it's not like these teenagers are applying for such high-end jobs that anyone actually checks up on them. They fill in an application, interview once -- sometimes on the spot -- and there's a job. Even for entry-level positions in the "real world", which is where they'll be starting, rarely go beyond a cursory examination of an application or resume and a round or two of interviews. Either you're a good fit for the position or you're not.

    Yes, I am simplifying the matter a bit, and there are always exceptions here and there to the generalities I am discussing, but this is basically how it is: The only people that care about this and worry about the privacy issues are either:
    • Old and rapidly becoming irrelevent.
    • Stick-up-the-ass jerks who would honestly care that you had a beer when you were 18. Who the hell wants to work for that kind of lunatic anyway?
    • Media twits who can't find anything more important to report.
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  79. more scary statistics by pimpimpim · · Score: 1
    http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Wikipedia:Most_visite d_articles

    The list of french people on wikipedia is the third most visited page! Who will safeguard us from the new generation that will grow up and know about french people?

    Also note the scary interest in the Basic programming language, *shiver*

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  80. Interesting conclusion. Here's another. by 955301 · · Score: 1


    Let's suppose we all do an about face and take *all* of our personal information and throw it out for everyone to see. Everyone freely gives out their social, everyone freely tells everyone else their financial information and *every* passenger on an airplane insists on opening up their luggage and showing "security" personnel. Every time you drive by a police office you insist on a breathalizer test and registration check. Every time you run into a government official you hand them a pile of paperwork that includes everything about you.

    I wonder what would happen if banks couldn't rely on you to keep your account number secret or your ssn as a secret, or your mother's maiden name or anything. If nothing was a secret, you have to ask the question, why gather any of the information at all?

    a) would they make laws against sharing personal information except to government officials?
    b) would they make better security systems that didn't rely on you having a secret?
    c) would they stop coming to your door to ask questions if you insisted on showing them your family photo album every time they did?
    d) if everyone swallowed a GPS tracking device would they try to detain anyone any more? Given that their whereabouts could be identified?

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    1. Re:Interesting conclusion. Here's another. by PierreL · · Score: 1

      Exactly, I have been pondering doing something like this when I go too the airport and stand in securitylines, to enter a tax-free zone where I can buy exactly the products I've been ordered to leave behind... But in the end I comply, and so does every other traveler.

  81. You missed the point. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    What I was calling "B.S." about was your friends ability to reason in a logical fashion; not that he didn't exist. You seem to have a similar problem. Let's try another approach.

    "so if anyone tries to use it against them they are effectively immunized."

    The point is that it should be obvious that there are limits to being "effectively immunized". If you dispute this, then just post your real name, SSN, etc.. You claim that the dire consequences are not certain. I claim that you haven't a clue about you're speaking of. And are clueless about your cluelessness as well.

    So, logically speaking, you can either post the above info, or accept the fact that you were wrong.

    But you really strike me as an utter idiot, so I don't expect you to do either. There's a fairly high chance that you'll blather on and not address the issue though.

  82. I like what xkcd has to say on this subject. by EChris · · Score: 2, Interesting
  83. Feeding a troll, I fear by MarkusQ · · Score: 2, Interesting

    Ignoring, more or less, your pugnacious tone, your argument seems to boil down to the claim that revealing passwords, PINs, etc., or things (such as your SSN) that are effectively used as such, is somehow equivalent to revealing the sort of personal information (sexual orientation, political affiliation, taste in music, and so on and so forth) that people might reveal on MySpace. And further, you somehow assume that anyone who does things that I won't do for you on demand must lack the "ability to reason in a logical fashion" or be "an utter idiot."

    I of course beg to differ.

    Your first point is clearly nonsense (a claim you can easily disprove by providing links to a few dozen publicly available MySpace pages with SSN's, bank account numbers, PINs, and the like).

    On your second point I would claim that anyone who would reveal password-class information to a person like you, on an open web forum or not, would be the utter idiot. On the other hand, I have no qualms about telling you that I'm a fiscally conservative life-long registered Republican who voted a straight Democratic ticket in the last election because I'm tired of seeing our country run into the ground by a pack of clueless morons, no matter which party they ran under. I like classic rock and some modern stuff, but can't stomach more than a little rap or new age. And so on and so forth.

    In case you still don't get it, the point of being "effectively immunized" is to not live as if you have any personal secrets that you wouldn't tell your boss / parents / spouse anyway. If you're going to prance about in undergarments that aren't gender appropriate, put up a web site detailing the whys and wherefores, and then if anyone tries to blackmail you by threatening to "out" you say "Oh good! Give them my URL while you're at it; I could use more page hits" and that is pretty much the end of it.

    --MarkusQ

  84. A prime example by Cloud+K · · Score: 2, Informative

    Recently there was a manager of a local shop, he'd been shipped in from another part of the country to open a new store in the town where I work. Or I should say, used to work as I just moved onto another job myself.

    On his own private MySpace, he described the town as a "shithole". Somehow (mostly because it's one of those towns where everyone knows everyone else offline and online) this myspace entry got passed around and eventually quoted in the local newspaper. He subsequently received death threats from residents, caused a massive public outcry and got sent back to his hometown to be "dealt with internally" (presumably, lost his job.) Even though these were his own personal opinions on his own personal MySpace, those were the consequences.

    It wasn't just him hurt - the general public being as stupid as they always are, they chose to harass other employees from the same shop who had nothing to do with his views and didn't necessarily agree.

    One could easily argue that said town *is* a shithole, especially given the retarded way that its residents responded to what was a personal opinion on a social networking site that had nothing to do with the person professionally or his company. But in case anyone traces me back too (extremely trivial, I've given my website) - no, I'm not saying that it is ;)

    The lesson? I don't know. I guess it would be - lifestyle choices, getting drunk etc really shouldn't be a major problem. Everyone acts stupidly now and again. But think extremely carefully before you openly slag off other people or places online because without the appropriate care it has a good chance of getting back to them and you will suffer the consequences. By all means call the town you work in a shithole, but for goodness sake do it using a screen name on a site where you can't easily be traced back to yourself as an individual. The more sensitive the comment, the more precautions you should put in place.

    For the ultimate protection, never ever under any circumstances say anything that you don't want the entire world to hear and misinterpret. Now, that's practically impossible (I try to keep my personal website as close to that as possible though, and just a couple of weeks ago my interviewer commented on my weblog in the interview itself - I knew this was always likely due to the email address I use. It was positive. I got the job.) It's about weighing up the risks and whether you are prepared for the worst case scenario. If fragments of my previous paragraph got quoted (out of context) in the same paper, I'd be looking at similar problems - however given how late I am in posting a comment to this discussion, how few non-nerds bother to read Slashdot let alone the comments etc, I have made that calculated risk. In that worst case scenario, I'm ready to reply to the newspaper and point them to the full comment and make any necessary clarifications.

    The bottom line is that it's all about judgement. You should think about how your comment can be taken by different people, what the consequences would be, what the likelihood of that comment being used against you actually *is* and either don't make the comment in the first place or take a *calculated* risk. Not just go spouting anything and everything on the most public site on the internet. Kids are not so good at making those judgements, but then nobody should be having a go at you later in life for something that you wrote when you were 13 anyway. I'm talking about adults here.

  85. Prisoner's Dilemma by gidds · · Score: 1
    I see a bolder way, in living openly, freely, and standing up against those who would punish us for exercise freedoms.

    This looks like a classic case of the Prisoner's Dilemma in action. To take your gay rights example, if everyone comes out of the closet, then yes, as long as there are enough of them and enough influential people amongst them, then everyone benefits. But if only a few do, then they get the stigma, the discrimination, the misunderstanding and the hatred. So it's understandable that many decided not to sacrifice themselves for the grand principle.

    And of whereas gays, lesbians, and bisexuals form an appreciable proportion of the population, things must be even worse for smaller minorities. Idealism is an honourable and praiseworthy quality, but not everyone is willing to lay down their lives for it.

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  86. Re:Not half as dangerous as a Mulsum controlled we by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Mod parent UP!

  87. People must grow up by wikinerd · · Score: 1

    I personally always post under my real name or a screen name which is based on my real name. Unfortunately this does have some security implications. Sometimes we may risk our lives for what we say on our blogs, but I do not think that it is a right thing to censor yourself too much, because, after all, you are and must feel like a free individual with no fear of others discriminating against you (and you shouldn't discriminate, either). People must grow up and be more tolerant toward others.

  88. Nothing new! by xenobyte · · Score: 1

    It has always been like this: If you stand out, speak up or just ascend the soapbox (physically) someone might actually notice, and this someone might be your future employer, or know your future employer - or similar. Same thing today on the internet. Sure, it is easier to dig up old 'soapbox events', but at the same time there are so many more of them made by everybody else, so it's getting much harder to find the relevant ones. The net result is always about the same - most people will not be 'found out' in any major way.

    Having a unique birth name might seem a disadvantage, but all the blogs I've ever been to uses nicknames and thus nothing is revealed anyway. That is unless you yourself disclose something personal (apart from your opinion of course), but then you're just either stupid or don't care. But the same with reader's comments in newspapers that could be said to be the equivivalent before the internet - you've always had the option of remaining anonymous; you just had to ask for it. As long as the newspaper had your name, they usually happily complied.

    What is true though is that we need to educate people about giving out too much personal information. Children are getting there though due to the pedophile threat, but adults need to be aware as well. Don't stop participating, just think about what you reveal about yourself, that's it. Actually just: Use common sense... Too bad common sense isn't all that.. common... ;)

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  89. Re:Leakage by dastardly_villain · · Score: 1

    Sounds like a personal problem to me.

    Both you and I are aware of this, and we will protect ourselves accordingly. Anyone who isn't aware of the potential flaws in the tools they use is simply not protecting themselves by staying informed. Unless Google and MS deliberately mislead people into thinking this isn't going on (which I don't believe they do), I don't consider them to be at fault.

  90. Feeding a idiot by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    "I would claim that anyone who would reveal password-class information to a person like you, on an open web forum or not, would be the utter idiot."

    Ah. So your original thesis was flawed (which was "While the consequences may be as dire as you claim, this is not certain"), and there are indeed certain limits to what one should publish.

    You might want to examine the rest of your reasoning. In particular, read Sun Tzu's "Art of War"; specifically the part about knowing your enemy. There's quite a bit of research, and books, on how to manipulate people. Knowing everything about someone, while they know nothing about you, gives you a great advantage if you want it.

    So much so, that the fool on the other end doesn't even realize that they are being manipulated if one is skillful. So, yes, please publish everything about yourself. I might find it handy some time.

  91. As I feared, a troll by MarkusQ · · Score: 1

    The "original thesis" as you call it was about revealing personal information (hobbies, interests, etc.) that might be later held against you by an employer, etc. as you would know if you read the article. It had nothing to do with passwords, SSNs, etc., which is a strawman you introduced.

    Nice try and farewell.

    --MarkusQ

  92. It's Social Darwinism by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Let them eat cake. And their best friend's genitals while holding a keg cup. Their actions merit the consequences.

  93. Myspace by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Just a quick note. I'm not signing up for this page at this point just to post a message, and have my email and name sent to yet another database. Do I really care about that? Not really. Do I want to spend the time doing it? Not really.

    I digress, I use Myspace as not only a social networking tool, but as a way to spread my 'portfolio' as a graphic designer and illustrator. The point is for everyone to see it, not to hide everything. Of course I don't put super-private information on there, people that put pictures of pot leaves, or themselves in half-nude states aren't very bright and in some way, deserve the negative reactions to those things, that is how you learn, by mistakes.

    On Myspace, you have the option to have a 'friends only' or a 'public' profile. Mine is public, I get plenty of freelance work from Myspace, not to mention business connections/contacts. I have also re-connected with lost friends, and talk to people that I haven't heard from in years. The point is for them to find you, and you them. I have met and long-term dated many people off of MySpace, intelligent and wonderful people. My current girlfriend is a result of a connection to a real-life friend who I started talking to again and we all met up at a real-life music event. Myspace is a great way to weed out people that you don't want to associate with. If I get a message from someone, open their page, and they have bad taste in music and 'slutty' pictures of themselves, and bad taste in movies and books...that saves me the time in talking to them and finding all this out. This results in quicker decision making, and more time spent talking to people who I would normally associate with.

    I would estimate I have at least 400+ people on my list that I know or have met in 'real-life.' Do I talk to them all every day? No. But, lets say I need someone that specializes in screen printing. I have 3-4 contacts on MySpace that I can easily send a message to, and get immediate results, versus going through a phone-book and picking at random, or trying to find out word of mouth which could take weeks. Or, lets say I haven't talked to someone in a while, but want to find a diner that we at at 10 years ago in another city that I liked...boom, immediate results, plus, the small talk that may lead to a re-kindled friendship.

    Myspace has many drawbacks, but if you use it to your advantage, the 'privacy' part is just common sense. The benefits have far outweighed the disadvantages for me. And as far as employers, I would hope that an employer would hire me based on my personality displayed on my page, not turn me down. For freelancing, I have a policy of not working with A-holes. As far as 'real' jobs, if an employer saw my page and had a negative reaction...I'm not so sure I would really want to work for them anyhow.

    Small side note: one of our local weathermen recently had been in trouble for associating with the other weatherman who was let go for heroin abuse. He was allowed to stay if he displayed 'better judgement.' A few months later, a photo was circulated on MySpace that was of him shaving a 'sensitive area.' As it was more circulated, basically, the Television channel let him go. I believe the picture started with his personal MySpace page. Whose fault was that? The stations? Myspace? No, his lack of common sense.

    -eli

    www.myspace.com/analogdharma