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Texting Teens Generating OMG Phone Bills

theodp writes "Last month, Washington high school junior Sofia Rubenstein used 6,807 text messages, which, at a rate of 15 cents apiece for most of them, pushed her family's Verizon Wireless bill over $1,100. She and other teens are finding themselves in hot water after their families get blindsided with huge phone bills thanks to hefty a la carte text messaging charges." Use of SMS in the US doubled from 2005 to 2006.

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  1. Two words: by mrjb · · Score: 5, Insightful

    Prepaid phone.

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    1. Re:Two words: by TheRealFixer · · Score: 5, Insightful

      I've got 3 words:

      No More Phone.

    2. Re:Two words: by chris_eineke · · Score: 4, Funny

      That'll cost her family another 30c.

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    3. Re:Two words: by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 4, Insightful

      Stop being a pussy: Beat your kid.

    4. Re:Two words: by microAmp · · Score: 3, Funny

      Don't you mean?

      66666 666677733 7446666633

    5. Re:Two words: by __aaclcg7560 · · Score: 5, Insightful

      You can do that. Then your kid will yell child abuse to the local Children Protective Services and have you arrested. A talk show host was talking last night about how today's politically correct society won't allow parents to discipline their own children. A spanking is physical abuse. Going to bed without dinner is starvation. Kicking the kid out of the car to have him walk home is abandonment. Won't be long before denying the kid the right to text message is considered a form of abuse.

    6. Re:Two words: by watchingeyes · · Score: 2, Insightful

      Yes, because limiting access to technology is so much better than the myriad of other solutions to the problem:

      1) Unlimited Texting plans
      2) Pre-paid phones
      3) Forcing the teens to pay their own phone bills

      etc etc

      Why don't we also completely forbid their access to computers as well and keep them in locked rooms just because they MAY look at porn.

      Kind of a short-sighted solution if you ask me.

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    7. Re:Two words: by Ucklak · · Score: 2, Interesting

      My dad had a paddle and he put a date on it every time he used it.
      That [paddle] was something [grand]parents used to give their children when they became grandparents.

      My 6th grade teacher left her paddle on her desk and drilled a hole in it every time she used it.
      Nothing like hearing the screams of disobedient kids in the halls of my school to keep the rest of us in line.

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    8. Re:Two words: by contrapunctus · · Score: 2, Insightful

      Children are what you make them.
      If you're a good parent, you shouldn't have to resort to abusing them with the examples you provided.

    9. Re:Two words: by __aaclcg7560 · · Score: 4, Interesting

      But what if you're a good parent and your child is just plain evil? Then it becomes a Catch-22: if you do something, you go to jail; if you do nothing, you go to jail. My Dad had that argument with a judge when I refused to go to school and the judge couldn't tell him what the solution was. Society has no answers for the children who are not perfect little angels. As a parent, you're screwed either way.

    10. Re:Two words: by stinerman · · Score: 2, Funny

      A spanking is physical abuse.
      Yes, its battery and/or assault and should be treated as such.
    11. Re:Two words: by OrangeTide · · Score: 5, Insightful

      When your child catches on that nothing they do has consequences, then it's that much harder to raise a well behaved child.

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    12. Re:Two words: by mobby_6kl · · Score: 5, Funny

      > But what if you're a good parent and your child is just plain evil?

      I heard somewhere that Dr. Evil is looking for children to adopt, he's apparently not quite satisfied with "one calorie" Scott.

    13. Re:Two words: by Jeppe+Salvesen · · Score: 5, Insightful

      Yes, there is an answer: Ritalin.

      But seriously, most of the time bad behavior is the result of misunderstood parenting.

      Some people give the kid no boundaries and not enough guidance, which is a disaster.
      Some people give their kids too many boundaries and too much guidance, which also is a disaster.

      (And quite a few parents get it right)

      The kid in scenario 1 will feel like their parents don't love it and don't care for its wellbeing.
      The kid in scenario 2 will either rebel, or become a follower unable to make its own decisions.

      Balanced does it. The real world is an ambiguous place, and your job is to prepare your kid for the real world.

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    14. Re:Two words: by alisson · · Score: 3, Insightful

      Excuse me while I doubt you've ever had children.

      Why is it that spanking, bed without dinner, or walking home no longer acceptable forms of punishment? Asking your child to try harder to make 'positive choices' isn't going to stop any disciplinary problems.

    15. Re:Two words: by BakaHoushi · · Score: 5, Interesting

      When I was still a little kid, my brother went through what we call his "rage" period. He'd get so insanely jealous and angry over the smallest things, he'd get into a fury and break things, smash down my door, and even though I was a year older, he could easily beat me to a pulp. I was so afraid he was going to kill me.

      Years later it turns out he has a number of mental conditions and it's taken years of therapy, but now he's a semi-normal boy. ...Okay, so I still say he's an idiot with problems out the wazoo, but that's a sibling thing. But what could my parents have done? They took him to therapy, they took him to the hospital, they punished him by taking away possessions, what else could they do? Hitting him would certainly result in reports of abuse. It really can be that some kids are just fucked up in the head.

      What I'm about to say goes against just about everything modern society says to us, but I believe it's the truth:
      PEOPLE ARE DIFFERENT. WHAT WORKS FOR ONE WILL NOT WORK FOR ANOTHER.
      When I was a child, I was rather... obedient. If my mother said "do this" or "don't do this," I did or didn't do it, respectively (I'm sure if she said "kill a man," I might have had some objections, but thankfully, such requests were rare). I didn't really need much discipline. And when I did, taking away my games or a time out always seemed to make me feel guilty, and I apologized, etc. All in all, physical violence was not needed.

      My brother, though, as I've explained, was an altogether different story. Can it be that even though we are siblings, we are quite different, and thus require different methods to develop properly? *LE GASP!*

      I theorize (though I am not a psychiatrist) that some kids can learn discipline through a time out. Some may require a little yelling or a slap on the wrist. Some kids might need a good boot or a belt to their backsides. And some kids... well, some kids are just rotten, and no sweet talking or belt slapping is going to change that.

      Is this view that bizarre? Whatever happened to "Some people are just naturally selfish jerks?"

    16. Re:Two words: by Angostura · · Score: 3, Insightful

      "Eat your dinner, or go to be without, your choice" is not physically threatening.

    17. Re:Two words: by swillden · · Score: 4, Funny

      Whatever happened to "Some people are just naturally selfish jerks?"

      Everyone who said it was sent to timeout.

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    18. Re:Two words: by Vexar · · Score: 2, Insightful
      Proof that the Western World is getting decadent: we can't beat stupidity out of our children anymore. It is a simple psychological tool, called the stick. Sometimes the stick works with one kid, and sometimes only the carrot works. Thus the oligarchy of our courts becomes the law of the Western World. Lawyers are not altruistic individuals, therefore not well-suited to making laws. Some laws only exist because someone was greedy enough to sue. Isn't it great? The only thing worse that I can think of is the over-protectiveness attitude in American government, which is why the shootings in Columbine High School violated 19 laws. Like another half-dozen were gonna stop the determined angry youth?

      To that point, some kids really, really, need the carrot, and the stick is a bad idea. Just the same, spare the rod, spoil the child. Ignore the child, spoil the community.

    19. Re:Two words: by demonlapin · · Score: 2, Informative
      In the US, when mobile phones were first implemented, one of two choices could be made: either mobiles could be given a distinctive prefix (area code) of their own, or they could be integrated into the local phone systems. Because the overwhelming majority of US phone landlines feature free unlimited local calling, Americans were Not Into the idea of paying to call someone locally. Furthermore, the logic runs, the benefit of being mobile accrues to the person who is mobile, not to the person calling them, so the cost of being mobile should do so as well. So we chose to integrate them into the local systems, with the consequence that there is no easy way to know whether the phone number you are calling is a mobile or a landline; since number portability was introduced, it's virtually impossible unless you are privy to phone routing data (because what was once a landline number may now belong to a mobile).

      This may or may not seem like a good idea to you, but it is the thought process that was applied. The practical upshot is that US plans feature a certain number of "primetime minutes" - minutes of phone usage between (typically) 7 am and 9 pm, M-F. Nights and weekends are free and unlimited. The network to which the destination belongs only matters if it's your own carrier; most higher-cost plans feature unlimited in-network mobile-to-mobile at all times of day or night. Otherwise, landline or mobile, it doesn't matter who you call, or who calls you. You have those minutes, you use them as you choose. With any major carrier, virtually all plans provide no-roaming service across the country.

      Example: my wife's phone plan is $35/mo. For that she gets 300 primetime minutes and unlimited nights and weekends. She can make calls from anywhere in the US, to anywhere in the US, for no additional charge. This is in large measure what makes the system so palatable to Americans; for charges which are either similar to or less than total monthly charges anywhere else, we get a hugely flexible system. A GSM phone from the UK may operate in Greece, but not for the same price as if you were sitting in London.

    20. Re:Two words: by Anonymous+Brave+Guy · · Score: 5, Insightful

      Bollocks. I'm sorry, but you really are just talking politically correct crap.

      For a start, there's no such thing as a perfect parent or a perfectly behaved child, no matter how good your intentions. If you really have children and you really believe they're little angels, have you ever had an honest discussion with their school teachers to make sure they're not just hiding their poor behaviour from you and indulging in it elsewhere? A lot of parents don't, and have absolutely no idea what they're missing. (And yes, I have worked in a school, and seen this phenomenon a surprising number of times.)

      More philosophically, which is really more cruel to a child, a quick smack when they do something wrong so they understand that their behaviour isn't acceptable, or the emotional trauma of, say, being denied part of their weekly spending money allowance, which will punish them for several days?

      Pain is nature's teacher, and using pain to discipline children is entirely natural. Arguments like yours, which equalise all forms of physical discipline, are painting a coloured world in black and white. In fact, I no longer support certain child protection charities precisely because they can't tell the difference between a parent with a temper who regularly beats their child (a genuine and serious problem) and a loving parent who uses occasional physical chastisement to teach their child what is and isn't acceptable behaviour.

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    21. Re:Two words: by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 5, Insightful

      I work with youth. Ritalin is a bad start for the answer. Less then 3% of the "ADD" youth I worked with need Ritalin. However, the rest of your post is right on. Children need boundaries. They need consequences for breaking the boundaries. They need to test hte boundaries and see the consequences of breaking the rules. And please, remember that guidance is guidance, not direction. Directions are great for setting the table (yes, our 2 year old sets the table) and other things that should be done the same way each time, but we don't have a whole lot of rules. We do have a bit of guidance, but not too much for her to remember, and we make sure she learns it before applying boundaries. Children are people, and they learn. "Don't stand on the chair" is a rule that will be broken. "If you fall of the chair, you're going to hurt" is something they can do once and decided to get with the program and not stand on the chair.

      You're about the only person here who's not a real retard.

    22. Re:Two words: by ArmedGeek · · Score: 5, Informative
      I don't know where you are, but in Texas ..

      § 9.61. PARENT-CHILD. (a) The use of force, but not
      deadly force, against a child younger than 18 years is justified:
      (1) if the actor is the child's parent or stepparent or
      is acting in loco parentis to the child; and
      (2) when and to the degree the actor reasonably
      believes the force is necessary to discipline the child or to
      safeguard or promote his welfare.
      (b) For purposes of this section, "in loco parentis"
      includes grandparent and guardian, any person acting by, through,
      or under the direction of a court with jurisdiction over the child,
      and anyone who has express or implied consent of the parent or
      parents.
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    23. Re:Two words: by operagost · · Score: 4, Funny

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    24. Re:Two words: by McDutchie · · Score: 4, Insightful

      But what if you're a good parent and your child is just plain evil?

      Then physically and mentally abusing your kid will only cause him to become more evil.

      So don't.

      Instead, stop seeing your child as "just plain evil", and start looking for solutions to his problems.

    25. Re:Two words: by Ucklak · · Score: 3, Informative

      I know to stay from cacti because they stick you when you get too close. I've also been stuck by cacti before and it hurts. I knew before to stay away and I really know now. Not a big deal, I don't have hatred toward cacti, I actally think they are beautiful plants especially when they bloom.

      My parents kept me inline (spanked) because I lied that had consequences for other people. You call it abuse, I call it a lesson learned and I deserved it. I would have resented them if I had to take drugs because I lied. I was really too young to know how to think that far ahead as to what a little lie could do so a spanking was well deserved. That I understood.

      I never got spanked in school. The kids who got spanked in school either straightened up and never got spanked again or were those 'problem' kids that got suspended and spanked habitually. I can say that most of those habitual 'problem' kids are in the category of dead or in jail as my schoolyard friend and I kind of keep tabs on the news of the town we grew up in.

      I'm going to say that those habitualy spanked kids were always problem kids that grew into problem adults. They entered a life of crime because of their environment and personal choices, not because some teacher actually cared to give their asses a whup nor did they remember the time they got whipped in the 6th grade the first night in the slammer.

      Not everyone has a living home and that is sad. That isn't my problem to fix as I can't fix it nor can you nor can anyone that wants to regulate that 'spanking' is child abuse. There are people who are unfit to be parents but you can't stop the laws of nature.

      If you decide to have children, there is a period of time of 18 months that really tests your patience. It is known as the terrible twos. Parents that beat their child during that stage are child abusers. Once you can reason with them, then they can pick their own punishment. Sometimes you have to get to the lowest common denominator to make a point. Time-out doesn't work when they break your $2000 HDTV screen when you've repeatedly told them to stop throwing the ball in the house.

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    26. Re:Two words: by Kierthos · · Score: 3, Interesting

      *grabs a pysch book and points out Pavlovian response*

      You know what? As a kid, if I did something stupid, my parents spanked me. Guess what? I usually didn't do the same stupid thing twice. You want to know why, Camper Dan? Because, shockingly enough, I didn't want to get spanked again.

      It's one of those marvels of thought. "Hey, I did activity X, and my parents said 'Oh hell no!' and spanked me. And 'lo and behold, I learned... they do not have a sense of humor about me starting fires, or getting in fights at school, or any of that shit."

      I'm not saying that we need to have every parent resort to playing "Punch the Monkey" with their kids, but there is a damn large difference between spanking a disobediant child and physical abuse. Maybe if you took a really healthy dump and got rid of that hippie liberal crap, you'd realize this.

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    27. Re:Two words: by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 2, Funny

      You don't need to plan that. You're posting on Slashdot, right?

    28. Re:Two words: by Windowser · · Score: 3, Informative

      Here in Canada, it is allowed by law to use "minor corrective force of a transitory and trifling nature" : http://www.cbc.ca/news/story/2004/01/30/spanking04 0130.html

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    29. Re:Two words: by dreamchaser · · Score: 3, Insightful

      I'll bet that's because Romans weren't afraid to spank their kids when they got out of line...

    30. Re:Two words: by ryanov · · Score: 2, Insightful

      That's not true.

      Sending a kid that won't eat the dinner he's been cooked to sleep with no food is not a form of abuse. What are you supposed to do, make him what he wants? My parents never did and I came out fine. If he's hungry, he'll eat what he's been cooked.

    31. Re:Two words: by lordmatthias215 · · Score: 2, Insightful

      hmm, last time I checked, patting a kid on the butt isn't really abuse- I got spanked a few times in my day, but looking back, they didn't even really hurt- it was more the shame of it than anything else. And if you think missing a single meal for misbehavior is reprehensible, take a trip to Africa. I know that example is overused, but seriously- the kid could quite possibly use a few less calories anyway, if obesity is as big an epidemic as the media says. As for kicking your kid out of the car, my parents never did that to me, but at the same time my mom walked home by herself every day from elementary school through high school, without a key to get into the house, and she's not exactly running up therapy costs because of it. Be an adult and punish your children when they go astray. If you're a good parent, you'll know the difference between being a friend and being a parent.

      I'm a teenager living in my parent's house, and I can honestly tell you I'm glad they spanked me and grounded me and chewed me out when I was younger, because it taught me not to give them a reason to punish me further on in life. I'm sick of parents who let their kids (my friends) do whatever they want because they're more concerned with being the child's friend than being their parent. Sure, you can be friends with your kids, but you still have to be an authority figure and prepare them for the real world, where they can't do whatever they want without repercussions. Be there to talk to them, laugh with them, and help them with problems, but also be there to slap their hands when the reach for the cookie jar out of turn. If you're a good parent, you'll know how to balance friendship and authority.

      That being said, you obviously need to be responsible in your punishments. Spank your child, but don't beat the crap out of them with a wooden switch. Ground them from something they hold dear, but not from something they need- monitor computer use so it's only for homework, or limit their cell phone to family numbers and 911. Send them to bed without supper, but make them a decent breakfast the next day, and talk things over with them as they eat (this an especially good way to show you've forgiven them and make amends). Kick them out of the car on the way home from school, but not a long way from home. Don't take your anger out on them- you want to teach them, not torture them. If you're a good parent, you'll know the difference.

    32. Re:Two words: by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 2, Insightful

      I'm sorry but sometimes "disappointment" just doesn't cut it. Most of my friends have kids, but most of the ones that do corners and time outs have little demons because their kids realize that all that they get when they miss behave is a talking to. I say most because it does seem to work on a few of them just not many. I actually asked one of my friends kids (15 yrs old btw) why they did the things they did (stuff like telling their father and mother to shut up). The kid actually told me "Because nothing will ever come of it. All they are going to do is take away my TV or try to ground me". Corners and Disappointment will work great for you if your kid cares. In my friends case he just can't understand why his punishment doesn't seem to work. Hell if it wasn't for a spanking every now and then from my parents I wouldn't have a good job, Own my house or own my new cars at 25 years old. I'm not saying beat the crap out of your kids but a smack on the butt can set a child right faster than telling them to go sit in that chair or in that corner. I can also depend on why the kid is misbehaving. Do they just want mom and dads attention or are they just doing it for fun. (Sorry for any misspellings or grammar problems. I got stuck going into work to fix a problem and just got out so I'm a little tired)

    33. Re:Two words: by miskatonic+alumnus · · Score: 4, Insightful

      Yeah. We wouldn't want to give them the idea that when they reach adulthood, bad behavior will result in physical threatening.

    34. Re:Two words: by dedazo · · Score: 2, Insightful
      you shouldn't have to resort to abusing them

      Society is getting to the point where the desperate PC desire for everyone to be "equal" is trickling down to children as well. Let me tell you something: children are not equal. They are not "little people". They are blabbering semi-functional idiot savants that require a lot of discipline and guidance to be able to grow up and function in society. That has been true since humans first started breeding. They are also beautiful and innocent. That doesn't mean they should be given drugs or sent off to therapy because fucked up parents can't be bothered to assume the responsibility of educating their own offspring, or because some stupid law or social perception makes it "bad" to plant a big loud one in their rear because they broke the den window after being told ten times to go play baseball somewhere else.

      You "new age" touchy-feely "send Jimmy to the shrink so I don't have to abuse him" people make me sick. You think your kids are so better off than everyone else's and you're damaging more than you could ever know. Humanity has been raising children for thousands of years, and we've done good. Discipline is not abuse, no matter how much you'd like that to be the case. Learn to tell the difference between the two, or shut the fuck up.

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    35. Re:Two words: by miskatonic+alumnus · · Score: 4, Insightful

      As soon as you resort to smacking, spanking, or hitting in any way, you've signaled your failure as a parent.

      According to whom Doctor Spock? You? What makes you the expert? Where's the Ten Commandments of parenting given from on high that works in every possible situation? You're incredibly naive.

    36. Re:Two words: by miskatonic+alumnus · · Score: 2, Insightful

      Do you honestly believe that most people choose to be good because it's morally correct? If that were the case, there would be no need for social contracts, police forces, and militaries. We have rules of law and enforcers precisely because the natural tendency of people is to do bad things. Why do you think most Christians worship? Is it because they really love God and their fellow human beings? Or is it because they want everlasting bliss as a reward for good behavior? Or is it because they fear burning in the pit of hell for being bad? To answer that, just watch how most of them behave. I don't mean to isolate Christianity as exceptional in this regard. Most people need a cosmic daddy to tell them what's right and wrong, and what the consequences are because they are incapable or unwilling to do the difficult thinking for themselves.

      The plain and simple fact is, most people are plain and simple. They don't philosophize. They react. If they know they can get away with something, they'll do it. This is as true of adults as it is of children. The raising of children is not so much to instill an understanding of right and wrong, but rather to learn the consequences of bad behavior. If they end up actually doing deep thinking about morality, great. But don't hold your breath.

    37. Re:Two words: by c_forq · · Score: 2, Insightful

      I don't know, I use the term retard very loosely, but never regarding the mentally handicapped. I think in many areas the word retard has evolved to be interchangeable with stupid (kind of like how dumb used to mean mute but is no longer interpreted as such). In my area retard is no more offensive than dumb, stupid, or idiot. Of course context is key, if used in conjunction with the Special Olympics, or something similar, everyone will react like you just confessed to being a Nazi.

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    38. Re:Two words: by Canordis · · Score: 2, Funny

      Excuse me, but are you comparing misbehaving children to murderers, rapists and child molesters? Please report to your nearest reproductive health clinic for a swift and thorough removal of your ability to reproduce. Thank you.

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    39. Re:Two words: by ranton · · Score: 2, Insightful

      When I was a child nothing was worse than my parents being disappointed in me. Well, except for getting spanked that is. I probably only got spanked about 4-5 times my entire childhood, but the knowledge that it could happen often stopped me from doing something I knew would require it.

      If your kids are so scared of disappointing their parents, then they have a whole slew of problems far more severe than a tanned ass. If they are hurt more by your disappointment than by physical pain I fear for their mental health.

      My fiance and I will not start trying for children for about a year, so I cannot speak from experience other than from talks with other parents and psychologists. But I sure hope that my children shed more tears from being spanked than tears from fears of disappointing me. I hope I am never that consistently controlling or demanding of my children.

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    40. Re:Two words: by stinerman · · Score: 3, Informative

      What you are describing is an imminent danger situation. Obviously that is a different story. I don't believe you can sue someone for battery if they stop you from walking in front of a car. Similarly, if someone is giving you CPR or in any way trying to help you if you are injured, you can't sue them for battery.

      After writing my comment I read up on the laws regarding corporal punishment around the world. The UK law is reasonable and I could probably agree to that. From wikipedia:

      An amendment to the Children Act 2004 to ban smacking by parents was defeated by 424 votes to 75 in the House of Commons; however, an amendment to ban parents from smacking their children hard enough to leave a mark was accepted by 284 votes to 208, and came into force in January 2005.

    41. Re:Two words: by miskatonic+alumnus · · Score: 2, Insightful

      What are you on about? Let's try a different approach. Consider this scenario: Little Johnny aged 10 grabs some guns, enters a mall or school, and starts shooting people randomly. The police show up. Do they

      (a) give little Johnny a time-out?
      (b) give little Johnny a lecture about how to behave in public?
      (c) blow little Johnny away?

    42. Re:Two words: by fractoid · · Score: 2, Insightful

      You've never been hungry, have you? Like, really hungry, not just I-missed-lunch peckish?

      Regardless, generally, unless a kid has genuine mental problems, a firm-but-fair approach works. A child is like any other half-wild animal; establish authority in a non-threatening way and from there it's smooth sailing. In fact with kids it's even easier - you can talk to them, and they're a helluva lot smarter than a dog.

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    43. Re:Two words: by Canordis · · Score: 2, Interesting

      I could make the point that children are not adults, but I'm not going to.

      Instead I'm going to point out it's not the same thing. In fact, no modern democracy uses force on criminals the same way you're advocating using on children; criminals aren't beaten with sticks as punishment, or slapped on the wrist when they steal. Force (at least when the law enforcement institutions work) is used to apprehend criminals, not as punishment; police forces don't exist to punish, but rather to make sure criminals are apprehended so they can be punished, removed from society for society's safety, and/or rehabilitated. Ideally for them, criminals would give themselves up and walk into precincts handcuffed... unfortunately they don't, which is where truncheons and guns come in.

      I'm all for using force to keep children from hurting others and themselves, but using it as punishment is barbaric; the fact is, we don't use the cane or torture devices on criminals in prisons - why would we do the smaller-scale equivalent on children for much lesser infractions?

      Besides, the primary lesson corporal punishment teaches is "I'm bigger than you, so I get to tell you what to do." It raises bullies, and children educated primarily through punishment, corporal punishment in particular, will stop being behaved as soon as their parents aren't around to beat the shit out of them any more.

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    44. Re:Two words: by blackicye · · Score: 2, Insightful

      Its not just children, many adults need to be physically threatened before they will conform or behave.

      Otherwise the military and law enforcement would just need megaphones and bags of candy. As evidenced by modern military and police actions, laws, punishment, some people need to have the shit beaten out of them and even killed before they and their peers will behave.

      If physical force has to be used to keep adults (who definately know better) in line, how is it even remotely possible to keep some kids in line without force or threat of physical force.

    45. Re:Two words: by Dravik · · Score: 2, Informative

      A well reasoned purpose is not what I was intending to imply I was punished for. If I had a good reason for what I did I was always allowed to say it. I was talking about general BS hairsplitting. Ex. Parent: "I told you not to go to play at Jimmy's house, why were you there?" kid: "I didn't go to Jimmy's house I was on the sidewalk in front of his house and he just happened to come out". That is the kind of BS that didn't fly but to many times pulls parents these days into lawyer like arguments. Kids know what their parents meant when they said things. Playing word games or "forgetting" at an opportune time shouldn't let a kid off the hook. Otherwise the kid learns that they can get away with anything as long as they frame it the right way.

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  2. Yep by LBArrettAnderson · · Score: 2, Informative

    That happened to me once. I figured "oh, at 10 cents per text message, it's no big deal." Then 2 months later my parents saw that I had texted enough to raise the phone bill $200 (mostly thanks to the AIM client that my phone had, which uses a text message for each IM sent and received, as well as another message to connect, and I believe another message to disconnect as well). My parents made me pay for it, of course.

  3. A $1,100 phone bill? TSNF! by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 5, Funny

    Solution: forbid her from texting her bff Jill.

    1. Re:A $1,100 phone bill? TSNF! by Miseph · · Score: 4, Informative

      Am I the only one who thinks that ad should be advocating for parents to completely ban their children from text messages?

      I've actually heard of kids in middle and high school who use SMS and IM so much that they legitimately don't know how to spell words like "you", "your/you're", and will use internet abbreviations (lol, idk, etc.) in school papers.

      It scares the shit out of me that people think that's funny, and are apparently willing to pay so that their kids can do more of it.

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    2. Re:A $1,100 phone bill? TSNF! by mmortal03 · · Score: 2, Funny

      What's wrong with using "etc."? lol, j/k.

  4. Unlimited SMS.. by tgatliff · · Score: 5, Informative

    You know Verizon does have unlimited SMS plans for only $15 per month... Just a thought for someone paying a $1100 phone bill... :-)

    1. Re:Unlimited SMS.. by bwalling · · Score: 4, Insightful

      If 1 = $0.15 and = $15, then why is Verizon billing anyone $1100? The max bill should be $15. If I were selling something at $1 for 1 or $10 for 30, I certainly would charge you $12 for 32 of them instead of $32. If I charged you $32, you'd call me sleazy and you wouldn't tolerate it. Why have we been tolerating this from cell phone companies all this time?

    2. Re:Unlimited SMS.. by loraksus · · Score: 5, Insightful

      Because they all suck equally and there really isn't an alternative.
      And the assholes who run the companies use that to their advantage.

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  5. This is really nothing new.. by Philus · · Score: 4, Insightful

    ..just a different way of doing it. Sounds like kids still needs to be taught about the consequences of their actions.

    1. Re:This is really nothing new.. by Zen · · Score: 2, Interesting

      Yeah, the kids need to be taught about consequences of their actions, but more than that the parents need to be taught that the kids are THEIR responsibility and need to be taught what is right and wrong, and if they can't control the kids then the kids shouldsn't have cell phones. I can't stand all these parents who are shocked at the bills their kids rack up and then call up the press to get an article somewhere in the hopes that the company will drop their bill because of the bad publicity. You created the problem, now figure out a way to deal with it. Too many people blaming society for things that are solely their responsibility.

      I only have a baby, can't really relate to this exactly. However, I have many friends/coworkers who have teenagers, and I have to say that if I was in the market for a cell phone for a kid I wouldn't get a prepaid cell phone, but I'd get something like the disney phone. It's close to what I'd want, but not exact. Phone companies should really cater to the product that parents want, and not flat rates that make them the most money when the user's go over it.

      Here's what I would want in a phone for a teenager:
      Fully featured cell phone (wouldn't want the kid to feel like a reject with one of those four button phones)
      Flat monthly minutes (rollover is preferred in the unlikely event they aren't all used)
      'Normal" features such as free roaming, long distance, etc
      The kicker is that when the included minutes or texts are used up, the phone does not allow any incoming or outgoing text messages, and only allows phone calls to predesignated password protected numbers (home, parents cell, etc). If the kid tries to send a text message or make a call to an unapproved number it will prompt for a password or request a calling card / prepaid card number to add extra minutes.

      This way it is completely impossible to go over your minutes in a month, except by just a couple for emergency/calling home usage which would never amount to more than $5/month. I don't know why there isn't a product like this on the market, although Disney does come close from what I heard about it. This is really what parents want even though they don't know it yet because they haven't ever seen it. No parent really wants to give their kid free reign with a cell phone.

  6. Re:227 texts a day?! by carabela · · Score: 5, Funny

    So hitting F5 on Slashdot regularly is better?

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  7. Re:SMS spamming? by nsanders · · Score: 3, Informative

    Sadly, yes. Most companies ALLOW text messages on their phone even if you don't have it in your plan. If other people send you messages you will be billed their fixed rate per message (incoming), even if you don't reply. If someone else has unlimited text messaging they could effectively start spamming people (everyone remember the old pager bombs?) with the consequence of massive phone bills.

  8. Re:15 cents each?! by ottothecow · · Score: 5, Insightful
    they used to be something like 5 to send free to recieve. Then it was 5 to send 5 to recieve, then it was 10 to send 5 to recieve.

    Now it is 15c each way. I dont see how they can justify charging that much for a tiny exchange of data. It has risen WAY faster than the rate of inflation on a technology that should become cheaper (look at how minutes have come down) and it is ridiculous. My guess is that the only reason it works for the phone companies to do this is that the first people to start using them heavily are the kids with their parents buying them mobile phones. They dont have to pay per message so they dont think about the ridiculous costs (look at how much data is in a text message and how much a provider charges for data usage and it becomes clear how much of a rip off it is).

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  9. It's about time texting caught on in the US by Ogemaniac · · Score: 5, Interesting

    In many situations, it is both superior to and FAR more polite than yapping. I had my first cell phone when I lived in Japan, and I sent and received about twenty messages a day. Talking on cell phones was banned in many locations including public transportation, and severly frowned upon in most other public locations. It was like heaven.

    Then I returned to the US: People yap while driving. Yap on the bus. Yap while in line. Yap yap yap, oblivious to the people around them or how annoying (and dangerous) they are being.

    I blame this largely on the cell phone providers. It is obvious that a text message is far cheaper for them than a phone call, as the amount of information to be sent is tiny. Yet here in the states, text is expensive, typically the price of a minute of talk or so. In Japan, a text was 2-3 cents, while a minute of talk nearly ten times that. Text was automatically part of any plan that I saw. Such pricing is sensible, given the large amount of data that needs to be transferred for live calls, and the fact that it has to be immediate.

    American wireless companies should drop the price of text down to a fair price (pennies) in order to encourage its use. Not only is this the fair market price, but it would help the adoption of a great complementary technology to direct voice communication.

    1. Re:It's about time texting caught on in the US by The+boojum · · Score: 2, Interesting

      I agree that yapping on the phones in the middle of crowd or while driving is quite rude. But the problem with is that you assume that it's even necessary to answer a call immediately. Most phones have caller id and voicemail.

      If I'm in the middle of something (e.g., driving) or in a public place where talking on the phone would be rude or annoying to the people around me, I'll just let the call go and then make a discrete exit to an area with some privacy where I won't be bothering anyone and return the call. This usually doesn't take more than a minute or two and the caller is still in a good situation to speak with me.

      My cell phone is just a way to get in touch with me quickly, though not always instantaneously.

    2. Re:It's about time texting caught on in the US by Rob+the+Bold · · Score: 2, Funny

      On the contrary, texting while driving would be so outrageously dangerous that even the morons who will talk while driving would probably balk at attempting to type.

      So you would agree that texting while driving would be so stupid that even a moron would know not to, right? Unfortunately, I witness texting while driving about once a week, and I'm in the US where even our morons are dumber.

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  10. Re:15 cents each?! by ihavnoid · · Score: 2, Interesting

    Sounds very expensive to me. Here in Korea the normal price for 1 sms is around 3 cents, but no operators offer flatrate, due to its abuse by spammers.

    At first, in Korea, all major carriers had provided flat rate plans, but once cell phone spammers started to abuse them (custom SMS spamming software + PC + flat rate plan = unlimited spamming capability), they quickly removed it from their plan list.
    Seriously, I used to recieve 20+ SMS spams a day on the worst ages, but once carriers started to provide spam filtering (free of charge, can disable any time), the spam rate dropped to less than one per week.

    However, there still are service plans that even provide 1000+ free messages per month, and it seems to be enough for most people.

    Anyway, flatrate seems to be troublesome, and it seems to be (sort of) surprising that US carriers have those kind of rates.

  11. Re:Well... by rob1980 · · Score: 2, Interesting

    i-only-want-som ething-that-can-call-and-receive-calls

    Like this?

  12. Re:Why text when you can talk? by winmine · · Score: 5, Funny

    Perhaps you should take advantage of the new and popular acronyms to save time and make texting easier. Here are some relevant to your interests:

    GOML (get off my lawn)
    IGAB (I got a bingo!)
    DFOL (dentures fell out laughing)

  13. Old news here by Opportunist · · Score: 3, Insightful

    Teens have been raking up text bills that even went past those 1100 bucks. No, I don't understand the text craze. Personally, I prefer talking under normal circumstances. It's actually even cheaper here when you compare the amount of data you can exchange in the one to four minutes you could talk here for the price of one text message.

    Kids have always had insane phone bills. That phenomenon didn't hit the US with their flat local call plans, but here it's been a lengthy battle between the kids who prefer the impersonal way of communication because it eliminates the "danger" of "saying the wrong thing" with your body, and their parents who have to foot the bill for it.

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  14. Who's disciplining the parents? by nanojath · · Score: 4, Insightful

    Janet Boyd, a lobbyist for Dow Chemical, said she and her husband "nearly died" when they got a $70 charge for their 20-year-old daughter's text-messaging. They went to an unlimited plan.

    There's so many things wrong with that sentence I don't know where to begin.

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    1. Re:Who's disciplining the parents? by UnrefinedLayman · · Score: 3, Insightful
      I think what he's saying is this:
      • A lobbyist - the most evil profession next to advertising executives
      • for Dow Chemical - a most evil company
      • "nearly died" when they got a $70 charge - to have "nearly died" over a $70 fee when you're a well paid lobbyist is insulting; being uninsured, breaking your leg on the job, getting fired from your minimum wage position because you can't work, then getting a $16,000 hospital bill is cause to have "nearly died" upon opening a bill
      • for their 20-year old daughter - who needs to get a job to buy some fucking scissors to cut the fucking umbilical cord
      As for "it is their business - not yours," I would respectfully disagree. It became our business the moment they let themselves be interviewed and have the information published.
    2. Re:Who's disciplining the parents? by maadlucas · · Score: 2, Funny

      The sentence is fine, it's Dow Chemical I'm worried about.

    3. Re:Who's disciplining the parents? by Moridineas · · Score: 2, Insightful

      My god you're right, a frugal lobbyist (evil, of course) who isn't happy when their kid spends money extravagantly? there's something horrifyingly wrong there all right.

  15. asynchronous, faster, and persistent by straponego · · Score: 4, Insightful
    If you have something quick to say, a text message is much faster and more convenient. You want to get rid of email too? Hey, let's get rid of forums like /. Why post something permanently when we could just have a giant chat room? All we have to do is get everybody together at once. In fact: let's all meet in person! It's ever so much more personal that way.

    If you have something quick to say, a text message is much faster and more convenient. Texting is also particularly useful for bits of information you might need later.

    OTOH, SMS is a really crappy technology. I think it's vastly overpriced even given how inefficient it is, but... wow. And the telcos have little incentive to fix it as long as people are willing to pay insane, outrageous prices per byte.

  16. Re:6,807 messages? by Archangel+Michael · · Score: 3, Insightful

    OMG
    LOL
    I (heart) U
    U 2
    U See WHF (what's his/her face)
    OMG
    Ugly
    OMG YNK (you're not kidding)

    I can easily seeing a totally meaningless conversation with nothing but acronyms and shortcuts and words no bigger than 5 letters, all in the span of a few minutes. Makes me wonder about our next generation. It really does.

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  17. Re:Not just kids ... talk to my wife by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 5, Insightful

    that $200 bill almost spelled divorce.

    That's a solid relationship you have there.

  18. Three letters: WTF ??!? by mcrbids · · Score: 5, Insightful

    But seriously, why is a phone call cheaper than an SMS message? It's all a digital network, so in cost per bit, SMS messages are something like 66 times more expensive than a phone call.

    Let's compare: Digital cell phones use about 14.4 Kbps of bandwidth. (which explains their clarity) Figure about 30 seconds of talking to get the equivalent of a text message, with the "Hello, is SO AND SO there? Yeah. Yeah. It's Billie. 'O, o joy ur so kul'. -CHUCKLE- Ok, see you later. By by. ".

    That works out to a total of 54,000 bytes, or 108,000 Bytes/minute. I get about 1,000 minutes at $70/month, a la Verizon. Each minute therefore costs $0.07. So the cost per 30 seconds of conversation is something like 3.5 cents, for 56,000 bytes.

    An SMS message is, at its longest, 160 Bytes long. Include headers, let's be generous and say it's double that. (it's not) 320 bytes in an SMS message. Here, we're asking for 15 cents for just 360 bytes?!?!?

    Voice
    54,000/3.5 cents = .00006 cents per byte ($0.000006 / byte)

    SMS
    360 bytes/15 cents = .04 cents per byte. ($0.0004 / byte)

    If you were buying soda, it'd be like buying a 12 oz can of soda for about $20 while a 2 liter bottle costs $1.

    Does that seem like good math to you? BTW: I bought into "unlimited text messaging" back when Verizon offered it, and have refused to upgrade plans until I get it. I've got a network monitor, and when something goes wrong I can get tons of messages all at once if I'm not careful.

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    1. Re:Three letters: WTF ??!? by watchingeyes · · Score: 2, Interesting

      Not sure about in the U.S., but in Canada SMS is provided by third parties, not the main cell phone companies. This is the case with all 3 major Canadian networks (Telus, Bell, Rogers). I work for one of them, and we were just discussing this the other day.

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    2. Re:Three letters: WTF ??!? by CosmeticLobotamy · · Score: 4, Interesting

      It's cheaper because if you charge 15 cents for a text message, you can sell 40 bajillion minutes for $8 a century, beating your competitor's 40 bajillion for $12.

      The cheap minutes sell the plan, the texting makes the money.

      Also, they can. This is how it works with a free market with ridiculously high barriers to entry. It's insane, but you'll eat it and you'll like it.

      Though legitimately, I assume there is some overhead involved in creating a connection over and over (finding the customer's current cell and whatnot) rather than just maintaining one, but I can't imagine that actually comes close to making up the difference in price per bit.

    3. Re:Three letters: WTF ??!? by Jeff+DeMaagd · · Score: 2, Informative

      I have not confirmed it, but last I heard, things like SMS were consigned to a little-used side band in the GSM protocol and the like, not a regular data packet. That side band is supposedly being heavily overloaded.

    4. Re:Three letters: WTF ??!? by rylin · · Score: 5, Funny

      Each minute therefore costs $0.07.
      Is that .07 dollars or .07 cents?
    5. Re:Three letters: WTF ??!? by arivanov · · Score: 3, Informative

      This is verizon which IIRC is not GSM so I do not know what the actual overhead is.

      In classic GSM the SMS travels as a part of the paging messages and the amount of bandwidth available to it is actually quite low. So by standard law of supply and demand its price cannot be expected to be very low. Network in classic GSM simply does not have the capacity to handle lots of SMS hence it is not going to become very cheap without resorting to more modern technology.

      From some point onwards (forgot which standard level) you can use GPRS for SMS which vastly improves the capacity, but it is not either not enabled or not the default setting in most operators and phones at the moment.

      So there is an underlying economical reason for the relatively high price of TXT compared to voice as well as the fact that TXT is charged differently from other data. At least in GSM. No idea about whatever Verizon uses.

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    6. Re:Three letters: WTF ??!? by tenton · · Score: 5, Funny

      Is that .07 dollars or .07 cents?

      Verizon: Yes.

    7. Re:Three letters: WTF ??!? by nbritton · · Score: 2, Interesting

      If you were buying soda, it'd be like buying a 12 oz can of soda for about $20 while a 2 liter bottle costs $1.
      You do realize that a 2 liter bottle is often cheaper then a 20oz bottle, yes?
  19. Ah the good ol days by nEoN+nOoDlE · · Score: 4, Insightful

    Remember those huge phone bills from long distance BBS usage back in the day? I never reached over a $1000 a month but I've had a few hundred bucks a month on occasion.

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  20. Re:Not just kids ... talk to my wife by Cheapy · · Score: 4, Funny

    If you were honestly thinking about divorce over a paltry sum of $200, you really might wanna go over why you married in the first place. :)

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  21. Read the friggin contract people by rueger · · Score: 4, Interesting

    First there was this guy whining because it took more than one button click to bail out of the credit card subscription to an anti-virus service, now it's parents whining because they didn't anticipate that the cel company provided less minutes than their kid uses.

    Is it really too much to ask that people read the contract or EULA, and if they accept it, not complain when they find that they made a mistake?

    I'm not even remotely Libertarian, but for God's sake accept some personal responsibility for your actions.

  22. You can't always talk in class..... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 2, Interesting

    My son is in his second year of university. He says that a lot of these kids use their phones to talk with each other while in class. If they start talking normally, or even over their phones, the professor will hear, and thus will quickly put an end to their conversations. But when text messaging, it's nearly undetectable.

    He says he's seen some people try to cheat on tests by messaging each other answers. Back in January or February he was telling me about an incident that he witnessed during a test he was writing. Apparently a group of five or six students from India or Pakistan were sending each other answers over their phones. The professor suspected they were cheating, and confronted some of them. They denied cheating, saying they were just using their phones as calculators. The professor still confiscated their phones anyways. A couple of those students started whispering to each other, so the professor kicked them out of the test.

    So it's easy to see how a typical multiple-choice test, with perhaps 75 to 120 questions, could lead to several hundred messages being sent by a student, especially if there's collaboration between several other students. Of course, they probably wouldn't have to cheat on the tests were they not sending messages to one another during class, and instead paying attention to the lecture.

  23. QTFA by Austaph · · Score: 2, Informative

    Wireless companies, meanwhile, are rolling out new packages to meet demand. "For a teenager to send thousands of text messages a month is not unusual," said John Johnson, a spokesman for Verizon Wireless. Last month the company introduced an unlimited texting plan because even its highest bundle of free text messages -- 5,000 a month -- wasn't enough.
  24. Re:Parents and teachers are pussies. by Planesdragon · · Score: 4, Insightful

    All the teachers would need to do is smash the phone of any kid caught sending these messages in class.

    In most jurisdictions, that's "willful destruction of property" or a similar criminal and civil infraction.

    The rule of law does not allow the government to take private property without fair compensation. A teacher is, at best, part of the government. I suspect any teacher that earned their school a $300 replacement fee would pretty quickly loose their standing.

    An "F" or detention is much simpler.

  25. What 6807 messages really amounts to by TheMCP · · Score: 2, Insightful

    Assuming a 31 day month and assuming she sleeps 8 hours a night, that's an average of one text message every 4.3 minutes all day long, every day. Of course in practice she probably has classes in which her teachers won't allow her to sit there typing away on her cell phone, and has homework (if she actually does it), and needs to put the phone down for a few minutes at meals to use her hands to shovel food into her mouth... so I'd guess that in practice during the time she finds available for texting, the actual rate of message transfer is much higher than once every 4.3 minutes.

    Frankly if I had a kid sending text messages that often, I'd send them to a psychologist to try to help them figure out why they have this obsessive compulsive problem that they can't stop using the phone, and to help them get over it. A kid who is texting that frantically all the time has *problems*.

    Oh, and I'd tell them they have to pay the bill, even if that means paying me back in installments.

    1. Re:What 6807 messages really amounts to by hazem · · Score: 2, Insightful

      Don't forget the inbound messages. My guess is she receives more than she transmits. Suppose she has 8 friend and they're having an 8-way chat.... all the time.

      Frankly if I had a kid sending text messages that often,
      Our parents were afraid of/bothered by rock and roll/Madonna. We're afraid of/bothered by texting.

      It's just the way kids like to communicate today. We've created a very connected society (SMS, IM, etc) and that's what kids are used to... constant communication with all of their friends. It's a new social order, really.

  26. No one said teenagers are intelligent by watchingeyes · · Score: 2, Insightful

    When I was a teenager (like, 4 years ago) I KNEW how much texting cost, and at the beginning of each billing cycle cleared all the text messages on my phone so I could monitor how much I sent during the billing cycle and limit my usage.

    It took me about 2 and 1/2 minutes of work a month. As I've always maintained, the vast majority of teenagers are far from the sharpest tools in the shed. It isn't exactly a difficult concept.... each text costs money, hence the more texts you send, the higher your bill will be.

    Of course I also paid my own phone bill when I got my first phone at age 15. So a good solution would be to tell your kids that if they want a cell phone, pay for it themselves (no age restrictions on pre-paid plans). Pre-paid plans are also good if you pay for your kids' cell plans, because if they use up all of the money on the account, their phone simply stops functioning.

    And last but not least, parents who let their kids use a service that is billed based on usage with no restrictions whatsoever kind of deserve to have this happen.

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  27. Preemptive strike! by simpleguy · · Score: 4, Funny


    Durex.

    Nuff said.

  28. Stupid parents. by Pyrion · · Score: 2, Interesting

    If they actually paid attention to their cellphone bill, all it would take is a phone call to customer service to add prepaid txt messages for a fraction of what they'd pay after the fact.

    That or they could just take away the phone, but this way everyone's happy.

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  29. Re:Kids these days (?) by aamcf · · Score: 2, Funny

    Pretty much every parent in my office knows more about cells than their kids.

    Of course, I do work for Openwave.

  30. Re:Why text when you can talk? by Bogtha · · Score: 5, Insightful

    Why text when you can talk?

    It's an asynchronous conversation. If I want to know if you are coming to the pub later, I don't need to know right now, I don't need to interrupt what you are doing, and I don't particularly want to chat, because that's what we'll be doing at the pub. If I see a programme on television about fat chicks, I might text my mate — who is a bit of a chubby chaser — to take the piss, but I don't necessarily want a response or to talk to him. And from a purely lazy perspective, sending a few words via text message just seems like less hassle than a conversation. I'll typically talk to between six and ten people when deciding what to do at the weekend, it takes much less attention and time to do it with SMS than with voice.

    Slashdot translation: voice == TCP, SMS == UDP. Voice and TCP require a set-up, whether that's a three-way handshake or a "Hi how are you doing?". SMS and UDP just communicate the relevant information and let you deal with it in your own time.

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  31. Unlimited by Kuvter · · Score: 2, Funny

    And to think they could have gotten 'unlimited texting' for only $5 a month.

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  32. because it is a contract by fmobus · · Score: 3, Insightful

    When you sign a contract saying 1 = $0.15, you are making the option of not spending $15 for a flat-rate you don't find necessary. If you think you're gonna be using lots and lots of SMSs that month, you should upgrade to the flat-rate plan.

    Also, your analogy is flawed: is more like, suppose 1/3 liter Coca-Cola cans were $1 each and 3-liter bottles $2. At the beginning of the month, family A buys 10 such bottles. Family B, however, buys 3 cans each and every day. They will get the same amount of Coca-Cola, but family A saved 10 bucks.

    Everyone knows larger packages are cheaper in terms of cost-to-benefit ratio. If you feel you're likely to reach the flat-rate pay-off limit, sign for a flat-rate. If your kids are not manageable enough, use pre-paid plans or punish them cutting other amenities to teach them to value their parents' hard-earned money.

    Of course, there is still the wild WTF of having TO PAY to RECEIVE SMS in US, which simply doesn't make any sense to me

  33. Re:Why not use IM client that uses data instead? by loraksus · · Score: 2, Informative

    Maybe because Treos sort of cost $600?

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  34. Re:15 cents each?! by jZnat · · Score: 2, Insightful

    Kinda hard to flock to another cell carrier when you're stuck in a 2+ year contract with an absurdly high cancellation fee. And then there's the fact that pretty much all the mobile telcos will do this as well...

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  35. Parent is correct by Tickletaint · · Score: 3, Informative

    Parent is the only reply to get it right. It's not that the cellular providers are ripping us off (well, at least not just that)—it's that SMS bandwidth is extremely limited (see also here, here, here). For shame, Slashdot!

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  36. The concept of "good parent" is new... by Etherwalk · · Score: 2, Insightful

    Once upon a time, your child was him/her self, and turned out well or turned out poorly. There wasn't today's constant quest to blame a parent for all of a child's problems or issues.

    A child is a human being, after all--and (s)he encounters many situations, and many environments, while growing up. The home environment is important, and is terribly neglected in today's society--but it's not everything. Similarly, teachers and schooling aren't everything. And scheduled activities aren't everything. And television isn't everything. And free time isn't everything. They all come together and mix it up with a child's nature.

    A good parent, yes, can do a tremendous amount. But a good parent functions (largely) within the context of an external world, and some children are harder to raise than others, good parent or no.

  37. Data services on mobile networks by Anonymous+Brave+Guy · · Score: 4, Informative

    I used to work in the Engineering department of a mobile service provider, so the information here may be somewhat out of date, but the principles are probably still the same today.

    In general, mobile communications networks don't use the same channel for everything. For example, you might have several frequencies available, use one as a control channel (registering handsets as they move around; handshaking to set up calls, etc.) and then have several channels used for voice data.

    Now, it's not unusual for small data messages, such as SMS, to be carried on the control channel rather than voice channels. That means there is much less capacity available for such messages than for voice, because they have only a single channel, and they are also in competition with all the network registration traffic, etc.

    Moreover, the testing overhead for data messages can be higher than voice calls. Certainly for the network I worked on, every call type was made between every possible combination of approved handsets and checked by a real person before new software went live. (Yes, that did take months.)

    So in fact, from a technical point of view, it's entirely unfair to compare voice and data transactions. That probably doesn't matter in practice, of course, because prices will no doubt be set by what the market will bear rather than what it costs to provide the service. That usually means voice and basic texting are relatively cheap these days, but things like photo messaging (or whatever the bonus feature du jour is) tend to cost more.

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  38. It's not only kids... by Etherwalk · · Score: 4, Insightful

    Listen carefully to the grammar and syntax of our newscasters. Our newspapers. Our popular entertainment. Compare it to the same forty or fifty years ago.

    Some of them do make an effort. But the breadth of vocabulary, the precision of their diction, and the depth of their thought have--for the most part--declined over the years. Multiply that difference by about a thousand and you'll know what's happened in the New York City Public Schools. (Once upon a time, they were among the best in the world.)

    There are some counterexamples... but not many.

  39. Is text expensive or voice insanely cheap? by lennier · · Score: 2, Interesting

    7 cents a minute seems insanely cheap to me - either that or New Zealand cellphone costs are insanely expensive. In NZ, voice costs around $1/minute on cellphone. (I pay $20 monthly with Vodafone for 20 GSM minutes; this is an entry-level plan but fairly standard). For a 1100 minute plan, I'd pay $370/month - $0.33/minute, rock-bottom mininum.

    Meanwhile, texts begin at 20c each and for $10/month drop to 0.5c each.

    http://vodafone.co.nz/personal/plans-services/plan s/you-choose/index.jsp

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  40. Re:Not just kids ... talk to my wife by StikyPad · · Score: 4, Funny

    that $200 bill almost spelled divorce.

    That's a solid relationship you have there.


    He was being literal. When he ripped the bill into shreds and threw it on the floor, the pieces spelled out D-I-V-O-R-E-C.

  41. OMG WTF? by Frodrick · · Score: 2, Interesting

    How can anyone send 227 text messages per day ?

  42. Easy Solution by ktcifone · · Score: 2, Interesting

    This happened to me I paid for 300 text for each line. The first month they went over they paid me the costs, but the next month the bill was over $500 ( son sent over 3k messages in 2 weeks) Called my carrier and removed all text capabilities from their phones.

    Daughter asked me months later if they she could pay for text again, I told her that I pay for a phone so I can call her, If she wants text she needs to get her own.

    Easy, I warn every parent to remove text.

  43. Phone companies are hurting themselves by Gregory+Cox · · Score: 4, Insightful
    I agree it's unfair. In the end, though, phone companies doing this hurt themselves more than they hurt their customers.

    Look at this story. Verizon got a one-off payment of $1100 from one customer, and maybe similar payments for a few more. However, by charging this money, they have alienated these customers, and worse, generated extremely negative publicity for themselves.

    Even on technology-loving Slashdot, there have been many responses like these:
    • Kids shouldn't be sending so many text messages
    • I blame the parents for not controlling kids' use of their phones
    • I don't like text messages anyway
    The whole story is in effect a big advertisement for cutting down on your use of text messages.

    Verizon and other phone companies should switch customers who overspend like this to an unlimited price plan, retrospectively for that month - so that the customer never pays that high bill. They would lose money on this deal, but in return they would gain the gratitude of their customers, who are more likely to stay with them, bringing in a steady flow of income from their unlimited-messaging plans every month.

    What's more, these customers on unlimited plans are going to send more messages, encouraging those around them to reply, and increasing the overall use of text messaging. Even if their friends or family are using different providers, the increased volume of text messages will increase dependence on mobile phones, creating a culture in which mobile phone use is accepted, and benefiting the industry as a whole.

    Even criminals extorting money via kidnapping or blackmail are careful to consider what their victim is able and willing to pay when deciding on their charges. Being careful not to surprise customers with expensive charges is simply good business.
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  44. I have three problems with this. by AbRASiON · · Score: 2, Insightful

    Firstly, the kid should be controlled, do children need a damned mobile phone? Maybe I'm old fasioned but we didn't have them 15 years ago when I was a kid.
    Why not use a prepaid, why not use an account with cheaper SMS?

    The second problem I have with this is the goddamn phone companies charging so much for text!
    In some markets where the consumers aren't idiots, the rate for a text is 1c or even less - in Australia it's a nice butt rapingly harsh 22 or 25c on average :/

    The third problem I have is with companies that let exaggerated bills generate in the first place, I realise it's not their responsibility to an extent but every few years you hear of little Jonny dialing a 1800 number to speak to hot wet sluts for 300 hours in a month and his family end up owing 25grand or something - credit card companies put a freeze on excessive bills, where's this freeze for mobile plans?

    But really,.... get a damn plan with unlimited SMS or something.

  45. Require the phone to use spellcheck? by Aristos+Mazer · · Score: 2, Interesting

    > I've actually heard of kids in middle and high school who use
    > SMS and IM so much that they legitimately don't know how to
    > spell words like "you", "your/you're", and will use internet
    > abbreviations (lol, idk, etc.) in school papers.

    That suggests an interesting punishment... install a spellcheck on the cell phone and only allow text messages that conform to standard rules of spelling and grammer. For one thing, it'll cut down on the number of messages since they have to type more ("laughing out loud" takes longer than "lol"). For another, the kid will actually get some experience with the language they'll need in other venues.

    Of course, I suggest this only after a complete ban on all text messages until the kid pays the bill him/herself.

  46. I understand the feeling by mschuyler · · Score: 2, Funny

    which is why I'm holding my daughter's $2000 piano as hostage until she pays up. Hope it was worth it.

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  47. Greed by Datamonstar · · Score: 2, Insightful

    I've wondered a lot of things about texting. Why is it so popular? How do people seem to like it so much when I find it tedious and time consuming, especially when on the go? Why does it cost so much to do on a phone what I can do virtually for free on a computer? The entire mobile communication payment system needs to be changed quickly. It's currently mirroring the dark ages of internet access, when it was mysterious, addictive, and absorbently expensive. When precious online minutes were rationed out for a specified monthly fee. We've reached a new era in internet services, of unlimited fast internet that is mostly fair, free, and open. I can take my laptop outside find a free access point and chat all I want. I can even call people on their I don't know much about cellular communications, but it's so disturbing to me that these devices that are becoming increasingly similar to computers cannot benefit from some of the same advances in pricing. One day I hope that some loophole allows a clever start-up to offer a cellular service that is as free as the internet is. But I doubt that will happen because of the miles of greed-inspired red tape involved with it.

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  48. Denial by Gorimek · · Score: 2, Insightful

    Your conversation can be logically reduced to this

    But what if X is true

    Stop seeing X as true!

    Denying the existence of a problem is one of the most common ways to deal with problems. It does not have good track record, but people usually deny that as well, building a solid fortress of logic against reality.

  49. Killer Mom ? by freaker_TuC · · Score: 3, Funny

    (I'm sure if she said "kill a man," I might have had some objections, but thankfully, such requests were rare). Mommy, can I go out and kill tonight ... I feel, I feel like taking a life ...
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  50. this is how we spell itin europe: by andr0meda · · Score: 2, Funny

    n0 phn

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