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TrapCall Service To Bypass Caller ID Blocking

cemaco writes in with news that TelTech, developers of the infamous SpoofCard service, have come out with something even more controversial: a set of services for revealing blocked caller ID numbers. The services take advantage of a loophole in the way caller ID blocking works — it has never been effective when calling an 800 number, because the recipient is paying for the call. So TelTech instructs you how to forward blocked calls (transparently) to their 800 number; the call comes back to your phone in seconds with the formerly hidden caller ID revealed. Advocacy groups for victims of domestic violence are concerned. Victims of annoying calls hiding behind caller ID blocking are rejoicing.

399 comments

  1. I don't get it ?? by OneSmartFellow · · Score: 5, Funny

    Advocacy groups for victims of domestic violence are concerned

    What about ?

    1. Re:I don't get it ?? by 91degrees · · Score: 4, Informative

      The problem is serious, because domestic violence victims who've fled an abusive relationship often have to stay in contact with their abuser by phone, particularly in situations where the former couple share custody of their children," Southworth says.

      HTH.

    2. Re:I don't get it ?? by Markspark · · Score: 1

      now they can't call and whine without the person on the receiving end knowing who to blame.

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    3. Re:I don't get it ?? by wjh31 · · Score: 1

      im guessing they are worried about victims being traced by their numbers if they call up the abusive partners, but then why are they even calling them... so your point still stands in my view. If you have to hide your number you are likely up to no good, why not just make it illegal to hide your caller id

    4. Re:I don't get it ?? by Hyppy · · Score: 0, Troll

      So use a prepaid cell phone. The only thing the "abuser" will be able to get is a cell number, which can be turned off at will.

    5. Re:I don't get it ?? by hedwards · · Score: 1

      There are so many things wrong with that sentence that I don't have any idea where to start. In cases where it's that bad, one has to wonder why there's shared custody involved. And it really makes me wonder why they need to use the phone, some other form of communication, one with logs, would probably be a better choice anyways.

      Then again, I can't imagine who in their right mind would call from their landline assuming that it couldn't be logged or have the number otherwise identified. My phone number is blocked from caller ID and most companies I call for service know what it is without asking.

    6. Re:I don't get it ?? by Hyppy · · Score: 5, Insightful

      The "if you've got nothing to hide..." argument is quite the slippery slope. It's a bit authoritarian to criminalize everything you don't personally do or agree with yourself, isn't it?

    7. Re:I don't get it ?? by Twisted+Willie · · Score: 3, Insightful

      If you have to hide your number you are likely up to no good, why not just make it illegal to hide your caller id

      If you don't let the police into your house, you are likeley up to no good. Why not just get rid of search warrants and make it illegal to deny the police entry to your house?

    8. Re:I don't get it ?? by GuldKalle · · Score: 1

      Why not just make it impossible to hide your ID?

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    9. Re:I don't get it ?? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 5, Insightful

      yeah because battered women have just so much money to throw around on cell phones...most of them are so screwed financially that they spend a period of time in a shelter.

      but the way that you put quotes around abuser shows where you really stand on this.

    10. Re:I don't get it ?? by assassinator42 · · Score: 2, Insightful

      How would those people afford to have a permanent phone number to call from, then? You can get a prepaid phone for around $20 per three months.

    11. Re:I don't get it ?? by athos-mn · · Score: 5, Informative

      We're concerned because most crisis call lines are not the phone bank you see on TV, but volunteers that work at home. As a crisis line volunteer, you want your home number blocked so that the client calls the crisis line and not you.

      Some of the people we deal with aren't particularly stable and may try to latch on to the crisis worker - these, if they go into common use, could cause mental health issues for the users of crisis hotlines, AND the volunteers.

    12. Re:I don't get it ?? by drinkypoo · · Score: 1

      Except they really don't. The system in their state that deals with custody and such will do that on behalf of the woman (though usually not the man.) They don't have to be in touch with them at all. Going into the subject of domestic violence would only complicate the issue, but suffice to say that a lot of the time it's pure bullshit. (Actual rape is underreported.)

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    13. Re:I don't get it ?? by FingerSoup · · Score: 4, Informative

      So you want people to be able to call the shelter, whom also blocks their number? Show up with a nice "XXX Women's Shelter" On call display so that the women can be hunted down? Real smart.... Not everyone has access to cheap disposable cell phone plans.

    14. Re:I don't get it ?? by Thornburg · · Score: 4, Insightful

      The company offering this unblocking service should offer a free service to victims of abuse where they can call the company (by way of an 800 or 888 number), and the company will place a monitored and recorded call to the person in question (i.e. connect the two, but record the conversation and have an operator either always listening, or available at the push of a button).

      This would allow them to make a call that doesn't reveal their location, and would make a heck of a lot more sense than having private phone calls with someone who has the potential to cause you extreme harm.

    15. Re:I don't get it ?? by Overzeetop · · Score: 4, Insightful

      So go spend $700 on a phone system for the crisis line. You call in, enter your code, and then dial out from the crisis number. My TalkSwitch can do that for my small business without breaking a sweat. The CallerID that goes out is the number from the business. In my case, that sucks, because if you call my office an bounce to my cell, the incoming number is my office number, not the original caller. In this case, it's just a simple matter of training for the volunteers.

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    16. Re:I don't get it ?? by morgan_greywolf · · Score: 5, Interesting

      Actually, battered women's shelters and advocacy groups can help with this problem. They often actually buy victims throw-away cell phones for this purpose.

    17. Re:I don't get it ?? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      My ex used to call me, blocking her CallerID. I got an 800 number, and the first time she called, voila, I had HER number.

      Really, this BS about "domestic violence victims" is just that ... BS. Anyone can get your number by forwarding to an 800 number. Live with it.

    18. Re:I don't get it ?? by Thiez · · Score: 3, Interesting

      Surely it must be possible to create a system that acts as a proxy for phonecalls? Other organizations could then subscribe and register their phone numbers with the proxy. Phone the proxy, then enter the phone number you want to call, and the proxy calls that number for you and starts acting as a (dun-dun-DUN) proxy. All the callee can see is where the proxy is located.

      Does this kinda thing exist already?

    19. Re:I don't get it ?? by FredFredrickson · · Score: 1

      If the man is abusive, he usually loses custody.. So, yeah, stay off the phone ladies. If you're really itching to call somebody, call me. ;)

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    20. Re:I don't get it ?? by Skye16 · · Score: 1

      Yeah, I was going to say. I thought that was the entire reason I donate my cell phones to the YWCA when I'm done with them.

    21. Re:I don't get it ?? by inviolet · · Score: 1

      The "if you've got nothing to hide..." argument is quite the slippery slope. It's a bit authoritarian to criminalize everything you don't personally do or agree with yourself, isn't it?

      Worse than that. That argument implies that the public's moral code is always right, and hence all privacy is suspect.

      In reality I find the opposite is usually true. The public gets is moral code from television anyway. Meanwhile virtuous people must remain stealthy lest they be drained for their productivity and punished for their certainty.

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    22. Re:I don't get it ?? by Spatial · · Score: 3, Insightful

      Besides that, it's also a complete fallacy.

    23. Re:I don't get it ?? by R2.0 · · Score: 5, Interesting

      Although I agree with your sentiment about the OP's attitude, it is an unfortunate fact that protection orders are routinely used by the woman's lawyer in a divorce case. My brother in law is going through a really nasty divorce right now, which his wife initiated when his salary got drastically cut. The first thing she did was file for a protective order against him, on the grounds that she was "afraid" of him. It was granted immediately, since that is policy in most courts, and now he can't enter his own house. Meanwhile, she gets to strip the house of anything of value (like checkbooks, etc.) and he can do nothing about it. And as far as I know, the only "violence" he ever employed was on his high school football team.

      Women like this play right into the "they're all lying" crowd, and reinforce the misogynistic views that some abusers have.

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    24. Re:I don't get it ?? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Shared custody because the COURTS force it. Alienation of whatever -- parental alienation? I know CHILDREN who have been sexually abused by their fathers and still are forced by the courts to have overnight, unsupervised visits with their abusers. It makes me sick to watch that little girl just die inside.

      And her mother.

      And her mother taking abuse from the system for 'false reports'.

    25. Re:I don't get it ?? by Andy+Dodd · · Score: 2, Interesting

      I would guess that victims of domestic violence would NOT be calling their abusers but would potentially be receiving threatening/harassing calls from their abusers.

      Why wouldn't they be rejoicing about this?

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    26. Re:I don't get it ?? by Cyner · · Score: 1

      1. Knowing the number doesn't mean you know where the phone is.
      2. Knowing the number doesn't mean you know who's phone it is.
      3. We should invent some sort of public anonymous phone, we could have users of these public phones pay a small fee for their use. That way the user could remain anonymous, despite showing the calling number on caller ID.
      4. If someone really want to do you bodily harm, why are you calling them directly in the first place? This is common sense, and /.ers should have called them on this one already.

      A little info on the modern phone system. It's all digital these days, mostly a system called AIN, except for the little bit between your phone and the local CO. From there out the digital system keeps track of endpoints, comparable to an IP address. If you have a digital phone, like ISDN (ISDN-PRI phone lines are very common in businesses), the AIN endpoints are usually mapped to ISDN fields. Correctly programmed phone systems mask this information when the CID-Block Bit is set; but you can see the potential for abuse. This service just makes it easier, nothing that wasn't possible before.

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    27. Re:I don't get it ?? by Applekid · · Score: 2, Interesting

      Show up with a nice "XXX Women's Shelter" On call display so that the women can be hunted down?

      Why bother running a women's shelter if you're not going to bother hiring security for them?

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    28. Re:I don't get it ?? by Mr.+Slippery · · Score: 3, Interesting

      Why bother running a women's shelter if you're not going to bother hiring security for them?

      Security through obscurity - a hidden location - is often "good enough" in meatspace, and considerably cheaper than 24 hour armed guards.

      See here for an example of a shelter with a secrecy policy

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    29. Re:I don't get it ?? by operagost · · Score: 1

      yeah because battered women have just so much money to throw around on cell phones...most of them are so screwed financially that they spend a period of time in a shelter.

      Well, since most couples don't keep a second house around in case someone needs to walk out, yeah-- a shelter is often involved. Women of all classes can be abused. Anyway, I suppose you haven't heard Mr. AC but there are prepaid cell phones you can get for under $20 including 60 minutes, and for $20 or less you can add 60 more minutes (it's a better deal to get larger cards, of course).

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    30. Re:I don't get it ?? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I'm undecided on GP's argument, but I don't see it as an "if you have nothing to hide" type of argument. There's a difference between "you don't need privacy" (what you're implying) and "in this situation I don't think you can expect privacy" (what GP said).

      It's strange to me that people don't know that "slippery slope" is a fallacy. If you want to argue "if we do X, we might later do Y", I would think you'd at least avoid using the words "slippery slope", since that is the name by which the fallacy is known (and taught in any class on logic or debate). Why explicitely point out that you're making a fallacious argument?

    31. Re:I don't get it ?? by mabhatter654 · · Score: 2, Insightful

      because women that have left home under bad circumstance find out where the guy is and call him.. from mom/sister/shleter/etc. and block the caller ID because they don't want to be found and beat up again.

      Perhaps they need to discuss custody or divorce, etc, the point is that they don't want to be found. A restraining order is just "words" when somebody shows up to beat you up.

    32. Re:I don't get it ?? by nabsltd · · Score: 1

      Surely it must be possible to create a system that acts as a proxy for phonecalls?

      Perhaps something like the SpoofCard caller ID spoofing service, created by the same company that has created this new service, and mentioned in both TFA and TFS.

    33. Re:I don't get it ?? by e4g4 · · Score: 1

      Does this kinda thing exist already?

      Sure does - it's called a calling card. You call a number, enter a pin, and your call is redirected through their system to the number you wish to reach, tracing the call would require a warrant. (Or some social engineering.)

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    34. Re:I don't get it ?? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1, Interesting

      My wife is the director of the local DV shelter...you can't hire "security" if you can't afford it. They rely on many funding streams, but many of them specify what you can and cannot spend the money on. For instance, Grant A will only pay for (a portion of) two employees' salaries, while Grant B will only pay for bills and appliances. Additionally, many grants that they utilize require the organization to match 20 percent, sometimes specified to be local funding streams (i.e. donations, fundraisers). This can be quite difficult in our county, which is one of the poorest in the state (and maybe it ranks up there in the country per capita). My wife has been working for the past three years to increase funding enough to staff the shelter 24/7, so "hiring security" is completely out of the question. You think the local sheriff's office wants to station an officer at a DV shelter when they can barely afford to buy new patrol cars? And another thing...in a small community like ours, the courts and law enforcement are reluctant to help and are borderline corrupt, so any bit of information that slips out can be dangerous.

    35. Re:I don't get it ?? by DrLang21 · · Score: 1

      Why the hell would someone be calling their abuser?

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    36. Re:I don't get it ?? by Hyppy · · Score: 1

      Daniel Solove's has quite the paper on it as well.

    37. Re:I don't get it ?? by billcopc · · Score: 2, Insightful

      And that is why we need to strike all these sexist laws from the books. Justice can't be justice when there's an explicit bias toward one party.

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    38. Re:I don't get it ?? by Thiez · · Score: 1

      Then why are these 'advocacy groups for victims of domestic violence' concerned?

    39. Re:I don't get it ?? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Why make things harder on your security when a women's shelter is already a high-risk environment? Where is the money coming from for a quality security detail? You?

    40. Re:I don't get it ?? by morgan_greywolf · · Score: 1

      Yep, although I'm not sure how many the YWCA sell for cash and how many they give to battered women. Someone a bit more familiar with the program can post here. Besides programs like that, you can also donate your used cell phones to a project that sends them overseas to soldiers so that they can communicate with their families back at home.

    41. Re:I don't get it ?? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      because they're trying to call their kids, who happen to be at the same residence.
      Try a little critical thinking, or you know, just the regular sort.

    42. Re:I don't get it ?? by DrLang21 · · Score: 1

      TFA also points out that caller ID blocking has never been a secure system. It has always been possible to reroute calls to an 800 number where caller ID blocking is useless.

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    43. Re:I don't get it ?? by Dragonslicer · · Score: 1

      If you have to hide your number you are likely up to no good, why not just make it illegal to hide your caller id If you don't let the police into your house, you are likeley up to no good. Why not just get rid of search warrants and make it illegal to deny the police entry to your house?

      That's just a bit too much hyperbole, don't you think? You're comparing identifying yourself to the party you're contacting when initiating communication (you should always have the option to not initiate communication with someone) to armed law enforcement entering your private residence at any time.

    44. Re:I don't get it ?? by tinkerghost · · Score: 2, Insightful

      A restraining order is just "words" when somebody shows up to beat you up.

      Amen to that. My first wife's mother was killed by an ex-boyfriend who was out on bail for "menacing with a pistol"* and who had a restraining order. He bought a shotgun & a combat knife with an active restraining order.
      * - menacing with a pistol = put a loaded gun to her head, handcuffed her to him, and lost his nerve trying to suicide by cop.

    45. Re:I don't get it ?? by nasor · · Score: 2, Insightful

      So buy a $30 pay-as-you-go cellphone. Problem solved.

    46. Re:I don't get it ?? by Andy+Dodd · · Score: 1

      Here's some critical thinking - How would someone who committed domestic abuse against their spouse still have custody of the children? There's something seriously wrong if the case you state for an abuse victim to call their abuser is ever valid. Someone who abused their spouse should NEVER have custody of their children.

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    47. Re:I don't get it ?? by Hatta · · Score: 3, Insightful

      Trouble is, the law is usually written fairly. Domestic abuse is domestic abuse no matter who does it. The trouble is with the judges who presume guilt on the part of the man.

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    48. Re:I don't get it ?? by nasor · · Score: 1

      "So much money"? Are you kidding? I paid $30 for my phone, and $20 for 80 minutes that last three months. $7/month is a trivial expense, even for a relatively poor person.

    49. Re:I don't get it ?? by nasor · · Score: 1

      I would be a whole lot more worried about someone finding the shelter by following their wife/gf/whatever to it after a meeting or something.

    50. Re:I don't get it ?? by ceoyoyo · · Score: 1

      Sure. I volunteered on a crisis line for a while and when we had to call someone back we'd just dial up the local 911 dispatch, they'd make the call, then connect the two lines.

    51. Re:I don't get it ?? by ceoyoyo · · Score: 1

      If your crisis line makes you call clients directly, quit. That's incredibly badly organized.

      The one I volunteered with used to have us call 911 dispatch, they'd call the client, then connect us.

    52. Re:I don't get it ?? by camperdave · · Score: 1

      some other form of communication, one with logs, would probably be a better choice anyways.

      There are remarkably few people who know how to communicate by smoke signals.

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    53. Re:I don't get it ?? by StalinsNotDead · · Score: 1

      Why would a crisis hotline volunteer be making outbound calls? Do they call these people back?

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    54. Re:I don't get it ?? by oldspewey · · Score: 2, Informative

      I know somebody who's (soon to be ex) wife played this card too. She claimed she was suffering verbal and psychological abuse and used it to severely restrict his access to the children while the whole messy process was unfolding. After some time, the judge handling the case began to see through the most egregious of her lies, but not before the kids were emotionally scarred from all the bullshit.

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    55. Re:I don't get it ?? by DrOct · · Score: 1

      And what if the victim is trying to get in touch with their children? Say they call the house hoping the child will pick up, with the plan to hang up if the abuser picks up? Or if they want to be sure there isn't a caller ID record of the number they were calling from?

      There are plenty of reasons why hiding your caller ID could be important, especially for victims of abuse.

      Whenever you see an issue like this and you think that the only people needing a privacy service or something like that are stupid or criminals you probably just haven't thought of all the different ways it could be important.

    56. Re:I don't get it ?? by Twisted+Willie · · Score: 1

      You call it hyperbole, I call it pointing out the slippery slope.

    57. Re:I don't get it ?? by DrOct · · Score: 2, Insightful

      You seem to be assuming that the legal system always works perfectly, and instantly.

      What if the abuse has just happened? What if the woman had to flee to a shelter without any notice and now needs to contact her children to tell them where she is? What if the case hasn't gone through yet?

      There are many many situations you probably can't think of where this sort of thing could be necessary.

      Sure an abuser shouldn't have custody of the children, but the reality is that they frequently do, and we need to deal with the reality of the world not just with ideals of how it should work.

    58. Re:I don't get it ?? by 91degrees · · Score: 1
      I can see a few potential issues.
      1. The abuser may call back and harass you.
      2. If you stay with a friend you may use their landline. This will allow the abusive spouse to work out which friend quite easily.
      3. You don't want to encourage vulnerable women (or even vulnerable men) to use public phones.
      4. No argument there.

      Honestly, I think your last point outweighs all the others quite considerably. I'm surprised that children are permitted to stay with an alleged violent person, or that the victim didn't take the children when fleeing.

    59. Re:I don't get it ?? by Belial6 · · Score: 1

      Until someone invents the machine of ultimate truth detection, there will always be cases where the abuser has the children. Being in a shelter neither proves that you are not abusive, nor does it prove that your spouse is.

    60. Re:I don't get it ?? by Saysys · · Score: 1

      Turns out that my Car's insurance has lapsed and been the victim of domestic violence.

    61. Re:I don't get it ?? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Yeah. The spoofcard guys do have a service like that. ITS CALLED SPOOFCARD. It just isn't free. Furthermore it is illegal in the state of Florida now. Yea that will just be hilarious, a battered wife in jail for using a caller ID blocking service to protect her from her abusive husband.

    62. Re:I don't get it ?? by Jah-Wren+Ryel · · Score: 3, Interesting

      You can rejoice. My sister-in-law, who lived with a guy for 15 years, got a restraining order to keep her out of their house (which was entirely in her name). The real nice thing about it was that it was "stealth" he played her for the week before, acting like they might get back together, having dinner with her, even coming over and replacing a flat tire on her car and they had no history of violence in their entire relationship (plus, the guy is like 6'5" 250lbs and she's 5'4 99lbs).

      FWIW, one of her sisters was suspicious and had a friend at the courts watching the daily roster of filings (or whatever it is called) and they saw his lawyer schedule the hearing to file the restraining order and so she was able to quickly sell the house to someone else in the family before it was too late.

      But hey, at least BOTH sexes are able to abuse the laws now. Equality for all.

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    63. Re:I don't get it ?? by wastedlife · · Score: 2, Insightful

      And security will do what to stop the guy from waiting nearby for her to leave? The biggest security in women's shleters are that their locations are kept as secret as possible.

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    64. Re:I don't get it ?? by Morty · · Score: 1

      Down this road lies madness. It's an arms race. We had caller ID. Then we got caller ID blocking to workaround caller ID. The guys from TFA are providing a workaround for caller ID blocking, which is itself a workaround for caller ID. OK, so you will create a workaround for the workaround for the workaround. Are you sure someone won't come along and create a workaround for that?

      The system is broken. The solution is not endless technical workarounds, the solution is to fix the holes in the system.

    65. Re:I don't get it ?? by StikyPad · · Score: 1

      Except you've both gotten off track. You're both using statements about the government and applying them to private citizens. This is not about the government monitoring who's calling whom, it's about knowing who's calling you.

    66. Re:I don't get it ?? by CraftyJack · · Score: 1

      Surely it must be possible to

      famous last words.

    67. Re:I don't get it ?? by iYk6 · · Score: 1

      Surely it must be possible to create a system that acts as a proxy for phonecalls? ... Does this kinda thing exist already?

      Yes. They are called, "long distance calling cards", and typically charge around 4 cents per minute. Test it first, because it is possible that the company would forward your Caller ID, but I have never seen that happen. You can use VOIP softphones without having the service attached to a dial-in phone number.

    68. Re:I don't get it ?? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Someone who abused their spouse should NEVER have custody of their children.

      Count yourself lucky for not understanding just how complicated a situation like this can be. Take a little field trip down to the courthouse. It might be a real eye-opener for you.

    69. Re:I don't get it ?? by DavidTC · · Score: 1

      A saner security policy would be to locate them 30 feet from a police station.

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    70. Re:I don't get it ?? by AK+Marc · · Score: 1

      Yep, although I'm not sure how many the YWCA sell for cash and how many they give to battered women.

      I have no trust of the national charities. United Way buys a private jet for the CEO. That's not what I want to pay for when I donate. I know that a local charity gives 100% of usable phones out to people that need to make such calls. The phones are necessary because someone that has no home can have no home phone. With no phone, you can't call about a job, call day care, or any of that. A phone is almost a necessity, and it's for that reason, not necessarily keeping in close contact with the abuser, that the phones are given out. The plus side is that a disposable phone will allow some contact (often required by law, if not directly, then at least indirect contact for shared property and children's issues).

    71. Re:I don't get it ?? by DavidTC · · Score: 1

      It's not a 'if you have nothing to hide'.

      If you call someone, you have no right for them not to know you're calling them. You don't have a privacy right from the person you're speaking to.(1) That's just dumb.

      And you have the right not to be tracked down and abused regardless of how it happens, it has nothing to do with phone lines at all.

      1) Questions anonymity in general aside...you could easily have the right to address society at large, or consensually talk to someone anonymous, but still have no right to talk to someone without telling them who you are if they don't want you to.

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    72. Re:I don't get it ?? by limekiller4 · · Score: 1

      Hyppy writes:
      "So use a prepaid cell phone. The only thing the "abuser" will be able to get is a cell number, which can be turned off at will."

      Why should the burden be foisted upon the abused?

      And why do you put "abuser" in quotes?

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    73. Re:I don't get it ?? by CorporateSuit · · Score: 1

      So buy a $30 pay-as-you-go cellphone. Problem solved.

      In a perfect world, where women don't share custody with sociopaths who will do nothing but call their phone all day and all night, and policemen bother to acknowledge and follow up on violated restraining orders or reports of criminal harassment, and courts revoke custody of sociopaths who do nothing but stalk, threaten, harass, and vandalize the property of people (that hold restraining orders against them)in their free time, and women who fled from abusive relationships have all the spending money in the world to afford multiple phones, this would work.

      In our world, it's not a solution.

      The sociopath will call the phone constantly, trying to speak to the abused. If they silence the phone, throw it away, or get a new phone that the sociopath can't contact, then the sociopath will file a court order against that person saying that they kidnapped their child (violating custody orders by disallowing contact with the child) and won't allow contact. On top of this, they have to pay for multiple lines so they can have their own phone, and one that the abuser can contact the child through -- which can only last so long before it's used as another form of harassment. The sysem works much better for someone living a parasitic lifestyle with all the time in the world on their hands than someone who is hiding, raising a child alone, trying to make ends meet who doesn't have a spare minute to spend with court documents.

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    74. Re:I don't get it ?? by DavidTC · · Score: 1

      Forget $700. Phone.com does it for incredibly cheap, along with voice mail, and queued incoming calls that forward to different numbers until one of them is answered, and menuing systems that let you set up direct forwards to different people...without exposing real phone numbers at all.

      Additionally, they forge outgoing caller ID for calls forwarded to you, so you'd get the correct caller ID on your phone. (OTOH, you wouldn't know it was forwarded from work and they didn't call you direct. They really should mangle it slightly with a - at the end or something to indicate that.)

      Not that that's an ad for phone.com, that's just what my company uses currently, there are probably a dozen companies like that.

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    75. Re:I don't get it ?? by nsayer · · Score: 1

      I'm not a crisis hotline volunteer and can already think of several scenarios where it would be important for the crisis hotline volunteer to call the party back, ranging from the guy hanging up the phone and downing a bottle of pills to the guy using a cell phone and the call being dropped.

    76. Re:I don't get it ?? by BigDish · · Score: 1

      Most long-distance calling cards do exactly this, and can be had for pennies a minute

    77. Re:I don't get it ?? by nasor · · Score: 1

      Are you dense? If the battered woman was blocking caller ID, her husband wouldn't be able to contact her anyway. What is the difference between calling your husband from a secret number with a phone that blocks caller ID so that he can't call you back, and putting your phone on silent/turning it off so that he can't call you back? Either way, initiating contact is entirely one-way; the wife can contact the husband at will but the husband can't contact the wife. Or if cell phones really aren't your thing, just buy one of those pre-paid phone cards where you dial an 800 number and enter a PIN. Those are even cheaper than a cell phone, and always appear to be coming from the phone center of the calling card company. It sounds like the battered women advocates in the article are just trying to make noise in order to keep their cause in the news, even if it makes them sound like clueless idiots.

    78. Re:I don't get it ?? by Ironica · · Score: 1

      "So much money"? Are you kidding? I paid $30 for my phone, and $20 for 80 minutes that last three months. $7/month is a trivial expense, even for a relatively poor person.

      Wow.

      Yeah, $7/month isn't much money. However, there's no way to pay $7/month for a prepaid cell phone. It's called "prepaid" for a reason.

      Many, many victims of domestic violence are also severely restricted from access to money. All money is in the abuser's name; they are the breadwinner, they keep the checkbook and the credit card. Money for groceries, if the other spouse does the shopping, is meted out and meticulously reconciled. Any discrepancies are punished.

      So yeah, $50 is probably a LOT more money than many domestic violence victims have on hand. $7 may be. Even if the family was solidly middle-class, the victim has no access to the money in a lot of cases.

      And really, if the choice is between spending that $50 on groceries to feed your children (that's more than a week's worth of food, if you're careful) and a prepaid cell phone, what are you going to choose?

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    79. Re:I don't get it ?? by Ironica · · Score: 1

      There are so many things wrong with that sentence that I don't have any idea where to start. In cases where it's that bad, one has to wonder why there's shared custody involved.

      Because, to deny a parent the right to see their children, you have to be able to PROVE that the children are at risk from the parent. And that can be difficult. Some types of abuse don't leave bruises or wounds as evidence. And most children are unable to testify reliably against their own parents.

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    80. Re:I don't get it ?? by nasor · · Score: 1

      If you can't come up with $20 every three months to pay for phone access, you almost certainly aren't going to be able to afford to feed and shelter yourself anyway.

    81. Re:I don't get it ?? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      but the way that you put quotes around abuser shows where you really stand on this.

      Um, his stand is innocent until proven guilty?

    82. Re:I don't get it ?? by Xenographic · · Score: 1

      > So go spend $700 on a phone system for the crisis line.

      Call me crazy, but I'd just use a pay phone...

    83. Re:I don't get it ?? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I object strongly to that suggestion!

    84. Re:I don't get it ?? by Arterion · · Score: 1

      Pretty much like the internet: Don't directly connected with someone if you don't want them to know your IP. Use a proxy, use a public connection, or use a friend's.

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    85. Re:I don't get it ?? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Have the shelter get a line with Outgoing service only, and set the LIDB name to a bogus value.

      A prepaid cell from an unlimited provider like MetroPCS would also work. Set the line Outgoing only or forward all calls back to another number like the cops, or the regular 7 digit number for 211.

      Or get multi-ring service with forwarding for the main number only. Authorized people call the multi-ring number and get thru. People who get either the ANI or CID "Main Number" number get forwarded to the local police number, or any other number of the shelter's choosing.

      Either option might provide a number, but the number would be useless to identify the location.

      When I worked for the State, we used to get centrex service, which always provided the "main number". Of course that number was useless, because the "Main Number" was always an unused non working number, usually the last number in the pool.

    86. Re:I don't get it ?? by lucif3r · · Score: 1

      Advocacy groups for victims of domestic violence are concerned What about ?

      Yeah I don't get that either? If you are a victim of domestic violence shouldn't you just not call your abuser in the first place?

    87. Re:I don't get it ?? by Ironica · · Score: 1

      If you can't come up with $50 the night you run away from your abusive husband, you're probably doing pretty average.

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    88. Re:I don't get it ?? by couchslug · · Score: 1

      He could give another person limited power of attorney to enter his property with a camera (and possibly police escort).

      He should have emptied or frozen all his accounts instantly in any event

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    89. Re:I don't get it ?? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Sortof....

      If you're fortunate enough to have your own PBX, you can send whatever ANI (not AIN) you want with the call. Just make like the telemarketers and send a bogus ANI. One side note, I think it's toll fraud to send a bogus ANI, but you could also just as easily send nothing. This is how cell phones usually work, depending on your carrier. If you set your phone not to send caller ID, I believe your call assumes the ANI from the tie lines going from the tower. I would notice this sometimes in the callcenter I worked for when trying to do ANI matches on customers. I built a system to track repeat callers (to block skiptracers from rep-shopping our CSRs to get customer information) and sometimes we would have to allow certain numbers because they were Nextel (usually, sometimes other carriers) cell towers.

    90. Re:I don't get it ?? by upuautiii · · Score: 1

      That's almost exactly the situation I was in. My ex wants to fight and argue. i try to exit the house, she blocks me and uses our child as a shield, scaring him. Then accuses me of hitting her and the child. She calls police, gets protective order, strips the house of all valuables, leaves to her parents'. Then she badgers me with calls from a restricted number. Only thing is, the phone she's calling from is the one i got her, which i have access to its calls records. All the while I never call her. She got a new phone/number. She sends me text messages!! SO I know her new number. Hey, the law is on her side, and I am not interested in calling here or getting near her by 100 miles. I am seriously considering this service to show the court that she is a stupid victim, calling me to incite and get me in further trouble.

    91. Re:I don't get it ?? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I call it apples and oranges. Get some perspective.

    92. Re:I don't get it ?? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      IMHO this new"service" has NO LEGITIMATE USE

      If you get harassing calls, have the phone company deal with it. The phone company will try to give you the run-around and say that their technology "can't do that" or "company rules forbid us from doing that", but have a Sheriff flash a court order and you'll be surprised at the amount of information they can provide.

      Since the phone companies are ripping out public phone booths as fast as the law will allow, there is no place for harassing scumbags to hide anymore anyway.

      For those who whine about having a right to know who's calling, again have the phone company deal with it. They can set your line up so a caller with a blocked number gets a "This number does not accept blocked calls, press 1 to unblock your number for this call only" message. If you whine that you have to pay $1 a month for this, tough, we have to pay for line blocking, deal with the fairness of it all. I blocked my line around five or six years ago and the amount of telemarketing calls has dropped to near zero.

    93. Re:I don't get it ?? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      What's the point? My old (low end) Audiovox cellphone could be configured to ignore blocked numbers. The caller gets dropped right to voicemail and the phone never even rings. If your fancy iphone can't do that then you paid too much for it.

      Also if you get an annoying blocked call, just drop it to voicemail, according to article they both use the same button.

      There is no problem here except for a greedy company trying to generate business for its spoofcard service.

    94. Re:I don't get it ?? by R2.0 · · Score: 1

      Too late - she'd been draining various accounts for a while. Turns out this was well planned, and the demotion was simply an excuse.

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    95. Re:I don't get it ?? by nasor · · Score: 1

      The phones come with minutes pre-loaded, so you only need $20-$30 for the phone and another $20 three months later when the minutes expire. Take the DVD player with you on your way out and pawn it or sell it to a friend or something. Or If you really need to make a call the very night you run away from your husband AND you can't scrape together $30 for a cellphone, use a phone from a retail store or a gas station or something. Or use a payphone at a bus stop/airport/whatever. Or buy a $5 pre-paid calling card at Target. Or if you don't want to contact him at all and are worried that he'll accuse you of kidnapping the children, just stop by the police station and tell them that you're leaving your husband and taking the kids. Hell, use the phone AT THE POLICE STATION to call him. Problem solved in about 5 different ways, and that's just the first few solutions I came up with off the top of my head, I'm sure there are plenty of others. I really don't see the issue here. It sounds like the domestic violence support/recovery crowd in the article are just trying to make noise to keep their pet issue in the news, even if it makes them look like idiots.

    96. Re:I don't get it ?? by Cyner · · Score: 1

      ANI (Auto Number Ident) is the feature that translates to Caller ID. It's not the AIN (Advanced Intelligent Network) protocol that the CO equipment uses. You can't fake the endpoint number in AIN, there'd be no way for the SSP (something like a router) to get the return voice traffic back to the caller.

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    97. Re:I don't get it ?? by CorporateSuit · · Score: 1

      Are you dense? If the battered woman was blocking caller ID, her husband wouldn't be able to contact her anyway. What is the difference between calling your husband from a secret number with a phone that blocks caller ID so that he can't call you back, and putting your phone on silent/turning it off so that he can't call you back? Either way, initiating contact is entirely one-way; the wife can contact the husband at will but the husband can't contact the wife. Or if cell phones really aren't your thing, just buy one of those pre-paid phone cards where you dial an 800 number and enter a PIN. Those are even cheaper than a cell phone, and always appear to be coming from the phone center of the calling card company. It sounds like the battered women advocates in the article are just trying to make noise in order to keep their cause in the news, even if it makes them sound like clueless idiots.

      No, I am not dense. Perhaps phones should be used for contacting more than one person? Or maybe, just MAYBE she wants to be called by people who AREN'T abusive ex-husbands once in a while, and be able to know they're calling. Maybe she wants to be able to use her phone for normal things... like calling and receiving calls, instead of just using it as a portal into her home that welcomes harassment from abusive individuals if she wants to make it functional. Did you bother to actually think your logic through before rhetorically asking someone if they were dense?

      Yes, the phone cards are a nice idea, but currently, they're not free (whereas anonymous calling is) -- and it's only a matter of time, like someone else mentioned, that there is a workaround for that as well. This current bug in the system should not simply be ignored because there are other, costly alternatives. It should just be patched.

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    98. Re:I don't get it ?? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Most battered women are idiots, who probably start most of the shit in their relationships. Then they want to go back to the guy, after sending him to jail, and eventually get in a fight again, sending him to jail again.

      And really, I have heard enough of these stories from burned out "single moms", strippers, and other loser women to never have to hear another one in my life.

    99. Re:I don't get it ?? by nasor · · Score: 1

      No, I am not dense. Perhaps phones should be used for contacting more than one person? Or maybe, just MAYBE she wants to be called by people who AREN'T abusive ex-husbands once in a while, and be able to know they're calling. Maybe she wants to be able to use her phone for normal things... like calling and receiving calls, instead of just using it as a portal into her home that welcomes harassment from abusive individuals if she wants to make it functional.

      Then you would have to (GASP!) spend $20 on a cheap pay-as-you-go phone that comes preloaded with minuted to used for contacting the ex-husband, and shell out $20 for more minutes every three months..

      Did you bother to actually think your logic through before rhetorically asking someone if they were dense?

      Your initial argument was that she couldn't turn off the phone because it would prevent the husband from contacting her, which would prompt him to report her to the police and claim she had kidnapped the children. Apparently you didn't realize that blocking caller ID would prevent the husband from contacting the wife in exactly the same manner. That's why I called you dense.

      Yes, the phone cards are a nice idea, but currently, they're not free (whereas anonymous calling is) -- and it's only a matter of time, like someone else mentioned, that there is a workaround for that as well.

      The phone cards are available in denominations as small as $5. If you can't come up with $5/month to meet your court-mandated obligations to call your husband occasionally, you almost certainly aren't going to be able to feed and shelter yourself anyway.

    100. Re:I don't get it ?? by CorporateSuit · · Score: 1

      The naivete of your comments mixed with your pretentiousness is sickening. Perhaps you should re-read what I had said so you can realize what a dumbass you are for saying everything you just said. I look down on you, sir. Walk away from this conversation and give me no reason to look down on you again.

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    101. Re:I don't get it ?? by nasor · · Score: 1

      So do you think it's my naivete that makes me assume that someone who can't afford $5-10/month for a calling card or extra cell phone isn't going to be able to support themselves anyway? Or was that my pretentiousness? Please, I'm intrigued to know.

      At your urging I went back and read over your posts to see if I missed anything, but so far as I can tell you said that a cellphone isn't a good replacement for blocked caller ID because 1) if the wife doesn't answer it the husband will report her to the police and 2) she has to pay for it. Your point 1 has already been addressed, and is the reason I called you dense. Your point 2 assumes that a woman is living on her own and possibly supporting her children, yet is unable to afford a few dollars/month for a pay-as-you-go cell plan or calling card. As was already pointed out, it seems very unlikely to me that such a trivial amount would be much of a burden, even for a poor person. This is of course assuming that they aren't living at a shelter or something, in which case I assume the shelter would pick up the small expense of a group calling card or something for wives who have a legal obligation to contact their husbands.

      Now did you have some other point buried in there that I missed, or are you simply trying to imagine problems where none exist while ignoring the MANY possible solutions?

  2. Yeah really by brunes69 · · Score: 4, Interesting

    If you are calling me then I have a right to know who you are AFAIC.

    1. Re:Yeah really by chrispatch · · Score: 3, Interesting

      I agree. If the phone number is blocked I do not answer. I don't talk on the phone to anonymous people. I don't use voice mail either. So you either call from your unblocked phone # that I recognize or I don't answer. Hell I am not really sure why I have a telephone anyway. The number of people I wish to communicate with via voice is a single digit.

    2. Re:Yeah really by Godwin+O'Hitler · · Score: 1

      Or to put it another way, why on earth would anyone even expect me to talk to them if they're not prepared to reveal who they are?

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    3. Re:Yeah really by Orlando · · Score: 2, Insightful

      Or to put it another way, why on earth would anyone even expect me to talk to them if they're not prepared to reveal who they are?

      It is not necessarily WHO you are but WHERE you are calling from that is the issue here. If I was a battered wife hiding in a refuge, but still wanted to talk to my abusive husband, I would want to know that I can call him but that he can't trace the call back to where I am calling from.

      A mobile phone would solve the geographical part of this problem, but would leave the caller open to unwanted return calls. Hiding the number completely leaves the power in the hands of the caller.

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    4. Re:Yeah really by hummassa · · Score: 5, Insightful

      If a battered wife wants to talk directly to her abusive husband, then she is absolutely stupid. Sorry. Battered wives should talk to abusive husband thru lawyers and police officers only.

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    5. Re:Yeah really by MrNaz · · Score: 0, Troll

      Never been involved in anything even remotely emotionally complex, have you?

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    6. Re:Yeah really by rhaas · · Score: 5, Informative

      RTFA. It's court-mandated, they don't have a choice.

    7. Re:Yeah really by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 5, Insightful

      A battered wife may need to talk to a relative, call a place of work, someplace where the abuser can hunt down the phone number. I had an abuser who managed to get his hands on the cell phone of someone I knew, and got my number from their cell phone. Now my number is blocked. Now I am safe.

      And as for the morons below who are complaining about the wanting to talk, well they have a lot to learn about spousal abuse, and the court systems, and reasons for calling. It's not the place to get into it, but guys, keep talking about the technology and not about things you know absolutely nothing about.

    8. Re:Yeah really by Zerth · · Score: 4, Funny

      I do like to communicate with anonymous people, but I only use a single, upraised digit.

      Doesn't really come across on the phone, though.

    9. Re:Yeah really by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1, Insightful

      If a battered wife wants to talk directly to her abusive husband, then she is absolutely stupid. Sorry. Battered wives should talk to abusive husband thru lawyers and police officers only.

      If a Slashdot poster doesn't understand why a battered wife might want to talk directly to her kids, then the Slashdot poster is absolutely stupid.

    10. Re:Yeah really by Shakrai · · Score: 5, Funny

      Battered wives should talk to abusive husband thru lawyers, police officers and large caliber pistols only.

      Fixed that for you ;)

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    11. Re:Yeah really by MightyYar · · Score: 2, Interesting

      Psst, bud, your naivety is showing.

      Smart people can behave in illogical ways.

      One battered woman that I know is a molecular biologist - not stupid, and yet she waited for her husband to end the marriage. In many cultures, a battered wife is more or less the norm, and we seem to have evolved a coping mechanism that seems odd when viewed in the context of modern American society.

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    12. Re:Yeah really by multisync · · Score: 2, Informative

      If the phone number is blocked I do not answer.

      I know our local phone carrier offers a service where you can block calls from callers who block caller ID. This makes the most sense, because it the caller a simple choice. If you want to call me, unblock your number. If you are not willing to do that, I'm not willing to take your call.

      I suppose this service would be useful to people who's phone carriers do not offer that service, but I'd be surprised to find this is the case.

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    13. Re:Yeah really by Uncle+Rummy · · Score: 5, Funny

      Battered wives should talk to abusive husband thru lawyers, police officers and large caliber pistols only.

      Fixed that for you ;)

      I can't hear you! Don't fire the gun while you're talking!

    14. Re:Yeah really by Beorytis · · Score: 2, Funny

      Payphone?

      Oh yeah, I remember those. I think I saw one in about 1998.

    15. Re:Yeah really by A.+B3ttik · · Score: 5, Funny

      he number of people I wish to communicate with via voice is a single digit.

      ...And you can just yell up the basement stairs if you want to talk to her.

    16. Re:Yeah really by TheVelvetFlamebait · · Score: 1

      Heh. Reading "Smart people can behave in illogical ways", and reading "prisonexp" as "prisonxp", I figured whatever site you linked to needed to update its name to "prisonvista".

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    17. Re:Yeah really by GrApHiX42 · · Score: 1

      Well said hummassa

    18. Re:Yeah really by j00r0m4nc3r · · Score: 1

      I have that service, and it doesn't work 100%. Somehow, certain nasty companies get their LEGIT caller ID to display "Unknown" or "Out of Area" or "Anonymous". So despite the fact that I reject blocked caller ID, these companies still worm their way through. But I never answer those calls so I have no idea what companies they are.

    19. Re:Yeah really by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      even if it's hypocritical, that doesn't make it any less true: a battered wife should never want to talk to her abuser.

      "what if it was you, you don't know how it feels" does not change that fact at all.

    20. Re:Yeah really by Bengie · · Score: 1

      If you are calling me then I have a right to know who you are AFAIC.

      I disagree. Just enable call blocking for blocked IDs. Every phone service I've seen lets you block calls from blocked IDs before you phone even rings.

    21. Re:Yeah really by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Welcome to slashdot. From whom did you steal your semi-low-user-id?

    22. Re:Yeah really by thedak · · Score: 1

      Never been involved in anything even remotely emotionally complex, have you?

      oblig: You must be new here.

    23. Re:Yeah really by nabsltd · · Score: 1

      So, the abuser uses this service and finds out you are calling from a cell phone...perhaps even the same cell phone number you have had for years. How does this help them find out exactly where you are?

      Of course, if you did not disable their ability to get Google Latitude updates about your location, perhaps you are Darwin Award worthy.

    24. Re:Yeah really by frieko · · Score: 1

      My parents have an interesting "solution" to this service - a party line. Back in the day you could share your phone line with another house and pay half price. They held out until they were the only ones in the area left with a party line. So there's no other party, but they still pay half price AND they show up as unlisted on caller ID - because the call could theoretically be coming from either house/number. As a matter of fact when they make a long distance call the operator has to come on and ask them for their number so they know who to charge for the call!

    25. Re:Yeah really by Lord+Ender · · Score: 1

      Did you get that out of Lt. Commander Data's guide to domestic conflict, with special forward by Mr. Spock?

      The fact that domestic abuse is so common, and so often handled in a way that seems illogical, suggests to me that there is something hard-wired in our brains to behave in certain, seemingly stupid ways. It simply is not realistic to expect logic to easily overcome this.

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    26. Re:Yeah really by DrLang21 · · Score: 0

      Never something so absurdly complex that I would try to contact a spouse that I was afraid would hurt me AND not want them to know who I was. Seriously, I am sympathetic to the difficulty in leaving an abusive relationship, but my sympathy only goes so far.

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    27. Re:Yeah really by rcamans · · Score: 1

      Actually, yes he has. Sometimes when his mother yells at him down the basement stairs to come up and eat his supper right now, he is in the middle of a seriously wicked mages battle, and cannot possibly leave for an hour or he is dead. Now what is he going to do?

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    28. Re:Yeah really by rhaas · · Score: 1

      Using a cell phone does sound like it would solve the problem (unless the publicly available databases that TelTech searches can find the billing address for the number) but not everyone communicates only by cell phone. Not everyone reads Slashdot, so there's a real possibility that someone might think that caller ID blocking was sufficient to protect themselves.

    29. Re:Yeah really by Tubal-Cain · · Score: 2, Funny

      Send them a four.

    30. Re:Yeah really by mapsjanhere · · Score: 3, Informative

      The trick is, they rout the calls through Canada or the Caribbean. As a "foreign" call, they get around the "no call" list and the telemarketing rules, and they get around the requirements for caller ID. Since calls from other countries often cannot display caller ID for technical reasons, your phone doesn't perceive the ID as blocked but only as technically unavailable, and lets the call through.

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    31. Re:Yeah really by MatthewCCNA · · Score: 1

      If you can find one, also they have increased the prices since 1998.

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    32. Re:Yeah really by nasor · · Score: 1

      So...cellphone? Payphone? Skype? Call from your lawyer's office? Ask to use the phone at a department store or something? Communicate by mail, using a PO box?

    33. Re:Yeah really by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Sorry, she's stupid. If she's being abused, she should file for divorce and leave the fucker.

    34. Re:Yeah really by oldspewey · · Score: 1

      Of course, if you did not disable their ability to get Google Latitude updates about your location, perhaps you are Darwin Award [darwinawards.com] worthy.

      I'm willing to bet that if I went out on the street right now and asked a thousand people "How would you go about disabling Google Latitude updates on your location?" I would get fewer than 50 responses that made any technical sense at all, and fewer than 10 responses that are actually correct.

      That's some pretty harsh Darwin Award medicine you're administering.

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    35. Re:Yeah really by KillerBob · · Score: 0, Offtopic

      Why would a wife-batterer be able to keep custody of their kids? I'm sure it happens, but it seems a little ridiculous that you could beat your wife and take the kids.

      Sometimes a battered wife doesn't have the option of taking the kids with her when she leaves. Sometimes it's a case of "he's gone, get to the shelter now." Usually when it's a case like that, she will ultimately get custody of the kids, but it's in process. The legal system is not instant.

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    36. Re:Yeah really by Sique · · Score: 1

      I am often working in a basement (sic!) on a large customer site with virtually no mobile phone reception, but with a customer provided phone I can use. This one has caller ID blocked. So when I have to make a call there I am using the customer phone, and with this one not being under my control (in a technical sense it is under my control, from a procedural point of view it is not), I am not allowed to switch off caller ID.

      On the other hand, the customer is a large health center, and by policy all phones have caller ID blocked (which makes sense because the patients shouldn't be called back. No one outside the hospital knows when they are reachable, and with certainity most calls from outside directly to them will be disturbing either to them, to the staff or to the other patients in the same room).

      So how do I have to call you from there if necessary?

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    37. Re:Yeah really by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Now my number is blocked. Now I am safe.

      You are not safe. If you call certain businesses, they can unhide your number. I know a guy who uses a non-1-800 number that unblocks numbers as it's a business account, but you'd never know looking at the number (he never requested it, but he's not requested they turn it off either). There's tonnes of information on how to unblock this yourself using Asterisk.

    38. Re:Yeah really by rk · · Score: 1

      That's not a semi-low user id. Mine is only semi-low. And it don't mean a thing. I'm a knuckle-dragging blithering idiot.

    39. Re:Yeah really by Godwin+O'Hitler · · Score: 2, Insightful

      Is avoiding revealing your whereabouts to a violent spouse so widespread an issue that it overshadows everybody else's natural need to know who the hell is calling?

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    40. Re:Yeah really by MightyYar · · Score: 2, Informative

      No, someone who can get a doctorate in molecular biology is not stupid - at least not by any mainstream definition of the word.

      The fact is that human beings are emotionally quite complex, and you will discover this for yourself as you get older.

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    41. Re:Yeah really by hummassa · · Score: 4, Informative

      Man, I will answer here, but my answer goes to everyone that criticized my post (that had a hint of flamebait to it, really).

      I know what I am talking about, I worked for a couple of years in a small town's DA office as an assistant/paralegal and I dealt with battered wives, social workers, the police, the whole she-bang. All there is to it is horrible, I can guarantee you. My wife (as a DA in another town) dealt with it for most of her (15 years long by now) career, and still have to deal with some of it.

      Battered wives _must_ be isolated from their abusers quickly, swiftly and irrevocably. If the system does not do that, they go back to him, many times because they think that they don't have marketable skills / enough money to raise the kids or to live, sometimes because religion tells them that they must cope with that, sometimes even because they were conditioned by the abuser to think they deserve to be beaten.

      If she made it to the shelter, she calls 911 (999/190), the police gets her kids wherever they are, and they go thru the system. For the night, they don't stay with the abuser. She does not call him. Her lawyer/public defendant/the DA gets the abuser arrested, and the judge will see if it is enough a court order for him to be out of the house.

      IN NO CIRCUMSTANCES should abuser and abused exchange words directly. If visitation is granted to him (normally after some time), the victim should arrange for other person (relative, neighbour) to deal with the exchanges of the kids, and should call 911 (etc) at once if the abuser disobeys any terms of custody and/or visitations, because he does not want to go to jail in contempt.

      This is women's rights protection 101, and even Brasilian police takes this in a very serious way (especially where there is a vigilant DA), so I have no reason to believe it's not so in other, supposedly more developed countries.

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    42. Re:Yeah really by hummassa · · Score: 1

      answer at #26903847...

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    43. Re:Yeah really by hummassa · · Score: 1

      answer at #26903847...

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    44. Re:Yeah really by cellocgw · · Score: 0

      If the phone number is blocked I do not answer.

      Good luck with that. My spouse, like most physicians, provides evening/night response to phone calls (made thru a paging service). And, like many physicians, she (and I) have very good reason not to allow the general public to know our home phone number. So the next time your child is sick as a dog and you want your pediatrician to call you, go ahead and refuse to answer. You can pay the damn Emergency Dep't visit bill yourself.

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    45. Re:Yeah really by StikyPad · · Score: 0, Troll

      No, they should've learned their lesson the first time they spoke without being spoken to.

    46. Re:Yeah really by ShannaraFan · · Score: 3, Informative

      Same here, but I also know that I sometimes get legitimate calls from unidentified callers (doctor, wife's office, etc). For me, the following works perfectly:

      - home phone is call-forwarded to a GrandCentral number
      - GrandCentral is configured to send certain callers to my cell phone, wife's cell phone, or both. Unknown callers, "spam" calls, blocked calls, etc., just never ring through.
      - an added benefit, voicemails get delivered via email

    47. Re:Yeah really by Duradin · · Score: 1

      Huh, the parent post was about revealing your location and being subject to unwanted return calls, how is suggesting using a payphone offtopic enough to get to -1?

      It has its own location that is independent of who is using it and you don't have to worry about return calls. Not a high tech enough solution? Or doesn't it screw with enough people in the name of "protecting" a specific group at a cost to everyone else to sufficiently comfort your conscience?

    48. Re:Yeah really by techess · · Score: 0, Offtopic

      In theory this might be how it is "supposed to work" in practice not so much. A friend of mine had an abusive husband and she lived in Washtenaw County (one of the more "civilized" counties in MI). The last time her hubby put her in the hospital she decided it was time to get the kids out. She left and after several months of trying to get a restraining order she still had to contact him because he still had visitation rights. They did visitation exchanges at the local police station, but some direct contact via the phone was required especially since was often late in returning the kids. If she had gone to a shelter they may have had someone handle that for her, but staying at one is a terrible thing. They are horribly overcrowded.

      What she ended up doing is moving in with me in Ingham county. Once she had moved in we went to the special domestic abuse court Ingham County has and she walked out with temporary full custody and a restraining order. This lasted until the actual abuse case made it to court nearly a year and a half later then she got permanent full custody and a more permanent restraining order.

      So while you say that even the Brazilian police take this serious, what happens to you in the US is soley dependent on the county you live in.

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    49. Re:Yeah really by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1, Funny

      I agree. If the phone number is blocked I do not answer. I don't talk on the phone to anonymous people. I don't use voice mail either. So you either call from your unblocked phone # that I recognize or I don't answer. Hell I am not really sure why I have a telephone anyway. The number of people I wish to communicate with via voice is a single digit.

      And it only takes a single digit to communicate with you as well.

    50. Re:Yeah really by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      everybody else's natural need to know who the hell is calling?

      So you can go beat them up?

    51. Re:Yeah really by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

      You're confusing intelligence and wisdom. When most people say someone is being "stupid", they are referring to a lack of wisdom or emotional intelligence, not intellectual intelligence.

      Having known over the years many women, and a not insignificant number of men, who have been in abusive relationships, I've come to believe that, while yes Stockholm Syndrome and its ilk do exist, it's also the case that people can (and do) override cowardice and other ultimately self-destructive tendencies by choice. I'm sympathetic to those who don't do so, but I'm not going to dismiss the role of making good choices either, because that does a disservice to the people who *do* make the difficult choice to stand up and say "no".

      Nearly anyone can do it. Few choose to. And I don't think all or even most of the difference comes down to background.

    52. Re:Yeah really by DavidTC · · Score: 1

      No kidding.

      Incidentally, when did the phone number of a battered women's shelter become secret? Are they really that hard to find out? How do women contact them? I know the address is somewhat confidential, but having the phone number doesn't mean people have the address. They can't magically trace the phone line.

      If the secret is that the woman is in a shelter, I'm failing to see any way to hide that fact. Either she's at some identifiable location, or, duh, she's in a shelter. It's not rocket science.

      I guess that knowing what shelter it is might be damaging, but that could be solved simply by a nationwide call forwarding service for shelters, where the shelter calls it, and it calls out for them. It would cost some money, sure, but probably less than one person staying at a shelter, for every shelter in the nation to have access to it. It seems sorta idiotic this doesn't already exist as a tax-write off for a phone company.(1)

      Everyone has the right to know who's calling them before they answer. Even if that person is in a shelter, and calling their abuser. We don't need to revoke random rights from random sets of criminals, that's just completely confusing.

      Now, abusers don't have the right to show up and harass their victims, but that's entirely different, and solvable by simply stationing a police officer there to arrest such harassers for trespassing and stalking. (Most domestic abusers are not psychopaths, and aren't going to shoot their way into a shelter.)

      1) Incidentally, there are ways around this unblocking, by using call forwarding services. Non-telephone company call forwarding services often forward your caller-ID, but that's the key...they forward your actual caller-ID, not the information that 1-800 lines get. If you block your caller ID, that can't get passed on, and the 1-800 ID will just show the forwarding point (Because that's who the phone company is basing the billing off of.), not who originally called.

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    53. Re:Yeah really by warsql · · Score: 1

      Dial *82 before calling.

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    54. Re:Yeah really by Ironica · · Score: 1

      If a battered wife wants to talk directly to her abusive husband, then she is absolutely stupid. Sorry. Battered wives should talk to abusive husband thru lawyers and police officers only.

      Yes, because someone who escaped her home with nothing but the clothes on her back can just summon legal help at the drop of a hat...

      What if there are *children* involved? What if she had to leave them behind? And even though she can get the police to escort her back to retrieve personal items, they won't necessarily call and make the arrangements for her, so she still has to make the call, probably from where she's sheltering.

      And then, let's say, the lawyers are done, the divorce is final, and the custody agreement is set. Let's even say that dad doesn't have unsupervised visitation, because of his history of abuse. It *still* may be a Very Bad Thing if he knows where his ex-wife is staying. Especially if it's with, say, his own sister.

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    55. Re:Yeah really by DavidTC · · Score: 1

      Heh. That sounds like what I always wanted do, get a phone line without touchtone support so I didn't have to pay that fee. Almost every phone can switch to pulse dialing, and it would have been especially nice for my dorm phone line, which was only used for internet access.

      Sadly, I was informed by the phone company that they do not actually sell such lines.

      They also were flabbergasted when I said I wanted a line without long distance. No, I didn't want it blocked, especially if that cost money. I just didn't want any service whatsoever. They eventually said that they could put me on them for 'local long distance' and no actual long distance plan at all, which might result in extremely high charges if I actually made a long distance call because whoever carried the call between LATA could charge me whatever they wanted.

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    56. Re:Yeah really by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      "So how do I have to call you from there if necessary?"

      Call and let it ring twice. Hang up.
      Exactly one minute later call again and let it ring twice. Hang up.
      Immediately re-dial and let it ring twice. Hang up.
      Wait one minute and call again.

      I'll let you know tomorrow's code.

    57. Re:Yeah really by hummassa · · Score: 1

      So while you say that even the Brazilian police take this serious, what happens to you in the US is soley dependent on the county you live in.

      the "especially when there is a vigilant DA around" part was meant to convey exactly that: depending on where you live, you can be less sure of it working right, but the rules are there -- where you have good people in charge, things do work.

      The last time her hubby put her in the hospital she decided it was time to get the kids out. She left and after several months of trying to get a restraining order she still had to contact him because he still had visitation rights.

      I got kind of worried reading this phrase, because it indicates that she didn't press charges against him for the battery (otherwise he would sleep in prision while she was at the hospital, and the DA should have pursued relief for her at his bail audience, no?) and _that_ is a big "no, no"...

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    58. Re:Yeah really by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Now my number is blocked. Now I am safe.

      Having your number blocked does not make you safe. Having your number available does not make you less safe.

      I understand what you mean by needing to sometimes call friends, family, work, etc. There are easy solutions to mask where you are calling from that don't rely on CNID or ANI blocking. The easiest one is called a pre-paid cell phone, there are many others.

      Here is why people are saying what they are. In order for this device to reveal your ANI, you must place a call directly to the person using the device/service. If you call your friend, and the abuser checks the friends CID log, it will still be blocked.
      So the ONLY way for such a person to use this service is either if he manages to convince everyone you might possibly call to pay for the unblocking service, which is unlikely, or you are directly calling HIM....
      Yes I am familiar with abuse situations. And if you are directly calling such a person from your own phone you are a moron. While I'll reserve my opinion regarding the decision to call that person in the first place, you are an idiot for calling that person's own number from a number you don't want him to have.

    59. Re:Yeah really by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1, Insightful

      "Now my number is blocked. Now I am safe."

      It's been a while since I've seen such a childishly naive and ignorant statement on Slashdot.

      If not being found is important to you, you need to consult asap with a pro ( I don't mean the police, but a really good PI, who makes his or her living finding people. Those who find people for a living know how you can arrange to be much harder to find, and Caller ID is not even the tip of the iceberg ).

    60. Re:Yeah really by Lord+Apathy · · Score: 1

      or hired goons....

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    61. Re:Yeah really by limekiller4 · · Score: 1

      Hummassa writes:
      "If a battered wife wants to talk directly to her abusive husband, then she is absolutely stupid. Sorry. Battered wives should talk to abusive husband thru lawyers and police officers only.

      "Wants" has nothing to do with it. Sure, some people might be rich enough to have their $200/hr lawyer handle setting up visitation but most don't.

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    62. Re:Yeah really by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Well, and in that case, you get a disposable cell phone or Skype. It's really not that hard.

    63. Re:Yeah really by limekiller4 · · Score: 1

      Shouldn't you be kernel hacking or something? =P

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    64. Re:Yeah really by techess · · Score: 1

      She did press charges. It took almost 2 years for the case to make it to trial. The cops didn't even pick him up. They stopped by and gave him a "warning" to stay away from her, but that was it. Once the case made it to trial he was convicted but I think he was out in 6 months. If he breaks the restraining order he goes back for a long time. Plus she now lives in Ingham where the cops said they guarantee on domestics they pick the offender up and throw them in jail until they can see a judge.

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    65. Re:Yeah really by MightyYar · · Score: 1

      because that does a disservice to the people who *do* make the difficult choice to stand up and say "no".

      I'd argue that those people - the few who act differently - are actually the standouts. It's not that they are the only ones who aren't "stupid", it's just that they are exceptionally good at fighting their own emotional programming. Most people aren't equipped to do that.

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    66. Re:Yeah really by onemorechip · · Score: 1

      Caller ID is a convenience, not a right. Such a service wasn't available until about twenty-something years ago. Were our rights being violated up until that time?

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    67. Re:Yeah really by ChadM · · Score: 1

      Whoosh. /He was making a dick joke. =]

    68. Re:Yeah really by onemorechip · · Score: 1

      Good point... People forget that caller ID is a misnomer. It's really only caller location. If your spouse or child calls you from a phone number unknown to you (maybe from a service station after his or her car breaks down, or some other emergency), and you reject the call, you wouldn't know that it's him or her calling you.

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    69. Re:Yeah really by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      "It's not the place to get into it, but guys, keep talking about the technology and not about things you know absolutely nothing about."

      It's a good thing you aren't still bitter ...

      ( hint to all younger guys : if you ever hear a chick say things like the one above says, RUN, and don't ever look back, unless you want to experience what hell is like while you're still on earth )

    70. Re:Yeah really by AlexBirch · · Score: 1

      Ben Franklin noticed this difference with his quip:
      "Tim was so learned, that he could name a Horse in nine Languages. So ignorant, that he bought a Cow to ride on."

      Hopefully we can acknowledge there are different types of smart. So we're disagreeing on the type of smart.

    71. Re:Yeah really by tobiasly · · Score: 3, Insightful

      It's not the place to get into it, but guys, keep talking about the technology and not about things you know absolutely nothing about.

      This gets modded insightful? There is no content in this post other than "You're wrong, but I'm not gonna tell you why. Just take my word for it, because I claim to be authoritative on the subject."

      If you feel so strongly that the "morons" are wrong about those subjects, then either add to the discussion or STFU. "It's not the place to get into it" has never been a valid reason on Slashdot. It's called an open discussion.

    72. Re:Yeah really by MightyYar · · Score: 1

      His quip is cute, but I've never come across someone like "Tim". It's a joke.

      Someone who can make it through the advanced sciences is more than capable of thinking logically, and so is not "stupid" in the sense we are talking about. That she doesn't apply logical thinking to her relationship analogous to the millions (billions) of smart people who turn off their logic when they go to church/temple/etc. Sometimes very smart people let the emotional part of their brain win.

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    73. Re:Yeah really by clone53421 · · Score: 1

      No you don't. You have the liberty to not answer/talk to unidentified callers, but you don't have any such "right" to know who they are.

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    74. Re:Yeah really by kelnos · · Score: 1

      I also don't understand why revealing your phone number automatically reveals your location... especially if you call from a cell phone.

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    75. Re:Yeah really by Arterion · · Score: 1

      Can't you make it show up at the office number, or the number of the paging service? That would make more sense.

      Though I really think if you were EXPECTING a call, you'd answer it if it had no CID data, especially in a situation like you just described. It's random calls from people who block their CID data, or people who block it for no real reason.

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    76. Re:Yeah really by shutdown+-p+now · · Score: 1

      Oh yeah, I remember those. I think I saw one in about 1998.

      That was the last time you went out of the basement? Dude, you might want to check it out, things have changed a lot since.

      But, we still do have payphones around.

    77. Re:Yeah really by Arterion · · Score: 1

      Would RTFM count as a correct response? I wouldn't know the answer to that, but only because I have never used or looked at Google Latitude.

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    78. Re:Yeah really by Arterion · · Score: 2, Insightful

      So you have a restraining order. If he calls you, prosecute. It's pretty simple, right?

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    79. Re:Yeah really by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Uh..but if someone gets a hold of your friend's cell phone and they have your number stored in their contacts...a blocked number is moot anyways right?

      The ideal solution would be a tracfone of some kind...even have him pay for it as part of the settlement.

    80. Re:Yeah really by oldspewey · · Score: 2

      The point is that if (for some reason e.g. "safety") some kind of geolocation functionality is enabled by default on a mobile phone, there is a huge majority of people who won't have any clue that it's even enabled, let alone how to disable it. This fact hardly qualifies them for the vengeful-estranged-spouse version of a Darwin Award.

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    81. Re:Yeah really by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      The ring finger?

    82. Re:Yeah really by berberine · · Score: 1

      I never understood how this works either, but I moved 18 months ago to a town with around 18,000 people in it. When I have given my number to people where required (for example at work), people always say, "Oh you live up by the hospital." This always creeps me the hell out because I do live up by the hospital and it wouldn't take more than a few hours to figure out where I lived. I haven't a clue how they know because they just say, "I know by your number." Granted, this is a landline, but I've been told people can narrow you down to a few blocks by a cell number too.

    83. Re:Yeah really by Fear+the+Clam · · Score: 1

      Now my number is blocked. Now I am safe.

      Yeah, breathe a sigh of relief that you can't call yourself.

    84. Re:Yeah really by Aldenissin · · Score: 1

      That is hilarious, especially since the tech IT in our office is named Sid and is an asshole who I just hope, likes to play dumb.

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    85. Re:Yeah really by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Ahh.. that was pretty funny, but it's even funnier that you were modded troll while a comment about "talking" to a man through a gun was +5 Funny. Clearly there's a lot of people here who still put women on a pedestal. One day they'll learn.

    86. Re:Yeah really by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      You have a phone in your kitchen?

    87. Re:Yeah really by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Then ask who is speaking when you pick up the phone and hang up on them if you do not want to talk. It's hypocritical for you to read this, since if you are consistent you should not be reading messages from ACs.

    88. Re:Yeah really by Gorshkov · · Score: 1

      But it's not complex, absurdly or otherwise. Reason and intellect are rational thought processes. Emotions, by definition, are NOT rational - and thus are not subject to reason OR intellect.

      They are neither related nor connected - the smartest rocket scientist out there can be an emotional basket case.

    89. Re:Yeah really by wvmarle · · Score: 1

      Lets prevent the need for having to prosecute, and the stress and other risks involved in the process of reaching the idea of wanting to prosecute in the first place. Prosecution is no more than a cure, and as always it is better to prevent than to try to cure later.

    90. Re:Yeah really by infonography · · Score: 1

      on the other hand I have used *69 to get bounce back to the number and the system will announce the number that just called but if you are not quick and write it down an attempt to return the call will wipe the record and tell you the number it just told you is blocked and can't tell you the number. lol

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    91. Re:Yeah really by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      so what exactly are you selling your mother?

    92. Re:Yeah really by iamacat · · Score: 1

      If she made it to the shelter, she calls 911 (999/190), the police gets her kids wherever they are, and they go thru the system. For the night, they don't stay with the abuser. She does not call him. Her lawyer/public defendant/the DA gets the abuser arrested, and the judge will see if it is enough a court order for him to be out of the house.

      Oh boy. Brasilian police abandons even the thinest pretense of due process and gender equality that we sometimes still get in US. A woman can just give herself a minor bruise, show up in the shelter and get her husband arrested and his children and house taken away from him by the police?

      IN NO CIRCUMSTANCES should abuser and abused exchange words directly.

      No right to confront one's accuser either? Niiice!

    93. Re:Yeah really by DrLang21 · · Score: 1

      Of course emotions are irrational. That does not mean that you have to forget rationality when you feel them. Considering that we feel emotions all the time, if our ability to reason was over-ridden by our emotions, we would all be emotional basket cases all the time.

      I understand that sometimes emotions can get the best of us, especially with depression, but I don't have much sympathy for people who refuse to do what they need to do to get in control of themselves.

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    94. Re:Yeah really by Gorshkov · · Score: 1

      you make the false assumption that all people are equally capable of controlling their emotions by the overwhelming power of rational thought.

      Ain't true - because contrary to the propoganda, all (wo)men are NOT created equal.

      It may suck, but it's reality.

    95. Re:Yeah really by JimFive · · Score: 1

      Assuming you really don't know.

      The first 3 digits of your 7 digit phone number are called the Exchange. The exchange, literally (for land lines), identifies the switching office that your phone is wired to. So the exchange identifies the region served by the switching office. Since each exchange can only have something less than 9999 phone numbers it is pretty easy to see that people know you live by the hospital because your exchange is the same as the hospital's exchange. This is easiest in areas with large buildings with lots of phones like a hospital or office building, because the building (e.g.) takes up a big percentage of those 9999 phone numbers.

      For a cell phone the exchange indicates the carrier and the geographic area where the cell phone was initially activated (Or transfered to if you change area codes). Since cell phone numbers are transferable (in the U.S.) you can't get a lot of information from the number.
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    96. Re:Yeah really by hummassa · · Score: 1

      I don't know why you answered the way you did, just for flamebait, or you are really that thick? The GPP said that her friend was sent by her abusive husband to the hospital and that charges were pressed. _That_ is motive enough for what our judicial system calls "preventive prision". And the (allegedly) perp should be thrown in jail for the woman/kids protection, that's it. If he is innocent, he will be let out eventually.

      Now, if your wife does bang her own head in the door till she gets a black eye and she shows up in a shelter, I'm sorry, but: (1) you should have married better and (2) you should be ordered away from her (and your kids) (and maybe go to jail) until things are cleared up because the statistics are against you. It's preferable to lock up one guy (Joe) for two nights than to let another (Bob) out that beats the wife to a lifeless pulp. It's hard to think that way when you think you can be Joe, but it gets easier if you think of Bob's kids.

      Yes one has the right to "confront one's acusser"... IN COURT, thru the judicial system, not in person or by phone.

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    97. Re:Yeah really by marnell · · Score: 1

      Agreed. Plus, have these advocacy groups considered that battered wives will also now have a better shot of knowing if their abusive husband is calling them??

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    98. Re:Yeah really by iamacat · · Score: 1

      I would just like to clarify that our judicial system does not believe in "preventive prison" and especially the following statement:

      It's preferable to lock up one guy (Joe) for two nights than to let another (Bob) out that beats the wife to a lifeless pulp.

      The idea is that it's preferable to prevent abuse of people by the government even if the cost is that unproven abuse of one private citizen by another sometimes can not be prevented.

      None of this implies that Bob can not be arrested if there is good evidence to back up his wife's story.

    99. Re:Yeah really by cellocgw · · Score: 1

      Can't you make it show up at the office number, or the number of the paging service? That would make more sense.

      Though I really think if you were EXPECTING a call, you'd answer it if it had no CID data, especially in a situation like you just described. It's random calls from people who block their CID data, or people who block it for no real reason.
      Sorry to post this -- if there were a 'private message' system I'd use that. anyway:

      1) No, people are far too stupid to comprehend that they should turn off their incoming call block when they're waiting for an emergency call. I've seen this situation many times.
      2) The point is that the system should not require fancy footwork on the part of the MD (such as rerouting the apparent source thru an office number). People who choose to block all unrecognized calls should have to live with the lost "desired" calls along with the (mostly illusory) undesirable calls.

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    100. Re:Yeah really by Sique · · Score: 1

      Doesn't work in this case. I know because I have the configuration data of the phone system right here ;) (Yes, sometimes I administer big Siemens PBXes... and no, I don't change it there, because the customer's policy clearly state that I shouldn't.)

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    101. Re:Yeah really by nabsltd · · Score: 1

      Ask a thousand people who have enabled Google Latitude updates for a particular person how they would disable it for that person and see how many correct answers you would get.

      In case you didn't know, for someone to find you using Google Latitude, first you have to download the latest version of Google Maps to your cellphone, then enable Latitude in your Google profile, then give individual people permission to see where you are.

      If you forgot you did all this to allow your abusive spouse to track you, you can see where Darwin Awards come in.

  3. both blocking and unblocking - which wins? by egburr · · Score: 1
    They sell one product to expose the caller and one to block the caller? How hypocritical. I wonder which one takes precedence when the caller pays to block and the person called pays to unblock.

    Personally, I don't think it should be possible to block caller ID. If you want to be anonymous, find a different phone to use. Pick up a temporary pre-paid cell phone. Get a new one every month. For things where there is a truly legitimate need for anonymity, like domestic abuse, have an option for blocking that requires a court order to enable.

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    1. Re:both blocking and unblocking - which wins? by hedwards · · Score: 1

      Because that's over kill. There is no justification for requiring that the number be shown. The fact of the matter is that the number can be spoofed and some of us don't want our number to show up for one reason or another.

      I shouldn't have to reveal my number just because the other party wants it, if they really want it they should have to ask. That way I get a say in whether or not my number ends up on a list.

      Sort of like how you have to pay a fee to get out of the telephone book, why it is that the phone companies can put it in without permission is beyond me.

    2. Re:both blocking and unblocking - which wins? by rodney+dill · · Score: 3, Insightful

      I shouldn't have to reveal my number just because the other party wants it

      ...and I shouldn't have to receive/answer anonymous calls just because the calling party wants it that way. As it is I let 'blocked', 'private', or 'unknown' calls bounce to voicemail. If its important enough they can leave a message, and I'll know who is call before I choose to talk to them.

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    3. Re:both blocking and unblocking - which wins? by drinkypoo · · Score: 3, Interesting

      I shouldn't have to reveal my number just because the other party wants it, if they really want it they should have to ask. That way I get a say in whether or not my number ends up on a list.

      The most sensible thing to do is to get no-caller-ID-blocking. That way, people who block caller ID get a message that they have to enable it to call you. I think people who block caller ID are cocks, and moreover they're stupid cocks because loopholes like this ALWAYS existed.

      As others have said, if you want to communicate anonymously, there are means for you to do that. The telephone system was built with public dollars and there is little benefit to even permitting anonymous calls, especially since they are not really and never have really been anonymous. Before caller ID even existed, they were logging all your calls for billing purposes. That information has always been available to "the powers that be". The only thing you get out of an anonymous phone call is being anonymous to technical incompetents, which you can achieve by using a payphone or a prepay cellular phone when you're not talking about people who can subpoena (or just examine) your telephone records.

      I do not have non-caller-ID-calls blocked... yet. But I certainly don't ever answer a call on my cellphone that comes in as "Private". That means I never answer my mom's phone calls, an acceptable loss. :P

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    4. Re:both blocking and unblocking - which wins? by rodney+dill · · Score: 4, Funny

      Hmmm... it suddenly occurs to me that blocking caller id is a lot like the 'Anonymous Coward' option at Slashdot.

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    5. Re:both blocking and unblocking - which wins? by egburr · · Score: 2, Interesting

      There are very few justifications for hiding the number. If you want to talk with me, you *sould* have to reveal your number.

      At the moment (not being an abuser) I can not think of ANY reason for you to call me without identifying yourself where I would have any interest in talking with you.

      My cell phone is already programmed with a "silence" ring tone for the number "UNKNOWN", so I never even know if you call. Any number not in my phonebook gets a default ringtone that I seldom answer. So, you can leave a messsage, and if it catches my interest and you provide useful identification, then maybe I'll call back.

      I've always disagreed with having to pay to NOT be listed in the phone book. That's a completely different issue, though. Just the fact that I have a phone does not mean that everyone should be able to look up my number and address.

      However, if you call someone, they *should* get your real phone number (but not your address). If you don't want them to have your number, then don't call them. Or, get a pre-paid disposable cell phone.

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    6. Re:both blocking and unblocking - which wins? by ArcherB · · Score: 3, Insightful

      Because that's over kill. There is no justification for requiring that the number be shown. The fact of the matter is that the number can be spoofed and some of us don't want our number to show up for one reason or another.

      I shouldn't have to reveal my number just because the other party wants it, if they really want it they should have to ask. That way I get a say in whether or not my number ends up on a list.

      Sort of like how you have to pay a fee to get out of the telephone book, why it is that the phone companies can put it in without permission is beyond me.

      If you are going to call my house, you are making something happen inside my home, probably without my permission. If you are going to do that, I have a RIGHT to know who you are and where you are calling from.

      Don't want me to know who you are? Fine, don't call me.

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    7. Re:both blocking and unblocking - which wins? by MrNaz · · Score: 2, Funny

      Who wins? The guy with the Trace Buster Buster Buster.

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    8. Re:both blocking and unblocking - which wins? by horza · · Score: 1

      Both hedwards and rodney dill have good points, but both points have flaws.

      Being able to block the number is useful if you value privacy, as there is nothing to stop a service harvesting incoming phone numbers as some harvest email addresses. I already get a fair amount of spam via both sms and automated diallers.

      A lot of this spam isn't anonymous and bouncing to voicemail wouldn't help. The additional problem with rodney's solution is that if you have friends abroad then often the caller id gets lost internationally. Also some company exchanges strip the caller id from internal lines.

      Here's an idea for a Symbian app: if the call is anonymous then bounce to a menu system, where the options are to go to voicemail or to key in their telephone number and be put through.

      Phillip.

    9. Re:both blocking and unblocking - which wins? by slugstone · · Score: 0

      So you let anybody into your house without knowing who they are?

      I like to know who I am talking to before I answer the phone.

    10. Re:both blocking and unblocking - which wins? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Excellent... I saw this post and wanted to make a Big Hit reference, but I've been beaten. Now I must Taste the Golden Spray.

    11. Re:both blocking and unblocking - which wins? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Bullshit, and further, fuck you.

      You're the one calling me. Frankly, give me your number while the phone is ringing, or don't fucking call at all. Period. I don't want anything to fucking do with you.

      You don't have a right to bother me in my own home without even telling me who the fuck you are, and even the telephone ringing constitutes you bothering me.

      So either have the balls to state who you are as you're annoying me and attempting to gain my attention in pursuit of a conversation, or don't call at all. It's either one or the other.

      Fuck I hate you anonymous pricks. I have better shit to do than deal with a telephone ringing without knowing who it is solely because you don't have the balls to say. Frankly, I want nothing to do with you, and I wouldn't shed a tear if you and your entire family died in a horrifying, flaming car crash.

      (Posted anonymously, because, unlike telephones, this isn't even demanding your attention in real time.)

    12. Re:both blocking and unblocking - which wins? by spooje · · Score: 1

      You just need your trace buster, buster, buster and everything will be fine.

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    13. Re:both blocking and unblocking - which wins? by Skye16 · · Score: 1

      I'd prefer just dropping their call, preferably with a snotty message of some sort.

      "Unblock your number and I'll think about picking up the phone, jackass."

      Don't even let it ring in that case. Don't even tell me the call came in. Think of it as rejecting emails without an email address in the "from" line.

    14. Re:both blocking and unblocking - which wins? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 3, Interesting

      Try this on. My wife's a veterinarian. She will often make follow-up calls on emergencies and critical care patients from home. She tells clients she will do this and that the callerid will be blocked.

      In that case, you SHOULD answer. She's under no obligation to give her her home number. If she did, sooner or later, she'd be getting calls at 3am from people who should have gone to the emergency clinic.

      She's calling on her own time to follow up on your pet. The face that she cares enough to do that (rather than wait until the next day) doesn't mean she should give up more of her privacy.

      And you do know that, at least for landlines, if I google your non-private number, I'll not only get your address, but a map and satellite image of your house. So there's no such thing as "you should give up your number, but not your address". They are easily linked.

    15. Re:both blocking and unblocking - which wins? by bws111 · · Score: 1

      No reason at all? What if I am the doctor returning your middle-of-the-night phone call about your kid with the fever? I obviously do not want to reveal my number, because people will abuse it (call me directly instead of calling the office/answering service). The same is true of anyone in an 'on-call' situation, from doctors to tech support.

    16. Re:both blocking and unblocking - which wins? by Z00L00K · · Score: 1

      The good side of this is that it will be a great way to track down telemarketers running hidden numbers.

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    17. Re:both blocking and unblocking - which wins? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      And this corner case would be handled just like other cases like international calls that lose caller-ID. Block your wife at some menu system where she has to enter an extra ID/pin that the customer gave her (kind of like dialing an unlisted extension).

      Or, in a sane world, her clinic could just have a phone system that she can use remotely so that her calls show up with the official business number. Even the small phone solutions I've seen in low-budget startup companies seem to have this today. You can even trigger the office phone to dial you and then another party in a bridged call, so it is paid by the company dime.

      I'm always amazed by the folks who get worked up about this topic. They invest so much emotionally into the phone and how people use it. I think it is a modern convenience and nobody needs to be a slave. I have a cell phone and no land line and am completely modern in that respect, but I often ignore non-identified (and identified!) calls or turn off my ringer when I'm busy or not interested.

      The phone in my pocket is for my convenience, not for the world's. I've lived for months on separate continents from my wife, worried about her actual survival. Being able to instantly answer a phone wouldn't change the situation, so why do people with regular day-to-day concerns think that we all must be instantly (and anonymously) interruptible?

    18. Re:both blocking and unblocking - which wins? by ragutis · · Score: 1

      "However, if you call someone, they *should* get your real phone number (but not your address). If you don't want them to have your number, then don't call them. Or, get a pre-paid disposable cell phone. --" There are a number of legitimate reasons why you wouldn't want to send your phone number to folks you call. For one, car dealers harvest numbers when you call for service appointments and the like, and use them later to call you to solicit. Once, in a "career interlude", I worked for a car dealer, and, in training was told that the most important thing in taking a call was to get the caller's phone number and save it for later. I shouldn't have to buy a disposable in these cases.

    19. Re:both blocking and unblocking - which wins? by Ucklak · · Score: 1

      Business as usual.

      The Bell Company does the same thing (or at least used to) by selling law enforcement radar guns and the public radar detectors.

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    20. Re:both blocking and unblocking - which wins? by Dog-Cow · · Score: 1

      I don't understand this whole argument.

      There is no right to know who is calling.

      There is no right to be anonymous when calling.

      If you don't know who is calling, you always may choose to ignore the call. That is most definitely a right.

      That's all there is to it.

    21. Re:both blocking and unblocking - which wins? by tinkerghost · · Score: 1

      The fact of the matter is that the number can be spoofed and some of us don't want our number to show up for one reason or another.

      Actually there are 2 numbers that get broadcast with every call - one is the actual originating/tracking number. The other is the displayed caller ID. You can spoof the caller ID number, but the number that originates the call is there for billing purposes & is tacked on at the switch when you place the call.

    22. Re:both blocking and unblocking - which wins? by aaarrrgggh · · Score: 1

      The problem is the percentage of blocked/unknown callers is up dramatically over a year ago. 60% of my office calls are now blocked due to cell phone operator, badly managed phone systems, and other reasons that elude me. Of this group, the vast majority are actual clients, and then there are the sales people and recruiters.

      I originally had the voicemail system put people in "Hell" with unknown numbers, but too many actual clients got stuck there.

      The only solution I can find is reliable caller ID.

    23. Re:both blocking and unblocking - which wins? by FunkSoulBrother · · Score: 1

      More importantly than the non real time nature of your anonymous post is the fact that if it's really bothering me, I can COMPLETELY hide it via my Slashdot preferences, or at very worst write a Firefox extension to do so (if Slashdot wasn't as full-featured) as my PC is an open platform.

      I'd be a lot more sensitive to the demands of anonymous callers to remain anonymous if my cell phone could be configured to 100% drop them: Not assign a silent tone to UNKNOWN or RESTRICTED, not push them to my voice mail, just 100% drop them so on my end they never existed, like I can do with your post. But I can't because my cellphone is a shitty closed platform.

      I can't even pay for the privledge to do so because they won't sell it to me.

    24. Re:both blocking and unblocking - which wins? by MikeVx · · Score: 1

      Because that's over kill. There is no justification for requiring that the number be shown.

      Exactly. As implemented, caller ID is not a legitimate function. Apart from reverse charge numbers and emergency service numbers, there is no reason, ever, to transmit the number of the calling line. If you look at how it is implemented, it becomes clear that Caller ID was created for the primary purpose of allowing business to capture phone numbers of callers without consent. For most large businesses, this is also an additional reason for reverse-charge numbers.

      If privacy is a concern, require that caller information be accurate, with criminal penalties for failure, and send ONLY THE NAME of the person/organization as a text string. I would not have a problem with my name coming up, but my reasons for keeping my number secret trump your reasons for wanting it, period. If you don't want to talk to me, don't answer if my name shows.

      Unless Caller ID is modified to operate this way, everyone complaining about blocked calls is out of order, and should simply drop phone service entirely.

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    25. Re:both blocking and unblocking - which wins? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      no, i'm just too lazy to log in, think before i write, or use proper capitalization.

    26. Re:both blocking and unblocking - which wins? by quarterbuck · · Score: 1

      And this also excludes the easier loophole of just dialing from a public payphone or dialing using a calling card (not all calling cards reveal the dialing phone number correctly).
      I know this because I have called my friends in different countries using pay phones and calling cards and they hate it when I do that - they can't figure out whether the number "0000" is a spam call or a legit one.
      Oh and before someone says you can't find a payphone, look in places near universities and bars. They usually have one around for students and drunkards to call. An incomplete list here (http://www.payphone-directory.org/)

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    27. Re:both blocking and unblocking - which wins? by tprime · · Score: 1

      Let's try this..... You call your Dr.'s office after hours because you have a sniffle or something like that, it goes to their answering service so that your doctor gets paged with your name and phone number to call back. Dr who blocks their caller ID to keep nutjob patients from calling their house back, calls you back but gets a message that you aren't accepting calls from a blocked caller ID... Many doctors, not to mention many service people in general, block their CNID from their home number to keep people from using that number to call back instead of the correct, published, number.

      Personally, I am OK with that.

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    28. Re:both blocking and unblocking - which wins? by nsayer · · Score: 1

      I shouldn't have to reveal my number just because the other party wants it,

      If you knock on someone's door, do you put your thumb on the peephole too?

    29. Re:both blocking and unblocking - which wins? by DavidTC · · Score: 1

      They maybe your company should spring for fucking 5-dollar-a-month phone.com number that you can dial into and back out of, you tard. It can even be set to forward to different phones at various times of day and do voicemail.

      What is this, 1983?

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    30. Re:both blocking and unblocking - which wins? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      So, what you're saying is that your mother is a stupid cock?

    31. Re:both blocking and unblocking - which wins? by DavidTC · · Score: 1

      Actually, you don't have to track them down. This works by forwarding to a 1-800 number.

      telemarketers block their caller ID by forwarding it out of the country and back in, resulting in 'OUT OF AREA'.

      People in other countries can trivially be blocked from 1-800 numbers.

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    32. Re:both blocking and unblocking - which wins? by nxtw · · Score: 2, Informative

      If you are going to call my house, you are making something happen inside my home, probably without my permission. If you are going to do that, I have a RIGHT to know who you are and where you are calling from.

      Don't want me to know who you are? Fine, don't call me.

      If you subscribe to a telephone service, you are paying for a service that is known to cause your phones to ring when your telephone number is dialed. You have the RIGHT to disable the ringer or not subscribe to the service.

      Don't want to be interrupted? Disable your ringers or disconnect your phone line.

    33. Re:both blocking and unblocking - which wins? by ginbot462 · · Score: 1

      But, you're very, VERY busy.

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    34. Re:both blocking and unblocking - which wins? by ArcherB · · Score: 1

      If you are going to call my house, you are making something happen inside my home, probably without my permission. If you are going to do that, I have a RIGHT to know who you are and where you are calling from.

      Don't want me to know who you are? Fine, don't call me.

      If you subscribe to a telephone service, you are paying for a service that is known to cause your phones to ring when your telephone number is dialed. You have the RIGHT to disable the ringer or not subscribe to the service.

      Don't want to be interrupted? Disable your ringers or disconnect your phone line.

      I've bolded the key part there for ya. Hope it helps you understand why MY right to know who is making my phone ring is more important than YOUR right to call me anonymously.

      I pay for a phone so I can talk with family and friends, all of which understand that they may not call me without their number displaying on the caller ID. Is your "right" to contact me against my wishes more important than MY RIGHT to have a phone, especially when considering that I PAY for that phone service? Hell NO! Saying that it you should somehow be allowed to call me anonymously on the line I pay for is like me saying I have a RIGHT to turn on your car radio and pick the station! Oh, you don't like it? Then don't have a car radio, bitch!

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    35. Re:both blocking and unblocking - which wins? by mrchaotica · · Score: 1

      Well, tell your wife to stop making business calls from home!

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    36. Re:both blocking and unblocking - which wins? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Hmmm... it suddenly occurs to me that blocking caller id is a lot like the 'Anonymous Coward' option at Slashdot.

      Yep, what amazes me is that Caller ID has only been around since the late 80s, and yet everyone's a cock when they press *67. People used to not be pussies and just answer their phone. The whole you're at my door with a paper bag over your head or covering the peep hole is a bullshit claim anyways, your phone is not your house, I can not reach through the phone and harm you, on a cellphone where it's costing you minutes I can understand, but when I call your house I don't understand why you choose to spend money on a Caller ID box and service, but refuse to put a $10 answer machine on the line where you could simply pick up when you hear my voice. And in either event screening is security through obscurity anyways as I could just record the voice of the person I know you'll answer for and/or spoof their number on the call. Screening is for pussies, answer your damn phone, if you don't like what I have to say you can always hang up on me, it's really not that hard, and it doesn't cost you anything. Then again, I must be the anonymous COWARD right?

    37. Re:both blocking and unblocking - which wins? by nxtw · · Score: 1

      I pay for a phone so I can talk with family and friends, all of which understand that they may not call me without their number displaying on the caller ID. Is your "right" to contact me against my wishes more important than MY RIGHT to have a phone, especially when considering that I PAY for that phone service?

      I never said that anyone had the right to call you without properly providing caller ID information.

      Subscribing to telephone service is not a right; it is a service you pay for. One of the features of most telephone services is that anyone who knows the number can call it and the line will ring.

      You have the right to enter into a contract to recieve telephone service if you choose. You also have the right not to enter into such a contract if you do not like the terms. If you don't like your current telephone service, you're free to use another that meets your needs.

    38. Re:both blocking and unblocking - which wins? by wvmarle · · Score: 1

      Use a mobile phone for those calls, and simply keep it switched off when you don't want to be called. It's exactly why I have two mobile numbers: one private, one business. And yes the business one is on voice mail in the evenings and over the weekend. Leave me a voice message or SMS and I will know and react if I feel like it then, or next business day.

      Mobile phones are cheap these days, very cheap, I now get 850 mins of air time o my mobile for barely a third of the price of my land line.

    39. Re:both blocking and unblocking - which wins? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      A simple solution is for her to have two phones, one for business (which she uses to make those followup calls, but which she never answers, and is forwarded to the office number permanently) and one for personal use (which she answers at 3AM because it's you asking to be picked up next to your flaming wrecked car). I know that the vet business in general is hideously underpaid, but the incremental few bucks for the extra phone isn't huge.

    40. Re:both blocking and unblocking - which wins? by Dalroth · · Score: 1

      You know what, a doctor makes more than enough money that he can afford a second phone dedicated to work and does not and should not be using his home phone.

    41. Re:both blocking and unblocking - which wins? by Dalroth · · Score: 1

      SHE SHOULD GET A SECOND PHONE!!

      Better yet, she can even have return calls ROUTED TO HER OFFICE!

      Why is this concept so difficult to understand??

  4. Anonymous retribution? by mpoulton · · Score: 3, Insightful

    Advocacy groups for victims of domestic violence are concerned.

    Why? Because this doesn't allow victims to harass their abusive partners anonymously? I fail to see what legitimate use caller ID blocking has in a domestic dispute. If anything, this should be a benefit since it destroys the anonymity of a harassing caller.

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    1. Re:Anonymous retribution? by nedlohs · · Score: 1

      Because it's easy to get a new phone number that the abusive ex doesn't know. However, if there are children involved they likely have to call the ex in order to arrange visitation - often a judge will have ordered this phone contact so not doing so will have consequences. And yes there have been cases of caller ID being used to find and hurt/kill ex-partners.

      Of course in these days of cheap pay-as-you-go cell phone services. it doesn't seem too hard to get such a phone (or even just a pay-as-you-go simcard from the same provider your phone is locked to) to use for only those calls.

    2. Re:Anonymous retribution? by hal9000(jr) · · Score: 1, Insightful

      Why? Because this doesn't allow victims to harass their abusive partners anonymously?

      spoken like a true 'tard. Is that the only reason you can see for wanting to hide your number? so that you can harass someone?

      never been abused or threatened, have you? Maybe a case is made because someone wants to call a person who is abusive and you don't want them to call you back? Say, you have an abusive spouse but you have to share custody. You need to call them but don't want them calling you and abusing you? Hrm, maybe that's a good idea.

      Abusive people will go along way to make others lives miserable.

    3. Re:Anonymous retribution? by mpoulton · · Score: 2, Informative

      spoken like a true 'tard. [snip] Say, you have an abusive spouse but you have to share custody. You need to call them but don't want them calling you and abusing you? Hrm, maybe that's a good idea.

      If the court is involved to order shared custody, then the court can just as easily issue an injunction prohibiting the abuser from calling the victim. Violation of the order begets jail and fines.

      Even in the absence of a court order, the victim could block incoming calls from the abuser's number - assuming this technology is available to defeat ID blocking! All things considered, the ability to block one's originating number seems much more useful for the abuser than the victim.

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    4. Re:Anonymous retribution? by hummassa · · Score: 1, Redundant

      I said it and I will say it again: if the other person is abusive, you should not be communicating with them via telephone, only via lawyers and police officers.

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    5. Re:Anonymous retribution? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Anonymous cowards are positively livid.

      "We are being forced instead into the internet," wrote one in an email, "And that medium is simply not sustainable for our anti-semitic rants. We have drafted proposals based on a karma system we found on a pony discussion forum, but we have been unable to phone the telcos with our plans."

    6. Re:Anonymous retribution? by Svartalf · · Score: 1

      And if you believe that they don't flaunt the order and rarely get hammered with it, I've got some nice-n-dry beachfront property on the middle of the Florida coastline to sell you... ;-)

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    7. Re:Anonymous retribution? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      If the court is involved to order shared custody, then the court can just as easily issue an injunction prohibiting the abuser from calling the victim. Violation of the order begets jail and fines.

      Because injunctions and restraining orders work so well don't'cha know. Just ask all the dead women who had them.

    8. Re:Anonymous retribution? by Manfre · · Score: 1

      Blocking a number doesn't work since that person could easily use another phone, or use spoofcard.

      I find it interesting that you are strongly defending abusers.

    9. Re:Anonymous retribution? by elrous0 · · Score: 3, Insightful

      There is *no* reason for an abuse victim to be contacting their abuser from their real phone other than sheer stupidity--none, zero, zilch. Any custody or kids issues should be done through third-parties, period. And even in the rare emergency where they just HAD to personally get in touch with Prince Charming, they could use a pre-paid cell phone, pay phone, some random business's phone, a third party's phone, etc. If Julie Dumbass just can't bear to let Jimmy Wife-Beater go, then there is nothing you can do to stop her. And why should the rest of us have to suffer just because she's that stupid?

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    10. Re:Anonymous retribution? by Stewie241 · · Score: 2, Insightful

      If the one partner is truly abusive, then why are we letting them visit children?

    11. Re:Anonymous retribution? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Prince? Really?

      Way to be sexist.....I guess it never crossed your mind that there are a lot of manipulative evil females out there....

    12. Re:Anonymous retribution? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Right... and if the abuser calls from a payphone, how doyou prove beyond a reasonable doubt that the abuser violated the court order? Tap the victim's phone? That would be a violation of federal and state wiretap statutes. Abuse and harassment are unlawful even without a court order... if somebody is willing to break the law in the first place, do you really think the existence of a court order is going to significantly change their behavior?

    13. Re:Anonymous retribution? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Make that Prince or Princess Charming, btw.

    14. Re:Anonymous retribution? by evanbd · · Score: 3, Insightful

      According to TFA, the concern is primarily about court-mandated phone contact.

    15. Re:Anonymous retribution? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1, Informative

      I said it and I will say it again: if the other person is abusive, you should not be communicating with them via telephone, only via lawyers and police officers.

      Yeah, you know *all* about it, don't you?

      Courts often order regular visitation rights for violent spouses 'because they were not violent to or in front of the children'. These visits have to be arranged and the court expects *you* to do it. You think the police are going to do it? You think the abused partner can afford to pay a lawyer every few days to arrange contact?
      Just how fucking stupid are you?

    16. Re:Anonymous retribution? by adam613 · · Score: 3, Interesting

      Because people who abuse their spouses and children generally abuse the courts as well...

    17. Re:Anonymous retribution? by Dog-Cow · · Score: 1

      Because the court system in this country has no interest in preventing harm to anyone.

    18. Re:Anonymous retribution? by Dog-Cow · · Score: 2, Informative

      Then change the laws in this country. Oh, and provide free legal services to every abused spouse. Or do you think lawyers will act as go-betweens for free? Same goes for police officers. They usually have more important work to do.

      You aren't insightful, you are an asshole.

    19. Re:Anonymous retribution? by Dog-Cow · · Score: 0, Troll

      I hope you are killed by a stalker. Really, you have no idea what-so-ever what pains such people will do to harm their chosen victim. They live only to cause misery.

      And sometimes you have to contact them anyway, for legal reasons. Change the laws before you go spouting off about things you know nothing about.

      I don't think anyone has a right to assume anonymity when making a phone call. But to assume that no one would have a reason to keep such details private is simply disgusting, given the circumstances under discussion.

    20. Re:Anonymous retribution? by elrous0 · · Score: 1

      Actually, I grew up with a mother who was abused, you prick. And she was smart enough to call from a fucking pay phone.

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    21. Re:Anonymous retribution? by elrous0 · · Score: 1

      Okay, "or Princess Evil-She-Bitch." Happy?

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    22. Re:Anonymous retribution? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Obviously you have no understanding of family law issues. Third parties are not able (or willing) to get involved in particularly contentious domestic issues. The man (or woman as the case may be) still has a right to see his or her children. Drop off and pick up of the children (interaction in public) is much different than having the abused spouse's number and billing address, which this service provides. I am neither abused nor an abuser, however, I have worked with some of these people and many of the people posting here do not understand the problem and seem content to be ignorant of the problem.

    23. Re:Anonymous retribution? by hummassa · · Score: 1

      answer at #26903847...

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    24. Re:Anonymous retribution? by hummassa · · Score: 1

      answer at #26903847...

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    25. Re:Anonymous retribution? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0
      Disclaimer: I'm not Dog-Cow.

      Actually, I grew up with a mother who was abused, you prick.

      That's unfortunate and I hope things worked out, but given this assertion, I would expect you to be more aware of the complexities than your posts would indicate.

      And she was smart enough to call from a fucking pay phone.

      And that was a smart workaround, two decades ago. Seen many pay phones around lately? The ubiquity of cell phones has killed them in most places. The modern equivalent is the "disposable" cell phone, but even as cheap as they are, many abused women [1] cannot afford them. Some shelters give them out, but availability may depend on donations or other funding.

      Was your mom foolish enough to use the same pay phone every time? If so, what if her abuser had made friends with someone in the local telco (unlikely, but possible), and thus determined the location of that pay phone? Today's battered woman would be best off avoiding the pay phone. Since caller ID and internet access is commonplace, there's a good chance that an abuser could find the location from the unblocked pay phone number. And since there are so few pay phones left, she probably doesn't even have the option of rotating her pay phone usage (and if the abuser could find the locations of most of them, he probably has determined the vicinity of the shelter).

      I think that the existence of caller ID blocking is a non-issue. If you're is being harassed by a blocked caller, what good does it do you to have the phone number? Do you intend to engage in some vigilantism? Maybe you'd harass them in return? Better to report it to the telco and/or police; the telco has access to the caller's blocked number. I know this approach doesn't always achieve the best results, but it's better than attempting to dispense your own justice. Alternatively, if you have caller ID, just don't answer unidentified calls. That might not work for everyone, but I suspect it would work for most people.

      - T

      [1] Another poster accused you of being sexist, which was unfair IMO. I used the female gender in this post without apology. There are far more battered/abused women than men, so the use of the female gender in this context is entirely appropriate, despite the existence of the occasional Evil Abusive Bitch (TM).

    26. Re:Anonymous retribution? by nedlohs · · Score: 1

      Because proving things is less than simple.

      People get assaulted by other people that the courts declared to not be abusing them last week all the time.

    27. Re:Anonymous retribution? by AK+Marc · · Score: 1

      Seen many pay phones around lately? The ubiquity of cell phones has killed them in most places.

      The police have killed them where they can. Pay phones allow for drug deals, and as such are tools of crime. Anything that allows anonymity would be outlawed if the police could do it. They used to all be real lines, both in and out calls. Then incoming calls started getting disabled and the number of them decreased. There was also a deregulation of them that allowed for prices to more than double, amking frequent calls more expensive.

    28. Re:Anonymous retribution? by AK+Marc · · Score: 1

      There is *no* reason for an abuse victim to be contacting their abuser from their real phone other than sheer stupidity--none, zero, zilch.

      Yeah, the "stupidity" of thinking that, when time came for their required contact that was court-mandated, that blocking caller-ID would allow them to call without revealing their location, rather than paying a $100+ per hour lawyer to sit in on the conversation and make it from his office (which is as bad or worse, as then he'll know when and where she'll be for the next call). She should be calling from her "real" phone. But it should be a cell phone, and it should have the number changed as soon as she received unwanted incoming calls on it. That's about the only way to do it.

      they could use a pre-paid cell phone,

      That's still a "real" phone. It is no better than a phone with a 100 year contract, as long as your company will change your number without issues on a regular basis.

      If caller-id block worked, then they wouldn't have to do all the work arounds you mentioned. They could just block it and call from home, problem solved.

    29. Re:Anonymous retribution? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      But if she was really smart, you would not have been born.

    30. Re:Anonymous retribution? by elrous0 · · Score: 0, Flamebait

      And if yours had been really smart, she might have been able to figure out which one of her strip club regulars she should've asked for child support.

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    31. Re:Anonymous retribution? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      The point is, the courts shouldn't be mandating contact, except through third parties.

    32. Re:Anonymous retribution? by rantingkitten · · Score: 1

      In which case the court can order the caller ID to be blocked. It shouldn't be up to the whim of any schmuck who wants it.

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  5. Blocking Caller ID illegal in some states by kurt555gs · · Score: 5, Interesting

    The State of Michigan and I believe 6 other states passed laws written by the RIAA to make it a felony to mask your IP address. The laws were written so broadly though, that masking the information about any electronic identity would constitute a crime including caller ID.

    Many states modified this before passage, but Michigan and several other states just passed the RIAA bill as submitted.

    It is a class 3 felony to block caller ID in Michigan.

    Thanks RIAA

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    1. Re:Blocking Caller ID illegal in some states by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      While it wouldn't particularly surprise me, do you have a link to something backing this up?

    2. Re:Blocking Caller ID illegal in some states by morgan_greywolf · · Score: 1

      It is a class 3 felony to block caller ID in Michigan.

      It's not likely to be upheld in this way, and is definitely not likely to stay this way if it does. The RIAA may be powerful politically in some ways, but the telemarketers and bill collectors have their own allies in the legislature as well.

    3. Re:Blocking Caller ID illegal in some states by Lumpy · · Score: 1

      It's also a felony to sit OUTSIDE a coffee shop and check your email. A man in sparta michigan was arrested and found guilty of this crime 3 years ago.

      If you are in the state of michigan, NEVER EVER tell a cop what you are doing on your laptop, simply hold down the power button to crash power it off and close it and say, Writing a private love letter. you never EVER say you were online, or doing anything.

      This is not a good state to live or work in.

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    4. Re:Blocking Caller ID illegal in some states by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 2, Informative

      Not quite, Lumpy. In the case in question, the man had been driving his car up to the coffee shop for weeks and using his laptop. He had been warned by the coffee shop owners that the WiFi service is for paying customers. After repeated warnings and his continual offense, they called the cops. Unfortunately he was prosecuted under an old law that equated what he was doing with breaking into a bank mainframe.

      If you go to a coffee shop, purchase an item, and sit outside in their outdoor cafe area, you will be fine.

    5. Re:Blocking Caller ID illegal in some states by penguinbrat · · Score: 1

      laws written by the RIAA to make it a felony to mask your IP address.

      It is a class 3 felony to block caller ID in Michigan.

      Wouldn't that make it a felony for the companies using the service to get around the blocking? IE: masking, in a since, the real #? Blocking something isn't the same thing as pretending your something else - IE: masking.

    6. Re:Blocking Caller ID illegal in some states by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      So, does this mean that I'm now a felon if I meet the possibility that this was sent from someone who is currently in Michigan?

    7. Re:Blocking Caller ID illegal in some states by operagost · · Score: 1

      NEVER EVER tell a cop what you are doing

      FTFY

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    8. Re:Blocking Caller ID illegal in some states by nurb432 · · Score: 1

      As it should be. Its not really much different then wearing a mask at my front door. its my phone/door, i have a right to know who is there if i want.

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    9. Re:Blocking Caller ID illegal in some states by Jah-Wren+Ryel · · Score: 1

      As it should be. Its not really much different then wearing a mask at my front door. its my phone/door, i have a right to know who is there if i want.

      Wrong. You have the right to open the door or answer the phone. If you don't like that they have a mask on, don't open the door.

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    10. Re:Blocking Caller ID illegal in some states by Lumpy · · Score: 1

      Really? All articles about it online disagree with you.

      here is the most comprehensive one I can find in 30 seconds on google....

      http://arstechnica.com/tech-policy/news/2007/05/michigan-man-arrested-for-using-cafes-free-wifi-from-his-car.ars

      I can find may more as well as the original TV coverage of it.

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    11. Re:Blocking Caller ID illegal in some states by xenocide2 · · Score: 1

      From the article you failed to read:

      Since the cafe's WiFi network was reserved for customers, and Peterson never came into the cafe, he was essentially piggybacking off of the open network without authorization. The arrest came about because Peterson apparently showed up to the Union Street Cafe to use its free WiFi from the comfort of his car, and he did so every single day.

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    12. Re:Blocking Caller ID illegal in some states by xenocide2 · · Score: 1

      Actually, I think if someone rings my doorbell with a mask on (sans Halloween), I'd probably consider calling the police. Just like if I was a bank teller and someone came up to my booth with a mask on, I'd be freaking out. I doubt it's illegal, but it is suspicious activity and sounds like prelude to me being a victim.

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    13. Re:Blocking Caller ID illegal in some states by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Yeah, but what you failed to understand (not sure if it was in that article or not, because I didn't bother reading, since I've already read dozens of articles about the incident) is that the shop owner was not involved in the complaint. The cop observed what was going on and found out he was using the access without paying.

      At one point, the store owner was interviewed by the media and he even said he really didn't care about it, and he would have gladly invited the guy to come on it, sit down, and use the wireless access even if he didn't buy anything. However, the cops insisted on charging the guy with the crime. It was a case of prosecuting a victimless crime as a mere matter of formality.

    14. Re:Blocking Caller ID illegal in some states by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Well I live in Michigan and I've never heard about this. Do you know what the law is which spells this out? Also, doesn't this make proxy services illegal to use, or heck, what about VPN? What exactly to they consider "masking" your IP?

    15. Re:Blocking Caller ID illegal in some states by detritus. · · Score: 1

      I'll remember this the next time a police officer decides to call me from his cell phone with *67

  6. Sounds like a good idea to me... by rodney+dill · · Score: 1

    ... I always felt that blocked calls were the equivalent of someone showing up at your front door with a paper bag (with eye-holes) over their head, and they won't reveal who they were until you answer the door.

    Of course it just may end up generating more business for the SpoofCard....

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    1. Re:Sounds like a good idea to me... by Sebilrazen · · Score: 3, Insightful

      ... I always felt that blocked calls were the equivalent of someone showing up at your front door with a paper bag (with eye-holes) over their head...

      Sounds like my past couple of dates.

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    2. Re:Sounds like a good idea to me... by rodney+dill · · Score: 1

      Ouch!

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    3. Re:Sounds like a good idea to me... by echucker · · Score: 1

      Were you the bagger, or baggee? :-)

    4. Re:Sounds like a good idea to me... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      How do you get them to answer the door? They always freak out when I try the bag trick.

    5. Re:Sounds like a good idea to me... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      ... I always felt that blocked calls were the equivalent of someone showing up at your front door with a paper bag (with eye-holes) over their head...

      Sounds like my past couple of dates.

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  7. TrapCall by arndawg · · Score: 2, Funny

    Sounds like something a certain bear at a certain /b/ would set up.

  8. I've been doing this for years by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    This is old. I've been doing this for years.

    I pay $10 a month with tollfreemax and get an 800 number, and forward all my calls to it, then it rings back to my second line. I get callerID on every call.

    1. Re:I've been doing this for years by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Good for you. On the other hand, why is this even possible? The caller isn't calling the 800 number, so it's entirely the forwarder's decision to use the 800 service. Shouldn't the forwarder's number be the only one revealed to the 800 service?

      I assume that there is a configuration which tells the last switch not to suppress caller ID if the call is paid for by the recipient. Wouldn't it be easy to amend the condition with "and the call is not forwarded"? Telcos could still grab caller ID before the last hop, but I think it would be illegal to give this information to an outside party.

    2. Re:I've been doing this for years by morgan_greywolf · · Score: 1

      I didn't know about this loophole. I'm guessing the telcos aren't necessarily going out of their way to tell you about it, either.

    3. Re:I've been doing this for years by Nuitari+The+Wiz · · Score: 1

      Like many technological things (BGP and DNS comes to mind), caller id is trusting.

      When you use *67 to block a caller id, the caller id is still sent, but with a privacy flag turned on so that the _end point_ equipment can conveniently not display it.

      If I call into my Asterisk PBX on a SIP line with *67, the caller id will show up in the variable that holds the caller id, allowing me to do nice and wonderful things with it.

      It won't show up on my Polycom phone, unless I explicitely set the privacy header of SIP to show the number.

    4. Re:I've been doing this for years by russotto · · Score: 1

      When you use *67 to block a caller id, the caller id is still sent, but with a privacy flag turned on so that the _end point_ equipment can conveniently not display it.

      It's not THAT trusting. The Caller ID is blocked at the terminating CO, at least for ordinary lines. PBX lines may be different. Otherwise a simple firmware hack to the caller ID box would unblock things -- and we'd have had a Slashdot story about that by now.

    5. Re:I've been doing this for years by tinkerghost · · Score: 1

      The ANI number (the number that's going to get billed for the call) is always provided to the receiving party. The Caller ID is so much garbage & always has been. The big differences are that the CNID number is presented with the call and is defined by the originator of the call (or the switch if no data is present), and the ANI is presented upon completion of the call and is defined by the switch that places the call.

      800 number operations frequently just grab the ANI to work with instead of the CNID, that way they don't have to worry about the areas that don't provide CNIDs (those "no data" calls)

    6. Re:I've been doing this for years by DavidTC · · Score: 1

      800 numbers have to get the ANI, because they get billed for the call, so have to know who called so know how much to bill.

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  9. 203 Sense and Antisense U.S. Air Date: October 3, by sesshomaru · · Score: 1, Informative

    [The phone clicks. Frank puts the phone down. The gadget bleeps. Roedecker holds it
    out for Frank to see. The readout notes, "Anonymous Caller."]

    ROEDECKER: Well, obviously whoever called has blocked caller ID. The phone
    company does it for a price.

    [Frank snatches back the check out of Roedecker's hands.]

    ROEDECKER: Whoa, whoa! All you need now is a device to undo their caller block.

    [Roedecker hastily grabs a package from a nearby chair and takes off the lid. It's
    another gadget, the LMU-83.]

    ROEDECKER: The LMU 83 will override their override very nicely. It's a little more
    James Bondian but we are living in a more Blofeldian world.

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  10. You got it wrong... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1, Insightful

    They sell one product to FALSIFY the callerID (spoofcard) not to block it. The other product reveals callerID that was blocked.

    So if someone is using spoofcatd, this new service will not affect them at all... the spoofed callerID will be displayed. Big deal.

    1. Re:You got it wrong... by AndrewNeo · · Score: 1

      Well, except one's illegal and the other is presumably not.

    2. Re:You got it wrong... by Dog-Cow · · Score: 1

      Since when is it illegal to lie about whose phone you are calling from?

      Since when is it illegal to provide information in your possession simply because some 3rd party assumed it would not be available?

    3. Re:You got it wrong... by tinkerghost · · Score: 1

      Well, except one's illegal and the other is presumably not.

      Both are perfectly legal. Businesses spoof caller ID all day long. Work from home? Spoof the ID to the work number. Have 45 direct dial extensions in the office but want callbacks to go to the main switchboard unless the agent gives out the number? Spoof all the calls to the switchboard number.

      Bad is spoofing Bob's number down the street when calling 911. Stupid is using the caller ID provided instead of the switching information provided to determine the source of 911 calls.

  11. What about callerID spoofing? by WibbleOnMars · · Score: 2, Interesting

    It's one thing to block your callerID from being presented to the end user - in that case, the intermediary telcos will still be able to see the callerID; they pass it between themselves, but just don't pass it to the final end user. That's how this system works -- because they're a telco, they get to see the callerID, but unlike other telcos, they've decided to pass the information on regardless.

    But what about spoofed callerIDs? They're the ones that I feel would be genuinely useful to unmask. But sadly, this system won't work in these cases. If the callerID is tampered with at source, that tampered value is what gets passed between the telcos, so there's nothing useful that can be unmasked.

    1. Re:What about callerID spoofing? by Lumpy · · Score: 1

      Not too long ago the CallerID string was passed to your phone but with a flag that told your device to not display it. I loved it because the NEC phone system I had at the time would ignore that flag. flipped out a lot of people... but then we had a T1 coming in so the same phone system set the CallerID string for outgoing lines. Line 21 was set for 1-555-555-5555 and the name VATICAN it was awesome for prank calling people.

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  12. What is the ratio of bad calls to good? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1, Insightful

    1000 to 1? 10,000 to 1? Even higher, with most people going through their entire lives never needing to block their number, but often having people they don't know or don't want to talk to blocking theirs?

    If a victim of domestic violence wants to contact their abuser for some reason, but doesn't want the latter to know their number, I'm certain there will be several groups willing to pass on a message -- family, friends, domestic violence shelter, church groups, what have you. There is no need to hide the vast majority of morons, salesmen, and other jerks from blocking their number when they are calling me.

    I would go so far as to say that people should have the right to say that they will not accept calls where the originating number is hidden -- just have a recorded message in the phone company switch that says "We're sorry, but the party you are contacting does not accept blocked caller-ID calls. Please remove the block and try again."

    1. Re:What is the ratio of bad calls to good? by Stewie241 · · Score: 2, Interesting

      Hmmm... maybe it is a unique service, but I know that we have such a service here for home phones. See: Bell Call Privacy (sorry for their horribly undescriptive page, but basically the idea is that if you have call display blocked, it will ask you to key in a number in order to be connected.)

      What has always surprised me (and I know this is slightly off-topic since the topic seems to be about cell phones and not PSTN) is that no enterprising phone device manufacturer has built an inexpensive phone that allows you to filter calls based on phone numbers, or change ringtones. Caller ID is pretty widespread, and I can't imagine the technology to do filtering would be much more expensive to implement. You'd probably want to make it configured over a USB port on a PC, but with the recent response to Canada's national do not call list I would think there would be at least some people interested in spending an extra $10 on a phone that had such a feature.

    2. Re:What is the ratio of bad calls to good? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      What has always surprised me (and I know this is slightly off-topic since the topic seems to be about cell phones and not PSTN) is that no enterprising phone device manufacturer has built an inexpensive phone that allows you to filter calls based on phone numbers, or change ringtones. Caller ID is pretty widespread, and I can't imagine the technology to do filtering would be much more expensive to implement. You'd probably want to make it configured over a USB port on a PC, but with the recent response to Canada's national do not call list I would think there would be at least some people interested in spending an extra $10 on a phone that had such a feature.

      My phone (normal Panasonic DECT 6 set, ~$100 CAD for base and 3 handsets) lets me change ringtones based on the CID information, and I've seen many others that do as well. It doesn't block incoming calls if they lack information, though.

    3. Re:What is the ratio of bad calls to good? by Stewie241 · · Score: 1

      Really? Very interesting. What is the model number? Where did you get it? Are you happy with the sound quality? Are you happy with it in general?

    4. Re:What is the ratio of bad calls to good? by Nethead · · Score: 1

      My old uniden 2.4GHz system will allow the ringtone to be chosen if the phone number is in it's phonebook.

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  13. Fix telco *657 by MikeBabcock · · Score: 2, Informative

    My telco advertises *657 service (I may have those numbers slightly wrong) to report harassing phone calls, despite caller ID. Simply dial the code and it replies telling you that the call has been logged. If a police report is also filed, these records are given directly to the police, or if a certain number of these automated complaints are made, a report is automatically filed.

    The same thing can be achieved by calling the operator immediately after the phone call and reporting it as harassing. The phone company knows who called you, they don't like people abusing the service any more than landlords appreciate the loud annoying neighbour that makes people move out of their buildings.

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    1. Re:Fix telco *657 by jgtg32a · · Score: 1

      Please tell me you have AT&T?

    2. Re:Fix telco *657 by Nethead · · Score: 1

      The same thing can be achieved by calling the operator...

      What operator? That is so 1980s. I haven't been able to get a RBOC or ILEC operator for years!

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  14. Call info should follow the money trail... by volxdragon · · Score: 1

    This is actually an incredibly good point....lets take this a few steps further and say I set up my home phone to call-forward to a 900 # or a number in Zimbabwe. Is the caller who called my (local) number liable for the charges incurred from the call now being forwarded to a possibly extremely expensive toll call destination??!? If so, I've got a new April Fools practical joke all lined up now :) This just seems wrong, the forwarding party, not the caller, should be liable for the billing (and therefore should be the one showing up on the AIN to the 800 #), not the original caller.

    1. Re:Call info should follow the money trail... by AndrewNeo · · Score: 1

      I don't think the forwarding works that way. I think it forwards the call on your dime (which is free, if you're calling a toll-free number, obviously) but it still passes on the Caller ID of the original caller. Otherwise, if you had, say, call forwarding set up to forward from your house to your cellphone, all you'd ever see was your house calling you.

    2. Re:Call info should follow the money trail... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Calls carry different numbers through the system. The originating caller ID is just one of them. In the case of caller ID blocking, the network should suppress the originating caller ID on the last hop. It does this now. The caller ID is carried as long as it is needed for billing purposes; That's why it isn't blocked earlier. Forwarding is done in the network. This kind of forwarding usually keeps the caller ID, for the reasons you note. Trouble is, since the forwarded call does not leave the network, caller ID blocking doesn't work at the point where the call is forwarded (even though the target of the second leg of the call is set by the callee.) Then, when the call reaches its (2nd) destination, the callee-pays exception to caller ID blocking takes effect. It's a bug, plain and simple. The caller ID should either be blocked on the last hop of the second leg, because the call is forwarded, or on the last hop of the first leg, because that is its original destination and further hops are not billed to the caller.

    3. Re:Call info should follow the money trail... by Ioldanach · · Score: 1

      The caller ID is not the AIN. While it should obviously forward the caller ID, the AIN is the billable phone number. So, does it forward the original AIN or the forwarder's AIN, and if it forwards the original AIN, who gets billed for the call?

    4. Re:Call info should follow the money trail... by amorsen · · Score: 1

      The forwarding party obviously has to pay for the forwarded call. It always works that way. (Except in Asterisk billing, but that's a rant for another day)

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    5. Re:Call info should follow the money trail... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I don't think the forwarding works that way. I think it forwards the call on your dime (which is free, if you're calling a toll-free number, obviously) but it still passes on the Caller ID of the original caller. Otherwise, if you had, say, call forwarding set up to forward from your house to your cellphone, all you'd ever see was your house calling you.

      Your right this is how we let anyone call our cell phone free any time. I give them our home number(vonage) and forward all calls to the cell. We only see the home number which is in our five list so free but no caller ID. It is an acceptable loss for cheaper cell service.

  15. ANI != Caller ID by knorthern+knight · · Score: 5, Informative

    I can't believe the ignorance of the referenced article. See http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Automatic_number_identification for an intelligent explanation of what's happening. The important part is...

    >>>
    Because ANI is unrelated to caller ID, the caller's telephone number and line type
    are captured by ANI equipment even if caller ID blocking is activated. The destination
    telephone company switching office can relay the originating telephone number to ANI
    delivery services subscribers. Toll-free Inward WATS number subscribers and large
    companies normally have access to ANI information, either instantly via installed
    equipment, or from a monthly billing statement. Residential subscribers can obtain
    access to ANI information through third party companies that charge for the service.
    >>>

    To summarize...

    * There are 2 *TOTALLY UNRELATED* means of getting *THE NUMBER THAT IS CALLING YOU*

    * Caller ID (technically CNID) sends the callers number during the ringing signal.
        Any outfit with their own PBX can send out whatever crap they want as CNID.
        That's how spoofing services work, and how telemarketers can fake CNID

    * ANI (Automatic Number Identification) is billing information data. Spoofing that
        effectively constitutes fraud. And you can be certain that phone companies will
        do whatever is necessary to make sure their billing systems work . ANI is very
        difficult to spoof.

        Having said that, TrapCall can be beaten. Not spoofed, but beaten. ANI passes the number making the call. If you call via Skype, your call is forwarded to Skype, who then forwards the call to the destination. The destination gets Skype's billing data. This is technically correct, but useless for identifying the originator. Oh yeah, Skype pays connection charges at the receiving end, so don't expect them to freely work for 1-900 numbers. This is roughly equivalant to calling from New York to Los Angeles to ask your brother to pass on a message to someone in Atlanta. The person in Atlanta knows they got called by somebody from Los Angeles. This is technically correct, but doesn't let them know that the message originated from New York.

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    1. Re:ANI != Caller ID by MrEricSir · · Score: 1

      I can't believe this wasn't the first comment. Where are all the phone phreaks these days?

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    2. Re:ANI != Caller ID by silas_moeckel · · Score: 1

      At home with kids, were all 30+ years old ya know :)

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    3. Re:ANI != Caller ID by nasor · · Score: 1

      An even easier way to beat it would be to use a pre-paid calling cards. The kind where you dial an 800 number and then enter a pin and the number you want to connect to. Those always appear to be coming from the calling card service.

  16. Web Address by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    The service's site is http://www.trapcall.com./ Seems to be missing from the article.

  17. Back in the old days of British Telecom by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    There was no such thing as caller ID. All calls were anonymous. When it was proposed there was outcry from the privacy groups and tin-hat brigade. I know many people who have their caller ID blocked by default. Why shouldn't they? Also in the UK all toll-free numbers NEVER get your caller ID, even if you don't block it. Seems you yanks have everything upside down to me...

  18. One Thing About This Bothers Me by LifesABeach · · Score: 1

    Why does a listener try to communicate to someone that initially does not identify themselves, then if the listening caller does not know them, the caller does not identify that they are the agent for someone else. Lastly, why does the caller feel compelled to not identify their intentions.

  19. Grand Central is another solution by Brit_in_the_USA · · Score: 2, Informative

    I happily use Google's Grand Central(in eternal beta, so getting a telephone number may require a wait) it allows me to block all calls with no ID , forward them to a specific spam voice mail box or to my general voice mail (without even ringing my phones). You can even record a custom greeting >;-}

    It also carries a known spam caller telephone list that you can subscribe to - they will automatically get dropped or straight to spam voice mail box.

    Since changing my cell phone number I have given out my grand central number to everyone but family. It certainly reduces the number of people I need to tell if I switch cell phone provider (and number) in the future too - I'm not going thought the hassle of number porting.

    1. Re:Grand Central is another solution by Tintivilus · · Score: 1

      I'm not going thought the hassle of number porting.

      What hassle? I've ported a few numbers now, and you just have to tell them your old provider and number and wait a few hours for the request to go through. When I did a port in person I had to sign an extra form, but adding a number port to an online cell phone order was just an extra screen to click through.

    2. Re:Grand Central is another solution by Elshar · · Score: 1

      Looks interesting. I was checking it out, but says I need an invite from a member. Would you be willing to send me one?

  20. TelTech is in the protection racket. by Name+Anonymous · · Score: 1

    From the linked article:
    He also expects his new business will be good for his old one.
    "The only way to block your number after this is released is to use Spoofcard," he says with a laugh.


    Basically the TrapCall service is extortion to get people to buy their SpoofCard service.

    1. Re:TelTech is in the protection racket. by knorthern+knight · · Score: 1

      > "The only way to block your number after this is released is
      > to use Spoofcard," he says with a laugh.

      False, bordering on an outright lie. Any 3rd-party forwarder will work. The destination will see the forwarder's number, not yours. Heck, Skype or a cheap dedicated cellphone homed in another area-code will work just as well.

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  21. Two interim solutions by davidwr · · Score: 1

    Short-term things to try:

    1) Third-party-routed calling that make all calls come "from" the 3rd party. The tech is cheap enough to make this commercially viable for people who aren't victims, and charities, governments, and in-kind donations from service providers can cover the cost for victims.

    2) Telco forging of originator telephone numbers: If you use *69, send a generic phone number instead of the real phone number. I'm not a telephone techie, this may break things, so viability would have to be checked before it's done.

    Long-term:

    Change the call-forwarding mechanism so if calls are forwarded, the only calling-station information available to the final or intermediate destinations are those available to the original destination. This might require technical and/or legal changes. I've got a hunch that with today's phone system, the en-route and final-destination telephone switches will have to "know all," but there is no reason the end customer at the final destination should know more than the original destination, even for 800 calls. If billing is an issue, then charge the end user as if the call made from the forwarding phone, not the originating phone. The original caller is already paying as if the call was not forwarded.

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  22. You've got it backwards by elrous0 · · Score: 3, Insightful

    The service doesn't reveal your number if they're calling YOU, only if you're calling THEM. According to the article, the reason that domestic abuse people are concerned is because there are situations where an abused spouse might need to call her abuser (such as calls about their kids) but doesn't want to abuser knowing the number where they're calling from.

    Personally, I think this is a pretty flimsy excuse. Abuse victims shouldn't be in contact with their abusers, period. If they need to deal with custody issues, they should be doing it through a third party or from a disposable cell phone or pay phone. And if an abuse victim is stupid enough to be contacting their abuser using their new home phone, then there is nothing you can do to protect them anyway (you can't stop someone from being a dumbass).

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    1. Re:You've got it backwards by Minwee · · Score: 2, Insightful

      you can't stop someone from being a dumbass

      And the flood of posts to Slashdot proves this every day.

    2. Re:You've got it backwards by ArsonSmith · · Score: 2, Funny

      WTF is a pay phone?

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    3. Re:You've got it backwards by elrous0 · · Score: 1

      In your neighborhood, it's called a prepaid cellphone.

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  23. Sounds like a job for by SupremoMan · · Score: 1
  24. What? by Vegeta99 · · Score: 1

    Wait, what? Domestic violence groups are pissed? I can't understand why... its bad to know when the abusive boyfroemd calls? Or is it bad for the abusive boyfriend to know that the reason he hasn't gotten sleep (and has henceforth turned violent) in a month is because his girlfriend's lover has been calling his phone all damn night from a blocked number?

  25. I can't wait.. by Piranhaa · · Score: 1

    Until someone accidentally forwards ALL their calls to this 800 number and then the 800 number forwards the calls to their home line. Are they going to have some type of TTL? =)

  26. This CallerID Trick has worked for years. by ThinkTwicePostOnce · · Score: 1

    The only thing new here is that the service is being marketed, and the public is finding out about it.

    If you call forward your landline to a toll-free number, which itself is programmed to forward the
    calls it receives to a second number (say your cell), the callerID on the cell phone will display the number that would have been blocked if you had just taken the call at your landline.

    I do not know whether ALL toll-free companies do this, or just some of them.

    Here's how it all works.

    Toll-free numbers have been around for decades longer than callerID. And it makes perfect sense that people who pay for a long distance call (the 800 number owner) should see the caller's number.

    The mechanism used for doing this is called ANI, and it's been around since the 1960's at least.
    There is no provision for blocking the calling party's number with this mechanism. (ANI stands for automatic number identification.)

    Fast forward a few decades to the invention of something very new, Signaling System Seven (SS7).
    It provides a whole new way to provide a caller's number to the called party, and it has various blocking options included. However, anytime a caller's number is supposed to be blocked, it really isn't -- it is always sent. However, a special one-bit flag is ALSO sent that says "Please
    don't reveal this information even tho I am supplying you with it." Then if the equipment at the receiving end thinks it has a good enough reason, it strips out the "privacy requested" flag.

    Now, there is nothing that says that an SS7 switch which is handling incoming 800 calls HAS TO
    strip the privacy. The old ANI mechanism is still available, and SS7 does not have to treat 800 calls differently, but at least for some long distance companies, it does.

    I have a question: does anyone know whether this SS7 privacy stripping on toll free calls is explicitly authorized? Or did companies exploit a loophole and just implement the SS7 software that way on purpose. A technical disadvantage to the old ANI system is that the calling number is not transmitted until AFTER the phone call is answered.

    And then they're offering call recording also. When call recording is performed by a carrier, it doesn't necessarily wait for the call to be answered before it starts recording. I don't know about the Trap Call people. But there are services that will allow you to record what your caller
    is saying about you before you answer the phone, while the caller is still hearing ringing.

    Quote:

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    1. Re:This CallerID Trick has worked for years. by rec9140 · · Score: 1

      Yep, being doing this for years. This is why only I have 800/877 numbers that I give out.

      ANI trumps ICLID, and if you have the right 800/877 provider then you get the ANI as ICLID.

      You call me I get your number, *67 all you want, I am getting an ANI.

      The only way to defeat this is to cause an ANI failure which several "hacks" have been published on 2600 etc.. on how to do this to not pass your number to an 800#.

      One plus to VOIP with the various free 800# routes on Voxalot etc.. they get some number in MI or some other number not even in my area. So no problem to call 800#

      This is old news.

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    2. Re:This CallerID Trick has worked for years. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      True, if the original caller is directly calling the toll free number, then yes the rules say you are entitled to the number. However, that is NOT what is happening in this case.

      A is calling another local number B. B has set that number to forward to C, a toll free number. C, the toll free number holder is thus entitled to know what number is calling them, which is the same number that C is paying for the call from. In this case that number is B, NOT A.

      My understanding is that the FCC caller id rules allow toll free carriers to substitute ANI for caller ID on incomming toll free calls. However, the ANI in the example would be B, which would not be helpful in determining A's number.

      Providing A's number is against FCC rule 64.1601(b): "No common carrier subscribing to or
      offering any service that delivers CPN may override the privacy indicator associated with an interstate call" The exception for toll-free is for ANI, NOT CID.

      If they pass on the CID from A, they are breaking the FCC rules. The Toll free call is B-C and this ie ALL the caller is entitled to.

      I predict the FCC will close this loophole soon, just like they did with *69 service. It used to be possible to call return a call to a person even when it was blocked. The FCC put a stop to it with rule 64.1601(b). They found allowing the call return could identify abuse victims location. As an example, if it were permitted and the abuser returned the call, and found out it was answered "Ace Hospital", the abuser now knows the location of the victim.

      The rule part that allows ANI says in part "...terminating carrier must act in accordance with the privacy indicator unless the call is made to a called party that subscribes to an ANI or
      charge number based service and the call is paid for by the called party." Push comes to shove, I can bet the FCC will find "the call" in the above statement ONLY applies to the B-C leg of the call and ONLY the ANI, which in this case is always B. To vote otherwise makes the FCC appear to be against the battered women.

      Someone should file a complaint with the FCC ASAP.

  27. OT: Acronyms by TheVelvetFlamebait · · Score: 1

    AFAICT = As Far As I Can Tell
    AFAIK = As Far As I Know

    IMHO = In My Humble/Honest Opinion

    And, while I'm ahead, I might GTFO.

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  28. I like it! by BCW2 · · Score: 1

    Makes it easier to report violaters of the do not call list. Anything that causes trouble for telemaketwits is a very good thing!

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  29. Re:I don't get it ?? The scientific answer by willworkforbeer · · Score: 1

    There is a simple answer, and it doubles as a science project. (Yay, science!)

    Step 1: Use the shelter phone system to call the abuser using the SpoofCard service. Spoof the number of the abuser.
    Step 2: The abuser is using the CallerID Unblocking service, thus setting up an infinite loop and based on my understanding of cartoon physics, the abuser is sucked into a Black Hole Vortex of Justice(tm)
    Step 3: Um, profit.

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  30. Work around by stapedium · · Score: 1

    I wonder if you can get around this by just using a calling card and going through another 800 number. There are lots of times I have to return a call (work) to people that I don't want to have my cell number. I know you could just find another phone, but going through a calling card might be easier lots of times.

    As far as the domestic violence stuff...I can see it cutting both ways because this makes it easier to document who is making those harassign phone calls and put them back in jail.

  31. Much ado about nothing. by The+Cisco+Kid · · Score: 3, Interesting

    Caller ID is not and never has been a reliable way of determining the origin of a call (either the number, the person, or even the location).

    Caller ID 'blocking' is not and never has been a reliable way of hiding the origin of a phone call (either the number, the person, or the location).

    Knowing a phone number at which you can reach a particular person or organization (or from which they placed a call to you), does not necessarily tell you anything about their location.

    Prior to cell phones and the Internet, a number could certainly give you a general idea as to the state/city/county/etc where a given line was located. If it was the public number of a business or organization, you could often find that information.

    Enter cellphones - all you could tell was the general location of the address of the person that opened the cell account. Given the mobile nature of a cell, only the cell company would be able to have any idea as to the actual location of the person/phone, and only when it was turned on.

    Enter the Internet - previously, if you knew a name, and that person has a listed number, you could find it. Once that database became available electronically, it was a simple matter to sort (or search) by the number, making the reverse true. You might get just a name, you might get an address. Again, only if its 'listed'. Now there are companies that (for a fee) claim to be able to do lookups for unlisted numbers as well.

    Enter VoIP - all bets are off. You can be in NY and get a CA number. You can sign up in TX, have the service there, and you can take your ATA on a roadtrip to FL, plug it into your cousin's Internet, and when you call it will still show your TX phone number as the origin of the call (either directly or via this 800-forwarding silliness) There are even cheap services that let you make outbound calls to the PSTN, without even having an actual line or number - they either send no caller ID, or a number from one of their pools, which could be anywhere, even dozens of states away.

    Solution for 'women's shelters': The residents chip in together and get a basic prepaid cellphone. This could be done with coordination of the staff, or without. No name or address ever gets associated with the number. The residents share it to make calls to anyone to whom they do not want to reveal their location. They let the cell's callerID show up, but they turn off the ringer, or block all inbound calls so they go to voicemail. Instruct their 'abusive' husbands that they are sharing a phone and that they must leave a voicemail to reach them, which must state who they are and who they are calling. This also leaves the 'abusive' husband a means to reach his ex, but without knowing where she is.

    Solutions for 'people who want to know is calling' - lowtech: screen with an answering machine - hightech - answer if you recognize caller ID, i there is none or you don't recognize it,let it go to voicemail (It is possible for someone you want to talk to to call from a number you don't recognize, or from somewhere that provides no caller id - maybe your bank's antifraud dept is calling you to verify a transaction)

    Notwithstanding the right of an adult (including a battered spouse) to withhold their location from another adult (such as the spouse doing the battering,) both parents of a child have the right to know where the *child* is living, until and unless a court says otherwise.

    1. Re:Much ado about nothing. by GPLDAN · · Score: 1

      I would also like to point out that just because you have control over an 800 #, that doesn't mean the carrier will send you ANI for everyone who dials it. That part is a fallacy.

      The carrier will block ANI for anyone who requests it, and often just provide you 4-digit DNIS. You have to provision the TF service with the carrier to connect to the trunk-id directly, most carriers require that you map the toll-free # to a local DID. Doing it the former way is the magic that TelTech has weaved.

      It also doesn't stop against spoofed CLID. I can inject any CLID I want into my outbound calls on the PRI, and the carrier will carry that and send it to any other carrier via SS7, and there is no trust involved.

      Spoofing caller-id is actually as easy as spoofing the From field in an SMTP message. So really, it's not doing much.

  32. Simple solution for domestic violence victims by Skapare · · Score: 1

    The need for domestic violence victims is to hide where they are. They might be staying with a relative. They might be staying with a friend. They might be staying at a shelter. By using the landline phone to call their abusive partner, they reveal where they are located. The solution is to use a pre-paid cellphone. It can be blocked because it is the same number. But it doesn't reveal the location of the caller (at least not yet).

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    1. Re:Simple solution for domestic violence victims by GameMaster · · Score: 1

      Other solutions include:

      * payphones in a location away from where they are staying.

      * only contacting them through a lawyer or shelter.

      * not contacting them ever again if they are, actually, that dangerous.

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  33. Simple by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    This is old technology and will not work if the caller uses VoIP. See this explanation: http://blog.roychowdhury.org/2009/02/18/trapcall-old-wine-in-a-new-bottle-caller-id-unblocking-is-not-voodo/

  34. Better Solution.... by SCHecklerX · · Score: 1

    If it bothers you so much to get CID blocked calls, why not just reject calls that are blocking their callerid info? I know this is easily possible with vonage, and assume it is the same with pretty much any carrier. If the person really needs to get in touch with you, they'll get the message and knock off the bullshit. Otherwise, you'll never need deal with getting the call in the first place.

  35. Battered Men too by WindowlessView · · Score: 2, Insightful

    A battered wife may need to talk to a relative...

    Recognizing that most Slashdotters have not been in relationships it might be appropriate to point out that not all battering victims are female. There are plenty of violent women in this society beyond the occasional crazy female astronaut who drives cross country in diapers.

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    1. Re:Battered Men too by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      not all battering victims are female.

      I was wondering if someone was going to bring this up. That it took so long in the thread shows how simplistic these discussions can be sometimes.

    2. Re:Battered Men too by Ironica · · Score: 1

      The vast majority of battering victims are female, and the vast majority of abusers are male. That's a function of biology; to victimize someone physically, it helps tremendously if you are larger and stronger than them. I know at least one mixed-sex couple where the female member has that advantage over the male, but due to the distribution of sizes among genders, it's very, very rare.

      I'd guess that, even when battering victims are male, their abusers are usually male too... and when batterers are female, their victims are usually also female.

      So, yes, when discussing domestic violence, it's customary to assume that the victim is female and the perpetrator is male, since that's the case for the vast majority of incidents. There are also offices that run Linux on their desktop machines, but in general, it's safe to assume that an office desktop computer runs Windows, right?

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    3. Re:Battered Men too by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      "So, yes, when discussing domestic violence, it's customary to assume that the victim is female and the perpetrator is male, since that's the case for the vast majority of incidents."

      If you think that women are merely victims in these situations
      you haven't been on earth long.

      It takes two to tango. And anyone who thinks women are 100%
      innocent victims has a lot to learn about humans.

      Domestic violence IS terrible. But it is the product of the misbehavior of both parties. And until women act like adults
      ( unlikely in the U.S., because the culture treats them like
      they are children forever ) the problem will never end.

    4. Re:Battered Men too by Ironica · · Score: 1

      Please, get help.

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    5. Re:Battered Men too by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1, Informative

      Very true, I am living through this now, and it amazes me how the court system does not seem to understand that an abusive women arrested many, many times violates domestic violence injunctions etc is given fourth, fith, sixth, and seven chances. Luckily she only has supervised visitation with my son when she is out of jail. posted anonymously for good reason.

    6. Re:Battered Men too by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      You have no idea what you are talking about, do you? Stop "guessing" about this and that do some simple research before exercising your stupidity reflex.

    7. Re:Battered Men too by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Please, get informed.

    8. Re:Battered Men too by iamacat · · Score: 2, Interesting

      Replace "female" with "white", "male" with "black" and "battering" with "mugging". Do you still think you will be able to have a constructive discussion with your customary assumptions?

  36. Set your own caller ID by weave · · Score: 2, Interesting

    Gizmo5.com allows you to pay $4 a year to set your caller ID to whatever you want on outgoing calls, else it's whatever your last call-in number purchased was. I'm a US resident but my last call-in number I got from them was a UK number so every call I make has a caller ID that shows the UK country code and the rest of the numbers. People in U.S. have no clue what that mess of numbers mean and I doubt telemarketers are going to call a UK number to reach me, and if they do they are going to have to navigate my telemarketer-annoyance dialplan in Asterisk.

    OK, not for everyone but hey, this is a site for nerds, remember?!

    1. Re:Set your own caller ID by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Ironically, this same company has a product (SpoofCard) that does the same thing... allows you to change your caller id to anything you want. I'm pretty sure TrapCall can't unblock calls made with SpoofCard (or through Gizmo5).

  37. Only way to be anonymous is by using spoofcard by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Says something to that effect, and spoof card's "inexpensive" service has the following costs:

    $10.00 (60 Minutes) $20.00 (120 Minutes)
    $40.00 (240 Minutes) $80.00 (480 Minutes)

    SHIP ME A PHYSICAL CARD ($4.99)

    Methinks there may be a lawsuit in the near future if the only way to bypass this without geting a throw-away phone is to pay for their service.

  38. Anonymous Coward by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Ok, I think the question here is, what did the broad do in the first place to get beaten. Surely she must have deserved it.

    Obvious solution, if your man tells you to do something then do it. If he has to tell you a second time then you need a lesson taught to you for not listening the first time.

    Has a guy ever hit a woman for no reason at all unless he was on drugs? No. And if a guy is on drugs then the wife must have played a role in it and probably does drugs too.
     

  39. Playing both ends and profiting by macraig · · Score: 1

    This company is staffed by some pretty entrepreneurial people, obviously. They're playing both ends against each other and profiting from both. Frankly, too many telecom companies, like my own Pacific Bell/SBC/AT&T, have been profiting ENORMOUSLY as well from a feature that costs them virtually nothing to provide in a digital network... kinda like text messaging, eh?

    No one who voluntarily chooses to call me has any right to anonymity. If I have a right to "face my accuser" in court, I damned well have a right to know who's calling me. Would you choose to answer the door if the person knocking was wearing a mask or a burlap sack over his head? Why should the telephone paradigm be treated any differently than that, merely because the technology allows it?

    Caller ID *should* have been mandatory for all callers and FREE, right from the start. Had that been the case, this company wouldn't even exist to profit from our stupid choices about it.

  40. Making it all Equal by Nom+du+Keyboard · · Score: 1

    The person making the phone call always knows 2 things: 1) The number they're calling from; 2) The number they're calling to.

    Why shouldn't the person on the other end of the call be entitled to the same information? After all, the person making the call isn't required to do so if they truly don't want to - court orders not withstanding.

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    "It's the height of ridiculousness to say for those 9 lines you get hundreds of millions."
  41. You want the truth ? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Q : What do all battered women have in common ?

    A : They JUST didn't listen.

  42. Yes by dhTardis · · Score: 1

    Surely it must be possible to create a system that acts as a proxy for phonecalls? [...]

    Does this kinda thing exist already?

    My AT&T prepaid phone card works this way. Calls through it show up at the other end as one of its servers.

  43. Re:203 Sense and Antisense U.S. Air Date: October by sesshomaru · · Score: 1

    [The phone clicks. Frank puts the phone down. The gadget bleeps. Roedecker holds it out for Frank to see. The readout notes, "Anonymous Caller."]

    ROEDECKER: Well, obviously whoever called has blocked caller ID. The phone company does it for a price.

    [Frank snatches back the check out of Roedecker's hands.]

    ROEDECKER: Whoa, whoa! All you need now is a device to undo their caller block.

    [Roedecker hastily grabs a package from a nearby chair and takes off the lid. It's another gadget, the LMU-83.]

    ROEDECKER: The LMU 83 will override their override very nicely. It's a little more James Bondian but we are living in a more Blofeldian world.

    Hmm... it got modded off topic but it is clearly not off topic.... incidentally, that from 1997...

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    "MIT betrayed all of its basic principles."
  44. How can this work? The Line forwarding displays. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    I dont see how this can work anyway.

    If A - The victim calls B - the abuser, and B forwards his phone to a toll free number (C) , the ANI number displayed is B, NOT A. This is because the call that C, the toll free customer is paying for is the one from B to C, NOT the one from A.

    The Toll Free Customer (C) would see an incomming call to them from B, and all the Caller ID rule says is that the receiver of a toll free call has the right to receive the same number information in real time that appears on the bill. This is often delivered to caller-id devices, but is actually ANI, and in this case B's ANI is what would be displayed, because that is the call that C is paying for.

    It has to be this way. Just as an extreme example, what happens if A calls B from one of those expensive foreign locations? C does not get charged from that foreign location, but only for the call from B to C. Therefore under the FCC rules, only B's number should be provided, never A's. If they are providing A's number, they are clearly violating FCC blocking rules and will likely be shut down soon..

  45. Let me add one to your list... by clone53421 · · Score: 1

    AFAIC = As Far As I'm Concerned.

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    Alexander Peter Kristopeit bought his basement from his mommy for one dollar.
    1. Re:Let me add one to your list... by TheVelvetFlamebait · · Score: 1

      Now that's just confusing! ;)

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      You know, there is a difference between trolling and pointing out the flaws in your reasoning. Just saying.
  46. how? by dukeofurl01 · · Score: 1

    So far I only read about how you can use this to unblock somebody calling your cell phone, how do you implement it on somebody calling your land line with caller ID?

    How does it handle situations where the caller ID info is not transmitted by the switch? (if the call is coming from overseas or from some rural place)

    1. Re:how? by Todd+Knarr · · Score: 1

      This system isn't working with Caller ID data. It's working with the ACI data used for call accounting and billing, and that's always available to the phone system.

  47. It's ANI, not Caller ID by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Yeah, it's not actually Caller ID that's being presented here. It's ANI. They are two separate and distinct things. ANI is provided by the carrier to toll-free customers. It is much harder to "spoof" ANI than Caller ID. Also, using ANI will defeat a spoofed caller ID.

  48. make anonymous calls by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    If you need to make an anonymous call you could also use http://pranklyspeaking.com/ to change your callerid and voice. This way TrapCall can't unmask your real number

  49. The_Tim_Horton_s_Travel_Coffee_Mug_Scam by infonography · · Score: 1

    the scam is....

    there is no spoon.

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    Sorry about the writing. Robot fingers, you know? Cliff Steele in DOOM PATROL #23
  50. The Zero Group offered this first by mikeanderson112 · · Score: 1

    Spoofcard is not the first to offer private call unmasking. Tom Keating had an article on his VOIP blog back in '07 about a company called The Zero Group that was doing the same thing http://blog.tmcnet.com/blog/tom-keating/voip/private-caller-hack.asp