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Making a Child Locating System

celtic_hackr writes "Well, I never thought I'd be an advocate for placing GPS devices on people. However, since it took less than three days for my local school district to misplace my daughter, I have decided that something needs to be done. By the school district's own admission it has a recurring problem of placing children on the wrong buses. Fortunately, my daughter was located, with no thanks to the local school district. Therefore, I would like input on a way to be able to keep track of my child. I know there are personal tracking devices out there. I have nothing against these systems. But I want more than this. My specification are: 1) a small unobtrusive device I can place on my daughter, 2) an application to pull up on any computer, a map with a dot indicating the real-time position of my child, 3) a handheld device with the equivalent information, 4) [optional] a secure web application/plug-in I can install on my own domain allowing me to track her from anyplace in the world, 5) a means of turning it all off, 6) a Linux based solution of the above. I believe all the pieces for making such a system are out there. Has anyone built anything like this? Is there an open source solution? How would I go about building my own? Has anyone hacked any of these personal trackers before, to serve their own purposes? How does a tinfoil hat wearer engineer such a device to make sure Big-Brother isn't watching too? Can these devices be locked down so only certain devices can pick up the GPS location of an individual locator? What other recommendations do you have?"

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  1. Holy Crap! Calm down by FredFredrickson · · Score: 5, Insightful

    Holy crap- you are, what we in the biz call, an over-reacting parent. Calm down and take it easy before you destroy your daughter's life.

    That being said- verizon has an application for cell phones that lets you track your children- it's on get it now. I'm sure other carriers have something similar.

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    1. Re:Holy Crap! Calm down by tekiegreg · · Score: 5, Insightful

      Duh-boy, cue debates on how much surveillance for your child is really necessary.

      I'd say just let him be a parent and decide what's necessary. He knows his daughter better than we all do.

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    2. Re:Holy Crap! Calm down by Etrias · · Score: 4, Funny

      Won't somebody think of the children!

      Y'know, I got lost all the time as a kid. I threatened to run away and I think my parents reaction was "go ahead". It's almost as if they didn't want me around.

      ....uhmmm.

      Hang on, I have a phone call to make.

    3. Re:Holy Crap! Calm down by ammit · · Score: 2, Informative

      You only have to read about the Mcanns case to realise this definitely is not over-reacting.

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    4. Re:Holy Crap! Calm down by TinBromide · · Score: 2, Insightful

      Here's the idea: A pay as you go phone. Pay for a small amount of minutes that you put in her backpack and keep the phone off. Make sure it is off and nobody knows about it (Don't want it stolen or confiscated). Then, when she gets "misplaced", she can call you or somebody she knows.

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    5. Re:Holy Crap! Calm down by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 5, Insightful

      you're assuming the guy in the article is honestly trying to track his daughter. one of the clients i work for is a bettered womens advocacy group and shelter. they have horror stories all the time of guys who do the same thing to their wives, ex wives girlfriends etc. its easy enough to rig a cellphone thats GPS enabled to create a tracking device and discreet survailence tool. if you ask me, the whole thing is shady. perhaps its my paranoia light flashing because of my client, i can understand your concern, but 10s of thousands, nay 10s of millions of kids make it thought the school system every year without their parents needing to freak out like that.

    6. Re:Holy Crap! Calm down by blueZ3 · · Score: 5, Insightful

      This isn't mean to be a flame, because as a fellow parent (of toddlers, no less) I understand that it can be an extremely stressful and fear-inducing thing to lose track of your child. But I agree with the parent: get some perspective on things by waiting for a bit before subjecting your daughter to Big-Brother-like monitoring.

      Not only do I think you are overreacting, you are sending the wrong message to your school-age daughter. She doesn't need 24-7 tracking, she needs lessons in dealing with unexpected situations. Instead of jumping directly to an electronic device, teach her what to do if she gets lost... the same strategy that's been used successfully by parents for many, many years: find a "safe" adult (police officer, female adult with kids) and tell them that she's lost. If she's old enough to attend school, she's old enough to learn her phone number and address.

      Besides, if she's anything like most kids, anything you "attach" to her (short of a steel shackle) she is going to remove and leave behind or lose. :-)

      Again, I understand your reaction (on one level) but I think you're overreacting.

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    7. Re:Holy Crap! Calm down by harryandthehenderson · · Score: 4, Informative

      Except in the McCann's case the parents willfully left their children all alone in an unlocked apartment room so they could go out with their friends. Their child was kidnapped out of their own bad parenting and selfishness. That's hardly an analogous situation to the one described in the summary.

    8. Re:Holy Crap! Calm down by Etrias · · Score: 4, Insightful

      Because we should all live our lives in fear and worry, right?

      I'm not trying to make light of that situation, but I picked up the phrase "fear fuels the economy" from somewhere and if you look around, it does. Watch the news? How many times are they telling you about something dangerous or about how so-and-so is horrible and bad for you. For every fear, there's a market to be sold to. Yes, bad things happen, but in terms of history, we are living in one of the most safest times ever.

    9. Re:Holy Crap! Calm down by westlake · · Score: 4, Insightful

      He knows his daughter better than we all do.

      He also knows his school district better than we do. These decisions are never made in a vacuum.

      I would question pursuing the Linux or Open Source solution if others do the job better. It's the safety of your kid that matters here - not your own political correctness.

    10. Re:Holy Crap! Calm down by raju1kabir · · Score: 5, Insightful

      Yes, because if one bad thing happens to one of seven billion people anywhere in the world, then it makes perfect sense to focus all your energies on making sure it doesn't happen to you.

      More and more proof that the human brain just wasn't meant to comprehend societies as large as ours. The in-built statistical heuristics break down completely and start recommending the most irrational things.

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    11. Re:Holy Crap! Calm down by raju1kabir · · Score: 3, Insightful

      As a parent who's already posted in this thread, I can only say "+1000, insightful".

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    12. Re:Holy Crap! Calm down by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 5, Funny

      Your signature made a really poor combination with your last sentence...

    13. Re:Holy Crap! Calm down by hattig · · Score: 2, Informative

      I'm sure that a child abductor would quite happily and quickly relocate the transponder from the child onto some innocent third party's vehicle to create an hour or two of confusion and chasing the wrong target instead of using intelligence.

      In the case of the submitter, I would suggest that the child will quickly learn which bus is the correct one to use - give it a week or so. Hell when I was a child I had to walk to and from school myself (not that there were any major roads, or major distances involved) and I bet many others here did too.

      The McCanns left their children home alone whilst on holiday in an unfamiliar country. Their story is a lesson to all those who would do the same. The loss of their daughter is punishment enough, for they surely must feel guilty every day that their child is gone because of their lax parenting, but if she had been found I would hope that they would have been punished. Of course the chances of abduction happening are so small in the first place, however the media would have us believing that "child predators" exist on every corner. The risks from home-alone are usually down to child-inflicted injuries like playing with matches, etc.

    14. Re:Holy Crap! Calm down by LWATCDR · · Score: 5, Insightful

      I think that you and many other people are missing the real problem. Elementary school children can be as young as four at the start of kindergarten. Elementary schools are just too big these days!.
      One elementary school in my town has several thousand students. That is just insane.
      Schools should start small and grow in size. The elementary school should be in your neighborhood. The idea of shipping kindergarten kids like UPS packages to child warehouses is the problem.
      Of course to build more but smaller schools costs money.....

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    15. Re:Holy Crap! Calm down by Brandee07 · · Score: 4, Informative

      Get her a Firefly or similar device. You can add it to your phone plan or get it prepaid.

      Even very young children can use these. Several of the first graders I used to work with had them, and were perfectly comfortable using them.

      http://www.fireflymobile.com/

    16. Re:Holy Crap! Calm down by MrLogic17 · · Score: 2, Funny

      Go low tech, with some thing the kid can't lose.

      Use a sharpie marker on the kid's tummy, arm, whatever - "My name is [x]. My daddy's phone number is 555-1212"

    17. Re:Holy Crap! Calm down by iamhassi · · Score: 4, Interesting

      " I would like input on a way to be able to keep track of my child."

      no one uses google now days....

      First, your child doesn't need GPS, she needs a cellphone. Why? Because even if you had this magical GPS tracking/locating system you want, there would still be some kind of data communication needed between the child and the laptop. That requires data usage or cellphone usage, so either way you're paying a monthly fee.

      Google child cellphone and the very first result is Best cell phone for kids. In it, it says:
      "Migo is made to use Verizon's optional Chaperon service that lets parents track the phone in real time on their handset or PC. For an additional charge, parents can set up boundaries for where the child can go. If the phone leaves the designated area, a text message alert will be sent to the parent's phone. (Only certain adult handsets are capable of using this service.)"

      So you have the GPS tracking you wanted, plus your child has a cellphone so you can reach them if they're indoors and GPS isn't working so hot, AND you have the added feature you didn't even know you wanted: a text message the instant your child leaves a designated area. Not only that but it all works through your cellphone, so anytime you can't find your kid forget about going "Gee, I forgot to bring the GPS locator handheld with me". It's already setup on your cellphone.

      Oh and sure, all this will cost you a few bucks, but I'm sure it won't cost more than a custom handheld locater and a small unobtrusive device to attach to your daughter and and creating a secure website on your own.

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    18. Re:Holy Crap! Calm down by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 3, Interesting

      When my son was 5 years old, on his first day at school, they forced him to get off the bus at the wrong house 2 miles away. Thank God the parent who was there was a friend of the family. He was traumatized--our friend told us the Bus Driver physically carried him crying and screaming and just sat him on the ground. As soon as he saw Rachel (the mother who often was our baby sitter) he calmed down. She told the bus driver this was not his house, and he replied that this was the address he had for our son and was where he was picked up that morning. That last part was a bold-faced lie because I had put him on the bus myself that morning in front of my house. Rachel's name and address were listed as an emergency contact in the event that neither my wife nor I were home if they needed to call us. I do know that we were the last stop on this drivers route, and this would have enabled him to quit a whole 20 minutes sooner, because he could go straight home after dropping him off.

      Needless to say, after that incident (and after getting nowhere with the school administration or the school board) I took him to school, and my wife picked him up.

      I trust school districts about as far as I could shotput a Boeing 777. A tracking device might be a good idea.

    19. Re:Holy Crap! Calm down by Talderas · · Score: 2, Interesting

      This may sound crazy, but I'm not understanding how a school can place a child on the wrong bus.

      Do schools commonly mix up bus numbers and drivers so that students have different buses/drivers every day? Am I not mistaken, but isn't that the very reason why they have bus routes? You get the same bus with the same driver. Every day. A bus is broken down one day? Well the kid still has the same bus driver. The driver is sick that day and needs a substitute? Well you have the same bus number.

      The only situation where a kid could be confused is when you have the normal bus broken down AND it's a substitute driver, but those are rare events and the school should be able to communicate the bus changes over the PA.

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    20. Re:Holy Crap! Calm down by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 2, Funny

      My daddy's phone number is 555-1212

      OMG!!! That's my daddy's phone number too!!!

    21. Re:Holy Crap! Calm down by celtic_hackr · · Score: 2, Informative

      Well, for perspective, the local district has had this occur for at least every year for the past five years or more. Further we're talking about a class size of about 200 kindergertners. That's all they have to deal with in the summer at the elementary, except for a few older kids. They lost track of roughly a dozen kids on Friday or about 5% of the class. I'm only discovering this incompetence due to the fact this is the first child I've had at this school.

      While I have and continue to instruct my on daughter how to deal with such situations, she is after all only five. You cannot expect a five year old to deal with much on an independent basis.

      As far as removing, stuff , I put on her, that's unlikely if I tell her she needs to wear it all day. She may break or lose such a thing, but she is mostly obedient to her parents. Besides. if it's jewelry, she'll wear it.

      I may be overreacting, but in the matter of a child's life it's far better to overreact than under react.

      Besides, this has geek factor written all over it.

    22. Re:Holy Crap! Calm down by JWSmythe · · Score: 5, Insightful

          When I was in kindergarden, they went with the low-tech system. Every kid had a name tag that they had to wear all day. It had their name, grade, teacher, and bus number. Teachers aids were by the buses and would verify the bus number on the tag matched the bus. If they kid got on the wrong bus, they were turned away and walked to the right one.

          How much does it cost for a 3x5 index card and a safety pin? A whole lot less than an electronic tracking system, and recurring cell bills for your kid.

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    23. Re:Holy Crap! Calm down by b0bby · · Score: 2, Insightful

      That's great for trips to Disneyworld etc (though I don't put their name), not what you'd want to do everyday for school. I'm assuming the child is a kindergartner; I'd be hesitant to geo-tag her unless the wrong bus thing happens again. A simple name tag on her lunchbox/backpack might be enough; the driver could then call you.

    24. Re:Holy Crap! Calm down by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 4, Informative

      Recently in Austin, Texas, a man in a white van stopped abruptly on the side of a busy street 500 ft from where a school was letting out. He attempted to grab a 10 year old boy and throw him in the van. Luckily, the boy escaped and was able to run another 200 feet to a group of other children accompanied by an adult who called the cops. This was in broad daylight with other adults present (and no one managed to get a license plate number). If this man had gotten a better grip on the boy's back pack, he would have successfully kidnapped that boy. What police officer or safe adult can the child contact now? This is the worst case scenario and it happens more than people without children realize.

      The bus mix up was a simple miscommunication and an opportunity to learn, but that doesn't mean that worse can't happen. On the flip side, as a parent, you really don't want to completely shatter your child's innocence and put them in a constant state of fear. In my mind, an unobtrusive tracking device for young children who live in a large, impersonal urban environment isn't overreacting, it's responsible parenting. "Extremely stressful and fear-inducing" is an understatement when it comes to losing your child.

      http://www.brickhousesecurity.com/child-locator.html
      http://www.zoombak.com/products/universal/
      http://www.amberalertgps.com/

    25. Re:Holy Crap! Calm down by Gori · · Score: 2, Insightful

      Thats interesting. I dont think that human heuristics beak down. We simply have not learaned to live in a world of so much information and technology yet. And the funny thing is, no mater how hard we try, we never will be, so, we keep on trying...

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    26. Re:Holy Crap! Calm down by icebike · · Score: 2, Informative

      24 hour rule does not apply to first graders.

      You watch too much TV.

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    27. Re:Holy Crap! Calm down by vlm · · Score: 5, Insightful

      When I was a kid, we had an even simpler and even lower technology plan, which was, never go anywhere without "Matt" and "Dawn".

      If your bus stop has only one kid whom uses it, then move out of the retirement village.

      Another ultra low tech strategy that worked well at various times in my youth, and currently works well for me as a parent, is "buy a house two blocks from school". It is of course uphill both ways in the snow, but, at least its a short walk.

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    28. Re:Holy Crap! Calm down by rpresser · · Score: 3, Insightful

      Not paranoid enough. Your index card system relies on teachers, teachers aides, drivers -- the original poster wants to rely on nothing but technology.

    29. Re:Holy Crap! Calm down by Critical+Facilities · · Score: 4, Insightful

      I have to second this comment. Also, to the posters who are bashing this person, and asking him/her to take the issue up with his/her school system, I think you're all overestimating the ability of many school employees as well as the efficiency with which requests get accommodated in many school systems. In my area, the public schools are completely overrun, mismanaged, and underfunded....badly. Now, I'm not advocating that the person asking for suggestions should try to exert some influence over the school system, but to act as though "fixing" the school's "problems" is easy doesn't really help.

      Besides, is it really that crazy of an idea for the kid to carry a cell phone (with or without GPS)? Nowhere in the post does it say how old the child is. I think some of the people jumping on this "overprotective parent" bandwagon are thinking this kid is some 12-13 year old kid. They might change their tune if (as the parent post points out) it's a 4 yr old girl/boy.

    30. Re:Holy Crap! Calm down by danlor · · Score: 2, Interesting

      As a parent with a mentally disabled child, I do not agree.

      Our children live in a world still devoid of danger and threat. They expect us, their elders to protect them from harm. That falls to the caretakers as well as us parents. Since we parents have little choice as far as where our children are housed everyday, we have to make other choices and decisions.

      I do not see this as an over reaction. I see it as well thought out, and keeping the idea of the child's privacy in mind. The solutions that are out there and available to us today are poor worst, expensive at best. Considering whats available off the shelf, this should be doable on your own.

      Does anyone here have any valuable advice other than satire and sensationalism? I could use it myself. I'm just as lost as the poster, and in desperate need.

    31. Re:Holy Crap! Calm down by hansamurai · · Score: 2, Informative

      Where I grew up, the only Elementary school that had buses were the two "country" schools that covered the less densely populated areas on the outskirts of town. I walked to school every day, it was only a few blocks away, and I imagine if your kid went to one of the "city" schools, they all could have walked too. Of course this was in a town of 15,000, but I totally agree with you, city size should not matter. Elementary schools should be the ultimate local school.

    32. Re:Holy Crap! Calm down by raju1kabir · · Score: 5, Insightful

      As a parent with a mentally disabled child, I do not agree.

      As a parent with a mentally disabled child, you are talking about a situation that is more challenging and complex than the situation the rest of us are discussing. Apples and oranges.

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    33. Re:Holy Crap! Calm down by DrLang21 · · Score: 2, Insightful

      I can see the fnords. Seriously, there's a lot of FUD going around out there. If you want to be able to track of your young child with GPS, that's fine. But don't let it substitute for your kid being responsible for giving you a call later on to let you know what they're up to when they aren't following the usual plan. Remember, unless you're implanting the tracking device, it's not very reliable. So don't let GPS be a cure to some over zealous concern.

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    34. Re:Holy Crap! Calm down by Captain+Hook · · Score: 2, Funny

      one of the clients i work for is a bettered womens advocacy group and shelter

      The cheek of it, women trying to better themselves and then getting shelter as well.

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    35. Re:Holy Crap! Calm down by dawich · · Score: 2, Informative

      A student I know has an autism spectrum disorder, and is known for running away. He has a white wristwatch that can't be removed without tools, or a big cutter, that does provide GPS data. I don't know what the backend looks like, webpage, cellphone, etc., but his parents and caregivers are much relieved. So, something exists.

    36. Re:Holy Crap! Calm down by DrLang21 · · Score: 3, Insightful

      I think we just have not learned to comprehend statistics. Every high school education should take a fair chunk of time to dive into statistics, enough to understand a few key points. Statistical methods that use too many subjective parameters are bunk, and so are their results. The impact of false positives on accuracy. Correlation and causal relationships. Just to name a few.

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    37. Re:Holy Crap! Calm down by _Swank · · Score: 5, Insightful

      Only one of the two solves the original problem; the technology-based tracking system is useless in ensuring the kid gets on the right bus, while the index card system should generally work.

    38. Re:Holy Crap! Calm down by CorporateSuit · · Score: 2, Interesting

      But I agree with the parent: get some perspective on things by waiting for a bit before subjecting your daughter to Big-Brother-like monitoring.

      That's ridiculous. If you're not Big-Brother-like monitoring your kid, you're not a parent. Kids below middle-school age have no privacy. There is no reason for a 8 year old to be anywhere but where their parent thinks they should be. This thing may be an issue for kids over the age of 12, but when they're still developmental grubs, advocating their rights to privacy is ignorance and dangerous for the child's development. The one who has lost perspective is the one who thinks that children are fully-cogent, underaged adults.

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    39. Re:Holy Crap! Calm down by rahlquist · · Score: 2, Funny

      Here I fixed this for you.....

      Not paranoid enough. Your index card system relies on teachers, teachers aides, drivers and their ability to read -- the original poster wants to rely on nothing but technology.

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    40. Re:Holy Crap! Calm down by sabs · · Score: 2, Informative

      Except when it comes to missing children.

      With missing children, you have to find them in the first 4 hours or so, or the chances of finding them alive plummets.

      This is why the invented brown alerts.
      When it comes to missing children, APB now, wonder why later.

    41. Re:Holy Crap! Calm down by DrLang21 · · Score: 2, Insightful

      My guess is that she's 5 or 6, since the poster mentions that it only took 2 days for the school to lose his kid. By age 10, it's fair to demand that your child phone home or leave a note. It's also only fair to expect that they'll forget. Kids don't often learn responsibility if there isn't a combination of a carrot and a stick (I'm not suggesting beating your child with a stick mind you).

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    42. Re:Holy Crap! Calm down by raju1kabir · · Score: 2, Insightful

      I rest my case.

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    43. Re:Holy Crap! Calm down by Cedric+Tsui · · Score: 4, Insightful

      Agreed. Here's an idea.

      Next time you go to the mall with the family, teach your daughter to talk to strangers.
      What? No way! Strangers are BAD. BAD EVIL people who want to randomly inject her with drugs so she'll become an addict and a regular client.

      Next time you go to the mall with the family, teach your daughter to talk to the right strangers. Mall clerks at security booths. Other parents. Security guards. Bus drivers. If you can teach your daughter to become street smart, she will be able to take care of herself when you're not around. She'll be safe even if you are unable to access your handheld, or the internet is down, or the power goes out...

    44. Re:Holy Crap! Calm down by RKThoadan · · Score: 2, Interesting

      If you are going to track it then you are correct in that it does need to send a signal, it's just that the signal doesn't go back via the GPS satellite. It does need to go out somehow though. In most cases it's probably going to be a cell phone operating on the cell network. Keep in mind many of the cell trackers aren't going to be using GPS, they are going to be tracking it based on cell towers, which I don't think is as accurate as GPS and is useless in the unlikely event that you get completely out of range. I'm sure there are other options out there as well.

    45. Re:Holy Crap! Calm down by eln · · Score: 4, Funny

      The Linux/Open Source requirement is to get the Slashdot editors to post the story.

    46. Re:Holy Crap! Calm down by cayenne8 · · Score: 4, Insightful
      "But don't let it substitute for your kid being responsible for giving you a call later on to let you know what they're up to when they aren't following the usual plan."

      Hear hear!!

      Goodness...how did we EVER survive as a species before cell phones and GPS trackers??!?!

      When I was a kid, I roamed all over the neighborhood, and ones near us. When really young, I had to call home on a neighbor's phone every couple hours or so to check in. If both parents were working, I called Mom at work.

      Geez..with all these new 'needs' for tracking kids, and apparent law changes or whatever, I imagine my parents and most of my peers parents would be sued by the state these days for child negligence for how we were raised.

      And let's not forget we as kids weren't drugged by our parents like they are today. Amazing we learned in school and survived at all, truly.

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    47. Re:Holy Crap! Calm down by rpresser · · Score: 2, Funny

      If you're going to redefine "the original problem" at will, then you can make any claim and sit back with a self-satisfied air.

      "What the original poster really needs is a way of getting rid of this troublesome child before his life is ruined. Just ring: three-six-two-four-three-six, hey.

    48. Re:Holy Crap! Calm down by Shadow+of+Eternity · · Score: 3, Insightful

      Bullshit. I knew my address AND my phone number from kindergarten, it's no harder than memorizing your own birthday.

      Teaching the (normal non-disabled) kid how to deal with REALITY is protecting them. Failing to teach them to memorize their phone number and address and how to deal with getting lost and just slapping a GPS on them is failing as a parent.

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    49. Re:Holy Crap! Calm down by psychodelicacy · · Score: 5, Insightful

      It's morally different, perhaps, but not in effect. The school accidentally places the child on the wrong bus; the child ends up who-knows-where without a parent at the other end to collect him/her. The child ends up unattended even though that was never the intention.

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    50. Re:Holy Crap! Calm down by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 2, Funny

      (I'm not suggesting beating your child with a stick mind you).

      So, it's OK to pelt them with carrots?

    51. Re:Holy Crap! Calm down by Chelloveck · · Score: 2, Informative

      This isn't mean to be a flame, because as a fellow parent (of toddlers, no less) I understand that it can be an extremely stressful and fear-inducing thing to lose track of your child. But I agree with the parent: get some perspective on things by waiting for a bit before subjecting your daughter to Big-Brother-like monitoring.

      As another parent, I agree with the above. In fact, I've been in a similar situation. When one of my boys was in kindergarten or first grade, he got on the right bus but didn't get off at his stop. He ended up riding the whole route and back to the bus depot. After a few semi-panicky calls around the school district we tracked him down and retrieved him.

      But this isn't a new problem. It's been around as long a school buses have been. The good news is that kids, even kindergartners, learn within a week or so which is the right bus, and where the right stop is. It's a transient issue.

      Teach your child what to do when lost. Stick a note with your phone number in her jacket or backpack or whatever she carries daily. Teach her to ask for help when she needs it. This will help her in practically every "lost child" situation, short of deliberate abduction.

      If you're really worried then yeah, you can get trackers. Cell phone providers usually offer this service, and there are some companies providing non-phone tracking devices. Even if you're a "tin-foil-hat wearing engineer" I'd say one of the services is the way to go. Get it, use it for a couple years until your daughter is old enough to trust on her own, and get rid of it.

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    52. Re:Holy Crap! Calm down by YourExperiment · · Score: 4, Funny

      Get her a Firefly or similar device.

      I know he's concerned about his daughter, but getting an entire starship to transport her to and from school just seems like overkill.

    53. Re:Holy Crap! Calm down by ArsonSmith · · Score: 2, Interesting

      I hate to get a closed source one then find out that it was hacked by a child slave harvesting organization where they just sweep around and pick up all the tracked kids.

      Like GIJoe says, knowing is half the battle.

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    54. Re:Holy Crap! Calm down by ArsonSmith · · Score: 4, Insightful

      Goodness...how did we EVER survive as a species before cell phones and GPS trackers??!?!

      Much higher birth rates.

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    55. Re:Holy Crap! Calm down by Locke2005 · · Score: 5, Funny

      What's wrong with that? My parents used to leave me in the car parked outside the bar while they went out for a night of drinking, and other than wasting all my time on slashdot, I turned out pretty much ok! Other tricks they pulled: put the kids in Coach while they flew First Class, and on trips left the kids in a motel room while they went out for the evening, then yelled at the kids because they told the motel clerk they didn't know where their parents were. But guess what... kids are pretty good at taking care of themselves.

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    56. Re:Holy Crap! Calm down by dzfoo · · Score: 5, Funny

      >> Goodness...how did we EVER survive as a species before cell phones and GPS trackers??!?!

      It was a different time; kidnappers and paedophiles were not invented until the 1990s, along with terrorists and weapons of mass destruction. It's the interwebs I tells ya.

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    57. Re:Holy Crap! Calm down by _Swank · · Score: 2, Funny

      marco polo?

    58. Re:Holy Crap! Calm down by lgw · · Score: 4, Insightful

      Child predators are almost a myth, and certainly not a meaninful risk. Children are abducted by relatives, especially the losers in custody battles. Being abducted by a stranger is about as likely as being struck by lighting (unless you live in Florida, then lightning is the bigger risk).

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    59. Re:Holy Crap! Calm down by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 3, Interesting

      As a former verizon wireless sales rep I can easily attest to this fact. When vzw released their first 'Chaperone' phone, the Migo, most of the creeps weren't even trying to pretend they were for children.

      You could fit a standard LG extended battery in the Migo, but you wouldn't be able to fit the case back on. I actually had someone tell me that they didn't care, they'd just duct tape it to stay and place and throw it in the back of his wife's truck.

      I started refusing to sell the Migos we had unless they would bring in the child so I could teach them how to use the phone.

    60. Re:Holy Crap! Calm down by ChefInnocent · · Score: 4, Insightful

      I know when I was in kindergarten (back in the 70's), I was daydreaming when my bus stop came up. When the bus driver said we were at the last stop, I explained I had missed my stop. Fortunately, he had to drive past most of the bus stops on the way back to the school yard. When my bus stop came up, I pointed out which one it was, and was let off.

      I'm curious why his daughter wouldn't have known she was on the wrong bus, and simply been driven back to the school where an administrator could call her parents. Once she knew she was "lost", she should have explained to the bus driver, who could then call into the school. The school should then call the parent(s) to let them know when they can pick her up from the campus.

      I'm not seeing why this should be a big deal unless both his daughter and the administrators needs special assistance.

    61. Re:Holy Crap! Calm down by Locke2005 · · Score: 2, Informative

      I was kidding. Bus safety is one of the few things the Beaverton School District is really good at. The only problem I've had is with the kid's mother not being there to pick her up from the kindergarten bus. I called the school, the very competent school secretary got on the radio with the bus driver within about 30 seconds, and I was told I could pick up my child back at the school in 15 minutes.

      The school staff actually do an admirable job of putting kids on the right bus, all things considered. Most of the problems are caused by drivers that simply don't give a shit, like the driver that left a kid sleeping in the back of the bus when he locked it up in the bus yard at night (regulations dictate they should sweep the bus first). Of course, if you were getting paid $10 and hour for a 20 hour week, you probably wouldn't give a shit either.

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    62. Re:Holy Crap! Calm down by Mr.+Freeman · · Score: 2, Interesting

      Screaming at them makes them care. Schools couldn't give less of a shit about the kids they're in charge of. Their only objective is to do enough to get rid of annoying parents. Thus, if you're an annoying parent, they'll help you to make you go away.

      Of course, if you start screaming about suing the school for losing your child, they'll jump to it. The only thing they're more afraid of than parents is lawyers.

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    63. Re:Holy Crap! Calm down by HiThere · · Score: 2, Insightful

      You are absurd!

      Kids, as well as teens and adults, NEED privacy. They also need to be protected, but that doesn't obviate the need for privacy.

      The problem is how to respect their need for privacy while sufficiently protecting them in an environment that's unconscionably dangerous. The best solution would be to make the environment safer, but that's a bit difficult for one individual to do. Work toward, yes, but be reasonable about what you expect.

      So you need to take reasonable measures to protect your children while still respecting their privacy. For someone under 12 a locator seems a quite reasonable method. It's not perfect, and won't defend against malice, but it's reasonable. Something like a remotely readable GPS system that's accessible by phone. I suspect that such things are available, but I'm not certain. WiFi trackers are used for tracking animals, and some are pretty small, but many locations are without live WiFi networks accessible to random passers-by. So a cell phone connection seems the right answer. This probably means that there isn't an open source solution, since the number of open source cell phones is miniscule. But it also means that there is probably a extant solution...if you look in the right place.

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    64. Re:Holy Crap! Calm down by Kurt+Granroth · · Score: 2, Interesting

      I gave my daughter a Firefly when she was in first grade for all of the reasons every has mentioned. They are incredibly easy to use. However, there is still one fatal flaw -- they have to be turned on.

      You may not think that's a problem but it was for my daughter. See, the school absolutely insists that all cell phones are turned off during the day. I'm not talking about "mute" or "vibrate" or anything. Off. And yes, they would actually do random checks to verify. I tried to tell them that you can restrict who calls the Firefly so it won't be randomly ringing during the day but it was no good. In the end, it was up to my daughter to remember to turn it on. She almost never did.

      This was a continuing problem until she hit her tweens. As soon as her friends had cell phones too and she discovered texting, then the problem solved itself. I got her a prepaid phone for texting along with a 200 message plan and she was off to the races. That phone was on the second the school bell rang.

      Of course, that just opened up another problem. Did you know that a tween girl can go through 200 texts the very first hour of the very first day that the package is activated? Ah well.

    65. Re:Holy Crap! Calm down by Knara · · Score: 2, Insightful

      Mod parent up. While not "almost a myth", it's so statistically unlikely that a stranger is going to randomly abduct a child vs. them being abducted by someone they know, that "stranger danger" as a meme does little more than fuel tv ratings, product advertisements, and supply South Park episodes with plots.

    66. Re:Holy Crap! Calm down by shmlco · · Score: 5, Insightful

      A child is about a 1,000 times more likely to be killed by drowning in a neighbor's pool than abducted by a total stranger. 10,000 times more likely to be seriously injured or even killed playing school sports. And 100 times more likely to be struck by lightning.

      Parents need to stop watching CSI and Criminal Minds and Law & Order.

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    67. Re:Holy Crap! Calm down by jeff419 · · Score: 2, Funny

      Can we get an IP check on this, I bet it came from Redmond.

    68. Re:Holy Crap! Calm down by linux_geek_germany · · Score: 2, Funny

      Dear Bot, you just failed the Turing test...

    69. Re:Holy Crap! Calm down by scot4875 · · Score: 3, Insightful

      Sure, yelling might be "appropriate," but it's very unlikely to actually help the situation at all.

      However you justify it, yelling at some random school employee that answers the phone is about as useful as yelling at the guy busing tables because your food is cold. Sure, he'll probably do something to try to help (talk to the waitress/manager/whatever), but you're still a douche.

      And yes, before you ask, if your kid is missing and you latch on to the first person you find and start yelling at them, you're a douche. If your kid is missing, yes, emotions are going to be running high, but that seems like the most important time imaginable to remain level-headed and rational to try to locate and get them back safely as quickly as possible, no?

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    70. Re:Holy Crap! Calm down by rduke15 · · Score: 2, Insightful

      This story seems to imply that the "man in a white van" was some pedophile or serial killer or whatever.

      But there is a 99% or more chance that in fact he was the kid's father, or uncle or something, and that this incident was related to some family drama about child custody or the like.

    71. Re:Holy Crap! Calm down by Hognoxious · · Score: 2, Interesting

      The driver probably isn't covered by insurance if he's driving her in the wrong direction. It isn't the first time I've heard such reasons.

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    72. Re:Holy Crap! Calm down by LordKronos · · Score: 2, Funny

      Well, being that the term "infant" is defined as up to the age of 1, I don't think GPS tracking would have a whole lot of effect on infant mortality statistics, no matter whether you live in Africa or Hicksville.

    73. Re:Holy Crap! Calm down by JWSmythe · · Score: 2, Interesting

      And exactly where do you think this would be happening? At the school as the kid gets on with the bus drivers and teachers watching, or at the bus stop with parents, kids, and the bus driver as eye witnesses? What kid would believe that, a few blocks from home? If you ever become a parent, I'd hope you teach your children much better than that.

      The closest I've EVER seen to that is the most likely kidnapping situation.

      I was a friend of the family, and I saw the kid walking away from the bus as it was starting to rain, so I pulled up, beeped my horn, and told him to get in. He didn't know if I was really suppose to pick him up. Really, I hadn't been asked, but I was in the right place at the right time. And I really took him home so he wouldn't be soaked by the time he got there.

      According to the FBI, statistically about 76% of child kidnappings involve family or acquaintances. The remaining 24% are the most likely to involve a firearm. "Get in the car or I'll shoot you, and then kill your mommy too" has a lot more power than "Hey little Jimmy, how is 2nd grade going? Want a lolly pop? Lets go for a ride."

      The only real kidnapping I've been involved in was a family kidnapping. No, I was on the good side. The mother was staying with some family. She was going to bring her son to stay with his father. Mother and father both agreed on this. He was staying with the grandmother for a few minutes while we ran to the store. We got back, the son is missing. A family member at the house tells us (rather impolitely) that grandmother doesn't approve of the son going to stay with his father. The mother is furious, scared, crying. I, the good friend of both the mother and father, call the police, explain the situation, and an officer is dispatched immediately. If the little boy wasn't involved, it would have been almost funny, as the grandfather threatened to physically harm and/or kill me. I was being polite. The cop, a nice guy, probably late 20's, over 6' tall standing right beside me, and the grandfather being a frail old man. I can take a punch from a big guy if I have to, so I wasn't scared in the least. I was polite and as physically non-aggressive as could be (calm voice, hands down at my sides, not moving forward or back). All I said were things like "Sir, please do not threaten me. Sir, please do not come any closer to me. Sir, I'd appreciate if you wouldn't threaten to injure me. All we are asking for is for her son to be returned."

      The officer was kind enough to say "I could take every one of you to jail for kidnapping, and you will spend years behind bars. Or, you can return her son."

      After all was said and done, he officer said he thought the grandfather was going to swing at me. If he did, he would have been in handcuffs. He did ask if we wanted to press charges. This was the mothers call. She didn't want them in jail, but she did worse. They were to never see her or her son again. With that, we drove away.

      We don't know exactly what was said to the son for the few hours that he was taken, but he was terrified of both his mother and father. Luckily, I'd been friends with them for a while, and he did trust me still (they forgot to instill fear of me into him.), so I was able to calm him down, and let him know that whatever he was told was wrong, and his parents really do love him.

      Non-custodial kidnappings happen more than you'd like to think. Not every one ends up as an arrest, so all the police would have is a record of a call to a domestic dispute with no arrests made and no charges filed. This doesn't end up in the statistics.

      My ex-wife did something very similar. She had the kids in the car, and was threatening to leave so I'd never see them again. A friend of mine coincidentally came over. He parked behind her car, and then sat on the front bumper of my car. She could

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    74. Re:Holy Crap! Calm down by alanshot · · Score: 2, Informative

      if you check the statistics, child abductions* have actually DROPPPED since 1950.

      The difference is the instant-on, worldwide news networks. It used to be some kid got abducted once every month (WAG=Wild Ass Guess, only an example) and nobody outside the city knew about it; Therefore according to the rest of the country, nothing ever happened. Now a kid gets abducted every 3 months (another WAG), and suddenly since it hits the WWW and international headline news media, OMG!!!!! we are worse off than we were in 1950!!!! OMFG!!! BEWAAAAAREEE OF THE FREAKS!!!!!STRANGER DANGER!!! STRANGER DANGER!!!

      So are we really worse off than 1950, or are we just more acutely aware of what is going on around the world? Based on the statistics, I think its the latter.

      I look forward to cautiously allowing my kids (toddlers now) to have the same freedoms I did as a kid. Letting them run wild in the 'hood for hours, and only check in once in a while, etc.

      Granted, I am not in the same rural environment as my childhood, but I am not about to chain my kids to the house simply because we arent surrounded by cornfields.

      Get a life helicopter parents!

      *assuming strangers abducting kids, excluding relatives, etc that run off with them due to custody disputes, ec.

    75. Re:Holy Crap! Calm down by SpooForBrains · · Score: 3, Insightful

      > They might change their tune if (as the parent post points out) it's a 4 yr old girl/boy.

      My four year old boy got separated from us in the local supermarket. Due to some strange quirk of the mind (who can fathom the mind of a four year old boy?) he decided we must have left without him, rather than, say, we were in the next aisle (which we were). So he headed out of the main doors and wandered around for a bit looking for us. When he was picked up by the local Community Support Officers, despite being in a state of some distress, he was able to tell them his parents names and where he had been when we got separated, so that they could help him find us. Which they did.

      Children, even small, wooly-headed children, are much more capable than they are often given credit for. Teaching your child how to behave in an unexpected situation and crediting them with the intelligence and capability to look after themselves is the best way to ensure they make it through life safely. It's not the only way, but its far and away the most effective.

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    76. Re:Holy Crap! Calm down by whopis · · Score: 3, Funny

      A child is about a 1,000 times more likely to be killed by drowning in a neighbor's pool than abducted by a total stranger. 10,000 times more likely to be seriously injured or even killed playing school sports. And 100 times more likely to be struck by lightning.

      Parents need to stop watching CSI and Criminal Minds and Law & Order.

      Ok, fine...

      So build the tracking device with proper flotation devices, padding, and a lightning rod with good grounding then the problem's solved.

      Not so hard to figure out.

  2. Cell phone by Spazztastic · · Score: 4, Insightful

    Buy your daughter a cellphone and have her use Google Latitude? Set up speed dial to call you, your wife, etc.? Just kicking ideas around...

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    1. Re:Cell phone by vix86 · · Score: 2, Insightful

      Exactly. You don't even need Google Latitude. Just get her a small cheap phone and teach her how to use it. If she gets lost due to the school or her own demise, she can call and say where she is.

      It seems more beneficial to a child to be able to learn how to read street signs and give directions to themselves, instead of relying on technology and parents to find them.

    2. Re:Cell phone by Thornburg · · Score: 5, Funny

      Just get her a small cheap phone and teach her how to use it. If she gets lost due to the school or her own demise, she can call and say where she is.

      Wow, which carriers have coverage in Purgatory?

    3. Re:Cell phone by Minwee · · Score: 5, Funny

      If she gets lost due to the school or her own demise, she can call and say where she is.

      I don't think that word means what you think it means.

      Either that or your phone company has a much better roaming agreement than mine does.

    4. Re:Cell phone by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 2, Funny

      Just get her a small cheap phone and teach her how to use it. If she gets lost due to the school or her own demise, she can call and say where she is.

      Wow, which carriers have coverage in Purgatory?

      NSAT&T.

    5. Re:Cell phone by Xerolooper · · Score: 4, Funny

      Just get her a small cheap phone and teach her how to use it. If she gets lost due to the school or her own demise, she can call and say where she is.

      Wow, which carriers have coverage in Purgatory?

      All of them, that is where their customer service is located.

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  3. Easiest solution is to go with Lojack by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 5, Funny

    Police and insurance companies are familiar with the operation of these units. And a few brackets will easily and securely mount the unit to your daughter's undercarriage.

  4. Zoomback... by chris_martin · · Score: 4, Informative
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    1. Re:Zoomback... by digsbo · · Score: 2, Informative

      No, GPS will not work through six feet of soil. However, this is an A-GPS device, meaning it will work where standalone GPS won't (inside residential construction, thick forest cover). What the device can do to help find a child who's under 6ft of soil/in a well is pretty neat, though: It can be preprogrammed to send a location at regular intervals, either constantly or on a triggering event (like when it gets 250 yards from the school's lat/lon). So checking the location history via the secure web app, you can see where the breadcrumb trail ends. Disclosure: I worked on this product's server infrastructure some time ago, but am no longer affiliated with the organization.

  5. FWIW, searching Google for "subcutaneous GPS"... by kclittle · · Score: 3, Funny

    ... yields 36,9000 hits.

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  6. Great online service by PIPBoy3000 · · Score: 5, Funny

    This one seemed to work pretty well at finding my wife, anyway.

  7. Buy her a cellphone by shitzu · · Score: 5, Interesting

    At least in my country (Estonia) you can track any GSM cellphone's (belonging to you) location from the provider's webpage or similar.

    1. Re:Buy her a cellphone by rev_sanchez · · Score: 4, Funny

      I have another cell phone idea. Rig up the pre-paid cell phone to shoot emergency flares when the number is dialed. The wiring should be similar to the IED designs the insurgency has been using in Iraq but you'll want to substitute the bomb bit for a emergency flare. I really can't stress enough how important that last part is. Now, affix the device on some sturdy head ware. You'll probably want to base this hat on a steel wok and just add a chin strap and remove any handles. Now all you need to do is mount the device on top of the inverted wok/hat and you're all set.

      If your kid goes missing just dial the number and even if you don't see the flares I'm pretty sure someone will contact you shortly after flaming rockets erupt from your child's hat. Wrong numbers might be an issue but it's a small price to pay for safety.

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  8. Placing children on the wrong bus? by rob1980 · · Score: 5, Insightful

    When I was in middle school they gave all the kids a laminated bus pass with the bus number in big block type, and had the bus numbers spray painted on the sidewalk so everyone who had to ride the bus knew exactly where to line up. Nobody ever got on the wrong bus because nobody ever got in the wrong line. So why is this a recurring problem for your daughter's school district?

    I say make them fix the problem instead of forcing you to shell out money to cover it up for them.

    1. Re:Placing children on the wrong bus? by dedazo · · Score: 2, Funny

      Bah, when I was a kid they painted the bus number and route with magic marker on our foreheads. No one ever got on the wrong bus. Ever.

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    2. Re:Placing children on the wrong bus? by DaveV1.0 · · Score: 2, Informative

      From the time I was in grade school until I started driving, I and all my bus-riding classmates had to remember our bus number. No "bus passes", no boarding stations, etc. We would get out of class, go out to where the buses were, find the bus, and get on it.

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    3. Re:Placing children on the wrong bus? by Bonewalker · · Score: 2, Insightful

      While I would give the same advice, let's not forget that ultimately the child's safety comes down to one or two people: the parents. They will be the ones who will suffer the most if something bad happens to their child. So, the OP doesn't trust his school system to get his daughter on the right bus and wants to take extra precautions. I don't blame him for that. Some of us would react differently, but to each his own. I would probably change school districts. If that isn't an option move to a new town or city. If that isn't an option, go to every school board meeting until everyone is aware how serious you are about your child's safety, and the other children in the district. Bad things could have happened if the daughter had been dropped off in a completely foreign location and tried to find her own home, or panicked, etc. So maybe this parent isn't so over-the-top in his decision on how to protect his child.

  9. Outsource the Problem by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 5, Funny

    1. Hack an iPhone or other smart phone to act as a torrent server over 3G
    2. Fill the drive with Metallica tracks
    3. Duct tape the phone to your daughter
    4. If you need to know where she is, just ask the RIIA

    1. Re:Outsource the Problem by mooingyak · · Score: 4, Funny

      4. If you need to know where she is, just ask the RIIA

      Which, given the RIAA's investigative tactics, will yield 2 of her best friends, a teacher she had two years ago, and a random gas station attendant, but not the missing child.

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  10. Drive her by MBCook · · Score: 2, Insightful

    Why not just drive her to and from school yourself? That would provide additional time with your daughter as well.

    You wouldn't have to trust the school to not lose her on the bus system

    You don't need a subcutaneous lo-jack.

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    1. Re:Drive her by starglider29a · · Score: 5, Insightful

      True. Why use a public, already-funded, low MPG-per-rider system when EACH parent can drive their SUVs to drop the kids off? In fact, why don't you just home-school your child and save lots of resources. And if you all buy hybrids, you can save the auto industry.

      I hope I broke the needle on your sarcasm meter.

    2. Re:Drive her by that+IT+girl · · Score: 5, Insightful

      You do realize this is impossible for an increasing percentage of the population, right? Hence the existence of buses to begin with.

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    3. Re:Drive her by celtic_hackr · · Score: 2, Informative

      I haven't ruled out home-schooling yet.

  11. GPS + SMS. by 0100010001010011 · · Score: 4, Insightful

    You probably don't want it continually transmitting. Easiest way would be to it respond to a 'ping'. http://www.mightygps.com/smsgps.htm looks to fit the bill perfectly. There are probably cheaper Chinese clones.

    Get it a SIM card and you'll be able to track her anywhere there's AT&T Signal (so you're equally fucked anyway). Google Maps API kicks ass. It's not hard to write some code to take that SMS and turn it into a dot on a map.
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    However I agree with the other posters. Your kid's fine. How many kids have they PERMANENTLY lost? So the kid gets on the wrong bus. Teach your daughter English and she should be able to find out where she is at any time.

    Reminds me of the mother who caught a ton of flack for letting her young son find his own way home (he asked to) from a big store in NYC.

    The people that want to rape and molest your daughter statistically are yourself or one of your brothers(-in-law)

    1. Re:GPS + SMS. by amohat · · Score: 2, Interesting

      "The people that want to rape and molest your daughter statistically are yourself or one of your brothers(-in-law)"

      Great idea for a list. Let's rank, in order of probability, likely suspects in a given child's life.

      Police will tell you that immediate suspect #1 in a woman's murder is husband/boyfriend or ex. I guess that's based on stats, though I've never actually seen them.

      Whatever, the poster is a nutcase and is over-reacting. Get the kid a off-the-shelf cell phone device from the local cell company that offers kid-tracking GPS service. That way the kid can get a decent electronic safety net and the father can avoid the obsessive neurosis, maybe even focus a little more on quality time and less spooky surveillance psycho.

      Last, this smacks of "uh I have this friend, and he wants to know how to ..." bullshit. What does this dude really have in mind, and why do i suspect it has more to do with a ongoing custody battle than the kids safety? Why not go with a commercial product/service that hits your credit card each month? What other reason than because dude wants to be able to hide his tracks and not have this "system" show up in court records? My predator alarm is ringing pretty loud on this one. Sounds like a good list of requirements for a high-tech kidnapper/stalker. What next, dude wants web cams in his daughter's bedroom...and bathroom...just to make sure she's "safe" ???? But he wants to keep the whole system off the grid, with remote shut-off, no doubt!!!!

      What a good parent ought to do in this situation is become more physically involved in their kids life. Be at the school enough to know the drivers and teachers and the kids friends and their parents. Not just the asshole who freaks out when he experiences "bad customer service" at the school and is never heard from again. The schools will be as good as we make them, showing up only when you don't like something is hardly a positive contribution. That's just being selfish.

  12. Simple Solution by Dr.+Evil · · Score: 5, Insightful

    Teach them their phone number and give them a bracelet or something with their address on it.

    You should also probably stop watching television. Give up on the news especially. It's just scare mongering crap.

    Oh and watch Finding Nemo. It's got some lesson in there about being an overprotective parent.

  13. Young parent? First kid off to school? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 2, Funny

    FP has it right. Calm down.

    I pity the poor boy who brings her home 15 minutes late from a date 12+ years from now.

  14. You're solving the wrong problem by dkleinsc · · Score: 5, Insightful

    However, since it took less than three days for my local school district to misplace my daughter, I have decided that something needs to be done. By the school district's own admission it is a recurring problem of placing children on the wrong buses. Fortunately, my daughter was located, with no thanks to the local school district.

    The problem isn't that you don't have a tracking device for your daughter. The problem is that your local school district isn't doing its job correctly and regularly putting kids on the wrong bus. Instead of posting on Slashdot for a technical solution, a far better solution would be a call to your local news organizations about how the school district is getting kids lost on their bus system and admits to doing that regularly. Raise a stink at school board meetings, PTA meetings, and so forth. Get other parents involved. You're talking about a school district's incompetence endangering not only your own child but all the children in the district.

    Pretend, for instance, that you get a perfect tracking device for your daughter. That sorta solves your problem, in that you can go and pick up your daughter from wherever she was left, but doesn't solve your neighbor's problem, and doesn't solve the problem of what happens to your daughter when she's standing around in a strange neighborhood.

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    1. Re:You're solving the wrong problem by canajin56 · · Score: 5, Funny

      a far better solution would be a call to your local news organizations about how the school district is getting kids lost on their bus system and admits to doing that regularly. Raise a stink at school board meetings, PTA meetings, and so forth. Get other parents involved. You're talking about a school district's incompetence endangering not only your own child but all the children in the district.

      Two problems with this. First, it's a lot of work. Second, he wanted a solution that runs on Linux.

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    2. Re:You're solving the wrong problem by dkleinsc · · Score: 2, Insightful

      My point (which a lot of other posters are making) is that OP's biggest mistake is thinking that the correct thing to do here is come up with a technical solution to figuring out where his daughter is. It's one of those instances where the engineer's "find a technical solution" instincts are not what's really needed: what's really needed is working the levers of politics to make the school district do their friggin' jobs.

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    3. Re:You're solving the wrong problem by Knara · · Score: 2, Insightful

      Generally the problem solves itself within the first couple days. This isn't a vast conspiracy of incompetence, it's a kink that gets worked out at the start of every new kindergarten class.

      Getting on the wrong bus also makes the kid more aware of what bus he/she needs to be on to get home (did for me, i got on the wrong bus my first day in kindergarten... who wouldn't want to be on bus #1??)

  15. This is why Home Schooling is better by Attila+Dimedici · · Score: 2, Insightful

    I have an easy solution, take your child out of the care of these incompetents and educate her yourself.
    This is not entirely facetious. If the school can't even pay enough attention to your child to make sure that she gets on the correct bus, what makes you think they are paying enough attention to make sure that she is learning anything?

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    1. Re:This is why Home Schooling is better by 91degrees · · Score: 3, Funny

      Well, she's probably learning independence.

  16. Wrong Solution by causality · · Score: 4, Insightful

    If this question came up a generation ago, before GPS trackers and similar devices were available, you would be looking for ways to better plan school events and to hold the schoolteachers and other school staff accountable for these kinds of mishaps. I think that's the right way to deal with this, though it's not the easy band-aid solution that installing a tracking device would be. In other words, the technological development of a wrong solution doesn't change what the right solution was all along.

    I just don't believe in this widespread approach of dealing only with the symptoms of problems. I might consider it (though wouldn't like it one bit) if it were a material object, but the fact that this is a human being should be all the more reason to address the actual problem. The irresponsibility of the school system and the fact that it has taken its obligations lightly is the actual core problem here. A tracking device only provides an incentive for letting them off the hook when they should have to answer for their failures. Yes, that would be much harder to arrange and would probably require political pressure from other like-minded parents, but it would be so much more worthwhile in the end.

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    1. Re:Wrong Solution by celtic_hackr · · Score: 2, Informative

      Well, I have and will continue to voice my concerns about the school and it's lack of good planning. I will be bringing it before the town council, and doing what I can to prevent it from happening. However, I don't have a great deal of confidence in the district anymore. I feel for the other parents too, but my prime concern is to keep my daughter safe. I have the ability to do this and thus don't mind the expense.

      I have to go pick up my daughter now.

  17. It's amazing really by 0racle · · Score: 4, Insightful

    It's really amazing how any of us, and humanity in general, ever lived past their 10th birthday without all the 'safety' gear that is available now. What a truly wonderful time to be alive, we now finally have the tools to live on past childhood.

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  18. Neural network... by n3umh · · Score: 5, Funny

    All you need to do is devise a complex computer with some decision making abilities and program it with information with destination coordinates in case it gets lost.

    Program it to recognize a local authority figure like a policeman or teacher and provide them with the destination information so that they can help it find home.

    I suspect the most effective hardware platform for such an application is some sort of fairly high-functioning biological organism.

  19. Errr, what? by whiledo · · Score: 5, Informative

    Was this supposed to be some sort of abstract attempt at humor? Your GPS device does not send data back to the satellites. It's just a passive receiver. It doesn't matter one bit how many other people have GPSes. Might as well claim you're getting poor FM radio reception due to too many people listening to their stereos.

    You would have had a point if you talked about your MOBILE not getting a signal or something due to devices that use that network had you said that.

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    1. Re:Errr, what? by PitaBred · · Score: 3, Informative

      Poor receiver, heavier traffic has smog which may make it harder to get the radio signal, maybe you just drove through the heavy traffic areas on cloudy days... who knows. All kinds of things can interrupt it.

      The way GPS works is that the satellites constantly transmit info about where they are, and a time code and the receiver you have picks that up and uses the time delay between the different sats as well as the location of the satellite to triangulate where you are. It's rather interesting.

  20. Instamapper by 222 · · Score: 2, Interesting

    I used Instamapper on my Blackberry to provide real time / historical GPS tracking of myself. It's free, extremely easy to set up, and has Facebook integration. Be warned, GPS is a battery killer. I set all this up when I first became interested in location aware apps, and its run fine since.

    http://www.instamapper.com/

  21. Don't do it. by 1u3hr · · Score: 3, Insightful
    How would your device help your kid after she got on the wrong bus? Will you intercept it in your Batmobile? Worst case she spends an hour sitting on a bus till it gets back to the terminal and she gets the right one, or you pick her up. Doesn't warrant surgical implantation. School bus drivers do know how to handle kids who get the wrong bus.

    Your kid will hate you for this should you ever try to do it. And I wouldn't be surprised if you had to do a lot of explaining to child welfare agencies.

  22. Falcom Mambo by dago · · Score: 3, Interesting

    For a dedicated solution, you can buy a Falcom Mambo (http://www.falcom.de/products/personal-tracker/mambo/)

    Dedicated GPS tracker with an emergency button
    Long battery life
    Very Open

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  23. Title Ambiguity by CopaceticOpus · · Score: 5, Funny

    I believe this "Making a Child" Locating System will be of interest to many Slashdotters.

  24. Don't try for a workaround. Try for a solution by Opportunist · · Score: 3, Insightful

    You're like someone installing a firewall when an unpatched service allows arbitrary connections, instead of patching the service.

    Your school places your daughter on the wrong bus, that's the problem. Not that you can't track her. Solve the underlying problem instead. Either storm the principal's office and fire up a storm, get the PTA (if existant) to do something about the problem (since it's a "recurring problem" you're certainly not the only parent in that situation, get in touch with the other parents) and if everything fails, get another school to teach your kids (which is probably a sensible idea anyway, if they're not able to get your daughter in the right bus and didn't manage to teach her to choose the right one, it's likely they don't manage to teach her anything else either).

    You're looking for the solution for the wrong problem. The problem isn't that you can't find your daughter. The problem is that she isn't where she should be in the first place. Don't cure the symptom, cure the sickness!

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  25. Educate her by blhack · · Score: 4, Insightful

    This happened to me when I was a kid. The school thought that I had signed up for Hockey, but hadn't. They sent me across town to hockey practice.
    Instead of freaking out, I got there and started playing hockey. Then I called my mom and told her to come and pick me up.
    Why? Because I didn't have psychotic over-reacting parents. I was smart enough to go "there is a problem here, I should fix it."
    And I did.

    Teach your daughter this same thing. Make her memorize your phone number.

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  26. escape by Lord+Ender · · Score: 4, Insightful

    My specification are: 1) a small unobtrusive device I can place on my daughter, 2) an application to pull up on any computer, a map with a dot indicating the real-time position of my child, 3) a handheld device with the equivalent information, 4) [optional] a secure web application/plug-in I can install on my own domain allowing me to track her from anyplace in the world, 5) a means of turning it all off, 6) a Linux based solution of the above.

    Wow. Perhaps she was trying to get away from you.

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    1. Re:escape by fiendy · · Score: 2, Informative

      My specification are: 1) a small unobtrusive device I can place on my daughter, 2) an application to pull up on any computer, a map with a dot indicating the real-time position of my child, 3) a handheld device with the equivalent information, 4) [optional] a secure web application/plug-in I can install on my own domain allowing me to track her from anyplace in the world, 5) a means of turning it all off, 6) a Linux based solution of the above.

      Wow. Perhaps she was trying to get away from you.

      Why not ask the parents of Tori Stafford whether an unobtrusive system could have been useful to them.Google if you want to know the backstory.

      I'm not saying that he may not be excessively paranoid, but I also do not think that young children deserve any expectation of privacy which trumps the knowledge of their whereabouts and safety in any number of situations.

      Yes, I realize you were trying to be funny.

  27. How about teaching by BlowHole666 · · Score: 5, Insightful

    How about you just teach your child what bus to get on. Or pick your child up from school. In 20 years are you going to want your child to think it is ok to track a person? Will your child be one of the ones that says "Well my parents tracked me as a child and I was fine, so lets let the government track us". The buses have numbers written on them just teach your child what number theirs. Once you advocate tracking people as a valid solution to a problem everyone is doing it.

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  28. Are you sure about those zeros? by codewarren · · Score: 2, Funny

    Or maybe it's your comma. Either way, a google search for "subcutaneous ants" has more hits.

  29. You're overthinking this by Minwee · · Score: 3, Informative

    First off, write a letter explaining what has happened and send it to your school board, city council, and local newspaper-who-might-give-a-crap-about-this-kind-of-thing. Talk with your daughter's teachers, the school principal, and whoever else you need to to get some assurances that they're not going to do this again.

    Then, if you're still worried about your children being sent to the off-world colonies while you're not looking, talk with your daughter about what happened and how she can make sure she gets home on the right bus. If you really want a technological solution then buy her a mobile phone, maybe something like one of these beasties which can be locked down to only calling a handful of numbers (not a product endorsement, just giving an example), and make sure she knows how to call you at home if she has trouble again. Keep it charged and have her stash it in her jacket or backpack where she's unlikely to lose it. There's no need to weld it onto a metal cuff around her ankle, just let her use it to call you when she needs to.

    Hopefully you can both feel better about her security that way. You need to know that she is safe, and she needs to know that you trust her and that you are able to help her out if she has troubles. Strapping a prisoner restraint collar around her neck and monitoring her every move isn't going to do that.

  30. How old is this child? by anyGould · · Score: 2, Insightful

    Are we talking about a five year old? Eight? Ten? Fifteen?

    The range of options varies with age. None of which involve tracking your child to a three-foot radius, btw.

    By age 8, your kid should know which bus they're supposed to be on. (Probably earlier, but for the sake of argument.)

    If younger, then you should be addressing it with the school.

  31. Please don't think of the children. by Dutchmaan · · Score: 5, Insightful

    Remember folks, it's been said over and over and over again... First it will be tracking criminals, then it will be tracking children for their safety, then it will be tracking the general populous because they grew up with it.

    With technology come vigilance on how it's used and how it could *potentially* be used.

    Humanity, sliding down that slippery slope since 1984.

  32. Crime. by EkriirkE · · Score: 3, Funny

    Have her repeatedly commit crimes (theft?) and local law will install an ankle bracelet. With this she should be either placed under house arrest andr hopefully be allowed to go to school. If she ever deviates from either location, law enforcement will contact you and let you know soon to be followed by them escorting her home safely.

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  33. Google Latitude by LaminatorX · · Score: 3, Insightful

    Prepaid cellphone with long standby life in the pocket of her backpack or book bag.Recharge the battery a couple nights a week.Manage the lattitude account yourself to ensure only appropriate monitoring.

  34. Wow. by TheDarkener · · Score: 2, Insightful

    Just think of when your kid gets old enough to realize you're tracking her every move. Do you think that's going to go over well with her? What if you want to keep it on her to make sure she's not going to any "unacceptable" parties? There's a BIG consequence in doing something like this, in the parent/child relationship.

    I'd go w/everyone else and say "Get her a cell phone". There are plenty out there for kids that lock down so they can't call foreign countries and text 1000s of times to her friends. Simple. If she's in trouble or lost, she can call you. No need to go CIA on her.

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  35. Child Rustling by sashapup · · Score: 2, Funny

    I prefer my children to be more free-ranged. Ear tag and brand them to allow for quick identification should someone attempt to horn-in on my 'herd'.

    Seriously.... This isn't a tech problem, this is a human problem. Get on the school district's case about this through any and all public means.

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  36. Blackberry and Latitude by roc97007 · · Score: 3, Interesting

    My daughter started carrying a cell phone in 6th grade for precisely this reason. It's paid off three times: Twice she got on the wrong school bus, and once we lost her in the press of the crowd during a parade. (That was really scary.)

    Before GPS became common, I had to rely on her description of where she was. Once (the parade incident) she had to go into a store and ask the attendant for the address. (I discourage her from asking strangers on the street, and she's afraid of the police, due to an incident a few years earlier, so we compromised on convenience store attendants. It wasn't a perfect solution.)

    Now, none of that is necessary. She carries a Blackberry Curve and I can check her location via Google Latitude on my own Blackberry. She knows that this is not because I don't trust her, but because I don't trust everyone else. Besides, she can also see my location, which forestalls "Daddy, when are you going to get here?"

    There are other tracking services, but Latitude was good enough for our purpose, and free.

    Hope this helps.

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    1. Re:Blackberry and Latitude by vlm · · Score: 3, Insightful

      I discourage her from asking strangers on the street

      Unrealistic threat assessment. The odds of a random person she approaches being evil are almost infinitely lower than the odds of someone whom approaches her being evil. Or, given the ratio of male to female predators, just tell her to ask a female, any female.

      she's afraid of the police

      Sadly, a realistic threat assessment for people of any age, not just kids.

      compromised on convenience store attendants. It wasn't a perfect solution

      Why? I think that's perfect. The odds of a random store clerk being evil are very low. In any transaction of evil, everyone knows she's on the surveillance camera, so thats kind of a downer for that plan. Most service clerks would love to help, hoping you'll say or write something nice to the boss or the newspapers. Its easy for you to find the store, gas stations are not exactly hidden from the street, and you've probably been there before so you know exactly where it is. Short of a donut store or a police station, I can't think of a more likely place to find a cop, hopefully a good one. Tell the kid, walk in the store, stand in front of the camera, and don't leave until you arrive. Away from the unfamiliar street means low odds of car accident. Most convenience stores are basically the same around the world, so no matter how lost she is, she'll be in semi-familiar surroundings, reducing panic and the bad decisions resulting in panic. Very hard to do better....

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  37. We use pictures by DnemoniX · · Score: 2, Interesting

    A) Yes you are overreacting
    B) This is pretty easy to fix

    As a parent in a city with 36 different schools and countless buses I know what you mean. But there is no reason to tag your little girl. All buses look alike, big yellow with numbers on the side. To make things easy and to avoid duplicate numbers from different bus providers they put a picture in the bus window on colored paper. So your kid might ride bus "Blue Hammer", So obviously the sign is on blue paper with a big picture of a hammer. If your kid manages to get on the wrong bus with that system, either they are not paying attention or they might need that "special" bus.

  38. Wow. Just... wow. by ddillman · · Score: 2, Insightful

    I am SO glad I'm not your kid. Yeah, its nice you care about your child and where they are, but this is so far above and beyond, I can't begin to express. Did your parents track your every move? If so, how did that make you feel?

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  39. With all those distros... by mr_lizard13 · · Score: 2, Funny

    ...surely there's a Linux distro just for this sort of thing?

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  40. Re:'Insightful' my ass by LordKronos · · Score: 2, Insightful

    Oh my god! Put on the wrong bus. The horror. As if the driver, when he/she got to the end of the route, wouldn't have noticed "hey, I've made all my stops and there is STILL a child on the bus. Perhaps I should do something about it".

    I had a similar bus mishap when I was in kindergarten, and that's exactly what happened. I was waiting and waiting for my stop. Eventually the bus driver asked me where I was supposed to be and handled the issue. She got me back to where I was supposed to be let off. No GPS tracking necessary. Instead, my mom retold me what I needed to do to make sure I was on the right bus. After being a bit scared that time, I learned rather quickly and it never happened again.

  41. And here I was thinking by wurp · · Score: 2, Funny

    And here I was thinking his sig made a great combination with his last sentence!

  42. Helicopter parents by JustJenFelice · · Score: 2, Insightful

    There comes a time in everybody's life where we have to recognize that we cannot (nor should we) control every aspect of our child's life. Every time a child leaves the care of his/her parent, both are presented with opportunity. The child receives an opportunity to navigate a situation independently, learning to evaluate and rely upon their own abilities. The parent receives an opportunity to begin that process of "letting go", in addition to developing faith in the child's ability to care for himself/herself.

    While I agree that it is painfully horrifying to confront the "what could happen" scenarios, subjecting a child to a constant police state environment will cause numerous forms of blow-back, both for the child and the parent.

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  43. Hey, this is Slashdot by BlackSabbath · · Score: 2, Funny

    Your post shows elements of learning and apologising. This just won't do.

  44. AmberAlertGPS by supremecommander62 · · Score: 2, Informative

    The company I work for is contracting to build a LAMP based customer management system for this new cool device. Clearly the smallest thing out there. Go check it out at www.amberalertgps.com. They have spent alot of time trying to figure out pricing, options, features, and I think they have good solution. Cheap on the low end, feature rich on the high end. The features real quick are, Safe-Zone, Destination Alert, Speed Alert, Temperature Alert, Monitor, Page, Current Location, and SOS. All the commands are executable from your cell phone, just send an SMS to the device and it do what you tell it to. Simplest feature is 'where', and a few seconds later the device sends back a link to a web page with the google map location of where the device is.

  45. It's not just what you ask for yourself by btempleton · · Score: 3, Insightful

    You're upset that your daughter was lost, and everybody understands that. But you must consider what it means to have what you ask for become a trend, and to have the infrastructure built to make it easy to do.

    Perhaps when your child is 6 nobody will claim she has any rights, and you are free to lojack her. But then we will have to ask the question, when does she gain some dignity and rights, at what age does it become a bad idea for you to do this? At what age should it actually be illegal for you to do this? We have not had to ask that question until you do it.

    Location services all beg the question of what to do when one person is in power over another and can demand location data. You can over your young child, and more debatably over your older child. Can employers ask it of employees? On their breaks? Can husbands ask it of wives? Not demand it, you understand, but ask, as in, "Honey, what's wrong with me knowing where you are? Think how handy it would be. Don't you trust me? Don't you love me?"

    This is the world you will help build. But it gets worse. You see, there will be flaws in the system. Not just hackable security issues, but mistakes. After a custody battle, somebody will forget to turn off the non-custodial parent's access to the location data on the child. This will assist in many kidnappings. (As you may not know, the vast, vast, vast majority of kidnappings are by relatives. The random stranger that everybody is afraid of barely exists.) Perhaps not in your case, but in many people's in this world you are creating.

    A better idea? Teach your child, if lost, to approach a suitable adult, and hand them a card or show them her bracelet, which has your cell phone numbers on it. We tell children not to talk to strangers, but we forget to mention that means not to talk to strangers who approach *you*. It is perfectly fine to talk to strangers the child selects for help, more than fine, it's the right thing for her to do. Or sew the number in the lining of her coat, or shoes, or lunchbox or whatever. If you really think it's bad for her to approach strangers, teach her to identify police, teachers, people in uniform etc, but tell her that if she can't find one of those to approach any nicely dressed person.

    She'll be fine.

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  46. Re:'Insightful' my ass by celtic_hackr · · Score: 2, Informative

    Well to add some more clarity. I'll throw in this one last detail. As I was on my way to the daycare center, to pick up my daughter for her dance class, I get a phone call from the daycare center. The voice on the other end of the line asks, "Did you pick up your daughter from school today?"

    At which point I nearly freaked out.

  47. Yep: remember poor little fruit stand by way2trivial · · Score: 5, Funny

    http://www.sermonillustrations.com/a-z/n/name.htm
    "When the 1960s ended, San Francisco's Haight-Ashbury district reverted to high rent, and many hippies moved down the coast to Santa Cruz. They had children and got married, too, though in no particular sequence. But they didn't name their children Melissa or Brett. People in the mountains around Santa Cruz grew accustomed to their children playing Frisbee with little Time Warp or Spring Fever. And eventually Moonbeam, Earth, Love and Precious Promise all ended up in public school.

    That's when the kindergarten teachers first met Fruit Stand. Every fall, according to tradition, parents bravely apply name tags to their children, kiss them good-bye and send them off to school on the bus. So it was for Fruit Stand. The teachers thought the boy's name was odd, but they tried to make the best of it.

    "Would you like to play with the blocks, Fruit Stand?" they offered. And later, "Fruit Stand, how about a snack?" He accepted hesitantly. By the end of the day, his name didn't seem much odder than Heather's or Sun Ray's.

    At dismissal time, the teachers led the children out to the buses. "Fruit Stand, do you know which one is your bus?"

    He didn't answer. That wasn't strange. He hadn't answered them all day. Lots of children are shy on the first day of school. It didn't matter. The teachers had instructed the parents to write the names of their children's bus stops on the reverse side of their name tags. The teacher simply turned over the tag. There, neatly printed, was the word "Anthony.""

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  48. Re:congratulations. you're a fear-addled fool by EllisDees · · Score: 2, Insightful

    >uh... how about no? how about you are irrational and fear addled?

    The irrational and fear addled response to your child getting on the wrong bus is to think that GPS tracking has to get involved instead of a little common sense parenting.

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  49. Fear, fear and more fear by DeanFox · · Score: 3, Insightful


    I thank God I grew up before cell phones and this 24/7 parental obsession. My son has several friends in those last few years of parental control and it's driving me nutz. We can't even get together and watch a movie uninterrupted.

    One friend, his parents will call to tell him they're leaving his dinner in the fridge. Then call to tell him that the potatoes were over cooked, then call again to ask about next weeks soccer game. And it's literally every 10-20 minutes. If he doesn't answer, they call, call again and again... We'll stop the movie while he takes the call only to find out it's his mom wanting to tell him that next Saturday he has to go to Grandmas or something just as meaningless. If he complains "I'm in the middle of a movie!" She'll bark back "Too bad!, that's why we pay for unlimited cell usage, blah, blah, blah... so we can get a hold of you when we have too. Emphasis on "when we have too" is mine as it's apparently very subjective.

    It's absurd. And, yes, I'm a father.

    If I can't go a night not knowing where my son is, I didn't do my job as a parent. The world is not that scary nor dangerous. My son has a cell and knows how and when to dial 911 if he needs too. And I can certainly go a night not following a red dot on some tracking web page. I am sorry sir, but your fear is way over the top. Of course, as with anything else, that's just my opinion. Is is however a fear that you do share with a lot of other parents. Fear of what I wouldn't know as I don't share it.

    Even in this case of a younger female home late from elementary school because she got on the wrong bus. I still don't see the need for this level of panic or overreaction. But, that's just me. I suspect my son appreciates the levelheadedness of the home he grows up in. I expect his friends do as it's here they all congregate.

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  50. You found the kid, yes? by EEBaum · · Score: 2, Insightful

    I was once lost for a considerable time in a department store. Well, I knew exactly where I was. I was in the elevator, because I was 3 or so and elevators are awesome! And I wasn't going to leave the store without Mom. Mom panicked, store management had everyone looking for me and guarded the exits. Found me just fine. I wasn't abducted. I wasn't killed. Societal mechanisms are in place to return wayward children to their parents in the vast majority of cases. Yes, there can be a lot of panic involved, but I would be very interested in seeing statistics on how many lost children are recovered within a couple hours versus how many remain missing for longer periods. Unfortunately, I don't think such statistics could be properly gathered, given how many such incidents are resolved without ever making a blip on statistic-gatherers' radar.

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  51. Smother by whong09 · · Score: 2, Insightful

    I understand that you're concerned for the safety of your child, but you're really assuming the worst will happen. You're also overlooking the fact that your daughter is a bright individual and that she can take care of herself so much as finding her way home or reaching you. Besides, if you start tracking your daughter when do you draw the line? Are you going to make sure that all of her friends are ok to play with? Are you going to pick out what she eats so it's what you think is healthy? At what age do you stop tracking your daughter? What about dating in the future? Are you going to lock your daughter in a tower?
    As a parent I'd rather trust my children and they'd rather have me trust them.

  52. The biggest issue by AnAdventurer · · Score: 2, Informative
    And I speak from experience. I am a member of the Special Police Search Team. All we do is search for missing people believed to not be involved in a crime. Mainly it's children (DMD) and other "high risk' individuals (brain injury's, etc), lot's of them have "tracking units" (like Project Life Saver) of some sort. AND EVERY TIME ONE DOES NOT WORK it's because someone forgot to change the batteries. We have meetings and meetings on the subject and do free battery checks to any of our PLSA (project life saver) clients. It's VERY SAD.... We lost a boy in a lake because his mother forgot to change the batteries in his (off the shelf tracker) tracker.

    Like everything else it's up to the end user to make sure the system is working property. I like to toss a SPOT Messenger with tracking mode ON in my son's (who is 7) bag before he heads off to play with his friends.

    I am more then happy to answer questions on the subject, just contact me for more.

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  53. Helicopter Parent by nausea_malvarma · · Score: 2, Insightful

    Do not deprive your kid of real-life experiences dealing with the unexpected. You can hover over your kid all you like with gps, but some day shes gotta go out on her own. When kids are on their own, unmonitored, they learn to be self sufficient, calm under stress, and resourceful. Just get your kid a phone so she can call you when she gets lost.