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Court Says Parents Can Block PA "Sexting" Prosecutions

mikesd81 writes "In the first federal appeals court opinion dealing with 'sexting,' a three-judge panel of the United States Court of Appeals for the Third Circuit ruled Wednesday that parents could block the prosecution of their children on child pornography charges for appearing in photographs found on some classmates' cellphones. Miller vs. Mitchell (PDF) began in 2008 when school officials in Tunkhannock, Pa., discovered seminude and nude photographs of some female students on other student's phones. George Skumanick Jr., the DA at the time, said the students and their parents could be prosecuted if they did not participate in an after-school 'education program.' The unanimous ruling of the judges, Thomas L. Ambro, Michael A. Chagares and Walter K. Stapleton, criticized the district attorney's reliance on the girls' presence in the photographs as a basis for the potential charges. 'Appearing in a photograph provides no evidence as to whether that person possessed or transmitted the photo,' said the opinion, by Judge Ambro."

383 comments

  1. Insanity by sopssa · · Score: 5, Interesting

    the students and their parents could be prosecuted if they did not participate in an after-school 'education program.'

    I love the fucking hypocrisy around sex in USA. Sure, violence and killing people is all okay, but when it's about natural human function like sex it's all bad and must be hidden. It's a great irony that just an hour ago I read news that you can't even say tampon on US TV commercial about tampon products . Women bleed once a month. Accept it and get on with your lifes.

    When I was a teen we sent back and forth nude pictures of ourself with my girlfriend, and I suspect many others did too. Hell, we even had sex like every other teenager does. 15-16 year old is perfectly capable to understand sex. Age of consent is 14-16 in most of the world and 17-18 in more liberal US states. It makes absolutely no sense that you can have sex but not send a dirty picture of yourself to your boy/girlfriend, and if you do you will be taken to some kind of "education program".

    The fact that parents can block some "sexting" prosecution is a stupid point. If I was a parent I wouldn't want to interfere with my 16-17 year old teen sex life, and I sure as hell didn't want my parents to interfere with mine when I was that age.

    1. Re:Insanity by Lunix+Nutcase · · Score: 5, Funny

      When I was a teen we sent back and forth nude pictures of ourself with my girlfriend,

      So she really got around, eh?

    2. Re:Insanity by bmecoli · · Score: 5, Funny

      Hell, we even had sex like every other teenager does.

      I never had sex as a teen, you insensitive clod!

    3. Re:Insanity by wizardforce · · Score: 4, Insightful

      If I was a parent I wouldn't want to interfere with my 16-17 year old teen sex life, and I sure as hell didn't want my parents to interfere with mine when I was that age.

      Maybe so but there are a lot of parents that don't want naked pictures of their perfect child floating around the school and would like to use rule of law to discourage "sexting." It's all about appearances; the parents don't want to look like they raised their kids poorly and the state doesn't want to look like they're soft on crime.

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    4. Re:Insanity by couchslug · · Score: 5, Insightful

      The sex thing is driven by the Christian Taliban. Christianity, like the other desert superstitions, seeks to control and ration sex.

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    5. Re:Insanity by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      You didn't but sounds like she did

    6. Re:Insanity by wurp · · Score: 3, Insightful

      You sure as hell *better* interfere with your 16-17 year old's sex life. Teenagers are stupid fuckers, and can get HIV or become pregnant as easily as 30-somethings.

    7. Re:Insanity by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 5, Funny

      He said "every other teenager", not "every teenager".

    8. Re:Insanity by spidercoz · · Score: 3, Insightful

      seems to me they're trying to make up a crime where none exists

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    9. Re:Insanity by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      And that's why we should forbid teens to have sex. It's a bit like circumcision, most of the time the only real reason to do it is to take revenge on your children.

    10. Re:Insanity by spidercoz · · Score: 1

      if the teens are stupid it's because the parents are too

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    11. Re:Insanity by Lunix+Nutcase · · Score: 1

      Sure, but prosecuting them for transmitting child pornography? That's fucking ridiculous.

    12. Re:Insanity by commodore64_love · · Score: 4, Insightful

      >>>I love the fucking hypocrisy around sex in USA.

      What sex? These are just pictures of a naked human, and no more harmful than pics of a naked pig or naked bird. In fact the U.S. Supreme Court has ruled multiple times that nudity is protected speech. It's why you can find images of naked children/teens in your local Barnes & Noble.

      Underage sex photos should be restricted (because someone was raped), but not photos of homo sapiens in his natural state.

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    13. Re:Insanity by JaredOfEuropa · · Score: 3, Informative

      Sure, but do you educate, or forbid? The USA seems to focus on the latter, but when it comes to teen pregnancies, they sure seem to have a hell of a lot more of them than more liberal* countries.

      (* liberal meaning "free", not "leftie" though for some those two meanings are the same).

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    14. Re:Insanity by sopssa · · Score: 2, Insightful

      So maybe they should raise their child correctly then?

    15. Re:Insanity by TiggertheMad · · Score: 3, Insightful

      You sure as hell *better* interfere with your 16-17 year old's sex life.

      You presume that you will always make better choices than your children will? Interesting...

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    16. Re:Insanity by commodore64_love · · Score: 4, Funny

      Well sure.

      It wastes water. Didn't you watch Dune?

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    17. Re:Insanity by sopssa · · Score: 1

      At that point you should had taught your kid to behave correctly and know about HIV and pregnant stuff. Hell, they even teach those things in school here. It's too late when they're already 16-17.

    18. Re:Insanity by computational+super · · Score: 1

      You sure as hell *better* interfere with your 18 year old's sex life. Teenagers are stupid fuckers You sure as hell *better* interfere with your 19 year old's sex life. Teenagers are stupid fuckers You sure as hell *better* interfere with your 20 year old's sex life. Early twentiers are stupid fuckers You sure as hell *better* interfere with your 21 year old's sex life. Early twentiers are stupid fuckers You sure as hell *better* interfere with your 22 year old's sex life. Early twentiers are stupid fuckers You sure as hell *better* interfere with your 23 year old's sex life. Early twentiers are stupid fuckers ...

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    19. Re:Insanity by Jaysyn · · Score: 1

      Mod parent up!

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    20. Re:Insanity by spidercoz · · Score: 2, Funny

      you could probably write a script to do that for you

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    21. Re:Insanity by Cro+Magnon · · Score: 5, Funny

      And yet, they tell us to be fruitful and multiply. I didn't realize they were talking about diet and math.

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    22. Re:Insanity by alexborges · · Score: 1

      However, its good that the court ruled this, isnt it? I see it as proof that sometimes, not all the time, but sometimes, your judicial system gives signs of actually working for the citizen.

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    23. Re:Insanity by 0100010001010011 · · Score: 1

      Only if they're "abstainers". Me and my girlfriend have sex. But we use Condoms & Birth Control, not saying it can't statistically happen, but we cover all the bases.

      Teach kids that sex will (hopefully) happen and show them where to buy condoms. Planned parenthood gives them out for free, same with birth control. I don't think you have to be 18+ to buy condoms at any Walmart or pharmacy.

      So yes, "interfere" by educating them not ignoring that it's a possibility.

    24. Re:Insanity by wisnoskij · · Score: 5, Insightful

      I think you hit the mark perfectly.

      It makes absolutely no sense that you can have sex but not send a dirty picture of yourself to your boy/girlfriend, and if you do you will be taken to some kind of "education program".

      No sane person would call teens sending their teenage boy/girlfriends a dirty picture of themselves pedophiles or bring them up on child porn charges.
      But obviously just mentioning the words "child porn" makes a lot of people loose their sanity.

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    25. Re:Insanity by wiredog · · Score: 4, Interesting

      I sure as hell didn't want my parents to interfere with mine when I was that age.

      That's because you were a teenager, and thus an idiot. I know, I was a teenager once. Know several now. Teens are much more likely to act without thinking than adults. Much more likely to think "A condom reduces my pleasure, so I won't wear one, because I won't become a father|catch an STD|both" and act upon that.

      As adults we (should) know better.

    26. Re:Insanity by Jawn98685 · · Score: 2, Insightful

      No argument on the hypocrisy. It's an annoyingly stubborn leftover from our puritanical roots, and many of us (fundies, mostly) are all about pretending that our "founding fathers" were possessed of superior "moral fiber". The result is the staggering collection of hangups that make a naked boob a national disaster but someone's bullet-riddled naked spleen just good, clean fun.
      On the other hand, I take issue with the notion that 14-16 year olds are capable of understanding sex. In this country they are demonstrably unprepared to engage in sex in any manner approaching responsible, to which the depressing statistics will attest. Maybe, if we had the maturity and intelligence to treat the subject in an open and responsible manner, that would change, but for now (and as a sweeping generalization, I'll admit) it ain't happening. Christ, we still have a large number of idiots who believe that "abstinence only" education works.

    27. Re:Insanity by DoofusOfDeath · · Score: 1

      If I was a parent I wouldn't want to interfere with my 16-17 year old teen sex life, and I sure as hell didn't want my parents to interfere with mine when I was that age.

      For some very reasonable definitions of "parent", being a good parent often has little to do with what a parent wants to do, or what their kids want. And that's no less true for teenagers than for toddlers.

    28. Re:Insanity by Jason+Levine · · Score: 5, Funny

      My parents still interfere. However, their interference has evolved into "so when are you going to have another child?" To which I respond "Two kids is enough! That's all we're having!"

      Of course, back in college, my father's idea of "interfering" with my sex life was walking with me on campus eyeing the women (and by eyeing I mean turning his head so fast I worried he'd get whiplash) and telling me I should walk up to them and ask them to sleep with me. My response then was "If they said yes to a random guy walking up to them asking for sex, then I sure as hell *DON'T* want to sleep with them!!!"

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    29. Re:Insanity by wurp · · Score: 2, Insightful

      You should have taught them about the risks, absolutely. Teenagers are still horribly irresponsible, and repeated reminders at appropriate intervals are sensible (and needed).

      All MHO, of course.

    30. Re:Insanity by alexborges · · Score: 1

      I say we outlaw adolescence under penalty of death.

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    31. Re:Insanity by spidercoz · · Score: 1

      judges are like any other group, a few intelligent, rational ones, a whole shitload of clueless morons

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    32. Re:Insanity by barzok · · Score: 1

      I don't think you have to be 18+ to buy condoms at any Walmart or pharmacy.

      Not yet, anyway. That day will come, I'm sure. Especially in abstinence-only education states.

    33. Re:Insanity by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Sure, violence and killing people is all okay, but when it's about natural human function like sex it's all bad

      Violence and killing naturally benefits the business of government. It's evil by human nature, and people naturally want it gone. The more violence and killing, therefore, the more lucrative the business of preventing violence and killing. If you look closely, you'll see that government actually encourages violence and killing under various smokescreens, most notably drug prohibition (which causes the violent crime rate to skyrocket.) Of course they will never come out and say that violence is "OK", but the cold hard truth is that violence does naturally benefit the business of government.

      Sex, on the other hand, is neither good nor bad according to the laws of human nature. In order to profit from sex, therefore, government needs to make it "evil". This involves various techniques like gradual indoctrination and publicly "tarring and feathering" the real sex criminals (who use actual coercion) in order to falsely correlate their crimes with non-coercive acts. Over time the common man comes to view these things as criminal acts, and this opens the door for (surprise) more government spending and more power over the people.

    34. Re:Insanity by poetmatt · · Score: 2, Interesting

      it's not exactly a surprise that the same religious sect has the most teen pregnancies and such, either. However, don't throw judaism in with the christians. The christians are on their own on this one.

    35. Re:Insanity by alexborges · · Score: 1

      Good point: buy them condoms, teach them how to use them (with a bannana, you sick fuck), and talk to them about the danger of mixing drugs and sex: its hard to have safe sex when youre fucked up on tang and vodka.

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    36. Re:Insanity by Hatta · · Score: 2, Informative

      By "interfere" you mean "buy them condoms", right?

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    37. Re:Insanity by alexborges · · Score: 1

      Not true. Teens are stupid because they are teens. There are less idiotic teens, but in general, a teen is an idiot. It can safely be assumed.

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    38. Re:Insanity by g0bshiTe · · Score: 1

      I am a parent and yes I want to interfere to educate my daughter about having safe sex vs unprotected sex. Otherwise my child is free to send any pictures they like or possess any they like, we all can be taught, but we still have to make our own mistakes.

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    39. Re:Insanity by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1, Insightful

      It's what laws are for.

    40. Re:Insanity by Vohar · · Score: 3, Insightful

      An adult at least has experience to draw on. A "don't make the same mistakes I did" kind of thing, if nothing else.

      I remember how stupid I was at 16. So yeah, I -do- think odds are more in favor of the parents when it comes to such choices.

    41. Re:Insanity by alexborges · · Score: 2, Insightful

      Id say he presumes he has the responsability for what the child does because, hell, its the law.

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    42. Re:Insanity by alexborges · · Score: 1

      What language would that be in? Perl is to obtuse, java is too objectifying, .net based tongues aint worth a damn, C would be too low level...

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    43. Re:Insanity by falconwolf · · Score: 1

      Maybe so but there are a lot of parents that don't want naked pictures of their perfect child floating around the school and would like to use rule of law to discourage "sexting." It's all about appearances; the parents don't want to look like they raised their kids poorly and the state doesn't want to look like they're soft on crime.

      All about appearance? Not quite, those parents don't want to parent, instead they want the nanny state to parent. And soft on crime? What crimes? Victimless crimes? They should never have been added to the law books.

      Falcon

    44. Re:Insanity by spidercoz · · Score: 2, Interesting

      agreed, but it can also be safely assumed that in general, an adult is an idiot too. what do you think an idiot teen grows up to become?

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    45. Re:Insanity by slimjim8094 · · Score: 1

      If a teenager is too stupid to use a condom, they won't use a condom when they're 30.

      I knew I wasn't stupid enough bareback because my parents didn't interfere with my sex life, aside from stressing the important of a condom. Had they forbidden it (in the process neglecting to discuss condoms), I would've done it ungloved.

      Why do people think that 16-17 year olds get a whole lot smarter when they turn 18? Or hell, even 30. You don't mature all that much from 16; if you're immature at 16 you'll be immature at 18, 25, 40...

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    46. Re:Insanity by spidercoz · · Score: 1

      first up, Kansas, followed by Oklahoma and Texas

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    47. Re:Insanity by UnknowingFool · · Score: 4, Insightful

      The court did not rule that sexting was illegal. Nor did the court rule that is/is not considered child pornography. Nor did the court rule that parents can block any and all sexting charges. In this case the court ruled that being the subject of a photo is not grounds for child pornography charges.

      After some provocative photos were found of some teenage girls, the DA wanted them to attend a class. The girls were not nude but shown in underwear or wearing a towel. The class was optional only if the girls wanted to avoid being prosecuted for felony child pornography. The parents sued to block the prosecutions. The court unanimously agreed with the parents because being the subject of a photo does not violate child pornography laws. Possesion of the photo is where charges may occur but the DA could not prove the girls ever had possession of any photos, merely that they were subjects of them.

      Had the DA won, it would have led to some crazy interpretations. If someone installed a spy camera in a dressing/changing area, then any teenage girls secretly caught on camera could be prosecuted for child pornography.

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    48. Re:Insanity by Hatta · · Score: 4, Informative

      Underage sex photos should be restricted (because someone was raped)

      Not all under age sex is rape. Even if you accept the legal fiction that people under a certain age are incapable of consent, the age of consent differs from the age of majority in many places. In fact, people have been prosecuted for child pornography after taking pictures of perfectly legal sex acts. Hell, in my state a few years ago a man was sent to prison for having sex with his wife who he legally married in another state.

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    49. Re:Insanity by theIsovist · · Score: 1, Interesting

      Dear sir, Please rephrase your comment and magically watch as you move from -1 flame bait to insightful. watch and learn: "The issue with sex in America comes partially from America's Christian history. Many of our laws stem loosely from the laws written in the bible, and as such, there are many laws restricting sex and sexual expression. As we grow in maturity as a country, we now feel that some of these laws are outdated, and should be removed. However, there are still smaller sexually conservative groups that will put forth the effort to control what other people do in (or more importantly out of) bed." Notice the lack of words like "Taliban" and claims of "desert superstition". Follow my lead and see your karma improve today!

    50. Re:Insanity by Tubal-Cain · · Score: 1

      Age of consent is...17-18 in more liberal US states.

      And in more conservative ones, I'd wager.

    51. Re:Insanity by mcgrew · · Score: 1

      It's a great irony that just an hour ago I read news that you can't even say tampon on US TV commercial about tampon products

      When I was just learning to read there was a family get together, and my mom sent me to the store to buy napkins and paper plates. I bought the best napkins -- the sanitary ones. I couldn't figure out why my mom and my aunts thought it was so funny.

    52. Re:Insanity by Locke2005 · · Score: 1

      If I was a parent I wouldn't want to interfere with my 6 year old playing in the street, and I sure as hell didn't want my parents to interfere with my playing in the street when I was that age. But they did, and somehow I survived to have children of my own. STDs and pregnancy are rampant in teenage girls, precisely because as a group they are known for making bad decisions! Yes, they learn by making their own decisions and facing the consequences, but there are some choices with potentially permanent consequences that I'd rather they not have the option of making on their own.

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    53. Re:Insanity by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Becareful what you say, "Hell, we even had sex like every other teenager does", next they'll put parents in jail because there kids had sex. So when your 16yr old daughter screws the 15yr old neighbor boy both parents goto jail for sex slave trade, rape, child pornography, and .. well If I thought about it I could find more stupidity just open any law book over the past 10yrs. My favorite US law.

      You may not curse inside the city limits.. REALLY?

    54. Re:Insanity by Eric52902 · · Score: 3, Insightful

      But that's hard! I should be able to let the TV and video games raise my kids and use the courts to fill the gaps with ridiculous litigation!

    55. Re:Insanity by Hatta · · Score: 2, Insightful

      Teenagers, having fewer preconceptions are more likely to apply rationality to their decisions. Adults are set in their ways and less open to new ideas, even if they are better. I don't think either group has a monopoly on being irrational.

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    56. Re:Insanity by AlexBirch · · Score: 2, Funny

      Christianity, like the other desert superstitions, seeks to control and ration sex

      Oh, I thought marriage was designed to ration sex...

    57. Re:Insanity by AthanasiusKircher · · Score: 1

      It makes absolutely no sense that you can have sex but not send a dirty picture of yourself to your boy/girlfriend, and if you do you will be taken to some kind of "education program".

      I certainly agree with the general argument here. If you can have sex legally, you should legally be able to send dirty pictures.

      On the other hand, "can" and "should" are two different things.

      15-16 year old is perfectly capable to understand sex.

      Teenagers are perfectly capable of understanding what sex is, and they can certainly figure out how it works. But are they capable of considering repercussions of those actions? Millions of unplanned teenage pregnancies (many of them followed by abortions or people dropping out of school, etc.) say otherwise.

      Should teenagers have the freedom to send such pictures legally? Of course. But teenagers are also particularly bad at understanding long-term consequences -- like having a baby, or having your nude image plastered all over the internet because you sent it to the wrong person.

      If I was a parent I wouldn't want to interfere with my 16-17 year old teen sex life, and I sure as hell didn't want my parents to interfere with mine when I was that age.

      If you're responsible, sure, I agree. But at some point kids need some guidance. The parents are the most appropriate place to get that guidance, not some mandatory education program. Unfortunately, kids sometimes make stupid choices (even with good parents), and these parents are trying to help their kids out of a serious problem caused by a ridiculous prosecution. Do you really think parents should stay out of such matters when their kids' futures are at stake when they are being prosecuted for a crime?

    58. Re:Insanity by soulsteal · · Score: 1

      Oh, you can have the sex, but only after it's been sanctioned by the church and blessed by the Lord Almighty via marriage. Anything else makes the Sweet Baby Jesus cry...

    59. Re:Insanity by alexborges · · Score: 2, Interesting

      Ah, a very valid point sir. I would argue that whilst there are also mostly idiotic adults in the planet, an idiotic adult is slightly less idiotic than an idiotic teen by definition.

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    60. Re:Insanity by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 2, Interesting

      And this isn't a random artifact of the belief systems. At least if you look at it from the perspective of developmental psychology.
      Kids go through a number of stages when they grow up. During the later part of pre-puberty childhood, children are inherently authoritarian in their mindset, which is to say, when an authority figure tells them something about the world, they tend to believe it.
      If you question them on such information they will refer back to the authority. I.e "Dad said that..", "Teacher said that...".
      The stage during which the kids learn to think independently (if not necessarily rationally) happens to coincide and seems to somehow be connected to sexual maturation.

      If you successfully suppress the development of an independent "sexual identity" or what you might want to call it, you will also to some degree suppress the development of independent thinking.

      So, a religion or tradition that involves hampering the psycho sexual development of children will have a sort of evolutionary advantage to other belief systems in so far that children who get indoctrinated pre puberty will tend to stay indoctrinated.

    61. Re:Insanity by Daniel_Staal · · Score: 1

      Worse than that, in this case: They are being prosecuted for being the subject of what is possibly, technically, child pornography.

      There is no evidence that they were active participants in the creation of the photos, and in some cases here I believe there is no evidence that they even knew the photos had been taken.

      So we're prosecuting them for pictures which they didn't take, and they may not have even known existed.

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    62. Re:Insanity by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 4, Insightful

      So, you're arguing in favor of letting them make the decision then?

      Seriously, where do you get off arguing against it even as you begin with " An adult at least has experience to draw on "

      Where do you think they're going to get experience? Look, you let people make *little* mistakes while you watch, so they don't make huge ones later on when you're not there. Let the girl take a picture of herself pulling the bikini a bit low and showing some pink--even if it ends up all over the damned net, at least it isn't a damned video of her b/f pegging her--which would also end up on the net. Yeah, the lesson will hurt--but not as much as the later one.

      You know who the most screwed up girls were back in school? The *real* catholic schoolgirls raised by Nuns. And while having three of them go down on me at once in a dark dorm room is a *wonderful* memory--they weren't ready for it--and I regret sharing that with them. And with their screwed up perception of what physical relationships should be, I'm not sure they ever were.

      People need to screw up to learn--give them some room to fail gracefully and learn how to pick themselves back up.

    63. Re:Insanity by falconwolf · · Score: 5, Insightful

      You sure as hell *better* interfere with your 16-17 year old's sex life. Teenagers are stupid fuckers, and can get HIV or become pregnant as easily as 30-somethings.

      Then teach them safe sex. Many teens have sex yet their lives don't fall apart after that. And abstinence only does not work.

      Falcon

    64. Re:Insanity by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      You sure as hell *better* teach your kids what is sensible and what is downright stupid to do wrt sexuality RIGHT BEFORE THEY HIT PUBERTY. Your "advice" sounds you've been waaaay too late with that.

    65. Re:Insanity by spidercoz · · Score: 1

      damn right! this is Amurika damnit! I did not lose a leg in Vietnam so parents have to be responsible for their children's behavior!

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    66. Re:Insanity by elrous0 · · Score: 2, Insightful

      "Zero tolerance" all-too-often ends up translating to "Zero common sense."

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    67. Re:Insanity by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Now you gave away the secret. Everyone will know now. Thats next week's law.

    68. Re:Insanity by tomthepom · · Score: 5, Insightful

      Underage sex photos should be restricted (because someone was raped),

      It's this kind of inflexible logic that leads to situations where if 15 year old girl sends sex photos to her 16 year old boyfriend, they run the risk of being charged and prosecuted, him as a child molester and her as a child pornographer! Two lives potentially destroyed because 'someone must have been raped'. The only one doing the raping here is the state.

    69. Re:Insanity by rsmah · · Score: 1
      Actually, it's pretty much proven via various psychological studies that A) teens are poorer at judging risk vs adults and that B) they tend to take impulsive actions more often than adults.

      - Rob

    70. Re:Insanity by RogerWilco · · Score: 1

      When Christianity started, a large part was against sex altogether*. For some odd reason, the sects that said celibacy for the priesthood was all that was needed became the foundations of the religion as it is today.
      *Just study Saint Augustine and related writers.

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    71. Re:Insanity by spidercoz · · Score: 2, Insightful

      I'll give you that one. At least when an adult does something stupid, they have a good chance of knowing it might be stupid. Not so much for teens. Socrates would probably call that "wisdom"

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    72. Re:Insanity by falconwolf · · Score: 1

      we're prosecuting them for pictures which they didn't take, and they may not have even known existed.

      We? You may be prosecuting them, or agree with their prosecution, but not me. And some of the photos were of people wearing clothes. For instance one girl is wearing a bathing suit in the photo and she was charged because she was posing "provocatively."

      I'm glad this prosecutor lost his job.

      Falcon

    73. Re:Insanity by CorporateSuit · · Score: 0, Troll

      You presume that you will always make better choices than your children will? Interesting...

      You are NOT a parent, I see. Well, keep telling other people how to raise theirs! You seem to know what kids are like and what their needs are better than the people who spend 24 hours a day around them! Don't let practice get in the way of your theoretical revolution.

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    74. Re:Insanity by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Does it run in the family?

    75. Re:Insanity by sopssa · · Score: 1

      The thing is, people are stupid at different things, because their interests are different. It's a fact people will make mistakes - you as a parent just need to teach them not to make bad enough mistakes. I sure as hell had my fights with my parents as a teen and so did my girlfriend, and now that I think of it, yeah it was quite stupid. But it teaches you and sometimes it is what you need to make it in life.

      You need to be stupid as a teenager to be wise as an adult and learn from things.

    76. Re:Insanity by cp.tar · · Score: 1

      I've read it. Does that count?

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    77. Re:Insanity by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      And, of course, you'd better have a kid every single time.

    78. Re:Insanity by RogerWilco · · Score: 2, Insightful

      It has nothing to do with writings in the bible.

      It has much to do with late-roman church fathers, influenced by mainly greek philosophers, creating dogma's that survive in Christianity to this day. Guys like Saint Augustin, who defined "sin" as currently interpreted by nearly all of the church. He basically argued that libido is the "the root of evil" (radix mali).

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    79. Re:Insanity by cp.tar · · Score: 1

      You sure as hell *better* interfere with your 16-17 year old's sex life. Teenagers are stupid fuckers, and can get HIV or become pregnant as easily as 30-somethings.

      You'd sure as hell better interfere with your 30-something-year-old's sex life. 30-something-year-olds are stupid fuckers and can get HIV as easily as teenagers. The chances of pregnancy are slightly reduced, though, but still.

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    80. Re:Insanity by CorporateSuit · · Score: 2, Insightful

      You need to be stupid as a teenager to be wise as an adult and learn from things.

      That is a widespread, incorrect assumption. You will learn more by NOT doing dumb things. The only positive you get from being stupid is the ability to sympathize with others who are in the middle of doing stupid things.

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    81. Re:Insanity by Qubit · · Score: 1

      Did you accidentally clip the end of the quote?

      When I was a teen we sent back and forth nude pictures of ourself with my girlfriend, and I suspect many others did too.

      So she really got around, eh?

      Much funnier with that part left in...

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    82. Re:Insanity by Lunix+Nutcase · · Score: 1

      Yeah, I did. It makes his girlfriend sound even sluttier with the ending.

    83. Re:Insanity by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      If they say it is a crime, then it is a crime.

      Be careful what you say, or think...

    84. Re:Insanity by choongiri · · Score: 1

      If I was a parent I wouldn't want to interfere with my 16-17 year old teen sex life

      I sure as hell would. I'd want to make sure they knew what they were getting into, had had the safer sex 101 talk, and knew they could always talk to me if there was a problem or they needed help.

      Maybe that's interfering, but if you think so, I'd postulate that you're not going to make a very responsible parent.

    85. Re:Insanity by thebagel · · Score: 1
    86. Re:Insanity by spidercoz · · Score: 1

      you were sent to the store by yourself when you were just learning to read? wow, these days your mom would have been branded negligent and jailed

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    87. Re:Insanity by pnuema · · Score: 1

      Actually, it is a proven fact that the teenage brain is not fully developedand is incapable of impulse control. Just like a newborn is incapable of walking, a teenager is incapable of practicing adult self-discipline. It is BECAUSE THEY ARE STILL CHILDREN. You can spout all you want about how adults are old and stupid; it does not change the fact that you are still a child and not physically able to do some things that adults can.

    88. Re:Insanity by sholsinger · · Score: 1

      You live in Utah?

    89. Re:Insanity by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      So tell them to use condoms, that they should feel natural about having sex, and that sexual exploration is a good thing. Also tell them that anything involving transmission of fluids like anal penetration is a risk. This is what is taught in the areas with the lowest rates of HIV transmission and teen pregnancy.

    90. Re:Insanity by moxley · · Score: 1

      Certainly *you* (meaning the parents) should have the right to interfere. ...but the state? FUCK THAT!

      (Especially when it concerns a compeltely backwards political prosecution of CHILDREN over stupid photos consensually taken of each other, that in this case didn't even really have true nudity in most of them - it was a girl in bra and underwear in some - and charging said children as "sex offenders.")

      Seriously, the stupidity and pettiness of some of these pwoer mad beaurocrats never ceases to amaze me.

    91. Re:Insanity by cp.tar · · Score: 1

      Teenagers are perfectly capable of understanding what sex is, and they can certainly figure out how it works. But are they capable of considering repercussions of those actions? Millions of unplanned teenage pregnancies (many of them followed by abortions or people dropping out of school, etc.) say otherwise.

      Should teenagers have the freedom to send such pictures legally? Of course. But teenagers are also particularly bad at understanding long-term consequences -- like having a baby, or having your nude image plastered all over the internet because you sent it to the wrong person.

      I'd warrant that teenagers would not be so bad at understanding long-term consequences if they weren't trapped in a parallel society where there are no long-term goals or consequences and if they weren't treated like children until they turn 18 at the very least.

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    92. Re:Insanity by jadin · · Score: 1

      ...but when it's about natural human function like sex it's all bad and must be hidden...It makes absolutely no sense that you can have sex but not send a dirty picture of yourself to your boy/girlfriend...

      Perhaps I'm missing your sarcasm, but I find it interesting that you refer to a nude photo as a "dirty picture". What makes it dirty? Except for perhaps the social norm you are chastising - that 'sex is all bad and must be hidden'.

      It's interesting that this stigma about sex is so deep in our culture and ourselves that you use its slogans while condemning it.

    93. Re:Insanity by plague3106 · · Score: 5, Insightful

      Actually, if you want your daughter to pregnant or start having regular abortions at age 9 or whatever, great. I don't want my daughters to be fucked by any old dude with a penis, requiring her to get HPV vaccines and take hormone pills during the time of her puberty and maturation.

      You sound too misinformed to be allowed to have children. You think laws keep kids from having sex, and if that do they start at 9?

      I also don't want you telling me how to raise my kids any more than you want me telling you how to raise yours.

      And as for "Christian Taliban" when was the last time any "christian" stopped you from raising your kid the way you wanted. HMMM?

      Well lets see, there's no nudity on TV because of conservatives, which invariably are religous. Oh and there was the outrage from christain groups because some kids saw a nipple during the superbowl. Then there are the blue laws. I think you get the idea.

      People who talk like you have never raised any kids or had to deal with the crap that results. I can't wait till you have a slutty daughter, who is pregnant at 13, by a 26 year old loser.

      Ya anyone that disagrees OBVIOUSLY can't have raised kids, and OBVIOUSLY are bad parents. My wife didn't raise her kids like you, she never hid sex, she had appropriate conversations at appropriate ages. Her kids are fine.

      But I also know a few girls with parents like you. Thank you, because girls raised by people like you are the real sluts with no limits, and its fun to watch them strip, fuck, and party.

    94. Re:Insanity by Dragonslicer · · Score: 1

      ...when was the last time any "christian" stopped you from raising your kid the way you wanted. HMMM?

      I dunno, when was the last time a legislature passed a law?

    95. Re:Insanity by wizardforce · · Score: 1

      correction: soft on "crime" either way it is using the state's power to enforce some politician's personal morality on others.

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    96. Re:Insanity by Bakkster · · Score: 4, Insightful

      But most of the tools to raise children correctly are considered 'old fashioned' or even unacceptable. Martial punishment when young, strong leadership from the father and a nurturing mother (which is, of course, 'sexist' because men and women are the same), and actually following through with punishments (the horror!). The only proper method of parenting is found in an after-school program.

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    97. Re:Insanity by Outlander+Engine · · Score: 1

      Wish I had mod points.

      Mod parent up, because it's true.

      Being a good parent means that sometimes you interfere, even when you don't want to.

      Being a good parent means that sometimes you DON'T interfere, even when you DO want to.

      Deciding between the two cannot be boiled down to simple rules.

    98. Re:Insanity by spidercoz · · Score: 1

      People need to screw up to learn--give them some room to fail gracefully and learn how to pick themselves back up.

      Brilliant. Too bad we now coddle kids from the crib through high school. Not allowed to fail, not allowed to fuck up, it's always someone else's fault.

      Wonderful basis for a society we've fabricated here.

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    99. Re:Insanity by Sique · · Score: 2, Insightful

      As someone who actually has children and remembers well growing up himself, I tell you: No child will engage in sexual intercourse if there is something else interesting to do. So the best way to keep your child away from teenage pregnancy is
      1) support your child if it starts to show interest in some hobby, get it interested, keep it occupied with something it has fun doing.
      2) don't make the impression sex would be something overly interesting, by being completely normal and honest about it. Children notice if you feel not well talking about something, and if they get the impression you want to hide something that may be fun to do, they will engage in it regardless of anything you tell them.

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    100. Re:Insanity by sopssa · · Score: 1

      I've never liked to get around, so instead of condom we just got pills for my girlfriend. This was after we had dated for a long time and could be quite sure that neither one didn't have STD or anything else for that matter.

      If I think back being a teenager, the stupid things were more in the 11-14 years old range. At 16-17 I was already quite adult like and not much different than now. Sure I know a lot more now, but the basics were there a lot more than at 11-12 year old.

    101. Re:Insanity by schon · · Score: 5, Insightful

      a lot of parents that don't want naked pictures of their perfect child floating around the school and would like to use rule of law to discourage "sexting."

      So the solution is to have their own children branded as sex offenders after they've committed the act?!?!?!

      Yeah, you've thought that out well.

    102. Re:Insanity by dfenstrate · · Score: 5, Insightful

      You presume that you will always make better choices than your children will? Interesting...

      Not always, just 99% of the time when there is a disagreement.

      Or have you not learned a damn thing since you last technically qualified as a child, assuming you're not one right now?

      More kids need their parents to be parents. We've got enough undisciplined little hellions running around as it is, because their parents won't enforce rules, boundaries, or limitations.

      The natural state of mankind is savagery. Overcoming that is the duty of the parent.

      If you're bent out of shape after 'suffering under the oppressive thumb' of your father, it's probably because he understands things you don't, but lacks the articulation to explain it to you, or you lack the capacity to listen.

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    103. Re:Insanity by darkmeridian · · Score: 1

      No one is saying that parents are always going to make better choices, but grownups do make better decisions in general than teenagers or children. Otherwise, we'd hire teenagers to be police officers or teachers. Parents should not be scared to tell their 16-year old not to have sex, or not to have sex without condoms, or to wait until marriage to have sex, as you seem to be arguing.

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    104. Re:Insanity by phoenixwade · · Score: 1

      I love the fucking hypocrisy around sex in USA. Sure, violence and killing people is all okay, but when it's about natural human function like sex it's all bad and must be hidden.

      Your comparison seems to imply that you don't believe that violence is a natural human function. I submit that it is.

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    105. Re:Insanity by ffreeloader · · Score: 1

      I say we outlaw adolescence under penalty of death.

      Huh? That's already done. Everyone who goes through adolescence is already under a death penalty. It's just that the execution of the sentence is delayed by varying lengths of time for each individual.

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    106. Re:Insanity by sopssa · · Score: 1

      I agree that some teens are really stupid on that regard and maybe don't understand, but there are also those who do. And as you said, the "bad morality" thing that is being pushed about sex probably just makes things worse. But the fact is, ~16 year olds will be interested on the opposite sex and will have sex, and for me it's all ok, even if I was a parent. However, I would want to make sure to teach my kid about the possible damages/STD/bad things about it, instead of just trying to deny it completely (not going to work).

      What comes to US mindset about sex, I really wonder why it's so frowned upon. It's a great thing and gives pleasure to life. Violence, on the hand, is not.

    107. Re:Insanity by Obfuscant · · Score: 1
      And abstinence only does not work.

      The only reason abstinence does not work is because people don't use it.

      It's like saying that your microwave oven is broken because a can of tomato soup sitting on the counter isn't getting hot. You have to open the can of soup and put it in the microwave, and then turn the microwave on, before you can expect the soup to get hot.

      Abstinence works, when used, 100% of the time. Condoms are what, 98% WHEN USED. Why don't people ever say "condoms don't work", because condoms, like abstinence, don't work when they aren't used?

      I'm sure someone can come up with a car analogy now.

      Many teens have sex yet their lives don't fall apart after that.

      And some people win the lottery, but a lot more do not. Yes, some teens win the lottery and don't wind up pregnant or worse, but that doesn't mean they don't have emotional scars from intimate relationships they weren't ready for. So then later in life, they don't have the intimate relationship because they've learned that sex is just something to do for fun.

      The problem is that "having sex" and "having babies" have been so decoupled as cause and effect. The fact is that every time you have sex, a baby can be the result. (Even with condoms, a 2% chance.) If you aren't ready for the latter, you shouldn't be doing the former. If you aren't ready for a broken toe, don't drop a hammer on your foot.

    108. Re:Insanity by oatworm · · Score: 1

      Perhaps so, but I am.

      Here's the thing: It's not about who makes better decisions. Not by 16, anyway. Of course I make better decisions than my kids - I damn well better. I'm older, wiser, smarter, stronger, and just better looking than them. ;-) However, at some point, if you want them to make better decisions on their own, you have to let them actually make decisions. When they're little, you make all of the decisions for them and use them as teaching lessons so they can learn how to make decisions for themselves; things like, "Wear this shirt with this pair of pants because the colors match," that sort of thing. By the time they're adolescents, though, they should be past that point - they should already know what values you want them to follow, what decisions you would probably make in their position, and be ready to make some decisions on your own. Your job isn't to make those decisions for them, it's to lean on them if they start making decisions that will do serious long-term damage to them (e.g. tons of unprotected sex, drugs, dropping out of school, etc.). Granted, some kids start out making better decisions for others; with some kids, you can basically let them run free reign at 13 and know that they won't screw anything up too seriously, while other kids will never get a clue. Some kids will start one way, then go the other. However, they're the ones that will ultimately suffer the brunt of the consequences of their actions, whatever they might be, so they need to be held responsible for them, and it's a little hard to take responsibility for a decision that isn't yours to make.

      Having said all that, it's also important to remember that kids aren't computers. They're not finite state machines. No perfect amount or level or technique of "parenting" will produce "bug-free" children. There are certain things you can do as a parent that seem to help (emphasis on education, discipline, and curiosity, among other things), but, ultimately, it's up to them to decide whether your values hold any meaning for them.

    109. Re:Insanity by oatworm · · Score: 1

      Brainfuck. Duh.

    110. Re:Insanity by hduff · · Score: 1

      <quote>

      <quote><p>Hell, we even had sex <i>like every other teenager does</i>.</p></quote>

      <p>I never had sex as a teen, you insensitive clod!</p></quote>

      Or as adult, Slashdotter?

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    111. Re:Insanity by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      My parents just bought me a computer.

    112. Re:Insanity by misexistentialist · · Score: 1

      By the time your kids are in college you will be giving them the same advice, but they won't be ready for it and you will be too old to use it yourself. Break the cycle and have grandpa walk your kids to elementary school.

    113. Re:Insanity by ffreeloader · · Score: 1

      You're correct. The Bible states that "the love of money is the root of all evil".

      Sex is NOT a "dirty" thing in the Bible. It has many stories about sex and a complete chapter dedicated to a man describing the physical attributes of his beautiful wife.

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    114. Re:Insanity by JohnRoss1968 · · Score: 0

      I STILL havent had sex... your the insensitive clod

    115. Re:Insanity by Hurricane78 · · Score: 1

      You must realize it’s all founded on a very serious power play of the churches.
      The idea is to take a beautiful natural thing that everybody loves, and turn it into a sin. So because nobody in his right mind will stop doing it, everybody becomes a sinner. Now you draw horrible fantasy stories about a horrible place that all sinners go to, and that they will be punished. This creates fear. And if everybody is a sinner, you can tell everybody what to do to make the sins OK again. Which conveniently involves obeying “god”. Whose wishes of course also conveniently come from the people who made up that whole sinner concept.

      It would just as easy to create the same thing with eating. Or enjoying your life as a whole. And in fact this was done in the monasteries of the dark ages.

      I see it as something between a mental disease and social conditioning (most likely a bit of both) on a global level. And a criminal exploitation scheme based on social engineering, to gain power.

      As you can see from what they did to the textbooks in Texas, what happened in the dark ages, the inquisitions, and the suicide bombers, it’s a very successful technique.

      I hope that at least I can help some people to free themselves from the insanity, and life a better life.

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    116. Re:Insanity by Daniel_Staal · · Score: 1

      The government in the USA is a representative democracy. If the government is doing something, 'we the people' of the USA are doing it.

      Whether we agree with it or not.

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    117. Re:Insanity by PRMan · · Score: 1

      For the record, St. Augustine wasn't very good at being against sex altogether, considering he took a mistress late in life because he couldn't deal with celibacy.

      God only wants the best for you. If you want to settle for second-best, that's your problem.

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    118. Re:Insanity by russotto · · Score: 1

      Actually, it is a proven fact that the teenage brain is not fully developed

      "Fully developed", with respect to the human brain, is a fancy way of saying "dead".

      The study so widely parroted in the support of infantalizing adolescents is no more credible than the one about the telepathic dead salmon.

    119. Re:Insanity by oatworm · · Score: 1

      On the other hand, I take issue with the notion that 14-16 ye^D^D^D^D^D^D^D^D humans are capable of understanding sex. In this country they are demonstrably unprepared to engage in sex in any manner approaching responsible, to which the depressing statistics will attest.

      There, fixed that for you.

    120. Re:Insanity by idontgno · · Score: 4, Funny

      Martial punishment when young,

      Did you mean corporal punishment, or do you really kung-fu roundhouse kick your kids, a la Chuck Norris?

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    121. Re:Insanity by mcgrew · · Score: 5, Informative

      You presume that you will always make better choices than your children will?

      Spoken like a true teenager.

      At the McLean Hospital in Belmont, Mass., Deborah Yurgelun-Todd and a group of researchers have studied how adolescents perceive emotion as compared to adults. The scientists looked at the brains of 18 children between the ages of 10 and 18 and compared them to 16 adults using functional magnetic resonance imaging (fMRI). Both groups were shown pictures of adult faces and asked to identify the emotion on the faces. Using fMRI, the researchers could trace what part of the brain responded as subjects were asked to identify the expression depicted in the picture.

      The results surprised the researchers. The adults correctly identified the expression as fear. Yet the teens answered "shocked, surprised, angry." And the teens and adults used different parts of their brains to process what they were feeling. The teens mostly used the amygdala, a small almond shaped region that guides instinctual or "gut" reactions, while the adults relied on the frontal cortex, which governs reason and planning.

      As the teens got older, the center of activity shifted more toward the frontal cortex and away from the cruder response of the amygdala.

      How old are you? In almost all cases, an adult WILL make better choices than a teenager will.

      I've been a teenager, and I'm the father of two former teenagers. I think I know what I'm talking about here.

    122. Re:Insanity by PRMan · · Score: 1

      If you want to rate the SuperBowl TV-MA, go ahead, but I think viewership and advertising revenues would plummet.

      If you want to rate it TV-G and get the massive viewership, then you can't put nudity on it.

      Why is this difficult for people to understand?

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    123. Re:Insanity by sopssa · · Score: 1

      Education is exactly what you should do, I'm not denying that. But as it was with me (and most likely with you), these things will start to come up when you hit 14-16 years. I never had a talk about such things with my parents, but on the other hand we have those in schools at 7-9th grades. I never really made any big mistakes, I was with a same girl for my teenage years and little bit further and we did love each other, but it also meant things like sending those photos and whatever else.

      But point being, you need to teach it before that age actually comes. It doesn't make any sense to interfere with it when it's happening, as that won't result in anything. Education on things before helps.

    124. Re:Insanity by Hurricane78 · · Score: 1

      That is education. Which is a preventive technique.
      But interference in the way you suggest, is what you do when you failed preventive education. If you use it, you are a failure as a parent.

      And don’t tell me 16 years olds are not grown up enough in their mind to act reasonable. Because if you ever get out of the happy bubble of your society, you will notice that in countries where life is harder, you can walk up to a 8 year old kid on the street, an he will be able to tell you about the politics of his country and life in general in a more grown up way than any grown up in our so-called first world.
      Hell, my father told me that in his country it was normal 50 years ago, to marry right when you’re reaching puberty. (Motto: Why lose time? Life is hard and you could die tomorrow. Children are nature’s way to immortality.)

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    125. Re:Insanity by HungryHobo · · Score: 1

      there's nothing wrong with providing strong leadership and nurturing.

      The only sexist part comes when you assume that women can't provide strong leadership or that men can't provide nurturing.

    126. Re:Insanity by mcgrew · · Score: 1

      I'm guessing your dad was in his twenties during the 1970s. He just doesn't realize how much the world has changed since then.

    127. Re:Insanity by Duradin · · Score: 1

      Just a minor point here, having sex can lead to pregnancy, not to directly having a baby. Even then pregnancy doesn't always lead to having a baby. Sex may result in pregnancy which may result in a baby.

    128. Re:Insanity by c++0xFF · · Score: 1

      Maybe so but there are a lot of parents that don't want naked pictures of their perfect child floating around the school

      I doubt many kids are happy if pictures of them are "floating around the school" -- nude or not. At that point, it becomes a matter of privacy, not of sexuality.

      The sexual part just makes the issue worse as it encourages the pictures to spread and creates additional emotional trauma when it spreads beyond where it was intended.

    129. Re:Insanity by Hatta · · Score: 2, Interesting

      Just because their brains are different doesn't mean they're defective. I've read that article, and in fact was thinking of it when I made that post. This quote in particular is key:

      ABIGAIL BAIRD: What we found is they actually use their frontal cortex, the cognitive part of their brains. They are actually trying to think about this. They are trying to reason about this and it is not automatic. It is very labored for them.

      Teenagers actually think. Adults just react.

      I like how you assume that I'm a child, BTW. I'm not. I have a fully developed brain. I remember being a teenager, and honestly I was a more thoughtful person then. I'm able to do more now, because I can set a lot of things on autopilot. But one thing I'm less able to do is to recognize my own biases, and fairly entertain ideas that oppose my own preconceptions. I don't know if you've ever spent time talking with teenagers about anything in depth (science, philosophy, etc) but they ask more and better questions and come up with more unique ideas than adults do. This is something to be valued.

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    130. Re:Insanity by Hurricane78 · · Score: 1

      I think you wrongly assume that religious fundamentalist (which religion really does not matter at all) would be sane in the first place. ^^

      In fact, a “fundamentalist” is by definition someone who is not reasonable anymore. Which is something that is required to be called sane.

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    131. Re:Insanity by idontgno · · Score: 2, Funny

      So the best way to keep your child away from teenage pregnancy is
      1) support your child if it starts to show interest in some hobby, get it interested, keep it occupied with something it has fun doing.

      Oh. That explains why Mom and Dad supported my teen-age computer nerdery. From the perspective of keeping me from getting laid too young, it certainly worked.

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    132. Re:Insanity by magus_melchior · · Score: 1

      It seems you're presuming that the risk of STD is worth a teenager's freedom.

      Look, I understand that a parent will have to let go sooner or later and let their kids screw up-- sometimes so badly that the error has serious consequences. But the general rule is, if the teenager lives with his parents, he'd better listen to them while they can because chances are, they faced the same decisions he is or will be facing. If the teenager is indeed smarter than his parents, surely he's smart enough to find a way to live on his own, but I'd say that's a minuscule fraction of a percentage point of all teens, particularly in the US.

      That's not presumption, that is (or was) common sense.

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    133. Re:Insanity by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      You missed the point entirely. The issue is that the only reason nudity *should* elicit a TV-MA rating is because of our culture's arguably backwards attitudes towards the sexuality and the human body.

    134. Re:Insanity by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      The nude pictures of ourself did it for me.

    135. Re:Insanity by __aasqbs9791 · · Score: 1

      And here I thought you were going to bring up the insanity that is timecube.com (something about children dying to bring their adult forms to life, which was the most coherent part of that website, which isn't saying much).

    136. Re:Insanity by dfxm · · Score: 1

      the students and their parents could be prosecuted if they did not participate in an after-school 'education program.'

      I love the fucking hypocrisy around sex in USA. Sure, violence and killing people is all okay, but when it's about natural human function like sex it's all bad and must be hidden.

      You don't know what the program is about. Regardless of anyone's feelings on sex, letting semi-nude pictures of yourself get transmitted digitally is a bad idea, as is transmitting them, and these teens might not understand that.

    137. Re:Insanity by BitterOak · · Score: 1

      You sure as hell *better* interfere with your 16-17 year old's sex life. Teenagers are stupid fuckers, and can get HIV or become pregnant as easily as 30-somethings.

      There's a difference between providing guidance and interfering. In fact, many states have laws against sexual interference of a minor.

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    138. Re:Insanity by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Yep, also celibacy for priests was a late addition. It happened in the Middle Ages after some pretty big scandals over nepotism in the church with parents heavily favouring their children. That's what tends to happen when you've got authoritarian hierarchies with appointed positions (i.e. non-elected & non-meritocratic advancement). So the church decided to go the eunuch route for cheap labour but decided to use the honour system instead of using a medical operation, with somewhat unexpected consequences.

    139. Re:Insanity by sopssa · · Score: 1

      Of course, you all get the point without nitpicking over english.

    140. Re:Insanity by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I'm sorry, but you're going to have to back that one up. Because both among my own peers, and among the kids I deal with on a daily basis, the ones who are most prepared to handle the real world inevitably seem to be those who were raised with age-based increasing exposure to risk and failure. On the other hand, again in my experience, the helicopter parents who perpetually swoop in and prevent their kids from experiencing the natural consequences of their choices (when they're even allowed to make those choices) wind up raising brittle fools who go apeshit crazy (both in the sense of "it's time to party" and in the sense of "wow, I can't handle real life") as soon as they get on their own.

      Now, I may be biased too, but this is the same story I hear from nearly every instructor I know, as well as from many former students once they get 5+ years experience in the real world.

    141. Re:Insanity by Bakkster · · Score: 2, Insightful

      The only sexist part comes when you assume that women can't provide strong leadership or that men can't provide nurturing.

      You're right that there's nothing excluding a man from being nurturing or a woman a leader.

      No, the issue comes when you assume that a woman can provide the same kind and quality of leadership as a man, or a man the same kind and quality of nurturing as a woman. There's a reason why single-parent households are more likely to fail in raising children, and this is it.

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    142. Re:Insanity by c++0xFF · · Score: 1

      Even if you accept the legal fiction that people under a certain age are incapable of consent, the age of consent differs from the age of majority in many places.

      I'm fed up with people thinking that consent is a matter of age. It's not, and many use it as a straw man.

      The reality is that many people feel they must do whatever is necessary to please others. So many girls are raped because a guy says, "do it for me" or other pressures.

      Likewise, many girls enjoy sexting, but many are also pressured into it. For these girls, having that picture out there, spreading around the school is a nightmare. Now add a prosecution on top if it.

      The "age of consent" is a great concept, inasmuch as it tries to codify that fact that it's easier to manipulate those that are younger into doing (and even claiming to want to do) what would normally be considered rape. Unfortunately, age is only one (rather unreliable) factor.

    143. Re:Insanity by Bakkster · · Score: 3, Funny

      Nope, martial as in martial law. I call in the army and use sandbags and razor wire to prevent them from leaving the house.

      Yes, corporal punishment ;)

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    144. Re:Insanity by cayenne8 · · Score: 1
      "its hard to have safe sex when youre fucked up on tang and vodka."

      Yeah, but when you're a teen guy...tang and vodka HELP you get more 'tang'.

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    145. Re:Insanity by sopssa · · Score: 1

      +5 insightful.

    146. Re:Insanity by StikyPad · · Score: 1

      My response then was "If they said yes to a random guy walking up to them asking for sex, then I sure as hell *DON'T* want to sleep with them!!!"

      That's what we call rationalizing.

    147. Re:Insanity by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      15-16 year olds are capable of understanding the sex act, but usually are emotionally not equipped to handle the consequences of pregnancy, herpes, betrayal, gossip etc.

      Sex is more than the feel good of two people rubbing their junk together.

      I think teens should have sex but should be educated to the extreme on safe sex and the emotional issues that can arise from fooling around.

      I would explain to my teen that while I would not mind them fooling around, I would certainly warn them against sending nude pics, because a 16 year old boy or girl with show them to all their friends, put them on the web, and you never know when that kind of crap can bite you in the ass.

    148. Re:Insanity by sopssa · · Score: 1

      How exactly will you learn from NOT doing stupid things?

      You learn from stupid things because afterwards you realize how stupid they were. If you didn't do them, you learnt nothing.

    149. Re:Insanity by cayenne8 · · Score: 1
      "I knew I wasn't stupid enough bareback because my parents didn't interfere with my sex life, aside from stressing the important of a condom. Had they forbidden it (in the process neglecting to discuss condoms), I would've done it ungloved."

      Whew...man, thank God I was a teen back before there were STD's that would kill you.

      I always had girlfriends that were on the pill or other form of birth control, and no need for condoms. I never caught anything, and the rare people I knew that did, well, back then worse thing that would happen was you got a shot to clear up the clap.

      I can't stand condoms to this day....kinda like eating a juicy steak with one on your tongue, sure, you know something good is going on there, but there is just no sensation of what it is...

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    150. Re:Insanity by Jedi+Alec · · Score: 1

      As someone who actually has children and remembers well growing up himself, I tell you: No child will engage in sexual intercourse if there is something else interesting to do.

      Ehmm, you refer to yourself as "him" and state you remember well growing up...yet state as fact that provided enough distraction children(i'll presume you include teenagers in that group) will not have the urge to experiment with sex? Are you entirely sure you remember what it was like to be a 14 year old boy with the hormones raging around?

      The urge to have sex is one of the strongest we humans have. Doesn't matter what the church or the teacher or daddy says, it will happen.

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    151. Re:Insanity by bartoku · · Score: 1

      What is even more ridiculous is when people try to pull violence into an argument about sex like they are on equal ground and therefore there is some kind of hypocrisy as a result. Violence is not that hard to understand in comparison to sex. From day one most every health person is capable of experience the results of violence in the same manner and figures out violence and its physical and emotional consequences early on. Everyone experiences more pain than they would ever like to experience again at some point in early life, a cut, a bruise, some blood. This experience is easily extrapolated to larger acts of violence and how such violence would result in a lot more pain than the minimal experiences of pain that one knows they already want to avoid. Furthermore most children loose a goldfish, a dog, or a grandparent and have to grapple with the concept of death one of the ultimate results of violence. Granted there are mental illnesses and extreme cases, but fortunately most people do not really have to deal with those situations head on in civilized society. Violence is mostly limited to an action movie, a video game, or a news report. Violence is pretty black and white, you never want to have to use it and if you do it is at a last resort.

      Does that mean our treatment of violence in society is without fault? No not at all, but it is simply not comparable to sex.

      Sex on the other hand is easily identified as more complex be simply looking at puberty and the physical and emotional changes that occur in a person at that time. A prepubescent child simply cannot fully grasp sex and its consequences to its fullest, they are not physically, mentally, or emotionally capable of doing so, and the results of adult sexuality imposed on children can have devastating consequences. Sex cannot be presented to preteens in the same way as adults as opposed to something like violence. But that does not address the assertion of 14-16 year olds being capable of understanding sex and its consequences. But most grown adults still do not even understand or deal with sex properly, the assertion that teenagers, who are essentially sexual infants just having gone through puberty can fully understand sex and all its consequences is absurd. Sex unlike violence is not black and white. Most everyone is taught and urged to avoid violence at all costs, violence is always bad or negative, albeit perhaps sometimes necessary. On the other hand everyone is told you will have sex someday (unless you are reading this), it is necessary, and most everyone is a least warned to some extent that it is not an action to approach lightly. The grey areas and additional complexities of sex abound in comparison to violence. That being said, like violence, the treatment of sex could still afford improvement of course.

      Sex and violence are unfortunately grouped together and it is certainly a disservice to both issues. Arguing the treatment of sex is hypocritical in comparison to violence is simply ridiculous and dangerously minimizes sex.

    152. Re:Insanity by gnasher719 · · Score: 1

      Maybe so but there are a lot of parents that don't want naked pictures of their perfect child floating around the school and would like to use rule of law to discourage "sexting." It's all about appearances; the parents don't want to look like they raised their kids poorly and the state doesn't want to look like they're soft on crime.

      So if your child sends nude pictures of himself or herself around, and you make sure that they go to jail as sex offenders, doesn't that make you look like you raised your kid poorly?

    153. Re:Insanity by c++0xFF · · Score: 1

      When I was a teen we sent back and forth nude pictures of ourself with my girlfriend.... 15-16 year old is perfectly capable to understand sex.

      That's nice that you were a willing participant, but many are not (numbers are hard to find on this, for obvious reasons).

      The peer pressure on teenage girls is intense, and wanting to feel accepted by their boyfriend is a significant motivating factor in sending these pictures. For them, it's not about sex itself.

      I think prosecuting the girls sending the pictures is absurd, but for different reasons than you. To me, it's akin to throwing all teenage girls that have had sex in jail. It's not about any age of consent, but it's about prosecuting the victim, not the criminals.

      Yes, I've generalized here. It's impossible to know which and how many people were "pressured into sexting," just like it can be hard to say whether someone was physically abused or raped (the victims often defend the perpetrator). I think it's reasonable to say that more girls are victims than boys and that teenagers are more susceptible than adults.

    154. Re:Insanity by Hatta · · Score: 3, Insightful

      So many girls are raped because a guy says, "do it for me" or other pressures.

      That's not rape. Rape is when the guy says "do it for me", she says "no", and he does it anyway.

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    155. Re:Insanity by Lunix+Nutcase · · Score: 2, Funny

      Yes, we do. Your friends and a ton of other people were taking shots of themselves with your naked girlfriend. That's what? Sloppy hundredths?

    156. Re:Insanity by falconwolf · · Score: 1

      The government in the USA is a representative democracy. If the government is doing something, 'we the people' of the USA are doing it.

      Not at all, I consistently vote against laws and the politicians who support them. If they support them they do not represent me. As a matter of fact, I am very disappointed I voted for Obama as he does not represent me. I was one of those swing voters he counted on but now I know he's not trustworthy. Back them McCain scared me, though not as much as Hillary did, but now Obama scares me.

      Oh, tell Pelosi the US is a representative democracy, she's the one trying to use deem and scam.

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    157. Re:Insanity by pscottdv · · Score: 1

      It doesn't matter one way or the other whether adults or teens are more rational. Parents need to interfere in their teenage children's sex lives because the Parents have to deal with the consequences of the stupid decisions their children make.

      And yes, I realize that often children have to deal with the stupid decisions their parents make. That doesn't change anything.

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    158. Re:Insanity by tophermeyer · · Score: 1

      I don't think you have to be 18+ to buy condoms at any Walmart or pharmacy.

      Not yet, anyway. That day will come, I'm sure. Especially in abstinence-only education states.

      I grew up in a backward town in Maine. We had a local pharmacy that would not sell condoms to minors without their parents written consent. This of course meant that they didn't sell very many to minors, and my town had the highest teen pregnancy rate in the county.

    159. Re:Insanity by Teun · · Score: 0
      Then why is it in super conservative countries like the USofA that you find most teenage pregnancies?
      And even within the US you can see this trend towards the more conservative states.

      When kids are raised in an atmosphere that respects sexuality as part of our life instead of vilifying it they will be so much more ready when the time comes.

      http://www.nationmaster.com/graph/hea_tee_pre_percap-health-teenage-pregnancy-per-capita

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    160. Re:Insanity by operagost · · Score: 1

      Sure, violence and killing people is all okay

      Really? When did those become legal? I'm pretty sure if the pictures were of a beatdown, the consequences would have been even harsher. This isn't a movie or video game. That being said, I support the parents in this regard. No law was broken here.

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    161. Re:Insanity by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 2, Insightful

      "Abstinence only does not work" refers to the fact that people are going to fuck, no matter how much you don't want them to, and now matter how earnestly they themselves might believe they're going to hold to their pledge to keep their legs closed.

      Basically, you have two choices. You can discourage them from having sex, but make sure they're prepared when they do. Or, you can discourage them, and let them be unprepared when they invariably do. True to form, encouraging abstinence along with education into birth control and safer sex practices is more effective at reducing pregnancy and STIs than abstinence education alone (though, from some sources I've read, it's NOT more effective than just teaching safer sex).

      What is NOT an option, never has been and never will be, is convincing people to reliably ignore the evolutionary drive that is the very reason for the you, me, and pretty much every other multicellular life form. I don't know why this is so hard for people to crowbar into their craniums.

      Your lottery assertion is backwards, as is your understanding of the pregnancy rate with condoms (no, it is NOT a 2% chance of pregnancy with every incident of sex, that's 2% PER YEAR). When birth control and condoms are both used regularly, having a kid is a minor risk (and abortion reduces this risk to zero, of course). In the dark ages when we were in high school, nearly all of us were sexually active, and very few (less than 1%) ever got pregnant. Those who did were almost always the ones whose parents refused to provide them with birth control options.

      And why shouldn't having sex and having babies be decoupled? I see absolutely no moral reason why we should have to be burdened with mouths we can't feed and don't want, why women should be relegated to baby-making factories and kept from careers (and it's invariably the women who suffer more), and why we can't enjoy sex. Somehow, though, I suspect that if we *did* have perfect birth control, you'd be against it.

      You can teach kids to use condoms correctly; we certainly were. The newer ones are much better both on breakage and sensitivity. Antiviral barrier lubes (new thing) cover the remaining STI bases (HSV and HPV) and make a good backup in the event of breakage. Various other forms of birth control are also available to prevent pregnancy. Combine this with regular testing and you're quite safe. Is it perfect safety? Of course not. But neither are seat belts and air bags, and somehow most people don't encourage their kids to abstain from driving except where strictly necessary.

    162. Re:Insanity by tophermeyer · · Score: 2, Insightful

      Thats exactly what it means! Zero tolerance policies are adopted so that people and organizations don't have to take responsibility for making decisions. Zero tolerance policies don't exist to protect the students/children, they exist to protect the school/state/whatever from liability.

      For god sake, think of the children!

    163. Re:Insanity by plague3106 · · Score: 3, Insightful

      There's nothing about nudity that justifies a TV-MA rating. Why is this so difficult for people to understand?

    164. Re:Insanity by HungryHobo · · Score: 1, Insightful

      oh for the love of god.

    165. Re:Insanity by operagost · · Score: 1

      In addition, Paul thought that it was easiest for a man to be celibate, but that if you couldn't resist thinking about women that you should be married to help remove temptation.

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    166. Re:Insanity by broomer · · Score: 1

      just get out of that basement and play on the lawn...

    167. Re:Insanity by HungryHobo · · Score: 1

      This works until the age of 12.

      At which point "something else interesting to do" has to involve both explosions and high voltage and will only remain interesting enough for about 15 minutes at which point you have to find something else more interesting.

      Do you have no memory of being a teenager at all???
      Sex becomes a central obsession and while both those pieces of advice are good healthy ideas they will certainly not keep any teenager from wanting to have sex.

      They will engage in it regardless of anything you tell them.

    168. Re:Insanity by Dhalka226 · · Score: 1

      You presume that you will always make better choices than your children will? Interesting...

      I assume he thinks that at least if his decision is a poor one, it's not because his brain is not fully developed and he's mentally incapable of properly weighing the decision. That counts for something. Or at least it should.

      Besides which, if the decision we're talking about is "let my kid fuck his girlfriend on the couch" or "stop him" the danger in being "wrong" there is extremely small. (Particularly since if they're really at that point they'll just find somebody else's couch to do it on, so any claims it would psychologically stunt him or something wouldn't pan out.)

    169. Re:Insanity by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      But did you listen to your parents when you was 16? I thought so... You didnt turn up too bad either.

      Making mistake is part of leurning, you cant remove that from the leurning process. What you can do is teach good principal. If you did your job right thye will recover from/avoid mistake. eg: use a fucking condom as explained in sex ed class.

    170. Re:Insanity by alexborges · · Score: 1

      "There's a reason why single-parent households are more likely to fail in raising children, and this is it."

      Occam is swirling so fast in his grave that he puked twice already.

      You wouldnt think, really, that the reason is that TWO people can provide more TIME AND MONEY for their kids than ONE person and not because some magical quality you cannot explain but is somehow related to the sex of the parents?

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    171. Re:Insanity by cmseagle · · Score: 2, Insightful

      Your 2% is misleading. What that means is that of 100 couples who have sex with a condom regularly for a year, 2 will have an unwanted pregnancy. It does not mean that if you have sex with a condom 50 times, you are statistically likely to get pregnant.

    172. Re:Insanity by Jedi+Alec · · Score: 1

      Why do people think that 16-17 year olds get a whole lot smarter when they turn 18? Or hell, even 30. You don't mature all that much from 16; if you're immature at 16 you'll be immature at 18, 25, 40...

      Well, for one thing, because all the scientific research says so. For another, because we actually watched it happen to ourselves and people around us.

      Looking back, I don't consider myself to have reached true maturity until round about the age of 25.

      Intelligence is mostly a matter of genetics. Wisdom comes with time.

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    173. Re:Insanity by Jedi+Alec · · Score: 1

      This was after we had dated for a long time and could be quite sure that neither one didn't have STD or anything else for that matter.

      "quite sure"...?

      If there's doubt, why not just get tested? Or doesn't the american health care system cover that either?

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    174. Re:Insanity by eiMichael · · Score: 1

      Every person above the age of child has very valid experience on "what kids are like and what their needs are". I'm not sure who you are to be spending 24 hours a day around children, but maybe you need to step back and see why your kids are fucking up so much.

    175. Re:Insanity by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Actually, if you want your daughter to pregnant or start having regular abortions at age 9 or whatever, great. I don't want my daughters to be fucked by any old dude with a penis, requiring her to get HPV vaccines and take hormone pills during the time of her puberty and maturation.

      Straw man arguments are lies.

    176. Re:Insanity by GasparGMSwordsman · · Score: 3, Insightful

      Please restrict your generalized bigotry.

      Grouping every person who ascribes to a belief into a single batch of crazy extremists is just what the Fundamentalist right does. If your goal is to act more like Glen Beck or for that matter, Joseph McCarthy, Stalin and the like, well then you are right on track. It is nothing short of blatant hate speech and un-educated bigotry.

      Just like the majority of people, the majority of Christians are sane, reasonable people. Just like the majority of the left are sane reasonable people. Also note that the majority of the left ARE Christians as well (half of all US Citizens are Christian).

      Every time a person stands up and says things like you have just done, it weakens the point of reasonable people. If you actually care about these issues, please spend some time doing some research. Then, after some contemplative time, say what your opinion is. If you really want something to change, also suggest a solution.

      If however, your goal is to just spew FUD. Well then, by all means continue.

    177. Re:Insanity by CorporateSuit · · Score: 1

      Letting kids make their own decisions about things that don't matter is important. Letting them make their own decisions about sex, drugs, violence, and education is an idiotic philosophy. It is the parent's job to indoctrinate them on such topics, because letting them "go with the flow" on these things will lead to a wasted life. It's the "hands-off, yet instructive" parenting that leads to entire societies of single moms -- which (despite what the sexually-frustrated nihilists of slashdot believe) is problematic for everyone. When your kid is old enough to make important decisions, you let them make decisions that matter, but until then, you tell them how they will be making their decisions. In some cases, you let them make the decision, they make the wrong one, and then you quickly revoke their decision-making allowance in the face that they are still not mature enough to decide important things for themselves -- even though it's usually so much easier to say "yes" than "no"

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    178. Re:Insanity by dissy · · Score: 1

      If you want to rate the SuperBowl TV-MA, go ahead, but I think viewership and advertising revenues would plummet.

      If you want to rate it TV-G and get the massive viewership, then you can't put nudity on it.

      Why is this difficult for people to understand?

      You are basically saying, parent is wrong, Christians don't control other peoples lives regarding to sex! and to prove that, we must keep the Superbowl at one christian invented rating or another christian invented rating and deal with the coincidence of that choice...

      Way to spell "I agree with the parent poster" :P

    179. Re:Insanity by Bakkster · · Score: 2, Insightful

      How does Occam's Razor apply here? Neither of our explanations seem particularly more complex. Sure, if income were the only determining factor you would be right, though.

      The relationship [between single-parent families and crime] is so strong that controlling for family configuration erases the relationship between race and crime and between low income and crime. This conclusion shows up time and again in the literature. The nation's mayors, as well as police officers, social workers, probation officers, and court officials, consistently point to family break up as the most important source of rising rates of crime. Source

      Oops, looks like it's not.

      As for some 'magical quality', look around. Men and women think different, they act different, they are different. To expect that one parent can perform as well across all parenting tasks as well as two parents of different genders is laughable. I'm not saying there aren't men who are terrible leader/mentors, or that all women can provide infinite amounts of TLC, but we're talking generalized averages. It's the mental equivalent of why we have different mens and womens leagues in most sports, men and women perform well at different tasks. Why is it wrong to say that men and women need each other as complementary parents to raise children well, when it's so obviously the case?

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    180. Re:Insanity by eiMichael · · Score: 1

      I would argue that of course they're poor at judging risk. Up to adulthood they have a completely separate court system and penal system. They're expected to have parental safety nets, school safety nets, and everyone is always "Thinking of the children". Their risk is much less than an adult.

      As far as impulse is concerned why should people suppress their desire to perform arbitrary actions? Unless you meant impulsive high-risk actions.

    181. Re:Insanity by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I can't wait till you have a slutty daughter, who is pregnant at 13, by a 26 year old loser.

      Neither can I!

    182. Re:Insanity by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Or to put it another way, "If there's grass on the field, play ball!"

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    183. Re:Insanity by Qubit · · Score: 1

      there are a lot of parents that don't want naked pictures of their perfect child floating around the school...the state doesn't want to look like they're soft on crime.

      If the naked pictures are, in fact, perfect, wouldn't the state be more worried about looking like they're getting hard on crime?

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    184. Re:Insanity by Obfuscant · · Score: 1
      Your 2% is misleading. What that means is that of 100 couples who have sex with a condom regularly for a year, 2 will have an unwanted pregnancy. It does not mean that if you have sex with a condom 50 times, you are statistically likely to get pregnant.

      If you have sex with a condom, you won't get pregnant. If you have sex and use a condom, there is a 2% chance of failure. Every time. The first time. The fiftieth time. Just as in every independent result statistic, the stats are the same every time.

      I didn't say you were "statistically likely" to get pregnant after fifty tries. That's your misinterpretation of standard terminology.

      As for the "you are likely to get pregnant" from the other commenter. Yes, and the natural result of pregnancy is a baby, even if you don't consider the thing inside the woman a human life. If you aren't ready to accept the natural consequences of the result of an act, then maybe you shouldn't be doing that act. That's part of being mature and "growing up" and being able to make decisions.

    185. Re:Insanity by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      >>And abstinence only does not work.

      That's a myth. Abstinence only for no other reason than to be abstinent wouldn't work.

      Abstinence with a reason does work for many (albiet not all) people. Whether that's fear, disability, faith, deformity or other genetics, desire, social pressure, or some form of external control. Face it. Some people remain celibate until marriage while some remain that way for their entire life by choice or circumstance. However, as a regular poster on slashdot, this is something you probably have first hand knowledge with.... literally.

    186. Re:Insanity by CorporateSuit · · Score: 1

      Violence and gore are also natural. So is pissing and shitting. Should we show THAT on Sesame Street? I have a better idea: let's not have the morally-deprived dictate what is good to the rest of society.

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    187. Re:Insanity by compro01 · · Score: 3, Insightful

      Car analogy? Sure. Abstinence is 100% effective at preventing pregnancies and STDs in the same manner that walking everywhere is 100% effective at preventing car accidents.

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    188. Re:Insanity by DavidTC · · Score: 1

      Hey, moron, voting that a bill is deemed passed is voting for that bill. It's passing the bill and passing changes to the bill at the same time.

      Just because parliamentary rules allow more than one way of passing a bill doesn't mean it's not 'representative', you imbecile.

      I swear to God, Republicans simply cannot stop demonizing parliamentary procedures that happen all the time, by both parties. And the goddamn media just goes right along with it, because the American people are goldfish.

      Now, of course, some Democrats are then going to argue they didn't vote for the language in the bill, and they will, of course, be lying, and Republicans should feel free to call them on that next election. But parliamentary tricks to keep from having to register a specific vote in a specific way are not some amazing new thing that Democrats suddenly thought of.

      And while we're at it, the 'nuclear option' is attempting to have the parliamentarian declare the filibuster unconstitutional, not using the perfectly normal reconciliation rules that get used all the time. (Nor is it changing the filibuster rule at the start of a session.)

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    189. Re:Insanity by eiMichael · · Score: 1

      From the article linked:

      What we found is they actually use their frontal cortex, the cognitive part of their brains. They are actually trying to think about this. They are trying to reason about this and it is not automatic. It is very labored for them.

      So teens actually think about the decisions they make rather than:

      So what happens is that in these scenarios adults have a system, an automatic system, for processing these types of dilemmas where we instantly get a visual and we instantly, if it is dangerous or gross or aversive, we get that pang.

      No offense to evolution, but I would rather think about a decision I make in today's society of social engineering (advertisements, rewritten history books, etc) when the alternative is to have my imagination automatically decide for me.

      So just make sure your children understand the consequences of pregnancy, conviction of a crime, breaking their leg, quiting their job, and other serious consequences in life so they have enough information to think and make the best decision possible.

    190. Re:Insanity by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      And abstinence only does not work.

      I cannot believe you just said that on slashdot. We are living proof that forced abstinence does sometimes work.

    191. Re:Insanity by Eric52902 · · Score: 2, Insightful

      No kidding. If a girl doesn't want to have sex, she shouldn't have sex. If a guy forces himself on her, that's rape. If she does it even though she doesn't want to, she's weak willed and the guy might be an asshole, but that does not constitute a crime.

    192. Re:Insanity by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      The sex thing is driven by the leaders of patriarchal societies desire to maintain the status quo. Religion is just a tool to drive that agenda. As women hold an enormous amount of power over men via sex, demonizing sex serves to marginalize their power.

      Disclaimer: I haven't formally studied sociology, but I did stay at a Holiday Inn Express last night. If you don't believe me, you can ask the dirty whore who accompanied me.

    193. Re:Insanity by Skreems · · Score: 1

      Fortunately your theory is testable, since we have data on 2-parent mixed gender households, single parent households, and 2-parent single gender households. I have yet to see a study that backs up your claim.

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    194. Re:Insanity by Labcoat+Samurai · · Score: 1

      Give us some data on children raised by two men or two women, and maybe you'll have something. Until then, the most clear difference between a single parent household and a two parent household is the number of parents, and not the presence or absence of one gender or the other.

      Also, your original point was phrased as follows:

      No, the issue comes when you assume that a woman can provide the same kind and quality of leadership as a man, or a man the same kind and quality of nurturing as a woman.

      (emphasis mine)

      Statistics about what actually happens in culture are ultimately not very meaningful in determining the true capabilities of the sexes. We could as easily have concluded, 50 years ago, that women generally didn't have what it took to be doctors. And we would have been wrong.

    195. Re:Insanity by Austerity+Empowers · · Score: 1

      Hell, we even had sex like every other teenager does

      No, a lot of teenagers don't have sex even in this day and age. Not for religious reasons, not because they're ugly or deformed. There's just not much time for such things until you have your high paying job and no longer have achievement hurdles to jump. In HS it's rush rush rush to get into a good college, college is rush rush rush to get a good job. Then you get the good job and you can slack a bit (at least as an engineer who doesn't want to be CEO of anything). I know a number of people who were in those modes well into their 30s, I'm not sure if they were still virgins but I'm pretty sure if they're not it's only because they either paid for it or just did the one-night-stand "let's see what this is all about" deal. It's more than slightly distracting to be barraged with sexual content 24/7, and it doesn't seem unreasonable to restrict senseless sex to forums that require conscious choice to attend.

      It always struck me that teenagers who were busy questioning whether oral or anal is really sex, were teenagers who didn't have enough to do or who had almost no ambition. Cheap one night stands aside, how do you form a relationship with someone if your top priority is your education, your career path or your coding hobby? These are the attitudes that many parents want of their children and that's why the taboo exists outside of the bible belt. Whether you think this is realistic or not is up to you, but it was achievable for many of us. From a government standpoint I can understand the desire to want to encourage this attitude, as the people who lack ambition are likely not producing the most results.

      Regardless, the issue is not hypocrisy, it's application of law as it stands. An adult is allowed to "sext" another adult. The issue is that these people are under the age of consent, and due to child pornography laws, theoretically not allowed to be doing this. Those laws exist to prevent the exploitation of "children" which teenagers are. Granted teenagers, particularly girls, are generally physically adults, but the laws were constructed to protect this particular group as well. The laws definitely do not exist to promote some puritanical view on sex, or someones religious view on sex, or the general concept that sex is "dirty". In this case the letter of the law is being broken, but probably not the spirit of the law. It seems obvious that the law needs to change, and it seems like this is escalating in randomly stupid directions rather than getting resolved in some logical way. Certainly some squirrel noises will be made by various groups as the courts decide this is crapola, but thems the breaks in a free country founded by religious outcasts.

    196. Re:Insanity by DavidTC · · Score: 1

      Something like half the charges of 'sex offender' are pure nonsense.

      We should limit that to people who have actually attempted non-consensual sexual actions towards others.

      I would go into specifics on what those are, but let me instead mention what they aren't.

      Public indecency.
      Sex in public
      Consensual photography of people over the age of consent.

      Those are just the examples of the top of my head. Yes, they should be illegal, at least the first two. And I'd be okay with some sort of fine for the last, especially if said pictures were copied without consent of the subject.

      Someone streaking at a football game or a couple who decided to screw around at makeout point, sure, haul them into jail, give them a fine, whatever.

      That does not, however, mean we should brand such people 'sex offenders', which should essentially be limited to sexual assaulters and child molesters. (In fact, I think we need two categories there.)

      Perhaps, perhaps, we could have a 'abuser of authority' category too, for adults who tend to enter legal sexual relationships with young people under their care. (Like a high school teacher who sleeps with his above-age-of-consent students.), but the hilarious thing there is, currently, that's not a 'sex offender', as it is not illegal. (Well, it is in some places.)

      We don't need to keep those people away from children per se, but we do need to make sure they don't end up in charge of them.

      So three categories of sexual offenders:
      One who rapes adults, and essentially should be able to do whatever he wants. (You can hardly keep people away from adults.)
      One who abuses society's trust by seducing 'adult' young people under his care, and hence should be kept away from having young people under his care.
      One who molests children, and shouldn't be allowed anywhere near them.

      Instead, we've got one category, with all that, plus the guy who didn't want to wait in line for the bathroom at a concert when he was 17 and pissed in the woods, and a cop saw him.

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    197. Re:Insanity by Labcoat+Samurai · · Score: 1

      I thought the same thing he did. The implication when you say that condoms work 98% of the time when used is that, if you have sex with a condom, you run a 2% chance, per sexual encounter of getting the girl pregnant, which, as he pointed out, is inaccurate. The real statistic is far more acceptable.

      And you're right that abstinence doesn't work because it isn't used, but it isn't used because it's impractical. If it were the only solution, then presumably it would be the tool of those with great willpower, lower than average sex drives, or worse than average sexual appeal (in the last case, practiced involuntarily). But since we have alternatives that are almost as effective, but far easier to use, the people with lower willpower, higher sex drives, and plenty of opportunity can still escape their teenage years without a life-changing pregnancy or STD.

    198. Re:Insanity by CorporateSuit · · Score: 1

      Every person above the age of child has very valid experience on "what kids are like and what their needs are".

      Ignorance is bad, but universal. Arrogant ignorance is inexcusable. Simply because you lived through childhood does not mean you understand what it's like to RAISE a child. It's equivalent to saying you are qualified to be a surgeon because you had your tonsils taken out by a surgeon.

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    199. Re:Insanity by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      "And abstinence only does not work."
      So why are you commie loving left wing wank jobs always trying to besmirch the reputation of a fine upstanding American family with vast foreign policy experience (you can see Canada from Alaska dontcha know?). So just leave Bristol Palin out of this.

    200. Re:Insanity by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Yah .. lucky bastard!

    201. Re:Insanity by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1, Insightful

      Well, even as an atheist living in the midwest, I tend to agree with you. Most of my friends are Christians of some sort, and all of them are "reasonable". That said, I find it prudent to keep my atheism to myself...

      But the real problem to me is not the existence of extremist Christians - any large group will have some extremists. What I find most disappointing is that mainstream Christians seem exceptionally unwilling to engage the extremists, to try to bring them around to more tolerant views, or at least remind them that they don't represent the general views of the greater group. And I suspect that many of the mainstream Christians are willfully passive about this, perhaps hoping that the extremists will make things more to their liking without actually going too far or causing any real damage. Of course I don't have any real analysis to back that up, just many little things I've noticed over the years.

      When mainstream Christians begin to publicly stand up to the Pat Robertsons and Rick Santorums among them, then I might have some hope that the intolerance of the extremists isn't passively supported by the "reasonable" majority. Until then, I have to consider all of you as suspect, and in the larger sense, potentially dangerous to our system of government. It makes little difference if the basis of that potential danger is apathy or quiet acceptance.

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    202. Re:Insanity by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Ah... I think you meant to say that the age of consent is uncorrelated to liberal lean. Certainly many liberal states have an age of consent of 16, and many conservative ones as well.

      To whit, I grew up in indiana, and the age of consent was 16. Then I moved to massachusetts where the age of consent is still 16.

    203. Re:Insanity by DavidTC · · Score: 2, Interesting

      I was always assured a lot of things when I was a kid, and the same thing here.

      Sometimes, looking back, I can see what adults might have thought I was doing, and why they acted the way they did...

      ...but, you know what? That actually just makes them factually incorrect.

      And if they'd told me, I could have corrected their misunderstandings.

      Now, adults still need to 'interfere' in their kids life. But the thing is, teenagers aren't stupid...they're ignorant and poor judges of risk in a specific way. Teenagers think, essentially, that they cannot come to harm, because the worse harm they've ever suffered is getting stung by bees or being grounded for a month or something.

      Adults, of course, are poor judges of risk in entirely different ways, as they focus on 'spectacular' risk and not the actual probable ones.

      But back to teenagers, adults need to make sure they understand the actual fact of things, and that is really not helped by adults lying to them about risks in an attempt to 'compensate' for teenagers having a poor understanding of it.

      And it certainly doesn't help when adults natter about 'emotional harm' from sex like some people here are. Jesus Christ. Two teenagers having sex that doesn't result in any physical problems is not going to 'harm' them in any sense at all, people used to get married when teenagers.

      Now, of course, there might be emotional harm from the knowledge getting out, but if we're going to worry about the emotional harm that teenagers cause to other teenagers by teasing, well, perhaps we should start at some saner issue, like the fact that absolutely no one is willing to do anything about it at all, instead of trying to stop teenagers from doing an activity that might get them teased. By that logic, we should forbid band!

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    204. Re:Insanity by DavidTC · · Score: 1

      Or doesn't the american health care system cover that either?

      No, the american 'health care system' does not cover testing for any disease at all, until you get sick enough to produce symptoms.

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    205. Re:Insanity by Ihmhi · · Score: 2, Funny

      So you're saying he's one of the odd ones? It all makes sense now.

    206. Re:Insanity by KeensMustard · · Score: 1

      Did you also have a picture of your girlfriend from when she was 13 and trade that with your friends? Because if you read the case summary, that is what happened in this case. Somehow this whole situation got turned on its head. I can't immediately think of a reason for these girls to be charged with a crime - they should instead be given a legal means of respite toward their abusers. Specifically, the boys who were trading naked pictures of them. That is the truth of sexting. Its not a consenting expression, it's not a mutual exchange. It's a form of abuse. It's male students sending lewd pictures to girls who have turned them down. It's male students envincing photos of female students that, once traded around, cannot be removed from the public record, and so for the female, the adolescent mistake turns into a mistake that they can't put behind them.
      So I think a form of relief is required - to make it clear that our classmates aren't to be treated in this horrific manner.

    207. Re:Insanity by DavidTC · · Score: 1

      The thing is, there actually is a middle ground between saying 'No, you can do whatever you want' and 'You are under arrest for the felony of child pornography.'

      I'm actually of the option we should fine people under 18 both for producing pictures of themselves, and for receiving said pictures. Or perhaps require them to attend a class instead.

      I'd fine them for unprotected sex too if I could figure out a way. (Besides fining pregnant or STD-infected teenagers, but I think they've rather learned their lessons there so that's rather vicious.) It's stupid behavior, it's something they need to learn not to do.

      It's something that should be explicitly covered in sex ed classes, saying 'You can have sex responsibly and then later, if you break up, it's not like they can retroactively get you pregnant...but if they have pictures of you, now everyone has pictures of you...'.

      Likewise, I'd actually have passing around said pictures to people without the subject's consent be a misdemeanor with 30 days in jail. That's simply not acceptable in society. I think that law should probably apply to adults, also, although in the case of teenagers, it's worse, as people can end up with accidental child porn.

      Of course, we need an actual law about this, and not threaten using child pornography laws in this manner. That law should have a specific exception saying 'If you are legally allowed to have sex with someone, you are legally allowed to possess a picture of them naked.'

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    208. Re:Insanity by swillden · · Score: 4, Insightful

      How old are you? In almost all cases, an adult WILL make better choices than a teenager will.

      Beyond fMRI studies, there are lots of other formal studies and semi-formal observations (look at actuarial data on auto accidents, for example) that show that the cognitive ability we call "judgement", the ability to weigh multiple competing factors with a fair degree of accuracy and arrive at a sensible conclusion, is something that isn't fully-developed until the mid-20s.

      Now, I'm not saying that every adult old enough to have teenaged children always exercises good judgement, or that teenagers never do, but overall adults are much better equipped to make difficult choices than kids are. When it comes to sex, the problem of poor judgment is exacerbated by powerful new emotions and sexual feelings that the teenager has only recently begun to experience.

      Really, you'd have to be crazy to expect teenagers to make good choices about sex. Hell, lots of adults make really bad choices about sex, and that's after a few decades of getting used to the issues, and with as much judgement as they're ever going to develop! Kids don't have either of those advantages, and are at correspondingly greater risk.

      Of course, many of them make bad choices and escape unscathed. But some of them don't. STDs and unwanted pregnancies can really screw with a young person's future. And if they show really poor judgment, especially when coupled with what are normally relatively minor cognitive disorders like poor impulse control (a common characteristic of ADHD), they can end up with criminal charges, and for far worse than "sexting".

      Yes, parents of teenagers find sex more than a little bit scary. Not because they're prudes who don't want their kids to have any fun. Because they see how their kids often make bad decisions -- which is a perfectly normal, healthy and even necessary part of growing up -- and they recognize that bad decisions in this area can have severe and long-lasting consequences. And parents don't want their kids to have to suffer those consequences.

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    209. Re:Insanity by bill_mcgonigle · · Score: 1

      Sure, violence and killing people is all okay, but when it's about natural human function like sex it's all bad and must be hidden

      Showing the death of a person on TV by him getting his head fucking blown off is judged acceptable, but showing the creation of a person, which may involve some getting off, getting head, or most certainly some fucking is judged too horrific.

      If that's not a symptom of a patriarchical war-tribe, I don't know what is. Part of fixing society is going to require the disassembly of the patriarchy. This has _very_ deep roots. Going all the way to matriarchy isn't required, but balance is.

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    210. Re:Insanity by mysidia · · Score: 1

      Translation: you had sex one night as a teen, when you were so drunk you don't remember anything that happened?

      He didn't say every teenager remembers having sex when they had it :)

    211. Re:Insanity by Nyder · · Score: 3, Interesting

      The court did not rule that sexting was illegal. Nor did the court rule that is/is not considered child pornography. Nor did the court rule that parents can block any and all sexting charges. In this case the court ruled that being the subject of a photo is not grounds for child pornography charges.

      After some provocative photos were found of some teenage girls, the DA wanted them to attend a class. The girls were not nude but shown in underwear or wearing a towel. The class was optional only if the girls wanted to avoid being prosecuted for felony child pornography. The parents sued to block the prosecutions. The court unanimously agreed with the parents because being the subject of a photo does not violate child pornography laws. Possesion of the photo is where charges may occur but the DA could not prove the girls ever had possession of any photos, merely that they were subjects of them.

      Had the DA won, it would have led to some crazy interpretations. If someone installed a spy camera in a dressing/changing area, then any teenage girls secretly caught on camera could be prosecuted for child pornography.

      So they DA, without giving some people their due processes, told them to attend this class or we are going to press charges against you?

      Isn't that illegal? The DA can't tell you what to do. At the very least, it's a big step out of his job duties.

      I understand a DA can decide to charge you or not charge you for a crime, but for him/her to tell you to go to a class or get taken to court is just a bit much. Abuse of power, imo

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    212. Re:Insanity by Rene+S.+Hollan · · Score: 1

      In 1966. I went to kindergarten. I knew a five year old girl in my class who routinely walked a mile to and from school each day, crossing some rather busy streets. It was not considered unusual.

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    213. Re:Insanity by Zxern · · Score: 1

      Yes Abstinence only education works about as well as Prohibition did.

    214. Re:Insanity by Artifakt · · Score: 2, Insightful

      It's never about branding their own children. It's about the parents of 'perfect angel' Girl A demanding something be done to 'that pervert' Boy B, until Boy B's parents demand the same in reverse hoping that Girl A's parents will back down. Then the DA's office goes ahead and charges everybody they possibly can because:

      A. They don't want to look soft on crime.
      B. They have decided the parents are all damned idiots and deserve all the consequences.
      C. It gets the damned idiots to finally shut up.
      D. There's just something satisfying in giving an idiot precisely what he just demanded, with a threat to have your badge if you don't, knowing that he will eventually regret it for literally the rest of his life.

      Yeah, the parents haven't really thought it out well - instead, they end up with tens to hundreds of thousands in legal fees and their kid on a sex offender list, while the local public gossips abut the whole mess until they have to move to another state to get away from it, but can't because, well, their kid is on a sex offender list.

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    215. Re:Insanity by John+Saffran · · Score: 1

      Aren't we on slashdot? The place where no-one's supposed to have sex .. like ever?

    216. Re:Insanity by Voyager529 · · Score: 1

      As a Christian, and being a virgin by choice (I'm 23 btw, and yes, I've had a girlfriend), the rationale goes something like this: I'm not looking for any legislation pertaining to sexual intercourse*. Actually, I'm rather disappointed as to how many Christians try to legislate morality, when that simply doesn't work, nor do I expect it to. So no, I'm not looking to control and ration sex from the steps of Capitol Hill. If you choose against my belief system, then that's your choice, and comes with both perks and consequences.

      Fire is a great thing in a fireplace. It's great in a backyard BBQ grill. It's great on a candle as a light source for a romantic dinner, and it's downright life saving in the middle of the woods on a cold night. It's not, however, a very good thing in the middle of my living room. It's not all that great in my car when I'm driving, and it's not a very good thing underneath my server rack at work. The concept of fire hasn't changed; it's still an exothermic reaction between heat, oxygen, and a fuel source. What has changed is the CONTEXT in which that chemical reaction takes place, and the context determines whether the fire saves a life, or if it takes one.

      Similarly, I believe that sex was God's idea. It was a pretty good one, as far as I can tell. The problem is that there is a context for it to happen in where it works best, and that's a marriage bed. There are certainly perks for sex outside of a permanent, monogamous context, but there are also consequences to it as well, and the latter can EASILY be lifelong. I wouldn't wish that on myself, and I wouldn't wish that on any of my female friends or on my ex-girlfriend, just so I could say that we had some fun for a little while.

      If this whole God and Christianity thing is as real as the Flying Spaghetti Monster, fine. I will have lived my live believing a complete lie, treating others with respect and dignity, caring for others, donating to charity, paying my taxes, choosing the honest road instead of the easy one...and having the opportunity to lie with my future wife on my wedding night, look into her eyes, and say "I've waited $YEARS for this moment, and you're the only one I'll ever share it with." To me, that moment will be worth every minute of the last 23+however-many years I will spend waiting for her.

      *The exception to this is adultery; so long as marriage is considered a legally binding contract, infidelity is a breach of that contract and should carry legal consequences for dishonoring a legal agreement.

    217. Re:Insanity by chihowa · · Score: 3, Insightful

      Wait, are you saying that not getting "pregnant or worse" from having sex as a teen is as likely as winning the lottery? I've always been under the impression that most teens have sex (I don't know any who didn't) and I'm fairly certain that most people alive weren't pregnant as teens and those who weren't could be described as emotionally scarred by their experiences. What a bizarre reality you live in.

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    218. Re:Insanity by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      It is better to think independently and make mistakes, than to droid through life with others doing the thinking, even if that thinking is error free.

    219. Re:Insanity by Artifakt · · Score: 1

      I probably count as having a pretty high sex drive - although at 52 I'm slowing down enough the Ex and I are now wonderfully in sync at about 3x a week. Daily sounded about right through my 30's. Still, most people don't seem to want sex that often, in fact the average for married people in their 20's is lower than my preferred as an old fart, once you get past the honeymoon stage. If people like me had been writing the laws we would have made conjugal visits for felons the only behavior control needed, as taking them away would surely be enough punishment (and cruel and unusual except for rape, arson, and murder).
            I figured out I wasn't near the center of that particular bell curve about the same time I noticed we didn't have public orgyariums. So, yeah, I strongly suspect most people could be distracted by a hobby or two. If you all aren't really that way, why weren't there a hundred thousand letters to the editor denouncing Nancy Reagan as an obvious psycho when she proposed that 'just say no' should be extended from anti drug messages to sex ed? The people at my end of the bell curve know the nutcases at the other end, what we don't understand is why you so often let them set the agenda.

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    220. Re:Insanity by Ocker3 · · Score: 1

      Good judgement and Wisdom come from Experience.

      Experience comes from Bad judgement.

      Experience can be created/transferred, from one person to another, by a wonderful process called 'talking'. My father (and to a lessor extent my Mother) told me about a number of experiences from their younger years, some painful, some horrifying, most very enlightening. My life has also been one with lots of "Experiences" in it, however I've managed to avoid a number of the problems that my parents encountered, such as getting married before you knew what it really entailed, which of course lead to a painful divorce, leading to emotional consolation by a good friend, which lead to a pregnancy, which lead to a quick marriage and my older brother.

      My parents were open and honest about these very painful experiences from their past, and I have benefited from their wisdom. They didn't just say "Thou shalt not", they said "Thou shalt not, because we have, and this is what happened." A young child benefits from strong boundaries, an older child needs to see the Reasons behind the boundaries. As a person grows older, their parents need to help them learn more and more, not keep imposing more and more rules without reason.

      *hopes he remembers all this good advice when he has kids and is permanently sleep-deprived while raising them*

    221. Re:Insanity by Artifakt · · Score: 1

      Condoms work pretty reliably if you use the latex kind, with a reservoir, properly pinch that reservoir tip to keep air out as you apply them, and don't think if one is good two should be better, and so on. Studies on kids that got sex ed where condoms were actually demonstrated seem to show about 10% of kids still get something major wrong in using them, and another 10% don't even bother to use them all the time (which usually means they are getting either the withdrawl or timing method wrong as well). 98% effectiveness doesn't take those very real numbers into account. Yeah, I support teaching a lot of alternatives besides abstinence, but I also support compiling real numbers and figuring out the exact mix of teachings based on those facts.
            Lambskin condoms do not protect at all against HIV, and there's no reliable study that shows protection against any of the other viral STDs, and little demonstrated improvement for bacterial ones. Why is there still any market at all for them if people are making a rational assessment of risks here?

           

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    222. Re:Insanity by Artifakt · · Score: 1

      Society doesn't give you any authority to take away that 30 year old's car keys or tell him or her not to stay out past 10 pm. You go interfering with 30 year old people, you get charged with unlawful restraint or worse. You see the tiny little difference there don't you?
            Now there may be 30 year olds where the courageous and caring thing to do is to tell them when you think they are taking a stupid risk, but you can't actually apply any controls to help them not make the dumb decision. You can't make the 16 year old listen to what you say, but you can at least make them sit down long enough to finish saying it. Beyond that, better have been right in the past often enough the 16 year old still thinks you just might have something to say worth hearing.

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    223. Re:Insanity by IndustrialComplex · · Score: 1

      The problem is that there is a context for it to happen in where it works best, and that's a marriage bed

      Oh I don't know about that, the best damned sex I had was premarital, and in the woods to boot. (And in the stream in the woods, and in the tent, and also under the stars). It seemed to work pretty damned well in fact.

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    224. Re:Insanity by russotto · · Score: 2, Insightful

      Beyond fMRI studies, there are lots of other formal studies and semi-formal observations (look at actuarial data on auto accidents, for example) that show that the cognitive ability we call "judgement", the ability to weigh multiple competing factors with a fair degree of accuracy and arrive at a sensible conclusion, is something that isn't fully-developed until the mid-20s.

      Such interpretations assume that "judgement" is an ability -- something inherent -- rather than a skill acquired and improved through use and training. If what you call judgement is a skill or set of skills, then preventing teenagers from exercising it will prevent them from developing it. I assert that this has already happened.

      but overall adults are much better equipped to make difficult choices than kids are.

      Overall, certainly. But in areas where the teens are directly impacted, that direct interest changes things. For instance, Colin Powell is probably far more equipped overall to make a difficult choices than I am. But if I'm deciding on which house to buy, should he make the decision? Not a chance; that's a decision which affects me (and my wife) way more than anyone else, and that direct interest means we're better equipped than Colin Powell.

      STDs and unwanted pregnancies can really screw with a young person's future. And if they show really poor judgment, especially when coupled with what are normally relatively minor cognitive disorders like poor impulse control (a common characteristic of ADHD), they can end up with criminal charges, and for far worse than "sexting".

      The only way they end up with criminal charges is if
      1) They do something which is forbidden to everyone, like forcible rape. In this case, making it MORE illegal for them to do it isn't going to help

      or

      2) They commit some sort of offense which is only an offense because the legal system denies them the ability to make the decisions they make. In which case their judgement wasn't the problem; the legal systems refusal to allow them to engage in decision-making is.

      And aside from AIDS, a prosecution on sex charges will likely screw up the teen's life as bad as or worse than any of the other consequences of underaged sex. Herpes may be forever, but it's not going to prevent you from living within 1000 feet of a school or prevent you from getting many jobs.

    225. Re:Insanity by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      It's not nitpicking. How many people were in this nude photo you sent to your GF?

    226. Re:Insanity by digitalunity · · Score: 1

      Anecdotal, I know, but...

      I have seen numerous households with single fathers and single mothers. My observations lead me to believe that it is a matter of time, money and attention. Single parents can't dedicate enough time to keep children focused on their education or participating in hobbies or after school activities to provide culture and keep them out of trouble.

      Money is important. Shallow as it may be, children are better off when they have the clothing that allows them to fit in with their peers.

      Lastly, a single parent just doesn't have the time to give their children the attention they need. Whether that be examples of moral certitude, leadership, resilience in the face of adversity, nurturing, or even simple communication. Children need a lot of attention. If you can't provide that(which a second parent helps dramatically with), the children are left to the media and their peers for direction. The appearance of behavioral issues, although widely varied, are almost a certainty.

      I don't care if it's two gays, two lesbians, or a heterosexual couple raising children - a single person in many cases just can't provide as well as two people. In some cultures, parenting is a communal activity and children do very well.

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    227. Re:Insanity by sjames · · Score: 1

      True, but I'll bet they don't want their kid arrested and hauled off to juvie either. Talk about embarrassing!

      They sure don't want it in the newspaper!

    228. Re:Insanity by jesset77 · · Score: 2, Insightful

      So the solution is to have their own children branded as sex offenders after they've committed the act?!?!?!

      Yeah, you've thought that out well.

      ... Nooooo.... the solution is to have other people's children branded as sex offenders as scapegoats to put the fear of god in your own.

      Keep in mind, to a conservative, throwing other people under the bus is the most effective means of propulsion available. What leaves me truly transfixed from one day to the next is how imaginatively they invent new buses out of thin air for the purpose of conveniently throwing people under them. :D

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    229. Re:Insanity by sjames · · Score: 1

      Part of the infinite perversity of the universe. The same thing that causes them to make poor decisions keeps them from recognizing it.

    230. Re:Insanity by Labcoat+Samurai · · Score: 1

      Speaking of anecdotes, I myself was raised by a single parent, and we didn't have much money (lived in a trailer till I was 10). Nearly to a point my experience differs from your description. Got plenty of attention. Sure, I required the occasional babysitter or daycare while my mom was at work, but that's not a lot different from school, anyway. And while money would have been nice, the lack of it I think gave me an appreciation for money. My girlfriend was raised by fairly wealthy parents and she takes money far more for granted than I do.

      Now my experience may not match the statistics, but it is what it is.

      Not that I didn't want my parents to stay together at the time, and in an ideal world, they would have been better suited to each other, but we play the hand we're dealt, and I don't think mine turned out too badly.

    231. Re:Insanity by TYH.DataAngel · · Score: 1

      Speaking as a 16-17 year old who has safe sex and hasn't had his life fall apart after this, I'd like to second this comment. Maybe the general trend is that teenagers are irresponsible when it comes to sex, but I would argue that there are always exceptions to trends like that and education in matters like sex is likely to reduce the risks associated with it than telling children not to have it.

    232. Re:Insanity by c++0xFF · · Score: 1

      Interesting.

      So, what's the difference between a victim-less crime and a crime-less victim?

    233. Re:Insanity by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      OMG, as someone who has children and remembers well growing up himself, I assure you that your memory of being a teenage boy is faulty. Once the hormones hit, that's it. And having watched my daughter and her friends grow up, it's the same for girls, only less subtle.

      And the later teenagers engage in any sexual activity the better. It's not a question of having fun. It's a question of pregnancy, STDs, and emotional damage.

      So, IMHO, give them sex education, then chaperone the hell out of them. You'll never stop it, but you'll slow it down.

    234. Re:Insanity by swillden · · Score: 1

      Such interpretations assume that "judgement" is an ability -- something inherent -- rather than a skill acquired and improved through use and training.

      It's a combination of both.

      If what you call judgement is a skill or set of skills, then preventing teenagers from exercising it will prevent them from developing it.

      The key is to let kids develop judgement through exercising their decisionmaking skills in areas where bad choices won't screw up their lives permanently.

      The only way they end up with criminal charges is if 1) They do something which is forbidden to everyone, like forcible rape. In this case, making it MORE illegal for them to do it isn't going to help

      Who's talking about making anything more illegal? I'm talking about kids getting in over their heads and making a long series of bad decisions which get progressively worse. I'm talking about how it makes sense for parents to intervene and nip those decision chains in the bud.

      I wasn't responding to the topic of the article, actually, so much as just the previous poster who was asserting that parents don't know better than their kids.

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    235. Re:Insanity by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Sure, violence and killing people is all okay

      How's that? What Americans do you know, puritanical or otherwise, who are especially peachy-keen on violence and killing? I think you reflexively went into a "what's wrong with the mass media rant", 'cause if you kill a member of the average American community in real life, I think you'll stir a lot more furor than if you had consensual sex with them.

    236. Re:Insanity by joebagodonuts · · Score: 1

      Teens don't have fewer preconceptions, just different ones.
      You neglected to factor in physical/emotional changes (esp hormonal changes). Sorry, but teens are LESS likely to apply rationality. especially when you remember that rationality gets defined by the adults, not the teen. One of the few perks to becoming an adult.

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    237. Re:Insanity by joebagodonuts · · Score: 1

      Well said

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    238. Re:Insanity by Eivind · · Score: 1

      I agree. But interfere doesn't need to mean obstruct. Let's face it, people going bananas only results in the teenagers hiding the fact that they're having sex from the parents, at which point the parents lose all influence.

      The parents of my first girlfriend sure as hell interfered. Several ways. They told her that there's condoms in a certain drawer, and that they've got no clue how many and would not notice if some of them went missing, not even if that should start happening regularily. Lateron, when we where an established couple, the mother asked if we'd considered getting the pill. You know. Parenting. Talk to your teenager. Provide guidance. Not panic and run in freaking circles like some kinda idiot. (or feel free to do that, but in that case, your teenager will stop discussing those issues with you alltogether)

    239. Re:Insanity by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Yes, corporal punishment ;)

      damn I laughed...

    240. Re:Insanity by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      "I've waited $YEARS for this moment, and you're the only one I'll ever share it with." To me, that moment will be worth every minute of the last 23+however-many years I will spend waiting for her.

      That moment? All 2 seconds of it before it's all over?

    241. Re:Insanity by Kjella · · Score: 1

      I would go into specifics on what those are, but let me instead mention what they aren't.
      Public indecency.
      Sex in public

      I'd say flashing your dick at little girls probably should qualify as a sex crime, just not taking a piss in a back alley. Same with sex in public, there are ways that would be really creepy and ways that wouldn't.

      So three categories of sexual offenders:
      One who rapes adults, and essentially should be able to do whatever he wants. (You can hardly keep people away from adults.)

      So you have this person who is convicted of sexually forcing himself upon others. I don't understand what drives rapists but I figure it's some kind of power / humiliation / warm hole kick. I mean they're not looking to talk to them. They're not looking for a sexual partner who responds. To put it bluntly, I don't see what rapists get out of raping women that they couldn't get from raping minors which is why I wouldn't trust one to be around them.

      The sad thing about rapes is the huge number of false positives and false negatives. Both the number of real rapes that go unsolved and the number of false accusations sometimes by malice or greed but most commonly from regrets the next day from girls who didn't intetd to get so drunk/high and did far more than they wanted to do or even remember agreeing to.

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    242. Re:Insanity by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      *scratches head* So why would your daughter want to fuck any old dude with a penis? And/or become pregnant?
      The first thing only happens if sex is so "interesting" (or forbidden) that you would fuck anyone to experience it, the second if you did not inform your child how to prevent pregnancy.
      BTW, you do not _need_ to get the HPV vaccination (you did tell your daughter to never, ever fuck anyone without a condom unless they're in a very long term relationship, right?).
      The pill can be (not, _is_!) a bit of a problem, granted. It is difficult to find the right dosage/combination.
      However, I think your kid would be better off with a bit of hormonal imbalance instead of a life without sex or without a decent education about sex.

      For what it's worth, my personal story: I grew up in Germany, and there was plenty of sex-ed around. I knew about sex when I was... well, 9? That did not mean I engaged in it until I was roughly 20 or so. Why?
      Sure, sex feels great. With proper care, it is safe and there won't be any health or other consequences. That is what my parents told me.

      However, casual sex was, and is just not worth the hassle imO. There is all that stupid "flirting" and stuff going on (leading to strange excesses like the pick-up scene). You have to manage expectations, take the aforementioned proper care, and whatnot.
      For what? A couple of minutes of pleasure two or three times a week? No, thanks.

      Therefore, I just waited until my first long-term relationship, which turned out just fine (well, sex-wise. The relationship has ended a couple years back).

      Which, btw is the same what one of my sisters did (except that she married the guy). The other one's different (she enjoys sex and the associated social games more), but not in a "bad" way either.

      Yes, I can also talk with my sisters (and their husbands now) about sex and have done so from the very beginning. It's just a topic as everything else.

      To bring my ramblings to an end: There is no big mystery behind sex or sex education.
      Telling your kids about how sex works, what precautions they need will clarify the artificial mystery that is (mostly) created by advertising and the American prudes out, and they will make their own decisions about sex.
      And grow up just fine ;)

    243. Re:Insanity by plague3106 · · Score: 1

      Your comment is aburd, because children see FIRST HAND people pissing and shitting.

      Its interesting that you ascribe good and evil morality to normal human functions.

      Reminds me of the Family Guy where Peter goes to get a book on potty training, and after telling the clerk he's Catholic, the recommended book is "you're a naughty boy and that's pure concentrated evil coming out your backside."

      Your comment on violence is also interesting, since violence is just fine and dandy on TV, in the movies and in video games, but just showing nudity and you're off TV and your video game is AO (but a little but is ok for an R but too much and you end up NC17).

    244. Re:Insanity by hesaigo999ca · · Score: 1

      I tend to agree with your overall point of view, I find so much double standards in these types of cases.
      Take for example the fact that they took the child's phone without asking, did they have a warrant, are they police.
      How did they obtain the phone to know those pictures were on it.

      Let's say again that that point was bypassed with xxx reason, then again just because he received the photo does not mean he is a criminal, as it stands i could send anyone of those judges a child p0rn photo if i knew their cell phone number, and then call the cops on them....wow they are now criminals, and even then if I did take a picture of myself for xxx reason, and kept it on my phone, this is legal because it is me, even if the picture is considered child p0rn because i am under age, i think too many people are getting into this witch hunt because of these child sex abuse cases popping up, which again say a child is 13, almost 14, and lies or what not....it becomes a gray area, because we try to find fault with everything these days, did the child even say they were molested or was it someone else that found out (maybe a parent or relative) and blew the whistle on them???

      Anyways, back in the day, we used to be able to marry at 13 years old, and in different countries, you can even marry as young as 11 (Africa) in certain areas, but for us, we have to put a big TABOO sign up until the age of 18, not even allowed to consider talking about these things openly without incurring suspicious looks.

      Mention the 3 words together law, sex and age, and the first thing people think about is prosecution or criminal activity....pretty negative on our parts.

    245. Re:Insanity by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Scrub.

    246. Re:Insanity by zildgulf · · Score: 1

      Agreed, thousands of American Christian Taliban idiots make tons of noise, get on the news, and make it difficult for the rest of the millions and millions of American Christians. It is very frustrating to see those idiots get all of the press and saying absolutely crazy sound bites. Christianity reduces to sound bites is not the Christianity most people believe.

    247. Re:Insanity by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      That's what I told your little sister!

      -3

    248. Re:Insanity by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I'm sure you won't see this, but what the hell.

      You're wrong. It is not a 2% failure rate per use. It is a 2% failure rate (unplanned pregnancy) PER YEAR. In particular, it is impossible to accurately measure the failure rate per use of a condom because failures include semen leakage.

      Wikipedia lists primary sources.

    249. Re:Insanity by mcgrew · · Score: 1

      We didn't have kindergarten. I was in the first grade in 1958. As you say, it was a different world back then. Hell, my mom sent me to the store to buy cigarettes for her.

    250. Re:Insanity by Voyager529 · · Score: 1

      Yes, that moment. The moment is symbolic of a much longer commitment. It happens all the time.

      How many months does it take to save up for a down payment of a car? how many days are spent searching for one? How many hours are spent filling out paperwork and waiting in line at the DMV? How many seconds does turning the key in the ignition for the first time and being able to say "this car is mine" last? When you've found "that perfect car", is what's on your mind going to be "wow, this took forever"?

      The other way I look at it is this: If my future wife ever questions if I'd ever cheat on her, my answer would be "I spent the first 23+X years waiting for you. I love you THAT much. I'd be a fool to have an affair now." THAT'S what makes being able to tell her that I waited for her mean as much as it does. There's no replacement for it. It's a gift I can give her for free that all the money in the world can never buy.

    251. Re:Insanity by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I agree completely. The U.S. and our conservative contingent make a federal case out of everything now. Laws, and Law enforcement are out of control. Criminals aren't out of control...The Law is.

      It's soooooo stupid that someone would consider a photo a kid took of his girlfriend ...child porn. there aren't words for how f'n retarded these people are getting.

      I'm moving to ...lemme' see, where are they more liberal about human nature. EVERYWHERE !!!!

    252. Re:Insanity by DavidTC · · Score: 1

      I'd say flashing your dick at little girls probably should qualify as a sex crime, just not taking a piss in a back alley. Same with sex in public, there are ways that would be really creepy and ways that wouldn't.

      Well, if you want to try to separate those into different categories, go ahead.

      But, frankly, people who flash children aren't really the issue here. The amount of people who flash children for sexual gratification and then move on to actually molesting them is probably so microscopic no one can actually find examples of it. Hell, the amount of people who flash adults for sexual gratification is almost nonexistent.

      Almost none of the 'people naked in public' are doing it for that purpose, and almost none of them are doing it to children, and almost none of those will move on to actually molesting children. Statistically, we'd probably stop more child molesters by branding 'childless people who buy bags of lollipops' as sex offenders instead of 'naked in public people'.

      To put it bluntly, I don't see what rapists get out of raping women that they couldn't get from raping minors which is why I wouldn't trust one to be around them.

      The problem with keeping 'normal' rapists away from kids is, at some point, the entire 'sexual offender' gets watered down so much it much it doesn't actually mean anything.

      I mean, they're already not going to be put in charge of kids, because they're convicted felons.

      Unless we're going to brand all violent criminals the rest of their life and keep them away from all children, ever, even if they've shown no sign of going after children, we really need to draw the line to 'people who have indicated they will go after children' as the people to keep away from children.

      Or, to put it another way: there are normal people that violate societies rules about sex, namely, the rules about consent. Those people have hopefully learned their lessons when, after doing that, we slapped them in jail for a while. And then there are those who are attracted to children, and violated society's rule about that. Now, it's possible they've learned their lesson, but unless prisons are doing a lot more therapy than I am aware, they're still attracted to children, and probably don't need to be around them, for everyone's sake.

      Normal rapists we have, hopefully, cured of actually raping people, but are still attracted to whoever, and we're okay with that. Child molesters we have, hopefully, cured of actually molesting children, but are still attracted to children, and we're not okay with that.

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    253. Re:Insanity by CorporateSuit · · Score: 1

      They see it FIRST HAND but that doesn't mean they need to see OTHER PEOPLE doing it on television. Your comment is the absurd one, because you seem to think that society needs to abolish decency. You'd prefer if people crapped in the streets, pissed on the carpets, screwed on the lunchtables. You want us to revert back to animals -- no shame, no mystique, no secrets. It's because you are either morally depraved or playing the devil's advocate to the same civilization that produced your current, comfortable way of life.

      Your argument is a sexually-frustrated one. It's ignorant, masturbatory, and psychologically delusional. You need to put down the porn and go outside for a while. Skanks are NOT good rolemodels. Sluts are NOT ideal women. Whores are NOT respected where you live.

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    254. Re:Insanity by Hatta · · Score: 1

      Oh that's easy enough, one exists, one doesn't. You can be the victim of rude behavior, but that doesn't mean it should be a crime. So that's a crime-less victim.

      Victimless crimes on the other hand don't exist. Or rather any behavior that does not produce a victim should not be a crime.

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    255. Re:Insanity by Sally+Forth · · Score: 1

      Er, there have been recent studies showing that there is a strong correlation between the presence of a father figure in the household and several positive indicators for both male and female children, from lower crime rates to higher self-esteem and better grades. In fact, the birth father has a higher rate of success in this area than an adoptive father, and Mom's Live-In Boyfriend has a worse effect than no man at all.

      It's all very well and good to point out the problems of time and attention where single parents are concerned, but how would two lesbians provide a child with a father?

    256. Re:Insanity by plague3106 · · Score: 1

      They see it FIRST HAND but that doesn't mean they need to see OTHER PEOPLE doing it on television.

      Do they need to see it? No. Will it harm them if they did? No again. In the end, if you didn't want them seeing it, why is it so hard to change the channel, instead of saying NO ONE can see it?

      Your comment is the absurd one, because you seem to think that society needs to abolish decency.

      No, but it sure would be nice if people stopped picking arbtrary things (especially things humans are meant to do) and going "well I never!"

      You'd prefer if people crapped in the streets, pissed on the carpets, screwed on the lunchtables. You want us to revert back to animals -- no shame, no mystique, no secrets.

      Now you're just making things up. There are perfectly valid sanitary reasons for not wanting people to do those thing where you live or eat. But we're talking about TV here. Also, I'm not sure what use shame really has, other than to make you feel bad for being human. Mysique and secrets? I suppose you'd like us to unlearn everything we discovered about how the universe works, because that fabel told in the Bible is more intriging to you.

      It's because you are either morally depraved or playing the devil's advocate to the same civilization that produced your current, comfortable way of life.

      Seeing tits on TV (or on a beach) isn't going to end civilization. Or did Europe collapse yesterday and I missed it? Oh, we also have legal gay marriage in VT now too, and civilization seems to be getting along just fine. As far as comfortable... no, preventing me from buying alcohol Sunday morning is really comforting to me, it ticks me off.. because its an arbitrary intrusion into my life.

      Your argument is a sexually-frustrated one. It's ignorant, masturbatory, and psychologically delusional. You need to put down the porn and go outside for a while. Skanks are NOT good rolemodels. Sluts are NOT ideal women. Whores are NOT respected where you live.

      Ya, you believe whatever you want about me. My frustration lies however in another person that wants to dicate to me how I should live, even though I'm not hurting anyone.

      I know whores are not respected where I live. That's because asshats like you have a need to feel all high and mighty and its the only way you can feel good about yourself, to put someone else down. I hate to tell you, but people having a lot of sex because they want to and aren't hurting anyone aren't doing anything wrong, contrary to your small minded opinions.

    257. Re:Insanity by Sique · · Score: 1

      I have. I remember reading the whole "Lexicon for the Young: Youth together", an encycopedia encompassing about everything sexual I could imagine at the time, at the age of 13. I remember looking through all the art books of my mother (a graphic designer) looking for nude pictures. I remember having an audio cassette with erotic stories. I remember a female class mate of mine having pictures of a naked man hidden in her bag and taking them out when she wasn't looking. I remember a guy telling me "dirty secrets" about alleged attempts of sex, and I remember thinking that this was plainly lying and trying to be interesting. I remember my first masturbation. I remember my sexual phantasies at the time, and how they changed. I remember vivid discussions between the guys at our walk home about the size and the look of the tits of the female class mates. I remember children of another school walking up behind me and calling me and telling me "She wants to fuck you" and pointing to the biggest girl in their group.
      And I remember being a geek, a nerd, a bookworm even in my sexual phantasies. I calculated the number of women I had to have in my harem given certain probabilities of them becoming pregnant. I set up complicated ranking and classification schemes for the imagined women in my imagined harem.

      So yes. I remember how it was being young and discovering sexuality very well.

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    258. Re:Insanity by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      LOL.

      fag.

    259. Re:Insanity by Alsee · · Score: 1

      If you have sex and use a condom, there is a 2% chance of failure. Every time.

      You are misinterpreting standard terminology. As someone else mentioned, terminology for condom failure is a per year statistic. The pregnancy rate for regular condom users is 2% per year.

      If we conservatively assume a typical condom user having sex just twice per week, that would mean 104 condom uses resulting in a 2% chance of producing a single pregnancy. That means 104*50 = 5200 condom uses on average to result in a single pregnancy. That means a 99.98% success (non-pregnancy) rate per usage, and a 0.02% failure (pregnancy) rate per usage. The average usage rate with condoms is probably more like double that, especially when you factor in that people occasionally have sex / use a condom two or even three times in a single night. That would put the true statistics for condoms closer to 99.99% success vs 0.01% chance of pregnancy per use.

      I didn't say you were "statistically likely" to get pregnant after fifty tries.

      If we multiply what you said out over 50 times, yes, that is exactly what you said.

      You said "If you have sex and use a condom, there is a 2% chance of failure. Every time.". A little basic math multiplying it 50 times works out to 36.4% non-pregnancy rate vs a 63.6% chance of (one or more) pregnancy.

      If you aren't ready to accept the natural consequences of the result of an act, then maybe you shouldn't be doing that act.

      Wow, that is a mind-boggling argument. I is really no different from "if man were meant to fly then God would have given us wings" suggesting that it is WRONG or BAD to build airplanes. Doh. Are you naked, living in a cave, and hunting berries and squirrels with your bare hands?

      The "natural consequences" of jumping out of an airplane is falling to your death.
      Therefore you argue there is something wrong with using parachutes??

      The "natural consequences" of going deep under water is drowning.
      Therefore you argue there is something wrong with using scuba gear??

      What sort of wacky logic is that?

      Some people consider jumping out of airplanes to be fun. Well, if someone finds that fun, we've invented these neat things call parachutes exactly to prevent the "natural consequences" of jumping out of an airplane.

      And just to follow through on that analogy, if someone jumps out of an airplane and their parachute fails and they crash into some trees or something and they are bleeding to death, then you suggest there is something wrong with calling in a doctor to treat that condition and prevent the bleeding from continuing on to its "natural consequence" of death? If your scuba gear fails and you inhale some water then you suggest there is something wrong with you having a doctor intervene to prevent your drowning condition from proceeding to your "natural consequence" death?

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    260. Re:Insanity by Alsee · · Score: 1

      Abstinence only education works about as well as Prohibition did.

      Bad analogy. As far as I'm aware Prohibition did not cause an increase in the drinking rate and alcohol-related diseases.

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    261. Re:Insanity by Alsee · · Score: 1

      The reality is that many people feel they must do whatever is necessary to please others. So many girls are raped because a guy says, "do it for me" or other pressures.

      Yeah... I went to a used car lot and I asked the sales man to sell me a car for $500 below the sticker price, and he decided to go along with my request. An obvious case of theft.

      Yeah... and when a man doesn't want to have sex, and a woman seduces him into changing his mind, that's obviously rape too.

      Rape is a serious crime, and you're making a mockery of it.

      And perhaps you recall the news story of a 17 year old guy who was sentenced to a mandatory 10 year minimum prison term for "statutory rape", for preforming consensual oral sex on his 15 year old girlfriend? Another example making a complete mockery of rape.

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    262. Re:Insanity by Alsee · · Score: 1

      No sane person would call teens sending their teenage boy/girlfriends a dirty picture of themselves pedophiles or bring them up on child porn charges.

      The law does say that, but in this case the law is neither sane nor does it qualify as a person. So I guess your statement remains technically correct :)

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    263. Re:Insanity by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Logic Fail.

      "we even had sex like every other teenager"

      we + every other = all (other meaning - other than ourselves)

      we + other = some

      We have a lovely consolation prize for you. Thanks for playing.

    264. Re:Insanity by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      OK so ... where do you draw the line?

      The Bible also says you shouldn't perform beastiality. Is it wrong there? Or is it right because you just so happen to believe the same?
      Those who feel this is A.O.K may view you as one of those conservatives and being closed minded while you sit and point your finger calling them sick and twisted. Which of you are right?

      WHO'S morality do we decide is right and where do we draw the line in the sand?

      Then someone more liberal than yourself will scream how YOU are the morality taliban.

      I just think for anyone to cite any one group and blame them for certain things needs to examine themselves.

      Personally, the U.S. is a more than a bit uptight where it comes to human sexuality - but it isn't just "conservatives"

      I mean no nudity? Maybe we should just have full out sex with humping and grinding. Or is that too much for your children to see? Or is watching Debbie does Dallas too much for the children?

      Am I being over the top? Sure! But I bet you wouldn't sit down with your 9 or 10 year old and watch porn and think its a perfectly OK thing to do.

      What makes you MORE RIGHT than another group?
      Because you agree with yourself? SHOCKER!

    265. Re:Insanity by falconwolf · · Score: 1

      You're the imbecile.

      Falcon

  2. IANAL, but by mcgrew · · Score: 1

    It would likely depend on how these pics were found. If they were found on a phone confiscated at school, where's the search warrant?

    1. Re:IANAL, but by spidercoz · · Score: 2, Informative

      foolish ninja, schoolchildren don't have the same rights as real people, something I railed against when I was one

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    2. Re:IANAL, but by alexborges · · Score: 1

      By god!

      You ARE anal, aint you?

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    3. Re:IANAL, but by mcgrew · · Score: 1

      I railed against it whan I was in school, too, as well as when my kids were in school. Wrong is wrong no matter how old or young you are.

    4. Re:IANAL, but by spidercoz · · Score: 1

      true, but right and wrong seldom have anything to do with legal and not

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  3. I simply don't understand by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    I simply don't understand how prosecuting teenagers who take nude pictures of other nude teenagers, or appear in such pictures, helps the human sociaty in ANY way at all. Nobody is harmed by this. Aren't there useful things to prosecute instead, such as, people who cause aggression, vandalize cars, etc...?

    1. Re:I simply don't understand by Iphtashu+Fitz · · Score: 1

      IANAL, but I believe most District Attorneys that file these sorts of charges are claiming that their hands are tied and they HAVE to because laws regarding child pornography are so strict. The laws don't make any allowances for something like sexting, even if it's a picture involving somebody who is 17.999 years old. Any sexy picture involving somebody under the age of 18 is considered child porn in the eyes of "the law" according to those idiotic DA's.

    2. Re:I simply don't understand by spidercoz · · Score: 2, Interesting

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    3. Re:I simply don't understand by ipquickly · · Score: 1

      It doesn't help society.

      For most of human history teenagers were already adults.
      Many 12 year olds are capable of having kids. That's how it has been for thousands and hundreds of thousands of years.
      That's how it will be for thousands of years to come.

      It's just our society that puts 'artificial' boundaries on behavior, sometimes resulting in people in their 20's still behaving like kids.
      As our society became more complex, and our roles in it required more skill, people became more dependent on their parents while being educated into becoming a 'contributing' part of society.

      For most of human history, that was not the case.

      Then there are those sick f@ckers who 'like' looking at pictures of naked kids. There must be laws against that.

    4. Re:I simply don't understand by QuoteMstr · · Score: 1

      Prosecutors aren't obliged to prosecute, and juries aren't obliged to convict. That they ignore this discretion and convict anyway is a reflect of the authoritarian streak in American culture.

    5. Re:I simply don't understand by falconwolf · · Score: 1

      IANAL, but I believe most District Attorneys that file these sorts of charges are claiming that their hands are tied and they HAVE to because laws regarding child pornography are so strict.

      Neither am I but I know what's right from wrong and using "it's the laws" as an excuse should not work. It didn't in Nuremberg and shouldn't here. Bad laws are to be opposed.

      Falcon

    6. Re:I simply don't understand by misexistentialist · · Score: 1

      DAs are politicians and as a result are full of shit.

    7. Re:I simply don't understand by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      parent post says:

      IANAL ... that their hands are tied ... porn in the eyes ...

      I just thought that was funny

    8. Re:I simply don't understand by mcgrew · · Score: 1

      The DAs aren't idiotic, they're corrupt. Former Governor and now federal prisoner George Ryan stopped executions in Illinois because the Innocence Project proved that half of the inmates on death row were innocent, and crooked cops and DAs put them there.

      This isn't much different. They don't care about justice, they care about convictions.

    9. Re:I simply don't understand by bill_mcgonigle · · Score: 1

      Prosecutors aren't obliged to prosecute, and juries aren't obliged to convict. That they ignore this discretion and convict anyway is a reflect of the authoritarian streak in American culture.

      I had to sit through a jury-duty session last year or face being caged like a wild animal by the State of NH. We had to watch a video which explicitly says that the jury has to follow all directions of the judge. I was dismissed from each case because I told the judge that I would not follow his orders if they were in conflict with the NH Bill of Rights. I offered a handful of US Supreme Court decisions lauding jury nullification as my rationale.

      Potential jurors will want to visit the Fully Informed Jury Association website before their conscription.

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    10. Re:I simply don't understand by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Wouldn't it be better to dissemble, claim to know nothing about jury nullification, then bring it up during deliberation?

  4. It's inexplicable. by Securityemo · · Score: 1

    Why do people tie themselves and others down with such rough-hewn principles? Of course, you need principles, as the human mind can't analyze every detail of every situation and thing all the time, but is that really the limits of their psyches? People around me, normal seemingly functional people that aren't considered mentally challenged by society in any way, burden themselves with crude approximations, in situations where i just improvise a detailed solution on a whim, without any effort whatsoever. It feels like hubris to think that it's a matter of "intelligence", maybe some people just have a psychological need to think and live like that? Reflexively, I find out that many many people think that I'm some sort of ultra-principled saint/boring rules-submissive stiff... when in fact, I'm quite the opposite. So do they then feel they would be crazed hellraisers, or at least incapable of functioning, if they approached problems like I do?

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    1. Re:It's inexplicable. by spidercoz · · Score: 1

      a fact of nature can hardly be called hubris, some people are simply more advanced, far too few if you ask me

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    2. Re:It's inexplicable. by FredFredrickson · · Score: 1

      The problem isn't the principles, it's the fact that most people adopt principles from what they've learned from society, and never take it upon themselves to analyze the reason for their principles. They never ask themselves if it actually makes sense according to their current belief system. My theory is that once you start asking "why?" it's a short road to existential crisis. Most people avoided philosophy class (or didn't pay attention) because it rocked the boat a bit much..

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    3. Re:It's inexplicable. by alexborges · · Score: 1

      This reflexion you propose is wonderful my dear sir. I concurr with your apreciation in every way depicted.

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  5. Wait a second.... by NeutronCowboy · · Score: 4, Insightful

    On the face of it, it sounds good - it's unlikely parents will agree to child pornography prosecutions against their own child. But looking closer at it, this is just batshit-insanity dressed up with a legal fig-leaf. "Appearing in a photograph provides no evidence as to whether that person possessed or transmitted the photo" sounds to me like they judges are merely arguing that childporn charges do no apply because images themselves do not provide much evidence of who took the picture. It still completely neglects the issue that the current childporn laws apply to people under the age of consent who took naked pictures of themselves! Yes, I know, then there could be a loophole that pedophiles just force their victims to take their own pictures. Honestly - I don't care. The current laws not only make criminals out of people who really didn't do anything wrong, but also terminally fuck someone for the rest of their lives just because they took a picture of themselves.

    Yes, yes, pedophilia is the root password to the Constitution, etc. But apathy and fatalism isn't gonna cut it. Write to your congress critters, and interrupt people who blather on about the danger of random strangers taking pictures. Tell them that they ought to look up the weird uncle first.

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    1. Re:Wait a second.... by 16K+Ram+Pack · · Score: 1

      Yes, I know, then there could be a loophole that pedophiles just force their victims to take their own pictures. Honestly - I don't care. The current laws not only make criminals out of people who really didn't do anything wrong, but also terminally fuck someone for the rest of their lives just because they took a picture of themselves.

      I'm sure the law could differentiate between someone taking a photo of themselves and being directed to do so.

      The problem with the whole thing about naked cellphone pictures is that the generation of parents, lawmakers and so on never had this technology.

      But I had 1 girlfriend who, had cellphones been around 25 years ago, would have been sending naked photos of herself.

    2. Re:Wait a second.... by am+2k · · Score: 1

      Yes, I know, then there could be a loophole that pedophiles just force their victims to take their own pictures.

      Uh, as it is right now, in that situation the victim would get prosecuted, not the pedophile. How is that better?

    3. Re:Wait a second.... by NeutronCowboy · · Score: 1

      If you're looking for an answer from me, you should have read the next two sentences.

      Honestly - I don't care. The current laws not only make criminals out of people who really didn't do anything wrong, but also terminally fuck someone for the rest of their lives just because they took a picture of themselves.

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    4. Re:Wait a second.... by Splab · · Score: 1

      I think one of the most insightful comments regarding "oh my god, think of the children" is your line:

      Yes, yes, pedophilia is the root password to the Constitution

      Not just the US constitution, but pretty much any first world country. A long with the backup password "Terrorism", a lot of the shit me and my friends did as a young kids would get us on all sorts of fun lists around the world, back then it was of course boys being boys...

    5. Re:Wait a second.... by Alsee · · Score: 1

      Tell them that they ought to look up the weird uncle first.

      Actually they should look at the father first, the weird uncle second, the normal uncle third, and after that move on to the priest and the mother.

      And just to vent another beef, I really hate the way reporters and politicians going wacko demonizing the internet. Aside from the fact that almost all abuse is either within the family or family-trusted links such as priests, there is another communication system that pre-dates the internet and which has been used by vastly larger numbers of pedophiles to communicate with children in their homes. That communication network is, of course, the telephone. Almost all "anti-pedo" internet laws (proposed laws or actual laws) should by all logic and by any rational standard, equally apply to telephones. Of course such laws would only draw raging public ridicule if they were proposed in relation to telephones.

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  6. No warrant == stolen by flyingfsck · · Score: 1

    So the school staff stole the phones from the students and then found pictures on them... I think there are multiple grounds to get these cases thrown out of court.

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    1. Re:No warrant == stolen by barzok · · Score: 1

      So the school staff stole the phones from the students and then found pictures on them... I think there are multiple grounds to get these cases thrown out of court.

      The school can likely make a strong argument using in loco parentis depending upon the circumstances around the confiscation of the phone.

    2. Re:No warrant == stolen by zero0ne · · Score: 1

      That doesn't give them the right to rummage through the phone looking at sent txt / picture / chat / search history.

      It would be OK for the officials to take the phones from the students because they were using them in class, and then either give it back at the end of the day / hand it over to the parents, but I don't see any reason a school official should have the right to look through the phone.

    3. Re:No warrant == stolen by shutdown+-p+now · · Score: 1

      Even better, doesn't that mean that all school staff that was, at any point, in possession of the phones, should be charged with possession of child pornography?

    4. Re:No warrant == stolen by tophermeyer · · Score: 1

      Though it might have been improper for the school officials to take the phones and look through them, discovery laws relating to child porn are a lot different than you might expect. Evidence of Child Abuse (and surprisingly Elder Abuse) is something that is generally considered admissible in court cases regardless of how the evidence was uncovered. IANAL, but I believe laws were written this way to allow Police relatively more freedom to entrap abusers and pornographers that targeted children.

      Back to the GGP post, the child pornography cases would not really be affected by the source of the evidence. However if the courts determine that there was nothing illegal about what these kids were doing, they might have a real shot to turn around and sue for privacy/civil rights violations or whatever. (again IANAL)

    5. Re:No warrant == stolen by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Oh, I agree, the school taking those phones is entirely legal. They can take possession of thing people bring to school.

      Oh, that reminds me...when are the school officials being prosecuted for possessing child porn?

      Hopefully those sickos won't be allowed to plea out of it. They possessed child porn on school grounds.

      Hell, from my point of view, considering that only that job would let them take away said phones, it looks like they deliberately got hired at a public school in order to gain access to child porn.

  7. Waitaminute by Khan · · Score: 1

    So this sexting thing is labeled as child porn yet this isn't: http://www.allmusic.com/cg/amg.dll?p=amg&sql=10:0ifyxqq5ld6e

    C'mon people! I continue to be amazed at our country's puritanical stance on sex overall. Yes, child porn and abuse is a VERY bad thing and should be punished by the extreme measures of the law (yes Catholic Church...I'm talking to you) but this kind of stupidity is not acceptable. And as a parent of three, you better believe that I will be on them about sending ANY kind of picture least of all a nude one to their friends. Trust me, I'm not the one that's going to be embarrassed in public about it. If they need to learn the hard way, so be it.

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    1. Re:Waitaminute by FredFredrickson · · Score: 1

      What about nude photos of children.. that are kept in a box until the children turn 18 and then those now-adults decide to release the photos? My heads asplode

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    2. Re:Waitaminute by Khan · · Score: 1

      Dude...that made no sense whatsoever. Lay off the drugs already. You'll be happier.

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    3. Re:Waitaminute by pandrijeczko · · Score: 1

      Here we go... next you'll start preaching about how you can here the devil's voice if you play a Judas Priest song backwards...

      My friend, I've had that album nigh on 30 years, it's a great blues rock album & I had completely forgotten any idea about that being an underage semi-nude model on the cover until you mentioned it; in the same way, now you've reminded me of the fact, I really don't feel the urge to go and sexually abuse an underage girl - if nothing else, my wife of 16 years probably wouldn't approve of such behaviour.

      Yep, child porn is evil and hanging is too good for the people that make the stuff - but put into some *CONTEXT*, please! It's not as though anyone's ever suggested tearing down the ceiling of Sistine Chapel just because there's a few naked cherubs on it.

      People like you need to wake up in the morning having done a complete "reboot" on life - start by assuming that the great majority of adult people in this world a normal, boring, law-abiding citizens who are just getting on with their own lives, and know right from wrong without people like you preaching to them...

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    4. Re:Waitaminute by FredFredrickson · · Score: 1

      Imagine a child of the age 10 playing with a polaroid camera, and takes a picture of his/her naughty bits. The picture makes it way to the bottom of a closet somewhere and is never seen again, until the child grows up and is 18, and thus legal.

      At the young age of 10 I was very aware of sex, although didn't fully understand it at the time, I knew it existed and was very curious.

      Now imagine that same person deciding to release those photos... After the age of consent.. A victim-less crime perhaps? Or VERY BAD?

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    5. Re:Waitaminute by Locke2005 · · Score: 2, Insightful

      By the same argument that insists 3-D CGI of underage sex is unlawful, and even depictions of cartoon characters (e.g. Lisa and Bart Simpson) having sex is child port, that picture of a naked 10-year old is unlawful, even if the photographer/model consents to it's release upon reaching legal age.

      Needless to say, I disagree with these legal principles. People that exploit children should be put in jail. People that paint nude cherubs in the Sistine Chapel should not. People that photograph their newborn naked on a bear-skin rug should not. (Almost every family has photographs or videos of "baby's first bath". It ain't porn.)

      That doesn't change the fact that sending ANYBODY nude pictures of yourself is a very, very stupid thing to do, regardless of your age. On the internet, once it's out there, it's out there forever, and likely to come back to haunt you 40 years later when you're running for public office!

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    6. Re:Waitaminute by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      It made sense. Read it again.

    7. Re:Waitaminute by shutdown+-p+now · · Score: 1

      Now imagine that same person deciding to release those photos... After the age of consent.. A victim-less crime perhaps? Or VERY BAD?

      I'm sorry to disappoint you, but no-one cares about seeing a weenie of a 10 year old splashing in the water. No, really. It's not shameful, it's not offensive, and it just generally shouldn't concern you in the slightest.

      Is there a possibility that someone, somewhere, is jerking off to that? Well, sure, you bet - but, apparently, there are people who'd do that to an emu taking a vicious dump. At this point, you should probably just ask yourself if you actually care; and if you're sane, you really shouldn't care at all.

    8. Re:Waitaminute by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Just do a google search on "Child porn charges" and you will see the first two pages are 90% "XX year old arrested on child porn charges" where X is some value between 12 and 16 years old, or is just 'teen'

      Child pornography laws were made and designed to arrest innocent people for crimes they did not commit.

      Anyone that claims the laws were made to protect children are clearly out of their mind, since they aren't used for that purpose and are specifically redesigned to destroy childrens lives.

      One can of course say an adult having sex with a child who isn't ready is very damaging (and I will be the first to agree)

      But I would be so bold to say that putting a 14 year old in jail for 4 years where they will be raped frequently on a nightly basis is MORE damaging than a 14 year old choosing to have sex with an adult and later realizing she made a mistake.

  8. this "natural human function" by circletimessquare · · Score: 2, Insightful

    can result in fatal or permanently life-altering disease

    and, of course, pregnancy. duh

    combine this with the fact that teenagers are universally fucking retarded (they're green, they're psychologically immature), and it makes a hell of a lot of sense to bind sex up in taboos and rules

    sex is immensely pleasurable. its also an emotional minefield. there is no such thing, nor will there ever be, a successful human society with a cavalier attitude towards sex. sex is extremely powerful. as such, it is treated, and should be treated, extremely carefully, and always will be

    deal with it

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    1. Re:this "natural human function" by spidercoz · · Score: 1

      can result in fatal or permanently life-altering disease

      and, of course, pregnancy. duh

      redundant

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    2. Re:this "natural human function" by Hatta · · Score: 1

      can result in fatal or permanently life-altering disease

      and, of course, pregnancy. duh

      What's the difference?

      there is no such thing, nor will there ever be, a successful human society with a cavalier attitude towards sex

      Depends on your definition of success I suppose. I'd argue that there cannot be a successful society without a free and open attitude towards sex, but that's because I include happiness as a measure of success.

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    3. Re:this "natural human function" by ae1294 · · Score: 1

      combine this with the fact that teenagers are universally fucking retarded (they're green, they're psychologically immature), and it makes a hell of a lot of sense to bind sex up in taboos and rules

      So what you're saying is that if you keep your child locked inside your home until the day the turn 20 they will no longer suffer from this retardation of which you speak?

      It sounds like you forget that what makes a 16 year old unexperienced is a fucking lack of experience! Now if there was only a way for one to gain this experience. Maybe we could call such a thing, life...

    4. Re:this "natural human function" by Paradoks · · Score: 1

      Somehow society thinks it's reasonable to let a 16-year-old drive a car. This decision will kill many of them. Many more than who will die from anything sex-related over their entire life. And I'd imagine that having someone you know and love die/get brain damage/be crippled is more of an emotional minefield than breakups or STIs.

      So, sure, very few human societies have cavalier attitudes toward sex, but the whole car thing shows that it's not just about the actual risks.

      Frankly, if you want a reasonable legal response to sex, taking naked photos wouldn't be a big deal, and teenagers would be prosecuted for sex-related crimes only if they neglected to get tested for STIs or didn't go on birth control beforehand(And condom usage would be mandatory, but I don't know how you'd prosecute for that).

      Is that immoral? Possibly. I don't want the state to care about morality, I want the state to care about actual harm.

    5. Re:this "natural human function" by cayenne8 · · Score: 1
      "sex is immensely pleasurable. its also an emotional minefield. there is no such thing, nor will there ever be, a successful human society with a cavalier attitude towards sex. sex is extremely powerful. as such, it is treated, and should be treated, extremely carefully, and always will be"

      I hear this type thing from time to time...and I just don't get it.

      What is such an emotional minefield about sex?? Hell, 9 times out of ten, it is JUST a physical act of pleasure, no emotion or anything involved..???

      Sex is no more powerful in your life than anything else...unless you let it be for some reason. It is just a bodily function, that is a hell of a lot of fun. Hell, I'd say SLEEP was a more powerful bodily function that sex...I mean, you can live without sex (not fun granted, but possible), yet you cannot live without sleep.

      Why do you and others make claims that sex is this super magical thing, that bows you to its "power"? It is just sex.

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    6. Re:this "natural human function" by JMan1865 · · Score: 1

      Now if there was only a way for one to gain this experience. Maybe we could call such a thing, life...

      Experience is something you don't have until just after you needed it.

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    7. Re:this "natural human function" by Leafheart · · Score: 1

      and it makes a hell of a lot of sense to bind sex up in taboos and rules

      No it doesn't.

      sex is immensely pleasurable. its also an emotional minefield.

      That depends on how you choose to deal it. Look like it is too, I'm sorry to hear that.

      there is no such thing, nor will there ever be, a successful human society with a cavalier attitude towards sex.

      History proves you wrong.

      sex is extremely powerful. as such, it is treated, and should be treated, extremely carefully, and always will be

      deal with it

      No it shouldn't. Just because people like you was raised or had some psychological problems that made you treat it with such fear, just because you can't deal with the good alone, it doesn't mean that it is any more dangerous than a gun to your fucking head (pun not intended) or than a terrorist scarecrow.

      Deal with it!

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    8. Re:this "natural human function" by ae1294 · · Score: 1

      Experience is something you don't have until just after you needed it.

      True... this is exactly why I secretly slip birth control pills in my daughters cereal each and every morning...

    9. Re:this "natural human function" by Labcoat+Samurai · · Score: 1

      Why do you and others make claims that sex is this super magical thing, that bows you to its "power"? It is just sex.

      Well...... if only that were so for most people. Presumably you're making more a point about your own ability to separate the two, because I can't imagine a person getting to an age where they can speak coherent English and not being familiar with the idea that sex can be inextricably tied up with some pretty heavy emotions. Sure, some people swing, but even for many swingers, there's the very real possibility of jealousy or resentment rearing it's ugly head, and there's virtually no one act that can cause so much of that with so much efficiency. The typical wife or girlfriend may grow jealous if you're spending every night hanging out with the guys, but you can get a much more pronounced effect much faster by taking an hour to go sleep with her sister.

    10. Re:this "natural human function" by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      And actually, sex by itself is not an emotional minefield. Human relationships are an emotional minefield. Sex is just a (not that significant) part of that.
      Does it really make a great emotional difference if you're having penetrative sex with your partner, or oral sex, or just petting? To me, there is no clear-cut line between having a relationship and having sex, because the things just come in concert in some form or the other.

      So, do you suggest that we treat human relationships "extremely carefully', wrap them into taboos and rules?

    11. Re:this "natural human function" by Alsee · · Score: 1

      the fact that teenagers are universally fucking retarded

      Actually I'd say people are universally fucking retarded (although I admit I tend to consider myself slightly less retarded than average).

      it makes a hell of a lot of sense to bind sex up in taboos and rules

      Taboos and rules work well with toddlers and small children, where "because I said so" is a solid justification for "don't stick your head in the stove". However teenagers develop bullshit-detectors, and they actively rebel against taboos and fraudulent/irrational rules. This is why, as studies have demonstrated, teens have sex earlier and get pregnant more often and get more STDs when people like you try to shovel abstinence only education programs down their throats. They recognize that they are being force-feed hypocritical and fantasy-land crap, and they lose respect for the people feeding it to them and actively reject everything associated with it. When subjected to taboos-and-rules crap, they disdain the pregnancy and STD warnings as scare tactics. It gets mentally disregarded as just more unreliable preachy garbage.

      Teens inherently become aware of sexuality, they feel it within themselves in addition to seeing that it exists in society around them. And when they are offered information regarding sex, when they are treated with respect and they are offered accurate informative useful information about sex, they eagerly devour that information. It is just about the only area of education where students will almost universally skip hanging with their friends for the chance to go to class and learn about a subject. When they get useful and informative information about sex, they actually value that information, and they value and respect that teacher for being straight with them. When they are taught about the likelihood of pregnancy in a non-preachy non-moralizing non-scaretactic manner, when they are taught honestly about the relatively low but very real risks of various STDs, taught that they can run to the doctor to cure most STDs, taught that herpes is relatively minor but incurable, taught that AIDs is rare but obviously very serious and incurable, they take those risks more seriously than when the taboo-and-rules approach tries to inflate them into some laughable boogiemonster scare tactic. Teens taught comprehensive sex-ed actually do delay their first sex somewhat, and when they do engage in sex they do so far more safely with less pregnancy and less STDs.

      The taboo-and-rules approach to telling kinds not to have sex just backfires, and they develop disdain for everything you have to say about sex. Abstinence education causes teens to have sex earlier, causes teen pregnancy to increase, and it just fuels the spread of STDs.

      Preachy moralizing abstinence crusaders are hurting kids. They make things worse, but they are on such a self-righteous crusade that they go into full blown denial. Their cause is good, their intent is good, they want to make things better and help people, and they refuse to accept the possibility that they are making things worse. They are the good-guys doing the good-thing so they ignore or reject evidence that they are actually causing harm.

      Furthermore, sex offenders are disproportionately raised (created) in deeply religious taboo-and-rules sexually repressive homes. If you are looking for some sexually sick fuck raping and torturing and murdering women, and you have two suspects, one raised on a hippy free-love commune and the other raised in a deeply religious taboo-riddled sexually repressive home, police statistics say the taboo-raised suspect is almost certainly the guilty one.

      Furthermore, there are abundant cases of countries that changed their laws on pornography (either criminalizing it or decriminalizing it), and the fact is that rape and other sex crimes are significantly HIGHER when a culture represses and criminalizes porn, the fact is that rape and other sex crimes are significantly LOWER when a culture accepts

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  9. Stupid question time by Locke2005 · · Score: 5, Insightful

    Why isn't it illegal for the school officials to be in possession of nude pictures of underage children?

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    1. Re:Stupid question time by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 2, Insightful

      Why isn't it illegal for the school officials to be in possession of nude pictures of underage children?

      Because they didn't intend to.

      Oh, wait, that's not a valid argument? My bad.

    2. Re:Stupid question time by Anonymous+Struct · · Score: 2, Funny

      It ought to be illegal to even SEE nude pictures of underage children. Everybody involved should be in jail! If we don't keep the children safe, how will they ever grow up to enjoy the dystopic world we're building for them by keeping them safe?

    3. Re:Stupid question time by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Probably for the same reason why it's not illegal for a lawyer to be in possession of a fully automatic firearm that is evidence in a crime.

    4. Re:Stupid question time by FredFredrickson · · Score: 1

      Perfect defense. My firefox prefetch downloaded every picture on this forum already, your honor..

      What? Not good enough? Oh also I'm a school teacher. Now, if you'll excuse me, I'll be on my way.

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    5. Re:Stupid question time by Locke2005 · · Score: 1

      Anybody that goes through the picture gallery on a confiscated cell phone is OBVIOUSLY looking for something... in this case, it is pretty clear that the DID intend to see nude pictures, otherwise they wouldn't have been looking in the first place! School officials not being trained law enforcement personnel, I'm pretty sure you could get the evidence thrown out of court on evidence "chain of custody" rules anyway.

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    6. Re:Stupid question time by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Yes, I'm sure the cops let the principal keep copies and pass them around in the teachers lounge.

    7. Re:Stupid question time by Securityemo · · Score: 2, Insightful

      Because they are trusted. You have to keep in mind that the reasoning behind all this is that teenage sex is a problem, and that the best solution is just to remove all physical intimacy between the "kids". Nude pictures are a perversion, and if they're on the intertubes, who knows where they'l wind up? In this worldview, good trusted people and pillars of the community would certainly never consciously entertain inappropriate sexual thoughts.

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    8. Re:Stupid question time by earlymon · · Score: 1

      Why isn't it illegal for the school officials to be in possession of nude pictures of underage children?

      To you and the people arguing with you, I say you nailed it in one.

      Not for prurient reasons.

      As I recall, very recently we had to put up with news - again from Pennsylvania! - that a school was using MacBook built-in cameras to illegally spy on children. And that raised the specter of their guilt in kiddie porn, something they didn't count on.

      I'm glad I don't live in Pennsylvania, where children are being crushed under the jack-boots of over-self-empowered school systems.

      I agree - prosecute them as child pornographers.

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    9. Re:Stupid question time by Locke2005 · · Score: 1

      ...good trusted people and pillars of the community would certainly never consciously entertain inappropriate sexual thoughts.

      Riiiight.... it never happens

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    10. Re:Stupid question time by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Your right it is a stupid question, because it shouldn't be illegal for anyone to be in possession of them (minus the part of where the school officials are in possession of them because they stole them from the students, that part should be illegal).

      This crime had no victim, the victim of child porn is the child, if the 'child' is creating the images themselves no crime was committed (unless you think that victimizing yourself should be illegal).

      Additionally nudity is not pornography and thus the crime mentioned isn't even evidenced to have occurred (how do you have child porn without first having porn?).

    11. Re:Stupid question time by Hurricane78 · · Score: 1

      It IS. But apparently everyone buys into those “officials”’ delusional reality, and therefore nobody sues. And when nobody sues, nobody is prosecuted.

      It’s the religious schizophrenia abloom.

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    12. Re:Stupid question time by c++0xFF · · Score: 1

      For the same reason that it's not illegal for police officers to be in possession of confiscated narcotics.

      Now, had the officials been discovered with a cache of pictures they'd kept private, we'd have a completely different situation.

    13. Re:Stupid question time by shutdown+-p+now · · Score: 1

      Everybody involved should be in jail!

      Not good enough. I mean, they could draw those pictures from memory in prison, and share them between the inmates! Would you want a hand-drawn picture of your naked child to be a sexual object for countless inmates, many of them violent, some known rapists??

      What we do is, line up everyone against the wall, and put them down for good. It's the only way to secure a safe future for our children.

    14. Re:Stupid question time by DavidTC · · Score: 1

      As I said before...they've managed to take the one job that would let them take possession of the cell phones of children and browse through them.

      I doubt there are any specific rules about having certain pictures on your cell phone, so they couldn't be looking for those pictures. There are often rules about what clothing depicts, but cell phones are not clothing. I would be astonished if any rule at all says 'You may not have a specific type of pictures in your personal possession that no one else sees.'.

      And the only sort of actual crime possession of a picture there is child porn.

      So, assuming that they weren't just conducting a random invasion of privacy, assuming they were actually 'doing their job' and trying to find something that would actually be verboten at the school by looking through the pictures, child porn is essentially the only thing they could possibly be looking for.

      So, to recap: They got the sole job that would give them access to things that might have child porn on them, and then started looking for it, and found it.

      They're pretty clearly deliberately in possession of child porn. As was mentioned, 'accidentally' isn't much of an excuse, but this is clearly, 100% premeditated, planned-entire-career-around-the-search deliberate possession of child porn.

      And they're working in a school. And had the child porn at school.

      The prosecution rests.

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  10. Background on the ideas by ThousandStars · · Score: 1, Troll

    For those seeking more background on the general insanity of this story and "sexting" in general, see Slate.com's Textual Misconduct and the Economist on America's unjust sex laws: An ever harsher approach is doing more harm than good, but it is being copied around the world. The latter is tangentially related to the main issue but nonetheless useful.

  11. And yet, they tell us to be fruitful and multiply. by falconwolf · · Score: 2, Informative

    That's Jewish though Christians say it too. However they add you can only multiply when granted a church license called marriage. Muslims along with some Christian sects also allow males to have more than one spouse, but females can only have one. Which is called polygyny not polygamy. Now if they allowed females to have more than one spouse as well as males then it would be polygamy.

    Falcon

  12. Victim harassment by Moonrazor · · Score: 1, Insightful

    If the judge has ruled that this photo is not incriminating for the girls in them, because the DA cannot prove that they produced, or distributed the photos then doesn't that mean that the girls are the "victims" here? And if the girls are the victims here, then what does that say about a prosecutor that threatens victims with false charges unless they agree to terms set by him? It sounds to me like the prosecutor is used to badgering the victims in his cases to get the outcome or version of the truth that he desires. I wonder how many other victims this guy has berated or threatened with other charges in order to get them to say what he wants them to say. Might make good ammunition for defense attorneys to ask to have another look at the witnesses that this guy has used in the past. Either way, it's not right. (and yes, I'm new to this planet)

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  13. a free and open attitude towards sex by circletimessquare · · Score: 1

    does not result in happiness. it results in unintended pregnancy and disease. are you happy with herpes and unwanted kids?

    of course, you will respond that people will use protection. and i agree 100%. but that's not the FREE AND OPEN attitude you referred to, now is it? monkeys humping are free and open. homo sapiens wrapping their pecker or taking a birth control pill meanwhile are being RESPONSIBLE, not free and open. i don't know why you see some uneducated morons humping and spreading dozens of oprhans and awful diseases as a definition of success

    so until your half-monkey teenagers develop a little more heft in their prefrontal cortexes, you bind them up in rules and taboos, to save them and your society from disease and unwanted kids, so you, your society, and the physically developed but psychologically immature teenagers have happy lives

    got it?

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    1. Re:a free and open attitude towards sex by Hatta · · Score: 2, Informative

      A healthy understanding of sex includes an understanding of the risks, and the necessary precautions. What it does not involve, in any way whatsoever, is guilt. That's what you seem to be arguing for though. Correct me if I'm misunderstanding you.

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    2. Re:a free and open attitude towards sex by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      If only there was a way to not have rules about sex but still teach people to be responsible...

      hmmm...perhaps that's called an education, or good parenting.

      A good parent will teach their kids about sex, the risks, the necessary precautions. It's still "a free and open attitude towards sex" if you tell your kid to make sure they use a condom and/or birth control.

      Sex should not be taboo, boobs and genitals should not be taboo. Hell, us Americans would be a helluva lot less obsessed with nudity and sex if we didn't have them all bound "up in rules and taboos".

      You have a person who is 16 and someone who is 17, with an age of consent (in this hypothetical land) of 17. Now it's the day before the 16 year old's birthday. If they have sex at 11:58pm, it's statutory rape. if they have sex 3 minutes later, it's perfectly legal. Now explain to me how this makes any sense whatsoever? What did they gain in those 3 minutes that suddenly means they can consent?

    3. Re:a free and open attitude towards sex by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      nope it fuck them up at 30yr and I dont want a fucked up girl...l.

  14. thank you for demonstrating by circletimessquare · · Score: 1

    the inability to perceive the difference between

    1. being responsible about sex and teenagers, and
    2. locking people up against their will

    so you've given us a wonderful example of the kind of psychological immaturity that makes sex amongst half monkey teenagers a threat to society and their own lives

    teenagers are lightweights in the prefrontal cortex. until they develop little more heft in their executive functions of responsibility and planning, you heavily monitor them, to save them, and you, and your society, from disease and unwanted pregnancy

    physical maturity unfortunately does not equal psychological maturity

    understand?

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    1. Re:thank you for demonstrating by ae1294 · · Score: 1

      the inability to perceive the difference between
      1. being responsible about sex and teenagers, and
      2. locking people up against their will
      so you've given us a wonderful example of the kind of psychological immaturity that makes sex amongst half monkey teenagers a threat to society and their own lives

      No I'm sorry I don't understand. It must be that I'm a 'wonderful example of the kind of psychological immaturity' of which you spoke of earlier.

      you heavily monitor them, to save them, and you, and your society, from disease and unwanted pregnancy

      So you treat your children exactly like inmates of a prison? How exactly is that different than 'locking people up against their will' again? But hey I'm sure that's going to work out well for you and your children! How many guards have you hired to monitor them 24/7 again? No access to a phone, computer or book I hope? Surely home-schooled right?

      Good luck with that...

  15. if anything.... by Araekyus · · Score: 1

    if anything, the education here for teenagers should be "how to better protect your privacy/cover your tracks". Sex Ed classes in (most) schools cover the rest of the 'HIV-teen prego-STD-gifts that keep on giving' talk and all that.

  16. Here's all it takes.. by digitalhermit · · Score: 1

    From your yearbook, find a portrait pic. From the Interweb, find a semi-nude model. With Photoshop, or Gimp, or other graphic editor, place the head on the body. Put the image on your phone. Now go show it to the principle and have that person from the yearbook brought up on indecency charges.

  17. responibility and law by falconwolf · · Score: 1

    Id say he presumes he has the responsability for what the child does because, hell, its the law.

    Sure, parents are supposed to be responsible, but with laws being enforced like this the nanny state has taken over responsibility. It's the parents' responsibility to teach their children what's good and bad. Laws without unwilling victims are laws that should not exist. At least there are none I can think of that should exist.

    Falcon

  18. what's the point, dumb law by HelloKitty · · Score: 1

    it's not pornography if you send a picture of yourself. this is commonsense. you own you.

    of course, if who you sent it to sends it out to everyone else... i could see that being 'wrong'. they have no right to do that to you, especially if you're a minor...

    i really don't get why what i just said isn't just the simple law...

    1. Re:what's the point, dumb law by durdur · · Score: 1

      Sure makes sense to me.

  19. Aren't we forgetting something? by __aavevi421 · · Score: 4, Insightful

    Pictures of naked people aren't porn. Pictures of naked children are not porn. Porn is sexual. Nudity isn't. Just because 'someone' thinks it's porn does not make it so.

    1. Re:Aren't we forgetting something? by shutdown+-p+now · · Score: 3, Insightful

      It shouldn't even matter. In a sane world, no-one should ever be prosecuted for making and distributing a picture or video of themselves, even if it is extreme porn.

    2. Re:Aren't we forgetting something? by hatemonger · · Score: 1

      Porn seems to be distinguished from naked pictures based solely on community standards. From the still-lingering influence of America's Puritanical origins, the community standards there are rather strict on anything involving sex, nudity, or children.

    3. Re:Aren't we forgetting something? by joebagodonuts · · Score: 1

      Just because 'someone' thinks it's porn does not make it so.

      Sure it does. Hell, that's the definition. If I think it's porn, then it's porn. The reason "porn" is difficult to define is because what turns nudity into pornography is subjective.

      This isn't about sex or nudity, it's about control. Always has been

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  20. this would be the psychological immaturity by circletimessquare · · Score: 0, Troll

    i am referring to

    in which a completely unrelated fear of yours is projected onto my words and what i am communicating

    me: "sex should be curtailed by teenagers because of disease and pregnancy"

    you: "so you're trying to make me feel guilty?"

    wtf?

    seriously, wtf is wrong with you?

    are 14 yo?

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    1. Re:this would be the psychological immaturity by Hatta · · Score: 1

      it makes a hell of a lot of sense to bind sex up in taboos

      Are not taboos intended to produce guilt?

      See Wikipedia:

      Some taboo activities or customs are prohibited under law and transgressions may lead to severe penalties. Other taboos result in embarrassment, shame, and rudeness.

      My inference is entirely appropriate based on the words you used.

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  21. adu;lt oly sells of condoms by falconwolf · · Score: 1

    first up, Kansas, followed by Oklahoma and Texas

    What, you mean the Texas board of education hasn't already required condom buyers to prove their 18? Actually because the only acceptable birth control is abstinence, using condoms is a sin, I'm surprised they haven't outlawed them.

    Falcon

    1. Re:adu;lt oly sells of condoms by russotto · · Score: 2, Funny

      What, you mean the Texas board of education hasn't already required condom buyers to prove their 18?

      You can get condoms in Texas at any age provided you explain they're for keeping dust out of your rifle barrel. You've got to fast-talk them about metallurgical nonsense to get the ones with spermicide, though.

    2. Re:adu;lt oly sells of condoms by Alsee · · Score: 1

      When in Texas I buy the Extra Large condoms to cover my Bibles in case it rains.

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  22. rights by falconwolf · · Score: 1

    It would likely depend on how these pics were found. If they were found on a phone confiscated at school, where's the search warrant?

    Students on campus don't have rights. That's how school are able to get away with forcing drug testing of students.

    Falcon

  23. Voluntary? by russotto · · Score: 4, Informative
    The District Attorney needs to go to vocabulary re-education class:

    "Participation in the program is voluntary," the letter said. "Please note, however, charges will be filed against those that do not participate or those that do not successfully complete the program."

    Except in OrwellWorld(TM), "obey or be prosecuted" is not "voluntary".

    "Appearing in a photograph provides no evidence as to whether that person possessed or transmitted the photo," said the opinion, by Judge Ambro.

    Not noted in the article was that Judge Ambro specifically credited Captain Obvious, Esq. for his amicus brief on this subject.

    1. Re:Voluntary? by bill_mcgonigle · · Score: 1

      Except in OrwellWorld(TM), "obey or be prosecuted" is not "voluntary".

      The US Government claims that filing taxes is voluntary under the same argument. You don't have to file taxes, you can chose to go to jail or have your babies shot instead.

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    2. Re:Voluntary? by russotto · · Score: 1

      The US Government claims that filing taxes is voluntary under the same argument. You don't have to file taxes, you can chose to go to jail or have your babies shot instead.

      The IRS isn't quite that Orwellian in this case. More Humpty-Dumptyish (Carolinian?). They claim that the tax system is "voluntary" because the taxpayer gets to figure his own taxes rather than just getting sent a bill and told to pay. They don't claim that filing is voluntary (except for certain low-income taxpayers, most of whom are better off if they do file) or that paying is voluntary.

    3. Re:Voluntary? by bill_mcgonigle · · Score: 1

      The IRS isn't quite that Orwellian in this case. More Humpty-Dumptyish (Carolinian?). They claim that the tax system is "voluntary" because the taxpayer gets to figure his own taxes rather than just getting sent a bill and told to pay. They don't claim that filing is voluntary (except for certain low-income taxpayers, most of whom are better off if they do file) or that paying is voluntary.

      It's the definition of 'voluntary' that's the crux - here are two guys arguing both the plain definition and, the (IMHO) Orwellian re-definition.

      Accepting the re-definition of the plain word allows the argument.

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  24. On the face of it, it sounds good by falconwolf · · Score: 1

    No, on it's bald face it sounds horrible. It only smells worse and worse the deeper you get.

    Falcon

  25. Legalize Child Porn by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    I'm serious. I'm not trolling.

    We absolutely should be severely punishing anyone that harms children. Child porn provides evidence of that harm. Child porn is not harm in and of itself.

    Eliminating child porn would not help children. In fact, it would hurt children. Just ask the FBI. The FBI has what is most likely by far the world's largest collection of child porn. Why? Because they use it to find people who harm children.

    If child porn were legalized, this would mean that teens that take erotic pictures of themselves would no longer be prosecuted.

  26. I Think the D.A. is right and shouldn't back down. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    I salute this D.A. because he is doing what people don't want to hear or see done but hey its all these moms that made these rules. All these holier than thou only my kids and not your kids count attitude that got us in this mess. Its all the right wingers. They thought put all the men in prison and all the skanks wont have anyone to knock them up hence lower teen pregnancy.

    I blame nancy grace, chris hansen and all of the fear mongers that told you that if you don't have gps and websites and know 183 random faces from a web page you are putting your kids in danger.

    Its funny how we wrote these laws, and not its biting our kids in the ass. I say let em fry. Cook em all for child pornography because now in this country there are countless cases like this of teenagers having sex and going to prison. A D.A. has to prosecute by whats illegal. What these kids are doing is illegal by the laws we have passed. Even though its so ridiculous and far fetched that its common sense not to prosecute the law doesn't go by common sense.

    Maybe once these kids each get a year in jail and can't go to college or work a decent job for the rest of their lives people will look at these laws.

    For god sakes look at jessica lundsford.. then look at mark lundsford. Then look at joshua lundsford. Yeah it was JOsh who molested a 14 year old girl but didn't get slapped with his daddys laws. He avoided megans law but not for long.

    Thats what happens when you write these feel good do nothing laws.

    Tear down megans law!! Tear down GPS Monitoring!!! Tear it all down!!!

    btw all these laws.. written by 2 of the biggest sex addicts (john walsh) and pedophiles (Mark Foley)

    This is nazi germany, 1984, Pol Pots eutopia. THis is the end of our country and our freedom as we know it.

    some reading material

    http://johnwalshournewgod.blogspot.com/

  27. correction: by falconwolf · · Score: 1

    soft on "crime" either way it is using the state's power to enforce some politician's personal morality on others.

    Correction, it's easier on the politician but harder on those who disagree.

    Falcon

  28. That's what the judges said by Kupfernigk · · Score: 2, Informative

    At this preliminary stage we conclude that plaintiffs have shown a likelihood of success on their claims that any prosecution would not be based on probable cause that Doe committed a crime, but instead in retaliation for Doe's exercise of her constitutional rights not to attend the education program. Therefore, we affirm the grant of a preliminary injunction and remand for further proceedings

    The judges are asserting that there is a likelihood that the prosecutor was retaliating by threatening to prosecute because the Does were seeking to exercise their rights under the law. Isn't this barratry?

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    1. Re:That's what the judges said by russotto · · Score: 1

      The judges are asserting that there is a likelihood that the prosecutor was retaliating by threatening to prosecute because the Does were seeking to exercise their rights under the law. Isn't this barratry?

      It's violation of civil rights under color of law (18 USC 242). Perhaps the FBI should be brought in.

    2. Re:That's what the judges said by alexo · · Score: 1

      The judges are asserting that there is a likelihood that the prosecutor was retaliating by threatening to prosecute because the Does were seeking to exercise their rights under the law. Isn't this barratry?

      It's violation of civil rights under color of law (18 USC 242). Perhaps the FBI should be brought in.

      No, because some animals are more equal then others.

  29. Do it while you CAN!! by cayenne8 · · Score: 4, Insightful
    You know, I see lots of people on this topic saying teen shouldn't be having sex.

    Can NONE of you remember what it was like as a teen and sex?

    Hell, I'd say to young people...sure, be responsible, protect yourself, but get out there and FUCK!! These are you best fuck years, particularly males!!

    Lordy, when you're that age, you can fuck, blow a wad...and keep it hard and start right back up again. Take advantage of stamina and libido while you have it.

    It won't last forever...

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    1. Re:Do it while you CAN!! by TheTurtlesMoves · · Score: 1

      With modern medicine, it can last forever....

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  30. Its been said before but... by Drethon · · Score: 1

    They can legally participate in sexual activity including, at the least, seeing each other nude but having pictures of the same is illegal. Yeah I just can't see that curious logic being repeated too much until someone with the ability to do something about it "gets the picture"...

    Sigh...

  31. Fucking parents? by mangu · · Score: 1

    they should be willing to be fucking parents

    Unless the children are adopted, I see no way to become a parent without fucking.

  32. Education Program? by Nefarious+Wheel · · Score: 1

    Are these "education programs" anything like the ones in China?

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  33. So beatings and forced sodomy in the barracks?! by FatSean · · Score: 2, Funny

    Sorry, the homo-eroticism of military life is not the way I want to raise my son.

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  34. Seriously by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    How is a naked devleoped 16-17 year old girl considered child porn? When I think of child porn I think of under 10.

  35. Holy Shit! by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Did judges actually use common sense in a ruling? What the hell is this world coming to?

  36. bananas by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    if your buying them condoms don't forget the bananas:
    http://www.mnn.com/lifestyle/health/stories/bananas-prevent-hiv-infection

  37. Wait a second, yourself.... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    I *AM* a weird uncle, you insensitive clod !

    And, no, I am NOT a pedophile, nor a pederast, nor a sex criminal of any flavor.whatsoever.

    I hear so much about how it's UNCLES that do all the damage, and you drop me in that same "suspicious" bucket because my brother and sister have female offspring. You know what, go to hell yourself. When I am no longer permitted to play frisbee with my nieces or nephews and their teenage friends of both sexes because you told a congress critter to concentrate on uncles, I hope you're proud of yourself for dismantling intergenerational contact, one of the few remaining opportunities that WEIRD adults like myself get to listen to kids and just maybe pass on a little friendly advice from experience. I know you mean well, but you're just transferring the FUD to another inappropriate target, and you honestly expect a congressman to differentiate and make a sensible decision based on your advising them to "look up weird uncles first", a decision they clearly weren't capable of before being talked to? Idiot.

    I know it's an ENORMOUSLY unpopular and politically incorrect thing to say, but unfortunately child sexual abuse, like any and all other crimes, are crimes of choice of the offender, and the only way to eliminate them completely is to eliminate ALL choice. That's never going to happen, and it's synonymous with fascism. If you don't have the freedom to commit crimes, then you don't have freedom. We can up our prevention efforts to a certain degree, but we have to learn to live with the facts of life: sometimes people will be murdered, people will be injured, people will be raped, people will be robbed, and we can only act AFTER the fact of so many of these nasties. They can NEVER be prevented 100%, but so many folk these days seem to think that's actually a desirable outcome, and we end up with even more ridiculous laws and scenarios as the article describes.
    Calm down, get a clue, and realize that it's a dangerous, dirty world out there, but there's so much MORE beauty and joy and happiness to be had by everyone if you'd spend a little less time worrying and freaking out whenever anything bad actually does happen. You're missing out on life, by focussing on death and damage and disease.

  38. It stands to reason... by Locke2005 · · Score: 1

    If minors can be charged with child pornography for taking pictures of themselves, can they also be charged with rape for masturbating? After all, having sex with someone under the age of consent is statutory rape, isn't it?

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  39. And abstinence only does not work. by falconwolf · · Score: 1

    It's like saying that your microwave oven is broken because a can of tomato soup sitting on the counter isn't getting hot. You have to open the can of soup and put it in the microwave, and then turn the microwave on, before you can expect the soup to get hot.

    There's a big, huge, massive difference between them. You have to put the can in the oven, then watch it explode. Teens on the other hand have to agree to abstinence, which most will not. Even those who sign an abstinence pledge don't keep the pledge. Studies support this:
    Final Nail in the Coffin
    "In the most recent study, researchers compared teens who had taken the virginity pledge to those who had not taken a pledge. The researchers found results similar to the aforementioned studies.'

    "First, the rate of the teens taking part in sex was the same. Those taking the virginity pledge were just as likely to have intercourse. The only positive, statistically small, was that those taking the pledge had 0.1 fewer sex partners over the five year study than did those who did not take such a pledge. "

    Here are more:

    • Many Teens Who Take 'Virginity Pledges' Substitute Other High-Risk Behavior for Intercourse, Study Says.
    • The Problem With Virginity Pledges"
      "...The problem is that even when these sex ed programs are effective in encouraging teens to remain virginal, "effective" may only mean that the programs have convinced teenagers to avoid vaginal intercourse. But vaginal intercourse is not the only sexual activity that can be hazardous to a person's physical and emotional health; oral and anal sex may not lead to pregnancy, but they can spread sexually transmitted diseases (STDs) such as gonorrhea, herpes, and HIV."
    • Are virginity pledges effective?
      "Although they were once the sole province of religious organizations, many secular groups and schools now host events where students sign "virginity pledges" as a way to promote pre-marital abstinence. Today, virginity pledges are also part of most abstinence-only-until-marriage curricula and programs. Research has found that under certain conditions these pledges may help some adolescents delay sexual intercourse. When they work, pledges help this select group of adolescents delay the onset of sexual intercourse for an average of 18 months--far short of marriage. However, the studies also found that those young people who took a pledge were one-third less likely to use contraception when they did become sexually active than their peers who had not pledged. These teens are therefore more vulnerable to the risks of unprotected sexual activity such as unintended pregnancy and STDs, including HIV/AIDS. Further research found that, among those young people who have not had vaginal intercourse, pledgers are more likely to have engaged in both oral and anal sex than their non-pledging peers. In fact, among "virgins," male and female pledgers are six times more likely to have had oral sex than non-pledgers, and male pledgers are four times more likely to have had anal sex than those who had not pledged. And, the research has confirmed that, although some students who take pledges delay intercourse, ultimately they are equally as likely to contract an STD as their non-pledging peers. In fact, researchers found that the STD rates were higher in communities where a significant proportion (over 20%) of the young people had taken virginity pledges. Clearly, virginity pledges are not an effective strategy for keeping young people healthy."

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