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PayPal Told Customer Her Death Breached Its Rules (bbc.com)

dryriver shares a report from the BBC: PayPal wrote to a woman who had died of cancer saying her death had breached its rules and that it might take legal action as a consequence. The firm has since acknowledged that the letter was "insensitive," apologized to her widower, and begun an inquiry into how it came to be sent.

Lindsay Durdle died on May 31 aged 37. She had been first diagnosed with breast cancer about a year-and-a-half earlier. The disease had later spread to her lungs and brain. PayPal was informed of Mrs Durdle's death three weeks ago by her husband Howard Durdle. He provided the online payments service with copies of her death certificate, her will and his ID, as requested. He has now received a letter addressed in her name, sent to his home in Bucklebury, West Berkshire. It was headlined: "Important: You should read this notice carefully." It said that Mrs Durdle owed the company about 3,200 pounds (~$4,200) and went on to say: "You are in breach of condition 15.4(c) of your agreement with PayPal Credit as we have received notice that you are deceased... this breach is not capable of remedy."
According to a PayPal staff member, there were three possible explanations for how the letter was sent: a bug, a bad letter template, or human error. PayPal is continuing to work with Mr Durdle and has written off the debt in the meantime.

241 comments

  1. Human Error by Thelasko · · Score: 4, Informative

    Bugs and bad letter templates all have the same cause: human error.

    Computers don't make mistakes.

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    1. Re: Human Error by TimMD909 · · Score: 4, Interesting

      Computers have it out for us. They always do exactly what we tell them and not exactly what we want them to do.

    2. Re:Human Error by ZorinLynx · · Score: 3, Insightful

      This is a pretty major human error.

      How does someone write: "we have received notice that you are deceased." and not realize something is wrong? Unless the person doesn't know what "deceased" means, which I suppose is possible, but even then you'd expect someone to notice something like this in code review.

      Sending a letter to a dead person (that the company knows has died) is ridiculous on its own; the letter should be addressed to next of kin.

    3. Re:Human Error by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      You obviously never tangoed with a monte-carlo / markov system.

    4. Re:Human Error by Xenx · · Score: 4, Insightful

      To be candid, repayment of outstanding debt is a legal matter. While I do believe this is in poor taste, it doesn't shock me in an official communication about the debt.

    5. Re:Human Error by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

      Memory errors and cosmic events say you are wrong. Or do they?

    6. Re:Human Error by Nutria · · Score: 5, Insightful

      Easy: there's a mail-merge template with the text "we have received notice that you are [reason_code]". At some point, some non-technical manager said that "deceased" should be one of the values, not thinking things all the way through.

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    7. Re:Human Error by bobbied · · Score: 1

      When the probability of what you are talking about is 1 in some 30+ digit number, No, they DON'T happen. Then you add in bit error correction and they REALLY don't happen.

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    8. Re:Human Error by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Bunch of stray molecules in some sludge somewhere got together to self-replicate and ponder their own existence. Wild odds, huh.

    9. Re:Human Error by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      yes, because "technical" people never do bone-headed things or make category errors.

    10. Re:Human Error by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Google's whitepaper on this very matter says you're wrong

    11. Re:Human Error by LifesABeach · · Score: 1

      Hows that H1B visa, and Out Sourcing working for PayPal? You bet your life it's working? LOL

    12. Re:Human Error by LifesABeach · · Score: 1

      One can sue for damages, but once the estate is divested, the estate has zero value.

    13. Re:Human Error by jythie · · Score: 1

      If computers do not make mistakes, then neither do humans.

      Or architecture is more complicated, but there is nothing magical about our wetware and every unexpected result is, deep down, a result of a bunch of rules being followed.

    14. Re:Human Error by jythie · · Score: 1

      I've seen legal documents that basically read like a mad-lib. I could easily see some form letter being mindlessly or automatically filled out based on some context checkboxes.

    15. Re:Human Error by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Exactly. When I hear someone try to use the excuse that "the computer made a mistake", I always call them out. Computers don't make mistakes. People make mistakes. A computer can only do what a person tells it to do, whether that is the person operating the computer or the person who wrote the software running on the computer.

    16. Re: Human Error by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Alive or dead I am responsible for my wife's debts and her mine.

      There is no way an estate can go through probate in 3 weeks.

    17. Re: Human Error by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Sort memory errors in DRAM from alpha particals were common until chip packing was cleaned of slightly radioactive contaminates. (Intel figured this out in the 70s, doesn't mean their fix pushed this to zero)

    18. Re:Human Error by Demena · · Score: 1

      Nonsense, one bit flip can ruin your day

    19. Re:Human Error by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 4, Insightful

      Saying "computers don't make mistakes" is like saying "if we knew everything, we could predict the weather". It's true, but meaningless, because it's predicated on a condition that is impossible to fulfill.

      Consider how many people are involved in running a simple computer program. Start with the team that wrote the program, the team(s) that tested it, the team that maintains it, the team that specced and accepted it, and the team that documented how to fit it into your workflow. The current operator, and the person who trained them, and the person who trained them. The team that specced, wrote, tested, documented, maintained and updated the operating system it runs on, and each of the various utilities and handlers that it depends on. Then the teams that did the same for the underlying silicon architecture, the surrounding network...

      There is no-one alive who even knows who all these people are, let alone is competent to review all their work. Let's assume one of them made an error - maybe an error in programming or testing, but just as likely an error in training ("deceased" should be flagged for special handling), or speccing (there should be a flag that suspends auto-generated letters when some conditions are applied, and that flag must be clearly visible to the person who's maintaining the list of conditions). It may even be an error in integration (this program is tested on Windows 7, but is being run on Windows Server 2012 R2).

    20. Re: Human Error by LifesABeach · · Score: 1

      Poor A/C, what if the estate has a value of $0.00? And after 3 years, the debt is written off as Bad Debt. There are so many ways that one can allow ones spouse to rest in peace. For example, your spouse can wait for you to experience Darwinian Socialism; that's something that happens on a regular basics to A/C's.

    21. Re:Human Error by jedidiah · · Score: 1

      > One can sue for damages, but once the estate is divested, the estate has zero value.

      Community property applies to debts as well as assets. If this is a community property jurisdiction, than the husband is still liable for it. The fact that she died of cancer doesn't alter that.

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    22. Re: Human Error by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Depents on the country, sounds like it was the UK, not sure how it works there

    23. Re:Human Error by mysidia · · Score: 2, Informative

      than the husband is still liable for it.

      No... Unless the debt is jointly in both married person's name: the deceased's estate will be liable for it, if the claim against the estate is made within the time limit ---- the surviving spouse is under no obligation to assume the debt.

      Key assets like Real-Estate are likely to have been titled into a trust, so unless the debt is a mortgage or other secured debt: by the time the deceased's estate is settled out: there might very well be no property for the creditors to claim against.

    24. Re: Human Error by bursch-X · · Score: 2

      Itâ(TM)s a bit like husbands and wives. Husbands might do what their wives say, but the wives want them to do what they think...

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    25. Re: Human Error by bursch-X · · Score: 1

      Maybe it was cosmic rays? Then computers could make mistakes. It had to happen one day...

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      1. Never tell everything you know.
    26. Re: Human Error by superdave80 · · Score: 1

      Is that true? If the debt is in her name, how is he responsible for it?

    27. Re:Human Error by jpaine619 · · Score: 1

      I dunno. Is it wild odds? Are you factoring in the number of planets, in the entire universe, that exist in the habitable zone?

      I'm no expert, but the numbers seem to suggest that it would have been more unlikely for it to NOT happen, at least once.

    28. Re:Human Error by jpaine619 · · Score: 1

      You are quite wrong. I think it's settled science at this point that neutrinos or some type of solar particle can flip bits in computer memory.. So... A computer can make a mistake.. Sort of.. It carries out an operation with corrupted data.. Data that was entered, possibly, by a human and data that WAS correct at the time of entry. But, the output is incorrect.

    29. Re: Human Error by arglebargle_xiv · · Score: 2

      I don't see what the problem is here. She clearly breached Paypal's rules by up and dying without their permission. They should prosecute her to the full extent provided by law to make sure she doesn't go and do it again.

    30. Re:Human Error by BronsCon · · Score: 1

      But on this planet? Of all of them?

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    31. Re: Human Error by gordguide · · Score: 1

      Alive or dead I am responsible for my wife's debts and her mine.

      There is no way an estate can go through probate in 3 weeks.

      I don't know the law / regulations in the UK, but in Canada a will does not automatically require Probate.
      Examples:
      You name an executor, and are unmarried and died with no debt, or all your property (and it's debt) is bequeathed to a spouse.

    32. Re:Human Error by meglon · · Score: 1

      You're getting it backwards. It DID happen on this planet, which is the only reason you're around to wonder "why this planet." Our planet isn't special or unique, it just happens to be where we are.... and as we've never been somewhere else, it's the only frame of reference we have.

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    33. Re:Human Error by BronsCon · · Score: 1

      No, I'm really not getting anything backwards here. What were the chances of it happening on this planet? Of course, the chance that it happened on this planet are 100%; but, before it happened, they were much slimmer.

      And I was replying to a "would have been", which shares a tense with "were", rather than "are".

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    34. Re: Human Error by gordguide · · Score: 1

      In addition to my previous comment:

      Neither my mother's nor my father's, nor my brother's estates went through probate.

      In the case of my father, he bequeathed cash to both his children, via accounts of $10,000, which is some kind of statutory limit. My sister and I had certified cheques in our hands about two weeks after death. The remaining property went to my mother. The estate did not require Probate.

      In the case of my mother, who died later, she bequeathed cash disbursement from what remained in her retirement account, which exceeded six figures, to five children and eight nieces and nephews. The estate did not require Probate.

      My brother died with no debt, unmarried, and his estate did not require Probate.

      What may make Probate necessary is when there are Estate Taxes due, which is a common situation for residents of the US.

      In Canada the Executor simply files a final return, which does not need to be professionally filed. It simply covers the period from the last return to the date of death. There are no Estate Taxes in Canada; 100% of your assets can be bequeathed.

    35. Re:Human Error by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      No this is just Paypal doing what Paypal does, being a shitty blood sucking company....

    36. Re: Human Error by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I'm sorry, but you are dangerously wrong. Computers are physical machines and suffer from the same limitations and interactions with entropy as any other machine. Power fluctuations, cosmic radiation, thermal electrons, weak DRAM cells, tin whiskers, inductive or capacitive crosstalk, magnetic domain flips, etc, etc. There's quite a substantial list of how computers can make mistakes, in fact over the years we've built in a large number of correction mechanisms, which can still be fallible. What are they teaching kids these days?

    37. Re:Human Error by jpaine619 · · Score: 1

      Your logic is flawed. It could have happened on any planet, and that's where we'd be. We're here because it happened here. There is nothing special about Earth.. We could be 150 light years to the left, and we'd have named that planet EARTH, and maybe we'd have two moons, but that's where we would be.

      The odds have nothing to do with THIS ball of rock. I'm saying the odds favor it happening ONCE (at least). There are like 10,000,000,000,000,000 planets out there..(10^22). Do you realize think it's "lucky" it happened once? I personally would be surprised if it's only us.. 10^22 is a big fucking number..

      Maybe another way to put it is this... The lottery... the odds are 1 in 250,000,000 of winning.. Right? (close enough for discussion)

      But..There is always a winner yes? i.e. It always happens... it would be more weird if they had a lottery and nobody won. It doesn't matter that the odds are 1 in 250,000,000. That's just "per person". The odds for the lottery as a whole are nearly 100%.

      So.. maybe the odds of any given planet developing life are 1 in 100 billion... But.. there are so many planets out there that it always happens.. eventually.. For us, it was here... But it doesn't matter on the whole.. It could have happened "over there". It still happened, and "over there" would be Earth... if you catch my drift..

    38. Re: Human Error by houghi · · Score: 1

      That is not true in e.g. Belgium. If the person dies, all assets and debts will go into the heritage. Often this is the spouse and kids. They will have to pay the debt. If the debt is larger than the assets, they can decline the inheritage.
      You can inly decline or accept the whole, not part of it. As this was in the UK I would expect it to be similar.

      What I do nott understand is why they asked for the woll, as that, by itself, is meaningless. A will is a wish of how you want it devided and if that is legal depends on the law. I could e.g say my kids get nothing, but that does not make it possoble, because of the law.

      Where I work, we ask for the final inheritance and then send those the bill. Bit more comolicated thsn that, but that is the gest of it.

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    39. Re: Human Error by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Holy moly, I can't tell if all those spelling mistakes are part of some hidden joke or not. In any case, it makes your post incredibly hard to read.

    40. Re: Human Error by michelcolman · · Score: 1

      It must be fun being a computer.

      "It looks like you are trying to do X. But you didn't type it quite correctly or unambiguously. Therefore, I will do Y just to mess with you..."

    41. Re:Human Error by meglon · · Score: 1

      Actually, before it happened here, on this planet, the odds were 100%. How do i know this? Because we are here now. That's the backwards part people don't get... you can claim any vastly small odds you'd like, and those may be true for some other planet... but for Earth, we are here now... so the odds were/are 100%.

      This isn't an uncommon argument, especially among the creationist groups. They cite some outlandishly large chance that abiogenisis couldn't happen, or that an eye could eventually evolve, as a proof that it can't.... yet, it did. That's the part they just don't understand... it did. So whatever odds they cite are simply wrong. It happened, so obviously the odds were 100% that it could happen.

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    42. Re:Human Error by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I doubt it is what happened here, but technically receiving notice that someone is deceased does not mean they are actually deceased. If someone received notice that I am deceased, alive me would like to know about that.

    43. Re: Human Error by rkordmaa · · Score: 2

      Depends on local legislation, over here if you accept the inheritance you also receive financial obligations of the deceased. In case liabilities exceed assets the smart thing to do is to disclaim your inheritance, in which case the right to inherit goes down the line until no more inheritors can be found or some sucker claims the inheritance. It can be a proper family tree get-together for everyone to sign off on their disclaimers and wash their hands of the problem.

    44. Re: Human Error by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Is that true? If the debt is in her name, how is he responsible for it?

      He is likely to be the executor of the deceased's estate.

      I must admit, when I saw this story I immediately thought about fraud. If someone who is dying were to deliberately go into debt by transferring money to a friend or family member you'd hope there'd be a way to recover that money, even if the estate was bankrupt and the friend or family member was not an heir or executor.

    45. Re:Human Error by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Pick up a pack of cards, throw them up in the air, note the order the cards landed in.

      Now what are the odds the cards would land in that particular order?

      You really can not look at an event and calculate the odds of that specific event happening after the fact and expect to get meaningful results.

    46. Re:Human Error by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      How do you end up owing PayPal ???

    47. Re:Human Error by Megol · · Score: 1

      Then the humans made a mistake when designing the computer _or_ operated it incorrectly (e.g high altitude).

    48. Re:Human Error by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Sending it to the esate would probably be a better choice than the next of kin.

    49. Re:Human Error by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Seriously? Over here you can either take (your share of) the entire estate, including all liabilities, or waive you right to all of it. Are you really claiming that in the US, debt is practically evaporating at death?

    50. Re: Human Error by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      so true.
      I repeatedly tell my wife that I cannot read minds, and that if I could I would not for ethical reasons.

    51. Re: Human Error by Oswald+McWeany · · Score: 1

      I don't see what the problem is here. She clearly breached Paypal's rules by up and dying without their permission. They should prosecute her to the full extent provided by law to make sure she doesn't go and do it again.

      I am very conscious of all my obligations and debts; therefore I haven't died and won't until I am no longer in breech of anyone's terms of conditions by dying.

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    52. Re:Human Error by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Unless the person doesn't know what "deceased" means

      Please understand that not everybody is born with English .... you as employer get what you are paying for ...
      and Ctrl-C Ctrl-V are beautiful tools of trade ...

    53. Re:Human Error by Bengie · · Score: 1

      Isn't that like saying a person who won the lottery had 100% odds of winning the lottery? By that usage of the term, the odds of anything in hindsight is 100%. Congratulations, you just made the word meaningless.

    54. Re:Human Error by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      What happened here is that the record for this person has a "status" field, which can contain any number of different values. One of those values is "deceased". The person who wrote the "breach of contract" form letter clearly was not thinking that "deceased" was a possible status, and indeed the letter may have been written before "deceased" was added as an option.

      Obviously if the letter were intended to be sent to deceased people it would be written in third-person and addressed to the next of kin or estate executor rather than written in second-person and addressed to the person who died!

      dom

    55. Re: Human Error by jabuzz · · Score: 1

      In this context there is no UK, it's England, which does not include Scotland which has a different legal system.

      Basically if when the estate of the deceased is wound up it is found to be in debt, then that debt is written off.

    56. Re:Human Error by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I don't know the odds off the top of my head, but it's not 1 in some 30+ digit number unless you're talking about the individual bits, and even then, that seems a bit optimistic. After all, it is a big enough of a problem that for critical tasks, they sell ECC RAM. I'd guess it's in the range of 1 in some 17 digit number for any particular bit in RAM. That'd be somewhere in the order of 1 in 10 million for a particular machine, which seems often enough to justify the existence of ECC RAM but also not have computers crashing all the time.

    57. Re:Human Error by jabuzz · · Score: 1

      May be but this happened in the United Kingdom and as per Ferguson v British Gas Trading Ltd. the UK supreme court where quite scathing on the notion of a crappy computer system being an excuse under the law. If your companies computer system does bad then the company is legally on the hook.

    58. Re: Human Error by parkinglot777 · · Score: 1

      Is that true? If the debt is in her name, how is he responsible for it?

      Do you really want to know? Then you should read this for more information.

    59. Re:Human Error by parkinglot777 · · Score: 1

      Seriously? Over here you can either take (your share of) the entire estate, including all liabilities, or waive you right to all of it. Are you really claiming that in the US, debt is practically evaporating at death?

      It is also depended on the local (state) laws and the kind of debt, but most likely yes the uncollected debt could be evaporated once the debtor is dead (and all the deceased assets have been probated and distributed).

    60. Re:Human Error by hey! · · Score: 1

      Except "error" is really too vague a term; many bugs are the result of a program operating as specified, it's just that the people doing the specification didn't think through the implications. The exact same thing is true for manual systems.

      So in cases like this a company will say it was a computer bug as a way of suggesting this wasn't the result of corporate culture. But some bugs are the result of corporate culture.

      PayPal decided it would be a good idea to send ominous letters to people who couldn't pay their debt through some system -- it doesn't matter whether the system is manual or computer automated. What matters is that, as an economical measure, they decided it'd be more profitable to take human judgement out of the decision to threaten someone. So this is absolutely a reflection of who PayPal is as a company; the only thing that makes it a bug is that it doesn't reflect how they wish to be seen.

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    61. Re:Human Error by BronsCon · · Score: 1

      Your logic is flawed.

      Oh? Let's review.

      It could have happened on any planet, and that's where we'd be.

      In other words, before it happened, the odds that it would this planet were, more or less, the same as the odds of it happening anywhere else. With there being so many planets, the odds were pretty slim.

      We're here because it happened here.

      In other words, the odds that it did happen on this planet are 100%

      All you did was restate what I just said in a different way. Two different ways, actually. Except that your lottery example was flawed because no, there's not always a winner; why do you think the jackpot grows most weeks?

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    62. Re:Human Error by BronsCon · · Score: 1
      Actually, you're conflating were and are, but timing matters with odds. Before an even happens, there is uncertainty; after it happens, there is certainty. Ask any quantum physicist if the odds of anything happening are ever 100% and they'll laugh at you; then, ask them if the odds that anything happened are ever 100% and they'll tell you, with a straight face, that they are 100% certain that everything that has happened has happened.

      When a bride throws her bouquet into the crowd, there's an even chance that any woman there might catch it*. That is, before it has been thrown and caught. After the event, there is a 100% chance that whoever caught it did catch it.

      This isn't an uncommon argument, especially among the creationist groups.

      And yours isn't an uncommon argument among creationists, either. Essentially, what you've just said boils down to "nothing comes down to chance because God has already decided what should and will be."

      * okay, the odds are better if you're near the middle, but I digress; the point is the chance of any single woman catching it is less than 100% and, on average, will be 1:[number_of_women]

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    63. Re:Human Error by jamlam · · Score: 1

      More so than that, the list of possible reason codes comes from another database that no-one ever thought would end up in a letter as it's just an internal list of reasons why they might not be able to recover a debt in the accounting system. The joy of integration...

    64. Re:Human Error by Nutria · · Score: 1

      This is not a binary zero-sum problem.

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    65. Re: Human Error by stdarg · · Score: 1

      Out of curiosity, if the assets are divided in some way is the debt also divided? What if one person inherits cash and another inherits a house, do they split the inherited debt even though the house is not liquid?

    66. Re:Human Error by PrimaryConsult · · Score: 1

      Ever read the terms of a life insurance policy? They say a lot of things which don't quite make sense when viewed through that lens. Like, mixed in with things intended for you to use in times of need; eg:
      -if you have lost two limbs in an accident, you are entitled to a 50% benefit
      -if the aircraft or other vessel you were travelling on has disappeared, sunk, or wrecked and your body has not been found within one year, you will be presumed dead.

      Like, two different people are going to be reading those two lines at the time they would apply...

    67. Re:Human Error by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      not thinking things all the way through

      That job is for the other PHB, in the next room down the hall. No, not the corner office. "We're all fighting each other for that one."

    68. Re: Human Error by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Just like Conservative judges.

    69. Re:Human Error by meglon · · Score: 1

      Essentially, what you've just said boils down to "nothing comes down to chance because God has already decided what should and will be."

      No. What i'm saying is, once something happens, the odds of it having happened are 100%.... and BECAUSE it happened, the odds of it happening prior to that were 100% BECAUSE we know it happened. We can't tell the future; anything is possible (if not extremely unlikely). Bigfoot could be found riding on Nessie leading a pack of aliens and unicorns. We can't say that's 0% never (even though the odds would be unimaginably small), but that's because it's in the future.

      Bunch of stray molecules in some sludge somewhere got together to self-replicate and ponder their own existence. Wild odds, huh.

      This is the quote that started this, and ultimately it's more a strawman argument than anything (abiogenesis wasn't a bunch of random molecules... Ochem isn't near as random as some people want to make it out to be). But the simply fact is, when we ask something like "but what are the odds of it happening (life starting)," the answer is 100%.... because it has happened.

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    70. Re:Human Error by jpaine619 · · Score: 1

      Of course the lottery example was flawed. But it makes the point.. And yes, someone always wins. Maybe not "this week", but eventually. The amount of tickets purchased (planets in existence) eventually exceeds the huge odds against winning (developing life). Since it's all random (in theory) even if 200 million tickets are purchased, it may not happen this week, but eventually....

      Otherwise, yes.. You're right.. Our planet may or may not (we're getting partially philosophical here) have had terrible odds against it happening exactly here.. But it had to happen eventually..

    71. Re:Human Error by davek · · Score: 1

      Unsecured debt (e.g. credit cards) dies with you. It cannot be inherited or passed on. That's why you pay 25% interest on those evil plastic cards.

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    72. Re:Human Error by jpaine619 · · Score: 1

      Well, I disagree. We'll have to leave it at that.

    73. Re:Human Error by datavirtue · · Score: 1

      So they experienced typical PayPal customer service. Got it.

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    74. Re:Human Error by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Bigfoot

      Ok.

      could be found riding on Nessie

      Ok

      leading a pack of aliens

      Ok

      and unicorns.

      Hold on there; now you're just being silly.

    75. Re:Human Error by jwdb · · Score: 1

      Seriously? Over here you can either take (your share of) the entire estate, including all liabilities, or waive you right to all of it. Are you really claiming that in the US, debt is practically evaporating at death?

      No, he's not. To clarify GP's point, "the surviving spouse is under no obligation to assume the debt" BUT if they don't do so they also can't inherit the assets It's a package deal, exactly the same as what you describe.

      Of course, that doesn't stop unscrupulous debt collectors from hounding heirs who've walked away, trying to make them think they're legally responsible for the debt anyway.

    76. Re:Human Error by datavirtue · · Score: 1

      I'm going with this one.

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    77. Re:Human Error by datavirtue · · Score: 1

      Being one of their lucky customers. I do not recommend it. Shit security, shit customer service....just Shit.

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    78. Re:Human Error by datavirtue · · Score: 1

      Really? because that is not what happened here.

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    79. Re:Human Error by datavirtue · · Score: 1

      "Of course, the chance that it happened on this planet are 100%; but, before it happened, they were much slimmer."

      I'm no math guru but I don't think that is how it works.

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    80. Re:Human Error by BronsCon · · Score: 1

      No. What i'm saying is, once something happens, the odds of it having happened are 100%

      So, you mean to tell me I was correct when I said this

      Of course, the chance that it happened on this planet are 100%

      I see.

      BECAUSE it happened, the odds of it happening prior to that were 100% BECAUSE we know it happened

      Funny, because if you ask and scientist (regardless of field) or statistician what the odds were that an event that happened in the past would have happened the way it did, very rarely will you hear them say 100%. Thus:

      but, before it happened, they were much slimmer

      But I also think I see the problem here:

      This is the quote that started this

      Huh? Earlier, I said:

      And I was replying to a "would have been"

      Now, I don't see a "would have been" in what you quoted as "the quote that started this". Do you? No. The quote that started this (and I should know, because I replied to it before you showed up) was:

      I'm no expert, but the numbers seem to suggest that it would have been more unlikely for it to NOT happen, at least once.

      But the simply fact is, when we ask something like "but what are the odds of it happening (life starting)," the answer is 100%.... because it has happened.

      Yes, but before it happened, the odds were 1:([possible_combinations_of_compounds]*[possible_circumstances_within_each_combination_may_exist]); much like the odds of you having won the lottery are 100% if you win, but they weren't 100% before you won (if you did).

      This is an argument over are-vs-were semantics and, honestly, it's quite silly. I clearly said "were", I clearly pointed out that I had said "were", and you're arguing "are" when I've already agreed with that point. Tense (timing, e.g. past, present, future) matters.

      A lot.

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    81. Re:Human Error by BronsCon · · Score: 1

      Very well said.

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    82. Re:Human Error by BronsCon · · Score: 1

      Picture this:

      You just won the lottery.

      Therefore, the odds that you won the lottery are 100%, because it has happened.

      Before you won, the odds were considerably slimmer.

      Follow?

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    83. Re:Human Error by Xenx · · Score: 1

      The laws around the debt can vary by location. In one example, a quick search online mentions that unsecured debt is paid by the estate. Secured debts have priority, then unsecured debts, and then whatever is left goes to the beneficiaries.

    84. Re:Human Error by jpaine619 · · Score: 1

      I really think we're mixing terms here. I don't think it's accurate to say "odds" when talking about stuff that has already happened.. I think that's where the confusion is coming in.. Maybe it's technically correct English and maybe it's not.. But it is with 100% certainty (haha) confusing..

    85. Re:Human Error by BronsCon · · Score: 1

      I don't think it's accurate to say "odds" when talking about stuff that has already happened

      That depends, really, on whether you're referring to the time before it happened, or the time after. When I talk about what the odds were, I'm talking about the time before. Of course, once it's happened the odds are 100% and it's really not proper to discuss odds in that manner; I was following the convention someone else had used earlier in an adjacent thread for simplicity's sake, as the point I was making referred to odds before there was life and the propriety of discussing odds after the fact really didn't come into play in that.

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    86. Re: Human Error by houghi · · Score: 1

      Most of the time people will inherit equal parts determined by law.
      This means e.g. when the last living parent dies, I get half and my sibling gets half. That goes for the house and for the money and for the debt.

      If there is a will and it is legal to do so to give one the house and the other the bank account, it will depend on how the will is made up and it will then be determined who is the owner of the debt. If no owner can be determined, it will fall on both siblings.
      So if the will says A gets the house and B gets the rest, the debt will be 'the rest'. That means B could decline the will. That means no money from the bank account, but also no debt.
      That would mean the debt and the rest would go to A., including the bank amount and the debt.

      If it would have said "A gets the house and B gets the money (assuming it is legal to do so) there is no mentioning of the debt, so it goes to both 50/50.

      This is all extremely simplified and will depend very much on the law. And it might not even be the law that you think it is.

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    87. Re:Human Error by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Early pentiums did.

    88. Re: Human Error by j-beda · · Score: 1

      I don't know the law / regulations in the UK, but in Canada a will does not automatically require Probate.
      Examples:
      You name an executor, and are unmarried and died with no debt, or all your property (and it's debt) is bequeathed to a spouse.

      Who's spouse? According to the example, "you" are unmarried.

  2. You can not apologize yourself! by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    You can ask to to be forgiven. And then get it. Or not.
    The point is, that you cannot do it to yourself!

    "I murdered your mother. But I apologized. So everything is fine. Why are you still mad, you asshole?!"

    1. Re:You can not apologize yourself! by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      The Fine Summary uses the phrase:

      apologized to her widower

      What issue do you have with this wording?

    2. Re:You can not apologize yourself! by sjames · · Score: 1

      No, you can certainly offer an apology. It's up to the offended party to accept it or not.

    3. Re: You can not apologize yourself! by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      If you wish to sue do not accept an apology. Or that's all you will get.

    4. Re:You can not apologize yourself! by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Look up the etymology of apology. It comes from a Greek word meaning "a speech in defense". You certainly can apologize (offer a speech in defense), but if the other party doesn't accept your apology everything isn't fine. An apology doesn't imply acceptance, it can be accepted or rejected.

    5. Re:You can not apologize yourself! by fedos · · Score: 1

      Buy this man a dictionary.

  3. Luckily, he's not in Germany ... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0, Funny

    ... Where your spouse or children automatically inherit your debt. With 40% taxes on top because fuck you.

    Yeah, if we Germans could, we would marry the concept of rules, have children with it, and raise the most insane ones as new citizens to replace our country's population.

    I'm German by the way. You can tell from the comlaining and negativity. You just breached rule 27964 section q subsection MCMXVII of the BGBWTFBBQO, 2019 edition, applying retroactively to yo momma.

    1. Re:Luckily, he's not in Germany ... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 4, Interesting

      I don't believe that is entirely true. You can decline an inheritance if the estate in Germany is indebted.

    2. Re: Luckily, he's not in Germany ... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Correct. And there is no tax on top. On the contrary, were you to accept to inherit the debt it would lower your income and thus tax.

    3. Re: Luckily, he's not in Germany ... by willaien · · Score: 5, Informative

      You must do so in a timely manner, in writing, notarized by a lawyer. It's assumed by default that you accept it if you don't do this.

    4. Re: Luckily, he's not in Germany ... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      And why wouldn't that be the default? An inheritance should not have to be something you opt-in to.

    5. Re: Luckily, he's not in Germany ... by willaien · · Score: 4, Insightful

      Yes, but, in this case it's inheriting _debt_ by default unless you explicitly opt out.

    6. Re:Luckily, he's not in Germany ... by Locke2005 · · Score: 0, Flamebait

      As a German, do you agree with this statement: The biggest difference between the Trump administration and the Nazis is that the Nazis were much better at keeping records!

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    7. Re: Luckily, he's not in Germany ... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Which is massively fucking retarded.

      Leave it to Germans to do something inhuman...

    8. Re: Luckily, he's not in Germany ... by kuldan · · Score: 1

      sad thing about this is - as bad as the nazis were, they had a plan and kept to it - sometimes too well. trump on the other hand seems to do one random thing after the other...

    9. Re: Luckily, he's not in Germany ... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I claim Godwin's Law bingo!

    10. Re: Luckily, he's not in Germany ... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

      In the US if you're forgiven a debt that is like income. So if PayPal says you owe $15k but doesn't make you pay, you owe taxes on that.

    11. Re: Luckily, he's not in Germany ... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      So did the Nazis. Just check how many different ways they came up with to deal with the Jews.

    12. Re: Luckily, he's not in Germany ... by jedidiah · · Score: 1

      These days you could get seriously rich if that sort of thing were actually worth any money. You could have retired in style before Grandmaster Troll was even elected.

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    13. Re: Luckily, he's not in Germany ... by bursch-X · · Score: 5, Funny

      In Japan mortgage loans comes with a life (actually death) insurance, so if I die before my loan is paid back, my wife gets the house, without paying a penny back. And no, she has no plans of killing me. The house isn't that great.

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      1. Never tell everything you know.
    14. Re: Luckily, he's not in Germany ... by bursch-X · · Score: 1

      So Hitler is like Santa, because he's got a list and he's checking it twice. And Trump isn't literally Hitler. See? I always knew Slashdot is the place for stuff that matters!

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      1. Never tell everything you know.
    15. Re: Luckily, he's not in Germany ... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      The biggest difference between Trump and the historical German Nazis, is that the Nazis were Nazis, whereas President Trump *defeated* the Nazi candidate Clinton despite her widespread efforts at election fraud.

    16. Re: Luckily, he's not in Germany ... by jpaine619 · · Score: 3, Interesting

      You are over simplifying. The law does not apply to all cancelled debts. It _mostly_ applies to debt that is a result of borrowing. i.e. you borrow $10,000 from a bank.. You never pay it back and eventually the bank writes it off (cancels it). You have effectively been paid $10,000. Thus it's income (sort of).

      Now, you rack up $10,000 in long distance phone charges and AT&T cancels the debt. You do not owe the IRS a dime. You were never given money. Although, you certainly don't get to write off the $10K bill from AT&T since you never paid it, and this may push you up to a higher tax bracket...

      That is, this law mostly applies to debt that involves the exchange of monies, from what I can tell. As with all things IRS, it's not crystal clear and you have to be a lawyer / CPA to be damn sure... But, your statement is demonstratively false, according to the IRS's own convoluted documentation.

    17. Re:Luckily, he's not in Germany ... by jpaine619 · · Score: 3, Insightful

      If you are serious, you are a fucking retard. I don't care how much you dislike Trump, to equate him with a philosophy that killed tens of millions of people is insulting to both groups.

      Trump may be a giant asshole, but he's not rounding up Jews and gassing them.

      I don't know which is worse.. The fact you imply Trump is as evil as Nazis or the fact that you make Nazis out to be less evil than they really were, by reducing them to the level of Trump.

    18. Re: Luckily, he's not in Germany ... by meglon · · Score: 0

      And yet all the neo-nazi's voted for Trump instead of their own Nazi party candidate. And lets not forget:

      https://www.aol.com/article/20...

      https://www.motherjones.com/po...

      https://www.vice.com/en_us/art...

      https://thinkprogress.org/gop-...

      So, this begs the question about your statement: Are you a fucking idiot, a fucking liar, or both?

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    19. Re:Luckily, he's not in Germany ... by 91degrees · · Score: 1

      I think the biggest difference is that calling the Nazis Nazis was not hyperbole.

      Criticism of things such as the way refugees are being handled is legitimate. In fact it's very important. But I think it's better to criticise it on the basis of fundamental wrongness and not assume it's only wrong because of Hitler parallels.

    20. Re:Luckily, he's not in Germany ... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      It's 0% taxes, by the way, for inheritance worth less than 400.000 EUR. If the value is negative, just go to a court and decline the inheritance as whole.

    21. Re: Luckily, he's not in Germany ... by darth.hunterix · · Score: 1

      By default you inherit all debt, or only up the value of assets?

      Where I live when someone leaves you with a debt you have three options. Let's assume the spouse left with a house worth 1 000 000 and 2 000 000 in debt:
      1. Take everything
      2. Take all assets and debt up to the value of assets (the house and 1 000 000 of debt) - default option
      3. Take nothing, everything goes to YOUR next of kin (as if you were dead as well), who has to make the same decision

      Which one is default in Germany?

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    22. Re: Luckily, he's not in Germany ... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      You certainly don't need a lawyer, but a notary is one option, but it's easier to just declare within 6 weeks at the relevant probate court, fees will be at least EUR 15.

    23. Re: Luckily, he's not in Germany ... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Ugh, "Internet lawyers" are so stupid.

    24. Re:Luckily, he's not in Germany ... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I saw an interview with a holocaust survivor where they asked what he thought about people who compared Trump to nazis. His response was somewhere in the area of calling those people naive children and idiots.

      I'd say the biggest difference between the nazis and Trump is that Trump isn't wholesale slaughtering people based on race, religion or sexual orientation. There's other differences I'd say as well that are quite significant, but I'd say that's the single biggest difference.

      Jackass.

    25. Re: Luckily, he's not in Germany ... by willaien · · Score: 1

      The default in Germany is 1. You assume all debt and assets, even if there's a thousand dollars worth of assets and twenty thousands of dollars worth of debt. In order to not inherit the debt in such a situation, you must disown your inheritance as I described above.

    26. Re: Luckily, he's not in Germany ... by willaien · · Score: 1

      Notaries in Germany are apparently lawyers. https://guides.library.harvard...

    27. Re:Luckily, he's not in Germany ... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 2, Insightful

      First of all, Nazis did more than round up Jews and gas them, so there are plenty of ways to be like Nazis without actually murdering Jews.

      Second, is your objection that he hasn't gotten around to persecuting Jews, or that he hasn't implemented mass murder yet? Because Hitler didn't campaign on a platform of death camps. His platform was about getting rid of illegal immigrants and making Germany great again. There were even Jewish organizations that supported Hitler because they also didn't want to be infested with illegal immigrants -- at least until such organizations became illegal.

      Hitler took away Jews' citizenships so he could deport them without trial. Trump just set up a denaturalization task force to take away citizenships and wants to deport people without trial.

      The problem with mass deportation is that it proved impossible, so eventually mass murder was chosen as the final solution. At this stage in Nazi history, though, Hitler was still a Zionist.

      Even if Trump does not currently display the level of evil that Hitler did in 1944, you can clearly see from his disdain for the likes of Trudeau and Merkel and his admiration of dictators like Putin and Kim that he really wishes to be that evil.

      The slogan "Make America Great Again" was even the name of a pro-Nazi organization that wanted America to not go to war with Germany!

      After the rally in Charlottesville, where one side had people marching with Nazi flags and the other side had somebody murdered, Trump did nothing to denounce those marching with Nazi flags. Instead he said there were "good people on both sides". Meanwhile Mexicans are rapists and Muslims are terrorists.

      Anyway, the reason for the comparison is that the book of Trump seems to be a copy of the book of Hitler. The settings are different, the characters have different names, and some details are changed (e.g. Hitler fought for his country in the war; Trump had "bone spurs") -- but by this chapter so far, the plot is basically the same. And since we know how the other book ends, we'd like the book we're reading now to diverge.

      dom

    28. Re:Luckily, he's not in Germany ... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      And the left is Marxist sympathizers. What's really terrifying to me is that your calling Trump a fascist neo-nazi sympathizer is hyperbole (don't believe me, then please provide any citations, the fascist one is going to be real difficult as he's never stated any desire to be a dictator, in fact most of his most hated actions has been to undo executive orders done by Obama and said that if the country wants them, congress needs to pass laws for them, which is about as exact opposite as fascist as one can be), where as the left being Marxist sympathizers seems to be a growing thing with the choice of what's her name in New York in the congressional primary. And if you think being a Marxist sympathizer is a good thing, you should read up on his views of the poor and homeless. He supported the worker, not the academic, not the business owner and not the homeless. His philosophies led the communism, the bloodiest political ideology to have ever existed. And the blood spilled wasn't in wars against other countries, it was the blood of their own people.

    29. Re: Luckily, he's not in Germany ... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Just because the neo-nazis voted for him does not make him one nor does it mean he is a sympathizer. It simply means that out of the choices, he was the one neo-nazis preferred. They were very likely in the same area as the rest of us, though with different wants. Left with the choice of a kick to the balls or the punch to the stomach, they took the punch to the stomach, not because it's what they wanted, but because it was preferable to the kick to the balls.

      I know this sort of subtly is probably beyond you, but I tried. And in the mean time, we've got the left actually in the process of trying to elect a self professed democratic socialist, now if that isn't terrifying, then I don't know what is. And note, she identifies as a democratic socialist, not a social democrat, and there's a pretty big fucking difference between the two.

    30. Re: Luckily, he's not in Germany ... by stdarg · · Score: 1

      That's interesting, I guess it's fairly cheap insurance since the payout value declines as the mortgage balance declines. Great idea. What percentage does it typically add to the mortgage payment? Is it personalized based on the applicant's age/health or is it standardized?

    31. Re:Luckily, he's not in Germany ... by Dragonslicer · · Score: 1

      Hitler wasn't elected chancellor because he had killed millions of people. The comparisons aren't with the Hitler of 1944, they're with the Hitler of 1933.

    32. Re: Luckily, he's not in Germany ... by Locke2005 · · Score: 1

      No, Trump isn't Hitler, but they are both authoritarian fascists.

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    33. Re:Luckily, he's not in Germany ... by Locke2005 · · Score: 1

      Wait... did you just say that comparing Trump to Nazis is insulting to Nazis???

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    34. Re:Luckily, he's not in Germany ... by Locke2005 · · Score: 1

      "Trump isn't wholesale slaughtering people based on race, religion or sexual orientation." ...yet.

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    35. Re:Luckily, he's not in Germany ... by jpaine619 · · Score: 1

      Ah, but you see, their socialism is different. It's not the kind that leads to death. How do we know this? Why, it's so simple, they tell us it's a different kind. That's good enough for me.

      :)

    36. Re:Luckily, he's not in Germany ... by jpaine619 · · Score: 1

      To you maybe, but no.. the vast amount of people who refer to Trump as Hilter Jr, are not making that distinction. How do I know this? Simple, most Americans are... stupid is not the right term.. I'd say they are absolutely ignorant of History (and certainly Geography). They are ignorant and they are not even embarrassed by that ignorance. Some practically revel it in.. as if knowledge is something only nerds acquire.

      When your average leftie calls Trump a Nazi, they are referring to Hitler of 1940. I've heard enough with my own ears to come to this conclusion. In fact, the only reason they call Trump a Nazi is that National Socialism is still something that is taught in schools (as bad of course) and still has movies made about it (Inglorious Basterds). It's still very much part of the daily culture via the media. i.e. it's still shoved in their faces. That's the only reason they even remember the Nazis. Americans (my fellow countrymen) love to ignore history.

      If as much time was devoted to Hitler as is devoted to Stalin, most Americans wouldn't have a clue who he was. That's why Hitler is still considered more "evil". He killed... what? 6 million? Stalin is somewhere between 20-50 million, yet the average Joe hasn't the slightest idea who the guy was. They may have heard his name, but most of him has been lost to history (to the average person).

    37. Re:Luckily, he's not in Germany ... by jpaine619 · · Score: 1

      And by the way.. I get tired of having to say this, but National Socialism is not the extreme right. It doesn't matter how many times you lefties say it is, it's NOT. It's just as left leaning as Communism. That's not personal opinion, it's what the Nazi's themselves said. They declared many times that they were on the left, that they were socialist, that they were for the "workers". Private business ownership in Germany was a farce. The government dictated EVERYTHING regarding production, wages, hours, etc. It was a centrally planned economy. It was carried out exactly like Communism. One of the only differences was that the Nazis didn't seem to meddle with the VERY small businesses.. The mom n' pop operations.. They knew they needed that small level of capitalism.. But if you had 20+ employees, you can bet you got your directions from Berlin.. at least if what you did could even be remotely called "important" or of national importance.. And that was not a very high bar..

      I mean, for fuck's sake.. National SOCIALISM...

    38. Re:Luckily, he's not in Germany ... by deadwill69 · · Score: 1

      Trump may be a giant asshole, but he's not rounding up Jews and gassing them.

      And Hitler didn't start off this way either. He might not be rounding up Jews (yet), but he sure is a lot of other people. He might not be gassing them, but Hitler didn't start this way. He already has shown a total disregard for the law and only applies it properly when the courts call him out on it. Then maybe we get an oops. He's already acting the same way. Don't think it's not only a matter of time before he tries something stupid to distract from his business dealings....

      As far as the philosophy, he's already sided with white supremacist, neo nazi's and all the other white makes right hate crowd. They already have a long list of evils and would love to drop some Zyklon B on their list of degenerates.

      Trump is an evil man. To not notice the parallels in actions and rhetoric is turning a blind eye.

    39. Re: Luckily, he's not in Germany ... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      so if I die before my loan is paid back, my wife gets the house, without paying a penny back.

      Blimey, if that isn't a perverse incentive I don't know what is!

    40. Re: Luckily, he's not in Germany ... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I have a friend whose father died young, and this was the primary thing that kept them from being made homeless.

    41. Re:Luckily, he's not in Germany ... by jpaine619 · · Score: 1

      Yeah. It was an attempt at dark humor. But.... I did kinda hope you would see my point.. The Nazis were Nazis.. Okay? To call this puffy orange Cheeto a Nazi.. man, it's just wrong. This shit goes down every fucking election..

      Bush Jr was a Nazi.. He's gonna refuse to leave office.

      Obama is a communist.. He's gonna refuse to leave office...

      Both parties are full of assholes. Obama may have been a closet socialist, but he wasn't a communist.. And, lo and behold, he didn't refuse to leave office. Trump may be an asshole, but he's not a fucking nazi and he's not gonna set himself up as dictator.. He'll have his second term and he'll leave office.

      He will never spend a single day in prison. Regardless of if he deserves it or not.. Assuming he's guilty, he WILL be pardoned.. It's Republicans all the way down the line.. For good or ill, we don't imprison our Presidents..

    42. Re:Luckily, he's not in Germany ... by alexanderhlau · · Score: 1

      That's stupid. He's putting children in jails. That hasn't been done since Germany. It's only a matter of time before ICE is acting as his brown shirts and exterminating Mexicans. It's not an exaggeration. There is a genuine danger he could be the next Hitler. When a man says he can murder someone in plain daylight and be loved to it, believe him.

    43. Re: Luckily, he's not in Germany ... by jpaine619 · · Score: 1

      Do you even know what the word fascist means?

    44. Re:Luckily, he's not in Germany ... by jpaine619 · · Score: 1
      Look, another cunt who's gonna try to convince us he can see into the future..

      Keep it up, buttercup. Your side is going to guarantee he wins again...

  4. PayPal Credit by Gabest · · Score: 1

    Did she go on a spending spree before her death? I don't think the husband knew about it.

    1. Re:PayPal Credit by Nutria · · Score: 1

      I don't think the husband knew about it.

      That could be true, but to assert it is completely invalid.

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    2. Re:PayPal Credit by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      The deadbeat probably never even had cancer. She's living it up on some Caribbean island no doubt, ensconced in all of the luxuries she bought on Ebay before her untimely "demise".

      If I've seen it once I've seen it a thousand times

  5. regardless of her death she had debt by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    the wording might be insensitive but notifying her husband about it isn't that unusual, is it?

    1. Re:regardless of her death she had debt by dohzer · · Score: 1

      Yup. Nothing to see here. They're asking for their money back, getting a claim in on the estate. Big whoop.

    2. Re:regardless of her death she had debt by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

      He is likely the executor of her estate unless she set of something specific in her will. These letters are usually scare tactics to get someone to pay the debt even though they may no legal obligation. If this Paypal is solely in her name, they may not be able to collect. All shared assets would transfer to the husband (like bank accounts). If there is any "residue" in the estate, Paypal will get paid.

    3. Re:regardless of her death she had debt by bobbied · · Score: 4, Interesting

      the wording might be insensitive but notifying her husband about it isn't that unusual, is it?

      Nope, this is just an attempt to collect a debt by PayPal. Poorly worded and untimely given his wife's death was already legally established by the copy of the death certificate he provided, but just SOP for debt collection. Common, even when the person in debt is dead. I got lots of demands for payment when my mother died. I wasn't liable for any of the debt, yet the letters came and got shreded.

      I do think that PayPal was stupid to try this, mainly because of the risk of a bad PR outcome. Receipt of a death certificate should suspend the account and all debt collection activities for any unsecured debt associated with the deceased.

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    4. Re:regardless of her death she had debt by phantomfive · · Score: 1

      Paypal doesn't seem to care about (or weirdly, suffer from) bad publicity.

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      "First they came for the slanderers and i said nothing."
    5. Re: regardless of her death she had debt by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Half the people who have ever used PayPal hate them and consider them one of the most sleazy companies around. Yet it's true, negative stories in about PayPal are very rarely seen in the semi-official press. I wonder why...

    6. Re:regardless of her death she had debt by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Well, they claimed that dying is against its terms. Which implies they have either ridiculous and completely unenforcable terms (though I guess people wouldn't complain if they actually could prevent people from dying...) or they made not just utterly insensitive but also blatantly wrong statements.
      Making threats that are not actually backed by law is at the very least edging very close to blackmail. Blackmail by a bank (Paypal is registered as one in Europe, even though in a country with lax rules) seems like a quick way to become not-a-bank so it was at the very least a stupid thing to do, on top of sleazy and unethical.

    7. Re:regardless of her death she had debt by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      You're 100% right about how it works (of course you would know because you've gone through it).

      I agree paypal was stupid to try it, but for purely explanatory purposes I think they were attempting to stake a claim on any remaining assets. If that was the case, they were guilty of being insensitive but they legally unfortunately had the right to try to chase assets left at the time of death.

  6. "Error" my ass... by Desler · · Score: 5, Insightful

    No, there's a much more plausible fourth explanation: Paypal is run by dicks.

    1. Re:"Error" my ass... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      My sentiments, exactly. The day they really went bad was the day eBay bought them out so eBay could double dip fees on their auctions. charged a fee for the sale on eBay then charged a fee for the transaction in PayPal. Juts found out they were later acquired by someone else but, obviously, they still haven't recovered.

    2. Re:"Error" my ass... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Sorry, not that they were acquired but that they were spun off into a separate unit and started making their own acquisitions. Still not a good company to deal with if you an find an alternate.

    3. Re:"Error" my ass... by drinkypoo · · Score: 1

      No, there's a much more plausible fourth explanation: Paypal is run by dicks.

      Accurate but lacking nuance. Paypal is run by lawyers, who are dicks. If it's a legal complaint then some lawyer had to set pen to it before it could go in the mail. As usual, lawyers are a big part of the problem, if not the whole thing.

      --
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  7. hows does one get credit with pay-pal? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    3,200 pounds from pay-pal? now that's a story

    1. Re:hows does one get credit with pay-pal? by Desler · · Score: 1

      Paypal Credit has been around for years. Used to be called Blll Me Later. Welcome to 2008.

  8. Didn't answer the important question by Locke2005 · · Score: 1

    Can he still be held responsible for paying his deceased wife's debts? One of my girlfriends ran up all her mom's credit cards as she was dying of breast cancer, because she knew the debt would go away when she died.

    --
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    1. Re:Didn't answer the important question by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1, Informative

      Can he still be held responsible for paying his deceased wife's debts? One of my girlfriends ran up all her mom's credit cards as she was dying of breast cancer, because she knew the debt would go away when she died.

      This particular case is in the U.K. so I don't know how they handle that.

      In the U.S. you are responsible for your spouse's debts when they die.

    2. Re:Didn't answer the important question by bobbied · · Score: 1

      Can he still be held responsible for paying his deceased wife's debts? One of my girlfriends ran up all her mom's credit cards as she was dying of breast cancer, because she knew the debt would go away when she died.

      Unlikely he was liable unless it was a joint account of some kind. However, if the creditors of your girlfriend's mother found out what your girlfriend did, it's possible they could get her for fraudulently using the credit cards if her mother wasn't authorizing the charges or she was buying stuff just for herself.

      --
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    3. Re:Didn't answer the important question by leathered · · Score: 2

      Debts are paid out of the estate before the rest is distributed to beneficiaries. If there is no money in the estate or no assets that can be liquidated then the debt dies. No one inherits debts under common law unless they were in joint names.

      --
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    4. Re:Didn't answer the important question by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 2, Informative

      Only if it's a joint account. Otherwise it's paid out of the estate and then only if you live in a community property state do the couple's shared assets become up for grabs for a debt collector.

    5. Re:Didn't answer the important question by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      "Hmm, says here this dead broad is into crotchless panties and hang-gliding."

    6. Re:Didn't answer the important question by whoever57 · · Score: 5, Informative

      In the U.S. you are responsible for your spouse's debts when they die.

      Example number 1299006 of why you should not take legal advice from /.

      https://www.consumerfinance.go...

      --
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    7. Re: Didn't answer the important question by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Hard to separate in places like California where spouses are required by law to sign for real estate transactions. Easy to have an underwater property that is shared debt between a couple. Almost unavoidable really.

    8. Re:Didn't answer the important question by jedidiah · · Score: 3

      > Example number 1299006 of why you should not take legal advice from /.

      It's almost like we're more like 50 petty fiefdoms than a single unified country or some such.

      The answer to a lot of stuff is "it depends". My state has some nice debtor protections but still has community property debt.

      --
      A Pirate and a Puritan look the same on a balance sheet.
    9. Re:Didn't answer the important question by jpaine619 · · Score: 1

      No. No you aren't.. Sometimes you are, but not always. Your statement is false.

    10. Re:Didn't answer the important question by DeAxes · · Score: 1

      As I understand it, when a person dies, the assets and debts get put into the person's estate, which is managed by the executor of the estate, usually a person's loved ones. It takes time to deal with a person's estate, often requiring things to be done in a specific order. What happens if the debt is larger than the person's assets depends on the state and situation. Anything that's under a joint account needs be paid off, but accounts that are obviously her's and her's alone are questionable. In this case I think he was interested in paying off all of her outstanding bills, but was in the process of notifying all creditors about her death, which will close her account and then will be paid later on by her estate. As I said, things need to be done in a certain order. And again, this is just as I understand it, which may be wrong or different from anyone else.

    11. Re:Didn't answer the important question by swb · · Score: 1

      I'd love to know more about how this works, but quick Googling just leads to the conclusion that it's widely varying and extremely complicated.

      If I read your statement correctly, if my wife dies, her debts held under her name only are her debts, and even joint ownership property that would get tangled up in her estate aren't subject to settlement of her debts -- like they couldn't force me to refinance the house to take out equity to pay them off.

      I don't get how this could possibly work, as it seems like it would be open to abuse by people with a terminally ill spouse -- run up a bunch of debt in their name, the spouse dies and you can just erase the debt? Not that you wouldn't get shady debt collectors trying to convince the surviving spouse they "had" to pay the debt.

      I know marital property in my state (Minnesota) can be complex due to my neighbor's divorce. 6 years before their divorce, she got a $100k inheritance. They spent about half of it remodeling their kitchen. During the divorce, he said that the inheritance remained somehow exclusive to her even though it had been spent as an investment into their jointly owned house. He had to make up the amount spent in the division of their assets.

    12. Re:Didn't answer the important question by whoever57 · · Score: 1

      Really?

      I provided a useful link that specifically discusses the point and you spout ill-informed bullshit about how you think it works.

      Read the link.

      --
      The real "Libtards" are the Libertarians!
    13. Re:Didn't answer the important question by DeAxes · · Score: 1

      Take the chip off your shoulder. I was just recounting what happened with my own mother's death. I was very specific that I might not know what I was talking about, as it differs state to state, country to country and situation to situation. I was not trying to refute your info, but instead trying to add my own to the discussion. So, again, take that chip off your shoulder and calm down.

    14. Re:Didn't answer the important question by hab136 · · Score: 1

      >If I read your statement correctly, if my wife dies, her debts held under her name only are her debts, and even joint ownership property that would get tangled up in her estate aren't subject to settlement of her debts -- like they couldn't force me to refinance the house to take out equity to pay them off.

      Wrong. A court may order a joint-owned asset to be sold to satisfy a singly-owned debt.

      When you die, all your assets and debts are added up, both singly-owned and joint-owned. If you want to run up a debt before you die, you have to get all assets - including joint assets - out of your name, along with making sure the debts are not joint debts.

      >he said that the inheritance remained somehow exclusive to her

      Inheritances are a specific exception, and treated just like assets you owned before the marriage. What you do with the funds once married doesn't matter much - the source of the funds matter.

      It's not really complex at all. My money is my money, your money is your money, and our money is our money. Anything earned during the course of the marriage (inheritances aren't "earned") is "our" money and normally split 50/50.

    15. Re: Didn't answer the important question by hab136 · · Score: 1

      Right, but that's a shared debt, not paying for someone else's singly-owned debt.

    16. Re:Didn't answer the important question by swb · · Score: 1

      Inheritances are a specific exception, and treated just like assets you owned before the marriage. What you do with the funds once married doesn't matter much - the source of the funds matter.

      I get this if the inheritance had been kept in a form similar to its acquisition. Like if you inherited cash and kept in the bank, or even if you inherited securities that you sold for cash.

      It's the immutability of the inheritance over time that doesn't make sense to me. It doesn't make sense that you should be able to spend that money and then later come back and claim that the inheritance still existed.

      The only way it seemed to make sense was that their house was viewed as a capital asset, and that remodeling the kitchen was a capital investment in that asset and thus retained its inheritance value. But that seems to be more about the general luck that the house increased in value and arguing that the kitchen remodel was a big part of it. What if due to circumstances of the real estate market the house had lost value? Do you say "nope, still got my $100k there"?

      What about the depreciation associated with the wear and tear on the house? What if they had chosen to spend that $100k on a car that now only had a market value of $5000?

      What if they had taken the $100k and put it into a joint investment account that was already at $100k, and six years later due to market losses is only worth its original $100k? She gets to claim all of the remaining value?

      I mean, I don't know 100% of the nitty gritty details, it very well could have been that investing $50k of the inheritance entitled her to just a greater percentage of ownership of the house, some realty estimate that a $250k house with a new $50k kitchen is now worth $290k, so her vested interest in the house is more like 57% (original $125k of half ownership + gain of $40k in market value).

  9. Come and get it if you like boys.... by bobbied · · Score: 1

    Sending them a copy of the death certificate was nice to do. However, after that let them chase their tails trying to collect a debt from a dead person and waste their time an money in the process...

    What are they going to do? Ruin a dead persons credit? Knock yourself out PayPal. Take them to court? It will be fun to see what the process server does with that....

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    1. Re:Come and get it if you like boys.... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 5, Funny

      Your subject line is yet another great example of the importance of commas.

    2. Re:Come and get it if you like boys.... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      What are they going to do? Ruin a dead persons credit? Knock yourself out PayPal. Take them to court? It will be fun to see what the process server does with that....

      If she has any assets they can take out of her estate. For example she may be co-owner of their house with the husband. For 3200 pounds they may deem it worthwhile.

    3. Re:Come and get it if you like boys.... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      +1

    4. Re:Come and get it if you like boys.... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      They are simply staking their claim so that when the estate is being settled, they are in line. The thing is that it is already going to go to court, in this case there will be lawyers, wills, executors, and possibly probate court. Their claim would be part of that process.

    5. Re:Come and get it if you like boys.... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Easy, process server serves the executor of the will. Its almost as if people with debts have died before.

      What else could they do? Try to trick someone not liable into assuming the debt of the deceased.

      Granted I would love to see Paypal argue in front of a jury that a contractual death fee is enforceable.

  10. Does anyone here know what condition 15.4(c) says? by mark-t · · Score: 2

    I'm wondering how it could be that dying could be interpreted as breach of contract.... does anyone here know exactly what it said?

  11. Re:Does anyone here know what condition 15.4(c) sa by MalachiK · · Score: 1

    That you promise not to die?

  12. You can't die... That's ILLEGAL! by Dutchmaan · · Score: 4, Funny

    Dying as being a breach of contract would be a TOTAL Terry Gilliam plot!

    1. Re:You can't die... That's ILLEGAL! by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0
  13. Or just bad policy by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 2, Insightful

    "a bug, a bad letter template, or human error. "

    Or you just have crap policies where you fail to delineate other avenues of outcomes that occur but you do not consider legitimate. This leads to absurd conclusions any normal review or check would recognize as unacceptable.

    PayPal is set up this way -deliberately-. They want you to give up. They don't want to be contacted. THey make many being pricks.

    Get unsolicited email from PayPal, to an address you own and has never had anything to do with them? You have no easy recourse to get it removed. There is no unsubscribe since PayPal assumes they ahve the right address. They admit it's from an unmonitored email address you cannot rely to. They assume they are in the right or that you have an account or agreement with them. You cannot respond in kind in like medium (email) to get it resolved.

    And if you call them, look out. They assume you are the phisher. Yeah, I'm spending 25mintues on hold telling you to contact the account holder they are using my email address, and in them eantime either temproarily blacklist the outgoing emails until thye at least verify the account. Yeah, that's a real good phish move, morons. Interesting how they won't email you to verify right then and there like a poor man's authentication sicn ethey maybe believe it's a MITM, but they'll authenticate with a plain email with an open link to verify an email account.

    I'm almost tempted to try to see if I verify my address with the account that I didn't open to see if I can get a password reset. Then go in and turn off the email settings, assuming you can do that. Of course, if I did that, I'd probably be in trouble for hacking, while PP keeps sending me emails to sign up for their new credit card, or I've been preapproved for xyz.

    PayPal. Oe wonly pretned to be a bank. WHat do you expect, real service?

  14. The same old story by sconeu · · Score: 2

    "You are in breach of condition 15.4(c) of your agreement with PayPal Credit as we have received notice that you are deceased... this breach is not capable of remedy."

    You can't win.
    You can't break even.
    You can't even quit the game.

    --
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    1. Re:The same old story by arth1 · · Score: 1

      You can't win.
      You can't break even.
      You can't even quit the game.

      That's the laws of thermodynamics.
      They break down near black holes like PayPal.

    2. Re:The same old story by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      They break down near black holes like PayPal.

      PayPal breaks down near anything that resembles normal reasoning.

      This kinda sucks if you want to use PayPal for anything.

    3. Re:The same old story by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      False. Our observations of quasars show no evidence of thermodynamics breaking down. Then again, black holes are not nearly as black at heart as paypal.

  15. Time to spend spend spend. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Good to know death clears your debts. Time to spend spend spend.

  16. Re:Does anyone here know what condition 15.4(c) sa by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 5, Interesting

    I would like to know what this is too. Looking up the terms and conditions, there is a 15.4, but no subclause (c):
    15.4 In the event you do not agree to the terms of a release amount, you may close your account unless otherwise prohibited under this Agreement. However, if your account is closed for any reason, we have the right to hold the amount retained in your PayPal account for up to 180 days.
    Can anyone else find more?
    catchpa: mystery :P

  17. Fascinating... by mr_resident · · Score: 1

    A computer made a mistake based on bad human input. Yawn...sorry. I thought I heard you wrong. Really, it's an amazing story. Thanks for sharing. My day is complete now.

  18. Wrong kind of bug by dereference · · Score: 1

    The letter was intended for Mr Durtle, not Mr Durdle.

    1. Re:Wrong kind of bug by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      That's good to hear; the Buttles have suffered enough.

  19. Obligatory by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    That’s national health care for you.

  20. The same old story-Rickrolled in heaven. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Just think a Paypal representative waiting at the pearly gates for her.

    1. Re:The same old story-Rickrolled in heaven. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I don't think that's where the Paypal representatives would be waiting.

  21. Billable termination clause... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 5, Interesting

    That was literally the opening plot of Brazil. Guy gets murdered during a swat-style raid looking for a guy whose name was one typo different, and as a result his family has to pay for his termination costs, despite it being the government's fault.

    That movie is an excellent watch by the way, although it is hard to tell what part of it is taking part in 'reality' and what part of it is in his mind, whether crazed, or after he is broken.

    1. Re:Billable termination clause... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I just love the part where our hero Mr. Lowry gets his own office...with a shared desk. Also on another YouTube clip.

  22. Re:Does anyone here know what condition 15.4(c) sa by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Follow the link to the BBC article and read the letter. The deceased had an outstanding balance with PayPal.

    They've been made aware that the person they have a contract with is no longer able to pay, so they've quite rightly put in their claim for repayment as soon as possible.

    This could have been phrased in any number of non-objectionable ways.

  23. Re:Does anyone here know what condition 15.4(c) sa by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    I'd guess either: you can't falsely claim to be dead to avoid them trying to collect. In this scenario someone forgot to scan the supporting docs or click a checkbox somewhere and the effect was: account claimed to be in probate no supporting documentation == fraud attempt.

    Second scenario: the above is the actual clause and the dude cleaned out the account then sent the supporting documentation. Ie: she's dead and dude or someone else continued to use the account. I worked in credit card collections for a fortunately brief period and ran into both scenarios.

  24. Death and taxes...and paypal by p51d007 · · Score: 1

    Can't escape them, even in death.

  25. Too much excusing of computer errors.. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    How about having extra damages attach if it's due to a computer error - I bet youtube dmca takedown notices would plummet immediately...

  26. They got one thing right... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    "...this breach is not capable of remedy."

  27. "I've seen how a letter like this can.." by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Good commet in the BBC article: "I'm in a reasonable place at the moment - I've got quite a level head on my shoulders - and am quite capable of dealing with paperwork like this," Mr Durdle said.

    "But I'm a member of the charity Widowed and Young, and I've seen first-hand in there how a letter like this or something like it can completely derail somebody.

    "If I'm going to make any fuss about this at all, it's to make sure that PayPal - or any other organisation that might do this kind of insensitive thing - recognises the damage they can cause the recently bereaved."

    https://www.bbc.com/news/technology-44783779

  28. Clickbait BullCrap Headline by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

    No, dying wasn't the issue.

    It's bloody clear that her account had an unpaid debt that's the issue.

    Your Estate is supposed to pay your farking debts after you die.

    Is that really so difficult to understand?

    Why the fark should her estate get a pass?

  29. Re:Does anyone here know what condition 15.4(c) sa by mark-t · · Score: 1

    The letter did not say what 15.4(c) was. If it had, I would not have asked the question.

  30. Re:Does anyone here know what condition 15.4(c) sa by mark-t · · Score: 1

    If a person is dead, whether or not there is any documentation to prove it is irrelevant, it is categorically *NOT* fraud to state that they are dead... it is only fraud to state they are dead if they are not.

  31. Fuck Slashdot and fuck BeauHD by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

    The summary made no sense. I googled it, found the letter and a legit news site. The summary cuts and pastes and mutilates the original letter to pretend it's saying something else. It doesn't say

    "You are in breach of condition 15.4(c) of your agreement with PayPal Credit as we have received notice that you are deceased... this breach is not capable of remedy."

    That ... hides a heck of a lot and the second half has nothing to do with the first.

  32. "this breach is not capable of remedy." by charliemerritt03 · · Score: 1

    No shit. Brilliant.

  33. Dead, not Deactivated by QuadEddie · · Score: 1

    The person was only dead, but that's just a status for their estate. The only technicality here is that after the status of death has been reached, the template should have been amended to address the 'Estate of Lindsay Durdle' instead of Lindsay Durdle. They do have the right to collect the money. Probate courts handle this sort of sorting.

  34. The universe is insensitive by default by pem · · Score: 3, Interesting
    Sensitivity requires removal of entropy. This has to be done company-by-company, person-by-person, and it may not stick, because entropy is always being added.

    Even worse are the carpetbaggers who thrive on misery. When a loved one dies, be as prepared as you can for this sort of thing -- letters commiserating with you at this terrible occasion, and offering to buy your house immediately for cash. Half of these letters will be addressed to the deceased.

    In general (at least around here), the carpetbaggers are not breaking any laws, and the most you can do is write to them or call them, and ask "Does your mother know what you do for a living?" Not that that does any good with those illegitimate sons of crack whores, but it might temporarily make you feel better.

    The big companies are sometimes somewhat trainable, and I comment Mr. Durdle for attempting to train Paypal. I myself have attempted to train a few companies, such as Netflix. After trying multiple times to get their customer service people to do the right thing, I finally sent an email to their general counsel:

    From: Netflix <info@mailer.netflix.com>
    To: xxxx@zzzz.com
    Subject: xxxx, come back today to more TV shows & movies.

    More TV Shows & Movies to Love

    A lot has changed since you left. Come back to Netflix and enjoy newly added TV shows & movies. There's something for everyone to enjoy and we're always adding more, including Netflix original series and movies.

    (ad copy, buttons, etc.)

    From: yyyy <yyyy@zzzz.com>
    To: David Hyman <dhyman@netflix.com>
    Subject: Re: Fwd: xxxx, come back today to more TV shows & movies.

    Dear Mr. Hyman:

    It would be great if xxxx would come back. She could watch all the netflix she wanted and I wouldn't mind.

    But she's not coming back.

    (link to obituary)

    I canceled her account two months ago; somehow I managed to explain the situation to one of your people. But that's not good enough; now, in order to get your system to stop sending her email, I either need to provide information I don't have (a credit card number from a bank account which I closed), or I need to get a code so I can log into her netflix account.

    This is apparently done in the name of PCI compliance. Like SOX, or ISO-9000, those things done in the name of PCI compliance often don't actually help and may actually harm. E.g. I want to give her privacy, and absolutely do not want to log into her netflix account.

    I have fulfilled my responsibilities here; it is up to your company to insure that you stop sending advertising to my dead wife.

    It would also be great if you could empower your people enough so that issues like this could be taken care of with a single phone call, but that no longer seems to be the American way.

    Thank you for your prompt attention to this matter.

    Best regards,
    yyyy

    1. Re:The universe is insensitive by default by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I wonder if you could take them to some small claims court in front of a judge. Ordering them to stop harassment with compensation if they do not. They’d likely not appear or if they did it would cost them more than simply stopping email.

    2. Re:The universe is insensitive by default by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Kia kaha.

    3. Re:The universe is insensitive by default by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      There are "companies" who send letters to the estates/spouses/family of the recently deceased claiming some amount of debt, usually in the thousands of dollars. They do this because there are many people who have, because of ignorance, left out the following phrase in their wills: "All just and lawful debts are to be paid out of the estate." By not having this phrase, the executor may be compelled to pay the debt to such a company.

      It's total bottom-feeding behavior, and these "companies" make a tremendous return for all the spam letter they send out this way. It's another important lesson as to why you have a qualified attorney draft you a will before the great gig in the sky...

    4. Re:The universe is insensitive by default by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I am sorry for your loss.

    5. Re:The universe is insensitive by default by bluefoxlucid · · Score: 1

      The guy who got the letter says it's all good and he'll work on making Paypal handle this better so they don't upset other people.

  35. 4 grand owed in debt? by Khyber · · Score: 1

    The only thing I see that being from is a credit card debt through PayPal, otherwise there's no fucking way in hell a PayPal account like that should be in a negative that deeply.

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    1. Re:4 grand owed in debt? by Cederic · · Score: 1

      If I die tomorrow my estate will owe £13k in credit card debt.

      I clear my credit cards every month. I just happen to have spent rather a lot this month. 4k isn't a trivial sum but it's well within the bounds of credibility.

    2. Re:4 grand owed in debt? by Cro+Magnon · · Score: 1

      Timing is everything. If I die 1 day before my CC bill is due, my debts could be quite different than if I die the next day.

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  36. Actually wrong by aepervius · · Score: 3, Informative

    You can always refuse an inheritance, the trick is , you have to refuse it *wholesale*. Meaning you can't pick and chose. Furthermore if the debt was cosigned by *both* spouse then in some cases the other signatory still continue to hold the debt.

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    1. Re:Actually wrong by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      If the debt is larger than the estate, then there's nothing to inherit anyway.

  37. paypal is the great evil online by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    and they are charging a arm and a leg for it...

    I called their support and asked can i sell bitcoin and charge with pp. and they said yes you can. even talked to Us and Uk support about it.

    A week after they send me a email saying we have decided to terminate your account and keep your money for 6 months (5figures) because i breached their tos. And then all of a sudden it had appeared in their tos that you cant sell crypto couuency with pp.

    So they terminated my account. But thats not all!
    They terminated my business accounts belonging to totally different businesses, my wifes account and even my CHILDRENS accounts!!!

    All i can say is stay far away from paypal!

  38. the law does not differentiate by aepervius · · Score: 1

    What matter to the law is that there is an "Inheritance". You get this inheritance by default. It is up to YOU to check whether this comes up as a positive inheritance or negative. And you can hardly do that without checking yourself carefully. Imagine the legal nightmare if the inheritance was "optional" if negative after a while, but automatic if positive ? That would make it difficult to everybody and generate a lot of work for the judge to check whether an opt out or opt in was justified. No, a standard either "opt in always" or "optional always" is justified. In this case, it is better to have always inheritance and let the person decide to reject it. The other way around people could lose inheritance they would otherwise want.

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    1. Re: the law does not differentiate by willaien · · Score: 1

      I mean, under US law, the estate must be settled, and if at the end of it all, the balance is negative, nobody automatically inherits it.

    2. Re: the law does not differentiate by willaien · · Score: 1

      Also, there's the issue of timeliness. If you don't respond in time (perhaps due to grief, or being unaware of the situation of the estate with regards to actual values of debts and assets), then debtors can come after you well after your time to disown the inheritance has elapsed - whereas in the US, you would be shielded against such a thing, unless you misappropriated funds from the estate, in which case you would be responsible for those funds only, not the entire value of the debt.

  39. Re:Does anyone here know what condition 15.4(c) sa by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

    I wouldn't be surprised if they quietly deleted it, because it was stupid and they didn't want people looking it up when they read this news.

  40. It's perfectly legit by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    In most jurisdictions, creditors can lay a valid claim against the estate of a deceased debtor. The executor of an estate in the United States, for example, is required to notify all known creditors of the death of the debtor, and to pay all valid claims against the estate by those creditors so long as there are assets in the estate to pay them with. If the executor fails to do this and pays beneficiaries of the estate before paying valid creditor claims, they become personally liable for those debts.

    Death does not get you out of paying the debts that you owe.

  41. Re:Does anyone here know what condition 15.4(c) sa by AmiMoJo · · Score: 1

    It seems to be from the PayPal Credit Agreement. Maybe she had a PayPal credit card or something, probably ran up the debts paying for costs associated with her treatment for cancer. Anyway, it says:

    "We may close the Credit Account and demand repayment of the full amount you owe us if you die or become of unsound mind"

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  42. Re:Does anyone here know what condition 15.4(c) sa by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    The terms and conditions are likely different in different legal jurisdictions. The applicable one would be the UK version. If you are accessing PayPal from a different jurisdiction, you are probably not seeing the correct Ts&Cs.

  43. There's a lot of misunderstanding here by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    In pretty much all common law jurisdictions (read: "English speaking") the debt of the deceased goes against any assets that the creditor had at the time of death. Even if the creditor had willed all of the assets and the debt is greater than the assets, the recipients of the will don't have to pay it, instead they will just end up with nothing as an inheritance but any excess is written off.

  44. As I heard in one movie by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Never send a human to do a machine's job.

  45. They weren't wrong by kimvette · · Score: 1

    " this breach is not capable of remedy."

    Seems accurate, unless you have the Doctor and his TARDIS ready to bring a cure back from the distant future, to her past. >_>

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  46. Computer scapegoats by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    This employee will have no trouble getting a job at the White House... they just need to be publicly fired so we can make the connection when it happens (instead of thinking maybe 1 decent one got hired.)

    The law works too-- the law says separate young children from their mothers, not us...

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  47. Wow. What an idea! by martinfb · · Score: 1

    Wow. What an idea!
    Before you die, give all of your assets away, take out a large loan and give the money to your survivors, and run up massive debt.
    That'll stick it to them! Whatcha gonna do? Kill me?!

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  48. Paypal is continuing to work with Mrs. Durdle by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    That would've been an epic typo.

  49. Reading outside of the lines... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    In point of fact, if the following quote was indeed included in the letter:

    > "... this breach is not capable of remedy."

    then there's another way we can look at this. The breach was the lady's death. But PayPal seems to imply that there is indeed a remedy, they just won't accept it. If that's true, then I'm taking bets that there's gonna be a line-up at the door for applications of similar remedies desired by a pretty large contingent of the planet's populace.

    Of course, it's already been stated, and bickered over, that the "first impression" is that "since the deceased can't remedy the condition, then we're coming after you". Sorry, that would be a Romper Room no-no. The quoted clause forecloses that process, because PayPal just stated/admitted that they recognize there is *no* remedy, period. Even offering cash to them is not acceptable, according to their statement. Case closed, regardless of how inheritance laws are formulated in various jurisdictions. Buh-bye-bye, PP.

  50. 'Death Will Not Release You..." by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    "...Even If You Die."

    Are there no other LASFS members here? Unbelievable.

  51. My cousin just died, we dealt with this by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    In illinois, at least. He died with no will, had inherited items from my Aunt, his mom. she had a will. he had debt, she didn't.
    Items from her, in the will, go to those named. Nobody wanted them, they will be auctioned. Proceeds go to my father, the closest relative.
    Items from him, no will, will be auctioned. Proceeds will be used to pay the lawyer ( he's first, of course), the administrator of the estate ( my dad ). Remainder goes to settle his debt. Anything left over, My Dad gets. If the debt is larger than the proceeds, my dad gets nothing additional and the excess debt gets eaten, in this case by the credit card company.