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We Should Replace Facebook With Personal Websites (vice.com)

Jason Koebler from Motherboard argues "we should replace Facebook with personal websites." An anonymous reader shares the report: As a freshman in high school, in the year of our lord 2002, I made a website called "Jason's Site." While a website named after myself and devoted to updates about my own life was unspeakably vain for the time, it was also quite forward looking: The site has a news feed, an "about me" page, and an email mailing list for people to receive updates. I intended for it to be funded by reader donations. It had a section for Flash videos and photos, a guestbook, and a "friends" page that was literally a list of my friends. It had an ill-advised but nonetheless prescient "hot or not" section that featured photos of my friends and acquaintances and predated both Facebook and Mark Zuckerberg's original idea for the social network, called "FaceMash." I updated the site regularly and obsessively for about three months, and then never returned to it. The site was embarrassing then and is embarrassing now, but abandoning it was a terrible mistake.

Facebook gets a lot of credit for "disrupting" social media and for turning MySpace into a worthless piece of garbage, but millions upon millions of teenagers and young adults were already sharing every aspect of their lives on other social networks, and on their own websites. Facebook had the good fortune of being new, slightly different, and exclusive. It was even luckier to come to power shortly before the rise of the smartphone. I guess what I'm saying is that Facebook isn't really all that much better or more convenient than having your own website, or sending emails or chats. But for some reason, Facebook (and Instagram) are where we post now. Facebook has of course become something much larger than a single website, and has, despite its flaws, "helped connect the world" for better or worse. But Facebook tapped into a trend that was already happening -- it didn't invent the idea of letting people put stuff about their lives online, it just monetized it better.

310 comments

  1. You mean go back to how it was? by bobbied · · Score: 5, Funny

    LOL.. Replace Facebook with personal websites eh? Isn't that how this whole internet thing got started back when I was in college?

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    1. Re:You mean go back to how it was? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      No. The internet predates HTML.

      Eternal September :(

    2. Re: You mean go back to how it was? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      You shouldn't take anything from Motherboard seriously. They are a Vice shill.

    3. Re: You mean go back to how it was? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

      Isn't that how this whole internet thing got started back when I was in college?

      Nope. The internet started with the idea of a diffuse multipath communication system that would be reliable and robust in the event of nuclear war.

      Then All Gore came up with a better idea.

    4. Re:You mean go back to how it was? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Dude, you should totally use Google Analytics on your personal website! It's "The Bomb"!

    5. Re:You mean go back to how it was? by lactose99 · · Score: 4, Funny

      We should bring the <blink> tag back too

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    6. Re: You mean go back to how it was? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

      The future is everyone with a small webpage, around 5MB or less, organized into neighborhoods according to a geography designated by a common interest. We'll call it geotowns, terracities, or maybe Geocities? What do you think?

    7. Re:You mean go back to how it was? by chispito · · Score: 4, Insightful

      LOL.. Replace Facebook with personal websites eh? Isn't that how this whole internet thing got started back when I was in college?

      Other than that wasn't when the Internet started, yes, personal websites or the "Blogosphere" as it was briefly known, was better than Facebook in so many ways. Private, independent forums were also better than Reddit, but I think that day of reckoning is still a ways off.

      I'd say (platform X) was better than Twitter, but the truth is No Twitter, or a Twitter Shaped Hole, is the best alternative to that platform.

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    8. Re: You mean go back to how it was? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      .plan files for life

    9. Re:You mean go back to how it was? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

      Facebook IS a personal website. What do you think people are using it for?

    10. Re: You mean go back to how it was? by pecosdave · · Score: 1

      I'm on a "local" social network that is just that - meant for your local neighborhood called Next Door.

      I got some scrap furniture to build a desk, bought another desk, and gotten rid of old appliances using it. It's about 80% "I found this dog, have you seen my dog? Who's cat is this?" but since it's truly local it's a good way to find out when the water is coming back on, get pictures of the truck that hit the light pole and took out the power in your area and bitch about the the pothole in the street outside. One dude was moving away from my old nieghborhood, decided to go full cloud/streaming and just set a box full of about 300 DVDs, BluRays, and music disk by the curb. I grabbed that one up. There's some annoying advertising on it - in feed type - and I've had posts mysteriously disappear when trying to do a tasteful, one time only plug for my own business, but if I mention my own business in reply to a post they seem to leave it.

      As for family/personal circles I use Friendica, it's got what makes Facebook appealing to family, but my family complains it's too complicate. I don't see it, and I've used a lot of different stuff over the years. Meh, more work....

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    11. Re:You mean go back to how it was? by Q-Hack! · · Score: 1

      Ah, I fondly remember the MySpace days.

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    12. Re: You mean go back to how it was? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      A very funny post ruined by the fact that you cannot spell Al Gore's name right. You get a zero!

    13. Re:You mean go back to how it was? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Ayup, I should dust off my BBS and see if the bank of dial-up modems hanging on the peg board still work.

    14. Re:You mean go back to how it was? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      We do: autoplay html5 video

    15. Re:You mean go back to how it was? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Yes, and how many of those websites are in the Alexa/Internet Archive Wayback Machine? Even if they didn't want it to be there? (Alexa never asked permission before they scraped the Internet and donated the crawl to the Internet Archive and the retroactive action is a robots exclusion or write them to remove content.) Even with advertiser companies having access to private areas of Facebook when they shouldn't, Facebook otherwise generally requires a login to see more than just a public profile (and in fact there can be no public profile unless someone logs onto Facebook). The Internet Archive is open and public with no login required, including CHANGELOG HISTORY SNAPSHOTS once they started archiving a website. (Therefore, if someone made a change whether because they felt like it or they didn't want anyone to see that content anymore, it's still linked as page history.)

    16. Re:You mean go back to how it was? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      "... devoted to updates about myself ..." . No, that was not how the whole internet thing got started. An infantile premise did not birth the WWW. Ivy League sophomores had nothing to do with it.

    17. Re:You mean go back to how it was? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Mastodon is way better than twitter.

    18. Re: You mean go back to how it was? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      No. I went MySpace years ago. Not going back.

    19. Re: You mean go back to how it was? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      âoeAll Goreâ is his hardcore wrestling alter ego.

    20. Re:You mean go back to how it was? by Jason+Levine · · Score: 1

      When I need to tell people how long I've been making websites, I say "I've been doing this since frames were the hot new thing!"

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    21. Re: You mean go back to how it was? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I suggest we put a little link at the bottom of each webpage which takes you to another site of similar interest whereupon the proceeding site also has a similar link, which takes you to the next etc... kind of like a ring of similar websites. We could call them web-rings and find all kinds of interesting stuff.

    22. Re:You mean go back to how it was? by angel'o'sphere · · Score: 1

      The problem is, at that time hosting a web site costed hundreds of dollars, per month. The Domain name alone costed around $3000 per year. In Europe dial up internet was so expensive, no one could afford it.

      I designed a game like Eve Online with some friends ... did not much coding, basically an Elite clone with multiplayer option in a presumed "persistent world". We stopped basically because we could not imagine that there once would be $10 fast internet per month ever available.

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    23. Re:You mean go back to how it was? by MBGMorden · · Score: 1

      marquee tag or bust!

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    24. Re:You mean go back to how it was? by ganjadude · · Score: 1

      pretty much. i had my first personal page way back in 98 as an 8th grader. similar setup too but mine also had an IRC chat embedded

      man those were the days

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    25. Re: You mean go back to how it was? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      What are you talking about? Geocities was free in the 90s. I could find hosting as cheap as $4/mo everywhere. As for domain names - lots of those cheap hosts would give a free subdomain. If you wanted a TLD, they were typically around $70 - $120.

      Sure, Facebook is free. But it was not the first or only free thing. It took off initially because it was easy. Anyone could make a page and didn't have to know anything about web tech. Once seeded with a few friends, entire social graphs moved in to stay up-to-date with what their friends were doing.

    26. Re:You mean go back to how it was? by XxtraLarGe · · Score: 3, Funny

      When I need to tell people how long I've been making websites, I say "I've been doing this since frames were the hot new thing!"

      LOL! One of my students in my web programming class was having a problem with an embedded style sheet. I looked at it and noticed she was missing a semicolon in one of her styles. I pointed it out to her immediately and she said in amazement "How long have you been doing this?" and I said "Since before you were born." I think she's a sophomore, makes me feel OLD.

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    27. Re:You mean go back to how it was? by BringsApples · · Score: 1

      Seems like since we're all walking around with computers in our pockets, capable of amazing things, then why are we still relying on BigData to provide us a website like facebook to use? Why not just replace websites, and the servers that they run on, with local software that only runs on the local device. So, some program runs on my phone, I set it up, enter info about myself, and then it connects and exchanges info directly with other devices (phones). Would require no middle-man to house a server, therefor it would eliminate the possibility someone selling anyone's data or trying to use it to predict the future.

      I feel like if someone wrote that software, everyone would use it. One could probably take down a billion dollar business (FaceBook) with less than 200MB of code.

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    28. Re: You mean go back to how it was? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      It's Judy autocorrect. So Gore is just not in its coronary.

    29. Re:You mean go back to how it was? by geekmux · · Score: 1

      LOL.. Replace Facebook with personal websites eh? Isn't that how this whole internet thing got started back when I was in college?

      Yeah, but the main difference is now everyone demands all that domain/web hosting shit be provided for free, which is exactly how consumers made the jump from using a product to becoming the product.

    30. Re: You mean go back to how it was? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Repeat after me: Paying for a service does not guarantee privacy.

      Let's assume Facebook cost $10/mo and everyone was paying that today, do you think that would stop them selling your data? The goal in business is to maximize profit.

    31. Re: You mean go back to how it was? by geekmux · · Score: 1

      Repeat after me: Paying for a service does not guarantee privacy.

      Let's assume Facebook cost $10/mo and everyone was paying that today, do you think that would stop them selling your data? The goal in business is to maximize profit.

      As long as you continue to use Facebook, you are the product no matter what they charge for it.

      There is a happy medium that doesn't require you to become the product; buy your own damn domain, and stand up your own public website. That was my entire point with the cost. The problem is people are way too damn cheap these days to even pay minimal costs to own a domain and host it somewhere. They would prefer to be digital whores. You get what you pay for still rings true in many ways.

      And if privacy is the goal, then don't stand up a public website. Or secure it behind authentication and encryption.

    32. Re:You mean go back to how it was? by chispito · · Score: 1

      Seems like since we're all walking around with computers in our pockets, capable of amazing things, then why are we still relying on BigData to provide us a website like facebook to use? Why not just replace websites, and the servers that they run on, with local software that only runs on the local device. So, some program runs on my phone, I set it up, enter info about myself, and then it connects and exchanges info directly with other devices (phones). Would require no middle-man to house a server, therefor it would eliminate the possibility someone selling anyone's data or trying to use it to predict the future. I feel like if someone wrote that software, everyone would use it. One could probably take down a billion dollar business (FaceBook) with less than 200MB of code.

      I think reception, battery, bandwidth, and device patching concerns would prevent that from being widely adopted. There really is a benefit to inexpensive third party hosting.

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    33. Re:You mean go back to how it was? by farble1670 · · Score: 1

      Other than that wasn't when the Internet started, yes, personal websites or the "Blogosphere" as it was briefly known, was better than Facebook in so many ways.

      I think the 2 billion people using Facebook, and the out of business companies and dead projects for personal websites would beg to differ.

    34. Re:You mean go back to how it was? by farble1670 · · Score: 1

      Seems like since we're all walking around with computers in our pockets, capable of amazing things

      It's media hosting. Your phone doesn't have the bandwidth or storage to host images let alone video.

    35. Re:You mean go back to how it was? by farble1670 · · Score: 1

      Yeah, but the main difference is now everyone demands all that domain/web hosting shit be provided for free, which is exactly how consumers made the jump from using a product to becoming the product.

      Who'd have thought people don't want to pay thousands of dollars a year to host their own media.

    36. Re:You mean go back to how it was? by chispito · · Score: 1

      Other than that wasn't when the Internet started, yes, personal websites or the "Blogosphere" as it was briefly known, was better than Facebook in so many ways.

      I think the 2 billion people using Facebook, and the out of business companies and dead projects for personal websites would beg to differ.

      Not everything that is popular is good and not everything that is good is popular.

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    37. Re:You mean go back to how it was? by farble1670 · · Score: 1

      Not everything that is popular is good and not everything that is good is popular.

      I guess everyone was tricked into using Facebook. Not you though of course.

    38. Re:You mean go back to how it was? by pnutjam · · Score: 1

      Centralized bandwidth is much less expensive. If everyone in your family individually pulled the video of your cat puking a hairball, it would get costly; especially on mobile.
      Bandwidth costs at a datacenter are practically free in comparison.

  2. Bring back Geocities! by jfdavis668 · · Score: 1

    Remember how great all those web sites built by High Schoolers were back in the day? I don't either.

    1. Re: Bring back Geocities! by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      That was just as centealized as FB so no. We gotta go back further! Bring back prohosted homepages! Because everyone is so great at security!

    2. Re:Bring back Geocities! by DogDude · · Score: 4, Insightful

      I do. It was pretty awesome.

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    3. Re:Bring back Geocities! by kalieaire · · Score: 1

      tell me about that free page view counter and your invite to all advantage.

    4. Re:Bring back Geocities! by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1, Interesting

      Remember how great all those web sites built by High Schoolers were back in the day? I don't either.

      Everybody laughed at those crappy personal websites but the environment back then was a hell of a lot better than today's sanitized corporate internet where one wrong thought gets you kicked off of all of the platforms. Why isn't it coming back when storage and bandwidth are cheaper than ever? One wrong thought on a customer's site gets the host kicked out of the colo, gets the colo DDOSed, etc. It's not just the Nazis, people are getting banned from the whole internet for saying stuff that Obama and Clinton campaigned on.

    5. Re:Bring back Geocities! by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Yes. I remember it well. Geocities was just beautiful.

      (I'll go and let myself out now.)

    6. Re:Bring back Geocities! by Stormwatch · · Score: 0

      >Bring back Geocities!

      There ya go. https://neocities.org/

    7. Re:Bring back Geocities! by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I do, too. It was awesome. The ladder rung for shitposting was that much higher. You at least had to learn HTML, first.

    8. Re: Bring back Geocities! by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      It is safest to not criticize anyone at any time and generally express no deviant or timely thoughts lest you be ostracized either now or in the future when winds change. The future is now, and it's name is self censorship.

    9. Re:Bring back Geocities! by Tablizer · · Score: 2, Interesting

      At least Geocities sites sucked differently compared to Facebook. Variety in suckage is better than mass-manufactured cookie-cutter PHB-controlled suckage.

    10. Re: Bring back Geocities! by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      It is safest to not criticize anyone at any time and generally express no deviant or timely thoughts lest you be ostracized either now or in the future when winds change. The future is now, and it's name is self censorship.

      Who controls the past controls the future. Who controls the present controls the past.

    11. Re:Bring back Geocities! by sarren1901 · · Score: 1

      Keep up the good work comrade.

    12. Re:Bring back Geocities! by k6mfw · · Score: 2

      Some of you may laugh but there were many interesting techie sites on Geocities. Nowadays you have to wad through thousands of "techie" websites that were assembled by sales and marketing people, all good click-bait but lack in anything worthwhile. Since almost all are commercial companies trying to get top listed on Google, like ebay have to go through thousands of commercial sites (which pretty much present the same cheap crap from China) before finding a website created by someone who is smart and yet willing to share. i.e. CapeCanaveral

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    13. Re:Bring back Geocities! by k6mfw · · Score: 1

      one wrong thought gets you kicked off of all of the platforms.

      it's also asking a question in tech forums supported by companies, ask in the wrong dept and you are banned for life.

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    14. Re:Bring back Geocities! by Rockoon · · Score: 1

      What are you talking about? There were plenty of websites approved by Bobby!

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    15. Re: Bring back Geocities! by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Web hosting is still a thing, most people don't bother because they don't want to put any effort into it. Hell, other than picking a profile picture most people don't even customize their freaking Facebook pages.

    16. Re:Bring back Geocities! by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      The future is Retroshare (http://retroshare.net/) - I wish.

    17. Re: Bring back Geocities! by goose-incarnated · · Score: 1

      Who controls the past controls the future. Who controls the present controls the past.

      And what about those who control the spice?

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    18. Re: Bring back Geocities! by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      An old Mac, stuffed under the stairs running WebStar. Those were the days.

    19. Re: Bring back Geocities! by angel'o'sphere · · Score: 1

      They decide who is Emperor ... sigh, did you stop reading one page to early :D

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    20. Re:Bring back Geocities! by ganjadude · · Score: 1

      cut my coding teeth on geocities, but i always preferred tripod (i could hide the static banner in tripod without paying unlike geocities)

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    21. Re:Bring back Geocities! by Shotgun · · Score: 1

      Only if I can get my damn BLINK tag back!!

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    22. Re:Bring back Geocities! by DigressivePoser · · Score: 1

      At least Geocities sites sucked differently compared to Facebook.

      So begins a new phrase: Vintage suckage

  3. Yeah because by bobstreo · · Score: 3, Informative

    google and bookface would totally honor things like robots.txt files on a personal website, especially if it's hosted on some garbage "cloud" social site.

    They would never harvest your data and sell it to hundreds of companies. /s

    1. Re:Yeah because by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      this ... your data is gonna be scraped and raped.

    2. Re:Yeah because by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 5, Insightful

      Their spider would not gen information about who visits my page or what pages I visit.
      The information they can sell is only what I make public.

    3. Re:Yeah because by chispito · · Score: 4, Insightful

      google and bookface would totally honor things like robots.txt files on a personal website, especially if it's hosted on some garbage "cloud" social site.

      They would never harvest your data and sell it to hundreds of companies. /s

      Yes but they don't get the pleasure of recording IP, cookie, browser, or any other tracking information of you as the site owner. They don't get to access anything you put behind a login. They don't get whatever information you willingly post on a public website already categorized and piped into their database.

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    4. Re:Yeah because by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      google and bookface would totally honor things like robots.txt files on a personal website, especially if it's hosted on some garbage "cloud" social site.

      .htaccess

    5. Re: Yeah because by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      You meant glegoo and bookface. FTFY

    6. Re:Yeah because by swillden · · Score: 1

      google and bookface would totally honor things like robots.txt files on a personal website, especially if it's hosted on some garbage "cloud" social site.

      Google absolutely does honor robots.txt.

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    7. Re:Yeah because by ChatHuant · · Score: 1

      Google absolutely does honor robots.txt.

      How about the Do Not Track header?

    8. Re:Yeah because by swillden · · Score: 1

      Google absolutely does honor robots.txt.

      How about the Do Not Track header?

      I don't believe Google sites pay attention to the DNT header.

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    9. Re:Yeah because by jtgd · · Score: 1

      They wouldn't harvest my clicks.

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    10. Re:Yeah because by jtgd · · Score: 1

      Google absolutely does honor robots.txt.

      Nice to know, but just to be safe you can always block the spider's IP address.

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    11. Re:Yeah because by swillden · · Score: 1

      Google absolutely does honor robots.txt.

      Nice to know, but just to be safe you can always block the spider's IP address.

      I'd be surprised if it only uses one address, or even a particular block of addresses.

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    12. Re:Yeah because by swillden · · Score: 1

      Google absolutely does honor robots.txt.

      Nice to know, but just to be safe you can always block the spider's IP address.

      A more reliable way would be to examine the useragent header and return errors to the spider. But there's really no need; Google doesn't want to spider your data if you don't want it spidered, so robots.txt is perfectly effective and the simplest option.

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    13. Re:Yeah because by coofercat · · Score: 1

      And in fact, I'd argue that Google have pretty much killed off the 'blogosphere'. I'm sure in many cases the owners just gave up on them and headed over to Facebook and Twitter, but in part that was probably because of falling traffic numbers. There's no point blogging if you're not getting the hits.

      My very annecodtal experience suggests that Google seems to prefer "big" sites, and commercial sites over smaller, home-spun ones. You might have *the* most authoritative information about a particular niche topic on your little site, but Google will still prefer to show Amazon, Ebay and a bunch of other big sites ahead of yours - even though the search terms were a close match for content on your site (and you had no intention of buying something). There's very little way to have a few random pages on a site get anywhere in Google - you need to be on a big 'themed' site to get the hits.

      You can of course ague this is all "pagerank" and whatnot. That's probably true, but maybe Pagerank has run its course, or maybe there's a way to 'rank' the Internet that's 'better' (for different values of $better, of course). Maybe Google massages the results to "provide greater user value", or maybe the blogs of old were just utter shit. I couldn't tell you for sure.

    14. Re:Yeah because by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      >The information they can sell is only what I make public.

      I want to live in your world...

      Meanwhile, for the rest of us, that's laughable.

    15. Re:Yeah because by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      You'd control access. Anything you choose to publish where the spiders could crawl was declared public by you.

    16. Re:Yeah because by jtgd · · Score: 1

      I'd be surprised if it only uses one address, or even a particular block of addresses.

      I block 66.102.7.*. If I see more I add it to list.

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    17. Re:Yeah because by jtgd · · Score: 1

      My robots.txt tells them to fuck off but they keep coming back. I reply with 403 Forbidden.

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  4. GeoCities and AngelFire by DarkRookie2 · · Score: 1

    Yes, lets bring them back.
    Some of those sites were fun to browse

    You also go to start somewhere.

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    1. Re: GeoCities and AngelFire by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Just hop on tor, it's basically the 1990's web.

  5. I believe the old-timers had a solution for this.. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    IIRC an individual could set up their own little custom website-let, their own little space within their control. "Their" space.

  6. We Zhould MORE Pretend Anything We Do Matterz! by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Cuz it dontz!

    Go Jezuz verzuz Zatan!

  7. Typo by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    That's 'year of our Lord 2002'

  8. the Indieweb/Fediverse is a thing. by dgp · · Score: 5, Informative

    People have been building the protocols to support this at https://indieweb.org/ and http://activitypub.rocks/.

    If you're not ready to host your own software, public installations of Mastodon are a decent alternative - https://instances.social/list

    1. Re:the Indieweb/Fediverse is a thing. by DogDude · · Score: 1

      You're missing the point. Joining yet another "service" is exactly what this author is suggesting that people *NOT* do.

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    2. Re:the Indieweb/Fediverse is a thing. by Bradmont · · Score: 4, Insightful

      This is about as much a "service" as email itself is. It is a standard that lets anyone build a service and interact with others. Sure, there are services that do it for you, just as there are services that offer you an email account, but it is definitely not the same thing. In fact, it is a lot more like TFA's idea than it is like Facebook. The analog would be that HTTP/HTML is to activitypub what the personal web page is to mastodon.

    3. Re:the Indieweb/Fediverse is a thing. by tepples · · Score: 1

      IndieWeb is not a "service" but just a branding for returning to personal websites. It consists of a handful of protocols that a personal website may implement:

      - microformats, which sits on top of HTML's class attribute
      - Webmention, which travels over HTTPS
      - IndieAuth, a simplified replacement for OpenID that also travels over HTTPS

  9. The power of constraints by presidenteloco · · Score: 5, Interesting

    Facebook succeeded because it made self-publishing, and commenting, easier. (Easier even than the trivially simple 2 page original html spec.)

    Google succeeded by making the search place on the Internet simple to use (one box, one, or was it two, buttons) and uncluttered by unsightly banner ads.

    There's a lesson in that.
    Giving too many degrees of freedom, or too much disorganized and useless information, reduces the size of the user base.

    So maybe if someone comes up with a website-making template thing that makes personal websites (and their interaction) as constrained and uniform to use as facebook is, maybe that could happen. Otherwise, it won't.

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    Where are we going and why are we in a handbasket?
    1. Re:The power of constraints by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      So maybe if someone comes up with a website-making template thing that makes personal websites (and their interaction) as constrained and uniform to use as facebook is, maybe that could happen.

      you mean remake Facebook?

    2. Re:The power of constraints by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

      You need to observe how people use Facebook and what they get out of it. Facebook is disfunctional in many ways, so it's really easy to tell what it does well. You just need to look. Personal websites are no competition. Facebook is not about publishing anything. It's about communication. If you want to replace Facebook, you need a better messenger, not better websites.

    3. Re:The power of constraints by raftpeople · · Score: 1

      I'm going to take it one step further: No buttons, no input boxes, just a simple white background.

    4. Re:The power of constraints by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Wrong. Facebook didn't succeed at making self-publishing, or commenting easier. They just stole that idea from others.

      The one company that pioneered self publishing on the internet (http) was Geocities more than 20 years ago. True that was html based, but html was a simpler thing back in the day, and there were enough wysiwyg editors already. Many others followed obfuscating html further and integrate the wysiwyg editors better in the browser. They were all open, and there was lots of freedom with these places.

      Geocities not a social media company enough to you since it was only about web pages? Fine, but there were others that had message boards or chat boxes so you could communicate. Plenty of people integrated all of these before facebook came along.

      The thing facebook succeeded in was lying. They enticed people with, "want to share your info privately with your friends? sign up for us we'll keep it private, and invite your friends to see it!" They called it private, I know because I had friends say it was private. I was still skeptical. I know now it was good I was.

      But facebook grew because the only way to really see what people was sharing with you was to also get an account. This pulled people in just to be able to access people's profiles. Eventually everyone that mattered was on facebook and not using anything else because it built up a large enough community that nothing else mattered.

      All has come out now about facebook to know that your stuff really isn't private, and how they curate your content rather than allow you to have your voice and select your viewers by filtering. I saw about 7-8 years ago the signs they were a bunch of liars when they made moves to mess up your profile page so they can push more of their content in your face for ad revenue and make it harder to read your friends status.

      In summary, they succeeded in recreating what others did and calling it exclusive. But really they just created an electronic ghetto on top of http, and people should really go back to finding old style hosting services and promote competition through open communication again. Facebook is not open, and it has a monopolistic control until we can break the mold. I think we will since now more than ever the bad press is catching up. I mean, come'on did any really expect myspace to fold after how big they got?

    5. Re:The power of constraints by sonamchauhan · · Score: 1

      You're right. Maybe a phone app that understands verbal cues and commands, your personal agenda, your contact list (including their faces) and uses this knowledge to handle media *as you generate it*.

      E.g., you saying "this is such a gorgeous place" when snapping a picture of scenery in Kawai'i uploads a suitable resolution of the photo, along with a distribution list, to your parents phone, or to a couple of peers, who then distribute it using some sort of bit-torrent P2P method. Maybe a low-power RasPi or $10/yr server serving as backup store of high-res media.

      Videoing a picture of a concert poster, saying "hey wifey, wanna go for this", OCRs and transcribes event time and place, queries your wife, and sets up purchase and management of concert tickets.

      Saying "smile", as you take a snap at a wedding recognises the faces of your friends and automatically syncs the picture to their phones. If a friend of a friend is in the pic, it is similarly recognised and forwarded by your friend's phone to their phone.

      Federated recognition. If your phone does not recognise where it's at, what you're doing, it uses input from other untrusted/trusted devices. E.g., '[event: wedding [entities:...]]'

      Dynamically setup conversation groups, linked to your phone and mediated by multiple PKI keypairs linked to your phone. Maybe using good old SMTP as messaging backbone. (I.e. Messages exchanged via email, but presented via app)

      Offline multi- factor authentication, maybe a printed page with QR code, or a handwritten page of codes, or a code carved in a tree trunk, or a combination of some or all the above (so a codebreaker must go on a near impossible quest).

      Voice response to conversation threads, transcribed in real time, with confirmation requested where necessary by a conversational interface.

    6. Re:The power of constraints by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Google succeeded by making the search place on the Internet simple to use (one box, one, or was it two, buttons) and uncluttered by unsightly banner ads.

      The difference that made Google was pagerank. The other search engines all produced much shittier results than Google.

      Facebook succeeded because it made self-publishing, and commenting, easier. (Easier even than the trivially simple 2 page original html spec.)

      Why did Wikipedia succeed? You have to learn wiki code to contribute!! ZOMG.... so hard...

      There's a lesson in that.
      Giving too many degrees of freedom, or too much disorganized and useless information, reduces the size of the user base.

      Seriously you're going with this? Facebook is a treasure trove of disorganized useless information. Jesus fucking Christ.

      So maybe if someone comes up with a website-making template thing that makes personal websites (and their interaction) as constrained and uniform to use as facebook is, maybe that could happen. Otherwise, it won't.

      Give it a rest you have no data.

    7. Re: The power of constraints by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

      Congrats, you've just specified Blogger, Livejournal and Wordpress

    8. Re: The power of constraints by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Where is Kawai'i? Akihabara?

    9. Re: The power of constraints by reanjr · · Score: 1

      The larger barrier to entry on Wikipedia is knowing something relevant and being able to find citations. The actual Wikicode was trivial in comarison. Not so when sharing pictures of your cat.

    10. Re: The power of constraints by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Ah, good old about:blank. The timeless Zen version of Zombo.com, so to speak.

    11. Re:The power of constraints by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Creating a website at a generic ISP cost about $7/month. Plus content creation, the labor of-course in learning HTML 4.x-trans and how-to-apply various JS cleverness ( transplant of-course not code --- JS is unreadable for 99% of normal humans ) . How much money does FACEBOOK/TWITTER etcetc cost ... I've never been a member ... and how much HTML do you need to write ? The dependency which large social media encourages plays to the "strengths" of children, feebs , women and the Trotsky-slut panders who traffic their emotions . BTW/// My unsupported original fiction website is a GOOGLE top-10 under its main tagline with a modest amused readership and often 1000+ visits/month.

    12. Re:The power of constraints by Jason+Levine · · Score: 1

      WordPress makes it nearly trivial to set up your own website. Many hosts even provide installers so that you just click a button on your control panel and get a WordPress installation. As much as I like WordPress, though, I think part of the problem in replacing Facebook is the "one stop shop" concept. If I want to check on how Bill, Ted, Fred, and George are doing, I can either go to 4 different websites one after another or I can go to Facebook.com and see all of their updates. (Theoretically, that is. Facebook's algorithm tends to hide things but people still "feel" like they're seeing the updates.)

      So perhaps a combination of easily created/updated personal sites and RSS could replace Facebook.

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    13. Re:The power of constraints by ganjadude · · Score: 1

      isnt that the concept of wordpress?

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    14. Re:The power of constraints by Smuffe · · Score: 1

      Exactly this!

      UX and UI can add a ton of value to something that most people think is too complicated to learn. The latest example is Slack that is just IRC done easier, with some small nice bells and whistles. Not every company has the skill or patience to keep an IRC-server, but slap a good UI on it and it suddenly becomes business critical.

    15. Re:The power of constraints by bigpat · · Score: 1

      ^This

      Coming up with the protocols and architecture is one thing... I can imagine a Facebook killing set of open standard protocols to allow people to build interoperable services that would enable Facebook like services without one centralized provider.

      The next thing is coming up with the business model to keep people employed or focused in open source projects on providing that simplified UI experience that will enable multiple independent software/systems projects that give people a richer set of options (including simpler UI) than the proprietary social networks.

      Take Firefox for example... great browser use it daily. Chrome is better, faster. I think Firefox is probably one of the most successful open source projects on the planet which revolutionized web browsing and saved the Internet from an almost assured slow death due to IE dominance and the embrace, extend and monopolize Microsoft doctrine. At least Chrome is in part based on open source so you do have options and Google has remained mostly dedicated to supporting open web standards and interoperable communications protocols... with some waning of emphasis over the years.

      Just the broader point remains... to move from a worthy concept and vision to executing an open source project (or in the case of Facebook replacement and open source ecosystem of products) takes organization, resources and steady leadership at multiple levels. It ain't easy for Facebook and it ain't going to be easy to replace Facebook...

      it will happen, but it ain't going to be easy.

    16. Re:The power of constraints by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Facebook succeeded because

      Facebook succeeded because they pay to have their stupid icon everywhere and people, but especially millennials, are easily brainwashed--and do what they are told to do.

    17. Re:The power of constraints by mapkinase · · Score: 1

      > Google succeeded by making the search place on the Internet simple to use

      No. That's not why it succeeded. It gave much better results than everything else because of the PageRank: the algorithm that the founders worked on in Stanford.

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  10. "We" should repalce Facebook by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Who's "we", and why do feel "we" can do this?

    1. Re:"We" should repalce Facebook by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      > Who's "we", and why do feel "we" can do this?

      We, the People
      In order to form a more perfect Internet
      Establish net neutrality, insure domestic broadband,
      Provide for the common firewall,
      Promote the general netiquette,
      And secure the blessings of connectivity
      To ourselves and our posterity,
      Do ordain and establish this Free Social Network
      For the United States of America
      (and some other countries too).

    2. Re:"We" should repalce Facebook by bobbied · · Score: 1

      Who's "we", and why do feel "we" can do this?

      Hey, if the "Zuck" can create Facebook, surely WE can replace it.... Right? Right?

      Take Slashdot for instance......

      (sarc: off)

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      "File to fit, pound to insert, paint to match" - Aircraft Maintenance 101
    3. Re:"We" should repalce Facebook by mydn · · Score: 1

      Take Slashdot

      <hennyyoungman>, please.</hennyyoungman>

  11. IndieWeb & Interoperable Online Communities by esokullu · · Score: 1

    Can't agree more. Personal websites (e.g. IndieWeb) and interoperable online communities are the way to go to replace Facebook with a distributed approach. That's why we started Grou.ps (http://grou.ps/) an open source online community builder Grou.ps just a week ago. It's all open source, the code is on Github, it is written with IndieWeb (https://indieweb.org/) standards built-in. Everyone is welcome to create their own community and contribute to the source code. As for personal websites, we're good, Wordpress and Jekyll are both good open source solutions. As an example, my personal website https://emresokullu.com/ is just one, it follows h-card rules, and once I add "follow/friend" feature to it, it will turn into a functional node in the distributed open source utopia. More of us should do that, and make this a reality.

    1. Re:IndieWeb & Interoperable Online Communities by DogDude · · Score: 4, Funny

      Your web site doesn't work.

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    2. Re:IndieWeb & Interoperable Online Communities by forkfail · · Score: 4, Funny

      First website to be /.ed in a decade.

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    3. Re:IndieWeb & Interoperable Online Communities by Rockoon · · Score: 1

      The future is nonworking links, but at least its open source? Is that what you are saying (your page dont load bro)?

      --
      "His name was James Damore."
    4. Re:IndieWeb & Interoperable Online Communities by jtgd · · Score: 1

      Just keep hitting reload until it comes up. Hitting it every few seconds should teach that server a lesson.

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    5. Re:IndieWeb & Interoperable Online Communities by Shotgun · · Score: 1

      That's why we started Grou.ps (http://grou.ps/) an open source online community builder Grou.ps just a week ago.

      Why would you start yet another open source project instead of just joining Diaspora?

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      Aah, change is good. -- Rafiki
      Yeah, but it ain't easy. -- Simba
    6. Re:IndieWeb & Interoperable Online Communities by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Goddammit, you're not exaggerating, either. I'm OLD.

  12. No we shouldn't by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    This is such a terrible idea that won't ever happen that it doesn't even warrant my reasons why its terrible..

  13. Facebooks use of personal data can be regulated. The use of data from a public site such as "Jason's Site." is an order of magnitude harder to regulate due to it being accessible to anyone, I don't see how that's an improvement.

    1. Re:Why? by DogDude · · Score: 4, Insightful

      There's nothing to regulate about a personal web site. There's no data being collected and sold.

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    2. Re:Why? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Oh Virginia, yes there is huge opportunity for such data to be collected and turned into products that are sold for profit.

      Thats essentially Google's business model.

    3. Re:Why? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Jason has total control over what he shares. He's not required to store his cell phone number, Kik, Reddit handle, and mother's maiden name in a database accessible via an API to have a page. Anything Jason posts is voluntary. And, since Jason's site is something he needs to make himself, he will be more thoughtful about what he posts. Or he won't care and will start posting pictures of himself in furry costumes. At that point it's really on Jason if he does that. It won't be leaked along with 4,999,999 other people's pics because a dev got too lazy to plug a hole or was order not to plug it so the FSB could harvest it.

      Regulations are only as good as the enforcers. In case you haven't noticed, our regulators are asleep at the wheel at least half of the time. I'm all for regulation but the need for it is an integral accident stemming from the existence of FB and similar services. Destroy those services via depopulation of their user bases and there's nothing to regulate.

    4. Re:Why? by 110010001000 · · Score: 1

      But Jason could do that right now, but he doesn't. Why? Oh I know why: because only 0.0001% on the planet are able to figure out how to run their own website and maintain it and pay for it.

    5. Re:Why? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      If Jason's Site worked like Facebook, it would have:
      - a hidden friend list that's maintained by the site owner, not accessible anywhere, pointing to all his friends' web sites
      - a photo album
      - a time series of posts, allowing comments to be attached by people who are identified as Jason's friends
      - something like an RSS feed

      The trick is that if I am "logged in" on my own web site, I should see recent items from all my friends, along with all the comments that their friends have attached.
      Either my site, or maybe a browser plugin, has to be able to verify that I'm me and only then, show me all that relationship-linking data.

      Maybe my site should have a way to make signed requests to all my friends' sites and return the data on web pages it serves to me. Or, when I visit a friend's site, if I present a signed request, it shows the private data that's accessible only to his friends. Some of this could be done if each site's friend list contains a whitelist of domain names and the associated public keys of all the friends.

      But there are problems.
      - my site has to have a login function to know that I'm me. Replicated over a billion separate web sites, this is a gaping security hole since there's no professional group of people watching for software updates and doing penetration testing. So individual sites are liable to be hacked.
      - if my site can download data from my friends' sites, that will all be open for copying if my site security is broken
      - if my site can't download that data, it has to build a page on demand that pulls data from my friends' sites; that'll be slow and have missing data

      But on the whole, I would probably be satisfied with the speed. The thing that's really required is simple tools for adding content (e.g. uploading a picture or video from a mobile phone, and adding a comment to someone's entries). That seems perfectly doable.

    6. Re:Why? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      There's no data being collected and sold.

      You... you cannot be that naive, right?

      Surely parent post is a troll or some sarcasm that went over my head?

    7. Re:Why? by ISayWeOnlyToBePolite · · Score: 1

      There's nothing to regulate about a personal web site. There's no data being collected and sold.

      Web scraping. What I believe people are worried about is the collection of personal data by private companies, with facebook that's regulated by the user agreement and your national laws. What I see being proposed is giving that information up freely to anyone.

    8. Re:Why? by Oligonicella · · Score: 1

      Perhaps you missed the news that FB does *not* honor their user agreement.

    9. Re:Why? by c120plus · · Score: 1

      Facebooks use of personal data can be regulated. The use of data from a public site such as "Jason's Site." is an order of magnitude harder to regulate due to it being accessible to anyone, I don't see how that's an improvement.

      Stuff on Jason's Site's is copyrighted and Jason can set his own terms and conditions on the use, so it's a lot easier for Jason to regulate, what can legally be done with his data. Plus he can hide stuff behind logins, capchas and other robot averting methods. So that would be a huge improvement, but organising this is alas a lot of work. That's why just tweeting out stuff is so much easier...

    10. Re:Why? by jtgd · · Score: 1

      I think it would be harder to turn this into profits. Even if evil Faceboogle scraped it, if they aren't serving the ads, what good is it?

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    11. Re:Why? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      If you are not paying fakebook to run ads then you are the PRODUCT they are selling, not the "user"--you are the USED. lol

  14. Geocities? Web rings? No, thank you. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Facebook is boring but basically functional, and I don't really care who knows what brand of cereal I prefer or how often I buy coffee.

  15. Alternatives to Facebook by OrangeTide · · Score: 1

    Tumblr, Blogger, etc are not much different than GeoCities and MySpace back in the day. Being totally devoid of social networking makes these better than Facebook according to the criteria in the article, but most people aren't following the author's arbitrary criteria. Running your own website still has some technical hurdles for most people, but there are plenty of alternatives that get you nearly there or you pay for a full blown CMS. Larger organizations and clubs can run WordPress through a hosting company, and retain a lot a lot more control than Facebook grants.

    There is also MeWe and a few others that are basically like Facebook but more group oriented like G+ was. It's still the social networking model that people seem to want.

    in short, unrealistic expectations on how society will adapt to social networking. regression to early technology is very unlikely.

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    “Common sense is not so common.” — Voltaire
  16. If our ISPs would let us by fustakrakich · · Score: 3, Interesting

    more people would have their own personal site. Those Raspberry Pis are perfect for it. But I believe most contracts prohibit you from operating a server. This is yet another reason we must demand that ISPs be given common carrier status.

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    “He’s not deformed, he’s just drunk!”
    1. Re:If our ISPs would let us by sverdlichenko · · Score: 1

      Sure, having insecure IoT devices is not enough, lets put some more amateur web-servers into home networks.

    2. Re:If our ISPs would let us by fustakrakich · · Score: 1

      You do security at your endpoint. Don't worry about other people's.

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      “He’s not deformed, he’s just drunk!”
    3. Re:If our ISPs would let us by bill_mcgonigle · · Score: 1

      This is yet another reason we must demand that ISPs be given common carrier status.

      You're going to count on the same government that gave them a monopoly grant to protect your access to the Internet? When it goes against their interests of having everybody's content centrally-controlled?

      Good luck with that. The rest of us will be over on Starlink.

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      OUTSIDE_IP=$(dig +short my.ip @outsideip.net)
    4. Re:If our ISPs would let us by sverdlichenko · · Score: 1

      Sure, "other people" are well known for doing their endpoint security and never allowing another botnet to arise. Their Windows PCs, their routers, their IoT devices, other people keep them secure. An IoT-based botnet disrupting major internet services? Never happened with "other people."

      Also note how evil ISPs immediately took massive action against all these users, who inadvertently run all these IoT and Windows servers at their homes. The most reliable way to get your internet service disconnected, for sure.

    5. Re:If our ISPs would let us by fustakrakich · · Score: 0

      Oh god! You have a Subaru?

      The government is in the voters' image. It is what they make it.

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      “He’s not deformed, he’s just drunk!”
    6. Re:If our ISPs would let us by WaffleMonster · · Score: 1

      more people would have their own personal site. Those Raspberry Pis are perfect for it. But I believe most contracts prohibit you from operating a server. This is yet another reason we must demand that ISPs be given common carrier status.

      Who cares? What are they going to do about it?

    7. Re:If our ISPs would let us by Rockoon · · Score: 0

      Thats why we got universal healthcare as promised by Obama.... oh... wait...

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    8. Re:If our ISPs would let us by fustakrakich · · Score: 0

      He still got reelected. Voters gotta speak up!

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    9. Re:If our ISPs would let us by drinkypoo · · Score: 1

      Yeah, we should demand that. But if we're demanding things, why don't we demand that they fix Facebook? And while we're at it, a unicorn that shits soft serve ice cream?

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      "You're right," Fisheye says. "I should have set it on 'whip' or 'chop.'"
    10. Re:If our ISPs would let us by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      my ISP randomly and out of the blue decides to block 1 - 1024 in-coming ports.
      a cup of strong coffee, a 10 minute my little ponies brain laundry watch gets me in the right (friendly) mood to
      explain to the IP how the internet works. it mostly results in getting them low level tubs unblocked (for a while).
      in any case, letting the webserver hang off a onion is how the internet routes around mickey-mouse internet service providers ...

    11. Re:If our ISPs would let us by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Block ports 80 and/or 443 outbound, which makes web hosting impossible. ISPs are often pretty sketchy.

    12. Re:If our ISPs would let us by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I've been running my own website that is my name .com since I signed up for dial up internet service with AT&T Circa 1996. Back then AT&T even provided you with the web space. at prvserv.att.net which changed to prserv.attglobal.net then to something else.

      I registered my name as a domain in 2000 and moved to DSL instead of dial up then too. I told AT&T that I needed a static IP so I could connect to the company I was working for VPN. Back then the only verification you had to VPN's was an IP address. When my DSL IP address changed I had to tell the SysAdmin of my new IP address which was about once a week. But I really only signed into the VPN about once a month, but AT&T believed it and gave me a static IP for free.

      I then started running my own web server. AT&T did block port 80 for incoming traffic but the registrar allowed directing to a different port which I used :8080 which worked well for years. Well, until AT&T started blocking port 25, in about 2005 or 2006. I lived with it for years until I moved to Comcast and got static IP's with them and life has been good since about 2013, no blocks what so ever.

      I now run my own web server on a computer in my son's room which he uses to play Roblox.com on .

      All you need is a static IP and register what ever name you would like and you are in business.

    13. Re:If our ISPs would let us by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Troll? Are the moderators that fucking juvenile?! Gotta be a democrat...

    14. Re:If our ISPs would let us by fustakrakich · · Score: 1

      Facebook's singular fault is its popularity. There nothing wrong with them that we can't fix by staying away and blocking their trackers at our end. Content is our problem. The service provider is the gatekeeper we have to work around.

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    15. Re:If our ISPs would let us by fustakrakich · · Score: 1

      All you need is a static IP and register what ever name you would like and you are in business.

      :-) You didn't mention how much all that costs. If I remember right, static IPs don't come cheap. Our phones have static phone numbers. Come to think of it, why can't that be our IP address?

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    16. Re:If our ISPs would let us by drinkypoo · · Score: 1

      Facebook's singular fault is its popularity. There nothing wrong with them that we can't fix by staying away and blocking their trackers at our end.

      Thing is, I want what they're giving me. I use various tools to block ads, don't share a bunch of personal information through them, etc. I do block their trackers on other sites, and shun Facebook comments and login. I'm open to something distributed that does what it does, but have little faith that it will appear.

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      "You're right," Fisheye says. "I should have set it on 'whip' or 'chop.'"
    17. Re: If our ISPs would let us by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      It's moderated troll because he knows damn well that wasn't Obama's fault. He was stonewalled for 8 years by repubtards.

    18. Re:If our ISPs would let us by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      But I believe most contracts prohibit you from operating a server

      This is just plain dumb and unenforceable. Every single computer hosts some service or another to the outside world whether it be windows, macos, linux or what ever. These services are built into the os layers fundamentally whether you are a client, or host. The position is more often dynamic, like games for example.

    19. Re: If our ISPs would let us by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      The Rs bitched and whined for 8 years about Obamacare and then when they finally got into power, what did they have to replace it? A big NOTHINGBURGER.

      Yeah, that's leadership!

    20. Re: If our ISPs would let us by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Bullshit! A bunch of democrats went along with the so called obstruction. He didn't need any republican votes, and he didn't speak up for it either when he was needed to use his bully pulpit to agitate the voters. So fuck him! He was a chair warmer, like Jimmy Carter. A regular corporate stooge. And Pelosi? Well! Look at that! The dumbasses put her right back where she was when she sold everybody out by taking it *off the table*. Fuck her too! And the idiots that vote for them!

    21. Re: If our ISPs would let us by Areyoukiddingme · · Score: 1

      The Rs bitched and whined for 8 years about Obamacare and then when they finally got into power, what did they have to replace it? A big NOTHINGBURGER.

      Yeah, that's leadership!

      Why would they replace it? It was precisely the plan they wanted. They just bitched and whined because Obama was president at the time his pansy-ass Congress passed it.

  17. Facebook born 2/4/2004 - the day the Lifelog died! by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Research the subject...

    https://www.reddit.com/r/conspiracy/comments/8bilw2/darpas_lifelog_canceled_the_same_day_facebook_was/

    They wanted to record every breath you take. Q has said, "we can hear you breathing" -- seems like a link, there!

  18. Facebook isn't just for the vain by MightyYar · · Score: 3, Insightful

    The original appeal of Facebook for me is how easy it was to stay connected. Search for a long-lost friend and BOOM you are connected forever. If you are old enough to remember manually keeping an address book up to date, then you are old enough to remember how freeing it felt to be relieved of this responsibility. For frequent contacts? Sure, enter the contact into your phone (if it isn't already synced with Facebook). But for everyone else, it's a great way to stay in touch. Or maybe not a great way, but it's a way and it requires no effort.

    Now I like it because I can stay plugged in to local events - local papers are either closed or worthless now, so for good or bad social media == local news.

    I don't really post much on there, but I do share a lot of photos - it has replaced Flickr for me in that regard... but that was as simple as changing the plugin that I use in Lightroom.

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    W..w..W - Willy Waterloo washes Warren Wiggins who is washing Waldo Woo.
    1. Re:Facebook isn't just for the vain by thewolfkin · · Score: 1

      The original appeal of Facebook for me is how easy it was to stay connected. Search for a long-lost friend and BOOM you are connected forever. If you are old enough to remember manually keeping an address book up to date, then you are old enough to remember how freeing it felt to be relieved of this responsibility. For frequent contacts? Sure, enter the contact into your phone (if it isn't already synced with Facebook). But for everyone else, it's a great way to stay in touch. Or maybe not a great way, but it's a way and it requires no effort.

      Now I like it because I can stay plugged in to local events - local papers are either closed or worthless now, so for good or bad social media == local news.

      I don't really post much on there, but I do share a lot of photos - it has replaced Flickr for me in that regard... but that was as simple as changing the plugin that I use in Lightroom.

      true there are good things facebook does. Why not keep those features and throw out the personal stuff. There's no reason it can't be both. And besides if Facebook dies the market for what facebook does doesn't die. People might take back their data but connectedness could still work just not centralized under the control of a silicon valley nerd who doesn't consider how life works for people who aren't him.

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      Just another second banana
    2. Re:Facebook isn't just for the vain by Zontar+The+Mindless · · Score: 1

      Search for a long-lost friend and BOOM you are connected forever.

      Are you sure this is always desirable? Coming up with instances in which it isn't should be a trivial exercise.

      If you are old enough to remember manually keeping an address book up to date, then you are old enough to remember how freeing it felt to be relieved of this responsibility.

      The FSB still employ typewriters for sensitive records, and I still keep my address book on paper. I'm not especially interested in anyone other than myself knowing who all my contacts are.

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      Il n'y a pas de Planet B.
    3. Re:Facebook isn't just for the vain by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

      There used to be message boards, thinking late 80s, I think even pre-internet BBS confederated networks, where you'd go on and find a board for your college, club, interest, whatever, and you can make a post. You could then post asking if anyone had contact with such or such individual, and boom, the person would respond. It was an amazing thing to reconnect so quickly once you had electronic communication.

      What you are suggesting is not novel, facebook did not make it happen, and it definitely does not need to be centralized. Probably at best we just need a search engine, and someone to serve a communication platform or database for sharing contact info. I mean, after all, it's like having those phone books dropped on your doorstop, but now it's electronic.

    4. Re:Facebook isn't just for the vain by Rockoon · · Score: 1

      Are you sure this is always desirable? Coming up with instances in which it isn't should be a trivial exercise.

      ..like a crazy x-girlfriend from 20+ years ago looking to re-connect and unleash some more crazy on you?

      --
      "His name was James Damore."
    5. Re:Facebook isn't just for the vain by MightyYar · · Score: 1

      I'm not suggesting that it's novel, but it has a lot more users. I used to dial in to a local BBS, then later I was on usenet. But all my friends weren't on it - in fact, none of my friends were on it - only myself and a few fellow geeks that I would run into from time to time. Facebook is nothing like that - everyone is on it, from the random grandmother down the street with no computer to her grandkids. This makes it much more useful for the purposes I describe than anything that existed prior.

      I'm sure Facebook is not the end-all, be-all. In 20 years you'll be scolding me for using the newest thing, saying that's not new... Facebook did that 20 years ago!

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      W..w..W - Willy Waterloo washes Warren Wiggins who is washing Waldo Woo.
    6. Re:Facebook isn't just for the vain by MightyYar · · Score: 1

      Coming up with instances in which it isn't should be a trivial exercise.

      Sure, it's trivial. But fortunately for me, I'd be using my imagination. I'm lucky enough not to be an edge case.

      I don't know what the FSB is, but I have no interest in keeping paper records of any kind anymore. The only exception is the printed copy of my will that sits in a bank vault. Even that is just to make it blatantly obvious to everyone when I die, and not a reflection of my distrust of electronic storage.

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      W..w..W - Willy Waterloo washes Warren Wiggins who is washing Waldo Woo.
    7. Re:Facebook isn't just for the vain by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      If I can't be bothered to keep in touch with someone in my personal life, there's likely a reason and I really don't want to be electronically tied to this person forever just to avoid causing the drama of the dreaded "unfriended" move.

    8. Re:Facebook isn't just for the vain by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      >maybe not a great way, but it's a way and it requires no effort.

      yep. and as a result the fundamental nature of how we relate to each other changes and social bonds become dependant on technology and a single corporation.

      (obligatory "what could possibly...")

    9. Re:Facebook isn't just for the vain by MightyYar · · Score: 1

      Yeah, but that's a side-effect of what I'm talking about. Prior to Facebook, I would move or change phone numbers. And while I'd make an effort to contact the people in my address book, mistakes and accidents happen. People lose things, people get busy, people have emergencies, people get new phones and email addresses, people die, people go to jail. The chaos of life meant I was constantly updating my address book and scratching out entries when Christmas cards were returned or emails bounced. Facebook has largely put an end to all of that. 99% of the people I know can be contacted through Facebook. Parents of my kids' friends are on Facebook. Everyone is on Facebook. Would I care if I lost the ability to see what some guy I haven't seen in 15 years ate last night? No, absolutely not. Do I care when my separated-by-distance friend posts about where to send Christmas cards to his elderly mother? Absolutely. Miss my kid's concert? A post on Facebook and I'm showered with videos of it from other parents. I'm not defending Facebook, per se - but it does have some good uses beyond "LOOK AT ME!!!"

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      W..w..W - Willy Waterloo washes Warren Wiggins who is washing Waldo Woo.
  19. Good idea but.. by 110010001000 · · Score: 4, Funny

    ...but we should add the personal websites under a single domain so people can go there to find them and search them easily. We could call it mypage.com or something.

    1. Re:Good idea but.. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      ...but we should add the personal websites under a single domain so people can go there to find them and search them easily. We could call it mypage.com or something.

      EveryoneOnline
      geotowns.com
      bloggest.com

      And whatever it is, it must render search engines useless.

    2. Re:Good idea but.. by swillden · · Score: 2

      ...but we should add the personal websites under a single domain so people can go there to find them and search them easily. We could call it mypage.com or something.

      Oh, and also it should be completely free to use, because people won't pay for it, and it can't require people to know anything about building a site, running a server, etc. So we'll need an ad-supported hosting system with a super easy to use content management system.

      There are actually very good reasons why Facebook et al replaced personal web sites, you know.

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  20. Build Your Own Brand by KalvinB · · Score: 3, Insightful

    Running your own web-server has gotten easier and cheaper. A RaspberryPI 3 would easily handle the traffic for most people's personal sites. And high speed connections are much less costly than they used to be for the speed you get.

    Replacing Facebook with yet another central repository like GeoCities used to be is not a step forward, or backward, it's just the same thing.

    Facebook beat MySpace because of Glitter GIFs and other ungodly customizations that were so popular. Going to someone's page was unbearable. That's why Facebook banned GIFs for so long on their site and they highly control the layout to something simple and elegant instead of allowing garish monstrosities.

    If you want to make a go of being a "somebody" on the internet, then yes, you should build your own brand, host your own content and stop running ads that point to a megacorp's platform.

    Even streaming videos is trivial these days. I have the public domain "His Girl Friday" streaming on my own server as a proof of concept.

    The closer you get to the ISP the closer you get to the first amendment being enforced. Freedom of the Press doesn't give you a right to another man's printing press. Roll your own. Then you can print what you want and no one can shut you down without a court order that shows your "speech" isn't protected by the first amendment.

    1. Re:Build Your Own Brand by DogDude · · Score: 2

      ... or you could pay a few bucks a month to a responsible ISP and let them deal with the hassles of hosting. My personal web sites costs be about $3/year.

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      I don't respond to AC's.
    2. Re:Build Your Own Brand by DogDude · · Score: 1

      ... you forgot the rest of your sentence: "and give up ownership of everything I post and allow Facebook to track everything I do on the web and in real life".

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      I don't respond to AC's.
    3. Re:Build Your Own Brand by thewolfkin · · Score: 1

      oh snap HGF is in the public domain.. I could watch that again.

      --
      Just another second banana
    4. Re:Build Your Own Brand by thewolfkin · · Score: 1

      If you want to make a go of being a "somebody" on the internet, then yes, you should build your own brand, host your own content and stop running ads that point to a megacorp's platform.

      ... or you could pay a few bucks a month to a responsible ISP and let them deal with the hassles of hosting. My personal web sites costs be about $3/year.

      Or I could pay Facebook $0 and not have to mess with a website at all.

      but we're talking about $3 to not have your information sold without your consent. $3 to be able to control access to your information. People waste far more money on far less. Might be the best $3 you've ever spent.

      --
      Just another second banana
    5. Re:Build Your Own Brand by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Making your own webpage misses most of the point of social media: not having to work to keep up with your friends. Until someone makes a package that is secure, free and easy to use that incorporates:

      Push notifications of updates from friends websites to yours
      A mobile app
      The ability to upload any file easily
      The ability to push updates to your friends websites
      The ability to add something you see on the web to your page with one click (browser plugins for all platforms)
      Live streaming video
      editing and publishing video
      The ability to search for your friends websites by a fairly wide data set

      Well, you get the idea. No one wants to do all that only to give it away for free. And even if they do, that majority of people are not going to want to set it up. And those that do of course will want to somehow monetize it. With ads. So many ads.

  21. Re:Facebook born 2/4/2004 - the day the Lifelog di by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Amusingly, they're recording everything a person does -- even, those people who won't be entered into the Book of Life!

    Which means, the Book of Life most likely does not include the log of lifelog/Facebook. So, there's that!

  22. Could still be standardized by johannesg · · Score: 3, Insightful

    We could have protocols for doing facebook-like stuff, like sharing walls and groups and... whatever else is on facebook. We could have an open source reference implementation. It could all be decentralized, and made available by ISPs in the same way they make email available (that basically means teenagers won't have to compile a kernel so they can install Linux on a raspberry pi just to share cat pictures). Such a network wouldn't have a single, ruling company - it would all be decentralized.

    1. Re:Could still be standardized by 110010001000 · · Score: 3, Funny

      We COULD, but who would design it, build it, market it and maintain it? Not me, I'm too busy posting nonsense on Slashdot.

    2. Re:Could still be standardized by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Private rss feeds.

    3. Re:Could still be standardized by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      We could have protocols for doing facebook-like stuff, like sharing walls and groups and... whatever else is on facebook. We could have an open source reference implementation. It could all be decentralized, and made available by ISPs in the same way they make email available (that basically means teenagers won't have to compile a kernel so they can install Linux on a raspberry pi just to share cat pictures). Such a network wouldn't have a single, ruling company - it would all be decentralized.

      You could extend HTML5 with tags like , , , etc. Then you convince people to build their own websites. Then you have people to download something to be called Universal Really Simple Syndication in order to post and read other people's feeds. That would be awesome.

    4. Re:Could still be standardized by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      You WIN the Slashdot!

    5. Re:Could still be standardized by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      You could also employ HTML escapes for "<" and ">", in which case you might be regarded as someone who knows a bit of what they're talking about..

    6. Re:Could still be standardized by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

      It's built already: ActivityPub. That's the going standard and it's working. Not all the platforms are perfect yet, but a great standard is established and millions are using it.

    7. Re:Could still be standardized by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Implementations:
      https://www.gnu.org/software/social/
      https://joinmastodon.org/

      Protocols:
      https://activitypub.rocks/
      https://xmpp.org/extensions/xep-0060.html (XMPP pubsub)

      I'm sure I missed a bunch.

    8. Re:Could still be standardized by bigpat · · Score: 1

      We could... and someone will or has. It will start out as a niche, and might stay that way. I won't prognosticate the demise of Facebook, like some did for Microsoft. Especially since they seemed to have bought up all their nascent competitors... but given the ease of entry into the market, and the fact that using a set of secure, ad-free communications protocols to share with your friends and family could be highly appealing compared to the business model, platform, and UI limitations of Facebook. I think it is inevitable that these sorts of standardized social networking apps based on open standard protocols start emerging with more prominence.

  23. Re:How, how, how by bobbied · · Score: 2

    How is this news worthy? How did this make it to slashdot? How does someone have such a terrible idea that becomes news on the internet and then posted to slashdot which then passes the mods?

    You must be new here. This is Slashdot... We fight over ALL the best bad ideas on the internet for fun here.

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  24. Better idea... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    How about we all stop being such narcissists that we think the minutiae of our lives should be shared with all the world?

    Or if you are such a narcissist that you can't stop, you accept that the cost of your personality disorder is the loss of your privacy...

  25. Yeah we should by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    What FB and other social media sites did was allow idiots with very little technical skill publicize their activities. Of course, the problem is those folks are actually pretty stupid and have zero to contribute aside from revenge porn, cat pictures, and photos of the food they are eating at the time. Oh and they can apparently share Russian propaganda with ease. If we go back to making people build their own websites (or at least have to install one with a few clicks on a host) then the level and speed of stupid propagating on the internet will plummet by a factor of 1000. Suddenly only those who know the magic incantations of a point and click UI will be able to spread nonsense everywhere. that minimal level of expertise is enough to block out most of the mouth breathers. The only annoying morons left will be us... and that's actually an ok thing since at least if we're dense, racist, or sexist we can engage in semi-intelligent arguments before calling each other cucks. I'll take that any day over what we have right now.

    1. Re: Yeah we should by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Cuck.

  26. what do you mean "should"? by Paul+Carver · · Score: 1

    Seems weird to use the word "should" for something we did 10-20 years ago, or maybe more than that. I guess the people who don't care didn't, but if they don't care then they don't matter. Do we really need the world to be a cult where everyone has to do everything that everybody else does?

    Of course, a bunch of personal websites aren't the same thing as Facebook, but I don't expect facts to derail a rant.

    1. Re:what do you mean "should"? by Rockoon · · Score: 1

      This is nothing more than another instance of a millennial having an old idea but thinking its new. They do it in every domain.

      --
      "His name was James Damore."
  27. Yeah, sure.... by WankerWeasel · · Score: 5, Insightful

    Because I'm going to spend all day going from one friend's site to another to another..... rather than a single site to find out what's going on with all my friends and family.

    1. Re:Yeah, sure.... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 2, Insightful

      That‘s why he has an RSS newsfeed. If everybody had a newsfeed on their personal website, it would be easy to keep track of all updates.

    2. Re:Yeah, sure.... by chispito · · Score: 3, Insightful

      Because I'm going to spend all day going from one friend's site to another to another..... rather than a single site to find out what's going on with all my friends and family.

      Also solved long before Facebook.

      --
      The Daddy casts sleep on the Baby. The Baby resists!
    3. Re:Yeah, sure.... by Solandri · · Score: 4, Insightful
      That's what bookmarks and RSS feeds were supposed to be for. A way for you to get updates pushed to your browser without you having to visit every individual site you have bookmarked.

      Facebook isn't the first iteration of this problem. It isn't even the second. Before Facebook was MySpace. Before MySpace was GeoCities. (Before GeoCities was AOL, but that more Internet access via a portal instead of TCP/IP on your computer). In each case the individual wanting to publish on the web was faced with two choices:
      • Buy a domain name. Buy space on a hosting service. Install Apache. Install WordPress or whatever other software you need for the type of publishing. Learn how to configure it to do what you want. Do your publishing. Inform all your family and friends of your domain. Regularly update the software and Apache to keep ahead of security exploits as they're discovered. If you do get hacked, work to clean everything up and get your site up and running again.
      • Or create a Facebook / MySpace / GeoCities account and let that company deal with all of the above. You only have to worry about the publishing.

      That's the fundamental problem. Getting updates from multiple sites is easy. It's the site setup, maintenance, and cleanup work if you get haced (that most people wouldn't have a clue how to do anyway) that's hard. It's a lot easier just to have someone else deal with all that for you. And if that someone else requires you to sell your soul^H^H^H^Hdata and personal info for their services, people start to think that's a pretty good deal.

      This is why I've constantly railed against Open Source project managers and contributors who are dismissive or condescending towards user requests. If you don't make it easy for users (people who don't know how to program) to use your software, they will just use some other software which makes it easy for them. And Facebook, Google, Apple are more than happy to give them that easy user experience easy in exchange for the user's soul.

      If you want Open Source to succeed, you have to make it easy for users, not just for programmers.

    4. Re:Yeah, sure.... by Zontar+The+Mindless · · Score: 1

      And then we could party like it's 1999.

      --
      Il n'y a pas de Planet B.
    5. Re:Yeah, sure.... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      RSS feeds are nice, but you have to maintain the list yourself.

      I really did like the idea of Planets. You could have a planet for your family, where everyone has his own domain or subdomain and a blog with RSS. Then one planet where you can follow everything chronologically.
      Only one or two persons needs to maintain the list for the PLanet.

    6. Re:Yeah, sure.... by jtgd · · Score: 1

      You could have a reader app that went around to all your friends blogs, pulled data, and let you view a unified stream (like Facebook). You might want the blogs to use a standardized API for delivering that, but it doesn't seem too hard. The "normal" web page could just have what you want to be public (and the scrapers could only see that). With authorization through the API, identifying you as a friend, it could deliver more. You could even post content limited to selected people. It could be nice.

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      J
    7. Re:Yeah, sure.... by cascadingstylesheet · · Score: 1

      Because I'm going to spend all day going from one friend's site to another to another..... rather than a single site to find out what's going on with all my friends and family.

      That's what RSS feeds are for ... except that even Firefox removed its live feed bookmark thingie. Oops.

    8. Re:Yeah, sure.... by bigpat · · Score: 1

      If you want Open Source to succeed, you have to make it easy for users, not just for programmers.

      If you want open standards communications protocols to succeed you have to make them easy for programmers to make it easy for users.

  28. Just another example why Zuck is rich by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    I hate to admit this, because Facebook is horrible and a drain on society, but Facebook at least understands what its appeal is. All the people who think that we just have to make websites easier to build and maintain are completely missing the point. Facebook is big because it is one place, not many. You're literally trying to replace Facebook with something that lacks its main appeal.

  29. Rubbish by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    So, your website allowed people you preapproved to add content and prohibited others? In real-time? I doubt it. And your website notified you whenever any of your friends' websites had new content? I doubt it. And your website allowed you to search thru the websites of (several billion) others (with similar protections) to find more 'friends'? No, it didn't. I'm not sure why (I'm definitely not a fan) Facebook has been so successful, and it may be possible now to create an alternative. But who pays? Yeah, everybody providing their own support for their own site is not going to work. Obviously. Creating a self-sustaining alternative will require a business plan, a way to at least break even. I'm not seeing it, people are (generally) too lazy, too cheap, and too parasitical for the kind of distributed system you seem to be suggesting.

  30. Dude your buying a Dell.. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    so fucked..
    ya know as adults, why the fuck cant we police ourselves?

    buncha bitches

    Zuck is a fuck... No, Zuck is a butt fuck.

  31. No, 'we' shouldn't do any such thing. by Rick+Schumann · · Score: 1

    What people should go back to doing is actually connecting with people directly, and in person as much as possible, rather than the fake, sterile experience of using the Internet, which it seems to me more often than not is used to avoid actually being social. It's also screwing up the socialization of kids, especially teeangers, who are socially awkward more often than not to start with, and who need more practice socializing, not excuses to be socially avoidant.

    1. Re:No, 'we' shouldn't do any such thing. by chispito · · Score: 2

      What people should go back to doing is actually connecting with people directly, and in person as much as possible, rather than the fake, sterile experience of using the Internet, which it seems to me more often than not is used to avoid actually being social. It's also screwing up the socialization of kids, especially teeangers, who are socially awkward more often than not to start with, and who need more practice socializing, not excuses to be socially avoidant.

      There is value in ephemeral experiences that is difficult to describe if you are used to trying to capture and share all of the highlights of your life.

      It can be summarized like:
      Would you rather get to sing around a Piano with Sir Paul McCartney with a few people and not be able to prove it, or would you rather do one of those Youtube collaborations with him for the whole world to see but never meet him in person?

      As for socialization of teens, I would rather remove the real-life sources of crappy socialization than remove the digital substitute.

      --
      The Daddy casts sleep on the Baby. The Baby resists!
    2. Re:No, 'we' shouldn't do any such thing. by Oligonicella · · Score: 1

      do one of those Youtube collaborations with him

      That's a whole 'nother animal from "get to sing around a Piano" and takes quite a bit of self-importance to think that you're actually 'collaborating' with him. And since Mr McCartney spends his time working with people who are on his level vis a vis recording/video processes, my guess is that *he'd* rather sit around a piano enjoying a casual song with people who aren't.

    3. Re:No, 'we' shouldn't do any such thing. by Rick+Schumann · · Score: 1

      I strongly disagree with you, and I think experts in psychology would agree with me.

    4. Re:No, 'we' shouldn't do any such thing. by chispito · · Score: 1

      do one of those Youtube collaborations with him

      That's a whole 'nother animal from "get to sing around a Piano" and takes quite a bit of self-importance to think that you're actually 'collaborating' with him. And since Mr McCartney spends his time working with people who are on his level vis a vis recording/video processes, my guess is that *he'd* rather sit around a piano enjoying a casual song with people who aren't.

      Some people actively collaborate over Youtube trading tracks back and forth, creating and remixing songs. McCartney came to mind because of an interview wherein he expressed regret that people seem more interested in taking a picture with him than talking to him.

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      The Daddy casts sleep on the Baby. The Baby resists!
  32. Email lists by martinX · · Score: 1

    Nah, we should go back to emailing everyone in our contacts photos and family updates several times a year. Maybe cram it all into a PDF.

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    When they came for the communists, I said "He's next door. Take him away. Goddam commies."
  33. MySpace... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    That was difficult!

  34. lazy by DogDude · · Score: 1

    Oh I know why: because only 0.0001% on the planet are able to figure out how to run their own website and maintain it and pay for it.

    I disagree. It's because most people are lazy. I know plenty of people who knew better and still don't have their own web sites.

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    I don't respond to AC's.
    1. Re:lazy by 110010001000 · · Score: 1

      That's true too. You can count me in that number.

    2. Re:lazy by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      a website in a server warehouse is not a "own" website.
      if it hangs off of your (house) internet connection it is.
      facebook el al. manage all the "low level" stuff for you to post your crap.
      if drupal and jomla and wordpress becomes a one-click install and one-click update, then facebook might meet the myspace doodoo.
      an then there's the problem of semi-literate computer a-holes that will just DOS you with their superior bandwidth if you delete their post from your personal website ... or just send a ev1l and badly coded crawler robot over your http server.

      much to learn and improve but no one really cares : )

  35. What we need is personal SERVERS! by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Why isn't anyone selling off-the-shelf private "clouds"??
    Plug it in, and you can tell all the data krakens to fuck off!

    It should definitely replace Google's and Apple's "cloud" sync.

    Opera had a really nice start with Opera Unite. All it needed is an always-on home server to keep it being usable when the PC is off.

    1. Re:What we need is personal SERVERS! by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Because people are computer-stoopid. Faceboob = computers for dummies. Like AOHell and Prodigy were "internet" for dummies.

    2. Re: What we need is personal SERVERS! by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 2, Insightful

      Nextcloud.

      your welcome

    3. Re: What we need is personal SERVERS! by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 2, Insightful

      ownCloud

      Thank you.

    4. Re: What we need is personal SERVERS! by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      "Welcome!"

  36. MySpace? WTF? by mydn · · Score: 1

    turning MySpace into a worthless piece of garbage

    Uh, MySpace users did that very effectively all by themselves. Facebook sucks a whole lot of hairy balls, but switching to suck hairy ass instead doesn't seem like an upgrade to me.

  37. Make the web great again by AHuxley · · Score: 1

    Think back to forums and web sites.
    Email lists and IRC. Yahoo chat and search engines that really found content.
    Sites that people interested in a topic had to put effort into.

    No shadow bans, freedom of speech. Freedom after speech.
    No Spanish government demanding removal of all content relating to anything about a Catalan declaration of independence.
    No French government saying that people cant make fun of French politics using cartoons, music, art.
    No German government removing comments on German history, the news about Germany and the results of German politics.
    No Communist Party in China setting up a search engine with a US brand to never find results on Tiananmen square, a funny bear or words like term limits.
    The ability to talk about DRM, crypto, math.
    The right publish about repair work without a brand using terms like counterfeit to stop such topics.
    The ability to find a movie funny and comment on acting ability. To talk about a bad movie script. Without getting banned by an actor or movie company.
    To publish your own comments, thoughts and politics without politically active social media "staff" removing accounts and removing your content.
    To not have a search engine de rank news many users want to read.
    To not remove payment options to people and sites people want to support. Then not remove any comments about such a policy change.

    The web gave back a lot of results on any topic.
    The good news was your comments stayed published and your content was yours.

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    1. Re:Make the web great again by ZorinLynx · · Score: 1

      Those things are not gone. It's just that the masses don't use them.

      You can find lots of forums out there on the web. IRC is still jumping. All these things are still out there, but only a small number of people used them.

      Truth is, only a small number of people EVER used them. Think of the users of those legacy services as a circle in a Venn diagram of all Internet users being another circle around them. The larger circle of all users has been growing continuously and has now dwarfed the circle representing IRC, forum, etc. users. Mass market sites are more accessible to, well, the mass market. That's why they use them. Us nerds still enjoy sites like Slashdot, IRC chat, etc.

    2. Re:Make the web great again by AHuxley · · Score: 1

      Re "Truth is, only a small number of people EVER used them."
      Thats what made the net so great, every site was run by someone who was a buff (enthusiast), was smart, creative. Did they pay for an expert to create their site?
      Add in hosting costs.
      With social media and its politically active staff censorship is now an option for any domestic or international reason.

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    3. Re:Make the web great again by angel'o'sphere · · Score: 1

      You honour your name ...

      But why do you post nonsense like this:

      No Spanish government demanding removal of all content relating to anything about a Catalan declaration of independence.
      No French government saying that people cant make fun of French politics using cartoons, music, art.
      No German government removing comments on German history, the news about Germany and the results of German politics.

      ???????

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    4. Re:Make the web great again by AHuxley · · Score: 1

      Re "why"
      To show the EU nations have further plans for the internet and the freedom of speech and freedom after speech.
      "'Oppressive climate' for media freedom in Catalonia ahead of referendum"
      https://www.thelocal.es/201709...
      Hows that new NetzDG (~ Network Enforcement Act) working in German?

      That gives nations that still have internet freedom some idea of what nations, governments and bureaucracies want to do to the internet, the media and internet users.
      In their own nations and with EU wide cooperation.

      Its difficult to get "freedom" back once governments pass new censorship laws on what can be publish and who can publish :)
      Once a government uses laws to stop publication and remove publications. Then starts investigations on who published.

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    5. Re:Make the web great again by angel'o'sphere · · Score: 1

      There are no new laws in progress in the EU that restrict "free speech".
      All hate speech laws are 70 or more years old. And we consider that not a restriction of free speech as the "free speech act" is a contract between government and citizens and has nothing to do with citizens talking to each other.

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  38. Disintermediation by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

    The true value of the Internet has yet to be realized.

    Disintermediation is the cutting out of the middleman. The technology allows for direct communications without a snooper like Lamebook interfering and looking over your shoulder. But it's not done often enough.

    Artist to fan sales and communications without the record company or movie studio in the way, that's how it should be. We rarely need middlemen. Heck, imagine how more unified the world might be if we all prayed directly to god and ignored the layer of priest/mullah/rabbi holy men and books and armies standing in the way. God IS great - but religion is the devil. To me, the middleman is always the devil.

    In life, and in cyber-space, we would all be more happy with Diasporas, or this poster's desire for expanding the use of webpages, than having creepy middlemen Lamebooks interfering. Hopefully wiser and more connected people than I can try to bring about such a re-creation of the Internet.

  39. Still better by SuperKendall · · Score: 2

    Google and bookface would totally honor things like robots.txt files on a personal website, especially if it's hosted on some garbage "cloud" social site.

    To be robots.txt was always more about "don't waste your own resources indexing this" than any kind of privacy mechanism. If they want to ignore that, hey, it's their CPU and storage.

    I think personal websites still seems better. Anything public at least multiple sites would index so they could be searched generally. Anything I didn't want public I could have in a password protected area, where indexers could not reach...

    It seems better than a world where something I might have written up on Facebook is just lost down a memory hole and not very findable by someone googling for something.

    Now the real problem is - who is hosting these personal websites? Is it Tumblr, Wordpress? They are all kind of a mess, even compared to Facebook. And it's a lot harder to find out what friends have new content, even if they all have RSS feeds properly managed on these personal websites... pretty easy to open up and glance through a Facebook feed.

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    1. Re:Still better by Obfuscant · · Score: 2

      To be robots.txt was always more about "don't waste your own resources indexing this" than any kind of privacy mechanism.

      It was an instruction to automated data collectors not to index or access certain pages. Whether you tell them that because you are worried about their precious resources or because you care about your own, doesn't change the meaning.

      If they want to ignore that, hey, it's their CPU and storage.

      Webservers don't run on vacuum. They consume CPU resources. It's not just their CPU and storage that robots.txt was intended to protect.

      I recall fondly one asshole indexer that was accessing my website, calling for a dynamically generated page (tide predictions) once every ten seconds. Each of those pages had a link to "tomorrow" and "yesterday" and other locations. The problem was that it took somewhat longer than ten seconds to generate the page. I noticed this indexer because I wondered why my webserver was at 100% CPU usage and had run out of httpd server processes.

      Anything public at least multiple sites would index so they could be searched generally.

      You are conflating indexing and searching. Not all indexing is to generate publicly available search engines. And even so, why is it better that your personal information that you object to Facebook having wind up being available on a dozen public search engines?

    2. Re:Still better by Major+Blud · · Score: 1

      Now the real problem is - who is hosting these personal websites? Is it Tumblr, Wordpress?

      Geocities.

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    3. Re:Still better by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Do you really need password protection? Would a TOS with a captcha be adequate until even US law, let alone EU law.

    4. Re:Still better by Jason+Levine · · Score: 1

      To be robots.txt was always more about "don't waste your own resources indexing this" than any kind of privacy mechanism. If they want to ignore that, hey, it's their CPU and storage.

      I recently had an application of mine go through a security assessment. We noticed that it was indexed by Google (the front page as the rest is behind a login screen). I said I'd add a "robots.txt" and was told not to. Yes, that will tell Google not to index those files, but it will also tell hackers "something juicy may be here." Robots.txt can be a double-edged sword.

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    5. Re: Still better by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      So the hackers find the site anyway because it's indexed.

  40. Yeah, just like 1995! by WCMI92 · · Score: 1

    Facebook is something you should avoid at all costs.

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  41. Most useful by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    The internet was pretty great back when people put stuff on their own websites. Remember webrings? Forums are still the best way to connect with like-minded people. Facebook is just horrible at this kind of thing.

    Getting the drooling masses off of Facebook and others like it is a nearly impossible task. Old people today think young people are all computer-smart when in fact they are very computer-stupid. Mobile rules the world of these people and most of them only care about useless shit-shat stuff with their friends and family.

  42. What an excellent idea. by pecosdave · · Score: 3, Interesting

    I've already done my part.

    If the nerd in each family where to do this, then start cross-linking with the nerds in other families in their circles we would have the share your meme, dog, and rug-rat circuit family and low-tech users need!

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  43. Could build your own platform.. by sarren1901 · · Score: 3, Interesting

    There are tools like Diaspora* that essentially let you setup your own little facebook that can even hook up with other Diaspora* shards. At one point I thought about trying to get my wife and all her friends to migrate over to a private Diaspora* shard with paid hosting.

    Was to hard a sell to the wife so I decided not to bother, but it definitely looked like a viable replacement. Not sure it supported all the games which was a deal breaker not to mention I don't want to run a social network site for fun.

    But there are options.

    1. Re:Could build your own platform.. by GameboyRMH · · Score: 1

      Came here to mention Diaspora.

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  44. BIX - does anyone remember BIX by charliemerritt03 · · Score: 3, Insightful

    Allow me to repost from another thread:

    Byte (magazine) Information Exchange

    That was "Social Media"
    That was fun.
    That was informative.

    And it cost - money - to belong. Not a lot of money, but the members paid for the service.
    We were the users, clients - Byte was the service provider, Bix was the service.
    Clear as a bell.
    Also there was Delphi and several others.
    (even AOL?)

    Then there were 'hidden cost' services like a college account and USNET.

    Why put up with Farce Book?

  45. Never been on Facebook, but I am on Mastodon by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    I've never been on Facebook, but I am on Mastodon, have a tech podcast, co-host a major nationally syndicated radio show, and so on. The podcast / "TV" show is semi-decentralized in that it isn't hosted on a centralized platform like YouTube. Everything was done in-house and based around free software. From production to distribution to marketing. I like and use Mastodon and it's actually been quite useful and successful in attracting or maybe I should say gathering a base of people to follow the show. I also have the advantage of being a high paid executive at a mid-size international corporation upon which I've had the power and ability to promote the podcast / "TV" show to a large audience. It's also promoted on the nationally syndicated radio show that I co-host. I'll refrain from coming out- but it's probably the only major nationally syndicated radio show that routinely covers GN/Linux and free software related matters and so for those who listen to the show you probably already know who this is. :)

    1. Re:Never been on Facebook, but I am on Mastodon by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Anyone else feel like they have read this comment before?

  46. there are personal family social networks by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Mastadon can be one, theres another better one I forget the name of that you can buy a family web domain and people can upload their own pictures and updates and whatever. it's not a bad idea and it is workable and it does lead to more interpersonal connections because in no way will these new local networks be as pervasive as Facebook.

  47. I actually HAVE a personal website by ZorinLynx · · Score: 2

    ....and it just links to my social media accounts.

    Ahh, the irony.

    But the truth is, I'm just tired of having to constantly update and maintain my website's software. If you don't do it, eventually security holes get around and the machine hosting it gets hacked. It doesn't matter which one you use, every CMS like Drupal, WordPress and so on need active system administration. I already do it for a living, and don't have much energy for it when I get home.

    So the solution is to have just static pages and content on my own webserver, and link to my social media accounts for the day to day blab.

    I know, I can do better. But I'm lazy, like most sysadmins.

    1. Re:I actually HAVE a personal website by ShoulderOfOrion · · Score: 1

      Same here. I've had my own static-content website for over two decades. I've owned my own personal domain for nearly that long. Static HTML pages are easy to maintain, I control the look and feel and the contents (mostly engineering-related stuff, shop projects and experimental aircraft build logs), and updating the site takes just a few seconds running a bash script. Links to my very minimal FB and LinkedIn pages solve the problem of finding the few family and acquaintances I care to interact with. Otherwise, I prefer not to be found, unless of course you're interested in my particular engineering and shop projects. Owning my own domain also makes it easy for me to use unique email addresses for every contact I have and every web logon, allowing me to identify quickly which contact/company has been hacked, who's selling my contact info, and to spamfilter them as necessary.

      What's to do better?

      As for Facebook, more power to them. Facebook allows the rest of the world to share cat pictures without my having to participate, they allow me to monitor the chitchat of my family without my having to participate (I'm the "non-technical" one as far as the younger generation is concerned), and by corralling the vast herd of socialites elsewhere allows the rest of us to surf the web in peace.

    2. Re:I actually HAVE a personal website by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Use a static site generator such as Pelican (other flavours exist) and push the output to a webhost. That way the webhost keeps the server software up-to-date, but I'm in complete control of the content and rebuilding the entire site is just a simple build job.

      1. I've got source material in a private gitrepo,
      2. buildbot running on a RPI Zero monitoring that repo for changes and running pelican on changes and nightly
      3. build job optionally pushes the changes to the live site if the change was on master

      Only costs is web hosting/domain name which for a private family only site like mine is a pretty minimal cost.

  48. Hear, hear people, ... by Qbertino · · Score: 1

    ... Captain Obvious just awoke from 17 years of hibernation.

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  49. Dopamine feedback loop. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    The only thing that makes social media even work is the dopamine feedback look. People hit like (or not like) and you get a dopamine release from seeing a thumbs up.

    That is all any site has to do it properly present this flaw in human psychology and people will use it.

    Doesn't seem to matter if the feedback is positive or negative either. Just clear indiciations that you've caused someone else to click a button seems to do the trick.

  50. Re:Yeah, sure.... but we have protocols by thewolfkin · · Score: 1

    Because I'm going to spend all day going from one friend's site to another to another..... rather than a single site to find out what's going on with all my friends and family.

    sounds like a job for a protocol. A way to label a friend's site once and be able to access it easily from there. The idea isn't that everyone should have their own personal website customized like a tumblr page. But that everyone should create their own facebook using whatever template becomes popular. Presumably like a mastadon ID you can give someone a URI or a customized handle that lets you incorporate into whatever dashboard you'll have and you can get the updates there.

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  51. Yes! by Revek · · Score: 1

    Everyone should have their own space, in fact that what we will call it. Their space. Sound like the sleeper hit of 2019.

  52. Didn't Opera have this feature by future+assassin · · Score: 1

    some person site/server feature in the Opera browser?

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    1. Re:Didn't Opera have this feature by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Yes! Thank you. I was just going to post something about this. Opera DID have this feature, back when Opera was still a unique browser and not a stupid ass skin over Chromium. I used it. It was very cool. Sad that it died along with everything else that made Opera special.

  53. Looks like it did by future+assassin · · Score: 1
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  54. i disagree by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    And I don't even use or like Facebook, but I just have to say. Facebook is a lot more than just monetizing on people putting stuff out there about themselves online.

    I remember the "magic" of the old Geocities days, and the first websites I created as a teen. I think myspace was closer to that than facebook.

    What facebook did was something entirely different, they put tooling out there that required people to only register, which I first viewed as a way to get and keep in touch with old friends, and play games together. =)

    It's called social media now, but what I likened it too back then was social networking, and that's something that having a personal website doesn't necessarily do.

    Just my two cents.

  55. But first.... by drolli · · Score: 2

    shops, clubs, restaurants, cafes should start to at least provide their schedules on an own webpage without forcing abybody to "follow them" on facebook or log in to facebook.

    (And that, for their own sake. Never got why anybody would put more there than a link ot the real web page, because, let's be realistic: If you have a well running shop/cafe, then that would be the most profitable place to advertise for sponsored ads....)

    1. Re:But first.... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      lolwut? how many hits a day do you think a cafe gets? maybe 50? at best? most customers are regulars, they don't need to check your website. I'd say 10 is more likely, but let's go with 50. so over a month they get a thousand page views. which for non-premium display has a CPM rate of well under a dollar. so in exchange for borking up your web code and having the hassle of setting up and maintaining the adwords account you'll earn in the low single digits of dollars per year. but wait! the payment threshold is $100. so you won't see a penny for decades.

      sounds like a deal to me!

    2. Re:But first.... by drolli · · Score: 1

      I would say pretty much everybody who is new in a big town or city, googles for something and clicks on the website button.

      I think you did not get it. It is not about revue you earn on your website, but on the control over it the to avoid your competitors making advertisements on it.

  56. Re:Brave soul by wolfheart111 · · Score: 1

    Posting positive comments about Bookface on Slash... brave soul.

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  57. FB needs to be socialized by wolfheart111 · · Score: 3, Funny

    Socialism, FB needs to be run by the government. For many its a essential service...

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    1. Re:FB needs to be socialized by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Socialism, FB needs to be run by the government. [...]

      It already is. It's also funded by the government.

    2. Re:FB needs to be socialized by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Yes, but... which government?

      (Hint: You won't get an agreement here on the answer to that question.)

    3. Re:FB needs to be socialized by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Socialism, FB needs to be run by the government.

      They tried that experiment in the former East Germany. It was called the Stasi. It didn't end well.

      For many its a essential service.

      Participating in your own surveillance for the benefit of your government? I'd hardly call that a service. More like a disservice to freedom and democracy.

    4. Re:FB needs to be socialized by Oligonicella · · Score: 1

      Only to people who conflate "want" and "need".

    5. Re:FB needs to be socialized by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Socialism, FB needs to be run by the government. For many its a essential service...

      Seriously... this appears to be the thrust of the current government regulation efforts. I am not saying that it isn't concerning that adversarial groups have been able to use the platform to manipulate people en masse... but that is the nature of any platform which is designed for effective advertising rather than for private communications.

  58. Works for Drudge Report by walterbyrd · · Score: 1

    One of the few conservatives who has not been censored, shadow banned, demonitized, deplatformed, or whatever.

    Also does not have Zuckerberg sending his private information to major corporations.

    Drudge was way ahead of the curve on this. He recommend this "old school" methodology long before the slaughter of conservatives.

    Conservatives who depended on google, twitter, or facebook have been ruined.

  59. Dazzle buttons are cool by AndyKron · · Score: 1

    The good old days. My first webpage made with Notepad. Long gone but not forgotten. I wish I still had the file and probably do. Somewhere...

  60. Newsfeeds by sdinfoserv · · Score: 1

    Facebook took myspace and added newsfeeds. Providing the ever attentionless a constant stream of "what's uuuup". The problem with myspace is that people loaded down their page with videos, music, flash that absolutely killed the browser - and still would -

  61. And animated GIFs by ruddk · · Score: 1

    We need all those animated GIFs back too. And .MID files that plays something that almost is recognizable, a page view counter with 12 digits so we know it got 000000000139 page refreshes from the author.

  62. Distributed Social Network by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    GNU Social?
    Mastodon?

  63. For those that don't care about security... by clay_buster · · Score: 1
    Someone thinks that creating billions of web sites built by people with no security background on 100s of thousands of dodgy hosting platforms is a better way to protect personal data... Sigh...

    The whole topic of finding people, affinity groups and other social networking site features will have to wait until I recover from thinking about how this would be better in any way from a security and privacy point of view...

  64. Carrier-grade NAT; disconnection for AUP violation by tepples · · Score: 1

    Running your own web-server has gotten easier and cheaper. A RaspberryPI 3 would easily handle the traffic for most people's personal sites. And high speed connections are much less costly than they used to be for the speed you get.

    Provided your ISP both legally and technically allows running a server at home. If the ISPs in your area put their home subscribers behind carrier-grade NAT, your ISP's router won't forward inbound connections on port 443 of your public IP to your NAT IP. If you're on a home plan, each of the high-volume ISPs serving your address could disconnect your service for running a server, which violates the typical home ISP acceptable use policy (AUP).

    The closer you get to the ISP the closer you get to the first amendment being enforced.

    With the death of net neutrality in the United States, the ISP or ISPs serving your address have a First Amendment right not to publish what you write.

  65. The software exists NOW and is mature! by dm42 · · Score: 1

    There's already more than a 'reference implementation'. https://hubzilla.org/

    "Single Signon" - jump from one web server to another with without needing 100 usernames/passwords.

    Social Media - check
    Personal Web sites - check
    Personal Wiki - check
    Personal DAV file server
    Personal DAV calendar server
    Personal DAV contact server
    They even have a shopping cart so a user can set up their own ETSY/EBAY/whatever

  66. Getting your speech discovered by tepples · · Score: 1

    No Communist Party in China setting up a search engine with a US brand to never find results on Tiananmen square, a funny bear or words like term limits.

    In the era of "forums and web sites" (which I take to mean between when home ISPs began service in the early 1990s to when Facebook left closed beta in September 2006), what search engine not beholden to a large company existed? Governments and brands don't need to coerce away the actual speech; they just need to coerce away the ability for prospective viewers to find such speech. Getting your speech discovered in the first place is the one problem that IndieWeb hasn't solved yet: "None currently."

  67. Silos by tepples · · Score: 1

    If the nerd in each family where to do this, then start cross-linking with the nerds in other families in their circles

    How does the nerd in one family go about discovering nerds in other families in the first place without using big "silo" sites such as Facebook, Wikia, and Slashdot? If it involves face-to-face exchange of URLs, that's a bit more difficult on account of social interaction disorders that disproportionately afflict nerds, such as Asperger-type autism.

    1. Re:Silos by pecosdave · · Score: 1

      Well, let me bust your bubble.

      Though I have never been officially diagnosed, people in my life - including those who have plenty of relevant experience related to other people in their lives agree I'm on the spectrum. An Aspie type, high functioning, but with very well defined definite systems.

      I went to school and I still have connections to people I went to school with. I went to church, and still have connections from that. I've had many jobs over the course of my career and I still have connections there, and yes, I've been on many different social media websites including Slashdot, Userfriendly back in the day, I still think LiveJournal is very well structured per my own expectations and needs, it's just not popular anymore and I can understand why my pet-picture sharing relatives don't like it (hint - they probably don't know a single HTML tag).

      Having social interaction disorders such as lower level autism related disorders, or even many social anxiety disorders does not prevent one from ever having formed connections. I find it interesting that so many of the nerds I've networked with in meat-space do not seem to have spectrum disorders however so many I interact with online do - it's interesting and I've failed to find a definite cause/effect relationship between the two - it just seems that those of us who spend more time online socialize less in meat-space. I seem to walk the line a little more than most on both sides of it.

      So - in my personal version of the world - most of the people I would cross-link my site with are not people I've met online. My wife has a cousin who is a candidate to build/host one of these sites, I have a close friend who is a candidate and is considering doing so (met at work and have at least four employments in common since then - we help each other out), through being an active Libertarian in the state party - which turns out is about 85% technical workers of one type or another - I know lots of people that I met in meat-space who are capable of doing this and I might convince to do so. Anyone I met online that I would consider cross-linking with, with a few exceptions, are people I've brought into real-world relationships that trump pre-existing online connections.

      Yes, I am on the spectrum. I get super annoyed when people move my stuff when I'm away from it, I have times when I have difficulty retrieving words from my head and forming spoken sentences - this is not constant and depends on many variables, but I range from an articulate master of the language to not being able to tell people to bug off and leave me alone. I can - when my responsibilities aren't piled a mile high - play a video game for six hours and not realize I've been at it for that long. When I'm concentrating on something and someone pulls me out of it I have to suppress anger. I got very good at keeping my emotions/reactions under control when I was young and I'm still good at it now, but the instincts are still there. I've worked hard at suppressing the bad things about being on the spectrum while leveraging the focus and thought processes that come with it to further myself professionally. Unless I happen to be in a state where I have trouble communicating at the moment, most people are completely unaware that I am on the spectrum until they get to know me well. I'm proud of this fact, not all of us become slaves to our conditions. I'm over 40, when I was in school - a shit-hole in the middle of the desert - any learning disability was tagged as dyslexia. My school recognized I had a learning problem, and despite reading on a grade level well above my grade level at diagnosis and having reading comprehension to match they put me in a dyslexia class to teach me how to read. I only wish mild forms of autism were diagnosed back then, or that I didn't live in a shit-hole, when I was in school it would have saved me a lot of time grounded.

      You're pigeon holing a world of people based on an inaccurate anecdote.

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    2. Re:Silos by tepples · · Score: 1

      Please bear with me as I try to understand how to apply what you wrote to my own situation. I think the core problem is I haven't been able to find the right words with which to ask people how to maintain connections with people outside my mother's side of my family.

      I went to school and I still have connections to people I went to school with.

      Unfortunately, I failed to understand during high school and college how to prepare my in-person connections there for maintenance past graduation. What steps should others take to avoid the mistakes I made?

      I went to church, and still have connections from that.

      Which works for religious people. What is the closest counterpart to church for someone who happens not to be religious?

      I've had many jobs over the course of my career and I still have connections there

      I wish I could say the same. It took me several years after graduation to even find a job, and few if any of my co-workers at my present job are anywhere near technical enough to maintain a personal website.

      My wife

      How does someone even find a spouse?

    3. Re:Silos by pecosdave · · Score: 1

      Some have it worse than others. I had it bad for a while, it was about the fifth grade I determined that whatever was wrong it must be me and it was up to me to get past it. It took a lot of effort and thought on my part. Some of it has become easier with time, reflexive and semi-natural even, it wanes with stress and being tired, some of it takes conscious thought always, and this is where social mishaps happen. The fact I've done so well with it is almost a curse, because when the natural part shows through people who don't see me as having these difficulties tend to take it wrong.

      My continued connections to people from school are, I'll admit, circumstantial for the most part, my parents remained back home for a few years, and even after they moved my sister stayed behind. Slowly people came online and honestly I have Facebook to thank (sometimes blame) for strengthening connections to those from my past. My wife is from back home, she is quite a bit younger than me so she wasn't an old flame, but it actually was Facebook where we "met again as adults" and our relationship started, now my ties to back home are much stronger than they were, due mostly to the fact her family is still heavily based there. For the most part my old connections find me or happen on accident, I'm really not good at doing my part. I actually like social media for almost automating that for me, I just think it's time that Facebook and the big corporate ones become a footnote in history.

      As for the religious question - you're splitting hairs. I can tell you connections through a religious organization are about like any other, there's people who help one another, there's people angry at one another, people form factions, there's in-fighting, the real exception is people usually make an effort to get over it and come back together. Not always - I've been in two churches that have split and one that had some major conflict. That last one I actually sparked the conflict by pointing out science and religion didn't have to be exclusive and I pointed out how the book of Genesis basically described the big bang theory and I drew the parallels. Two camps formed quickly, the rationals versus the theologicals. Yes, there are very rational, very scientific people who practice various religions, and many scientist who are in the closet to protect their funding. One does not have to be part of a religion to find a group. I mentioned I was active in the Libertarian party (I'm on a break having a new child - I took a break for the last one as well), honestly my connections to people in the local part of the party "feel" like the connections I had with church members. We go to the same meetings, we share a more or less common belief and set of values, we socialize together, listen to speeches together, we do a lot together.

      As for finding jobs/spouse, look. I can't give you super-awesome advice. I got lots of girlfriends from OKCupid, some long term, some single dates, etc.... In both cases maintaining old relationships helps, those connections create more connections. It is incredibly difficult to maintain for people like us, as I said before, I was fortunate enough that others liked me well enough to do a lot of that work.

      You have to make yourself more likable. I have no doubt that someone, either because they loved or because you annoyed the ever living shit out of them and weren't afraid to say so, has told you what your social problems are. Probably more than one someone, I had both unload on me. Pay attention to what they said. If it's something obvious and verifiable - like you smell bad - bathe, wash your clothes, clean up your living space, reduce clutter etc.... I am a pet lover, but I'm going to tell you having indoor cats, especially in close quarters creates a lot of these difficulties. I've noticed a lot of shut-in type geeks are cat lovers and I can often smell the litter box on them, I'm very allergic to cats so it goes double for my detection. If they say it's because you interrupt convers

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    4. Re:Silos by tepples · · Score: 1

      honestly I have Facebook to thank (sometimes blame) for strengthening connections to those from my past. [...] it actually was Facebook where [my wife and I] "met again as adults" and our relationship started

      Could my lack of a Facebook account be a big part of what I'm doing wrong? Most of my social media silo activity is on Twitter and Discord, and not with people I knew in person. If these silos didn't exist, such as in the personal website landscape that the author of the featured article and the maintainers of IndieWeb.org envision, it's be even more difficult for someone to announce his existence.

      What is the closest counterpart to church

      One does not have to be part of a religion to find a group. I mentioned I was active in the Libertarian party

      Thanks; that's the sort of example I was looking for. Religion, local politics, any others?

      If it's because you don't chit-chat (something I have an issue with) learn to give pre-programmed responses.

      I assume that installing Squeak software and playing with it won't help me learn that kind of small talk. I have had trouble figuring out what people mean by even something as simple as "How are you doing?", and I haven't seen any rules as to what level of detail people expect in an answer to an open-ended question such as "What are you working on right now?".

      Hit the dating sites.

      I admit that's something I hadn't even thought of trying. How was it done before dating sites were popular?

    5. Re:Silos by pecosdave · · Score: 1

      Could my lack of a Facebook account be a big part of what I'm doing wrong? Most of my social media silo activity is on Twitter and Discord, and not with people I knew in person. If these silos didn't exist, such as in the personal website landscape that the author of the featured article and the maintainers of IndieWeb.org envision, it's be even more difficult for someone to announce his existence.

      Twitter isn't that great for meeting people - at least I don't think it is, I rarely use it. Twitter is, from what I can tell, all about launching a comment, not interacting. Discord, I use it a little, it appears to be hyper-focused on whatever the discussion group is for. My three groups are the Texas Libertarian Party, the LBRY media platform, and one my buddy started for our circle of geeks. I suppose it could be a good start if you can find something local - local is a key BTW. You need to focus on something that will get you to meet people in the real world. If you want to start with online things try Meetup.com - I actually landed my job at NASA from that website. My buddy started a LUG where he lived close to the Johnson Space Center and some people from the space center showed up, they found out I needed a job and gave me the hookup. I'm pretty much trying to get people off of Facebook these days, but there's no denying what can happen by mingling with your connections and connections of connections.

      I'm beginning to gather that you have quite a bit of frustration that originates with your difficulties from being on the spectrum. I'm not going to suggest you go straight into trying to find a partner. Go to MeetUp.com or Craigslist, or possibly something from your local newspaper, radio station, community center, etc... Find something you're interested in and is unlikely to have someone you might be interested in romantically there. Practice socializing a bit. I'm going to suggest doing something physical - some sort of workout group. I can not stress enough how much exercising can boost your self confidence and overall state of mind. There's something about the hormones flowing from doing so that will just really boost you mentally. Warning - if you haven't exercised in years it may not start well. Personally when I've gone a year or two without really doing it I spend between three days and two weeks having to various emergency trips to the bathroom until I get my body back to where it can handle a little. It's worth it. It may not be the first or even the second week, but you will be glad you started if stick with it. Practice interacting with people you aren't interested in. A lot of groups of just about any type start with going around the table, whatever, introducing yourself and saying why you're there. When it's your term say something along the lines of "Hi my name is Tepples, I'm here because I'm interested in [whatever the group is] and I'm on the spectrum, so I suck at interacting with people and so I'm also trying so I'm here to work on that too." You have no idea how much of an impact being honest and brave can have. There will likely be a couple of people who get giddy and proud of you and will go out of their ways to interact with you. There are also likely to be a couple who make wisecracks. Both types are trying to help you.

      I'm over 40, married, and I have three kids. I'm probably not the #1 guy to go to for modern social media advice, even though I was on the cutting edge participating on Slashdot, Userfriendly, and what have you before LiveJournal and Friendster even rolled onto the scene. I know from my most previous job - at a marketing agency - they focused on Instagram, Twitter, and Facebook a lot professionally and a lot of the young trendy marketing types (a significant percentage of the company) was on Whatsapp. I'm not even sure what that last one is exactly.

      As for social media - I have a line. On one side of the line there's "real world" and on the other there's "geeky online social". Things that pertain

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  68. Like desktop Linux? by Latent+Heat · · Score: 1

    Giving too many degrees of freedom, or too much disorganized and useless information, reduces the size of the user base.

    (Ducks. Walks out in a fire-resistant suit.)

  69. Re:Carrier-grade NAT; disconnection for AUP violat by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    I here what your saying, but its based on traffic. People run VPNs and with doorbell cams, people are streaming data up to the cloud at large rates now. A simple server to host a page that just serves some information and a few pictures wouldn't even peg the needle as worth their time.

    Also, while the carriers are not bound by Net Neutrality they know that the decision was contentious and the next administration could implement the rules. Also, states have been enforcing net neutrality policy.

    I doubt its an issue unless you cause destabilization of the network by running an unsecure smtp server for instance...

  70. nope by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    I guess what I'm saying is that Facebook isn't really all that much better or more convenient than having your own website

    Nope... /thread

  71. the percloud proposal is exactly about this by mfioretti_en · · Score: 1

    the problem is not the software. It is packaging and offering it attached to a personal domain name, in a way that it is truly portable and available **also** as a managed service.
    My main proposal on how to do exactly this http://per-cloud.com/
    My blog posts about it: http://stop.zona-m.net/tag/per...

  72. Re:Brave soul by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Yep. Surprisingly their score is 2 even as I look at it now.

  73. isolating the Atomic unit of Internet Free Speech by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    ... or you could pay a few bucks a month to a responsible ISP and let them deal with the hassles of hosting. My personal web sites costs be about $3/year.

    The critical first amendment issue really demands the foundation that doesn't _require_ an extra third party (your 'responsible ISP'). I see the crux of the issue as the network neutrality home server thing. It's not that if ISPs (were forced to) abolished their home server prohibition terms that it would make immediate sense for everybody to save a few bucks and therefore decide to go down that route. It's the fact that enough people (like, thousands) would become their own mini-ISPs allowing hosting for millions with plenty of redundancy protocols, _that_ would drive the price down from $3/year to $0.03/year along with the more critical fact that persecutions of wikileaks-2.0 and snowden-2.0 would have to cut straight to the unavoidable ISP and become true 1st amendment lines in the sand. As opposed to things that can be 'contained' using leverage against the otherwise unnecessary third parties that your 'just shell out a few bucks a year to some nice company that might stick up for free speech for awhile at least' advice entails. Likewise, removing all unnecessary 3rd parties is the only way you can avoid bringing some variant of the facebook mega-multi-billion-dollar-transnational-neo-free-speech-overlord into the picture. Advertisers and censorship of unpopular (but worthy of protection) speech.

    As soon as you pay an extra ISP/hoster, that is the company that will shut down the most important free speech of the entire platform at the most important moment in history for that speech. And all of society ends up paying for that even more than the facebook profits from it.

  74. Re:you mean remake Facebook? by presidenteloco · · Score: 2

    Yes but not centrally owned and gathering your data to sell you ads

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  75. Website app that populates from Facebook export? by WayneDV · · Score: 1

    I see that you can now specify JSON as the export format for your Facebook data dump. So we just need a website app that uses that data as its source, and allows federation between all such sites.

  76. Freedombox as webservers by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    You can easily host your own webserver with FreedomBox. The only thing missing, I think is easy install and configuration of an email server.

    From the website:

    https://freedombox.org/

    FreedomBox is designed to be your own inexpensive server at home. It runs free software and offers an increasing number of services ranging from a calendar or jabber server to a wiki or VPN. Our web interface allows you to easily install and configure your apps. Be your own host!

  77. Hardly a solution by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Not many would pay to host their own site, Facebook like those before it is popular because its free. What users of these sites failed to recognize is that their personal data was part of how the service is paid for. Zuckerberg from the start was clearly not interested in protecting anyone's personal information. It was a commodity for him to access and profit from.

  78. Geocities and Tripod and others by TJHook3r · · Score: 1

    Is this a rant about the phenomenon of 'luck' in tech? Tech is often a winner-takes-all scenario, and particularly with social media it seems... who wants to start using a social network that has none of your friends or acquaintances! Anyway, comparing your endeavours to Facebook is ignoring the countless other people who also had personal websites, even in the nineties! I mention Geocities and Tripod and that probably shows my age fairly accurately... Facebook was just in the right place at the right time, as is often the way with creative projects.

  79. World's First Time Traveler by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Jason Koebler from Motherboard in 2002 invented "Jason's Site". He then went back in time to the 1990s and gave that concept to the public under the name Geocities because by 2002 nobody else had thought about personal websites.

  80. Success of Facebook by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    The success of Facebook came from the fact that it originally allowed everyone to advertise for free. Every company could have their "page" in there, and they could also make their own plugins for the website easily. After creating their page on Facebook they would proudly display a "Find us on Facebook" banner at their business location, tuus giving Facebook ubiquitous free publicity...

  81. Mastodon? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Isn't this what Mastodon is all about?
    https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Mastodon_(software)
    It's distributed and owned by the users. The concept is great, but it all hinges on increasing the user mass - it's not as easy to use or feature rich as Facebook (yet).

  82. Retarded idea by LordWabbit2 · · Score: 1

    My 75 year old mother can post on facebook, she can't build and maintain a website.
    THAT is why facebook took off, it allowed the village idiots to be... idiots.

    And I just realized I called my mother a village idiot, sad part is it's not far from the truth.

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  83. Re:Carrier-grade NAT; disconnection for AUP violat by tepples · · Score: 1

    People run VPNs

    Subscribing to a VPN service just to be able to accept incoming connections is a cost that a lot of end users don't want to have to pay in perpetuity. Nor does it scale, as VPN providers will end up running out of IPv4 addresses and end up having to put their subscribers behind NAT as well. Buying a domain name and keeping it renewed is another cost, and non-technical users need to learn a lot more to make that work than to make, say, a Facebook account work.

    Also, states have been enforcing net neutrality policy.

    They won't be able to for long once judges start ruling that the FCC's regulation preempts state law.

  84. This guy thinks highly of himself by in10se · · Score: 1

    He thinks creating a personal web site was "forward looking". Ever hear of GeoCities or AngelFire which were around since the 90's?

    He thinks a hot-or-not section is "prescient" even though hotornot.com started in 2000.

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  85. Hard to take seriously by MBGMorden · · Score: 1

    It's hard to take this article/opinion seriously, but realistically the reason personal websites went away was because nobody wanted to visit a separate website everytime they wanted to see someone else's content - particularly when the UI and format of that content could shift dramatically on each site.

    Social networking put all that stuff in a centralized location so that you can "catch up" with the interesting tidbits with a quick scan, and you don't have to worry about a full page photo background or The Verve Pipe blaring in the background.

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  86. Security hazard by ET3D · · Score: 1

    I had several personal sites. The last of them got defaced because I failed to upgrade WordPress often enough to plug security holes. And because it used free hosting, I also didn't manage to salvage it from backup. And it's not like many people looked at the site. It was probably just some drive by hack. So even obscurity didn't protect me.

    The amount of work that needs to go towards supporting a personal website (finding a host, possible registering a domain, setting it up, ... and then maintenance) is something that only an enthusiast would do. Sure, you can do it more simply in Wix or WordPress.com (where I migrated my blog) or other such sites, but then you're under another big umbrella, so what's the huge difference from Facebook? And you still need to set things up.

  87. Re:Brave soul by MightyYar · · Score: 1

    My intent wasn't really to post positive comments - it was more to contradict the base assumption of this article. There are at least some of us who use Facebook for reasons other than digital vanity.

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  88. Re:you mean remake Facebook? by Shotgun · · Score: 1

    That is already a thing and is called Diaspora. Duckduckgo it.

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  89. Not practical by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    While that IS what the WWW was meant to be like, you still need a centralized location for 'discussion' among several people, espcially those you dont yet even know about.

    its why we have clubs in the real world.

    ( now that said FB IS evil... just this isn't the answer )

  90. except that... by TRRosen · · Score: 1

    Nobody looks at their Facebook page, or their friends pages. Facebook is about the feed.

  91. Or another multi-blog ... and RSS by cascadingstylesheet · · Score: 1

    Facebook is just a freakin' multiblog. OK, fine, a freakin' multiblog with zillions of integrations and stuff. But at heart, just a multi-author blog site.

    No reason (other than overcoming the network effect, which I know is gazonga huge) why there couldn't be numerous competing multi-author blogs ... they could always share content with, ya know, RSS ... it's not like we haven't invented a way to share content.

  92. Drivel! by trevc · · Score: 1

    How the F* did this get onto the front page of Slashdot? The author has absolutely no idea of what they are talking about!

  93. ahahahahahah by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Oh you mean like Geocities????

  94. Nope. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Personal websites have their place in the world. But saying we should do away with Facebook (or similar sites,) is like saying we should do away with Slashdot because all it does is point to other sites.

    Ridiculous. I suspect the OP just doesn't like Facebook (the company,) and is lashing out under the guise that it's not a useful tool.

  95. Ummm, WordPress anyone? by Bitbeard · · Score: 1

    Own your content and control how it is displayed. Is that too hard?

  96. "unspeakably vain for the time" by mapkinase · · Score: 1

    Come on already with the humble modesty. Ninety nine percent of people who did their first website in 1994 did it because "they could" and the choice of the subject: themselves, was dictated by the fact that for 99% of them "myself" is the only subject they have been proficient.

    The remaining 1 percent did it because they (A) knew how to HTML and where to steal inline emoticons (B) knew something else very well and wanted to spread knowledge.

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  97. Yeah, ... cause my grandma can install that. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    It needs to be a device that requires nothing except for plugging it in and installing the app on the device that wants to use it. That was my very point.

    Not some server software that doesn't even play along with package management systems.
    I already have something better. I just need to make a clean image of my own SBC home server, and put it on another SBC like mine. The problem is that I don't have an "app", and syncing is unreasonably hard due to how limited and shitty (aka "simple") mobile OSes are.