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Pay vs. Happiness

itri writes "A co-worker recently sent me and article about job burnout. Although it's a year old, the points seemed to resonate well with me. The nutshell of the article is that job burnout is caused by lack of the sense of accomplishment, working for a narcissistic boss, and a conflict between the employers and employee's values. Is it really better working for a company that cares about your satisfaction? Are there any companies like that and (more importantly) are they hiring?"

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  1. Its a matter of perspective by BWJones · · Score: 5, Interesting

    With respect to your question, I have to say that you are really responsible for your own happiness and 90% of the employers out there do not really care about it. If they are smart, they would want happy employees, but as society moves more towards a service based economy with pre-produced products, there will be less craftsmanship around and less care for average employees as they can be quickly and easily replaced. So, your task is to find the niche that you can provide a well crafted product that those (like myself) will pay more for. I would say that if you are not happy, then change jobs or change careers or go back to school or start your own business.

    With respect to pay vs. happiness, its a continuum is it not? There are those that would sell their souls to make the monthly payment on their Mercedes. I personally find that repugnant as it goes against my punk DIY ethos, but to each their own. Some folks simply find the job as a means for money to do other things with their life while others enjoy what they do for a living. I personally like to surround myself with people smarter than I am, have a passion for what they do, and treat them well to keep them around. That way, everybody is happy and things get done.

    Incidently, I have three positions I am hiring for:

    1) Board certified neurologist willing to relocate.

    2) Board certified cardiologist willing to relocate.

    You never know, but there are MDs that patrol Slashdot on occasion, so, why not?

    3) Most importantly for this forum: A programmer. Can you program for OS X? Have Cocoa experience? Do you know IDL from RSI? If you answer yes to all three of the above questions, I have a job for you. I have my own stuff to keep me busy and happy so I won't be breathing down your neck. You even get to work from home or the lab, it's your choice, but if you are in the lab, you can have access to an incredibly extensive and diverse shared iTunes library and crank all you want. You can also have all the flexibility you want with the hours, I just want the code done within a reasonable amount of time. This is a contract position and you will find me most accommodating to work with.

    If the meetings I have with the VCs next week go well, I might be hiring programmers with scientific robotics experience. Stay tuned to the Slashdot journal which gets updates from my blog.

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    1. Re:Its a matter of perspective by BushCheney08 · · Score: 5, Funny

      but if you are in the lab, you can have access to an incredibly extensive and diverse shared iTunes library and crank all you want.

      Lots of tunes and all the crank I want? Sign me up!

      w

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    2. Re:Its a matter of perspective by Donniedarkness · · Score: 2, Funny
      you can have access to an incredibly extensive and diverse shared iTunes library and crank all you want.

      I'll learn to program.

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    3. Re:Its a matter of perspective by dogugotw · · Score: 3, Insightful

      I've found that I'm happiest when my employer's reason for being fits in with my core belief system. While I don't hold an employer responsible for my happiness, I know that when I'm in sync with my place of employ, I find joy. As my needs, desires, and goals drift away from those of my workplace, the pleasure I derive from working diminishes (and I usually move along).

      For me, I don't want or expect, the employer to stive to make me happy. I want an employer who understands what they do, why they do it, and that they do it well.

      Keep looking, you can find work that is meaningful for you.

    4. Re:Its a matter of perspective by The+Bungi · · Score: 5, Funny
      Board certified neurologist willing to relocate.

      Good thing you're not in the IT industry...

      - "So, you're a neurologist?"
      - "Well, sorta. I play 'Operation' online all the time and I'm really good. I'm also halfway through the Wikipedia article on neurons. So... do I get the position?"

    5. Re:Its a matter of perspective by sTalking_Goat · · Score: 4, Interesting
      My Mother. After Law School, three law degrees, 18 odd years as a lawyer and five as a Judge. She suddenly quit and went to culinary school to become a pastry chef.

      Some people can be happy with just a big paycheck and extra letters after their name but mostly they are the minority.

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    6. Re:Its a matter of perspective by BWJones · · Score: 3, Funny

      Your mother is one of my new heros. Seriously.

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    7. Re:Its a matter of perspective by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 2, Funny

      I'm creating a Sims character based on your mom's career(s) :)

    8. Re:Its a matter of perspective by ikkonoishi · · Score: 4, Insightful

      Yeah the world can always use one less lawyer, and one more chef.

    9. Re:Its a matter of perspective by Alex+P+Keaton+in+da · · Score: 5, Insightful

      Ugh- Way to say it- you are 100% for your own happiness.
      I had a bad job for a while (It involved high temperatures and getting shot at) and the only thing that I was upset about was not seeing my wife for a year.
      I would put up with a lot of cr#p at work for more money- Why? I have a wife and a daughter, and another kid on the way. I have a house payment, 2 car payments and retirement in 40 years to worry about.
      I would shovel sh&t all day if it meant that my family could have a higher standard of living.
      My guess is how people would answer the question "would you take better work conditions for less money" has a lot to do with age and responsibilities. If I didn't have 2 (soon to be 3) other human beings depending on me, I would be much more ammenable towards taking a pay cut for better work conditions.
      If you hate your job, you have a couple choices- You can look for a better job, or you can change your outlook. Here in Ohio, tech jobs aren't easlily available- I make a good living, but I am grateful to be employed. There are a ton of people out there with 100K and more degrees who are under and unemployed.
      Life isn't perfect- being an adult is hard.

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    10. Re:Its a matter of perspective by Mr2cents · · Score: 5, Insightful

      Well, I once knew a girl who wanted to become a lawyer so she could "buy a Porsche". We had something going, but when I heared that, it was an instant no-go. I might be a geek desperate for sex, but I'm not that desperate. She quit school a year later. It's not money that matters, it's passion.

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      "It's too bad that stupidity isn't painful." - Anton LaVey
    11. Re:Its a matter of perspective by drsquare · · Score: 4, Insightful

      I can't change jobs because I've nowhere to go, I'm not qualified to do anything other than unskilled labour. I tried to get an education but I failed it, I'm not clever enough and can't afford it anyway. We're not all geniuses like you, sorry. Some of us have to do the soul-crushing grunt work so you can sit at your cushy office job reading Slashdot.

      I don't have kids, I can't afford them. I can't afford a house to live in that can accomodate kids, I can't afford to bring them up properly. I don't want to be a benefit scrounger either. Having children is for people richer than me, just something I'll have to do without.

    12. Re:Its a matter of perspective by The-Trav-Man · · Score: 2, Interesting

      Well, to start with as a factory worker you've got a lot going against you. Did you ever enjoy your job? Did you ever plan on enjoying it? I have friends who are factory workers, and they all knew exactly what they signed up for and it delivers to their requirements fully. One (out of seven) has experienced work burn out, he's actively searching for a job in a book store (been to 3 interviews in a week and has another one scheduled for tomorrow). The work dissatisfaction he experienced was that the place wasn't run in an organised manner, orders were packed on demand and there was no attempt at prediction which could have reduced worker stress during the busy hours substantially. He tried telling his boss and was told to get back to work. The article is not aimed at rich computer programmers, but it does strike a tone with a lot of smart people who are going after jobs that they enjoy doing. If you hate your job but aren't trying to find a better one then you don't really have a firm base to complain from. There's an obvious solultion, you know what it is, why aren't you following it up?

    13. Re:Its a matter of perspective by Louis+Guerin · · Score: 4, Funny

      Irony: Not one major grammatical, spelling or punctuation error in the parent.

      Someone give this man a job.

      L

    14. Re:Its a matter of perspective by drsquare · · Score: 4, Funny

      I'm afraid I'm overqualified to be a Slashdot editor.

    15. Re:Its a matter of perspective by sTalking_Goat · · Score: 3, Informative
      But how does she taste with fava beans ?

      I think you're mixing your references.

      A census taker once tried to test me. I ate his liver with some fava beans and a nice chianti. - Hannibal Lecter

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    16. Re:Its a matter of perspective by theblueprint · · Score: 5, Informative
      First, why don't you change jobs? Second, why don't you get an education so you can change jobs.

      He's got a point there. I too worked in a factory, and it sucked. I understand that it's hard work and lame pay, but I worked my butt off, moved up the ladder, and now I'm the production manager. I have an office, and it's a decent-paying white collar job.

      An acquantiance of mine asked me for a job. I offered him one in the factory. He was instanly dismissive, despite the fact he has NO education, and no work record to incdicate that he would last more than the first paycheck. He complained that he just "needs someone to give him a sweet job". He was less than pleased when I told him that you have to earn those.

      I'm not implying anthing negative about the gp, but people don't do things for you. That's the "harsh realistic" truth.

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    17. Re:Its a matter of perspective by The-Trav-Man · · Score: 3, Insightful

      Well you've discovered a problem. What are your options for getting qualifications?
      Would a job in retail or hospitality be a better temporary job?
      You can use a computer as well which is a qualification for a data entry position.
      You find a better job exactly the same way you found your current job, LOOK. I don't know the job situation in -insertLocation- but I'd be willing to bet that if you spread your contact details around every coffe shop, and retail outlet in range you could probably find another job.
      > Ask everyone you know if they know of any places, and whether they can put in a good word for you, go to interviews, try to show your new employers a happier face than the one you're showing here.
      from the second part of the article: Detached Concern. Potter defines detached concern as a form of mental control in which personal power is gained by letting go. She suggests that the attachment of one's ideas of how things ought to be can imprison you and make you feel helpless. Focusing on the situation at hand, taking what steps you can to make it better, and letting go of the things you can't control make for a healthier life.

      Every time you think you've hit a brick wall, say "Ok, it's pretty messed up. Now what can I do to make it better"

    18. Re:Its a matter of perspective by pyite · · Score: 5, Insightful

      It's not money that matters, it's passion.

      This is very true. When I started engineering school, all freshmen had to take some orientation lectures to learn about the profession that is engineering, etc. After going over some starting salaries for engineers, the dean who was lecturing said in closing, "But, no matter what, knowing what you'll make after graduation is not enough to get you through it. I promise you that. If you're here for solely the money, you will not make it. You need to be here because you enjoy it."

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    19. Re:Its a matter of perspective by achesloc · · Score: 5, Insightful

      What if you are passionate about porsches. I happen to be.

      What if you put yourself through a number of years of school so that you can do porsche club racing. It just happens to be an expensive hobby. I don't agree that you can dismiss the integration of money and passion so easily. Not everybody wants to make a lot of money so they can swing their dick around. Some people want to have certain experiences that require significant amounts of money.

      What if you like to travel? What if you like sailing? What if you like giving money to charity?

    20. Re:Its a matter of perspective by 1zenerdiode · · Score: 5, Insightful

      Yeah, and it always helps if you've had 18 years of six-figure lawyer income to subsidize your cooking.

    21. Re:Its a matter of perspective by Beavbo · · Score: 2, Funny

      Wouldn't let you drive the Porsche huh? Bummer....

    22. Re:Its a matter of perspective by The-Trav-Man · · Score: 2, Insightful

      Excellent point.
      We all commend people who give up their high paid high responsability jobs to go play with dolphins or paint landscapes or some other hippy fancy, but how is that any better than the people who decide they don't like living in poverty and work their way into high paying jobs that allow them to give their children financial independance?

      I don't care if I'm passionate or not, I want lots of cash so I can play with the fun toys, If I'm good at what I do, then what is it to you if I don't get excited about it?

    23. Re:Its a matter of perspective by MSBob · · Score: 5, Insightful
      OK. Time to challenge your assumptions. Do you really think your family will be happier because daddy is killing himself over so they can keep up the repayments on the plazma TV, or the second car? Do you think that when you draw your last breath you're going to exclaim "My dear God, I wish I had spent more time at the office!"?

      You can give your family soooo much more than a McMansion and two shiny cars in the driveway. Take them for a walk, teach your kids to throw the ball, play tennis, whatever... In time they'll come to appreciate it much more than sterilized existence in a suburban McHouse. I promise you, I guarantee you they'll appreciate the time with you much more than having marble countertops in the bathroom.

      The American society is driven by greed to the point of obsession. The change has to come from within. Be a part of the solution, not a part of the problem.

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    24. Re:Its a matter of perspective by Requiem18th · · Score: 2, Insightful

      Excuseme but being a factory worker IS BEING PRODUCTIVE. Factory workers are not well paid because they aren't productive. It's because they can be easily replaced. This is true even if you have a high degree, as long as you can be easily replaced you are going to get the bad wages. So the trick is NOT to make yourself useful, you have to make yourself indispensable.

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    25. Re:Its a matter of perspective by mnemonic_ · · Score: 2, Interesting

      Too true. At the University of Michigan, 27% of students in the College of Engineering eventually leave to the liberal arts. This includes the get-rich types but also the fence-sitters ("major in chemistry or chemical engineering? biology or biomedical engineering?") and the guys who just can't hack it. Countless others want to leave, but can't afford to having taken already 70+ engineering credits. In engineering, every class is a weed out class.

    26. Re:Its a matter of perspective by zombie-m · · Score: 4, Insightful

      No one said anything about living in poverty. Pursuing some "hippy fancy" doesn't mean that you will be poor, or that you can't afford the standard of living that you want. Not everyone wants the same things. Personally, I would be happy with a moderate house, a reliable vehicle, and a couple decent computers and other modest toys. I don't think that takes much, and I don't much care if I pull down a 6-7 figure salary.

      Some people want large salaries and live extravagant lifestyles. Some don't. I don't think either is necessarily better. I do think that some people think that having a lot of money and possessions will make them happy and then find out that isn't the case once they have them.

      Maybe I'm just in the minority, but giving my children financial independence is not high on my list of priorities. Such children would probably grow up feeling entitled and not do anything worthwhile with their lives. I'd much rather they work for what they want and know that they earned it themselves. Call me crazy, but I think that's a good thing.

    27. Re:Its a matter of perspective by jp10558 · · Score: 4, Insightful

      I've seen this post before, and I really think it's a troll. I mean, either that or you seriously need counsoling.

      Anyway, I'm a college graduate, and I'll give you some advice from the Career development centers and State Job agencies I've dealt with. Not saying they work, but might be worth a try.

      The basic idea is twofold. 1) pick something you want to do more than factory work. Generalize. Maybe you want to be in management, maybe you want to be in IT, maybe you want to be a chef.

      Once you've picked what you want to do - lie. Not really, but get damned close.

      Say you want to get into management. First, talk about how you are reliable - you come into work every day, you meet quotas, you've suggested improvements in processes on the factory floor.

      Second, talk about your other skills - you think you don't have any, but really, you do. Talk about your understanding of office applications - you can obviously use a PC well enough to get online and post to slashdot. You can spin that into using Word, and IE and internet apps.

      Then, come up with a plan to get additional skills. Lots can be done online for free, more can be done at seminars and your local employeement office.

      With your ability to POST ON SLASHDOT, you can likely leverage that skillset to get into an office - likely doing clerical work.

      Anyway, none of this is easy, you do have to work. You have to be willing to stretch the truth quite a bit, and be willing to learn new things - fast!

      Many skills are non-obvious, heck, just working for a few years in a factory ought to put you in a position to try and jump to foreman or the like - maybe in a different company though. Always look for openings one step up from where you are in local competitiors.

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    28. Re:Its a matter of perspective by iamlucky13 · · Score: 3, Interesting

      Engineering for the money definitely isn't worth it, for two reasons. First, because studying engineering means spending 4+ years absolutely convinced that everyone around you is enjoying life way more than you. Sure I enjoyed the stuff I studied and I'd make the same major decision again if I had to, but it was frustrating nonetheless to watch the girls wander through the dorm at 10 pm on Fridays while writing lab reports. Second, average salaries are a statistic, and statistics have a nasty habit of screwing you over just when probability says they shouldn't. Somehow I managed to finish in the top quarter of my ME class with a math minor and landed a job on contract making $10000 less than the average, no benefits. That's intended to be a case-in-point, not a rant.

      To build on your story, my freshmen physics class started the first semester with around 85 students in it, almost all engineering majors. We pretty quickly started joking about how this class must be designed to weed out the students who shouldn't be engineers, but we didn't think the administration was actually that clever. At the end of the semester, only about 70 students showed up for the final. By the end of the second semester, there were less than 60 left. In retrospect, I still don't think the administration was consciously trying to cull those not oriented towards nerdiness (I did enough extracurricular stuff interacting with them to learn that they genuinely are not that clever), but the nature of the material either killed their intellectual idealism or their grades, probably both, and the rolls of the business, communications, and other "I don't know what I want to do with life" majors started swelling.

    29. Re:Its a matter of perspective by prell · · Score: 3, Interesting
      That reminded me of something I read in a book I have. Apparently it's in another book I've looked at online!:

      There's a favorite letter of mine from a Nobel Prize winner named George Wald, who is a biologist at Harvard. He wrote it in response to an argument about the starting of a Nobel laureate sperm bank. Some irate feminist wrote into the paper saying, "Sperm banks, they should have an egg bank. Why just sperm?" He says:

      You're right, Pauline. It takes an egg as well as a sperm to start a Nobel laureate. Everyone of them has had a mother as well as a father. Say all you want of fathers, their contribution to conception Is really rather small.

      Nobel laureates aside, there isn't much technically in the way of starting an egg bank. There are some problems but nothing so hard as involved in the other kinds of breeder reactors.

      But think of a man so vain as to insist on getting a superior egg from an egg bank. Then he has to fertilize it. And when it's fertilized, where does he go with it, To his wife? "Here, dear," you can hear him saying, "I just got this superior egg from an egg bank and just fertilized it myself. Will you take care of it?" "I've got eggs of my own to worry about," she replies. "You know what you can do with your superior egg. Go rent a womb, and while you're at it, you better rent a room too."

      You see, it just won't work. For the truth is that what one really needs is not Nobel laureates but love. How do you think one gets to be a Nobel laureate? Wanting love, that's how. Wanting it so bad one works all the time and ends up a Nobel laureate. It's a consolation prize.

      What matters is love. Forget sperm banks and egg banks. Banks and love are incompatible. If you don't know that, you don't know bankers. So just practice loving. Love a Russian. You'd be surprised how easy it is, and how it will brighten up your morning. Love whales, Iranians, Vietnamese, not just here but everywhere. When you've gotten really good you can even try loving some of our politicians."
      from: http://www.saigon.com/~anson/ebud/jk8p/jk8p_01.htm
    30. Re:Its a matter of perspective by Fulcrum+of+Evil · · Score: 2, Funny

      It's Utah - the drug of choice is probably meth.

      --
      "We returned the General to El Salvador, or maybe Guatemala, it's difficult to tell from 10,000 feet"
    31. Re:Its a matter of perspective by Wigglywonka · · Score: 2, Interesting

      It's time to challenge your assumptions. A large income can be spent on things besides the frivolities you mentioned. Healthcare has become increasingly expensive, and, unless you and your family don't mind suffering from untreated illnesses, good health insurance, and the money to supplement it if your plan doesn't think you need something, are going to require some serious money. Then there's education. Perhaps one of the most important things a parent can provide for their child is a good, solid education. Aside from increasing their earning power, it will allow them to get more interesting, rewarding work as well as provide opportunities for them to meet interesting people. These days even a good State School could cost 15k or 20k, per child, in tuition alone. When you throw in living costs, books, etc. you're talking about serious money. Graduate or Professional school? Throw on another 75 to 120k depending on what your kids want to do. Money is also useful when disaster strikes. Say, for example, your entire city becomes submerged in water and your insurance company screws you. Having a big income and a stable job can make that situation, while still awful, lot easier. You can't use money to buy your way to happiness, but you can can use it to buy your way out of all sorts of miseries and stressors.

    32. Re:Its a matter of perspective by bataras · · Score: 3, Funny

      Is Board Certified Neurologist to you what Microsoft Certified Professional is to us? :)

    33. Re:Its a matter of perspective by jkreuzig · · Score: 2, Insightful

      My Mother. After Law School, three law degrees, 18 odd years as a lawyer and five as a Judge. She suddenly quit and went to culinary school to become a pastry chef.

      Some people can be happy with just a big paycheck and extra letters after their name but mostly they are the minority.


      Ah yes, the person who has spent 20+ years working their ass off to save their money to do what they want. It's easy to jump ship and change jobs on a whim when you have the financial security to do so.

      I'd be happy with a big paycheck and extra letters after my name for about 5 years. Then I could quit and do whatever I want also.

    34. Re:Its a matter of perspective by WebCrapper · · Score: 2, Interesting

      The sad part is, most people (I'm guilty of it too) just roll their eyes and keep on truckin'. I wanted to be a programmer for my young adult life and now that I'm 26, I suddenly decided that I wanted to go with Mechanical Engineering with a focus on robotics. If I would have listened to the guidance counselors, the books (listing long hours, high stress, etc) and other programmers I would have saved myself a heck of a lot of time. But noooo, I knew everything in high school, just like most kids...sheesh

      Sure ME shares some of the same down sides of programming, but at least I get to do what I want.

    35. Re:Its a matter of perspective by Jussi+K.+Kojootti · · Score: 2, Interesting

      Gongratulations! Your post has won the Most-Generalizations-In-One-Post Award. It's a real achievement considering the forum...

    36. Re:Its a matter of perspective by TapeCutter · · Score: 2, Insightful

      Without "wage slaves" civilization as you know it would collapse in less than 3 days. Your post clearly shows a disconnection from the "real world". Maybe your a kid or a troll or a nobleman, I don't really care except to say you need to get a grip and understand that productivity/responsibility is not measured by a persons pay packet (eg: Train driver or the kid with his finger in the dam).

      Ego-maniacs should be forced to clean public toilets for a while before taking on a "real job". If the shit doesn't stick to you then you can claim to be a king.

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      And did you exchange a walk on part in the war for a lead role in a cage? - Pink Floyd.
    37. Re:Its a matter of perspective by indifferent+children · · Score: 3, Funny
      giving my children financial independence is not high on my list of priorities

      Aw, come on! Paris Hilton's father is sooo proud of her. Don't you wish you had a daughter like that?

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      Censorship is telling a man he can't have a steak just because a baby can't chew it. --Mark Twain
    38. Re:Its a matter of perspective by Daniel+Dvorkin · · Score: 2, Insightful

      one of the founding principles of contemporary organizational behaviour theory states that pay is completely independant of employee happiness ... working at Taco Bell for minimum wage might actually be fun

      One strongly suspects that the founders of "contemporary organizational theory" have never actually had to try to support themselves and/or their families on minimum wage.

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    39. Re:Its a matter of perspective by walt-sjc · · Score: 4, Insightful

      I'm leary of the "give their children financial independance" part. We already have the older generation calling the younger generation "The Entitlement Generation" due to the fact that (in general) young adults seem to feel that they are "entitled" to high pay, less work, all the toys, etc.

      It's not JUST the younger generation though. My sister-in-law STRONGLY feels that it's a parent's reponsibility to maximize their childrens inheritance, and vocally enough that her children are fully aware of it, and now expect it.

      Me? I'm just the opposite. All a parent SHOULD do is make sure that their children have the education and capability to acheive their OWN financial independance. Anything the parents do beyond that is a "bonus".
      Now maybe the child, with his education and drive to work hard, decides to go into a lower paying field to help people, such as becomming a teacher... Then that "bonus" allows them to do so without sacraficing their own future. But if the kid screws around, drops out of school, smokes a lot of pot or whatever, then that child get's NOTHING and deserves NOTHING.

    40. Re:Its a matter of perspective by fafaforza · · Score: 3, Informative

      The problem with large paychecks is that the more you make, the larger you live. You take out a larger mortgagte on a bigger home. You buy that luxury car to keep up with the other members of the country club. You eat better. You buy more clothes. The same goes for someone moving from making 30k to 50k. So it might be easy to assume she amassed a great wealth, but you'd probably be surprised how much liquid assets she actually had when she switched tracks.

    41. Re:Its a matter of perspective by WickedStick · · Score: 2, Funny

      What if her name was Porsche...would that matter? I mean, my wife's maiden name is Beer and I always joked that I wanted to marry a beer, but I didn't really marry her because her last name was Beer... did I...???

  2. Channel Your Inner Wally by Shadow+Wrought · · Score: 2, Funny

    After all, if your supervisor is going to channel their Inner PHB, they give you little choice.

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  3. Burnout. by Captain+Scurvy · · Score: 5, Insightful

    Thoreau said, "A man is only as rich as the number of things he can let alone." Who cares how much money you make if you're so swamped you can't enjoy it? I am considering a career change for this very reason. Life's too flipping short.

    1. Re:Burnout. by mslinux · · Score: 2, Insightful

      I'll tell you who cares... my wife. She cares a lot about how much money I make. That's one reason she has sex with me. Money makes her feel comfortable and secure. So comfortable that she'll do anything to keep me around... and I mean anything. And, I like that.

      My kids care too. Money buys them clothes, toys, puts a roof over their heads, food in their stomachs and pays for medecine when they're sick. The more money I earn, the better I can take care of my kids.

      A friend of mine was in Afghanistan doing some contract work. He had taken some spare money and purchased Marlboro cigarettes by the case before he left. He used these cigarettes on several occasions to bribe his way past tribal/bandit checkpoints. Money allowed him to do this... and everyone in the Land Rover with him was 'happy as hell' because of it. So, as you can see, money does indeed buy happiness... it gets you laid, makes your kids hug you and may even save your ass someday ;)

    2. Re:Burnout. by dada21 · · Score: 4, Insightful

      Ah, but money in this case has two defining factors:

      1. Is it liquid cash available to you, debt free?
      2. Do you have any debt burdens that will reduce your income in the future?

      I believe having debt is a key element in job burn out, as it is a key element that scares people into thinking they need their current job.

      Even saving just 10% of your gross income should reduce your stress levels a thousand-fold. And give your wife even more reasons to have sex with you :)

    3. Re:Burnout. by The+Good+Reverend · · Score: 3, Insightful

      Money is undoubtedly important.

      But it's not everything.

      I think the point of the article and many of the posts here is that we've been taught a "work hard, earn a lot, spend a lot" ethic, and that clearly doesn't work for everyone. Just about everyone needs to work in order to pay their bills, but if I had the choice between a new car if I worked 2 extra hours a day for a year, I'd never do it. My time is WAY to valuable to me. I certainly need my job (which I love), but more importantly, I need my own time.

      OT, be wary of any woman who'll "do anything" for your money. The "your" part might not be important...

    4. Re:Burnout. by mattbee · · Score: 5, Funny

      I'll see your quote and raise you another quote by actor Michael Caine: "The idea that money doesn't buy you happiness is a lie put about by the rich, to stop the poor from killing them".

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    5. Re:Burnout. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 4, Funny

      I'll tell you who cares... my wife. She cares a lot about how much money I make. That's one reason she has sex with me

      there are a lot of women who walk the streets at night downtown who are like that.

    6. Re:Burnout. by varmittang · · Score: 3, Insightful

      I guess the wedding vows didn't have, "for richer or poorer" in them for you.

      Yes I agree money is needed, but if keeping your family happy needs lots of money, you might be spoiling them. As for having money to have financial security in helping to raise a family, that would be the only reason why I would stay in a job I hate while I look for something else.

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    7. Re:Burnout. by Zakabog · · Score: 4, Insightful

      I hope you're not serious but...

      I'll tell you who cares... my wife. She cares a lot about how much money I make. That's one reason she has sex with me. Money makes her feel comfortable and secure. So comfortable that she'll do anything to keep me around... and I mean anything. And, I like that.

      So what you're saying is that your wife doesn't love you, but you make her feel comfortable and secure so she'll do anything to keep you around? And do you know poor people have sex too? Quite a bit more than rich people, I hear that's been going on for many many years. It has some thing to do with two people enjoying sex, coming together, liking each other, thinking the other person is attractive or whatever, and somehow they end up having sex. Money doesn't usually enter it unless the person is shallow and just looking for money, then it becomes important.

      The parent was trying to say that if you can't enjoy your money, it's not worth having, obviously you have time to do things you want to do (like have sex with your wife, or whatever else you might do.) And your friend used his money to buy cigarettes and use them to bribe people. His point was that if you spend all your time working, then you'll have no time to enjoy the money you've earned.

    8. Re:Burnout. by Proc6 · · Score: 3, Insightful

      Wow. +Insightful? This has to be a Troll. Maybe a few more years on this planet will wake you up to the fact that the "happiness" of a Land Rover is shallow and fleeting. That how many "toys" you buy for your kids is not a gauge of your parenting quality, (though I'm sure they appreciate them as a poor replacement for their absent father who's out making more money). And someday you'll wake up and realize the only person more shallow and consumer-society engineered than yourself is your prostitute wife. (Sex for money, right?)

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    9. Re:Burnout. by Monoman · · Score: 4, Insightful

      You seem to be confusing hapiness with pleasure. It is a common mistake in today's "modern" societies.

      Pleasure is a short run thing and is often materialistic. Hapiness is priceless.

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    10. Re:Burnout. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 2, Funny

      Maybe a few more years on this planet will wake you up to the fact that the "happiness" of a Land Rover is shallow and fleeting.

      I couldn't agree more. What you want instead is the shallow and fleeting happiness of a Porsche. I freakin' love mine! Chicks love it too. Yes, the happiness will fade, but by then I will have delivery my 2006 Aston Vantage! Woo hoo!

    11. Re:Burnout. by evil-osm · · Score: 5, Funny

      2. Do you have any debt burdens that will reduce your income in the future?
       
      See wife in previous post

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    12. Re:Burnout. by andreyw · · Score: 4, Insightful

      You're an idiot. You just basically stated that your whole ``relationship'' with your ``wife'' depends on your earning power, not on some particular interest in each other, compatibility, w/e. I know it sounds awful, but I do hope you go broke, just so your ``loving wife'' leaves you for someone driving a Porsche, leaving you alone to realize that you've been a complete tool your whole life.

      I sure as hope my (future) family isn't as caring about each other as yours. Pray to God that you don't become disabled, sick or afflicted with some serious crippling disease, because your whole ``loving family'' sure as hell won't be there, unless there is a will involved...

    13. Re:Burnout. by mikael · · Score: 2, Informative

      That's like living in the South-East of England now. To buy a house in an area with good schools (the middle class dream), a coupfile:///usr/share/doc/HTML/index.htmlle needs a joint income of around 100K pounds/year, and even then they are spend 2 hours day commuting. Many people are just giving up and "downshifting" into the rural lifestyle instead.

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    14. Re:Burnout. by Kjella · · Score: 2, Interesting

      I prefer the great philosopher 'Weird Al' Yankovic:
      "Well, if money can't buy happiness, then I guess I'll have to rent it."


      Disturbingly enough, there's a point in there somewhere. Bought friends, blingbling, pleasures *cough* only last as long as you can keep paying for them. It is in bad times you see who will really stick up for you.

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    15. Re:Burnout. by xski · · Score: 2, Funny

      >>I'll tell you who cares... my wife. She cares a lot about how much money I make. That's one reason she has sex with me

      >there are a lot of women who walk the streets at night downtown who are like that.


      And they're probably cheaper in the long run... 'cept for the ole AIDS gamble...

      But hey, how do you know who else your wife is sleeping with anyway?

    16. Re:Burnout. by bogado · · Score: 2, Insightful

      Well poor people don't get quoted, only "important" people do. It is funny to observe that only revolucionaries and martirs are quoted from the poor half (or should i say 9/10?) of the history. Of course you may atribute popular saying like "money don't buy you happyness" to a quote of a unknown common person of the past.

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  4. Burn out at work is not always work related! by dada21 · · Score: 4, Insightful

    I have to say that this article makes me feel crazier than I normally do.

    With so many people out of work, it seems almost like biting the hand that feeds you to complain about your work conditions and expect your employer to care. Your employer's role is to provide work for you. Your job is to do that work. The employer should "care" in order to make you the most efficient you can be, but it is not their job to make sure you don't have other life ills that may cause you to take on more than you can handle. All my employees who have burned out in the past were replaced by people who accepted more pressure, more time constraints, and more deadlines without burning out. Those who burned out with me had burned out in the past and continue to burn out to this day. There are many reasons why they've burned out, and few of them had anything to do with the job.

    Job burnout has more to do with the lack of appreciation and reward an employee receives for his or her efforts than an increased work load. NO. Job burnout has more to do with the fact that the employee sacrifices himself for a crappy job, why? Maybe because he's in terrible debt! Get your finances in order, and you can walk away from ANY bad job. Never tell me you NEED your job because of financial struggle. Maybe his girlfriend is a manic depressive freak who constantly pulls him away from his other responsibilities. Maybe he's got a habit that he can't kick, or he's got some baggage that makes him want to succeed no matter what. You made your bed, sleep in it.

    Those suffering from job burnout feel no sense of accomplishment from and no control over their work lives. So walk away. Start your own company. SAVE. The Chinese are saving up to 40% of their income. The Americans are now saving 1%, 30% of all mortgages lately are interest-only. Why are you stressed: job or real life?

    Today to get ahead and save for a reasonable retirement, workers often must hop from company to company to get a promotion. Ahhh! The average employee puts almost 15% of his income away in Social Security that he knows he will never see! How about if he put 15% of his income into his own house, savings account, vacation, or whatever? How much happier would he be? Do NOT say that employers are responsible for YOUR retirement. What are we teaching our next generation? That is it someone else's responsibility to take care of us in our old age.

    Everyone is expendable, thanks to many employers' short-term, economic goals. I've run 7 businesses in the 15 years I've been in business. ALL of them had long-term goals, but I also realized that a LOT of my employees would be short term as they learned from me and found someone willing to pay the more. The wonderful free market allows people to do this. Those I invested the most in I had the most reason to pay better and give better fringe benefits to. Those who left because someone was willing to pay more than me found themselves in a better position. Those that complained I wasn't paying enough were not worth more to me, and not worth more to anyone else either it seemed.

    The job conflicted with my values. I was mentally and physically exhausted and suffered from chronic stomach problems. Oh, I didn't realize this guy was forced to keep this job. Did his employer put a gun to his head? Did he have absolutely no other options to get a job? Did he really LIKE the pain it caused him?

    Not dealing with a burned-out employee can undermine your organization's health and lead to a burnout epidemic. In the free market this is called "bankruptcy" and rarely has to do with employee's health. When all your employees are getting burned out, it is likely that the business was failing in many other areas.

    It is very important to realize that there are MANY reasons why people burn out in work, in relationships, in friendships, in life in general. To blame employers for this VERY complex situation is ridiculous, and I believe t

    1. Re:Burn out at work is not always work related! by timmarhy · · Score: 2, Insightful

      are you some kind of fucking college kid living off mum and dad? because thats the only way you could have come up with this crap about not needing a job. without a job how do you intend on putting a roof over your head and food in your stomach?

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    2. Re:Burn out at work is not always work related! by dada21 · · Score: 3, Insightful

      When did I say you don't need a job? I just mentioned you can SWITCH jobs.

      I'm 31. I can live stress-free on $10 per hour. But I like toys so I work harder. When I get close to feeling stressed, I cut back on work, which means cuts back on toys. But if you buy toys on credit, expect there to be no easy way to cut back on the stress that will likely follow.

    3. Re:Burn out at work is not always work related! by Compholio · · Score: 2, Insightful

      But all the kids/youth I know have iPods, new cars, nice rental apartments downtown, 3 nights-out-a-week, DVDs and home theaters. And they wonder why they're stressed at work.

      While I may not be the typical example, I:
      * Have been working since I was a freshman in HS (now a Junior in College)
      * Work a full load in the the Physics Department
      * Spend almost all of my "free time" either doing homework or working
      * Buy equipment that is meant to last so I won't have to buy a replacement in the near future
      * Bike to class on days I don't go to work afterward
      * Borrow one of my parent's vehicles on the days I do go to work
      * Rent a place in order to get forced into social interactions (I'm normally a hermit)
      * Get things for free when I can (food, DVD player, iPod, etc.). For example, I got my iPod from work here just recently cause they were raffling some off they got from another company.
      * Have a 401K
      * Have been saving 50% of my income (after taxes) the entire time I've been working
      * Have no loans because I've been paying for my own education out of pocket
      * Can still afford a reasonably expensive computer system that I put to good use


      But guess what? It isn't easy, the pressure from adults is to quit my job and concentrate on my school work. For the most part it's my job that keeps me sane, I feel like I'm actually accomplishing something and getting something done - without that I'd probably burn out. The atmosphere at work where good work is recognized and congratulated is a big part of what sustains me. Excuse me if I'm a bit upset about this, but there are just as many lazy and short-sighted people in your age bracket (whatever that may be) as there are in mine.

    4. Re:Burn out at work is not always work related! by dada21 · · Score: 2, Interesting

      Funny, one of my first properties was a trailer. No one in my park was trash. I paid the trailer off in a year and saved enough to buy a cheap condo for cash. The condo did not compare with the quality of life in the trailer.

      In fact, I'm reconsidering trailer living because of the housing bubble. I would probably save $20,000/year, and get almost $200,000 freed in over-inflated equity.

      Don't knock it. Trailer > Apartment IMHO.

    5. Re:Burn out at work is not always work related! by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 2, Insightful
      "Get your finances in order, and you can walk away from ANY bad job"
      Easy for someone who isn't supporting a spouse with serious, chronic health problems to say. Life doesn't always give you as many choices as you seem to think. With luck, you won't need to learn this lesson the hard way.

      Is such a situation the employer's fault? Of course not; I agree with you that burnout is complex, and blaming the employer is a gross oversimplification. But so is the notion that you can just walk away from a bad job.
    6. Re:Burn out at work is not always work related! by dada21 · · Score: 2, Insightful

      Oops! Forgot some links regarding why a trailer is a wise living arrangement:

      http://www.garynorth.com/public/93.cfm

      http://www.lewrockwell.com/north/north358.html

    7. Re:Burn out at work is not always work related! by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 2, Insightful

      all of your commments are fine, assuming you are dealing with a reasonable and rational boss. Not all bosses or employees are that. Also, it is possible to become trapped in a job, such that the only way to leave is to quit. It's great that you have never experiemced this, but then, it sounds like their are many things you have not experienced.

    8. Re:Burn out at work is not always work related! by Hrodvitnir · · Score: 2, Insightful
      Never tell me you NEED your job because of financial struggle... You made your bed, sleep in it.

      Yeah, because everyone grows up in great school districts, is able to go to a great college without racking up student loans, is able to get a great job in this wonderful job market we have, and has benefits that cover them if they get injured and have to spend 10's of thousands of dollars on medical bills.

      Obligatory for Slashdot: I won't leave out those that have bullshit litigation brought against them and have to pay out lawyer fees and possibly a settlement.

      Don't be so quick to judge. There are a lot more things that can cause financial hardship than what you've been through in your single lifetime.
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  5. Let Steve explain! by Spy+der+Mann · · Score: 5, Funny

    Is Steve Ballmer rich? WAY YES! But is he happy? Oh no wait, Steve, get that chair down HEEEEELP!!!

    1. Re:Let Steve explain! by Elad+Alon · · Score: 2, Funny

      Sure, Steve may not be happy, but he has the power to make you sad. Hell, he'll fucking bury you! He's done it before and he'll do it again!

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  6. Maslows Hierarchy of Needs by cjkinniburgh · · Score: 5, Insightful

    Maslow's hierarch of needs (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Maslow's_hierarchy_o f_needs) would say that a job can, over time, satisfy an employees physiological needs and safety, however, once these demands are met with money, an employer will look upwards in the hierarchy to love and belonging, and see that he could be doing better. I think that this is what happens, people see that once they are 'safe' from their basic needs, they look to expand both their emotions and themselves as individuals. People wish to do as well as they can, and doing so they look up the pyramid, leading them to change jobs, even if this produces a pay cut, as long as the pay cut allows them to live without any hardship.

    1. Re:Maslows Hierarchy of Needs by rainman_bc · · Score: 3, Interesting

      Maslow's hierarchy of needs is a commonly misunderstood theory. It's about motivation. You can't expect someone to do something for self actualization, when safety need isn't being met. He theorizes that in order to have self-actualization as a motivator, you need to first fulfill physiological, safety, belongingness, esteem etc... A employee who cannot meet physiological needs will not be motivated by esteem needs. Maslow's hierarchy of needs is a motivation theory. Of course, Alderfer's ERG theory is also important to examine.

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    2. Re:Maslows Hierarchy of Needs by DarkSarin · · Score: 3, Interesting

      As the sibling post points out, Maslow's Hierarchy of needs is a motivation theory. As someone (psychologist in training--only 2 years to PhD), who studies motivation as their primary area of expertise, allow me to be the one who says that as a theory of motivation, it is woefully inadequate and outdated. There are valid points to it, yes, but generally speaking, it stinks.

      From a graduate paper I wrote about burnout, I will state that what I remember indicates that burnout is a result of feelings of inefficacy, and inability to change the current situation. Thus, from an organizational behavior point of view, its simply the state where motivation to work approaches (but never reaches) zero. Note that motivation is a directed behavior, not an attitude. Certainly there is a set of emotions and feelings associated very strongly with that behavior, but motivation is most accurately described as a behavior (specifically the allocation of time and energy toward a specific task).

      Burnout is awful. It is real. Employers can, and should*, do things to prevent it. Those who suffer from burnout should be given access to resources and activities that will relieve that burnout.

      *This is what most employers get wrong. Leaving aside such fuzziness as "good corporate citizenship" and similar ideas, burned out employees cost money. They are inefficient, and the chances are that their replacements will burn out as well as costing money and time to train properly. Hiring new employees is often as expensive or more expensive as reviving and helping your current ones. I won't make an ethical argument here, although one exists, and shouldn't be ignored, because I know that the managers want a financial/business related reason to do things. This is utility analysis (something I am becoming more interested in).

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  7. Love what you do by The+Bungi · · Score: 5, Insightful
    It's that simple. If you wake up every morning and think "wow, I'm pumped up to get to work because I love the stuff I do" then you'll always be happy. It doesn't matter if you're writing software or doing landscaping, and it doesn't matter how much money you make at it.

    Of course you can love what you do and still burnout due to bad leadership, bad environments, crappy salary, etc. But when you already love what you do you know exactly what you want and you know what to shoot for. There are many people out there who don't even know what they want to do.

    So the trick is just to find a good place to do what you really love. Everything else falls into place after that. The world is a big place. Unless your specialty is the study of the mating habits of the black-striped vampire burrowing ferret that only lives in a remote region of Mongolia, you usually have choices about jobs.

    1. Re:Love what you do by AutopsyReport · · Score: 2, Interesting
      I wouldn't go so far as to say that society needs people to work meaningless jobs. I think many people are actually satisfied working meaningless jobs -- because work to them is meaningless besides the small paycheck. You call it slaving, I call you foolish.

      There's ample reason to take these meaningless jobs. You call them meaningless, soul-crushing and degrading. If you've been a prostitute or similiar for some years, then I'd understand your take on this. But a janitorial position (or heck, even McDonalds) is considerably better than many other jobs and sincerely not soul-crushing. Just because you find it degrading and soul-crushing to clean toilets does not imply the same for millions of other workers around the world who care more about feeding their children than the quality of their employment.

      Many people are content with that they have. But please do not suggest they work degrading jobs -- that's degrading to them -- 'them' being the people you step over to get ahead in life, but who continue to keep the world moving despite their lack of advance.

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    2. Re:Love what you do by gunnk · · Score: 2, Interesting

      No no no no no...

      I believe you CAN go out there and find the work you want and can make a living at it IF you want badly enough to do the very hard work of getting there.

      Your shelf-stackers that want to be architects can't just quit to become an architect. They have to pay the bills while working to fulfill their dreams. That means stacking shelves while going to school -- possibly school during the day and stacking in the evenings. It may mean eating Ramen noodles twice a day and taking the bus so they don't have to own a car. It means working twice as hard NOW to realize a dream LATER.

      Few people have that kind of resolve and discipline.

      Your mechanic that wants to be a painter? Can he make a living with his paintings? If not, he'll stay a mechanic and paint on the weekends if he loves to paint.

      The electrician that wants to be a musician? Do you play an instrument? I play a little guitar: it takes every bit as much work to learn to play well as it took me to get my degree in physics.

      After I graduated from college I took a job doing research under contract with the EPA. It payed well. The hours were comfortable. The security was high... ... but I didn't like the work. I decided I wanted to work with computers (back around 1990). I grabbed a big, thick book on "Upgrading and Maintaining PC's" and learned as much as I could. Studied. CRAMMED.

      Then I found a company looking for an entry-level tech offering a MUCH lower salary than I had with my research position -- I dropped to $24,000/year. I spent 18 months in a hellish job, but it gave me the skills and experience to move on to a better position.

      In other words, I was willing to pay the price to move on to something better -- and I wasn't in a bad position to begin with!

      I'm now a senior systems developer and administrator implementing a HIPAA-compliant network of my own design using open source solutions in a research institute dedicated to child development studies.

      Getting here was HARD. Leaving my stable research job was SCARY.

      Shelf-stockers, factory workers, bartenders: there are some people are quitting those jobs all the time to follow a dream. However, MOST people will take the security of their current, unloved job over the scary leap. Most would rather have a beer after work with friends than go home to hit the books or practice their music, or hone their craft.

      Most people can get up and chase their dream, but it often comes at a price they are not willing to pay.

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  8. "Yes, but", and "Yes, and" by Tackhead · · Score: 4, Interesting
    > Is it really better working for a company that cares about your satisfaction? Are there any companies like that and (more importantly) are they hiring?

    Yes, but:

    Yes, but - a company that cares about your satisfaction is necessary, but not sufficient. You're partially responsible for your own satisfaction. The company can only provide you an environment in which your work is meaningful, and with bosses who aren't asshats. Some companies fail to suck, but if you keep that "I show up, I hide for 8 hours a day, I get nothing done, and they still pay me" mentality, you're not going to enjoy it any more (or any less) than working at your last job.

    Yes, and:

    Yes, and - they do exist. And they're often hiring. They're everywhere, but they're usually small companies, and you wouldn't know about them unless you knew people already working there.

    So, what to do:

    Network. In other words, do the same thing you ought to be doing every night, Pinky. Ask your friends who's worth signing up with as part of your plan to try to take over the world.

  9. Nope- no companies hiring that can afford to care by Marxist+Hacker+42 · · Score: 4, Interesting

    RTFA-Even the most enlightened, caring employers are facing conditions that can lead to employee burnout. Bob Kerr, Innotec Stainless operations manager and Welding Wire subscriber, wrote, "I hope that as a follow-up to the replies you receive from burned-out welders, you can remind them that their employer's constant efforts to increase productivity while decreasing costs are also an effort to compete in an increasingly competitive market. If the employer cannot compete successfully utilizing domestic labor, he is either forced to offshore or close shop. Therefore, it is in the best interest of each employee to strive for higher personal productivity. As Americans, we tend to forget that we are indeed competing in an increasingly smaller world."

    In other words, between the Clintonista Democrats and the Reganites and Bushies, we've signed too many free trade agreements for employers to actually be able to compete *and* care about their employees. So the second gets left in the dust because the federal government can't be bothered with the duties of the common defense and providing for the general welfare.

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  10. 40 - average workweek by rd4tech · · Score: 5, Insightful

    From my humble experience, these guidelines help with the subject of the article
    1. Be at work 10 minutes before time
    2. Leave on time or up to 5 minutes after.
    3. Don't do overtimes unless it's happening at most once a week and it's paid.
    4. Have your own strong principles and be professional, do what you are paid for, but keep in mind rule number 2.
    5. When a 'funny' new idea/feature/concept is about to be discussed and possibly implemented, don't go nuts over it. Stay calm, state your view, sit down and shut up. The last part is important because regardless of the undesirability of the idea, if your boss wants it to be implemented, you'll have no choice anyway. Instead of being stressed out, refer to rule 2 and 6.
    6. Once work hours ends, forget everything until the next day regardless of the pressure. Work isn't your personal life.
    7. Remember that people treat you the way you've allowed them to do.

    If you still don't agree with me, do read:
    workweek
    Average work week in manufactoring

    1. Re:40 - average workweek by QuantumG · · Score: 2, Interesting

      My job has long (LONG) periods where I have very little workload.. then we have weeks where there's no time to go get lunch or stop at the end of the day. If I worked in the fast food industry they'd put me on "casual" rates and send me home when there was no work to do. Thankfully I work for a megacorp on a salary and they pay me the same no matter how little or how much work there is to do. What pisses me off is the people who do nothing all day long for weeks and then refuse to work late when crunch time hits. They get used to the down periods and think that's all they should be required to do to get paid. I like to think of these guys as consolation prize employees. "I showed up, now give me my trophy!" To which I say, here's your casual rates.

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    2. Re:40 - average workweek by digidave · · Score: 2, Insightful

      If you need to remember any of those items, your job sucks. Personally, I don't mind coming in 30 minutes early and leaving 30 minutes late. My boss would never ask me to do that unless an extreme emergency happened, which it hasn't yet. My job is good, my boss is great and I enjoy it. I actually look forward to arriving at work in the morning so I can talk with my boss for a while about non-work and work stuff.

      My last job wasn't quite as good, but I still got along with the people I worked with and had a ton of fun.

      There is really only one problem people have with work: their boss. A bad boss can turn a decent job into a horrible one. I would suggest to everyone that you try to have a good friendship with your boss, even if he or she can be an ass sometimes. Does your boss have kids? Ask him or her about their kids. Find common ground. Hell, for years I was a programmer working for the Director of Marketing and if I managed to do it, so can you!

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    3. Re:40 - average workweek by David+Off · · Score: 2, Interesting

      > From my humble experience, these guidelines help with the subject of the article

      I will add one, don't say anything about your boss or coworkers to a third party that you wouldn't say to their face.

      Basically the above poster is right, work comes down to timekeeping. Get in on time and your boss won't hassle you too much no matter what "career development" you do during slack periods.

      Come in "late" on a regular basis and you are trouble and lazy. No matter how good or hard you work or how many hours you really put in.

  11. Look for small companies. by jellomizer · · Score: 2, Insightful

    The smaller the company usually the less politics you need to go threw, the chances you are working on an important job is higher. Because you are a big fish in a small pond you actually feel like you are needed. If you work in a large corporation the benefits will be better but in a smaller company you will get more experience and you will be able to achieve more.

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    If something is so important that you feel the need to post it on the internet... It probably isn't that important.
  12. Burnout/hardwork by QuantumRiff · · Score: 5, Interesting
    There is bound to be several threads here about how hard work is important, and those that complain are lazy, and want instant gratification. Let me just point out, that back in the day, you worked hard, put in insane hours, and got promoted. It was not unheard of to go from entry level to corporate VP. However, in the last decade, things have changed.. excuse me while I badly paraphrase Office Space "they're going to lay you off and hire interns, so that lumburg's stock will go up a quarter of a point" If you read the article, it also talks about employee dedication being offset by managements short term goals..

    I work government, and while I do like my job, there is no real point in my putting in insane hours. Because in government, everyone has to be treated equally. I work about 45 hours a week, busy all day (and reading slashdot!). If we do raises, everyone gets a 2% raise, or x amount a year. Everyone. Even the people that sit around all day surfing the web. There is no reward for me implementing a system wide VOIP system in 1 month from brainstorm to going live. There is no incentive for me to put in tons of work, except for my own satisfaction, and resume building.

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    What are we going to do tonight Brain?
  13. Fucking copy/paster by yuriismaster · · Score: 2, Informative

    Stolen Direct FTFA, adding in "The problem in finding out whether job burnout is occuring is because" and "(what I think is most important to the company):" Get a life.

  14. Re:Burn-out is common with Linux Admins by HermanAB · · Score: 4, Insightful

    Oh man, you are so disconnected with the real world - i don't think you have ever installed Linux - not in the last 5 years anyway.

    Windows is only easy to maintain because everybody get so much practise fixing it all the time...

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    Oh well, what the hell...
  15. My Experience by OctoberSky · · Score: 2, Insightful

    I was in a sales job that I absolutely hated. I would do anything I could while there to keep my mind off work, while I was working! I would call my friends, drive around aimlessly and just day dream. Worst part was not only did I hate the job, I had to commute an hour every morning. It was against the normal traffic flow, so just a straight 70 miles north of my city.

    I quit that job to take my current position which I really enjoy. I don't have to commute more than 15 mins. I don't have to put in overtime. I don't have to worry about job security, and I don't get paid shit, but the benefits are amazing.

    I was on track to make $55,000 at my old job, but like I said I hated it, had I tried I would have been on track to make closer to $80,000. I now make $32,000 and am so much happier. Best part is I get to look at Slashdot all day while sitting in my office. Seriously, look at my previous posts, I make 90% of them between 8:30am to 4:00pm.

    P.S. I ride the bus to work, no one in their right mind would do that unless they are happy with thier jobs. Or one of the hippies who ride with me.

  16. Keep your sanity by nuggz · · Score: 4, Insightful

    Good advice.
    Do your job, be professional, avoid getting into that other stuff.

    I enjoy my job, it's a good job. I take pride in my work, I do a good job.

    I leave on time, and leave work at the office, generally.

    I rarely take work home, and I try not to travel on weekends. I'm fair to the company and they're (so far) fair to me. It helps I've got a reasonable boss who believes in that balance results in better long term performance. Many other supervisors I've seen are less balanced in his approach, their people work more, but don't seem to be any more successful, and their turnover is higher.

    Makes you think.

    1. Re:Keep your sanity by HTH+NE1 · · Score: 2, Funny

      I enjoy my job, it's a good job. I take pride in my work, I do a good job.

      Why then do I get an image of you polishing a rifle when I read that?

      In contrast to the article, my company told me to stop working long hours regularly because they were afraid I'd burn out. But I was happier when I was working longer hours! I got more done and felt less guilty about the occasional web surfing.

      --
      Oh, say does that Star-Spangled Banner entwine / The myrtle of Venus with Bacchus's vine?
  17. Re:Obligatory - Work for Yourself by tktk · · Score: 4, Funny
    I've only ever been happy contracting. Get in, get the job done, get out. Get paid twice as much. Establish business identity, take advantage of tax deductions. Very nice way to go. Must be motivated though and willing to SAVE money for the inevitable dry spells.

    Get in, get the job done 6 months late, get out. Get called back constantly because you did a poor job.

    My apologies if you're not a building general contractor.

  18. Hands down, happiness wins by billdar · · Score: 2, Interesting
    I'm all about the happiness/contentment. I've worked in the worst conditions: slave hours, late paychecks, intrusive checks, back stabbing co-workers, and flat out vicious bosses.

    Got lucky switching to a new industry at about the same pay in a less expensive town in California, and never looked back. The work is stimulating and pretty much everyone is within my age and socio-economic group. The work is more service based, so I get out of the office quite a bit and get to interact with customers. For a mid-size company, everyone pulls their own weight to just get the work done.

    No time cards, just need to get the work done on time and to the customer satisfication. It is great. Get a couple days ahead? Get a couple guys together and go golphing.

    After 2 years working here, I've gotten about a dozen job offers. 3 of them for double my current salary. Funk that. I'll just be able to afford $500 loafers to kick myself with after recieving my first TPS report.

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  19. re: willing to relocate by Tumbleweed · · Score: 2, Funny

    > prometheus.med.utah.edu/~bwjones/

    Dude - relocate to _Utah_?! You gotta be kidding me...is there hazard pay included?

    (joke!) [sorta]

  20. Answer to your question by bernywork · · Score: 4, Insightful

    Is it really better working for a company that cares about your satisfaction? Are there any companies like that and (more importantly) are they hiring?

    Yes, yes, and just to add it another time for good measure YES!

    Job satisfaction is a huge one on my priority list, it should be on your employers list, but most of the time it won't be. It's a shame that it works this way, but that's life I guess. I am self motivated normally because what I do the people who I work for can see the benefits of what I am trying to do. I also have a very good working relationship with them so if I need money for budgets or someone out of my way to do things, it's all very easy to organise. This means when I have to work two or three weeks straight and pull 12 - 14 hours days for that period I know that taking time off afterwards to see family / friends won't even be questioned. Anything else that I need during that time will also be taken care of without question too.

    It all comes down to the person / people who you report to, some people just aren't adept at keeping people happy by doing all those little things that keep staff. Most of the time, it's usually other members who care more and make your boss do things. I know that I bought a lot of alcohol (Bottles of wine, champagne) pens and other small gifts for staff. I managed to get one of our staff members sent away to a resort with one of her friends for a weekend away after finishing a project.

    A lot of the time I find it's all about the relationship you have with the people that you report to, if you can see them as friends and they respect you for what you are doing, then all problems seem to fade away. If you are consistently not seeing eye-to-eye on things, I would definitely move somewhere else.

    Just to let you know as well, from having managed teams before, and people that have been unhappy and going to leave, the company policy before was just to give them a pay rise and that would make them stay. Only problem with that is none of the issues about WHY that person is unhappy have been resolved. In two or three months they will want to leave again. Usually it comes down to job appreciation and giving them challenges to keep them thinking. If you do this I have seen people work for a lot less because they actually enjoy their work. When people are happy it's very very easy to correlate between their performance at work as well.

    Employers like this do exist, but it's just a case of finding them. I would find out what makes you happy and ask questions about this in your interviews to see if the company that you could be working for is really what you are after.

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    Curiosity was framed; ignorance killed the cat. -- Author unknown
  21. What's that old saying? by rbochan · · Score: 3, Insightful

    I'd rather die on my feet than live on my knees

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    ...Rob
    The American Dream isn't an SUV and a house in the suburbs; it's Don't Tread On Me.
  22. No seriously, please twist the knife some more. by radiotyler · · Score: 2, Funny

    In her book Overcoming Job Burnout, Dr. Beverly Potter defines burnout as "a destruction of motivation caused by feelings of powerlessness.

    Thanks for that REALLY. You've just described my eight years in the workforce, and the way every pointed-haired boss I had used to take control over my life for at least eight hours a day.

    Work. Do your job well. Leave your work at the office. Go home. Rinse. Repeat.

    It's just that easy folks; if a chubby, 24 year old tattooed jackass like me can figure that one out, anyone can. I don't see anything really groundbreaking in this article, but if it keeps you from stealing MY stapler, by all means, read on. Or maybe go to Amazon and buy one of the 5 or so books she quoted from.

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    hi mom!
  23. The Scientific way by Alan · · Score: 2, Funny

    According to in depth research using googlefight, pay wins.

  24. Left the US, and loving it! by Anubis333 · · Score: 4, Interesting

    I would like to say that I left the USA and went to work for one of the best Game Developers in the EU: and I f*cking love this company. They seem to honestly care about the workers. We get ~25 days paid vacation, and OT is compensated with paid vacation days. (which is unheard of in the US) When they wanted to make a move to a larger city, they actually polled the workers to determine which city to move to! Sure, it's a Game Developer, so we stay long hours to finish things for deadlines, but it's so much nicer when you are working on a Sunday, being compensated; you get an email asking what you would like for lunch, and the CFO later walks around handing out ice cream bars to people saying "thanks for coming in on sunday, we will try to only ask you to come in on weekends when it is really needed." It really makes me want whats best for the company as a whole, and I would stay longer hours and work harder to make a better game and do better for the company I enjoy working at.

    1. Re:Left the US, and loving it! by fire-eyes · · Score: 2, Interesting

      That is really good to hear. I am currently in the later stages of a possible such move. I live in the US.

      What I do not like about living in the US is how everything "seems" to be centered around materialism; You are what you make. You are your reputation. You are the car you drive. You are the suit you wear. In short. You are not "you".

      The stress level is also extremely high. At least, generally, those around me have that problem. Which is puzzling to me. These folks seem to think it was PUT on them by others, when the truth is they PUT it on themselves. People have far more control than they think.

      So, here I am working a dead-end job. My creativity is not challenged. My knowledge is not pushed. I am not encouraged to learn more.

      Now there is this company in the Netherlands, and all signs point towards this working. I'd be doing IT security stuff. Basically, play a cracker from the outside then teach them how to secure it, and translate that into a plan the business can accept.

      Your post got me for many reasons. It sounds like the attitude in Europe is SO much different. It sounds like they still understand that life is about EXPERIENCES, and it is NOT about your stuff, or putting too much time in at work.

      This does not mean they don't care about work, it just sounds like they have a better balance.

      If my passport clears in the next few weeks (there is no reason I can think of that it would not), I should be over there in November for a visit. If I like it, I will go live there.

      Thanks for your post, made me feel a lot better in this slightly "scary" situation i'm in. But it's also thrilling.

      p.s. Help me learn dutch :) I want to speak en het Nederlands :)

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      -- Note: If you don't agree with me, don't bother replying. I won't read it.
  25. Re:WAAAAAAAH! I'M SAD! by ChickenFan · · Score: 2, Interesting

    Americans are, apparently, the most productive workers in the world. ... but they're sure as shit not the happiest.

    I've worked in Europe and I've enjoyed 40 hour work weeks and 35 days paid vacation per year. It made me more productive overall when I was at work. Strange but true.

    Now I'm in the U.S. and I get 15 days vacation and the idea of 40 hours in high-tech is a joke.

    So now I work long hours (but get less done), don't get decent vacations, am worried about the cost of heathcare and whether I'm going to get fired next week for "realignment" reasons, have a 70 minute commute in stop/go traffic and a $500,000 mortgage on a shit-hole house and I'm barely making the payments.

    Still, you've got to laugh.

  26. The grass is always greenest over the septic tank by briancnorton · · Score: 2, Interesting
    There is no reason to stick around for a job you don't like. If you can't find another job that you will like, then you aren't looking hard enough.

    That said, perhaps you need to step back and ponder your situation a bit.
    Is it really the job that you don't like?
    Could it be that you just aren't good at it?
    Do your coworkers not like you?
    Do they have a good reason?
    Why do you think it's the company's job to make you happy?

    These and other questions sound silly, but are crucialy important. You may like your job just fine, but be unhappy with your personal life. You may not mesh with others in your office. Maybe you would be happier starting your own business. Don't automatically assume that all your problems are the fault of someone else. The only consistant feature of every unsatisfying relationship that you have ever had is you. Something to ponder.

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    People who think they know everything really piss off those of us that actually do.

  27. Weigh your values carefully by chia_monkey · · Score: 4, Interesting

    I just came across a proposition to change my career yet again. When I was in Philly (ick) I was installing wifi all around the country. I dug the hell out of it but I really missed everything Santa Cruz, CA had to offer me. So I quit what I was doing and moved out to the west coast. I still had my consulting company out here but it wasn't a steady paycheck and bringing me the big bucks.

    So here I am in CA, doing tech support for the courthouse (we let our consulting company slowly fold as my biz partner headed off to law school and I sought a bit more stability). I get to ride my bike to work every day (about 10 miles each), have great weather, good people all around, the ocean here, the mtns, etc. However, just recently I was offered the chance to do the wifi stuff again with a 50% raise. I pondered it for about a week and realized it wasn't a lifestyle I wanted. 50% wasn't enough to travel all the time, have instability, won't get to ride all the time, etc. Paying the bills would be awesome, but it's just not worth the sacrifice. Apply this to all your job decisions and man...it's interesting what you can come up with.

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    "He uses statistics as a drunken man uses lampposts...for support rather than illumination." - Andrew Lang
  28. The US by Elad+Alon · · Score: 2, Insightful
    That is why the US accounts for 30% of the world's economic activity.
    Not to mention 100% of World Series winners are American baseball teams!

    Seriously now... First, a very sincere and emphatic kudos to all those hard-workers out there. But I can't help but ask:
    1. Are all of you really doing what's best for yourselves? Clearly not all of you, working long and hard for status symbols that (usually) won't get you a thing, and products (of course not all of them, but the percentage is high) you likely wouldn't have cared for if they weren't a short distraction from a moment of idleness spent leafing through advertisements at the paper. Most rational people would rather spend the money buying back that most important of commodities (well, after food and shelter) - time. Free time.
    2. Are you doing what's best for society? No. If you were unwilling to work as long, other people would have been hired to fill your places when you're not at work. Both you and them would have been paid more for the time you did work, as there would have been more demand for workers and less of a supply of them. Also, if you consumed less... Well, we I don't need to tell you what that would have done for the environment.

    (By the way, saying I'm not a socialist would be putting it mildly. But the opposing view to that isn't a mindless race to consume as much as possible, frittering precious time away in the process.)
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    News for merdes. Shit that matters.
    Ask me about my sig.
  29. Re:Suck it up... by TeknoHog · · Score: 3, Insightful
    Save as much as you can, and when you can afford it, retire. Life isn't about 'being happy now' it's about playing the game right, so one day you can tell everyone to fuck-off and then go and 'be really happy'.

    I disagree completely. I'm trying to lead a really happy life right now, instead of planning to do it after 30 years of misery. In a way I've told the whole capitalist rat race to fuck off many years ago.

    The idea you talk about is the whole Christian work ethic once again, with retirement as the blissful afterlife. There are other, IMHO better ways to live your life.

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    Escher was the first MC and Giger invented the HR department.
  30. Save, don't hoard by Elad+Alon · · Score: 2, Insightful
    It's smart and important, hell, even crucial, to save. But you shouldn't hoard. You may not live to see retirement. You may not be the same person by the time you do. Learn to balance.

    Bring down the big bucks and then drop out of the rat race.
    If you indeed mean "drop out as soon as possible (and safe)", then we're not in disagreement. But I do think most people would rather keep working (but less) well into their 60s, because there's not much else for them to do, and hell, they may even enjoy it. So work less (and spend less) for a long time instead of rush to the finish line.
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    News for merdes. Shit that matters.
    Ask me about my sig.
  31. Yea...well, sorta... by OneFix · · Score: 2, Interesting

    Education and Government.

    Education and Govt both pay poorly when compared to their private sector jobs...which really means they arent as demanding, but because the IT departments tend to be smaller, you get a good opportunity to try out new technlogies...the biggest drawback from both of these are low pay and yearly audits...

    For some, they would rather make $40k/yr and be happy and fairly secure than make $80k/yr with a job they hate...

    To get a job that you wont eventually hate you honestly have to be willing to accept lower pay or lack of freedom, or both...

  32. I think its the opposite. High pay = house slave. by elucido · · Score: 2, Insightful

    You can be a field slave, work harder, and make lower pay while having more freedom and less responsibility. Or you can be a house slave with higher pay and more responsibity. Either way you'll have a boss unless you are the CEO in which case you are the slave master.

    My point is, unless you own yourself you will be unhappy, so unless the economy is good, you are going to either be a rich banker, or working for walmart. The good jobs will be shipped overseas while all the crappy jobs that suck like service jobs, these will stay.

    So what would you prefer? Rich and unhappy working for a corrupt boss? Poor and unhappy working for a corrupt boss? The only way out of being unhappy is to be your own boss.

    Be your own bully, or be bullied.

  33. After a long career, I now find myself... Happy! by jht · · Score: 5, Informative

    Basically, here's the roughly-a-paragraph version of my career, followed by what I do now:

    Started mid-'80s with minor tech jobs and tech/sales jobs for crappy, now out-of-business retailers (Egghead, ComputerTown, etc.). Got hired by a customer to be their admin, spent 6 utterly frantic, insane years there. I worked at all hours of the day and night, dealt with issues constantly, but I was well-paid, respected, and treated well. I loved it. Went to another job as IT manager for an insurance company, paid a lot more money. Loved it and the people, until we were sucked in by a much bigger insurance company. Their strategic plan for us involved firing half the employees and turning it into a branch office. Lost my job there as one of the first overboard (I was management, after all) in mid-'03 after 5+ years - the first 3 solving problems and running operations, the last two having conference calls with my new boss in Minnesota.

    After that thoroughly disheartening experience with The System, I decided to give being my own boss a shot. I hung out my shingle in the spring of '04, and managed to eke out a living for the first year. Now, I wouldn't say my success is assured and I'm not making the kind of bank I used to, but I'm really busy, making a good living, and I love my job. My customers are actually grateful for my work, and they trust me to help steer them in the right directions. The experience I had is a real asset for them. And even if this doesn't work out in the long term, I've learned a lot about myself, learned a lot about business, and gotten the chance to actually use all the tech skills I've piled up over the years instead of rotting from the neck up as a PHB.

    The downside? Some weeks I can't find enough hours in the week to do everything, some weeks I hear crickets chirping when I sit in my office. And today was supposed to be a family day to go to a museum with my wife and son, but instead I had to finish a proposal in the morning, and then get called in to a customer about a half-hour from here to fix a server whose power supply had failed (installed before my time and soon to be replaced). But you know - it wasn't too bad. Because the proposal is for a nice bit of business, and that didn't take too long. And the other customer knew that I was giving up my personal time to help and they genuinely appreciated it. And appreciation is something that is often sorely lacking in the salaried, 9-5 world. Crises like that don't happen often, and it just happened to be today.

    So basically I'm saying that if you want to be happy, consider working for yourself. It's a much better life (at least for me), and it's nice to at least have some measure of control again. The worst case is you'll learn something in failing. The best case is you get to really be in charge of your career.

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    -- Josh Turiel
    "2. Do not eat iPod Shuffle."
  34. In a nutshell, it's an easy fix. by HerculesMO · · Score: 2, Insightful

    Pay your employees what they are worth, treat them well, put the stockholders SECOND (and make your employees know it), and strive for success. If you need to build a molehill, engage your employees to built a mountain.

    The problem with most jobs is that (and it's true for me) I *know* I can do a better job than the person above me. And it's not the work itself -- I have ideas to make things work smoother, cheaper, more efficient, etc. Most companies fear change -- they do what they can to keep everything successful and change nothing for sake of their employees.

    Why do you think Google is the 'job' that EVERYBODY wants (myself included)? Their environment is key to their success. They give their employees free food, let them wear whatever the fuck they want, and pay them well. The idea of companies getting more for less is proven false time and time again -- you will just have more people staying under the radar and doing the bare minimum, as the article suggests.

    Here's a few tips from personal experience, that I can pass along to corporations:
    -- Don't have "End of the Month" meetings congratulating how great the company's 'numbers' were when 99% of the people in attendance gain NOTHING from it, and the 1% who do are the ones trying to "motivate" you to get better numbers for next month.
    -- Don't keep on incompetents, people with bad tempers, and just lazy fucking bastards just because they seem to be on a 'tenure' track and have a 'history' with your company. If you are detrimental to the employees in any way, get the fuck out.
    -- Offer a Christmas bonus, ever year. I don't care if I got a $10 gift certificate to Walmart, it's the THOUGHT (and yes folks, your parents taught you right) that counts here. To say after a year's work, in a time of holiday and giving, and that you KNOW the managers are getting HUGE bonuses, learn to give a little back to your employees. You have no idea how valuable that $10 may be.
    -- Offer advancement, even if it's fake. When I came in as "Janitor" (though I didn't but regardless), and I did a decent job and I earned my whopping (can you feel the sarcasm?) 4% raise, change my title too. I would love to be Janitor Level II -- head of vomit patrol for lavatories 1-4. Granted it was probably my job before but the fact I got a title change makes me feel just a little better.
    -- DO NOT EXPECT YOUR EMPLOYEES TO ABANDON THEIR FAMILIES/LIVES TO WORK FOR YOUR SHITTY COMPANY. I cannot stress this enough. I work a 50 hour work week. Unless somebody is about to die, do not call me on the weekend, do not ask me to finish up a project by staying only a half hour more, and learn that "results" are often measured in QUALITY and not QUANTITY of hours. If you stress that you want the best job that your employee can do, but NOT at the expense of their personal lives, then your company will benefit. Because employees will make sure to get their projects done in a timely fashion because they have ALL of the aforementioned 'tips' to look forward to, coming in to another day at work.
    -- And lastly, do not believe that YOU, as Management, are worthy of any praise. You are scum because you make boatloads more money than me for a LOT less work. Granted *some* of you worked to get there and some of you did not. As an employee, I don't give a flying fuck and I will always hold that against you. That's not negotiable. Your job as management is to be despised by all employees and looked at with scorn. So don't get mad about it -- just offer what you can to say that at the end of the day, with your fistfulls of cash, you are missing one dollar to give your employees an infinitely better workplace.

    But we won't ever stop saying how useless and stupid you are because let's face it dude... you are a fat dumb bastard and we all aspire to be in your position as well.

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    The price is always right if someone else is paying.
  35. Re:The word is "promote" by Marxist+Hacker+42 · · Score: 2, Insightful

    It can be debated whether or not the free trade agreements, etc. have promoted the general welfare.

    The key word being "general" there- but yes, you're right. They have not promoted the general welfare (if anything, they've promoted the general poverty for specific welfare) and you're completely right that it's promoted, not provided.

    But the general welfare is not provided by the federal government, it is provided by the citizens in the form of commercial activity.

    Which has been largely prevented by free trade agreements. How can one possibly have any commercial activity if one cannot compete in one's industry?

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    SJW: a person who perceives an injustice, and while correcting it, commits a greater injustice.
  36. On "blaming the employer" .... by King_TJ · · Score: 2, Insightful

    I tend to agree with many of your points, but not quite *all* of them.

    In a relatively "good" job market, sure - there's little to no excuse for someone to keep a "crappy job" that's making them physically ill, etc. But at least in my field (computers and I.T.), the overall market has simply NOT been very "healthy" at all ever since around 2001. I'm not sure I really see any signs of it "recovering" either.

    I've been out of work for over 6 months now, and it's not even that often I can find an opening to send a resume to - because businesses are getting more and more demanding about exactly what they're seeking in a candidate. I have close to 15 years of combined experience with computer hardware and support, consulting, purchasing, and troubleshooting. Unfortunately, practically every job I see considers most/all of that "nice stuff to know on the side" while they really want someone who either does software coding of some sort, database administration (with previous experience in SQL, etc.), or experience implementing/supporting very specific appliacations (EG. Peoplesoft or specific CRM type packages). When it's not some combination of those, it's some type of "project manager" or "I.T. Manager" opening - requiring management experience and skills I don't have, because I've spent all my time on the "technical side" of things instead.

    My "mish mash" of experience in everything from Linux to Mac OS X to IBM OS/2 Warp to Windows NT 3.51, 4.0 and 2000 server support to "you name it" doesn't amount to a hill of beans to anyone except the "on site computer service" places like Geeksquad or "Computer Nerds" who just want to pay you a lousy $10/hr. or so to drive all over town doing work they bill close to 10x that much for.

    Years ago, I could at least get a respectable job as a "support specialist" or possibly even "systems analyst" at a mid-sized company with my skills. But even in the late 90's, these types of jobs were rather sparse. Now, I'm stuck trying to do my own on-site business because I simply can't find employment other than accepting something paying well under 40% of what I used to earn 10 years ago!

    Preaching to people about the "need to have healthy relationships" is practically pointless. I *thought* I had one myself several years ago. My marriage ended horribly when my ex turned out to have mental problems that suddenly surfaced (bi-polar, manic depressive, etc.) and on one of her "downer" days, decided it was really all my fault and cleaned out my house, took our daughter, and moved about 5 hours away. Thankfully, all of that mess is pretty much sorted out (divorce finalized, etc.) - but I lost most of what I owned including 2 cars. And though I have primary custody of my daughter now, that also means I have a responsibility to do what it takes to earn money so she gets a decent life here with me. So some boss who lectures me about "over-extending myself" while he sits back and collects a good 2x-3x my salary just to "manage" me isn't going to sit well with me. I'm not some irresponsible drug addict who can't manage my money.... I'm simply busting my ass to do the right thing in a piss-poor economy.

    1. Re:On "blaming the employer" .... by dada21 · · Score: 4, Insightful

      Our lives sound almost identical (I just never had a kid).

      Yet how often were you trying to keep up with the Joneses?  A $60k a year job should eastily support a family of 4 if you start planning early.  I'm 31 and want a kid badly but I can't do it until I'm worth about double of my current value.

      IT is dying, you're right.  Horse-shoers disappeared, too.  IT is a commodity today.  I'd recommend moving possibily, or considering starting a business, but both are hard.

      I _hate_ that so many mistakes people make are societal.  Go to school.  Spend 28% of your gross income on a mortgage.  Buy a big new car and big new TV.  Eat out.  Drink $7 martinis.  Go on expensive vacations.  Have a $50,000 wedding.

      Life takes planning, saving, and caution.  We used to know this as a society but now its all debt, debt, debt.

      16 year olds, listen and learn:

      1. Until you're 25, save every penny possible.
      2. Never rent or lease.
      3. Get one credit card for gas, insurance and groceries. Pay 100% monthly.
      4. Never get a college loan.
      5. Never buy new cars or clothes.
      6. Socialize at private parties with friends who live like you.
      7. Work your first jobs at small companies.  Trade good pay/benefits for actual positive, marketable experience.
      8. Buy a trailer or condo for cash.
      9. Marry once you own your family home, debt free.  Watch your girlfriend for a dark side.  Stability in spending habits and emotions is key.

  37. Happiness ANYDAY by tfiedler · · Score: 2, Insightful

    I've worked for both types of employers and I'll pick happiness over pay. I think it follows a pattern though, there are greedy people who find money is the focus of life and there are those that get confused and believe that temporarily but come back to reality.

    Two years ago I took a $25,000/year pay cut to change jobs. This was not one of those changes pending a layoff either, I did it when I realized that the rat race was really not worth it. Sixty and seventy hour work weeks, lame project management, foolish executives and the like, it sucks and anyone that believes those are acceptable parameters for an employer to foist, yes foist, upon an employee is a fool.

    My advise is find a good company where employee happiness and community responsibility are of primary importance and go for it. You won't regret leaving the rat race and you'll be the envy of your former coworkers who are stuck as wage slaves while you still make a damn fine living while working a normal 40 hour week. Then there's always the side benefit of working for a socially responsibly organization and you can't really put dollars on that.

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    Democrats and Republicans are like AIDS and Cancer, I want neither!
  38. It is called work for a reason... by Louie's+Demise · · Score: 2, Interesting

    They call it work for a reason. If it was "fun" to be at work, you would be paying them to be there. :) Sometimes jobs fit different periods of your life. The high stress, high travel job might be good for a young professional with no family yet. Once your responsibility to others increase, your job needs might change. I might be perceived as good to give your children an Ivy League education, but is it worth it if you missed all or many of theirr basketball or soccer games? Would they even know you? A balance is good. I am sure some people can produce High income and have time to be with their family. Good for you. But for the rest of us, this is not possible. Life is not a dress rehersal, this is the real thing. Spend some of your opportunity cost on living. :) -Nick

  39. Re:Nice Try... by bigman2003 · · Score: 4, Insightful

    I'm glad you used the modifier 'most.'

    Many programming jobs out there are basically for monkeys. Very little decision making, just a lot of coding.

    A lot of us on the other hand get involved with the business aspect of what we do. The 'why's, the 'how's...all of that. When the program manager or programmer is part of the decision making team, it becomes a very skilled and valuable position.

    And by the time you reach that level, you don't care about the language you use, the editor you use, the platform, or anything else. You just use whatever will work for the project.

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    No reason to lie.
  40. Re:Rich person retires, film at 11 by sTalking_Goat · · Score: 2, Insightful
    You're such an asshole. As a lawyer my Mom did mostly Immigration and Family Law. Even then she avoided the messy divorces and custody battles like the plague. Believe me she didn't get rich doing that stuff.

    People like you always lump all lawyers in together, until its your ass in the Defendants chair.

    --

    My days of not taking you seriously are certainly coming to a middle...

  41. Re:WAAAAAAAH! I'M SAD! by mjbkinx · · Score: 2, Informative
    not poland. the average working hours per year there are even higher than in the US -- 1983 vs 1824. the oecd countries below 1500h/yr are: denmark (1454), france (1441), germany (1443), netherlands (1357) and norway (1363). sweden has 1585, but i'll list it anyway because in some areas you can get a 100Mb/s connection without transfer limit at consumer prices -- i'm sure you agree that's a big plus.
    southern france is hot, too. the netherlands famously have very liberal drug laws, and you could expect pretty much everybody to speak excellent english.
    eurostat has statistics galore that will give you some hints, but keep in mind to weight the living expenditures against the income.

    what you should do, imho, is take a couple of weeks off and travel around a bit. we have cheap airlines that will let you get around on a low budget. we also have an excellent railway system, you'd see more that way.

    it's not just the working hours (and cheap bandwidth, although it's important, of course) that make for quality of living, but also the food and the people. those are highly individual factors, so going there first before you decide to begin a new life would be a smart investment of the little time and money it would cost you, imho.

  42. Why should you.. or anyone care?: Slave Mentality. by Generalisimo+Zang · · Score: 4, Interesting

    What does it matter what the GDP of your nation is?

    If the nation's GDP goes up an extra 1%, do you get a dividend check for your share of the difference?

    If the nation's GDP goes up 3% will you suddenly become more handsome, grow a larger penis overnight, and get a 20 point IQ boost?

    Unless you're getting an equal and/or fair share of the increase in GDP, then crowing about how "GDP has gone up!!!11one" is simply a slave mentality... you're somehow happy that your masters who control the economy made some more profit, even though you'll get none of the fruits of that increase.

    If you've got a 35-hour workweek, 6 weeks of paid vacation every year, free healthcare, free schooling through Bachelor's-level for your kids, and a guaranteed old-age pension.... would you give it all up so you could live in a country that had a slightly higher GDP????

    Are you insane? What on god's green earth effect will a higher GDP have on your own personal life experience??

  43. Re:I think its the opposite. High pay = house slav by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 3, Insightful
    Either way you'll have a boss unless you are the CEO in which case you are the slave master.

    You'd be shocked to find out how many CEO's feel they are the slave. Boards, investors, clients, vendors, family, etc. There is no top of the hill, unless you're prepared for a negative cash flow.

    The good jobs will be shipped overseas while all the crappy jobs that suck like service jobs, these will stay

    The good jobs, like standing on a production line 10 hours a day doing the same thing over and over and over agin, hoping you don't get too sleepy and have your arm in the hydraulic press when it goes? Maybe you long for the good jobs like working in a coal mine?

    Happiness is a state of mind. You can choose to be happy working in Walmart or shoveling asphalt in Death Valley, and you can choose to be unhappy as CEO of Bank of America or even when sitting in your cube hating your job instead of looking for something else to do.

    Be your own bully, or be bullied.

    Nice. Shocking to find you unhappy...

  44. Re:I think its the opposite. High pay = house slav by tchuladdiass · · Score: 2, Informative

    Even if you are your own boss (i.e., own a business) then you are still a slave to your customers, and in general the current state of the economy.
    The only way to not be a slave is to buy your way out, that is save up enough money that you can live off the interest. How much you need to save depends on what lifestyle you want to have. But there are a number of people that have decided to cash everything in, turn to a minimalist life, and survive off the land & interest from sold assets.

  45. The secret to enjoying your job... by Eric+Smith · · Score: 2, Insightful
    ...is to work in a field that you're personally interested in, for a company that is small enough that they do care about the employees. You'll rarely, if ever, find that in a large company; HP was once that way but Carly "fixed" that.

    Most large companies consider employees to be completely interchangeable and replaceable like light bulbs.

    That's not to say that all small companies are good, though. Many tech startups have a business plan that requires making their employees work long hours and weekends until they burn out. Avoid those like the plauge. They always tell prospective employees that they will reap big rewards on stock options, and in fact often insist that the employee should accept lower salary and worse benefits in exchange for the options. Don't buy it. Options *might* pay off, but it's a long shot. If they try to sucker you into such a plan, ask them to give you the salary and benefits you want and forget the options. They'll almost never do that, which tells you that their real opinion on the value of their own options is that they are worthless; obviously you shouldn't value them any more highly.

    I've had the good fortune to have several enjoyable jobs at small companies, including my current job. At a few of them I did eventually make modest gains on stock options, but not enough for a down payment on a house. Well, maybe a down payment on a house somewhere other than in Silicon Valley.

  46. Re:Why should you.. or anyone care?: Slave Mentali by CardiganKiller · · Score: 2, Funny
    Let's presume you're talking about my God-Damned Penis.

    ...then crowing about how "GDP has gone up!!!11one" is simply a slave mentality...

    Perhaps, but wouldn't you crow too? "GPD IS UP!!!111 TEH YAYNESS, ROFLLRZZZZZ"

    If you've got a 35-hour workweek, 6 weeks of paid vacation every year, free healthcare, free schooling through Bachelor's-level for your kids, and a guaranteed old-age pension.... would you give it all up so you could live in a country that had a slightly higher GDP????

    Yes!

    Are you insane? What on god's green earth effect will a higher GDP have on your own personal life experience??

    Oh now you're just being plain sarcastic aren't you?
  47. Re:Why should you.. or anyone care?: Slave Mentali by asdfghjklqwertyuiop · · Score: 2, Funny

    If you've got a 35-hour workweek, 6 weeks of paid vacation every year, free healthcare, free schooling through Bachelor's-level for your kids, and a guaranteed old-age pension.... would you give it all up so you could live in a country that had a slightly higher GDP????


    What country is that?

  48. Re:get out of industry and into education by edremy · · Score: 2, Interesting
    I'll second the comment. Academia offers low pay and crappy benefits for the most part, but you have a tremendous amount of flexibility and possible advancement opportunities

    Me? I was hired to be the "instructional tech guy". What did that mean? Well, in a nutshell nobody really knew exactly, so I could do what I wanted. I've got a reasonably clued boss who trusts me when I say "I think we need to do X", so at various times it's meant

    • Moving us to an Open Source course management system, ePortfolio, and image database.
    • Doing all the integration to get the above to talk to each other and various closed source systems
    • Training faculty to use all the stuff
    • Writing custom apps in everything from VB (spit) to PHP to Actionscript
    • Video and photo editing
    • Designing tech for classrooms
    • Writing grants to pay for all of the above
    • And a host of other random things

    In other words, whatever I felt was interesting to play with that day. Couple that with an interesting intellectual atmosphere (Where else can you ask around about negative yield curves and get good answers?) and the freedom to add to that. (I've invited James Randi to speak on campus next week[1]) Oh yeah, and no TPS reports. About the only thing I have to do to justify my actions is write a few paragraphs once per year.

    As far as advancement, we tend to hire total noobs with good attitudes. My boss (head of IT) started as a secretary with a high school education. Moved up to the Help Desk, started working on her BS, started managing the Help Desk, moved over to the admin support staff...

    Yeah, it can get annoying at times with the petty politics, but for all you hear about prima-donna professors I'll take them anyday over typical corporate minions. (I've worked both sides)

    [1] If you're in central Virginia, it's the 5th of October and it's free. Check his schedule for details

    --
    "Seven Deadly Sins? I thought it was a to-do list!"
  49. Re:Why should you.. or anyone care?: Slave Mentali by pyros · · Score: 2

            If you've got a 35-hour workweek, 6 weeks of paid vacation every year, free healthcare, free schooling through Bachelor's-level for your kids, and a guaranteed old-age pension.... would you give it all up so you could live in a country that had a slightly higher GDP????

    What country is that?


    Sounds like France. The healthcare in many European countires is crap, though. When you have free office visits with a doctor the offices over swamped with hypocondriacs so a regular visit takes longer. Emergency room trips that aren't immediately life threatening take way longer too, same reason. I know someone who had a knee operation perfored in the Netherlands, she almost lost her leg to infection. She also has some pretty bad dental work (same country) which took some pretty comprehensive work in to get right when she moved to New York.

    But the retirement benefits are freakin awesome. Her husband was laid of at about 7 years away from retirement age. He received 5 years severance and the company is continuing to pay into his retirement fund until he reaches retirement age.

  50. it can come true-here's my story... by mojoNYC · · Score: 3, Interesting
    Here's my story, in the hope that somebody will read it, and may be influenced to take a leap...

    briefly, I started as a graphic designer and production artist in 1990, first working for a manufacturer, then going on my own for a couple of years--my computer skills have been valuable because I learned the technical aspects of print production, rather than just making pretty layouts--in the mid 90s, I started learning web design and multimedia (Director) --wanting to be my own boss, I started a small design biz and went on my own--during this time, I had my own clients, as well as doing freelance work inside many top ad and marketing agencies in Minneapolis. then, I went to work for a homegrown ad agency, who was actually pretty good to work for, with lots of perks, but also having to put up with typical client BS.

    by 2000 i'd had enough, and moved to New York City, to get an advanced degree, learning multimedia art + design, and to see how i'd match up with the best. I was freelancing while going to school, which went fine at first, and then slowly dissipated with the dotcom bubble burst, finally falling on 9-11, which I saw from my classroom window. the next year and a half were spent trying to work out of this--I actually got a job at a remaining dot-com, but the founder split with the last 600k, and I was out of a job a week after I was hired...at this point, my rent wasn't being paid, much less my bills or student loans--also, I'd exhausted any credit I had, or even friends or parents to help me pay my bills--i was on my own, with no income and few prospects (freelance rates dropped through the floor at this time, and the competition became ever more fierce). bankruptcy was imminent...

    I still kept my work studio, though, because I found I *needed* to keep working--the silver lining is that with commercial work nonexistent, I could work on my own projects--I distinctly remember waking up to go to the studio being flat broke, knowing that the financial world was closing in on me. strangely, I felt free and ok with this, becausee even though I wasn't being paid, I was going to go and work on my stuff, because that's what I do.

    just when things were at their lowest, I met my future wife--she's European, and from a family of artists (and she's a geek;>--we fell in love and got married, and most of my concerns were eliminated...because my wife's father (who died when she was young) left her some money, I am able to work without having to submit to the most lucrative job--I teach interactive multimedia design and spend the rest of my time working on my own projects. Next year, I will be releasing my own creative work, (hopefully in conjunction with a major event that I am working on being a part of), while continuing to teach, and spend time with my beautiful (geek) wife...

    what's the point? Surely, I got incredibly lucky, however, that luck came after I stayed true to my own self, and pursued my dream--I was willing to take less, and put in more, in order to pursue my dream, and in the end, it came back to me a thousandfold--before that, however, I gave up a steady job, where I made good money, but got very little satisfaction putting together schlock work for anybody willing to pay.

    lots of people would trade places with me now, but which nobody would have done 2 1/2 years ago--I do believe that it was my willingness to stick it out to the bitter end that got me this far--that's the message that I want to send out--you *can* make your dreams come true, if you want them bad enough--they will never turn out quite like you expect in the beginning, but you can see it clearly, looking back...

    corporations are like casinos--they may pay you some coin, but they'll take your heart and soul in return--I can't blame anybody who takes a corporate job to feed themselves and their families, however, it's always a tradeoff, and make no mistake, they take as much of your heart and soul as they can. In return, many of the things that you think you need are actually modern 'convenien

  51. Re:Why should you.. or anyone care?: Slave Mentali by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 2, Insightful

    France. Germany. Possibly Saudi Arabia. (Really!)

  52. Software Engineer --- Marine Aviator by eggmit · · Score: 3, Interesting

    In 2004, I left a job as a software engineer to join the Marines as a Naval Flight Officer (think Goose from Top Gun). I was making good money ($70k 1 year out of college), had flexible hours, and had a great working environment (awesome boss and several friends), but it just wasn't satifying me.

    Now as a 2nd Lieutenant with 1 year of service, I make the equivalent of $42k (tax adjusted) and am loving it. The money is more than enough for everything I want & need.

    The only thing I miss is how academic & intellectual everyone was back at my job in the civilian world. Don't get me wrong; the people here are smart, but it's more in terms of technical proficiency and quick thinking. Running my own programming business on the side seems to satisfy that need, though.

  53. We all got a price by pvera · · Score: 3, Insightful

    I have had jobs where I had to put up with a lot of crap. The pay was always reasonable, never too crazy. The hours usually sucked, and as a norm most of the first line supervisors were clueles. Since the pay was just reasonable it fell under the "I don't get paid enough for this shit" category, so once these became unbearable, I moved on.

    There have also been a couple of jobs that fall under the "damn, I *do* get paid enough to put up with shit." In that case the pay and benefits are a bit higher than usual, so you put up with the crap in the job for as long as you can hack it.

    Of course, once in a lifetime you get that one job where you get paid well, people listen to you and you can pretty much get away with murder. Hell, you might even get lucky and end up working for a first line supervisor that is not an idiot. If you are one of the very few lucky bastards in this position, STFU and try to get as much as you want out of it.

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    The Insomniac Coder
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  55. I've seen worse. by jcr · · Score: 3, Insightful

    One acquaintance of mine is convinced that he's entitled to promotions because he got his ticket punched by getting a degree from a fairly decent school about two decades ago. Since that time, he's shown no initiative at all, and just whines when people he considers inferior to him pass him on the career ladder.

    -jcr

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    The only title of honor that a tyrant can grant is "Enemy of the State."
  56. Re:WAAAAAAAH! I'M SAD! by Peter+Cooper · · Score: 2, Insightful

    But on a per capita basis, western Europe's productivity is close to (or possibly exceeding) that of the US. The US just has a lot more people. On an hour-per-hour basis, western Europe is significantly more productive.

  57. Re:Nope- no companies hiring that can afford to ca by csirac · · Score: 2, Informative

    we do work harder -- more hours per week, more weeks per year.

    That's a bit of a simplistic analysis of any massively complex stastistic. All the countries have their own methods of reporting, classification, etc...

    For instance, I can see three countries (using 1994 data) on page 6 of this document: http://www.oecd.org/dataoecd/8/51/2080270.pdf which exceeded the USA in the category of percentage of workers working more than 45 hours per week; Australia, Japan, and the United Kingdom. This is of OECD countries - I'd like to see figures for non-OECD too; I had a discussion about this with a Chinese guy at Uni and he said 7 day work weeks were not uncommon over there. If it comes to that, I've worked a 7 day week two or three times, too.

  58. Re:Why should you.. or anyone care?: Slave Mentali by BenjyD · · Score: 3, Interesting

    My girlfriend gets 37.5hrs/week flexitime, 5 weeks holiday, 'free' healthcare (actually National Insurance for ~£50/month, IIRC), a guaranteed state pension and got free education to Bachelors level (although that's changed now) in a junior admin position in the UK. I'm self-employed in the UK, but work entirely for a German company, so I see how well they treat their workers too.

    I think the continental European countries do take the Socialist thing a bit far, but good working conditions aren't as bad for the economy as some Americans seem to think.

  59. Re:Why should you.. or anyone care?: Slave Mentali by infolib · · Score: 4, Informative
    It could be Denmark:
    37-hour week, though many people put quite a bit more than that in their jobs.
    5 weeks of paid holiday. (And a few "extras")
    Free schooling through masters level (M.Sc.). You have to get good grades to get into popular studies like humanities, medicine etc. though. Students receive a government grant (not to be repaid) of about $600/mo.
    Guaranteed old age pension. I'd recommend topping it off with your own savings though.

    OTOH, there's a 180% (one hundred and eighty!) tax on cars, VAT is 25% and if you hit upper middle class income you'll pay about two thirds of your last earned krone in income tax..
    Not to mention that even with a well-paying job, the guy flipping burgers isn't that far behind you on the scale. This is of course reflected in the price of your fries.

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    Any sufficiently advanced libertarian utopia is indistinguishable from government.
  60. Thats Germany! by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 2, Informative

    - 35 hrs to 40 hrs workweek
    - 30 paid days on vacation i.e. 6 Weeks
    - "free" healthcare 50/50 you, your employer. Thats about 7% of gross income.
    - free schooling, free university
    - old-age pension, about 10% of gross income (50/50 you, your employer)
    - 12-month unemployment insurance (you pay about 5% of your gr. income)

  61. Re:Eh by Shajenko42 · · Score: 2, Insightful

    True, but if one doesn't have sufficient money, one's time on this planet will be greatly reduced.

  62. Re:More like it by mikesmind · · Score: 2
    35 years of experience in C, C++ (as well as D E and F!), Java, DotNet, senior DBA skills, exact desired skillset including a half dozen weird apps no one's ever heard of before, and at least a BSc. You'll get to work 80h/week or more (not OT pay), with people that hardly know their left from their right, the old workplace politics, and management will change their requirements every 3 days, and still expect you to finish in time. Having all of these 53 certs is a bonus.

    I saw an ad "like this" from my employer. It listed all kinds of specialized skills that only fit one job in our IT department. I found out that the ad was run to satisfy some government regulation for employing foreign workers. Next issue, it ran blind. I imagine that most of these types of ads are for this kind of purpose.

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  63. Re:Nope- no companies hiring that can afford to ca by Marxist+Hacker+42 · · Score: 2, Interesting

    I know what you mean, I've had to learn alot about tolerance, which is good for ya. And dealing with energy vampires- those that are never content until they make you as miserable as they are. They take more than garlic- you need a completely stable center. As difficult as it is, do you think you're a better person for it?

    I've never quite understood the idea of "better" and "worse" people to begin with- must be something in my Asperger's. As far as I'm concerned, people are people and I treat them as such within the limits of my ability. My if-then-else model is a bit more complete now, and I mask my inadequacy better, though. I've got a ton of e-mails from my current contract showing a 98% success rate with customer service. So in that way, I guess I'm a better person.

    True, except the fuckers will probably take the money and run and screw everybody.

    Well, there is that- the key that I'm working on is building a separate-from-my-standard-contract business on teaching the Internet to the Baby Boomers- who don't currently have a clue but will soon have plenty of time in retirement to get one.

    Definitely. It's already happening. Eastern Europe has been in the mix for a while with desperate wage slaves to exploit, Cambodia, etc. The march to pay less will continue until there's no one else for WalMart to squeeze. Just like the British Empire most recently. Already, surprisingly, many poor nations are touting higher costs and better work conditions as a market differentiation. It's gaining steam, and I like to think it's goodwill and an understanding of how the universe works as much as PR appeal, but who knows.

    The problem is if you're in a family that was never quite rich to begin with- but assumed that hard work + good education = good life. My son is going to learn the lessons early on that what makes a good life has to come from inside- not out. And that unlike the experience of say, the GI Generation and before- hard work and education mean next to nothing if you don't like yourself first.

    ps. A large percentage of things labeled "Made in Italy" are not, because of their very lax labeling laws. Romania especially is making a huge chunk of these products.

    As if anybody would notice if they just stamped it "Made in Romania" and sold it for 1/10th the price anybody else could.

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    SJW: a person who perceives an injustice, and while correcting it, commits a greater injustice.
  64. Not sure we're much alike at all, then.... by King_TJ · · Score: 3, Interesting

    For starters, I've never had a $60K a year job. I've certainly done work where you'd assume or expect that's what I was paid, but actually - more like around $48K was about the most I've seen (and not for quite some time, at that!).

    Also, by the mere fact that I do have a kid, almost *everything* changes. For starters, there are a number of jobs I've had to skip over applying for because working in rotating shifts was one of their requirements. (How can you find someone who will take care of a 3 year old for you when you're alternating working mornings, days, and late nights every month or two?) In fact, even "overtime" is extremely troublesome for me, since I have to pick my kid up from daycare no later than 6PM each day. I don't have the option of just "agreeing to work late" with no advance notice, if something comes up. And many of today's employers simply expect that. That's why they're looking to hire people fresh out of college, who don't have a family yet to "get in the way".

    I always followed the majority of your listed "points for 16 year olds to learn from" - but a few of them just aren't realistic. For example, I always knew renting was a bad deal - but when I first moved out of my parents' house, I ended up renting an apartment with a roommate. At that point in time, I didn't have any credit history built up yet, nor did I have money for a downpayment on a house. But it was still time to move out (or just become a leech off of my parents - which I don't believe in doing either). When I got the opportunity, I did buy a small house (for well below market value, no less), and pay less on my mortgage each month than some people pay on their car loans. Waiting until a home is fully paid off to get married is ridiculous adivce, IMHO. Marriage should happen whenever 2 people in love with each other feel it's the right step to take. It really shouldn't be governed by how much property someone has paid off. Assuming a healty, normal relationship - both partners should simply be committed to the job of trying to get through life together. If part of that means both people doing their part to keep payments current on a house, so what?

    Your point #7, by the way, is very questionable advice in my opinion. That's exactly what I did, and I feel quite certain it's one of the biggest mistakes I made! When you work for small businesses, you don't end up with any recognizable/respectable names of employers to put on your resume, nor do you gain experience working in many scenarios that are only available to people in a very large workplace. Hiring managers see big company names on a resume, and feel more "secure" in a decision to hire you. There's an assumption that a large business has the resources to do more complete background checks and so forth; If you were good enough to get and keep a job with one of them for a length of time, you're probably good enough for the next position too. When you work for small places, it looks more suspicious - like perhaps the business owners were just personal friends who hired you as more of a favor?