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How to Fight Name Scraping Scammers?

CurtMonash writes "I was ego-surfing the other day, and was surprised to discover that I was listed as a member of an on-line dating service. It turns out these scamsters generate web pages for lots of (FirstName, LastName) combos, each claiming that the named individual is a member of their service. I posted about this, and discovered other people were upset, at least one had lost interest in a guy because he appeared to be a member, and so on. I've since followed up with lessons learned, a big one being that everybody should have a visible web presence. But frankly, the ideas I've come up with for fighting this kind of reputation scam seem fairly weak. Do Slashdotters have any better ideas?"

390 comments

  1. You caught a wave! by Zero__Kelvin · · Score: 1, Offtopic

    "I was ego-surfing the other day ..."

    You seem to have caught a wave, unless of course your name happens to be Mortimer Onlyoneontheplanet!

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    1. Re:You caught a wave! by jc42 · · Score: 5, Funny

      "I was ego-surfing the other day ..."

      My wife's mother, who died back in 2002, looked up her own name soon after she discovered search sites. She found, to her delight, that her rather rare name was the stage name of a porn star, and there was a .com site based on that name. For the rest of her life, she was constantly telling people to check out her web site.

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    2. Re:You caught a wave! by grub · · Score: 4, Funny


      She found, to her delight, that her rather rare name was the stage name of a porn star

      Your mother-in-law was Emily Tubgirl?!

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    3. Re:You caught a wave! by JCSoRocks · · Score: 0, Redundant

      You had the best mom-in-law ever! You should have told your workmates about her too... "My mom-in-law's so awesome she's even got her own website - go look it up."

      As for the porn star naming thing... My wife's name is quite unique (being a made up combination of two other names) but there was already a porn star using that name about 6 years ago. I think it's tough to find a name that hasn't been used at some point for that purpose.

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    4. Re:You caught a wave! by elrous0 · · Score: 1, Redundant

      My beloved dead uncle was named Mortimer Onlyoneontheplanet, you insensitive clod!

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    5. Re:You caught a wave! by Surt · · Score: 4, Funny

      Mine too!

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    6. Re:You caught a wave! by Jason+Levine · · Score: 4, Funny

      I'm sure this is the question everyone wants to ask: What was your mother-in-law's name?

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    7. Re:You caught a wave! by j01123 · · Score: 1

      I'm sure this is the question everyone wants to ask: What was your mother-in-law's name?

      Goatse Twogirlsonecup

    8. Re:You caught a wave! by Zero__Kelvin · · Score: 1, Flamebait

      How the hell is this off topic? The guy erroneosly concluded that "his" name was being used, as if there couldn't possibly be anyone else with "his" name. His answer, in case it was too hard to figure out (clearly it was for someone) is: don't be surprised to discover that someone else also has your name"

      If only my .sig wasn't so appropriate (it seems they change dynamically now rather than being a permanent part of the post like the old days, so I'm including it in the actual post for archival purposes. Please, let us not see some moron come along and mark this post redundant the way the other moron marked my parent post "off topic".)
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    9. Re:You caught a wave! by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Your mother in law's last name was goatse? Eggh.

    10. Re:You caught a wave! by jc42 · · Score: 1

      What was your mother-in-law's name?

      Of course, this has no bearing on the humor of the situation, since it would work about equally well for any porn actress that can be found online. But her (second married) name was Victoria Vogel. That gets over 2 million hits on google. There are a number of other women with the same name. But it's obvious which one gets the most, uh, coverage online.

      BTW, I found that victoriavogel.com is currently "parked" at godaddy. I wonder who owned it and neglected to renew? Not that that matters, either.

      The one thing fun I found from an online bio is that the porn Vicky Vogel is sometimes listed as Native American, being of mixed German/Cherokee descent. My wife's family is from roughly the same part of the country (mixed Texas/Oklahoma/Kansas/Missouri), and they believe there were some Cherokees in the family tree. Actually, this was back in the late 1800s, when there were many people in that area who had good reason to keep their background somewhat mysterious, and most of the family records back then are remarkably vague. All they really know is that there's some "Indian" ancestry, and there are a few docs that imply Cherokee connections. Not too specific, and hardly anything unusual in those parts.

      The "Vogel" surname simply means "bird", and isn't a rare name in Germany. But still, there's an off chance that my wife and the porn Victoria Vogel are 4th cousins or something, possibly on both sides. Her mother wasn't interested in finding out; she just enjoyed telling people to look up her name online. My wife also likes to drop the names of a few notorious relatives. The most fun for her is telling people that Eminem is a 2nd cousin. But she has never met him, and probably never will. She doesn't go to many family gatherings. He doesn't, either. There aren't many to go to, and we're over 1000 miles away from the "homeland".

      I wonder what percent of American women share a name with a porn actress?

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    11. Re:You caught a wave! by splatter · · Score: 1

      To Funny. My Wife's madain name is also that of an African American porn star, which confused me a bit at first when looking her up on the web when we were still dating.

      She even has a wiki page.

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  2. Great! by ArcherB · · Score: 3, Funny

    "I was ego-surfing the other day, and was surprised to discover that I was listed as a member of the an on-line dating service.

    So, did you get any hits?

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  3. Web presence? by DogDude · · Score: 5, Interesting

    It would be nice if the author explained why he thinks that everybody should have a web presence. I don't buy it. I don't have a web presence at all (none of that Myspace/Facebook crap-ola), and I've been pretty successful in staying off the radar that way.

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    1. Re:Web presence? by kalirion · · Score: 4, Insightful

      What he's saying is that now some sleazy site might generate your name and if it's uncommon enough you will have web presence that you probably won't like.

    2. Re:Web presence? by phobos13013 · · Score: 1

      Well, Dog, I agree with your premise... but unfortunately you _do_ have a web premise. At the very least, you have a presence on /. at the very least. Yes, I do not have facebook/myspace other, but I am on other sites all over the web. If you search for DogDude and slashdot for instance, you may be surprised what pops up.

      That said, you are right, just having a web presence doesn't protect you from this sort of thing, actually, it may hardly insulate you. If a page generator puts your name in some combination amongst fifty goats.cx terms, well all its going to do is pop it up next to your registration with catholic.org

      Ensuring a web presence only makes you more searchable on the web. It would be like expecting becoming famous in the movie industry would somehow protect you from scandal if a tabloid printed a story you were cheating on your wife. Gee, no one in the public would ever believe THAT!

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    3. Re:Web presence? by ShaunC · · Score: 4, Insightful

      It would be nice if the author explained why he thinks that everybody should have a web presence.

      I suspect the idea is that if you maintain your own website, people who are Googling you at random will come across that first, and may not pay attention to the shady results at all. Your name is essentially your very own brand; might as well try to paint it in a decent light.

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    4. Re:Web presence? by zappepcs · · Score: 1

      Well, that might work. My real name is not considered ordinary or common by any means, yet every social site on the Internet already has someone with my name on it. So, how exactly, am I to protect myself with a web presence? God forbid that John Smith want to do the same. How does the author know it was about him and not some other schmuck with his name?

      Just because your parents gave you a couple of monikers, it does not mean you have exclusive rights to them... generally speaking. The artist was was formerly known as The artist formerly known as prince probably has that trademarked, but the rest of us have a common problem. We are not unique in the world.

      A website called www.johnsmith1478.com is not likely to protect you from anything, and will probably just get you more junk mail. Johnsmith.com seems to be taken, so now what? Oh, my realname.com site is also taken. What's a JohnSmith to do?

    5. Re:Web presence? by B'Trey · · Score: 3, Insightful

      I'm assuming that the point is to make sure that people who search for your name (from a perspective boss to a perspective boy/girlfriend) can find the truth. You can also add a note pointing out that a scummy site has falsely used your name.

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    6. Re:Web presence? by sconeu · · Score: 4, Insightful

      I had the same question. I've been actively trying to *REDUCE* my web presence, at least with my real name and email.

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    7. Re:Web presence? by f2x · · Score: 2, Interesting

      It would be nice if the author explained why he thinks that everybody should have a web presence. I don't buy it...

      I was wondering the exact same thing. I used to have a vanity myname.com, but I let it go when I realized it was essentially useless. Also, it's not like too many people out there have a completely unique first and last name combo. Just as there's more than one "Jon Smith" out there, even I have to share my name with some other lesser-knowns.

      And while I still have a web presence, I do try to keep it somewhat insulated from my legal name. From this post you can find the real me, but the reverse is still more tricky. Generally, what I do outside of the internet stays off the internet.

      Besides, it's not like anyone's interested in the daily antics of a bald, 5', 300lb, unemployed, 30yo, "Mama's boy" in the basement anyway... ;)

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    8. Re:Web presence? by Kamineko · · Score: 1

      Find this comment and more at DogDude's web site!

    9. Re:Web presence? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      come on man, at least let me rape your chicken

    10. Re:Web presence? by Anne_Nonymous · · Score: 1

      If you get a nice web site in your name, then no one else online can confuse you with the *other* Michael Bolton, that no talent ass clown.

    11. Re:Web presence? by SL+Baur · · Score: 1

      Your name is essentially your very own brand; might as well try to paint it in a decent light.

      Yes, but ...

      I have a relatively rare spelling of my last name. More typical is "Bauer". Before there was a Google, there were two other people with my name appearing in search results - an actor who appeared in a small role in Scarface and a Hockey playing goalie in Canada.

      So which of us gets steven.baur.name or steven.baur (with the new TLDs) as a domain to protect "our good name"?

    12. Re:Web presence? by iminplaya · · Score: 1

      I don't have a web presence at all (none of that Myspace/Facebook crap-ola)...

      Good idea. Those things are like on-line bathhouses, just full of little nasties.

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    13. Re:Web presence? by gnick · · Score: 3, Interesting

      How does the author know it was about him and not some other schmuck with his name?

      I just searched Google for "gnick" - A moniker that, I thought, would be rather obscure. Of the first 100 hits, 1 related to me - A long expired digg post. What was strange, though, was that I had to click through a few others because they sure sounded like me, but turned out to be somebody else.

      I've also "ego-surfed" (a new term to me) using my given name. I found a lot related to me, some immigration stuff about my great-grandfather (with whom I share a first and last name) who brought my grandfather with him when he moved to the US, some of my publications, some publications that I had to peruse to be sure that I hadn't been cited without permission (somebody else with my fairly unusual name apparently works in a very similar, obscure field in California), and one publication where I had in fact been cited without my permission.

      Long story short - Even with first hand knowledge I don't know whether my web presence relates to me or not without some in-depth investigation.

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    14. Re:Web presence? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Here are a few places to find my name and these are NOT me!

      http://www.zoominfo.com/people/Mussell_Robert_1056461165.aspx
      http://fullthrottlejunkies.org/
      http://lfb-enduro.com/news.php (ctrl-f and type in Rob Mussell)
      http://musicisart.org/contact.asp

      I am Robert Mussell and I have a right to my name being in certain places that I want it to be, but this is way TOO COINCIDENTAL for my name to be plastered all over the place!

      I wish these people would state certain criteria or added information in these articles and such, for clarification purposes!

      This truly upsets me, that someone claiming to be me is doing all of these things in my name.

    15. Re:Web presence? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I was curious and googled dogdude slashdot, and I found your post. That was a suprise, google is fast.

    16. Re:Web presence? by somersault · · Score: 1

      I tried googling for myself and found books by authors with my name have written about games programming, C++, pascal, and one about police chases. That's quite funny because I've written games, code in C++ and Pascal, and got stopped by the police for speeding in March..! I wonder if names somehow correlate to personality, or fields of interest :p

      More likely it's all just coincidence. Of course lots of people have the same name - though I was surprised so many people have theirs spelled exactly the same as mine, because there are several ways to spell my first name, which is gaelic, and two ways to spell my last name. It was even cooler that someone has written programming books though, I'm considering buying them just so that I can try to make out to people at work that I'm a published author, for a laugh :)

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    17. Re:Web presence? by DerekLyons · · Score: 1

      So long as you don't share a name with someone famous, or who is at least widely known in a small circle. Google my name and the majority of the hits are for an English actor whose roles are almost all listed in the IMDB as "uncredited"... But he had two tiny roles in Star Wars (Episode III for the young folks), and this means he gets a lot of web coverage.

    18. Re:Web presence? by chimpo13 · · Score: 3, Funny

      Being named Dave Smith has its benefits. About 15 years ago, I got pulled over, and the cop was laughing about how I had a drivers license in another state, an arrest warrant in another state that I hadn't been too, and half a dozen addresses in California. He still gave me the ticket. I wonder how many Dave Smiths I show up as now. Maybe I'll go outside and do donuts until a cop comes along.

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    19. Re:Web presence? by phoenix321 · · Score: 1

      Looks like that doesn't cut it anymore if you've got a common name. Or any name that can be generated by combining a baby name book and a phone book.

      I've got a common surname and I signed up for two accounts on a popular webmailer, one with a real name and the other with a nickname. The real name mailadress got spammed within two hours without me telling anyone or anything about any of these two.

      Getting spam is no matter of protecting your identity anymore and it seems as we're now only a short time before cyber-blackmailing of anyone with a common-enough name.

    20. Re:Web presence? by Colin+Smith · · Score: 1

      Johnsmith.com seems to be taken, so now what? Oh, my realname.com site is also taken. What's a JohnSmith to do?

      Create a unique key and use that as part of your web presence.

      e.g.
      js101532

      HTH

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    21. Re:Web presence? by sconeu · · Score: 1

      Yeah, my wife got that fourth of july spam, the one that was a death threat... It was personalized to her name, and she doesn't post anywhere, just surfs and reads.

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    22. Re:Web presence? by RobBebop · · Score: 1

      Your name is essentially your very own brand; might as well try to paint it in a decent light.

      Sounds like Whuffie might not be as far fetched as it seemed when I read Doctorow's novel a year ago.

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    23. Re:Web presence? by tgrigsby · · Score: 1

      I've also "ego-surfed" (a new term to me) using my given name.

      I've also heard it called a "vanity search".

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    24. Re:Web presence? by Obfuscant · · Score: 1
      ... an arrest warrant in another state that I hadn't been too, ...

      One time I came back from a business trip, I was grilled a bit about how long I'd lived in Colorado (answer: never). For a year or so after that every time I'd come back into the US, to save time, I'd hand my passport to Immigration and say "I'm not the one from Colorado". Apparently they caught that one, because now I just get funny looks when I say it and I have to explain "well, one time..."

    25. Re:Web presence? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Well, I am interested. You seem to be fairly intelligent and yet are unemployed and living with your mother. That in itself is curious.

    26. Re:Web presence? by Mister+Whirly · · Score: 1

      Here's a suggestion - don't ever register your real name as an email address. I am shocked at how many people have (FirstName)(Lastname)@gmail.com as their email address. If you also have a land line in your home, it is a matter of about 5 seconds to get your phone number and address from Google or WhitePages.com if you have a real name as an email to go on.

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    27. Re:Web presence? by hedwards · · Score: 1

      Last time I looked up the combinations of my names and initials, I only found 1 in the top 10 or so pages on any of the search engines under any combination of my names.

      Having a web presence is a liability. Personally, I do all of mine pseudonymously, so that the odds of anybody I know finding it without me showing it or a court order is pretty much zilch.

      I think I've only got my picture online in like 2 places.

      Realistically though, it's perfectly legal in most places to fire or not hire somebody for something stupid they did online or posted online and it's not realistic to assume that it's going to be taken down because you want it to be.

    28. Re:Web presence? by hedwards · · Score: 1

      In this day and age, it's more than just vanity. It's important to know if there's something that an employer or client might come across.

      And yes, the lower the number of hits the better. Only a vain egotist would want a high number. Lower number means the less likely it is for you to be caught doing something dumb online.

    29. Re:Web presence? by Jesus_666 · · Score: 1

      I have an unusual name and thus most of my results turned out to be relevant - embarassingly, my top results are bug reports to several high-profile projects (like the Linux kernel) that I ultimately retracted when I found out I had a sneaky hardware fault.

      Confusingly, an amateur soccer player goes by the same name. I hate soccer. It would be weird if I showed up to an interview and the interviewer started asking me about recent games of some obscure club my namesake has played for...


      However, my direct Google results do mainly paint me as an Open Source enthusiast. I can live with that.

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    30. Re:Web presence? by treeves · · Score: 1

      Always remember: there are different kinds of intelligence.

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    31. Re:Web presence? by electricbern · · Score: 1

      I have an unusual name and thus most of my results turned out to be relevant

      Jesus, I don't think you have an unusual name. I also don't think that most of the search results would turn out to be relevant to you, unless...

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    32. Re:Web presence? by fumblebruschi · · Score: 1

      I happen to have the same first and last name as a mildly-well-known professional athlete; I just did an ego-surf and found nearly all the results were for him, with several dozen other people of the same name having one or two hits each. Results for me: 0. I consider that ideal. My online presence, using my real name, is nil. Anyone searching for me will get piles of game charts and athletic statistics, but nothing about me.

    33. Re:Web presence? by Indefinite,+Ephemera · · Score: 2, Interesting

      Why wait for the bots? My name is middlingly usual--enough, apparently, for me to share it with two people in prison for violent crime. And a news item about one of them still comes higher than anything connected to me in Google searches.

    34. Re:Web presence? by electricbern · · Score: 1

      Jack, is that you?

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    35. Re:Web presence? by techno-vampire · · Score: 1

      I've learned that my not-that-common name is shared by a very good graphics designer in Chicago and there used to be a minor editor of the NY Times with my name. I once made the mistake of doing some googlemancy on my name without the quotation marks and found something even funnier: there was, at the time, a prominent actor in X-rated films with my last name. (From what I could gather, his parts were strictly gay.) Any time there was somebody in the film with my first name, it hit.

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    36. Re:Web presence? by Naturalis+Philosopho · · Score: 1

      Serious question here- How can someone cite you without permission? If they're citing you, then they are giving you credit for you work done in published material. Last time I checked, that was not only legal and ethical, but desirable. Am I missing something, or did you mean some other word than "cited"? Even if they quoted you without attribution, how'd you get that from a search for your name if it wasn't attributed?

    37. Re:Web presence? by NuclearDog · · Score: 1

      I could be crazy, but I think there's some truth to names and personality traits being tied together somehow (it might just be that people give certain traits to people with certain names, and in treating them that way the person picks up the traits or something). Going through life, I tend to notice some real similarities between people with similar names, and drastic personality shifts usually occur around the same time as people starting to use a different form of their name.

      In fact, one of my relatives had a book they showed me full of names and some fairly specific personality traits and such, and everyone I looked up that I knew fit the description nearly to a T.

      So if I'm crazy, I'm not the only one :)

      ND

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    38. Re:Web presence? by CurtMonash · · Score: 1

      I suspect the idea is that if you maintain your own website, people who are Googling you at random will come across that first, and may not pay attention to the shady results at all. Your name is essentially your very own brand; might as well try to paint it in a decent light.

      You got it in one.

      Curt Monash

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    39. Re:Web presence? by gnick · · Score: 1

      How can someone cite you without permission?

      They listed me as a co-author on a paper that I hadn't read (much less written).

      They used some of my research and attempted to apply techniques that I developed to a similar situation and, because of that and the fact that we'd collaborated on the project that I developed those techniques for, they felt it was appropriate. If I had known what they were doing, I'd have happily helped (especially since they apparently only partially understood what I was doing and I believe that even a small amount of input from me would have helped them tremendously). Maybe "cite" isn't the best term, but it seemed OK at the time.

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    40. Re:Web presence? by isorox · · Score: 1

      Well, I am interested. You seem to be fairly intelligent and yet are unemployed and living with your mother. That in itself is curious.

      More worryingly he's shockingly overweight, and certainly wont be a drain on social security when he's old

    41. Re:Web presence? by Jesus_666 · · Score: 1

      Look at my middle initial. Not many people have a middle name beginning with "_".

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    42. Re:Web presence? by Naturalis+Philosopho · · Score: 1

      Thanks, I was wondering. That would tick me off too.

    43. Re:Web presence? by Ira+Sponsible · · Score: 1

      I googled my name and found out I'M DEAD! And I thought I just needed a shower.

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    44. Re:Web presence? by algoa456 · · Score: 1

      You think that is crazy. I just searched for the word Fnifter - a guy who smells women's bicycle saddles - and it comes up as a name.

    45. Re:Web presence? by TaoPhoenix · · Score: 1

      AS the DogDude who likes/promotes Phydeaux Pets, you happily have a presence. I agree you have taken some steps to shield yourself from the worst of online scamcrushers.

      This is becoming one of the signs the Web, having graduated from its 1.0 origins, is now thrashing out the conceptual implications. A few stories over, there's talk of felonies for "not having a web presence".

      Either you can be a brilliant anonymous, a brilliant presence, or some average blend of both like everyone else just trying to play nice on the web.

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    46. Re:Web presence? by phoenix321 · · Score: 1

      This is a terrible development, as I get similar personalized email, though not spambot death threats, thank god.

      But I'm predicting we will see personalized emails that demand ransom money to an account in the Cayman's or the spammers will set up search-optimized websites in your name, where they pretend to be you telling the world about your closet pedophilia or something like that.

      Virtual blackmail with a randomly generated but existing given name / surname combination. We will see that soon, mark my words :(

    47. Re:Web presence? by srmalloy · · Score: 1

      Just the first and last name is unlikely to be unique; I know (from having gotten calls for each of them and checking the phone book after the second one) that there were at one time at least three other people in the city where I live who had the same first and last name as I do, and after being asked whether I'd ever used a different SSN when I was going to the blood bank to donate, discovered that there was someone who worked where I did who not only had the same first and last name, but the same birthdate -- not just month and day, but year as well.

    48. Re:Web presence? by GWBasic · · Score: 1

      I suspect the idea is that if you maintain your own website, people who are Googling you at random will come across that first, and may not pay attention to the shady results at all. Your name is essentially your very own brand; might as well try to paint it in a decent light.

      The first hit on Google is my home page... All the rest promote a motivational speaker in the UK. http://www.google.com/search?q=andrew+rondeau&hl=en&sourceid=gd&rls=GGLD,GGLD:2007-50,GGLD:en At least the summaries sound nice.

    49. Re:Web presence? by tgrigsby · · Score: 1

      That's an interesting take on it. It kind of implies, if that's your worry, that you've been doing something dumb online. I try to avoid putting anything at all on the 'net that might embarrass me or those I care about later.

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  4. I've been caught... by courteaudotbiz · · Score: 5, Funny

    I've been caught by my girlfriend... she received a message on an online dating service (WTF!!!) from a guy searching for a Fu** friend. This guy was *ME*. Someone stole my picture off Facebook, and sent it to my girlfriend pretending *HE* was *ME*. Maybe I should just deactivate my Facebook account if I want to keep my girlfriend. Or maybe I should prevent her from having an account on an online dating service!

    1. Re:I've been caught... by Psmylie · · Score: 5, Informative

      Little of column A, little of column B.

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      psmylie's dictionary: Godzillion (noun) Any number large enough to destroy Tokyo

    2. Re:I've been caught... by sm62704 · · Score: 3, Interesting

      This was going to b ethe topic of my journal today, but now it won't be. There's a writer for the St Louis Post Dispatch that encourages looking up prospective dates on various sites. This is what was actually finished (it was going to be a long journal)

      I was noodling around the various newspapers, and since I'm originally from the St. Louis arew I checked out the Post Dispatch. In it I ran across an item called The Data Diva says: Check your date out before you go out.

      This nerdy looking (but not bad looking) lady, Jaimi Dowdell, seems to think that you should google your dates. I think her tinfoil hat is on too tight.

      Speaking of tinfoil hats, soon you might need one for real, at least if you're going to demonstrate in front of the capitol.

      But I digress. Ms. "Diva" may google, but she obviously doesn't wiki, as a diva is a singer. Anyway, she writes

      That's right, friends. I background my dates
      I may not have figured out how to find Mr. Right, but I can assure you that information about Mr. Wrong is everywhere. You just have to know where to look.

      And I'm not just talking to the ladies. Guys, we've got closets, too. With a little work, you can get past her shoes and wardrobe to see if any skeletons are rattling around.

      Right about now, some of you are probably thinking I'm just a little creepy.

      Not just creepy, but seriously delusional.

      Each time you buy a house, register to vote, list your phone number, etc. you leave a trail containing bits and pieces of your life. The Web site ZabaSearch crawls the online world picking up this trail from sites containing public records and other personal information.

      So I looked up this zabasearch to see if I could find myself. I plugged in "steve mcgrew", my meatspace name.

      No, I'm not the comedian from Colorado. There were hits; lots and lots of hits. So I narrowed it down to Illinois.

      Lots of hits. Lots and lots of hits. Stephanie McGrew. Serena McGrew. Sharon McGrew. So I narrowed it down further and did an in-browser search for "Springfield". Finally it found me - from eight fucking years ago! It listed my age correctly, but had my address on reservoir. I moved out of that rented house in 2000 when I bought the house on 7th street. The house on 7th street I diaried about extensively on K5 after my marriage came apart.

      There is some SERIOUSLY bad data on this site! I clicked "images" and there were a lot of images. Images of people I never met, not one of them me. This despite the fact that I've uplodaed several pics of myself to various places, including my old now-defunct domain mcgrew.info.

      The comedian from Colorado was prominent in the photos. There's one of him with Dolly parton.

      It says it has a home address and phone number, which it will gladly cough up for a price.

      Nope. The only phone I have is a Net 10 prepaid phone. You're not going to find its number on the internet. The search site is a scam; I should sue them for slander, since it thinks I'm the comedian from Colorado, who had the web site "Steve McGrew's White Trash World".

      It says it knows my income and home value. Not likely! Not if it thinks I still live on Reservoir Street.

      Personally, I'd have to be a LOT harder up to go out with the sort of freak who would investigate someone before dating them, and someone dumb enough to think that you could actually learn anything about a person from the internet.

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      mcgrew's razor: Never attribute to stupidity that which can be explained by greedy self-interest
    3. Re:I've been caught... by sm62704 · · Score: 5, Insightful

      If your girlfriend has an account at a dating service, you don't have a girlfriend, you have a fuckbuddy. Nothing wrong with that, just be sure to use a condom.

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      mcgrew's razor: Never attribute to stupidity that which can be explained by greedy self-interest
    4. Re:I've been caught... by rehtonAesoohC · · Score: 1

      Yes, the real question is this:
      Why does she have an account on a dating service site in the first place? If she's had it open since before you two were dating, ok, I can understand that, but you'd think she'd close the account or change the status or something. Otherwise I'd be worried about her intentions of sticking around...

      Of course, maybe you're just sticking her while she's sticking around. *shrug*

    5. Re:I've been caught... by dontPanik · · Score: 2, Funny

      Just make sure you stick to your original story. "Someone stole your picture."

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      "Computers are useless. They can only give you answers." - Pablo Picasso
    6. Re:I've been caught... by rickb928 · · Score: 2, Interesting

      *I* have an online dating account, actually more than one. They are all dormant.

      I keep one because it's a charter account, from when they were free - lifetime free for me, and even though I don't use it, it's stupid pride. I'll get rid of it sometime soon probably. Some of the others are actually links to this profile, as they share with a lot of other sites (no, they *run* the other sites under other commercial names).

      I don't have a Facebook or MySpace account. These are just too insecure, as much anecdotal evidence proves. I have a Linkdn account, which I use so much that I'm pretty sure I can't even spell Linkdn right, and don't care.

      My job site accounts worry me as much.

      And having a web presence is pointless for me. My name, permutations of my name, even the middle initial, are all registered. Many of those others are actors, artists, athletes, and politicians, and I didn't register my name back when it would have been trivial. today, I'd be suprised if you could register a fairly common English name at all, squatters and all.

      The real problem is of course not being able to connect an attempted registration at some site with a person's 'real' identity. Which is why normal people should not trust any online info, even a photo.

      Dating services can be considered unreliable. Meet your date in a public place, and walk there. leave by another route. Have a friend call you 5 minutes after the appointed time. Share nothing significant online.

      And if you do see your SO listed on a dating service, give them fair warning. Let them have a week to convince the service that the listing is illegitimate.

      Then go after them with the frying pan.

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      deleting the extra space after periods so i can stay relevant, yeah.
    7. Re:I've been caught... by somersault · · Score: 1

      I've heard of at least one site where you can go and say "don't date this person". I can imagine a lot of malicious people just writing complete lies about their ex if they had a bad breakup.. and there's nothing you can do about it. Just as bad would be if it's true, but it's about someone with a different name! It's almost as bad as someone going on a sex offenders list for peeing in an alley while drunk or whatever, but then they get harrassed by the public because everyone thinks they're a pedophile :/

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      which is totally what she said
    8. Re:I've been caught... by geminidomino · · Score: 1

      Yeah, I don't think it was you that was caught. WTF is your girlfriend on online dating sites?

    9. Re:I've been caught... by sm62704 · · Score: 1

      Does it seem that these "don't date this guy" sites might be open to serious litigation? If someone wrote lies about me in a site like that I might at least consider talking to a lawyer.

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      mcgrew's razor: Never attribute to stupidity that which can be explained by greedy self-interest
    10. Re:I've been caught... by sm62704 · · Score: 1

      And if you do see your SO listed on a dating service, give them fair warning.

      Agreed, they should have the chance of explaining themself, as should you to them.

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      mcgrew's razor: Never attribute to stupidity that which can be explained by greedy self-interest
    11. Re:I've been caught... by hedwards · · Score: 1

      Personally, I'd have to be a LOT harder up to go out with the sort of freak who would investigate someone before dating them, and someone dumb enough to think that you could actually learn anything about a person from the internet.

      Honestly, if a person is going to do a background check, save some time and just do the police background check. Those at least get the things that are likely to be important. And are far more likely to be accurate.

      But seriously, anybody that feels compelled to do this sort of thing does not deserve to have a boyfriend/girlfriend anyways. At least not a decent one.

      Unless you're somebody that has no friends of the opposite sex, you're far better off just having your friends warning you about any obvious problems. Considering how accurate the web is, you're not going to get decent results.

      My online personality is a real dick, mainly because it's my web persona, the place where I can express it without hurting real people.

    12. Re:I've been caught... by rickb928 · · Score: 1

      Everyone deserves a fair trial, and a hanging.

      Or something like that...

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      deleting the extra space after periods so i can stay relevant, yeah.
    13. Re:I've been caught... by courteaudotbiz · · Score: 1

      *Hum hum*

      As of july 7th, 3:46PM, I no more have a girlfriend...

    14. Re:I've been caught... by glitch23 · · Score: 1

      If your girlfriend has an account at a dating service, you don't have a girlfriend, you have a fuckbuddy. Nothing wrong with that, just be sure to use a condom.

      Even that may soon end if she is on a dating site. He better get in his licks now (and savor them) while he still can.

      --
      this nation, under God, shall have a new birth of freedom. -- Lincoln, Gettysburg Address
    15. Re:I've been caught... by somersault · · Score: 1

      You'd maybe have a hard time proving that someone actually wrote the comments, depending on if the site recorded IP addresses or even had user accounts..

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      which is totally what she said
    16. Re:I've been caught... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      There's also open relationships, not to mention folks who're poly. Not every relationship is automatically exclusive and closed, and not everything that is NOT exclusive and closed is automatically a fuckbuddyship rather than a relationship.

    17. Re:I've been caught... by sm62704 · · Score: 1

      True, but that hasn't stopped the RIAA! Maybe you'd have to hire MediaSentry? ;)

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      mcgrew's razor: Never attribute to stupidity that which can be explained by greedy self-interest
    18. Re:I've been caught... by el_benito · · Score: 1

      No, I think she knows how to read the wiki article. Try reading the whole thing instead of just the first paragraph.
      http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Diva

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      http://liquidben.com - Aspiring to an 'under construction' gif
  5. Libel by John+Hasler · · Score: 4, Interesting

    > Do Slashdotters have any better ideas?

    File libel lawsuits.

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    Warning: this article may contain humor, sarcasm, parody, and perhaps even irony. Read at your own risk.
    1. Re:Libel by dirkbaztard · · Score: 2, Insightful

      File libel lawsuits.

      Against who, exactly? The dating site, which is likely a scam front for stealing personal data from people who reply to the ad. The sites' host? Good luck there. Most decent hosts may take the site down, but there are few well-known hosting companies that would tell you, "Hey, they paid the bill, so they do whatever they want." The possible scammer behind the email? If he is using your identity to send out the emails to begin with, do you really think he used his real info to setup any of the the accounts. Then again, your response may have been based on your sig.

    2. Re:Libel by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 5, Funny

      I think the better route would be to use a completely unique handle to represent yourself online. For instance, I spent 12 years in the military as both a commanding officer and a chef. Did I mention I was stationed in Mexico? So, when I left the service, I decided to use the handle "CmdrTaco" while browsing my favorite dating and BSDM sites...

      WHAT THE HELL!

      Someone is posing as me

      "October 20, 2007 - Slashdot 10th Anniversary, with CmdrTaco (1)"

      Damn him. He has hip glasses and a sexy goatee! How the hell can I compare to that!

      I need to track this CmdrTaco bastard down so I can have a better chance on the dating scene.

      (captcha=disclaim)

    3. Re:Libel by Iamthecheese · · Score: 4, Insightful

      You are being nibbled on by a thousand ants. Shooting them off one at a time is probably not your best option.

      --
      If video games influenced behavior the Pac Man generation would be eating pills and running away from their problems.
    4. Re:Libel by Chyeld · · Score: 1

      I agree, use gasoline. It's far more efficient and as a side bonus you get a deeper tan.

    5. Re:Libel by kesuki · · Score: 1

      "For instance, I spent 12 years in the military as both a commanding officer and a chef. Did I mention I was stationed in Mexico? So, when I left the service, I decided to use the handle "CmdrTaco" while browsing my favorite dating and BSDM sites..."

      there was your first mistake, using a romance language to spell out your online handle. the problem is too many people use romance languages, picking a unique screen name is impossible, i on the other hand, use roma-ji which not even the japanese use often, thus it's much easier to get my handle at sites.

      about the only place where roma-ji gets widely used is in anime subtitles, particularly for opening and closing themes, and dictionaries and language learning courses.

  6. Problem will solve itself. by Vellmont · · Score: 5, Interesting


    the ideas I've come up with for fighting this kind of reputation scam seem fairly weak.

    How about people not believing everything they hear from a source they know nothing about? There's no general solution to the problem of people spreading unfounded rumors other than people being more skeptical of new untested information sources. This will take time as people come to realize that "the internet" isn't a single source of information.

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    AccountKiller
    1. Re:Problem will solve itself. by morgan_greywolf · · Score: 4, Insightful

      This will take time as people come to realize that "the internet" isn't a single source of information.

      Yet, the World Wide Web is accessible as if it were a single source of information. That's what confuses people. All they seem to know is they open up "The Internet" on their PC by clicking the little blue "e".

    2. Re:Problem will solve itself. by RobinH · · Score: 2, Insightful

      What I think is a bigger concern is the number of employers who will now Google your name before hiring you. They could easily be fooled into thinking that these are legitimate search results.

      --
      "I have never let my schooling interfere with my education." - Mark Twain
    3. Re:Problem will solve itself. by partenon · · Score: 1

      To be honest, this kind of clueless recruiters/companies is not the kind of employer I want for me... Real recruiters/companies makes interviews, applies tests and takes actual references instead of just "googling" one's name.

      --
      ilex paraguariensis for all
    4. Re:Problem will solve itself. by somersault · · Score: 1

      They *are* legitimate search results though. If your employer is too dumb to realise that more than one person can have the same name, do you really want to be working for them?

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      which is totally what she said
    5. Re:Problem will solve itself. by somersault · · Score: 0, Troll

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      which is totally what she said
    6. Re:Problem will solve itself. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Also, if a person is going to judge you negatively based on what a google search turns up without validating whether it is really you (e.g., picture, address, etc.), then is that a person whose opinion you should care about?

    7. Re:Problem will solve itself. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      You're saying that the common man has no conception of "website". I'm not sure I agree with that. People aren't quite as dumb as you're making them out to be.

    8. Re:Problem will solve itself. by morgan_greywolf · · Score: 1

      You're saying that the common man has no conception of "website". I'm not sure I agree with that. People aren't quite as dumb as you're making them out to be.

      You haven't met some of my students... ;)

    9. Re:Problem will solve itself. by electricbern · · Score: 1

      I think the site was slashdotted, as I am getting errors trying to download the tool.

      --
      alias possession='chmod 666 satan && ls /dev > il && tail daemon.log'
    10. Re:Problem will solve itself. by Joe+Snipe · · Score: 1

      What I think is a bigger concern is the number of employers who will now Google your name before hiring you. They could easily be fooled into thinking that these are legitimate search results.

      Works both ways...

      --
      Sometimes, life itself is sarcasm...
  7. Names are not unique by Bogtha · · Score: 5, Interesting

    What makes you think this is some type of scam, and not merely somebody with the same name as you?

    No, just because you have an unusual name, it doesn't mean you are the only one with it. I have a very unusual name too. I've never even met anybody with the same surname that wasn't a member of my immediate family. I've googled my own name; I'm the only person with my name that has a web presence. But when a website was launched to check how unique your name is, I discovered that there are at least two other people with my name in my country alone. If I registered on a dating site, those two people would probably feel the same about me.

    Unless there's something actually linking you personally to this site, like a photo or bio, I don't see any basis for calling this a scam. Your name is not unique enough to be your property.

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    Bogtha Bogtha Bogtha
    1. Re:Names are not unique by querist · · Score: 3, Interesting

      I hate to say it, but I am not so sure about that site you listed.

      I just checked my name and it says I don't exist.

      Well, that's OK, except that the site you listed is in the UK.
      My family came from the UK.
      My surname has 6 pages in the Cardiff phone book.
      My given name is a VERY common man's given name in Wales.

      In other words, I find it VERY difficult to believe that there is no one else with my given name / surname combination in the UK.

      The "You do not exist" message is rather amusing, though, and good for a laugh.

    2. Re:Names are not unique by damburger · · Score: 4, Funny

      Well, its probably because the site in questions on deals with human beings, and isn't catered to the average Welshman's *cough* unique *cough* tastes.

      --
      If we can put a man on the moon, why can't we shoot people for Apollo-related non-sequiturs?
    3. Re:Names are not unique by Bogtha · · Score: 2, Informative

      That's interesting. The site has been around for a while, and it's based on electoral roll data from the year 2000. These genealogy people seem to think that it's legit, if a little inaccurate, giving numbers in the same vicinity as other sources. It's certainly given consistent results over the years. This is a similar service for USA data, and it gives similar results (rare names give low numbers, common names give high numbers).

      You didn't put an asterisk in the first name field did you? You don't have to use a wildcard, you just leave the field blank. If you use an asterisk, it assumes it's part of the name, and gives you zero results.

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      Bogtha Bogtha Bogtha
    4. Re:Names are not unique by L4t3r4lu5 · · Score: 5, Insightful

      But when a website was launched to check how unique your name is [yournotme.com]

      Is anybody else horrified by that domain name?

      [/grammarnazi]

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      Finally had enough. Come see us over at https://soylentnews.org/
    5. Re:Names are not unique by SirStiff · · Score: 1

      I won't even entertain the thought of visiting a site that has shitty grammar in the URL.

    6. Re:Names are not unique by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 2, Informative

      hehe, rest assured: the site is also reachable at: http://www.yourenotme.com/, but I guess the gpp chose to use the more common URL for the site!

    7. Re:Names are not unique by caluml · · Score: 1

      Oh, fuck no. They even can't spell their own domain name right. yournotme.com ? yourenotme.com, surely. Unless they're talking about my "notme", whatever a notme is. William Somervail, hang your head in shame.

    8. Re:Names are not unique by querist · · Score: 1

      No wild cards. I simply entered my name. That's what makes it seem so strange.

    9. Re:Names are not unique by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I'm just glad that its you're notme and not mine.

    10. Re:Names are not unique by ScaryMonkey · · Score: 1

      Nice post! But.. who modded this insightful? If that's so I've got a deep and meaningful anecdote about an Englishman, a Scotsman, and a Welshman to relate. ;)

    11. Re:Names are not unique by damburger · · Score: 1

      I was a little surprised at the moderation too. I wasn't expecting a cheapshot about sheepshagging to be 'insightful' - but I guess it might be to Americans who haven't encountered the stereotype before.

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      If we can put a man on the moon, why can't we shoot people for Apollo-related non-sequiturs?
    12. Re:Names are not unique by Chris+Mattern · · Score: 2, Funny

      Well, according to Bill Keane, a "notme" is a little ghost-like
      figure, that little kids find handy for blaming things on.

    13. Re:Names are not unique by marvinglenn · · Score: 1

      Unless there's something actually linking you personally to this site, like a photo or bio, [...]

      Yes, that is exactly the original complaint. And it's something I'm now seeing regularly in one corner of the internet.

      There's a particular dating website I'm a member of that allows members to vote on deleting other accounts (for fraud or violation of their ToS). Through their user moderation system I'm seeing many profiles that appear to be Nigerian scammers that are creating profiles using pictures and names lifted from other places.

      --
      The whores get mad when the sluts give it away for free.
    14. Re:Names are not unique by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1, Insightful

      Not necessarily true. Some people's names are quite unique, and may be trademarked successfully. The trick is that in order to prevent someone else from using your trademark, you will likely have to sue the potential offenders. Additionally, if someone else has trademarked your name, then you may need to challenge their mark in court.

      Either way, lawyers win and someone loses. This is the American way, regrettably.

    15. Re:Names are not unique by turtledawn · · Score: 1

      Maybe they meant it as 'you R not me'. Still very lame.

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      Uh, "if it looks roughly mouse-shaped according to my infra-red sensitive pit, eat it"? --Chris Burke 09-08-10
    16. Re:Names are not unique by Bogtha · · Score: 1

      Unless there's something actually linking you personally to this site, like a photo or bio, [...]

      Yes, that is exactly the original complaint.

      I don't see anything like that in the article. It seems entirely based around the name.

      Through their user moderation system I'm seeing many profiles that appear to be Nigerian scammers that are creating profiles using pictures and names lifted from other places.

      Sure, but the combination of a name and a photo does uniquely identify a person. The name alone does not. The phenomenon you are talking about is qualitatively different. I'm sure that if the site mentioned in the article had used his photograph as well, then he would have mentioned it.

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      Bogtha Bogtha Bogtha
    17. Re:Names are not unique by ceoyoyo · · Score: 1

      on the other side of the spectrum, I have an incredibly common name. Good luck Google stalking me! On the other hand, having your name on the no fly list sucks.

      I wouldn't want a girlfriend or boss who believes anything they read from random sources turned up by a Google search.

    18. Re:Names are not unique by ceoyoyo · · Score: 1

      They can't even spell "you're" properly in the DOMAIN NAME. I wouldn't trust them.

      However, if they're claiming they have my notme, then I want it back!

    19. Re:Names are not unique by noidentity · · Score: 3, Funny

      What, you've never owned a notme before? The site gives information about "your notme".

    20. Re:Names are not unique by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Well, it's not my notme!

    21. Re:Names are not unique by Keeper+Of+Keys · · Score: 1

      Same for me, and although I have quite an unusual name I have met another person with it who lives a few miles from me (and is of the opposite gender, t'boot), plus I keep getting pestered on a certain social networking site to befriend someone with the same name from half way round the world. I'm not an unperson. I have google results, dammit!

    22. Re:Names are not unique by Keeper+Of+Keys · · Score: 1

      ... but then we should expect nothing better from a site with a grammatical mistake in its domain. (The US site has found the dude I mentioned.)

    23. Re:Names are not unique by rworne · · Score: 1

      Maybe they meant it as 'you R not me'. Still very lame.

      Actually, it's pretty clever considering the atrociousness of spelling nowadays.

      --
      I tried every decent and legal way I could think of to resolve the issue w/the business before I rented the chicken suit
    24. Re:Names are not unique by macbuzz01 · · Score: 1

      they're's nothing wrong with it that I can tell.

    25. Re:Names are not unique by hurfy · · Score: 1

      interesting

      Between them they say 8 people in US and 22 in UK with my name. Sounds about right, was only a few that came to US a few hundred years ago and we kept pretty quiet apparently. Uncommon spelling of a old english name.

      Web searches usually get a blurb i wrote, some posts here and there and a bunch about a couple of those UK names.

    26. Re:Names are not unique by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      you r not me

      like

      toys r us

      It's not that unusual.

      And it's a domain name. Are we really looking for grammatically correct domains now?

    27. Re:Names are not unique by Mycroft_514 · · Score: 1

      I know that. I went to the trouble of buying the prize winning song ("Song of Peace") written by my namesake in the UK (I found him there along with a session bassoonist, and an author of model train articles in the US.) And that doesn't even count the guy I met at work years ago. Same name, different middle initial, and not related as far as we knew. Even found out that there is a town of the same name in Arizona (Of course, further research revealed that this town WAS named after elements of my familiy)

      Sorry, I went to the trouble to reduce most of my web presence. Most of my current presence is thru Linkedin, or behind psuedonyms. Especally after an area code split caused creditors from a guy who used to be in my area code to come looking for me! You know how hard it is to get taken out of some of the online directories that think they are doing you a service by putting you there?

    28. Re:Names are not unique by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      yes. yes i am.

      [/vocabularynazi]

    29. Re:Names are not unique by Benanov · · Score: 1

      On the other hand, having your name on the no fly list sucks.

      Use your middle initial.

    30. Re:Names are not unique by aardwolf64 · · Score: 1

      They also own http://www.urnotme.com/ which is only slightly better.

    31. Re:Names are not unique by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Absolutely. Just in Montreal alone I have an entire page worth of "my" name. Would anyone be so stupid as to assume I live all those addresses and phone numbers?? (and no, my name is not John Smith)

    32. Re:Names are not unique by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      But when a website was launched to check how unique your name is [yournotme.com]

      Is anybody else horrified by that domain name?

      [/grammarnazi]

      Sure, it is "your site to find out who is not me"! Sematics facism leads to better propaganda.

    33. Re:Names are not unique by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      are=r

    34. Re:Names are not unique by NuclearDog · · Score: 1

      It's because "Funny" mods don't give you any good karma. Someone likely modded you "Insightful" because they wanted you to have some karma.

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      This statement is forty-five characters long.
    35. Re:Names are not unique by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Instead of reading "Your not me", try reading "You are not me."

    36. Re:Names are not unique by ceoyoyo · · Score: 1

      Also common. Doesn't help. Even the full middle name doesn't help.

      You'd think birth date would be a tipoff. That gets me on the plane but it doesn't exempt me from the disappear-with-your-passport-for-forty-minutes or search-you-six-times treatment. Fortunately I can just avoid traveling to the land of the free.

  8. Oh, please... by clang_jangle · · Score: 4, Insightful

    I've since followed up with lessons learned, a big one being that everybody should have a visible web presence

    I strongly disagree with that conclusion. There are already too many people with cringe-worthy web presences. Besides, most reasonable people know better than to believe everything they read.

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    Caveat Utilitor
    1. Re:Oh, please... by sm62704 · · Score: 1

      Besides, most reasonable people know better than to believe everything they read.

      True, but it's also true that most people aren't reasonable.

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    2. Re:Oh, please... by street+struttin' · · Score: 1

      most reasonable people know better than to believe everything they read.

      How many people are reasonable?

  9. Common Names are like that too... by Penguinisto · · Score: 4, Interesting

    My name is fairly common (last name is Miller) - there's roughly 4 of us in the company I work for (out of 95k employees), and there's about forty of me w/ the same first/last name combo (with various differences in middle names and etc.) in the metro area phone book.

    It's not just online, either - I remember awhile when some idiot collection agency kept bugging me over some other guy's debt, because we happened to share the same first/last name combo. I tried to tell them this repeatedly, then finally out of frustration told 'em: "see you in court, idiot!" It never came to fruition, and my credit record never reflected it *shrug*

    I guess that's why I never really worried if I see my name online - chances are it's not me anyway.

    /P

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    1. Re:Common Names are like that too... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I take it you live in Billings, MT?

    2. Re:Common Names are like that too... by SBacks · · Score: 1

      Its not just common names. I have a very unique name (I think I'm actually the only one in the US). However, my last name is a verb, so googling me returns 2 million results totally unrelated to me that just have "firstname verb" in them.

    3. Re:Common Names are like that too... by Penguinisto · · Score: 1

      Montana is a couple of states away from me :)

      /P

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    4. Re:Common Names are like that too... by themushroom · · Score: 1

      I am listed in the phone book by my first initial and last name. Bill collectors looking for someone with a different first name but same first initial call all the time. Usually takes two or three calls for them to get the hint that there's no Benjamin here, and never has been.

      Your credit record should not reflect any of that since they go by Social Security number. It's those damned collection agencies that go by name and random guessing. :)

  10. From the Linked Blog by sabre86 · · Score: 3, Interesting
    In case you didn't actually read her linked blog, the girl who supposedly decided not to pursue someone because she was on JLove apparently did so because she thought he was Jewish. In fact, she makes the rather ironic statement:

    Hmmm. Hot Jewish single guy on one hand or accepting the Jesus as my Lord and Savior? Sigh.

    I have to say, I don't understand how this situation is a dilemma, never mind the whole idea that actually talking to people about who they are -- rather than attempting to search them out on the internet* -- is fundamental to building relationships

    So, while JLove probably is being pretty underhanded in making up members, I don't think it can really be blamed for this potential couple's failure to actualize.

    --sabre86

    *The Internet, TM. Where everything is true!

    1. Re:From the Linked Blog by damburger · · Score: 1

      Maybe she just didn't like her meat kosher...

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    2. Re:From the Linked Blog by TubeSteak · · Score: 1

      Hmmm. Hot Jewish single guy on one hand or accepting the Jesus as my Lord and Savior? Sigh.

      I have to say, I don't understand how this situation is a dilemma,

      What wonderful naiveté.
      Think of it as racism or tribalism of the soul.

      I have a (non-practicing) Jewish friend who just started dating a Christian girl and apparently her parents are "wrestling" with it. My first thought was "WTF?" but prohibitions &/or social pressure against interfaith marriages/dating have a very long history.

      http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Interreligious_marriage
      http://www.google.com/search?q=interfaith+dating

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    3. Re:From the Linked Blog by ceoyoyo · · Score: 2, Insightful

      Seems to me they did that guy a BIG favour. He dodged a seriously nasty bullet!

    4. Re:From the Linked Blog by The+Iso · · Score: 1

      Not to mention that St. Paul specifically okays interfaith marriages in 1 Corinthians 7:12-16.

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    5. Re:From the Linked Blog by Bat+Country · · Score: 1

      You said it man, nobody fucks with the Jesus.

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  11. Hello Curt Monash by hansamurai · · Score: 1

    I think the problem may be that you use your name as your internet handle? If Curt Monash is your real name, it's pretty easy to see your web presence and scrapers will have no problem putting your first and last name together, it doesn't even have to be randomly generated in your case.

    http://www.linkedin.com/in/curtmonash
    http://twitter.com/CurtMonash
    http://www.amazon.com/gp/pdp/profile/APY7OA7WIXSJI

    I'm sure this actually may be an issue in the future, but how can you stop them from putting X together with Y and generating web pages? We have to leave it up to the likes of Google to purge these sites from their results.

  12. My Wife now has nice fake boobs... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 2, Funny

    I got an friend invite on Myspace from my wife... who has an pretty unique first name. She has never had an myspace, but I have encouraged her to create one only for the purpose of reuniting with old real life friends. So I click on it thinking she finally created one... Only to find some really nice looking nekkid blond (not my wife).

    I showed it too her, she was not amused, but I found it hysterical.

    1. Re:My Wife now has nice fake boobs... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      link?

    2. Re:My Wife now has nice fake boobs... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      don't say nekkid, it shows that you are an ignorant cock-shamen über-arse

    3. Re:My Wife now has nice fake boobs... by Thirdsin · · Score: 1

      What? No link? ;-)

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    4. Re:My Wife now has nice fake boobs... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      "nekkid" is a perfectly good word with a very specific meaning. "naked" means you ain't got no clothes on. "nekkid" (spelled N-E-double-K-by-gawd-I-D) means you ain't got no clothes on, and you up to somethin'.

      (shamelessly ripped from Lewis Grizzard.)

  13. Turn the tables! by Nichotin · · Score: 4, Interesting

    I know this might be a long shot, but if people really believe all they see when they google your name on google, how about taking advantage of that? After I had googled my own name, I realised how lucky I am because what you find is basically tech reviews done by me and some old karate scoreboards with me even winning some medals. Putting some effort in it, I could probably make it look like I am also doing third wold humanitarian work, help the poor, fight cancer etc. That would probably fly well with all nosy employers and possible future employers that like to google people. And if someoene asks, you could either stick with the story or dismiss it as a coincidence because someone shares your name. For the record, I do have a name that is most likely unique.

    1. Re:Turn the tables! by Penguinisto · · Score: 1

      Must be nice... I ego-googled just for a second, and found out that I'm an electrical engineering professor (though I used to have an EE, this guy ain't me), and a former Attorney General for the state of Iowa, among other things... Judging by the first page or two, potential employers are going to probably going to give up in frustration if they ever want to peek in on me online...

      /P

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    2. Re:Turn the tables! by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      (though I used to have an EE, this guy ain't me)

      How do you "used to have" an EE? Did you keep one lying around the house then sold it in a yard sale?

    3. Re:Turn the tables! by dontPanik · · Score: 1

      That's a great idea. Right now the second hit for me is some random petition I signed, why not sign alot of petitions that give humanitarian aid or such, that store names in text on pages.

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    4. Re:Turn the tables! by Penguinisto · · Score: 1

      I've pretty much left it dormant since 1995 since I shifted careers... bad typing in the morning &tc.

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    5. Re:Turn the tables! by vajaradakini · · Score: 1

      The first hit on google for my name is a facebook profile... but not mine, someone with the same name as me.
      The first page has one post by me (on a geneology website) and the second page has some links about me winning a poster prize at a conference. The rest isn't me.

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    6. Re:Turn the tables! by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Heh, if I google my proper name I apparently am a world renowned badass cage match fighter!

      (Yes, of course I milk it. :D)

    7. Re:Turn the tables! by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I have used this to great effect. I currently hold my countrys records for eating the greatest amount of Roquefort cheese in 5 minutes, longest distance reached while throwing a kitchen utensile and having the largest collection of plants with purple flowers.

      In every jobinterview I've been to in the last few yewars (5), I've gotten the job.

      COmments from all my employers: I had the required techincal qualifications, but not the best. I just wasn't possible to forget :-)

  14. I don't get it... by Chysn · · Score: 5, Interesting

    * Bots are scraping names off the web
    * Scammers use those names to do bad things
    * Therefore, you should put your name on the web

    That seems like a bad syllogism. I'm not saying the conclusion (that you need a strong web presence) is wrong. I'm just saying that if you're going to make a counter-intuitive conclusion, you need to connect the dots. You know, for us dumb guys.

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    1. Re:I don't get it... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      It's not counter-intuitive, you've got the wrong argument. Replace "* Therefore, you should put your name on the web" with "* You currently have a small presence on the web. * Therefore, you should increase your web presence."

      I don't agree with it, but I have no problem understand the concept that you can dilute the false information by adding more true information.

  15. I'll admit it... by ComputerGeek01 · · Score: 1
    I ran into this kind of thing not "ego-surfing" but actually checking out an on-line dating service. A colleague of mine had just married a great women he met through a similar site and although I wasn't looking for quit the same thing I decided to give it a try.

    I was quickly disappointed though as the site which boasted 1,000+ members in my area and certainly had profiles to back it up appeared to be padding profiles onto their site. Now I realize it is possible that a lot of the correspondence I sent out weren't going to be met by a positive response but I would have at least expected the courtesy of a rejection every now and then. Long story short they got my money and I left the site with nothing to show for it. I guess there is a lesson here but I'll be pwnd if I know what it is.

    1. Re:I'll admit it... by smooth+wombat · · Score: 1
      Must me talking about Match and/or Yahoo Personals. Both have lawsuits pending which accuse them of padding their membership rolls with fake ads. If you're still looking (or know people who are), try PlentyOfFish. Absolutely free and cruft is diligently removed.

      As a side note, be aware that the majority of people who use online dating sites don't have the courtesy of replying to messages. In the case of women, they use the excuse, "I get so many a day I can't respond to them all!" while in the case of men it's, "Why would I want to talk to that dog?"

      It's funny considering that people will claim they're outgoing, friendly and "living every day as if it were my last"*. Apparently friendly and outgoing only apply if you're a model (in the case of women) or George Clooney (in the case of men).

      *If this were true, they wouldn't be spending it on a dating site. They would be out doing things that would get them jailed or killed because after all, if it's your last day, what does it matter?

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    2. Re:I'll admit it... by radish · · Score: 1

      Must me talking about Match and/or Yahoo Personals. Both have lawsuits pending [usatoday.com] which accuse them of padding their membership rolls
      Just because someone sued them doesn't mean they actually did it. I can only speak from experience of Match.com, but I was a member there for one month, dated 3 girls and ended up married to one of them. Best $10 I ever spent.

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  16. Was it really you, or just "your" name? by Peter+Cooper · · Score: 4, Insightful

    I was ego-surfing the other day, and was surprised to discover that I was listed as a member of the an on-line dating service.

    I don't see anything on the jLove Curt Monash page that demonstrates that it's the guy who submitted this article. Surely there's more than one "Curt Monash" in the world?

    If the site had scraped your Web site URL, e-mail address, or some other personal identifier that made the page look more "authentic", then there's a scam and a real privacy issue for us to be concerned about. If some computer is just putting together combinations of first and last names and building pages with no further personally identifiable information, that's spam for Google to worry about, not a scam or a privacy infringement for us to worry about.

    at least one had lost interest in a guy because he appeared to be a member

    The world is full of idiots. Just because someone's NAME (which is far from unique) is on a dating site, they lost interest? I'd say the guy had a lucky escape!

    If there's any problem here, it's the Western naming convention that allows thousands of people to end up with the same name. Perhaps we should all become known by our e-mail addresses or IM screennames in the future to avoid this.

    1. Re:Was it really you, or just "your" name? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      If there's any problem here, it's the Western naming convention that allows thousands of people to end up with the same name. Perhaps we should all become known by our e-mail addresses or IM screennames in the future to avoid this.

      How many Lees to you think there are in China? How many Patels in India?

    2. Re:Was it really you, or just "your" name? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Allow me to illustrate his point: http://jlove.com/names/s/science/
      I'm not a smart man, but I really doubt there are that many people so in love with science that they'd marry it.

    3. Re:Was it really you, or just "your" name? by ormico · · Score: 5, Funny

      From now on I would like to be known as {FDCCD2BA-EDF4-4b71-A8FD-F7423A51D228} but my friends can call me FDCCD2BA for short.

    4. Re:Was it really you, or just "your" name? by ehrichweiss · · Score: 1

      "If some computer is just putting together combinations of first and last names and building pages with no further personally identifiable information, that's spam for Google to worry about, not a scam or a privacy infringement for us to worry about."

      This is exactly it!!! I say this because as I have mentioned below, I run a dating site and it's a necessary evil to generate name pairs, as you suggested, to attract new members for sites that are just starting up. I usually have most of mine expire after a year if I've built up enough to match the numbers. There's no scraping involved at all.

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    5. Re:Was it really you, or just "your" name? by djmurdoch · · Score: 1

      Yes, it's a necessary evil to deceive potential customers when you have nothing to offer. Sure it's fraudulent, but how else is a scammer supposed to get anywhere?

    6. Re:Was it really you, or just "your" name? by ehrichweiss · · Score: 1

      No, it's not "fraudulent"; why are you guys so stuck on the sensationalist jargon?

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    7. Re:Was it really you, or just "your" name? by True+Vox · · Score: 1

      Please tell me you're kidding. Surely you can see how creating a "Dating Site" with fake people on it (completely fake, not just a slightly doctored photo to make the fat chick look OK) is deceptive? People go to dating sites to meet people, not meet computer generated "Name Pairs".

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    8. Re:Was it really you, or just "your" name? by ehrichweiss · · Score: 1

      Yes they do go to meet real people but real people don't join unless they think there are already people have joined(you humans are such sheep in that regard), even if the site is completely 100% free to them. As long as those profiles aren't being used by, say, employees to keep paying members, which again..I have NONE, then there is no fraud. It's "deceptive" but once those fake profiles expire the site is left with real members. Every big dating site started out that way whether you want to believe it or not; they have to generate a lot of profiles to test the database, to test the layout of the site, etc. and at some point in time they just make the site live and let the generated profiles die off naturally while they debug. I'm sure you feel deceived but that's what the disclaimer's for and if you don't read that then we shouldn't be having this discussion.

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    9. Re:Was it really you, or just "your" name? by stranger_to_himself · · Score: 3, Funny

      Yes they do go to meet real people but real people don't join unless they think there are already people have joined(you humans are such sheep in that regard)

      So what species are you? Some other highly evolved ape that's mastered web-development?

      Anyway to clarify: Humans are the ones you should be inventing on your site. Sheep are the small white wooly ones. You probably don't want them on your dating site. Or maybe you do, I don't want to judge.

    10. Re:Was it really you, or just "your" name? by ehrichweiss · · Score: 1

      Yes, I should be inventing lifeforms. However the site started out as a hobby and I actually lose money from its existence since I don't charge so I really, really, really REALLY don't give a flying fuck at this point what anyone thinks. I have 5 years of unpaid work in it and a 200 strong member base to maintain as well as keeping spammers away on a daily fucking basis...did I mention I do this for FREE!?!? But I'm a scummy scammer dickhead fuckwad halfwit who doesn't offer anything according to everyone who got dissed by the pretty girl on the big "trustworthy" website... Whatever...you're going to believe what you want anyway.

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    11. Re:Was it really you, or just "your" name? by True+Vox · · Score: 1

      Oh, no, sir, you misunderstand. I'm not offended. I've never been one to put high hopes in the profiles on on-line dating sites. That said, I'm glad to hear you admitting that what you do is deceptive. It may not be "Classic" fraud, but it's still morally wrong, and I'm happy to hear you admit that.

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    12. Re:Was it really you, or just "your" name? by RobBebop · · Score: 1

      Perhaps we should all become known by our e-mail addresses or IM screennames in the future to avoid this.

      So says, "Peter Cooper (660482)". But "Equality (72521)" would disagree.

      The irony of uniqueness and individuality are actually pretty huge. Certainly, there are enough unique 5-10 sylable names for the world's 7 Billion people, but most people don't want to give their children "weird" names. And the governmental idea of assigning numbers to act as UUIDs has very much crept into the online world... though the numbers don't make you an individual, they just make you track-able.

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    13. Re:Was it really you, or just "your" name? by b4dc0d3r · · Score: 1

      I found your name under my girlfriend's HKCR. Good luck trying to tell me it wasn't you.

    14. Re:Was it really you, or just "your" name? by Khaed · · Score: 1

      What the hell else would you call lying and telling people you have something you don't?

    15. Re:Was it really you, or just "your" name? by TheLink · · Score: 1

      Fraud = deceit, trickery, sharp practice, or breach of confidence, perpetrated for profit or to gain some unfair or dishonest advantage. See: http://dictionary.reference.com/search?q=fraud

      If you are making up fake members just so that your site might attract real members and make money, then I call it fraud.

      You can call it patriotic service to the nation or "sensationalist jargon".

      I'll still call it fraud.

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    16. Re:Was it really you, or just "your" name? by rts008 · · Score: 1

      With ethics like that, you should work for SCO or Microsoft in marketing.

      *scumbag*

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    17. Re:Was it really you, or just "your" name? by ehrichweiss · · Score: 1

      Really, I'm not concerned with "morals" those involve judgement. What's the old phrase..judge not...

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    18. Re:Was it really you, or just "your" name? by ehrichweiss · · Score: 0, Flamebait

      So why haven't you grabbed your followers and taken them to heaven, Jesus?

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    19. Re:Was it really you, or just "your" name? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      as well as keeping spammers away on a daily fucking basis...

      Yes, it must be a real pain to have to deal with spammers making fake posts on the site that you faked to get started. If only those spammers didn't need to fake posts to get their site started too...

      ( | ) + *| = ass hat!

    20. Re:Was it really you, or just "your" name? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Perhaps we should all become known by our e-mail addresses or IM screennames in the future to avoid this.

      Yeah, that should solve it. No one could possibly confuse me (AskAboutMyLoveDart@yahoo.com) with AskAboutMyLoveDart@gmail.com or AskAboutMyLoveDart@msn.com.

    21. Re:Was it really you, or just "your" name? by True+Vox · · Score: 1

      Yes, I agree. Morals just muddy up the world. We should all be much more concerned with what's legal, rather then what's right. /sarcasm

      However, I would like it noted, I was not judging you, merely your actions (as is clear from my response). I have no issue with someone judging my actions (in fact, in many ways our world revolves around it). I believe the phrase you are referring to is judging a person as a whole. Maybe a small difference to some, but an important one to me.

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  17. I had something like this happen by Jason+Levine · · Score: 3, Funny

    I got a notice that I had signed up for "WeeWorld" which appears to be a MySpace type site with avatars or something. Honestly, I wasn't really interested in the site beyond the fact that, somehow, "I" was now a member. Not only that, but "I" apparently had already communicated with some of "my" friends on there. I quickly assessed the situation and determined that nothing in my e-mail account indicated any hacking there. In fact, the site didn't have any sort of e-mail confirmation. It just took an e-mail address, assumed that the person was giving their real address, and then sent e-mails to that user notifying them whenever someone sent them a message.

    So it looked like someone just decided to use my e-mail address in the "e-mail address" line when they signed up. Since the service nicely sent me "my" password when "I" signed up, I used it to log in. Then, I decided to lock "other me" out, so I changed the password. Then I changed the name on the account to "DON'T USE E-MAIL ADDYS THAT AREN'T YOURS" (so all of "other me's" friends would see what he did). Next, I contacted WeeWorld to report the abuse. They offered to close the account. I waited for a few days in the hopes that "other me" would realize that he was now locked out of his profile and had his name changed. Then I had them close the account.

    Part of me was satisfied that, perhaps, he learned his lesson. Of course, another part of me realizes that he probably just signed up again with someone else's e-mail address. A very simple e-mail confirmation would stop abuses like this from happening. Sure, an abuser could use a hacked into e-mail account, but it is a simple action that raises the bar above most of the would-be abusers' heads.

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    1. Re:I had something like this happen by Bieeanda · · Score: 1
      It's even worse when there is no way to remove yourself from the rolls, or even contact an administrator. Someone used my e-mail address to sign up for some physical education tracking site that the US Navy set up, with bonuses for good work. Kids stuff, literally.

      I only received confirmation that 'I' had signed up. There was no 'are you really you' e-mail before the account was activated (and I've been 'signed up' for any number of sites that let you post even before you confirm), no way of deactivating an account, and no contact information anywhere. To make matters worse, I kept getting e-mail from the site because this person was sending in bogus exercise information. I ended up having to add the site to my spam blacklist.

      Seriously, people. Is it that bloody hard to build, buy, or borrow a simple e-mail confirmation script?

    2. Re:I had something like this happen by HeadlessNotAHorseman · · Score: 1

      By doing something like this you run the risk of irritating a stranger who now has your email address. I am not saying what you did was wrong, but if your email suddenly became flooded with spam shortly after I would not be surprised.

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    3. Re:I had something like this happen by Jason+Levine · · Score: 1

      I signed up for that e-mail address when Yahoo first gave out e-mail addresses. It's a combination of my first and last name that is trivial to guess and has been posted a ton of places online. The spammers already flood my account with spam. I doubt this guy will make my e-mail situation much worse. To Yahoo's credit, they've been able to keep most of it flowing to my spam box lately. There was a time when I considered abandoning the account because all of the spam in my inbox made it difficult to find the valid e-mails.

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    4. Re:I had something like this happen by brucemcdon · · Score: 1

      Might we suppose that your email address is not just a clear name or dictionary words, but rather includes some combination of numbers? If so it's likely that someone with a similar email address meant to type in theirs and entered yours by mistake. I'd say your actions in changing the password then closing the account were still reasonable, but the intermediate thing about changing the name with a shouted admonition seems silly. They're not really all out to get you.

      On the other hand, since I see your post was moderated "Funny" it could be that it was a put-on and you were just out to get me.

    5. Re:I had something like this happen by Jason+Levine · · Score: 1

      My e-mail address is just a clear name. No numbers in it at all. Like I said in another post, this account was obtained when Yahoo first offered free Webmail. I was lucky enough to get my name @ yahoo.com. And this wasn't all a put-on. This really happened. So either the person mistyped their own name, or they were trying to use my e-mail address to sign up for the service. A quick check of WeeWorld.com shows that their registration page requires you to type your e-mail address in twice. So it is less likely that he simply mistyped his e-mail address when he signed up.

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  18. Hmm. Just the kind of person I'm interested in. by jimicus · · Score: 5, Informative

    and discovered other people were upset, at least one had lost interest in a guy because he appeared to be a member,

    Well, specifically, he found a blog entry from someone else, saying:

    I went back, caught his name and cyberstalked him. I found out he was an investor. I found out that he was a runner. And soon enough, I found him on a singles page called "Jlove.com," a website for Jewish singles.

    So she believes everything she reads online, she assumes that just because the name matches it's the right person and she makes no effort to speak to him face to face. Yeah. Just the kind of woman I'm interested in getting to know.

    I think the guy she was cyberstalking had a lucky escape.

  19. Few simple steps by Veggiesama · · Score: 3, Funny

    Change your name to something more unique (try to throw in a few numbers).

    Leave the country. Try for one of those places without computers. Solitary islands work best.

    Have some reconstructive surgery. It is important that your face is altered, but if other parts of your body need work, well, that's your call.

    Buy a big fluffy white cat. Not optional.

    Design a plan... to take over the world...

  20. Easy, cross reference it with sex offenders by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1, Insightful

    You could cross reference it with sex offenders in your area and let the local press know that the site is a notorious sex offender dating service with ties to your area. If they're claiming you're a member, they're probably claiming that any number of sex offenders, murderers, etc. are also members.

    1. Re:Easy, cross reference it with sex offenders by ehrichweiss · · Score: 3, Insightful

      Nope, most of them aren't "name scraping" as suggested; they're generating the name pairs from a huge list of first names, a huge list of last names and typically a huge list of cities and states. Also what you suggest could very well count as slander/libel since saying that someone with name X is a member at your dating site is not the same as saying someone with name X is a sex offender.

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    2. Re:Easy, cross reference it with sex offenders by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      The jlove founder worked at jdate and poached the names of members when he left.

    3. Re:Easy, cross reference it with sex offenders by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I heard that ehrichweiss was a pron peddling coke dealer who set up a dating site with a bunch of fake ads to lure people in and then sold advertising to defraud people. Note the fraud is being commited by him on the advertisers.

      Also, from another post:
      That would be: http://www.centralkydating.com/ [centralkydating.com]
      source: http://games.slashdot.org/comments.pl?sid=195723&cid=16037938 [slashdot.org]

      Or maybe it's just the last part I read and the rest I "generated."

  21. Re:appeal to a higher authority by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Jesus would do nothing because Jesus is make-believe.

  22. It could be worse.... by autocracy · · Score: 2, Interesting

    Originally I was the only person who showed up in search results with my name. Unfortunately, that has changed. I'm very curious how many would-be dates have not happened because of this Google search: http://www.google.com/search?q=jeffrey+ferland

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    1. Re:It could be worse.... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      No kidding, what a nerd!

    2. Re:It could be worse.... by dontPanik · · Score: 1

      But six results down you're a republican canidate for state representative. Take the bad with the good!

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    3. Re:It could be worse.... by Hektor_Troy · · Score: 1

      I'd worry more about this search more. Feel free to replace "gay" with "serial killer", "playa", "wife beater" and other fun combinations ;)

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    4. Re:It could be worse.... by Lanoitarus · · Score: 1

      Great, so hes a robber AND a republican?? Hes SCREWED if any would-be dates google him.

    5. Re:It could be worse.... by autocracy · · Score: 1

      Oh, it gets better. During the time that I was running for State House, many local publications listed the names / info about people running for office. Gay Portland must have done some great maneuvering with Page Rank, 'cause they won slot #1.

      Your link, at least, doesn't show anything in the first ten that could be mistaken for me... as opposed to the similarly aged bank robber who lived in Massachusetts.

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    6. Re:It could be worse.... by DerekLyons · · Score: 1

      The kind of person who would obsessively Google up someone before dating them probably isn't someone I'd want to date anyhow. (Not that I'm in the market being happily married and all.)

    7. Re:It could be worse.... by Jah-Wren+Ryel · · Score: 1

      I'm very curious how many would-be dates have not happened because of this Google search

      You need to use it to your advantage. Hot chicks dig bad boys.

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  23. Change your name... by Cal1234 · · Score: 1

    Really, that's the solution here.

    Follow up:

    No way. Why should I change? He's the one who sucks.

  24. a reputation war is good by sjwest · · Score: 1

    for instance - "site x is used by the cia to torture rabbits"

    people search for site x and see that they torture rabbits then the brand name has a problem.

    Reputation works both ways after all. It would be hard for them to sue you since they invented your profile and you cannot get in touch with them.

  25. My name is John Smith... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    You insensitive clod!

  26. Re:appeal to a higher authority by neomunk · · Score: 1

    Create a "strong" web presence so everyone would know he was Jewish instead of Hispanic...?

  27. Re:appeal to a higher authority by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0, Insightful

    SPD - Suck Peter's Dick

    (Not sorry, meant to be offensive.)

  28. Oblig. XKCD by querist · · Score: 1

    You could use this http://xkcd.com/327/ as an idea for how to change your name. :-)

    (XKCD is great!)

  29. ReMod. by JCSoRocks · · Score: 1, Offtopic

    Informative!? no! Fuuuunnny. Watch this.

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    1. Re:ReMod. by Samizdata · · Score: 1

      Heh. I play on a server with one of them sometimes. I, ahem, managed to drop a sentry right in front of the spawn door with him in it once.

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  30. I run a dating site...this isn't "scamming" by ehrichweiss · · Score: 3, Interesting

    I run a dating site and profile generation is a necessity. You see, in order to get people to join a dating site, you have to have people who already joined the dating site to attract them; it's a catch-22 that we cannot avoid. Usually the fake profiles have an expiration date of 1 year so after that the accounts just die off but regardless, your name isn't protected by any laws and can be used in works of fiction without your approval. Just get over it cause I've got some guy using my real name in a gospel band and as sickening as I find that, I don't care as I have better things to worry about.

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    1. Re:I run a dating site...this isn't "scamming" by Viadd · · Score: 4, Insightful

      In other words, assholes like you commit fraud, so everybody else should just live with it.

      Besides, if you are the real Ehrich Weiss, even if your victim got you thrown in jail you would just break out.

    2. Re:I run a dating site...this isn't "scamming" by penguin_dance · · Score: 5, Insightful

      You see, in order to get people to join a dating site, you have to fradulantly claim to have people who already joined the dating site to attract them; it's a catch-22 that we cannot avoid.

      There, fixed that.

      And I'll bet those profiles sound really good and new members wonder why they can't ever get hooked up with the fake profiles.

      Smells like scam to me.

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    3. Re:I run a dating site...this isn't "scamming" by whoami-ky · · Score: 1

      How about using legitimate business practices instead of LYING to your paying customers. Use "sales", free signups, advertising, etc. to get customer instead of representing that you have customers that you don't actually have.

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    4. Re:I run a dating site...this isn't "scamming" by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      your name isn't protected by any laws and can be used in works of fiction without your approval.

      I am sure that your perspective members would call that false advertising. i.e. making it appear that you are selling one product (lots of users) while you are actually selling another (lots of crap).

    5. Re:I run a dating site...this isn't "scamming" by ehrichweiss · · Score: 2, Interesting

      I don't claim anything AND since my site is completely free I can do with it as I see fit. There is no fraud despite your myopic view.

      Most of those new members ignore the initial members since their profiles dropped off long ago, or did you miss that part when composing your great come-back in your mind?

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    6. Re:I run a dating site...this isn't "scamming" by sm62704 · · Score: 1

      You guys shoot yourselves in the feet with your scams. And yes, they ARE scams. If you charge for your service (and I have yet to see a free one) you are defrauding people.

      While not being able to connect with anyone at a dating site, I managed to connect with women at non-dating sites. I met a very attractive woman while at K5 who unfortunately lives a thousand miles away.

      When someone who has paid you to join your site starts a class-action suit against you for your fraud, don't be too surprised. You will deserve to be taken to the cleaners.

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    7. Re:I run a dating site...this isn't "scamming" by ehrichweiss · · Score: 0, Troll

      Since I don't get revenue from the site, tell me how I do advertising. Since it's for local people only, tell me how I do that on the internet. You see, you don't know as much about the business as I do. I'm running it for fun but there are certain evils you have to embrace. Sad fact but it's true. And for the record, the disclaimer that everyone agrees to states that the information provided may not be legit.

      What most of you are missing is the fact that people who run dating sites are at more disadvantages than you could ever imagine. Every spammer on the planet is trying to get an account on your site so they can send adultfiendfinder(misspelled on purpose) or other dating affiliate spam to your members, or the ED spammers, or the "did I tell you about this great site" spammers. So we have to keep them out, attract new people, deal with administration, debug the software and add features; most of the time without the first dollar entering your pocket for over a year(I've run mine for over 5 years and it's been completely free). So I really couldn't care less how you people feel about it until you've been in our shoes for a while because it's a lot harder than running any other website; I administrate about 100 and the dating website eats more time that the rest combined.

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    8. Re:I run a dating site...this isn't "scamming" by ehrichweiss · · Score: 0, Troll

      No, they are NOT scams(your definition doesn't fit the dictionary..you just don't like the practice..you're allowed to say that instead of using sensationalism to boost your rep here) AND to address your last point, the only time that people ever filed for fraud against a for-pay site was when those sites used employees to send email from fake profiles to string people along as paying customers. Read that bold part over and over and you'll understand that THAT is a scam.

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    9. Re:I run a dating site...this isn't "scamming" by ehrichweiss · · Score: 0, Troll

      Yet, 1) I don't charge so I'm not "selling" jack shit, 2) lots of dating sites have profiles that people sign up for and forget about sooo how does one tell the difference? Answer: you can't, and as long as those profiles aren't being used to string along paying customers(of which I have ZERO) then there is no scam, there is no fraud.

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    10. Re:I run a dating site...this isn't "scamming" by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Fraud - n. deception deliberately practised; trickery

      If your site weren't free, you could be convicted but you're escaping the law because the monetary damages would be hard to prove. However "can't be convicted" doesn't mean that your deception was acceptable.

    11. Re:I run a dating site...this isn't "scamming" by ehrichweiss · · Score: 0, Troll

      Sorry, you fail. The trickery would only apply if those fake profiles were sending email to keep paying members around. That is a fact. You don't know enough about the business to be able to know the ins-and-outs of why that's the case but suffice to say your ignorance is showing.

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    12. Re:I run a dating site...this isn't "scamming" by StrawberryFrog · · Score: 1

      this isn't "scamming"

      In what sense isn't it scamming? Other than the sense that you say it isn't, so it can't be.

      You see, in order to get people to join a dating site, you have to have people who already joined the dating site ... we cannot avoid .. the fake profiles

      It being necessary for making your business model work doesn't make it any less of a scam. It just makes your business model unworkable by legal means. You know, like most scams.
      You admit they're fake. You admit that you are lying to people, and if they knew they wpould shun you.

      I'll say it again: how is this not a scam?

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    13. Re:I run a dating site...this isn't "scamming" by Apathy451 · · Score: 2, Informative

      No, it's fraud, asshole: http://dictionary.reference.com/browse/fraud Just because it's not legal fraud doesn't mean it's not fraud. Deceit for profit -- seems pretty cut and dry to me.

      Quit trying to defend unethical actions by simply claiming what you do isn't illegal. It can still be disgusting and wrong.

    14. Re:I run a dating site...this isn't "scamming" by NeutronCowboy · · Score: 4, Insightful

      But you're defrauding the people who think that your dating site actually has real members.

      It's nice to see how warped a crook's mind is.

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    15. Re:I run a dating site...this isn't "scamming" by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I don't claim anything AND since my site is completely free I can do with it as I see fit.

      Including lie and decieve?

      Most of those new members ignore the initial members since their profiles dropped off long ago,

      So since you're not lying now, it's ok then?

    16. Re:I run a dating site...this isn't "scamming" by Lanoitarus · · Score: 1

      I *dare* you to post the link to your alleged site here.

    17. Re:I run a dating site...this isn't "scamming" by Feanturi · · Score: 1

      You're creating a false image of what your membership base looks like, in order to lure other people into thinking they will have lots of real people to choose from. So they sign up and give you money based on this intentionally misleading image. That's fraud.

    18. Re:I run a dating site...this isn't "scamming" by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      If you charge for your service (and I have yet to see a free one)

      A couple of the better free ones I know of:
      okcupid.com (better than match.com, IMACO); plentyoffish.com

      Both have enough critical mass that they don't need fake profiles. The way OkCupid was launched, I don't think they ever had, because they never needed, fake profiles.

      (IMACO: In My Anonymous Coward Opinion)

    19. Re:I run a dating site...this isn't "scamming" by ehrichweiss · · Score: 0, Troll

      It's not a scam because I'm not using it to get people to pay for the service; it's used to make the site look more populated to get people to sign up for free profiles(there are no premium profiles on my site). And, regarding the sites that do charge, they are selling the services attached, not the profiles; you see, forums, various forms of text/audio/video chat, image upload service, blogs, etc. are all legit services and business models the last time I checked so what were you saying again? You're talking about a business that you know nothing about. You know, like most clueless people that use sensationalist terms like "scam" for things they don't feel is right. You're fine to feel that way but calling it a scam is disingenuous and shows your limited view of the deal. OR, you could be forced to watch eharmony match.com commercials for the rest of your life, it's not like THEY have been brought up on REAL charges of fraud or other truly questionable practices..

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    20. Re:I run a dating site...this isn't "scamming" by X0563511 · · Score: 1

      Perhaps what you are whining about isn't a problem, the premise of a dating website is the actual problem. Your business model fails, move on - don't try to justify all the hoops you jumped through.

      I can understand if you are trying to sell a product, or an actual service. What you are explaining leads me to think you are trying to do boils down to this analogy: You are renting a public space for people to loiter and meet.

      That is not good. What you do is provide said space, and sell things with it (drinks, etc) - this carries over into the internet realm as well. You need something to attract people besides the ability to meet other people (hell you could do that here if you wanted) or crafting misleading leads or outright lying. Which is what you are doing (justified or not).

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    21. Re:I run a dating site...this isn't "scamming" by ehrichweiss · · Score: 0, Redundant

      Sorry, that's not how it works. For one, they don't pay me a dollar; not a dime in 5 years. Most for-pay sites offer a free limited membership where you can determine whether you think that there are people you are interested in before you pay; you should avoid those that don't or be an informed consumer if you do. At what point did it become that the consumer lost responsibility to check into things like this?

      I'll state it again. REAL fraud is when sites like match.com and the like got busted for having employees string paying customers along by sending them email from fake profiles. You may not like the practice of generated profiles but there are uses that you aren't going to grasp since you're hellbent outta shape trying to prove it's a scam because you didn't get to fuck that hottie on adultfiendfinder or what-have-you.

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    22. Re:I run a dating site...this isn't "scamming" by ehrichweiss · · Score: 1

      I imagine you do. I used to but since it's a locals-only dating site, it makes no sense to do so. However I double dog dare you to just STFU.

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    23. Re:I run a dating site...this isn't "scamming" by MrFlapjacks · · Score: 2, Insightful

      I run a dating site and profile generation is a necessity.

      It's not a necessity.. it's a deceptive practice used by dickheads like yourself to dupe others into believing that you actually have a product to offer.

      You see, in order to get people to join a dating site, you have to have people who already joined the dating site to attract them; it's a catch-22 that we cannot avoid.

      I'd say that's complete bullshit. The number of legitimate users you have is an incentive for others to join. However, you could use other honest incentives to get new members while your userbase is still small.

      your name isn't protected by any laws and can be used in works of fiction without your approval.

      Just because something isn't protected by law, doesn't make you any less of a scumbag for doing it. Also, you're not advertising your product as a work of fiction, are you? So, libel would probably apply, but IANAL.

      Just get over it cause I've got some guy using my real name in a gospel band and as sickening as I find that, I don't care as I have better things to worry about.

      You poor, poor bastard. Sharing your name with some guy in a gospel band is the best you could come up with? You apparently aren't the brains of your little dating site operation, are ya?

      If you believe in what you're selling, how about posting the domain name of your site?

    24. Re:I run a dating site...this isn't "scamming" by ehrichweiss · · Score: 1

      Get your panties in a wad much? My users are happy and they're getting the services they're NOT paying for. Call it what you like, the community grew on my site as a result of it and nobody has an issue with that.

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    25. Re:I run a dating site...this isn't "scamming" by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      It might not technically be fraud, but you're still a cunt.

    26. Re:I run a dating site...this isn't "scamming" by ehrichweiss · · Score: 1

      You can be lead to think a lot of things, sad part is, you don't see how this EXACT practice is used in other areas of the internet that you frequent and extoll the highest praises to. I'll let you sort that out for yourself or let you continue in your path of self-deception...your choice.

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    27. Re:I run a dating site...this isn't "scamming" by MrFlapjacks · · Score: 1

      I think we all understand why you use the fake profiles. It's the fact that you don't understand that "we" don't like being lied to. And for jerkoffs like you to continue to defend your actions. You are a scammer, simply because you promised one thing, and "we" got another.

      btw, do you make ad revenue off of the site?
      How local? Maybe I live near there. Have a link to the site?

    28. Re:I run a dating site...this isn't "scamming" by ehrichweiss · · Score: 1

      It's not a necessity.. it's a deceptive practice used by dickheads like yourself to dupe others into believing that you actually have a product to offer.

      Since it's free, your problem is....?

      I'd say that's complete bullshit. The number of legitimate users you have is an incentive for others to join. However, you could use other honest incentives to get new members while your userbase is still small.

      You can say it all you want. Try to get in the business with zero budget and tell me what resources YOU come up with smart ass.

      Just because something isn't protected by law, doesn't make you any less of a scumbag for doing it. Also, you're not advertising your product as a work of fiction, are you? So, libel would probably apply, but IANAL.

      I think you're a dickhead too. You don't know me afterall and you know nothing of my service. And you're right you're not a lawyer because it's not close to slander or libel, you just would like to think it is to pump up your wittle ego. You do things I don't like, like being a judgemental asshole who's obviously never had to walk in someone else's shoes. Should I call you a waaahmbulance?

      You apparently aren't the brains of your little dating site operation, are ya?

      I'm the EVERYTHING of the site. However I now know why you can't even get a date on a dating site....

      If you believe in what you're selling, how about posting the domain name of your site?

      ...because it's a dating site for LOCALS. ONLY. I don't feel the same need to play the school yard bullshit you seem to be promoting, or assuming that I am promoting.

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    29. Re:I run a dating site...this isn't "scamming" by Apathy451 · · Score: 2

      Ignore what I said much? You claim what you do isn't fraudulent. I claim it is, with a simple dictionary reference as my proof. You talk of my panties and the opinion of your users. Whether or not your users are happy, you defrauded them. It's a pretty simple concept. If you somehow know otherwise, I'd like to see how. But seeing what you've replied to other posters with, I don't think you're aware that legal precedent regarding your actions doesn't make a damn bit of difference on what the words mean. Just because no one has been charged with fraud for what you're doing doesn't mean it's not fraud.

      By the very definition of the words...
      You've defrauded your customers.
      You've scammed your customers.

      I don't see how it could be any clearer.

    30. Re:I run a dating site...this isn't "scamming" by ehrichweiss · · Score: 1

      Whatever, you're going to believe what you want anyway.... Free or not, offering a service has been declared to be a fraudulent activity if ANY of the information is not legit thanks to our new overloard, what's-his-face, the Parent. I'm glad you rail against real causes like dating sites and leave such sticky stuff like FISA and the like to fall to the side. That's a real show of character there.

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    31. Re:I run a dating site...this isn't "scamming" by ehrichweiss · · Score: 1

      No, I don't make any ad revenue off the site; not a dollar. I lose money on it actually and yet I'm a dickhead scammer according to you despite 1500 logged hours over the past 5 years of user administration and close to 5000 hours to stop spammers from invading my site completely and totally unpaid. Feel free to believe that all you want since you're going to do that anyway... I can sleep at night.

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    32. Re:I run a dating site...this isn't "scamming" by ehrichweiss · · Score: 1

      I love how you have to be an AC to post that. Shows real backbone.

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    33. Re:I run a dating site...this isn't "scamming" by Jah-Wren+Ryel · · Score: 1

      they don't make a lot of money if they have 100% real profiles.

      You mean they don't steal a lot of money. Because that's what fraud is - you are stealing their money under false pretenses.
      You promise something which you are incapable of delivering.

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    34. Re:I run a dating site...this isn't "scamming" by X0563511 · · Score: 1

      I'm not deceiving myself. I'm not a part of any communities online, nor do I pay for anything besides access and an NNTP service. That hardly plays into that "you don't see how this EXACT practice is used in other areas of the internet that you frequent and extoll the highest praises to" angle you have there. Unless that wasn't directed at me. The internet is a source of information for me, or a means to communicate with others with such intentions. The only "socializing" I really do is realtime (IRC) - in fact I think I've broken a personal record in responding to a response to one of my posts - I usually toss in my $0.02 and leave.

      I'm not sure exactly what you are disagreeing with me on, if indeed you are disagreeing at all.

      To be clear, I am not admonishing you or your business methods, I'm just stating as an outside opinion that I think you may be going about it wrong if you have to resort to such "tricks" to get it to work (you shouldn't need to). As I stated my opinion derives from my belief that paying to meet people is not only unnecessary, but unnatural to us - again leading you to the problem of having to lure people to your site. But these are just opinions. I am likely completely wrong*, but my opinion isn't causing you any harm is it?

      * - not being a part of any communities, or never having run them, I can only speculate about all this.

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    35. Re:I run a dating site...this isn't "scamming" by sm62704 · · Score: 1

      fraud Audio Help /frd/ Pronunciation Key - Show Spelled Pronunciation[frawd] Pronunciation Key - Show IPA Pronunciation
      -noun
      1. deceit, trickery, sharp practice, or breach of confidence, perpetrated for profit or to gain some unfair or dishonest advantage.
      2. a particular instance of such deceit or trickery: mail fraud; election frauds.
      3. any deception, trickery, or humbug: That diet book is a fraud and a waste of time.
      4. a person who makes deceitful pretenses; sham; poseur.

      If you charge people to join a dating service with FAKE people that YOU put in there with stuff you MADE UP, it
      is fraud pure and simple. The fact is that people are paying you to connect with people to date, and there aren't any. You might as well charge them for goods that you don't actually have; that is essentially what you're doing.

      Just because what you are doing is less underhanded than your bolded statement doesn't make it any less fraud.

      scam Audio Help /skæm/ Pronunciation Key - Show Spelled Pronunciation[skam] Pronunciation Key - Show IPA Pronunciation noun, verb, scammed, scamming.
      -noun
      1. a confidence game or other fraudulent scheme, esp. for making a quick profit; swindle.
      -verb (used with object)
      2. to cheat or defraud with a scam.

      [Origin: 1960-65; orig. carnival argot; of obscure orig.]

      Also, just because other people take money to connect them to nonexistant people doesn't make it any less sleazy for you to do it. Again, please delete any people that you made up to put in your database. If there aren't any real accounts, consider making it a free site for at least long enough to get some real people in there.

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    36. Re:I run a dating site...this isn't "scamming" by X0563511 · · Score: 1

      I don't agree with the guy, but you missed a critical point - He/She is NOT charging people to use the service, it's free. I still agree with you, it's deceitful.

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    37. Re:I run a dating site...this isn't "scamming" by X0563511 · · Score: 1

      No, making it look like there are more people using your service is still trickery. Just not to the extent it could be.

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    38. Re:I run a dating site...this isn't "scamming" by sm62704 · · Score: 1

      If it's a free site I don't see where anybody would have legal grounds, but where did (s)he say it was free? I'd think a free site not only wouldn't need bogus accounts, but the bogus accounts would make growth slower.

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    39. Re:I run a dating site...this isn't "scamming" by X0563511 · · Score: 1

      He/She has stated all over this argument that it's free, and that he/she makes no revenue from it. I haven't checked the site itself, as an AC posted the URL and I don't want to contribute to the DDoS this causes (that, and I'm at work... don't want that domain to show up in the logs...)

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    40. Re:I run a dating site...this isn't "scamming" by MrFlapjacks · · Score: 1

      Since it's free, your problem is....?

      ... that you're a lying self righteous bastard.

      I think you're a dickhead too.

      You are correct, I am. But I don't try to take advantage of people via deception; especially on a daily basis.

      You don't know me afterall

      Oh,I'd really like to meet.

      and you know nothing of my service.

      Post a link

      waaahmbulance?

      Really?

      I'm the EVERYTHING of the site.

      got some ruffled feathers, eh?

      ...because it's a dating site for LOCALS. ONLY.

      How do you know I'm not a local? I promise if I'm not a local, I won't try to get a date with your fake users.

    41. Re:I run a dating site...this isn't "scamming" by X0563511 · · Score: 1

      I don't want to support him, as I do think what he is doing is wrong, but he's not charging to use the service. The service is free (and "you get what you pay for" isn't always cliche). Before you go off on a warpath with him (justified as I think it would be), try to at least follow your own advise and read what he says!

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    42. Re:I run a dating site...this isn't "scamming" by Apathy451 · · Score: 2, Insightful

      I fail to see why him not charging makes any difference. He's lying for gain - the gain need not be monetary. It's a deceitful and (my opinion) disgusting business practice for one to engage in. Would it be worse if he charged people? Yes. Is it acceptable simply because it's free? No.

      And who's to speak for his future intentions. Seems from his previous arguments (from his replies to other posters) his actions would be acceptable if he were no longer lying -- the ends would justify the means. He also seems to think I'm/we're the bad ones because there are worse evils in the world than him.

      To clarify my stance: His original position was what he's doing isn't fraud (which later became qualified as not fraud by reason of lack of monetary gain). His actions are fraudulent regardless.

      Sorry, man. I read all of his posts in here so far, and I understand what he's saying. But my god, I couldn't disagree with him more.

    43. Re:I run a dating site...this isn't "scamming" by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Uh those pay sites that generate fake members are also fraudulent, just like your site.

      Basically you lost a conscience along the way. But don't worry, there could be a bright future for you in politics.

    44. Re:I run a dating site...this isn't "scamming" by X0563511 · · Score: 1

      Sorry... I'm on your side! But you had railed him using the excuse that he is charging people to use a misrepresented service (which is only partly true, the whole charging part). Aside from that, I agree with you completely. And even my (i think?) rational posts are getting angry responses from him, so I think the less rational responses have pushed him a bit too far to make any further discussion fruitful.

      A lesson to the rest of you: being an asshole doesn't help your argument, even if your argument is golden.

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    45. Re:I run a dating site...this isn't "scamming" by Apathy451 · · Score: 1

      Except I never said he was charging - that's my point :) Profit doesn't only mean monetary gain. People don't need to pay to be customers.

      ( To be fair, I shouldn't have called him an asshole in my first post, but I was mocking the way he called the GP an asshole in the first place. )

    46. Re:I run a dating site...this isn't "scamming" by sm62704 · · Score: 1

      Ok, I found the reference after going all the way to the top of the thread and reading all of it.

      When he said "the only time that people ever filed for fraud against a for-pay site was when those sites used employees to send email from fake profiles to string people along as paying customers" it is a pretty easy assumption he was getting paid.

      I've been going through it in my "slashdot message service" and haven't seen most of the ocmments in it. I am now though, there are some interesting comments.

      What's saddest about this is the guy doesn't think there's anything wrong with decieving people. I think it's pathetic.

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    47. Re:I run a dating site...this isn't "scamming" by X0563511 · · Score: 1

      Ah.

      You know, i bet this whole argument is because of people having differing definitions. Like for me, profit == currency.

      Or the original poster, who thinks deceit != fraud.

      This whole thing is quite silly I think!

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    48. Re:I run a dating site...this isn't "scamming" by X0563511 · · Score: 1

      You aren't the only one with that opinion ;)

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    49. Re:I run a dating site...this isn't "scamming" by ehrichweiss · · Score: 1

      No, I mean they don't MAKE a lot of money even if they have 100% real profiles. Did you have a problem comprehending that easy statement? You overestimate how lucrative the dating site market really is, and my role in this but then again the moment I attack you for being a dick and paying more attention to this than something that really matters, you'll just tell me that I don't know you, yet you'll call me a scammer, accuse me of fraud and all sorts of nasty things that, and I love this part, are simply not true and wholly made up in your little minds. Kudos.

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    50. Re:I run a dating site...this isn't "scamming" by ehrichweiss · · Score: 1

      How would you know? How would ANY of you know? You don't because you've made assumptions that aren't yours to make. You're using your moral standards without any form of check to know if maybe you're crossing the line. It takes more for me to come here and even address everyone's asinine child-like behavior and abuse than it does for some little asshole to hide behind an AC and sling lies and false accusations. I'm sure if you weren't afraid of the truth you'd post with your real credentials.

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    51. Re:I run a dating site...this isn't "scamming" by Grrr · · Score: 2, Insightful

      Making ad revenue - off people who were misled, in order to get them to the website - is fraud.
      The perp isn't going to understand this because he doesn't want to understand. There's no persuading a brick wall. Let it go.

    52. Re:I run a dating site...this isn't "scamming" by CurtMonash · · Score: 1

      Get your panties in a wad much? My users are happy and they're getting the services they're NOT paying for. Call it what you like, the community grew on my site as a result of it and nobody has an issue with that.

      Based on the comments to my blog post on JLove, people DO have an issue with it.

      Anyhow, what you just said is that you can't attract customers without lying to them. Some people, upon realizing that, would find another line of business.

      CAM

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    53. Re:I run a dating site...this isn't "scamming" by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Do you have any grasp of logic whatsoever? Here, I'll help you out: "With 100% real members they don't steal a lot of money." Clear enough now? Probably not. If you were smart you could afford to be honest.

    54. Re:I run a dating site...this isn't "scamming" by ehrichweiss · · Score: 1

      I appreciate your level-headedness - you're the first thusfar. You see, you'd THINK that people shouldn't need to resort to "tricks" to get people to join but let me let you inside what REALLY happens when you have a site that has under 10 users, and this is the biggie..even if it's free. User finds site, looks around, and potentially joins. You get that far right? No, they don't potentially join because they don't see any activity, OR if they do join they leave and never return(they'll barely return if there IS a lot of activity, why people think otherwise I have no clue) because a good dating site won't fill a user's inbox with a match(that's the easiest way to get marked as a spammer). Then people will say to run an affiliate program to get people to join, to which I have to ask, with WHAT? There's no budget for this hobby. OR if I do have one then what happens is a bunch of spammers sign up as affiliates, they spam the hell out of every other site on the planet and I get my site knocked off of any search results I might be lucky enough to achieve because of their actions. Or those people will say to advertise; again, with what? I don't have time to promote it online because plentyoffish.com has their spammy doorway pages that drown out any search results I might benefit from, AND I'm a local site so I'd have to find other local sites to advertise on....there aren't any. So what else is there to make people think that there is a reason to join? There's another site that's at least claiming to be local based that won't even let you see if there are ANY members before you join the site. Should I try that instead? What it all boils down to is that there are no easy answers besides buying out an already established site. Despite everyone saying there should be a better way, no one has any answers because the few that work everyone thinks makes it a scam or fraud.

      I've got 5 years in this business at this point, I setup this site at least 30 different times from scratch, and time and time again if I had less than 200 users it was just as good to never start because no one thought enough of it to join or return no matter how free it was, commercial, homebrew, or open source software/themes didn't matter either. The *only* thing that ever mattered was the number of users on the site; that's what they're there no matter what the price. Make yourself a friend in the dating site business and ask them how much work there is to get noticed at all and to retain a userbase, you'll find that if they're making ANY money, they're far worse than anything I've ever done.

      I'd LOVE to say it wasn't like that at all but that IS human nature whether we want to believe it or not; they think in terms of herd mentality because that's what makes them feel comfortable but they also get super high and mighty when you point out what they fell for to make them comfortable enough to be themselves in the first place, as made evident with the large number of people calling me a scammer and accuse me of committing fraud despite them having zero proof, just the voices in their heads telling them that's the way it should be.

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    55. Re:I run a dating site...this isn't "scamming" by Minwee · · Score: 1

      Scam. You keep using that word. I do not think it means what you think it means.

      You appear to be engaged in a business that is based on lying to prospective customers. How can that not be a scam?

    56. Re:I run a dating site...this isn't "scamming" by X0563511 · · Score: 1

      That makes sense.

      Personally, I would have given up rather than use the techniques that I do, but I can't expect others to have the same principles as I do, and forcing mine on other people (as we can see happening) is equally unjust.

      But, really it's not my problem to deal with, nor is it any of ours. It's entirely between you and your audience.

      I know that what you are saying is true, and it's not just dating sites that have that issue - you would have the same problem with any small business/charity/etc - without the cash to advertise, you have to deal without (and die off) or do less... admirable things. Even without charging, you still have to pay for the stuff to run it off of (in your case, hosting and time - other cases would be supplies, logistics, payroll etc) and as you state good (as in it works, without spamming) advertising is NOT cheap - not cheap at all.

      Thanks for taking the time to read my post(s) and reply with such thought!

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    57. Re:I run a dating site...this isn't "scamming" by Feanturi · · Score: 1

      Way to make assumptions... I don't require any kind of personal agenda to realize when somebody is lying to people, and trying to whitewash it as some necessity due to a flawed business model.

    58. Re:I run a dating site...this isn't "scamming" by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      In his defense, you did just admit to committing fraud, so I'd say calling you a scammer is par for the course.

    59. Re:I run a dating site...this isn't "scamming" by ehrichweiss · · Score: 1

      Modded as troll?!!? WTF, that does not equal "I don't agree with you".

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    60. Re:I run a dating site...this isn't "scamming" by Jah-Wren+Ryel · · Score: 1

      I would like to invite you to join my shopping club - Jah-Go-Head.
      We have many wonderful products, like Dell laptops for $99.99 and gasoline for 99cents/gallon.
      All it takes is a monthly fee of $15 and you too can have access to all of these amazing products.

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    61. Re:I run a dating site...this isn't "scamming" by dbIII · · Score: 1

      And I'll bet those profiles sound really good and new members wonder why they can't ever get hooked up with the fake profiles.

      Not the old bait and switch scam - instead it's jailbait and switch.

      Jokes aside I think this is probably fairly normal behaviour for any dating agency whether it's online or not.

    62. Re:I run a dating site...this isn't "scamming" by ehrichweiss · · Score: 1

      Nah, I don't hang out with known criminals like yourself, despite the public opinion to the contrary. Your arguements are laughable.

      Take a real challenge, start your own dating site EXACTLY like I have in a region of under 300,000 people and email me when you get over 200 real and active members, starting from a completely blank slate - ZERO seed accounts, no budget for advertising(that includes posting messages about it ANYWHERE), lockout out-of-area visitors with a Geo-IP database(I'll make an exception for googlebot and the like), and your free accounts should expire after 90 days of inactivity on the account. You also have to offer it for free with no ad revenue and, well, I'll just let you figure out what the spammers are going to do with 90% of your time but suffice to say that you can't let the spammers keep their accounts on your site to count toward your numbers either. Regardless, you'll never email me cause you'll never be able to accomplish it; you'll see exactly what I see every time I set up a site, you'll try everything that everyone I know in the business has tried previously, you'll fail exactly like each and every one of us has and then you'll realize that you don't have the answers that you thought you did. Seriously, try it. I'll even show you were to get the free software to do the setup and I'll walk you through every little bit to do it, but you'll also have to deal with removing the seed accnts that come with the database to make it 100% legit. If you think you can do better and want to sling names then maybe you should take that walk I've been talking about, my shoes are waiting.

      That said, I wiped my database just so I can collect data as a sociology experiment and publish the findings here; I think that the hate-filed asshats here will have a few less harsh words after I show what really happens without monetary resources.

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    63. Re:I run a dating site...this isn't "scamming" by Jah-Wren+Ryel · · Score: 1

      Nah, I don't hang out with known criminals like yourself, despite the public opinion to the contrary. Your arguements are laughable.

      Hey dood!

      WOOOSSSSSSH!

      No really, WOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOSH!

      Just what 'arguement' did I make? That is so laughable?

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    64. Re:I run a dating site...this isn't "scamming" by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I'm sure if you weren't afraid of the truth you'd post with your real credentials.

      Why don't you put YOUR so-called dating site "credentials" (URL) here?

      You seem to have time to reply to all postings in this thread, while accusing *others* of not caring about important enough stuff, just your denials of fraud and deciept.

      WhatAnAsshole

  31. Re:appeal to a higher authority by ad0n · · Score: 1

    WWJD -- ask What would Jesus Do ?? http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/What_would_Jesus_do ( hehe.. sorry, not meant to be offensive ) . . a .>

    oh come on. . if you RTFA, it's a jewish dating site. at the very least, mod me score:0, bad humour ..!

  32. Proposed Solution by flyneye · · Score: 1

    There are groups of organized computer savvy persons who take it upon themselves to ,infiltrate,hack,threaten and take down kiddie porn sites with their skilz.Vigilance is not a dirty word and if authorities are unable,unskilled or uninterested ,vigilance is the only choice.
              I propose a group of the talented to do the same to scammers and the hosts who allow them to continue.Ddos,hack and generally F**K up the plans of those who disrupt our lives in the name of their own profit.Any dirty trick you can think of multiplied times number of people willing to fight for their privacy and identity to hold back the enemy because the authorities are too slow,ill equiped and clueless anyway.
              Vigilance,it's time to claim your own well being instead of relying on the uninterested and unable to help you.

             

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    1. Re:Proposed Solution by mazarin5 · · Score: 1

      I think you've mixed up vigilance and vigilantism.

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    2. Re:Proposed Solution by flyneye · · Score: 1

      Not especially since the etymology of the words is to watch for danger in both cases.

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    3. Re:Proposed Solution by assassinator42 · · Score: 1

      Bah, accidentally chose underrated instead of overrated.
      I generally don't approve of vigilantism, such as sites like perverted justice (although they're attacking supposed pedophiles rather than child porn). I thought the authorities were generally very good at shutting down child porn sites?
      What's to prevent you from attacking people who are actually innocent? Mobs generally don't make the wisest decisions.

    4. Re:Proposed Solution by flyneye · · Score: 1

      Let's keep in mind that while "mobs"(interesting language,it kinda paints a prejudiced picture)don't make the wisest decisions,neither do cops,judges or legislators who are still people and fallible to the same pitfalls as "mob".
              Either case,mob or cop,the same judgment applies,be fair,be just,be sure and don't take any crap. It's not hard to divide the truth for most people,it's just a rigorous process for public servants and definitely guarantees the truth can be obscured or left out in a courtroom situation.

                Whats to prevent the legal system from attacking people who are innocent? Nothing.
      I only used child porn as an example.There are definitely others interested in justice for terrorist groups,cults,racists and anything else you might like to protect yourself from.
                Take the group "Anonymous" for example.They seem to be fighting the good fight against a cult that in any case I've ever heard mindf**k your loved ones seeking truth and drain their wallets.LOL,I guess you could compare their struggle to taking down a crack dealer by a schoolyard that the "authorities" are legally bound to ignore.This cult also employs dirty tactics available to their wealth,so conventional means are exhausted for the average person.That leaves other legally questionable tactics to solve a problem that no one will confront.
                    Vigilantism is for that time you are backed in a corner with no workable alternative.
      'Nuff said,If you can't see the logic in that you are probably satisfied to use buzzwords like "mob" and continue on living like a sheep waiting for slaughter.

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  33. Could be worse by imscarr · · Score: 2, Funny

    Hopefully your name isn't listed on http://dontdatehimgirl.com/

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  34. Names are not Identities by mikeplokta · · Score: 2, Insightful

    The US in general seems to have a big problem with mistaking names for identities, hence "no-fly lists" and other such idiocies. The solution here is to spread the meme that a name is not an identity, and you should make no assumptions if you see someone's name in an unfamiliar context.

    1. Re:Names are not Identities by ehrichweiss · · Score: 1

      I actually use that to my advantage since the person who uses my real name is a gospel singer, and strangely had the same career in publishing as I did, they claim most of the top google results and those results that are mine don't mention my location or any other identifying marks. So my name is "poisoned" but my identity is plenty safe.

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  35. What a shock! A dating site with fake information! by www.sorehands.com · · Score: 1

    Yes, we are all shocked that dating web sites put up fake information. I'm not talking of the person who posts a fake profile, but dating sites that generate their own fake profiles. I mean the ones like amatuermatch.com and sexsearch.com that put up fake profiles.

    In fact, an ex-employee of sexsearch said that he was surprised that anyone on the site could find a woman. Amateurmatch, will send you send you e-mails from fake women to get you to sign up.

  36. gbear711 by gbear711 · · Score: 1

    Retroactive abortion for the offender.

  37. The danger of a Super-Scraper by GameboyRMH · · Score: 1

    Avoid as much as possible putting your firstname, lastname combination on the web. Too much information is online already. In fact, the more personal information you keep off the web, the better. Setting up a Facebook page is one of the worst things you can do from a privacy standpoint. I'm shocked at some of the things people do, even on Slashdot. Those weekly-changing email obfuscations? Give me a few hours and I'll write an app to decipher most of them. Give me a week and I'll write an app to decipher any concept that's been used so far (name@gSHREWmail.com minus animal is very vulnerable to an app that uses a neural net database, or a "tagged" database of words. This part of the app could even work as a scraper itself. A dictionary of email services (hotmail.com, gmail.com, yahoo.com etc.) would also make the app much more powerful). I have to think it's not worth the spammers' time to steal our emails, because if it was I'm sure they would have done it by now...but imagine using an app like that to crawl many websites and get obfuscated emails. It's really surprising that there isn't a major arms race over this.

    It's also shocking that there are no scraper apps used to build identity information from various sources. With something like that, it could be insanely easy to build up enough information to perform identity theft on a massive scale.

    The golden rule is to keep these three things separate as much as possible: Your avatar, your real name, and your identity information. However sometimes there's a link between two. If you can gather these linked bits of information from many different sources, you can build up a profile. For example, Joe Sixpack posts his phone number on CL, using his avatar, then Joe's phone number and real name are available on an online phone book (I know those things are practically useless but follow along), then Joe's phone number is linked to his obfuscated (pfft) email address on a forum post where a friend was trying to help someone else get in contact with Joe, then Joe's profile on that forum (accessed using the avatar name) contains his date of birth. Oh, "Joe Sixpack" also shows up on a public company phone number directory. You started with an avatar and a phone number and now you have:

    First Name, Last Name
    Email address
    Date of Birth, Age
    Home Phone
    Office Phone
    Place of Employment, knowledge of likely whereabouts at certain times.

    And that's in the case of a person who's relatively responsible with their information online. If Joe had a Facebook account or something, a huge treasure trove of information would be unlocked on Step 3. All of this could be automated in an application that then shows ranked results for prime ID theft targets. Heck you could probably even automate much of the identity theft process!

    Spammers and identity thieves seem to be stupid people...luckily.

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    1. Re:The danger of a Super-Scraper by Todd+Knarr · · Score: 1

      But what's particularly sensitive about any of that information you listed? Name, address and phone number, well, I'm in the phone book, anybody who knows my name can get that information in a few seconds. Who I work for? That's not particularly sensitive (unless you work for No Such Agency or something), and anybody who knows your address can probably ask around and find out if they don't already know. Age and date of birth? Nobody's particularly careful about their age, and date of birth's required so many places that it has to be assumed to be widely known. If anybody knows that, all it shows is that they know who I am. If any entity assumes that knowledge of that information implies the person who knows it is me, that entity obviously has trouble getting two neurons firing in sync.

    2. Re:The danger of a Super-Scraper by NeutronCowboy · · Score: 1

      The point is that it's incredibly easy to track someone down with very little starting information. Some time ago, I managed to find the resume of a person on a dating website with nothing more to go on than her handle. Needless to say, it kinda freaked her out. Or, see above where I found the myspace page of a guy running a shady dating site, with only his slashdot handle and Kentucky to start with.

      It's difficult to automate this, but it is entirely possible to steal someone's identity this way. Beyond that though, it is also easy to track someone down... stalkers are the big danger here, or sociopaths with a grudge.

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    3. Re:The danger of a Super-Scraper by Todd+Knarr · · Score: 1

      True, you can find out that information easily. What boggles me is that that information could pose a threat for identity theft. It's publicly-known information. To impersonate someone well enough to get credit or open a bank account or anything in their name, publicly-known information should not be sufficient.

  38. There are arguments for his conclusion..... by King_TJ · · Score: 2, Interesting

    Sure, a lot of people aren't very good with writing or page layout, and wind up with gaudy, ugly web "presences". But I *also* put a lot of that blame on some of the "social networking" sites that most people turn to these days to create their pages.

    I consider MySpace the biggest contributor to the problem. They may be VERY well known, but it seems like it's difficult NOT to create a cluttered mess out of your profile there! Even small businesses and rock bands trying to use them for some free publicity manage to create a collage of slop, 99% of the time.

    By contrast, the older (and less "hip") competitor, Friendster, tends to build clean, neat pages, even when you fill out their forms with a considerable amount of info about yourself.

    But the concept itself seems sound to me. If you don't want people running across others (real or fake) with your same name, and mistaking them for you - you need to put your OWN info out there for them to find. At least that way, it's clear when they do a search, that there's more than one possibility for which one is you.

    1. Re:There are arguments for his conclusion..... by clang_jangle · · Score: 1

      You have a point or two, but that's not really what I meant. The lack of tasteful design is nothing compared to the rants, raves, and missives people unleash online. Some of those people may actually grow up to have the sense be horrified at what they've posted. :)

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    2. Re:There are arguments for his conclusion..... by True+Vox · · Score: 1

      Eh, I'm not so sure about that. When I set up my space, it took me less then 10 minutes to find a pre-made theme for my page (I can code, but I'm lazy, and at the time MySpace wasn't a big priority for me... not that it is now lol) that, while not PERFECT, was very readable, and doesn't tend to make the eyes bleed (I don't think...).

      I think the bigger issue is most peoples taste. "OMG! It is transparent AND it blinks!!!! SUPER COOL!!!!!" That, right there, I think is the issue. I find most people I know who have a decent sense of usability/design are able to put together a decent page from pre-made themes.(not that I do, I have a poor taste for design, I'm just lucky enough to know not to make things blink, to not have light-on-light, or dark-on-dark text and a few other things of that nature).

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  39. Turning it around by rfunk · · Score: 1

    I've had a web presence with my real name since the mid-90s. Back when Altavista was the dominant search engine I discovered that there were at least two other people showing up in searches that weren't me. So I started a page on my site listing not-me attributes that were showing up in a search for me. I haven't kept up with it though.

  40. Re:appeal to a higher authority by sm62704 · · Score: 1

    So are other historical people, like George Washington, Atilla The Hun, or Charlemaigne?

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    mcgrew's razor: Never attribute to stupidity that which can be explained by greedy self-interest
  41. How I got them to delete me by spaceyhackerlady · · Score: 1

    A while back I started getting emails from a French dating web site, gushingly inviting me to all sorts of events. Needless to say, I had never signed up, and since the email was a spam honeypot address, there was nobody there to sign up anyway.

    I sent them nice email asking to be removed. No dice. I sent them nasty email asking to be removed. Ditto. I looked around their web site for unsubscribe information. You kidding?

    So I got nasty and updated "my" profile, after making an educated guess on what the password I had never set was. I went on at some length about my fondness for bestiality and pedophilia, with a bit of necrophilia on the side.

    They nuked my account within the hour. :-)

    ...laura

    1. Re:How I got them to delete me by jsalbre · · Score: 1

      You, madam, are my hero. :) (For now anyway, I'm sure I'll find a new one next week.)

    2. Re:How I got them to delete me by hyades1 · · Score: 1

      You just managed to pull off the all-time, number one, best ever, most successful exploit in the world for getting yourself asked out on dates by people with enough class to adore you for your brains, wit and style and worship you for your sense of humour.

      If you happen to be in the market, of course. If you aren't, non-jerks everywhere must weep bitter tears.

      --
      I've calculated my velocity with such exquisite precision that I have no idea where I am.
  42. Since when do dating sites... by Amisinthe · · Score: 1

    provide first and LAST names to casual browsers? That right there should raise some flags.

  43. Short version by Yvan256 · · Score: 1

    There is probably 100's of people with the same name as you anyway, so websites filled with accounts in "your name" don't make any difference.

    News at 11.

  44. Pointless to argue by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Perhaps you are just angry because your name isn't associated to a porn stage name as mine is? I'm also apparently an IT professional, activist, and various other things. My name is also fairly uncommon.

    I don't own my name, I own the association. If more identifying info is used with my name that points specifically to me without my permission, then there is a problem. Otherwise, the use of my name alone is meaningless and pointless to argue.

  45. Re:appeal to a higher authority by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    LOL!!! Jesus is historical? Only in the Bible. That's like using Green Eggs and Ham as the sole proof for the existence of a guy named Sam I Am.

  46. That doesn't help those of us with common names. by basscomm · · Score: 1

    I didn't really think that my actual, real name was too common until I started trying to Google myself. Wikipedia has a page with my name on it, but none of the people referenced there are me.

    Trying to 'reclaim' my identity from these millions and millions of pages with my name on it doesn't seem to be a particularly good use of my time. I'm more concerned with my username being used by some engineering company in Nigeria, since that's my 'real' online identity.

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    http://crummysocks.com
  47. www.centralkydating.com by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0
    1. Re:www.centralkydating.com by ehrichweiss · · Score: 1

      Thanks. I'll await the slashdot effect to go away before I put the site back up. Besides, my .htaccess only allows locals to join by IP since we have a fixed number of ISPs in this town it's easy to calculate.

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      0x09F911029D74E35BD84156C5635688C0
    2. Re:www.centralkydating.com by X0563511 · · Score: 1

      So what happens when one of your "customers" (not sure what to call them, as it's free) travels? Filtering by IP is not a safe way to do it. (matter of fact, there really isn't a good way to do it)

      --
      For large sets, this will be our guide even unto death, for the LORD will work for each type of data it is applied to...
    3. Re:www.centralkydating.com by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0
    4. Re:www.centralkydating.com by ehrichweiss · · Score: 1

      They don't get on the site. Period. Since I ain't getting paid for any of it, including fighting the extensive number of spammers(far more than any other site I manage by about 2,000 fold; dating sites are a prize to them for V!agra spam), I have no obligation, desire or otherwise to provide the service outside the community.

      Hell after the bullshit that everyone has tried to put me through I'm thinking about just wiping the database as an experiment to show that without such a technique, users don't sign up for sites with zero members if you have zero budget for advertising, etc. It'd make for a great sociology experiment and I could grab front page of /. once I have my data. That'd give the little old women here something to complain about as well I guess.

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      0x09F911029D74E35BD84156C5635688C0
  48. Who TF cares? by wbtittle · · Score: 1

    I don't worry about it anymore. You have to apply a little analysis to the results you get from any search these days. Searching for your name will result in many hits. People doing background searches with google are likely to stop doing so because the faulty information is getting too high.

    I use to take email seriously. If someone sent me something that said "You account is overdue" I looked into it. Now I don't worry about it because they are all phishing. The same will be true of "web presences"

     

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    God: "I don't leave footprints!"
  49. Why is this a problem? by taustin · · Score: 1

    I mean, really, if there's a woman out there who wouldn't date me because my name appears in a fake profile on a scam dating site (and they're all scams), then quite honestly, she's too stupid for me to be interested in anyway.

    1. Re:Why is this a problem? by CurtMonash · · Score: 1

      I mean, really, if there's a woman out there who wouldn't date me because my name appears in a fake profile on a scam dating site (and they're all scams), then quite honestly, she's too stupid for me to be interested in anyway.

      Well, there is that. And indeed the "harm" story I posted was of a Christian who wouldn't date a guy who appeared to be a Jew. Blech.

      Still, maybe the next outfit who tries the same approach to page generation will make up some falsehoods that bother you more. So I think these are worthwhile questions to ask.

      Curt Monash

      --
      To err is human. To forgive is good system design.
    2. Re:Why is this a problem? by taustin · · Score: 1

      If the source is obviously not credible, it doesn't matter what lies they make up. And if the source is obviously not credible, anybody who believes it is stupid, and not worth my time.

      It really is an IQ test. You didn't pass.

    3. Re:Why is this a problem? by CurtMonash · · Score: 1

      If the source is obviously not credible, it doesn't matter what lies they make up. And if the source is obviously not credible, anybody who believes it is stupid, and not worth my time.

      It really is an IQ test. You didn't pass.

      Actually, the one who failed the test is you.

      I think the standard Hilary Putnam final examination question works well here, which was:

      Part A: Write a question suitable for this class.
      Part B: Answer it.
      You will be graded on both parts.

      But thanks for playing.

      CAM

      --
      To err is human. To forgive is good system design.
    4. Re:Why is this a problem? by taustin · · Score: 1

      Dude, you're the one getting defensive. The truth isn't always warm and fuzzy.

  50. Whose Name? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    How do you know it's "your name?" If it is your Firs+Lastname as the search then you sure to come up with other people with your same name. I thought I have a random username once (random letters and numbers) and when I googled it I found hundreds of links with that combo.

  51. Re:Hmm. Just the kind of person I'm interested in. by realisticradical · · Score: 1

    Works for me. Google says that I'm an insect biologist, photographer, painter, author, Austrailian rugby player, and pretty good looking based on somebody else's facebook page.

  52. Online Reputation Management by PHXX · · Score: 0, Offtopic

    The best way to fight this is to use an Online Reputation Management Service. It is best to sign up with a company that can manage SEO effectively, for obvious reasons. I know a company that offers a very good service for this. PHXX.COM, Virtual Internet Profile. They see most interest from high net worth individuals, but anyone could use the service.

  53. Solution in Vernor Vinge's Rainbows End by justrob · · Score: 4, Interesting

    In Vernor Vinge's near-future novel Rainbows End, an anarchist group gets fed up with trying to sort out what information about people is correct or not.

    Their solution is to flood the net with false information about everyone, making the net a useless resource for gossip.

    Available free and legal online:
    http://vrinimi.org/rainbowsend.html

    1. Re:Solution in Vernor Vinge's Rainbows End by initialE · · Score: 1

      Vernor Vinge wrote about the GNAA? And he expects to make money from that novel?

      --
      Starbucks, Harbuckle of Breath.
  54. Legally, there are steps you can take. by nickull · · Score: 2, Interesting
    In reality, it is probably far more effort than it is worth. CAVEAT - I am not a lawyer and this is not giving you legal advice. See proper legal advice if it bothers you.

    Here are some tips:

    1. For starters, unless you signed up, your photograph is intellectual property owned by the person who took the photo. They can contact the site owner(s) and demand it be taken down. Most of the scan sites register with godaddy.com as it makes the true owner blind so I doubt you'd actually be able to find the real owner and hold them legally accountable.

    2. If you have suffered some kind of damages or embarrassment (example - argument with your spouse), you can actually start a legal action in your own jurisdiction and sue the legal owner. In lack of the legal entities real identification, you can sue domain name holder proxy and force them to respond in your legal jurisdiction. It makes it a big advantage for you as they will have to contract out responses to your claims to a legal firm in your area.

    3. Immediately let the site owner know (and document) that you are not okay with your name and photo being used. Give them a reasonable amount of time to bring it down before commencing legal action.

    Now on to the not just legal stuff:

    1. Find out who they are and show up at their doorstep. For example, there was a guy who regularly spammed me in Vancouyer, claiming it was his right. I stalked him and showed up at a user group meeting and basically stood in front of him asking him to chose one of two sentences to say. His choices were "I will never spam you again" or "please stop beating my head in with a chair". He got the message. I am going to China later this year to confront someone else while there on normal business. Scaring the shit out of someone works well when they make the connection that they cannot just do shit online with no consequence.

    2. Point you profile at his competition.(if you have access)

    3. Find out who hosts his site and make it very uncomfortable for them to continue doing so. Make it clear that you have been in touch with authorities and will be demanding an audit of their sites they serve.

    4. Disrupt their business model.

    Your best bet is probably to ignore it completely though as all of these will take you much more time than it will be worth. At the end of the day they have probably been sneaky enough to get around the rules in a way that will require you to pay money, spend time chasing a ghost.

    Good luck.

    --
    "Question everything, including this!" - http://technoracle.blogspot.com/
  55. Let's see what we can do about JLove by Animats · · Score: 1

    OK, the site has an "about" page with a Toronto address, and an address for a US office:

    269 S. Beverly Drive, #1070
    Beverly Hills, CA 90212

    This turns out to be Beverly Hills Postal Place, a mail drop. It's in California, so they're subject to California law.

    California has a right of publicity law: (a) Any person who knowingly uses another's name, voice, signature, photograph, or likeness, in any manner on or in products, merchandise, or goods, or for purposes of advertising or selling, or soliciting purchases of products, merchandise, goods or services, without such person's prior consent, ... shall be liable for any damages sustained by the person or persons injured as a result thereof. In addition, in any action brought under this section, the person who violated the section shall be liable to the injured party or parties in an amount equal to the greater of seven hundred fifty dollars ($750) or the actual damages suffered by him or her as a result of the unauthorized use, and any profits from the unauthorized use that are attributable to the use and are not taken into account in computing the actual damages.... Punitive damages may also be awarded to the injured party or parties. The prevailing party in any action under this section shall also be entitled to attorney's fees and costs.

    That seems to apply here.

    Small claims court would seem to be appropriate. Once you file a suit, you can send a subpoena to the mail drop company to get the actual name and address of the box owner.

    "JLove" is supposedly a unit of "Only Media Group LLC" in Toronto, but neither JLove nor Only Media are listed with California corporation search or Dun and Bradstreet for the US or Canada. But a contact page for JLove affiliates leads to "Billing Provided By: Only Media UK LTD, 7 Petworth Road, Haslemere, Surrey, GU272JB". That doesn't match the address filed with Companies House (UK), but that address is an accountant and is also the contact for other companies. The address in Surrey leads to a secondhand furniture shop.

  56. Who did you piss off??? by clevguru · · Score: 1

    I don't know your personal situation, but in addition spammers it could also be someone, perhaps a stalker creating these logins/sites with your name? Just a thought.

    1. Re:Who did you piss off??? by clevguru · · Score: 1

      I don't know your personal situation, but in addition ^ TO ^ spammers it could also be someone, perhaps a stalker creating these logins/sites with your name? Just a thought.

  57. Re:Hmm. Just the kind of person I'm interested in. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    So many of you say that "you wouldn't want to get to know a girl like that anyway". You forget about the fact that this girl could have been quite good looking.

    Not every girl is the one you want to spend the rest of your life with...

  58. HEY! by FDCCD2BA · · Score: 3, Funny

    Copycat.

  59. You're welcome! by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    But why don't you change that redirect to this discussion thread instead? That way your loyal members won't have to ask you by e-mail why the site seems to be going to this 'nerds website', and you won't have to come up with a BS reply.

    You obviously believe you didn't do anything wrong when you set that site up with the fake member profiles, so I'm sure you don't mind being perfectly open and honest with your members *now*.

    1. Re:You're welcome! by ehrichweiss · · Score: 1

      Cause I don't answer to you or anyone here, or on my site for that matter. I don't have a problem with what I had to do to build my member base since it was free and that's it. But believe what you want, you're gonna do it anyway... Tilt at some more windmills and let that useless FISA stuff fall to the side...

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      0x09F911029D74E35BD84156C5635688C0
    2. Re:You're welcome! by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Beware attacks. Someone is likely going to succeed in breaking in, should they care enough. I'd up the vigilance-factor for a good while now.

    3. Re:You're welcome! by ehrichweiss · · Score: 1

      Doesn't matter. I can take it down for a year and I won't notice anything except for more free time and a fatter wallet. Besides, if someone were to try to break in then I'd say they don't have their priorities straight and should check the mirror.

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      0x09F911029D74E35BD84156C5635688C0
  60. Global Namespaces Considered Harmful by Ungrounded+Lightning · · Score: 1

    A friend of mine named "Mark Miller" found that there were a number of other computer scientists with the same name.

    He joked that he should get together with them and submit, in a timely fashion for an April edition of a learned computer science journal, a jointly-authored article titled "Global Namespaces Considered Harmful" - with no text, just a long list of authors and disambiguating affiliation information.

    (He also joked that, since one of the meanings of "mark" is a synonym for "bit", "Mark Miller" obviously meant "computer scientist" - or at least "data processor".)

    --
    Bantam Dominique roosters crow a four-note song. Once you've heard it as "Happy BIRTHday" you can't NOT hear it that way
  61. Slashdot jumped the shark by floydian · · Score: 1

    Sometime, I didn't notice it, but seriously, the problem is a legitimate one: whether you'd like to have an "online presence" or not, the fact is that scammers will probably be able to somehow get your real name off of somewhere (for one example, an Outlook account from a compromised machine), and now your name is out there.

    And I came to the discussion to read about some intelligent and not-so-intelligent ideas on how to fight this issue. Instead, all I find is an infantile discussion on how dumb it is to have a so-called online presence anyway.

    Not the point, guys. As the guy who claims to be a scammer said, names are not protected by copyright, but surely an identity is somehow protected by law? This is complicated, and I do not claim to have any ideas, but the thing is that everyone's discussing something very off-topic and to be blunt, childish.

    If people want to have their presence, surely we can live and let live? Let's focus on the problem here. But maybe this isn't the right forum for it anyway.

    I think I'll head off to Schneier's site instead..

  62. Re:Hmm. Just the kind of person I'm interested in. by Xtifr · · Score: 1

    Lucky SOB! I'm a county music writer, christian filmmaker and minor league baseball player. Any one of those would be enough for me to want to put a shotgun in my mouth and pull the trigger, just to improve the gene pool, if not to wipe out the shame.

    I would kill to be an insect biologist, photographer, painter, author, Australian rugby player, and pretty good looking. :)

  63. Re:appeal to a higher authority by sm62704 · · Score: 1

    Actually you're wrong. There are quite a few documents from that time. To argue that he didn't perform miracles is rational, to argue that he didn't exist is not. His existance is documented.

    --
    mcgrew's razor: Never attribute to stupidity that which can be explained by greedy self-interest
  64. Reveals Disturbing Social Flaws by ixiWildflowerixi · · Score: 1

    Wouldn't setting up a web-presence to "tell the truth" be counter-effective since it would only enable "name-scammers" to actually fill those accounts with (more) accurate information?

    In any case, the really disturbing thing here isn't that some scammers created an account using "your" name. Even if it's a rare one, it's unlikely that there's just one of "you". Even if there actually is just one, with ~7 billion people on this planet you should by default assume that there are more (mankind needs NAMEv6 ^.^). But this brings me to my point:

    The disturbing thing is that
    - [intellectually] in the year 2008 people in general still seem to have trouble understanding the nature of the internet and are still taking everything there at face value and
    - [socially] that according to the OP even (potential) friends believe something solely because of some name they read somewhere.

    1. Re:Reveals Disturbing Social Flaws by ixiWildflowerixi · · Score: 1

      On 2nd read, not sure if it became clear and can't seem to edit the previous post, so here an addendum:

      If your boss googles "your" name, finds out that there is a porn star with that name and concludes that since you have the same name you therefore must be a porn star ... then the underlying problem is not someone using that name, but your boss being an idiot.

      If your boyfriend googles "your" name, finds out that there is a porn star with that name and concludes that since you have the same name you therefore must be a porn star ... then the underlying problem is not someone using that name, but your boyfriend not knowing you at all and having some severe trust issues.

      That's also my answer to the question: Keep a low profile with "real" information on the net and making sure individuals/companies you converse with follow data privacy (basic human right in Europe! http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Data_privacy) is a given at any time.

      If you want to fight those scams, educate the people and feed them some common sense.

    2. Re:Reveals Disturbing Social Flaws by CurtMonash · · Score: 1

      Wouldn't setting up a web-presence to "tell the truth" be counter-effective since it would only enable "name-scammers" to actually fill those accounts with (more) accurate information?

      OK. That's an interesting challenge. Joe Blow sets up the website www.joe-blow-from-oshkosh.com, and DateScammer.com scrapes it and changes a few details, while beating him in SEO.

      I'll have to think about that one.

      Curt Monash

      --
      To err is human. To forgive is good system design.
  65. Personally ... by PPH · · Score: 1

    ... I am quite upset when people misappropriate my name from online content.

    Signed,
    Likmi Balsac

    --
    Have gnu, will travel.
  66. You don't answer to anyone on your site? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 2, Funny

    I wonder how they feel about that once they glance at those terms & conditions and the like, dispute resolving, etc.

    At least it shows your character - what's that you said to the other AC poster? "Shows real backbone."? Seems like you have none.

    To top that off: Really, how many more times are you going to mention that FISA thing? You don't know what I, or any of the others you've used that line on, have done with regards to that matter. Nor does it matter what we have or have not done. You don't tell a blind person to suck it up 'cos at least they're not paraplegic, and tell the paraplegic to quit whining because at least they're not dying of necrotizing fasciitis. So, honestly, stop trying to distract people from your practices and your clear refusal to be open and honest about it - despite vehemently stating that you do not believe you did anything wrong whatsoever - by chanting 'FISA' every time.

    While we -do- know, from your own admission, that:
    - you have lied and deceived
    - that you think there's nothing wrong with that
    - that you refuse to be open and honest about it (and no, a disclaimer stating that profile data may not actually be truthful doesn't convey "hundreds of the profiles on this site are fake and created by us to lure in new members")
    - that you refuse to be open and honest about it to your members now, as per your parent reply
    - that you will grasp at straws to try and either take attention away from you or instill some form of misguided guilt upon others for allegedly not paying attention to bigger issues; completely baseless accusations at best

    With your only defense being:
    - everybody does it (I'm sure your mother's asked you the "If everybody jumps into [some body of liquid], you will too?")
    - it's too hard to get a dating site off the ground without doing so (worst sob story on slashdot I've read in a while)

    Although I'll agree with you that you are, at least by legal definition, quite likely not defrauding anybody*, I'll agree with the other AC and say that yes, you are indeed, a .. well, you get the idea.

    * although collecting their profile data based on the premise that there will be hundreds of profiles for them to scour through, knowing that a portion of those are (or were) completely made-up, may actually be fraud. IANAL. Neither are you.

    I do commend you on making your site completely free, however; and I'm sure we seem rather thankless (not that most of us would have anything to thank for, not living in Kentucky and all). However, I do think most of us applaud your free site - we're just not a great fan of the business practice you used to start it up.. but moreover, we're not a great fan of not being honest about it to your members *now*. You were honest about it to us, the Slashdot crowd, so why not to them? As you said, you're not making any money off of the service - you're probably just spending money on it (hosting, etc.). So what do you have to lose?

    1. Re:You don't answer to anyone on your site? by ehrichweiss · · Score: 1

      "To top that off: Really, how many more times are you going to mention that FISA thing? You don't know what I, or any of the others you've used that line on, have done with regards to that matter."

      And yet you nor anyone else knows what I am doing in regards to my site either, dumbass. Believe what you want, you're going to anyway regardless of what the truth is.

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      0x09F911029D74E35BD84156C5635688C0
  67. Really? by GoodNicksAreTaken · · Score: 1

    If people can't tell the difference between you and the other people online, or aren't at least willing to find the truth out, do you really want anything to do with them?

  68. How do you know it was you? by Orig_Club_Soda · · Score: 0

    Was it just your first and last name, or was there a specific bit of information that indicated you and no one else. Sounds like paranoia to me.

  69. Might not be good advice by treeves · · Score: 1
    to expect a web presence to prevent this name scamming, seeing how Curt Monash has a pretty significant web presence,

    Curt A. Monash, Ph.D. President, Monash Research curtmonash@nospam.com (978) 555-1212 CurtMonash on AIM and Twitter Backups: curtmonash@nospam2.com, (978) 555-1213 Main website: http://www.monash.com/ Guide to our research: http://www.monash.com/blogs.html Required reading if you want to pitch me: http://www.strategicmessaging.com/how-to-pitch-me/2008/05/16/ New Network World blog: http://www.networkworld.com/community/monash

    and yet he still fell victim. Who knows, it may be the opposite strategy is better.

    --
    ...the future crusty old bastards are already drinking the Kool-Aid.
    1. Re:Might not be good advice by CurtMonash · · Score: 1

      to expect a web presence to prevent this name scamming, seeing how Curt Monash has a pretty significant web presence,

      and yet he still fell victim. Who knows, it may be the opposite strategy is better.

      Well, *I* am not hurt by this. It was way down the list of hits on my name -- because I DO have a big online presence. ;)

      Curt Monash

      --
      To err is human. To forgive is good system design.
  70. Re:appeal to a higher authority by scotsghost · · Score: 1

    From your link:

    The historical Jesus is Jesus of Nazareth as reconstructed by historians using historical methods. These historical methods use critical analysis of gospel texts as the primary source for the biography of Jesus, along with non-biblical sources to reconstruct the historical context of first-century Judea.

    That reads pretty much like they're getting information about Jesus solely from the Bible. I believe Jesus existed, but seriously, non-Biblical documentation of his existence is ... scarce.

  71. SEO by neil-ngc · · Score: 1

    Well, I don't see this sort of random name generation as a real problem...it's unlikely that you're the only person in the world with your name. So if you're really that unique, consider changing your name.

    That said, it's not hard to bury these sorts of things. SEO typically works by creating lots of links to your official page. My flickr page is first result google kicks back for my name, with a professional photographer in Belfast with the same name coming in second. He's actually quite good if anyone cares.

    Why do I win? Creative commons. My photography is not anything resembling professional quality, but I make most of it available for free. Everyone who uses my pictures has to attribute the picture, and most of them end up linking back. Lots of links means high googlerank. Result is that anything incriminating, legitimate or no, is buried at least past the first page.

  72. Here is the JLove physical Toronto Address by nickull · · Score: 1

    Only Media Group, 406-250 Ferrand Drive, Toronto, ON, Canada, M3C 3G8 Got it from their license and terms at: http://www.jlove.co.il/popterms.aspx Under Canadian Corporate law, this has to be a physical place, not a virtual place. Any corporate entity has to have their records located at such a place and open for inspection upon legal request. This is the registered and records office of the company in Toronto. YOu can actually go into this address and find someone. Here is a map. http://maps.google.com/maps?source=ig&hl=en&rlz=&q=Only%20Media%20Group%2C%20406-250%20Ferrand%20Drive%2C%20Toronto%2C%20ON%2C%20Canada%2C%20M3C%203G8&um=1&ie=UTF-8&sa=N&tab=wl It is right off Don Mills road. The license does say you can send in a written request. If it bothers you that much, you should just send them a legal letter by registered mail. We have laws in Canada BTW so you can take legal action. This isn't really hard to fix so I am not sure why it made Slashdot front page.

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    "Question everything, including this!" - http://technoracle.blogspot.com/
  73. LinkedIn and MySpace pages by NeutronCowboy · · Score: 1

    For anyone interested in some more information on this guy, see below for his LinkedIn and MySpace page.

    http://www.linkedin.com/pub/4/335/230
    http://www.myspace.com/ehrichweiss

    Fascinating stuff.

    --
    Those who can, do. Those who can't, sue.
  74. I realize my situation is somewhat unusual by CurtMonash · · Score: 1

    I'm pretty confident that I am the only, or very close to the only, Curt Monash out there. (People do family trees because of the connection to the Sir John Monash that Monash University was named after.) On the other hand, there are hundreds of search engine hits that really refer to me, one way or the other. So I'm one of the relatively few people who, when he searches on his name, gets 200 straight hits all about him.

    But my point on web presence was this -- who cares if you're the 53rd Joe Blow to come up in a search that's simply on your name? Somebody who really wants the Joe Blow who went to Alfred E. Neumann High School in East Overshoe, Montana, where you were President of the Cow-Tipping Club, will likely succeed in finding your page. And that's a GOOD thing for managing your online reputation.

    Curt Monash

    --
    To err is human. To forgive is good system design.
  75. But we do know what you do (well, did) by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    > with regards to your site.

    "And yet you nor anyone else knows what I am doing in regards to my site either, dumbass."
    We do, because you told us; unless, of course, -that- was a lie, and your site really didn't use fake profiles to lure new members in at all. But if that were the case, I doubt you would be so vehemently defending yourself.

    I do so enjoy your insult-vocabulary, though - picking a random word from it completely negates all of the points made in the posts you're replying to :)

    But back to the matter at hand - are you going to be up front, open and honest with your members (all 240 or so of them)? You can just say 'yes' / 'no', or perhaps 'yes, douchebag' / 'no, you right cunt' if you prefer; it's not a difficult question and really, either answer will be much better PR than what your comments have brought forth so far.

    1. Re:But we do know what you do (well, did) by ehrichweiss · · Score: 1

      No, you don't because, duh, you're not here and I have no reason to disclose my operation to judgemental losers. And I'll answer your last question with

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  76. Re:getting signed up by An+anonymous+Frank · · Score: 1

    I found myself signed up to a bunch of sites I couldn't make heads nor tail of, until eventually I also got signed onto a yahoo forum. Since this had a structure I understood, it became clear to me that spammers were injecting email addresses in there, to (possibly) scan the group for people who complained about being signed up and thus confirming the validity of their addresses!

    I simply notified abuse and they acted promptly; perhaps most recipients were less inclined to bother to peruse the content and realize it was bogus.

  77. you have to be a troll by circletimessquare · · Score: 1

    there certainly are dating sites with fake ads

    but anyone actually doing that is smart enough not to brag about it online

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  78. Well, HOW does that help? by Moraelin · · Score: 2, Insightful

    Well, how does that help?

    Let's say I'm named Joe Random and even register www.joerandom.com, blog under that name on a site or two, I'm on Twitter under that name, on Slashdot, etc. Basically that I make myself very visible on the net. Ok.

    Now suppose someone puts my name on a few dating sites, posts other crap in my name, maybe even make a few posts on usenet groups (which by now are fully searchable) in my name. Maybe send some spam in my name too. So someone googling for me, finds those too.

    How's my already having a web presence prevent the damage there? How's my blogging, which would probably be along the same lines of "I'm a disillusioned programmer who's seen far too many incompetents" and "look how smart I can sound about <random topic>" as on Slashdot, going to prevent my SO getting horrified by finding my name (faked) on Adult Friend Finder or the like? Do you think she'll go, basically, "nah, he can't possibly be interested in blogging about PHBs _and_ in fucking other women, at the same time. No one has room in his head for both," or what? :P

    Or maybe she'll think, "nah, if he were looking for other women, he'd put it on the front of his web page that he told me about, instead of going through those sites." :P

    It seems to me that even if my existing web presence spells out exactly what I believe and do, on any given topic (which is already way too much effort, _and_ forfeiting any privacy I might enjoy), how many people do you think it would prevent from jumping to conclusions anyway, when such an account generated by someone else seems "proof" to the contrary? E.g., let's say I put in big bold letters on my web site that I'm strictly monogamous and love my SO. Then someone finds my name (faked) on Adult Friend Finder or whatnot. Want to bet that more than half will bet that the text on my official web site is just a bullshit smokescreen, and the faked one is the real me unveiled?

    So it seems to me like having my own web presence, by itself, really wouldn't do that much.

    Maybe if I spent time googling for myself, and posting a lengthy disclaimer for every such occurence... well, it might do a little, but at the expense of (A) more effort than I'm arsed to do, and (B) sounding like an insecure sack of complexes, who's probably having the ego-google on auto-refresh just to see what anyone might ever say about him. Plus, once a couple of people get the B impression, then they can DDOS me by just posting enough crap everywhere in my name to fill all my free time and then some.

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    1. Re:Well, HOW does that help? by kesuki · · Score: 1

      this is why we should have taught everyone never to ever use their real names online. everyone should have an online handle, sites in 'real names' by default are assumed to be generated off phone book data and bots, to try and generate traffic.

      but for some reason, nobody managed to convince people that on the internet, you shouldn't use your real name... I learned from my early usenet days, that using your real name was a bad idea, but i was too busy using the internet to tell everyone not to use their real identities online...

    2. Re:Well, HOW does that help? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Not using real names? How about professors? Professionals? They're required to put their real names on the web.

  79. Depends on where you live by Beryllium+Sphere(tm) · · Score: 1

    As others have pointed out, one question is whether that actually was his name harvested by a bot as opposed to a real person with the same name.

    The next question is whether his state has a law like this:
    "Any person whose name, portrait, or picture is used without having first obtained the written consent of such person... for advertising purposes or for the purposes of trade, such persons may maintain a suit in equity against the person, firm or corporation so using such person's name, portrait, or picture to prevent and restrain the use thereof; and may also sue and recover damage for any injuries sustained by reason of such use. And if the defendant shall have knowingly used such person's name, portrait or picture in such manner as is forbidden or declared to be unlawful by this chapter, the jury, in its discretion, may award exemplary damages." Code of Virginia, Section 8.01-40

  80. Re:Names are not unique/. site is under constructi by aoeu · · Score: 1

    on, possibly slashdotted

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  81. Meet a jewish single (flesh-hungry alien) today! by level4 · · Score: 1

    I don't think I'd want to meet the girl in their signup page without some heavy weapons ..

    http://jlove.com/register.aspx

    Or do Jewish guys normally go for the "extraterrestrial look"? I don't know, I liked Natalie Portman ..

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  82. Re: Brand by TaoPhoenix · · Score: 1

    You're partly right.

    I've done a passable job with my Web Branding, or so the /. Mod comments seem to tell me.

    The Seething Masses will latch onto the scurrilous results, howeve! "Did you know that _____, of AmazingBlog fame really owned a purple venezuelan trucking company that ran over baby animals because it was cheaper than professional meat packing!!?"

    I eventually landed on an approach that at least seems to stall the absolute laziest scammers, but is mostly solid enough for people to take me seriously.

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  83. Re: "The good ol' days are fading" by TaoPhoenix · · Score: 1

    Every good name under 5 characters is taken - and many longer ones. I almost created a specific use account with a very fancy name, only to discover someone else has a myspace by that handle.

    I have to think we have a model for this already - big cities, with 25 "John Smiths", etc. We might have to create a culture such that "the site I give you is the site you're supposed to look at, and I am not responsible for web searches". Yea, I know, then people will complain about scammers round 2, etc.

    There's a concept called Attestation, which says that someone (with the web, including "digital entities") who establishes themselves as a quality source of info, and therefore other direct recommendations by that source get weighted. (/. is one, but far from the only example.)

    Misc. scam accounts should be weighted less.

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  84. Re: Name Forms by TaoPhoenix · · Score: 1

    Hmm. At least one part of that is almost a self-forcing result. Most everyone develops at least a partial understanding of connotation semantics, and picks up on the difference between Josephus and Joey.

    Because schools are notorios for "Roll Call First and ask preferences later", a kid tagged as "Josephus" will garner early social experiences that then begin to influence him.

    It's not really socially acceptible right now to randomly change names like clothes, so that option is not yet here.

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  85. similarly... by themushroom · · Score: 1

    Today I mistyped a domain name and wound up on a parking page, and the obvious keyword used in the link farm was "lease". And then I see a dialog balloon pop up in the left corner, where the heading is "Crush Report (2 emails)", and the text says someone named Ryan in Bellevue WA has a crush on me. Uh... I'm straight. Mythical Ryan Person, if you want to make a gay proposition, why not do it on a service I am a member of, not a park page?
    (my first reaction: whispering to the screen, "I told you not to email me here!")

  86. Re: Keys vs. Original by TaoPhoenix · · Score: 1

    Problem is, "unique keys" are too close to "net noise" accounts, such as js101523 to your example above.

    We remark that for all the work we have done to progress the state of "average users" from "Revenge of the Nerds" to where we are now, deliberately malicious noise accounts still confuse even moderately smart users.

    I tried a long time ago to pick a really smart handle, which was distinguishable which as the Original *did not require keys*.

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  87. Re: Names vs. More Common... by TaoPhoenix · · Score: 1

    It's getting worse with "We have included the results for Bauer, unless you turn them off".

    I joke about being the professional Rabid Spelling Enforcer at work, but it's amazing the mindspace damage spelling confusion creates.

    "Today Class, we will learn about Harriet Tubman".
    "Tubgirl?" :: Professor bangs head on demoboard::

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  88. Re: Whuffie by TaoPhoenix · · Score: 1

    Brilliant recommendation, Bebop. I tagged it for study.

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  89. Re: Emails by TaoPhoenix · · Score: 1

    Wow, this issue is really proving tough!

    Employers and sometimes family like "YourName@Somewhere.com" emails because it makes them feel all nice & cozy that it's "you".

    While I hadn't planned out this far, I don't have a landline at all. Maybe that helps.

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  90. The old answers are the best by Rysc · · Score: 1

    Step one: produce for yourself a handle.

    Step two: use it everywhere online and only in a few areas associate it with your real name.

    Result: name scrapers pick up your alias/handle and little harm is done. Your actual name is discoverable if someone knows your handle, but in most cases is not important and is not sought.

    People running around with their real name up-front are just plain *stupid* and asking for trouble. Basic security, people.

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    1. Re:The old answers are the best by CurtMonash · · Score: 1

      Step one: produce for yourself a handle.

      Step two: use it everywhere online and only in a few areas associate it with your real name.

      Result: name scrapers pick up your alias/handle and little harm is done. Your actual name is discoverable if someone knows your handle, but in most cases is not important and is not sought.

      People running around with their real name up-front are just plain *stupid* and asking for trouble. Basic security, people.

      That's completely irrelevant to the question I posed. But thanks anyway.

      Curt Monash

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  91. Re: Emails by Mister+Whirly · · Score: 1

    If forced to use a email address with your name at work, don't use that email account for signing up for stuff, etc. Create a new free one without any part of your real name in it (and forward mail if you only want to look at one email). I have a total "throwaway" email that I use when I need to give out an email address to register for something. The only thing I use it for is registering for stuff, other than that I just empty the thing out every time I need to use it..

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  92. Re: Emails by TaoPhoenix · · Score: 1

    Yep.

    I created an entire spread of emails because I desired to protect my primary rec mail from the worst ravages of newsletters, etc.

    There are very few instances of my Name-Email out there.

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