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Rutger's Student Dharun Ravi Sentenced To 30-Day Jail Time

parallel_prankster writes "New York Times reports that a judge in New Jersey has sentenced Dharun Ravi to 30 days in jail Monday for using a webcam to spy on his Rutgers University roommate having sex with a man, in a case that galvanized concern about suicide among gay teenagers but also prompted debate about the use of laws against hate crimes. The case drew wide attention because his roommate, Tyler Clementi, jumped to his death from the George Washington Bridge in September 2010, a few days after learning of the spying. A jury convicted Mr. Ravi in March of all 15 counts against him, which included invasion of privacy and bias intimidation. The relatively light sentence — he faced up to 10 years in prison — surprised many who were watching the hearing, as it came after the judge spent several minutes criticizing Mr. Ravi's behavior."

683 comments

  1. No wrongful death? by atari2600a · · Score: 0

    How the hell does that even work?

    1. Re:No wrongful death? by ClioCJS · · Score: 4, Insightful

      Because if I hurt your feelings so bad you kill yourself, it's really your fault for having a glass jaw. I mean, what if this comment I'm typing right now made you kill yourself? Am I then guilty of killing you?

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    2. Re:No wrongful death? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 2, Informative

      That would be a civil case brought by the family of the victim, not part of the criminal trial.

    3. Re:No wrongful death? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 5, Interesting

      Secretly filming your roommate having gay sex is a little worse than just saying something random and mean on slashdot.

      I don't know about wrongful death, but I think it's pretty fucking awful... assuming he intended to do some kind of emotional harm with the video.

      If he was just going to wank to it later, then well, 30 days in the pen might just work out for him.

    4. Re:No wrongful death? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 4, Informative

      Because wrongful death is a civil matter. The roommate's family is well within their rights to try and sue him for wrongful death. They might even win.

      But, yeah, for something to be criminal, you have to be grossly negligent and directly cause the death, or be doing something with the direct purpose of causing a death.

    5. Re:No wrongful death? by ClioCJS · · Score: 3, Insightful

      (But the real answer is: he was never charge with causing any death. Because such charges wouldn't stick. Because that's not how legal causality works.)

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    6. Re:No wrongful death? by thebrieze · · Score: 1

      In some countries (India) committing suicide is a crime in itself. (I guess you can only be prosecuted if the attempt fails). But it does reinforce the idea that suicide is the problem not a solution.

    7. Re:No wrongful death? by ClioCJS · · Score: 3, Insightful

      It's no different than secretly filming your roommate having straight sex. The only difference is that one is frowned upon more, and that is society's fault, not the individual who recorded him's fault. And reacting to something society disapproves of via suicide is a lack of proper coping skills. Did the guy even seek help? Probably not. Cowardly. Of course people are mad. This is sad. But it's not direct action. It's a bunch of shitty shit that happened.

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    8. Re:No wrongful death? by vlm · · Score: 1

      Secretly filming your roommate having gay sex is a little worse than just saying something random and mean on slashdot.

      And how exactly do you know what atari2600a was doing while he wrote his post? Clint could have video.

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    9. Re:No wrongful death? by naasking · · Score: 1

      Secretly filming your roommate having gay sex is a little worse than just saying something random and mean on slashdot.

      Agreed, but you wouldn't have 15 charges levelled against you for a vicious comment. The "little worse" got him his jail sentence.

    10. Re:No wrongful death? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 3, Informative

      I think "a little worse" was meant to be sarcastic. It's a lot worse.

    11. Re:No wrongful death? by Jeng · · Score: 3, Informative

      Here is a more complete listing of it's legality in different countries.

      http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Suicide_legislation

      In the US it used to be illegal in many states, but not so much anymore.

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    12. Re:No wrongful death? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Secretly filming your roommate having gay sex is a little worse than just saying something random and mean on slashdot.

      That's just an opinion. Some people will laugh at being filmed getting buttpounded and others will nerdrage about someone being an M$ shill. How many times have we read about some kid offing himself because his "insert-current-popular-MMO" account was hacked and lost "everything". It's all in your head. The kid Dharun is a douche and deserves to be shunned (IMO) but not jailed as he didn't physically harm anyone or their property.

      If we are going to toss any pretense of justice out the window and jail people that haven't actually laid a finger on another person can we arrest all the assholes that made this gay teenager feel like suicide was his best option?

    13. Re:No wrongful death? by Genda · · Score: 5, Interesting

      There were tons of mitigating circumstances including the parents of the dead boy publicly saying they didn't want the young man to suffer a harsh sentence or extended jail time. One life lost was enough. A sentence of over a year would have almost certainly meant deportation for a young man who has never known a home other than the United States. He also has to receive counseling and pay $10,000 towards a program to prevent hate crimes.

      Of course lawyers on both sides are unhappy, one side wanting exoneration, the other wanting public human sacrifice. This is a tough one. The kid did something terrible and it had an impact that can never fully be reconciled. That said, it was a stupid, childish, thoughtless action for a kid, and if we crushed every young person who committed such an action we'd have about 12 Stepford Children walking around to send cards to the rest of our children in permanent detention. I know I did some rather profoundly stupid things when I was his age and I hurt some innocent people's feelings. Thank goodness, the harm wasn't permanent, and I could clean up the mess I made. I don't have a clue how I'd deal with what he's facing.

    14. Re:No wrongful death? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

      Usually, it's to prevent people from assisting in suicide. People who assist suicide become accessories to the crime.

    15. Re:No wrongful death? by K.+S.+Kyosuke · · Score: 1

      Secretly filming your roommate having gay sex is a little worse than just saying something random and mean on slashdot.

      If I were to overreact like that, I would have been dead by now, several times over. Somehow I don't think that I would want anyone to be punished for my own instability, though.

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    16. Re:No wrongful death? by The+God+of+Code · · Score: 4, Insightful

      You are talking about things you don't know nothing about. There is a major difference between secretly filming gay sex and straight sex between someone. Both are just wrong, but the first one is more so because it carries social prejudice along with it.

      And don't start talking about coping skills. These people aren't the ones without coping skills, it's the ones around them. How do I know? Because I am currently dating a shemale. I really cute and loving one, mind you. But I cannot tell this to my parents. Hell, I cannot even think how it would be if I was in the position to tell my parents that I wanted to be other gender.

      These issues are real, especially in western countries. I had to move around the world because I cannot be what I am in where I was born. So stop the bullshit about 'coping skills'.

    17. Re:No wrongful death? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 3, Insightful

      My best friend spent 90 days in jail for DUI, but his drinking and driving never caused anyone's death. Seems like 30 days in jail for causing someone to commit suicide is pretty light in comparison.

    18. Re:No wrongful death? by The+God+of+Code · · Score: 0

      The kid Dharun is a douche and deserves to be shunned (IMO) but not jailed as he didn't physically harm anyone or their property.

      Psychological abuse is abuse too. It's actually the worst kind of abuse, as with physical abuse you at least have some way to defense yourself.

    19. Re:No wrongful death? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      There is a major difference between secretly filming gay sex and straight sex between someone. Both are just wrong, but the first one is more so because it carries social prejudice along with it.

      You're overgeneralizing. There are examples of straight sex hat carry with them some serious social stigma as well. For example, a girl posting footage online of her roommate getting drunk and having sex with... say... the entire football team.

    20. Re:No wrongful death? by Aglassis · · Score: 5, Insightful

      You seem to be living in the fantasy world that everyone is strong and should be able to take punishment.

      People are weak. They don't know how to cope. But they are still human beings and worthy of being cared for and protected. We should be outraged that this poor gay kid was driven to suicide.

      This case is different that secretly filming your roommate having straight sex for exactly those reasons. Dharum Ravi exploited Tyler Clementi when he spied on him. He exploited his fears and insecurities.

      Don't consider crimes like black boxes. The entire circumstances matter. The motives matter. Society had a role, no doubt. Tyler Clementi lamented that people on Ravi's twitter feed were disgusted by Clementi's relationship but not one of them called out Ravi and said that what he was doing was wrong. More than anything else, this is probably what drove him to suicide. He saw people unanimously disgusted by him with no defenders or anyone who opposed his privacy being violated. He had no faith that even if he changed roommates that conditions would get better. Think about that before you call him a coward again you fucking asshole.

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    21. Re:No wrongful death? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Psychological abuse is abuse too.

      Well no shit? It's got the word "abuse" right in there. What's your point? That you should be free from all abuse? Well that's an opinion that only a dipshit would hold. No, seriously.

      It's actually the worst kind of abuse, as with physical abuse you at least have some way to defense yourself.

      It's called giving zero fucks. I seriously can't even bring myself to care about people that get that worked up over words. The only words that can hurt me come from people that care enough to not try to do that. As soon as they do, say some nameless crazy bitch ex-gf, I drop them like a bad habit and they no longer have that power. It's pretty simple. The only people that can deeply hurt me, won't. The people that would, can't.

      Now, STFU you big vagina.

    22. Re:No wrongful death? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 2, Interesting

      It's no different than secretly filming your roommate having straight sex. The only difference is that one is frowned upon more, and that is society's fault, not the individual who recorded him's fault.

      Right. Because he wasn't precisely operating on the magnitude of that "only difference" when he filmed his roommate.

      Sometimes the motive, just exactly how much you intended to hurt someone, doesn't really matter. Sometimes it does. That often gets factored in during sentencing.

      Again, I'm not saying he's responsible for a death, but at the very least he deserves this month of thinking it over (and worrying about ass raping).

    23. Re:No wrongful death? by newcastlejon · · Score: 1

      The dead guy chose to kill himself.

      Have you ever felt suicidal? People who kill themselves tend to do it when they don't see any other option.

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    24. Re:No wrongful death? by epyT-R · · Score: 4, Insightful

      ..and you seem to be defending a world where everyone should shed their protective layers and bond in some kind of emotional orgy.. That's the trend in culture nowadays and it's bad for us in the long run. it's what breeds this kind of extreme behavior in the first place, from suicide, to columbine. People have become vats of nitroglycerine, ready to go off at the smallest jab. People NEED to handle this better.. and, no, talking about your feelings and 'expressing your feminine side' doesn't work very well for guys, but, of course, everything is judged by feminine ideals nowadays...

      people are weak. they should strive to be stronger than that and the culture should support this.. they don't know how to cope because we make sure we beat the spine out of 'em by the time they enter 6th grade, under the guise of 'preventing violence,' and promoting 'tolerance.' All it really does is is breed passive aggressive behavior, in both bullies and the bullied. this has a major role in both ravi's and clementi's behavior.

      if you want privacy, don't have sex in a shared dorm room. I do'nt know what else to say.. This is just pragmatic, tactical logic. seriously, if there's a camera or a computer in the room, make sure it's off.

    25. Re:No wrongful death? by wisnoskij · · Score: 1

      More like we cannot know exactly what sequence of events ultimately caused him to commit suicide. We know this guy did not help the matter, but even if he left a suicide note completely blaming this guy that is still far from conclusive evidence that it was actually any more his fault then hundreds of other contributing factors.

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    26. Re:No wrongful death? by shutdown+-p+now · · Score: 5, Insightful

      You are talking about things you don't know nothing about. There is a major difference between secretly filming gay sex and straight sex between someone. Both are just wrong, but the first one is more so because it carries social prejudice along with it.

      The only way to have a society without discrimination is to treat everyone indiscriminately. That applies to the law, as well.

    27. Re:No wrongful death? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 3, Insightful

      i still don't see how it is more severe cause he was gay. if the fact that he was gay somehow was left out of the article, the majority of you would be like "yep, thats college. now does he get straight a's cause his roommate died?"

    28. Re:No wrongful death? by morari · · Score: 5, Interesting

      How do I know? Because I am currently dating a shemale. I really cute and loving one, mind you.

      And I'm sure that she just loves being called a shemale, too! Never mind that every transgendered person I've ever met has generally considered the term to be pretty damn derogatory.

      Secretly videotaping interracial sex is just as bad. How do I know? Because I'm currently dating a nigger. I really cute and loving one, mind you.

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    29. Re:No wrongful death? by Artifakt · · Score: 1

      I can see why you would argue there is, or should be, no real difference between filming straight or gay sex, but why is that an issue? Filming somebody having any kind of sex where they have an expectation of privacy and haven't consented is usually criminal. Depending on jurisdiction, it may be a felony. So, the question of wrongful death depends on whether the crime rose to the level of such other crimes as bank robbery where society now holds a criminal committing that crime responsible for consequences such as a bank guard's having a fatal heart attack during the robbery. If photographing via hidden camera and releasing the results are not crimes that fall on the list of felonies that can result in additional charges if someone dies, or if the law doesn't include the case of someone dieing via suicide, then in either case, there's no issue with not convicting the criminal of the additional charges. But, this doesn't mean action has to be 'direct' as you put it, and it doesn't mean that the straight vrs. gay aspect has any significance as to penalties.

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    30. Re:No wrongful death? by hackula · · Score: 5, Insightful

      The sticks and stones thing works up until you introduce the video. It is not hard to imagine how a video like this could be used for blackmail and even the idea of it being leaked could be devastating to just about anyway. Idk about you, but I would not just shrug off the idea of a video of me in that sort of compromised situation being seen by everyone on my dorm room floor (much less parents, etc.).

    31. Re:No wrongful death? by Aglassis · · Score: 5, Insightful

      Secretly filming your roommate having gay sex is a little worse than just saying something random and mean on slashdot.

      If I were to overreact like that, I would have been dead by now, several times over. Somehow I don't think that I would want anyone to be punished for my own instability, though.

      That is a weaselly statement. Ravi isn't being punished for Tyler Clementi's instability. He is being punished for spying on him, trying to destroy evidence, and trying to coordinate statements with a witness. He is guilty as sin for all of those crimes.

      But even if he were being punished for causing Clementi's suicide, he had to have known that he was selecting an extremely vulnerable victim. He knew that Clementi was a loner and semi-closeted and was afraid of being open about it--and then he exploited him. If he were to be charged with the hypothetical crime of pushing this poor gay kid to suicide, then he wouldn't be punished for Clementi's instability. He would instead be punished for exploiting it.

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    32. Re:No wrongful death? by wisnoskij · · Score: 1

      So the punishment a person receives should not be based on what they did but on (something completely out of their control) how the victim took it?

      And we can never know why anyone does anything, in fact even if the guy who did the act tells us truthfully why he did it, psychology tells us that he is probably mistaken.

      People are not psychologically aware of other people or even mostly themselves, how/why would should anyone be sentenced based on either of these factors?

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    33. Re:No wrongful death? by shiftless · · Score: 0

      Psychological abuse is abuse too. It's actually the worst kind of abuse, as with physical abuse you at least have some way to defense yourself.

      Bullshit

    34. Re:No wrongful death? by wisnoskij · · Score: 1

      I completely agree.

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    35. Re:No wrongful death? by St.Creed · · Score: 4, Insightful

      It's also pretty weird that for some reason or another colleges don't give their students privacy. I know this is the case in China because students are dirt poor (or used to be). However, in the US I would have thought the situation to be a bit better. We had a national debate in The Netherlands about forcing two prisoners in a cell (bad idea btw). Forcing students to give up their privacy for years seems... 3rd worldish. Or was this done specifically to make sure there's no privacy and thus no sex amongst students? Does anyone need insight in how stupid that would be?

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    36. Re:No wrongful death? by shiftless · · Score: 1

      No, it sounds more like 90 days for harming nobody is a fucking crime against humanity and justice, while 30 days in jail for filming someone secretly and embarrassing him (resulting in 15 criminal charges.....WTF?) is only a minor travesty, in the grand scheme of things.

    37. Re:No wrongful death? by The+God+of+Code · · Score: 1

      No. That is stupid solution to the problem. Our culture should support acceptance (when not hurting others) and not tolerate maljustice and abuse. Gladly, we are getting there. Now you can travel pretty much around the world while feeling relatively safe. People in general tend to act nicely towards others.

      But then we have these few guys who abuse all common courtesy and make others life miserable. We don't need that. Their actions affect other people and in a really poor way. The solution isn't getting all the people to be 'stronger', 'more aware' and 'cautious'. The solution is to lock up people who wish to harm others.

    38. Re:No wrongful death? by shiftless · · Score: 1

      Instead, they just convicted him of the 15 other various "crimes" he "committed." Hell, I'm surprised there wasn't a jaywalking charge somewhere in there.

    39. Re:No wrongful death? by St.Creed · · Score: 1

      90 days?? Where is that? Singapore? And did he have the magistrates daughter suck his dick while DUI? Djeez...

      However, having someone sentenced to insane lengths does not make it proper to sentence someone else to a sentence just as inane.

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    40. Re:No wrongful death? by Aglassis · · Score: 5, Insightful

      But they are still human beings and worthy of being cared for and protected.

      .....and the government is going to be the one to do that, huh?

      Maybe I DON'T WANT MY FUCKING TAX DOLLARS being spent to "protect" a weakling, by punishing the strong.

      If we continue to coddle weak mindedness in our society, the only possible outcome will be our eventual downfall, and enslavement to a society which chose another path.

      Bullshit. Picking on gay kids makes society weak. Our society will be much stronger when that type of behavior is minimized.

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    41. Re:No wrongful death? by The+God+of+Code · · Score: 1

      I know this would come up, but I used the term because it's better known in western countries. Around here, the term is ladyboy, and that is all fine.

    42. Re:No wrongful death? by ClioCJS · · Score: 1
      But a lot of people are acting like because he is gay, the penalty should be higher.

      I'd like to see a link of the heart attack during robbery issue - seeing as heart disease is the #1 killer, and it's a result of growing old and/or lifestyle, how can the robber really be to blame? The heart was unhealthy enough to fail during a robbery, and it's the security guard's job to... guard. Not die. Not only should the robber not be charged with any death in this case, but any security guard who can't make it through doing his duties without his body failing should not be allowed to perform such duty. The security guard might have drank alcohol all his life, making heart disease way more likely. Should the robber be on the hook for that death?

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    43. Re:No wrongful death? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

      How do I know? Because I am currently dating a shemale. I really cute and loving one, mind you.

      And I'm sure that she just loves being called a shemale, too! Never mind that every transgendered person I've ever met has generally considered the term to be pretty damn derogatory.

      Secretly videotaping interracial sex is just as bad. How do I know? Because I'm currently dating a nigger. I really cute and loving one, mind you.

      I think it depends on who says it. Dating a "shemale" means the person obviously knows he has no problem with them. There is no reason to take offense.

      It is like the way American black people often call each other "nigga". A black person saying it is assumed not to have racist intent. If a white guy goes up to a black stranger and says "wassup nigga!" that really might be perceived as racist.

      Honestly I wish adult people would get the fuck over words they don't like and realize words only have the power you give them. The Democrats (yes it's them, I am tired of the truth being some kind of great controversy) really fucked us up constantly dividing everybody by race/religion/gender and then preaching about non-discrimination but identity politics drives half their elections, wealth envy the other half. But I digress. Anyway, that's the unwritten rule. If you're in that "club" you can use terms otherwise derogatory without being offensive.

    44. Re:No wrongful death? by wisnoskij · · Score: 1

      Yes and crazy people do crazy things that cannot be blamed on others.
      In reality this guy did NOT give him no other options other than suicide.
      In reality all he did was invade his privacy and post an sensitive video of him online. This caused numerous ass-holes to make fun of him (you could call it democratic bullying, my point being that no singe one of them was responsible for the outcome), and he committed suicide.

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    45. Re:No wrongful death? by SomePgmr · · Score: 1, Insightful

      You give zero fucks, don't care what people think of you, your behavior, or your opinions, including the "STFU vagina" bit...

      And then you posted as anonymous coward?

      I agree that everyone has to learn to cope with a certain amount of abuse. It's a fact of life. But we have rules that limit that degree of savagery to acceptable levels. This kid obviously blew past them... so he gets a brief stint in jail.

    46. Re:No wrongful death? by Aglassis · · Score: 5, Informative

      Of course lawyers on both sides are unhappy, one side wanting exoneration, the other wanting public human sacrifice.

      No. The prosecution offered a plea deal of no jail time and recommending against deportation that was rejected by Dharun Ravi because he refused to accept guilt.

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    47. Re:No wrongful death? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      He didn't do anything terrible. He did something stupid. If I share a room with someone, I expect some privacy, not total privacy, because I share a fucking room with someone.

    48. Re:No wrongful death? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      As someone who has gone through the whole gender change thing I'd have to say telling ones parents isn't that hard. It's dealing with society's misconceptions as to what we are that's the hard part, having arseholes refer to us as "shemales" sure as hell doesn't help.

    49. Re:No wrongful death? by alvinrod · · Score: 1

      It's really hard to prove the "cause" of a suicide other than the means in which the deceased chose to end their life. If I were to commit suicide and leave a note that said you were the cause of it (your comment greatly offended me and made me give up my will to live) should you go to jail over it? If your friend were to have actually caused an accident, there's a direct physical link that's easily to demonstrate and follow. It's much more complicated with a suicide. Was this event the only cause or is it just the straw that broke the camel's back? I don't know.

      Honestly, I don't know what to make of it all either. I've only loosely followed the story through /. so it's likely that I'm not even informed enough to make a decision, but it seems a bit presumptuous to go around saying the defendant in this case "caused" a suicide. He's certainly a shitty person by most definitions, but that generally doesn't qualify people for jail time.

    50. Re:No wrongful death? by registrations_suck · · Score: 1

      Um - he didn't kill the guy. He checked out on his own.

    51. Re:No wrongful death? by chrb · · Score: 5, Insightful

      Maybe I DON'T WANT MY FUCKING TAX DOLLARS being spent to "protect" a weakling, by punishing the strong. If we continue to coddle weak mindedness in our society, the only possible outcome will be our eventual downfall, and enslavement to a society which chose another path.

      So protecting minorities like Alan Turing (homosexual) or Einstein (Jew) from persecution would result in no benefits to our society?

    52. Re:No wrongful death? by craigminah · · Score: 1

      Right, but nobody can take any accountability nowadays for anything bad that happens...it's always someone else's fault. The fact that kid killed himself is horrible but how did his family and close friends not see this or allow him to get this way? They may have allowed it to go on by not trying to help and are just as guilty as his stupid roommate who filmed him.

    53. Re:No wrongful death? by tungstencoil · · Score: 1

      Yeah, it is different.

      It would be society's fault if you ignore the fact that Ravi had intentions to embarrass and humiliate Tyler... and if you don't think he didn't, you're naive. Of course, Tyler was a little lacking in the psych department, because people who are humiliated don't always kill themselves.

      However, that's also like saying people who wear nice watches and sneakers in bad neighborhoods totally deserve to get beaten and robbed. After all, you lacked the proper judgement skills not to be flashy in a bad neighborhood and, arguably, it's society's fault that the criminal element exists... right?

    54. Re:No wrongful death? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      "Have you ever felt suicidal? People who kill themselves tend to do it when they don't see any other option."

      First, I AM the guy who wrote that the dead guy chose to kill himself.

      Yes, in fact I have felt suicidal. I've been through some shit that might well have finished
      a lot of people off. But I never gave up, and part of the reason I did not was that I always knew that what I chose to do with my own life was MY responsibility and not the responsibility of anyone else on this earth no matter what they had done or said to me.

      Suicide is 100% the responsibility of the person who inflicts death upon himself, and no one else bears the responsibility for it. To believe
      otherwise places awesome power in the hands of others who should never be given such power. It is pure bullshit to kill yourself
      based on what anyone else thinks of you. Such a decision is an act of such narcissism and immaturity that it makes me want to vomit.

      People like you who think a third party should be held responsible for someone's choices and actions
      truly sicken me. You lack the courage and the balls to stand up and accept the blame for your own
      problems and you lack the courage to not care what other people think or say, and you want to shift the blame to someone else because it's easier that way.

      Suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary problem. If poor little what's-his-name who killed himself lacked the courage to
      live with the life decisions he had already made, then he should have made different decisions or found more courage. Ultimately
      his act was absurd overreaction to an event that wouldn't have mattered in the slightest just a few years down the road. I submit
      that the kid had no business even being in college if he was in such a psychological state that being outed was reason enough for him
      to end his own life.

      If you think that what someone else says or does is in ANY way a possible reason to justify your own suicide you have a lot of growing up left to do.

    55. Re:No wrongful death? by Shoten · · Score: 1

      It's called giving zero fucks. I seriously can't even bring myself to care about people that get that worked up over words. The only words that can hurt me come from people that care enough to not try to do that. As soon as they do, say some nameless crazy bitch ex-gf, I drop them like a bad habit and they no longer have that power. It's pretty simple. The only people that can deeply hurt me, won't. The people that would, can't.

      I would find your argument about abuse and nobody being able to hurt you with words a lot more compelling if you hadn't posted as an AC. The "C" stands for "Coward" for a reason, you know...

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    56. Re:No wrongful death? by ClioCJS · · Score: 1
      Are you suggesting that if I secretly recorded my roommate having straight sex, that there would be no intention to embarrass and humiliate? Or simply that gay people deserve higher protection from the same fate everyone faces: social embarassment. I was bullied. But because I wasn't gay, it wasn't as bad then, right?

      As for your second paragraph, no, it's nothing like that.

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    57. Re:No wrongful death? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

      New Mexico, USA. It was his third offense. The first two happened twenty years ago and he got a slap on the wrist and a couple hundred dollar fine. Unbeknownst to him, the law changed in the twenty years after that and they threw the book at him. 90 days in jail plus 40 hours community service and 1 year probation, plus drug court (drug rehabilitation program for someone who doesn't even do drugs, go figure). Plus ten years breathalyzer which costs $110 per month. Plus some ridiculous fine. Plus suspended driver license so he couldn't go to work to feed his kids for several months until he received a work driving permit. Plus $4000 lawyer fee to get the plea down from a felony which would have been 1 year in prison.

    58. Re:No wrongful death? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      A wrongful death suit is a civil tort and not a criminal matter.

      Typically, civil suits against people follow the resolution of their criminal cases. The Clementi family (not the state) has to initiate a wrongful death suit against Ravi and his criminal conviction could help to bolster their claim.

    59. Re:No wrongful death? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I thought we are talking equality and not special treatment for certain people. In colleges filming this is not new so why is it a bigger issue if you film one groups vs other group!

    60. Re:No wrongful death? by Samantha+Wright · · Score: 4, Funny

      I'm pretty sure only the warrior caste needs to be strong.

      Off-handedly, are you a Cardassian?

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    61. Re:No wrongful death? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Thats the correct way to do this.

    62. Re:No wrongful death? by interkin3tic · · Score: 1

      Never mind that every transgendered person I've ever met has generally considered the term to be pretty damn derogatory.

      Unless you've met all of them, I wouldn't presume that the specific transgendered person in question finds it offensive.

    63. Re:No wrongful death? by Eponymous+Hero · · Score: 1

      maybe "scared straight" is an inappropriate way to frame this?

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    64. Re:No wrongful death? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Judge did a good job trying to manage the ramification of expectation from either side.

    65. Re:No wrongful death? by guruevi · · Score: 0

      Should everyone in the US be driven to suicide then as they are spied upon literally day in and day out by their own government.

      Look at your argument and compare, nobody is calling out our government but when (not if) those things will be used in one of the upcoming elections, people will be just as disgusted, as a matter of fact they already are and nobody is calling out those that leaked the information (look at random politicians recently that have had either gay or straight sex with people that are not their partners).

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    66. Re:No wrongful death? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      From the sound of it, I don't want your "fucking tax dollars" protecting weaklings either. In fact, I'm pretty sure this country would be better off if you left and took your tax dollars with you.

    67. Re:No wrongful death? by hedpe2003 · · Score: 1

      ..and you seem to be defending a world where everyone should shed their protective layers and bond in some kind of emotional orgy.. That's the trend in culture nowadays and it's bad for us in the long run. it's what breeds this kind of extreme behavior in the first place, from suicide, to columbine. People have become vats of nitroglycerine, ready to go off at the smallest jab. People NEED to handle this better.. and, no, talking about your feelings and 'expressing your feminine side' doesn't work very well for guys, but, of course, everything is judged by feminine ideals nowadays...

      people are weak. they should strive to be stronger than that and the culture should support this.. they don't know how to cope because we make sure we beat the spine out of 'em by the time they enter 6th grade, under the guise of 'preventing violence,' and promoting 'tolerance.' All it really does is is breed passive aggressive behavior, in both bullies and the bullied. this has a major role in both ravi's and clementi's behavior.

      if you want privacy, don't have sex in a shared dorm room. I do'nt know what else to say.. This is just pragmatic, tactical logic. seriously, if there's a camera or a computer in the room, make sure it's off.

      I agree... but he was just a kid. Don't be so disconnected.

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    68. Re:No wrongful death? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      The way that works is... they didn't charge him for the suicide. No charges, no way for a jury to convict.

      If you disagree, speak to the prosecutor's office.

    69. Re:No wrongful death? by causality · · Score: 3, Insightful

      No. That is stupid solution to the problem. Our culture should support acceptance (when not hurting others) and not tolerate maljustice and abuse.

      I don't think you have ever seen a person who had the grace, courage, and understanding to accept persecution without any kind of emotional reaction. It makes the bully look stupid and embarasses them thoroughly. It creates a contrast between real strength versus the insecurity the bully is trying to cover up by acting tough. Whereas if you fall into the emotional trap laid by the bully, his way works and you look weak while he looks dominant.

      If you have never seen this, or better if you have never demonstrated it yourself, you really have no clue how powerful it is. It is not the simple "just take it" and it is not the simple "ignore him hoping he goes away" type of doormat behavior you might be imagining. It's more like being able to walk up to the bully and tell him right to his face how pathetic he is, calmly, and watch him back down with his tail between his legs even if he's much bigger than you.

      The bully depends on your reaction to get the energy he needs. Deprive him of that and he's like an engine with no fuel. Believing me on this is not good enough and you'll probably end up in a fistfight if you do it without understanding. You have to see it yourself.

      The solution is to lock up people who wish to harm others.

      Who wish to harm others? Sir, you are advocating that we prosecute thoughtcrimes. I don't really need to explain why that's a bad idea, do I?

      I am sorry that you're so thoroughly identified with being some kind of "outcast" that you cannot separate a rational look at the situation from your emotional knee-jerking and desire for vengence against someone who probably has a lot in common with those who have tormented you. It's like you're still reliving what you went through instead of overcoming it and being better for having endured it. That's too bad.

      That also means you're unfit to form a solid, well-founded opinion about this until you stop feeling like a victim and identifying with people who are victims. There are good reasons why judges and other professionals are expected to recuse themselves from cases to which they have emotional attachments. As I like to say, if you want to throw someone a rope you must first make sure you're standing on higher ground. That's why identifying with them will never help them. All you could ever do with that method is teach them to be "better" victims (i.e. become more so).

      If every single transgendered person were pesecuted ruthlessly with grave cruelty, that would still do less harm to society than implementing thoughcrimes. You're trying to cure the disease by shooting the patient in the face. That's not so good for the patient. If you care so much about transgendered people, gay people, or any other people, you don't want them to live under the thumb of an Orwellian government.

      People in general tend to act nicely towards others.

      If by that you mean a phony sort of "niceness" that is not real kindness, okay, but what good is it? Most people are only "nice" because they want to obligate you to like them and make them feel like good people. If they were truly good people they wouldn't need you to feel that way. They'd treat you with kindness and dignity whether or not you appreciated it because it would come from who they are, not who you are.

      Instead, every chance they get, most people find opportunity to do something thoughtless, inconsiderate, careless, or something irritating that needles you. Or they'll take some liberty to push you and see if you'll stand up to them -- if you don't they assert a false superiority, and if you do they act hurt.

      These kinds of constant, childish games where the object of the game is to puff up with pride and look down your nose at other people is what most human

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    70. Re:No wrongful death? by scot4875 · · Score: 1

      And are you suggesting that the two situations are exactly the same? Surely you're not that dense.

      I was bullied.

      Ahh yes, the "I survived, therefore I'm strong and fuck everybody else" attitude. That seems to be pretty prevalent on Slashdot. I think it mostly comes from people who actually never really did get over that bullying.

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    71. Re:No wrongful death? by timeOday · · Score: 1

      We should be outraged that this poor gay kid was driven to suicide.

      But we have to be a little careful there. If you make suicide an effective way to "get back" at people, you might actually promote it. An unhappy person might chose martyrdom over living.

    72. Re:No wrongful death? by epyT-R · · Score: 1

      I guess the schools have other priorities, like funding athletic teams, political correctness culturebuilding, 'womens studies', and other nonsense.. that is, when they're not blowing money on useless contrivances like shiny new electronic toys instead of ensuring solid academic rigor of the professors and the curriculum. This problem affects the entire american education system, from kindergarten to ivy league university.

    73. Re:No wrongful death? by Sebastopol · · Score: 1

      I was just about to comment on this, but you caught it. I've been to plenty seminars and class on being trans. I am cis-gendered, but I find the entire topic fascinating. No one, absolutely non one in any of these gatherings would ever dream of using the term "shemale." I can't speak for any trans person, or claim to know what any or every single one is thinking, but I finding HIGHLY unlikely she is OK with that label.

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    74. Re:No wrongful death? by sjames · · Score: 5, Interesting

      If he had some reason to suspect the victim would take it badly, then YES. It speaks to the level of malice. And in this case, he would have to be a drooling moron to not realize it could go badly.

    75. Re:No wrongful death? by ClioCJS · · Score: 1
      Yes, I'm suggesting they are exactly the same in terms of what the perpetrator has committed.

      I recall a lot of backlash on Slashdot when a Brit got a slander conviction for TRUTHFULLY outing someone. Where is it now?

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    76. Re:No wrongful death? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      It is like the way American black people often call each other "nigga". A black person saying it is assumed not to have racist intent. If a white guy goes up to a black stranger and says "wassup nigga!" that really might be perceived as racist.

      This is true but shouldn't be. It's either OK or not. It shouldn't matter what race says it. If you determine whether it's OK or not by the color of the persons skin, then that's being racist.

    77. Re:No wrongful death? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

      I'm not going to comment about the sentencing, but I am going to say that the matter is much more complicated than you make it out to be.

      It's sex. Unlike what you might see on the Internet, it is an extremely sensitive and complicated topic. I would not be surprised of someone developed PTSD after this kind of incident. For many people, sex requires an incredible amount of trust, and an incredible amount of privacy. There are many people that don't openly talk about it, even if it's not about them. In fact, this is why I'm posting AC.

      He didn't commit suicide because someone made fun of his acne. While I'm sure there was more going on with him than he let on, this bullying was sexual in nature and is extremely serious. Ravi made public one of the most private things people have. I know I would be completely devastated, and I can see how suicide would seem like a good idea. This is not something people can easily just shrug off. I'm getting anxious just trying to imagine having to face the world knowing that people have seen that.

      Regardless of the sentencing, he didn't kill himself because he was oversensitive and had a glass jaw. He killed himself because he was having very serious personal issues. I don't know if what Ravi did was the straw that broke the camel's back, but what he did was very, very, serious.

    78. Re:No wrongful death? by pavon · · Score: 1

      I disagree (assuming he wasn't convicted with a very low BAC level that shouldn't be illegal).
      Neither your friend nor Dharun intended for people to die. Their level of punishment should be determined according to how much unnecessary risk they imposed on others through their reckless behavior, not the random chance of whether harm happened to occur or not. Your friend's behavior was far more likely to cause innocent death than Dharun's, and any reasonable person should know that drunk driving is dangerous (especially a repeat offender, which he would have to be to get 90 days). Your friend deserved a harsher punishment than Dharun.

    79. Re:No wrongful death? by The+God+of+Code · · Score: 1

      As noted previously, I just used the westernized word that first came to my mind. Around here the term is ladyboy and that is ok to everyone. Just language and culture differences..

    80. Re:No wrongful death? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      That's funny, I know a lot of black people who call themselves that same word.

    81. Re:No wrongful death? by morari · · Score: 1

      That might help to explain your choice of words. I was by no means trying to be dismissive of your point, your terminology just struck me as misplaced given the sentiment.

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    82. Re:No wrongful death? by gnasher719 · · Score: 2

      So the punishment a person receives should not be based on what they did but on (something completely out of their control) how the victim took it?

      When you punch someone in the face, the damage done will depend on how hard you punch, where exactly you hit, and on the constitution of the victim. The punishment would depend on the damage done. There could be more damage than you intended. Solution to this dilemma: Don't punch the victim.

      Same with any other action. If you don't want to live with the consequences, then don't do it.

    83. Re:No wrongful death? by couchslug · · Score: 1

      It's invasion of privacy, so I'm fine with crushing those who do such things.

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    84. Re:No wrongful death? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      How bout a thought experiment. Say the gay roommate taped his roommate jerking off and uploaded it to 100's of gay porn sites for other gay men to pleasure themselves to, I highly doubt that most here would think that it was just college behavior and that your not entitled to privacy in a shared dorm.

      How many here would really be ok with that? Or put it this way, you bring in a camera to tape a movie and get fined and thrown in jail for years. yet taping a person and a private act has 1 100th the consequence.. A person should have as much right to his own image and identity as a movie. period! End Rant.

    85. Re:No wrongful death? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

      No. Saying that here is playing with words.

      We're all talking about discrimination by intent. As in, "How much harm did he intend to cause". Not because he's straight and his roommate was gay.

      We do that in the application of law every day, and is often necessary to be fair...

      Did I run your dog over because I hate you, or because it ran into the street and I couldn't react?

      Did you film someone having sex as a prank, or because you wanted to fuck up their entire life by exposing their sexual proclivities?

    86. Re:No wrongful death? by couchslug · · Score: 1

      I want my tax dollars spent PUNISHING people who invade privacy.

      The only way to protect privacy is to use exemplary punishment on those who invade it.

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    87. Re:No wrongful death? by RedBear · · Score: 1, Insightful

      How do I know? Because I am currently dating a shemale. I really cute and loving one, mind you.

      And I'm sure that she just loves being called a shemale, too! Never mind that every transgendered person I've ever met has generally considered the term to be pretty damn derogatory.

      Secretly videotaping interracial sex is just as bad. How do I know? Because I'm currently dating a nigger. I really cute and loving one, mind you.

      WTF are you talking about? The N-word is a purely derogatory slang form of the descriptive word "negro", which of course merely means "black". I've never heard anyone else imply that the descriptive term "shemale" is offensive in any way, just as the equally descriptive term "ladyboy" is not offensive. Racial slurs are in a whole different class. Being offended by a purely descriptive term makes no sense. That would be like me being offended by someone calling me a "white male". That's taking offense-sensitivity a bit far.

    88. Re:No wrongful death? by couchslug · · Score: 1

      "Should everyone in the US be driven to suicide then as they are spied upon literally day in and day out by their own government."

      Not suicide, but revenge.

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    89. Re:No wrongful death? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      He knew that Clementi was a loner and semi-closeted and was afraid of being open about it

      How about this perspective: If Clementi was so damn scared about coming out of the closet he should have gotten a motel room. His partner was 32, presumably he had a place they could do the deed or could have paid for one. Plus, a dorm room is a shared space and I don't care if you are straight, gay, or bi you don't get to turf out your *new* roommate so you can get laid. It's rude and inconsiderate and considering the age of the partner wicked creepy. I'm not justifying filming it but I'd have stayed in the room and heckled the pair regardless of which way they swung. I would have been the ultimate mood killer.

    90. Re:No wrongful death? by couchslug · · Score: 1

      He invaded privacy where there was reasonable expectation thereof.

      I'd like to see privacy invaders broken on the wheel in the public square.

      A persons home is their castle and even if a "home" is shared, there is an expectation of privacy.

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    91. Re:No wrongful death? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      The slightest jab? How is capturing someone's sex life and broadcasting it "the slightest jab"? And you're not supposed to expect privacy in your own locked room? Are you serious?

      Please, I seriously doubt you are anywhere *near* as strong as you think you are. Your logic is shaky at best.

    92. Re:No wrongful death? by shutdown+-p+now · · Score: 4, Insightful

      Did I run your dog over because I hate you, or because it ran into the street and I couldn't react?

      Did you film someone having sex as a prank, or because you wanted to fuck up their entire life by exposing their sexual proclivities?

      The only difference that the law should make is whether the act was intentional or not; the precise motive behind the intent is not relevant. Just like murder vs manslaughter. So whether you wanted to film it as a prank or to "out" doesn't matter - so long as you filmed with intent to causing harm by publishing it, that's the crime; it shouldn't matter whether the person so filmed is gay or not.

    93. Re:No wrongful death? by couchslug · · Score: 0

      "A sentence of over a year would have almost certainly meant deportation for a young man who has never known a home other than the United States"

      Good riddance. Being allowed to come here is an incredible gift and any non-citizen who commits the least crime against Americans should be kicked out. Further, such ejection should be done administratively and without appeal.

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    94. Re:No wrongful death? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Wow. You're a selfish ignorant prick. I'll bet people who have just met you immediately know you're an asshole. That's what you get for being an idiot.

    95. Re:No wrongful death? by Sebastopol · · Score: 1

      Ah, missed that. That makes sense, as I noticed your English was a little oblique to begin with. Thanks for clarifying!

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    96. Re:No wrongful death? by chrb · · Score: 4, Informative

      Both are just wrong, but the first one is more so because it carries social prejudice along with it.

      Indeed, but it's worth remembering that there are plenty of places in the world where the social stigma of being filmed having heterosexual sex would likely lead one of the partners to suicide.

      Antiguan Girl Attempts Suicide After Sex Tape Leak

      Yang Qi Han Attempts Suicide For Sex Video

      Officer videoed having sex on duty attempt suicide

    97. Re:No wrongful death? by The+God+of+Code · · Score: 1

      I don't think you have ever seen a person who had the grace, courage, and understanding to accept persecution without any kind of emotional reaction. It makes the bully look stupid and embarasses them thoroughly. It creates a contrast between real strength versus the insecurity the bully is trying to cover up by acting tough. Whereas if you fall into the emotional trap laid by the bully, his way works and you look weak while he looks dominant.

      Yes, I have. I used to have a friend who bullied throughout the higher grades in school. He was fine guy when alone with him, but had some need to bully in group and on classes (nurse now, btw).

      But the issue isn't about that. Playing with emotions and mind can be really powerful. The only way to harm person isn't just kicking his ass. At least physical violence does only physical harm, but psychological violence can really mess up your head for years.

      I am sorry that you're so thoroughly identified with being some kind of "outcast" that you cannot separate a rational look at the situation from your emotional knee-jerking and desire for vengence against someone who probably has a lot in common with those who have tormented you. It's like you're still reliving what you went through instead of overcoming it and being better for having endured it. That's too bad. That also means you're unfit to form a solid, well-founded opinion about this until you stop feeling like a victim and identifying with people who are victims.

      I am not feeling knee-jerking or vengeance. I can take that shit, I've seen a lot. I do, however, feel bad for people who are being bullied or treat badly for these things, especially when they cannot take it. You need long time to build up that kind of confidence, and these people are struggling with them every day. They often cannot do that.

      Most people are only "nice" because they want to obligate you to like them and make them feel like good people. If they were truly good people they wouldn't need you to feel that way. They'd treat you with kindness and dignity whether or not you appreciated it because it would come from who they are, not who you are.

      I live in a theravada buddhist country. Most people really are nice and take care for each other. Yes, even unknown people and even when they don't have much themselves. You should sometimes see how the world is outside US.

    98. Re:No wrongful death? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      It is like the way American black people often call each other "nigga". A black person saying it is assumed not to have racist intent. If a white guy goes up to a black stranger and says "wassup nigga!" that really might be perceived as racist.

      This is true but shouldn't be. It's either OK or not. It shouldn't matter what race says it. If you determine whether it's OK or not by the color of the persons skin, then that's being racist.

      You would make a terrible, horrible Democrat. You're supposed to consider above all else the group identity of whoever is speaking. Then from that framework you judge if they have a right to say that without persecution. Otherwise you're not fitting the pattern!

      As long as we do things this way we will NEVER have a colorblind society.

    99. Re:No wrongful death? by O('_')O_Bush · · Score: 1

      Right, and the people who jumped off the burning and collapsing Twin Towers did so because they were cowards and chose not to seek help? The world isn't black and white, and you don't know shit about it.

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    100. Re:No wrongful death? by swalve · · Score: 4, Insightful

      There is nothing "strong" about what this guy did.

    101. Re:No wrongful death? by Mike+Buddha · · Score: 1

      I think "a little worse" was meant to be sarcastic. It's a lot worse.

      Sarcasm doesn't work on the internet. We can't hear you. It doesn't work anywhere, really.

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    102. Re:No wrongful death? by swalve · · Score: 1

      Absolutely! When you start something, you take responsibility for what goes wrong. Whether you like it or not.

    103. Re:No wrongful death? by Mike+Buddha · · Score: 1

      I honestly think that if he didn't attempt manipulate witnesses and destroy evidence, he probably wouldn't have been convicted.

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    104. Re:No wrongful death? by causality · · Score: 4, Insightful

      It is like the way American black people often call each other "nigga". A black person saying it is assumed not to have racist intent. If a white guy goes up to a black stranger and says "wassup nigga!" that really might be perceived as racist.

      This is true but shouldn't be. It's either OK or not. It shouldn't matter what race says it. If you determine whether it's OK or not by the color of the persons skin, then that's being racist.

      Well yeah. We didn't eliminate institutionalized racism. We just made it politically useful.

      Elections these days demand isolated groups who feel persecuted by the other groups, so they demand protection that politicians are only too happy to provide. That's how one wing does it. The other wing demands fearful people who feel threatened by a foreign enemy with unpronouncable names and unknown languages, so they demand protection that politicians are ony too happy to provide.

      The professional manipulators who engineer elections depend on one thing: that you will be a sucker for one of these tactics or the other. They really don't like people who can see through both of them. Those people must be marginalized. They must never be given media time or any other solid representation. They are a threat to the status quo.

      This is statecraft. Please stop celebrating it and pretending like it's noble. I know that makes some feel patriotic, like some of that nobility transfers to them because they approve of it, but it's a lie. Find your own identity.

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    105. Re:No wrongful death? by swalve · · Score: 4, Insightful

      The penalty shouldn't be higher just because the victim happens to be gay, but because the guy did it specifically because the victim was gay.

    106. Re:No wrongful death? by Mike+Buddha · · Score: 2

      IANAL, but I doubt they'd win. He's already attempted to commit suicide twice before he succeeded. Kind of hard to prove liablility in that case.

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    107. Re:No wrongful death? by Mike+Buddha · · Score: 1

      Did you look at the evidence? He DID commit those crimes. And they were pretty serious. Destroying evidence and tampering with a witness are felonies. He was facing serious time for that.

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    108. Re:No wrongful death? by cayenne8 · · Score: 4, Insightful
      Precisely.

      What he did was wrong...but c'mon....everyone does stupid shit when they are in HS and college...and hell, even well into your 20's...especially men.

      Just because someone is so fragile, that they can't handle some embarrassment...and decides to off themselves, should in no way constitute a lengthy and harsh penalty for this young man.

      What he did, probably necessitates a fine,and some community services....I'm guessing he broke some sort of law for illegal video (I know that wasn't even against the law till not that long ago in the state of LA)...but that gay kids death is not on his hands at all.

      Embarrassing? Yes. Possibly open to civil suits (if said kid hadn't killed himself), Yes. But prison? No way.

      If this kid was so unstable that this act put him over the edge...who's to say what else could have done it...or what else was in addition to this that pushed him over the edge.

      Some people are weak, and prone to that type of behavior. That's life, but no reason to ruin this young man's life over nothing more than a bad choice of pranks gone wrong.

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    109. Re:No wrongful death? by swalve · · Score: 1

      In the grownup world, intent matters. Punching someone in the face because they are an asshole is not as bad as punching them in the face because they are a minority. The latter is much worse for society, so it is (supposed to be) punished more severely.

    110. Re:No wrongful death? by TubeSteak · · Score: 1

      My best friend spent 90 days in jail for DUI, but his drinking and driving never caused anyone's death.
      Seems like 30 days in jail for causing someone to commit suicide is pretty light in comparison.

      Mothers Against Drunk Driving have a really good lobbying organization.
      /And I say that without a drop of sarcasm.

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    111. Re:No wrongful death? by misexistentialist · · Score: 1

      Saves them money, and also encourages group assimilation like in the military, where you don't even get toilet stalls. Identification with the school produces alumni who donate, though nowadays kids are looking for better amenities, which the premium schools at least will offer as a selling point

    112. Re:No wrongful death? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      ... I am currently dating a shemale.

      Well, be careful how you use that S term, many TS are very offended by it. Same as black people offended by the N word.

    113. Re:No wrongful death? by cayenne8 · · Score: 2, Insightful

      The only way to have a society without discrimination is to treat everyone indiscriminately. That applies to the law, as well.

      Well, that's exactly what we have right? (UNless you are gay, black, female, illegal immigrant, legal migrant, minority....basically if you're not a white male it seems.).

      Seriously....we now are putting in laws that make murder worse if a white guy kills a black guy because he's black. It is much worse that if he killed another white guy for any other reason. WFT? A death is a death....? At least...it used to be?

      A few decades back...the rallying cry for the civil rights movement WAS for equality in all things. Nowdays...it is for a 'little' more equality if you are anything but a straight, white male.

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    114. Re:No wrongful death? by cayenne8 · · Score: 1

      I know this would come up, but I used the term because it's better known in western countries. Around here, the term is ladyboy, and that is all fine.

      I thought it was "chicks with dicks"?

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    115. Re:No wrongful death? by swalve · · Score: 1

      Exactly right. The guy who filmed and published should take personal responsibility for the damage he caused.

    116. Re:No wrongful death? by cayenne8 · · Score: 0

      You seem to be living in the fantasy world that everyone is strong and should be able to take punishment.

      Survival of the fittest you know.

      If this hadn't driven him over the edge...something else would have.

      He just basically made extra sure he took himself out of the gene pool. It wasn't the other kid that metaphorically 'pulled the trigger'.

      Sad, but that's life....move on....try to grow a bit thicker skin...life is tough.

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    117. Re:No wrongful death? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I'm thinking wrongful death, from a criminal point of view, would be more like seeing a guy standing on the edge of a bridge threatening to kill himself and you yelling "do it!".

      Baring evidence I don't know of... In this case I do not think it's unreasonable at all to say that Ravi did not expect this recording to cause Clementi's suicide. Suicide is a self directed action, on that Clementi took all on his own. You could no more charge Ravi with wrongful death then you could the ex-spouse of a recently divorced person who commits suicide... did the person commit suicide because of the divorce? Quite possible. Is the ex-spouse responsible for that? No...

    118. Re:No wrongful death? by cayenne8 · · Score: 1

      If he had some reason to suspect the victim would take it badly, then YES. It speaks to the level of malice. And in this case, he would have to be a drooling moron to not realize it could go badly.

      Not really....I'd dare say 98% of people in this Ravi kids shoes would have NO idea this gay kid would off himself over this. That is just NOT a rational person's reaction to a bad prank gone wrong.

      If he broke a privacy law...that is ALL this kid should have been tried and punished for.....he didn't kill this kid....that is not a rational end to those events and it isn't his fault. Hell, this poor kid now will have scars and a record that will haunt HIM for the rest of his personal and private life.

      Suicide is a very SELFISH act....

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    119. Re:No wrongful death? by DJRumpy · · Score: 0

      All of which means dick when you are tried as an adult. That's why they have that special protection. You can't tell me this guy didn't realize the mental anguish it would cause his room mate. 'We' didn't seek to ruin his life. He's doing a good enough job of that on his own. He was tried as an adult and found guilty on all 15 charges. A man died as a direct result of this douche bag's actions.

      This is just wrong.

    120. Re:No wrongful death? by Taco+Cowboy · · Score: 2, Insightful

      What he did was wrong...but c'mon....everyone does stupid shit when they are in HS and college...and hell, even well into your 20's...especially men

      Just because someone is so fragile, that they can't handle some embarrassment...and decides to off themselves, should in no way constitute a lengthy and harsh penalty for this young man

      What he did, probably necessitates a fine,and some community services....I'm guessing he broke some sort of law for illegal video (I know that wasn't even against the law till not that long ago in the state of LA)...but that gay kids death is not on his hands at all

      The number 1 (unwritten) law that the kid broke is the law of Political Correctness

      Under the (yet-to-be-written-into-the-lawbooks) Political Correctness Code Of Conduct, you are forbid to do anything against the gay, the minority, the underprivileged, the poor, the handicapped, etc., etc ... or we will fire your ass

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    121. Re:No wrongful death? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I generally use the term they want me to use. Sexual orientation and gender identities tend to be rather complicated and there's tons of terms to use. When it comes up I just ask what their preferred term is as it doesn't necessarily come of as inoffensive to everybody.

    122. Re:No wrongful death? by cayenne8 · · Score: 1, Troll

      You can't tell me this guy didn't realize the mental anguish it would cause his room mate. '

      I can say that!!!

      This kid's reaction was not a rational reaction to the circumstance!! No one pulls a prank...and expects the recipient to off himself?!!?

      Often pranks and acts like this are cruel....but hey, the world is cruel, and you have to learn to live and deal with it. Killing yourself over something like this...is not the reaction you expect from a normally, mentally developed human being....

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    123. Re:No wrongful death? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      But motive and intent are intertwined. Did he intend for others to react specifically to his gay sex?

      (and even if he didn't intend that, if a reasonable person could predict an outcome, he's responsible for that outcome).

    124. Re:No wrongful death? by readin · · Score: 1

      You seem to be living in the fantasy world that everyone is strong and should be able to take punishment.

      People are weak. They don't know how to cope. But they are still human beings and worthy of being cared for and protected. We should be outraged that this poor gay kid was driven to suicide.

      We don't know that the guy was "driven" to suicide. Even if Ravi's actions did contribute to Clementi's decision, Ravi wasn't the only influence and Ravi certainly didn't make the decision to kill.

      You're right that we need laws to protect people from hurting each other, but punishments need to be in proportion to the hurt caused, not in proportion to an overreaction by a victim. Suppose some kid you called a "nanny boo boo" back when you and he were 6 kills himself and leaves a note blaming it on your name-calling. Does that mean you need to be punished for his death because he decided to obsess over it? Not everyone has the emotional stability and tools to deal with the difficulties of life and that is sad - but when sentencing someone who hurts others we should be sentencing based on the hurt that would be caused to an average person, not based on the hurt that would be caused to the weakest individual. Otherwise even the slightest misdemeanor has the potential to be a hanging offense.

      Ravi is guilty the violation of privacy and should be sentenced as such - for a violation of privacy. The death was 100% Clementi's doing.

      On a technical note: Many comments are claiming that Clementy was filmed "having sex". All I've read in news reports, however, is that he was filmed kissing. There is a big difference.

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      I often don't like the choices people make, but I like the fact that people make choices. That's why I'm a conservative.
    125. Re:No wrongful death? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I don't think you have ever seen a person who had the grace, courage, and understanding to accept persecution without any kind of emotional reaction. It makes the bully look stupid and embarasses them thoroughly. It creates a contrast between real strength versus the insecurity the bully is trying to cover up by acting tough. Whereas if you fall into the emotional trap laid by the bully, his way works and you look weak while he looks dominant. If you have never seen this, or better if you have never demonstrated it yourself, you really have no clue how powerful it is. It is not the simple "just take it" and it is not the simple "ignore him hoping he goes away" type of doormat behavior you might be imagining. It's more like being able to walk up to the bully and tell him right to his face how pathetic he is, calmly, and watch him back down with his tail between his legs even if he's much bigger than you. The bully depends on your reaction to get the energy he needs. Deprive him of that and he's like an engine with no fuel. Believing me on this is not good enough and you'll probably end up in a fistfight if you do it without understanding. You have to see it yourself.

      This certainly works some of the time, and it is inspiring when it does. However, not all bullies deflate so easily. It is a function of the bully's personality, the group he or she is with, and how socially acceptable the bullying is to everyone else (especially authority figures).

      I need only cite the civil rights movement as evidence - plenty of people got dogs sicked on them or fire hoses turned on them or bricks thrown at them for their trouble. With the solidarity among a group and a growing tide of support from the country as a whole, the movement ultimately triumphed, but when you look at cases of isolated individuals, the picture can often times look pretty grim.

      The lack of some externally-identifying trait you can use to pick out who is gay or lesbian can in some respects make things much better but in others make things much worse. Being able to hide one's sexual preference can help to side-step much of the prejudice thrown about, but I can only imagine how isolating it can be.

      Thankfully, as a regular here on Slashdot, I am asexual instead.

    126. Re:No wrongful death? by The+God+of+Code · · Score: 0

      Seriously....we now are putting in laws that make murder worse if a white guy kills a black guy because he's black. It is much worse that if he killed another white guy for any other reason. WFT? A death is a death....? At least...it used to be?

      They are called hate crimes, and there is a very clear reason why they should give extra punishment. Hate crimes danger random persons in society just because their race or ideas - or the supposed ideas you think they have - are different to yours.

      The penalty is not merely 'punishment' for the crime. It also tries to sort out of the problem by extra punishment. If you have a better way to sort it, do tell. But when the problem is serious, you try to lower the crime amount by making punishment tougher.

    127. Re:No wrongful death? by readin · · Score: 1

      It's cheaper to share a room. It usually provides each new student with an emotional support system right from the start (most people don't secretly tape their roommate and instead do their best to remain friendly). Having trouble adjusting? - you can talk to your roommate in the evening (who may be having the same issues). Also there is the health support safety issue. If you come down with a flu that keeps you in bed for a few days there is someone who will bring you food and drink and check your temperature. If you get really sick - faint on the floor in the middle of the night, there is someone who will find you within a few hours and get medical attention for you.

      There are a lot of good reasons for having roommates for college freshman.

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      I often don't like the choices people make, but I like the fact that people make choices. That's why I'm a conservative.
    128. Re:No wrongful death? by Taco+Cowboy · · Score: 1

      It's also pretty weird that for some reason or another colleges don't give their students privacy

      WTF ???

      Colleges are there to educate the students

      Colleges are not there to offer privacy or any of those extra-ordinary protection

      If you want total privacy, stop going to college

      Stay at your own home and do everything you want, there !

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    129. Re:No wrongful death? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

      So far, there have been a lot of cocks and douches posting in this thread, but you sir are the biggest dickhead of all, and are making that clear time and again in this thread.

      Do the rest of the world a favour and die in a fire.

    130. Re:No wrongful death? by epyT-R · · Score: 1

      this overidealism of yours is what I'm talking about.. Who is getting hurt? what defines hurt? all of these things are subjective, and building legal frameworks around it just creates a nasty minefield for warring individiuals (or groups) to shove each other into, then fallaciously say "see?! you WERE wrong."

        what we call bullying is part of human behavior. It helps keep weakness at bay the same way a little sunlight is good for you. you cannot eradicate it without unbalancing things, in this case resulting in that vat of nitroglycerine.. you can mitigate it through encouraging self esteem and a sense of personal responsibility, from youth to adult hood. while politicians and social thinktanks abuse both of these terms to create psychological dependence for their ideologies in education (and employment), if it was done in a way that actually empowers the individual, things would improve drastically.

    131. Re:No wrongful death? by Your.Master · · Score: 1

      Yeah. Sarcasm never works.

    132. Re:No wrongful death? by Frankie70 · · Score: 1

      Do not apply American sensibilities to everything in the world.

    133. Re:No wrongful death? by sjames · · Score: 1

      You claim he would have NO IDEA WHATSOEVER that a gay student might face more scorn or ridicule than a heterosexual in that situation? That he was entirely ignorant of the stigma against homosexuality in our society today?

      He certainly wasn't the sole cause of the kid committing suicide, but he most certainly WAS a contributor. That's why he gets 30 days and not 30 years. Like it or not, going around being a dickhead is damaging to others and it can rise to the level of criminality.

    134. Re:No wrongful death? by cayenne8 · · Score: 1

      The number 1 (unwritten) law that the kid broke is the law of Political Correctness

      Under the (yet-to-be-written-into-the-lawbooks) Political Correctness Code Of Conduct, you are forbid to do anything against the gay, the minority, the underprivileged, the poor, the handicapped, etc., etc ... or we will fire your ass

      Hear hear!!

      This indeed, does seem to be the way (sadly) society in the US is heading. Nevermind the actual laws he might have broken....possibly some sort of privacy one if that state has that. But oh no!! The victim is gay...that makes it MUCH worse. Kinda like how murder is bad. But hate crime murder...is WORSE. I still don't get that...murder results in depriving someone of their life......the person is still dead.

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    135. Re:No wrongful death? by Your.Master · · Score: 1

      Operating heavy, deadly machinery while intoxicated is a crime because it recklessly takes the lives of others into your hands (and to a lesser extent, the property of others and public property) without justification. It's a serious crime, and that it didn't hurt anybody is a function of chance. If the police found you pulling the trigger on a sniper rifle, which happened to jam, you wouldn't get off just because nobody was harmed. Election fraud is a crime even if the person would have won without your help, because it could have changed the outcome (and you clearly thought it might if you committed the fraud).

      I wonder if you could do a statistical analysis of the material harm that's likely to come out of the invasion of privacy and the DUI.

    136. Re:No wrongful death? by cayenne8 · · Score: 1

      You claim he would have NO IDEA WHATSOEVER that a gay student might face more scorn or ridicule than a heterosexual in that situation?

      No, I"m saying he had no idea whatsoever that the kid would kill himself. He should not and thankfully IS not being held liable for the kid taking his own life.

      I'd say that likely 30 days (time served) fits the crime...he didn't kill that kid. He should have only been convicted of breaking whatever privacy or non-videotaping laws are in that state...nothing more. The fact that the homosexual boy committed suicide should not have entered into it in the first place.

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    137. Re:No wrongful death? by twistedcubic · · Score: 1

      So if I recorded your mom having sex and posted it on the internet, I should get a slap on the wrist? Fool.

    138. Re:No wrongful death? by realityimpaired · · Score: 1

      Unless you've met all of them, I wouldn't presume that the specific transgendered person in question finds it offensive.

      "Shemale" carries context and connotation tied to the porn industry. It's specifically because of that that I've never met a trans person who was comfortable with the term. Pretty much everybody I know within that community finds the term extremely offensive.

      I suspect that the only trans people you will ever find who are not uncomfortable with the term are the ones who actually work in porn as "shemales", and even within that small group, I think you'll find several who don't like the term.

      And while I suspect that you posted this before the person who originally said it clarified, but they're not in North America, and were translating from "ladyboy" which is more common in their part of the world. I expect that if the trans person in question knew the context surrounding the word "shemale" they'd be just as offended by it as trans people in NA and Europe are.

    139. Re:No wrongful death? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      How do I know? Because I am currently dating a shemale. I really cute and loving one, mind you.

      And I'm sure that she just loves being called a shemale, too! Never mind that every transgendered person I've ever met has generally considered the term to be pretty damn derogatory.

      Secretly videotaping interracial sex is just as bad. How do I know? Because I'm currently dating a nigger. I really cute and loving one, mind you.

      WTF are you talking about? The N-word is a purely derogatory slang form of the descriptive word "negro", which of course merely means "black". I've never heard anyone else imply that the descriptive term "shemale" is offensive in any way, just as the equally descriptive term "ladyboy" is not offensive. Racial slurs are in a whole different class. Being offended by a purely descriptive term makes no sense. That would be like me being offended by someone calling me a "white male". That's taking offense-sensitivity a bit far.

      Ah, taking it a bit far? In case you hadn't noticed, it is 2012, not 1976. We took things a bit too far 10 fucking years ago. Hell, we've managed to make the laws surrounding offending someone even more offensive than the act itself.

    140. Re:No wrongful death? by cayenne8 · · Score: 1

      So if I recorded your mom having sex and posted it on the internet, I should get a slap on the wrist? Fool.

      Actually...yes. You'd likely also be liable for civil action..sue your ass in court.

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    141. Re:No wrongful death? by steelfood · · Score: 1

      Both are just wrong, but the first one is more so because it carries social prejudice along with it.

      No, it's not. The social prejudice is unrelated to the wrongness of secretly filming someone. The existence of the social prejudice may be wrong, but it is not any individual's fault that it exists. And by extension, individuals shouldn't be punished for society's ills.

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    142. Re:No wrongful death? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I feel sorry for his kids, but not really for him. It's his third time? He's not learning. This person clearly won't be convinced that DUI is wrong in its own right (that it's not worth the risk to others), so the next best thing to do is to convince him that it's not worth the risk to himself. And a couple hundred dollar fine (in early-90s dollars) wasn't working. At some point you do have to step it up for recidivists. The breathalyzer especially seems completely appropriate.

      You don't actually have a right to drive a car, it's a privilege.

    143. Re:No wrongful death? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      So many replies and none hit the important point: there was NO RECORDING OF THE EVENT. It was a live video feed for a matter of seconds and nothing was recorded. Two people saw a few seconds of the live video.

    144. Re:No wrongful death? by ffflala · · Score: 2

      Forcing students to give up their privacy for years seems... 3rd worldish. Or was this done specifically to make sure there's no privacy and thus no sex amongst students? Does anyone need insight in how stupid that would be?

      That college students commonly share bedroom space seems more a reflection of financial realities than any conscious approach to depriving anyone of their privacy.

      I just think it is simply something rooted in both pragmatism and tradition. Pragmatism, because it's simply cheaper to house people as roommates. Traditionally, because in the US shared bedrooms has always been very common for financially dependent children. It's not even unusual for adults to have apartment roommates; having separate bedrooms seems to me like it's really just a matter of one's income, or lack thereof.

    145. Re:No wrongful death? by steelfood · · Score: 1

      Actually, it's an attempt to force incoming students to be social. It's a way to get people to meet completely different people with whom they normally wouldn't voluntarily make contact, and hopefully be a better person afterwards.

      It doesn't always work out that way, but it rarely turns out quite this badly.

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      "If a nation expects to be ignorant and free in a state of civilization, it expects what never was and never will be."
    146. Re:No wrongful death? by Squiddie · · Score: 1

      It's not his fault that society looks down on gay sex and that gay teens are so embarrassed of it.

    147. Re:No wrongful death? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Fortunately, the law disagrees, in the interest of fairness.

      Should stealing $20 off a counter be the same as stealing $10,000 from the back room?
      Slapping someone should be the same as wailing on them with a bat?
      Being caught with a joint should be treated like having 300 lbs of pot hidden in the car?

      All are intentional, but different by measure of intent. It's also why sentences exist in ranges even for each of the strata of a charge... not a single, fixed prescription. It matters, and it's the only way you can be anything close to fair.

    148. Re:No wrongful death? by sjames · · Score: 1

      You don't find deliberately inflicting serious pain upon another to be criminal in nature? Agreed, it's not murder, but it's something.

    149. Re:No wrongful death? by budgenator · · Score: 1

      It is?

      ‘Sec. 1801. Video voyeurism
      ‘(a) Whoever, in the special maritime and territorial jurisdiction of the United States, has the intent to capture an image of a private area of an individual without their consent, and knowingly does so under circumstances in which the individual has a reasonable expectation of privacy, shall be fined under this title or imprisoned not more than one year, or both.
      ‘(b) In this section--

      ‘(1) the term ‘capture’, with respect to an image, means to videotape, photograph, film, record by any means, or broadcast;

      ‘(2) the term ‘broadcast’ means to electronically transmit a visual image with the intent that it be viewed by a person or persons;

      ‘(3) the term ‘a private area of the individual’ means the naked or undergarment clad genitals, pubic area, buttocks, or female breast of that individual;

      ‘(4) the term ‘female breast’ means any portion of the female breast below the top of the areola; and

      ‘(5) the term ‘under circumstances in which that individual has a reasonable expectation of privacy’ means--

      ‘(A) circumstances in which a reasonable person would believe that he or she could disrobe in privacy, without being concerned that an image of a private area of the individual was being captured; or

      ‘(B) circumstances in which a reasonable person would believe that a private area of the individual would not be visible to the public, regardless of whether that person is in a public or private place.

      ‘(c) This section does not prohibit any lawful law enforcement, correctional, or intelligence activity.’.

      The verbage is pretty gender neutral, so Ravi's troubles may not be over, he could still face federal charges.

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    150. Re:No wrongful death? by cayenne8 · · Score: 1

      You don't find deliberately inflicting serious pain upon another to be criminal in nature? Agreed, it's not murder, but it's something.

      I don't see where he inflicted serious pain to the other kid.

      He broke privacy laws (I'm not sure the exact ones in that state) at most.

      Sure, it would be embarrassing....but I don't believe there is a law against embarrassing someone, if that was the case, we'd have to lock up most of the population.

      Hurt the other kids feelings? Sure...against the law? No.

      Embarrassment and hurting someones feelings are not criminal infractions, and nor should they be.

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    151. Re:No wrongful death? by ClioCJS · · Score: 1

      I get that, but that's basically thoughtcrime to me.

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    152. Re:No wrongful death? by samoanbiscuit · · Score: 1
      Judge's comments to Rhavi:

      “As to Mr. Ravi. Let me stay this to you in advance. Nothing I say is intended in any way to disparage you or to demean you. I don’t even know you Whatever I say is said for the purpose of there being a full record. I heard this jury say guilty 288 times. 24 questions, 12 jurors. That’s the multiplication. And I haven’t heard you apologize once. And the letter you gave to the pre-sentence people, I’ll called unimpressive. I know in that letter you apologize to Tyler and his family, but you didn’t even mention M.B. and the seven cover-up charges. and here are some of the most salient ironies The person who described your conduct best, [Tyler Clementi,] isn’t even here I know I redacted that comment from the jury, but I didn’t redact it from myself. While your letter doesn’t even mention M.B., he wrote a letter trying to help you avoid deportaiton, which is the main reason when I sign my judgement there will be a notation that you not be deported. It’s understood of course that that’s not my final decision In my opening statements, Ms. McClure described your conduct as mean-spirited, malicious, and criminal. Mr. Altman described it as juvenile and prankish. Now if anyone is wondering why two incredibly competent attorneys disagree, its for the simplest reason in the world: it depends on which side of the camera you’re on You can expunge this judgement, but you cannot expunge the conduct or the pain you caused.”

    153. Re:No wrongful death? by shutdown+-p+now · · Score: 1

      None of the examples you've listed are "different by the measure of intent". They are all different by various objective measures that are independent of intent - the amount of money stolen, the amount of drugs possessed, or the amount of force used (or, alternatively, harm committed).

    154. Re:No wrongful death? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Still their fault. Too bad for them. The strong people who aren't insane will survive, however.

    155. Re:No wrongful death? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      "driven to suicide"

      Bu whom? I don't recall hearing that he was dropped off on that bridge by anyone. I don't recall hearing that anyone told him to kill himself. I haven't heard that he lost a debate as to the worthiness of his existence.

      I'm pretty sure he overreacted and did something stupid on his own.

    156. Re:No wrongful death? by Solandri · · Score: 1

      But even if he were being punished for causing Clementi's suicide, he had to have known that he was selecting an extremely vulnerable victim. He knew that Clementi was a loner and semi-closeted and was afraid of being open about it--and then he exploited him.

      This is actually a separate problem, one for which Ravi likely bears no responsibility. Our elementary, jr, and high schools pretty much turn a blind eye to bullying. When kids grow up in an environment where there's little to no consequences for bullying, it should come as no surprise that 18 year-old college students sometimes don't immediately see the problem with "pranking" another student. In a way, Ravi could be as much a victim here.

    157. Re:No wrongful death? by Taco+Cowboy · · Score: 1, Interesting

      Pray tell, of how many millions of homosexual that you get one Alan Turing ?

      Or are you saying that all the homosexuals are as bright as Alan Turing ??

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    158. Re:No wrongful death? by BasilBrush · · Score: 1

      WFT? A death is a death....? At least...it used to be?

      No it didn't. There are long standing distinctions between different degrees of murder and manslaughter.

    159. Re:No wrongful death? by Mabhatter · · Score: 1

      Of course if you were a freshman and your 18 year-old roommate brought home a 17 year-old freshman you won't find that very funny either!

      Seriously, sounds like the judge let the verdicts stand, but realized it was throwing a pretty heavy book at the kid. This also LEAVES the precedent on the books that a JURY convicted on all the counts. Nobody is going to tie this up in appeals for years over 30 days jail. That makes this a REALLY BIG STICK for the DA to use later!

      I would seriously start watching what you post as "revenge pranks" from now on.

    160. Re:No wrongful death? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I don't think you understand the difference between direct and indirect.

    161. Re:No wrongful death? by Ronin+Developer · · Score: 1

      He was tried and convicted of the crimes for which he was accused - invasion of privacy, harassment, witness intimidation and destruction of evidence. The bastard knows what he did was wrong - he acted with malice. Sadly, he also hasn't an once of remorse about it either. His mother had to plead for the judge to spare him - what a wuss.

      If he actually cared that his actions could drive someone to commit suicide, then 30 days is enough. If not, then there aren't enough days in a lifetime to attorney for his actions.

      Deport his sorry ass.

      Then, this country needs to really think why we have to discriminate - why is it that people find fault with others who aren't perceived as the same as everyone else? Those that perpetuate this behavior are why our country is in crisis and divided.

    162. Re:No wrongful death? by hey! · · Score: 1

      it shouldn't matter whether the person so filmed is gay or not.

      Well, I think circumstances matter in making that determination.

      Perhaps talking about "precise intent" is too vague, or perhaps too technical in a legal sense. Let's talk for a minute about what reasonable person would expect the consequences of an action would be. Are the likely consequences of distributing video of people having gay sex different from the likely consequences of distributing video of people having straight sex?

      It depends on the circumstances. Suppose this happens in Afghanistan; either way you are exposing the people to potential Taliban assassination, so there'd be no difference.

      In some places in the US exposing a gay person this way would be *more* likely to result in violence or discrimination than exposing a straight person, and therefore it is *more* morally repugnant *in this circumstance*. This doesn't amount to "special treatment" for gays in the law; the "special treatment" has already been applied by bigots on the street and the law would just be recognizing it. At other times in US history revealing that a black man had sex with a white woman would put that man at severe risk of lynching. In those circumstances a reasonable person would judge the harm done to the man to be greater than if it were same-race sex.

      Now applying that principle of reasonable expectation in this circumstance, would a *reasonable person* expect this to result in the death of the victim? In general I don't think so, although it would be clear that this raises the risk to the victim of further violence and possibly suicide. The damage itself to the victim's privacy would be vile enough, but the crime wouldn't amount to murder.

      Now suppose the perpetrator knew that the victim was psychologically vulnerable and was contemplating suicide. Wouldn't that change the reasonable expectations of the result? What if there had been a rash of murders of openly gay students on campus, and the person distributing the video knew the victim was a closeted gay man. Would that change the reasonable expectations of the result?

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    163. Re:No wrongful death? by Mabhatter · · Score: 1

      The judge let the Jury ruling stand so the DA got to win, but didn't get his sacrifice. The defense will be fuming for years because they LOST, and list hard. This kid will do his 30 days, and it's not worth to appeal. So the DA's case and the JURY decision STANDS on the books for now. That's a giant club they are going to have to fight again.

    164. Re:No wrongful death? by cayenne8 · · Score: 1

      No it didn't. There are long standing distinctions between different degrees of murder and manslaughter.

      Yes..those have to do with if the death was premeditated, or accidental.

      That's plenty sufficient. If you killing someone in a premeditated fashion...whether you did it due to jealousy, sex, color...whatever, that is covered. (Usually a 1st degree or 2nd degree depending on your jurisdiction). There is no need for a 'hate' crime addition. You planned and killed a person, whatever the reason......we already have a punishment for it.

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    165. Re:No wrongful death? by hey! · · Score: 1

      So you think that a person's intent in performing an action is clearly distinct from what he expects the consequences of that action to be?

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    166. Re:No wrongful death? by hairyfeet · · Score: 1

      Not to mention the dead student's own words and actions made it frankly look to me like there really wasn't a case here. the school offered twice to get him a new roommate, he refused, which if he was so damned bothered by this why would he stay with a douchebag?

      In the end this excuse was frankly covering for what I truly believe the real cause of this young man's death was, which was the fact his parents made it clear they wanted to have nothing to do with him, the mother going so far as to disown him. Now which do YOU think the more likely cause of the suicide, your family which by all accounts he had been close to telling you to go to hell when they find out you're gay, or one asshole roommate which you aren't bothered enough by to even take a different room when offered. To me this smells like the whole "cyber suicide" case where someone acted like a prick online and they tried to find something to hang her with. Ultimately YOU are in charge of your own life and "acting like a douchebag" simply isn't illegal. What's next, we gonna throw trolls in prison when they hurt someone's feelings?

      And this is coming from someone who has a gay child, but unlike the sorry parents of this kid we actually supported ours. If anyone tries to pick on him because he is gay he simply says "So what? why should I give a damned WHAT you think?" and walks on. You see that is what happens when you actually support your kid, they can be confident to just be themselves instead of feeling isolated and alone which is what i'm sure that kid felt like after his own parents turned on him. Contrast this with the "big scene" when our youngest came out, all that was said is my dear sweet grandmother said "Dear, we kinda knew that already. I'm old and half deaf, not blind honey" and that was that. I just wish I'd had a camera at the time because the look on his face as his great grandma said that and scooted along with her walker was priceless!

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    167. Re:No wrongful death? by El+Rey · · Score: 5, Insightful

      It seems to me to be the opposite.

      Look at similar cases. A guy in Ohio videotapes a woman in the shower in his own house, and he gets 7 years and has to register as a sex offender.

      This guy videotapes gays and gets 30 days.

      If there was favoritism towards gays, this guy would have gotten more than 30 days...

    168. Re:No wrongful death? by Shompol · · Score: 2

      I did not read TFA, but since the video made the victim commit suicide implies that he was not just being videotaped: he was humiliated and harassed on a daily basis, the video was just an icing on the cake. These things are not restricted to gay, but any potential target of harassment, be it a race, disability, inferior social status, etc. And yes, if one harasses a person to the bitter end the law should "indiscriminately" shell out something heftier than 30 days.

    169. Re:No wrongful death? by shutdown+-p+now · · Score: 2

      In some places in the US exposing a gay person this way would be *more* likely to result in violence or discrimination than exposing a straight person, and therefore it is *more* morally repugnant *in this circumstance*. This doesn't amount to "special treatment" for gays in the law; the "special treatment" has already been applied by bigots on the street and the law would just be recognizing it. At other times in US history revealing that a black man had sex with a white woman would put that man at severe risk of lynching. In those circumstances a reasonable person would judge the harm done to the man to be greater than if it were same-race sex.

      Now applying that principle of reasonable expectation in this circumstance, would a *reasonable person* expect this to result in the death of the victim? In general I don't think so, although it would be clear that this raises the risk to the victim of further violence and possibly suicide. The damage itself to the victim's privacy would be vile enough, but the crime wouldn't amount to murder.

      That sounds reasonable. My beef is mainly with the classification of it as a "hate crime", which usually implies some sort of discrimination against a group of people. But, yes, your reasoning makes sense, and it would in fact apply even if the perpetrator did not himself hate gays - he could even be one himself. What matters is the intent to cause damage, and the expectation of that damage (which is aided by the background of the victim, and its perception by the local community).

    170. Re:No wrongful death? by El+Rey · · Score: 2

      Hurt the other kids feelings? Sure...against the law? No.

      Against the law? Um yeah, he was convicted.

      Convicted of 15 felonies, serving 30 days. Seems out of whack to me.

      Saw another case where a guy in Ohio videotaped a woman taking a shower in his own house and got 7 years plus had to register as a sex offender.

      I'm not gay but I don't understand why videotaping gay sex gets less prison than videotaping a naked woman. Just sayin'...

    171. Re:No wrongful death? by honkycat · · Score: 3, Insightful

      A man died as a direct result of this douche bag's actions.

      There are a lot of things wrong with what he did, but calling it a "direct result" is misleading.

    172. Re:No wrongful death? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Well, I'm not trying to defend his actions, or anyone else's for drinking and driving, so let's be clear about that. I was just pointing out that 30 days for causing someone's suicide vs. 90 days for not killing anyone looks a little funny on the balance of justice. On the one hand you have a drunk driver who was heavily punished for being in danger of possibly killing someone (but didn't), and on the other hand you have someone who died as the result of 15 crimes who was punished by only one third the amount in jail.

      Someone dead -- guy gets 30 days vs. nobody died -- guy gets 60 days.

      BTW, he did learn. Twenty years ago, drinking and driving where he lived wasn't really all that big of a deal and the punishment fit that general sentiment. Had he known that the law had changed in that time to become so severe, I am certain he would have stayed home that night.

      As far as recidivism, I completely disagree when it comes to alcohol and drug abuse because they are victimless crimes. They need to treat the disease, not punish the symptoms. Their "treatment" program only served to make him resentful and didn't help him at all. In fact, my observation is that he became worse after it, although he doesn't drink and drive anymore.

      The breathalyzer law, while I agree is useful, also comes with a lot of bullshit. The biggest problem is that the equipment blows false positives all the time. The companies that administer the equipment have zero interest in having "customers" be treated fairly since they would be eligible to remove the equipment if they show clean for a certain period of time -- which means the company would lose money.

      In fact, the state legislature agreed that 10 years was ridiculous and reduced the need for it down to three years in New Mexico. Problem is, it isn't retroactive to people who received the 10 year punishment in the little two year window when it was in effect. So he got fucked again by the law.

    173. Re:No wrongful death? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Heh... Half of the people who showed up to watch his jury trial were from MADD. They were there to intimidate the local law enforcement who actually botched his blood test (which is why there was a jury trial in the first place). Hang 'em high is how it went. In fact, when the judge accepted the plea bargain from felony down to misdemeanor, he said he'd be out after 90 days with a 30 day probation period. The judge caved to pressure from MADD after he got out and unilaterally changed the plea agreement to 1 year probation, 10 years breathalyzer, and 1 year drug court (drug rehab administered by the court). Being as how my friend was out of a job after being incarcerated, he couldn't afford another lawyer to fight that.

      As I have said to others here already, I am not trying to defend his actions or any drinking and driving for that matter, but he really did get fucked hard by the law in many ways compared to that kid that caused that other kid to kill himself.

    174. Re:No wrongful death? by readin · · Score: 1

      90 days for DUI sounds good to me, assuming it wasn't the first offense. What annoys me, and is relevant to the Ravi-Clementi case, is when someone gets sent to jail for 20 years or life because they're DUI lead to an accident in which someone died.

      The crime is DUI because DUI creates a situation where an accident is likely to occur. Let me repeat - "an accident is likely to occur". If an accident does occur, it is still an accident. The driver deliberately decided to DUI, but the driver did not deliberately decide to cause an accident or to kill someone.

      It is insane that one person can DUI and get a ticket while another driver does the same thing and gets 20 years to life. Better that all DUI, regardless of the luck of the driver, is punished with a memorable but not life-ending jail term on the second offense than to have the judge make a life-ending decision that is just as random as the accident that resulted from the DUI.

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    175. Re:No wrongful death? by readin · · Score: 1

      Excellent point.

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    176. Re:No wrongful death? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Yes, but that social prejudice is not that guy's fault, and as such does not incriminate him.

      From your post, I see you also have bad coping skills, because your are also not coping with it : you should be able to tell your parents. If they love you, they shouldn't have any problems with it. If they do have a problem with it, then that's there problem. Be sure to tell them that ( if you love them, you should also point out their errors ).

      Be proud of who you are, and don't worry about people who don't accept you for who you are. They are not your friends, they are friends with someone they think they know.

      And that's also why you should tell them : your true friends and family deserve someone who is honest about who he is.

      This is hard, but it is the only way to be truly happy.

    177. Re:No wrongful death? by SeaFox · · Score: 1

      Secretly filming your roommate having gay sex is a little worse than just saying something random and mean on slashdot.

      These aren't waters that haven't been tread before...

      http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Suicide_of_Megan_Meier

    178. Re:No wrongful death? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      But I cannot tell this to my parents. Hell, I cannot even think how it would be if I was in the position to tell my parents that I wanted to be other gender.

      Yeah, that's YOUR problem for being a coward. If that is the way you want to live, then man the fuck up and let it out. What is the worst thing that can possibly happen? Your parents get upset temporarily?

    179. Re:No wrongful death? by milkasing · · Score: 1

      There NEVER was a video. Just a webcam that was on for a couple of minutes.

    180. Re:No wrongful death? by Rakshasa-sensei · · Score: 1

      It's no different than secretly filming your roommate having straight sex, and then sending the video to her ultra-conservative parents who disown her for no longer being a virgin fit for marriage.

      Context never matters.

    181. Re:No wrongful death? by ClioCJS · · Score: 1

      So now one's actions is measured by how the parents of someone else reacts, something a person can't possibly know. Great. Also, nice for you to morph it into also having a video be sent. You added that to make the comparison dishonest.

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    182. Re:No wrongful death? by ClioCJS · · Score: 1

      The crux in a case there there would probably be if you have a reasonable expectation of privacy from a roommate who shares the same room. I think a roommate can't prevent you from photographing them -- so setting up a camera would be fine by that. Plus there's the whole intent thing. I think his intent was to see if it was true, not to capture an image. He looked away as soon as he saw it was true. Also, the statute says record, and nothing I've read said anything was recorded. So it's a weak case full of holes.

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    183. Re:No wrongful death? by FrootLoops · · Score: 1

      Your overarching point that society needs to encourage people to grow a thicker skin is a good one. Most of your other points suck.

      and, no, talking about your feelings and 'expressing your feminine side' doesn't work very well for guys, but, of course, everything is judged by feminine ideals nowadays...

      That's ridiculous on at least five levels. 'Feminine ideals' is an almost meaninglessly vague phrase. You complain about passive aggressiveness while passive-aggressively letting ellipses state your real comment for you ("...but feminine ideals are crap" or "...but masculine ideals are better", etc.). For some guys talking through your feelings is extremely helpful--not everyone is as apparently heartless as you are. Expressing your feminine side is, as far as I can tell, mostly a myth perpetuated by movies and TV shows. Hardly anything is judged by a single set of ideals when humans are involved, so whatever you define 'feminine ideals' as, your statement is still going to be way oversimplified.

      if you want privacy, don't have sex in a shared dorm room. I do'nt know what else to say.. This is just pragmatic, tactical logic.

      That's paranoid--how many roommates are assholes enough to do what this guy did? He's an exception, not the rule. If Tyler hadn't committed suicide, Ravi still would have been disciplined by the school for his serious invasion of privacy. Not being outed seems to have mattered a great deal to Tyler so he should have taken more precautions, but that doesn't justify Ravi's behavior--they can both be at fault.

    184. Re:No wrongful death? by ClioCJS · · Score: 1

      Those people weren't committing voluntary suicide, they were jumping out of flames. Completely involuntary. Not only is it dishonest to compare the two, but way to make light of their decision, as if they had some kind of choice. But anyway: Apples and oranges. This guy did not have no choice. In fact, the school offered to change roommates for him twice, and he declined. In no way is it like jumping away from a flame into a deathly fall.

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    185. Re:No wrongful death? by sjames · · Score: 1

      If that is "hurt feelings", then blowing someone's brains out is "giving them a booboo".

    186. Re:No wrongful death? by ClioCJS · · Score: 1

      ...And a great deal of us grown-ups think that is bullshit. What you are basically saying is that if you can think of a better reason to assault someone, that your punishment should be less. Either it's legal or it's not. There shouldn't be "more legal assault".

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    187. Re:No wrongful death? by ArsenneLupin · · Score: 1

      (and worrying about ass raping)

      hehe, and the prison guards will even have it on camera!

    188. Re:No wrongful death? by ArsenneLupin · · Score: 1

      I'd like to see a link of the heart attack during robbery issue - seeing as heart disease is the #1 killer, and it's a result of growing old and/or lifestyle, how can the robber really be to blame?

      So just sue the local McDonalds instead!

    189. Re:No wrongful death? by musmax · · Score: 1

      This. Your offence is your problem. I don't control the way you react, you do. If you don't like that, fuck off.

    190. Re:No wrongful death? by ClioCJS · · Score: 1

      wut

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    191. Re:No wrongful death? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

      The only way to have a society without discrimination is to treat everyone indiscriminately. That applies to the law, as well.

      There are three aspects of a crime needed to convince a jury of guilt in a criminal proceeding: means, motive and opportunity. What you're forgetting here is the motive. If the motive was simply to playfully shame a friend, the verdict would have been set accordingly. If it was to intimidate a large group of people, the punishment is bound to be more severe. A minority is in this respect treated just like any large group of people, it's the motive behind an action that detemines the crime's appropriate punishment.

      To give you an analogy let's take a guy who runs a kid over, killing him. If there was a motive, let's say revenge (this kid was bullying his kid) it's one thing. If he left a note saying "Leave, niggers, or the girl is next", the motive is to intimidate a family to leave and an entire group of people not to take (law given) liberties: a hate crime. If it was an accident, there was no motive, and the punishment is set accordingly.

      In this case it's clear the motive wasn't to kill the roommate, only to shame him for being what he is, effectively intimidating other gay people. That one count (out of 15) is where he didn't treat everyone indiscriminately, as you put it.

    192. Re:No wrongful death? by davester666 · · Score: 1

      No, since the 60's, the civil rights movement have pushed the agenda that SWMs need to be held down for a while to make up for all the real and/or perceived offenses any SWM has done in the past.

      And they haven't specified how long "a while" should be. We probably have a couple hundred years to go just because of Hitler.

      And yes, I have godwin'ed the thread.

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    193. Re:No wrongful death? by xenobyte · · Score: 3, Insightful

      A man died as a direct result of this douche bag's actions.

      There are a lot of things wrong with what he did, but calling it a "direct result" is misleading.

      Misleading? - It's plain wrong!

      There are countless suicides every year linking to direct bullying, and it's beyond rare that someone actually gets prosecuted for it. There was no bullying or blackmail involved here as far as I know. There was just a recording of a sexual act. There's no direct link to the suicide so I'd have acquitted the guy completely for the suicide but of course convicted for the invasion of privacy.

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    194. Re:No wrongful death? by Chrisq · · Score: 1

      Both are just wrong, but the first one is more so because it carries social prejudice along with it.

      No, it's not. The social prejudice is unrelated to the wrongness of secretly filming someone. The existence of the social prejudice may be wrong, but it is not any individual's fault that it exists. And by extension, individuals shouldn't be punished for society's ills.

      Absolutely. I see no reason why it would be worse to film someone with a member of the same sex or opposite - both are gross invasions of privacy.

    195. Re:No wrongful death? by Chrisq · · Score: 1

      You seem to be living in the fantasy world that everyone is strong and should be able to take punishment.

      Take this to the logical conclusion and you lose free speech. Say that God doesn't exist and you might upset a theist. Say that "honour killings" are wrong and you might be insulting Muhammad, which we all know justifies violence.

    196. Re:No wrongful death? by newcastlejon · · Score: 1

      People like you who think a third party should be held responsible for someone's choices and actions truly sicken me. You lack the courage and the balls to stand up and accept the blame for your own problems and you lack the courage to not care what other people think or say, and you want to shift the blame to someone else because it's easier that way.

      I don't think so, and never said I did. What you're saying seems to boil down to suicide being a rationally arrived-at decision, which simply isn't true; it's an act of desperation.

      Now, I'm not suggesting that in this particular case Ravi could (or did) have any idea what the kid's mental state was, but sometimes people do "egg on" others with full knowledge of how close they are to the edge, metaphorically speaking. Are you saying that they shouldn't be held accountable?

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    197. Re:No wrongful death? by newcastlejon · · Score: 1

      That may be the case, and I never meant to pass judgement on whether or not this suicide was warranted since that can't be decided by anyone but the individual. What I take exception to is the suggestion that people "decide" to kill themselves. I don't believe this to be the case; it's a last resort to them.

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    198. Re:No wrongful death? by EdIII · · Score: 1

      So by your logic a purely descriptive term cannot be offensive? I can call a gay man fudgepacker and picklesmoker and not cause offense? Perhaps the most direct one, cocksucker?

      What about midget or dwarf? I know that one of those descriptive terms is offensive, but I don't know which.

      I don't understand how shemale can be derogatory either, but your logic does not seem to hold up. Whatever group the term is directed at seems to be able to call those shots, regardless of how illogical they may be as well.

    199. Re:No wrongful death? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      The blame for Tyler Clementi's suicide still falls on one person and one person alone, himself. We ALL have times when we feel down, depressed and like the world is against us but we push on knowing that times ahead can and probably will be better. Sometimes we can handle it on our own and sometimes we need to find people to help us through it. If Tyler Clementi was unable to cope by himself, he could have easily sought out family, friends or a support group. This is the internet age, there is no reason that anyone, regardless of race, sexual orientation, religion, personal views, fetishes, whatever cannot find like minded individuals to discuss their problems and worries with.

      Society, especially American society, has become so frail, pampered and self conscious that it seems like anything that could be remotely perceived as a slight against another individual is instantly met with torches and pitchforks. Lose the insecurity and entitlement, harden up and grow a spine. The world can be a harsh place sometimes and you need to learn how to handle that.

    200. Re:No wrongful death? by bruce_the_loon · · Score: 1

      Then you have no idea what real thoughtcrime is. Thoughtcrime is only thinking "illegal" thoughts, NOT carrying them out, NOT planning to carry them out, NOT discussing them in any seriousness with others. It is NOT victimless crimes or crimes that have a non-physical result.

      For this case to be a thoughtcrime, Ravi would have had to be arrested, convicted and jailed merely for thinking that he should record his roommate having gay sex. Having actually carried it out moves it from thoughtcrime to an actual punishible criminal act.

      The tendency to assign the label of thoughtcrime to actions like Ravi did, or to criminals caught in the planning stages waters the term down.

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    201. Re:No wrongful death? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      And what will they do about it, hit him with a purse?

    202. Re:No wrongful death? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      And you know this because transgendered people write rap songs and blow their hats off once you call them shemales?

      What if they DO take offense? Just becuase they don't react with violence doesn't mean it's less offensive.

      On the contrary to be honest, there are more black people around than transgendered.

      This shit about ppl QQing when someone says "nigger" has to stop, just get the fuck over it it's a word.

      Black people came to the US as slaves, that's unacceptable, I agree.
      However, look at the difference on black people in the US today compared to in Africa from where they originated... from slave to president bro, I think it's time to let go "we where slaves now treat us better than other people to make up for it!"

      Black people where slaves, the current ones aren't.
      Transgendered people are born that way, there's no way to change that, they where never slaves so it's okay to say Shemale?
      Saying Ladyboy is like talking about a hooker from thailand... those are "ladyboys".
      Which technically means you're saying "hooker" to a transgendered when you're saying "shemale" as you're considering "shemale" and "Ladyboy" the same.

      Get over yourself.

      Also

      Nigger

    203. Re:No wrongful death? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Difference being, there is a higher probability to kill someone when driving drunk, trust me have you seen ppl driving drunk? It's not very pretty :]

      There is a very very very small chance that the guy knew that filming two people having sex would lead to someone committing suicide.

    204. Re:No wrongful death? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      They survived their suicide attempts, so they are also cowards... the only difference between this gay kid and your friends is that the gay kid was competent. Seems like if you're able to find the good side of your cowardly friends then you should be able to appreciate this kid, too. You're a hypocrite.

    205. Re:No wrongful death? by Grygus · · Score: 1

      Sarcasm doesn't work on the internet. We can't hear you. It doesn't work anywhere, really.

      Yeah. Sarcasm never works.

    206. Re:No wrongful death? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

      That's because the laws are fucked up and treat women much better than men.

    207. Re:No wrongful death? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Unless I misread, the 'bullying', would be the video of his roommate having sex being posted online.

    208. Re:No wrongful death? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      People who tend to defend minorities by highlighting the "bright" and "beneficial" people that came from those minorities are in the same group as "protect the children".Show me a clear connection between belonging to a particular minority, and having a particular trait, but sorry, you can't.

      What if all of these minorities were to be destroyed? Then maybe Alan Turing would be straight, and Einstein would be American. Not like relativity will be forever undiscovered, if it wasn't for Einstein.

      From humanity point of view, DNA-regulation and birth control is the obvious choice, as what we are doing currently pretty much warrants us progressive deterioration of the genome, and hence the expected quality of life. Ever thought of Alzheimer disease as something inevitable in your future? And just because everyone in your blood line had it...

      I am not suggesting a nazi cleansing here, but current minority "protection" is simply going too far, and starting to hurt "non-minority" people, as well as consuming tonns of resources.

      If I had a choice whether to be born as a disabled person, or not to be born at all, I would choose latter. And by letting my parents to be genetically "disabled" you are pretty much ensuring that I will be too.

      P.S. posting as AC, as I am disabled, and I despise the resources I am taking up from my family and society, barely able to give anything useful back. And I am not able to end it for myself, not yet at least.

    209. Re:No wrongful death? by rearden · · Score: 2



      You are missing the other things he did. The messages he sent out to others, sharing the broadcast, sending out tweets, IM's, and more. His culpability comes not in recording the sex, but in distributing it and publishing it in a negative way. Just because you don't forsee the outcome of your actions does not mean that you are not responsible, at least partially, for the outcome.

      I think the punishment is appropriate. He, and others and lets be honest punishment is about determent, will think twice about doing things like this because they don't want the news, the fines, and the jail time.

      To be honest, if he had not been such a douchebag in court and in the limited time he was in public he probably would have gotten less. Hard to have sympathy for someone who was cold, calculating, and who's only response thus far has essentially been "its not my fault, I should be able to do what I want".

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    210. Re:No wrongful death? by GrahamCox · · Score: 1

      I've never heard anyone else imply that the descriptive term "shemale" is offensive in any way, just as the equally descriptive term "ladyboy" is not offensive

      In what way are those terms purely descriptive? Have you actually asked a transgendered person whether they are offended by the terms?I suspect not because most I've ever spoken to do indeed find it offensive.

    211. Re:No wrongful death? by perryizgr8 · · Score: 0

      which was better than making a deal for pleading guilty. imo, if you think you are not guilty, you should keep saying it, and not give in to deals like this, where you are promised less jail time in return for falsely admitting guilt.

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    212. Re:No wrongful death? by perryizgr8 · · Score: 0

      so lets punish their roommate. that's completely sensible.

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    213. Re:No wrongful death? by tehcyder · · Score: 1

      The only difference is that one is frowned upon more, and that is society's fault, not the individual who recorded him's fault.

      Yes, but both of them are part of society, and cannot be free from it. It is precisely because of society's homophobia that the guy killed himself, because he knew how badly so many people view being gay. And the guy filming knew this too.

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    214. Re:No wrongful death? by oreaq · · Score: 1

      you try to lower the crime amount by making punishment tougher.

      Can you name one example where this actually worked?

    215. Re:No wrongful death? by tehcyder · · Score: 1

      Seriously....we now are putting in laws that make murder worse if a white guy kills a black guy because he's black. It is much worse that if he killed another white guy for any other reason. WFT? A death is a death....? At least...it used to be?

      The following are both deaths.

      In one, you playfully push a friend in the back after you've both had a couple of drinks, and he trips, then falls and cracks his skull open on an inconvenient sharp rock, and dies.

      In the other, a serial killer kidnaps a child and tortures them to death over a period of several days.

      Do you think there is no difference?

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    216. Re:No wrongful death? by superdude72 · · Score: 1

      I think in the USA, a lot of the on-campus housing was built 30 to 100 years ago, when the university was considered a surrogate parent for the still impressionable students ("in loco parentis").

      Times have changed--dorms are now mostly coed, for instance, and there is usually no "house mother" watching to make sure everyone gets in by curfew--but we still have these old buildings, and we've run out of space to build new ones, and living on campus for at least a year or two is considered a mark of a good quality undergraduate experience. If all of the double rooms were converted to singles, it would be harder to fit everyone on campus.

      When I went to school in the '90s, I shared a room for my freshman year, moved to a single room in my sophomore year, then moved to a shared apartment off campus as an upperclassmen. I think this is still a fairly typical arrangement.

      In hindsight, though, I can't believe I survived sharing a room for even one year. "My girlfriend's coming over, can you find somewhere else to sleep?" seemed like just a normal conversation at the time, but in hindsight, I was paying a lot of money for that room I only had the use of for 4-5 nights a week!

    217. Re:No wrongful death? by oreaq · · Score: 1

      No, since the 60's, the civil rights movement have pushed the agenda that SWMs need to be held down for a while to make up for all the real and/or perceived offenses any SWM has done in the past.

      Since thousands of years white males have pushed for the agenda that everyone else needs to be held down forever. You are not the victim just because you are not allowed to own any slaves anymore. Stop crying; it's embarrassing.

    218. Re:No wrongful death? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      So much ignorant bigotism in this comment that I almost feel the need to create an account for this.

      What is this 'people are vats of nitroglycerine'? Nevermind the fact that already it's an extremely small percentage of people that 'go off at the smallest jab'. Nevermind the mountains of abuse the guy already went through to push him to that point in the first place.

      So how would you have handled this? Especially as a person whom I sincerely doubt has ever had to tolerate overtly abusive behaviour for an extended amount of time.

      Calling someone weak and then rattling off ignorant recommendations for people to implement in the future. I can't even verbalize how utterly stupid your commments are. The guy is DEAD. Please take your verbal diarrhea and repeat it to the parents of that boy; I'm sure they'd love to hear all about their son's suicide being entirely his own damn fault.

      And this gets rated +5 insightful. Officially ashamed of the slashdot community.

    219. Re:No wrongful death? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      HELL ya! You go! Best of both worlds IMHO. :-D

    220. Re:No wrongful death? by gorzek · · Score: 1

      He didn't simply record it, he broadcasted it to all of his friends so they could watch. The obvious goal here was intimidation and humiliation. Classic bullying.

    221. Re:No wrongful death? by tehcyder · · Score: 1

      People are not psychologically aware of other people

      Yes, they are. We don't all have some fashionable version of autism, you know.

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    222. Re:No wrongful death? by gorzek · · Score: 1

      Just look at some of the comments around here. It's pretty clear American society still devalues and dehumanizes gay people, even if they don't come right out and admit it.

      It's fucking sickening.

    223. Re:No wrongful death? by hackula · · Score: 1

      Might cost me a job, perhaps a few 'friends'

      To a lot of people-- perhaps MOST people:

      job + friends = life

    224. Re:No wrongful death? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Umm. Not true. Depends a LOT on the person.

      Most trans folk prefer to be called by their identified gender. In some cases that gets a LOT

      What he's probably talking to is a Genetic Male that is taking hormones and such, identifies as strict middle of the road androgynous and prefers the pronouns Shi, or Shey, or Shim. Some prefer ladyboy, others prefer shemale. Now, if you call a transvestite a shemale or ladyboy you WILL get slapped. Ditto with some transfolk but not all.

      Also, author is very likely using terms everyone can understand rather than insulting his lover. :-p

    225. Re:No wrongful death? by tehcyder · · Score: 1

      To be honest, if he had not been such a douchebag in court and in the limited time he was in public he probably would have gotten less. Hard to have sympathy for someone who was cold, calculating, and who's only response thus far has essentially been "its not my fault, I should be able to do what I want".

      I wonder what his slashdot IUD is?

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    226. Re:No wrongful death? by nosferatu1001 · · Score: 1

      Wow, you really ARE a moron.

      You made a general statement that "coddling" the weak makes society weaker, and when shown how stupid a concept that was this is all you can come up with?

    227. Re:No wrongful death? by netskink · · Score: 0

      The way I see it. He has a criminal conviction. The victims family can now sue in civil court for monetary damages from wrongful death. And if he is only in jail for 30 days it will give him plenty of time to work off the money he will owe the family and the lawyers. And to add insult to injury. His only way out is to file bankruptcy. Bankruptcy, criminal conviction and not to mention the notoriety of what he has done will pretty much flush his future down the drain. I assure you he has not yet begun to regret what he did.

    228. Re:No wrongful death? by ClioCJS · · Score: 1

      So now we are required to lie to protect other people from society? I can understand if you're a Jew in Nazi Germany, but beyond that, we all have enough freedom to have alternatives to.. death.

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    229. Re:No wrongful death? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Obviously, who are these nerds? I have never heard of them, on what channel are they, what game did they win on TV?

    230. Re:No wrongful death? by ClioCJS · · Score: 1

      Okay fine, that's a hair to split. It's not thoughtcrime. It's a thoughtcrime enhancement: The exact same physical act changes in legal definition and punishment amount depending on one's thoughts.

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    231. Re:No wrongful death? by cayenne8 · · Score: 1
      Of course there is...we have degrees of murder...1st, 2nd...etc.

      Those laws cover everything we need. Usually premeditated is 1st degree..the worst.

      The reason WHY you premeditated it....isn't important. If you planned to kill someone over money, or if they were a different race matters not.

      So, we don't need 'hate' crimes....they are already covered under the existing laws.

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    232. Re:No wrongful death? by oreaq · · Score: 1

      You must be the weakest person in the world if you think secretly videotaping your room mate having sex and posting that video on the internet is a sign of strength.

      Just a wild guess: You actually don't pay any taxes, right? Your mom and dad do that?

    233. Re:No wrongful death? by BasilBrush · · Score: 1

      Yes..those have to do with if the death was premeditated, or accidental.

      Indeed, so it's not just as simple as "a death is a death". There are some variables in there to do with intent. And "racially motivated" is just one of those.

      Society views it as more serious if I decide to kill you yesterday and do it today (1st degree), then if I just do it immediately as an impulsive reaction. (2nd degree).

      Society also views it as more serious if I decide to kill someone of your race, and you end up getting killed, than it I decide to kill you.

      Your views might be out of alignment with society on the second of those, possibly because you have no experience of being a victim of racism, or no empathy for it. But laws don't need the approval of everyone. They only need for society as a whole to find them reasonable.

    234. Re:No wrongful death? by Agent0013 · · Score: 1

      A man died as a direct result of this douche bag's actions.

      And what if he killed himself after getting a 'D' in one of his classes? Should we then put the professor in jail? Your statement fits in that case also. He died as a direct result of the professor giving him a 'D'.

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    235. Re:No wrongful death? by shilly · · Score: 1

      Erm. Normally, the individual committing the crime is *specifically trying to take advantage* of the existence of the social prejudice as a force multiplier for the crime, eg "Hah, not only can I humiliate this person by filming them having sex in the way that anyone would be humiliated in those circumstances, I can also expose them to additional risks of being beaten to a pulp by homophobes".

    236. Re:No wrongful death? by Darby · · Score: 0

      What about midget or dwarf? I know that one of those descriptive terms is offensive, but I don't know which.

      Actually, the preferred term is now "Imp".

    237. Re:No wrongful death? by Agent0013 · · Score: 1

      The solution is to lock up people who wish to harm others.

      I bet you don't realize that this statement would make you one of the people who wish to harm others and therefore you should be locked up. Pretty ironic if you ask me!

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    238. Re:No wrongful death? by shilly · · Score: 1

      I don't think you have ever seen a person who had the grace, courage, and understanding to accept persecution without any kind of emotional reaction. It makes the bully look stupid and embarasses them thoroughly. It creates a contrast between real strength versus the insecurity the bully is trying to cover up by acting tough. Whereas if you fall into the emotional trap laid by the bully, his way works and you look weak while he looks dominant.

      If you have never seen this, or better if you have never demonstrated it yourself, you really have no clue how powerful it is. It is not the simple "just take it" and it is not the simple "ignore him hoping he goes away" type of doormat behavior you might be imagining. It's more like being able to walk up to the bully and tell him right to his face how pathetic he is, calmly, and watch him back down with his tail between his legs even if he's much bigger than you.

      The bully depends on your reaction to get the energy he needs. Deprive him of that and he's like an engine with no fuel. Believing me on this is not good enough and you'll probably end up in a fistfight if you do it without understanding. You have to see it yourself

      You know, sometimes it doesn't work out just quite that positively. Sometimes it results in getting beaten to shit anyway. I think you're being a bit naive. You're also not accounting for what to do about people who are inherently unable to following your prescribed course of action: the very young, the mentally ill, those with significant cognitive deficits, those with physical disabilities who may, for example, be unable even to see their attackers, etc etc. Telling them all to make like Buddha is not wildly helpful advice.

    239. Re:No wrongful death? by shilly · · Score: 1

      Well, yes. Ever heard of the Arab spring?

    240. Re:No wrongful death? by Metabolife · · Score: 1

      Which is why punching a straight man is called "assault", while punching a gay man is called a "hate crime" I presume?

    241. Re:No wrongful death? by shilly · · Score: 1

      Why use a pretentious phrase like "Pray tell" if you're going to complete the sentence with really appalling grammar and syntax? It just makes you look like more of a nobber.

    242. Re:No wrongful death? by budgenator · · Score: 1

      I would argue since the victim made arrangements to secure privacy with Ravi, he absolutely had a reasonable expectation of privacy, and the statute also says broadcast as in " to electronically transmit a visual image with the intent that it be viewed by a person or persons;" so since the images were transferred electronically to another computer for viewing; I just don't see the holes.

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    243. Re:No wrongful death? by ClioCJS · · Score: 1

      So transmit in your context can mean "transmit to yourself"? Hmm. To me, you can't transmit something from your own computer to yourself, or transmit something from your webcam to your computer. To me, transmit implies ... transmitting the data to a 3rd party/public access.

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    244. Re:No wrongful death? by ClioCJS · · Score: 1

      As for privacy, i don't think you have privacy *from a roommate*. Example, I can't photograph someone in their house becuase that is a violation of privacy law. But the second you step in public view, I can photograph you all I want. You lose the right to privacy. If we had a right to privacy from our roommates, that would mean it would be illegal for them to photograph you without their permission. I've not heard of such legality ever being used, but the second a roommate gets pissy at someone taking a picture, goes to court, and loses, is the second filming your roommate in any capacity basically becomes a different kind of violation. You either have privacy or you don't. You don't get penis-privacy-but-not-face-privacy. At least, that's not how I understand things to work.

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    245. Re:No wrongful death? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      The camera wasn't hidden.

    246. Re:No wrongful death? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Oh, you're a mind reader?

      "The penalty shouldn't be higher because of any of the known facts, but because of assumptions I've made about his motives." FTFY.

      Dharun was a dick, and given a straight roommate, he would have spied on his straight roommate having sex with an attractive chick. Prove me wrong.

    247. Re:No wrongful death? by swalve · · Score: 1

      Except it isn't really that fine of a distinction. If I drop an anvil on the ground, no big deal. If I drop an anvil on someone's head accidentally, that's manslaughter. If I drop an anvil on someone's head on purpose, it is murder. Intent counts, and we punish people more severely when their intent is more brazen, destructive or reckless. Violating privacy for the lulz is bad, and doing it with the intent to humiliate is worse.

    248. Re:No wrongful death? by swalve · · Score: 1

      Not "if you can think of a better reason" but if you HAVE a better reason. The legal versus not legal is only one metric of the justice system. Once someone crosses into the not legal side of things, there are still other thresholds and distinctions as to how serious of a crime something is.

    249. Re:No wrongful death? by ClioCJS · · Score: 1

      Yes, but should intent to humiliate a gay person be viewed as worse than intent to humiliate a straight person? If so, the straight person is not receiving equal protection under the law. Granted, they don't need such protection as much, but I don't find that a valid enough reason to take it away.

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    250. Re:No wrongful death? by DJRumpy · · Score: 1

      Granted you are probably trolling, but a student takes a class knowing full well they will be graded, and expecting such. One doesn't typically have sex, expecting to be taped, and then have it aired in public.

      Hopefully you can see the difference?

    251. Re:No wrongful death? by ClioCJS · · Score: 1

      I do get that. But if it's a sentencing enhancement to do something to somebody because they are gay, then those of us who are not gay do not receive equal protection under the law because, in the same situation, the punishment would be less. If you are victimized because you are a minority, you receive equal protection under the law. That's about as "fair" as affirmative action. It's taking race (or sexual preference) and unnecessarily putting it into equations. A white can kill a white: 10 years. A white kill a black for race reasons? 20 years with hate crime enhancement. In that scenario, a black person gets less protection from other black people than from white people. If a black person is killed by another black person, it's not a hate crime, so the potential sentence is lower. It's basically "less illegal" to kill someone of your own race. That's fucked up. Race should not even be in the equation. If something is bad, it's bad no matter who it's done to. Singling someone out for who they are is shitty, but the crime is still the same crime. If I attack someone for having a shirt of the "wrong" political party, is that somehow better than attacking them for being the "wrong" color or loving the "wrong" person?

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    252. Re:No wrongful death? by ClioCJS · · Score: 1

      typo, meant to say " If you are victimized because you are a minority, you receive ***GREATER*** protection under the law."

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    253. Re:No wrongful death? by operagost · · Score: 1

      What if he'd filmed his roommate having sex with a woman, and said roommate killed himself? Would this still be bullying, and would he still be liable? I thought society was accepting of homosexuality.

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    254. Re:No wrongful death? by operagost · · Score: 1

      You are talking about things you don't know nothing about. There is a major difference between secretly filming gay sex and straight sex between someone. Both are just wrong, but the first one is more so because it carries social prejudice along with it.

      Well, how can we get rid of the prejudice if the matter is still being hidden in the closet?

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    255. Re:No wrongful death? by operagost · · Score: 1

      The content of a person's character is so overrated!

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    256. Re:No wrongful death? by operagost · · Score: 1

      not allowed to own any slaves anymore

      It's not the 19th century, Captain Straw Man. Stop playing the victim.

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    257. Re:No wrongful death? by operagost · · Score: 1

      No, it's clear that the legal system favors "victim" groups like women.

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    258. Re:No wrongful death? by cyberchondriac · · Score: 1

      Please give the evil "white male" thing a break already. Discrimination exists from all directions, it's typical of human nature, not just white males. Besides, wasn't this kid a gay white male?

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    259. Re:No wrongful death? by gorzek · · Score: 1

      The law should favor criminals instead, then? :-p

    260. Re:No wrongful death? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      "lengthy and harsh penalty"? Are we still talking about 30 days here?

    261. Re:No wrongful death? by Agent0013 · · Score: 1

      Not deliberately trolling, more like a sarcastic comment. I do see that this guy invaded his room mates privacy and that is a crime in and of itself. What I disagree with is saying that he is directly responsible for the room mates death. The kid killed himself, so the dead kid is the one responsible for his death. He died as a direct result of his jumping from a building. I could probably agree with the wording "indirect result" but not "direct result".

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    262. Re:No wrongful death? by ClioCJS · · Score: 1
      "I've never heard..."

      You're ignorant. Go learn.

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    263. Re:No wrongful death? by budgenator · · Score: 1

      . You don't get penis-privacy-but-not-face-privacy. At least, that's not how I understand things to work.

      Yes you do,

      ‘Sec. 1801. Video voyeurism
      ‘(a) Whoever, in the special maritime and territorial jurisdiction of the United States, has the intent to capture an image of a private area of an individual without their consent, and knowingly does so under circumstances in which the individual has a reasonable expectation of privacy, shall be fined under this title or imprisoned not more than one year, or both.
      ‘(b) In this section--

      ‘(1) the term ‘capture’, with respect to an image, means to videotape, photograph, film, record by any means, or broadcast;

      ‘(2) the term ‘broadcast’ means to electronically transmit a visual image with the intent that it be viewed by a person or persons;

      ‘(3) the term ‘a private area of the individual’ means the naked or undergarment clad genitals, pubic area, buttocks, or female breast of that individual;

      ‘(4) the term ‘female breast’ means any portion of the female breast below the top of the areola; and

      ‘(5) the term ‘under circumstances in which that individual has a reasonable expectation of privacy’ means--

      ‘(A) circumstances in which a reasonable person would believe that he or she could disrobe in privacy, without being concerned that an image of a private area of the individual was being captured; or

      ‘(B) circumstances in which a reasonable person would believe that a private area of the individual would not be visible to the public, regardless of whether that person is in a public or private place.
      S. 1301 (108th): Video Voyeurism Prevention Act of 2004

      Further more Rutger's is in New Jersey and

      b. An actor commits a crime of the third degree if, knowing that he is not licensed or privileged to do so, he photographs, films, videotapes, records, or otherwise reproduces in any manner, the image of another person whose intimate parts are exposed or who is engaged in an act of sexual penetration or sexual contact, without that person's consent and under circumstances in which a reasonable person would not expect to be observed.
      c. An actor commits a crime of the third degree if, knowing that he is not licensed or privileged to do so, he discloses any photograph, film, videotape, recording or any other reproduction of the image of another person whose intimate parts are exposed or who is engaged in an act of sexual penetration or sexual contact, unless that person has consented to such disclosure. For purposes of this subsection, "disclose" means sell, manufacture, give, provide, lend, trade, mail, deliver, transfer, publish, distribute, circulate, disseminate, present, exhibit, advertise or offer. Notwithstanding the provisions of subsection b. of N.J.S.2C:43-3, a fine not to exceed $30,000 may be imposed for a violation of this subsection.
      2C:14-9. Invasion of privacy, degree of crime; defenses, privileges

      When your alone with a sex-partner, in what is effectively your bedroom, you do have a reasonable expectation of privacy, even with a non-present room-mate.

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    264. Re:No wrongful death? by andy1307 · · Score: 1

      What if I secretly filmed you trying to have straight sex and you couldn't get it up or something? that sort of thing can be embarrassing enough for people to do exactly what Tyler Clementi did.

    265. Re:No wrongful death? by DeadCatX2 · · Score: 1

      Oh, come on. Do you really see no difference between filming your roommate's gay sex and your roommate's straight sex?

      To really believe that, you would have to believe that society sees no difference between gay sex and straight sex. To really believe that, you would have to believe that his roommate would have still set up the webcam if it was straight sex.

      And all of that ignores the...you know...destruction of evidence and witness tampering, which are by themselves some pretty fucking serious crimes. Oh, and invading your roommate's privacy...some other posts below link to people who got put away for years because they invaded someone's privacy.

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    266. Re:No wrongful death? by Cederic · · Score: 1

      Just because someone is so fragile, that they can't handle some embarrassment...and decides to off themselves, should in no way constitute a lengthy and harsh penalty for this young man.

      30 days doesn't feel like a lengthy penalty. You may consider it unduly harsh, but on a scale of "naughty boy, don't do it again" to "I condemn thee to be hung by the neck until ye be dead, dead, dead" it feels like it's in reasonable territory.

      2 years would've been too much, a $60 fine would've been inadequate, something in between doesn't feel inappropriate.

    267. Re:No wrongful death? by Cederic · · Score: 1

      It's situational. Punching a gay man because he knocked your beer over is assault. Punching a straight guy because he propositioned you is a hate crime.

      Punching a woman because she wouldn't stop kicking you in the balls is assault, a hate crime and a sexual offence, but that's just the way the law's biased against men.

    268. Re:No wrongful death? by DeadCatX2 · · Score: 1

      Your argument is based on the premise of not falsely admitting guilt, which doesn't apply to Ravi because he KNEW he was guilty of the crime. Mind you, not the crime of making his roommate commit suicide, but the crime of invading his roommate's privacy. And then the crimes of destruction of evidence and witness tampering.

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    269. Re:No wrongful death? by ClioCJS · · Score: 1
      What society thinks is irrelevant. By your definitions, interracial marriage, gay marriage, and intra-ratial marriage are all different things because society sees them differently. A crime is a crime. What society thinks in terms of opinions on how much worse things are if a person involved is from $GROUP[1] does should not matter.

      But fine, let's have it your way. A white person killing a black person for being black is a hate crime. But a black person killing a black person can never be. Congratuations: It's now "more ok" (less punishment means it's not as bad) to kill someone within your own race. Hell, it's almost like the law encourages black people to shoot each other instead of whit epeople.

      That is not equal protection under the law. That is giving additional protection to some, but not all, people.

      if 2 gay roommates recorded a 3rd straight roomate's sex, it would be a violation of privacy worthy of 3 days in jail. But if that straight roommate they taped was raised by gay parents who wanted the straight kid to be gay (for some odd reason), and disowned them for being straight (for some odd reason), would the taping then be "heterophobic"?

      If A->B gives extra protection to B that is not similarly granted to A when B->A, then it is unfair.

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    270. Re:No wrongful death? by Cederic · · Score: 1

      Since thousands of years white males have pushed for the agenda that everyone else needs to be held down forever. You are not the victim just because you are not allowed to own any slaves anymore. Stop crying; it's embarrassing.

      You do realise that there were black and asian slave owners throughout history? Even now?

      You do realise that white people were sold as slaves throughout history? Even now?

      You do realise that many white males support equality, but expect it in return?

      Sorry, what? Evil white man must pay the price of a blinkered view of history, irrespective of the broader context or their own individual actions? How about, 'no'.

      I want equality. I don't think that's unfair.

    271. Re:No wrongful death? by Cederic · · Score: 1

      It is like the way American black people often call each other "nigga". A black person saying it is assumed not to have racist intent. If a white guy goes up to a black stranger and says "wassup nigga!" that really might be perceived as racist.

      That's a racist attitude in itself. If I can't use the term 'nigga' then no fucker should use it. If people I'm with use it to describe each other, then they'd better expect me to use it too.

    272. Re:No wrongful death? by Cederic · · Score: 1

      hmm. You think a 6'8 MTF loses all her muscle tone when she starts living as a woman?

    273. Re:No wrongful death? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Maybe he said it to you, slashdotters so you understand what he is saying, knowing that his partner isnt going to read slashdot.

      Possibilities exist ... over and above presenting a winning argument and getting points.

    274. Re:No wrongful death? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I'm not sure you've ever been seriously bullied. You make the same argument that everyone who has never experienced it and the frustration of trying to get help does - that bullies are just emotionally insecure and will back down when confronted by their victims. In reality this is almost NEVER the case. Most bullies operate from a position of strength. That kid who is bigger than you and picks on you isn't going to just back down when you " walk up to the bully and tell him right to his face how pathetic he is, calmly". He's going to have his buddies hold you down and he'll kick you until he breaks a rib. If he's bullying you by means of a socially stigmatizing secret (such as being gay), he'll expose it to people he knows will run with the stigma and harass you.

      You're correct in that bullying is often a response to a bully's own insecurity; it's an attempt to hold underserved authority over others. Where you go wrong is in how people react - most people don't simply back down when their authority is challenged. They get mad, defensive, and usually attempt to lash out at the source of the challenge. If they're civilized, this is probably verbal, and they probably quickly realize they're doing it, but the people we're talking about aren't those people. We're talking about people who /like/ to hurt people and look for any excuse to do so. And given the vast majority of bullies operate from a position of physical or social strength, they are going to win nine times out of ten /regardless of what the victim does/.

      I'm not even any sort of minority facing racism-inspired bullying or someone with a stigmatizing 'secret'. I just fit the 'nerd' profile in high school and that was more than enough to draw attention. I was never a strong reactor, so they simply stepped up from verbal bullying to physical.

      Sure, you can tell them calmly they're 'pathetic'. Just expect to be bleeding afterwards, because they wouldn't be bullying you if they didn't think that if it came down to it they'd lose. They're either gonna be bigger, or have friends there, and they're going to get you alone when they do it.

    275. Re:No wrongful death? by oreaq · · Score: 1

      The slave thing was obviously a response to the diminutiv "real and/or perceived offenses". That's why I quoted that part.

      Stop playing the victim.

      Makes me curious: What race do you think I am?

    276. Re:No wrongful death? by DeadCatX2 · · Score: 1

      Boy, you really have a hard-on for this case, don't you?

      First, if a black person kills other black people in order to intimidate the black community, it is bias intimidation (aka "hate crime"). Bias intimidation isn't a crime against the individual. Rather, bias intimidation is a crime uses the individual as a tool to commit a crime against a community. It's "sending a message".

      I see you're all bent out of shape about the 'extra protection' that certain minorities receive. That is a common quandary in free societies. How do you protect the minority from the tyranny of the majority? Clearly, large portions of society are hellbent on ruining the lives of LGBT Americans. Exhibit A: laws against gay marriage.

      Notice how far you had to go to create a situation which you could call "heterophobic". Of course, straight people are not the minority, and therefore cannot be tyrannized by the majority. However, the way the law is written, if a gay criminal was targeting straight people because they were straight with the intention of terrorizing the straight community, that would be bias intimidation. The only reason this is "unfair" to you is precisely because it's impossible to humiliate the straight community this way because they are already the majority.

      So what you have are two choices. Either you give a minority class unfair protection as compared to a majority class, or you allow a majority class to unfairly persecute the minority class. Two evils: pick one to live with.

      I also notice that you go out of your way to avoid the destruction of evidence and witness tampering. I guess those aren't crimes to you?

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    277. Re:No wrongful death? by ClioCJS · · Score: 1

      Please show me an example of a black on black hate crime conviction, and I'll read the rest of your comment.

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    278. Re:No wrongful death? by honkycat · · Score: 1

      I started to post something equivalent to "plain wrong," then backed off.

      An event can have multiple direct causes if each of them was essential to its occuring. One could argue then that each of these was a "direct cause," but none of them was the sole cause or even the most significant cause. That is, a cause can be contributory and direct. So in that sense, the OP could defend his comment. It'd be awfully difficult to argue that it had no impact---even your examples don't actually argue this, only that a prosecution is difficult and/or rare.

      On the other hand, his post implied something stronger---that the video killed the victim and it was such an obvious connection that Ravi should have foreseen this outcome. That does not seem to be true. There were more factors involved, and while it's reprehensible to humiliate someone like this, it's not something that is so obviously beyond the pale that a reasonable person would say, "I better not do this, he'll kill himself." Thus, I chose "misleading" to allow the previous sense of "direct" but exclude the latter.

      With respect to culpability in a suicide, I think that's a really tricky thing to define. I haven't read much about this case, but my inclination is to agree with you,that he's guilty of several crimes, but probably not personally "responsible" for the suicide. For that to make sense to me, I think the bully would need to have some reason to foresee the outcome of his actions. However, I'll say that I haven't really thought this one through and I'm thinking out loud here.

    279. Re:No wrongful death? by Frank+T.+Lofaro+Jr. · · Score: 1

      He could declare bankruptcy and go into business for himself. Chapter 7 and you start over. He likely doesn't have much yet in life anyway.

      No worries about not getting hired with a record when you are the boss!

      Unless people will boycott his business.

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    280. Re:No wrongful death? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Those hormones do tend to have an effect.

    281. Re:No wrongful death? by StikyPad · · Score: 1

      Off-handedly, are you a Cardassian?

      I hope it's Cloe or Cortney, but it's probably Cim. She's such a ditz.

    282. Re:No wrongful death? by StikyPad · · Score: 1

      A) He didn't cause a suicide; he contributed to the difficulties of an already suicidal individual, probably without knowledge of his self destructive behavior.

      B) Driving under the influence is as reckless as shooting a gun into a crowd. If you didn't know what could happen, you should have known, and just because nothing happened doesn't mean it didn't put lives at needless risk. Ninety days is light.

    283. Re:No wrongful death? by end15 · · Score: 1

      The recording & request that others view it was a clear act of bullying. That said, the peeping tom part of this should have gotten him a harsher sentence alone.

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    284. Re:No wrongful death? by phorm · · Score: 1

      How about if you (or at least your family etc) is male of "strict religion X" and it was a girl of "other religion Y" (or vise-versa for genders)
      How about if it's with somebody who your friends don't like, or is unpopular/unattractive/etc
      How about if it's with somebody else whom the relationship was taboo (say a friend's sister/ex, the quarterback's girl, the Dean's daughter, etc)?

      Not that I condone what this guy did. Filming your roomie in an intimate act is a huge violation, and sharing it even worse. I think my personal solution back in college would have been somewhere between a punch to the nose and a rather hefty lawsuit...

    285. Re:No wrongful death? by zildgulf · · Score: 1

      Really? You equate a forced "outting" to hurting someone's feelings? Having your feelings hurt does not cause a millions to treat you like scum or worse. Clementi's secret was out. A secret that get hundreds beaten and a few killed every year in this country, and far worse elsewhere.

    286. Re:No wrongful death? by zildgulf · · Score: 1

      "The only difference is that one is frowned upon more". Really? Did you know gays and others like them can be denied housing, employment, and promotions LEGALLY! Did you know many Christian churches ban gays and a small number of churches are so prejudiced against them that they wish to have them killed as described in Leviticus?

      So it is society's fault? Replace "gay sex" with "interracial sex" and "gay" with "black" and rewind the clock 60 years and see if your argument still makes sense! I strongly doubt it will!

    287. Re:No wrongful death? by ClioCJS · · Score: 1
      I'm sorry, but the truth is an absolute defense. Telling the truth should never be a crime. No one should be forced to lie to protect someone else. The fault of the suicide lies with the non-accepting parents, not the person who exposed a truth. (Who, by the way, never showed the video to anyone, so it would have been VERY EASY to deny.)

      Sometimes shitty things happen due to the way social forces interact.

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    288. Re:No wrongful death? by ClioCJS · · Score: 1
      No, gays cannot be denied employment and promotions legally. They are a protected class under federal law.

      So they're not welcome in a church? Who the fuck cares! those are the people who created the hate in the first place!

      I tried your plug-and-chug experiment and your argument failed to convince me. You're saying that if i told some people that someone was in an interracial relationship, that it would be MY fault if the people react badly and beat him, because I should have seen that coming?

      You're argument is exactly why our government is secretive. People who think they should be able to manage the truth. You're all charlatans to me.

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    289. Re:No wrongful death? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I did not read TFA, but since the video made the victim commit suicide implies that he was not just being videotaped: he was humiliated and harassed on a daily basis, the video was just an icing on the cake. These things are not restricted to gay, but any potential target of harassment, be it a race, disability, inferior social status, etc. And yes, if one harasses a person to the bitter end the law should "indiscriminately" shell out something heftier than 30 days.

      You are assuming a bit too much. Essentially, he did something slightly worse than Paris Hilton's ex-boyfriend, or Kendra's ex-boyfriend in filming the sex and letting other people see it. Should he have foreseen the consequences? It is hard to say. In many popular cases of this sort of thing, these tapes have been sold to web sites. When lawsuits ensued, they were civil suits which were mostly settled in exchange for everyone getting rich. If his roommate was harassed, it is not necessarily by this person. If he announced to everyone that his roommate is gay, it would have most likely resulted in similar levels of harassment. But, he would not be legally liable at all for that. So, I think all that should be considered is him filming and letting people see his roommate have sex. This is a crime in which he should have had an expectation that would carry very little negative consequences.
             

    290. Re:No wrongful death? by swalve · · Score: 1

      That's not what the equal protection clause means.

    291. Re:No wrongful death? by ClioCJS · · Score: 1
      Fill me in, then. To me, it says that if I get assaulted, I should get the same protection as anyone else. Because I belong to no oppressed groups (not actually true, but I'm saying this for the sake of argument), punishments for assaulting me are less.

      I know you will come back with "but if you WERE, you'd have equal protection", but I'm not, and I don't.

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    292. Re:No wrongful death? by swalve · · Score: 1

      That's not what the equal protection clause means. It would only be relevant if the law contained something about the race (or other protected class) of the perpetrator and had different punishments based on that. But it does not. It might even be relevant if it said "you get 10 years for killing a white and 20 years for killing a black", but it doesn't say that either, no matter how hard you try to misconstrue it what way. Equal protection demands that people are treated fairly by the laws no matter who they are.

      Also, the punishment meted out to a convicted criminal is not "for" the victim, it is "for" the State. Specifically the people of the jurisdiction. Criminal cases are not "Victim versus Defendant", they are "the People versus Defendant". The victim is not a party to the legal case, except in some cases as a witness. The law does not protect the victims, in a legal sense; rather it protects society from having assholes going around committing crimes. And there is no such thing as "less illegal", as has already been explained.

    293. Re:No wrongful death? by randyleepublic · · Score: 1

      I'll tell you what's a reflection of what. The fact that college dorms with multiple-student dorm rooms don't have "intimacy rooms" where students can go to have sex in private is a direct reflection of the nightmarish influence religion has played upon our culture. Fuck each and every church, minister, and the sheep that support them!

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    294. Re:No wrongful death? by ClioCJS · · Score: 1

      Lower sentence is de facto less illegal.

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    295. Re:No wrongful death? by ClioCJS · · Score: 1
      "Equal protection demands that people are treated fairly by the laws no matter who they are."

      And to me, protecting me is putting my attacker in jail. And apparently, if the attacker happens to be the same race as me, they won't go to jail as long, and I won't be as protected. Because I'm not a persecuted minority* (*for purposes of this discussion).

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    296. Re:No wrongful death? by causality · · Score: 1

      I live in a theravada buddhist country. Most people really are nice and take care for each other. Yes, even unknown people and even when they don't have much themselves.

      As I have learned from my own studies of Buddhism and particularly from the author Thich Nhat Hanh, Buddists understand how people get tied up in emotional knots and through their practice of mindfulness (smrti), they can untie those knots. You are unfortunately cherry-picking a particularly good counterexample that simply isn't representative of most of the world. It is a hard thing that the masses of people do not have this level of consciousness, however attained (through Buddhism or other system if they feel a need for a system). It is not easy to accept, but they must work out their lives according to their understanding just as I do. It is not my place to tell them how they should live, so long as I am afforded the same space.

      If that kind of quality is common-as-dirt for you, I wish you well and hope you can experience the joy that comes from genuine gratitude. Understanding just how rare that is can enhance this for you. Some of us are in the trenches having to deal directly with some of the most petty, childish, self-serving behavior imaginable from what are basically a bunch of cowards who lack the integrity to conduct honest introspection.

      Everything from the public school system to the media to endless worship of meaningless things like sports and celebrities, obsession with sex and other instant gratifications, to the deceptions of politics, has taught them to be petty and infantile. What remains of their souls (if you like) hasn't the strength of character to see past it. Like animals, they are nothing but products of environmental pressures with no overcoming spirit that can transcend the mold into which they are pressed.

      It is most excellent training and has taught me a great deal about myself and generally about how and why people become vulnerable to such entanglements. The only way to avoid becoming like them is to look the evil right in the eye with no resentment, no irritation, and no hatred. Those things are what power the inner decay. I did not ask the masses of men to be manure, but if they insist, I intend to grow and express what is True.

      You should sometimes see how the world is outside US.

      While I appreciate the condescension inherent in this statement, it comes from self-serving assumptions so you can puff up and feel wiser than me. You know I am telling you the truth. Meanwhile you really have no clue what I've seen. With good reason I did not limit my prior comment to the US only. The US is particularly decadent like Babylon all over again, but it is hardly alone in that. The vast majority of the world is this way or soon to follow. I don't share a desire to escape -- too many otherwise good people doing that is why it does not improve. That is not my way. Mine is to overcome, to transcend, and perhaps to be a living counterexample for those few who would be encouraged by one. This is what supplies me with the sense of purpose that each person must find for themselves.

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    297. Re:No wrongful death? by causality · · Score: 1

      You know, sometimes it doesn't work out just quite that positively. Sometimes it results in getting beaten to shit anyway. I think you're being a bit naive.

      I left this unsaid because it seemed rather obvious... but alright. The fallback is to get some muscle and some martial arts training yourself with the hope you will not have to use it. Bullies are not fighting for something sacred to them. They are not willing to lay down their lives for it. They aren't even willing to go to very much trouble. There were people in high school who probably could have beaten me in a fistfight, but they knew I would not simply roll over and give up, and they knew they were going to get hurt, and they knew that even if they won, they would not look like it. They were going to be in it for the long haul if they attacked me and I would continue to fight until incapacitated. This is not what a bully wants at all.

      Being true to the nature of a bully, they passed me up for easier game. It is like an aura they can sense and tends to repel them. However, one did not, and I was forced to knock him out. I didn't want to do that but he left me no choice in the matter. It was enough to establish that I am not the doormat they were looking for.

      The mistake people make is trying to make nice and be "friends" with the bully in the hopes he won't turn on you while never addressing their own fears and their own weaknesses. It is a form of laziness in the face of a worthy challenge. It's what attracts bullies, just as injured game attracts wolves. The failure to understand that is why this problem won't go away.

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    298. Re:No wrongful death? by shiftless · · Score: 1

      Actually, it was I who made the statement you speak of.

      You still haven't responded to my question.

      The government is going to "protect" the weaklings, huh? Or do you think these weaklings will simply become tools used by those in power to gain themselves even more power, just like anyone else who is "lucky" enough to be under the "protection" and "help" of the government?

      Just ten years ago, it was the government who had laws against homosexuality, in half the U.S. The government sent people to jail and sterilized them for it.

      You really, seriously think these are the saviors you've been looking for?

    299. Re:No wrongful death? by shiftless · · Score: 1

      All this guy did was a prank. Nothing illegal, other than the false charges heaped upon him by tyrants in government looking to "make an example." The kid who jumped off a bridge because he can't handle being gay in a society full of faggots, on the other hand, is a weakling. This is natural selection at work.

    300. Re:No wrongful death? by shiftless · · Score: 1

      You must be the weakest person in the world if you think secretly videotaping your room mate having sex and posting that video on the internet is a sign of strength.

      When did I say that?

      Jumping off a bridge because you can't handle the thought of someone knowing you're gay, in a society full of faggots, is the textbook definition of weakness. What a fucking moron. And to charge somebody with a crime, because of his weakness? Unconscionable.

    301. Re:No wrongful death? by shiftless · · Score: 1

      Bullshit. Picking on gay kids makes society weak. Our society will be much stronger when that type of behavior is minimized.

      Through government intervention? LOL, no...sorry...you are tragically wrong, as history has proven over and over again.

    302. Re:No wrongful death? by uninformedLuddite · · Score: 1

      If I had been the guy going to court I would have said I recorded what happened as I suspected they were going to use drugs and that is why they wanted me out of my own place of residence.
      The guy killed himself so what?

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    303. Re:No wrongful death? by ffflala · · Score: 1

      "Intimacy rooms", included as part of student housing? This seems like a ridiculous idea to me.

      They already have "intimacy rooms" for college students, and have had even since the even more puritanical days of centuries past. It is called "being able to afford to pay for your own fucking housing". Aka "get an apartment", aka "your parents do not want to have to pay for your own personal fuck chamber."

    304. Re:No wrongful death? by oreaq · · Score: 1

      I agree. I was replying to the "by punishing the strong". Nobody in this story shows any kind of "strength".

    305. Re:No wrongful death? by robsku · · Score: 1

      The thing is, hate crimes are applied to terrorism - with all the bat shit crazy terrorist laws you accept in USA I would think - if I had not realized that most people don't exactly understand the meaning of word terrorism - I would think that you would understand why actions done to spread terror against otherS are treated differently from actions that target one individual specifically.

      When your target is actually not that one people you kill, why expect to receive punishment for what you did only to that individual? You inflict harm to larger group of people - doesn't matter if they are minority or not, that's what hate crimes are about.

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    306. Re:No wrongful death? by robsku · · Score: 1

      Indeed, but the haters are hatin, they don't care about facts, they just wanna keep hatin.

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    307. Re:No wrongful death? by robsku · · Score: 1

      I get that, but that's basically thoughtcrime to me.

      Well, you have a whole load of laws to oppose where motive affects the punishment with your definition of "thoughtcrime".

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    308. Re:No wrongful death? by robsku · · Score: 1

      So "because there has not been much consequences for bullying there should be no consequences for bullying -> bullies are wictums!!!"? GTFO! Being a bully is a choice, and everyone knows that what they do is wrong - your proposing keep keeping to turn a blind eye to bullying.

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    309. Re:No wrongful death? by shilly · · Score: 1

      You're still being naive, projecting your own experience out to the rest of the world. You got lucky -- your bully was not so strong. Others may not be so lucky. Or, as I said, and as you ignored, others may have inescapable physical or mental reasons for why they can't go get martial arts training .... like being a baby or a person with dementia or a person with learning disabilities etc etc.

    310. Re:No wrongful death? by robsku · · Score: 1

      The crime is DUI because DUI creates a situation where an accident is likely to occur. Let me repeat - "an accident is likely to occur". If an accident does occur, it is still an accident. The driver deliberately decided to DUI, but the driver did not deliberately decide to cause an accident or to kill someone.

      Sure he did.

      To quote (and translate) an old finnish early 90's "rap" (so they called it) song: "if dog kills a child it's put to sleep, but a drunken driver only gets a prison sentence".

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    311. Re:No wrongful death? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      The phrase you are looking for is "hotel rooms". Colleges are in the business of teaching students, not providing them private fuck rooms. If they want a private fuck room, they can get off-campus housing, pay for a private room, or buy a hotel room when they need one.

    312. Re:No wrongful death? by ZFox · · Score: 1

      The law should favor criminals instead, then? :-p

      False dichotomy....you forgot the option of favoring nobody and treating everyone equally under the law.

    313. Re:No wrongful death? by gorzek · · Score: 1

      That's what is known as a "platitude" and it doesn't really mean anything.

    314. Re:No wrongful death? by Cazekiel · · Score: 1

      Coming in a little late, but...

      There's this documentary you should watch; I believe it was a National Geographic special, centered around humans and stress. At its center was a college professor's study on baboons, and how in their primitive world, their stress emulated ours.

      The professor's study revealed a very interesting dynamic between the alpha-males of the tribe and the females, young and weaker males. The alpha males were grossly abusive to them all, batting the child-baboons like ping-pong balls, terrorizing the females through abuse and rape and beating on the 'beta' males. After years of doing this study, which included taking a few baboons in for stress-testing, they found that the tribe was at a ridiculously-stressed state 24-7. Their bodies were worn, torn and tense, brains malfunctioning, all because the "leaders" abused their self-appointed power.

      But a very interesting thing happened near the end: an abandoned warehouse full of food was discovered by the tribe. As the alpha males were already selfish and flexed their muscles for the slightest bit of food while everyone else starved, they beat everyone else away and gorged themselves on their bounty. Problem was, the food was contaminated and diseased, and within a day, all of the alpha males keeled over and died. At first, the professor and his fellows were upset, because they felt this destroyed their work. In the end, however, they came upon a remarkable conclusion: after the abusive, tough and selfish of the tribe died, the females, young and smaller males were suddenly extremely, noticeably content, peaceful and at ease. Instead of hiding and becoming malnourished and psychologically unstable, they started forming a better society for themselves, where they shared and shared alike, with food, tasks and general good behavior. They were happier and better-off without the horrid abuse, and their tribe flourished.

      Then again, why do we have to study this? No stress/abuse = better quality of living. The supposed "weak mindedness" you're referring to is actually peace and reason, looking for solutions that don't include bringing others harm. If we didn't glorify the mean of the world, the frat-jocks who win their school's pride at a game then celebrates by raping three drug-doused girls at a party (which of course gets covered up, even when reported), and bully politicians, we'd be in a better place.

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    315. Re:No wrongful death? by retchdog · · Score: 1

      no, but looking at it contrariwise: unless merit is significantly curtailed in minorities, doesn't it simply maximize the pool of potential talent to extend protection to them?

      at the very least, i think it's up to you to define "weakling" and "weak-mindedness." in any sufficiently advanced society, there will be a diverse selection of "strengths" which are useful in various niches.

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  2. I was surprised he was convicted on hate charges by GodfatherofSoul · · Score: 3, Interesting

    The invasion of privacy angle I can see. How many times have we had stories of guys taping unwilling sex partners or roommates taping roommates? I just didn't think there was enough meat to the story to push it into the realm of hate crimes.

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  3. they had better by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    let police do it then

  4. This is good news. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    I find it very refreshing that the judge and jury looked beyond the fact that the victim was gay, and judged the facts as they were. We've all played our pranks. Some were over the top. Sometimes the victims didn't handle it well. That does not mean that we are always responsible for how they choose to react.

    1. Re:This is good news. by vlm · · Score: 3, Interesting

      Sometimes the victims didn't handle it well.

      Am I bad for being a tiny little bit happy when I hear these stories? Just tiny bit not a lot? Like some chick got teased on the internet so she hung herself and I'm thinking, luckily for me, because 10 years later I'd probably dump her or steal "her" parking spot or not hold the door open for her like a gentleman should or decline to purchase a drink for her at the local watering hole and then being obviously ridiculously unstable she'd blame me and blow her brains out and I'd have to feel guilty for the rest of my life about it, even though what I did wasn't really all that awful (come on chick, find another parking spot?), so if there is a tiny silver lining to this at least someone other than me is feeling guilty? Almost like they did a community service?

      Like this dude, OK he did some other dude, didn't want people to know, despite the fact that most civilized people don't really care and in this modern era you don't have to care about the uncivilized people who do care, so now he's dead. If this didn't happen, I can just imagine this dude got a job working with me, and some day in a staff meeting in front of everyone I'm all like "dude, you totally made a picket fence error in your for loop making it crash when it hits an uninitialized array element" and then, being about as stable as a plutonium atom fattened up with an extra neutron or two, dude walks into his cube, blames me for ruining his life (so he claims, anyway) and blows his head off, and then I've gotta go thru the rest of my life feeling guilty for calling out a dude for having the wrong end condition in a for loop. I can totally see this happening, and I just don't personally want to deal with unstable people blowing up, its just not my thing.

      Its kinda like when you hear about a suicide where somebody jumps in front of a car, and you're like "sucks to be that guy, but at least they didn't jump in front of my car, because that would really suck for me".

      I don't feel any ill will toward the guy who offed himself for no good reason, other then him being a remarkably amazingly poor role model for other kids dealing with bad feelings. I'm just glad he's not around so I could get blamed for him offing himself. Unstable means its gonna blow up sooner or later and murphy's law its gonna happen around me, so...

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    2. Re:This is good news. by shiftless · · Score: 1

      ^ lol

      Basically, this.

    3. Re:This is good news. by Aglassis · · Score: 1

      Yes, you are a bad person. You entire post describes how you would be the victim because of someone else's suffering. It is all "me, me, me".

      You have a profound lack of empathy.

      But don't worry about the guilt. I doubt someone with as little empathy as you would feel any.

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    4. Re:This is good news. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Yep. Douche.

      You are a total wank stain.

    5. Re:This is good news. by euroq · · Score: 1

      Am I bad for being a tiny little bit happy when I hear these stories?

      Yes. You should worry about others, less you end up in an apocalyptic society.

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    6. Re:This is good news. by uninformedLuddite · · Score: 1

      Its kinda like when you hear about a suicide where somebody jumps in front of a car, and you're like "sucks to be that guy, but at least they didn't jump in front of my car, because that would really suck for me"

      My biggest concern in the above scenario would be the costs and damages to my property. Shouldn't feel guilty about a suicide in that situation as they are thoughtless and arrogant for putting YOU in that situation.
      Does thinking like that make me a bad person? Or am I only a bad person if the life style choices of the person banging up my car are currently popular or trending on twitter?

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  5. Wait a minute by FreedomOfThought · · Score: 5, Insightful

    So I can get a year in prison for having a joint on my person, but I can invade someone's privacy and become the cause of their death and just suffer a month? Interesting how that works.

    1. Re:Wait a minute by ClioCJS · · Score: 1, Insightful

      That guy didn't cause the kid's death. He just pranked him. The combination of society's homophobia and the kid's total lack of coping skills killed him. Saying "i caught my roommate having gay sex" isn't homophobic. It's simply fact.

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    2. Re:Wait a minute by FreedomOfThought · · Score: 1

      "Mr. Ravi was not charged with causing Mr. Clementi’s death, but the suicide hung heavily over the trial" So that means he still gets away with invasion of privacy. I suppose he should go work for Google, Apple, Facebook, etc.Hell, make that ANY company that has access to personal information!

    3. Re:Wait a minute by FreedomOfThought · · Score: 2

      Sorry, I was in the process of posting an addendum to the above comment. I hoped nobody would reply before-hand. You're totally right though, but trust can (and should) go a long ways.

    4. Re:Wait a minute by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      That was a pretty mean-spirited prank. In fact, I wouldn't even call it a prank, it was an act of roommate-vs-roommate war.

      After Tyler posted his brief and cryptic suicide note, Ravi sent him a "cover my ass" email to him saying how much he respected Tyler's way of life, etc. The suicide must not have come as a total surprise to Ravi. I would not hold Ravi legally responsible for the death, but he should be held fully accountable for everything else.

    5. Re:Wait a minute by houghi · · Score: 1, Interesting

      "i caught my roommate having gay sex" isn't homophobic

      Yes it is. "I caught my roommate having sex" isn't. As long as there is a difference between gay sex, lesbian sex and heterosexual sex in the opinion of the majority of people, it will be.

      Sure, it is true in the literal meaning of the world, but that is not how the real world works.

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    6. Re:Wait a minute by ClioCJS · · Score: 0

      Please explain the mechanism by which being more specific in a truth makes it anti something. No, how people react doesn't mean jack shit. People reacted negatively to The Simpsons. That doesn't automatically mean it's anti-family. You're logic seems to be grasping at straws.

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    7. Re:Wait a minute by registrations_suck · · Score: 1
      He got 30 days in jail, 300 hrs of cs and a $10K fine. That's pretty severe for invasion of privacy!

      Aside from which, if you're ashamed of fucking someone, you shouldn't fuck them!

    8. Re:Wait a minute by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      "Saying "i caught my roommate having gay sex" isn't homophobic. It's simply fact."

      Choosing to volunteer the information freely to people when you don't have to can be homophobic. Especially if you are volunteering that information with an implication that you disapprove of it. Likewise, you can simply state the fact that an individual can run very fast and that individual is black. Both are facts, but choosing to associate them hints at an implicit stereotype or bias.

    9. Re:Wait a minute by Sebastopol · · Score: 0

      How people react does mean jack shit. Because we as a society agree on it. And society generally has empathy and compassion. (Note I said "generally".)

      If you think victims of bullying or harassment don't need protection, get together enough people and change the laws. I recommend watching Fox News, reading Drudge, and voting republican, but I'm sure you already do. Also might want to invest in a Tricorn and Tetley stock.

      But right now, on this largely subjective issue, society agrees that you are wrong.

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    10. Re:Wait a minute by 10101001+10101001 · · Score: 2

      Off-hand, I'd guess it'd have to do with it being generally true that the act of invading another person's privacy has nothing to do with their sexual orientation or specific sexual activities. And if one mentions their specific orientation or activities, it would seem that that statement of generally has been violated and the person in question is speaking in specific intent upon those actions, either in defense of them or against them. The only other general reason I can readily think to violate that rule has to do with trying to paint an objective picture--as in a story, police bulletin, etc--which feels compelled to mention both the common and the uncommon for an audience who may have their own bias upon what words mean and for which the author feels it necessary to be explicit to make clear what transpired. After all, if a picture is worth a thousand words and most stories aren't a thousand words, at some level the author who wishes to paint a picture has to leave out a lot or decide to put only a little bit end. What truth they choose to include says something about the author.

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    11. Re:Wait a minute by ClioCJS · · Score: 1
      So if we as a society agree that interracial marriage makes us react negatively, then that's it. It should be illegal.

      Sorry, your logic isn't a tautology. You need to find a more convincing argument than "a mob told me so".

      And no, society doesn't agree I was wrong, because he was not charged with or convicted of a hate crime. 30 days is nothing. Heat of the crime trigger pull between 2 lovers gets way longer (3 yrs for pulling the trigger in an "i dare you" situation where the gun was thought to be unloaded). I know because this happened to someone I know.

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    12. Re:Wait a minute by ClioCJS · · Score: 1

      Also, the fact that you can't speak to someone with a different opinion without trying to color them as a Republican (hah! Obama is too conservative for me!)) speaks volumes on your ability to discuss a topic.

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    13. Re:Wait a minute by Sebastopol · · Score: 1

      > You need to find a more convincing argument than "a mob told me so".

      I'm not trying to change your mind or convince you. In fact, I told you the exact opposite: change the law if you don't like it. Did you miss my point entirely? I'm just saying that you're in the minority, and in the realm of invented moralities, that's "wrong". (even though "right" and "wrong" is utterly meaningless in issues of subjectivity).

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    14. Re:Wait a minute by ClioCJS · · Score: 0

      I actually don't think I'm in the minority. It's just that it's an unpopular opinion to express, so fewer express it. 30 days sounds right to me.

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    15. Re:Wait a minute by couchslug · · Score: 1

      He invaded privacy. That's no prank.

      I demand privacy and I want those who invade it to be hammered as examples to others.

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    16. Re:Wait a minute by geekmux · · Score: 1

      So I can get a year in prison for having a joint on my person, but I can invade someone's privacy and become the cause of their death and just suffer a month? Interesting how that works.

      While I see your underlying point here, in the same way that a 10-year sentence was reduced to 30 days, what you could get and what you will get are two completely different things. You could get a slap on the wrist, which is basically what he got.

    17. Re:Wait a minute by Fwipp · · Score: 1

      Just like most rapists think "all guys rape."

    18. Re:Wait a minute by ClioCJS · · Score: 0

      Yes, just like that. (rolls eyes)

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    19. Re:Wait a minute by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      "As long as there is a difference between gay sex, lesbian sex and heterosexual sex in the opinion of the majority of people, it will be"

      *facepalm* But... there is a difference.

      Sex involves a penis and vagina.

      Lesbian sex involves two vaginas.

      Gay sex involves a penis and a butthole.

      So... yeah... there is a difference, and there is nothing "homophobic" about it... *facepalm*

    20. Re:Wait a minute by tirefire · · Score: 1

      So I can get a year in prison for having a joint on my person, but I can invade someone's privacy and become the cause of their death and just suffer a month? Interesting how that works.

      The maximum sentence allowed for an offense is usually much greater than the actual sentence rendered in an individual case. I think that in most states, your example of having a joint would probably get you 6-12 months' probation and an expunged criminal record, with no time in jail other than when you're waiting to get released on bail/bond. This is assuming you accept a plea bargain. Even if you went to trial and lost, you would likely not get the full "therapy".

      In my state, someone who commits a class "D" felony *CAN* be sentenced to up to 5 years in prison. Class "D" is the least severe type of felony; examples include small-time drug dealing, carrying a gun into a school, and theft of property valued between $1,000 and $10,000). Getting sentenced to the full 5 years only really happens to criminals with long histories. According to the criminal defense attorneys I've spoken to, the sentence for a "D" felony, especially if it is the person's first criminal charge, is almost always 1-2 years' probation. If the person accepts a guilty plea bargain and saves the state the (considerable) expense of going to trial, the person gets the added benefit of having their criminal case history expunged if they complete their probation successfully. Otherwise, there is a "guilty" conviction that requires a pardon from the governor to overturn (good luck with that). Expungement sort of makes it like the whole thing never happened; you are treated as though there was no conviction even though you plead guilty and were given a sentence. Presumably, background checks for rental housing and employment will turn up nothing on you. Of course, if you face ANOTHER criminal charge in the future, the courts will take your previous expunged offense into account and give you a somewhat harsher sentence that time around. I have been told that most states operate more or less like this.

      As far as I can tell, the maximum possible sentence is used to scare the hell out of the accused and get them to plead guilty to "make this go away". Nationally, I think 90% of criminal cases are settled by a plea bargain; who knows how many of those people are really guilty (I wonder if pleading guilty to a crime you didn't commit is considered perjury). It saves the courts a lot of money, and many states these days are broke. Slashdot had a story on this recently, I think it was called "How To Crash The Court System".

    21. Re:Wait a minute by Asic+Eng · · Score: 1

      No matter where you stand on this case, surely the guy wasn't the *sole* cause of his roommates death?

    22. Re:Wait a minute by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      You are a moron and I hope your real world exists only on your head.

    23. Re:Wait a minute by khallow · · Score: 1

      Saying "i caught my roommate having gay sex" isn't homophobic. It's simply fact.

      But that's not what happened. There was a webcam involved.

    24. Re:Wait a minute by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      15 charges... they went easy on him.

    25. Re:Wait a minute by kenh · · Score: 1

      Ravi wasn't charges with causing his roommate's death - he was charged with a laundry list of particular offenses.

      Most notable is that Ravi repeatedly (twice I know of) rejected plea deals from the prosecutor that would have kept him out of jail, presumably with probation and community service as his penalty, and that Ravi never once during the trial expressed remorse or sorrow for what he had done.

      While I don't know all the details, I think Ravi got about what he deserved... What would the punishment be if Ravi had comitted the same crimes against a straight neighbor having sex? A gay neighbor having sex?

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    26. Re:Wait a minute by FreedomOfThought · · Score: 1

      I agree with you mostly because I have been witness to the example I presented and have seen it go both ways dependent on the cooperation of the defendant and the amount of prior convictions. I am also not asking he be charged with anything directly related to the suicide but there were 15 charges brought against him I believe, and if you can turn that into only 30 days, then I find something to be wrong. The way I see it, this will teach him nothing of tolerance and care. This cannot be mended through fines and jail time. I also do not have a CLUE as to what would be a proper punishment, so I suppose I should have never typed out this comment. Oh well.

      :D

    27. Re:Wait a minute by FreedomOfThought · · Score: 1

      Of course not. I was making a point about how our system seems to work and my example was not entirely accurate either. He was, however, tried with 15 charges and he got out of it rather easy. I don't believe he should be convicted as the cause of death, but he was very reckless.

    28. Re:Wait a minute by FreedomOfThought · · Score: 1

      I'm not suggesting he should actually be convicted as the cause of Tyler's death. I am more-so referring to the list of 15 or so charges brought against him, although my bad joke made it impossible to see. Throw the 'cause-of-death' charge out the door and he still should have served more. Of course, try as you may, it won't make him more tolerant, but may make him a bit more careful about the actions he takes. My sarcasm can derail and provide you with the post I made above. I was making a point through a bad joke.

      As for your question at the end, I'm not sure I see the difference. Maybe the world is much more intolerant than I have been willing to admit, but I just don't see a difference between whether the boy was homosexual or not.

    29. Re:Wait a minute by ClioCJS · · Score: 1

      So saying something isn't homophobic, but saying something after taping something is? If there was a dorm that had 90% gay people there, and they recorded a straight couple having sex, then laughed about it, would that be heterophobic?

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    30. Re:Wait a minute by Cederic · · Score: 1

      erm. what about when a mouth is involved? What if the butthole is female? What if there's a dildo involved (strap-on or otherwise)? What if there are two vaginas and a penis (and/or multiple other organs, objects and animals)?

      So... yeah... there is a difference, and there is nothing "homophobic" about it... *facepalm*

      Yeah, ok. I'll agree with you there. My landlord is gay, and I live with him. Acknowledging that he's gay doesn't make me homophobic, and living with him doesn't make me homosexual. Our housemate is female and hasn't had a boyfriend for two years, but I've no idea what her preferences are - or what size batteries they need.

    31. Re:Wait a minute by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Distinguishing the type of sex doesn't necessarily imply phobia.

    32. Re:Wait a minute by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      > erm. what about when a mouth is involved?

      You're doing it wrong.

      > What if the butthole is female?

      There is a vagina literally 2 inches away... you're REALLY doing it wrong.

      > What if there's a dildo involved (strap-on or otherwise)?

      Then it isn't any form of sex.

      > What if there are two vaginas and a penis (and/or multiple other organs, objects and animals)?

      Then you have issues and should be arrested.

    33. Re:Wait a minute by khallow · · Score: 1

      No webcams are inherently homophobic because they use cables which only function if male parts are connected to female parts. I'm surprised your quaint culture doesn't educate you in these matters.

    34. Re:Wait a minute by ClioCJS · · Score: 1

      hahahahahhahahahahahhah well-played

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    35. Re:Wait a minute by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      You have issues and should be arrested.

  6. Good decision by N1AK · · Score: 5, Insightful

    Seems like a reasonable sentence to me. As stupid, and intolerant, as what he did was and as severe as the consequences were there's nothing gained by excessive punishment. Would a longer prison sentence really act as a deterrent to similar behaviour? Isn't a criminal record, the court process he's been through, a month in prison and having to live with the consequences of his actions enough for doing something stupid and not considering how bad the consequences might be?

    Some poor bastard has already lost his life. Another has pretty much ruined his. Sticking someone in prison longer doesn't make any of that better; it's just an expensive way to cause more suffering.

    1. Re:Good decision by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 5, Insightful

      I generally try to keep it civil, but you're a fucking idiot. I often try to give stupid people the benefit of the doubt, but you're so far beyond stupid that it's probably not possible to do so. "Yeah! Let's rape him because he was intolerant and a jerk and someone committed suicide over it!" The defendant is certainly not blameless, but he didn't kill the kid.

      If this is the best that you can contribute to what should be a serious discussion, you might consider just getting off the Internet.

    2. Re:Good decision by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Bingo. A longer sentence won't deter him more (he's not likely to do anything of the sort again after this coal-raking + a taste of jail), and it won't deter others more -- this was a very well publicized case, especially about the severity of the possible penalty for what many would have thought a "prank". Now it's well-know that you don't pull this crap.

      It would only be wrong to give a light sentence to the next jerk -- that one would require a heavy sentence to show the courts are serious.

      Good judgment all round.

    3. Re:Good decision by sdguero · · Score: 2

      Just to clarify...

      Your sincerest hope is that a 20 year old kid gets ass raped while he does a 30 day stint in prison?

    4. Re:Good decision by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 2, Interesting

      "A former prison inmate once confided in me that he participated in gay sex while in prison because, as he put it "Hey, that's your life."

      I've done time in prison.

      Straight guys do NOT "become gay" just because they are behind razor wire.

      Your friend was gay and did not want to admit it.

      The straight guys in prison jerk off because there are no women available.
      There are enough gay guys in prison that they are able to find each other
      and do whatever it is they want to do behind closed doors. Straight guys in
      prison stay straight, and they are not even slightly tempted to become gay.

      As for you, you are a closet sadist who wishes suffering on other people.
      That's about as low and pathetic as a human being gets, boy. And I do mean BOY
      because you sure as hell are not a man, "pr0t0".

    5. Re:Good decision by interval1066 · · Score: 0

      Sad case, but I agree, maybe people should have slightly thicker skins rather than accusing assholes of murder for their shattered egos. This is the fruit of the sowing of pc.

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    6. Re:Good decision by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I don't know, a longer sentence may deter other people from doing, you just don't know. Who knows maybe someone thinks 30 days in jail + 300 hrs community service etc. etc. isn't that bad for humiliating someone and hoping they commit suicide too.

      Do I believe Mr. Ravi "pushed" Tyler off the bridge? No, but he sure as hell didn't help the situation.

    7. Re:Good decision by hawkinspeter · · Score: 1

      I've heard it said that the difference between a straight man and a gay man is about 10 pints of beer. I suppose a similar thing could happen in prison.

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    8. Re:Good decision by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      "I've heard it said that the difference between a straight man and a gay man is about 10 pints of beer. I suppose a similar thing could happen in prison."

      It's me again, the guy who ( unlike most of you ) can actually speak from personal experience about life in
      prison.

      The saying you mention above might be true among closeted gays you hang out with, but I assure you that in prison people do not
      suddenly change their sexual orientation just because they are locked up. And that is true even when
      alcohol, cocaine, heroin, marijuana, and various other substance which have been known to reduce inhibitions
      are being used. ( yes, it's pretty easy to get most any drugs you want in the US prison system ).

      I think you want to believe that a lot of guys will be willing to engage in gay sex if they get drunk enough. But
      the truth is that if someone is straight they won't be interested in gay sex no matter how drunk he or she gets.
      Blaming it on the substances which may have been abused is just a bullshit excuse. If you're gay when you are
      drunk you are gay when you are sober too. And if you are straight when you are drunk you will still be straight
      when you get wasted.

    9. Re:Good decision by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      "And if you are straight when you are drunk you will still be straight
      when you get wasted"

      What I meant was : " if you are straight when you are sober you will still be straight
      when you get wasted".

    10. Re:Good decision by PCM2 · · Score: 1

      Your sincerest hope is that a 20 year old kid gets ass raped while he does a 30 day stint in prison?

      To further clarify... 30 day stint in jail, not prison.

      In the U.S., prisons are usually run by the states or the federal government, while jails are local affairs. Jail sentences are considerably shorter than prison sentences (and if a crime is serious enough that it demands a longer sentence, it will be a prison offence). Comparatively few jail inmates are hardened criminals.

      As a result, all of this "raped in the ass" stuff doesn't really happen in jails. Prisons might be a different story, but this whole line of comment, for this case, is basically bullshit.

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    11. Re:Good decision by sdguero · · Score: 1

      Yeah... I figured he wouldn't go to prison because it's only 30 days, I was trying to use the parent's own words in my example.

    12. Re:Good decision by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      jail =/= prison

    13. Re:Good decision by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Why is it that this argument is always trotted out when a member of the underclass has been victimized by the defendant, and never when one IS the defendant?

      I'm strongly in favor of a radical overhaul of our "criminal justice" system, for some of the reasons you've mentioned. And yet, I never hear these arguments in any other context, than when a non-white, female, or queer person has to drag their oppressors through the courts.

      Our courts operate on the notion that yes, longer prison sentences act as deterrents, yes, shorter sentences and "wrist slaps" act as the opposite, and no just being brought to court isn't "punishment enough."

      While we're on that subject, do you really think this fellow's life has been "ruined?" He did what he did to shame a gay man, because the people he grew up with told him that shaming queer people was right. I can guarantee you, that safety net won't go away just because of this.

    14. Re:Good decision by ArsenneLupin · · Score: 1

      Straight guys do NOT "become gay" just because they are behind razor wire.

      But what about some gay guys raping a straight guy? Razor wire makes sure that handsome straight guy doesn't escape...

    15. Re:Good decision by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      There's a lot of things that are said that aren't true. I can only speak for myself when I say that it's not true for me, I've been approached by gay guys in various states of drunkeness and never felt like having sex with them. It's just not my thing, but it's none of my business to say what someone else's predilections should be either.

    16. Re:Good decision by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      "But what about some gay guys raping a straight guy? Razor wire makes sure that handsome straight guy doesn't escape..."

      BAD idea. You have no idea just how bad. Let me explain :

      It's me again, the guy who has been in a medium-security prison.

      To answer your question about rape, a sock with a combination lock
      inside it can be used to smash the face bones of someone in a decisive manner. Once
      most of the bones in someone's face are broken, they usually concentrate on that
      rather than whatever their plan may have been before. I'm talking about hitting their face
      as hard as you can with the sock with the lock in it as many times as you can, such that
      their entire face will be a broken bloody mess. This isn't a time for halfway measures, you see.

      Alternatively, you can take a bottle of baby oil and microwave it for about 2 minutes.
      Toss that oil into someone's eyes and it's "game over". That's right, they will be blinded
      permanently. Yes, there were microwave ovens in the housing units in the medium-security prison where I did my time. I know,
      it's pretty insane they had them in there, and it is also a bit wacky that the commissary
      sold baby oil, but that's the real deal. And it was always a good idea to watch people when they were around that
      microwave to see what they were up to.

      Another option is to take a razor blade and a match and heat the razor blade so it
      will melt itself into the handle of a toothbrush. All these ingredients are readily available
      and it takes maybe 30 seconds to make this weapon. You can turn someone's face into
      something their own family won't recognize in a matter of a few seconds by slashing it
      with the razor.

      See, trying to mess with someone who doesn't want to be messed with in a prison
      scenario can have severe consequences. A side benefit of hurting one person very badly
      is that it is extremely unlikely that anyone will ever consider fucking with you again.

      I never had to hurt anybody seriously, but I was ready at all times. Other inmates will catch that vibe
      and they won't fuck with you. But the most important thing is to mind your own business
      and never ever fuck with anyone else's business, and walk tall and act like a man and you will
      probably survive ok. I trust you now realize trying to rape someone in prison could well be the
      very last thing you do on earth. And it's not something anyone with a brain jokes about, especially
      not in prison. The idiots who joke about it here wouldn't last a week inside. Trust me on that.

    17. Re:Good decision by N1AK · · Score: 1

      Our courts operate on the notion that yes, longer prison sentences act as deterrents

      The highest per capita incarceration level on earth shows how well that's been working. People almost never commit crimes because they think the punishment isn't sufficient to stop it. They either don't expect to be caught or don't consider it at all.

      I can't comment on the validity of your assertion that there is a general bias towards tolerance for white people etc people. Last time I checked I thought the defendant here was a minority himself so I'm not sure it makes that point for you. Personally I'm very much for allowing gay people the same rights and tolerance as anyone else. I may have some unconscious racial bias, even people of minority groups tend to have it due to enviroment, but I do what I can to challenge it and account for it.

    18. Re:Good decision by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Time for decaf

    19. Re:Good decision by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Posts like yours are why the media should be held accountable for their actions. He didn't cause the kid to suicide. The reasons are in a letter he wrote that were barred from being released. According to people that knew him it was his relationship with his MOTHER that drove him to suicide. It had nothing to do with Ravi.

      I also aghast that a few seconds of web cam viewing is considered "spying" when its your webcam, in your room, and the reason you did it was because some old creepy dude was being allowed around your property. Ravi wasn't prepared for what he saw and did what any kid anywhere would do these days ... went social network with it.

      How many kids are now going to face prison sentences just for being kids?

    20. Re:Good decision by tehcyder · · Score: 1

      severe as the consequences were there's nothing gained by excessive punishment

      Yes there is, to act as a deterrent.

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    21. Re:Good decision by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Time to switch to decaf

    22. Re:Good decision by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      You are a digusting individual

    23. Re:Good decision by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      If someone causes you enough suffering to make you commit suicide I hope someone shows you more compassion than you have expressed for Tyler Clementi and his family. I wonder what your friends would say when your tormentor gets 30 days for it.

    24. Re:Good decision by ToddInSF · · Score: 1

      Based on what ? He was convicted of multiple charges, do you even KNOW what those charges ARE ?

      Let me put it this way - he was convicted of multiple charges that include destroying evidence, witness tampering, and other shit that would get anybody else locked-up for a hell of a LOT longer than 30 days.

      It's BS, and as usual, the media has failed to do a moderately competent job informing douchebags.

    25. Re:Good decision by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Good grief. "but you're a fucking idiot" followed by "If this is the best that you can contribute to what should be a serious discussion, you might consider just getting off the Internet."

      You people really are morons.

    26. Re:Good decision by gay358 · · Score: 1

      I am a gay and I am happy to see that Ravi didn't receive tougher punishment. I would have liked to see even milder punishment. One life was already needlessly destroyed and destroying another life would not have made things better, but worse.

      What Ravi did, wasn't completely correct, but his intention was not cause Clementis death, which was quite unexpected consequence. I feel that the only reason why this was so widely reported in news, was because the suicide was so unexpected.

      Instead of punishing Ravi, it would be much wiser to learn from it. I think there are at least two lessons that should be learned:

      1) Some people might do suicide for reasons that seem quite minor to other people and you should avoid bullying anybody. Maybe Ravi, a bit older and wiser, could tell younger students what bullying can cause, even if the consequence was not your intention.

      2) Try to grow a bit thicker skin. If you receive minor bullying, that is really stupid reason to kill yourself or somebody else.

  7. Relieved by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

    Super relieved to see a reasonable sentence here. With all the media hype of "up to 20 years in jail", I was worried this kid was going to rot for what many have done in the past as a prank.

    Also, IMO, "hate crimes" are kind of unfair in my mind. In all situations you're harming a human being, so I don't see why the punishment should be any different. I think that motive & intent matter a whole lot more than the "who".

    1. Re:Relieved by X0563511 · · Score: 0

      We need to start punishing people for being douchebags. Stop attacking the symptoms and deal with the actual problem.

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    2. Re:Relieved by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I hope that someday soon you call the wrong person "a weak bitch" in real life, and they kick YOUR ass up to your eyeballs. You fucking pathetic douche.

    3. Re:Relieved by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      We need to start punishing people for being douchebags.

      Yes, that is a solid plan and certainly isn't guaranteed to backfire horribly at all...

    4. Re:Relieved by Jedi+Alec · · Score: 1

      I think that motive & intent matter a whole lot more than the "who".

      Ehmm, that is pretty much the whole idea behind the concept of a hate crime. The difference between "I'm gonna kill that guy for his money", "I'm gonna kill that guy because he's pointing a gun at me" and "I'm gonna kill that guy because he's a filthy faggot".

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    5. Re:Relieved by shiftless · · Score: 1

      Says the anonymous COWARD

  8. sex offender? by C0R1D4N · · Score: 0

    Pretty certain if I was video taping two people having sex that'd put me on the sex offender registry. While the maximum (10 years) is way too harsh, this seems a bit too light regardless of the suicide associated with it.

    1. Re:sex offender? by vlm · · Score: 3, Interesting

      Pretty certain if I was video taping two people having sex that'd put me on the sex offender registry

      LOL that would put a hell of a lot of professional cameramen from the pr0n industry in prison. Also a lot of CCTV watching security guards. I think you meant to add "without their permission in a private space".. Is it wrong to record people without their permission when they have a reasonable expectation of privacy?(admittedly banging away in front of a laptop, for anyone aware of their surroundings and born after 1950 or so, that's not very reasonable anymore, is it?) Coincidentally, looking at the charges...

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    2. Re:sex offender? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 2, Insightful

      you can get more time on minor drug related charges than this guy did on 15 counts. WTF?
       
      So you want this guy to spend more time in stir because our drug laws don't make sense? WTF?

    3. Re:sex offender? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Looks like the guy who rated that post is the one who's a troll. Permanently removing a natural part of a person's genitalia without that person's consent? That is sexual assault right there.

  9. Re:I was surprised he was convicted on hate charge by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0, Troll

    Probably the fact that he broadcasted the video to others and made homophobic comments about Mr. Clementi. I can definitely see how this is a hate crime.

  10. Re:The worst part about this by ClioCJS · · Score: 3, Interesting

    because if you secretly record straight sex, it's invasion of privacy, but if you secretly record gay sex, it's a hate crime?

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  11. Re:I was surprised he was convicted on hate charge by ClioCJS · · Score: 1, Interesting

    Which comment did he make that was homophobic? simply stating that your roommate is doing it with a another dude is plain fact. Is the truth homophobic?

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  12. Re:I was surprised he was convicted on hate charge by guises · · Score: 5, Informative
    I'm also surprised, but apparently the judge saw it in more or less the same light - what he did was not deserving of the kind of harsh sentence that the prosecutors were asking for.

    On the other hand, thirty days in jail is not the whole sentence. From the article:

    In addition to jail, Judge Berman sentenced Mr. Ravi to three years’ probation, 300 hours of community service, counseling about cyberbullying and alternate lifestyles, and a $10,000 probation fee, to be used to help victims of bias crimes.

    I'd make some remark about how I feel about the appropriateness of the sentence, but I don't know squat about anyone involved here. I'll presume that the judge, who was much better informed than I, knew what he was doing.

  13. Re:I was surprised he was convicted on hate charge by Fallen+Kell · · Score: 1

    I believe there was some comment about him needing to watch out for his own butt while sleeping....

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  14. Re:FAH.... by Tynin · · Score: 1

    More like News for Nerds, because now I know exactly how far someone can push a criminally liable (but only every so slightly) network of web(spy) cams. I think most people wouldn't blink and eye at a month in jail if they thought they could get some really, really good material to blackmail someone, if/when the opportunity arises. Sure, some people are generally ethical and would never do this, but we all know a significant percentage are not.

    See, webcams, technology, and the laws pertaining to those who value the freedom to collect 'information' on others, /. material all around.

  15. no posting, no observed sex, and no closet by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

    He shouldn't have even been tried. Read the facts of the case:

    http://www.newyorker.com/reporting/2012/02/06/120206fa_fact_parker

    He turned on his webcam, saw his roommate kissing another guy, turned it off.
    Do you really think that warrants jail?

    1. Re:no posting, no observed sex, and no closet by LocalH · · Score: 3, Informative

      I read the entire article you linked to, and he did far more than what you write. He was a bigot and he tried to cover up what he did to Clementi, only because of Clementi's homosexuality.

      The bastard should have gotten more jail time than he did. Bigotry should be unacceptable in this day and time, and things are slowly changing, but when someone does what Ravi did, [b]they deserve to pay[/b]. He may not have been directly responsible for Clementi's death, but he sure pushed him much closer towards the edge.

      If he had "turned on his webcam, saw his roommate kissing [a girl], turned it off", do you think things would have happened the way they did? Do you think Clementi would be dead today?

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    2. Re:no posting, no observed sex, and no closet by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Bigotry should be tolerated too. When you commit a crime, your personal belief structure should not be on trial. That's a form of censorship via intimidation.

    3. Re:no posting, no observed sex, and no closet by FlatEric521 · · Score: 1

      I had read the New Yorker article previously, and while it is clear to me that Ravi was not a good or innocent person, there is something that I see common in other posts that bothers me.

      There was no stored video of any sexual encounter.

      Ravi used iChat to activate a webcam on his computer remotely. He viewed the video stream with a female friend in a nearby dorm. He did not have any setup to capture the video for future use. This means there was no blackmail attempts (also mentioned in other posts). As mentioned in the New Yorker article, there was an attempt to organize a viewing party of some sort, but it was canceled. The images didn't make youtube or any other public venue at any point in time.

      You want to condemn Ravi for spying or wiretapping violations, that makes sense. But the sheer misinformation I keep seeing posted here about videos and blackmail disturbs me.

  16. Re:I was surprised he was convicted on hate charge by travbrad · · Score: 5, Insightful

    The whole idea of "hate crime" is pretty ridiculous anyway.

    If you assault someone because you hate gays/minorities/etc, why is that worse than assaulting someone because you hate them individually? It just reinforces the idea that we should treat certain groups of people differently. Is that really the best way to address prejudice in society?

    Does anyone really think some dumb asshole bigot is going to think "there are hate crime laws I better not commit this crime"?

  17. Re:I was surprised he was convicted on hate charge by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Homophobic? That term should be abandoned.
    Anti-gay doesn't mean fear, it just means intolerance.

    If everybody was gay/lesbian, the problem would solve itself in 100 years.
    Mankind would die since there would be no children born.
    It'd get spooky after only 6 years when entire grades of schools are empty.

  18. Re:The worst part about this by Baloroth · · Score: 2, Insightful

    Is that he was tried for invasion of privacy and not a hate crime.

    Because clearly most crimes are done out of love, right? The whole concept of "hate crime" pisses me off. You should prosecute a person for what they did, not for what they felt while doing it. What a person does is crime. What a person thinks or feels, is only thoughtcrime. A murder is a murder: why should the white person killing a black person (or a straight killing a gay) get a harsher penalty than a white person killing another white? They both did the same damned thing.

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  19. Re:I was surprised he was convicted on hate charge by X0563511 · · Score: 1, Insightful

    That's not homophobic in and of itself. Not without more context. (I hope you realize that)

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  20. spelling counts by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    It's spelled Rutgers, not Rutger's.

    1. Re:spelling counts by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Not at Rutger's.

  21. Re:The worst part about this by X0563511 · · Score: 0

    Shush you, we don't like logic, truth, and accuracy around these parts.

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  22. Re:FAH.... by X0563511 · · Score: 1

    "News for nerds, stuff that matters. "

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  23. Re:I was surprised he was convicted on hate charge by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    And if everyone popped out as many children as human physiology could handle within their lifespan, we'd have food riots worldwide within two generations. Maybe (crazy thought here) everybody doesn't need to do exactly the same thing for society to function.

  24. Re:I was surprised he was convicted on hate charge by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 2, Insightful

    It wasn't a hate crime. It was a bias crime. The judge himself made that distinction at the sentencing as part of his justification for being so lenient (compared to the possible 10-year sentence).

  25. Re:The worst part about this by __aaeihw9960 · · Score: 2, Interesting

    You are walking a fine line.

    Intention is everything. If I am driving down the road, and hit a pedestrian on accident, your theory states that I have committed the same crime as someone who goes out of his/her way to hit a pedestrian on the same road.

    Intention is everything - If I pull the trigger in hate, I have committed a crime. If I pull the trigger in self-defense, have I committed a crime?

  26. 10 years ago, he would have been a hero by Animats · · Score: 5, Informative

    Prior to 2003, he would have been reporting a crime in Alabama, Florida, Idaho, Kansas, Louisiana, Michigan, Missouri, Mississippi, North Carolina, Oklahoma, South Carolina, Texas, Utah, or Virginia.

    1. Re:10 years ago, he would have been a hero by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Notice how New Jersey is still not on the list

      So 10 years ago, as far as New Jersey is concerned, it would have been the same as the outcome is now

    2. Re:10 years ago, he would have been a hero by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Ever since then, all sorts of natural, civil, technological and financial disasters have overtaken the USA. Tell me Yahweh, "God who made covenant with Israel and that's why humanity hates them" does not exist. Are some of the commands in Torah more universal than most think?

    3. Re:10 years ago, he would have been a hero by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Fruit from the forbidden tree.

    4. Re:10 years ago, he would have been a hero by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Prior to when the Supreme Court struck such laws down as unconstitutional, that is, because the law has no place intruding on the privacy of adults engaged in consensual sex.

    5. Re:10 years ago, he would have been a hero by tehcyder · · Score: 1

      Prior to 2003, he would have been reporting a crime in Alabama, Florida, Idaho, Kansas, Louisiana, Michigan, Missouri, Mississippi, North Carolina, Oklahoma, South Carolina, Texas, Utah, or Virginia.

      Which just proves that the US is not quite the bastion of freedom it likes to think it is.

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    6. Re:10 years ago, he would have been a hero by StikyPad · · Score: 1

      Right, because everything was just peachy before then. If you think this is bad, you're either ignorant of history, or willfully ignorant. And not just ancient history -- the past 150 years are rife with examples that were far worse than what we're living through today. The Torah was written by men with good ideas for their times, better than barbarism, but those men also happened to be bigots.

    7. Re:10 years ago, he would have been a hero by Shadowmist · · Score: 1

      Prior to 2003, he would have been reporting a crime in Alabama, Florida, Idaho, Kansas, Louisiana, Michigan, Missouri, Mississippi, North Carolina, Oklahoma, South Carolina, Texas, Utah, or Virginia.

      And prior to some forsaken age, it was legal to stone your wife. It's 2012, not 2002, and the crime happened in New Jersey, which offers less excuses for bigoted behavior.

  27. Re:I was surprised he was convicted on hate charge by digitig · · Score: 2

    If everybody was gay/lesbian, the problem would solve itself in 100 years. Mankind would die since there would be no children born. It'd get spooky after only 6 years when entire grades of schools are empty.

    Not as long as turkey basters are available.

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  28. Re:The worst part about this by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 5, Insightful

    Depends on intent. If you recorded the former with intent to jack off to it later, that's invasion of privacy. If you did so with the intent to blackmail a subset of the participants, that's, well, blackmail. If you recorded gay sex with the intent to out a subset of the participants as being gay, intending further to mock them, discriminate against them, or whatever else in an atmosphere where such proclivities are frowned upon, that's a hate crime.

  29. Re:I was surprised he was convicted on hate charge by ClioCJS · · Score: 3, Interesting

    I once tried to crash at a large new year's party in a room where there was also a girl present. She would not sleep in the same room because I might "try something" (which was ridiculous, but she was a christian). So anyway, if she had said, "That means I need to watch my pussy", does that mean she's heterophobic and it's a bias statement?

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  30. Hate Crimes should be Abolished! by El+Fantasmo · · Score: 1

    I despise the idea of a hate crime. Why is beating, killing or talking negatively to someone because they're gay, ethnic minority etc. any different than a heterosexual, white male engaging in a similar act against another heterosexual, white mail in the Unite States? Intentional is intentional regardless of personal differences/reasons. The laws should and should have treated murders, beatings, harassment etc. equally. Bigots, behind the bench and in juries handing down lenient sentences, are the reasons the class of "hate crimes" exists, not the nature of the crimes themselves. All murders are equal, but some murders are more equal than others.

    1. Re:Hate Crimes should be Abolished! by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      It gives the Federal government an excuse to get involved.

    2. Re:Hate Crimes should be Abolished! by Lohrno · · Score: 1

      I agree! If we are going to make an effort to reduce racism and prejudice, we should start by not letting it have a place in our government. If the punishment for murder is worse for the hate crime, why not just make it worse for everyone else as well?

      Killing a dude because he's gay or is in an interracial relationship is just as bad as killing a dude because he likes the Dallas Cowboys as far as I'm concerned. They are both equally despicable acts, and sexual preference is and I think should be treated the same way as preference for any other thing. It's not important and should not be.

    3. Re:Hate Crimes should be Abolished! by zombie_striptease · · Score: 1

      I felt the same way for a long time, but then someone gave me a good explanation: a hate crime charge is basically the assault/murder/whatever charge PLUS a harassment/terrorism charge on behalf of the targeted community. I think there would be a lot less confusion and contentiousness over the concept if it were legally written out that way (as separate charges) instead of with the shorthand of "hate crime", but when has legal language ever prioritized clarity?

    4. Re:Hate Crimes should be Abolished! by jbeaupre · · Score: 1

      Being a Dallas Cowboy fan is a choice. And a piss poor one that is tantamount to death.

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    5. Re:Hate Crimes should be Abolished! by Hatta · · Score: 1

      Extra terrorism charges are bullshit too. A bomb is a bomb is a bomb. We have a prohibition against double jeopardy for a reason, it needs to be updated to include this bullshit piling on of manufactured charges.

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    6. Re:Hate Crimes should be Abolished! by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Baby boys should also be treated the same way as baby girls, and the equal protection clause of the 14th amendment says they should. Since it is illegal to engage in female genital mutilation, then it should also be illegal to engage in male circumcision (which is more severe than certain milder forms of female genital mutilation, yet all forms of FGM are banned).

  31. Re:The worst part about this by Kjella · · Score: 4, Insightful

    A white gang and a black gang killing each other isn't a hate crime, but a white man killing blacks for being blacks or a black man killing whites for being white is. Hate crime and terrorism have a lot in common, in both cases it's not just about your direct victims but about all the people you intimidate. It's not just one murder, it's a message that the next black person that shows up will suffer the same. It's a message that the next gay person will suffer the same. It's a message that the next person who gets up and uses his freedom of speech will get a bullet to the brain. That more than puts a little cramp in your freedoms.

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  32. Re:The worst part about this by LocalH · · Score: 2

    It's not what they felt, it's why they committed the crime. If a person of one race kills someone of another race because he or she wanted something the victim had, it's not a hate crime. If a person of one race kills someone of another race because he or she thinks that the victim, and others of the victim's race, are subhuman and don't deserve to exist, then it's a hate crime.

    Bigotry is evil and damaging to large segments of society. When bigotry is the primary reason for a crime to be committed, then the crime should be punished more harshly than if the crime was committed for unrelated reasons.

    I used to think like you, until I saw first-hand how damaging bigotry is. I'm almost leaning towards the viewpoint that bigotry should be illegal even outside of any crime being committed, but I have yet to reconcile that viewpoint with some of my other strongly-held beliefs (such as how absolute freedom of speech should be). That's part of the journey of building one's character, though.

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  33. Re:The worst part about this by dgatwood · · Score: 2

    Your view is completely inconsistent with the laws in most countries. If I were to kill a man because I panicked while trying to steal bread to feed my starving family, the result would be no less tragic than if I had killed him because I wanted to sleep with his wife. However, the latter killing would have been committed with malice aforethought; such a crime results in murder charges and makes the accused eligible for the death penalty in most states. By contrast, the former would have lacked malice, and in the absence of "special circumstances" laws, such a crime results in a lesser charge, such as manslaughter.

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  34. Re:I was surprised he was convicted on hate charge by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Okay, does that mean anti-republican mean intolerance?

  35. Re:The worst part about this by Penguinisto · · Score: 1

    There is one small difference that isn't addressed here:

    Judging based on the defendant's alleged intent (which is indeed the difference between crime and accident) without regard to who or what the victim inherently is, is one thing.

    Differentiating degrees of intent (thus punishment) just because of a victim's lifestyle/color/religion/whatever, flies in the face of equal protection under the law.

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  36. Re:I was surprised he was convicted on hate charge by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    its really homophobic to film two dudes having sex. just so you know.

  37. Re:The worst part about this by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    If I pull the trigger in self-defense, have I committed a crime?

    Only if you miss.

  38. Re:I was surprised he was convicted on hate charge by MightyMartian · · Score: 4, Informative

    Hate crimes were invented during the civil rights era, both out of recognition that certain kinds of crimes were very much intended as attacks against whole communities and, at least so far as Federal legislation goes, to give Federal authorities some ability to prosecute such crimes where state authorities were frequently much less willing to pursue such criminals.

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  39. Re:The worst part about this by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

    Except the consequences of crimes categorized as hate crimes affect more than the direct victim, but the community that person is a member of at large.

    Hate crimes are crimes against groups of people. And when more people are harmed, punishment should increase. This does indeed not fly in the face of equal protection.

  40. Re:I was surprised he was convicted on hate charge by epyT-R · · Score: 2

    I don't see any fear here on ravi's part. so no, no homophobia.

  41. Re:The worst part about this by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Intention doesn't mean shit to your victims

  42. No suicide incentives by Kohath · · Score: 1

    Also, as Foxconn showed us, providing an incentive for people to commit suicide is counterproductive unless you want them to commit suicide. If you give people the power to have their enemies locked up for 10 years by committing suicide, you can look forward to such suicides happening more and more often.

  43. Re:I was surprised he was convicted on hate charge by shiftless · · Score: 0

    What, like "hate crime" is some huge serious thing that is difficult to get charged with? No, fool, you got played right along with all the rest of the electorate. "Hate crime" and "hate crime laws" are just one of a million government excuses used to justify arresting people and selling them into slavery.

    It was not about and was never about "stopping racism" or what the fuck ever goals clueless idiots imagined these laws would accomplish. Nope. Just another tool to enslave people.

  44. I think they should have flamed his ass a good ... by gatesstillborg · · Score: 1

    ... deal more, but because the target was homosexual, or because he killed himself, but because he violated someone's privacy so profoundly. All these little Our Man Flynt's running around with this cheap, garbage technology, thinking they are god. That Ravi guy strikes me as a bit hardened, a bit reptilian (albeit a mama's boy - ie. an A-type, the type our society tends to revere). I think the earlier (March) article comments exhibited more rabid and appropriate indignation.

  45. Re:I was surprised he was convicted on hate charge by St.Creed · · Score: 2

    Such a statement would imply that you're a rapist just because you're a heterosexual male. Yeah, that would be a sexist remark. And so was her behaviour. It happened to me once, by someone with similar weird ideas about men and women, and I felt rather insulted by someone assuming that just because I'm male and in the same room, I'm a probable rapist.

    However, if said person has a background with extreme Christian groups like "The Family" (or certain Roman Catholic priests) then I can totally understand her: everyone around her *is* a probable rapist. But I'd still feel insulted.

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  46. Re:The worst part about this by houghi · · Score: 1

    Not if the girls are cute.

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  47. Re:The worst part about this by Penguinisto · · Score: 4, Insightful

    If I killed a guy with 10 kids, I affected his whole family by removing their main source of income.
    If I killed the only oncologist in a small city, I affected everyone in that city who has cancer.
    If I killed a guy who would have otherwise invented cheap FTL space travel had he lived, I affected the whole frickin' human race. ...you still want to travel down that rabbit hole?

    Long story short - it does not work that way. Otherwise, you place one behavior or characteristic as being more valuable than any other.

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  48. Re:I was surprised he was convicted on hate charge by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    I'd make some remark about how I feel about the appropriateness of the sentence, but I don't know squat about anyone involved here. I'll presume that the judge, who was much better informed than I, knew what he was doing.

    this is the kind of attitude that lets the legal system get away with what it does. you cannot have 'hate crime' legislation in a society that respects free expression.

  49. Re:I was surprised he was convicted on hate charge by wisnoskij · · Score: 1

    "If you assault someone because you hate gays/minorities/etc, why is that worse than assaulting someone because you hate them individually?"
    Individuals don't have lobby groups?

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  50. Re:The worst part about this by epyT-R · · Score: 2, Insightful

    'hate crime' is just an excuse to build a caste society, where certain things cannot be said/done to certain groups.. This is not possible in a society that respects free expression and, ironically, equality.

  51. Re:The worst part about this by shiftless · · Score: 0

    So using your logic, the U.S. Federal government are terrorists who commit hate crimes on a frequent basis?

    After all, they "hate" marijuana producers, and they bust down the doors of the most legitimate, tax paying, law-and-regulation-following medical marijuana practitioners in California----just to "send a message" to everyone else.

    They do this type of shit all the time, actually. They also slap dozens of charges onto people, completely fucking their lives over for the most minor of offenses. The message sent to everyone else is, don't fuck with us or we'll do it to you, too.

    This particular guy got 15 charges, and it's only through good fortune and the alignment of the fucking stars that he isn't spending years in prison slaving away for Uncle Sam, before being cast out into the gutter to die. For every high profile case in the media that turns out one way, there's 100 more you never hear of that turn out a bit different.

    So whose side are you on, really? Justice? Freedom? Or slavery and oppression? If the former, then you need to stop apologizing for the latter. "Hate crime" laws are a perversion of justice, and nothing more than a tool used by oppressors to enslave.

  52. Re:The worst part about this by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    A white gang and a black gang killing each other isn't a hate crime, but a white man killing blacks for being blacks or a black man killing whites for being white is. Hate crime and terrorism have a lot in common, in both cases it's not just about your direct victims but about all the people you intimidate. It's not just one murder, it's a message that the next black person that shows up will suffer the same. It's a message that the next gay person will suffer the same. It's a message that the next person who gets up and uses his freedom of speech will get a bullet to the brain. That more than puts a little cramp in your freedoms.

    Really? What Earth do you live on?

  53. he should have been by ILongForDarkness · · Score: 1

    sentenced to have a set of webcams in is house for the next 10 years.

  54. Re:The worst part about this by ClioCJS · · Score: 1

    If they are lesbians though, that would be a hate crime, right! :)

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  55. DUI should be a capital offense by registrations_suck · · Score: 2
    He got off easy if you ask me. I'd make DUI a capital offense. To me, it isn't any different than premeditated murder. Driving shitfaced and getting lucky by not killing someone isn't any different than opening fire into a crowded room and getting lucky and not killing anyone. You shouldn't benefit from your failure to beat the odds.

    However, I don't think this spycam case should have ever made it to court. The guy is guilty of nothing more than being a douche, and that's not a criminal offense.

    1. Re:DUI should be a capital offense by Your.Master · · Score: 2

      Errmm...no, he's guilty of the following criminal offenses:

      Invasion of privacy
      Bias intimidation
      Tampering with evidence
      Witness tampering
      Hindering apprehension or prosecution

      Only "bias intimidation" is of even remotely debatable validity, but there is such a thing as criminal intimidation without bias anyway.

    2. Re:DUI should be a capital offense by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      It is different from premeditated murder because any killings are not premeditated. I'll give you a moment to catch up. You can kill people while driving tired, or angry, or distracted. Do you plan to murder those people, as well? You are a hypocrite.

      That's not to mention that current legal BAC limits are so low that getting a DUI doesn't even necessarily mean that you were significantly impaired; a DUI doesn't mean you were about to kill someone, it just means that you were above an arbitrary line that may or may not mean anything at all, depending on the individual.

      It is a shame that you are willing to advocate killing people for something you have put so little thought into.

  56. Re:The worst part about this by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    because if you secretly record straight sex, it's invasion of privacy, but if you secretly record gay sex, it's a hate crime?

    Like every other hate crime, it depends on your motive. If he recorded and published it specifically because it was gay sex, then yes, that's a hate crime.

  57. Maybe jail will give him a new angle by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    on Gay sex.

  58. My .02 by DaMattster · · Score: 5, Interesting

    Fight hate the way the Southern Poverty Law Center does it: through civil law. Imposing huge monetary fines and loss of assets actually does a whole lot more to bring down hatred than incarceration. Look at the decimation of some racist and militia-style hate groups where their assets were seized and turned over to the victim. Without a hate pulpit to preach from, these groups dissolve and disband. Anti-hate laws do little to curb the behavior - you have to hit'em in the wallet to stop it.

    1. Re:My .02 by misexistentialist · · Score: 1

      The same Southern Poverty Law Center that classifies picking up girls as hate? No doubt their methods are effective; heroic groups like the Nazis and the RIAA also found asset seizure useful.

    2. Re:My .02 by artor3 · · Score: 3, Funny

      The Nazis also found highways useful. Do you use highways? Are you a Nazi?

  59. Re:I was surprised he was convicted on hate charge by ClioCJS · · Score: 1

    Right. Now if, say, she tweeted something like, "Not gonna sleep with a straight guy in my room! gotta watch my vag!", and I then felt very embarassed becuase my friends saw this, and killed myself: Is she now guilty for my death, because I had a thin skin?

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  60. We are missing the point entirely by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    At face value, this was two students (Dharun and his buddy, whatever happened to her?) filming some dude have gay sex for a few laughs.

    What it really was were two students absolutely obsessed with the gay guy. They spent MONTHS planning ways to embarrass him. They were giddy and excited over all the possible outcomes. It was something that gave them a rush, and something they poured time into to make it as perfect as possible. Read about their exchanges, it's almost like they spent more time working on this than going to class. This was a daily thing they collaborated on like some kind of fucked up senior project.

    _That_ is the missing element people don't talk about. These two students are morally bankrupt, not only because of what they did but because of how much energy they put into developing it. For them, the ultimate rush would come from the gay guy being utterly humiliated, what they didn't consider was that he'd kill himself.

    What kind of normal people do that? Nobody does. Dharun and his partner have something seriously wrong with them. They need psychiatric evaluations to see how mentally fit they are. I can't imagine what kinds of spouses or parents they'd make if this was their idea of fun.

    Yes, this entire event can be condensed to "dude having gay sex gets filmed". But what we keep missing are "Two students have near orgasmic daily exchanges of increasingly complicated ways to ruin some guys life, where the ruining part is fueling their desires and goals to a level most people wouldn't think was possible". That's the scary part, and that's why both of them need more supervision than 30 days in jail.

  61. Re:I was surprised he was convicted on hate charge by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    I'd make some remark about how I feel about the appropriateness of the sentence, but I don't know squat about anyone involved here. I'll presume that the judge, who was much better informed than I, knew what he was doing.

    Very well said.

  62. Re:The worst part about this by Baloroth · · Score: 1

    I understand your position. However, my point is that "hate crime" itself should not be considered a separate crime. In other words, no one should be prosecuted for a hate crime as such. The penalty for whatever crime they committed may be increased (or decreased) depending on motivation, yes (in large part because punishment is partly intended as a cure for the criminal in addition to simply being a punishment for a given crime), but the motivation itself cannot of itself be a crime, IMO, not only for free speech purposes but also because of "equal protection under the law." Basically, a crime is a crime no matter who it is against, but the penalty can and should vary because of the intent of the criminal. Therefore, hate cannot in and of itself be a crime, since, well, it isn't. Only a crime can.

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  63. Re:The worst part about this by Baloroth · · Score: 1

    Your view is completely inconsistent with the laws in most countries. If I were to kill a man because I panicked while trying to steal bread to feed my starving family, the result would be no less tragic than if I had killed him because I wanted to sleep with his wife. However, the latter killing would have been committed with malice aforethought; such a crime results in murder charges and makes the accused eligible for the death penalty in most states. By contrast, the former would have lacked malice, and in the absence of "special circumstances" laws, such a crime results in a lesser charge, such as manslaughter.

    I would argue that the difference there is not in the nature of the crime or whether it should be prosecuted, but only in the extent of the penalty for the crime (I realize that under the law, they are generally considered different crimes for purposes of establishing maximum/minimum penalties). In other words, you can perhaps punish one crime harsher than another (indeed, intent and motivation can and should factor into the punishment), but you cannot prosecute a person for hating another, no matter how much you may want to.

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  64. Re:The worst part about this by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    You're absolutely right, hate crime legislation is bullshit. It doesn't matter what you felt (the motivation) while doing it, the act is the act.

    So if you carelessly ran over someone because your phone rang, OR you stalked a person for days and then deliberately ran them over when you saw your chance, it's THE SAME CRIME.

    You fucking cretin.

  65. Re:The worst part about this by chrb · · Score: 1

    You should prosecute a person for what they did, not for what they felt while doing it.

    So we shouldn't prosecute terrorism as a crime in itself?

    What a person does is crime. What a person thinks or feels, is only thoughtcrime.

    So you see no difference between shooting someone because you think that they intend to harm your family, and shooting someone because you think they are Jewish and you (Nazi) want to kill all Jews? The end result is the same - you shot someone, they died - the only difference is your motivation.

    The whole concept of "hate crime" pisses me off.

    Try not to be so emotional, it inhibits your rational thought.

  66. Re:The worst part about this by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Cause we've made it illegal to have an opinion, we can now charge people with hate crimes.
    Sure I think bashing someone because they are gay is pathetic, sure I think we need to punish people who commit crimes against people they "hate."
    But we need to punish them for the CRIME, not the fact that they have an opinion that you don't like.

    I personally find racist people very offensive....but somehow I doubt that if I attacked someone screaming at the top of my lungs "I hate you because you are a racist", that I would be charged with a hate crime. No, we reserve charging people with "hate crimes" when we feel that the crime needs extra punishment because we want to discourage wrong thinking people. Its a feel good but do nothing political BS snowjob. Anytime a "protected class" is a victim, the 1st thing that you hear is that it is being investigated as a potential hate crime. It fails equal protection standards, and it criminalized the motivation of a crime beyond the normal statutory requirements of having "intent."

  67. Re:The worst part about this by ffflala · · Score: 1

    The whole concept of "hate crime" pisses me off. You should prosecute a person for what they did, not for what they felt while doing it. What a person does is crime. What a person thinks or feels, is only thoughtcrime. A murder is a murder: why should the white person killing a black person (or a straight killing a gay) get a harsher penalty than a white person killing another white? They both did the same damned thing.

    What one thinks/feels while doing it is a critical element of almost every crime, and certainly of all violent ones. It's not "thoughtcrime", the concept is called mens rea.

    Briefly and simplified: killing a person is homicide. Murder is a homicide that you intended to do before it happened, then carried through with your plan. Manslaughter is a homicide in which you killed someone but weren't doing so out of some preconceived plan. While in both cases someone was killed, the difference between them is what the killer was thinking.

    If you stab someone in the arm because you're fighting them, you've committed at least a battery -- because of your state of mind. If you stab someone in the arm because you're cooking and the knife slipped from your hand, you haven't committed any violent crime at all -- because you weren't intending to cause harm.

    Hate crime legislation comes from the perspective that, while it's bad enough for a person to want to hurt or kill another, it's even worse when someone wants to hurt or kill another because of their race, religion, gender, sexual orientation, disability, etc.

  68. is it just me? by circletimessquare · · Score: 4, Interesting

    or is it whenever i see "legal" analysis on slashdot i see tons of posts by people who don't consider the notion of intent

    is it a psychological thing?

    that is, the relationship between aspergers syndrome and technological inclination is well-established, this is a tech site, aspergers renders one unable to appreciate and take into account other minds at work out there outside of your own. and just because you aren't clinically diagnosed with aspergers doesn't mean you aren't somewhere along the spectrum of a mild inability to have a decreased capacity to have a good working model of "theory of mind" going on in your head:

    http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Theory_of_mind

    anyway, this is just a long-winded way of saying: INTENT. understand it, please

    if you judge other's actions, or develop an opinion of other's actions without applying or appreciating the concept of intent, at least understand that the rest of the world will consider your opinion invalid, if you can't understand yourself why intent is important

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    1. Re:is it just me? by zildgulf · · Score: 1

      Actually I reasoned that Ravi taped his roommate with the intent of "outing" him and causing mental distress and I doubt he would've done this to Clementi if he didn't suspect Clementi was gay. The mental distress Clementi experienced is not something I can imagine. Often gays are subject to abuse and ridicule by so-called friends, strangers, authority figures, and even entire religious organizations and their own family, even in this day in age. They are still denied housing, employment, and promotions once "outted". It is not nice to know that even many religious leader would love to have you killed if it was legal.

      Clementi must've known all of this and figured that "his life was over" at that point. Who am I to say he didn't have a point? What he experienced was a major life changing event. Some deal with it by leaving or transferring schools. Some deal with it by going to "safe areas" typically in larger cities. Some deal with it by standing up against injustice. Some deal with it by using alcohol and drugs. Some don't deal with it and kill themselves, like Clementi. How many, many others you never hear about killing themselves over this?

      Yes, INTENT is what we must deal with. Since I think Ravi's intent was worse than "embarrassment" I don't think the punishment fit the crime. Ravi is totally unrepentant about his actions. Unfortunately Ravi cannot comprehend what he did to Clementi.

    2. Re:is it just me? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      The problem with your reasoning is that Clementi wasn't "in the closet" and if he had been, inviting random men to his dorm room to have sex would have been an astonishingly bad way to try to stay "in the closet". At least show the sense that politicians do - go find a hotel room somewhere where you're unlikely to be recognized.

      "Outing" him had nothing to do with anything.

  69. Re:I was surprised he was convicted on hate charge by GodfatherofSoul · · Score: 5, Informative

    Hate crimes have a very real distinction. They're intended to intimidate a subset of your community, that's why they're elevated. If that doesn't make sense to you, consider that we have at least 4 standards for the fundamentally same crime of taking a life; accidental death(?), manslaughter, 2nd degree murder, and 1st degree murder.

    And, contrary to popular belief, a hate crime doesn't mean killing a minority. It's a very difficult legal bar to reach.

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  70. Re:I was surprised he was convicted on hate charge by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    I know! Same thing with aggravated assault, assault with a deadly weapon, and murder one!!

    We should just break it along "type of crime" lines, right? No matter what nuance, let's make the punishment the same for all of a particular type.

    Simple assault, sexual assault, there's really too much nuance.

    Aggravated assault vs tying a minority to the back of a pickup truck and dragging them a couple miles - all the same punishment.

    Good show!

  71. Re:I was surprised he was convicted on hate charge by TubeSteak · · Score: 3, Interesting

    It just reinforces the idea that we should treat certain groups of people differently.

    I'm having serious issues wrapping my head around this backwards logic.
    You haven't even really made an argument at all and blindly asserting a claim is not the same as supporting it.

    Why don't you tell us why assault based on gender/sexual orientation/race is not worse than regular old violence
    Perhaps you just don't understand the history of civil right and hate crime laws?

    The law has always been neutral toward crime, but enforcement of the law was not.
    Minorities were being murdered, justice was not being done, and tension would build.
    Communities became embroiled in violence, leading to retaliation, leading to more violence.

    There are strong reasons behind enhancing the punishment for certain crimes over others.
    Maybe some day we won't need those laws, but America is still struggling with basic things like equality for all.

    Is that really the best way to address prejudice in society?

    I can't say for sure that we've come up with the best way to address prejudice in society,
    but nothing else we've tried has worked and I don't see you putting forward any alternatives.

    Does anyone really think some dumb asshole bigot is going to think "there are hate crime laws I better not commit this crime"?

    Not really but it sends a message that, as a society, we will not tolerate such odious behavior in our midst.

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  72. Re:I was surprised he was convicted on hate charge by artor3 · · Score: 1

    It's worse because when you target someone for an attribute, then aside from the harm you inflict on them, you are also terrorizing all the people like them. If you lynch a black guy, all of the other black guys in the community are now afraid to go out in public because they might be next.

  73. It's kinda the way geeks work by Sycraft-fu · · Score: 2

    Geeks can be overly literal about shit. That leads to an attitude of not wanting to look at context. Something is either right or wrong, period. So if it is ok to do something any time, it is ok to do it all the time. Context and thus intent don't matter.

    Also this absolutist idea leads to trouble with the concept of reasonable doubt. They think if they can come up with any explanation at all, no matter how improbable, that a jury would have to buy that. They think they can explain away anything because even the tiniest bit of doubt is enough. That is not the case, of course, the standard is reasonable doubt so while you can prove very little beyond any doubt at all, you can prove many things beyond a reasonable doubt.

    I'm not sure it is as much even something like aspergers as just geeks being hyper literal. It seems to be some sort of challenge, who can out literal the other or try to be the most narrowly technically correct. That is quite the opposite form how the law works.

  74. Re:I was surprised he was convicted on hate charge by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    If you assault someone because you hate gays/minorities/etc, why is that worse than assaulting someone because you hate them individually?

    Because a crime against a group is of a larger scale than a crime against an individual? Just a guess.

    If a guy in my neighborhood shoots his neighbor because he slept with his wife, I still feel safe living in my community, because I am uninvolved. If the same guy shot his neighbor because his neighbor was guy, and I also happen to be gay, then that is a threat against me and any other gay member of the community. There is an element to the crime which causes an entire community to live in fear, as opposed to targeted violence that you can avoid by simply acting civil toward your neighbors.

    It's not about treating crime against specific groups differently than crime against other groups. It's about the difference between a crime against a group and a crime against an individual.

  75. not just you by OrangeTide · · Score: 1

    anyway, this is just a long-winded way of saying: INTENT. understand it, please

    If people here really have aspergers they may be incapable of understanding intent except superficially. They(either aspergers sufferers or people on slashdot) tend to have a stunted ability for empathy, and I don't mean kindness, I mean they have difficulty perceiving the emotions and motives of others.

    I suspect many people here wish the law was more like mathematic laws, and that the legal code was more like source code. And they probably hope that they could eliminate extraneous variables that cannot be easily examined or reproduced in a laboratory setting, such as the psychological state of an individual.

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  76. Re:I was surprised he was convicted on hate charge by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Yeah. That's the reason why each and every time a white person or group is targeted, the whole establishment, far-leftist watchdogs and media apply the "hate crime" concept.

    "Hate crimes" are a purely political creation, inspired by Cultural Marxism and intended to be applied only to white heterosexual people. Especially if they're males and/or mildly ethnocentric. When whites are targeted for being white, then public officials talk about "crime has not color" and other hypocrite platitudes.

  77. Re:I was surprised he was convicted on hate charge by swalve · · Score: 1

    Of course that is homophobic! He was afraid of the homosexual.

  78. Re:The worst part about this by R3d+M3rcury · · Score: 1

    I can see this argument. If some African-American person is voting when I don't think they should, beating up a few of them pour encourager les autres is definitely a hate crime because the reason for my actions is to frighten others.

    I'm even willing to say that if I beat up someone purely because he's an African-American and he's done nothing to me, it's a hate crime.

    On the other hand, getting into a fight with my African-American roomate because he's a dick? Not a hate crime.

    You really have to be able to prove prejudice and intent. If I beat up my African-American roomate because he's an annoying prick and that means that you, as an African-American, feel concerned for your safety because of this, that's your problem.

  79. Re:The worst part about this by swalve · · Score: 1

    Except that isn't what it is at all. For something to be a hate crime, it must be done because the victim is a minority.

    And that's not what equal protection of the law means.

  80. Re:The worst part about this by swalve · · Score: 1

    Nobody is punishing the opinion, just acting on it.

  81. You seriously think motive is irrelevant? by PeanutButterBreath · · Score: 1

    The only difference that the law should make is whether the act was intentional or not; the precise motive behind the intent is not relevant.

    Your logic would re-legalize all kinds of discrimination.

    The intent behind refusing to seat someone in your restaurant would not be relevant.
    The intent behind refusing to allow someone to attend your school would not be relevant.
    The intent behind refusing to rent someone an apartment would not be relevant.
    The intent behind refusing to loan a family money to buy a house in a certain neighborhood would not be relevant.
    The intent behind refusing to employ someone would not be relevant.

    Note that none of these is illegal unless the intent is to deny members of protected classes. And by "protected", we are not talking about protecting some privilege, but rather ensuring that they are granted the same baseline of opportunity as everyone else.

    1. Re:You seriously think motive is irrelevant? by shutdown+-p+now · · Score: 5, Insightful

      Your logic would re-legalize all kinds of discrimination.

      On the contrary, it would make all kinds of discrimination equally illegal.

      The intent behind refusing to seat someone in your restaurant would not be relevant.
      The intent behind refusing to allow someone to attend your school would not be relevant.
      The intent behind refusing to rent someone an apartment would not be relevant.
      The intent behind refusing to loan a family money to buy a house in a certain neighborhood would not be relevant.
      The intent behind refusing to employ someone would not be relevant.

      Note that none of these is illegal unless the intent is to deny members of protected classes.

      Which is a problem. If that kind of discrimination is still a real problem in US (is it?), then it should be plainly illegal to deny this kind of thing to anyone without a good reason, regardless of whether they belong to a "protected class" or not.

      Frankly, the very term "protected class" is a slap in the face of equality. The moment you start drawing arbitrary lines between individuals and segregate them into "classes" of any kind, any pretense of equality goes out of the window. There's no such thing as "positive discrimination" - when someone gets preferential treatment, that's just a politically correct way of saying that others get less. The notion that classes should get "the same baseline of opportunity" is ridiculous on its face; it's people who should get that, and the only way you can do it is by refusing to categorize them into classes in the first place, and treating any case of unwarranted discrimination equally.

    2. Re:You seriously think motive is irrelevant? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Protected class isn't a slap in the face of equality, everybody is in at least one protected class. You can't be fired for your race because that's a protected class, you can be fired in spite of your race, but the law says you can't be fired because of it.

      Deliberately misconstruing things like this is precisely why we have issues with various -isms.

      Just out of curiosity, precisely who is it that's getting "positive' discrimination? I hear these assertions thrown around all the time, but thank god I'm getting positive discrimination because it's not like I'm still behind even with the promise of equal protection.

      It's a load of bullshit and it concerns me a great deal when people spread it about as it just reinforces the entitlement complex that a lot of Christians, white people and men have. I was brought up all three and I know better than to believe this bullshit. Ask damn near any minority you want and I'll be that they'd give up the help in a heartbeat if it meant they no longer needed.

      What's more, I have benefited from affirmative action as a white male at times, the law definitely doesn't apply only to protecting minorities, it protects anybody from being fired or whatnot due to raise, creed, gender etc.

    3. Re:You seriously think motive is irrelevant? by shutdown+-p+now · · Score: 2

      Protected class isn't a slap in the face of equality, everybody is in at least one protected class.You can't be fired for your race because that's a protected class

      The point is that, by recognizing the concept of "race" in the law - and especially of specific races (I can't help but laugh every time I hear "Hispanic race" in US - this classification is beyond retarded) - you basically imply that people are different on account of race, and that the intent of the law is to stop people of different races from stepping on each other toes. What a civilized society should do is cease any recognition of the notion of "race" altogether.

      Just out of curiosity, precisely who is it that's getting "positive' discrimination? I hear these assertions thrown around all the time, but thank god I'm getting positive discrimination because it's not like I'm still behind even with the promise of equal protection.

      You're not banned on Wikipedia, are you?
      http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Affirmative_action_in_the_United_States

    4. Re:You seriously think motive is irrelevant? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      You mean like stricter sentences for killing police or their dogs m have you ever read, "Are cops constitutional?"

    5. Re:You seriously think motive is irrelevant? by shutdown+-p+now · · Score: 1

      You don't get stricter sentence for killing cops unless they are on duty. So it's not that cops are a protected class, it's that interfering with police activity is a crime which compounds other crimes that may have been committed while doing that.

    6. Re:You seriously think motive is irrelevant? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      The intent behind refusing to seat someone in your restaurant would not be relevant.

      You can refuse anyone for any reason if you have a privately owned business.

      The intent behind refusing to allow someone to attend your school would not be relevant.

      If it were a privately owned school, the owner would be within their rights to do so.

      The intent behind refusing to rent someone an apartment would not be relevant.

      Same thing.

      The intent behind refusing to loan a family money to buy a house in a certain neighborhood would not be relevant.

      If the loan was requested from a private individual and not a public banking firm, there is nothing illegal.

      The intent behind refusing to employ someone would not be relevant.

      Again, if the company is owned by an individual, they can refuse for any reason.

      No shoes, no shirt, no service.

    7. Re:You seriously think motive is irrelevant? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      " If that kind of discrimination is still a real problem in US (is it?)"

      It is still a very, very large problem.

    8. Re:You seriously think motive is irrelevant? by tbannist · · Score: 1

      Which is a problem. If that kind of discrimination is still a real problem in US (is it?), then it should be plainly illegal to deny this kind of thing to anyone without a good reason, regardless of whether they belong to a "protected class" or not.

      Are you really this stupid? Do you expect business owners to accept that "you don't have the money to pay for this" is no longer an acceptable reason to deny providing service?

      Frankly, the very term "protected class" is a slap in the face of equality.

      Except everyone belongs to multiple "protected classes" because everyone has a race, everyone has a gender, and everyone has a sexual orientation. Now the protection may seem more like a joke to white middle-class heterosexual males who very rarely need any such protection, but the protections apply to everyone equally even to those who don't seem to need it very often.

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    9. Re:You seriously think motive is irrelevant? by gorzek · · Score: 1

      The law recognizes that people discriminate on the basis of "race." The law wouldn't have to recognize anything about race if society, as a whole, would make it a non-issue. But we don't. There is still ample racism in the US. There are places where non-whites are treated as second-class citizens, where they are abused and intimidated, and sometimes murdered. More subtly, they are denied jobs and housing.

      In this case, the law has stepped in to correct an injustice, not enforce a concept of race on society at large. Society is already hung up on race. The law just has to reflect the reality and try to address it.

    10. Re:You seriously think motive is irrelevant? by PeanutButterBreath · · Score: 1

      Which is a problem. If that kind of discrimination is still a real problem in US (is it?), then it should be plainly illegal to deny this kind of thing to anyone without a good reason, regardless of whether they belong to a "protected class" or not.

      Yes it is (unless you are of the mind that disparities in minority achievement are 100% explained by their inherent inferiority. I'm assuming that you don't believe this, so I hope you will take some time to think about why inequality persists on such starkly, racially delineated lines.

      Frankly, the very term "protected class" is a slap in the face of equality. The moment you start drawing arbitrary lines between individuals and segregate them into "classes" of any kind, any pretense of equality goes out of the window.

      Equality is already a pretense. People seem to think that efforts to fight discrimination amount to granting minorities superior privileges. This is nonsense if you recognize the current inequality.

      Take the ADA. Your argument is akin to saying that mandating wheelchair access amounts to granting the disabled special privileges or "positive discrimination". They have already have the equal "right" to use the stairs as everyone, so why should you be compelled via taxes, higher rents and high prices to support "positive discrimination" for the disabled? No fair!

      Except that (most) people realize that there are those of us who are disadvantaged in certain physical ways, and thus it is both fair and humane to grant them extra privileges so that they are afforded the same baseline rights as everyone.

      IOW, It takes extra privileges for some to ensure equal privileges for all. As a matter of completely detached logic, this is nonsensical. Yet most people understand why, in the real world, that logic fails.

      Protected laws of all kinds reflect that, whatever any individuals personal beliefs or affinity for strict logic, most people agree that the playing field needs a few shims in order to remain level.

    11. Re:You seriously think motive is irrelevant? by WNight · · Score: 1

      Accessibility for the disabled is hardly the same thing as race or gender-specific rules.

      The first helps people in need. (Well, anyone can use the wheelchair ramp, but the able get nothing extra from doing so.) The others are a matter of birth not need and they unreasonably benefit some people who don't need help, but they also ignore other people with equivalently bad situations over things we're supposed to be ignoring (race, sexual preferences, etc).

      The obviously correct way to handle this is to offer non-discriminatory benefits to those in need. Don't offer a racial scholarship, examine what perceived thing you're trying to fix (for instance that a minority child will be poor and thus unable to attend school) and adopt a scholarship for all children in a similar situation. Crack-head parents are crack-head parents regardless of race and all of their children are going to need the same types of help. All abused and now single parents need the same help. Imagine an admittedly rare majority-race child being adopted into a minority household and being denied a scholarship that was available to their new siblings.

      It's a fundamental right to not be excluded on the basis of "protected" statuses, so it's clearly a violation of the rights of everyone to have any of these exclusionary policies.

      Thankfully the non-discriminatory way is far better for society. Educating everyone isn't at all unreasonable and the poorest and most disadvantaged are great to start with. And everyone deserves rescue - from a dictator, a crooked mining town, blackmail/coercion, or an abusive spouse.

      Imagine how much simpler a scholarship form and process would be if we spent the time and effort we do in caring about the protected statuses and just helped those who apply. We drop million dollar bombs on people who weren't our enemies, we can trivially afford to educate anyone who asks.

      At that, the USA could just end the "illegal alien" "problem" by a one-time ten-year aid package to Mexico providing first-world health, nutrition, and education. By then the country would have a far-higher GDP, and growing too as children raised this way got jobs, and nobody would want to leave home. And it'd cost far less than the ongoing permanent border/fence/humanitarian disaster costs and will keep costing, and the aid package would actually fix the underlying issues.

    12. Re:You seriously think motive is irrelevant? by ImaLamer · · Score: 1

      The notion that classes should get "the same baseline of opportunity" is ridiculous on its face; it's people who should get that, and the only way you can do it is by refusing to categorize them into classes in the first place, and treating any case of unwarranted discrimination equally.

      And thus it is revealed. People and classes can have that same baseline. It's not that we realize the class differences and there is elements of discrimination does not mean we are the cause of it. Hate crimes don't create hate crimes because the law exists - the laws exist due to the offenders, it is reactionary due to American society (and frankly others too).

      There is no class, even those you say aren't protected, the un-named majority, that can't sue or be viewed as a victim for their so-called class. There is nothing in these ideals that elevates anyone in society over another - in fact it seeks to establish to the people the playing field should, in fact, be leveled. For your "people" to be afforded a certain baseline of opportunity we have to have recourse when someone pushes that baseline back/down/whatever to a person because of a class they saw/heard/assumed when they met with them, etc.

  82. Re:I was surprised he was convicted on hate charge by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    And an individual is not a subset of a community? You need to rethink or at least rephrase your inadequate statement.

  83. Re:The worst part about this by artor3 · · Score: 1

    But your intent in all of those contrived examples wasn't to hurt the whole group. In a hate crime, the criminal is intentionally targeting a whole community.

    And don't give me that crap about "we shouldn't be punishing people based on intent". It's commonly accepted that we punish premeditated murder more harshly than murder in the heat of the moment, which in turn is punished more harshly than an accidental killing.

    The fact is, most people who oppose hate crimes do so because they agree with the Republicans on other issues, so they just adopt the party platform. And the party has to pander to the minority of people who oppose hate crimes because they're bigots.

  84. Ignorant and hateful by TiggertheMad · · Score: 2

    It's no different than secretly filming your roommate having straight sex.

    Really? When was the last time you heard about people who had straight sex being murdered for it? Know any straight people who cannot get married because they are straight? How about, straight people who cannot get health insurance for their partner because they are straight? Straight people who are fired for being straight?

    If you really think that being gay is no big deal, perhaps you should take it up with the other 48% or so of the country that is still ignorant and hateful.

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    1. Re:Ignorant and hateful by ClioCJS · · Score: 1

      None of those things have anything to do with the act of filming.

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    2. Re:Ignorant and hateful by TiggertheMad · · Score: 1

      The point is that there is a double standard for sexuality, and anyone not conforming to the expected behavior is demonized. Filming straight sex isn't a big deal because that is expected behavior. Filming his roommate is basically exposing his roommate to all the hate and bile spewed from people who don't understand they don't have the right to abuse people who don't hold their values.

      His actions were basically a hate crime.

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    3. Re:Ignorant and hateful by ClioCJS · · Score: 1
      You are basically giving extra protection to some people - but not all. I'm not cool with that. It doesn't matter what somebody else thinks. If baggy pants are demonized compared to khakis, and I tell the world you wear baggy pants, is that somehow more evil than telling the world you wear khakis? You're reaching way too deep. A 3rd party's reaction to information does not turn information from acceptable into hate crime.

      This 30 day sentence is the right amount. Smart judge, for once.

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    4. Re:Ignorant and hateful by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      No "filming" was done. There was no film, either actual or digital. Just 1s and 0s that existed for a brief moment in time as they were created, flowed over the net, and displayed. This was as much "filming" as peeking through someone's window with a set of mirrors.

  85. Re:I was surprised he was convicted on hate charge by MightyMartian · · Score: 2

    Whatever you may think of their application now, anybody with even a modicum of knowledge of the civil rights era knows how important such laws were to ensuring crimes against African-Americans were prosecuted.

    Of course those who objected to Federal laws that protected black Americans also made rude noises about Marxism and the poor white man.

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  86. Re:I was surprised he was convicted on hate charge by Burning1 · · Score: 4, Insightful

    If someone gets beat to shit because they are an asshole, I can avoid the same fate by not being an asshole.

    If someone is beat to shit because of their skin color, I cannot change my skin color to avoid the same fate.

  87. Re:I was surprised he was convicted on hate charge by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    I think the idea is that "hate crimes" are carried for ideological reasons and the perp is likely to do something similar again. Therefore they're likely to need a longer sentence / more rehabilitation etc. I don't think it's intended as an additional discouragement. After all, if stricter sentences had any effect then one might expect that the possibility of a death sentence in the US might have an effect on the rate of serious crime. But that doesn't appear to be the case.

  88. Re:The worst part about this by PeanutButterBreath · · Score: 1

    Otherwise, you place one behavior or characteristic as being more valuable than any other.

    We place bigoted behaviors below all others. That's just the way it is, thanks to a persistent strain in our society of criminality motivated by bigoted attitudes.

  89. Re:I was surprised he was convicted on hate charge by thebrieze · · Score: 1

    Understanding the law, and whether an action violates it, should not require a history lesson. Assaulting someone, (or any other action) should either be an offence or not. Whether the victims (or perpetrators) ancestors suffered some injustice shouldn't affect the criminality of the action or it's punishment.

    Hate crimes are essentially "thought crimes" + some "action".

    Thought crimes on their own are specifically protected and considered an essential part of liberty and freedom, and this country has enshrined that in our freedom of speech laws. It follows that the criminality (and punishment) of the "action", should not be affected by the thought behind it.

  90. Re:I was surprised he was convicted on hate charge by samoanbiscuit · · Score: 1

    It should be really called "liberty crimes" because the intended effect of most hate crimes is to curtail someone's freedom. "Oh, I can't vote in next month's elections or move into a white neighborhood, or the burning cross in front of my house will become a gibbet, like what happened to the family down the road" thinks a black man under the heel of the KKK in the 60's. Similarly, gay students at Rutgers watching the humiliation unfold online, or may be word-of-mouth, will think "Oh, I can't have sex in my dorm room, even if I ask my roommate to vacate for a while (a classic behaviour immortalized in many college movies), something like what happened to Tyler will happen to me". Do you see the chilling effect the crime has on others in the community?

  91. Re:I was surprised he was convicted on hate charge by samoanbiscuit · · Score: 1

    Invasion of privacy is not a crime? Wow, when it's a gay man at risk, instead of their browsing history, suddenly slashdotters don't give a shit about privacy... Makes me wonder...

  92. Re:I was surprised he was convicted on hate charge by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Oh - you must be gay then for saying that.

    Thats totally it. you are gay and in denial. otherwise you would agree DUHHHHHHHH

    Nice clothes? GAY
    Dont treat women like crap? GAY
    Like to care for yourself by keeping a clean house and cooking? GAY

    obviously, what is 'right' and good is GAY, and everything else is STRAIGHT.

    ITS BACKWARDS LAND!

    homosexuality is the denial of your own sexuality as a result of profound insecurity
    and projecting that insecurity on anyone else when they point out that insecurity.

    it is a mental illness.

    it was revoked in the 70s more as a result of bullying and cruel 60s era behaviourist therapies (think electro shock or lobotomies)
    and the general 'open' vibe of the times than out of any rational basis.

    which is more of the same 'play the victim, blame the accuser by externalizing' - etc etc.

    why such an emphasis on style in the gay community? becase its an exteranality - much like internalising the backwards sexuality and externalizing any criticism.

    - someone who got over 'thinking they were gay' when he realized he was coddled by his mother and innapropriately raised by his father.. which if you put the above together - DUH.

    Why do so many homosexual men have mother issues?
    Why do so many homosexual men think that vaginas are disgusting?

    noone should be mean to them, but gay not 'healthy' or 'true' or 'just what I am'. LIES.

  93. Re:Did anyone force you to be a gay ? by Caerdwyn · · Score: 3, Insightful

    Oh look. A clueless fucktard heterosexual. HOW SURPRISING.

    Did anyone force him to be gay? YES. It's a genetic predisposition. Nobody chooses to be the target of frat-boys and jock-boys. Nobody chooses to be the target of screaming maniacs who justify their hate in the name of Jesus. Nobody chooses to play the role that Jews played in the 30's (complete with people like Ravi who intend only misery and death to their targets).

    People like you, who obviously believe that gays are their personal punching bags and rightful targets of ridicule, are why these laws exist. You think it's okay to abuse others over their orientation. The law says it's not (though this 30-day sentence makes me think that dealing with people like Ravi with a noose rather than a judge is much more appropriate... if the courts won't defend gays, then gays must defend themselves by any means necessary). It's people like you who are the reason I carry a gun.

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  94. Re:I was surprised he was convicted on hate charge by steelfood · · Score: 2

    And like all other acceptable pieces of legislation, has been distorted to be what law enforcement/the prosecution wants it to mean at any particular time.

    This was clearly not a hate crime. The target was an individual firstly. And the offence would be no different an offence if the guest had been an older man, an older woman, or some young woman in the same school (though the ultimate result may have differed). That Clementi committed suicide is unfortunate, but hardly Ravi's fault.

    That people, especially the prosecution, was expecting a jail term of years just shows how ridiculous society has become. It's the justice system, not the revenge system.

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  95. Re:I was surprised he was convicted on hate charge by thebrieze · · Score: 1

    Maybe the person was really lynching the guy wearing flip flops, who just happened to be black! Would his crime be any less if he had lynched a white guy wearing flip flops?

    Should a completely secular serial killer be let off easy, simply because "hey, at least he/she didn't target a specific group"?

    Do the police not protect black people? Do the courts refuse to take on cases against black people?

    If black people do feel more insecure, maybe we should be fixing these issues first, instead of making examples out of others.

  96. Re:I was surprised he was convicted on hate charge by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    He comes from a culture that strongly opposes Mr. Clementi's way of life. Any person whose culture puts him/herself in opposition to a more recently granted protected class loses his/her protected status: Let me haul out the excessively truthful cliché:

    [cue groaning]

    There is this 'totem pole of protected classes' in USA (federal) civil rights jurisprudence based on 'historical factors'. It goes something like this:

    0 LGBT, any ethnic any gender [ Tyler Clementi is here ]
    1 Black female
    2 Black male
    3 NAPI (Native American / Pacific Islander) female
    4 NAPI (Native American / Pacific Islander) male
    5 Hispanic female
    6 Hispanic male
    7 Asian female
    8 Asian male [Dharun Ravi is here ]
    9 Unassimilated ethnic white female
    10 Unassimilated ethnic white male
    11 White female
    12 White male
    13 Evangelical Christian, any ethnicity, any gender

    Within this scale, if one's worldview is perceived to be more hostile to historic Western values, said individual is granted more 'protection'. Basically, the more 'different' one is perceived by those assumed by reason of history to have power (i.e. white males), the more 'protection' one is granted. According to this model, it is absolutely impossible for the Black female gay (orientation overrides ethnicity and gender to the positive because we are carefully instructed that it is BIOLOGY) to be accused of a hate crime. In the contrapositive, the white male that attacks even another white male who espouses a worldview that is less tolerant of Western values (excepting Judaeo-christianity, of course!) than that of the attacker, that attacker has committed a hate crime. Therefore it stands to reason that anyone who attacks an evangelical Christian (faith overrides gender and ethnicity to the negative because we are carefully instructed that it is a CHOICE) is not merely not guilty of a hate crime, rather (s)he is doing enlightened humanity a favor by ridding society of such a pest. There are so many possible combinations of perpetrators and victims in these situations that adjudication of said cases requires the skill and judgment of one holding a terminal law degree and decades of experience.

    Like any system, this one can be hacked. Be perceived as gay and *presto* instant top-level protection. No evangelical of any ethnicity and/or gender will try to pull that stunt because his/her faith prohibits such behavior.

    Gay trumps Asian, Q.E.D.

  97. Re:I was surprised he was convicted on hate charge by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    If you assault someone because you hate gays/minorities/etc, why is that worse than assaulting someone because you hate them individually?

    You can control your behavior so few people hate you, or at least know when someone hates you personally and take measures. You can't control the color of your skin or your sexual orientation.

    Does anyone really think some dumb asshole bigot is going to think "there are hate crime laws I better not commit this crime"?

    No nobody thinks that, at least nobody with some intelligence. What we hope is that by having hate crimes on the books, it teaches people that judging others by their skin color is not right. Not everybody will learn that of course and bigotry won't stop overnight, but eventually, over several generations, it'll be reduced to an insignificant amount. It works better in some countries than others.

  98. What About Dharun Ravi's Own Sexuality? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

    I haven't read all the posts yet, but from the ones I've seen so far, there's been absolutely no mention of Dharun Ravi's own sexuality. In my experience as a gay man, when a man who is supposedly straight seems overly interested in what gay men do in bed, he may be having sexual identity issues of his own. If there's any possibility at all that Dharun Ravi himself is gay, having been born in India and raised in an Indian family, he would have had little if any opportunity to explore or experiment with his own sexual orientation, Instead, he chose to do it vicariously through Tyler Clementi with deadly consequences. I would love to see how Dharun's life plays out over the next five years or so. My guess is he's gay himself but he obviously has some soul searching and processing to do before he'll feel comfortable about coming out of his own closet. A line from Shakespeare is appropriate to describe Dharun........"Me thinks thou doest protesteth too much." Thoughts??

    1. Re:What About Dharun Ravi's Own Sexuality? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      At least that person has some moral component that struggles against that which is viewed as wrong. There is virtue in the struggle. There is no virtue in succumbing to that which one KNOWS is wrong.

    2. Re:What About Dharun Ravi's Own Sexuality? by neminem · · Score: 1

      There is, however, virtue in reexamining one's opinions on what one "KNOWS" "right" and "wrong" are.

  99. Re:I was surprised he was convicted on hate charge by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Because it wasn't just an immature college prank, and it was a crime. You asshole.

    Take out the suicide and it was still a goddamn crime. In fact, they did take out the suicide from consideration.

  100. Re:The worst part about this by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

    It's not the opinion that's being punished. It's the action of threatening the entire group.

    YES, this would be a bias crime if it somehow incited to intimidate straight white middle-class males. In fact, did you notice how the criminal is an Indian guy and the victim is a white guy?

    Honestly, he got 30 days for a pretty severe invasion of privacy against somebody he knew couldn't take it well (though he probably didn't expect him to commit suicide).

  101. Re:The worst part about this by Your.Master · · Score: 1

    If you kill a guy with 10 kids because he has 10 kids, and announced "this is what you get for having 10 kids!" and posted a youtube video of it on killeverybodywithmorethan9kids.com, then yeah, we'd go down that rabbit hole.

  102. Re:The worst part about this by steelfood · · Score: 1

    To put it plainly, this line of thought can only arrive at the conclusion that a group of people with a particular set of characteristics are more valuable than others.

    It makes sense why people constantly appeal to this idea of hate crime. Some people really do want to feel that they are more valuable than others. They want that validation. They want to someone to tell them that their existence is superior to the existence of people unlike them. There are many reasons why they'd want to feel this way, reasons which are largely unimportant. What is important is that this mentality has no place in a society founded on the principles of equality.

    There are actions that are correctly categorized as hate crimes. They usually victimize an entire group of people, as opposed to an individual who just so happens to be a member of some (regionally) deviant social group.

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  103. Re:I was surprised he was convicted on hate charge by bv728 · · Score: 1

    Most hate crime laws are based on racketeering charges - effectively a hate crime is one which targets one person as a means to target a larger group. Racketeering was used against criminals who attack one business to make others pay up protection money. When shooting someone who is gay/black/jewish/russian, because they're gay/black/jewish/russian, the message that gets communicated to the rest of the gay/black/jewish/russian community is 'You are not safe, we will kill you, unless you leave'. Generally speaking, most of the time, Hate Crime laws aren't applied, largely because you need to establish that the goal wasn't just to get the person, but because you wanted to have a chilling effect on people who are gay/black/jewish/russian as well. In the US, as well, hate crimes typically have to be Punishment Enhancing - that is, they can only attach to an existing crime, not on their own, and make the sentence worse.

  104. Re:The worst part about this by TangoMargarine · · Score: 1

    GOTO 40070563

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  105. Re:I was surprised he was convicted on hate charge by dkleinsc · · Score: 1

    If you assault someone because you hate gays/minorities/etc, why is that worse than assaulting someone because you hate them individually?

    Because the point of it is not just to hurt some particular person, but to attack a whole group of people, usually with the message that this kind of person is not a legitimate American but somebody who should be expelled by force or made into a second-class citizen. It is a low-scale of terrorism, trying to induce fear in the target group to bring about political change.

    An example of why hate crime laws were created: It was once common, particularly in the South, for groups of white people to beat up and/or kill black men, just for fun. The point wasn't to hurt one guy, it was to scare the bejeesus out of every black person in town so that they'd "stay in their place" or stay out of town entirely.

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  106. Re:I was surprised he was convicted on hate charge by artor3 · · Score: 3, Informative

    Maybe the person was really lynching the guy wearing flip flops, who just happened to be black!

    That's a pretty lame example, but sure, in some fantasy world in which people lynch people for wearing flip flops, then yes, that would be a hate crime. No one should have to live in fear of wearing certain footwear. If someone grabs you in the parking lot and starts stomping the shit out of you while screaming about your bad fashion sense, that person is committing a hate crime.

    Should a completely secular serial killer be let off easy, simply because "hey, at least he/she didn't target a specific group"?

    They're not being let off easy, they're just not getting an additional penalty heaped on top. It's just like there's an extra penalty for using a handgun in the commission of a felony. If someone commits murder with a knife, you don't say they're getting off easy.

    Do the police not protect black people? Do the courts refuse to take on cases against black people?

    They do, and hate crime laws are a part of that protection. And guess what, hate crime laws protect white, straight men as well! You'd never know it, getting your world view exclusively from Rupert Murdoch, but people do get charged with hate crimes for targeting white people. I recall a case around Seattle a few years back where some guy got beat up, burned with cigarettes, and left in an alley by a couple of black guys who were calling him a cracker and all that. They got charged with a hate crime. So drop the "white men are the most victimized group" crap. Rush just says all that to stroke your ego.

  107. Re:I was surprised he was convicted on hate charge by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

    Hate crimes differ from crimes against individuals because the intent of the crime is to communicate hatred of and invoke fear in a community of people. You might say that a hate crime is a form of speech, and the punishment imposed is for using a form of expression that the majority oppose.

  108. Re:I was surprised he was convicted on hate charge by Fwipp · · Score: 1

    Which is exactly why bias crime laws require that the prosecution show intent. And yes, police and courts historically did a much much worse job of protecting racial minorities, and still do in many areas.

  109. Hate Crime ? by Taco+Cowboy · · Score: 0

    Seriously....we now are putting in laws that make murder worse if a white guy kills a black guy because he's black. It is much worse that if he killed another white guy for any other reason. WFT? A death is a death....? At least...it used to be?

    They are called hate crimes, and there is a very clear reason why they should give extra punishment.

    Since we are talking about HATE CRIME, how can you say that when a White kills a Black, it's HATE CRIME when the reverse happen - when a Black kills a White, it's ***NOT*** considered as HATE CRIME ?

    How do you know that when that Black killed that White, that Black guy did NOT do it because of HATRED ???

    Case in point - 2 students from China were brutally murdered by two Blacks in California

    Does that qualify as a HATE CRIME ?

    If you say it's not a HATE CRIME, is it because the killers are Blacks ?

    If that's the case, then the society might as well award the Blacks with special rights so that they can kill _anyone_ they wish, _anywhere_, _any time_ !!!

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    1. Re:Hate Crime ? by dryeo · · Score: 1

      It should be about motivation. If someone announces that they're going out to beat the shit out of a nigger, a honkie, a chink, a queer and maybe even a lawyer. Then beats a random whichever to death after seeking them out, it's a hate crime because the motivation is hate.
      There was a case around here not long ago where a known homophobe went and hung around a gay bar until someone tried to pick him up. Then he beat the guy to death. It was ruled a hate crime because the guy went out of his way to find a queer to seriously harm.

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    2. Re:Hate Crime ? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

      That's bullshit right there. You're begging the question. Yes, if a black man kills a white man due to the color of the white man's skin, that would be a hate crime. Such crimes tend not to be very common, but they do happen and when the evidence is there they get prosecuted as such.

      But, then again, why let the truth get in the way of your obvious racism.

    3. Re:Hate Crime ? by Taco+Cowboy · · Score: 1

      But, then again, why let the truth get in the way of your obvious racism.

      So, are you saying that those two Black guys in California who killed the 2 students from China are no racist, just because they happen to be Blacks?

      Wooohooo !!

      What if it was two students from China killing two Black guys in California?

      Was the crime caused by racism?

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    4. Re:Hate Crime ? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Except hate isn't illegal. The crime therein would still be premeditated murder and there are already laws and punishments in place to handle that.

    5. Re:Hate Crime ? by iphinome · · Score: 1

      Except it is more than that. Murdering someone based on the color of their skin or perceived membership in some other group you simply don't like takes it beyond murder and into terrorism. You're sending a message that some people will not be allowed their place in society and you'll kill to make sure of it. The result of the crime extends to otherwise unaffiliated strangers.

    6. Re:Hate Crime ? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Terrorism? Come now, that's just ridiculous. Any crime could be said to be done out of hate of a group of individuals. The guy who kills his wife's secret lover could be said to be perpetuating hate against adulterers or the guy who steals from 7-11 could be said to be perpetuating hate against all of 7-11.

      We are free to hate anyone or any group that we wish to hate. It has no place in the judgment of a crime.

    7. Re:Hate Crime ? by cayenne8 · · Score: 1

      Except it is more than that. Murdering someone based on the color of their skin or perceived membership in some other group you simply don't like takes it beyond murder and into terrorism.Except it is more than that. Murdering someone based on the color of their skin or perceived membership in some other group you simply don't like takes it beyond murder and into terrorism.

      Maybe this would hold water back in the old days, or like the KKK when they'd ride on horseback and lynch someone.

      That simply isn't a fear in today's society. There is too much uproar and group knowledge these days for intimidation tactics to work...no one is going to move out of town due to this...so, no, it isn't terrorism.

      What it does do...is lessen the crime for people not belonging to a minority....it makes these very same crimes on them less important.

      What happened to equal justice for all under the law?

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    8. Re:Hate Crime ? by Cederic · · Score: 1

      So, are you saying that those two Black guys in California who killed the 2 students from China are no racist, just because they happen to be Blacks?

      I'm confused. Are you saying that the two killers are racist, because they are black?

      It's not possible that they killed the Chinese students because they wanted the electronic gear, because they were 'on their patch', because they were high on drugs, because they're just stupid fuckwits or some other reason entirely unrelated to race?

      If a white person kills a black person, I don't assume it's due to race, so why change that assumption when the killer's black?

  110. Re:I was surprised he was convicted on hate charge by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Too right! They should be recognising your negative reaction for what it is and embrace your differences accordingly!

  111. Re:I was surprised he was convicted on hate charge by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    You had me going for a second on the taking of a life distinction, however, that is not a valid analogy. You're listing speaks to the pure intent - manslaughter, etc. While a hate crime intends to establish the "why" behind the intent. Very different.

  112. Re:I was surprised he was convicted on hate charge by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    I'd make some remark about how I feel about the appropriateness of the sentence, but I don't know squat about anyone involved here. I'll presume that the judge, who was much better informed than I, knew what he was doing.

    Are you new here?

  113. Whereever I [He] May Roam by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    A death sentence or life in prison would have been a 'mercy' rather than letting him walk.

    So in this case the Judge rendered the harshest sentence possible ... life ... on the streets.

    If the crime had been judged a Felony, then he would have been deported to India ... and able to enjoy ... anonymity ... though jobless and careerless.

    Now, he has gained [enjoys in a reverse clause] the slaughter of the common populas whereever He may roam.

    Death would be welcome rather than this!

    He is now 'Outcast' just as the outcast-class in India from which he and his family were disperate to escape, yet are now by 'cruel fate' bond to until they all ... are dead.

    And yet ... it WAS his action ... his DECISION ... to do this ... against another ... for ... for WHAT [?] ... FUN.

    His life ... his mother's life ... those of his family ... now on ... will be anything but ... FUN !

    Y(

  114. Re:I was surprised he was convicted on hate charge by jackbird · · Score: 1

    You're getting hung up on the word "hate." Hate crime laws are about Domestic Terrorism, groups within society using violence to keep other groups in check.

  115. Re:The worst part about this by Mabhatter · · Score: 1

    What's that comment? "don't get caught with a DEAD girl or a LIVE boy..."

    A married businessman that bangs his way through hookers on sales trips gets hi-fives. Single guy hooks up with another man out of town and risks his job. The only enforce "sodomy" laws when a BOY is on the dick, not a girl and the laws were written that way on purpose.

    When they codified punishing "gay" into law they opens this up. Now gays want PROTECTION codified into the law... The State ALREADY got involved... There's no going BACK to "in the closet".

  116. Re:I was surprised he was convicted on hate charge by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    You seem to have trouble interpreting the GP's rather simple point. Hate crime legislation dictates that the severity of a crime depends on the race of its victim. Therefore, it promulgates the idea that people should be treated differently based on their race. That may not be all that it does, but it's pretty obvious that it's not compatible with an ideal, racism-free world.

    It seems that you acknowledge this, to an extent, by saying that maybe some day we won't need those laws anymore. I'm dubious as to whether we need them now. Which is worse: the racism inherent in hate crime legislation, or the racism they combat? There might be one answer for today, and another for the situation a few decades ago when they were introduced.

  117. Re:The worst part about this by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    In any case, it's an invasion of privacy. If you do it with intent to blackmail a subset of the participants, that's not blackmail yet - blackmail is the part where you contact them and ask them to pay up. If you do it with intent to out them as gay, taking the video is still only invasion of privacy. Posting it online, though, may be a hate crime.

  118. Re:I was surprised he was convicted on hate charge by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    And I suppose that when women are raped it's their fault for being desirable as well. The only men that are uncomfortable with those things are themselves bigots and abstaining from them is just going to make things worse.

    In your case, I doubt very much you're in a position to judge as you yourself seem to take part in the all too popular game of blame the victim. As long as apologist trash like yourself rationalizes it and justifies it there's going to be cover for those with even more extreme views.

  119. Re:The worst part about this by silverspell · · Score: 2

    A white gang and a black gang killing each other isn't a hate crime, but a white man killing blacks for being blacks or a black man killing whites for being white is.

    Really? What Earth do you live on?

    "A black Chicago-area teenager has been charged with a hate crime for allegedly beating a 19-year-old white youth during a robbery because he was angry about the killing of Trayvon Martin, the Chicago Tribune reports."

  120. Re:I was surprised he was convicted on hate charge by FrootLoops · · Score: 2

    (1) Don't over-generalize. Lots of gay guys are not effeminate. I imagine you haven't been aware of the orientation of a large fraction of the gay guys you've met because they're just regular masculine guys. If we met in real life, you wouldn't know I'm gay unless I told you, and I could very easily convince you I was straight with only a couple of lies and no changes to my behavior. (Eg. [Chatting about the most recent Transformers movie] "Oh, they changed hot chicks! Megan Fox was so much better than this new girl." [If specifics are required, she has nice boobs, really round and perky; there's almost no chance that's false. If I need to act as if I desire her, just think of a guy and describe a girl. Easy.])

    (2) Gay guys act feminine for actual reasons, some of which are even good. It helps gay guys spot each other in a straight-dominated world; it's a sign of rebellion against the straight society that has somehow injured many of us; it's a somewhat arbitrary way to differentiate gay subculture from other subcultures (think black people and tightly braided hair); and some gay guys really are just plain feminine.

    (3) What "negative responses in straight males" are you talking about? Some vague uneasiness is fine if you keep it to yourself, and I tolerate that sometimes (eg. with my brother), but something more serious like not wanting to work with someone just because they're an effeminate gay man is not okay. If you can justify that, you can justify more serious things like denying effeminate gay men jobs just because they're effeminate and gay. Just judge the guy on his job performance/friendship/substance and everything will work out. (Conversely he should of course not hide behind being gay and effeminate if his substance is poor.)

    (4) 'Homophobia' really is over-used, but your poorly described fallacy can't be ad baculum since it doesn't appeal to force or punishment in any way. Most people don't literally mean the fear of homosexuals, as far as I can tell. They usually mean some sort of unfair bias against homosexuals that may or may not include fear. In that sense it's much less over-used (but still over-used).

  121. not the same by KingAlanI · · Score: 1

    that would be a case of choosing one form of imminent death over another

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  122. slashdot pedantry by KingAlanI · · Score: 1

    if anti-homosexual behavior comes from something besides fear, it doesn't make sense to nitpick about the term 'homophobia'

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  123. Re:I was surprised he was convicted on hate charge by adolf · · Score: 2

    That implies organization, which is something that a lot of "hate crimes" seem to lack.

  124. Re:I was surprised he was convicted on hate charge by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    I dangerous presumption. Judges are affected by public and media sentiment, and in this case I imagine the politically correct frenzy would have been hard to ignore.

  125. Re:I was surprised he was convicted on hate charge by Shihar · · Score: 2

    Hate crimes make a lot of sense. It modifies an existing crime. Why the modification? The reason is because you did extra harm to other people. If I beat a relative, for the most part, it doesn't effect the people besides the victim and the person who knew the victim. It might make my neighbor uneasy if he knows about it, but it probably doesn't go much further than that. For a normal crime, I get the normal punishment.

    Now, lets say I go beat the shit out of someone in my neighborhood who is black because I hate black people. I victimized the victim and effect his friends and family, as in a normal crime. However, I also just scared the shit out of everyone in the community who is black because they now are worried that there are psychopaths targeting them specifically because they are black.

    Motivation matters in law. Killing someone on accident while driving recklessly, is different from killing someone due to road rage, is different for waiting for someone at a specific time to leave work so I can run them down. It makes sense and we do it all the time. Hate crimes are no different. We modify the sentence because your motives were different. Hurting someone with the intent to terrorize them is a different motivation from hurting someone with the intent to terrorize an entire group of people and sow distrust and fear in the community.

    Finally, it should be pointed out that hate crimes don't "treat people differently". If a gay guy is beating up straight kids because he hates straight people, they too could be charged with hate crimes. Hate crimes just pick out classifications, they don't specify that it needs to be a minority. It just so happens that most of the time nasty hate groups beating the shit out of people tend to be straight white dudes, hence they eat the majority of hate crime charges

  126. Re:Did anyone force you to be a gay ? by TuringTest · · Score: 1

    Answer this: does genetic predisposition force one to become left-handed?

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  127. Re:I was surprised he was convicted on hate charge by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    No, it doesn't. It implies that there are multiple people that terrorize minority groups, the organization has nothing to do with it. With sexual orientation there hasn't needed to be any particular organization to it as a half dozen or so such lynchings are enough to do the job.

    Or, how about the Oklahoma City bombing? IIRC that was basically just two people on their own that did that. No organization, just two people. When Mathew Shepard was beaten and left for dead, that didn't require an organization either, just a small number of people with weapons.

    Being aware that others feel that way and believing it to be common is more than enough organization even if there isn't any.

  128. Re:I was surprised he was convicted on hate charge by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    "Hate crime" is a nice way of saying "terrorism." A crime against a member of a group solely for that membership is also a crime against the entire group. Basically, in addition to committing the one crime, the perpetrator is also saying 'the rest of you are next'.

  129. Re:I was surprised he was convicted on hate charge by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    That is laughable, you really think the feds gave a rats ass? They never wanted to bother with the murders of three civil rights workers in Mississippi back in 64'? Not laughing at you I understand the explanation as to how the hate laws (or why) they came about.
    But they did not care, the FBI refused to waste time on the 3 murders, and they sat back AND watched while more people were getting lynched, or just murdered. Prosecutors did not want to bother with these crimes as well, it was not until the country got angered over what was going on that they actually did anything, even then they allowed 20 times more hate crimes to continue.

    Sadly even the black communities did not want anything done, do to retaliation. That is also funny because they kept to themselves during that time and these idiot bigots decided to make them pay anyway.

  130. Re:I was surprised he was convicted on hate charge by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    I think more than half of all crimes are "hate crimes". You won't hurt or kill sb unless you have some very negative emotion towards them.

    In this case, it seems to me that this person was just very immature even for his young age and very stupid too. He probably thought this was a great joke. And I feel the sentence was too light. Stupidity should not be rewarded. But thats just my opinion.

  131. Re:I was surprised he was convicted on hate charge by byuu · · Score: 1

    Does a hate crime conviction even matter (eg does it mean anything, or have any teeth), when that in addition to *14* other counts gets you a whopping 30 days in jail? That's not going to serve as a deterrent to anyone.

  132. Re:I was surprised he was convicted on hate charge by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Such a statement would imply that you're a rapist just because you're a heterosexual male. Yeah, that would be a sexist remark. And so was her behaviour. It happened to me once, by someone with similar weird ideas about men and women, and I felt rather insulted by someone assuming that just because I'm male and in the same room, I'm a probable rapist.

    However, if said person has a background with extreme Christian groups like "The Family" (or certain Roman Catholic priests) then I can totally understand her: everyone around her *is* a probable rapist. But I'd still feel insulted.

    Well of course. Growing up her role models were busy raping choir boys, it would be quite normal for someone with a church background to mistrust men.

  133. Re:I was surprised he was convicted on hate charge by euroq · · Score: 5, Informative

    +1. "Hate crime" is a very media-tinged description of the law. The actual laws are not based on the "emotion" of hate at all - they are called "bias intimidation". They are meant to address the crimes that are meant to intimidate a large group of people through a smaller crime. The classic example is a burning cross in a yard - a crime which is similar to TP-ing (toilet papering) a person's yard in terms of property damage, but has implications and damage to a community well beyond the personal property damage of the victim.

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  134. Re:I was surprised he was convicted on hate charge by euroq · · Score: 1

    Why don't you tell us why assault based on gender/sexual orientation/race is not worse than regular old violence

    An assault on anyone is equally as bad. It is not worse than someone else. P.S. I am a gay dude.

    The law has always been neutral toward crime, but enforcement of the law was not.
    Minorities were being murdered, justice was not being done, and tension would build.

    Yeah, that sucks. That is also one of the reasons (which I agree for) that bias-intimidation laws exist. However...

    Maybe some day we won't need those laws, but America is still struggling with basic things like equality for all.

    America addressing the basic things like equality for all is no excuse for fucking with the law. The law should be blind and equal towards all. As a gay man starting a family, I am very aware of America's culture. But I'm telling you, I don't want "special" treatment, I want equal treatment, which means the law should apply equally to me and not especially to me. My goal is when there is NO mention of minorities in the law.

    Don't get me wrong, I'm sure you and I agree on the right stuff. But I disagree on the application you mention.

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  135. Re:I was surprised he was convicted on hate charge by euroq · · Score: 1

    Or how about IT WASN'T A CRIME AT ALL?

    What do you mean? It was a crime. Many of the things you do as "pranks" in college are crimes. Just because something is juvenile doesn't make it not a crime. I did tons of shit in college that were crimes and I was never convicted of anything - but that doesn't make them not crimes.

    Regardless of all the talk about hate crimes, the victim's mental health, and college pranks, what Ravi did was a crime and was never in doubt of not being a crime by anyone. The controversy is about the degree of punishment.

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  136. Re:I was surprised he was convicted on hate charge by euroq · · Score: 1

    What, like "hate crime" is some huge serious thing that is difficult to get charged with?

    There is actually a difficult bar for a crime to be a bias-intimidation crime.

    "Hate crime" and "hate crime laws" are just one of a million government excuses used to justify arresting people and selling them into slavery.

    Well, I disagree with where you're coming from. But I agree with where you're going. There should only be like 100 reasons to justify arresting people. The fact that there is a million excuses is a horrible existence for society, and we don't even know it - because even though we commit crimes every day, it's arbitrarily random on how we citizens are charged and convicted.

    BTW, remember that "government" is a synonym in democracies for "the most people that voted for something". If you don't like such mob rule, it's an argument for something other than a democracy. Not making an argument here - just sayin'. :)

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  137. Re:The worst part about this by euroq · · Score: 1

    A bias intimidation law is meant to address the problem of a burning cross in a yard - it is equivalent to TP-ing someone's yard in property law terms, but is horrendously more damaging.

    It is not, was not intended for, and should not, be a law against the thought and emotion of hate. In fact, bias intimidation crimes have a VERY high bar - although you would like to think so you fucking idiot, in fact it is rare that a bias intimidation conviction happens. For example, 70% of people in American jails are black convicts with black victims, and less than 1% of them arrived there from bias intimidation on black people.

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  138. Re:The worst part about this by euroq · · Score: 1

    First of all, "hate crime" is a made up word. The laws are actually called "bias intimidation" laws. They are meant to address the problem of burning a cross in a yard - a mere property crime the equivalent of TP-ing someone's house, but in fact have horribly worse consequences on people and society.

    A murder is a murder. A white person killing a black person (or a straight killing a gay) does not get a harsher sentence if they did the same damed thing.

    A person, any person, is guilty of a bias-intimidation crime if their crime was intended for a larger group of people. It's actually a simple concept that is completely misunderstood (and probably misused by prosecutors).

    If you TP a neighbor's house as a prank, you didn't intend to scare the whole neighborhood. You've committed a simple property crime. If you TP your black neighbor's house in a white neighborhood as a prank, you didn't intend to scare the whole neighborhood. You've committed a simple property crime. If you TP your black neighbor's house in a white neighborhood with the intent to scare the black people in the neighborhood, you have committed a simple property crime... but you've actually meant to intimidate other people with bias, with far reaching consequences on the neighborhood and society, hence the bias intimidation law.

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  139. Re:The worst part about this by euroq · · Score: 1

    I like your argument, but I think it was misplaced. All of the things you say are true. But you missed the point.

    What the OP was saying (or at least I'm going to argue :) is that there is a difference between a crime against a person and a crime which is intended against a large group of people. Theoretically it can be against a group of white people too.

    If you killed a guy, that sucks. If you killed a guy because you intended to intimidate a whole group of people, that both sucks and is bias intimidation against a group of people.

    For example, white guy 1 TP's a black neighbor's house. Guy 2 puts a burning cross in a black neighbor's house. Guy 1 was a prank; guy 2 was a chilling attack on the entire black people of the neighborhood. Guy 1 and guy 2's property damage are equal. However, the effect of guy 2's crime is waaaaaay worse. Hence, bias intimidation laws are meant to augment regular property laws. They are not meant to imply which neighbors are better than others - even if occasional prosecutors and media fuck that part up.
       

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  140. Re:The worst part about this by euroq · · Score: 1

    I already replied to you, but once again your argument is not sound.

    Yeah, the things you say are true. It is FUCKED UP what the federal government does in the situations you mentioned. However, the "theoretical" case of what the law is is that the government shouldn't just pick out certain people and fuck their lives in the expectation that it will scare other people is just plain wrong - bias intimidation laws aren't that, and the law shouldn't be like that.

    However, the logical argument in a blind, just world, is that the punishment for hurting one people is 1 XXX, and hurting two people is 2 XXX. Bias intimidation laws are quite logical laws which exist for the fact that certain laws only affect hurting 1 XXX, but the same crimes which hurt 100 XXX should be punished at least more than 1 XXX.

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  141. Re:The worst part about this by euroq · · Score: 1

    I'm with you 99%. But...

    If a person of one race kills someone of another race because he or she thinks that the victim, and others of the victim's race, are subhuman and don't deserve to exist, then it's a hate crime.

    You are incorrect, in most states, AFAIK.

    1. The term "hate crime" is a media term, the law term is "bias intimidation".
    2. The reason for bias intimidation laws are for when one commits a crime against someone/thing/people with the intention of harming many more. If you kill someone because you hate them, it's not actually a bias-intimidation law. It's only if you kill someone because you intend to intimidate people like them when it becomes a bias intimidation law. It's an important distinction in such cases where opponents falsely believe that the law makes minorities (blacks, gays, etc.) more "important" than others. 1. If you kill a gay dude and it had nothing to do with the fact that the dude was gay, it is not (supposed to be) a bias intimidation crime. 2. If you kill a gay dude because you hated this guy because he was gay, it is not (supposed to be) a bias intimidation crime. 3. If you kill a gay dude with the intent to scare/harm other gays, then it is.

    Now, the problem and debate stems from the fact that bias intimidation laws are incorrectly applied to #1 and #2. It seems like #2 is incorrectly believed by people is actually what "hate crimes" are supposed to be, and yes it is unfortunately applied by some prosecutors. P.S. I'm gay.

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  142. Re:The worst part about this by euroq · · Score: 1

    Hate crime legislation comes from the perspective that, while it's bad enough for a person to want to hurt or kill another, it's even worse when someone wants to hurt or kill another because of their race, religion, gender, sexual orientation, disability, etc.

    Close... it's not when someone wants to hurt/kill another because of such things, "bias intimidation" laws are supposed to be when someone wants to hurt/kill multiple people beyond the original crime. For example, burning cross is only in one victim(s) yards, but is mean to hurt/kill people in the neighborhood.

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  143. Re:Did anyone force you to be a gay ? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    I hope you're not gay cuz you're giving them a bad name.

    If you re-read what he said he never implied "it's okay cuz he was gay!11"

    He said, It doesn't matter if he was gay or hetero, the tape shouldn't have pushed anyone over the limit to commit suicide, that's not the videotapers fault.

    There are literally tens of THOUSANDS spycam videos out there of ppl having sex, with ur logic, heterosexual tapes arent equal to murder but secretly taping gay sex is equal to murder?

    Piss off dude, you're a worthless human being, heterosexual or gay.

  144. Re:I was surprised he was convicted on hate charge by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    "Why don't you tell us why assault based on gender/sexual orientation/race is not worse than regular old violence"

    because the effect on the victim is exactly the same. It's quite literally not worse.

  145. Re:I was surprised he was convicted on hate charge by tehcyder · · Score: 1

    Does anyone really think some dumb asshole bigot is going to think "there are hate crime laws I better not commit this crime"?

    By that logic you wouldn't have any criminal law at all, as people will always commit rape, murder, robbery and so on despite knowing the consequences.

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  146. Re:I was surprised he was convicted on hate charge by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Or its not a difficult legal bar to reach.

    A guy I went to high school with took his younger brother and some friends to a bar. Granted, they were underage (they younger brother and friends were still in highschool), but on the way home one of them yells stop, so the guys does. The younger brother and friend jump out of the vehicle and starting beating up a stranger. The guy I know gets out of the car to stop them, gets them back in the car, and calls police.

    If he had stayed in the car, he would not have been charged (he was only charged since he got out of the vehicle; it was on a bank's property so there's clear video evidence that he only got out to stop it). Since one of the younger borther's friends called the guy a fag, unfortunately a typical high school insult, even though the guy was not homosexual they were convincted under hate crime legislation.

    I'm not supporting what they did (although the guy I knew's actions seem reasonable so I'm not sure why he was charged; on a morale level I understand why he felt he should stop it and on a legal level I would be worried about liability if I didn't try to stop it), but everyone I know who is familiar with the case doesn't understand why hate crime legislation was used instead of just the assault charges.

  147. Re:I was surprised he was convicted on hate charge by tehcyder · · Score: 1

    That Clementi committed suicide is unfortunate, but hardly Ravi's fault.

    Of course it was his fucking fault. Whilst being gay obviously shouldn't be a cause of suicide, the fact remains that it is. I think the fucker should have been charged with murder.

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  148. Re:I was surprised he was convicted on hate charge by tehcyder · · Score: 1

    Which comment did he make that was homophobic? simply stating that your roommate is doing it with a another dude is plain fact. Is the truth homophobic?

    When you live in a homophobic society, it should be up to you whether to say you're gay or not.

    You might say that people should be proud of what they are and not deny the truth but consider this:

    In 1930s Germany telling the truth that someone was a Jew was not a morally neutral act.

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  149. Re:I was surprised he was convicted on hate charge by tehcyder · · Score: 1

    I don't see any fear here on ravi's part. so no, no homophobia.

    Homophobia is the general term used, because most people who actively hate gays are motivated by fear, generally the fear of expressing something buried deep in their own nature.

    If you think you simply hate gays because they're unnatural, go against the bible or whatever, you need to have a good think about your real motivations. And then go and suck a few cocks like you know you really want to.

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  150. Re:I was surprised he was convicted on hate charge by NJRoadfan · · Score: 1

    He was charged with "bias intimidation", NOT a "hate crime". The judge made the distinction between the two during the sentencing. I'm surprised the judge didn't throw the book at him in regards to the witness tampering and destruction of evidence charges after that lecture.

  151. Re:I was surprised he was convicted on hate charge by ai4px · · Score: 1

    Hate crimes serve to lessen the value of my life since I'm not a member of a minority. A human life is worth as much as any other human, except if that human is a member of a special group. Equal protection anyone?

  152. Re:I was surprised he was convicted on hate charge by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Hate crimes have a very real distinction. They're intended to intimidate a subset of your community, that's why they're elevated.

    We already have a term for this. It's called terrorism. No need to muddy the waters with this hate crime label.

  153. Peeping tom. by P-niiice · · Score: 1

    This guy was basically a peeping tom if you ignore the 'hate' aspects of it. Peeping Tom's get anything from a suspended sentance to a few months in jail (I was surprised to read that, I figured they got the full sex offender treatment). The more you know, I guess.

    I'd like to know what his home/social life was like to make him feel so ashamed of his sexual orientation. I have a feeling that may be more at fault.

  154. Rutger's? by BrunBoot13 · · Score: 0

    Who is Rutger, and why does he own a student? (samzenpus: back to school!)

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  155. Re:Did anyone force you to be a gay ? by nosferatu1001 · · Score: 1

    So you dont believe sexuality has a genetic basis?

    You're wrong, but would be interesting to have you claim something known to be complete bollocks.

  156. Funily enough by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    I heard a pre op transgender calling herself that way, and on jref.com one person reported something similar.

  157. Re:Did anyone force you to be a gay ? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    I'm sure pedophiles feel the same way, or do you honestly believe that they choose that orientation? You're only a bigot if you can't see the paralells in our arguments.

  158. News for Nerds? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    ... because why, he used a webcam? I come to Slashdot for niche news. This sort of mainstream news I can get from anywhere.

  159. Re:I was surprised he was convicted on hate charge by ClioCJS · · Score: 1

    Seeing as nobody was actually shown any video, and no video was recorded, he could have easily simply denied the allegations.

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  160. Re:I was surprised he was convicted on hate charge by shilly · · Score: 1

    I can assure you, as a Jew, I don't think hate crime is ridiculous. I think it's bloody terrifying. Hate crimes are worse than non-hate crimes because the ideology is capable of spreading so more of these crimes happen. The same is not true to anything like the same degree for non-hate crimes.

  161. Re:I was surprised he was convicted on hate charge by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Actually that sounds like the very literal definition of homophobic - he is scared that his room mate is going to rape him because he is gay...

    Getting over the obvious fault - assuming that homosexual people will jumpy anything of their preferred gender and not wait for consent - the guy is scared of being around homosexual people - or at least sleeping near them.

    It doesn't strictly meet the pop-culture definition which these days seems to mean bigoted, violent nutter. But it does meet the definition of the phobia.

  162. Light? by TheCarp · · Score: 1

    Man people sure are bloodthirsty. I have never considered a conviction on ones record terribly light, never mind time in jail. No time in lockup is a light sentance, its being subjected to humilation like an animal.

    what would more than 30 days really serve? What does any of it serve. His name is now nationally known, his guilt is recorded for anyone to look up and see.

    Are we really worried that hes going to do this again? Is the amount of time supposed to make some difference here other than just make him one more person in lockup?

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  163. Dahrun Ravi? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Is sounding like one dot-head to me.

  164. wow by LanMan04 · · Score: 1

    OK he did some other dude, didn't want people to know, despite the fact that most civilized people don't really care and in this modern era you don't have to care about the uncivilized people who do care

    Yeah, it's just that simple. *eye roll*

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  165. Re:I was surprised he was convicted on hate charge by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0
  166. Re:Did anyone force you to be a gay ? by operagost · · Score: 1

    Nobody chooses to be the target of frat-boys and jock-boys.

    There is plenty of purely voluntary behavior that can result in one being the target of bullies. It doesn't justify the actions of the bullies, but it doesn't justify the victim's inaction either.

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  167. Re:I was surprised he was convicted on hate charge by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Yeah, you'd think that an assault by a Non-Minority against a Non-Minority being treated differently than the same Non-Minority assault against a "Protected Class" would somehow be in conflict with the Equal Protection clause of the Constitution.

    But then that silly old constitution is over 200 years old. Our own Supreme Court justices don't recommend following it (Justice Bader Ginsberg talking to Egyptian press about a constitution).

  168. Re:I was surprised he was convicted on hate charge by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    None of which (murder degrees), has anything to do with what you "think" of the victim as a person. Killing someone in a vehicle accident is much different than stalking them and intentially killing them.

    Hate Crimes.... Silly me... I thought that's what intimidation and harassment charges were for.

  169. Re:I was surprised he was convicted on hate charge by TheoMurpse · · Score: 1

    Well, except for the sentence implying all homosexuals are rapists, that is...

  170. Re:The worst part about this by ClioCJS · · Score: 1

    So in essence, we do not receive equal protection from the law if our own race/demographic kills us. And we receive greater protection from the law if a different race/demographic kills us. No, sir, I don't like it.

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  171. Re:I was surprised he was convicted on hate charge by X0563511 · · Score: 1

    No. Not without context. As you have written it it's actually homophilic.

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  172. Re:I was surprised he was convicted on hate charge by X0563511 · · Score: 1

    Except that's not in the post I was replying to, at all. You read that in.

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  173. Re:I was surprised he was convicted on hate charge by TheoMurpse · · Score: 1

    When you click on "parent" at the bottom of your post, you get this:

    I believe there was some comment about him needing to watch out for his own butt while sleeping....

    You responded

    That's not homophobic in and of itself. Not without more context. (I hope you realize that)

    Can you explain to me, like I am five years old, where I was mistaken in my response?

    Thank you.

  174. Re:I was surprised he was convicted on hate charge by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Why is it that you need to PC "terrorism" into "bias intimidation"?

  175. Re:I was surprised he was convicted on hate charge by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Remember that he will face deportation back to Bang-the-desk or whatever crappy little bundle of sticks and mud worshiping stinking cesspool of a fifth world country he came from to join the rest of his dot-head motel keepers.

  176. I wonder... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    how much more time the guy would have got if he drove a straight roomate to kill himself instead of a gay one?

  177. What a joke by WOOFYGOOFY · · Score: 1
    Can the survivors sue for everything he'll ever earn ever ?

    INTENTIONAL INFLICTION OF EMOTIONAL DISTRESS

    The tort of intentional infliction of emotional distress has four elements: (1) the defendant must act intentionally or recklessly; (2) the defendant's conduct must be extreme and outrageous; and (3) the conduct must be the cause (4) of severe emotional distress.

    cited from: http://www.law.cornell.edu/wex/intentional_infliction_of_emotional_distress

  178. Forgot some by DeadCatX2 · · Score: 1

    You can invade someone's privacy, tamper with witnesses, destroy evidence, and only get a month in the slammer.

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  179. Re:I was surprised he was convicted on hate charge by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    If someone gets beat to shit because they are an asshole, I can avoid the same fate by not being an asshole.

    If someone gets beat to shit just because, I can avoid the same fate by not being. I'd say that's just as bad as your skin colour situation, with the added "bonus" that it affects everyone.

  180. Re:I was surprised he was convicted on hate charge by X0563511 · · Score: 1

    Sure. He's worried about being raped, not necessarily by someone who's gay. In other words, he doesn't trust his roommate. There's not enough given context to associate it to homophobia.

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  181. Re:I was surprised he was convicted on hate charge by StikyPad · · Score: 1

    By that logic, it's not a hate crime to assault anyone who's too timid, or "runs like a girl," or wears the "wrong" clothes, because they can change those things. It's the same message: Anyone who doesn't fit in is at risk of suffering the same fate. But should someone have to change who they are to avoid physical injury? Is that not also a hate crime even though the differences can't be easily categorized? I'd wager that many of us, especially on Slashdot, have been bullied (or worse) just for being different, and felt just as intimidated, even if we weren't gay, black, or female, as did others in our circle of friends, even if they weren't the direct subject of a particular incident.

    And yet, I still don't think treating an attack on [everyone in a protected group] should be treated differently. I understand that once upon a time, not so long ago, some states turned a blind eye toward violent acts, or threats of violence, against minorities. I understand that some localities may still, and I expect imperfections will linger in perpetuity. But if the problem is that a higher level of government hasn't codified a particular act as a crime, then codify it. Don't paint in broad strokes. Don't elevate one group (or groups) as more protected than another. Ted Kazinsky hated mainstream culture, certainly engaged in what could be defined as bias intimidation against mainstream society, and yet, no hate crime. It's an unjust law, and it's time for it to go.

  182. Re:I was surprised he was convicted on hate charge by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    How so?

  183. Re:The worst part about this by ffflala · · Score: 1

    Close... it's not when someone wants to hurt/kill another because of such things, "bias intimidation" laws are supposed to be when someone wants to hurt/kill multiple people beyond the original crime. For example, burning cross is only in one victim(s) yards, but is mean to hurt/kill people in the neighborhood.

    No, you're not correct. Have you ever read any of the actual hate crime legislation? There are multiple state laws, and overlapping federal ones. All provide for punitive enhancements for crimes in which the victim was selected "because of the actual or perceived race, color, religion, national origin, ethnicity, gender, disability, or sexual orientation of any person." None of them include your 'hurts multiple people' aspect as an actual part of the language. While it's probably accurate to say that such is one of the intentions behind the law, it's not the actual law.

  184. Re:I was surprised he was convicted on hate charge by epyT-R · · Score: 1

    not at all. many straight males find male gay behavior disconcerting to offensive. no, they are not gay. ironically, it makes the claim that being gay is not good by hurling it as an ad hominem at those who find gays' behavior/cues uncomfortable.

    This is not the same thing as closet case syndrome.

  185. Re:I was surprised he was convicted on hate charge by epyT-R · · Score: 1

    Not at all since rape is an assault, whereas I'm talking about distaste and discomfort. Not everyone is going to like you, no matter what you are or are not. That's life. Tolerance is multilateral. We should encourage youth to learn these lessons so they don't go to extremes in order to shield their lack of emotional control, whether as a target or as a bully. This would minimize the damage all around.

    these 'victim castes' we are building do not help the situation, and many individuals within them take advantage of it for their own benefit. I have no sympathy for those sorts, esp for the ones who then go out of their way to make others uncomfortable.

  186. Re:The worst part about this by euroq · · Score: 1

    I didn't say the wording of the law. You specifically wrote "Hate crime legislation comes from the perspective that, while it's bad enough for a person to want to hurt or kill another, it's even worse when someone wants to hurt or kill another because of their race, religion, gender, sexual orientation, disability, etc." and that is not the perspective. I specifically replied with supposed to be.

    In other words, nobody ever says it's worse to kill a black person than a white person. Maybe a small percentage do, but not those who write laws.

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  187. Re:I was surprised he was convicted on hate charge by epyT-R · · Score: 1

    1. The cues I'm talking about aren't exactly easy to hide.. If you're one of these, you're probably not as cloaked as you think.

    2. Ok, well if broadcasting like that is meant to be used as identification, then I see no problem with non-members of said group using the information to keep them away if desired. The issue I have is I'm being told by schooling/pop culture/law that I must like these people and want to be around them no matter what, and keep my internal responses private, while they can choose to discriminate against 'breeders' like me all they like, labeling them with 'homophobia' if they dare say something. While these situations are rare, it has happened to me in ultra-liberal organizations, and that proves, given the opportunity, gays can be just as 'hateful' as any other cross section. Btw, this 'not-really-reverse discrimination' applies to many axes, not just gay/straight.

    3. so, you want others to accept you with open arms and care about your feelings/quirks without justification, but you expect justification from others' quirks concerning you? Do you not see the hypocrisy here? Where do you think the bullying comes from? The systemic hatred of gays? It's got to be rooted deeper than simple social indoctrination. My anecdotal experience has several examples of gay males doing just that: accusing me (and others) of discrimination when their performance is critiqued. I have no respect for this, and these people deserve the negative feedback they get for hiding behind it. Judging based on relevant attributes is exactly what I want, as far as the law and institutional opportunities go, but none of the victim caste groups push for this. they push only for entitlements based on assumed defaults of repression.. that will NEVER build equitable systems.

    4. I meant appeal to fear, not force.. I used the wrong term. While it's true that most people don't literally mean appeal to fear when they use the word (they mean hatred), but that's because the word has been coopted by people who DO want both implications.. basically, it means dislike = fear and thus not justified no matter what. it's a character attack used on anyone who questions..

  188. Re:I was surprised he was convicted on hate charge by epyT-R · · Score: 1

    what are you even talking about? you're all over the map. what points are you trying to make?

  189. Re:The worst part about this by WOOFYGOOFY · · Score: 1

    Nice going in this thread.

  190. Re:I was surprised he was convicted on hate charge by shiftless · · Score: 1

    Invasion of privacy is not a crime

    You're right! It's not.

  191. Re:I was surprised he was convicted on hate charge by shiftless · · Score: 1

    What do you mean? It was a crime. Many of the things you do as "pranks" in college are crimes. Just because something is juvenile doesn't make it not a crime. I did tons of shit in college that were crimes and I was never convicted of anything - but that doesn't make them not crimes.

    Sure it is. Unless you're arguing that catching and punishing every single one of these juvenile "criminals" for their "crimes" would actually make the world a better place?

    Can you imagine a United States in which every single crime was immediately caught, tried, and punished? Everybody in the country would be in jail.

    Stop apologizing for the police state. Setting up a web cam in one's own dorm room is not and never should be a crime. Nobody is going to argue or arrest me into believing otherwise.

  192. Re:I was surprised he was convicted on hate charge by FrootLoops · · Score: 1

    (1) You're not in a position to question me on this point. I was in the closet for long enough to know what I'm talking about and to know what people think of my sexual orientation. I do not act effeminate--no girly hand gestures, word choice, voice, focus on fashion, excessive displays of emotion, .... A few months ago I remember meeting a friend of a friend briefly, and he simply assumed I was straight, in that he made a joke involving my hypothetical girlfriend (I corrected it to "boyfriend" and the conversation moved on). I have several similar anecdotes. People who knew me when I was in the closet assumed I was straight or asexual with two exceptions. One was a math person who didn't want to assume I was interested in her or women in general though who was unsure enough to express her interest in me, and the other was the most perceptive person I've ever known. To my knowledge, and I've made a point of tracking this, nobody has ever just assumed I was gay. Hah, I just remembered a gay guy who thought I was straight when I was in the closet.

    (2) I dislike the term "breeder" (except as a joke). You don't have to like gay men no matter what; that's just preposterous. Hell, I find some particularly effeminate gay men annoying (by the way, I like masculine men), since it seems like they want everything they say and do to announce as loudly as possible "I AM GAY", as if we didn't get the message the first twenty times, which is just stupid. In general you should have good reasons for disliking a person, and they you. "I don't like effeminate gay men" is just as bad as "I don't like black people" unless you have a good reason for the former statement (note my justification for my annoyance above).

    (3) No, I don't want others to accept me with open arms and care about my feelings/quirks without justification. I want them to care as little that I'm gay as I care that they're straight. Societal apathy towards homosexuality is what I want. You call my gayness a "quirk"; to me, it's like having brown hair. I don't have to accept other people's brown hair--there's just no need. I don't see any hypocrisy in my view. By the way, I don't have a solid opinion on hate crime laws. I see them in a similar light to affirmative action--maybe useful for a while, but maybe harmful in the long run.

    (4) I'm curious, do you dislike gay people in general? Do you dislike effeminate gay men? If so, why? I agree that many people use "homophobe" the way you describe, but also try to remember that most people who support gay rights are not gay (which is a simple consequence of the tiny fraction of gay people), so most people who misuse "homophobe" in that way are not gay. In your particular case maybe you've just met some annoying gay guys, but listening to you, maybe you're the problem in those interactions. It depends on the "why" above.

  193. Re:The worst part about this by ffflala · · Score: 1

    I'll ask again. Have you actually read any of the specific laws -- that is text of any actual hate crime legislation? Or since you bring it up, have you read any of the actual legislative history of any federal or state hate crime laws? From your comments so far, it does not seem like you have.

  194. Re:I was surprised he was convicted on hate charge by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    She would not sleep in the same room because I might "try something"

    Next time try mentioning that you frequent /.

  195. Re:Did anyone force you to be a gay ? by uninformedLuddite · · Score: 1

    Did anyone force him to be gay? YES. It's a genetic predisposition.

    If you are going to claim it is a genetic disposition provide some evidence as they haven't seemed to have found it mapping the human genome. Even some well known gay activists seem to be getting off the born gay gravy train as the position is only tenable if you are a moron.
    If someone commits suicide I couldn't give a flying fuck. Is it because a webcam was used that this story got through /. moderation? I suspect it has more to do with the agendas of the submitter and the moderators.
    I don't come here to read about some weak pathetic gay guy killing himself because this is Slashdot - News for nerds and not Rainbow brigade - News for Gaybos.

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  196. What are you saying? by uninformedLuddite · · Score: 1

    Are you trying to claim that black men are having sex with white women? OMG when will it all stop. Think I will have to kill myself.

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  197. Re:Did anyone force you to be a gay ? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    I appreciate how you stand up for the dignity of gays everywhere. Just keep in mind that I also expect you to deliver the same courtesy to zoophiles and pedophiles - because they, also, did not choose their sexuality. While pedophiles and zoophiles are different from homosexuals in that they must pledge and commit to abstain from their desires, this makes them no less of a person that requires dignity and respect from others.

    You defend gays, but the next rung on the ladder are those I described above. Believe me, the next sexual revolution is coming. It wasn't long ago that homosexuality was listed in the DSM-IV as a mental illness, and they won't be the last ones to be stricken from that manual.

    (Imagine it was you that was only attracted to little boys. It's not your fault. If you have never transgressed with a little boy (well, maybe when you were a little boy yourself would be ok), then your will to resist your sexual impulses should be applauded, and even honored, as one of those silent, perpetual battles that rage beneath the surface of society.)

    Yes, I'm biased.

  198. Re:I was surprised he was convicted on hate charge by euroq · · Score: 2

    OK you've taken what I said and changed it to something else - the police state. I totally agree that our country's police state is awful. No, I don't think the world is a better place for such ideas.

    That being said, I disagree, as most people do, that using a webcam to spy on someone, and broadcast it publicly, should not be a crime. Something that does no harm to others should not be a crime, and whatever the fuck one does in the privacy of their own home/dorm is their own business. That's not what happened in this case. Someone invaded the privacy of someone else's home/dorm (even though they shared it), and broadcast what they were doing in the privacy of their home/dorm to the internet with the intent to invade someone else's privacy. This is not a case of you setting up a webcam in your own home/dorm. You do not, and should not, have the right to do whatever the hell you want to your roommate, just because you also share the home/dorm.

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  199. Re:The worst part about this by euroq · · Score: 1

    And I'll repeat again. This is what you wrote:

    Hate crime legislation comes from the perspective that, while it's bad enough for a person to want to hurt or kill another, it's even worse when someone wants to hurt or kill another because of their race, religion, gender, sexual orientation, disability, etc.

    You did not comment on the law, you commented on the perspective that bias intimidation laws are actually meant to be laws that make some people more important than others. And I told you, correctly, that such a perspective is flat out wrong. The intent of the laws, regardless of what actually happens via their application, is to enable a punishment of people who want to intimidate and hurt minorities.

    FYI, I understand why you or others would come to the conclusion that hate crime laws are unjust. It can seem like it does make it worse to kill a black person than it is a white person. Perhaps a regular mugging of a person who turned out later to be gay can be punished worse, by luck of the draw, that they were gay even though the mugger didn't know it. What I am telling you is not that the actual specific laws cannot let this injustice happen - they unfortunately can - what I am telling you is that it's not the reason such laws were created. And you explicitly implied that it was the reason/perspective that the laws were created.

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  200. Re:I was surprised he was convicted on hate charge by robsku · · Score: 1

    And like all other acceptable pieces of legislation, has been distorted to be what law enforcement/the prosecution wants it to mean at any particular time.

    This was clearly not a hate crime. The target was an individual firstly. And the offence would be no different an offence if the guest had been an older man, an older woman, or some young woman in the same school (though the ultimate result may have differed). That Clementi committed suicide is unfortunate, but hardly Ravi's fault.

    Hardly Ravi's fault!? Give me a break, fscker...

    Signed, bi-sexual and victim of school teasing / bullies

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  201. Re:I was surprised he was convicted on hate charge by robsku · · Score: 1

    You were a school bully, weren't you? Well, it's your kind who ruined large part of my youth - thank <deity /> I was *strong*, because not everyone survives through this. Everyone knows bullying is wrong, but nothing is done to stop it - really, most of the time it's treated just like you did there, with light talk about college "pranks", only most people realize that something is not funny when someone makes a suicide unlike you, but they still mostly fail to realize that bullying is a serious crime that often has long lasting, even permanent negative effects on victims life.

    So don't give me this crap, jock boy - because I believe that bullying should be treated with severe punishments, not laughed off and labeled under "college pranks".

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  202. Re:I was surprised he was convicted on hate charge by robsku · · Score: 1

    That's not homophobic in and of itself. Not without more context. (I hope you realize that)

    If that's not homophobic, then what is? That my friend is pretty much a school book example for homophobic, and I fail to understand how you could possibly not see that.

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  203. Re:The worst part about this by ffflala · · Score: 1

    Yes you're talking about legislative intent, and I happen to research federal and state legislative intent professionally. There are any number of documents that can be used to determine legislative intent: congressional records, hearings, etc. The history on these laws dates back to the 1960s, at least.

    Since you've avoided an easy, direct question twice now, it seems clear that you haven't even read of the actual hate crime legislation and just aren't comfortable copping to this.

    So from what writings, exactly, did you arrive at your opinion as to the legislative intent here? Because it also seems like you haven't read any of the material pertaining to the legislative intent, either. So if you haven't read the law, and if you haven't read the legislative history that indicates legislative intent... well it leaves me puzzled as to why you would claim to know what the legislative intent is, here.

    I'll be happy if you can show me otherwise, but I simply don't think your opinion on this matter is an informed one.

  204. Re:I was surprised he was convicted on hate charge by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Hate crimes have a very real distinction. They're intended to intimidate a subset of your community, that's why they're elevated. ....

    Well Said....

  205. Re:I was surprised he was convicted on hate charge by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Completely agree, however now, it's time for those laws to go off of the books. Those laws do more to segregate than integrate at this point. Per the justices that helped push civil rights along. They didn't agree with them, but they felt at that time they were needed. Not anymore so much now...

  206. Re:The worst part about this by euroq · · Score: 1

    So you're telling me you research legislative intent for a living? And when you wrote your original statement, you were blatantly stating that the legislative intent was to make gays and blacks more important than whites? Then when I disagreed that such was the legislative intent, your response is that you directly asked me about something other than legislative intent? I never was talking about anything other than legislative intent.

    I simply don't believe you. If you really do such a thing professionally, then you wouldn't have come to the conclusion that the legislative intent of bias intimidation laws were to make blacks and gays more important than others.

    Since you've avoided an easy, direct question twice now

    I have never once been talking about anything other than legislative intent - to do so would be falling into your strawman argument.

    I'll be happy if you can show me otherwise, but I simply don't think your opinion on this matter is an informed one.

    Ha - you're the one who does it professionally and came to the conclusion that the legislative intent of bias intimidation laws are that hurting blacks and gays is worse than hurting other people. It isn't - it is meant to be a punishment for intending to cause fear/intimidation/psychological harm/etc to a group of people. Typical example is a burning cross in a yard is simple property damage, but the intimidation to the neighborhood didn't have a crime against it. So bias intimidation laws are a response to that. Just because there are contrary and unjust examples to the laws application doesn't change its intent.

    Oh, and you didn't show any evidence to your statements, either. I did some work for the HRC (gay mafia as you'd probably call it) which is why I'm so informed on this stuff.

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  207. if u are gonna f-someone by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Wouldnt you want the entire world to know if you are having sex with someone? i mean, if not.. why bother? hm, maybe cuz its like shooting needles with junkies having casual sex with strangers.. that could be it.. i dunno.

  208. Re:Did anyone force you to be a gay ? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    You believe that gay DNA stuff? Why would anyone bet on a horse that's bound to loose by the odds? DNA? One of the original scientists of DNA says black people are not as smart as white people, is that true too? or do you and the modern science religion only choose to believe whats convenient?

  209. Re:The worst part about this by ffflala · · Score: 1

    And when you wrote your original statement, you were blatantly stating that the legislative intent was to make gays and blacks more important than whites?

    That's the grandparents poster's statement, not mine. My first response in this thread was to disagree with what you're paraphrasing, in fact. (Go ahead, check.) Either that, or you're just finding it easier to take issue with something you've simply made up whole cloth.

    I'm guessing you're personally upset at at being called out on not having read *any* of the actual legal sources. You haven't said otherwise, and your position indicates this as well. You seem insulted that I've dared pointed out that you haven't read squat on a subject you tried to "correct" me on. If it is actually true that you haven't read any legislative material on it... do try to get over it, please.

    As for the rest of your comment, I think the obvious piece you're failing to understand is that the legislative intent of any given law is intimately tied to the actual text of said enacted law. While there is a lot of non-legislative commentary on the community effects of hate crime, such as that from the ADL, you'll note that the term "legislative intent" of course requires a legislature.The ADL and other such secondary commentators are not legislatures... so whatever their positions are, they are not indicative of "legislative intent."

    Your position would be analogous to claiming that the primary legislative intent for, say, criminal laws against stabbing someone with a knife, is to keep the community at large from becoming too uneasy. Well no, that's not *the* or even a main point, but anti-stabbing laws do have that effect as well.

    While it's accurate to note that community effect is a beneficial side effect of hate crime law, the actual legislative work has focused on the prohibition of crimes (crimes against persons, not harm against communities) motivated by certain characteristics such as race, religion, sex, etc. Hate crime laws are usually amendments to or replace the more general civil rights acts that prohibit discrimination.The consistent legislative intent of hate crime law is to condone harmful bigotry, and enhance redress for such individuals who have been violently victimized because of such bigotry.

  210. Re:The worst part about this by euroq · · Score: 1

    And when you wrote your original statement, you were blatantly stating that the legislative intent was to make gays and blacks more important than whites?

    That's the grandparents poster's statement, not mine. My first response in this thread was to disagree with what you're paraphrasing, in fact. (Go ahead, check.) Either that, or you're just finding it easier to take issue with something you've simply made up whole cloth.

    Here is what you wrote: Hate crime legislation comes from the perspective that, while it's bad enough for a person to want to hurt or kill another, it's even worse when someone wants to hurt or kill another because of their race, religion, gender, sexual orientation, disability, etc. I am saying that is not the perspective it's coming from. It's coming from the perspective that prosecutors were unable to punish the effects of a burning cross placed in a yard above and beyond a property damage. I know some people at the HRC who actually work on what we're talking about - and I've never met a person who thinks the way you phrased that sentence. Nobody thinks it's worse to kill a black or gay than a white. It's not "even worse", it's just a separate crime to intimidate a minority, regardless of the original crime.

    And like I've said, I am under no illusion that my description of perspective is necessarily how the laws are enforced. Wiretapping laws were never intended to prevent citizens from recording public government officials (cops) carrying out their duties, yet years later here we are.

    I'm guessing you're personally upset at at being called out on not having read *any* of the actual legal sources. You haven't said otherwise, and your position indicates this as well. You seem insulted that I've dared pointed out that you haven't read squat on a subject you tried to "correct" me on. If it is actually true that you haven't read any legislative material on it... do try to get over it, please.

    Why do you think I'm personally upset? I'm not. This is a random /. conversation. Hugs?? I don't have provable evidence that I am informed. Anyways, I have read parts of some laws. And I worked with people who were not legislators but, I guess the right term were lobbyists (not the term they used).

    the legislative intent of any given law is intimately tied to the actual text of said enacted law.

    I was just using your term, legislative intent. You said that the legislation comes from the perspective that it's worse to kill blacks than whites. You keep getting back to the actual text of said laws and their enforcement, which I am in complete agreement do not have the expected results of the people who wanted it in the first place. This conversation is getting blown out of proportions.

    Your position would be analogous to claiming that the primary legislative intent for, say, criminal laws against stabbing someone with a knife, is to keep the community at large from becoming too uneasy.

    No, that is only analogous if the primary intent of a stabbing law is to keep the community at large from being uneasy. Obviously, it isn't. Bias intimidation laws were wanted by people because there were no existing or inadequately existing laws against it.

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    Anyways I don't hate you and I agree with what a lot of you're saying. I'm talking about perspectives here, which is an unprovable point. I have a lot of experience to defend such perspectives, namely working with the HRC. I am simply trying to disprove the mistaken line of thought that liberals and/or gays think that it's worse to kill a black or gay person than a white person.

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  211. Re:I was surprised he was convicted on hate charge by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Of course we tolerate it.

    Blacks commit 450,000 violent crimes per year on whites alone. They commit tens of thousands of violent bias crimes per year, yet these attacks are never prosecuted as hate crimes.

  212. Re:The worst part about this by ffflala · · Score: 1

    You said that the legislation comes from the perspective that it's worse to kill blacks than whites.... I am simply trying to disprove the mistaken line of thought that liberals and/or gays think that it's worse to kill a black or gay person than a white person.

    NO, I did not say this. Nor would I, because I do not agree with this. It's annoying that you continue to attribute this perspective to me, since I disagree with it. Someone else made that comment; I disagreed and responded to their statement. How can you possibly not understand this? Your disagreement on that point lies with someone else. Go find the person who actually believes that, and if you disagree, respond to them. You know, like I did in the first place.

    Hate crime legislation comes from the perspective that, while it's bad enough for a person to want to hurt or kill another, it's even worse when someone wants to hurt or kill another because of their race, religion, gender, sexual orientation, disability, etc.

    Do you really not understand what this means? It means it's a worse crime if the reason for it is because of bigotry against a victim's race, gender, etc.This means that it's "worse" for someone to kill someone because they're black AND it's just as equally "worse" to kill someone because they're white. It would also be a hate crime if a gay person killed a straight person because they hated straight people. The point of hate crime law is that the criminal is motivated by bigotry. This does not mean only bigotry against minorities counts, nor does anything I've said mean that either. Now please, stop with this "omg you said it means blacks and gays are more important!" No I didn't, because I'm well aware that hate crime legislation doesn't do that at all. Someone else said and apparently thinks that, but not me. So ffs, enough!

    I'm not sure if you're doing it intentionally to annoy me, or if you really just don't understand that you're confusing someone else's opinion with mine. But as long as you continue to repeat this demonstrably false attribution, continuing to respond to you will just be a waste of my time.

  213. Re:The worst part about this by euroq · · Score: 1

    OK! Not trying to piss you off. Glad you don't think that. We just got sidetracked. Have a nice day!

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  214. Re:The worst part about this by ffflala · · Score: 1

    Thanks, glad to hear I wasn't being trolled. Sorry if I got snippy, it all started with your initial, ah, 'correction'.

    Just to fully clear things up, while your gay mafia comment seemed to imply otherwise, you should know that I would commend you or anyone else for that matter who has worked with the HRC for their efforts. In an earlier job, I had a bit part that served as tangential support for In re: Marriage Cases, feel lucky to have had the chance to do such work, and proud to see the evolution of public perception on the issue, even in just the four years since.

  215. Re:I was surprised he was convicted on hate charge by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    South Park hits it on the nose. Again.

    Judge: "I am making an example of you to send a message out to people everywhere: that if you want to hurt another human being, you'd better make damn sure they're the same color as you are."

  216. History lessons by TiggertheMad · · Score: 1

    You are basically giving extra protection to some people - but not all. I'm not cool with that.

    If someone killed themselves because a straight sex tape were released, I would have the same reaction, but that is really never going to happen, because society doesn't have a problem with it. Yes, some people are getting extra protection, because they need it. Straight people don't need protection, because nobody is attacking them for it.

    You might have skipped out on your HS history, but back in the 1960s, the military was called out to protect black kids when integrated schooling was forced upon the south. You have a problem with that? Perhaps those black children would have been fine without armed soldiers to keep the screaming racists from attacking and perhaps lynching a few.

    It is regrettable that we as a society are not past the point where something like sexual orientation determines how someone is treated. But until we are, we need to protect those who would be marginalized and abused by sending a strong message to aggressors that this is not acceptable.

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    1. Re:History lessons by ClioCJS · · Score: 1
      I was unaware that straight people could post all the sex tapes they want without repercussion.

      By the wall, bullshit comparison. No sex tape was released in this case.

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    2. Re:History lessons by TiggertheMad · · Score: 1

      I was unaware that straight people could post all the sex tapes they want without repercussion.

      If you are a celebrity and you 'leak' a sex tape, you get a considerable amount of attention. If you are a nobody, you might get some funny looks at work. If you are gay, it is entirely possible that someone will try to beat you to death. There are repercussions in all cases, but they are hardly comparable.

      By the wall, bullshit comparison. No sex tape was released in this case.No rebuttal for the unequal protection

      You are arguing semantics. My point is just that there isn't an equality between sexual orientations, and that what isn't really a big deal for one group is a huge deal for another. If someone ran up and down the street yelling that I was hetrosexual, I wouldn't care in the least. If that same person when to a small, conservative rural town and 'outted' a gay teenager, they are going to freak out. Nobody cares about being 'outted' when they are straight. If I told people you slept with 5 girls last night, you would probably buy me a beer.

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    3. Re:History lessons by ClioCJS · · Score: 1

      Oh, all you'll get is funny looks? Really? You must not follow the news much. Teachers who were porn stars in former careers get fired from their tapes being found, even when it's 20 yrs ago. People get driven out of communities. My parents faced an angry mob because my dad threw away fucking playboys he found when they moved into their 1973 house. Literally an angry mob of neighbors. And this is 20 miles from the nation's capital. You are utterly full of shit that all anyone will get is a look. A 17 year old black kid gets a blowjob from a 15 year old classmate: He goes to jail and has to register as a sex offender. They're trying to make it illegal to film yourself without using a condom in California. The Obama Administration is still trying to throw people in jail for obscenity for publishing straight porn. Kids who take naked pictures of themselves are being labeled sex offenders. People still fight to stop strip clubs (let alone gay clubs). Straight sex only gets a few looks? bullshit.

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  217. Re:I was surprised he was convicted on hate charge by MadKeithV · · Score: 1

    It's also something that a lot of terrorists seem to lack.

  218. Re:I was surprised he was convicted on hate charge by ImaLamer · · Score: 1

    "Hardly" - It is not just hardly his fault. The action led directly to those consequences. You are telling me that shaming a man for sleeping with another man - and he kills himself - and that's not a hate crime - and it was hardly his fault? Are you on the defense team because I am getting that you are against all allegations against the man, for whatever reason. Seems to be either an incidental hate crime or one in which he was more negligent than aggravated... but I can't tell you if he meant to shame him for being gay or not. "Just kidding" doesn't cut it, he didn't know he was gay?

    At what point of setting up a camera and recording are you responsible for your actions - something has to be done, at least there was a trial.

    "Justice" - that word means whatever you want to make it mean. You can make justice an eye for an eye or even harsher if you say that is "justice" where ever you may be. Revenge and justice - who cares? The dead man isn't trying to take revenge. Given there is probation, counseling and other attachments to the short sentence, I'm okay with that. There is a potential there to land in prison for 3 years - or his life can be saved if he's not really dumb enough to do it again if he didn't actually mean to do it.

    Anytime someone dies it's hard to swallow 30 days + attachments is enough to even resemble justice when there is a chain of events where said person on trial is along the chain of events that led up to such a situation.