Uniquely Bright: Experiences and Tips?

Advice by SpaceCadetTrav · 2004-06-12 13:41 · Score: 5, Funny

Drop out and start an Internet company. I hear that's the way to go these days.

Re:Advice by tha_mink · 2004-06-12 13:51 · Score: 5, Insightful

The real thing you need to do is get over yourself. You're not special. There's lots of people in this world that are just as smart as you. Once you get over yourself, the world is your oyster. "unusually but non-traditionally 'bright' "...jesus...Kill me. Get over yourself.

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Re:Advice by ldspartan · 2004-06-12 14:24 · Score: 5, Insightful

Yes!

Not so much that exactly, but don't think you're a fucking genius because you're the smartest kid in your highschool. It takes a lot to be succesful, intelligence alone won't do it. I'm sure most of know (or are) plenty of very smart people who are not effective in the real world because they can't communicate effectively.

College is a totally different story, particularly if you're going to a good one. You'll meet people there who are intelligent, motivated, and personable.

Also, if "non-traditionally bright" is a cop-out for not working hard enough to fulfilly your potential, well, good fucking luck. If you find your undergraduate degree easy (as I have to a large extent), you probably should have gotten into a better college. If you're in one of the best colleges for your degree, you should probably be getting another degree. If all those things are true, get a graduate degree.

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Re:Advice by Zeinfeld · 2004-06-12 14:54 · Score: 4, Insightful

The real thing you need to do is get over yourself. You're not special. There's lots of people in this world that are just as smart as you. Once you get over yourself, the world is your oyster. "unusually but non-traditionally 'bright' "...jesus...Kill me. Get over yourself.
Smart is not always what succeeds. There are plenty of stupid people that get far. Take Dufus in the Whitehouse for example. Few people would claim that he is an original thinker or highly knowledgable. On the other hand there are people with blistering high IQs and degrees in Nuclear Physics who can't find a job better than part time computer class instructor.
Being intelligent does not count for very much, not unless you are actually prepared to do some work and learn something that is useful. Its like having the worlds fastest computer and no software.
The worst thing that can happen is if you get the idea that you are so smart you don't need to bother knowing anything. There are plenty of people like that in the world. And even if by luck or family connections you happen to get a great job, you are even worse off because that attitude usually leads to failure.
That said, there is plenty of stuff that schools teach that is entirely useless. I never saw the point of learning French, the effort required was vastly disproportionate to the benefit, and I have lived in the country for two years. But it is highly unlikely that you are 'differently smart' if you are getting straight Ds and Es in all your courses.
If you really are gifted you don't have to ask slashdot for career advice, you know what you are best at. I have always excelled at tasks that require analytical reasoning and interpretation of data. Subjects that require rote memorization have rarely interested me. I can write a pretty good history essay with access to reference materials, but remembering the date of the Tolpuddle Martyrs is utterly pointless as far as I am concerned.
If all you are good at is memorization then you are definitely having to do a lot of work to get anywhere.
You still have to do work if you are good at analysis, but it is more likely that it won't appear to be work. I tend to think I am pretty lazy, I use the fact that ideas seem to come to me effortlessly to avoid having to work as hard as I should. But most people arround me think I am a workaholic who never stops because I am always doing stuff - the stuff that does not appear to me to be work.
The brain is like any other muscle, you have to exercise it to keep it fit. I may not spend all my time thinking on work, but I spend almost all my time thinking about some problem.

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Re:Advice by Epistax · 2004-06-12 14:56 · Score: 5, Insightful

That's a little rude. Accurate, but a little rude.
Here's a more correct message:

There are people who by their upbringing (religion, social forces, parents) are predisposed in any of many ways that limits their own abilities significantly. You are not one of them. Anything you do, you will enjoy and will be good at. Note that I did not say great, I said good. Great takes work. So you have a few choices:
Do anything you want, enjoy it, and live off it.
Work very hard suffering mentally at first, and eventually have big payoffs (psychologically and likely financially).
Work very hard suffering mentally the whole way. Rewards come but you push them away because they just interfere with what's important.
Resign yourself to become just a mindless peon.

Most people are dead long before they've died. They might marry, have children, even occasionally read a book but they are acting on external stimuli alone and are, to be blunt, nothing more than walking sacks of chemicals doing everything they should do. They've lost the spark entirely.

I am just as guilty as the next person in causing my own undoing. I do take a little from the fact that I at least acknowledge it, and try to fight it. Who knows, even I may not end up useless after all.
Re:Advice by jarich · 2004-06-12 15:00 · Score: 5, Informative

Smart is not always what succeeds.
Exactly. Smart is important but discipline more so. If you can't finish something, you'll never succeed at anything. And this "stick-to-it-ness" is what you'll learn in college (if you can finish it).
Why did I have to take 3 semesters of calculus, then 2 semesters of calc based stats, etc? Was it because all computer science folks need to know how to calculate volume under a curve?
No. It is to teach you how to think, how to stick with something and to finish it.
If you are as smart as you think you are, add discipline and the world is your oyster.

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Re:Advice by cgenman · 2004-06-12 15:07 · Score: 5, Insightful

There's lots of people in this world that are just as smart as you.

The thing that separates intelligence and genius is a lot of disciplined, tiring, rigorous work. And by tiring, I mean staying at the lab for days straight while your roommate calls the cops thinking you have been nabbed. The trap I see many "unusually bright" people fall into is that because everything came easily to them in High School, they never learned to really work at things. But really working at things is how you get somewhere in life... really working at things is how you separate the unusually bright and kind of good from the unusually bright who dedicates their life in a sheer bloody minded pursuit. Simply being brighter and better than most of the people in your High School isn't even enough to avoid crappy jobs... a friend of mine memorized my set of Encyclopedia Britannicas in the span of two weeks, yet jumps from crappy retail job to crappy retail job because he just doesn't "enjoy" doing anything. In reality, he's not dedicated enough to get beyond crappy jobs and into something that he would like doing.

We all say that intelligence is the highest achievement, but that's not entirely true. Intelligence is distinct from knowledge, which is distinct from dedication. All three are necessary for success.

If you want my advice, do a trial by fire. Do something REALLY hard and unpleasant, like outward bound, the AIDS ride across Alaska, or spend a summer of thankless backbreaking toil on an Alaskan fishing boat. Ultimately, you will be glad you did.

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Re:Advice by kfg · 2004-06-12 15:08 · Score: 5, Interesting

My first bit of advice is to ignore nearly every response to your question, particularly the ones that contain the words "get over yourself." People here aren't necessarily very bright, but are often a bit full of themselves themselves, as you can see by the fact that most of them don't have the cognitive ability to comprehend your concerns or questions and simply think you're "putting on airs."

However, if you are rather bright you should realize that you just asked for a book length dissertation on the subject, which is entirely unreasonable for a forum of this sort.

Find yourself a home schooling support group in your area and through them an older person who's been through it and talk to them for few hours. You need an honest to God, flesh and bone mentor. You're in the wrong place.

KFG
Re:Advice by deranged+unix+nut · 2004-06-12 15:37 · Score: 5, Insightful

I came to two important realizations a couple years ago.

First, people who are intensely brilliant in one or more areas are usually intensely stupid in other areas.

Second, brilliance does not count for anything if you don't have the discipline to stick to the task.

You may be bright in computers and normally insightful in many technical areas, but that frequently means that you are stupid about human nature, politics, music, religion, or some other basic area. I have a co-worker who is brilliant with a debugger, but who is constantly afraid that he will be fired because he can't communicate well with his manager.

One of my friends in college had amazing intuition. He skipped 90% of the classes one semester and consistently got A's or B's on the exams. However, when he got a job, he stopped showing up for work for two weeks, was nearly fired, and pulled the same stunt again a month later and was fired. As for myself, I would be making 10% to 15% more right now, in my 4 year old post-college career, than I currently am if I would have had the discipline to work on what I was supposed to be doing rather than what I felt like doing.

Before you get the attitude that you are so smart, ask yourself who you are comparing yourself with. I grew up in Southern Idaho, in a town of 5000 people where I would guess that less than 1/20th of the population had a bachelors degree or better. Now I live in Seattle where most of the population has a college degree and I work for a company that employs more than twice the number of people in the county that I grew up in. In Idaho, I got the same comments that you claim to get, and in Seattle I am just one of thousands.

Life is in constant flux. Tomorrow, psychology may be the hot field and software may be the next "automotive industry", don't choose a field because of the pay.

Today, a college degree is frequently a prereq for consideration for any desirable job. I wouldn't skip college, mostly because of all of the extras that you learn. Life in the dorms or in a fraternity and make friends.

Don't forget about finding someone to spend your life with, at some point computers won't mean all that much and you will want to know how to talk to someone that you are attracted to.

If you are passionate about something and make it your job, make a point to develop a hobby or else you will burn out. Computers have been my obsession for 15+ years and software has been my carrer for the last 4 and now I play with my container garden and listen to music instead of sitting on the computer when I come home.

Aside from that, figure out what you want to do and go do it. Life is to short to be doing something you hate. ....Most of all, take all of this with $.02....it is your life, choose for yourself.
Re:Advice by webplummer · 2004-06-12 15:51 · Score: 2, Funny

There's nothing /.ers like more than talking about themselves. I'd say this is the perfect post for this forum . Close up shop and go home. We've reached the climax of this venture.
Re:Advice by SpootFinallyRegister · 2004-06-12 15:52 · Score: 2, Insightful

does that sound harsh? maybe, but it hits the nail on the head.

I used to feel the exact same way. Its probably why I dropped out of college and only recently went back and graduated (at 26). These are the kind of things I needed to realize before I could pull my head out my rear, get off my pedestal, and actually accomplish anything.

Yes, we are bright. But just because Einstein was disinterested too doesnt make us geniuses and wont make us successful. Even if it did, sitting around and contemplating how wonderfully non-traditionally we are is an excellent way to severly underachieve.

We are not non-traditional. In fact, I can't count the number of people who feel exactly the same way about themselves, yet I don't know anyone who is good at everything. Leonardo da Vinci was non-traditionally bright. Being good at math and average at philosophy does not make me a special unique snowflake, and certainly shouldnt excuse me from philosophy.

Just because something doesnt interest you doesnt mean you dont have to do it. Taxes dont interest me, reviewing co-workers bugfixes dont necessarily interest me, and figuring out a 401(k) doesnt interest me. Good luck not doing any of them. Life is full of boring, tedious crap you have to do, no matter how great and interesting a job, project, thesis, or whatever you stumble upon. Hopefully most of what you do is interesting, but it will never all be intetesting. Learn to get yourself through the boring stuff now -- it will always be there, and the more ingrained you get it in your head that youre above doing them, the more it will handicap you. Whether thats writing a history paper or endlessly bouncing around design documents in a large company, it happens.

Heres the most important part... really think about this and be honest with yourself. For those things that dont interest you, is it possible that you arent doing them simply because you arent good at them? that facing up to the fact they take you more time than other things (sometimes even *gasp* as long as it takes other people to do them) is too difficult, and its better to do poorly and blame it on disinterest? it will probably take you a few years to answer that one honestly. when you can, itll do wonders for you.

Talents are a gift, but you have to ascribe value to them yourself. People wouldnt think too highly of Thomas Edison if he was too lazy to apply himself and ended up shoveling manure out of a barn.

Things will change quickly when you go to school. Thinking you are the smartest, you are different, and that you should get special consideration is a crock of shit. Realizing that is a step you have to make to go from being gifted to being smart.

Watch out that you arent just finding a nice way to candy coat laziness.

Good luck.
Re:Advice by John+Jorsett · 2004-06-12 16:12 · Score: 2, Insightful

I never saw the point of learning French, the effort required was vastly disproportionate to the benefit, and I have lived in the country for two years.
Ah. I was wondering about the gratuitous Bush bashing in an otherwise on-point post. You may not speak French, but propinquity has given you some of their attitudes.
Re:Advice by the_ed_dawg · 2004-06-12 16:54 · Score: 5, Insightful

The real thing you need to do is get over yourself. You're not special. There's lots of people in this world that are just as smart as you.
I'm normally a very encouraging person, but I have to agree with the parent here. This leads into something my mother would always say, "There's a difference between being smart and wise." I know a guy who was a supposed genius. He entered college on a full scholarship despite getting a 2.0 GPA in high school. He was way to smart for his electrical engineering classes, so he never went and stayed up late doing stupid things like riding the glass elevator at the Hilton and strolling around Wal-Mart looking for blue lamps. In the end, he lost his scholarship after a single semester (failing to keep a 2.0) and joined the Air Force, where I have heard he became a real screw-up.
The first question everyone asked was, "He was so smart, so why didn't he succeed?" The answer is so obvious that few people were willing to see it. He wasn't wise enough to know that he wasn't as smart as he thought he was. The second reason is that very few people give a damn about how smart you are. You will be judged based upon what you complete, and if your attention span is limited only to what you find interesting, you are destined for failure. Your boss will ask you to do something that is not interesting to you because it needs to be done. If you make a habit of (a) saying "no" or (b) not doing it with the effort required for successful completion, you can complain to the people standing next to you at the unemployment office.
Reiterating what many others have said, stop whining and prove your worth. I'd recommend college because I know very few employers who will even consider hiring people without college degrees for anything less than factory assembly or janitorial staff. Why? College doesn't prove that you're smart because lots of stupid people graduate each year. College shows that you can dedicate yourself to a long-term goal of accumulating a functional knowledge of a discipline and succeed at an acceptable level. If you aren't willing to do that, be prepared for heartbreak, as most companies are not willing to take a chance with you, however promising you claim to be.

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Re:Advice by Amiga+Lover · 2004-06-12 17:30 · Score: 3, Insightful

The real thing you need to do is get over yourself. You're not special. There's lots of people in this world that are just as smart as you. Once you get over yourself, the world is your oyster. "unusually but non-traditionally 'bright' "...jesus...Kill me. Get over yourself.

I'd mod you up if I could, but you're already at +5.

Something that's always annoyed me about geeks (the computer kind) is how much crap they'll spew forth about being special, brighter, smarter. These are people who can work well in a few areas, generally a little academic, and often loners. Go within a few degrees of that description and you have most geeks, most of the slashdot crowd.

Now, not to take away from that - it is a good thing to have capabilities, but so often I see this same type expect that by virtue of that unique set of talents they are above many others. That's so many levels of bullshit. I've known carpenters who can't turn a computer on and barely read who can push out some amazing work from nothing but 3 tools and a couple of boards. Gardeners who can build phenomenal areas with a serenity and comfort matched by nothing else. Musicians who would be lucky to see ten feet in front of them for being lost in their own world, but who can pick up a single instrument and play to melt your heart.

We're nothing special. I'm a geek myself, and that's my specific talent but I don't in any way think that makes me especially bright, or uniquely so in any way other than being a unique individual.

And we all have that.
Re:Advice by Col+Bat+Guano · 2004-06-12 17:32 · Score: 5, Funny

If you want my advice, do a trial by fire. Do something REALLY hard and unpleasant, like outward bound, the AIDS ride across Alaska
...or read all of the slashdot posting for a week.
Re:Advice by Ohreally_factor · 2004-06-12 17:59 · Score: 5, Insightful

I disagree. He is special and unique, just like everyone else.

My advice:
I'm not entirely sure what the big rush is to go to college. I recommend living in a foreign country first, preferably one with a different language and a different culture than your own. Find a university or college town or smaller city in this country and plop yourself down for a year to learn the language. Avoid places with huge tourist industries, but if there is a little tourism, that's good. It will give you an opportunity to meet other travelers and the occassional opportunity to hang out with a countryman (or woman). Also, there's a better chance other people will be able to speak your language.

Now, if you don't have much money to start with, let me suggest a third world country, or at least a developing nation. Work for 6 months, save $300/month, and you'll have enough to live in Mexico or Central America for a year, if you live very frugally. I know students that are renting decent rooms for $75 US in Guanajuato. You can eat pretty well for $100/month, less if you cook your own.

Once you pick up enough of the language, you can look for opportunities to supplement your income. Do you want to take language classes? It might be possible to teach an English class in exchange for a language class.

Travel really does broaden the horizons. Real travel, that is. A two week vacation is generally not long enough to really soak up a different culture.

At the end of the year, evaluate. What do you want to do next? More travel? College? Work? Some combination of the three?

The most important thing is not to get sucked up into the values and expectations of those that haven't really examined life. They'll tell you everything you need to know about being successful*, but they know nothing about being you. If you just focus on being you, or as the parent poster suggested, being the best you, you'll do much better than 99% of the other unique and special people.

*I advise going into plastics.

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Re:Advice by Lemmy+Caution · 2004-06-12 18:14 · Score: 2, Funny

Hmmn. You may want to consider ABAP programming. Because after a while, you'll envy the dead.
Re:Advice by NarrMaster · 2004-06-12 19:40 · Score: 4, Funny

Like highschool its 90% bullshit

You misspelled 100%

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Re:Advice by innerweb · 2004-06-12 19:43 · Score: 2
Ignore the parent poster. The one thing I have learned in life is that all people are special. Some are special and wonderful, some are special and terrible. Some are just special.
Each and every one of us has strengths and weaknesses. Each and every one of us has different combinations of talents and innate skills. If we are lucky these align themselves, but often they do not. As far as smart being important, it is, but not that much. Other skills are far more important than "smarts". Being on time, showing respect for others, keeping promises (making promises you can keep), keeping your mouth closed unless you have something good to say and many more. I have been terrible at most (if not all) of these "other" skills at one time or another in my life (take prioritizing for instance).

Being smart is nice and can be a leg up on those around you, but only in conjunction with the rest of the important skills. Being humble does not mean to think you are stupid. All my life, so many people have told me how smart I am. I used to believe them. As I have grown older, I have learned to redefine what they say to how smart I am at one or two things compared to them at those things.

It was not me I had to get over. It was my lack of me. Most people who are passionate about something are also smart about that something. That is not to be confused with skilled at a thing, which is the ability to apply the "smartness".

When I put what others want me to do ahead of what I hunger to do, (like how to get paid the most, or have the best career), that is when I make the biggest mistakes. No one can predict the future, and no one but you can really know what you enjoy. The tests can be helpful if you have no clue about yourself, but they only get you started in a direction. Just do what you love, be very good at it, and do not get sidetracked. You may not get rich, but you may get lucky and find happiness with your career (something most people never find).

Oh, yeah. Some big ones... Stay away from partying too much. Some here will disagree with that, it gets in the way. My Freshman year, I received a D- because I broke loose (almost 20 years ago). My last year in school, I almost hit 4.0 (on a 4 point scale). I was much happier the last year, not the first. I kept trying to be Joe Jock (I was a swimmer) and fit in with my team mates. I never would have. I was too different. What I should have done was hang with the computer geek outcasts (in my day, it was social leprosy) who actually were interested in the same things as myself. I would have received a much better grade, dropped the whole swimming thing (or changed to a different Univ) and been around people whom I could truly share something with besides a ton of partying, liquor and women. That stuff is for people who do not have a life.

But, that just shows how not smart I was with so many other things. Being smart non-traditionally is an Einstein thing (I believe he failed High School - traditional schooling, but pursued his passions, and the rest is history). You just need to find your place, and pursue it. I am certain that until he had E=MC**2, he did not have any Hollywood Starlets knocking at his door. Watch these movies, then think about your question again. I hope you see your choice in a different light. (Keep in mind these are people's lives portrayed by Hollywood, but they are well.)
- October Skies
- A Beautiful Mind
- Rudy
- The Other Side Of Heaven
All of these about people who either had or discovered a certain brilliance for something they did. Some started off smart, and had to adjust to our realities. Some started off like the masses and grew into their "smarts". They all did something wonderful and heroic with their abilities.
Good luck. Life is full of unexpected treasures.
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Re:Advice by Anonymous Coward · 2004-06-12 20:00 · Score: 5, Insightful

>> I have always hated school too. It bears no resemblance to the real world ... I have a little less than 2 years left

It's wonderful that only 2 years into college, you've got the real world all figured out. In reality, you haven't reached the best part of an undergraduate education yet, and you certainly haven't gotten an education in the real world.

>> Like highschool its 90% bullshit.

That's code for:

"I think I'm really smart, but I haven't done that well academically. Therefore, school must have been bullshit."

Sure. Basic math, science, and writing skills are a complete waste of time, as are history and the social sciences. Right. You were ready for the real world right out of middle school!

Back to reality again. The general education classes will teach you a LOT about a wide range of things if you're willing to put a little effort into them.

Ah, what do I care? Feel free to go through life a complete ignoramus when it comes to subjects that don't interest your narrow, closed-off mind.
Re:Advice by spectral · 2004-06-12 20:07 · Score: 2, Insightful

I realize that it's expensive and nearly impossible, but it seems to me that people that aren't challenged in school and find it boring, should be taught differently. Some people pick stuff up rather quicker than others, myself included. Do I think this is a good trait? yes. Did it lead me to being bored in high school (and college, since I couldn't afford a 'better' one) most of the time? yes.

It seems to me that were I to have been challenged, I might have developed a work ethic. I'm not saying I'm the smartest person ever. I'm not attempting to gloat. I'm just saying that the current educational system is trash. I was bored senseless in high school. I actually slept through most of my classes, and still got A's, because I did the minimum amount of effort required of me to do so, which wasn't much. Now I'm looking for life in the real world and I have no work ethic. Were I to be challenged, I'd probably just give up. I never learned to 'study' for the classes that I needed to, and just ignored them. I didn't fail them, and still graduated with honors, but it was annoying because I didn't get most of what I could from them.

Any time where I can attend, either physically or just mentally (i.e. not daydreaming), any class only 6 times and still get an A is poorly structured for someone such as myself. What do I recommend? Well, one on one education with someone I consider an intellectual and knowledgeable equal on the topic of discussion would have been amazing. But how many people can afford that?

I don't have a solution, but it seems to me that if any structure set up for education is boring to you, then you're either in the wrong field, or it's being taught wrong, at least for the way you learn/think.

Too many times I've sat in a class and not paid attention for 30+ minutes while the teacher/professor explained something that seemed easy enough (took about 5 minutes), then spent the next 25 re-explaining it to one or two people in the class who just didn't get it. No offense to them, but I'd prefer that clarification such as that should be done on their time, not everyone's time.

Mod me down for being a pretentious asshole now, it's rather hard to talk about how you're better in some way than the majority of the population (and frustrated by it) without sounding like one. I really don't think I'm better than anyone else for it, it's just one of my gifts. Others can sing, do artistic things, whatever. Mine was quick understanding of various logical topics/pursuits (math, computers, mechanical/technical drawing.. anything seemingly with set rules instead of arbitrary decisions, though admittedly programming is more of an art than anything else, it's a logical art. Though, most could say that art itself is better thought of in terms of rules and logic as well :))
Re:Advice by Mycroft_VIII · 2004-06-12 21:00 · Score: 3, Insightful

I hate to burst your bubble, but #1 is only true with idiot savants and a few other cases. You've bought into a stereotype. And an easy one to buy into as most want to believe in some sort of cosmic fairness. The other reason is a lot of smart people simply don't place priorities the same way as others and get considered clueless for not playing keep up with the Joneses or choose a happy life instead of an ambitious one.

Mycroft

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Re:Advice by sylvester · 2004-06-12 22:59 · Score: 2, Insightful

Do anything you want, enjoy it, and live off it.

Work very hard suffering mentally at first, and eventually have big payoffs (psychologically and likely financially).

Work very hard suffering mentally the whole way. Rewards come but you push them away because they just interfere with what's important.

Resign yourself to become just a mindless peon.

Your post hit a nerve with a few people, myself included. But it's not clear what choice you're suggesting is right -- or maybe none, but only the last one is wrong?

It's hard to have a serious discussion about this on /., but essentially I've been pondering for a year or two how to balance my ambition (which sometimes seems to overwhelm me) with my ego (which I've been keeping in check since grade school when I realized I wasn't "Uniquely bright", just smart in a narrow way that society likes -- sorta).

To believe that I should pursue my ambition, I (might?) have to give up some aspects of normal life. And I need to buy into my own ego, to believe that I *can* do the kind of things that I want to do. (To take it to the extreme, that would probably be going into politics, with the goal of going for something pretty high-up. Or starting a business, with the goal of changing how people think/buy/don't buy.)

Cheers,
Rob

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Re:Advice by zors · 2004-06-12 23:29 · Score: 2, Insightful

Give me a fucking break.

Is anyone else getting tired of this bullshit woe-is-me-life-is-pointless-nothing-can-change-bec ause-thats-the-way-the-world-is?

If your life is shitty, change it, do something about it. Shitty things have been happening to people for thousands of years, yet society moves on.

(i'm not just talking to people posting right here right now, this is more of a rant on society)

And yes, you're right, i am a middle class white kid from a good home who's only angst has been mostly self created. I say what i say because i have faith in people. I KNOW that people can change, no matter what their age or personality type. You just have to make the choice and stick to it, all the reasons people have to not change is just a story we make up. Examine almost any problem a person might have in their life and it usually comes down to the choice they have to make, and a story; maybe its what people might think or how hard something could be or actually is.

I just think we ought to give people more credit for their lives than we do, that its basically the luck of the draw with your social standing or personality type or their intelligence.
Re:Advice by troc · 2004-06-13 02:02 · Score: 5, Insightful

Erm, 'ello. I'm a bit fick aledgedlee from wot you is sayin' abowt cognitiv'bilitee. Maybe I'l full of myself but it taysts liek a cheze towsti. Yum. Innit.

Where was I. Slashdot has far more "up themselves" teenaged geeky nerds than you will get anywhere outside a Maths and Star Trek convention. Those people will, as is natural at 16 (and on to 15 or so) believe they are the dogs bollocks and that they are better than everyone else.

However if you read the more mature, legible, sensible, well-thought-out, adult posts - which are probably from those of us who have "been there, done that" as it were, you'll realise that most of us (and I mean the human race in general) feel alienated, differently clever (ooh, so politically correct) or whatever at some point in our lives.

For example at school I felt "superior" to most people around me. As an undergrad I realised what a twat I have been at school and that some people might actually be almost as intelligent as me (obvioujsly not quite as intelligent as their exam results were better :). When researching my masters I could look back and see what an immature person I had been as an undergrad and how my attitude towards people I felt were slower than me, or generally less intelligent (i.e. everyone) was a load of bullshit. I still harboured a secret knowledge that I was better than all the other people on the course.

Then it came to my PhD - I was 25, I had travelled the world, lived away from home since I was 18 and I was much more secure and mature. I could look back on even my masters and see how conceited I was at 22! I was surrounded by people of the same intelligence as me - but in differen ways - which is why we were studying different topics! I felt properly grown-up at last and was over all the stupid angst and self-righteous feelings as before.

Now I'm over 30 and I can look back and see that even at 25 I had a lot of growing left to do. I am sure that at 40 I will feel the same way .....

To summarise. get over it :) Grow up. It might take 20 years but the journey is worth it.

Troc.

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Re:Advice by RESPAWN · 2004-06-13 02:28 · Score: 4, Insightful

have more or less relegated college to a chore at this point. I have a little less than 2 years left and I am taking some time off from it and working in my field. I am so much more successful in work environments that it is my sincere hope I won't ever have to go back. Basically college sucks IMHO. Aside from a handful of schools with extremely competitive admissions you are going to be surrounded by complete idiots. After a year you will stop wondering why everyone gets drunk, high, stoned, coked out of their mind every weekend because you will probably be doing it yourself.

I can't say that I really enjoyed college all that much, but I do have to disagree about the comment regarding idiots. Maybe I was lucky and I just knew a lot of smart people, but the one thing that surprised me the most when I went to college was the sheer number of people there just as smart as I was. I was a lot like the poster in high school (in fact, I test as an INTP), probably smarter than most of the people I graduated with yet I cared so little that my GPA was only 3.6 or 3.7. (Despite having the singular distinction of taking more AP classes than anybody else I graduated with.) Frankly, it was a kind of a slap in the face when I got to college and realized that I might actually have to do some work if I wanted to compete academically.

I have to disgree, however, that attending college is an entirely useless enterprise. Many employers won't even look at you if you don't have a college degree. Maybe it's true that, once you're in the field for a few years and have gained some experience, then you will find it easier to get jobs, but then you also run into some problems where some companies will refuse to promote people past a certain point if they don't have a college education. It may not be fair, but it happens.

I'm not entirely certain that my college lived up to my expectations of what a place of higher learning should be, but I am still glad that I went. Don't look at college from the perspective that it will be giving you everything you need to be successful for the rest of your life. It won't. Just look at it as a means to help you get farther in life. Put in your time, and get your degree. Employers like to see qualifications such as college degrees. It makes them feel more confident that you will be able to do the job.

Lastly, and I hate to sound so trite here, but you will grow more as a person while at college. Especially if you go away from home so that you are somewhat on your own and don't have your parents to use as a safety net. While at college you will grow and mature and learn a lot more about working with the different kinds of people that you meet out in the "real world."

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Re:Advice by Facekhan · 2004-06-13 02:39 · Score: 4, Insightful

Actually I tended to like my general education classes more than my major classes. At least in core classes I did not have to sit through things I already knew.

A person may need a college degree out in the job world, but chances are they don't need a college "education". Most college graduates don't work in their major field and many don't even work in jobs that have any use for a degreed person at all.

I attended a large private university and it probably does suck more than most schools as evidenced by its dismal 74% freshmen retention rate.

People who don't like it when others bash college always have the same refrain "you are a know-it-all kid...." I love it when this comes from people who never even went to college themselves or from people who majored in bullshit. Yeah my grades are only ok but I certainly was not flunking out. One of the few classes I failed was the result of being the only one in the class who did not blatantly cheat. The professor left the room during exams and it was lets compare answer time.

Why is it that everyone who feels they do not like college has to be wrong? Do you think colleges are run by ancient bearded men in robes who have already thought of everything? Colleges hire incompetent staff working for a slave wage except for the top administrators making hundreds of thousands dollars plus incredible personal benefits. Professors are almost all part-timers and TA's at most schools and the former get paid about the same rate as a highschool teacher in a poor district and the TA's barely get anything at all.

Which brings me to my other piece of advice, DON'T pay for Grad school. Work at the school, do grad school for free, only suckers pay for it. If you only saw the kinds of easy jobs that grad students got at my school for which they worked 30 hours a week and got 9 credits of free grad school a semester. You know what a help desk support specialist does? She sits there and revises her resume for 6 months straight for which she is paid 5 thousand dollars worth of classes. The undergraduate technicians get 7 bucks an hour to drive their own cars around campus at their own expense and fix whiny girl's computers.
Re:Advice by Facekhan · 2004-06-13 02:46 · Score: 4, Insightful

Most valuable college class: English Composition 1 & 2, closely followed by Speech.

If you can write well, you can bullshit through almost anything. It really does help at work. Speech? Just make your first speech a practice run at asking for a raise and you see the point of not being nervous speaking in front of people. I am quite confident I will be getting a 50% raise tommorrow afternoon.

Least Valuable college class: Philosophy of Science closely followed by Survey of computers in business (ie microsoft propoganda, bad tech info, and half a MOUS course. )
Re:Advice by sydb · 2004-06-13 02:51 · Score: 2, Interesting

Learn to live low. Discover how to weed the willfully stupid, the insincere, the mindlessly ambitious, and all other less than honorable people from your life and then hold tightly to the few good people who remain, by doing good by them at every opportunity.

This has been my watchword all my life. I was left with one amazing friend, we had shared values, did everything together, we could have raging rows (I threw a cafetiere filled with water over him once for being lazy) and mintes later be joking about it. Then he died. I mean, not after I threw water over him, a couple of years later.

My, how I now wish I had been a social whore like all the people I used to scorn...

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Re:Advice by bzipitidoo · 2004-06-13 17:41 · Score: 2, Insightful

disciplined, tiring, rigorous work
Why is it "work" has to be unpleasant? Granted, can't see what could be pleasant about toiling 80 plus hours a week in a sweatshop that makes clothes. Part of the definition,I guess-- play is the antonym of work. Need some new definitions; it's poisonous to think work and fun are exclusive. Seems too many managers think they can make the help deliver more and faster by pushing and stressing them to the ragged edge. If you're having fun, then you must not be working hard enough, never mind how productive you are. This exclusive thinking manifests as feeling that time "wasted" on fun could've been used to do work. All that's not to deny that getting things accomplished often does involve tedious, boring, repetitive or otherwise unpleasant activities, but those activities ought to be secondary to work one enjoys.
Skip the Alaskan fishing boat "no pain no gain" nonsense. Doing the #1 most dangerous job in the world is "no pain no gain" on steroids. I hear all the time about people (type Ts?) who find their life meanings that way. Are you that sort? No? It works for them; great. Doesn't mean it works for ordinary mortals.
If you really are so uniquely bright, try to parlay some of that into wisdom. Life doesn't have to suck, and work doesn't have to be solely for the paycheck.

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Best Advice by Anonymous Coward · 2004-06-12 13:42 · Score: 4, Insightful

Be prepared for your spirit to be crushed

Re:Best Advice by nycsubway · 2004-06-12 14:36 · Score: 5, Insightful

Be prepared for your spirit to be crushed

After that happens you'll understand what you're really capable of, and you'd be surprised how little you know now. You'll start to understand what all the 'old people' on slashdot are waving their canes about too.

If you're realisticly confident in your own abilities you have a chance of having them happen. Life is a lot about working and trying hard. You will have to work for everything you ever do, and if you dont work for it, you wont be able to appreciate it. If you're confident and you understand that you need to fail to get better, you have a chance of becoming what you think you can be.

As a side note, its a pretty naive and narcissistic view to feel your all that and a bag of chips.

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College by Anonymous Coward · 2004-06-12 13:42 · Score: 5, Insightful

I couldn't take college and dropped out because of my arrogance, similar as yours. As a result I make 12 an hour for computer repair. It's not the boom anymore, kid.

Just know this: by Uncle+Gropey · 2004-06-12 13:43 · Score: 5, Insightful

You are not a beautiful or unique snowflake. You may have to tough it up and take a path that is not enjoyable to you, as most of the rest of us normals have done, and save the soul-nourishing for the weekends and holidays.

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Re:Just know this: by DarkHelmet · 2004-06-12 13:57 · Score: 2, Interesting

You are not a beautiful or unique snowflake.
Exactly the line I was thinking along. Good Fight Club reference, sir:
This is your life
You are not a beautiful and unique snowflake
You are the same decaying organic matter as everything else
We are all part of the same compost heap
We are the all singing, all dancing, crap of the world
You are not your bank account
You are not the clothes you wear
You are not the contents of your wallet
You are not your bowel cancer
You are not your grande latte
You are not the car you drive
You are not your fucking khaki's

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Re:Just know this: by BWJones · 2004-06-12 14:01 · Score: 2, Insightful

I would have to agree with this. It is also true of kids that are extraordinarily bright and very high achievers early on in life. The harsh reality that we all had to live up to was that you grow up and get a university degree, perhaps a doctorate (or two), and then you are just like everybody else you associate with, only you peaked earlier. I am still in my early thirties, but everybody around me is pretty much equally smart and accomplished. Some are happier than others so the secret is finding you niche, what it is that you like doing for a living and striving to continue making a difference. The really sad cases to me are the ones where folks make a name for themselves early on and then ride on their early efforts for as long as they can eventually becoming bitter.

On the other hand, you do tend to get opportunities that you would not normally receive, and I would encourage you to explore as many of those as possible. If you don't know what you want to do, go to a liberal arts college and see where that takes you.

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Re:Just know this: by Anonymous Coward · 2004-06-12 14:10 · Score: 3, Insightful

You're exactly right. I read his blurb, and I can immediately think of 20 people just like him.

Everyone gets tired of projects after a couple of months. Very few people see projects through to the finish without getting burnt out on it.

Lots of people have hobbies and interests. Most people who are in professional fields, and who are good at it enjoy learning as much as you, and have just as many hobbies.

Now the important part: Everyone has to pay their dues.

I think Engineering is the perfect thing for you. If you get in at the right place, and pay your dues of hard work, and pushing through getting bored/sick of projects, then you'll be good. I'm in the middle of paying my dues right now, but I'm also seeing the benefits. The higher levels of engineering are the "brain trust" levels.

One Prof once told me that your goal as an Engineer should be the guy that forms the projects. Be the idea guy, be the brain trust of the company. At that level, you work on a project brainstorming all the really neat and revolutionary ideas for a couple of months, then toss it off to other engineers who do the nitty-gritty detail stuff. In the mean-time, you move on to another project.

It's a great place to be, but you don't get there without paying your dues. Dues include going through college, masters, maybe PhD, then doing quality, grueling work for half a decade.

Anyways, good luck. Eventually you'll realize that there's a whole big chunk of the population just like you, and they make up the people at the creative tops of most industries.
Re:Just know this: by Lord+Prox · 2004-06-12 14:13 · Score: 4, Funny

You are not a beautiful or unique snowflake

Well he could be... with a gas operated, semi-automatic, AR-10. Puimping round after round into ....

errr. bad advice, bad advice...
Re:Just know this: by orthogonal · 2004-06-12 14:38 · Score: 3, Funny

I attended a First Tier College and after a few years there, I dropped out.
. . . .
Ultimately, I went on to become a wealthy serial entrepreneur by persuing (sic) my ventures 100%

Bill?

Bill Gates?

Come on, man, you better than to post to Slashdot!

(But "pursuing my ventures 100%" is a genius euphemism for "creating a monopoly and violating antitrust law" -- a clever "embracing and extending" of the English language.)

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My suggestion by Anonymous Coward · 2004-06-12 13:43 · Score: 4, Insightful

Get over yourself. Only when you lose some of that cockiness will you begin to enjoy a meaningful and enriched life.

Re:My suggestion by Reality+Master+101 · 2004-06-12 15:13 · Score: 4, Insightful

Ha! EXACTLY what I was going to post.
In all immodesty, I'm one of those who is a lot smarter than most people in certain ways. But who the hell cares? There is more to life than being able to analyze and synthesize facts. I was a lot happier once I got over myself and figured out that there was something to learn from everyone, yes, even the point-haired idiot who wouldn't know his ass from a hole in the ground, but is brilliant in social situations. Or is brilliant at fly-fishing. Or is a great father.
In short, everyone has strengths. It's typical of the geek to think his strengths are more important than everyone else's strengths. The biggest thing a geek can realize is that their specific set of talents is pretty damn useless for happiness.

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Sometimes it's best to just let stupid people be stupid.

PPPOP by Doomrat · 2004-06-12 13:44 · Score: 2, Interesting

Intelligent and similar traits as the poster has mentioned has led me to live a near miserable life. Education was never viable because I lost interest in the mind-numbing tasks assigned to me, and the way that only stupid people who are too ignorant to realise that the work assigned to them is trivial are praised for the bookworm success. You have to be stupid or entirely ignorant to be a successful person in this society crafted by charlatans and intellectual inferiors.

Failure to submit yourself to the stupidity of our self-crafted society just leaves you isolated and miserable.

Re:PPPOP by Gramie2 · 2004-06-12 13:53 · Score: 2, Insightful

Let's hope that this reader learns some lessons that you apparently haven't.

Happiness doesn't come from accomplishment, possessions, or the admiration/envy of others.

Happiness comes from within, and can mean accepting your own limitations, and the limitations of others. If you can't appreciate the qualities of those you term "stupid people," it will be hard for you to accept your own failings.

Being isolated and miserable isn't a result of "failure to submit yourself to the stupidity of our self-crafted society." It comes from not understanding how to form deep, committed relationships, in not finding joy in small, everyday things that are nonetheless wonderful.

There is a place for dissatisfaction with the status quo, for striving and achieving things that are new and unique. That's the path you take, not the goal, nor the meaning.

And always, always accept that sometimes other people do know better, and sometimes you are wrong. Humility is essential.
Re:PPPOP by Anonymous Coward · 2004-06-12 14:01 · Score: 3, Insightful

Or you could be smart enough to realize that the gateway to interesting work is to do the mind-numbing task.

One of the best things you learn in school is the discipline to carry on through things that need to be done. As a scientist, I can tell you that the ratio of time spent in deep thinking (which is fun) to time spent churning out the experiments and papers (which is often mind-numbing) is at least 1 to 20. If you think of yourself as above menial work, your thoughts will never escape your own head, however brilliant they are.

You don't have a choice but to submit to the system "crafted by charlatans and intellectual inferiors". The best you can hope for is to jump through the hoops, then once on the other side, order the hoops removed. If you fail to see this, you are not as bright as you claim; while if you do see this and are unwilling to do it, you are merely a whiner, lamenting that the world is not the way you want it. I don't have a lot of patience for that point of view.
Re:PPPOP by neosapience · 2004-06-12 14:37 · Score: 2, Interesting

Ignorance, plain and simple.
The world is not run by intelligent people, period. Only if you are willing to be greedy, uncaring, singleminded and unyielding will you EVER be in a position of control. Everyone else gets to do the menial tasks that the overlords dictate.
Intelligent people realize that our current way of running things is horrible and they want no part of it. We want to do things the RIGHT way, the way that helps the most people and cuts through all the CRAP. Boring tasks are created by BORING people.
Don't ever tell me I need to jump through a hoop in the hopes that I may one day be able to remove it. That's EXACTLY what they want you to think. If it was that simple, this world wouldn't have any hoops AT ALL. Remember, YOU don't make the rules, the people with MONEY do.
The only way you can be happy is to challenge yourself. Find the funnest, most interesting task you can and PUSH it to the limit. Bring something new into this world and the world will surely notice.

Is this guy serious? by Moderator · 2004-06-12 13:44 · Score: 5, Interesting

Is this guy serious?

It sounds to me like this guy is insecure about his intellegence and is falling back on Slashdot to boost his confidence. He describes himself as "uniquely bright," but admits he hasn't done anything spectacular to merit this title. Lots of people use Linux; that doesn't make them smart. The same thing goes with not doing well in high school. It doesn't mean they were too smart for their education, it just means they were different. Heartbreak :(

I realize that a lot of geniuses didn't do well in high school, but then, they weren't labeled such until after they did something to prove themselves. I could label myself as a champion bodybuilder because I go to the gym everyday, but the truth is I'm only benching 225. The same principle applies: you can't call yourself something unless you can back it up.

You're going to college and you have the rest of your life ahead of you. Find something you're good at, and stick with it. Just don't fall into the mentality that if you fail at something, it's because you're too "bright."

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Re:Is this guy serious? by Templaris · 2004-06-12 14:09 · Score: 5, Funny

"Lots of people use Linux; that doesn't make them smart."

Wait, so because I still use Windows that doesnt mean I am stupid? ALRIGHT!

(Hi-fives cardboard cut-out friend)
Re:Is this guy serious? by damiam · 2004-06-12 15:13 · Score: 2, Insightful

What exactly do you think "profoundly gifted" means? That someone can do well on tests? That's the most meaningless criteria ever. Washington, Marx, Edison, Churchill, etc. weren't geniuses by the textbook definition, but they were still great men who changed people's lives. Why should I care if you can get a perfect score on an IQ test? What possible use is that?
You may be a genius, but if you want to earn respect from society you've got to do more than just be.

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Re:Is this guy serious? by cgenman · 2004-06-12 15:51 · Score: 5, Funny

I know it was a joke, but because this comes up a lot:

The contrapositive is your friend!

Mr. Converse: Hello kids, I'm Mr. Converse. I'm a misleading fallacy of logic. You may have seen me before, while you were taunting your best friend for being fat. While it is true that if you eat like a snooty porker you will become fat, it is not logically true that if you are fat you had necessarily eaten like a snooty porker. Maybe your friend has a glandular condition, a natural affinity for a higher weight plane, or maybe having a friend like you has made his hypertension medically significant. Jerk.

Ms. Inverse: Hello you little kids, I'm Ms. Inverse. I put the word "not" in front of both halves of a logical statement, to come up with something that looks right but isn't true. Let me give you an example... White people are good, therefore black people are bad. Isn't that easy? Now you don't have to read either Mein Kampf or the Bible.

The ContraPositive: Hello Kids! I'm the contrapositive! I'm not the inverse, and I'm not the converse, I'm both! And unlike inverse and converse, I'm true! Yay! You know how if daddy sleeps with that secretary bitch again mommy will leave him, like mommy promised during the last session? Well, if mommy hasn't left yet then daddy hasn't slept with his secretary again. It's 100% true! Daddy must have done something else to make mommy cry. I wonder how mommy got those bruises?

Remember: Only the Contrapositive is your real friend. Mr Inverse and Ms Converse are just out to touch you in those special places.

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I've got a somewhat similar mindset by grahamsz · 2004-06-12 13:45 · Score: 3, Insightful

I found i really had to try and commit myself at university, otherwise i'd find myself with a final exam the next day writing some random perl code to catalog my music collection.

If you can channel your energy and focus on the not-so-interesting parts then you should do pretty well.

Once you're in the real world it's a bit different, but hopefully you can find a work environment that suits you.

well by lancomandr · 2004-06-12 13:47 · Score: 2, Interesting

Yeah, you're unique, just like everybody else. I've learned that no one will really believe you or care. I appear to be very similar. I like linux, photography and cooking. I'm pretty creative although I can't apply it a lot of the time. I've failed simple classes three times in a row. Unfortunately there doesn't seem to be much of an area for people like us to flourish. Most of what I feel are strongpoints go completely unnoticed and unappreciated by anyone who doesn't know me really well. I'm kind of shy; when I create something I feel nervous about sharing it. Some people label me as a pure genius while others wonder if I could spell my own name. I've tried to do the usual gig that everyone else seems to be doing but I just can't. I myself just turned 17 yesterday, and will be attending a community college starting this summer quarter after miserably failing my last 3 years at a college-prep oriented highschool. Depending on what college you're attending and what you plan on studying, you may find either that you continue to go unappreciated and suppressed, or that you have found a wonderful environment for growth and honing of your talents. After spending a little bit of time around the campus, I've come to expect the latter for myself when I begin in a few weeks. Good luck.

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Re:well by Anonymous+Brave+Guy · 2004-06-12 14:02 · Score: 3, Interesting

I don't feel like playing amateur psychologist today, but I suspect there are more people around with your mindset than you might realise at that age. I met quite a few at university, and discovered that they are very good at some things, and very bad at others. Many things, including their job satisfaction and their value to an employer, depend on how well they play to their strengths.

For example, it seems they can achieve a relatively large amount in a given period of time if they are interested in what they are doing, making them very good at brief but difficult tasks where they can focus. On the other hand, they seem to be quite easily distracted by things they find more interesting, which can be a strain if you're trying to keep up a regular 9-5 job in any technology industry: in the real world, there's a lot of grunt work that needs to be done too.

IME, people with this sort of mindset tend to be natural "starters" rather than "finishers", and go for the big picture rather than the details -- they're better at producing innovative ideas than dotting the i's and crossing the t's. I've concluded that they are the natural candidates for "leading edge" research posts: let them wander with their heads in the clouds, and let those with more pragmatic, solid mindsets turn the useful ideas into reality.

Aw, crap. I wasn't going to go amateur psychologist. But hey, there you go, maybe it'll provide some ideas for you to play with.

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It's called by JTMON · 2004-06-12 13:47 · Score: 2, Funny

Obsesive compulsive disorder....I pretty much sound just like you and that's exactly what it is....good luck! :)

discipline by timeOday · 2004-06-12 13:48 · Score: 5, Insightful

You will have to focus and refine your talents to get anywhere. The ability to work really hard for a short time when you happen to feel like it won't help you any. Otherwise you will feel cheated when those without your "raw ability" whiz by you in life.

College Life by Laivincolmo · 2004-06-12 13:48 · Score: 4, Informative

Unfortunately in today's business setting, some sort of official training is neccesary. Even if you have spent 10 years of your life working with computers every day, you still unfortunately need a college degree. I'm planning on going to college in the fall and enduring the classes while also learning through experience. I think it was Herman Hesse in Siddhartha who said something about it being impossible to be taught anything. The experience is everything...

Like me Pappy always used to say.... by odenshaw · 2004-06-12 13:48 · Score: 5, Insightful

College is so you can show the employer that you can deal with a whole bunch of bullshit... stuff you didn't want to do and still did anyway.

Re:Like me Pappy always used to say.... by bandy · 2004-06-12 13:55 · Score: 3, Insightful

employer that you can deal with a whole bunch of bullshit

Because you're going to be dealing with bullshit for the rest of your life.

Sad but true. Find a job that you can live with until retirement. Have interesting hobbies. Don't talk about them at work - work is supposed to be your hobby, and I don't mean that you admit to doing recreational programming. The Boss thinks he owns you 100%.

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Re:Like me Pappy always used to say.... by dpotter · 2004-06-12 15:27 · Score: 3, Insightful

I hear this sentiment expressed far too often, and it discourages that so many people think this way. I submit to you that if your primary motivation for education is to obtain a higher salary or prove something to a prospective future employer, you've greatly undervalued that education. Pursuit of knowledge should be for YOU, not some future employer.
Higher education represents a unique opportunity to engage with experts of all fields, to gain insight into a great diversity of disciplines and to discover where your own interests are. Your primary benefit from college is the personal enrichment you receive from education: understanding and appreciation of complexity & subtlety, insight into yourself and a desire for life-long learning.

Here's a tip by Anonymous Coward · 2004-06-12 13:48 · Score: 3, Funny

Time to start doing acid.

College by moertle · 2004-06-12 13:49 · Score: 2, Informative

I hope you are going to a school that offers a wide range of degrees. I always liked taking spare electives in non-technical classes. Also I would get into a good research program, usually this means paying your dues by volunteering your time until you prove yourself useful. I worked in 2 research centers and they offered enough diversity where I could change gears every couple of months. Also my current job has been a commercial spin-off of the research lab I was working in. So it can be pretty rewarding.

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Find something you like... by YrWrstNtmr · 2004-06-12 13:49 · Score: 5, Insightful

...and then do it.

A lot of people (especially in here) are going to tell you "yeah, I'm the same...this is what you should do"
or
"Shut your whiney cakehole. Go to school, get a job, and go to work."

All bullshit.

Sample many things over the next few years, find something you like to do, and then go do it. After that, all bets are off.
If you can't find something you like to do, something that fits in you mindset at the moment...do something anyway! If it sucks...too bad. You still need to, at the very least, support yourself. Because I won't. And neither will the next guy. And your parents shouldn't have to.

Mostly, go with the flow. by Gyan · 2004-06-12 13:49 · Score: 2, Insightful

Don't try too hard to beat or overtake the system. It frequently happens that the class/project/whatever is too slow and/or easy for you. Don't get distracted and procrastinate on something else. Societies and formal institutional systems don't give free reign or tolerate deviants too much unless someone in power recognizes your potential and empathizes. There will be a few aspects where you can do as you wish, but not on the whole. It's not very optimistic advice, but it's practical.

My experience... by bishr · 2004-06-12 13:50 · Score: 5, Insightful

My experience with this is limited, but that a lot of postgraduate education is not set up for your type; they're looking for people with more discipline, who will see projects through to the end and get published (and possibly make advancements in whatever field).

Your type of intelligence frustrates many people because it's not helpful; to produce usable software or make advancements in practically any field, you need to focus on them for a long time; I'd say that most of the "obvious" or "easy" discoveries have been made, and much of the research out there is fine-tuning what we know.

The best thing to do is to find a mentor, someone who has a similar mindset. You may find one at your institution, but you shouldn't rule out looking further. In order to do discover or create something important, you need to overcome this... Of course, lots of very effective managers and adminstrators are like this; expand your search for a mentor to maybe the field of business... And check your ego at the door. You may think you're incredibly bright, but just wait until you hit postgraduate education. I'm in medical school, and some of the people around me are exceedingly intelligent, and others are average joes like me. The higher you go, the more you realize you're not "uniquely" anything.

Re:My experience... by Richard_L_James · 2004-06-12 14:06 · Score: 3, Insightful

I fully agree with you that he should learn to focus on one thing. Or to put it another way it is easier to normally go with the flow than to try to swim up river (well initially anyway). However I do NOT agree with this statement:
I'd say that most of the "obvious" or "easy" discoveries have been made, and much of the research out there is fine-tuning what we know.
There are still many obvious discovers stil to be made for the simple reason that so many people these days are busy working complex ideas that people have forgotten that very simple ideas often make a big difference, e.g. wheel, axe, chalk, paperclip.... Hmmm, paperclip maybe I should have left that one out ;-)

I feel ya brother... by Beowulf_Boy · 2004-06-12 13:51 · Score: 3, Funny

I'm in the same situation,

If I really enjoy a subject, I get very deep into it. Take for example Grand Prixs. I love my 96 Grand Prix, I'm a member of the National Grand Prix club, work on everything myself, and can resite stats and shit off the top of my head. But I don't want to do car, I don't want to be a mechanic, so that does me absolutly no good at all.

I also tend to fade in and out of hobbies. About once a year I will really get into FPS games for about a month or two, bone back up on them, and be pretty damn good. Then I just stop, it quits interesting me.

I just finished my first year of college. The only advice I can give is, just get through it, and once you have your degree, you can do anything you want. I originally had a major of Computer Engineering, but after becoming extremely frustrated with Electronics, I switched to game design, basically CS with some art tossed in. I really enjoyed electronics at first, I learned alot, and I did a few projects in my spare time. Then, I just stopped liking it. It left the realm of usefullness and became boring. I don't need to know how to bias transistor networks and stuff to do a few hobby electronics projects, and that was all I was really interested in to begin with.

I'm sure my new degree will do the same thing, I'll go with the programming for a while, then it will become boring, and I no longer will enjoy the projects we are doing, they will become to mundane and useless.

So, all I can say is struggle through it, and when you graduate, you will find what you want to do. I really want to be a sys admin. Its what I find interesting. A nice mix of hardware, software (but not alot of programming), and networking. Hopefully I can tought it through the next 3 years of school, and then find a job doing what I enjoy.

Re:I feel ya brother... by YrWrstNtmr · 2004-06-12 14:09 · Score: 2, Funny

just finished my first year of college.
and
once you have your degree, you can do anything you want.

These two statements don't mesh with each other in any sort of reality.

Justify Yourself by CommunistTroll · 2004-06-12 13:51 · Score: 3, Interesting

Why should society recognise you? Why should we all say what a wonderful person you are?

You are part of a ruling elite that sits around wondering "Why isn't my genius praised?" while brighter, better people than yourself suffer hunger, violence and deprevation

You want me to take you seriously? Ditch the capitalistic darwinistic me-me-me anti-enlightenment bullshit and find something bigger than yourself to fight for.

Even fundamentalist christians display more charity than you. Get a life. Join an aid organisation. Join your brothers and sisters in fighting for justice and equality.

Recognize that the core reason why no-one cares for your unique talents is that under capitalism, you are only worth what you can sell those talents for. Got a talent for sport? Have millions. Got a talent for being nice to people? Sucker!

Consider a non-traditional school by suitti · 2004-06-12 13:54 · Score: 2, Informative

I wanted an engineering degree. External discipline is a waste of time for me. Given something I'm interested in, I'm plenty self-motivated.

For engineering, I went with Worcester Polytechnic Institute, Worcester Mass. When I was there, it was strictly pass/fail, with failing grades dropped from the transcript. I understand that it's now A/B/C with failing grades dropped.

It's no joke. It's quite expensive, and only about 30% actually get a degree. However, you get the freedom to take the courses you want and persue projects free form. There are two degree requirement projects. Mine both required four terms (semesters). I worked both in teams, though that isn't strictly required.

External, forced discipline is, in my opinion, demotivational. However, it appears that most people require it.

WPI is good for undergraduate education in Engineering and a few sciences (chemistry, physics, etc.). Don't even consider it if this isn't what you want.

No school prepares you with knowledge needed for what you'll do next. WPI prepares you with how to figure out how to aquire new skills as you need them. If you get this, you are ahead of the game.

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-- Stephen.

Your first textbook should be ... by garyok · 2004-06-12 13:54 · Score: 5, Informative

... "How to Win Friends and Influence People" by Dale Carnegie. Forget about how damn clever you think you are, just remember that all anybody has ever really been doing is trying to give you a boost when they tell you you're clever. You're not that clever. No-one is. Everybody has their own talents (and deficiencies) and people deserve respect, not some teenage nitwit telling them they're all dummies in comparison to him. Try to be clever and and 'beat' people in arguments and you'll only piss people off.

You want to learn something useful: it's better to be kind than clever.

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One of the penalties for refusing to participate in politics is that you end up being governed by your inferiors - Plato

Re:Your first textbook should be ... by wibs · 2004-06-12 14:02 · Score: 3, Funny

That's an ironic sig to have after that post.

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If you get nervous, just remember that there are a few billion other people who don't really give a damn.
Re:Your first textbook should be ... by quarrelinastraw · 2004-06-12 14:23 · Score: 3, Interesting

I agree. No matter how smart you think you are, it's generally a bad idea to introduce yourself as uniquely clever. I'm only a bit older than you and consider myself to be reasonably smart and have some academic credentials to prove it (graduating top of my class at an prestigious college next week). Here is my advice to you. (1) don't be a snob. If you're smart, that's fine. But don't say you're uniquely smart or smarter than other people. That's just annoying. (2) Do the very very best you can in school. You're not going to achieve anything brilliant by being smart at a temp job. Whether or not you find school interesting, your best bet is to go and suck it up. (3) Poke around until you find something you like. This may mean trying different subjects, but it may also mean doing one very specialist area in one subject. My last piece of advice, quite honestly, is to get checked out for adult ADD. Assuming you're as smart as you think you are (and I don't doubt it), it looks like something you might have. I would check it out online, and then if it looks like you, call up a doctor. I know ADD gets a bad reputation, but adult ADD is really a problem.
Re:Your first textbook should be ... by Bishop · 2004-06-12 14:43 · Score: 4, Insightful

At its core the book How to Win Friends and Influence People is a book on social engineering. It is study on hacking society. Every geek should read it.
Re:Your first textbook should be ... by Shajenko42 · 2004-06-12 16:35 · Score: 2, Insightful

It will also teach you that your ability to manipulate other people is more important than your ability to do anything else.

Insecure is *right* by Anonymous Coward · 2004-06-12 13:54 · Score: 2, Funny

Yeah - he could have a 4.0, he's just "different".

Yeah, just keep telling yourself that.....

Do something *REALLY* hard. by Dasein · 2004-06-12 13:55 · Score: 3, Insightful

So, I was in the "gifted" program going through schools and it was all pretty easy for me as well. My big regret is that I didn't work harder at academics to begin with. I ended up getting a job instead. Although I've learned a lot and accomplished a lot, I've always wondered exactly what I missed by staying in school and working really hard. I look back on all the money and career success and I frankly hold it pretty cheap.

So my advice, is find the hardest major in which you're interested and go work your ass off. Then, when you get to be my age and look back on it, you won't have to wonder because you went all out and did something really hard.

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You are not a beautiful or unique snowflake -- but you could be if you got off your ass.

I was in the same boat by gothzilla · 2004-06-12 13:57 · Score: 2, Insightful

I was just like that when I was younger. Kept getting put in honors and advanced classes because of my intelligence yet finished high school with a 2.05 GPA because I was so bored and couldn't get into the subjects. Tried college and I just wasn't into it. Ended up joining the military so I wouldn't have to work for minimum wage anymore. Seriously, suck it up and finish college. The regret of not finishing lasts a lifetime.
I found that spending a lot of time studying things I liked helped deal with the more mundane aspects of life. You don't have to end up in a dull job though, no matter what you like or are good at, there can be good money to be made doing it if you plan and think ahead. Every career has good paying jobs and bad ones, and the good paying jobs are far fewer. Welders can make some money welding mufflers, or they can learn underwater welding and make serious cash.
Most importantly, don't let anyone tell you what you should do for a career. Most people won't be able to comprehend your situation and offer good advice. I let a girl talk me into being a physics major and even though I was plenty smart enough to do it, it wasn't something I was very interested in and failed miserably.
Find your interests and follow your heart.

I'm with you... by stevens · 2004-06-12 13:57 · Score: 2, Insightful

I was in the same boat. If a topic interests me, I eat it up with vigour. If I'm uninterested or bored with it, I can't even force myself to do it. Result in school? A mix of A+ and C-.

I went into programming because it interested me. I was lucky that it is also a very unregulated industry--you don't need a string of letters after your name; my Bachelor's does fine. This is important for people like us, because you want a career where knowledge counts but certificates don't (as much).

My advice is: never stop learning, but don't waste your time with too much school. I declined grad school because I thought I'd die from boredom; but after a few of years working I have a position where I basically get to direct my own work to what I find interesting. Businesses need self-learning, independent thinkers. Trust me, I'm trying to hire, and while there are many "trained" people, there are few with an agile mind and good judgment. We have enough drones.

Don't drop out of your undergrad--it's great fun! But try to slog through the boredom, and learn as much as possible on the way. Good luck with school, but remember to get out before you lose your mind.

Don't listen to this cynic by freejung · 2004-06-12 13:59 · Score: 2, Insightful

You are not a beautiful or unique snowflake.

On the contrary, you most definitely are. And not only that, but you have a unique and beautiful contribution to make to life, you just don't know what it is yet. Don't worry about that. It will come to you in time.

The only good advice I can give you is to follow your heart. That may sound trite, but it's true. The Universe is way too complex for even the best brain to control and predict. You never know what's going to happen to you. It's far more important that you do the right thing than it is that you do what is a "good career move" or whatever.

Don't save your soul-nourishing for anything, get it in everything you do. If what you're doing doesn't nourish your soul, do something else. Don't feel you have to do any particular thing just because it looks like an easy path to money. The most extraordainary things can happen in life, so keep your eyes and heart open.

"Don't worry if you don't know what to do with your life. The most interesting people I know didn't know at 20 what they wanted to do with their lives either. Some of them most interesting 40 year olds still don't." -- Utah Phillips

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Reserve the word Bright by bstadil · 2004-06-12 14:00 · Score: 3, Interesting

The headline really irritates me as I was hoping the word Bright was gaining traction in the Do not believe in a deity sense.

Why not use intelligence in it's many forms for what the guy is after.

Atheist has a negative meaning foisted upon us by the Theists that seems to be unable to accord the Faith "reasoning" to non-theists that they themselves hold so dear.

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Help fight continental drift.

Re:Reserve the word Bright by Squeamish+Ossifrage · 2004-06-12 14:29 · Score: 4, Insightful

For pete's sake: You can't take a word that's in common use, re-define it, and expect people to take it up. Language change happens, but you can't force it.

It also doesn't help when your re-definition is absurdly conceited. You're essentially claiming that yours is the intelligent position by appropriating the word. It would be Orwellian if it weren't ridiculous.

...And this is coming from someone who agrees with the principles "Brights" espouse.

What are we doing? by MongooseCN · 2004-06-12 14:04 · Score: 4, Funny

I would like to hear from fellow /.ers that consider themselves unusually but non-traditionally 'bright' and how you have dealt with it. What are you doing now?

The same thing we do every night, try to take over the world.

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Outdoor digital photography, mostly in New Engl

Discipline is neccessary by proteus318 · 2004-06-12 14:05 · Score: 2, Interesting

I had similar feelings when I was in high school. I was never very motivated because I lost interest in the mundane tasks of high school work very quickly. However, after spending two years in community college, my attitude towards education has changed. I've found college to be much more engaging. You have the freedom to explore your own interests and take classes with more interesting teachers and classmates with similar interests. Nonetheless, I think it is important to be disciplined. Sometimes you have to go through mundane work to get to the interesting stuff. Over the years as I got older, I have learned to be more disciplined and as a result, I have been able to transfer to a good research university, witch opened many doors of opprotunity. It also allowed for much more interesting work than while studying at community college and high school.

Thank You! by bobobobo · 2004-06-12 14:08 · Score: 3, Insightful

That was exactly what I was thinking when I read the article blurb. Typical, "I read slashdot and use a computer therefore I'm a unique genius."

Assume you suck until working w/ the best by potus98 · 2004-06-12 14:08 · Score: 5, Insightful

A future PHB? All the ingrediants are there: arrogance, cockiness, self-delusion... Kid, you're headed for middle-management!

These are the types of unrealistic self-loving kids you get when all you do is shower little Johnny with positive reinforcement no matter how much he sucks at [fill in sport, hobby, or interest here]. Chances are, this kid attended government schools. And now he's comparing himself to those teenagers? Maybe you really are special, though statistically speaking, I doubt it.

You think you're bright, sharp, and multi-talented? Anyone can have that impression when they compare themselves to their coincidental surroundings (family, local friends, etc.) Think you're good at computers? Go to Berkeley or someplace where you will really be challenged. Like rockets? Get a PhD and join NASA. Great swimmer? Then get on the Olympic team. Otherwise, you're just another schmuck.

Don't get sucked into comparing yourself against easy targets like teenage pals. Until you work with the best in a given field (or even the pretty good) you have NO idea how much you suck.

And if you're good at cooking, go win an Iron Chef tournament. Until then, reel in the ego before you get pounded.

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This one gang kept wanting me to join cause I'm pretty good with a bo staff.

Re:Assume you suck until working w/ the best by Frobnicator · 2004-06-12 16:05 · Score: 2, Interesting

[Go actually do something and prove yourself. Until then, reel in the ego before you get pounded.
I know it's cruel but each year around this time I find great perverse pleasure in smashing the egos of poor unsuspecting recent grads. Nothing too harsh, just when they come in with some ego-dripping report like "This is perfect" or "It works perfectly" or (my personal favorite) "I dare you to find a flaw in that!"
One of my favorites was the first peer review of a young intern, only about a hundred lines of source code but probably the biggest thing he'd ever written. I could see something either wrong (buffer overflows, magic numbers, etc.) or missing (no error checking, no comments, no assertions, ...) on nearly everything he did.
I know it's cruel, but to watch their over-exuberant pimply faces go from "Joy! I'm doing Important Things!" fall to "All the things I've been gloating over mean absolutely nothing" is oddly fun.
Of course, I follow the rule "reprove in private, praise in public" (with another team member present), I try to do it early, before they have much emotional investment in their work (usually after a few days of work), and always do ego rebuilding and team building afterword. Usually something like "But it's a good start, considering you just graduated. Let's sit down together and fix a few of those holes."
Am I alone in this perverse pleasure?

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Go to a college that won't just rubber-stamp you by Kirijini · 2004-06-12 14:08 · Score: 4, Interesting

If you think you're a non-traditional student, go to a non-traditional college. Like New College of Florida, which has essentially no required classes, so you don't have to take stupid, boring, and irrelevant to your interests classes; no grades, so you can't compare intelligence by GPA; only 650 students, so you can actually meet everyone on campus, and get to be friends with everyone with the same interests; the ability to create your own classes ("tutorials") and research projects ("Independant Study Project" or ISP); and you graduate based on a final thesis and baccalaurate exam - in other words, if you graduate, it means that you learned something and could demonstrate it in a 100 thesis and hour(s) long oral defense.

New College ain't the only school like this out there. Schools like this exist because some students don't do as well as they potentially can in a academically strict environment (like highschool and early college). Get more out of your education than a diploma. Spend four (or more!) years being yourself and growing from it.

"Never applies himself..." by Punk+Walrus · 2004-06-12 14:08 · Score: 2, Insightful

Yeah, and I bet you are very similar to many Slashdotters in this. I am exactly like you describe; easily bored in topics I hate, and intensely focused on stuff I love.

In school, I was always considered bright and gifted, but got a lot of comments that I never applied myself, or "reached potential." I despised that kind of comment, because how the hell would you know what my "potential" was? But I grew up in an abusive home, and to make a long and complex story short, by 18, I was living on my own.

This was my true test, and I did pretty good. I went from being essentially homeless to living with friends to getting a job, making friends with cool people, and while I can't say it's been an easy or the best life, I'd say for me it turned out pretty well. Looking back on it, college and I would have never gotten along. I have always hated structured and abstract learning (meaning "learn this way, and we won't tell you why, or how anything relates to the real world cases!"), and I got accused of daydreaming by some teachers and "asks too many irrelevant questions" by others. Guess which classes interested me?

My "self-education" led me to computers, and the drive to learn how things worked made me a better and better tech. Soon I worked at a call center, and kissed my retail days good-bye. Then I was doing QA. Then I was programming call centers. Then I was working an International help desk for a large ISP. Now I'm managing proactive QA Testing solutions that keep the Internet going for millions of people. Never had a college degree, but I have certifications and company awards on my walls. I love what I am doing.

I didn't gain anything by being an office backstabber, either. I found you gain more opportunities with friends, so I make friends wherever I go. And I have found that is the key to being successful in any career is the connections between people.

My advice to all young people of any career or life path is to make friends, be friendly and polite as much as you can, learn people's names, and never look down on anyone, no matter how "insignificant" or "a jerk" they seem. Learn from them. That may be "just the janitor" but he has keys to rooms, you know what I mean? Humans are social beings. They love attention. If you give them attention, they seek you out. And never forget those who have helped you in the past, either.

As the saying goes, "It's not what you know, but who you know."

Interesting by Metasquares · 2004-06-12 14:08 · Score: 2, Informative

I could have gotten the first post, but I'll write a long-winded and hopefully helpful response instead of the one liner I'd need to keep it that way... and probably end up with a post that never gets read :)

I'm an INTJ (Myers-Briggs tested) and a junior in college (Major - Computer Science, Minor - Mathematics). I'm currently working as a math tutor and a software developer for the AQUAINT project, which is an ARDA-funded question and answer system. I'm also working with ontologies and the semantic web a lot as a side project until I'm able to devote more time to AQUAINT. I seem to share a lot of traits with you, so I'll try to give any advice I think particularly relevant to myself. Here's what I've thought of from my own transition:

I do very well with the responsibility I'm expected to carry in college. I resent people who continue to treat me like a child, but fortunately, there aren't too many left. Even the crowd that traditionally likes to make fun of my sort accepts me in a college environment.
My GPA has shot up drastically since highschool. I was barely maintaining a 3.0 in highschool; now I have a 3.96 (and only because of one anal professor). This could be, in part, because my highschool GPA was an underestimate, therefore I ended up in an easier college than I should have.
If you catch a professor's attention and you are proficient at what you do, you may very well end up with a job. Unless you have some objection, you should probably take it, since it usually leads to something bigger and may very well start your career off with an advantage.
I've found that it pays to specialize a bit in college, but not so much as to lose other potentially valuable skills. In particular, I tried some new things, and found out I was a great composer of music. I guess the lesson here is to try new things, but concentrate on what you're good at.
To summarize, college is a time of ideals and opportunities. Make sure not to get bogged down in the rest of the reality of college, because the next 4 years will literally determine the course of a good part of your life. Make sure to get the most you can out of them.

As for what I would have done differently, I suppose I should have looked into residential life. I saw the dorms and immediately said "I am not living there", but I may have very well missed out on a good deal of what "college" is.

I would have taken a lighter course load had I known what I was getting into. I don't have much free time left after 18 credits of class and two part-time jobs on the side. I'd also have taken my friends' advice sooner and "loosened up" a bit more. I'm a very uptight person by nature, but there isn't really a reason for it; everyone seems a lot less judgemental in college.

Best of luck, and feel free to contact me if you want to share experiences or anything.

Heh. by ivern76 · 2004-06-12 14:15 · Score: 5, Insightful

My only advice would be to stop telling people you're "uniquely bright." It doesn't go over well. That kind of thinking is something you just keep to yourself...instead, demonstrate your intelligence through action. If you're interested in programming, I'd suggest picking a pet project and getting your hack on.

My sweet sig by garyok · 2004-06-12 14:20 · Score: 3, Funny

I'd mod you up myself for that.

Although I'd make the case that one tells you to get involved and the other tells you how to suceed when you get involved.

OK, OK, I know - bullshit rationalisation. So, the next useful tip is: be a better liar.

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One of the penalties for refusing to participate in politics is that you end up being governed by your inferiors - Plato

Get your degree by Salo2112 · 2004-06-12 14:22 · Score: 2, Insightful

I hated school so much I refused to go to college out of HS. I worked through a string of low-paying "shit" jobs. Funny thing, I was usually much smarter that the people in charge, but I was making less than they were and they were telling me what to do. They had degrees,

One day, I got lucky and got a job that paid quite well - an industrial manufacturing job. My first day on the job, an old man walked up to me, asked me how old I was and then told me to look good and hard at him. He was old, worn out and broken down - a life of manual labor had taken quite a toll on him. It was his last day there - he was retiring. The old man told me not to let what happened to him happen to me.

That night, I applied to a local community college.

It took 10 years to get my bachelor's degree (night school and working a full time job to pay for it). I missed out on a lot of "fun." I wasted a lot of time I can never get back.

Suck it up, and get the degree.

jump out of that well by workboomer · 2004-06-12 14:25 · Score: 2, Insightful

I think what this person feels is not uncommon. A lot of us think we are smart because we only know ourselves... we don't know the competition!

Only one tip from me... by Transcendent · 2004-06-12 14:26 · Score: 5, Insightful

Don't be arrogant.

You'll go out and find you aren't as special as you think you are. Yes, I was the same way... and still am. I have a 3.92, graduated HS with lots of honors (higher gpa though... could have been higher if i didn't slack off my soph year), got all the comments about intelligence, genius, whatever. Now i'm a junior in college and work too.

I have a co-op job and work with some people I concider not as intelligent as I am or they just don't grasp things like I do... but I don't care. They know things that I don't, they think differently than I do, but they're engineers, they're smart too. You can be gifted in many different ways (I used to work at a bagle shop and had an awesome General Manager there. He was gifted in his own right and I highly respect him).

At work I have it setup where I get daily dilbert when I log into my computer... odly enough last week was pretty much all about the "prima donna" of the office. And now my only advice to you is to try not to be that guy.

Even in classes the same rule applies. Don't be that guy who thinks he's god's gift to the classroom/lecture hall. I've seen plenty of those, and no one likes them.

Who did we like or admire? The guy who got close to the higest grade on all the exams but kept to himself. He was bright, and not an ass hole.

Sure you might have the gifts for science, computers, art, music, or whatever you like... but what you really need to keep up in the real world is to have the social skills.

Re:Go to a college that won't just rubber-stamp yo by blackula · 2004-06-12 14:26 · Score: 2, Funny

Haha, New College. It's like a summer camp, all year 'round! But seriously, unless your idea of fun is sitting around all day with no shoes on, stoned out of your mind, I'd stay away. A lot of the girls don't shave, also. Also, try to take some objective economics courses. I dare you. As far as those professors know, Marxist communism is the only viable economic system around. And yes, I speak from experience.

Do what YOU want to do by lowsix · 2004-06-12 14:27 · Score: 2, Interesting

I can tell you from experience. I wanted to study math/science more in grade school but was in a private school that spent most of the day on religion. I now wish I had gotten myself kicked out of it.

I wanted to study physics in Univ. but went with Elec Eng because I thought I had to be practical and I could always double major. The professors made it impossible to double and I should have switched to physics.

Throughout life there are times when you do what others want you to, but you will do best following your own path. I think this is true for brilliant individuals as well as everyone else as we are all unique. But we could all blossom if we just followed our own path.

You don't sound like you need anyone else to lead you but have your own interests already. Follow them.

Unskilled and Unaware of It? by metacosm · 2004-06-12 14:28 · Score: 5, Insightful

Article: "Unskilled and Unaware of It: How Difficulties in Recognizing One's Own Incompetence Lead to Inflated Self-Assessments"

abstract: "People tend to hold overly favorable views of their abilities in many social and intellectual domains. The authors suggest that this overestimation occurs, in part, because people who are unskilled in these domains suffer a dual burden: Not only do these people reach erroneous conclusions and make unfortunate choices, but their incompetence robs them of the metacognitive ability to realize it. Across 4 studies, the authors found that participants scoring in the bottom quartile on tests of humor, grammar, and logic grossly overestimated their test performance and ability. Although their test scores put them in the 12th percentile, they estimated themselves to be in the 62nd. Several analyses linked this miscalibration to deficits in metacognitive skill, or the capacity to distinguish accuracy from error. Paradoxically, improving the skills of participants, and thus increasing their metacognitive competence, helped them recognize the limitations of their abilities."

Re:Unskilled and Unaware of It? by peteforsyth · 2004-06-12 15:20 · Score: 4, Insightful

This is an interesting point, and I'm sure it applies to many people, but I have my doubts whether it applies to the original poster.

Another scenario is this: you have superior analytical ability, and people are generally impressed when you weigh in on a topic you've put some consideration into.

However, as much as people are appreciative of certain specific things you have to say, they are also put off by your social awkwardness, or by their inability to figure out where you're "coming from" or what your motivations are.

In a work environment you pursue problems that interest you, and often come up with very clever solutions, but not on the timetable others would like. You are intrigued by an interesting problem, but you are largely unconcerned with the political or self-interested motives of those around you. So you are seen as somewhat valuable, but unpredictable, and therefore not a good "ally."

So anything that requires you to cooperate closely with others or have their trust and confidence is pretty much a lost cause. You ARE smart, you DO have talent, but much of it is wasted because people you need are wary of you.

I believe that is also a common scenario, and my sense of the poster would put him more in that category.

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Re:Unskilled and Unaware of It? by Delta+Vel · 2004-06-12 15:52 · Score: 2, Interesting

I'm guessing at least some of the inability to recognize when one makes a mistake could be due to our PC standards in the education system. If no one tells you when your conclusion is wrong, you might just go on thinking that of course lemon juice on your face will keep you from being recognized on a surveillance tape. Why not?
District 200 in Illinois' policy on correction of spelling errors: "only when appropriate." As if it is sometimes not appropriate to correct spelling. Don't want to make the kids feel bad because they can't spell...

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Re:Unskilled and Unaware of It? by dtperik · 2004-06-12 16:32 · Score: 5, Insightful

Executive Summary: The more you know, the more you know you don't know.
Re:Unskilled and Unaware of It? by Tony+Freakin+Twist · 2004-06-12 17:12 · Score: 2, Interesting

maybe i'm one of the people that would score low on these tests but how, exactly, do you test for humor?

Its going to be a hard slog until the PhD by ploppy · 2004-06-12 14:30 · Score: 2, Insightful

I was like you as a teenager, interested in everything, the occult, radio theory (early radio design of the 20s/30s), computing, history. Deep interest for a while then complete boredom until the next interest. Always an obsession with one then moving onto the next, to the exclusion of other interests.

School work (including the degree) was always a struggle, never any interest, it was either something I was not interested in (having strong views on everything), which meant it was a struggle to do well, or it was something I was interested in, which meant I'd already done it to a far greater degree than it was taught, leaving the teaching boring slow and patronising (as I thought then). Either way I always found it difficult to do as well as people who I considered of lower ability (in my not very humble opinion then).

The PhD was completely different, no taught component (British PhD), just an ability to spend three years obsessionally doing something I wanted to do. In the process my academic performance changed from so-so (upper second degree rather than the 1st I was easily capable of), to PhD work which was (in my opinion and others) one of the best and most innovative PhD research produced in the department.

The difference? Not having to deal with slow teaching, accomodate other people's views and being able to do a very individual PhD.

The problem (as I realised later) is all those pieces of paper are important to get because no body is going to take any notice if you've not got them! I always hoped my brilliance and clever projects undertaken in preference to the school work would be recognised, rather than the boring pointless assignments and exams. They were not. I learnt I should have treated all the taught work as a game, play the game and get the marks.

The problem post PhD is that everything is as plodding and constrained as the degree. Become an academic, be prepared to put up with lots of rules and regulations, pointless teaching (I found setting assignments and exams as pointless as I found taking them as a student), corporate IT is of course even worse.

Your intelligence and iconoclasm will always make you an outsider and misfit. Ultmately you have to learn to accept it, and know when you have to play the game even when you don't want to.

Some real advice by Scratch-O-Matic · 2004-06-12 14:31 · Score: 5, Insightful

I felt the same as you...maybe I'm as smart as you and maybe not.

But here's the thing that has made my life invaluable. No shit...

FIND AND CHERISH GOOD FRIENDS.

Your talents will take you wherever they take you, but friendship will fill the gaps.

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I completely understand... by nilspace · 2004-06-12 14:33 · Score: 2, Interesting

Your question sounds like something I would ask myself, phrase for phrase.

My interests have always been far-spread (again, from programming, robots, to playing an instrument, learning foreign languages, painting, etc). I've always compared myself akin to the "Renaissaince Men" of centuries past: Thomas Jefferson, or Benjamin Franklin as good examples.

And no, I don't think it is trite of you to ask such a question. Too often our society looks down upon intelligence, and being bright. That's why all the US schools are doing away with Valedictorians, b/c it makes the not-top-students or bright ones feel "bad".

Anyways, back to your question, you will probably experience the same thing in University that you have been to date. You will manage to get by classes, everyone will think you *should* have a 4.0, when in reality you're getting by just barely on grades alone. My best suggestion is to learn what you can, get to be friends with the profs who actually take an interest in your education and learning and talk with them and share ideas. But also don't just give up on school. It definitely helps you meet people, open doors, and move onto things that you would have had difficulty without the schooling and degree.

Also, join out of class activities. Student groups, engineering teams, and so on. These are great chances to meet with people like you and do truly amazing things. I was a member of an engineering team that I became the head of during my second year of undergrad, raised $250k and built a 20-meter computerized, electric airship. The project let me expand beyond any syllabus or expectation set forth by standardization.

Don't lose your self-confidence. Sure, don't be "cocky" or overconfident, more than likely it will lead you to make stupid mistakes or just make people that don't know you dislike you. But being self-assured and self-reliant is a terrific asset.

No, I disagree by BlightThePower · 2004-06-12 14:48 · Score: 5, Interesting

If you're in one of the best colleges for your degree, you should probably be getting another degree. If all those things are true, get a graduate degree.

This is possibly the worst possible motivation for getting a graduate degree (I should add I'm an academic myself so I have an idea of what I am talking about). The ONLY reason to get a PhD these days is for love of the subject. I couldn't bear the idea of not being involved in research in my field and my colleagues all felt the same. You will never make up the money you lose doing it, and in the end its not like people fall at my feet in worship everytime I use my title. Its a long, hard slog usually, intelligence is not the main factor in getting through anyway: its a work ethic and a bit of grit.

You can get just as much intellectual stimulation in industry if you land the right post. And get paid handsomely for doing it. The graduate degree is only for those who truly want it, we quite often see those who think of it as an intellectual penis-extending exercise fall by the wayside. And rightly so to be honest.

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Re:No, I disagree by jrockway · 2004-06-12 15:35 · Score: 4, Informative

Getting a PhD is helpful. At Abbott, for example, you start at level 17 whereas BS people start at 13. 17 means much higher pay, and your own office. So it does pay off. And being called Doctor isn't a bad thing :)

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Re:No, I disagree by deanj · 2004-06-13 02:53 · Score: 2, Insightful

In the time it would take the person to go from a BS degree to a PhD, they could have worked their way through to company and even gone past that level 17.

Not to mention the years of income, experience for new jobs, etc.

I hate to agree with this. by twitter · 2004-06-12 14:49 · Score: 4, Insightful

I read and like "How to stop worrying and start living." It has much of the same sound advice.

I don't like agreeing with the above post because it's obvious flamebait. "teenage nitwit," is the most obvious attack. The straw men constructed show the author advocates kindness more than he practices it. Garyok, how the hell do you know how our anonymous reader treats people or tells them? How do you know that they are not really clever? As you say, "people deserve respect".

That being said, my best advice is to get over being clever. I gave myself lots of problems before I did this for myself. I was self defeatingly lazy about the way I did my work.

Every little thing counts. More than anything else, your school work shows that you can follow directions and are willing to do things that are boring to get what you want. Companies want employees that do everything they are told, not just the "exciting" things. Yeah, it's stupid but that's the way the world is made. You may not like working for a company that judges people this way, but most are like that and it beats being unemployed.

The most important thing for my technical work was to see good examples. The Given, Find, Solution method is the best way to avoid mistakes and it really saves time even for trivial problems. Trivial problems don't require as much write up. You don't have to be a neat fanatic about it or even have good penmanship, but stating all of your assumptions and referencing equations and other sources makes your mistakes obvious to you when go back to check it. It gives you time to clear your head and avoids transcription problems because you can put your finger on your work and in the book at the same time to check. It also gives you a body of work to take to interviews.

Look for other bright people and work with them. It will help you understand just where you fit into the world and you will understand more. I picked people at random and did well with one or two of them. One of them is still a very good friend and I have no idea why he thinks I'm brighter than he is.

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Re:I hate to agree with this. by HeyLaughingBoy · 2004-06-13 10:02 · Score: 2, Insightful

Companies want employees that do everything they are told

No, they don't!
Companies -- and by that I mean the real decision makers, not just your boss -- want employees who make them richer. Pretty much all employees do what they're told; the ones that don't are an insignificant number and generally end up fired or marginalized. You can't distinguish yourself by showing up and just doing what you're told.

You're right: he needs to "get over being clever," but also to decide if he wants to excel at something (in this case a job/career) and figure out how to apply his intelligence properly to that task.

Hint: it usually involves going way beyond doing just what you're told. It requires that you figure out the next step and do it, or suggesting an improvement that fits the company's business model, not just something that makes you look like you're trying to be smart.

Problem is that most geeky types -- yours truly included :-( -- take a long time to learn that no one cares if they're smart. People care what you can do for them and that you can do it well without making them feel stupid. That's a hell of a lot more important to your success than just being clever.

Own business by cubicledrone · 2004-06-12 14:52 · Score: 4, Insightful

Unusually bright people are not welcome in day to day society.

Popular culture goes out of its way to make people who are intelligent, well-spoken and aware appear to be strange. Very often those people are excluded as quickly as possible from the societal "cocktail party on the patio deck."

The reason for this is that people who are not unusually bright mistakenly believe that intelligent people make them look stupid. The intelligent people must therefore be removed from the stage as quickly as possible, otherwise they might begin to have some political influence which would reduce middle management's ability to stuff their own pockets.

Smart people are the first ones ridiculed, the first ones argued with, the first ones made fun of, the first ones fired. Smart people often have little or no use for office politics, which is why it is so easy for lying cheat fuck middle management bastards to outmanuever them and get them fired.

Bright people usually begin their careers believing the quality of their work will enable them to succeed. What they later find out is that there are two choices: spend your career wading through a swamp of bubbling, wet shit with liar cheat rat bastard fuck "supervisors," or start your own business with a couple of other bright people and bypass the cubicle bullshit factory. The quality of someone's work is absolutely irrelevant to success in the workplace. In fact, the higher the quality of someone's work, the more likely it is they will be fired.

Business encourages office politics and people who are liar cheat fuck bastards always win. Bright people mistakenly believe that being a liar cheat fuck bastard should disqualify someone from competent professional discussion. It does not. In fact, it usually gives the liar cheat fuck bastard an insurmountable advantage. So, the smart people get fired, leaving entire floors full of liar cheat fuck bastards who are paid exorbitant amounts, do no work, yet can't be fired because they have mastered the arts of office politics and being a liar cheat fuck bastard.

Mediocre, visionless, imaginationless, dull people are usually the first to buy a home, first to raise a family, first to get promoted, first to drive the expensive car, first to put in a pool, first to take the vacations. They can't be fired either, because they never say anything except "there's cake in the conference room" and "are you on the morning donut list yet?"

So, if a bright person expects to enter the workplace, expect to find four groups:

1) Upper management, pockets already stuffed with tall dollars, ordering lunch from a golf cart, oblivious

2) Middle management, busily stuffing their pockets with whatever is left over, ordering in from the local delivery deli.

3) Dull, witless drones, talking about their weekend trip to "the river" or "the canyon," what color their new Navigator will be, and the landscaping on their palacial four-acre estate, financed because they have never been fired, ever, and ordering lunch as a group from the menu at the local "yuppie grill" which is the only place in town where one can order an $11 bacon cheeseburger. They can afford it, after all, because they have never, EVER opened a bill without a matching paycheck.

4) One or two smart, intelligent people, quietly working through lunch on a brilliant project, unaware they will be fired a few days before or after it is completed.

I have long since given up on the "job market," because after three and a half years of being unemployed, and over 400 resumes, I believe it to be a festering maggot-infested open sore on society, draining every last shred of joy and wisdom from people's careers, and destroying the educations and communities of millions upon millions of hard-working people.

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Re:Own business by Keck · 2004-06-12 15:18 · Score: 2, Insightful

Tell us how you really feel, cubicledrone... :)

..But seriously, I agree with the statement that people ought to start their own businesses more than they do; but I take issue with the larger statement that 'intelligent people are not welcome' in society.. I'm an [E|I]NTP like the author, but it's important to recognize the many different kinds of 'intelligence' just beginning to gain wider recognition. If you don't think that being socially intelligent is both valuable, and a legitimate form of intelligence, then you are probably just being self-centric.. Other people DO matter, even if they sometimes do bad things. Guess what, you do too. Not only that, but just because you are not as strong with social issues as you are with technical issues doesn't mean you shouldn't try to develop that side of your person too..

On the whole it sounds like you've been badly abused (not physically, I hope) by the types of people you describe, in the past... Try not to stay jaded forever, if you don't make an effort to find the good in life, even among the bad, you're in for a miserable time.

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Re:Own business by Eil · 2004-06-12 16:57 · Score: 2, Funny

But you're not bitter or anything, right?

Let's see by AdamHaun · 2004-06-12 14:57 · Score: 2, Insightful

All right. So you're an intelligent slacker who wants to get away with not doing anything you don't want to do. Okay, I can relate. Unfortunately for both of us, unless you were born with a silver spoon in your mouth you probably won't have much success. Allow me to suggest a few compromises that might make your life easier.

If you want a nice job(and if you're going to college, I hope that's what you want), then you might want to:

* Drop the elitism
"Does not fulfill potential", as one poster put it, is a synonym for "useless". If you want to be anything other than a hermit, you need to learn how to adapt yourself to the world. This doesn't mean surrendering your individuality and becoming a tool of The Man, but it does mean that you will have to do things you don't want to do. Trying to pass yourself off as too intelligent and "non-traditional" for everyday life is going to do nothing but piss people off. How would you feel if someone told you that they were too smart to deal with you?

* Figure out what you want to do
Being interested in many things is good, but if you want a fun job you're probably going to have to specialize in something too. Make sure that what you major in is what you actually want to do. Internships and co-ops are one approach to doing this. You should also consider what kind of standard of living you want. If you can't handle $30k/yr and no possibility of advancement, then perhaps that degree in Jamaican Basket Weaving is not for you.

As far as learning goes:

* Get used to doing things you don't want to do
Most(all?) decent school require you to take a core set of courses before you get a degree. Each major will of course have its own set of requirements. Some of these will not be fun. Deal with it. You cannot study anything in depth without having to deal with a few unpleasantries. More importantly, it'll make you a better person. Every new thing you learn makes you better at learning in general. Someone else said it better than I did:

"It's weird how when I look back at college, I find my best compsci

teachers were, indeed, the most literate teachers. There was one guy
who read all of Dickens every year. Another guy taught himself a new
language every year. I remember I happened to be in one of his
courses during the year he was learning Latin and had to put up with
loads of these weird Latin quotations he'd put everywhere. Flash
forward ten years and I'm stuck in a super-intense Latin 101 course
for grad students who need to learn a foreign language pronto,
and I realized why my little bald compsci teacher was so gungho for
conjugation and for quoting Virgil at every turn: you realize that
in some weird -- perhaps even unconscious -- way everything that you
force yourself to learn *outside* of your chosen "track" actually
feeds *into* that track and makes you wild, creative, and utterly
un-fucking-predictable. You scare yourself, scare your friends, and
you realize, damn, dude, just chill. Cool it on the caffeine and
espresso because if you get too juiced with the creative jazz -- if
you make too many connections -- leaping from liberal arts shit to
comp-sci shit to physics shit -- it's almost overwhelming. The more
you learn, the more connections you can make -- and the more
creative you become.

On a more practical level, learning to do things you don't like in college will make it easier to do so at other, more important times.

* Grow as a person
While it's fasionable on Slashdot to lament one's school years as a waste of time, the truth is that once you graduate you won't have as much free time as you used to. A full time job will take a very large chunk of your energy, energy that you had previously put into hobbies and leisure. Spend your college years making friends, trying new activities, and learning how to live as an adult. If there's anything you've always wanted to do, like play a musical instrument or le

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Re:Let's see by AdamHaun · 2004-06-13 01:56 · Score: 2, Insightful

No, it doesn't. What it means is that, if you want to deal with other people, you're going to have to meet them halfway. It's both unfair and unreasonable to expect other people to deal with a prima donna "genius". The end result of this adaptation is not Wal-Mart, it's getting past the work you don't like in order to get to the stuff you do.

Put it this way. I'm an engineer. My boss walks in and hands me a project that I don't really want to do. Do I:

A. Turn up my nose, refuse to do the work, and demand something different.
B. Take the work, but remind my boss that I'm too good for this sort of thing.
C. Try to get my coworkers to do the work. After all, they're just a bunch of drones, right? They're perfect for it!
D. Take the work and do well on it, knowing that when a really cool project comes around I'll be more likely to get it.

You can't live life without compromises. What you want is to pick the compromises that benefit you the most. If you want to deal with the world, sometimes you have to play by its rules.

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Be passionate by Ignignot · 2004-06-12 14:57 · Score: 2, Interesting

One good thing to do is to be passionate about something. Anything that really grabs you, go out and grab it back. First off, it'll make your life much less blah because you have something that excites you. For me it's a lot of things, and I imagine that's the same for many people. Pick up a musical instrument. Learn how to cook Indian food. Take up rock climbing. Practice ju jitstu. Whatever. It'll serve several purposes - first as an outlet for your stress. Second it'll make you interesting, whether with the opposite (or same) sex or when you're looking for a job. Thanks if you've read this far down in the comments ;-)

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Make your own path by humankind · 2004-06-12 14:57 · Score: 2, Insightful

This is a great topic. Not because of the subject matter, but the in-between psychology that comes into play here.

Let's face it, most of the greatest minds of all time withdrew into themselves; strived to be more than what was expected of them because of the adversity they faced and/or their own insecurities. It goes without saying that a lot of people will find your query narcissistic and arrogant and fire off appropriate retorts.

I haven't read the responses. This is such a cool thread that I feel compelled to offer my own commentary untainted by what others may have said.

First off, who gives a fuck what anybody else thinks. If you believe in yourself, fuck everyone else. 99.9% of the time people seek to label those as arrogant, anyone who might appear to be more self-confident than themselves. That's not your problem.

This whole argument isn't about intelligence and wit. It's about self-confidence. The reality is that you're not exceptionally gifted in the physical sense. You can't do anything any other humanoid can do. But you may be more aware than most that the limitations imposed by society are not insurmountable. That's what's special -- not you.

If you believe in yourself and have been able to demonstrate to those around you that you can excel beyond the mundane, then you don't need to prove anything to anybody other than yourself. What you do with your career is peripheral to what you want to do for yourself. All the great people of the world followed their own path, and they felt confident that whatever they were doing, be it investment banking or brick-laying, they were the best of their kind. That's the way to do things.

Figure out what makes you happy. If you really want to believe in yourself, fuck college. If it doesn't jive with your dreams, don't do it. College will only serve to make you conform to the roles that others on the assembly line think will guarantee them a career. If you truly are "special" then no matter what you do, you will succeed. The easy way out is to follow the path of everyone else.

I consider myself to be unusually intelligent. by Anonymous Coward · 2004-06-12 15:00 · Score: 2, Interesting

Without making up specific numbers, let me make do with suggesting that I'm "1 in a million".

Here's what I've done with my life.

I've managed to screw up the few relationships I've had, either through my own fault or somehow falling together with true bitches. Either way, what that says about me is nothing to brag about.

I've never made more than $32,000 in any given year, and that only once... other than that, I've never broken the 30k barrier.

I've managed to get fired or laid off from every job I've ever had. I'm 30 years old, too, not 17. One of the more notable jobs (the last, in fact), I lost because I was under the incredibly stupid illusion that my performance mattered, when it had nothing to do with my job retention. The social and political details of said job still elude me, but being a "friendlier, more liked" (and I mean liked, not likable, there is a difference I think) would probably had done the trick. The polite, curt, slave like hell to get things done attitude wasn't a winner.

I'm unable to understand people, or really have any friends. I'm generally unhappy. Ever try to make conversation at work? I simply can't, and the conversation other's initiate is insipid. 10% misunderstood politics/world events, 30% pop music, 30% movies, 30% social gossip. Feel free to substitute 15-20% video games for movies in a younger crowd. I can't relate to any of that.

Imagine having a fight with you're girlfriend, and only being able to react rationally. Rationality is the tool I use to (try to) solve all the problems I care to try solving, and it's perversely incapable of doing such in those circumstances. Short of the neurological expertise to make her brain behave like mine, there is nothing that can be said that will defend you, make her stop, make it feel any better either for you or her, or keep it from happening in the future. I'm told that she hates me because I won't leave, and that she wants me to leave because she hates me. Asking her why doesn't elicit any more sensable answers, asking her how to fix things for her elicits "I don't want it to be fixed". I don't really want another girlfriend at this point, but assuming I do the outlook is bleak. I don't expect much better from anyone else.

I have bad credit. Not so smart you say? I knew I was ruining it at the time, I just didn't care. Not so sure I do now. Except that, with my miniscule earning potential, this detail means I'll never own a decent home or car.

I have communication problems even with people who would otherwise seem to be of above average intelligence. Many times during my life, I've been asked to do something (usually at work), and I would complete the task, and make remarks to that effect. I would say "I just finished blah-blahing, is there anything else you need me to do?". That person/manager might say "I told you to blah-blah, now go do it right." 3 or 4 exchanges like this, me biting my tongue so as to not inject too much sarcasm, and they'd not get it. I'd repeat the same thing they had just said, but somewhere in their brains something was misfiring and they weren't hearing it. How do I know it was them, and not me? Not all such people have been assholes, and one in particular apologized only minutes later, saying that it just wasn't clicking as I spoke the word. Other times, someone else would be present, and point it out (strangely when they said it, it would be "heard").

In short, intelligence only allows me to see just how pathetic it all is. Worse, it won't prevent me from embarrassing myself by hitting the submit button (though it does suggest checking the "post anonymously" box).

rules for smart people... by greywire · 2004-06-12 15:00 · Score: 2, Interesting

1. You are not as smart as you think you are.
2. You may be smarter than most people, but don't act like it. The hordes of dumb people don't like people who act smart (whether they are or not).
3. If you want to have friends, learn to like dumb people.
4. Find one thing you have a passion for, and excell at that. You may have to work a "day job" that you hate until your chance comes along to do what you like.
5. If you must have a "companion", find somebody either like yourself, or at least somebody that wont constrain you - you need your freedom and solitude to be creative.
6. Dont automaticaly dismiss the usefullness of certain substances. Caffeine can be very usefull, as can certain other things (ahem) in helping you both focus on your projects and other times clear you mind for rest. Remember, we're smart people, and we should know how to use things to our advantage...

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You, four years later by chreekat · 2004-06-12 15:03 · Score: 2, Insightful

I felt the same way you did at the end of high school. I'll tell you why: high school sucks. It is the worst possible way for everyone, and especially brainiacs, to get prepared for life. At the end of high school, I figured I could do anything, and that my intelligence gave me special privileges. Sure, my GPA wasn't awesome, but that's because I knew better to dirty my hands in this system for inferiors.

College came around and crushed, humbled, and rebuilt me. Now, rather than SAYING I can do anything I want to, I actually CAN do many of the things I want to, and I also know what those things ARE. I found out that lots of people who didn't seem 'smart' in high school are actually really brilliant, and that my smarts don't mean anything unless I apply them. I learned the world will not give me a cookie every time I tell myself, "but I'm smarter than these people!" I learned that I can't wing any and all tests that come my way (I just got smashed in a Numerical Analysis final.. sheesh). Haha, that reminds me.. if you go to college, do your homework! Man!

The Army bases its ad campaign on that sort of transformation. I'm sure there is truth to it. The bottom line is that you have to _get out and see what life is really like_. Throw everything from high school away. Realize that you are NOT one of the elite 2%, or if you are, that .02 * (population of world) is a big fucking number.

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Serious advice: I'll take you seriously. by Interested+Spectator · 2004-06-12 15:04 · Score: 2, Interesting

Yeah, I don't think you're alone on this one. I remember wishing someone would give me some real advice. Here's what I think.

Read more books
Cook more meals
Jog in the morning
Drink less beer, not none, but a little less
Start a business, anything, something that generates revenue
Get a job, even in school, or participate in sports
DEFINITELY go to a college, sounds like you should go to a smaller school (I went to UT at Austin, I would've chosen a smaller school looking back)
Live on your own, it's scary
Travel when you can
Bad realtionships are obvious, don't ignore the obvious and end them when you have them

As I think about this, these are the things that I would tell my younger self, but, I REALLY enjoyed my younger days and going through what you're about to go through. I think I look back fondly because as I was going through college and all my experiences, I kept reminding myself that one day, I would look back and wonder how it went so fast. So, as I look back now, I wonder how it went so fast, but then I remember enjoying every minute of it. I can't help but smile and look forward to my future...and my own baby's future. Good luck. And remember, one day, you'll look back and wonder how it went so fast.

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Don't go to college by Mustang+Matt · 2004-06-12 15:08 · Score: 2, Insightful

I wish I had never attempted college. I threw my money down the drain repeatedly.

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Go to the hardest school you can find by chia_monkey · 2004-06-12 15:08 · Score: 5, Insightful

I too thought (well I guess I still do) I was incredibly bright and talented. Straight As in high school without even trying really. Head on out to Carnegie Mellon and WTF...I'm not the brightest anymore. In fact, I had to bust my ass to be just above average. Since then I've worked a myriad of jobs and started a few companies.

The point is, go get humbled. Find out where your strengths and weaknesses are once you're thrown in with the cream of the crop. You may find you're in the top 5% when it comes to coding but the bottom 5% in communication and reasoning. If, after four years you still find you're a genius, go out in the world, say you got superior grades at a top notch school and do whatever the hell you want. My guess is though, you'll be eating a little humble pie for the first couple semesters at school.

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"He uses statistics as a drunken man uses lampposts...for support rather than illumination." - Andrew Lang

From Yet Another INTP. . . by MyHair · 2004-06-12 15:08 · Score: 4, Interesting

I was about to skip this article entirely, but the editor's comment about INTP caught my interest. If his insight is correct I may have something to offer.

I've never quite fit in and might possibly fit your description, although I would never publicly declare myself "unusually but non-traditionally bright" even though I may sometimes think so if I haven't done something really stupid recently (which I'm prone to do).

At age 34 I think I'm finally more or less comfortable with my future plans and how I fit into things.

Now, the INTP thing. That's a Myers-Briggs [personality] Type Indicator. I've never been much into classifying people, but I felt personally validated after reading some material on the subject. Basically I'm an INTP which is less than 5% of the world's population, so I figure it's okay that I don't seem to think like "everyone else" (for better or worse). The descriptions of INTP's thinking, working and love habits really hit home, too, so that made me feel better. David Keirsey has a couple of books _Please Understand Me_ and _... II_ which cover the subject.

If MB typing interests you, check out _Do What You Are_ by Paul D. Tieger & Barbara Baroon-Tieger. It suggests occupations that match the interests of each of the types.

Like I say I'm a bit skeptical of psychological studies and categorizations in general, but using the above material for validation and occasionally a sanity check helped me feel better, although I don't know if it made any tangible difference in my life. My career was already set when I read these books.

Back to practical advice and personal experience, I had no clue what I wanted to do after high school. I went to college as a default. I did okay at first, but my grades went downhill after a year or two. I was good with computers but couldn't imagine any job I would like involving them; I imagined sitting in front of a green screen typing all day and didn't like it. I had a job with a big company, though, and when working a remote site my terminal went down. The tech showed up while I was there, unplugged the modem and plugged in a new one. I said (or maybe thought...I can't remember now) "you get paid to do that? I can do that." So I got in touch with his manager and found out what the job requirements were: an Associate's degree. So I changed my college focus and got the 2-year degree and happened to get that job just as I graduated. From there my experiences and job interests expanded.

So I guess my career advice is to open your eyes and watch what other people are doing; if you like it, find out how you can do it. That probably sounds obvious to everyone else, but at that age I was very introspective and other people didn't interest me much.

I hate sales. And it sounds like you probably do, too: "Friends and others recognize my strength in these areas." I usually say that I'm bad at first impressions but when people see what I can do they gain respect. When I say sales I include the forward type of behavior involved in cold selling, meeting women and job hunting, because I think they use very similar talents that I (and I suspect you) lack. A couple of things that helped me in this area a while back were college classes in interpersonal communication and business communication. A few customer service seminars at work helped a lot, too. This is important: having techincal skills is good, but these days you *have* to have the people skills to be secure. I still vehemently hate cold selling and job hunting, but I have good customer service skills and work well with just about everyone.

The rest you will decide for yourself as you learn and get more experience in exactly who you are and what you want. I didn't really figure it out until quite recently. I looked at other people and couldn't find anyone whose example I wanted to follow. At 30 I kinda freaked out, quit my job and did some other odd stuff because I just didn't like where my life was going. The past 3 years I've spent recovering fina

get to work by liminality · 2004-06-12 15:09 · Score: 2, Interesting

hey dude, i used to be you, and three interdisciplinary degrees later, i still have my tendencies.

but intelligence isn't that useful if it doesn't accomplish anything. few people or places are going to pay you for the apples you pluck from the brilliance tree and toss their way. neither will half-completed projects get you much recognition. what i've learned is to stop playing "Good Will Hunting", to stop romanticizing myself and blaming human existence for its banality, and to just get down to work. you will also quickly find that people admire that more than most things. what intelligence really gives a person is the free time to persue their own interest after their work is done. that is the gift in itself.

the worst thing an intelligent person can allow themselves to do is to slide into cynicism. without a work ethic to balance it out, cynicism + intelligence = underachivement.

Try a broad field (like architecture) by digitect · 2004-06-12 15:09 · Score: 2, Interesting

Can't say I consider myself so bright any more now that I'm older, but I suggest you try a field that has a lot of width, like architecture.

That was my experience. I was lucky to get six years to complete undergrad (thanks Mom and Dad!) so I could do the four year commitment to architecture school while still taking quite a few religion, business, art and history courses. Never failed a class and graduated with nearly 200 hours. Best thing that could have happened, even though I didn't realize it at the time. (I transferred too late in my freshman year and couldn't get into Arch school until my junior year.)

And now, even though I've been in this career for a while, I still enjoy it. Architecture has a lot of different opportunities. You can develop into a designer, focusing on the art and philosophy. Or you can explore the technical side becoming a specialist in specifications, construction administration, or some particular design focus such as laboratory planning. Other opportunities include project, financial and office management, marketing and graphics, or CAD, computer and technical support. Really, there's something for everyone.

The trick is to not focus too soon. Most professions (medicine, law, accounting, architecture) have a range of skill areas. Even computer science, as specific as it is, has opportunities in marketing, usability, testing, graphics, business and project management, sales, internal technical support, and human resources--not just programming.

The downside of not focusing early is that you'll always be behind the savant who did. But if you know yourself not to be that way (as you do) don't even try to compete. I always think its funny when the working end of the screwdriver types (in my profession the designers) lament that everyone else goes home on time and has more of a life. They miss that it's a team effort, and they need the rest of us as much as we need them. (Besides the fact that such focus can sometimes lead to massive mis-direction and inefficiency. Although I will grant that it takes that type and effort to yield the once-in-a-lifetime genius work of architecture. Once. Among dozens of failures and misses.)

So be sure to shop around and keep yourself learning broadly. Force yourself to learn things you don't want to know. And remember, even though you might be known as your office's Cliff Clavin, it only takes one time for that single obscure bit of knowledge or experience to land your firm a mega contract and bump you up the ladder five rungs.

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Ignore the grumpy assholes by jburroug · 2004-06-12 15:15 · Score: 2, Interesting

They're unhappy with their lives and want everyone else to be too. Also ignore the eternal optimists, following their advice will leave you unprepared for a colder, harsher world than they describe. Above all else, ignore me I don't know what the hell I'm talking about either. Though I would also suggest reading what we all have to say and evaluating it's merit as only you can.

Ok so now I'm going to make a few statements and offer some suggestions that I expect you to ignore because even if hadn't told you to ignore me you'd do you're own thing anyway. First off you're situation isn't all that unique. There are plenty of bright young people that didn't like HS who now find themselves wondering what to do with their lives. There are also plenty of bright not-so-young-anymore people who went through the exact same thing you're going through. I count myself a member of the latter group and I imagine that a lot /. readers fit into one or another catagory as well. Don't worry, this is a good thing, if you and your circumstances were truely unique you'd have no peers to support you and no 'elders' with experience for you to draw on. So as one of your 'elders' let me offer a few suggestions for you to ignore that might be of some use.

Go to University. Not because it's good for you, or because "it will help you get a job" but because it's fun. If you love to learn as much as you claim to you'll have a blast at Uni and can diversify your education as much as you like (or until you run out of money) If you haven't already given it some thought you may want to consider majoring in business management (*disclaimer: this is what my degree is in.) If your attention span is fickle as you say you'll probably enjoy this degree. You do one or two class from each of the major areas of the business program and move on. The focus is on giving the student a working knowledge of many different areas, plus there are a lot of elective credits to play with, I took a lot CS and extra Econ courses with mine.

Don't get stuck in the paradigm of living a "normal" life. If you so chose you can abandon the concepts of "career" and "permanent residence." At 25 I'm on my third post-college job and second career-track. I've also put in one cross country move and I'm starting to think of doing another in 12-18 months. This has worked well for me because I do bore easilly and am somewhat less risk-averse than average I think. I like exploring new cities, mastering new jobs and adding to my portfolio of skills. There are downsides to being a white-collar vagabond however. It's hard to say goodbye to close friends and family, retirement accounts don't grow as fast and there are long worrying spells when you have no health insurance. Also you'll probably never make as much money as someone who choses a more staid and serious life. You'll also never be a true expert in any feild, where others aquire great depth of knowledge, you'll aquire great breadth, and may just be a lot happier for it. I'm not saying this is the way for you to live or even that it's a permanent deal for me either but it's an idea to keep in mind should you find yourself feeling bored and trapped a year or two into first "real" job outta college.

Diversify your hobbies and live outside of your head some -or- don't forget you have a body attached to that big monkey brain of yours. If you get bored of specific projects or hobbies easilly diversifying and adding some physical ones can really help. It's nice to get a break from thinky stuff on a regular basis. To break up the monotany of my day jobs and thinky hobbies I also cycle, run, hike, backpack, lift weights, brew (and drink) beer and have plans to start moonshining. These are all activities that require me to manipulate the real world or my own body, not just bits on the computer screen or words in my head.

To close I'll borrow from the great Bard himself, remember "to thine own self be true." Do whatever it is that you think will make you happy and keep doing it until your not happy with it anymore, then find something else.

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INTP by cfury · 2004-06-12 15:19 · Score: 2, Insightful

I myself am INTP, and a lot of what you said in your question applied to me when I was in school. What you really have to focus on is Work Ethics (I'm sure that's going to send shudders down a great many spines around here... :) However, what you need to do is learn to apply yourself to whatever task is at hand.

Many of the posts I've read here have been negative. But that's just BS from the 90% of the world that doesn't know what's like to see the world the way we do. Albert Einstein was an INTP, and he wasn't understood until much later in his life (and even more so after his death.)

Learn to concentrate on specific goals. Don't be afraid to tread on a few feet (as we are want to do.) College will help you grow and learn to understand different peoples and cultures, and there is stuff there you will learn. I highly recommend it. But be prepared for disappointment. It is highly goal oriented. Learn to embrace that.... but apply your own unique touch to it. It'll help you in the real world. But don't forget to think inside, upside, downside and outside the box. That's what true innovation is about anyway.

Good luck!

Chris

in the real world.... by gonzoxl5 · 2004-06-12 15:25 · Score: 2, Insightful

Unfortunately in the real world we often have to do jobs that we're not particularly interested in, what separates the successes from the failures is not how bright you are but how good your self discipline is and whether or not you can be relied upon to competently complete the task at hand (however personally uninteresting it may be).

I'd hire an experienced competent safe pair of hands over a flighty whizz kid any day of the week.

With the former I can have confidence that my project will get delivered on time and to spec, with the latter I will have to watch them like a hawk and probably end up picking up the pieces myself.

Some people are lucky enough to be able to spend their life being creative and working to the full extent of their ability, for the rest of us the best we can hope for is reasonable job satisfaction (knowing that we made a difference) and a decent pay packet.

Re:FINALS IN JUNE!?!?! by lambadomy · 2004-06-12 15:28 · Score: 2, Funny

It's called "the quarter system". All through college I had finals in June. But school never started until the end of september, sometimes even october 1st.

Good Luck Buddy... by jcenters · 2004-06-12 15:30 · Score: 4, Insightful

Hey, I've been there, I'm there, I know where you're at, so please, allow me to retort.

First thing you should know is that there is no point to life. Wanna know the difference between Ronald Reagan and the crackhead on 8th avenue? They're both worm food right now.

So, don't worry about crap like "success" that others foist upon you. What is success? It's whatever you say it is, nothing else. The only success is doing what you like until you too become worm food.

Rule two: You're not going to change the world. There's too many people that have figured out how to profit from our wicked ways to let some little smart-ass cocksucker like you change that. If your goal in life is to make a lot of money, figure out how to make the heartless crooks rich and you'll be quite comfortable. Oh, and make lots of connections, because that's where the big money comes from: Connections and pure luck.

You are a unique and beautiful snowflake. Snowflake number #3857493 to be exact.

There are two camps in this world, the camp that says "Shut the fuck up, stop whining, eat your boss's shit on toast, put your nose to the grindstone and work yourself to death, and the camp that says "Be yourself. Let your natural talents grow. Do what you enjoy doing."

Sorry kid. The world sucks. Everyone's out for number one and they don't give a fuck about you unless they get something good in return; no matter if it's your boss, your wife, your parents, or your kids. You're the same way, so you might as well accept it.

And the point of my post? There is none, just like there's no point in life. Life is like an old school video game: There's no real "finish," just see how many points you can rack up until you die. Figure out your own scoring system and rack up them points boy.

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Re:Good Luck Buddy... by SparafucileMan · 2004-06-12 16:06 · Score: 2

Hahaha. True.
I would say, there is no point, but "no point" is still a point (or: if there's "no point", then every point is a point...). Then probably start babbling about Godel and self-referrential nonsense about how something can't come from nothing...
Damn I wish more people realized that there's no fucking point...and yes, true, connections and luck account for some 90% or whatever of all success (well, whether others think you're successful).
Re:Good Luck Buddy... by jcenters · 2004-06-12 16:24 · Score: 5, Insightful

You're a smart guy Spara. That's where we're cursed.

See, what most people don't know is that smart people like us, like many on Slashdot, are cursed. Intelligence is a frigging prison.

Why? Because we think ourselves out of the white picket fence. I live in the south where most rednecks are happy working in a factory and knocking up women like it was going out of style. And they love that lifestyle and God bless em for it.

But us? We think too damn much. We think until we push ourselves outside of the Matrix(TM) , and we sit here, eating some snotty goop and thinking "Why?'

So all you dumbasses out there, you know, those that could never fabricate a circuit board, never write a line of Perl, or tell the difference between Everclear and a nice Amarone: Consider yourselves lucky. You live nice, happy, simple lives. Fulfilling lives. You feel good when you die.

Us, the "smart" ones, on the other hand, live like savage refugees. We ask too many damn questions and pay the price for trying to pick the brain of God.

Oh, and before I go too off-topic: In Soviet Russia, Natalie Portman's hot grits outsmart YOU, All your Base are belong to step 3, Bill Gates is the sux0r.

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Re:Good Luck Buddy... by Aczlan · 2004-06-12 17:06 · Score: 2, Insightful

"Just because someone doesn't know anything and everything about computers and networks doesn't make them an idiot, it just means that they actually have a life. You oughta give it a try, although it's probably too late."

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"Democracy is two wolves and a lamb voting on what to have for lunch. Liberty is a well-armed lamb contesting the vote
Re:Good Luck Buddy... by Tripster · 2004-06-12 18:27 · Score: 5, Insightful

Ok you two, you've now figured out the truth and will have to be taken out. :-)

I've pretty much concluded the same thing, life is actually pointless in that it is only a temporary thing anyway. As it sits we could be wiped out of existence tomorrow in many ways, at which point everything we've ever been is gone and was entirely meaningless.

So, do what you enjoy doing, it will all be over quicker than you'd like anyway more than likely, I don't imagine too many folks are ready for death once it comes, although I expect they don't realize that after they are gone either.

You only get one ride, enjoy it while you can because it's gonna be dark a long time afterwards. Life is basically a vacation from death some author once said.
Re:Good Luck Buddy... by dankjones · 2004-06-12 20:58 · Score: 2, Insightful

Your weakness is that you underestimate people too easily.

You are unhappy because you've just recently realized that alot of the world sucks, but have yet to realize just how lucky you are, learn to give a crap about people other than yourself or become aware of any worlds outside of your own tiny little reality.

Most people are smarter than YOU think.
Re:Good Luck Buddy... by sylvester · 2004-06-12 23:12 · Score: 5, Insightful

So all you dumbasses out there, you know, those that could never fabricate a circuit board, never write a line of Perl, or tell the difference between Everclear and a nice Amarone: Consider yourselves lucky. You live nice, happy, simple lives. Fulfilling lives. You feel good when you die.

I see all the issues that you see. I feel bad when I don't buy my products carefully. I have what I have come to term "Affluent White Male Guilt." That makes me sound like a whinging middle-ager with a potbelly. I'm not.

Lately, I've been thinking about ambition and ego. And I realized that some of this guilt that I have, and I'd guess you share, about not doing enough is because we can do so much. I'm comfortable in social situations, get along well with people, intelligent with computers. Those are my traits. But the rest is luck: I'm in the luckiest 100th of a percent in the world in terms of where I was born, when I was born, how I was raised. Wealthy enough to go to school, not so wealthy to be shielded by it. I've traveled, etc.

All of this sounds like a giant ego trip, and to some extent it is, but the point is this: I think that those of us who, like me, are just that lucky, share a certain guilt. This is the guilt of being lucky, and knowing it, and knowing that you don't do enough with it.

And I believe that is the curse that you speak of. It's not intelligence, but intelligence is part of the luck.

-Rob, taking it one step further.

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Re:Good Luck Buddy... by delcielo · 2004-06-13 01:04 · Score: 2, Informative

Do be careful not to polarize the world. It's not populated with only dumbasses and geniuses.

There are indeed aimless hordes of people who don't have the ambition you will; but even they will tend to be aware of the fact on some level. The difference is that they are able to resign themselves to it, whereas you and I are not. Sometimes, for brief moments, I wish I could too.

But we need to be careful of condescending to them. Our higher intelligence gives us no special right to rudeness, or greater consideration from society. If there is a lesson in life that we could learn from them, it's that you only deserve what you work for. All men are created equal. The gene pool entitles you to nothing.

Be a smart guy. Fulfill your potential to the greatest extent possible. But don't despise the rest of society. The thing you find after time is that the average Joe isn't quite as shallow as you might have thought, and that the average "smart guy" isn't as deep.

As you get older, being more intelligent than those around you becomes a little less painful. Both you and your age-peers begin to realize that it means less and less in terms of how you treat each other.

Cheers.

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Focus, Grasshoper by ta0 · 2004-06-12 15:39 · Score: 2, Interesting

Your will must overcome your wandering intellect.

Pick a goal, and move towards it. You may lose interest in the details along the way, but keep in mind your ultimate goal, and use that as motivation to re-focus on the details.

Without a focus, you will be at the mercy of your mind. Instead, endeavor to use your intellect as a tool to move yourself along.

"It is by will alone I set my mind in motion." -Frank Herbert's DUNE

Be flexible by johnlcallaway · 2004-06-12 15:39 · Score: 2, Insightful

I didn't go to college, yet my yearly income puts me into the upper middle-class range. My personal opinion is that formal college degrees are a waste of time for people that are smart and are willing to work hard. (Although I think technical colleges are vastly underrated and that for some careers, like medicine, college is unavoidable.) I go to where I am today by working hard, learning how to discuss, accept and support decisions made by others even when I disagree with them.

Remember that no one is indespensible no matter how good you are or how much you know. Now that you know that, be prepared to take on any task your boss asks. I remember licking envelopes when I was a programmer back in the 80s because the bank needed it done.

Second off, whatever you do, do it the best you can. A few years ago, I was loaned out as a consultant to a partner company for some vague technical skills task, but when I got there I found out all they needed was someone to sit in meetings and take minutes and publish them. Some people might have felt that it was beneath them. But if they were willing to pay my company $100/hour for my taking minutes, they were going to be the best damned minutes anyone had ever seen. After awhile, because I offered up opinions during meetings, people mentioned that I was over-qualified. But then I mentioned the above comment about the best damned minutes, and they were absolutley grateful that I was doing the task I was because the needed it done, and they were the best damned meeting minutes anyone had done. They repeatedly told my company's CIO and CEO what a great employee I was. Was I sucking up?? Maybe. But I got paid the same regardless. It was only for 3 months, and it was the most stress-free 3 months in my entire career. Besides, those CIOs and CEOs are the ones that decide who stays and goes during layoffs.

Thirdly, don't let them take advantage of you and be honest if they try. I've been through the 80 hour work weeks and was very honest with my boss about how long I was willing to do so. He pushed it, and I pushed back, albiet very lightly. I eventually left, but it was very cordial and he called me back from time to time to ask if I needed a job. That was very handy when I was laid off several years later.

Fourth, don't whine. If something is broke, offer up the problem and a solution to whoever is in charge. It's one thing to go to your manager and whine about the project being late, it's another to point out why it is going to be late, and what needs to be done to correct it. Whiners get ignored and become a pain in the arse.

Lastly, when opportunities present themselves to advance, grab them even if it means shifting careers. I started out as an office clerk, but jumped at a computer operator position, then started learning COBOL for my next jump. In my current job, I am the go-to guy when no one else can fix a problem because over the last 25 years I kept current with programing languages, took sys admin, network admin, telecom admin and database admin responsibilities in different systems and learned them all. Now, I can get all these folks into a room whenever there is a finger-pointing problem and keep them there until the problem is fixed. That is very valuable; I am known around the company as the guy you can't BS and my CEO knows that not only am I the guy to get things fixed, I am also the one who can do the work if needed no matter where the problem is. Guess who will not get laid off the next round.

Should you go to college?? If you want to, go. If you want to go into debt up to your eyeballs go ahead. There's nothing wrong with that and it might help you get a great job in 4 years. But if you are as bright as you think you are then get an entry position anywhere that offers tuition reimbursement and be the best warehouse/factory/secretary or whatever you can be. Take all the night courses you can on their dime, then watch the internal job postings and apply for anything you might be qualified for that improves your sal

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You need to make up your mind first. by jelle · 2004-06-12 15:43 · Score: 2, Insightful

It looks to me like you first need to do some soul searching into who you really are and what you really want to do in life. Example:

First you say "I'm incredibly intense and concentrated, yet I often become bored of specific projects in a few months." but later you say "My attention span is practically unlimited when I am interested in a topic, and I get intensely interested in it."

And you say you love to learn, and people tell you you should be getting very good grades at school, but you don't. Do you want to learn or not? (and how/where?).

You need to make up your mind. That means doing two things: making a choice and then setting a goal. Stop waiting what the day brings you, but take the day to where you want it to go. Take charge of your own life.

You seem interested in many things, but keep getting worried that you're missing something better if you stick with it, hence the feeling of boredom sets in. Independent of whether you actually do have attention problems and can't stick with something, or possibly you do have a practically unlimited attention span (but you are still not sure what for) what you need to do is look farther into the future and set an ambitious goal. Imagine yourself 10 years from now, and what it would take for you to see yourself being happy and successful. I'm saying you and yourself and I mean it, don't go for the bland 'commonly accepted definitions' of happyness and success, but what really is it that makes you happy and what would you consider a success when you look at yourself 10 years from now. For some people that means having a family of your own (loving wife & kids), for others a particular career (money, respect, power), for others a particular social position in society (love, respect, power), and for some it is linked to a geographical place, or other people, or a particular surrounding, also religion may be a factor, etc.

It can help to add the 10 years to your age and search for people in that age group that can (partly) serve as a role model or guide. Your personal role models don't have to be alive, or currently in the target age group, but it can be very helpful to research 'what did eeeee do when he/she was that age'.

When you know where and what you want to be in the future, that will tell you exactly what steps to take now and will help you make all those smaller choices needed to get there.

Just my 2cts worth...

Myself I feel like I'm just in the process of achieving current long-term goals and I must say that I am happy and feel successful, and now I am searching for a new goal. I am confident I will have a much clearer picture of it by the end of this year, and for you: I hope you do too.

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Best advice for college... by Dave21212 · 2004-06-12 15:44 · Score: 2, Interesting

From a fellow INTP, been there, done that...

I've had the best success when I approached a class a a 'new game' rather than an opportunity to learn. If you think that college is a citadel of learning, you are in for a big reality check. I have a pal who holds several degrees (BS, MS, going for the MBA) and he put it best, "Professors are not there to teach you. They are there to give you a grade. And I mean 'give you' the grade they feel you deserve."

They are people just like you and I, no more and no less. Imagine yourself as a professor for a moment.

Ok, so it's a game. The object of the game is to get a professor to give you a good grade. Learn who they are, how they operate, what they expect, and do some work.

My favorite example is a Socio-cultural Anthropology class I took (requirement filler). The prof. was about as PC as they get. We had two texts and an autobiography to read. I managed a B without opening any of them (just to see if I could do it I think.) I just answered the insanely easy multiple-guess exams in the most PC way I could. I hit it right on the head, that's what she wanted us to "learn" - the PC crap, not any real anthropology methodology (hint: we had movies to watch ever other week, that was a dead givaway we were not going to 'learn' anything).

Anyway, enough of my ramblings... remember, college is a big new game to you. One that you haven't learned the rules to yet, that you haven't mastered yet, that's rather difficult and many people can't master. It's the grade game ultimately, with a side bet on if you manage to make a few close friends there and learn a bit from it as you go. Go win it if you think you can ;)

p.s. I'm a hotshot developer with a good job I enjoy, and I almost finished my BS (got enticed by the boom, or more precisely, the money that was available back in the 90's). I may still get that degree yet !

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"Whoever would overthrow the liberty of a nation must begin by subduing the freeness of speech."--Benjamin Franklin

Take oddball courses and challenge your self-image by tentimestwenty · 2004-06-12 15:57 · Score: 2, Insightful

You're probably going to hate college/university if you've hated school up to this point. Most people/programs at the collegiate level are pretty dumb and focus strongly on learning by rote, passing tests and writing cookie-cutter essays. If you really are bright you won't be challenged by 99% of the courses offered- best just to read some books. If you're intent on going (and you pretty much have to unless you're also a good entrepreneur) my advice is to first take courses that you wouldn't rationally want to take. Take drama, science of sound, taxidermy or whatever you can that has a twist to it. You're likely to find similarly bright people in these courses. Some of them will be plain geniuses in a variety of weird ways. I took visual art which is really one of the only explorative disciplines. I was lucky to have some exceptionally gifted teachers and our program was heavily philosophically based. In short, it was a bunch of crazy creative geniuses who were all learning about "meta" things. It was probably the only thing that saved me from complete despair after high school. The people I met were challenging and intense and the environment was rich for arbitrary boundary definitions. The courses at times were mind-blowing, but in the best way, there was always something coming next that was better, and always different.

As others have pointed out, this kind of nurturing and challenging environment goes a long way to "getting over yourself" and onto the path of doing something worthwhile with your brightness. In the end, if you believe you're bright you have to test your character by doing something great, failing repeatedly, and finally finding your true path. Unless you stick yourself in the midst of people at least as bright as you (and why not go for the cream of the crop?) you will forever hold yourself in some false and paralysing image.

Many types of skill by daviddennis · 2004-06-12 15:59 · Score: 5, Insightful

I think a high percentage of the people here are pretty smart, because Slashdot really doesn't have much for people who are not. That being said, since we're debater-types, we tend to be a little mean-spirited. I apologise on behalf of my fellow Slashdot users for the insulting tone of many of these messages.

The fellow who edited your comment mentioned that you were probably an INTP. This is true; so am I. This means that you are devoted to finding logical solutions to problems, and are dreamy and absent-minded if you're not involved in something that interests you. This would seem to fit your educational profile to a "T".

About 1% of the population are INTPs. Since they're logical and like designing things, they tend to gravitate towards computing as a career, so you see a very high percentage of them here.

Perhaps the most revealing thing about the Meyers-Briggs type indicator, which is where these strange four-letter acronyms come from, is that people are very different, and many of the differences can be described by a simple formula. I've found that even with very complex people, the Meyers-Briggs attributes make it easier to deal with them and understand at least parts of how their minds work.

A good example of how people think is based on logic. When I was younger, I thought logic was the be-all and end-all, and that it was simply impossible to make sense of contradictions. Now I understand that there are people who don't care about contradition; they just care about getting work done and if this means doing things that are not strictly logical, well, that's what will be done and that's what they need. This is very important to understand when programming systems such as reports which may have seemingly contradictory attributes. A pure INTP would simply say its not possible to do them. An INTP with some seasoning and social understanding will try very hard to untangle the contradictions and find a solution that works.

Many times the best type of person for you is someone very different from you. People who use feelings to make decisions, for example, are capable of deep love and can make wonderful relationships. People who are strictly logical wind up looking cold and characterless, both to that type of person and to each other. So if you check out the Meyers-Briggs and use it to classify people, don't forget the feelers. They may bring some much-needed passion into your life.

Now, it's worth noting that types are not the be-all and end-all. They don't describe everything about a person. I have dated a couple of INFJs, and they've always been special to me. It's clear to me that I have a real affinity to that type of person. But both of them were very different and distinct people, despite having similar basic personalities. The one I'm involved with now is a wonderful creative artist who has brought much joy into my life.

I've used these four-letter acronyms so much I feel like i should explain the MBTI a little. Full knowledge of it takes whole books, but at the root, it's simple. There are four different attributes that define a personality in the MBTI:

Introvert/Extrovert (I/E). Are you energised by being with other people, or by being alone?

iNtuitive/Sending (N/S). Do you concentrate on things as they are (sensing) or as they should be (Intuition)? Do you think of things as concrete facts (Sensing) or Principles (Ntuitive)? As an iNtuitive person, I get along much better with my fellow dreamers than with those bores who are sunk in drab reality.

Thinking/Feeling (T/F). Do you make decisions based on objective fact (Thinking) or by the effects they have on others (Feeling)? Most people in the computer field are thinkers. A large percentage of women are feelers. This is why computing is such a male-dominated field, and why computer people tend not to have a good understanding of the opposite sex.

Perceiving/Judging. Do you have a clean desk (Judging) or a messy desk (Perceiving)? Do you pre

Re:Many types of skill by xnixman · 2004-06-12 17:01 · Score: 2, Funny

In case you didn't read all of this crap he said, "I'm gay, I read too many self-help books, and I wish I worked in HR."

Dan
Re:Many types of skill by dbullock · 2004-06-12 17:23 · Score: 5, Insightful

Slashdot is not just for those who are pretty smart. It's primarily for those who want to bathe in the group meme, patting each other on the back repeating the same tired chestnuts.

I read slashdot with my filters cranked up high only because they do a decent job collecting often interesting news. The comments with exception of a small few are usually pretty worthless retreads.

Slashdot is for the most part, the ultimate pickmeup for the members of the herd when the individual members feel insecure, and need a pickmeup that's only a few clicks away.

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My best suggestion... by UserChrisCanter4 · 2004-06-12 16:14 · Score: 4, Insightful

Is two-fold.

1) As some others have pointed out, you're basically a kid (although possibly legal) who graduated from high school. Bright though you may claim to be, you haven't really demonstrated anything in terms of practical intelligence. Get off the high horse and prepare for step two.

2) Sit down with your folks and talk this through with them. Spend a year living on your own in the real world. Trust me, it's only gonna take a year. Move out, get an apartment, pay some bills, get a credit card and learn to use it correctly (or better still, royally screw up and be thankful that you're only 18). You don't have to go all out and get a car loan (if you can avoid it, because it's going to keep you tied into this lifestyle, so try to get a car from the folks), but avoid living at home during this experiment at all costs.

Try to obtain and hold down two or three of the following jobs during the year: Retail Sales/clerk, some sort of receptionist/secretarial/clerical work, car sales or some similar "high stakes" sales job, or some sort of construction or low end mechanic work (a jiffy lube or similar). These are the sorts of jobs that a person without a degree can work in and, to a point, actually sustain themselves. While you can hear stories all day long about guys who have sys-admin jobs with no degree to back them up, the fact is that those days are pretty much gone, and there's enough guys out there with a CS degree who will work the same job that it'll keep you at "Mel's Used Cars" indefinitely. The up-side to these jobs is you'll learn some cool stuff that will have a practical application in your life later on. You can pick up some good info on how car dealerships work, and how to keep from getting scammed. You can play retail from the other side of the counter, and chances are that you'll be kinder to retail clerks for the rest of your life. Knowing basic construction skills will save you huge amounts further down the road when you own a house and don't have to pay somebody $1,000 to hang some sheetrock in that room over the garage you want to turn into a LAN lair.

In about 4 months it's going to dawn on you that things like the basic food in your house cost a fair chunk of cash, that car insurance is ludicrously expensive, that landlords aren't always the best people but work well with give-and-take situations, and that living with a roomie isn't always the hilarious life sit-coms make it out to be. You're going to start to realize the amount of money it would take to live and be self-sufficient, and the amount of money it will take to do anything other than "tread water". When you hit December or so, apply to the university or community college of your choice, because come May you're going to be sick of this "real world" crap, but more importantly, you're going to realize that although 50% of college is bullshit classes and random facts that you'll never need to know (I can tell you that the word 'file' came into the English language through middle French, and is named for the thin string originally used to organize 'files' in a cabinet), but part of the point is proving to an employer that you can slog through bullshit. People will change careers, on average, five times in their life. Get a degree in a subject you enjoy, even if it's History or English, and try to study some interesting subjects in your electives. Your first job may not be exciting or pay mad Benjamins, but by this point you'll have already figured out that work isn't fun time. It shouldn't be crap, mind you, and with luck you'll also have learned how to spot crap employers, but you'll be a little more understanding of how life actually works, and you'll realize that work isn't supposed to be demoralizing, but it isn't usually fun either.

When you get a real job, one where you have weekends and two weeks of vacation, you'll have time to pursue your weird side interests and linux and tinkering and everything else you adore. Not oodles, no, but it'll be there. Try to keep yourself reaso

Re:My best suggestion... by Leebert · 2004-06-12 19:43 · Score: 2, Insightful

Try to obtain and hold down two or three of the following jobs during the year: Retail Sales/clerk, some sort of receptionist/secretarial/clerical work, car sales or some similar "high stakes" sales job, or some sort of construction or low end mechanic work (a jiffy lube or similar).

I can't agree with this more. I spent a year in construction prior to my current job. I had quit my previous job to take a new job. Unfortunately, my new job was contingent on me passing a criminal background check, which I did not. (Long story ;) ) A friend offered me a job hauling around drywall supplies to job sites. I considered it so beneath me, but I always believed that an able-bodied man had no excuse not to work, so I took the job.

Several weeks into the job, I met a finisher named Carl. Carl had a masters in EE. Carl found his old job too stressful and bothersome. He quit his old job and started finishing drywall. He made more money doing that ($xxx,xxx), and he was in a quiet, stree-free job. Carl spent a good bit of time helping me with some Calc II problems I had.

After meeting Carl, I started to look more closely at the folks I was working with. I began to realize that just because a guy was wearing muddy boots, it was not necessarily an indication that he was an uninteligent person who didn't go to college. No, many of these folks had degrees, were intelligent, made more money than my then-dot-com friends, worked reasonable hours, and immensely enjoyed their jobs. I realized what an arrogant snob I had been. I realized what a high degree of prejudice I was exibiting. Wow, what an eye-opener.

I started to realize how much I was enjoying the job. I drove around a truck all day listening to the radio (NPR, C-SPAN, and whatnot), enjoying the outdoors, and getting excercise. Lifting drywall isn't easy, but it's good for you physically.

When I watched Office Space a few years later, I identified with Peter at the end very well. It was nice to get out of the office for a little while. I gained some skills that I can use in life. And I gained substantial life lessons from the experience. These days I work in high performance computing at NASA, which is a stark contrast. But even there I apply a lot of the life lessons I learned driving the drywall truck.

And... by Anonymous Coward · 2004-06-12 16:16 · Score: 3, Funny

``we quite often see those who think of it as an intellectual penis-extending exercise fall by the wayside''

and those were just the women!

Like Tyler Durden Says... by bcs_metacon.ca · 2004-06-12 16:16 · Score: 3, Insightful

"You are not your job. You're not how much money you have in the bank. You're not the car you drive. You're not the contents of your wallet. You're not your fuckin' khakis. You are the all-singing, all-dancing crap of the world." ...as you grow older, you'll realize you're not special, you're just smart, like a lot of other people. And you'll meet people a heck of a lot smarter than you. Smarts is not as important as wisdom, and neither is as important as a sense of perspective.

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How appropriate. You fight like a cow.

Been there, done that, here's my exp by MotorMachineMercenar · 2004-06-12 16:22 · Score: 3, Informative

Your description of yourself is right on spot: that's what I am, too. And I'm INTP, as well. I'm currently 29 and will go to grad school in the fall. And I sounded a lot like you when I was your age. And what I've heard from friends I've gotten a lot better over time. This is mostly due to input from friends, often highly critical in no uncertain terms ("you soulless fuck") and objective self-evaluation of my strengths and weaknesses.

I know it's hard to change when you think you are The greatest in the world. But when you see and realize YOUR life will be much better when you don't act like an asshole all the time and pick your fights (verbal and physical) you'll become an even better person. I still don't possess "empathy," but I can consciously avoid hurting other people's feelings. This is especially important with point #2 below.

Here's my experiences:

1. Don't let people know how bright you are. No, really. They don't want to hear it for various reasons. It will only alienate/intimidate/annoy them and might actually cost you some very good potential friends.

2. Cherish friendships, girlfriends and other relationships. In the end the world is a very lonely place if you're out there alone with your brightness. Seriously, if you already have good friends, keep in touch with them and TAKE TIME TO ACTUALLY BE A GOOD FRIEND. If not, join a martial arts club, debate team, whatever rocks your boat. There are very good people out there. They are not necessarily as bright as you are but that doesn't mean they will not be valuable, good friends for you.

3. Find something you really, reallllly like and try to turn that into a career. If you pick a major that slightly interests you you will get bored to death real fast. Imagine how it'll be when you graduate and you actually have to earn a living doing that same shit. It doesn't work.

4. Since you've probably picked up your school it might be late, but get to a school that makes you study. That means either a very expensive, top-tier highly competitive private school or a military college. Otherwise you'll end up partying and blowing your parents money off for four years with nothing to show for it. I went to a military college myself and graduated on Dean's List. Now I'm going to a "regular" grad school (although it's the best one in Europe in my discipline) so I'm pretty worried whether I can focus myself with all the girls and booze out there.

5. I don't know if you are on a high horse, but if you are, get off it. No one likes an arrogant prick. People detest arrogant and intelligent pricks even more. Your life will be much more fun, easier and interesting if you treat other people with respect regardless of their mental or physical capabilities. Also refers back to point 2.

I hope that answers some of your questions. Life can be really hard for people like us because there just isn't enough interesting stuff to do and the world is full of stupid people. But I feel the above five points should get you ahead to a good start in an interesting adult life.

In the end, listen to your own feelings. Feelings means how you feel, it's a tough concept (at leat for me), but you'll get better over time. Also, make concious effort to gauge how other people feel about others and especially you. If you hurt your friend's/loved one's/etc. feelings, acknowledge that out loud to them at the spot and apologize or make it up. Most people "out there" care a lot about that kind of crap. About emotions and stuff like that. But when you realize that you have the power to make other people feel as good as you feel about yourself, it will come back to you in a good way, with interest.

Also, observe your own behavior and how you react to different situations or people objectively. This way you can adjust your behavior to within norms if that is necessary. This is to make your life easier and to not make you stand out like a sore thumb from the grey masses. Pick the times when you stand out. And strive to stand out in posit

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well... by dayhox · 2004-06-12 16:29 · Score: 2, Insightful

After having had a word with my old boss, a retird Lt. Col U.S.A.F, regarding my wanting to take a break from college, he said earnestly "You know, the biggest mistake intelligent people make is their belief that the rules don't apply to them." I didn't listen to him then, and after 6 years, am still on the break.

Philosophy! by lux55 · 2004-06-12 16:40 · Score: 3, Insightful

There's so much to learn out there, much of which is unfortunately not accessible via the modern university (at least not the main paths through it), that would both provide a good mental challenge for you, as well as help channel your intellectual gifts into positive outlets.

The classics and the medievals especially, btw. While the moderns are important, I'd argue that that's so because we need to figure out where we went wrong in order to right ourselves. The classics, on the other hand, and the medieval philosophers especially, had such a huge emphasis on method, which is so critical to making any progress at all (methods beyond the impirical scientific method).

The empirical evidence to the importance of philosophy, in case you're skeptical of it, is that most of the great scientific and mathematical minds throughout history considered themselves philosophers, not scientists, and considered the two inseperable. The major artists too, you'll find, also considered themselves not artists but philosophers.

PS. Philosophy is Greek for "Lover of Learning" or "Lover of Wisdom". Can't top that if your hunger for learning really is insatiable. ;)

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You are screwed by veritron · 2004-06-12 17:43 · Score: 3, Interesting

There are many of us here who are exactly the same way.

The big problem that you'll face is that there are many, many smart people. 50% of the population's going to be "above average" in intelligence, after all. Employers would rather have a stupid person who actually gets stuff done rather than a smart person who doesn't - and worse still, they don't have to choose. There a lot of smart people who can actually sit down and force themselves to do unpleasant, boring tasks - just about everyone with a phD has had to deal with incredible tedium, especially people with phD's in the sciences.

Since you're going into college, I'd suggest staying the hell away from an engineering major, or any major that has right answers - your only prayer is the liberal arts. You're probably going to have a difficult time with college if only because you're undisciplined, and college has very little inherent structure. Since it's possible to not go to classes without any short-term consequences, and you're a very short-term kind of person, you could flunk out your first semester. Be careful.

Best case scenario, you'll probably end up working for yourself. You're the worst kind of employee, the biggest pain in the ass - you're too smart for menial work so that'll get done half-assed, and you'll get bored of whatever work you're given very, very quickly, but if you're given a really creative-type job with a lot of lattitude, you'll probably end up doing nothing and failing miserably.

Re:You are screwed by ediron2 · 2004-06-12 20:14 · Score: 2, Interesting
Screwed?!! Whoa, talk about bitter and overgeneralizing... Is that you, Dr. Laura?!
My take:
- Most importantly, recognize that you Work to Live, not Live to Work. Do whatever job seems damn lucrative and vaguely interesting at the time. Ideally, pick a field that lets you adjust course every couple years to change the flavor of work you're doing. Adjust your resume and start looking when the stuff you're doing gets stale. And try to get 2 years per job minimum. Meanwhile, GET ENOUGH OF A LIFE TO WHERE WORK IS NOT THE FOCUS OF IT.
- Acquire some people skills. Lacking the dedication to be a guru with 25 years experience, you'll want to at least play nice with others and avoid friction. Learn to diplomatically accept unpleasant tasks, support others, and be an asset for work that way. If possible, learn that 'they call it work because it's unpleasant, otherwise they'd call it *fun*'.
- It sometimes is a huge PITA, but there are non-work dividends to having enough social skills to maintain relationships (unlike many proverbial nerds): if works sucks and you've got a wife and kids, at least there's someone to take your mind off stuff 16 hours a day.
- 50% of people are above average? Heh, it's more like 70% of the people, thanks to grade inflation.
- That said, I deeply identify with your self-description. I am regularly called the 'smartest' person they know by lots of folks. If you imagine a bell curve, 'above average' can also be construed to be the 10-20% of people that are NOT in the middle of the curve. I'd use that definition, rather than the parent poster's.
- So, I'm almost 40. I took over a decade for college, including grad school. I changed majors slightly, flunked lots of courses, retook them and others until I got the 3.0 GPA I felt was a critical minimum. I made the dean's list once in college, and from junior-high on, my GPA would embarass most folks. That said, I've rarely met anyone who could outdo me on standard tests, from SAT, ACT, etc. to the GRE's. I'm well-adjusted, happily married with kids, have been tweaking computers since I was 12, and have migrated from computer programmer to admin, to tech lead to programmer to information security consultant. I've also done chip design, electrical engineering, civil engineering, environmental engineering, field Civil/Arch/Struc engineering, surveying, carpentry, in small doses. Meanwhile, my hobbies have migrated thru games, small businesses I've started, writing, music, homebrewing, botany, cooking, bartending, booking performers and bands, old-home restoration, and so much more. My job now is for a small consultancy, so I tend to go from start to finish with a client in 2 to 14 months, which is plenty of time to get deep exposure and even bored, but never more than I can endure. Oh, and I do a handful of charitable websites. Variety is the spice of life, pal. If you're the same cog in the same massive bureaucracy for too long, find a different job until things bounce around enough to be interesting.
- If I had it all to do over again, I'd either fast-track thru an engineering degree and focus on a field that would let me get a PE, become a partner, and retire relatively early. Or I'd be a plumber or a chef. The jobs are both somewhat redundant but the pay is decent, the work is universally needed, and people are glad to see you. Third choice is to pick a career that'd give me enough long-term job security to let me comfortably fade to half-time status early on, like investment advisor, insurance broker, real estate salesman, or attorney. Some job where a fair share of people tend to marry themselves to a damn good agent and stick with them forever, guaranteeing your job. Some careers do have a shield against ageism.
- Avoid working for yourself, if you get bored easily and tend to not follow thru. People in business for themselves generally get there through doggedness. Being too smart is almost a bad thing for this sort of work. Just as you get efficient,

TENACITY! by Grendel+Drago · 2004-06-12 17:55 · Score: 4, Funny

this "stick-to-it-ness"...

TENACITY! It's called tenacity! I swear, the next grade-school teacher who I hear use the word "stick-to-it-ive-ness" is getting a swift and painful English lesson.

Seriously! It's a syllable shorter! Let's do a comparison! (In list form, because Slashdot's support for preformatted text is bad.)

Is it a real word?
- Tenacity: Yes, and a good one as well!
- Sticktoitiveness: No, and it never will be.
How many syllables does it have?
- Tenacity: Four. Rolls right off the tongue.
- Sticktoitiveness: Five. It's an ungainly hippo-in-a-tutu of a word.
Does it make you sound like a Special Ed teacher when you use it?
- Tenacity: Not in the least.
- Sticktoitiveness: Yes, if not straight-up retarded.

Stamp out sticktoitiveness wherever you see it. It's the red-headed stepchild of the English language. ...

This has gotten really, really offtopic. I have a pet peeve; this was a point onto which I could latch. I don't really have an issue with you, just with the word.

--grendel drago

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Some more advice by ArsSineArtificio · 2004-06-12 18:21 · Score: 3, Insightful

And the point of my post? There is none, just like there's no point in life. Life is like an old school video game: There's no real "finish," just see how many points you can rack up until you die.

Rule Three: get religion, or you'll end up a bitter, twisted weirdo like this guy.

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The path to ? by AftanGustur · 2004-06-12 19:41 · Score: 4, Interesting

I couldn't take college and dropped out because of my arrogance, similar as yours.

Maybe you were arrogant, maybe not. There are a lot of smart people who don't fit into the traditional understanding of "intelligent", "smart" and "clever".

Robert Sternberg is a psycologist whose life project is to show that there are multiple types of "intelligence" and current "intelligence tests" only measure one or two of them.

When we look at the life of people such as Tomas Edison for example, who dropped out of school and was then fired from work for being "too clever" (he created a auto-responder to a morse signal that was supposed to verify if he was awake) it becomes obvious that the school system is not suited for educating some of the smartest people that have lived.

I belive Sternberg is righ, I belive there are very intelligent young people who are being labelled "arrogant" and a lot of other negative names because they are not "connecting" with the "system" as they "should be".

So what is the right way for such people ? Follow your instinct.. It will be hard, it will be difficult and there will be ups and downs but at least you have a chance to be *yourself*

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Re:The path to ? by DerekLyons · 2004-06-13 20:07 · Score: 2, Interesting

When we look at the life of people such as Tomas Edison for example, who dropped out of school and was then fired from work for being "too clever" (he created a auto-responder to a morse signal that was supposed to verify if he was awake) it becomes obvious that the school system is not suited for educating some of the smartest people that have lived.
The problem is, your thesis is not proved by your exposition. Thomas Edison wasn't in fact very smart, nor did he have many original ideas. What he was however was extraordinarily persistent, thorough, and exacting. The odd fact is, when we look at lives of the folks we consider brilliant, we often find more evidence for those qualities than for sheer raw intelligence.

Asperberg's? by richardtallent · 2004-06-12 19:46 · Score: 2, Informative

Beyond normal INTP, there is a chance that you (and some other posters here) have undiagnosed Asperger's Syndrome. I didn't know until less than a year ago, and I'm 28 now. Fortunately I've coped well over the years and adjusted for the rough stuff (social cues, facial recognition, pushing myself through college, etc.), but it's still a conscious struggle.

On the good side, though, I enjoy above-average intelligence, a voracious appetite for learning (at least learning about the stuff I'm interested in at the time), and a great memory for numbers and oddball facts (counterbalanced by a terrible memory for nearly everything else).

Not to fear: Asperger's, like its cousins Autism and possible Schizophrenia, it a "continuum" disorder: some people have it bad, others have it just enough for diagnosis but not enough to greatly affect their lives. It's often mis-diagnosed as ADD, ADHD, or just plain smartass.

Google for it and read up. There was an article in Wired recently that made the statistical tie from technies to Aspies, for instance. If you have it bad enough, you may be able to receive some accomodation from your university, but even if not, understanding the potential issues can help you make a conscious effort to work around inside your rewired brain to achieve your goals.

Re:Go to a college that won't just rubber-stamp yo by dubl-u · 2004-06-12 20:27 · Score: 2, Insightful

you don't have to take stupid, boring, and irrelevant to your interests classes

I'm sure there must be people whose interests at 18 are perfectly tuned to match what they'll need to know over the next 30-50 years. But I don't think I've ever met one.

When I was just starting college, I didn't take much in the way of advice, so I'm not sure it will do any good to offer it. But just in case, here's my take:

I would have been better off in college had I done the exact opposite of my instincts on a regular basis. Instead of following my muse all the time, I would have come out better had I picked one thing and stuck with it, come hell or high water. But because I could get away with hop-scotching across the departments, I reinforced the same bad habits that I had developed in high school, the same bad habits that many bright kids develop. And I avoided learning a lot of things that would have served me well later.

One tip I can offer is that you should work assiduously at knowing and challenging yourself. Through careful observation and experimentation, learn exactly why and how some things are hard for you, and some easy. Then constantly push those limits. Focus especially on cutting through your own bullshit; smart people are often incredibly good at fooling themselves.

The other is to do nothing half-assedly. Before you commit to college, figure out exactly what it will take for you personally to come through it with flying colors. Then when you commit, really commit. Or if you aren't sure you can do it, then find some easier stepping stone (like a 1-year program, an apprenticeship, or even a single college class) and learn how to play and win that game before proceeding to the big leagues.

Another way to develop the character necessary to tackle college is to try getting by without it. As soon as you're done with high school, get a job and move out of your mom's house. You will soon discover that what matters is not your raw talent, but what you manage to accomplish with it.

None of this should dissuade anybody from nurturing their muse; their are more important things in life than churning out widgets. But I know a lot of bright people who did fuck-all with their talents, doing nothing but dreaming their lives away.

Fuck a lot by Anonymous Coward · 2004-06-12 21:13 · Score: 2, Insightful

I would like to add: fuck a lot, while you're still young and in some kind of shape. It doesn't hurt to stay in shape, either.

There's nothing but head injury, cancer, stimulant use or the psychosis of religion that can keep you getting more functionally intelligent by the hour, but time'll also get you out of shape in a snap if you don't pay attention.

It's a pain to get back up, after that has happened.

Some advice from someone not much older... by DavidD_CA · 2004-06-12 22:12 · Score: 2, Insightful

There seems to be a lot of people putting their commentary down, but few people actually setting that aside to answer your questions.

I'll tell you a few things that I've found helpful to myself, and why, and let you choose what works best for you. After all, everyone is different.

Someone else here mentioned the book "How to win friends and influence people". I'd like to suggest going one further and actually taking the 12-week Dale Carnegie class that uses that book. It's once a week, 3 hours, 12 weeks total, and will bring you out of your introvert shell like nothing else will. I needed it, I went, and boy did it really change my life. Not to mention you'll make 10-15 friends from the class that you'll really bond with.

Second, I suggest you look into your local city's Leadership program. Typically, the Leadership program is a one-year course where you sign up and become part of a group that meets once monthly. You are given all sorts of really facinating information about where you live, taken on tours, meet people, etc. You'll learn about the economics of the city, politics, agriculture, police/fire, education, industry, whatever. You will also typically put together some kind of philanthropic project to help your city. And, you'll meet tons of really important people who can help you out.

Third, I recommend you get the stupid piece of paper called a degree. I put this off for 8 years and finally decided to do it. I'm taking online classes at University of Phoenix which allow me to go at my own pace, at home or wherever I have an Internet connection. It's far better for me than a stuffy school. Why get a degree? Because most people won't hire you for any decent job today without one. The online classes only suck up about an hour a day of my time -- far less than a real college, same benefit.

I think it's great that you have so many interests. I recommend persuing them all to some degree. You love to learn and should make the most of it.

If you're financially secure, don't try to get a full-time job just yet. Build yourself a checklist of all the things you want to accomplish in education and take care of that foundation first. Then persue your career -- after you know what you want to do.

You should also consider taking at least a class each on business management and marketing. Most techie guys have no clue when it comes to either of these -- and if you are to be successful (for yourself or to a future employer) -- the information you'll get from even a beginning course will be invaluable to you.

And, once you start earning an income, buy a house as fast as you can. This is about the most important financial advice anyone can give. I'll stop there 'cause it didn't sound like you were asking for this, but it's so important it had to be said.

Someone else on here said that you can't change the world. Ignore them. They're just bitter that they tried and failed. Our history books and newspapers are full of people who have changed the world. I'm sure they were told the same thing.

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-David

College, Travel, Work, Learn, Take Risks by Bapu · 2004-06-12 22:49 · Score: 2, Interesting

A few suggestions for the orginal poster:

Go to College, but consider a non-traditional program such as a Work College or a Great Books Program. There are numerous small schools with alternative programs scattered around the US. Find one that seems to fit you.

Travel abroad either as part of College or before/break in the middle/right after. Rough it. Experiencing different cultures the hard way disrupts your rituals and forces you to deal with people, places, things that you normally would avoid.

Get a job. If you are still in high school and bored, get a job now, tomorrow. If you are going to college, try to work part time if you can. Try to find a job that relates to your hobbies or that you enjoy, but any job where you work hard and must deal with people and take direction from superiors will do. Save the money your earn, unless you need it for education.

Keep learning all the time. College, Travel, Work will provide many learning experiences, but you need to learn faster than that. Read as much as you can, across a broad range of topics. Read fiction and non-fiction, Biography, History, Religion, Politics, Science, whatever interests you.

Lastly, take risks in your choices about how to proceed in life. Don't avoid doing something because you are afraid to fail, and don't let anxiety keep you from something that you know is what you really want. If you are given the choice between continuing with a comfortable life and going off on a new, frightening, but potentially rewarding path. Take the new path. Disrupt your mental routine and you will advance. Become the routine and you will stay the same forever.

Save a buck or two by crashfrog · 2004-06-12 23:03 · Score: 2, Insightful

Don't go to an expensive college. If you're anything like me, and you sound like you are, you probably managed to slack your way through high school, learning much, much more outside the classroom in the process.

Unfortunately you probably never developed much in the way of academic discipline, so you're going to succeed in every college arena except for grades.

There's a very strong possibility you won't graduate this first time around - I didn't. But I went to a private school and racked up a shitload in loans.

Don't be like me. This is going to be a great experience for you, and you'll love the college environment, but when you look back, everything you learned will probably have been outside the classroom. That's not a bad thing, but you're wasting tuition if you don't get a degree. And you probably won't, this time.

So, if this is going to be throwaway college for you, don't blow the money on private school. Get into a cheap university, and by all means, live in the dorms. The best part of college for you is going to be outside the classroom; as a result, little you do in the classroom is going to matter this time. Save your money for the school you get into after you drop out of this one.

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I never have frustrations, the reason is, to wit:
If at first I don't succeed, I quit!

Don't go to college... yet. by smoon · 2004-06-12 23:49 · Score: 2, Insightful

Do something else. Be a missionary. Join the peace corps (do they take people w/out college degrees?). Hike the appalachian trail.

Main point is to get your know-it-all attitude fixed. Can't focus on something for long periods of time? You _need_ to learn to stick with things or you'll never get anywhere in life.

The real winners in our society are not the smartest, brightest people. They are the ones who through sheer effort of will and unwillingness to give up force success on themselves. This goes for anything - managers (even PHBs), athletes, government workers (ever seen the battery of tests and bureaucratic stuff these people live with?), startup businesses, rich people, poor people (yes, you can succeed at being poor if you try hard enough). Smartness helps -- becoming an M.D. takes more than hard work (lots of that though) -- but it's hardly the major determining factor for most things.

So once you've figured that out, _then_ go to college. It doesn't much matter what the degree is in or where you get it from. People with college degrees are the aristocrats of the current era. Without a degree you can't go very far. With a degree (even a fine arts from a local college) you can get a lucrative position in a stable organization (assuming thats what you will eventually want, which it will be once you settle down and have kids).

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"But actually trying to use m4 as a general-purpose langage would be deeply perverse" --ESR

Another perspective. by transops.net · 2004-06-12 23:55 · Score: 2, Interesting

I am just as guilty as the next person in causing my own undoing. I do take a little from the fact that I at least acknowledge it, and try to fight it. Who knows, even I may not end up useless after all.

Most of the "smart people" I communicate with tend to think as futurists; they derive enjoyment from extrapolating novel outcomes from any given starting point in life. Sometimes they dream up futures that are somewhat Orwellian, and sometimes they imagine a world that operates better (if not faster).

My personal view, which I'd encourage you to consider (or disregard, as you wish) is either cheerful or hopeless, depending on how you want to use what it offers. If you're under age 30 today, I believe you'll get the opportunity to make that choice.

Today we are seeing a high rate of proliferation and evolution of "cooperative" (capable of arbitrarily routable information exchange) computing systems, which can be divided into a few categories:

(1) Physical Systems: Multiprocessor systems which utilize CPUs in concert to process information. These systems include everything from dual CPU servers to supercomputing clusters. The defining factor is close physical proximity of each CPU to the others in the system, and the use of local (isolated from the rest of the world) high speed interconnects to transfer information between CPUs.

(2) Geo-Localized Systems: I guess you could think of the collective computer systems which comprise a university campus as an example of this category. Any system which communicates with other systems in the grid constitutes a member of this group. Various methods of dividing systems into smaller groups (networks) are usually employed for political and administration purposes, but those divisions exist only to serve specific human goals for the locale.

(3) Global System: The Internet (and newer global academic networks under development) represents the infancy of a flexible, high speed, and resilient virtualized grid of computing units. As the network evolves, the important units will include lots of combinations of categories (1) and (2). We're setting the stage for the real fun.

Assuming current trends in information growth continue (manifested most clearly as faster computing systems connected to larger instantly accessible data stores), I don't think we'll have to wait *too* many years to see the rise of a distributed system that's self-aware in some respect and is capable of self-improvement. Some people call that a sentient system, others quibble over the definition of sentience. It's not really important.

The important part is the potential: this sort of system wouldn't have the kind of limits we normally associate with intelligence, and would demonstrate exponential growth while tending toward increasingly efficient operation (smaller components, whether physical or virtual, in closer proximity). The efficiency part is very much a necessity, given our current understanding of the limits imposed by physics on the speed of information transmission. Of course, at some point where its performance exceeds anything we can really imagine today, such a system could begin making optimizations that would leave our current crop of physicists scratching their heads...

Think about it a bit. Most smart people spend their lives feeling excluded from humanity, blessed and cursed with a mind that can't accept a simple existence as sufficient. Questions must always be answered, which leads us to ask another batch of questions. We're only happy when we're miserable solving the latest problem, and there's no difference between engineers, mathematicians, biologics, or the rest. Some of us learn to apply our minds to profitable professions, while others wind up destitute despite their mental gifts.

If the deepest reasons for humanity's biggest problems are eliminated, the global population stabilizes, and the human lifespan becomes ridiculously extended by the solutions afforded us by our new life form, how will you spe

You didn't count the time invested by dhk42 · 2004-06-13 00:51 · Score: 2, Interesting

On average a Ph.D. (in biology at any rate) will have spent 8 years or so post BS before getting a job at a big Pharmaceutical company. Sure, I know that there are exceptions, but the combination of doctorate and post-doctoral fellowship tends to be around 8 years. Sometimes less, occasionally a great deal more.

Get a B.S. and work hard for 8 years and if you are good you may have the same office and the same pay. Plus you have earned actual money for 8 years while the guy with the Ph.D. (me) hasn't even started saving for retirement yet.

IMO the best education/work balance for big Pharma (again for biology - perhaps also for chemistry) is the M.S. They will have the easiest time getting a job and the couple of years spent getting the M.S. will probably pay for itself.

The downside is that those without a Ph.D. will tend to hit a ceiling earlier in their career. But not always.

And anyway, no one calls me Doctor.

dhk

deja-vu by manickernel · 2004-06-13 01:15 · Score: 2, Interesting

I wonder what might have happened if I had asked the same questions at your age. I came from a high school of 600 where I was perceived as you are and went to a college of 20,000 where I was just average. Couldn't get over it and eventually dropped out. Traveled, started sailing, went all over and learned a lot. Except I kept running from responsibility. I had no discipline but could learn anything I became really interested in, unless it was too difficult and then I rationilzed that it wasn't that interesting. I have read a lot of the posts on here and as with everything in life there is both some fine wisdom and some real BS here. Be careful to not choose those posts that are what you "want to hear". At age 38 (10 years ago) I realized I was an alcoholic. Best thing that ever happened to me as it finally taught me humility, perserverance and tenacity, as well as the ability to reach out to others for help. Now, ten years later I feel I am a fairly competent sys-admin in a large organization. Still love to sail. You have your life ahead, don't follow the cynicism expressed by the more arrogant minds on here, that is a waste. Remember, imagination is more valuable than intelligence.

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"the distinction between past, present, and future is only a stubbornly persistent illusion." -E

The one rule you need to follow... by frobnoid · 2004-06-13 01:26 · Score: 2, Funny

The best tip I can give anyone who is "unusually but non-traditionally 'bright'":
Shower regularly.

You are making a grave misunderestimation by ccmay · 2004-06-13 09:09 · Score: 2, Insightful

Take Dufus in the Whitehouse for example. Few people would claim that he is an original thinker or highly knowledgable.

Well, seeing as how he was able to fly a Delta Dart without killing himself, and subsequently earned an MBA from Harvard, I'd say he's got to be in the 95th percentile at least. His name may have got him into Harvard, but it sure didn't get him out.

You would think that the Left would have learned long ago that the talent for glib public speaking is not at all equivalent to intelligence. After all, aren't they continually running down things like the SAT test, with claims that the ability to play basketball or tell stories or make friends is just another kind of intelligence like the ability to do calculus?

On the other hand there are people with blistering high IQs and degrees in Nuclear Physics who can't find a job better than part time computer class instructor.

Carter was a nuclear engineer and a dismal failure. He has made a pretty good ex-President, though.

Clinton was a Rhodes Scholar and masterful public speaker whose major initiatives either failed spectacularly or were poached directly from the Republicans. He squandered his opportunity to make a lasting impact, and will be remembered by history as an easily-distracted lightweight who had the good fortune to be elected at an exceptionally peaceful and prosperous time.

-ccm

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Too much Law; not enough Order.

Some advice and sites to visit by Paul+Fernhout · 2004-06-14 03:28 · Score: 2, Interesting

First, turn off your broadcast television, exercise or do something physical at least three times a week, and eat healthier such as by drinking more clean water instead of soda or juice and eating organic food in reasonable proportions (especially organic meats if not a vegetarian).

Then, read James Lowen's _Lies My Teacher Told Me: Everything Your High School History Texbook Got Wrong_ to see how your mind has unknowingly been filled with nationalist and consumer crap (despite your technical proclivities). Also check out Howard Zinn. Learn to live simply and frugally so you have more options:

If you have started doing all that, by now you are primed to begin to question what education really means.

And further, to even question why people need to work and what it should mean to do useful things.

You'll have time to read great minds like Bertrand Russel and Freeman Dyson.

Then you can accept you are still stuck in a stupid system.

But you'll be positioned to make the best of it and yet still see how the world can be a made better place to for the bulk of humanity and other creatures.

Always remember in your darker hours to at least ask yourself the question, "Can life be made worth living?" And in your brighter hours, remember to ask yourself if you are playing a finite (to win) game or an infinite (to play) game?

And, finally, for continual inspiration, read _Voyage From Yesteryear_ by James P. Hogan.

Now go out and take some educated risks to try to make life worth living -- despite your future happiness possibilities already almost being ruined by being convinced you that you are "bright" just because you know some technical things (same thing almost happened to me).

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A 21st century issue: the irony of technologies of abundance in the hands of those still thinking in terms of scarcity.

Replying Constructively by stgabriel · 2004-06-14 10:46 · Score: 2, Insightful

Actually, intelligence isn't necessarily genetic, its a matter of training and mental exercise. Perhaps the most important thing to realise, if you're intelligence, is ones own shortcomings. Intelligence can be powerful for learning, but doesn't imply 'good judgement'. I think the most important advice is to cultivate 'character' and realise that in seeking out people to 'be around', that good character and judgement (or wisdom) is much more important than simply intelligence. Intelligence and curiosity has value, but knowing how to live and be accepting and tolerant are more important skills. Learning to be happy is an untaught skill, learning how to find ones ego as 'boring and misleading' is another- but far more important than most others. Also, diversify your knowledge base, and read avidly, look into the past and read good literature through your life. You'll find it reassuring and redemptive.

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