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Ask Slashdot: Have You Ever 'Ghosted' an Employer? (linkedin.com)

"Suddenly, calls and texts went unreturned," writes LinkedIn's editor at large, describing a recruiter who suddenly discovered the candidate she'd wanted to hire failed to respond to 12 messages, including emails like "Please let me know that you have not been kidnapped by aliens. I'm worried about you," and even a snail-mailed greeting card. Recruiters complain that prospective employees are now borrowing a practice from dating -- and "ghosting" recruiters and employers to let them know that they're not interested.

"Candidates agree to job interviews and fail to show up, never saying more. Some accept jobs, only to not appear for the first day of work, no reason given, of course. Instead of formally quitting, enduring a potentially awkward conversation with a manager, some employees leave and never return. Bosses realize they've quit only after a series of unsuccessful attempts to reach them.... Meredith Jones, an Indianapolis-based director of human resources for a national restaurant operator, now overbooks interviews, knowing up to 50 percent of candidates for entry-level roles likely won't show up."

Long-time Slashdot reader NormalVisual writes, "It'd be interesting to hear Slashdotters' experience with this." Have you ever ghosted a potential employer, or perhaps more relevant, have you ever been ghosted by a potential employer during the hiring process? Do you feel it's unprofessional, or simple justice for the behavior of some companies when the balance of power was more on their side?
Inc. magazine blames the low unemployment rate and "the effects technology have had on the communication style of younger generations." But leave your own thoughts in the comments.

Does ghosting show a lack of professionalism, or is it simple payback for the way corporations treated job-seekers in the past? And have you ever "ghosted" an employer?

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  1. unprofessional, but turnabout? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 5, Insightful

    I don't condone this behavior at all. It's unprofessional and disrespectful. If you make a commitment to show up for an interview or accept a job, you should be there. But through the eyes of my child who is attempting to enter the workforce, being rejected with no feedback at all is frustrating. I don't expect every employer to spend hours coaching rejected applicants, but a simple statement of why would go a long way. I can understand the rational of a prospective employee that's been through application after application with no responses or rejections that just say, "no". Very few are giving the overwhelming number of applicants that courtesy, why should it be returned?

    It's wrong on both sides. Everybody needs to step up and communicate better.

    1. Re:unprofessional, but turnabout? by Hognoxious · · Score: 4, Insightful

      Some of them don't even let you know that you didn't get it, let alone why.

      Turnabout's fair play.

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    2. Re:unprofessional, but turnabout? by Anonymous+Brave+Guy · · Score: 5, Informative

      I don't expect every employer to spend hours coaching rejected applicants, but a simple statement of why would go a long way.

      I've heard that a lot of lawyers advise against this, because in some jurisdictions it opens up a risk of a candidate then claiming some form of illegal discrimination has taken place if they don't like the official version. It's a bit like insurers saying you must not say "sorry" if you've been involved in a collision on the road, because it can be taken as an admission of responsibility in subsequent legal matters, even if you were just being polite/friendly and knew very well that the other person caused the crash. In some places, I think there are now laws that explicitly prevent the latter problem; maybe some sort of "protection of honest recruiting feedback" law would help with the former?

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    3. Re:unprofessional, but turnabout? by Daemonik · · Score: 2

      Employers "ghost" people all the time. Sometimes it's for legal reasons, like not hiring a candidate because of their race/religion/etc so you don't want to give them a reason to sue, but honestly it's mostly because they don't care and there's 3 more applicants waiting for your spot.

    4. Re:unprofessional, but turnabout? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 5, Insightful

      Ummm...no.

      The employers you are ghosting are the ones who hired you, and presumably treated you right. The employers who are ghosting you are the ones who DID NOT HIRE YOU.

      You are punishing person B because person A pissed you off.

      The fact that one person (or company, or whatever) has not treated you right does not give you license to be a dick to everyone.

    5. Re:unprofessional, but turnabout? by drinkypoo · · Score: 2

      I've heard that a lot of lawyers advise against this, because in some jurisdictions it opens up a risk of a candidate then claiming some form of illegal discrimination has taken place if they don't like the official version.

      Okay, but in California, they are required to give you a reason if you ask. And they still do their best to just ghost you and not give you that information, because they have no respect for the law.

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    6. Re:unprofessional, but turnabout? by Freischutz · · Score: 2

      Employers "ghost" people all the time. Sometimes it's for legal reasons, like not hiring a candidate because of their race/religion/etc so you don't want to give them a reason to sue, but honestly it's mostly because they don't care and there's 3 more applicants waiting for your spot.

      I have absolutely no reservations about ghosting employers. Not only do they ghost applicants on a regular basis or turn them down without any explanation with some boilerplate rejection letter, I've been asked to so many interviews where I was confronted by some corporate dingleberry who had obviously been too lazy to read even the front page of my CV (which describes the career of a veteran Unix/C/C++ developer and takes about 60 seconds to read) ask me how good I am at C# and various types of Windows programming. I don't like having my time wasted by lazy HR staff, especially when I paid for a long-ish distance train ticket or something to get to the interview and I don't think it is in any way discourteous or unacceptable to treat employers like they treat everybody else.

    7. Re:unprofessional, but turnabout? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 3, Insightful

      I've heard that a lot of lawyers advise against this, because in some jurisdictions it opens up a risk of a candidate then claiming some form of illegal discrimination has taken place if they don't like the official version.

      That's when the company needs to tell the lawyer to stop being a lazy piece of shit and do their fucking job.

      You (the lawyer) is being paid to review the replies to be sent specifically to make sure it isn't an illegal form of discrimination. This is to be accomplished not by refusing to send a reply, but by sending a reply that is worded legally.

      I know for certain in my state there are explicitly legal forms of discrimination to be used.
      One position to fill, more than one candidate. It is completely legal to discriminate on experience and demonstrated skills, and just as legal to inform the other candidates of this fact if they ask.

      This also is the best time to offer to rejected candidates a different open position if we have any they may be suitable for.
      Some people are looking for a job very specifically in just one field and would not be interested in such a thing, but others are looking for a job in general and very well may be interested.
      If you just blow them off it hurts both of us, the candidate that still doesn't have a job as well as our company that still needs to fill a position in another department.

      If the lawyers go the route of being lazy shit fucks that don't want to do their job of making sure what's being done isn't illegal by instead having us do nothing, they would be fired just like anyone else.

      Can you imagine another employee saying "I don't know if our customer wanted feature A or B, so instead of asking I'm just not going to put in either"? That wouldn't fly as a valid excuse at all.

      At least in my own experience this seems to be the exception for most employees, but quite the norm for legal. You can probably tell I am the tiniest bit biased here, and no doubt that is reflected in my level of tolerance for such crap. But it is still a very real problem and such problems need corrected so they don't happen again.

    8. Re:unprofessional, but turnabout? by mlyle · · Score: 3, Insightful

      I agree it's fair, but it's not smart. If an employer is still interested in you and you've moved on, no need to alienate them by just ghosting-- if you say "thanks, but this isn't a fit" or "I've found something else"-- it means that whatever positive impression you've created with them can possibly still be useful to you in the future instead of creating a few people who feel the opposite.

    9. Re:unprofessional, but turnabout? by Solandri · · Score: 3, Insightful

      Some of them don't even let you know that you didn't get it, let alone why.

      Turnabout's fair play.

      Turnabout is ghosting an employer who has a history of not telling applicants that they've been rejected.

      Ghosting an innocent employer because a different employer didn't do you the courtesy of letting you know, is a race to the bottom which hurts everyone. You're just inflicting bad behavior onto other innocents, under the justification that because it was done to you it's OK for you to do it to others even if they're innocent. The employer who didn't tell you they'd gone with someone else for the job probably felt justified in not informing you because too many candidates were no-shows for scheduled interviews. And turnabout is fair play after all, right?

    10. Re:unprofessional, but turnabout? by lgw · · Score: 3, Interesting

      It's a bit silly, because the company can say something very generic, like "position was already filled" or "candidate did not meet the positions technical requirements". As long as there's any objective basis, there's no good grounds for a lawsuit (e.g., if the company claims the candidates code during the interview wasn't good enough, how could you prove that they actually thought it was good enough).

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  2. Re: No, but I donâ(TM)t work at McDonalds eit by CoolDiscoRex · · Score: 5, Interesting

    Sure, it would 'get around' if you live in South Fuck, Minnesota. Here in the big city, corporations don't call each other and say 'Here's a list of the employees that did us wrong, watch out for them!' Receuiters are a dime a dozen, and they're as notorious for ghosting on clients, recruiting for non-existent jobs, and pulling all kinds of shennanigans. Few will have sympathy for the recruiters or employers. Everyone is an asshole these days, and the moral high ground remains vacant.

  3. Re:32 year old here ... by NerdENerd · · Score: 2

    I would consider than a waste of my time. I would much prefer you rang and cancelled rather that have me block out my calendar for an interview just to be told you already have found another position. That is not going to get you any kind of offer.

  4. Don't be sour, dear recruiter by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 5, Insightful

    It's only what you've been doing to your merchandise for ages.

    My sent email box contains literally hundreds of emails to just about that many recruiters that at best completely ignored me. At best because they might also add me to their "database" and have their spambot send me things that are usually completely unrelated to what I'm interested in, every half year or so. That's how I know I'm at the bottom of their barrel and will never ever get a decent offer from them. So I report those emails as spam. Because, a little respect would be nice. But I've never had any from recruiters. Plenty of abuse, though. Down to spending time and effort on a phone interview only to learn that the advertised job didn't actually exist. They kept on advertising that nonexistent job of course.

    No sympathy for recruiters finding the chickens are coming home to roost.

    1. Re:Don't be sour, dear recruiter by Bigbutt · · Score: 2

      Honestly, going through this now. Had four recruiters from the same company tell me I have a great resume, can they send it out, etc. I did get an interview out of it but it’s been silence after that. One of the four had my resume from a previous attempt, had supposedly gotten me an interview, I sat in my car waiting for the call and nothing, and then had stopped communicating until his colleague was working with me.

      In thinking back, I don't think a recruiter has ever gotten me a job, and I think this is the first time they got me an interview.

      35 years in tech.

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  5. Someone with a byline just discovered this? by Suki+I · · Score: 3, Insightful

    Personal experience, yes, though not specifically in "tech" industry. Pre-college I found quite a few potential employers who gave me enough of a suspicious feel that I never called back. Even after setting a start date. They just seemed shady and most of them proved to be. The rest, I just don't know if the managers or businesses are still around.

    Post-college, no, I am still working at the first firm where I landed a full-time regular professional position (Diagnostic/Medical). Not same position I started in, of course.

    However, we have had people do this throughout my time here and it is striking that the author would find it new.

  6. Maybe it'll send a message to employers.. by jmdevince · · Score: 5, Insightful

    For a long time it's been perfectly professional and okay for a potential employer to just 'ghost' potential canidates. They'll never return a phone call or email if they're not interested in you or if they change their mind halfway through the interview process because they found a better canidate. You have to practically harass them to know what's going on. This is super common in the tech world. But when a potential employee does it? "That's unprofessional." - Bullshit i say. This isn't the '80s anymore where skilled laborers are interchangeable.

    1. Re: Maybe it'll send a message to employers.. by nowwith25percentmore · · Score: 3, Informative

      Just had a potential employer do this to me. I had two on-site interviews in rapid succession, was obviously a great fit for the position, and recruiter told me I was company's first choice. It looked like an offer was imminent. Then a few weeks went by with no movement. Recruiter kept telling me this is normal and company was still interested. I called the hiring manager and HR person whom so eagerly threw their business cards to me while saying to call if there's absolutely anything they can do. Both voicemails went unreturned. Another week went by. I grilled the recruiter and he finally admitted that they gave the offer to a cheaper candidate, but told him to keep me "warm" (ie hanging) in case that candidate didn't work out. Cheap candidate didn't work out, so they sent me an offer. I soon had other competing offers. Told recruiter his offer was losing out because company had, erm, "ghosted" me. He told me that I can't take that personally, that it's perfectly normal for a company to ignore you when you're not their first choice. I told recruiter I was going to accept another offer, but told him I wasn't going to decline his offer yet in case first choice didn't work out. I asked him to keep the company "warm". He threw a tantrum that I can't do that, but he went along with it because he wanted a chance at the commission. Funny how turnabout isn't fair play. I formally declined the offer the day it was set to expire. I don't want to work with people like that.

  7. With regards to the main questions by turbidostato · · Score: 5, Insightful

    "Does ghosting show a lack of professionalism, or is it simple payback for the way corporations treated job-seekers in the past?"

    Yes to both.

    Next question?

    1. Re:With regards to the main questions by lucasnate1 · · Score: 5, Interesting

      How come when a corporation treats a single person like shit it is "a standard part of free market" and when a single person treats a corporation like this it is "unprofessional"?

    2. Re: With regards to the main questions by reanjr · · Score: 4, Insightful

      Unless that retail store is successful and cares about their people; then they will tell obnoxious customers to fuck off.

      The issue is that HR doesn't know the first thing about working with anything but a captive and abused labor pool. When they have to deal with labor that can afford self respect, HR doesn't have a fucking clue how to pivot from unprofessional asshole to engaged sycophant.

  8. Re: No, but I donâ(TM)t work at McDonalds eit by AmiMoJo · · Score: 2

    The only time I've ever done it is with aggressive recruiters who don't take no for an answer.

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  9. Monkey see, monkey do. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 5, Interesting

    Respect and professionalism go both ways. Many businesses that rely on skilled professionals forgot this during the recession, and now that most of the desperation has settled back into baseline disgruntlement, they're in a bad fuckin' way.

    The trend for the last decade and a half has been for employers, potential or actual, to disregard common courtesy to employees, potential or actual - even in what would be considered "professional" positions. Let's take a look at what the average person's job search looks like these days:

    - A couple weeks or months of having to eat piles of shit in the process of submitting resumes by having to deal with the subcontracted, third-party resume ingestion services that everyone uses now. If you haven't yet had the pleasure of spending an 8 hour day getting your resume submitted to 10 or 12 total positions, you cannot begin to understand how much you begin to absolutely loathe every living being after doing this for weeks.

    - Getting calls upon calls from (quick, call me a racist) Indian headhunters or HR drones whose job is to get you just far enough along that they can credibly reject you so they can put a fig leaf over the H1B they're going to hire anyway

    - Never, ever getting anything more than a form email that explains absolutely nothing about why you were rejected for the position that you spent an hour tailoring a resume for because it looks like an ideal fit and you actually meet all of the inflated requirements

    - Delay upon delay upon delay. Even if you get accepted, it might take them weeks to get around to finalizing your employment. If something comparable or better comes up in the mean time that will get you actually started sooner, who wouldn't take it?

    Employers who actually have recurring problems with getting ghosted by recruits need to take a serious look at what they're doing wrong. Hint: It's probably acting like royalty and not paying wages that seriously motivate.

    1. Re:Monkey see, monkey do. by JaredOfEuropa · · Score: 4, Informative

      having to eat piles of shit in the process of submitting resumes by having to deal with the subcontracted, third-party resume ingestion services that everyone uses now

      Pretty much this. I understand this streamlines the process for the box-tickers at HR, but from a job-seeker's point of view it is a bloody nightmare.

      By the way, a company could do worse than just fire the lot in charge of centralized vetting of job applicants. I once advised a colleague who was recruiting people for his team, to ask HR for the resumes they rejected. I can't say the resumes passed by HR were that much better than those in the reject pile, and the latter had some good candidates in it. When I asked HR myself to post some job openings, the questions they asked me about the requirements were inane at best. I struggle to see what actual value they (or those resume ingestion services) add in this process.

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    2. Re:Monkey see, monkey do. by Antique+Geekmeister · · Score: 4, Informative

      > By the way, a company could do worse than just fire the lot in charge of centralized vetting of job applicants. I once advised a colleague who was recruiting people for his team, to ask HR for the resumes they rejected.

      This is very true for open source work. The related projects on which the best candidates worked do not match the checklist of tools familiar to many HR personnel. If it's possible, it's invaluable to work with HR and help them understand the _related software_. I once had an applicant list work related to our critical project, but rejected by HR because they did not list the software buzzword. Since they _wrote_ the buzzworded software decades ago and had moved on, they were the best possible candidate to support out out-of-date version and help us migrate to the newer tools. And that was what we wished to hire someone for.

  10. Its Better to Ghost than for Recruiters to lie... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 5, Interesting

    From Personal Experience, I had an interview arranged by a Recruiter with an Engineering Company. However, it became apparent very quickly that the recruiter was incredibly dishonest.

    After going to the interview, I was informed by the Recruiter that the Company in question wanted to make an offer in person and he quoted a very generous salary. When I went to the Company in person again, the contract they showed was a signifcantly lower salary! I did raise this with my Interviewer who said they hadn't agreed a Salary with the recruiter.

    I had decided then that I did not want the Job and informed the Recruiter that I was declining the offer. However, he was adamant to try and get me to accept it in comically rediculous ways by telling me that the role was upgraded to a Project Manager role! I still told him directly that I declined the offer and decided that I would 'ghost' all Phone Calls from this crook.

    About 1.5 Weeks later, I was getting texts from the Engineering Company in question asking for me to give them a call back. I did and was greeted with "Whats Going on! The Recruitment Consultant said he was unable to get in touch with you" to which I responded by telling him that I told the Consultant that I declined the offer over a week ago. This turned out to be news to him as he was never informed by the Recruiter about this.

    Its hard to sympathize with Recruiters who post crappy articles on Linkedin about how great they are or Candidates are ghosting them when they take this piss like this!

  11. Re:That's the American employee for you... by bogaboga · · Score: 3, Interesting

    What company do you employ and what "authority" do you have?

    Without divulging much, I can say this: -

    I run a transport company - used to; to be strict as I am not that deeply involved now. Trust me, with our drivers, you are better off dealing with ``foreign brought up`` , but legally working American employees.

    I can almost guarantee that in about a decade and a half, you will be seeing what I am seeing now. And yes, I [still] have influence in the affairs of this company.

  12. Re:That's the American employee for you... by lucasnate1 · · Score: 2

    Translation: you are looking for slaves.

  13. Re: No, but I donâ(TM)t work at McDonalds ei by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 5, Insightful

    Do this and word *will* get around. People know each other, and even if you don't list someone as a reference, they may get asked anyway.

    I had one employee ghost me. She just stopped coming into the office. Did outstanding work, been with us for a while. But she took a sudden three day unplanned/unannounced absence, then a few weeks later another few days sudden/unplanned absence. We talked, she said they were vacations, sorry, thought I'd told you. Then a month later, she didn't come into work. No reply to emails or voicemails. Ghosted.

    We sent a letter to terminate her, saying we assumed by not showing up for a week and a half, she had resigned.

    And six months later, I get a call from someone I used to work with, long ago, at a different org. He was somewhere new too. He had an applicant who listed my org on their resume, didn't list me as a reference but wanted to know what I knew about her. Same employee.

    She didn't get the job.

  14. Fix your labour law by Pimpy · · Score: 5, Informative

    To be honest, I never even considered that people accepting jobs and not showing up would be an issue - (while I speak mostly from the perspective of the German labour law, I believe this is also the case for most other European countries) both parties have an obligation once the employment contract is signed, with the employer being in their right to seek damages for every day that you do not show up and do your job, as agreed. The flip side of this is that it's also quite difficult for the employer to refuse leave requests by the employee, with a far wider range of allowable absences than what would be tolerated on the US side. I am certainly guilty of having interviewed at companies that were competitors at the same time and playing them against each other to up the offer, but I would never have signed something and then try to weasel out of it when something better comes along. On the other hand, I have also seen people take jobs they didn't necessarily want while continuing to look for better ones, and then simply quit their other job during their probation period (typically a 6 month period in which either side is able to terminate the relationship without cause). Once someone has to begin paying damages for every day they don't show up for work (or obtains sufficient awareness of this potentiality), I would imagine people would be a bit more careful about when and what they sign, and the problem would gradually correct itself.

  15. Re:only a first worlder could come up with this by Mr+D+from+63 · · Score: 2

    definitely a symptom of excessive affluence, this is a sign of how decadent the privileged have become, normal working people are too busy for this kind of self indulgent crap

    I thinks its more certain people not being comfortable with that particular social interaction. They can't bear to actually tell someone something they don't want to hear, so they just avoid it.

    Yes, it is highly unprofessional. And that HR recruiter or hiring manager might be working for another company someday, one that you just might be interested in.

  16. Re:That's the American employee for you... by 110010001000 · · Score: 4, Insightful

    Oh you hire blue collar truck drivers. Hate to break it to you, but you have no "authority" in any real sense of the word. You just want cheap labor. Makes sense.

  17. Re:That's the American employee for you... by 110010001000 · · Score: 2, Interesting

    Exactly. He prefers recent (or undocumented) immigrants because they are cheap and will put up with a lot of his BS (his "authority"). This is very common in the trucking industry.

  18. Re:That's the American employee for you... by serviscope_minor · · Score: 2

    Meredith Jones, an Indianapolis-based director of human resources for a national restaurant operator, now overbooks interviews, knowing up to 50 percent of candidates for entry-level roles likely won't show up."

    An entry level role at a restaurant chain is going to be an incredibly shitty job. And likely to be taken by candidates who need the work pretty ASAP. If they've found something else they're at leat extending the restaurant more respect than they would have got if they'd been employed by ghosting rather than wasting a lot of their time over a long period.

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  19. I'm suprised that they're surprised by PuddleBoy · · Score: 4, Interesting

    Non-responsiveness on the part of HR/recruiters isn't just common - after a while, I just assumed it was 'standard practice'.

    I don't expect a detailed response from every resume I send in, but I do expect a response if I have gone thru an interview, especially if it included someone from the executive suite. It can be demoralizing to meet with a hiring manager and their boss (maybe a VP), have it go well (smiles all around), then radio silence. At least have the courtesy of an email stating 'We appreciate the time and energy you put into the process, but...'.

    I have to agree with the other posters that the recruiters created the environment in which this developed.

    Having said all that, I cannot condone an employee accepting a position, filling out some forms, then not showing up to the first day of work. That borders on a sort of fraud or breech: if you went thru the process of filling out onboarding docs, there is a very strongly implied and expressed intent, by both parties, to commit to each other. But then, I suppose some people don't show to their own weddings...

    It boils down to standards of behavior - for all aspects of life. And respect. If we develop a society that says that a free-wheeling economy where anything goes is the norm, how to you expect job-seekers *not* to be influenced by that?

  20. Might wind up with the Police at your home by archer,+the · · Score: 4, Insightful

    Over the years, I've heard of several people "ghosting" their employers. However, in these cases, it was because they had passed away at home, and they lived alone. Since the employer doesn't know why the employee has stopped coming in, they call the police for a wellness check. The police arrive and find the person has passed on.

    Long story short, don't ghost, or you may be treated is if you might have become one.

  21. Don't hate the player, hate the game. by mark_reh · · Score: 4, Insightful

    One of the rules I live by is that everyone deserves respect until they demonstrate otherwise.

    If you're going to insult me with a shit contract that's guaranteed to screw me when we part ways, why would you expect anything from me but contempt?

  22. Re:My Take by Antique+Geekmeister · · Score: 2

    One of the reasons employers "ghost" employees is to wait until the first candidate is actually on-site and started on their first day with all the paperwork signed. There are so many candidates who decline at the last moment for a better fiscal offer or better work location, and for senior employees a health issue is sometimes a risk. By failing to reject other candidates until then, they try to keep the pool of acceptable but not first choice candidates available. And there may be other good candidates in that pool. I've experienced making a good person an offer, having them decline, and gone to the next on the list. I once had an opportunity to explain this to the candidate that we did hire, that the first candidate *wrote* the tool in collaboration with the second candidate. The first candidate took an offer that was good for them, the second candidate was in touch with them and knew we were interviewing both.

  23. How about burn-out? by El+Jynx · · Score: 4, Interesting

    A few articles back I read about the huge burn-out problem in the US. That makes for a pretty good explanation. If you're burned out, your mind has pretty much shut down higher reasoning. Recovery usually takes months, so a vacation won't cut it. I wouldn't be surprised if a lot of people just go " ah, fuck it". Combine it with depression or other mental illnesses and you have somebody sitting in a true hellhole. One more reason for companies to actually give a shit about their employees. Here in the Netherlands the employer is also responsible for mental well-being. That's growing in the U.S. and other 1st world countries, but not nearly enough.

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  24. Re: No, but I don't work at McDonalds either by aaarrrgggh · · Score: 2

    We use a number of useless recruiters for my company. I hate doing it (almost as much as I hate paying them 20% of the candidate's salary), but it reduces the hiring pain, especially when the market is tight.

    Aside from admin positions, the only times we have been treated this way are people who are pretty full of themselves... or just clueless little shits. The absolute worst though is having someone in the office for a day or week, and they just decide to stop doing it. (Two people out of ~50 employees this past year, maybe one or in the prior 15.). Well, maybe not quite as bad as the little shit that milked us for two months until he could find another job...

  25. Re: No, but I donâ(TM)t work at McDonalds eit by jellomizer · · Score: 2

    However in the city theee is a lot of employee turn around. That employing manager at company X in 6 months can be a hiring manager at company Y.
    He may have left X for Y for the same reasons why you didn’t like X. However he may remember your name and link it to the lack of professionalism, then portray his story to others.
    I work in an average size city, when I switch jobs I tend to run into people who I have worked with in the past.

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  26. Re: No, but I donâ(TM)t work at McDonalds eit by Calydor · · Score: 4, Insightful

    Get the mark into a position where they're eager to jump at anything, then go, "Damn, the company hired someone else, but I do have THIS job lined up!" which is about half the pay, but if you've already made moves that require you to have SOME kind of employment it'll suddenly sound much more attractive.

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  27. Re: That's the American employee for you... by orlanz · · Score: 2

    I have seen it on both sides. It's not "foreigners". It's the type of person who has come over. Most of those are well educated or at least well bought up on honor and service (contrary to what many think).

    But go oversees and see how foreman basically have to hire every morning for that days construction assignment. They don't expect the same person to come back more than a few days straight. They are so used to it that they are happy just getting the head count for the job.

    Similar in call centers/factory workers. People don't "resign", they just go work for the company up or down stairs. This is after they received training and signed/contracted to stay a year or two at the current employer. Because of the training, the other companies are willing to pay more.

    Move up to IT off shore teams. I have seen teams do all kinds of damage control for missing members. They will login as the employee, do bare minimum work to meet requirements (push it to testing and rework), spread the work to an on bench person whom you didn't onboard, etc. Eventually after they replaced the position, 2-3 months later they will tell you he left and request onboarding the replacement. Through back channels you find out he just stopped coming and went to a company across the street. Better pay or boss.

    This is primarily because those companies treat their employees worse. But overall, domestically US employees are much better than domestic employees in many other countries.

    But the old adage is true: Treat others like you want to be treated.

  28. Re: only a first worlder could come up with this by reanjr · · Score: 4, Informative

    Techies are hired to tech. Not to socialize. HR is hired to socialize. The lack of professionalism is from HR departments across the board, not employees.

    HR departments seem to be trained to deal with poor people with no skills, and so they treat everyone like an indentured servent. When they finally have to deal with skilled workers who won't take their shit, they get all indignant.

  29. Sorta, but not really. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 4, Interesting

    2 different stories.

    1) I took a contract position, 6 months. At this place, the guy responsible for ensuring contracts were renewed was a flake. 1st time, I asked the day my contract ended and he didn't know anything about it. I said, no contract, no work. Left at the end of the day. Monday rolled around and I didn't show up. He was panicked, working to get the extension pushed through, but it would be 2-3 more days.
    6 months later, I didn't mention the contract was expiring and planned a week vacation without telling anyone. Skiing. Contract expired on Friday and I flew off to SLC for a week of epic skiing. Monday morning, got a cell phone call asking where I was. "Contract ended Friday", I said. "Oh ... we need you today." he said. "I"m across the country, skiing, can't be back until the following Monday." I said. That happened 3 more times over the 9 yrs I worked there.
    The last time, they decided that a contractor should be an employee if they worked there more than 2 yrs. Smart, but not for me. My contract ended in early November, so I planned to travel about 6 months in Asia after the Holidays spent with family in different states. I didn't mention this to anyone at work. 3 days prior to the contract end, the boss texts that he'd gotten the "employee paperwork" approved so I could switch over on Monday. That was the first I'd heard about that idea. I didn't want to be an employee. They'd asked a few times over the years, but I always turned them down. I said no thanks and wished him luck. Turned out that 80% of the people in my group who were contractors had decided the same thing. He was desperate.

    2) Interviewed for a position at a major DoD company where I'd fill 2 positions they had opened due to my skills. It was clear that I was a perfect fit, because I'd already had a clearance and my degree would directly support flight testing of a new aircraft (deployed now and kicking ass). Nobody I spoke with was qualified to interview me on anything technical. This was quickly known. I'd loose more knowledge in computing if I worked there than I ever gained.
    The boss finally came in and told me all the ways I'd be fired for about 10 minutes. He was an old, gruff, ex-military type, who felt he needed to control start, lunch, end times. 5 minutes late 3 times would mean I was fired. No thanks.
    I left the interview and never contacted them again. A week later, the boss called asking where I was on the job. I told him I'd accepted a position at a less hostile workplace where they respected employees. His response,"oh."

    Poor communications, in both directions, is where the failure happens. At hiring time, the prospective employees have all the power. It is the last time any employee has much real power, often.

    When I did hiring, I was looking for a "good fit" for both sides. We needed smart people who would be able to fit into the culture and do great work. If the applicant doesn't like us, they won't enjoy work, which is bad too. 2-way street. We were pretty relaxed, but about 3 days a month, we'd have customers and needed to dress up a little more and keep the spitballs to a minimum. It was a software development house.

  30. Newly hired manager never showed up by jhecht · · Score: 2

    I knew one case where a newly hired manager didn't show on the Monday morning he was supposed to start. This was somebody hired to edit a computer industry magazine that was big at the time, filling the job that my new boss had held before the publishing company had transferred him to be publisher of the magazine I worked for. I was an editorial manager at the time, so I got called into the drama. The two magazines were at different locations, and by about 10 a.m. my boss started getting calls saying the new guy had not arrived yet. Before long, my boss called me in and started asking me what could be going on. All we could think of was that something might have happened to him, maybe a car accident or heart attack. He hadn't called or anything/ This was back in the early 80s, and my boss was around 55-60 then, and he had never heard of anything like it. I was a lot younger, and neither had I. We spent quite a while talking -- he was anxious because he had been a founder of that magazine, and knew he would have to deal with that issue as well as try to run the magazine I worked for. The guy never showed up, and never called in. He had been working for another industry magazine in another state, and I wondered if his family had balked at moving. I could have understood that, but at 30 then, I couldn't imagine not calling to say he had a change of heart. Looking back and reading other posts, I wonder if there may have been a problem with a recruiter. The recruiter hired to replace me when I left several months later failed to spot a serious potential issue with my replacement, although he did work out eventually.

  31. Re: No, but I donÃ(TM)t work at McDonalds eit by mejustme · · Score: 4, Funny

    In fairness to some recruiters who I know and who are very good, it's the bad 90% giving the good 10% a bad name.

    10% good? I think you're being generous!

  32. 80% of jobs filled by networking, never listed by raymorris · · Score: 2, Informative

    Between 70%-85% of job openings in private sector are never listed at all. Rather, when an opening happens, someone at the company knows somebody who would be a fit, typically someone they used to work with. That's how MOST jobs are filled.

    My first salaried job in a big company was like that. I had worked with a guy doing "side gigs" and he knew I was passively looking for a new job - I would be interested if the right position came along. When the right position opened up in the agency he worked for, he called me, and recommend me to the hiring manager. Policy required interviewing three people, but the job was mine because he recommended me bases on knowing I had acted professionally and done a good job before.

    From that company, I have a few contacts. My old boss was good, so I've told her to let me know if she's ever in the market for a new job, and she's told me the same. Her and her boss have told me more than once they'll have a spot for me if I ever want to come back.

    There are a few other people from the job who I've communicated with the same way - if either of us ever needs a job, or has the right position open, we'll contact each other. We wouldn't do that with unprofessional people who ghosted.

    So it's not so much that a stranger will call around (though that happens to), but rather people WON'T call the unprofessional people, they WILL call the people they've worked with who were highly professional.

    My last boss is now a high-ranking VP for a major bank. He's hired me before, and I think I did a good job for him, so whenever I need a new job I can always get a job at his bank. I expect he WILL call people he still knows at my current company, confirming that I haven't become an unprofessional asshole since he and I last worked together.

    1. Re:80% of jobs filled by networking, never listed by lgw · · Score: 2

      etween 70%-85% of job openings in private sector are never listed at all.

      All but the smallest employers in the US are required to list all jobs, and keep statistics on the race of those who apply for the jobs and the race of the person hired.

      The "overly specific" job descriptions aren't all H1B scams, after all. (Heck, sometimes they're just stupid HR drones who don't realize listing the ideal candidate scares away real candidates.)

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    2. Re:80% of jobs filled by networking, never listed by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 2, Informative
  33. Re: No, but I donâ(TM)t work at McDonalds eit by Wycliffe · · Score: 5, Informative

    Yours is the second post mentioning advertising non existent jobs? Wtf?

    Can you explain why they would do this?

    There are lots of reasons:
          1) The job is already filled internally but they are legally required to post it.
          2) They have a new or existing employee and they are wanting to know what they employee is worth compared to other people.
          3) There is a potential position and they do want to hire someone but they need to know what's out there and what it will cost
                    before getting approval for a salary range.
          4) The job did really exist but they quickly found someone they liked but left the job "open" just in case the first person falls thru.
          5) It's a position that frequently has openings and they want to be able to fill it quickly when an opening does happen.

    There are likely a bunch of other similar reasons too but most probably fall into the two categories of
    either "market research" and/or "job technically exists but is currently unavailable to be filled"

  34. Re: No, but I donâ(TM)t work at McDonalds ei by fisted · · Score: 4, Funny

    I just ask for their firstborn.

    On an unrelated note, is anybody interested in adopting a bunch of small children?

  35. Re:Its Better to Ghost than for Recruiters to lie. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 2, Insightful

    The lesson you learned from this is that once the recruiter has introduced you to the company, there is no reason to continue to filter communications through the recruiter. Just deal directly with the company.

  36. Re: No, but I donâ(TM)t work at McDonalds eit by Antique+Geekmeister · · Score: 4, Informative

    Thee are many reasons. The most malicious is to steal your identity: many people are less careful of their personal details with a recruiter who is "running a background check". Or they may "bait and switch", offer you a less lucrative or less skilled role when you've already invested time and effort in making a good impression with them. There is also an infamous practice of advertising roles in the market and accepting only the intended, much cheaper, H1B candidate with spurious requirements. There is also an infamous bureaucratic practice of getting approved to hire various personnel, expanding the department headcount, but never actually hiring the personnel. That last is used to justify overtime and more office space or benefits for the staff onsite "until we can fill those slots".

    There are many other reasons to present an opening that does not really exist. The penalty for withdrawing an advertised role is usually quite low, and the benefits can be quite high. So I'm afraid that some fraud there is inevitable.

  37. Re: No, but I donâ(TM)t work at McDonalds eit by Ol+Olsoc · · Score: 2

    Yours is the second post mentioning advertising non existent jobs? Wtf?

    Can you explain why they would do this?

    A lot of companies are recruiting people in fishing expeditions. If a really excellent canditate interviews, they'll try to figure out a position for them. But basically, no, there isn't an actual job opening.

    Where I worked, that was SOP.

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  38. Re: No, but I donâ(TM)t work at McDonalds eit by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 3, Insightful

    That's why I make up companies and have three burner phones so you can contact me and do your sneaky shit directly to my face without realizing it.

  39. Re: No, but I donâ(TM)t work at McDonalds ei by Scoth · · Score: 2

    I work in midtown Atlanta and run into the same people constantly. I work with people now, four companies later, that I was working with in 1999. I probably know at least a person or two at most tech companies with at least a few employees. The community here is surprisingly small and you never know who you'll run into.

  40. Re: No, but I donâ(TM)t work at McDonalds ei by Oligonicella · · Score: 2

    Read the whole post.

  41. Re:That's the American employee for you... by rhodium_mir · · Score: 2

    It makes complete sense. Trucking is a stressful job that takes a tremendous toll on your health and personal life. There's a trucker shortage right now and if you have a couple years experience and a clean driving record you can make some pretty decent money. Average first year pay driving for Walmart is over $80,000. Carriers that built their business models dependent on cheap labor are inevitably going to find it hard to keep drivers' butts in their seats.

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  42. Re: No, but I donâ(TM)t work at McDonalds eit by Fish+(David+Trout) · · Score: 4, Insightful

    Yours is the second post mentioning advertising non existent jobs? Wtf? Can you explain why they would do this?

    There are lots of reasons:

    You're forgetting what is probably the most common that started years ago:

    0. To fulfill the legal requirement that no qualified American could be found thereby allowing them to legally hire the foreigner they already decided to hire even before the position was advertised:

    Most job interviews these days are no so much to determine whether you're qualified for the position or not, but rather to determine a legally valid reason to disqualify you for the position so that they can legally hire the foreigner they already decided to hire long ago!

    Today's job market sucks. :(

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  43. Re: No, but I donâ(TM)t work at McDonalds ei by JMJimmy · · Score: 3, Insightful

    Companies don't show employees respect anymore - a gazillion interviews, testing, privacy invasion of social accounts, etc. and if you're not the candidate they're going to choose, they ghost you in a heartbeat.

    Why should sought after employees treat companies any better than they treat employees who are seeking to work for them?

  44. I'm sensing a grand sense of entitlement by Darkling-MHCN · · Score: 2

    A lot of the comments above are expressing the notion that employers often don't respond the candidates so therefore this sort of behavior is fine.

    I'd like to say I strongly disagree. In my experience especially when I was more junior and making applications for jobs in the middle of a recession, I've never had expectations that an employer will personally respond to me.

    Normally when employers advertise for work, very often they get a lot of applications, as a candidate I've always expected this and never had any expectation that the employer would personally respond to let me know that I hadn't been selected. Occasionally they did and I always thought it exceedingly polite, but when they it never occurred to me to be slighted by the act. Furthermore, I've expected that when I'm applying for a position, if I haven't heard from the employer within a few days that I need to touch base with them and confirm that they actually have received my application, then if they have ask them if they're still interested in my candidacy and if not ask for feedback on why.

    Very often I believe being proactive and periodically contacting the employer whilst they're in the middle of their recruitment process is actually quite influential and often be the deciding factor on the success of a job application.

    Considering the reverse... being offered a position or job interview and then simply not responding or turning up is extremely unprofessional. There's a major difference between these two things that most in this discussion don't seem to understand. An employer advertising a position and requesting applications for a job is very different to you making a personal commitment or signing contract with an employer. These are two completely different things and come with totally different etiquette, obligations and responsibilities, I don't see how they're interchangeable in any way at all. Such behaviour is disrespectful to the other candidates for the job as well as towards all the people who would have been put out at the company when you didn't show.

  45. Re: No, but I donâ(TM)t work at McDonalds ei by nbvb · · Score: 2

    I work in the tech industry in NY Metro area and consistently run into the same crowd over and over.

    Canâ(TM)t tell you how many times my paths have crossed ways with the same people in different roles/capacities/positions.

    A burned bridge here can absolutely sink you ....

  46. Re: No, but I donâ(TM)t work at McDonalds ei by Provocateur · · Score: 2

    Brad,

    Quit bothering these people. They have better things to do. Yes, from the basement!

    Angelina

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  47. Re: No, but I donâ(TM)t work at McDonalds eit by mjwx · · Score: 2

    Also data collection.

    You'd be surprised the details some people leave on their resumes. Addresses, previous employers. All of this (especially the previous employers bit) is useful for future marketing campaigns and cold calling.

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