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First-Person Account Of Video Game Addiction

The Evil Couch writes "Jive Magazine, an entertainment magazine based in Atlanta, has just released a feature article that the editor has spent over a year investigating on gaming addiction. Starting from being on the outside of the gaming community, she has gone from being a somewhat normal person, to being one of the higher level characters in Anarchy Online. 'People have worse entertainment addictions than playing computer games. If I am going to be addicted to something, I would choose online gaming over drugs, bowling, gambling, television, or being a baseball fanatic easily. I don't have to wear ugly shoes, lose my hard earned money or do the wave next to someone I don't know and that just about makes it a no-brainer for me. It IS after all just a video game, like Neal describes in his great novel, Snow Crash. It is just another amusement park.' Sounds like a happy ending to me."

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  1. Sounds like rationalization to me... by casio282 · · Score: 4, Insightful
    'People have worse entertainment addictions than playing computer games. If I am going to be addicted to something, I would choose online gaming over drugs, bowling, gambling, television, or being a baseball fanatic easily ... It IS after all just a video game, ... just another amusement park.'
    Sounds like your classic addict's rationalization to me. For shame, for shame.

    I once had the Everquest on my back, but I kicked. Believe me, these addictions do screw up real lives...

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    1. Re:Sounds like rationalization to me... by roseblood · · Score: 3, Funny

      "I once had the Everquest on my back. . ."

      Welcome to the new 12 step program of GA - Gamers Anonymous. Please feel free to stand and introduce yourself.

      I am Casio282, and I'm a gameoholic. My wife told me I spent too much time on the computer playing games. She said I was dropping out of life for a game. She said I was giving up on being a social being.

      I told her that the game was played over the modem and I was being Massively Social in my MMPORPG of choice.

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    2. Re:Sounds like rationalization to me... by scotch · · Score: 3, Insightful

      Yep. Are you going to listen to the heroin addict about the virtues of his vice? Never trust an addict.

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    3. Re:Sounds like rationalization to me... by SimplexO · · Score: 4, Funny
      It IS after all just a video game...
      It IS after all just pot. I mean come on... It never does anything long term...

      pfft.

    4. Re:Sounds like rationalization to me... by The+Notorious+ASP · · Score: 4, Funny

      This coming from a guy whose username is "Scotch". Sounds like an addict to me!

    5. Re:Sounds like rationalization to me... by domninus.DDR · · Score: 2

      I was on eq for about 14 months and had 130 days played between two level 60 characters. I got off it too but without any 12 step program or anything. My parents decided I needed to stop playing so they cut off my broadband and broke my old 56k modem in half and said I wouldnt get it back until I got a job (I am 16). Between school and the job it wasnt worth playing any more, I would get home at like 11pm and only 2 hours of raiding with my guild until they all went to sleep.

    6. Re:Sounds like rationalization to me... by scotch · · Score: 5, Funny

      What does tape have to do with addiction?

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    7. Re:Sounds like rationalization to me... by whereiswaldo · · Score: 5, Insightful

      I once had the Everquest on my back, but I kicked. Believe me, these addictions do screw up real lives...

      And addictions always have a way of being justified as many people are trying to do here.

      Anyone who has ever smoked cigarettes and quit successfully can tell you that it plays games with your mind when you try and quit. It can even make you feel crazy. The addiction intermingles with your whole being. Without it, you are not the same person everybody loves. You aren't happy. You're stressed out. Unless your craving is satisfied.

      And when the addiction is well on its way to leaving your body and mind, you start to think in new ways. You think "what the fuck was I thinking all those years?" You might even cry about the days of your life that were wasted.

      So do yourself a favour: take one addiction, and stop it. Fill your time with something else. Dwell on helping others instead.

    8. Re:Sounds like rationalization to me... by domninus.DDR · · Score: 2

      Well it was 2001, not this last year, but.. yea.

    9. Re:Sounds like rationalization to me... by ealar+dlanvuli · · Score: 2

      I averaged 60hr/week while in school and working.

      It's really not as hard as you might think, you have to remember that you do *nothing* but play EQ when your addicted.

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    10. Re:Sounds like rationalization to me... by dnoyeb · · Score: 2

      I agree. After playing war2 for years. Then getting into Starcraft games of which can take an hour to finish I decided no more.

      My old crack, err, Starcraft buddies are trying their best to get me to buy Warcraft 3. I ain't gonna do it.

      I have a son, and a wife. They can suck time like nobody's business. I have no time for such games anymore. Besides, RTCW is so much better ;)

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      When I was a child, I spake as a child, I understood as a child, I thought as a child: but when I became a man, I put away childish things.

    11. Re:Sounds like rationalization to me... by aWalrus · · Score: 2
      Yep. Are you going to listen to the heroin addict about the virtues of his vice? Never trust an addict.

      Well, you can hear all about the non-virtues of the vice by the people not involved in it, right? If you want to actually know why people do it, you have to hear the opinion of the people doing it. After all, there must be more to heroine that shitting your pants constantly and screwing your life, or people wouldn't be so keen on using it, right? (have you seen trainspotting?). Same thing with all vices. True, the opinion of the addict is biased. But the opinion of the non-addict is also uninformed.
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    12. Re:Sounds like rationalization to me... by scotch · · Score: 2

      Not all users are addicts (at least for some things, not sure about heroin). Non-addict users are a good source of information about the virtues of a thing. Trainspotting seemed to a good job of showing more than a positive of negative caricature of heroin addiction, but since I don't have personal experience with ths shit, it's hard to say.

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    13. Re:Sounds like rationalization to me... by The_dev0 · · Score: 5, Informative

      Damn straight. I know this is OT, but I wanted to give you a little insight into the problem. I had a heroin addiction for three and a half years, and finally kicked all chems from my life about 18 months ago. Friends often asked my why people would use heroin enough to develop an addiction, and all I could say was "don't knock it until you've tried it" because, as you say, it is impossible to know without being there yourself. Heroin feels great. I won't go into a long a detailed description of how and why it feels so good, but this is the main problem trying to explain usage problems to other people. You want to use it because it feels unreal. You don't wake up going "oh no, I'll have to score today to feed my beastly horrible addiction", you wake up and say "i'm gonna get some smack today and have it because it feels so fucking good, and I can't wait". It's hard to explain to somebody who has never used just how good it feels. And that's the problem of the addiction, you certainly aren't suffering while you're on the nod. You like it, and use it more and more until you physically need it. People seem to have this false idea that users are almost "tricked" into habits, but believe me, it's all self-inflicted. Once the heroin takes over though, you are a slave to it, and not the other way around. It affects your thinking, your emotions, your logic, your judgment, everything. Your life suddenly focuses on heroin and not the things that are actually important in life. This is much like gaming addiction, in that the more you play and play, the bigger a part of your life it becomes, and due to the nature of time, other facets of your life must suffer to make room for the addiction. Unlike heroin however, gaming does not have a real-world reward (at least on smack you are high). Also, heroin addiction, like smoking, revolves around routine. Just like how the ex-smoker gets hooked on the physicality of smoking, (rolling a smoke/ using the lighter/ ashing the cigarette/ hand-mouth movements) the junkie gets hooked on the routine also, or as others have called it, "the feel of the steel" ie: mixing up in the spoon, preparing the drug, injecting the drug. Gaming also has similar routines, getting a mountain dew, getting smokes, snacks, whatever ready for a nights solid gaming, sitting in front of the computer, etc. It seems to me all addictions have these routines in common, almost like a ceremony before or during the act. Breaking those routines is as (and for some people, moreso)important as kicking the addiction itself.

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    14. Re:Sounds like rationalization to me... by aWalrus · · Score: 2

      Thanks for the insight. That was really helpful. Hope your recovery process goes great. I can understand your point about the routines. I used to be a smoker. The hardest part of not smoking anymore (after the physical need goes away) tends to be dissasociating certain activities (partying, having some coffee, being outside on the cold) with smoking. Well, thanks for a great post :-)
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    15. Re:Sounds like rationalization to me... by The_dev0 · · Score: 3, Interesting

      Hey man, i'm with you. It's a nice feeling to think I may have helped. You are dead right about The fact that it is so much fun is particularly crucial to the addiction. This is a facet of addiction I think the drug education groups are going to have to face instead of only looking at the long-term effects. People take drugs for a reason, but they keep coming back because of the drug itself. If shooting smack was like stepping on one of your nuts, nobody would do it.

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    16. Re:Sounds like rationalization to me... by smallfries · · Score: 2, Interesting

      Well I'll take it as a reliable anecdotal source and I'll swap it for another.

      I've smoked pot on and off for ten years, at some stages I've been a heavy smoker (about a half ounce a week) and at other times I've hardly touched it.

      I'm quite fit, healthy, I love my job and I'm a very motivated person.

      Personal stories are just that, stories about you, unless you get the chance to relive your live you'll never know if it was the choices that you made or something about your own makeup that determined how your life went.

      On the other hand, I've known people who have been 'damaged' by it in the same way. It is something that can screw you up if you're susceptible, or that can cause no harm if you're lucky. I'd say that is less harmful than alcohol and tobacco which will always cause damage if you use them continually.

      I've recently quit smoking entirely (hated the nicotine addiction that all joint smokers tell themselves they don't have). I now stick to baked goods only.

      I find that the effects that are frequently reported (lethargy, lack of motivation, ill-health etc) are those that are caused by nicotine. Perhaps it is the joints doing the damage rather than the drug they contain. Smoking is a very dangerous habit.

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    17. Re:Sounds like rationalization to me... by Creepy · · Score: 3, Interesting

      There also is a link between heavy use in formative years (~12-18) years and suffering from depression or manic depression (I know of at least one such person, and she still smokes).

      I personally don't smoke (anything), but my social circle is primarily artists and musicians, most of whom smoke pot at least once in a while. My personal drug of choice is caffeine and I've got some great addict rationalizations for it :P

      I've also noticed the lack of motivation thing among some heavy pot smoking friends (with one exception - which happens to be the person with manic depression). The casual users don't appear to have this problem.

    18. Re:Sounds like rationalization to me... by aiabx · · Score: 2

      This is weird, but you may want to see a doctor. The desire to eat ice is a frequent indicator of anemia. Strange but true. I don't know what eating tape means, though.
      -aiabx

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  2. Sounds worse than... by BSOD+from+above · · Score: 3, Funny
    chronic /. addiction.


    Ouch!

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    1. Re:Sounds worse than... by netsharc · · Score: 3, Interesting

      I find I'm addicted to /. I keep reloading the main page to see if there's anything new, and read all the comments to see if someone said anything funny or interesting. It's pathetic really, then when I talk to (geek) friends in the real world I'd just regurgitate the opinions I read online which I agree with. What happened to having one's own opinion.

      Gotta do a Java assignment, I sit there, and reload Slashdot every 5 minutes when I'm supposed to stare at the code and think a bit. Sucks.

      My name is netsharc, and I'm a slash-addict. Anyone else wanna share their story?

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  3. Similaraties by Malicious · · Score: 2, Insightful
    When Bowling, one may have to wear ugly shoes, but occasionally, you may get a trophy, or even prize money.
    Drug addicts, can eventually become wrapped up enough in the life style, that they can become dealers, or sometimes get freebees.
    Play Everquest long enough, eventually you can sell your character for megabucks on Ebay.

    More proof, that evil begets evil.

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  4. First hand account ? by Brandeissansoo · · Score: 2, Funny

    Considering the audience, I don't think we need to read an article to understand gaming addiction...

  5. This is nothing to laugh at by ekrout · · Score: 4, Informative

    Game addiction is a serious problem, one that's almost as wretched, terrible, and harmful for loved ones than drug, sex, or gambling addictions.

    Take, for example, the EverQuest Widows page. Their opening paragraph states simply that "EverQuest-Widows is a forum for partners, family, and friends of people who play EverQuest compulsively [who] turn to each other [for emotional support]".

    So please catch yourselves before you joke about addiction. All addictions, not just ones related to drugs, are serious problems that must be solved before disaster strikes.

    In conclusion, I urge you all to read this heart-wrenching essay in which Jeffrey Stark talks about how a video game ruined his young life.

    Truly a sad story. Remember people: games are for fun/entertainment, and are not real life. Same goes with Slashdot!

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    1. Re:This is nothing to laugh at by GigsVT · · Score: 2, Funny

      Hi,
      I'm GigsVT, and I'm addicted to water.

      It started out innocently enough, a drink here or there at the water fountain in school. Then all my friends started doing it too. It was hard to resist the urge to drink.

      Luckily I found this site before it was too late. I have since quit drinking water, and am proud to say I only drink rum or vodka these days.

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    2. Re:This is nothing to laugh at by Fizzol · · Score: 2, Informative

      >Game addiction is a serious problem, one that's almost as wretched, terrible, and harmful for loved ones than drug, sex, or gambling addictions.

      I call Nonsense!

      Have you ever lived with someone with an addiction like drugs or alcohol? To say that game addiction is as harmful as alcohol is absolutely ludicrous!

      I've been to that EQ Widows site and it's a joke. A bunch of self-absorbed women who have nothing better to do than sit around and bitch about their husbands video games, and talk about the best ways to delete thier spouses characters. It's utterly pathetic.

      And again, talk to the spouse of someone with a real addiction.

    3. Re:This is nothing to laugh at by murphj · · Score: 3, Insightful
      Truly a sad story. Remember people: games are for fun/entertainment, and are not real life. Same goes with Slashdot!

      If I made you smile, befriend me [slashdot.org] (435 fans)!
      This from a guy who seems to get his self esteem from his number of /. friends?
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    4. Re:This is nothing to laugh at by packeteer · · Score: 2

      Have you ever lived with someone with an addiction to games? How is gaming addiction less harmful than alcohol? Addicts spend huge amounts of money of computers and internet connection. They lose huge amounts of money by spending their time playing games. Relationships go to hell just like any other drug addict. I have seen both drug addiction and game addiction... its the same thing. An addict is an addict regardless of what they are addicted to. The way for an addict to get helpis with a 12 step program. Not many game addicts need a 12 step program to stop if it affects their life but also many people are just fine with stopping alcohol if they need to.There are also people who are addicted to both and they must understand its all addiction. They arent getting any better unless they treat the addiction not the drug.

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  6. Addiction Social Interaction by markwelch · · Score: 5, Interesting
    I disagree with the notion that addiction to computer games is more beneficial than "addiction" to bowling, or other non-harmful physical activities. Generally, those who bowl don't do it alone; the issue is, is it better to spend time interacting with people through a very limited artificial interface that includes non-human interaction (e.g. online games) or none (non-online computer games), or to spend that time engaged in interactions that are "real" (e.g. you are face-to-face with another human being, interacting).

    I'm not advocating drug use or even sexual addiction, but just disagreeing on the issue of computer game addiction. I've gone through phases when I've spent a lot of time playing computer games, mostly offline but sometimes online, and the main benefit is the sense of escape, not skill development or interaction with others.

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  7. It can be a lot worse by HaiLHaiL · · Score: 5, Interesting

    An old friend of mine was a MUD addict. He claimed it to be more addictive than crack. As a result of his MUD playing, he flunked a semester of school, since he wouldn't go to class, study, do his homework, etc.

    Sounds pretty far fetched, but MUDs can be so damn enticing.

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    1. Re:It can be a lot worse by Stapler · · Score: 2, Informative

      Well, MMORPGs are just MUDs with 3D graphics brah... :P

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    2. Re:It can be a lot worse by Monkelectric · · Score: 4, Funny
      This girl I was interested in spent easily 12 - 18 hours/day playing muds. She pretty much only got out to go to class and to see LOTR :). We went on some dates but I couldn't handle it... She was always telling me about what was happening in the *5* muds she played simultaneously. I wanted to scream at her, "you dumb bitch none of it is real!" She was used to the admiration of sex-crazed mud boys who adored her because she played muds AND had a vagina (and she was quite attractive). Whereas I thought her MUDing was a serious character flaw.

      I play alot of videogames, so its not that foreign to me ... But MUD addiction seems to center around some serious pathologies (and I supppose alot of other non-chemical addictions). It's always the same kind of person who is attracted to MUDs, dark, depressed theatre geeks who need to escape reality. Anybody who you can walk up to and say, "Hey how you doin today?" and they reply "Great! I found the key of zathros today." has serious problems not related to videogames :) In the end I just gave up on her

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    3. Re:It can be a lot worse by LinuxHam · · Score: 2

      Was he featured in this book?

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    4. Re:It can be a lot worse by Scarblac · · Score: 4, Funny

      This girl I was interested in spent easily 12-18 hours/day playing muds.

      So did I. But our computer rooms weren't open longer. I'm so happy I didn't study at the Uni of Warwick in the UK, where they were open 24/7. I knew a guy there who slept in his car for a year. Many people didn't leave the labs for days (can sleep on three or four chairs). Etc.

      One of the worst of them eventually married some American woman, and last I heard, was working for Microsoft.

      So let that be a warning!

      (hi guys, I'm sure some of you will read this :-))

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    5. Re:It can be a lot worse by Rogerborg · · Score: 5, Funny

      Happened to one of my college buddies too. When they kicked him out, he screamed "They can't do this to me! I'm a wizard!"

      It's funny... as past history. Not such a giggle at the time, as I remember.

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    6. Re:It can be a lot worse by detritus. · · Score: 2

      There is still a good number of people who play MajorMUD, and are addicted even though they have scripts to play for them 24/7.

      Muds, IMO, are like those "choose your own adventure" books I used to read as a kid. It's pretty much an interactive, never-ending storybook, as opposed to graphical online RPG's.

    7. Re:It can be a lot worse by sql*kitten · · Score: 2

      An old friend of mine was a MUD addict. He claimed it to be more addictive than crack. As a result of his MUD playing, he flunked a semester of school, since he wouldn't go to class, study, do his homework, etc.

      Hell, an old friend of mine was a staying in bed addict. He claimed he just couldn't be bothered to get up. As a result of sitting on his ass all day, he flunked a semester of school, since he wouldn't go to class, study, do his homework, etc.

      Sounds pretty far fetched, but MUDs can be so damn enticing.

      So can anything, why the hell is it people expect sympathy for what amounts to no more than the self-inflicted condition of being lazy and dull?

  8. I should use that excuse! by EverStoned · · Score: 2, Funny

    "the editor has spent over a year investigating on gaming addiction." I wish I could call my playing to much video games something scientific like that. *sighs, goes back to playing PS2*

  9. What Industry is THIS? by core+plexus · · Score: 5, Interesting
    "In an industry scrutinized by the government as a drug infested haven that pollutes our communities and destroys the ability to lead a productive life, there is another industry that has the potential to become even more dangerous than any drug addiction."

    After reading through the article, I fail to find what the first industry alluded to in that paragraph is. It doesn't seem to be gaming, or more correctly, online gaming. It does seem to be a "drug infested haven". Sounds like the U.S. Congress, or perhaps Big Business.

    1. Re:What Industry is THIS? by EverDense · · Score: 2

      Completely out of context, but...

      "In an industry scrutinized by the government as a drug infested haven that pollutes our
      communities and destroys the ability to lead a productive life
      [...]

      If things weren't so twisted; that would be an apt description of the Defence industry.

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  10. Stop your addiction now! by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 4, Funny

    chmod 000 -R /usr/bin/games /usr/local/games

    It worked for me.

  11. Or... by Linguica · · Score: 2, Insightful

    ...is it possible that this guy was just addicted to video games for a year and now is trying to rationalize it by writing an article about it?

  12. "Related Links" at the bottom of the article... by scaryjohn · · Score: 5, Funny
    • Anarchy Online
    • Dark Age of Camelot
    • Ultima Online
    • Diablo II
    • The Sims
    • Everquest
    • Try Anarchy Online free for 7 days! (We dare you to). =]

    And in our upcoming story about heroin addiction, we'll have an interactive special feature where you can enter your zip code and find the location for the dealer nearest you!

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  13. Gaming addiction by Helpadingoatemybaby · · Score: 5, Insightful
    I've been there.

    Having all my money going into arcade games was morale destroying. I believe that there is no difference between being addicted to video games and VLT's (slot machines).

    It's not whether you win or lose, it's just that you have to keep playing. It's a vaguely sexual feeling -- that you might be found out, that you'll be "in trouble."

    Profoundly depressing, actually. After a couple of years I managed to stop, but there was no self help groups back then, nobody to talk to (and who takes a 12 year old that's spending $50 a day on video games seriously anyway??)

    If you're addicted, step back, do whatever, throw out the computer. Quit two, three, four times or as many as it takes to get it out of your life. And don't go back.

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    1. Re:Gaming addiction by Zebbers · · Score: 2

      how the fuck does a 12 year old get 50$ a day?

  14. Sounds like the husband that... by dagg · · Score: 5, Interesting
    Sounds like the husband that says he is a great husband:
    • Doesn't beat his wife.
    • Doesn't drink.
    • Doesn't do drugs.
    • Doesn't sleep around.
    But all he does do is sit in front of the TV and talk on Internet chat rooms. Just because you don't beat your wife doesn't mean you are a good person. And just because playing video games doesn't make you a bad person doesn't mean it is good for you.

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    1. Re:Sounds like the husband that... by DAldredge · · Score: 4, Insightful

      What about posting 7000 different version of that link to that damn script you post ever 5 minutes. Does that make you a bad husband/wife?

    2. Re:Sounds like the husband that... by GT_Alias · · Score: 2

      I don't think she was saying she's a great person, she was just saying there are more destructive things she could be wasting her time on rather than video games. I don't think the point is that everyone should play video games, but rather that those who do aren't really hurting anything (except probably their social lives and such).

  15. Addiction sucks by Scarblac · · Score: 2

    Myself, I totally wasted about three years on MUDs, 1993-1995. And I only consider myself cured from all the psychological after effects of that life since about a year. I still haven't finished my CS study, but it's finally going fast, I'll finish that thesis soon. Still, years down the drain.

    And from what I hear of these MMORPGs, they must be more addictive. I will stay the fuck away from every online game.

    So this article reads familiar. Author knew someone who wasted years, cut himself off completely (so did I - apart from MUD playing friends). She didn't believe she could be sucked in, tried the game, and was also trapped.

    So these games are exactly like heroin, addiction-wise. If you haven't played a MMORPG yet, don't start.

    That said, LPC is still a cool programming language :-)

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  16. Evercrack by prichardson · · Score: 5, Informative

    I remember this time last year i was just kicking my everquest addiction. I realized that it just wasn't fuffilling at all. My social life was trashed, except with my friend who also played. I wasn't even enjoying the time I did spend playing it. When I canceled my subscription it felt as if I risen to a new level of councousness.

    Now I have a lot more friends, have lost 40 pounds and am much happier than I was before.

    I still play video games some, but not a lot.

    Also, please note the difference between a mental addiction and a chemical addiction. A mental addiction is all force of habbit, like video games or marajawana. A chemical addiction, to nicotine or alchahol is much different and a lit harder to kick.

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    1. Re:Evercrack by messiertom · · Score: 2, Insightful

      Well, one could argue that something like Everquest (or pot, or masturbation, et. al.) that's considered a "mental addiction" gives great pleasure. This pleasure is caused by the release of endorphins in the brain (which is actually what nicotone does too; it increases endorphin release).

      So really, I don't consider there to be any difference between traditional addictions like nicotine and less conventional ones like Everquest (which btw, I DON'T play)

    2. Re:Evercrack by ealar+dlanvuli · · Score: 2

      I personally have a theory as to why EQ is so addictive (other than the ones presented in the article above).

      When I finally rejoined reality last year (all my friends quit at the same time) we started discussing the addiction rationally. The common theme we all found was everyone changed their view at least 10 times a minuite except when chatting. I don't know if everyone is aware of this, but when your mind gets confused spatially it creates alot of adrenaline and some morphines.

      We eventually decided that half of the addiction to everquest was the simple act of pressing f9 to get an adrenaline high.

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    3. Re:Evercrack by Graff · · Score: 2
      I must have spent over 12 hours a day playing it...

      But I wasn't enjoying playing it. It was a misery. Everyone one the game hated me, and I hated all of them. I was frequently being banned, but I always found a way back...

      When I did die, I'd lose so much (in the way of xp and equipment etc), I'd go insane, smashing up furniture and walls in real life. There's still a foot-wide hole in the wall where I smashed it in using a metal pole

      In the end I just got bored and stopped playing. My life has improved since then, but not by much. I still have no friends, I've put on several stone in weight, and time I used to spend playing the game I now spend watching the telly.

      You may or may not already know this, you may be blocking it out, and you probably don't want to hear it but you have to see a mental health care professional about this behavior. I certainly do not have any sort of competency in the mental health care field, but this sort of behavior is very alarming.

      Look at it this way: you were spending most of your waking hours playing a game you didn't like to play, you would deliberately sabotage any personal relationships in the game, you would act out your frustration with the virtual world by breaking stuff in the physical world, and now that you don't play you have very little improvement. Doesn't this sound abnormal? Even your posting this here is probably some sort of calling out for help. Now, I don't know you and you don't know me but please try to find some help from someone. Even if life looks crappy right now it doesn't have to be that way in the future.

      There are people who can help. You can be happy, and not in a sickening sweet way but in a "go out and kick ass" way! Look at the first few pages of a phonebook, they often will have counseling lines posted there. Go to a doctor, ask him for help. Believe me, it could be a stupid little thing like you need more light or less sugar or even an increase in certain vitamins. Sometimes just a little change can help. Look for that help, it is your right to feel good and succeed in life.
    4. Re:Evercrack by Graff · · Score: 2
      You bit, fool.

      No, I answered. I know it might have been a troll, but then again it might not have. If it was a troll then so be it, he got me, big deal. If it was not a troll then maybe I helped. Either way it took me a few minutes to write something just in case it wasn't real.
    5. Re:Evercrack by Dusabre · · Score: 2

      Physical addiction little harder to crack?

      No. You get the shakes, you get a fever, you start vomiting, you want to die, you feel like you're dying. You curl up in a ball. Then you eat yogurt. And gherkins. And cry a little. And your body stops wanting and needing the substance and you go back to a normal life. Or at least as normal as it can be if you're surrounded by what you used to crave. Still if the body doesn't want it, the mind doesn't, quitting is a question of suffering through the feedback.

      Psychological addiction - you can't go cold turkey. You think about it. Thinking about it makes you want it. You can't stop thinking about it. Everything you see/think relates in some weird way to your addiction. Days/weeks after stopping you still think about it and you can imagine how it would feel like to just have a little go/hit... it's your controlling mechanism, the mind that craves, you can't force or switch off the feedback.

      Oh, you have to do a lot of mj to get a psychological addiction. Or so I'm told.

    6. Re:Evercrack by prichardson · · Score: 2

      True but usually a physical addiction comes witha psychological addiction.

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    7. Re:Evercrack by ealar+dlanvuli · · Score: 2

      Actually I thought it spelled itself out, but apparently not.

      f9 changes your view from first person to various third person views. As an enchanter (I had to keep all the mobs in the fight in line, other classes had other roles) I used this constantly to watch the battle, but after I quit I realized I hit f9 considerably more than was practical. In fact many times when I was just standing still I would almost pound on the f9 button to kill time while waiting for replies to messages I sent to players. All my friends reported similar experiences when I brought it up once.

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  17. It is not *just* video games by foolip · · Score: 5, Funny

    While I agree that games are "better" being addicted to than most drugs (coffee, anyone?) I really can't agree with the conclusion of this article. Gaming addiction can be expensive as hell (especially if you're on dial-up and pay per minute, as we do in Sweden). I had a brush with this sort of behaviour when my brother was playing Ultima Online every day for about half a year -- although he eventually just got tired of it. Any activity which holds you from interactive with other people for a very long time is quite harmful to you, even if you don't actually *like* people.

  18. My name is Teamhasnoi by teamhasnoi · · Score: 4, Funny

    and I am a Slashdotaholic.

    1. Re:My name is Teamhasnoi by morie · · Score: 2

      Why was he modded funny? It's a problem!!!!!!

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    2. Re:My name is Teamhasnoi by Guppy06 · · Score: 2

      Part of your problem is that you think you /. handle is your real name.

  19. Where's the line? by Nefrayu · · Score: 4, Interesting

    Where's the line drawn between addiction and fandom? I've been hooked on Command and Conquer games since they first appeared. I've tried others in the genre like Starcraft, but they just haven't done it for me. I'm going through withdrawl waiting for Generals to finally make it to the shelves, annoying the piss out of the local software shop guys everytime I'm in the mall by asking them to give me the up to date release date.
    When I do get a new C&C game, I normally spend the next 3 weeks playing that in my free time. I find myself staying up until 3 or 4 am, and my girlfriend gets hooked too, so that doesn't help things (is she an "enabler?"). After about 3 weeks, it doesn't give me as much of a "high" as it used to, so I don't play it as much. But then comes the expansion pack and another 3 weeks of my life.
    So I ask you, when does this become an addiction and when is it just being a fan?

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    1. Re:Where's the line? by lkaos · · Score: 2

      Typically the clinical definitions of when any signs of a pyschological disorder becomes a "problem" is if the disorder leads to a decreased quality of life and persists for 6 months.

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    2. Re:Where's the line? by nEoN+nOoDlE · · Score: 2

      So I ask you, when does this become an addiction and when is it just being a fan?

      I think when you're loved ones start a page for it.

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  20. Horse shit. by NineNine · · Score: 4, Insightful

    These "people" are pathetic. They are simply people with zero self-esteem, zero drive, and who are intrinsically lazy. They have the willpower of a doorknob. I know this is gonna be modded "flamebait", but it's very simple. It's not a physical "addition" and it's insulting to people with real additions. These are just lazy fucking slobs who use "addiction" as a crutch so as they don't have to get their fat asses off of the sofa. Any serious problems that strike these people and their families are brought on by themselves. It's that simple.

    1. Re:Horse shit. by whereiswaldo · · Score: 4, Insightful

      Any serious problems that strike these people and their families are brought on by themselves. It's that simple.

      Without compassion, these people may never come out of their addiction. It's easy to have zero tolerance for others' mistakes, but remember that someday you may need help. Maybe you already do and you just don't know it. Maybe we all need a little help sometimes... let's be there for each other.

    2. Re:Horse shit. by Scarblac · · Score: 5, Insightful

      These "people" are pathetic. They are simply people with zero self-esteem, zero drive, and who are intrinsically lazy.

      I can remember when I played MUD 15 hours a day, fanatically, to protect my position on the toplist and my position in the guild. I thought I was very important, and with that devotion, drive and laziness were not the problem at all. I wouldn't wake up at 7.30 to be at the uni computer rooms at 8.00 then (note: all of this is years ago). Self-esteem, perhaps. The other two are horse-shit.

      In my opinion there are three big factors that make online roleplaying addictive:

      • Competition. When your friends make 200k xp/hour, and so do the guys around your #14 place on the toplist, you want to get at least that as well.
      • Responsibility. Once you're one of the higher players in a guild, you're important for the rest. My MUD had unique weapons in it, and there would be a reboot every few days, at unpredictable times. The good players had to be online when the reboot happened, or this reboot would suck for us.
      • Escapism. After a while, your real life will slowly become a mess. You panic. In the meantime, you also think your online problems matter. And you get that endorphin rush the author also mentioned. So you decide to play another hour, and the trouble gets worse.

      And for some people, social contacts I suppose. But I was thinking of xp/hour, and finding exploits (always a fun race between players and coders).

      In short, the human brain wasn't built to make a difference between real life and virtual life. And the importance people want to have in RL is sometimes easier to get online.

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    3. Re:Horse shit. by freeweed · · Score: 4, Insightful

      Thank you for having the courage to post what noone else seems able to (including myself :).

      What ever happened to people helping themselves, anyway? Why is everything always someone else's fault, no matter what?

      "He ignored me because of a video game." Sorry, lady, he ignored you because he's an insensitive asshole. It's not that hard to turn off the damn computer once in a while, and pay attention to those you supposedly care about. If you don't, that shows more about how much you care than it does about some sort of 'addiction'.

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    4. Re:Horse shit. by mickwd · · Score: 2

      "They are simply people with zero self-esteem....."

      So you think you can just shake off low self-esteem by "getting off your ass" ? It's that easy, huh ? Why do you think people get addicted to other "real" addictions in the first place ?

      "Any serious problems that strike these people and their families are brought on by themselves"

      Does this include the victims of other "real" addictions ? Any why the hell do their families deserve any of the problems ?

    5. Re:Horse shit. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 4, Insightful

      I hope you get over your addiction to simplistic
      answers to complex questions.

    6. Re:Horse shit. by NineNine · · Score: 2

      That's insulting as hell to compare people who've been through war with fat, pasty, overindulgent, wealthy people who play video games. Insulting as hell.

    7. Re:Horse shit. by SoupIsGoodFood_42 · · Score: 2
      So can you explain the difference from an addiction that could be caused be a mental illness and a physical one?

      People like you crack me up. That being: A person who belives that a person with low-self esteem or a mental illness is a loser or pathetic, the are not...Hell, not even you are pathetic in reality. Serial killers are not evil either. The human brain is just a set of electrons and chemical reactions. That fact that you are juding people by who they are is just silly.

      If you can understand that, then it doesn't even matter if you don't understand anything about physical or psychological addition.

    8. Re:Horse shit. by Dephex+Twin · · Score: 3, Insightful
      It's not that hard to turn off the damn computer once in a while, and pay attention to those you supposedly care about.

      Congratulations. You aren't addicted to video games at all. It's not hard for me to keep from gambling either. I guess gambling addicts are just being little babies about it, too. (Who knows, you might actually think that...)
      If you don't, that shows more about how much you care than it does about some sort of 'addiction'.
      It's an addiciton! If it was a matter of caring more about one or another it would be called a passion.
      What ever happened to people helping themselves, anyway? Why is everything always someone else's fault, no matter what?
      Who says that just because it is an addiction that the addict doesn't need to help him/herself, first and foremost? The reason for noticing the addiciton trends is so that you can maybe take measures to keep other people from falling into the same trap in the future.
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    9. Re:Horse shit. by SoupIsGoodFood_42 · · Score: 2
      Yes, and I guess that makes you just another narrowminded clueless asshole?

      Should I say that you're just a cunt because you're dumb and don't understand anything what these people go though?

      No, and No. Because then I would be as bad as you. But I hope I'm getting the point across.

      Cripes, I though /. would be the last place to be overriden by pathetic, thoughtless, bigoted, stereotyped opinions.

    10. Re:Horse shit. by jschrod · · Score: 2, Informative
      Here we see how young (mentally) most /.ers are. And how "high" their education is.

      That there are other addiction than physical ones, and that game addiction is one of the strongest one is known since aeons, and has been documented and illustrated so often in literature that one cannot count it any more.

      Go out to a real library, and read Dostojewski some time. (He lived from 1821 to 1881. English transliteration of his name might be Dostoevsky.) Go and read his famous book "The Gambler". You might join the thousands of readers who have learned something.

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    11. Re:Horse shit. by urbazewski · · Score: 2, Interesting

      Does anyone beside me see the irony here? Game addicts are "lazy fucking slobs" who need to get their "fat asses off the sofa". Porn addicts, on the other hand, are NineNine's bread and butter. (Or at least his hobby.)

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    12. Re:Horse shit. by aWalrus · · Score: 4, Funny
      someday you may need help. Maybe you already do and you just don't know it

      Considering NineNine has posted 1575 comments on Slashdot, you may have a point =)
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    13. Re:Horse shit. by Lemmy+Caution · · Score: 2

      You are quite wrong. Addicts have among the strongest "wills" of anyone. And that's part of the problem.

    14. Re:Horse shit. by kubrick · · Score: 3, Funny

      Cripes, I though /. would be the last place to be overriden by pathetic, thoughtless, bigoted, stereotyped opinions.

      You must have missed the Jon Katz articles.

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    15. Re:Horse shit. by Robber+Baron · · Score: 2

      These are just lazy fucking slobs who use "addiction" as a crutch...

      He says with a link to a porn site in his sig! That's like the crack dealer saying it's the addicts fault.

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    16. Re:Horse shit. by tgibbs · · Score: 2
      It's not a physical "addiction" and it's insulting to people with real additions.
      It's all physical. There is increasing evidence that "addicting behaviors" and addicting drugs activate the same physical brain pathways.

      Still, there is reason to be cautious about applying the term addiction to behaviors. What is unique about addicting drugs is that they directly activate reward pathways that have evolved to reinforce behaviors that improve survival or reproduction--things like eating and having sex. By bypassing the "filters", you end up reinforcing destructive behaviors (e.g. injecting contaminants into your veins), or providing a shortcut to reward that competes with important survival related behaviors.

      This isn't really true for "addictive behaviors." Here, the reward pathways are being activated in the "proper" ways. So there is a key distinction. But the brain isn't all that smart in choosing what behaviors to reward--these are very ancient pathways, evolutionarily speaking. For example, many species are vulnerable to "super-stimuli"--exaggerations of the natural behavioral triggers (silicon implants, anyone?). So maybe some of our rewarding behaviors shouldn't be so rewarding. But this inherently involves making a value judgement. If we we say playing a MMRPG is "addictive," we are implicitly making the judgement that the online social interactions and other activities in such games are "excessively" enjoyable--i.e. their value to the person is not commensurate with their reward value. How do we draw the line between a harmless enthusiasm and a harmful addiction

      So we are led back to the same kind of criteria that we use to evaluate whether a person is addicted to a substance:

      Does the individual in question feel that he is engaging in this activity excessively? Has he tried and failed to cut back? Have there been negative consequences? Are other aspects of his life suffering as a result of this activity?

    17. Re:Horse shit. by Doc+Hopper · · Score: 2

      I disagree, NineNine. Addiction takes many forms, and it is not necessarily due to someone having "zero self-esteem", "zero drive", or being "intrinsically lazy". Ask any co-worker where I work as a Sr. UNIX Systems Administrator, and they'll let you know that I work hard as the best of them. I've lost 30 pounds in the last 5 months (30 more to go and I'll be back at college weight!), do hard exercise every day to keep in shape, spend time with my family every evening reading stories, playing, and talking, am respected by my coworkers for the quality of my work, and feel I have well-balanced life at the moment.

      I'm also a recovering Everquest addict. The habit is under control now, and I play at most 2-4 hours per week; I had quit cold-turkey for about 6 months to be sure I had the habit under control. However, for a long time I would spend many, many hours in front of the console, typing madly and levelling my characters. I lost a job over it. My wife was extraordinarily unhappy about it. My children hardly saw me.

      Don't stereotype people by their addiction(s). They are not intrinsically lazy, nor do they lack self-esteem or drive. That's simply *your* perspective on them. Yes, they allow their habits to grow out of control, and often can't quit until they get a "reality check" to remind them of what's really important in life. That's where I'm at now. I'm just glad I didn't let the addiction get to the point where I felt like I could not get out. However, I was close, and only the shock of getting fired from a job for non-productivity got me off the EQ grind and back into reality.

      As other have mentioned in these threads, neither the addict nor the non-addicted have a full, balanced perspective on the issue. I personally think that recovered/recovering addicts generally have the most balanced perspective regarding the addiction. But, then again, that's where I'm at, so probably my perspective is skewed. We have enough hatred and bigotry in this world without people adding to it with such loaded terms. A person is a person, with his or her own needs, desires, and motivations. Only that person truly understands her perspective, and speech loaded with vitriol towards someone due to her habits does nothing to improve the situation.

    18. Re:Horse shit. by Natalie's+Hot+Grits · · Score: 2

      "That's like the crack dealer saying it's the addicts fault."

      That's like starbucks saying it's the drinker's fault.

      I'm not a crack dealer, but I can assure you it's not the dealer's fault that one of his customers is addicted. It's not like these people are forcing it down their throats on school playgrounds. Shit man, you are one of those "war on drugs needs to be extended to the death penalty" types of people. But you don't even realise that it costs our country more money, manpower, resources than any other government program in existance.

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    19. Re:Horse shit. by Darth_Burrito · · Score: 2

      I don't have a lot of first hand experience, but I imagine that these people need to honestly understand their problem as much if not more than they need compassion. For instance, quoting the parent post:

      in which Jeffrey Stark talks about how a video game ruined his young life

      The game ruined his life. The phrasing here indicates a classic denial of responsibility which I see often whenever someone claims to be addicted to something. A game didn't ruin this person's life, he did. The way to take control of your life is to accept full responsibility for your own actions. When you paint yourself as an addict, you are blaming something else for your problems. I'm addicted, it's not something I can control.

      When you ask someone what he likes to do, he'll often say read, go hiking, swimming, or any number of things. Then if you ask him when the last time he did any of these things was, he'll say he read a short novel 2 months ago and went hiking a little last summer. So does the person really like doing these activities? Or are they spending all their time playing Everquest? The key to happiness is to find out what you like and who you want to be, then be that.

    20. Re:Horse shit. by Darth_Burrito · · Score: 2

      It's an addiciton! If it was a matter of caring more about one or another it would be called a passion.


      Speaking of psychological addictions, what is the difference between an addiction and a passion? I'm something of a control freak. When I do something, it is because I chose to do it. The notion of a game or other activity asserting willpower over my own is, well, completely foreign to me. I mean, if I chose to do something for hours a day for a duration, it is either because I am paid for it, because I have a passion for it.

    21. Re:Horse shit. by Darth_Burrito · · Score: 2

      I'm also a recovering Everquest addict

      The thing I don't understand about these things is, isn't this a choice? What makes it an addiction? I mean a game doesn't exert a magical control over you, does it? It shouldn't have any power to direct your will.

    22. Re:Horse shit. by _Spirit · · Score: 2

      That's why it is an addiction, I mean, not drinking wodka or not lighting a cigarette is a choice as well. That is the one thing that is present in all addictions, you mentally lose your ability to make a choice. I don't believe there is any major difference between different addictions. Quitting is always about making a choice and standing by it, everything else is details. Simple ? Yes. Easy ? No.

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    23. Re:Horse shit. by Doc+Hopper · · Score: 2

      I wouldn't say that it takes away your choice, necessarily. It's simply that it becomes a habit which is intensely difficult to break, more so than most habits. For instance, I've been a compulsive over-eater most of my life. While I was a teenager, this wasn't a problem. Once my metabolism started slowing down a bit around age 20, I began putting on the pounds, until eventually I grew from 178 lbs to where I was before starting my recent diet, 255 lbs at 6'1" tall.

      Those who have been skinny their whole lives will probably have trouble understanding this, too.

      The habit crept up on me. I didn't even realize I had it until I was way up, around 240, and despaired about my size and shape. I found comfort in eating, and would console myself by finding something tasty to eat.

      Game addiction, or most other addictions, are also similar. You don't realize you have a problem until you're so deep in the problem you don't see a way out. In Everquest, I became despondent about work stresses, and played to tune them out. It was a good rush, and returning to "reality" was a real let-down. I had friends who cared about me in the on-line world, and in real life my wife was constantly nagging me about my playing time, my children demanded my attention and whined a lot, and work was always breathing down my neck.

      Realize, now that I'm out of that mode of living, I don't feel this way about things :) Work is simply a fun challenge, my children love me and need nurturing, and, amazingly, if I put forth a little effort to help around the house once or twice a day, my wife doesn't nag me about it! She loves me, too :) Pretty cool.

      So I agree with the above poster, mostly. You *can* make the choice not to participate in the addictive behavior, but it causes extreme stress. However, much as with my weight-loss campaign, the only way to succeed in the long term is to deal with the stress and pain, not give in to the habit that made you miserable yet you want at the same time, and just look forward to a day that ends without you having given in. With food, last night I had the overwhelming compulsion to go get more cookies from the jar; instead, I redirected that to pickles. At 6 calories a pickle, they are pretty much crunchy water :) This is much the same recovery process any addict goes through with any substance or other addictive thing. I just hope people don't discount the pain because "it's just a game." The pain is real, the relationships are real, and those who think "game addiction" is simply due to absence of will or desire to work are deluding themselves, terribly misinformed, or deliberately trolling to get a reaction.

    24. Re:Horse shit. by Soulfader · · Score: 2

      Wow, I could've written this. I was a relatively casual player--perhaps 15-20 hours a week. I had a friend who stopped just short of failing out because of Astaria. She DID lose her place in the honors program we were in.

  21. Lucky for her by caffeine_monkey · · Score: 3, Insightful

    It seems a bit irresponsible for her to dismiss gaming addiction as "just another amusement park". Clearly some people don't have the same willpower as she does, and for them gaming addiction is a real problem that causes them to become antisocial and lose touch with their friends, their jobs, their lives. The very word "addiction" means that the compulsion is stronger than the person's resistance. Any kind of behaviour which resists one's better judgement is damaging, IMHO.

  22. Real Addiction? by littlerubberfeet · · Score: 2

    I think video games, especially online games, are addictive not only for their stimulation, but also their communication. What better way to communicate with someone then to use primeval instincts like killing?

    On another note, knowledge can also be addictive, take the everything2.com phenominon. 50,000 people addicted to knowledge

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  23. NEWSFLASH! by Rayonic · · Score: 2, Insightful

    Obsessive-compulsives can get addicted to video games.

    Film at eleven.

  24. The difference... by Cynical_Dude · · Score: 5, Insightful

    ...between online roleplaying and other games, even online ones is the amount of time needed to get "into the game" every time you play.

    If I compare my Everquest addiction (which is over) to my Counter-Strike addiction (which is being revived) I'd say that I can pop in for a quick game of CS, but just as quickly log out again and go off to some social activity, whereas EQ would keep me tied to the screen.

    The problem with EQ (and AO, DAoC, whatever) is that you need on average around an hour just to get going in the game. You need to get to some place where you can kill something, find a group, wait for friends, etc etc...

    Once you enter the high level game in any online RPG you will have to sacrifice even more time. 24-hour non-stop playing sessions of a 50+ member guild for some rare item are not uncommon in the very high end game.

    THAT's when your life starts going down the drain...

    1. Re:The difference... by Sycraft-fu · · Score: 2

      I disagree. I, and a good number of the people I work with, all play online games. For me it's Dark Age of Camelot, for them it's Everquest. Now, I've been playing Dark Age almost since it came out, over a year ago. In that time I've played a total of about 16 days. That's an average of an hour a day for that year. I'm in a guild and all that (a large one too).

      Or take another guy, he's been playing Everquest ever since it went out of beta in 1999, that's 3 YEARS. In total, between all his characters, he has maybe 30-40 days played time, doesn't have a single character to level 50. He's in a couple of guild with his different characters.

      So, how do we do it? Simple, we play the games to have FUN. Sometimes, I want to play a lot of Dark Age. It'll be almost all I'll do for a day, or a weekend and I'll put 8-10 hours in. Sometimes I'm bored of it, and won't play for a couple weeks on end. Sometimes I'll log in for a bit at work between the end of the day and a downtime and just kind of mess around, not really accomplishing a whole lot.

      It is perfectly possable to play these games and not take them seriously. Ya, you don't hit the highest levels, become an unber badass, or the like. So what? It's not like you have ot be addicted to these games and spend every hour playing them to enjoy them. I would venture to say that MOST MMORPG players just play them casually, no more than someone might watch TV or the like.

      Some people, for various reasons, have trouble knowing when to quit and get totally wrapped up in these kind of games. Then again, some people escape by just sitting and watching TV all the time. Most people use them for what they are: games, entertainment.

    2. Re:The difference... by analog_line · · Score: 2

      The problem with EQ (and AO, DAoC, whatever) is that you need on average around an hour just to get going in the game. You need to get to some place where you can kill something, find a group, wait for friends, etc etc...

      Well, you don't NEED to. I currently play both DAoC and Anarchy Online, the former regularly, the latter irregularly. Yes, there are some things you need to have large groups for and preparation is required, but those are by no means the only things there are to do in the games. EQ's ultra rare mob spawn/drop system isn't like what all other games have. I regularly pop on DAoC or AO when I have a few minutes to kill before doing soemthing/going somewhere. I'm a habitual multitasker, so even if I play during work hours (basically self-employed tech-for-hire) I'm usually researching some problem or working on something at the same time.

      I also use the games as a way to keep in touch with my SO who's in grad school on the other side of the country. No, it's not "face time" but it keeps us doing stuff together, and it helps alot with the long distance relationship. Better than just speaking through IM, and cheaper than the phone bill.

      The hardcore spend tons of time on it, but the hardcore are just that. To those people it has ceased to be a game and has become a sport, and any sport requires an insane amount of practice to be the best at.

  25. gateway games? by Bicoid · · Score: 5, Funny

    Question is, when're they going to start legislating games? I mean, if Evercrack and MUDs are the "hard" games, then what about so-called gateway games? Are they going to make Pacman illegal because it can lead to more severe game abuse? And they do have anecdotal evidence that video gaming can lead to violence and other crimes. Who knows, people might start committing armed robbery because they can't afford the next Evercrack expansion.

    The above is not a comment on the "War on Drugs." If you take it as such, you're a low-down good-for-nothing hippie crack dealer terrorist who is against democracy and everything else the US stands for.

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  26. Happy Ending...?! by agent+oranje · · Score: 3, Funny

    Essentially, this woman just conveyed that she is an addict, but justifies her addiction as healthy, as she could be doing something worse...??!

    Well, I'm glad I'm addicted to nicotine. Without cigarettes, I might be smoking crack! Thank god I found this addiction before I moved onto something more serious, like bowling or television.

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    -agent oranje.
  27. Addiction is Addiction by Warin · · Score: 4, Interesting

    I was a MUSH addict back in 1995. I'd play for hours at a time, instead of going out to look for work (I'd been laid off from an ISP before the internet REALLY boomed) or paying enough attention to my wife and new son. And I payed for it with a divorce and a lot of very hard times.

    The addiction to EQ and MMORPG's is very similar. There is a sense of community that is often lacking in our 'real world' For me, it was emotional support that my wife didnt have the energy to give me while dealing with our child.

    It's easy to call people who get addicted to games losers, or deride them for their lack of character. But in the end, it's about finding something there we dont find elsewhere. I was on the beta for Earth and Beyond, and even ran a fansite in the days before it was even beta... but I got out when I saw myself going down the same road I had in 95. Not everyone can do that... and the sooner people realise the fact that these games are addictive for a reason and make the effort to break the cycle, the sooner there will be less Everquest Widows.

    1. Re:Addiction is Addiction by Warin · · Score: 2

      I cant believe I am replying to someone who lacks the courage to post under their own name, but hey.. what the heck.

      You've never gotten addicted to anything?

  28. Game addiction is pervasive by Flamesplash · · Score: 2

    One thing that makes this a little worse than other addictions is that it can be done anywhere, thanks to thing like the gameboy.

    I was invited to Thanksgiving dinner by a friend. It was me, another mutual friend, her, her parents and her brother.

    Her Brother was about 26 I'd say, and he spent the entire time sitting amongs the rest of us on the couch playing Metroid Fusion on his BGA. He had headphones one and would make random comments like "Ah there it is!" or "Now where did he go." We would all look at him thinking he was addressing someone.

    What's probably worse is that neither his parents nor his sister made him stop. They just let him be a zombie amongst us. I must admit that I was like this about 10 years ago with the first gameboy. In the car especially, but I was 13, he is 26 and no one seems to really care enough to do anything.

    With most other addictions you have to be in a certain area to do it, or it costs a lot of money. ie. portable tv's aren't that cheap and don't get good reception, but gameboys, gamegears, etc.. work just as well anywhere and no one really looks at you oddle if you use one.

    --
    "Not knowing when the dawn will come, I open every door." - Emily Dickinson
    1. Re:Game addiction is pervasive by sql*kitten · · Score: 2

      What's probably worse is that neither his parents nor his sister made him stop. They just let him be a zombie amongst us. I must admit that I was like this about 10 years ago with the first gameboy. In the car especially, but I was 13, he is 26 and no one seems to really care enough to do anything.

      Maybe his conversation is incredibly dull? Better that he keep quiet and let people wonder than open his mouth and remove all doubt.

  29. Re:What weak-minded nonsense by Fizzol · · Score: 5, Insightful

    Well lets see when was the last time one of your family members jumped in a car totally blitzed on EQ and rammed it into a three other cars?

    That'd be never I'm guessing.

    When was the last time your father had too much EQ and beat the crap out of your mother on a family vacation?

    Again I'm guessing never.

    When was the last time one of your family members had too much EQ and beat one of their kids with a golf club?

    Again, I'm guessing never.

    Don't compare the horror of alcohol addiction to a video game until you've lived through it. The entire notion that they're even remotely as damaging is insane.

  30. Video game and technology addiction hurt[my story] by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 5, Informative
    I suffered for years from video game and technology (i.e. Slashdot-esque geek) addiction. The moderators who are busy now preparing to mod my post as flamebait are likely now doing the same things I once did:
    • Spending thousands ($20k/year or more) on gaming, gaming hardware, and gaming 'paraphanelia' (posters, artifacts, clothing items with game logos, etc.) Sure, I guess I could afford it... but imagine how much this could have helped my future retirement? Or could it have paid for school (I now have $$$ in debt) or even fed the homeless?
    • Ruining relationships with real people. My tech addiction killed a five-year relationship and ended my marriage, not to mention disconnecting me from friends, old and new. It will take years for me to repair the damge, if I can ever do so.
    • Making me socially inept. I have the mouth of a sailor, the patience of a crack addict and the manners of a mob hit man. This wasn't always the case... but after several years of interacting only with armed players on computer displays, most of my skills for interacting with real people are long gone. Habits are hard to break.
    • Ruining my education. I was paying thousands in tuition and then not showing up to class. I would end up with my high-end laptop on the campus wireless network sitting under stairs or in utility closets somewhere gaming. I missed exams, papers, and innumerable opportunities, including the opportunity to study abroad.
    • Setting myself up for withdrawal... Giving up gaming left me with literally nothing in my life. I had sacrificed everything -- everything -- in the interest of the game. I essentially burned every bridge for gaming success. So now, when I am finally trying to give up... what do I have to turn to? Nothing. I must face my debt, my loneliness, and my academic failures on my own. The desire to continue with my gaming/tech habits is incredible. I have started drinking, feeling that it is better to be passed out on the floor than gaming (it's cheaper, too.)

    I'm not saying that everyone will be affected this way... But I urge you all to be careful. You, in the Slashdot crowd, are easily the most susceptible... and I suspect that many of you are affected already.

    Good luck to you all.
  31. Unfortunately, not Horse shit. by Syncdata · · Score: 2

    They are simply people with zero self-esteem, zero drive, and who are intrinsically lazy. They have the willpower of a doorknob.
    Your statement about them having the willpower of a doorknob is correct. But to say they are intrinsically lazy is false. How many hours do they put into these games? Generally, these people play for hundreds of hours.
    I've never found a game which captivated me so thoroughly, but many people have.
    It was about a week ago that an article was posted to slashdot, citing Will Wrights concern about the ethical issues surrounding the Sims Online, and as well he should be. He is supplying a product which stimulates the pleasure center of the brain, as any drug dealer does.
    Working in maxis tech support, there were a number of callers who we dealt with all the time, and many others I had simply heard stories about. People who had lost their jobs, people who played the sims 8 hours a day, people who called Tech support, just to have someone to actually talk to. They were so absorbed in the game, the only people they shared any frame of reference with were the people who worked to fix the game.
    We've heard about everquest, and the like, but I gaurantee, when the sims online comes out, it will offer 100s of case studies for psychiatrists world wide.
    Next time an article like this gets posted, it will be in newsweek, or time, not gamespy.

    --
    "Inattention makes clowns of us all" -Bean
    1. Re:Unfortunately, not Horse shit. by Photon+Ghoul · · Score: 2

      You can also form relationships and bonds with people that go beyond the game itself and into real life. Quite a few of the people that I've known for awhile have been relationships that first formed through online games and the surrounding communities (or indirectly through them knowing someone I knew through gaming.)

      Some deep and caring relationships have been formed though such means.

  32. MMORPG, or part time job? by Maul · · Score: 2

    I tried playing EQ way back when. I didn't find it very fun at all, mainly because I felt the setting lacked personality, the players lacked personality moreso.

    I then tried the Anarchy Online Beta for... about a week during the summer. I thought the game sucked. Probably a good thing.

    I tried playing DAOC. This lasted a bit longer, because the setting was much more interesting. I started playing close to the time the game began.
    I actually had some fun going out and killing things, unlike EQ. I thought the people in the
    game were a bit better as well. I even joined a guild. Unfortunately, the fun didn't really last too long.

    When I got to around level 15 or so, I began to realize that the game was quickly turning into a part time job. I had to spend more and more time on the parts of the game I didn't like. To make matters worse, quite a few people from the EQ community seemed to have discovered the game, and the servers started to get filled with lamers.

    Since I was only taking one class at the time that was really that difficult, it didn't really hurt me that much... but I felt that I would just have to keep pouring more and more hours into the unrewarding aspects of the game. At the same time, I began to feel alienated from my guild because a lot of the members were putting in 60+ hours a week! I decided to quit the game, which was a good thing.

    I think the real reason I tried these MMORPGs was to recreate the fun I had playing D&D during high school.

    The reason I think I enjoy NWN so much right now is that it isn't an MMORPG. I can play once a week, or less, and not worry about being left behind by the people I know. I'm not playing a monthly fee, either, so if I don't play very much, it isn't like I'm wasting cash.

    --

    "You spoony bard!" -Tellah

  33. computers cured me by gyratedotorg · · Score: 2, Insightful

    i was somewhat addicted to games when i was a kid. then i went to college and took up computer science. now that i understand the algorithms and stuff behind the games, the magic is gone.

    now i wish that someone could suggest a game for me to get addicted to.

    --
    Gyrate Dot Org - "Where high-tech meets low-life"
  34. Levels of Addiction by Vagary · · Score: 5, Insightful

    You have an excellent point that there are three different forms of addiction which should be regarded as very different:

    • Psychological (eg: gaming)
    • Physical (eg: coffee)
    • Combined (eg: smoking)

    Combined and Physical addictions tend to be narcotics-related and tend to be understood in a simplistic way by non-addicts. But the war on drugs hasn't had a new twist since the rise of ecstacy in North America; fighting drug addiction cannot hope to attract the funding or media attention it once did. So now purely psychological addictions are en vogue.

    I'm not suggesting that some addictions should be left untreated, but it is important to keep their power in mind when making judgements about the sufferers. Right now the hot addiction in Canada is gambling. Should I feel as sorry for someone who goes through mood swings when they stop gambling as someone whose heart stops when they go off heroin? Should I wish the government to devote equally proportional tax dollars to each? Should I spend as much of my time worrying and learning about each?

  35. Social Interaction by Qzukk · · Score: 2, Insightful

    Since I fit in the class of "addicts", I figured I would post my thoughts and observations of myself..

    I think the social interaction is very much undervalued here. When I was in college, I worked two jobs to pay my way, so "free time" was rare. However, from both of my jobs I could get on the internet, and I wound up spending entire days playing MUDs and chatting on IRC. Thanks to the wonders of screen, I could go from home to class to my jobs, and simply reattach to my running IRC session. Sure, I had no girlfriend, but then again, none of the girls I knew would have enjoyed being taken on a date involving a 3AM moonlit stroll through the campus, since I got off work after the bars and resturaunts and such closed. Chatting online gave me a chance to talk to people instead of staring at a terminal in an empty server room late at night. I even picked up speed typing skills to boot. I greatly valued my social interaction with these "virtual" people.

    Only, these people are no more "virtual" than I am! I have known some of them for almost a decade. Some I have visited in person, and had a blast getting to see the so-called "virtual" person. Others are in other countries, places I'll never get to go but love to hear about. Calling these people "virtual" is an insult to their real world counterparts.

    I now work 9-to-5 as a software developer, and I don't get to IRC from work. I don't have time at home on the evenings to play games much, but I still chat with my friends on evenings. Perhaps people might call me an "addict" still, but I don't let it interfere with other things I want to do.

    If you lost it in all that rambling, the point here is twofold:
    1) social interaction is social interaction. Ask yourself what benefits do you gain from constraining people to be in the same place at the same time (aside from the possibility of sex)?
    2) The internet provides a useful source of social interaction. Turning it off (regulating it, in other words) because some people can't handle their addiction won't help anyone.

    --
    If I have been able to see further than others, it is because I bought a pair of binoculars.
  36. Keep your brain matter out of this by the+grace+of+R'hllor · · Score: 2

    'Simply' no self-esteem? And alcoholics are just stupid fucking slobs who need to lay off the sauce, eh?
    Talk about insulting, you insensitive clod.

    Having had a mean active presence of 10+ hours a day on a MUD, displacing sleep until 4-5am while still participating in school, I still wouldn't call it an addiction. But it did displace regular activities, upsetting my sleep rhythm, and partially ruining my first year in university.

    Was it an addiction, though? I logged on first thing in the morning, between classes, and when I got home. You call it.

  37. Interesting... but senseless by Keylarn · · Score: 2, Insightful
    "In the process, I haven't lost my job, and due to our simultaneous obsession, I have not lost my fiancé either. I haven't lost my real life friends, but they do sometimes look at me funny when I talk about the game I play. Low and I get our work done, run our business and have a great balanced life together I think. Anyone who actually knows me in real life can tell you that I have no self image or esteem problems and in fact, I have been accused of having quite an ego. I won't even go into Low's ego."

    In other words playing video games does not automatically make you an addict if you practice control and don't use them to fill an emotional void of some sort. Just like having a few drinks at a bar with your buddies doesn't make you an alcoholic.

    Is the phrase "Moderation in all things." really so hard for the modern world to understand?

    On a side note, if a severe beating is the penalty for cold blooded PK'ing in South Korea I wonder what they do to cheaters? And is there any chance we could adopt it here? :)

  38. actually by tmark · · Score: 2

    she has gone from being a somewhat normal person, to being one of the higher level characters in Anarchy Online...sounds like a happy ending to me

    no, sounds like she really didget addicted. Can you say "rationalization"?

  39. It's just a game, but you can Loose your Job by GroundBounce · · Score: 3, Interesting

    Sounds like a pretty nice ending to me.

    Yeah right. Just ask the two people I know who actually LOST THEIR JOBS because of game addictions. These statements are nothing but self-serving masturbation to give game addicts a false sense of security that they don't have a real problem.

    Sure, game addiction isn't as bad as crack or alchohol, but I've seen it cause serious havoc in people's lives, including getting fired from their jobs, just like alchoholics and drug addicts.

    Casual gaming is great, and maybe even constructive, just like social drinking. But when it becomes an addiction it can be as disruptive to your life as any other kind of addiction, and ignoring it or saying it is OK because it's not physically harmful like alchohol is doing a disservice to people with serious cases who may need help before they end up in the unemployment line.

  40. Addiction by Coleco · · Score: 2, Interesting

    My experience with video game addiction goes back to the hayday of Quake. The way it was like was exactly the same way that crack addicts or heroin addicts are portrayed. That is to say, I sacrificed basically a couple of years that I can't really remember and what justified playing Quake, say, 12 hours a day was that there were other 'friends' I had that did the same thing, and that's really the only thing we had in common. I'm sure I would have fit the psychological profile of an addict in other ways too.

    My point is this however. Since then I've done and tried a variety of different drugs and while they're fun, they've never interfered with my life in any way, and I always felt like I got bored really quickly and it was just a pasttime. also I rarely drink and it doesn't really appeal to me most of the time.

    I was really good about not playing games for a while. But I had to go cold turkey..

    Then a year ago one day I was suppose to to meet up with this girl that I really liked and I ended up playing puzzle fighter for 8 hours straight and totally losing track of time. After that I wiped all my games and broke all my game cds and vowed never to return to video games.

    So really for me games interfered with my life as much as a serious drug problem would, I disagree that it's 'better' than a drug addiction. Maybe somewhat more healthy physically I guess.

  41. Bladder Control of Addiction by jjohnson · · Score: 5, Funny

    I've never been into MMORPG, but I have had some marathon sessions with Sim City and Civilization and any good FPS. My trick to setting an alarm for myself is to ignore my bladder for as long as I can. Having created a competing need that escalates in realtime, I have an unavoidable time limit: going to the bathroom == turn the game off. At some point "just one more turn" no longer outweighs "I'm about to piss myself".

    --
    Anyone who loves or hates any language, platform, or manufacturer, doesn't know what they're talking about.
    1. Re:Bladder Control of Addiction by edunbar93 · · Score: 2

      Heh. You know, when I was playing marathon quake sessions in college, I didn't notice any need to use the washroom. Or eat. Or sleep. Most of the time the thing that interrupted my gameplay was map changes. It was during the time I was waiting for the next map to load, or to find the next server that I noticed the biological need for any of these. Adrenaline was telling my body "that's not important! Stay alive!" It wasn't until the adrenaline stopped for several minutes that those datagrams stopped being sent.

      And damn, did my bladder ever need the relief afterwards!

      --
      "No problem. I have the capacity to do infinite work so long as you don't mind that my quality approaches zero."-Dilbert
  42. Regulate? by gradji · · Score: 2

    I wonder how the "Evercrack" stories will contribute to the current calls for more explicit regulation of the computer/video game industry?

    While I do have problems with some titles which (I believe) explicitly market to an inappropriate segment of our population (much like rated R movies during the 1980s/90s ... before movie companies realized they could make more money selling non-R rated movies) ... I'm not sure we can regulate MMORPG based on the "addiction" argument.

    I keep thinking about the lessons thus far from the "Drug War" -- there are significant (unintended) costs to such regulation/criminalization. If we put an age limit, I think we make MMORPG a more subversive activity. This opens the door for kids to engage in other, more harmful subversive activities -- similar in the way some people are introduced to drugs through "underground" music scenes or serious alcoholism from weekend binge drinking during college. Can you imagine if we criminalized MMORPG for youths ... we'd have "Evercrack houses" in major urban (and even some suburban) communities. Imagine what else people would be providing in these Evercrack houses ... shudder.

    Like many of the other posters, I agree that many Evercrack addicts would have fallen into some other pitfall even if they had never played MMORPGs. Addictions in general often are a manifestation of some other problem ... social life difficulties, non-satisfactory career, self-image issues, etc. This does not mean that these people should not get help. But it does mean that we should be treating the underlying illness and not just the synmptoms (addiction).

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  43. D & D comment by bigdavex · · Score: 5, Funny

    I've heard of game obsessions, like those college kids in the seventies that murdered their whole family while playing a Dungeons and Dragons game, but I just thought that sort of obsession lies only in the minds of sociopaths or people with a lot bigger problems than playing a game.

    I remember that. And afterwards, didn't they take out their kidneys and sell them?

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    -Dave
    1. Re:D & D comment by daeley · · Score: 3, Funny

      Yeah, right after they threw their pewter character figurines into a fire and heard them screaming as they melted. :)

      --
      I watched C-beams glitter in the dark near the Tannhauser gate.
  44. Bandwidth Junkies Anonymous by ryochiji · · Score: 2, Informative
    If you're addicted to Slashdot, there's a good chance you might be a Bandwidth Junkie. But do not dispair, for there is help!

    Read more about the symptoms, stories, and the 12 steps of Bandwidth Junkies Anonymous on their website!

  45. Addicted to life, you are... by Rie+Beam · · Score: 3, Funny

    If you stop and think about it for a second, your real life addiction is ruining your roleplaying life. You've already missed several quests, and your traveling partners have moved on to another part of the world. We really need something to break people's addiction to the "real" world, as it takes so many roleplaying lives, its an epidemic. "Social Interaction" has become like a drug to some roleplayers, and they are quickly flocking to this addiction. It is a proven fact, also, that 100% who exist in the real world eventually die. You heard me right! 100%! This is a terrible statistic, and we must do something about it! The "real" world addiction ends here!

  46. My name is drinkypoo, and I have a problem by drinkypoo · · Score: 2
    Not a bad problem, though. I just play games basically every day. Maybe it's tacops, maybe it's mech IV, maybe it's just civ 2. But if a day goes by where I don't play games, I start to shake uncontrollably.

    Personally, I believe that game controllers are coated with crack. This has two effects; first, you have to play every day, which wears out controllers. Second, to get your fix, when the crack wears off the controller, you have to buy another one.

    Seriously though; My joystick (thrustmaster F22 pro) takes up more space than my mousing area. You have to have priorities.

    --
    "You're right," Fisheye says. "I should have set it on 'whip' or 'chop.'"
  47. im doomed by becktabs · · Score: 2, Funny

    im addicted to computer games AND drugs...worst part about it is they make a perfect combination.

  48. is it really so bad? by myshkinbob · · Score: 2, Insightful

    I don't usually post on /. - i come here to read the humourous trolls and the poorly moderated comments (everyone should browse at -1 and make their own minds up who is talking sense).

    Anyway reading this, there seems to be a lot of holier-than-thou comments, about the weak wills of people etc. But who is it hurting really?

    Lets see, the economy? it is unproductive in that sense true, but people aren't cogs in a machine.

    Their loved ones? well they may be ignoring them, but it's a free choice, if you'd rather play a game all night (after night) than play with your spouse, something isn't right with the relationship. Maybe in their game they meet people they would never talk to in regular everyday life.

    Themselves? well, perhaps, in YOUR opinion, but quality of life is a relative and subjective thing, at the end of the day they are free to choose what makes them happy (see mr goatse.cx for proof that people enjoy many alternative recreational activities to extremely painful looking extremes).

    It seems to me people are too quick to condemn others choices, we're all addicted to something, even if its just our/your way of life in general. i especially enjoyed the post further up putting down the gameaholic way of life that ended with a sig linking to free porn. Games may damage your eyesight eventually, but that bloke will go blind a lot sooner.

    btw i quite intensely dislike rpg's myself, massively multiplayer or otherwise, all the trolls and goblins i need are right here on /. and only take 10 minutes of my time.

  49. games shouldn't be referred to as "addictive" by theoramus · · Score: 2, Interesting

    There was an article I read a couple of months ago which argued that the word "compelling" should be used to describe the kind of game that people usually refer to as "addictive".

    You don't call books you can't resist putting down, or movies you keep watching over and over addictive do you? You call them compelling. Addictive implies a physical addiction and being in a category together with crack. Compelling implies something being of so high quality, it naturally is something you don't want to stop (whichever medium applicable) playing/watching/reading/listening to/thinking about.

    That's about as breif a summary as I can make of the (free subscription required) article.

  50. games == all this life has to offer me by C4-GodH8sMe · · Score: 5, Interesting

    For some of us there is nothing else.

    I've been a gamer since the age of six. Eighteen years later I'm still saving the world, slaying dragons, and rescuing princesses. What did you do today? :)

    Seriously though, gaming is all I have ever known. A broken home didn't offer much stimulation. Interaction at home was practically nonexistant. Unless you're the aggressive type. I don't feed on it, so it never really interested me. My sister on the other hand, seems to crave it.

    School was no sanctuary either. Of course, I was the geek. In the entire school there was maybe 6 of us. Yes we spent our time playing Dungeons and Dragons, Doom, and whatnot. But can you honestly sit here and tell me that these are bad addictions that cause me to be anti-social, lazy, and a unproductive member of society?

    You obviously have no idea what gaming can be about. Have you ever thought to look into how much effort goes into preparing for a weekend of D&D? And how much fun you AND YOUR FRIENDS can have together. Social interaction is NOT necessarily defined by hanging out at the mall, or at work long hours with coworkers - it could be in the comfort of your own home with some close friends). A lot of gamers are recluses because of the way they are stereotyped. This thread is dripping with it.

    I can only argue with the ignorant for so long before I realize it's futile (hence rarely posting on /.).

    Try talking to a hardcore gamer about games. You'd be surprised how much more there is to it. Talk about what interests you. I bet (s)he can twist whatever you do for fun into an 'addiction' too.

    Is it really an addiction if this is the only thing life really has to offer that is stimulating? If the outside world is dull and bland, why be there? Maybe it's not so wrong if the person can't break from time to time to deal woth work and such. Maybe that person realizes that what he is doing is more important to him/her than going to that crappy job again. Let me assure you that work and relationships are not the end-all-be-all of this world. If they are for you, I'm sorry. You're going to need a lot of help.

    Sure, some people are weak willed and are late for work, miss a payment, or whatever because they were playing a game. How many times have you come to work late because you were up late drinking? Or on a date the night beore? Or reading a book all night that you've been dying to read? Or even working late the previous evening? My point being, you can twist anything in to an addiction. Nothing in this world is healthy for you. You might as well do something you enjoy and ignore people that have nothing better to do that stroke their egos by telling you you're useless because you enjoy something they can't even begin to grasp.

    Oh I'm sorry, It's not addiction if it's your thing, right? Didn't mean to point any fingers. But for the purposes of this article, stop thinking about fishing this weekend for a second, stop typing your lures, and take that ridiculous hat off. Oh, but fishing is productive... I forgot. Because you do it.

    Now if you'll excuse me, I have to go to bed. I'm up 2 hours past my bedtime because I was playing Baldur's Gate : Dark Alliance. I enjoyed every minute of it. I'll still be enjoying it at work tonight while I have to put up with the boss. I'll be half asleep thinking to myself while he drones on about what a pitiful man he is, what a worthless existence we all are really living, and how I'm going to save the world or slay a dragon later tonight. No respect I tell ya...

    --
    We are all Gods unwanted children. Did you ever consider he may hate you too?
    1. Re:games == all this life has to offer me by fruey · · Score: 3, Interesting
      If your post is serious...

      If you're happy with it and causing nobody else harm, then that is fine. If you have income, can hold your job, and want for nothing more, then fine. If you pull yourself away to work properly and don't skive at your job to do it, great. But if not, and your productivity is suffering, you will be sacked sooner or later. Plenty of us out here work fucking hard for our money, and cannot take a life of leisure and skiving to the extremes you suggest you have.

      Heck I'd love to just play music all day, but I probably won't ever get paid for that.

      --
      Conversion Rate Optimisation French / English consultant
  51. Real addiction. by Lemmy+Caution · · Score: 5, Insightful
    Real addiction occurs when the obsession for the addictive object ends up compromising normal healthy developmental goals. When you start missing classes, when you give up a healthy social life, when you start lying about how much you're drinking/gaming, when you choose your drug/game over your SO (and the relationship with the SO was, pre-addiction, healthy), then there's a problem. I've seen this happen a lot.

    There's a tendency in talking about this to either a. defend the substance ("it's not the game's fault! It's the personality of the person/their lack of willpower/etc! Anything can be addictive!") or b. attack the substance ("won't someone think of the children..." etc.). Both are somewhat wrong-headed. It's naive to think that the game/whatever has nothing to do with it - some things are intrinsically more likely to be part of addictive behaviour than others. Some games are more addictive than others, and MMPORG's seem to lead the pack (there's a lot of possible reasons - their open structure, the psuedo-social aspect and the sense of competition and fear of getting "left behind", the enormity of the game-zone, etc.) MUDs and MOOs used to be the culprit, probably for similar reasons. (The whole "endorphins" explanation that gets tossed around, like the article has it, is really overextended. There are limbic systems far more extensive than that one at play, and it doesn't explain the nature of addiction any more than talking about the digestive system explains world hunger. And other, more 'neuroactive' games, don't show the same addictive effects as the frankly slower Everquest and company.

    Even though many people play FPS's a lot, I haven't seen the sort of destructive fall-out from them that I've seen with other games - I don't know of anyone who failed out of school or became an antisocial shut-in because of Quake or Counterstrike.

    In a sense, people who really like video games but would never let them interfere with the normal functioning of their lives (personal and professional) abuse the term "addiction" when they describe themselves as addicted to the games. I found the article underinformed and somewhat irresponsible - the realities of addiction are far more complex than a little controlled "experiment" will illuminate.

    1. Re:Real addiction. by Niten · · Score: 3, Interesting

      While you have a good point about why, in general, FPS games are far less addictive / destructive than the more "social" games, I would like to add that here at the U of F I have a suitemate who, almost every other night, will stay up until six in the morning playing Counterstrike online. This often causes him to sleep in for the rest of the day and miss an entire day's worth of classes. He even dropped two classes this semester because of this problem.

      So yes, while MMORPGs are generally more addictive than FPSs, even a seemingly innocent FPS has the capability to wreak havoc on one's "real" life. I suppose that this can only get worse in the future, with advanced system such as Xbox Live providing an even more social online gaming experience.

    2. Re:Real addiction. by Lemmy+Caution · · Score: 2
      I wouldn't say it's impossible to become addicted to FPS's or even Quake. I just don't know anyone who has this problem, and both my general impression, and the data that we've seen circulating, suggests that it is disproportionately associated with MMORPGs, and that there is something about the structure of MMORPGs that accounts for the difference.

      Personally speaking, my longest sessions of play were/are for Squaresoft games and resource management (Civ, Alpha Centauri, etc) games. I actually have wasted a couple days on them, something I've never done with other genres. But on the macro level, I believe my observation holds.

    3. Re:Real addiction. by dvdeug · · Score: 2

      I have a suitemate who, almost every other night, will stay up until six in the morning playing Counterstrike online. This often causes him to sleep in for the rest of the day and miss an entire day's worth of classes.

      I almost wish I could do that. I'll stay up to six in the morning sorting mp3s, cleaning up files, screwing around with new programs, checking my email every two minutes, and in general doing pointless geek things. I wouldn't be surprised if your friend has little social life; I might blame the Counterstrike on the social life, rather than vice versa, though.

  52. Stella Shopping by DaveAtFraud · · Score: 2

    Hey, this sounds like a helluva way to get a Stella. Become an on-line gaming adict, have your RL go down the tubes, sue everybody you can think of for taking advantage of your poor, sorry, individual responsibility lacking backside. Make lots of money and have fun playing on-line games while doing it!

    What a scam. I want a cut from anybody who pulls this off since I thought of it. Hmmm, maybe I should patent it :-)

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  53. Re:Video game and technology addiction hurt[my sto by aussersterne · · Score: 2

    Wow, what an insensitive response. It strikes me that the original poster was trying to help others by making them aware of something that they might be affected by, yet might not see for themselves.

    Read the last few lines of the post again. If you can't understand it when people have the best interests of others at heart, someday you'll likely end up desperately needing help while stupidly turning it down because of your own pride.

    I for one hope that the original poster overcomes his/her demons and even if you won't, I'll certainly give them a cookie for posting their "story" in a potentially hostile environment like this one...

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  54. The Nature of Addiction by ninjadroid · · Score: 2, Interesting

    From dictionary.com:
    addiction
    1a. Compulsive physiological and psychological need for a habit-forming substance: a drug used in the treatment of heroin addiction.
    1b. An instance of this: a person with multiple chemical addictions.
    2a. The condition of being habitually or compulsively occupied with or or involved in something.
    2b. An instance of this: had an addiction for fast cars.

    Perhaps this source isn't reputable enough to support my upcoming claim, but I'd like to point out that the preceding definition makes no mention of the impact addiction has on one's social life. I'm pointing this out because the cited article, and public conciousness, tends to append "social desolation" to addiction's list of symptoms.

    This bothers me. My roommate has a heavy, self-professed dependency on soda. My parents can't get started in the morning without a cup of coffee. My siblings will fall over dead (I kid you not!) if they miss "awesome tv show X." However, they all have healthy social lives; does this mean they are not addicted? Just because these habits don't separate them from society doesn't mean they aren't addictions, IMHO.

    I, on another hand, have no social life; in fact, I'm generally loathe to interact with people. I would rather hack than "hang out" (::shudder::). Does this mean I am addicted to hacking?

    I find that I am happiest hacking, that is why I choose to do it. I find that I dislike socializing, and it substracts from the time I have available to my personal pursuits, so I choose not to do it. These are concious decisions; neither compulsive nor habitual. I also vacation from hacking at intervals, and I indulge in many other hobbies and interests in addition to hacking; though it may be my primary occupation, it is not the sole proprietor of my livelihood. Therefore, I would conclude that I am not addicted to it.

    On the contrary, it is those individuals who simply _must_ interact with each other in perpetuity that are the addicts ;-)

    Note: I am aware that this post constitutes a form of human interaction. My aforementioned lack of a social life is in the traditional sense; I do manage to exchange information with other human beings through various mediums from time to time.

  55. Wait until Star Wars online comes out... by $now+Crash · · Score: 2, Funny

    There won't even be people left to post comments at /. Snow Crash (a computer virus that infects hacker neural code).

  56. Call me old-school... by EvilBuu · · Score: 3, Funny

    ...but I think I'd enjoy a side-scrolling, third-person account of video game addiction more myself. Even Metroid is first-person now...

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  57. Look at the log in your own eyes by analog_line · · Score: 5, Interesting

    Yes, I play games, an awful lot. In the vernacular, I would be called a gaming addict. I've called myself that, and have no problem with it, so feel free. Whether it is a "real" addiction could be argued to death. I don't get the shivers when I'm not playing a game, but I certainly think about it often enough. It fills my time. I reject out of hand all accusations that I merely am rationalizing anything. I frankly don't see it as by default irrational in the first place, so there's no need to spin it to make it appear so.

    Here's the real end of the story. People are responsible for the consequences of their own actions. Of the myriad positions made on this point, the ones that have been modded up appear to fall into one of two catagories.

    1) These "gaming addicts" are worthless and spineless, without the self control the gods gave moths.

    2) The games made me do it! I couldn't stop myself! They're dangerous! Keep away!

    There is (at the very least) a third way to look at the whole "addiction" scenario. Maybe, just maybe, people have respsonsibly taken a look at the world around them, their lives, and sundry other things, and have chosen to spend a large portion of their time playing video games. Who gave any of you the right to pass judgement on another person's social situation? Hmm? I'm waiting. The world is a hellhole these days. Our government seems intent on passive-agressively stripping us of our rights, moving us inexorably toward the gods know what kind of war. People with a grudge against me because of a government I can't stand and have excercised my franchise against are out there looking to kill anyone who might happen to be around, and scare the fuck out of the rest of them. If you disagree with anyone, they want you marginalized or dead. I wouldn't wish this world on anyone. How can you be surprised that people would feel the need to form their own communities to try and insulate themselves. Why do you give a damn whether that community is online or person-to-person?

    No one gets out of this alive, eh? So take a look at the log in your own eye before you worry about those around you. You techno-fetishistic, mysoginist, life-less circuit-heads. (Hit a little close to home? Good. No? Consider yourself suitably insulted, in whatever way fits.)

  58. Re:Video game and technology addiction hurt[my sto by mandolin · · Score: 2
    I have started drinking, feeling that it is better to be passed out on the floor than gaming (it's cheaper, too.)

    Is this a cry for help? It's not better. Don't do this. Simply put, every other problem of yours will get worse. Plus you'll have lots of new ones. Think about it.

    I used to game a bit. I don't really anymore. Running linux full-time helps with that btw :) Find something healthy/constructive that you like to do, and get addicted to that instead. Some people call this a "hobby". You'll still be addicted, but at least your liver won't be fucked up.

  59. Girlfriend addiction by QuantumG · · Score: 5, Funny

    from the article: Three years ago at a nightclub I bumped into an old friend of mine who went by the nickname "Iggy". I was really amazed to see him because no one had seen nor heard from Iggy in over a year. Many of his friends had all wondered what happened to him.

    Man, that is so 100% what happens to me about every two weeks. My answer is not "everquest", it's "girlfriend".

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  60. Pay by /dev/trash · · Score: 2
    lose my hard earned money

    But aren't all the cool games online and charge fees?

  61. Re:Video game and technology addiction hurt[my sto by Darth_Burrito · · Score: 2

    I suffered for years from video game and technology (i.e. Slashdot-esque geek) addiction... etc... etc....

    Maybe this is a stupid question, but why?

  62. Re:Video game and technology addiction hurt[my sto by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 4, Interesting

    Here is my story

    I started p;aying games back when I was about seven years old. It all started with my NES, and man did I love it. I played it hard for a while, about 3 or 4 hours a day. Not much longer, we got a computer, and I started playing Dune 2, I lost so much time to those games. By the time I got to high school, I was the biggest gamer in my school.

    I remember back in grade eight, the teacher had us all write something nice about each of us on a piece of paper. Out of about 25 people, 15 or so all said either, he is good at nintendo or video games. I never realised that this was bad. I am naturally intelligent, and I did no homework or notes or studying for tests. I was able to pull about an eighty average, while playing these games.

    Once I got to high school, I started to get more advanced games, I had an N64, SNES, and a powerful computer (heck, I am typing this on that computer) I was playing hardcore my Command and Conquer and zelda on the nintendos. My marks were slumping a bit, but I was not challenged by the classes and I didn't care. Then in grade eleven we got the internet. I started downloading so much junk, and playing online games like a crazed heiena on crystal meth. My marks were about eighty because I was "learning" so much from the internet. Then I discovered pokemon, Final Fantasy, and a few other games that I hardcore played.

    I was logging on about eight hours a day on those things, that and downloading music. I never did any homework, all I was doing was playing games of half-life, and Total Annihilation. It was about halfway through my final year, and I started to really think about what I had been doing.

    I was by far the most intelligent person in the school, but I wasn't going to get any scholorship because I did not work in the classes and that brought down my grades. (I ended up second in the class by about 1%) I have never had a girlfriend. I was drastically overweight. I had spent tons of money on games and internet connections. I had never learnt how to do homework or to study. My grammer and language skills were degrading and as were my skills in the real world.

    After that I entered university, and I made a promise to myself. No more video games. I packed up my nintendos and my computer games and left them at home, while I went off to the university. Now in my second year, I am faced with the aftermath of my life I had when I was younger. I have already lost about 50 lbs in the last year and a half. I have made numerous friends. My self-esteem has skyrocketed. I will freely admit that I was addicted, but I have worked with it and now have it undercontrol.

    Like all addictions, one never gets over it. I have on this computer very few games, like solitare, and I catch myself playing them, even though I try not to. I surf the web far to much, like right now, I am typing on slashdot instead of studing for my econ final tomorrow that is worth 100%. They are hard to deal with, and when I first stopped the games, I felt strange.

    I still to this day have problems stemming from the games I played in my youth. I have poor workhabits, and at university that causes failure. I have never had a girlfriend. However, I do have some good things that came from the video games. I am a CS major, learning how to program in C++ probably inspired from all my computer games. I can hold my head up high and say to all my friends that I am a better game player than them. When I hear them talk about everquest, I laugh inside because I can see their addiction and they can't. They still get to beat thiers. I don't have the added wasted time here in universtiy of playing games, unlike some of them. I never watch TV, because I never got into it, and since I don't play games anymore, I have more free time than ever before. My work ethic is slowly growing better here in the University. My collection of video games it worth a lot.

    True games have cost me alot, financally, physically, and mentally, but I have started to get out of the hole. I feel that I have had to face obsticals that have made me stronger overcoming them. I must say that instead of getting scholarships, but working for tuition has made me work harder at school.

    Video games are addicting, but it is possible to get out from their grasp. The road to recovery is long and hard, but also fufilling and filled with rewards. The hardest step to take is the first one, to get rid of the games and work to be a better person.

    Thanks Kendric

  63. When? by Darth_Burrito · · Score: 2

    When did addictions become so trendy? I mean, a decade ago, people were only addicted to stuff like drugs, alcohol, or cigarettes. These days, I hear people saying they are addicted to video games, movies, shopping, sitcoms, pop, and big macs.

    Maybe I'm just an insensitive clod, no wait, hold the maybe.

  64. Its called withdrawal by gad_zuki! · · Score: 2

    >So really, I don't consider there to be any difference between traditional addictions like nicotine

    Sorry, but that's just stupid. You will not experience real physical withdrawal when coming off MUDs or THC. You will do so coming off opiates and other addictive substances. People have died during withdrawal. Psychological addiction is NOT physical addiction, not by a long shot.

  65. How to break a video-game addiction by willpost · · Score: 5, Interesting

    Phase 1: Leave for a vacation
    You need to break the mental cycle. Everything in your mind and around you can draw you back in. Go somewhere interesting and different for a week and a half, and make sure it takes at least 8 hours to get there. You may bring a laptop, but have no games installed and avoid web browsing. Leave music at home, and avoid anything that will remind you of home.

    Phase 2: Enjoy your vacation
    While on vacation, treat yourself to something nice. Remember what it's like to feel alive. Take a tour. Start up some conversations (Especially if you're single). If you're shy, force yourself to talk to some people. Your brain is outside of your normal cycle. Thoughts will take new paths and flow more freely. Take some photos.

    Phase 3: Examine your life
    At the end of your vacation, spend some time thinking about your situation. Are you happy with your job/career? Do you feel secure at home? Have you accomplished or are working towards your dreams/life plans? Think about your age, how much time you expect to have left, and how you'd like to spend that time.

    Phase 4: Getting home
    Put a vacation photo on your desktop to help empower your mind. At this point you won't have a desire to play games. You can do one of two things:
    a) Hard approach - Treat the games as mental parasitic poison. Uninstall all of them. Get out some scissors and destroy the CDs.
    b) Moderate approach - Games are ok in small amounts but keep an eye on yourself. Spend a certain time each day evaluating yourself and how you want to seriously live life.

    Either way, you will suddenly have an abundance of free time. Do not turn on the TV! Avoid too much music! Feels boring, doesn't it? That's the true nature of reality. Spend this time wisely. Avoid receiving the negative influences and criticism that got you in trouble before.

    Congratulations! You are a new person.

  66. Just an excuse for immature behavior by Darwin_Fish67 · · Score: 2, Interesting

    Drugs have addictions, games don't, no more then gambling does. Sorry, I don't buy it. You make your choices in life, I love games but Monday morning I am off to work, not Dark Age of Camelot, much as I would love to, I got bills to pay. When its my wifes Birthday, I don't ignore her and play games, I take her out. We all have resposiblities, some choose to live up to them some don't and pay the consequences, but it was never about an addiction, it is about maturity. These kinds of media driven "excuses" to justify destructive gambling and gaming habits as "addictions" simply compound the problem by removing a certain sense of onus of responsibility from the individual who needs to address it the most, thenselves. Sorry, I don't buy it. If gaming is ruining your life, address it, stop making excuses and grow up. There is no shame in gaining from our mistakes in life, there is in not learning from them.

  67. why online games are addictive by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 2, Insightful

    Single player games tend to have an ending,
    and you can learn how to 'beat the game'.
    When you've done it enough, you move on.

    Multiplayer games add another dimension:
    you have to compete with other people,
    but there's usually just one objective,
    so everyone involved gets bored eventually.

    However, persistent online games never end,
    and there are literally hundreds or thousands
    of ways to compete against the other players.

    You could spend your entire life trying to be
    the best at everything. (Note: some people try,
    and we call them addicts.)

    But think about this: There is no real winner
    in a MMORPG ... just like in real life.
    (Maybe that's why they're so compelling.)

  68. As everyone here knows by teslatug · · Score: 2

    I chose not to choose life, I chose something else... (reading Slashdot :)

  69. Games teach real life skills by kaoshin · · Score: 3, Funny

    I spent my entire Sunday playing Leisure Suit Larry 6. Sure, I could have been out flirting with real women all of that time... but the next time I have to light a cellulite burning lamp of knowledge to bone a chick with transparent pants in the penthouse I break into, I'll know that my zipper can be used as a match strike plate. I think it pays to devote a percentage of ones time to mastering the arts. It shows you care.

  70. I don't see you mentioning sex. by Inoshiro · · Score: 3, Interesting

    Are you sure gaming is everything life has to offer?

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  71. My Not in any way Humble Opinion by LordZardoz · · Score: 2

    I am a very heavy gamer. However, I have not developed what I would consider an addiction. After reading the article and some of the other replies in this thread, here are my opinions.

    1) The sort of person who is likely to become addicted to gaming is probably getting more out of playing those games with their time then the other activities that are available to that person.

    2) There is nothing inherently wrong with choosing to play a game rather then interacting with people.

    3) The only time an addiction should be considered dangerous is when it begins to supercede things that should not be superceded. To that end, any activity that causes you to fail in your responsibilties to others, or causes harm to yourself and others is bad.

    4) There are things more important in life then heavy gaming, drug use, and gambling. One of those is Soap.

    END COMMUNICATION

  72. Parallel Story by wdr1 · · Score: 2

    Funny.

    The same thing happened to the author of Word Freak. He started out investigating the world of competive Scrabble playing & ended up becoming totally hooked. If I remember correctly, he ends up being ranked over 1600.

    A pretty good read if you're looking for something over holiday travel.

    -Bill

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  73. you need help. by twitter · · Score: 2
    These "people" are pathetic. They are simply people with zero self-esteem, zero drive, and who are intrinsically lazy. They have the willpower of a doorknob. I know this is gonna be modded "flamebait", but it's very simple. It's not a physical "addition" and it's insulting to people with real additions. These are just lazy fucking slobs who use "addiction" as a crutch so as they don't have to get their fat asses off of the sofa. Any serious problems that strike these people and their families are brought on by themselves. It's that simple.

    Hmmm, is that why you spent all day ranting on slashdot, Tuesday December 3? Your posts started before 9AM and end after 6:30 PM with the longest time between posts being less than three hours. Thirteen posts are still visible and there may have been more. At fifteen minutes per post, you do read the articles don't you, your Slashdot habbit cost you about four hours that day. That's a lot of time for a single day, even if you are just a "porn stuff" dude. All of that time could have been spent growing your collection.

    Most of your posts are offensive, much like the one above. Do you get a little rush from acting that way? Or are you paid to troll this place?

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  74. Real? by Synn · · Score: 3, Interesting

    Wow, so I guess your comment is meaningless because it wasn't given to me in person, therefore it's not "real".

    Your viewpoint is very 80's.

    1. Re:Real? by stephanruby · · Score: 2
      Wow, so I guess your comment is meaningless because it wasn't given to me in person, therefore it's not "real". Your viewpoint is very 80's.

      His viewpoint seems to be about sensory deprivation in the physical world. To me, this reminds me of The Matrix.

  75. Not really addicting by Synn · · Score: 2

    I played muds off and on from 92-96 or so, even coded for a few. I played EQ, DAOC, AO, you name it.

    Wanna know how many active MMORPG accounts I have? Zero. Haven't played one for a year or so.

    I just got bored with the genre and quit. It didn't ruin my life any more than watching old episodes of Star Trek did in the 80's, I didn't suffer from any withdrawel or it didn't scar my life(well, maybe William Shatner's bad acting did).

    The horror, the horror.

    How about instead of blaming mud "addiction" you just fess up and admit you were young and irresponsible?

    It's okay to have character flaws, not every mistake in your life needs an excuse.

    Oh, and LPC was a BITCH to debug though. But I was always fond of the Nightmare lib.

  76. Nano-HOWTO: Non-addictive computing habits by Simon+Kongshoj · · Score: 4, Interesting

    Remember there's a world outside the MUD. That's easy to say, I know it, but there are a few easy techniques you can use to make sure you never forget that.

    1. Every few hours, force yourself away from the computer, and go take a walk. Yes, I do mean outside. Yes, I am serious. Go now. You won't need to be away for THAT long, 20-30 minutes is how long I usually spend when trying to make sure that my passions for programming, knowledge (everything2 is as addictive as any MUD) and mudding don't develop into addictions. Sometimes, when you're feeling particularly reclusive, force yourself to take your walk in a populated area, just to make sure that your subconscious still has a fresh image of what people look like.

    2. Remember that the values of the MUD world are not real. You may be the guild master, have a wizard character and a billion XP on your main mortal, but that shouldn't give you satisfaction enough that you forget real-world values. When was the last time you visited a friend? Are you neglecting your {girl|boy}friend? If you're having difficulties keeping these things in mind, a simple way to make sure you don't forget that XP can't give you a hug when you need one is to take a long mudding break every now and then. I mean at least a couple of weeks. When you get back, some of the competition may have climbed to a higher experience level than you, but you should be able to see that this is not the end of the world.

    3. A weak mind is more prone to obsessive behaviour and addiction than a strong one. The mind lives in your brain, and your brain is part of the complex system that is the human body. If you're an anti-social gamer/MUDder/noder/coder, odds are you feed on a strict diet of sugar, starch, spice, caffeine and nicotine, and never get any exercise. I know you don't want to, but you really have to change this. Keep a bowl of fresh fruit nearby instead of the bag of chips. Get some daily exercise. Keep in mind that your body is a system of which your brain is a part. As a computer geek, you should know that overall performance is improved if you eliminate bottlenecks. A possible explanation for the silly old adage that a healthy soul lives in a healthy body is that the supply of blood (with fresh, life-giving oxygen and other goodness!) to your brain possibly becomes more efficient if you keep your body more efficient. This will remind you that you HAVE a body, something computer obsessions make you forget.

    4. Make sure you have at least one hobby not related to computers, and make sure you maintain it with the same zeal that powers your computing hobby. Learn how to paint, learn how to play a musical instrument or use your voice as one, take up martial arts, whatever. The point is to make sure you don't forget that your mind can do other things than play MUDs / write e2 nodes / write C code. Aikido and playing the electric bass worked for me, your mileage may vary. This will also give a rich quality to your hobby life / voluntary skill development that you wouldn't have gotten on computers alone. Nowadays I'm as likely to spend a couple of hours honing my slap/pop technique or learning a scale as I am to spend them hacking away on the computer.

    5. See people who don't play MUDs. Ideally, people who don't like computers at all. No, they're not lamers. No, they're not ignorant. They just have different interests than you, and "different" does not necessarily imply "superior" or "inferior". Go to your local heavy metal bar, or hang out with your newfound band or martial arts buddies, or whatever. This will help you remember that other people have interesting lives too, which in turn will help you remember that there is a vast and interesting world with billions of rooms and the most well-coded mobs you've ever seen, right in front of you!

    An alcoholic / drug addict can never become a social drinker / casual user, but an obsessed gamer, programmer or e2 noder most certainly can develop sane computing habits. Give it a try. Learning to appreciate the real world trains your mind and makes computing more enjoyable, not less. You're a human being, your mind makes you able to do lots of interesting things instead of just focusing on one single skill. Specialization is for insects.

    I speak as someone who has been through both an alcohol addiction and a period of obsessive MUDding.

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    1. Re:Nano-HOWTO: Non-addictive computing habits by Tackhead · · Score: 2
      > Sometimes, when you're feeling particularly reclusive, force yourself to take your walk in a populated area, just to make sure that your subconscious still has a fresh image of what people look like.

      Note to self: Lock myself indoors for at least six months after the release of Doom III, just in case anyone else takes your advice :-)

    2. Re:Nano-HOWTO: Non-addictive computing habits by Simon+Kongshoj · · Score: 2

      Well, shit in curry, someone DID figure out my master plan.

      Guess it's back to the drawing board on this one....

      simon@merlin:~$ vi howto_end_overpopulation.txt

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  77. process addictions by redbeard_ak · · Score: 2, Interesting

    There is a chemical component to process addictions. When you are getting a hit, your brain releases the opiates. You do go through withdrawl - trust me on this.

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  78. Hi my name is Stephan by stephanruby · · Score: 2
    I am addicted to Disneyland.

    I spend 10 hours a day every day there.

    It has gotten so bad, I've lost my girlfriend, I've dropped out of school, and all their employees know me by name.

    Next year, I will move to Florida, so I can go to Disneyworld.

  79. Interaction, bandwidth, and watching the box by Morgaine · · Score: 4, Interesting

    There are a number of fallacies being expressed in this thread.

    The first is that, for some reason which is never explained, interaction with humans by going out and meeting them in the flesh is somehow good, while interacting with their chosen images in an online world is somehow bad. There are many reasons why this argument is threadbare, and there are even counterarguments to favor online interaction, but I'll point out just one fallacy that undermines it all: so-called "direct" interaction is actually nothing of the sort, it's just better-integrated electronic interaction with those people in your physical proximity. Your eyes and ears (both electronic signal interfaces) provide you with most of that alleged "direct" interaction unless you're in sexual contact, and that's no different online. The difference is primarily one of bandwidth and degree of integration with your senses; it's early days in that respect online, admittedly, but if your anti-online argument relies on those underdeveloped aspects of it then you have to admit that your argument will lose validity in the future as those things improve.

    The second fallacy relates to bandwidth of interaction and its importance. The signals we receive are merely hints to our perceptual machinery, as our minds perform an immense amount of interpretation on the data that comes in. The extent of this internal processing is so collosal that we are easily immersed in virtual worlds when reading novels, and the bandwidth of incoming data there is absolutely minute, a tiny fraction of today's typical modem bandwidth. In a modern online MMRPG, the bandwidths involved are much closer to those in so-called "direct" interaction that those involved in reading, so the low-bandwidth argument is not convincing. In any case, I've yet to hear anyone trying to claim that reading is not worthwhile owing to low bandwidth compared to "direct" interaction with people.

    And finally, since the topic of so many contributions has been addiction and loss of time that could better be spent in worthwhile personal development, it is worth pointing out an unstated or forgotten insincerity on the part of many people that criticize online worlds. Something like 85 percent of people in the developed world that come home after work or school and begin some form of entertainment (as opposed to more work), do so by turning on the television. This non-interactive medium spoon-feeds them brainless addictive pap for the masses for hours each day, almost entirely bypasses their intellectual machinery, wastes their time while creating nothing in which they can take pride, and certainly involves no worthwhile social interaction. The concept of a TV watcher somehow finding fault with people that inhabit an online world full to the brim with an intense interactive social fabric is so incongruous as to be funny.

    PS. I come to this from the perspective of where things are going in a few decades' time. It wasn't so long ago that family and friends used to be puzzled by my inhabiting Internet communities like this one and many others --- "That's not real life, just gazing at a monitor, you shouldn't be wasting your time" was their (usually unstated) view. Now several of them use the Internet, and even inhabit their own online communities without any encouragement from me. Apparently there is "life" online as well, it turns out, haha. Well, it's early days still, I'll be the first to admit, but anyone that thinks of online worlds purely in terms of addiction and waste of time simply does not understand what the future holds.

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  80. Re:OT Re:Marijuana & addiction (slightly off t by Viewsonic · · Score: 2

    Well, the answers you seek are in the studies themselves. Instead of trying to make up other dumb ideas such as bricks hitting faces, why not look at the facts scientists are finding everyday instead of trying to ignore them?

  81. Re:OT Re:Marijuana & addiction (slightly off t by morie · · Score: 2

    It seems also geographicly biased:

    Dutch studies show no effects, french studies show huge effects.

    Couldn't be political now, could it?

    So, qwestion is: who ordered these studies? If they are US- governmentt sponsored, be sure to find adverse effects with any drug...

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  82. Personally damaging by phorm · · Score: 2

    On a social, intellectual, and oftimes physical (deprivation, couch-potato-beer-pizza-and-a-PC syndrome) it's often just as bad, possible worse because it's not really a recognised addition but more of a social disease (people don't think of you as an addict, just as a geeky loser).

    The effects don't really outcrop as much to other people though, except through neglect though. I've been playing a lot of SC lately, and I know my girlfriend sometimes feels ignored (she's got exams though, and when I do pay attention to her she says I'm distracting - catch 22).

    I've never heard of somebody beating the *!@#@ out of somebody because of gaming addiction though, unless it's in an internet cafe together and one person is being a cheat/cheapass/etc/ (happened I think, but no real violence as often enough geek=weak).

  83. Similar events in life. How about the benefits? by phorm · · Score: 2

    OK, first of all, I think that a lot of over-PC type interaction goes in the same boat.
    I know a lot of people who play CS, they also used to go out and frag each other in paintball until moving seperated them.
    You also get those who play MMORPGS and ignore life in general. How does that compare to those obsessed with Shadowrun or "role-playing" of the non-PC genre. Some of these people are obsessed too, and oftimes it's not healthy.

    A lot of the case is, PC's allow a broader availability of interaction. If you go and ring up your Shadowrun/AD&D friend at 3am to yack about your new character/quest/whatever, he's probably going to want to strangle you. If it's some guy in Australia over the internet, he's awake and ready to go.

    And internet communication/gaming does have its positive benefits too. For me, I was the #1 geek at school (even before I was into computers). Unpopular as heck, girls wouldn't touch me, etc etc. When, because I was helping maintain the lab PC's, I was able to keep it open after-hours for deathmatches - I got my own little geeky cult (friends!!!). My social standing improved somewhat, and at least I felt like I was appreciated for something (master of Q2 was I).

    Later in HS, around the time I got a car, I'd acquired quite a list of local ICQ contacts. I actually ended up hooking up with a lot of these people in real life, and going out for coffee with them, making friends etc. Actually, my best friend is somebody I met online, as is my girlfriend.

    lately, I've started playing Starcraft again, and yeah, major addiction. I'd have to say that if I weren't playing SC I probably wouldn't be doing anything more productive. I've a few programming projects I'm working on (contracted on my time, not at my regular job), but the weekend let me burn off a lot of stress. Otherwise, I'd have probably reread a book or watched a show.

    So what you have to consider is, if these people weren't plugged in - what would they be doing. Do they have enough of a life (or the ability to get one) that the game is counterproductive, or does it at times actually add a meager element onto an already low social calendar?

  84. Perhaps... by Soulfader · · Score: 2
    Any activity which holds you from interactive with other people for a very long time is quite harmful to you, even if you don't actually *like* people.
    Perhaps even especially if you don't like people. I view most social interaction outside my close group of friends like I used to view vegetables: not pleasant, but a good idea for a healthy existence.
  85. Re:Civilization II by Tackhead · · Score: 2
    > Has anyone suffered at the hands of this diamond gem? It's a dated game, I know, but when I received it, it was PURELY a matter of having other things I more greatly desired to do that enabled me to leave the machine. In early college I missed countless dinners.
    >
    >4:00 p.m. Home from class, sit down to CivII.
    > 7:39 p.m. Look at clock for first time. Missed dinner. Dammit.
    Bah, you lightweight, you haven't even begun to suffer :-)

    4:00 pm - Home from work, sit down to install shiny package UPS-d00d brung me.
    7:39 am - Look at clock for first time. Missed breakfast. Damnit. *g*

    > The game is brilliantly designed so that there is NEVER a point where you have nothing to do on a given turn; you never have all tasks sufficiently completed at once, and the game returns control to you with 50 new tasks to close or issues to tie up.

    IMO, that's the hallmark of good game design. Sid Meier's "God Games" (CivI, II, III, Alpha Centauri ("SMAC") and Alien Crossfire ("SMAX")) all feature this behiavor, as do most of the Sims games. The Civ series gives you a set of goals from which to choose, and the Sims give you the meta-goal of figuring out what goal you want to achieve.

    Long as we're talking about open-endedness, if you enjoy a dungeon crawl, don't care about graphics, but love an engrossing story/gameplay (albeit a much more linear story than the preceding strategy games), go for Wizardry I through VII/Gold, and Wizardry 8 if you can find it.

    (Asides: Wizardry IV is IMHO still the most challenging RPG ever written. The maps will simply make your brain melt. Wizardry Gold - the Win3.1 re-issue of Wizardry 7 - is a good story with a wonderful automap for playability. I can't tell you how relieved I was to put away the pencil and graph paper. Wiz8 is beautiful to look at, but combat progresses glacially. I'd recommend getting 8, but would say 7/Gold was the more playable game of the two.)

    > Having a life: the anti-addiction entity.

    I prefer single-player RPG and strategy gaming simply because I don't want to deal with the ickiness of MMORPG human-player interaction.

    While that sometimes detracts from gameplay (the AI has to be half-decent, or the game very well-designed), it's nice to game on your own terms. (I game because I want to, not because I have to - a direct offshoot of being able to game when, and for how long, I want to.

    As for MMORPG addiction - there's a word for "having to be online from 9-to-5 every day because your Guild/Clan needs you". It's called work, and even if it's 9:00pm to 5:00am, it sux0rz. :-)