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How Do You Educate a Prodigy?

Nethead writes "When he was 8 years old, Gabriel See got a score on the math part of the SAT that would be the envy of most high-school seniors. When he was 10, he worked on T-cell receptor research at the Fred Hutchinson Cancer Research Center. He's built a Genomic Lab Liquid Handling System out of Legos. He's studied chaos theory, string theory, quantum mechanics and nuclear science. He's 13 now. How do you fit him into the American school system?"

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  1. Why fit in? by Hentes · · Score: 5, Insightful

    He seems to learn enough on his own.

    1. Re:Why fit in? by dintech · · Score: 2

      Also, I think trying to fit him in to the regular state school system at least would be detrimental. What are the other options? Is private schooling a possibility?

    2. Re:Why fit in? by medv4380 · · Score: 2

      Collage sound like a better option for people in this situation, and I believe that what is usually done with the successful ones.

    3. Re:Why fit in? by mulvane · · Score: 3, Insightful

      Making an art piece out of him doesn't seem to be the best use of him either. I'm sure some college art students would love to minimize his impact on society though.

    4. Re:Why fit in? by thegreatbob · · Score: 2

      YES!... Get him OUT of the American public school system, at all cost...

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    5. Re:Why fit in? by ByOhTek · · Score: 1

      Yes. So wouldn't the answer to the TFS be "as a professor"

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    6. Re:Why fit in? by ByOhTek · · Score: 2

      I think most private systems would be just as detrimental. Most private schools seem less tolerant of non-conformists than public schools. As other suggested - that's college level material that people 5-10 years older than him are studying, and usually only one or two of the topics, not all those listed. The kid needs to be in college for eduction.

      For socialization, find local clubs for kids and kids activities. Maybe a sport. Hell, even a church, though caution is needed with that - In my experience, kids who's only socialization is though church groups, tend to be pretty fucked up.

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    7. Re:Why fit in? by bahstid · · Score: 1

      I agree, he sounds like he would be better suited to education in Soviet Russia...

    8. Re:Why fit in? by vlm · · Score: 1

      For socialization, find local clubs for kids and kids activities. Maybe a sport. Hell, even a church, though caution is needed with that

      Some personal suggestions from growing up in a similar although nowhere near as extreme situation:

      1) Assuming he meets the modern mandatory entrance requirements of white straight christian, the Boy Scouts are interesting and badge collecting certainly enforces a wide breadth of knowledge. When I was in, they didn't care who was an atheist, its much more theocratic now.
      2) Ham radio / ham radio club? Speaking from experience, bye bye public speaking stage fright. From terrified of speaking in front of groups to "eh, shrug shoulders"
      3) Move to a place big enough to have multiple schools. The one and only kid in the whole community who doesn't attend Nowhere-ville High School is a weird outcast. On the other hand, 50% of the kids don't go to North High and 50% don't go to South High so that works out very comfortably when you meet similar aged kids in public. I lived in one territory and dated girls I met at work from the other territory who had no idea how uncool I was because I was in calculus and multiple science and engineering classes during high school... Take a "nerdy" guy out of the nerd uniform and drop him in a nice suit and the ladies suddenly can't take their hands off him...
      4) Get a menial labor job, part time, for the experience. Some folks pay to exercise, you'll be paid. Plus you'll meet girls (assuming you select the correct menial labor). And have enough spending cash to pay car insurance to get a car to take the ladies out on dates. This was my favorite non-technical activity.
      5) Cons. HOPE conference every other year in NYC or something. Just get the heck out of the house and meet people who are very smart in fields you know nothing at all about.
      6) Exercise. I was a hard core weight lifter in my early 20s / late teens. Not much DIRECT socialization in weight lifting, but my love life was pretty decent. Men think ladies care how well they can throw a ball, but the ladies just care that you look studly.

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    9. Re:Why fit in? by Oxford_Comma_Lover · · Score: 4, Interesting

      Boy Scouts is good for the socialization, the outdoor experiences, and the service. For someone like this, social development is key. The badges are a joke for anyone remotely intelligent, but the experiences can be excellent. Try to get him involved in the Order of the Arrow through Boy Scouts--one of the largest youth-led organizations in the world, its emphasis on service is helpful to develop in someone.

      Also, there are no race-based limitations on membership.

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    10. Re:Why fit in? by Bill,+Shooter+of+Bul · · Score: 1

      1)Boy scouts only requirement is that you be non-atheist. I still wouldn't suggest it though. The merit badge requirements are sad busy work. It woudl be stifling.

      2)Ham radio is not a good idea for socialization.

      4) good idea. Labor is good for those who aren't used to it, and allows them to get a better understanding of how people interact with each other. I'd recommend retail. Unfortunately, he's still too young.
       

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    11. Re:Why fit in? by MrMarket · · Score: 1

      He needs a mentor that can keep up with him. Rather than focusing on high school vs. college, I'd focus on finding the best possible person to set him down a fulfilling path for his life. That teacher or mentor could be in a University or high school. Putting this kid in any classroom is like handing out the keys to a Formula 1 car. You'll want to make sure that the driver can steer this mind towards reaching its full potential (both in achievement and personal fulfillment).

    12. Re:Why fit in? by UnknowingFool · · Score: 1

      My personal opinion is that with some of these prodigies the personal and social problems they have later in life is due to the focus only on academics in their schooling. The child is clearly a unique individual and requires a unique plan. My advice is to mix in public and private instruction at both the high school an university levels with the high school portion focused on socialization. For example encourage him to take band even if he can't really play an instrument. I don't know the family situation in terms of time and finances.

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    13. Re:Why fit in? by DaphneDiane · · Score: 3, Insightful

      Sounds like he's much further along than I was, doing calculus at 8? That's quite impressive. I didn't start getting serious about calculus until about 12.

      College is indeed a good option, and from the linked article sounds like he already doing that. It's what I did when I was a kid, took a mixture of college classes, ( first one was around 5th grade ), did some internships, some R&D contract work, all while going to elementary, middle and high school. There is nothing like being ending up being a TA for a course and having one of your current teachers be a student for it while still also having them be your teacher. My last year of high school was only classes like gym, and at the time I hated going. Looking back though I'm glad I did.

      The one scary thing with this, as others mentioned in their comments, is burn out is a big risk. I know I ended up hating anytime anyone would say something like "Wow. Someday you will do ....". I burned out in grad school. Part of it was probably that I never really had to work at being smart before, "why study -- skimming it once is enough", part of it was that I saw everything else as just trivial details and useless facts in the way of the big pictures, and part of it was the misshapen world view combined with an extra large serving of ego that I had developed.

    14. Re:Why fit in? by plopez · · Score: 1

      Great answer. In other words, you don't. And there is no way he ever will. One thing I do worry about is socialization. Beyond academics, how does he stay connected with people in his own age bracket so he develops a decent psychological profile? That may be the more daunting question.

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    15. Re:Why fit in? by spire3661 · · Score: 1

      But there are other, equally contemptible limitations to the boy scouts....

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    16. Re:Why fit in? by vlm · · Score: 1

      Also, there are no race-based limitations on membership.

      I checked, and I acknowledge you are technically correct.
      However where I live they don't let asian immigrants (or humans of any race) in unless they're part of the judeo-christian tradition.
      christian asian immigrant = OK, buddhist or free = No.
      So... your average fillipino immigrant OK, your average Chinese immigrant not OK.
      I listened to an Indian (curry eating Indian not native american Indian) whining about not allowing hindus in; not sure if thats official from HQ or the local good ole boys were giving him a hard time.
      The usually close linkage between religion and race was the root of my confusion.

      The badges are a joke for anyone remotely intelligent

      Agreed the radio badge was beyond laughable for a ham radio / electrical engineer wannabe guy like me. At least try to make the kids "work" for it?

      Disagree in that all the brains in the world won't make the hiking, sailing, or whitewater badge any easier.

      Some of them have been wimped up over the decades... I believe its now possible to earn the modern wilderness survival badge without setting foot outside; how weird is that?

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    17. Re:Why fit in? by 2names · · Score: 1

      Didn't know you were on here, Sheldon.

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    18. Re:Why fit in? by Oxford_Comma_Lover · · Score: 1

      Don't you still have to build a shelter and spend the night in it? The badges have all gotten much,much easier since 1911, but I'd be surprised if they've dropped they requirement for WS.

      As a general rule, there aren't religious limitations on membership, except possibly atheism. (I'm not sure what the details are on that.) That being said, I'm not sure what the story is in terms of the chartering organization--if a baptist church only wants baptists in the troop, I'm not sure if they can do that. However, you should be able to clear it up pretty easily with a call to your local council, or to National. There are certainly scouting awards in many faiths, including Buddhism.

      Islam: http://usscouts.org/scoutduty/sd2gc40.asp

      Buddhist: http://bcascout.webs.com/

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    19. Re:Why fit in? by vlm · · Score: 1

      2)Ham radio is not a good idea for socialization.

      Compared to reading another book?

      1) Forces you to talk to people of all backgrounds and cultures. Not just college educated teachers living in your city. Not just kids exactly three years older than you are (that was weird for me; I'm glad it only happened in math and science classes and I had kids my own age to talk to in gym, music, art, etc)

      2) Annihilates stage fright and shyness in general. If you can handle being net control on a large net, something like a school presentation literally becomes laughable in comparison. Oh you want me to make a presentation in front of thirty people, OK whatever, lets start. That girl leaning up against the wall at the dance looks lonely, OK no problemo I'll go over to her and say hi.

      3) Learn to stay away from 75M and 20M sideband where the nut cases hang out... Hang out with the respectable gentlemen on 160 M or the WARAC bands or VHF and up. Learning how to figure out who is a creep or weirdo and how to avoid them is in itself a valuable social skill to be practiced, best done when the creep or weirdo is on a radio 3000 miles away rather than in front of you in a dark alley or whatever.

      4) Forces you to learn how to talk about something other than your studies, assuming your studies are not ham radio related and/or you don't exclusively talk to people preselected to be in your field. Essentially, anything other than contest QSOs means learning the art of small talk.

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    20. Re:Why fit in? by Oxford_Comma_Lover · · Score: 1

      On the hiking, sailing, whitewater: I agree with that, although those badges aren't required for advancement. They fall more onto the activities side in my mind.

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    21. Re:Why fit in? by Oxford_Comma_Lover · · Score: 1

      Gender being the most obvious, yes. But you accused them of having a white, straight, christian entrance requirement, which just isn't true.

      They have a not openly non-straight membership requirement, and a male entrance requirement for most of their programs.

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    22. Re:Why fit in? by TC+Wilcox · · Score: 1

      I checked, and I acknowledge you are technically correct. However where I live they don't let asian immigrants (or humans of any race) in unless they're part of the judeo-christian tradition. christian asian immigrant = OK, buddhist or free = No. So... your average fillipino immigrant OK, your average Chinese immigrant not OK. I listened to an Indian (curry eating Indian not native american Indian) whining about not allowing hindus in; not sure if thats official from HQ or the local good ole boys were giving him a hard time. The usually close linkage between religion and race was the root of my confusion.

      I spend a bit of time volunteering with a Boy Scout Troop that is sponsored by a church, and even though it is sponsored by a Church we have several boys that don't attend that church (or any church) including one boy from India. I'm not sure if he is Christian or Hindu (or Muslim, or Jewish, or anything else). As far as I'm concerned it doesn't matter.

    23. Re:Why fit in? by V!NCENT · · Score: 1

      Social education. Being able to communicate on a social level, rather than an intelectual level.

      Knowing about chaos theory, he sure can find out why it is important to be able to deal with what some call stupidity and other call errors and chaos.

      If this person (I would insult him calling him a kid) has such a high degree (on an avarage humand scale) that he can do all the above (OP post), then he probably didn't develop a lot of (real world, not /.) social skills at birth.

      But he'll be smart enough to figure it out, I'm sure. Autism, in my book, doesn't exist.

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    24. Re:Why fit in? by querist · · Score: 2

      Citation needed on religion part. Where do you get this bit about non-christians not being OK in Boy Scouts? Seriously. I was very involved in Boy Scouting for quite some time - I went from being an assistant den leader to being a unit commissioner (oversees several packs/troops and the adult leaders) and never encountered any religious bias, and this is in the "deep south" in the USA. Yes, there is the bit about "a scout is reverent", but that is easily interpreted in ways that work even for atheists. The outdoor badges still require being outdoors. (Now, the Girl Scouts have a "cooking" badge that does not involve any actual cooking, but that's a different story entirely.) And there are Venture crews for co-ed scouting experiences.

    25. Re:Why fit in? by querist · · Score: 1

      No limit on atheism. We have had several atheist kids (whose parents are lawyers) involved with no problems. It was not due to any threats of legal action or anything. The kid needed to deal with the fact that scouting was founded, in part, on religious principles and had to deal with it, but we did not force any religion on the kid. Granted, there is no "religious" award for atheists, but there is one for just about anything else out there. It's the only one that both adult leaders (called "scouters") and the scouts can earn other than being put up for membership in the Order of the Arrow.

    26. Re:Why fit in? by Jhon · · Score: 2

      "Boy scouts only requirement is that you be non-atheist. I still wouldn't suggest it though. The merit badge requirements are sad busy work. It woudl (sic) be stifling."

      I would. The "sad busy work" part teaches independence and self motivation -- which might not be needed for this teen, but the social aspects great -- and many (at least in my son's troop -- and many scouts I've meet over the years) are self-motivated high achievers.

    27. Re:Why fit in? by nomel · · Score: 1

      >part of it was that I saw everything else as just trivial details and useless facts in the way of the big pictures

      Just curious, what age did this start to happen?

    28. Re:Why fit in? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

      Speaking as a (straight) Eagle Scout, I find the 'not openly non-straight' policy utterly shameful. I love the scouting program at the local level, where in many cases it's open and welcoming to all participants, but the national-level leadership can be downright hateful and bigoted at times.

    29. Re:Why fit in? by Bill,+Shooter+of+Bul · · Score: 1

      You can teach busy work by having a child count beach sand. Just as useful as the merit badge system.

      The social aspect is the only good part of scouts, where you learn how to burn different types of materials and discover which kinds of knives cut different materials best.

      When I do have kids, I may have them join, but I'll come up with my own renegade merit badge system.

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    30. Re:Why fit in? by Bill,+Shooter+of+Bul · · Score: 1

      Disagree strongly. Ham radio is a bad choice when compared with actual socialization with peers that don't use ham radios. I'm afraid its a stereotype, but one I've found to be rather true: ham radio operators are generally very socially awkward in real social situations. That doesn't mean that ham radio caused the akwardness, but it didn't help that much if any at all. The scout idea is much better than that, but again, I'd recommend avoiding the merit badges and create your own.

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    31. Re:Why fit in? by DaphneDiane · · Score: 1

      Probably around 19. Some of it I felt younger... earlier to mid 20s I started even thinking that nothing had any true meaning and that even reality itself was without foundation. I spent a lot of sleepless nights back then trying not to think about the meaningless nothing that I began to perceive reality to be a figment of.

    32. Re:Why fit in? by OrigamiMarie · · Score: 1

      And you have to be some religion. You can't be atheist.

    33. Re:Why fit in? by Oxford_Comma_Lover · · Score: 2

      Yes, I believe that's true as a formal matter. But it certainly doesn't have to be Christian.

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    34. Re:Why fit in? by Roachie · · Score: 1

      Agreed, now if you REALLY, REALLY want to put the little know-it-all in his place, go ahead an put him in a public school. Preferably one named after an African-American hero. That'll cool his jets -doing long division for a semester or two. He'll come out HATIN math.

      Good Luck!

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    35. Re:Why fit in? by Oxford_Comma_Lover · · Score: 1

      I wouldn't call them hateful and bigoted. But they are shortsighted, and accept institutional intolerance. They do it out of an honestly-held belief that makes no sense empirically--but morality is not dictated by empiricism, and they are free to do things which are harmful, even cruel, and to be protected by free speech.

      I don't care very much that it's shameful, except insofar as it alienates people who condemn the policy who wold have a great experience in scouting if they weren't alienated. I care that it hurts people and denies people opportunities.

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    36. Re:Why fit in? by nomel · · Score: 1

      Did you pop out of it?

    37. Re:Why fit in? by budgenator · · Score: 1

      The kid is 13 yo, menial labor is probably illegal for him, Ham radio is probably well out of his age group as well.

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    38. Re:Why fit in? by masdog · · Score: 1

      2)Ham radio is not a good idea for socialization.

      I disagree. If you live in an area with at least one active HAM Radio club, there are plenty of opportunities for socializing in meat-space. HAM Groups regularly meet (at least monthly) and they are often involved in community service by providing communications services to special events. It would be worth looking into, at least.

    39. Re:Why fit in? by Belial6 · · Score: 1

      Why join the Scouts then? Why not just start the Renegades? You clearly are not the only parent that thinks the scouts have gone soft. Once word got out with the kids about the actual cool stuff they got to do in the Renegades, you should have a problem with membership.

    40. Re:Why fit in? by St.Creed · · Score: 1

      Dancing lessons may help. Especially street dance or something cool like that.

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    41. Re:Why fit in? by Belial6 · · Score: 1

      People in his own age bracket generally don't have a decent psychological profile. They have a "normal" psychological profile, which is a far cry from decent. It is sad how many bright kids are encouraged to screw themselves up so that they can fit in with other screwed up people who just happen to be the same age.

    42. Re:Why fit in? by dlingman · · Score: 1

      He's posting on Slashdot, so I'd go with "No."

    43. Re:Why fit in? by DaphneDiane · · Score: 1

      Did you pop out of it?

      Didn't expect so many questions. Was just trying to give a first hand view of the burn out risks since mostly I saw second hand reports in the comments.

      But I guess... I ended up doing okay and just muddled by til it really didn't matter anymore. Turned one of my internships into a full time job against the advice of my college adviser, several professors, and my father who all thought it was beneath me and been there ever since. I still have bouts of depression, especially the "why didn't I continue... I was on top and I let it all just slip away" type, but fortunately the panic attacks are mostly a thing of the past. And I don't worry about worrying about the impossibility of reality anymore. Seriously that used to be like my biggest dread, that I would logically provide that even nothing itself doesn't exists and go insane in the process. Seems kinda funny to me now. I'm not much like the person I used to appear to be anymore.

      He's posting on Slashdot, so I'd go with "No."

      Hmm guess Daphne is a boy's name these days? But yes I posted something on slashdot so something must not be right with me? Is this one of those trick logic questions like "this statement is false?" You realize you can solve those these days with fuzzy logic. But fortunately I get a pass since you got the gender wrong. :P

    44. Re:Why fit in? by blanchae · · Score: 1

      While not as smart as this young prodigy, I skipped two grades in elementary school and entered junior high 2 years younger than everyone else. Even though I was intellectually on par with my classmates, I was two years behind socially and physically in junior and senior high school. This screwed up my social life and self esteem until my mid-twenties as I felt I was younger than everyone and smaller in size. I was afraid that my friends would find out that I'm 2 years younger than them - it was a big secret. I had school friends and also outside of school friends that were my own age. Going through school and reaching puberty 2 years after every one else sucks. Forget about dating, who wants to date someone 2 years younger than you in high school? I still feel less mature than others my age (in my 50s now) and even though I'm 5'11", I still feel like a small person. Those growing years as a teenager are very important for your self esteem and self image. Here it is 40 years later and I still have that same image as being younger and smaller than others. My advice to him and all teenagers is to have fun, party but still pass school. The intellectual side is important but the social side is just as important.

    45. Re:Why fit in? by AK+Marc · · Score: 1

      1) Assuming he meets the modern mandatory entrance requirements of white straight christian, the Boy Scouts are interesting and badge collecting certainly enforces a wide breadth of knowledge. When I was in, they didn't care who was an atheist, its much more theocratic now.

      When I was in, membership in the hosting church was required. There was no affirmation of religion required (other than the general oaths to "God" in the scout slogans). Interestingly, that resulted in a catholic church admitting a self-professed atheist, something that if I'd tried to join the church any other way would have resulted in a rejection. Though of the right age, I didn't attend confirmation or such, just a couple services socially as a curious atheist member of a Catholic church.

      So they were strict on church membership for the troupe I was in, but not too strict on the religion. Though that may have been only the one troupe, I can't speak for any other.

    46. Re:Why fit in? by AK+Marc · · Score: 1

      I was required to join the church that hosted my troupe. Granted, the church allowed an atheist to join, but it was "join the Catholic church or get kicked out."

    47. Re:Why fit in? by AK+Marc · · Score: 1

      2) Annihilates stage fright and shyness in general. If you can handle being net control on a large net, something like a school presentation literally becomes laughable in comparison. Oh you want me to make a presentation in front of thirty people, OK whatever, lets start. That girl leaning up against the wall at the dance looks lonely, OK no problemo I'll go over to her and say hi.

      Not comperable. I've been the go-to guy when a multi-million dollar "oops" happened. No problem. But getting girls? Not nearly as easy. And I know plenty the other way. "ghosts of girlfriends past" had it right with the bad advice for getting a woman. Whoever cares less has the power. You have to not care if you succeed to be successful. And that level of disinterest requires training (and may be counter-productive to a lasting relationship, as the movie teaches). But the underlying facts were right. You have to get shot down many times to realize that you no longer care if you get shot down. That's what gets you confidence. You don't have to be sure you'll get the answer you want. You just have to be sure you don't care what the answer is.

    48. Re:Why fit in? by nomel · · Score: 1

      Didn't mean to pry, but, besides the extreme intelligence, I saw some similarities in what you said to my current state and was looking for a solution.

      Maybe it's some level of habituation from, roughly, studying the same concepts, virtually non stop, with little free time, for the past 10 years. Or, maybe it's just some physiological change that happens around mid 20's (seems like that's when it always happens). :-\

      I'll try to keep on keepin on!

      >Was just trying to give a first hand view
      And I thank you for making it clearer. Seriously, thanks for sharing! Best of luck!

    49. Re:Why fit in? by Jhon · · Score: 1

      "You can teach busy work by having a child count beach sand. Just as useful as the merit badge system."

      Yeah... because "counting beach sand" puts kids in direct contact with successful role models and introduces them various careers...

      You underestimate the value of scouting... to the detriment of any sons you may have, I'm afraid.

    50. Re:Why fit in? by alexandre_ganso · · Score: 1

      What his parents are trying to do is killing the genius on him. Fuck teenager, fuck art school. Send him to a phd already. When the hormones will start to scream, he will be in university already, so the teenager worries are moot.

      They will only create somebody frustrated with all this "normal life" bullshit which will turn into an early, and heavy, drinker.

      First-hand experience.

    51. Re:Why fit in? by Joce640k · · Score: 1

      For someone like this, social development is key.

      Why? Why MUST he develop socially?

      We've got 7 billion other people on the planet for that sort of thing. This person could be curing diseases while you're busy trying to make him play football.

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    52. Re:Why fit in? by Joce640k · · Score: 1

      Hell, even a church.

      I really hope you regret posting that.

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    53. Re:Why fit in? by Joce640k · · Score: 1

      Collage sound like a better option for people in this situation.

      Why is assembling different forms to create new wholes the best option for him?

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    54. Re:Why fit in? by tehcyder · · Score: 1

      Probably around 19. Some of it I felt younger... earlier to mid 20s I started even thinking that nothing had any true meaning and that even reality itself was without foundation. I spent a lot of sleepless nights back then trying not to think about the meaningless nothing that I began to perceive reality to be a figment of.

      Sounds like the beginning of a psychotic breakdown, did you get medical help?

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    55. Re:Why fit in? by tehcyder · · Score: 1

      The scout idea is much better than that, but again, I'd recommend avoiding the merit badges and create your own.

      Why? In order to teach the kid how to completely miss the point of something entirely?

      That is the single most ridiculous idea I've read in a long while, and as a regular reader of slashdot that's saying something.

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    56. Re:Why fit in? by Bill,+Shooter+of+Bul · · Score: 1

      Are you kidding? Do you not see the value in having a child discover that he's not limited to the available choices, but can chart his own future? Set his own goals and then set about achieving them? Sure he might set a Mars explorer badge with completely unrealistic steps like : 1) build rocket 2) visit moon, but it would not only teach him how to break down a larger task into smaller goals, but it would also teach him the true difficulty of doing anything worthwhile.

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      Well.. maybe. Or Maybe not. But Definitely not sort of.
    57. Re:Why fit in? by Bill,+Shooter+of+Bul · · Score: 1

      Careers such as leather-making, rife-ling, fishing or canoe guide? Oh, yeah wouldn't want my child to miss those exciting career opportunities! Please keep in mind, I'm not against making things with leather, learning how to use rifles, fishing, or canoeing, but the rigid system of getting the badges. Life is about finding the true value of a skill for you, while ignoring the invaluable parts. The merit badge system does the opposite.

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    58. Re:Why fit in? by Jhon · · Score: 1

      Of course, you leave out Business, Animal Science, Aviation, Chemistry, Computer Science, Dentistry and Veterinary Med to name JUST a few...

      And all the people involved with those fields...

      http://www.scouting.org/scoutsource/BoyScouts/AdvancementandAwards/~/link.aspx?_id=6D5B316F02B3436D81212CBAE95A3617&_z=z

      Just for Aviation. One of the badge requirements states: "Find out about three career opportunities in aviation. Pick one and find out the education, training, and experience required for this profession. Discuss this with your counselor, and explain why this profession might interest you."

      Yeah... JUST like counting beach sand... But if you want to just focus on Basketry and Fishing to prove your point, you're welcome to it... Your loss (and your child's).

    59. Re:Why fit in? by KingBenny · · Score: 1

      you don't educate a prodigy, the prodigy, provided with access to all the information it wants will educate itself, you could at least hope to provide some moral guidelines because maybe to the prodigy, the ways of men would seem a bit strange and illogical at times. live long and prodger

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    60. Re:Why fit in? by Stuarticus · · Score: 1

      In the UK and other european countries girls have been free to join for at least 10 years.

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    61. Re:Why fit in? by crutchy · · Score: 1

      you missed the point of his point.

      the point of scouts and merit badges is getting involved in something with others, not going out on your own

      anyway, why not ask him. we're the retards remember. he probably already knows the right answer

      even from a layman's perspective, this bickering about a prodigy's future seems pretty dumb

  2. You don't. by Errol+backfiring · · Score: 4, Interesting

    You could possibly fit the entire American school system into him.

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    1. Re:You don't. by sempir · · Score: 1

      One of my thoughts perzackly. Another of my thoughts is: Maybe he is as intelligent as we should be but..............

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    2. Re:You don't. by nrozema · · Score: 3, Interesting

      Truth. Any extra resources in the public school system - which let's face it, there are no "extra" resources in our current public school system - are devoted to bringing those on the opposite end of the spectrum up to grade level. There are very few programs and opportunities to advance a gifted child within the system.

      Public schooling in the US is not for gifted children. Your only viable options are home or private schooling. The child's opportunities for learning and enrichment are only going to be as good as the resources and involvement the parent can provide.

    3. Re:You don't. by gstrickler · · Score: 2

      You let him pick his teachers and classes. You let him complete the coursework at his own pace, and you don't require him to do homework (he'll do however much homework he needs to understand and remember the material without any externally imposed requirements). When he completes the required coursework, you let him pick another topic and continue studying and learning.

      And you do exactly what his parents and school have been doing, keep him involved with other kids his age, sports, arts, music, etc. And you allow him to continue to study college level material at his own pace. He's got the drive and the interest, let him run with it as long as he's got those other interactions and activities to keep him balanced to help him deal with the stuff we all have to deal with growing up, being teenagers, dating, etc.

      As a very gifted student myself, those are the types of things that I was usually able to work out with my teachers and parents that made a huge difference for me. I wasn't (am not?) as advanced as Gabriel, but I was/am out on the fringes of the intelligence curve. I would love to meet Gabriel, to share my experience, and share knowledge. I suspect I could learn more from him than he learns from me, but I have about 30 years of experience on him and I've been down a road similar to his, so I have wisdom and knowledge to add to his knowledge.

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    4. Re:You don't. by Sipper · · Score: 1

      "You don't" isn't quite right, but "you don't send him to public school" probably is.

      Depending on what state you live in, you'll likely find that there are laws stating that your child must be in school until a certain age (usually around 16). However that does NOT mandate that the child go to public school.

      Basically because the child in this case is so smart, I see two basic options:

            1. Homeschooling. There are several styles of this, one of which is called "unschooling", where the child choose for [him|her]self the direction school takes. There are a few schools in the U.S. that are trying this model if you want to look into a school he can be sent to, but this can't be done in public school due to mandates AFAIK. If you want to homeschool your child, generally all you need to do by law is to send a letter of intent to the school saying so, and then send over a very very basic curriculum that fits mandated standards, and keep records of what your child is taught after that in case you need to prove that you've been "properly" schooling your child. If you want to go this route, search for a local homeschooling group, who can advise you for your state more specifically what's required.

            2. Send him to college now. It's been done before.

      Or, a combination of both of the above; homeschooling along with one college class on the side to start with, and gradually switching over to college classes as you see fit.

    5. Re:You don't. by Belial6 · · Score: 1

      There never will be extra resources either. The public school system is a black hole for money that will suck in every penny that gets within it's reach, never to be seen again. Never satisfied, and the more money that goes into it, the stronger it's pull becomes for more money.

    6. Re:You don't. by gstrickler · · Score: 1

      A solar-powered passenger airliner with a 1000-seat capacity and 300 mph speed

      Not possible, with any materials. Not enough solar radiation would hit the surface of even a huge 1000 seat plane to get it airborne, much less reach 300mph, even if we could capture and convert 100% of the energy in that solar radiation (which itself would violate thermodynamics). The Solar Impulse holds most of the current records for manned solar powered flight, and it hasn't broken 100mph. It has hit 78mph (average only 25mph), and it'a 1 person plane with a 210ft wingspan.

      So, how about getting him interested in working on something that's physically and thermodynamically plausible instead.

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    7. Re:You don't. by tehcyder · · Score: 1

      You let him pick his teachers and classes. You let him complete the coursework at his own pace, and you don't require him to do homework

      Yes, because letting children/young people have their own way in everything always works out best for the kid.

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    8. Re:You don't. by tehcyder · · Score: 1

      . As for the social aspect... I don't buy it. I certainly didn't learn to be social in school, and he won't either. He will simply be bullied until he withdraws and avoids everyone. He won't learn to get along with them.

      If you don't learn to deal with bullies at school, you're going to suffer in later life, one way or another. I don't care what abstruse academic path he goes up, he's going to come across bullies, albeit psychological ones.

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    9. Re:You don't. by Blue23 · · Score: 1

      Truth. Any extra resources in the public school system - which let's face it, there are no "extra" resources in our current public school system - are devoted to bringing those on the opposite end of the spectrum up to grade level. There are very few programs and opportunities to advance a gifted child within the system.

      Public schooling in the US is not for gifted children. Your only viable options are home or private schooling. The child's opportunities for learning and enrichment are only going to be as good as the resources and involvement the parent can provide.

      I think I agree with your statements but not you conclusions.

      Schools with lower enrollment have less classes. Which means less room for variation because teachers need to teach a whole class. Within a class, it will usually be brought down to the lowest level (of those who want to learn), exactly as you say. But, with lots of different classes you have room to have advanced classes where the ahead-of-the-curve students may be placed. The "lowest" among them will be higher, raising the bar.

      Private schooling (which costs more so parents are often more involved but pays teachers less), doesn't have as many classes so it doesn't have the scope to separate out as much. Now, they do have a reputation for being tough and good schools, and I thing as a generalization they will take moderately below to moderately above students (say, one standard deviation in either direction) and raise them above the average level of a public school level, but I don't think they are best suited to the extreme outliers.

      Personalized attention is what the true ends of the spectrum need. I can see how, with the right "teacher", home schooling can fill that niche. Though with how far off the curve this child seems to be, I would assume adding in subject matter experts as tutors to keep him challenged (and therefore engaged).

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  3. How about by Dunbal · · Score: 1

    Not trying to fit a square peg in a round hole?

    Anyway from what I've read, the guy is a pretentious little git who can't stand working with mere mortals anyway and ends up finishing projects on his own. Maybe one day he'll grow up and realize that even he has very real limitations.

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    1. Re:How about by GodInHell · · Score: 1

      an obnoxious 13 year old!? OMG WTF!? Never would have seen that coming.

      Really though, I'd vote for a combination of computer aided math and science education with as much exposure to college seminars on history, philosophy and the social sciences as he can stand to sit through. IMHO, the trick to producing a keen intellect is to marry knowledge (i.e. theorems) with the ability to think both vertically (apply knowledge in the expected manner) and laterally (take what you know about A to reconsider what we know about B and C).

      Of course, that's alot like saying "World peace is easy: just take away all the guns."

      -GiH

    2. Re:How about by JazzHarper · · Score: 1

      Or another Billy Sidis. Gave mathematics lectures at Harvard at the age of 12. Lived his adult life in seclusion.

    3. Re:How about by gilleain · · Score: 2

      Maybe one day he'll grow up and realize that even he has very real limitations.

      Well, I don't mean to be too flippant, but he is 13. He can quite literally grow up. He's a child prodigy, not a victim of a Disney-movie style body swap freaky friday kind of thing.

    4. Re:How about by The+Dawn+Of+Time · · Score: 1

      Wow, this kid has fanboys already?

    5. Re:How about by ArhcAngel · · Score: 1

      Which is why he should be sent to the Australian Outback with a canteen and a sleeping bag and instructed to survive a couple of weeks without the aid of modern conveniences or the help of anyone. Confidence is a great attribute. Believing you are better than everyone else because you excel at certain things others struggle with can get you killed or worse. I grew up with a high IQ and non-existent social skills. Teaching this kid how to feign social integration will go a long way to getting the grant money he will need to save the world some day.

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    6. Re:How about by goarilla · · Score: 1

      I think this is a line from 'malcolm in the middle'.

    7. Re:How about by Tarsir · · Score: 1

      What exactly have you read that makes you think the guy is pretentious?

    8. Re:How about by rolfwind · · Score: 1

      Nah, he's already posting to /., anonymously too:)

    9. Re:How about by Dunbal · · Score: 1

      If I can google it, so can you. Yeah, I can be pretentious too.

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    10. Re:How about by Tarsir · · Score: 1

      I did Google it. Everything I found either said he was modest and un-assuming, or was devoted to Peter Gabriel.

    11. Re:How about by Dunbal · · Score: 1

      Some teams consist of up to 20 people, Sleight said. “Gabriel is so advanced with math he basically just took over the project and did everything,” Sleight said. “It really was like a one-man team.”

      No, you just read the first paragraph of the first google hit.

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    12. Re:How about by Tarsir · · Score: 1

      That is what made you think he was a pretentious git? Lol.

    13. Re:How about by Dunbal · · Score: 1

      Oh, how do you read it? He only got second place, btw.

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    14. Re:How about by HuguesT · · Score: 1

      Yes but he didn't end up curing cancer.

  4. In Soviet Russia, Prodigy Educates YOU! by SlippyToad · · Score: 1

    Seriously, you don't. You just treat him like a sponge. Leave books around and let him absorb them.

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  5. Socialization only, if that by davidwr · · Score: 1

    You don't enroll him as a normal student.

    If your local school district allows it, you may enroll him on a part-time basis for non-academic classes, club activities, and if the state school-sports-league allows it, non-academic competitive events like sports, marching band, and the like.

    If your district doesn't have any way of accommodating this, try a private school or home-school association.

    As for academics, try college, home-school, self-study, on-the-job training, and the like.

    Heck, he may decide he wants to quit full-time academic study well before age 18 and well before getting a Ph.D. or two. Once he has the skills and attitude to earn a living and live independently, let him quit school. Just insist that if he quits school that he pay his own rent.

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    1. Re:Socialization only, if that by Hatta · · Score: 4, Insightful

      Whatever he does, make sure there are plenty of girls around. A kid like this needs to have some experience being around them, before hormones hit and he realizes he has no idea how to talk to them.

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    2. Re:Socialization only, if that by couchslug · · Score: 2

      This. And for fucks sake find a way to show him how to UNDERSTAND social interaction so he can PLAY THE GAME with confidence.

      Learning diplomacy and how to read personal cues is important to anyone.

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    3. Re:Socialization only, if that by wisnoskij · · Score: 1

      Why waste his time with girls?
      The kid is obviously a genius and if anything you should keep him away from a potentially huge distraction.

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    4. Re:Socialization only, if that by Hatta · · Score: 1

      Even geniuses deserve to be happy. They're still human.

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    5. Re:Socialization only, if that by vlm · · Score: 1

      Whatever he does, make sure there are plenty of girls around. A kid like this needs to have some experience being around them, before hormones hit and he realizes he has no idea how to talk to them.

      Get a menial labor job with the ladies that is age appropriate (work at McDonalds when you're 16, not as a medical doctor even if you have a degree) ... That way you can work on actual socialization, not clothing style since you're "in uniform", and if there's a awkward pause in the conversation, no worries, you're supposed to be working anyway. I was extremely successful at work, not so much at school.

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    6. Re:Socialization only, if that by wisnoskij · · Score: 1

      As far as I am concerned, and it should be even more so for real prodigies like him, there is far more depth and entertainment in the mysteries of the universe then a few chemicals dancing around in your brain triggered by some animal instinct.

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    7. Re:Socialization only, if that by BJ_Covert_Action · · Score: 1

      Anyone who thinks girls (or, more generally, the opposite sex) are a waste of time really is doing the whole, "life," thing wrong, no matter how smart they are.

    8. Re:Socialization only, if that by Hatta · · Score: 1

      Like it or not, you are nothing but a few chemicals dancing around in your brain. Accept that and own it, and you'll be better prepared to engage the deep mysteries of the universe.

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    9. Re:Socialization only, if that by St.Creed · · Score: 1

      Or interested in the same sex. I'd agree that being gay would change my perspective on the opposite sex a lot :)

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    10. Re:Socialization only, if that by wisnoskij · · Score: 1

      Explain to me how the proximity and interaction with the opposite sex witch produces some chemicals in the brain is the only way to live. As far as I am concerned you might as well be saying that everyone should do hardcore drugs because the only things worth experiencing are just primary animistic chemical reactions in your brain.

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    11. Re:Socialization only, if that by wisnoskij · · Score: 1

      I may only be a few chemicals dancing around in my brain but that does not mean I should spend half my life satisfying every animal instinct I have.

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    12. Re:Socialization only, if that by gmhowell · · Score: 1

      I may only be a few chemicals dancing around in my brain but that does not mean I should spend half my life satisfying every animal instinct I have.

      Someone is a 40 year old virgin.

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  6. Go to a university with him by courteaudotbiz · · Score: 1

    And make him show them what he's got. I'm pretty sure he would be accepted for a degree, as long as this is what HE wants to do...

  7. Dear god don't do it! by L4t3r4lu5 · · Score: 1

    It'll only slow him down. He's destined for great things, and will carve his own way in life to whatever destination he wishes.

    Don't dare subject him to the state brainwashing the rest of us proles have to endure.

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    1. Re:Dear god don't do it! by tehcyder · · Score: 1

      Don't dare subject him to the state brainwashing the rest of us proles have to endure.

      If he's that much of a fucking genius, his education is irrelevant anyway. Einstein was crap at school.

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  8. you don't by prgrmr · · Score: 1

    you put him in charge of it.

    1. Re:You don't by 1s44c · · Score: 2

      You do not 'fit' a kid like that, but rather do your best to understand what his needs are, even if these are unconventional. In terms of learning, he will do well on his own, you just need to support him with the appropriate resources. What he will likely need help with is with developing healthy social interactions and integrating to society. It you focus just on his intellect, he will suffer later on.

      Where were my 'appropriate resources'? All I got at school was to sit in a room full of retarded monkies, teachers who didn't teach, and threats of being suspended should I ever complain.

      This world needs a radical rethink on education, it's just not working for anyone with above average IQ. This kid is just an extreme example.

    2. Re:You don't by gilleain · · Score: 1

      Where were my 'appropriate resources'? All I got at school was to sit in a room full of retarded monkies, teachers who didn't teach, and threats of being suspended should I ever complain.

      Did your 'retarded' peers know how to spell the plural of monkey?

    3. Re:You don't by 1s44c · · Score: 1

      Did your 'retarded' peers know how to spell the plural of monkey?

      No. They only knew how to throw things, hit each other, and make a lot of noise.

      Correct spelling doesn't imply intelligence. Incorrect spelling doesn't imply a lack of intelligence.

    4. Re:you don't by Internetuser1248 · · Score: 1

      Seconding this, the education system is so messed up it is likely ruining prospective geniuses. It needs the attentions of a brilliant mind, together with the experience and knowledge of all the facts and statistics available to the current administrators. If he is willing to do it reforming the education system would be a huge favour to all future children and the world at large. If he has other plans, well it sounds like he knows best.

    5. Re:You don't by tehcyder · · Score: 1

      All I got at school was to sit in a room full of retarded monkies, teachers who didn't teach, and threats of being suspended should I ever complain.

      And what did your parents think of all this then? If it had been me, I'd have done something about it.

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  9. How do you fit him into the American school by Stumbles · · Score: 1

    You don't; and neither does most children in the US. Our school system its horribly broken.

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    1. Re: How do you fit him into the American school by sempir · · Score: 1

      Why would you want to do something as stupid as that. The question should be: How do you keep him (legally) OUT of the American school system.

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    2. Re: How do you fit him into the American school by inviolet · · Score: 1

      You don't; and neither does most children in the US. Our school system its horribly broken.

      Whether it's broken depends on what you think its purpose is.

      For the purpose of babysitting our kids while we go to work, it provides amazing bang-for-the-buck, compared to hiring a babysitter or daycare. Judging by the (un)willingness of American parents to forego the new SUV in order to pay for private school, it seems that babysitting is the primary purpose of public school.

      Also, be careful how you measure success. American schoolkids still score at the top compared to other countries... if you have the political will to look at the scores of just one race at a time. You probably don't have the will, and are now feeling the urge to score points by shrieking at me.

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  10. Lego by oldmac31310 · · Score: 3, Informative

    The plural of Lego is 'Lego' damn it!

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    1. Re:Lego by CraftyJack · · Score: 2

      Tricksy Legosesers, precious Legoses.

    2. Re:Lego by atherophage · · Score: 1

      That nutty S on LEGO drives me up the wall.

    3. Re:Lego by bill_mcgonigle · · Score: 1

      Leggo my plural.

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    4. Re:Lego by Dabido · · Score: 1

      He's studied chaos theory, string theory, quantum mechanics and nuclear science. NOT spelling, damn it!!!! :-)

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  11. Real Genius by lwriemen · · Score: 1
    1. Re:Real Genius by dkleinsc · · Score: 1

      More specifically, send him to med school

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  12. No need. by ApepUK · · Score: 1

    What's the need to? He would not benefit academically from doing so, the only downside I would consider is perhaps the social aspect of school. But then, his social skills may suffer but if he is already working alongside other people in a workplace then they should develop over time as normal. In fact his social skills may benefit more from being in a mature environment and not at school where the academic stereotypes can be more susceptible to bullying.

  13. Is he ready for the school system? by Skynyrd · · Score: 1

    The school system is not designed for people at either end of the spectrum.

    He could go to college, and he'd learn something. However, he'd need to be in a phd program before he got to "interesting" studies. Is he willing to wait 6 yeas to start learning? Is he mature enough to sit through a "health" class in college where they tell you to wash your hands after using the bathroom (that really pissed me off)?

    The real question - is he ready for the American school system?

    1. Re:Is he ready for the school system? by 1s44c · · Score: 1

      The school system is not designed for people at either end of the spectrum.

      It's designed to push everyone into the dumb end of the spectrum. Dumb people are easier to manage by fear and intimidation.

    2. Re:Is he ready for the school system? by zippthorne · · Score: 1

      Do you know how many doctors still don't wash their hands....

      I think we're not drilling "washing your hands" nearly enough!

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    3. Re:Is he ready for the school system? by beaviz · · Score: 1

      Is he mature enough to sit through a "health" class in college where they tell you to wash your hands after using the bathroom (that really pissed me off)?

      It this a joke? Does such a class exist?

    4. Re:Is he ready for the school system? by Skynyrd · · Score: 1

      It's designed to push everyone into the dumb end of the spectrum. Dumb people are easier to manage by fear and intimidation.

      You are totally wrong, and reactionary. I used to be a middle school teacher.

      Most teachers love what they do - and they certainly aren't doing it for the money, or the adoration of the public. There's always somebody like you talking shit about them.

      1) Schools have no budgets, so class sizes are up, up, up. It has been shown again and again that small class sizes help everybody.
      2) Schools have been forced to teach to the least common denominator. There is a phrase "least restrictive environment", that is the rule of how kids are to be educated. For example, when I was teaching (long time ago) I had a room full of Mac Classics & 30 kids. I used HyperCard (I told you it was a long time ago) because I was teaching some kids programming, some kids drawing and a few special ed kids how to not drool on the keyboard (I am being serious) at the same time, in the same room.. Why? Because I was teaching each kid at the level they were willing & able to learn..

      It's god damn difficult to teach that wide of a range of students, but the law says that little Johny, who's father beat him till he had a 60 IQ, has to be educated in "the least restrictive environment" - which means in my class with "regular" students. So that really bright kid? He doesn't get the attention he needs. Not by design, but because there's one of me. The kid being violent or disruptive? He takes priority, because he might hurt somebody or keep 90% of the class from working & learning. However, there's no real punishment for that behavior any more. So he keeps doing it every day.

      It's not *designed* to make people dumb. It has been forced by lazy parents who won't make their kids behave, make them do their homework, and make excuses all fucking day about why their kid is fucking "special". Kids have become so "special" that they cannot fail in school. You can't give a kid an F, because their parents complain to the principal that the teacher is bad. If that doesn't work, they go to the school board.

      The reason I no longer teach is the total lack of control teachers have, and assholes who gut all the resources - then yell and scream that the schools suck.

    5. Re:Is he ready for the school system? by Skynyrd · · Score: 1

      It this a joke? Does such a class exist?

      When I went to a state university in the late 80's, I had to take a health class. Part of the class was telling me to wash my hands after using the bathroom, to not have unprotected sex, and all the other things your mom should have taught you by the time you were 16. It was agonizing.

    6. Re:Is he ready for the school system? by tehcyder · · Score: 1

      The school system is not designed for people at either end of the spectrum.

      It's designed to push everyone into the dumb end of the spectrum. Dumb people are easier to manage by fear and intimidation.

      No, clever, imaginative peple respond best (or rather worst) to fear and intimidation.

      You hit a cow with a stick to get it to move, with humans you just have to threaten to.

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    7. Re:Is he ready for the school system? by tehcyder · · Score: 1

      So that really bright kid? He doesn't get the attention he needs.

      He doesn't need the attention, he probably gets it all the time at home, and even if he doesn't he can entertain himself.. What he should be doing is learning to help the average kid sitting next to him, and ideally helping to control little Johnny too.

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    8. Re:Is he ready for the school system? by tehcyder · · Score: 1

      Is he mature enough to sit through a "health" class in college where they tell you to wash your hands after using the bathroom (that really pissed me off)?

      It this a joke? Does such a class exist?

      More to the point, how many people fail it?

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  14. You need to teach non-scholastic topics by wiggles · · Score: 1

    Despite the kid's obvious mastery of academics, social skills are something that are learned by experience and interaction with peers - something that I'm sure this kid surely lacks. His education should focus not on academics, but on social interaction - get the kid into sports or summer camps, teach him how to be a kid and what it means to have fun. Too many books are a double edged sword in this case.

    1. Re:You need to teach non-scholastic topics by Fished · · Score: 1

      This. Whether or not the kid is actually on the spectrum, his (literally) prodigious ability to concentrate and absorb information and unusual interests will tend to cause him to have many of the same problems as an Aspergers syndrome kid. He needs social skills training. Regarding academics, just get him a library card and space in a well stocked college lab, he's already ahead of most of us anyway. Source: IQ 160+.

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  15. Yes.. by Mordermi · · Score: 1

    "Fit" him into the American school system so that he can held back by silly things like No Child Left Behind. I'm sure a lot of us here had enough trouble dealing with the school systems because of this, I know I literally slept through classes because I was bored and I had already learned the lesson without two extra days of explanation. So, for a prodigy, actually fitting him into the system wouldn't seem very practical. As some others here already said, let him educate himself.

  16. Ugh, fucking stub writers by L4t3r4lu5 · · Score: 1

    Do you purposefully miss out the important parts of linked stories just to pad it out with science buzzwords like quantum, chaos, and string theory?

    The actual part of the story which is important:

    "That kind of off-the-charts intelligence comes with a conundrum, though: Because he's only 13, Gabriel is not emotionally ready to handle programs designed for older students. His intellectual abilities raise the question: How do you map out an education for a boy at the extreme end of the gifted population?"

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    1. Re:Ugh, fucking stub writers by rickb928 · · Score: 1

      You give him as much freedom as practical. Keep him busy.

      When I was 13, I was absorbed with all thing space. NASA, Mercury/Gemini/Apollo, Soyuz, KH satellites, Pioneer, Ranger, if it left the atmosphere I was engrossed in it. But I wasn't nearly intelligent enough to get personally involved, so I scrapbooked and watched, and learned all I could. Let him.

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  17. CLEP by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

    Have him start taking CLEP tests. That way he won't get board in a class.

  18. If you find out tell me by Medievalist · · Score: 1

    I dunno the answer, but I sure could use it.

    I can't afford to home-school or that would be the obvious solution.

    1. Re:If you find out tell me by bill_mcgonigle · · Score: 1

      I dunno the answer, but I sure could use it.

      I can't afford to home-school or that would be the obvious solution.

      Support a candidate who will work to abolish the personal income tax. That's why homeschooling isn't possible for most families. You're paying for big government at your child's detriment.

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    2. Re:If you find out tell me by tehcyder · · Score: 1

      I dunno the answer, but I sure could use it.

      I can't afford to home-school or that would be the obvious solution.

      Support a candidate who will work to abolish the personal income tax. That's why homeschooling isn't possible for most families. You're paying for big government at your child's detriment.

      Wow, that's a new twist on "just think of the children!"

      Not only are taxes illegal, unconstituional, atheistic, communistic and forced on you AT GUNPOINT, they also KILL BABIES!!!

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    3. Re:If you find out tell me by Medievalist · · Score: 1

      Support a candidate who will work to abolish the personal income tax. That's why homeschooling isn't possible for most families. You're paying for big government at your child's detriment.

      Honestly I was looking for something that would actually happen in my lifetime.

      Anyway, I've been against income & sales taxes all my adult life. I would prefer an extremely high inheritance tax combined with a small asset tax. Income tax punishes people for working hard and sales tax punishes people for participating in the marketplace, while low property and inheritance taxes create a parasitic aristocracy that is detrimental to good government.

    4. Re:If you find out tell me by bill_mcgonigle · · Score: 1

      Honestly I was looking for something that would actually happen in my lifetime.

      That's actually the slogan of these guys.

      Anyway, I've been against income & sales taxes all my adult life. I would prefer an extremely high inheritance tax combined with a small asset tax. Income tax punishes people for working hard and sales tax punishes people for participating in the marketplace, while low property and inheritance taxes create a parasitic aristocracy that is detrimental to good government.

      Why do you think you have any right to a dead guy's money?

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    5. Re:If you find out tell me by Medievalist · · Score: 1

      Free state project, ah, yes. I happen to live near a place where something similar was already tried - ever hear of Arden, Delaware? The single-taxers came up with the same kind of math as the freestate guys use, based on the fact that Delaware is a small state with low population (at the time, anyway). I wish them the best of luck & hope they succeed; diversity is the hallmark of a healthy ecosystem! But there's no way they will accomplish anything before my children are adults.

      As for inheritance, dead guys have no money. It is illegal and impossible for the dead to have physical assets. You have to understand and acknowledge that before you can get past the "death tax" and "money taxed twice" chump memes. At the moment of death, all one's assets become part of an estate, which is not controlled by or owned by anyone who is dead. This is a fact, not subject to opinion or interpretation.

      In any case, why are you accusing me of things I haven't said? I never said I had a "right" to anybody's money, alive or dead. You made that up out of thin air. Trying to shift other people's positions into direct opposition with heavily funded, popular memes is a manipulative, dishonest rhetorical trick and you ought to be ashamed of it.

    6. Re:If you find out tell me by bill_mcgonigle · · Score: 1

      Arden, Delaware? The single-taxers came up with the same kind of math as the freestate guys use, based on the fact that Delaware is a small state with low population (at the time, anyway).

      I think the difference there is that the FSP aims to 'free' a sovereign entity, whereas Arden was subject to the control of Delaware.

      But there's no way they will accomplish anything before my children are adults.

      Actually, FSP-member legislators have had several victories already. On the smaller side, but it's an incremental strategy.

      dead guys have no money

      But their families do. Families operate as socialist constructs, sharing property. If the dead guy had his wealth in a box of gold bricks and lived with his son, that's now his son's box of gold bricks. Anybody coming into his house to take some of that gold is stealing.

      At the moment of death, all one's assets become part of an estate, which is not controlled by or owned by anyone who is dead. This is a fact, not subject to opinion or interpretation.

      It's not a fact at all. An 'estate' is a legal fiction created purposely to adjudicate the disposition of property - originally to heirs, but now people calling themselves government want to be heirs too. You can't show me an estate, it exists only in the minds of people who agree that there are such things.

      In any case, why are you accusing me of things I haven't said? I never said I had a "right" to anybody's money, alive or dead. You made that up out of thin air

      A government is only a tool of the People. It has no powers not granted to it other than those given by the People. If a government has a power to seize property from the family of a guy who has died, then it got that power from the People. If you have delegated that power to the government and approve of it, then by logical extension you approve of that power for yourself. If you don't have that power, then the government does not either, and any attempts to act in that way are merely legal plunder, not a right purpose of government.

      I realize that personalizing government action is hard for many people to accept, but that's the American model. The European model of power deriving from a divine grant of power to the King from God is a different take on society.

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    7. Re:If you find out tell me by Medievalist · · Score: 1

      The single-taxers original aim was to outnumber everyone else in Delaware and thus control its government. They were surprised to find out that the existing population was highly resistant and that their philosophy was not capable of attracting the requisite number of people (of the land-owning classes) from outside. Similar problems may lay waiting in New Hampshire for the FSP, but hopefully they will at least be able to create a viable community like the Ardens.

      As for inheritance - well, I believe that people should earn their money. Idle people who live off the leavings of their ancestors are generally amoral vermin; I say this not for philosophical reasons, but because I have spent considerable time in their company. There is such a thing as the "nobility of labor," that several of our founding fathers espoused; and it is most notable when it is absent.

    8. Re:If you find out tell me by bill_mcgonigle · · Score: 1

      Gotcha. I suppose one distinction there is that the FSP people chose to come reinforce the existing liberty-oriented folks in NH rather than propose a new system. NH has probably the most libertarian government in the US (though it certainly has its warts).

      I cant disagree at all about the idle rich folks, but I don't feel like I have the right to go take their things away because I find them crass and distasteful. I would like to stop helping people get super-wealthy by way of government favors, though. Very very few people have achieved that kind of wealth without government involvement (corporate protections, monopolies, regulations, etc.)

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  19. His parents seem to be level headed. by 140Mandak262Jamuna · · Score: 2

    They seem to be thinking about emotional adjustments and age appropriateness and social skills too. The parents seem to be sensible, so I am sure this boy will make some lasting contribution to science and math, unlike other child prodigies and idiot savants who burn out or end up as curiosities.

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  20. You don't by cjcela · · Score: 5, Insightful

    You do not 'fit' a kid like that, but rather do your best to understand what his needs are, even if these are unconventional. In terms of learning, he will do well on his own, you just need to support him with the appropriate resources. What he will likely need help with is with developing healthy social interactions and integrating to society. It you focus just on his intellect, he will suffer later on.

  21. How about something besides science? by SuperBanana · · Score: 4, Insightful

    You could possibly fit the entire American school system into him.

    Except that he's highly focused on sciences. How about some history, art, music, or languages for a few years? Heaven forbid the kid learn something besides science.

    Speaking as someone who works with a lot of very smart people focused in very narrow fields: the kid's going to be a lot happier if he has at least some general background.

    Didn't any of you read Ender's Game? Remember how, among other things, Ender often longs to just be a kid?

    1. Re:How about something besides science? by NevarMore · · Score: 2

      Didn't any of you read Ender's Game? Remember how, among other things, Ender often longs to just be a kid?

      I wish I had mod points. This is something a lot of the above average kids I hung around with didn't learn until later in life. Go run around outside. :D

    2. Re:How about something besides science? by rickb928 · · Score: 1

      When he's worn out science, he may well turn to the arts. Or, perhaps, he will work science in a way that will benefit the arts.

      Either way, it seems you don't give much respect to people who focus narrowly to great efffect. So Monet would have benefited greatly from a diversion into, say, science?

      I for one don't find Monet to have been diminished one bit for having focused on painting. This kid seems to be doing well. In 5-6 years he'll be able to make his own decisions. Assuming he will be to narrowly focused to make free ones discounts his intelligence. Even now, I suspect he could study any field he cares to.

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    3. Re:How about something besides science? by NatasRevol · · Score: 5, Insightful

      Sign him up for sports. Make him play for 2 years. Make him learn to be a teammate. Make him learn to be a human.

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    4. Re:How about something besides science? by ByOhTek · · Score: 2

      But Ender had this foisted upon him. The question is - what if this kid does not want what Ender wants. Foisting "just being a kid" on him, is just as bad as foisting "not just being a kid" on him.

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    5. Re:How about something besides science? by JonahsDad · · Score: 2

      From TFA: "for half the day Gabriel attends a small, arts-oriented junior-high school in the Lake Washington School District called Renaissance School of Art and Reasoning, where he takes dance, drama and language arts."

    6. Re:How about something besides science? by swb · · Score: 1

      How about tossing him in the deep end of the pool and see how adaptable AND smart he is -- have him start attending a graduate level seminar on Goethe. In German.

      When he does that well, he could produce a new translation of the works of Tacitus.

      After that, perhaps a new translation of Thucydides, drawing on any remaining ancient Greek texts of course.

    7. Re:How about something besides science? by somersault · · Score: 1

      That's a pretty narrow minded view of what a human is. I hate team sports. I like some sports, but not team sports. I can't predict people well enough or something. If I'm playing football (soccer) I often end up just kicking people's legs out from under them, or if I'm playing basketball I'll end up slamming into people and maybe knocking them over. I don't think it's especially a lack of coordination, as I'm fine at martial arts, watersports, Parkour, etc.

      Then again, some people just don't enjoy sports. I just think it's wrong to force him to do things for a certain amount of time, rather than give him options. Sure, get him to try something out for a week or two, as he might really enjoy some sports that he hasn't even considered doing - but don't force him into it if he doesn't want to do it.

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    8. Re:How about something besides science? by ArsonSmith · · Score: 1

      Scientists usually do complain that they don't have enough Monet.

      Two drums and a cymbal fall off a cliff

      bump bump ching.

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    9. Re:How about something besides science? by jpstanle · · Score: 1

      Sign him up for sports. Make him play for 2 years. Make him learn to be a teammate. Make him learn to be a human.

      Nah, if he sucks at it, sports could turn him away from athletic activity for a lifetime.

      Much better to just get the kid a dirtbike. Nothing like a few wheelies to prevent intellectual burnout.

    10. Re:How about something besides science? by spire3661 · · Score: 1

      Being forced onto a team does not teach you to be human.

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    11. Re:How about something besides science? by SeattleGameboy · · Score: 1

      Did you even try to read the article??? "His parents, Jason and Valerie, want him to have a normal teenage upbringing, so for half the day Gabriel attends a small, arts-oriented junior-high school in the Lake Washington School District called Renaissance School of Art and Reasoning, where he takes dance, drama and language arts." He is getting "something besides science"...

    12. Re:How about something besides science? by NatasRevol · · Score: 2

      The point isn't the sports. It's the social interaction you get by being forced to deal with people on a team.

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    13. Re:How about something besides science? by somersault · · Score: 1

      How can you possibly know if you enjoy something after only a week or two? You enjoy something when you start to become proficient at it, and that (generally speaking) takes practice.

      I enjoy things that I enjoy. I am naturally proficient with a lot of stuff that I don't especially enjoy, and I enjoy some things that I'm not that great at. I then work to become better at those things. Actually, often once I've become proficient, I lose interest and move on to a new challenge.

      Maybe some people don't enjoy anything unless they're good at it, but I don't think it's the case for the majority of people. Look at the number of people out there who enjoy computer games despite being quite frankly pathetic at them.

      If you're primarily doing things to show off, then I suppose you would only enjoy things that you're good at.

      Sorry, I don't quite get the "joke". Try kayaking, SCUBA diving, and windsurfing.

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    14. Re:How about something besides science? by orgelspieler · · Score: 1

      I think as long as the kid is interested in science, there's no problem with his parents focusing on that. If he wants to learn art history, fine, but there's no need to shove it down his throat yet. Expose him to as much as possible, but if he chooses not to study history or art, so be it. Being well-rounded is about exposure to things, not necessarily studying things. BTW if you RTFA, you'll notice that his parents have him attending a fine arts school. So he's apparently getting opportunities to study the humanities, too.

    15. Re:How about something besides science? by NatasRevol · · Score: 1

      No, but it forces you to be social. Which is a large part of being human.

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    16. Re:How about something besides science? by gstrickler · · Score: 1

      Obviously, you didn't RTFA. He participates in swimming every week. He also attends a magnet school focused on arts and music.

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    17. Re:How about something besides science? by Dahamma · · Score: 1

      You didn't RTFA, did you? :)

      His parents sound just about as reasonable as you could get in this situation. While he is taking college level math and science, they are sending him to an arts-oriented junior high and he's on a swim and ultimate team. They are trying to expose him to a wide range of activities as well as other kids his age so that he will be emotionally ready for college, etc.

      After all of the "tiger mom" stories these days, it's nice to see parents with a bit of real foresight into their children's future *happiness* once in a while.

    18. Re:How about something besides science? by swb · · Score: 1

      So basically he's learning about music and the arts the same way an average high school student in a better district did in 1955.

    19. Re:How about something besides science? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

      Being forced to play sports does NOT teach you teamwork, and it does NOT make you human.

      It might accomplish this if you are already naturally inclined to competitive sports. But for the rest of us it just fosters a lifelong hatred of one's fellow man. To the non-athletic, sports are an arena in which one is constantly abused, perpetually humiliated, frequently injured, and always blamed whenever the team loses. Forcing such people to play sports does not encourage them to get in better shape, either. It fails on every count and leaves the student worse off physical (from injuries) and psychologically (from injuries).

      There are other ways to develop teamwork and social skills, and they are more appropriate for a lot of people.

    20. Re:How about something besides science? by Jhon · · Score: 1

      "But Ender had this foisted upon him. The question is - what if this kid does not want what Ender wants. Foisting "just being a kid" on him, is just as bad as foisting "not just being a kid" on him."

      Maybe I have parental blindness -- but I like to think I have hind-sight. I was once younger and I have some frame of reference. I've not met ANY 13 year old who can adequately choose what they "want" vs. what is best for them. Maybe those things align, but maybe they don't. My job as a parent is to do everything I can to give my kid(s) the greatest chance to be happy and secure (in that they can take care of themselves and their families) when they are adults. And that certainly didn't line up with what *I* wanted when *I* was 13...

    21. Re:How about something besides science? by somersault · · Score: 1

      Wow, that sounds like fun! Surely if we force people for long enough then they'll start to enjoy it? Well yes, it's called Stockholm Syndrome, but it's not the ideal.

      Some people just don't enjoy that. Lots of humans are social, but some aren't. It doesn't mean they need to "learn to be human". If this kid enjoys the sports then great, but if he'd prefer to be doing his own thing, why torture him like that? There's no need to stop him having fun just because he doesn't conform to your idea of what a kid should be.

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    22. Re:How about something besides science? by Fjandr · · Score: 1

      No, but it forces you to be social.

      No, it doesn't necessarily. There are many other social options than team sports, and finding one that a child is comfortable is much more important than forcing him into a situation that may well make things worse.

    23. Re:How about something besides science? by loufoque · · Score: 1

      How about some history, art, music, or languages for a few years?

      Those subjects are useless, and would be a waste of his time.

      Have you ever seen anyone for which a degree in those fields helped them land a real job?

    24. Re:How about something besides science? by Lost+Race · · Score: 1

      Make him learn to be a human.

      The world is full of ordinary humans. We don't need more of them. We need more freaks like him. Let him do what he does best, and be the freakiest freak he can be.

    25. Re:How about something besides science? by Belial6 · · Score: 1

      Good luck finding 33 year olds that can tell the difference. OK, OK, many 33 year olds can tell the difference, but in all fairness, it likely isn't a majority.

    26. Re:How about something besides science? by Joce640k · · Score: 1

      Wish I had mod points.

      He's eight years old. The best thing you can do right now is leave him the fuck alone. The very last thing he needs is a bunch of meddling do-gooders trying to make him play football.

      If you feel like you ought to be doing something:

      * Give him unlimited access to information, make sure all his questions are answered (this part is easy these days with Internet/Google).
      * If you can manage it, arrange for him to spend some time with other really smart people.
      * Arrange visits to places if he shows interest in them.
      * Buy him a set of bongo drums.

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    27. Re:How about something besides science? by Joce640k · · Score: 1

      This got modded "5 insightful".

      I despair for the human race...

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    28. Re:How about something besides science? by Joce640k · · Score: 1

      Speaking as someone who works with a lot of very smart people focused in very narrow fields: the kid's going to be a lot happier if he has at least some general background.

      If the kid's as smart as the summary suggests then just give him access to information and he'll do that all by himself.

      OTOH, who's going to judge what his happiness is? You? Eight years old is a bit too young for that sort of call...

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    29. Re:How about something besides science? by tehcyder · · Score: 1

      That's a pretty narrow minded view of what a human is. I hate team sports. I like some sports, but not team sports. I can't predict people well enough or something.

      You only get to be good at predicting people by interacting with them - for example by playing team sports. Maybe you diddn't do enough of it when you were young. It's certainly a lot harder to pick up in later life, but it makes work, rest and paly all a lot easier.

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    30. Re:How about something besides science? by tehcyder · · Score: 1

      No, but it forces you to be social.

      No, it doesn't necessarily. There are many other social options than team sports, and finding one that a child is comfortable is much more important than forcing him into a situation that may well make things worse.

      * sigh *

      Part of being human/social/adult is getting on with unpleasant things and unpleasant people. Life is not just about doing things you enjoy and interacting with people you like.

      Only on somewhere like slashdot would this need to be pointed out.

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    31. Re:How about something besides science? by tehcyder · · Score: 1

      How about tossing him in the deep end of the pool and see how adaptable AND smart he is

      For a second I wasn't sure if you meant that metaphorically.

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    32. Re:How about something besides science? by tehcyder · · Score: 1

      How about some history, art, music, or languages for a few years?

      Those subjects are useless, and would be a waste of his time.

      Have you ever seen anyone for which a degree in those fields helped them land a real job?

      I didn't realise this was a fucking careers advice thread. I'm sorry, I thought we were talking about education. Silly me.

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    33. Re:How about something besides science? by somersault · · Score: 1

      Even professional footballers can't predict their opponents moves reliably, so I don't get why you think the reason I can't is just because I haven't played enough. I do think I was especially bad at just going straight for the ball though rather than waiting to see what the opponent is going to do, and I'd be more tactical these days, but I don't really have an interest in trying any more.

      Note that it's just team sports. I wouldn't mind playing in a team on a quiz or something like that, that's generally fun.

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    34. Re:How about something besides science? by NatasRevol · · Score: 1

      Can you please copy/paste this to every reply of my original comment? Because it seems like there's a lot of people who just don't get it. Or out much.

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    35. Re:How about something besides science? by Fjandr · · Score: 1

      There's plenty of that built into the process of growing up without having another instance forced on you just to make sure you've dealt with it.

      Humans develop social skills just fine without being shoved into artificial situations for no better reason than to "build character," which is no more and no less than what you're advocating. Unfortunately, /. is just like many other places in needing that pointed out.

      Anyway, to satisfy you, I suppose I could modify my statement to "there are multiple activities other than sports where your child will hate you for putting them there; pick one they are sure to struggle in so they can gain 'character.'"

    36. Re:How about something besides science? by AK+Marc · · Score: 1

      Society won't let you be a kid when you aren't normal. When the gifted are growing up, they are not allowed to "play" in the manner they want. "hacking" is a fun and educational activity for the gifted, and considered a Very Bad Thing. The "normal" kids are happy bouncing a ball and giggling at how it bounces. The Gifted need a real challenge. So encourage their "play" even if illegal, and find them like-minded children to play with. But society doesn't like "play" that doesn't fit a narrow definition of "play" so the outlets for them to be kids is limited. Being a kid doesn't have anything to do with running outside, but being able to play free-form and do what you want without limits or consequences. For many, that's running around aimlessly (or running in a sport, though that's generally guided by parents wanting to live vicariously through their children).

    37. Re:How about something besides science? by AK+Marc · · Score: 1

      No, it doesn't. You can be the quiet kid nobody wants to talk to that plays outfield and would rather be home reading. Sports did more to harm my socialization than help.

    38. Re:How about something besides science? by spire3661 · · Score: 1

      *sigh* Part of being human is realizing we are not all built the same. We all have differing views on how the world works.

      I find little to no value PERSONALLY in competition, i far prefer co-op. Sadly the vast majority of 'team' activities engage in competition instead of co-op challenges. It is no great accomplishment to be better then another human at something.

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    39. Re:How about something besides science? by AK+Marc · · Score: 1

      A degree in them is useless, but the knowledge is not. I studied all that crap, and I can hold my own in a conversation with almost anyone in their field of specialty. And that does help people land real jobs.

    40. Re:How about something besides science? by cbiltcliffe · · Score: 1

      "Pretty smart" people don't play 12 hours of WoW daily. That's what "pretty lazy teenage layabouts with attitude" do.

      "Pretty smart" people have generally have a need to learn, and do so on their own time, without any school necessary.

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  22. Home schooling by PPH · · Score: 2, Insightful

    This kid is a prime candidate for home schooling. In many communities, the public school system, or other social organizations for kids are available to the home schooled to keep them engaged in activities with their peers.

    The biggest problem with integrating kids like this into "The School System" is that the system doesn't deal very well with those whose performance lies outside the social norms (particularly on the high side). You have to have the option of putting him into activities where he will fit and pulling him out if he's a mismatch for their culture.

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    1. Re:Home schooling by dr_leviathan · · Score: 2

      I second the homeschool option. It sounds like the kid can handle academics so continue that through independent study, college courses, or online study. But convince him to try fun classes and adventures that will remind him that it is great to be young: rock climbing, ballroom dancing, metal working, and wilderness skills.

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    2. Re:Home schooling by PPH · · Score: 1

      This kid appears to be doing pretty well on his own. TFA doesn't make it clear to what degree his parents are involved in his education. If he's doing this on his own (and that's what it seems) then his parents' background doesn't really matter. Other than maybe to drag the kid outside and kick a soccer ball (football for the rest of the world) around with dad.

      Or mom.

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  23. One other idea by davidwr · · Score: 1

    If there is a high school that has academic courses at his level AND where his social maturity won't interfere with other students' learning, go there for academic classes.

    For example, maybe he does NOT speak French and would like to learn. Maybe he's not super-fast at picking up languages. A typical "honors" high school French class with his age-peers would be okay.

    On the other hand, if he'll just race through 4 semesters in 4 months, then it's probably not a good idea to have him in a class that goes at the normal "honors" pace. Likewise, if he's as socially mature as most 13-year-olds and the only honors French classes available are mostly junior- and senior-classes, then maybe this isn't such a good idea as he'll be a distraction.

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  24. You don't by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

    My daughter "dropped out" of high school at 14 and started at a good university. It was by far the best choice she ever made. She was able to graduate college at 19, taking time out to travel and live for a time several other countries, and had better than a 4.1 GPA. So long as a kid is reasonably emotionally mature and has good support from their family get them out of high school and into college.

  25. Freedom. by unity100 · · Score: 1

    You provide the tools s/he asks and access to the information s/he desires, and let his mind roam free.

  26. Make sure he does something useful. by mrquagmire · · Score: 3, Informative

    I remember graduating with a couple VERY smart individuals, at least according to school measurements. However, once they entered the "real world" they got quite a shock learning that their high IQ and 4.0 GPAs meant almost nothing because they had very little street smarts. They spent all of their time trying to please their parents and teachers but they had not learned what it takes to actually survive.

    My point is, we need to make sure kids like this learn how to do things that translate into a means to not only make a good living for themselves, but also contribute to society in general.

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  27. It'd be the same as anyone else. by mosb1000 · · Score: 1, Insightful

    You don't learn in school. School is about socialization and indoctrination.

    1. Re:It'd be the same as anyone else. by IANAAC · · Score: 5, Interesting

      You don't learn in school. School is about socialization and indoctrination.

      I see this parroted often, and I think it's misguided.

      School can and does teach - there are lots of teachers out there that are passionate about teaching and really want their students to learn. Yes, there are also those teachers that don't care.

      Of course no kid is ever going to get to prodigy level in the US school system, but if a teacher's done his/her job, the seed will have been planted for that potential prodigy to continue learning through his/her life.

      If anything, it's the "school only indoctrinates you" mantra that holds kids back.

    2. Re:It'd be the same as anyone else. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

      So learning the difference between a subject and a verb, and learning about the periodic chart are all things you just pick up on the street?

    3. Re:It'd be the same as anyone else. by chilvence · · Score: 1

      Well, theoretically if you had an independant interest, it's all there for the taking.... I think interest and motivation are far more powerful factors than people give credit for, for example I was a good student who graded well in all subjects without making much personal effort, but began to suffer grade wise when I got depressed and started wondering what the fucking point of it all was. Incidentally, at around that point I learned something much more valuable to me, which is how to actually enjoy being alive, which took a long time and a lot of awkwardness which I wouldnt otherwise have needed.

      These days I spend 80% of my time reading, and studying languages, for myself, because that is my personal interest. It goes a lot easier than school ever did...

    4. Re:It'd be the same as anyone else. by rolfwind · · Score: 1, Insightful

      Yet everything about school is so rigid and factory-like. I still fail to see the need for homeroom other than the daily "Pledge to the Flag" indoctrination and to waste 15-20 minutes.

      And there is so little play. (Heck, in 5th grade, at recess, we were told by teachers to not run in the yard as we were "too old for that type of behavior" like playing tag) At least in my experience. Imo, lectures are the absolute worst way to learn, but that's what most schools subject kids to most of the time. And it gets increasingly worse in the higher grades.

      Many people just don't learn by someone droning on and on, but that's what we accustomed to. I've seen this in foreign languages (and almost everyone I met, where they load up the student with a bunch of grammar rules up front and throughout, vocabulary is almost supplemental in many cases. Rules and rules taught for special cases when the students can barely utter basic sentences. And there is very little play in the classroom. No one learns their native language this way, but for some reason that's how foreign languages are taught.

      I would love to see childrens book and childrens films in foreign language classes just as a beginning.

    5. Re:It'd be the same as anyone else. by pz · · Score: 1

      I am an educator by secondary profession. I've won awards for my skill.

      1. This kid belongs in a top college now, not in three, four, or five years. Screw the socialization aspects to high school, he'll do quite well without them.

      2. The number of kids that get held back by actual instruction are, in my experience, nearly zero. I've taught many hundreds of undergraduates (granted, not secondary or even primary school students, but undergraduates) and the number of students I've found who didn't do well just because they were an ill fit for standard, structured instruction is -- ready? -- one. That one student (Iris, and I won't give you her last name), with personal attention, went from nearly failing to getting an A. Sure there were plenty of students who don't do as well as they could or should, but they are typically getting in their own way, rather than having some fundamental impediment to learning in a traditional style.

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    6. Re:It'd be the same as anyone else. by Medievalist · · Score: 1

      Individual parents and teachers do teach. Well, some of them do, anyway.

      But what the institution of US public school does is force conformance. Through any means necessary, including killing or imprisoning those children who can't or won't follow meaningless orders. These insane, anti-child "zero tolerance" policies are literally driving kids to suicide.

      http://parenting.blogs.nytimes.com/2009/04/06/a-zero-tolerance-policy-and-a-suicide/
      http://www.campaignforyouthjustice.org/Downloads/NationalReportsArticles/CFYJ-Jailing_Juveniles_Report_2007-11-15.pdf
      http://www.stopschoolstojails.org/content/background
      http://www.advancementproject.org/digital-library/publications/education-on-lockdown-the-schoolhouse-to-jailhouse-track

      The level of control that principals and school boards are required by law to exercise has always attracted sadists and child abusers; the evil schoolmaster is an archetype. This is because we legally empower them to exert humiliating emotional and psychological abuse on entire school populations. The sick need of such people to dominate children is valued by the public school system, so why wouldn't they gravitate to where their evil compulsions will be rewarded? Remember how the Cub Scouts used to attract paedophiles, before they reformed their leadership system to put a stop to it? This is the same principle at work; our system (particularly the "zero tolerance" nonsense, and "No Child Left Untested" initiative) selects for and rewards despotic, control-freak school administrators.

      I have two kids in school, and I'm a product of the US public school system. My sisters are schoolteachers. I know of what I speak.

    7. Re:It'd be the same as anyone else. by tibit · · Score: 1

      The smart kid can help teach others. My daughter has somehow started doing that on her own during math. At least she'll get to realize not everyone thinks alike, and somehow you have to pitch things differently to different people to get them to understand. That is, I think, an important skill to have. Every bright person should be able to teach, and you can't be good at it without experience. Might as well start early.

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    8. Re:It'd be the same as anyone else. by tibit · · Score: 1

      What has IQ got to do with anything? It's hardly a measure of how good a teacher you are, merely how much effort you put into "passing" the test.

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    9. Re:It'd be the same as anyone else. by greg1104 · · Score: 1

      You say that as if those are worthless things. Knowing how to get along with people and avoid trouble with authority are important real-world skills too.

      Anyway, this kid needs less reading and more doing. A useful alternate question is how you fit Gabriel into the less academic work that's already there. There's no useful math/science classes left for the kid, but there are electives that should keep him busy learning useful things while socializing too. Forget about music theory; learn how to play a few instruments in a regular music class instead. At 13, learning guitar to get laid would be a good choice too. Similarly, stop researching physics and use the electronics/shop classes to get practice building better stuff. Unless his parents have a giant shop in the house, the facilities at the school make a useful lab for a budding inventor like this kid.

      I found "electives" like these were much more open to having a rouge genius wandering around doing their own thing than the normal classes too. My electronics teacher thought it was great when I burned through (pun intended) all the simple soldering projects included in the main track, and moved on to sitting in the back building a robot the rest of the year instead.

    10. Re:It'd be the same as anyone else. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1, Insightful

      I'm writing this anon so as not to cancel moderations.

      When you have to teach 20 kids (or 30, 40, 50), and one is really smart... the teacher neglects that smart kid.

      One person's neglect is another person freedom. A child with a 146 IQ shouldn't need attention from the teacher in order to learn. In my case, in 7th grade, when the rest of the class was learning basic algebra, I was teaching myself everything through pre-calculus. Or reading books about various sciences. Or reading science fiction. Or writing science fiction. Of course, I still had to pass the exams, but I didn't have to do home work. In computer programming classes, I convinced the teachers to let me turn in a large project at the end of the semester. So I spent much of the time making messages appear on the computers that girls I liked were using, when I wasn't writing games or physics simulations or simulations of how the constellations would look from other stars. I was never bored in school, because I did what I wanted to, which was learn new things. (And, I am glad I didn't take the "early college" route. I knew some 15 year old sophomores, and they were socially damaged by the experience. College isn't just about course work, it's about being on your own with other young adults).

      Of course, history, literature and other humanities were not as free form, because I didn't have the interest to teach myself that stuff. So I took the courses, didn't like some, but still got As. But parents of gifted children should realize that "I don't like this" is not the same as "this is too easy for me and I'm bored".

      Now, I was in a small enough school district that I was known to the high school teachers before I entered middle school. So most of these "modifications" to the curriculum were things that I negotiated with the teachers by myself. Now in the case of Gabriel, I'd say that his parents need to give him the freedom to do what he wants and needs to talk to each of his teachers and get them to do the same, regardless of whether its a public or private school.

    11. Re:It'd be the same as anyone else. by mosb1000 · · Score: 1

      I'm tired of hearing about what school "can" be, as if main thing wrong with school is that 95% of the students just somehow don't try. Most people don't learn much in school. That's not because there's something wrong with them, it's because people don't learn in school.

    12. Re:It'd be the same as anyone else. by rolfwind · · Score: 1

      1. By the time you're learning a foreign language, your brain is significantly different than it was when you were learning your native language. You physically can not learn the same way as you did when you were an infant.

      Perhaps not, but I play a lot of strategy games and I notice that if I just play the games I will grok it 100x faster than if I sit down and learn the theory behind it (the rules books as they used to have). A lot of school is like learning chess by reading the rule book. The rule book is great, once you know the game, just to clear up a few areas and misunderstandings, as well as new ideas but it shouldn't be the approach from the beginning.

      The nice thing about children's books is that they assume very little and like many games, the essentials can be derived from the context. And it's usually the essential that's needs emphasis, not the special cases (by that point, a foreigner will understand what you mean, and for most 2nd language learners, that's enough progress).

      Unlike games though, children's books aren't 2 way (and neither is most classroom time). I heard one teacher using Khan Academy so kids get the lectures at home, and then using her class time to go over practice problems. That's a step closer to what I'm thinking of but still not there.

      I thought this blog entry was interesting enough:
      http://www.fourhourworkweek.com/blog/2007/11/07/how-to-learn-but-not-master-any-language-in-1-hour-plus-a-favor/

      I just wish computers and programs would come along that would allow much greater playing and feedback loop than is currently possible with just 1 teacher vs many students in the classroom.

      2. Learning a language beyond the mechanics requires real immersion, the type that you can't get in an hour a day. Want to really learn a second language? Go live somewhere where everyone you interact with only speaks that language, and you'll learn it. Pretending that you can replace that experience with an hour of unsupervised language use every day is just that, pretending.

      I mostly agree with you. I'm bilingual, and my father learned English the same way from nothing. But a lot of Europeans know English pretty well despite never having set foot in America. Most aren't fluent, but they're at the "good enough" level above.

      Maybe it's that english is the lingua franca and just exported overseas, Idk, or maybe their classes are different. I know many places start in 4th/5th grade as well.

    13. Re:It'd be the same as anyone else. by corbettw · · Score: 1

      Imo, lectures are the absolute worst way to learn, but that's what most schools subject kids to most of the time. And it gets increasingly worse in the higher grades.

      This is starting to change. My daughter's 7th grade English teacher has the kids post on an online forum for their weekly book readings, and encourages them to critique each others' postings. He's using it as a tool to encourage peer feedback, and get the kids teaching each other, with his role being more of a guide and resource. It's working wonderfully, all of the kids are full engaged in ways they weren't before and my daughter is learning more about how to express her ideas to others.

      I know that this is just one datum, but I think it's important to encourage these kinds of new models. We'll all be the better for it.

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    14. Re:It'd be the same as anyone else. by Thiez · · Score: 1

      > But a lot of Europeans know English pretty well despite never having set foot in America.

      This is true, they are especially common in the UK.

    15. Re:It'd be the same as anyone else. by psmears · · Score: 1

      But a lot of Europeans know English pretty well despite never having set foot in America.

      This is true. The majority of British people, for a start ;-)

    16. Re:It'd be the same as anyone else. by futuresheep · · Score: 1
      From the National Council of Teachers of Mathematics:

      Learning to Teach Mathematics for Social Justice: Negotiating Social Justice and Mathematical Goals

      http://www.nctm.org/publications/article.aspx?id=31244

      Learning to Teach Mathematics for Social Justice: Negotiating Social Justice and Mathematical Goals

      Tonya Gau Bartell

      June 2010, Volume 41, Issue 0, Page 5

      Abstract: This article describes teachersâ(TM) collective work aimed at learning to teach mathematics for social justice. Teacher interviews, discussions, lessons, and written reflections were analyzed using grounded theory methodology, and teachersâ(TM) conversations were examined concerning the relationship between mathematical goals and social justice goals. Analysis revealed that early tensions arose around balancing these goals, that teachers focused more attention on the social justice component, and that the instantiation of these goals in practice proved difficult.

    17. Re:It'd be the same as anyone else. by IANAAC · · Score: 1

      ... Past 8 years or so (I'm in my late 20s) I refuse to explain or debate anything with anyone, unless the person has done something impressive/showed their intelligence/etc. Just not worth the effort to dumb everything down.

      (I'm the 146 IQ anon above)

      At some point, even with your now twice-cited high IQ, you'll learn (one hopes) that it takes more than an IQ to teach. The giveaway is in phrases such as "I refuse to explain or debate anything with anyone" and "Just not worth the effort to dumb everything down." And maybe at some point you'll learn that intelligence distilled into a single number isn't really all that indicative of a person's capabilities.

      But as it stands right now, all you've managed to do is demonstrate your belief that you are somehow better than other - dare I say - most people.

    18. Re:It'd be the same as anyone else. by Fjandr · · Score: 1

      Screw the socialization aspects to high school, he'll do quite well without them.

      I would amend that to "he'll likely do better without them. Socialization in primary educational years is extremely different from the norm of socialization throughout much of human history. It is a deviation to throw together large numbers of people in a very narrow age category, with little interaction from anyone outside that age category aside from "authority" figures. That sort of uniformity narrows expectations and isolates kids from integration into diverse social structures, contrary to what many proponents claim.

      Socialization with a broad range of age groups leads to people being far more adjusted and adaptable. Granted, universities are still a relatively narrow age group, but it is certainly far superior to the extremely skewed socialization that occurs in primary education. I'd take a turn of the century (the one before last, that is) one-room schoolhouse over the methods used today in a heartbeat.

    19. Re:It'd be the same as anyone else. by Toshibi · · Score: 1

      I completely agree. I'm in college now and my school has a heavy nursing focus. I'm surrounded by nurses most of which are of average intelligence, but they work 10 times harder than any other student, period. I'm in the same IQ range as the AC with the 146 IQ and I grasp concepts easily, but I have the drive and motivation of a bored slug. Needles to say, while I make A's in my classes, I'm usually third or fourth highest grade after some nursing student that spent 6 hours color coding her notes and studying.

  28. He may know better by Feadin · · Score: 1

    You should ask HIM.... duh!

  29. The Davidson Institute by bendytendril · · Score: 1

    Check out the Davidson Institute. Their goal is to assist profoundly gifted kids. They've been a wonderful resource for my son.

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  30. Despite what you'd expect "prodigies" don't matter by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

    His schooling doesn't matter because past 120 on the IQ scale people don't contribute proportionally more to our rate of innovation. This is fact, check Myers psychology textbook. This is because we don't innovate by learning, but through memory error. It's all in the book "On the Mystery of Innovation." and the theory of innovation by memory error.

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  32. Sounds a little like me by raph · · Score: 5, Interesting

    I took college classes from 9 to 13, then my parents pulled me out entirely. There were good and bad aspects to my path. At 13, actual graduate math classes were a bit over my head, and I felt a lot of pressure and feelings of failure because I couldn't quite hack them. Also, being isolated was hard, and it wasn't until I came back to grad school at 22 that I felt I developed my social skills properly. But being allowed to focus on intellectual pursuits was really nice in a way, and I actually look back on that fondly. Now I have my PhD and work for Google, and I do geeky things for fun. As one example, I'm noodling on keyboards, and, being me, I'm writing a DX7 synthesizer emulator. Most people consider the math of it to be impenetrably difficult, but, I'm like, "oh, _Bessel_ functions, I can dig that shit!"

    I hope he does well and finds a path that makes him happy. One thing my parents did was keep me out of the newspapers (and off the front page of Slashdot, although we didn't have that then). I'm not sure whether that was entirely good or bad - publicity is valuable coin in today's society :)

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    1. Re:Sounds a little like me by LWATCDR · · Score: 1

      Yes their is more to life than science. He is going to need friends and social skills. Frankly the idea of pushing him as far and as fast as possible strikes me as being selfish. It is using him for the good "Society, world, whatever" more than for his own welfare.
      Find him enough work to keep him challenged. Maybe more classes on litter, art, music, and history to round him out. Maybe dancing lessons, sports of some kind. Their maybe some long term benefit to getting your PHD at 24-26 over 17. Instead of on prodigy you may have generations of brilliant people that way.

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    2. Re:Sounds a little like me by BlortHorc · · Score: 1

      Yes their is more to life than science. He is going to need friends and social skills. Frankly the idea of pushing him as far and as fast as possible strikes me as being selfish. It is using him for the good "Society, world, whatever" more than for his own welfare.
      Find him enough work to keep him challenged. Maybe more classes on litter, art, music, and history to round him out. Maybe dancing lessons, sports of some kind. Their maybe some long term benefit to getting your PHD at 24-26 over 17. Instead of on prodigy you may have generations of brilliant people that way.

      I know it was a typo, yet now somehow I can't get the crazy idea of an elective class on litter with Professor Oscar the Grouch out of my head.

    3. Re:Sounds a little like me by wisnoskij · · Score: 1

      But it is not just pushing him to be he best, if he can do 3th year university physics then he will be extremely bored in high school.

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    4. Re:Sounds a little like me by LWATCDR · · Score: 1

      In a high school physics course yes. In a high school History class maybe not.
      I did say give him hard enough work to challenge him but let him have some childhood.

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    5. Re:Sounds a little like me by wisnoskij · · Score: 1

      While I cannot speak for this kid I would not consider the total isolation from your peers because of the huge disparity of intellect involved any kind of childhood I would want for even my worst enemy.

      I have always considered myself a little above average in intelligence and while I went through High School I never even considered any of the children surrounding me as potentially interesting friends. So this kid would have to overcome 2 huge hurtles. now there are also a bunch of adult teachers in high school, who I befriended and spent all my time with, but it can come down to a lot of luck to find one who is receptive and interesting (and it kind-of defeats the purpose of going to high school in the first place).

      Also if this kid can do university level math, then just hand him a history book and he could probably pass a grade 12 history exam in a weeks time.

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    6. Re:Sounds a little like me by raph · · Score: 1

      Well, I for one think the world would be a sadder place without pompous nerds like me. Not, of course, on the same level of cultural tragedy as if there weren't anonymous trolls, but still.

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    7. Re:Sounds a little like me by trout007 · · Score: 1

      I'd consider myself average intelligence for a mechanical engineer whatever tht means. But the main thing I'm trying to teach my kids is to love learning for their own enjoyment. My daughter is very bright but IMHO is too needy. Kind of like Lisa Simpson where she is begging to be graded. I keep trying to reinforce that I am happy she is getting good grades but she needs to want to learn for her own reasons not for Daddy's love.

      It took me a long time to develop this love maybe into my 30s. But now I take one graduate class a year just for the enjoyment. It is much easier now that they have all online classes you can do in your own time. I find it's much more enjoyable now.

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    8. Re:Sounds a little like me by tehcyder · · Score: 1

      there are also a bunch of adult teachers in high school, who I befriended and spent all my time with

      Yes, and we get to hear about those sorts of relationships quite often on Fark.

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  33. You don't! But... by moorley · · Score: 1

    At this point he has no place in a normal classroom... *BUT* there is an example you can eliminate.

    When I was in highschool at West Anchorage High School they had an alternative high school called Stellar. They were too small for any sort of afterschool extra like band, choir, theater or sports so many of the students their would participate in West's programs.

    Have him participate in a nearby school in the programs he wants but bypass the normal class room curriculum. Kinda like a playdate if you will but it will allow him to interact in a way he enjoys and not have to deal with the rudimentary education part.

    One of my best teacher's used the following phrase: "The best thing we can teach you is the ways to navigate and find out how to educate yourself on what interests you."

    This kid obviously has it. But he can participate with school kids his age in the other stuff and learn to socialize. Junior High / High School may work the best but I remember having sports, competition and band even at the elementary school level. As an extra bonus or workload if something he wants to do whether it be sports, theater, or band doesn't exist he can work to make it exist by organizing it.

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    1. Re:You don't! But... by moorley · · Score: 1

      Sigh...

      At this point he has no place in a normal classroom... *BUT* there is an example you can emulate. (Not eliminate...)

      If I ever win the lottery the first thing I will do is hire a full time editor to review anything I write to be read by someone other than me...

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  34. There is no American Public School System by davidwr · · Score: 5, Insightful

    There are 50 states, each with their own rules, not to mention Washington, D.C., Puerto Rico, and other territories and possessions.

    Within most states there are dozens to hundreds of local school systems with varying degrees of autonomy. Then there are private schools.

    In some school systems education quality varies widely from school to school. Even within schools you can get wide teacher-to-teacher variation and even class-to-class variation with the same teacher, same course, and same grade-level.

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    1. Re:There is no American Public School System by oakgrove · · Score: 1

      This is insightful.

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    2. Re:There is no American Public School System by Fujisawa+Sensei · · Score: 2
      And they all fall into the category of "No child left behind." which includes "no child allowed to succeed".

      He may in a good school, and placed in gifted classes. But he will be expected to do the normal school world as well, so he will be rewarded with twice as much work and the non-gifted students. A few years of doing additional busywork homework, the stuff the other kids do in class to keep the kids quiet, will break his desire to excel in no time.

      Get the kid into a private university ASAP.

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    3. Re:There is no American Public School System by Fujisawa+Sensei · · Score: 1

      Then you got lucky.

      But this was certainly know about this, that's exactly what they did to me in grade school. Then again in middle school; gifted students were never excused from busywork. If I couldn't do it in class, even if it was because I was in an advanced class, I had to do it at home.

      If I were bored in class because you already knew the material, they had a solution for that to Ritalin.

      As for private schools not being prepared, bullshit. I went to a private kindergarten and knew multiplication before first grade. Then got stuck counting people in houses for the next few years while the rest of the school caught up. "Thou shalt show the teacher every step in the form she wants to see." or it was graded down and wrong. There was no way to show you knew the material, except by doing the work, exactly the way the teacher wanted to see it, then you went to the next step. There was no fucking way to prove anything except by being a good little drone, and doing the same work at the same pace as everybody else. The system was set up to prevent smart kids from getting ahead.

      I can go on about other assholes using the system for exactly the same bullshit.

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    4. Re:There is no American Public School System by ganjadude · · Score: 1

      I had a very similar experience, no where near at this kids level but I could do some pretty interesting math in my head. I would regularly fail math class for not showing my work. my issue is my work was done in my head. If i stop to write down my work, i lose my train of thought, and have to start the problem from the begining. My teachers would think i was just cheating. I even had my teacher give me an oral math exam just to prove to him it was in fact done in my head and no cheating involved. however due to policy, i still had to show my work. It was a real downer.

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    5. Re:There is no American Public School System by Quirkz · · Score: 1

      I struggled with that for a long time, and eventually gave in to the system. Much later on, in college physics, it became handy to be in the habit of writing things down, once it became complicated enough that I couldn't do it all in my head. What really got me to appreciate the demand is when I spent a year grading homework. If someone went wrong and they showed their work, I could point out the (possibly minor) mistake and still give them 4/5 for the problem, whereas if it was just one answer, out of the blue, and it was wrong I didn't have anything to work with.

      Now that doesn't excuse someone demanding that you write out every step of the order of operations in ((2 + 4) / 2 ) *3 = X rather than just jumping to x = 9 and calling it good. Depends a lot on the level of work involved.

    6. Re:There is no American Public School System by d.valued · · Score: 1

      Generally, though, without adequate access of resources by the parents (read: money or mobility), a kid's stuck in the schools local to him or her. In Illinois, my pied a terre for example, if you're in a poor district and want to send your kid to a richer district, you either have to move there or pay the equivalent tuition. (The latter option is rarely engaged.)

      And if you're in that situtation, you may as well send the kid to a parochial or private school.

      Personally, I would suggest a solution similar to one proposed by Dan Savage for other kids that want to opt-out of high school: get a GED, get into at the least a community college, and be done with HS if there's no option for a good high school. Hell of a lot cheaper, and yeah, it means not dealing with the wankers in high school but it also means that there's more challenge that the kid can handle. And at a younger age, when he will feel like he can hack it. .. Or move to another country that gives an active damn about education. Canada, let's say.

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    7. Re:There is no American Public School System by d.valued · · Score: 1

      I know. I didn't run into any serious challenges until college. Hell, I never took notes, never did homework, never used a calculator, and still scored A-'s in all my classes, a 750 math on my SATs and a 35 math, 32 composite on my ACTs.

      And I too was in the 'advanced' or 'honors' classes.. yet they still wanted me to operate by the old standard procedures.

      I ran into only one professor that basically worked well with my modus operandi. Ironically for a numbers nerd, it was in a series of history classes. Prof said that our grades were based entirely on three papers to be submitted on three specific dates on three topics specified in the syllabus. Either you went to the class and took notes, and submitted papers which were related to the topic, or you didn't. He never took attendance, never made assumptions, liked when you would submit a cogent paper which disagreed with his premises, and really liked it when you did the research. As in, went to nearly a dozen libraries, searched for first degree sources, properly cited, etc.

      That was a great class. And he was the first prof outside of comp sci cool with me using my laptop for notes. (And I did it with an emacs terminal.

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    8. Re:There is no American Public School System by tehcyder · · Score: 1

      But he will be expected to do the normal school world as well

      I assume you mean work and if so, what's wrong with that? Just because he's a genius at maths doesn't mean he shouldn't do all the other subjects kids do too.

      Most likely, he'll find he isn't a genius at everything, and his pushy parents will throw a hissy fit and demand he be relieved of the tedious obligation to learn how to spell/cook/find America ona map or whatever it is.

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  35. The question of making someone "fit" something... by idontgno · · Score: 1

    always brings to mind the iron bed of Procrustes. So, to make this "prodigy" "fit", we'd have to cut his intellect down to size. A task, I believe, public education is well-suited for.

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  36. Don't force him into a rubbish system by 1s44c · · Score: 1

    How do you fit him into the American school system?

    You don't. You build a new school system around him.

    Maybe that new school system will also be useful for those students that are too intelligent to fit into the current school system.

    1. Re:Don't force him into a rubbish system by tehcyder · · Score: 1

      How do you fit him into the American school system?

      You don't. You build a new school system around him.

      What is the utilitarian value in that? Give him a good reasonable education, speeded up if necessary, and let him/his parents chuck any extra teaching on top in his spare time, if necessary.

      I don't care how much of a genius he is, other equally brilliant people have survived the normal education system to go on and become Nobel prize winners, and the rest.

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  37. Some Anecdotes That Don't Make the News by eldavojohn · · Score: 5, Interesting
    I have met and known two 'child prodigies' that were clearly not as intelligent as Gabriel. But before you advocate removing him from the school system, let me relate to you the story of one of my good friend's brothers, Jay. Jay was identified very early on as being very intelligent and as a result, by third grade his mother was homeschooling him to try to make the most of his time. And she did, he graduated from the local college at age 15. And she constantly pushed him and prodded him relentlessly to do better.

    And he kind of burned out. He lives with his brother (my good friend) now and hasn't ever really had a real job. After he completed college, he decided to independently pursue his own interests and sort of realized that the whole educational path he had taken was really him just quickly absorbing other people's works. Striking out on new ground was far too uncomfortable for him. What was worse was that this totally destroyed his confidence. He's never been unhappy with his life but outside of his mother's reach, he's really just kicked back and played video games. I think the greatest work of the last five years of his life has been editing TVTropes -- a site that he became obsessed with after he discovered he could spend all day watching television with no consequence. Jay has never had peers really aside from his brothers. I'm no child psychologist but I think it has had a devastating effect on his understanding on society and also his work ethic.

    The other person was a coworker, Tom, who was a very talented software developer. I met him when he was 40 and one time he told me at lunchtime about his childhood. Tom had burned out as well but in a more problematic way. Tom also completed college (Physics) at a very young age but upon having difficulty his senior year, he became depressed and had suicidal thoughts. So his parents flipped out and brought him to a psychologist who diagnosed him with Asperger's Syndrome (which he clearly did not have when I met him) and gave him a bunch of drugs. He discovered he was great at programming software and decided to make a career out of it. He still said his mother's disappointment that he didn't "cure cancer" or discover a universal filed theory was probably the most regrettable thing in his life and it was ever present in their interactions.

    "He'll probably find a cure for cancer," Sleight said. "Or something bigger."

    I think a more positive statement would be something along the lines of "He has accomplished so much and already done such great research that even if he stopped studying now he would be an accomplished academic." Not to suggest that he should stop studying but to relieve a bit of the pressure. What if he doesn't cure cancer or something bigger? What will this news do to Gabriel the person then? Haunt him?

    I would advocate trying to keep him involved in school as much as he desires with external stimulation to help his specialties. Why must geniuses be removed from society? Was Einstein removed from interacting with children his age? What exactly is the hurry? Is Gabriel asking for more time to study -- time that regular schooling is interfering with? Does he have a network of friends to rely on? Is he expected to live a short life like Ramanujan?

    My opinion is to let him excel at school and take a more normal path than complete removal and its unavoidable isolation.

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    1. Re:Some Anecdotes That Don't Make the News by Kral_Blbec · · Score: 2, Insightful

      Here's another anecdote for you. I was what many considered to be a child prodigy and genius. My parents living in a small farming community there was nowhere for me to go and nothing for me to do. My parents intentionally avoided teaching me to read before starting pre-school because they didn't want me to be "different" from the other kids. I didn't know anybody who could get me into prestigious colleges and programs at an early age, although I could have understood it. Instead I was put in public schools and learned to despise everyone there. I became cynical, anti-social, and lazy.There was no reason to try when there wasn't anything on the next level.
      Now here I am a decade later, widely accepted by almost all my friends, coworkers, and supervisors to be one of the most intelligent persons they have ever met, but I have nothing to show for it. I graduated from the local community college at 17, but because I was lazy my grades sucked and I couldn't transfer anywhere. I have over 200 credits from that school now, but few 4-year schools will look at me. Not that I could afford those that do. As a single white male with two AA degrees, I'm not eligible for any financial aid.
      tl;dr version. I was a prodigy ruined by forcing me into public schools. I've gotten past it and am quite happy with my life now, but for this kid I say let him run as far and as fast as he can so what happened to me doesn't happen to him.

    2. Re:Some Anecdotes That Don't Make the News by krotkruton · · Score: 1

      You're right that we don't hear a lot about academic geniuses in the news, but we do hear about the athletic ones. Andrei Agassi comes to mind as having a similar childhood as those you described with some of the same problems as an adult.

    3. Re:Some Anecdotes That Don't Make the News by gilleain · · Score: 2

      ...I think the greatest work of the last five years of his life has been editing TVTropes -- a site that he became obsessed with after he discovered he could spend all day watching television with no consequence...

      This is the _real_ culprit! Beware of this site - it's horribly addictive :)

      My opinion is to let him excel at school and take a more normal path than complete removal and its unavoidable isolation.

      More seriously, yes ; totally agree. If you are going to 'cure' cancer (or its equivalent) at 25, you don't need to graduate at 15. Perhaps only pure mathematicians do their greatest work when they are young (like Srinivasa Ramanujan, or Évariste Galois) and even then, there are notable exceptions (Carl Friedrich Gauss or Leonhard Euler) who produce work throughout their lives.

    4. Re:Some Anecdotes That Don't Make the News by hedwards · · Score: 3, Interesting

      Burn out is really the problem, that a lot of folks don't consider when it comes to prodigies. At some point they all hit a point where the abilities they had aren't sufficient to keep moving on to bigger challenges, if they haven't been provided with the same tools that the rest use to organize and get things done, that's where it sits.

      A normal school is perfectly fine, provided that the school is teaching the organizational skills necessary to manage work, and that the student isn't required to do everything super slow just because the rest of the class is.

      I was personally, fortunate enough not to get that fast tracked, but I was in college by 16 and even with time off and screwing around graduated by 22. Which isn't bad considering that I was deliberately dragging it out and didn't know what I wanted and took time off in the middle to do other things.

      The other bit there, is that just because they're intellectually advanced doesn't mean that they should be permitted to completely waste their childhoods without a bit of screwing around and goofing off. In the long run they'll need to have something that isn't related to their primary work, otherwise there's much less opportunity to cope with the inevitable burn out that comes later on.

    5. Re:Some Anecdotes That Don't Make the News by somersault · · Score: 1

      I know I could have skipped a year of high school, and 2 or 3 of primary school without really missing out on anything. In fact I did skip a year one time when we moved house, but then we moved back to the original place and I went back to being in the same class. Even when we were back in the original place me and 4 other kids were put in the class above though, as there wasn't any space left in the class of kids our age. So I guess I both skipped a year and repeated one, hadn't really looked at it that way before.. anyway, like you I did great in school, got good exam results without trying so learned to stop actually studying.. in our preliminary exams one time I got 3 As and a B, so I focused on the class that I got a B in (Physics), ended up getting an A in the finals. Though for the other classes I got Bs.. go figure.

      My dad died the year after that, and I got seriously depressed throughout University - a lot of the reason for that is that I was studying computing, and that reminded me of my dad since he was the one that taught me about programming and computers in the first place.. I saw my transcript a few days ago. All 19s or 20s out of 20 for my computing classes in my first year, but then everything started sliding downhill as I got more depressed. I was on anti-depressants by 3rd year and I felt pretty cloudy all the time. I somehow got a 19 or 20 on formal languages and compilers in 3rd year though - I guess that class just really clicked with me - though I can't really remember anything I did back then. More because of the drugs than the time interval I think. Everything from 18-24 seems just like a cloudy dark mass.

      Since University I've started making a few changes to my attitude and lifestyle to get healthy and try to focus on positive goals. I've recently started enjoying programming again and am looking to either do my own projects or help out with something I'm interested in. I feel like I've wasted 10 years in some ways, but I'm happy now that I'm on the right track again. I think it's best not to be too bothered about the past - just make the most of your future. I'm now both more physically and mentally fit than I've ever been in my life. We don't really start going downhill until our 40s, and even then if you keep using your body and your mind, you can keep both in good health for a long time, barring any degenerative disease.

      Anyway for this specific kid, sure let him learn all he wants in his spare time, but I don't think they should try to push him or take him away from his school unless he wants to. They might kill his enjoyment of learning for one thing, or simply burn him out.

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    6. Re:Some Anecdotes That Don't Make the News by suomynonAyletamitlU · · Score: 4, Insightful

      And he kind of burned out. He lives with his brother (my good friend) now and hasn't ever really had a real job. After he completed college, he decided to independently pursue his own interests and sort of realized that the whole educational path he had taken was really him just quickly absorbing other people's works. Striking out on new ground was far too uncomfortable for him. What was worse was that this totally destroyed his confidence.

      As someone in a similar situation (You don't have to consider me a prodigy; I don't. But I got through school and college with minimal studying, by listening and learning), with similar problems (low confidence, burned out, etc), let me offer this for consideration: I have a lot of projects in the back of my mind--many, from tabletop games to video games to other software to computer hardware, fountains, architecture, writing, animation, and probably others I can't immediately think of. However, I don't know how to get anywhere, and critically, nobody is interested in helping me get where I want to go.

      Education is a path to becoming an academic. The school system is NOT set up to help you with any particular project you may have in mind; it is set up to give you a solid foundation. For a great, great many people, education replaces inspiration, which is to say that you don't need to say, "You know what I want to learn? Arithmetic. That would help me solve this problem!" You don't have to go out of your way to learn math like a farm boy of the first century, who quite reasonably may never have needed it. You don't have to gain these skills by grit and willpower. However, when these skills are no longer an accomplishment, you DO need grit and willpower to take the next step.

      More importantly, what you need to take the next step are people who know what you're capable of, know what you'd like to do, and are willing to help. Imagine if someone took one of my projects and said, "You know what? Let's run with this. I bet if you took classes to learn this, and I went over here to talk to these people, and I know some people over here that can help... maybe within a couple years we might have something to show to investors, and we can make a business out of it." That sort of confidence can't come from me. I'll work, I'll offer inspiration, I'll do all sorts of things, but everything I want to do is a project, and all of those projects are going to NEED other people. Before I can even ask for their help, I have to believe others will want the end result; I can't just look at them and say, "Yup. They'll want this. Come on everyone, trust me, we'll do it." That seems sleazy to me, or corrupt, or... I don't even know what.

      How do you educate a prodigy? Find out where their sights are set, and help them along that road. If they have their sights on many things, help with that. Don't ever, ever tell them that when they reach maturity (ie leave college) and are on their own, their job is done. That's a stalling point, and I would imagine that a lot of people get stuck there.

    7. Re:Some Anecdotes That Don't Make the News by jellomizer · · Score: 4, Interesting

      I think there is the real problem when the child has a genius level talent, people put him on this high horse to succeed at everything. But because he expects everything to be easy in life he doesn't learn about working hard, or even putting in any effort. So when they grow up they will not keep a job because they either expect place of employment to treat him like a god (not realizing once you reach 18 you are no longer a child prodigy), or perhaps due to his intelligence get very board with the job and causes more problems then what he is worth.

      A real life Dr. House wouldn't have so many people begging him back to stay after all the crap he deals out. They would fire him, and not let him back, even if he can save those extra 20 people a year. Because the cost of the legal suites against the hospital probably creating a situation where hundreds of people probably died because the correct departments didn't get the full funding they could have gotten.

      Being a genius doesn't make you a good person, or a useful person. A person with above average intelligence but a strong work ethic can probably be more useful then a genius who never was taught to work hard, and tough it out threw the boring parts.

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    8. Re:Some Anecdotes That Don't Make the News by spire3661 · · Score: 2

      Yet athletes get away with it all the time......

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    9. Re:Some Anecdotes That Don't Make the News by rwa2 · · Score: 1

      Can we just collect them with their peer group? There should be enough prodigies in the area to collect in a class or something. So we weren't exactly prodigies, but the "Nerds by Choice" group at our local magnet school probably helped a lot with the alienation from a country that otherwise despises people who are more focused on academic pursuits than trying to figure out the complex social protocol adhered to by your typical adolescent. And it certainly is both humbling and engaging to spend time with people who are better than you in some things, which is healthy if you're accustomed to being way ahead of the pack most of your life.

      And I know there's a rush to try to "get all we can" out of the guy, but don't rob them of their childhood either. Playing games with other kids on the playground is important. They do need to figure out how to cope with being super-competitive or super-wimpy in a supervised environment where a mature adult can hopefully help them figure out a safe way of dealing with social interactions without getting discouraged and/or becoming a sociopath >:-D

      I did have the opportunity to tutor some of these kids at a summer program at Jon's Hopkins way back when. I wish I could have done a better job at it... my educator skills are nowhere near what my wife can do. But these kids certainly do need a lot of quality encouragement, reinforcement, guidance, and stimulation, and I certainly appreciate how difficult it must be for the parents to try to keep up their support at the right pace.

    10. Re:Some Anecdotes That Don't Make the News by The+Mighty+Buzzard · · Score: 1

      As an adult, go have a seat in a third grade classroom for thirteen years and do all the work. That's roughly what it's like going through a public school system as a prodigy. You almost never learn anything in class and the people you're forced to associate with are fucking idiots.

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    11. Re:Some Anecdotes That Don't Make the News by jmichaelg · · Score: 1
      Since we're trading anecdotes, let me tell you Peter's story. Peter was diagnosed in first grade as "special needs" aka "retarded" because he didn't engage with the other kids, never paid attention and didn't seem to know what was going on. When the school told his parents, they said "Bullshit. This school isn't meeting Peter's needs. He's bored shitless. We'll school him ourselves." which they did.

      .

      When Peter reached high school age, they sent him to a private high school that is well known for its bright student body. Even there, he exceeded most of his teacher's capabilities.

      As an 11th grader, Peter designed his own CPU using an FPGA, reversed engineered the braking system on an American car, and installed his CPU to improve the car's handling on slick surfaces. That project netted Peter an 8th place in the Intel Science Fair.

      Bottom line, public education may be fine for the majority of us but when the Peter's come along, public education is hard pressed to meet their needs. Fortunately for Peter, his parents could meet his needs.

    12. Re:Some Anecdotes That Don't Make the News by snowgirl · · Score: 1

      Burn out is really the problem, that a lot of folks don't consider when it comes to prodigies. At some point they all hit a point where the abilities they had aren't sufficient to keep moving on to bigger challenges, if they haven't been provided with the same tools that the rest use to organize and get things done, that's where it sits.

      A normal school is perfectly fine, provided that the school is teaching the organizational skills necessary to manage work, and that the student isn't required to do everything super slow just because the rest of the class is.

      I was personally, fortunate enough not to get that fast tracked, but I was in college by 16 and even with time off and screwing around graduated by 22. Which isn't bad considering that I was deliberately dragging it out and didn't know what I wanted and took time off in the middle to do other things.

      The other bit there, is that just because they're intellectually advanced doesn't mean that they should be permitted to completely waste their childhoods without a bit of screwing around and goofing off. In the long run they'll need to have something that isn't related to their primary work, otherwise there's much less opportunity to cope with the inevitable burn out that comes later on.

      The spot on here is allowing him to go at his own pace. I was intentionally slowed down in math growing up, when I was going through school, in the 5th grade, I used an 8th grade math book on independent study. Then, come the 6th grade and moved up to middle school, they wanted to put me into a 6th grade math book, I refused, and kicked and screamed until I finally got placed in a 7th grade enriched course. (Although enriched courses are advanced, they do not seem to exceed the next grade. We were shown scientific notation only for multiplication and division, even though I had done addition and subtraction as well in the 8th grade normal book.) So, I paid my dues, and was the best performing student in the class, that means I get to go with the rest of the top students in that class into Pre-Algebra the next year, right? Nope. I got placed in 8th grade enriched. The teacher of that class said to us that there was no reason why we shouldn't be placed immediately into a gifted level Geometry class in High School the next year, even the lowest performing students. Guess what I got? Pre-Algebra. Finally, into High School, they put me in honors Geometry, where I still performed the best of any student on all of the tests, but surprise surprise, I never did my homework. (I was the only person I know of to stay in an honors course with a C, because they knew dropping me lower yet, would have just made me perform worse.)

      So, anyways, bit of a ramble of my story there, but to put it in context, child genius at least, but I never liked the term "prodigy". But held back so much that I became lazy. Starting at the 5th grade, I didn't do any new math at all until the 9th grade... why bother learning how to study or work hard... I can pass all my courses nearly in my sleep. Truly in terms of difficulty, because of the slow learning curve I approached all the new maths at, starting at the 5th grade, I didn't take another math class that made me break a sweat until I took Combinatorics my final semester of college.

      So, push the kid at least a little bit, and do everything you can to present at least nominal challenges in front of him, otherwise you'll end up with a child who is lazy and has subpar work ethic.

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    13. Re:Some Anecdotes That Don't Make the News by Xacid · · Score: 1

      I won't lie - I was/am in the similar boat. Since we're sharing anecdotes...

      Everyone told me early on I was some genius kid and yadda yadda yadda. But at that age you have no idea what that means. All it meant was more homework that I didn't want to do and preferred to just go outside and play (as most kids would). My parents didn't push me and my dad's requirement was "just pass and get the hell out" (in his loving way of course). Of course I figured out quickly what the bare minimum was that'd be required to pass. In other words - I opted for efficiency in order to maximize play time.

      When I went to high school I didn't even attempt honors classes as I didn't think I could handle it. The kids I saw from there were hard-working, studious, overachieving bastards and I envied their work ethic something fierce. Then I took chemistry with Mrs. Newton. One thing I wasn't shy about was asking questions in a topic I had huge interest in and chemistry was one of them. Often she couldn't answer my questions but always followed through with her promise of "but I will find out for you!".

      Eventually she told me a Mr. Franklin wanted to chat with me. Turns out he was who she was always going to for help with my questions. He basically said "you're going to take my honors physics and AP chemistry classes." Well...ok, sure, I'll give it a whack. Got an A in physics - the work load was pretty much the same as the standard classes I found. But AP was nearly double the work and I soon figured out I could sleep through class and still pass the exams. By the end of the year I passed my AP exam to get the college credit, passed the final exam with a 90-something but failed the class with a 65. I sat next to the girl who became the valedictorian for my graduating class. She flipped out on me telling me how I didn't deserve any of this and how she had to work 6 hours a night on this stuff just to pass (she got an A for the year).

      Mind you - this was a girl I respected like crazy. Brilliant, brilliant person. I just had no idea what she had to go through to get there. That was about when I figured out what talent I had pissed away. I thought everyone absorbed info that easily. I graduated with a 2.4 GPA in high school. I deserved every bit of that.

      Then I went to the local community college and got a 3.5 my first semester. The difference? No/barely any homework.

      What I really gained from this experience was a respect for those who work their asses off to get where they are. I also learned I work far, far better with positive reinforcement. I know I made my own bed, so I'll lie in it, that's fine. The one thing I would have changed if I could would be to have parents who were more supportive and nudged slightly harder. Take me out for ice cream or something any time I had a really good semester or something, you know?

      With that all said - if this kid has some genuine interest and drive - support him 100%. But don't push so hard he can't function in the outside world on his own without being told what to do or so hard that he just crumbles away and his abilities become useless.

    14. Re:Some Anecdotes That Don't Make the News by Jhon · · Score: 1

      "The other bit there, is that just because they're intellectually advanced doesn't mean that they should be permitted to completely waste their childhoods without a bit of screwing around and goofing off."

      I totally agree with you. I'm the father of a (more that a little bit) gifted son. My wife and I made the choice to keep him in a a normal school -- in an age appropriate grade and only modestly advanced subjects (he's in the 6th grade taking 10th grade math (most likely he'll be doing 12th grade next year)).

      The Psych, I think, said it best when he told us our son one may one day be highly successful in whatever field he chooses -- and get there fast if we let him. But he would likely have many social problems and could very well suffer from depression. *OR* he would do well staying where's he's at and provide him materials that challenge him OUTSIDE of school or addition to school and he would likely end up much more well adjusted and happier if not QUITE as successful in FIELD X.

      Am I holding back my son's potential? I don't know. This is the path my parents chose for me (I was likewise gifted) -- and I'm happily married, have two wonderful kids and life is good.

    15. Re:Some Anecdotes That Don't Make the News by gujo-odori · · Score: 1

      I'm not trolling or flaming you, so bear with me.

      I'm not nearly as smart as you and don't come from a family with money, either, so after high school I worked and saved for 10 years until I could afford to go to college. Then I quit my job and went to a community college for two years with almost straight As (I got two Bs) and transferred to UCSD, where I fell just short of graduating cum laude.

      My younger brother did more or less the same thing. He joined the army when he was 19, served for 8 years, got out, went to the same community college I did, then transferred to UCSD and graduated magna cum laude, in a harder major than mine. He's smarter and harder working than I am.

      If we could do that, despite being neither prodigies nor geniuses - just a couple of lower middle-class guys with good work ethics - I fail to see why you can't find a way to do the same.

      Oh, wait. You said you're lazy. If you stop being lazy, I think you'll find those other obstacles all become surmountable. If I were lazy, or if my brother was, neither of us would have been able to work to put aside money to go to college, or get into UCSD, or manage to not only graduate but do so with good grades. So stop being lazy and get to work.

      Who knows? After 10 years of work you may have found something you're so good at that you really no longer see the need for college and will be making a great living without college. College isn't for everybody. Some aren't smart enough to go, some are too smart to go. If not, well, you'll have saved the money to be able to afford it and you'll get far more out of it than if you had gone straight into university at 18.

    16. Re:Some Anecdotes That Don't Make the News by sonicmerlin · · Score: 1

      Loooots of those on Slashdot.

    17. Re:Some Anecdotes That Don't Make the News by jrumney · · Score: 1

      It seems this sort of path is not uncommon for child prodigies. Growing up isn't just about academic needs.

    18. Re:Some Anecdotes That Don't Make the News by syousef · · Score: 1

      I have never EVER heard of a happy genius. I want my children to be intelligent and experience the world at large and love learning the way I do. i want them to be competitive enough in the work place to earn a decent living. I would never wish the label of "genius" on them.

      That said I think you do have to pull them out of school but not to home schooling.

      School for the gifted is ideal IF it's set up to handle him correctly and he does indeed have peers. College is indeed a good option if the young adults there are supportive.

      Downtime is important. He'll be forced to mature more quickly and will be exposed to stuff like people's sexual antics and the less pleasant side of human nature way sooner than he should be BUT the alternative is no interaction whatsoever (home schooling) or bored stupid with children that have nothing in common with him.

      A lot of emphasis needed on social interaction and on time to PLAY...whatever form he wishes that play to take. He is still a child.

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    19. Re:Some Anecdotes That Don't Make the News by mug+funky · · Score: 1

      "Not everyone thought those were admiral pursuits"

      you should have studied literature a bit harder.

    20. Re:Some Anecdotes That Don't Make the News by spiffmastercow · · Score: 1

      I was probably just below the "prodigy" line (had a 35 on my ACT in 8th grade --roughly ~1570 when converted to SAT), and burnout was definitely what happened to me.. I remember when I applied for the "gifted" high school they have here, where all the teachers have Ph.D's, and graduating counts toward 3 years college credits to any Engineering program. The very last part was where they separate the kids from their parents, and they only have one question: "do you want to go here?" I said no. I sometimes wonder how my life might have turned out had I said yes.. I bet my work like would have been more fulfilling. On the other hand, I met some lifelong friends in high school, got a full ride to college, and ended up with a decent career and a life.

    21. Re:Some Anecdotes That Don't Make the News by Macgrrl · · Score: 1

      You know what they say; Genius is 1% inspiration and 99% perspiration.

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    22. Re:Some Anecdotes That Don't Make the News by Undead+Waffle · · Score: 1

      Was Einstein removed from interacting with children his age?

      "It is a miracle that curiosity survives formal education." - Einstein

    23. Re:Some Anecdotes That Don't Make the News by gmhowell · · Score: 1

      Best comment I've read on Slashdot in weeks.

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    24. Re:Some Anecdotes That Don't Make the News by tehcyder · · Score: 1

      I was waiting for this, there's always at least one in any slashdot thread about geniuses/education/crap public schooling.

      The quick version is always: I am a huge fucking genius because I could use a computer when I was two, but because I was too clever at school I got distracted easily and therefore got thrown out/left out of boredom. I now have a crap job, no life and am still a virgin. And it's all .the evil government education system's fault.

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    25. Re:Some Anecdotes That Don't Make the News by Rolgar · · Score: 1

      My wife and I home school. In our research, we've read that in studies, home schooled children are significantly less likely to turn out like Jay. Does that mean that there are none? No, but Jay is just one kid, and it sounds like you identified a problem, that he had a lot of outside preasure instead of being internally driven.

      There are large varieties of ways to handle home schooling. Most parents do school at home. That is, you sit at the dinner table, do your school work for 6 hours equivalent to what children are doing at the school. This is what most non-homeschoolers think homeschooling is, and for a lot of families, it is. For us, we have a half dozen families we associate, and they all do this, associating with various organizations that provide schooling materials. Students taught this way perform about as well as privately schooled kids when being tested. If a particular child will learn well with schooling, but needs to go faster, this can work. Other children will get bored with having to do the work if they don't feel they are growing.

      Other methods deviate from this style to varying degrees. There are people who do literature based education. This would take real world materials, and learn from those instead of a text book. So instead of reading about the American Revolution in a text book, you would find the writtings of the American fathers as well as the British and French leaders, and study what they wrote about the issues of the day. To study science, you would read the works of Gallileo, Copernicus, Einstein and other scientific greats, as well as modern scientific journals.

      Of course, you could take this last method, and employ field trips and hands on activities to explore whatever drives the kid, and let him find what interests him, and let him find his own way. If he ends up being a tradesman being an electrician, plumber, teacher, or farmer, or ends up going to college and being a scientist or inventor, as long as he's doing what he loves, he's probably loving life and has the drive to succeed, and will be a success.

      We are trying to do this with our children following what is called the Thomas Jefferson Education model. The people that have developed that do have a religious faith that they incorporate into their program when they teach there children, but they are more about the framework than giving you the actual exact step by step process to get to the end. For instance, they teach that there are three stages in educating a child. In the first stage, early elementary school which they call Core Phase, you give the children the fundamental skills all children need: reading, writting and math, languages you want them to learn, and let them explore things that they are interested in (dinosaurs, animals, physics, electronics, mechanical technology, farming, etc.) and give children responsibilies like household chores so they build competence and confidence while allowing lots of time for playing. In the second stage, Love of Learning, you focus on exploring more of what the children are interested, and where possible try to pull in related studies. As they enter the final phase which is equivalent to high school which they call Scholar Phase, they add teacher led learning to the student led. Since the student should love learning by this point, continue letting them explore the things they love but provide some areas where they need to grow such as understanding of government, geography, different sciences, art, etc. An attentive parent should attempt to figure out if the child likes what they are studying, and try to find a balance between not driving the child too much and letting the child get away without doing anything. Their experience indicates that properly handled, all children will respond to a plan to become adults if they are given appropriate opportunities with the internal rewards that come with becoming competent and knowledgeable.

      By pacing learning in each area to the children's interest, we expect that the child probably gets to their potentia

  38. Re:Oh fuck off by rickb928 · · Score: 1

    Jealousy rears its ugly head. That anonymous thing works for you, by the way.

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  39. Foreign Language Immersion? by codeAlDente · · Score: 1

    My nerdy kid would be bored in a normal school. Instead he's doing a language immersion program, which keeps him interested, and encourages social interaction as well. Sports are good for that too, as a few others have mentioned. One risk with really smart kids is burnout, so there should be plenty of time for fun stuff.

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  40. Don't by mseeger · · Score: 1

    How do you fit him into the American school system?

    Please don't try... You're neither doing him nor the school system any favor. The best you can do for people who don't fit the system, is to allow them living productively outside of it.

    A good system is capable of exception handling....

  41. That's an assinine question by mikein08 · · Score: 1

    The American public school system is terminally broken and not fixable. Don't believe it? Just look at the end product of the system. Keep this kid OUT of public schools and put him in an academic environment that will nurture and push him. His social development is another question altogether.

  42. He is above the system... beyond it... by notnAP · · Score: 1

    Why should he fit into the system? Or more importantly, why should the system be made to be a fit for him?

  43. Spiritual Building by ButtMaster · · Score: 1

    Education is only feeding our lower animal brain. Only spiritual building will benefit the higher levels of an individuals being. if the child is already gifted in education(Meaning he/she has the ability to breakdown processes inherent in all educational disciplines), it makes more sense to work on the spiritual (READ NOT RELIGION) portion of his/her being, since intelligence is already mastered. Knowledge of self, inner discipline and relationship with others is by far a more useful exercise for the child.

    1. Re:Spiritual Building by goarilla · · Score: 1

      Your name is buttmaster !

  44. It's easy! by Suzuran · · Score: 1

    After his frontal lobotomy, he should fit in just fine!

  45. Send him to Harvard/CalTech by wisebabo · · Score: 1

    While I'm sure that a lot of us have heard of prodigy horror/early burnout stories, it doesn't always end up that way.

    My best friend entered Harvard at the age of 15 as a Sophomore. He took some of the hardest courses available; Math 55, Physics 55, Organic Chem (by the way, I believe Bill Gates took Math 55 which is one reason why I don't think he's a dummy) and did extremely well on them. He had a great girlfriend and was an excellent foosball player. (I didn't have a girlfriend, barely got through Math 21C and couldn't play foosball to save my life).

    I think in his post-grad research he worked with a Nobel Laureate. (Sorry, don't know the details, not my field). Now he's a fully tenured professor in Chemistry doing work in Nano-Tech (I introduced him to Eric Drexler's "Engines of Creation").

    So give Gabriel the opportunity to do great things and he just might.

  46. answer by rubycodez · · Score: 1

    put him in a great, capitalistically driven private school, what could be more American besides public school?

  47. Simultaneous High School and College by laughingskeptic · · Score: 1

    I had such a prodigy as a friend during my undergraduate education at the University of Texas. He took honors math classes and science classes at UT in the mornings and attended regular high school classes in the afternoons. He was a fantastic kid and I believe had great experiences at both UT and at his high school. He is now a law professor because a law professor advised him at one time that if he wanted have a carreer that maximized his time to explore what ever the heck he wanted then he should be a law professor.

  48. We need to study him. by mfh · · Score: 1

    Some day every child will be exactly like this one if we could figure out how to recreate the conditions present in his body at the time of his birth right through to his first steps. My guess is that every child could be this way and what great things we could accomplish as a species with such advantages.

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    1. Re:We need to study him. by bussdriver · · Score: 1

      Mostly its psychological not biological; not likely to find much info that can be used today-- perhaps his genetics help but its not the major factor. We all unfortunately develop mental blocks etc. that hold us back and don't luck out in our environment so our natural strengths (predispositions) can be fully utilized. Some people win the lottery on all fronts, asperger's (likely) + the right conditions let this child shine. Could be he is being harmed in other ways; like children who have parents training them to be a sports legend at birth-- and again, he won the lottery in that his parents efforts worked out like Tiger Wood's did.

      People differ so much that finding the perfect conditions for each child is going to be impossible. You can only slightly increase the odds-- besides, it would be better if you boosted performance across the board than added 1 more prodigy out of millions. Remember, people get massive brain damage and retrain their brain to huge extents to recover-- the brain can adapt far more than we give it credit! We just don't know how do to it that well.

      The best one can do with such a child is CONTINUE with whatever was being done to keep the winning streak going as long as possible; professional aid in maintaining this isn't a bad idea-- but putting him among other groups of people of any age is always a risk. You never know what somebody may do to hinder them. As a teen, its likely to be shaken up and something has to be done... Downside to a highly controlled environment is that it can't continue forever without being like a prison and once outside the child will not have the experiences to cope... which is why many think it more important to rob potential for the child's own long term happiness. Being the top/best is not important in the end. (its not like they'll save the world or anything - maybe be famious inventing something that can be turned into a weapon... getting society to evolve does more good.)

    2. Re:We need to study him. by mfh · · Score: 2

      I disagree with the sole-psychological position regarding prodigy children. This is a combination of genetics, diet of the mother during pregnancy, diet of the child, parental structure and disposition, parent factor upbringing and yes psychology does play a part as well. Knowing our strengths is how we can maximize our potential, yet knowing them isn't enough. Acting on them is what is needed.

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  49. You don't by Mad+Quacker · · Score: 1

    Clearly the technical stuff he will educate himself on, and ask for the things he needs in order to do so. The only thing you have to be concerned about is social skills, and having some semblance of normality in childhood.

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  50. DONT EVEN TRY by emagery · · Score: 1

    For god's sake, don't cripple the poor kid by subjecting him to our conveyor belt of education; he needs someone or someones who can keep challenging him... and, beyond that, the opportunities to teach himself using application. (Learn by doing.) Maybe he'll need a social and sociological curriculum on the side to make sure he can interact with the rest of humanity... but, all that said, our educational system is designed to create automatons who subject themselves to the whims of the few; opportunity is created as much if not more often than given, and he needn't necessarily rely on rote and proscribed methodologies to succeed or surpass.

  51. Re:Studied String Theory? by emagery · · Score: 2

    pfff... even if string theory doesn't pan out; one of the best ways to discover 'what is' is to examine and study 'what isn't.'

  52. Re:Just let him be a kid instead of placing him by gilleain · · Score: 1

    How many podigy's do we know who have contributed to the society? I would think none ... The reason is they don't have the structured education to fall back on... Yes even if it's mediocre structure.

    John von Neumann? Although I'm not sure whether his life history will satisfy the homeschoolers in this thread:

    Although he attended school at the grade level appropriate to his age, his father hired private tutors to give him advanced instruction in those areas in which he had displayed an aptitude. Recognized as a mathematical prodigy, he began to study advanced calculus under Gábor Szeg at the age of 15.

    So, normal 'restrictive' school, plus tutors.

  53. Re:Just let him be a kid instead of placing him by Jaysyn · · Score: 1

    There are a few modern Americans in this list. Oddly enough, Ted Kaczynski is one of them.

    https://secure.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/en/wiki/List_of_child_prodigies#Legendary

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  54. Re:Fit him in? by 1s44c · · Score: 1

    Why would you design a school system for a 1-in-million kid?

    Seems to me he is doing find on his own, though I am guessing some socialization with kids his age wouldn't be a bad thing.

    Because the current school system is only fit for students of average or below intelligence. Any student smarter than average has to pretend to be dumb just to fit in.

    Schools exist mostly to crush the youth into compliance with social norms, providing education is a secondary and far less important task.

  55. You don't. by Aladrin · · Score: 1

    You don't educate him. You provide the tools and let him educate himself. Require some basic stuff, but anything beyond highschool level, he should be allowed to explore at his pace.

    As for the social aspect... I don't buy it. I certainly didn't learn to be social in school, and he won't either. He will simply be bullied until he withdraws and avoids everyone. He won't learn to get along with them.

    On the other hand, clubs and meetups would be very good for him. The people there don't have to put up with his bullshit and he'll probably get kicked out of at least 1 before he learns to deal with others, but those clubs will probably offer enough for him that he's willing to learn to behave to stay in them.

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  56. Re:Social Skills by gilleain · · Score: 1

    One thing I've seen with several "prodigies" when they are fete'd by the press is how socially awkward they appear.

    Being an intellectual high achiever doesn't obviate the need for development of social and communication skills.

    I think many people would look awkward in front of the press, unless they are already quite outgoing, or used to it. However, yes school is useful for more than just learning

    The kid needs to get punted outdoors with Bear Grylls for a few months.

    Can't he learn to drink his own piss indoors, comfortably surrounded by books?

  57. Re:Just let him be a kid instead of placing him by NatasRevol · · Score: 1

    No, it's because they don't know what society is. They never fit in, so they never learned about it.

    Make the kid go play a sport. Make him learn to be a teammate, human, part of society.

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  58. You Did It to Yourself by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 2, Insightful

    There was no reason to try when there wasn't anything on the next level.

    Obviously you weren't a prodigy at logic.

    "Because I was lazy" appears more often than it should in your condemnation of the public school system. That's a pretty big sense of entitlement ya had yourself there, what is stopping you now from discovering everything now? Lemme guess: lethargy?

    I'm sure we all could have gone further if Richard Feynman had given us hand guided tours.

    1. Re:You Did It to Yourself by jizziknight · · Score: 4, Interesting

      I don't think it's entitlement so much as a lack of curiosity and drive. I'm in no way a prodigy (intelligent, sure, but not beyond normal levels), but went through much of the same in high school. In grade school and middle school, most things were new and interesting, so I was almost always engaged in what I was doing and did very well. In high school, I attempted to push myself by taking honors classes or higher level classes. I quickly found out that for history and literature, I just flat out didn't care, and my grades in those classes suffered as a result. It wasn't because the material was tough, because it wasn't; I was just more inclined to actually do the work for my math and science classes. When I dropped back down to the normal level of history and literature, I was still bored, but could largely ignore the classes and still get decent grades. In my senior year of high school, I simply became bored with everything, and just skated by. It was never because the work was too difficult; it was always because it was boring and I just didn't want to do it. Fast forward to college, and things were new and interesting again. I excelled at the classes because I was learning new things, and things I wanted to learn.

      The point is, someone can be the most intelligent person in the world, but if they have no drive or don't want to achieve greatness, no amount of pushing and prodding is going make them do so.

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    2. Re:You Did It to Yourself by Kral_Blbec · · Score: 1

      Growing up there was nothing but farms and cows to look forward to. I had no resources to study on my own other than the family encyclopedia set, which I took to school and read for the "Accelerated Reading" program in 3rd grade. The internet wasn't around back then to surf Wikipedia. I could hardly ask my teachers questions, as I was correcting them during lectures. Take any child prodigy, put them in an island, and deprive them of reading material and resources to experiment with, and they will all become bored.
      Learning requires study. Study requires books. Books cost money. We had none.
      So ya. I was lazy. I admit that, but take any prodigy and put them in the situation I was and the results are going to be similar. Even Edison had his chemistry set to experiment with, all I had was a 100-piece Erector set.
      Like I said, I've come to terms with it. I have no desire to be a world famous genius. I study for pleasure now and enjoy my job.

    3. Re:You Did It to Yourself by Oxford_Comma_Lover · · Score: 1

      I have had a similar (though of course not identical) problem.

      I have found it helpful to construe laziness not as being hesitant to work hard, but being unwilling to work hard even at things that are boring. I am lazy, but try to convince myself to do the boring stuff anyway, despite the lack of short-term reward.

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    4. Re:You Did It to Yourself by element-o.p. · · Score: 3, Insightful

      C'mon, I don't know GPP, and I don't know you, so maybe I'm off the mark. However, from my experience, I'd say you are mistaking emotionally maturity for intelligence. They are not the same thing, and expecting a child who has an IQ greater than most adults to also have the emotional maturity and wisdom of an adult is a recipe for disaster.

      I was no child prodigy, but I was at the top end of average when I was in grade school. I ended up in a public schools system "Talented and Gifted" program (which I really enjoyed). In 5th grade, my teacher -- who was new to teaching -- had a brilliant idea to allow us to go as far and fast as we could: math class would be entirely self-paced. She gave us the materials to learn, and a program to follow. We would take a pre-test before starting a new chapter, then we were to read the chapter, do the work in that chapter, and take a post-test to verify that we had really learned the material. We would grade our own work, except for the post-test, which she would grade. Being (slightly) above average intelligence, but no more emotionally mature than anyone else in 5th grade, I quickly figured out that I could blow off all the course work, take a few days to goof off, and take a post-test, then proceed to the next chapter.

      It doesn't take a genius to figure out how well that worked. For the first few chapters, I pulled it off, but once we got to the new material that I hadn't been exposed to before, I started blowing all the tests. Several phone calls home to my parents later ("I don't understand why Mike is suddenly having so much trouble in math..."), I realized that *saying* I had done the course work and actually *doing* the course work lead to vastly different outcomes...but by then, I had a lot of catching up to do.

      Child prodigies often have amazing intellectual skills (more or less by definition, right?), but they typically *don't* have the experience and maturity to understand how society works. It's unrealistic to expect a child to understand how decisions now can impact their life ten or twenty years later. That's why children have and NEED parents. Sure, GPP could do some community college work now to get his grades up and go on to a better school for a BS, MS, or PhD, but cut him some slack on his decisions as a kid. I wouldn't have done any better in his place, nor, do I think, would most of us.

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    5. Re:You Did It to Yourself by cptdondo · · Score: 1

      Yup. It sounds like this kid's parents understand the complexity. My kids are smart - both at least a grade above their peers and at the top of their class, but not so smart as to be outside the norm. And I will not put them into a T&G program that isolates them from their peers.

      This kid's parents must have that problem in spades. At least my kids have gotten beat both in physical and academic competition. I was a T&G student; smart enough for Mensa, yadda yadda. And I was totally unprepared for academic failure in college. It was crushing to have kids around me who knew more and were smarter and better prepared. It was a totally new environment, and one that I was completely unprepared for.

      I would worry about what happens when this kid finally runs into a situation where he doesn't excel. Where others are better than he is. It's good that he's with kids his age; maybe he'll learn that while he's intellectually better other kids can take him in other contests.... A bit of humility is good for the soul.

    6. Re:You Did It to Yourself by element-o.p. · · Score: 1

      And I was totally unprepared for academic failure in college.

      Absolutely. I skated through high school -- I did my homework; after all, I may not have learned as much math in 5th grade as I should have, but I did learn *something*, lol -- but I never, ever studied for tests. Despite that, however, I maintained a solid B+/A- GPA, and graduated in the top 12% of my class. In hind sight, I could have done better if I had tried, but I believe I said something above about how kids don't always understand the impact of their decisions yet?

      Anyway...by the time I got to college, I didn't know how to study because I had never *had* to study before, and like you, I was completely unprepared for college. I failed CS101 (that was ego -- I signed up for the class knowing I didn't meet the prerequisites, i.e., how to program in Pascal), I did fine in Analytic Geometry, but took two semesters to pass Calc 1, three semesters to pass Calc 2, barely squeaked through Differential Equations, got my backside handed to me in Stats...it was an eye opener to say the least.

      It was crushing to have kids around me who knew more and were smarter and better prepared.

      I wasn't crushed that other people were doing better than me since I was never the *best*, but I was really frustrated that I wasn't doing nearly as well as I expected. It was like having a glass of cold water thrown in my face to realize that while I may have been a little above average in grade school, jr. high and high school, I was mediocre at best in college. Big fish, little pond, and all that. Suddenly, "good enough" wasn't anymore, and I had never acquired the skills to go the extra ten or twenty per cent.

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    7. Re:You Did It to Yourself by gujo-odori · · Score: 1

      That's the way to go. My kids were in the same boat - one is gifted in reading and was several years ahead of her peers (she's even better than I was, and I had a college reading level in sixth grade), she was the top student in her class. The other is a very good reader and is pretty good at math - not quite the academic star her sister is, but in the top 10% of her class and with a lot more common sense/street smarts than her sister.

      After we moved last summer and found the curriculum in our new school district much less rigorous and interesting, such that they were both getting lazy and bored, we moved them into a private school. The curriculum is more challenging even than their old school (a California Distinguished School with an API over 900) and the teachers are top notch. Between the harder homework in greater volumes and the large number of other smart kids in the school, they find themselves working pretty hard just to stay in the middle of the pack. We're still working hard to undo all the bad study habits and laziness they picked up last year in our local public school. Once we get there, I think they'll both return to being above-average students.

      There is a school in our district that has a T&G program, but I opted for the private school instead, for the same reasons you're not putting your kids into T&G: it's better for their emotional development to be in "general population" and to have some peers who are smarter than they are.

    8. Re:You Did It to Yourself by St.Creed · · Score: 1

      Same thing happened to me and a few highschool friends as well. By sheer tenacity I just went on until I completed the study. Final year was pretty hard with working and graduating all in one big mess. But just curious: were you from a family where you were the first to study? Because nowadays they have programs for kids from backgrounds where the parents haven't studied themselves. I know it would have helped me immensely if someone had been there to explain how everything works to me. Would still have goofed off in the first semester, but not longer than necessary.

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    9. Re:You Did It to Yourself by mug+funky · · Score: 1

      you were in farm town.

      you could have learnt some chemical engineering (what was present in the encyclopedia should have been enough), and started moonshining.

      you would then have had money for more books :)

    10. Re:You Did It to Yourself by syousef · · Score: 1

      Way to go idiot AC! He was a kid. Kids don't make good choices without guidance, no matter how intelligent. They simply don't have the experience. Expecting them to do so makes you a moron, and blaming a child for not flourishing and making mature adult choices makes you a heartless one.

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  59. Specialized schools by sandytaru · · Score: 3, Informative

    There are actually a few schools in the country that might be a good fit for a math genius, and would give him the critical socialization he'll need to be a normal adult someday. For example, A.R. Johnson Health Sciences and Engineering school in Augusta, GA, is a school that teaches pre-med and engineering classes in high school, omitting other activities such as art and PE (students who want those classes need to go to its rival school, Davidson Fine Arts.) I'm sure they'd love to have him on the Math Decathalon team.

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  60. Please don't send him to university by troylanes · · Score: 1

    First off, do what will make him a well rounded, happy human being. Doing so includes being socialized -- even if the best way is to make him deal with the drudgery and tedium that is the American public school system. Second, please don't send him to _any_ university. I'm afraid that if he follows and focuses too much on contemporary science he'll get lost in the trees and won't be able to see the forest. Newton and Einstein followed some precedent but managed to forge forward with brand new, world-changing science. This is what the world needs. Try to find an environment that will stimulate his curiosity about the universe -- let him find his own way. A university will most likely force him down a certain path into areas that have already well been charted. Just my 2c.... Hope all ends up well. Make sure the kid is happy. Don't put too much pressure on him. Remember to have fun.

  61. Re:What a question by 1s44c · · Score: 1

    Otherwise having him instructed in a martial art would be a great start. It will provide two benefits: discipline and focus, and the ability to deal with bullies who will hassle him because he stands out.

    That is a brilliant idea. He might learn some social skills with it too.

  62. Keep him in by nilbog · · Score: 1

    This kid is clearly a rebellious brat who hates the system. Sit him down, force him to go through school like everyone else, and kill any drive he has before it gets out of hand!

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  63. Effectively impossible by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 3, Informative

    1. I was a prodigy...not quite of the same level. College classes at 9, but nothing more impressive than that. Went through the normal system.
    2. I have taken over the education of a prodigy. Quite Elementary school to homeschool after 4th grade. I was the homeschool tutor (Like Aristotle for Alexander). A year later, he went to college.
    3. I've been in education at almost all levels, almost all subjects since.

    Fundamentally, there is no system that will handle all the kids. Allow them to escape.

  64. This is how by LowerTheBar · · Score: 1

    Get him a library card

  65. From experience: by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 3, Interesting

    In 5th grade, at the request of my teacher, I took my SAT's. I scored higher than 88% of college bound high-school students. I was put into an "accelerated program" that took myself and all the children like me (the smartest 0.005% of children age 7-11 from the entire school district) by bus into a single classroom 3 days a week. We were issued a "class project" which was to promote recycling. We gave speeches at places like MIT to push the agenda, and ultimately our class project worked. Prior to us there was no recycling in schools. Now, you can't visit a school now without seeing blue recycle bins.
    At one point, at age 12, I was offered a full scholarship to Johns Hopkins University when I finished high-school provided I maintained my grades. That was the positive aspect...

    Now the negative...
    The extra work they forced us to do frustrated and stressed us. They talked down to us when we didn't understand things. It took away our childhoods, as we spent long hours doing extra homework with no pay-off other than to assess our individual limitations. In the end, most of the kids burned out by the time we were halfway through high-school. I kept in touch with most of them for years and none of them did any better in society after school than our contemporary classmates. What it did do, however, is make all of us, and I mean ALL, social outcasts and misfits.

    Personally, prior to the program I was in, I had a handful of good friends and was on little league basketball and baseball teams. Dare I say, I was actually popular. After going into the program, it was school work only. While my friends would meet up after school to hang out and play, I was inside doing extra homework. The trend continued for a couple years and by the time middle school came around, when all the schools in the district dumped into one, I was the loner in a much larger crowd. A year or two later high-school rolled around, and I was jumped (group assaulted) repeatedly before, during, and after school at least 3 days a week. Why? Because I scored higher on the tests, because I turned in my homework on time, and because I knew the answers to questions asked in class. I moved schools, but it just continued. I was just a loner nerd, and let's be honest, teens can sniff that stuff out. My parents had long talks with school administrators on all levels, but none helped or even seemed to care. I eventually started skipping classes to avoid beatings, no joke. Ultimately, I dropped out of school in my junior year and got my G.E.D. and started community college while my classmates were still starting their senior year.

    I wish someone would've stepped in and told my parents that just because I had more aptitude than the vast majority didn't mean I had to use it immediately. Let the child live his life. With the way that life expectancy is rising, and retirement age is increasing he'll have to work for 80 years. He gets about 10 years to actually enjoy life, let him while he still can.

    1. Re:From experience: by sandytaru · · Score: 1

      This is the negative aspect to mainstreaming gifted kids. Fortunately, since I was in a larger school system, I was able to attend a true "nerd high school" and be among other kids who were gifted. In a school where everyone is scoring in the 1400-1600 range on the SATs (or 2100-2400 using the current scoring), it was okay to just be yourself and not feel too weird about it.

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  66. work experience by snsh · · Score: 4, Funny

    Get the kid a job as a janitor at MIT. That oughta do it.

    1. Re:work experience by snowgirl · · Score: 1

      *WOOSH!*

      Please reference Good Will Hunting.

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    2. Re:work experience by cephus440 · · Score: 1

      How do you like those apples?

  67. Re:Oh fuck off by sexconker · · Score: 1

    Until this kid does/creates something of his own, I'd say it's quite likely the correct scenario.

  68. How do you fit him in? by the+Dragonweaver · · Score: 1

    Quick answer: You don't. The American school system is designed for an average student, and he's definitely not average.

    In reading the article, it seems as though his parents have come up with a good educational plan: they're keeping him in non-math pursuits at an age-appropriate level and getting special classes and tutoring for the maths and sciences, where he's excelling. Basically, he's half-homeschooled (because homeschooling doesn't just mean the parents as teachers.) They're catering to his needs while looking out for his emotional stability and development.

    The American educational system still has enough flexibility to allow parents to do these things. It just does them by allowing the parents to work in parallel to the system rather than within it.

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  69. Something bigger? by NotSoHeavyD3 · · Score: 2

    "He'll probably find a cure for cancer," Sleight said. "Or something bigger."

    Umm, last I checked cancers were a class of hundreds of diseases. I can't see how you could find something bigger than one method to cure all of them given the multitudes of really smart people that would be happy to come up with a cure for just one. (Like liver, lung or pancreatic cancers. Hey, did I mention each of those organs has multiple cancers that affect it? Hell, they'd probably be happy to add a cure for one cancer of one of those organs to the tool kit of modern medicine.)

    Oh well, guess it's one of my pet peeves when people think cancers are actually one disease.

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    1. Re:Something bigger? by tehcyder · · Score: 1

      "Cure for cancer" has overtaken "cure for the common cold" as journalistic shorthand for "something medical/scientific about which I have no clue."

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  70. Socialization by strangeattraction · · Score: 1

    Sounds like you are aware of the educational issues and can get the help you need. The problem will be with socialization. Guess what, that is a valuable skill also. No matter how smart one is, it is imposible to do everything oneself. Learning to work as a team, learn from as well as mentor others, being empathetic and having fun are all important skills. Although I would never claim to be a prodigy it took me awhile to learn that being smart and good at something is just not enough. I also do not think that academic success has to come at the expense of social success or vice versa. If you want your prodigy to be able to achieve his/her potential being comfortable with social skills is just as important.

  71. You don't by nedlohs · · Score: 1

    If you did then he would be ahead of the rest of the children. That would mean the other children would be "left behind". That is against government decree. Hence he will have to be dragged back so that no one is left behind.

    Chances are he doesn't need such schooling anyway - from the summary (yeah ,yeah that's all I skimmed) he's motivated enough not to need a school environment to learn in. Just find some venue for him to learn the non-scholastic stuff we also expect people to pick up in school ("playing nice with others", "coping with idiots in authority", "meeting girls", etc).

  72. Fiction by sjbe · · Score: 2, Interesting

    Didn't any of you read Ender's Game? Remember how, among other things, Ender often longs to just be a kid?

    You are using a fictional story about a prodigy written by someone who was not a prodigy and likely has no special insights into raising one as a guide? Should we next consult the Fellowship of the Ring for advice on raising an adopted nephew?

    Seriously, your point about exposing him to other things is fine but using Ender's Game as a parenting guide is beyond ridiculous.

    1. Re:Fiction by Gr33nJ3ll0 · · Score: 1

      It's not necessary to be something to understand it. The later editions of the book featured an intro by Orson Scott Card where he described all the geniuses that came up to him and said that he had truly gotten it right, and they identified and understood the character very well. So while Card might not be a genius (or at least an identified one), he seems to understand what it means to be a prodigy, according to other people who are.

    2. Re:Fiction by epyT-R · · Score: 1

      judge based on correctness, not based on title.

  73. You don't. by JustAnotherIdiot · · Score: 1

    You give him a computer and the internet, let him research away.

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    What do I know, I'm just an idiot, right?
  74. Davidson Institute by Rakishi · · Score: 5, Informative

    Contact this place, they can probably give you better advice than most anyone on slashdot or anywhere really:
    Davidson Institute

    They're funded by the Davidson family who after making a mint in education software (enough to buy Blizzard in the 90s) moved onto more directly charitable endeavors. The institute runs a school for the gifted in nevada, provide nationwide help for gifted children and also give out a yearly fellowship. Probably other programs as well.

    Basically, they know more about all the options that exist than anyone here and are very friendly people. The last one is key, btw, since some programs are run by bureaucratic cretins who actually consider it a waste of their time to help people. These people aren't like that.

    I could try to summarize the options I know of but, frankly, it'd be an incomplete and a waste of time compared to what people who deal with this full time can tell you.

  75. How about we stop grouping kids... by epp_b · · Score: 1

    ...by something as meaningless as their "date of manufacture" (as if one's age should be used to judge one's level of talents and skills) and start teaching them according to their abilities?

  76. High school AND college - simultaneously by aliloln · · Score: 1

    I went to high school with one of the founders of Excite. He took his science and math classes at the university (conveniently just a mile and a half from the high school), and took AP humanities classes with the rest of us. Seemed to work okay for him.

    I also went to college with someone who started college at age 13. He's now a community college professor.

    Don't underestimate the value of socialization.

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  77. Let him decide. by wickerprints · · Score: 3, Interesting

    He's obviously the one person best suited to figure it out. He knows more about the range of topics that he has studied than his parents or his teachers. Where he might need help is in getting access to the resources that he chooses to take advantage of, given his young age.

    As for extracurricular activities, the article already states that he participates in other non-academic pursuits. I'm not concerned about the need for balance in that regard.

    The one concern I do have is that for all the academic and extracurricular activities, the one thing he needs to learn to be HAPPY in life is how to relate to others. That's not something you get while doing scientific research, or by doing sports. It's not something you get by overachieving in any sense.

    I didn't learn that lesson until relatively late in my teenage years. I was miserable throughout my childhood and adolescence. I still carry the emotional scars. And the problem is that, for all the compliments that others pay me, calling me "talented" and "intelligent," I feel paralyzed, like everyone is always expecting something great to come out of me, and all I ever do is disappoint when I don't meet those expectations. So I stop trying.

    Granted, I'm not saying this kid is going to end up the same way. All I'm saying is that he needs to be given the permission to NOT do something grandiose with his life. He doesn't owe anything to anyone but himself. I've come to realize that the most successful and well-adjusted people in life are the ones who are not only talented, but also have the drive, discipline, and perseverance to continue despite past failures. It's not enough to simply have one or the other.

    1. Re:Let him decide. by GSloop · · Score: 1

      I've posted this before, but thought I'd do so again...

      And the problem is that, for all the compliments that others pay me, calling me "talented" and "intelligent," I feel paralyzed, like everyone is always expecting something great to come out of me, and all I ever do is disappoint when I don't meet those expectations. So I stop trying.

      Read Carol Dweck

      Here's what I've posted before...
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      http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Carol_Dweck

      In short, there may be some upper limit to raw brain power, but for most, that limit isn't ever reached.

      So, claiming that "intelligence" is some inherent trait and, like most, assuming that failure equals non-intelligence causes a whole range of problems.

      People can sharpen their skills and those skills are usually viewed as intelligence.

      The real rub is this: When kids think they are "intelligent" or not, then nothing they do can impact that inherent trait. They will do all sorts of odd things to avoid failure and being labeled "stupid." [The inverse of intelligent.]

      When they are told they can learn, and that "intelligence" is not a fixed trait, they do much better, and the odd behaviors of attempting to either gain entry into the "intelligent" club, futility of being in the stupid club, or working to avoid losing the "intelligent" club card vanish.

      Read this: [It's from Dweck herself. Her book "Mindset" is an excellent start too.]
      http://web.me.com/dianamadsen/Walden_Webpage/Parent_Resources_files/The%20Perils%20and%20Promise%20of%20Praise.pdf

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      Seriously - I think this is a MUST read for any parent. Not just parents of talented kids - ANY PARENT - ALL PARENTS.

      I think many of us see the truth in this work and appreciate it more because we can see these forces at work in our own lives.

      -Greg

    2. Re:Let him decide. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

      I definitely understand where you're coming from. All through my years in K-12 (and so far my years in college) I've been called "smart" and "genius." You get pigeonholed that way, and you become afraid to fail, to not meet people's expectations. I got that way. And honestly, I'm not that smart. People only thought I was because I have a knack for learning, remembering things I learn, and seeing patterns. Despite what people thought-and still think- I work my ass off to do well in classes. I don't magically understand something the first time I encounter it. If I don't study and work on getting the concepts, I'm not going to do well in that class. And although being famous might be nice, I like laboring in obscurity on something I like to do.

      The American public school system isn't doing so well. Some of the students that could do quite well in school end up failing because they're bored with the pace of classes, or their learning styles aren't understood by administrations. I know quite a few people who weren't served well by the public school they attended. Some of them got their GED and stayed around to participate in activities they liked. Some ended up going to an alternative school. I only stayed at the public high school I went to because my parents and I made such a fuss that the school had to listen to us and let me do some of my own things if they wanted me to stay at the school.

      This kid and his parents are the ones who need to make decisions about what he does right now and how he continues his education. They're the ones who will be affected. I hope his parents don't pressure him into working on anything he doesn't truly want to do and that he ends up doing something he loves. Good luck to him.

    3. Re:Let him decide. by tehcyder · · Score: 1

      He's obviously the one person best suited to figure it out

      Yes, because he's thirteen and therefore fully mentally and emotionally developed.

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    4. Re:Let him decide. by tehcyder · · Score: 1

      The real rub is this: When kids think they are "intelligent" or not, then nothing they do can impact that inherent trait.

      This was always one of the key arguments in the UK for abandoning the split at 11 between grammar and secondary modern schools, which effectively labelled you as intelligent or not at 11.

      It used to be very, very difficult if you were shunted off to a crappy secondary modern school because you happened to do badly at the 11+ on a particular day, and then had to try to claw your way back up to do well in exams and eventually get to university,

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    5. Re:Let him decide. by jwhitener · · Score: 1

      He's obviously the one person best suited to figure it out. He knows more about the range of topics that he has studied than his parents or his teachers.

      The one concern I do have is that for all the academic and extracurricular activities, the one thing he needs to learn to be HAPPY in life is how to relate to others.

      And that is exactly why he isn't the person best suited to figuring it out. I'm been involved in my niece's life since she was born. Every new thing is scary, first time away from the parents, first day of pre-school, first day of kindergarten, etc.. If she did what she wanted, she'd be a hermit.

      He might be doing extracurricular activities, but are they only the ones he wants to do? Chess club for example? If so, if I were his parent, I'd try to balance the academic and extracurricular activities that he chooses with those I choose for him, based on experience. Like, he picks college science class A and Chess Club, and I ask him to try a college philosophy class and some community club or social city sports team.

      At that young of an age, he has plenty of time to learn all the hardcore science he wants. What he really needs is to develop social skills, the connection between physical health and happiness, a perspective on life beyond himself and his pursuits (philosophy, social sciences like Anthropology, etc...). All which may scare him to try, which is where a parent comes in: to sell the idea, give him confidence, and gently push him to try new things. Pass/fail, no pressure, etc...

  78. If he's intelligent he just needs... by blahplusplus · · Score: 1

    ... a good mentor who is wise. IMHO as well as reading classic greek philosophers like Socrates/Plato, etc.

    Just because you are a prodigy doesn't mean a lot if you don't gain any kind of maturity. There's a history of prodigy's believing they are a little too special and distant from everyone else when it is really about their own toxic perspective. The kind of a philosophy a child adopts affects his worldview, so he should learn from excellent examples and mentors to help him/her along to not become a jaded cynical bumpkin who can't co-operate with anyone.

    We shouldn't worry about educating the gifted, we should just let these kids go as far as they want to go. I don't believe we should push people with talents and mine them for their ability to work. I really hate this 'genius/prodigy' obsession people have like these kids somehow owe their lives to become something society finds socially useful. Work is still work even to talented people - they get bored, they get tired, they get annoyed. Just because you're intelligent doesn't mean you're not human.

    IMHO many of the greeks had it right, one can look around today and see many intelligent people who can't even approach the simple wisdom of the greek philosophers.

    "Socrates believed the best way for people to live was to focus on self-development rather than the pursuit of material wealth.[citation needed] He always invited others to try to concentrate more on friendships and a sense of true community, for Socrates felt this was the best way for people to grow together as a populace.[citation needed] His actions lived up to this: in the end, Socrates accepted his death sentence when most thought he would simply leave Athens, as he felt he could not run away from or go against the will of his community; as mentioned above, his reputation for valor on the battlefield was without reproach.

    The idea that humans possessed certain virtues formed a common thread in Socrates' teachings. These virtues represented the most important qualities for a person to have, foremost of which were the philosophical or intellectual virtues. Socrates stressed that "virtue was the most valuable of all possessions; the ideal life was spent in search of the Good. Truth lies beneath the shadows of existence, and it is the job of the philosopher to show the rest how little they really know.""

    Socrates wanted people to focus on treating each other like human beings instead of means towards some material or utilitarian end. Many problems in the world come from our obsession with trying to one-up, out-compete and out-screw the other guy. What we often really need is to tell the world to fuck off and just live our lives and enjoy them while we are here focusing on improving our relationships rather then our productivity and capacity to destroy ourselves via work and material competition.

  79. steve jobs is right about college it needs work to by Joe_Dragon · · Score: 1

    Be got board / had a hard time with the required classes and dropped them but still took drop in's for other courses that he liked. Also Some parts of college are to much theory loaded and are geared to research / being a teacher. Also some of classes are boring just read from the book and take a test on. Other some one like this can do real good in.

    But How much does Prodigy like stuff like art history and or music as college also alot filler that does not really help people that much in a job or even in a research role.

    Now high school is dumb down to the slower kids and this Prodigy may not like it at all to be slowed down.

    The college / high school systems has become alot about just pushing people though and you end of with smart people who get lost / broad with it and others who just limp / cheat though it and end not knowing much more then how much there loans are.

    Now college can be alot better by having a mixed tech school / Apprenticeships to 1 have a better fit for people who can't do all the high level math / don't want to sit in a class room for the next 4+ years and they want to get out there and do real work. 2 free up college so people who are good at research and high level design can not be held back by others who in the past would be labeled not college material.

    Also for stuff like tech the old fashioned collage is just not that good a fit any ways other then the high level theory / design parts.

    But you end up with programmers who are not that good / don't know that much about coding languages and are lacking alot of the hands on work.

    Now with stuff like networking, systems admin, desktop, help desk, and so on. There is a lot that is hands on and a lot of stuff that tech schools are a much better fit but that should also be a mixed school / Apprenticeships system as course books are slow to keep up and there is alot that you need to do real work to learn about how this system works in the real work place.

    At least tech schools / community college tend to have teachers that for tech classes have people who do or have done real IT work but most old fashioned collages have teachers who do research or have been in collages all there life and have not done real IT work that much.

  80. And look at the people who go on to be great by Sycraft-fu · · Score: 2

    You discover that child prodigies often as not do not go on to become the great people in their field. For every one you can name there are tons more that didn't and tons of just "regular" genius adults that did. Like take Wolfgang Pauli. A brilliant physicist and a child prodigy. Worked with people like Feynman, Einstein, Bohr, and Oppenheimer. Fair enough but notice that among those names, he's not the greatest, and none of the rest were prodigies.

    Also take a look at one of the current greats in science: Neil Degrasse Tyson. He's famous not because of his research, but because of his work bringing science to the world. A genius and a brilliant researcher, but what he's really done is helped to enlighten and interest people. His talks are filled with passion and are accessible to the everyman, and inspire people to wonder about science. His day job is running the Hayden Space Planetarium.

    Well he didn't get those skills by focusing 100% on science. Though he loved the cosmos form when he was a little boy, he did other things as well. Dance, wrestling, and so on. He is a well rounded individual with a gift not only for science, but for communication. That is what makes him so great.

    1. Re:And look at the people who go on to be great by HuguesT · · Score: 1

      Wolfgang Pauli, of exclusion principle fame, won the 1945 Nobel prize in physics. Pauli is indeed one of the greatest. If you want to pick a particular science communicator who was also a well-respected researcher, maybe Carl Sagan would have been a great choice.

  81. System's Screwed by MarkvW · · Score: 1

    Kids are not encouraged to maximize their potential. They are encouraged to respond to the bell (like in a factory) and to process the learning work in synchronization with the others (like in a factory).

  82. My experiences by pawnmove · · Score: 1

    As a father of a pair of very bright boys (now ages 12 and 16), I have struggled constantly with this, We have tried several different schools and systems and have learned a lot along the way. I have learned that the "secret" to maximizing interest and learning is to keep the students continually engaged with ever more challenging activities. If you think about a traditional school environment, you realize that with systems having many students working at the same pace, you are guaranteed to have many of the students at least partially un-challenged. Also, with traditional environments, a forced schedule guarantees that either you have significant empty time between activities or that you are often interrupting activities. For very young children (ages 3-6+), we have found that the Montessori system of teaching does a great job of continually challenging students due to the individualized approach. Also, some computer based tools do an excellent job of challenging students at a pace tailored to their specific needs. After the Montessori years, we have founds the best approach is a home-schooled environment supported by some of the excellent available online curriculum and/or outside coaches (i.e. music, language, sports or specific focus areas). In the early high school years we have achieved excellent results by simply adding college classes to the program.

  83. Also something else you can learn by Sycraft-fu · · Score: 3, Insightful

    Is that just because you are smarter than everyone else, doesn't mean you are better. That is an important lesson I learned at public school. I was no prodigy, not even a genius, but I was a bright child, smarter than most of my peers (about 98% of them if the standardized tests were to be believed). Well part of the problem with that is it lead me to be, well, a smartass. Much like a bigger kids feels he can push others around because he's bigger, I felt that being smart made me better. I got picked on a lot in no small part because of that attitude.

    In time, I learned that just because I was smart, didn't mean I was better, and that just because someone isn't as smart doesn't mean they don't have plenty to offer. I learned, well, to be a functioning member of society.

    That was pretty valuable, and is a large part of why I have my job, which I love, today. It requires interaction with people all the time. If I was a self-superior asshole, there's no way I would have got it.

    Also as you note, everyone will hit a wall with their abilities. Everyone hits a point where things aren't easy anymore. It is important to develop some skills for how to deal with that, including working with others, or you are in a world of hurt when it happens.

  84. Mensa + Teachers by Nothgrin · · Score: 1

    First thing I would do is find a school where the teachers really are interested in the growth and potential of their students. This will give them support that they will most likely see for their future in any field. Let's face it there's teachers out there that plain don't care and just go to work for a paycheck. The second thing would be to find a Mensa organization near your area. Usually applicants under 16 are evaluated in different ways rather than IQ and SAT scores. But the Mensa organization has meetings quite frequently and everyone and anyone is allowed to attend those meetings. Whether or not your child will be allowed into Mensa membership is up to them but attending the meetings is almost just as good in terms of expanding their knowledge.

  85. Mentorship by internerdj · · Score: 1

    This seems like a narrow solution space problem from society. Well the kid is too smart to be in high school, guess we should throw him into a more advanced learning institution. Many advanced kids need a mentor just as badly as many children who are behind their classmates. Even moreso, many parents aren't equipped to be a mentor for an advanced student particularly one this advanced. Bouncing me from school to school to find the best fit for my abilities and my family's income hampered me both socially with my fellow students and my connection with teachers who could have mentored me. At 31, I'm still playing catch-up to my potential.

  86. Make him take up a sport by SleezyG · · Score: 1

    Seriously. He needs to find something physical he enjoys and pursue it. Education is not limited to books and classes. Young Gabriel needs to learn how to train everyday, to push himself, to take care of his body, to win with modesty, and to lose with dignity.

    1. Re:Make him take up a sport by ThorGod · · Score: 1

      to win with modesty, and to lose with dignity.

      Yeah, hell yeah! If he's learned all the book-friendly lessons, it's probably time to put the books down. Get out there, burn some calories, and socialize.

      Society doesn't need another "know-everything" that can't actually function well in society. Some of the hardest lessons I've ever faced involved "people", and I'm sure he'd find plenty of challenges there.

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  87. Why is this a question... by barfy · · Score: 1

    This individual is an extreme outlier. That you would want us to have some sort of educational bureaucracy to solve the educational issues of one, is bizarre on face. It is even bizarre to be asking here, other than what do the masses think of educating such an outlier.

    The fact is, that there already is an infrastructure out there of sorts. People that are used to dealing with outliers, both in their problems, their needs, and their successes. It is known that outliers like this, present their best work before the age of 25 when the shackles of wisdom start holding back the innovations of youth, innocence and ignorance of failure, and why it shouldn't be.

    There is the davidson institute in Arizona I believe, but there are plenty of colleges and universities that can deal with this as well. But certainly, this isn't really an issue of the educational "system". Which needs to cover the bell curve, and not the tiny edges way out there.

    And you should own a copy of Real Genius. Seriously. Really. This movie actually is genius in its understanding of young genius, and those that want to leverage it, and the social issues that come from being outside all social groups, and the success that comes in the end, even in spite of, and maybe because of genius.

  88. So, let me get this right.... by supercrisp · · Score: 1

    So, the question is, how do we fit into a system a freakishly divergent statistical outlier? I don't think there's a good answer to that. I doubt "mainstreaming" will work any better for the tremendously gifted than it would for a student with dramatic developmental difficulties. And then there's the problem that we're all individuals and respond somewhat differently to challenges (and lack of challenge is a challenge); we'll never have a large enough data set to make good decision. I'll offer my anecdote. I am a National Merit Scholar, scoring in my HS junior year in the top 0.5% in the US, and I won scholarships left and right. I'm no super genius, just moderately gifted. My advice is this: if you have a smart kid, don't live in a rural environment if you can avoid it. There's simply not enough there. I loved nature, fishing, hunting, walking, and all that. I just loved it. But the schools sucked, the culture was backward, and there was nothing to do other than school and TV. Maybe it's different with the internet now. I think I would have loved the opportunity available in a more urban setting, like bigger libraries, for one thing.

  89. Not an American issue by WindBourne · · Score: 1

    This is an issue the world OVER. Few schools in the world are geared for such kids. The best thing is to contact the ivy league schools, esp. any known for education (brown?) and see what they say.

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    1. Re:Not an American issue by WindBourne · · Score: 1

      Any place that can help this child, will either ask for money up front, or announce that they are giving a scholarship. My guess is that any of the ivy leagues will be VERY happy to take this child and will come up with a scholarship for them.

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  90. Give him his own special colored card by bryan1945 · · Score: 1

    See previous article on "School stops color coded cards for students."

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  91. Re:My $0.02 by JazzLad · · Score: 1

    What good is saying you know a couple people when post anon? I know, don't feed the trolls :/

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  92. It's too late by business_kid · · Score: 1

    It's already too late for that kid and I feel sorry for him. I raised some above average kids. At least I got letters home from the school telling me they were above average, one very much so, and I should hothouse them. I looked at hothoused kids. They were all miserable because like any kid they wanted to play, but they were being forced to study and learn crap way beyond their years. Kids develop maturity, it's not a function of your IQ. What's the value to a kid of a phd at 15? No value. What's the value to a kid of a normal upbringing? Immense value in life. I binned those letters and let my kids have a life. They reach their potential now in everything they decide to do.

  93. What not to do by Fished · · Score: 1

    Don't just throw him into a standard classroom with average students and assume that "socialization" will just happen. It won't -- you'll just crush the kid.

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    1. Re:What not to do by tehcyder · · Score: 1

      Don't just throw him into a standard classroom with average students and assume that "socialization" will just happen. It won't -- you'll just crush the kid.

      Not everyone's a wuss just because they're clever.

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  94. Re:Ender's Game was fiction by cp.tar · · Score: 2

    Maybe he will be happier being the absolute best in his field, thanks to an education that was focused on his interests and aptitudes?

    Maybe.

    The problem is, he would have to be autistic for it to actually happen. Not to mention that when he needs inspiration some time in the future, he might have nothing to draw upon. Many a natural scientist drew upon something taught in the humanities he might have scorned as a student; you do not get to know what knowledge is useful until you gain it.

    A general education isn't for everyone. Specialists should be able to specialize.

    General education is for everyone. Specialist education goes above and beyond general education.
    Many good universities adopt the T-shaped student policy: broad general surface, great depth in the chosen field. Because you do not only live to work – unless, I repeat, if you’ve got Vingean Focus. Or if you’re autistic. Other people also need to socialize; to communicate with others; to live outside their work.

    The only aspect of his education that should not be sacrificed is social interaction. Our ability to relate to others is more determinative of our success both professionally and personally than any specialized talent. So, make sure he gets play time. He can study history, art, and music if he decides he wants to, but he should not be forced to. A special focused program makes sense.

    Quite so. And where do children socialize? Schools. Where they learn stuff he’d mostly find boring and/or too easy. Which kind of sucks, but that’s life.

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  95. Don't push him, challenge him by dutchwhizzman · · Score: 1

    Pushing him will burn him out. Not challenging him will make him never learn how to really work for something. He has to learn life's lessons as well as as much as he can possibly learn of all the stuff taught in schools, university and all those places. I was never challenged in school and turned out too damn lazy for my own good. It took me twenty years to learn stuff I should have learned growing up, before I started to succeed in dealing with every days challenges. Just don't push him against his will, make him want it himself. Make sure he has enough social interaction with people his age, but also people that can challenge him on his own mental level.

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  96. Re:Davidson Institute by Rakishi · · Score: 1

    I never said it's the only place, as you say there's tons of options out there. Various places will even create options for you if there are none there already.

    The Davidson Institute however was founded, asfaik, to help parents and students find and evaluate those options. They do more than that now but that is still their core program. They know what's out there and they have actual experience so they can give you well-founded advice. And they have enough money behind them to give at least reasonably unbiased advice (ie: they're not in it for your money, future name or future donations).

  97. Reminds me of this quote by Hazelfield · · Score: 1

    "He'd always been frightened of ending up as one of those child prodigies that never amounted to anything and spent the rest of their lives boasting about how cool they'd been at age ten. But then most adult geniuses never amounted to anything either. There were probably like a thousand people as intelligent as Einstein for every actual Einstein in history. Because they hadn't gotten their hands on the one thing you absolutely needed to achieve greatness. They'd never found an important problem."

    From Harry Potter and the methods of rationality by Eliezer S. Yudkowsky

  98. Not too difficult. by MCSEBear · · Score: 1

    Teach the child social skills. Otherwise, stay out of his way.

  99. prodigies educate themselves by peter303 · · Score: 1

    I consider most of my relatives and acquaintances "smart", that is got good grades in school and scores on tests. But these people mostly passively absorbed what the educational system gave them. The really smart people take the initiative to educate themselves, going beyond what the standard system offers. I place myself in that category along with one my nephews. Thats probably why I got into MIT.

    Then the question is how do you make the riches possible environment for these people? The internet helps a lot, providing lots of resources. I grew up pre-internet and had to do with reading most of the local public library. The other opportunity would be a research university where you are surrounded by other curious, smart people.

  100. American school system by wisnoskij · · Score: 1

    "How do you fit him into the American school system?"

    And by American school system you mean High School?
    I am not sure how that could even be considered at this point.
    Like if for some weird reason you wanted him to have his high school diploma then just have him take some equivalency test and study on his own or with some specialized help in any of the subjects that he is not at super genius level at.

    But at this point it seems more like a next step would be to start in a masters program for physics or similar at some major university.

    But there is one thing that I can guaranty you, and that is that there is not a single teacher in the entire school system that is likely to be any help in teaching him in even subjects that he is not good at and the difference in intelligence will likely make any interaction with his peers impossible and fulfilling if it does occur.

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  101. You know, it goes both ways ... by MacTO · · Score: 1

    There were a lot of things that the below average kids didn't learn until later in life either.

    Here's the thing: I think that we judge the excellent far more than we judge the mediocre. Some times those judgements are complimentary (intelligent, hard working, conscientious). Yet they are often derogatory (arrogant, competitive, weird). Because of that they are separated from society, either because society feels that it is better than the excellent or society feels inferior to the excellent. So rather than reaching out to embrace them for who they are, society would much matter reduce the excellent to the mediocre. A path that may produce better people, yet may also create people who regret lost dreams or have strayed down a path of impulsive self-destructiveness.

  102. Normal School will work fine by Roger+W+Moore · · Score: 3, Interesting

    No he does not need a special mentor, nor does he need special schooling. He needs to learn to function in the normal world. This means learning to deal with people that might be less smart than he is. How many child prodigies have there been that fizzle out as adults because they simply cannot deal with the real world? No matter how smart you are you have to learn to deal with people to get anywhere - humans are social animals. If he is smart and motivated (and not being shoved by parents which I highly suspect otherwise why take exams?) then he will learn extra things on his own time according to his own interests.

    1. Re:Normal School will work fine by tempest69 · · Score: 3, Informative

      Subjecting a prodigy to school just to teach him interpersonal skills sounds like a real waste. 8 hours a day of having things like fractions explained would be horrible.
      Get him a mentor, and someone to ensure he can socialize normally.
      Public schools are not a good choice for a bright kid, and a horrible thing to inflict on a prodigy.

    2. Re:Normal School will work fine by FirstNoel · · Score: 2

      Send him to soccer camp then.

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    3. Re:Normal School will work fine by Spazmania · · Score: 3, Informative

      Your main challenge will be finding folks close to him in age with home he can interact on a peer level. Not other super-smart kids who may act as sycophants to his uber-super-smartness and not an environment where non-super-smart kids are going to resent him.

      Find him a sport, even if it's something obscure like bowling. Or a biking club. Or a boating club. Or the Scouts. Something he can find enjoyable without his smarts either giving him too undue an advantage or engendering hostility in his peers. Specifically, something where he can spend time interacting with other kids his age as peers without his brain getting in the way.

      Other than that, he's an obvious candidate for home schooling. Give him the study guides, periodically administer the tests and as long as he aces them let him guide his own education.

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    4. Re:Normal School will work fine by turing_m · · Score: 4, Informative

      You raise some good points. It is certain that as your own intelligence increases to where you find yourself smarter than all but a fraction of a percent of the population, the ideas you have will be mostly correct but most other people won't be able to understand you. This can be incredibly frustrating.

      Other than restrict yourself to using only your mundane ideas, you need some way for people to take you seriously. This means credentials (e.g. doctor, lawyer, engineer, MBA), and/or it means making enough money that you can afford to hire and fire until you find others who will take you seriously. Or living with other similarly smart people who can understand you. Sucks, but that's the way the world works.

      Also, be very careful about uncovering the BS that the average Joe believes in. You will find a lot in life that everyday folks believe which won't stand up to scrutiny. However, think long and hard before you argue against it publicly, as you either face breaking taboos or interfering with the interests of powerful people.

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    5. Re:Normal School will work fine by Quirkz · · Score: 2

      Subjecting a prodigy to school just to teach him interpersonal skills sounds like a real waste. 8 hours a day of having things like fractions explained would be horrible.

      Entirely true. Most of school isn't interacting, it's just sitting there listening to the teacher. It's a terrible waste of time going over something you already know inside and out. I'm no prodigy but managed to get ahead in math at one point, doing a little algebra in 5th grade when it was normally a 7th grade subject. Stuck in the classroom that was reiterating stuff I didn't need, thankfully the teacher was nice enough to let me just read through all of 5th and 6th grade math. Was a waste of class time, but far more entertaining than being forced to listen.

    6. Re:Normal School will work fine by jonbryce · · Score: 1

      I guess you do that by having him in local sports teams, music orchestras, bands etc with people his own age.

    7. Re:Normal School will work fine by Belial6 · · Score: 3, Informative

      Bingo. My son isn't quite at the level of this kid, but at 7, he is well into Jr. High school math. His reading is better than most high school graduates, and his other language skills sit well against most Jr. High school students.

      Home schooling was the only sane and humane solution for him. As you say, Cub Scouts, 4-H, and other non-"school" activities give him plenty of time to socialize. It is also important to teach him that not everyone else is as smart as him, and that that is OK. It's a little like being Superman. Having super powers is really cool, and sometimes it will save the day. Most of the time you have to convince the public that you are Clark Kent. Mild mannered reporter for the Daily Planet.

      When he was 2 and 3, he had not yet learned that he needed a secret identity, and we found that it made other parents uncomfortable when a he would try to play chess with other 3 year olds, invite them to play video games online with them, or would start coaching their 6 or 7 year olds in reading. When we saw this happening, we spent a little bit of time teaching him how to keep from making the other kids parents feel bad without diminishing himself. ( The other kids never seemed offended. Uninterested in what he was wanting to do sometimes, but never offended.)

      One of the things that ends up causing problems for Prodigies is that a good many of them are just early bloomers. So, when they complete the bulk of their education at 12 or 13 and settle into the more normal rate of learning that we have as adults, their parents and mentors see it as a let down. The expect the accelerated learning to continue forever instead of just appreciating it as the head start that it is.

      At his current rate, I would expect my son to be able to ace the SATs in approx. 3 more years. If he doesn't achieve that, it is OK. He is just bordering on the level of education that most people graduate from HS with, so he will be fine no matter what. Parents break their Prodigy children. They either drive them at a rate that is unsustainable, they dissuaded them from being smart because they don't want them to burn out or they think that being really smart inherently makes you unable to socialize. Rarely do you see the parents of exceptional children let the children be themselves and learn at the rate the child is comfortable with.

    8. Re:Normal School will work fine by ChrisMaple · · Score: 1

      No he does not need a special mentor, nor does he need special schooling. He needs to learn to function in the normal world.

      That is precisely what he doesn't need, and is what would be most damaging to him. There's no need to drag him down to your level. A supergenius can do the most good for both himself and society if he can use his mind in the most effective manner and be insulated from the humdrum of common activities. This is the principle of division of labor, clarified by Adam Smith over 200 years ago and discovered by others long before that.

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    9. Re:Normal School will work fine by Taco+Cowboy · · Score: 1

      No he does not need a special mentor, nor does he need special schooling. He needs to learn to function in the normal world. This means learning to deal with people that might be less smart than he is.

      I am not at all surprise to see dumb answers like the above.

      This world, after all, has been occupied by dumb people who think that they are so smart that they know what is good for those who are smarter than them.

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    10. Re:Normal School will work fine by couchslug · · Score: 1

      "Also, be very careful about uncovering the BS that the average Joe believes in. You will find a lot in life that everyday folks believe which won't stand up to scrutiny. However, think long and hard before you argue against it publicly, as you either face breaking taboos or interfering with the interests of powerful people."

      Learn that the average HATE their betters, loathe being challenged, and will make your life a Hellmouth if you piss them off. X10 if you challenge their superstitions. They are vicious when challenged, but easy to manipulate as they deserve.

      Seek power and wealth. Become one of their masters instead of a target. Do as the wise and genuinely powerful do and live out of the limelight.

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    11. Re:Normal School will work fine by thehodapp · · Score: 1

      Just saying...you sound like an excellent parent. Best thing you can do is always encourage his interests circumspectly, and teach not only social skills, but virtues that will make him a person that people will respect and look up to (but it all comes with time).

    12. Re:Normal School will work fine by TapeCutter · · Score: 1

      Get him a job driving a taxi, if that doesn't teach him how to handle people, nothing will.

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    13. Re:Normal School will work fine by justforgetme · · Score: 1

      What you just concluded here works only in theory. The world is set up to be idiot proof, not genius friendly. This kid is obviously way too smart than your average School genius. Smart people can handle public schools and society on their own, geniuses need protection from the system in order to find their way.

      let me put it to you this way: if you put a genius in a public class room, and assuming he understands physical things well, two things will happen
      A) he will fail in everything that has nothing to do with his strengths (he will fail in everything related to speech, history, literature and art)
      B) he will succeed in everything related to his strengths to the point where his attendees/teachers will be frustrated/intimidated by him.

      Best case scenario? Kid looses about a decade of productivity and intellectual growth being handled by the system as a liar, cheater and lazy person.

      Better seek help from higher education, I am sure some institutions would be interested in providing a curriculum good enough to cover basic education and focus on his strengths. Also a good idea would be to hook him up with some hobbies normal kids also like, that way you ensure he wont be isolated by accademia...

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    14. Re:Normal School will work fine by alexandre_ganso · · Score: 1

      This is a sure way to create an alcoholic teenager. Trust me. I've been there.

    15. Re:Normal School will work fine by rohan972 · · Score: 1

      No he does not need a special mentor, nor does he need special schooling. He needs to learn to function in the normal world.

      I'm not sure how you could confuse regular schools with the normal world. Never since school have I been in a room filled only with people within one year of my age with the sole exception being an older authority figure.

      Most people will never again be in a similar environment to school after finishing their formal education. Much that happens in the ordinary course of school days would result in criminal charges or harassment lawsuits if it occurred in the adult world. The more people that can be well educated outside schools the better.

    16. Re:Normal School will work fine by tehcyder · · Score: 1

      Subjecting a prodigy to school just to teach him interpersonal skills sounds like a real waste. 8 hours a day of having things like fractions explained would be horrible.

      It wouldn't be 8 hours a day doing just basic maths and science, he would also have to learn about things like history, English, foreign languages, home economics, fine art, woodwork or whatever, the same as other children..

      Hopefully there'll be some things he's worse at than other kids, so he can get some idea of what reality is like.

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    17. Re:Normal School will work fine by tehcyder · · Score: 1

      Other than that, he's an obvious candidate for home schooling.

      Yeah, it's best to fuck your kids up with an over-stated sense of their own importance as quickly as possible, and depriving him of the rough and tumble contact with everyday people will certainly help in this process.

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    18. Re:Normal School will work fine by silentcoder · · Score: 1

      Oh right, because the inevitable bullies giving him hell will do wonders for his social skills and won't leave him either suicidally depressed or alternatively leave him with lifelong anger-control issues right ?

      I mean who wants him to grow up to be the next Steven Hawking when the school system is perfect to grow him into the next Ted Kazinsky instead ?

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    19. Re:Normal School will work fine by Spazmania · · Score: 1

      I love learning. But I despised school. And to my detriment, the endless busywork led me to hate the subjects taught there. It proved a real disability in college with several subjects that I wanted to understand but couldn't emotionally invest myself in the process that would lead to success.

      Trying to force a bright kid to slow down for the average kids is more evil than trying to force a slow kid to keep up. Either way you hurt the child, but the bright kid might have been the next Einstein if you hadn't ruined him.

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    20. Re:Normal School will work fine by squeakyneb · · Score: 1

      Subjecting a prodigy to school just to teach him interpersonal skills sounds like a real waste. 8 hours a day of having things like fractions explained would be horrible.

      I'm no prodigy but managed to get ahead in math at one point, doing a little algebra in 5th grade when it was normally a 7th grade subject. Stuck in the classroom that was reiterating stuff I didn't need

      THIS! I got taught some fun bits and pieces in fourth grade (about 10 years old) like Pythagoras' theorem. This meant I was bored to death when we finally hit algebra properly so I stopped paying attention and then fell behind when we got to things like polynomials :( Meanwhile, school was scaring me away from people. Schools are full of horrible, horrible people.

    21. Re:Normal School will work fine by nobodie · · Score: 1

      interestingly, and in my experience as well, prodigies seldom fulfill their early promise. I knew two brothers, as different as nnight and day physically but both as brilliant as this young man. They were at an elite boarding school with me back in the early 70s. They both disappeared into Stanford at age 16 or 17 never to be heard from again. This is not uncommon, apparently they burnout early as well, and retire early. Doesn't sound like a lot of fun, and fun is good.

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    22. Re:Normal School will work fine by whereiswaldo · · Score: 1

      It is certain that as your own intelligence increases to where you find yourself smarter than all but a fraction of a percent of the population, the ideas you have will be mostly correct but most other people won't be able to understand you. This can be incredibly frustrating.

      I don't consider myself exceptionally smart, but I feel like this somewhat regularly. It can take people months or years for a situation to evolve to a point where others understand and/or agree with what I proposed long ago. It is very frustrating. I partially blame inadequate communication skills to explain some of the ideas I have... that's one skill I'd recommend for a prodigy to focus on (applicable, of course, to anyone).

    23. Re:Normal School will work fine by urusan · · Score: 1

      I agree with your post and think that these are all good ideas. In particular, getting such a kid into athletics is a great idea as is letting such a smart kid largely guide their own education (provided they can show they have the basics down).

      However, I don't think it's all that necessary to focus on socializing the kid with what would normally be their peer group. There's some need of course, they need to be able to interact with others their age on occasion without creating conflict. That said, a prodigy might fit in much better with an older group that is more mature (that is, less likely to be mean about the kid's gift) and which more closely matches their mental level. As added pluses, the kid will learn more from an older peer group and will make more useful social connections. Such a group will also be more likely to encourage the kid's gift instead of making it into something they need to hide.

      Of course there are some downsides. When the kid reaches sexual maturity, older peers will not be nearly as helpful in finding them a mate. Older peers will dominate the kid at athletic pursuits (unless they're very old). Older peers will have different concerns due to their later life stage, making it harder to relate. Older people tend to demand much respect and politeness from younger people, which could lead to them being less of a peer group and more of a dominant group. etc. Overall though, I don't think the disadvantages outweigh the advantages.

      My recommendation is to initially get the kid involved in both types of peer groups and then let them decide how much they want to interact with the two groups. Hopefully they'll find both groups interesting in different ways and get the advantages of both.

      I base this idea partially on my own experiences. I was by no means a child prodigy, but I'm pretty smart and I've always been much more mature than most of my peers. For instance, my mother remarked that she'd trust me with the car at 13 (which thanks to my fast physical growth I would have been able to handle). I was programming at 14. At 16 I was taking college classes at the local community college. Now at 26 I am saving and investing money for the future.

      I've always gotten along great with my parents and teachers and bosses. For the most part they have a much better grasp on reality than my nominal peers. I relate to them much better and it hasn't really hurt me as these are the people who generally hold the keys to most areas of success. I do have some high quality friends from my nominal peer group and I can successfully interact with the rest when needed, but my social circle composition is definitely skewed towards older, wiser individuals.

      Of course, I haven't been too successful in the romance department...

    24. Re:Normal School will work fine by Roger+W+Moore · · Score: 1

      Oh right, because the inevitable bullies giving him hell will do wonders for his social skills

      It did for me. First it taught me how to avoid coming across as an arrogant bastard because I found school work simple as well as teaching me that not everyone found it so easy. Secondly, by getting over that hurdle, some of the guys who I'd pissed off with my attitude before realized that it was actually useful to get on well with someone who could help them with their homework (and NOT by doing it for them - by showing them how to do it). The result was a reasonable working relationship. Of course there were a few unstable individuals (one of whom apparently got arrested for armed robbery of a post office a few years after we left school!) but getting along well with most of the sporty-types generally solved that problem since they didn't like them either.

    25. Re:Normal School will work fine by Roger+W+Moore · · Score: 1

      It is certain that as your own intelligence increases to where you find yourself smarter than all but a fraction of a percent of the population, the ideas you have will be mostly correct but most other people won't be able to understand you.

      That might be a common problem but if you are that smart you can usually explain yourself at an appropriate level if you take the time. Typically the problem arises from one of three things: the person is not as smart as they think they are and actually doesn't really understand what they are trying to explain as well as they think they do; the person doesn't really care whether you understand or not - they want to show off that they know something; or they are smart and did not stop to think that you are not as smart and as knowledgable about the subject as they are. Were the problem not solvable then the teaching profession would cease to exist.

    26. Re:Normal School will work fine by crutchy · · Score: 1

      i agree. people are cunts. why the hell would a prodigy want to mingle with moronic maggots? just because there are people who think there's nothing better than going out on a Friday/Saturday night, pissing away a weeks salary while getting blind drunk and making a fool of themselves, that's not necessarily fun for all. i hate socializing, but that doesn't make me socially unacceptable.

      answer to OP's question: why not ask him. seems like he's smarter than all of us anyway. the answer he gives might surprise

  103. Straw man. by SuperBanana · · Score: 1

    Seriously, your point about exposing him to other things is fine but using Ender's Game as a parenting guide is beyond ridiculous.

    The question posited by the Slashdot story isn't even "how should you raise a prodigy child?" - it's "how should you sharpen this tool?", and the insidiousness of that reminds me exactly of the book. Ender's Game is about turning a child into a tool, and that is exactly what is happening here.

    I don't think the kid is a genius. I think he's a kid who has no social life, probably has no friends or play time with them or by himself. It's easy to see how the energy a child uses to develop themselves as a person could be focused to produce results like this, but I think the end result is that he won't be a person. He'll be a tool, one who will probably be plagued by mental health issues the rest of his lonely life.

    History is rife with such examples.

  104. Get him a girlfriend. by hduff · · Score: 1

    Get him a girlfriend.

    An intelligent, hot, geek girlfriend.

    Problem solved.

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  105. Never too late... by fantomas · · Score: 1

    It's never too late to learn, or to reach your potential. I know of people who've started PhD's when they've retired from their working lives.

    If somebody was a highly intelligent / talented child and didn't have the opportunity to flourish when they were young, they may be able to push themselves later in life. Certainly this is more likely in the developed and wealthy parts of the world where adult education opportunities are more widely available.

    There are many people across different ability spectra who didn't have the opportunity to reach the goals they were capable of as a child. This is why giving people the opportunity for life long learning is important.

  106. Ah yes... by StikyPad · · Score: 1

    Let me brag about my child by pretending to ask a question about his phenomenal abilities.

    "What's the best way to display my son's trophies, giving prominence to the national championships while still maintaining visibility of the state and regional trophies?"

    "What are some good books for a 6 year-old reading at a collegiate level?"

    "Should I spank my toddler when he deliberately fudges the proof of Fermat's Last Theorem?"

  107. Our experiences with a similar situation by Osama+Binlog · · Score: 1

    The problem: 2 excessively bright and energetic boys Symptoms: The first time we really noticed it was when the oldest enrolled in kindergarten. There constant trouble. But, what could we do about it? We did not have the money for private education so we had to figure out something on our own. We called it homeschooling.

    We discovered that there are 2 groups.
    The first wants more structure in a child's life than school offers. These people tend to be religious types.
    The other group wants less structure. These tend to be the unschoolers.
    In the end, it does not seem to matter. Both groups get involved with the kids. The kids benefit.

    When our friends reacted to the fact that we were homeschooling, a few things happened:
    1. Is it legal?
    2. You don't have a credential? How could you possibly be qualified?
    3. How do you tolerate being with your kids all day?
    4. My kids don't listen to me. You must be a saint.
    5. What about the "socialization?"
    6. And (mostly from teachers) If I had to raise my kids again, I would definitely homeschool.

    Fifteen years later, we have our 2 sons (now 18 and 20):
    1. Each of them has 2 black belts (Iaido and Jujutsu)
    2. Both of them are Eagle Scouts
    3. One of them started college at 15. The other started college at 13.
    4. Both of them are straight 'A' students.
    5. Both of them are employed.

    I enjoy their company. We have great fun talking around the kitchen table. They bring their friends over and we enjoy them too.

    We did make compromises. Homeschooling does take time. My software business would be more successful if I had devoted the same time to it.

    My wife and I don't regret a single minute we spent homeschooling our sons. And, we could not be prouder.

  108. Homeschooling by jdavidb · · Score: 1

    Google homeschooling and unschooling and you'll find out. Buy him a copy of the Teenage Liberation Handbook by Grace Llewellyn, and let him start plotting the path to get his own unique educational needs met.

    Google the story of Art Robinson for more pointers. I'm sure Robinson's published materials would be beneath him, but the kid might love to try educating himself with some of Robinson's methods.

    Bringing such a kid into a classroom would destroy him, just like it does every other kid. Having a popularity contest to decide who is going to make educational decisions for everybody else is an ineffective and suboptimal way to run a school system, especially for motivated and intelligent children.

    1. Re:Homeschooling by tehcyder · · Score: 1

      Bringing such a kid into a classroom would destroy him, just like it does every other kid.

      Yes, it's a well known fact that no child who was ever educated in the school system has ever gone on to live to college.age, never mind attend one.

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  109. Get... by cthlptlk · · Score: 1

    ...out of the way.

  110. STOP: all these comments are fine, but in Reality by DRAGONWEEZEL · · Score: 1

    You have limits, and finite paths to take. You still have to have your life, while giving your child the best chance to succeed.

    I'm having my first boy now, and I intend to show him as many different fun things to do as possible, and the sciences involved in performance around those hobbies.

    I.E. RC flight, so that he may learn some hand eye cordination, and get a lesson on aerodynamics, thrust to weight, stall speed, pitch vs. diameter, etc... in more arbitrary terms like better battery, smaller prop, etc..If he is interested, he'll want to know "why" does a smaller prop work better for speed, but not thrust.
    What the tradeoffs are for a bigger heavier battery can be illustrated in a more scientific manner. Then we can show him how to do that work when he's curious as to how these things relate to his hobby.

    I say give him the options, show him the laws of economy as it relates to the choices in his life. You can have anything you want, but can only pick it's qualities from 20 pts in this scale:
            Good(10), Fast(10), Cheap(10) (or the variants as situation deems necessary).

    Don't try to influence him w/ your prejudices (which you will do just by a slight twitch in the eye anyway). But instead explain how people who spend time doing this activity increase their abillity to do this while decreasing their abillity to do that.

    If he wants to do Ballet, we're O.K. w/ that too. And as he wants to do better, we can help him by showing how form takes strength, self control & discipline. How a story can be told w/ the motions of the body, etc.. (It's not for me, but were he to so choose, I say smart kid, great way to meet lots of girls...)

    I hope it'll be the "right way" for our son, and I hope I can stick to this plan.

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  111. Don't. by gamerSRC · · Score: 1

    If he's showing any interest whatsoever in peer interactions, then school-sponsored sports and art clubs and such are a good option. More likely he'll thrive even MORE in group activities that include people of a range of ages such as Parks & Rec sponsored sports and arts clubs loosely affiliated with your local university. Examples from my own life that I still have fond memories of include karate training at a dojo that had three age categories (under 5, kids, adults; teenagers got to choose which class they wanted to go to) and a board gaming group that were all ~20 years older than me.

    DON'T FORCE him to go to public middle school and/or high school... that's a recipe for coming out with PTSD that'll take a long time to resolve. If he's got friends and likes it there, cool; if not, pack him off to community college. Because community colleges have a wide range of non-traditional students, that's a better integration to adult life than a four-year college where the idiots who just got out of mom & dad's house have nothing better to do than drink way too much. College will also offer more options for diversifying education in the arts and such than middle & high school... look up what the generals requirements are for a science degree are and have him get started on those in addition to the technical classes.

  112. Teach Him About Failure by Elbows · · Score: 1

    I'd find something for him to do that *doesn't* come easily -- it would probably have to be something outside the academic realm, maybe a sport or martial art.

    Why? Because eventually, he's going to outgrow his genius and reach a point where he needs to study and work hard in order to succeed. That seems to be the point where most child prodigies burn out. Their whole ego/self worth gets tied up with being "smart" and succeeding effortlessly -- when they fail, it can be devastating, and they may decide that they're not so smart after all and give up.

    If he experiences some failures early on, he can develop the resilience to keep working when things get tough. There's a lot of evidence that, in the long run, success has a lot more to do with effort and focused practice than innate talent.

  113. Well... you don't. by roc97007 · · Score: 1

    The best answer I've heard so far was in the tag "lethimfixit". But besides that, realistically, tutoring or homeschooling is his only hope.

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  114. Intelligence versus Self-Motivation/Self-Control by Dark+Fire · · Score: 2

    I see a lot of people talking about intelligence and laziness. I have studied a number of inventors from the 19th and 20th centuries. My favorites are Philo T. Farnsworth and Nikola Tesla. Based on my own investigation of the topic, I found that self-motivation and self-control appear to be much more important factors in success and accomplishment than intelligence. The issue isn't that the educational system fails to accommodate prodigies, the issue is that the educational system isn't very good at teaching students how to motivate themselves. This applies to any student, not just those that are gifted.

    In terms of raw academics, smaller schools provide a better quality education to the overall student body. In terms of social climate, smaller schools tend not to have as many of the large scale social problems experienced by larger institutions.

    As a consequence of No-Child-Left-Behind, some school systems have really been struggling for financial support. Lately they have been using gender-segregation to improve test scores with dramatic results. There appear to be a lot of negative social mores influencing student achievement in mixed-gender situation (junior high/high school level). A lot of students intentional under-perform to avoid certain social stigmas, especially those related to the perception of the opposite gender.

    I agree with a lot of the other posts that demonstrate concerns about the prodigy not being able to handle social and societal interaction beyond their prodigy. Based on my understanding of such matters, I would say that a small same-gender school would be the best way to proceed. It allows them to learn the rules and experiences of social interaction and society while limiting some of the academically detrimental factors.

  115. Two words by Temujin_12 · · Score: 1

    Answer (2 words): You don't.
    Alternative (2 words): Khan Academy.

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  116. Quality Assurance by shellscriptz · · Score: 1

    One good way to integrate a prodigy with the rest of us regulars is to have the kid attend some classes and write up a paper comparing and contrasting how he learns and teaches himself versus how teachers propose to teach the public school children. It may be an interesting pedagogy study.

  117. Re:Chess by Nivag064 · · Score: 1

    That was me not logged in!

  118. private sector options. by Gravis+Zero · · Score: 1

    have you considered selling this prodigy to AT&T? he wouldnt be the first.

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  119. He doesn't fit in to the System by DaveV1.0 · · Score: 1

    The systems are set up to accommodate the largest segment of society. It is the lowest reasonable common denominator. Sadly, this means it is not set up to handle the extremes well, if at all. It is a fact of life. What is sadder still is that school systems will try to pull up the lower extremes through "mainstreaming" while ignoring those who have the most potential and talent on the idea that they can fend for themselves.

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  120. Jarod needs a roommate by nurb432 · · Score: 1

    I hear The Centre is always looking for young talent.

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  121. I had a friend like this by flimflammer · · Score: 1

    He was nowhere near this particular level of brilliance but he was doing things that was unheard of for all those around him. Unfortunately the school took his bored goofing off demeanor to mean he was stupid and dumped him in special education. He would be quite a few years further along had they not done that and to this day I'm puzzled how they could keep him in such a class for 2 and a half years before realizing they had stuck a genius in special ed.

  122. Keep him out of school or it will destroy him by buybuydandavis · · Score: 1

    A prodigy, or even the very intelligent, will easily be destroyed by any usual school system.

    Think of school like a gym. He is a 300lb muscle bound athletic freak surrounded by 100lb kids, but he is judged by how well he lifts weights compared to his classmates. He will always win, and will never need to train. Whenever he wants, the weight goes up, without any effort on his part. His only effort is containing his boredom. He learns that work, effort, motivation, are not required at all in life. And he is still *wonderful*, because what matters at a gym is how *strong* you are, not what you can *do* with that strength.

    Ask yourself - will this super freak ever be a great athlete? No. He will never learn how to work, or how to motivate himself. He will never learn the joy of accomplishment, because he will never accomplish anything. He will leave the gym exactly as he came in - an athletic freak with the will, drive, and determination of a 5 year old. No, that's not true - a 5 year old hasn't been emotionally crippled by a decade of living in a universe where he is "better" than his peers by the virtue of being born as he is. In many ways, he'll have the emotional development of a spoiled little teenage princeling. He will be fawned over for an accident of birth.

    The difference between an athletic super freak and an intelligent super freak is the athletic one is forced to go to school and think, something he is not as good at. The intelligent super freak can get by as a brain in a bottle for his entire childhood.

    The 300lb athletic super freak should be in athletic competitions where he is challenged. The intellectual freak should be in academic competitions where he is challenged. But the easiest way for both of them to learn about hard work is to work outside their special gifts.

    Have the prodigy play sports. Take martial arts. Learn how to dance. Then start showing him *books* about on theory of movement. Physical training. Anatomy. Kinesiology. Start connecting *thinking* to *doing*, to making the world *better*.

    What the prodigy needs to learn is something that going to school will *prevent* him from learning - will, drive, motivation, determination. How to control his mental focus to achieve something over the long term. How to control *himself*.

  123. Doesn't UW have an early college program? by Lord+Crowface · · Score: 1

    IIRC, UW Seattle actually has one of the best "early college" programs around. In essence they take something like twenty or so 12 and 13 year olds, put them through a year long academic "boot camp" and then allow those who get through (usually 18 or 19 out of the 20) to enroll as freshmen. Unlike places like MIT, which enroll the occasional prodigy but have no real special services for them, the UW program provides services and specialized advising to the kids throughout their entire time in school, while also encouraging them to take part in extracurricular activities and maintain a social life both with their age-peers and academic peers. The program seems to work, so could that be an option for a kid like that?

  124. Re:Davidson Institute by The+Lesser+Powered+O · · Score: 1

    Yes, contact them. They don't have all of the answers, but they do have a lot of useful programs!

  125. I don't know him, so I can't answer. by dosun88888 · · Score: 1

    If he's like me, then get him into college and grad school ASAP and get him on with his life before he's 18.

    If he's like my wife, then leave him in the normal school system so that he can enjoy the rest of his childhood. He'll thank you for it.

    Both my wife and myself were at the top of our respective classes and went to top tier colleges. We're both well above (though not as much as this kid) what society would consider genius. And we both would have been better served by completely different approaches.

    There isn't a single answer for this. Thinking that there is one answer for "what to do with a genius" is making the terrible assumption that all geniuses are alike.

    How about we just ask the kid what he wants? He'll be better qualified to answer that question.

  126. validation by jafac · · Score: 1

    All anyone really wants is validation. Most of us are in school to prime us for a career to earn a living. I think this kid's got it covered. Figure on whatever's going to feed the prodigy the human validation he needs, and he'll probably be fine. I guess.

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  127. History, Art, Literature, Psychology, etc. by Jhyrryl · · Score: 1

    Being a prodigy at math and it's applications shouldn't excuse him from learning the things that everyone spends time learning from the social sciences and creative disciplines. Keep him in school and let him develop social skills while studying things that still require basic memorization.

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  128. parents unrealistic; independence; int. maturity by bcrowell · · Score: 1

    I teach physics at a community college, and I get a few students now and then who are young teens; because of their age, it can be more practical for them to take community college courses than to head straight to a university at age 14 or 15. I started college (at a university) at 16 myself, and I think it worked out positively for me. I was pretty immature at 16, and living on my own, cooking, doing my laundry, etc., helped me to become more mature. Because of my own experiences, I'm predisposed to be sympathetic to these kids.

    However, I've noticed several negative things that can happen.

    One is that parents, and other adults who deal with these kids, have a tendency to exaggerate their capabilities. Their high school principal may not be comfortable with basic algebra, so to him/her, anything the kid does mathematically seems like it's superduper incredible. This clearly seems to be happening here, if you read between the lines in the article. The article claims that he's already studied string theory, but it also says that he's currently taking linear algebra. Well, people don't really learn string theory until they've got a *lot* more math under their belt than that, and even extremely smart grad students tend to take about 6 years to master the techniques of string theory. (This is one reason why many people tell bright physics grad students not to go into string theory, because it takes them such a long time to become fluent enough to start research.) So I think what really happened here was that he read a popularization such as Brian Greene's The Elegant Universe, and now the adults around him describe him as having studied string theory. I think parents also start to exaggerate about their kid's abilities because their own egos get tied up in it. It's the same type of psychology that says it's not enough for your kid to win the Contra Costa County beauty pageant, she has to be the most beautiful in California, or the United States.

    Another negative is that the parents are too involved in their kids' stuff. I've had parents stop me in the halls and try to talk to me about how it's really a problem that their kid is getting a B in physics instead of an A, it's not fair because their kid is a genius, it's going to be my fault because their kid isn't going to get into Harvard, etc. Parents should not be driving to the college to drop off a homework paper that their kid forgot to bring to school. This is the age where the kid needs to make his/her own mistakes, experience the consequences, and become more mature.

    A third negative is that kids tend not to be intellectually mature at 14 or 15. With some of them, there's the risk that they are learning about Newton's laws or Shakespeare at a superficial level, not at the level they really need as a foundation if they are going to go on with upper-division work. Maybe they haven't had the life experiences they need in order to understand Shakespeare at a deep level. Or maybe their brains just haven't developed to the point where they're really ready to grasp Newton's laws, and instead they understand physics as a set of problem-solving procedures. Or maybe they are capable of deep understanding in one subject, which is where their talent lies, but in another subject they're not really getting a college-level education.

    I'm in favor of letting parents and kids make their own decisions, but I think sometimes the decisions are really made by the parents, and they're the wrong decisions.

  129. three choices: by buddyglass · · Score: 1

    1. Don't try to fit him in. He's such an outlier that the ROI on accommodating him in the public school system doesn't justify the cost. Let his (or interested private educators) fund his education and call it a day.

    2. State-funded academies for the extremely gifted. Public education in the U.S. is primarily funded at the state and local level, but most localities lack a sufficient threshold of "extremely gifted" kids. That's less true when you're talking about an entire state. Problem: these would be boarding schools, which some parents will balk at. That means an extremely high expense per student, which might be hard to justify politically. Also some states lack a large enough cohort of students to make such an academy worthwhile.

    3. Same idea as #2 but funded federally and situated "regionally" around the country. Given how rare these kids are you would probably only need a handful of schools.

    Personally I tend towards option #1. Kids like Gabriel are so uncommonly rare I'm not sure how much sense it makes to plan around them.

  130. Re:I had a PhD by 16, it's never helped me by CrazyDuke · · Score: 1

    It is not just social skills. Trying to communicate outside of the most basic pre-cooked concepts to your average person is draining and frustrating for both. It eventually gets to the point where they treat you expressing yourself honestly as a personal attack and will act in kind. The most starkly intense instances of loneliness have all come at times I was socializing with people and realized that I could not act nor answer honestly without facing some kind of egomaniacal backlash. And, I am not even close to your level.

    But, yeah, learning social skills can at least help you pass under the radar a little better. But, still, that's not the point is it? We are looking for people we can be close to, are we not?

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  131. who cares? by j-beda · · Score: 1

    How about worrying about the other end of the spectrum? How can we ensure that the 8-9% of US high school dropouts (wow, is it that low?) become productive, fulfilled members of society?

    http://nces.ed.gov/fastfacts/display.asp?id=16

    Worrying about the 0.001% at the top-end seems like misplaced attention.

  132. Re:Applied Linear Algebra by CrazyDuke · · Score: 1

    When people are intelligent and actually interested in learning, learning things out of order is a common hazard. Frequently, more basic subjects are skirted through just enough to make it possible to understand the more advanced ones. And, then later one falls back to the basic subjects later on to improve comprehension, or at least bring it up to the standards other people set. Subjects are also frequently thoroughly studied well before the actual course is taken.

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  133. What guy can regarded as a Prodigy? by Solala · · Score: 1

    I had some intelligence tests with my girlfriend and she got better marks than me, but in the real society and world, she reacts much slower and learn things slower than me,,,it is said that those kind of testing is mainly for math skills, so if a people get high marks, he/she is regarded as a prodigy!? Forget about the topic and find a time to enjoy this tour! http://www.visitourchina.com/

  134. Send him to Uganda by frist · · Score: 1

    A friend from Uganda immigrated and worked here, while her husband and kids stayed home in Uganda until she could bring them. The kids came to visit for a year. They were bored to tears in school here. When they went back home to Uganda, they had to get a tutor, they were so far behind.

    So the answer is he has no place in our public educational system. He needs to go to Uganda :)

  135. Don't need to be a genius to be useful by pimproot · · Score: 1

    Former child prodigy and current Fields medalist Terence Tao agrees that genius is overvalued when compared to hard work:
    http://terrytao.wordpress.com/career-advice/does-one-have-to-be-a-genius-to-do-maths/

    As he says, "attributing success to innate talent (which is beyond one’s control) rather than effort, planning, and education (which are within one’s control) can lead to ... problems." (particularly for children; cf. http://nymag.com/news/features/27840/ )

  136. This is a very easy problem by LostMyBeaver · · Score: 1

    Academically, the school system appears to have little to offer this child. He will be bored out of his mind and will find the mundane tasks assigned to him/her in school to be mind boggling awful. But school has far more to offer this child than simply academics, don't forget that this person is in fact A CHILD.

    I have been tested since I was a child by multiple shrinks and educational workers to identify my IQ. As many on Slashdot will know, the standard IQ exams pretty much top out at around 150 since it's the point on the IQ scale which pretty much certifies that the personal is above normal and therefore should be tested using more "extreme" tests. I have been given multiple different numbers as to what my IQ actually is, but that is thoroughly irrelevant. What is important is that in my old age (in my mid-30s) I am fully aware that I can pretty much figure out whatever I need to and that I have a sound ability to grasp and cope with the concept of cause and effect which in my personal opinion is a far more accurate method of judging a person's capacity than a silly pattern test such as that offered by the IQ people.

    My son is very similar to myself. His thought patterns and problem solving abilities are very similar to mine. He however has the added advantage of virtually unlimited resources for learning. I was confined to the limited public libraries (lived near one of the best in the U.S., but compared to the internet, even the library of congress is limited) and lacked having adults near by capable of providing me scientific and computing information. He is years ahead in math at his school, he reads and writes his two native languages at a level well above average for his age. He grasps complex concepts in math and science at a level which college graduates would envy and yet he takes for granted since he doesn't know otherwise. He objectively evaluates events within history without assigning silly adjectives like "Good" or "Bad" to things. He instead can instead take the events which he learned about and identify cause and effect. He can even suffer through the mandatory religious education in the school system and treat it instead as humanity lessons to better understand people who are religious.

    The point being, I send my son to a public school and provide him all the academic resources he needs to move at his own pace while he's not in school. For him, school provides areas of education which are less interesting to him but should be taught to him to provide him a rounded education. He learns to see himself as just another kid without seeing those other children as more or less than him. While he detests sports, he still is forced to play them in gym class and learn a bit about them. If nothing else, it will give him an insight into the nature of people who lack anything in their lives other than sports which sadly accounts for a huge part of the worlds population. He takes music classes where he gets to bang on drums and blow into wooden flutes making sounds which have little resemblance to music but still is entertaining. I want him to socially see himself as just another kid. When he reaches puberty, he should chase girls. When he reaches adulthood, he should find himself waking up on park benches wondering how he got there. He should have all the opportunities to live life and have a great time without the stupidity attached to being labelled "special".

    He knows how to learn. All he really needs academically is a more experienced nerd to point him towards more information and help him to learn to research more efficiently. I provide that for my son. If I couldn't or eventually can't, then I'll hire a tutor that can. What he can't learn from books, computers and other informational sources is how to live a fulfilling life. For this, he needs to learn to associate with others and learn about the world around him.

    Therefore, the best option for a kid like this is.... send him to school... make him do his mundane assignments just like the other kids and feed his brain as f

  137. Re:Ender's Game was fiction by Joce640k · · Score: 1

    The only aspect of his education that should not be sacrificed is social interaction.

    But make sure he interacts with people he chooses.

    Sending him out onto a football field is probably the worst thing you could do to him.

    Spending time with people like Carl Sagan or Richard Feynman would be ideal. Let him go to places where the other smart people hang out.

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  138. Thank-you for your opinions, prodigies! by gnawingonfoot · · Score: 1

    It's refreshing to see so many other prodigies expressing their opinions on this matter. That's one thing that I like about slashdot--everybody is smarter than everybody else, and it's one of the reasons I love reading everything everybody else has to say.

    However, I feel that there is an underrepresentation of the majority at work here: the stupid people, and being one of the token few who make it to slashdot, I feel obligated to express my opinion so that all the smartypantses can understand the perspective of the child's peers. If you stick this kid in too many classes with dumber, older students, you'll de-motivate and humiliate them, which will provoke us into retaliating through socially ostracizing the student. This will deplete his social resources and inevitably drive him to a future of loneliness and depression that will be the cause of his burnout.

    I recall fondly the many nerds I de-pantsed in the hallways during my sixth year of high school. Sure, I may not be able to install an operating system without a GUI, but I CAN throw rubber balls in gym class with enough force to smash a kid's plastic frames in two after she makes me feel stupid in math class.

  139. Re:Davidson Institute by Rakishi · · Score: 1

    Seriously, reading comprehension, learn it. The Davidson Institute provides multiple free programs which is why I said they're probably the best starting point. Granted, they are for highly gifted students although I expect they'd happily provide general information for even less gifted students. Also, asking people questions is in fact utterly free to do. They may or may not answer but you'll never know unless you try. Certain information is also vital to know which is why I pointed out a place that probably knows most of it.

    For example, having your kid take the SAT (and get over 700 on either section) before they're 13 qualifies them for SET. I got $50 college courses in middle school thanks to that. Or maybe not anymore, SET was dead for a while. This is the sort of information that people who deal with this in a full time basis could convey to you. You can, and should, research things on your own but you'll probably miss various opportunities that way. Also, just because your kid doesn't technically qualify for something doesn't mean they won't be allowed in if you ask.

    As for being poor and white and male, my poor white parents found a decent number of programs for my white male self to participate in. Granted, programs for younger kids (read middle school and below) may provide only financial aid. However once your kid become advanced enough, college courses at your local college can become a very economical approach. They can also participate in college level summer programs which actually pay for them to attend (not an official option but many programs are flexible, talk to them). It's also vital that by the end of high school they have a project done that'd they'd collaborated with some professor on (contact these people, only one out of fifty is friendly and helpful but you only need one). Such a project qualifies them for ISEF, Intel Science Search and the Davidson Fellowship. There are application caveats so it's very important to have found someone who knows about this stuff before starting.

  140. Simple... "Troublemaker" by Terrasque · · Score: 1

    How do you fit him into the American school system?

    That's simple. A troublemaker. Wise-ass. Smartypants. Te one who puts teachers in a bad light.

    Me, bitter? No, not at all, why do you think that?

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  141. The proper way to praise children by arkarumba · · Score: 1

    Concerning getting through school too easily and then giving up when hitting the wall, this following article is quite important....
    https://www.stanford.edu/dept/psychology/cgi-bin/drupalm/system/files/Intelligence%20Praise%20Can%20Undermine%20Motivation%20and%20Performance.pdf

    QUOTE:
            Dweck sent four female research assistants into New York fifth-grade classrooms. The researchers would take a single child out of the classroom for a nonverbal IQ test consisting of a series of puzzles—puzzles easy enough that all the children would do fairly well. Once the child finished the test, the researchers told each student his score, then gave him a single line of praise. Randomly divided into groups, some were praised for their intelligence. They were told, “You must be smart at this.” Other students were praised for their effort: “You must have worked really hard.”

            Then the students were given a choice of test for the second round. One choice was a test that would be more difficult than the first, but the researchers told the kids that they’d learn a lot from attempting the puzzles. The other choice, Dweck’s team explained, was an easy test, just like the first. Of those praised for their effort, 90 percent chose the harder set of puzzles. Of those praised for their intelligence, a majority chose the easy test. The “smart” kids took the cop-out.

    Two more stages of testing provided this startling finding:

            Those who had been praised for their effort significantly improved on their first score—by about 30 percent. Those who’d been told they were smart did worse than they had at the very beginning—by about 20 percent.

  142. Re:Seek out distance / online public schools by Medievalist · · Score: 1

    Thank you, I will check!

  143. Buddhists are allowed in scouts by dlenmn · · Score: 1

    However where I live they don't let asian immigrants (or humans of any race) in unless they're part of the judeo-christian tradition.
    christian asian immigrant = OK, buddhist or free = No.

    I don't believe you. Buddhists have been in Boy Scouts since 1920. I can't speak for the troops near you, but I knew Asian immigrants in scouts. If they really are blocking Asian immigrants, then it should be reported to the national organization, who will no doubt put an end to it.

    http://www.scouting.org/About/FactSheets/operating_orgs/Buddhist.aspx
    http://www.scouting.org/filestore/pdf/02-209.pdf

  144. Home School and College by onezeta · · Score: 1

    He should be home-schooled and also put into some college programs for his benefit. And let him play out with his teenage friends. Let him evolve and develop his emotional quotient as well. Don't make a movie about him. Ok?