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How Doctors Die

Hugh Pickens writes "Dr. Ken Murray, a Clinical Assistant Professor of Family Medicine at USC, writes that doctors don't die like the rest of us. What's unusual about doctors is not how much treatment they get when faced with death themselves, but how little. For all the time they spend fending off the deaths of others, they tend to be fairly serene when faced with death themselves because they know exactly what is going to happen, they know the choices, and they generally have access to any sort of medical care they could want. 'Almost all medical professionals have seen what we call "futile care" being performed on people,' writes Murray. 'What it buys is misery we would not inflict on a terrorist. I cannot count the number of times fellow physicians have told me, in words that vary only slightly, "Promise me if you find me like this that you'll kill me."' Feeding into the problem are unrealistic expectations of what doctors can accomplish. Many people think of CPR as a reliable lifesaver when, in fact, the results are usually poor. If a patient suffers from severe illness, old age, or a terminal disease, the odds of a good outcome from CPR are infinitesimal, while the odds of suffering are overwhelming."

646 comments

  1. Ken Murray's blog by PCM2 · · Score: 0, Troll

    OK, based on the summary I kind of agree with some of the sentiments, but then from glancing at the link, I really don't want to read the bitter, angry thoughts of Ken Murray and hear about how little he thinks of the medical profession and how futile he thinks life is. Ken, buddy, have a nice cup of coffee, treat yourself to a scone, and let the rest of us continue to muddle through the way we always have.

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    1. Re:Ken Murray's blog by Hatta · · Score: 4, Insightful

      Bitter and angry, maybe. But also correct.

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    2. Re:Ken Murray's blog by jd · · Score: 2

      Coffee is bad for you, apparently. I recommend a nice healthy cup of tea instead.

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    3. Re:Ken Murray's blog by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 5, Insightful

      You really should read the article. It isn't bitter at all, and is some serious food for thought. If you've not had a close individual diagnosed with a terminal disease and this isn't applicable, then you're a very lucky person. If you have, the article raises some interesting arguments for how you or your loved ones should approach such news.

      It has been two weeks since my father passed away from lung cancer, so I am more sensitive to the topic than normal, but the idea that we should more carefully evaluate how we want to live our remaining days/weeks/months when faced with aggressive, difficult treatment, is one worth thinking about.

    4. Re:Ken Murray's blog by ColdWetDog · · Score: 5, Insightful

      It's a little maudlin - it's hard not to be with this topic - but it does bring up something that most people explicitly don't want to deal with. He points out that the people who do explicitly deal with death and dying tend to do things quite differently than 'normal' people. It isn't a scientific discussion, it's a personal, anecdotal essay.

      You're perfectly welcome to muddle through life - it is exactly what we all do. But I thought it was a reasonable essay and one that's been covered many times in the past. It is clearly written as a counterpoint to the "do everything, medicine will solve all our problems" view that is quite prevalent in this world. The big problem is it is damned hard to tell people what to expect especially when they are faced with a fatal illness. It's hard to tell someone how hard chemotherapy would be for that individual. It's hard to know how to balance a few months or years of 'additional' living with the downsides of frequent hospitalizations, invasive procedures, dangerous drugs and additional pain.

      At least in the US, overtreatment is a huge issue. Anyone but a trained biostatistician is really not in a position to intellectually tease out how effective treatments for most diseases really are (or in reality, how ineffective). So, when you are unable / unwilling to think a problem through, you emote it. Then it gets complicated.

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    5. Re:Ken Murray's blog by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I don't know what you have against Ken Murray (haven't read his previous articles/books) , but the story itself seemed rather sympathetic towards the doctors. It appears he himself is a doctor.

      I believe what he is talking about is the situation where doctor is forced to try to prolong life even knowing that all (s)he is doing is prolonging agony. Having doctors in my family, I can sympathize.

    6. Re:Ken Murray's blog by snarkh · · Score: 1

      What is the evidence for coffee being bad? From what I've read coffee is likely to be healthful.

    7. Re:Ken Murray's blog by Carewolf · · Score: 2

      From what I know his interpretation is completely wrong. The usual interpretation of the unusual high mortality of doctors, is that they are trying to self-diagnose themselves before going to another doctor, and when they go to another doctor they go to one they know. Due to the inherent nature of cognitive bias, they or their friends would usually diagnose themselves much more optimistically than the unbiased diagnose they give themselves. The lesson is: Never trust the diagnose of yourself or a dear friend. When it comes to important lifethreatening conclusions you need an unbiased mind.

    8. Re:Ken Murray's blog by andyring · · Score: 3, Insightful

      Wow. Obviously you didn't RTFA. My wife is a nurse on the ventilator unit at a local rehabilitation hospital, and shares this sentiment. So many of their patients are comatose, totally unresponsive, but their families insist on keeping them alive at any cost. They've had patients there for 10 years or more on a vent, comatose, zero chance of ever coming out of it, and only kept alive by the machines. What sort of existence is that? My wife and I have had "that talk" and neither of us want to be kept alive by machines. Sure, if something bad happens and there is a good chance of full or nearly full recovery, go for it. But kept alive by a feeding tube and mechanical breathing? Hell no. I'd much rather spend that extra time with my Creator in Heaven.

    9. Re:Ken Murray's blog by SJHillman · · Score: 0

      Excessive coffee (IE: a couple cups every day) causes caffeine addiction within about a week. After that, it takes more and more coffee just to reach normal alertness... people just think it makes them more alert because their so used to their reduced state of alertness without coffee that they don't realize it's merely bringing them up to par.

    10. Re:Ken Murray's blog by Carewolf · · Score: 1

      Sorry, there was a sentence error in the above. To make it more clear: Doctors will usually diagnose themselves much more optimistically than the unbiased diagnose they would give others.

      Everybody has a cognitive bias, which makes even our logic prone to be overly optimistic judgements about ourselves or our loved ones. (unless we are depressed in which case the bias is reversed)l

    11. Re:Ken Murray's blog by HornWumpus · · Score: 1, Flamebait

      Let me guess. You are Mormon?

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    12. Re:Ken Murray's blog by Trepidity · · Score: 3, Interesting

      Evidence isn't that strong, but yeah, there seems to be some positive effect, though not necessarily due to caffeine (seems to happen with decaf coffee also).

    13. Re:Ken Murray's blog by HornWumpus · · Score: 1

      Or being tortured by all your former cats (now Giant) while Satan watches his little minions eat your liver.

      Just saying. You can't know.

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      John McAfee 'It was like that time I hired that Bangkok prostitute; to do my taxes, while I fucked my accountant'
    14. Re:Ken Murray's blog by mrchaotica · · Score: 1

      You don't have to be Morman to understand how addiction works.

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    15. Re:Ken Murray's blog by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0, Troll

      Correct? Is it? Where is the proof? Mr. Murray's stories aren't back by truth, just his observations. By my observations, the sun rises every day and moves across the sky. Is that true?

    16. Re:Ken Murray's blog by Beardo+the+Bearded · · Score: 4, Insightful

      Hell man, I'm an atheist (nothing but organ donation / apple tree fertilizer / medical room decoration in my "after-life") and I wouldn't want to live like that.

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    17. Re:Ken Murray's blog by B1oodAnge1 · · Score: 2

      The only study I've seen to suggest this was deeply flawed by its reliance on self reported alertness levels. There is nothing to suggest that people who are used to caffeine do not simply have a higher base level expectation of alertness. In fact the research boiled down to "people that haven't had coffee think they're as alert as people who have had coffee."

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    18. Re:Ken Murray's blog by snarkh · · Score: 4, Insightful

      Even if that is true, there is no reason to think that addition is bad per se, as long as there are not negative health or social effects associated to it.

    19. Re:Ken Murray's blog by stanlyb · · Score: 1

      Actually the tea is even worst, especially if it is not made properly, which is true in 99.999% of the cases.

    20. Re:Ken Murray's blog by fredrated · · Score: 5, Insightful

      What morons rated this '5 insightful'? Ken Murry is not bitter and angry, he is thoughtful and kind. PCM2 has done the typical thing of morons: he assumes his imagination = reality. Give us all a break and don't post if you don't even read the article.

    21. Re:Ken Murray's blog by Kelbear · · Score: 3, Interesting

      My mom died from cancer when I was in highschool and my aunt was diagnosed with Stage IV cancer about a month ago. Though nobody has said it out loud, I think everyone in the family understands that my aunt is also going to die.

      I still don't really know how to talk to someone who's going to die. It's...weird to talk about the future (which they won't be a part of), or to ask "how are you doing? (because they obviously aren't doing too well). We want to communicate care and support, but we also don't want to burden and tire out the patient by repeatedly calling to remind them that they're going to die. Is it better to confront the elephant in the room? Or to ignore it? It's disturbing to voice out loud the certainty of death, but it's also galling to bullshit someone by saying everything's going to be ok, when it's not.

      What do you guys do in these situations? I'd especially like to hear the prefences of anyone who is dying or at one point believed that they were going to die.

    22. Re:Ken Murray's blog by bluemonq · · Score: 3, Interesting

      Absolutely, if we take your point of observation to be a fixed point. However, once you factor in MORE observations, concerning the movements of the moon, planets and stars, we must revise the assertion.

    23. Re:Ken Murray's blog by snarkh · · Score: 1

      That is more or less along the lines of what I have seen. There is some evidence that it is beneficial in several ways, and very little indication that it may be harmful.

    24. Re:Ken Murray's blog by lennier1 · · Score: 1

      True, it's not like the discovery of a connection between adenosine receptors and caffeine is that new.

    25. Re:Ken Murray's blog by LifesABeach · · Score: 1

      It sounds like Survivors Syndrome was very cruel mistress to the kind doctor.

    26. Re:Ken Murray's blog by Sponge+Bath · · Score: 0

      ...have a nice cup of coffee, treat yourself to a scone

      I don't know about Ken, but I gave this a try and really do feel better.

    27. Re:Ken Murray's blog by bluemonq · · Score: 3, Insightful

      Given that damnation is supposedly eternal, the plus or minus few extra years isn't going to make much of a difference.

    28. Re:Ken Murray's blog by LifesABeach · · Score: 4, Funny

      I can quit drinking coffee anytime I want! Not just now.

    29. Re:Ken Murray's blog by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 5, Insightful

      A bit more than 30 years ago my mother was diagnosed "terminal" cancer. To the point where she was told to go home and die, less than 6 months to live. Instead she signed up for at the time totally experimental neutron radiation therapy (specifically her doctor lied to get her into the program, and when she got to the university running the experiment she was told "if we had known your condition we wouldn't have accepted you")...

      Her life was shit for years because of that treatment.

      So here we are, 30 years later, and she's still alive. The shit she went through is mostly forgotten, the health issues she lived with from the radiation therapy have mostly been replaced by more typical "60+ year old American" health issues. She has has now spent half her life as a cancer survivor, and while it hasn't been chocolate and unicorns she seems happy to be alive.

      That sort of colors my view, I'll admit, but it seems to be a point that gets lost in a lot of this discussion.

    30. Re:Ken Murray's blog by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Doctors don't waste their money on futile treatments because they know they're futile treatments. They have spent so much time on the receiving end of the medical scam that they just plain know better than to give someone money for cutting, burining and poisoning (which is all medicine is, nerds!) them for no real reason. That's all there is to this story, and funny enough, it isn't ever said explicitly.

    31. Re:Ken Murray's blog by Fishbulb · · Score: 5, Insightful

      Why wait until you're faced with aggressive, difficult treatment? How do you want to live your remaining days now? Your life is already terminal enough to carefully evaluate that.

    32. Re:Ken Murray's blog by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 5, Interesting

      How about one of the author's nurses turning him over to the police for obeying a patient's desires to not be put back on life support? You think that doesn't support his notion that doctors suggest treatment plans with the specter of a police investigation in the back of their mind?

      How about him keeping his cousin in his home after his cousin was found to be terminally ill? You think there isn't a difference in the cost of the bottle of pills they sent him home from the hospital with as opposed to forcing him to stay alive?

      Have you seen what chemotherapy does to people?

      Do you know the monetary and emotional cost of forcing a piece of meat to keep on breathing long after it's expired?

      There's plenty of food for thought in this article, and you think geocentrism has something to do with it.

      What the hell is wrong with you.

    33. Re:Ken Murray's blog by mopower70 · · Score: 4, Insightful

      You don't have to be Morman to understand how addiction works.

      No, but it does take someone who understands addiction to understand how addiction works. And it's pretty clear to anyone who who has ever regularly used caffeinated substances the parent poster isn't one of them.

    34. Re:Ken Murray's blog by Ultra64 · · Score: 0

      "Slashdot is unusable without noscript."

      ?

    35. Re:Ken Murray's blog by berashith · · Score: 4, Insightful

      Well, my sister died less than a week ago, and was fighting her cancer for about a year and a half. The conversations were pretty normal actually. I would ask how she was doing, not to bring up the impending death, but to see how she was feeling at that time. The chemo may be giving bad results, or not so bad. If she didnt want to talk about it then she wouldnt. We never really spoke about how dire the situation was for a long time, as she always had the perspective that it would pass like a bad flu. I wished that she had less treatment sometimes, as the days of recovery from medication took away more good days then she could have had with nothing, but she was insisting on remaining active and alive for as long as possible, and actually made a lot out of the days that she had. I made sure to do the fun things that we liked to do together, partially to distract her, and partially so I could have the memories now that she is gone. The important thing for me was to just continue to be alive with her. We got to have a lot of time that was just like always, but she made sure to fit in as much as she could. Dont ignore the situation, but dont focus on death ... focus on being alive.

    36. Re:Ken Murray's blog by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

      Coffee and Tea are bad for you. I recommend a drop of dew from fern leaf.

    37. Re:Ken Murray's blog by Volante3192 · · Score: 2

      The usual interpretation of the unusual high mortality of doctors

      Doctors have the same mortality rate as lawyers, beekeepers and hobos: 100% over a long enough span.

    38. Re:Ken Murray's blog by billcopc · · Score: 3, Informative

      No, he's just conscious, and right.

      I drink coffee maybe 5 times a year, if that. It just isn't my thing, but I know caffeine addiction from the absurd quantities of pop I used to consume. It's as strong an addiction as any other drug. One day, I tried quitting cold turkey - big mistake! I would get these killer headaches that no painkiller could beat, so instead I had to wean myself off, very gradually. I still go through a cycle in the afternoon, just a few hours after waking up, where I get very sleepy for maybe a half-hour - that's caffeine withdrawal! I'm not actually tired, it's a programmed nervous response.

      Moreover, caffeine doesn't perk me up at all. I could chug a gallon of Jolt cola before bed and sleep like a log. I even tried using coffee once, to power through a 48-hour death march... didn't work! That tells me that I've been consuming so much excess caffeine since childhood, that my brain's receptors are just fried from overstimulation. A lot of people are like this, so it's just not some random conjecture to say that caffeine has negative effects.

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    39. Re:Ken Murray's blog by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 2, Insightful

      Situations like these teach us just how trite and pointless most of our communication really is.

      One relays recent events, the other responds with empathic emotions or, in cases of perplexity, relevant knowledge or advice. This formula compromises the vast majority of familiar conversation. And, obviously, its applicablity in a hospice circumstance is limited, at best.

      Sometimes, we tell jokes. The mood must be right, though, which it usually isn't when dealing with a dying person.

      Sometimes, we make declarations of love. There are only so many ways to say that, though, and simple repetition gets strange, fast.

      We make plans out loud. Not very applicable, as the OP pointed out.

      We also solicit opinions. It can help to make the other person feel valuable, so long as it doesn't make the other person feel like the only reason you came out was to seek selfish benefit from the other's wisdom while the other is still around.

      Maybe there is some other class of communication that would make sense, and my geek-cursed social skills just prevent me from understanding it. The only other idea I have is to play board games.

    40. Re:Ken Murray's blog by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

      you say to them "It's good to see you" and leave it at that. talk with them about what they want to talk about and eventually tell them that they don't need to stick around to help you, they can move on.

    41. Re:Ken Murray's blog by Patch86 · · Score: 3, Insightful

      Me, on the other hand- I always want to be kept alive. I don't care how much pain I'm in, how humiliating it might be, how "unresponsive"; I only get the one life, and I intend to make it last. And while we're on the subject, if I ever turn up dead, look for my killer- I'm telling you now, it's not suicide.

      I've been in pretty terrible pain before with a few different illnesses, and I'd still be happy being alive in that state rather than dead in no state. And on the subject of "unresponsiveness"- there have been a number of studies showing the brains of "vegetative" patients can respond to speech in exactly the same way as normal conscious people, which would make unplugging the machine little better than murder.

    42. Re:Ken Murray's blog by jefe7777 · · Score: 5, Insightful

      "it takes more and more coffee just to reach normal alertness"

      that would explain why my 95 year old grandfather who has been drinking coffee for 84 years, now drinks seven thousand five hundred and twenty one gallons of coffee each morning.

      He started with one cup, one fine morning in 1927. And from there it just took "more and more coffee just to reach normal alertness".

      Without it, it's like he's preserved in carbonite.

      Thank you for your helpful explanation of the dangers of coffee.

    43. Re:Ken Murray's blog by Jeremy+Erwin · · Score: 3, Insightful

      That's what I think everyone dreams of-- that their parent, or spouse, or, worse, their child, will defy the odds and come out somehow stronger, and better able to deal with death on his or her own terms.

      Christopher Hitchens recently poured water over this sentiment.

      However, in the essay, Charlie's survival odds were five percent, or fifteen percent with treatment, and he was able to understand that for him, several months to wrap up his life were better than a few years of futile struggle. Perhaps he understood that the "fifteen percent" rate was a cold equation, and it did not matter whether he was morally worthy, or lucky, or "fought hard." Unfortunately, this isn't "the fragile reality of Discworld, [where] the gods [] like to play games, [where] a million-to-one chance succeeds nine times out of ten."

      Perhaps someone has already written a paper studying responses to cancer treatment among the innumerate and among those who understand statistics.

      I enjoy "House," on television, and the conceit of the episodes is that every case is a puzzle, and it's a race against time to solve this puzzle, and if the doctor is brilliant enough, the patient will be saved and life will go on. That sound like a theme that appeals to a lot of people, and perhaps the illusion for the loved ones who have to deal with the impending death of a patient is that if even a faint glimmer of life is sustained, that gives the doctors time to figure it all out.

    44. Re:Ken Murray's blog by inca34 · · Score: 4, Insightful

      You have my condolences and sympathies. I have similarly wrestled with those issues and simultaneously had a strong desire verbally destroy bullshit, and the purveyors of the bullshit. Within the hospital there is no lack for this. To cope I read the literature on cancer, at first simply looking for a definition. What is cancer? To the best of our knowledge, after roughly a century of study, it is still a fairly abstract definition that nearly applies as much to weeds in your garden as the tumors of cancer in a body: a malignant and invasive proliferation (growth) that may metastasize (spread). I suppose we can thank the biologists for the lack of meaningful technical specifications as much as the fact that there are thousands of cancer variants, so conflicting evidence and mis-diagnosis is common. The whole situation is depressing. In the end I was not able to impact the situation technically but have retained the curiosity of picking experts' minds as I come across their paths.

      What I have found in the mean time is that the placebo effect is too real to ignore. Suddenly the bullshit and the theatre have significance beyond our cultural ties to mysticism and ritual. Feeling good and positive about life is about as important as living it. Ignoring reality in pursuit of your dreams seems like the standard these days, so why not embrace it for a dying loved one? I am partly not being serious, but wondering aloud, why be realistic when reality sucks? Sure, take care of the obligations that you must, be responsible and all that, but that is not very much work. The rest should be spent enjoyably.

    45. Re:Ken Murray's blog by corbettw · · Score: 1

      So the corollary to the adage that a person who represents themselves in court has a fool for a client would be, a doctor who self-diagnoses themselves has a corpse for a patient?

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    46. Re:Ken Murray's blog by Aighearach · · Score: 5, Informative

      How about one of the author's nurses turning him over to the police for obeying a patient's desires to not be put back on life support?

      Actually, that isn't what he claimed. Even with just his side of the story, we know it wasn't that; a nurse fulfilled her mandatory reporting requirements because the paperwork wasn't there with him, as it normally would be. The system worked, the paperwork was checked and his wishes had been followed.

      Actually it seems to be a picture of the system working, regardless of the doctor's view.

    47. Re:Ken Murray's blog by darth+dickinson · · Score: 1

      No doubt. *Real* tea is served supersaturated with sugar, over ice cubes.

    48. Re:Ken Murray's blog by _0xd0ad · · Score: 2

      As long as we're sharing personal anecdotes, I've never had a headache due to caffeine withdrawal. I've been told both "maybe you don't drink enough coffee" (like hell) and "maybe you'll have to stop for longer before you get them" (I have).

      I do notice the fact that it has less of an effect after habitual use, but that applies to anything. Even chewing gum. Know why it tastes better, if you stick it on its wrapper and chew it later, than it tasted when you took it out the first time? That's why.

    49. Re:Ken Murray's blog by guruevi · · Score: 1

      I agree with andyring, I dated a doctor who worked on the ICU for a while. Same thing, family will keep their son, father, husband, ... alive even if it brings extreme pain to the patient. The doctors already do the utmost to save someone, when they say they can't help any further you might want to listen.

      It also hurts the caregivers and makes them burn out faster. I've seen the issues up close, how it affects health care workers and I also work with some people. Euthanasia, abortion, heaven and hell, benevolent god - I've changed my viewpoint on all of those.

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    50. Re:Ken Murray's blog by Aighearach · · Score: 1

      "zero chance" is a lie, and if a nurse who works in the field describes anybody that way, she needs to review her training. There are no "zero chance" cases.

    51. Re:Ken Murray's blog by ApharmdB · · Score: 4, Insightful

      The reason that it is impossible to "live every day like its your last" is because of money. If someone has enough assets to spend every day checking things off a bucket list without having to earn any more money, more power to them. But the majority of the world has to keep working to earn the money to buy the food & shelter to keep themselves alive for the undetermined number of days they've got left as long as they don't starve or die of exposure. This isn't news to anyone, including you, but it always gets brushed aside when people suggest living every day TO THE EXTREME! If we all had a timer that told us how much time we had left, we could plan out our lives much more easily.

    52. Re:Ken Murray's blog by joggle · · Score: 4, Informative

      What he said is based on several studies (not conducted by Mormons). Here's one, just for example: http://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2010/06/100602211940.htm

      The study, published online in the journal of Neuropsychopharmacology, reports that frequent coffee drinkers develop a tolerance to both the anxiety-producing effects and the stimulatory effects of caffeine. While frequent consumers may feel alerted by coffee, evidence suggests that this is actually merely the reversal of the fatiguing effects of acute caffeine withdrawal. And given the increased propensity to anxiety and raised blood pressure induced by caffeine consumption, there is no net benefit to be gained.

      Caffeine is highly addictive, and you cannot simply quit without severe side effects if you drink coffee daily. My boss tried to quit once years ago, and had the worst headaches of his life.

      You can quit, but you have to ease off of it, not simply stop unless you want to experience terrible pain.

    53. Re:Ken Murray's blog by obarel · · Score: 2

      I heard that lioness milk is the stuff, but vegans seem to disagree.

    54. Re:Ken Murray's blog by Joce640k · · Score: 2, Interesting

      I still don't really know how to talk to someone who's going to die.

      Fact: You and everybody you know is going to die.

      Knowing that, how do you want to be spoken to...?

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    55. Re:Ken Murray's blog by HornWumpus · · Score: 0

      I'd go so far as to say you pretty much have to not be Mormon to understand how addiction works with normal people.

      Mormons, Baptists and the like have internalized their religious beliefs. That's why you never see an ex-baptist social drinker. If they drink, they are fall down drunks.

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      John McAfee 'It was like that time I hired that Bangkok prostitute; to do my taxes, while I fucked my accountant'
    56. Re:Ken Murray's blog by joggle · · Score: 1

      My boss also experienced awful headaches when he tried to quit drinking coffee. The headaches lasted for days until he finally gave in and started drinking coffee again. It's a very common withdraw symptom.

      The problem with coffee is that not only do you build a tolerance for it, but the withdraw symptoms match the symptoms you were originally trying to treat, namely alertness. See this (for example, I've seen other studies that come to the same conclusion): http://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2010/06/100602211940.htm

      If you consume caffeine regularly, you won't receive any net benefit at all. With gum, at least you're getting fresh breath for a while.

    57. Re:Ken Murray's blog by joggle · · Score: 3, Informative

      Then here's a better study for you: http://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2010/06/100602211940.htm

      Approximately half of the participants were non/low caffeine consumers and the other half were medium/high caffeine consumers. All were asked to rate their personal levels of anxiety, alertness and headache before and after being given either the caffeine or the placebo. They were also asked to carry out a series of computer tasks to test for their levels of memory, attentiveness and vigilance.

      In that study, they used placebos so they didn't know whether they were consuming caffeine or not and had them perform objective tests. Conclusion: regular consumption of caffeine provided no net benefit.

    58. Re:Ken Murray's blog by bwayne314 · · Score: 2

      I never had any problems with addition,
      well, ive had *problems* sure, and sometimes they were difficult ones.
      But eventually i overcame my demons and won my battles, without any outside help, mind you!

      Now, multiplication, that's a whole other story!

    59. Re:Ken Murray's blog by Artifakt · · Score: 5, Interesting

      10 years ago, at the age of only 43, my Ex-wife was diagnosed with an advanced Stage IV Melanoma. The normal size for the primary tumor to be classed as stage IV at that time was 8 mm to 12 mm, and hers was about 20mm on discovery. The assumption is that a Melanoma that large has to have metastasized unless absolutely proven otherwise. The location was on top of her scalp, making it very likely by the standard model to have drained tumor cells into her lymph nodes just because of that location. The original physician diagnosing her gave her 3 to 6 WEEKS to live and was incredibly blunt about it. She is, however still alive, thank God. (And no, I didn't pull a Gingrich, she divorced me about 4 years later, then we found out the relationship could be saved, put it back together, and just never bothered to do another ceremony. We have great fun making my staid, conservative daughter roll her eyes at us.).
              I don't like to tell people who are terminal about this. She beat odds that were quoted in the standard books on cancer as 10 Billion to 1 or worse, repeatedly. I'm not by any means totally convinced that it was a miracle, but her surgeon swears something guided him, literally forcing him to cut a small extra flap extending for about 2 inches along a scalp vein before it would let him put the scalpel down.
                An experimental treatment program at Duke University got mixed results on a bunch of other people, triggered the weirdest side effects anyone ever saw in her (She was speaking with a foreign accent a few days after some sessions, spoke some fragments in recognizable languages and some that may have been a really exotic tongue or just some noises (and all she speaks normally is English and 1 year of Spanish, but there were times her German was excellent, and one where I recognized some Italian, but then, my own Italian is not that good), she had occasional weeks with feeling fantastic, not sleeping at all, and working like a fresh, new meth addict, while running a 103 fever and losing 10-15 lbs. a week, then other weeks with no other physical symptoms except where she slept for 33 to 48 hours at a time, and the program may or may not have been a factor in her survival - it's been dropped as inconclusive). She had other symptoms that would fit schizophrenia, things such as putting the car keys in the refrigerator's butter dish 'so they wouldn't melt'. None of those periods lasted more than a week or so before it was something else.
                I've got no explanation for why any conceivable God would do such a thing as a miracle just for her, or wouldn't for so many other people, or why a miracle would be so strange. Worshiping some form of God for doing this almost seems irrelevant.
                I know I prayed. I mean waking up at 2 am next to her with sweat pouring off of me and telling God how sure I was that there were things she was still needed for. I don't remember doing a lot of praying about how I would make this or that bargain with God if he would only change things, but as I understand it, a lot of people do pass through a stage where they offer bargain after bargain if God or reality or whatever will just fix the bad thing. I also felt a lot of anger at times, as did she. Whether you feel it and whether you express any of it to the dieing person, please understand, you are not there to vent. If admitting to your own fear or anger helps the patient tell you about theirs, then you do it - if it seems to make them even a bit uncomfortable, you don't.
              Right now, I'm wondering what to say to her all over. Her older brother was just killed by a criminal on Christmas eve, Shot right after he opened a safe. The murderer had been out of prison for about 24 hours. She's basically in the shock stage right now, but she's seizing on some things in the news and starting to ask some very angry questions about how the authorities let this guy loose. So now I'm wondering what to do, not just for now, but every time the holiday season rolls around.

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    60. Re:Ken Murray's blog by joggle · · Score: 1

      There are some bad effects of caffeine, namely increased blood pressure and anxiety.

    61. Re:Ken Murray's blog by frank_adrian314159 · · Score: 1

      My wife and I have had "that talk" and neither of us want to be kept alive by machines.

      You say that now, Lord Vader, but we'll see!

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    62. Re:Ken Murray's blog by joggle · · Score: 2

      The grandparent is obviously mistaken. What is correct is it takes more coffee to reach an above-normal alertness. So if his baseline is 2 cups of coffee in the morning, he would need to drink 3 cups of coffee to have more alertness than someone else who never drinks coffee. If he drinks less than 2 cups of coffee then he won't be as alert as the guy who never drinks coffee.

    63. Re:Ken Murray's blog by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      People give doctors a terrible wrap when it comes to "diagnosis".

      Doctors have to give a realistic assessment. Saying you will live 12 months but you die in 6 months is a huge problem since you aren't alive for those last 6 months.

      Doctors are trained to be very honest which doesnt gel well with typical human nature.

      People quote doctors as saying "go home, you are dead in blah months". I cant imagine a doctor saying something like that. Maybe you remember it like that. Maybe in the very off chance you have a complete asshole of a doctor, though I doubt it.

      Once the C word is dropped people dont really hear anything except dooms day phrases.

    64. Re:Ken Murray's blog by GSloop · · Score: 1

      I think I understand your sentiment...

      However I think what the poster meant by "live every day like it's your last" is different than you're imagining.
      [I know it's different than what I intend by that phrase.]

      In short, I think one needs to assess whet in life is important enough to keep doing.
      Do you like your job? If not, then find a way to do something different.
      [Ah, but you say. 'I need money, I can't quit.' And I'm sure that's true.
      But then, what you like enough to keep doing is living the way you are now. Or keeping your kids living the way they are now etc. And that's fair enough.

      But realize that, and relish in the satisfaction that you ARE doing what you want to keep doing. Don't let the lousy job get you too down. Sure it sucks, but you're doing what you care enough about to keep doing.

      That's a *great* thing. [In that example] You're becoming and acting as your best self. What more honorable and wonderful thing could you do?

      There are a million different variations and they're certainly not as black and white as the above example, but the principles still apply.

      1) Decide what really matters to you.
      2) Find a way to really engage on what matters.
      3) Really enjoy and take pride in your involvement in what really mattered.
      4) Try not to sweat the "small" stuff that had to fall away to engage in the "big stuff."
      5) Live like every day is your last. Doing what really matters and enjoying that pursuit.

      If you find you can't do that, perhaps you need to re-asses what really mattered in step #1.

      HTH
      -Greg

    65. Re:Ken Murray's blog by phorm · · Score: 1

      I'll add to this.

      If I drink coffee for more than 2-3 days a week, and then not the following day(s), I'll feel like crap and often have migraines.
      For some reason, decaffeinated tea seems to be not as bad (though it also has caffeine, sometimes more than coffee). A little bit of (caffeinated) cola usually pushed them off enough for me to get past.

      Not everyone seems to have this issue, but some people (myself included) definitely have issues with caffeine that are best avoiding it as much as possible.

    66. Re:Ken Murray's blog by joggle · · Score: 4, Insightful

      My wife passed away from a sudden illness so I didn't have this opportunity (she died from a pulmonary embolism while alone at home and was only 24 so we weren't prepared for either one of us passing away). However, I can tell you some things I would have loved to have been able to ask her before she died:

      How would she want the funeral arrangements taken care of? You don't need details, just basics like if she wants to be cremated or buried and if she would prefer a big or small ceremony, etc.
      How would she want her things disposed of.
      I know those questions can be painful, but somebody needs to find that information out before she dies. In my case I had no idea and had to make many difficult decisions during the worst time in my life.

      And, above all, be as open as possible with your feelings. Tell her how much she is loved. Ask her about some old stories. Talk about good times and family.

    67. Re:Ken Murray's blog by joggle · · Score: 1

      Age is definitely a factor. If I was 75+ years old, I would hope not as much effort is spent trying to keep me alive as there would be if I was 30.

    68. Re:Ken Murray's blog by postbigbang · · Score: 2

      Cold turkey, whether cigarettes or caffiene is murderously stupid. Cutting down a bit at a time works better. Of course you're going to get a physiological reaction. These are great fun stimulants. Sadly, cigarettes are slow death, but the evidence for caffiene isn't compelling. Neither have binging effects, and so are better cut a bit at a time, cigarettes in certainty, and caffiene if it's causing problems.

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    69. Re:Ken Murray's blog by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Heh... I never said my mother came out stronger, I said she lived, and is happy, 30-some years later.

      It's interesting you bring up innumeracy. The thing most people seem to miss is that death is an absolute - a complete cessation of existence. You don't go to heaven or hell, you don't reincarnate, you are gone. Fin, forever, nothing left. Is it numeracy to opt for absolute termination of being, right then, simply because you only have a 5% chance of living past another 10 years? What is 5% weighed against infinity?

      I liked Hitch, and share some of his views, but he was old and frankly not the best model for life choices.

    70. Re:Ken Murray's blog by hairyfeet · · Score: 2

      As someone who has lost a couple of kinfolks to diseases where medical futility came into play, including a sister at just 36, I can see why they would rather just let it go. I've seen first hand there is a difference between prolonging life and prolonging death and frankly I'd rather just be given some painkillers and spend my last days comfortable than end up sick as a dog from chemo and radiation that isn't gonna do anything but prolong the sickness. if you get 50/50 odds or better that's one thing, but a lot of those illnesses (think pancreatic cancer) you are only increasing your 5 year survival odds from 5% to 10% and are gonna feel like death the entire time. No thanks.

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    71. Re:Ken Murray's blog by hairyfeet · · Score: 2

      Yeah try it buddy and see how that skullsplitter feels. i know that if i don't have my 3 cokes a day here comes the pain, it feels like a hammer slammed into my head right between the eyes. My GF quit for ages until she hooked up with me but the first weekend she stayed over and all I had was cokes and coffee got her hooked again. Now when we do our morning chat before she goes to work I have to give her time to go get her morning cup doctored because she just can't function without her coffee anymore than I can without my cokes. Caffeine is a bitch, just try quitting cold turkey and see!

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    72. Re:Ken Murray's blog by godel_56 · · Score: 2

      In that study, they used placebos so they didn't know whether they were consuming caffeine or not and had them perform objective tests. Conclusion: regular consumption of caffeine provided no net benefit.

      This has the stink of a fanatic about it. While many people (including me) probably are addicted to coffee, it would seem to be doing little harm. Then there's this:

      http://www.google.com/hostednews/afp/article/ALeqM5hhCEHxaVBwtPW_MtxUSqEVil6Hjw?docId=CNG.5546416fb2b33bb880d4246e81a40a68.7c1

      "Coffee has been shown to reduce the risk of skin cancer by helping kill off damaged cells that could otherwise turn into tumors, according to a US study published on Monday. The findings indicate that moderate caffeine drinking, or perhaps even applying coffee to the skin, could be useful in warding off non-melanoma cancer, the most commonly diagnosed of all skin cancers."

      "Previous studies have shown coffee drinkers tend to have fewer incidences of breast, uterine, prostate and colon cancers, but the beneficial effects are not seen in people who drink decaffeinated coffee."

      And WTF has this to do with the main posting?

    73. Re:Ken Murray's blog by gregrah · · Score: 1
      Citation needed:

      there have been a number of studies showing the brains of "vegetative" patients can respond to speech in exactly the same way as normal conscious people

    74. Re:Ken Murray's blog by pclminion · · Score: 2

      For me, it's definitely just a plain old habit, not an addiction. During the week at work, it's 6-8 cups per day. At home on the weekend I usually don't drink it. Not because I deliberately try to not drink it, it just doesn't occur to me to do so.

      Monday through Friday my habit is to drink it, and Saturday Sunday my habit is to not. I never feel physically compelled to drink it regardless of the day of the week.

    75. Re:Ken Murray's blog by Smallpond · · Score: 1

      ... and yet there are very few decapitation survivors.

    76. Re:Ken Murray's blog by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Yeah, I can relate. My grandfather got bladder cancer 20 years ago. He was in and out of the hospital for a year and a half, everybody in the family thought he wasn't going to make it and I had all those thoughts about 'excess therapy'. But then he got the better of it, lived another 15 years, saw his grand-grandkids being born and grow to teen-age and finally died of something unrelated. Sometimes pain is not endured for nothing.

    77. Re:Ken Murray's blog by oldhack · · Score: 1

      ...Give us all a break and don't post if you don't even read the article.

      I generally agree with your post, but that bit quoted above is just plain foolish and irrational. Let's get it together.

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    78. Re:Ken Murray's blog by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Caffeine is highly addictive, and you cannot simply quit without severe side effects if you drink coffee daily. My boss tried to quit once years ago, and had the worst headaches of his life.

      I've switched on/off several times, it's not a big deal, except that I'm still have trouble waking up even after months without coffee.

    79. Re:Ken Murray's blog by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I'm going into my mid-fifties and have made my advanced directives known to my doctor, who forwarded a copy to the local hospital. My family is also aware of my wishes. I breathe a little easier knowing that I've already handled a difficult decision for them. Now it's on about the business of dying young just as late as possible.

    80. Re:Ken Murray's blog by B1ackDragon · · Score: 1

      I'm very sorry to hear your situation. I certainly hope the best for your family. I don't really have any advice, but your story reminded me of something I heard on NPR a while back that might at least be of interest:
      http://www.npr.org/2011/09/12/140336146/for-the-dying-a-chance-to-rewrite-life

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    81. Re:Ken Murray's blog by raygundan · · Score: 4, Informative

      Give cold-turkey an actual try sometime-- it's worth it. It's about two days of headaches (a couple of ibuprofen cover this nicely) followed by three or four days of slight drowsiness. Then you're good. And when you do get around to starting back up, it's SUPER AWESOME. I do this every few months-- usually when I find myself going for a third cup of anything caffeinated in a single day.

    82. Re:Ken Murray's blog by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      > If we all had a timer that told us how much time we had left, we could plan out our lives much more easily.

      We do. About one microsecond left. And again for the new state. And again for the new state... etc

    83. Re:Ken Murray's blog by wierd_w · · Score: 1

      Speaking as someone who goes through regular cycles of caffine addiction, I can attest to the OP.

      In the winter months I abuse caffine, due to my working second shift, and having low exposure to natural light. (This causes all kinds of sleep related trouble for me, so I abuse coffee to keep from becoming narcoleptic :).)

      During the summer, I lay off the stuff completely. I have gone through the addiction cycle numberous times, and can speak from personal experience that I too have noticed that coffee doesn't make me more alert, it just keeps me from sleeping, especially after the first few weeks of routine use. In truth, it makes me feel lethargic and bitter when I don't get it, which are classic signs of addiction. I find myself much better after quitting when my sleep cycles start to level out as the winter months pass. It's fantastic to wake up and be actually alert, rather than a drag-assed zombie until I prop up my nervous system on drugs.

    84. Re:Ken Murray's blog by khallow · · Score: 1

      Is it numeracy to opt for absolute termination of being, right then, simply because you only have a 5% chance of living past another 10 years? What is 5% weighed against infinity?

      It is Pascal's wager, which is a form of innumeracy. To argue that even a slight increase in the odds of survival has infinite payout, has some serious implications for our lives. For example, the argument precludes stairs, cars, and taking showers standing up because those things increase our risk of dying. You can't eat solid foods (choking hazard), swim (drowning hazard), or walk (many hazards including falls, hypothermia and heat stroke, getting lost, etc).

      So effectively, you have to live in some sort of bubble (the actual form of the protection dependent on what maximizes human life span). No expense can be spared or additional risk tolerated because any such expense is finite compared to the infinite cost of risk.

      But in reality, our lives do not have infinite value even to ourselves. We think nothing of the modest risk from fatal car accidents or what could go wrong as we walk up stairs. We also willingly embrace risk with dangerous activities such as sky diving or fire fighting. Every day we make decisions which compromise our safety.

      Assigning infinite value to something doesn't work, because it means that everything of finite value is subordinated completely. I doubt there is anyone out there who merely wishes to live just a little bit longer at the cost of everything they have known which isn't of infinite value.

    85. Re:Ken Murray's blog by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      there is no reason to think that addition is bad per se

      I have always found subtraction to be vastly superior.

    86. Re:Ken Murray's blog by LurkerXXX · · Score: 1

      Only stages I and II are based on the size of the tumor. Stages III and IV are based solely on the spread to lymph nodes and other parts of the body.

      http://www.cancer.gov/cancertopics/pdq/treatment/melanoma/Patient/page2

    87. Re:Ken Murray's blog by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I'll guess that you're another Internet tough guy and that you've never experienced severe pain for an extended period. My appendix ruptured earlier this year, and it was a full hour from the onset of pain at home before I was given a pain killer in the hospital. I would not relive that hour for less than a year's salary, and would not hesitate to kill myself if I knew the remainder of my life was going to be filled with so much pain.

    88. Re:Ken Murray's blog by swillden · · Score: 1

      It is Pascal's wager, which is a form of innumeracy. To argue that even a slight increase in the odds of survival has infinite payout, has some serious implications for our lives.

      I don't see how that's really related to Pascal's wager, which is the idea that, assuming it is unknown whether or not God exists (but assuming the Christian God, or similar), it's a good idea to bet that He does... because if you're right you gain eternal rewards and if you're wrong you don't lose much. In Pascal's wager, the successful bet does in fact provide infinite payout. In the case of decisions made to extend life, the payout is guaranteed to be finite.

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    89. Re:Ken Murray's blog by demonlapin · · Score: 1

      Ah, you've read "Yes, Jolonah, There is a Hell". Pretty warped stuff. I like it.

    90. Re:Ken Murray's blog by CODiNE · · Score: 2

      that would explain why my 95 year old grandfather who has been drinking coffee for 84 years, now drinks seven thousand five hundred and twenty one gallons of coffee each morning.

      So that's why it takes them soo long to pee!

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    91. Re:Ken Murray's blog by Fjandr · · Score: 2

      Caffeine is not highly addictive, it causes physical dependency. The two are not the same thing. You can be under the influence of one, the other, or both.

      Some may become psychologically addicted to it, but not all. In my personal experience, the number is relatively small (even then it's debatable whether it's addiction rather than habit). Almost everyone who consumes it regularly will become physically dependent on it, however.

    92. Re:Ken Murray's blog by Fjandr · · Score: 1

      Multiplication is just addition in groups. You can overcome your problems with multiplication, I know you can!

    93. Re:Ken Murray's blog by Fjandr · · Score: 1

      You just made me spray my monitor with today's 5 gallon bucket of coffee, you insensitive clod!

    94. Re:Ken Murray's blog by zippthorne · · Score: 2

      Caffeine isn't fun. It's just bitter. Deliciously bitter.

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    95. Re:Ken Murray's blog by Fjandr · · Score: 1

      It's probably best to take cues from the person who's ill. Everyone is different, any people deal with the prospect of death in different ways.

      I prefer being straightforward and looking at the humor in things. I know it is difficult for many around me to discuss my condition and current mental and physical state, but I've worked fairly hard to make people feel comfortable with talking about it. I'm not particularly bitter or depressed, so that helps.

    96. Re:Ken Murray's blog by Beeftopia · · Score: 1

      I actually once went cold turkey off of caffeine once. After surgery for a traumatic injury. After about a week on Percocets, I realized, hey! I haven't had any caffeine! I'd broken the habit! I didn't think I'd ever be able to get off of it.

      Fast forward a few years, and I once again fell prey to its siren song. Going to sleep late, needing to get up early, seriously dragging, have some caffeine and voila! I'm on top of the world. A few more cycles of this and I'm back to being hooked. I fought it but after a while, I thought, "Why am I torturing myself?"

      If I ever decide to get off of it again, I'll probably take several days off, clear my schedule, get a new bottle of ibuprofen and go for it.

    97. Re:Ken Murray's blog by st0nes · · Score: 2

      Cold turkey, whether cigarettes or caffiene is murderously stupid.

      Nonsense. As a smoker for 41 years, I tried almost every conceivable method of quitting: slow withdrawal, NRT, other drugs. Nothing worked. Then I read Allen Carr's book in which he recommends cold turkey as the most effective method of quitting, so I tried that. I had a few days of quite severe discomfort, followed by a week or two of intermittent cravings, but I was able to get through that, and I have now been smoke free for three years. It's a question of mental preparation.
      As for coffee addiction, I don't have it. I drink 4 cups of Italian roast every working day because I like the taste and the ritual. On weekends or vacations I don't drink it at all, and have never experienced any discomfort. I suppose it's a matter of individual metabolic idiosyncracy.

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    98. Re:Ken Murray's blog by No+Tears+In+The+End · · Score: 2

      I'm not buying it either. I drink 2-4 cups of coffee every work day. I don't have a single cup on the weekends. I'm just finishing up a 7 day vacation and in that time I have had precisely one cup. No headaches, no jitters, nothing.

      NTITE

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    99. Re:Ken Murray's blog by Chewbacon · · Score: 2

      In a perfect world, yes. However, this is a story about one doc he has turned into a hasty generalization. I'm an RN in a ICU and "medically futile" is a word I am all too familiar with. I've heard docs say they're going to have their DNR and signature tattooed on their chest, but I've more often seen doctors put themselves through the pain and anguish he speaks of. I even cared for a doctor's mom with a prognosis that left little to no hope of recovery, but we pressed on despite torturing her all because Mama's boy, MD wanted it done. These guys are human and sometimes emotion clouds rationality. And not all ICU stays are a painful experience. We have great drugs and a vigilant nurse will make sure you're as comfortable as possible. That may not always be painless, but hospital beds aren't magic. You don't get well just laying in one. It always requires work from the patient whether it be walking even when it hurts, using the damn incentive spirometer no one wants to be bothered with, or dealing with some temporary discomfort you should've known you'd have after having open heart surgery.

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    100. Re:Ken Murray's blog by qwak23 · · Score: 1

      I do the exact same thing (minus the ibuprofen... usually). Then I typically save the "SUPER AWESOME" for when I actually need it.

    101. Re:Ken Murray's blog by qwak23 · · Score: 2

      I need to delete my facebook account. It's bad that I now want to click "like" on various comments here =(

    102. Re:Ken Murray's blog by wisty · · Score: 4, Insightful

      At the heart of the debate, most people think they can live forever. They think that death is unnatural, and if you can stave off the attack then everything will be OK. Let's say you have cancer. With treatment, you have a 10% chance of survival, but a much lower quality of life during treatment. Without treatment, there's a 0% chance of survival. If you assume you'll live forever if you survive (which most people seem to do), the choice is trivial, even if your life expectancy barely exceeds the time you'd have without treatment. The real answer should be very different for a 30 year old and a 90 year old.

      This is why the system is geared towards resuscitations. It *sounds* logical - of course you want to resuscitate, right? His point is that unless a patient is young (80) and fit (not otherwise terminal), it might not be such a great idea.

      The last days of life after being resuscitated are not likely to be enjoyable, for the patient or their family. They can "go peacefully", or with broken ribs, hooked up to life support (assuming they can't , as their family debates whether to finally switch them off. Even on the tiny off-chance that they do survive, they aren't going to live forever.

      Doctors need to balance cost, quality of life, and length of life. It sounds inhumane to say that cost should be a factor, but it is, and people have to face that fact.

    103. Re:Ken Murray's blog by hairyfeet · · Score: 2

      The you sir are what I call one of the "lucky bastards' whom caffeine doesn't affect. My youngest is like that, he can drink cokes all week and then not touch one for a month, no side effects. my oldest on the other hand when he misses his daily caffeine is seriously hurting with a MAJOR skullthumper. I've had him come in between classes at the college and go "Man i forgot my coke and spent all my money on gas, can i have a coke and a BC?".

      For those that get the caffeine headaches? BC Powders ALWAYS have some. its a 50/50 mix of caffeine and aspirin and kills the caffeine headsplitter but quick. Now once a month I go and get the 50 pack from the Wally world and split them up among the family that way if anybody misses their caffeine or gets a skullthumper they're set.

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    104. Re:Ken Murray's blog by locofungus · · Score: 1

      "Caffeine is highly addictive, and you cannot simply quit without severe side effects if you drink coffee daily."

      People are obviously different. I drink a fair amount of coffee on a daily basis. But when I've gone cold turkey I've had absolutely no symptoms at all.

      Drinking coffee for me becomes a habit, not an addiction. And it's a relatively easy habit to break because you have time between getting up to get another coffee and actually getting it to realize what you are doing. The first time I realized I should probably try to moderate my coffee intake a bit was when I realized I was boiling the kettle for the next mug of coffee before I'd finished drinking the previous one. So I stopped drinking coffee completely there and then and didn't have another coffee (or tea or any other caffeinated drink) for a couple of months and I had no symptoms at all other than sometimes catching myself walking to the kitchen to put the kettle on.

      I used to bite my nails. That was an extremely hard habit to break. Not because I was addicted to biting them but because I wasn't even aware that I was chewing them. I still often chew the skin from around my nails (to the point where I can draw blood) and that is proving just as hard to stop.

      Tim.

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    105. Re:Ken Murray's blog by khallow · · Score: 1

      The argument is based on the assumption that there is a possibility of an outcome with infinite value. The actual labeling of this outcome as say, "Heaven" rather than say, "live longer" is irrelevant. Keep in mind that the original AC poster said "What is 5% weighed against infinity?" He really was assigning an infinite value to living longer.

    106. Re:Ken Murray's blog by inflex · · Score: 1

      Similar here - had to quit for a while due to illness and found that my life wasn't any different without it. To be fair, I'm on 2 half-cups of moka-pot brewed coffee each day, so many it's just not enough to cause a massive upheaval when I stop drinking it.

    107. Re:Ken Murray's blog by DiogoBiazus · · Score: 2

      Speaking in any way is a good start, I'm sometimes impressed on how many people will not talk about death at all!

    108. Re:Ken Murray's blog by dunkelfalke · · Score: 1

      Can't speak about coffee because I neither like the taste nor the smell, but I drink about two liters of tea every working day (green Oolong and Sencha mostly, but also often enough Darjeeling FTGFOP), but at home drink only tap water due to my laziness - and I can be at home for three weeks in a row when I am on vacation. No withdrawal symptoms whatsoever. I also routinely make a second or sometimes even a third stepping (where is almost no caffeine left).

      Guess I am either lucky or things are different with tea, but either way it's okay with me - I certainly would hate to be addicted.

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    109. Re:Ken Murray's blog by Alioth · · Score: 1

      There is a difference, say, with being (for example) in your mid 30s, in good health, and fully expecting to live between 40 and 60 years more - and being in your mid 30s, diagnosed with type 4 metastatic cancer and not expecting to be alive this time next year.

    110. Re:Ken Murray's blog by laejoh · · Score: 1

      So you're saying that Caffeine is a bit like my ex?

    111. Re:Ken Murray's blog by postbigbang · · Score: 1

      Using your self as anecdotal evidence is nice in the "testimony era" but is a sample of ---> one.

      My "sample of one" was a pack of Camels (no filters) a day for forty-three years. But this isn't about me. This is about statistical success/failure/relapse with cigarettes and caffeinated beverages (most likely, coffee).

      Your reply is very focused on you. I'm very focused on the rest of the world in terms of what seems to work, and not. You don't quit fit in the statistical center, but I'm glad it worked for you.

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    112. Re:Ken Murray's blog by Homr+Zodyssey · · Score: 1

      I thought Doctors never die...they just regenerate.

    113. Re:Ken Murray's blog by snarkh · · Score: 1

      High blood pressure is only bad as it potentially leads to heart attacks, strokes, etc, not on its own (you cannot even feel it usually). However coffee consumption appears to have a protective effect on the cardiovascular systems.

    114. Re:Ken Murray's blog by snarkh · · Score: 1

      Let's not multiply entities beyond necessity here.

    115. Re:Ken Murray's blog by Oligonicella · · Score: 1

      My younger brother was diagnosed with terminal cancer. We became much closer during.

      Don't treat them like they're glass. They know what the hell is going on and it's insulting to pussy-foot around the topic like they're five.

      Also, don't go maudlin. With the limited time that the both of you have left together, enjoy being with them and discussing whatever. If they want to talk about it, they *want* to talk. Do so. Don't avoid it because it upsets you.

      "It's disturbing to voice out loud the certainty of death, but it's also galling to bullshit someone by saying everything's going to be ok, when it's not."

      Yes, it's galling to bullshit. Not because it's death, but because they're intelligent. But, they are certain as to the certainty. My brother found out by "You have about a five percent chance of living for another six months."

      By the way - he lasted another five years. It would have been a horrible shame to have avoided talking to him about things for what I thought was six months and have that drag on to five years. Five years I got to know my brother better.

      I miss him.

    116. Re:Ken Murray's blog by Oligonicella · · Score: 1

      What utter tripe. As already mentioned, decapitation is the obvious one. There are many, many more. On current topic, cancer infiltrating the heart's nerves will do it.

    117. Re:Ken Murray's blog by _0xd0ad · · Score: 1

      Yeah, I was exactly the same and never had a headache and what people told me was, "well, after 3 or 4 days without you'd start getting them".

      At least in my case, I didn't after 3 or 4 days without, either.

    118. Re:Ken Murray's blog by ResidentSourcerer · · Score: 1

      1. Just be there. That is often enough.

      2. Don't ignore the elephant. Be open. Be candid.

      Everyone dies. It's a matter of when. Our culture has a huge fear/denial of death.

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    119. Re:Ken Murray's blog by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      No, not like that. Each day, imagine what would you wish for if you were bedridden and about to die? What would you order for your last supper if you were to be executed tomorrow? Would you like to see the sky and the birds? Would you like to feel the cold sharp winter air in the woods, and snow under your feet? Would you like to cuddle with your loved one? Would you like to taste an apple? Would you miss stroking your child's hair? There is zillion simple things you would miss and crave aside from bucket list.

      Remember to enjoy every moment of your life, even trivial ones. Urinating and defecating in the actual toilet, on your own, wiping yourself yourself afterwards? Priceless! Having a long shower? Nirvana! Even stretching yourself and being able to stand up from the bed and walk? Oh joy! BEING ABLE TO DRAW A BREATH? A life, for just one last time...

      It's there folks, for each and every last one of us. So, whatever you do, feel privileged and rewarded by your luck that you can do it - that's the true meaning of that saying, not "invent bizarre and peculiar ways to waste your precious time".

      Bucket lists are for clueless.

    120. Re:Ken Murray's blog by godefroi · · Score: 1

      If I ever start drinking, I plan to drink myself straight into a homeless shelter. What's the point, otherwise?

      As for cigarettes, I never saw the attraction. The calming effect is quite mild, and there's other commonly available substances that are much more effective if you're going to take part in an activity that is so clearly damaging.

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    121. Re:Ken Murray's blog by swillden · · Score: 1

      The argument is based on the assumption that there is a possibility of an outcome with infinite value.

      Which is a perfectly valid assumption in the case of Pascal's wager, since that's exactly the expected payout under the Christian theology with which Pascal was familiar.

      If there is a defect in Pascal's wager, it's in the assumption that an unknowable deity offers a known reward for known actions. Essentially, Pascal's wager takes as a given that if God exists, God is of a certain form. But if you can't know if God exists, how can you know what God is like?

      The actual labeling of this outcome as say, "Heaven" rather than say, "live longer" is irrelevant.

      No, it's not. Living longer has finite value, because it has a definite and unavoidable end. Heaven is purported to be endless, and therefore can offer infinite value. There's a big distinction there.

      Keep in mind that the original AC poster said "What is 5% weighed against infinity?" He really was assigning an infinite value to living longer.

      Erroneously assigning an infinite value to living longer.

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    122. Re:Ken Murray's blog by AthanasiusKircher · · Score: 1

      I drink 2-4 cups of coffee every work day. I don't have a single cup on the weekends. I'm just finishing up a 7 day vacation and in that time I have had precisely one cup. No headaches, no jitters, nothing.

      I've never been addicted to caffeine. Never had a regular habit. However, I used to be like this -- I could hang out with people on vacation for a week drinking lots of coffee for many days in a row, then stop suddenly afterward, and nothing happened. Caffeine never prevented me from sleeping, never gave me jitters....

      Then, over the course of a couple years, I became more sensitive, and now I have to be very careful. A few days of drinking coffee in a row, and I'll be treated to a headache when I stop. Coffee anytime beyond about 2pm might mess with my sleep.

      Everybody's different. And people change over the course of their lives. I know a lot of older people who insist on decaf after dinner but say they used to be fine with caffeine in the evening.

    123. Re:Ken Murray's blog by AthanasiusKircher · · Score: 1

      Then you're good. And when you do get around to starting back up, it's SUPER AWESOME.

      Agreed. I've never been addicted to caffeine, and thus I occasionally get the benefits when I want. As studies have shown, addicts actually live their non-caffeinated lives below their normal alertness level and only get up to their non-addiction baseline when taking caffeine. Non-addicts actually get a net benefit, but addicts don't: http://science.slashdot.org/story/10/06/02/219229/caffeine-addicts-get-no-additional-perk-only-a-return-to-baseline

    124. Re:Ken Murray's blog by joggle · · Score: 1

      Then what's the difference when comparing to nicotine? It also forms a physical dependency and strong habits. Where would you draw the line between a 'habit' vs 'addictive'? Many smokers for years just called it a habit.

    125. Re:Ken Murray's blog by Fjandr · · Score: 1

      I've never bothered to try and define a line, because the only way to do that is to get inside the head of a given person. That doesn't change the fact there is one. Anyway, none of this is relevant to the point that addiction and physical dependency are not the same thing.

    126. Re:Ken Murray's blog by randyleepublic · · Score: 1

      We put people in cages with other animals, treat them worse than we treat wild animals, then release them directly back into society, and wonder why things like your brother in law getting killed happen. Tell your wife to go visit Delancey Street in San Francisco if she wants to understand how we might treat criminals in a way that doesn't lead to tragedy.

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    127. Re:Ken Murray's blog by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Let me guess. You are Mormon?

      Except that the original poster recommended a "nice healthy cup of tea" instead... and Mormons also believe drinking tea is wrong. So evidently he's not Mormon. :)

    128. Re:Ken Murray's blog by khallow · · Score: 1

      Living longer has finite value

      I'm not the person you have to convince.

      Keep in mind that the original AC poster said "What is 5% weighed against infinity?" He really was assigning an infinite value to living longer.

      Erroneously assigning an infinite value to living longer.

      Tell him, not me.

    129. Re:Ken Murray's blog by Patch86 · · Score: 1

      Funnily enough, my appendix ruptured too. I've had exactly two major medical conditions in my life (and many small ones, obviously). That was one. The other I won't go into (because I don't feel like talking about my medical history on the internet), but it was considerably more painful and more protracted.

      Yes, I would prefer be alive in a great deal of pain than have my short existence snuffed out. For one, it might get better!

    130. Re:Ken Murray's blog by Patch86 · · Score: 1

      Which is a terrifying thought. It would make "vegetative" patients little different from those suffering locked-in syndrome combined with paralysis. Imagine being a patient, fully aware of what's going on around you, listening to your doctors and family talking about you as if you're already dead, and discussing when to dispose of you. It's the sort of thing my personal nightmares are made of.

    131. Re:Ken Murray's blog by swillden · · Score: 1

      Living longer has finite value

      I'm not the person you have to convince.

      Keep in mind that the original AC poster said "What is 5% weighed against infinity?" He really was assigning an infinite value to living longer.

      Erroneously assigning an infinite value to living longer.

      Tell him, not me.

      You're the one trying to convince me that his argument makes sense :-)

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    132. Re:Ken Murray's blog by khallow · · Score: 1

      You're the one trying to convince me that his argument makes sense :-)

      No, I wasn't. I merely defended my description of it as a "Pascal's wager".

    133. Re:Ken Murray's blog by swillden · · Score: 1

      You're the one trying to convince me that his argument makes sense :-)

      No, I wasn't. I merely defended my description of it as a "Pascal's wager".

      So I see, after reviewing the thread.

      I do take issue with your characterization of Pascal's wager as a form of innumeracy. I would agree that the assumption that life extension has infinite value is a fallacy of some sort, which might be characterized as innumeracy, if you squint.

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    134. Re:Ken Murray's blog by khallow · · Score: 1

      I do take issue with your characterization of Pascal's wager as a form of innumeracy. I would agree that the assumption that life extension has infinite value is a fallacy of some sort, which might be characterized as innumeracy, if you squint.

      The point is that when you ascribe infinite value to a particular thing, then there should be no consideration of anything of finite value. For example, if you consider going to heaven of infinite value, then the obvious strategy is to kill yourself in an approved manner (say martyrdom) so that you don't risk backsliding at a future date. I'd wager that some people have actually done this.

      The innumeracy comes from not understanding this. So you get as in this thread, people who speak of life having infinite value, but who act as if life had finite value.

    135. Re:Ken Murray's blog by swillden · · Score: 1

      I do take issue with your characterization of Pascal's wager as a form of innumeracy. I would agree that the assumption that life extension has infinite value is a fallacy of some sort, which might be characterized as innumeracy, if you squint.

      The point is that when you ascribe infinite value to a particular thing, then there should be no consideration of anything of finite value. For example, if you consider going to heaven of infinite value, then the obvious strategy is to kill yourself in an approved manner (say martyrdom) so that you don't risk backsliding at a future date.

      Ah, but suicide is a sin, so that option's not available. Deliberately seeking out martyrdom is still suicide.

      Blaise Pascal was not innumerate.

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    136. Re:Ken Murray's blog by Aighearach · · Score: 1

      Shannon Malloy survived her decapitation.

    137. Re:Ken Murray's blog by Aighearach · · Score: 1

      power tip: few > zero

    138. Re:Ken Murray's blog by No+Tears+In+The+End · · Score: 1

      Look at it this way, high blood pressure and arthritis runs in my family. Though I may pwn you with regards to caffeine, eventually it'll catch up to me.

      I met a friend of a friend of a friend a couple of years ago who was a serious caffeine junkie. She drank coffee constantly, as well as keeping a stash of caffeinated candy in her purse and used the caffeinated soap.

      By the way, what is BC powder?

      NTITE

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    139. Re:Ken Murray's blog by Fishbulb · · Score: 1

      Well, I didn't say, "TO THE EXTREME", nor did I even say "live every day like its your last".

      However, what I'm left wondering is why on Earth you equate "live every day like its your last" (keep in mind, all I said was, carefully evaluate how you want to live your remaining days) as spending beyond your means or even spending beyond what you imagine to be an unattainable sum of money.

      Why also would you need a timer to tell you how much time you have left? Yes, plans are great, but would you really be happy if you knew for certain and just sat and watched the plan unfold day after day? Maybe I just much prefer the chaotic unknowingness that is day to day life. Plans seldom account for the happenstance that is opportunity.

    140. Re:Ken Murray's blog by khallow · · Score: 1

      Deliberately seeking out martyrdom is still suicide.

      I doubt you'd be surprised how many religions and religious people have that covered. For example, in Islam, martyrdom of dying in a fight against the unrighteous and wicked is the express route to Allah even though some infidels think it's suicide.

      The Christian version of martyrdom usually involves the person confronting a foe or an evil non-violently, say confronting an anti-Christian tyrant by opening practicing Christian religious traditions (Buddhism and Sikhism have also sometimes used similar approaches). Death is not assured because it depends on the choice of others (and often the opponent blinks), but death often can be very reliable.

    141. Re:Ken Murray's blog by swillden · · Score: 1

      But we're talking about 17th-century French Catholicism, not the whole wide world of religious ideas and motives.

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    142. Re:Ken Murray's blog by khallow · · Score: 1

      But we're talking about 17th-century French Catholicism

      There were several dangerous places to go proselytize. The person looking for a fast but righteous exit could go to the Ottoman Empire, the New World, Africa, or England and preach the word.

    143. Re:Ken Murray's blog by eugene+ts+wong · · Score: 1

      My mom isn't dealing with cancer. She's dealing with Parkinson's. It's tough watching her move around and talk as if she is becoming feeble bodied and feeble minded. Just the other day, I had to coach her to help her breath through her nose again. She had somehow lost that ability to the extent that her tongue was becoming dry and raw, and she had difficulty pronouncing words. It dawned on me only at that time, that maybe we don't know why her breathing is like that, and maybe it is correctable. Sure enough, her quality of life is much better now. She seems to be more alert on average. Today, was the first time in 2 weeks, that she didn't feel dizzy. She seems stronger.

      On a more positive note, she actually is getting better. A couple of months ago, the doctor said that she is improving. A couple of weeks ago, she said that she is gaining weight again. It seems that her efforts, via diet and exercise, whether placebo or not, are actually helping her to get better.

      So, to answer your question, I think that I need to be positive, and to show some hope, but at the same time, acknowledge that things could get worse. I also need to acknowledge that things aren't good right now. I think that there is always hope, even though it is a small chance. I expect people to try to live, as long as it only requires basic nutrition and exercise. You don't want your aunt to kick back and wait 2 years to die, right? On the other hand, I also want people to get off of any pills and treatments that don't live up to their claims. I want my mom to *live* life to the fullest, especially since she has worked so hard in the past.

      I think that when their days are numbered, and when they lose abilities, they get a certain freedom. It's like being so sick that you're bed ridden. You lose the opportunity to work, but you gain the opportunity to rest. When you can't sleep, you can read, or think.

      This happened to me in December. I spent 2 weeks at home, due to pneumonia or bronchitis, and missed work. I used that time to do the bare essentials, read and rest according to the doctor's orders. In fact, I am still dealing with it. I plan to see the doctor again, but I digress.

      When conversing with her, I try to focus on being sympathetic and empathetic, when she comments on how difficult things are and when she asks for help. When helping her to do things, I try to help her find ways to be independent.

      Our conversations are not very deep, because my conversations are not very deep unless I am discussing moral and social issues. She seems to be the opposite.

      To be honest, she has come to grips with her death more than I have. Every time she has commented at activities possibly happening for the last time [e.g. "This might be the last Christmas gathering I attend, so I'll try to make it."], I have cringed and died a little inside.

      I think that 1 of the many reasons that I struggle a lot with this, because I am not very good at doing most ordinary things, while I perceive her to be like a super hero.

    144. Re:Ken Murray's blog by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      He already told you what it is: "its a 50/50 mix of caffeine and aspirin". If you want more information: BC Powder

    145. Re:Ken Murray's blog by Slashdot+Parent · · Score: 1

      What do you guys do in these situations? I'd especially like to hear the prefences of anyone who is dying or at one point believed that they were going to die.

      My wife is currently battling stage IV cancer, so I can answer this as best I can.

      The hardest conversations for her to have with people who mean well (it's not like someone is going to bring up the really difficult topics like not being there for our kids, etc.) are the ones that keep probing her for some shred of good news. The cold fact is her chances of surviving this are low, and it's been a long while since we've heard any news that could reasonably be interpreted as "good". I understand where these people are coming from, and I know that they mean well, but it just doesn't work.

      "How are you doing/feeling?" is fine. It's not like you're somehow reminding her that she feels like shit. She already knows. And I think you're right, that speaking about the distant future is best avoided, but I also wouldn't worry so much about slipping up and accidentally "reminding" her that she is going to die. Believe me, it's most of she's thinking about. Hopefully, she's reached some stage of acceptance.

      Good topics are any current events, movies, books, TV shows, stuff in the news. Things that you know interest her. If that is even too hard for her, then she is probably depressed, anyway. Understandable, but hopefully her onc would treat that a bit, if possible.

      You're right about respecting that she is probably too tired for long conversations. Texting a caregiver first to see if she's up for a phone call would be appreciated. Invitations to do stuff, if her health permits, could be nice. Letting her know that she's in your throughts/prayers, as appropriate, would be nice. I guess it all depends on how close of a relationship you have with your aunt.

      Anyway, I wish you and your family the best of luck. Cancer sucks, and that's about all there is to say about that.

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    146. Re:Ken Murray's blog by ApharmdB · · Score: 1

      I was commenting more on what I perceive to be the general intent of the "live life to the fullest" kinds of statements than on your specific phrasing. The reason they irk me is because I hear them most often in marketing - "live every day like its your last, eat out and get that big piece of chocolate cake for dessert!" The constant drone of the marketers has co-opted these statements and made them mean spend beyond your means. I agree that the good things to keep in mind are making sure to spend time with family, etc. As for plans, what I mean is that I would like to know if I'm going to kick the bucket at 55 of a heart attack or cancer. That way I would know I only need to earn enough to support myself until 55. Otherwise I might still be working at 55 thinking I need to support myself until 95. I'd be able to spend even more time with family, etc. that way. Not that I don't spend time with them now, but more is better with no limit.

    147. Re:Ken Murray's blog by DrGamez · · Score: 1

      What's the point?

      What's the point in rollercoasters?

      What's the point in spinning in circles as a kid?

      What's the point in masturbating?

      The point is some things are just fun to do, and just because alcohol is a poison and can have some pretty terrible effects it doesn't mean they MUST be destructive. I don't understand the appeal of cigarettes personally, but they wouldn't be around for this long if there wasn't SOME kind of 'upside' to them.

      If you are of sane and rational thought I can not see how you cannot see 'the point' in either binge drinking to the point of destruction or nothing at all. What happened to the shades of grey?

  2. The Sanctity of Life by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 5, Insightful

    It's traditional to see life as a sacred thing that must be preserved at all costs--to a point. There was a balance. This has been true throughout human history, with the exception that in the past couple hundred years we seem to have collectively forgotten that in order for life to go on something else has to precede it in death. In an era of ever-increasing lifespans, global populations and expectations of one's quality of life, we are engaged in a losing game against the power of exponential arithmetic.

    When it's time to go, it's time to go.

    1. Re:The Sanctity of Life by Charliemopps · · Score: 5, Insightful

      When it's time for you to go, it's time for you to go. When it's time for me to go, I'm going out kicking and screaming with every bionic body part science has to offer. I don't care if it's "Natural" to die. I'm going to do my very best not to. We do not have to perish, science has the answers. Maybe it's a bit too early for us, but my kid... or my grand kid will likely live for a very... very long time... Yes, we're running out of room, but there's always room in the rest of the solar system. The meek shall inherit the earth, the brave shall inherit the stars. Have fun dieing.

    2. Re:The Sanctity of Life by dabadab · · Score: 4, Insightful

      There was not any balance. What was there an utter incapability to deliver any meaningful treatment to serious cases, so anyone who got seriously ill just died and they could not do anything about it. Now, we can do more: some can be cured completely, others can have a partial recovery, others can have their agony extended. It's - to a degree, mercy killing did exist, but it was not something that a common man would do - a new situation that previous generations did not have to deal with.

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    3. Re:The Sanctity of Life by sjames · · Score: 5, Interesting

      The catch is, some of those extraordinary treatments are as likely to hasten death as they are to prolong life. Even where that doesn't happen, would you rather have 8 good months mostly free of pain or would you like a year in agony confined to a hospital bed.

    4. Re:The Sanctity of Life by Tokolosh · · Score: 5, Insightful

      Fine by me, as long as you pay for it all yourself.

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    5. Re:The Sanctity of Life by iggymanz · · Score: 4, Insightful

      haha, I can tell you that statistically the manner of your death will be that you won't have either the energy or you won't have the time to do any kicking and screaming. There will be no bionic help for you, either. You'll just die, badly. Have a miserable time dying, like the rest of us.

    6. Re:The Sanctity of Life by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

      When it's time for you to go, it's time for you to go. When it's time for me to go, I'm going out kicking and screaming with every bionic body part science has to offer. I don't care if it's "Natural" to die. I'm going to do my very best not to. We do not have to perish, science has the answers. Maybe it's a bit too early for us, but my kid... or my grand kid will likely live for a very... very long time... Yes, we're running out of room, but there's always room in the rest of the solar system. The meek shall inherit the earth, the brave shall inherit the stars. Have fun dieing.

      So sayeth the man with very little experience of death or people dying.

      AC - BSc, MSc, BM BS.

    7. Re:The Sanctity of Life by guruevi · · Score: 1

      Terminal cancer, severe organ damage, brain damage. I've heard all the stories and you'll sing a few tones lower after they revive you two or three times and then have to give you morphine because there is nothing else they can possibly do to make you comfortable.

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    8. Re:The Sanctity of Life by misexistentialist · · Score: 1

      Should start by focusing on the quality of your living. If you're posting on slashdot, I'm pretty sure you are failing...

    9. Re:The Sanctity of Life by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      You're pathetic.

    10. Re:The Sanctity of Life by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

      Theres a difference being alive and quality of life

    11. Re:The Sanctity of Life by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I think this really gets to the meat of the matter, if indirectly.

      People love to talk tough and be "brutally frank" about death... so long as it's someone else's. Grandma should have died sooner so I wasn't stuck with her hospice bill, but I found a lump in my nutsack so I'm making an appointment to see a specialist tomorrow.

      Oh how we always denigrate the value of others' lives, but we won't stop enjoying our own.

      The perfect answer the "death cultists" who say "it's time to go": "then you go on ahead, I'll catch up later."

    12. Re:The Sanctity of Life by Paradise+Pete · · Score: 4, Insightful

      When it's time for you to go, it's time for you to go. When it's time for me to go, I'm going out kicking and screaming with every bionic body part science has to offer.

      You don't know that. Nobody knows until they're actually faced with the situation. When you're old and tired and in pain you may well have an entirely different outlook than when you're healthy and strong. If at that point science can offer something that restores vitality rather than just prolonging life, of course everyone would like that. That's not a strong statement. It's the hanging on to a painful existence that's in question.

    13. Re:The Sanctity of Life by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      That's fantastic if it is YOU making this decision. It's something else altogether when it's your family being selfish and wanting you around for THEM because THEY can't be without you... damned be the fact that you're suffering horribly and are going to die an even worse death because of their medical futility. There comes a certain point in time where you need to say, "Enough is enough" for a loved one. When it is broken down and your loved one is going to be on chronic hemodialysis, permanent paralysis after a stroke, never being able to eat again and being fed for the rest of your life through a tube, no longer being able to speak, ect., it should trigger something in your brain that says, "Would (insert loved ones name) want to live the rest of their life like this?" The answer is HELL NO. Stop torturing your loved ones!

    14. Re:The Sanctity of Life by blagooly · · Score: 0

      More and more these "excessive treatment" items are appearing, part of the big sell to save Obama care. All of it leads inevitably to denial of care by Gov't services, and an obligation to die. The "Fine by me, as long as you pay for it all yourself" attitude expressed as "cost savings" for care deemed fuitile by Gov't bean counters. This is the predicted nightmare of gov't mandates. In the long run, the 1% will buy their own, the rest will be given a bed in which to die, just do the responsible thing and don't wait too long, there is a long line.

    15. Re:The Sanctity of Life by joggle · · Score: 1

      Try spending some time with someone with Lou Gehrig's disease or alzheimer's. You may change your tune.

    16. Re:The Sanctity of Life by Johnny+Mnemonic · · Score: 0

      No problem. Be prepared to pay for that luxury out of your own pocket. I don't want to pay for the unnatural extension of either your life or mine.

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    17. Re:The Sanctity of Life by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Have fun dieing.

      I am having fun "dieing" since I a have conscious. don't regret (but learn from) the past, don't fear the future and enjoy the present.

    18. Re:The Sanctity of Life by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      You may want to go out "kicking and screaming" but what about paralyzed and sedated with a tube in your throat? Unfortunately, that is how more and more people are going because they want every medical effort possible. We preach the advances of medicine by saying intervention X prolongs life by Y without mentioning the quality of life during Y.

      Everyone is different and their individual desires should be a doctor's priority. That said, a good doctor (or really any health professional) will do their best to educate the patient about the consequences of their decision. Want that intervention X? Great, but here is how your life is going to be. You should consider intervention Z (or nothing) where your lifespan will likely shorter but instead of laying comatose you will be at home with your family.

      Of course, some people will still choose X, but at least they've made the most informed decision possible.

    19. Re:The Sanctity of Life by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Have you ever heard of the expression a fate worse than death? There you go...

    20. Re:The Sanctity of Life by mspohr · · Score: 4, Insightful

      The problem is that you will not get painless "bionic body parts". You will be strapped to a bed with tubes in every orifice (plus a few new ones) giving you a toxic mixture of chemicals carefully designed to bring you just to the point of death but not beyond. This is a recipe for maximum pain. You will live out your last days as a medical experiment at maximum cost, maximum pain and no freedom.
      Believe me. I have seen this and had patients and friends go through this... you do not want this to happen to you. (Yes, I am a doctor.)

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    21. Re:The Sanctity of Life by ArsenneLupin · · Score: 1

      When it's time to go, it's time to go.

      [....cue the Depardieu jokes...]

    22. Re:The Sanctity of Life by Chicken_Kickers · · Score: 4, Insightful

      I find it interesting that many people just substitute Heaven with Outer Space and God with science. I'm not saying I frown on this, just that it is interesting. I also find it odd that people want to live longer than 70 or 80 or even 100 years. Why? I am now in mid 30's and I find myself getting angry and bitter over the changes happening in society. Soon, I'll become the stereotypical angry old conservative. Given the nature of politics, power and money, the longer you are on top, the harder it is for the new generation to remove you. Do you really want a gerontocracy? I want to make my mark in my career, raise balanced functional kids, accumulate enough wealth to bequeath to them and then DIE in contentment. Mankind thrives on the random re-assortment of genes and on the new generation overturning the old. Give us immortality and we will stagnate.

    23. Re:The Sanctity of Life by Forty+Two+Tenfold · · Score: 4, Insightful

      will likely live for a very... very long time...

      "People want to live forever, but they don't know what to do with a cloudy Saturday afternoon." — Don't really know who.

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    24. Re:The Sanctity of Life by Kjella · · Score: 1

      When it's time for me to go, I'm going out kicking and screaming with every bionic body part science has to offer.

      And while you're busy researching every option to prolong your life and recovering from bionic implant surgery other people will be busy living. And when you die like everybody else you may have won on quantity but not on quality. I don't live nearly as healthy as I should if I was trying to maximize my life span, I'd eat less junk, exercise more, drink less alcohol and whatnot. It's not like I party like the sun won't rise in the morning either, but it's a balance between living in the present and not screwing up my future too much. And shit still happens to people, quote me statistics but there's no guarantee I personally won't be the one dying some disease or injury or whatnot. Every time I get in a car I take a little extra risk I might die in a car accident, but you can't stop living to stop dying. So when I get there on my deathbed I hope I can say it's been fun while it lasted, peace out.

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    25. Re:The Sanctity of Life by SETIGuy · · Score: 1

      I'm not sure why this article is even on Slashdot. Is there any evidence supporting this contention that physicians get less care, or is this just a doctor telling us how much better doctors are than everyone else and how we should strive to be like doctors. I've known two doctors who died of cancer in their forties and both went kicking and screaming, taking every last shot medicine would allow and some that had no shot in working and would at best provide days of painful life in a hospital bed. Two isn't a statistically significant sample, but it's more of a sample than Ken Murray gives us.

      I think it's likely that Dr. Murray is just making things up in hopes that his patients will chose to die quicker than they currently do.

    26. Re:The Sanctity of Life by mikael · · Score: 1

      Even then, the doses of morphine will be so strong they will either make you delirious or give you severe organ damage and put you in a coma.

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    27. Re:The Sanctity of Life by Orphaze · · Score: 1

      That is a nice sentiment, but it is clearly spoken by a young person who has never dealt with real illness or pain.

      I'm for Science and Medicine as much as much as the next guy, but there are many, many diseases and ailments that are far worse than death, with only temporary solutions that are often worse.

      So, let me know if you'd rather have invasive surgery and/or chemotherapy for an extra month of "life" (but not as you know it, Jim) when push comes to shove. Me, if I'm lucky, I'll say my goodbyes while I'm lucid and relatively pain free, then end it myself with pride.

    28. Re:The Sanctity of Life by Ihmhi · · Score: 2

      Even by European "awesome healthcare" standards, something like that would count as elective surgery. By the time it's considered standard practice it would be cheap enough that it would be as much of a non-issue as someone getting an organ transplant or a laceration sewn up.

    29. Re:The Sanctity of Life by dwpro · · Score: 1

      susan ertz :) been my sig for a long time.

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      Millions long for immortality who do not know what to do with themselves on a rainy Sunday afternoon. -- Susan Ertz
    30. Re:The Sanctity of Life by demonlapin · · Score: 1

      You truly have no idea what you're talking about. Spend some time with pancreatic cancer or Huntington's chorea patients in hospice. There are fates worse than death.

    31. Re:The Sanctity of Life by Fjandr · · Score: 1

      I do know, and have faced the situation. And I vehemently disagree with the "going out kicking and screaming with every bionic body part science has to offer."

      Facing death lying in a hospital bed on massive amounts of narcotics is not how I want to die. It is absolutely terrifying to consider being in that position again.

    32. Re:The Sanctity of Life by remote_wsx9 · · Score: 1

      You seem to misunderstand the alternatives here. People aren't choosing to die rather than live forever and colonize space. They are choosing to die rather than spend a decade or two lying in bed, shitting themselves, confused and frightened by a world they no longer have the cognitive ability to interpret, while they are given food and medication through a surgical hole in their stomach.

    33. Re:The Sanctity of Life by remote_wsx9 · · Score: 2

      More and more these "excessive treatment" items are appearing, part of the big sell to save privatized care. All of it leads inevitably to denial of care by corporate interests, and an obligation to die. The "Fine by me, as long as you pay for it all yourself" attitude expressed as "cost savings" for care deemed fuitile by insurance industry bean counters. This is the documented reality of healthcare for a profit. In the long run, the 1% will buy their own, the rest will be given a bed in which to die, just do the responsible thing and don't wait too long, there is a long line.

      I noticed a couple of errors in your post, so I went ahead and fixed them. Hope you don't mind.

    34. Re:The Sanctity of Life by cavebison · · Score: 1

      When it's time for me to go, I'm going out kicking and screaming with every bionic body part science has to offer.

      That's not going to help you much when you have dementia at 90, or 120 if you're lucky. Good luck enjoying life in an incoherent mental swamp until your neurons give out.

      Yes, we're running out of room, but there's always room in the rest of the solar system. The meek shall inherit the earth, the brave shall inherit the stars. Have fun dieing.

      Ha! Love the optimism, but get real. By the time we manage transporting people en masse to another planet, even the Moon, and constructing some kind of place to live that not only scientists could put up with for a few months, our civilisation will have collapsed from resource depletion.

      We're running out of everything as it is. Do you think we have the resources to start a human colony on another planet? How does it get built? How do we get materials there? Without atmosphere, how are we protected from solar radiation? Meteorite impacts? In low gravity, how does our body cope in the long term? Give everyone a personal gym? What about the psychological and health effects of being indoors, never seeing sky, being in the sun or walking outside? Do we all get $multi-million pressure suits or 3D artificial environments to play in?

      Nobody knows what being born on another planet would do to a growing body, let alone the foetus itself. It simply may not work. And what about other animals? Imagine living without seeing birds, dogs or cats ever again.

      Oh, and one other little thing - where does the water come from?

      I laugh when people talk about colonising the Moon or Mars, let alone other planets. Never read a single realistic appraisal of it. It's always spoken of in vague terms, because nobody knows how it would really work.

      And in the end, it just sounds like people like you use this vague dream as an excuse to do whatever you want to this planet, which is the only one we have. It's not brave to avoid your responsibilities, it's cowardly. Trash the place and run away. That behaviour is as meek as it comes, baby.

    35. Re:The Sanctity of Life by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      That's not what this is about. This is not about people who can kick and scream. They have life left in them.

      There is a difference in trying to reverse a reversible illness and return someone to the state they were in before that illness, and trying to prolong a life for the sake of that life being longer. We all have to die sometime. We cannot reverse most disease - we can't cure most cancers, we can't make you young again, we can't reverse degenerative diseases. Even the stuff we can treat is very limited, with the exception of some trauma and infections.

      This is about acceptance of natural death.

      What is done to a large number of the dying now is awful. Our society would rather crush gran's chest and have her die slowly and painfully without a chance to say goodbye because we pretended it was going to get better when we knew it wasn't, rather than man up and accept that death is a part of life and that your guilt at not visiting your ageing relative is not nullified by saying 'keep her alive at all costs'.

      Our society makes these decisions poorly for all sorts of reasons, but pretending your loved one will never die will not stop it happening, nor will jumping on their corpse.

      *Emergency doctor, increasingly having to discuss this with relatives because the inpatient teams often seem to lack insight into the well-recognised mortality rates of a hospitalisations for many conditions in the institutionalised elderly. I love a well oiled resuscitation on a critically sick patient - and I don't care how old they are. But the overreaching principles of what I do mean that providing a violent end instead of a peaceful one is unethical and wrong. I wouldn't have it for myself or my family. And even though the conversation with the family might be hard, it's still the right thing. The big question is not what the family want, but what would the person want if they could speak for themselves?

    36. Re:The Sanctity of Life by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Given the amount of comments, I doubt anyone will ever read this. I was diagnosed at 40 with a tumor and given 6 months. After some chemo that made me feel really diminished. I quit all the hoopla. I had babies! I thought, well if I can get along just a bit more without those awful drugs and forget the surgery that would take the rest of my 6 months. I didn't tell anyone until long after my due date had past. The first day I stepped out into the sunshine and breathed the good air was the morning of 9/11. I can't even explain the irony. It really pissed me off. I resolved to just love my family till the end. Figured I stash some heroin or something to end it neatly if it got ugly. It never did. Just got better. Tumor shrunk to doctors astonishment. My kids are teenagers now. Beautiful, wonderful people. I love my wife more than ever. Ten years now with my time bomb. I survived, like Harry Potter, the boy who lived! I'm not religious. Just lucky, I guess. I mean I fore go the usual treatment because it steals my time from me and I live anyway (for now). So many others have died, no matter how hard they fought. My friends and family among them.
      I throw in the towel just to enjoy the very last bit and I'm still here despite it. I don't have any money and my job really sucks. I work with stunted egos with tiny little minds. My car is an old piece of crap but it runs. I don't buy clothing if its not on sale.
      Other than the loves of my life, the very best medicine is a really good cup of coffee, the chicken cacciatore at Piccini's, looking at women, camping on the beach, fishing with my wife at night on a full moon, upland hunting with my son, good conversation with strangers, a cool breeze on a hot day and museums.
      Maybe I'll try the life extending treatments the next time around. I just had a couple of beers though and they're working pretty good!
      Don't get all hung up on medicine. Don't fear death. Enjoy the small stuff and ignore the assholes!

    37. Re:The Sanctity of Life by Charliemopps · · Score: 1

      I have... and worse. My uncle was paralyzed from the neck down. He wasn't a pussy like the lot of you seem to be. He figured out how to light his cigarettes using a lighter from a grill, and would chain smoke while watching nascar. He was in all kinds of pain, in and out of the hospital for years. Grow a pair, you're supposed to try and LIVE. So fucking what if it hurts... LIFE hurts, every day... we work our way through it and go on. I might get some horrible disease... so what, fuck that disease. I'm not rolling over, I'm not dieing just because lifes not worth living in your opinion. Life is worth living, even in pain, and I'll do it.

    38. Re:The Sanctity of Life by hahn · · Score: 5, Insightful

      When it's time for you to go, it's time for you to go. When it's time for me to go, I'm going out kicking and screaming with every bionic body part science has to offer. I don't care if it's "Natural" to die. I'm going to do my very best not to. We do not have to perish, science has the answers. Maybe it's a bit too early for us, but my kid... or my grand kid will likely live for a very... very long time... Yes, we're running out of room, but there's always room in the rest of the solar system. The meek shall inherit the earth, the brave shall inherit the stars. Have fun dieing.

      I'm a doctor myself and so I've been around a lot of death and disease - especially cancer. With all due respect, you won't really know what you'll do until you're faced with the actual situation. And what you will do depends ENTIRELY on your situation and your life experience. You're imagining a scenario where treatment results in a significantly longer survival with all your physical/mental abilities left intact and undamaged - essentially a cure. That's an easy choice. Unfortunately, this is NOT the case for many of the diseases that this author is talking about - particularly many types of cancer.

      Your post makes me think that you are young and have not yet had someone close to you suffer from a terminal disease. It is particularly naive to state "We do not have to perish, science has the answers." Life experience will eventually teach you that this is just flat out wrong. You are perhaps forgetting that sometimes, the price to stay 'alive' (heart beating, lungs breathing) means sacrificing your actual *life* e.g. going outdoors and enjoying the sunshine, eating your favorite foods, traveling someplace you've always wanted to see, having some beer with some old friends, etc.

      A slightly longer life is of little value if you end up living less. But perhaps you would make this choice regardless and that's fine too. Is it brave? After all, it's easy to be "brave" about something you haven't experienced. And I don't think it's braver than those who choose to accept their death and want to be able to do more with the time they have left.

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      "The only normal people are the ones you don't know very well."
    39. Re:The Sanctity of Life by qwak23 · · Score: 2

      I personally have no issue with dying. I know it will happen one day, regardless of what science may come up with. I have my preferred ways I'd like to go, as well as a few ways I don't even want to think about.

      That said, I think it would be awesome to be able to live greater than 100, 200 or even 300 years (assuming I'm still fully cognizant and able bodied).

      I'm currently in my 30's. The amount of technological change and advancement of scientific knowledge within that short time is absolutely mindblowing to me. I don't want to live longer because I'm afraid of dying, I want to live longer to see what tomorrow will bring.

      I understand that I will die one day, nothing lives forever. I understand that I will probably need to die one day as I will probably be more of a burden than anything else at some point. But that doesn't mean I have to want to die, and if science can give me a few extra years where I'm not a burden, then hell, why not?

    40. Re:The Sanctity of Life by ogdenk · · Score: 2

      I'm an atheist. Give me my year, a remote, a more comfy mattress, a metric f**kton of morphine and a list of braver doctors to call.

      I don't care if all I can do is shit from my nostrils while drooling and giggling. I don't care if I'm paralyzed from the neck down. It beats not living. I'm comfortable with the fact I'm going to die at some point (hell, could be tomorrow) but dammit, the doc better try everything and I mean EVERYthing. They aren't going to get paid to give up.

    41. Re:The Sanctity of Life by sjames · · Score: 3, Insightful

      Sorry, no giggling due to the agony. You can have the remote, but the odds are you won't be able to follow what's on TV even if you try. We can crank up the morphine until the pain stops but you won't likely last more than a day once that happens (as pain increases the effective and lethal doses of opoids approach each other. Eventually the effective dose exceeds the lethal dose).

      Sorry to be the bearer of bad news, but that's just the way it works.

    42. Re:The Sanctity of Life by gweihir · · Score: 1

      And another one that is going to die in agony due to stupidity. Have fun with that.

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    43. Re:The Sanctity of Life by gweihir · · Score: 1

      Well, as so common these days, these idiots cannot distinguish quality and quantity. Basically they are doing it to themselves.

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    44. Re:The Sanctity of Life by gweihir · · Score: 1

      The question here is why do doctors consent to doing that. In my book any doctor part of this should be rewarded with a few years in prison for torture of a helpless victim.

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    45. Re:The Sanctity of Life by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      , I'm going out kicking and screaming with every bionic body part science has to offer. I don't care if it's "Natural" to die.

      I'm highly interested in your lifestyle and your BMI. Even your qualifications in life.

      I would hate it to have people pig out all their lives, don't have proper respect for their body and have a team of scientists and social funds (money taken from my paycheque every month) to enable someone to continue his lifeline contrary to a destructive or even useless lifestyle. (eg. auto-sensory stimulation as sitting in front of screens to form their experience and ideas instead of providing added value for society)

      I think you should at least have some signification TO society in order to ask society to prolong your existence on personal request.

      Remember the drugaddicted Robot in Robocop ?

    46. Re:The Sanctity of Life by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Can you expand on the toxic mixture?

    47. Re:The Sanctity of Life by Jamie+Lokier · · Score: 2

      We stagnate unless we choose not to. You don't *have* to become a stereotypical angry old conservative. That's up to you. I choose not to.

    48. Re:The Sanctity of Life by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      The answer is simple: because the victim wants it. Just like with drugs, you get the first few years of your life for free. After that, it becomes an addiction.

      And besides, since when is it legal for a doctor to end the life of someone under his care? Even when done with written consent, doctors have been sued over it.

    49. Re:The Sanctity of Life by gweihir · · Score: 1

      We are not talking about ending life, we are talking about ending futile care. The life is ending itself, which is an inherent function. IMO administering futile care in the first place is highly immoral. Also note that we are talking about patients that cannot make their will known. If somebody still can, and they want to be tortured, that is their own sick decision. If they cannot, this becomes a problem.

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    50. Re:The Sanctity of Life by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

      Grow a pair, you're supposed to try and LIVE

      No you don't. You're supposed to procreate, then roll over and die. Failing that, you are supposed to protect your gene pool by protecting and/or providing for them. Not by burdening them. Lingering on in life when you're already done siring is nothing but selfishness.

    51. Re:The Sanctity of Life by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I'll take the year in hospital bed.
      Hospitals around here are fantastic, the food is great, the nurses are DAMN cute.

      I've suffered on and off for the past 8 years now, been in hospital 12~ times throughout those for about 1.5 weeks average.
      Not any longer only because I willingly left instead of staying longer than I "should" have because I'd rather not waste time and bed space. I spend 50% of my time in bed because of illness. (still exercise, don't worry too much)
      I could take a year in bed in constant pain, it's just another day to me.

      I'd happily sign up to have my brain slowly replaced with nanobot replacements for neurons to see what sort of effect is has on the conscious brain.
      I'd happily have my entire body chopped off and replaced with a tiny little super efficient robotic version that's about the size of a baby. We don't need chemical signalling for 80+%~ of our body when it could be done much better through stuff we have developed that is highly efficient and compact.
      I'd sign up for more research on artificial hearts. The heart is possibly the least efficient organ of the human body. It is a very well designed muscle, but it is incredibly weak compared to everything else. (including the brain, the heart gets weaker long before the brain suffers degenerative diseases usually associated with older age, and that natural degeneration can be fought off for the most part, unless it is of a disease form such as Parkinson's)
      Could kill me, likely will cause a blood clot like all our previous designs, but that pulseless heart just implanted recently has potential because of what it is made of. So fingers crossed it goes well.

      Humans don't need big, bulky bodies anymore, we have taken ourselves out of survival-based evolution with respect to other animals. (for the most part)
      Our only enemy now is infections and other humans.
      Our needs are beyond what evolution can give us in any reliable timescale.
      If we don't self-evolve, we will be stuck in this hellhole for another 100 generations. (if not wiped out due to a resource war between huge nations)

    52. Re:The Sanctity of Life by Alioth · · Score: 1

      Speak for yourself. On a cloudy Saturday afternoon, I just go on a Starcraft binge. Easy.

    53. Re:The Sanctity of Life by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      4 more months in agony beats eternity in non-existence.

    54. Re:The Sanctity of Life by Isao · · Score: 2
      Eventually the effective dose exceeds the lethal dose

      Except that in only a few countries are you able to go that far. Most places require you to stop short of the lethal dose and live in excruciating agony for as long a your systems (and technology) will support you. Have a nice day.

    55. Re:The Sanctity of Life by sjames · · Score: 1

      That's not the trade. You get 12 months of agony in a hospital bed or 8 months at home in relative comfort.

    56. Re:The Sanctity of Life by sjames · · Score: 1

      Like most of the responses, you're looking at a different tradeoff than the one I posited. Your choice isn't between 8 months of comfort at home vs 12 in agony at the hospital.

    57. Re:The Sanctity of Life by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      When it's time for you to go, it's time for you to go. When it's time for me to go, I'm going out kicking and screaming with every bionic body part science has to offer. I don't care if it's "Natural" to die. I'm going to do my very best not to. We do not have to perish, science has the answers. Maybe it's a bit too early for us, but my kid... or my grand kid will likely live for a very... very long time... Yes, we're running out of room, but there's always room in the rest of the solar system. The meek shall inherit the earth, the brave shall inherit the stars. Have fun dieing.

      I'm a doctor myself and so I've been around a lot of death and disease - especially cancer. With all due respect, you won't really know what you'll do until you're faced with the actual situation. And what you will do depends ENTIRELY on your situation and your life experience. You're imagining a scenario where treatment results in a significantly longer survival with all your physical/mental abilities left intact and undamaged - essentially a cure. That's an easy choice. Unfortunately, this is NOT the case for many of the diseases that this author is talking about - particularly many types of cancer.

      Your post makes me think that you are young and have not yet had someone close to you suffer from a terminal disease. It is particularly naive to state "We do not have to perish, science has the answers." Life experience will eventually teach you that this is just flat out wrong. You are perhaps forgetting that sometimes, the price to stay 'alive' (heart beating, lungs breathing) means sacrificing your actual *life* e.g. going outdoors and enjoying the sunshine, eating your favorite foods, traveling someplace you've always wanted to see, having some beer with some old friends, etc.

      A slightly longer life is of little value if you end up living less. But perhaps you would make this choice regardless and that's fine too. Is it brave? After all, it's easy to be "brave" about something you haven't experienced. And I don't think it's braver than those who choose to accept their death and want to be able to do more with the time they have left.

      man, is that ever the truth! My dad went downhill in his late 70's and ended up in a nursing home. When he died in his early 80's, he was on oxygen all the time, he couldn't read, he couldn't see the TV so he never used it, he got nebulizer therapy every day to prevent pneumonia, they put thickeners in his food so he wouldn't aspirate them, he lost most of his sense of taste, he could barely swallow food, he couldn't get out of bed on his own, he couldn't walk to meals without the help of a wheeled walker and several nurses - one with a belt around his waist and hers to keep him from falling, and another nurse pushing a wheelchair right behind him in case he couldn't make it the rest of the distance. He had to pee every two hours and medication didn't help. He couldn't go to the bathroom on his own, so he had to call a nurse any time he needed to go. He just laid in bed and slept most of the day, every day. He never wanted to go outside the last year or so, so basically the four walls of his nursing home room was the extend of his world.

      The family was sad to see him go, but on the other hand death seemed like a mercy to him.

      Who would want to live in that condition? There was nothing medical science was able to do for him except prolong his rotten existence.

    58. Re:The Sanctity of Life by jds91md · · Score: 1

      When it's time for you to go, it's time for you to go. When it's time for me to go, I'm going out kicking and screaming with every bionic body part science has to offer. I don't care if it's "Natural" to die. I'm going to do my very best not to..

      You are obviously a youngster. When you reach 60 or 70 years old, you will have seen illness, suffering, some recoveries, much misery, and death in your friends, your parents, perhaps your siblings, hopefully not your children. You'll have a totally different opinion about what your goals are and what you do and don't want done to achieve them both in life and in death. We doctors don't have to wait decades to see this play out in life to learn it ourselves. We deal with it every day. You'll see. Be patient, remain open-minded. -- Josh (M.D.)

    59. Re:The Sanctity of Life by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      And don't forget, even treatment that isn't meaningful pays off in the US system, if you're a doctor, hospital or pharmaceutical company. There's no downside for them as long as they can find some way to get your insurance company to pay for it-- and providers make it their business to know how to do that.

    60. Re:The Sanctity of Life by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Spoken like someone who doesn't know what they're talking about. As a physician I agree with the OP having seen all the futile care I'd ever want. Your "kicking and screaming" is generally painful and invasive with the end result ending up drooling and unresponsive on artificial feeding +/- ventilatory support.

    61. Re:The Sanctity of Life by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Theres plenty.... and i mean plenty... room left on earth. I dont understand these people that are cryingabout over population. Theres so many places that arent inhabited here on earth that could be.

    62. Re:The Sanctity of Life by AthanasiusKircher · · Score: 1

      Why? I am now in mid 30's and I find myself getting angry and bitter over the changes happening in society. Soon, I'll become the stereotypical angry old conservative.

      You do realize you have a choice, right? There are lots of bad things happening all the time, but surely there are some changes that you might think are good? It's all a matter of perspective. If you're cynical and pessimistic about the future, chances are you'll make yourself unhappy.

      Given the nature of politics, power and money, the longer you are on top, the harder it is for the new generation to remove you. Do you really want a gerontocracy?

      We already have one, from your description. Or, rather, we have one at some high levels of business and government. On the other hand, when older people do get thrown out of jobs or power (which all of them do, eventually), they often have a lot of trouble getting back into the game. Heck, if you're older than about 40 or so and want to make a career change or want to jump into a new position and work your way up, it's often difficult to find a business who will let you, even with at least 25 years of productive work ahead of you.

      Of course, as technology increases and we find ways to combat old age, there will be social problems that arise, but we're a long way from a situation where all the old people are the only ones that matter. In fact, the trend seems to be going younger for the most influential generations and has been for quite a few years, after many years when it was trending toward older and older influence (as life expectancy increased).

    63. Re:The Sanctity of Life by Raenex · · Score: 1

      But you came out of it. That's always the big question -- when to give up hope. My grandfather died in agony, but still fighting till the end.

    64. Re:The Sanctity of Life by Fjandr · · Score: 1

      Yes, because in my case there was hope. The issue is when there is none, which is what the article is about. There are many situations, usually with the elderly, where there is absolutely no possible recovery of quality of life.

      There are many cases where it is absolutely crystal clear to anyone rational that there is zero chance of living your final days in anything but agony.

      My point was, I've been there, and in a situation where there existed no hope of recovery I would sooner die than be given a couple more days (or greater) with nothing to look forward to but pain and barely lucid consciousness.

    65. Re:The Sanctity of Life by Fjandr · · Score: 1

      Let me put it another way: Had I reached the point where my liver failed there would have been zero chance of recovery (which would equal zero quality of life). There was no big question of when to give up hope. It's frequently never a question, at least for those who are rational. Even in a narcotic fog, I was easily capable of grasping exactly where the line was. Just because I didn't end up crossing it doesn't mean it wasn't obvious where it was.

    66. Re:The Sanctity of Life by mspohr · · Score: 1

      Cancer treatment chemotherapy is designed to kill cancer cells but these are not much different than normal cells so they make you sick as a dog.
      Antibiotics and other drugs are less toxic but have side effects..

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    67. Re:The Sanctity of Life by Phoghat · · Score: 1

      Son, been there, done that with too many friends and relatives. Some really good friends died from complications of AIDS and believe me when I tell you some begged me to end their lives. It isn't doctors giving up, but doing their damndest to keep people alive when there is absolutely no hope of survival, and sometimes survival hurts like hell.

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    68. Re:The Sanctity of Life by Phoghat · · Score: 1

      When you're old and tired and in pain you may well have an entirely different outlook than when you're healthy and strong.

      Hell, you don't even have to be old. A 25 year old person with Scarposi's Syndrome is usually ready to go then and there.

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    69. Re:The Sanctity of Life by joggle · · Score: 1

      That's not worse. I saw a guy with Lou Gehrig's disease (a friend of my boss). He could only make a grunting noises and move his eyes, yet his brain worked as well as ever. He was completely trapped within his body with almost no way to communicate to the world. He was also in enormous pain all the time because of a problem that formed with his neck due to it not being properly stabilized for months.

      My boss was with him once. The guy started making noises and it took a few minutes for my boss to get over to him. He didn't know what was wrong and was trying to tell by just looking at his eyes. He then looked over him and found that a large spider had crawled onto him. The guy was terrified of spiders but couldn't do anything while watching one slowly land on him then crawl around.

      He needed 24 hour care and was costing his family a fortune while 'living' in this state. Rather than waiting for his lungs to stop working, he opted to have his feeding tube removed so that he could die. Nobody blamed him at all. It was terrible for his family and friends watch him living such a torturous existence and it was obviously terrible for him.

    70. Re:The Sanctity of Life by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      "When it's time for me to go, I'm going out kicking and screaming with every bionic body part science has to offer."

      Despite your comment's +5 rank, it's clear that you're just young and ignorant on the subject at hand - and you can't even spell "dying" to boot.

    71. Re:The Sanctity of Life by NewYork · · Score: 1

      And we should never ignore the side effects of medications https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Antidiabetic_drugs#Comparison

    72. Re:The Sanctity of Life by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I think when you have watched someone you love, SUFFER tremendously until the very last second, then you will have a different outlook on this. Take it from someone who has gone through this TWICE. Also, I have no intention of going out 'kicking and screaming', due to my own condition, I will graceously accept the time when it comes. You don't have to be OLD or in PAIN to have a healthy outlook on acceptance of death! There are several wonderful books out there that you would really benefit from reading about this subject.

    73. Re:The Sanctity of Life by Anonymus · · Score: 1

      That may be true for a lot of people, but I haven't been bored since I was a kid a couple decades ago... and even then, it was only really complaining "I'm bored" and then heading to do one of the millions of things I enjoyed doing.

      I've got so much work, so many hobbies, so much to read and watch, and and so many future hobbies that I could live another hundred years and never get bored. Even when I'm stuck in a waiting situation with nothing to do, my own thoughts can keep me busy for at least a couple days.

  3. I want to die peacefully in my sleep like my Dad by Kenja · · Score: 5, Funny

    and not screaming in terror like the passengers in his car.

    But all kidding aside, I agree that the so called "futile care" exists for the patients loved ones and not the patient themselves.

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  4. This is what's wrong with private healthcare. by Gordonjcp · · Score: 0, Troll

    In the US, healthcare isn't about getting people better, it's about maximising profits. So, on that basis, it's perfectly okay to keep people alive and suffering terribly as long as there's still a few dollars to be squeezed out of them. Patient dignity and welfare doesn't come into it - the hospital administrator needs a new Jaguar!

    1. Re:This is what's wrong with private healthcare. by DigiShaman · · Score: 2

      Ok, and how do you propose we fix it? Should the medical profession community be forced to absoborb the insane cost of education only then be forced to accept a salary they themselves do not want? Perhaps you feel they should be like monks or other holy men and not live for material wealth?

      I'll tell you what the problem is. It's the extremely high barriers to entry in the workforce for this industry. As it should be. But you can't skirt around an inconveniant truth of a concept known as supply and demand.

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    2. Re:This is what's wrong with private healthcare. by BoberFett · · Score: 4, Interesting

      And you think that profit is to blame? And not the fact that letting someone die with dignity would land a doctor in court? How about the fact that one doctor who merely attempted to help people who actually WANTED to die was hounded and imprisoned by the government?

      It's not a problem with profit, it's a problem with American society. We've become a bunch of coddled pussies, afraid of even the mildest of discomforts, much less death.

    3. Re:This is what's wrong with private healthcare. by Guy+Harris · · Score: 1

      In the US, healthcare isn't about getting people better, it's about maximising profits. So, on that basis, it's perfectly okay to keep people alive and suffering terribly as long as there's still a few dollars to be squeezed out of them. Patient dignity and welfare doesn't come into it - the hospital administrator needs a new Jaguar!

      Do you mean "private healthcare" as in "healthcare from non-government-owned institutions" or do you mean "private healthcare" as in "healthcare from for-profit institutions"? If the former, that's not, in the developed world, unique to the US. (I'm not sure the latter is, either, although other countries might have a higher percentage of government-run and private-but-nonprofit hospitals than the US.)

    4. Re:This is what's wrong with private healthcare. by jellomizer · · Score: 3, Informative

      I have worked in health care, I never saw such behavior.
      If the Dr. is profit motivated. This stuff usually isn't the best use. Too much expensive gear to run, patients who are mostly on Medicare getting a reduced rate for their services, then you will need to fight with the insurance companies and the documentation to try to get your money.
      Specialists is where they make money. The patient comes in (often with better Insurance) you cure their particular problem, schedule a few follow ups. And get them out and you get a bunch more people in. I haven't seen any doctor (and I have worked with really stupid, mean and greedy ones) that would allow a patient to suffer just to make extra money.
      For these cases it is often the family trying to extend the life of their love ones or there a request to be kept alive. If the Doctor lets them die, then they get law suits.

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    5. Re:This is what's wrong with private healthcare. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

      [quote]Patient dignity and welfare doesn't come into it - the hospital administrator needs a new Jaguar![/quote] That has not been my experience. At all. I've watched a number of people pass away from long-term illnesses. When it became obvious that they were not going to get better, each person was presented with a number of options, including discontinuing care. In each case, the person requested that the doctors continue aggressively treating their disease.

    6. Re:This is what's wrong with private healthcare. by ZigMonty · · Score: 4, Interesting

      The entire western world bar the united states solved that problem decades ago (hint, doctors here aren't poor). Why is it that Americans think every problem is theirs and theirs alone? Is it that you think you are so advanced that no one could possibly have faced these problems before? Serious question. Those of us on the outside watching these debates go back and forth can't help but go WTF?!

    7. Re:This is what's wrong with private healthcare. by jd · · Score: 1

      The patient only has to be legally alive. I would be astonished if hospitals didn't add the occasional day, week, month or decade to a patient's death certificate date in cases where hospitals thought they could milk the insurance company and/or government for a little bit longer.

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    8. Re:This is what's wrong with private healthcare. by CanHasDIY · · Score: 4, Insightful

      Ok, and how do you propose we fix it?

      Couple of ideas:

      1) Ban pharmaceutical company reps from hospitals.
      2) Limit hospital administrator pay to the median salary of their employees.
      3) Criminalize the practice of outrageous markup on medical procedures and equipment; The one time I had surgery, I was charged full retail price for every implement present in the OR at the time, as well as $25 for the fucking Sharpie they drew on me with... and they wouldn't even let me keep the tools (scalpels, forceps, etc.) I payed for!

      Should the medical profession community be forced to absorb the insane cost of education only then be forced to accept a salary they themselves do not want?

      If so, that would put them more in line with the real world in terms of compensation versus cost of education. Do you think they deserve a better post-college shake than the rest of us, simply by virtue of the fact they chose to spend more on said education?

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    9. Re:This is what's wrong with private healthcare. by MMC+Monster · · Score: 5, Informative

      Troll?

      I'm a physician that works for a hospital.

      I have the futility talk with patients and their families quite frequently. It kills a little bit of me when I hear a family say they want everything done. And a little more dies every time I run a "mega code", lasting over an hour trying to save someone who if by some miracle they survive, will have no quality of life and be dependent on machines for breathing and feeding and urinating (hemodialysis) for the rest of their life.

      "Where there's life, there's hope" is a common saying in the community I work in. Every time I hear that, I cry a little inside.

      I have never had a hospital administrator even hint at anything that would extend suffering. If anything, the administrators like us to call the local hospice services, to free up beds for individuals who will survive.

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    10. Re:This is what's wrong with private healthcare. by djbckr · · Score: 1

      My Uncle recently passed. He was 94. In the last weeks of his life, "they" did everything to keep him alive, when all he wanted to do was die. He even had a document (as I recall) stating he wanted to die, but they had to bring in a psychologist to determine if he capable of making that decision. He had no family, just a few nephews and nieces. I can't fathom why they would have done such a thing, unless it was to squeeze as much medicare as they could.

      It makes my blood boil every time I think about it.

    11. Re:This is what's wrong with private healthcare. by Kral_Blbec · · Score: 5, Informative

      This is so wrong. The majority of those providing care to the terminally ill know it is pointless and don't want to do it, even for the money. Their hand is forced by legal requirements and family members.There are plenty of other things to be done that will make a difference, but they get pushed to the back because they aren't considered "life-saving".
      Often the effort to extend the terminally ills life another day/week/month is written off and not paid back in full. The profit margin at that point of life is very slim. Even procedures that aren't lifesaving and are becoming more routine have slim margins. For example, there is no (ie, zip, zero, nadda) profit on total knee or hip replacements at the hospital where I work. We have to do them because of legal requirements, but insurance won't pay more than a certain amount.
      Profit could be maximized much better if the vast quantities of manpower and resources dedicated to saving those already dead were instead allocated to those who will live to pay.
      As a healthcare worker, it pisses me off to see people ranting about the costs/quality of the US healthcare system without knowing anything about it other than their own pocketbook.

    12. Re:This is what's wrong with private healthcare. by HornWumpus · · Score: 1

      I don't know about doctors.

      But dentists _all_ routinely torture their patients for extra money.

      80% of wisdom tooth extractions are unnecessary and are done to milk a patents dental plan.

      That's right: You suffer for a week. He or she makes an extra grand or two. Hell of a deal.

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    13. Re:This is what's wrong with private healthcare. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I don't think that is the case. Really. Doctors generally tell people the truth if they think they will listen. But people don't listen. People don't ask questions. People want to grasp that 2 more weeks of life.

      Is the pain worth seeing my kids for a few more months. Will that help them? Will the treatment leave the family in financial distress after your gone? These are questions that change things. Questions I hope I don't ever have to answer or even ask.

    14. Re:This is what's wrong with private healthcare. by Stainless_Steel_Mous · · Score: 2

      "Critical Care" by Richard Dooling nails this. $2-5K per day for ICU means that you do NOT let anyone code out if you can keep vital signs going in some fashion.

    15. Re:This is what's wrong with private healthcare. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

      Medical doctors should not help people die. Make some other profession up. Keep the medical doctors out of it. Let them pledge to preserve life. Let them also pledge to not force life on someone.

      Allow that other profession to be the people that setup the death drip or whatever they do to make that happen.

      Personally If i was going that route I would want a cool Rube Goldberg device to do the deed.

    16. Re:This is what's wrong with private healthcare. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

      Seeing as they brought in a psyschologist, I am guessing it was the law. They had to make sure he was sane by law and meanwhile couldn't let him die because that would probably get them in trouble also... so ya back to politicians.

    17. Re:This is what's wrong with private healthcare. by SydShamino · · Score: 5, Informative

      Your uncle needed someone with medical power of attorney to be there with him. It sounds like, had he chosen to arrange that with you, you could have helped him suffer less. I say this with the hope that anyone else reading this could arrange things now, before their elderly relatives aren't capable of signing such legal documents.

      My wife had medical POA with her 94-year-old grandfather when he got sick and died in 2010. She literally had to sit by his bed to be there when a random doctor would come in and try to intubate or give him something the legal paperwork he'd signed years ago said he would refuse, and she had to tell the doctor NO and wave the POA and No Heroic Measures paperwork at him. She had to do the same thing when the social workers would come by to try to plan his treatment. each new care provider would make or take a photocopy of all the paperwork. (My wife had like 40 copies made.) This took a few weeks until eventually he was transferred to hospice. Even there one of the regular care nurses was furious when they stopped all treatment. In this case, though, the hospice nurse told the regular nurse to STFU and stay out of the way while my wife watched her grandfather die.

      With a medical POA and No Heroic Measures paperwork, not only would the paper exist but there would be a family member there with the legal authority to enforce it.

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    18. Re:This is what's wrong with private healthcare. by tibit · · Score: 1

      I think that both medical insurance and all medical service providers should be, by law, forced to be non-profits.

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    19. Re:This is what's wrong with private healthcare. by blackraven14250 · · Score: 1

      I got them done after I had pain, not before, even though they had been impacted for 2-3 years. They weren't an oral surgeon, and couldn't have done it just to milk an insurance plan as a result.

    20. Re:This is what's wrong with private healthcare. by tibit · · Score: 1

      I had it done, and I'd hardly call it torture. I didn't suffer for a week. Hell, I didn't even suffer right after waking up from the surgery either (I opted for general anesthesia). There was some discomfort, I couldn't exactly start munching on nuts or muesli right after, but with good painkillers I was essentially pain-free.

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    21. Re:This is what's wrong with private healthcare. by Rockoon · · Score: 1

      In the US, healthcare isn't about getting people better, it's about maximising profits.

      I have investigated this but could not find substantial evidence that the U.S. was significantly different from most other countries. That isnt to say that in the U.S. it isnt about profit, its to say that health care spending is surprisingly predictable simply based on the wealth of the people regardless of the country.

      Here is a graph of health spending vs GDP/Capita.

      The United States is right on the line with most everyone else, and those not near the line each have remarkable economic and political situations (oil rich nations, countries in political turmoil, bankrupt economies, etc..)

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    22. Re:This is what's wrong with private healthcare. by dumael · · Score: 1

      A $1000 dollars for a wisdom tooth extraction? I had one extracted in Ireland as a walk-in patient. No insurance mentioned, no PRSI slips shown.

      60 Euro. And that included an X-Ray to say, "Yes, that tooth is pretty much irrecoverable".

      And I probably could have gotten it performed cheaper outside the capital.

    23. Re:This is what's wrong with private healthcare. by frank_adrian314159 · · Score: 1, Insightful

      Ok, and how do you propose we fix it?

      Nationalize it.

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    24. Re:This is what's wrong with private healthcare. by Livius · · Score: 1

      The profit motive is the worst part, but number two is technology.

      Today we have technology to perform literally unlimited testing, procedures, experiments, etc. Rationing health care is a scary notion with terrible openings for abuse, but spending unlimited money is just not viable.

      Cost effectiveness is one side of it. The article addresses another, which is the cost in dignity and the opportunity costs of trying everything when there is a small but non-zero chance of success.

    25. Re:This is what's wrong with private healthcare. by Maxwell'sSilverLART · · Score: 3, Interesting

      Do you think they deserve a better post-college shake than the rest of us, simply by virtue of the fact they chose to spend more on said education?

      Yes. They invested more time, effort, and money, so they deserve at least the opportunity to have a better return on that investment.

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    26. Re:This is what's wrong with private healthcare. by _0xd0ad · · Score: 1

      Either the dental office was being heavily subsidized by the government, or it was being heavily subsidized by milking the insurance companies of patients who did have insurance. No way could they afford to see and treat you for €60.

    27. Re:This is what's wrong with private healthcare. by SETIGuy · · Score: 4, Insightful

      Should the medical profession community be forced to absoborb the insane cost of education only then be forced to accept a salary they themselves do not want? Perhaps you feel they should be like monks or other holy men and not live for material wealth?

      I absorbed similar cost and took years longer in my education in order to earn one third what a doctor makes. I did it because it's what I wanted to do. There's nothing about cost or training time that entitles you to a high salary. The salaries in medicine are high because the medical profession controls the number of doctors that are trained each year. That number is kept artificially low. If a public university wants to start a medical school, it's other medical schools that will lobby against it. It harms their ability to keep costs high while they reject most of the capable applicants.

      If your doctor went into medicine to make money, do you really want that guy to be your doctor? I'd rather have one that wants to be a doctor and doesn't give a damn about the money.

    28. Re:This is what's wrong with private healthcare. by hrvatska · · Score: 4, Insightful

      In the US, healthcare isn't about getting people better, it's about maximising profits. So, on that basis, it's perfectly okay to keep people alive and suffering terribly as long as there's still a few dollars to be squeezed out of them. Patient dignity and welfare doesn't come into it - the hospital administrator needs a new Jaguar!

      In my opinion it's not hospital administrators that keep people alive indefinitely, it's patients and their families. I base this on what I've heard from my wife, who has been an oncology nurse for 37 years in a variety of hospitals. She's literally cared for hundreds of people as they were dying. Many were her patients for weeks and months and she got to them and their families quite well. There are just some people that even when told there's no hope still want everything done. Either they can't let go or they think they're the one who will experience a miracle. My wife has not seen a miracle in 37 years. If a person is not a DNR - Do Not Resuscitate - if they code it sets in motion an incredibly expensive process to revive and stabilize them. All so they can die in the ICU in a semi-lucid state a week later. She's had any number of people tell her they never would have pressed for all the care and the DNR status if they thought it would end like it did. They were told, but they couldn't accept it. On occasion she's had to deal with angry relatives who want to know why more couldn't have been done.

      One thing she's noticed is that people who are the most reluctant to let go tend to be the most religious. Not always, but more likely. They have faith that God is going to deliver a miracle. They've prayed and they've heard it can happen. I've always wondered why they think God needs the intervention of all that medical technology to work a miracle. One time she was caring for a woman who was dying. Her husband and brother would show up daily to pray at the woman's bedside. One evening they asked if they should be asking for God to rescue specific organs. One of the reasons I couldn't do my wife's job is I would have started laughing at that point. My wife didn't. She thought about which organs were failing and suggested they pray for the kidneys. The husband and brother set to praying for the kidneys. Before leaving the room my wife noticed that the catheter tube was kinked. She unkinked the line and urine started flowing into the bag. The husband and brother heard the trickle of urine flowing into the bag, but they were unaware why it started flowing. They were sure God had answered their prayer. My wife didn't have the heart to tell them her role in the miracle. They prayed and prayed, but no other organs were rescued.

      So, while I'm sure there are cases of mean cruel hospital bureaucrats keeping people on life support just for profit, in most cases I think think it's the patients and their families. Oh, and my wife, she's a saint.

    29. Re:This is what's wrong with private healthcare. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Too true. In my town.. A small and dieing manufacturing town, the nurses drive toyota compacts, the doctors drive toyota SUV's, and the non-doctor hospital administrator drives a Jaguar. The non-doctor Hospital manager drives a BMW.. As does his office assistant....

      But hey.. Medical costs HAVE to go up 20% a year... They just have to.
      Oh, that means grandma is going to die and her grandkids will have to go bankrupt the first time they have a major medical issue?
      Someone has to pay for that Jag..... And it sure as hell is not going to be the person driving it.

    30. Re:This is what's wrong with private healthcare. by dumael · · Score: 2

      Really?

      http://www.irishdentist.ie/news/news_detail.php?id=3969

      Mind you this was a walk-in procedure, not an impacted tooth or anything. And it definitely wasn't subisidized by the Irish government (that's where you get a discount for paying PRSI). Which appears to have been cut.

      Leaching indirectly off insurance companies? That'd be interesting given the VHI tend to refund costs of low priced stuff to the you directly afaik.

    31. Re:This is what's wrong with private healthcare. by drooling-dog · · Score: 1

      They invested more time, effort, and money, so they deserve at least the opportunity to have a better return on that investment.

      So... A good return on investment is an entitlement now in capitalist economies? Would you care to buy my house?

    32. Re:This is what's wrong with private healthcare. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      But you have it all wrong. The costs do NOT come from the doctors for the most part. That is just wrong.
      Doctors and surgeons have had (barring very high end cosmetic, brain, and heart surgeons on the coasts) , basically the same socioeconomic status for the last 50 years. In any given town the doctors were near the top in the town, with one of the nicer houses in town, one of the nicer cars, and took nicer vacations than most, but they never really made much more than 3x the average income in the town. When my dad was a kid the doctors made about 60k a year, and the average in the area was around 20K a year.

      THIS HAS NOT CHANGED AT ALL.
      Doctors, nurses, janitors, all the rest still make about what they made decades ago adjusted for inflation, just like almost everyone else in the country.

      What DID change is that instead of the hospital being run by a actual practicing (though not as often) doctor, or a Catholic priest, run as a non-profit, it is now a for-profit, run by a MBA, who with all the golf needs to hire another MBA to do the 'day to day', who with all the golf needs to higher a assistant working on their MBA, who with all the MBA and golf classes needs to hire a couple other people to help with more day to day....

      Oh, and who is that hooker in a business suit in the waiting room?.... Oh, that is Debbie, from Glaxo-Pfeiser-Drug-Pusher inc. "Want to do lunch? I'll pick up the tab. I want to talk to you about replacing effective cheap therapies with known interactions and risks with our newest expensive drug that is no more effective and has almost no track record. Also, I'll suck your cock."

      What DID change is that we now need as many insurance claim processors as nurses.

      The Doctors and nurses are not the problem at all.
      Look, between myself and my company we pay $18,000 a year just in insurance premiums for my family.
      I have a HSA with a $4,000 deductible, so my yearly is as much as $22,000 a year.
      My dad, sister, grandfather, and a few aunts and uncles all pay just about the same.
      Together just myself and the immediate family on my fathers side (we talked this out last thanksgiving) have INSURANCE costs of over $250,000 a year.
      That's for 11 people/families. And none of us actually (thank god) use more than a few thousand a year in actual services.

      Think on that? How on earth is this possible?
      We should just all drop out.. we could hire our own personal general practitioner at $150,000 a year, they would not work more than a hour a week on average with only 11 family's to take care of and we would sill have $100,000 a year to cover drugs and OR time... Or to save up in case someone needs something crazy like a transplant someday.. It's nuts. We could almost 'self insure'... And that is just 11 people???
      Nuts I say.

      Plus, almost every other industrialized country in the world has universal coverage with better life expectancy and it costs HALF as much as we spend in the US for worse care, and poor people dieing or wasting time in the ER. Obviously they have doctors, the doctors do a good job, and it does not cost as much.
      Plus, I bet their doctors work fewer 40 hour shifts and get proper days off from work.

    33. Re:This is what's wrong with private healthcare. by ideonexus · · Score: 1

      Actually, it is my personal experience that some doctors at least don't believe in "death with dignity." My grandmother had a living will that explicitly stated she should not be resuscitated, but when she had a stroke that should have killed her, the doctor ignored the living will and took drastic action to save her life. She survived, but was mostly paralyzed and incoherent. When we confronted the doctor about his disobeying her wishes, he replied that his job was to save lives, not care for the dying. When we took him to court, we didn't have a case because most states don't recognize living wills.

      My grandmother was a self-sufficient woman who spent her life amassing a legacy she wanted to leave to her family. It was anathema to her that the hospital would do everything in its power to keep her alive as long as possible in order to consume her life's work. She could have died with dignity on the night of her stroke; instead she spent months wasting away in a hospital bed suffering for over $1,000 a night. Luckily, we were able to get her into hospice care to prevent the hospital from taking other drastic actions to extend her misery.

      I saw the exact same greedy behavior just today as a doctor tried to pressure my father-in-law into going on kidney dialysis. The old man told the specialist he was just trying to make money off his illness and demanded that another nephrologist be brought in for a second opinion. That specialist arrived today, said the dialysis recommendation was premature, and other opinions from medical professionals we've gotten since this morning all seem to suspect that the first doctor was just trying to get another permanent patient who he could make thousands off of each month through their dependency on his treatments.

      I know many many wonderful doctors who are in the profession to genuinely help people, but there are also many who have the scruples of an MBA and are just in it for the dollar signs. That's why you always have to be on guard, always get second opinions, and always be aware of your rights as a patient.

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    34. Re:This is what's wrong with private healthcare. by joggle · · Score: 1

      There was an idea by a Republican congressman that was included in the original healthcare reform bill. The idea was based on what one hospital is already doing, which is to have doctors talk about end of life care with patients and their families so that their families could make informed decisions. Unfortunately, this was labeled 'death panels' and subsequently removed from the bill.

    35. Re:This is what's wrong with private healthcare. by Maxwell'sSilverLART · · Score: 1

      Read it again. This time for comprehension.

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    36. Re:This is what's wrong with private healthcare. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Troll?

      Quite. Anyone who wants to drag their indictment of the United States health care system into this pretty personal topic should recognize that they fail at life. Frankly, Gordonjcp (186804) is an asshole of the first order.

      I'm a physician that works for a hospital.

      I have the futility talk with patients and their families quite frequently. It kills a little bit of me when I hear a family say they want everything done. And a little more dies every time I run a "mega code", lasting over an hour trying to save someone who if by some miracle they survive, will have no quality of life and be dependent on machines for breathing and feeding and urinating (hemodialysis) for the rest of their life.

      I don't know if it is genetics, upbringing, or what, but in our family medical decisions are frequently based on quality of life, not on quantity. For our pets, for instance, we realized that while they could be cured to various degrees through surgery, it was cruel to cut open an 18 year old cat who will at the very least spend months being unable to walk, jump up on the counter, and do other things I am sure cats considered important. Keep the cat closed, let them live out their last few months happy, not a year miserable.

      Early in my uncle's downturn, we saw a sliver of hope, but made preparations regardless (get far-flung nieces and nephews to visit him in ICU, for example). The subsequent week, that sliver of hope that there would be improvement vanished. After conferring with a physician such as yourself, we asked that his breathing tube be withdrawn. We were lucky enough to see him off at his bedside. It was really the best possible outcome for him.

      I have never had a hospital administrator even hint at anything that would extend suffering. If anything, the administrators like us to call the local hospice services, to free up beds for individuals who will survive.

      Let me just add to this: the health care my uncle got was extraordinary. And all covered by insurance. We didn't get any pressure from anyone *at* *all* about either prolonging his life or ending treatment before we did.

      As a footnote, I have never in my nearly 20 years of being online been so upset at a troll that I had to hold back tears. If Gordonjcp really believes that his ideal system is more compassionate and fair than the U.S. system, so be it. If he wants to mischaracterize or flat-out lie about it to prove his point, fine. But his comment is not only wrong, it is brutal and unfair to those of us who have been there and done that. Deep down, he doesn't strive for the ideal of being compassionate and fair, he only cares about himself, just like a selfish and sadistic prick.

      We got your message, Gordonjcp. Now go away.

    37. Re:This is what's wrong with private healthcare. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I'm not questioning you, but that sounds a little different from my experience. My mother died three years ago, and there were no such issues. She had a simple "Do Not Resuscitate" bracelet on her wrist and that was it. There was no questioning once it was placed there. The doctors and nurses were helpful and compassionate with all of the decision making, and allowed us to move her out of ICU to a private room once the decisions were made. We were able to let her go in peace. There was talk of home hospice, but it was clear she wouldn't last very long once support was withdrawn, so a simple private room was good enough for the remaining time (initially expected to be a few hours, but actually ended up being about three days).

    38. Re:This is what's wrong with private healthcare. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      This is so wrong. The majority of those providing care to the terminally ill know it is pointless and don't want to do it, even for the money.

      I used to be married to an ICU nurse (she is now deceased, so I don't worry too much about someone find out who she was, but I'm still going to post anonymously) who told me about cases where families insisted on everything being done when it was pointless and even cruel. Occasionally they would take matters into their own hands and agree to "walk to the code." They would do everything required, but as slowly as they they could reasonably get away with.

    39. Re:This is what's wrong with private healthcare. by dcollins · · Score: 1

      "American Exceptionalism". We're in the lead, so everyone else must be behind us.

      Here are the current top two contenders to the U.S. Presidency attacking the sitting President because he "simply does not understand the concept of American exceptionalism": http://www.huffingtonpost.com/jerome-karabel/american-exceptionalism-obama-gingrich_b_1161800.html

      I assume that this is a feature of imperialism on the cusp of decline.

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    40. Re:This is what's wrong with private healthcare. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      The markup isn't the fault of the hospital, it's the fault of the patent office.

      Putting a rock on your guts to keep them in place literally costs the hospital $60. A rock, like one you get outside for free, but the patent stands and some asshole gets money when they put a rock on you. This is a cheap example. Hospitals spend tens of thousands of dollars on cheap, disposable plastic crap on every surgery because they have no choice. Tool A has a 10% better chance at saving your life than Tool B. Tool A costs 10x more than Tool B. Tool A will have to be used, or you will sue the hospital for all they have.

      Patent bullshit and malpractice prevention are the twins who force you to pay $13,000 to have a surgeon cut your toenails for you, not hospital greed, because the hospital is probably spending $18,000 to do it.

    41. Re:This is what's wrong with private healthcare. by dcollins · · Score: 1

      Thanks for sharing that.

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    42. Re:This is what's wrong with private healthcare. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      We're not neccessarily afraid. You see, if Grandma dies in a hospital, then I'm entitled to win fabulous prizes by taking the doctor to court!

    43. Re:This is what's wrong with private healthcare. by SETIGuy · · Score: 1

      Last week the nurses at a hospital near here went out on a one day strike. Their issue, they were being asked to contribute about $1200 a year to their health care costs the way everyone else working there does. Whenever a reporter asked, they would say it was about patient care and that they were striking for their patients. "Strikes are a last resort, but nurses will only strike if they want to make sure that patients have safe care every day." They had a one day strike a couple months ago and one of the replacement nurses accidentally (probably) killed a patient. Oops. The nurses strike typically two or three times a year until the hospitals cave to their demands.

      The average nurse's salary without overtime at those facilities: $138,000. Maximum non-overtime nurse's salary: $291,000. The median family income in the area: $46,000. The nurses don't see a connection between their salaries and increased health care costs. The doctors, of course, are independent contractors that set their own charges. You can be sure that they wouldn't be happy if a nurse could make as much as a doctor, so I'd guess $300,000 is the low end of their range.

    44. Re:This is what's wrong with private healthcare. by SETIGuy · · Score: 1

      Insurance companies were required to be non-profits. I think we have Reagan to thank for the wonders of the for-profit free-market entering health care.

    45. Re:This is what's wrong with private healthcare. by HornWumpus · · Score: 1

      Wisdom tooth extraction != tooth extraction.

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    46. Re:This is what's wrong with private healthcare. by SETIGuy · · Score: 1

      Here in the USA, especially in the larger cities, a wisdom tool extraction isn't handled by a dentist, but by an oral surgeon. The fees are exponentially proportional to the number of syllables. You'll need anesthesia for the process, so there's an anesthesiologist.

      When I needed by wisdom teeth out, the dentist said three were impacted and one was "bony impacted", and that it would cost about $700 per for an oral surgeon to remove them over the course of two or three visits and that I'd need pain killers for several days after each. I called my childhood dentist in a rural midwestern state and he said that didn't sound right. So I spent $500 on round trip airfare, went to my old dentist and he pulled them under Novocaine in less than an hour for $65 a piece. No general anesthesia. No stitches required. Pain was gone by morning and I got up early and went fishing.

      But I won't come out and say oral surgery is a scam. My childhood dentist has long since required, and I'll need a root canal, and my dentist will send me to an oral surgeon for that because dentists don't do that anymore, apparently.

    47. Re:This is what's wrong with private healthcare. by SETIGuy · · Score: 1

      In any given town the doctors were near the top in the town, with one of the nicer houses in town, one of the nicer cars, and took nicer vacations than most, but they never really made much more than 3x the average income in the town.

      You're telling me that doctors in say Oakland where the median household income is $46,000 are making no more than $138,000 per year? Which is weird, because in Oakland the average nursing salary is $138,000 per year. I'm calling bullshit on that one. No general practitioner in the Oakland metropolitan area would work for $150,000, with the exception of a few that specialize in serving the impoverished.

      I agree salaries aren't the entire problem. Salaries aren't the problem at all, they are a symptom. The problem is that lobbying organizations for doctors and nurses control the certification and education process, and they manipulate it to restrict the number of doctors and nurses in practice. The nursing lobby is especially adept at lobbying for minimum staffing regardless of hospital needs (increasing demand for nurses) while simultaneously making it harder to certify nurses or import them from out of state and lobbying for limits to what nursing aids can do (reducing supply). All in the name of "better patient care," of course. It's a recipe for rising salaries. Doctors limit their supply by making it impossible to open a medical school or increase enrollment. Know a promising young student? Well, he's not going to be a doctor, because there's no room for him here. Besides, he got an A- in Calculus his freshman year.

    48. Re:This is what's wrong with private healthcare. by trout007 · · Score: 1

      You are right but also the fact that there is such a thing as a prescription. The laws that make certain drugs only available by prescription in effect makes doctors gatekeepers to getting well. I have allergies and maybe once or twice a year it gets out of control and I get a painful ear/sinus infection. I usually try to tough it out but with all of the normal adult responsibilities I sometimes need an antibiotic and course of steroids. This has been going on every year of my adult life. But by law I am not allowed to go to the store and get the $10 in drugs I need. Instead I need to go to a doctor and pay a $30 copay and whatever the insurance company is billed to get better.

      An easy way to reduce healthcare costs is to eliminate prescription drugs. Also eliminate the FDA's ability to approve drugs. You own your body and should be able to take what you want. I would keep the FDA as an advisory board like UL. Drug companies can pay to have an FDA review the drug and put a seal of approval on it.

      By eliminating the FDA's approval process drugs would get to market much faster and you can get rid of drug patents. All the drug company would be responsible for was insuring the content of the drugs they produce is what is on the label similar to a food label. They wouldn't be responsible for side effects and that risk would be borne by the user. This is similar to food also. There are people with allergies that need to avoid certain foods. As long as the manufacturer lists the ingredients it is up to the user to decide if it is safe for them.

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    49. Re:This is what's wrong with private healthcare. by zippthorne · · Score: 1

      But.. if he paid for the tools, he should get to keep the tools. Surgeon's tools make good electronics tools, you know. Especially those locking forceps thingies.

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    50. Re:This is what's wrong with private healthcare. by Beeftopia · · Score: 1

      If your doctor went into medicine to make money, do you really want that guy to be your doctor? I'd rather have one that wants to be a doctor and doesn't give a damn about the money.

      In my experience, about a quarter of the doctors I've seen treated me like an assembly line object ("Get em in, get em out, next!"). The remainder seemed a bit more casual.

      Remember - doctors are people too, just like you and me. With bills to pay, mouths to feed and house. And desires to satisfy. Just like every other human. To expect the best people to do a difficult job like doctoring without demanding high compensation is not consistent with reality.

      Yes, one will find the occasional altruist or someone who really cares little for material trappings. But I submit they are very few and very far between and trying to build a system that works for everyone, patient and doctor, on a such an improbable individual, is doomed to fail.

      "A policy based on illusion will crash on the shoals of reality."

    51. Re:This is what's wrong with private healthcare. by trout007 · · Score: 1

      You a 100% wrong. The people we are talking about here have Universal Healthcare. It's called Medicare. And it's run by the government and everything.

      I see this as the problem. If the family was paying the bill you would see less extreme measures being taken.

      I'm curious how you solve this problem in your country since it is universal healthcare too? I assume the government just tells people it isn't covered and they should shut up and die.

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    52. Re:This is what's wrong with private healthcare. by superwiz · · Score: 1

      He said nothing about this problem being ours alone. He simply identified the problem and a natural solution to it. Basic care can be provided with much less training than we demand of health care providers. That's all.

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    53. Re:This is what's wrong with private healthcare. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Oakland itself might only have have a average income of $46,000, but Oakland is the 'inner city' of the 'bay area'.
      The bay area is basically one large city with artificial bureaucratic boundaries like Oakland, freemont, etc. I used to live there. If you can drive and see nothing but houses, 7-11's, and mcdonalds for miles and miles and the only way to know you are in another town is noticing a small 'welcome to *' sign, you know it is a megalopolis. One large city.
      The point? The average in the entire area is higher than in the 'inner city' of Oakland. A few minutes away (using BART) is San Jose.... Probably where many of the doctors who are not up in the hills live. Income there is almost $75,000 a year.
      * 3 is $231,000....
      And yes, That is around what they make. I knew a doctor in the area. Before she went into a specialty that is almost exactly what she was making.
      Sure, some probably make more like 4x or 5x the average. But they live in a dense area, and are making about the same as what doctors in dense areas (adjusted for inflation) were making 10, 20, 30 years ago. That's the point.
      When you take the boob job docs, and Steve Job's oncologists out of mix and adjust for inflation, they are making the same as they were 10 years ago, 20 years ago, 30 years ago. Yet the cost of health care goes up and doubles, and triples.
      It just makes no sense.

      Study after study has shown that after you adjust for inflation, everyone making less than $500K a year has had completely stagnant or even reduced wages over the last 30 years. Including doctors... Unless you make boobs bigger anyway.

      And, regardless of anything having to do with the need for more doctors or nurses, or the bureaucratic shit going on surrounding training and the like, the increases to the consumer have not come from the pay of doctors or nurses,, Because they are NOT getting payed significantly, if at all better than they were a decade ago.. Yet the cost for health care has DOUBLED between 1995 and 2006.... And then DOUBLED AGAIN between 2006 and now.... Do you think that money went to doctors and nurses?
      Do you think doctors and nurses are making double what they were in 2006? My sister is a nurse... She did not see any of this money... Neither did any of the doctors she works for.
      So where is the fucking $$. Where is it?
      It was stolen by non-doctor 'administrators' insurance company profits, and the drug and equipment makers.

    54. Re:This is what's wrong with private healthcare. by Rich0 · · Score: 1

      There are solutions that would actually work:

      1. Increase the supply of doctors by licensing more medical schools. Right now there are too few seats for doctors in schools and this leads to an artificial shortage. By all means maintain standards for graduation, but get more people into the system.

      2. Employ a triage system. Right now the medical profession basically involves doctors and everybody-else. There is no reason that the qualifications for somebody who screens kids for strep throat need to be the same as the guy treating some rare form of plague.

      Both would get more people into the system and drive down wages/costs. The best would still make the money they make now, but they would only work on cases that required their expertise. Most people don't need House, and they shouldn't have to pay for it. What would the cost of car maintenance be like if you had to pass the maintenance supervisor qualifications for an A380 in order to do an oil change on a Ford Focus? I don't want the 20 minute lube guy doing an engine rebuild on my car, but I don't want to pay for top-level expertise to remove one bolt and add the right amount of replacement fluid.

    55. Re:This is what's wrong with private healthcare. by daisybelle · · Score: 1

      Erm, how's about - as a society, we need doctors, just like we all benefit from everyone being educated generally. That implies (about as strongly as can be implied) that doctor's shouldn't have to pay anything to be trained. Then, they wouldn't 'have' to earn as much to pay off their student loans. Neither would teachers, accountants, engineers, journalists...

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    56. Re:This is what's wrong with private healthcare. by SETIGuy · · Score: 1

      I could have sworn you said three times the average income in town, not three times the average income in the gated development where they live. Sure, if you discount any area of Oakland that contains middle class or poor people, you'll get average incomes high enough to be 1/3rd of what doctors make. I see this problem in the Oakland hills, people who live there think that they are middle class because they are just like all the people that live around them. Many seem to have delusions that earning $250k per year and living in a $1.5M house is how everybody lives. Then again, people in much of the rest of the country making $45k and having a $300k mortgage on a house worth $100k think they are somehow part of the top 1% of earners.

    57. Re:This is what's wrong with private healthcare. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Interesting - I had never considered the economic effects of different surgeries on other surgeries. And I wonder if the reduced payouts by insurance companies and Medicare is convincing hospitals to crank up the bills on the under/uninsured to make up for lost profit opportunities, thus hitting the poor even that much harder.

    58. Re:This is what's wrong with private healthcare. by Slashdot+Parent · · Score: 1

      I've always wondered why they think God needs the intervention of all that medical technology to work a miracle.

      Well, I don't think anybody knows for certain how or if God works miracles on earth, or even if there is a God at all. But among many who believe, there exists a parable:

      A elderly religious fellow lived alone in a small house. He was listening to the radio one day when an evacuation order came in for his area due to an impending flood. The man said to himself, "I've been a pious man for all my life. I have nothing to worry about. God will save me if anything bad happens."

      An hour later, his neighbor rings the man's doorbell and says to the man, "This area is going to flood. We've been ordered to evacuate. Here, hop into my car. I'll take you to safety." The religious man considered this, and considered that the rains had already started, but replied, "I've been a pious man for all my life. I have nothing to worry about. God will save me if anything bad happens."

      Several hours later, it was really raining hard and his street had flooded. A rescue worker went past his house in a boat and ordered him to board to be taken to safety. The religious man considered this, but again replied, "I've been a pious man for all my life. I have nothing to worry about. God will save me if anything bad happens." The worker could not convince the man to come with him, so he went off looking for others.

      Several hours later, the flood waters and really risen. They had risen so high that the man had to climb onto his roof to avoid being swept away. Just then, a helicopter flew by, and the workers ordered him into the helicopter, but I'm sure you can guess where this is going. "I've been a pious man for all my life. I have nothing to worry about. God will save me if anything bad happens."

      After another hour, the man and his house are swept away, and the man drowns and ascends to the heavens. Upon meeting God, he says, "God, I've been a pious man all of my life. I've done everything that you told me to do. How come you didn't save me?" God replies, "I sent you a radio broadcast. I sent you a car. I sent you a boat and even a helicopter. What more were you expecting?"

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    59. Re:This is what's wrong with private healthcare. by SydShamino · · Score: 1

      Was your mother's husband alive at the time? The difference is probably due to different hospital policies, but I wonder if it also has to do with whether or not the spouse is the one making the decisions.

      I know when my grandfather's wife died in the early 1990s, he was allowed to make such a decision without being given shit by the doctors. However, it was a different hospital AND they were married, and being married carries all sorts of implied things including extra-strong medical POA.

      If your mother's husband wasn't there enforcing her wishes, and she wasn't deemed sane enough to have made the choices herself, then I would assume it comes down to hospital policy.

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  5. Futile care drives up insurance costs by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

    It's also a shame that "futile care" is what so many expect in near-end-of-life treatment. These costs can add up to significantly more than all the health care costs up to that point. So our insurance costs are loaded with the costs of futile care.

  6. Reminds me of people wanting to fix old computers by KatchooNJ · · Score: 1

    To put the IT spin on this... it somehow reminds me of when people show up with the 10 year old computer and want to see if it can be upgraded to last a bit longer. The IT professional will be fast to tell them to just bite the bullet and get a new computer already! They know when it is time to give up.

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  7. What about their children? by hsmith · · Score: 3, Interesting

    Of course physicians can make better informed decisions, they are pragmatic and know the results and outcome of disease

    But what about when their child gets sick? Do they make the same decisions then? It is one thing to make those decisions on your own, but what happens when it is applied to someone else you care for?

    I assume the results are different.

    1. Re:What about their children? by Applekid · · Score: 1

      Of course physicians can make better informed decisions, they are pragmatic and know the results and outcome of disease

      But what about when their child gets sick? Do they make the same decisions then? It is one thing to make those decisions on your own, but what happens when it is applied to someone else you care for?

      I assume the results are different.

      IANAD, but I would hypothesize that doctors in general are smart people, and that smart people are more likely to be driven by reason and logic than make futile emotional efforts.

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    2. Re:What about their children? by halivar · · Score: 2

      IANAD, but I would hypothesize that doctors in general are smart people, and that smart people are more likely to be driven by reason and logic than make futile emotional efforts.

      This is not true in the least part. Smart people are simply better at rationalizing their emotional decisions.

    3. Re:What about their children? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 5, Insightful

      I am a physician.

      I only take my children to another physician when I honestly think something is wrong with them. I argue with my wife constantly over it (I am not a pediatrician), as she wants them on antibiotics when they get the cold, etc. She wants to take them to a "real doctor". (FYI, I'm a cardiologist.)

      My son has some medical issues and needs close care, but I stay out of the way of his team, and most of them (possibly all of them) don't even know I'm in the health care field.

      I think you'll find my attitude towards my children's care to be fairly representative for my profession. Certainly it mirrors what I see in my colleagues and physician friends.

    4. Re:What about their children? by mixmastabinder · · Score: 1

      The point isn't that physicians make informed decisions, it's that the informed decisions are often not in favor of treatment. That's an interesting question you've raised though, and I'll bet you're right about the results being different.

    5. Re:What about their children? by brainzach · · Score: 2

      IANAD, but I would hypothesize that doctors in general are smart people, and that smart people are more likely to be driven by reason and logic than make futile emotional efforts.

      It is more likely that doctors just have more experience understanding the consequences of excessive treatment on patients.

    6. Re:What about their children? by JazzHarper · · Score: 4, Insightful

      I am the son of a doctor, the grandson of a doctor and the brother of a doctor. I can assure you, physicians usually make similar choices for their family members' care as they would choose for themselves.

      Unfortunately, they have to consider everyone else as a potential plaintiff.

    7. Re:What about their children? by brainzach · · Score: 1

      The prognosis of kids are usually better than the elderly so the results will be different.

    8. Re:What about their children? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      But what about when their child gets sick?

      As the son of a physician, let me tell you: the only time I was ever admitted to the hospital was after two days of constant vomiting, and that was only after my mother (who was a nurse) was worried that I had become dangerously dehydrated. I think I've had maybe two drugs prescribed for me in my entire life outside of that incident, and no, I wasn't particularly healthier than any other kid.

    9. Re:What about their children? by brainzach · · Score: 2

      My Dad is a physician and he is the same way. Never thought it was necessary to go to doctor growing up.

      Later I was diagnosed with leukemia, and he fought to get me the best treatment possible but I wouldn't consider any of the treatment I went through to be considered futile.

    10. Re:What about their children? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Your question would have been better phrased as "But what about when their mother/father gets sick?"
      The article doesn't really apply to children - most doctors would agree on going all out in 99% of unwell children.

    11. Re:What about their children? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      She wants to take them to a "real doctor". (FYI, I'm a cardiologist.)

      Wow... that's a cunty thing to say.

    12. Re:What about their children? by tibit · · Score: 2, Interesting

      Tell your wife about my wife. She was clinically dead for a short while because she took an antibiotic -- even though she did have a very painful bacterial sinus infection where taking that antibiotic was not out of line. Things got bad not due to a direct reaction to antibiotic, but due to a c-diff infection in her gut that got triggered, apparently, by the good bacteria getting decimated by the antibiotic. She can't take that particular antibiotic (nor its "cousins") anymore, because that problem seems reproducible. When it reoccured, we both saw knew what the symptoms meant and she could take the IV stuff to get rid of the c-diff (confirmed in both cases by stool cultures). C-diff, if you're unlucky, can well get you into septic shock, and from there it's a short walk to going into cardiac arrest.

      Never mind that even if you won't ever hit such serious complications, you're contributing to the MRSA problem by taking antibiotics unnecessarily. I do know that some people, if they're sick with upper respiratory viral stuff, may pick up secondary bacterial infections. But even so, you only take antibiotics when it's obvious that you in fact have a secondary infection. Viral stuff doesn't give shit about antibiotics, it's stupid to take them without a good reason.

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    13. Re:What about their children? by Toonol · · Score: 1

      They certainly can be better at rationalizing their emotional decisions, but I think it's obvious that there has to be some correlation between intelligence and intelligent decisions, or else intelligence would have no bearing on life and success. Since intelligence does tend to lead to a more successful life...

    14. Re:What about their children? by bwayne314 · · Score: 4, Interesting

      That's pretty much also my parents view toward my brother and myself (both parents are Docs).
      The only times i've been to a doctor outside serious injury was for mandated physicals and dental checkups.
      Now I work in healthcare as well, and don't feel the need to take meds for minor problems that will clear up on their own.

      -played in the mud my entire life
      -never understood neosporin and band-aids (although i did need to use duct tape and paper towels to halt profuse bleeding on one occasion)
      -never had an infection
      -I get a cold/flu maybe once every 3-4 years and i don't take anything for it.

      back to the original point

      -I am not afraid of death
      -I'm not going to need my organs once im dead
      -I'm not going to need a $20000 coffin once im dead

      When I die, take what you possibly can out of me, toss the rest into a pit in the ground, no need for the box, have a beer. <- that is how I want my funeral to go.

    15. Re:What about their children? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      As the child of a doctor, I can tell you this; I had better be at deaths door before I even think about asking for help on anything related to my health. A broken limb and blood spurting out doesn't count either - that's just a flesh wound and can be walked off. Flesh eating bacteria? Have an apple.

      If it's actually something serious with very obvious proof of that, there are no waiting lists and the best person in the field will be called in to fix it at 3am xmas day.

      I've also had it explained to me how and when CPR is to be done. If it's my family, I'm not allowed to start if more than 2 minutes has passed since they stopped breathing. Lie if I have to, but let them stay dead. If it's anyone else, 30 minutes of fruitless CPR prevents lawsuits.

    16. Re:What about their children? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      -I am not afraid of death
      -I'm not going to need my organs once im dead
      -I'm not going to need a $20000 coffin once im dead

      When I die, take what you possibly can out of me, toss the rest into a pit in the ground, no need for the box, have a beer. <- that is how I want my funeral to go.

      Huh, I kinda expected you would want to be cremated, rather than buried. Any particular reason for your preference?

    17. Re:What about their children? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Of course they are. It's one thing to inflict a painful treatment to a 10 years old child who might then go to live normlly for 70 more years than to inflict a painful treatment to a 90 years old who is going to die anyway two month later from old age.

    18. Re:What about their children? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Perhaps... however, I suspect that this isn't entirely true. Doctor's might be smart people but they are still people. People can suppress emotions pretty well but seeing as how doing everything possible to help an offspring's survivability is likely a strong evolutionary advantage, I think this one might be a lot harder to override. Kind of a very different situation here.

    19. Re:What about their children? by twebb72 · · Score: 1

      You supply the beer, and I'll sell your extra parts on india.craigslist.com to pay for the party.

    20. Re:What about their children? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      "-I get a cold/flu maybe once every 3-4 years and i don't take anything for it"

      You don't understand the immune system very well. A strong immune system produces a strong immune response - chances are you aren't being exposed to flu. If you get a minor cold or flu every 3-4 years, you have a weak response, and low exposure.

      I always chuckle at people who say "I never get sick, and when I do it's mild!". These people have weak immune responses..

    21. Re:What about their children? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Dude, pediatricians aren't stupid. We know when there's a caregiver who is in the health care field and can usually figure out that you're a physician even if you (thankfully) don't come to clinic declaring yourself as such.

    22. Re:What about their children? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      "-I get a cold/flu maybe once every 3-4 years and i don't take anything for it"

      You don't understand the immune system very well. A strong immune system produces a strong immune response - chances are you aren't being exposed to flu. If you get a minor cold or flu every 3-4 years, you have a weak response, and low exposure.

      I always chuckle at people who say "I never get sick, and when I do it's mild!". These people have weak immune responses..

      I laugh at you for thinking that's a bad thing. if a weak immune response is sufficient to deal with the exposure, that's all you want. A bigger than needed response by your body to the disease is called an autoimmune disorder. Those are bad.

    23. Re:What about their children? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      This is pretty much what I was taught as a space marine.

      Played with a HUD my entire life.
      Never understood the use of medipacs.
      Never was transformed into an alien by a disease.
      Maybe run out of ammo every 3-4 levels.

      I am not afraid of death.
      I have a self destruct mechanism so the the aliens can't eat my organs.
      IThey will need a $20,000,000,000 transgalactic rescue team to retrieve my body.

      When I die I just hope I will have taken out the 'Big Bad' too. I'll critically wound the final boss and then start the planetary destruct sequence, and then I'll sit down under the night sky stare up at the twin moons drink a six pack conveniently stored next to my plasma rifle and in my final moments I' will pass out drunk from a combination of internal bleeding and dehydration.

    24. Re:What about their children? by gweihir · · Score: 1

      There are people that recognize emotional decisions and can compensate in order to achieve a rational outcome. They are just very few and that state of the planet is a testimony to that.

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    25. Re:What about their children? by dunkelfalke · · Score: 1

      My mother is a medical doctor and there is a history of dementia in our family. Recently I told my mother that if I catch myself developing dementia I would rather commit suicide than lose my self. She was okay with that, but forewarned me that I might not be able to recognise the condition in first place.

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    26. Re:What about their children? by rbrander · · Score: 1

      I am the son of a lawyer, the grandson of a lawyer, and the brother of a lawyer, and dude, trust me: they should consider the family potential plaintiffs as well. It happens.

      PS: Just kidding about my dad and granddad. But the brother is enough.

    27. Re:What about their children? by bwayne314 · · Score: 1

      no particular reason, just figured that a hole in the ground is easier to come by than an incinerator.

    28. Re:What about their children? by bwayne314 · · Score: 1

      can't tell if troll, but, you forget that we have multiple immune mechanisms.

      the people who "rarely get sick" are still typically exposed to the same environmental factors as everyone else, including pathogens.

      What makes them different is that their primary immune system is able to nip the invader in the bud, usually without the person even realizing that they were exposed to a pathogen. From that point forth they develop secondary immunity to the pathogen, avoiding all the inconvenience of fever and other symptoms.

      The people who get sick frequently don't an adequate primary layer of defense for that particular pathogen, and must suffer through the aches and pains and fever until their secondary response can kick in and deal with the invader and give them more permanent protections.

      These people get legitimately sick every time they encounter a new variation of a pathogen - typically once every flu season.

  8. Warriors by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    People often view warriors as noble respectable people for how they choose to die , on the battlefield rather than like a coward in their living room.
    How is it that the same people then turn around and ask for the machine holding their loved ones alive to be unplugged to end the suffering ?

    I would by far prefer to suffer excruciating pain as I inevitability die rather than have my family or friends unplug me to ease the transition. Let me make the decision on when I want to die. If I have to suffer through pain and agony as I die so be it , but don't tell me you're doing me a favour by letting me die.

    1. Re:Warriors by ardor · · Score: 1

      Your point being? If I suffer excruciating pain, and tell my family to let me die, then I *am* making a choice how I want to die, am I not?
      Or are you confusing this with a DNR? The point of the DNR is to let you die in case you cannot choose anymore, for example because you are essentially braindead. But again, you make a choice.

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    2. Re:Warriors by SydShamino · · Score: 1

      The argument is that, if you are suffering excruciating pain, then you are under mental duress, and those under mental duress can't make rational decisions for themselves.

      You need to have that DNR paperwork along with a medical POA set up when you are still relatively healthy, relatively pain free, and relatively unmedicated, then have the person you assigned to manage your care argue your case for you.

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    3. Re:Warriors by g0bshiTe · · Score: 1

      If a machine is what's keeping you alive the decision was already made for you.

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    4. Re:Warriors by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      You should not trust your family or anyone else to let you die. The law or their emotions will override your wishes.

      I have a condition which is likely to shorten my lifespan by at least 20 years. When the time comes and there is little hope of recovering enough to have a decent "quality of life" I plan on doing whatever is necessary to end my life. Fortunately that time is at least a number of years off.

    5. Re:Warriors by g0bshiTe · · Score: 1

      Actually you misunderstand what a DNR is. I carry one, I'm 39 have done so for about 5 years now. If I'm out having dinner and have a heart attack and need CPR medical personnel will do nothing for me. If I suddenly stop breathing but am conscious and able to reason medical personnel can not intubate me. It is basically saying if my body needs something other than itself to keep me alive or to revive me they are to do nothing for me.

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    6. Re:Warriors by nightgeometry · · Score: 1

      My Father died (very) recently, after a relatively short time of being unwell (2 months). As a family we knew his wishes if he were to be in an effectively unrecoverable state - that he would prefer to not be put through agony just to go through futile care. His surgical team did everything they could for him, but knowing his and his families wish seemed confident in talking to us at the point where they could continue to carry out surgical work, but they felt there was no possibility of his ever recovering. We made, i think, a rational decision.

      It was not easy, knowing wishes and discussing them with siblings and then our Mother and my Fathers siblings (large, close family), knowing when the treatment became futile, watching him die that last day - it was pretty much the fucking hardest thing I think I will ever do. But it *was* the better thing ultimately.

      So - if people forgo futile treatment to spend time with family and to make the most of the time that remains then I would like to figuratively shake their hand for showing such a vast amount of bravery and *character*.

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  9. Regenerate? by Sandman1971 · · Score: 4, Funny

    I thought Doctors didn't die, they just regenerated? Unless of course they were killed while regenerating.

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    1. Re:Regenerate? by Saishuuheiki · · Score: 4, Funny

      You're thinking of Doctor Who

      Sadly, Doctor Who was not a documentary. Despite him being referred to as "the doctor" he is not representative of other doctors

    2. Re:Regenerate? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      You're thinking of Doctor Who

      Sadly, Doctor Who was not a documentary. Despite him being referred to as "the doctor" he is not representative of other doctors

      So when my doctor locked me in a phonebooth and I can't remember what happened I wasn't on a magical adventure? Is that what you're telling me?

    3. Re:Regenerate? by nman64 · · Score: 1

      Yeah... you killed it.

    4. Re:Regenerate? by ardor · · Score: 1

      The Doctor tends to use different kinds of medicine. Stashed in a strange blue box.

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    5. Re:Regenerate? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Who invited Buzz Killington?

    6. Re:Regenerate? by cyberchondriac · · Score: 1

      hah...after the 12th regeneration they're toast.
      Whoever succeeds Matt Smith someday will be the last doctor... unless they pull off some kind of deux ex machina, which wouldn't surprise me.

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    7. Re:Regenerate? by The+End+Of+Days · · Score: 1

      It depends - did you come to with or without pants?

    8. Re:Regenerate? by rezalas · · Score: 1

      It was magical for him...

    9. Re:Regenerate? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      You meant "deus ex machina", which means "god from a machine". You wrote "deux ex machina" which is a nonsense combination of French and Latin, but "two from a machine" actually makes a little sense, accidentally.

    10. Re:Regenerate? by quacking+duck · · Score: 1

      Yes, but we get the term "doctor" from him!

      (mentioned in an episode last season, but the show's current producer wrote this idea in a USENET post back in 1996...

    11. Re:Regenerate? by Artifakt · · Score: 3, Informative

      1. Steven Moffat has officially declared that, when they get to the end of the 12th doctor, they will use a special esoteric procedure only professional writers know, called 'making something up'.
      2. Did you never see Dr Who and the Curse of Fatal Death? That's four or five more doctors right there, so we're on #15 or so now. (My favorites among them are Rowan Atkenson and Joanna Lumley, both of which would have made great Doctors back then, but probably can't run nearly enough now.).

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    12. Re:Regenerate? by pentalive · · Score: 1

      But traditionally they can only do that 11 times. Also, not only Doctors, but Masters.

      One must also say that it only happens to "the right kind of doctor".

    13. Re:Regenerate? by meloneg · · Score: 1

      It's also already been deused.

    14. Re:Regenerate? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      *gasp* you lie!

    15. Re:Regenerate? by cyberchondriac · · Score: 1

      Nah, I'm really not that big on Dr. Who. I mostly liked it when David Tenant was the Doc.
      Speaking of- here's a scenario, no less likely than any other Moffat can cook up: remember the Time Lord/human hybrid Doctor (D. Tenant) living in an alternate universe with Rose, the one that grew out of his hand? Maybe Tenant could come back for a show or two, then somehow.. magically.. regenerate back into a full Time Lord, and viola'- new doctor, another 12 lives.

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  10. This is where western medicine has failed... by Jawnn · · Score: 5, Insightful

    ...almost completely. There is a point, and we can certainly debate just where that point is, beyond which we are no longer "healing" and are merely prolonging the suffering of our patients. The common layman's expectation is that anything that could be done, should be done, regardless of the likely outcome. Pointing out that Grandma's time has come, so to speak, and that the "right" thing to do is to make her passing as comfortable as possible, is something that western medicine does not do, generally. That needs to change.

    1. Re:This is where western medicine has failed... by pz · · Score: 2

      The value that it seems you are seeking to describe is that life, being aware and conscious, is worth anything. What has slipped is that often awareness and mental faculty do not go hand-in-hand with physical homeostasis, and thus the Grandma scenario described. Modern medicine has concentrated on keeping our bodies alive without the same level of effort on keeping our minds sharp. In the extreme, we have wards full of comatose patients who are nominally healthy except that they lack the cranial capacity to feed themselves. Given the growing emphasis on mental health, and the beginnings of collective mental decline of the baby boomers who, like it or not, drive nearly every aspect of contemporary US society, I expect that mental function at the end of life will be given its due attention.

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    2. Re:This is where western medicine has failed... by avandesande · · Score: 3, Insightful

      The great majority of our insurance costs goes to support this type of 'care'.
      It is a kind of financial suicide as well.

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    3. Re:This is where western medicine has failed... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      The common layman's expectation is that anything that could be done, should be done, regardless of the likely outcome.

      Laymen do not make these decisions via a dispassionate cost-benefits analysis.
      The potential death of a loved one is a very emotional prospect, particularly when you have no previous experience with it.
      What do you propose, setting up death panels to take the decisions out of the hands of the distressed family?

    4. Re:This is where western medicine has failed... by MMC+Monster · · Score: 1

      Sounds like someone's advocating a death panel. ;-)

      But seriously, there's a lot of politics involved in that sort of discussion. I really don't understand why. Seems like a very personal discussion between a patient, his or her family, and their physician.

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    5. Re:This is where western medicine has failed... by Kilrah_il · · Score: 5, Insightful

      As a physician, I can tell you that many times I have faced patients that should have been given the chance to die peacefully, but the family have kept pressing me to "do something". Usually, I try to make them understand that at times like this it is best to just let Grandma die in peace and not prolong her suffering. Mostly I fail. And when after all the explaining the family keeps telling me to do something, I cannot disregard them (I do plan on keeping my license, you know?).
      I don't think it's so much that western medicine failed, as it is that layman's expectations of medicine are unrealistic.

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    6. Re:This is where western medicine has failed... by Beeftopia · · Score: 1

      We don't put cherished dying pets through the suffering we force on humans. Death is as natural as birth. And inevitable with our current technology. I agree in staving it off as long as possible while the person has a decent quality of life. But once the event horizon of poor quality of life plus inevitability has passed, it's just inflicting suffering because we're too selfish to let go.

      There was a talk show host in the Baltimore area who just died of pancreatic cancer. 2 months from diagnosis to death. He made it clear he didn't want prolonged suffering just as he made it clear he knew he was not going to have a miracle. He went through one round of chemo, no improvement, then immediately went into home hospice. IMHO he almost certainly died from de facto assisted suicide, an overdose of pain meds.

    7. Re:This is where western medicine has failed... by k31bang · · Score: 1

      Mostly I fail. And when after all the explaining the family keeps telling me to do something, I cannot disregard them (I do plan on keeping my license, you know?).
      I don't think it's so much that western medicine failed, as it is that layman's expectations of medicine are unrealistic.

      And there is the problem. Where you have to listen to the wishes of the family instead of looking out for the best care of your patient. The patient should come first. IMHO of course. A doctor shouldn't have to worry about his or her license getting yanked in these sorts of situations.

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    8. Re:This is where western medicine has failed... by 10101001+10101001 · · Score: 1

      With all due respect, I think what you're seeing has nothing to do with layman's expectations of medicine. It's that a lot of people, when they see a loved one is dying or at risk of dying and they have someone to turn to beg for that life, they'll do a lot of pleading and demanding because they're so focused on that person being gone in their life they're not really thinking rationally about the situation*. And the cruel truth is, medicine generally overreaches their actual expectations: for a person they're told to otherwise expect to die any minute, modern medicine may be able to keep them alive for days, weeks, or maybe even months.

      *This, btw, is the focus of a lot of legislation. What are politicians good at? Hearing complaints and "[doing] something", even if that something really has no net effect on fixing the problem. Obviously, physicians like you are in a much worse situation since you're subject to lawsuits and there's medical licencing boards that can confirm that you didn't actual follow a known procedure; meanwhile, obviously, the worst a politician general has to fear is not being reelected. Oh, and from what you've said, I'm sure I'm just preaching to the choir about the need to change those medical licensing boards so "follow a known procedure" can include the "let them die peacefully even over the family's objections" so individual physicians, not the almost caricature "death panels", can decide with some confidence that doing the right thing is also the legal thing and will be properly covered under malpractice insurance if it comes to that. That alone would probably stop a lot of the lawsuits before they're even filed.

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    9. Re:This is where western medicine has failed... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      That must be terrible to comply with their requests even after making the case against it.

    10. Re:This is where western medicine has failed... by DerekLyons · · Score: 1

      I'm not a physician - but the two times I've been close to a death (that of my mother- and father-in-law) we had to browbeat the doctors into leaving us the hell alone.

    11. Re:This is where western medicine has failed... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      As a lawyer I don't think it's so much that the laymen's expectations are unrealistic, but that their understanding of law and human rights is deficient. They do not understand the importance of the right to determine one's own destiny. Most of the time grandma has told them what she wants, they just think they know better our that following her wishes is somehow wrong. I Did not have that problem. Her instructions - don't let them keep me alive - can you do that? My response has to be yes because I saw it as her right to make that choice.

    12. Re:This is where western medicine has failed... by gweihir · · Score: 1

      One reason to not have family, or at the very least have a rather serious talk with them about this issue. Maybe even a provision in your will that if they insist on having you tortured to death, they get nothing.

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    13. Re:This is where western medicine has failed... by The+Evil+Atheist · · Score: 1

      Are you professionally allowed to lay on the guilt trip and constantly repeat to their faces that they're making their loved one suffer in pain? "Do something!" "Okay, but you're just asking me to make it worse!"

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    14. Re:This is where western medicine has failed... by Whorhay · · Score: 1

      The answer is, at least so long as the patient is unable to make their own decisions, a living will.

      I'm glad I have one and so do my parents. This unfortunately requires some forethought and planning. And many people just never get around to it. It really should be part of getting or renwing your drivers license just like opting to be an organ donor.

    15. Re:This is where western medicine has failed... by Kilrah_il · · Score: 1

      In an ideal world, I agree with you. But if a family of a terminal patient tells me to do anything I can to "save him" and I refuse, after he dies, you can bet on them suing my ass off. Until this issue gets settled, I will have to do my best to convince the patient's family about him having no chance, but in the end, do as they wish... sometimes to the patients detriment. Sad, but true.

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    16. Re:This is where western medicine has failed... by Jawnn · · Score: 1

      Oh, please. STFU already about "death panels". If that's all you hear in this discussion, you are not rational.
      "The potential death of a loved one..." is obviously an emotional prospect. Unfortunately, the far more troubling reality of prolonging a loved one's wretched suffering is frequently never even considered. It needs to be. People need to understand that there is a point beyond which "treatment" is buying nothing but time. If that time is spent in a vegetative state, or worse, in agony, it is just plain wrong to force it on a patient.

    17. Re:This is where western medicine has failed... by Jawnn · · Score: 1

      Your outlook and your efforts are to be commended, doctor, but I still maintain that we have failed when the lay public is so often possessed of utterly irrational expectations. The "do something, anything..." demand is plain evidence of this. Formally working with clergy and spiritual counselors would be big step in the right direction. Yes, I am aware that some institutions do this as a matter of routine, but it is far, far from universal.

    18. Re:This is where western medicine has failed... by n7ytd · · Score: 1

      Mostly I fail. And when after all the explaining the family keeps telling me to do something, I cannot disregard them (I do plan on keeping my license, you know?).
      I don't think it's so much that western medicine failed, as it is that layman's expectations of medicine are unrealistic.

      And there is the problem. Where you have to listen to the wishes of the family instead of looking out for the best care of your patient. The patient should come first. IMHO of course. A doctor shouldn't have to worry about his or her license getting yanked in these sorts of situations.

      Unfortunately, the dead patient often does not make a good witness in court proceedings.

  11. Had a personal experience on this one by elrous0 · · Score: 5, Insightful

    a patient suffers from severe illness, old age, or a terminal disease

    Had one branch of the family that was real religious. Didn't believe in anything even *resembling* euthanasia. Insisted on keeping my aunt alive, no matter what. It was an ugly, sad end. Bad stuff.

    Had another branch that had a much better attitude, IMHO. Had hospice care that was not afraid to push the painkillers well into the dangerous zone, a "do not resuscitate" understanding with the hospital, etc. My cousin's mother died a *much* more noble death.

    Can't stop death from coming. And there is a time to fight for life, but also a time to recognize when the fight is over.

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    1. Re:Had a personal experience on this one by Gordonjcp · · Score: 3, Insightful

      Had one branch of the family that was real religious. Didn't believe in anything even *resembling* euthanasia. Insisted on keeping my aunt alive, no matter what. It was an ugly, sad end. Bad stuff.

      Now I've never understood that. What happened to "God's will be done"?

      Force a woman who has been raped to carry her attacker's child to term? Sorry, it's God's will.

      Couple can't get pregnant? Well, it's God's will that they get IVF, hallelujah, it's a miracle!

      Terminally ill relative? God's will is that they have to be pumped full of drugs until their body just plain gives up.

      I don't get it at all.

    2. Re:Had a personal experience on this one by Trepidity · · Score: 1

      Had one branch of the family that was real religious. Didn't believe in anything even *resembling* euthanasia. Insisted on keeping my aunt alive, no matter what. It was an ugly, sad end. Bad stuff.

      I've also run into this, but it seems odd from a traditional religious perspective. Typically very religious people were more likely to take the "pray and die quietly at home" route, and it's still the case that nuns and monks typically have far fewer heroic end-of-life medical procedures than laypeople do.

    3. Re:Had a personal experience on this one by cyberchondriac · · Score: 1

      Which is a bit ironic, really. If they are so religious, why prolong a quasi-life- are they afraid of death? You'd think religious people would be like, "Yeehah, Heaven, here I come!! I'm outta here, later suckers!"

      My mom just passed last November. Despite a DNR, and a decent hospice for the last year, she still spent 10 years wasting away in a nursing home with Alzheimers, and the last few years were horrible, just full of misery -her mind had been long gone. I'd really want someone to smother me with my pillow if that were me, but then, I couldn't do it myself to another, so... I guess sometimes there's no escaping it.

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    4. Re:Had a personal experience on this one by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I don't get how some atheists don't get it. It's kinda the same thing if you're willing to sit and understand instead of shrugging it off.

    5. Re:Had a personal experience on this one by evil_aaronm · · Score: 1

      Rationalization is easy! IFF it -can- be done, then it must be God's will, right? If I can't fly just by flapping my arms, then it must not be God's will. If I can take advantage of science and keep this body's "lights on" - even if no one's home - then that's God's will.

      Taking it to extremes, one could fault our criminal system: if I shoot you, and you die, then it was God's will that you die. Who is the state to prosecute me for, effectively, being the tool of God's will?

    6. Re:Had a personal experience on this one by artor3 · · Score: 1

      That particular brand of religious people see God as a micromanager, where literally everything that happens is because God made it so. Feeling hungry? God made you feel that way. Breeze moves a blade of grass? God did it.

      It may seem laughable, but it's actually an entirely logical conclusion when you give it some thought. If the universe is deterministic, and if God set the initial state of the universe, and if God is all-knowing, then it follows that God is responsible for absolutely everything, just as you're responsible for knocking down all the dominos even if you only hit the first one. An atheist could just as well attribute every single thing to the big bang or whatever. Of course, it's quite likely that the universe is non-deterministic, in which case the micromanaging God makes a lot less sense.

      Oh, but for the bit about forcing rape victims to carry the child to term, that's no longer really about religion or God's will, as you could just as easily say getting an abortion is God's will (he could stop you if he wanted to, after all). The whole abortion crusade is just a well engineered wedge issue with a thin veneer of religion on top. Ditto the gay bashing.

    7. Re:Had a personal experience on this one by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      The line of thought is more akin to "God doesn't cause it but 'allows' it to happen."
      Of course this argument falls flat when you consider, if he knows it will happen, and allows it, i view it as being just as at least partially guilty personally. When you have the power to stop an injustice, and that power has no reprecussions to yourself (God is supposedly all-knowing and almighty so his choices won't affect him), justice speaks out that that entity should act upon it. If not, then that entity is hardly kind/forgiving/just. That said, if he's more like the vengeful god from the old testament, then yeah, it's more like don't break his rules even if he shits on you no matter how bad it gets.

    8. Re:Had a personal experience on this one by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I think I may be able to add a perspective to your comment: "I don't get it at all"

      I've thought about this quite a bit (was raised to be Catholic) and come up with what I think is a simple
      explanation: Any idea that interferes with making new Catholic/christian is rejected.

      • "Sensible Abortion", nope, can't be done, we need you to bring that infant to church.
      • "Can't get pregnant?" , hell yes, do whatever you can to procreate and bring new kids to church.
      • "Gay ?" , sorry , this doesn't help us bring new parishioners to church.
      • "Marry a Moslem/Buddhist/Hindu", it's ok, but if want to marry in this church, they have to 'convert'. See above

      Almost forgot:

      • "contraception ?", sorry only the rythm method is condoned. See above.
      • "masturbation ? ", clearly wrong, See above

        I don't mean to offend anyone here, but that's just the way I see it. Sometimes I've thought the Catholic dichotomy
        is all about the procreation of the religion itself.

    9. Re:Had a personal experience on this one by artor3 · · Score: 1

      That doesn't make much sense. Why would Catholics oppose pre-marital sex if the goal was the maximize the number of kids? Why oppose adultery even? Why not let priests marry, as surely their kids would be predisposed to the religion? And given that people aren't supposed to have sex outside of marriage, why tell them not to masturbate? Why oppose people divorcing and re-marrying, given that newly married couples are likely to make more kids than a couple that hates each other but can't get a divorce? And if the goal of opposing abortion is to get a kid for the church, then why allow adoption?

    10. Re:Had a personal experience on this one by gstovall · · Score: 1

      Don't make the mistake of lumping all "religious"/believing people into one basket...

      There are plenty of "religious" people who have nothing more than a habit, or label, or form, of belief. I know nothing about the first set of people referenced by the parent, but I can assure you they are not representative of the believing people I know.

      When my wife's aunt, a believing Christian, was dying of old age, the aunt was upset because it was taking so long and she wanted to move on. We were all rejoicing when she passed.

      When my grandfather, a believing Christian, was dying with an event that left him with no reasonable chance of recovery, the right amount of pain control eased his passing. We were sad not to have him with us, but glad for him. When Grandma followed him a year later, we were glad for her.

      I don't believe in making people suffer when they are bound for some place they want to go.

      Regardless of your belief set, I think we can agree that it's not good to make people suffer because we have trouble letting go of them.

    11. Re:Had a personal experience on this one by Livius · · Score: 1

      It works because God is just a metaphor for whatever it was you wanted in the first place.

    12. Re:Had a personal experience on this one by ArsonSmith · · Score: 1

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    13. Re:Had a personal experience on this one by Aighearach · · Score: 1

      If it was easy to explain the contradiction, you would have actually tried instead of just asserting that we don't understand.

    14. Re:Had a personal experience on this one by jamesh · · Score: 5, Insightful

      Now I've never understood that. What happened to "God's will be done"?

      That's always bugged me too. I heard a joke once that best describes that attitude...

      A man has slipped and fallen halfway down a cliff by the sea and the old branch he is hanging on to is the only thing preventing him from falling to his death. He prays to God for help. A helicopter comes along and the pilot calls out "I'll lower a rope down, grab hold of it and i'll save you". The man says "No thankyou. I'm a man of faith, God will save me", so the helicopter flies away. A boat comes along, and the captain calls out "Push off from the cliff and fall into the water, i'll save you". The man says "No thankyou. I'm a man of faith, God will save me", so the boat leaves. A hiker walking across the top of the cliff calls down to him "I'm a professional abseiler, i'll come down and rescue you.". The man says "No thankyou. I'm a man of faith, God will save me", so the hiker leaves. A few hours later the man becomes tired and falls to his death. He ascends to heaven and meets God, and expresses his disappointment that God had not saved him. God says "I don't understand what happened... I sent a helicopter, a boat, and a professional abseiler..."

      It seems to me that in a lot of cases God gets used as an excuse to justify people doing what they were going to do anyway...

    15. Re:Had a personal experience on this one by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      The term you are looking for is crazy. Bat shit fuckin insane. Lets take the kid gloves off when dealing with such motherfuckers.

    16. Re:Had a personal experience on this one by mrdogi · · Score: 4, Interesting

      I feel the need to respond to this as a person that would be viewed as 'real religious'. I have had to deal with a similar situation twice in the last few years, once in my own home.

      My father-in-law had been fighting a rare form of cancer for 10 years, and finally succumbed to it in January, 2009, after going down hill very fast in the last week or so of his life. As a family we chose to have home hospice come in and take care of him (and us) for the last few days of his life. We could have chosen to fight for him, but we knew it would be pointless and only cause him pain for what little time he had left. Instead he died peacefully in his home, surrounded by his family.

      Last year, my wife and I found out that she was pregnant with our second child. At 20 weeks we found out the baby had a rare and fatal form of dwarfism. We could have chosen to go to a hospital with a NICU, so that when our daughter came they'd be able to whisk her away, put her under a heat lamp, put her on a ventilator, and perhaps extend her life for a few hours or days. Again, she would die in the end and we would not have been able to hold her for the whole time. Instead we went to our local hospital, with doctors and nurses who knew what was going on. We were able to hold her and love her for the 15 minutes we had with her while she was still alive.

      In both cases, we chose to NOT go through extraordinary means to 'save' our family members. As Christians, we know that both of them were safe and will be in Heaven waiting for us. We miss them both, of course. But as educated, intelligent people, we knew that we couldn't save them here on Earth. We understood the pain they would go through if we tried. We also understood that we would feel pain and loss ourselves once they were no longer here.

      I believe that those who choose to do that to their own family have not thought things through, or are in such a state that they are unable to. Or they don't want to deal with the coming pain of loss. Or they are so afraid of death themselves that they can't understand deal with it even in others. Or any number of other things. I don't think this has anything to do with whether somebody is 'religious' or not. It is a human thing.

      Please do not assume that all Christians think as your one family branch did. There is a whole spectrum of people in any group. We are all human, and flawed.

    17. Re:Had a personal experience on this one by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

      Because those people are not neccessarily religious, just stupid.

      They're not religious where it counts, but only where it's easy for them (including when it makes it easy to point fingers and be disappointed in others). They have religion to make life easy, when true religion can only make life more difficult, but promises that such difficulty carries purpose.

    18. Re:Had a personal experience on this one by Hentes · · Score: 1

      Not keeping someone alive artificially isn't euthanasia. Overdosing painkillers "accidentally" IS. There is a difference.

    19. Re:Had a personal experience on this one by KingAlanI · · Score: 1

      I can still mostly see the AC's "make more Catholics" argument though.

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    20. Re:Had a personal experience on this one by ChrisMaple · · Score: 1

      Expecting sense in religious rules is unrealistic. That said...
      Religious rules are a hodgepodge of common sense, failed language interpretation, rules whose reasons are obsolete, interpretations of parables, and on and on. Antimasturbation comes in part from a parable about throwing seed on barren ground. Rules against priests marrying have to do with problems that arose historically when they were allowed to marry. There are many reasons for opposing premarital sex: confusing inheritance, disease spread, failure to form a good family (which includes good teaching and a stronger financial unit. You don't want your potential future revenue stream to die young.), and the general desire to boss other people around.

      And if the goal of opposing abortion is to get a kid for the church, then why allow adoption?

      Huh? That doesn't even make sense. Adoption can occur into, out of, or between Catholic families; furthermore, many adoptions are from orphanages or vagrants.

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    21. Re:Had a personal experience on this one by zippthorne · · Score: 1

      My cousin's mother died a *much* more noble death.

      Can't stop death from coming. And there is a time to fight for life, but also a time to recognize when the fight is over.

      Less painful, maybe, but who are you to say it was more noble. Usually, though, you don't hear the word "noble" used to refer to someone who took enough painkillers to dull the pain, heedless of fatal consequences. You tend to hear it used more to refer to people who endure pain and suffering to perform some kind of service, like saving an a dozen orphans from a burning building that a meteor was about to hit, or something.

      Why do you feel the need to classify this death as noble, over and above painless or comfortable?

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    22. Re:Had a personal experience on this one by Beeftopia · · Score: 1

      With people who do things claiming it's God's will, it's an amazing coincidence that God's will so often coincides with their own.

    23. Re:Had a personal experience on this one by trout007 · · Score: 1

      I am Catholic and here is their official teaching.

      A. The Catechism of the Catholic Church states,

      2278. Discontinuing medical procedures that are burdensome, dangerous, extraordinary, or disproportionate to the expected outcome can be legitimate; it is the refusal of "over-zealous" treatment. Here one does not will to cause death; one's inability to impede it is merely accepted. The decisions should be made by the patient if he is competent and able or, if not, by those legally entitled to act for the patient, whose reasonable will and legitimate interests must always be respected.

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    24. Re:Had a personal experience on this one by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      At 20 weeks we found out the baby had a rare and fatal form of dwarfism....We were able to hold her and love her for the 15 minutes we had with her while she was still alive.

      I totally respect your decision, because these kinds of things are intensely personal and I don't believe that anyone has the right to inflict their decision on someone else. But there's no way my wife or I could have done that. We would have terminated the pregnancy.

      [For background, my wife was pregnant and the baby was diagnosed with a rare and fatal genetic condition. We were debating what to do -- primarily trying to make sure that the diagnosis was 100% correct. Ultimately the decision was made for us, when we were discussing the situation with her OB and she decided to take an ultrasound before we left, and there was no heartbeat. This was at 16 weeks.]

    25. Re:Had a personal experience on this one by gweihir · · Score: 1

      Well, unfortunately, heaven for those that die this young is a logical fallacy, i.e. does not work. If it did, then you would need to kill everybody at birth, making sure they go to heaven. This happens to be one of the proofs that "heaven" is nonsense. There are others.

      Sorry, but you do not understand the world and are willing to believe easy, but wrong, "answers".

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    26. Re:Had a personal experience on this one by redcaboodle · · Score: 1

      That might have been a mistake in translation if the OP's native language is not English. I think the word he was looking for is dignifeid.

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    27. Re:Had a personal experience on this one by The+Evil+Atheist · · Score: 2

      after going down hill very fast in the last week or so of his life.

      "About a week before he died, my grandmother rubbed my grandfather's back with lard. After that he went downhill very quickly" - Milton Jonesd

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    28. Re:Had a personal experience on this one by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

      Being a person of faith myself, and knowing how rarely my own will seems to coincide with God's, I'd also consider that a rather amazing coincidence.

    29. Re:Had a personal experience on this one by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      If you extend the same fallacy, you would need to kill everyone by a single, painless lethal injection at birth anyway so that they'd never have to suffer; what makes a life of pain better than a painless death? (Insert obligatory short story based on Asimov's Three Laws in which robots decide that the most efficient way to avoid "through inaction, allow[ing] a human being to come to harm" is by simply killing all human beings immediately in an orderly and humane fashion.)

      Actually, your "fallacy" is really the fact that you think your idea of "better" is more right than God's idea of "better".

      You want the straight truth? As a matter of fact, there are two things that are both "better" than dying at birth and going straight to heaven:

      a) Living long enough to make the willful decision to serve God, and glorifying him for eternity as living proof that he is the only true god worthy of being served;

      b) Living long enough to make the willful decision to reject God and serve yourself, and still glorifying him for eternity as living proof of just how right he is and how shitty a god that a human can be in your own little corner of hell, which is really just the misery of eternal life without God and with yourself as a god. Yes, you can get a head start here on earth, but there will eventually be a real place where God, who literally holds the atoms of our current universe together, will say "okay, you get your wish; you're on your own" - and everything will vanish in a nuclear fire as those atoms dissolve and you'll be left in perfect black nothingness: just you. But hey, maybe I'm slightly over-dramatizing what I've read in the Bible.

      And the best part is, I don't believe there will be a single person in hell who doesn't want to be there with every fiber of their being: every last one of them would experience pure, unleashed hell rather than live in a Heaven where God was, well, their God.

      I find it ironic that Jehovah's Witnesses think they're going to be gods on some little sphere of existence somewhere after they die. It's so true... and I so don't envy them that experience. (Their entire pseudo-Christian religion is founded on the old lie that you can "be like God".)

      I know; right now, you're probably thinking "he's nuts" and you're saying that you wouldn't serve a God "like that". And I find that, too, ironic, because you're so right - although it's never too late for anyone to change their mind.

    30. Re:Had a personal experience on this one by daisybelle · · Score: 1

      Thanks for this response - it's much more in line with what I would expect from someone who believed in an afterlife, as opposed to someone who didn't. And you're right too, that people who want to 'keep a loved one "alive" at any cost' I don't think can really be empathising with the loved one if their quality of life is unlivable. (From someone who doesn't believe in an afterlife.)

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    31. Re:Had a personal experience on this one by hellop2 · · Score: 1

      Hi,

      I've always wondered about the meeting people in Heaven thing. Could you explain to me your personal view?

      When you see an elderly relative in Heaven, are they still old, like shortly before they died? Or are they 25 years old, 35?

      For infants, do they still look like infants and communicate like infants? Or do they speak and understand English? If so, what other social knowledge do they possess.... like will the understand pop-culture references?

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    32. Re:Had a personal experience on this one by mrdogi · · Score: 1

      According to the Bible, all who are in Heaven will at some point get new bodies. The Bible doesn't really say much of anything about what it's like in Heaven currently, especially as related to the questions you've asked. All of the following is pretty my my own thoughts. So far as I'm aware, nothing contradicts what the Bible says. Those who have better knowledge than me will likely chime in, if anyone's following this thread anymore.

      So, here's what I currently believe: once my daughter and father-in-law died, they 'woke up' (for lack of a better phrase) in Heaven with bodies similar to what they had here on Earth. My best guess is that my father-in-law now has a body at least somewhat younger than when he was here, while my daughter has a body older than what she had here (really not certain on her body, though). In both cases, those bodies will be perfectly functioning. But I think there will still be a good age gap between the two. My daughter will be older and able to understand & speak whatever language is used in Heaven. If there were some way I could visit her, and still return to Earth after, I would be able to speak with her in whatever language; God would allow me to understand. I'd probably remember it as English, however. I have know idea what knowledge she would have now.

      One final bit. The Bible talks about a new Heaven and a new Earth. These will be created at the end of time. Along with the new Heaven and Earth, I think God will give everyone that is in the current Heaven a completely new body, one which is our 'true' body, if you will. Again, I don't have a lot to go on here, just my best understanding of what the Bible and my own knowledge tell me. There is a book that was fairly recently published called "Heaven is for Real: A Little Boy's Astounding Story of His Trip to Heaven and Back" which I've read. So far as I can tell nothing in the book really contradicts what the Bible says. It gave me some of the ideas above, though some of the book I'm still trying to reconcile. Perhaps it will give you some hint of what Heaven could be like.

      I hope this helps you, or at least answers some of your questions. Feel free to email/respond to this posting with more questions/comments. I'll try to monitor the thread over the next weeks for further postings.

  12. Agreed by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

    I work in a hospital (nurse) and the sentiment from all the staff is identical to the article.
    It seems we have so far done a great job of extending the old-age and dying years of life.

  13. Thinking of themselfs? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Isn't it more likely they are trying to get rid of there own empathy for how others feel. They see families worried and scared and so on when loved ones are hurt, sick and dieing that they want to be selfish in the regards of not having that happen to their family when they are in the same position?

  14. I for one by Anrego · · Score: 1

    Never subscribed to the whole "if I'm that bad, pull the plug" stuff.

    Maybe I'd feel differently if I'm ever actually in that situation.. but my gut reaction has always been as George Carlin would put it "screw that, save my ass!".

    1. Re:I for one by elrous0 · · Score: 4, Insightful

      Think about living in constant pain, mental confusion, maybe even in a coma which you a guaranteed to never come out of. And you know you're not ever going to get better--only worse. And all you're doing is adding more and more onto the medical bills that your family may end up being be stuck with. Would you really want one more day of pain, or one more day of not even knowing where you are, or one more day of simply breathing and nothing more? To what end? That's not "life."

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    2. Re:I for one by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Maybe I'd feel differently if I'm ever actually in that situation.. but my gut reaction has always been as George Carlin would put it "screw that, save my ass!".

      Finally an honest post. Everyone else so far has been whining that other people value life, you actually got to the root of it. It's your life, to defend as vigorously as you choose.

    3. Re:I for one by CyprusBlue113 · · Score: 1

      But it's not "save my ass" its "keep me alive for a few more weeks-months, all the while I am in agony due to the chemo, etc."

      Doctors don't ignore saving, they generally don't go for "slightly longer lifespan, much less enjoyment of the time left"

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    4. Re:I for one by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Everyone else so far has been whining that other people value life,

      You haven't seen a single post that does that, and you know it. Any attempt on your part to pretend you have will consist entirely of lies.

    5. Re:I for one by Carnildo · · Score: 1

      Saving your ass is easy; saving your mind is not.

      If you're willing to spend the money, modern medicine is able to maintain physical homeostasis almost indefinitely: almost all failing organs can be replaced by machines or drugs, so your body can be kept "alive" until your immune system fails and you rot from the inside out. The brain is one organ that can't be replaced, but it's also not one essential for survival. No-expense-spared treatment may end up leaving you as a permanently comatose body for decades, with no hope of recovering consciousness.

      Is this really something you want to do?

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    6. Re:I for one by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      As an ordinary 30-yr old guy in ok health, I live in mild constant pain, mental confusion, and am guaranteed to never get better. If that's not "life" I don't know what is.

    7. Re:I for one by tragedy · · Score: 1

      Of course, if this is true, then it may well mean that this debate is transitional. 100 years ago, we couldn't maintain people like that and 100 years from now we may be able to do it so well that we're not just maintaining them, but effectively restoring them.

    8. Re:I for one by Fjandr · · Score: 1

      I'd almost guarantee you'd feel differently if "saving your ass" meant living a few more days/weeks/months in almost unbearable pain or a state in which your mind was either not there or locked inside a completely non-functional body.

      "Heroic measures" are not about saving someone who can actually be saved in any meaningful sense. It's about prolonging a life for a short time when they body and/or mind are unable to function in anything resembling a normal manner.

    9. Re:I for one by Beeftopia · · Score: 1

      As the orcs promised Gollum when they put him on the rack, "Before it is over, you will be begging for death."

      We're not talking euthanasia for a paper cut here. We're talking destroyed, useless, still-living bodies with no realistic hope of recovery.

  15. so they are kinda like Muslims by mapkinase · · Score: 1

    >For all the time they spend fending off the deaths of others, they tend to be fairly serene when faced with death themselves because they know exactly what is going to happen, they know the choices, and they generally have access to any sort of medical care they could want.

    Many people are absurdly clinging to their lives spending too much money on doctors in the dusk of the lives. I am reserved right now not spend more than 10K for my health. Forget about heart surgery etc. If my deductible (or whatever the part I am paying after insurance payment) is more than that, I'd rather die and leave this money to my dependents.

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    1. Re:so they are kinda like Muslims by drb226 · · Score: 1

      10K seems awfully low for the cost of one's life. Especially if you are still capable of working, depending on your salary, you can produce more $ for your dependents by paying 100k and living+working at least a few years; a couple decades are well worth 1m in this regard.

    2. Re:so they are kinda like Muslims by ardor · · Score: 1

      I think it depends. If it is a low-risk procedure with some tangible benefits, why not? However, if it is about getting a few years more out of your body, then I am inclined to agree. There was an epidose of Outer Limits (the 90s series) with a rich man who refused to die, and constantly underwent medical procedures to squeeze out a little more life. Eventually death itself came knocking to finish the job, feeling a little cheated.

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    3. Re:so they are kinda like Muslims by mapkinase · · Score: 1

      Depends on how many years I can work by paying $X. If it is cancer treatment, most likely it is a quid down the tube.

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    4. Re:so they are kinda like Muslims by g0bshiTe · · Score: 1

      A couple of decades? My father went through heart surgery, the cost was astronomical, the outcome, it gave him 6 extra years.

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    5. Re:so they are kinda like Muslims by gweihir · · Score: 1

      The 10k is not the cost of a life. It is the cost of extending it a few days at greatly decreased quality. The problem here is that most people make this conceptual mistake.

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  16. Re:RTFA? No. by UncleTogie · · Score: 1

    Unless the doctor officiously attempts to prolong life, no matter how painful or futile that prolongation is for the patient, the patients relatives are going to sue that doctor to the hilt for not doing their utmost for the patient. Ease the patient out and its a murder rap. "Ars Longa Vita brevis", but not if you're talking to a litigeous lawyer!

    Which is why my wife and I worked this out LONG ago:

    Pull the damn plug.

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  17. Letting go by Intropy · · Score: 1

    Why is "letting go" always the compassionate, noble, or dignified choice? Everyone has his own preferences and I won't begrudge anybody theirs. But death is death. What I know for certain is that I do not welcome it. When I'm given the option of a prolonged five months of agony leading to the inevitable end or a quick relatively painless couple of weeks, I know for a certainty that I'm taking the pain and the time. Hey, if you or anyone else makes the opposite decision, that's your thing. But let's not pretend there's something more dignified about being accepting vs struggling to the end. They're preferences not absolutes. As for compassion, well, what's compassionate for a person is up to him to decide.

    1. Re:Letting go by skids · · Score: 1

      I know for a certainty that I'm taking the pain and the time

      Interesting... have you ever been in severe, delirium-inducing, pain for an extended period of time?

    2. Re:Letting go by tibit · · Score: 1

      I know for a certainty that I'm taking the pain and the time.

      Well, I guess that torture survival training will pay off eventually... I think you should go and volunteer at a hospice for a while, because either you're just battle hardened a lot, in a way, or simply have no clue about real pain.

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    3. Re:Letting go by Aighearach · · Score: 1

      I agree, I think the most noble, dignified thing a person can do is fight to the very end.

      The "I'll bite your legs off" school. :)

      It is not about extending life, it is about living it a certain way; a certain way that assumes it is precious, and needs to be fought for.

      My father gave up, signed a DNR, and was ready to die. His condition managed to get better, and now he's back to his old self, presumably with years of his life ahead of him, and only normal pains associated with his age.

    4. Re:Letting go by Intropy · · Score: 1

      You have your preferences. That's fine. I have different ones. It's true, I've not been in severe pain for more than about a day at a time. But I know what I'm afraid of, and it's death. It's not about torture training, or being tough, or not knowing what real pain is. It's about personal choices based on personal valuations, and in my case, it's also about fear.

    5. Re:Letting go by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

      Have you ever had to say goodbye to a loved one who was in so much pain they had him doped to the eyeballs on morphine, was half the weight he was 2 weeks prior, could barely lift his hand, was shitting the bed, had tubes up every orifice in his body, and couldn't utter a word other than a moan? Damn, I'm glad they pulled the plug after we'd had our chance to say goodbye. In fact, I wish they'd done it sooner.

    6. Re:Letting go by ChrisMaple · · Score: 1

      There's one other factor. As most people age, their attitude changes. They recognize that they've had fun and a good life (or not) and there's not a whole lot to look forward to. Moreover, they get tired, they aren't willing to fight any more. Many become depressed. Many lose most of their fear of death.

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    7. Re:Letting go by Intropy · · Score: 1

      Entirely true. As I said I take no issue with anyone choosing how to conduct the end of his life. I just don't like the romanticization of the decision to die at the expense of the decision to try to live. Both can be done with dignity. Both are valid choices for a person to make for himself.

    8. Re:Letting go by Beeftopia · · Score: 1

      Fear of the unknown is perfectly understandable. We never experience non-existence while we're alive. I'm not talking sleep or anaesthesia, I'm talking actual non-existence. What it was like before we were born.

      But also realize it's utter inevitability. Fearing death is like fearing the rising and setting of the sun. There are plenty of things I'm afraid of. But this body was born to die. The universe organized itself into this body and it's decreed that it's only going to last for several decades or so.

      I have no idea what happens after death. Does the consciousness continue or does it dissipate? I have no idea. I do realize there's a lot more to this universe than meets our eye. Pascal said we are between infinity (of the small) and infinity (of the large). Suggesting that we can see all that there is is factually false. But regardless of what happens, that it is going to happen is utterly inevitable. And when faced with that unavoidable doorway, I'd prefer to cross it comfortably and with as much dignity as I can muster.

    9. Re:Letting go by gweihir · · Score: 1

      I know for a certainty that I'm taking the pain and the time

      Interesting... have you ever been in severe, delirium-inducing, pain for an extended period of time?

      He will experience it. Astounding how stupid people can be.

      --
      Most ACs are not even worth the keystrokes to insult them. Be generically insulted by this and ignored otherwise.
    10. Re:Letting go by gweihir · · Score: 1

      You are kidding yourself. The DNR is not "I accept death", it is "I do not want to fight in a certain way should it become necessary". Your father sees this, you do not.

      There is nothing noble or dignified in letting yourself be ruled by irrational fears.

      --
      Most ACs are not even worth the keystrokes to insult them. Be generically insulted by this and ignored otherwise.
    11. Re:Letting go by Aighearach · · Score: 1

      derrrrrrrp!

      I know my father and was there, you insensitive clod!

      I mean, really. really. dude.

  18. Anonymous - Voice of GOD? by ae1294 · · Score: 1, Funny

    So Anonymous was right? I should just kill my self now? Everyone told me it was trolling? I feel so empty inside, how could they lie like that. I don't think I'll even go to the rest of my marketing meetings today.

  19. Re:I want to die peacefully in my sleep like my Da by jeffmeden · · Score: 1

    and not screaming in terror like the passengers in his car.

    But all kidding aside, I agree that the so called "futile care" exists for the patients loved ones and not the patient themselves.

    Ugh. I LOLed (unfortunately). Well done.

  20. Food for thought by stox · · Score: 4, Informative

    Over 50% of health care spending goes to pay for the last two weeks of life.

    --
    "To those who are overly cautious, everything is impossible. "
    1. Re:Food for thought by Rob+the+Bold · · Score: 2

      Over 50% of health care spending goes to pay for the last two weeks of life.

      You're often in pretty poor health right before you die.

      --
      I am not a crackpot.
    2. Re:Food for thought by BCoates · · Score: 2

      I miss the bus more often when I run after it than when I don't.

    3. Re:Food for thought by stox · · Score: 1

      Well, Duh! The point is that we are spending countless billions of dollars on health care that does not change the end result. Instead, many whose outcomes could be positive and lasting, are denied care because there is no money left.

      So, let me restate what I said earlier, over half of our health care spending is going to waste as it does not change the end result, and simply causes people to suffer longer than they would have otherwise.

      --
      "To those who are overly cautious, everything is impossible. "
    4. Re:Food for thought by twebb72 · · Score: 1

      Over 50% of health care spending goes to pay for the last two weeks of life.

      The other 50% goes to the first two weeks of life.

    5. Re:Food for thought by martas · · Score: 1

      My kingdom for mod points! This is the best way to demonstrate this concept I have ever seen!

    6. Re:Food for thought by FormOfActionBanana · · Score: 1

      Whoosh. Seriously.

      We could save 50% of health care cost by letting people die when they die.

      --
      Take off every 'sig' !!
    7. Re:Food for thought by im_thatoneguy · · Score: 1

      Yes, but what % of healthcare costs save your life? I had a rare and very deadly arm infection that hospitalized me for a week. Probably racked up a substantial portion of my life's healthcare expenses. But instead of dieing it saved my life. I am not on government healthcare so I pay for my insurance, it's expensive but being alive to enjoy my life is the best thing money can buy and you can bet your ass that if there is a 5% improvement in my chance for survival I will try it. No use for that money when I'm gone.

  21. This reminds me.... by TheCarp · · Score: 5, Interesting

    Of a neurologist who had a stroke, and wrote an article about it later. It was really amusing how she wrote about it. She knew what was going on, she knew the signs, hell, she was an expert. She called for help of course, but, she talked about how during it, she was having a rich internal dialog about the process... thinking of what functions were broken, how it was manifesting and how she experienced it....

    I think that is a lot of it. Other studies have found that the groups who spend the most on healthcare at the end, and spend the most time in hospital beds prolonging life are... the religious people. Atheists are much more in line with doctors. Why?

    My own hypothesis, which fits my own experiences to is... that belief in an afterlife, in the absence of other experiences (like working in healthcare and seeing people die all the time), lets people ignore death. It happens later, there is life afterwards, everlasting life.

    Atheists and people who deal with death on a regular basis have no such excuse. As an atheist, I came to terms with the lack of an afterlife early. I remember being maybe 14 years old when I realized that I was going to die, that was going to be it....and even that.... I didn't want to spend my time in a hospital bed. I knew...then...at 14, that when the time came, I would want to just die, even if it meant taking my own life. Not a desire to kill myself now or anything depressing like that, but an affirmation that life will someday not be fine, and never be fine again, and that when that happens, I know I can check out.

    I have talked with some people who struggled with suicidal thoughts, serious ones, not attention whores. A few said that when they decided how they wanted to die, and put together a cyanide pill or some such.... just knowing it was there was enough. Knowing that they could end it provided a sort of final resolution, a comfort that allowed them to move past it and stop thinking about it.

    On the other hand, I feel bad for the very religious. Doubt is common, almost inevitable. How can you not be on your death bed and wondering if those stories were true? For a religious person to be wrong, could mean so many things, hell, a different religions hell.... what if you chose the wrong god? For me as an atheist, whats to doubt? If there is an afterlife, great....but a heaven one seems just as unlikely as a hell. We literally have nothing to worry about.

    --
    "I opened my eyes, and everything went dark again"
    1. Re:This reminds me.... by davek · · Score: 2

      I think that is a lot of it. Other studies have found that the groups who spend the most on healthcare at the end, and spend the most time in hospital beds prolonging life are... the religious people. Atheists are much more in line with doctors. Why?

      I think you've been looking at false religions. In my experience, religious people believe they have victory over death, and don't fear it. In fact, keeping someone alive artificially is more of an affront to "God's Will" than anything else. Those who are the most afraid of death are those who would advocate suicide & euthanasia, because they want to get it over with. Religious people don't fear it, therefore they let nature take its course.

      For me as an atheist, whats to doubt? If there is an afterlife, great....but a heaven one seems just as unlikely as a hell. We literally have nothing to worry about.

      Unless you're wrong, of course.

      --
      6th Street Radio @ddombrowsky
    2. Re:This reminds me.... by TeXMaster · · Score: 5, Informative

      Of a neurologist who had a stroke, and wrote an article about it later. It was really amusing how she wrote about it. She knew what was going on, she knew the signs, hell, she was an expert. She called for help of course, but, she talked about how during it, she was having a rich internal dialog about the process... thinking of what functions were broken, how it was manifesting and how she experienced it....

      You are probably thinking about Jill Bolte Taylor's "Stroke of insight". She even made a TED talk about it

      --
      "I'm never quite so stupid as when I'm being smart" (Linus van Pelt)
    3. Re:This reminds me.... by g0bshiTe · · Score: 1

      The unless you're wrong argument works both ways though.

      --
      I am Bennett Haselton! I am Bennett Haselton!
    4. Re:This reminds me.... by Volante3192 · · Score: 1

      Religious people don't fear it, therefore they let nature take its course.

      Of course it's natural! God told Merck how to make it!

    5. Re:This reminds me.... by VAElynx · · Score: 1

      There was a nice slovak , IIRC written by G. Vamos , short story from the 30s how a medical student commits suicide via poison pill out of poverty, and calmly writes in his diary everything he experiences, as long as he's able to.

    6. Re:This reminds me.... by artor3 · · Score: 1

      You have the exact same things to worry about as a theist. You believe you're right, they believe they're right. You'll both either be confident on your deathbed or not.

    7. Re:This reminds me.... by TheCarp · · Score: 1

      I think you are missing the point. It only works both ways in a logical debate. Thats besides the point.

      I am talking about the underlying emotional experience of what you might call a "crisis of faith". A religious person, generally, has their own images and ideas about death and afterlife. He has been told about this all his life, he believed in it... he had no reason to seriously contemplate a real end, since no end was actually in sight. So for him, doubt about whether he was wrong has real consequences...suddenly there is the possibility of an end, of no afterlife, or an undesirable one.

      An atheist facing the same well...as I said, I found it very natural to contemplate death and a final end much earlier. When it finally comes, what do I really have to worry about? An afterlife that I never believed in? There is nothing to doubt. Even if I were to doubt it...in what direction would I go? To doubt it requires replacing it with something else as a possibility.

      Think of it as the opposite of Dawkin's note on atheism... everyone is an atheist about the majority of gods that people have ever believed in. Every christian is an atheist to Shiva. How many christians do you think hit their death bed worried that maybe they were wrong and the hindu were right? There is a very natural course of doubt for a believer.... not so for an atheist.... if I were to be wrong, which god would I have been wrong about? Bugger all if I know.

      --
      "I opened my eyes, and everything went dark again"
    8. Re:This reminds me.... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

      Unless you're wrong, of course.

      Haha, what if YOU are wrong and Heaven is reserved only for those who worshiped rationalism and thus were not religious? What if your time on Earth is God's little tricky test for everyone's ability to reject that which has no evidence? Think about it, God is supposed to be smart, right? Would a smart being REALLY give away the answers for a test just like that in some kind of book?

    9. Re:This reminds me.... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      false religions ?
      I think that that is the most arrogant statement I have seen in a while.
      Anything that you take on faith is by definition something without proof (which can therefore be doubted), if you do not have to take something on faith you are not by definition talking about religion.

    10. Re:This reminds me.... by TheCarp · · Score: 1

      I haven't been looking at any religions. I have looked at articles referencing studies on the subject...which were clear. Atheists, on average, spend significantly less time and money on prolonging the end of their life with medical care. This is no theory or hypothesis, this is what the empirical data says.

      I was simply advancing my hypothesis, based on those articles and my personal experiences, to explain why this is the case.

      What you are missing is....wrong about what? Wrong about the christian god? Wrong about zeus? Wrong about Jupiter Optimus Maximus? Wrong about the Hindu pantheon? Which one might I be wrong about?

      But more to the point...I could be wrong about any of them, thats not what I am talking about. I am saying, in my own mind, there is nothing to doubt. Nothing to be wrong about. Disavowing one belief doesn't require it to be replaced with some other. How does one believe in or doubt nothingness? This is not about objective right or wrong, simply the mental process that people endure at the end of life.

      For me, death in old age is not something I expect to bring me any benefit, nor any harm. So I have nothing to doubt, the only thing I expect is for it to end my lifetime and the suffering that I will be in as my health fails. That, I have no reason to doubt.

      I suggest you amend your hypothesis to explain why religious people DO spend more time and money on prolonging life because... thats exactly what the data finds.

      --
      "I opened my eyes, and everything went dark again"
    11. Re:This reminds me.... by TheCarp · · Score: 1

      YES! Thank you! I really enjoy the fuck out of TED talks.... but you know... sometimes a year later its hard to remember exactly who said something and where I saw it.

      --
      "I opened my eyes, and everything went dark again"
    12. Re:This reminds me.... by Aighearach · · Score: 1

      At 14 I had all sorts of romantic notions about what I might want in the future. As an adult I want to value my life, to fight for it if needed.

    13. Re:This reminds me.... by rock_climbing_guy · · Score: 2

      No, I believe you are wrong about the doubt issue

      I am a lapsed Catholic. As a child and as a young adult, I attended church frequently and I also attended Presbyterian school where my beliefs were re-inforced.

      Intellectually, I understand that my Catholic associates who remain faithful are atheists with respect to almost all gods any man has ever believed in. I have simply taken that atheism one god further.

      However, I will confess to you that on an emotional level, I am afraid of death and afraid of being punished in Hell for all eternity for my lack of faith. I can't explain exactly why, but it seems as if the years upon years of believing and having that belief reinforced have instilled an emotional fear of God that can't be intellectually reasoned with.

      So, as an atheist, I fear that when it comes time for me to face death, the experience will be emotionally terrifying even though I believe that death being the final end is the best explanation.

      --
      Wh47 d1d j00 541, 31337 15n't t3h r0xor5 ne m0r3???
    14. Re:This reminds me.... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      As a (privately) religious person, I don't fear death, but I do fear dying. When I check myself out, hopefully in the very distant future, I won't be asking permission. Which isn't to say the prospect of death doesn't sadden me. Even positing an afterlife, nothing will ever be the same, and the passing separation from loved ones and the beauty of God's creations is an ache in my heart.

    15. Re:This reminds me.... by phorm · · Score: 1

      We literally have nothing to worry about.

      Except dying. People obsess over whether they locked the front door or turned off the tap. I'm fairly sure that some atheists probably have a bit gnawing at their minds when the end comes around...

    16. Re:This reminds me.... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      First of all what is a false religion? That implies there is a true religion which is statistically unlikely. Well at least being the one you believe in.

      Second of all everyone is an atheist. Some just believe in one less god than others.

    17. Re:This reminds me.... by TheCarp · · Score: 1

      Who didn't? I mean this was hardly the only thing on my mind at the time. In fact, it wasn't even difficult for me. I remember thinking about it, I remember realizing that things would eventually end, and really I was, and am, very ok with that. In fact, only since I have been married and had to face that one of us must, almost certainly, go on for years without the other that ever made me find it sad.

      Not to say I don't love life or would fight for it, if needed. Just... I realize that the day may come when the things worth fighting for are gone, when the life I know is already over, and the path forward is only pain. I promise you, I will not live to be the empty shell of a man who can't remember the faces and names of his own loved ones. I will not continue long in unending pain that leaves me unable to function and is expected to never end so long as I live. I will not ask anyone, particularly not someone that I care about, to give up their own ability to live life freely so they can wipe my ass and change my diapers.

      Furthermore, I have no intention of selfishly keeping a hospital bed from someone who has a chance of seeing the end of their ailments while still alive. I don't begrudge people who do it,people who cling on to the very end... I understand why, I feel bad for them. Who knows, maybe this is what I will be wrong about, but, I doubt it.

      --
      "I opened my eyes, and everything went dark again"
    18. Re:This reminds me.... by TheCarp · · Score: 1

      Well that much is clear, but how I individually end up is hardly really the issue, its just the only subjective experience of considering death that I have to draw on directly. Any individual can go either way, but, the question is, why do theists spend more time on their death beds and spend more money? Thats the model I have on hand to understand it. If you have a better one, or a refutation of the data, then.... please do enlighten.

      Actually....I think this is a vital question. Healthcare is 20% of GDP, with 50% of that spent in the last years of life. How we approach the end of life culturally and the choices that large numbers of us make adds up. How you or I end up hardly matters.... but how people in general face their end is actually becoming a very important issue.

      --
      "I opened my eyes, and everything went dark again"
    19. Re:This reminds me.... by Hentes · · Score: 1

      I think you got it backwards. People trying to fight death will grab on any hope, one of those being religion. Many people become "religious" towards the end of their lives.

    20. Re:This reminds me.... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      First of all, how do you determine which religions are true and which false?

      Second, different people are religious for different reasons. It could be that lots of people are attracted to religion precisely because they are afraid of death and religion offers them a (false) promise that they will live forever. Those people would be afraid of death no matter the circumstance, to the very end, so one could posit that they will also be likely to request all kinds of futile medical care.

    21. Re:This reminds me.... by justthinkit · · Score: 1

      You need to rock climb out of the prison they built for you.

      --
      I come here for the love
    22. Re:This reminds me.... by Beeftopia · · Score: 1

      So, as an atheist, I fear that when it comes time for me to face death, the experience will be emotionally terrifying even though I believe that death being the final end is the best explanation.

      You don't have to believe anything. You can just accept that you don't know. If consciousness continues, you'll find out. If not - well, these are the bodies the universe has organized itself into and thus it didn't allow us to know.

    23. Re:This reminds me.... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      However, I will confess to you that on an emotional level, I am afraid of death and afraid of being punished in Hell for all eternity for my lack of faith. I can't explain exactly why, but it seems as if the years upon years of believing and having that belief reinforced have instilled an emotional fear of God that can't be intellectually reasoned with.

      Well, as an ex-catholic, if you were to start having fears that no longer being catholic means you'll go to hell, you can at least take consolation in that catholics don't think a belief in god is a requirement for entry in heaven. If you're a good person, and you've led a good life, you're in. Everybody sins, and you haven't been getting absolution so you're unlikely to go straight to heaven, but if you haven't sinned too badly, that just means you'll spend some time in purgatory before going to heaven.

      And when the protestants chime in that the above is incorrect and good works won't get you heaven, you will be reminded that people, even people who are so close in their beliefs that they have christianity in common, don't agree on what it is that you need to do to go to heaven. You ask yourself, "was I wrong to ditch catholicism and become an atheist?" You might as well ask yourself, "would I have been right in staying a catholic instead of becoming a baptist? A Muslim? If Judaism is right, have I been breaking the first commandment by treating Jesus as God? What if Hinduism is right? What if the Ancient Greeks were right and I've been pissing off Hera?"

      I can't be sure that there's nothing supernatural in me that will survive this body. I can't be sure that there are no supernatural beings out there that will dictate what this afterlife will be like. The one thing I can hope for is such a thing exist, this thing is not so petty and dickish that it will care about what I chose to believe in given the opportunity to believe different things. If I'm wrong, and I'm left at the mercy of supernatural petty dickish beings, then I'm screwed and it's out of my hands anyway. I certainly wouldn't choose to worship something petty and dickish. I don't think those are good qualities, and pretending they are good qualities just because the being is powerful enough to reward me with eternal happiness or punish me with eternal suffering would be hypocritical. Such a dickish being would probably recognize that hypocrisy and punish me anyway, even if I chose to worship it.

    24. Re:This reminds me.... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      YES! Thank you! I really enjoy the fuck out of TED talks.... but you know... sometimes a year later its hard to remember exactly who said something and where I saw it.

      TED talks are awesome, but every time somebody brings out this particular TED talk, I have to point out that it was a horrible talk. Her story is very interesting from the perspective of someone who suffered a stroke, but from a scientific perspective, it was all pseudosicence, and it needs to be disregarded despite her credentials.

    25. Re:This reminds me.... by gweihir · · Score: 1

      Agreed. If there is an afterlife, fine. I expect there will be, but If I am wrong, not that much of a problem. "Heaven" and "Hell" are concepts for small children (or the ones with similar minds) that are just pathetic. Nothing in life is ever that simple and hence it is extremely unlikely to be in death. The admission-criteria for "heaven" and "hell" are deeply flawed and inherently inconsistent. Another strong indicator that this is pure fantasy, designed to control people and not as an explanation of anything.

      Well, the problem of religion is rather clear today: Religion is a typically malicious meme that is subject to evolution. As such the memes that survive are those that infect the most people. Prohibitions against suicide and helping people die are just part of this selection, although denying the terminally ill a dignified end seems to be an over-generalization on the part of those affected. As most of those tortured to death in this fashion cannot negatively impact the continued infection of others with the malicious mental pathogen, this misconception is not a disadvantage for the pathogen. Evolution is not perfect, something like a religion just has to be sufficiently better than most competitors in order to survive. Really all quite clear and scientifically sound.

      So let me repeat this: Anybody religious is mentally infected and ill. Many people manage to keep the sickness under control and are still partially in control of their minds. Of these, many will still see reality and be able to act accordingly. But quite a few do not and become a danger to others. They themselves are basically empty husks taken over by the sickness and used to spread itself further. A sure sign is lack of compassion in people that are not (or did not used to be) psychopaths. Torturing people to death in the fashion described there is just one of the indicators. The meme-infection blinds their minds to the realities of the situation.

      The funny thing here is that even people that describe themselves as "strongly religious" often are still partially in control and hence are not strongly religious.

      --
      Most ACs are not even worth the keystrokes to insult them. Be generically insulted by this and ignored otherwise.
    26. Re:This reminds me.... by gweihir · · Score: 1

      For me as an atheist, whats to doubt? If there is an afterlife, great....but a heaven one seems just as unlikely as a hell. We literally have nothing to worry about.

      Unless you're wrong, of course.

      Which is so unlikely, it does not even merit any preparation for that case. But be my guest, bet on one of the almost assuredly wrong outcomes, and very likely waste your life.

      --
      Most ACs are not even worth the keystrokes to insult them. Be generically insulted by this and ignored otherwise.
    27. Re:This reminds me.... by gweihir · · Score: 1

      And that is where "religion is a meme infection" comes in. The meme suppresses doubts, otherwise it would not be effective in competing with the other memes like "Shiva". That is also why those deeply infected cannot think logically about the whole question.

      --
      Most ACs are not even worth the keystrokes to insult them. Be generically insulted by this and ignored otherwise.
    28. Re:This reminds me.... by gweihir · · Score: 1

      Well, I expect that religious people on some level know that religion is just a meme infection with a malicious meme. Hence they fear death even more than other people, because deep down they know that not only are they not prepared, they also have wasted their lives. Quite consistent with the facts.

      --
      Most ACs are not even worth the keystrokes to insult them. Be generically insulted by this and ignored otherwise.
    29. Re:This reminds me.... by im_thatoneguy · · Score: 1

      I don't think it's religiosity, I think it's just intelligence and education. Most doctors I know are very religious. However atheists do tend to be better educated, so I suspect that the correlation with prudent end of life care (if such a correlation does in fact exist) is purely coincidental more than some deep seated philosophical perspective on the after life.

      If you don't accept that the earth is billions of years old because "some scientist says so" then it is unlikely you'll believe your doctor who says your father is past saving.

    30. Re:This reminds me.... by davek · · Score: 1

      What you are missing is....wrong about what? Wrong about the christian god? Wrong about zeus? Wrong about Jupiter Optimus Maximus? Wrong about the Hindu pantheon? Which one might I be wrong about?

      But more to the point...I could be wrong about any of them, thats not what I am talking about. I am saying, in my own mind, there is nothing to doubt. Nothing to be wrong about.

      Quite a convenient logical scaffolding you've built there, isn't it? You don't care about the question, therefore the question doesn't exist. First, I'm not arguing about the superiority of any religion's god. I know my beliefs are true by faith, and as a Presbyterian, I know that only God can change your mind, not me. To me, God is obvious because we are here. To an "atheist," their god is themselves or the unquestionable sovereignty of the state. As the philosopher said, "if god didn't exist, it would be necessary for people to invent him." It's human nature. Natural law. Truths that are "self evident." All this points to a sovereign being greater than ourselves.

      If there is no god, then there is likewise no judgement. Justice cannot exist. The law is in vain. How can one live with that?

      I suggest you amend your hypothesis to explain why religious people DO spend more time and money on prolonging life because... thats exactly what the data finds.

      I have no idea where this data is coming from. I'm speaking only from my own experience in my church and other PCA congregations with whom I'm familiar. If you define "religious" as "not atheist", then yes, I can see your point. A catholic will prolong life to make sure they have their checklist of things done to make sure they don't go to purgatory. A muslim fears that god will be in a "bad mood" when they die, and will damn them to hell just for the fun of it. A communist fears that their legacy of serving the state will be tarnished, and will fight to stay alive as long as possible.

      This is why I said you must be looking at false religions. True religion believes in victory over death, and the irresistible grace of God that will present us worthy to be in God's presence. Does that mean we should commit suicide or live recklessly to get into heaven sooner? Not at all. God expects us to work in this world for His purpose for as long as He intends, not one moment less.. or more.

      --
      6th Street Radio @ddombrowsky
    31. Re:This reminds me.... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Please, please, please do not be afraid of hell. It's such a silly concept that a conscious entity would burn someone for eternity for doubting a book full of metaphors and contradictions. How could anyone respect this "god" that is so cruel to the people he supposedly loves???

      Trust me man, no spooky alien is trying to burn you for eternity for not "believing". Ridiculous.

    32. Re:This reminds me.... by TeXMaster · · Score: 1

      YES! Thank you! I really enjoy the fuck out of TED talks.... but you know... sometimes a year later its hard to remember exactly who said something and where I saw it.

      TED talks are awesome, but every time somebody brings out this particular TED talk, I have to point out that it was a horrible talk. Her story is very interesting from the perspective of someone who suffered a stroke, but from a scientific perspective, it was all pseudosicence, and it needs to be disregarded despite her credentials.

      Since I'm not even remotely an expert about neurology, I always thought that the talk drifted a little too often on the mystic side, but I was unable to pinpoint where the scientific part failed. Thanks for the references.

      --
      "I'm never quite so stupid as when I'm being smart" (Linus van Pelt)
  22. This is why we need android doctors by arcite · · Score: 1

    They won't have sentiment or 'feelings'. They'll fight to save our lives and won't be burdened with any negatives, such as ethics or morals ... as long as our credit is good.

    1. Re:This is why we need android doctors by Aighearach · · Score: 1

      ... as long as our credit is good.

      Or even if it isn't, depending on how you program them.

    2. Re:This is why we need android doctors by jamesh · · Score: 1

      They won't have sentiment or 'feelings'. They'll fight to save our lives and won't be burdened with any negatives, such as ethics or morals ... as long as our credit is good.

      I was going to post about android doctors and software bugs causing them to remove the wrong extremity or something... but human doctors do that often enough that android doctors couldn't really be any worse... so bring it on I guess.

  23. Dr. Murray clearly not American by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

    'What it buys is misery we would not inflict on a terrorist." Not only is he not American, but he clearly has never met one, either. Strange how he works in Southern California....

  24. Re:I want to die peacefully in my sleep like my Da by EdIII · · Score: 5, Funny

    IT has something similar. Everyone of us has experienced it.

    Poor bastard brings in a laptop with that forlorn look on their faces. "Dude... save my porn". You boot up and the drive is not recognized. Take it out, hook it up it for diagnostics and it is dead. No S.M.A.R.T status, nothing. You gently touch the drive and there are no RPMs .

    You sit him down, and explain carefully, that the drive is dead. It could have been overheating from leaving the laptop on the bed while going to town with that whole bottle of hand lotion.

    There is an outside chance, experimental even, that you could open the drive and transplant it into a working one. The transplant waiting list is not just long, but extremely expensive and not guaranteed. (I had one guy explain to me that the platters looked like an airplane came in for a hard landing and scratched the whole surface deeply).

    He leaves laptop in hand, tears freely flowing, and you look to your buddy and tell him, "Dude if I ever lose my porn like that just kill me". Then you remember that you have knowledge and it is protected with ZFS and scrubbing. Thank God.

  25. CPR can be awful by beadfulthings · · Score: 4, Interesting

    Some years ago when my grandmother entered the final stages of her illness--and her life--her longtime physician issued a "Do Not Resuscitate" order. He informed us one afternoon that her end could come at any time. Because she was a religious person, we ensured that she received the appropriate religious rites. Then we settled down, quietly, to watch and wait with her. It was somewhat inspirational and comforting, as she began to "see" friends and family who were long gone and to speak with whoever she was visualizing. She drifted in and out of consciousness. Late in the evening she appeared to fall asleep, we left to get some dinner, and that's when the whole thing went out the window. Her heart stopped, and instead of just letting her go, the DNR order was disregarded, the resuscitation equipment was brought in, and the hospital staff set to "work" on her. It's brutal. It can be like beating up on someone. Fragile old ribs can be broken, the body is bruised, and there is a great deal of noise and pain.

    They succeeded in restoring her heartbeat, and she lingered for another two days in pretty severe discomfort. The doctor was livid and handed out appropriate reprimands, but by then it was too late for my grandmother. She was robbed of what had been a peaceful end-of-life interval, and we were left with a boatload of guilt for taking a break and leaving her unguarded from the people who were supposed to be following her doctor's instructions and taking care of her.

    Do what you can to safeguard your elderly relatives from this. It's brutal, violent, pointless, and turns a quiet death into a three-ring circus of pain for the victim.

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    "Here's what's happening. You're starting to drive like your Dad..." - Red Green
    1. Re:CPR can be awful by the+eric+conspiracy · · Score: 2

      What you describe is assault. Hopefully you reported it to the police plus filed a civil suit.

    2. Re:CPR can be awful by MobyDisk · · Score: 2

      In the US, Good Samaritan laws protect health care workers from being sued for performing CPR.

    3. Re:CPR can be awful by g0bshiTe · · Score: 2

      Once in effect a DNR can only be rescinded by the patient of someone acting as executor in the event the patient can not act on their own. By ignoring the order you could have sued.

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    4. Re:CPR can be awful by SydShamino · · Score: 1

      If someone there had medical power of attorney for your grandmother, that person should have been able to stop the resuscitation attempt. Alternatively and preferably, she should be moved from a regular hospital bed to hospice if time permits. In hospice the nurses are merely there to alleviate pain while their patients die; morphine is unrestricted if needed and desired, and there are no resuscitation attempts.

      And from a heartless practical standpoint, hospice costs you/your insurance/taxpayers/whatever much less.

      Also, as the other reply states, if you or someone there with medical POA did tell them to stop, and the proceeded anyway, you should have filed a civil suit, not because it would help your grandmother but because it would help the next person who wanted to die with dignity in that hospital.

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    5. Re:CPR can be awful by ChrisMP1 · · Score: 1

      Even with a DNR? My mother, an emergency room nurse, says those are always taken very seriously.

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    6. Re:CPR can be awful by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Inspirational and comforting that she was buying into the lie of an afterlife and the bearded guy in the sky lie? Go fuck yourself, bible thumper.

    7. Re:CPR can be awful by frank_adrian314159 · · Score: 1

      Yes, but it doesn't keep the hospital for being sued for a buttload of money for not having procedures in place to an extent that DNR orders are ignored.

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    8. Re:CPR can be awful by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      This is why it is always important to have relatives around to watchdog medical professionals. There have been more times than I can count when someone has screwed up and it took someone being there to get the desired result.

    9. Re:CPR can be awful by dak664 · · Score: 1

      A little bit of DucklDuckGoing will show that hospice patients, who are treated with painkillers and sympathy instead of aggressive testing and IV management, actually live longer for a variety of illnesses, including some cardiac conditions. When the end does come there is something to be said for dying comfortably at home with family instead of spending your last couple of days in a hospital bed cursing your caregivers.

    10. Re:CPR can be awful by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      It's also possible they couldn't find the DNR in time.

      A distant relative of mine was once a nurse. She had a patient that had a DNR, and when his heart stopped she let him die per the DNR. She got into trouble and was fired because his DNR order was not in her possession when she let him die (head nurse with the key to the filing cabinet wasn't available in the few minutes she had to decide). The legal rationale was that even though the patient in this case had an active DNR, and she knew he had a DNR, because she didn't have it on her when he died she didn't know with metaphysical certitude that he had a current DNR, and without that metaphysical certitude she should have performed CPR. After all, she could have misremembered which patient had the DNR, the patient or his executor could have rescinded it since she last checked, etc.

    11. Re:CPR can be awful by beadfulthings · · Score: 1

      I should probably have added that I was not in the generation in charge when all this occurred, so the decisions were not mine to make. When my own mother got to that point (the daughter of the woman who was so abused), I made certain that we got the medical and legal powers of attorney, the advance directive, and the living will all settled while she was still of sound mind. When the time came for her to enter (the really excellent) hospice care, there were a number of decisions that had to be made. A frank but compassionate discussion was held to help me make those decisions. I had a lot of misconceptions, but once they were explained and made clear to me, the decisions became a lot easier. Her death occurred in peace, comfort, and with dignity. I'm a confirmed convert to hospice care and will be certain my own family is equipped with all those documents when it eventually becomes my turn. The only real struggle that I had was that the hospital was anxious to get rid of my mother once we decided against any more treatment, and they tried to have her placed in an inappropriate hospice setting--a place that had received very low marks during various state evaluations. I was able to stand firm and take the time needed to get her into a good, well-rated hospice/nursing home.

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    12. Re:CPR can be awful by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I call bs. Physicians do not issue DNRs. Those are legal documents. This means next-of-kin, guardian ad litems, and other legally allowed people can request DNR status. Physicians can recommend when patients should have DNRs and DNIs, but that's as far as it goes.

    13. Re:CPR can be awful by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      False. Good samaritan laws generally protect bystanders. Medical professionals have a duty and standard of care and if they do not meet it, they are liable.

    14. Re:CPR can be awful by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      By ignoring the order you could have sued.

      HOORAY!

      That's all right then.

      Phew!

    15. Re:CPR can be awful by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      they should still get sued for malpractice for ignoring a Do not Resucitate.

    16. Re:CPR can be awful by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Not in the face of a valid DNR. Short answer: Good Samaritan laws -- like good intentions -- don't protect health care professionals when they clearly err. A suit on the described facts wouldn't be dismissed just because the staff said "Haha, good samaritan law!"

      Long answer: it's more complicated.

      IAAL, but not -your- L.

    17. Re:CPR can be awful by the+eric+conspiracy · · Score: 1

      So you are saying that if you are a health care professional you can tackle me on the street and give me CPR despite that fact that I am screaming NO at the time?

      I think not. You have the right to refuse medical treatment. Of course if you are uncommunicative there is an assumption of consent.

    18. Re:CPR can be awful by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      What you are describing is a criminal offense (depends on the state, but it is a second-degree felony in mine, punishable by up to 15 years in prison). I hope you brought the matter to the attention of the local DA and pursued criminal charges against the individuals who violated the DNR order.

      Violating a DNR is also actionable by the Estate/NoK in civil court, so I hope you are pursuing a parallel civil action against them as well.

    19. Re:CPR can be awful by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      That's as much "good Samaritan" as my mom doing something I didn't ask for and didn't want in the first place, and then saying "But I only wanted to *help* you!" and being angry at *me* for not being "thankful".

      I. DON'T. WANT. IT.

      There is nothing good about performing CPR when all it causes is harm. If you, as a doctor, make a judgement that CPR will be a good thing in a specific case, and it turns out that it isn't, then for that person's sake, KILL that person again. NOW. Otherwise you are just a cruel greedy bastard who wants to make two more days of money from a horribly suffering old person, and no law shall protect you!

    20. Re:CPR can be awful by Drewcool · · Score: 1

      Laws and liability get more complicated further down the totem pole.

      I am a (now seasonal) lifeguard and there is a lady that comes in every day that has explained to each guard that she has a DNR. Our standing orders are to perform CPR to the best of our abilities until the EMTs arrive and then allow them to make the legal decision to execute the DNR.

      The reason being that a city owned aquatics center is easy and worthwhile to sue, especially for negligence. And I am unsure if my state's Good Samaritan law has a clause for following a DNR in good faith. Finally, miscommunication is rampant. I'd rather explain why I unnecessarily broke someone's ribs instead of why I was mistakenly informed that they should not be resuscitated.

    21. Re:CPR can be awful by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      To what point? Suing wouldn't have helped his family members, it wouldn't have punished those responsible (they're already paying for malpractice insurance). His family might not have even gotten the money - the insurance company could have argued that money should go towards the costs of her care after she was resuscitated.
       
      The only winners would have been the lawyers.

    22. Re:CPR can be awful by djmurdoch · · Score: 1

      I'm curious: have you told this woman what the standing orders are? They seem reasonable, but if she's serious about what she wants, she should be able to decide not to go to your pool.

    23. Re:CPR can be awful by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      So you are saying that if you are a health care professional you can tackle me on the street and give me CPR despite that fact that I am screaming NO at the time?

      http://www.trilulilu.ro/Ana/51d91d4c6559e6

    24. Re:CPR can be awful by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Can't you guys deal with any problem without filing a lawsuit?! Don't you see that your medical system is in such a mess precisely because of the eagerness of the Americans to file suits? Do you necessarily need to profit from anyone else's mistakes?

    25. Re:CPR can be awful by gweihir · · Score: 1

      Disregarding a DNR should result in a few years in prison and a permanent removal from practicing medicine an any capacity.

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    26. Re:CPR can be awful by MobyDisk · · Score: 1

      Good samaritan laws generally protect bystanders

      That's what I thought until I started searching around. Apparently some of them specifically protect first responders, people trained in CPR, etc. but specifically forbid bystanders from interfering. (Wikipedia is a good starting point.)

      Medical professionals have a duty and standard of care and if they do not meet it, they are liable.

      Perhaps, but they aren't liable for assault, which is what the parent was saying. Check this out: According to Florida state standards of care: "Resuscitation may be withheld or withdrawn from a patient..." so the DNR does not *forbid* them from resucitating, it just gives them the legal option. That is probably because they may be responding to an emergency and don't have time to look at paperwork (although I would think it would be a big sign right there, duh.)

    27. Re:CPR can be awful by g0bshiTe · · Score: 1

      That's very true, which in this case is most likely why the DNR was ignored without the DR and family present.

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    28. Re:CPR can be awful by Drewcool · · Score: 1

      I'll ask my boss when we get off furlough. I haven't had that shift for a while.

    29. Re:CPR can be awful by SydShamino · · Score: 1

      My wife's great-aunt learned she had cancer shortly before Christmas several years back. She was still totally of sound mind and able to make her own decisions, so she: A) had everyone over for Christmas that year, B) checked herself into hospice in April, and C) died about a week later. My wife spent the week with her in hospice.

      No hospitals. No medical care. She didn't want any of that. And I don't think she had to go through all the same hassles. But depending on the illness, not everyone is able to make their own decisions like that. And, once you are put into a hospital, it's very difficult to get out if you're not "recuperating", imo.

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  26. Re:RTFA? No. by gurps_npc · · Score: 1
    Medical doctors know how to do the following VERY well:

    Cut into your body, remove things you don't need, without killing you.

    Sew you back up.

    Set bones - with or without surgery

    Kill infections

    Figure out what is killing you

    Cut into your body and move things around (i.e. plastic surgery,

    Tell you which activities/things are bad for you - particularly if they first diagnosed you with a specific issue.

    If you ask them to do much more than that, you get temporary fixes. Kidney transplants, pacemakers, etc. all have a relatively short life expectancy.

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  27. Re:I want to die peacefully in my sleep like my Da by jd · · Score: 5, Insightful

    Well, I'm not entirely sure on that one. First, there are disputes over how to even perform CPR for maximum effectiveness, with some saying that chest compression alone produces better outcomes than a mix of chest and breathing. If the doctors aren't in agreement over what CPR should be done, and different methods are being rolled into a single line item, then the statistics for the outcome really don't mean anything useful. It tells you that *something* is ineffective, but it cannot tell you what that something is.

    Second, all doctors either swear to the Hippocratic Oath or implicitly sign up to it by becoming doctors. Since the Oath is witnessed by an independent third party, it is arguably a legally-binding common law "gentleman's agreement"/"verbal contract". Technically, the Oath states that doctors should do no harm and minimizing suffering is technically doing just that. However, very few Western nations interpret things that way. If they did, assisted suicide under well-defined conditions* would be legal. It isn't because they don't. As such, doctors end up in a double bind. Do they do the clinical least harm or the legal least harm? Whichever one they do, they violate the other.

    *I am not a fan of assisted suicide, but the only way to bring the ethics and law together is to have some cases where it is legal. IMHO, the Oath should move from common law to contract law and be the defining standard. It's a "floating" standard, since different levels of technology and understanding will alter what least harm is actually achievable, and it is a far more credible benchmark than the religious and political whims of the day.

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  28. Blaze of Glory by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    I will join the army at age 80 and the enemy can cut me down in a hail of gunfire.

    1. Re:Blaze of Glory by Hartree · · Score: 1

      I think that's the main idea of John Scalzi's "Old Man's War".

    2. Re:Blaze of Glory by Shatrat · · Score: 1

      Join a Syrian or Iranian protest march. More dangerous, less boot camp.

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  29. Death Panels by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    We won't be able to have a reasoned discussion about End Of Life issues in this country for another generation, at the soonest. The well was poisoned by the Republicans. Fuck You Very Much, Assholes!

    1. Re:Death Panels by sjames · · Score: 1

      The worst part is the way they glossed over the fact that we already HAVE "death panels". They ignore them since they are fully privatized death panels inside the insurance companies.

  30. Like the morphine drip by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

    I have been told by doctor friends that it is common practice to slowly increase the morphine drip on patients with end-stage illnesses to provide additional "comfort". The doctors understand that the patient's body will likely succumb to the affects of the drug and "slip off".

    Of course, one of the doctors telling me this winked and said "I'VE never done it, mind you."

    Really it's a convoluted mix of several things that account to a poor death experience in the States. Doctors are under orders to do everything they can and money is not a consideration. Insurance companies don't want hindsight 20/20 lawsuits alleging that more could have been done. There is a general "religious-y" feeling that people die when "their time has come". And the families almost never want to "let someone go".

    In the end many people either suffer weeks of painful life-prolonging treatments or spend the last days in a drug-induced coma. I would guess that many west European doctors would be amazed, medically impressed, but ultimately dismayed at the lengths we go to keep 90 year old patients alive.

  31. Kids are a different matter. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Of course physicians can make better informed decisions, they are pragmatic and know the results and outcome of disease

    But what about when their child gets sick? Do they make the same decisions then? It is one thing to make those decisions on your own, but what happens when it is applied to someone else you care for?

    I assume the results are different.

    Your point would be better served by considering what a doctor would suggest for a spouse, or parent.

    With a minor, there is the issue of consent. An adult has ultimate control over their own treatment; with a child, the parents have the ultimate say in most cases.

    Moreover, depending on the situation, a child may have the potential to live an entire lifetime if treatment succeeds, whereas an elderly patient may only live another few years.

  32. So much for our "technology" by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0
    Except for transistors that we seem to be able to make smaller and smaller, and maybe a few extra % of efficiency from our chemical-powered conveyances, nothing's really chaged in decades. We still don't know what makes matter alive, we don't understand disease or aging. We have no theoretical understanding of life, and our treatments are based on nothing more than trial and error. We need a concerted, serious effort at life extension because the natural spinoffs from such research would impact every single disease out there.

    I'm dismayed by the same poeple who buy the latest gadgets to "keep up" but at the same time have a Middle Age attitude about medicine and life span.

    1. Re:So much for our "technology" by g0bshiTe · · Score: 1

      Imagine how bad overpopulation would be if we all lived to be 150.

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    2. Re:So much for our "technology" by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0
      Weird, back when the infant mortality rate was high people had huge families. Then the standard of living increased along with better survival rates for kids. Guess what, we adapted and changed our social model. Guess what? We can change it again. Why does this simple and obvious truth always elude the anti life-extension folks? We'll adapt. We won't have a choice. So?

      And as for "overpopulation", take a look at a globe. Most of the planet is empty. Think of Canada. Oh it's too harsh and cold and dark? Yet Slashdot is the home of the "let's colonize Mars" folks.

    3. Re:So much for our "technology" by Miamicanes · · Score: 1

      > Imagine how bad overpopulation would be if we all lived to be 150.

      We'll "all" *never* live to be 150. At best, a percentage of those who currently make it to 100 might make it to 150, and most of those who make it to 40 would probably make it to 80 or 90. Even if cancer gets decisively vanquished like polio, people are still going to have fatal car wrecks, fall from ladders & roofs, die from snakebites, get shot by street thugs, and have medical emergencies in awkward places.

      If anything, given that most western countries now reproduce below the rate of replacement, extending the death date by a couple of decades would do little more than maintain the population status quo. Fewer kids, but more great-great-...-grandparents.

  33. Advanced directives are a must by hedgemage · · Score: 4, Interesting

    My mother died last month. She was a physician who worked primarily with elderly patients in nursing homes so for her losing a patient was a regular occurrence. She had a bad bout of pneumonia and her lungs were not recovering, so I had to make the hard choice whether or not to put her on a ventilator in order to keep her alive. My justification was that the respirator would only be used for a short time in order to give her lungs a chance to heal and recover. When it became apparent that she was not recovering, I had to make the decision to remove it and allow her to die naturally (it took less than an hour).
    My mom did not have an advanced directive specifying what kind of care she wished to receive if she were unable to choose for herself. This made my decisions very painful and difficult. I remembered the conversations I had with her about her caring for her own patients and how sometimes the families of her patients would request extreme measures at the end of life, and how this would contrast with borderline neglect during the patient's life.
    My mom also was opposed to assisted suicide. That much I knew. She felt life was a gift that shouldn't be wasted or rejected.
    In my mother's case, it was clear that if she were to survive she would need to be on the ventilator for an extended period of time, and enough time would pass that she would deteriorate physically due to being immobile in a hospital bed. Also, she was in the early stages of Parkinson's and it was almost a given that this violent shock to her system would result in an acceleration of its effects.
    Knowing that if she did recover her quality of life would be greatly reduced, I made the tough choice to let her go. One advantage of this was that I was able to hold hand, stroke her hair, and sing to her as she died surrounded by family. She was 73. I encourage everyone regardless of age to set up an advance directive determining the level of care they wish to have. It wouldn't have prevented my situation, but it would have made it easier if I knew ahead of time what mom wanted.

    1. Re:Advanced directives are a must by g0bshiTe · · Score: 3, Insightful

      I'm sorry for your loss, and I can sympathize. It sounds like you knew exactly what she needed when she needed it advanced directive or not. I think you did the right thing, painful though it may have been.

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    2. Re:Advanced directives are a must by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I'm sorry. I am probably going to face a similar situation in the not too distant future. My father hasn't told me what he wants, so I'm going to have to have "the conversation" with him some time soon. Not "the conversation" you have with your 12 year old son, the one you have with your 75 year old ailing father. So this thread is very helpful to me, and your post in particular has highlighted that I need to have that conversation. Best wishes and thanks.

  34. Health as a business compounds the problem by Morgaine · · Score: 4, Insightful

    It's not only a problem of unrealistic expectations by patients.

    There is also a conflict of interest between the doctor's duty in the best interests of his patients and in the best interests of the medical practice that employs him. A principled doctor can stay on the honest side to a large extent, but take transparent honesty too far and your career prospects are threatened.

    It's not really all that different to how it is in other professions. However, other professions don't have the same direct effect on human life and suffering, so the problem stands out a bit more in this discipline.

    It's especially bad in a country in which the medical industry is extremely lucrative which has the inevitable consequence that medical insurance is astronomically priced. That turns everything into a money game, and the result HAS to be bad medical practice: after all, a doctor cannot offer the same level of service to a person without money as to one who is rolling in it, because if he did, what would the rich person be paying for?

    Money distorts everything, but the effect is particularly harmful in the health profession.

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  35. My wife is a nurse by RPGonAS400 · · Score: 1

    She is amazed how many people are "full code" (meaning the staff must do anything to save them), even when they are very old and frail. It is usually the family that wants this. They don't realize what this will mean in reality. It means that if their heart stops they must do chest compressions which will probably break the persons ribs when they are old and fragile.

  36. Re:Reminds me of people wanting to fix old compute by evil_aaronm · · Score: 3, Insightful

    It depends. If you're trying to compile multiple projects simultaneously in Xcode then, yeah, get the new machine. If they're just running Word, IE, etc, that 10 year old machine can still do the job. And why not use an otherwise perfectly serviceable machine? One of my cars - Toyota Rav 4 - is going on 10 years. I have no intentions of replacing it just because it's 10 years old.

  37. Re:I want to die peacefully in my sleep like my Da by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 5, Informative

    1) Not all doctors take the Hippocratic oath. I am a doctor, and while I appreciate the sentiment behind the oath, I did not swear it myself.

    2) There a many different forms of the "oath". Nobody today takes the oldest know form, which of course is likely not the "original" (it is unknown if Hippocrates actually was involved in the original oath anyway). Did you know that the original oath prevents a physician from performing urological sugery, abortions, or assisted suicides? And did you know the original oath required the oath-takers to give free medical care and support to their teachers for life?

    3) Medical ethics has moved way, way beyond this simplistic and confusing Oath as the end-all-be-all. Re-adopting it would be like swapping out the laws of England with sharia law, or even the ten commandments.

    Bringing up "the oath" is entirely irrelevant to the discussion and is a red herring. It would also be a big step backwards to include it in physician training in the future, except as a historical curiosity.

  38. Re:I want to die peacefully in my sleep like my Da by bluemonq · · Score: 4, Insightful

    "First, there are disputes over how to even perform CPR for maximum effectiveness, with some saying that chest compression alone produces better outcomes than a mix of chest and breathing."

    There is pretty close to ZERO dispute over how to perform CPR. Compression-only CPR is intended for untrained individuals who may be under stress; it's easier to just simply keep pumping than to keep track of "how many compressions have been done, oh, now it's time to take a breathe". The average person may be more reluctant to put their lips on a complete stranger; it's also more difficult to alternate between breathing and compressions if there's just one person available. Paramedics, EMTs, etc do both compressions and ventilation.

  39. My mother passed away this fall by dpilot · · Score: 1

    My mother had a stroke this fall, and passed away as a result. She had an advanced directive in place, and my brother and I had medical power of attorney. Fortunately he and I agreed on what steps should be taken, etc.

    The medical people we dealt with were absolutely wonderful. I live 600+ miles away, and prior to leaving I managed things over the phone. They took the time to explain to me exactly what was happening, what the prognosis was, etc. Nor was this an open-and-shut case at the start, but as things developed further it became apparent what the end would be. They always informed me, answered my questions, and respected my opinions.

    By the time I got there, she was in the palliative care unit and they were keeping her out of pain, though by that time consciousness was long gone. They treated us well and were always concerned about how we were managing.

    Four years ago she had a fall, hip replacement, and a tough time coming out of the anesthesia. The medical people were helpful and informative back then. She recovered, though went into assisted living instead of to her own home for her last years.

    There are good medical professionals out there, and they're not all money-traps. There are also families out there who are not in the, "Do everything you can to keep Mommy alive!" mold. I have nothing but good to say about the terminal care she and we received at the hospital. Just before Christmas we received a few additional mailings about their grief counseling services, recognizing that things like this tend to hit hard in the holidays, especially the first after a loss.

    Been there, done that.

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  40. Better to be like the animal kingdom by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Just do it like they do on the Discovery Channel. They die. The living huddle around for the minute and then leave the dead on the side of the road. The world is over populated, you're a burden on society and you're only going to suffer anyways. Stop being a pussy, face up to the inevitable and let those wearing their hearts on their sleeves and singing their bleeding heart sonatas go f*ck themselves.

  41. DNR by g0bshiTe · · Score: 1

    This is the exact reason I carry a DDNR and a Med Alert style bracelet stating that.

    If I'm to that point, most likely I'd do little more than put my family through hell during rehabilitation, both emotionally and financially for a possible good outcome.

    My wife has a friend whose husband was injured in an accident prior to Thanksgiving, he is still in the hospital and is still in CCU, with little to changes for the better. A DDNR would have saved his wife the roller coaster of the dr's saying he is improving only to have him lapse into a worse state. Had he carried a DDNR she would be mourning his passing, but would also have the peace of mind of knowing the final outcome instead of 3 months of hell only to find he won't make it.

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  42. Re:I want to die peacefully in my sleep like my Da by SydShamino · · Score: 4, Informative

    I was told that applying oxygen along with chest compressions is better than compressions alone.

    However...and this is important...911 operators who are trying to coax someone into giving CPR can usually get them to do the chest compressions, but all too often when the operator tells someone to breath into the dying person's mouth, the line goes dead, as does the person. When the EMTs arrive the person who was giving CPR will have faded back into the crowd. This was from an Austin EMT instructor.

    Also, a nonskilled person might take too long switching from compressions to breaths and back, during which time overall blood pressure drops. It takes a while for pumping to boost blood pressure sufficiently to move it around to the brain, so the pauses to put more air in the blood can be worse than just moving around what little air is already there.

    In other words, the science is pretty clear: oxygen with compressions is better than compressions alone. However, the sociology is in debate as to whether or not bystanders can be made to do things the better way, or if the less-good-but-better-than-nothing way is more likely to be implemented.

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  43. Degenerative disease is just malnutrition. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Most people with a degenerative disease really have multiple nutritional deficiencies. Illness get compounded when doctors, instead of testing for nutritional problems prescribe powerful drugs which cause more illness. Sad really.

    I wonder if the manufacturers of drugs that help delay/prohibit nutritional testing aren't really insane. Really. The definition of insanity that your local coroner uses is: "Is a person an immediate danger to themselves or others?" One could argue that officers of major drug corporations are "insane" because they harm themselves and others by lying about the importance of nutritional testing to prevent degenerative disease and offer their product as the only "cure".

    Drug companies have been claiming to work on cures for degenerative disease, lets be generous, in earnest after WW II. Which diseases have been cured? Our government has given billions of dollars for nothing. Zero. Nada. Niente. No cures. Pitiful.

    And to those misguided souls that are under the misapprehension that their particular favorite drug can extend and increase their quality of life I just hate to be the one to rain on your Polyanna parade. Not gonna happen. Before you even reply to this post to crush me with your fiery flawlessly logical and all knowing rhetoric just read the label on your drug to see how dangerous it really is to use it.

    Vitamin D3, cholcalciferol, an essential nutrient decreases in the human body as it ages. So supplement with 4,000 iu a day for 6 months. It won't make you blind, destroy your liver or use up all your magnesium and give you a heart attack. It will just contribute to your well being and high quality of life.

    Do you need supplemental D3? How about vanadium or chromium? I don't know if you do or not. You should make your doctor order the proper test from a certified lab to find out.

    You do what you want to do. I'll bask in the natural high of proper nutrition.

    1. Re:Degenerative disease is just malnutrition. by iggymanz · · Score: 1

      hahaha, spoken like a true Shacklee Vitamin shill. From the experiences of my relatives and friends who were either nutrition nuts, supplement nuts, or health food nuts, I can tell you what happens. They get weird diseases and/or die early. Ask Steve Jobs how that raw health food thing worked out. Really you should exercise like a fiend, that is more important that what you eat. my relatives who lived into their 80s to 100s worked hard or worked out.

    2. Re:Degenerative disease is just malnutrition. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      "either nutrition nuts, supplement nuts, or health food nuts,"

      I agree, nutritional supplementation with out a doctor's supervision and feedback from testing is nuts. But your little tirade doesn't change the facts: degenerative disease is caused by malnutrition.

      Proof? you say. Since we're talking about cholcalciferol, lets see what it does.

      Strengthens bones and teeth - but EVERYBODY knows that. Lets delve further.

      Vitamin D3 causes redifferentiation of some types of cancer cells. OHHHHH bring down the house! Cures cancer. Who would have thought. D3 and Boron work together to fight cancer. "Prove it" you say in your puny little whiny voice. Ok here's the references:

      "Nielsen F.H., et al, Boron enhances and mimics some of the effects of estrogen therapy in post menopausal women. J Tr Elem Med 5;237-246, 1992"
      "Travers R. L., et al, Boron and arthritis: The results of a double-blind pilot study, J Nutr Med 1; 127-132, 1990"
      "Jimenez JJ, Yunis AA, Protection from chemotherapy-induced alopecia by 1,25-dihydroxy vitamin D3, Cancer Res 52;5123-25, 1992"
      "Ravid A, Rocker D, Koren R, et al, 1,25-Dihydroxyvitamin D3 enhances the susceptibility of breast cancer cells to doxorubicin-induced oxidative damage. Cancer Res 59;4:862-67, 1999"
      "Kim JH, Brown S, Walker E, The use of high dose of vitamins as an adjunct to conventional cancer treatments. In Prasad KN, Cole WC (eds): Cancer and Nutrition, Amsterdam, IOS Press, 1998"

      There, thats enough of slapping you around. Please, just lay there and bleed quietly for a while.

    3. Re:Degenerative disease is just malnutrition. by Aighearach · · Score: 1

      Wait, you got your definition of insanity from a coroner???

    4. Re:Degenerative disease is just malnutrition. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      You really are ignorant.

    5. Re:Degenerative disease is just malnutrition. by iggymanz · · Score: 1

      You are ridiculous, no person has ever been cured of cancer by any mineral or vitamin supplement. You've bought into snake oil cure, backed by irrelevant studies. Let me clue you in, "redifferentiation" of cultures of cancer cells has been shown with many, many things, not a single one of which cures a human of cancer. Have fun watching your friends and relatives with cancer die or be maimed, after you give them false hope while stuffing them with Schacklee or Nature's Way products.

  44. There was just an article by rsilvergun · · Score: 2

    about how useless competition is in health care because you need too much specialized knowledge to make informed decisions, are too distraught to do so and don't use the service enough. This is interesting since it looks at it from the other end, e.g. someone with the knowledge to weigh their options for real.

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  45. Re:RTFA? No. by hawguy · · Score: 1

    Cut into your body, remove things you don't need, without killing you.

    That depends on what they need to remove - not all tumors have well defined boundaries and they often have to followup with chemo or radiation therapy to make sure they got it all.

    Figure out what is killing you

    As long as you have a well recognized disease. My sister spent a year of unnecessary and ineffective treatment for a relatively rare condition that was much better controlled once she was on the right meds.

    If you ask them to do much more than that, you get temporary fixes. Kidney transplants, pacemakers, etc. all have a relatively short life expectancy.

    A kidney transplant lasts around 10 - 12 years on average. Even if it's not a permanent fix, it sure beats spending 4 hours on a dialysis machine 3 days a week. Over the lifetime of the transplant, it will have saved 6200 hours (260 24 hour days) of sitting on a dialysis machine.

    A pacemaker lasts 7 years on average, and the original placement is a relatively minor surgery done under local anesthetic - a replacement is even easier since typically the leads don't need to be reimplanted. My father is on year 14 with a pacemaker, and has had one replacement. He is very happy with the performance of the unit and is thankful to have it.

    I'd say that pacemakers are something that doctors do exceptionally well - it's a relatively low-risk surgery that is nearly routine in nature and gives an excellent prognosis. Don't confuse the life expectancy of the treatment with the life expectancy of the patient. A painkiller may last only hours, but when I have a headache, I still take an aspirin.

  46. Re:RTFA? No. by VAElynx · · Score: 1

    Not really. I know at least one person that's been on dialysis for most of his life.. and pacemakers are a decently working thing too.
    In the end every fix we know is temporary - like that Onion article said, the death rate is still 100%

  47. Re:I want to die peacefully in my sleep like my Da by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    I must assume that you refer to the "Modern Oath", because the original Hippocratic Oath is very clear:

    "I will not give a lethal drug to anyone if I am asked, nor will I advise such a plan"

  48. Re:RTFA? No. by RKThoadan · · Score: 1

    I'd have to say that the many variants on heart surgery are pretty major exceptions to that. From bypass to valve replacement to a full artificial heart. They are all pretty reliable and can add many years of very productive life and for the most part a "full recovery". Artificial joints are pretty great and quite reliable as well. Hearts and joints both perform simple mechanical functions that we can emulate pretty well. Other organs are much more difficult.

    The main thing is to try to have a level-headed talk with your doctor and ask what the prospects are.

  49. Re:RTFA? No. by gurps_npc · · Score: 1
    I admit I exxagerated a bit - among other things I left out vaccines.

    But 10-12 years for a kidney? Tell that to a kid with kidney problems. Cripes, tell it to a 40 year old man.

    Pacemakers is a better surgery, but still - 7 years is not enough. Short term fixes.

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  50. Re:Obamacare by GerryGilmore · · Score: 1

    I know that you're obviously a troll or just so brain-washed that you believe this kind of crap, but....I'm going to make a case for it. While watching my mother die the slowest, most painful death around (Alzheimer's) my sister and I prayed over and over for even the option to end her suffering. Not an option in America. At the same time, I couldn't help but notice others in the nursing home - worse off - but whose families insisted on prolonging things for what I consider to be their own selfish motivations. Yes, I said selfish. While focused on trying to avoid their own impending loss of a loved one, they never took any consideration for the ongoing medical torture being perpetrated on the patient. Every time blood pressure spikes - Bam! A trip to the ER with all of the attendant poking, prodding, jabbing, muscling their bodies around.....Fucking medieval.

  51. CPR for what? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

    In terminal diseases (end stage cancer etc..) CPR never works and if for what ever miracle it did work, you're not back to square one, you're back to the end stage disease that brought you there. So...if I'm there, let me go.
    Disclaimer: I'm a palliative doc.

  52. Almost full agreement with the article by VAElynx · · Score: 2

    Certain cases of cancer, like pancreatic, unless found out very early, are rather pointless to treat.
    However, what worries me is, wouldn't adhering to his model deprive medicine of data and subjects needed to improve present cures and develop new methods?
    I mean... the operation the article mentions has a success rate 15% - triple compared to old type. Suppose that with enough time, someone manages to triple the success rate again, to 45% - by then it's looking reasonable as a method. But if experiments can't be done , we aren't really going to solve anything.
    Perhaps the solution would be pruning the uneffective methods, and paying patients who decide to undergo experimental treatment - truly experimental i mean, not just repeating things that usually don't work well.

  53. Kickass! by RobinEggs · · Score: 1

    I finally get to join the club! The elite and ever whiny "I read this on an obscure technology/politics blog two months ago and slashdot is just posting it now?" club.

    But seriously, this made serious rounds pretty quickly in medical and sociological circles, and even I read it more than a month ago. I'm actually astonished such an active submitter as Pickens didn't get it through till now. It's pretty much talked to death everywhere else (pardon the unintentional pun), and it's not exactly an old conversation to begin with. Most doctors feel pretty similarly to Dr. Murray; they've been saying these things to each other for years as far as I know. They're not all brave enough to respect a patient's verbal requests over family and staff objections (although even here Murray says he had copious, accurate notes of his correspondence with the patient), but Murray's blog hardly describes anything new or emergent.

  54. Don't speak for me. by m0s3m8n · · Score: 1

    "What it buys is misery we would not inflict on a terrorist." No, I would inflict a lot more.

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    1. Re:Don't speak for me. by gweihir · · Score: 1

      a) That is not really possible
      b) It makes you about as despicable as said terrorist

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  55. Re:I want to die peacefully in my sleep like my Da by Shinobi · · Score: 2

    Few doctors in Sweden swear the Hypocrite oath(the original, strict Hippocratic oath forbids the doctor from engaging in surgery for example), and those who do swear an altered version(that allows for surgery, and also shutting down life support apparatus when it's clear that it will just prolong pain with 0 quality of life).

    As a swedish paramedic, I have sworn no such oath, nor would I ever do it.

    Also, as a trained paramedic, we always do compressions+breathing, the compressions-only thing is a quick mnemonic taught to people who aren't trained, but they can perhaps manage to save someone.

  56. Re:I want to die peacefully in my sleep like my Da by Jeremy+Erwin · · Score: 0, Troll

    Utterly tasteless. Perhaps the parent has never had to deal with the death of another human being.

  57. Re:I want to die peacefully in my sleep like my Da by unkiereamus · · Score: 3, Insightful

    Well, I'm not entirely sure on that one. First, there are disputes over how to even perform CPR for maximum effectiveness, with some saying that chest compression alone produces better outcomes than a mix of chest and breathing. If the doctors aren't in agreement over what CPR should be done, and different methods are being rolled into a single line item, then the statistics for the outcome really don't mean anything useful. It tells you that *something* is ineffective, but it cannot tell you what that something is.

    That's not actually quite correct. The current debate isn't about whether hands-only CPR is more effective than full CPR (It's not), the question is whether hands-only is more easily performed correctly than compressions/vents, and is, on average, going to be more effective as it gets performed in the field, add into that the fact that hands-only is easier and faster to teach, and maybe we'll have more of the population able to perform CPR, which means a decrease in time from arrest to start of CPR, which will always improve outcomes.

    Second, all doctors either swear to the Hippocratic Oath or implicitly sign up to it by becoming doctors. Since the Oath is witnessed by an independent third party, it is arguably a legally-binding common law "gentleman's agreement"/"verbal contract". Technically, the Oath states that doctors should do no harm and minimizing suffering is technically doing just that. However, very few Western nations interpret things that way. If they did, assisted suicide under well-defined conditions* would be legal. It isn't because they don't. As such, doctors end up in a double bind. Do they do the clinical least harm or the legal least harm? Whichever one they do, they violate the other.

    Well, here we get into bioethics, which is a tremendously involved field, but I'll just give the nickle tour of the applicable issue.

    The big one is the notion of patient autonomy. The patient (or their appointed medical decision maker) gets to choose what happens, provided they are competent to do so. As a medical professional, it is my job to determine what course is most appropriate, explain it to the patient, and once they understand what's going on, what the pros, cons and risks of the treatment are, they give me consent and I do it, if they refuse consent, I find the next most appropriate thing...rinse and repeat. In cases where there are multiple courses which balance the pros/cons/risks, I present them all, and let the patient choose.

    A couple of quick sidelines we need to explore here, in order to have a decent understanding of the beast.

    First is consent, and the second is competency, and the two are very closely linked, so we're going to do them as one.

    There are two forms of consent, implied and expressed, expressed is relatively easy, the patient says "Yes do that" or "No go away.", alternatively, actions can be interpreted as expressed consent, if I need to take someone's blood pressure, and when they see the cuff in my hand, they roll up their sleeve, that's expressed consent...this can, of course get a little murky, and is part of why I have to carry malpractice insurance, since if I do something a competent patient didn't want, even with the best of intentions and in the full faith that I had been given consent, technically, I've just committed battery.

    Implied consent isn't nearly as clear cut as that. Implied consent is used when a patient for one reason or another is not capable of giving consent, it could be because they're unconcious (obviously not going to be telling me to go ahead), they're a child (You're not legally competent until you're 18, or a variety of rare loopholes), they're confused and disorientated (If you don't know where you are, you surely can't understand medical procedures) or they're in the midst of a psychiatric emergency (If you think I'm a giant talking turtle, you're not going to understand medical procedures.). In the care of implied c

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  58. I'm addicted to coffee by arcite · · Score: 3, Interesting

    I drink about 4-8 cups a day of the black gold. Of course, I'm aware of my addiction. I keep the coffee black so as not to add unwanted calories with sugar or milk. About every two months I do a detox and quite cold turkey, the migraines are a killer. Then I switch to tea for a while. Inevitably I go back to coffee though, once detoxed, the attainable caffeine buzz is better than ever. Besides, I hear coffee prevents cancer, so its a double win.

  59. Re:RTFA? No. by tibit · · Score: 1

    Agreed. Especially that dialysis is under-administered, because fucked up insurers simply won't cover more of it. People on dialysis feel sick most of the time. There was a study where they dialyzed the "heck" out of people, just to see if it'd help. And of course it did help, but IIRC the patients needed dialysis for 8 hours every day, and they felt just as good as any person with full kidney function. So dialysis is something I don't wish on anyone as a "permanent" solution. It should be a life-preserving stand-in before a transplant. I'd much rather take risks of a transplant than suffering on dialysis. Recall how you feel when you'd describe yourself "under the weather". Now imagine feeling that way every day of your life while on dialysis. That's how insufficient dialysis makes you feel: it keeps you alive, but the quality of life is quite poor.

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  60. Re:I want to die peacefully in my sleep like my Da by Aighearach · · Score: 0

    What you said used to be true.

    There is new information, there was even a slashdot story.

  61. Re:I want to die peacefully in my sleep like my Da by Aighearach · · Score: 1

    Exactly, that is what the new information is; that what you describe is in fact the old belief, and that applying actual oxygen is useful, but blowing into the lungs isn't. And they were measuring skilled people, not unskilled. That's the new way; just focus on your compressions, regardless of how good you are.

  62. Expect to see more articles like this by jothar+hillpeople · · Score: 1

    As managed care gets more and more expensive, expect to see more and more articles like this, convincing people not to bother with wellness treatments and just die. It saves money. Soon we'll be back to the life expectancy of a Third-World country, in the lower 60's.

  63. CPR by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    In almost ALL cases CPR is useless. TV shows make it seem like it is some kind of death reversal. Unless you have EMTs arrive quickly CPR is almost pointless.

  64. Talk to your loved ones about their wishes. by Zaphod-AVA · · Score: 1

    I know it's a difficult subject that many people are uncomfortable discussing, but please talk to your loved ones about their wishes regarding end of life care.

    I recently lost my father. He was never one to discuss his feelings, but that wasn't much of a problem in life. I would have less terrible time if I understood his wishes clearly when it was time to decide to take him off life support.

  65. Kidney transplants, pacemakers, etc by wsanders · · Score: 1

    I think you mean for nearly-dead patients.

    I know a few people who have had pacemakers for many, many, years, and one forty-something fellow who had a heart transplant over 20 years ago and is alive and well. They were all people who would have died at a young age otherwise.

    The urge to keep someone alive is also heavily weighted for age. Responders will do everything reasonable to keep someone under 50 alive, someone over 80, not so much. The circumstances are highly subject to case by case judgment, which is usually correct.

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  66. I've watched both parents die... by gestalt_n_pepper · · Score: 1

    And had friends die of cancer. I've had cancer for that matter. Believe me, you're doing nobody any favors by putting off the inevitable. In a sane world, you'd have access to all the hallucinogenics and morphine you wanted from the moment you were diagnosed as terminal. Unfortunately, crazies drive AND vote so we're forced into these excruciating situations in the name of "valuing human life" (or whatever the conservative politicians are pushing these days).

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  67. Re:I want to die peacefully in my sleep like my Da by jd · · Score: 5, Insightful

    You mean this one:

    I swear by Apollo the physician and Aesculapius, and Health, and All-heal, and all the gods and goddesses, that, according to my ability and judgment, I will keep this Oath and this stipulation -- to reckon him who taught me this Art equally dear to me as my parents, to share my substance with him, and relieve his necessities if required; to look upon his offspring in the same footing as my own brothers, and to teach them this art, if they shall wish to learn it, without fee or stipulation; and that by precept, lecture, and every other mode of instruction, I will impart a knowledge of the Art to my own sons, and those of my teachers, and to disciples bound by a stipulation and oath according to the law of medicine, but to none others. I will follow that system of regimen which, according to my ability and judgement, I consider for the benefit of my patients, and abstain from whatever is deleterious and mischievous. I will give no deadly medicine to any one if asked, nor suggest any such counsel; and in like manner I will not give to a woman a pessary to produce abortion. With purity and with holiness I will pass my life and practice my Art. I will not cut persons labouring under the stone, but will leave this to be done by men who are practitioners of this work. Into whatever houses I enter, I will go into them for the benefit of the sick, and will abstain from every voluntary act of mischief and corruption; and, further, from the seduction of females or males, of freemen and slaves. Whatever, in connection with my professional service, or not in connection with it, I see or hear, in the life of men, which ought not to be spoken of abroad, I will not divulge, as reckoning that all such should be kept secret. While I continue to keep this Oath unviolated, may it be granted to me to enjoy life and the practice of the art, respected by all men, in all times. But should I trespass and violate this Oath, may the reverse be my lot.

    Taken absolutely literally, it only forbids one kind of abortion. I would interpret this, in light of "I will follow that system of regimen which, according to my ability and judgement, I consider for the benefit of my patients, and abstain from whatever is deleterious and mischievous" to mean avoiding any kind of abortion that is likely to be destructive to the patient, but that any kind that is likely to be helpful to be entirely legitimate. The requirement of being for the benefit of the patient is, IMHO, the ruling clause and all others are contextual interpretations of it.

    Urological surgery, the Oath states, should be performed by a specialist. I don't see any technical problems with this -- I wouldn't want a GP to be performing it either. Surgery is best left to surgeons, as the Oath says. ("will leave this to be done by men who are practitioners of this work"). General Practitioners are not brain surgeons, heart surgeons, urologists, etc, and should indeed refer the patient to a specialist. (I don't consider surgeons to be doctors in the sense meant by the Oath. The Oath seems to make it clear that it is intended for village doctors making house-calls, or GPs in local practice, with similar but suitably-adjusted Oaths being required of those trained in highly specialized areas of medicine.)

    Frankly, the Laws of England would be better served if attempts to revise or delete elements of Common Law were examined in light of the original intents of such law, and if both the Houses of Parliament and the practicing lawyers were familiar with the purpose of Alfred's Book of Dooms, the elimination of Sovereign Immunity in the Great Charter, and the reasoning behind the English Bill of Rights. Sure, nobody would want to revert to Saxon law, but the reasons for why it was what it was have changed surprisingly little. It was a careful balance of revenge, punishment and mercy, a balance a lot of modern laws don't have. We've progressed a lot in theory and can strike a much wiser balance today, but unless you start from the

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  68. Re:I want to die peacefully in my sleep like my Da by jd · · Score: 3, Insightful

    Oh, and free education (as per Christ's Hospital in the UK, and universities prior to the abolition of the grant system) produced superior numbers of graduates with superior skills to the education produced by the "free" market of loans and deprivation. At this point in time, with the skills demanded by modern trades, there should be no such thing as paid tuition up to BSc level in most fields and MSc/MPhil in the medicines. 100% of students should be in school to 18 and 80%+ should remain in schooling until they complete either a university, technical college or trade school course of a "higher education" standard. What they learn would depend obviously on what they need, but you need to know more today, not less. There will always be a pyramid of employees, with people at the bottom working the hardest for the least rewards, and nothing can change that. Mechanization and technological improvements should raise that pyramid, though, not trim it. A greater population needs a greater range of opportunities and a greater set of skills to make use of them. Less is never more.

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  69. Re:I want to die peacefully in my sleep like my Da by jd · · Score: 1
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  70. Isn't it Usually... by Greyfox · · Score: 1
    "Killed by Daleks"?

    I saw a couple of friends go through chemo for lung cancer in the 90's. One of them died of the treatment. Lungs filled up with fluid or something the first time he went in. The other one died a year or so after being diagnosed. Neither looked like a particularly enjoyable close to otherwise great lives. Personally I'd rather check out on my own terms when I've run this husk into the ground. I'm sure I can find a suitable method when the time comes.

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    1. Re:Isn't it Usually... by neminem · · Score: 1

      Glad I'm not the only one who thought of The Doctor. Though my first thought was, "impermanently". Though, granted, I believe he technically only has one more regeneration before they have to either recancel the show or (more likely) deus ex machina some way to give him more. ;)

  71. Re:I want to die peacefully in my sleep like my Da by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Actually this is not right at all. Compression-only CPR has been proven as equally as effective if not more in out-of-hospital settings as perfusing the blood (and the small air exchange that happens with compressions) was found to be more effective in positive outcomes than breath'ed CPR. It also adds the general benefit of not having the possiblity of that person puking in your mouth (potentially disease-causing) or catching something from the person (say said person had poor dentition and their gums were bleeding/they had hepatitis b/c or hiv)

  72. Crosspost from METAFILTER by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    This is a crosspost from META, even the same summary/leadin paragraph is the same!

  73. Re:I want to die peacefully in my sleep like my Da by jd · · Score: 4, Informative

    http://www.webmd.com/heart-disease/news/20101005/chest-compression-only-cpr-saves-more-lives

    "There may be additional benefits to this method as well. The survival edge may occur because interrupting chest compressions --- even just for rescue breathing-- may further hamper blood flow, and it takes longer to get that blood flow back when it is time for more chest compressions, explains study researcher Bentley J. Bobrow, MD, of the Arizona Department of Health Services in Phoenix."

    I'd call that a very reasonable dispute. If you have papers falsifying the hypothesis, please share the links. Otherwise, I think it is reasonable to maintain that there is a dispute over whether blood flow is more important than oxygen injection. You can achieve only both, to the satisfaction of the above hypothesis, if two people are involved (one involved in compressions, one doing the breathing on a periodic basis).

    I'm not saying the doctor was right, wrong or purple, only that one of the researchers involved in the study disputes the interpretation that it is solely because of scare factor and that this makes it a significant hypothesis until disproven. It may have been disproven, and if so I'd like to see the evidence, but no amount of pointing to paramedics, St. John's Ambulance, etc, will convince me that a counter-claim by a knowledgeable person was not made and that it should not be taken seriously. Habits die hard and most paramedics were trained prior to 2010, so without actual hard medical evidence I cannot tell from modern practice whether practice is governed by the knowledge now or the knowledge of several decades ago.

    Things change, things evolve, but not all practitioners change and evolve with them.

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  74. Medical Science has to Advance by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    The point is that the whole thing is incremental.
    If medics didn't try everything to keep patients alive and make them better, they may miss something.
    The fact that many doctors, when dying, prefer to simply be left to die only says that, according to their experience and knowledge, their current condition is hopeless and they do not wish to be submitted to those procedures which attempt to keep them alive. Fair enough.
    But medical science is (hopefully) improving as time passes. And the patient that was once doomed, may today have a chance to recover.
    If the "just let me die" attitude persisted, we'd be defenseless.

  75. well maybe we start by cuting down education time by Joe_Dragon · · Score: 1

    Do doctors really need a full 4 years PRE MED?? Cut it to 2.5-3 years and then start med school also pay doctors in residency so they can at least stat paying back loans at the point also make student loans interest free.

  76. Hmm by lightknight · · Score: 1

    Having worked in a morgue, and spent some time with doctors, I find myself constantly surprised how little they can accomplish against a great multitude of diseases, how they can only treat (and not cure) some diseases, and how many of those treatments suck (seriously, many of them are borderline barbaric). On one hand, there are an almost infinite numbers of ways that a human being can die, on the other hand, I'm left scratching my head that some of these doctors don't have a more aggressive approach towards one or two of these diseases. You know what I mean, the "I want to get into the (non-psychiatric) medical textbooks because I made this disease my willing bitch" kind of approach; the "I have some free time Friday, and while I'm drinking or watching a movie, I'm going to check up on how my 'project' is coming along -> googling around to check out the latest research on how the one disease you have it in for is going that week". In the words of Dr. Frank N' Furter -> " I could show you my favorite obsession."

    Perhaps more money is being made in the treatment than the cure? Perhaps it's a job program? Perhaps doctors are too overworked to focus on pursing the cure for a disease? Perhaps they've grown complacent? Perhaps the medical schools screen out people with that kind of character flaw?

     

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  77. I worked for a 911 dispatch center by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    I worked for a 911 dispatch center (fire / ambulance), and the dispatch software used an Oracle database (for just about every possible event including forms, data processing, timestamps, etc). There was a whole lot to configure when installing, but a lot of control (if 20 ambulances at one end of a city are alll busy, ambulances from non-busy areas shuffle to spread coverage around, etc.). One of the database tables was a 'Do Not Resuscitate' list. It was actually a set of tables that included name/address/age/sex/description/physician(s) and condition(s). For anyone on that list, when dispatched to the address, a flag on the dispatch form would alert the calltaker/dispatcher that the ambulance would not rush, and police would also be sent. CPR would not be performed. I remember looking at the list one afternoon. Most of the people had more than one condition which I would not wish on anyone, and the grand majority had many, eg: Altzheimers, Parkinsons, terminal cancer, and ALS (all in one person). For some, death is a replacement for being unconscious and not in pain, or conscious and in pain. At the apex when still conscious and not in pain (when given a pain med), they would be confused, and not able to move. It was a race between the various diseases as to which would kill them first. My parents are getting older (both 80+). Of their life-long friends that have died, the 'happier' deaths are ones where they went to hospital and died in less than a week or died at home. I had an uncle who was a farmer. He got up to go to the bathroom, looked outside, and when he got back to bed, told my aunt that it was sunny and a good day to harvest the beans (it was 5AM). At 6:00 my aunt realized he had died. It was a heart attack. He died in his sleep looking forward to the day. No doctors, no nurses, no hospitals, no pain. It doesn't get better than that.

  78. i see the campaign started already by superwiz · · Score: 1

    Now that the administration is certain they'll become the payor of choice for most people they are testing waters with the propaganda campaign which amounts to "less care is good for you." They actually think that slashdot is "their people." What a bunch of bs.

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  79. A doctor's opinion: TFA's got it right. by TheMohel · · Score: 4, Insightful

    I'm a board-certified physician (among other things). There is no way that I would allow my colleagues to inflict the kind of death on me that they are forced to inflict on so many. Part of this is certainly that I know full well that we all exit this mortal coil toes-up, and there's no getting around it. Part of this is the personal reluctance to experience the diminished autonomy, indignity, pain,and hopelessness that comes with fanatically-treated terminal illness.

    But a big part of it, I think, is just that I know that there are so, so many things that are worse than simply dying. Dying in agony, for one. Dying after having bankrupted my wife or my children. Dying after being reduced to a stinking thing in a bed long enough that only those who loved me most even want to be near me, and that only because they feel they must. Physicians see these things all the time, and we see the road that leads to them. We're not (that) stupid, and we would rather exit early on that road, not at its terminus.

    As long as I have the capacity for joy I will strive to remain alive to experience that joy. When the capacity - or the joy - is gone for good, I have given quite strict instructions not only to my family but to some other clear-headed and insistent people who will do their best to ensure that I too will be gone without further "heroic" intervention.

    The only problem that I have with the article is that it pretends that everyone should make the same decisions. Everyone has their own decisions to make, and without my knowledge and experience I might not make the same ones. I think as physicians we owe it to the people for whom we care to educate as well as we can and help them to understand why we might personally decide one way or another. But I will never tell them how they "ought" to decide - it's really their choice. Taking that choice away from a person leads too easily to very real outcomes that are much nastier than simply a life that ends later than it ought.

  80. Re:I want to die peacefully in my sleep like my Da by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    According to this book, is not even clear if CPR is useful at all. The only place where CPR is definitely working is in drowning situations and alike.
    It is definitely not working in any situation where professional help is more than 20 min away.
    If it is useful if help arrives within http://www.temple.edu/tempress/titles/1388_reg.html

  81. Re:RTFA? No. by hawguy · · Score: 1

    But 10-12 years for a kidney? Tell that to a kid with kidney problems. Cripes, tell it to a 40 year old man.

    That kid with a kidney problem and 40 year old man have already been told the expected lifetime of a transplanted kidney yet they still choose to go through a major surgery and take immunosuppresive drugs for the lifetime of the transplant in the hope that the kidney will save them from the next 10 years of dialysis. I'm sure they all hope that they will be the exception where the kidney lasts longer, but they are well aware of the risks and expected lifetime of the kidney yet they still choose to go through it - at times asking a loved one to go through a similar operation to donate the kidney.

    Pacemakers is a better surgery, but still - 7 years is not enough. Short term fixes.

    Granted, it would be better if doctors could repair the heart's natural pacemaker, but as a stand-in, the current artificial pacemaker seems like an excellent fix. I'm not even sure that a longer lifetime is desirable - I don't use my 15 year old cell phone (which was the size of a brick), so why would I want to depend on a 15 year old pacemaker to keep me alive? All it takes to double the lifetime of a pacemaker is put a bigger battery in it.

    Newer pacemakers are far smaller than older ones, and they have better features like better in-chest programmability, better monitoring of the heart to decide when to give it a jolt (and how much of a jolt to give), etc. I think a minor surgery every 7 - 10 years is not a bad price to pay to get the latest technology for the device that you literally depend on for your life.

    Is there room to improve? Sure, but to imply that doctors are not good at what they do because medical science hasn't come up with permanent fixes for every ailment is a little unfair.

  82. unless you brain goes first by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    then you'll spend 5 to 10 years drooling and shitting yourself before you die in a diaper.

  83. Re:I want to die peacefully in my sleep like my Da by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    But compressions are more important than oxygen, so if you have no idea what you are doing, just push down on that chest as fast as you can.

  84. Cost of ehalthcare by sjames · · Score: 1

    If we could manage to come to grips with this, we could afford universal health care in the U.S. I have seen various figures that show that for most people, the majority of lifetime healthcare expenses are racked up in the last few days of life and that those treatments are largely futile or even actively harmful (in spite of best intentions).

    1. Re:Cost of ehalthcare by ChrisMaple · · Score: 1

      Reducing costs to make theft at gunpoint to pay for medical care affordable does not make it moral, and the taxpayer victim is still morally justified to put a bullet through the tax collector's head.

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    2. Re:Cost of ehalthcare by sjames · · Score: 1

      Wow. Just Wow!.

      I'm guessing you're an extreme anarchist then.

    3. Re:Cost of ehalthcare by TheMohel · · Score: 1

      I think the problem is that we don't know in advance when the "last days of life" are for anyone. Or at least we don't know if prospectively, and knowing it after the fact is kind of pointless in terms of limiting costs.

      If there are treatments that are virtually never helpful, we need to stop using them. There aren't many interventions that actually fit that description, though, and even the most invasive of them - ECMO, for example (basically continuous heart-lung bypass) - have their place in restoring people to health in the right circumstances. Eventually the circumstances are such that death is inevitable, but recognizing that point is not something we know how to do with certainty. Even when we're pretty sure, communicating our own conviction is very hard. And where there is no certainty, there is the great likelihood of erring on the side of treatment.

      Hospice care, which tends to be very inexpensive compared to attempts at cure, is helping because it gives people a viable alternative path. Most physicians with whom I deal (a very large number, as it turns out) are big fans of hospice care. Not because it's cheap, but because it helps make the case for avoiding further torture. It's not a bad way to reduce costs, though, and that's not irrelevant.

    4. Re:Cost of ehalthcare by sjames · · Score: 1

      There are gray areas and questionable cases, but the very fact that hospices exist shows that there are a significant number of cases where we know very well that it's an end of life situation.

      If we compile statistics, we can look for the points where nobody has ever meaningfully recovered.

      For your example, ECMO can only be useful for acute lung failures including injury. It's useless in chronic cases where the lungs simply aren't going to improve.

      Most other western countries have a bit less tendency to heroic medicine than the U.S.

    5. Re:Cost of ehalthcare by TheMohel · · Score: 1

      If we compile statistics, we can look for the points where nobody has ever meaningfully recovered.

      We do. This is where the guidance to stop resuscitation after 15 minutes without a rhythm comes in. Unless you're a child who drowned in cold fresh water, of course, or an adult who apparently died of hypothermia. The problem is that there are so very many different sets of facts, and people are far more resilient than you can imagine. And in the heat of the moment, we tend to opt to fight rather than to let go. Which is actually OK, I think.

      For your example, ECMO can only be useful for acute lung failures including injury. It's useless in chronic cases where the lungs simply aren't going to improve.

      Well, yes, ECMO is probably a bad example, because it's by definition an acute therapy that can't be continued more than a few days, at least at the current state of the art. Even there it's a bit questionable in the case of chronic disease exacerbated by acute cardiopulmonary collapse from a (presumably) reversible cause. But other therapies, like the simple $10K/day ICU bed, are much harder to argue against, unless you've given specific instructions. It reminds me a little of the old instructions for tuning a carburetor - turn the screw until the engine dies, then back up half a turn. Most of the really futile ICU cases I've seen didn't START as futile cases, but they sure ended that way.

      Most other western countries have a bit less tendency to heroic medicine than the U.S.

      I'm not actually all that impressed with medicine in "most other Western countries" as a touchstone for our own. Every country has its own social norms and conventions, all of which fold over into health care. We tend to value privacy, autonomy, personal space, personal choice, and hope for recovery more than most, and it costs us a lot of money.

    6. Re:Cost of ehalthcare by sjames · · Score: 1

      The problem is that there are so very many different sets of facts, and people are far more resilient than you can imagine. And in the heat of the moment, we tend to opt to fight rather than to let go. Which is actually OK, I think.

      Certainly I understand the temptation to fight just a bit more, but it's really not OK if the result is one person who spends days dieing never regaining consciousness and 10 more can no longer afford healthcare at all because we drove the insurance rates up. At some point, the costs of futile treatments result in people with treatable conditions dieing because they were forced to just hope it goes away on it's own.

  85. Re:I want to die peacefully in my sleep like my Da by wisnoskij · · Score: 1

    Well I think there is a big difference between some specific version of the oath and the meaning behind it. (Do No Harm)

    Personally I think that all Doctors should be legally bound to "Do No Harm".

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  86. Re:I want to die peacefully in my sleep like my Da by khallow · · Score: 1

    Oh, and free education (as per Christ's Hospital in the UK, and universities prior to the abolition of the grant system) produced superior numbers of graduates with superior skills to the education produced by the "free" market of loans and deprivation.

    I hadn't noticed this alleged effect myself. My view is that if someone can pay for their education, and pretty much everyone can, then they should.

  87. Re:I want to die peacefully in my sleep like my Da by sysrammer · · Score: 1

    Compress to the beat of "Staying Alive" by the BeeGees.

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  88. Re:I want to die peacefully in my sleep like my Da by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    I'll take the ten commandments over sharia any day.

  89. Re:I want to die peacefully in my sleep like my Da by dcollins · · Score: 1

    Eh, that's sounds pretty anecdotal, doesn't it? Coincidentally, I picked the following article as an example for my statistics class about a month ago: http://jama.ama-assn.org/content/304/13/1447.short

    In short: Arizona set up a 5-year program to educate people in CCOPR (chest compression-only CPR). Comparing victims who got CPR from non-medical professional bystanders, to those who got CCOCPR, the latter had almost double the chance of surviving to discharge from a hospital (7.8% to 13.3%). However, when looking at multiple randomized trials for dispatcher-assisted CPR over the phone, there was no statistical difference between the techniques. (P-values 0.18, 0.09, and 0.16; p. 1452-3). The sociology factor is suggested, but it's at the bottom of the list:

    "There are multiple reasons COCPR might have advantages over conventional CPR techniques. These include the rapid deterioration of forward blood flow that occurs during even brief disruptions of chest compressions,8,31 the long ramp-up time to return to adequate blood flow after resuming chest compressions, 8,31 the reduction of cardiac venous return with the use of positive pressure ventilation,32 the complexity of conventional CPR,21,33 the significant time required to perform the breaths,28,33,34 the critical importance of cerebral and coronary circulation during arrest,8,31,35,36 the reduced time required for emergency medical dispatchers to instruct a bystander over the telephone how to perform COCPR, 6 and the reluctance to perform mouth-to-mouth ventilation on strangers.25,26,28,37" [p. 1453]

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  90. Re:I want to die peacefully in my sleep like my Da by harlequinn · · Score: 1

    I agree with jd. There are several major studies that have happened in recent years that all point to compressions only being most effective. The first step to achieving this was changing the ratio of compressions to breaths from 15:2 to 30:2. Soon it will be compressions only.

  91. Re:I want to die peacefully in my sleep like my Da by harlequinn · · Score: 1

    That's not actually quite correct. The current debate isn't about whether hands-only CPR is more effective than full CPR (It's not), the question is whether hands-only is more easily performed correctly than compressions/vents, and is, on average, going to be more effective as it gets performed in the field, add into that the fact that hands-only is easier and faster to teach, and maybe we'll have more of the population able to perform CPR, which means a decrease in time from arrest to start of CPR, which will always improve outcomes.

    Actually the current debate is not about the effectiveness per se but about the outcome. Compression only CPR is showing better patient results for lay-people and professionals alike.

    http://www.physorg.com/news/2010-10-chest-compression-only-cpr-survival-cardiac.html
    http://www.theheart.org/article/1106815.do

    And the quality of compressions in compression only CPR goes down over time.

    http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/17069958

  92. Re:I want to die peacefully in my sleep like my Da by jd · · Score: 2

    Why should they? The business and indeed the country profits from the better education far more than the individual. They're ultimately the real customer, the student is merely an instrument of delivery. The customer should pay.

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  93. Re:I want to die peacefully in my sleep like my Da by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Maybe. What I know is I would so much like to deal with the untimely death of G. W. Bush and Obama with their whole cabinets and all but one current republican presidential candidates. Preferably very protracted and painful deaths full of awareness of their inevitability. I think I could deal with it just fine. In fact I would like to witness that.

  94. It's true by Physician · · Score: 1

    As a physician, I agree with the article.

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  95. Re:I want to die peacefully in my sleep like my Da by khallow · · Score: 1

    Why should they?

    I find your subsequent claims disingenuous. The student, not the business or country, is the real customer because they get the benefit and choose what education to consume or not. The business and country don't get to select what form the education takes.

    The customer should pay.

    And there's your answer once you ignore the bogus rationalizations.

  96. I can see why by KingAlanI · · Score: 1

    My son has some medical issues and needs close care, but I stay out of the way of his team, and most of them (possibly all of them) don't even know I'm in the health care field.

    not a doc myself, but I purposely avoid planting ideas in the doc's head. I figure that being a doc yourself, you might be even more tempted by suggestions.
    last time I went, I figured I had condition X, but I didn't say it. I simply described/showed the symptoms (it was indeed X; the condition went away with the appropriate prescription and some behavioral tweaks)

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  97. to me, "god from a machine" seems to fit. by KingAlanI · · Score: 1

    to me, "god from a machine" seems to fit. miraculous divine intervention (by writers) to get around a plot issue.

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    1. Re:to me, "god from a machine" seems to fit. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Of course it fits. That plot device is around 3000 years old now. Its origin is in Greek tragedies (Sophocles, Aeschylos, Euripides) where an actor would appear, usually suspended in some contraption, representing one of the Greek Gods and force an interesting plot twist. The criticism on the plot device is as old as the device itself (e.g. Aristoteles)

  98. This will be one of the few times by justthinkit · · Score: 1

    This will be one of the few times I'll defend my religious relatives but they are all like the above -- no extraordinary measures, have a cancer/smancer attitude, (my Uncle just died recently -- we watched the mole on his arm for years but he was happy with his 85+ years on this planet and did absolutely nothing about it), etc. And they all go out with memorial services.

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  99. relevant quote by KingAlanI · · Score: 1

    "I distrust those people who know so well what God wants them to do because I notice it always coincides with their own desires."
    -Susan B. Anthony

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  100. conditions for entering heaven? by KingAlanI · · Score: 1

    maybe it's the sanctity-of-life thing as a condition for entering heaven at all?

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    1. Re:conditions for entering heaven? by cyberchondriac · · Score: 1

      But how exactly is prolonging someone's suffering and inevitable death celebrating or respectful of life? Seems to cheapen it, to me.
      Life for the sake of being technically alive isn't the be-all end-all; what about the *quality* of life? The only argument against this seems to be "Because God said so". (which I'm not at all sure is in the Bible or Torah.. in fact, in the Torah, He doesn't seem to value life all that much)
      I'm not saying to kill someone because they're sick or hurt; but things like iron lungs and some forms of resuscitation are artificially extending a life that would've ended naturally. And how do they know they're not defying God's will? Maybe He was "calling them home".

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    2. Re:conditions for entering heaven? by KingAlanI · · Score: 1

      I'm not saying I believe it, just taking a guess as to what the religious anti-euthanasia folks may be thinking.

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    3. Re:conditions for entering heaven? by cyberchondriac · · Score: 1

      I'm not saying I believe it, just taking a guess as to what the religious anti-euthanasia folks may be thinking.

      Sorry, thought that was your viewpoint. In any case, we still had a nice little hypothetical going there.

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  101. Re:I want to die peacefully in my sleep like my Da by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    * Utterly tasteless.

    And hence, glorious.

    * Perhaps the parent has never had to deal with the death of another human being.

    Wrong. The people who deal with death the most are always the most callous and cynical about it.

  102. Why is this blog with unsupported claims on /.? by SETIGuy · · Score: 1

    I'm not sure why this article is even on Slashdot. Is there any evidence supporting this contention that physicians get less care, or is this just a doctor telling us how much better doctors are than everyone else and how we should strive to be like doctors. I've known two doctors who died of cancer in their forties and both went kicking and screaming, taking every last shot medicine would allow and some that had no shot in working and would at best provide days of painful life in a hospital bed. Two isn't a statistically significant sample, but it's more of a sample than Ken Murray gives us.

    I think it's likely that Dr. Murray is just making things up in hopes that his patients will chose to die quicker than they currently do.

  103. I'm impressed by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    I'm not a doctor, I'm a Physician Assistant and I struggle with this issue quite often. Recently I heard of a middle aged woman who had end stage metastatic cancer. It had impacted her liver and the family asked about a liver transplant in the interest of buying her some additional time. This was not considered a reasonable request, but the family was quite upset about it despite consults with a couple transplant centers. The suffering of the transplant, costs and then immunosuppression would also have been quite expensive. Thankfully her lead physician who is quite a spiritual man spent considerable time with the family and was able to provide comfort. His motto is "that something can always been done." Not necessarily cause suffering but simple comfort care, providing respite for the family, being available to just talk. That is what healing is about.

    The comments that are posted are insightful, prgamatic and quite frankly pleasantly surprised me. I'd love to see this message echoed thru the mainstream media i church pulpits and in classrooms. We need to put the focus back on healing and not be so intent on "profitability" which is demeaning to human life and my personal ethics.

  104. Re:I want to die peacefully in my sleep like my Da by couchslug · · Score: 1

    I had to deal with caring for my dying parents, whom I loved greatly. Senile dementia is not a nice way to go, and if I'm diagnosed with it I shall suicide without hesitation.

    The post was Funny, and my folks (pre-dementia) would have found it amusing too.

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  105. Re:I want to die peacefully in my sleep like my Da by EdIII · · Score: 1

    Perhaps the parent has and he has learned that death comes to us all, and all that matters is how you lived life and treated others.

    Lighten up a bit dude :)

  106. Re:I want to die peacefully in my sleep like my Da by Fjandr · · Score: 1

    I have cancer. I have faced situations where my death was nearly a certainty. I have lost people both slowly and quickly.

    That said, I disagree. I found it terribly amusing. Facing death requires humor in order to make it tolerable.

  107. Switch to tea... by denzacar · · Score: 1

    I've accidentally quit caffeine cold turkey several times (not a big coffee drinker, used it strictly as a stimulant).
    I would forget to have my "daily dose" after finishing whatever task that required me to stay awake and alert longer.
    I.e. At the beginning of a vacation.
    Splitting headaches, muscle and joint pains and generally a zombie-like behavior would last for about two days before I'd get back on my feet.

    Switching to green tea, first as a "cool down" stimulant then switching to it completely, I don't have those issues anymore.
    Sure, there's still caffeine in the tea but there is far less of it and I never reach my caffeine limit. So, I don't get the "buzz" but I do get the alertness.
    Plus, I don't have the issues with dehydration as a decent cup of tea is still mostly water.

    And if I want to or have to quit the tea too, i.e. I forget to take it with me to a place where they don't serve it - at worst I'll get a bit drowsy.
    Also, I'm told that it's rather healthy.

    Granted, if you are used to taking your caffeine through coke instead of coffee it may be harder than simply"deciding to switch".
    Particularly in the summer, when most bars/restaurants/coffee shops don't serve tea - but everyone serves Coke. And coffee.
    Bonus difficulty points if you are getting most of your supply from a local vending or coffee machine at work.

    My solution is to order mineral water instead of coke (unless they serve green tea), and bringing my own supply of tea to work in a thermos bottle.

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  108. Death panels by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Sounds like we need death panels composed of all doctors.

  109. By Dalek or poisonous kiss by PDX · · Score: 1

    The Usual method of death for us mere mortals is by heart attack or accidents involving cars. The doctors are people placed in direct physical contact with large amounts of contagion. They can choose their own profession of choice.

  110. If you don't decide...someone else will by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    As a physician, I can't stress enough how true most of this article is. It is important to remember that if you come to me nearly dead and I have no proof that you want to die, it is my obligation to treat you...a lot of futility happens to the unfortunate souls who die alone in life....If you don't decide for yourself how you want to be treated at the end of your life, someone else will (heck, even if you do, someone else still might, but at least it won't be me!).

  111. In the end, it's all the same... by bratwiz · · Score: 1

    In the end, it's all the same. We either die of discorporation or asphyxiation.

  112. Re:I want to die peacefully in my sleep like my Da by bluemonq · · Score: 2

    When you have two EMTs, there is no interruption. One guy does the compressions, whereas another uses an squeezable apparatus (the name escapes me at the moment) to pump air in.

  113. Re:I want to die peacefully in my sleep like my Da by andsens · · Score: 1

    Then you remember that you have knowledge and it is protected with ZFS and scrubbing. Thank God.

    Muahaha, priceless. Hooray for FreeBSD :-)

  114. Beechcraft Bonanza V35 by Froggels · · Score: 1
    1. Re:Beechcraft Bonanza V35 by ebvwfbw · · Score: 1

      Sometime also called the lawyer killer. I own one. It's a 1954 E-35 v tail. Almost identical to the one that killed Buddy Holley. It's an undeserved name. The article also has it wrong. Flutter isn't a problem unless you don't follow the manual on control surfaces. The tail cuff bit is because some people were trying aerobatic moves that the airplane wasn't designed for. Fly it like you should, don't get too slow on final, and don't run out of gas (sounds funny I know, but people do it) and it's as safe as any other aircraft. I've flown many different makes and I don't see much of a difference between them flight wise. At least with the airplanes that are 35 years old or more. Some of the new ones I understand are very demanding. So much so that you have to get a factory checkout first.

  115. Re:I want to die peacefully in my sleep like my Da by superwiz · · Score: 1

    Don't take the premise of this article too seriously. Lifespans have increased by about 20 years in the last 40 years. Heart-attack care, for example, is generally an emergency care operation and it's generally not fatal. There is plenty of other examples. Emergency treatment works and works successfully. If it didn't, people wouldn't live as long.

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  116. Human Popsicles by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Everyone is talking about extended life = suffering at the end, and therefore that we should just accept death.

    But what about deep freezing? As someone who isn't religious, this seems to me a good option - ie, satisfying my desire to be able to believe that the end might not really equal oblivion.

    Sure, it is almost certainly a false hope and would probably result in a corpsicle that would turn to mush when thawed, but knowing there is a chance of continued existence is better than being certain that's the end, right?

    What do people think about this and the practicality of revival hundreds of years later if the odds are beaten?

  117. Really? by sidragon.net · · Score: 1

    Please define “harm” for us.

    1. Re:Really? by wisnoskij · · Score: 1

      "Physical or psychological injury or damage."
      Of course most of the time a doctor needs to choice between a number of lesser and greater harms.
      But if a greater harm also produces a greater profit for the doctor, I know which one I would want him to legally be bound to choose.

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    2. Re:Really? by Thiez · · Score: 1

      > "Physical or psychological injury or damage."

      Doesn't all surgery involve physical injury and damage? The appendix is rather hard to reach without injuring the skin. Most treatments inflict some form of damage on the body.

    3. Re:Really? by wisnoskij · · Score: 1

      The answer to your question is in the very next line of message you quoted.

      "Of course most of the time a doctor needs to chose between a number of lesser and greater harms."

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    4. Re:Really? by Thiez · · Score: 1

      And yet you said 'Personally I think that all Doctors should be legally bound to "Do No Harm".' On one hand you acknowledge that doctors MUST inflict some harm to do their jobs, and on the other you're advocating a law that would force doctors to do no harm. Perhaps you could rephrase to "Doctors must at all times minimize expected harm to their patients" but that's so incredibly vague it's mostly meaningless, and it still leaves harm undefined. It does seem to imply that all forms of cosmetic surgery should be banned. Getting your ears (or any other part of the body) pierced is physical harm (with a risk of infection and death), should that be illegal for doctors to perform? How about restoring the face of a burn victim beyond what is minimally required to declare them physically healthy?

      Let's just stick to requiring doctors to make a reasonable effort to work towards what the doctor and the patient have decided is in the patient's best interest. Surely existing laws already cover this reasonably well?

    5. Re:Really? by wisnoskij · · Score: 1

      But harm is defined.
      And I already stated that harm is often inevitable, so the lesser of two harms is the only path available in that case.
      Piercings are not performed by doctors. And it could be said that while doctors perform cosmetic surgery they are not practising healing (a necessity to be a MD) when they are shoving plastic inside of someone and are not in a MD role at that time (and besides harm includes psychological).

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  118. bravery by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Not being afraid isnt brave; being afraid and going ahead anyway is bravery.

    That's why we have the saying that suicide is an act of cowardace.

  119. In-hospital CPR is futile in some patients by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    As a physician, it has always bothered me that the patient's wishes are always conceded to (or the family's), when in some patients CPR is futile, and only helps raise the cost of medical care.

    When I was in residency (1985-1990), there was a multi-institutional study that was reported regarding in-hospital CPR. They reported that in patients with terminal illnesses, NONE survived their hospital stay. In patients with terminal illnesses, CPR shouldn't be performed. They're going to die of their disease, and you're not going to do anything about it.

  120. Coffee? On outlier. by ResidentSourcerer · · Score: 1

    I normally have two-three mugs of near expresso strength coffee a day. Some years ago I went on a two week canoe trip. The guy running the food wasn't a coffee drinker and didn't bring any along. While I missed my sugar fix I had no symptoms of caffeine withdrawal.

    At various other times I've been denied coffee for one reason or another. No problem.

    I dislike instant coffee enough that when the choice is instant or none, I'll take none.

    Like many statements about addiction, take this one with a grain of salt. It's over generalized.

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  121. Re:I want to die peacefully in my sleep like my Da by isopropanol · · Score: 1

    Actually, current theory is that one person doing chest compressions only is better than one person taking breaks from chest compressions to do rescue breathing and/or one person doing chest compressions and breathing wrong, so best to just teach chest compressions in basic first aid.

    Compressions and breathing are still better if done correctly by two or more trained para-medicals (meaning anyone with adequate training & experience... industrial first aid people, nurses, care attendants, paramedics, doctors, etc)

  122. g. s. by nerd1024 · · Score: 1

    What we need is to make regenerative and repair nanotech/biotech research a priority by reducing the worlds bloated, wastefull military budgets adn wars. Aubrey de Grey of the SENS and Mprize research foundations said that 1-billion spent over a 10 year period on current research could eliminate aging in mice, the humans....we waste that much (worlds militaries) in about an hour.....if we spent a weeks worth of miltary $$$$ wastage in say, 1 to 2 years, we could have aging an caners etc eliminated... Some good sites: www.fightaging.org www.mprize.org www.sens.org Books: Ending aging by Aubrey de Grey 100plus by Sonya Arrison Reviewed at: http://mariakonovalenko.wordpress.com/2011/09/20/we-need-more-books-like-100-plus-by-sonia-arrison/

  123. Re:I want to die peacefully in my sleep like my Da by jd · · Score: 1

    Well, yes. (I think I noted myself that traditional CPR could only meet requirements if 2 people were performing it.) The dispute I alluded to was what a single individual (no matter what their background or training) should do, and the linked article would imply that when a single individual performs CPR that there's uncertainty as to whether continuous blood flow is the overriding concern or whether you should mix compression with breathing.

    I don't think there's any dispute - at present - that if two people are performing CPR that you should have both (since that should improve the chances of success). I emphasize "at present" because if CPR has as low a success rate as is implied in the original article, then the method may have additional problems. Further studies might well alter the technique even for 2-person CPR. Personally, I think that the stats for CPR are conflated with all the different methods to the point where it's impossible to infer anything about the success rate of doing it properly -- whatever "properly" turns out to actually be.

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  124. Re:I want to die peacefully in my sleep like my Da by jd · · Score: 1

    You don't pay for Google, the advertisers do, because the advertisers are the real customers.

    And, frankly, I find your elitist view of education to be Medieval at best. Well, no, Christ's Hospital is medieval and offered free education. So that doesn't work.

    Corporate? No. Robert Owen demonstrated that mill workers were more profitable when they were given free education and free housing, and that is the basis of the corporate relationship with universities in Britain ever since.

    Senile. That seems more appropriate. There is simply no evidence for your assertions, whereas the last 600 years (and the last 3 generations of my own family, myself included) contain ample evidence that mine are indeed correct.

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  125. Re:I want to die peacefully in my sleep like my Da by Jeremy+Erwin · · Score: 1

    Human beings are not "beloved computers," and they are not "porn collections." The comparison, if you want to be pedantic, is a category error.
      I didn't think it was funny. Instead, I found it rather insulting. I should have realized that slashdot was full of immature solipsists before bothering to read the comments.

  126. Re:I want to die peacefully in my sleep like my Da by Jeremy+Erwin · · Score: 1

    How does a fucking porn collection live and treat others?

  127. End of life expectations by spineboy · · Score: 2

    I think the general public needs to know that pretty much every patient having chest compression that I've seen being brought into the ER have been dead. That's roughly 0/100. Now if it happens in front of you, a MD, now that's a different story - maybe 30-40% go on and live their lives.

    Movies portray CPR, resuscitation, end of life, defibrlllation (the heart "jump start" paddles), etc, in a wholly unrealistic way, and I think it's wrong to continually mislead the public. They have no idea about breaking multiple ribs on the persons chest, electric burns from the defibrillator, brain damage from hypoxia, etc

    There may be differences between the above mentioned methods of CPR, but I bet they are trivial, and even more so for the general public.

    I'm an oncology surgeon still taking trauma call, and I've seen more than my fair share of death. There are many things we can do to prolong life, but until you, or a loved one gets to that point, then it's hard to say what you will do, and how much you will panic at losing a loved one.

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  128. meh... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    I'm going to live as long as I can BECAUSE I can. I don't mind the pain. I'm in pain all the time right now. I'll rest when I'm fully dead. Until then, on with the cybernetics!

  129. Re:I want to die peacefully in my sleep like my Da by EdIII · · Score: 1

    How do you live and treat others being that serious all the time?

    Peace Brother

  130. Re:I want to die peacefully in my sleep like my Da by khallow · · Score: 1

    And, frankly, I find your elitist view of education to be Medieval at best. Well, no, Christ's Hospital is medieval and offered free education. So that doesn't work.

    Maybe you should stop having opinions until you can get this fixed? It doesn't seem to be working for you.

    Robert Owen demonstrated that mill workers were more profitable when they were given free training

    FTFY. The savvy manufacturer knows that a low turnover, highly skilled employee base is most profitable. But how to get that? You get it by having a highly trained and decently paid employee base that can't transfer those skills to another employer with similar pay.

    So right away, education is out because it is readily transferable. Similarly, things like free housing don't contribute unless you can somehow provide that housing cheaper than the value of the benefit to the employee. Health benefits are often of the sort of benefit that an employer can get cheaper (with tax consequences taken into account) than the employee. Housing typically isn't.

  131. CPR? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    "Many people think of CPR as a reliable lifesaver when, in fact, the results are usually poor."

    CPR's great. As long as it's administered within a couple of minutes maximum. Is your 1st aid certificate up to date?

  132. As I lay dying.... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    In 1999,I watched my father die and it was horrible. The doctors were less pleasant and more difficult than the undertaker So now the clock is ticking for me and I have a million different things running through my mind, as I read this. Life is so fragile but for me "forever” ended yesterday. I don't drink and I quite doing dope of any kind along with The Marlboro Man well over 20 years ago. I’m not even 60, then in ‘06 my fingernails started 'bluing' and pneumonia put me in the hospital a few times. Its my father's story all over.That ' mild to moderate' COPD has morphed into pulmonary fibrosis and with good care, lots of drugs, compliance and a bit of luck, I’ll live a couple of years. Of course here in the States there's this delusion we have the world's best health care so please don't fuck with it. What a lie.
                          But of all the shit I learned yesterday, one thing stood out. Doctors don't know everything and given the right scenario, they don't shit. It's magnificent on TV, but when you're the one with the doctor and you ask her" Ok, can we try this and how long have I got?" I watched 5 doctors yesterday, completely flip out when I ask what i considered a rational question considering that these well perfumed and cleaved physicians had just told me my lungs we're rotten. "What do you mean 'you can't fix this' and ' it’s always fatal but you might live 5 even 6 years, maybe into your 80's rubbish."
                    It had to happen sooner or later and while I might be special, I'm not that special. I always demanded the best from my doctors and that included the straight-up 'don't fuck with me' truth. I got what I asked for and I'm still not happy.
                    No I am not happy, not at all. I had plans. There was work, more work than ever and that was a lot but I love my work. I wanted to travel some. One of my Doctors died last week and I understand he was a petty, touchy and angry until his demise. He wasn't ready. I can see why he felt screwed. The guy and his partner cleared 4 million each- a year. Dying sucks. Maybe one day we'll tell each other about it, and then maybe we won't. I can tell you this. It’s New Year’s Eve and I’m going to have a 24 ounce ribeye and get loaded.

  133. Re:RTFA? No. by Slashdot+Parent · · Score: 1

    But 10-12 years for a kidney? Tell that to a kid with kidney problems. Cripes, tell it to a 40 year old man.

    Pacemakers is a better surgery, but still - 7 years is not enough. Short term fixes.

    My wife is in her 30s and has stage IV cancer. 1.25 years ago, she showed up at the hospital within an inch of her life. The doctors got her patched up well enough to start chemo without her bleeding out of several of her internal organs simultaneously, and then started.

    The first month or so was hell, but things improved significantly from there. She handled all her chemo, radiation, and surgery like a champ. She is able to lead a relatively normal life now, except for the fact that she isn't very likely to see 2013, and she sure gets tired easily.

    Anyway, we'd be happy for another 10-12, even 7 years. And yes, even at her current comfort level (which admittedly is pretty high, considering). 10-12 years would be a blessing. I know it wouldn't get her anywhere near 90, but, well, we already know she ain't makin' it to 90.

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  134. The sanctity of life by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    After living with systemic sclerosis (Scleroderma) for 33 yrs. A nice quiet death sounds wonderful to me. Three times I have flatlined and against my wishes my well meaning sons have had me brought back to life, I know it is because they fear my death but next time my body says this is it they know that no more bringing me back to this life of pain, loss of all that I once was before my organs have all been filled with fibrosis, I literally am living by sheer faith and hanging on a string to life. But my battle is over and am no longer wanting to go kicking. It is not worth it, only those of us who live long physical lives can say that if I am in a comatose vegetable state PLEASE let me die in peace. My heart goes out to those who do not have an idea what it really is to die...we all have our day and time.

    I recommend to those who say they want to live very long lives to go to a convalescent home or nursing skilled facility where I also have spent some months and see the kind of life some of those who are living the LONG lives are actually not enjoying them one bit. Poor dears they are just there all alone waiting for their time, some begging to be put down like a sick animal. Long life doesn't always mean a good quality of life. Just my two cents.

  135. Re:I want to die peacefully in my sleep like my Da by DrGamez · · Score: 1

    We all cope with loss differently. I cope by using humor - I hope I have the wits about me to be funny to the end.

    Also it was a joke, we are allowed to joke about really taboo subjects - it's what makes us human.