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Do Women Make Better Bosses?

Hugh Pickens writes "David Mielach reports on a new study which finds that women in management positions lead in a more democratic way, allowing employees to participate in decision-making and establishing interpersonal channels of communication. 'In line with known gender differences in individual leadership, we find that in workplaces with more women managers, more individualized employee feedback is carried out,' says study author Eduardo Melero. 'Likewise, we can see evidence, although weaker, that in these workplaces decisions are made more democratically and more interpersonal channels of communications are established.' The research was based on data from the Workplace Employment Relationships Survey, a survey of workplaces in the United Kingdom. Melero analyzed this data by looking at the number of women in management positions in companies and the leadership tactics employed at those companies. He found increased communication between management and employees in companies with women in management positions led to more well-informed decisions, since employee feedback will be utilized in the decision-making process. Still, correlation does not equal causation. 'One might question the direction of the relation: is it women managers who are the behind these policies, or is it that more progressive organizations are more accessible for women leaders than other workplaces (PDF)?'"

403 comments

  1. Both can be equally bad by BagOBones · · Score: 4, Insightful

    I have seen examples of both male and female boss fail... I don't see much difference, I think they are equal.

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    1. Re:Both can be equally bad by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      The bell curve of quality applies to everything.

    2. Re:Both can be equally bad by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

      Sturgeon's Law is more mathematically accurate.

    3. Re:Both can be equally bad by QuantumLeaper · · Score: 2

      I agree with you there, but females tend to a little less of a pain and more willing to talk things over with the person, less of do this or your fired. I have talked my way of of doing something stupid with a female boss but never a male boss.

    4. Re:Both can be equally bad by Luckyo · · Score: 5, Funny

      If she's a boss, she'll tell you to get them, and then check out your ass.

      Welcome to gender equality.

    5. Re:Both can be equally bad by Hoi+Polloi · · Score: 5, Informative

      I've noticed woman bosses tend to take things more personally and are quicker to pick favorites. Male bosses tend to be more "we'll do it this way!".

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    6. Re:Both can be equally bad by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 5, Insightful

      Men and women are different, and generally manage in different ways, but saying is one better than the other is silly. Depends on the job, the situation, and who they are managing; and really, I think the individual makes all the difference.

      Do women generally manage in a more democratic way? Maybe. But that doesn't mean better. Democracy sounds an awful like committee and nothing gets done. You need a boss that accepts input but also can make the tough decisions when they have to. If you tend one way, then you need to force yourself to do the other too.

      I've had great and terrible bosses of both genders. My favorite boss was a woman (she knew her stuff and was great at keeping on top of things while not micromanaging, and she was awesome at managing the annoying things like really getting clients to figure out what they want before I programmed it), and a woman was also my very worst boss (micromanaged and criticized everything everyone did and caused at least one woman in the office to break down in tears about once a week and I hated every single minute of dealing with her).

    7. Re:Both can be equally bad by dskzero · · Score: 3, Interesting

      Actually, in my experience, i've found the other way is more often the less painful.But it depends on the personality, not in the sex of the boss.

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    8. Re:Both can be equally bad by ackthpt · · Score: 1

      I have seen examples of both male and female boss fail... I don't see much difference, I think they are equal.

      In my exprience it comes down to the individual - I've had good and bad of either gender. Reasons for being bad generall come down to - What are they here for? If they are planning to stick around they tend to be pretty good. If they are trying to claw their way up the ladder you better watch out.

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    9. Re:Both can be equally bad by Hognoxious · · Score: 5, Funny

      That's my experience too, it's almost like female bosses have a bimodal distribution.

      Which looks a bit like boobies. Coincidence? I think not.

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    10. Re:Both can be equally bad by jellomizer · · Score: 4, Interesting

      In general I have seen it is more common for female bosses to be overly aggressive over male bosses. If you are going to get yelled at it will be from a female boss. When there is a big problem the female boss will get more emotional. The Male bosses tend to keep cool and handle problems more rationally. However female bosses when things are not stressful will be more democratic and listen to problems and make a more open minded decision.

      In Summy with over generalization.
      When things are going good, a female boss will keep things going good.
      When things are going bad, a male boss will make things better.

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    11. Re:Both can be equally bad by CosaNostra+Pizza+Inc · · Score: 1

      I agree with you there, but females tend to a little less of a pain and more willing to talk things over with the person, less of do this or your fired. I have talked my way of of doing something stupid with a female boss but never a male boss.

      That may be the rule...maybe but, I've seen a few exceptions. At my last job, I had a few female bosses over the coarse of 8 years. Some were just as you described. One was just the opposite...queen b*tch and she was totally above talking things through with her pears or underlings. She was also prone to not accept responsibility for her negative actions.

    12. Re:Both can be equally bad by lucm · · Score: 4, Funny

      Men and women are different, and generally manage in different ways, but saying is one better than the other is silly. Depends on the job, the situation, and who they are managing; and really, I think the individual makes all the difference.

      Congratulations, you win the Politically Correctness Award for the most Politically Correct comment discussing a Politically Correct interpretation of a Politically Correct study.

      With Political Correctness, everybody wins!

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    13. Re:Both can be equally bad by CAIMLAS · · Score: 5, Interesting

      Agreed -sorta. The female bosses are more likely to hold a grudge, more likely to mistreat people on how much they "like" them and not actual performance, and show favorites. The direct, no-nonsense, to-the-point technical person does not work well with these people as their bosses.

      The male bosses are more likely to be demanding and imperial, but they're also a lot more concise and to the point as to what they want. They'll take you standing toe/toe, but you better be able and willing to hold your own. Submissive, non-assertive types are seen as under-performers regardless of what they actually do.

      However, I've had a boss with a hormonal imbalance. He was growing tits involuntarily, and horribly moody. He behaved more like a woman (and a very poor boss at that).

      Granted, I should note that I've never actually had a good boss (but I hear they really do exist). But I guess that's probably par for the course.

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    14. Re:Both can be equally bad by slugstone · · Score: 0

      did you work where I am working now?

    15. Re:Both can be equally bad by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      ya, see HP and Nokia.

    16. Re:Both can be equally bad by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I agree. I've had good bosses and bad bosses, some male and some female on both ends of the spectrum.

    17. Re:Both can be equally bad by JWSmythe · · Score: 2

          You're absolutely right. I hate seeing this kind of sexist statement. Saying that a white person, or a straight person could fulfill the same role better would be taken very poorly.

          I've worked for and with men, women, people of various ethnic origins, and sexualities. Some are good. Some are bad. My sample set is far from representative of humanity as a whole. If anyone else believes their sample set is better than mine, you've had way too many jobs.

          The some best supervisors and managers I've worked with have had extensive leadership experience. Some have had little, but had a natural talent.

          I find that having a good leader as a boss is better than working for a rock or wet sponge.

          Taking a position or maintaining that the workplace is better because the leadership role is filled by a member of a particular group is detrimental to both the employee, and respect for the leaders position.

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    18. Re:Both can be equally bad by Stewie241 · · Score: 4, Funny

      I would question the wisdom of talking things through with fruit.

    19. Re:Both can be equally bad by operagost · · Score: 2

      The best boss I ever had was female, and black. I don't assume this means that women make better bosses any more than I think you're racist because you think Obama is a bad president. By the way, her management style was not democratic. She did what most capable managers do: assign tasks to those most capable of them and improve the skills of those who are lacking.

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    20. Re:Both can be equally bad by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      When a woman does it to a guy it's not sexual harassment. Unless she is an old fatty of course.

    21. Re:Both can be equally bad by Anthony+Mouse · · Score: 4, Interesting

      But it depends on the personality, not in the sex of the boss.

      This.

      The huge fail with any study that tries to measure whether X large group is "better" than Y large group is that there is, almost invariably, more variation within a group than between groups. The 60th percentile male boss will be a significantly better boss than the 40th percentile female boss even if (for sake of argument) the 50th percentile female boss is slightly better than the 50th percentile male boss.

      On top of that, when the groups are identified by politically-charged categories like race, gender, sexual orientation, etc., the politics dictates the science. The only hypotheses that get tested are the ones that are expected to return the desired results. No one funds a study to determine whether male bosses are better in situations where tenacity or dedication is advantageous, because the outcome has the potential to be politically unacceptable. Authors of a study that finds white/heterosexual/male groups to have an advantage over minority/homosexual/female groups will be branded bigots and frequently fired, and people know that ahead of time, so they have a huge incentive to fudge the numbers in any case where that looks like it might end up as a conclusion.

      This is very much not to say that white, heterosexual and male groups are, on net, superior to their counterparts, but rather that attempting to measure the difference is both useless and futile. The politics corrupts the science to the point that conclusions become meaningless, and in any event, what do you even expect to do with the data? Is making staffing decisions on the basis of someone's gender really something we want to promote? Really?

    22. Re:Both can be equally bad by Creepy · · Score: 1

      I'd agree there - the only difference I've noticed is my male bosses have been more backstabbing - they say one thing to your face and something else behind your back, but that applied to one of my female bosses as well, though not to me (she got a female employee fired, but before she was fired that employee referred to my boss as "that bitch"). I've been through a lot of bosses because I get moved around on projects a lot and each are managed by a different boss, but my last three were great - two female and one male, and all were very personable (before that I had two horrible bosses, both of which got shed in layoffs, thankfully).

    23. Re:Both can be equally bad by thephydes · · Score: 1

      And, it depends on the type of person you respond to. Personally I prefer to be told that I've done the wrong thing than be complained about behind my back. In the last 31 years, most of my bosses who did the former have been men and most of the latter have been women.

    24. Re:Both can be equally bad by tripleevenfall · · Score: 4, Insightful

      Direct, no-nonense, hands-off management is not a bad thing.

    25. Re:Both can be equally bad by Webz · · Score: 4, Insightful

      Straight women have this same metric. If a hottie hits on you, he's confident. If an uggo creeps on you, that's sexual harassment.

    26. Re:Both can be equally bad by alex67500 · · Score: 1

      "I don't understand you honour, I thought rape was when you didn't want to have sex... I wanted to! Very hard!!"

    27. Re:Both can be equally bad by kungfugleek · · Score: 3, Interesting

      If a hottie hits on you, he's confident. If an uggo creeps on you, that's sexual harassment.

      That, in effect, is kind of the policy at my workplace: It's only harassment if it's unwanted. So, sorry, uglies, you can't stare. Only hotties can stare at hotties here.

    28. Re:Both can be equally bad by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      "Still, correlation does not equal causation. 'One might question the direction of the relation: is it women managers who are the behind these policies, or is it that more progressive organizations are more accessible for women leaders than other workplaces (PDF)?'"

      Good grief. How in the world is any of this important? The purpose of a business is to make money. If it makes money then you have a job. Are women managers better at making money? If so, great, who the hell cares if they are male or femaile. (I'm speaking in the general of course not the specific so do'nt reply anything related to the the Sex industry.)

      What a non-story we have here.

      Oh, and by the way, what the hell is a 'progressive organization"? Does this mean leftist organization? Why hide your language so much editors, afraid of speaking the truth no?

      Feh.

    29. Re:Both can be equally bad by tnk1 · · Score: 4, Funny

      I would question the wisdom of talking things through with fruit.

      I don't know about that, they always seem like good listeners to me. I know I've never been interrupted by one, unlike some bosses I have worked with.

    30. Re:Both can be equally bad by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Guys seem more willing to suspend personal grudges to get the job done. You can see this is sport too - two players on the same team may hate each other, but they will pass to each other to win. I figure back in the tribal war days, the tribes that had warriors that couldn't suspend grudges were more likely to get wiped out. Hostilities may resume after the battle is won (or when winning is assured).

      In contrast I've had more women tell me there's no way they can help someone they hate. And so far it's been my female friends who complain about lady bosses and not liking to work for lady bosses. In contrast when I've had lady bosses, they've been fine - maybe my friends have been unlucky?

      The other thing I observe is a significant percentage of otherwise reasonable women get in a bad mood once a month (imagine if/when they sync ;) ). Whereas the guys don't change so much - the asshole guys often remain assholes forever, the good natured guys probably need a brain injury or something to start behaving like assholes.

    31. Re:Both can be equally bad by houghi · · Score: 1

      Direct, no-nonense, hands-off management is not a bad thing.

      Neither is it a good thing. If it works for you (and your team and company) then you do it the right way. When you can't pull it off, because it isn't your personality, then you do it the wrong way.

      The worst manager I had was a women. Not because she was a women, but because she was incompetent. And I am talking about having no skills.

      I do not expect a manager to be able to do things better then me. I expect a manager to manage. The best manager I had was a manager who did just that. He had no idea how I did what I did, but he was sure that I did it in a correct way. I want a manager, not a life coach or a teacher.

      If I have technical questions, he will see that I will get answers and they won't have to be given by him.

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    32. Re:Both can be equally bad by billstewart · · Score: 1

      I've had the opposite experience - bad male bosses get just as emotional as bad female bosses, and men have been encouraged to be aggressive all their lives so they're more likely to do it inappropriately. Also, in the male-dominated technology jobs I've had, people were more likely to get promoted for their technical skills, regardless of whether they had people-management skills, so there's a bias towards male bosses not being good managers. I've spent about 40% of my career working for female managers, mostly doing consulting and systems engineering for large customers, working with a sales team which 3/4 of the time was led by women.

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    33. Re:Both can be equally bad by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      That may be the rule...maybe but, I've seen a few exceptions. At my last job, I had a few female bosses over the coarse of 8 years. Some were just as you described. One was just the opposite...queen b*tch and she was totally above talking things through with her pears or underlings. She was also prone to not accept responsibility for her negative actions.

      Did you like to talk to her peaches?

    34. Re:Both can be equally bad by Shadow99_1 · · Score: 1

      You should have seen this one (male) boss I had. He summoned me to a meeting I hadn't been invited to do, then once I arrived he went off on me for not having finished a project another manager had just that morning asked for help completing. He was ranting, raving, flailing his arms, and hit a pen so hard on the desk the top just popped off and flew through the air to hit me.

      Theoretically complaints for actions like that were supposed to be handled by HR, however HR decided to use that as blackmail against me deciding it was more in their interests to leverage my 'accusations' against me, then to do their job and report it to the board (The manager was a C level exec and so decisions were the responsability of the board).

      I'm hard pressed to come up with any good managers in my 20 years of work.

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    35. Re:Both can be equally bad by enormouspenis · · Score: 1

      Agreed. I've had lots of jobs and probably 25% were with woman bosses. All but one were absolutely horrible. The exception was one of the smartest department managers I've ever met anywhere and she moved up the food chain quickly. But because 75% of my bosses have been men I tend to forget that 75% of them were probably jerks as well as idiots. It is all subjective.

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    36. Re:Both can be equally bad by Gazzonyx · · Score: 1

      Men and women are different, and generally manage in different ways, but saying is one better than the other is silly. Depends on the job, the situation, and who they are managing; and really, I think the individual makes all the difference.

      Congratulations, you win the Politically Correctness Award for the most Politically Correct comment discussing a Politically Correct interpretation of a Politically Correct study.

      With Political Correctness, everybody wins!

      So, what does GP win?

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    37. Re:Both can be equally bad by amorpheous · · Score: 1

      I've had many male bosses and two female bosses. The male bosses have ranged from excellent to OK, but no one really bad, just a bit flakey. The two female bosses are night and day though.

      My worst boss was my first female boss; she was an overbearing bulldozer who seemed more concerned with building her empire than anything else. She actually drove one of her suboridinates crazy and almost got herself killed by him; he's in prison now.

      My current boss, a female, is the best I've ever had. She is a former engineer, so she knows technology, and how to manage projects. She builds strong working relationships with partnering groups. She actually listens to me and acts on many of my suggestions. She knows her subordinates well and figures out how to motivate and reward us for our efforts, especially when we go beyond the call of duty.

      She's the kind of boss that I would switch jobs in order to continue working for.

    38. Re:Both can be equally bad by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      In 40 years of observing both male & females in supervisory positions:

      A. There are exceptionally competent & incompetent members of both genders.

      B. In times of crisis, the first question the vast majority of the females I have observed tend to ask is "Who's at fault?" The males tend to ask "How do we solve the problem?" first.

      That by itself does not contradict the statements of the article, but when the stuff hits the fan, which kind of boss do you want to work for or have working for you?

    39. Re:Both can be equally bad by EvilBudMan · · Score: 1

      I think you are wrong. I have seen many more male bosses fail because there are more male bosses. The reason, testosterone. The more you have, the less it bothers you to fire someone whom needs it. Women are pretty good as CFO's though but not CEO's. Ask HP?

    40. Re:Both can be equally bad by EvilBudMan · · Score: 0

      I don't wanna be against women but you are correct. It's simple one is not better than another. Women are better at some things in general and so are men. It's simple testosterone levels IMO.

    41. Re:Both can be equally bad by EvilBudMan · · Score: 1

      Yep tell your employees I want this done and by when and don't say a thing unless it's not done. Simple hire people you don't have to baby sit.

      Side note: This can also be bad if your employees don't have clear lines of responsibility.

    42. Re:Both can be equally bad by HornWumpus · · Score: 1

      I've found one thing that will turn any boss, male of female, into an asshole.

      An asshole employee.

      If 100% of your bosses have been assholes consider the alternative explanation. (general observation, not directed at you in particular AC.)

      My advice to any boss with an asshole employee, fire him or her before you are forced down to their level. Your other employees will thank you.

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    43. Re:Both can be equally bad by HornWumpus · · Score: 1

      homophobe.

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    44. Re:Both can be equally bad by HornWumpus · · Score: 1

      Visitation with his testicles, once a month. Only one at a time though.

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    45. Re:Both can be equally bad by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      "Still, correlation does not equal causation. 'One might question the direction of the relation: is it women managers who are the behind these policies, or is it that more progressive organizations are more accessible for women leaders than other workplaces (PDF)?'"

      Good grief. How in the world is any of this important? The purpose of a business is to make money. If it makes money then you have a job. Are women managers better at making money? If so, great, who the hell cares if they are male or femaile.

      You just contradicted yourself. The question was whether the women are responsible for the policies. If they're not, then you can't just stick a woman in charge and profit.

    46. Re:Both can be equally bad by bzipitidoo · · Score: 1

      Political correctness is just another mental shortcut.

      The whole idea of sorting people into "good" and "bad" misses all the nuance.

      What is undeniable is how terrible we are at tapping people for management. Everyone ought to have a shot at managing for long enough to understand what a high pressure PITA job it really can be. Many of us do understand, and avoid it! When they're actually trying to be objective about it, instead of handing these "plum" jobs to friends and relatives, the criteria used to pick out people with "management potential" (as if leadership is innate-- amazing how much we still labor under medieval thinking), are completely wrong. Technical proficiency is seriously underrated in favor of loudmouthed, aggressive pushiness. The latter is mistakenly seen as being proactive, and a go-getter. They want people with drive and ambition, and they look the other way very hard whenever the whippings start. Because you see, peons are naturally lazy slackers and must be constantly threatened with termination to get the most work out of them. What they should want are leaders, but what they get are mostly pushers because they can't tell the difference. I've been wondering for some time now what they are teaching in management classes that we get this so wrong.

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    47. Re:Both can be equally bad by cayenne8 · · Score: 0

      That and well...it is kind of hard to take commands, and respect a manager that you can also picture as having her down on her knees giving you a blowjob and staring up with you with your cock stuffed in her mouth.

      Hmm....struck a chord with some of the ladies on slashdot, eh?

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    48. Re:Both can be equally bad by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      At my last job, I had a few female bosses over the coarse of 8 years. Some were just as you described. One was just the opposite...queen b*tch and she was totally above talking things through with her pears or underlings. She was also prone to not accept responsibility for her negative actions.

      Did you like to talk to her peaches?

      He said he was coarse - so I assume he talked to her melons.

      In my current job my (female) boss is the best manager I have ever had, and the (female) director of HR is one of the worst managers I have ever had the misfortune to try to work with. Absolutely unwilling to have any egalitarian interactions with anyone below the level of VP - in fact she refuses to call the help desk, she insists on calling the CIO directly whenever she breaks her computer. So the CIO ends up calling the help desk instead. It's like a running joke around here, only not funny.

    49. Re:Both can be equally bad by SpasticMutant · · Score: 1

      I agree, based on my personal experiences. At previous companies I have had two female managers that totally sucked ass, and one that was just fine, thank you (she called in rich, oh well...). I also have had 2 female directors, both of which were predatory sharks getting ahead by bringing others down; I see few examples of women succeeding in technology without having to be cutthroat. Luckily I got out of their ways and was only marginally impacted by their paths of destruction. But I was not one of their favorites, so I took some damage before heading out the door. I have also had 3 male managers who were excellent, and 2 that were terrible, as well. So I would have to say it's a wash. I do agree that female managers do seem to take issues more personally, though. And those female sucky directors were famous for playing extreme favorites, to the point that one of them screwed over half the group to give her handful of favorites massive bonuses. It was blatant, and most of us non-favorites moved along very quickly. BTW, I'm a female engineer, with 15+ years experience. I work primarily in kernel space, and am currently employed in the field of I/O virtualization. I currently have a male boss - actually, I'm the only female in my group; all of the managers I've had have been male at my company, but this is a good company so I haven't had any major issues. So far.

    50. Re:Both can be equally bad by MickLinux · · Score: 1

      They're not equal. They do fail differently.

      But they both can be bad. Or they can be good. Good is rarer than bad.

      I suspect that the most definite answer you'll get to this question, depends on whether the person you're asking is male or female, and whether they want to be boss.

      Which leads us back to the original problem...

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    51. Re:Both can be equally bad by turgid · · Score: 1

      If she's a boss, she'll tell you to get them, and then check out your ass.

      What if I get my donkey to get them for me, what will she check out then? Or if I take my donkey to the filing cabinet with me so that he's not left unattended?

    52. Re:Both can be equally bad by Cederic · · Score: 1

      Hmm. Maybe if you're managing shelf stackers you can do that.

      Tell creative people, "I want this done" and walk off, and you'll get a mix of
      - exactly what you asked for, which wont be anything like what you want or need
      - something that's approximately what you asked for, in the right spirit, but that isn't what you need or want
      - something that's nothing to do with what you asked for, what you actually want or what you need

      That's not necesssarily the fault of the creative person; it's usually the fault of the person asking, for being insufficiently precise, for changing their mind, for not knowing about or correctly predicting changing circumstances, for not know what they wanted in the first place.

      Ongoing dialogue and interactive feedback is usually the answer, and for that reason I expect regular contact with my boss. I could move to another office but I don't; I sit next to him, and when working with other managers I'll go and join them, or ask their teams to join me.

      "JFDI" gets _something_ done, but rarely the right thing.

    53. Re:Both can be equally bad by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Harassment is usually not just asking someone for drinks or complimenting them; have you ever been directly propositioned for sex by a coworker you don't know well? Dealt with someone who keeps badgering you and won't take "no" for an answer? Dealt with somebody downplaying harassment (or even flat out deny that it was harassment!) because the person harassing you is attractive and popular?

      Harassment isn't about "ew, he has cooties." It's about pushing against someone's personal boundaries, and attractive people are perfectly capable of that.

    54. Re:Both can be equally bad by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      So if you were managing a gay male employee, you would be cool with him disrespecting you as long as he wanted to fuck you?

    55. Re:Both can be equally bad by Hyperhaplo · · Score: 1

      I agree 100%.

      However. There is one difference.

      I've found that it is far easier to approach and deal with a male who is apathetic, negative, useless, passive aggressive, lacking in skill knowledge or tact and generally this crap:

      women in management positions lead in a more democratic way,

      makes it so difficult to get things done that it is just not funny.

      Case in point: the current 'manager' where I currently work does this. Everything by 'democratic vote'. The problem is that many employees don't want to be managed, don't want their time to be watched, don't want to work, don't want at a high level of efficiency or effectiveness (or even at a medium level for many..) and basically if they can get away with it then they just want to turn up to work, do the absolutely minimum, collect their paycheck and go home.

      Seriously, how many people do you know who would do little or nothing at work if they could get away with it? Right.

      I understand that when the place is full of energetic enthused highly ethical and highly moral people who know what their work is and do it.. then yes a female manager can manage and lead quite effectively. Unfortunately, most work places I've seen or experienced just don't work like that. Employees need to be managed, management must provide leadership and manage moral.

      Otherwise, as it is now where I work, the few who do actually have ethics and moral and employ them just steadily get more depressed and upset.

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    56. Re:Both can be equally bad by mapkinase · · Score: 1

      My theory is that when it matters, male and women perform differently. The problem is that this society is highly redundant, the whole structure is geared towards lowering responsibility of an individual and spreading it more equally with high level of overhead among many people, so no one is irreplaceable.

      You are right, both of them fail, but the failure is written in from the beginning.

      I am not even storing of redundancy of 99.9% of human activities

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    57. Re:Both can be equally bad by Smerta · · Score: 0

      I've had a boss ... [who] was growing tits involuntarily, and horribly moody.

      If I was growing man-tits, I'd *always* be in a bad mood.

    58. Re:Both can be equally bad by CAIMLAS · · Score: 1

      Agree 150%.

      I've never had a hands-off manager. The direct ones are idiots and don't listen. Honestly, I've found that things have generally run better when my bosses haven't been around, to the concensus of everyone.

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    59. Re:Both can be equally bad by CAIMLAS · · Score: 1

      Are you serious?

      Managers will then end up with cowardly people with no skills who will lie to them when the job is 30% done but they're not going to work on it anymore, they're behind schedule, or it looks done to the uninitiated but hasn't actually been completed.

      If you're telling your employees to do things in a specific timeframe, you'd better have a damn good reason for doing so - like being able to do so yourself. Managers should only ask how long it takes, and then tell them "Make it so", with there being absolutely no ground for deviation from this rule unless the employer/boss knows what the fuck they're talking about (BTDT).

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    60. Re:Both can be equally bad by Webz · · Score: 1

      It's hilarious how some harassment training (phrasing!) material was like "/some/ harassment is okay"...

    61. Re:Both can be equally bad by EvilBudMan · · Score: 1

      If someone understands something right away as long as they follow the specification. If you have to set and do the whole problem for so called creative people (not sure box stackers are not creative), then why not just do whatever it is yourself? This seems to be the only way to get a job done the way you want whether it's the so called right way or not.

      I guess I'm just saying some have to much interactive feedback and question every minor detail. As long as it works, I guess.

    62. Re:Both can be equally bad by EvilBudMan · · Score: 1

      --If you're telling your employees to do things in a specific timeframe, you'd better have a damn good reason for doing so - like being able to do so yourself.--

      I have to agree there. On the other hand if you have done something 100 times and carefully explain to someone how to do the job the usual answer is well we didn't do it that way at the last place I worked to which I say this is a different place. That's what I'm talking about and it's funny how they get moved around all over the place until they manage you without knowing anything about any particular job as it normally takes someone 2 years to get good at what they do. I'm just saying some never do become good except maybe at BSing.

  2. That's been my experience by dtmos · · Score: 5, Interesting

    In my career, I've had good male managers and good female managers. The difference is that, while I've had several male managers that were priggish martinets, I've not had a female manager with similar qualities.

    Anecdotal experience is not law, of course, and I could have been the beneficiary of just not having a large enough sample size of female managers, but that's been my experience.

    1. Re:That's been my experience by mellon · · Score: 5, Insightful

      I've also worked under quite a few female and male managers. I've had good and bad experiences with both. I am deeply skeptical that sex is the major variable. It may well be true that men are more likely to be authoritarian, but that hasn't been my experience. I could theorize from anecdotal evidence that women have various common qualities, but I suspect that other male managers I haven't happened to work for have had those same qualities.

      I think the major variable is competence. Competence is a hard thing to achieve for managers, because they get a lot of really bad training, or in many cases no training. In the set of all managers who are poorly trained, it's probably true that for reasons which may be cultural or may be innate, there are measurable differences between the problems women have and the problems men have. But I think it's equally likely that among managers who are competent, these differences lose their significance. I think that organizations looking to have better management would be well advised to focus on competence rather than on sex.

    2. Re:That's been my experience by Marillion · · Score: 2

      As a stereotype, women excel at consensus driven group dynamics. The best female managers I've had were ones who followed their instincts, steered the consensus, and made groups work. Female managers who either trained to be to tried to be more like the stereotypical alpha-male manager who orders from the top down and expects unquestioning obedience have been miserable managers. It's also been my experience that the same is true of male managers.

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    3. Re:That's been my experience by Iniamyen · · Score: 1

      I think your experience is a common one. I think the reason for this is that there are still some barriers to women being able to achieve management positions, so the few that make it have to be VERY good. I have not worked for a female manager, but I have had my share of both very good and very terrible male managers. I think the market for male managers is quite diluted.

    4. Re:That's been my experience by 93+Escort+Wagon · · Score: 3, Interesting

      In my career, I've had good male managers and good female managers. The difference is that, while I've had several male managers that were priggish martinets, I've not had a female manager with similar qualities.

      The worst boss I've ever had was a woman. She was autocratic, ruled by intimidation and fear, and couldn't see outside a rigid hierarchy to save her life. She was the absolute personification of a Dilbert PHB (pointy haired boss, for you young'uns). Just about everyone hated her, and her name is still the butt of jokes at work, some eight years after she left.

      Not sure if I should mention she happened to be a lesbian...

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    5. Re:That's been my experience by garcia · · Score: 2, Interesting

      Some people suck and some people are great. Sex has absolutely nothing to do with personality or ability to manage.

    6. Re:That's been my experience by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      My anecdotal experience is that being a woman doesn't automatically make one a more democratic manager. I've had male and female managers. One of my female managers was by far the worst manager I have ever had. She was incompetent, inconsistent, acrimonious, and had the attitude of "it's my way or the highway".

    7. Re:That's been my experience by AmiMoJo · · Score: 2

      Managers tend to either be people who were good at their jobs so got promoted into a position they were not good at, or people who are career managers and don't know enough about what the grunts actually do to be effective. There are some good bosses of course, but more accidentally than by design I think.

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    8. Re:That's been my experience by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 5, Insightful

      The problem is that 'managers' are generally identified from the outset as 'management track' before they are given the opportunity to become competent. They are then shoved into a role too soon (you generally need at least two years of work to become competent at most any job) because someone above them wants to have less 1:1s and attend other work-less meetings instead.

      Management is a ridiculous thing to have in general. There should never be any reason why a manager (and I'm a manager) should have less than 15 people under them. Why? Because managers don't do any real work. So why have 4 managers who make more money and do nothing and create more work for those under them?

    9. Re:That's been my experience by mellon · · Score: 2

      This isn't true--there are managers who are good by design. They just aren't all that common, because it's rare for a company to reward people for that.

    10. Re:That's been my experience by SilentStaid · · Score: 1

      That's just political correctness blinding you I think. Fact is, as culturally women and men are still both treated very differently from a young age all the way into their careers. No, the actual sex doesn't matter - but the way that we treat those sexes does - and has - for generations.

    11. Re:That's been my experience by Samantha+Wright · · Score: 4, Insightful

      If you're looking for a confounding variable to help flesh out your model, I might propose determination; i.e. women in business push themselves harder to succeed because they have something to prove (whether or not anyone's looking.) My undergraduate thesis supervisor was the epitome of this. I was interviewing with a woman while looking at graduate school supervisors, and remarked how skewed the gender balance seemed to be at that school in comparison with my alma mater; her response was that it was the same at all high-end universities, and she believed that women are less likely to apply for such schools because they underestimate their own abilities. Hence you see the truly exceptionally driven people; a tail of the distribution curve that isn't exactly bell-shaped.

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    12. Re:That's been my experience by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Nope. Believe me, women and me are all equally atrocious in their own ways.

      I just left a company where I worked for a horrible female manager for two years and then went to an excellent male manager for two more. After they put me back under the woman it was clear it was time to leave. I had a new job in less than a week.

      The job prior to that? Excellent female manager who I still believe is one of the best I'll ever have.

    13. Re:That's been my experience by jellomizer · · Score: 2

      The problem with the woman who try to be like male managers is that they try to follow the stereotype that adds unpredictability. I have found woman managers will go off far more unexpected then male managers, especially when they think they have something to prove.

      Men and Women are different and more then just plumbing. Different doesn't mean better. But neither side shouldn't try to be what they aren't that is what causes problems.

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    14. Re:That's been my experience by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      ^This. Also, I've noticed that whilst men (with female bosses) tend to get away with more, the women will put far more effort into putting down other women who are down the rungs on the ladder. Applies to both public and private sector.

      In the interests of full disclosure, I'm male in the EU. I've seen two workplaces where the women have been great to each other, but on the whole, women are worse to work for.

    15. Re:That's been my experience by CubicleZombie · · Score: 1

      Every position I've ever had for every company I've ever worked for, the head boss in the corner office has always been a woman. I hear about these barriers to women in management positions and that it has something to do with my evil white penis, but I have never ever seen this in the real world.

      Now there may be barriers in upper board room level management but that's a very small segment of the professional world. And a woman has a better chance at CEO than me. As a short balding male, I my chances there are statistically zero.

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    16. Re:That's been my experience by Ginger+Unicorn · · Score: 3, Funny

      I've had several male managers that were priggish martinets

      so it isn't just me that had trouble when working as an 18th century footman

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    17. Re:That's been my experience by Envy+Life · · Score: 5, Interesting

      I have not found promotions into management to happen among the most competent. Companies lean toward keeping good employees in their position, and those with less competence get moved around, many times into management positions. In my experience I've come to believe that management is very difficult because most people don't get it. Out of all the companies I've worked for and all the management I've worked under or with, I'd say less than 10% are competent, and and the best was female.

      Why was she best? Because she was good at organizing, good at following up on performance reviews, good at letting her team do what they were best at, and good at making decisions because her communication with her team allowed her a good pulse of what was going on. A large portion of male managers I've worked with want to be too hands on, and shirk some of the most basic organization and coordination that is needed to run a team. Lets face it, the bulk of a manager's responsibilities are secretarial tasks -- calendaring, organizing, scheduling, basically keeping their team on task. Some people get that, some people don't.

      It is ideal to have a manager who was competent in a skills position at one point in their career, and work their way up as does a manager of a loading dock, but it isn't a requirement. For example in contrast to most other countries, many Chinese government officials have engineering backgrounds, and they "get" technology, and thus they seem to make much more intelligent decisions for their countries in many areas, e.g. manufacturing. In contrast, U.S. politicians are all lawyers, who are adept only at diverting and twisting issues for their own agenda rather than a pure sense of "good" and "not as good".

      So background is important, but based on the high failure rate of managers I've seen in my decades of work experience, I'd just like someone who is a competent organizer and decision maker. Asking for someone who is good at that and who truly understands the jobs and skills of those underneath them is nearly impossible to find. That is largely because managers are hired by "Directors"--career management straight out of school, who don't have a clue how the world works above or below them... and Executives are skilled at sales. No one really gets it, and thus my opinion of corporate organization is very poor, so the most competent skilled workers have no desire to get "promoted" into a position largely occupied by incompetents.

    18. Re:That's been my experience by shiftless · · Score: 1

      men's and women's brains are different (spacial versus language).

      No, more like individualism vs. group thinking. Women's brains are more oriented towards group thinking, men are more individualistic.

    19. Re:That's been my experience by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Every position I've ever had for every company I've ever worked for, the head boss in the corner office has always been a woman. I hear about these barriers to women in management positions and that it has something to do with my evil white penis, but I have never ever seen this in the real world.

      Now there may be barriers in upper board room level management but that's a very small segment of the professional world. And a woman has a better chance at CEO than me. As a short balding male, I my chances there are statistically zero.

      It's the generation gap.

      20 years ago there were very few women in management positions. People currently over 40 think that wasn't a very long time ago, people under 40 think that was forever ago.

      I don't see any meaningful gender gap in management, but I'm 26. My parents still think the concept of a co-ed dormitory is atypically liberal and My grandmother thought I was lying when I told her about unisex bathrooms.

    20. Re:That's been my experience by operagost · · Score: 2

      For example in contrast to most other countries, many Chinese government officials have engineering backgrounds, and they "get" technology, and thus they seem to make much more intelligent decisions for their countries in many areas, e.g. manufacturing.

      China has a planned economy, whereas the US has something resembling a free market.

      In contrast, U.S. politicians are all lawyers, who are adept only at diverting and twisting issues for their own agenda rather than a pure sense of "good" and "not as good".

      Good in what way? Pure morality, good for the most people, or a compromise between favoring the majority without trampling the rights of the minority? China is "successful" with a bunch of engineers in charge because the good of the state always trumps the needs of the minority. I'm not saying our lawyer-driven quagmire of a federal government is better, it's just better suited to a non-authoritarian government.

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    21. Re:That's been my experience by nhat11 · · Score: 0

      ^ Pretty much this. A woman friend thought that was normal to just dislike a person for no reason and get into little fights.

    22. Re:That's been my experience by pak9rabid · · Score: 1

      Sounds like the place I used to work....this wasn't in Austin by chance was it?

    23. Re:That's been my experience by 93+Escort+Wagon · · Score: 1

      Nope - Seattle.

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    24. Re:That's been my experience by StillNeedMoreCoffee · · Score: 1

      I too have had both Male and Female managers. I have had both good and bad. I had a Female manager that would listen to what you had to say and often take advise and one that would not listen to what you said, or maybe sometimes, then tell you what you were going to do. That second variety was not comfortable and if you worked on something that she had not pre-approved, she would not only never approve it but tell others that she could not touch it also. This vindictive behavior was very counter productive and the department ended up not doing anything new or innovative for fear of retribution. I had a Male boss that told a friend, after approving a vacation to a foriegn country, came back and told him he could not go, as a way of motivating him to be loyal to work. He went anyway and quit the job. The funny part was when that boss asked where he was, and I told him out of the country, he realized his brinkmanship had backfired and he had lost a valuable employee.

      There are enough stories of good and bad. Some organizations thrive on a authoritarian top down decision making , others on a bottom up consensus approach. The consensus approach can grid lock, the top down can make uninformed decisions. The bottom up can make uninformed decisions if the people at the bottom are uninformated or the decision maker can't tell an informed choice over and uninformed choice.

      Like Lorenzian attactors, each style will morph an organization or a part of an organization to a different process and different timing. which is better? Depends on whether you are doing a marketing campaign or trying to put out a brush fire, or write code that will work and be maintainable.

    25. Re:That's been my experience by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I would agree. There is a certain generation of women who feel that they were somehow held back by men and feel obligated to "right a wrong, " by any means necessary. They're the first to mention 73 cents on the dollar. These female managers seem to think that it's okay to show extreme preferential treatment towards women because it's called "mentoring," whereas they are the first to point to a male manager as sexist because most of his team is male which implies a Good O' Boy club. I worked in retail, which is dominated by women, even in IT. I find that the most dangerous teams to join were those with a female manager and 100% women. If you got on one of these teams and were male, woe unto you. The next stop was generally out the door.

    26. Re:That's been my experience by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Yeah top heavy is stupid.

      But good managers actually do work - they keep upper management and others from bothering us so we can get more work done ;).

      They attend more of "those" meetings so we can work (someone needs to attend those meetings - but it's usually a waste of time to have everyone in the team attend them). They also provide noninsane ballpark guesses/estimates on when things will be done (with suitable padding). Upper management NEEDS those predictions so they have something to announce/promise to the public, customers or whoever.

    27. Re:That's been my experience by TheLink · · Score: 1

      Maybe she left Seattle for Austin or vice versa? ;)

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    28. Re:That's been my experience by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I've had few female managers and they have been terrible. The last one laid off me and my co-worker by reason that company didn't have money and needed to layoff two workers for 6 months.
      And she did lie to us directly looking to eyes and after two days we found out that she had hired her son and his girlfriend to our jobs, with a rise.

    29. Re:That's been my experience by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      you generally need at least two years of work to become competent at most any job

      That's funny. I usually need about 3 weeks before I'm doing things better than the guy who came before me. By 2 years, I've automated every tedious task I don't like doing, and end up spending 50% of my time trying to come up with new things to do.

    30. Re:That's been my experience by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Yeah top heavy is stupid.

      Unless they are female...

    31. Re:That's been my experience by EvilBudMan · · Score: 1

      To do what you just said you really have to understand what your company does. The person in charge needs to know something about everything that goes on with what they manage. You sometimes get people that come in and try to run things like their last job which may be completely different.

    32. Re:That's been my experience by EvilBudMan · · Score: 1

      I have found women to lie more than men bosses as well. Of course there are exceptions. Women also tend to focus on unimportant things like a carpet stain or saving money at the dollar store even though they have enough money to spend their time taking in the big picture. It generally takes them much longer to make decisions especially when a quick one is needed but if they can hold up their end of the log, I have no problems with them, but yeah in the US women tend to talk too much at work. I bet it's different in other countries though.

    33. Re:That's been my experience by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Female Manager who reports to the CIO : Immediately downgraded coffee service to horrible swill, removed the ability of lower level management to approve training or travel (even if it is within budget and below their signing threshold), stopped stocking aspirin (becuz people need to bring their own, in case of headaches) in the med kits, requires all training that has a 15 day lead to be completed within 5 days (to pad her performance numbers), has downgraded at least 2 employees performance (docking 20% of performance bonuses and raises) for jaywalking, often restricts information that other verticals already know resulting in uneven communication channels...

      Wow, this could go on for a while. Actually, every truly horrible boss that I've ever had was a woman. The guys usually do as much as they can wrt my requests and then stay out of my way when I work my mojo.

      Incidentally, none of the above acts have been committed to the other verticals under the same CIO, so we know where the source is. Sometimes via her own mouth or email.

    34. Re:That's been my experience by HornWumpus · · Score: 1

      15 direct reports? Maybe 15 burger flippers, but not 15 professionals doing complicated tasks.

      15 people implies constant hiring for turnover (1st most important task for a manager, team building) 1/2 hour per report/day average time (assuming he has only staff to manage, most also have projects and many have clients.)

      I think 15 direct reports is an insane number. When I have seen managers attempt this it is because they are control freaks unwilling to delegate. They wind up with very flat organizations, burnt out, and with no-one ready to step up and take on any management load.

      The worst mistake they make is promoting weak staff into middle management as they are non-threatening. Then undermining the new 'manager' by running his/her reports directly. Eventually they can't manage any more growth.

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    35. Re:That's been my experience by 93+Escort+Wagon · · Score: 1

      Haha, no, I'm pretty sure she came from the east coast.

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    36. Re:That's been my experience by HornWumpus · · Score: 1

      There where many women in management 20 years ago.

      But 20 years ago the female managers actually had to go through extra shit to get there. They had started working back when men could 'cut one out of the secretarial pool for some fun.'

      They were a chore to deal with when you where the 24 year old male who they knew had just been hired a 95% of their salary (which I must say was the market rate. Fact is I'm sure I got at least one a raise. FYI back in the day many organizations had rules that you always made less then the person you reported to. So hiring a high demand tech person could get a manager a _fat_ raise.) We got to deal with their resentment all while being watched in case we displayed _any_ male behavior around the young cute ones.

      You kids don't realize how much Bill Clinton getting a BJ helped. Once they accepted Bills behavior they were forced to be somewhat reasonable with the rest of us. Not that they have all accepted it.

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    37. Re:That's been my experience by HornWumpus · · Score: 1

      More political. What are the women learning through puberty and teenage years while the boys are wrenching on bikes, cars and computers?

      They are learning to play political games for dominance. That is the purpose of catty teenage girl drama.

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    38. Re:That's been my experience by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      men's and women's brains are different (spacial versus language).

      You're male, then, I take it.

    39. Re:That's been my experience by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Speaking as an employer in many different scenarios - if people don't have a $WARM_BODY^W Manager around they just don't bother working. No matter how much you pay or how good an employee they are. They don't feel cared for. Or will start to think the company is not professional.

    40. Re:That's been my experience by theshowmecanuck · · Score: 1

      What you are saying is true, at least as far as males being more individualistic. But the OPs point is still valid. It is also well documented that men are better at handling spacial relationships than women, but women have better language skills. Here is an article on one of Discovery Channel's web sites that talks about these documented differences (don't let the site name throw you off, it is a decent article that sums things up nicely without dumbing it down to Homer Simpson level.).

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    41. Re:That's been my experience by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      And you must be what, a pussy?

    42. Re:That's been my experience by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Early studies consistently found that school age boys were more aggressive than girls---until they considered 'relational aggression'---in other words the gossipy shunning type of aggression that you describe.

      When that type of aggression is taken into account, girls appear to be about as aggressive as boys.

    43. Re:That's been my experience by jardos · · Score: 1

      That's interesting. Here's an example of women being treated differently. I knew of one female manager of a small department who got away with atrocious behavior - swearing, making threatening gestures and statements to (mostly male) staff members. None of the male staff members would protect themselves from these attacks due to the macho code of honor. Basically she knew she could get away with this behavior. Upper management never upbraided her as far as I know due to the politically correct office culture. A male manager at this organization would never have the nerve to act like this.

    44. Re:That's been my experience by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      You also worked for Jayanthi Rangarajan at Motorola?

    45. Re:That's been my experience by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I doubt u even work or ever held a job /. troll.

  3. Anecdotal by chill · · Score: 5, Funny

    I've done some of my best work under women. :-)

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    1. Re:Anecdotal by mrops · · Score: 1

      Funny, I have done my best work over women

    2. Re:Anecdotal by zlives · · Score: 3, Funny

      how many monitors do you go through in a month?

    3. Re:Anecdotal by cpu6502 · · Score: 1

      Sounds like the women were doing all the work.

      LOL

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    4. Re:Anecdotal by parallel_prankster · · Score: 1

      How many women do you have tattoed on your palms??

    5. Re:Anecdotal by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      You mean being topped by a transsexual.

    6. Re:Anecdotal by evil_aaronm · · Score: 2

      Then you're doing it wrong.

    7. Re:Anecdotal by ZooDog · · Score: 1

      Working in your mom's basement doesn't count...

    8. Re:Anecdotal by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      He LOL'd at his own joke - this dipshit's doing EVERYTHING wrong.

  4. It's lucky that the study didn't find the opposite by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 5, Insightful

    Because it would have been sexism.

  5. Wrong Location by what2123 · · Score: 4, Insightful

    I must being a bad location then. I find most women in manager positions are good, but very authoritative. Which makes sense for the reason that they were able to get to that position to begin with. I'm not saying that it makes them bad in any sort of way I just don't see a female manager being any more cooperative than a male manager. In both cases it truly comes down to how that individual initially got to their position.

    1. Re:Wrong Location by parallel_prankster · · Score: 1

      When you say authoritative, do you mean arrogant?

    2. Re:Wrong Location by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I'd have to say that a lack of good role models often leads to this, and the management training/recruiting methods used to jumpstart female management candidates at some companies sometimes leads to an individual being promoted before they're ready. It's not so much about gender - anyone promoted too quickly and feeling insecure is likely to lash out or take every suggestion as a challenge.

      It's a natural result of the fact that companies mistreated female managers or prevented female employees from becoming managers for so long. Attempts to correct it have their downsides as well. Hopefully we'll get to a point where a bad manager doesn't go far, regardless of gender or race.

    3. Re:Wrong Location by neonKow · · Score: 1

      Why would he/she mean that? Is it that hard to believe that managers end up acting overly bossy rather than arrogant?

    4. Re:Wrong Location by epyT-R · · Score: 1

      It's a natural result of the fact that companies mistreated female managers or prevented female employees from becoming managers for so long. Attempts to correct it have their downsides as well. Hopefully we'll get to a point where a bad manager doesn't go far, regardless of gender or race.

      Not really. There is no cause effect here.. It may be the justification, but it's not rational at all. Basically people who agree with this are saying that the solution to sexism is more sexism..

    5. Re:Wrong Location by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I have had in 20 years two female managers and maybe 10 male. no difference except that women tend to micromanage and control 10 x more.

  6. Yeah but how much work gets done? by cpu6502 · · Score: 1

    I had a woman boss who could chat-up a storm, but I wasn't getting any work done during that ~3 hours wasted per week.

    On the other hand she did get me a promotion (+$5000 more per year). I doubt my old male boss would have bothered.

    There are pros and cons.

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    1. Re:Yeah but how much work gets done? by psmears · · Score: 1

      I had a woman boss who could chat-up a storm, but I wasn't getting any work done during that ~3 hours wasted per week.

      Much as I hate meetings, those 3 hours aren't wasted if they help ensure that the other 37+ hours in everyone's week are spent doing the right work.

  7. Yea, but... by CanHasDIY · · Score: 0, Redundant

    Only if she's really, really hot.

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    1. Re:Yea, but... by epyT-R · · Score: 1

      Not really. who cares if she's hot, when she's making your life miserable?

    2. Re:Yea, but... by CanHasDIY · · Score: 1

      Learn to laugh, man! It's a joke!

      Granted, a bad joke, but still...

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    3. Re:Yea, but... by epyT-R · · Score: 1

      maybe, but lots of insecure guys these days do make exceptions for their own mistreatment if she's hot.

    4. Re:Yea, but... by CanHasDIY · · Score: 1

      BDSM?

      Now that's worth a laugh!

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    5. Re:Yea, but... by epyT-R · · Score: 1

      I think it's more to do with a lack of a strong, confident, rational father figure growing up than a sexual fetish.. if anything, a growth in such fetishes might be a reasonable result of today's softening male archetype.

  8. It's sexist, but it's ok by Dinghy · · Score: 5, Insightful

    Because it's pro-woman.

    1. Re:It's sexist, but it's ok by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

      Being a white american male, I have come to accept that the 75% who make up the various 'minorities' in this country will hate me.

    2. Re:It's sexist, but it's ok by betterunixthanunix · · Score: 5, Insightful

      As long as the public continuously hears that women are as capable or better than men, it will weaken their preexisting notion that men are better in some fields. It makes no difference whether or not it is true, whether or not studies support a claim, or whether or not studies that present a different result are left out. The feminist goal is to change society, not to present accurate information about anything, and logic and reason are irrelevant to effecting change.

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    3. Re:It's sexist, but it's ok by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Actually even that isn't true. All these studies do is reinforce the (correct) idea that men != women, and that men and women might be predisposed towards ability at different tasks.

    4. Re:It's sexist, but it's ok by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Including the moderators.

    5. Re:It's sexist, but it's ok by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      as long as we're talking with logic and reason i'm supposing you can provide citations...

      not sure if it was you intent but it sounds like you support, for example, the view that 50% of the population should receive lower monetary reward when performing the same duties with the same efficiency as the other 50%.

      i'm not arguing that there aren't advantages and disadvantages to both sexes. but i do find it laughable that in the cases that both can and do act equally they are not rewarded as such.

      as for the belief that logic and/or reason has effected ANY social change EVER... well the term hearding cats comes to mind.

      intelligence may steer but it has been and always be emotion that drives a society.

      for the purposes of not being dismissed out of hand, i'm XY variant human.

    6. Re:It's sexist, but it's ok by HeckRuler · · Score: 2, Interesting

      Oh Jesus Christ, MAN UP nancy!
      While I always understood the importance of equality, affirmative action kinda miffed me in my younger years. Then in the slump of the housing fallout I got a job over an Indian with a PHD. And in that moment all the scholarships I couldn't apply for and all the Homers and Peter Griffins didn't matter one bit to me.
      Also, looking back, at my internship there was me and a black guy. Both computer engineers. He was given a soldering iron, I was given a programming job.

      Now, neither of those bosses were tons of fun to work with. And I imagine the minorities in both cases would have stronger views on the subject. But once you get out into the real world, fact is, it's a white man's world. Whatever petty affirmative action initiative, politically skewed bias, or yet another punching bag on a sitcom, it's a paltry compensation to the injustice that goes on every workday. When was the last time you had to hope a female foreigner with a different religion and no interest in your football team would give you a job?
      So don't get your panties in a twist, sweetcheeks.

    7. Re:It's sexist, but it's ok by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      He doesn't need to provide citations, you're lying. _You_ need to prove women are compensated less for the same work. You are lying when you say they do it with the same efficiency, as they simply don't. They take more time off work, they don't stay in the same jobs for as long, and they don't negotiate as well for higher salaries.

    8. Re:It's sexist, but it's ok by epyT-R · · Score: 2

      I'm not sure if your +5 was targeted at explicit agreement with your statement, or acknowledgement of the implied roll-eyes.

    9. Re:It's sexist, but it's ok by epyT-R · · Score: 1

      time to do something about that..

    10. Re:It's sexist, but it's ok by epyT-R · · Score: 1

      not sure if it was you intent but it sounds like you support, for example, the view that 50% of the population should receive lower monetary reward when performing the same duties with the same efficiency as the other 50%.

      no, that's not what it says.

      intelligence may steer but it has been and always be emotion that drives a society.

      true.. that's why so many societies have failed. maybe we should strive for a different mentality?

    11. Re:It's sexist, but it's ok by epyT-R · · Score: 1

      This does not nullify the gp's point about the bias.. you can't claim a moral position against bigotry and then promote it against your opposition with an 'end-justifies-means' mentality and remain respectable. if you're anti sexist, you cannot discriminate against females, but you also cannot discriminate against males with some kind of default-assumed bias that women are automatically 'more repressed.'

    12. Re:It's sexist, but it's ok by HornWumpus · · Score: 1

      Dude you got the job over a PhD because most PhD are overspecialized, air thief, theoreticians. Not because he was a gupta, but because he demanded all databases be in the 23rd normal form (or better). General rule: Never hire a PhD for any job outside their specialty, watch for the exceptions though.

      How do you know the soldering job wasn't the good one? It's just an internship. Not like your programming position was anything great ether.

      You are just brainwashed with white male guilt.

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    13. Re:It's sexist, but it's ok by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      ...logic and reason are irrelevant...

      Make sense. After all, we are talking about women.....;)

    14. Re:It's sexist, but it's ok by HeckRuler · · Score: 1

      Correct, I am not promotting discrimination against Males. I am telling soneone to get over the existing discrimination and deal with it. I am giving him some perspective over the scope and scale of the discrimination that he's facing. It's really not that bad.

      I was also being a horrible sexist while doing so, "man up nancy" "panties in a twist", but that was for comedic value. And no one called me on it. So apparently you CAN be horribly sexist against one group as long as you argue for their side.

    15. Re:It's sexist, but it's ok by HeckRuler · · Score: 1
      Who had the racist sexist asshole boss for 2 years? Who had to fake a laugh at his stupid jokes? Was that you or me? Oh that's right, I'm the one who knows that they joked about hiring a female IT worker, but eventually accepted that if they did that, then HR really would come down and fire them all. I got that job because I could code. It also really helped that I was a white male.

      How do you know the soldering job wasn't the good one?

      Uh.... because we were both trying to be engineers, not technicians? It wasn't a glorious programming job, but it was my first, and getting some work experience helps a lot when appling for jobs. And because IT'S SOLDERING WORK vs PROGRAMMING.

      You are just brainwashed with white male guilt.

      No, I'm really not. I've experienced the benefits of being a white male. Directly. That's called learning from experience, not brainwashing. It's an antedotal personal experience, but it's real.

  9. It all depends... by pak9rabid · · Score: 0, Troll

    ...is she hot?

  10. Only with by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    miniskirt.

  11. Yes... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    according to women.

  12. The main difference by msobkow · · Score: 4, Interesting

    The main difference I've found between men and women as bosses over the years is I have never had a woman try to pull a power trip, leveraging the "authority" of their position to try to force me to do something they wanted.

    Men, on the other hand, sometimes think that a title means they have power over me. How soon they learn...

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    1. Re:The main difference by O('_')O_Bush · · Score: 1

      I have seen that quality in both genders equally. Then again, 50% of my managers have been women. I expect you wouldn't see some qualities if the ratio of manager genders was disproportionate (you would see a broader spectrum of one than the other).

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    2. Re:The main difference by countach74 · · Score: 1

      Really? I've had both varieties grasp for "power" and "authority." It seems often that the women who make it to management are very hardened; this isn't to say that all of them are, but my experience is a good number are. I've had both good and bad experiences with female management, as I have with male management. At least with men, I don't have to play mind games.

      I have patience to deal with exactly one woman and that is my wife. If I have to spend that patience and energy on another woman, the less I'll have left for the woman who deserves it most.

    3. Re:The main difference by dkleinsc · · Score: 1

      That's just a matter of experience: I've had female bosses who definitely were willing to pull the "I'm your boss and I said so" card.

      Also, I saw a woman pull the most Machiavellian move I've seen in management: She was competing against another executive for a promotion, got it (for reasons that are still a mystery to me, since she had run her division into the ground while his division was doing better than expected), and within 36 hours had fired the competitor and everyone associated with him.

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    4. Re:The main difference by msobkow · · Score: 1

      I may have been lucky, but I don't think so. Women are more prone to use subtle manipulation over brute force, at least with North American women. Some of the South American women I've met were more heavy handed, but after seeing the interactions with their spouses in their homes, I'm pretty sure that's cultural rather than innate behaviour.

      In other words, my experience has been that women will go to the effort of convincing you to do something; men are more prone to try to just order you to do it.

      I'd say about 1/4-1/3 of my supervisors and bosses have been women. Not a bad ratio, considering the dominance of men in the IT industries.

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    5. Re:The main difference by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Of a small sample size of 4, only one female boss I've had would insist I do something that I demonstrated would go horribly wrong. After she asked me to blow half a million on Bing(which had so far only caused 5 cents of sales per dollar spent), I suggested that if she wanted somebody who would do something that stupid, she'd have to contract a specialist because I wasn't qualified.

      She had my termination drawn up before I finished my resignation letter, but I've never been so happy to be fired. Especially after she was let go when the firm she outsourced advertising to screwed up so bad the adwords account(which did $1.90/$spent) was suspended, putting advertising ROI into the red until the account was reinstated.

      That said, the other three bosses were better than any male boss I've ever had.

    6. Re:The main difference by epyT-R · · Score: 1

      Women are more prone to use subtle manipulation over brute force, at least with North American women.

      it's called passive-aggression. it's not a mark of a wise, confident leader.

  13. Re:It might depend on the organization ... by what2123 · · Score: 4, Funny

    I think it's safe to say that Steve Jobs did not lead in a way that was similar to most masculine-driven companies. He constantly choose to go against what everyone said "worked" and made everyone "change" their thoughts to agree with him. That sounds fairly feminine to me.

  14. Definetly worse by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    I can't fall in love into man boss.
    I did however lost one job because of fancing my boss, so no. I could be more productive under male boss :P

    1. Re:Definetly worse by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      That was the reason you lost your job as a proof-reader. Yeah, right.

  15. women better for large, stable organizations by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Men tend to have jumpier personalities than women, which can be an asset or liability (sometimes both), depending on the situation. The "two standard deviations from the mean" bosses, in either direction, tend to be men. The consensus personality might not as well suited to management in a startup because circumstances change rapidly, and sometimes innocent butts have to be kicked.

    Of course there are outstanding exceptions like Mrs. Thatcher.

  16. Feminism. Glad you accepted it now guys? by rhyder128k · · Score: 5, Insightful

    Men do better in a role - "Men and women are equals. The men must have had an unfair advantage. Reperations will have to be made."

    Women do better a role - "Women's brains must be wired up in a way that makes them better at certain things. Or perhaps it's down to hormones or genetics."

    --
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    1. Re:Feminism. Glad you accepted it now guys? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Nope. This is just science. Dispute their method/results if you wish, but it has nothing to do with politics.

      If you think about it for a while it does make sense that women would be better (in a wiring sense) for management than men. They're better at multitasking, relationships, and are usually more organized than men.

    2. Re:Feminism. Glad you accepted it now guys? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Women do better a role - "Women's brains must be wired up in a way that makes them better at certain things. Or perhaps it's down to hormones or genetics."

      Oh please God, pleas please please, let there be a correlation between breast size and managerial ability!

      I will start going to church again if that's true!

    3. Re:Feminism. Glad you accepted it now guys? by zlives · · Score: 1

      bosses are bosses, you just have to know how to exploit them, just as they exploit you.

    4. Re:Feminism. Glad you accepted it now guys? by englishknnigits · · Score: 4, Interesting

      Actually, the opposite is really true. Studies have shown that women are generally better at one on one relationships and not typically as good at dealing with large groups and their dynamics. Men thrive more in the tribal, large group environments which is a large reason women typically don't do as well in the business world. Note the liberal uses of the word "typical". Here's a good podcast with references: http://www.econtalk.org/archives/2011/11/baumeister_on_g.html

    5. Re:Feminism. Glad you accepted it now guys? by NeutronCowboy · · Score: 3, Insightful

      Wow. I have to say that I should be surprised at the amount of vitriol directed at women, but sadly, I'm just reminded of the stereotype of the basement-dwelling nerd.

      Just a few notes to maybe help you get out of the basement:
      #1 Feminism isn't about reparations. It's about giving women a chance to do the same things that men are doing - like run a business, smoke a cigar, and play golf in a golf club. Basically, have a chance to do something other than cook, bear children and be a secretary.
      #2 Removing glass ceilings is not the same as reparations. If you feel that way, it's merely an indication that you have no idea how large your advantage actually has been, and that you are pissed that you have to compete on a level playing field.
      #3 Women ARE better at certain things than men are. Driving consensus is one of them. Or at least, that's what science says. Feel free to piss and moan about it, but it's not going to change the fact.

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    6. Re:Feminism. Glad you accepted it now guys? by Khashishi · · Score: 3, Interesting

      Maybe men are more willing to accept a conclusion they don't like if they are shown evidence pointing toward that conclusion.

    7. Re:Feminism. Glad you accepted it now guys? by BenoitRen · · Score: 1

      There are some loud feminists in the world that strive to give women unfair advantages. That's not what emancipation is about, obviously.

    8. Re:Feminism. Glad you accepted it now guys? by betterunixthanunix · · Score: 4, Insightful

      It's about giving women a chance to do the same things that men are doing - like run a business, smoke a cigar, and play golf in a golf club

      OK, so now that women can do all those things, what are feminists fighting for?

      you have no idea how large your advantage actually has been

      Yeah, because men like me who grew up in working class families had so many advantages in life compared to women who grew up in suburbs and had private tutors to help them get into college -- where women now make up the majority. Feminists love suburban women, because they are best able to live the feminist ideal of self-empowerment. Symbols of success are what feminists really care about -- running successful businesses, smoking cigars, and playing golf. Feminists are not interested in women who work on railroads (like my mother did), because it conflicts with their own preconceived notion about what everyone wants.

      Women ARE better at certain things than men are

      http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=BFD

      OK, cool, women are better at some things. Men are also better at some things, but where are the people parading those results in the media? Nobody tries to "level the playing field" when it comes to things that women are better at, unlike people who want to make fire department physical exams less challenging so that women will have a better chance:

      http://articles.chicagotribune.com/2011-07-20/news/ct-met-chicago-firefighter-lawsuit-20110720_1_firefighters-exam-african-american-firefighter-candidates-female-firefighters

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    9. Re:Feminism. Glad you accepted it now guys? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      You need to examine the contents of your invisible knapsack. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Invisible_Knapsack

    10. Re:Feminism. Glad you accepted it now guys? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Glad you accepted it now guys?

      U mad?

    11. Re:Feminism. Glad you accepted it now guys? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      "Phil! Mary! Come see something before it's extinct!"

    12. Re:Feminism. Glad you accepted it now guys? by NeutronCowboy · · Score: 1

      OK, so now that women can do all those things, what are feminists fighting for?

      You clearly haven't heard of the glass ceiling, the 20% discount women have to take when doing a man's job, and similar things. There are plenty of studies around this. Just google "glass ceiling" and start reading.

      Yeah, because men like me who grew up in working class families had so many advantages in life compared to women who grew up in suburbs and had private tutors to help them get into college -- where women now make up the majority.

      Stick to apples to apples comparisons. Yeah, economic advantages are, gasp! advantages. The issue is that men who grew up in working class families still have advantages over women growing up in working class families. Your mom worked railroads, congratulations. What are the odds that she might make management? As compared to, say, your dad if he had been working in the railroad?

      That's the problem. Not that rich women have more advantages than poor men. Everyone already knows that.

      Men are also better at some things, but where are the people parading those results in the media?

      Really? You don't see that? Granted, things have gotten dramatically better than even 15-20 years ago. But it's still trivial to see disparities in the media. Just one item: what's the shelf-life of a female actress? As opposed to that of a male actor? The entire point of the existence of feminism is to point out the situations where the established patriarchy is so blinded by history and habit that it just doesn't understand the problem.

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    13. Re:Feminism. Glad you accepted it now guys? by operagost · · Score: 1

      Ironic that you start off a post about tolerance by calling your opponents basement-dwelling nerds.

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    14. Re:Feminism. Glad you accepted it now guys? by rhyder128k · · Score: 1

      Your argument works on the premise that men and women are of equal ability in this role. I'm not saying that they are not. However, how do you account for the fact that men are over represented within the prison system of every society? If men and women are equal, surely this would mean that men are suffering disadvantages on a massive scale? Most liberals would argue that if non-whites (for example) were over represented in the prison system that it must be evidence of disadvantage.

      Let's say that greater involvement in criminality was down to different hormones rather than systematic disadvantage suffered by males. In that case, couldn't these differences explain why men were more successful in leadership roles in business, scientific achievements or earning a high income? Oh no, it couldn't could it, because men and women are suddenly equal again.

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    15. Re:Feminism. Glad you accepted it now guys? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Friendly reminder - your optometrist called, your glasses are now available with clear lenses.

    16. Re:Feminism. Glad you accepted it now guys? by Chrisq · · Score: 1

      Your argument works on the premise that men and women are of equal ability in this role. I'm not saying that they are not. However, how do you account for the fact that men are over represented within the prison system of every society? If men and women are equal, surely this would mean that men are suffering disadvantages on a massive scale?

      Actually there is a lot of evidence that they are.

    17. Re:Feminism. Glad you accepted it now guys? by NeutronCowboy · · Score: 1

      However, how do you account for the fact that men are over represented within the prison system of every society?

      I don't know, I haven't researched the variables that could account for that distribution.

      If men and women are equal, surely this would mean that men are suffering disadvantages on a massive scale?

      On the other hand, you're clearly very comfortable jumping to conclusions. I could fairly convincingly argue that men are more likely to be incarcerated because they are more likely to commit crimes to support their family and their status as breadwinner.

      Finally, men and women being equals doesn't mean they're the same. It just means that they shouldn't earn 20% less than a man for doing the same job, and that they shouldn't be automatically overlooked for leadership promotions.

      In that case, couldn't these differences explain why men were more successful in leadership roles in business, scientific achievements or earning a high income?

      It could. I'm waiting for the mechanism that leads to this outcome, the study that collects the data supporting the theory, and an analysis of whether the data could point towards unrelated factors. You're merely offering your opinion on what could be. It's pretty irrelevant.

      Oh no, it couldn't could it, because men and women are suddenly equal again.

      Yeah..... no. All you're doing is constructing a narrative based on incomplete, incompatible and anecdotal data sets. One in which you, a white male, is a victim. Pretty fucking pathetic, if you ask me.

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    18. Re:Feminism. Glad you accepted it now guys? by firewrought · · Score: 1
      Yes, actually. Everyone should be able to pursue a career based on their abilities, and companies should be able to hire the best person for the job.

      Women's brains must be wired up in a way that makes them better at certain things.

      That's not the explanation given in the article, so I'm not sure where you're getting your persecution complex from. I mean... if you want to go hunting for extremist positions that taint the overall endeavors of feminism, I'm sure you can find plenty to help you dismiss the concept. As with any movement, they've got their own misconceptions and there's a lot of bullsh*t around the edges, but it does not seem so unreasonable to me that our wives and daughters can aspire to more in law than simply being incubators. (And kid yourself not, there a lot of folks who want to take us in that direction.)

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    19. Re:Feminism. Glad you accepted it now guys? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Finally, men and women being equals doesn't mean they're the same. It just means that they shouldn't earn 20% less than a man for doing the same job, and that they shouldn't be automatically overlooked for leadership promotions.

      Or, it could be that men get 20% more because, as you said, men need to^W are expected to support their family and their status as breadwinner.

      I think both you and GP are jumping to conclusions.

      One in which you, a white male, is a victim.

      Wait, no, you're now jumping into more conclusions than the GP.

    20. Re:Feminism. Glad you accepted it now guys? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      You're assuming that mainstream feminism argues that the difference in incarceration rates is genetic / hormonal. It does not.

      The mainstream opinion is that there's a cultural problem which pushes men to violence and makes others more willing to accept that men were pushed to criminal violence, but should be punished for not resisting that push.

      Which is basically similar to the state of disadvantaged minorities.

    21. Re:Feminism. Glad you accepted it now guys? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      actually in my opinion glass ceiling is there for a reason, and should stay that way, if you want most money as shareholder (and most people do) you want psychopath/sociopath as a CEO - person that will be able to fire a thousand people in a blink of a eye if that means company will earn few millions more and your stock will raise, there is only 4% of psychopaths/sociopaths in our society and for some reason percentage of women that are psychopaths is much lower than men that are psychopaths, in other words its harder to find ruthless woman than it is to find ruthless man and i do think current number of CTO/CEO/CxO positions males hold is proportional to number of male psychopaths VS female psychopaths - in other words fair, it is not gender-ism if gender really makes difference in ability to do some work

    22. Re:Feminism. Glad you accepted it now guys? by HeckRuler · · Score: 1

      You know what? Bravo cowboy for fighting the good fight. After so much of it, I've simply burned out.

    23. Re:Feminism. Glad you accepted it now guys? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      So, then personal attacks are a good trait?

      Grow up.

      Oh, and nothing great ever came from consensus. It's just a way to get by. Stop pretending it's a good thing.

    24. Re:Feminism. Glad you accepted it now guys? by NeutronCowboy · · Score: 1

      My post wasn't about tolerance. It was about gender roles and status. You might want to recalibrate your irony meter or your reading comprehension.

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    25. Re:Feminism. Glad you accepted it now guys? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      This right here is my personal bitch, as per the below. Some female can come along run half as far, half as fast, with half the load, and get the same rating. (No the primary example I have wasn't half the weight, she was 2/3 my weight at the time) So I was a hell of a bargain.

      http://articles.chicagotribune.com/2011-07-20/news/ct-met-chicago-firefighter-lawsuit-20110720_1_firefighters-exam-african-american-firefighter-candidates-female-firefighters [chicagotribune.com]

    26. Re:Feminism. Glad you accepted it now guys? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      What if it's a negative correlation? Will you start worshiping Satan?

    27. Re:Feminism. Glad you accepted it now guys? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Re #1 - feminism is not about giving women a chance. It's about differentiating women from men.

      As a very wise person once said to me "we are all PEOPLE, not genders". Feminists do not push HUMANIST issues, they push gender issues - and that can include discrimination against men.

      For the record, i'm married. My wife considers herself a humanist - and that's just the way I like it.

      Let me ask you, what's the difference between a chauvenist and a feminist? I'm sure i'll hear some creative responses on that one :)

      AC

    28. Re:Feminism. Glad you accepted it now guys? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Which fits with my view of the way of how males and females are getting friends. Guys tend to get many weak relations, whereas girls tend to get one strong.

    29. Re:Feminism. Glad you accepted it now guys? by epyT-R · · Score: 1

      I suggest you quit taking queues from television commercials and sitcoms. it's one thing to analyze tv as a warped circus mirror view on the status of culture, but it's another to take it as literal truth.

    30. Re:Feminism. Glad you accepted it now guys? by epyT-R · · Score: 1

      read that from the womens' studies 101 textbook did we?

      #1. If it was ever true, it was 60 years ago. Today, the situation is quite different.. Feminism, today, is about lobbying government to give women artificial default advantages because they're women, not because they want the chance to be judged by existing, relevant standards to earn $whatever, whether it be better placement in school, employment compensation, or family court. It's interesting how quickly 'my body my right' becomes 'he got me pregnant' when it's time to pay for her 'isn't-life-so-wonderful-'choice'' to have the kid, knowing she doesn't have the $$$.

      #2. removing glass ceilings shouldn't also include holding more qualified men back. the women-are-victims default attitude in the culture basically forces every man (or woman if she's smart enough to sidestep her ego), to wonder if she got that promotion because she's the best, or because she's female. The glass ceiling stats are suspect anyway, because the people analyzing them want specific outcomes. If, overall, men make more than women do, it's due to the fact that men take the disproportionate number of dangerous/stressful jobs. Interestingly, recently, there was a report that women today are less happy than they were years ago. This does not surprise me as women have reached into white collar management at fortune 500s over the last 35 years, and are probably discovering that it's not the cocktail party the raging ivy league feminazis told them it was. High level officer positions at companies takes a lot of work!

      #3. consensus might be interesting, but it is not, nor should be, the primary decider of any important decision. this mentality in high places is what destroys businesses, and even whole societies. if your goal is to give women the high five for this, I'd reconsider..

    31. Re:Feminism. Glad you accepted it now guys? by epyT-R · · Score: 1

      Really? You don't see that? Granted, things have gotten dramatically better than even 15-20 years ago. But it's still trivial to see disparities in the media. Just one item: what's the shelf-life of a female actress? As opposed to that of a male actor? The entire point of the existence of feminism is to point out the situations where the established patriarchy is so blinded by history and habit that it just doesn't understand the problem.

      of course, feminists don't stoop so low as to take action in 'end-justifies-hypocritical-means' discrimination towards males, right? *cough*

        I dont' know what media you read/watch/listen to, but the stuff I'm exposed to is almost absurdly pro female. Men are ridiculed, dumped on, stereotyped, sexually abused (kicked in the balls/slapped), depicted as pedophiles, rapists, idiots, etc for their traits in almost every TV show and commercial. these roleplay situations wouldn't be so bad if women weren't curiously exempt from all that when the person dishing out the verbal/physical attack is male (the only time not is when it's time to show the male as 'wrong' again).. in fact even when males are shown in traditional roles, they cannot be without a gaggle of females undermining their authority, masculinity, and confidence at every turn. In contrast, you rarely if ever see a woman treated this way.. In news coverage, if a woman gets hurt or killed doing her job, suddenly the story deserves weeklong coverage, otherwise it's over and done with in 2 minutes. If a woman is mutilated sexually, it gets national coverage as a serious crime... if a man is sexually mutilated, it gets national coverage...by comedians and (all female usually) morning talk shows where the guy is ridiculed for being literally emasculated. Of course, this is no surprise most of the writers and editors nowadays are female (most communications major graduates are female and have been for quite some time, the others being feminist doormat males). so much for women having the better character..

      I find it ironic that women are the ones claiming men are simple, stupid, and easy to understand and that women are 'spiritually more enlightened' complex little snowflakes, but yet their depictions of men in the media they produce suggest a very neanderthal, childlike caricature at best, and to this male anyway, highly inaccurate.

    32. Re:Feminism. Glad you accepted it now guys? by NeutronCowboy · · Score: 1

      No, I am able to read scientific studies, rather than worry about how I suddenly have to compete on an even playing field.

      #1 [Citation needed]. Specifically, citation from feminists, rather than from people who build up strawmen about who is a feminist and what they're saying.
      #2 No, the glass ceiling and the monetary compensation numbers refer to identical job descriptions. For example, just the first study on this: http://www.dol.gov/oasam/programs/history/reich/reports/ceiling1.pdf

      raging ivy league feminazis

      Oh..... I thought you were actually interested in a real conversation. instead, you're just a bitter man who is pissed that he now has to compete with creatures with vaginas for his job. I missed this gem in my first read through.
      #3 Depends on how you define consensus. Consensus at all cost? Definitely bad. Consensus by weighting opinions and listening to people outside your trusted circle? Definitely good.

      this mentality in high places is what destroys businesses, and even whole societies.

      Oh, we have a culture warrior here. I should have guessed by the feminazi comment.

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    33. Re:Feminism. Glad you accepted it now guys? by NeutronCowboy · · Score: 1

      Men are ridiculed, dumped on, stereotyped, sexually abused (kicked in the balls/slapped), depicted as pedophiles, rapists, idiots, etc for their traits in almost every TV show and commercial.

      You might want to look into confirmation bias. I think there's even a support group for that.

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    34. Re:Feminism. Glad you accepted it now guys? by gknoy · · Score: 1

      it could be that men get 20% more because, as you said, men need to^W are expected to support their family and their status as breadwinner.

      I sure hope not, especially as both genders have family-support roles.

      As a professional at doing creative brain-stuff (software development), I would be shocked and appalled if someone were to suggest that an equally-skilled female coworker should get paid less than me simply because she's single and I'm not. Pay us for the value of our skills and contributions, not for our family role.

    35. Re:Feminism. Glad you accepted it now guys? by epyT-R · · Score: 1

      #1 you whine about bias yet you position the feminist as the only rational, objective viewpoint like they're incapable of lying/manipulating for social advantage? this is rather naive.

      #2. me? no, I'm not the one defending institutionalized discrimination as a solution for..uh...claimed discrimination.

    36. Re:Feminism. Glad you accepted it now guys? by epyT-R · · Score: 1

      Feminists should be the ones checking into that. if the genders and relevant insults were reversed on those tv ads and programs, you can bet feminists would have something to say about it. The quickest way to kill the legitimacy of a moral claim is to engage in blatant hypocritical behavior. Feminists, at least these days, do that in spades, while society cheers them on.

      throwing around think tank studies as 'science' is questionable at best. by all means, read it to see what's there, but I wouldn't take it as the last word. I read through the 'study' you posted, (http://www.dol.gov/oasam/programs/history/reich/reports/ceiling1.pdf), and it's just a regurgitation of other papers on the subject written by a variety of known feminists and progressives. if I'm to take something someone says at face value, there can't be a litany of self-serving emotional reasons for the statement. it's little better than a christian stating "god made the earth because the bible says so right here, EOD."

    37. Re:Feminism. Glad you accepted it now guys? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      The 20% discount has been shown to be a fantasy fact rather than a real fact when man made numbers are used but it exists because it is felt to exist because it needs to exist to justify a certain type of useless academic.

      http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2118538/Part-time-jobs-better-paid-women.html

      Will feminists demand the female police officers in the UK take pay cuts to bring their wages down to that of male police officers?

    38. Re:Feminism. Glad you accepted it now guys? by betterunixthanunix · · Score: 1

      Finally, men and women being equals doesn't mean they're the same

      Then do not use the word "equal," because it is misleading -- perhaps "equal access," "equal opportunity," "equal rights," but not simply "equal."

      It just means that they shouldn't earn 20% less than a man for doing the same job

      Sure, let's start by figuring out how to convince women to negotiate higher salaries -- something that men are more likely to do than women. Let's also address the various contributing factors, like the fact that women are more likely to take time off, less likely to confront their bosses about raises and bonus pay, etc. If after all that is addressed, we still find that women are earning substantially less than men, we can point to some sort of discriminatory practice.

      Of course, feminists would say that I am "blaming the victim" and that therefore the entire argument is specious. Clearly, the fact that women are less likely to negotiate a higher salary is irrelevant to them getting paid 20% less.

      One in which you, a white male, is a victim

      Which is clearly not possible, because only women and minorities could ever be victimized, right? There is no way that white men or men in general could possibly be victims of feminism in this century...except when those white men are forced to pay alimony and/or child support to a woman who left them for the man whose children she brought into the world:

      https://www.nytimes.com/2009/11/22/magazine/22Paternity-t.html?_r=1

      In the 80s and 90s, men were in an even worse position: thousands of men were arrested, convicted, and imprisoned for...satanism. Yes, that's right, following a poorly-thought-out attempt by feminists to raise awareness about child sexual abuse, everyone panicked, men across the country were arrested for molesting children, and then somehow people conflated sexual abuse with satanic rituals and we had an all-out moral panic. Some women were also accused, but the accusations were overwhelmingly directed at men.

      Now, modern feminists are not so interested in child sexual abuse, probably because of the disaster that the feminists of the 70s created. It did not help that Michelle Remembers turned out to be a complete fabrication. We are still feeling the effects of the moral panic feminism created, still having knee-jerk reactions when it comes to sex offenders and still going around doubting the intentions of men when they are around children.

      So do not even try to say that men are not victims of feminism. It was, after all, feminists who pushed to create a system where women could end their marriages and still receive alimony. Feminists pushed for child support laws that have made life that much harder for working class men. Feminists created the moral panic that imprisoned thousands of men across the country for no reason whatsoever.

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    39. Re:Feminism. Glad you accepted it now guys? by betterunixthanunix · · Score: 2

      You clearly haven't heard of the glass ceiling, the 20% discount women have to take when doing a man's job,

      I have heard of them, and I have also seen the studies that women are less likely to negotiate a higher salary, less likely to confront their bosses about raises, bonuses, and promotions, and more likely to take time off. Except that feminists have little to say about those studies; feminists simply assume that if there is any inequality, it is the result of discrimination. Feminists cannot admit the possibility that women themselves could have any part to play in their own salaries or career advancement: It must be the fault of men, society, or the mythical "patriarchy."

      Yeah, economic advantages are, gasp! advantages.

      Economic advantages are the only advantages that really matter. Feminists are only really concerned with the upper middle class, they could not care less about poor, working class people (male or female). At one time they cared (back when they were still fighting for equal access to blue collar careers), but somewhere along the way they forgot that such people even exist. Today's feminists have narrowed their focus to the upper middle class: white collar professionals who live in suburbs and who dream of climbing the ladder until they reach upper management (something which is basically impossible for blue collar workers; it takes a truly exception member of the working class to even reach middle management).

      The issue is that men who grew up in working class families still have advantages over women growing up in working class families

      Really? When last I checked, men from working class backgrounds had a high probability of being convicted of felonies and thrown in prison. I know of several men that went to middle school with me who were in prison while I was in college, and at least one is still in prison (he stole someone's car).

      When feminists speak of "male advantage," they only mean men from the upper middle class. Feminists do not spend a lot of time fussing over the poor representation of women in blue collar work; after all, people (i.e. people with enough money to make a big contribution to a feminist organization) have trouble relating to, say, sanitation work as a success story.

      Your mom worked railroads, congratulations. What are the odds that she might make management?

      Again, it is hard for blue collar workers to rise to management positions, regardless of gender. My mom could have risen to the lowest levels of management if she had wanted to -- she had plenty of experience with the equipment and the operations that needed to be done -- but she never did want to, because of the added stress. The lowest levels of management do not represent much of an advance, and it is rare for low level managers to ever rise as high as mid level management (those positions are usually filled by people who went to professional schools). My mom's immediate bosses, both male and female, never rose to a higher management position (almost all had worked in some hourly position before taking on a low level management role).

      Really, my mom's experience illustrates the real focus that feminists have. When I was working as a programmer, it was unthinkable to make a crude joke, or to have so much as a swimsuit calendar at one's desk. Feminists push hard to eliminate all manner of immature joking from white collar environments. My mother, on the other hand, saw or heard plenty of such jokes -- long tools held at crotch level, jokes about long hoses when the fire department showed up, jokes about tits, asses, dicks, and pussies, etc. There was a rule somewhere in the rulebook about not making such jokes, but the general environment was one in which only severe violations would be reported, because nobody wants to invite the scrutiny of upper management (indeed, if an occasional joke about the shape of a break

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    40. Re:Feminism. Glad you accepted it now guys? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      It's about giving women a chance to do the same things that men are doing - like run a business, smoke a cigar, and play golf in a golf club

      OK, so now that women can do all those things, what are feminists fighting for?

      No, they can't. Women are still treated very unfairly in the workplace, as a historically patriarchal society has turned the business world into a good ol' boys club where men are paid more and more likely to get promoted than women. You seem to be confusing "is able to run a business, smoke a cigar, and play golf" with "is likely to have the privilege to do those things". There is still a ton of work left for femnists to do before they are considered to be even close to equal in our society.

      you have no idea how large your advantage actually has been

      Yeah, because men like me who grew up in working class families had so many advantages in life compared to women who grew up in suburbs and had private tutors to help them get into college -- where women now make up the majority. Feminists love suburban women, because they are best able to live the feminist ideal of self-empowerment. Symbols of success are what feminists really care about -- running successful businesses, smoking cigars, and playing golf. Feminists are not interested in women who work on railroads (like my mother did), because it conflicts with their own preconceived notion about what everyone wants.

      Oh good, you realize that rich women have more privileges than you did, while completely avoiding the fact that there are an overwhelming number of women who are from the same working-class family background as you. The difference is that they don't even have male privilege to help pull themselves out of that situation. Pulled a couple from this list as examples of male privileges you have:

      --My odds of being hired for a job, when competing against female applicants, are probably skewed in my favor. The more prestigious the job, the larger the odds are skewed.

      --I am far less likely to face sexual harassment at work than my female co-workers are

      --If I have children and a career, no one will think I’m selfish for not staying at home.

      --If I’m careless with my financial affairs it won’t be attributed to my sex.

      --In general, I am under much less pressure to be thin than my female counterparts are. If I am fat, I probably suffer fewer social and economic consequences for being fat than fat women do.

      --If I have children but do not provide primary care for them, my masculinity will not be called into question.

      --My elected representatives are mostly people of my own sex. The more prestigious and powerful the elected position, the more this is true.

      --My ability to make important decisions and my capability in general will never be questioned depending on what time of the month it is.

      And, my favorite on that list:
      46. I have the privilege of being unaware of my male privilege.

      Women ARE better at certain things than men are

      OK, cool, women are better at some things. Men are also better at some things, but where are the people parading those results in the media? Nobody tries to "level the playing field" when it comes to things that women are better at, unlike people who want to make fire department physical exams less challenging so that women will have a better chance:

      http://articles.chicagotribune.com/2011-07-20/news/ct-met-chicago-firefighter-lawsuit-20110720_1_firefighters-exam-african-american-firefighter-candidates-female-firefighters

      What point do you even think this is making? No

  17. The moment you judge... by i+kan+reed · · Score: 5, Insightful

    The moment you judge a person by any simple facet, gender or race or anything else, you are doing them and yourself a great disservice, even when you judge them positively. Human beings are individually very complex, and no characteristic, even when supported with loads of statistical evidence about that characteristic is going to inform you properly. Judge individuals as individuals, in the context you deal with them. Anything else is a major failing on your part.

    This is not to impugn this study; statistics are useful and can be used in all sorts of intriguing ways. Just never let them stand in front of the individual qualities of a human being.

    1. Re:The moment you judge... by countach74 · · Score: 2

      Stereotypes often exist for good reason. I never base a final judgement on them, but before I've had a chance to deal with someone individually, as you've said, I assume the stereotype (but it's ready to be overturned at a moment's notice). For me, the exception is racial stereotypes: I don't care much for preforming an opinion of someone based solely of their ethnicity. Except for Jews: they're always so damn good with money... Oh, and Asians: racial advantage with video games for sure.

    2. Re:The moment you judge... by Baloroth · · Score: 1

      That is true. It is still true to make universal statements about what men and women are better at. It may well happen that this person doesn't fit the statistical average, and that that is reasonably common (although by definition not the majority), but it remains true that given a random person on the street you can judge them according to statistical stereotypes, and you will probably be right.

      Now, if they should prove differently and you fail to accept that, that is your problem. But the fact remains that gender (and yes, race) do influence behavior patterns, if for no other reason than biology. The same biological factors that cause women to develop female physical characteristics also influence behavior and mental characteristics. Does society and upbringing play a role? Yes, and a big one. But keep in mind that societal roles do proceed partially from evolutionary and physical characteristics as well. Men are physically stronger than women (because of testosterone), so they are naturally more capable of jobs that require great physical strength (hunting, fighting), and therefore society fits them into that role, because they tend to be better at it on the whole. Does that mean women can't fill those roles? No. It just means that on the whole, men happen to be better at it. A certain women might happen to be better than most men (possibly, even all). But initial judgments should be made from the average, not the exception, since that will be accurate most of the time.

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      "None can love freedom heartily, but good men; the rest love not freedom, but license." --John Milton
    3. Re:The moment you judge... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Even if you only consider the positive stereotypes it's still racist to form an opinion based solely on someone's ethnicity.

    4. Re:The moment you judge... by kanweg · · Score: 1

      Sure, and when it is the only information one has available, I'll act on it nonetheless. If I have to place a bet on a black guy winning a marathon or a white guy, I pick the black guy. Sure, he may turn out to be a wheelchair bound guy and the white guy a top athlete. But statistically I've made a wise choice. I do that with everything: White bread or brown bread? I'll choose the latter. Even though I've tasted excellent white bread in my life and horrible brown bread. Still, if it is the only info available, that's my choice. And I bet you do exactly the same in your life. Except that when you deal with something that is considered politically incorrect, you suppress logic/statistics. They do not stop to apply however. But you feel good by it and that is what counts. Everyone has only one life, after all.

      Bert

    5. Re:The moment you judge... by i+kan+reed · · Score: 1

      My point was that initial judgements are not enough and should be avoided. Your attitudes ARE sexist(and racist). I don't mean that as an ad hominem, but rather an exhortation to reconsider your beliefs. You are blithely and falsely judging people in a animalistic and barbaric way. If you want to behave as an ethical entity, you have to hold yourself to a higher standard than doing whatever you instincts tell you to.

      Remember how I mentioned you were doing YOURSELF a disservice? Refusing to investigate further before building a judgement is that disservice. It's either lazy or willfully ignorant. Either way it doesn't help you with anything.

      I guess what really bothers me about your post is the way it seems to suggest that the way we tend to think is the way we should thnk. That's scary.

    6. Re:The moment you judge... by jvkjvk · · Score: 1

      Stereotypes often exist for good reason.

      No, they don't. They merely serve to let people stop thinking. I guess you are right, then. Some people do find that a good reason.

      Regards.

    7. Re:The moment you judge... by Baloroth · · Score: 1

      You are blithely and falsely judging people in a animalistic and barbaric way.

      My point was the exact opposite: that is precisely what I am not doing. I'm making judgments that are rigorously logical and scientific. And ethics don't enter into it: I don't treat anyone any differently based on those judgments. Hell, even if people confirm those judgments perfectly, that doesn't mean I will treat them any differently (ethically speaking). If my treatment of a person changes, it is because of their actions, not any prior judgments.

      In fact, my point is it is illogical not to make judgments about people a priori based on statistical evidence. Now, to allow those judgments to interfere with personal experience of them, and not to be willing to revise your opinion the instant you gain practical knowledge of that individual, that is sexist. But to say "women are physically weaker than men"? That is fact. To pretend otherwise it to give in to political pressure to ignore reality in favor of fantasy.

      But to say "This woman is weaker (physically) than that man, necessarily because she is a woman" is false. You can only say "this women is probably physically weaker than most men". And anyone who denies that is acting irrationally. In fact, I would say those who attempt to deny the facts are the ones who are acting like animals: to give way to emotion over reason is, classically speaking, the very definition of brutish and animalistic behavior (literally, a brute is someone who behaves according to emotion and not reason).

      I would add furthermore that attempting to use reason or science to justify an emotional intuition about a group of individuals (for example, people who attempted to argue that Africans were sub-human) is wholly and utterly reprehensible in the very worst way, because it attempts to twist reason to serve an emotional and yes, barbaric, animalistic intuition. However, to say "Africans have black skin" is not racist (not in any negative way, at least: one could define racism to include a statement of fact, but that is stupidity, and kind of my point), it is just fact. You have to, of course, make a clear distinction between these sorts of judgments and actual racism: one can lead to the other very carefully. I'm not saying "the way we tend to think is the way we should think." What I'm saying is that there is a kind of truth in the way we think (a very limited kind), insofar as I can make judgments about individuals based on statistical evidence taken from the group they belong to, and those judgments have a chance of being right. The problem is two-fold: one, that most people don't base their opinion of a group on actual facts, and secondly that they don't base their opinion of individuals on the actions of those individuals, but only upon their (often wrong) opinion of the group that individual represents. We do, because of the limits of human knowledge and society, need to be able to make judgments about individuals without knowing them personally, because knowing everyone you have to have contact with, ever, is impossible. What we need to do, though, is make sure that opinion isn't clouded by false or emotional opinions.

      This issues is quite difficult to explain fully, so I'll just some it up by saying I am wholly against racism or sexism, but you can't reject facts about groups of individuals just because it is politically incorrect in some way.

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    8. Re:The moment you judge... by jgrahn · · Score: 1

      [...] It is still true to make universal statements about what men and women are better at. It may well happen that this person doesn't fit the statistical average, and that that is reasonably common (although by definition not the majority)

      Huh? Few people fit the average. No woman has 1.78 babies, and so on.

      but it remains true that given a random person on the street you can judge them according to statistical stereotypes, and you will probably be right.

      Now, if they should prove differently and you fail to accept that, that is your problem. But the fact remains that gender (and yes, race) do influence behavior patterns, if for no other reason than biology.

      I call bullshit on the racist part. It might be true, but you have no way of knowing. Or have serious studies been made on this?

  18. Re:It might depend on the organization ... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

    Even though that might be true, I'm pretty sure Steve wasn't very democratic in his decisions - the main point of the article is that woman could be responsible for more democratic decision making.

  19. Wouldn't know, never had one... by JoeMerchant · · Score: 4, Informative

    In my engineering jobs, sex roles have always been... ahem, traditional - this is at about 8 different jobs in two Southern US states over the last 25 years. Same applied to the grocery store I worked in.

    The "women bosses" I have had the most experience with are elementary school principals... they have run the gamut from insecure totalitarian witches to the ineffective ostrich to genuine warm caring professionals who do the right thing - not much different from the men I have had as bosses.

  20. Nope by WankerWeasel · · Score: 1

    The biggest obstacle standing in the way of promotion in the workplace for a woman is another women. Female bosses hate to see another woman succeed and will do what they can to prevent it from happening.

  21. Re:No F'ing Way by ArhcAngel · · Score: 3, Funny

    Like we believe you are married...HA!

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  22. Re:It might depend on the organization ... by Calsar · · Score: 3, Insightful

    I think that is the exact opposite of the approach described. Apple was more of a dictatorship than a democracy.

  23. Re:It might depend on the organization ... by jojoba_oil · · Score: 3, Insightful

    I share your doubt. Women may lead more democratically, but that doesn't always come out with the best outcome... Different? Yes. Better? Not always. The title tries to twist the words of the summary. I didn't read the article.

  24. Yeah...Not So Much by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Of the women that I have seen in authority positions, most have seen it necessary to "prove" themselves. They wanted to prove that they could do whatever they felt like. Often, their actions would be erratic or unexplained and certainly a violation of common sense. As for the democracy mentioned in the article, I have yet to see it.

  25. MBAs by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    any idiot can get an MBA regardless of the penis count

    1. Re:MBAs by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      ... although a count of 3 definitely increases the odds...

  26. Opposite Experience by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    In my experience, the craziest meanest bosses I had were all women. Now this doesn't mean that all women, or even most women will behave this way as a boss, but at least in my experience they all did. This could be because of the line of work I've been in, first the military, then law enforcement and now counter terrorism. So maybe women that work I that field are just different, but the men were fairly laid back, hard driving but fun bosses. The women were all a combo of crazy and just mean.

  27. Who cares? by Troyusrex · · Score: 1

    Even if female bosses tend to be more democratic that doesn't mean that YOUR particular female boss is. When are we going to stop judging people by their gender, race or ethnicity and start judging them by the job they do?

  28. Democratic way... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

    Because "group think" is good for business? Vote now!
    Our customer base is shrinking we need to cut people to reduce costs... vote now!
    Do we buy new software? vote now!
    Raises for everybody? vote now!

    Democracy isn't a way to make a business successful. Corporations are oligarchies. Sole proprietor is a kingship/dictatorship.

    Democracy in business is like anarchy in business... it's only good for lose-lose conflict resolution.

    1. Re:Democratic way... by vanye · · Score: 2

      100% agree.

      Business is not democratic - everyone isn't equal.

      The janitor doesn't get to vote on strategic direction.

      That doesn't mean that the dictator has to be malevolent - benevolent dictatorship seems to work well (from my pov).

      Responsibility and Authority should go hand in hand - when they don't that's when organizations become dysfunctional.

  29. No, they don't. Next question? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    No, women don't make better bosses. They aren't necessarily worse either.

  30. Women in power tend to over compensate by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    In my experience from working as a salesman, women in a position of power overcompensate to avoid being considered weak. There are exceptions of course, but it appeared that most of the women business owners that I dealt with seemed to think they had to act like an asshole in order to command respect.

  31. Yes!!, Definitely by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    In all the videos i watched, they are great bosses, always willing to *reward* the good work and *encourage* those how need it. Plus they look great!

  32. Re:It's lucky that the study didn't find the oppos by bjourne · · Score: 4, Insightful

    Er no it wouldn't. There are hundreds of studies that show that women are worse than men on a wide range of tasks. Not the least, almost everything that is physically challenging. I hate this notion people have that research is somehow censored to be politically correct and that it is therefore not trustworthy.

  33. Lots of anecdotal evidence coming, I'm sure. by hiryuu · · Score: 4, Interesting

    Since everyone's going to chime in with their perspective from experience, I'll add mine. I've had several managers in the course of my career, at multiple companies and on both sides of the gender fence. I've also needed different levels and styles of management at different points in my career, and have experienced both "good" and "bad" bosses along the way.

    Early on, when I was more likely to need guidance and suggestions (in learning time management and prioritization, communications skills, etc.), I found much better and more involved management from the women than the men. The women were more likely to take the time to observe and try to understand where the deficiencies were, and to advise me in a non-confrontational way about how to proceed and what to learn from the situation.

    As I grew in my abilities and my confidence, though, I was more likely to run into conflicts and differences with some of those same women managers. Communication was less direct than it needed to be, personality differences became more of an issue than they were with male managers, and occasionally, problems would escalate to a passive-aggressive undermining. Conversely, men in management seemed more likely to recognize and acknowledge my increasing competence, and when corrective communication was needed it was short, direct, and efficient.

    Don't underestimate the effect of corporate culture, though, on management styles - my opinion is that bad management is caused by culture as much as culture is an effect of bad management. I think it's very much a chicken-and-egg thing, in that regard, but there's definitely an influence at play.

    In the years since I've entered management, I've swapped back and forth between two upper managers (depending upon company re-orgs), both of whom have decided that the best way to manage me is to leave me the hell alone. My current boss has told me that, as far as he's concerned, my department is a black box - resources go in, profit comes out, it all runs seamlessly and quietly, and that's all he needs to know. :)

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  34. Nightmare by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    In my experience, having worked for multiple female managers, women are nightmares to work for. They are simply too inconsistent. They may live in the emotion of the moment, and their decisions change from moment to moment. I would also add that every women I've discussed this with has either agreed or even volunteered (said before me) that women are difficult to work for.

    1. Re:Nightmare by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Whenever my wife has a bad day at work, the first words out of her mouth are always, "I hate women."

  35. Analysis incomplete by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

    Melero analyzed this data by looking at the number of women in management positions in companies and the leadership tactics employed at those companies. He found increased communication between management and employees in companies with women in management positions led to more well-informed decisions, since employee feedback will be utilized in the decision-making process.

    "Well informed decisions" sounds completely subjective - i.e., it doesn't mean squat. Were the companies in the study more profitable than those run by evil penis people?

  36. Re:It's lucky that the study didn't find the oppos by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

    As far as my anecdotal evidence goes, every female boss, CEO, manager or whatever has been ruthless. They were not good to work with at all. In fact, I now tend to avoid companies that are run by women. I mean I don't assume they're all bad but as soon as I see some of the warning signs then I back off.

    They seem on average to be much more unforgiving and have higher demands than male bosses and will cut your throat if you don't bow to them.

    It may have something to do with what it takes to become a female leader but I think it's more to do with the nature of women themselves. Look at how they treat each other. They're less likely to hand out physical abuse than males but their emotional and similar abuse can be much more brutal.

  37. Don't forget self-selection by Arancaytar · · Score: 4, Interesting

    There is a bias against hiring women in leadership positions. It follows that the standards a female manager has to meet are higher than those of a male manager, and therefore the female managers who do get hired likely have above average communication and leadership qualities.

    1. Re:Don't forget self-selection by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      It might as well be that there is a bias for hiring women in leadership positions because it looks good on reports. But not many women want to be leaders, so only the really dedicated even apply. Or perhaps women are terrible leaders, and this study has cherry picked the one or two aspects that they are good at. I mean, once we start making things up, anything can be explained.

    2. Re:Don't forget self-selection by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      What planet are you on ?
      Just look at what the recruiters get paid - where I work, +50 % if they can find a comparable woman.
      Every day, on my way to my desk, I see not less than 5 posters with advertisements for various Women-only career networking opportunities - none for men.
      I have been involved several times in recruitment, where the absolute requirement was "it has to be a woman". I have never seen the opposite.
      It has gotten so bad for men that me and my wife has decided to spend the next 2 years switching careers (Ill stay at home with the kids, she'll run the corporate gauntlet). We both see that it would be easier for her to advance than for me - simply due to my sex.

  38. Do Women Make Better Bosses? by koan · · Score: 2

    No.
    Being a good leader is not gender dependent.

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    1. Re:Do Women Make Better Bosses? by ShanghaiBill · · Score: 1

      Being a good leader is not gender dependent.

      It is not that simple. Men and women lead differently. Women are more likely to work to build consensus, but less likely to make big decisive changes. Is that good or bad? It depends.

      Small businesses run by women are less likely to fail. But also less likely to grow beyond a handful of employees.

    2. Re:Do Women Make Better Bosses? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      This might have something to do with the huge number of women that start real estate, hair and nail saloon and dry cleaning businesses. All relatively safe with little prospects for large scale growth.

    3. Re:Do Women Make Better Bosses? by koan · · Score: 1

      That sounds like a societal stereotype to me, women can be just as effective as men, just as brutal, and frankly can do anything a man can do.

      We were raised (read indoctrinated) to see things a certain way, and if you get trapped in that indoctrination that's all the World will ever be for you.

      Women tend to be given less opportunity, less education, and less encouragement to do anything other than what women are expected by men to do in a given society.
      This applies to the US as well as any other country in the World, as women in general are the largest oppressed group of humans on the planet.

      They aren't expected to be leaders (but they are) they aren't expected to fight in the military (but they can) they aren't expected to go into science or do well at math/engineering (but they do) they aren't taken seriously in sports (but they are serious about it) in general we waste 50% of our population because of our societal indoctrination.

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    4. Re:Do Women Make Better Bosses? by butchersong · · Score: 1

      Honestly all you have to do is spend some time around kids to see that stereotypes are stereotypes for a reason and that is not true solely due to societal indoctrination. Few would say that a woman can't be a strong leader or that her strengths can't be leadership qualities normally associated with a man. Look... if you're trapped in a burning building 12 stories up with a broken leg are you going to want to see a female firefighter come busting through the door or a male firefighter? If your business requires quick and maybe brutal decisions to be made you are probably going to get the results you need from a male manager before a female one. At the same time if you discard possible hires based only on their sex you are a fool.

    5. Re:Do Women Make Better Bosses? by koan · · Score: 1

      My girlfriend was watching I had to type that...

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    6. Re:Do Women Make Better Bosses? by HArchH · · Score: 1

      Perfectly said. "No." Ridiculous question based on gender bias.

    7. Re:Do Women Make Better Bosses? by HArchH · · Score: 1

      Excellent post.

  39. Anecdotally speaking by 0123456 · · Score: 1, Interesting

    Many of the women I know have complained about female bosses, in part because 'these workplaces decisions are made more democratically and more interpersonal channels of communications are established'. They want a boss who tells them what to do and gets out of the way, not one who spends half their time asking people what they should be doing.

  40. Beats me by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Every female boss I've ever had got the job through networking. You know, that thing people do where they get jobs they're incompetent at because they're good at making the people in charge like them? It's not isolated to women, I've had plenty of male bosses that are equally incompetent.

    In my experience female bosses really tend to have a problem with what I'd call "professional relationships." I'm here to do my job, not be your friend. And God help you when they finally write you off as a potential friend; you immediately become an enemy to be crushed rather than a respected asset.

    1. Re:Beats me by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I find it opposite female bosses are better, I can get away with doing much less, make more "emotional" excuses and generally have better time at work, although I am what some people call "sociopath" (strange word for people that care only about themselves/normal people) and am able to emulate emotions, including friendship much easier so I do not mind pretending to be her(or his) friend if that means it will be easier for me or i will get more money that way ... in the end spending 4 hours in so called "inter-office communication" is 4 hours less of real work

  41. female bosses by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    In education, my experience has been that the female principal, vice principal, etc., has been more dictatorial. Sometimes, this has been out of a fear of her own position.

  42. Re:It's lucky that the study didn't find the oppos by Samantha+Wright · · Score: 1

    I think it becomes sexism when the research in question transitions from a peer-reviewed journal to the popular press.

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  43. Usually, no, but the difference is small by gestalt_n_pepper · · Score: 1

    Out of the dozen or so bosses I've had in life, one female was really good. The remaining female bosses ranged from mediocre with one that was incredibly, absolutely awful. About three of my male bosses were really good, with the remainder being mediocre and none being truly awful. I doubt there's a huge difference though. I think it's just my own quirky experience.

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  44. Re:No F'ing Way by jdgeorge · · Score: 2

    I immediately decline any position where I have to report to a woman. Being married is tough enough.

    So, you have no experience that would tell you whether a woman would be a better manager for you.

    Being a spouse is a VERY different kind of relationship than being a manager or employee. (If not, you are doing something very wrong, either at home or at work.)

  45. The former. by JustAnotherIdiot · · Score: 4, Insightful

    is it women managers who are the behind these policies, or is it that more progressive organizations are more accessible for women leaders than other workplaces

    In my experience, it's the former.
    My last boss was male, and he was very open to ideas and input.
    My boss before that was female, and she was a complete tyrant.

    You'll find people with similar stories, or opposite. It's a matter of chance.
    Gender makes no difference, it's all on the individual.

    The only difference it DOES make, is that I might be attracted to a female boss.

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  46. Re:It might depend on the organization ... by evil_aaronm · · Score: 1

    If you get a vote, it's a democracy - even if I twist your arm to "convince" you to vote the way I want.
    It's a sham of a democracy, but it's still a democracy.

  47. Again... by englishknnigits · · Score: 3, Insightful

    "men and women are the same in every way except the ways that women are better." Typical femnatzi logic that would get anyone tarred and feathered were the logic reversed. I'm sure some women make great bosses just like some men do. How about we stop caring about averages and about case by case basis? If a woman is a great boss, keep her! If a woman is a terrible boss, fire her! Same goes for men.

  48. What is this, crap statistics day? by Freddybear · · Score: 3, Interesting

    First we get bad statistics about the relationship between supply and demand in the oil market, and now a bad statistics "study" of management styles?
    What's next, a sure-fire way to win the lottery?

    1. Re:What is this, crap statistics day? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Did you miss the one about getting rich at casinos yesterday?

    2. Re:What is this, crap statistics day? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      What's next, a sure-fire way to win the lottery?

      http://science.slashdot.org/story/12/03/22/1825242/blackjack-player-breaks-the-bank-at-atlantic-city

    3. Re:What is this, crap statistics day? by Zhiar · · Score: 1

      Next up - Sure Fire Way to Win Lottery: Get the Right Combination of Numbers!

  49. Re:It's lucky that the study didn't find the oppos by betterunixthanunix · · Score: 4, Insightful

    I hate this notion people have that research is somehow censored to be politically correct and that it is therefore not trustworthy.

    As long as the research is only discussed among educated researchers, you are correct. Yet if some scientist gets on TV and says that women are somehow less able than men to perform some task, politics kicks in -- the researcher is obviously a misogynist (unless the researcher is a woman, in which case she is just misguided). It does not matter what the results say, what matters is that nobody ever publicly suggests that women are less capable.

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  50. Reverse discrimination... by StikyPad · · Score: 5, Insightful

    Anyone want to guess what the reaction would be if an article posed the question, "Do men make better bosses?" or "Do whites make better bosses?" My view of this article is no different. Sorry women.

    1. Re:Reverse discrimination... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Reverse what? Its not a one way street, it's just discrimination. By implying it's "reverse" you are saying it's predominantly one way which it definitely is not!!!!!

    2. Re:Reverse discrimination... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Awww. There, there, White Male. I'm sure somebody will be along to do a study of how you cope with all those cultural and institutional barriers in the workplace Real Soon Now!

  51. Re:It's lucky that the study didn't find the oppos by CannonballHead · · Score: 1

    I hate this notion people have that research is somehow censored

    Those ones sure don't get a lot of air time. ;)

  52. Re:It's lucky that the study didn't find the oppos by Hentes · · Score: 1

    Not censored, but they are sometimes attacked by groups outside of academia.

  53. Putting aside the gender aspect for a moment... by Junta · · Score: 1

    There is a point where 'more democratic' can become a liability. Sure, you don't want leaders going off half-cocked without the correct information or being in tune with what their teams can realistically achieve, but I have observed the other extreme, project leadership paralyzed by indecision while trying to pursue consensus that isn't going to happen.

    I've also noted that leadership on the extreme end of listening and honoring the views of the teams unfortunately frequently fails to convey the business needs for fear of seeming too pushy or not trusting of the employee judgement. An employee faced with more work than be possibly acheived by the deadline is sometimes asked to make the call themselves without knowing the relative business impact of the choices.

    In short, sometimes overly democratic leaders tend to not lead at all.

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  54. They can be... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    29 days out of the month... the one other day you better hope you don't screw up.
    Menstruation Frustration!

    1. Re:They can be... by HornWumpus · · Score: 1

      Day? Kid you don't know anything yet.

      Seriously, shut the fuck up, you're embarrassing yourself and are too stupid to know it.

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  55. Re:No F'ing Way by SilentStaid · · Score: 3, Funny

    Hey man, maybe he's just into that kind of thing. Behind closed doors and all... sheesh - be a little more open minded!

  56. Huh? by Hognoxious · · Score: 2

    Unless they've found a way to grow managers in tanks (which might explain a few things) don't women make all of them?

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    1. Re:Huh? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Oh, sure! Go ahead and act like a man can just do the deed and then move on without any repercussions or obligations. Misogynist! Woman-hater! You're what's wrong with society today!

  57. The other conclusion we can pull... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

    Implying from this research, couldn't we say that women rule more democratically and appear to be better leaders because they can not make decisions themselves, and thus need to consult with their employees as to the best courses of action to take in any give scenario?

    I often find this to be true in my line of work (military). I am not saying that all women are weak leaders, just saying that multiple conclusions could be pulled from this research.

  58. It has nothing to do with gender. by bmo · · Score: 1

    But everything to do with competence.

    I've seen average-to-stupid bosses all over. I've seen the rare smart one too. Some of the ones that are "fun to work with" are also some of the ones with bad business sense. Then there are the assholes who you'd rather stab yourself in the eye with an icepick before you'd ever work for them again.

    And then there are the bosses who can value employees *and* have good business sense, and their companies become icons of the industry.

    And in none of these situations, has gender ever really mattered.

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  59. Doctors by evil_aaronm · · Score: 3, Interesting

    Somewhat related, though it's not apples-to-apples, I more or less refuse to go to male doctors. Their "God complex" tends to be way worse: many times, they don't ask you what's wrong, or even bother listening if you try to explain. They already know.

  60. Re:It's lucky that the study didn't find the oppos by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Well, that's a reasonable assumption. The popular press fucks up everything else that it transitions from actual scientific literature, so assuming out of hand that they might be the ones injecting the sexism into the results is not unreasonable.

  61. Hmmm by blackicye · · Score: 1

    In my experience the distribution of incompetence is more or less equal between the sexes.

    But if I was forced to choose between having a incompetent or overbearing boss of either gender, I would go with the male boss.

    At the risk of seeming misogynistic, I'll add that I've not had many good experiences with incompetent female bosses in the IT sector, whereas the male ones tended to give me substantially more free rein with my decisions and policies.

    (I grew up with a coder mother, and handled my first punched card at age 5...)

  62. Do Women Make Better Bosses? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    > Do Women Make Better Bosses?

    No.

  63. It depends on... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    ...who sends me less emails. I have found women send many more emails, regardless of position.

  64. Sometimes yes, but not for the reasons you think by spiffmastercow · · Score: 1

    My boss is a woman, and she's the best boss I've ever had. Why? Because she had to prove herself, and she succeeded in doing so. The odds are stacked against women in management, and those who succeed are often better because they had to be significantly better than all the male candidates in order to stand out.

    Disclaimer: This is a combination of anecdotal evidence and socio-demographic conjecture. Not all women make good bosses, and not all female bosses are good.

  65. How should I know? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    I don't have much opportunity to compare:

    http://it.slashdot.org/story/10/06/26/198237/women-dropping-out-of-it

    sometimes it suxors to be a geek ;)

  66. Re:It might depend on the organization ... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Everything I've ever read about Jobs says that he listened to input from his staff, but chose his own path, and only his decision actually mattered. That's a dictatorship because there's no illusion the input is supposed to be able to change things - it's advice, not a vote.

    You're talking about a system where the leader is required to (by the structure of the organization) abide by "true" votes but doesn't, either because they manipulate voting or simply disregard the requirement of democracy.

  67. Based on a sample size of two by Yogs · · Score: 2

    Yes and no.

  68. A couple of things by Bob-taro · · Score: 1

    The unspoken premise is that leading more democratically is better. I don't know if that's accurate in all cases. Decision by consensus isn't always better, especially in a small group.

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  69. I don't buy it. by MaWeiTao · · Score: 1

    I don't judge anyone based on anything but their performance. I've never made an assessment of anyone's ability until I've worked with them for at least several weeks. With that clear, I think the suggestion that women are somehow better bosses is pure nonsense. They might be operate differently from men, but what do they do that makes them inherently better? Over my career I've been exposed to enough managers of both sexes to have seen some consistent patterns.

    The attributes I've seen in bosses some how gets amplified when you're dealing with middle-management, or worse, at a company small enough that people feel excessively important, but big enough that politics become an issue.

    I've found male bosses certainly have a tendency to have more of an ego. Some guys are obnoxious, carrying themselves around like they run the show. Because they think they're important they can't be bothered to learn anything and will go right on repeating them same mistakes over and over again. Some guys are downright stupid and disruptive to the process for that reason. It becomes a huge problem when they're micro-managers, which is a tendency I've found more in men. But otherwise in the scheme of things these are annoyances more than anything. Although I've also worked were guys who were a pain in the ass, but were amazing at what they did.

    Female managers, however, have a distinct tendency to be emotional, stubborn and are not risk takers when they happen to be middle-managers. That's a particularly big problem because they'll dismiss a good idea that deviates from the usual routine. I get the feeling they're there to draw that paycheck and not actually provide any value beyond just doing the bare minimum required of them.

    I also find them less committed to their employer, working remotely far more than men. Maybe they're smarter for gaming the system, but it's definitely disruptive to anyone working with them. It's difficult to make smart decisions when you're not fully aware of what your employees are doing. The emotional component is another issue. I've seen too many women take offense to things that weren't directed at them personally. Or making decisions based on the feelings of the moment as opposed to actually analyzing the issues at hand.

    My assessment is derived from numerous specific examples throughout my career. And certainly it goes both ways. I've worked with men who are truly awful managers and set the bar for bad management. But my experience tells me that frequency of bad management has been higher in women. But then in general I think there are too many managers out there not equipped for the job. I think this is a universal problem with American companies, promoting based having a business degree and not real ability.

    I will add that one of the best managers I've ever worked with was a woman. I think what made her so good was that she was always closely involved in what we were doing but never micromanaged, giving us the freedom to execute successful work.

  70. Or to put it another way... by PerfectionLost · · Score: 2

    Some people are great at sucking, and some people suck at being great. Sex has absolutely nothing to do with this.

    FTFY

  71. Re:It's lucky that the study didn't find the oppos by Concerned+Onlooker · · Score: 1

    Maybe. But one thing is for sure: Instead of all these comments that say it's not really the gender that matters you'd get a lot of comments to the effect of "hey, that's just how it is."

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  72. Who pays for this crap? by WombleGoneBad · · Score: 1

    whats next? studies on "black people take a shorter lunch breaks", "short men talk too much in meetings", "christians take fewer sick days" Appart from encouraging discrimination, it is worthless.

  73. is it the management or the managee? by greywire · · Score: 1

    My first thought was, is it that women are potentially better managers or is it that people (and at that, maybe more for men or women?) like being managed by a woman regardless of her methods. IE, given a male and a female manager with everything else being equal, would the managed people act differently and thus be better employees?

    I would be interested in testing what would happen if people were managed blindly, by someone who you dont know what sex they are. That of course would require some setup, as I dont think you could just study existing businesses...

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  74. But are democratic decisions better? by ShanghaiBill · · Score: 3, Informative

    The summary says that women make decisions that are more "democratic", but that doesn't mean they make "better" decisions. My experience is that female leaders are less willing to make hard, unpopular decisions, even when that is what needs to be done.

    There are few matriarchal societies, and the few that exist, such as the Mosuo. tend to be in isolated regions where they are protected from war. Could this be because war requires leaders to make the kind of hard, unpopular decisions that women are often bad at?

    1. Re:But are democratic decisions better? by Polo · · Score: 1, Interesting

      Could this be because war requires leaders to make the kind of hard, unpopular decisions that women are often bad at?

      It could be because the Matriarchs don't let the men start sh*t.

    2. Re:But are democratic decisions better? by avandesande · · Score: 1

      Most developers don't seem to want to be bothered with what management is up to. Just get them what they need to do their job and leave them alone!

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    3. Re:But are democratic decisions better? by jduhls · · Score: 1

      You're right: women are much worse at killing other human beings than men are. Mainly because they have the ability to be mothers and are life-givers. They respect life much more than masculine. Why is killing another human a "better" decision? Please clarify.

  75. Too much is terrible by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    My company does a lot of individual/interpersonal feedback. Our team decided to measure how much time it takes out of our workyear.

    We're up to 8 days a year spent doing this. That's 4% of my salary dedicated to this type of feedback. I doubt the company is receiving more value than 1/10th of that from the feedback. I do know that every week (yes WEEK) we spend doing it is a week I wish I weren't at work.

  76. They do make bosses by laseneka · · Score: 1

    Women make all kinds of bosses. In the manufacture and assembly sense of the word :)

  77. Re:It might depend on the organization ... by theshowmecanuck · · Score: 1

    Yeah Evan Peron said exactly the same thing when she was talking to Madame Chiang Kai-shek. And I'm sure Asma Assad would agree with that too.

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  78. Re:It might depend on the organization ... by ace37 · · Score: 1

    I didn't read the article.

    This is Slashdot--nobody does, so no need to state the obvious.

  79. Depends by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Does she has access to nitrous oxide? http://www.imdb.com/title/tt1499658/

  80. Not from what I've seen. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    First off, I don't mean this to offend any women out there. I love women and I have no burn story in my past that would cause me to be bitter.

    The main difference seems to boil down to this. Women bosses tend to get lost in meaningless details and over analyze every little thing rather than just move forward to the goal. Everything is a retrospective. Any failure, no matter how tiny is an invitation to amend the entire process, with another procedure to make sure it never happens again (even if it never happens very often to begin with). Within about a half a year, you spend more time computing metrics, filling in multiple timesheets, clarifying your "goals", working with 4-6 work flow tools, than you do on the freakin' product. Morale plummets, stress levels go through the roof, all while nothing substantial gets done.

    Now I'll grant you, that much of the drive from this seems to come from the top (and perhaps ultimately driven by Sarbanes/Oxley). But women bosses are far more likely to just blindly go along with it and even embrace the spirit of it, regardless of how counter-productive it is. Where as male bosses recognize it for the bullshit it is, give the directors their meaningless check marks (with as little impact to the team as possible), because at the end of the day, stuff getting done is always more important than check marks.

    Of course senior management prefers obedience to results, which is why 80-90% of the low level managers I come across these days are women. They're inherently less rebellious than the men.

  81. Misleadingness by AdrianKemp · · Score: 1

    So assuming I buy everything they're selling (I don't entirely, as my anecdotal evidence says the exact opposite of this study)

    What's "better" in this case; they seem to be focusing entirely on employee input to business direction and other feel good stuff.

    Meanwhile, some (if not all) of the most successful companies from an economical standpoint were/are run by tyrants (amazon and apple to name two easy ones).

    I don't just question their findings, but I'm outright calling bullshit on the conclusion.

  82. Hasn't been my experience by grasshoppa · · Score: 1

    The female bosses I've worked for have been vindictive and back stabbing ( not to me, necessarily, but as more a general attitude ). This from an admittedly small sample set of 4. Further, that is not to say the male bosses have been winners either, they have simply failed in different ways.

    I have had one good manager for my personality type, and it was only because he knew what his job was; direct me what he wanted done, get me the resources I needed to accomplish the job and run interference on upper management to keep them out of my way.

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  83. Re:It might depend on the organization ... by theshowmecanuck · · Score: 1

    Dammit... should have previewed it.... Eva! Eva Peron, not Evan. d'oh!

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  84. Um... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Bossy women do!

  85. No... at least generally speaking. by mark-t · · Score: 1

    Male bosses, in my own experience, are far more easy going than female ones, and I think that this is because even in this day and age, there are still far more men in higher paying positions than women. It's unfortunate that women often don't seem to to get the same degree of respect that men often do in some fields, and to that end, I think that women in management positions are often overcompensating for the discrimination they've often had to endure by not being treated equally..

    Not that I am excusing a female boss from acting like a bitch with their employees (which again, in my own experience, tends to happen far more than male bosses acting like slave drivers), but I can, I think, at least understand where it is coming from.

    To be fair, one of the best bosses I ever had at any job I ever had was a woman... but she was a co- founder of the company I worked for, so much of the ladder climbing that has to happen in bigger companies that have been around for a long time wasn't there.

    1. Re:No... at least generally speaking. by misexistentialist · · Score: 1

      Sounds like an excuse. Kind of untestable though, since gender difference will always be grounds for claiming bias, and when one group becomes dominant the other will be considered incapable. If men disappeared from management, however, a prejudice that there is "something wrong" with them (as is used to explain the decline in men getting degrees) will be politically correct.

    2. Re:No... at least generally speaking. by mark-t · · Score: 1

      Sounds like an excuse.

      Please reread the first dozen words of my second paragraph.

      It's really only a personal hunch, anyways... but it seems to me that there must be some cause for the discrepancy between male and female managers, because I can only think of one female supervisor I've ever had that wasn't a total bitch with those under her... and that was, as I mentioned above, one of the best bosses I ever had. So it's clearly not just because of gender alone. What else could it be?

  86. Democratic management by operagost · · Score: 1

    This assumes that managing in a more democratic manner is good. Business is not government.

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  87. Question: Do women make better bosses? by Tyrannicsupremacy · · Score: 0

    Answer: No.

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  88. passive-aggressive undermining by j_l_larson · · Score: 1

    As I grew in my abilities and my confidence, though, I was more likely to run into conflicts and differences with some of those same women managers. Communication was less direct than it needed to be, personality differences became more of an issue than they were with male managers, and occasionally, problems would escalate to a passive-aggressive undermining. Conversely, men in management seemed more likely to recognize and acknowledge my increasing competence, and when corrective communication was needed it was short, direct, and efficient.

    passive-aggressive undermining ... Insightful, you've definitely nailed something there. I'll help you improve as long as you continue to acknowledge me as the leader/wiser one .... don't become smarter than me... I've seen this from both sexes though, ... bosses and coworkers, parents .... it almost defines the most basic problem with corporate office culture ... primadonnas, managers, kings, queens and other sorts of egos must all be paid tribute to ... possibly the defining purpose of the invention of diplomacy...

  89. Yes by shiftless · · Score: 1

    The main difference I've found between men and women as bosses over the years is I have never had a woman try to pull a power trip, leveraging the "authority" of their position to try to force me to do something they wanted.

    Yeah, the main difference is a woman will use her authority to force you to do something the group wants.

    Which is a just as bad, for different reasons.

  90. Re:It's lucky that the study didn't find the oppos by DrgnDancer · · Score: 2

    It's also well worth pointing out that statistics aren't real world applicable in practical situations. If we pick one random man and one random woman for a physical task, chances are that the man will be better at it. That said if the man happens to be me, and woman happen to be Venus Williams, she's probably gonna beat me in most physical tasks. The point of sexual equality is not that men and women are precisely equal in all ways statistically, but rather that they should have equal opportunity. The best male basketball players in the world are certainly better than the best female players, but a WNBA team is still going to beat any intramural male team; and the best WNBA teams probably could do well against the worst NBA teams. This is my argument with the military's rule against women in combat roles. Sure, statistically fewer women than men will be able to finish SEAL training, but that said there are plenty of women who can finish it. Why not give them a chance?

    To get back on topic, just because statistically women manage more democratically it doesn't mean that your female manager will do so. Just because statistically men manage more autocratically, doesn't mean some men don't do quite well with a democratic style. It would be sexist to assume a woman or man will manage a certain way simply based on sex, an even more so to refuse them a job because of that assumption; but making broad language statements about likelihoods is not sexism.

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  91. Re:It might depend on the organization ... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    I'm sorry, but are you not familiar with the machine that is apple? Jobs was famous for "his way or the highway", would scream at people if it wasn't done exactly the way he wanted it, and was known to fire people on the spot he walked past in the hallways if he didn't like what they looked like. There's a famous story where with the first ipod, the engineers said it couldn't be made any smaller, so he took the prototype, dropped it in a fish tank, and pointed at the bubbles coming out and said "clearly it can be made smaller". What part of this comes across as feminine?

  92. Damn the torpedoes, full speed ahead! by v1 · · Score: 1

    I've had my share of managers, and have had several that were either power/ego tripping or were insecure, and refused to listen to anything anyone had to say. "I'm the manager here, just DO it" style of management. Seems to be more common with men than women. I'm not saying that women are more likely to change course on something or reconsider than men, just saying they give the opportunity more often.

    In many cases, the manager wasn't hired to RUN operations, they were hired to MANAGE it, in which case they are not expected to know as much about how things work and how subtle changes interact with each other at the other end of the production line. GOOD managers listen to their employees, identify the ones that really know what's going on, and aren't afraid of listening to concerns. This just happens to be a trait that I see more often in women managers than men.

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  93. Re:It's lucky that the study didn't find the oppos by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    You clearly haven't talked to a lot of femanists.

    The formula they tout is:
    sexism = discrimination + power.

    They often do claim that it's impossible to be sexist against men, because men have all the power. And by that reasoning a study that says women are better than men at something is not sexist, but one that says men are better than women is.

    That attitude is basically the only thing that keeps me from identifying as a feminist.

  94. More diversity at the workplace is better by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Why is it people have an idea that it's an "either-or" situation?
    I want men in my company. I want women. I want old people. I want young people.
    Currently tech companies have young, techie boys and not much more. It's a poor working environment that is both unpleasant and not focused at real world customers.
    The little experience I've had in the tech world with female managers has not been good - they got the job due to their man-like thinking.

  95. Is democratic better? by concealment · · Score: 1

    The study is inherently sexist in assuming that men and women are different. In my experience, however, there's some truth to this. Genders have different approaches to management.

    My concern is that we assume "more democratic" is better. I think I'd prefer a strong fair leader. My co-workers are presumably less experienced than the boss, and I don't know if I want a vote by the less experienced to trump the better experience of the boss.

    1. Re:Is democratic better? by SuiteSisterMary · · Score: 1

      ...? Men and women are different. Physically, biochemically, culturally, socially.

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  96. I'm all for having female bosses.... by Brannoncyll · · Score: 1

    ... now finally I can sleep my way to the top too! (joke)

    1. Re:I'm all for having female bosses.... by IMightB · · Score: 1

      I'd like to sleep my way to the top as well. Unfortunately, my alarm clock always wakes me up.

  97. Re:It might depend on the organization ... by avandesande · · Score: 1

    In IMHO the benevolent dictator model works best.

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  98. Hmm by shiftless · · Score: 1

    Why do you immediately dismiss this possibility? It seems plausible to me.

  99. Re:It's lucky that the study didn't find the oppos by kanweg · · Score: 1

    No, like racism etc. sexism is treating a specific person based on a general notion, not on how that person actually performs.

    Bert

  100. I would imagine by Anomalyst · · Score: 1

    Their superior manual dexterity shows a better result using common off the shelf boss constructions kits. On the other hand most women lack the vocal talents to be Bruce Springsteen impersonators.

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  101. Re:It might depend on the organization ... by unimacs · · Score: 3, Insightful

    Jobs often poked his nose in the types of decisions that a typical CEO would let someone much farther down the ladder deal with. He'd even exchange emails with random customers.

    So while while he was the "decider", he made decisions that had a perspective from inside the trenches was well as from inside the boardrooms. I think that's something that's missing in many large companies, - even ones where consensus plays a bigger role in major decisions.

    Taking it a step further, I think that's what goes on with some of these dictators like Assad. They're so insulated from the bulk of their country that they truly don't have a grasp on the magnitude of the discontent. Jobs had his own RDF but he could see through it enough to create products that people wanted, though there were some notable failures.

  102. From a 1998 survey by arbitrarymodulus · · Score: 1

    Not that it's fun to be informed, when you can share your "i walked on the moon" story, but the research comes from a 1998 Workplace Employee Relations Survey. The sample appears to have been conducted in the UK exclusively, focusing on small businesses. I wouldn't want to make inferences about a population when the sample is isolated or at least a decade old. http://webarchive.nationalarchives.gov.uk/+/http://www.bis.gov.uk/files/file12525.pdf

  103. Totally the opposite. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Every time I had a female boss, it was a nightmare, and exactly the opposite of "more democratic." In every case, the female bosses I had relied on the advice and opinion on one or two completely incompetent female members of the team, totally disregarding the male team mates and severely punishing any disagreements with them. The only way to survive on those teams was to pipe down and suck up to them and their chosen "girlfriends." The results were disastrous in every case. To my great shock, this scenario worked even in cases where the female bosses were brilliant, competent, and experienced.

    With male bosses this scenario works as well - they pick one or two "buddies" they rely on, while shutting everybody else down. But that is always a sign of incompetence. The more competent the male bosses are, the more you are typically free to speak your mind and challenge them. I found it not to be the case with the female bosses at all.

  104. Democratic is the worst way to lead by scorp1us · · Score: 1

    You really want fascism, or something a but more authoritarian. Remember the "Mythical Man Month"? What did that have to say about getting stuff done? Have one visionary, have others work under that person to accomplish their vision. I've seen plenty of software projects fail because of lose group leadership. If the worker's aren't aligned in vision, with clear decision making capability then everyone goes off in their own direction.

    The findings aren't new, I've been interested in the topic for some time. Every story I read about women being put in a "man's" position indicates that they (broad generalizing here) are not comfortable making executive decisions.

    So in effect, this means you don't want women in leadership roles, at least when it comes to accomplishing anything. (Again, broad generalization -- I've worked with quite a few assertive women who really did impress me, and I was very happy to work with, but for 9 out of 10 times they won't)

    Just because we've said "domocracy" is the "best" government to have, does not mean it is the best for industry as well.

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  105. Its the person, not the sex. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Are women different? Yes. Are they better? No

    A good boss is the person themselves and not whether they have a vagina or a penis.

    In my experince Ive had good and bad men and women bosses. I tend to find female bosses more open yes but they are also more petty and vindictive.

    Females will more often act more friendly and open but they also will harp on every little detail, look for excuses to complain or be unhappy, will act like your friend but turn on you at the slightest provovation (paticullarly if youre a male) and will back bite you (paticullarly if youre a female). Women will also try to use passive/aggresive means to make you fall in line and do what they want and think how they think.

    While men are more cocky, arrogant and take out their own aggrevations on employees and treat people poorly just because they have been treated poorly by their bosses. Men also feel the need to prove they are the boss and will hold that fact over their underlings. Men will also bludgen you forceibly into doing what they say.

    Bottom line is any and all good things that come out of a boss, or all the bad things stem directly from if that person themselves is a good boss. No one is suited to being a boss more so based on sex. The most basic fact is men and women are both just human beings and humans can be good and have potential to be bad.

  106. Women make better bosses.... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    In the kitchen,and having and taking care of children...it dosen't mean that is the only place they can be the boss. But if the question is if they are better bosses then those are the places.

  107. Depends on the size of their balls. by billybob_jcv · · Score: 1

    I've worked for spineless men that shifted their alliances every time the wind changed. I've also worked for women with big brass cajones that were willing to go toe-to-toe with anyone - and I've also had exactly the reverse...

     

  108. No by SilverJets · · Score: 1

    To men business is just business. But women in charge make and take every thing personal.

  109. sure fire way to win the lottery by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    don't play

  110. I may be bias by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Because I fuck my female boss. It's quite nice working under her (or over her, or behind her). Makes going to work a joy.

  111. Women are more social and like to talk more by buybuydandavis · · Score: 1

    News at 11.

  112. Not really a gender difference but... by Chrisq · · Score: 1

    Not really a gender difference but managers who have worked up through IT though development, analysis, team leader, project management, etc. are at an advantage in dealing with IT departments. More men go through this. I have had one male IT manager who was brought in through HR who really didn't have a clue what was going on, when projects slipped his response was to shout "do it faster". I have had several women managers in the same position, who responded in a similar way. There is a school of management which says that a good manager can manage anything, from a chain gang to a research project. My experience is that this is not the case.

  113. Only if the woman boss is ... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    hot, straight and single.

    PS Bi is OK too.
    PPS. OK maybe bi is better.

  114. Personally, anecdotally... by doston · · Score: 1

    Sorry, but I prefer working for males. I've worked for four different females now and have found them to be (overall) more irrational, moody, prone to favoritism, political and literally gossip mongering. Sorry if it's politically incorrect and sexist, but that really has been my personal experience. At first, I welcomed the idea of a female boss, thinking just what this story asserts...that she'd be more democratic and egalitarian, but that's just not been my experience. However, being a scientific person at heart, I'll go with the study over my own acecdotal experience and say ...'uh sure...they make great bosses'. *wince*

  115. the article asks the wrong question by epyT-R · · Score: 1

    The position we should all strive for is the one that is factually correct, logically consistent and fits the problem at hand. I can guarantee that behavioral dynamics are far more complex than the article's sexist author makes them out to be. If there are correlations with gender, I'm sure they boil down to "men lead hierarchies" and "women deliberate in committees" most of the time, and that there are plenty of bitches and bastards in this world, as well as sane people. This is nothing we didn't all know already. The bias of the article shows with the terms placed as the 'positive' (democratic, interpersonal) standard by which success is judged. This bias is used throughout society in situations where feminists (or their male apologists) want to prop women up as 'equals' or in superiors-if-only-men-would-let-them scenarios.

    As for me, I prefer more objective measurements in the leadership I work for, otherwise I find myself compelled to take over, even when I'm not all that interested, just to save my sanity. I work best when everyone is levelheaded and rational rather than passive-aggressive and backstabbing. The gender doesn't matter, up to the point where gender statistics start to play a significant part in whether my boss is the former or the latter.

  116. Re:It might depend on the organization ... by Ihmhi · · Score: 2

    Would a woman be able to manage "Steve Jobs" style? Would a company like Apple be better off with more feminine leadership? I doubt it...

    I don't know. It's difficult to imagine any of the iProducts looking more effeminate than they already do.

  117. The study author is a woman by Tony+Isaac · · Score: 1

    Dr Brigid van Wanrooy, is a woman. Naturally, she would find it easier to see the positive side of female managers, and the negative side of male managers.

    http://www.yasstribune.com.au/news/local/news/general/brigid-van-wanrooy-speaks-at-yass-high-the-real-effect-of-workchoices/1391134.aspx

  118. fucking science by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Always making shit to allow terrorists to sneak on board planes and blow them up. I say we ban science and thinking. The law of the land should be hip hop and gangstar rap. Only through the benevolent rule of righteous music and excellent dancing can we create a
      harmonious society. Gangstar rap nevah hurt anyone. Thinking, on the other hand always causes trouble. Plus it is dicriminatory against minorities who do not have the advantage of thought schools to teach them how to think.

    Peace motherfuckers. Kill whitey.

  119. Re:It's lucky that the study didn't find the oppos by Ihmhi · · Score: 1

    I have found more and more often that a hell of a lot of women demand equality in benefits but not equality in responsibility.

    Where's the movement to get women to be required to sign up for selective service? Why doesn't anyone really fight for women to have to live up to the same Physical Training Standards that men do? How come so few women seem to be chomping at the bit to get to front-line combat roles? These are just examples from the military, but salient ones nonetheless.

  120. Well okay then. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Well there's a bunch of crap if I've ever heard it. I've had 90% female bosses in executive rolls. Absolute nightmares. 2 out of the 6 could even be said to be anything less than an utterly sexist, ageist, human being. And I'd say 75% were complete self-interested megalomaniacs. THAT part is at least normal to what I've seen of most male bosses.

  121. Hormones by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Either sex follows their hormones, but at least for men those are at reasonably consistent levels. Having to deal with views that change over the monthly cycle is really a pain; if a male manager sucks then at least he does so consistently in the same way all the time so his reactions are predictable. I guess post-menopause women may be better managers (though I have no experience).

  122. No by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    At one time I would have said differently but it really doesn't matter. I work in the USA, where lets face it, most businesses have lost their minds. I don't think anyone in management in the US has any rational anymore. It never used to be this way but now when I see some goofy decision I chalk it up to working in a country where everyone has lost reasoning skills.

  123. "Better communication" Not in my experience by AnalogDiehard · · Score: 1

    I've worked under two women.

    One of them, for reasons unknown to me, had a personal vendetta against me. The first project that I worked with her on, she put me under performance counseling because I wasn't meeting my goals. The second project under her she did the same thing, but this time I found that she was withholding information that was vital to my job.

    I wrote her up and reported that this was behavior unbecoming of a supervisor. Some years later at a christmas party another manager told me she was relieved of her supervisory role and demoted, then left the company. I have never worked for that manager, had never communicated what I did to anyone in the company, and his information was unsolicited.

    The other woman I worked under was no problem at all.

    I don't slam women because of one bad apple because there are male managers who are just as bad.

    But the claim that female bosses promote better communication is just not true.

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  124. Democracy has its uses by Tanuki64 · · Score: 1

    But also its disadvantages. I doubt a democracy would be able to build the pyramids, or the great wall of China. For a modern democracy getting the resources for a task like that? Of course scaled up to today's technology? Over several election periods? Ridiculous. Democracy means mediocrity. But since mediocrity also means that extremes are limited on both sides, this is when it comes to governments not always a bad thing. So while I certainly see the value in having a democratic government, I really doubt that democratically managed companies can be successful in the long run. All it needs is a slightly above-average competition, which is not encumbered with sluggish decision-making processes, and hello bankruptcy.

  125. A few good men quote by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    A quote from "A few good men" comes to mind:

    "There is nothing on this earth sexier, believe me, gentlemen, than a woman you have to salute in the morning. Promote 'em all, I say, because this is true - if you haven't gotten a blow-job from a superior officer, well, you're just letting the best in life pass you by. 'Course, my problem is, I'm a colonel, so I guess I'll just have to keep taking cold showers until they elect some gal president."

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  127. 'individualized employee feedback' by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    is a euphemism for 'bitching and backstabbing' perhaps...

  128. Nope, not at all by thetoadwarrior · · Score: 1

    How is it we're supposed to believe that we're all equal but then also eat this shit about women being better at all sorts of stuff. I actually believe we are equal and a female boss will be as good or as shit as a male boss can be.

    In fact I can also say with certainty that the worst run IT department I was in by a female director who was then replaced by another female director. It was still the same old bullshit where the little people mean nothing, everything is all about cost cutting, etc, etc and they found it nearly impossible to fill roles because of the shit job descriptions and awful pay.

    Not only that but the company as a whole had more women than men working in it. It in no way improved it.

    Quit judging people on credentials other than are they capable of doing the job. Tits and penises don't mean shit. Unless your company does porno.

  129. Re:It's sexist, but it's ok roxy by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    If they say that women are better bosses, or at anything else, then they have to also accept the fact that men are better at other things. Such as engineering, heart surgery, upper management, etc. Of course they won't.

  130. Re:It's lucky that the study didn't find the oppos by TheLink · · Score: 1

    So what do you mean by equal opportunity? There being an NBA and WNBA is equal opportunity or not? If there really was equal opportunity by pure merit women wouldn't qualify for many things - so if you want equal opportunity by "chance to win" then you have to create a "women-only category" for some stuff.

    As for statistics. For many things (not all) the average doesn't matter that much. For "Star" fields, the top matters. The average doesn't. Nobody cares if the average woman runs 100m faster than the average man - or the other way round. What matters is the top 3 fastest in the world. Nobody cares if the average woman is better than the average man when it comes to "rocket science/nuclear science/chess/go[1]". What matters is the top.

    For other fields - accountants, engineers, lawyers, you can do fine even if you aren't the top.

    As for SEAL training if the tests are a fair reflection of what the job requires, I'm fine with giving women the chance, but they MUST pass the same tests. Otherwise it'd be like firemen and firewomen not having the same tests (which happens in some stupid places). If the test is fine but fewer women, or men or whatever ethnic group pass, the solution is not to have separate or easier tests, the solution is for the men/women/whatever to become good enough to pass.

    [1] FWIW I think the top women are competitive in Go and bowling.

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  131. Social science is fuzzy by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Problem with social science is that nothing is concrete and some of it is also fluid. While females may have natural behavior patterns stemming from biology, it is an ongoing problem how much of that is biology and how much is learned behavior.

    I've had a horrible boss who was a woman. She may have acted differently than a man in how she did many things but was horrible anyhow. Mostly, I would say she learned to act like a man in that role and was quite passive aggressive. A man who is passive aggressive would have acted the same way; except in this culture men can just act aggressive with no problem and perhaps she would have if it wasn't culturally bad for women to be aggressive. She acted "business like" according to her view of that and was no different than some other bastard control freak boss who screwed everything up and shifted blame -- and would terrorize employees to maintain control. She could get angry and fire somebody on the spot; just like a man would do.

    She was so man-like in behavior of her role as boss than the rumors going around were that she was a lesbian. (I didn't participate not being so simple minded about society's old gender role definitions.)

  132. My Parents Are Both Managers by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    From what I've observed, my dad generally doesn't take things personally and doesn't put up with bullshit. His employees are mostly happy, but still have beefs here and there.

    My mom, on the other hand, is often stressed to the point of sleep-depravation. She tends to be more emotional about the things her employees say and do, though it doesn't help that they're mostly petty, infantile whiners (government [under]funded, can't afford qualified and competent staff). In some ways, though, being emotionally-connected is a good thing for her line of work.

    There is some personality involved in the differences, but I wouldn't leave out gender as a major factor.

    Is one absolutely better than the other? Of course not. It depends on the work, environment and so on...

  133. Women with more 'fortitude' by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    In every workplace I've been in with women higher up, the women have needed to be extra tough battle axes. In half the cases I think the organisations were fairly progressive (Universities). So in my experience you did what you were told no questions.

    The other group I've seen were the power crazed nut jobs. One I know of even forced her group to take their day time break together and away from the rest of the people in the building... just because she decided so.

    The flipside of course is that many of the men just were completely hands off managers and let people just get on with it to the point of not knowing what people were doing. Then there were the male ladder climbers who didn't speak to you unless you had something that would further their careers.

    My current boss is really good thank goodness.
     

  134. If porn has taught us anything... by ndtechnologies · · Score: 1

    then YES!

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  135. Ummm.... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    No.

  136. Male Bosses - - by jafac · · Score: 1

    Every single one: self-entitled incompetent arrogant assholes.
    (the project/program managers, not technical leads).

    Female bosses - a mixed bag. The good ones, were really good. The bad one: had a sexist male-hating axe to grind, and promoted women exclusively within the organization, regardless of merit, which created some pretty toxic situations with female team leads who basically sucked. But these were the exceptions rather than the rule. Once the man-hater was "promoted" to a different location, and her flying-monkey underlings removed, (one fired for excessive absenteeism, and finally, showing up completely drunk at work) - things got better.

    I have a female boss now, and she's great.

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  137. Re:It's lucky that the study didn't find the oppos by epyT-R · · Score: 1

    academia is often very biased...it often supports 'studies' like this that help prop up political positions.

  138. Carly Fiorina by Quila · · Score: 1

    'nuff said

  139. Female != Feminine by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    This characteristic of leading more democratically may not be directly caused by being a woman (ie, having a vagina). What we're really talking about is behavior that is more on the feminine side of the spectrum. Both males and females can have feminine behavior, and one person can exhibit both masculine and feminine behaviors.

    So really, this study is just saying that more females have feminine behaviors... which most people will agree is a given. The real takeaway though is that "better" and "feminine" are getting associated. This is not surprising with the movement towards knowedge work, decentralization of authority, and self-directed employees as opposed to hierarchy and directiveness. Basically, the classical military organization would represent the apex of masculine behavior... and the irony is that the US military itself is adopting more and more decentralized (ie feminine - but don't ask or tell using that terminology) command structure.

  140. Re:It's lucky that the study didn't find the oppos by epyT-R · · Score: 1

    if the movement was really about equality and not gynocentric pride, they'd call themselves philanthropists (love of humans). the term 'feminist' speaks volumes about their real attitudes.

  141. Re:It might depend on the organization ... by EvilBudMan · · Score: 1

    You have to be kidding. He learned everything from his hard nosed salesman father. That Steve Jobs could sell ice to an Eskimo even after death. He did some things people don't like but it's very hard to argue that he was a very successful salesman. The best leaders have followers and he had lots of those too.

  142. Re:It's lucky that the study didn't find the oppos by epyT-R · · Score: 1

    right.. it's an insecurity complex.. these women have something to prove..that they can out-men the men, and since these attitudes are what they associate with them, due to bad personal experience, indoctrination in college, or passive brainwashing by current culture, that's how they interact with employees, especially men. The irony here is that the very thing they claim they seek, confidence, is the very opposite of what they are projecting in the name of it. ..and some of them do it out of 'revenge', again because of their assumptions about men.

  143. Re:It's lucky that the study didn't find the oppos by EvilBudMan · · Score: 1

    I agree but the reverse is also true.

  144. Re:It's lucky that the study didn't find the oppos by epyT-R · · Score: 1

    He's referring to the gender double standard in the media.. ie it's ok to publish stuff on how women are 'repressed' or how men dominate, but one cannot talk about the opposites without being labeled as 'discriminatory.'

  145. Re:It's lucky that the study didn't find the oppos by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    I'd view that as a sign of higher intelligence, more than anything else.

  146. Absolutely NOT by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    no eFFFin way. I dont care to deal with her monthly issues and DO NOT TELL ME that they dont bring that crap to work. Sorry. Fact of HUMAN LIFE.

  147. no feelings please by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    I've been working with a female boss for almost 8 years now. There are times when you need to be strong, a leader for the team, do what has to be done. But she has been slowing us down by being soft, ridiculously emotional at unexpected times.
    Unfortunately after 8 years I lost my hope that she will lead us to something better so I will quit soon. I miss my former agressive male boss, just because if I had spent 8 years working for him I beleive I would have a much better career by now.

  148. Not only better bosses, but... by Morrolan · · Score: 1

    women can usually win any pissing contest.... http://www.femaleurinal.com/factsandfables.html from TFA... It is not a well-known fact, but women can urinate further than men, and accurately. Female children can be trained to sit or to stand to urinate and we know that children are quick learners.

  149. Re:It's lucky that the study didn't find the oppos by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    ... fewer women than men will be able to finish SEAL training, but that said there are plenty of women who can finish it. Why not give them a chance?

    Because society protects women. It makes their role in society to be monogamous and pregnant. And that cultural favouritism hasn't changed despite all the political correctness enforcing 'equality'. While several countries have women in combat roles, women still don't serve in the elite forces. The reason, contrary to what the movie "G I Jane" suggests, is that women avoid the physical and emotional damage, such jobs cause.

  150. Meeting: First order of business by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    The first order of business for this meeting is "Banana".
    Then, we'll address "Banana", then "Banana", then "Banana", and then "Banana". We'll conclude with "Orange".

    Orange you glad I didn't say "Banana" again.

  151. Same Same by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Summing up my thoughts and those of many posters

    - women can be good bosses, women can be terrible bosses
    - men can be good bosses, women can be terrible bosses

    I am working for a disruptive woman at the moment who thrives on chaos. She disrupts patterns of order so she can "save" the day. Once her order is established, then she allows things to proceed, her way. Is this the sign of a female boss? No, it's her style. I could just as easily give an example of a male who uses the same tricks.

    I get tired of these sexist articles, regardless of who writes them.
    AC

  152. No, they're worse. by hessian · · Score: 1

    More sensitive and emotional means more unstable. Women are also more prone toward detail oriented, which means tasks get partially completed but every detail of that partial completion is done.

    In addition, I think it's time we stopped the knee jerk praise of democratic thinking around here. It's downright Soviet how we have to grovel and kowtow to the buzzword. Democracy has brought us an unending series of wars, a totally vapid culture, a disintegrating economy and whores for politicians. Let's try something new instead.

  153. Sure by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    if they don't play for the other team ;)

  154. Female Bosses Can Be Great! by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    I have a female boss and quite honestly I think its great. I am a male and like her ability to manage and negotiate. She really helps with what I am trying to accomplish and often take barriers away from me and helps me to achieve to. It pretty cool.

    I have had male bosses too but they don't seem to connect the way the female ones do. She realizes when I am about to break down from a project or just need some time away and knows to pull me aside and ask me if there is anything she can do. All in all I would say her intuitions are much stronger then a male boss. It does help.

    I always respect her and do as she asks and she respects me as well. It's a win win for both of us.

    J

  155. Democratic way? by dindi · · Score: 1

    Sorry to break it to you, but companies are not democratic structures. It is dictatorship. If it wasn't you would work as little as the owners and make as much as them, you would work 6 hour workdays ... etc.

    While I am discussing technical issues - code and middleware - with my team, there is a long list of things that are decided by me or upper management.

    I am not saying this is right, but that is how it is.

    That said: I never had a female boss in 20 years of IT work: not as a sysadmin, nor as a programmer. I had one month working with a female team lead, but she didn't have a typical "boss" role, just some administrative things.

  156. no. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    no.

  157. Less mediocre women bosses by maxbash · · Score: 1

    I my experience men are often semi-duchy PHBs Women bosses I've seen are more at the extreme ends. I've seen really awesome and bat-shit crazy women bosses.

  158. Bad experiences with female bosses by Tablizer · · Score: 1

    I've mostly had bast experiences with female bosses. They tend to obsess on minor things at the expense of the big picture, and seem more reactionary and moody than male bosses. But my sample-size is probably not sufficient to draw conclusions. I'm just floating my personal experiences.

  159. Boobies keep the men in line by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    N/T

  160. legal firm by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Hi,

    I've work in a law firm for 5 year... So there is a huge sample of boss(layer) and employe(secretary).

    What woman told me is they hate having a Woman as a boss... Alot of post here explain to different level why.

    Also, I've had a few woman boss... And compare to male boss, they feel like they should be better than their employe in all aspect... And when you do something 'special' for them that they don't understand, they feel threaten... And since I excel in my fields, it came up often... But thanks fully my real boss at the top knew me and my skill well and I was at no risk of anything. Though I've seen in some business hired woman to control men only team(geeks) with great success, but they have being told the reason and the skill they expect from them were more motivational than anything...

    One of my client it actually looking to hire more hot woman because since the last one left the office, job productivity drop alot from the guys..

    Anyway, it not a perfect world... And thanks G0d for that... I wish woman were a bit more geeky... but I feel within a few generation, their teaching will improve when young by itself to give them better tool.

    The life style of a Men vs Woman in term of how much hours and investment we put our self into project it really different.

    And when woman does put as much effort(or dare I say, sacrifice) they do achieve equal knowledge achievements.

    Though, one thing hindering woman is how they are raised like what toys to play with when young. Playing with a doll house vs "lego" will affect the mind development considerably.

    You want to change the faith of woman... I believe the only way it to change how we teach woman before they reach the age of 15.

    I would love to hire an woman CEO in my business, and having a 100% woman run business... But here it illegal to ask for woman(or men) specifically in a job request... And if I do send a job request, I would receive 1 woman CV vs 100 men CV.... And the change to have a good candidate in the 100 men cv is higher by statistics alone...

  161. penis -vs- vagina? by jduhls · · Score: 1

    This should be clarified as feminine -vs- masculine. Anima -vs- animus. And the answer is: yes, IMHO. All of the female/feminine bosses I've had have been twice as awesome as the male/masculine ones. Secret to world peace: power equality for women. There should be one feminine cop for every masculine cop. Etc, etc... duh.

  162. "One study has discovered..." by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    ... famous last words that led to demise. While women could be more democratic in nature, when it comes to big evil corps, they answer to someone, so they are simply messengers trying to keep their job. They don't make any decisions, and simply pass along orders. The women i've had for managers should have DKN on their "list" of certifications.

    "Don't Know Nothing."

  163. Democratic workplace isn't necessarily a good one by Radiophobic · · Score: 1

    I have found more democratic workplaces indicate leadership that have difficulty making decisions, or don't want to be the only people to fall under the buss if something goes wrong.

  164. No question, women are worse by ebvwfbw · · Score: 1

    I've worked for both for over 30 years. Women take things a lot more personally. They also worry that other people think they are stupid or are not up for the job. If you piss them off, you are really screwed. As for better decisions? I think that's a load of BS too. Making better decisions has a lot more to do with their training. Those that understand decision trees and those that haven't a clue. They guess. Which by the way is how a lot of management is done. A guess. Sucks but it's true. Women seem to also get promoted easier above their very qualified male counterparts. Part of affirmative action. So saying that they listen to their help makes sense. Their help is probably better qualified.
    Doesn't have to be this way. They could teach how to make desicions better in the workplace. They could also teach how to learn better. I didn't really learn how to learn until I was almost out of college.

  165. Bosses by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    All bosses are like neutered cats, know all the buzzwords but no action.

  166. LMFAO by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    It's a bit early for April Fools, no?

  167. Unreal, gender bias propaganda by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    I have never heard of such a load of crap in my life. They are demonstrably more scheming, more subjective and less open minded and anti-objective as a whole.

    It is this garbage (research/report) of crap pumped out by feminists that skew weak minded whipping boys and so called industry "leaders'" politically correct pandering to the public all for political favoritisms.

    uslssshts

  168. Re:It might depend on the organization ... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    After nearly bankrupting Apple he brought in John sculley who saved the company from Jobs. Jobs went off and failed at Next but succeded at Pixar. Why?
    Because Pixar had no need for a guy who thought 64K was enough memory for a desktop computer and who had computers he designed go on fire because he did not want a cooling fan in one poking his nose around where he was not useful. Why were clone makers able to build better Apples than Apple? Nudge nudge wink wink say no more.

    Even someone as narcisstic and self centred as Jobs can learn from their mistakes.

  169. Good managers are versatile by thesandtiger · · Score: 1

    A good manager will adapt their management style to the needs of the organization and the people they are managing. A manager coming in and trying to make everyone fit their style is missing the point.

    Managers should be facilitators, expediters, troubleshooters, organizers and mentors. They should not be dictators.

    I've been a manager in several organizations with widely different cultures over the course of my career and have had to have widely different styles.

    My first management position was a with a data entry team comprised of individuals who functioned best when there was a steady stream of work to do, knew what metrics they were being rated by, and simply wanted to chew through piles of entry without having to get into any rah-rah teambuilding stuff. So, I made sure that they were shielded from the stuff secondary to their jobs (office politics), that they knew exactly what was expected and how it would be measured and rewarded, and when I made changes they were changes done to facilitate the actual completion of work, not to implement bullshit new tasks to measure quality.

    When I worked at a consulting firm I had to adapt my methods to a team comprised of very intelligent & productive individuals who responded best to extremely logical and well planned out directives, but who functioned best when allowed to figure out how to fulfill the directives themselves. I would give my people space to do amazing work, but at the same time I would touch base regularly to make sure they had what they needed. Most of my job consisted of preventing the sales team from bugging them (by hearing out the sales manager and determining whether or not the stuff they wanted was worthwhile). We had regular but short team meetings, and I went out of my way to help my team carve out time to work on things they were interested in exploring but that might not have an immediate application at work.

    When I was promoted to take over the sales and engineering teams, I would give the sales force the rah-rah we will kick ass and take over the universe, go ye and make us money money money pep-talks they needed as well as a bit of latitude in the terms they could offer clients, but I also set firm boundaries as to ethical expectations and made the sales person who offered a special deal the one responsible for ensuring the deal was met, and also took a much more hard-line kind management stance because the people on that team both expected it and needed it or else they would blow you off.

    Now that I work in academia I have an extremely collaborative style of management, and though I have quite a few people working for me, I tend to act more as a mentor than a boss. Most of my supervisory load now is taking our larger study goals and turning them into discrete tasks to be completed and, when necessary, helping newer team members by breaking down the process we use for their tasks, explaining why we're doing what we're doing and helping them figure out what kind of approach to take. Everyone on this team tends to be very, very interested in the work we are doing - personally vested in it - and what motivates them best is respecting that and helping them find ways to use their interest and passion to look for better ways to work with our participants and different groups within the community we are focused on.

    All of those methods are different, all of them are different from my personal style, except for maybe the approach I took with the engineers. I am, personally, a bit blunt, a bit sarcastic, I expect a LOT from myself and from anyone else who is a peer of mine. I don't need my ego stroked with pointless "way to go" stuff - I'm able to look at the things I do and find the objective measures of success which is much more satisfying. I would rather avoid having to pay attention to the feelings of people I work with (meaning, I don't really care if your feelings are hurt because I didn't ask about how your kid is because I think it's absurd to expect everyone to try to manage your emotions) but I'

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  170. Science disagrees. by concealment · · Score: 1
    1. Re:Science disagrees. by SuiteSisterMary · · Score: 1

      Science disagrees? Can you explain how XX vs XY is not a difference? Testosterone vs estrogen? The difference in size? The difference in bone structure, including skull, jaw, and pelvis? Significant size difference in tracheae, hearts, red blood cell count? Differences in brain structure?

      Seriously. Men and women are different. In plain and obvious ways. This isn't to say that one is inferior to the other, or that we need different standards of treatment, or whatever.

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  171. Not sure what the title has do with the article. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Better? In what way? For whom?