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Former Engineer Says Uber Is a Nightmare of Sexism; CEO Orders Urgent Investigation (susanjfowler.com)

An anonymous reader shares a report on The Verge: A former Uber engineer has published an explosive account of sexism and power struggles in the workplace, with allegations beginning from her very first official day with the company. The engineer, Susan Fowler (who left Uber in December and now works for Stripe), posted the account to her blog on Sunday, calling it a "strange, fascinating, and slightly horrifying story." It is indeed horrifying. Sexism is a well-documented problem in Silicon Valley, but the particulars of Fowler's account are astounding. She says problems began on day one, when her manager accosted her with details of his sex life: "In my first official day rotating on the team, my new manager sent me a string of messages over company chat. He was in an open relationship, he said, and his girlfriend was having an easy time finding new partners but he wasn't. He was trying to stay out of trouble at work, he said, but he couldn't help getting in trouble, because he was looking for women to have sex with. It was clear that he was trying to get me to have sex with him, and it was so clearly out of line that I immediately took screenshots of these chat messages and reported him to HR. When I reported the situation, I was told by both HR and upper management that even though this was clearly sexual harassment and he was propositioning me, it was this man's first offense, and that they wouldn't feel comfortable giving him anything other than a warning and a stern talking-to. Upper management told me that he "was a high performer" (i.e. had stellar performance reviews from his superiors) and they wouldn't feel comfortable punishing him for what was probably just an innocent mistake on his part. The things only get worse for Fowler. Read the full account of her story here. In the meanwhile, Uber CEO Travis Kalanick said the company would "conduct an urgent investigation" into the allegations, and promised to fire anyone who "behaves this way or thinks this is OK."

Journalist Paul Carr summing up the situation, says, "Uber's ability to be on the wrong side of every moral and ethical issue is bordering on magical."

917 comments

  1. I'm not surprised. by generic_screenname · · Score: 5, Informative

    As much as Slashdot likes to believe that sexism is imaginary, this behavior is pretty common in tech. Frankly, I've seen worse.

    1. Re:I'm not surprised. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

      generic_assumption. generic_allegation.

    2. Re:I'm not surprised. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 5, Insightful

      As much as Slashdot likes to believe that sexism is imaginary, this behavior is pretty common in tech. Frankly, I've seen worse.

      OK, so you start with the strawman that "Slashdot," whoever that is, likes to believe that sexism is imaginary. But, then you say you've seen worse? I'm a software engineer in the auto industry, and I have never seen anything like what she describes. I'm not saying it doesn't happen. But, if you've seen worse, you have worked in some horrific work environments.

    3. Re:I'm not surprised. by Megol · · Score: 1, Interesting

      The real problem is those that think sexism is acceptable. And I mean that from both sexes - the things I've heard women say about men... Bah.

      I've not read the linked article (standard operating procedure, right?) however IMHO asking someone if they want to have sex isn't sexism nor harassment. It is sexism if it is assumed they will have sex to get promoted etc. and harassment if they can't take a no. But just asking?

    4. Re:I'm not surprised. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 5, Interesting

      Maybe you don't see it since you are not the target of it.

    5. Re:I'm not surprised. by Ly4 · · Score: 5, Insightful

      But just asking?
      A subordinate.
      By text.
      On the first day of the job.

      That's not 'just asking'.

    6. Re:I'm not surprised. by rmdingler · · Score: 1
      FD: I would never be confused with a person who has movie-star good looks, but I've been hit on in the work place by coworkers, often subordinate employees.

      Wherever men and women congregate, there will be attempts to encourage that act linked to procreation; in and of itself, a simple proposition is not harassment.

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    7. Re:I'm not surprised. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 4, Informative

      A manager in a position of power asking their subordinate to have sex with them is absolutely sexual harassment.

    8. Re:I'm not surprised. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1, Interesting

      It is pretty clear that the majority view at this point on Slashdot is that sexism is either imaginary, overrated, or just something women should put up with because essentially any measure to correct it is anti-men, or anti-equality, or affirmative action, or quota management, or whatever.

      At the extreme of this majority view are loads and loads of MRAs.

      I wouldn't be at all surprised if the auto industry (which I don't think Uber can really say it is in, yet) is much better with respect to sexism, simply because that battle has been fought.

      The general tech industry in the USA would seem to be an actually worsening environment for women with the brogrammer culture.

      Here in the UK I have seen one objectively worse incidence of sexism -- a truly tragic event that cost a great firm a great employee (and may even have cost the industry a developer, I don't know) because she (rightly) considered the incident to immediately break her employment contract, including what was left of her probationary period. She walked, there and then, and the implied challenge to the fairly strict employment contract was never met; the firm immediately conceded.

      Generally I think the UK is much better on this basis simply because the ideological argument that men-will-be-men has not cut it for decades as an explanation (outside justifying the behaviour of football players.)

    9. Re: I'm not surprised. by Defakto · · Score: 2

      Sexism is assuming someone has a specific role or ability based on their sex and you discriminate against then for that. Harassment us a much more grey area but the general gist is its all about perception. I worked with a guy fired for harassment. Woman came in monday morning complaining about lower back pain. He asked her what happened. She said she had her eggs harvested over the weekend. He asked a clarifying question, "You mean your ovaries?" Four hours later he was escorted out by HR for asking about ovaries. Now knowing the guy, there was probably more. Ny wife was also fired from a position for playing a video to a co-worker about our then 5 year old son saying he learned about sex from Mike Rowe on dirty jobs. Someone nearby complained.

    10. Re:I'm not surprised. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Also, read the comments on this thread?

    11. Re:I'm not surprised. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1, Insightful

      The problem is that Americans are just prudish. You can't really go up to someone and ask "hey, want to have sex?". Americans will feel at worst, offended, or at best, extremely awkward. Americans view sex as something that is somehow inherently wrong and revolting.

      If Americans are ever given the chance to culturally mature, then I suspect things like sexual harassment will go down, as people don't take the very offer as something offensive. Where I am from I can walk up to most women and simply ask "hey, I think you are attractive, would you like to have sex with me?" and she will either politely say no, or accept and we have sex. If she says no, you don't persist. That's where you cross a line.

      But Americans? They get squeamish at the mere thought of sex. But that's to be expected from America. They are not as culturally evolved as other countries.

    12. Re:I'm not surprised. by Goaway · · Score: 1, Insightful

      No, it is not, and you are either an idiot or trying to cover up bad behaviour if you claim it is.

    13. Re:I'm not surprised. by arth1 · · Score: 2

      FD: I would never be confused with a person who has movie-star good looks, but I've been hit on in the work place by coworkers, often subordinate employees.

      That's how a good portion of relationships start.
      If hitting on a coworker were illegal sexism, a good part of the slashdot audience wouldn't be here, because their parents never would have hooked up.

      That said, respecting that someone is not interested should be as obvious as respecting that someone is interested. In either case, move on.

    14. Re: I'm not surprised. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      It's the difference between ethics and morals. A person's morals may dictate feelings or beliefs in either direction. Sound *ethics* on the other hand, dictate that neither women nor men are objects, and that presumably people show up to work to do their job, not to entertain one another's fantasies or personal problems, it's a violation of a code of behavior. In spite of the fact that men may occasionally suffer the same kind of behavior, women are targeted many magnitudes more of the time. If true, the guy was way out of line, propositioning coworkers on the job is never ok, and if it wasn't his first offense, I would have shown him the door immediately had he worked for me. It's good buisiness sense, if nothing else, no company wants to be embroiled in legal battles, that is ultimately potentially more expensive than a new hire. By and large, Silicon Valley companies are fools, and the consequences of their ignorance and short-sightedness will come home to roost eventually.

    15. Re:I'm not surprised. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      generic_bullshit.

    16. Re:I'm not surprised. by DogDude · · Score: 4, Insightful

      Wrong. A boss asking a subordinate to fuck them IS harassment.

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    17. Re:I'm not surprised. by DutchUncle · · Score: 5, Insightful

      Asking an equal rank colleague about a date, after working together for a while, maybe. Asking about sex on the first day, like trying a pick-up up at a bar, no. Asking a subordinate, abuse of authority, period.

    18. Re:I'm not surprised. by drinkypoo · · Score: 5, Interesting

      If hitting on a coworker were illegal sexism, a good part of the slashdot audience wouldn't be here, because their parents never would have hooked up.

      It's not appropriate for someone to send messages like this to a subordinate, period, the end. It creates a hostile work environment because they have to worry about whether they'll be penalized for saying no.

      The appropriate response to someone walking in with a fistful of evidence that someone is engaging in sexual harassment is to fire the harasser, immediately. This is especially true anywhere that has had sexual harassment training. And basically all tech companies are doing that now, and this sort of thing is evidence that it is necessary; both the event, and all the jerkoffs scrambling to defend what is clearly unacceptable behavior.

      Uber has a rule against sex between drivers and riders, no matter what. I guarantee you that their employee code of conduct bans sexual harassment, and clear sexual advances like these without invitation are a clear case of sexual harassment.

      Finally, it wasn't actually his first offense, that was just a lie told by HR. Because HR is not your friend. Get that part straight right now. They work for the company and their job is to smooth the rough, pacify the angry, and meet legal requirements. It is not to help you.

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    19. Re: I'm not surprised. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

      How is this sexism? I'd have fired him for being unprofessional and being too familiar but This isn't even harassment. Say something like "I'd prefer to keep our conversations work related" or "no thanks" at which point repeated requests become a serious problem. I've seen sexism in tech, and this doesn't qualify.

    20. Re:I'm not surprised. by dontbemad · · Score: 0

      I'll be sure to tell my wife that, as those were her words. Great response, though!

    21. Re:I'm not surprised. by Notabadguy · · Score: 2, Interesting

      There are a lot of words getting misappropriated and used wrongly - words like "racism." If one were to look up the definition of sexual harassment in the dictionary, one would find that there is a distinction between sexual ADVANCE and sexual HARASSMENT.

      IE: Sexual Harassment: unwelcome sexual advances made by an employer or superior, especially when compliance is made a condition of continued employment or advancement.

      1. Apparently the boss did not make sex a condition of continued employment.
      2. Her first response should have been to say, "This discussion makes me uncomfortable, and I would prefer not to talk about your private life." That would have signaled sexual harassment - at which point, if he continued, he would be sexually harassing her.

      The rest of her "explosive blog" goes on to talk about bog standard industry stuff. People trying to get their boss' job. Bosses "holding her back" so that she couldn't get promoted and would be stuck in their department - which is a pretty standard thing to do to exceptional workers. I'm not assuming that she's exceptional, but that it isn't irregular.

      The only "nightmare of sexism" is in the title. The article fails to deliver the gritty, horrifying sexism that I was expecting. Much like my ongoing Star Wars marathon - which has inevitably led to Episodes 1-3 - have made me question my childhood and my love of Star Wars for failing to deliver on the IP.

    22. Re:I'm not surprised. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      As much as generic screennames want to post about how sexism is real in tech, most women in tech who are not a part of the cult debunk the sexism claims really quick. They are, of course, usually immediately assaulted by the cult the moment they do.

    23. Re:I'm not surprised. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      But, then you say you've seen worse? I'm a software engineer in the auto industry, and I have never seen anything like what she describes.

      I've seen more instances of self-serving assholes cruising after the main chance, than I have of actual sexism.

      Does it happen? Fuck yes.

      Is there some sort of well-documented shadow crisis that we should be Tumblring about?

      Fuck no.

    24. Re:I'm not surprised. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

      Why would she post this to her blog, instead of posting it to, I don't know, her lawyer? Physical evidence in the form of a text message would be quite useful in a court of law.

    25. Re:I'm not surprised. by gatkinso · · Score: 3, Funny

      generic_rebuttal

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    26. Re:I'm not surprised. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0, Troll

      Here we have a prime example of a cultist. See how they use the catchy terms such as "brogrammer" and "MRA" in an attempt to dehumanize their hated targets. Their post is writhe with buzzwords and propaganda they hear from their favorite twitter accounts.

    27. Re:I'm not surprised. by NotInHere · · Score: 3, Interesting

      I think the main problem here is that the superior propositioned the subordinate. This is problematic, as when she refuses, which she did, she was still dependent on him, and it was easy for him to punish her for her refusal. Of course, he still could put care on treating her the same, but obviously this is something very hard to prove, and therefore the best approach would be to ban this behavior.

      Generally though, assuming or expecting that every employee lives in a happy relationship and doesn't want any new ones is just not realistic. Employees will seek relationships and generally this doesn't cause any harm to anybody, just when the power relations are so direct like with direct superior and subordinate its a problem.

    28. Re:I'm not surprised. by fibonacci8 · · Score: 5, Informative

      You've limited the scope to "quid pro quo" sexual harassment. The article demonstrates "hostile environment" sexual harassment. There's no requirement that "compliance is made a condition of continued employment or advancement". https://www.eeoc.gov/laws/type...

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    29. Re:I'm not surprised. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 2, Interesting

      Reporting from Flyover (Chicagoland) this morning:

      I ran this by some of my female tech colleagues. One of our conclusions, after some quick analysis: Extreme examples like this are more likely to occur in places like Silicon Valley, where the competitive culture and veiled acquisitiveness drive people crazy in interesting ways.

    30. Re:I'm not surprised. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

      Are you really going with that being propositioned by your boss the very first day to join a menage a trois is something that's acceptable for a work environment?

      We all come to work, to work. I don't want to hear about your colicky baby, your nagging wife, or your sex life. Give me the TPS report and shut up. Leave the other shit for the pub or gym.

    31. Re: I'm not surprised. by DNS-and-BIND · · Score: 0

      Wrong. Harassment is an UNWANTED advance.

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    32. Re:I'm not surprised. by t0rkm3 · · Score: 5, Informative

      Even so, in every bit of coaching that I have ever seen, there is a requirement of: request, rebuff, request again, escalate, unless the references are "to the reasonable person" offensive in the extreme.

      That also seems to follow the legal doctrine on the matter. An advance is considered normal and human (if stupid, from a manager), the repeated advance in the face of clear rejection causes the condition to rise to harassment. This goes for passive things like, a mudflap girl coffee mug, inappropriate humor, etc.

      I agree that the victim should escalate early and often for their own protection and documentation, but the HR person (if they were being honest) did the right thing. If we went around firing everyone for the first inappropriate thing they ever did the manpower churn itself would be a viable alternative power source.

      I'm not a lawyer, advisor, or necessarily reasonable. I'm just old enough to see this go around multiple times, sometimes having negotiated successful resolutions... sometime having quit MY JOB because of the treatment of peer and the company's response.

    33. Re:I'm not surprised. by serviscope_minor · · Score: 4, Insightful

      1. Apparently the boss did not make sex a condition of continued employment.

      He's her boss. That's ALWAYS implied or always the risk.

      2. Her first response should have been to say,

      Actually I think her first response should have been to knock out his teeth. Failing that going straight to HR was entirely appropriate. Propositioning a subordinate like that is so far out of line that there is no way she is in any way responsible for trying to smooth things over.

      The rest of her "explosive blog" goes on to talk about bog standard industry stuff.

      The reason the industry is infested with problems like this is because of people like you. Oh sure I mean you might not actually do any of those things yourself, but you defend others that do and when the defense fails, you excuse the behaviour as "standard".

      Congratulations, you are part of the problem.

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    34. Re:I'm not surprised. by Grog6 · · Score: 4, Funny

      generic_rebuttal{ .Sexism .Misogeny .SJW .gamergate .HillaryRhodamClinton .Trump .Putin .Nazis
      }
      END: GODWIN_EXIT

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    35. Re:I'm not surprised. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Your screen name is completely off

    36. Re:I'm not surprised. by Notabadguy · · Score: 0, Troll

      Jesus - that's what you got out of that?

      I said that writing a story about being a stellar performer and being held back by a manager who doesn't want to lose you because you make them look good does not equate to a "GRIPPING STORY ABOUT EXPLOSIVE SEXUAL HARASSMENT."

      And I'm part of the problem?

      The problem sir is a lack of integrity, scope, and truth. We should all aspire to these things.

    37. Re: I'm not surprised. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

      Find a token man working in an all, or mostly female HR department, and Seth the sexism fly.

    38. Re:I'm not surprised. by hey! · · Score: 4, Interesting

      Let me ask you a simple question. Ignoring the sexism, which doesn't apply to you, read her description of the corporate culture and tell me: does this sound like a place you'd like to work?

      It isn't just sexism, she describes a generally toxic work culture in which all kinds of problems can arise and persist. It's one where managers are focused on competing with each other, even to the point of undermining their supervisors; you might let a problem ride for a bit because you might need to use it against them later.

      Now granted, this might not be a fair description of Uber's culture. Or her perceptions might be colored by what was a string of bad luck. But we all know places that shade this way exist. The problem of a organizations that are at the same time bureaucratic and cutthroat go way back. What she describes could be the politics of an old-time royal court.

      Why? Why does this kind of culture crop up again and again in human history?

      I think because ruthless internal competition offsets some of the natural lethargy of a bureaucracy. It can serve the interests of whoever is on top, at least in the short term. If you have no talent for inspiring people you can at least set them against each other. But you'd be a fool to join such an organization at the bottom, knowing what it is, if you had any alternatives.

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    39. Re:I'm not surprised. by Notabadguy · · Score: 2, Informative

      Holy balls, modded into troll-land for pointing out that there are legal definitions of words, and that we should use them. You're next t0rkm3.

    40. Re:I'm not surprised. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 5, Insightful

      Yeah... No.

      A manager asking for sex from anyone under them is a very clear violation of any sane HR policy, not to mention any sane ethical human being.

      I work at Intel. We have yearly classes telling us to Not Do This Shit. They're super clear that this sort of Shit won't be tolerated, and for that I'm super glad.

      Also, you're an idiot and a terrible human being for your opinion.

      Yes. "Just Asking" is a problem and creates an environment that is hostile.

    41. Re:I'm not surprised. by AmiMoJo · · Score: 1

      It all depends on the relative ranks of the coworkers, and on the context. If the person asking has the power to retaliate against the person they are asking, it creates a problem. Any subsequent negative review will be seen as less than objective, for example. Especially if that person says yes initially but then the couple splits up.

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    42. Re:I'm not surprised. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

      You bet your sweet ass we're not a target. Are you free tonight?

    43. Re:I'm not surprised. by DontBeAMoran · · Score: 1

      I've also seen much, much worst while working in Japan.

      Stay clear of the tentacles, ladies. Especially if you're wearing a sailor uniform.

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    44. Re:I'm not surprised. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I've seen cases that were similar, or worse. But it was coming from women, and directed at men. And in most cases, the women in question were vocal feminists.

    45. Re: I'm not surprised. by NotInHere · · Score: 1

      Sorry but I'm no SJW. I don't actually think that such behavior makes Uber a "sexist nightmare" or whatever, like the article says. But I do think that such approaches are not really the best behavior a superior should show.

    46. Re:I'm not surprised. by rubycodez · · Score: 1

      problem with manager is not "sexism", it is different set of problems that include sexual harassment and unprofessional conduct

    47. Re:I'm not surprised. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

      The troll mod was uncalled-for, but you provided a dictionary definition, not a legal definition. There's a significant difference.

      Note also that you conveniently glossed over the whole 'boss/employee' relationship thing, which is a very significant part of this case.

    48. Re:I'm not surprised. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

      No, I charge by the hour, 2 hr min.

    49. Re:I'm not surprised. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Citation needed to support overly broad stereotyping of a very broad online community.

    50. Re:I'm not surprised. by rgmoore · · Score: 5, Informative

      the HR person (if they were being honest) did the right thing.

      At least according to the article, the HR person was not being honest. They said that it was the boss's first offense and they didn't want to put it on his record because it would hurt him. But the author spoke to other women who had complained about him before she did, so it wasn't his first offense. The most generous interpretation is that they were basing the claim of first offense on his blank official record, so that he could get an infinite number of "first" offenses left off.

      It goes to show why that approach is a bad one. If you don't want people to get in trouble for a first offense, make that the policy. Put the offense in their record, but give them a free pass for it when it comes time to evaluate them. But leaving something out of the record makes it possible for somebody to get an indefinite number of "first offenses". Of course it seems far more likely that there was an informal policy of protecting offenders who were otherwise high performing, and the whole thing about it being a first offense was a ruse.

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    51. Re: I'm not surprised. by DogDude · · Score: 0, Troll

      Any advance from a supervisor is UNWANTED.

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    52. Re: I'm not surprised. by DNS-and-BIND · · Score: 0, Flamebait

      The problem is people like you advocating violent responses. No wonder the Berkeley anti-free speech riots happened. Being offended is never a reason for violence. That's how we ended up with fascism.

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    53. Re: I'm not surprised. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I worked in an office one time with all woman and I saw the same things. Woman talking about who they would have sex with, posters of men with no shirts hanging up, grab assing and flirting with the men from other departments. It was all in good fun and no one got hurt. I remember almost having sex with my boss(she was older by 10 years) Luckily we were all drunk and no one remembers except me ;P

    54. Re: I'm not surprised. by DNS-and-BIND · · Score: 0

      Wrong. An UNWANTED advance is sexual harassment.

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    55. Re: I'm not surprised. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I'd have fired him for being unprofessional and being too familiar

      Firing a star employee, particularly an obviously valuable and hard to replace one, is not an easy thing to do. Good programmers are hard to find and there's no guarantee that if you do find a replacement that he (and they're overwhelmingly men) won't have a similar problems. You see, we software types are by and large an odd lot and companies put up with our quirks because a handful of us can produce a billion dollar company and nobody else riding that train wants to jeopardize their financial future or their families' financial future for the sake of a few complaints from young feminists who get their panties in a bunch when exposed to the startup culture driven by these rare and exceptional workers.

    56. Re:I'm not surprised. by TimothyHollins · · Score: 4, Insightful

      Speaking as a student of the real sciences, when we cannot observe something we cannot make claims about it being there.

      I like your stuff better though, it must be really easy to write the conclusions.

    57. Re: I'm not surprised. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Thanks for saying 'SJW' in that way that you always do, like amputated frogs' legs kicking when an electric charge is applied. No thought whatsoever. Way down the brainstem.

    58. Re:I'm not surprised. by Goaway · · Score: 0

      Do you blame your wife for all the bad posts you make on the internet?

    59. Re:I'm not surprised. by TimothyHollins · · Score: 1, Insightful

      Perhaps AmiMojo and PopeRatzo both got mod-points at the same time?

    60. Re:I'm not surprised. by datbagelboi · · Score: 1

      The article doesn't demonstrate anything as there is no evidence to back up any of her claims.

    61. Re:I'm not surprised. by NotInHere · · Score: 1

      clear sexual advances like these without invitation are a clear case of sexual harassment.

      So you want to ban any kind of sexual advances? I mean, do you want that people first ask before they ask about starting a relationship? I mean, that person didn't touch her, or even intimidated her or something.

      The only real problem here was that it was a superior asking a subordinate. THAT is bad behavior, as there is always a direct power relation.

      The second problem obviously was that it wasn't his first encounter like that, but one does have to ask whether his other encounters were with his subordinates as well, or whether it was simply with other coworkers (which is okay).

    62. Re: I'm not surprised. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Does anybody else see the irony in this post?

    63. Re:I'm not surprised. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Do you make unfounded and unreasonable assumptions in all of your bad posts on the internet?

    64. Re: I'm not surprised. by fibonacci8 · · Score: 2

      "Therefore, all men are Socrates." -- Woody Allen, 'Love and Death'

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    65. Re:I'm not surprised. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Maybe you don't see it since you are not the target of it.

      Good point! I guess I proved the point.

    66. Re:I'm not surprised. by Brett+Buck · · Score: 1

      And in any case, this blatant and documented case would result in the guy being marched off the property that afternoon at any legitimate large corporation.

    67. Re: I'm not surprised. by fibonacci8 · · Score: 1

      And there's the alt-right dog whistle. Trying to lump in eugenics with the rest. It's an actual philosophy that people keep trying to sneak into practice. Whether it works is immaterial. People trying to selectively breed certain genes out of a population using laws and regulations isn't some historical relic. It's an ongoing atrocity.

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    68. Re:I'm not surprised. by AmiMoJo · · Score: 3, Interesting

      That doesn't seem unreasonable, but in this case the her immediate superior opened on day 1 with "I'm in an open relationship, please have sex with me". Later she finds out that HR is basically encouraging him by taking no action against a "high flyer", which explains why he (correctly) thinks he can get away with it.

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    69. Re:I'm not surprised. by ckatko · · Score: 0

      You mean a bunch of a smug anti-social virgins, and super-jock 1980's Wall Street-esk managers might be sexist? Nah.

      The bullshit is when you extrapolate these assholes to somehow mean the rest of the staff.

      We're not supposed to generalize against all Muslims, but somehow when one man does a shitty thing ALL MEN deserve to be reprimanded. That's a great way to create animosity. Force a man to be punished for something he didn't do.

      You folks also love to forget that women can be sexist too.

      And when you do those things, you're not doing ANYONE a favor. You're not improving the workplace or the world when you shit on innocent people. You're creating a bunch of people who are rightly bitter about being scapegoated by "the system." You're literally becoming the very systematic toxicity you claim to be fighting against. All you've done is taken the heat off of one group and used it to crush another group. Guaranteeing another generation of resentment.

    70. Re:I'm not surprised. by Type44Q · · Score: 1

      As much as Slashdot likes to believe that sexism is imaginary

      There wasn't necessarily anything "sexist" about it unless Uber HR had a policy (written or otherwise) to only punish female co-workers who engage in such behavior.

    71. Re:I'm not surprised. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      How absurd is a political movement based on rights and equality ostracizing and bullying people that are for men's rights.

      Maybe the sane, job-holding population will care what you think when you practice what you preach.

    72. Re:I'm not surprised. by Gilgaron · · Score: 1

      The reporting relationship is why it is more concerning than if it was a peer. Authority changes things. A cop could ask you on a date, and it'd be fine, but if they pulled you over first...

    73. Re:I'm not surprised. by Goaway · · Score: 0

      I have not yet, and I do not plan to. Now, are you going to offer any kind of justification for involving the authority of your wife in this discussion?

    74. Re:I'm not surprised. by interkin3tic · · Score: 1

      I've never been sexually harassed at work. Most other slashdotters haven't either. Therefore clearly, sexism in the workplace isn't happening. What's the alternative? Suggesting that middle aged white dudes who sit at a computer all day long AREN'T considered universally attractive?!?!

    75. Re:I'm not surprised. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Insightful. These stories are 10/10 bait for those two. They typically post dozens of comments each. Yet neither have shown yet.

    76. Re: I'm not surprised. by DamonHD · · Score: 4, Insightful

      Really, no. The word just implies that there is a problem with something.

      I use it all the time when talking about software or hardware bugs or latent ones, ie that may lead to or have already caused a problem. How on earth would that be what you claim?

      If you want "dog whistles" then let's try "dog whistle" and "SJW" as loaded terms...

      Rgds

      Damon

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    77. Re:I'm not surprised. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 4, Insightful

      Actually I think her first response should have been to knock out his teeth.

      Ladies and gentlemen, this is sexism in action. No one - certainly not this poster - would suggest that a man should knock out a woman's teeth for propositioning him, no matter how inappropriate it might be. But violence against a man for the same cause is apparently perfectly acceptable.

    78. Re:I'm not surprised. by hey! · · Score: 2

      First of all, moderators, while I disagree with this guy's opinion, it's not a troll. It's just an opinion we disagree with. Learn the difference.

      That said, making a sexual advance to a subordinate right off the bat is just plain stupid. You don't know each other, and anyone in her position would feel uncomfortable. It's an office, not a bar. People are there to work, and what's more they can't avoid each other. That's why you need professionalism in your job conduct.

      HR's response was also stupid. In business you often get into trouble by saying too much, and that's exactly what they did. They could have said, "We've issued a verbal and written reprimand and will be watching this situation closely; let us know if more this kind of thing happens." Instead they had to bring in the fact that this guy was a "high performer", implying at least that this gives him a license ordinary managers don't have. Now I think we can all assume that on some level high performers get leeway that low performers don't. But saying so is stupid. It's pretty much tantamount to a confession that you don't take this seriously.

      Then they compound the stupidity by telling her to expect a bad review from this guy because she brought this up. This pretty much is an admission that HR and management countenance unprofessionalism, allowing managers to use employee reviews to pursue personal issues rather than evaluating the employee's contribution to the company.

      That's just asinine. If it's false you're undermining employee confidence in the review and performance reward system for no reason. If it's true you should be fixing it, an in the interim keeping your mouth shut.

      Now I'd say you should keep your work and personal (e.g. sex) life separate, but I know some companies don't give employees time to have a personal life. If a company does that you're absolutely right, your HR people are going to have a tough time navigating the line between advances and harassment. All the more reason not to be sloppy. If someone in such an environment can't broach the subject with tact, he'd better be prepared to be celibate.

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    79. Re:I'm not surprised. by Attila+Dimedici · · Score: 4, Interesting

      1. Apparently the boss did not make sex a condition of continued employment. He's her boss. That's ALWAYS implied or always the risk.

      Really? Then why was it OK when Bill Clinton had sex with an intern?

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    80. Re:I'm not surprised. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0, Troll

      If you're a student of the real sciences, you're clearly not a very *bright* student. If you were even moderately bright, you'd know that there is really quite a big difference between "difficult to see" and "when we cannot observe something".

    81. Re: I'm not surprised. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      That is really not how you ended up with fascism. Tolerating racism and sexism had a lot more to do with it.

    82. Re:I'm not surprised. by shilly · · Score: 2

      Because she wasn't suing anyone. She went and got a job elsewhere.

    83. Re: I'm not surprised. by shilly · · Score: 3, Insightful

      What are the realistic chances that this particular advance would have been wanted, given the circumstances described. How shitty a student of life do you have to be to realise that asking a subordinate for a fuck on the first day you meet them while telling them you have a partner is not going to result in you getting said fuck?

    84. Re:I'm not surprised. by Jawnn · · Score: 0

      In this day and age, sexism is any action done by the opposite sex that bothers, annoys, insults, or troubles you in any conceivable way.

      No. It's not. That you don't know the fucking difference is ample evidence of the problem here. Grow up. Educate yourself. Stop blaming others who highlight your willful ignorance.

    85. Re:I'm not surprised. by Megol · · Score: 2

      Isn't it? How many days is required before it is okay then? Is text worse than verbally asking? I'll give you the subordinate argument, not because it is always a problem but it is a _potential_ problem.

      You could say that one shouldn't discuss sex at all in the workplace but IMHO it isn't sexual harassment nor sexism to say something like: "I find you attractive, would you like to have sex with me?". Is it sexism to say that one finds a person of the opposite gender attractive? Nope, but it may be a bad idea to bring it up. Is it harassment? Not unless one keeps asking, hinting etc. after getting a "I'm not interested thank you" as response.

      In real life in real workplaces talk about sex do come up. Prudes may not like it but that's a fact. Women like to joke around that subject too. Even with men.

    86. Re:I'm not surprised. by Agiailotes · · Score: 1

      And why do you assume any of this is true? How the fuck is this cunt's blog NEWS?

    87. Re:I'm not surprised. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Bullshit. If you're the victim of something: get proof, then get a lawyer.

    88. Re: I'm not surprised. by Megol · · Score: 1

      No an unwanted advance is an unwanted advance. How can one know if it is unwanted until one asks? This is basic logic but some people here fail to see that...

    89. Re:I'm not surprised. by drinkypoo · · Score: 2

      So you want to ban any kind of sexual advances?

      From a superior to a subordinate? Absolutely. But the rule for harassment is that if it's unwanted, it's harassment. If you're not absolutely sure that it's desired, don't do it. Sex with coworkers is usually a bad idea anyway, because even after you stop, you still have to work together. Sure, some people are mature enough to handle situations like that. Unfortunately, there's no reliable way to identify them ahead of time. That's how you can get an astronaut in a diaper.

      The second problem obviously was that it wasn't his first encounter like that, but one does have to ask whether his other encounters were with his subordinates as well, or whether it was simply with other coworkers (which is okay).

      It's not automagically okay. There's lots of ways in which it can be inappropriate. If your first advance is not welcomed, then you should stop immediately. This is not that complicated, but a lot of people want to make it complicated to excuse some shit behavior that is creating hostile work environments all over the world, let alone the country.

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    90. Re: I'm not surprised. by Megol · · Score: 1

      Many marriages wouldn't have happened if that was the case... How about having some fucking perspective (pun partially intended)?

    91. Re:I'm not surprised. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      If she has proof and HR didn't do anything about it it's as simple as going to a lawyer. The fact she didn't *strongly* implies this is just another random disgruntled ex-employee making up garbage because they left their ex-employer on bad terms. People like you blindly believing it without any evidence is the problem.

    92. Re: I'm not surprised. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Who would hire someone that sued their employer?

    93. Re:I'm not surprised. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I've never encountered line-level people doing this kind of stuff, but I have been treated to reports about how executives gave co-workers "hints" on how to dress and how to "advance their careers". Considering who the executives were and their overall opinion on the lesser creatures male and female, I couldn't rule it out as simply spite on the part of the complainers.

    94. Re:I'm not surprised. by Megol · · Score: 1

      Of course it can be problematic _however_ if problematic things didn't happen we would be living in a real world shangri-la. But linking a simple question to "a nightmare of sexism"? Bullshit. Reporting the advance to HR should have been enough.

    95. Re: I'm not surprised. by Megol · · Score: 0

      Only Nazis use the "term" SJW as we all know.

    96. Re: I'm not surprised. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      The irony is that anti harassment training will be amped up this year across the tech industry.

    97. Re:I'm not surprised. by serviscope_minor · · Score: 2

      Then why was it OK when Bill Clinton had sex with an intern?

      It was? News to me.

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    98. Re:I'm not surprised. by Agiailotes · · Score: 1

      >because of people like you

      What about the people who think they have the right to judge others without even explaining their feelings let alone providing a rationale?

      brainless drones. the liberals are by far the worst.

    99. Re: I'm not surprised. by serviscope_minor · · Score: 5, Funny

      The problem is people like you advocating violent responses.

      I think that people who can't spot hyperbole should be publically disembowled in the town square.

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    100. Re: I'm not surprised. by serviscope_minor · · Score: 1

      How can one know if it is unwanted until one asks?

      Um gee I don't know. How do I know you don't want to get your dick cut off until it happens?

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    101. Re: I'm not surprised. by Megol · · Score: 1

      I normally don't answer Nazi-sympathizers* however the word is used in all sorts of cases, like creating correct and fast implementations of some algorithms are problematic. And there's no social justice involved.

      (* see above post and /s)

    102. Re:I'm not surprised. by Calydor · · Score: 1

      It was so okay the news went around the world and sparked some of the first online memes.

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    103. Re:I'm not surprised. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      well, that depends. If the perp is a high achiever, a top salesman or the brother of the CEO, the accuser isn't going to win. No matter what.

    104. Re:I'm not surprised. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      generic_bullshit.

      try_harder.

    105. Re:I'm not surprised. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I'm struck by the blatant entitlement. This guy was comfortable enough to make these propositions in writing. He knows he can get away with this because he has done it before.

    106. Re:I'm not surprised. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Same. I think due to the company structures these guys start thinking they're gods and one of the babes they hire will eventually be theirs. From my own experience in a few companies, often times the women, especially with interns, but even developers/SE, hired were/are complete babes, unless they were extremely talented and well qualified, and sometimes it'd leak that the director or someone even higher up just thought she was cute and wanted to hire her.

    107. Re: I'm not surprised. by kilfarsnar · · Score: 1, Flamebait

      Thanks for the SJW argument. It hardly needed to be made, as we all knew it already.

      Know how I know you're a white male?

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    108. Re: I'm not surprised. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Nice random vulgarity. Why not just get a forehead tattoo that says "Misogynist"?

    109. Re:I'm not surprised. by Calydor · · Score: 5, Insightful

      clear sexual advances like these without invitation are a clear case of sexual harassment.

      So you want to ban any kind of sexual advances? I mean, do you want that people first ask before they ask about starting a relationship?

      I must be incredibly old-fashioned to think that getting to know someone, talking, finding common interests etc. should precede "Hey, wanna fuck me? My girlfriend is okay with it."

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    110. Re:I'm not surprised. by HornWumpus · · Score: 0

      Bill Clinton got 'one free grope'! Why shouldn't this manager get one free clumsy comeon?

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    111. Re: I'm not surprised. by HornWumpus · · Score: 1

      The anti-free speech rioters are the fascist you dolt.

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    112. Re: I'm not surprised. by DogDude · · Score: 1

      I wasn't aware that one of the goals of a modern workplace is to encourage marriage. That's a new one to me.

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    113. Re: I'm not surprised. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

      Any advance from a supervisor is UNWANTED.

      That's not true. It certainly is possible for a subordinate to be attracted to her superior. For example, Bill Gates married his subordinate.

      Moreover, you seem to be defining of sexual harassment as "any unwanted sexual advance from a man". The problem with this definition is that a man cannot know in advance whether or not his sexual advances will be wanted. Do you expect men to be mind readers? Or do you simply expect a man to avoid making sexual advances unless the woman makes an advance, first? Either way, you certainly aren't advocating for equality . You are advocating for female superiority.

    114. Re:I'm not surprised. by Applehu+Akbar · · Score: 1, Insightful

      generic_assumption. generic_allegation.

      We're supposed to believe that because this is Uber, and because everything about Uber is evil, this is News For Nerds. It would be if there was something about Uber's business model that made sexual harassment a problem on the customer side. But it's about office politics, a sphere in which the same set of problems could occur at Indianapolis Valve & Flange.

      In fact, the Uber service model makes harassment less likely on the customer side than with traditional taxi services, because the anonymity factor is absent. If a problem occurs between an Uber driver and an Uber customer, logs show exactly who was involved at a given place and time.

    115. Re:I'm not surprised. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      It sounds like a spam bot to me. I get them all the time.

    116. Re:I'm not surprised. by HornWumpus · · Score: 1

      Listen to dating advice from old folks...if you want charges brought.

      Advice like 'be persistent, pretty girls like to be pursued' will get you stalking charges. The world has changed. The basic facts remain true, but the dance has changed.

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    117. Re: I'm not surprised. by DogDude · · Score: 1

      OK, AC. First, this whole man v woman thing is in your head. I never said it was OK for a woman to harass a man. That's a complete straw man.
      And Bill Gates & Melinda Gates... I don't know their story, and obviously, neither do you. This is a discussion about what this woman said happened at Uber.

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    118. Re: I'm not surprised. by Half-pint+HAL · · Score: 1

      Find a token man working in an all, or mostly female HR department, and Seth the sexism fly.

      It's hardly a fair comparison, though. HR is a tiny function in the grand scheme of things, and the fact that women are stereotypically railroaded into admin roles isn't pro-woman sexism.

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    119. Re:I'm not surprised. by Half-pint+HAL · · Score: 1, Insightful

      And such cases should be called out. But the statistics still indicate that women are getting the shittier end of the stick in all this.

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    120. Re:I'm not surprised. by HornWumpus · · Score: 0

      Unfortunately, I've worked with a socially retarded gay male geek. Technically he ranked me, but he had no reports as everybody knew he couldn't manage people.

      'Not even if you had tits on your back', more or less, ended it. Of course some would call my 'tell off' sexist.

      We were able to work together for years after, set strong boundaries early. Don't try to 'be nice', be clear enough for a Aspi to understand it.

      I understand why straight women 'plead lesbianism'.

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    121. Re:I'm not surprised. by Half-pint+HAL · · Score: 2

      I agree that the victim should escalate early and often for their own protection and documentation, but the HR person (if they were being honest) did the right thing. If we went around firing everyone for the first inappropriate thing they ever did the manpower churn itself would be a viable alternative power source.

      A) the blog claims the author has testimony that the HR person was not being honest.

      B) in no world is it "the right thing" to tell an employee that making a complaint of sexual harassment will result in a poorer performance review, and that that is OK. Particularly not when the claim of sexual harassment is uncontested.

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    122. Re:I'm not surprised. by serviscope_minor · · Score: 1

      What about the people who think they have the right to judge others without even explaining their feelings let alone providing a rationale?

      So that guy with a bunch of priors who stabbed that other bloke and stole his wallet... I should wait to hear his about his feelings before I judge him?

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    123. Re:I'm not surprised. by ShanghaiBill · · Score: 5, Interesting

      We're supposed to believe that because this is Uber, and because everything about Uber is evil, this is News For Nerds.

      This is news for nerds. Uber is a tech company, and the people that work there are nerds. I don't like vague accusations that tech companies are "sexist" because, while they are, I don't believe they are any more sexist than non-tech companies. But in this case, the accusations are not vague. Ms Fowler has made very specific accusations against specific people, and has hard evidence to back up what she is saying. Uber's behavior in dismissing her complaints was appalling.

    124. Re:I'm not surprised. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      The real problem is those that think sexism is acceptable. And I mean that from both sexes - the things I've heard women say about men... Bah.

      I've not read the linked article (standard operating procedure, right?) however IMHO asking someone if they want to have sex isn't sexism nor harassment. It is sexism if it is assumed they will have sex to get promoted etc. and harassment if they can't take a no. But just asking?

      It is harassment if the asker has a position of authority over the askee. The reason being that there is an understood social norm that when your boss 'requests' something is is generally just a more polite form of an 'order', and refusal may well mark you as 'not a team player' come performance review time.

      So if you boss, asks if you'd be interested in having sex with them, there is an implied threat that refusal may impact your employment which impedes your ability to refuse in direct proportion to your dependence on your employment, and for most people pretty much means you're being asked while under duress. This is intrinsic to the hierarchical power structure and the reason for rules against propositioning your subordinates.

    125. Re: I'm not surprised. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

      You mean the way you use 'brogrammer' and 'MRA'?

    126. Re:I'm not surprised. by Wisp · · Score: 1

      Yep, it happened to me (not at Uber) and I've seen it from afar in other larger orgs. Revoltingly common. The enabling aspect of 'its a Joke...' or 'they are a great guy!' is the worst

    127. Re:I'm not surprised. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      women are still being paid less for the same job as men.

      Whoops

      well educated man.

      Whoops, again. Don't confuse the years you spent memorizing and regurgitating what someone else told you with "education".

    128. Re: I'm not surprised. by epyT-R · · Score: 3, Insightful

      Racism, of course. Yours.

    129. Re:I'm not surprised. by Half-pint+HAL · · Score: 1

      The article doesn't demonstrate anything as there is no evidence to back up any of her claims.

      You realise it would be illegal for her to just publish on the internet all the material she gathered during the course of her employment, don't you?

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    130. Re:I'm not surprised. by Wisp · · Score: 1

      Excellent point. Its a set of dynamics that breed secondary issues (like sexual harrassment) by rewarding bad behaviour.

    131. Re:I'm not surprised. by Agiailotes · · Score: 1

      You're being fucking insane. How do you know he has any priors? Because the blog told you? It's bad enough when you people fall for this shortcut of critical thought when an Official Source says its true. Even if he's guilty... >I should wait to hear his about his feelings before I judge him? YES YOU HAVE TO what right do you have to dehumanize people in such a way. And it's logically against your interest in stopping crime not to understand perpetrators. Holy shit, what is wrong with you people

    132. Re: I'm not surprised. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

      Wrong. An UNWANTED advance is sexual harassment.

      That's not the whole story. A simple advance doesn't qualify as harassment until the party making the advance knows that the action is unwanted. Continued advances after it has been communicated that further advances are unwanted is sexual harassment. Our sole biological function as humans is to procreate, so lets be adults about this and stop ignoring the elephant in the room.

    133. Re:I'm not surprised. by serviscope_minor · · Score: 1

      Reporting the advance to HR should have been enough.

      Isn't that the entire point of the article? If he'd said that on day 1 then HR did their job after getting the report, then it would be a rather short and not terribly interesting article.

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    134. Re:I'm not surprised. by Half-pint+HAL · · Score: 1

      FD: I would never be confused with a person who has movie-star good looks, but I've been hit on in the work place by coworkers, often subordinate employees.

      Subordinates hitting on superordinates is not as much of a problem, because the one doing the pursuing isn't in a position of power.

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    135. Re:I'm not surprised. by arth1 · · Score: 1

      It's not appropriate for someone to send messages like this to a subordinate, period, the end. It creates a hostile work environment because they have to worry about whether they'll be penalized for saying no.

      Repercussions for rejecting advances are already against the law. That's what needs to be enforced, not blocking the initial advance.

    136. Re:I'm not surprised. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      FWIW an offense is not the same as a complaint.

    137. Re:I'm not surprised. by g01d4 · · Score: 1

      Extreme examples like this are more likely to occur in places like Silicon Valley, where the competitive culture and veiled acquisitiveness drive people crazy in interesting ways.

      Local culture (or lack thereof) and demographic isolation. Finance, the c-suite, and maybe in some rural areas. I confess some surprise that these pockets of primitive behavior still exist to the probable extent that they do. Though there's the flip side of frivolous, exaggerated or false complaints that can turn corporate culture into baby food.

    138. Re:I'm not surprised. by ghoul · · Score: 1, Funny

      No wonder more and more men are choosing to be gay. And dont tell me people are born Gay or Hetero. Its not digital its Analog. Everyone is somewhere on the scale from 90% hetero to 90% gay. While the 90% hetero guy would never turn to men even after multiple hearbreaks and the 90% gay guy would never turn to a woman even in mediaval Europe (he would just become a monk or priest) there are those who are 60-40 or 40-60. Depending on how hostile society becomes to hetero relationships and accepting of homo relationships more and more people will choose to go the gay way. Its way less complicated (men understand men much better than women). With how hostile Silicon Valley or ManJose has become to men (the lopsided men-women ratio makes dating really difficult) I would say event the 70-30 or 80-20 are temptem to act upon their 30 and 20 natures.

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    139. Re:I'm not surprised. by Raenex · · Score: 3, Insightful

      Actually I think her first response should have been to knock out his teeth.

      And then his response would have been to justifiably knock her ass out and have her thrown in jail. Yeah, yeah, "hyperbole". It's "hyperbole" like this that tries to justify people getting punched in the streets while giving interviews and others being assaulted for going to a Milo talk.

    140. Re:I'm not surprised. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Maybe you don't see it since you are not the target of it.

      Why do you assume that the GP isn't female?

    141. Re: I'm not surprised. by thegarbz · · Score: 2

      Any advance from a supervisor is UNWANTED.

      Out of all the posts here, this one is perhaps the most discriminatory and simple minded.

    142. Re:I'm not surprised. by thegarbz · · Score: 1

      Oh god. Finally someone who gets it. CONTEXT people. It matters!

    143. Re:I'm not surprised. by HornWumpus · · Score: 2

      If it wasn't for all the buttfucking and cocksucking, think how awesome it would be to be gay...'

      Joe Rogan.

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    144. Re:I'm not surprised. by Half-pint+HAL · · Score: 1

      I must be incredibly old-fashioned to think that getting to know someone, talking, finding common interests etc. should precede "Hey, wanna fuck me? My girlfriend is okay with it."

      Except that in an open relationship, I imagine getting to know someone you're sleeping with is probably not a good idea. Too many common interests with the bit on the side can lead to an unplanned change in relationship status.

      This, of course, doesn't excuse the guy -- it just makes it all the worse.

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    145. Re: I'm not surprised. by Half-pint+HAL · · Score: 2

      Sorry but I'm no SJW.

      I think you've misunderstood what SJW means -- it means someone who disagrees with the person using the term SJW on what is reasonable behaviour towards others.

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    146. Re:I'm not surprised. by Half-pint+HAL · · Score: 1

      As much as generic screennames want to post about how sexism is real in tech, most women in tech who are not a part of the cult debunk the sexism claims really quick. They are, of course, usually immediately assaulted by the cult the moment they do.

      Experience differs by company. The fact that some women never experience it doesn't mean that no women do.

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    147. Re: I'm not surprised. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      And Bill Gates & Melinda Gates... I don't know their story, and obviously, neither do you. This is a discussion about what this woman said happened at Uber.

      The case of Bill & Melinda Gates disproves your claim that "Any advance from a supervisor is UNWANTED".

      This is a thread debating your claim, and I have provided evidence that your claim is false.

    148. Re:I'm not surprised. by Half-pint+HAL · · Score: 2

      The bullshit is when you extrapolate these assholes to somehow mean the rest of the staff.

      We're not supposed to generalize against all Muslims, but somehow when one man does a shitty thing ALL MEN deserve to be reprimanded. That's a great way to create animosity. Force a man to be punished for something he didn't do.

      And reading through this entire thread and many of the comments on TFA, I have found a sum total of zero (0) people suggesting that all men should be blamed for this. Except the straw one in your post.

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    149. Re:I'm not surprised. by Fire_Wraith · · Score: 1

      Reading the whole post, the author definitely described a lot of sh*tty things that Uber allowed bosses to get away with that had nothing to do with gender, because they were "high performers". The example of secretly altering the employee's review after the fact, to prevent them from transferring out of the group, is a clear example. The guy who was bragging about actively sandbagging his boss to steal his job was another. In a corporate environment like that, once people learn that there's a group for whom the rules don't apply, all bets are off, including sexism and harrassment of all forms.

      Why does this happen? Probably because the higher-ups put pressure on HR in a few cases, and stressed that they wanted those people kept/protected at all costs. Probably because the company's legal department wasn't being involved, or being told to ignore it. Eventually the individual bosses in question realize they're not going to be punished for it, and start doing whatever they want. Their peers and others see it, and the problems expand from there.

    150. Re: I'm not surprised. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      OK, AC. First, this whole man v woman thing is in your head. I never said it was OK for a woman to harass a man. That's a complete straw man.

      Notice that I said, "You seem to be defining..." Since you aren't making your defintions very clear, I have no choice but to make a guess. And apparently, my guess was incorrect. Therefore, I will ask you directly: What definition are you using for sexual harassment?

    151. Re:I'm not surprised. by Calydor · · Score: 1

      Yeah, that's only a(nother) reason to NOT go looking in the workplace.

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    152. Re:I'm not surprised. by Attila+Dimedici · · Score: 1

      So you do not remember the people saying that it was "just sex"? The same people who only a few years earlier drive Senator Bob Packwood from office for much the same thing. Only when Senator Packwood had done what Bill Clinton did they said that it was always coercive when a man of his position had sex with an intern.

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    153. Re: I'm not surprised. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I think people who advocate violence and then try to claim it was hyperbole should be beaten to death with a brick.

      Also - when did "bad thing that happens to everybody regardless of gender" become sexist? That's kind of the opposite of sexist.

    154. Re:I'm not surprised. by Comrade+Ogilvy · · Score: 1

      Why? Why does this kind of culture crop up again and again in human history?

      I think because ruthless internal competition offsets some of the natural lethargy of a bureaucracy. It can serve the interests of whoever is on top, at least in the short term. If you have no talent for inspiring people you can at least set them against each other. But you'd be a fool to join such an organization at the bottom, knowing what it is, if you had any alternatives.

      I like how you mind works, BTW. It is an interesting question to ask.

      In the short term, as you point out, it does serve the personal power of those on the top. The ruthless backstabbing leaves those with real power apparent freedom to make completely arbitrary decisions at any time, by providing ammunition against everyone so there are scapegoats aplenty.

      In the long term, the culture of infighting becomes the de facto entrenched bureaucracy, where you re-create approximately all the usual negatives of bureaucracies. In TFA, we apparently have a manager that everyone is too scared to even give a good hard slap on the wrist, because he has played the politics well and has successfully carved out his fiefdom.

      Furthermore you fail to achieve the positive advantages of bureaucracies. In physics, inertia is a component of momentum whereby an organization has some degree of certainty that they can continue heading in a direction -- continuing to go sort of in the right direction is usually better than standing still or spinning in circles. That allows a company to make and keep promises, both to themselves and to their customers.

      The reported cowed HR, the fiefdoms, the nasty politics, the lying on reviews, the constant fear of re-orgs, the failed projects -- these do not sound like a cooked up list of accusations. They are very much self-consistent and self-reinforcing cultural behaviors that you would expect to find together in the same organization.

    155. Re: I'm not surprised. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Fucked up prima-donna gonna fuck up and prima-donna all ovah da place.

    156. Re: I'm not surprised. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      The higher ups applying pressure is the source of the toxicity.

      It's so unfortunate, because it would seem an easy cure to just snub out the source of the problem... yet the problem is the one in charge.

    157. Re:I'm not surprised. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      As much as Slashdot likes to believe that sexism is imaginary, this behavior is pretty common in tech. Frankly, I've seen worse.

      OK, so you start with the strawman that "Slashdot," whoever that is, likes to believe that sexism is imaginary.....

      That's not a strawman.
      straw man
      strô man/
      noun
      noun: strawman
      1. an intentionally misrepresented proposition that is set up because it is easier to defeat than an opponent's real argument.
      "her familiar procedure of creating a straw man by exaggerating their approach"
      2. a person regarded as having no substance or integrity.
      "a photogenic straw man gets inserted into office and advisers dictate policy"

      It could be a fallacy. But it can't be a strawman fallacy.

    158. Re:I'm not surprised. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Hmm... I remember getting harassment training when I got a direct report at my job. (Mandatory at my company) HR was very clear - managers were not to make any kind of sexual advance toward their employees. 100% not allowed at my company.

      The reason given is that it's extremely easy to create a hostile work environment claim - look at the mess that this guy's behavior caused. All of her performance review scores are called into question, the fairness of promotions, (huge morale hit if you get passed on for someone who's railing the boss) it goes on and on and on.

      Even if the guy was a saint with the best of intentions, this behavior all but creates a quid pro quo situation because of all the above. Even by the most horrible of angles - the HR "company first" department, this is a giant fucking mess. This guy better be the highest performer in the company, and even then they should move him away from the women - because otherwise there are gonna be a bunch of expensive lawsuits. In California, managers are considered the company for purposes of sexual harassment. And "manager" is defined as anyone with people reporting to them. So harassment from this guy makes it incredibly easy to nail the company with massive damages in court, because the moment he does something the company technically knew about it.

      Beyond this most basic level of duty, the company should be handling this by firing people or coaching them BEFORE they harass - because who the hell would want to work in such a toxic environment?

    159. Re:I'm not surprised. by serviscope_minor · · Score: 3, Insightful

      So you do not remember the people saying that it was "just sex"?

      You can find someone who will say anything if you look hard enough. "some people said it" does not equate to me saying it and as such, it's completely irrelevant.

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    160. Re:I'm not surprised. by Agiailotes · · Score: 0

      evidence

      hard evidence

      am I losing my fucking mind here? some one is.

      WHAT EVIDENCE?

    161. Re:I'm not surprised. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      This is news for nerds. Uber is a tech company, and the people that work there are nerds.

      I thought Über was a taxi company, and their employees were mostly taxi drivers?

    162. Re:I'm not surprised. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

      .HillaryRhodamClinton => ImWithHer.Still().Still().Still().Still().Still()

    163. Re: I'm not surprised. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      How can one know if it is unwanted until one asks?

      Um gee I don't know. How do I know you don't want to get your dick cut off until it happens?

      I am thinking you ask him.

      But seriously, there is a place for propositioning a person for sex and that is not the workplace. Neither of you are there for dating, you are there to work. You should not expect that anyone else around you is there to pick up sex partners.

      If he really wanted to proposition her for sex he would ask her to join him for an out-of-work get-together (dinner, drink, coffee, whatever) and then lay out his proposition there. Most likely, that first innocuous request for an extra-work meeting would have been denied and that would have also been the answer to the second, unasked question.

      See how easy that is? It's called being respectful toward your fellow human beings.

    164. Re:I'm not surprised. by Serge_Tomiko · · Score: 1

      As long as the UK has draconian anti-free speech laws, wankers like you will always come across as indoctrinated stooges of the most Orwellian state in history.

    165. Re:I'm not surprised. by epine · · Score: 3, Interesting

      Really? Then why was it OK when Bill Clinton had sex with an intern?

      The price of shame — March 2015

      At the age of 22, I fell in love with my boss, and at the age of 24, I learned the devastating consequences.

      The Republican weaponization of Clinton's misdeed was to claim that this behaviour made Bill unfit to govern. (If powerful men having extramarital affairs with young women was incompatible with leadership, well, the vast sweep of history does not so record.)

      Family values aside, the power imbalance creates the risk that Bill would abuse his immense power to cover up the vastly exaggerated blot on his record. The Republicans actually knew that anyone with an accurate base rate of human history / human culture would not regard his behaviour as incompatible with leadership—though a common and damning blot nevertheless, so the tactic was to escalate the stakes until Bill felt compelled to lie about it—which, unfortunately, was extremely easy to anticipate.

      Lying to formal body of review is considered incompatible with leadership, sort of, incrementally, since not all that long ago. For example, it barely extends as far back as the Reagan's Iran–Contra affair. (Some people roll with family values and view Clinton's offense as the worse offense. I happen to roll with geopolitical transparency, and so I view Reagan's offense as the worse offense—he appointed those clucks, and it was his ultimate responsibility to know all the big shit).

      Bill was plenty smart enough to figure out that the public perception battle would play out exactly as it did, leaving him boxed into a corner where he could—according to his established character—only choose to lie (perhaps he overestimated his power to blow off the investigation, but even there, had he succeeded, he would have mortgaged a sizeable fraction of his presidential energy in ruthlessly defending his momentary gratification).

      Clearly, his judgment in this matter fell short of the mark by any standard.

      However, I rate it not quite as bald as boasting about sexual harassment with a camera rolling. Whatever Bill purportedly said to Donald on the golf course (that was "far worse" in Donald's personal judgement), there was no film at eleven after the fact.

      The modern world contains a lot of cameras and microphones. Trump's world has contained many cameras and microphones since way back. A prudent man in his position wouldn't be openly bragging about his magical power to get away with sexual harassment just to impress Billy Bush. And it's not like Donald didn't have a front row vantage point on Bill sinking his own boat through which to consider and amend his own standard of personal conduct. Donald had every opportunity to know better, and the penny never dropped.

      So in summary, a whole lot of things are "not okay" but still the world largely spins as it has always done for thousands of years.

    166. Re:I'm not surprised. by serviscope_minor · · Score: 1

      How do you know he has any priors?

      Hypothetical example. You were claiming that I shouldn't judge until I know his motivation. I gave an example where that's clearly absurd. Perhaps you would care to tell me where the line it beyond which I can indeed make judgements.

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    167. Re:I'm not surprised. by Serge_Tomiko · · Score: 1

      You'd think after 20 years of slashdot, this virginal nerdism white knighting would have come to an end. Yet here it is.

    168. Re:I'm not surprised. by ShanghaiBill · · Score: 0

      I thought Über was a taxi company, and their employees were mostly taxi drivers?

      No. The drivers are not employees, they are contractors. TFA is not about drivers, it is about a W2 employee that worked as a reliability engineer.

    169. Re:I'm not surprised. by Dutch+Gun · · Score: 2

      1. Apparently the boss did not make sex a condition of continued employment.

      HR flat-out stated she'd have negative reviews if she chose to stay in the same group with him, and that there was nothing they could do about it. She could "choose" to transfer out of his group. I can't imagine a reasonable person believing this is not sexual harassment, dictionary definition aside.

      Bosses "holding her back" so that she couldn't get promoted and would be stuck in their department - which is a pretty standard thing to do to exceptional workers.

      I'd like to think that's only "standard" if you work in a toxic, shithole environment. Not to mention she believed he was holding her back from transfer specifically because it made his department look good to have more women in it. That's even a slightly deeper level of shithole, along with the fake poor reviews (which they wouldn't disclose to her) made behind her back meant to block her transfer.

      Anyhow, ignore the click-bait Slashdot title, because the sexism was only a part of the problem. Or rather, I'd call it symptomatic of a much larger problem. The woman's blog post was eye-opening and face-palming at the same time. The part about the leather jackets was... just amazing. I'd give it a read if you haven't yet (second link in the summary).

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    170. Re:I'm not surprised. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Ignoring the sexism, which doesn't apply to you, read her description of the corporate culture and tell me: does this sound like a place you'd like to work?

      I think it depends on the amount of pre-IPO stock options. If you can handle their toxic corporate culture, you will make decent money. If you can manipulate and use the culture to your advantage, you will make a lot more money.

    171. Re:I'm not surprised. by Attila+Dimedici · · Score: 1

      Only a few years before Bill Clinton did this, the DEMOCRATS has weaponized the same sort of misdeed to remove Senator Packwood from office. Actually that is not true, they had weaponized it before that and had used it against numerous public officials. Then when the Republicans tried to hold Bill Clinton to the standard the Democrats had established they started making the argument you are making. Of course, as soon as they believed that people had forgotten they attempted to go back to the weapon which had worked so well for them in the past.

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    172. Re:I'm not surprised. by Agiailotes · · Score: 1

      It's not absurd. What right do you have to assume you understand his motivation without any investigation? That's an aside. How is it logically sound to assume you understand his motivation without any investigation?

      For you, the area in which you can make judgements is delineated by your skin

    173. Re:I'm not surprised. by religionofpeas · · Score: 3, Insightful

      On the other hand, most of the really shitty jobs are done by men.

    174. Re:I'm not surprised. by Dread_ed · · Score: 3, Insightful

      One can hope that is the case now. I will relate a situation I was very close to at one of the VERY LARGE PETROLEUM companies that started with sexism and misogyny and ended in tragedy.

      In the mid 90's my father became romantically involved with a woman at work who was employed as an executive assistant in another department. As their relationship evolved she confided in him that not only was she the recipient of unwanted advances from a certain employee in the sales department, but she had heard from other female employees that they have been harassed, fondled, and even sexually assaulted by this person. Apparently his favorite tactic was to offer to take a young lady to lunch. Then he would mention having left his wallet at home and that they would stop there for a moment to get it. He would invite the young woman inside and then assault her. Management's response to this had been to move this salesperson around the US, kind of like the Catholic church did with pedophiles in their employ. This salesperson was a "high performer" and made the company significant profits, and was protected by the HR department and managers from retaliation.

      My father, having a firmly defined standard of fairness and an even more deeply entrenched allergy to injustice, decided to do something about this sexual predator. Over a period of almost 2 years he managed to use the internal electronic message board at the company to rally enough employees into speaking up and the man was eventually fired. In one of the craziest twists of fate ever this person ended up in my industry, working at my company as a salesperson. My father and I have the same exact name, sans the suffix so he had to know who I was.

      He also knew one of my coworkers. A stout christian woman, deeply involved in one of the largest churches in our city, and she vouched for his upright character, his beautiful wife and children, and their wonderful christian character. Then after about 4 months on the job he decided he had had enough. He left work in the middle of the day and went home with a purpose. He first killed their 19 year old nanny. It was later learned he had been having an affair with her. Then he killed his two children, 20 months and 3 months, followed by his wife, aged 36. All of them were murdered by stabbing. The police described it as a "very brutal, violent scene, lots of blood."

      After killing his family the scumbag in question stabbed himself, shot himself, and drank rat poison. When these methods of ending his life did not work he drove about 70 miles outside of town, parked his car on the side of the road, and stepped out in front of a 18 wheeler cruising down the freeway, thus ending his miserable life.

      I can only imagine how this situation might have developed differently if only the company he worked for had not decided to protect this awful human being from the consequences he deserved. Maybe if he had been fired right away with the first offense he would not have progressed to where he killed his entire family and then offed himself.

      Whatever the conditions were that eventually led to this, the initial seed of this problem was how he viewed people, especially women, around him. This was, I am sure, exacerbated by his company defending him. Maybe in his mind he thought he was entitled to do with women as he pleased. I don't know. Whatever the reasons are, I see this as a condemnation of sexist activity of this type, as it belies a lack of concern for and malice toward others that resulted in someone killing 4 people and then themselves.

      So, I would recommend to anyone who encounters this kind of activity, report it immediately. Don't feel flattered. Get evidence. Remove that person from the workplace immediately and hopefully place them in prison. You are dealing with a predator who does not care for you one bit. They see you as an object that they deserve. Something they can take, use, and discard without a flicker of emotion. Your life could be at stake. Or, maybe the lives of a couple of innocent children.

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    175. Re:I'm not surprised. by serviscope_minor · · Score: 1

      So if someone gets stabbed and their wallet stolen, you're really claiming that I can't make any judgements on the perp without having him say his piece?

      In other words, you're telling me I should judge people only on their words not their actions, which is kinda back to front.

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    176. Re:I'm not surprised. by rgmoore · · Score: 1

      Why does this kind of culture crop up again and again in human history?

      It's a very common way for insecure people to protect their positions. A person at the top is worried about being replaced by their subordinates, so they set their subordinates against each other. That way, the subordinates spend all their time on infighting rather than trying to replace the boss. You'll see this kind of thing all the time in dictatorships, but it shows up regularly with dictatorial managers of all stripes, too. It's one more variant on the old "divide and rule" strategy.

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    177. Re:I'm not surprised. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      This is simply because Democrats are actually better people than Republicans, its been proven time and time again.

    178. Re:I'm not surprised. by Agiailotes · · Score: 1

      No I'm telling you're (selectively?) illiterate.

      You're fucking retarded in any case.

      Yes, if you were smart, and you had any reason for judging the person, you would need to understand his history and motivation and thought in order to guide him and others that may be similar to a better path.

      but as it stands the only reason you have for judging is to add ballast to the ideology you blindly subscribe to. which is detrimental to humanity, whose foundations are rationality and objectivity.

    179. Re:I'm not surprised. by Half-pint+HAL · · Score: 1

      When women do it, they're 'empowered,' and criticism of that 'empowerment' is 'sexism.'

      {citation needed}

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    180. Re:I'm not surprised. by Agiailotes · · Score: 0

      Look at my interaction with you for example. I've explained why you're wrong and i've judged you to be fucking retarded. I hope that you have enough sense to see that you are factually wrong and that the verbal lashing piggypacks on this realization and drives it deeper into your thick skull

    181. Re: I'm not surprised. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Yes and no, not completely required

      https://www.eeoc.gov/laws/type...

      Harassment can include “sexual harassment” or unwelcome sexual advances, requests for sexual favors, and other verbal or physical harassment of a sexual nature.

    182. Re: I'm not surprised. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Not according to the uk gov they aren't

    183. Re:I'm not surprised. by datbagelboi · · Score: 0

      Illegal why? This is not a court case, she has not sued anybody. This is just her word against a company with no evidence and no evidence that she has intention to take this to a court. I can dismiss her claims as quickly as she makes them when no evidence is supplied.

    184. Re: I'm not surprised. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Sorry but, women are the biggest liars and drama makers. Lets see the chat.

      And btw, as a man, I had an older women manager try to pick up on me everyday. Always giving me compliments about my appearance and tell me how she was single and hadn't had sex in over a year.

      People get desperate and do weird shit. Calling hr will only ever make it worse. If you complain you better follow it through all the way with lawyers. Or its not serious.

      That's why they didn't do anything. The women wants to ruin the mans careerr for this? Get perspective. Same as rape fraud. It ruins the guys life.

      Until women can stop lying about every little thing and stop exaggerating every situation, we don't listen anymore.

      You girls cried wolf too much.

    185. Re:I'm not surprised. by Dread_ed · · Score: 1

      Agreed. However, one caveat presents itself, please don't shoot the messenger or blame the devil's advocate.

      If these comments were sent subsequent to a verbal conversation between the two that included some kind of signaling that this subject matter would be acceptable...well, this would be a very different situation.

      I am not saying this is what happened. I am not saying that if it is what happened it would not be incredibly stupid to fall for this. What I am pointing to is that there are a number of circumstances that could make this guy out to look quite a bit worse and more guilty than he actually is.

      I am not defending him. Just remember that there are more than 2 sides to an issue. What you hear from the participants is definitely not the full truth.

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    186. Re: I'm not surprised. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Amy, we really see comments based on gender lines here. All the girls rally without seeing proof. All the guys that have seen girls FALsly ruin guys life's by fake claims, exaggerated stories and hearsay.

      Maybe this girl did some stuff during her interview to the manager to get the job. It is very common. Then after hired, she changes her position. I seen it so many times. Women during interviews basically acting like its a date. They do it because it works on many (desperate) guys. If she did this, if, she damn deserves the non physical , non aggressive , little pickup lines chat

      Which was all indirect. If he was abusing power, he would ask for lunch meetings and after work projects together. Get a clue you child minded adults.

    187. Re: I'm not surprised. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      And if she picked up on him, it would be ok? Girls power? Lol.

      And you get pulled over (doing something wrong), then get asked.

      Not even the same. She wasn't under duress via the chat. Get a clue you child minded adults.

    188. Re:I'm not surprised. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Finally, it wasn't actually his first offense, that was just a lie told by HR. Because HR is not your friend. Get that part straight right now. They work for the company and their job is to smooth the rough, pacify the angry, and meet legal requirements. It is not to help you.

      Many people have to learn this lesson the hard way. The typical response is to just fire anyone involved. Reprimand those they want to keep. Then send them to 'training' and call it a day. Their job is to make the shareholders happy. Not the peons who work for them.

    189. Re: I'm not surprised. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      But she was wearing a very loose fitting shit during the interviews with him and sitting very closely and touching him during the interview. Like it was a date. This is why he thought she was interested.

    190. Re:I'm not surprised. by serviscope_minor · · Score: 2

      You're fucking retarded in any case.

      Truly, your argument is devastating.

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    191. Re: I'm not surprised. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Problematic = SJW dog whistle keyword. Nobody else uses the term.

      Wrong.
      Old guy here. The use of the word "problematic" for inappropriate work relationships long predates the existence of the term "SJW". I heard it used back in the days when the only objection to boning the secretary was that is was adultery, and that divorce was so shameful that it could be a career killer. That was a long time ago.

    192. Re: I'm not surprised. by Gilgaron · · Score: 1

      Oh, no, that wouldn't be ok either. This is all standard employment practice, although they may not enforce it so much at Arby's.

    193. Re:I'm not surprised. by hey! · · Score: 3, Insightful

      I'll go farther: everyone has bad days where they do things they shouldn't do. Especially in matters of the heart and loosely affiliated organs. I'm not a big fan of knee-jerk firing in response to an accusation.

      It's the inevitability of this that means an organization needs to be prepared to handle problems like this, and that's the problem here: the organization, not the supervisor. If the atmosphere described here is accurate, then management and HR aren't doing their jobs.

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    194. Re:I'm not surprised. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I am a guy, and even i was victim of sexism attacks...Go figure.

    195. Re:I'm not surprised. by Dread_ed · · Score: 1

      It is a huge problem. Hit on a supervisor in conversation. Lay it on thick. Get sexual in your tone and meaning. Then just wait for the texts to come from your boss with the same tone and meaning.

      BINGO! You just won the sexual harassment lottery! If you think subordinates don't have power you are as stupid as the guy in the summary.

      I am VERY married, but if I weren't and were looking for a fun partner I would eschew the workplace completely. There are too many crazy immature money hungry spiteful degenerates that will lie to you, set you up, and cash your ass in for a meal ticket without a second thought.

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    196. Re: I'm not surprised. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      That is a good way to lose your job or even get blacklisted. In my experience both the harasser and harassee get fired because the company doesn't want to risk another incident. Makes sense, especially if you don't know for sure whether it's legit or someone trying to get someone they don't like in trouble. Both are a liability and both have to go.

    197. Re:I'm not surprised. by Agiailotes · · Score: 0

      When you're as retarded as you are, I guess reality is no object, just pick the part you want to respond to.

      You'll be in a camp soon

    198. Re:I'm not surprised. by hey! · · Score: 1

      This is true. Authoritarian leaders often make a point of forcing their high-ranking subordinates to embarrass themselves too, which prevents and subordinates from gaining popular support.

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    199. Re:I'm not surprised. by Half-pint+HAL · · Score: 2

      Illegal why? This is not a court case, she has not sued anybody.

      Exactly -- this is not a court case. She gained all that material during the course of her employment, and therefore does not have ownership of the IP. She is allowed to release it to court, but in all likelihood publishing it would technically be a breach of copyright, and that's where the story would get twisted.

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    200. Re: I'm not surprised. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

      What am I supposed to do for the other hour and 58 minutes?

    201. Re: I'm not surprised. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Wooosh.
      That's the sound of the statements fly over your head. The point is that women in an all or mostly female environment can act as questionably as men in an all or mostly male environment.

    202. Re:I'm not surprised. by Shotgun · · Score: 3, Informative

      The Republican weaponization of Clinton's misdeed was to claim that this behaviour made Bill unfit to govern.

      Jeesh! Are Democrats STILL spreading that lie!?

      The "weaponization" was about Bill Clinton LYING under oath about this example of sexual harassment in a court case about a previous example of sexual harassment. He lost his law license and paid a $600,000 fine for his infraction (if I'm remembering correctly).

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    203. Re: I'm not surprised. by sysrammer · · Score: 1

      Nice pivot!

      Ultimately, it's all about sexism. Having two sexes to propagate the race are the facts on the ground.

      --
      His ignorance covered the whole earth like a blanket, and there was hardly a hole in it anywhere. - Mark Twain
    204. Re:I'm not surprised. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Link to news story, I would like read more about the circumstances.

    205. Re:I'm not surprised. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Congratulations - you're a corporate whore.

      Yay?

    206. Re:I'm not surprised. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0
    207. Re: I'm not surprised. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 2, Informative

      Screenshots and formal written complaints, to start with.

    208. Re: I'm not surprised. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      When someone asks you to snitch they're frequently doing it for their own gain and not yours. They're looking for a club to beat someone with and you actually make a decent club if you hold still. Two people will walk out battered and it's easy to replace broken clubs.

      Don't become a pawn in somebody else's powergames.

    209. Re:I'm not surprised. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Considering I am the AC and unmarried you are asking the wrong person. Note the person who brought their wife into this was posting as an actual user, I only post AC. Therefore you have made yet another unfounded and unreasonable assumption. Good job slugger.

    210. Re:I'm not surprised. by K.+S.+Kyosuke · · Score: 1

      Sexism may not be imaginary, but there doesn't appear to be any in the summary anyway. Just some harassment.

      --
      Ezekiel 23:20
    211. Re:I'm not surprised. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      You keep acting as if Bob Packwood was the first. Nope.

      Fuck man, maybe you forgot Gary Hart and the like, but how much do you expect us to believe you when you're acting all handwringingly aggrieved about something with a long history in politics?

      Maybe you need to check your memory.

    212. Re:I'm not surprised. by Dread_ed · · Score: 1

      What you just described is where I start to (against my better judgement) veer into support for zero-tolerance policies. If you have a policy you need to stand by it continuously, without fail, for managers, VP's, janitors, and everyone in between. The first slip in application tells your employees that your policies are without merit, merely lip service to doing the right thing, and that integrity and honesty are not core components of the company's management. From that point it's just a free-fall to the bottom of the ethical ladder as your culture has been undermined by your shortsighted mismanagement.

      Interestingly enough, if you consistently apply good policies without regard to persons and positions you can be a complete fucking scumbag with shit for brains and your employees will think you a genius paragon of virtue. Just put the rules out there for everyone, starting day one, with frequent reminders. Then uphold those policies militantly.

      If however, you have an HR department that covers for management, ignores employees complaints, doesn't even maintain it's own policies against harassment, and won't even allow for people to move departments when they are in jeopardy of being harassed by a superior they get what they deserve, which is a metric shit ton of bad press and eventual insolvency.

      --
      When the only tool you have is a claw hammer every problem starts to look like the back of someone's skull.
    213. Re:I'm not surprised. by Cederic · · Score: 1

      Then they compound the stupidity by telling her to expect a bad review from this guy because she brought this up. This pretty much is an admission that HR and management countenance unprofessionalism, allowing managers to use employee reviews to pursue personal issues rather than evaluating the employee's contribution to the company.

      In the UK retributive action against someone for raising a grievance is illegal.

      A proposition isn't illegal or even actionable. It's just crass, bad manners, stupid and fucking terrible management. Strange that HR think this guy is a high-flyer with a management style like that.

    214. Re: I'm not surprised. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Cry

    215. Re:I'm not surprised. by kinthalas · · Score: 1

      Unless, you know, you are the target of it. Then it's probably exactly as bad of a situation as this story claims.

      If the entire office thinks "she doesn't belong," then it doesn't matter what happens, because the gossip is just going to continue to be "she doesn't belong."

      Side note: fuck you for dismissing this. You are not helping.

    216. Re: I'm not surprised. by HornWumpus · · Score: 0

      I told this one old hag that unless she pulled down her 'hot men's butts' calendar, I was going to come into work with about 50% of my butt stuffed into a speedo. It was down the next day.

      --
      John McAfee 'It was like that time I hired that Bangkok prostitute; to do my taxes, while I fucked my accountant'
    217. Re: I'm not surprised. by s.petry · · Score: 0, Troll

      Which are alleged to exist but nothing, not even a redacted screen shot, was provided. Have you links to Screenshots and Formal complaints that TFA does not provide, or are you just trolling?

      --

      -The wise argue that there are few absolutes, the fool argues that there are no probabilities.

    218. Re:I'm not surprised. by Cederic · · Score: 1

      Yeah. I had an approach from a young attractive subordinate and immediately went to HR for their guidance on how to respond.

      I want her to be happy in the office and feel wanted.. just not that wanted.

      HR were (surprisingly) fucking useless. "How do you feel?" Well, I'm a single bloke in my 40s and she's an attractive intelligent woman in her 20s, I feel pretty fucking flattered. That's not really the point though is it.

    219. Re: I'm not surprised. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Take a lesson: If a woman offers you pussy during a job interview, fuck her, then and there. Then don't hire her.

    220. Re: I'm not surprised. by HornWumpus · · Score: 1

      Or the White house, when a Clinton is in power.

      --
      John McAfee 'It was like that time I hired that Bangkok prostitute; to do my taxes, while I fucked my accountant'
    221. Re:I'm not surprised. by AK+Marc · · Score: 1

      A guy working in a company with almost all guys will likely not see the worst of the worst. That a male hasn't been sexually harassed doesn't mean that the environment isn't sexist.

      I've witnessed worse behavior. Direct insults by the management to anyone who talked to the "cute girl" with unofficial "she's mine" overtones. Like shouting and threats of firing for talking to her. I manged to find this out when she ended up at the water cooler at the same time as me, and I casually asked her about her day. The manager walked past and insulted my genitalia loud enough for everyone in the building to hear, with the intention of making it clear that nobody talks to her but him. She later quit, because working there was miserable when the only person "allowed" to talk to her was an abusive jerk.

      Though, I quit before her, because the environment was so toxic. No gossip needed, I was sexually harassed by the management with many witnesses.

    222. Re:I'm not surprised. by AK+Marc · · Score: 1

      I've seen worse. Those who haven't, generally seem to have worked in more unisex environments. You didn't see it happen to women, because your environment was so toxic that no women were there.

    223. Re:I'm not surprised. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Frankly, I've seen worse in Sweden with the refugee crisis.

    224. Re:I'm not surprised. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Its quite funny to watch. The nerds at work trying to chat up the cute blond receptionist girl, wasting time with carefully constructed pointless conversations about nothing. Its so obvious, and it gets noticed.

      Just like the slackers that chat on Slack all day about nothing, sometimes complaining about the company they work for on company time rather than doing some work. Some companies might ignore it, some don't :-)

      Come time for pay rises, and promotions, its evident who's useful and who's going nowhere.

    225. Re:I'm not surprised. by EEPROMS · · Score: 1

      Same here I've been in the IT industry for close on 30 years and to be honest I have hardly seen any sexism from fellow male staff, even from the sales staff and that was a surprise. In fact I have seen more sexist comments from women than men during my working life. I have seen middle aged women going up to a young cadet engineer and thinking it is funny to plonk her arse on his lap just to see his shocked face. When I was a cadet engineer I used to work out to help be deal with anger issues and I got pretty big (I was a very angry young man). As you can imagine after a year I got pretty fit then I had all this sexist shit from the female staff. Seriously ladies you may think it's ok but seriously I was engaged at the time and pretty well looked after sexually by my partner so you were just an annoyance. The sad part is women get a free pass for being sexist in the work place but men don't. so I call double standards. BTW its funny the more I ignored the women the more sexual crap I had to deal with, seriously women are their own worst enemy.

    226. Re: I'm not surprised. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      "Women just aren't good at the same things as men". (5 Insightful)
      "That's usually something white men say." (-1 Flamebait)
      "ACTUALLY REVERSE RACISM". (9001 A god among us)

    227. Re:I'm not surprised. by AK+Marc · · Score: 1

      I have not observed Saturn, yet I refrain from pointing out it's lack of existence to anyone that claims it exists.

      Evidence has been provided of specific incidents, no contrary evidence has been provided. So why is your default position to be to disbelieve all the provided evidence, and apparently heavily weight the non-provided exculpatory evidence?

      That stance is not based in science.

    228. Re:I'm not surprised. by martinX · · Score: 1

      That's absolutely shocking. I'm going to try and save this link somewhere for future reference.

      --
      When they came for the communists, I said "He's next door. Take him away. Goddam commies."
    229. Re:I'm not surprised. by TimothyHollins · · Score: 1

      I have not observed Saturn, yet I refrain from pointing out it's lack of existence to anyone that claims it exists.

      Why would you equate 'I cannot assert it exists' with 'I can definitely assert it does not exist'. Do you not understand that these are different?

      As to why we should disbelieve, it's simple. The source of the news is untrustworthy, the publisher of the news has a strong reputation for posting slanted and biased articles, and combined with the fact that the "enemy" is Uber (which journo's love to rail on these days) it all points to an "opinion" piece to show the dirty masses that Uber is evil.
      I wouldn't trust Fox News on the time of day, I wouldn't trust The Rolling Stone on campus rapes, and I don't trust the Verge on this. Given how polarized media is getting and how easy it is to spot, I'd say only a fool takes this article at face value. Heck, the final line in the summary states "Journalist Paul Carr summing up the situation, says, "Uber's ability to be on the wrong side of every moral and ethical issue is bordering on magical.". If that doesn't scream out loud "we have chosen our side" I don't know what does.

    230. Re:I'm not surprised. by Dread_ed · · Score: 1

      Shocking was finding out after the fact from my father who this guy was. While we worked together I had no idea he had worked with my father, I only knew he had worked for the same LARGE PETROLEUM COMPANY before he started at the company I worked for. There were many layoffs in the petroleum sector during this time and he wasn't the only person from the petroleum industry to come work for us.

      It was quite chilling to realize this guy knew who my father was, who I was, and was mentally unstable enough to kill his whole family. He could have started with me.

      --
      When the only tool you have is a claw hammer every problem starts to look like the back of someone's skull.
    231. Re:I'm not surprised. by Dread_ed · · Score: 1

      There's only two choices:

      1) Run screaming.

      2) Quit and bang her brains out.

      --
      When the only tool you have is a claw hammer every problem starts to look like the back of someone's skull.
    232. Re:I'm not surprised. by AK+Marc · · Score: 1

      Why would you equate 'I cannot assert it exists' with 'I can definitely assert it does not exist'. Do you not understand that these are different?

      I do. You obviously don't. Your words are supporting a default position of disbelief. That is asserting it does not exist, not asserting you don't have an opinion on the matter.

      As to why we should disbelieve, it's simple.

      Ah, so in the absence of evidence, you assert it does not exist, in direct contradiction to your earlier lies.

      The source of the news is untrustworthy,

      So you disbelieve Uber's position that she's not full of lies? Why do you think Uber is so full of lies?

      It's not just on the source, but the actions of others. She made quite factual assertions about specific facts. If she's lying, she'll be sued to oblivion. If she's not, she (and Uber) will have documents to support claims. She made a complaint to HR on her first day. You think that's a lie. You are positively definitely asserting it does not exist. The "scientific" response is, a single observation of a single event doesn't make a rule. The generalization of her complaint to all startups is invalid. The generalizatoin of her complaint to all women or men within Uber would be invalid.

      But simply disbelieving her because you find complaints of sexism to be inconvenient is scientifically invalid.

      You are entitled to your opinion, but don't lie about science to justify it.

    233. Re:I'm not surprised. by joe_frisch · · Score: 1

      When you saw worse, did you act to stop it?

    234. Re: I'm not surprised. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      You'd have to be the sort of loser who agrees to an "open relationship" in the first place, giving your girlfriend carte blanche to get rammed by strange dick on the reg when you personally have no prospects lined up.

    235. Re: I'm not surprised. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Exactly. As if a men's rights organization is inherently illegitimate.

      Can anything be more sexist?

    236. Re:I'm not surprised. by z0idberg · · Score: 2

      If a manager propositioned someone on day one there would be quite a lot of people who know about it

      How? A manager propositions a staff member. That's two people that know about it. The manager isn't going to tell anyone (unless he is an idiot as well as a lowlife slimeball). Why would you assume the staff member would tell anyone other than a confidential report to HR and upper management. Unless either of them are grossly unprofessional then that report shouldn't reach office gossip level.

    237. Re:I'm not surprised. by haruchai · · Score: 1

      Only a few years before Bill Clinton did this, the DEMOCRATS has weaponized the same sort of misdeed to remove Senator Packwood from office

      In the specific case of Bob Packwood, a cursory amount of research & a few trips down memory lane show that to be false.
      Between Nov 92 and Aug 93, first the Washington Post, then the LA Times and New York Times published quite a bit about Packwood's sexual misdeeds, for an initial total of 10 women dating back to 1989.
      Packwood was hardly a Democratic target as he was a strong supporter of women's issues and the initial reaction from feminists was sheer disbelief.
      And WaPo held off on publishing their story until after the election.

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      Pain is merely failure leaving the body
    238. Re:I'm not surprised. by monkease · · Score: 1

      How the fuck is this cunt's blog NEWS?

      Yeah, how does anyone still think that misogyny is rampant in tech circles?

      ...

      Seriously. Jesus.

    239. Re:I'm not surprised. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Bull. The "real sciences" are constantly making claims about things that can't be observed directly. Dark matter, lines of force, epicycles, phlogiston, etc. Some concepts turn out to be productive and some don't. But ultra-pure empiricism doesn't exist.

    240. Re: I'm not surprised. by epyT-R · · Score: 0

      Popularity or lack thereof has no bearing on the argument's strength. If you don't agree with a popular argument, then by all means, refute it and score a +5 of your own. What are you worried about?

    241. Re:I'm not surprised. by haruchai · · Score: 1

      Correction: accusations against Packwood dated back to 1969, not 1989

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      Pain is merely failure leaving the body
    242. Re:I'm not surprised. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      But he didn't even commit an offense. He asked if she wanted to have sex. If nobody ever asked this question, well we would either have no children and die out, or we would have a horrible society where every child is born of rape.

      How fucked up does Silicon Valley society have to be that asking a normal everyday question like "would you be interested in having sex" is considered harassment?

    243. Re:I'm not surprised. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      This is completely true. My manager used to grab my ass all the time at the previous company I worked for. She couldn't get through her head that I'm married so I had to leave.

    244. Re:I'm not surprised. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

      Yea. So the problem is the world no longer matches biological instincts and desires. No wonder we have so many suicides and forever-alones. When the mere idea of politely asking a woman if she would like to have sex or start a relationship can wind you up in jail or unemployed, you just sit there nervously at your desk, growing old and wishing every day you were dead instead of having to endure this legally enforced isolation and loneliness.

      Secretaries used to be promoted to wives, and everyone was happy. Now every time men try and give women what they want, it's some manner of harrassment or misogyny. Women end up becoming spinsters or trying to find guys in horrible places like halls of alcohol abuse (bars), and wonder why they can never find a good guy in a bar. If you make an advance on a women anywhere other than a bar, you're pretty much automatically labelled a rapist.

      Everyone is super unhappy because of this state of affairs, yet you still have people pushing to make the rules even more kafkaesque. Go figure.

    245. Re:I'm not surprised. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Now that's just mean.

    246. Re:I'm not surprised. by drinkypoo · · Score: 1

      Repercussions for rejecting advances are already against the law. That's what needs to be enforced, not blocking the initial advance.

      No. The initial advance can be enough to create a hostile work environment, especially when it is from a superior.

      --
      "You're right," Fisheye says. "I should have set it on 'whip' or 'chop.'"
    247. Re:I'm not surprised. by drinkypoo · · Score: 1

      Except that in an open relationship, I imagine getting to know someone you're sleeping with is probably not a good idea. Too many common interests with the bit on the side can lead to an unplanned change in relationship status.

      I recently joined a poly group with 30,000 members on Fb to get more info on what it's really all about and what I've learned is that there is some of everything out there, and there's a label for everything. And there's people whose relationships are at all levels of openness from completely, to completely rules-based. And there's examples of each of these both succeeding and failing, or doing one and then the other... or vice versa.

      --
      "You're right," Fisheye says. "I should have set it on 'whip' or 'chop.'"
    248. Re:I'm not surprised. by Agiailotes · · Score: 1

      Probably because of the incredibly low threshold of their confirmation bias and general cognitive deficiencies

    249. Re:I'm not surprised. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      You posted that *after* AmiMoJo had already posted to the discussion. Nice going, smart guy.

    250. Re:I'm not surprised. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      What it is true is that women and men put with much crap at work. However man do not get to cry sexism, or I am being persecuted because I am a man. Bollocks.

    251. Re: I'm not surprised. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      There is no evidence. Nothing to see, move along now. No idea why "Uber CEO Travis Kalanick said the company would "conduct an urgent investigation" into the allegations, and promised to fire anyone who "behaves this way or thinks this is OK." rather than suing her libellous ass. Complete waste of time if you ask me.

    252. Re: I'm not surprised. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Maybe... just maybe... you only noticed the sexism directed at you or your gender?

    253. Re:I'm not surprised. by Xenographic · · Score: 1

      I won't make any claims about who, but it's definitely organized. I watched a post on another story go down from +5 last night to a bunch of overrated all in a row.

    254. Re: I'm not surprised. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Maybe keep the sexual suggestions out of the professional workplace?

    255. Re: I'm not surprised. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Problematic is still an SJW dog whistle. If you're not a leftist, then please stop using the term. It needs to go on the ash heap of history along with colored, phrenology, eugenics, and all the others.

      You're still wrong. It's only a dog whistle to you.
      If you're only aware of the usage of that phrase in a SJW context, that means you're ignorant, and also that you spend too much time in SJW conversations, which is bad for you (or anyone).
      Here's some uses of the phrase "problematic relationship" in context. Study them and don't get back to us with what you learned.

      http://www.su.se/english/research/2.11761/political-corruption-and-campaign-contributions-1.62029

      http://www.nytimes.com/2013/07/25/world/asia/biden-urges-closer-cooperation-with-indias-business-elite.html

      http://www.forbes.com/sites/alexandrawrage/2013/02/20/tips-and-bribes-not-the-same-thing/#1e76ac2b71e8

      http://www.jpost.com/Opinion/Editorials/Olmerts-conviction-347064

      http://www.acfe.com/fraud-examiner.aspx?id=4294972428

      https://litigation-essentials.lexisnexis.com/webcd/app?action=DocumentDisplay&crawlid=1&doctype=cite&docid=14+Fla.+St.+U.L.+Rev.+949&srctype=smi&srcid=3B15&key=41281d6d0b7ec9b2d3bdc7311f366272

    256. Re: I'm not surprised. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Maybe not on the first day either. Let them settle in a bit before starting the sexual advances.

    257. Re:I'm not surprised. by Xenographic · · Score: 1

      The consensual sex only came to light because of the sexual harassment that Bill settled. Bill was disbarred for not telling the whole truth about having sex with underlings when they were discussing whether Bill expected to get sex from his interns as part of the discussion of whether he had created a hostile workplace.

      But you would prefer to just ignore the women for whom it was non-consensual, right? Unlike this case, both sides had their day in court long ago. Bill settled it out of court after a number of adverse actions, including the one that got Bill disbarred.

    258. Re:I'm not surprised. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      You're clearly arguing with a Trump voter.

    259. Re: I'm not surprised. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Everyone is a fucking tech company these days. This story is here because the word Uber in the headline draws people like flies on shit.

    260. Re:I'm not surprised. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Worse? This is bad enough to get most companies closed down by the courts. The Uber mafia must have some excellent 'connections' to keep going and keep flaunting.

    261. Re:I'm not surprised. by tsotha · · Score: 1

      It is pretty clear that the majority view at this point on Slashdot is that sexism is either imaginary, overrated, or just something women should put up with because essentially any measure to correct it is anti-men, or anti-equality, or affirmative action, or quota management, or whatever.

      Might have something to do with the frequency of which these kinds of allegations turn out to be imaginary or overrated. In this case so far all we have is an allegation.

    262. Re:I'm not surprised. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Well first thanks for reading at 0, or perhaps even -1 in a bit. It shows you got more than just two neurons rubbing together. I don't
      know about you but for me this liberal sexisms bullshit is getting old and I frankly do not give a fuck. Most likely the story is even
      completely contrived on that woman's part (if she is even for real, who knows). Hey I voted for Trump, you probably did too though
      of course it's not wise to talk about it here in the People's Republic of California. Anyhow soon we wont have to put up with any of
      this liberal SJW snowflake bullshit at all anymore. These people are on their way out the door, they know it too and they are clawing
      at everything to prolong the inevitable.

      I think a more interesting story to talk about would be: I voted for Donald Trump, I'm sick of this liberal bullshit, women do not make
      less money than men and all lives matter, there are only two genders male and female you can find out what you are in the bathroom,
      but if my work knew how I really think they might fire me.

    263. Re: I'm not surprised. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      First impressions count. If he left it until later, he could end up in the friend zone.

    264. Re: I'm not surprised. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Your username is written above every post. And who the fuck says rgds?

    265. Re: I'm not surprised. by Jon+Peterson · · Score: 0

      Which are alleged to exist but nothing, not even a redacted screen shot, was provided

      Yes, if it's not provided, it doesn't exist. Remember that. I've never seen the negatives from the moon landing photos. Oh sure, journalists *tell* me they exist, but so what. I've never seen the *hard* evidence.

      Same with Apple having an HQ in California. I've never been there. I've never met anyone who has. I've seen photos of some buildings, but they could have been anywhere.

      Thing is, you're focussing on this specific case. You need to see the bigger picture. The Internet is digital, so anything on it can be trivially faked. If it's not something you want to believe, you have NO MORAL REASON TO BELIEVE IT. The Internet provides such poor evidence for anything, you can pretty much ignore it. In fact, I strongly suggest you ignore the entire Internet from now on. Please. It would really help us both.

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    266. Re:I'm not surprised. by Kartu · · Score: 1

      No, the problem for Clinton was that he lied in court about his relationships with Monica Lewinski.

      He got away with it claiming that brief sexual encounter he had with her was not "sexual relationship".

      Adultery as such, was none of congress's business, it's solely Mrs Clinton's area.

    267. Re: I'm not surprised. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I was under

    268. Re:I'm not surprised. by datbagelboi · · Score: 1

      This is just totally untrue. How would a company have IP rights over evidence of harassment collected by an individual. The worst they could do is claim defamation, however this would fall down in court if she could prove it was true, was an honest opinion and was released for the benefit of the general public.

    269. Re: I'm not surprised. by pixel+sorceress · · Score: 1

      ...Well that's embarrassing. Started writing a post on my phone, decided to abandon it and do it on my (logged in) laptop instead, and it looks like I accidentally hit the post button on the phone. God damned touch screens. Anyway!

      I was under the impression the AC above was quoting those two comments and scores (and creating a third satirical pair) to illustrate the prevalent and popular attitudes amongst Slashdot commenters, rather than trying to imply that the scores actually said anything about the "correctness" of the comment. Which is a perfectly valid correlation. Making such an observation - "the prevalent attitudes of group X are Y" - doesn't even inherently come with any judgement over whether Y is a reasonable attitude to hold or not, it's simply a statement of fact.

    270. Re:I'm not surprised. by serviscope_minor · · Score: 1

      Bro, read a dictionary. You are confusing hyperbole with actions.

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      SJW n. One who posts facts.
    271. Re:I'm not surprised. by Paul+Jakma · · Score: 1

      A manager propositioning subordinates is essentially always wrong.

      Even in some unlikely situation where the subordinate had unambiguously and clearly been signalling sexual interest in the manager, over a sustained period of time, the manager would be _very_ ill-advised to enter into non-professional relations while the employee was a subordinate or the employee's career could in any way be perceived to be influenceable by the manager. The manager should just not go there, full stop.

      In this specific case, she'd been there one day, so we can rule out that highly unlikely scenario, and conclude that if such a proposition was made it was clear misconduct.

      Mature, large companies (least, that I'm familiar with) have fairly strict rules banning relations between managers and subordinates for very good reason. Precisely because such relations are very likely to be unhealthy and improper: For the manager, for the subordinate, for other subordinates of the manager, and for the company.

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    272. Re:I'm not surprised. by Paul+Jakma · · Score: 1

      Asking subordinates for sex is wrong. That there was no explicit threat made against her if she rejected does not make it acceptable.

      If you think otherwise, well most of the rest of society disagrees with you in many parts of the western world: a manager who does the above _must_ be disciplined (in some meaningful way), or else the company has opened itself up to legal liabilities. A company that ignores multiple such complaints against a manager is going to find itself paying out a lot money when it loses the inevitable employment law court case.

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    273. Re:I'm not surprised. by Paul+Jakma · · Score: 1

      "IP" is a bogus, meaningless term. What do you actually mean? Copyright? There are fair use exceptions to copyright in the USA, and fair dealing allowed uses in other parts. Note that in the USA, reproducing copyrighted material for the purpose of "criticism" may be considered fair use.

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    274. Re:I'm not surprised. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      thats what happens when techno brands get too big and stop hiring all nerds, an all nerd team, equipped with heavy glasses, fedoras and stuff like that, would never ever have the balls to even suggest something like that to a girl

      but you have to make decissions, i mean, i would never ever ask something like that to a girl, but i have a defined personal oddor you would not like either, so you would have to pick between being sexually harassed daily by some asshole or smelling a decent fella like me all day long. Ive been told im also hard to look at so theres that on top of the other too...

      decisions, decisions

    275. Re:I'm not surprised. by mjwx · · Score: 1

      generic_rebuttal

      Nonsensical_statement_regarding_plankton.

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    276. Re:I'm not surprised. by Raenex · · Score: 1

      "Bro", read what I said.

    277. Re:I'm not surprised. by mjwx · · Score: 1

      Maybe you don't see it since you are not the target of it.

      This.

      In my experience, sexism is rife amongst environments where one sex is dominant. Same with race, religion and any other popular form of discrimination. Any mono-cultural environment breeds contempt of outsiders like a virus, or maybe that should be inbreeds. This is less of a problem in countries where minorities are permitted to participate in society (and as a result, integrate) but I've seen as serious resurgence of racism and xenophobia in all western countries of late, which is a shame as we had practically eliminated it in the 90's and 00's, at least in Australia.

      I think a lot of people like to ignore these behaviours because it doesn't involve them and it's more trouble to fight than to ignore them in the workplace.

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    278. Re:I'm not surprised. by mjwx · · Score: 1

      Speaking as a student of the real sciences, when we cannot observe something we cannot make claims about it being there.

      Conversely, when you haven't observed something, you cannot make claims about it not being there.

      Absence of evidence is not evidence of absence. If you were a student of "real" sciences, you'd know that of course.

      And as always, you'd never let your biases get in the way of revealing an uncomfortable truth.

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    279. Re:I'm not surprised. by mjwx · · Score: 1

      1. Apparently the boss did not make sex a condition of continued employment. He's her boss. That's ALWAYS implied or always the risk.

      Really? Then why was it OK when Bill Clinton had sex with an intern?

      If you don't already know the answer to that... you should stay away from women.

      Because it was consensual.

      Being a boss does not automatically prevent you from propositioning a lower ranked employee. In fact I've seen a few relationships like this where both parties were happy. What would be wrong is the boss using their position to coerce an employee into a relationship or sexual act against their will... or conversely a subordinate using it to gain favour. Although both sides can abuse it, it is considered worse when a boss uses an employee because of the position of power they hold over them.

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    280. Re:I'm not surprised. by mjwx · · Score: 1

      Actually I think her first response should have been to knock out his teeth.

      Ladies and gentlemen, this is sexism in action. No one - certainly not this poster - would suggest that a man should knock out a woman's teeth for propositioning him, no matter how inappropriate it might be. But violence against a man for the same cause is apparently perfectly acceptable.

      Nope, this just demonstrates you dont know what sexism is.

      Sexism is not a difference between the sexes, as you have pointed out... rather it is discrimination based on a particular attribute. The GP did not advocate hitting him because he was male, he advocated hitting him because he was being an arsehole. If anything it was arseholist.

      The thing is, it's only really western society that has the hang up agianst hitting women. Lots of countries, in particular developing catholic countries consider it perfectly acceptable for men to hit women. Take the Philippines for example, spousal abuse is perfectly legal there (and divorces are banned because Old Book says so). Yes it did offend my sensibilities when I saw it happen whilst I lived there, in fact it made me feel angrier than I've ever felt however I didn't do anything about it because I'm not an idiot and know how to control myself, even under extreme pressure.

      Did you ever think why western societies like Europe and America have these compunctions against hitting women, it mostly comes down to the fact men have a physical advantage against women. We decided long ago that this was unfair and ingrained it in our social conscious that this advantage should not be exercised. So if anything, refusing to hit women is anti-sexist.

      Of course this being a modern society, if you have to defend yourself against a woman then yes, defend... But then again if she's tough enough to throw punches, the average slashdotter wont be capable of fighting back. Myself, I'd consider it an absolute last resort, I cant even hit women who have had more self defence training than me in training.

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    281. Re:I'm not surprised. by mjwx · · Score: 1

      A manager in a position of power asking their subordinate to have sex with them is absolutely sexual harassment.

      Even then, they have to force the issue for it to be considered discrimination.

      There have been several cases in where the alleged perpetrator got off because after they were rebuffed, they dropped the incident completely. Mostly because they were smart enough to report the incident themselves (CYA). Discrimination and harassment has to be sustained in order for it to be considered discrimination or harassment.

      If advances were clearly rebuffed, and the advancee dropped it, harassment cases fall on their arse.

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    282. Re:I'm not surprised. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      So, the Webmaster at a car dealership?

    283. Re: I'm not surprised. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      The guy is almost certainly in the wrong, but there is always context.

      Being her boss, and it being the first day, it's possible that they spent a fair amount of time with each other that day. It's also possible that he mistook her eagerness and affability for being "flirty" or that she was in fact being "flirty" with him because he was married and therefore off limits (and open for teasing).

      If someone flirts with you for hours, and you respond by making an unwanted advance, that wouldn't exactly be harassment, it would be a misunderstanding.

      Again, we don't know if those are the facts, but that is one of the few interpretations that could explain his texts at all as even the most wanton predator likely wouldn't make unsolicited advances on their prey's first day.

    284. Re:I'm not surprised. by TimothyHollins · · Score: 1

      I'm not sure how to respond to this.

      I say "you cannot claim it is there". I say nothing at all about claiming "it is not there". Then you respond with something about me claiming "it is not there". This sounds an awful lot like cognitive dissonance ( http://blog.dilbert.com/post/1... )

      I would shrug it off as a strange fluke but this is the second response I have gotten with the same illiterate analysis. Is it a language barrier thing? Is it that you haven't ever read a text with precise formulations? Is it that you need this article to be true to justify your views?

    285. Re:I'm not surprised. by oh_my_080980980 · · Score: 1

      Which means you ignore...got it...

    286. Re:I'm not surprised. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Yep. I only read the bit in the summary but was immediately struck by the oddness. What exactly did she expect HR to do when she reported the messaging? Did she expect a firing? Demotion?

      Bizarre that she would think a company would do any more than counsel the offender. The offense was on the face of it being much more familiar and open about his personal life than is appropriate at work. On can read between the lines and find a request for a relationship but it is creepy and indirect so while perhaps threatening there was no threat made.

        Repeat of the behavior would of course merit sterner measures.

    287. Re: I'm not surprised. by kilfarsnar · · Score: 1

      Racism, of course. Yours.

      No, but good guess. It's because the poster dismissed out-of-hand the idea of sexism in the tech industry as the "SJW argument". It indicates a complete lack of understanding and denial of the issue. Further, it indicates the person has little experience with discrimination or harassment. And that indicates the person is likely white and male, because white males are still dominant in society.

      I have to say I do find it amusing how quickly some white people will complain of racism, like they have any idea what actual racism is like to live with. The defensiveness is telling.

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    288. Re: I'm not surprised. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      You, my brother, are creating the hostile work environment.

    289. Re:I'm not surprised. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Depends on context. In this case as presented even though it was done by implication it was harassment and should have been recorded by HR as such.

    290. Re:I'm not surprised. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Dude...we all know 1-3 were terrible. No need to take out your personal disappointment on a real world situation.

    291. Re:I'm not surprised. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      But leaving something out of the record makes it possible for somebody to get an indefinite number of "first offenses".

      This is a common tactic used by parents to defend their children in family court. "My baby has never been in trouble before, if you wipe this from his record, we'll make sure he never does it again." Eventually, they'll run into some of the same judges and police officers who can call bs on that. Pleas for leniency don't go over well with people who know they've been lied to.

    292. Re: I'm not surprised. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      By far the most honest & insightful comment on this article.

    293. Re:I'm not surprised. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      He was being a desperate asshole. He deserved a strong fist to the jaw (note: I'm male). If you can't control your urges hire a hooker ffs. It's not like he doesn't have the money.

    294. Re:I'm not surprised. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Even so, in every bit of coaching that I have ever seen, there is a requirement of: request, rebuff, request again, escalate, unless the references are "to the reasonable person" offensive in the extreme.

      Then you haven't been coached for quite awhile. From a current textbook for a class I am currently in:

      Sexual harassment is any unwelcome sexual advance, request for sexual favors, or other verbal or physical conduct of a sexual nature when submitting is a condition of employment, submitting or rejecting is a basis for an employment decision,or such conduct substantially interferes with performance and/or creates a hostile or offensive work environment. Remember that even an overheard conversation can be constituted as sexual harassment.
      There are two types of sexual harassment: quid pro quo... and hostile work environment (jokes, touching, leering, requests for a date, talking about body parts.) Seventy percent of sexual harassment incidents today are hostile work environment compaints. Remember, it does not matter of the intent of the harasser. What matters is the perception of the act and the impact that behavior had on someone else.

      (bolding mine.)

      You're welcome.

    295. Re:I'm not surprised. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I'm a software engineer in the auto industry,

      I also write ECU firmware and haven't noted anything like the problems in the original article. I thin it isn't a tech thing as much as it is a west coast thing. My approach is to avoid California, Oregon, and Washington state at all costs. Things are far more normal on the east coast.

    296. Re: I'm not surprised. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Because it's smarter to issue a "fake apology" than to prove a negative.

    297. Re: I'm not surprised. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      there are lots of short stories on the net where that's exactly what happens.

      seriously though, its rude, tacky, tasteless and likely violates conflict of interest rules in the contract, but its not harassment until you've been asked/told to stop

    298. Re:I'm not surprised. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Actually I think her first response should have been to knock out his teeth.

      Ladies and gentlemen, this is sexism in action. No one - certainly not this poster - would suggest that a man should knock out a woman's teeth for propositioning him, no matter how inappropriate it might be. But violence against a man for the same cause is apparently perfectly acceptable.

      No, this is why SJW complaints are inherently ironic.

    299. Re:I'm not surprised. by serviscope_minor · · Score: 1

      I did, brah. That's why i wrote the reply I wrote.

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    300. Re:I'm not surprised. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I agree that's a good rule of thumb guideline. It's not always applicable however. At the very least in this case, at minimum the HR needs to talk to the employee about it and basically make it clear that it can't happen again.

      There are two sides to this. Anti-harassment and discrimination laws can create a hostile environment if a careful balance isn't maintained.

      I've seen employees simply refuse to talk to females at all beyond what it the absolute bare minimum for the job while avoiding them at all costs almost to the extreme that Alan Turing did who would sneak past women getting to his work place. At the same time zero-tolerance policies of better safe than sorry that create a very unpleasant environment for a mixed of different people. It creates an extremely uncomfortable environment where people can't be themselves at all because anything even if mild or innocent can be misconstrued as something that might either attract a lawsuit or bad press.

      This guy's behaviour if as described is particularly creepy and not the kind of thing you would make a two strikes before doing absolutely anything about affair. It's not really a want to go for drinks kind of thing. Personally I always discuss these things first before using the authority then if it continues it becomes an authoritative matter. There are debates about whether the first warning should go on record or not. Normally informal warning, formal warning then serious action. Depending on the nature of each case that can vary.

    301. Re:I'm not surprised. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      He's obviously gotten in there with HR.

    302. Re:I'm not surprised. by Raenex · · Score: 1

      Then I'll just chalk it up to willful ignorance.

    303. Re:I'm not surprised. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      THIS. And not only this, women in a workplace where they choose to not do the kinds of jobs men do clearly have zero interest in that level of "equality". But then again, illegal immigrants can say the same thing about everybody else !

    304. Re:I'm not surprised. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Clearly a great many people are OK with working in this kind of environment though. And that fact opens up a line of questions nobody really wants to deal with. Like why are people so eager to waste their lives in such a shitty environment that offers little more than money ? We all know why, it's just that nobody wants to own up to it. Most people are cowards. It really IS that simple. You work in a shitty environment and are unhappy because of cowardice.

    305. Re:I'm not surprised. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      You are being dishonest here. HR was not expected to terminate. They WERE, however, expected to properly document and reprimand the person guilty of the offenses, and they simply refused to because he was a good performer. Don't lie about it.

    306. Re:I'm not surprised. by Shirley+Marquez · · Score: 2

      I don't think I can agree with that. There are plenty of bad jobs held by both men and women.

      Men predominate in the jobs that require extremes of physical labor, which isn't surprising because on average they are larger and stronger. Things like manual labor, trash collection, and any kind of working with heavy machinery are good examples. On the other hand, nursing and cleaning, two jobs where women predominate, can both be very physically demanding jobs in their own way; they don't require quite the same peaks of strength but they are unrelenting. And being waitstaff is equal opportunity awfulness - though it can be a good job if you do it in a restaurant that is good to work for.

    307. Re: I'm not surprised. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Every organization just for women?

    308. Re:I'm not surprised. by GloriaMax · · Score: 1

      No kidding. Woman in tech here. Often, in fact, the only woman on a given IT team. Especially when I was younger, harassment was a problem; in fact, it went on periodically until I was into my 40s, which shocked me. Most guys were totally fine, but there was always the odd creep. In those cases, the only thing that saved me from more trouble was not the simple fact that I was married (I've been with the same man since I was 23). That didn't stop the super-creeps. What saved me from excessive harassment was the fact that my husband is well over 6 feet and extremely muscular and strong, with a shaved head and goatee. He looks like a cross between a Hell's Angel and Anton LaVey. (He's actually a professor.) I kept a photo of him on my desk at all times. Still didn't stop some jerks. The most persistent pests got a visit from him, at which point he quietly said "My wife says you're bothering her. You'll stop now. And you won't cause her problems by lying about some sudden other problem you have either - no taking revenge because she won't sleep with you. You'll behave professionally from now on, or you'll get another visit from me, and next time, I'll be markedly less polite." He never had to visit anyone twice. It's annoying to have to constantly rely on this kind of thing - another man standing up for you - but it works, and I'm glad to have the option.

    309. Re: I'm not surprised. by shilly · · Score: 1

      Or he could have a gigantic ego and interpret any sign of warmth on the part of a woman as a come-on. Frankly, I think that's more realistic

    310. Re: I'm not surprised. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      This is response and conversation is why I'm starting to hate slashdot. It's like reading a Fox News post and all the idiot commenters after that live in an alternate reality.

      https://www.facebook.com/DonaldTrumpNews.Co/posts/1888374384753363

      See all the delerious people commenting in this article... it's a lot like the people here not recognizing she "caught Uber with its pants down" (pun intended)

    311. Re:I'm not surprised. by hucker75 · · Score: 0

      And who cares? If women don't like the job they're in, then they're free to resign. Work should not be a human right.

    312. Re: I'm not surprised. by drinkypoo · · Score: 1

      You, my brother, are creating the hostile work environment.

      By being considerate? THE HORROR!

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    313. Re:I'm not surprised. by suutar · · Score: 1

      With the caveat that "observe something" also includes "observe the effects of something that we can't (yet) observe directly", I will agree with this. (Supporting examples: dark matter, dark energy, the discovery of Pluto and if I recall correctly Neptune, etc).

    314. Re:I'm not surprised. by ImprovOmega · · Score: 1

      The problem is that he was in a position of authority over her (organizationally). This creates a significant power imbalance and can interfere with ability to freely give consent. Even if there is no direct or implied threat in the advance (no quid pro quo that is) there can still be an inferred threat on the part of the recipient (whether the superior intended it or not) simply because of the positional authority the superior has over a subordinate. For this reason many companies have a policy against fraternization involving people subordinate to you or in your chain of command (some go so far as to prohibit fraternization among peers as well, though this is less common).

      Bottom line there is no good way for a superior/subordinate to date or "hook up" in the workplace and it should be avoid for strictly ethical reasons if nothing else. Co-worker relationships at the peer level or say, with a supervisor in another department, require a high degree of maturity to manage but should not be considered off limits necessarily (from a legal and ethical perspective) but boundaries and rebuffs must be respected.

    315. Re:I'm not surprised. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I have worked for some of the biggest employers in the US and quite frankly, I don't see sex discrimination at all. Anyone who did anything remotely like what Fowler describes would be fired immediately. I do see age discrimination routinely - however, the press and the SJW cult (are they really any different??? ) never write about this. It (age discrimination) certainly will not be a popular topic on slashdot (which basically sucks as bad as Uber to tell you the truth).

      I have also driven for Uber. I can tell you that they suck mightily in regards to the way they treat their drivers. Think about it - Uber makes money by exploiting cheap and unskilled labor Is it any wonder that they suck? Given the Uber track record, I have no doubt they treated Fowler unfairly - but they are the arrogant exception, not the rule.

    316. Re: I'm not surprised. by epyT-R · · Score: 0

      It indicates no such thing. Basically, use of institutional bias to fight institutional bias is blatantly hypocritical and it reenforces boundaries instead of melting them. Conveniently, this obvious criticism is labeled politically incorrect so that it is socially unacceptable to state it publicly. It's really not hard to understand why people chafe under this 'affirmative action' bullshit.

      And that indicates the person is likely white and male, because white males are still dominant in society.

      This is exactly the same kind of gross generalization that you would not tolerate if the target wasn't white and/or straight and/or male. It is no different than "There is more crime in detroit because blacks and criminality correlate." which I am sure you would consider racist. Since caucasian is a race and you are using race as the delineator, you are a racist.

      I have to say I do find it amusing how quickly some white people will complain of racism, like they have any idea what actual racism is like to live with. The defensiveness is telling.

      mmhmm.. So we should feel sorry for the nazis because those jews just couldn't understand what they were doing to german society? I suggest you reevaluate your position and your politics.

    317. Re:I'm not surprised. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      It's a terrible story to be sure, but it's quite a leap from sexist asshole behavior to killing one's family. One implies dispassionately and looking at women as objects, the other is a crime of passion which is quite the opposite (otherwise he would not have also offed himself).

      The guy may be a sociopath but somehow I don't think throwing all sexist assholes or sociopaths in prison as you suggest is even in the ballpark of the right answer. You're letting emotion cloud your judgment.

    318. Re: I'm not surprised. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      You Godwinned the thread, that's a foul! Free kick to the other poster.

    319. Re:I'm not surprised. by Half-pint+HAL · · Score: 1

      Vague, but not meaningless. I'm perhaps overextending it to cover trade secrets here, which are only protected by the terms of a contract of employment.

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    320. Re:I'm not surprised. by Dread_ed · · Score: 1

      There is a vast and fundamental difference between a "sexist asshole" and a repeat offending sexual predator.

      If you are assaulted don't let the company you work for (or anyone else for that matter!) sweep it under the rug or talk you out of filing a police report. For the sake of yourself and others tell law enforcement.

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    321. Re:I'm not surprised. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      IMHO it isn't sexual harassment nor sexism to say something like: "I find you attractive, would you like to have sex with me"

      Thankfully, your opinion doesn't count for anything.

      In the workplace, THIS IS SEXUAL HARASSMENT.

      Maybe you should look up what sexual harassment entails. Its not up for debate.

    322. Re: I'm not surprised. by kilfarsnar · · Score: 2

      It indicates no such thing. Basically, use of institutional bias to fight institutional bias is blatantly hypocritical and it reenforces boundaries instead of melting them. Conveniently, this obvious criticism is labeled politically incorrect so that it is socially unacceptable to state it publicly. It's really not hard to understand why people chafe under this 'affirmative action' bullshit.

      We are not talking about institutional bias here. We are talking about women being harassed in the workplace. Do you think they should have to put up with being propositioned for sex when they're just trying to work? Probably not. So I do think some sort of institutional response is warranted.

      This is exactly the same kind of gross generalization that you would not tolerate if the target wasn't white and/or straight and/or male. It is no different than "There is more crime in detroit because blacks and criminality correlate." which I am sure you would consider racist. Since caucasian is a race and you are using race as the delineator, you are a racist.

      Do you challenge the notion that white men, generally speaking, are still dominant in society? I think that is fairly common knowledge. Did I make an assumption based on that fact? Absolutely.

      I have to say I do find it amusing how quickly some white people will complain of racism, like they have any idea what actual racism is like to live with. The defensiveness is telling.

      mmhmm.. So we should feel sorry for the nazis because those jews just couldn't understand what they were doing to german society? I suggest you reevaluate your position and your politics.

      Okay, I don't know what that's supposed to mean. If we're going to the Nazis, this situation is more like Nazis complaining about how mean the Jews are. No, I'm not equating white men with Nazis. What I'm saying is, this is a situation in which the powerful group is complaining about discrimination or oppression from the weaker group. It just doesn't hold much weight. Besides, it's the Internet. My original comment was supposed to be a little funny and a little poking. So I'm sorry I have offended you so. I probably should have left the "white" descriptor out, as the maleness is more the issue.

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    323. Re:I'm not surprised. by Paul+Jakma · · Score: 1

      It would not be illegal to breach an employment. That would be merely a breach of contract.

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    324. Re:I'm not surprised. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      So you do not remember the people saying that it was "just sex"?

      You can find someone who will say anything if you look hard enough. "some people said it" does not equate to me saying it and as such, it's completely irrelevant.

      If you pay someone five bucks, they'll say "death to all jews." I'm pretty sure it's cheaper to get someone to say "just sex."

      For anyone who doesn't get it:
      https://news.slashdot.org/story/17/02/14/2117225/disney-youtube-cut-ties-with-pewdiepie-top-youtube-submitter-over-anti-semitic-videos

    325. Re:I'm not surprised. by Coren22 · · Score: 1

      But he did not have sexual relations with that woman!

      Is doesn't really mean what you think it means. /sarcasm

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    326. Re: I'm not surprised. by ewibble · · Score: 1

      We are not talking about institutional bias here. We are talking about women being harassed in the workplace. Do you think they should have to put up with being propositioned for sex when they're just trying to work? Probably not. So I do think some sort of institutional response is warranted.

      Actually what is wrong with just saying no, and if it continues then yes it becomes sexual harassment, As far as I am aware work place relationships are quite common. According to this https://mic.com/articles/11206... 17.9% of marriages start at work so at some point someone must proposition the other.

      Do you challenge the notion that white men, generally speaking, are still dominant in society? I think that is fairly common knowledge. Did I make an assumption based on that fact? Absolutely.

      Yes I do what evidence do you have, there are lots of assumption people make that have no evidence in fact. e.g. you should drink 8 glasses of water a day.

      If we are talking about interpersonal relationships, from what I have seen is that it really depends on the relationship between two people sometimes its the woman sometimes its the man. Just because one works does not mean they are the dominant individual.

    327. Re:I'm not surprised. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      That is a great step worse than harassment, that i assault. Unfortunately this kind of disorder isn't always this easy to spot but this should have been obvious to an HR department of such a large company. Unless of course they neglected to hire people with skills in psychology.

      Removing a person from the workplace what exactly what your father did and that didn't make this person stop. You do not need a job to assault or kill people. In some cases therapy works and in other permanent accommodation at a psych ward is necessary. In any case closely monitoring this person would probably had prevented further abuse.

      There are plenty of people without compassion that are perfectly safe and good to be around. And there are plenty of people with compassion that are very dangerous. Human behavior are complex and there are only one way to identify people that are violent. You have victims report their behavior and you use evidence based methods to evaluate their behavior and if necessary correct it. Unfortunately even within the profession that are supposed to deal with this kind of thing there are to many charlatans that doesn't know what they are doing. But a corporation should be able to have a staff with sufficient scientific background to quality check this kind of work. Of course this is the thing that the government should be doing but we all know that even if they tried they would probably end up failing.

      It should be noted that sales people deal with constant rejection and compassion in the form of a desire to be liked can actually be harmful at such a job and made people go postal on more than one case.

    328. Re:I'm not surprised. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      1. No and No. I have not heard of a single case that someone after rejection just fires someone out of the blue. If you want to use your authority over someone it is more useful to spell it out. Besides that isn't harassment that is solicitation which may or may not be illegal depending on the jurisdiction. The article does not just talk about what is legal but what is moral and ethical. That is three distinct things. The legal definition of sexual harassment and solicitation differs between jurisdiction. The ethical and moral reasoning doesn't. Something that is ethical doesn't become unethical just because there is a law against it or vice vesa.

      For example insisting that your parents talk to you or love you is legally harassment. But is it unethical or immoral?

      2. So she should turn into a psychopath criminal as her first response to text messages? Why is any of those things inappropriate? Because the bible say so or what? (Obviously not a valid argument that a fairytale says so). Puritanism, a very damaging and despicable line of religious movement. That's what I read into this.

      Or perhaps people like you are the reason the industry is infested by problem like this. Either by like a like a charlatan failing to promote evidence-based solutions to problems, or by seeing problems where they doesn't exist. While it is not right to excuse a behavior as "standard" it is immoral to not defend. It is you that claim that it is a problematic behavior that has all the burden of evidence.

      Saying that something is wrong or inappropriate doesn't make it so. And one must become extra vigilant when religious ideas are put forward no matter if the spokesperson that put them forward are religious or not. Because religion is absolute evil and ideas from religion often leads to large scale destruction and formidable damage to society at large.

  2. "Former" engineer - tells you all you need to know by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 2, Insightful

    Most female employees know that crying sexism will bring the authorities running and catch the media's attention. It's really a shame that a small number of them take advantage of this and absuse the system. My guess is this person lost their job for performance of incontinence reasons and is trying to create a shitstorm in order to extract revenge. We need to make sure that when the system is abused, the abusers pay a heavy cost.

  3. Um, what? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    It's a software-based dispatch service. How can that require employing enough people for sexism to show up?

  4. Cake or death by stealth_finger · · Score: 0

    When I reported the situation, I was told by both HR and upper management that even though this was clearly sexual harassment and he was propositioning me, it was this man's first offense, and that they wouldn't feel comfortable giving him anything other than a warning and a stern talking-to.

    What's wrong with that? Does she want this guy immediately fired no question asked? If it really is a first offence tell him to knock it off and move on from there, if it happens more follow procedures. It's not like this was a suck me off or your sacked situation.

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    1. Re:Cake or death by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 4, Informative

      If you read the article you'll learn that HR lied about this being the first offense. It was just one of many.

    2. Re:Cake or death by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 2, Informative

      Did you read the rest of the article which makes clear that this was not, in fact, this guys first offense?

    3. Re:Cake or death by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 2, Informative

      If you read just a smidge further in TFA, you'll see that in discussions with other female coworkers, she discovered that he had propositioned them as well, and also been told by HR that it was his first offense when they complained. How many "first offenses" is this guy good for?

    4. Re: Cake or death by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1, Informative

      Given that HR lied, and this wasn't his first offence, yes he should have been fired.

      Another appropriate action would be to move the manager somewhere else.

    5. Re:Cake or death by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

      The issue is that her manager was propositioning her. There are all sorts of terrible power dynamics that come into play when a manager wants to take advantage of a subordinate. She did the right thing and nipped it in the bud. HR should have come down like a hammer on such a toxic and illegal action.

    6. Re:Cake or death by The+Evil+Atheist · · Score: 3, Insightful

      How quickly people jump to the guy's defence.

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    7. Re: Cake or death by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 3, Insightful

      Perhaps it is the HR manager that should be fired.

    8. Re:Cake or death by omnichad · · Score: 4, Insightful

      Well that means that the summary didn't summarize - it changed the message.

    9. Re:Cake or death by stealth_finger · · Score: 1

      So you think that is an immediately sackable offence?

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    10. Re:Cake or death by DogDude · · Score: 3, Insightful

      Any sane company would fire this guy immediately. Uber is liable for not getting rid of him. Hope this woman sues the shit out of them.

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    11. Re:Cake or death by misexistentialist · · Score: 0

      Why more "terrible" than anything else about being ordered around for money? This isn't child abuse, employees can quit.

    12. Re:Cake or death by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Never mind that. "It was clear that he was trying to get me to have sex with him, and it was so clearly out of line that I immediately took screenshots of these chat messages and reported him to HR."

      I haven't read the article, but if the impression given from that excerpt is correct, then I'd say she escalated things way too quickly. Tell the guy "You're out of line with these messages, I'm not interested, if you carry on then I'll have to take it up with HR". After all, she says he's "clearly out of line", but there is room for interpretation; sure, he's oversharing, and I can understand her feeling uncomfortable, but it's not like he sent her a dick pic or something; to go straight for the nuclear option of trying to get him fired, without giving him a chance to say "sorry, my bad, I got the wrong impression" or whatever, is pretty bitchy.

    13. Re:Cake or death by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I'm not jumping to the guy's defense, but I'm also not going to believe someone just because they said it was so. The whole "women just don't lie about this sort of thing" line has been disproven time and time again. These days I look at stories like this and remain neutral until solid evidence is given (not just he said/she said).

      Posting anonymously because I moderated.

    14. Re:Cake or death by stealth_finger · · Score: 1

      Any sane company would fire this guy immediately. Uber is liable for not getting rid of him. Hope this woman sues the shit out of them.

      I disagree. I think any sane company should say something like "seriously, knock that shit off, if you keep it up we're going to have issues". The guy was propositioning for sex which is highly unprofessional and is out of order but it's hardly end of the world stuff. There're a whole bunch of things which could tip the scale but the situation as described doesn't call for more than a warning in my opinion. Would you advocate the same punishment if it was female looking for sex I wonder?

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    15. Re:Cake or death by bluefoxlucid · · Score: 2, Informative

      True, although apparently TFS doesn't mention that this wasn't his first offense and he's like this all the damn time, so HR lied. First mistake, you learn; second mistake, you fucked up twice the same way.

    16. Re:Cake or death by DogDude · · Score: 4, Informative

      Would you advocate the same punishment if it was female looking for sex I wonder?

      Yes, I would. Immediate firing, no questions asked. Completely unacceptable, and if a person doesn't know that, that's just as good reason for letting that person go. Somebody with such poor decision making skills is a liability in many ways.

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    17. Re:Cake or death by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1, Informative

      Yes. Is that hard to understand?

    18. Re:Cake or death by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      > Does she want this guy immediately fired no question asked?

      Read the fucking article you dimwit.

    19. Re:Cake or death by sootman · · Score: 4, Informative

      You and the morons who modded you up need to RTFA. Here, I'l bold the important parts so you don't have to work so hard.

      Over the next few months, I began to meet more women engineers in the company. As I got to know them, and heard their stories, I was surprised that some of them had stories similar to my own. Some of the women even had stories about reporting the exact same manager I had reported, and had reported inappropriate interactions with him long before I had even joined the company. It became obvious that both HR and management had been lying about this being "his first offense", and it certainly wasn't his last. Within a few months, he was reported once again for inappropriate behavior, and those who reported him were told it was still his "first offense".

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    20. Re:Cake or death by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      A direct line manager inviting his brand new employee to have sex with him? On day one? The door wouldn't hit him on the way out!

      A random co-worker would get a very stern talking-to for a first offense if he did that. A manager would get his stuff in a box.

    21. Re: Cake or death by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Especially in light of the fact that not only did they lie, they also told her that if she stayed on the team (which she had applied to due to it being her area of expertise and interest), they suggested they couldn't (wouldn't?) do anything if the manager gave her a bad review later on.

    22. Re:Cake or death by whoever57 · · Score: 5, Informative

      What's wrong with that? Does she want this guy immediately fired no question asked? If it really is a first offence tell him to knock it off and move on from there,

      You did not read the article, did you?

      It wasn't his first offence, although HR lied about this, claiming that it was.

      He didn't knock it off. Also, her career at the company was affected because she made the report.

      What he did should have resulted in an instant dismissal. Retaliation should have resulted in dismissals. Covering up the prior acts by the man should have resulted in dismissals in HR.

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    23. Re:Cake or death by hey! · · Score: 1

      Well, let's leave aside the fact that it wasn't the guy's first offense. What would you, as a professional HR person or senior manager, do about that situation?

      I tell you what I wouldn't do: I wouldn't issue a warning and assume it just magically fixed the problem. I'd follow up and continue monitoring the situation.

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    24. Re:Cake or death by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1, Insightful

      It also means that the commenters didn't comment on the article, just on their perceptions of it from the summary.

      The extent that she went to in her attempts to find resolution were sort of above and beyond. The scenario was prime grounds for a suit, yet she didn't go that route.

    25. Re:Cake or death by ZecretZquirrel · · Score: 2, Insightful

      We're living in a zero-tolerance punitive culture now. It's a substitute for have to actually think about offenders and weigh crime vs. punishment. You are either Good or Evil, and your sentence must reflect this.

    26. Re: Cake or death by DNS-and-BIND · · Score: 0

      If you can make a rocket scientist, celebrating the achievement of a lifetime, grovel and cry in public for wearing a shirt, you are not disempowered.

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    27. Re: Cake or death by DNS-and-BIND · · Score: 1

      If we showed any tolerance, we wouldn't be in a no-tolerance society.

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    28. Re:Cake or death by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      No one should be suggested to quit because a person in a position of power is making unwanted sexual advances, it is perfectly legitimate to expect the complete absence of that behavior in any work environment. This is why sexual harassment laws exist.

      If you can't understand not to make sexual advances towards a subordinate that is completely a YOU problem, not her problem.

    29. Re:Cake or death by lactose99 · · Score: 3, Informative

      Considering it happened several times before, this time absolutely.

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    30. Re:Cake or death by AmiMoJo · · Score: 2

      Even if it was his first offence, at the very least they need to move him or move her with no negative consequences because, as their own HR department pointed out, her first review by him is very likely to be negative.

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    31. Re:Cake or death by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Anyone who has paid attention to the quality of Uber's top management shouldn't be surprised at this. Management is a chain, where the weakest link between the CEO/President/owner (or possibly the Board of Directors, if they actually are doing their jobs (doubtful)) and the employee determines the experience the employee will likely have. Only the naive or the young believe HR is anything other than a mouthpiece for management. HR exists to protect the company from the employee and the regulators, not the other way around. If Uber's Kalanick is serious, and Susan Fowler's account is accurate, then senior heads should roll - quickly. I won't hold my breath. (Although I knew a Susan Fowler, and the person I knew was a real nut-job - I mean she had serious mental health issues (but worked in the chemical industry, so probably not the same woman...she'd be about 45-50 now ))

    32. Re:Cake or death by datbagelboi · · Score: 0

      Yes they would. But given she provides NO EVIDENCE FOR ANY OF THE DETAILS IN HER STORY this leads me to believe it is a load of horse shit, hence why he wasn't fired.

    33. Re:Cake or death by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Also, the bastard should be hanged by his balls as a warning to other rapists/men. Are you listening to yourself? WTF is wrong with you people? The sex drive is one of the strongest motivators in human beings. Mistakes will be made, especially in environments that are so stuck up because everything to do with sex is taboo in the Puritan States of America. Don't you understand that you're making things worse? Have you learned NOTHING from the War on Whatever? Don't suppress human nature. It doesn't matter how harsh you punish people for fucking up if you make environments such that people are guaranteed to fuck up. That is no way to deal with the problems.

    34. Re:Cake or death by DogDude · · Score: 2

      She says she has screen shots. Please stop yelling inanities.

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    35. Re:Cake or death by AmiMoJo · · Score: 5, Informative

      This story proves you wrong. The guy who propositioned her has done it many times before, and many times since, with zero consequences. Apparently he was too valuable to the company, or they just didn't care.

      The other comments also prove you wrong. People are making nuanced arguments, suggesting that merely politely asking for a date once is not a problem, for example. The world is clearly not as polarized as you think.

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    36. Re:Cake or death by stealth_finger · · Score: 2

      After actually reading the story and finding out the one time thing line is a lie I'd be inclined to agree.

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    37. Re:Cake or death by avandesande · · Score: 1

      I love the black and white thinking displayed here. That's why HR has policies and training so employees understand them.
      First offense: sent home for a week
      Second offense: sent home for a month (hopefully they will spend the time looking for another job)
      Third: shown the door.


      It's obvious nobody at Uber worked a real job before....

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    38. Re:Cake or death by stealth_finger · · Score: 1

      Well, let's leave aside the fact that it wasn't the guy's first offense. What would you, as a professional HR person or senior manager, do about that situation?

      I tell you what I wouldn't do: I wouldn't issue a warning and assume it just magically fixed the problem. I'd follow up and continue monitoring the situation.

      I'd do the same, assuming it was actually the first offence it'd be a warning and monitoring, second offence some kind of sanction and final warning, third time doing the same thing, out the door.

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    39. Re:Cake or death by stealth_finger · · Score: 1

      What's wrong with that? Does she want this guy immediately fired no question asked? If it really is a first offence tell him to knock it off and move on from there,

      You did not read the article, did you?

      It wasn't his first offence, although HR lied about this, claiming that it was.

      He didn't knock it off. Also, her career at the company was affected because she made the report.

      What he did should have resulted in an instant dismissal. Retaliation should have resulted in dismissals. Covering up the prior acts by the man should have resulted in dismissals in HR.

      In that case, you are right. HR fucked up big time. The guy fucked up too obviously. Well, one time is a fuck up, consistently doing it, yeah, he should be sacked.

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    40. Re:Cake or death by DogDude · · Score: 1

      You can do whatever you want in your company, but if this is the policy in your company, be prepared to get you butt sued off.

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    41. Re:Cake or death by avandesande · · Score: 1

      Actually knew a guy that got sent home for a week or two(can't remember which) for harassment, and this was on a government contract. Don't forget the person you fire can sue you too. Obviously you have never had a real job either...

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    42. Re:Cake or death by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      So no due process needed?

      Just off to the gulag based on unsubstantiated blog posts?

      Wow!

    43. Re:Cake or death by ooloorie · · Score: 1

      If you read the article you'll learn that HR lied about this being the first offense. It was just one of many.

      If you read the article, you'll see that that is what Fowler claims; it's not an established fact.

    44. Re:Cake or death by ooloorie · · Score: 1

      The scenario was prime grounds for a suit, yet she didn't go that route.

      Which is precisely why there is significant doubt over the veracity of her story.

    45. Re:Cake or death by Agiailotes · · Score: 0

      You absolute fucking retard and the intellectual degenerates that modded you up need to PROVE THAT ANY OF THIS IS REAL before you start crusading for justice

    46. Re:Cake or death by hey! · · Score: 1

      Precisely.

      This underlies the perennial complaint about consultants borrowing your watch to tell you what time it is. Somehow in the thick of managing things on a day to day basis you lose sight of the obvious.

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    47. Re:Cake or death by Theaetetus · · Score: 1

      What's wrong with that? Does she want this guy immediately fired no question asked? If it really is a first offence tell him to knock it off and move on from there,

      You did not read the article, did you?

      It wasn't his first offence, although HR lied about this, claiming that it was.

      He didn't knock it off. Also, her career at the company was affected because she made the report.

      What he did should have resulted in an instant dismissal. Retaliation should have resulted in dismissals. Covering up the prior acts by the man should have resulted in dismissals in HR.

      Yep. Heck, even if it was his first offense, the subsequent retaliation is where the company crashed and burned.
      IAAL, and I've studied sexual harassment law. Contrary to popular belief, it's actually really difficult to prove harassment, since you need a repeated series of events. Even if the same guy propositions a bunch of different people, if he only does it once to each, it's arguably not harassment, since he's apparently taking no for an answer from each of them and just being persistent generally. However, where companies end up killing themselves is the subsequent retaliation. Here, they explicitly told her that she could keep working for the guy, but he would give her bad reviews and there's nothing she could do. They also berated her for reporting things to HR, which is another no-no. A harassment suit might not succeed, but a retaliation suit is a slam dunk.

      For example, one of my professors in law school was the attorney for a group of city employees bringing a harassment and discrimination suit against their boss. The suit initially ended in a deadlocked jury... however, every time the boss had to do something related to the suit - answer discovery questions, give a deposition, even talk to his lawyer - he'd do something nasty, like move someone's office to the basement or strip someone of a project they'd be working on. It was like clockwork.
      So, after the deadlock, they amended the complaint to add retaliation claims. Next trial, got a unanimous verdict on those and judgement for $8 million.

    48. Re:Cake or death by Agiailotes · · Score: 1

      Any sane company would ask for evidence, record any submitted, then decide.

      What you are advocating for is total INSANITY, that is, just believing anything you hear and acting on it to effect peoples lives profoundly

      >blogs are proof

    49. Re:Cake or death by s.petry · · Score: 1

      Facts or no action required. In the case of facts, each case should be reviewed. Dishonesty is not a male only trait, and we have plenty of cases of dishonest allegations of sexual assault and harassment. Here.

      Every company I have worked at in the last 3 decades has had a zero tolerance policy for sexual harassment. IT work is the easiest place to _prove_ sexual harassment. Do you know anyone working in IT that does not know how to take a screenshot? How to use a thumb drive or send an email to their private email from work? I'd give much more leeway to a different line of work without the same ability to have evidence of wrong doing but still would not prosecute or form opinion without hearing both sides.

      Given the political climate, I am suspicious of any claim devoid of evidence or corroboration. We have seen false allegations over and over. Not just with women in the work place either, and not with a single media source promoting a specific narrative. Uber should have chat logs and email to validate her claim, and I'll wait for the evidence before supporting _either_ side. Justice does not come from ignorance, and I'm baffled by the continued push by people of a certain political leaning to prosecute based on allegation and one side of a story.

      Those same people accuse others of being "part of the problem" simply for requesting evidence to substantiate a claim. That is a Nazi tactic and quite frightening to continually hear.

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    50. Re:Cake or death by Megol · · Score: 1

      You really have no fucking clue. Given the moderation there are obviously many with no fucking clue on here.

    51. Re:Cake or death by DogDude · · Score: 1

      Who's saying that there's no evidence or investigation involved? What kind of bizarre strawman is that?

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    52. Re:Cake or death by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I don't doubt that this happened, but claims of evidence existing is not evidence itself.

    53. Re:Cake or death by swb · · Score: 1

      Uber is a rapidly growing company capable of making many employees extremely wealthy.

      The rational choice for Uber may be to be forgiving of a high performing employee with a demonstrated track record when his accuser is a new and unproven hire who has made no contributions.

      It may even be that management's cost-benefit analysis is that it's even worth paying off a few people if they get to retain highly productive employees whose short-run value exceeds their long-term liability.

      This seems like a case where there's special math involved due to Uber's growth status. At an established, nominal growth company, you're less concerned with high performers and their shorter-term harassment costs exceed their long-term value and they can probably be more easily replaced.

    54. Re:Cake or death by datbagelboi · · Score: 0

      And I have screen shots that prove she never worked there in the first place

    55. Re:Cake or death by datbagelboi · · Score: 0

      I'm saying that we can all dismiss these accusations as false until evidence emerges. That is how the courts work and how rational people think. Instead of everyone drawing conclusions and thinking Uber is totally like, sexist man. i read it on a blog.

    56. Re:Cake or death by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

      Well, there's an example of the kind of absolutism that is now considered a normal part of discourse. Well done, and thanks for the data.

    57. Re:Cake or death by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I'm not defending him, or the company. I'm all for nuance, but I really don't see it here.

    58. Re:Cake or death by Jason+Levine · · Score: 1

      Not only that, but people complained about the manager after her and were told that it was his first offence. The "first offense" line was clearly being used to protect the manager no matter how many complaints were lodged against him.

      That, plus all of the other red flags that her piece raised makes it obvious that Uber is NOT a good company to work for.

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    59. Re:Cake or death by Agiailotes · · Score: 1

      Yeah that's something SANE people do when a mob is out for witch-blood...no evidence in this case whatsoever....

    60. Re:Cake or death by Wisp · · Score: 1

      Its a pretty classic dilemma - Got the route of the law and you are painted as over-reacting and unhinged.... Go above and beyond to have your issue and opinion respected and, again, you are then perceived as over-reacting and unhinged.

      The faustian bargin of being a women developer.

    61. Re:Cake or death by DogDude · · Score: 1

      This isn't a court. This is a discussion board on a web site.

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    62. Re:Cake or death by DogDude · · Score: 1

      Considering both the legal costs with defending lawsuits and the potential awards/settlements, this asshole boss would have to be worth millions to Uber on order for it to make any sense to keep somebody like that.

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    63. Re:Cake or death by thegarbz · · Score: 1

      It's not like this was a suck me off or your sacked situation

      A sexual advance by a stranger ON THE FIRST DAY OF WORK definitely sounds like whatever was happening her supervisor could not treat her impartially. There's a place for this behaviour, it's called a sleazy bar. If you think that this is a non issue then you are most definitely part of the problem.

    64. Re:Cake or death by thegarbz · · Score: 1

      Would you advocate the same punishment if it was female looking for sex I wonder?

      A lot of men think with their brain and not their penis. These people who are capable of not whipping their cock out at every opportunity would most definitely want the same punishment. It's an office place, not a sex club.

      You're showing an alarming lack of reasoning and seem to have your opinion swayed by the possibility of someone playing with your cock. Maybe you should consider going to a class on what sexual harassment and sexism is considering you either have no idea or are actually a willing participant in promoting it.

    65. Re:Cake or death by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I hate to be such a stickler, but it needs to be pointed out that she never said what the other "inappropriate interactions" that other women had with him were. I.e. they could have been anything. She is implying that it was other instances of sexual harassment but she did not say so. For this reason, it sounds like innuendo. Until she comes out and says "he sexually harassed other women", it's not clear what she's claiming actually happened with the other women.

      "Inappropriate interactions" could mean anything. The fact that she didn't explicitly say the other women "also reported sexual harassment" suggests that it may not have been sexual harassment with the other women. If he did it, why not say so? Smells like innuendo to me.

      So, if that's true, then it might have actually been his first offense for sexual harassment, even if other had complained about other "inappropriate behaviour" before. If that's true, then HR did not lie.

    66. Re:Cake or death by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Yes.

      Had it been any 2 of: actually hist first offense, at all ambiguous if he was asking subordinate for sex, or ambiguous whether he had any direct authority over the subordinate, I could entertain an argument for giving him a warning and having him retake the harassment training instead of firing him, but this was none of them.

      There's no situation where "I'm going to ask my subordinate is she'll have sex with me" is appropriate, and there's no excuse for a manager who doesn't know that. issuing a warning on the first offense is being extremely lenient, when the offense requires this amount of idiocy to even come up.

    67. Re:Cake or death by Dutch+Gun · · Score: 1

      This forum is not a criminal court of law. I'm personally under no obligation to treat a corporation with a history of slimy behavior as "innocent until proven guilty." How exactly would any of us "prove" this anyhow? There's almost no possible way to do that. That raises the bar so high that no reports like these could ever see the light of day. This is someone exercising her freedom of speech to let the world know about some shitty corporate behavior.

      And what exactly do you think people are "crusading for justice" for? A few have wished Uber to be successfully sued by the woman, but beyond that I haven't noticed any "crusades", other than a reasonable desire for workplaces to be not be as toxic as this one.

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    68. Re:Cake or death by Agiailotes · · Score: 1

      This forum is not a criminal court of law

      It not about this forum. It's about the greater forum of public discussion.
      If it's not a criminal court of law, then why is it being made to be? Why is a universal judgement being attempted to be made then?

      There's almost no possible way to do that

      Recording the transcripts of conversations. Recording the conversations as they happened. So impossible.

      That raises the bar so high that no reports like these could ever see the light of day

      EXACTLY. We only want the truth to see the light of day.

      But anyway, you're literally saying there is no way to know if this is real or not. And yet you believe that it is without considering any of the interests in play here. You are insane at best.

    69. Re:Cake or death by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Well that means that the summary didn't summarize - it changed the message.

      Modded 5: Insightful.
      Where are all the old-timers that would mod this 5: Redundant.
      I mean; this is the essence of /.!
      How else are you going to get a heated argument?

    70. Re:Cake or death by BradleyUffner · · Score: 1

      She says she has screen shots. Please stop yelling inanities.

      As the saying goes, "Pics, or GTFO".

      I can say I have a lot of things, that doesn't mean I actually do.

    71. Re:Cake or death by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Would you advocate the same punishment if it was female looking for sex I wonder?

      Yes, I would. Immediate firing, no questions asked. Completely unacceptable, and if a person doesn't know that, that's just as good reason for letting that person go. Somebody with such poor decision making skills is a liability in many ways.

      If my female boss would come looking for sex, I wouldn't think twice and accept and then recommend her for employee of the month.

      People hitting on people, wether subordinates or not shouldn't be a big deal, harassment and further more serious moves are. Obviously.

    72. Re: Cake or death by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      A supervisor making sexual advances toward a subordinate will generally cause a severe reprimand in professional environments. In the US military it could end your career and worse if the subordinate files an official complaint and it is substantiated. Multiple complaints? Dude should have stuck with his own 'rank'. He's toast.

    73. Re:Cake or death by Dutch+Gun · · Score: 1

      The women who posted the blog has plenty of documentation about these interactions, but it's probably illegal for her to post that documentation. It could likely only be used in a lawsuit. What I meant is that there's no way for us to obtain any of that documentation. As such, all we have is our personal judgement as to whether the woman was telling the truth in her blog or not. There's no real possibility of ever getting any proof.

      Do I believe the woman? Her story sounds plausible to me, yes, but that doesn't mean I don't acknowledge that she could be making up parts of or all of the story. She's not filing a lawsuit, so I don't see the motivation for doing that. Revenge maybe? Possible, but given the way she claims she was treated, I'd probably do the same thing. Overreactions on her part? No, she's pretty clear about the events that transpired, and there's very little room for interpretation there. This feels very different than other angry, whiny, self-entitled "safe space violation" type complaints I've seen before.

      I freely admit I have no proof beyond her story, but then again, my personal judgement carries no weight beyond whether or not I'd do business with Uber (maybe), or whether I'd consider working there (no way in hell). I'm not advocating anything. Whatever happens beyond this is up to her and Uber. It sounds like she's gotten on with her life, and that Uber is going into PR damage control mode (nothing will change).

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    74. Re:Cake or death by datbagelboi · · Score: 0

      And clearly we have a lack of rational thinkers to go along with it,

    75. Re:Cake or death by UnderCoverPenguin · · Score: 1

      Does she want this guy immediately fired no question asked?

      At the company I work for, the stated policy is that upon receipt of a harassment complaint, the accused is immediately put on administrative leave (with out pay) and the complaint is forwarded to the local prosecutor's office for investigation. If the prosecutor clears the accused, then he is re-instated. Otherwise, he is fired. In the even the accused is cleared AND the prosecutor determines the complaint was filed with malicious intent, then the accusor is fired.

      The company also has a policy of protecting the victim's privacy, so I don't know if the above procedure has been used.

      The policy may seem harsh, but the company's legal department takes the position that it is better to err on the side of the victim, even if the accusations ultimately prove to be malicious.

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    76. Re:Cake or death by Agiailotes · · Score: 1

      You are suffering from severe thought dissonance.

      >plenty of documentation about these interactions
      You have serious problem with qualifying your perception. Where is this documentation? NOWHERE. She just says she has it.

      >As such, all we have is our personal judgement as to whether the woman was telling the truth in her blog or not. There's no real possibility of ever getting any proof.
      So then why are you getting so invested in believing it?

      It's true because you "get the feeling" that it is?

      >my personal judgement carries no weight beyond whether or not I'd do business with Uber
      NO. You don't live in a bubble. What you say and do effects people around you. You have a duty to do right by them and adhere to the truth.

      sheltered spoiled brat overgrown is what you are

    77. Re:Cake or death by Half-pint+HAL · · Score: 1

      The GP isn't crusading for justice, he's simply responding to the GGPs willful ignorance. The GGP isn't saying "Fowler lied", he's just ignoring what she wrote, and responding to a story in his own head.

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    78. Re:Cake or death by geminidomino · · Score: 1

      My cousin says he has pictures of bigfoot, but he can't publish him or the government will drag him away to a secret prison under Cheyenne Mountain

    79. Re:Cake or death by Dread_ed · · Score: 1

      So Uber's HR department was quoted in the article stating they said it was his first time offense when it was not? Oh, maybe it was the CEO at a press conference? No? Was it the accused manager doing it then, in some cathartic confession of his guilt?

      Oh, so the person who is throwing all this shade also gave this uncorroborated piece of evidence along with the others? Got it. How did you miss that there is no evidence of this being substantiated in fact?

      I wonder about your ability to parse reality correctly.

      Please understand that I am not in any way saying that harassment in the workplace is OK. What I am saying is that you just used hearsay to forward your position without revealing or even admitting to yourself that it was hearsay.

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    80. Re: Cake or death by TimMD909 · · Score: 1

      Perhaps it is the HR manager that should be fired.

      I'd think the whole department should be scrapped from what I've heard. It's not only the women who are being shat on.

    81. Re:Cake or death by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

      She says she has them, therefore it must be true. How dare you question her evidence. Women NEVER lie or exaggerate! (sigh)

      How soon some forget about the ROLLING STONE / Jane Doe rape allegation debacle. That truth only surfaced because of recognizing inconsistent "facts" that shone some light on that mentality.

      Either there is a giant conspiracy and coverup of sexism at Uber among disparate parties or it's someone with a personal agenda looking for some validation in social media.

      Which makes a better story? Which pushes your buttons? Verge is just trying to accumulate eyeballs after all.

    82. Re:Cake or death by bmk67 · · Score: 1

      Under the circumstances presented in TFA?

      Absolutely, and it's not even close.

    83. Re:Cake or death by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Maybe it was his first offense because they kept never putting anything into his record, so when they went to look he had no priors?

    84. Re:Cake or death by Cederic · · Score: 1

      Do you know anyone working in IT that does not know how to take a screenshot?

      Yes. Sadly, yes.

      Although.. I don't know how to take a screenshot on my phone. Never needed to, never bothered to learn how.

      Hmm. Ok, I need to go find out. Ok, done. Turns out it's a non-standard approach on my phone, but one screenshot successfully taken.

      Anyway, yes. Sadly I do know people working in IT that don't know how to take a screenshot - on any device.

    85. Re:Cake or death by Cederic · · Score: 1

      Well, a manager/staff relationship isn't about being ordered around for money. Managers that think that's the case need educating and the staff that think that's the case need help too.

      This isn't child abuse, employees can quit.

      Many things aren't child abuse, that doesn't make them acceptable in a work environment. You want to fuck me, that costs substantially more than my current salary and I'm not going to do it as an employee.

    86. Re:Cake or death by Cederic · · Score: 1

      Hmm. Try that in the UK and you'll be getting sued for constructive dismissal the moment you tried "put on administrative leave without pay".

      No, you fucking pay me right up until the moment you sack me, and you'd better have fucking good cause. Let alone "because some cunt made a complaint".

      And yes, I've been accused of harassment before. For holding a door open for someone. Interestingly I mentioned this to a colleague and he said that at another company he'd had a formal grievance against him for exactly that too.

      Zero pay because you held a door open for someone? Where the fuck do you work, and in what imaginary world do you ask a 'prosecutor' to investigate workplace harassment?

    87. Re:Cake or death by swb · · Score: 1

      My assumption is that a repeated, long-term pattern of harassing behavior wouldn't be tolerated unless the guy really was the goose that laid the golden egg.

      On the other hand, what kind of claim does she have, really? Monetary damages are probably limited to 2x her salary because of how short her tenure was. Let's say that's $300k and it costs Uber another $50k to hire and train her replacement.

      I don't know what this guy's job is, but replacing *him* may be something that has a direct cost of $100k (recruiting, signing bonus, etc) and indirect costs due to workflow disruption while he's being replaced. It's not impossible those could add up to another $200k or more -- business disruption is expensive.

    88. Re:Cake or death by stealth_finger · · Score: 1

      In TFA which I admittedly hadn't read at time of post, yes. In TFS, no. Morale of the story. Always RTFA.

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    89. Re:Cake or death by joe_frisch · · Score: 1

      There *should* be zero tolerance for some behaviors. If someone is harassing one of their workers, in addition to behaving immorally and illegally, they are driving away talented people, and exposing the company to huge lawsuits.

      Why should anyone ever be given a pass for this sort of behavior?

      More minor offenses are a different matter, but a manger asking a direct report for sex is not a borderline case.

    90. Re:Cake or death by monkease · · Score: 1

      I have no pics of any of the laws of mathematics, the phenomenon of gravity, or _anything_ that happened before the invention of the camera.

      You're right, there's a chance that this dev who, IMO seems pretty reasonable, has fabricated this whole thing but has not gotten around to fabricating screenshots of these fabricated conversations (b/c "pics" CAN be fabricated, are not proof themselves unless verified), and so this whole thing COULD unravel if further investigation--which she seems to be inviting--happens. THIS COULD BE!

      It could also be that EVERYTHING that happened before this moment is a total lie being told to you by falsified systems of neurons telekinetically arranged in your brain by psychic Illuminati lizard men. COULD BE!!! So, you gonna disbelieve it all?

      Seriously. How do STEM folks succumb so easily to logical fallacy?

    91. Re:Cake or death by BradleyUffner · · Score: 1

      ...telekinetically arranged in your brain by psychic Illuminati lizard men...

      yeah... you're going to want to talk to your doctor about upping your meds.

    92. Re:Cake or death by Agiailotes · · Score: 1

      This story proves you wrong

      How can a story that contains no evidence prove anything?

      Time to bail from Slashdot, seems like almost all the sane rational people have left.

    93. Re:Cake or death by monkease · · Score: 1

      ...you do get that that's an ad absurdum argument, yeah? No?

    94. Re: Cake or death by nastyphil · · Score: 1

      Like the church does with pedophile priests?

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    95. Re:Cake or death by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0
    96. Re:Cake or death by Rande · · Score: 1

      Because it wasn't recorded and written in his file, _every_ time it happened was his first offence...because 'I have no record of any other offences'.

    97. Re:Cake or death by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      This is the natural result of too many judgment calls turning out to be completely and totally wrong. Dismiss serious offenses as "boys will be boys" enough times and you won't be allowed to make that call anymore. When enough people do it, nobody will be allowed to, often resulting in overreactions with unintended consequences. In cases like this, corporations have motive to avoid punitive action, resulting in a culture of abuse developing and running unchecked for decades (or longer). To fix this, corrective action must be swift and decisive. It may not be perfectly fair to everyone, but there's no easy path to get to that from a system that was (and in some cases still is) extremely unfair to a lot of people. A perfect world does not exist, the best we can do is asymptotically approach it while oscillating between opposite unwanted extremes.

    98. Re:Cake or death by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      There's a problem. It's the same person making the accusation saying it happened many times before and since. Is she lying? I don't know... but she says she has evidence but hasn't presented it. If it's a legal thing preventing her from sharing the evidence then why is she posting the story at all? If it was such a big deal, why did she stay there so long? If she has such solid evidence that's an easy win in court.

      Maybe she does have the evidence, but thus far, none has been presented. It is STILL all her word. There have been so many cases just like this where there is "mass amounts of evidence" that turn out not to exist, and someone is wiped through the mud. People do deserve a chance to defend themselves too. If you have seen the proof, THEN you can proceed to trash this guy with impunity. Until then, you're taking one person's word that someone else is a dirtbag. I don't respect Uber at all anyway so I have no opinion on them.

    99. Re:Cake or death by bmk67 · · Score: 1

      Read TFA? This is slashdot, c'mon.

  5. Jacobin Jeopardy by PopeRatzo · · Score: 0

    I'll take "Exploitation" for $400, Alex.

    "Uber's ability to be on the wrong side of every moral and ethical issue is bordering on magical."

    What is, "capitalism"?

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    1. Re:Jacobin Jeopardy by drinkypoo · · Score: 1

      What is, "capitalism"?

      It really does boggle my mind that people haven't figured out that the whole system of capitalism might as well be designed to create opportunities for abuse. Since we have reason to believe that human nature hasn't changed appreciably throughout history — the more we look, the more ways we find in which we're similar to other primates, let alone humans of old — we know these opportunities will be taken.

      The dictionary definition is that capital controls the means of production. That always used to come down to human hands, which meant people controlled by money. Now it's going to mean cogs and gears, and they're going to work for the people who are already wealthy. What will they choose to grind out? I guarantee it won't be sunshine and happiness for all mankind.

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    2. Re:Jacobin Jeopardy by fustakrakich · · Score: 3, Informative

      Says right there in the mantra: *What the market will bear* Abuse, violence, cheating, lying... If the market will bear it, what's the problem? It's all perfectly good if the government stays out of it, amirite?

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    3. Re: Jacobin Jeopardy by Entrope · · Score: 4, Insightful

      I know, right? Communism never led to any abuses ever! Neither did theocracies, anarchy, or monarchies!

    4. Re: Jacobin Jeopardy by drinkypoo · · Score: 1

      I know, right? Communism never led to any abuses ever!

      Communism has never been faithfully attempted at scale. It has always been a cynical ploy to fool the populace while the rich stayed rich. (Sometimes they are killed and their wealth absorbed by other rich people, but the wealth doesn't make it into the hands of the people.)

      Neither did theocracies, anarchy, or monarchies!

      I didn't say any of those things were good, did I?

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    5. Re: Jacobin Jeopardy by Entrope · · Score: 3, Insightful

      Ah, the old predictable "no true communism" argument. It's always hard to tell if the person advancing that claim is a shameless liar or an utter moron.

      Why didn't you note that true capitalism has never been faithfully tried, either?

    6. Re:Jacobin Jeopardy by meta-monkey · · Score: 5, Insightful

      It really does boggle my mind that people haven't figured out that the whole system of capitalism might as well be designed to create opportunities for abuse.

      It boggles my mind that people haven't figured out capitalism is the only system that introduces voluntary behavior such that one even has a hope of avoiding abuse. At least in a capitalist system when you're harassed you can quit, and inform others, and the business suffers. There's some kind of financial incentive to avoid tolerating harassment. Propensity for abuse is inherent to humanity, not the economic system.

      What happens when you're sexually harassed by your commie party official? Better put out or it's gulag for you, comrade.

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    7. Re:Jacobin Jeopardy by meta-monkey · · Score: 1

      What is "humanity."

      What do you think would make communism any less exploitative, comrade? At least with capitalism you can shop around for an unabusive employer, and choose not to spend your dollars with abusive companies. No such choice in worker's paradise.

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    8. Re:Jacobin Jeopardy by PopeRatzo · · Score: 1

      What do you think would make communism any less exploitative, comrade?

      If only God had given us more than two choices for economic systems.

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    9. Re:Jacobin Jeopardy by meta-monkey · · Score: 1

      What's the economic system that's free from exploitation?

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    10. Re:Jacobin Jeopardy by fibonacci8 · · Score: 1

      Blaming economics on God, that's a new low.

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    11. Re: Jacobin Jeopardy by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

      Communism has never been attempted at scale because it is not scalable. It utterly fails outside of small groups where a high feedback bandwidth between the members can be maintained.

      By definition it has to be peer-to-peer, which is unscalable beyond a certain point. Any attempt to make it hierarchical is an immediate fail, at that point it is no longer communism.

    12. Re:Jacobin Jeopardy by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      What's the economic system that's free from exploitation?

      One completely free from human beings, I suspect.

    13. Re: Jacobin Jeopardy by radl33t · · Score: 1

      I would argue that its entire history is an attempt to "faithfully" try it, and that the excesses reveal themselves so quickly and awfully that it's quickly reigned in. Capitalism is self-defeating in a way that, I think, is not shared by other systems - for all their own faults.

    14. Re: Jacobin Jeopardy by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      > Communism has never been faithfully attempted at scale
      That claim is staggering. You could make the same statement about Sharia, Fascism, Anarchy, Libertarianism, or even Democracy because you're defining "faithfully" to be a magical version that isn't flawed and doesn't fall apart.

    15. Re: Jacobin Jeopardy by nasch · · Score: 1

      Why didn't you note that true capitalism has never been faithfully tried, either?

      Do you mean there's always some means of production owned by the government, even if it's very small, therefore it's not pure capitalism?

    16. Re: Jacobin Jeopardy by Entrope · · Score: 1

      No, I mean that governments inevitably interfere with the market system. That's about the same minimal level of deviation from an ideal that communism's defenders invoke to say that true communism has never really been tried.

    17. Re: Jacobin Jeopardy by Gilgaron · · Score: 1

      I haven't seen any attempts that weren't authoritarianism, even the USSR didn't appear to really have soviets as described in Marx. Now, it may well be that his ideas are entirely unworkable, but I'd tend to agree that no one appears to have tried beyond getting rid of the previous power structure.

    18. Re: Jacobin Jeopardy by nasch · · Score: 1

      As long as the means of production are privately owned, that's capitalism. It may not be free market capitalism, but that's more specific.

    19. Re: Jacobin Jeopardy by serviscope_minor · · Score: 1

      No, I mean that governments inevitably interfere with the market system.

      I don't think you'll find much government interference in anything in your failed state of choice, e.g. the DRC.

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    20. Re:Jacobin Jeopardy by serviscope_minor · · Score: 1

      It boggles my mind that people haven't figured out capitalism is the only system that introduces voluntary behavior such that one even has a hope of avoiding abuse. At least in a capitalist system when you're harassed you can quit, and inform others, and the business suffers.

      You can quit in a socialist system too. The difference is that with a welfare state you might get some benefits in between your jobs to make things easier.

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    21. Re: Jacobin Jeopardy by Megol · · Score: 1

      Because the systems that called themselves communistic didn't follow any of the basic definitions of the term.
      Marx: the natural consequences are that workers will rise up and revolt, take over the means of production and spontaneously self-organize into a distributed state.
      Soviet union etc.: intellectuals will create a revolution, take over the the means of production and forcefully create an authoritarian state lead by the intellectuals as workers are dumb.

      There's a slight difference...

    22. Re: Jacobin Jeopardy by Megol · · Score: 1

      Exactly. The same of course applies to most other political philosophies including pure capitalism.

    23. Re:Jacobin Jeopardy by Megol · · Score: 1

      The one actively ensuring that exploitation isn't allowed of course.

    24. Re: Jacobin Jeopardy by Entrope · · Score: 1

      The DRC has never been short on government interference. There has basically always been lots of state-sanctioned violence and corruption. Heck, they even got help from other governments in the interfering-with-things department. Except for the "other governments" part, the same is true of other failed states. That is typically why they failed.

    25. Re: Jacobin Jeopardy by Jason+Levine · · Score: 1

      I don't think true communism has ever been tried on a large scale simply because it wouldn't work on a large scale. At some point, it just collapses into a "rich people rule the poor."

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    26. Re: Jacobin Jeopardy by Entrope · · Score: 1

      Sure, and you only touch on my point in passing: It seems impossible to implement communism on any kind of large scale without that kind of failure. Given that all the governments (larger than a kibbutz) that have claimed to be trying communism end up brutally repressing their citizens while also greatly reducing quality of life for the non-elites, I would rather take my chances with capitalism.

    27. Re:Jacobin Jeopardy by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

      It really does boggle my mind that people haven't figured out that the whole system of capitalism might as well be designed to create opportunities for abuse.

      It boggles my mind that people haven't figured out capitalism is the only system that introduces voluntary behavior such that one even has a hope of avoiding abuse. At least in a capitalist system when you're harassed you can quit, and inform others, and the business suffers. There's some kind of financial incentive to avoid tolerating harassment. Propensity for abuse is inherent to humanity, not the economic system.

      What happens when you're sexually harassed by your commie party official? Better put out or it's gulag for you, comrade.

      Because rampant capitalism and out-and-out communism are literally the only two systems possible?

    28. Re:Jacobin Jeopardy by meta-monkey · · Score: 1

      Which is the economic system free from potential for sexual harassment?

      This story is about human behavior, which is shit, and Ratzo turned it into some anti-capitalist thing. "Shit smells like shit! THANKS CAPITALISM!!!!"

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    29. Re:Jacobin Jeopardy by Agiailotes · · Score: 1

      incoherent grammar
      infantile comprehension of civics

    30. Re:Jacobin Jeopardy by meta-monkey · · Score: 1

      Where's the "+1: Chutzpah" mod for someone who writes like this while criticizing grammar?

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    31. Re:Jacobin Jeopardy by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Which is the economic system free from potential for sexual harassment?

      I like how you invent "create opportunity for abuse" into "free from potential for [abuse]". The latter is absurd. The former is at least manageable under a regulated system that doesn't grant government nor capitalism too much power. That's what "checks and balances" are about.

    32. Re: Jacobin Jeopardy by serviscope_minor · · Score: 1

      The point is that after they've failed then there's no government interference at all. At that point if certain beliefs are to be believed, the magic pixies of unfettered markets and libertarianism should make it a perfectly functioning utopia.

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    33. Re: Jacobin Jeopardy by Entrope · · Score: 1

      You seem to be laboring under the delusion that "failed state" means "no government". It doesn't.

    34. Re: Jacobin Jeopardy by Gilgaron · · Score: 1

      I don't think it'd work at scale either, but I suppose I lean more towards the cynical view that no one really tried once they seized power, versus a no true Scotsman view of communism.

    35. Re: Jacobin Jeopardy by Entrope · · Score: 1

      The claim that all those people who say they tried to be communists weren't actually trying Real Communism is pretty close to the textbook/Wikipedia example of the No True Scotsman fallacy, particularly since it is a claim mostly made in hindsight, and contemporary reports of the Soviet Union (to pick an example) played up its communist credentials.

    36. Re: Jacobin Jeopardy by phantomfive · · Score: 1

      FWIW the soviet union considered itself socialist, on the way to transitioning into communist. They never figured out how to make it into full communism, either.

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    37. Re:Jacobin Jeopardy by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      You Americans have some crazy ideas about what the words "communist" and "capitalist" mean. The result of decades of propaganda, presumably.

      "Capitalism" is what they had in 19th-century England, for example. What we have today is England can also be called capitalism, but it's very different from the original capitalism. In modern England a typical worker has a pension fund invested in the stock market, for example. I've no idea what Karl Marx would have made of that.

      "Communism" is an ideal of some sort. There were, and still are, parties that call themselves "communist", but countries such as East Germany or the USSR described themselves as "socialist", not "communist". People referred to "building communism", but they didn't usually claim to have finished building it. I would guess that modern England is closer to having built communism than the USSR ever was, but that's for the people who call themselves communists to decide, really. I''m not one of them.

    38. Re: Jacobin Jeopardy by Half-pint+HAL · · Score: 1

      No, I mean that governments inevitably interfere with the market system. That's about the same minimal level of deviation from an ideal that communism's defenders invoke to say that true communism has never really been tried.

      Philosophical communism is generally defined as being anti-statist, so state socialism like the USSR isn't really "communism" at all, even leaving aside the question of corruption at the state level.

      We were much closer to true capitalism a couple of hundred years ago now, when "penny pies" sold in the street were stuffed with sawdust to try to get round the rising cost of food; when landowners were free to kick people tenants off their land to make way for sheep; when people were working seven days a week for wages that weren't enough to feed the family; when people with no other wage were condemned to the "poorhouse"; and when the only detriment to a factory for crushing a child worker to death was the loss of the carpet that was stained from the child's blood and gore.

      The whole reason communist thought arose was as a reaction to the excesses of bourgeois capitalism (the French revolution was a bourgeois-democratic revolution, and the bourgeoisie are damn near the dictionary definition of capitalists).

      Governments stepped in on food safety; trade unions stood up for workers rights (and the weekend break); etc.

      Eventually, we got to the stage where children all go to school instead of work, the unemployed aren't herded into forced labour camps. All good stuff.

      So yes, capitalism has been tried pretty much as far as it could.

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    39. Re:Jacobin Jeopardy by Half-pint+HAL · · Score: 1

      You mock, but remember the parable of the talents.

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    40. Re:Jacobin Jeopardy by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Say what???

      " At least in a capitalist system when you're harassed you can quit, and inform others, and the business suffers."

      In reality the exact opposite happens, the population is too stupid to punish criminal behavior and rewards the most criminal among us. See: Steam, online DRM, MMO's, etc.

      People are much too stupid which is why the world is so corrupt.

    41. Re: Jacobin Jeopardy by HornWumpus · · Score: 1

      Marx was a drunk moron with no understanding of human nature or realpolitik. He has a 100% wrong rate on his social predictions.

      His books _should_ be out of print from disinterest, but for some reason they are not. I blame the teachers.

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    42. Re: Jacobin Jeopardy by serviscope_minor · · Score: 1

      You seem to be laboring under the delusion that "failed state" means "no government". It doesn't.

      One of the key characteristics of a failed state is that the central government does not have control over significant areas of the country. Go to one of those areas, then and the central government will be utterly unable to bother you.

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    43. Re: Jacobin Jeopardy by mjwx · · Score: 1

      I know, right? Communism never led to any abuses ever! Neither did theocracies, anarchy, or monarchies!

      Of course there are never alternatives to strict capitalism or communism? It's one or the other, always, right?

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    44. Re: Jacobin Jeopardy by Entrope · · Score: 1

      Obviously, no one ever practices any large system in a pure form.

      However, I would rather have lived in the United States any time in the last 100 years than in the Soviet Union at the same times. Life in the United States -- or Britain, or France, or the former West Germany -- has been better under more capitalist regimes (as actually practiced) than it has been in China, Cuba, Vietnam, or any of the other communist regimes (as actually practiced).

      PopeRatzo and drinkypoo played stupid games, and won stupid prizes.

  6. Re:"Former" engineer - tells you all you need to k by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 2, Interesting

    From her piece, Fowler indicates that the percentage of women working in her unit dropped from 25% to 3% within a year. That's a fairly simple thing to check and lends a fair amount of weight to her criticisms.

  7. What did you expect on a first offense? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Seriously. Immediate termination? That's actually against labor laws as you're required by law to give a warning first.

    1. Re:What did you expect on a first offense? by omnichad · · Score: 1

      California is an "at-will employment" state. That means someone can be fired for any reason at any time. Afterward, someone may sue for things like discrimination of a protected class, but otherwise that's it.

    2. Re:What did you expect on a first offense? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      No you're not. Not for gross misconduct.

      I could list any number of offenses that will get you fired immediately, in any state.

    3. Re:What did you expect on a first offense? by meta-monkey · · Score: 1

      If you read further in the article, they were lying about the first offense. Once she started talking to the other women engineers several had already reported him before this incident, and then new hires got the same treatment. Apparently every time he begged for sex it was the first time.

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    4. Re:What did you expect on a first offense? by Junta · · Score: 1

      Well, there's the fact that this person allegedly did this to several women. More importantly though, was a lack of anti-retaliation protection by HR. In sane companies, they are very upfront and very explicit about protecting anonymity and if that's not possible, strict anti-retaliation rules. So regardless of the level of punishment the manager should/should not have gotten, her position in the aftermath of reporting it sounds unacceptable.

      Also in sane companies, if you are trying to transfer out and you have the target management on your side, your current team can only block the transfer for a few months to transition. Also, your *current* manager's performance review can't factor into another team requesting you (and *certainly* not it a way where bad performance reviews are a tool to retain, that's counter productive, if a person is a bad fit in one team, why would the rules *lock* that person to a team?).

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    5. Re:What did you expect on a first offense? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      It was the first time with that woman.

      Although clearly HR has their heads up their asses.

    6. Re:What did you expect on a first offense? by joe_frisch · · Score: 1

      Yes. (assuming the charges can be proven).
      No different from fraud or any other illegal action that puts the company at great financial risk.

  8. I like Uber by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    My girlfriend doesn't drive yet and they help her get around easily.

    1. Re:I like Uber by coolsnowmen · · Score: 1
  9. Re: "Former" engineer - tells you all you need to by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

    Is her competence not obvious?
    A: she got a job at stripe right away after quitting Uber.
    B: What would she get from posting this online? More people buying her very specific microservice book?
    C: SHE WROTE AN O'RIELY BOOK AND SHES ONLY A FEW YEARS OUT OF COLLEGE.

  10. Re:"Former" engineer - tells you all you need to k by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

    It would be interesting to see productivity numbers for that unit spanning this period with a couple months on either end for comparison.

  11. Re:"Former" engineer - tells you all you need to k by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    "My guess is this person lost their job for performance of incontinence reasons..."

    Was that a 'Uber style' attempt at damage control?

  12. That's pretty damming, progressives by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

    Isn't silicon valley in the middle of a progressive's wet dreamland? Ultra-left. Ultra sensitive to different lifestyles. But issues like sexism that is usually associated with the right still run rampant. Why is that?

    1. Re: That's pretty damming, progressives by DNS-and-BIND · · Score: 1

      It's not that they're left, of course they are. It's that they're *not far enough left*. That's the issue here.

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    2. Re:That's pretty damming, progressives by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

      Ultra-left. Ultra sensitive to different lifestyles. But issues like sexism that is usually associated with the right still run rampant. Why is that?

      Because liberals apply their high standards to other people, never to themselves. In fact, it's such a common trait among the left that it forms the basis for the term Limousine liberal.

    3. Re:That's pretty damming, progressives by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Because "progressives", the left, tend to focus on fairness. The right (with some glaring exceptions) tends to focus on morality.

      The harasser in this case was going on about whether it was fair that his mate could get other sex partners when he couldn't. Dead giveaway right there.

    4. Re:That's pretty damming, progressives by Half-pint+HAL · · Score: 1

      Because machismo isn't a left-wing right-wing thing. People who think they're Superman think everyone's their Lois Lane.

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  13. Re:"Former" engineer - tells you all you need to k by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    >(...) lends a fair amount of weight to her criticisms.

    It does not. Such a change in percentage can follow from both women leaving, and from men being hired. The theory presented here fails to account for both, leaving it looking single-mindedly written and poorly-argued.

  14. Re:"Former" engineer - tells you all you need to k by kuzb · · Score: 1

    No it does not. All it tells us is that some women left the company. It doesn't tell us how many people were in her unit, and it doesn't give their personal accounts.

    I know Slashdot loves a controversy, but it would be nice to have some facts for a change.

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  15. Noob question by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    How you downvote idiological articles on ./ ?

    1. Re:Noob question by PopeRatzo · · Score: 5, Funny

      How you downvote idiological articles on ./ ?

      From the Slashdot FAQ:

      Q: How do you downvote idiological (!) articles on ./ ?

      A: Start by not reading them. And if you do accidentally read an "idiological" article on "./", be sure to not post a comment on it, dumbfuck.

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    2. Re:Noob question by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0
    3. Re:Noob question by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      PopeyShillzo, aww you're so cute!

    4. Re:Noob question by sexconker · · Score: 1

      The firehose isn't what it used to be. Our "editors" shove shit right down our throats with no regard to the firehose.

  16. Re: A bad way to start by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 2, Insightful

    Wrong. The boss is in a position of power. Asking a subordinate for sex is a power play and by its nature harassment, even more so on the first day on the job. She was right to contact HR. Especially after she later discovered this wasn't his first offense.

  17. Re:Nice alignment by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Buckle up, Timmy.

  18. Nobody looks at sales. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 2, Insightful

    Wait until you're a salesman competing for an account against a saleswoman. It's an aspect I never see printed, yet everyone knows it exists.

  19. Re:Nice alignment by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0, Flamebait

    This is the world we live in now. If you're white and male you're the enemy. Media loves to have an enemy, who gives a shit if they deserve the label or not.

  20. Nope by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Cool Story. Unfortunately there's not a chance HR would disclose to you what sanctions they took against another employee. Good luck with your inevitable lawsuit, though.

  21. Re: "Former" engineer - tells you all you need to by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Right, but his post is marked 'insightful' so you must be wrong. SMH.

  22. Re:"Former" engineer - tells you all you need to k by Merk42 · · Score: 2

    ...My guess is this person lost their job for performance of incontinence reasons and is trying to create a shitstorm in order to extract revenge...

    So I'm guessing she won't succeed given her history.

  23. Re:A bad way to start by omnichad · · Score: 1

    He was oversharing unsolicited details of his sex life with someone he didn't even know. That definitely crosses the line into harassment in my book even without a proposition.

  24. Re:Nice alignment by DogDude · · Score: 2

    accused by one of those persons that shout sexism!, racism!, bigotry! around fifty-eleven times a day.

    Do you have any evidence that this is true, or do you just enjoy slandering people for fun?

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  25. Re:A bad way to start by DogDude · · Score: 4, Informative

    Oh, silly AC. Any boss asking any subordinate to fuck them is harassment.

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  26. Another Sexism Article That I Don't Care About by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0, Interesting

    Seriously. I couldn't possibly care any less about sexism accusations at Uber.

    Uber sucks for so many other bigger reasons.

  27. Re:Nice alignment by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Instead you choose to keep pretending every article claiming sexism in the tech industry is fake? You are not the target of it so it's not as immediately visible to you. You're choosing to consider this article fake because you somehow feel personally attacked.

  28. SOX Issue? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Does this mean that Uber executives are signing financial statements with off the book liabilities e.g sexual harassment lawsuits?

  29. Re:"Former" engineer - tells you all you need to k by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Sure. And if the company went out and hired enough men to drop the percentage of women from 25% to 3%, that wouldn't suggest to you that they might, just possibly, have the teensiest problem with sexism?

  30. Re:"Former" engineer - tells you all you need to k by hey! · · Score: 2

    "Former" engineer - tells you all you need to know.

    That tells us everything we need to know about your thinking ability.

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  31. Re:Nice alignment by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    You're so oppressed. How does a story about women being sexually harassed in the workplace turn into you thinking you're being personally demonized?

  32. What's wrong with this people? by OneHundredAndTen · · Score: 1

    Don't they have wives, sisters, daughters? Don't they care if other guys behave toward them that way? Have they not learned to think with their brains, rather than their dicks? How utterly stupid can they be?

    1. Re:What's wrong with this people? by meta-monkey · · Score: 4, Insightful

      The problem was his wife. When she wanted an "open relationship" so she could fuck other guys he should have said "DROPPED" and found a faithful woman. Instead he said "okay..." and then went begging for sex from every other woman he encountered.

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    2. Re:What's wrong with this people? by haruchai · · Score: 2

      The problem was his wife. When she wanted an "open relationship" so she could fuck other guys he should have said "DROPPED" and found a faithful woman. Instead he said "okay..." and then went begging for sex from every other woman he encountered.

      Girlfriend, not wife. My bet is that he's a sugar daddy & sub to some young thing that won't let him into her panties but gets him all worked up telling him about all the amazing sex she's having with other men.

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    3. Re:What's wrong with this people? by serviscope_minor · · Score: 1

      The problem was his wife.

      Guy behaves like a scumbag but the problem is his wife. Yeah no. The problem is him and people like you for blaming other people on his behalf.

      You also ought to get over your puritanical moralizing about monogamy. It's not for everyone.

      Instead he said "okay..." and then went begging for sex from every other woman he encountered.

      But it's his wife's fault for him doing that, right fellas? Always the old ball and chain's fault, right? Fellas? Fellas?

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    4. Re:What's wrong with this people? by Wisp · · Score: 1

      Do you really believe he treats is wife any better? I'm skeptical

    5. Re:What's wrong with this people? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      > The problem was his wife. When she wanted an "open relationship" so she could fuck other guys he should have said "DROPPED" and found a FAITHFUL woman. Instead he said "okay..." and then went begging for sex from every other woman he encountered.

      'Faithful'? What are you, from Victorian England? Why should the woman be 'faithful' to the man but not the other way round? I don't really know what you mean by 'faithful' here?
      It is an OPEN relationship where they have agreed to have sex with other people with or without revealing that to the partner. What's wrong with that? So what if the guy is a beta and she wants to additionally fuck alpha guys on the side. That's a natural desire in all girls. Ditto for the male side. As long as they are both OK with it, whats YOUR problem? You not getting ANY?

    6. Re:What's wrong with this people? by meta-monkey · · Score: 1, Insightful

      Actually I blame feminism/leftism in general, which gave everyone involved the idea that any of this shit was okay and would not result in exactly these problems.

      People are animals. So society invents moral codes and customs to tame their animal behavior, prevent conflict, and channel their bad impulses into productive activity. Then short-sighted idiots come along and say "ugh, this is terrible! How dare you tell me what to do I can do whatever I want!" Enough short-sighted idiots go along with this, people stop following the rules, and then start crying when human animals act like animals. "Why are people acting like this!" Because they're people. We had rules to stop this behavior from occurring but you didn't like them, so now you get shit behavior. Start following the rules designed to prevent shit behavior and the shit behavior will stop.

      You also ought to get over your puritanical moralizing about monogamy. It's not for everyone.

      By what right did you call the guy a scumbag? You ought to get over your puritanical moralizing about begging subordinates for sex. It's not for everyone.

      I wish this story could be broadcast to the people of the 1950s. "A company is getting ruined because female engineers are getting harassed by a pervert? Okay, first off, what the fuck are 'female engineers?' We don't have enough male engineers? Why aren't they home taking care of their kids instead of slaving at some stupid company for perverts? They wouldn't be getting harassed then now would they? Okay, okay, so now about this pervert, why doesn't he just have his own woman? Wait he does? Okay so he's cheating on her why what a piece of...hold on an 'open relationship?' She's having sex with other men...and he knows about it...so now he's hitting on everything in a skirt...THIS IS WHY WE HAVE RULES GODDAMNIT!!!" and they'd kill every feminist on sight and we wouldn't have these problems.

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    7. Re:What's wrong with this people? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      The problem was his wife. When she wanted an "open relationship" so she could fuck other guys he should have said "DROPPED" and found a faithful woman. Instead he said "okay..." and then went begging for sex from every other woman he encountered.

      Well, assuming his account to a woman he was trying to fuck is accurate and not fabricated to assuage her worries about the jealous wife and possibly pity-fuck him, than it's probable that he initially thought the open relationship would benefit him more and that it might have been his idea originally.

    8. Re:What's wrong with this people? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      The problem was him. The wife was a symptom.

    9. Re:What's wrong with this people? by meta-monkey · · Score: 1

      As long as they are both OK with it, whats YOUR problem?

      You're right about these desires being "natural." In Victorian England fucking around meant death by syphilis. Syphilis is natural, too, so what's your problem with it?!

      My problem with this story is that it exists. Install social mores about how people have sex that, in addition to other benefits, prevent nice women from being propositioned disrespectfully. Remove social mores because "OH MY GOD WHAT'S YOUR PROBLEM!?!" Be shocked when nice women are propositioned disrespectfully.

      You not getting ANY?

      I'm a traditionalist Catholic with a good job and a beautiful blonde wife who stays home, takes care of our kids, and cooks me amazing dinners. My sex life is none of your business.

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    10. Re:What's wrong with this people? by meta-monkey · · Score: 1

      I can agree with that.

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    11. Re:What's wrong with this people? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      He is a cuck my friend. Advertising you are a cuck to women will not get you their admiration. I have no time for cucks, but my girlfriend's husband says the situation is "not fair."

    12. Re:What's wrong with this people? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      The problem was his wife. When she wanted an "open relationship" so she could fuck other guys he should have said "DROPPED" and found a faithful woman.

      Sexist, much?
      The problem was him. HE did not say "DROPPED".
      While she went on fucking whomever, he went on being douche towards the new guy. (note: sexual suggestions - or pretty much any personal details - is not what one wants to hear from anyone the first day at work.)
      IF the problem would have been with her, then she probably blackmailed him to stay in every second guy's fantasy relationship. I can think of fates worse than being stuck in an open relationship.

      captcha: idiocy

    13. Re:What's wrong with this people? by serviscope_minor · · Score: 1

      We had rules to stop this behavior from occurring but you didn't like them, so now you get shit behavior. Start following the rules designed to prevent shit behavior and the shit behavior will stop.

      You think this sort of behaviour happened before? Then, for the good of humanity, can you share the secret to faster-than-light travel because you clearly hail from a different planet.

      By what right did you call the guy a scumbag?

      Because he attempted to use his power over someone to coerce her into having sex with him. It's really really simple.

      You ought to get over your puritanical moralizing about begging subordinates for sex.

      That situation is abusing a power imbalance. That falls far on the wrong side of my moral code, where as consenting adults not being monogamous does not. Mostly because I have in interest in protecting people from abuse, but no interest in dictating people's sex lives.

      You on the other hand seem to go the opposite way.

      I wish this story could be broadcast to the people of the 1950s.

      Is there something special about the 1950s which makes them some sort of high point?

      Okay, first off, what the fuck are 'female engineers?'

      Well, at this point I do nuderstand the source of your confusion. It appears you are struggling with extremely basic concepts. I can see therefore why you can't reason through why abusing a power dynamic is bad.

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    14. Re:What's wrong with this people? by meta-monkey · · Score: 2

      You think this sort of behaviour happened before? Then, for the good of humanity, can you share the secret to faster-than-light travel because you clearly hail from a different planet.

      No I'm saying we had many, many cultural mores to prevent this kind of shit from happening. Just off the top of my head we had:

      1. Preferences against women (of any quality) in the workplace.
      2. Preferences against casual intercourse.
      3. Preferences against unmarried men and women being alone together.
      4. Shame in being involved in a non-monogamous relationship.
      5. Incredible shame in having people know about your involvement in an non-monogamous relationship.

      Of the 5 rules I listed, are there any that you like or agree with? We have cultural rules like this in place because otherwise a not insignificant number of men will act like the man in the article. You knock out every cultural safeguard to prevent this kind of behavior and then you're shocked when this behavior occurs because the guy didn't care about the one rule you do care about.

      Is there something special about the 1950s which makes them some sort of high point?

      Men and women were happier then. That was before feminism ruined both and "freed" women from being chained to the stove so they could be chained to the call center desk instead.

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    15. Re:What's wrong with this people? by serviscope_minor · · Score: 1

      Men and women were happier then.

      Some fairly large subset of straight, white, middle class, Christian men and housewifes, you mean. No one else appears to count in your reckoning.

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    16. Re:What's wrong with this people? by Half-pint+HAL · · Score: 1

      At the very least, it's pretty one-sided to be in an open relationship when your other half has lots of opportunities to meet other people but you're working all hours for a poorly organised mega-sized startup. Perhaps it worked fine for them before he started at Uber -- I wouldn't want an open relationship, but I won't judge him for it. But what I will judge him for is unprofessional conduct. If he has a problem with how his personal life is going, that's not something he should be bringing to work.

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    17. Re:What's wrong with this people? by meta-monkey · · Score: 1

      That was like 90% of the country at the time. The rest was unhappy because race not sex, but it's great how you try to conflate the "struggles" of white women, the most privileged creatures to ever walk the earth, with those of the 2nd and 3rd generation offspring of slaves.

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    18. Re:What's wrong with this people? by serviscope_minor · · Score: 1

      Oh white women, right. All bon-bons and alimony cheques, eh?

      An here you can see viewers, an MRA in its natural habitat. We must be very careful not to be seen otherwise he might take fright and scurry under the nearest rock.

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    19. Re:What's wrong with this people? by meta-monkey · · Score: 1

      When did I say I was an MRA? I'm a traditionalist Catholic. We don't have much in common.

      All I'm saying is the sea of degeneracy in which these people are wallowing which results in a man begging a strange woman for sex over email started long before "but he was her boss."

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    20. Re:What's wrong with this people? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Why assume he's telling the truth? Most likely he's lying and his wife is not ok with an open relationship. He just made it up to make it sound better to the tail he was trying to score.

      And I'm sure that line works great with most women. Snort.

    21. Re:What's wrong with this people? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      It's Silicon Valley.

      Hot women flock there chasing money and marry malleable nerdy losers who've made it big, knowing they will be obedient little cuckolds due to insecurity and the promise of some ...sometimes ...maybe. Then those women spend all day shopping and fucking hot guys (who flocked there chasing those women) while the shmucks are at work. The women either get caught and claim "open relationship" to invoke the cuckoldery officially or are just brazen enough to spell it out early on if they believe the guy is down on himself enough accept it outright. The guys who do, having gained a marginal amount of warped confidence due to the marriage are now (slightly) less introverted but still very awkward (even more so now given how off-putting "open relationships" are to most people), try to do the open relationship thing too, flirting (badly) with any female in ear/textshot. Probably in the same manner their wives do to attractive men, naively thinking it will work for them too.

      They become bold enough to flirt but not man enough to ditch the sluts and start a real relationship.

      CAPTCHA: passions

    22. Re:What's wrong with this people? by serviscope_minor · · Score: 1

      When did I say I was an MRA?

      I (it turns out incorrectly) deduced that you were, mostly because you started to sound an awful lot like one.

      I'm a traditionalist Catholic.

      i.e. a massive hypocrite. I actually know the bible reasonably well, well enough to know that your allegedly religiously derived rules are nothing of the sort. No, instead you have a bunch of extra-biblical philosophy and selectively cherry pick bits of the bible to support it all the while ignoring the bits of the bible that don't support it and in fact say the opposite.

      That generally involves cherry picking a a fiar bit of old bledded-be-he's fire-and-brimstone proclamations from the old testament and ignoring a lot of what that radical hippie type said. Which, for people wo call themselves Christians, is pretty ironic.

      This is not to say that all Christians are hypocrites---far from it. You and your desire to oppress others for your personal gain are about as far from the teachings of Jesus as it's possible to get.

      We don't have much in common.

      Apart from a desire for oppression and a return to glory days of the 1950s where everyone except people like you were repressed, you mean.

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    23. Re:What's wrong with this people? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      My sex life is none of your business.

      No it is our business. The Bible told us what happened to Sodom and Gomorrah. What you do in your bedroom may very well lead to entire cities being fire and brimstoned.

      Even the Muslims know of S & G and incorporate laws in Sharia.

    24. Re:What's wrong with this people? by meta-monkey · · Score: 1

      That's a good point. I am not doing anything in the bedroom that will get our city firebombed, so you can rest assured.

      Then again I recall Jerry Falwell saying that Hurricane Katrina was God's justice on New Orleans for the gays. But since the flooding mostly skipped the gay district, it seems to have been God's justice on the gay-adjacent. I guess we need more data points to figure out who exactly God is hating these days.

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    25. Re:What's wrong with this people? by meta-monkey · · Score: 1

      i.e. a massive hypocrite.

      Yes, every Christian and every conservative is a hypocrite. It's impossible to live up to our own rules, that's why we're always trying and failing. You are not a hypocrite, however, because you'd have to have standards in order to violate standards. A pig who thinks rolling in shit is just swell is hardly hypocritical when rolling around in shit, is he?

      I actually know the bible reasonably well, well enough to know that your allegedly religiously derived rules are nothing of the sort. No, instead you have a bunch of extra-biblical philosophy and selectively cherry pick bits of the bible to support it all the while ignoring the bits of the bible that don't support it and in fact say the opposite.

      Yeah, you have it backwards. Catholicism is a philosophy. The Bible is a liturgical tool we compiled to help with our teachings some 400 years after Christ, but it is not the religion itself. This is why protestants are so fucked up. Physics books are written by physicists who understand physics. You then have people who read the physics book and think memorizing it means you understand physics. Wrong. You just know how to recite a book, but not what it means.

      Apart from a desire for oppression and a return to glory days of the 1950s where everyone except people like you were repressed, you mean.

      Well here we 60-odd years later and everybody's still pretty damn oppressed aren't they? Blacks are burning down the cities, 25% of the women are getting raped on campuses or whatever (which are not exactly bastions of right-wing trad Catholic indoctrination are they?). Seems to me whatever the progressive social movement was trying to do failed miserably. Keep digging that hole though. I'm sure it'll all work out any time now.

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    26. Re:What's wrong with this people? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I guess we need more data points to figure out who exactly God is hating these days.

      Then how can I rest assure? God might change his mind on what is brimstone-worthy or not.

      In fact, what if God hates Christians as a whole? Can't help but notice how persecuted they've been throughout history.

    27. Re:What's wrong with this people? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      You then have people who read the physics book and think memorizing it means you understand physics. Wrong.

      People like Susan Fowler, you mean?

      Well here we 60-odd years later and everybody's still pretty damn oppressed aren't they?

      Relatively not, no.

    28. Re:What's wrong with this people? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Well here we 60-odd years later and everybody's still pretty damn oppressed aren't they? Blacks are burning down the cities, 25% of the women are getting raped on campuses or whatever (which are not exactly bastions of right-wing trad Catholic indoctrination are they?). Seems to me whatever the progressive social movement was trying to do failed miserably. Keep digging that hole though. I'm sure it'll all work out any time now.

      Then you notice who was running the country for a good chunk of those 60 years, and pay attention to what they did.

      And then you notice some of the the real crises in America, like the post-2007 banking fraud, the police-military state, the incessant fighting overseas to extract oil(three times!), the college loan complex and even the spread of prescription drug abuse, and you realize that the problem is with a certain other agenda.

      Or what, did you think that there were riots in cities because the rioters were getting too coddled by the police, or that campus sexual assaults happen because of too much equality on campus?

    29. Re:What's wrong with this people? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Then you notice who was running the country for a good chunk of those 60 years, and pay attention to what they did.

      So you're an anti-Semite?

  33. Time for Uber to clean up by mveloso · · Score: 1

    There are obvious EEOC and labor law violations all over the place. If she wants, she could make lots of bucks by helping out the EEOC.

  34. uber does not give a dam about the laws by Joe_Dragon · · Score: 1

    uber does not give a dam about the laws with there drivers so it's likely the office is the same way

  35. Re:A bad way to start by CaroKann · · Score: 2

    No, she did the correct thing by going to HR right away.

    It is better to make it known immediately that you will not put up with that kind of garbage. Putting up with it increases the power he will have over you, and can make it more difficult to get him to stop. It's the "show no weakness" rule.

    There is no reason not to expect professionalism, even from your boss. If you can't get it, then move on to a more professional setting asap. It's better to leave because unprofessional work places can instill bad habits, expectations and reputations that will follow you around.

  36. This has to be a 4chan joke... by meta-monkey · · Score: 4, Interesting

    He was in an open relationship, he said, and his girlfriend was having an easy time finding new partners but he wasn't. He was trying to stay out of trouble at work, he said, but he couldn't help getting in trouble, because he was looking for women to have sex with. It was clear that he was trying to get me to have sex with him, and it was so clearly out of line that I immediately took screenshots of these chat messages and reported him to HR.

    No fucking way. This has got to be some kind of alt-right/4chan/cuck joke parody, right? Woman convinces beta male to have "open relationship" so she can fuck alphas on the side, SHOCKING beta with no game can't score, harasses actually capable women and helps ruin otherwise successful company.

    "Sluts and cucks ruin everything for everyone." This has to be a joke, right?

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    1. Re:This has to be a 4chan joke... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      That's what I thought, but there are loads of these guys, e.g. Anthony Burch.

    2. Re:This has to be a 4chan joke... by geek · · Score: 1

      He was in an open relationship, he said, and his girlfriend was having an easy time finding new partners but he wasn't. He was trying to stay out of trouble at work, he said, but he couldn't help getting in trouble, because he was looking for women to have sex with. It was clear that he was trying to get me to have sex with him, and it was so clearly out of line that I immediately took screenshots of these chat messages and reported him to HR.

      No fucking way. This has got to be some kind of alt-right/4chan/cuck joke parody, right? Woman convinces beta male to have "open relationship" so she can fuck alphas on the side, SHOCKING beta with no game can't score, harasses actually capable women and helps ruin otherwise successful company.

      "Sluts and cucks ruin everything for everyone." This has to be a joke, right?

      I know a company President who took the entire VP/C-Suite to a photo studio one day for a photo shoot. To make sure the pictures turned out great he also brought along 4 or 5 girls from the Customer Care department who flashed their tits at them while they got their pictures taken.

      This same President hired half the girls for that department from Hooters where he often took people for business dinners. He was "in an open relationship" with his mail order bride. These people exist, they really do.

    3. Re:This has to be a 4chan joke... by AmiMoJo · · Score: 0

      It sounds more like some Red Pill wannabe trying to be alpha. Those guys usually end up falling hard, because the definition of "alpha male" to them is basically "guy who sexually harasses and rapes a lot".

      The whole thing is based on some observations of wolves in captivity, and some guys upset that it's no longer acceptable to behave like a 1950s greaser that gets all the girls/STDs.

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    4. Re:This has to be a 4chan joke... by meta-monkey · · Score: 3, Interesting

      Except the company president was the alpha. Company president. Has money. Is banging Hooters girls. Nobody's complaining about him.

      In this story, though, it's our boy's wife who's got no problem finding fresh cocks to hop. He, however, seems to be begging every woman in sight...and failing. They only report to HR when it's Fred Armisen, not Tom Brady hitting on them.

      Men value women differently than women value men. I saw something from Tinder that like 20% of the men on Tinder are hooking up with 80% of the women. And there was an OK Cupid study that when asked to rank women as above or below average, men ranked 50% of the women above average, and 50% of the women below average. The women ranked 80% of the men "below average." Hmmmm.

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    5. Re:This has to be a 4chan joke... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      is this company hiring? i have a friend that's looking for a job...

    6. Re:This has to be a 4chan joke... by Half-pint+HAL · · Score: 1

      Yup. And the observation of primates in the wild is that you can get to be an alpha male by bullying and raping, but you won't stay at the top long. Alpha males who get their position through cooperation with females can hold their throne into a good old age, well beyond the age where they'd be able to defend their territory in a straight fight.

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    7. Re:This has to be a 4chan joke... by AmiMoJo · · Score: 1

      They don't even have alpha males in the wild. That dynamic only appears in wolves in captivity, in the wild they simply don't behave in an alpha/beta pattern.

      And besides, it's fucking wolves.

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    8. Re:This has to be a 4chan joke... by dave562 · · Score: 1

      Woman convinces beta male to have "open relationship" so she can fuck alphas on the side, SHOCKING beta with no game can't score

      Exactly my thoughts. (Presumably) attractive woman in Silicon Valley seduces nerd, convinces him he is the "primary" in the relationship and then spends her time fucking other guys.

    9. Re:This has to be a 4chan joke... by Half-pint+HAL · · Score: 1

      They don't even have alpha males in the wild. That dynamic only appears in wolves in captivity, in the wild they simply don't behave in an alpha/beta pattern.

      And besides, it's fucking wolves.

      But primates do. So basically dogs are cool, and apes are dicks.

      Also, fucking wolves is a dangerous perversion.

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    10. Re:This has to be a 4chan joke... by serviscope_minor · · Score: 1

      In this story, though, it's our boy's wife who's got no problem finding fresh cocks to hop. He, however, seems to be begging every woman in sight...and failing. They only report to HR when it's Fred Armisen, not Tom Brady hitting on them.

      You sound absolutely overwhelmed with jealousy and bitterness. By the way, an SNL skit is not evidence. The fact that you think that it's OK for hot guys displays a deep sense of entitlement. You are saying that YOUR desire to get what you want overrides HER desire to not be creeped on, but that you deserve it because other people can do it. The reason you can't successfully do it is very likely that your sense of entitlement is leaking through.

      Anyway, here is a ver nice rebuttal of your claim that it's OK if Ton Brady does it:

      http://www.doctornerdlove.com/...

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    11. Re:This has to be a 4chan joke... by serviscope_minor · · Score: 1

      But primates do.

      Some primates do. Bonobos, for example, do not.

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    12. Re:This has to be a 4chan joke... by mjwx · · Score: 1

      Except the company president was the alpha. Company president. Has money. Is banging Hooters girls. Nobody's complaining about him.

      If the hooters girls are consenting to it, what the fuck is the problem.

      Yes, paying for sex is still consentual sex.

      In this story, though, it's our boy's wife who's got no problem finding fresh cocks to hop

      And this makes it OK to harass and coerce women into sex... how?

      If he's having trouble getting chicks, it's his problem, not theirs. He either needs to up his game or start paying for it.

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    13. Re:This has to be a 4chan joke... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Some primates do. Bonobos, for example, do not.

      Humans are closer to those "some primates" than bonobos

      If humans were closer to bonobos, then the men living in their mom's basements would not be mocked so much by both sides (one calls them sexist MRAs and GamerGaters, the other calls them betas who can't get girls)

      In bonobo society, that type of male is NORMAL.

      Bonobo females from the backbone of bonobo society. Ergo, most males are living off their mothers and sisters (thus, in their mom's basements, not their dad's).

      There really is no concept of "dad" anyway in bonobo society (so no marriage and no alimony either, MRAs would love that), because nobody really knows who the real daddy is for anyone, what with how promiscuous everybody is in bonobo society - with females being the more promiscuous ones.

      It's normal for bonobo moms to help their sons find fertile females to mate with ("honey, I found a girl for you. What else would you like me to bring down to the basement?"). They are also ok with pedophilia and other sexual acts that most humans find deplorable, only found in some really perverted (usually Japanese) porn... porn that is often associated as being viewed by the basement dwelling types

    14. Re:This has to be a 4chan joke... by meta-monkey · · Score: 1

      And this makes it OK to harass and coerce women into sex... how?

      I never said it was okay. My point was that he was so pathetic his girlfriend was out banging other guys, and then so hard-up he thinks it's a good idea to go begging subordinates to do his girlfriend's job. I'm just laughing at the entire situation.

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    15. Re:This has to be a 4chan joke... by meta-monkey · · Score: 1

      I didn't say I think it's okay, I said the girls think it's okay.* We know this because the determining factor in whether a guy is "creepy" or "hot" when coming on to a girl is not the manner of the approach but the attractiveness/social status of the man.

      Fat nerd: "Oh hello m'lady, I would very much like to buy you dinner and get to know you better, if that would be all right with you." Polite! Nice! Creepy. Reported to HR.

      6'2" Tom Brady looking motherfucker with money and a nice car: "I'm gonna buy you some furniture and then fuck your brains out on it." Bizarre! Awful! Hot. Gets laid. "Teehee he's so aggressive I just love it!"

      Now morally I don't agree with any of this casual sex hook-up crap and I think it's ruining civilization turning the women into trash objects and the men into either vapid playboys or bitter loners and now 70% of men 20-35 are unmarried. Kind of disastrous for the next generation. But this is how women behave. It's called "hypergamy." Eggs are expensive, sperm is cheap, don't waste expensive eggs on low-quality sperm.

      When I was younger I was selectively famous in a niche artistic circle. People knew who I was. I'd go to a convention and girls way out of my league would want to climb me like a tree. Just because I had a little bit more social status. Go back home and go to a club where I was just another guy and not a second look. That's just how humans are wired. This is why 80% of the women on Tinder are only fucking 20% of the guys.

      * I went and read your article and it says basically the same thing I did: whether something is creepy or hot is determined by the boundary set by the woman. However women set very different boundaries for rich hot guys than for fat nerds. The moral of the story is "don't be a fat nerd."

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    16. Re:This has to be a 4chan joke... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Yeah, and yet with personalities, men hit the 50% mark and it's women that drop to 20%.
      There was a OK Stupid story that told me so.

  37. Don't work for crappy management... by Junta · · Score: 3, Interesting

    Note that sexism was a *small* part of the situation described. What amazes me was the continued desire to work for a company because of the 'great engineers'.

    The reality is you can find a *good* company that also has great engineers. Other companies also face interesting challenges that are worthy of your time. I've seen people fall into this trap of toiling under crappy management because 'their team is so great'. The problem is that crappy management gets all the benefits of your awesome teams work (in fact, in crappy management, the management gets nearly *all* the glory and your 'awesome engineers' are the first under the bus when good times are over, after months on end of 60+ hour workweeks, where the management is only around for part of maybe 3 days a week. You need to find a company that has both a great team *and* good management.

    If it had been an isolated incident with one manager, and switching teams fixed it, but she reports a pattern of management dysfunction that seems pervasive, at least to wherever she could go. Now it *might* be the case that her perspective by itself is skewed, but in her view of things, it was a terrible situation and she stayed *way* longer than anyone should have.

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    1. Re:Don't work for crappy management... by ooloorie · · Score: 1

      Note that sexism was a *small* part of the situation described. What amazes me was the continued desire to work for a company because of the 'great engineers'.

      Uber seems to be generally rated a "good place to work for".

    2. Re:Don't work for crappy management... by marquisdepolis · · Score: 1

      People do get brainwashed and start thinking that these are the companies with greatest engineers, by definition. That's yet another problem ...

    3. Re:Don't work for crappy management... by phantomfive · · Score: 1

      The reality is you can find a *good* company that also has great engineers.

      How do you find that? I keep looking, but when I start asking questions about their software design, they get super defensive. "Your largest class has 10,000 lines? Wow, that's......"

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    4. Re:Don't work for crappy management... by Junta · · Score: 1

      Regardless of the rating, if your personal perspective leads you to writing something like the author did, then *your* experience is bad enough to run away much earlier.

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    5. Re:Don't work for crappy management... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Which suggests that she is simply lying.

  38. Re: "Former" engineer - tells you all you need to by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    None of these things speak to competence. I will respond per point.

    A: Getting jobs is quite easy, even keeping them as a very sub-par employee is quite common. We all work with plenty of them...
    B: She sells future books and speaking engagements. Even better she gets more job security that won't be offset by her potential low skills. Maybe she hopes this will finally get her a management job so she can coast the rest of her life not having to do real technical work. Then she will have time to write more books on company time.
    C: Those who can't do, teach... Maybe she knows the right people or even (GASP!) the right people want to sleep with her.

    In short, we don't know shit about her competence, you are making wild assumptions, as I am. None of the claims made demonstrated competence. Anyone working in engineering knows how many worthless folks have, keep jobs, even appear competent on the surface, until the real works needs doing.

  39. Re:"Former" engineer - tells you all you need to k by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Please, speak more of your MRAisms

  40. Evidence needed by sciengin · · Score: 1, Insightful

    Considering that every scandal posted here during the last few years about sexism and harassment in the CS field turned out to be massively exaggerated at best and flat out fabricated at worst, I am going to ask for a little more evidence than personal statements in a blog.

    Not to mention that SV is already a SJW-infested Marxist hellhole which reduces the probability for such stud-like behaviour considerably already. (Not it does not mean it cannot happen, just that it is less likely than it happening on a cattle ranch in Texas for example)

    1. Re:Evidence needed by geek · · Score: 2, Insightful

      Considering that every scandal posted here during the last few years about sexism and harassment in the CS field turned out to be massively exaggerated at best and flat out fabricated at worst, I am going to ask for a little more evidence than personal statements in a blog.

      Not to mention that SV is already a SJW-infested Marxist hellhole which reduces the probability for such stud-like behaviour considerably already. (Not it does not mean it cannot happen, just that it is less likely than it happening on a cattle ranch in Texas for example)

      But is this "in the CS field"? It's a manager at a Taxi company that has an app. Other than the woman engineer, nothing about this is CS in any way.

    2. Re:Evidence needed by DogDude · · Score: 1

      Why are you entitled to evidence? Who are you? This is a discussion about gross behavior going on at Uber. This isn't a court room.

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    3. Re:Evidence needed by sciengin · · Score: 1, Insightful

      With her blogpost the alleged victim just turned the whole internet into judge, jury and executioner, I believe I am therefore entitled to at least some evidence beyond hearsay

    4. Re:Evidence needed by DogDude · · Score: 1

      That's as bizarre as me saying that I'm entitled to your full name and address.

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    5. Re:Evidence needed by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Yeah, why have any credible sources to cite for these news articles? You should really just believe everything you read on the internet.

      On an unrelated note, did you guys see that article about this sicko that lurks on /. under the handle DogDude? Turns out he does a lot of sick things to dogs, dudes.

    6. Re:Evidence needed by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      So your take on this is that we should just believe it wholesale, and be outraged at Uber, men, America? Is that it? Don't question it, just let someone else's agenda sink in and set your programming, right?

      There's been FAR too much of this kind of thing happening over the past few decades, and it's why people are so fucked up right now. Screaming at the top of their lungs for others to change on the basis of fabricated injustices, meanwhile real injustices go overlooked. Almost as if it were a deliberate ploy by some small group of elites in positions of power...

    7. Re:Evidence needed by datbagelboi · · Score: 0

      Any normal person asks people to back up their claims with evidence. Unless that pushes their own presuppositions, which I think this does for you. Therefore we can all safely ignore anything you have to say. Your beliefs can apparently be influenced without merit and as such aren't worth the lack of brain being used to carry them.

    8. Re:Evidence needed by Megol · · Score: 1

      You are entitled to get the fuck off the Internet. Nothing else.

    9. Re:Evidence needed by sciengin · · Score: 1

      Comprehension of English text is not your strong point, is it?

    10. Re:Evidence needed by Agiailotes · · Score: 1

      This isn't a court room

      Then why is that woman trying to make it into one?

      Why is she entitled to make accusations without evidence?

      Why do you think there is any gross behavior going on at Uber? Your mental deficiency is that you will believe anything you hear as long as it agrees with you.

      Seriously, people who take psych meds should be exlinguated

    11. Re:Evidence needed by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      It's a valuable tech job.

      Look, there is a formulated approach here that is easy to spot. You can find it in any field which is now tippy toeing about in fear of being labeled the next great enemy.

      Step one: Woman starts work at a tech company.

      Step two: Woman makes unverifiable accusations against someone in the tech company on a blog.

      Step three: It gets reported as fact. Company is labeled enemy of the people and certain individuals field demands for Diversity Commissars to be installed on site.

      It's a canard.

    12. Re:Evidence needed by Half-pint+HAL · · Score: 1

      Mumble mumble "disruptive" mumble mutter.

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    13. Re:Evidence needed by sciengin · · Score: 0

      You would probably feel right at home in the aforementioned SJW-infested Marxist hellhole with discussion skills like those.

    14. Re:Evidence needed by sexconker · · Score: 1

      If you want people to come to your defense over some issue involving your full name and address, then yes, those people are going to need to know your full name and address.

    15. Re:Evidence needed by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      She's entitled to post her story. She didn't ask you talk about it on Slashdot.

    16. Re:Evidence needed by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I've worked in some pretty rural, conservative area operations, and frankly, sexual harassment claims are taken far more seriously than this. Far more.
      To proposition a subordinate on the first day? Holy hell, that's a one way ticket to the unemployment line.
      Frankly, many of the virtue signalling SJW's who scream about rural America/fly over country need to look closer to home to see where the real sexism is going on. There seems to be a hell of a lot of it in virtue signalling companies who talk a good talk, then fuck over women behind the scenes.

  41. Re:"Former" engineer - tells you all you need to k by stephanruby · · Score: 1

    Most of the time, I couldn't agree with you more. However, you didn't read her blog post.

    This kind of thing started on her first day and she took screenshots.

    Really, you have to read her blog post. The HR person who handled this issue needs to be sacked pronto.

  42. Re:A bad way to start by lactose99 · · Score: 1

    Don't create sexism and harassment cases where they do not belong.

    Being propositioned by your boss, even the first time, absolutely is harassment.

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  43. BS Alert - by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

    I won't be shocked when this woman is found to be a feminazi plant. Shooting for the SJW crowd.

  44. How is this sexism? by Qbertino · · Score: 0

    So this guy is harassing someone as to have sex with her. How is this sexism? Apart from the word being similar that is? Did he claim she is a lesser person because she is a woman? Or should spread her legs on demand because she is a woman and he is a man?

    What really annoys me that all over the world in this debate people confuse inappropriate behavior with sexism.
    This implies that it would be less of an inappropriate behavior if the was bugging me (a man) for sex. And I seriously beg to differ. If the man would be bugging another man for sex in the same manner it would be just as annoying.

    I really wish people and especially the press wouldn't constantly mix this up, so we'd have a chance to actually solve true sexism.

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    1. Re:How is this sexism? by geek · · Score: 1

      So this guy is harassing someone as to have sex with her. How is this sexism? Apart from the word being similar that is? Did he claim she is a lesser person because she is a woman?

      "I have a girlfriend who fucks other guys. I can't find a girl that will have me, since I'm your manager I'm going to hit on you and if you saw no there will be consequences, though I won't flat out say it. Oh and I can do this because I do not view you as an equal worth of respect"

      There is your answer.

    2. Re:How is this sexism? by DogDude · · Score: 1

      A person asking a direct subordinate to fuck them is always harassment. Has been forever, Has been a litigatable offense for the past few decades.

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    3. Re:How is this sexism? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      It's you who is mixed up.

      Read her blog post for clear examples of both sexual harassment (mangers propositioning subordinates) and sexism (privileges extended to men but denied to women expressly because they were women).

      Maybe if you actually payed attention to details, the world wouldn't seem like such a confusing and arbitrary place that is scheming against you?

    4. Re:How is this sexism? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      What if she was a he, and his manager in question was gay, would it be sexism if his manager hit on him? No, it's not. What are you defining with your "answer" is power abuse.

    5. Re:How is this sexism? by Wisp · · Score: 1

      The culture that is supposed to hold people accountable for bad behaviour laughed it off as 'boyz bein boyz' is sexism in action. That the organized response of HR was to imply she was conspiring with the other *6* women in the company to give a good guy a hard time is sexism in action.

    6. Re:How is this sexism? by phantomfive · · Score: 1

      The problem is when you create a work environment that makes it uncomfortable for people. If he keeps trying to have sex with her, or if HR punishes her for complaining, then that can be an uncomfortable place to work.

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    7. Re:How is this sexism? by Half-pint+HAL · · Score: 1

      Even if you disagree that propositioning perfect strangers who you are line manager for is poor behaviour, I'm sure you'll understand that telling someone they'll get a bad performance review for objecting to being propositioned is just ridiculous.

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    8. Re:How is this sexism? by sexconker · · Score: 1

      Harassment (alleged or actual) is not sexism. Those are different things.
      Baskets are not skateboards.

  45. Re:Nice alignment by TimothyHollins · · Score: 1

    Does TFA count?

  46. Perhaps the constant overhype is the problem by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0, Insightful

    I work in Silicon Valley and don't see sexism in my workplace, except for discrimination against white men. In fact this is my 5th company I have worked for and did not see discrimination against women or minorities at any of them. I have seen numerous claims of sexism that turned out to be false in court (Ellen Pao). If they don't go to court and lose all we ever see are the unsubstantiated and claims without witnesses.

    Just like with the alleged "college rape epidemic", these allegations have diminished any real claims. I simply don't believe them. I'm sure you know the story of the boy that cried wolf (sadly it's probably considered sexist to use that analogy). Progressive busy bodies and executives are a much bigger problem than sexism.

    1. Re:Perhaps the constant overhype is the problem by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 5, Insightful

      Why exactly would you expect to see sexism or racism that is not directed at you?

      The author of the article was being harassed through text messaging. Unless you are the recipient of those messages you have zero idea what's going on.

    2. Re: Perhaps the constant overhype is the problem by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      On the flip side, I used to work with a guy that was similarly in an open relationship and was trying to get me to sleep with his wife. While for me this only resulted in an informative conversation about what an open marriage was (this was some years ago), still inapprops, yo.

    3. Re:Perhaps the constant overhype is the problem by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Not enough threads to occupy your time spreading right wing propaganda on Reddit today, so you had to wander over here?

    4. Re: Perhaps the constant overhype is the problem by AmazingRuss · · Score: 1

      Unless he's stalking them...

    5. Re: Perhaps the constant overhype is the problem by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Interesting, I'm a white man and have never experienced discrimination in the tech world.

    6. Re:Perhaps the constant overhype is the problem by ShanghaiBill · · Score: 5, Insightful

      Why exactly would you expect to see sexism or racism that is not directed at you?

      Because complaints would be directed through me. I work in a tech company, and over the years, I have dealt with about a dozen complaints. The thing is, they were never about the engineers, programmers, or other nerds. They were always about the salesmen, the marketing dept, or the warehouse crew. I am sure some nerds are misogynistic jerks, but I don't think that is common, and I believe it is actually less prevalent than in most other professions. My experience is that most nerds are welcoming to female co-workers, and judge them by their ability, not their gender. Ms Fowler's description of her experience at Uber sounds terrible, but I don't think Uber is typical of tech companies or representative of "nerd culture". She also describes a lot of backstabbing and chaos at Uber that have nothing to do with sexism, so it sounds like a very dysfunctional company on many levels.

    7. Re:Perhaps the constant overhype is the problem by Pseudonym · · Score: 1

      Ms Fowler's description of her experience at Uber sounds terrible, but I don't think Uber is typical of tech companies or representative of "nerd culture".

      If you read her article, it's clear that things got worse during her time there. Reading between the lines, it sounds an awful lot like the story of the missing stair.

      In one sense, it's not Uber, it's just that one guy. But when people discuss what is "typical" or "representative", many miss the problem that it only takes that one guy. That guy may not be typical or representative, but if the organisation decides (whether deliberately or not) to ignore or enable that one guy, that one guy becomes the typical or representative experience for anyone that one guy targets.

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    8. Re:Perhaps the constant overhype is the problem by SirSlud · · Score: 1

      > except for discrimination against white men ... I'm sure you know the story of the boy that cried wolf

      Well, obviously you're familiar with it.

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    9. Re: Perhaps the constant overhype is the problem by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Yes, because racism and sexism are only visible to minorities and women.

      Do you think before you click submit, or do you just vomit that out all over the keyboard at once?

    10. Re: Perhaps the constant overhype is the problem by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      No, typical means typical, not one guy.
      It means the average or at least 50%

    11. Re:Perhaps the constant overhype is the problem by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Sadly, she was a special snowflake out to point fingers at everything that is wrong, and I mean everything. I've worked with a few special snowflakes in my life, one worse than her. They make life miserable for everyone. Even my current job, they have let go one in a few months of hiring her, that I knew of but didn't have any interaction with.

      One special snowflake in my past even complained to HR that guys in the group all went to lunch together on the last Thursday of the month with out her. There were 6 guys and 2 girls in the programming group, her being one of them. She asked one of us to go along, and was told by one of us, not me, it was only for guys. The real reason is we usually take one car and it is hard enough to fit 6 guys in a 5 passenger car, we were not going to have one more, especially her squeezed in. She also never asked if she could meet us there.

      We were eventually asked by our boss to include her. We eventually ended up taking 2 cars, she refused to drive any time that she went. We talked the usual sports, movies and tv shows. She never said a word to us. We were again reported to HR for talking about guy stuff on our lunch hour and possibly stuff she made up seeing we were never told about the things she reported.

      When we refused to let her go along any more, we were told that we had to. We quit going to lunch all together, not just the 6 guys lunch but other weekdays of two or three of us. She made it miserable for all of us. Eventually she was let go, just like this woman was. It was only another six months to a year before I eventually changed jobs to get away from the disaster she left in her wake.

      So, take this woman's report of UBER with a grain of salt. Women lie to further their agenda, what ever agenda they may have. Some of it may be true, but I'm betting half isn't. It seems all to familiar from the special snowflakes I have run across in the past.

    12. Re: Perhaps the constant overhype is the problem by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I don't understand why you would socially isolate a new co-worker? If she was a he would you have suggested to take 2 cars yourself? What stopped you suggesting this yourself any way? Why would you keep squeezing 6 people into a 5 seater for a regular trip? Did you consider suggesting an alternate occasional lunch activity that could be more enticing to others outside the group?

      Your story suggests suggests a lack of consideration in all aspects: social inclusion, basic car safety, workplace harmony.

      Frankly, I would feel ashamed if I was part of a group that displayed this exclusionary behaviour in any form and I would probably raise this as an issue or consider whether this is a group I wanted to encourage participation in.

      I'm not the most social of colleagues, but I regularly get asked along on lunch excursions and usually politely decline. When you have social inclusion there is always a next time to offer and to accept. There shouldn't be a pressure to participate, which creates either a boys club or a rigidness to the activity.

      The manager made a mistake to mandate inclusion. Instead the reasoning of exclusion should have been tackled.

  47. Not included in the original blog: by datbagelboi · · Score: 1

    Not included in the original blog: ANY EVIDENCE.

    1. Re:Not included in the original blog: by Agiailotes · · Score: 1

      hey shut up we're trying to astroturf this thing

    2. Re:Not included in the original blog: by oh_my_080980980 · · Score: 1

      I guess you missed the part about screen shots. Moron.

  48. Re:Nice alignment by DogDude · · Score: 2

    No, because there's nothing in TFA that suggests what you're suggesting. Are you perhaps confused, and reading a different article?

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  49. Re:"Former" engineer - tells you all you need to k by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    "performance of incontinence"

    "extract revenge"

    "Insightful"

    GG /. mods

  50. Re: A bad way to start by DNS-and-BIND · · Score: 2

    Wrong. Sexual harassment is an UNWANTED advance. If the advance is welcome, it's not sexual harassment.

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  51. An allegation has been made. by jcr · · Score: 4, Insightful

    And it appears that Uber is investigating said allegation. We don't have enough information to know whether it happened or not. That's what investigations are for.

    After the Duke Lacross Lynching and the UVA rape hoax, I'm inclined to reserve judgement until an accusation becomes a lawsuit and is litigated.

    -jcr

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    1. Re:An allegation has been made. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Yeah but nobody is gonna click on your site with this kind of philosophy.

    2. Re:An allegation has been made. by BigBuckHunter · · Score: 0

      I'm inclined to reserve judgement until an accusation becomes a lawsuit and is litigated

      Strange, as a 6'2" fugly hetro alpha male, I'm half tempted to apply for a position in this man's org and ask him if he's DTF in the interview. Then, on the way out of the interview, hug him for a little too long instead of shaking his hand.

    3. Re:An allegation has been made. by haruchai · · Score: 1

      And it appears that Uber is investigating said allegation. We don't have enough information to know whether it happened or not. That's what investigations are for.

      After the Duke Lacross Lynching and the UVA rape hoax, I'm inclined to reserve judgement until an accusation becomes a lawsuit and is litigated.

      -jcr

      Glad to see the bar is set low enough you won't hurt yourself. And the friends & lovers who've confessed to me their personal stories of harrassment, rape & abuse will all be very relieved.

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    4. Re:An allegation has been made. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      What are you expecting from an internal investigation when Uber had tried defending managers' wrongdoing as "they're a high performer" and "this is their first offense"?

      It is naive to think that they somehow come out straight this time.

    5. Re:An allegation has been made. by jcr · · Score: 1

      Wow, you really told me!

      I guess that since you know someone who's been harassed, no investigation is necessary from now on, and we can just go with a policy of assuming that an accusation is proof. What could go wrong?

      -jcr

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    6. Re:An allegation has been made. by jcr · · Score: 1

      I'm expecting that whoever does this investigation is going to act in the shareholders' best interest, which among other things means not exposing the company to massive liabilities in court. If the investigation supports the allegations, then those responsible are going to get canned.

      -jcr

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    7. Re:An allegation has been made. by haruchai · · Score: 1

      Wow, you really told me!

      I guess that since you know someone who's been harassed, no investigation is necessary from now on, and we can just go with a policy of assuming that an accusation is proof. What could go wrong?

      -jcr

      Wow, you really told me!

      I guess that since you know someone who's been harassed, no investigation is necessary from now on, and we can just go with a policy of assuming that an accusation is proof. What could go wrong?

      -jcr

      What could go wrong? Quite a bit, I suppose.
      But dismissing claims of harassment, abuse & assault didn't work for the millions, possibly hundreds of millions of women since, well, forever.
      And no amount of proof ever seemed to be enough, unless the accused was unpopular, had been accused before or was a minority.

      Weigh that in the balance and see which way it tips.

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    8. Re:An allegation has been made. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      It's not at the level of fake rape. She claims some guy hit on her. Not cool, since it was her boss. Really though, is that so terrible? Women want men to make the first move, and they also want to be able to get mad about it. Girls will be girls.

    9. Re:An allegation has been made. by jcr · · Score: 1

      dismissing claims of harassment

      There is an investigation in progress. Did you miss that little detail?

      -jcr

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    10. Re:An allegation has been made. by haruchai · · Score: 1

      dismissing claims of harassment

      There is an investigation in progress. Did you miss that little detail?

      -jcr

      Did you miss the detail that when she went through "proper channels", her claims and those of other women - ALL AGAINST THE SAME MAN - were dismissed?
      And that the ONLY reason there's an investigation is she's gone public, without providing proof as so many have pointed out, which caught the attention of the CEO?

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    11. Re:An allegation has been made. by jcr · · Score: 1

      she went through "proper channels", her claims and those of other women - ALL AGAINST THE SAME MAN - were dismissed?

      Yes, I know that's what she's claimed. That's something I expect the investigators to either confirm or disprove.

      -jcr

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    12. Re:An allegation has been made. by haruchai · · Score: 1

      Between Fowler's accusations, the recent NYT article on Uber's company culture and Waymo's suit for theft of autonomous driving sensor designs, Kalanick & co are going to have a lot of face time with investigators

      https://www.nytimes.com/2017/0...

      https://www.wired.com/2017/02/...

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  52. Re: A bad way to start by DNS-and-BIND · · Score: 1

    No no no a thousand times no. Sexual harassment is an UNWANTED advance. Did you people ever get an HR seminar? How can you be this ignorant?

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  53. How surprising! by jb_nizet · · Score: 4, Insightful
    Week after week, Uber shows that it doesn't give a shit about the law, whatever the country is.

    Week after week, Uber shows that it doesn't give a shit about its employees (or, as they claim, their independant drivers).

    Why would Uber management give a shit about this poor woman? Why do people accept to work for Uber, given the constant reminders that Uber doesn't respect any rule, nor anyone?

    1. Re:How surprising! by ghoul · · Score: 1

      Because drivers are not their employees. They are vendors who are contracting with Uber to provide services. The engineers are Uber's employees. Just because I hire a cleaning service to clean our office toilets does not make the cleaners my employees and me responsible for their pay. I pay what is in the contract. Its the job of the vendor signing the contract to make sure all laws are followed.

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    2. Re:How surprising! by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Because of the money ? I had an offer from Uber in mid 2013 when it was valued at 3.5 B and they gave 500K worth of stocks at that price. I in my infinite wisdom said, "Who would work for a taxi company and how much higher can this go". It would be worth ~7.5 Million. If they eventually cash out at the current valuation, they would have lot of engineers upwards of 10 million.

      This lady joined much later but still, we are talking about couple hundred Ks at least. After all the years in the valley, no one ever says I am doing this job for the money, it is always about "working with the best people I ever know". Of course, if the value tanks, the same people would seek employment elsewhere because "they have to try something different to expand their horizons".

    3. Re:How surprising! by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      We respectfully disagree with the Susan Fowler's legal interpretations of existing regulations

      -Travis Kalanick

  54. She'll Never Find Another Job in Tech by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    She had better work extra hard at hanging on to her new job because after this she will never find another in tech or any other white collar work. Making a public scene like this about a former employer makes you positively radioactive to future employers. They will find this on even the most cursory Google search and won't bother to look any further. Nobody wants to hire a boat rocker with a chip on her shoulder who creates PR nightmares, that's just asking for trouble and business is hard enough without hiring mistakes like that.

    1. Re:She'll Never Find Another Job in Tech by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I am sure she will find someone that will her to prove their fidelity to liberal values. They will then let her do whatever she wants with her time as she is not intended to be a productive employee but a fashion statement. Letting her do actual work is high risk as she could state trouble and it distracts from her purpose of being a monkey that dances on command.

    2. Re:She'll Never Find Another Job in Tech by haruchai · · Score: 1

      She had better work extra hard at hanging on to her new job because after this she will never find another in tech or any other white collar work. Making a public scene like this about a former employer makes you positively radioactive to future employers. They will find this on even the most cursory Google search and won't bother to look any further. Nobody wants to hire a boat rocker with a chip on her shoulder who creates PR nightmares, that's just asking for trouble and business is hard enough without hiring mistakes like that.

      Yeah, because hiring HER was such a mistake but not making a manager of the dysfunctional cuck who has HR lying to cover his repeated harassment of the female staff.

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    3. Re:She'll Never Find Another Job in Tech by joe_frisch · · Score: 1

      We have openings for talented software people. She would be very welcome at SLAC, and our HR takes any reports of harassment seriously.

      We don't have stock options, but our pay and benefits are good and the work is very interesting.

    4. Re:She'll Never Find Another Job in Tech by ghoul · · Score: 1

      Well probably because he was letting his hot wife sleep with senior management he had a pass. What really needs to be investigated was was the guy pressured into having an open relationship so senior management cold bang his wife and hence thought it OK to bang subordinates.

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    5. Re:She'll Never Find Another Job in Tech by haruchai · · Score: 1

      Well probably because he was letting his hot wife sleep with senior management he had a pass. What really needs to be investigated was was the guy pressured into having an open relationship so senior management cold bang his wife and hence thought it OK to bang subordinates.

      That stuff is hard to keep quiet. Of the 20+ rumors of harassment & dalliance that made it to my ears in the schools & jobs I've had, only 2 turned out to be untrue.
      Fowler claims that multiple women had file similar accusations; it's inconceivable that he'd been chasing multiple women at the same company and no one would know he was a cuck for the higher ups.

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  55. Magical by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    > "Uber's ability to be on the wrong side of every moral and ethical issue is bordering on magical."

    That ain't magic, that's disrupting the industry!

  56. Yep - racism by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 3, Interesting

    I'm white. Behind the black guy's back, the shit I hear. I even had a supervisor try to get me to blame a bad defect on him - that I caused. I couldn't do it. I couldn't live with myself and in a World where a smart hard working guy gets blamed for shit he didn't do just because he was born with a certain skin color in the wrong society.

    The fucker knew he was doing wrong too. And what could I really do? Bitch to HR? Remember folks, HR works FOR management. Remember that. They are NOT your friends and they are NOT there to protect you but to protect management.

    So far, it has happened only once in my career. But never the less, bigoted shit like this happens and not everyone -including the victim - may be aware of it.

    1. Re: Yep - racism by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      It's worse than that in this case. It's clear they needed to move to protect the company from this exact scenario, but it turns out they're just incredibly lazy.

    2. Re:Yep - racism by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

      HR works FOR management. Remember that. They are NOT your friends

      This. Exactly this.

      Anyone thinking of HR as their ally needs to reconsider their choice of friends. HR exists with only one purpose: cover management's ass. HR does not produce anything. HR does not cotribute anything to a company. HR is pure 100% overhead of the worst kind.

    3. Re:Yep - racism by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Find a way to make it a problem for management - possibly leak it to the press anonymously or some other creative measure.

  57. That project manager in an open relationship... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Sending out awkward emails while his girl rides someones pole. LOL.

  58. She should have quit by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    On day one, right after HR told her they didn't want to discipline her boss for the sexual harassment and her staying on the team would mean that any poor performance review she got wasn't as case of retaliation by her boss.

    That should have been her first and only clue that Uber was a toxic environment and should have quit right then and there.

  59. Prove it! by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0, Insightful

    I see an allegation with no facts. Anyone working in IT understands how to make a screenshot, if not how to log a chat session. Yet no evidence is presented, and what would the easiest thing be for this person to do? Save evidence, because sexual harassment is ILLEGAL.

    Your claim (repeated) that you have to be the victim to see sexual harassment on the scale she is claiming is moronic. It would be visible to at least everyone on that team. There would be more than one claim from more than one person if it was that rampant. In the event it was just her and she over-hyped the scale, she could have this thing called evidence. Yet there is no evidence, just allegations. I'll wait for the court case, and would be willing to bet a paycheck that no evidence is forthcoming.

    Sorry, but there are no groups of dudes hanging around conspiring on how to fuck over, and fuck, women in the company. Quite the opposite, since the virtue signalling SJWs are rampant in SF and would have busted the boss to make a name for themselves.

    1. Re:Prove it! by kilfarsnar · · Score: 5, Interesting

      I see an allegation with no facts. Anyone working in IT understands how to make a screenshot, if not how to log a chat session. Yet no evidence is presented, and what would the easiest thing be for this person to do? Save evidence, because sexual harassment is ILLEGAL.

      Your claim (repeated) that you have to be the victim to see sexual harassment on the scale she is claiming is moronic. It would be visible to at least everyone on that team. There would be more than one claim from more than one person if it was that rampant. In the event it was just her and she over-hyped the scale, she could have this thing called evidence. Yet there is no evidence, just allegations. I'll wait for the court case, and would be willing to bet a paycheck that no evidence is forthcoming.

      Sorry, but there are no groups of dudes hanging around conspiring on how to fuck over, and fuck, women in the company. Quite the opposite, since the virtue signalling SJWs are rampant in SF and would have busted the boss to make a name for themselves.

      You clearly didn't RTFA. She has extensive email and chat records to back up her claims. Yes, I am taking her word for it. But if you are accusing her of lying about it, it is you who need to provide evidence.

      And yes, there actually are groups of dudes conspiring how to fuck women at the company. Not at every company of course. But I have seen such things at jobs I have had.

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    2. Re:Prove it! by Half-pint+HAL · · Score: 5, Insightful

      I see an allegation with no facts. Anyone working in IT understands how to make a screenshot, if not how to log a chat session. Yet no evidence is presented, and what would the easiest thing be for this person to do? Save evidence, because sexual harassment is ILLEGAL.

      The article mentions that she does indeed have that evidence. Why does she not present this evidence? Probably because to do so might be illegal. I believe she has the legal right to retain that documentation for the sole purpose of legal action (as either defendant or complainant) and no right to publish it (as it is technically copyright of Uber as she was work-for-hire at the time).

      If she was lying, Uber would most likely sue her for defamation/libel/slander in short order, and she would get burned because she wouldn't have the long trail of evidence that she mentioned in the article.

      Your claim (repeated) that you have to be the victim to see sexual harassment on the scale she is claiming is moronic. It would be visible to at least everyone on that team. There would be more than one claim from more than one person if it was that rampant.

      She explicitly states that there was, and that she had talked to several coworkers who had experienced it.

      Sorry, but there are no groups of dudes hanging around conspiring on how to fuck over, and fuck, women in the company.

      It doesn't have to be a conspiracy -- negative attitudes aren't conscious.

      Quite the opposite, since the virtue signalling SJWs are rampant in SF and would have busted the boss to make a name for themselves.

      For example: you're sexist, but you think you're not, because you think it's all "SJWs", rather than people who have been genuinely mistreated. In this case, the woman gives a very detailed account, directly referring to matters on company record. Within an hour of picking up the phone, Uber's legal team would have had enough information to know whether this was credible or not. As Uber's official response was "conducting an internal investigation" rather than "completely baseless", I don't believe her claims can be easily dismissed at this point. And yet you believe you are taking a rational approach, even though you are disregarding the facts at hand -- attitude, not conspiracy.

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    3. Re: Prove it! by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      She took a fucking screenshot idiot

    4. Re:Prove it! by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      > Why does she not present this evidence?

      Or because it doesn't exist or doesn't match the character of her story.

      If she really did have what she said she had, she could have sued the ever living shit out of the company. Instead she goes attention farming on a blog.

    5. Re:Prove it! by Half-pint+HAL · · Score: 2

      I'm not saying it happened, I'm just saying that if Uber aren't denying it yet, I can't see any justification for dismissing the whole thing just because she doesn't print the evidence in public.

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    6. Re:Prove it! by AK+Marc · · Score: 5, Insightful

      She made s specific claim with regards to the *fact* she was harassed on her first day, and it was reported to HR her first day. If that fact-based claim is a lie, Uber should sue her. That they aren't, and haven't responded, is evidence that they don't object to her facts. Yes, silence is an admission of guilt (except in court). In fact, Uber has made confirming statements, where they are concerned. And they have explicitly not questioned the factual claims made.

      And complaints bout SJWs seem to exceed the number of SJWs. Try facts, rather than yous snowflake tantrums.

    7. Re:Prove it! by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 2, Interesting

      It's obvious you're a troll: nobody on Slashdot really believes that people who are wronged can sue for damages and actually come out ahead. Otherwise they wouldn't get so orgasmically indignant over civil forfeiture cases. However it certainly makes for a nice scapegoat so you can blame a woman for taking any action when no action is good enough in your eyes.

      "She's putting it on a blog? If she had proof she would sue."
      "She's suing? She's just looking for a payout instead of getting a real job."
      "She's closing her twitter account because she's getting death threats/bomb threats/SWAT teams being sent to her house by people who think getting her killed by -militarized police in a fake 911 call is a hilarious joke? She must have been lying or she wouldn't have given up so easily."

      Lawsuits are long, expensive, and are as likely to result in a payout as winning the lottery. Usually you settle, the company admits no wrongdoing, you go home with a paltry sum, and the lawyers make out like bandits. At the same time, you're out of a job, burning through cash for legal fees and being yelled at by dipshits on slashdot. Assuming I can engage you in good faith (which I can't, but it's a laugh) you need to get your head out of your ass if you think the legal system will ever, ever make a habit of favoring the underdog even with overwhelming evidence of wrongdoing by the rich and powerful.

    8. Re:Prove it! by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

      If she really did have what she said she had, she could have sued the ever living shit out of the company.

      She could also keep it in reserve in case Uber ever tries to deny it. Did you know that suing someone is typically something that cannot be done in a couple of weeks between jobs?

    9. Re:Prove it! by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      The article mentions that she does indeed have that evidence. Why does she not present this evidence? Probably because to do so might be illegal. I believe she has the legal right to retain that documentation for the sole purpose of legal action (as either defendant or complainant) and no right to publish it (as it is technically copyright of Uber as she was work-for-hire at the time).

      then she shouldn't have sprayed it all over social media.

    10. Re:Prove it! by Neuronwelder · · Score: 1

      She was probably afraid of revenge.

    11. Re:Prove it! by TWX · · Score: 1

      My anecdotal experience has predominately been to witness sexism that's centered around when the guys get together without the gals around, and that in most cases it evaporates when there are women present, and it's almost always centered in social or off-hours situations. It's literally like the idiots revert to being thirteen and start openly speculating about sex acts that they're probably never going to get an opportunity to perform with women that they're never going to have any intimacy with without having any real-world knowledge of sex. What's kind of funny is witnessing the immediate-switch if a woman that could find issue comes into earshot, it's literally as dramatic as when the character in Office Space listening to the gangster rap on his commute is faced with a couple of potential bangers and he gets as meek as a mouse...

      Most of the rest of the sexism has been older guys with no filter that say inappropriate things in front of coworkers regardless of the gender-mix, occasionally making it personal about a person present. Often this is in the context of the group enjoying a mild bit of prurient humor centered around double-entendre, only for this other person to come into the conversation and just destroy any sort of plausible deniability with outright escalation of the joke or the deliberate explicit statement instead of leaving the double-entendre intact.

      I have no doubt that other forms of sexism exist in tech, but I have not personally witnessed anything as egregious as the article discusses.

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    12. Re: Prove it! by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      She hasn't. Boy you is dim.

    13. Re: Prove it! by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

      I work with a woman who does anything she damn well pleases. Because any time they start talking corrective action she's in the HR Department threatening lawsuits.
      It's cheaper to put up with her bullshit than to risk going to court, she doesn't do enough to fuck anything up, and it makes it really easy to fire men who aren't properly cow-towing to the management.

      This lady in the story didn't sue because she knows that blogging about it will get her what she wants, now and in the future, and she doesn't have to pay for a lawyer or court fees.

    14. Re: Prove it! by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

      Sued for what? Loss of consortium?

      Seriously, though, sexual harassment lawsuits usually go after lost wages, wrongful termination, etc- monetary losses. Which were what in her story?

    15. Re:Prove it! by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Reverse the sex role and suddenly those accusations are not so bad:
      a group of chicks, conspiring on how to get laid with men, in the company.

      No point, just a thought.

    16. Re: Prove it! by losfromla · · Score: 1

      Meditation would do wonders for your ability to respond appropriately to stimuli. You sound like a heart attack waiting (not for long) to happen.

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    17. Re:Prove it! by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Come on. The guy is objecting to being lumped together with them just because he posts on slashdot. He is not denying her experience.

    18. Re:Prove it! by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I do not believe anything that is written on blogs. And i do NOT need to prove that they are lying to not believe them.
      If someone states he has material. i will believe it the moment i see the material.
      The facebook article of that woman that met "Hugh Mungus" looked pretty similar, if you haven't seen the video.
      I read the article. It sounds awful, if true. And if true, i really hope she did more than just write the blog. With that kind of evidence, i suspect she could put a pretty big dent in uber lawfully.

    19. Re:Prove it! by ewibble · · Score: 1

      You are right the article says she has the evidence and it is up to her to prove to a court (not anybody here) that it is valid, the burden of proof is on her. Innocent until proven guilty.

      All we can do here is have discussions, based on the article, and personal experience.

      The only thing that does not quite make sense is that she said they changed reviews and that held her back from promotions, and it happened within a year. Just how many promotions did she expect within a year.

    20. Re:Prove it! by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      The email exchange are not part of anything that we can read. Some of us require evidence before we believe something. If you say that God is real then cough up evidence. If you believe that you have been victim of something, then cough up evidence. No it is not not the one that is skeptic about something that have to prove something, it is the one that made the original statement. Given the fact that 99% of the people I talk to doesn't even really know what sexism is, the evidence suggests that she is lying. If you want to call it lying when people are wrong about something even if they themselves do not know that they are wrong. In that case you are probably a liar because I bet you say a lot that doesn't survive the scrutiny of fact checking.

      And no there are not. Conspiring means that there are criminal intent and that is something you have to back up. Fucking women in the workplace or talking about it is in itself neither illegal, immoral or unethical. Some religions do say that it is but that's argument of authority from a fairytale figure. In the past it was believed that relationships among coworker was a distraction that damaged productivity. However there are now a large pile of studies showing it improves productivity so not even from a work ethics perspective can it be claimed to be wrong.

    21. Re:Prove it! by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Copyright doesn't work like that. To be protected by copyright it must be original content and it doesn't appear to be anything original about what he wrote. It is also obviously not a work related conversation.

      People do not need to lie in order to claim something that is wrong. People who claim that there is a god isn't lying, they are just wrong. Well some of them do know better and still claim it but most are just wrong. And so are people that claim that there cannot possibly be a god. Neither are lying, they are just wrong.

      Given what people historically falsely classify as sexual harassment or harassment it is clear that most people do not understand what it is or do not have a an understanding of the definition or the ethics of this subject.

      And yes that means that in order to be believed, someone that makes claims about sexual harassment have a higher burden of evidence than someone that for example makes claims about being robbed. Because most people clearly understand what robbery means and also clearly can tell when they have been a victim of that crime. But when we have people claiming that saying "hi" to a women is sexual harassment or that the mailman is stalking them because he drives lowly and stops all the time where you happen to be walking... Yes that proves that there are great confusion about what is and isn't harassment which means that if you will have to work harder to justify your claim.

      And yes that is a real problem for those that really are sexual harassed. But that problem is based on the large numbers of false claims that are being thrown around. That is exactly why we do have to question everyone that make claims. Both to make sure that they actually was harassed and to decrease the false claims so that in the future there may be reason to believe women who make such claims.

    22. Re:Prove it! by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      That is complete bullshit. Silence is never an admission of guilt. She is not accusing Uber but her coworker and it is usually just more cost effective for the employer to fire the coworker unless he is hard to replace. There are a large number of known cases where that is exactly what happens. Also given the fact that there is a lot of confusion about the laws and ethics that surround sexual harassment it is very likely that that Uber made their decisions based on false conclusions.

      Try facts yourself. The term SJW are not well defined. Is a SJW someone that based on the belief that someone is wrong has some kind of tantrum against that person? Well then there are a lot of SJW:s. Because having emotional reasons against someone that may have done something wrong and run after them with pitchforks are standard human behavior. What we usually call witch hunts are not something that's isolated to the short period of time where we hunted witches.

      It is a fact that people often misinterpret situations as sexual harassment and go on a witch hunt. Or act as SJW:s. Whatever word that fit's that kind of behavior. This is currently a declining phenomena but it still happens all the time. And it is a very well documented human behavior. Sexual harassment, witchcraft, thievery, murder, blasphemy... The accusations differs trough time and situation but the human reaction stays constant throughout all of human history. And from an evolutionary standpoint it makes sense. Destroy all that may have a defect to keep it in check. But from a moral and ethical standpoint it is despicable. There are of course situations when the alternative may be worse.

      There are also cases where the facts support having tantrums and if you don't understand that then you are the snowflake. Especially as you are so emotional that you mislabel something a tantrum and use the term snowflake in a way that makes no sense whatsoever. People often have tantrums because they are snowflakes, rather than because they have facts that supports their behavior, but you seem to believe that having a tantrum makes someone a snowflake.

  60. Sexism is just one aspect by nyri · · Score: 4, Interesting

    I think the headline and summary gives a wrong impression. Sure, sexual harassment is tolerated but the wider picture the writing paints is about dysfunctional organisation. Specifically:

    • There was the sexual harassment that gets all the discussion.
    • One of the other sexist aspects is the fact that she was denied a transfer. This seems to be due to the some half assed policy to increase the number of women in organisation with the net effect that her transfer was blocked because her current manager wanted/needed women in his team.
    • The third documented "sexist" thing is not buying leather jackets to female employees due to larger unit price. I don't think the problem here is sexual in nature. This same could have happened to fat people or any other minority group. Don't get me wrong, the company is wrong in doing this and excluding a number of people of any sort of team building exercise is really bad. Especially when it's done to save a few hundred bucks.
    • The main problem with the Uber organisation seem to be the utter politicisation of all aspects of management. From the description I'm willing to guess that the organisation is filled with power hungry people, who in turn hire and promote others like them. You know the type. A corporate version of these all talk, no action politicians.
  61. Re: A bad way to start by Gilgaron · · Score: 1

    Only for peers, parent post is correct.

  62. prove it in court by ooloorie · · Score: 1

    The legal consequences of sex discrimination and harassment in the workplace are so serious that it is unbelievable that HR would not have taken more decisive action. Given that neither Fowler nor the many other women she says have been harassed have sued over sex discrimination and instead chose to attack the company on her blog, it seems plausible that she is exaggerating in order to get back at her former employer (a form of indirect aggression).

    1. Re:prove it in court by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Based on all of the evidence in this post, it seems plausible that you're a dick.

    2. Re:prove it in court by serviscope_minor · · Score: 2

      The legal consequences of sex discrimination and harassment in the workplace are so serious that it is unbelievable that HR would not have taken more decisive action.

      That logic would only hold up if no company had ever lost a really bad lawsuit over such things. Since they have it shows that serious consequnces are not always serious enough for HR to take action.

      Given that neither Fowler nor the many other women she says have been harassed have sued over sex discrimination and instead chose to attack the company on her blog

      Proof by non-lawsuit. Few people (myself included---and I've been in the position to) are inclined to sue over employment matters. Especially people who can easily get a good job elsewhere.

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    3. Re:prove it in court by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      It's only serious if the harassed aren't pussies. Apparently this women is the first out of many before her who has the balls to stand up for her rights. A lot of sexism would be solved if women stood up for themselves rather than cowering away out of fear of upsetting their local social groups.

      I could have said that with nicer words, but the meaning wouldn't have changed. If you find specific combination of letters offensive, fuck you. You're not mature enough to call yourself an adult. If you know you're a wimp and can't stand up to higher levels of social pressure, then you should take steps to improve your skills. The first time you may have not realized you're a wimp and you're excused for that situation, but all other times after that is partially your fault for not improving yourself. Sure, you should never be pressured into something, but your house should also never catch on fire. You've taken steps to handle a house fire and you should take steps to handle peer pressure.

      Never expect "what's right" to protect you from life.

    4. Re:prove it in court by djinn6 · · Score: 1

      Whatever damage a lawsuit could've done to her personal career has already been done by her publicizing this. Generating a PR disaster is not any better than starting a lawsuit.

      If you are a manager, would you be willing to risk someone like her? What if she screams sexism for every little thing that doesn't go her way? What if one of your workers actually makes a mistake? What if HR is incompetent and misplaced / lost a complaint of hers? Keep in mind, no matter whose fault it was, ultimately, your boss is going to blame you for it.

      I think people would actually be more comfortable hiring her if she sued and won, because it would prove wrongdoing on Uber's part. So far, she's provided no evidence whatsoever. She might be telling the truth, she might be exaggerating, or she might have made up the entire thing. She could even be a shill, paid by taxi associations to damage Uber's reputation.

      By suing Uber, she can prove she's not making this up. She will be forcing Uber to change their policy (for the sake of everyone who's still there) and she will probably get a decent settlement out of it. So there's every reason to do it.

  63. Astroturfing Trolls by s.petry · · Score: 4, Informative

    The amount of Anonymous Cowards posting the same couple lines makes it obvious. This thread is being astroturfed.

    Women are making more money than men for the same job and same amount of work today, especially in cities. Stop reading a bogus 30 year old paper crafted for a narrative and check current reports. or This or This or This and of course This Interestingly most of these are LEFT leaning sites, not Right/Conservative.

    PolitiFact has given you the nuts and bolts about the 77 cents statistic -- you can read the two most important works in this area here and here. Basically, there is a wage gap, but it tends to disappear when you compare women and men in the exact same jobs who have the same levels of experience and education. (emphasis mine)

    Just like 60% of all College students are women, 56% of all College graduates with advanced degrees are women. Yet we continue to hear that we need more women in college.

    I'm an egalitarian, not a MRA. I also happen to believe in Socrates' definition of Philosopher, who must seek truth even at their own peril. Sadly the left avoids all truth and distorts everything they can for division and agenda.

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    -The wise argue that there are few absolutes, the fool argues that there are no probabilities.

    1. Re:Astroturfing Trolls by kilfarsnar · · Score: 5, Informative

      Sadly the left avoids all truth and distorts everything they can for division and agenda.

      You would have done better to leave this part out. It is not the "left" that does this, but people in general. It's pretty easy to find examples of this on the right as well. They elected Donal Trump, after all. Neither side of the political divide has a monopoly on subordinating the truth to their agenda.

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      "What the American public doesn't know is what makes them the American public." -Ray Zalinsky (Tommy Boy)
    2. Re:Astroturfing Trolls by AmiMoJo · · Score: 1

      The wage gap varies by industry, typically 95-100% when comparing like-for-like (skills, experience, area etc). But even that is like working a couple of weeks a year for free.

      The larger number is the unadjusted amount. It's less of an issue because to some extent it is down to choices made, but to some extent it is also down to more systemic problems like the burden of child care tending to fall more on women than on men.

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    3. Re:Astroturfing Trolls by s.petry · · Score: 5, Interesting

      The larger number is the unadjusted amount. It's less of an issue because to some extent it is down to choices made, but to some extent it is also down to more systemic problems like the burden of child care tending to fall more on women than on men.

      Are you claiming systematic discrimination of men? 80% of all custody awards go to women, if not a bit higher. I'd agree that we need to look at systematic problems, but the lens should not be positioned in a biased starting point. FWIW, I am a single parent and raised my kid from 10mos without any assistance or support. Even though my ex got hooked on drugs and became physically abusive after my child was born (both proven in court), it was an extremely difficult court case because I'm a man. We had to settle on joint legal custody with me having sole physical custody to make the Judge happy. She fought for money, I fought for the best interest of my child.

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      -The wise argue that there are few absolutes, the fool argues that there are no probabilities.

    4. Re:Astroturfing Trolls by AmiMoJo · · Score: 1

      There are many systemic biases, some favouring men and some favouring women. Well, I'm not sure "favouring" is the right word here, but hopefully you get my point.

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    5. Re:Astroturfing Trolls by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Ummm.

      > Sadly the left avoids all truth and distorts everything they can for division and agenda.

      But you had just said

      >Interestingly most of these are LEFT leaning sites, not Right/Conservative.

      So there IS a pay gap for the same job/education/experience then? Or was that an unjustified dig at the left in the face of the facts you had just presented?

    6. Re:Astroturfing Trolls by thegarbz · · Score: 1

      Yet we continue to hear that we need more women in college.

      No we don't. We hear that we need more gender diversity in college graduates. Crapping out an endless supply of female teachers and nurses and male doctors and scientists only really help's your argument that when you look at some overarching number there's no problem.

    7. Re:Astroturfing Trolls by Serge_Tomiko · · Score: 0

      No, Donald Trump was elected BECAUSE the left does nothing but attempt to maintain the many lies of their ideology. They don't give a fuck about anyonem, and they certainly don't give a fuck about white people. The entire religion of leftism is virtue signalling. Nothing more.

    8. Re:Astroturfing Trolls by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      There are more female doctors than males graduating these days: in the UK: http://www.gmc-uk.org/informat... (55% female) but not in the U.S.: http://www.gmc-uk.org/informat... (47.5% female) There is a similar story with accountants, except that there are more women than men in the U.S. as well http://www.catalyst.org/knowle...

    9. Re:Astroturfing Trolls by quantaman · · Score: 1

      The amount of Anonymous Cowards posting the same couple lines makes it obvious. This thread is being astroturfed.

      Women are making more money than men for the same job and same amount of work today, especially in cities. Stop reading a bogus 30 year old paper crafted for a narrative and check current reports. or This or This or This and of course This Interestingly most of these are LEFT leaning sites, not Right/Conservative.

      PolitiFact has given you the nuts and bolts about the 77 cents statistic -- you can read the two most important works in this area here and here. Basically, there is a wage gap, but it tends to disappear when you compare women and men in the exact same jobs who have the same levels of experience and education. (emphasis mine)

      The wage gap gets smaller when you control for job and experience, it doesn't disappear. And it's not certain you should be controlling for those things.

      The stat about unmarried women in the 22-30 range earning more is part of it. For one those articles are from 2008-2012 when uneducated males were probably the hardest hit demographic, I'm not sure that stat would be true today.

      Also, as they get older that gap is likely to reverse as men move out of apprenticeship positions (in labour or medicine) and as they start moving into management.

      Do men get promoted into management because women make different career choices, or because we tend to view men as leaders? The answer to that question affects whether you view the wage gap as legitimate.

      Just like 60% of all College students are women, 56% of all College graduates with advanced degrees are women. Yet we continue to hear that we need more women in college.

      I'm an egalitarian, not a MRA. I also happen to believe in Socrates' definition of Philosopher, who must seek truth even at their own peril. Sadly the left avoids all truth and distorts everything they can for division and agenda.

      More women in College isn't necessarily a sign of equality, women need degrees because uneducated women don't have the same job opportunities as uneducated men in skilled and unskilled labour. I think Iran, hardly an example of gender equality, also has more women in University.

      Besides, you're arguing a straw man. The thing you actually year is not "we need more women in college", it's "we need more women in technical fields". There are a lot of well paying fields like software and engineering that women don't pursue, that's also responsible for part of the wage gap. It also leads to the creation of hostile dysfunctional workplaces like the one described in this article.

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    10. Re:Astroturfing Trolls by s.petry · · Score: 1
      Except that the majority of Doctors since 2008 are women, right? 59% of Masters Degrees are going to women too, and 56% of Bachelor Degrees. We could also add in 61% of Associates degrees. Let me also be clear that the numbers given here are for White/Caucasian population. If you look at the numbers by Race/Ethnic lines they go even further toward women and away from men.

      So is your argument that Women should not be able to choose their degree program and should be forced into STEM?

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      -The wise argue that there are few absolutes, the fool argues that there are no probabilities.

    11. Re:Astroturfing Trolls by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Sadly the left avoids all truth and distorts everything they can for division and agenda.

      And thus s.petry loses all credibility that might OTHERWISE have been established.

      Because you know, only idiots don't notice the right's use of "alternative facts" and "differing perspectives" for division and agenda.

      Do seek that truth, even though it may be perilous to you.

    12. Re:Astroturfing Trolls by thegarbz · · Score: 1

      So is your argument that Women should not be able to choose their degree program and should be forced into STEM?

      You really don't know the difference between forcing someone and persuading them through incentives? Or.. in the case of STEM dissuade them through a culture of abuse and harassment.

      Also please stop just typing random words into Google and posting them like they were relevant to what I was saying. "Doctors" as in the men referenced was directly counter to "nurses" which I referenced in the women. And you may notice that in the USA there is an alarmingly low rate of female doctors graduating (20%) second only to Japan (a country with a very dominant model of gender roles) in the OECD. The rest of the OECD is far more neutral except for Finland which for some reason tipped the other way. Its actually the same as STEM. What makes women in the USA specifically not want to become doctors and engineers? I'm willing to bet it's the culture (i.e. the way things are done in the USA)

      If anything your posts and references have backed up a very alarming problem of gender roles in the USA. There are too many women in teaching roles compared to men. There are too few in science. Total number of graduates as I have already said is not so much irrelevant, but actually quite healthy. Gender diversity is critical to many fields and we should be aiming for equality across most of them.

    13. Re:Astroturfing Trolls by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

      It is popular to think of women as victims. Many men like being the white knight that saves the damsel in distress, and many women like all the special treatment they get from being seen as a victim.

      Though the feminist movement has worked hard to make women be seen as equals in terms of competence and power....their own efforts at balancing out decks that were previously stacked against women have served to foster the image of women as continual victims in need of protection. So the feminist movement has wound up working against itself on two of its top goals.

      So, the old and completely debunked stats about how women are victims will continue to be the most widely-circulated in the forseeable future.

    14. Re:Astroturfing Trolls by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      But how come we can't get people demanding fairness for women to demand fairness for ALL. Basically your post is nothing more then "stuff happens"

    15. Re:Astroturfing Trolls by s.petry · · Score: 1

      Your information is way out of date, at lesat for US information. 78% of Medical Doctors are Women. https://www.aei.org/publicatio...

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      -The wise argue that there are few absolutes, the fool argues that there are no probabilities.

    16. Re:Astroturfing Trolls by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I find it fascinating how quickly memes travel among you edgelords. For a group who does nothing but accuse the left of being paid protestors by George Soros, you all get your marching orders and talking points with lightning fast efficiency.

      Amazing how "virtue signaling" is this new evil liberal thing that only lying lefties do. What do we call it when Repubs stick gratuitous "God bless"es in their speeches? Or when you lead a random speech with the Lord's prayer? Or when you use subtle terms like "state's rights" to mean things like "we're gonna make it so we can legally suppress the votes of blacks and students and other people who will normally vote against Republicans". Oh yeah, we had a term for that a long time ago: we call it a "dog whistle".

    17. Re:Astroturfing Trolls by monkease · · Score: 1

      I also happen to believe in Socrates' definition of Philosopher...

      Sadly the left avoids all truth and distorts everything...

      Obviously I missed the dialogues in which Socrates endorses total hyperbole.

    18. Re:Astroturfing Trolls by Razed+By+TV · · Score: 1
      Did you read any of the sources you offered?

      Nothing in our analysis suggests that gender discrimination doesnâ(TM)t exist. In fact, the experts we consulted agreed that no matter how much you adjust the models to equalize for outside factors, a difference in pay between men and women remains, and itâ(TM)s one that canâ(TM)t be explained away.

      Here's the slightly deflating caveat: this reverse gender gap, as it's known, applies only to unmarried, childless women under 30 who live in cities. The rest of working women â" even those of the same age, but who are married or don't live in a major metropolitan area â" are still on the less scenic side of the wage divide.

      Chung said it "would be totally incorrect to imply that these women outearn men with similar jobs or similar educations."

      The Hay Group study, which does conclude that pay disparity is little to none for men and women with the same position, does not cover the United States. They strangely have little to say about the existence (or non-existence) of a pay gap in the US.

      To be sure, this data did not cover the United States. But in many countries, men and women doing the same job, in the same function and company, get paid almost exactly the same, the firm finds.

      So for whatever reason, this company, headquartered in the US, found it inconvenient to include the US data in their project.

    19. Re:Astroturfing Trolls by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      But how come we can't get people demanding fairness for women to demand fairness for ALL. Basically your post is nothing more then "stuff happens"

      Ah, but basically your post is nothing more than "These complainers are bad" which was also the case with the BLM movement, which was very quickly treated as somehow being inherently and intrinsically grossly abusive, violent, and racist. Which was also done when it was labor organizers, women's suffragettes, anti-nuclear activists, abolitionists, Christians, Protestants, and other such ideologies.

      You see, people have learned to recognize that the conservative reactionaries know the value of denigrating and attacking those who challenge them. Which is fine, it's a rational act to identify your opponents. But it's also possible to lie and deceive about it. And we know it happens.

    20. Re:Astroturfing Trolls by skam240 · · Score: 1

      Wow, you had me all the way to the end, i was nodding along and thinking, "what a thoughtfull post". Then you had to turn it all partisan and make big broad baseless accusations about half the population. Honestly, I think you're part of pur country's problems if you dont think the extremes of both of the Right and the Left lie like it's going out of style.

      Your shit smells too.

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    21. Re:Astroturfing Trolls by kilfarsnar · · Score: 2

      No, Donald Trump was elected BECAUSE the left does nothing but attempt to maintain the many lies of their ideology. They don't give a fuck about anyonem, and they certainly don't give a fuck about white people. The entire religion of leftism is virtue signalling. Nothing more.

      Honestly, I don't really know why Donald Trump was elected. I don't know what would motivate people to elect someone so obviously and severely unfit for the job.

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      "What the American public doesn't know is what makes them the American public." -Ray Zalinsky (Tommy Boy)
    22. Re:Astroturfing Trolls by Shirley+Marquez · · Score: 1

      Comparing men and women in the same job is not the end of the story. There is also the fact that fewer women are in the higher paying management jobs because those jobs aren't being offered to women. Men with the same amount of experience and talent move up the corporate ladder; women don't.

    23. Re:Astroturfing Trolls by Shirley+Marquez · · Score: 1

      There are indeed systemic biases both ways. Men are more likely to get promotions to management, and the salary and responsibilities that come with those promotions. Partly that's because women choose not to take on the necessary hours or are unable to do so because of childrearing responsibilities, but there is also discrimination against women who want those positions.

      On the other hand, the bias against men in family court is well known and documented. All else being equal, women are more likely to get child custody than men are, even adjusting for the fact that men are less likely to ask for it. And men are more likely to be required to pay child support, even if the woman earns more money. A man getting sole custody? Forget about it unless the woman is grossly incompetent or criminal.

      Both of these biases operate to maintain the status quo of gender role division. Women have a harder time getting jobs that would let them be the primary or sole income earner, while men have a harder time taking responsibility for children. Both get steered in the direction that society deems appropriate for them, and that's a real problem for the people who want to follow another path.

    24. Re:Astroturfing Trolls by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Sadly, we still refer to a "left" in this country as if there is one (there isn't, take a civics class, or three). Way to try and partisan this up with an unsubstantial claim.

      You're an egalitarian and believe in Socrates' definition but take a baseless, blanketed stab such as that? Blaming the left for everything. Creating this imaginary force and group of people to blame issues on is never a sound argumentative stance.

    25. Re:Astroturfing Trolls by Some_Llama · · Score: 1

      Comparing men and women in the same job is not the end of the story. There is also the fact that fewer men are in the higher paying management jobs because those jobs aren't being offered to men. Women with the same amount of experience and talent move up the corporate ladder; men don't.

    26. Re:Astroturfing Trolls by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      My hat is off to you for the rare custody win without a vagina. I didn't fare so well, hence posting as an AC.

  64. Nightmare of Sexism by Agiailotes · · Score: 1

    Goood!

  65. Re:"Former" engineer - tells you all you need to k by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

    Sure. And if the company went out and hired enough men to drop the percentage of women from 25% to 3%, that wouldn't suggest to you that they might, just possibly, have the teensiest problem with sexism?

    After relentless attacks from progressive media, why would any female engineer apply?

    Furthermore, Uber is seeing that mixing unmarried 20-something males with unmarried 20-something females causes problems, and the rational way to fix that would be to go to a unisex workplace.

    Neither of those is a problem per se, except perhaps for Uber, which has to select from a slightly smaller talent pool when hiring.

  66. Re:A bad way to start by Attila+Dimedici · · Score: 1, Insightful

    Unless they are a Democratic President (see: Bill Clinton).

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  67. In other news by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0
  68. Evaluating Claims of Sexism by Agiailotes · · Score: 1

    Is the accuser ugly? If so laugh. Else, Ignore. Also >a NIGHTMARE >blog trash it You don't have any rights. No one does. Negotiate for your interest rationally. The news media can't provide cover fire for you forever. Do things for yourself like all the men have to.

    1. Re:Evaluating Claims of Sexism by oh_my_080980980 · · Score: 1

      Somebody is aching for a swirly....

  69. Re:"Former" engineer - tells you all you need to k by nasch · · Score: 1

    Google for example has hired every single black person who has ever applied... But since any black with C and D averages can get into MIT...

    Got any citations for those claims?

  70. Re:"Former" engineer - tells you all you need to k by nasch · · Score: 1

    Yeah, but it sounds like the HR person is doing exactly what management wants.

  71. Re:"Former" engineer - tells you all you need to k by ooloorie · · Score: 0

    This kind of thing started on her first day and she took screenshots.

    She says she took screenshots. There is no independent evidence beyond what she says, and her story doesn't seem credible.

  72. Donnie Downer by s.petry · · Score: 3, Insightful

    That doesn't seem unreasonable, but in this case the her immediate superior opened on day 1 with "I'm in an open relationship, please have sex with me". Later she finds out that HR is basically encouraging him by taking no action against a "high flyer", which explains why he (correctly) thinks he can get away with it.

    Allegedly.

    After Ellen Pao, UNLV, Duke LaCrosse, and countless false police reports (resulting in legal action) about discrimination I'm waiting for evidence. Chat logs, screen shots, and email logs should be enough to prove the case. TFA reports no such evidence.

    Innocence until proven guilty should have meaning to all Americans, but seems like many are fine prosecuting without evidence let alone proof.

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    1. Re:Donnie Downer by Creedo · · Score: 5, Informative

      After Ellen Pao, UNLV, Duke LaCrosse, and countless false police reports (resulting in legal action) about discrimination I'm waiting for evidence. Chat logs, screen shots, and email logs should be enough to prove the case. TFA reports no such evidence.

      So, you post this, but don't bother to read the actual account?
      From the actual account:

      It was clear that he was trying to get me to have sex with him, and it was so clearly out of line that I immediately took screenshots of these chat messages and reported him to HR.

      I know, I know, they cleverly hid it behind the first link in the story.

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    2. Re:Donnie Downer by Half-pint+HAL · · Score: 2

      Allegedly.

      After Ellen Pao, UNLV, Duke LaCrosse, and countless false police reports (resulting in legal action) about discrimination I'm waiting for evidence. Chat logs, screen shots, and email logs should be enough to prove the case. TFA reports no such evidence.

      Yes, allegedly, but the allegations are credible when the blogger claims to have all that evidence -- evidence which she would have no legal right to simply publish, but she would have a right to use in presenting her case in a court of law. Uber have access to enough information to make a quick analysis of whether the complaint is credible or not. If they didn't think it was credible (and there is a huge gap between "credible" and "definitely true") they would have called it baseless in their first public statement.

      So I'm not saying you should believe it uncritically, but if Uber aren't in a position to deny it at present, I don't think anyone with less information on the case should be doing so on their behalf.

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    3. Re:Donnie Downer by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      You have stated what should be obvious to everyone.

      It is kind of incredible that on a site for nerds the critical thinking is so lacking.

    4. Re:Donnie Downer by s.petry · · Score: 3, Insightful

      There is NO, Zero, Zip, NADA Shred, of evidence provided in TFA. Her claiming to have evidence is the same exact value as her claiming she was harassed. Both are possible, but neither are demonstrated with any facts. Considering that there were plenty of alleged "facts" with the UNLV rape hoax, and the Duke Lacrosse rape hoax, and Ellen Pao's discrimination case, the fake Muslim hate crime in NYC we should _all_ be demanding and waiting for evidence prior to making assumptions. "Hands up don't shoot", Duke Lacrosse, and countless other hoaxes have ruined plenty of lives. Numerous "news" agencies were caught faking and fabricating video and audio to support the narratives.

      You would guess that people would have learned their lesson already.

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    5. Re:Donnie Downer by Agiailotes · · Score: 2

      Saying you have evidence IS NOT EVIDENCE

      The issue here is the obvious vulnerability in people's minds that causes them to believe and advocate for anything they feel like believing without any objectivity or rationality

    6. Re:Donnie Downer by Half-pint+HAL · · Score: 3, Insightful

      There is NO, Zero, Zip, NADA Shred, of evidence provided in TFA. ... we should _all_ be demanding and waiting for evidence prior to making assumptions. "Hands up don't shoot", Duke Lacrosse, and countless other hoaxes have ruined plenty of lives.

      There is a difference between treating a complaint as "credible" and treating it as "factual". My problem here isn't that people are doubting the allegations, but that they're outright dismissing the credibility of them. They should be taken seriously, and they should be investigated, and yes, no-one should be pronouncing judgement without access to the full facts.

      However, when you talk about false accusations that have ruined lives, you are presumably talking about people who named other people in their accusations, which Fowler didn't do. The only life on the line here is her own, and as someone whose career is on the rise, she has a lot to lose. No doubt there's been a spike in orders for her book (currently a best-seller on Amazon) and so there's the possibility she's doing this for short-term gain, but the damage to her reputation would be inestimable if this turned out to be false, and she would appear to be an intelligent enough person that she wouldn't risk throwing away an entire career this early on just to increase sales for a week or two.

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    7. Re:Donnie Downer by s.petry · · Score: 1

      Are you assuming that there is no possible way to redact identifying information from screen shots? It sure seems that you are, so consider that it's possible to do so. Don't you think that it would have been the job of the journalist to provide some evidence to support the allegation, instead of having an allegation support the allegation? Do you not think that journalists know how to redact? I have a Birthday, and it was not yesterday.

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    8. Re:Donnie Downer by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 2, Insightful

      There is NO, Zero, Zip, NADA Shred, of evidence provided in TFA. Her claiming to have evidence is the same exact value as her claiming she was harassed.

      Sort of. Her claim to have the evidence raises the value of her claim to have been harassed. It means it will be possible to fact check her later. If she later can't show evidence then we have clear evidence she's a liar. If she does show the evidence then there will be plenty of opportunity to impeach that evidence.

      Numerous "news" agencies were caught faking and fabricating video and audio to support the narratives.

      You would guess that people would have learned their lesson already.

      And this is exactly the point. They did fake it and we do know about it. In the Duke case we have also clear evidence of a number of people and organisations that, even after the accusations were disproven, were still willing to carry them forward and attack the men accused of rape. That provides long term evidence that those people and organisations are untrustworthy and will be brought out repeatedly in future to discredit them.

      However, unless you have evidence that this woman is linked in some way to such discredited organisations, you have no justification to accuse her of lying and in doing so you are just as bad as they are. N.B. I don't mean that questioning her or demanding evidence is bad. Just accusing her of lying without evidence and before Uber comes out with their response.

    9. Re:Donnie Downer by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      A claim that evidence exists does not prove the existence of evidence.

    10. Re:Donnie Downer by AmiMoJo · · Score: 1

      It took a public blog post to get Uber to act. In doing that she accepts that if she was lying and is discovered, she will become unemployable. But the point of the blog post was to force Uber to act, and to encourage others at Uber to come forward too.

      I agree that we need to wait to see what comes of this, but I don't think publicising it at this stage is a bad thing either. It's done some good, either Uber will clean up or a liar will be exposed. No individuals have been named.

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    11. Re:Donnie Downer by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      If we were charged with determining the future of the manager in question, then "innocent until proven guilty" would be a reasonable standard.

      But we're not responsible for that. We don't have any plausible justification for needing to see all this evidence. The woman claims she has it, and has shown it to the relevant authorities, and - mark this - those authorities don't deny it, even though it would be easy for them to do so, and it would save them a non-trivial amount of work and hassle if they could. Uber has motivation to rubbish her account, but it's not doing it. Why is that, do you think?

      Therefore, it's reasonable for us to assume that the evidence (a) exists and (b) is convincing.

    12. Re:Donnie Downer by Creedo · · Score: 2

      Saying you have evidence IS NOT EVIDENCE

      She gave the evidence to HR. Why would you expect that it appear in her post?

      The issue here is the obvious vulnerability in people's minds that causes them to believe and advocate for anything they feel like believing without any objectivity or rationality

      Indeed. I would point to you and s.petry as fine examples of this. I hope she and others in her position read this and, in the future, just go ahead and post all of the pertinent details to social media. Forget bringing allegations privately to HR. That's what you are advocating for, right?

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    13. Re:Donnie Downer by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      And you're not the judge, jury, prosecutor, or detective so you are not entitled to the evidence whether it exists or not.

    14. Re:Donnie Downer by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Hahahahahaha.

      You know what the result of every single "internal investigation" is, right? "No evidence of wrongdoing".

      Uber's entire schtick is a PR charade to cast aspersions on a woman for pointing out their misogynistic culture.

      Fun fact: all of the boys here loudly whining about "evidence" will take the results of Uber's "internal investigation" completely at face value despite having zero proof of their own.

    15. Re:Donnie Downer by Agiailotes · · Score: 1

      Why would you expect that it appear in her post?

      Are you totally insane?

      Because she's trying to get a reaction from society at large and people shouldn't react to hearsay like a crime was committed. But hey I'm crazy, rationality is clearly an out fad here.

    16. Re:Donnie Downer by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      But hey I'm crazy, rationality is clearly an out fad here.

      You're the one responding with hysterical emotion-laden rhetoric to a post that points out that your expectations need justification themselves.

      Of course, this is a world where even admitted actions are excused.

    17. Re: Donnie Downer by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Give it up, you're making yourself look (increasingly) stupid.

    18. Re:Donnie Downer by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Sometimes people forget this isn't a court and we're commenting on an article.

      Innocence until proven guilty applies both to the harasser and the person who, if the harasser is innocent, must be a libeller*. It's the right standard to put in legal proceedings where we explicitly isolate the question of libel from the question of harassment, which means you can give each person the benefit of the doubt, one at a time. But it is a logically inconsistent in general. They can't both be innocent, not in this case. The closest you could come is "I can't decide which is guilty".

      Evidence was cited in the article. She didn't show the literal screenshots and chatlogs in there, just mentioned that she showed them to HR, but there's no chain of custody so they would add no real value anyway. One factual piece of data cited was an organization that had gone from 25% female (pretty common ratio in engineering in my experience) to 6%, which isn't necessarily this guy's fault but is externally verifiable.

      Overall, I judge this likely because I have seen some of this bullshit happen before, recently, in a non-uber organzation I work adjacent to. I'm a man, I saw it happen, I couldn't figure out how to stop it and more than the women could (eventually, it did stop when the problem guy took a job at another company, but the damage was done). No I can't provide documentary evidence to the satisfaction of a court of law over a slashdot comment.

      * In general there is the possibility of a misunderstanding where neither harassment or libel were intended, but reading the full article rather than the summary basically eliminates that possibility.

    19. Re:Donnie Downer by Required+Snark · · Score: 1
      Yep, the head of one of the most talked about tech companies in the world has hired the former Attorney General of the United States because of an allegation that has no factual basis and can be easily disproved. Or so you claim.

      This dramatic behavior, including sending email to everyone in the company, is certainly the result of a staggering record of illegal behavior and coverup at Uber. It's not "one bad apple" or one complaining employee. That could be explained away without going into full panic mode.

      There must be a pattern of malfeasance that leaves the organization vulnerable to lawsuits by current and former employees and legal problems at the state, federal and even city level. And investors as well. Uber does business in all 50 states, so this could be a gigantic mess. Also, individuals and organizations could decide that they do not want to do business with a company that lets some of it's employees run amuck.

      This is how companies try and get ahead of the problem when they are faced with a legal and public relations nightmare. Your shrill defense say much more about you then it does about Uber or any thing else. A guilty conscience, perhaps?

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    20. Re:Donnie Downer by Half-pint+HAL · · Score: 1

      Hahahahahaha.

      You know what the result of every single "internal investigation" is, right? "No evidence of wrongdoing".

      Uber's entire schtick is a PR charade to cast aspersions on a woman for pointing out their misogynistic culture.

      Fun fact: all of the boys here loudly whining about "evidence" will take the results of Uber's "internal investigation" completely at face value despite having zero proof of their own.

      The immediate problem for Uber is compounded by having Arianna Huffington on the board. It would be a major loss of face to her to be associated with a coverup on this.

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    21. Re:Donnie Downer by Creedo · · Score: 1

      cause she's trying to get a reaction from society at large and people shouldn't react to hearsay like a crime was committed.

      React how? Did she out the person? No. Is there a lynch mob currently headed their way? No. Is there some pending litigation which is now based on hearsay? Again, no.
      What is happening is that people are discussing HR policies and Uber policies in particular. They are talking about sexism and inappropriate conduct in the workplace. They are talking about hardening systems against vulnerabilities which can be used to enable that sexism. This would protect everyone involved. But apparently we are in the discovery phase of a trial and such discussion are verboten.

      But hey I'm crazy

      I don't think you are crazy. I think you feel threatened. You might spend some quality time asking yourself why this is so.

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    22. Re: Donnie Downer by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I've a contract. You owe me $5000000. Better pay I've proof

    23. Re:Donnie Downer by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Except she isn't suing Uber in a court of law, she is trying her case in the court of public opinion.

    24. Re:Donnie Downer by Agiailotes · · Score: 0

      It's not about the person you incredibly thick fool. It's about sabotaging Uber. It's about the media being able to use you ninnyhammers as a weapon because you will believe ANYTHING you hear as long as you feel like it.
      It's dangerous. You lack critical thought.

      The only ones forbidding discussion are the people believing this is real with absolutely no proof when the woman said she had no intention of bringing a lawsuit. They are modding down anyone asking for proof insisting that it has been given when all there really is are this womans claims...no screenshots...no witnesses. You're literally insane.

    25. Re:Donnie Downer by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      There's not much left to say here other than that you're a complete jackass who makes up his mind before he finishes reading the headlines. She has evidence. Uber's CEO and no-doubt legal team shat their pants because she actually had documentation, screenshots of conversations, emails, etc. Any company that responded to her initial concerns with saying first-offense/can't-fire-or-at-least-move-the-guy wouldn't be responding to her if she didn't have evidence.

  73. Re:A bad way to start by haruchai · · Score: 1

    Reporting your boss to HR on the first day is usually a very bad way to start at a new company for any reasons

    WTF? Is there an expectation in Silicon Valley to be subject to some kind of weird hazing when you start a new job, by your boss?

    "On my first official day rotating on the team, my new manager sent me a string of messages over company chat. He was in an open relationship, he said, and his girlfriend was having an easy time finding new partners but he wasn't. He was trying to stay out of trouble at work, he said, but he couldn't help getting in trouble, because he was looking for women to have sex with"

    This is how Fowler claims the person she was reporting to was propositioning her on day one. She didn't apply to be a sex surrogate for a clueless loser whose own girlfriend preferred to have sex with other people.

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  74. harassment isn't a one-time thing. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    harassment
    hrasmnt,hersmnt/
    noun
    aggressive pressure or intimidation.

    how is one instance considered aggressive? I could see the person saying "i do not want to talk about this." and the other person continuing anyway as being harassment. However, with a single instance being considered harassment, how is one supposed to gage what is and isn't harassment? What if I were to suggest that someone should try a restaurant? This meets all the criteria of being what is currently considered harassment but is not considered harassment. What one person considers unwelcome, another might not. So when some person says that one thing is harassment they are unequivocally saying that the people that welcome the suggestion are unimportant. Which, in a world where everyone is wining about equal rights, which happens to be the proponents of this paradox (not exclusively but majority), this is just hypocritical. I'm not saying that harassment should be ignored but rather that it should be defined as it actually is rather than a presumed definition. If a person lives without proposals then that person misses opportunity. Just because it is sexual in nature does not make it the black plague of opportunity. It is just another potential option in a world of options. If no one should be offered something that they do not want to do then why isn't the fact that when people who are on welfare are told to get a job when they don't want to isn't considered harassment? ...Or when you're told to eat your vegetables? ..Or that truancy is considered a crime? ..Or that mental health patients take their medications? Reproduction unlike education is a natural part of life. Albeit, education is useful, it is not as ingrained and necessary as reproduction to continue existing as a species. The human race is defined by it, and we solely exist because of it. If any other bodily function, say eating, were as "unwelcome" as sex... Well, what then about someone with an eating disorder? (Maybe not the best example...meh) Should suggesting they eat be harassment?

  75. Virtue Signal much? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    enough said..

  76. Re:A bad way to start by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Better arrest Bill Gates and the myriad of other executives who made lives with people who were once their subordinates.

    And I'm guessing you're single. Do as all a favour and stay that way.

  77. Re:A bad way to start by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Oh, silly AC. Any boss asking any subordinate to fuck them is harassment.

    Ah, to be young and blissfully ignorant of the world. Sexual harassment is the unattractive person's crime.
    If you would give you left tit or nut to have sex with your boss there is not much that she can say that will fall into "sexual harassment" territory.
    If her existence sickens you then there are not going to be many conversations you will be comfortable having. Her mere gaze can be sexual harassment.

    See this harassment awareness video for more info. http://www.nbc.com/saturday-ni...

  78. THIS is where you hire the attorney ..... by King_TJ · · Score: 2

    I agree with the people on here saying we need more evidence that one person writing a blog about their side of the story to know what REALLY took place. But that's a whole lot of writing just to make up a fictional tale of how sexist things are at Uber. I'm inclined to believe it's probably at least generally true.

    But assuming it's factual? Why put up with all of that for a year and then write a blog about how you were wronged? If you really did the right thing, saving all of the chats and email conversations -- the obvious next step is a lawsuit.

    I *hate* dealing with attorneys and their shady billing practices ... but if there was ever a time to deal with them, I think *this* would be it! You're making accusations that H.R. staff broke the law multiple times in handling your complaints, and you were blocked from a promotion by someone going in and modifying a FINAL performance review (without even telling you it would be changed first). I see a whole lot of "sexual harassment" complaints that are largely baseless "he said, she said" garbage. (I used to work for a firm where one of the I.T. guys bought some flowers for the front office receptionist after she was out sick for a while. The card with them was your basic "Get Well Soon" message. She ran to H.R. and filed a complaint against him. THAT is the kind of stuff that's NOT a valid complaint. That's how you ruin things for nice guys and encourage an office environment where nobody gives a crap about each other.) But this story sounds like, especially in the state of California, you've got the law clearly on your side.

  79. Re: A bad way to start by haruchai · · Score: 1

    Wrong. Sexual harassment is an UNWANTED advance. If the advance is welcome, it's not sexual harassment.

    There's a time & place to make an advance and there has to be a basis for it. Propositioning women at a nightclub on ladies night is reasonable and even there you have to make opening moves that aren't blatantly sexual.
    Regaling a brand new subordinate, of whose personal life you know nothing with your sorry story of being outscrewed by your open-relationship "girlfriend" at the office is Category 5 stupidity and deserves, at the very least, a demotion.

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  80. Re: "Former" engineer - tells you all you need to by Megol · · Score: 1

    Yeah... And here you are posting as an AC on /. when you could instead write a book (as it's so trivial right?) and earn some cash.

    While anybody with some clue do know that the points above _do_ indicate competence unlike being an anonymous poster writing illogical shit.

  81. Astroturfed propaganda by Agiailotes · · Score: 1

    If she actually had any evidence Uber would have investigated already.

    She isn't displaying any proof at all. Yet the supposed conversations could easily have been documented reliably.

    Look how the authors of this farce are astroturfing up and down trying to make it seem like it's a normal thing to do to believe denunciation without proof.

    Welcome to the media, controller of the thoughts of people who make 100,000+ dollars annually.

  82. Depends on the company by nehumanuscrede · · Score: 3, Interesting

    The older companies have been there and done that already. Previous incidents have honed policies about such behavior in the workplace to a fine edge.

    As a result, your older companies make sure you understand they will not tolerate it. At all. Annual reviews and signed acknowledgements of said training with the threat of termination of employment for any violations pretty much keep folks civil.

    It's just a matter of the new ones getting a taste of what happens when you don't have clear policies on the issue.

    Watch for a zero tolerance policy to be born rather quickly ( as it should ) now that there is a spotlight on it. Will be a non-issue shortly as they will likely fire the guy in question if the allegations turn out to be true.

    1. Re:Depends on the company by 140Mandak262Jamuna · · Score: 1

      They need to fire a few HR managers who fumbled and the higher level managers who pleaded for leniency too. That will send the message to the HR guys to do their job.

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    2. Re:Depends on the company by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Interesting. How do the older companies handle false accusations? It is easy to boast zero tolerance. Much harder to do it without harming innocent people.

  83. The *only* good thing about abrahamic cults by Qbertino · · Score: 1

    No fucking way. This has got to be some kind of alt-right/4chan/cuck joke parody, right? Woman convinces beta male to have "open relationship" so she can fuck alphas on the side, SHOCKING beta with no game can't score, harasses actually capable women and helps ruin otherwise successful company.

    "Sluts and cucks ruin everything for everyone." This has to be a joke, right?

    No, it's reality.

    And right here you have the *only* good or at least moderately useful thing about abrahamic revelation cults (Judaism, Christianity, Islam) as a primitive operating system of society: Executed well, they keep the sexual imbalance in check with sexual moral codes, see that every pot has a lid and prevent an all-out anarchic fight over women in which a few men get most of the women. A circumstance hat usually eventually gives rise to fanatism and degeneration/destruction.

    "Girls, kiss the fascists where ever you find them!" - Kurt Tucholsky
    Smart man.

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  84. Re: "Former" engineer - tells you all you need to by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Wow. Slashdot really has become a cesspool. You make payment bunch of fake, racist facts and then use them to self-justify your pre-existing, racist beliefs.

  85. Re:"Former" engineer - tells you all you need to k by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

    Learn to read and do basic calculations then. Over 150 and 25% means there were over 37 women there. A year later it was 3% so maybe 5 were left. We aren't talking about 1 or 2 women leaving and temporarily skewing the stats, we are talking roughly 32 out of 37 which is a mass exodus.

  86. Tap Dance by wbtittle · · Score: 1

    1st: It is possible for this to be completely imaginary and not imaginary at the same time... complex numbers. Life sucks. I had a fight over the offensive nature of Game of Thrones, the book. There are a couple of sexual scenes in the book. One party deemed those seems highly offensive. I on the other hand read them closely and wondered how anyone could consider consensual sex offensive. Not just consensual, but proactive consensual. Martin managed to demonstrate explicit consent by both parties inside a paragraph with almost 0 dialog. The entire dialog was "No?" I could not manage to get the other party to comprehend how brilliant that example was. All they could see was the colloquial words for the genitalia involved.

    2nd: 1st step in any of this is for someone to say "STOP!". But then I remember the sexual assault video done by Popeye. He was doing the military press will Olive Oil as the bar bell. She kept saying "DON'T"... kiss... "STOP!" ... "Don't"... kiss ... "Stop!"

    On one side, clearly Popeye should have stopped RIGHT? On the other side, it was also potentially clear to say that Olive Oil did not want him to stop. Both interpretations were left wide open. COMPLETELY OPEN. Both interpretations were correct. Both interpretation were completely correct. Had he stopped she would have wanted him to stop. Had he not stopped there is a good chance she didn't want hime to stop.

    Unraveling this is not easy. Making the chain of evidence happen to a paint a company as 'evil' is actually pretty easy.

    No matter what, there is an equation that makes it even harder...

    Revenue > Expense. The people who keep revenue flowing into your system are granted a little more leeway than the people who aren't keeping revenue flowing into the system. Uber needs every dollar it can get flowing into its system.

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  87. Re:Nice alignment by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    I cant decide if the former has complex of persecution or the latter is a mangina douchebag. Life is so complicated...

  88. Re:"Former" engineer - tells you all you need to k by Wisp · · Score: 1

    and the guy who started all this!

  89. Re:"Former" engineer - tells you all you need to k by Half-pint+HAL · · Score: 1

    Furthermore, Uber is seeing that mixing unmarried 20-something males with unmarried 20-something females causes problems

    {citation needed}. Because you're clearly talking about something other than TFA, which refers to a male in a long-term relationship mixing with a female the length of whose CV (studied at 3 universities, worked at at least 5 companies) suggests she may be in her 30s.

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  90. Why didn't she? by Quzak · · Score: 1

    If she truely valued her job and the company then she should have just slept with him. This just highlights the need to discard sexual harrassment laws.

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  91. The truth about this is plain by Agiailotes · · Score: 1

    From the publisher's other article about this event:

    Last month, after reports surfaced that Uber had allegedly broken a taxi driver strike at JFK Airport amid protests against President Trumpâ(TM)s immigration ban, the hashtag #DeleteUber caught fire on social media, leading hundreds of thousands of users to cancel their accounts with the ride-sharing giant. But just when the grassroots backlash against Uber seemed to be dying down, a former engineer went public with her tale of rampant sexism and bureaucratic incompetence within the company. And like flipping a switch, #DeleteUber is back blazing up the social networks.

    Gee I wonder what this is really about. Couldn't have been about "flipping that switch back on", could it?

    Note well the insane knee-jerk responses posted here. Note well the effort to suppress anyone talking about proof and rationale.

    Slashdot is totally corrupt. The editors are complicit in these kinds of farces which are becoming ever more frequent. The moderation system is manipulated (astroturfing)

  92. are you serious ? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    "Communism has never been faithfully attempted at scale." bwhahahaaa. Are you serious ? *THAT* *WAS* communism.

    I'm guessing you never *lived* communism. Also: No true scotsman !

  93. Re:A bad way to start by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    He was impeached for that you know?

  94. who said it's perfectly .... ? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    That's what you don't fundamentally get, the word "perfectly" does not belong in this discussion in any shape or form, ppl who use it are either manipulators or mentally retarded.

    1. Re:who said it's perfectly .... ? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Your silly deflection has no effect here... be off!

  95. heh, by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    she's pretty. And not a cow so that makes her prolly a unicorn in the USA lol...

  96. Sloppy, incomplete reporting by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Her name is Susan Rigetti now, not Susan Fowler, and she's been in the headlines before for the claimed ability to go from 6th grade math to studying graduate-level quantum physics in just 18 months. Isn't that at least worth a mention, speaking to her credibility?

    I mean, someone who advances from 6th grade math to quantum physics in such a short time must surely be worth listening to.

    Also, searching for the proper name reveals even more headline-grabbing news about her husband's startup.

  97. Not a story of sexism by SuperKendall · · Score: 1

    This is not at all a story about sexism, instead it is a case of sexual harassment - by one guy, but also bolstered by a company that supposedly refused to address it because the guy is a high performer.

    To me it's far more a tale of large companies politics and fiefdoms. This seems to shock the writer but why??? Large companies have ALWAYS had those issues. It's just saying Uber is no different than any other large company, nor would I have expected that to be the case.

    Also I cannot help but get a large whiff of entitlement from the story who thinks it's natural to be able to easily transfer between departments in a company at the drop of a hat... when I worked for large companies there was pretty much no way I could move into other groups without tremendous effort.

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  98. Re:"Former" engineer - tells you all you need to k by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    except perhaps for Uber, which has to select from a slightly smaller talent pool when hiring.

    3% smaller, to be precise...

  99. Disagree by s.petry · · Score: 1

    Most of the people on the right that I know have to provide evidence to debunk the claims and positions of the left. I read everything I can get my hands on so that I can argue against the leftists. Such as I did above showing wage discrimination. Leftists on the other hand simply repeat the same bogus numbers over and over and over. The 70c on the dollar fabrication is repeated not just by former President Obama but every voice in the Left (Clinton, Pelosi, Schumer). That gets repeated by most leftist media outlets (just about all print and broadcast), and executives are repeating the lies. If they don't, they get lambasted by the left for being politically incorrect (members of the patriarchy, misogynists, bigots, etc...)

    Now what you may be hinting at is the RINOs, of which there are plenty. Considering your statement about Trump, I'm guessing that you perhaps are one.

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    1. Re:Disagree by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Most of the people on the right that I know have to provide evidence to debunk the claims and positions of the left.

      That you know, eh?

      How many people do you know?

      I read everything I can get my hands on so that I can argue against the leftists.

      How much do you read of what the right says and does?

      Such as I did above showing wage discrimination.

      But what about this?

      Here's a challegen: Show why it's wrong.

      Leftists on the other hand simply repeat the same bogus numbers over and over and over.

      Bogus information like these?

      The 70c on the dollar fabrication is repeated not just by former President Obama but every voice in the Left (Clinton, Pelosi, Schumer). That gets repeated by most leftist media outlets (just about all print and broadcast), and executives are repeating the lies. If they don't, they get lambasted by the left for being politically incorrect (members of the patriarchy, misogynists, bigots, etc...)

      Now what you may be hinting at is the RINOs, of which there are plenty. Considering your statement about Trump, I'm guessing that you perhaps are one.

      Oh, so you think your shit don't stink, is that it?

      Plenty of others. Lots of them.

      How many Republicans will you declare persona non grata in your refusal to admit you are repating lies, and to be honest, declaring them to be politically incorrect in a more original sense of the phrase.

      This is the problem the right-wing phonies like you have, you can't understand what you're doing wrong.

      You can't even grasp that you're doing something wrong.

    2. Re:Disagree by s.petry · · Score: 1

      Haha! You are funny! Romney and McCain are not a Conservatives, they are RINOs. Using Politifact, an extremely left wing organization, to debunk my claim is just sad. Funny though, that the Mitch McConnell link yields mostly trues. I'd honestly have to fact check your fact checker, because as mentioned they are grossly biased and remove context to make political claims. Nope, you are not paying me to be your researcher so won't happen. If you want to talk cash, leave contact information.

      I don't know anyone on the Right who assumes someone is honest, even on their own team. We have to debate each other as much as we do the left. Gowdy and Chavez question Republicans just like they do the Dems. Meanwhile, the "Left" is still claiming women make 70c on the dollar. I won't get into their other lies, the list is way too long and not relevant to the conversation.

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    3. Re:Disagree by serviscope_minor · · Score: 1

      I read everything I can get my hands on so that I can argue against the leftists

      Try reading everything you can to learn the truthinstead.

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    4. Re:Disagree by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 2, Interesting

      Haha! You are funny! Romney and McCain are not a Conservatives, they are RINOs.

      I already asked you: How many Republicans will you declare persona non grata in your refusal to admit you are repeating lies, and to be honest, declaring them to be politically incorrect in a more original [wikipedia.org] sense of the phrase?

      Because it really takes some chutzpah to say that your last 3 nominees are RINOs. And their VPs.

      They're just not politically correct enough for you.

      Using Politifact, an extremely left wing organization, to debunk my claim is just sad.

      Denying that Politifact, has shown the lack of truth in the statements of a a number of Republican leaders is pretty sad...but not uncommon, Trump actually lies about fact-checkers too.

      Funny though, that the Mitch McConnell link yields mostly trues.

      Oh that's even sadder. You're trying to use Politifact for a comparative analysis, which would require them to be a comprehensive examiner, a standard which would be rather hard to establish. I merely offered the evidence of untruthfulness among the right, yet refrained from what you now want to say.

      Some philosopher you are.

      I'd honestly have to fact check your fact checker, because as mentioned they are grossly biased and remove context to make political claims.

      Oh my, the sadness continues. Not only do you not want to admit to the lies, you want to believe, desperately, that they are false in their fact-checking.

      Nope, you are not paying me to be your researcher so won't happen.

      You're the one who has to establish your own words, that you so pretentiously claim this excuse only makes you more laughable.

      If you want to talk cash, leave contact information.

      If you have to be paid to seek the truth, you will tell the truth of the highest bidder.

      I don't know anyone on the Right who assumes someone is honest, even on their own team.

      That would be back to the questions I asked you earlier:

      How many people do you know?

      How much do you read of what the right says and does?

      Really, you say you don't know anyone.

      We have to debate each other as much as we do the left.

      Nope. Not really. You swallow all sorts of lies and deceits. You don't even like it when others point them out. Heck, you've gone so far as to disown the last 3 standard-bearers of the right.

      Gowdy and Chavez question Republicans just like they do the Dems.

      Nope. They have refused to have numerous investigations and inquiries, meanwhile they spend endless hours on Benghazi.

      Sorry dude, you really can't keep spreading the bullshit and expecting us to believe it.

      Meanwhile, the "Left" is still claiming women make 70c on the dollar.

      Nope.. Nuance . exists.

      You're tilting at a strawman.

      I won't get into their other lies, the list is way too long and not relevant to the conversation.

      Don't worry, you've made your partisan bias and hypocrisy relevant. It's really your own fault. You ego made you take a stance, and purport to superiority, but show no willingness to examine your own dirty hands.

    5. Re:Disagree by AK+Marc · · Score: 3, Insightful

      I read everything I can get my hands on so that I can argue against the leftists

      "I suffer confirmation bias, and I'm proud of it!"

    6. Re:Disagree by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Bonus points for getting him to respond to an AC. Bravo!

    7. Re:Disagree by Required+Snark · · Score: 0
      Do you keep your KKK robes on hangers in the closet so they will not be wrinkled but might be seen, or do you keep them folded in a drawer where they need ironing but stay out of sight?

      P.S. How does it feel to be supporting Comrade Putin?

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    8. Re:Disagree by kilfarsnar · · Score: 1

      Most of the people on the right that I know have to provide evidence to debunk the claims and positions of the left. I read everything I can get my hands on so that I can argue against the leftists. Such as I did above showing wage discrimination. Leftists on the other hand simply repeat the same bogus numbers over and over and over. The 70c on the dollar fabrication is repeated not just by former President Obama but every voice in the Left (Clinton, Pelosi, Schumer). That gets repeated by most leftist media outlets (just about all print and broadcast), and executives are repeating the lies. If they don't, they get lambasted by the left for being politically incorrect (members of the patriarchy, misogynists, bigots, etc...)

      Now what you may be hinting at is the RINOs, of which there are plenty. Considering your statement about Trump, I'm guessing that you perhaps are one.

      My point was that there is blame to go around. I'm not going to defend everything done by people on the "left". And if you really are a rational observer, you already know there is plenty of bullshit coming from the "right" as well. I just took issue with your characterization that the left avoids all truth and distorts everything they can for division and agenda. That is over broad and makes it seem like it is exclusive to the left. That's all. I'm not a Democrat and have no need to defend what any "team" is doing.

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    9. Re:Disagree by s.petry · · Score: 1

      You invented an exclusion that I never provided, but I'll bite since your response was polite. While there are certainly liars on the right, the difference is in a platform versus individuals. The Left running around claiming 72 genders, discrimination which does not exist against women, claims of bigotry when none exists and even creating hoaxes to back the invalid claim,claims of crime which do not exist among some groups and denying crime from others, and an overall loss of using facts for all of the above. There is no dialogue on the left, it's become pure Alinsky tactics.

      Again, I see it as a difference in a really F'd up platform and individuals who lie. Long ago I was Democratic leaning and certainly believed in the principles of Liberal like "Live and let live". The progressive takeover of the Democratic party makes it a fascist communist movement, not "Liberal". It's no longer "Live and let live", it's "Live like we demand and the Government should punish you if you don't." Many in my family were also Democratic leaning, which should explain my early leanings. The Democrats have lost all support from everyone I know because of the fanaticism and loss of reality and facts.

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    10. Re:Disagree by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Again, you'd do better if you actually admitted the lack of reality and facts in the Republican party, rather than purporting to be a former Democratic-leaning individual who is aggrieved over imaginary and unsupported claims.

      You can't acknowledge that the is Right running around claiming that everybody must fit in the gender boxes they declare acceptable, that discrimination and bigotry does not exist, making up the hoax that rampant crime is developing and that the government must use compulsion and force to punish people for violating all of these standards, that electoral fraud is so abundant, millions of illegal votes occurred, despite a lack of evidence of it. But you, you won't talk about that, because such a dialogue is against your partisan rhetoric, so you avoid it.

      Go talk to the people you know, the ones who you claim do not support Democrats, and see how many lies they believe.

    11. Re:Disagree by kilfarsnar · · Score: 1

      You invented an exclusion that I never provided, but I'll bite since your response was polite. While there are certainly liars on the right, the difference is in a platform versus individuals. The Left running around claiming 72 genders, discrimination which does not exist against women, claims of bigotry when none exists and even creating hoaxes to back the invalid claim,claims of crime which do not exist among some groups and denying crime from others, and an overall loss of using facts for all of the above. There is no dialogue on the left, it's become pure Alinsky tactics.

      Fair enough, but I still think you are being a bit blind to what goes on on the right. I'll agree that the whole gender issue has been blown out of proportion. We seem to need perhaps more than two genders, but not 72.

      Again, I see it as a difference in a really F'd up platform and individuals who lie. Long ago I was Democratic leaning and certainly believed in the principles of Liberal like "Live and let live". The progressive takeover of the Democratic party makes it a fascist communist movement, not "Liberal". It's no longer "Live and let live", it's "Live like we demand and the Government should punish you if you don't." Many in my family were also Democratic leaning, which should explain my early leanings. The Democrats have lost all support from everyone I know because of the fanaticism and loss of reality and facts.

      Yeah, but again, I see the same on both sides. The Republican position on abortion is certainly "Live like we demand and the Government should punish you if you don't". They're even talking about restricting birth control now, which is just pants-on-head retarded to my mind.

      It's a bit funny because I have you set as a Friend. I have read other comments of yours and think we are largely of like mind. I am also a "live and let live" kind of person, though I'm to the left politically. I see quite a bit of bullshit coming from the right. I mean, Donald Trump is president. He's so full of shit he has to spray tan himself to hide it. I'm not absolving the left. I agree that they have taken social issues too far. I'm neither Republican nor Democrat because I can't find enough in either party to get behind.

      Anyway, thanks for the polite discussion. I'll keep you on my friends list. ;-)

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    12. Re:Disagree by s.petry · · Score: 1

      Fair enough, but I still think you are being a bit blind to what goes on on the right. I'll agree that the whole gender issue has been blown out of proportion. We seem to need perhaps more than two genders, but not 72.

      Baseless allegation with no supporting facts, followed by a complete denial of science. I study the right as much as the left, so your claim is not only lacking supporting facts it has no place in reality. There are no "Right" wing platforms performing any of the actions I listed for the Left. The last bit is quite telling, since there are only 2 biological genders. If you claim that you need more, you are denying science and living in delusion.

      Yeah, but again, I see the same on both sides. The Republican position on abortion is certainly "Live like we demand and the Government should punish you if you don't". They're even talking about restricting birth control now, which is just pants-on-head retarded to my mind.

      The Republican position on Abortion is that it should be a State issue, not a Federal issue. Federal funding of abortions and birth control is not within the Federal Governments Constitutional Powers. What people rallied against recently was the Federal Government stopping the funding of Abortions overseas through planned parenthood. So your tax dollars were not simply supporting people here, but people across the world. That fiscal irresponsibility should really bother people. We are broke as a Country, with an accumulated debt of 240Trillion dollars. We have poor people of our own, poor education, and a massive amount of unemployment and underemployment.

      For the State issue, I'd recommend the study what a Federation of States really means, and why we are not a big blob Government like England, or China, or France, or Russia. I would highly recommend as reading, the Federalist and anti-Federalist papers.

      And when it comes to Abortion, Justice Anton Scalia said it brilliantly. I'll need to paraphrase a bit, but here goes. The act of abortion is not new to our century, in fact the practice goes back through thousands of years of history. Yet the founding fathers did not place any mention of abortion in the US Constitution, Bill of Rights, or anywhere else in our Founding documents. If the Founders thought the issue was worth mandating or denying through Federal powers, it would have a place in those documents. The fact that it's not there means that the power is a State issue. States can create laws independent of the Federal Government as long as they do not assume powers _from_ the Federal Government. The States should decide which is right and which is wrong, and the people who live in those States should be the ones who decide.

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      -The wise argue that there are few absolutes, the fool argues that there are no probabilities.

    13. Re:Disagree by kilfarsnar · · Score: 1

      Baseless allegation with no supporting facts, followed by a complete denial of science. I study the right as much as the left, so your claim is not only lacking supporting facts it has no place in reality. There are no "Right" wing platforms performing any of the actions I listed for the Left. The last bit is quite telling, since there are only 2 biological genders. If you claim that you need more, you are denying science and living in delusion.

      Hey man, it's the Internet and I'm at work. I don't have the time nor inclination to buttress every point. I'm stating my opinion, nothing more.

      You are confusing sex with gender. Sex is biological, gender is sociological. I know that they have been used interchangeably in the past, but the language has changed. Frankly, I don't really see what the fuss is about. I don't really care what gender people want to call themselves. And though the media make a big deal about people being offended at being called "him" or "her" it really doesn't come up in my life.

      As for the rest, the right has people like James O'Keefe making shit up and misrepresenting people to make his point. A number of people on the right claim to think discrimination against white people is as much as issue as that against minorities. So there's your analog to seeing discrimination that doesn't exist.

      The Republican position on Abortion is that it should be a State issue, not a Federal issue. Federal funding of abortions and birth control is not within the Federal Governments Constitutional Powers. What people rallied against recently was the Federal Government stopping the funding of Abortions overseas through planned parenthood. So your tax dollars were not simply supporting people here, but people across the world. That fiscal irresponsibility should really bother people. We are broke as a Country, with an accumulated debt of 240Trillion dollars. We have poor people of our own, poor education, and a massive amount of unemployment and underemployment.

      If that's the case then why are they constantly talking about overturning Roe v. Wade? That is, after all, the case that put the question back to the states. Are you really saying that the Republicans and the right in general do not want to outlaw abortion? Really?

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    14. Re:Disagree by s.petry · · Score: 1

      Hey man, it's the Internet and I'm at work. I don't have the time nor inclination to buttress every point. I'm stating my opinion, nothing more.

      I call bullshit. If there was a right wing group out causing riots and shutting down free speech you would name it off the top of your head, or at least name affiliations. I can name 6 Democratic groups off the top of my head, and when you are home you can search the web for them.

      You are confusing sex with gender. Sex is biological, gender is sociologic..

      I hate to break it to you, but you are the one confused. Gender and Sex are both biology. I don't care who you want to have sex with or what you want to wear, you are still either male or female. We could argue the finer points of which of those things and under what conditions they are mental disorders versus a difference in morality, but you can't just make up stuff and say "science". That is not how science works.

      As for the rest, the right has people like James O'Keefe making shit up and misrepresenting people to make his point. A number of people on the right claim to think discrimination against white people is as much as issue as that against minorities. So there's your analog to seeing discrimination that doesn't exist.

      Well, now I'm wondering if you are truly just a brainwashed fool or a troll. O'Keefe brought down the corrupt organization called Acorn, brought down illegal super-PAC activity in the Democratic party, revealed top DNC operatives conspiring to not just rig the election but commit acts of terrorism (to which there have been 5 arrests made). Progressives will claim that he edited video of Planned Parenthood undercover work, and yet O'Keefe released all of the videos in full to prove no editing. The leftist media of course ignored the "rest".

      Hint: Stop believing what you hear on MSM and relying on them for information. They are not there to inform, they are there to brainwash. This was admitted by not just Rachael Maddow (or however you spell it) on air, but by the VP of CNN. WP and other papers have stated that they will behave with bias against Republicans without any attempt at fairness. President Trump was not the only target of their claims, but any and all people who threaten the oligarchy.

      If that's the case then why are they constantly talking about overturning Roe v. Wade? That is, after all, the case that put the question back to the states. Are you really saying that the Republicans and the right in general do not want to outlaw abortion? Really?

      Which part of "NOT A FEDERAL ISSUE" was hard to understand? Roe vs Wade keeps control of the law in Federal Hands. That decision did not give complete control of abortion issues to States, it only gave a portion of those issues back.

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    15. Re:Disagree by kilfarsnar · · Score: 1

      I used to have discussions with a friend of mine about whether or not there exists an objective reality, separate or independent from people's perceptions of it. He argued that there is such a reality. I argued that there is not; or if there is, its existence is irrelevant. Perception is all we have. So it continues to be interesting to me that we are all observing this allegedly objective reality, and coming to such different conclusions about it. I suppose it has to do with one's experience, biases, and expectations interacting with the information that we come across, what we ascribe meaning to and what information we keep or discard. It's a fascinating interplay, how we make sense of this world.

      I learned long ago that I cannot prove anything on the Internet. You have your perception and I have mine, and that's about as far as we can take it in this medium. I agree with you that the mainstream media are not there primarily to inform, but to manipulate and propagandize. We can agree on what is not true, but not entirely on what is true. Such is often the way of things. Cheers and have a good weekend.

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      "What the American public doesn't know is what makes them the American public." -Ray Zalinsky (Tommy Boy)
    16. Re:Disagree by s.petry · · Score: 1

      I learned long ago that I cannot prove anything on the Internet.

      Then perhaps you should consider that your knowledge and opinion are not well founded. I demonstrated here that there are no right wing groups attempting to squash first amendment rights with violence, and you have not been able to refute that point. In fact you simply dropped it because you can't provide any such evidence so realize your opinion is based on delusion. I gave the correct scientific answer to gender and sex, to which you make another false claim about perception meaning more than facts.

      I'd agree that I can't make you provide or listen to facts, but that has nothing to do with Internet. That is your failure to adhere to logic and reason. Those same short comings are found all over, and I have no problem pointing out those failures when I see them. I further don't bend my own opinions based on "feels" over facts.

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      -The wise argue that there are few absolutes, the fool argues that there are no probabilities.

    17. Re:Disagree by kilfarsnar · · Score: 1

      I learned long ago that I cannot prove anything on the Internet.

      Then perhaps you should consider that your knowledge and opinion are not well founded. I demonstrated here that there are no right wing groups attempting to squash first amendment rights with violence, and you have not been able to refute that point. In fact you simply dropped it because you can't provide any such evidence so realize your opinion is based on delusion. I gave the correct scientific answer to gender and sex, to which you make another false claim about perception meaning more than facts.

      I'd agree that I can't make you provide or listen to facts, but that has nothing to do with Internet. That is your failure to adhere to logic and reason. Those same short comings are found all over, and I have no problem pointing out those failures when I see them. I further don't bend my own opinions based on "feels" over facts.

      Dude, it's just not worth my time. I'm not going to expend much energy trying to prove something to an argumentative stranger on the Internet. It would only lead to more arguing, and I would get nothing out of it. That's why I said you have your opinion and I have mine. I don't really care what you think of my opinion. You think I'm wrong and I think you're wrong, and neither of us will be able to convince the other one of that. That's what I meant by my inability to prove anything on the Internet.

      I'm officially done with this conversation. You can go ahead and think what you like of me. You've vanquished another fool on the Internet!

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      "What the American public doesn't know is what makes them the American public." -Ray Zalinsky (Tommy Boy)
    18. Re:Disagree by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      You should probably learn what confirmation bias is before you speak about it. However I suspect that you only learnt the part of the definition that is useful for your argumentation. Do you understand how extraordinarily amusing that is?

    19. Re:Disagree by AK+Marc · · Score: 1

      He reads things for the purpose of finding one point of view to use against others. So he'll keep and remember only that which supports his hypothesis, and ignore everything that doesn't. Note, he doesn't read everything he can find to learn the truth and share it.

  100. You betcha you should take her word for it. by denzacar · · Score: 1

    You clearly didn't RTFA. She has extensive email and chat records to back up her claims. Yes, I am taking her word for it.

    Considering that in Trumperican Kingdom, current first "lady" is suing a foreign tabloid for calling her a prostitute and thus preventing her from a "unique, once-in-a-lifetime opportunity" to cash in on her position of a first "lady" - you betcha you should take her word for it.

    Only a complete idiot wouldn't keep a paper/electronic trail while making public accusations in the Land of Litigation.
    Which goes double for someone working for a company involved in so many lawsuits.

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  101. "Sexism is a ... problem in Silicon Valley" by RobinH · · Score: 1

    At first we kept hearing that sexism is a major problem in "STEM" and many of us were like, "what"? I mean sure, we're seeing skewed employment numbers, so we start to talk about things like what motivates people to get into STEM, and we point out that there weren't that many females enrolling in STEM programs at universities, and so on, but at least we seemed to be having a good discussion around this, focused on what would motivate young women to actually consider STEM careers. But then we kept hearing, "no, you don't get it, if a woman goes to a computer security conference she's getting groped every night, and all these startups with young guys working in them are harassing women who work there day-in and day-out." Like... "what"?

    Those of us living outside of Silicon Valley just seemed to wonder what the heck was going on. We keep hearing this refrain about sexism in tech, and how blatant this harassment is, and honestly it's hard to believe in something you don't see. Many people like me in STEM fields just work at regular companies that make widgets or whatever, and we work in offices with other professionals, and this kind of stuff isn't tolerated. To be fair, there is still harassment going on, but it's going to be at the same level as the whole populace. It's not like a group of 3 IT guys in a small company are going to be ordering hookers on the company credit card or something.

    So I'm glad this article says "Sexism is a well-documented problem in Silicon Valley" instead of saying it's well documented in STEM or Tech, because honestly it's not helping to get women into STEM careers *out here in the rest of the world* when you make it sound like they'd be crazy to go into these fields.

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  102. So he asked? by Chewbacon · · Score: 1

    I mean, if she said no and he persisted, then that's a different story. Yeah, bad form on this idiot's part for asking her on the first day. I put it like this because I remember an employer's policy defining sexual harassment as unwanted sexual advances. My coworkers and I briefly joked "well, you have to try and fail once for it to be unwanted." We joked, yeah, but if Uber has similar language in their policy, I'd say that guy has a good defense for himself already.

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    1. Re:So he asked? by ImprovOmega · · Score: 1

      There's an exception for advances that are out of line from the perspective of a reasonable person. Example:

      Asking a new co-worker on a date the first day. May be unwanted (and bad form). You get turned down and never bother her again. Result: no lawsuit, no calls to HR, not a big deal.

      You give your new subordinate intimate personal details about your love life and ask if she wants to screw you on her first day. Almost certainly unwanted, even if you stop bothering her after that. Result: extreme awkwardness, lawsuit, HR at best puts you on some kind of probationary watch with the understanding that you will be fired if you do it again, and the subordinate gets her choice of transfer to another group (at least, that's how it should have gone).

      Can you really not see the difference?

  103. Idiot by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    What kind of fool enters an open relationship in the sausage party known as Silicon Valley?
    His significant other would be swimming in cock while he's in a desert.

  104. No shit by slashdice · · Score: 1

    CEO Travis Kalanick calls it "Boober" because it helps him get laid.

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  105. And that's the [Bwahaha!] problem by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    inherent in the system! HAHAHAHA. Sorry, couldn't even quote Monty Python without laughing at this bimbo and her click-bate blog posts.

  106. Yahoo! was looking for a new CEO by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    They have a history of lying, incompetent, lacking a Y-chromosome CEO's. Give it to her! "It's Her Turn".

  107. Thank You Uber by chewie2010 · · Score: 1

    The way woman are treated in Silicon Valley HAS to be exposed. It makes me cringe when I hear Mrs. Clinton talk about woman in technology, the disconnect to how it really is hard to swallow. I have seen groups of engineers cackle and shout female engineers and programmers out of a room. They tease their clothing, their hair, talk to them like their stupid etc. And I don't care if I sound racist, engineers/people from certain countries DO NOT RESPECT WOMAN. It can be borderline uncomfortable for a guy from the mid-west raised on equality.

    1. Re:Thank You Uber by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      That is only "borderline uncomfortable"?!!

  108. Re:A bad way to start by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    If you're referring to the Lewinsky scandal, it all started when she told Bill she had a crush on him.

    They discussed their mutual affection and he asked if he could kiss her. After they kissed, Monica gave Bill her phone number.

    He called her to set up a meeting. At the meeting they kissed, and she undid her top. Then he got a phone call, and during the phone call she started to give him a BJ.

    Not only did Monica initiate the relationship, but she welcomed Bill's advances. There was no hint that any aspect was non-consensual.

    Say what you will about the impropriety of such a relationship, but it in no way compares to a boss propositioning an unsuspecting subordinate for sex.

    dom

  109. This is totally fake by Agiailotes · · Score: 1

    There is no proof.
    There will be no lawsuit.

    Her account is a lie.

    Meanwhile you see the total insanity of people believing her word as truth. Everywhere.

    We need a culling.

  110. Screenshots? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    If she took screenshots to provide to HR... where are they?

  111. This really is horrendous sexism by Chrisq · · Score: 1

    I was expecting to read one of the usual stories. The proportion of men to women wasn't 50/59 so they must be sexist; the guys don't ask look comfortable taking to me; or the guys are too familiar when talking to me. I have to say though this sounds like a good engineer facing real problems of discrimination.

  112. Legalize Prostitution by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Any guy in the US who has gone on dating sites or to a club in their 20's and 30's know that women have a huge advantage simply due to biological urges of men created by testosterone. Men are simply wired to breed as much as they can, and the result of our feminist x puritan based system that shoves sexual marketing non-stop at men while making it nearly impossible via shame and the legal system to do *anything* about that is borderline cruel - no different than female mutilation, forced marriage, or any of the other parts of gender history we've supposedly surpassed.

    The solution is non-criminal, non-stigmatized prostitution, taxed and safe. Whether it turns into something like Germany, Thailand, or Australia doesn't matter.

    What shouldn't be happening is men who work 60-70 hours a week and make good money still needing to resort to things like the Uber guy did to desperately hit on the few women he interacts with daily, while his mind and body screams for sexual release. The guy is a dick, but I think all single men around here in tech might feel understand the feeling when there is typically one or two women among dozens of bro-grammers, and we haven't had sex in two years.

    No that doesn't give men the right to harass any woman at work, but society has no right to deny the right of working men the ability to engage in paid sex or intimacy in exchange for our labor. Otherwise, why should men agree to things that definitely disadvantage them - no violence against women even though we're stronger, refusing to pay child support or alimony since we rarely get custody, disproportionate taxes men pay that women receive due to less work and higher lifespans, etc.

    When I lived in places like Thailand, Philippines, and even parts of Europe where prostitution was maybe $50 and a short cab ride away, I felt no interest in interacting at all with other women in anyway sexually. If there was a hot women at the bar or at work, I simply did not care to deal with her anymore than possible, even if I wasn't interested in visiting a prostitute later on. It was simply the idea that it was not a critical problem to solve should the urge pop up, which does for most men quite often. In the US, on the other hand, a typical guy can easily go years with sexual intimacy if he is not constantly hitting on women, paying for dates, buying drinks, and otherwise jumping through hoops to interest women for the slightest chance at sex.

      It's absurd and, I've decided, a terrible way for any guy to live. Smart guys should get out of the US as fast as possible if they feel similar.

    Again, the way the US and some other nations shame and criminalize the most basic urges of men is cruelexcept when it comes to legal prostitution). It will take away a huge amount of power they have over men. Only in places like northern Europe and the US, where prostitution is illegal and feminism is worshiped, do we find the typical type of mangina so pervasive now - always looking to pedestal every women in the hope that she'll see how progressive he is and repay it with sexual favors (note to these guys: she never will - you are friend-zoned from day 1).

    But they won't have to deal with the creepy guys hitting on them at work or on the street all the time, either.

  113. Sucking the bosses dick can be a food career move. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    ...just ask Marissa Meyer.

  114. Good grief. Idiot or Troll? by s.petry · · Score: 2

    Doctors does not assume "medical doctor", but if you had bothered to read the link you would see that 70.8% of Medical Doctors Degrees are earned by women.68.9% are Education,etc... READ THE DAMN FACTS!

    Your complaint is that women are not choosing to go into CS, Physical Sciences, or Engineering. I thought you were pro woman you bigoted simpleton! Nobody is forcing women into a specific career field. People like you are attempting to force them into it.

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    -The wise argue that there are few absolutes, the fool argues that there are no probabilities.

  115. um... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    very horrifying

  116. Why should we believe you without evidence? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Why should we believe you without evidence?

    This is the exact same question so many throw at the victim in the referenced story, so it is only fair that you get the same treatment.

    You are welcome.

  117. Re:"Former" engineer - tells you all you need to k by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    incontinence

    shitstorm

    I see what you did there.

  118. Re: You sir, are an idiot by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Proof of forgery is different to proof of non existence. Try again.

  119. It's pretty normal for Uber by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Uber to me fosters all kinds of bad behavior. This company is run by people who ignore regulations, and don't use proper vetting in their drivers. I learned first hand that Uber is not about anything but wealthy young males looking to make a fast buck and retire early. Their reaction has always been to investigate. Wink Wink.

  120. Men are victims too. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    ... his girlfriend was having an easy time finding new partners but he wasn't.

    You're a woman when you're a good fuck, you're a man when you can pay the rent and drive the car. It's easy for a woman to say "all aboard" and find another sexual partner. It's not so easy for a man to take the car and house he shares with a woman already and commit them to another sexual partner. Many a mistress has learned too late that promises of a house and car are not legally enforceable, so the new partner is vulnerable too.

    Adding children to the mix really fucks-over the man: He can be responsible for babies caused by her adultery. As a biological parent or a functional parent, a judge can decide the man's responsibility is paying money to the mother and child, not being a parent, not even doing what's best for the child.

    The man has committed large assets to the relationship and is getting little back since his wandering partner hasn't made an equal long-term commitment. What happens when she becomes bored with the current relationship, when she gets pregnant to her fuck-buddy, when her fuck-buddy becomes more desirable (or richer) than her partner?

    I've seen women divide their sexual relationships into emotional/financial support and fuck-buddy. It's easy for women to say they don't want a one penis relationship but it is an unequal arrangement that a lot of men can't tolerate.

  121. Female medical grads in USA by haruchai · · Score: 1

    Crapping out an endless supply of female teachers and nurses and male doctors and scientists

    newsflash - total female grads vs male ones from med school in the USA has been above 90% since at least 2002
    http://kaiserf.am/2hO7ZxG

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    1. Re:Female medical grads in USA by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Crapping out an endless supply of female teachers and nurses and male doctors and scientists

      newsflash - total female grads vs male ones from med school in the USA has been above 90% since at least 2002
      http://kaiserf.am/2hO7ZxG

      Don't know where you learned maths...
      From your link, in 2015 (latest numbers)
      in the USA:
      Female grads of med school: 8,907 (48%)
      Male grads of med school: 9,798 (52%)
      Total grads of med school: 18, 705 (100%)

      And looking at every year from the beginning women have increased from 44% of med school grads in 2002 up to 48% in 2015. That isn't even a 90% increase (trying to figure out where you came up with that number!)

    2. Re:Female medical grads in USA by haruchai · · Score: 1

      Divide 48 by 52 & convert to %age

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      Pain is merely failure leaving the body
  122. Re:A bad way to start by haruchai · · Score: 1

    Unless they are a Democratic President (see: Bill Clinton).

    The Republicans only cared because they wanted Clinton gone. Also Lewinsky NEVER filed a complaint against Clinton.

    Not that I was ever okay with his hound dog ways and Hillary should have dumped him long before that.

    And someone was covering up for Dennis Hastert for a long time. And Gingrich.

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    Pain is merely failure leaving the body
  123. What I find most sad by s.petry · · Score: 1

    That to argue for rational dialogue and facts for consideration, people need to state things like "Please understand that I am not in any way saying that harassment in the workplace is OK." In an intellectual space the disclaimers should go without being said. Sadly, intellectuals are not the only ones in this space. I understand why you did, just pointing out something obvious for mass consideration.

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    -The wise argue that there are few absolutes, the fool argues that there are no probabilities.

    1. Re:What I find most sad by Dread_ed · · Score: 1

      Experience has taught me to be cautious.

      I have met many self proclaimed "intellectuals" that are more than happy to prance off on a tangent, avoiding the subject at hand, vociferously counterattacking on a completely different issue, all because I left them the opportunity by not practicing conversational prophylactics.

      I have noticed that this is the normal MO for people who have an agenda where their brain is supposed to be.

      This seems to be more and more of the population. I am constantly in wonder of people who seem perfectly capable of thinking for themselves and yet continually choose to regurgitate an adopted agenda. The result is that no real communication occurs with them. They don't consider what the other person is saying. They just look for keywords and subjects that they can reply to with their agenda. Conversational prophylactics are designed to try to eliminate some of the opportunities for these sub-human robots to spew their agenda-speak.

      --
      When the only tool you have is a claw hammer every problem starts to look like the back of someone's skull.
  124. Another stupid-woman story by holophrastic · · Score: 1

    Allow me to sum up:
    1. woman goes to work at a new company.
    2. woman immediately gets treated like shit by manager.
    3. woman complains to HR (I assume appropriately)
    4. woman gets treated like shit my HR
    5. woman learns that many women are treated like shit by managers and HR at this company
    6. woman keeps working at this company for how long?!

    A lot of women like to cause trouble, instead of being trouble. Stop complaining to HR. Just walk out the door. Complain to media. Complain to friends. Complain to senators. Complain to police. HR isn't obligated to enforce anything. HR isn't on your side. Police are. If treating women like shit isn't illegal, then you've nothing to complain about. If it is illegal, then you need to complain to those who made the laws. HR doesn't do either. Company policies aren't enforced. Welcome to companies.

    Start your own company. Join a company with more than 3% women. If you're treated like shit on the first day, don't be surprised when you're treated like shit a year later.

    Honestly, what do you think the odds were that you'd be treated like shit on your first day, and it was a random coincidence?

    There are bad people in this world. I'm not one of them. And yet, I have a hard time hiring people -- because they look for big companies.

    You're talking to slahdotters here. I've spent 30 years programming. I'm happy to say that male programmers, of almost all ages and demographics, treat women like princesses. And yet, in all of my years, I've encountered very few female programmers in any office, venue, bar, or school.

    You're complaining that other places treat you like shit. I don't. Come here. I can't do anything more from afar.

    1. Re:Another stupid-woman story by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I would disagree that calling her a "stupid-woman" is "treating her like a princess." It seems that you have managed in your own way to "treat her like shit...from afar."

      It sounds like maybe you mean well, but your entire response is pretty sexist in itself.

    2. Re:Another stupid-woman story by holophrastic · · Score: 1

      Calling someone stupid for being stupid isn't sexist. Not calling her stupid just because she's a woman, that would be sexist.

      I don't treat stupid women like princesses. That isn't a requirement. I'm also well-within-reasonable-ethics to treat her like shit because she chose to complain about a scenario in which she chose to remain.

  125. Re: A bad way to start by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    The ignorance is yours, and we must conclude that it is entirely wilful in nature, since after repeated attempts to make this clear to you, you still refuse to admit that a sexual advance from someone who has authority over you is completely unlike a sexual advance from someone who does not. This is because someone who has authority over you is in a position to retaliate against you if you refuse the advance.

    Are you fantasising about someone who reports to you, perhaps?

  126. Congrats. Not just sexist, but able-ist and by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Congratulations. Not just sexist, but able-ist (retarded, aspi) and generally bigoted (geek, etc.).

    1. Re:Congrats. Not just sexist, but able-ist and by HornWumpus · · Score: 1

      My you be cursed with many socially retarded aspi cow orkers.

      --
      John McAfee 'It was like that time I hired that Bangkok prostitute; to do my taxes, while I fucked my accountant'
  127. Re:A bad way to start by Attila+Dimedici · · Score: 1

    Senator Packwood's intern never filed a complaint against him either.

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    The truth is that all men having power ought to be mistrusted. James Madison
  128. Re:A bad way to start by HornWumpus · · Score: 1

    Monica fucking her way up the ladder is absolutely sexual harassment under the law. The victim is the person who would have gotten the job Monica got at the pentagon, along with all the other non-president blowing interns who didn't get ahead by giving head. The perps are both Clinton and Lewinsky. Though the heat would fall mostly on the person with rank.

    --
    John McAfee 'It was like that time I hired that Bangkok prostitute; to do my taxes, while I fucked my accountant'
  129. Re:Nice alignment by TimothyHollins · · Score: 1

    It's alright, literacy is more of an adult thing anyway. You'll understand when you're older.

  130. Ugly Man Trying to Get Laid by thundercattt · · Score: 1

    When has it become against the law to tell a girl you are interested in her in the work place? He didn't tie it to her job, nor threaten to fire her. He simply (reading the article) let her know his situation, asked about hers to see if she was game. Now if he was Brad Pitt, she'd be gushing, but was probably an unattractive guy doing it so time to scream harassment.

  131. So, ummm by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Was she hot?

  132. But this isn't sexism. by Shane_Optima · · Score: 2

    A boss making a pass at an subordinate is not sexism. It's a big problem, yes, and it doesn't sound like Uber handled it very well if the woman's account is accurate, but there wasn't any trace of sexism throughout the entire story that I saw (I was skimming) except for the meeting with the HR woman she briefly described at the very end.

    The bulk of her story seemed to be just vague conspiratorial stuff, implying her poor performance reviews under another manager on under team was due to the original boss's evil influence which... I don't know, anything's possible, but it doesn't seem like a reasonable default assumption. In the crazed and cutthroat culture she describes, it seems more reasonable to assume it was normal bullshit, not evil anti-woman bullshit.

    Oh yeah, and she seemed to think that the company's refusal to order a special feminine version of the special leather jackets they had bought constitutes sexism. Just let that sink in a moment--*not* pandering to arbitrary social conventions that insist a female's jacket has to have a slightly different cut and styling is sexism. Why stop there? Why not insist it's sexism to not give all of the women hot pink keyboard, perhaps spangled with little glittery flowers?

    The first step to getting people to take sexism seriously: don't conflate normal (if inappropriate) sexual advances as sexism. That's fucking stupid, and a lot of people will instantly tune you out after they realize that's what you're implying. It's only sexism if there's discrimination involved and, unfortunately for this woman, she's not describing any documented discrimination that I can see. I don't know what I'd tell her except to look up California laws on hidden audio recording, maybe. The HR woman at the very end sounded like she was saying sexist shit, but everyone else, by her own admission, had excuses for her performance evaluations.

    Were they bullshit excuses? I'm sure they were. But that's par for the course for performance evaluations in a cutthroat environment; you can't just assume that it's sexism, just because a *former manager on a different team* once made a pass at you.

    1. Re:But this isn't sexism. by bernywork · · Score: 1

      They bought jackets for all the male staff, but didn't for the females.

      That's blatent discimination and sexism from a company. Who gives a fuck what it costs? Buy them the fucking jackets, they earnt them as much as the boys.

      And in regards to a hot pink keyboard spangled with glittery flowers, yes, and the boys can have them too if it makes the employee's work place a nicer place to come to. An employee who considers themselves valued is going to work harder, longer and be worth more to you than whatever you think it might cost for a keyboard.

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      Curiosity was framed; ignorance killed the cat. -- Author unknown
    2. Re:But this isn't sexism. by Shane_Optima · · Score: 3, Insightful
      Woosh.

      They bought jackets for all the male staff, but didn't for the females. That's blatent discimination and sexism from a company. Who gives a fuck what it costs? Buy them the fucking jackets, they earnt them as much as the boys.

      She explicitly said they had the option to get a "male" jacket. I don't know off the top of my head what makes a leather jacket feminine vs. masculine, but I've seen a woman wearing a leather jacket from the men's section and, as long as the size is right, it looks fine. Feminine versions of clothing generally consists of being tighter or having frivolous trim or something. There's no functional reason to have a separate female version of a leather jacket except to pander to gender stereotypes. Which is itself supportive of a mild form of sexism, not a remedy for sexism. I mean granted, you can make an argument that they should get all female jackets and the men should have to adjust to those, except as I just pointed out male clothing tends towards the more utilitarian[1].

      if it makes the employee's work place a nicer place to come to

      That has nothing to do with anything. The issue is whether or not it is sexist to not specifically cater to a separate, stereotypical feminine aesthetic. One that's not shared by all females, for that matter. If the women showed up for their first day at work and their computers had the aforementioned hot pink with glittery flowers (without them asking for it) and their male counterparts had normal looking computers, I bet she'd be crying sexism. But it's the same thing in principle. Equality means equality, not asking for special treatment because you're been sociologically conditioned to hate leather jackets if they don't have a fringe or the buttons on the left side or come in pastel colors or whatever the hell it is that's supposed to make a leather jacket feminine.


      1. Well, at least as far as jackets go. Women have a clothing advantage in most warmer contexts.

    3. Re: But this isn't sexism. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Things were beginning to get even more comically absurd with each passing day. Every time something ridiculous happened, every time a sexist email was sent, I'd sent a short report to HR just to keep a record going. Things came to a head with one particular email chain from the director of our engineering organization concerning leather jackets that had been ordered for all of the SREs. See, earlier in the year, the organization had promised leather jackets for everyone in organization, and had taken all of our sizes; we all tried them on and found our sizes, and placed our orders. One day, all of the women (there were, I believe, six of us left in the org) received an email saying that no leather jackets were being ordered for the women because there were not enough women in the organization to justify placing an order. I replied and said that I was sure Uber SRE could find room in their budget to buy leather jackets for the, what, six women if it could afford to buy them for over a hundred and twenty men. The director replied back, saying that if we women really wanted equality, then we should realize we were getting equality by not getting the leather jackets. He said that because there were so many men in the org, they had gotten a significant discount on the men's jackets but not on the women's jackets, and it wouldn't be equal or fair, he argued, to give the women leather jackets that cost a little more than the men's jackets. We were told that if we wanted leather jackets, we women needed to find jackets that were the same price as the bulk-order price of the men's jackets.

      Now without knowing the kind of jacket, we can't say what differentiated them, nor why they couldn't get the supplier to do six more for the women at whatever discount price was negotiated, but the decision to apparently exclude the women is quite sexist.

      It's basically breaking a promise, and then after being called on it, pretending to be equal about it, with something that is even more insulting, making people take a lesser choice. And apparently doing the work themselves.

    4. Re: But this isn't sexism. by Shane_Optima · · Score: 1
      The key phrase is this:

      we women needed to find jackets that were the same price as the bulk-order price of the men's jackets.

      That sounds an awful lot like the women were able to get a "men's jacket" if they wanted to.

      we can't say what differentiated them,

      Built-in beard trimmer and cock ring? Transparent torso to show off chest hairs? Built-in testosterone replacement therapy patches sewn into the shoulders? "Female Body Inspector" emblazoned on it in large orange letters above an Uber logo? What are *you* imagining?

      It's basically breaking a promise, and then after being called on it

      Oh yeah, the biggest problem with cutthroat white collar jobs is they 'lied' about their custom jacket being available with a pretty princess trim. This point (along with some others) drastically detracts from the rest of her claims by making her seem like an out of touch whiner. Highly competitive Dilbert-esque environments like she's describing are hell are on Earth, a neverending stream of politicking and lies. Not making a female only version of their swag is an utterly absurd complaint.

      I've worked in jobs that had uniforms and guess what, there was no female-specific version. The hats and pants and such appear roughly masculine, because when it comes to clothing 'masculine' tends towards neutrality (i.e. mostly sans decoration) and being utilitarian.

      making people take a lesser choice

      Which is you asserting that non-stereotypically feminine clothing is lesser. Ignoring the question of whether or not that's a slight against male fashion, I've personally known probably a dozen females who would disagree with you.

      And apparently doing the work themselves.

      If they wanted to be treated special instead of being treated like members of the human race who also had torsos, heads, two arms, and a need to stay warm in the winter, then yes they had to do the work themselves. It's a pity you have such a big problem with egalitarianism.

    5. Re: But this isn't sexism. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I'm actually baffled why there was some differentiation between the jackets, as if they were able to get a bulk deal on the pricing, why couldn't they get a half-dozen or so from the same supplier for the female employees? Why did their negotiator fail so badly that they created an unnecessary point of discrimination and caused more problems for themselves? It's almost as if they were being willfully stupid and thoughtless.

      To be honest, if they couldn't supply the jackets to everyone on the same terms, they'd have been better off just providing gift certificates at some jacket catalog to everyone. Give everybody the same benefit, that would be equal actions on their part, while leaving themselves out of any further decisions. Instead, they managed to pick a way that was creating discrimination on their own part by taking specific action themselves to benefit male employees over female ones, by supplying jackets to one, and nothing to the others. Even their apparent fallback position still left the female employees disadvantaged due to the lack of negotiating power that had been used to benefit the male employees.

      No evidence that these were uniforms, no, though there have been employers that have lost cases along those lines, especially ones that require safety gear.

    6. Re:But this isn't sexism. by Shirley+Marquez · · Score: 2

      There are differences in the fit: on a women's jacket the waist will be smaller in relation to the shoulder size, the jacket will be shorter, and the arms will be shorter and thinner. The arm length is the most important issue; the arms on a male jacket that otherwise fits are likely to be too long for many women.

      Oh yeah... the zipper will be on the other side. But women can generally deal with that.

      No, they weren't offered men's jackets. They were told that they were not getting them at the last minute, after the order had been placed. Uber told them they could get jackets if they could find some at the same price as the bulk order... but at that point even getting the SAME jackets would no longer be the same price because they would not be part of the order. If management had dealt with the situation earlier they probably could have found a satisfactory solution; I think it's clear that they had no intention of doing anything of the sort.

    7. Re:But this isn't sexism. by Shane_Optima · · Score: 1
      A lot of conjecture here that goes against my anecdotal observations. The waist size difference is a bit silly, this being 2017 (what with the obesity epidemic obliterating causing far greater variation than gender.) Any gendered studies of arm length to torso length ratios? And that's all assuming it's a S/M/L situation; the "taking our measurements" bit implies higher end jackets that were going to be custom tailored, making all of this moot.

      No, they weren't offered men's jackets. They were told that they were not getting them at the last minute, after the order had been placed.

      Well, that's obviously malevolent bullshit if true.

    8. Re: But this isn't sexism. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Any gendered studies of arm length to torso length ratios?

      Yes.

      Try:. A Comparison of Male and Female Body Sizes and Proportions - Defense Technical Information Center

    9. Re:But this isn't sexism. by martinX · · Score: 1

      She explicitly said they had the option to get a "male" jacket. I don't know off the top of my head what makes a leather jacket feminine vs. masculine

      More chest room would be my guess.

      --
      When they came for the communists, I said "He's next door. Take him away. Goddam commies."
    10. Re:But this isn't sexism. by Reziac · · Score: 1

      I smell a setup for a lawsuit, with the goal being a nice six figure settlement.

      Some folks do that for a living.

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      ~REZ~ #43301. Who'd fake being me anyway?
    11. Re:But this isn't sexism. by Shane_Optima · · Score: 1

      More chest room would be my guess.

      I think males typically have bigger chest circumferences and longer torsos, so it's not at all clear which way that would swing. Breast size is a huge variable there. She said that they took their measurements, so if the jackets were being custom tailored or at least had more than a one dimensional S/M/L/XL sizing system, this is all moot regardless.

    12. Re: But this isn't sexism. by Shane_Optima · · Score: 1

      Major sample bias issues if those are only military personnel they're examining. Feel free to dig through it and come up with the % difference in that ratio if you wish, though. (Not the % difference in arm length, but % difference in the arm length / torso lngth ratio.) Also, you need to include the standard deviation for both sexes so we know roughly how many males will be inconvenienced compared to the females, and for that number you might need some sort of joint distribution (which may or may not be possible to construct with the data given.)

    13. Re:But this isn't sexism. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Women tend to have smaller waists and bigger boobs than men*. Their clothing is usually cut to reflect this.

      *moobs don't count

    14. Re:But this isn't sexism. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I take it you have never lived with a woman.

      To make a men's jacked a woman's jacket, the zipper zips from the left side. To tell a men's shirt from a woman's shirt, the button's are on the left side as opposed to men's shirts have buttons on the right side.

    15. Re:But this isn't sexism. by Shane_Optima · · Score: 1

      I take it you have never lived with a woman.

      To make a men's jacked a woman's jacket, the zipper zips from the left side. To tell a men's shirt from a woman's shirt, the button's are on the left side as opposed to men's shirts have buttons on the right side.

      Super wooooooooooooooosh. I even mentioned that *exact* button thing.

    16. Re: But this isn't sexism. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      You asked for "any" and you've got it.

      If you want more, expect to pay for it.

    17. Re:But this isn't sexism. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I don't know off the top of my head what makes a leather jacket feminine vs. masculine

      The side that the buttons are on. I know, weird.

    18. Re:But this isn't sexism. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I am not sure if you have noticed, but a female human's upper body is a different shape to a male's body. A male jacket doesn't fit a female as well. Same story with the lower body, and that is before we get into things like tailoring.

    19. Re:But this isn't sexism. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Shane_Optima
      Oh yeah, and she seemed to think that the company's refusal to order a special feminine version of the special leather jackets they had bought constitutes sexism. Just let that sink in a moment--*not* pandering to arbitrary social conventions that insist a female's jacket has to have a slightly different cut and styling is sexism. Why stop there? Why not insist it's sexism to not give all of the women hot pink keyboard, perhaps spangled with little glittery flowers?

      Your libertarianism is impeccable; your engineer's disease thorough; your pill is the purest of reds.

    20. Re:But this isn't sexism. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      A lot of clothes (polo shirts, jackets) are considered Unisex, but don't fit very well for women. You can find shirts and jackets for women though, that are actually cut differently and fit the torso differently. It shouldn't be a surprise, but women prefer clothes that are shaped for them. This isn't something guys normally think about, but there are good reasons for women to have access to clothes made for women.

    21. Re:But this isn't sexism. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      The fact that we have women's clothes and mens clothes are borderline sexist. If you for example classify heterosexuality and homosexuality as sexist. If you don't then there are fully legitimate reasons to signal what sex you belong to. Even in a workplace environment. I am sort of undecided on this issue. On one hand I do believe that anything but pan-sexuality is based on sexism but on the other hand it is not something that people easily can change. While both heterosexuality and homosexuality has their roots in sexism they have grown to be independent parts of our culture that a majority if our population happens to believe in. Even those that otherwise treat men and women entirely equal.

      But on the other hand eliminating these sexist parts of our culture would probably also eradicate sexism. So the fact that we have gender labels on clothes may actually be the most significant gender issue. Because when we cannot easily separate women from men it is harder to apply sexism.

  133. Re:"Former" engineer - tells you all you need to k by kuzb · · Score: 1

    Learn to stop acting like a bitch and understand that one thing does not necessarily mean the other.

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  134. Re:A bad way to start by haruchai · · Score: 1

    Senator Packwood's intern never filed a complaint against him either.

    The Washington Post published accusations from 10 former female staffers in 1992, the New York Times published a long column called The Trials of Bob Packwood in Aug 1993 and Packwood still didn't quit until Sept 1995

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  135. You twit by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    It's called "The Law", you moron. She has the right to present evidence in court. She doesn't have the right to dump it on the Internet so morons like you without even a basic grasp of the law can decide if she is right or wrong and if she did that she could find herself being sued by the very people she is making accusations against.

    1. Re: You twit by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Why does she not have the right to dump it on the intertubes? If true, that is 100% protection against liable. At least in the USA with first amendment protection.

  136. When you are a bitch by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Everything is sexism not just good old fashion we hate you.

  137. Hurrah s.petry! by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Well said brave Sir. I too am sick of being crushed under the heels of powerful women. You must tell everyone! Log onto Twitter and in solidarity tell everyone you are standing behind Milo Y!

  138. Rush to judgement based on hearsay the thread by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    So this information is

    > unconfirmed

    > unverified

    > from a disgruntled former employee - not the most reliable source of information

    > a fairly mild accusation - saying you might want to date a colleague

    OK people let's just suspend judgement for 10 seconds until we actually have some solid factual material to go on.

  139. Re:"Former" engineer - tells you all you need to k by dhasenan · · Score: 1

    Her post specifies that there were 150 people in her unit when 3% were women. That's about five women.

    It's possible that she's the only person who left and the company only hired men from that point, which would be problematic in itself and indicate that the unit grew from 20 people to 150 within a year.

    It's possible that the unit had no net change in size, which would indicate that the unit started with 37 women, which would indicate that over 90% of the women in the unit left in the course of one year. That isn't a sign of a healthy working environment.

  140. Re:A bad way to start by dhasenan · · Score: 1

    A lack of punishment doesn't mean the thing wasn't wrong. Bill Clinton avoided punishment, not wrongdoing.

  141. Re:A bad way to start by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    And then she willingly blew him and dribbled cum onto her dress. Takes two to tango.

  142. Why be prejudiced? by Xenographic · · Score: 1

    > I know, I know, they cleverly hid it behind the first link in the story.

    Claiming you have proof is not the same as actually showing it to us. It's perfectly reasonable for us, who haven't seen these screenshots, to withhold judgement until either we see them or she wins the court case.

    There's no prize for being the first person to judge someone. The word 'prejudice' literally means judging someone beforehand.

    Why can't we wait for all the evidence to come out in court before we condemn someone or make up our minds? I will hold no position either way and will let the courts judge this. She can show the proof to them and they can judge this, there's no need for any of us to pre-judge this.

    1. Re:Why be prejudiced? by Creedo · · Score: 1

      It's perfectly reasonable for us, who haven't seen these screenshots, to withhold judgement until either we see them or she wins the court case.

      And since no one is asking you to do this at all, your reply seems to be completely misplaced.

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    2. Re:Why be prejudiced? by Xenographic · · Score: 1

      > And since no one is asking you to do this at all, your reply seems to be completely misplaced.

      I see plenty of other people *doing* this and I think it's fair to call that out.

  143. Re:A bad way to start by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    He was impeached for lying under oath about it because he was embarrassed. He never actually got in trouble for the blow jobs.

  144. Re: A bad way to start by sexconker · · Score: 1

    No, you're wrong.

    Harassment is a pattern of unwanted behavior. For it to be harassment it has to happen more than once and the harasser generally has to be told it's unwanted or it's against policy, or it has so flagrant that no "reasonable person" would invite such behavior.

    Being a superior doesn't change that. HR may think otherwise, but they can't stop people from fucking whomever they want. At worst, you just have to inform HR of your relationship and they reassign managers/supervisors/whatever to avoid issues.

  145. Not in Silicon Valley.. Impossible. by Highdude702 · · Score: 1

    How is it that sexism is running rampant in Silicon Valley? Isn't that where all the people that voted for Hilary live? They're a people of understanding and equality. They would never do this. It has to be fake news.

  146. Not an engineer anymore? by pote · · Score: 1

    So did he stop being an engineer when stopped at Uber? That's what the headline implies.

  147. theredpill by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    There are a disturbing amount of reddit red pill motherfucking trolls posting on this thread. Please take your shit back there, you don't belong anywhere else. If you're posting shit about this lady, and can't get a girl, it's because you're a neckbeard loser. That has nothing to do with beta or alpha. Get a life, GTFOML, find happiness somewhere (for real), quit disparaging our female colleagues, and frankly, fuck off. I'm a neckbeard that respects women, and I've been laid this year more than you have in your entire life (by the same lady even, and it's February). FUCK OFF. You're a disgrace to all of us that respect women. Many (hopefully most) of us believe in a modern society where women and men are equal persons. Go jack off in your parent's basement, and leave. You lower the intellect of our collective professions and should be culled. Misogyny is a huge problem in our industry. Fix it, or GTFO, or actually get a job, watch how our friends are treated, and go fuck yourself.

    Empathy. It's a real thing, but I have none for you, not that you care, because you have none yourself. The world doesn't owe you jack shit, much less hot ass.

    PS Don't comment about your supposed game. We all know you have none, or you wouldn't be here. Just fuck off already. Have you considered therapy? If not, I hear cutting yourself might help. Yeah I'm AC. I don't particularly look forward to dickless motherfuckers making my life irritating. Go fuck yourselves. Maybe talk to a lady in real life (nicely). Just because a pretty girl doesn't fuck you doesn't mean you're entitled, you asshole.

  148. Re:Good grief. Idiot or Troll? by silentcoder · · Score: 1

    No, but WE are asking the smart question: if so MANY women choose to avoid those fields - WHY. What is it about those fields that make so many women prefer to stay the hell away from it ?

    Now, based on available evidence, we have a strong theory about what the answer may be - a theory you definitely do not agree with. Now a rational answer would be to posit and alternative theory, or show that somehow, the evidence for our theory is false.

    You have made no attempt to do either - you tried to derail the conversation by focusing on something else entirely. You accuse us of trying to force choices on women - which is the exact OPPOSITE of trying to fix things which force choices on women. But you never addressed the evidence for our theory, and you posited no alternative hypotheses to explain the phenomenon and the evidence.
    I can therefore only conclude that you are incapable of doing so. If we're wrong- you've done absolutely nothing to correct us, if we're right, all you've done is tried ot delay us fixing the problem. That is a very sensible thing to do... if you are part of the problem.

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  149. I wish by Kartu · · Score: 1

    1) That people would know the difference between sexual advance and harassment (note how you often can't know in advance if it is wanted or not)
    2) That in boss => subordinate scenario, top to bottom sexual advancement should be considered outright harassment (for apparent reasons)

  150. Two sides to every story. by flip-flop · · Score: 1

    I know I might be playing devil's advocate here, but:

    The HR rep began the meeting by asking me if I had noticed that *I* was the common theme in all of the reports I had been making, and that if I had ever considered that I might be the problem.

    This worries me. What if HR are onto something? Can we fully trust her account of what happened here?

    1. Re:Two sides to every story. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Whereas it worries me in the opposite way, for the reason that with such a remark HR seems to be looking for an excuse to ignore a problem, using a banal platitude instead.

      After all, it is very much like they are saying it is the complainer who is flawed, and thus not deserving consideration.

      It's a tool that can be used for empowerment, but also for dis-empowerment.

  151. Really? the verge? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Its from the verge. How about another source

    http://www.deepfreeze.it/outlet.php?o=the_verge

  152. sexuality != sexism by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Fuck you Puritan Progressive fascists. Stop trying to force yourselves on an unwilling populace.

  153. Move fast and break laws and regulations by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Isn't that what this bottom feeding pox on workers does best?

  154. Re:A bad way to start by mjwx · · Score: 1

    Unless they are a Democratic President (see: Bill Clinton).

    I was going to reply to the GP, but seeing as you bought up this nugget I have to point out how stupid it is.

    It is actually OK for the boss to ask for consentual sex with a subordinate. Fuck, it happens all the time, forgive the pun, between successful middle aged men and young women in private companies. If GWB had consentual sex with an intern, he also would have done nothing wrong (legally speaking, of course his party would have crucified him for it, but that's besides the point). The key word is consent. Bill had it, this Uber twat didn't. However, what the twat at Uber did wrong was to continue to make sexual advances after it was made clear they were unwanted.

    Then what Uber did wrong was refuse to sack the guy because he was too highly placed.

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  155. Re:Good grief. Idiot or Troll? by s.petry · · Score: 1

    You gave no evidence in your claim, you simply made up a fairy tale to back a broken assumption.

    For your belief, basic evidence is being avoided. Outside of personal choice (based largely on biology), Aptitude and Skill Assessments are the largest factor in determining a degree track for both men and women. I seriously hope you are not going to attempt to claim that the same tests keeping men out of certain fields are biased against women, but hell... you probably will.

    90% of school teachers are women. Are women brain washing kids away from certain subjects? That's a big part of your "theory". You don't consider evolutionary biology, just claim bias.

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  156. Re:You sir, are an idiot by kilfarsnar · · Score: 1

    You just requested proof of non-existence. No evidence was provided to support the claim, just another "claim" that it existed. Let me guess, your next move will be to use circular logic in an effort to substantiate her claims.

    If you don't have basic critical thinking skills you should stay off the fucking Internet.

    Critical thinking skills? You are a special kind of stupid, eh? The person I responded to said she had no evidence. If one reads the article one sees that she did keep records of her correspondence. If the OP has reason to think she is lying about said records, he needs to back it up with something other than, "I don't believe her". I'm sure that will make sense to you, considering your impressive critical thinking skills.

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  157. I can't draw any conclusions about Ellen Pao by Zontar_Thing_From_Ve · · Score: 1

    After Ellen Pao, UNLV, Duke LaCrosse, and countless false police reports (resulting in legal action) about discrimination I'm waiting for evidence.

    I am familiar with the case, maybe even more than you are, and I can't draw any conclusions from it as to who was right here. I'm American and I've actually served on juries twice and I can tell you that in a case like this when juries have no idea who is telling the truth, they'll opt for the least harm verdict, which means that ruling against Ellen Pao is the safest course of action because it avoids ruling against defendants who may actually be innocent. People get found innocent of murder because there's nothing more than circumstantial evidence in the case and juries won't always convict just on that. Both Ellen and the defendants provided reasonable, believable versions of what happened. The only conclusion I can come to is that Ellen didn't prove her case sufficiently for whatever reason and it shows just how difficult it is to win workplace lawsuits. Some years ago we had a lawyer who actually did this kind of work post about them and he told us that his first advice to all prospective clients was to drop the matter and get on with their lives if they possibly could because most workplace discrimination cases are losses for the plaintiffs.

  158. Re: Good grief. Idiot or Troll? by silentcoder · · Score: 1

    You already conceded the evidence. Very few women choose STEM careers.

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  159. Re: Good grief. Idiot or Troll? by silentcoder · · Score: 1

    As for evolutionary biology: merely mentioning it as a possibility proves three things:

    1) you do not understand it all as it cannot lead to such outcomes. When biology says women are on average more X than men 60 percent of women will be less X than 40 percent if men. Because thats how bell curves work.

    2) that the problem of sexist biases makimg these tracks unattractive to women is very real

    3) that you are, as I previously posited, part of the problem.

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  160. Re:Good grief. Idiot or Troll? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Now, based on available evidence, we have a strong theory about what the answer may be

    If the theory is so strong, then it should be able to make useful predictions, and/or useful solutions be created based on the theory.

    But we haven't seen that. There is no evidence that people are applying the theory to address the issue. We don't hear about the successes OR the failures.

    Now a rational answer would be to posit and alternative theory, or show that somehow, the evidence for our theory is false.

    No, a rational response is to simply stop buying into the theory and/or solution. Not every one is an expert is the relevant fields to come up with better theories or evidence. You don't have to be doctor to notice that a lot of people ain't getting better under a certain doctor, and stop seeing that doctor. Don't have to be a cook to know when something tastes bad, etc.

    Your expectation for him to do more is irrational
    You casting him as "part of the problem" when he doesn't meet your expectations (a false dilemma) is also irrational.

  161. Re:Good grief. Idiot or Troll? by Shirley+Marquez · · Score: 1

    Women are not going into science and engineering. It is, however, difficult to tease out whether that is a true choice that reflects personal inclinations. Women are less likely to be encouraged to go into those fields from a young age. If they do, they often encounter a culture that is hostile to women.

    It particularly saddens me that the culture of software development has become an unfriendly one for women. That was far less true in the early days of the field. The rise of brogrammer culture, so far as I can tell, started in the 90s; before that there was frequently indifference to the needs of women (especially about scheduling things like childcare responsibilities) but not the degree of active hostility that came later.

  162. Re: Good grief. Idiot or Troll? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    90% of school teachers are women. Are women brain washing kids away from certain subjects?

    The gender imbalance in teachers is a recognized problem and arguing that schools are not engaged in indoctrination is pointless, it is in their mottos and some states even expressly acknowledge that as their purpose in their constitutions.

  163. My female colleagues and friends agree by WillAffleckUW · · Score: 1

    I have heard this from so many women scientists, systems engineers, and other IT specialists who are female.

    There is a problem.

    My key ROI on this is:

    1. Stop using the old boys network, your frat buddies, to find recruits. Set a goal of 50 percent promotions, 50 percent board position candidates, and 50 percent new hires being female.

    2. If you think having one woman in the after hours drinking means you're diverse - you're wrong.

    3. If you're female, stop undercutting other women when they have ideas. Most groups won't hear a woman's idea unless at least two women agree with the idea. If a male steals credit for the idea, call it out right there. Don't wait for a "good moment to bring it up". There is no good moment.

    4. If you find 1-3 impossible, then you're just pretending you're a real business.

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  164. Re:Nice alignment by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Older != Wiser

  165. Re: A bad way to start by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    No, you're wrong.

    Harassment is a pattern of unwanted behavior. For it to be harassment it has to happen more than once and the harasser generally has to be told it's unwanted or it's against policy, or it has so flagrant that no "reasonable person" would invite such behavior.

    Being a superior doesn't change that. HR may think otherwise, but they can't stop people from fucking whomever they want. At worst, you just have to inform HR of your relationship and they reassign managers/supervisors/whatever to avoid issues.

    Actually, the courts have shown that no reasonable person" expects their new supervisor to ask for sex (day 1). This would meet the "egregious" standard and not be required to be a pattern of behavior.

    Now the threat of a lowered evaluation for reporting such actions and then discovering others also were subjected to similar behavior by the same management official? If true, you open up your checkbook as a company and figure out how many zeros the check is going to need to make this go away. The alternative is the EEOC gets involved and it ends up you write the check any way AND end up subjected to EEOC mandated monitoring for a few years to ensure you don't repeat the mistake.
    .

  166. Re: A bad way to start by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    And she stated it was unwanted and even went to HR to explain how unwanted it was.

  167. Someone thought the Verge is reliable? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    That's laughable.

  168. Whiny pansy bitch... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    I know, so sexist. But has anyone seen that ad where the cashier is ogling a guy's pecs? Imagine if the genders had been switched.

    Sex exists. What this guy did may have been out of line, but there should be a structure in which to literally ask this question.

  169. Re:"Former" engineer - tells you all you need to k by stephanruby · · Score: 1

    She says she took screenshots. There is no independent evidence beyond what she says, and her story doesn't seem credible.

    According to her, there are independent witnesses who were both also sexually harassed by the same man and actively lied to by HR using the same lie.

    This claim should be super easy to prove if true, and super easy to disprove if false.

  170. Re:"Former" engineer - tells you all you need to k by ooloorie · · Score: 1

    This claim should be super easy to prove if true, and super easy to disprove if false.

    It would be, if anybody had an opportunity to. Note how neither she nor the other women have filed a court case? Why do you think that is?

    Uber, on the other hand, hired a famous legal social justice activist, Eric Holder, to look into the allegations.

    I suspect her allegations will turn out to be largely wrong. And if her allegations are false, she should never hold a job in tech again.