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How Restaurants Got So Loud (theatlantic.com)

An anonymous reader shares a report: Other sounds that reach 70 decibels include freeway noise, an alarm clock, and a sewing machine. But it's still quiet for a restaurant. Others I visited in Baltimore and New York City while researching this story were even louder: 80 decibels in a dimly lit wine bar at dinnertime; 86 decibels at a high-end food court during brunch; 90 decibels at a brewpub in a rehabbed fire station during Friday happy hour. Restaurants are so loud because architects don't design them to be quiet. Much of this shift in design boils down to changing conceptions of what makes a space seem upscale or luxurious, as well as evolving trends in food service. Right now, high-end surfaces connote luxury, such as the slate and wood of restaurants including The Osprey in Brooklyn or Atomix in Manhattan.

This trend is not limited to New York. According to Architectural Digest, mid-century modern and minimalism are both here to stay. That means sparse, modern decor; high, exposed ceilings; and almost no soft goods, such as curtains, upholstery, or carpets. These design features are a feast for the eyes, but a nightmare for the ears. No soft goods and tall ceilings mean nothing is absorbing sound energy, and a room full of hard surfaces serves as a big sonic mirror, reflecting sound around the room. The result is a loud space that renders speech unintelligible. Now that it's so commonplace, the din of a loud restaurant is unavoidable. That's bad for your health -- and worse for the staff who works there. But it also degrades the thing that eating out is meant to culture: a shared social experience that rejuvenates, rather than harms, its participants.

233 comments

  1. Simple solution by AmiMoJo · · Score: 5, Funny

    Earplugs and text each other across the table.

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    1. Re:Simple solution by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      How about I just order DoorDash?

    2. Re:Simple solution by LordHighExecutioner · · Score: 2

      Much easier to move out and look for another place. If noise comes from a TV set, this app solves the problem.

    3. Re: Simple solution by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Some of us like AmiMojo support border control. What is so wrong about that?

      AmiMojo, you keep on being you!

    4. Re:Simple solution by cayenne8 · · Score: 3, Insightful

      Earplugs and text each other across the table.

      I was thinking along similar lines.

      It seems today with the younger crowd, that dining out has virtually NOTHING to do with 'shared experience' at all.

      I've observed more than a few times, a couple that was obviously out on a date.

      Yet, rather than spending the time talking and getting to know one another...the were on their fscking phones texting and doing social media. I swear I never observed hardly a second when they both had their phones down and actually conversed and interacted with one another.

      And these places were not so loud that you couldn't talk.

      Sad, I think our last couple generations have let the devices ruin actual, real meatspace human interactions. How do you actually get to know a potential mate if you don't even talk to them? Geez, how do the young guys today get laid, if they don't have at least some gift of gab? And on the flip side, how do they use it on women if the girls also have their faces constantly buried in the phone?

      sad.

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    5. Re:Simple solution by sysadmindy · · Score: 1

      As an audio engineer and someone that is incredibly sensitive to light and sound, I wear my custom earplugs at restaurants. The noise is so bad sometimes, I cannot even hear the people at my table let alone concentrate on the conversation.

      I can't even remember the last night I went out to eat, because Chicago restaurants' ambient noise is incredibly stressful.

    6. Re: Simple solution by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      How do you actually get to know a potential mate if you don't even talk to them?

      Let me send you an invite to my Jane Austen SpaceFaceTubeGroup and
      we'll explain how this problem was solved in the 1800s.

    7. Re: Simple solution by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0, Funny

      Oh my god you saw people out on a date, texting? Better rant about it on the internet! Thanks grandpa!

    8. Re:Simple solution by jonsmirl · · Score: 1

      There are multiple restaurants in my area that I won't go to any more because the noise levels are so high you can't have a conversation.

      Recently I also experienced the weird situation of being able to clearly hear a conversation going on two tables away while simultaneously not being able to clearly hear what was happening at my own table. Some strange setup with the acoustics was reflecting that conversation at the other table right to where I was sitting.

    9. Re: Simple solution by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      How do you actually get to know a potential mate if you don't even talk to them?

      Send a picture of your knob?

    10. Re: Simple solution by LostMyBeaver · · Score: 1, Offtopic

      Some of us believe in world peace. It is almost as practical as a wall separating a massive border between two countries.

      There is nothing wrong with trying to solve a problem, but border control is as effective as pixie dust. The solution is to set realistic standards that convince the people trying to get in to meet those standards. If the requirements seem unachievable or overly complicated, people will lose hope in ever achieving them and therefore choosing to circumvent them instead.

      If you set the requirements to a reasonable level and set the standards high enough to require the immigrants to actively contribute to making America better, the problem will likely solve itself.

      If you lack faith in people (most pro-border control generally do), you should believe completely that there is no forceful solution to the problem. You have to manipulate the people into participating in a system that is designed to offer a legitimate compromise that is as fair as possible to all those involved.

      Of course for such a system to work, it would require people to let it work. Two party politics ensures this will never be the case. If you really want to find a real solution to the problem, consider voting against both parties in the future. Let the government know that you are tired of their bickering and you are done with your country being run by fools who have turned politics into team sports instead of representation of the people.

    11. Re:Simple solution by Paxtez · · Score: 1

      Unfortunately IR blasters aren't common on phone (anymore?). They haven't been in the Galaxy line since the S5 I think.

    12. Re: Simple solution by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Oh my god you saw people out on a date, texting?

      Apparently you, like the "daters", entirely miss the point of going out on a date. If you're just going to hunch over your phone, stay home alone.

    13. Re:Simple solution by sysadmindy · · Score: 0

      Having another table's conversation overtake your own table is pretty much as bad as it gets for me. The steakhouses here put tables within elbows reach of each other.

    14. Re:Simple solution by Gilgaron · · Score: 4, Funny

      They probably met with the phones/apps, so they're probably just closing the loop and exchanging 23andMe data to calculate what their offspring would be like.

    15. Re:Simple solution by demonlapin · · Score: 1

      Wife and I were alone for Thanksgiving - just couldn't work out getting the families together at any point - so we went to a nice little place that had set up a buffet with all the usual expected foods. Not the best Thanksgiving food I've ever had, but you can't exactly make a holiday meal for just two people.

      While we were there, I was in full view of a family where the teenage son spent the entire meal on his phone reading posts under the table - Snap, Insta, FB, whatever, I couldn't tell and don't care. I was frankly shocked. I get that you have to pick your battles as a parent, but damn, Thanksgiving dinner is a hill worth dying on. Neither parent had a phone out, so far as I could see, so they certainly had grounds to quarrel with him.

    16. Re: Simple solution by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      As if that neckbeard AC actually gets dates... women are like an entirely different species to him.

    17. Re:Simple solution by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Go back to Yahoo Comments where you belong.

    18. Re:Simple solution by thegarbz · · Score: 1

      Yet, rather than spending the time talking and getting to know one another...the were on their fscking phones texting and doing social media. I swear I never observed hardly a second when they both had their phones down and actually conversed and interacted with one another.

      What are you talking about. They were probably talking to each other on facebook.

    19. Re: Simple solution by sarren1901 · · Score: 1, Insightful

      Piss off with all that crap. Want to stop people from wanting to come here? Then mandatory e-verify and mandatory prison sentences to corporation leaders for hiring illegals in the first place. That would have a chilling effect.

      Next, no more citizenship upon being born here. Legal parents can take their kid to become a citizen at the social security office where you get your SS card in the first place. Citizenship because you were born here is bullshit. Rewarding people for having a child on a travel visa or because they got to the border is a HUGE incentive for people to ignore our laws.

      We could also refuse medical service for non-citizens but we won't.

      Of course, none of that will ever happen. There is no political will to implement either of those ideas.

      We could also put the corporate tax rate back to where it was in the 50s, that is, over 50% as opposed to the 20 something percent the pay now.

      Just remember, the world runs this way because that is how the top .001% want the world to run.

    20. Re:Simple solution by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      It seems today with the younger crowd, that dining out has virtually NOTHING to do with 'shared experience' at all.

      I've observed more than a few times, a couple that was obviously out on a date.

      Yet, rather than spending the time talking and getting to know one another...the were on their fscking phones texting and doing social media. I swear I never observed hardly a second when they both had their phones down and actually conversed and interacted with one another.

      I have a rule that if she looks at her phone more than once during a date I won't be invited her out again in the future, if you can put it down for even half an hour then clearly you're not taking the date seriously and are just wasting both our time.

      "Modern" young women, this is another reason why you have so much trouble finding good men: you keep driving them away with your own rude behaviorisms.

    21. Re: Simple solution by TimMD909 · · Score: 4, Funny

      No one makes babies anymore. All the kids do is practice, practice, practice.

    22. Re: Simple solution by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Want to stop people from wanting to come here?

      No. That would be a stupid idea. It would kill the tourism industry which many communities rely on, prevent the development of talent by seeking it from overseas and ruin commercial trade.

      Next, no more citizenship upon being born here. Legal parents can take their kid to become a citizen at the social security office where you get your SS card in the first place. Citizenship because you were born here is bullshit. Rewarding people for having a child on a travel visa or because they got to the border is a HUGE incentive for people to ignore our laws.

      Allowing the US government which still has problems with deporting its own citizens to have any role in determine who is legally a parent is incredibly stupid as well. It just sets a chance to be abusive for your local oppressors.

      We could also refuse medical service for non-citizens but we won't.

      Yeah, because that would be stupid since you would inevitably get people killed, even the ones with the ability to pay for healthcare just because you don't want non-citizens to get care.

      Of course, the actual causes of the burgeoning expenses of healthcare escape your notice because of your myopic focus on what?

      Sorry, but you're obviously starting from a premise of opposing those who are non-citizens as if that were singularly determinative, which distorts your perspective and leads you towards presumed "easy" solutions which is hindering your approach.

    23. Re:Simple solution by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      There's one on my S6 Active.

    24. Re:Simple solution by AlanObject · · Score: 1

      Earplugs and text each other across the table.

      I'll never forget a business meeting dinner we once had at Spagos at the Ceasar's Palace mall many years ago. It was during either COMDEX or Interop. This was before text messaging was available.

      Sitting there at a table near the center of the room was like sitting at the exhaust of a jet engine at half throttle. I have no idea how the waiters and waitresses performed their functions but each order had to be shouted three times. No meaningful discussion took place because it just wasn't possible.

      Never again. Now my CEO only books private rooms at most restaurants for business meetings.

    25. Re:Simple solution by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I couldn't tell and don't care.

      Your post betrays you. If you truely didn't care, it wouldn't be here.

    26. Re:Simple solution by angel'o'sphere · · Score: 1

      How do you actually get to know a potential mate if you don't even talk to them?
      It is probably the other way around. They never learned how to talk to a stranger, especially opposite sex. And being able to chat is a revelation for them.
      I would not wonder if the couples you see would share stories on social media with each other while they are sitting there.

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    27. Re:Simple solution by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I get that you have to pick your battles as a parent, but damn, Thanksgiving dinner is a hill worth dying on.

      In the beginning, you gotta pick ALL the battles. They need to accept that if you want to win, you will; they only win because you know it's not a battle worth fighting. Later, you can relax.

    28. Re:Simple solution by angel'o'sphere · · Score: 1

      Some strange setup with the acoustics was reflecting that conversation at the other table right to where I was sitting. Likely true, but also possible: you saw their mouthes move and your brain stiched it together.

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    29. Re:Simple solution by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      There's actually a nice technical solution that someone should code up: Everyone wears their earpieces and mikes, they all touch their phones to connect effected by NFC, the multiple mikes allow noise cancellation, and everyone can talk to each other nicely.

    30. Re:Simple solution by fahrbot-bot · · Score: 5, Interesting

      While we were there, I was in full view of a family where the teenage son spent the entire meal on his phone reading posts under the table - Snap, Insta, FB, whatever, I couldn't tell and don't care. I was frankly shocked. I get that you have to pick your battles as a parent, but damn, Thanksgiving dinner is a hill worth dying on. Neither parent had a phone out, so far as I could see, so they certainly had grounds to quarrel with him.

      I have a friend who has a teenage daughter with severe Asperger's. They were in town a few years ago for Comic-Con and I took them out to dinner. Her daughter spent most of her time on her smartphone as it was the only way she could handle being in a public social setting like that. (She did better at Comic-Con because she was dressed up in costume and, I believe, "not herself".) She and I did talk a little, whenever she was ready, and we all had a pretty good time. When I dropped them off at their hotel, her daughter hugged me goodbye, which surprised her mom, who said she had never seen her do that w/o being prompted.

      Maybe things were different with the kid you saw, but keep an open mind going forward ...

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    31. Re: Simple solution by kenai_alpenglow · · Score: 2, Insightful

      I'm pro-border control. I am also pro-immigrant. LEGAL immigrant. Make the requirements high, and skim off the best folks from around the world. And history shows that border walls do work (unless you're a 1930's frenchman). Not perfect, but look at the total number of successful crossings in Germany, the rest of the iron curtain, great wall of China, Hadrian's wall, and the current famous intra-Korean wall (i.e., DMZ). Heck, even the wall down in San Diego--it forced the illegals to go into the desert to cross. Just because you're not 100% effective doesn't mean you don't do it.

    32. Re: Simple solution by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      All of the examples you cited were extreme failures at high costs, in Roman Britain, Manchuria, Berlin, and the Koreas.

      Even now the Mexican border is porous as heck for little result.

    33. Re:Simple solution by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      It's called autism. Thank me later.

    34. Re:Simple solution by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Better solution is not to eat there at all!

    35. Re:Simple solution by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Good idea!

    36. Re: Simple solution by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

      I'm pro-border control. I am also pro-immigrant. LEGAL immigrant. Make the requirements high, and skim off the best folks from around the world. And history shows that border walls do work (unless you're a 1930's frenchman). Not perfect, but look at the total number of successful crossings in Germany, the rest of the iron curtain, great wall of China, Hadrian's wall, and the current famous intra-Korean wall (i.e., DMZ). Heck, even the wall down in San Diego--it forced the illegals to go into the desert to cross. Just because you're not 100% effective doesn't mean you don't do it.

      Some of your examples are to keep people in (ie the DMZ -South Korea has no problem with North Koreans coming in, and North Korea has no problem with South Koreans defecting. The issue is the North Koreans don't want North Koreans leaving. Same was true in Germany -East Germany wanted to stop defections, West Germany had no issues with East Germans crossing over. As for Hadrian's wall...defensive position that eventually fell. Had nothing to do with immigration. Same with China's Great wall. Again not to do with immigration).

    37. Re:Simple solution by cyn1c77 · · Score: 1

      Earplugs and text each other across the table.

      Even easier: takeout.

         

    38. Re:Simple solution by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      It seems today with the younger crowd, that dining out has virtually NOTHING to do with 'shared experience' at all.

      Except, it's not just the younger crowd, it's entire families.

      I have lost track of the number of times I've seen an entire family of 4 with their phones up to their faces for the whole meal. Both parents in their 40's, kids old enough to have been bought their own phones ... and all 4 barely speak the entire time.

      Mom and dad are following up with work emails or whatever they're doing, the kids are on social media or whatever they're doing.

      It's quite pathetic to behold if this is what people are calling family time these days. There's no interaction, you might as well have grabbed something from the drive through and eaten in separate rooms ... at least then they might text one another from time to time.

      As someone old enough to not have become enthralled with the Idiot Box 3.0, I am often at a complete loss for words to see people who have apparently lost all ability to converse and interact, and who simply don't put their phone down.

      To me the people who can't put down their phones are walking zombies, who can't amuse themselves for a few minutes, and can no longer sustain a conversation and immediately look for a distraction.

      As a general rule, if I'm with someone and they bury their face in their phone, I'll simply walk away and see how long it takes them to notice. I've walked out of meetings because the manager who requested it was so immersed in their phone they had to keep asking what was just said.

      Sorry, when you can respect my time enough that you aren't constantly checking your phone, I'll stick around. If you can't, fuck that, I'm not pandering to some idiot who can no longer go 15 seconds without checking his email. I'm not wasting my time while you check that email or haven't been listening to what you wanted us to tell you about in the first place.

      I swear, you could play the email sound in a room and 20 people would grab their phones like the well conditioned idiots they are.

      Seeing this shit in restaurants pretty much just drives me batty, right up there with the shitheads who stop in the middle of a fucking door to check their phones.

    39. Re:Simple solution by ffkom · · Score: 1

      You might just have sat on a table with non-US people, while hearing a group of US people two tables away. Happens all the time in Europe, when groups from the US are visiting. Seems to be an aspect of US culture to speak as loud as possible short of shouting when doing conversation in restaurants.

    40. Re: Simple solution by terrycarlino · · Score: 1

      I absolutely believe that our (U.S.) immigration policy is broken. We have limits set by progressives in the early and middle 20th century to keep out Jews and Eastern Europeans, and just about anyone who isn't a Western European. A legal immigrant from Mexico would have to wait >50 years to legally enter the country if they wait their turn.

      That being said any country that is unwilling to defend its border and effectively screen who can enter and remain there has effectively surrendered it's sovereignty.

      There's no way I believe that every person who wants to or has entered the U.S. illegally is a threat to the peace and well being of its citizens, however that fact is that without effective border controls anyone who is a threat cannot be stopped before they do harm.

      I only want effective border control so that we can deal with the real problem of bad immigration law. As long as Republicans can use bad border control as an excuse to address the law problem they will. Securing the border takes away their reasons not to address the real problems. Conversely as long as large numbers of illegals can get into the country the Democrats have no reason to address bad immigration laws either. So a porous border allows both sides to ignore the real problem. Fixing the border will allow those of us who care about really fixing the laws to hold both sides feet to the fire.

    41. Re: Simple solution by Waccoon · · Score: 1

      Of course. Practice makes perfect, not babies.

    42. Re:Simple solution by Hognoxious · · Score: 1

      Yet, rather than spending the time talking and getting to know one another...the were on their fscking phones texting and doing social media.

      Perhaps they didn't want to panic you by speaking in a foreign language.

      Were they brown?

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    43. Re:Simple solution by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      just do like modern offices and install white noise jammers to make up for the open layouts

    44. Re: Simple solution by Megol · · Score: 2

      ... And history shows that border walls do work (unless you're a 1930's frenchman).

      France didn't have any walls where the Germans attacked so the lesson is not to trust allies. The Maginot line held as intended however it was a bit more complex than most border walls.
      Border walls doesn't work in the modern world.

    45. Re:Simple solution by Megol · · Score: 1

      How about you take care of your own business? I'm sadly not shocked that self-righteous shitheads like you are complaining online. Really...

    46. Re:Simple solution by demonlapin · · Score: 1

      Fuck yourself gently with a chainsaw if you think I'm no longer even allowed to notice when people are rude to each other.

    47. Re:Simple solution by cayenne8 · · Score: 1

      Perhaps they didn't want to panic you by speaking in a foreign language.

      Wow....you actually remember shit like this on specific conversations almost a month ago??

      Wow...I must have really struck some kind of chord with you....

      Surprised anyone takes stuff said on /. seriously enough to remember anything on it longer than 10 minutes old, much less a month or more.

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  2. Table Turnover by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 5, Informative

    No more drinks and conversation. Eat and move out, so the next group can come in.
    Table turnover is one of the key metrics for profitability.

    1. Re:Table Turnover by thegarbz · · Score: 5, Insightful

      Table turnover is one of the key metrics for profitability.

      No 1 reason why the American dining experience is utterly crap.

    2. Re:Table Turnover by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      And if you think the noise is just because a architectural choices then you would be wrong. The architectural choices are made just to increase table turn over, as is the music, television, etc.

    3. Re:Table Turnover by fahrbot-bot · · Score: 1

      No more drinks and conversation. Eat and move out, so the next group can come in.
      Table turnover is one of the key metrics for profitability.

      Anonymous Cowards are such romantics...

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    4. Re:Table Turnover by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

      At the sound levels reported in the summary, OSHA would require workers use hearing protection.

      There is a strong trend toward people going out to eat less and staying for less time. Many articles blame this on millennials ruining things for the older generation. Perhaps the noise issue is a more plausible contributing factor to that trend.

  3. I avoid loud restaurants by Oswald+McWeany · · Score: 5, Insightful

    I avoid loud restaurants; I'm sure I'm not the only one. They may look nice, and maybe their looks attract more people than their loudness scares off; but, I do take note if a place is too loud and I don't return- so there is a downside to being loud, they do lose some customers... unless I'm just a unique freak.

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    1. Re:I avoid loud restaurants by hcs_$reboot · · Score: 1

      they do lose some customers... unless I'm just a unique freak.

      Loudness is due to the restaurant having many customers. So maybe they don't lose customers..

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    2. Re:I avoid loud restaurants by aaarrrgggh · · Score: 4, Insightful

      Agree. Have walked out of restaurants for being too loud. No sense not being able to talk to each other while paying $200/person for a meal. While table density plays a role, the biggest issue is architects simply not caring about acoustics. It is a shame too, as it isn’t that hard to make a space functional without disrupting the “look.” A good acoustical consultant can do wonders for making a space bearable.

    3. Re:I avoid loud restaurants by houghi · · Score: 1

      It depends a lot on the atmosphere. (Disclaimer, I live in Europe) I would never eat in a pub, or sportsbar. For me a bar or pub is for drinking, not eating.
      I have been in loud restaurants where the atmosphere was extremely nice. I also have been in quiet places, where I felt as if I was at a funeral. Terrible.

      The dutch have a word for it "Geroezemoes". It means background noise, murmur, buzz and (not or) chatter. This can be almost silent, but also pretty loud.

      It absolutely depends on the mood I am in and the place. e.g. try to imagine a beerhall in Germany to be quiet. It would be depressing.

      I personally would walk away from too quiet mor than from too loud. That does not mean I like people shouting all the time. There are better places for that and I enjoy those as well. Just not to eat.

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    4. Re:I avoid loud restaurants by Ol+Olsoc · · Score: 4, Interesting

      I avoid loud restaurants; I'm sure I'm not the only one. They may look nice, and maybe their looks attract more people than their loudness scares off; but, I do take note if a place is too loud and I don't return- so there is a downside to being loud, they do lose some customers... unless I'm just a unique freak.

      Not unique at all. I'm functionally rather deaf, with loud tinnitus and a lot of holes in my hearing. One of the features of this kind of deafness is that if I'm sitting in a fairly quiet room, I can hear and understand most conversation. But in a loud place, I can't hear anything but noise. A weird thing - people with my kind of deafness process all sounds the same, whereas people with normal hearing have brains that can select what should be listened to.

      Does this cost business? I think so. Who would want to go to say, Olive Garden for a business lunch or dinner? Especially when a fair number of the folks in leadership positions have hearing issues like mine. In our locale, we've found a nice cafe that manages to not sound like a foundry , and provide them with a lot of business.

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    5. Re:I avoid loud restaurants by Nidi62 · · Score: 1

      I avoid loud restaurants; I'm sure I'm not the only one. They may look nice, and maybe their looks attract more people than their loudness scares off; but, I do take note if a place is too loud and I don't return- so there is a downside to being loud, they do lose some customers... unless I'm just a unique freak.

      Plus, those loud trendy places (like the kind of place that would use a refurbed fire station) tend to have food that is, while decent, also usually over-priced and proportionately small. If I'm eating it's because I don't want to cook (unless I'm eating korean bbq) or want something I can't cook/cook well, and since I know eating out is always more expensive than cooking at home, I want my money's worth. So I stay away from loud trendy places (bonus points for not having to deal with a server with a handlebar pushing their latest offering of seasonal microbrews with ironic or pun filled names) anyway.

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    6. Re:I avoid loud restaurants by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

      I desperately hope you added an extra 0 in there. $20/person and yeah, makes no sense to not be able to talk to each other. $200/person and everything had damn well better be perfect.

    7. Re:I avoid loud restaurants by Oswald+McWeany · · Score: 1

      It depends a lot on the atmosphere. (Disclaimer, I live in Europe) I would never eat in a pub, or sportsbar. For me a bar or pub is for drinking, not eating.
      I have been in loud restaurants where the atmosphere was extremely nice. I also have been in quiet places, where I felt as if I was at a funeral. Terrible.

      The dutch have a word for it "Geroezemoes". It means background noise, murmur, buzz and (not or) chatter. This can be almost silent, but also pretty loud.

      It absolutely depends on the mood I am in and the place. e.g. try to imagine a beerhall in Germany to be quiet. It would be depressing.

      I personally would walk away from too quiet mor than from too loud. That does not mean I like people shouting all the time. There are better places for that and I enjoy those as well. Just not to eat.

      Yes, the opposite extreme can be bad too. One of my favourite Indian restaurants is always dead- almost no one in there and extremely quiet (Indian restaurants never seem to be very busy in the US- Americans have a weird phobia about Indian food). The problem with this one restaurant is I always feel very self-conscious when talking BECAUSE it is so quiet and I feel like the two other customers and the staff can all overhear what I'm saying... not that I'm saying anything they shouldn't hear- I'm just a private person.

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    8. Re:I avoid loud restaurants by RatherBeAnonymous · · Score: 5, Interesting

      No it's not. It's a result of most interior designers not having a clue about acoustics.

      At work, our offices were redone by a high-priced interior design firm. Most of our conference rooms were done in all hard surfaces, granite tables, wood floors, high ceilings, the works. They were also so acoustically noisy that people would have to yell in order for the person across the table from you to understand what they were saying. Some rooms were so bad that it was physically painful for me to be in the room due to the sound reflections. The high ambient noise also wreaked havoc with our conference phones. Callers would frequently complain that they coudn't understand anything we said. The rooms looked great, but utterly failed in their purpose of facilitating communications.

      After a year of pushing, I finally got them to allow me to have a local acoustical tile manufacturer install sound dampening tiles in one conference room. The boss was so impressed with the results that he got the remaining 6 rooms done within the next two months.

    9. Re:I avoid loud restaurants by MTEK · · Score: 4, Funny

      "Nobody goes there anymore. It's too crowded." -Yogi Berra

    10. Re:I avoid loud restaurants by RatherBeAnonymous · · Score: 1

      I think you do not appreciate the scope of the problem in the US. Within walking distance from work, I can think of at least 5 trendy restaurants (just of the ones I frequent) that are done in all metal, wood, and cement. Cement floors. Cement columns. Cement ceilings. Wood, metal, or some kind of engineered laminate furniture. The only cloth will be the seat cushions, if they exist. A quarter full at lunch and they are already loud. Fill them up with the dinner crowds and they are unbearable.

    11. Re:I avoid loud restaurants by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Not me.

      I love it loud, I want to hear it loud, right between the eyes
      Loud, I want to hear it loud, I don't want no compromise

    12. Re: I avoid loud restaurants by reanjr · · Score: 4, Funny

      The takeaway is never hire a designer for a space meant for a practical reason. The designer will be too busy checking brand names and the latest fads to have time to address any actual issues of design. Hire efficiency engineers or similar instead. Tell the inevitable prick who whines about the work environment because he doesn't recognize the brand name of your furniture that you went for mid 20th century brutalist design and he needs to expand his design horizons.

    13. Re: I avoid loud restaurants by reanjr · · Score: 1, Troll

      You mean like asians have a phobia of dairy?

      Americans don't have a phobia of Indian food, they have a completely rational distase for food that doesn't digest properly.

    14. Re:I avoid loud restaurants by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Have also turned around and walked out. Having tinnitus makes loud environments extra unbearable.

    15. Re:I avoid loud restaurants by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I've got this same issue with tinnitus and nerve deafness. In a loud room, all I hear is a roar of chaos makes it hard to understand anyone AND triggers a lot of anxiety.

      I have a favorite restaurant that I only visit for happy hour as by 7pm, it's too loud and uncomfortable. WTH people? A few soft surfaces would do wonders for decreasing the sound levels while increasing patrons' comfort and spending. Mark my words, when that lottery ticket comes in, I'll start my own restaurant that will be both upscale and quiet. Special discounts for members of /.

    16. Re:I avoid loud restaurants by Kvan · · Score: 1

      Not only do I avoid them, if I review them online I take a star off and note it there.

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    17. Re: I avoid loud restaurants by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Lol guess whoâ(TM)s poor.

    18. Re: I avoid loud restaurants by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Obviously if Indian food wasnâ(TM)t popular the restaurants would be out of business.,.think more and post less.

    19. Re: I avoid loud restaurants by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Wtf are either of you talking about.

      Indian restaurants are frequented in the US.

      The most food xenophobic culture I ever met was indians. Talk about a people that won't stray from their own food.

      No idea why Americans get a bad rap on anything like this except possibly most Americans don't travel enough to know to defend themselves

    20. Re: I avoid loud restaurants by YttriumOxide · · Score: 1

      Or just lives somewhere different to you.

      I've been places where $20 of crap junk food would still leave you hungry, and I've been other places where I doubt you could even get through $20 worth of high quality chef-prepared food.

      Where I live at the moment for example, I'd expect around €25 per person for a "normal" restaurant (including a beer or wine with the meal) and up to €100 per person for a really high-quality place.

      I could also however jump in my car, and in less than two hours be somewhere where the prices are quite literally 3 to 5 times as much.

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    21. Re:I avoid loud restaurants by Opportunist · · Score: 2

      Not really in my experience. It's also the fucking music that keeps blaring from all speakers. Allegedly to "drown the noise" the people make. Which only results in people talking (or even yelling) louder so they can hear each other over the goddamn music!

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    22. Re:I avoid loud restaurants by Opportunist · · Score: 1

      The right setting and atmosphere matter. No doubt. Your examples are pretty good, nobody wants to sit in a deathly silent sports bar, but there's a limit to what's acceptable as background noise. Good bars know how to kill sound to keep the noise in the background where it causes atmosphere instead of annoyance.

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    23. Re:I avoid loud restaurants by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      You aren't the only one. I note the places that are not conducive to conversation and avoid them. There are 2 particularly bad places locally that I avoid like the plague.

    24. Re:I avoid loud restaurants by demonlapin · · Score: 1

      Forget "for a business meal", why would you want to go there at all? Olive Garden is one of those places you go to because you're in the middle of nowhere, the TripAdvisor and Yelp reviews of area restaurants are all obvious shill crap, and you don't want to die of food poisoning. It's mediocre food at a semi-premium price. I'd honestly rather eat at Waffle House or IHOP.

    25. Re:I avoid loud restaurants by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      what do bars have to do with this?

    26. Re:I avoid loud restaurants by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Exactly. I had a favorite restaurant in San Antonio. Never full, great food, wonderful service. They moved to a better location. Glass and concrete. We walk up as a group of four, only one of us can hear the hostess by leaning over to get close enough. The place was deafening. Long wait. Good for them, but I never went back. Obviously people love these loud restaurants where a table of people can only talk as pairs, because people kept taking me to them. I no longer hang with that type of crowd. If a place is loud, I leave.

    27. Re:I avoid loud restaurants by moehoward · · Score: 2

      Exactly. I never have a problem when Don Draper or Pete Campbell take me out. They know all the right places for a quiet conversation, four bottles of Scotch, and a carton or two of cigarettes. It is quiet, but I always end up spending a couple of million buying advertising that I didn't really want.

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    28. Re:I avoid loud restaurants by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I have some hearing loss.
      As long as it is quiet I can look at someones mouth and fill in the blanks.
      A lot of noise though short circuits the hearing I do have making following any conversations impossible.
      So I just sit quietly and listen to the sounds of babel.

    29. Re:I avoid loud restaurants by Solandri · · Score: 2

      The biggest difference I've seen is actually from the floor. The trend away from carpets towards hard flooring results in a huge increase in noise. True the latter are easier to clean after a spill, but most of the upscale restaurants I remember from my youth had carpeting, while the tile/linoleum flooring was only used by fast food joints. Nowadays I can't even remember the last restaurant I went to which had carpeted floors.

      When I bought my house, I gave in to my parents and sister who insisted that I should rip out the carpeting and install wood flooring because it was trendy. I'm not happy with the increase in noise. Fortunately I held firm and refused to remove the carpeting from the upstairs bedrooms. They're harder to clean, but much quieter.

    30. Re:I avoid loud restaurants by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Custromers, i.e. seated people, are one of the best absorbers of sound (according to Beranek) you'd find in a restaurant, so if they could fill to capacity, that would help the problem, instead of contributing to it.

    31. Re: I avoid loud restaurants by angel'o'sphere · · Score: 1

      they have a completely rational distase for food that doesn't digest properly.
      And why would any food, any nation or any culture on this planet is cooking, not be "digested properly"?

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    32. Re:I avoid loud restaurants by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      "I never said most of the things that I said." -- Yogi Berra

    33. Re: I avoid loud restaurants by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Why am I suddenly thinking about Apple and Jonny Ives?

    34. Re: I avoid loud restaurants by sexconker · · Score: 1

      A big part of the reason I can easily afford $200 for a meal is because I would never pay $200 for a meal.

    35. Re: I avoid loud restaurants by sexconker · · Score: 1

      Plenty of restaurants go out of business. Even popular ones. Popularity has little to do with restaurant longevity. Real estate is by far the bigger concern.

      A shitty restaurant no one goes to will stay there forever if they own the building and lot, or are friends with / fucking whoever does.
      A restaurant that's too successful will often draw extra attention from whomever owns the building or lot. They'll get hit with huge rent increases and all their success will be bled away.

    36. Re:I avoid loud restaurants by doom · · Score: 1

      Loudness is due to the restaurant having many customers. So maybe they don't lose customers..

      And in point of fact, it seems as though they make cavernous, echoy spaces on purpose, because it seems to attract quite a few people-- or it used to, it'd be nice if people are getting sick of it.

      I developed a theory in the 90s when this trend seemed to really get going that what was going on is that a lot of yuppies are people who actually enjoyed high school, and they were trying to re-capture the old school lunch room at noon experience.

      Maybe everyone is ready for something new, at last... just when I'm ready to give up on the modern world, it sometimes surprises me and suddenly gets a clue.

    37. Re:I avoid loud restaurants by sexconker · · Score: 3, Funny

      Olive Garden is cheap, especially on weekdays at lunch.
      The breadsticks are great (because they're fucking warm garlic breadsticks) and some of the soups are decent. Fuck salad.
      They have a couple of pasta dishes I like, but they're nothing special. But by the time the actual food comes, who cares? You should be 3 baskets of breadsticks deep at that point, asking the server to just grate the cheese into your mouth because you won't be using your arms any more.

    38. Re:I avoid loud restaurants by Bigbutt · · Score: 1

      That's weird. I know of 9 Indian restaurants in the surrounding area (Boulder Colorado) that I've been to that are generally moderately full of people but not very noisy; other than the Indian TV on in the corner :) One of the best, Yak and Yeti down in Westminster, moved from their smaller fast food looking place to the main mall (the Nepal place in Estes Park and the Indian place in Nederland are the three best in the area).

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    39. Re:I avoid loud restaurants by jbengt · · Score: 1

      Rugs. Their almost as good as carpeting, easier to clean, easier to replace, and portable. So you can have solid, cleanable surfaces where and when you want, and soft, noise dampening, surfaces where and when you want..

    40. Re:I avoid loud restaurants by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      My father has similar, albeit probably not quite as bad as you describe, hearing issues.
      He would get exhausted and irritable at work meetings because he couldn't hear what people were saying.
      After he got hearing aids he was back to normal.

    41. Re:I avoid loud restaurants by Ol+Olsoc · · Score: 1

      You should be 3 baskets of breadsticks deep at that point, asking the server to just grate the cheese into your mouth because you won't be using your arms any more.

      Har!, the visualization on that is great.

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    42. Re:I avoid loud restaurants by Ol+Olsoc · · Score: 1

      Forget "for a business meal", why would you want to go there at all? Olive Garden is one of those places you go to because you're in the middle of nowhere, the TripAdvisor and Yelp reviews of area restaurants are all obvious shill crap, and you don't want to die of food poisoning. It's mediocre food at a semi-premium price. I'd honestly rather eat at Waffle House or IHOP.

      My mentioning Olive Garden is an example of a loud restaurant, not necessarily a good one. I do like their eggplant parmesan though. Just not enough to go back any more, because of the noise.

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    43. Re:I avoid loud restaurants by TheCastro1689 · · Score: 1

      That dude's simple genius makes so much sense it hurts. It's why I go to everyone else's funeral, so they'll come to mine.

    44. Re:I avoid loud restaurants by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      That's weird. I know of 9 Indian restaurants in the surrounding area (Boulder Colorado) that I've been to that are generally moderately full of people but not very noisy; other than the Indian TV on in the corner :) One of the best, Yak and Yeti down in Westminster, moved from their smaller fast food looking place to the main mall (the Nepal place in Estes Park and the Indian place in Nederland are the three best in the area).

      [John]

      I miss the Yak and Yeti from my time living in that area. It was 5 minutes form my house and had some of the best food regardless of price, and was inexpensive on top of that! Glad ot know they moved so if I'm ever back in the area, I can find it again!

    45. Re:I avoid loud restaurants by Mal-2 · · Score: 1

      I am reading your

      I don't want to cook (unless I'm eating korean bbq) or want something I can't cook/cook well

      to mean that you can cook Korean BBQ, but sometimes prefer to let someone else do it for you. If this reading is correct, then that means you can actually cook, which gives you more options on a given evening than those who can't or who fear what's good enough for them may not be good enough for others.

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    46. Re:I avoid loud restaurants by Nidi62 · · Score: 1

      I am reading your

      I don't want to cook (unless I'm eating korean bbq) or want something I can't cook/cook well

      to mean that you can cook Korean BBQ, but sometimes prefer to let someone else do it for you. If this reading is correct, then that means you can actually cook, which gives you more options on a given evening than those who can't or who fear what's good enough for them may not be good enough for others.

      You're misreading. I prefer cooking my own food, but there are plenty of nights where I am either 1. too lazy/tired to cook/clean up, or 2. want something that I cannot satisfactorily or easily fix myself. Korean BBQ is an exception to #1 because cooking your meat at the table is half the point; however I try not to eat that too often because me and all you can eat do not go well together, as like I said I like to get my money's worth. I literally was hungover the next day after eating at a Brazilian steakhouse once because I ate so much.

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    47. Re: I avoid loud restaurants by Oswald+McWeany · · Score: 1

      Obviously if Indian food wasnâ(TM)t popular the restaurants would be out of business.,.think more and post less.

      They do. They open and 6 months later they're closed. (perhaps you should "think more and post less")

      The one I was referencing though has been open a long time now, several years, I suspect it gets busier in the evening; I only go for lunch.

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    48. Re:I avoid loud restaurants by Oswald+McWeany · · Score: 1

      why would you want to go there at all? Olive Garden is one of those places ... ... It's mediocre food at a semi-premium price. I'd honestly rather eat at Waffle House or IHOP.

      Me too, but it's not just Olive Garden, it's most Italian restaurants nowadays. It's hard to find an Italian restaurant that makes something better than I can at home. Honestly, I typically avoid Italian restaurants because most Italian food is fairly easy to make and the quality I get from making it at home is much better than what I get at restaurants. I suspect the majority of Italian restaurants must do what the majority of Chinese restaurants do now- just buy premade meals in bulk and heat them up. It's nowhere near as good as when the meals are made from scratch and at least moderately fresh.

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    49. Re:I avoid loud restaurants by dgatwood · · Score: 1

      Not really in my experience. It's also the fucking music that keeps blaring from all speakers. Allegedly to "drown the noise" the people make. Which only results in people talking (or even yelling) louder so they can hear each other over the goddamn music!

      This. I came here to say exactly this. You can't reduce noise by adding uncorrelated noise.

      Now what someone *could* do is add microphones and speakers in every booth, then use a sophisticated matrix mixer to invert the waves with propagation delay and distance falloff, and effectively make it so that nobody hears anybody else in the room. This would be freaking awesome.

      It would also be way more expensive than putting in carpet and replacing it every couple of years when it gets too soiled... but it would be awesome.

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    50. Re:I avoid loud restaurants by fuzznutz · · Score: 1

      My mentioning Olive Garden is an example of a loud restaurant, not necessarily a good one. I do like their eggplant parmesan though. Just not enough to go back any more, because of the noise.

      Olive Garden around here is not very loud. I would put it on the acceptable list. Contrast that to fast food horror, Jimmy Johns. The place is designed to look like a New York subway station: exposed concrete block walls, cavernous interior with some kind of metal sheeting on the ceiling, exposed metal HVAC ductwork, hard plastic seating and hard floors. The radio is blasting away at top volume. I have been there when there was literally no other occupied table in the building besides mine and could not hear the person across from me and yet I have excellent hearing. Besides the high level of racket, the echoes and reflections were terrible. I stopped going when I realized how nice it felt once I left the building.

      Unfortunately, there are a bunch of places that have adopted that "styling" these days. When I enter a place and see cavernous rooms with exposed concrete ceilings and exposed HVAC ducting, I usually turn around and find somewhere else. My ears thank me.

    51. Re:I avoid loud restaurants by Shotgun · · Score: 2, Interesting

      Indian restaurants never seem to be very busy in the US- Americans have a weird phobia about Indian food

      Avoiding a restaurant where all the food tastes like various forms of swamp mud is a not a phobia.

      I am a very food-curious person. I like to taste food from every culture I encounter. . . but, Indian hasn't made my list of "try this again".

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    52. Re:I avoid loud restaurants by Squirmy+McPhee · · Score: 1

      I avoid loud restaurants; I'm sure I'm not the only one. They may look nice, and maybe their looks attract more people than their loudness scares off; but, I do take note if a place is too loud and I don't return- so there is a downside to being loud, they do lose some customers... unless I'm just a unique freak.

      Oh no, I'm with you. One of the better cocktail bars in my city is a short walk from my apartment, but I've been there exactly once while I regularly travel halfway across the city to other bars, many of them not as good. And the simple reason is that I can't have a conversation and spend quality time with my friends because the place is so damn loud (and dark, for that matter, to the point that if you don't have a smartphone with a flashlight function then you pretty much need to have the waiter explain the menu to you, and, well, you can't hear him, so...). And this isn't some sports bar with shooters and cheap mixers, we're talking €12-15 craft cocktails. The main thing I remember about the place is thinking, "it's a shame I'm drinking this so fast, but I just can't wait to get out of here."

    53. Re:I avoid loud restaurants by ffkom · · Score: 2

      Though there is not much that I like about India, I certainly like their food. If yours tasted like swamp, either your swamps are full of interesting spices, or you were served some sort of depleted pseudo-Indian food that was lacking spices. I think it is fair to say that Indian food consists of various irrelevant things plus substantial amounts of interesting spices. And that's what makes it so great :-)

    54. Re:I avoid loud restaurants by Ol+Olsoc · · Score: 1

      Olive Garden around here is not very loud. I would put it on the acceptable list.

      Interesting. Do they have a different wall treatment? That was really the big issue around here. Limestone rock walls, and a very reflective ceiling.

      Olive Garden around here is not very loud. I would put it on the acceptable list. Contrast that to fast food horror, Jimmy Johns. The place is designed to look like a New York subway station: exposed concrete block walls, cavernous interior with some kind of metal sheeting on the ceiling, exposed metal HVAC ductwork, hard plastic seating and hard floors.

      Been there, and likewise, couldn't have a conversation with the person I was having lunch with. Haven't gone back either.

      Unfortunately, there are a bunch of places that have adopted that "styling" these days. When I enter a place and see cavernous rooms with exposed concrete ceilings and exposed HVAC ducting, I usually turn around and find somewhere else. My ears thank me.

      I wonder if this trand has anything to do with the poor profits a lot of chains have been having the past number of years? I remember when I was dating my wife, the style was much more intimate. And you could have an actual conversation, most of what you heard from other tables was a sort of murmuring.

      But with the rise of the noisy restaurant and bar scene, coupled with the parents who think that everyone loves their screaming, undisciplined kids, I don't go out to dinner much these days, only breakfast - but that's with my computer so I don't need to worry about hearing people

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    55. Re: I avoid loud restaurants by terrycarlino · · Score: 1

      Too true. One of my favorite restaurants, which was fairly quiet and always busy recently closed because the landlord jacked up the rent and they had to close.

      I hoped the space would remain empty long enough to give the landlord pause, but they fooled me. They lent it out almost immediately by offering a great rate to a new tenant, which I understand was about the same or lower than the last tenant. WFT!

      Some people are just stupid.

    56. Re:I avoid loud restaurants by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

      Avoiding a restaurant where all the food tastes like various forms of swamp mud is a not a phobia.

      No, it wouldn't be.

      I am a very food-curious person.

      That's great!

      I like to taste food from every culture I encounter. . . but, Indian hasn't made my list of "try this again".

      Then you probably haven't actually had Indian food. You have most likely had some crap that whoever produced it pretends is Indian food.

      As with most types of food, ingredients, preparations, seasoning and interest on behalf of whoever makes it, matter. If you end up at a place where nobody gives a crap, of course the food will be crap, regardless of which culture it pretends to be from.

    57. Re:I avoid loud restaurants by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I'm with this guy. I know of two Indian restaurants in the Monroe, Louisiana area that stay pretty busy. Mentioning the city/state specifically because the stereotype is that places in the southern US are too racist for anything like that. Oswald is generalizing the population of the entire country based on one restaurant.

    58. Re:I avoid loud restaurants by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      My dad was an avid patron of bars before i was born. A bartender told him once that louder music == more drink sales. Anecdotally, I drink more in loud places because the combination of lip reading mixed with the few phonemes I can catch from my date 2 feet away is incredibly irritating,as is being asked to repeat myself until I'm shouting. But maybe that's just me

    59. Re:I avoid loud restaurants by Provocateur · · Score: 1

      Plus it helps you get rid of the body that caused the ketchup stains and splatter on the floor.

      today's cap: amoral

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    60. Re:I avoid loud restaurants by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Are you saying, then, that it is possible, with technology? You simply need to put the right people together: your concept (you're the idea man), the Kitchen Nightmares team with Gordon Ramsay, the chef who you know can cook the food you'd like to eat, and "The Money Man"

      Let's cut to the chase: 4. Profit!

    61. Re:I avoid loud restaurants by Bigbutt · · Score: 1

      They're in the same strip mall area but moved into the main building. You can see it from where the old place was :)

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    62. Re:I avoid loud restaurants by houghi · · Score: 1

      Salted peanuts. It's a foodgroup, right?

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    63. Re:I avoid loud restaurants by toddestan · · Score: 1

      I'm kind of torn on the carpeting thing too. The modern vinyl planking floors are incredibly practical - durable, easy to clean, don't show wear, relatively inexpensive (but admittedly pricier than carpet). But I'm sure if I put it in, I wouldn't be happy with the acoustics. So the carpet has stayed in place, at least for now. I suppose I could try putting in the new flooring and doing something like putting acoustic tiles on the ceiling.

    64. Re:I avoid loud restaurants by toddestan · · Score: 1

      The one close me is full of upper-class housewives during the lunch hour that obviously don't have anything else to but go hang out at Olive Garden. On the upside, they tend to not make a lot of noise even with the constant chatter the noise level is very tolerable. It doesn't hurt that the decor is kind of old school and isn't all hard surfaces either. The breadsticks are good and the other food is decent, the biggest problem for a work lunch is that the staff is clearly used to a clientele that clearly is not in any hurry so it's just too slow to get in and out in a reasonable amount of time.

    65. Re:I avoid loud restaurants by Agripa · · Score: 1

      Besides soft and irregular surfaces, there are more subtle things which can be done like walls which are slightly out of parallel and terraced ceilings. The later are common in auditoriums.

    66. Re:I avoid loud restaurants by Agripa · · Score: 1

      Newer fast food restaurants and doctor's waiting rooms often have a large screen TV or several blaring out typical TV tripe. I need to get one of those universal remotes which shuts off almost all TVs.

    67. Re: I avoid loud restaurants by reanjr · · Score: 1

      Because the gut biomes you develop are regional and because there are genetic differences in the way we are able to process certain proteins, etc. In addition, there are complementary effects in a whole diet which are oftentimes not met (think of the French concept of a digestif). It's one of the reasons why travelers often experience illness.

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  5. Fire safety codes, sanitation codes, costs by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0, Insightful

    Can't clean foam and fabric items easily. Smooth flat plastic or metal surfaces are easier to keep clean. Can't afford to live out, due to the burdens of government requirements health insurance, and so on, therefore high population density, and thus more noise. It seems the volume level of a place increases exponentially to the number of people.

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  6. Feedback by Daetrin · · Score: 1

    There's probably also some positive feedback at the start. You don't want a place to seem _too_ quiet. A little noise makes a place seem lively and popular. So if the current architecture trends amplify sound it probably makes it seem more hospitable for the first couple groups of the night. It's only after that (initially) hospitable atmosphere has done its work and started to draw in a larger crowd that the noise reaches an intolerable level.

    There's a pretty good bar right around the corner from us that we like to go to if we can get there early enough when it's more than half empty and quiet. But on more than one occasion we've noped the hell out of there because the evening crowd had already arrived and just walking in the door was already making our ears hurt.

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  7. Seems to be a trend by UnknowingFool · · Score: 1

    Some of it is to save money and practicality in addition to design choices. For example, many recent newer places I've visited don't have carpet or rugs and opt for tile or concrete because it is cheaper and easier to clean. On the other spectrum, some restaurants have started to use glass tile/wood for the walls instead of drywall and paint.

    A growing trend with some places is the open kitchen. If you've ever worked in a restaurant, kitchens are loud and were never designed to be quiet. But back in the day, the kitchen was behind walls that separated from the dining experience. With an open kitchen, you see and unfortunately hear everything.

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    1. Re: Seems to be a trend by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Depends on the experience you want. Every restaurant has its own charm. If you go to a loud restaurant, the noise level drains all the oxygen out of the party.

      For a casual and great experience, I recommend something simple, like a pizzeria - the kind where you order at the counter and then sit down.

      After, find a nicer restaurant that tends to empty out early. You can find a kick ass spot near the bar and drink brandy and coffee and make fun of entertainment tonight. The bartender usually has some good stories at that time of day.

      Assuming you donâ(TM)t have to drive, you can have an optimal experience because you donâ(TM)t have to watch your alcohol consumption.

      The best restaurants are all about low pressure, taking your time, and finding something interesting to eat/drink and talk about.

      My two Eurocents

  8. Acoustic baffling can be made to look modern, too by frank_adrian314159 · · Score: 4, Informative

    You can buy a variety of acoustic baffling and other sound treatment that looks sleek and modern. In the end, it's just the restaurant being cheap and confusing noise with liveliness. To be fair, a lot of customers do the latter, too.

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  9. idiot restaurant owners by NikeHerc · · Score: 3, Insightful

    The noise problem noted is made worse by idiot restaurant owners. One local idiot had two tvs and a radio station, all of which were loud, going at the same time. She refused to turn them down. I paid the bill, left, never went back.

    Not much later she went out of business. Gee, I wonder why.

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    1. Re:idiot restaurant owners by hcs_$reboot · · Score: 0

      Gee, I wonder why.

      What? You just explained that earlier. Memento syndrome?

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    2. Re:idiot restaurant owners by NikeHerc · · Score: 3, Funny

      What? You just explained that earlier. Memento syndrome?

      Look up the word facetious in a dictionary. That's the big book that tells what all the big words mean.

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    3. Re:idiot restaurant owners by clampolo · · Score: 4, Funny

      Did you ever find out why the restaurant went out of business?

    4. Re:idiot restaurant owners by cyberchondriac · · Score: 1

      I don't think it's only the TVs or bad acoustics in many places though that certainly is a large factor. People in general used to conversely more politely and quietly at the table so as not to disturb other patrons, but it only takes a handful of loudmouths and the kind of people that insist the next country over can hear them when they laugh constantly, sitting at a few tables, to up the whole noise level to a din.

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    5. Re:idiot restaurant owners by ragnar_ianal · · Score: 1

      I've had the same problem in many places. Last week the wife and I went to the neighborhood Mexican restaurant and they wanted to seat us out on the patio. The first table that they brought us to was directly under a speaker [inoffensive music] that was blaring way too loud. I asked to have us moved as far away from the speakers as possible. It was fairly vacant out on the patio but I have refused seating and left restaurants because of intentionally loud background music that hinders normal intercourse.

    6. Re:idiot restaurant owners by DethLok · · Score: 2

      Perhaps you shouldn't be having intercourse at a restaurant?

  10. This is probably one reason why so many people by mark_reh · · Score: 4, Interesting

    are now ordering their food delivered. I find going to most restaurants about as pleasant as going to a shopping mall. Ugh!

    Coffee shops are usually pretty quiet, if only because they are smaller and fewer people fit into them.

    1. Re:This is probably one reason why so many people by Virtucon · · Score: 1

      No, it's because people are more lazy and have become more introverted avoiding social situations. There's also that MMORPG thing I have to get back to.

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    2. Re:This is probably one reason why so many people by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      This is probably one reason why so many people are now ordering their food delivered. I find going to most restaurants about as pleasant as going to a shopping mall. Ugh!

      Honestly, find a better restaurant.

      I go to restaurants because I enjoy the evening out with my wife, because I enjoy table service, and because I like the ambience of the place. I'm willing to sacrifice ambience for good food and good service up to a point. Deafening noise isn't something I want.

      I'm fortunate in that none of the restaurants I go to devolve into this level of noise, but bad service is a death stroke for a restaurant to me.

      My favourite restaurant only seats about 35 people. The chef/owner is in his open kitchen and waves at his regulars, the wait staff are all very experienced and give great service, and the food is fantastic. We only go a few times a year because it makes for an expensive night, but when we want that for special occasions, it's a 20 minute walk.

      Ordering in has its place, but generally isn't what I want out of the dining experience.

    3. Re:This is probably one reason why so many people by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      and have become more introverted avoiding social situations.

      You don't become introverted, any more than you become heterosexual. It's basic wiring of the brain. Extroverted persons often think introverts are shy, inferior, socially handicapped couch potatoes, and choose to be that way. The reality is that introverts process the same stimuli deeper and longer than extroverts do, and can easily be overwhelmed by them. That's why we tend to avoid loud areas and (loud, busy) extroverts. They tire and drain us.

  11. Not just the acoustics of the room by WoodstockJeff · · Score: 4, Interesting

    People want to have what they say heard. As the background noise goes up, they talk louder. That brings the background noise level up for others, so they talk louder,

    For years, our company held an employee Christmas party at a steak house. The last two years, though, we employees said forget it... the noise level was too high to socialize, even though we all loved the food.

    1. Re:Not just the acoustics of the room by drinkypoo · · Score: 2, Insightful

      People want to have what they say heard. As the background noise goes up, they talk louder. That brings the background noise level up for others, so they talk louder,

      Yes, this has really nothing whatsoever to do with the materials used and everything to do with loud fuckfaces. I am constantly stunned at how loud people are in restaurants. This country is jam-packed with narcissists and the world would be better off if it tipped over and everyone fell into the ocean.

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    2. Re:Not just the acoustics of the room by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      People want to have what they say heard. As the background noise goes up, they talk louder. That brings the background noise level up for others, so they talk louder,

      That is one of the biggest contributors.

      Another is alcohol.

      There is a place I love to go to, has decent food and an incredible beer selection, both on tap and bottled.

      However, after about 7 or 8, with all the booze swilling tables packed with people and everyone buzzed and talking over each, nary a fucking word is heard.

    3. Re: Not just the acoustics of the room by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

      Would that be 7 or 8 o' clock, or 7 or 8 o'beer?

    4. Re: Not just the acoustics of the room by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Would that be 7 or 8 o' clock, or 7 or 8 o'beer?

      Exactly.

    5. Re: Not just the acoustics of the room by Hognoxious · · Score: 1

      I can remember when there wasn't much difference.

      *sigh*

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    6. Re: Not just the acoustics of the room by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      You weren't drinking enough then :D

  12. 90 decibels in a pub? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Pubs are supposed to be noisy. If you don't like the atmosphere, then you're not in the right place.

    1. Re: 90 decibels in a pub? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Well, I guess I was wrong, I just don't belong. But then I've been there before. Everything's all right. I'll just say goodnight and I'll show myself to the door.

      Hey, I didn't mean to cause a big scene. Just give me an hour and then
      Well, I'll be as high as that ivory tower that you're livin' in

      'Cause I've got friends in low places. Where the whiskey drowns and the beer chases my blues away. And I'll be okay, I'm not big on social graces. Think I'll slip on down to the oasis.

      Oh, I've got friends in low places

  13. Treatments by JBMcB · · Score: 4, Interesting

    Sound absorbing treatments are usually, at the very least, flame retardant, as they are designed for use in commercial applications and have to follow fire codes for building materials. You can clean them with an upholstery attachment on a vacuum cleaner.

    Our favorite breakfast place has pictures hanging on the walls and sound absorbing panels on the ceiling to control noise. It's also broken up into multiple rooms with upholstered chairs and booths. Even when it's packed, which it often is, you can have a conversation with everyone at your table without raising your voice.

    The new hipster brunch place that opened up on the other side of town is a giant concrete, wood, glass and steel box. when someone sneezes on the other size of the restaurant it reverberates through the space like a thunderclap.

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    1. Re:Treatments by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Sound absorbing treatments are usually, at the very least, flame retardant, as they are designed for use in commercial applications and have to follow fire codes for building materials.

      https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Station_nightclub_fire

    2. Re:Treatments by sexconker · · Score: 1

      https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Station_nightclub_fire

      Pyrotechnics

    3. Re:Treatments by Kyr+Arvin · · Score: 1

      Sound absorbing treatments are usually, at the very least, flame retardant, as they are designed for use in commercial applications and have to follow fire codes for building materials.

      https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Station_nightclub_fire

      A very unfortunate situation, but the foam used was provided by the band, not as part of the building, and the building was also out of code (it was supposed to have sprinklers, but did not).

  14. Re:Acoustic baffling can be made to look modern, t by Kokuyo · · Score: 2

    Yes and one could go on about how most people don't know shit from quality these days.... one may be right even but what gets me is that in this time where about every niche idea seems to prosper, pure quality (without the added and often fake sense of luxury) seems hard to find.

    Perhaps I'm just googling wrong.

  15. On the other hand... by eford49 · · Score: 2

    Continuous loud noise makes people uncomfortable so they won't linger after finishing their meal which results in faster turnover and more customers seated.

    1. Re:On the other hand... by Agripa · · Score: 1

      Continuous loud noise makes people uncomfortable so they won't linger after finishing their meal which results in faster turnover and more customers seated.

      That would not surprise me at all. Setting the thermostat to a lower than comfortable temperature is used that way.

  16. Shhhh by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    I find that if people would put food in their mouths instead of spouting words it might get quieter in restaurants. :)

  17. It's not the restaurants, it's the people. by Virtucon · · Score: 4, Insightful

    Sorry, while the acoustics of a lot of restaurants leave much to be desired it's really the self-absorbed patrons and staff. You see we like to think we're all in our own world while eating out but the thing is your conversation levels tend to be a bit loud. People when they're going out and eating with others tend to be a little more boisterous anyway, hey they're having a good time right? Because your conversation is above a normal tone, the folks text to you can't hear their conversation. To compensate, they retaliate subconsciously and talk louder too. It especially gets bad with large groups with more than 4 people or with families / groups with kids under the age of 7 are seated nearby. Restaurants/bars et. al. could do us a favor by putting up some noise dampening material but that still won't fix the loud obnoxious clods two tables over who are in their own little world.

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    1. Re:It's not the restaurants, it's the people. by srmalloy · · Score: 2

      And it's the layout that's part of the problem -- with booths and other divided seating, it's a lot easier to set up baffles that diffuse and contain sound, providing more acoustic isolation between seating clusters. If all you have are arrays of tables, there's no easy way to acoustically divide them, so you get the full effect of the sound from all the tables around you. But booths take up more space and are inherently less flexible -- you can't push two or three booths together for a larger party, so you're losing out on flexibility -- and therefore on profits -- so restaurant operators prefer open seating areas full of tables that can be rearranged to suit the needs of the moment. And, as the article describes, the rise in 'industrial' décor means that sound will carry from one end of the space to the other with little to break it up.

    2. Re:It's not the restaurants, it's the people. by iggymanz · · Score: 2

      nope, it's purely design.

      we have some nice quiet 50+ year old restaurants around here. all the surfaces absorb sound

    3. Re:It's not the restaurants, it's the people. by Virtucon · · Score: 1

      Restaurants as far as I can remember have always had booths, tables that can be joined together etc. Hell the prototypical diner with a long counter is one big open room with lots of sound reflecting surfaces. I'll grant you that materials selection/design could help but it's more to do with peoples' attitudes that are the big culprit here.

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    4. Re:It's not the restaurants, it's the people. by PPH · · Score: 2

      Nope. It's the design. We want you to sit down, eat your damned food and get out. So we can turn that table over a few more times per night. The hell with you people who just sit there and engage in long conversations.

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    5. Re:It's not the restaurants, it's the people. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      People when they're going out and eating with others tend to be a little more boisterous anyway, hey they're having a good time right? .

      Bullshit. People usually go out and eat with others; that hasn't changed in decades. What has changed is the restaurant building materials.

    6. Re:It's not the restaurants, it's the people. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Restaurants as far as I can remember have always had booths, tables that can be joined together etc. Hell the prototypical diner with a long counter is one big open room with lots of sound reflecting surfaces.

      No, your prototypical diner is dinky, When there are a substantial number of people in one they're crammed in like sardines and the people act as sound deadening materials. A decent restaurant, seats a couple of hundred rather than 50, is well more than 4 times the area and has much higher ceilings that aren't the cheap drop ceilings,(which are sound absorbing), you find in the typical Waffle House.

    7. Re:It's not the restaurants, it's the people. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Idiots that think that they have to shout into their phone to be heard don't help!

    8. Re:It's not the restaurants, it's the people. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I remember one local Polynesian restaurant that had booths in small alcoves. They each had a cloth curtain about a foot or two from the table but it gave each booth some privacy and kept it quieter. The waitstaff could step around the curtains. I think when people closed the curtains it made them talk quieter. It was a very popular restaurant but didn't have as much room as little tables crammed into a large open area would have allowed. It lasted for years but now chain restaurants are everywhere.

      Another local restaurant had a large open area with lots of tables crammed together and marble floors. It was the loudest restaurant I ever visited. It didn't last long. Everyone said the food was unbelievable but so was the noise.

    9. Re:It's not the restaurants, it's the people. by fuzznutz · · Score: 1

      Nope. It's the design. We want you to sit down, eat your damned food and get out. So we can turn that table over a few more times per night. The hell with you people who just sit there and engage in long conversations.

      I do my part to help out. I even avoid the pesky sitting down and eating the food part. I just go to a different restaurant and let them turn my table over to someone else right away.

  18. Re:"Restaurants" by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    It sounds like what you're saying is that no true restaurant is louder, because only the quiet places you eat you consider to be restaurants.
    "That? Oh, that's a pub. No no that, that's a diner. Wine bar. Lounge. Eatery. Buffet. Bistro. Brewery. Greasy spoon. Family restaurant."

    I might buy your argument that those aren't strictly traditional restaurants, but in my experience, in my town, the majority of places you can sit down to be waited on are loud and it's mostly because of infernal music they play over the speakers. It seems people here can't stand to eat in public without music, or at least the restaurant managers think so.
    I think what really sets apart the fine dining (at least where I live) is whether or not they play music.

  19. So what? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Don't like it, don't go out to eat, grandpa. Stay home and eat your mushed peas.

    1. Re:So what? by porges · · Score: 1

      Your day will come, son.

  20. Re:Acoustic baffling can be made to look modern, t by pz · · Score: 4, Insightful

    You can buy a variety of acoustic baffling and other sound treatment that looks sleek and modern. In the end, it's just the restaurant being cheap ...

    Cheap and ignorant of the problem. I have, personally, attempted to quiet the equivalent of a loud bar: a conference poster session in absolute worst-case acoustic conditions of hard surfaces and an arched ceiling that concentrated noise. The noise absorbing panels cost a total of $3000, delivered at about $100 per panel, two dozen of them, plus shipping. They took the punishingly-loud situation down through very loud, to merely loud --- with 100 people all talking together in a confined space, you can't do much better than that. The panels are sleek, would look good in any modern decor, and, mounted on the ceiling, are entirely unobtrusive.

    So we aren't talking a ton of money, which means the restaurant and bar owners are indeed, being either ignorant, naive, cheap, or some combination of those three.

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  21. OT: I misclicked your rating by mha · · Score: 1, Offtopic

    I'm posting this dummy text because when I post in a thread my moderation points that I just used here are removed. I accidentally downvoted when I wanted to upvote. Why can't Slashdot give me the option to change my moderation, like any other website does that allows voting on comments?

  22. Restaurants or places to eat by bobstreo · · Score: 3, Interesting

    If I go to a sports bar, I expect certain levels of noise from the patrons and screens (although most of the screens have closed captioning turned on)

    If I go out for dinner, I'd like to be able to hold a conversation with the people at my table, and not hear people 10 tables away. Older, more expensive places usually are much quieter.

    One of the places I used to like was quiet to medium loud, but they completely overhauled and expanded the place.

    Next time I went in, you couldn't hear the person talking next to you. The new decor included a huge glass cupola which acted like a sound magnifier. It was so loud, I was wondering if there were some sound canceling technology that they could install.

  23. Why? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Ever been to China? More Chinese are coming to USA, and they are bringing with them their rude habits, maybe soon they will be spitting and smoking in USA restaurants without anyone care. Way too many of these locusts spreading all over the world and bringing their lack of culture everywhere, and also their brainwashed lack of cute about the world and inability to think logically.

  24. Old folks are deaf anyway by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    so they dont care the the cracker barrel is at 120 decibels.

    Young folks canrt afford to eat out more than 2 or 3 times a year, so they dont matter.

  25. Keeps people from overhearing your convos too. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 2, Interesting

    Which people often forget was a major source of gossip in the restaurants of old.

    This is really correlation not causation though. The major reasons for the changes mentioned are simple:
    ADA
    Fire Safety
    Sanitation/Inspections.

    ADA requires larger spaces to accomodate wheelchairs. Gone are the old timey tight spaces where once a heavyset American would have a hard time squeezing by.

    Fire Safety has lead to all possible flammable objects being removed or reduced.

    Sanitation has lead to stainless-only tableware, a hard plastic easy-wipe surface, and no tablecloth except in extremely upscale restaurants (and in most of the quality ones those have to be changed after any spills or ideally after the customers leave before the next customers are seated, leading to a few minutes worth of bussing and resetting per table, instead of a simple wipedown and new place settings (which most waiters I have seen can have done in around 30 seconds.

    1. Re:Keeps people from overhearing your convos too. by jbengt · · Score: 1

      The above post is clueless. ADA, Fire Safety, and Sanitation inspections may affect restaurant designs or costs some, but they have nothing to do with the excessive noise levels experienced at a lot of modern restaurants..

    2. Re:Keeps people from overhearing your convos too. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Curtains, upholstery, carpets, tablecloths, etc. Those are things that fire safety will say should go in order to decrease chances of a fire, decrease risk level, and decrease insurance premiums. Those things also help to reduce noise levels. When they are removed, like they are in modern restaurants, you get higher noise levels.

      It's simple logic. Why are you refusing to accept it?

  26. Re:Loss of civility by spitzig · · Score: 1

    I think this is not only loss of civility. Libraries have become much more community locations. Places to go meet with people. And, children's areas are like small playrooms. My son spends most of his time there playing while I get him books to take home.

  27. bull by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    The noise's purpose is to keep homeless people from sleeping in the restaurant. There are radio stations leased by the restaurants to provide this human pest control.

  28. Televisions Kill Conversation by crow · · Score: 1

    Around here, it's become almost impossible to find a restaurant without televisions. They're worse than loud noise for killing conversation. I remember the look of shock on the manager's face after eating one night when he asked how our meal was, and we said we were never eating there again because of the televisions.

  29. Re:"Restaurants" by houghi · · Score: 1

    No idea where you live. I live in Belgium and eat and have eaten all over Europe and I do not find this to be the case. The last fine dining I went to had music, just not very loud. (Do not go to their website. It is horrible. The food and service is the best I ever had.)

    The "normal" restaurants where I go to, also have music.
    But they are almost always there that if there is nobody, (or if everybody just stops talking suddenly for some reason) it is not dead quiet. In those places I would not expect to pay as much as that one with the fine dining. Closer to 50EUR per person including wine instead. Like here It is just some background music, not some shredder metal set to 11.

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  30. Re: Loss of civility by reanjr · · Score: 1

    If you want quiet, check the book out.

  31. Like companies offices by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

    Open spaces, high ciment ceilings, minimal furniture, ventilation though the floor (acts like a drum when walking, and pushes dust upwards), ... Not fun. At work we have little choice, restaurants we do! Take out , other places, ... even McDonalds is rebuilding their âoedining roomsâ to provide more intimacy. No open cafeteria style bunch of tables around. I hope they set a trend.

  32. A vote for acoustic panels by PuddleBoy · · Score: 1

    I share the dislike of really loud restaurants - you're usually there to socialize, not exercise your vocal chords.

    On a related topic, I have a home office with a nice audio system and I wondered about the benefits of acoustics panels, since I thought I could hear echo in the room. So I bought a kit from Audimute (https://www.audimute.com/). It had 24 12"x24" panels and hardware to mount them on the walls.

    I interspersed them with photographs (at least a couple panels on each wall) and also put a number near the floor in the corners behind the speakers.

    While not a radical change, it was noticeable and definitely for the better. Sound from the speakers had fewer frequency ranges that seemed to buzz or self-reinforce. (cutting down standing waves). I could no longer say that I could hear slap echo.

    I would highly recommend the use of acoustic panels - absolutely no doubt that they make a noticeable difference. Can't understand why they are not used in more public places - they're not really very expensive.

    1. Re:A vote for acoustic panels by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      We had a machine room that was painful to work in. Your ears would ring if you didn't wear hearing protection. Raised floors, hard surfaces and a hard ceiling are a perfect storm. We installed Sonex panels on the ceiling. A nice improvement. Still couldn't hold a phone call in there but you didn't need hearing protection.

    2. Re:A vote for acoustic panels by kencurry · · Score: 1

      I recently did a remodel, very modern in style . I re-installed my Bose 5 - 1 wall mount direct/reflecting speakers I've had for years. Upon first play, I was thinking, wow i don't remember that over-the-top reverb I was hearing in Sting's "if i ever loose my faith in you." next up steely dan, still I'm hearing wayyy too much reverb. Took me a few tracks to realize that my sleek modern remodel with wood floors was the cause. Just adding a rug in the room helped.

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  33. nothing to do with acoustics. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    people like it loud.

  34. Clueless geeks, I'll explain.... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Someone has to organize the restaurant outing AND they get judged by their choice. If the restaurant quality is good, noise is a PLUS. It adds to the buzz and confirms a good choice was made. Think of the alternative ; same restaurant in silence. Now conversations are actually awkward because it is too quiet. It is almost like a dance floor: crowded is way better than empty.

    1. Re:Clueless geeks, I'll explain.... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      hahaha the only thing you've mansplained is your opinion that you find shitty environments acceptable, and worse, fashionable. You're part of the problem. Way to go.

    2. Re: Clueless geeks, I'll explain.... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      How about a middle option? Not too loud, not too quiet? Wouldn't that be a solution here that could maintain amicability in our discourse?

      YOU LOUSY FUCKIN FUCKS?!? Huuuuuh?!!! Wouldjya like THAT? YA FUCKIN FAGGOTTY ASS FUCKTARDS WHO FUCK DEAD PUPPIES WHILE YOUR FATHERS WATCH AND MASTURBATE???

  35. Hard rooms are often unpleasant by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

    That why our local P F Changs was a one time only stop. The food was not a factor, being able to hear your dinner partner was.
    One local restaurant had the same problem, but now has tapestry on the walls. Makes for a much more pleasant experience.
    As for sports bars, forget it.

  36. Sound deadening by Maury+Markowitz · · Score: 1

    I was at a construction trade show a few years back and came across a booth selling sound deadening pads that you just hung on your wall. The show, like all of them, was very noisy. I strongly recall standing so one ear was turned towards it and the other away. The effect was astonishing, it was MUCH quieter on the pad side. Oddly, however, it was that ear that began hurting after a short time. I think the brain does some sort of scaling and is trying hard to pull more sound out of the quiet side.

    1. Re:Sound deadening by jbengt · · Score: 1

      I designed a pair of fan rooms, including banks of very noisy propeller exhaust fans along the outside wall. I had them put acoustical lining on the interior wall (which was a metal wall of an air handling unit). They didn't put acoustical treatment on the door, and you could hear a significant difference in sound level just walking past the door.

  37. Typically by nehumanuscrede · · Score: 1

    In my experience anyway, the more " Family Friendly " a restaurant is, the louder it is likely to be.
    If, instead, you eat anywhere that typically requires a reservation and has a dress code, it will be nice and quiet. ( albeit, $$$$ )

    A few reasons I dislike eating out these days:

    1) Kids screaming / crying / going full heathen and parents refusing to remove them from the dining area
    2) Multiple folks have a game running ( kiddos usually ), or live TV or music blasting from the smartphone
    3) Some places have half a dozen TV's running half a dozen different stations
    4) Self propagating loop in that folks need to talk louder to hear one another as background noise climbs
    5) Great aesthetic designs, but poor acoustical design considerations are a real issue in new construction

    Eventually, you're basically YELLING at the person sitting across from you just so you can hear one another.
    ( If I want that kind of experience I'll hit the local Sports Bar where it's expected )

    1. Re:Typically by Guybrush_T · · Score: 1

      Unfortunately American restaurants (even the high-end ones) are all sports bar. TVs on every possible flat surface on the walls. It seems Americans cannot enjoy a lunch without watching sport on TV.

      Quite weird for people coming from Europe, where having dinner at a restaurant and watching TV are totally incompatible.

    2. Re:Typically by serviscope_minor · · Score: 1

      Unfortunately American restaurants (even the high-end ones) are all sports bar. TVs on every possible flat surface on the walls. It seems Americans cannot enjoy a lunch without watching sport on TV.

      Which part of America? I lived in NM for a few years and it wasn't like that. I spent a bit of time in LA recently too and it also wasn't like that.

      Maybe it's a regional thing?

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    3. Re:Typically by Guybrush_T · · Score: 1

      I've seen that everywhere in the bay area + Dallas + Austin + pretty much everywhere I went in the US. Maybe it's just I don't know the good places but as an European it's quite striking.

  38. No Lie by The+Snazster · · Score: 1

    At a Zinburger Wine & Burger Bar they tried to seat us near the open kitchen and it was like a factory, so noisy we had to use gestures to help explain that the table was unacceptable. Finally got the best sheltered booth in the place but even it wasn't too great for trying to carry on a conversation. And no, I've got fantastic hearing, probably because I avoid these kinds of place. The only thing around that might not have been reflecting the noise was the napkins. The food was fine but we won't be back.

  39. Don't go by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    If the high-end joint is too loud, don't go.

    Twist in Atlanta has really good food, but the place is too loud so I haven't been back.

  40. By design by bill.pev · · Score: 1

    Restaurants can easily be designed to be quiet, and many are. But, to put all the baffling and special ceiling tiles and carpet and other aides in place costs well over 200k per restaurant to install, requires offsetting design considerations that can add more, and are harder to keep clean.

    Plus noisy makes it more of a "scene," and a scene adds to the impression of popularity, so its a trade-off there as well.

    1. Re:By design by jbengt · · Score: 1

      There's nothing special about acoustical ceiling tile. It's cheaper than gyp board or wood ceilings.

  41. Follow the money by Impy+the+Impiuos+Imp · · Score: 1

    Guarantee if you dig deep enough, this is pushed by some law firm looking to stir up a class action lawsuit.

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  42. Cause and Effect by JBMcB · · Score: 1

    Which is why stuff like this exists:

    https://www.soundproofcow.com/...

    And this:
    http://www.acousticsfirst.com/...

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  43. Where is OSHA? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    I don't understand where OSHA is in all of this. After the people at the local burrito shop are saying "what?" to me constantly I started pulling out the decimeter on my phone and thinking "yup, that's why". How is it that these employees are allowed to work like this?

  44. Farts are magic by AndyKron · · Score: 1

    I went to Red Robin once. With their brick floors it was so loud I couldn't hear myself fart. I've never gone back because what's the use of farting if you can't hear it?

  45. What restaurant architects don't realize... by Applehu+Akbar · · Score: 1

    Even been to a Black Angus? Restaurants with those high-backed booths creating private spaces are the quietest in the world. But that's not how things are done today, as TFA indicates. People who use hearing aids are the ones who still like the quiet style of restaurant, because in a noisy one the cacophony is amplified along with the conversation, and they hear nothing.

  46. No mention of TVs? by DaveV1.0 · · Score: 1

    I can't believe the article didn't mention the ubiquitous televisions seem to be in many restaurants now, usually tuned to some sports game.

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  47. Re:Loss of civility by Oswald+McWeany · · Score: 1

    I've noticed even in university libraries people talk out loud, eat and drink.

    Probably the important word there is "University". At that age, people are either just past "peak rowdiness" or still in it. People tend to notice how they impact other people a little better as they get older.

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  48. awareness by deiksac · · Score: 1

    Sometime I do acoistics consulting for places like these. as has been said elsewhere - owners and designers usually have no clue that noise issues can and shoul be dealt with and forget to budget for this. Acoustics when incorporated in the design can look great and be cheaper than dealing with the issue after all surfaces are finished. Another thing that shocked me - my living is wooden floors and I work with a few architects - when asked them whether they came accross the topic of interier acoustics during their studies they jointly replied that they didnt.

  49. Americans. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    From the POV of someone who lives in Asia (for a dozen years) this is because, well, Americans. And I'm only sort of trolling... reverse culture shock is a big, big deal. Hard to describe, but everything is just different, and things like loud restaurants are a shocking affront to the senses.

  50. Easy and safe sound treatment. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Most establishments like to put up art. You can buy ready to hang fire retardant sound panels that have printed fabric on them. If those are too expensive, you can buy then panels yourself and stretch fabric over them.

  51. Protip: eat in the bar section. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    I just finished up the Pasta Pass, and excepting for one time I ate in the main dining area, all of my visits were in the bar section. There are less booths, and furthest away from the restrooms and kitchen doors, which means less people.

    1. Re:Protip: eat in the bar section. by Ol+Olsoc · · Score: 1

      I just finished up the Pasta Pass, and excepting for one time I ate in the main dining area, all of my visits were in the bar section. There are less booths, and furthest away from the restrooms and kitchen doors, which means less people.

      Yeah, that does help.

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  52. It's all about cost cutting and efficiency by bjdevil66 · · Score: 1

    Places like Chipotles, Potbelly's, etc. that have the modern minimalist look and feel may call it "design", but they've really done it to save money on both initial investment and repairs.

    They also do it to save on cleaning cost/expenses and maintenance. Which is easier to keep clean - 1) padded, wooden seats around tables with tablecloths, and drapes over windows, or 2) steel countertops, hard window coverings and painted/sealed concrete floors?

    When combined with an increasingly narcissistic generation growing into adulthood that disregards old social mores about speaking in hushed tones in restaurants, I can barely hear any table conversation when dining indoors anymore.

    (And to you drunk assholes in the corner booth two tables down at *localSuburbanChainRestaurantOrSportsBar* on any given night - your rambling stories are NOT that boisterously funny. Keep them to yourselves.)

  53. But, but, but by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    But, it's essence of snail mucus trail fusion and locally sourced thistle weed? You can't not pay $200 for that, especially when they combine it with nuvo Wagyu tartar(Totally not $2/lb ground chuck).

  54. The facts Restaurant by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Restaurants, commercial spaces pipe in music to a) provide atmosphere, b) encourage repeat visits and c) sell more product.

    We had a 2 hour loop tape in a restaurant which played the same 50 songs in the same order over and over from 10 AM - 11 PM.

    I knew how many hours I'd worked by remembering the song playing when I clocked in and whenever it was played again.

    The dB increase is aged distributed with younger crowd eateries having louder music - a cheap way to make it a party - to restaurants aimed at 'fine dining' / older persons having more subdued dB levels.

    My parents told me that they'd go to a restaurant without any ambient music and actually put a quarter in a jukebox and pick their own music.

    I've asked many times at overly loud places for the staff to turn down the music/noise as I'd like to talk to and actually hear my fellow diners.

    I started doing that when I was a teenager and didn't want to hear the equivalent obnoxious disco/rap/hiphop/pop popular at the time.

    1. Re:The facts Restaurant by arglebargle_xiv · · Score: 1

      I made a two-hour (or so) loop tape that started with generic elevator music, then after an hour or so slipped in the Lallakiss battle song. Then elevator music for awhile, then the battle song again. After that it came up with increasing frequency until it was just the battle song on loop play.

      May have dropped the Horst Wessel Song in there at some point as well.

      And then there was the Morbid Angel CD as hold music...

  55. USA is quieter than Australia by aberglas · · Score: 1

    I think due to climate, Australians (certainly here in Queensland) did away with carpets long ago. Very few restaurants where you can hear yourself think, let alone anyone else.

  56. Yeah right by Areyoukiddingme · · Score: 1

    But it also degrades the thing that eating out is meant to culture: a shared social experience that rejuvenates, rather than harms, its participants.

    Shared social experiences are enervating, not rejuvenating. I'm an introvert you insensitive clod.

  57. 3 Star Restaurants by TechyImmigrant · · Score: 1

    All the three Michelin star restaurants I have eaten in have been pretty quiet and it's been easy to hold a conversation across the table.

    No so for most of the non Michelin and somewhat upscale restaurants I've eaten in, where all surfaces are shiny and reflective.
     

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  58. not just restaurants, homes too! by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Homes have been trending with smooth floor surface and smooth ceiling (newer homes tend to have higher ceilings). No carpet, no popcorn ceiling. I notice people tend to talk louder now.

  59. More to this that you may think by kevmeister · · Score: 3, Interesting

    Several years ago, probably over a decade ago, slashdot published an article (that I failed to find) on restaurant noise. Yes, people were complaining about noisy restaurants back then.

    To summarize, a restaurant with dining on two floors set up one with hard surfaces, bare brick walls an an exposed ceiling. It was loud! The other was traditional high-end room with wood tables, drapes an other soft sound absorbent surfaces. It was very quiet. Both were serving the same "New American" menu from the same kitchen.

    After 6 months the "quiet" floor was closed and refitted to match the noisy floor because the loud floor was booked solid while the quiet floor always had available tables. The hypothesis was that noisy restaurants were perceived as "exciting" while quiet ones were "boring".

    The bottom line was that, no matter how much people complain about noise, they prefer that to quiet dining. Loud dining rooms are often very much by design, not acoustic incompetence.

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    1. Re:More to this that you may think by tekyemek · · Score: 1

      Several years ago, probably over a decade ago, slashdot published an article (that I failed to find) on restaurant noise. Yes, people were complaining about noisy restaurants back then.

      To summarize, a restaurant with dining on two floors set up one with hard surfaces, bare brick walls an an exposed ceiling. It was loud! The other was traditional high-end room with wood tables, drapes an other soft sound absorbent surfaces. It was very quiet. Both were serving the same "New American" menu from the same kitchen.

      After 6 months the "quiet" floor was closed and refitted to match the noisy floor because the loud floor was booked solid while the quiet floor always had available tables. The hypothesis was that noisy restaurants were perceived as "exciting" while quiet ones were "boring".

      The bottom line was that, no matter how much people complain about noise, they prefer that to quiet dining. Loud dining rooms are often very much by design, not acoustic incompetence.

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    2. Re:More to this that you may think by tekyemek · · Score: 1

      https://www.tekyemek.com/ Recipes for you. Best regards

  60. Dumbass architects by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    They will never fucking learn the basics of acoustics or hire experts who do know because all they care about is their stupid fucking art.

  61. Noise Sells Involvement by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Any game vendor understands the association of volume and involvement with the product. It's a cornerstone of the industry.

  62. It's not design aesthetics... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    ... it's sanitary design. In this age of extreme cost efficiency, the food service industry has realized that it's cheaper in the long run to use surfaces that are easy to clean quickly rather than carpet or cloth. Pure economics... but it results in everything having a "sanitized" look too, regardless of how much effort is spent trying to stylize it.

  63. Unfuckingbelievable by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    All this, and not a word as to the root cause. It has nothing to do with walls or ceilings' ability to absorb sound, but *everything* to do with cell phone conversations.

    It used to be you could have a face-to-face conversation in a restaurant in hushed tones. Now you just need *one* patron on his phone with bad reception, and everybody has to talk louder to drown him out. Given the number of people who take calls at restaurants, there should be no surprise.

    "Acoustics", my ass. How was this not even brought up once? Denial much?

  64. Depends by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    As a european, I can say that likely american restaurants are so noisy, because there are so many americans in them. Seriously, americans are one of the noisiest species on the planet - they even beat the spanish and that isn't easy :-)