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President Bush Flip-flopping on Gay Rights Issue?

An anonymous reader writes "In a move that has upset some in the GOP, George Bush has suddenly declared his support for civil unions for gay ane lesbian couples. Will such a move help or hurt him this late in the game?"

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  1. Unfortunately... by bizpile · · Score: 1

    Will such a move help or hurt him this late in the game?

    Unfortunately it won't hurt him. The Democrats seem to be a bit slow on jumping on all the "flip-flopping" (I hope I never hear that word again after tis election) that the President does and the Republican are too good at redirecting the public's attention when Bush does something stupid.

    1. Re:Unfortunately... by rhakka · · Score: 1

      Taking a stance closer towards tolerance should not hurt anyone.

      That said, too bad BOTH candidates are bigots on the whole matter.

    2. Re:Unfortunately... by wibs · · Score: 2, Insightful

      The thing with civil unions is that a lot of people don't see a big difference between them and "separate but equal." The only gay people that this really appeases are those who see it as but a step along the way to true equal rights.

      As a straight guy this doesn't affect me much, but I hope this shows his hardcore religious following just how strong his beliefs are. Like any other politician he's just doing what he thinks will get him elected, and that's what he always has been doing. Flip-flop is not a term exclusive to Kerry, it applies to anyone trying to get the most amount of votes they can.

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    3. Re:Unfortunately... by BrookHarty · · Score: 5, Insightful

      I believe in civil unions, For EVERYONE.

      Marriage is a religous act, and I believe in the seperation of Church and State. Simple solution, make everyone get Civil Union, and leave marriage upto the church.

      Oh wait, that makes too much sense.
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    4. Re:Unfortunately... by rhakka · · Score: 4, Interesting

      Marriage as an institution has existed as a legally binding institution for thousands of years. For a very, very long time it was a transfer of ownership of a woman from father to the new husband.

      Yet it's religious? Religions co-opted marriage. Marriage itself is neither inherently religious nor secular at this point. It has been one, the other or both for so long making such a statement is silly.

    5. Re:Unfortunately... by saden1 · · Score: 1

      This isn't a flaimbate or anything but why don't gays create their own churches which respect and tolerate gay marriage? I mean really, their are so many denominations as it stands one more couldn't hurt. Why not create their own denomination which recognizes their marriage on religious grounds?

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    6. Re:Unfortunately... by neurojab · · Score: 5, Insightful

      >Marriage itself is neither inherently religious nor secular at this point. It has been one, the other or both for so long making such a statement is silly.

      I'm sure that's true. It's also true that most people that are opposed to "gay marriage" are so opposed for religious reasons. Those that are in favor of the concept of gay marriage (call it a civil union or whatever) are not interested in barging into your local parish and demanding that God recognize their vows, nor are they interested in destroying "family values". The gay community just wants the same legal status as a heterosexual couple when it comes to patient's rights, wills, etc. The fact is that gay couples already have weddings and adopt children, and have done so long before any city or state started giving them marriage licenses. This "gay marriage" debate has nothing to do with that. This is all about the special secular legal status that a married couple gets if they're one male and one female, but no other combination thereof.

      The only way to give them this legal status and still satisfy the religious folks (who are convinced that a homosexual couple getting married somehow affects them in a negative way, but won't share the mechanism) is to seperate the notion of religious marriage from that of secular marriage.

      For once in his life, I agree with president Bush about something. Civil Unions are a good idea. I can't imagine why he was trying to ammend the constitution if that's really what he wants.

      That said, I don't think the notions of two "seperate but equal" legal statuses for the same thing is a good thing either. Let's define "marriage" in the churches and define "civil unions" in the legislature. I'm aware that means scrapping the word "marriage" from the law books, and I think that's a good thing. Perhaps we can clean up the alimony laws while we're at it to get rid of this pre-nup bullshit.

      BTW. I don't speak for the gay community... I'm a heterosexual that believes in equal rights for all.

    7. Re:Unfortunately... by TheWanderingHermit · · Score: 1

      I need to include a piece of background to make my point.

      All Christian churches use the Bible. When Jesus was alive, the Old Testament was already intact, however the New Testament was put together by what is now the Catholic church. Until Martin Luther, ALL Christian doctrine came ONLY from the Catholic church, and even later, after the Reformation, many Protestant churches still depended on teachings that were derived from teachings from the Catholic church.

      What most people don't know is that not only did the Church originally have no problem with things like prostitution, but that a number of other changes were made throughout the years (like banning marriage for priests because they would leave their estates to their kids -- so by banning marriage, they left their estates to the church). One of the was that, for a good while, not only was there no problem, in Christianity with same-sex marriages, but there were actually Christian ceremonies for same-sex marriages.

      And, if you go back to Jesus, his point was that our focus was to love God first, and others second -- to treat all with love. With that in mind, it seems pretty narrow minded for Christians to treat homosexuals with the same hatred and ignorance they once reserved (at least in America) for non-whites.

    8. Re:Unfortunately... by mintrepublic · · Score: 2, Informative

      Unitarian Universalists

      They'll take anyone ^_^

    9. Re:Unfortunately... by rhakka · · Score: 1

      why does it have anything at all to do with church? A hell of a lot of people don't get married in religious ceremonies you know.

    10. Re:Unfortunately... by rhakka · · Score: 1

      I don't have a problem of getting the state of of marriage, and simply conferring "civil union" status on religious marriages in addition to their own secular process (for convenience).

      However, I don't think that will ever happen, and you're just playing semantics at that point anyway, so I see no real value in it. Either the unions are equal or they are not, and if they are, there is no need to change the name. What religions do is up to religions, and if you're a gay catholic, you still can't make the catholic church perform a wedding for you, no matter what the state does, so it's a non-issue there.

    11. Re:Unfortunately... by Bitsy+Boffin · · Score: 4, Insightful

      That's not the problem. The problem is that if the marriage is not recognized by the government, then it does not give any of the legal and monetary privileges that go with marriage.

      Effectivly the state (government) discriminates between long-term commmitted homosexual couples and long-term commmitted heterosexual couples based only on thier relative gender; last I checked sexual discrimination goes against fundamental issues of human rights.

      Any body (church) can say "yep, you're married, you may now kiss the other person", but if the government won't say "yep, we see you're married, so you get x, y and z privileges" then the value of the marriage is legally naught (even though perhaps religiously significant).

      The solution to the problem is simple, SEPARATE CHURCH AND STATE. The state can recognize a union between any two people (even regardless of wether either person is already unioned with another), giving the privileges presently associated with marriage. The church can recognize a marriage between any two people (or, unlikely, more) but without any connection to the state.

      People can get neither, one, or both, depending on thier wishes; and of course grandfather existing recognized marriages into a state recognized union.

      While we're at it, get rid of any inkling of monetary 'rewards' for unions (marriage), why should people who don't find "that special someone" not be rewarded.

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    12. Re:Unfortunately... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Not what is now the Catholic Church. What is now the Catholic and Orthodox Churches. The Orthodox Church is exactly as old as the Catholic Church, since they were the same Church before they split (long before Luther), so not all Christian doctrine came from the Catholic church. The Orthodox Church has nothing against married priests, it doesn't discourage it at all. And prostitution has always been wrong in the eyes of the Church.

      The Christian same-sex "marriages" were not sexual ("making of brothers/sisters").

      Christians are not supposed to hate gays - that's not the stance of any major denomination (I'm assuming you'll find fringe groups that preach that). Christians are supposed to love the sinner but hate the sin. There's nothing wrong with, for example, a gay attending church, or the people in the church accepting and embracing said person. It's what they're supposed to do. The choices people make with their lives are between them and God.

      Christians are supposed to show their love for Christ in their treatment of others - treat everyone with the same love and respect they would Jesus.

      As for Christians hating and being ignorant about non-whites (slavery)... that was not a Christian vs non-Christian thing. That was a cultural and political split. The hatred was far from exclusive to Christians exclusive (and it didn't originate from Christianity either). There were many Christian abolitionists.

    13. Re:Unfortunately... by Associate · · Score: 1
      people who don't find "that special someone"
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    14. Re:Unfortunately... by SpaceLifeForm · · Score: 2
      The problem is that if the marriage is not recognized by the government, then it does not give any of the legal and monetary privileges that go with marriage.

      And the reason for those laws (that discriminate against homosexual couples) is that homosexual couples will not breed. The system wants growth in the form of more consumers, and babies are consumers.

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    15. Re:Unfortunately... by unapersson · · Score: 1

      And the reason for those laws (that discriminate against homosexual couples) is that homosexual couples will not breed.

      Not with each other maybe, but homosexual couples do have children through other means: artificial insemination, surrogacy, adoption etc.

    16. Re:Unfortunately... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Who does the terrorist want to win? Who will you vote for? Proof here: http://www.drudgereport.com/abct2.htm

    17. Re:Unfortunately... by mintrepublic · · Score: 1

      As for Christians hating and being ignorant about non-whites (slavery)... that was not a Christian vs non-Christian thing. That was a cultural and political split.

      Yes, that is true. The more I learn about history between reading and going to random lectures around Ann Arbor, the more I realize just about every event is somehow based on money, or economic success, and things like that. i.e. Slavery in the South, England wanting to keep American colonies, Japan expanding in the Pacific, and even the Crusades were economically motivated for some people.

    18. Re:Unfortunately... by rlwhite · · Score: 1

      Marriage can still be a legally binding institution. Let the religious institutions write up contracts that abide by their beliefs. The couple can choose their church and their marriage contract. That way, if the Catholics don't want to allow divorce or whatever, they simply write it into the contracts. You can even specify the church as arbiter in the contract and let them handle things like divorce hearings. The law becomes more flexible to serve the diverse religious needs of the people.

    19. Re:Unfortunately... by CTachyon · · Score: 2, Interesting
      While we're at it, get rid of any inkling of monetary 'rewards' for unions (marriage), why should people who don't find "that special someone" not be rewarded.

      Actually, author Jonathan Rauch makes the case in his book that one of the principal reasons that we have marriage -- completely ignoring the "shouting points" of love, children, etc. -- is that a couple making a promise to take care of each other in hard times is a boon for society in general, since it means that support networks like extended family, charities, and welfare don't have to spend as much time and money taking care of that couple when something drastic happens. From this perspective, it makes perfect sense to give couples a slight tax break.

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    20. Re:Unfortunately... by St.+Arbirix · · Score: 1

      Marriage as an institution has existed as a legally binding institution for thousands of years. For a very, very long time it was a transfer of ownership of a woman from father to the new husband.

      Yet it's religious? Religions co-opted marriage. Marriage itself is neither inherently religious nor secular at this point. It has been one, the other or both for so long making such a statement is silly.


      Finding a lifelong partner seems to be a human characteristic. It was religion that formalized it into some union beyond mankind. It was government by religion that made it ownership of one person by another.

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    21. Re:Unfortunately... by pfdietz · · Score: 1

      So why are hetereosexual marriages allowed in which one or both partners are sterile or past the age of child bearing?

    22. Re:Unfortunately... by rhakka · · Score: 1

      that's convnenient. Now please name the religion that first started marriage. I'll wait.

      It was still considered ownership up until the early twentieth century in america; america was not "government by religion"; so try again.

      Like I said it is impossible to call marriage religious or secular at this point. It's been blended and pulled around in both directions for a very long time.

    23. Re:Unfortunately... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1, Funny

      La la la la la la la la ....

      I'm not listening....

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      Respectfully,
      The Religious Right

    24. Re:Unfortunately... by CTachyon · · Score: 1
      This isn't a flaimbate or anything but why don't gays create their own churches which respect and tolerate gay marriage? I mean really, their are so many denominations as it stands one more couldn't hurt. Why not create their own denomination which recognizes their marriage on religious grounds?

      Let's see... there's the Metropolitan Community Church (founded in 1968 specifically for gays), the Unitarian Universalist Association (a very liberal Christian sect that officially endorsed same-sex ceremonies back in 1984, and was performing them at a local level 10 years before that), and numerous other branches of Christian and other faiths that have recognized same-sex unions over the years.

      The problem isn't religious marriage. Gays have had religious marriage for years. It's a non-issue. The problem is that the government refuses to recognize the civil, secular aspects of those marriages. It refuses to give them the little piece of paper that gives them things like hospital visitation rights, next of kin status, etc.

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    25. Re:Unfortunately... by CTachyon · · Score: 1

      What if one or both spouses convert to another religion?

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    26. Re:Unfortunately... by Bitsy+Boffin · · Score: 1

      I guess that's a point, I hadn't considered that before. But I'm not sure that it's valid to say that committed partner relationships lead to a lower cost for the state.

      For example, may people currently get married either as a result of, or in preparation for, having children. Children generally go to school. Schooling is generally paid, or at least subsidised by the state, and I think I'd be fairly safe to say that it costs more to send a child through the school system, than it does to keep an adult healthy and happy. And of course there is the healthcare cost for the mother of the children as well.

      So by that reasoning alone, the savings made to the general tax payer by couples providing care for each other would at least be equalled by the costs of supporting the children coming from that couple.

      Not to mention, if that were truly the case then homosexual couples should be in tax break heaven - far fewer homosexual couples have children, and yet they provide equal care for each other.

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    27. Re:Unfortunately... by Tanktalus · · Score: 1

      A heterosexual couple who can't breed (infertility of whatever form) is disabled, not disordered. This is sort of like saying that because a human can't see, that he isn't human anymore. The nature of humans is to be able to see, but we do have disabled humans who cannot.

      A homosexual couple's nature is not to be able to procreate, while a heterosexual couple's nature is to be able to procreate. A homosexual couple who cannot procreate is not abnormal, while a heterosexual couple who cannot procreate is disabled. There's a huge difference. We cannot legislate away nature!

    28. Re:Unfortunately... by gi-tux · · Score: 1

      I am sorry, but I think you are totally off the mark here. The only reason for marriage is so that the human race can continue. Quite a few of the "benefits" of marriage are things that allow a man to provide for his wife and family while allowing the woman to be a primary care giver for the family.
      While I realize that a "stay-at-home Mom" isn't necessarily a politically correct concept these days, it is still the intent of the institution of marriage. Many of our laws concerning marriage were intended to allow the woman to quit working and raise children. We have laws concerning medical insurance coverage, etc to protect these women that have a full time job of caring for children.
      Also while many marriages are carried out in churches, if you carefully inspect the Bible (I can't speak for the Koran as I haven't studied it), you will not find that marriage is a religious ritual. Yes marriage is an institution that was created by God from the beginning, but it is not a religious state. Also, marriage is already a civil union. When I got married, I had to purchase a license from the state to be married. Without that license, there was no union. Also, I wasn't married in a church that I attended nor have I become a member of that church at any time. In all truthfulness, I don't even consider it a valid religious organization. It was simply a ceremony to complete the union of marriage between a myself and my (now) wife.
      As for rewards, the almost 20 years that I have spent with my wife so far is a wonderful reward. So are the two children that we have. I would have married her and we would have raised these children whether there were "monetary 'rewards'" or not. However, those laws concerning marriage and the rewards that go along with it, allow my wife and I to raise our children in the way that we feel is best for them.

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    29. Re:Unfortunately... by Kick+the+Donkey · · Score: 1

      And so what if they do breed? There's no evidence to suggest that a homosexual couple will raise homosexual kids.

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    30. Re:Unfortunately... by kalidasa · · Score: 1

      That's called separate but equal. s/gays/blacks/ and you'll see why not.

    31. Re:Unfortunately... by Danse · · Score: 2, Interesting

      And the reason for those laws (that discriminate against homosexual couples) is that homosexual couples will not breed. The system wants growth in the form of more consumers, and babies are consumers.

      Then they should just give incentives for having kids instead of for marriage. Why give benefits to useless infertile people? Or people that just don't want kids?

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    32. Re:Unfortunately... by Poppler · · Score: 1

      Simple solution, make everyone get Civil Union, and leave marriage upto the church.

      So as a heterosexual atheist, should I be allowed to get married? The state is willing to perform the marriage for me; why not for gays?

      No one is saying churches would have to recognize gay marriages. As long as the state recognizes and performs marriage, it should be available to all people.

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    33. Re:Unfortunately... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      If only one person converts, then you go look at the contract to see how it specifies to handle such a thing. If both people convert, presumably they can renegotiate the contract. Any sensible marriage contract would have a clause allowing amendments and changes agreed to by both parties.

    34. Re:Unfortunately... by ealar+dlanvuli · · Score: 1

      They already exist, and many mainstream churches mary gay couples as well.

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    35. Re:Unfortunately... by gi-tux · · Score: 1
      I don't get this ownership deal that keeps being brought up. It seems that somewhere there is a misconception concerning marriage. There is no indication in the New Testament (I can't speak for the Koran as I haven't studied it) that ownership of a woman is transferred from father to husband in a marriage. The only concept of ownership is in 1 Corinthians 7:4.
      The wife hath not power of her own body, but the husband: and likewise also the husband hath not power of his own body, but the wife.

      And this seems to indicate a joint ownership of each other. Now the man was made head of the house, which does imply authority, but it does not imply ownership. However, a good leader (head) accepts input and criticism from others and thus it would not imply ruling with an iron hand.
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    36. Re:Unfortunately... by macromegas · · Score: 1

      Its so silly a system that it has worked in Germany since 1876 and survived massive changes of governmental structures (monarchy, republic, nazis, federal republic) .... of course there's also some political background to it, mainly Bismarck`s goal to reduce the clergys (especially the catholic, since he suspected their loyalties not exactly in tune with the newly formed nation) influence and to make room for a more episcopal (hence easier to control) clergy. A conflict actually dating back to the middle ages and the battles between kaiser and pope about the investiture of bishops, nevertheless all of that's not present in the public consciousness but the institution of secular marriage remains unquestioned till today, resulting in whole generations happily enjoying their marriage without any visit to church, just to the county hall. Maybe revolting to GOPers... but civil union or secular marriage (I'll grant the parent that marriage is not a religious term - Actually I strongly dislike the way the religious right acts as it holds a monopoly of definition on this one) is seen as a treaty between consenting adults, nothing more nothing less. Assuming that its only logical to open that for gay/lesbian couples, too. Whereever that topic is raised it seems to be back to the old battles again however, but to me this is a real litmus test for the maturity of societies, for its ability to make descissions based on proper systematic thinking or on the diffuse emotional leftovers of centuries of religious indoctrination, more specific this case homophobia.

      On a broader scale this is the conflict of different means of legitimation, the historically linked to monarchy concept of divine right (or faith) opposed to represantation of the peoplle by rationalistic means (reason). Should ring a bell... the bush dynasty ... tea anyone?

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    37. Re:Unfortunately... by JohnFluxx · · Score: 1

      hmm. Perhaps we should restrict marriage to only couples that have babies then.

      What if the gay couple adopt?

    38. Re:Unfortunately... by Shakrai · · Score: 1

      We cannot legislate away nature!

      Some right-wingers would disagree with you on that one. They are perfectly happy trying to legislate or fund away nature when it suits their religious base.

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    39. Re:Unfortunately... by JohnFluxx · · Score: 2, Insightful

      "The only reason for marriage is so that the human race can continue."

      Someone else pointed out that marriage is also for helping each other (for when one person is down, or doesn't have a job, etc), which benefits society.

      (assuming by continue you are referring to breeding)

    40. Re:Unfortunately... by neurojab · · Score: 1

      >you're just playing semantics at that point anyway, so I see no real value in it. Either the unions are equal or they are not, and if they are, there is no need to change the name.

      It definately is a semantic play... but remember that semantics is the core of politics. The words you use to talk about something influence how you think about it. If a word has certain connotations that are inappropriate given the usage, it's appropriate to look for a new word. In this case, the word "marriage" has religious connotations that are inappropriate to the civil context. For instance, the Catholics view "marriage" as a holy sacrement. IMO it would be easier to change the word than to convince a critical mass of people that marriage in a religious sense is not necessarily the same as marriage in a civil sense.

    41. Re:Unfortunately... by rhakka · · Score: 1

      I have no idea what you are responding to. I stated that it's silly to call marriage religious. You seem to agree?

    42. Re:Unfortunately... by gi-tux · · Score: 1

      No, I wasn't just referring to breeding. I was referring to being a partner or "help meet for him" as mentioned in Genesis 2:18. It wasn't good for man to be alone and thus God made woman.
      This means someone that is there for you at all times. Someone with which you can spend your entire life. One of the goals is breeding and producing off-spring, but that is just part of it.

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    43. Re:Unfortunately... by Dyolf+Knip · · Score: 1
      The thing with civil unions is that a lot of people don't see a big difference between them and "separate but equal."

      Not least of all because civil unions are a classic example of "separate but equal". http://www.glad.org/rights/OP7-marriagevcu.shtml

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    44. Re:Unfortunately... by rhakka · · Score: 1

      actually, the one thing you can say about the vast majority of homosexuals is that they did have heterosexual parents. maybe heterosexuals should stop breeding so we won't have any more gays!

    45. Re:Unfortunately... by llefler · · Score: 1

      "flip-flopping" (I hope I never hear that word again after tis election)

      This one isn't bothering me, yet. But if you mention a "wake-up call" and that you have a goal to "exceed customers expectations", I'm going to join the NRA and build a cabin in the woods.

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    46. Re:Unfortunately... by macromegas · · Score: 1


      Finding a lifelong partner seems to be a human characteristic


      I beg your pardon? If youre refering to any kind of a natural characteristic, thats rather rubbish. We form tribes, thats it. Everything else is no more than a mere coincidence or a result of social structures.
      For the longest time humans had not even the slightest idea of how reproduction works, let alone any concept of monogamy. How about 'jus prima noctis' (ouh - spelling?) or dynastical marriages (Henry VII...)? How about divorce rates or single parents? Seems theres not so much pointing in the direction of lifelong partnership and hardly is it natures choice for mankind. Now add that human females are the only mammals I can think of who are procreative during the whole year ...
      Nah, humans are not monogamic, but under certain circumstances theyre very careful not to get caught.

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    47. Re:Unfortunately... by E_elven · · Score: 1

      Homosexual couple can procreate, just not with eachother.

      Furthermore, one could assume that the immediate social network for a child in that environment would be on average larger because they would either A) just have two parents like everyone else* or B) also know the biological parent(s) (e.g. a male and female couple 'team up' to breed and split the kids).

      *Yes, yes. But heterosexuals get divorced too.

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    48. Re:Unfortunately... by macromegas · · Score: 1

      oops, I guess I mixed up - ah too many a time. Sorry, if Ive been confusing. Yes, indeed I agree, all the rest was just intended to point out that civil union is not such a new concept really and has proven to be a reliable solution.

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    49. Re:Unfortunately... by St.+Arbirix · · Score: 1

      that's convnenient. Now please name the religion that first started marriage. I'll wait.

      It was still considered ownership up until the early twentieth century in america; america was not "government by religion"; so try again.


      The point I was making wasn't that religion created marriage, it was that marriage as a form of ownership of one person over another was created by religion. For a very, very long time it was a transfer of ownership of a woman from father to the new husband. ...in the religion of the people who started this country. It was religion that made marriage more than a spiritual union and made it a civil union as well. That the United States adopted this means that the U.S. was accepting marriage as it was used by a religious government.

      The tie between marriage and civil union was bound by religious government. Many religious governments did not do this. The Aztec and Inca for example. The Ashanti, Zulu, and Ghana before colonization.

      Since our government is not religious or spiritual and it's supposed to be separated from religion there's no reason why a ceremony such as marriage, which is spiritual in nature, should still be considered the same thing as a civil union. It was convenient at first, but when marriage in a religion was given special benefits that marriage by the state (civil union) did not provide we created a need to make them distinct and to remove the civil benefits of the religious union and apply them to the civil union. If the government wants to throw civil union in with marriage that's ok, but if people want a union fully recognized and appreciated by a non-religious government they shouldn't need a union spiritual in nature.

      it is impossible to call marriage religious or secular at this point. It's been blended and pulled around in both directions for a very long time.
      ...which is why it needs to change now. If government needed to be pulled apart after being both religious and secular then marriage does too.

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    50. Re:Unfortunately... by iuyterw · · Score: 1
      And the reason for those laws (that discriminate against homosexual couples) is that homosexual couples will not breed

      That's simply not true. The reason is bigotry. Plain and simple. The push to deny gays and lesbians these rights is coming from conservatives who are disgusted by homosexuality itself, not from businesses or people who are worried about birth rate decreases as a result.

    51. Re:Unfortunately... by St.+Arbirix · · Score: 1
      The new testament also leaves out four of the commandments. To get to the ones about having no more important gods, not worshipping idols, not using "god" as a swear word, and going to church on Sunday you'd have to go back to the Old Testament, which is where we also conviently find those ownership rules you were wondering about. Pick and choose.
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      He saith unto him, Which? Jesus said, Thou shalt do no murder, Thou shalt not commit adultery, Thou shalt not steal, Thou shalt not bear false witness, Honour thy father and [thy] mother: and, Thou shalt love thy neighbour as thyself.
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    52. Re:Unfortunately... by St.+Arbirix · · Score: 1

      Thanks. I tend to believe the same thing but don't really have any proof to back it up. Monogamy itself is easily arguable given all the polygamous cultures in history. That the numbers of polyandrous cultures is so dwarfed by the polygynous ones it would seem that the majority of the people going for a single person to have a committed relationship with have been women. Naturally or socially though...? That's still debatable, though my girlfriend is convinced it's natural. I like her.

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    53. Re:Unfortunately... by JohnFluxx · · Score: 1

      hmm. I'm confused by your initial statement then:
      "I am sorry, but I think you are totally off the mark here."

      I've read the post you replied, and read your post. I'm not sure where you disagree.

      What point are you making that contradicts the post you replied to?

    54. Re:Unfortunately... by rhakka · · Score: 1

      fair enough, good post.

    55. Re:Unfortunately... by danudwary · · Score: 1

      OK. How then what if:
      - Two men fall in love. One gets a sex change. Now can they get married? Are they "disabled"?
      - Two women fall in love. One gets raped, gets pregnant, and chooses not to get an abortion. Now this couple is procreating, through no fault or choice of their own. Can they get married? Or are they still "disordered"?

      Your black and white definitions are stupid and meaningless in today's society.

    56. Re:Unfortunately... by AuMatar · · Score: 1

      So- the government doesn't recognize marriages for women over the age of menopause, people who are sterile, men who are impotent, and couples who don't want kids? And of course the government forces the woman to be pregnant before performing the marriage, to make sure they are capable of having kids. And if she miscarries they cancel the whole thing/

      Oh wait, they don't. So thats a bullshit argument. When the government starts doing the above, THEN you'll be able to make this argument.

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    57. Re:Unfortunately... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      But they do adopt. Search for it on the seattle times page, and you'll read the actually really impressive stories of the carfully chosen couples who ultimately got Washington's interpretation of marrige struck down.

      They were of course the ridiculous exception to the norm, But reading their stories, if they can't get married, no one should be allowed to.

      Marrige is a legal arrangement plain and simple. It's not contingent upon a union producing children, it's not contigent upon any kind of religious ceremony, and occasionally any kind of anything what-so-ever (common-law marrige).

    58. Re:Unfortunately... by macromegas · · Score: 1

      I agree that's a reassuring point of view your gf has taken, and actually I'd stfu for practical and strategical reasons if mine was part of the discussion. ;) The girl can be so uh logical its frightening...
      Natural or social seems to be the question it boils down to. Hard to decide as nowadays its all blended and society is nature to most. Both share one common characteristic, theyve been here long before any individual, marriage and mountains alike. Our limited timeframe makes it hard to perceive changes or even comprehend that whats made by men can be changed by men, too.

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    59. Re:Unfortunately... by N3WBI3 · · Score: 1
      For example, may people currently get married either as a result of, or in preparation for, having children. Children generally go to school. Schooling is generally paid, or at least subsidised by the state, and I think I'd be fairly safe to say that it costs more to send a child through the school system, than it does to keep an adult healthy and happy. And of course there is the healthcare cost for the mother of the children as well.

      And when that healthy adult becomes old and there is not tax base to support them is that a better situation? Do you know why SS is in trouble? in the 70's there were more than 35 people paying in for every person receiving, now we are down to 3:1

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    60. Re:Unfortunately... by N3WBI3 · · Score: 1

      I have always said all conflicts in the history of man were based on resources (gold, food, sex, oil) or direct power (alliances). Leaders have always used something to rally around what used to be God has been replaced with Democracy/Communism/The Crown ..

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    61. Re:Unfortunately... by N3WBI3 · · Score: 1
      so as a heterosexual atheist, should I be allowed to get married? The state is willing to perform the marriage for me; why not for gays?

      Try reading again... Yes you should be able to be married *By a Church*, so should a Homosexual if a church will do so. The government should only confer Civil unions for both you and a homosexual.

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    62. Re:Unfortunately... by Bitsy+Boffin · · Score: 1

      That's what I'm saying - why should people who get married recieve monetary incentives (tax breaks) when the cause or result of the marriage is often children who end up costing the state more.

      It's not as if people need encouragement to have children.

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    63. Re:Unfortunately... by N3WBI3 · · Score: 1

      Because children do not cost the state more, the children grow up and pay taxes that support the older generation..

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    64. Re:Unfortunately... by mintrepublic · · Score: 1

      And to think, Tolkien told us this a long time ago... the one Ring survived "through the greed of men."

    65. Re:Unfortunately... by ColdZero · · Score: 0

      I thought what made us different that some monkey swinging in a tree was our ability to think beyond instincts and nature. I guess not.

    66. Re:Unfortunately... by gi-tux · · Score: 1

      Talk about picking. Why not look at Ephesians 4:6 which says "One God and Father of all..." That pretty well covers no other gods. And while you are there look at verse 5 which says "One Lord, one faith, one baptism," that pretty well covers idol worship. Matthew 12:36 pretty well covers taking the Lord's name in vain when it speaks about "every idle word" and actually goes further than just taking the Lord's name in vain. And I believe if you look at Acts 20:7 we can cover worship on Sunday, "And upon the first day of the week, when the disciples came together to break bread..."

      But to a small degree you are correct, there is no commandment to remember the sabbath and keep it holy. Sunday worship is different than the sabbath. Thankfully we don't have quite as restrictive rules as the Hebrew people on that.

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    67. Re:Unfortunately... by Lord+Kano · · Score: 1

      Marriage is a religous act, and I believe in the seperation of Church and State.

      Is that right? Please then explain to me how I had a "civil marriage ceremony".

      I am a pagan, the woman I married is a Catholic. We couldn't have a religious wedding. We had a civil wedding. Yet we were married.

      LK

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    68. Re:Unfortunately... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      You almost had me fooled there.

      Respectfully... Ha ha ha - that was funny.

    69. Re:Unfortunately... by geminidomino · · Score: 2, Interesting

      I am sorry, but I think you are totally off the mark here. The only reason for marriage is so that the human race can continue.

      I call BS. As far too many paternity suits show, marriage is utterly IRRELEVANT to procreation.

    70. Re:Unfortunately... by martinX · · Score: 1

      The only reason for marriage is so that the human race can continue.

      Monogamous marriage was invented so ugly guys could have sex.

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    71. Re:Unfortunately... by mintrepublic · · Score: 1

      Actually, except in parts of New England, UU's aren't officially Christian anymore. Some of their members are, but there are also plenty of every other kind. In fact, a lot of the pagan families I know of go there as a church, more for the fellowship and networking than anything else.

    72. Re:Unfortunately... by thinkit2b · · Score: 1

      Hmm So what is it? Is Bush for Civil Unions when he was against them before? A real flip flopper! That Christian conservative base wants him to seek an amendment that would make same sex marriage illegal. So that must be what he wants? After all he wanted to amend the Constitution. Lets take a look at that amendment and see what he really supports. Marriage in the United States shall consist only of the union of a man and a woman. Neither this Constitution or the constitution of any state, nor state or federal law, shall be construed to require that marital status or the legal incidents thereof be conferred on unmarried couples or group Defines marriage for sure but disallow civil unions? No. I dont think so. (And either do the constitutional scholars that helped fashion it-or the discussion surrounding it when it was proposed.) On this issue a flip flopper? No. A cold harded conservative that believes that long standing social institutions should be defined by voters via the election/leglislative/amendment processes instead of via judicial fiat. For sure!

    73. Re:Unfortunately... by thinkit2b · · Score: 1

      1. Im a conservative. 2. I know gay people who I would consider honorable and good people. 3. I haven't given much thought to gay marriage (however see 1 and 4)My biggest concern is where do you draw the line. Polygamy? I need more reason and open debate. (If thats still possible in our country) 4. I do not believe (as does the constitution) that the courts have a right to set public policy. Public policy is set by the peoples' representatives. (If you don't like the policy vote the person(s) out.) 5. The right to marriage is not a guaranteed right. Heterosexual marriage is excepted because of our long standing traditions and laws. Other forms of marriage in our society have no such track record and hence no preemptive right for me to accept it no questions asked. 6. I believe that debates on this issue should be left to the states. Where the people in a smaller political spectrum can debate it democratically and legislate accordingly. 7. People in the east are not like people in the west or central states for that matter. No one has the right to force their views apon me just as i can not force my views apon them. Going around the democratic and legislative processes and seeking victories via another court mandate will further erode the democratic institutions that have made our country so great. 8. If gays and their families and friends believe they are right and use reason and resoluteness they will eventually get their point across. If you still don't believe an unpopular idea can become law I suggest you see prohibition. 7. Using the court system to forward a social agenda is not what a democratic republic is. Having the people decide via demoratic process is. 8. I suggest you read the desenting opinion of Roe-vs-Wade. The disenters opinion is prophetic when you view today's national politics. 9. Getting these highly sensitive topics; i.e. abortion, gay marriage out of the national debate is paramount to the health of our republic. Remember all powers and rights not specifically mentioned in the Constitution are delegated to the states. I suggest we start following the laws as they are written. 10. Tyranny of the minority is no different then tyranny of the majority. Its still tyranny. Let the people speak. If they are wrong at least its their decsion and not some unelected government official.

    74. Re:Unfortunately... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Well, actually it's offensive and immoral. It's one thing to accept a fellow human being and be tolerant in spite of their faults. It's something else to actively endorse these problems, especially those that engage in destructive, rude, immoral and offensive conduct.

    75. Re:Unfortunately... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      How exactly is someone getting married "tyranny"? How does it personally injure you? That's where I don't understand the anti-gay marriage agenda. Someone else wants the same rights that you have, giving it to them affects you in no way whatsoever, but you still oppose it. Because you're in the majority, you win. That is the definition of tyranny.

      If you're interested in reading, I suggest "On Liberty" by John Stuart Mill. Your rights stop where mine begin. Everyone should have the same rights.

    76. Re:Unfortunately... by AvitarX · · Score: 1

      We have homosexuals for evolutionary reasons. Therefore it is natural.

      It has to do with the fact that if 10% of a community does not have to worry about childbearing then it is a bennifit to that community as a whole. So communities with a genetic make up that was likly to produce homosexuals 10% of the time thrived.

      I don't see how a long term homosexual couple is entitles to less then a Britny Spears 3 day marriage (which I find offensive to the institution of marriage, but am not trying to make illegel).

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    77. Re:Unfortunately... by Squiffy · · Score: 1

      Well, actually it's offensive and immoral. It's one thing to accept a fellow human being and be tolerant in spite of their faults. It's something else to actively endorse these problems, especially those that engage in destructive, rude, immoral and offensive conduct.

      I agree. That's why I support your right to be a homophobe, but do not endorse your desire to legislate your particular version of aesthetics and morality. It's why I cannot endorse your desire to impose your subjective standards of living on everyone else just because you can't appreciate the sea of perspectives that exists beyond your little bubble.

      Who are you to call homosexuality a problem? By what measure is it a problem? Who is harmed?

      Oh wait, don't tell me. You have God on your side. That makes you right and everyone else wrong. Well guess what, I have God on my side too! That's right, I'm a prophet and I've started my own religion. It's called the Church of Squiffy. Hogwash, you say? Prove it.

      That's the thing. Faith. My faith says that homosexual marriage is a-okay, and it's *every* *bit* as strong as your faith that says it's not. Who the hell are you to suggest that your faith should legally trump anyone else's? What, you have a Book? I could write a Book that would make way more sense to the common reader than any old text you have.

      Perhaps you have some psychological argument that calls homosexuality an illness. If so, then the APA disagrees with you.

      Have I put words in your mouth? Sorry if I did. I have a sense that I'm spot-on, though. Besides, what I've said goes out to everyone behind the Homophobic Curtain, including the great portion of you who are tired of the separation of church and state.

      And while I'm on the soapbox, let me also say that I'm from the U.S. I'm proud of my nation's Constitution as it stands and I didn't vote for the throwback that we currently have in office. To all of you who watched our elections from afar, powerless to do anything about them, please believe that we aren't all a bunch of nutjobs!

    78. Re:Unfortunately... by Snaller · · Score: 1

      But doesn't the bible use the term marriage? If so that's an old claim, no?

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    79. Re:Unfortunately... by Snaller · · Score: 1

      Effectivly the state (government) discriminates between long-term commmitted homosexual couples and long-term commmitted heterosexual couples based only on thier relative gender; last I checked sexual discrimination goes against fundamental issues of human rights.

      Last time i checked the US doesn't really care about human rights. (People who pay attention to the news don't really need examples, but Guantanamo is one example)

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    80. Re:Unfortunately... by rhakka · · Score: 1

      and still not nearly as old as marriage itself.

  2. Let me get this right by obeythefist · · Score: 3, Funny

    They can't be married but they're allowed to join a union? I didn't think Dubya supported unions at all! What next? Will he allow gay communists??

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    1. Re:Let me get this right by slughead · · Score: 1

      Civil unions != marriage A Civil union does not entail child separation or child support, settlements for infidelity, marriage tax credit, or any other marriage goodies. I don't remember Bush ever saying he was against civil unions. If anyone wants to be a moron and voluntarily raise their income tax rate, I don't think anyone would have a problem with that.

    2. Re:Let me get this right by JVert · · Score: 1

      Maybe the "gay tax" will save social security?

    3. Re:Let me get this right by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Hey everyone... Duck! Wait, nevermind: It went over your head anyway.

    4. Re:Let me get this right by anthony_dipierro · · Score: 1

      If anyone wants to be a moron and voluntarily raise their income tax rate, I don't think anyone would have a problem with that.

      Bush would. He only supports recognition of civil unions at a state level. The federal government would continue to tax the couple as single.

      And your knowledge of federal tax law is incomplete. If a couple has a similar income, yes, they pay more in taxes by filing as married. But in a one-income household you pay less by filing married than you do by filing single.

    5. Re:Let me get this right by Mad_Rain · · Score: 1

      I got to say, I like the unintentional (or perhaps intentional) pun of the suject line. =P

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  3. Any editors in the house? by billybob · · Score: 1

    gay ane lesbian

    Hmm.

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    1. Re:Any editors in the house? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Wow. Thanks for pointing that out. You have had such a positive influence on this discussion, this community, and the world in general.

      I wonder if there's some sort of award you could get for that. Like a "Pedantic Twit of the Year" award or somethiing.

  4. tech news by name773 · · Score: 0, Offtopic

    go technology news!
    w00t

    1. Re:tech news by WhatAmIDoingHere · · Score: 1

      You are in the politics section. You are free to remove it from your front page.

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  5. Not just flip-flopping... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Waffling too, I never want to hear that term again either (except in relation to something that I can eat).

  6. Perhaps not a flip-flop at all? by Rayonic · · Score: 4, Insightful
    At least that's what this pundit thinks.

    Partial quote:
    President Bush's position is actually consistent with the FMA (whether or not either is right). President Bush said that "I don't think we should deny people rights to a civil union, a legal arrangement, if that's what a state chooses to do so" -- that, in the Times' words, "the matter should be left up to the states."

    The Federal Marriage Amendment would not block a state from recognizing civil unions. It provides (I quote the Mar. 22, 2004 version, S.J. Res. 30) that "Marriage in the United States shall consist only of the union of a man and a woman. Neither this Constitution, nor the constitution of any State, shall be construed to require that marriage or the legal incidents thereof be conferred upon any union other than the union of a man and a woman."

    This is kinda like that "Bush banned stem-cell research" myth, when in fact he just stopped anti-abortionists from being forced to fund abortions (via taxpayer money).
    1. Re:Perhaps not a flip-flop at all? by DietFluffy · · Score: 1, Informative

      That last clause is widely considered to be a ban on civil unions:

      "Neither this Constitution, nor the constitution of any State, shall be construed to require that marriage or the legal incidents thereof be conferred upon any union other than the union of a man and a woman."

      Bush is being inconsistent by supporting the amendment while claiming that he is for civil unions.

    2. Re:Perhaps not a flip-flop at all? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      No, civil unions != marriage. It's to make sure the laws in states right now that recognize marriage can't be used to allow civil unions for all. Instead, states would have to explicitly choose to allow civil unions. It basically sets the default for gay unions of any sort to off until a state chooses to turn it to on.

    3. Re:Perhaps not a flip-flop at all? by ezeri · · Score: 1

      He didn't even stop anything, his was the first administration to ever fund stem cell research with government money.

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    4. Re:Perhaps not a flip-flop at all? by xenocide2 · · Score: 1

      So can a single person enter into a marriage between a man and a woman, as well as a "civil union"? Isn't one of the main benefits of states recognizing each other's liscences that it helps prevent serial bigamists?

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    5. Re:Perhaps not a flip-flop at all? by rhakka · · Score: 3, Funny

      awesome. can we stop making me pay for wars I don't believe in too, with my taxpayer dollars?

      How about the ban on new strains of stem cells being developed for research?

    6. Re:Perhaps not a flip-flop at all? by minkwe · · Score: 0, Troll

      The constitution already defines marriage as between a man and a woman. Why then is this amendment necessary? And if Bush is FOR civil unions for gays, what difference exists between his position and Kerry's? And if his position is not essentially different from Kerry's, why are the religious groups supporting Bush's position on homosexuality but not Kerry's?

      Kerry said in the last debate that he believes marriage is only between a man and a woman, and that the constitutional amendment was not necessary.

      This sounds to me as if Bush is lying. Just like with the draft situation.

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    7. Re:Perhaps not a flip-flop at all? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      "war is justified" ... what a moron you must be !

    8. Re:Perhaps not a flip-flop at all? by ZosX · · Score: 1
      This is kinda like that "Bush banned stem-cell research" myth, when in fact he just stopped anti-abortionists from being forced to fund abortions (via taxpayer money).

      Even from a rebublican viewpoint this makes very little sense. I hate to say it, but from a financial standpoint, ending life prematurely saves the government a far greater sum than the cost of the average abortion. (What ~$5000???)

      From a fiscally conservative point of view (what the republicans claim to be) it makes little to no sense to illegalize abortion or create artificial barriers.

      Call me a goddamned troll or what have you, but think about how many new children are added to medicare each year, yet alone the millions of people that actually try to live on government assistance? I think it is really sad that a lot of people live on government assistance not just because they decided it to be. I mean it really isn't a career path. Just like the many homeless people you never see (I was one) a lot of them never really chose to be there either.

      The only reason the Rebublicans wish to end abortion is because of religious reasons. I think it gives the government a lot of power to tell a woman what she can and can not do with her body. A lot of women would agree. One of the main reasons that people generally seek abortion is because of economic reasons. I went to a relatively rough inner city school and had on average 75 pregnancies a year, a student dead sometimes once a month or so, open drug dealing/usage, teachers getting stabbed in the throat, oh, and someone slashing my wrist. I'm not making this up.

      Personally I think the poor are getting desperately poor these days. The disparity is wider than it has been in over 70 years. Call me a bleeding heart, liberal, wtf ever, but unless you grew up or lived in that sort of culture you probably don't understand the plight of the working (or lately nonworking) man.

    9. Re:Perhaps not a flip-flop at all? by Minna+Kirai · · Score: 2, Informative

      The constitution already defines marriage as between a man and a woman.

      That is completely untrue. Go ahead and search the Constitution for "marriage", "marry", or even just "marr". It's not in there.

      Maybe you meant "dictionary" instead of "constitution"? But that doesn't have much legal weight, because laws often use definitions of words different from what they really mean.

    10. Re:Perhaps not a flip-flop at all? by dash2 · · Score: 2, Informative

      I think the key phrase is "or the legal incidents thereof".

    11. Re:Perhaps not a flip-flop at all? by (trb001) · · Score: 1

      By "Constitution", you must mean the Defense of Marriage Act, because the Constitution says absolutely nothing about marriage. The DoMA, on the other hand, does explicitly define the rights of states; states don't have to accept the legal marriage of gays from one state to another.

      The problem with this is that Article 4, Section 1 of the Constitution (Full Faith and Credit) states, basically, that all public "Acts, Records, and judicial Proceedings" in one state convey to all others. When Bush mentions activist judges, he's referring to judges that could overturn the DoMA or rule it unconstitutional. Making what DoMA says part of the Constitution is the only way that couldn't happen.

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    12. Re:Perhaps not a flip-flop at all? by ifwm · · Score: 2, Informative

      You're lying, because the Constitution doesn't address marriage at all. Try not to call other people liars when you've just done it yourself.

    13. Re:Perhaps not a flip-flop at all? by Xyrus · · Score: 1

      The first administration to fund it? Stem-cell research has only been around for a few years. Oh yeah, funded it real good. There were so many rules and regulations on stem cell research that it made it practically worthless. That's just Kerry propaganda right? Go look up a few of the scientists who actually TRY to do the research under current conditions. ~X~

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    14. Re:Perhaps not a flip-flop at all? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      It would only be "widely considered" so by people who can't read. It says marriage and it's legal accompaniment can't be conferred on a certain type of union. Civil unions are not marriages and don't get the benefits already, so this just limits them from being made into the legal equivalent of marriage in the future. It has no affect on their current state.

    15. Re:Perhaps not a flip-flop at all? by Thing+1 · · Score: 1
      [...] laws often use definitions of words different from what they really mean.

      Exactly, like declaring things vegetables when they really are fruits, just so they can collect more taxes.

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    16. Re:Perhaps not a flip-flop at all? by Xyrus · · Score: 1

      Just remeber that terrorism is the biggest threat to our nation. ~X~ This message is composed of 100% recycled sarcasm.

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    17. Re:Perhaps not a flip-flop at all? by CTachyon · · Score: 2, Informative

      Actually, if the FMA were passed, it would outlaw the recognition of civil unions as well. The phrase "legal incidents thereof" is referring to the benefits that come as part of the marriage package (e.g. joint tax filing, power of attorney, hospital visitation rights, child custody rights, etc.). This means that, while a state could legalize civil unions (or even marriage), neither other states nor the federal government would have to recognize the rights that the state bestowed on the couple. (Which means you'll get crap like the recent Vermont/Virginia custody battle fiasco, except that then it'll be enshrined into the constitution and thus that much harder to mop up the mess.)

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    18. Re:Perhaps not a flip-flop at all? by KilobyteKnight · · Score: 2, Informative
      How about the ban on new strains of stem cells being developed for research?

      There is no ban on stem cell research. It is just not federally funded any more. You may be of the opinion that the government should fund it, but that is a different issue.

      There is no ban.
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    19. Re:Perhaps not a flip-flop at all? by Alomex · · Score: 4, Insightful


      It is a flip-flop. Whenever Kerry has a nuanced opinion, Bush calls it a flip-flop. What is good for the goose is good for the gander and this is a Bush flip-flop.

    20. Re:Perhaps not a flip-flop at all? by rhakka · · Score: 1

      I see what you're saying. I agree and will clarify that I do think it should be funded research.

    21. Re:Perhaps not a flip-flop at all? by Rayonic · · Score: 1
      awesome. can we stop making me pay for wars I don't believe in too, with my taxpayer dollars?

      You're free to organize a group of like-minded people, lobby the government, and get politicians elected that agree with your views.

      You know, just like the "conservative christian" voting bloc did.

      What, you didn't want to go through all that trouble? Then too bad.
    22. Re:Perhaps not a flip-flop at all? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      > I see what you're saying. I agree and will clarify that I do think it should be funded research.

      Me too, but I'm not about to force my beliefs on others.

      If they wanted to ban all embyonic stem cell research, that's another thing. But they don't, and I'm comfortable with it being privately funded. (It's really just the harvesting that's not getting funding, anyway. Not the research afterwards.)

    23. Re:Perhaps not a flip-flop at all? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      yeah fuck Bush for not changing his mind!

    24. Re:Perhaps not a flip-flop at all? by mcmonkey · · Score: 1
      Just remeber that terrorism is the biggest threat to our nation.

      Which is exactly why we need to stem the ride of Rubik's cube knock-offs. Think of the children!

    25. Re:Perhaps not a flip-flop at all? by learn+fast · · Score: 1

      The Federal Marriage Amendment would not block a state from recognizing civil unions

      What part of marriage or the legal incidents thereof don't you understand?

    26. Re:Perhaps not a flip-flop at all? by danudwary · · Score: 2, Informative


      It's not only just not funded - you are forbidden from sharing lab space, equipment, supplies, chemicqals, personnel (I believe) with research that is federally funded. If you currently receive federal funds, you essentially have to set up a whole new research lab to do anything with embyonic stem cells. This is a major undertaking, for even the most independently funded laboratories, because almost every scientist in the US gets some sort of federal funding. It's not specifically a ban on this research, but it might as well be.

    27. Re:Perhaps not a flip-flop at all? by Slime-dogg · · Score: 1

      Probably the best place to look for the definition of marriage is your religious texts, whatever they may be. In Christiandom, at least the vast majority of it, marriage is the bonding of a man and a woman under God, till death do they part.

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    28. Re:Perhaps not a flip-flop at all? by Slime-dogg · · Score: 1

      heh. Whenever Kerry has an "opinion," I call it "pandering." There isn't anything that comes out of his mouth that defines a position on anything other than what he thinks people want to hear. I'm pretty sure that if he gets elected, though, he's going to go on and do his own damn thing. He's not going to remember some promise that he made to republican Iowa for their vote, or something else that he said to some swing state in order to gain a vote.

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    29. Re:Perhaps not a flip-flop at all? by bnenning · · Score: 1

      That last clause is widely considered to be a ban on civil unions

      No it isn't. There was another version that added that "no federal or state law" could be construed in that manner, and that would probably have banned civil unions. But as written, it just means that judges would be forbidden from interpreting state constitutions to find that they require civil unions. States could still allow them via their own laws. It's still a stupid amendment, but not quite as bad as you think.

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    30. Re:Perhaps not a flip-flop at all? by Edax+Rarem · · Score: 1

      When you only allow research on a certain amount of fetuses (fetusi?, feti?) and those have been contaminated, then there might as well be a ban.

      Are you allowed to use any of the aborted fetus material that is (donated) every day, legally?
      I think not.

      Therefore a limit is in place and that limit has been reached. If you cannot do any more research how is this not a ban?

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    31. Re:Perhaps not a flip-flop at all? by DietFluffy · · Score: 1

      Thank you. The writers of the FMA left the wording ambiguous for a reason. If you read it carefully, you will realize that even if a state explicitly amends their Constitution to read, "Civil Unions shall have all the rights of Marriage," the FMA will render it unenforceable. Below is a link to an analysis of why the FMA outlaws civil unions.

      http://www.yuricareport.com/Civil%20Rights/Analysi sRevisedMarriageAmendment.html

    32. Re:Perhaps not a flip-flop at all? by TamMan2000 · · Score: 1

      Probably the best place to look for the definition of marriage is your religious texts

      How does that jive with keeping the state and church separate?

      (do you see the point yet?)

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    33. Re:Perhaps not a flip-flop at all? by Minna+Kirai · · Score: 1

      Exactly, like declaring things vegetables when they really are fruits,

      Technically fruits are vegetables, in the same sense that humans are animals... "vegetable", in biology, is any plant (or part of one). The culinary definition for vegetable is more specific, and excludes most fruits. But traditionally, chefs have categorized tomatoes with vegetables because of how it is used in food.

    34. Re:Perhaps not a flip-flop at all? by Slime-dogg · · Score: 1

      I think I made it rather plainly.

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    35. Re:Perhaps not a flip-flop at all? by TamMan2000 · · Score: 1

      So, you don't believe in separation of church and state?

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    36. Re:Perhaps not a flip-flop at all? by Snaller · · Score: 1

      This is kinda like that
      ...every time Kerry had a nuanced view and Bush called it a FlipFlop.

      "Bush banned stem-cell research" myth,

      Ah, stem cell research which can help and save millions of people.

      ... when in fact he just stopped anti-abortionists from being forced to fund abortions (via taxpayer money).


      As opposed to the anti war people who are forced to pay taxes to a war that has killed at least 100000 people.

      Yeah, what prince.

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  7. Desperate? by rueger · · Score: 1, Insightful

    Wow - That's the sign of a really desperate man. Only minutes ago pollster Zogby, on the Daily Show, stated flatly that he saw Kerry winning the election. I think GWB is seeing the writing on the wall.

    1. Re:Desperate? by slughead · · Score: 1

      Jon Stewart is the most reliable source of information EVAR.

      Also, I went to your zogby link and saw this:

      Election 2004 Zogby Battleground State Polls: Bush Rebounds, Now Ahead in 5 States (FL, MI, MN, NM, NV); Kerry Leads in 4 States (CO, IA, OH, WI); Tie in Pennsylvania at 47% Each; Red and Blue Battle Continues, New Reuters/Zogby Ten States Battleground Poll Reveals... [ read on ] (10/28/04)

    2. Re:Desperate? by Anonymous+Crowhead · · Score: 1
      Only minutes ago pollster Zogby, on the Daily Show, stated flatly that he saw Kerry winning the election.

      Oh, yeah? Well, only a few hours ago, on the O'Reilly Factor, several pollsters said they saw GWB winning.

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    3. Re:Desperate? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0
      Only minutes ago pollster Zogby, on the Daily Show, stated flatly that he saw Kerry winning the election.

      The Daily Show, huh? I guess that is where all of the really important political news breaks... there, in Leno's routine, and Letterman's Top 10 list.

      Meanwhile, in the real news
      WASHINGTON (Reuters) - President Bush leads Democratic rival John Kerry by two points heading into the final five days of a tight race for the White House, according to a Reuters/Zogby poll released on Thursday.

      Bush led Kerry 48-46 percent in the latest three-day national tracking poll, gaining one point on the Massachusetts senator in a day. Bush led Kerry 48-47 percent on Wednesday.


      If Bush is reading the handwriting on the wall, it probably says, "Go ahead and mail the invitations".

    4. Re:Desperate? by MillionthMonkey · · Score: 1

      Zogby said Kerry would win for two reasons: the candidates are essentially tied to within the margin of error, and undecideds usually vote against the incumbent. If you notice, 48+46 doesn't add up to 100.

    5. Re:Desperate? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      What's with these comment links? Is someone "on high" at slashdot worried about the Secret Service? ;-)

    6. Re:Desperate? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Also, I went to your zogby link and saw this:

      when asked who he predicted winning zogby said kerry. this is because of the large number of undecided voters who generally vote against the incumbent. the polls are showing a virtual tie due to the undecideds, but come election day they will go to kerry.

      so says zogby.

  8. And I Believe Him! by Trikenstein · · Score: 1

    Now, if you'll excuse me, I have an appointment in Atlantis with bigfoot.

  9. as bad as racism by alatesystems · · Score: 4, Insightful

    Separate but equal? "If you ask Vice President Cheney's daughter, ... who is a lesbian ..., I'm sure she'd tell you she's just being herself." Sorry, couldn't resist quoting Kerry. "Want some wood? Heh, heh" There's a Bush one.

    But, this is utter shit. I'm not gay, I only know a couple of gay people, and this whole state I live in seems to be populated by a majority of redneck homophobics. You don't have to be part of a cultural group to stand up for their rights.

    If I recall correctly, about 78% of people in this state approved a bill "defining" marriage and forbidding civil unions. A judge overturned it as "too broad" but I'm sure it will be right back. I proudly voted against it. Haven't any of you ever heard of "and when they came for me, there was no one left to speak out for me"?

    Vote Michael Badnarik in 2004. He is the only one who will bring about real change and bring civil liberties back to us. He supports rights for all minorities (I'm a white, straight Male) and majorities. So don't think I'm pandering or whatever to any specific group.

    Read why you should vote for him. There are reasons for about every socioeconomic/cultural group.

    What's a Libertarian you ask? No, you didn't ask? Read this anyway.

    Chris

    1. Re:as bad as racism by pipingguy · · Score: 1


      If I recall correctly, about 78% of people in this state approved a bill "defining" marriage and forbidding civil unions

      Approval of "Gay marriage" implies government responsabilities regarding spousal benefits, n'est ce pas? Government tends to reward the typical male + female = future taxpayers.

      Disclosure: I'm not gay.

    2. Re:as bad as racism by Gaetano · · Score: 2

      I used to vote Libertarian every election. But not this time. Badnarik has some nutty idea's I don't aggree with. He is the worst Libertarian canidate in some time. This is from his wikipedia entry which was the first thing to come up in google with a search of Badnarik and atrophy.

      On his website, prior to recieving the Libertarian Party's nomination, Badnarik has proposed that in order to make prison guards have safer jobs, violent felons should not be allowed to exercise for their first month, so that their muscles will atrophy. Badnarik also suggested that if he was elected president he would re-establish America as a sovereign nation by removing and bulldozing the United Nations headquarters in New York. Badnarik has also commented that if elected president "I would announce a special one-week session of Congress where all 535 members would be required to sit through a special version of my Constitution class. Once I was convinced that every member of Congress understood my interpretation of their very limited powers, I would insist that they restate their oath of office while being videotaped."

    3. Re:as bad as racism by warm+sushi · · Score: 1

      I have no idea why I'm replying, since no one reads low mods. But in case you read replies...

      "so that their muscles will atrophy"

      Damn that's weird. I mean really.

      "re-establish America as a sovereign nation by removing and bulldozing the United Nations headquarters"

      Well, I think this would be popular with a great many Americans. I'm serious.

      "my interpretation of their very limited powers"

      Sounds dictatorial doesn't it? I don't think it is though. I think he means to illustrate a reminder of the limited rights of government...

    4. Re:as bad as racism by DavidTC · · Score: 1
      So the 'Libertarian' candidate proposes the government stealing the private property that is the UN building. Interesting....

      Like I said last election: I voted Libertarian, but only because I knew they wouldn't win.

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    5. Re:as bad as racism by cjhuitt · · Score: 1

      This is from his wikipedia entry which was the first thing to come up in google with a search of Badnarik and atrophy.

      You'll also notice on the page that 1) The very next paragraph says that Badnarik claims that the comments were hyperbole, which (in case you didn't know, which I doubt, but covering my bases here) means that he exaggerated them to absurdity in order to make a point. And 2) Wikipedia has marked the page as being disputed about neutrality, and suggests that the reader look on the talk page for more information. Skimming through the talk page, it appears that the paragraph you quoted is one of the sources of contention.

    6. Re:as bad as racism by learn+fast · · Score: 1

      Voting for third parties in a winner-takes-all voting system is for people who aren't very good at game theory.

      (A lot of people aren't very good at game theory, which is why we shouldn't have a winner-takes-all system. But I digress.)

    7. Re:as bad as racism by bnenning · · Score: 1

      Badnarik has some nutty idea's I don't aggree with. He is the worst Libertarian canidate in some time.

      Quite true. But since there's no way he can win, I figure I'm voting for the party rather than the man. And not even the party really, but the principles of limited goverment and individual freedom which are sorely lacking in both major parties.

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    8. Re:as bad as racism by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Hey, I read your post :)

      You can never count out the odd anonymous coward going through at 1...

  10. How is this flip flopping? by edbarbar · · Score: 0, Troll


    He says he doesn't support gay marriage, just unions. Personally, I think there are some parts of marriage law designed for the children presumed to come from that union.

    I don't think it is a reasonable assumption in the case of gay relationships that the union will yield children.

    So this seems reasonable to me, and doesn't strike me as flip flopping.

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    1. Re:How is this flip flopping? by EnronHaliburton2004 · · Score: 4, Insightful

      I don't think it is a reasonable assumption in the case of gay relationships that the union will yield children.

      Ever hear of adoption? Artificial insemination? Kids from previous relationships? These situations are pretty common in both straight and gay families.

      Should straight couples who don't want kids be excluded from the same marriage laws, since their union will not yield children?

    2. Re:How is this flip flopping? by Kris_J · · Score: 1

      That's quite a nuanced position you're interpreting it as there. Are you sure you've got the right candidate?

    3. Re:How is this flip flopping? by mopomi · · Score: 5, Interesting
      So, according to your definition, women past the age of about 50 http://www.mayoclinic.com/invoke.cfm?objectid=94F4 C769-0E44-4BA5-AF20E9E264577527 should not be allowed to marry? A man or woman who is sterile due to age or accident or choice should not be allowed to marry? These situations preclude procreation, and thus, according to the extreme views you espouse above would preclude any reason to marry, other than for some sort of monetary benefit (I guess).
      So this seems reasonable to me, and doesn't strike me as flip flopping.

      Except, of course, for the fact that in previous statements, Bush has stated that in order to "protect" (from what, exactly?) marriage, it must be defined as only between a man and a woman, and that same sex couples do not deserve the same rights as others in this country. However, I agree: it's not flip-flopping, it's just that he doesn't actually know what he's said (or believed) in the past.

      It's remarkable that two (at least) of the last three republican presidents can't (couldn't) remember what they say or do from day to day. It's also remarkable that those two presidents had essentially the same staff.

    4. Re:How is this flip flopping? by Shihar · · Score: 1

      A good friend of mine is 22 year old heterosexual. She is steral and will never have children. If she wants a child she is going to have to do it the same way a homosexual couple would. Are you suggesting she should not be allowed to get married because she is not capable of giving birth?

    5. Re:How is this flip flopping? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Sterile? I don't know about the grand-parent poster, but I think she should be convicted of fraud if she enters a marraige without disclosing that she is sterile.

    6. Re:How is this flip flopping? by St.+Arbirix · · Score: 1

      I don't think it is a reasonable assumption in the case of gay relationships that the union will yield children.

      You almost make me wonder if the "gay gene" is some society-wide self defense mechanism to prevent overpopulation. L. Ron Hubbard wrote a book covering this.

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    7. Re:How is this flip flopping? by Deliveranc3 · · Score: 1

      Bush has stated that in order to "protect" (from what, exactly?) marriage

      I don't agree with Bush but the institution of marriage is definitly falling appart, the majority of marriages don't last anymore as opposed to about 99% in the past.

      There are monetary and political reasons of course, but the main reason for marraige as opposed to civil union is to give stability in order for reproduction, (and to concentrate on work?), apparently this emotional commitment from both sides also acts as a chance to excercise apathy in the face of a loved one (hey it's not like he/she can leave anymore :P).

    8. Re:How is this flip flopping? by edbarbar · · Score: 1

      Ever hear of adoption? Artificial insemination? Kids from previous relationships? These situations are pretty common in both straight and gay families.

      Ever hear of four leaf clovers?

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    9. Re:How is this flip flopping? by mopomi · · Score: 1

      The idea that marriage is for reproduction is ridiculous, as I tried to make clear above. Arguing that gay couples should not be allowed to marry because marriage is for having children should also mean arguing that older people should not be allowed to marry or that sterile people should not be allowed to marry. It's stupid and is basically a way to hide bigotry.
      Not only that, but it ignores the fact that adoption is and should be an option for many people, and that being "straight" or gay doesn't make you a good or bad parent, whether you adopt or have a child in some other way.

      For now I'll accept the proposition that the "institution of marriage" is falling apart. In a little bit, I'll explain why I don't belive this is really true.

      Are there any reasons that marriages don't last as long as they used to? Clearly there hasn't been a sudden rash of gay couples going out and causing marriages to collapse all across the country. Are husbands suddenly looking for lesbian couples to cheat on their wives with? are wives suddenly finding that gay men are more sensitive than their husbands? or are they realizing that their butch lesbian friends are more capable around the house?

      I hope you can see that placing the blame for bad marriages on someone other than the couple directly involved in the marriage is (almost always) ridiculous.

      Allowing people who love each other to legally declare their love for each other seems like a good way to "shore up" the statistics on marriage so that it doesn't look so bad. However, a better reason to "allow" "gay marriage" is because it's the right thing to do.

      There is still the issue of what is wrong with the US now as opposed to 50 years ago when the divorce rate was much lower. I propose that the difference is that 50 years ago, women were not nearly as empowered and today they are able to make choices for themselves outside of their husbands' wishes. They are also better (though often not as well as they should be*) protected by the law.

      Now, we have strong women who choose to work full time outside of the home, now we have women who won't put up with an abusive husband, now we have women who will fight back against the idea that the "man of the house" is in charge of every detail.

      We also have the economic situation such that it's nearly impossible for a married couple to plan for retirement (or many times, even live from month to month) on a single salary (=> high stress on the marriage), so they both have to work full time jobs. This means there is (usually) no one at home to clean the house, cook dinner, go shopping, etc. This adds to the stress on the marriage because it's still, traditionally, the woman's "job" to do all of those things after she gets home from work. She doesn't have the time, the energy, or the inclination to do that after an 8 hour day at work. Neither does he.

      The "institution" of marriage is broken because it relies on an outdated and unworkable ideal of one member working away from home and another working at home. While this works for some couples, there are many more for whom it doesn't work. Some people figure out a way to work as a couple under the new paradigm, but many people do not.

      Another danger for the "institutioin" is that "older" people are panicked about it falling apart so they push their children to get married before they're ready, and that always leads to disaster.

      Anyway, I think it's stupid and mean to lay the blame of straight couples not being able to stick together on gay couples who are able to stick together. I guess that's the American way, though: if you can't do it right the first time, find someone to blame it on.

      Anyone and everyone should be allowed to marry who they want. It should simply be a contract between two (or whatever number of) people, and it should be enforced (and made difficult to get out of), just like any other contract. The concept of spiritual marriage should not even need government approval, and should certainly not infringe on the marriages of others.

      (*) In Arizona, for example, spousal rape is usually only a misdemeanor. Until very recently, it wasn't even a crime.

    10. Re:How is this flip flopping? by edbarbar · · Score: 1

      A man or woman who is sterile due to age or accident or choice should not be allowed to marry?

      Hmm. I think there are certain rights of marriage, like reduced taxation, that are there to help a couple prepare for and to raise kids. So I don't think that those kinds of laws should apply to people who don't intend to have kids.

      However, I think it would be very difficult to show that, probably more costly to enforce than the savings gained by the law.

      Bush has stated that in order to "protect" (from what, exactly?) marriage,

      Oh right. Well, then he hasn't flip flopped at all if he doesn't call it marriage, by his definition. Of course, my view is let them call it marriage, get married in the church, etc., but just take away those rights, such as tax law savings, medical coverage sharing, that are for having a family. I guess I can agree with bush there is an attack on those parts of marriage.

      Hey, if it isn't a huge greedy grab by gay people, and if it is for the reasons they state, such as home ownership transfers, hospital visits, etc. then they should be happy with a civil union, which can give them many of those things, just hopefully it won't drain the tax coffers anymore by having them obtain benefits designed for children.

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    11. Re:How is this flip flopping? by edbarbar · · Score: 1

      The idea that marriage is for reproduction is ridiculous, as I tried to make clear above.

      Well you certainly didn't do a very good job of it. And frankly, I think it is ridiculous that you can even say this. Of course it is for reproduction.

      Listen. Find a stay at home mom in touch with what she is doing, and ask her what the most important thing is in her life. She won't say "My husband," she will say "My kids."

      also, just a note. I dont' blame gays for the problems with marriage. That's just the social fabric unwinding.

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    12. Re:How is this flip flopping? by mopomi · · Score: 1

      If it's for the purpose of reproduction, then why do we allow people who CAN NOT EVER REPRODUCE to get married?

      Find a stay at home mom who also happens to be a lesbian and ask her what is the most important thing in her life. She'll respond "my kids." Find a stay at home dad and ask the same question, you'll get the same answer. Find a single parent and ask the same question, you'll get the same answer. I have no argument against children being important. I have a child of my own, and that's the answer you'll get from me. That's not the point.

      I have a problem with the idea that marriage is ostensibly for procreation when it's CLEARLY not viewed as such by the laws of the land (disregarding the very few legal benefits married couples get for having children). I especially have a problem with that idea when it is espoused by people who are not also arguing that all marriages between people who can not or choose not to have kids be revoked.

    13. Re:How is this flip flopping? by edbarbar · · Score: 1

      If it's for the purpose of reproduction, then why do we allow people who CAN NOT EVER REPRODUCE to get married?

      I think the reason is that it would be really meanspirited to do so. Say for instance a woman and man are married. They get the marriage breaks (health care, lower taxes when only 1 works). Now the woman becomes pregnant, but in a horrible accident, she loses the baby and becomes sterile. Now you have to tell her "Oh, and that marriage break you got, give it back?" I think that's just too hard. What about a woman who devoted her life to raising kids, and then the kids are gone from the home? Her chances of getting a job with health care is greatly diminished.

      "CLEARLY not viewed as such by the laws of the land"
      Are you Serious? Fortunately, I'm still married and so haven't run into these laws, but I suspect there are an enormous number of laws dealing with children of divorcing parents.

      I especially have a problem with that idea when it is espoused by people who are not also arguing that all marriages between people who can not or choose not to have kids be revoked.

      I just think it is hard to make the laws. I don't see why a couple that never intends to have kids should get the tax breaks. But, I do think they should have all the benefits of a union, such as hospital visits, etc.

      I have a child of my own, and that's the answer you'll get from me
      Are you a gay man? Does your child live with you? Do you think your child could suffer because of lack of a mother in the relationship? (Note, I would also ask the flip question of a single mother, and I think the answer would be "yes, the child suffers.")

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    14. Re:How is this flip flopping? by mopomi · · Score: 1

      If it's "mean spirited" to tell a sterile (heterosexual) woman she can't have marriage breaks because she became sterile how is it not "mean spirited" to tell a homosexual they're not allowed to to have those same marriage breaks with someone they love?

      Yes, I am serious. If the laws of the US really considered marriage as a means of reproduction, married people would be required to "generate" at least one child and anyone who was unable or unwilling to participate in procreation would not be allowed to marry.
      Your examples have absolutely nothing to do with hetero-/homosexuality, they have to do with treating people fairly and justly. Excluding one group of people because they love differently it wrong.

      Let me get this straight (correct me if I'm wrong): In your view, a heterosexual married couple that may or may not intend to have kids should get a tax break that is "designed to help in the raising of children", but a sterile couple who may or may not adopt should not get those same tax breaks?

      How many years after marriage (sans children) should those tax breaks last? How should it be determined that someone intends to have children? What if the heterosexual, non-sterile couple think they want kids when they get married, but wait a couple of years and then decide they don't want kids? do they have to give back those years of tax breaks they got because they may have been able to have childred? what if they don't want kids when they first get married and then later decide they want to have kids? do they get back tax credits?

      Why can't the laws, if we're really trying to make it easier for children to grow up with a family, just address whether someone has children, and not address the gender of the parents? Other than that specifically addressing the issue of whether there are actually children involved, the law should simply reflect whether people have entered into a (permanent) contract with one another to take care of each other, to love each other, and to be partners for life. It should not matter what the genders are.

      The fact that there are laws protecting children during a divorce does not imply that marriage is all about children. It simply means that, in the views of the State, children are more important than a struggling marriage.

      No, I am not gay, yes, my child lives with me, so does my wife, his mother. My point is that anyone who is a decent parent will answer that the most important thing is their child, and the gender or sexuality of that parent does not matter. It doesn't matter whether that child was adopted or born of one of the parents. A good parent loves their child, and nothing else really matters.

    15. Re:How is this flip flopping? by Karma+Farmer · · Score: 1

      He says he doesn't support gay marriage, just unions.

      Well, we both agree that he says supports civil unions while simultaneously saying that he supports an amendment that would prohibit the recognition of civil unions

      I'll agree with you -- he's certainly not a flip flopper, because he hasn't change his mind with time. He's simply a liar.

    16. Re:How is this flip flopping? by edbarbar · · Score: 1

      Why can't the laws, if we're really trying to make it easier for children to grow up with a family, just address whether someone has children, and not address the gender of the parents?

      Actually, there are several reasons. First of all, there is nesting, that should happen before kids occur. Even though you aren't pregnant, you are entering the reproductive cycle.

      Secondly, for some families it is very difficult for the woman to become pregnant. Third, it is probably more expensive to have all these additional laws than to just have the obvious law.

      But really, I do think that if it were possible to make some magic law that excluded heterosexuals from never reproduced from the magic pile of tax $, sure, I agree. They should just get the unions too. But bear in mind, those heterosexuals who have reproduced deserve the tax break, since they have suffured the economic damage of having kids.

      My point is that anyone who is a decent parent will answer that the most important thing is their child, and the gender or sexuality of that parent does not matter.

      Do you really believe this? In some very small percentage of cases it may be true, but in general men and women are very different. Most men are attracted to women, not men. That alone should convince you they are different in a fundamental way.

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    17. Re:How is this flip flopping? by edbarbar · · Score: 1


      > saying that he supports an amendment that would prohibit the recognition of civil unions

      Reference please?

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    18. Re:How is this flip flopping? by edbarbar · · Score: 1

      Actually, I'm tired of running defense :) Let me turn it back to you with this question:

      What compelling interest does the state have in giving couples, gay or not, tax breaks if they are childless and will remain childless forever?

      Now, what about giving tax breaks to married couples with children? What does the state get out of it?

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    19. Re:How is this flip flopping? by EnronHaliburton2004 · · Score: 1

      And what is your point?

    20. Re:How is this flip flopping? by edbarbar · · Score: 1

      If you look at clovers, most of them have three leaves. But every once in a while you find one with four leaves.

      So, I'm saying "Yeah, sometimes gays adopt/have kids from previous relationships, etc.", but I'm saying I don't think it occurs that often. I'm also not convinced that it's a good thing, because I believe there are differences in the sexes, and I'm not convinced growing up in unisex relationships is a great idea.

      It might or might not be better to grow up in a unisex environment with two parents than by a single parent. I don't have enough information. Certainly, I don't think we as a society should encourage either single parents or unisex parents until more is known about the sex roles in raising children.

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      Ed Barbar, President and General Manager, Furnit USA
    21. Re:How is this flip flopping? by mopomi · · Score: 1
      Do you really believe this? In some very small percentage of cases it may be true, but in general men and women are very different. Most men are attracted to women, not men. That alone should convince you they are different in a fundamental way.

      I am absolutely certain that the gender or sexuality of a parent does not matter when it comes to being a good parent.

    22. Re:How is this flip flopping? by mopomi · · Score: 1
      I have never stated (or meant to imply) that the state necessarily should give tax breaks to couples, just that the state should treat all couples equally. If you (people in general) are going to make the argument that gays should not be allowed to marry because of the supposed inability for them to produce children, then the sillyness of that argument needs to be pointed out: There are many married couples without children, and many of those couples will never have children. Basing the argument against allowing gay marriage on possibilities for procreation is a cover-up for bigotry.

      The "state" (i.e., the government, not the people of the state) gains little out of giving tax breaks to anyone. The people of the state (the society) gain a lot by making it easier on the parents of a child to raise that child. The child has a better chance of becoming a productive member of the society.

      Regardless of specific taxes on specific "classes", the society has a compelling interest to treat people as equally as possible. The people of that society benefit, and the society as a whole benefits.

    23. Re:How is this flip flopping? by edbarbar · · Score: 1

      I am absolutely certain that the gender or sexuality of a parent does not matter when it comes to being a good parent.

      Hmm. I didn't think we were talking about being a good parent. I thought we were talking about what is best for the child. I think two good parents, one of either sex are best for chidren.

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    24. Re:How is this flip flopping? by mopomi · · Score: 1

      I think having two good, loving parents is best for children. I don't think having two male parents is necessarily any worse for a child than having one of each sex, and it is better if the alternative is an uncaring (or worse) parent.

    25. Re:How is this flip flopping? by EnronHaliburton2004 · · Score: 1

      I don't think it occurs that often.

      It happens more often then you think. I know dozens of gay people with kids, and dozens more who want children.

      But it's obvious you don't frequently associate with many gay couples, so how would you know?

      Certainly, I don't think we as a society should encourage either single parents or unisex parents until more is known about the sex roles in raising children.

      Luckily for those people, it is not up to you to 'encourage' anything, and we don't need to wait around for you to become convinced. As Americans we are free to make most of those decisions for ourselves, except when the government prevents things like marriage.

      You are welcome to stay in your cave while the rest of the world progresses without you.

      Wasn't long ago that people were saying the same thing about mixed-race relationships.

    26. Re:How is this flip flopping? by edbarbar · · Score: 1

      But it's obvious you don't frequently associate with many gay couples, so how would you know?

      You don't have any idea of my personal situation.

      Luckily for those people, it is not up to you to 'encourage' anything, and we don't need to wait around for you to become convinced. As Americans we are free to make most of those decisions for ourselves, except when the government prevents things like marriage.

      Let me ask you this, what happens if it turns out to be really important for children to have both a mommy and a daddy? Would that change your opinion?

      In your opinion, do you believe that it is OK for children to grow up without a mommy? What about without a daddy? Which one sex is expendable?

      It could be that you are right. I just don't think it is so obvious.

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    27. Re:How is this flip flopping? by edbarbar · · Score: 1

      Well, I certainly agree with the sentiment.

      However, I think children are innocent, and just because we believe something to be true, doesn't mean we should use our new found social anxiety of fairness towards gays.

      So I personally beleive we as society should err on the side of caution, in the event that a mommy or daddy role model is intrinsic to the healthy adulthood of a child.

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    28. Re:How is this flip flopping? by EnronHaliburton2004 · · Score: 1

      You don't have any idea of my personal situation.

      Given your additude, I have a pretty good idea.

      In your opinion, do you believe that it is OK for children to grow up without a mommy? What about without a daddy? Which one sex is expendable?

      I know that plenty of children grow up without a mommy or without a daddy, and they turn out fine, other's don't. Other kids grow up with a mommy and daddy, and end up as mass murderers, while other kids turn out fine.

      My wife grew up with a single mom. When she was 14-17, she ran away several times and was taken care of by a single lesbian woman who took care of many runaways and had two boys from a previous marriage.

      She had a foster brother. One day, this 15 year old boy came home with some F's on his report card. His heterosexual mom and dad beat the shit out of him, breaking his arm. This lesbian women saved the boy, and raised him in her house.

      There are many, many ways for a kid to grow up. There are many great parents, straight and gay. There are many bad parents, straight and gay. Excluding gays from parenting just because they are homosexual is plain stupid.

    29. Re:How is this flip flopping? by edbarbar · · Score: 1

      Given your additude, I have a pretty good idea.

      What, that I think that the future of children is important and that we should be circumspect about how and in what environments we raise them?

      Well, I would love to go through my personal experiences, but I don't trust the long memory of the net, and it's not right of me to risk exposing people close to me. That's for them to decide.

      While I would say you advocate policy by anecdote, I'm glad your wife made it, and I'm truly sorry for what happpened to her foster brother. We can agree on those kinds of things. I'll even accept that your wife's lesbian caretaker had a very positive influence on your wife, and believe there are probably many instances in which homosexual parents are better than the alternative.

      I certainly am not saying "take children away from their homosexual parent." What I'm saying is that we dont' know how important the role of male and female figures into a child's psyche, and when it comes to things like adoption, we should be careful. I believe all things being equal, I think the heterosexual adopters are more likely to be the safest thing for the child. I don't know it for sure, which is why I think the issue should be studied. Maybe, as you seem to believe, it isn't important.

      I'll bet you believe in all kinds of things. Let's give it a shot.

      Women have a unique and valuable perspective.

      The experiences of different cultures is important and valuable.

      Bush Sucks (well, I might agree on that one).

      If you believe these things, then why don't you believe that a child's most intimate exposure to diversity, having a male parent and female parent, are important for the child's future well being?

      This is what distrubs me about the modern liberal movement. There are some assumptions that are made, like "There is no difference between men and women," obviously an absurd proposition, that then becomes the basis for all kinds of opinions and policies. You have to test these things before jumping into them headlong. I feel I'm an honest person. Give me the evidence, and I'll reluctantly (because I hate to be wrong) agree and put aside what you view as prejudices.

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    30. Re:How is this flip flopping? by Shihar · · Score: 1

      Who in the hell said anything about lying? Her current boy friend knows and it looks like the two are well on their way to getting hitched. In your opinion she should be prevented from getting married because she can't have kids?

      Bah, what a joke. The argument around not letting people get married because of reproductive reasons is stupid. There is no test parents need to take to prove that they are capable parents. A child molester can get married and have kids if he wants. Single men and woman are allowed to keep their kids when they are divorced. 16 year olds are allowed to keep their babies if they don't get them aborted. Half of the US population grows up without having both a mom and a dad, and you act like allowing another small minority to join in the fun is going to bring about the Armageddon.

    31. Re:How is this flip flopping? by edbarbar · · Score: 1

      The "state" (i.e., the government, not the people of the state) gains little out of giving tax breaks to anyone. The people of the state (the society) gain a lot by making it easier on the parents of a child to raise that child. The child has a better chance of becoming a productive member of the society.

      I missed this, in case you are still listening.

      The government gets future taxpayers by encouraging couples to procreate, and they also get a good reason to have all kinds of programs and do all kinds of things for children. Anyway, the advantages to the state of people procreating is enormous, especially of allowing the parents to have adequate financial resources to procure the things important in raising children, and having a caretaker (probably a woman) at home.

      In general I think your saying things like "you people" is inflamatory and innacurate. I certainly don't share any religious feelings, and I don't think gays will destroy the sacredness of marriage. My reasoning is almost entirely from an economic perspective, not a gay judgemental perspective. While the spread of aids has made me upset with the irresponsible behavior of gays, I don't see it as bad as cigarettes in this society, for example, and I'm an ex-smoker with children who unfortunately saw me smoke.

      I also have to question whether a same sex couple is best for children, but mostly I argue on the economic basis. It's hard to get a rational debate on this simple point.

      Frankly, I think when you boil the marriage argument down, it is really an economic one. Why else would those who feel rejected/betrayed by the mainstream suddenly almost unanimously argue for acceptance by it, and why would they want it? Notwithstanding those things that do make sense, such as hospital visitation rights, and even some economic things such as joint ownership of homes.

      Anyway, as I said, if there were a way to exclude those families from the tax benefits of marriage who never intended to have children, I'm all for it. I just don't want those who put themselves into economic disadvantage for attempting to have children suffer for it. That includes the couple who marries and uses the tax code to prepare for children, and the couple that has had children and suffered the economic damage but no longer has children.

      I guess if you question the molding of the state through economic policy, then why would the state penalize two worker families? I think the reason is that there is a desire on the state to have a parent at home raising the children. While there are new laws put in place which I think are damaging to offset these taxes, such as childcare credit, I have to then ask those who are in a household with two parents working, "Why when you married woman, would you think a stranger can raise them better?"

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      Ed Barbar, President and General Manager, Furnit USA
  11. A step in the right direction... by mintrepublic · · Score: 1

    Well, this is a move in the right direction. A final solution (bad wording, I know) would be to declare homo- and hetero-sex unions civil unions and leave marriage up to the church. Of course, to avoid the problems in come Scandinavian countries, there would still have to be incentives to get a union. www.lp.org

  12. Flip-Flopping is a habit for Bush by Anonymous+Cowdog · · Score: 5, Funny

    Do a Google search for Bush flip flops and you'll see there is a whole pile of issues Bush has flip-flopped on.

    The really frightening thing is some doctors think he is showing signs of pre-senile dementia.

    1. Re:Flip-Flopping is a habit for Bush by macrealist · · Score: 1

      Yeah, but did you see the bulge on his back?

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    2. Re:Flip-Flopping is a habit for Bush by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I'm more concerned by the bulge in the front, whenever he talks about Iraq or terrorism.

    3. Re:Flip-Flopping is a habit for Bush by jbarr · · Score: 1

      You are correct. Googling "Bush flip-flops" returns 12,800 hits...compared to 24,900 returns for ""Kerry flip-flops"...

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    4. Re:Flip-Flopping is a habit for Bush by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      And your point is...? Are you unaware that the Bush media machine has used this as pretty much its sole campaign issue this year?

  13. Stuck in the middle with you by BortQ · · Score: 2, Insightful
    This was pretty surprising news to me. I guess the US election really is a race to the center as many have been saying. Kerry wants to be gun-totin and Bush wants to be gay-friendly.

    If I was in the US I would seriously consider voting for that Badnarik guy. It seems as if he is by far the smartest voice out there.

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    1. Re:Stuck in the middle with you by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      > If I was in the US I would seriously consider voting for that Badnarik guy. It seems as if he is by far the smartest voice out there.

      Badnarik thinks drivers licences are unconstitutional.

  14. Supports it?? Where does he say that? by richcoder · · Score: 2, Insightful

    I haven't found one quote that says Bush supports civil unions between gay couples. He simply states that it should be up to the states to decide. Talk about spinning... sheesh

    1. Re:Supports it?? Where does he say that? by squiggleslash · · Score: 1
      So we have some context, here's the relevent part of the article:
      "I don't think we should deny people rights to a civil union, a legal arrangement, if that's what a state chooses to do so. ...

      "I view the definition of marriage different from legal arrangements that enable people to have rights. And I strongly believe that marriage ought to be defined as between a union between a man and a woman.

      "Now, having said that, states ought to be able to have the right to pass laws that enable people to be able to have rights like others," Bush told ABC's Charlie Gibson in an interview broadcast Tuesday on "Good Morning America."

      "So the Republican platform on that point, as far as you're concerned, is wrong?" Gibson asked the president, to which Bush replied: "Right."

      I read that is implying that he's in favour of civil unions between gay couples as long as such arrangements are not forced upon states. He feels he's breaking with the Republican party because, if the last question and answer makes sense, the Republicans, in general, believe that states should not and should not be allowed to recognize civil unions between groups other than married man and woman couples. So to him it is a big step to support the rights of states to recognize gay couples and provide them with many legal privileges usually reserved for married heterosexual couples.

      Now, it could be that both the questioner and George W Bush, the Republican candidate for President, misunderstands general Republican policy and feeling in this area. That said, the question and Bush's apparent belief that it's valid matches what I've seen, where very few Republicans have argued that the solution to gay marriage is recognized civil unions, and many are just opposed to gay civil unions as they are marriages.

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  15. Kerry Issues A Response by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1, Funny

    October 28, 2004-John Kerry today said his administration would order full, equal,
    and mandatory gay marriages for all citizens. The order nullifies all pre-existing
    heterosexual marriages and lays the groundwork for the 103 million compulsory
    same-sex marriages that will take place in the US by May 15.

    "As we are all aware, it's simply not possible for gay marriage and heterosexual
    marriage to co-exist," John Kerry said. "This is just the first step toward creating an all-gay
    United States."

    Kerry added: "Since the allowance of gay marriage undermines heterosexual
    unions, we decided to work a few steps ahead and strike down opposite-sex unions
    altogether."

    Kerry said his action will put a swift end to the mounting debate.

    "Instead of spending months or even years volleying this thing back and forth,
    we thought we might as well just cut to the eventual outcome of our decision to
    allow gay marriages," Kerry said. "Clearly, this is where this all was headed
    anyway."

    The campaign issued the surprise statement in response to a flip flop by
    President Bush.

    "If the history of our nation has demonstrated anything, it's that separate is
    never equal," Kerry said,. "Therefore, any measure short of dismantling
    conventional matrimony and mandating the immediate homosexual marriage of all
    residents of Massachusetts would dishonor same-sex unions. I'm confident that
    this measure will be seen by all right-thinking people as the only solution to
    our state's, and indeed America's, ongoing marriage controversy."

    Kerry then announced his marriage to Heinz heir teacher Teresa Heinz Kerry
    would be annulled and that he would marry based on a
    pairing that had been randomly generated by computers in the census
    office earlier that day.

    Those who don't choose to marry in private will be married in concurrent mass
    ceremonies at Fenway Park, Gillette Stadium, and the Boston Convention and
    Exposition Center. Any citizen who is not gay-married or is still in an illegal
    heterosexual relationship after that date will be arrested and tried for
    non-support.

    Hundreds of confused but vocal protesters lined the street outside the
    statehouse Monday night, waving both American and rainbow flags. Their chants,
    which broke out in pockets up and down the street, included, "Hey hey, ho ho,
    homophobia's got to go, but frankly, this is fucked up" and "Adam and Eve or
    Adam and Steve, but not Adam and Some Random Guy." Others held signs that read,
    "On Second Thought, Boston Christians Are Willing To Consider A Compromise."

    According to police reports, demonstrators were vocal but orderly.

    "The unholy union of people of the same gender destroys the only type of
    romantic love sanctioned by Our Lord in Heaven: the love between a man and a
    woman," 54-year-old protester Rose Shoults said. "Me and my new partner Helene
    are going to fry in hell."

    The much-anticipated order sets the stage for United States' upcoming
    congressional session, where the congress will consider an
    amendment to legally define marriage as a union between two members of the same
    gender. Without the order, Rep. Michael Festa said the vote, and his personally
    dreaded wedding to House Speaker and longtime political opponent Thomas
    Finneran, would be delayed.

    "This is a victory, not only for our state, but for America," Festa said.
    "Simply allowing consenting gay adults the same rights as heterosexuals was
    never the point. By forcing everyone in the state into a gay marriage, we're
    setting the stage for our more pressing hidden agendas: mandatory sodomy and, in
    due time, the legalization of bestiality and pedophilia."

  16. What about adopted children? by b00m3rang · · Score: 1

    Wouldn't the same type of provisions be pertinent?

  17. "come Scandinavian countries"? by b00m3rang · · Score: 1

    Fraudulent slip?

    1. Re:"come Scandinavian countries"? by mintrepublic · · Score: 1

      The preview button is right there, but I just choose not to use it =). Also, I need to remember to use the br tags, unlike LJ.

      *some Scandinavian countries

      Libertarian Party

  18. I wouldn't call this a flip-flop by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    From what I read of the proposed "amendment", it DID support civil-unions. I am not stating a case for or against, but I do disagree that this is a flip-flop.

  19. End the monopoly! by JimBean · · Score: 1

    Marriage should be one of many legal status options for couples. With high rates of divorces and remarriage, it is clear that the traditional practice of marriage has eroded in our post-industrial society. Furthermore, when marriages end, there are many legal issues such as custody, property, etc that need to be resolved. I would submit that part of the problem is the lack of choice: people either remain single, live together as "boyfriend-girlfriend", or get married (the only legally recognized status for a couple). People sometimes get married even if they are not totally serious about the relationship. It might make sense to offer some lower legal status options for those couples living together but not ready to enter a full-fledge marriage (I am thinking of the system in Sweden and other Nordic countries), leaving marriage for the diehard couples. Personally, I think marriage and other legal statuses should be open to all despite sexual preference, but I am definitely an exception in the US.

  20. MOD UP! Everyone should see this video (2nd link) by b00m3rang · · Score: 1

    n/t

  21. States' Rights by Undefined+Parameter · · Score: 2, Interesting

    "States' rights" used to be something of a codeword for "slavery," way back when; as in "it's a state's right to determine whether or not it will allow slavery." Granted, it was used to allude to other things, as well, but slavery was the main issue with which it was meant to be connotated.

    No, I'm not intending to draw a direct line of connection, but I am pointing out the coincidence.

    There's more I could say on this, but I'm tired, my mind is fuzzy, and my belly is full of pizza.

    ~UP

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    1. Re:States' Rights by jmvidal · · Score: 1

      It is still used that way.

      Our Senate candidate (Demint) said on an interview that he opposes having a gay person teach, or having a single pregnant mother teach. He also said on a debate that be thinks teaching students that people are the product of evolution is wrong.

      This raised some ruckus, so on every subsequent debate he is now asked the same question and his pre-recorded answer is now "that is a question for the states to decide".

  22. Non-story by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 2, Informative

    Bush has always believed that civil unions were A-OK, as long as you don't call it a marriage.

    Most Southern Evangelicals, whom Bush was trying to win over with this whole anti-gay-marriage Amendment idea, feel exactly the same way.

    You see, a "flip-flop" is when your position changes. Bush's position has always been:

    Gay Marriage: A threat to mom and apple pie. Boo! Boo! You queers are trying to ruin our religious institutions and drag us all to Hell!!!

    Civil Unions: States can recognize anything they want along these lines. Live and let live. La-di-da.

    Is it a game of semantics? Yes.
    Is it a change of position? No.

    1. Re:Non-story by goatan · · Score: 1
      You see, a "flip-flop" is when your position changes. Bush's position has always been

      So a flip flopper is an inteligent person who can react to changing situations and change themselves? Why does bush think this is a bad thing.

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    2. Re:Non-story by Breakfast+Pants · · Score: 2

      Bush earlier wanted to amend the constitution to not allow states to have their own choice as to what constitutes a civil union. Now he is saying quite clearly that he believes marriage is between a man and a woman but the actual legal definition should be left up to the states. It is a change of position. Is it a change in the way he personally feels about gay marraige? No. Is it a change of his political position on state's rights? Yes. So, yes it is actually quite the flip flop. Quite the meticulously planned out flip flop as the whole constitution ammendment was absolutely insane and just a means of getting press attention (which this change in policy will also get). This is his planned out way, planned out ever since he proposed the ammendment, of showing the people that he can admit to a mistake and try to correct it.

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    3. Re:Non-story by blahlemon · · Score: 1

      A flip-flopper is someone who can't make up their mind where they stand on an issue. This week it's good one way, the next week it's good another way. Not the sort of behaviour you want from a President when the country is a war, no matter if you think the war is legal/justified or not.

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    4. Re:Non-story by kenneth_martens · · Score: 2, Informative
      Bush earlier wanted to amend the constitution to not allow states to have their own choice as to what constitutes a civil union.
      You are being misleading.

      The Federal Marriage Amendment (FMA) prohibits states from using the word marriage for anything other than the union of a man and a woman. However, the FMA clearly and deliberately allows states to define civil unions in any manner they choose. If states want to give civil unions to homosexual couples the FMA permits them to do so. If Bush supports the FMA (and he has) then he supports the states' right to define civil unions however they choose. So his recent statements are not, in fact, a change. There is no flip-flop.

      As an aside, are you aware of the difference between Bush and Cheney (yes, Vice-President Cheney disagrees with the President on this question) on the question of gay marriage? Both support a state's right to define civil unions, but Bush wants to reserve the word marriage for heterosexual relationships, while Cheney wants to leave that decision up to the state. That's why Bush supports the FMA and Cheney does not. The difference between Bush and Cheney on this issue is entirely about the use of the word marriage. Neither of them have a problem with giving some measure of legal recognition and protection to homosexual couples.
    5. Re:Non-story by Marxist+Hacker+42 · · Score: 1

      A flip-flopper is someone who can't make up their mind where they stand on an issue. This week it's good one way, the next week it's good another way. Not the sort of behaviour you want from a President when the country is a war, no matter if you think the war is legal/justified or not.

      Changing plans based on new evidence is EXACTLY the kind of behavior I'd want from a President during wartime. It's the other type that would have you still figuratively rooting for the Astros to win the World Series after the Red Sox took it home.

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    6. Re:Non-story by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      the word is not misleading, its "Cut Bait"

  23. Let's get one thing straight: by bersl2 · · Score: 3, Insightful

    "Flip-flopping" is acceptable if "the facts" change.

    I so wish that politicians were capable of (or is it that they are not allowed?) admiting a wrong decision based on wrong information or even a wrong decision outright. God forbid they be mortal...

    1. Re:Let's get one thing straight: by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      There are two problems with Bush "flip-flopping" though.

      1) He has made a campaign out of discrediting and insulting John Kerry for every policy change and "flip-flop", while stating time and again that he "stays the course".

      2) No information has changed to bring about this change in policy. He is merely concerned that the race is too close for comfort.

      Other than that - I agree that every intelligent person sees no problem with changing decisions based on new information. It's the basis of science. It's the basis of logic. It's a good thing to be adaptable.

      (But, even as a non-American, I have to say I really loathe Bush's administration :)

  24. My own stance by melquiades · · Score: 4, Insightful

    The government should deal only in civil unions, and stop recognizing "marriage" altogether. It's too politically charged, too religiously entangled, and, frankly, too personal for the government to be messing with. Let people define their own marriages as they see fit, and if they want the legal benefits of a civil union, they can apply for one -- but they're separate things. Signing civil union documents would be a standard part of most marriage ceremonies, but neither would necessitate the other.

    Yeah, it's just a linguistic trick, but it's really only the language that's hanging up the fundies in the first place.

    (OT: If the doc your sig links to is supposed to justify the Iraq war, it's a lousy justification. I'm sure it would take you about 20 minutes to find some loon in northern Idaho who blows off the UN, cheats the government, and would really like to build a biological weapon, and he has about as much ability to follow through on that as Saddam did.)

    1. Re:My own stance by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1, Insightful

      Government stayed the hell out of marriage altogether until this past century. For instance, back in the days of Benjamin Franklin, all you had to do to get married was... tell people you were married. Honestly, what business is it of the government's whether you're married or not?

    2. Re:My own stance by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0


      FYI - Iraq did build biological weapons. The inspectors were still recovering supposedly destroyed biological bombs and components in 2002/3.

    3. Re:My own stance by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0
      (OT: If the doc your sig links to is supposed to justify the Iraq war, it's a lousy justification. I'm sure it would take you about 20 minutes to find some loon in northern Idaho who blows off the UN, cheats the government, and would really like to build a biological weapon, and he has about as much ability to follow through on that as Saddam did.)

      In order to make your analogy work, he'd have to be "President for Life" of the "People's Republic of Idaho."
  25. definitely hurts him by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    It definitely hurts him. He needs a BIG turnout from the religious right.

  26. Stop gay sex by macrealist · · Score: 3, Funny

    Marriage is the best way to stop sex. So those that truly believe that gay sex is wrong should support gay marriage.

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    1. Re:Stop gay sex by Reemi · · Score: 1

      I second that,

      before marriage we called it love, after marriage it became sex.

    2. Re:Stop gay sex by mbourgon · · Score: 1

      What's the joke? "I fully support the right of gay couple to lose half their stuff during divorce proceedings"

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    3. Re:Stop gay sex by luferbu · · Score: 1
      before marriage we called it love, after marriage it became sex.

      Funny, I thought it was the other way around.

  27. Civil Union should be the standard by foniksonik · · Score: 4, Insightful

    Instead of having Marriages left and right and divorces all over the place just get a civil union and avoid all the moral and ethical baggage religion tacks on to it... unless you are religious and believe in Marriage as an act of worship, which is how Christians and several other religions teach.

    If your church doesn't allow for marriage between gay individuals that is a matter for the church to decide and those gay individuals to deal with. The Hebrew Temple won't marry you if you are not jewish, the Catholic Church won't marry you unless at least one of you is baptized and confirmed Catholic...

    If you want to be together and enjoy partner status in regards to taxes or other benefits go get a civil union and avoid the issue all together... marriage is simply one accepted form of civil union.. not the only one. Well, it looks like it will be this way in the future.

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    1. Re:Civil Union should be the standard by DigiShaman · · Score: 0, Flamebait

      *begin sarcasm*

      And hell, why were at it...lets just not get married at all OR have civil Unions. In fact, lets just shack-up and allow children to suffer at the expense of people not taking marrage seriously. Oh, I forgot, that's already happening.

      Ohh fuck it, lets all just be apart of the swingers club. No morrals, no ethics. Just all the mindless screwing and dumping unwanted children into the trash at the expense of the tax payers money.

      YEY!!!

      *end sarcasm*

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    2. Re:Civil Union should be the standard by salesgeek · · Score: 2, Insightful

      I love how all the discussion of marriage leaves out the most important part: children. At the end of the day, the traditional family has been society's way of creating social units to ultimately raise the next generation.

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    3. Re:Civil Union should be the standard by unapersson · · Score: 3, Insightful

      I love how all the discussion of marriage leaves out the most important part: children. At the end of the day, the traditional family has been society's way of creating social units to ultimately raise the next generation.

      You're too late, that particular horse bolted back when they allowed divorce. The traditional family myth harks back to a time when parents regularly died in their thirties; so broken families have always been a part of the overall picture of society, whether through death, infidelity, or separation.

    4. Re:Civil Union should be the standard by Nopal · · Score: 1

      And so because there are problems with it (divorce, death, etc) we shouldn't have an ideal societal unit that could best raise the next generation? Wow, that's some logic there!

    5. Re:Civil Union should be the standard by unapersson · · Score: 1

      Those aren't problems, they're the reality. Society has always been made up of families of differenty types, so it's disingenuous to suggest that any particular myth of the family is the correct one. A loving supportive home is the most important aspect, whatever its form. Society has to be capable of supporting all forms of families.

    6. Re:Civil Union should be the standard by Nopal · · Score: 1
      And who said that those problems aren't real? It is disingeneous to suggest that all you need is love and support. You need the proper role models, the proper amount of nurturing, and the proper relationship. Are you suggesting that there are no differences between men and women when it comes to nurturing and raising children? Is a male role-model exactly the same as a female role-model? Judging by your response I can guess that most likely you have no children since you show no clue as to what it takes to raise them.

      I am not arguing that same-sex couples aren't capable of raising children and given the choice between a child in an orphanage and one adopted by a same sex couple, the second choice is clearly better. However, what I am arguing is that whenever possible heterosexual unions combine the best of both worlds and despite their flaws, they are the ideal for that task.

    7. Re:Civil Union should be the standard by snol · · Score: 1

      You shouldn't need the government to help uphold your traditions.

    8. Re:Civil Union should be the standard by salesgeek · · Score: 1

      You're too late, that particular horse bolted back when they allowed divorce. The traditional family myth harks back to a time when parents regularly died in their thirties; (stuff about broken families deleted)

      A) Divorce has been around for a very, very long time. Marriage has been around for at least a couple of weeks longer :)

      B) Broken families have always been there - you are right.

      C) None of that says anything about the real issue in marriage, which is a social unit designed to raise children who happen to be fairly unproductive to society until they grow up. Without the family unit, who cares for the children? That is the real issue in civil unions - they give benefits reserved for a structure intended to raise children to people who the vast majority of the time will not create or raise a child.

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    9. Re:Civil Union should be the standard by Richard+M.+Nixon · · Score: 1

      I love how all the discussion of marriage leaves out the most important part: children. At the end of the day, the traditional family has been society's way of creating social units to ultimately raise the next generation.

      I think what you mean is:
      Won't somebody PLEASE think of the children!!!!!

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    10. Re:Civil Union should be the standard by foniksonik · · Score: 1

      Not to mention that the traditional family isn't what the parent is referring to... since the 50's at least the so called tradtional family has been a nuclear family, or 2 parents and their children... the real traditional family was 2 parents, their children, their parents... all 4 of them if still alive, their brothers and sisters and their children... so a clan basically where the role of parenting was taken care of by a multitude of adult persons and where the loss of one was not catastrophic.

      I'll call that the traditional 'extended' family and it definitely doesn't exist in any significant way in the modern world. Too bad, cause it is arguably the best way to raise a child... unfortunately we now let our children be raised by strangers and celebrities.

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  28. Sorry, wrong universe by leonbrooks · · Score: 1, Interesting

    The Catholic church of the time was focussed around various forms of Mithraism and Zoroastrian-like groups, although it later absorbed the cult of Vesta (ever heard of Vestal Virgins?) and half a dozen others before conquering much of the Christian movement by a kind of internal takeover. The canon existed pretty much as the Protestants use it long before the Catholic Church officially endorsed it - and IRL their endorsement varied from accepted practice and was varied a couple of times.

    The New Testament states flat-out that homosexuals (very carefully differentiates between butch and limp-wristed blokes too, and also lesbians, then groups them all together with thieves and liars and such) will not be found in heaven, so if you're a Christian and your "love" leads someone to miss their chance, were you really loving them, or were you just being weak at a different level? The Old Testament is even blunter, prescribing stoning to death for homosexuals.

    Of course, if you hate homosexuals, you're also going to miss out. If you can put together a coherent world-view which incorporates both facts, then you're pretty much on the right track.

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    1. Re:Sorry, wrong universe by bonniot · · Score: 2, Insightful
      What the Bible says about any subject always depends on the way you read and interpret it. Just think about how differently Jesus lived and interpreted the scriptures compared to the Pharisees.

      What the Bible says about homosexuality on religioustolerance.org analyses the various texts and tries to show the different points of views.

    2. Re:Sorry, wrong universe by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      So there is no message of God? It seems the reader of the Bible would have to construct the message of God according to his own understanding of language and whatever other understandings he has.

      This I agree with. Even if God wrote the Bible, he wrote it in Hebrew did he not? I don't know Hebrew. So I could never read the message of God. Any good linguist from Saussure on knows that a translation contitutes a new work altogether, as there can never be true translation. Moreso, every good linguist knows that every human has their own language or dialect, perhaps to be more percise. Which brings us to what you said.

    3. Re:Sorry, wrong universe by gi-tux · · Score: 1

      Well, this sure sounds good, BUT!
      You can't possibly follow the liberal beliefs on the religioustolerance site. You can't believe the Bible and believe that it was written by people that were trying to advance their own religious beliefs. In 2nd Timithy 3:16, Paul states "All scripture is given by inspiration of God...". Now this is either a true statement or it is not. And if this one statement is not true, then the entire book must be suspect and is therefore not useful.
      Why should the liberals be looking for "applicable biblical themes" when by their own assertion the Bible has lies in it. If that one verse is false, then it is possible that the entire "justice, love, monogamy, caring, commitment, etc" part could be wrong also.
      I once had a Bible teacher that told us that when you interpret the scriptures, you should determine if your interpretation comes in direct conflict with anyother scripture. If a conflict is found between your interpretation and any other scripture then YOU MUST be wrong. This applies directly to this suggestion. There is a problem with the liberal view on the religioustolerance site, in that there is a conflict with another scripture. They, like many others in the world, have decided that they obviously know better than God and thus will ignore the scripture in question.
      This is much like children. Teenagers are often like this, in that they THINK that they know more than their parents. Parents give them advise which they choose to ignore because their parents are "just old and things are different now than when they were kids". We (well those of us that are adults and have kids) know that things are some different, but the same principles still apply. The same is true with the Bible, sure there are some things that are different, but not in major ways and the same principles still applly today.

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    4. Re:Sorry, wrong universe by bonniot · · Score: 1
      Well, this sure sounds good, BUT!

      1. in 2Tim 3:16 Paul couldn't have been talking about the New Testament, as it didn't exist yet, only the Old Testament. Yet it is hard to find Christians today who would feel they have to keep all the regulations of the OT. Do they wear clothes woven of two separate materials? Do women keep themselves secluded during their period? Do we not eat blood sausages or bloody steaks? Does this make the Bible (or the OT) any less inspired?

      2. My pastor told me that it is important to find out the context of the specific passages. For example, in his letter to the Corinthians, Paul says that women shoudln't have their hair down in church. Is this an absolute (yet mysterious) law of God? or, as the pastor suggested, was it a specific piece of advice to those women in those times, where the only women who wore their hair down in public were prostitutes?

      3. This supports the idea that verses are not simply either true or false, but they have to be interpreted: what do they mean today?

      4. To me this does not make the Bible useless as you suggest. It just means that you need to take the time to search what it can teach us. So it's not about perfectly knowing what God wants but thinking one knows better. It's about honestly seeking the truth, through the study of the bible of a personal relationship with God. Actually, this is similar to your idea that you should cross-check your interpretation with other passages. However, those other passages also have to be understood correctly. The ultimate check is what Jesus himself taught as the greatest commandement: love God, and your neightbour as yourself.

    5. Re:Sorry, wrong universe by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Why should the liberals be looking for "applicable biblical themes" when by their own assertion the Bible has lies in it. If that one verse is false, then it is possible that the entire "justice, love, monogamy, caring, commitment, etc" part could be wrong also.

      So you believe that there are giants in the earth and that someone that works on the sabbath should be put to death? What about the earth being created in seven days and being only 6 thousand years old?

      Face it, your religion is not the same as when Moses walked the earth or when Jesus walked the earth either. It changes with the times. The most important thing about Jesus is that he taught us to love our neighbors, even when we don't like everything they do. He did NOT teach us to be judges. I therefore submit that the people that are most opposed to homosexuality are not real Christians.

      The reason God gave you a brain is so you can make your own decisions. If you want to be an ignoramus, and bang on the bible every time you don't understand something, that's also your choice, but don't try to force me to believe the same things. Morality is bigger than the bible. It took me a long time to learn that, and I hope you learn that too someday.

    6. Re:Sorry, wrong universe by boots@work · · Score: 1

      Mind you, this is the same God that supposedly killed thousands of Egyptian children in cold blood, because he disliked the policies of their monarch. Being all-powerful he could have trivially killed or punished only the monarch, so clearly this genocide was intentional.

      This can only be the actions of a muderous psychopath, and I'm not at all inclined to take his advice on "Love".

  29. The Ghost of J Edgar Hoover by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1, Funny

    The FBI start an investigation into Haliburton and shortly afterwards Dubya changes his stance on gay rights ... where's my tinfoil hat ?

  30. That's a poor argument. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1, Insightful

    Yeah, but my wife and I don't ever plan on having kids. So should any spousal benefits we receive be negated?

    Not to mention all the folks out there who are infertile. Do we start discriminating against them, too?

    1. Re:That's a poor argument. by DavidTC · · Score: 2, Insightful
      Exactly. If we wanted to reward childbearing the easiest way would be to reward childbearing, not some insane hypothetical reason for approving marriage, which never once appeared until this whole gay marriage thing came up.

      It's really amazing how far some people will go in an attempt to make their stance anything but pure bigotry. Suddenly, marriage is about having kids. Hey, you loons, if marriage is about having kids, why do we let people get marriage and have contraceptives? Why do we let infertile couples have marriages? More importantly, why do we let couples where one of them is infertile get married?

      And, assuming the point of marriage is to encourage having children, why, exactly, should we stop gay people...they already aren't going to have children. (Ignoring adoption and artifical insemination, but bringing those up just weakens these crazy peoples' case even more.)

      It seems like, logically, pretending that the purpose of marriage is to encourage people to have children (Which has, mysteriously, never needed encouraging before...look at China. Look at teen pregnancy.) it makes more sense stop a fertile person from marrying an infertile person, and removing themselves from childbearing, then it does to stop two gay people, who are rather unlike to have childen no matter what you do with them, unless you're considering forcing them to get married to fertile people of the opposite gender and have sex with them.

      The real reason we have marriage is because at some point in your life you shift your family from your blood relatives, to a new family that consists of you and another person, and then manybe even some more people if you make them or adopt them. Gay people just want the right to have a new family that's recognized by law as their family.

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    2. Re:That's a poor argument. by pipingguy · · Score: 1


      Male-female marriage itself is really just an old tradition. There certainly isn't anything sacred about it any more is there?

      In many western societies co-habitation beyond a minimum period of time is considered to be a legal relationship. I wonder if this applies to same-sex couples - I see no reason that it wouldn't.

      Gays clamouring for marriage rights seem to be fighting the wrong fight. In my opinion their efforts would be better spent publicizing prominent people from the community that aren't stereotypical.

      It's not as if the gay community is oppressed to the extent that blacks were as recently as 50 years ago. Stigmatized and misunderstood by many, yes. Violation of basic rights, no.

    3. Re:That's a poor argument. by DavidTC · · Score: 1
      There's nothing sacred about marriage in the same way there's nothing sacred about the Easter bunny...it's a secular ritual that Christianity has coopted. Or, alternately, it's a secular ritual that has coopted Christianity.

      But anyway, there have been some singular notable instances of violations of their rights in the past decade, but they've been able to get redress through the legal system.

      But I think gay people have already altered public opinion enough, and I think they think that also. At least, they've altered it enough in areas they actually are trying to get gay marriage.

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  31. Ask William Hurt... it happened to him. by Big+Sean+O · · Score: 1

    It's the governments business about marriage if things like divorce and child custody become civil issues.

    For example, I tell everyone me and my lady are married. Then, after I trash her credit, I 'divorce' her. She would be mightily pissed. Oh, and I take her kid.

    The government regulates all contracts for the public good.

    Civil unions sidestep the whole marriage deal. If Bush _really_ wanted to pass an amendment, he should've passed one that guaranteed civil unions all, including gays.

    But, it wouldn't have given the right-wing nut-jobs a hard-on.

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  32. At least cite that. by khasim · · Score: 1

    http://www.axisoflogic.com/cgi-bin/exec/view.pl?ar chive=43&num=5339&printer=1

    sheesh

  33. semantics by zxnos · · Score: 1

    i think it all comes down to what words mean to a person. personally i dont like the idea of 'gay marriage' because to me 'marriage' means a man and a woman. i would like to see a seperate term that means a man and man or a woman and woman. like gay, lesbian, heterosexual. it tells us something, it is more precise. while 'civil union' works, it seems very clinical.

    i see no reason why two people of the same sex, who are committed to each other, shouldnt have the same legal rights as two committed people of opposite sex.

    perhaps the president came to the same conclusion?

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    1. Re:semantics by kingj02 · · Score: 1
      i would like to see a seperate term that means a man and man or a woman and woman. like gay, lesbian, heterosexual. it tells us something, it is more precise.
      Kinda like we have seperate terms to distinguish race. We also used to have seperate schools based on your race... and then we realized that seperate but equal is not equal.

      Why do we need to note the difference anyway? I saw an interesting highway sign once, it read: "He was a very articulate black man." With 'black' crossed out. Think about it.
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    2. Re:semantics by zxnos · · Score: 1

      i see your point, however; by your logic we shouldnt use any words to describe people at all. this just seperates them.

      i dont see it as seperation.

      if someone says they are a libertarian, i know soemthing about their personality. if someone says they just got married. it doesnt mean anything. now if they say they just got 'marrited' i know something about them and know not to ask what their wifes' name is.

      do you get what i mean?

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    3. Re:semantics by kingj02 · · Score: 1

      I didn't mean that describing a persons is always bad, but in cases where it is irrelevant, such as laws regarding civil rights, I don't think it has an appropriate place.

      Now on a person-to-person level, such as your example, that information can be necessary. But in cases prone to confusion, that person propably expects it and shouldn't--not always--get too upset. I just graduated from college and applied to a lot of jobs posted on Monster. Believe me, there were a few times that I wish I knew whether or not Terry Johnson should be addressed to Ms. or that Shannon Smith should be addressed to Mr.

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  34. As a Licensed Minister, I agree by Fished · · Score: 3, Interesting

    As a licensed (Baptist) minister, I agree. There is a huge difference between marriage as I believe God ordained it and the mockery of marriage we call civil marriage, even if you leave aside the gay marriage issue. In God's marriage, divorce is allowed only in the most dire circumstances, remarriage is never allowed, and the husband and wife "become one flesh." In civil marriage, the opposite obtains. It's time to stop equivocating on what marriage is and get the state out of the marriage business.

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    1. Re:As a Licensed Minister, I agree by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      As a licensed (Baptist) minister, I agree.

      Does that mean that you too have turned your back on Christ and instead parrot everything the GOP propagandists on the radio say, no matter how far-fetched or untrue it may be?

      Modern Baptists are Republicans first and Christians second, and it's sickening.

    2. Re:As a Licensed Minister, I agree by melquiades · · Score: 2, Insightful

      Thanks for this post! I disagree with your ideas on marriage, and thus agree wholeheartedly on getting the state out of the marriage business. We should not need to play politics or fight each other in court for each of us to live marriage as we believe it ought to be lived. Like other matters of morality and faith, it should be an individual decision, and one where we attempt to sway each other not with laws, but with discussion (in the honorable tradition of my namesake, Paul).

    3. Re:As a Licensed Minister, I agree by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      In God's marriage, divorce is allowed only in the most dire circumstances, remarriage is never allowed

      hm.. Actually, remarriage is explicitly allowable in the cases of marital unfaithfulness or the death of one partner (although that's not really divorce..) Beyond that, we don't live under the law of Moses as under the old covenent. To say that there are no other cases where remarriage is allowable is inconsistent with the grace of God to forgive all sin -- including illigitimate divorce in someone's past.

    4. Re:As a Licensed Minister, I agree by Jeremiah+Cornelius · · Score: 1

      He just wants to keep chugging chowder from Unca' Cheney's chimichanga!

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    5. Re:As a Licensed Minister, I agree by Fished · · Score: 1
      hm.. Actually, remarriage is explicitly allowable in the cases of marital unfaithfulness or the death of one partner (although that's not really divorce..)
      Actually, this is quite debatable. This intepretation takes something that Jesus said descriptively and makes prescriptive.
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  35. Legalize Polygamy? by lynx_user_abroad · · Score: 1
    So, if we're supposed to no longer be concerned about limiting marriage to "a man and a woman", are we soon going to see a recognition of the Mormon practice of polygamy (one man, multiple wives)?

    If a state decides that a civil union requireds 1man+1woman, but a "marriage" can be anything, what has really changed?

    If a state decides that 1any + 1any is an acceptable union, what's the point in limiting this to just sets of two?

    Methinks Bush is just flip-flopping in the week before the election knowing that he'll never have to answer the hard questions such a reversed philosophy raises.

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    1. Re:Legalize Polygamy? by egomaniac · · Score: 1

      Marriage confers certain legal rights and privileges. For instance, your health care and insurance typically extend to your spouse, and you are given tax breaks.

      If polygamy were legalized, I could just marry EVERYBODY IN THE COUNTRY, and give them all those legal benefits which are restricted to married people. I imagine my health care provider would be a bit horrified, as would the federal government upon realizing that every single taxpayer was now married.

      There are very good reasons to limit us to being able to extend such benefits to only one other person (or at least a small, well-defined number).

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    2. Re:Legalize Polygamy? by DeltaSigma · · Score: 1

      Hi,
      former "mormon" here.

      On the subject of polygamy practiced by "mormons" you're only partially correct.

      The bulk of "mormons" (people who subscribe to the writings in the Book of Mormon) belong to "The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints." Most mormons you will ever meet belong to this church. In this church, polygamy is certain assurance of excommunication.

      There are, however, "mormon" offshoots from this church such as "The True & Living Church of Jesus Christ of Saints of the Last Days," and "Fundamentalist Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints." These churches teach polygamy.

      As it stands though, most "mormons" do not subscribe to this belief, and it's erroneous to refer to it as a current "mormon" belief.

      Of course, The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints sort of practiced polygamy long ago... But that's a big issue. At a glance the Wikipedia article appears to be pretty accurate and unbiased. Have a look there if you're interested.

    3. Re:Legalize Polygamy? by schiefaw · · Score: 1

      Oh come on! I have one wife and that is more that enough for me! No wonder the Mormons were so religious. They had to believe in heaven because with multiple wives they were looking forward to death.

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    4. Re:Legalize Polygamy? by lynx_user_abroad · · Score: 1
      Marriage confers certain legal rights and privileges.

      This is but one of the problems we have to deal with when we allow the government to confer legal rights and privileges based on one's status under a given religion.

      So, change the law so that these "legal rights and privileges" are conferred based on civil union status, not marriage. Set a limit to the number of individuals who can enter into a civil union, and let anyone marry any man, woman, or sheep he wants, provided he can find (or start) a religious institution to sanctify it.

      The real question is, how will Bush's core supporters (the Coalition of the Willingly Misled) perceive this? Is he backing away from Federalism, or backing away from "Family Values"?

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    5. Re:Legalize Polygamy? by lynx_user_abroad · · Score: 1
      On the subject of polygamy practiced by "mormons" you're only partially correct.

      Thank you for the correction, and the additional information as well.

      It was not my intention to portray polygamy among mormons as the norm, although I see now how it could be read that way. I'll accept it as having mis-spoken and appreciate your correction.

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  36. The Job of a politician by LordKazan · · Score: 2, Insightful

    The Job of a politician is to make the best decision possible based upon all available information. That REQUIRES them to change their mind in the face of new evidence.

    The dogmatastic is death to a country

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    1. Re:The Job of a politician by blahlemon · · Score: 1

      Sometimes in the international community, for the sake of appearences, you can not afford to admit making a mistake.

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    2. Re:The Job of a politician by Samus · · Score: 1

      Maybe but then can you afford to appear arrogant? If you continue to insist that its day and the whole world believes it's night then what are you?

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    3. Re:The Job of a politician by LordKazan · · Score: 1

      That's absolutely possitively equine excrement.

      To admit that you made an error and then to correct it is the best possible thing you go do - people respect those who admit when they were wrong and right their wrong. Someone who doesn't admit they are wrong appears (is) arrogant.

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  37. Lots of reasons by hey! · · Score: 1

    If a state decides that 1any + 1any is an acceptable union, what's the point in limiting this to just sets of two?

    There are lots of reasons to allow gay marriage but not polygamy. You just haven't thought it through yet.

    Issue #1: Partner A is incapcitated. Who will make decisions about his or her medical care? If there is only one other person in the marriage, then Partner B. If there is a Partner C then there must be a vote and there is potential deadlock. Perhaps we should allow marriages only between even numbers of people?

    Another issue: Partner A dies intestate. If there is only a partner B, then there is no question how to divide the estate.

    I'd also argue that there is good reason to restrict polygmous marriage, if it were allowed, to gays. There are roughly equal numbers of men and women. If men can take multiple women, then there will be a surfeit of unmatched heterosexual males who will not be able to participate in the institution of marriage. If we want to promote the social benefits of marriage, then heterosxual polygamy (as well as sex selection) undermines this. Homosexual polygamy, however, does not.

    By the way, there will be significant sh*t hitting the fan in China in the coming decades because of child sex selection.

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    1. Re:Lots of reasons by lynx_user_abroad · · Score: 1
      Perhaps we should allow marriages only between even numbers of people?

      #define struct UNION constrain WORD aligned

      If men can take multiple women,then there will be a surfeit of unmatched heterosexual males who will not be able to participate in the institution of marriage.

      You got something against capitalism? ;-) What are you, some sort of commie? ;[)

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    2. Re:Lots of reasons by fatmonkeyboy · · Score: 1

      These are your "issues" with polygamy? How to divide the estate, who makes decisions about medical care? If those are the best you could come up with, maybe you haven't thought it through yet.

      So, when the wife dies the husband gets the estate. Great. But what happens when the husband dies? By your logic, every couple should only be allowed to have one child, because otherwise it make figuring out the inheritance too complicated.

      Oh, shit! What if they both die childless and all four of their parents are still alive!?! What if they have a 17-year old child who will turn 18 next month, no living parents, but both have a 30-year old sibling?

      You see...we already have to deal with these problems. Banning polygamy doesn't make them disappear.

      And besides - the members of the polygamy could simply have a document that specified these things. That's the we way handle it now anyway.

    3. Re:Lots of reasons by hey! · · Score: 1

      Well, I don't really feel strongly about polygamy, I'm just pointing out there are reasons that allowing polygamy is more complicated than allowing gay marriage. Your argument is logically fallacious, because it assumes that monogamy has to be perfect in order to be better.

      WRT your argument about chidren in the case of both partents dying, it doesn't hold water. Because children don't play much role in the economic success of adults (quite the opposte). This makes dividing the estate evenly fair.

      By way of contrast, let's say a rich man has two wives, A & B. B is his favorite wife, so should she get a larger share? On the other hand A is his older wife who shared his early poverty and supported him as he built his business. These kinds of issues don't really apply very much to children. This reminds me of the situation where an insurance salesman tries to convince you to buy life insurance for your kids. This is absurd, because you're kids don't contribute economically to your family, unless maybe you are on a family farm. Wives and husbands do neeed insurance.

      In any case, you haven't addressed the issue of sex imbalance with heterosexual polygamy. If the state promotes marriage because it is good for society, heterosexual polygamy undermines the state's effort to promote marriage.

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    4. Re:Lots of reasons by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      spoken(SP) like a man who has never planed a furneal(SP)

  38. that fag loving bastard by fenfiralcain · · Score: 0
    How dare he!!

    now, i'm gonna half to write in Dennis Leary, stupid shit head, making me waste my vote.

    For the love of god vote leary
    http://tuxserver.ath.cx/~fenfir/learypres.htm

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  39. Pandering is not Flip-Flopping by theghost · · Score: 1

    I don't think anyone really believes him when he says this. He's just trying to appear less evil to uninformed undecided voters. His base knows he's with them in sending gays to hell and his opponents know he's just saying whatever it will take to get him re-installed in office.

    Incidentally, being against LGBT rights now is like being against Civil Rights in the 50's. I'm looking forward to the time when we can all look back on this as another shameful hurdle we overcame.

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  40. Remember who we're talking about... by benhocking · · Score: 2, Insightful

    You're assuming that Bush has read and understood the FMA. Are you sure you want to make that assumption? :)

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  41. Where Will They Turn? by White+Roses · · Score: 1
    The problem with Bush annoying some of the GOP is this: who will they go and vote for? Is there a candidate who is seriously against this entirely?

    Another example: say Bush said abortion should be kept legal. That would seriously PO a large segment of the GOP. But where would they go? Bush can say whatever the hell he likes, and the GOP members are still stuck voting for him, because there isn't any alternative for fundamentalist busy bodies (not that all the GOP are).

    At some level, I am sure the same is true of Kerry. Well, maybe they could jump over to Badnarik, if Kerry suddenly said he'd legislate against gay marriage. But there isn't another candidate who has even hinted at making gay marriage illegal at a federal level (as far as I can tell). Bush will not lose a single vote with this flip-flop.

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  42. Err... by BrokenHalo · · Score: 2, Interesting
    Pursuing this line just a little further:

    I am somewhat curious as to why this is a topic for Slashdot.

    I personally don't give a damn what consenting adults do in the privacy of their bedrooms, since it is none of my business, but it is slightly suggestive given the byline "News for nerds".

    :-D

    1. Re:Err... by schmink182 · · Score: 1
      ...But it is slightly suggestive given the byline "News for nerds"

      True perhaps, but I think that issues shaping the future of American civil rights certainly qualify as "stuff that matters."

  43. Sterile People and Gender rights. by Thunderstruck · · Score: 1

    The counter-argument to all the flame about sterile people comes from changing one's perspective:

    The government makes laws that must fit the overwhelming majority - there will always be anecdotal cases that don't fit. In this case, the government may have a legitimate interest in encouraging unions that can produce children. Since most heterosexual unions can produce children, but no homoxexual unions can, it can be argued that the law makes sense.

    The counter argument to the gender discrimination argument runs this way:

    There is no gender discrimination - all men are equally allowed to marry women. All women are equally allowed to mary men. Everyone is equally allowed to mary a person of the opposite sex. Just because a few individuals are not interested in members of the opposite sex does not make the system inequitable.

    For what its worth, kudos to the folks who pointed out that Marriage has now always been a church thing.

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  44. What's good for you. by chihowa · · Score: 1
    Voting for third parties in a winner-takes-all voting system is for people who aren't very good at game theory.

    (A lot of people aren't very good at game theory, which is why we shouldn't have a winner-takes-all system. But I digress.)

    Voting for people who in no way even pretend to represent your interests is for people who aren't very good at making rational decisions.

    (A lot of people aren't very good at making rational decisions, which is why we have the system we have now. But I digress.)

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    1. Re:What's good for you. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Voting carried out by any one individual is for people who aren't very good at statistics.

      (A lot of people aren't very good at statistics, which is why we have people saying "every count votes" and "if you didn't vote you have no right to complain". But I digress.)

      Seriously though - I'll vote when someone can point out any one election I could partake in that would have been changed by my one vote :)

  45. Careful how you word things by Merk · · Score: 1
    This is kinda like that "Bush banned stem-cell research" myth, when in fact he just stopped anti-abortionists from being forced to fund abortions (via taxpayer money).

    Whoa cowboy. Your lie is just as huge as the one you're complaining about. That's not what happened. Bush banned federal funding for new embryonic stem cell lines. It's not like without that ban, the government was going to go out, soliciting women to have abortions so that they could get the stem cells. The only difference would have been that rather than letting the aborted foetuses go to waste, they could have been used to help save someone's life. His ban had *nothing* to do with the funding of abortions.

  46. As someone who is not sure abut god in general by Edax+Rarem · · Score: 1
    ... I disagree.(mostly)
    I thought the christian/catholic/babtist/protestant/whatever/etc .. god was all about one word.
    LOVE
    Love felt by any person is just that, love.
    A fine quote from some bible:
    There are three things that remain - faith, hope, and love - and the greatest of these is love."
    Now it seems to me that if Jesus or whatever diety you happen to worship has LOVE as their bottom line then they should say so and stand by that.

    But it isn't that way. If a man has love, true unconditional love for a woman, it is just fine in the eyes of their lord.
    Now if this same unconditional love is directed towards someone of the same sex, your god has a big old problem. Or so you say.
    What has changed? The feeling of love is still the EXACT same feeling. It is just that those with authority and who call themselves "righteous" don't like it. But aren't all humans equal in your god's eyes?

    Another good one:
    "Love is patient. Love is kind. It does not envy. It does not boast. It is not proud. It is not rude. It is not self-seeking. It is not easily angered. It keeps no record of wrong doing. It does not delight in evil, but rejoices in the truth. It always protects, trusts, hopes, perseveres."
    Corinthians 13
    Paul/1 Corinthians 13:13
    Now I don't see anything in there that says anything about love being gender specific.

    So, I think the problem here is not about LOVE.
    Love is constant and love is not judgemental. It is only those who get to determine if 2 humans can legally be together that are not consistant and purely judgemental base on their hippocratic beliefs.

    One last quote:
    "Two are better than one, because they have a good return for their work: If one falls down, his friend can help him up. But pity the man who falls and has no one to help him up! Also, if two lie down together, they will keep warm. But how can one keep warm alone? The one may be overpowered, two can defend themselves."
    Ecclesiastes 4:9-12
    No mention of "1 man and 1 woman" there only "Two".

    If your god believes in love, I seriously doubt an almighty being has set conditions and qualifications on who can love who.
    And neither should we.
    If two people love each other, unconditionally, it shouldn't matter what sex they are and it shouldn't affect their rights to visit them in the hospital and it shouldn't affect their right to raise children or anything else.
    Two people who have commited their lives to be with the other should all have the same benefits as every other couple that has done the same.
    If your god won't accept it (according to you) there are plenty of other gods out there that will.
    But there are those out there who say that same gender love is "Immoral" and I think that by saying that you are saying love is immoral. Which it is not and that makes you a bloody hippocrite that has blasphemed. (according to your own standards)

    Personally, I believe in nothing and I am therefore not _limited_ in any set of beliefs.
    And this is how the government should be as well. It should allow all religeons and represent NONE. Because god and government, by law, do not mix in this country, last time I checked anyway.

    So, it should be one way or the other. 2 people CAN form a union and get benefits or they CAN'T.
    Why are we discriminating?
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  47. Maximum & minimum. by khasim · · Score: 1
    You need the proper role models, the proper amount of nurturing, and the proper relationship.
    Yet all throughout history there have been families without those due to death and such.

    Are you suggesting that there are no differences between men and women when it comes to nurturing and raising children?
    I'd say there is more of a difference between individuals of the same sex (good dad ... bad dad) than there is among the average individuals between sexes (average dad approx equal average mom).

    Is a male role-model exactly the same as a female role-model?
    That depends upon what that role-model is doing. If mom is holding down a job to pay for food, shelter and clothing, then she is modelling the "provider" role. And she can probably do that just as well as the average male.

    I am not arguing that same-sex couples aren't capable of raising children and given the choice between a child in an orphanage and one adopted by a same sex couple, the second choice is clearly better.
    Yep. Once you step away from the idealized "family", you realize that it is a continuum (and that the ideal family never has existed and never will).

    Two stable gay guys can raise a child better than a "normal" man/woman couple where one or both is/are alcoholic, abusive, etc.

    However, what I am arguing is that whenever possible heterosexual unions combine the best of both worlds and despite their flaws, they are the ideal for that task.
    No. That is only accurate when all other conditions are equal.

    But they never are.

    Children in the worst of the heterosexual families would do far better if placed in the best of the homosexual families.

    So, it comes down to evaluating each situation based upon all of the factors in that situation. Never a "...heterosexual unions combine the best of both worlds and despite their flaws, they are the ideal for that task".
    1. Re:Maximum & minimum. by Nopal · · Score: 1
      I'd say there is more of a difference between individuals of the same sex (good dad ... bad dad) than there is among the average individuals between sexes (average dad approx equal average mom).

      And here you reinforce my suspicion that you have no clue about how to raise children, and I'll go on a limb and say that you're probably not even in a committed relationship, to boot. At night, a mother will wake at the slightest cry from a newborn. Fathers usually sleep the night through. Between mothers and fathers, and between men and women for that matter, there are deep, proven and well-understood differences which are psychological, emotional, and intellectual. Millions of years of evolution have seen to that. I suggest that you do a little research.

      Two stable gay guys can raise a child better than a "normal" man/woman couple where one or both is/are alcoholic, abusive, etc.

      So what does that prove? That alcoholics or psychogically damaged people make bad parents, nothing more. To continue with your logic, an abusing, alcoholic father can raise a child better than a rabid pack of wolves. It's all a non-sequitur when it comes to the discussion, though.

      Try to see the forest despite of all of those trees that you keep describing. You seem to talk about exceptions and aberrations of normal parenting, about the extremes of that continuum which you mention. However, you completely ignore the center, where most families actually are, where the government is interested in because it provides for the most efficient institution for securing a healthy next generation.

      So, it comes down to evaluating each situation based upon all of the factors in that situation. Never a "...heterosexual unions combine the best of both worlds and despite their flaws, they are the ideal for that task".

      That is the most assinine, useless approach I've ever heard, because it's impossible to thoroughly evaluate each situation of anything, and because trying to do so leads nowhere. Have you ever heard the term "paralysis by analysis?" That is exactly what you're describing. Your position is analogous to arguing against voting or sales tax because after all, each situation is different since each person earns differtly and can pax sales tax differently. How can you give the same value to the vote of the guy that didn't research as to the vote of the guy that spent months researching every candidate?

    2. Re:Maximum & minimum. by Scudsucker · · Score: 1

      And here you reinforce my suspicion that you have no clue about how to raise children

      And you just proved my suspicion that you are a dick.

      At night, a mother will wake at the slightest cry from a newborn. Fathers usually sleep the night through.

      Maybe because the typical father works 10 hours more per week than the average woman, and is 19 times more likely to be killed or injured on the job? If I were busting my ass to support my family, I'd want a good nights sleep, too.

      So what does that prove?

      It proves that you totally missed the point. Its stupid to say to say that gay couples might not be as good as a heterosexual couple, while heterosexual couples have been screwing up in VERY large numbers as long as the human race has existed. Hello? Over 50% of marriages end in divorce. Don't compare a theoretical gay family to an ideal hetro marriage as if it were the norm.

    3. Re:Maximum & minimum. by Nopal · · Score: 1
      Wow, getting personal there! I question what you know based on your poor, knee-jerk responses, and you question directly who I am. Nice! That's a sure way to win an argument.

      But, I'm not going to sink to the same level that you've sunk to. Since your response indicates that you don't care about discussion, only about irrationally defending your ignorant, selfish, make-believe view of the world, I'm not going to waste my time.

      I will, however, leave you with a few links. If you're halfway honest with yourself you may even click on some of them.

      The Myth of divorce. The 50% divorce rate is a myth, but then again I doubt you know the difference between myth and fact.

      Divorces show that children require both parents.

      Some general reading about parents.

    4. Re:Maximum & minimum. by Scudsucker · · Score: 1

      That's a sure way to win an argument.

      And being patronizing is? Don't blame me for muddying the discource, I was just following you.

      But, I'm not going to sink to the same level that you've sunk to. Since your response indicates that you don't care about discussion, only about irrationally defending your ignorant, selfish, make-believe view of the world, I'm not going to waste my time.

      What, no more condecending statements that we don't know what we are talking about because we don't have the exact same opinion that you do?

      The Myth of divorce.

      Wow, thats impressive. Not. The authors decisive proof seems to be that there are existing marriages to go along with new marriages and new divorces. Except it didn't seem to occur to Mr. Genius that there are existing divorces as well.

      Divorces show that children require both parents.

      And if this were a discussion on the merits of single parenting, you might have a point there. But we aren't so you don't.

  48. Mothers kill their children. by khasim · · Score: 1
    And here you reinforce my suspicion that you have no clue about how to raise children, and I'll go on a limb and say that you're probably not even in a committed relationship, to boot.
    Whatever. I'll skip over the personal questions and focus on real examples.

    At night, a mother will wake at the slightest cry from a newborn.
    There are recorded instances of mothers killing their children and also allowing their children to be raped in exchange for drugs.

    Learn what "continuum" means.

    Fathers usually sleep the night through.
    There are recorded instances of fathers risking their lives to save children from burning buildings.

    Between mothers and fathers, and between men and women for that matter, there are deep, proven and well-understood differences which are psychological, emotional, and intellectual. Millions of years of evolution have seen to that. I suggest that you do a little research.
    I have done the research. That is why I know that there are more differences between women at the extremes then there are between men and women at the middle.

    So what does that prove? That alcoholics or psychogically damaged people make bad parents, nothing more.
    It shows that your belief that basing "good" on sexual orientation is flawed.

    To continue with your logic, an abusing, alcoholic father can raise a child better than a rabid pack of wolves.
    Yes, that is correct.

    Try to see the forest despite of all of those trees that you keep describing. You seem to talk about exceptions and aberrations of normal parenting, about the extremes of that continuum which you mention.
    The forest is the trees.

    The "normal parenting" that you're now retreating to is far different from the ideal parenting that you were originally talking about.

    However, you completely ignore the center, where most families actually are, where the government is interested in because it provides for the most efficient institution for securing a healthy next generation.
    I'm not ignoring it. In fact, I've mentioned it. Again, in the middle, there is less of a difference between men and women then there is between men and men at the extremes of the male continuum.

    So you cannot say that sexual orientation defines a "good" parent relationship or a "good" role model.

    That is the most assinine, useless approach I've ever heard, because it's impossible to thoroughly evaluate each situation of anything, and because trying to do so leads nowhere.
    Actually, it is rather easy. Is there a history of violence or substance abuse etc.

    Once you start defining your criteria for a "good" role model without including sexual orientation, you'll find that many homosexual couples are "better" parents than the hetrosexual couples who birth the children.

    Have you ever heard the term "paralysis by analysis?" That is exactly what you're describing.
    Nope. Just evaluating the relevent factors.

    Your position is analogous to arguing against voting or sales tax because after all, each situation is different since each person earns differtly and can pax sales tax differently. How can you give the same value to the vote of the guy that didn't research as to the vote of the guy that spent months researching every candidate?
    Okay, whatever. Have fun with your life. But the facts do not support your bias.
  49. The Family... by DLR · · Score: 1

    ...is the smallest unit of government. The family is where people learn their values, including co-operation and respct for others. Stable families mean a better society and, generally speaking better government.

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  50. Is the Secret Service on the ball these days? by abb3w · · Score: 1
    WTF? Did someone pull off Abbie Hoffman's old idea of slipping LSD into the president's tea???

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  51. States' Rights by Fran_P · · Score: 1
    I'm not a constitutional scholar or anything, but I thought that the constitution mentions something along like whatever powers not bestowed to the federal government by the constitution belong to the individual states.

    What Bush has said is that the power should belong to each state to make the decision. I agree with this, although I think that the states should choose to give equal rights to all people regardless of sexual orientation.

  52. On marriage by mercedo · · Score: 1

    Marriage is a social as well as legal term based only on biological differences between men and wemen. There are some people who consider themselves opposite sex in spite of their physical distinctions. But their eligibility of marriage should not be affected by their feelings or claims to be opposite sex. Like married person is not allowed to have one more spouse or more in Western society, same sex cannot marry same sex. However, in terms of civil unions, things are somehow different. We have to admit there are gay couples who have their households on their own as married people have been doing. It would be socially acceptable for us to admit the benefit married people usually hold to the households gay couples have....I think that's the point he wanted to pointed out, and it is very much acceptable with a view to social justice, fairness, equally bestowed human rights.

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  53. Just wanted to pick on point 1 and maybe 4 by leonbrooks · · Score: 1

    The OT quotes the devil, which doesn't invalidate it. The Bible (including the OT) also quotes people telling lies, which also doesn't invalidate it. Finally, the Bible quotes rules which are still helpful despite being targeted principally at ancient Hebrews (e.g. the Jews survived so well during the Black Plague simply because of blindly following laws generally considered stupid, irrelevant and/or outdated that their neighbours burned them at the stake for being in league with the devil (tells you a lot about the theology of the time, too)). The passage of time hasn't made the principles behind the rules any less effective.

    I'm not suggesting that we should start stoning homosexuals or other adulterers (although I have seen good arguments made for it, said arguments neglect a lot of unfortunate attributes of human nature). However it is clear from the nature of the punishment prescribed that homosexuality is unarguably regarded as badly wrong, not a mere misdemeanour.

    You're also still stuck with the fact that the NT (which extensively fulfills and records the fulfillment of OT prophecy) still explicitly states, categorically, that neither effeminate nor dominant male homosexuals, nor female homosexuals, will see heaven. As a Christian, you have a duty to change that (lots of implications there, not including a requirement to tackle individual cases head-on or rancorously) in exactly the same way you would address stealing or polyandry or any of the many things listed alongside homosexuality as showstoppers.

    Your 4th point is addressing a strawman. The liberal view of the Bible is that it was thrown together by men to address their need for religion. This is entirely inconsistent with what the Bible actually says, does and is. This is also different from reading the Bible intelligently, which is essentially you're proposing above. By upholding reasonable reading, you are not upholding the liberal view proposed by your parent poster.

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    1. Re:Just wanted to pick on point 1 and maybe 4 by bonniot · · Score: 1
      homosexuality is unarguably regarded as badly wrong The problem is, many christians think this is not unarguable. In particular, it seems that the idea of homosexuality itself as a sexual orientation was not common at the time those passages were written, so it seems perfectly arguable to understand them as condemning some practices (homosexual rape, pedophily, religious orgies, ...) but not homosexuality in a loving relationship. A few translations seem to be very misleading in this respect, which is why it's interesting to compare them and look at the original text. That's what the religioustolerance.org articles are trying to do. In this context, I cannot agree that there is an unarguable interpretation.

      Concerning the strawman, it surely is a risk in this kind of debate. It struck me that the liberal view proposed by the grand-parent is actually proposed by somebody who is not a liberal himself, so that might as well be a strawman. Maybe it helps to simply avoid this kind of labels, which are indeed easily misused.

  54. Circa 6000 years is looking better all the time by leonbrooks · · Score: 1

    This week we have annelida sharing vertebrate opsin and even further admissions from conservative geologists that the Grand Canyon may have formed relatively suddenly (at the same time as they're trying to remove a book from the GC bookstore which says exactly the same thing). That's one more pointer among thousands that are aimed towards a matrix of characteristics, not a tree or forest of them; and one more admission among hundreds hinting that gigayears aren't needed to explain geology as we know it. In fact, you cannot successfully explain thick untainted rock strata in near-gigayear terms because our planet is quite obviously not that tranquil.

    In the absence of any materialist explanation which comes even close to fitting the data, it becomes appropriate to begin considering non-materialist explanations - but you seem to be missing this important and obvious step.

    No wonder you posted as an AC.

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    1. Re:Circa 6000 years is looking better all the time by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      >In the absence of any materialist explanation which comes even close to fitting the data, it becomes appropriate to begin considering non-materialist explanations - but you seem to be missing this important and obvious step.

      No. I believe that God gave me a brain and put the rules of science in place for a reason... so I could understand and interpret the world I was placed in.

      If there's one thing in the world we can't explain with current science, it is NOT appropriate to say that supernatural forces are at work. It would be appropriate to say that we don't understand something and need to do further study until we understand it.

      Now you say that even though there is a pile of evidence a hundred miles high stating that the world is more than 6000 years old, that ONE piece of evidence in that pile may or may not be valid, the whole pile is invalid? That's specious reasoning. I question your logic. I question why God bothered to give you a brain if you don't intend to use it. The universe is old. Very old. The bible was written by people that didn't know that. We know that now, so the bible has it's scientific facts wrong. So what? The bible wasn't meant to be a repository of scientific fact in the first place.

  55. I wish. by leonbrooks · · Score: 1
    Maybe it helps to simply avoid this kind of labels, which are indeed easily misused.
    If they were generally only being misused rather than being frighteningly accurate, the whole discussion would make a lot more sense.

    Going beyond reasoning to rationalisation is pretty much guaranteed to end the usefulness of something which is essentially bigger than any of us. This rationalisation presumes that we are in some way in control of the situation, that it is entirely understandable and explicable through the lens of our finite experience. If, however, the facts as stated are rational, then they are not going to be rationalisable.

    Or to put it another way, if you are keeping your head while those about you are losing theirs, then you haven't fully grasped the situation. (-:
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  56. If it's at the bottom of the pile, then yes. by leonbrooks · · Score: 1
    Now you say that even though there is a pile of evidence a hundred miles high stating that the world is more than 6000 years old, that ONE piece of evidence in that pile may or may not be valid, the whole pile is invalid?
    Think not in terms of a pile in terms of a disordered heap, but a pile in terms of a house of cards. If a few of the cards at the bottom prove defective, the whole house can fall.

    Take, for example, fossils. These are dated according to the rocks they're in, and the rocks are dated by index fossils they contain. This neat circular piece of reasoning existed before radiometric dating, so when that came along it got kind of calibrated with one eye on the existing situation. Where did the original geologic column come from? A few maniacs with an agenda waved a thumb at it and pulled the figures out of their asses. The first few rounds of guesses were insanely low by today's standards, almost lining up with the 75Ma proposed by people who sound (for the sake of reducing search-engine hits and the ensuing bunfights) like "sighyentollujusts".

    Now if it happens that these dates are more or less right, well and good. However, AMS dating says they're not - which should be blindingly obvious anyway, when people are C14-dating stuff that should have hit equilibrium millions of years ago. Many conventionally acquired datings disagree with each other, depsite the discarding of many "wild" readings. Many fossils and rock layers are found in the "wrong" order without possibility of intrusion, reworking or inversion en bloc. Then there's polystrate fossils, the whole OOPART clan, the problem of fresh "fossils", the missing bones and assorted non-equilibria. And more.

    Don't even ask about the fragile pillar of assumptions holding up the ice-core dating department, either.

    So the dating systems appear to be a bit of a snafu when you have a close look at them. People going wrong with confidence left and right. Why hasn't this been examined and fixed? Because too many people are scared to rock the boat lest they let a "Divine Foot" in the door; they'd rather press on, knowing in the back of their minds that the intellectual palace they're building stands on false foundations, than risk finding out that their whole philosophy is wrong. They can't imagine a reasonable alternative explanation besides creationism ("it's turtles, all the way down!"), so they regularly rearrange the deckchairs on the scientific Titanic and declare the iceberg problem solved.

    This is not to assert that creationism actually is the only alternative to orthodox dating dogma, simply that nobody mainstream has yet come up with a reasonable-sounding alternative, and very few are prepared to risk derision by even trying to. The like of Dawkins and his imaginitive and entertaining but ultimately pointless just-so stories are very popular because the alternative is real career risk and hard work.

    OK, so where does that get us? Three dating cards crumple, marked "radio-dating", "index fossils" and "reference strata". They're right at the bottom of the heap.

    It's a huge heap, and being braced up by many very determined people, so it may take a while to collapse as it should, but it's doomed to fall flat in the end unless some viable replacement cards are found. The heap is not called "science" but "materialism", which makes finding an acceptable replacement more difficult. The ricepaper of imagination will not do, for these cards carry a heavy load and need to be pressed from the stiff card of unbiased observation.

    Will new cards be found, or will the heap collapse? Stay tuned, but whatever you do don't blunder around asserting that it's all proven and the battle is over.
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    1. Re:If it's at the bottom of the pile, then yes. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I still doubt that a person using the scientific method (which IS proven) could possibly come to the conclusion that the universe is 6000 years old.

      The reasons for this are all around us. We have stars that have run out of fuel. We are recieving light that originated in stars that are over 6000 light years away. How do you explain that? We have dinosaur skeletons. We have, as you suggested, the fossil record. Where did the fossils come from if not from creatures (that no longer exist) being petrified? We have layers of metamorphic rock that needed much time to form. We have the hawaiian islands, that have obviously been formed by many, many years of volcanic activity and erosion. We can see the ancient evolution of language through it's usage today throughout the world.

      It's not one or two cards that would have to fall to make your conclusion correct. It's everything we've learned since the dark ages.

      Does the Earth revolve around the sun in your world? Or is that heresy?

      My conclusion... the current science MAY be wrong on it's dates even by an order of magnitude (but it's still the best estimate we have). The bible, on the other hand, is DEFINATELY wrong about the universe being 6000 years old.

  57. Relativity changes things by leonbrooks · · Score: 1
    I still doubt that a person using the scientific method (which IS proven) could possibly come to the conclusion that the universe is 6000 years old.
    This is one of several ways in which you can have your cake and eat it too. As well as young-earth creationists, both materialist scientists and progressive creationists have long known about it. And yes, the rebuttals have been themselves rebutted.

    Also, I'd appreciate a little less anonymity, if you could see your way clear to that?

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    1. Re:Relativity changes things by boots@work · · Score: 1

      According to the article you link: You can have your cake by assuming there was a special magic time-dilation field around Earth during which clocks ran 10^-13 times slower than outside. No mechanism is proposed for how this might happen, or what this magic envelope is made of, or indeed why this extraordinary series of events might happen. Nor is any serious reason given for why we ought to believe the theory unless we already assume that the Earth is only six thousand years old.

      That smells like Bullshit Cake to me. No thanks.

      If you want to say "God did it by magic" then be my guest, but don't pretend it's scientific.

  58. not only homosexuals by boots@work · · Score: 1

    For every one that curseth his father or his mother shall be surely put to death. (Lev 20:9)

    My, we're certainly going to be killing a lot of people. How many people have cursed their father or mother in a fit of teenage pique? Surely the mountains of hundreds of millions of corpses will have a "sweet savor to the Lord".

    And the man that committeth adultery with another man's wife, ... the adulterer and the adulteress shall surely be put to death.

    I guess that disposes of another 20% or more of the population. I'm glad the lord likes the smell of burning corpses, because there's going to be a lot of it if people ever start following the bible literally.

    Is it any wonder the bible is a perenial favourite of mass-murderers? Pol Pot has nothing on this guy.

  59. Go back and read it again by leonbrooks · · Score: 1

    You got it wrong. An Earth inside a white hole would - you should pardon the term in context - naturally possess the required properties.

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    1. Re:Go back and read it again by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      You got it wrong. An Earth inside a white hole would - you should pardon the term in context - naturally possess the required properties.

      I should stop wasting my time on whackos, but there's something sickly satisfying about debating someone that's so far off their rocker.

      So let me get this straight... just because a 1500+ year old book has genealogies within it that stretch back to a creation myth, and those genealogies add up to about 6000 years, and despite the fact the book contains conflicting genealogies, and despite the fact that the 6000 year figure is widely disputed in the christian community, your assertion is that the 6000 year figure is correct and science be damned. In order to reconcile the fact that we see starlight from far away that is definately more than 6000 years old, you need to place the earth inside a white hole? (!!!) You're suggesting that this is more correct just because it fits with your theory, despite, again, the mountain of evidence that the planet is NOT inside a white hole. In fact, white holes have never been observed in nature and are thought by most astronomers to not exist in nature.

      http://curious.astro.cornell.edu/question.php?nu mb er=108

      If you start with a ridiculous assumption, then spend years and piles of energy trying to "prove" that assumption with bad science (not peer reviewed), then yes, you can come out with an explanation for every way your assumption is valid. That doesn't make it so. Witness the "flat earth society", and the persecution of Copernicus, Gallileo, and Darwin. Science tells us certian things about the universe that simply conflict with the literal interpretation of the bible. Just accept that, and you can start learning about the world through observation and thought, instead of trying to "prove" wild things that have been proven false for hundreds of years.

      Do you really believe the Bible is the repository for all scientific knowledge? That's a pretty narrow world to live in. You're welcome to it.

  60. I think you need to have a look at... by leonbrooks · · Score: 1

    ...what said innocent Egyptians were already doing to the Israelites. The Assyrians and others too.

    Said God wiped out at least a million foot-soldiers only a few weeks later, too. The foot-soldiers were en route to wiping out 4-6 million Israelites including women and children.

    It was not a nice time and place to live in. That's what happens when we are essentially left in charge of a planet.

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    1. Re:I think you need to have a look at... by boots@work · · Score: 1

      Even assuming the culpability of the Egyptian state, or Egyptian citizens, the children had no control over the actions of their parents.

      To intentionally and avoidably slaughter thousands or millions of children is the act of a war criminal. Regardless of how much you dislike the other state.

  61. Poly_gamy_ isn't what you're talking about by wyrmBait · · Score: 1

    Even if sex imbalance were to be a problem, that's only a problem if polygyny were legalised. Do you really believe that 55% of the population would stand by and let men have multiple partners (who's restricting it to multiple wives?) and not demand that women have an equal right to marry multiple partners?

    There are a lot of things that "polygamist" mormons have screwed up:
    a) polygamy just means multiple marriage, not multiple wives.
    b) just because radical mormons practicing authoritarian and abusive marriage get all the press, doesn't mean that all polygamy is abusive. (I know you didn't say that, but it's one of the things that "mormons" have screwed up in the common understanding of polygamy.) That'd be like saying that because some husbands abuse their wives, marriage is abusive.

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