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US Youth Have Serious Mental Health Issues

Ant writes "Google News carries a Canadian Press report that 'a new study has found that five times as many high school and college students in the United States are dealing with anxiety and other mental health issues than youth of the same age who were studied in the Great Depression era. ... Pulling together the data for the study was no small task. Led by [San Diego State University psychology professor Jean Twenge], researchers at five universities analyzed the responses of 77,576 high school or college students who, from 1938 through 2007, took the Minnesota Multiphasic Personality Inventory, or MMPI. The results will be published in a future issue of the Clinical Psychology Review. Overall, an average of five times as many students in 2007 surpassed thresholds in one or more mental health categories, compared with those who did so in 1938. A few individual categories increased at an even greater rate — with six times as many scoring high in two areas: 'hypomania,' a measure of anxiety and unrealistic optimism (from 5 per cent of students in 1938 to 31 per cent in 2007), and depression (from 1 per cent to 6 per cent).'"

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  1. In the words of the great Ken Titus... by elrous0 · · Score: 4, Insightful

    Stop being a bunch of wussies!

    Seriously, kids today have to wear helmets just to ride a bike, have some pediatrician putting them on powerful Autism medication if they don't start talking at just the right time, are diagnosed with Asperger's the second they show the least bit of shyness, are taught by teachers who scream "AHDHD--Drug him up!" the first time they act out in class, and come home to parents who think that a child molester is hanging out on ever street corner just waiting to kidnap their kid. *They're* not the ones who are screwed up, it's the adults around them that are screwed up.

    JUST LET THEM BE KIDS, for Christ sake! Stop acting like there is something wrong with them because they're not perfect, or act differently than you expect, or make stupid mistakes. That's what makes them kids. Stop cocooning them like they're delicate eggs who will crack at the slightest risk or challenge. And, above all, stop drugging them up. A kid shouldn't be taking medication for anything less than a serious physical problem. You don't give a kid powerful psychotropic drugs just because they're rebellious or shy. They'll have plenty of time to dope themselves into a stupor and cry at a psychologist's office when they're adults.

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    1. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by Profane+MuthaFucka · · Score: 2, Insightful

      That's what I said when the doctor said my boy had cancer! Stop coddling him, or he's going to grow up soft and spoiled. What if he were grown up and had cancer? He's going to have a family to feed, and trust me, they need to eat. They won't take an excuse like "I've got cancer and that's why I can't work" when they need their dinner on the table and a roof over their head.

      Kids seriously need to man up these days.

      Alrighty, enough sarcasm. Why is it that there's always at least one guy in every crowd without any empathy, but with plenty of (wrong) answers?

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    2. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0, Troll

      Ah, the obligatory bigoted luddite anti-medical "ADHD doesn't exist" comment. They're popular in Slashdot.

      For the record, ADHD is aneurodevelopmental disorder. It can certainly _cause_ many mental health issues if left undiagnosed and untreated, which it would be if it was up to agressive anti-evidence based medicine spiritualists like you. You disgust me and I hope you never have children you can hurt.

    3. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by ZeroExistenZ · · Score: 1

      Can we expect a new youtube meme, "LEAVE KIDS ALONE!", where you're hiding under a blanket, crying...
      Chris, is that you?

      Seriously though, I agree on the root idea of your post, well worded

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    4. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0, Insightful

      dunno, but at least he's modded into obscurity.

    5. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by elrous0 · · Score: 5, Insightful

      Drugging your kid up and treating him like a piece of delicate porcelain isn't empathy--it's just shitty parenting.

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    6. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Something tells me someone missed his dose of psychotropic drugs this morning.

    7. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by jez9999 · · Score: 2, Funny

      You don't give a kid powerful psychotropic drugs just because they're rebellious or shy.

      Perhaps that's part of the problem. More LSD!!

    8. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by jgtg32a · · Score: 3, Informative

      This
       
      But I'll take it one step further, and then these kids hit college and are out on their own and they don't have anyone to fall back on for support. That's when the problems start to set in.

    9. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Hold on I'll just check my inbox for a cheap supplier!

    10. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by fredma123 · · Score: 5, Insightful

      I agree. If Parents would just stop worrying and let us make mistakes, things would be a lot better for us. We learn by making mistakes, not by parents trying to prevent every little thing from happening. It's a bit cold outside. So what? I'm not going to die.

    11. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by Vanderhoth · · Score: 4, Insightful

      Maybe you should have read his post a little closer. Personally I'd consider Cancer a Major Physical condition and I agree with the OP that kids are way over medicated. Beyond that "kids today" are way to well informed, constantly being bombarded with school shootings, people being blown up and all the craziness in the world. IMHO the OP is also correct that too many parents are over protective and won't allow their children to have the opportunity to make mistakes that could lead to physical harm, which teaches them valuable lessons about life and acceptable social behaviors. I remember being seriously hurt falling out of a tree when I was young, I learned a valuable lesson pain hurts and it, along with things that cause it, should be avoided.

      I also have several friends who have kids where each kid is diagnosed with some kind of mental disability or disorder. The one that makes me laugh the most is a little girl that's "shy" and was diagnosed as Autistic. She was on medication for it and after two years a psychiatrist told her parents the medication was effective and there daughter was becoming much more "normal" in her development later her parents found out that out she had been spitting the pills out, throwing them away and hiding them in a compartment of her jewelry box.

    12. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by jgtg32a · · Score: 1, Insightful

      The teachers wanted to drug me up. My mom took me to see a shrink to get an opinion that actually matters the dr said I was board in class.
      I had a substitute teacher once say "when I was your age we didn't have Ritalin, we had a switch and the switch worked a whole lot better."

      Yes ADHD does exist, but chances are the acting out kid doesn't actually have ADHD.

    13. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 2, Insightful

      Ah, the obligatory, "I see things in black and white AC". They're popular in Slashdot.

      I don't think the OP was saying ADHD doesn't exist. He was referring to the massive amount of misdiagnosed children on medication in this world. I'm my experience, most children on ADHD medication don't need the medication, they are acting out for other reasons that the parent don't want to deal with.

    14. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by PPalmgren · · Score: 1

      Well said.

      Looking back, I realize there was plenty wrong with me, but my parents didn't take me to get drugged up like my stepmother did for my stepbrother. I turned out fine, and he wants to go to college for marketing or politics. MARKETING or POLITICS.

      Like a team, its not our strongest that makes us, its the weakest link. Sheltering people from their weakest link stunts their growth in that direction.

    15. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1, Interesting

      To be fair, it's more to do with the inability or unwillingness to think for oneself, instead of blindly going along with whatever government (or any perceived authority) recommends. It's unfortunate, but it's simply human nature. Most human beings are followers, and nobody knows this better than those who a fortune in the business of "leading".

    16. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1, Insightful

      He didn't say that it didn't exist, he suggested that it was over-diagnosed by under-qualified individuals.

      ADHD is very real, and can be very debilitating.

      It's also commonly misdiagnosed in children who are simply harder to control or focus than the adults around them would prefer.

    17. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by V50 · · Score: 1, Insightful

      Seriously, kids today have to wear helmets just to ride a bike,

      Ignoring the rest of your comment, which may have some elements of truth, but is primarily over the top in my view, I found this bugged me specifically.

      My mother, when she was around 10 years old or so, had a friend that died after crashing his bike, and hitting his head on a pole. An injury which would most likely would not have been fatal had he been wearing a helmet. This would have been in the '70s, so I have no clue how common bike helmets were then, but the point still remains.

      Do you honestly think the extremely minor inconvenience of wearing a helmet outweighs the significantly reduced chance of serious injury, brain damage and death?

      I agree in part to some aspects of some of your other points, (I overall disagree with the tone, but don't really have enough knowledge of the subjects to write anything) but that one about the bike helmet just outright seemed silly.

    18. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by lxs · · Score: 5, Insightful

      ADHD is aneurodevelopmental disorder.

      Yes it is. It is also very rare and extremely overdiagnosed. As is the case with Aspergers and clinical depression, this trivializes the condition and ultimately hurts those who do have a real problem.

    19. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      True story. I got asthma when I was little (age:2 or 3), and had it all my life.
      I couldn't run for more then 10 seconds without getting bad reactions (I'm the one getting 12min. miles in gym class).
      At age 17 I decided that I didn't want to use those stupid inhalers and breathers. Doctors said no to this.
      I struggled for 2 years, never used those medications once, ya it sucked, but you get used to it.
      2 years later, I ran after some friends, and noticed I could run without problems. (I led a pretty active lifestyle for an asthmatic)
      At age 19, I visited my doctor to show off (never told her that I completely stopped her meds 2 years earlier). Ever since then I haven't had any asthma.
      Now every time I run, I am always thankful for not having asthma. (My latest mile was about 6 minutes)
      The end.

    20. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by KalAl · · Score: 3, Insightful
      elrous0:

      A kid shouldn't be taking medication for anything less than a serious physical problem.

      Profane MuthaFucka:

      That's what I said when the doctor said my boy had cancer!

      Sounds like a serious physical problem.

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    21. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by dyingtolive · · Score: 4, Insightful

      Damn straight. Save the good psychotropics for the rest of us that actually WANT them.

      Seriously though, the world is much smaller than it used to be. Eighty years ago, you'd have found kids largely unaffected (at least knowledgeably) by corrupt politicians, overbearing advertising, and media scares. Nowadays, with the fear that gets put into kids, it's sort of a wonder they aren't filled with more disorders. "Hey kids, SARS is going to KILL you, and if it doesn't, then Avian flu/mad cow/swine flu/zombie flu will! Better come get our vaccine." "We're going to sell you sex, but then 30 seconds later, you'll see a PSA talking about how if you hold hands with a member of the opposite sex, you'll get AIDS and die. Buy Trojan Condoms!" "This stuff must be making you pretty stressed huh? Stay away from drugs, they'll kill you the first time you use them, 100% guaranteed." The kids aren't even presented with the opportunity to be kids and enjoy being oblivious and immersed in their imaginations where they belong due to the fact that they have to be taught at a young age to treat everything with skepticism based on the fact that absolutely everything and everyone is looking to milk money from them. The youth is the cash cow of the media and industry, and with the ubiquity of tv, radio, and in-store advertising, it's impossible to shield them from it. You can always turn your kid into a shut-in, but that causes just as many issues in other ways. I remember growing up and meeting kids like that who were "released into the wild" at the high school age, and they had the social skills of a pile of bricks. Of course, I also remember riding a bike without a helmet, being a kid, and also later sex, occasional drugs, alcohol, and good times.

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    22. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Yes ADHD does exist, but chances are the acting out kid doesn't actually have ADHD.

      Well, the problem with math (and "chances" means math's involved) is that it's easy to apply the wrong way.

      Let's see those "chances" of not having ADHD are, say, 95%, with a 5% chance that it's actually ADHD after all. Now look at, say, a million children that are acting up in some way. (Not unrealistic, given that there's many, many more children in the USA.) Now you would probably conclude, for each individual child, that they don't have ADHD; after all, the chances for that are 95%, right?

      So all in all, you'd conclude that since no individual child does, none of the children have ADHD. In fact, you might even conclude that ADHD probably doesn't exist.

      If you look at the big picture, though, since ADHD is 5% likely, you'd actually have to expect 50k children that DO have ADHD in this example, though - certainly not the "zero" you arrived above.

      It should be obvious what went wrong there (hint: the chance of none of n children that are acting up having ADHD would be 1-(1-0.95)^n, not 0.95).

      Also, "mental health" isn't limited to ADHD. Myself, for example, I'm suffering from social phobia, another of those conditions that the Slashdot hivemind sometimes likes to claim don't exist (if it's mentioned at all; most people aren't aware of it in the first place). Of course, it does, and to claim it does not is like claiming that depressions don't exist because everyone gets sad on occasion but still manages to deal with it.

      The general lesson that can be drawn from this, I think, is that when you assess conditions such as this, you shouldn't just look at the quality - i.e., what they are, e.g. ADHD etc. -, but also at the quantity, if you will - the severity. Everyone's unfocused or hyperactive at times, but taken to an extreme, even normal behaviour can be pathological.

      That said, I'm no fan of stuffing kids full of pills, of course. Medication has helped me, personally, but only insofar as that it stabilized me and provided a foundation upon which therapy could build. Medication without therapy is useless at best and dangerous at worst.

    23. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by kent_eh · · Score: 1

      As part of this, it seems that everyone has forgotten that "normal" is not a single definition. Normal fits on a bell curve, like almost everything else.
      Intervention can be appropriate for the extreme edges of the bell curve, but it creates exactly the problems you talk about when applied to people not in the middle 1%

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    24. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      True, a lot of teachers don't know any better. On the other hand, my wife who was a neuroscientist now high school biology teacher has had many parents approach her asking for special treatment of their child due to supposed Aspergers or ADHD. She can clearly tell the child doesn't have a problem and usually can't convince the parents to re-diagnose.

      The bombshell she often has the opportunity to drop on the parents, though, is comparing their kids excellent grades in her class to their failing in something like math. The kid is just simply bored and has bad study habits.

    25. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by JWW · · Score: 4, Informative

      This would have been in the '70s, so I have no clue how common bike helmets were then, but the point still remains.

      No one wore bike helmets in the 70's. In my experience, bike helmets really came into favor in the 90's.

    26. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      My daughter is alive because we made her wear a helmet.

      Everything else, I agree with you on...but when conducting dangerous physical activities, appropriate protection should be worn. Or maybe the NFL should get rid of helmets and padding; seat-belts and airbags should be ripped from cars; et cetera.

    27. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by Sir_Lewk · · Score: 1

      Don't you know? Head injuries build character.

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    28. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by timeaisis · · Score: 1

      I'm glad someone said it. Thank you.

    29. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by Z00L00K · · Score: 2, Interesting

      For some reason - even though we live tighter and tighter together in the society of today we also have more pronounced problems with isolation and problems when it comes to mental issues.

      Much of this seems to originate from the scare of child predators and other things. And letting the kids take themselves to school is out of the question due to the car traffic of today.

      This means that even going a block or two is a bad idea for kids today - there may be an accident. There can be kids who don't know crap about the blocks half a mile away from home since to get there they must be driven by car.

      The few lucky kids living in rural parts may still be able to grab a fishing pole and get out of sight for a while. And if they have friends "nearby" they may actually go out and explore their neighborhood and find out what nature has to offer.

      But parents today has to pamper their kids or they will be bad parents. And both parents has to work long hours to keep up the living standard in areas where the cost of living is extreme. So when they are at home the "quality time" is short and intense.

      Add to that the fact that many children's programs on TV contains a lot of violence and action mixed with crap beauty contests and whatever that makes the kids feel like they aren't good enough. And nobody cares until there is a tit flash or other naked skin that's considered indecent - then it's all panic. But ask - how many kids do really care about a naked tit? To kids things that go bang are sexier.

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    30. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by Runaway1956 · · Score: 4, Interesting

      You saved me from making this rant. I would have modded you up, but hey, look at your score already!!

      Yeah, if I were drugged up and pressured to conform, I'd probably be fighting several mental illnesses. Of, to put it more simply, I'd be stark raving crazy.

      Ages ago, I came home from the Navy, and visited with one of my old buddy's sisters. She had a kid in preschool already (I was two years older, and not even married yet) and was giving him his dose of Dilantin. I asked why. The answer was "Without it, he just runs and screams all day!" I asked, "Have you forgotten the way your brothers and I ran and screamed from one end of the county to the other? If we weren't audibly raising hell, our parents came looking for us, because they KNEW we were doing something WRONG!"

      Everyone wants a baby, but no one wants a kid these days.

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    31. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I learned a valuable lesson pain hurts, and I learned to be a better climber so I wouldn't fall out of trees as much. Which to me was a more valuable lesson. Learn from your failures or those of others, not give up.

    32. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by Kismet · · Score: 0, Troll

      All hail the experts. People like this are responsible for the hell that can sometimes be 21st-century childhood.

      Make no mistake: Though clothed in the garb of positivism, this kind of language reveals a hypocritical, raving, megalomaniacal True Believer.

      Apparently only certified, licensed evidentialists are qualified to "adjust" children. Not only does their evidence tell them all about the physiological nature of pathology, but it also somehow reveals exactly how we should feel about (and value) the information in order to act upon it. We now can see that there is only One True Path for dealing with such calamities. Scientism has spoken, and it is more Mystical than we ever knew!

      The stunning irony is how this "evidence" worshiper has arrived at such astonishing and illogical conclusions about what the parent post is trying to say. If that's how we treat evidence, we're in big trouble.

    33. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by dosius · · Score: 4, Interesting

      Yes it is. It is also very rare and extremely overdiagnosed. As is the case with Aspergers and clinical depression, this trivializes the condition and ultimately hurts those who do have a real problem.

      QFT, as someone who was actually diagnosed with and is a veritable textbook case for Asperger's can attest. Too many people act like jackasses and lean on the crutch "oh, I've got Asperger's", no, you don't have Asperger's disorder, you have Asshole disorder. I have Asperger's, and the few people who know me IRL say I'm a really nice person, just...a bit kooky.

      -uso.

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    34. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by TrisexualPuppy · · Score: 4, Interesting

      They tried to tell me my son needed Ritalin and that he had ADHD because he acted up in class and wouldn’t pay attention. I took him home, busted his little butt and things were fine from then on.

      This is a pet peeve of mine. While there are kids that really do need help, too often the system just wants to put a label on the kid and shove a pill down his throat instead od dealing with what is really going on. I had a stepson that was on all that ADHD krud. When we got custody the first thing I did was take him to a new doctor and then started disciplining him when he needed it. He was fine and still is. It is so much easier to not have to deal with a situation, lets just make a generation of zombies and forget about them.

    35. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by trum4n · · Score: 1

      i blame the previous generation. they are the bastards that control our lives. they MAKE us screwed up, neurotic people.

    36. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by RetiredMidn · · Score: 2, Informative

      The teachers wanted to drug me up.

      I'd like to know where these teachers are. My wife teaches first grade in a Massachusetts suburb, and, following school policy, none of the teachers in her acquaintance would dream of suggesting a diagnosis, let alone a treatment. If asked by a parent (and she occasionally is), she suggests that the question be directed to her family doctor.

    37. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by Runaway1956 · · Score: 3, Informative

      For the record - is ADHD a brand new ailment in the history of mankind? Or, do you think maybe some really famous people had it, and were never diagnosed? I propose that ADHD was common throughout man's history, and that it has served man well. ADHD is not the problem, the problem are the parents and teaches who can't cope with an active child.

      For starters, you might examine the lives of some military heroes. Start with Stephen Decatur. There was an ADHD if ever one existed!

      Why conform, when the conformists are so fucked up?

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    38. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Apparently you were so "board" in class you fell asleep the day they showed you how to spell "bored"?

    39. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by svtdragon · · Score: 1

      I would just like to point out that the people *raising* these children have themselves grown up in the "Just let them be kids!" era. Maybe they didn't like it, or saw flaws in what their parents did, and want to rectify that. We'll know how well this "sheltered" generation does once *their* children themselves become parents.

    40. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by RockoTDF · · Score: 4, Interesting

      Was this doctor a pediatrician/general practitioner, someone in the education system, or a psychiatrist? I have noticed a trend (albeit anecdotal) of complaints about children on meds being targeted at doctors without proper behavioral/mental health training.

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    41. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I remember college. I was working full-time at a minimum wage job to support myself (didn't live at home), all the while driving an hour one-way to attend college (full-time). I was constantly getting disgusted hears all the college kids whine because mommy and daddy didn't buying them the "right" car, or didn't give them enough money this week to party on, or because they couldn't party as much because of the workload. I would have gladly traded workloads with them.

    42. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by RockoTDF · · Score: 1

      Yeah, because my parents *never* saw the flag draped coffins coming back from Vietnam, and my grandmother growing up in England during WWII completely missed the blitz.

      Sarcasm aside, the world has always been a crazy place, and to say that kids today have to deal with terrorism and all that is really no different from past generations. I do agree with your general points though. And by the way, there is really no point in medicating autism. It's kind of like trying to give people pills for Down's Syndrome.

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    43. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by trum4n · · Score: 0

      The generation before ours has made us neurotic, sick, twisted and always afraid of failure. there were kids i went to high school with that were literally BEATEN for getting a B on a test. 3 of them killed themselves before their 18th birthday. 2 are currently in jail. 1 is in a psych ward. What the older generation is not seeing is, because of them, its HARDER to succeed in this generation. There is more competition, and you can't survive on a Non-College degree. And yea, college got harder too. I build computers, cars, ELECTRIC cars and more, but i can barely pass a class in college. Explain that? I'm getting a degree to say i know what i already do. The day they TEACH me something NEW, i will come let everybody know. -21 year old, Electrical Engineering student, electric car builder, C student, fighting the man.

    44. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      As the onion put it: "Stop thinking about us all the time!" - The Children.

    45. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by xaxa · · Score: 1, Flamebait

      Bike helmets can also increase your chance of injury. They make your head bigger, so you're more likely to twist your neck if your head hits something. They can also make you more confident ("it's OK, I'm wearing a helmet") and make other people take greater risks ("I can overtake him, he's wearing a helmet").

      Note that your are more likely to get a head injury while in a car, or while walking. Do you wear a helmet in those situations? My place of work is near a park popular with families, and occasionally I see children wearing helmets for walking (generally, they also have a high-visibility jacket in the completely traffic-free, fenced, policed area).

    46. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by pcolaman · · Score: 2, Insightful

      Agreed. There is being tough and then there is just being stupid. There is a huge difference between "just rub some dirt in it, you'll be fine" and "Oh my god, he split his head open and is going to be fucking jacked up the rest of his life, assuming he lives through the surgeries."

    47. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by DrgnDancer · · Score: 1

      The "right" answer to this question is quite simple though. Leave the diagnosis to those qualified, psychiatrists and psychologists. The big problem here (IMHO) is that people are making diagnoses of their children and then taking them to GPs. They inform the GP that the child has "x" mental problem. The GP (who is only slightly more qualified than the parent to make psychiatric diagnoses) often performs the most rudimentary tests, "confirms" the illness and prescribes drugs. After all parents know their kids better than anyone, and you want to keep the customer happy. I'm not saying this happens all the time, with all parents and kids, but it happens a lot. Studies have verified it. Some schools even have doctors that they recommend to parents with "ADHD" kids; receptive doctors who are happy to confirm the school's and/or parent's diagnosis and prescribe drugs.

      My wife was diagnosed with ADD as an adult. She was diagnosed by a psychiatrist who specializes in the disorder. She spent several multi-hour sessions taking various tests ranging from IQ, to personality, to information about study habits and the like. The Doctor took all of that and used an algorithm to come up with a very high probability that she was moderately ADD. It took a couple of weeks, and even then he admitted that there was a chance he was wrong. Compare that to a GP talking to a 9 year old for 20 minutes and making a firm diagnosis. It's bullshit, there's no possible way that these people are make valid diagnoses.

      I'll never say that there is no such thing as ADD, or autism, or Apserger's; but I will say that if you're going to give that kind of diagnosis to a child, and then drug them with moderately powerful psychotropic drugs as a result... Well you should at least be get someone qualified and without any vested interest to make the call.

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    48. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by dosius · · Score: 1

      "Define normal."

      -uso.

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    49. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by RockoTDF · · Score: 1

      The problem is that teachers and pediatricians are having too much of a say in pills for children. If only psychiatrists were allowed to prescribe psychoactive medication I wouldn't be surprised if we turned into less of a pill driven culture.

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    50. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      ADHD is not overdiagnosed, except in a few counties in the USA, and in those counties, only in children. Russel Barkely, the foremost authority on ADHD in the US, has in his latest research shown that more than 60% of children continue to have ADHD in adulthood.

      The vast majority of people in the world suffer undiagnosed and untreated.

    51. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      the dr said I was board in class.

      Was that English class?

    52. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by dzfoo · · Score: 1

      Right, because there is nothing in between an overly (mis)diagnosed population of young people, and the cronically ill.

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    53. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by Nutria · · Score: 4, Funny

      busted his little butt

      You Evil, Evil Man!

      Everyone knows that corporal punishment permanently scars children for life.

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    54. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I managed to conceal my crippling Nerdism (and possible Asperger's) behind a facade of boredom and bad study habits. In my day we didn't show weakness, or the pack would tear us apart. The kids that got rides to Kindergarten never overcame the stigma.

    55. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by DeadCatX2 · · Score: 1

      I don't think the kids who you're talking about - the ones who are excessively medicated - are the ones with mental health problems. They're probably too far into a drugged-up stupor to get upset about anything. Besides, at least the parents are paying some sort of attention to the kid, if they've gone to the trouble to take them to doctor's appointments and paid the money to medicate them.

      Mind you, this is anecdotal, but the most messed up people I have seen are the ones who had family problems. Their parents were either Dead, Distant, or Divorced. They were the children of mothers and/or fathers who had no time for them because the parent(s) were too busy working, cooking, cleaning, or watching TV to give their children the love they need to develop into healthy adults.

      These kids were taught right and wrong not by mom or pop, but by the Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtles or Final Fantasy. They learned about love from Disney, where people who don't know each other can live happily ever after when they first meet, and then they're thrust into a real world where 95% of humans will take advantage of that attitude.

      Kids are not plants. Food, water, and shelter are not sufficient. Too many humans are having children that they aren't ready or willing to provide for, either financially or emotionally.

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    56. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by RockoTDF · · Score: 2, Informative

      It's called Rugby, dude.

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    57. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      ADHD is aneurodevelopmental disorder.

      Yes it is. It is also very rare and extremely overdiagnosed. As is the case with Aspergers and clinical depression, this trivializes the condition and ultimately hurts those who do have a real problem.

      Certainly the perception fueled by the media scare, similar to the anti-vaccine one, hurts people with ADHD very much, to the point that many are afraid to confide that they have the condition not only to cowerkers and friends but even their closest family.

    58. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I had a stepson that was on all that ADHD krud. When we got custody...

      Haha, you got stuck with someone else's kid. Sucker.

    59. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by lorenlal · · Score: 4, Funny

      Everyone knows that corporal punishment permanently scars children for life.

      Only if you can get a good crack with the belt.

    60. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by V50 · · Score: 5, Interesting

      Are you one of those people who refuse to wear a seatbelt?

    61. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by dougisfunny · · Score: 5, Funny

      Why conform, when the conformists are so fucked up?

      Because everyone else is doing it. Duh.

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    62. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Agreed. We need medication to fix shitty parenting!

    63. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by Hijacked+Public · · Score: 3, Insightful

      Do you honestly think the extremely minor inconvenience of wearing a helmet outweighs the significantly reduced chance of serious injury, brain damage and death?

      Yes.

      Sort of anyway. The problem is that often, and maybe even in the case of bicycle helmets, the actual dangers are grossly overblown. You have people thinking that peddling a few meters on a bike without a helmet is some huge risk when, statistically, it isn't. Here is Marco Pantani in the Tour in 2002, no helmet. I'm guessing he is well aware of the risk.

      Everywhere you look there are similar fractions of a percent chance of getting hurt that you'll need to guard against. So the bike helmet, in this instance, is just a convenient scapegoat.

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    64. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by fast+turtle · · Score: 1

      Considering the fact that as 7 year old, I was wrongly diagnosed with ADHD at the School Districts behest instead of the real problem being addressed - I was bored out of my skull with normal class work due to an I.Q. of 138. "Get to the meat of the subject Teach" - My primary teacher allowed me during class reading time to use the library where I hit the encyclopedia's on any subject that caught my attention. Mainly Civil Engineering (Hoover Damn) the space program (Apollo, Pioneer) and grew up on Star Trek ToS, Project Shadow and had my interest in science and technology encouraged by both parents through Radio Shack and HeathKits (Yes I built several Crystal Radio's as the house we lived in had an AM Antena with connection for such endevors).

      You might have some vague grasp of why I feel that the issue of ADHD is over blown/rated. It's too damn easy to say "Have one of Momma's Little Helpers", which was an actual advertisement for Valium in the Late 50's early 60's. Talk about drug pushers. The pharmacutical Companies have gamed the entire system with the War On Drugs because it isn't Profitible for them or their Share Holders. It's all got to be certified by the FDA or it's bunk/junk or useless, just like the DEA told California that they Would Not honor the Medical Use of Marijuana and would continue violating the States Rights in direct Violation of the Constitution, which since 9/11 has been so badly gutted by Congress through the Patriot Act, extensions of Copyright and other acts that you now can be charged with a crime for any reason. And to top it all off, the tax burden upon the so-called Middle Class is not the 38 percent they keep telling us about but almost 90 percent. It used to be that everyone's tax burden was paid in full by March 15 (that was all taxes) with the rest of your income coming back either as a refund of taxes overpaid when you filed. Damn I hit one of my own buttons /rant

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    65. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Do you honestly think the extremely minor inconvenience of wearing a helmet outweighs the significantly reduced chance of serious injury, brain damage and death?

      Thing is, it's not straightforward and there are intense arguements about the benefits and disbenefits of cycle helmets for normal commuting and leisure purposes. (Compared with say motorcycle helmets, where the benefits are unequivocal).

      See http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Bicycle_helmet for a reasonable summary.

    66. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by nomadic · · Score: 1

      Don't extrapolate that your background is everyone else's background. I know the slashdot herd mentality is that American parents=overprotective overmedicated blah blah blah, but there is a huge chunk of the child population who get no or minimal supervision at all. I can go out at midnight on a weekday and see kids just hanging out by themselves on the street. What you all have to do is stop thinking that your whitebread middle-upper-class suburban childhood was universal, or even the norm.

    67. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      If we all wear helmets, the one kid in 100,000 doesn't bash his head in. The other 99,999 grow up thinking its ok to act like a pansy. The vast majority of bicycle injuries and deaths occur because cyclists get hit by people driving cars. Does wearing a helmet help prevent death in this case? Yes, in about 1/2 or more of potentially fatal collisions. Let me ask you this: Which is makes more sense teach you kid not to get run over like the other 99,998 cyclists out there or putting a helmet on his head and telling him to be careful? The odds are that everyone knows someone who has been in a collision. It's because our social networks are reach very far and stories about horrific misfortune like this move across them quickly. Notice I don't say accidents. "Accidents" imply that no one is at fault. The fact is that either the cyclist or the driver is at fault in every case. If your kid isn't responsible enough to keep himself safe, don't let him ride near the street. If you're not responsible enough to tell the difference, don't have kids. Don't force my kid to act like a wuss because you're too lazy to do the right thing. You have no right to force others to live by your morality or your idea of risk management. How about we teach the children instead. Teach them how to become adults. I guess we've failed at that as well. We have "airport security" and we have the big scary terrorist threats. Only the paternalistic, overbearing nanny state can save us. Thank God for all of this priceless safety we've got.

      Oh hell, the liability lawyers are going to force it on us anyhow. I suppose I should just forget it.

    68. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by adamchou · · Score: 1

      Well just food for thought, but how much of these mental issues are caused by the chemicals we're putting into our children's systems? Some of us force our kids to take all kinds of chemicals that we don't always know for certain whether it or not it may cause some longer term mental health issues (ie: ADHD drugs). Others times, we inadvertently drug up our kids by buying them plastic beads that contain GHB or penchants that are made of cadium

    69. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by Vanderhoth · · Score: 2, Insightful

      Sarcasm aside, the world has always been a crazy place, and to say that kids today have to deal with terrorism and all that is really no different from past generations.

      not really what I'm saying, I wasn't clear. It's not that kids have to deal with craziness past generations didn't have to, it's that they hear more about the craziness and it seems much closer. I remember during 9/11 standing in line at Canadian Tire while the planes were flying into the trade centers. I thought it was a movie trailer until I got home and my neighbor pulled me aside. If that sort of thing had of happened when my Dad was my age he might not have herd of it at all, but I can't say for sure because 1) that was a pretty big event and 2) I didn't grow up in that time. I commonly hear the phase "Are things really getting worse in the world, or do we just hear more about the bad things?"

    70. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by apoc.famine · · Score: 4, Insightful

      Do you honestly think the extremely minor inconvenience of wearing a helmet outweighs the significantly reduced chance of serious injury, brain damage and death?

      Yep. It's totally worth it. Ballpark estimate of the number of bike riders in the US: 80,000,000. Ballpark estimate of the number of serious injuries to bike riders: 30,000. (Both based on some quasi-legitimate internet stats.) That's roughly a 0.04% chance of being hospitalized for a serious injury due to bike riding. That's 4/10,000 riders. 90% of those are hit by cars, as well.
       
      If you can get your kid riding somewhere where they aren't likely to be hit by a car, fuck a helmet. If you're riding on busy streets, wear one. Panicking about a freak accident that happened to the friend of your mother is really a major issue in the US today. Just as important an anecdote, my mother did NOT have a friend who died after riding their bike into a pole.
       
      There are plenty of pretty important things to worry about in the world. If we worry every last unlikely thing, we become neurotic, overprotective, and totally unable to function. That's what the parent poster was saying.
       
      When I rode ATVs and snowmobiles, I wore a helmet. When I rode in cars, I wore a seatbelt. Those are places where you're far, far more likely to get hurt than riding a bike. It's hard (not impossible, but hard) to kill yourself doing 20 mph on a bike. If you're around cars, wear a helmet. If you're not, don't. Pick up some scars, get some stitches, cry washing gravel out of road rash, and live life.
       
      You're far more likely to come out of that emotionally healthy than if you are treated like a precious china cup all your life. If that's how you grow up, at the first nick or crack, you're broken.

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    71. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      When I was growing up, we never wore helmets. No one died. Plenty of broken arms(from doing the usual kid stuff), but no broken heads. It didn't matter how dangerous something was, the chance of us wearing any kind of protection was basically nil. There, I countered your one anecdote with one of my own. Now it's back to being even. Perhaps you should have also taught her to look both ways before crossing the street.

    72. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by joss · · Score: 1

      I very much doubt you really know that. Maybe she would have been more careful and not had the accident without the helmet.

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    73. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by Obel · · Score: 2, Funny

      So if you haven't got aspergers you've got haemmorhoids? Is that what you're saying?

    74. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by ortholattice · · Score: 3, Interesting

      ..teachers who scream "AHDHD--Drug him up!" the first time they act out in class...

      (emphasis mine)

      I see even you have been sucked into the psychobabble. :) When I was a kid it was called "acting up" i.e. misbehaving. Now, its called "acting out", as if any misbehavior at all is caused by deep-rooted emotional problems that are too painful for the child to express directly. So the child "acts them out" indirectly through inappropriate behavior. Often it is accompanied by a subtle suggestion of past abuse or neglect to guilt out the parents.

    75. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      It's not like the parents couldn't help a lot more.

      Pay more attention to online bullying. Stop talking at your kids and start talking to them as if they are capable of independent thought.

      Oh, yeah. Those are the last things that parents would do. What they do is avoid rocking the boat and let the experts grope, er, discipline their kids.

    76. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I agree that drugging kids is stupid but there are real dangers in the world. I am perfectly willing to say sorry for too much protection when my kids are 30,40,50.... versus saying sorry for not protecting them at their funeral. Kids are going to make mistakes and learn on their own but if you can't teach them some of the things that you have already learned then they are doomed to repeat them. There are some mistakes that are not just a lesson and long term life consequences like pregnancy, addiction, jail and even if they get out if jail and try to do the right thing based on what they learned form their mistakes, the record is always going to haunt. eople drugging their kids and not protecting them from stupid mistakes is what causes them to become depressed, enraged, suicidal, homicidal. Parents are definitley the cause but not from too much, from not enough.

    77. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Your points would have come across much better had you not tried to sound like such a jerkass. You have a decent argument, but attempting to turn it into some sort of personal attack just makes you look like a prick. Civility is your friend, mate.

    78. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      the perception [that it is overdiagnosed]

    79. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by dosius · · Score: 1

      LOL

      No, I mean Asperger's is overdiagnosed to just about anyone who's just plain antisocial, and it trivializes those of *us* who were diagnosed before the fad and who do in fact have the condition. Which leads to people believing it just plain doesn't exist. You know, kind-of like ADD.

      -uso.

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    80. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by apoc.famine · · Score: 1

      As I posted above, porcelain cracks. Once it does, it's broken for good.
       
      Treat your kid like something that's self-healing and has an immune system, and they're likely to figure out that they can heal from just about anything. I've got some good physical and a few mental scars from childhood. And you know what? I'm far, FAR less neurotic than most of my peers.

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    81. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by IICV · · Score: 1

      Explore their neighborhood? Have you ever been to suburbia? There's literally nothing but other people's houses for miles around. And God forbid you take the bus or other public transit anywhere - that's just gross.

    82. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by arethuza · · Score: 1

      Indeed and helmets can also save your life - I've had one bike accident where it was pretty clear that if I didn't have a helmet on then I'd have been dead. Now I don't go near a bike or skis without a helmet.

    83. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by z80kid · · Score: 3, Interesting
      > but that one about the bike helmet just outright seemed silly.

      And hence, you miss the OP's point entirely.

      Each individual restriction has some benefit, and may have even saved some people some misery. And each one may make sense - depending on how much you value freedom vs safety.

      As a kid, I had a pocket knife and a bb gun (later a .22). I worked for local farmers and rode (on the public road) on top of hay wagons and in the backs of pickup trucks. My folks let me wander off some pretty long distances without them. Much of what I did as a kid would not be allowed today for safety reasons. And that has probably saved somebody some grief, or maybe even their life.

      But if I'd grown up in the same situation today, I imagine I'd probably have spent all day with the TV and Playstation. I'd have been safe, but out of my mind with boredom.

    84. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Sorry, but you Americans need to wise up about the world around you. I grew up in London in the 70's and 80's. Terrorism as a threat was always there (thanks to the IRA, in part funded by Americans), we were taught to keep our eyes open and be sensible. The fact that America seems to have only just woken up to the threats of being bombed on your own doorstep does not explain or excuse anything.

    85. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by conureman · · Score: 1

      Luxury! I wished I had a helmet many of the times I made an error whilst on my scooter.

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    86. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by pitje · · Score: 2, Informative

      ah, Marco Pantani, the now dead cyclist.
      Granted, he didn't die in a cycling accident, but getting your safety advice from what a professional cyclist in a race wears is just plain stupid.

    87. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by GooberToo · · Score: 0

      I agree. If Parents would just stop worrying and let us make mistakes, things would be a lot better for us. We learn by making mistakes, not by parents trying to prevent every little thing from happening. It's a bit cold outside. So what? I'm not going to die.

      The problem is, too many kids run around with this misconception. And when they make that mistake from which they've *maybe* learned from, mommy and daddy have to come behind and pay thousands of dollars to keep little Johny out of jail and/or prison - or worse. In the end, its often the parents and/or the rest of the family that suffers from the broken, "let us make our own mistakes", mentality.

      Ultimately, you can't help but look at some of the kids that run around with this broken mentality as, "how stupid are you?" Some things you just shouldn't have to learn first hand unless you have a serious mental disability. Obviously, people do need to learn from their own mistakes - but that has limits which seems to be beyond comprehension of so many young these days.

    88. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by TrisexualPuppy · · Score: 5, Insightful

      He saw a children's clinical psychologist, someone trained in these things. She deals with problem children of the worst kind every day, and my stepson was quasi-normal. She came out of the session and said that absolutely nothing was wrong physically with him but that he had too may distractions, e.g. was a spoiled brat.

      What REALLY gets me is that these people think that they can get away with purchasing things to fix the problem when kids require a LOT of TIME and ENERGY. Something that you have to work for. The stepson issue was one of those things that you don't want to come across, but I knew that if I didn't step in, who would? We got him into athletics, and he has a 3.9/4.0 GPA at an esteemed private school now. A little discipline from the sports (in moderation!) along with success in academia and a good social life (youth group and other "real" social life) make quite a good balance for a kid.

    89. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Quite a few of those people contracted their "Asperger's" from spending far too much time on the internet.

    90. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Attempted mockery, creating a strawman and responding to it, attempt to invoke a slippery slope, reinvokation of the original post in a nonsensical manner. Right.

      Dunno why I'm responding to a troll, but nonetheless, ignoring you trying to turn it into a personal attack ("mommy's subarau" what are you, eight?) the correct response to that is, "No, but I wear a seatbelt." No need to bring some sort of slippery slope thing into this, those arguments are just full of holes and should be disregarded (we shouldn't give women the vote, or we'll give dogs the vote, shouldn't free the slaves or we'll have to free the cats).

      If you have data that shows that wearing helmets while riding a bike is not helpful, then bring that up. Trying to mock the OP for a reasonable (if misguided, some comments say helmets are not helpful, I don't personally know) attempt at safety just shows a lack of maturity on your part.

    91. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by V50 · · Score: 1

      Interesting. I was under the impression that helmets were unequivocally a necessary safety measure. I'll look into that.

    92. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by TheRaven64 · · Score: 1

      And keep in mind that university in the USA is far more structured than in other countries. You have far more supervised tutorial time and it's a lot more like high school. Elsewhere, lectures attendance is not enforced, you're expected to be able to motivate yourself to turn up, and if you don't then you either learn by yourself or you fail. They're places where you can acquire an education, not places where lecturers try to spoon feed you with one.

      In the UK, we're seeing a transition to a more US-style system, which I think is a huge mistake. Students are shocked at the idea of having to learn anything on their own initiative and then enter the real world without the basic skills required to work without supervision.

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    93. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by cynical+kane · · Score: 3, Insightful

      You're comparing a fit, adult professional cyclist to a fragile uncoordinated child? And suggesting they take the same safety measures?

    94. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      My mom took me to see a shrink to get an opinion that actually matters the dr said I was board in class.

      Yes, I can tell...

    95. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by conureman · · Score: 1

      The first time I learned about the Yamaha RD-400's capability for front-wheelies, I completely destroyed my Snell-5 rated helmet, and didn't suffer the least contusion. (I got pretty good at showing off with that trick once I knew it was coming.)

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    96. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Ah, the obligatory, "I see things in black and white AC". They're popular in Slashdot.

      I don't think the OP was saying ADHD doesn't exist. He was referring to the massive amount of misdiagnosed children on medication in this world. I'm my experience, most children on ADHD medication don't need the medication, they are acting out for other reasons that the parent don't want to deal with.

      Really? And what, pray tell, is your experience? Are you perhaps a neurologist of a psychiatrist specialising in ADHD? Because the actual research sure doesn't agree with your claimed experience. Unless you are a child psychiatrist in one of the few places in the USA (mainly in California) where it is actually overdiagnosed in children, as opposed to the rest of the damn world and in adults.

    97. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by mephistophyles · · Score: 1

      As Hugh Daniels put it:

      “The problem with trying to child-proof the world, is that it makes people neglect the far more important task of world-proofing the child.

    98. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by RockoTDF · · Score: 4, Insightful

      Another thing about sports is energy. Kids can pay attention if they aren't always full of energy and ready to jump around. I wouldn't be surprised if there was a correlation between schools without recess anymore and ADHD cases.

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    99. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by somersault · · Score: 1

      And, above all, stop drugging them up. A kid shouldn't be taking medication for anything less than a serious physical problem.

      True. It goes for more than just the drugs we're given by doctors though. I was just reading up on studies into artificial sweeteners yesterday. Some of them have a significant effect on mood, especially among those who already have mental issues.

      IMO the more we mess about with our food, the more we're straying from the diet we've evolved to cope with. I'm avoiding sugary foods apart from right after exercising when my body actually needs the energy.. we might have evolved to deal with that too if it wasn't for drugs to help diabetics.. same goes for any other medical condition that might shorten someone's life or otherwise reduce their likelihood of reproducing. Being able to treat the symptoms of serious medical problems with drugs mean that we're going to see a lot more people who actually have those serious problems.. :s There have been times in my life when I've been thinking that I just shouldn't have kids if it means they have a high risk of dealing with some of the stuff I've gone through.. I don't want to advocate Nazi style killing off of the weak, but I hope we can actually start making proper cures to these issues stuff sooner rather than later, or everyone will be needing drugs just to function day to day.

      Some of these things are no doubt a simple result of poor parenting or the changing views of society, but diet has a big part to play too.

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    100. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by cdfh · · Score: 1

      I'm not necessarily saying you're not right, but I do have several comments. You seem to think that multiple medical conditions are being falsely diagnosed. If you are right, then I have nothing else to say. On the other hand, what evidence do you have to support your argument? That more children are being diagnosed than were when you were growing up? That's certainly not evidence. You may claim that none of this happened in your day, and everybody got on just fine. But do you actually know if they got on just fine? It's perfectly possible that undiagnosed children from your generation looked like they were doing fine, but were seriously struggling with life.

      Having said all this, I do tend to agree that a lot of children are being overly pampered, but I also think we should be careful not to ignore real issues just because we did in the past.

    101. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by remmelt · · Score: 1

      It may be a cultural difference, but in the Netherlands, a great cycling nation, (seriously: http://images.google.nl/images?q=amsterdam%20bikes) pretty much no-one wears a helmet. The only people I see wearing helmets are the racing bikers (but by no means all of them) and some soccer moms.

      You can take that for what it's worth.

    102. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by pspahn · · Score: 1

      There is plenty of truth to your statements, but while working with Autism spectrum and ADD/ADHD students for three years, I'm convinced that part of the problem is due to something that isn't completely understood.

      There is something physiological happening to these children sometime between being prenatal and their first several years of life. It wouldn't surprise me if it's due to the crap people feed their kids nowadays, and/or breastfed children feeding from a mother who is on various meds of her own.

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    103. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by RockoTDF · · Score: 2, Insightful

      Speaking of diagnoses, the next DSM (handbook of mental disorders used by practitioners) may have Asperger's removed due to overdiagnosis. It is quite controversial in both psychology and psychiatry, because despite being an abused label it still exists. Other posters have mentioned how overdiagnosis hurts them, and this is probably the most shining example. Doctors are now expected to just say "He's different" or "She's full blown autistic", yet they know that Autism is a spectrum and that everyone is on it to some extent

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    104. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by xaxa · · Score: 1

      I own a cycle helmet. I wear it if I'm doing something with an increased risk of falling off, like cycling on cross-country trails.

      I don't wear it for 99% of my cycling, which is getting to work, the shops, the pub, the cinema, the station etc. In those cases, the danger is from cars, where the helmet is much less useful. In my experience, car drivers give me less room when they overtake if I'm wearing a helmet.

    105. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by nine-times · · Score: 1

      JUST LET THEM BE KIDS, for Christ sake! Stop acting like there is something wrong with them because they're not perfect, or act differently than you expect, or make stupid mistakes.

      I think part of the problem is that the parents themselves are feeling a similar pressure. There's so much advice on how to raise your kids (both science and pop-psychology self-help crap) and how to turn them into perfect little geniuses. Meanwhile there's also a lot of pressure on how to be perfect yourself, how to eat right, how to think the right things and be happy all the time. Our culture really can't handle the idea that people aren't happy all the time. There's so much advice on grieving that assumes the goal is to "get over it" as quickly as possible. We're all supposed to be happy shiny 24-hour party people, smiling all day long, happy to talk to everyone. When you don't live up to that, there are drugs. Social anxiety disorder drugs and antidepressants.

      And then on the news, there's constant news about child molesters and Amber Alerts. There's constant news about the dangers in everyday household items and everyday activities. If you let your kids run around outside, you're branded as a reckless and irresponsible parent. You're supposed to schedule your kids time 24 hours a day, including homework time, sports, hobbies, bla bla bla.

      I'm not even a parent, but I could imagine how it would drive people insane.

    106. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by houghi · · Score: 1

      Anmd instead of having a bump on their head, now the helmet they fall on breaks their jaw. That is at least what a jaw surgeon told me.

      I remember falling of my bike as a kid not just once. Some blood here and there and that was about it. Kids bumt ther heads and fall over a LOT. They break fingers, arms and legs.

      I once asked my sister when she got her first one if she would be make her house kidsafe. The reason she would not was because she wanted (ok, wanted is not completely the right word) the kid to hit its head so it would learn not to do it again. And this not only works for physical but also for emotional stuff.

      Years later her son told his father that one of the kids was pushing hi all the time. The answer was not to file a lawsuit against the school. The answer was he should push back as he was bigger. Did that. The other kid never did it again. Two kids learned a lesson.

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    107. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by Gilmoure · · Score: 1

      There's a time and a place for everything children. It's called college.

      - Chef

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    108. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by Vanderhoth · · Score: 1

      I'm Canadian... Eh? I thought the "Standing in line at Canadian Tire" would have given it away. Europeans, all we are is a colony to you. What about our feelings?

      I'm sure Canadians could take over the world and no one would know it. I mean picture Obama, "Who's attacking?!! The CANADIANS, who are they?!! They have a what? A dingy?!! You're fired."

      Later in England, "Who's attacking?!!..."

      Jokes aside, I do agree with you about the need to stop being paranoid and the need start to get on with life.

    109. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by russotto · · Score: 2, Informative

      And keep in mind that university in the USA is far more structured than in other countries. You have far more supervised tutorial time and it's a lot more like high school. Elsewhere, lectures attendance is not enforced, you're expected to be able to motivate yourself to turn up, and if you don't then you either learn by yourself or you fail. They're places where you can acquire an education, not places where lecturers try to spoon feed you with one.

      Eh? I went to a large state university and lecture attendance was not required nor was there much tutorial time. IIRC the only class where attendance mattered were the discussion sessions for a philosophy class, which makes some sense because you were supposed to be learning how to discuss...

    110. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by CapnStank · · Score: 3, Insightful

      I completely agree; how many kids these days can say they have scars from falling off their bike? Know the pain of a leather belt because they stole someone else's toy/candy/dignity?

      I'm the evil old man (well, 22 isn't old) when I tell a kid to learn some manners after he/she just told me to ST*F*U even though their parents are right there and they're like 6 years old. Parents need to take responsibility and learn that a child is a 20+ year commitment and if you're not willing to invest in the first place you should just keep it in your pants.

    111. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by AP31R0N · · Score: 5, Interesting

      Mod parent down for grossly exaggerating. Cases of over diagnosis/treatment are rare in the real world. Any doctor worth a damn will only medicate kids with a real problem. i think you're reacting to something that isn't as real as you think it is. We have a tendency to hear/think about negative things far more than positive. You won't hear about the 10 kids whose lives radically improved after being treated, only about the 1 kid that was misdiagnosed. If that rare misdiagnosis twists your panties you're going to think about it every time the matter appears (and ignore pounds of case files about proper treatment).

      Some kids DO have these conditions. Some kids will cope, others will spend their lives struggling. Our prisons are packed with people who have these conditions and weren't diagnosed or treated. My own life could have been radically different if i had been diagnosed. i went to school under people who "think" like you do. So i was "undisciplined and lazy". With treatment i could have earned the grades to go to college with scholarships instead of doing four years in the USAF followed by borrowing $30K.

      Much of this cavalier attitude you're showing comes from ignorance backed by a religious belief that humans are meat occupied by spirits. That all we do is a matter of choice and will. When the reality is that we're only meat. With the addition or removal of this or that chemical we can make a person more or less violent, attentive, horny or whatever. We can herd the cats in people heads to help them deal with a world that doesn't care if someone keeps changing the channel in their head. Consciousness can only do so much.

      i'd love to be as disciplined and awesome as you are, but my brain works like a radio in scan mode. Ever few seconds the channel changes without any input from me. Without medication sleep i get about 4 hours of sleep per day because the noise will not stop. But the rest of the world is like you, they don't get it, and they don't give a shit. They don't care that i'm reliving conversations from 15 years ago while they are talking to me. All they care about is that i forgot what they said. If only i could be as attentive and perfect as you!

      As for helmets... brain injuries are often permanent and life altering. It is a risk that just isn't worth taking. A helmet is tiny thing to require. Do you wear your seatbelt or are you so tough that you could just walk it off after slamming your head into a windshield at 50 MPH? Wow, you are so cool.

      i will agree with you that some parents are over protective and paranoid with regards to kidnapping and molesters and the like. i was allowed to range far and wide as a kid. i didn't have to go far to encounter a molester, he was right next door which is more typical than the "guy in the van". Kids should be allowed a long enough leash to learn how to handle themselves.

      On the matter of cocooning and protecting them from challenge, i agree. Giving kids challenges and allowing them to make decisions is usually great for their development. As long as some responsible adult is there to make sure it's not TOO stupid.

      The third sentence from the end highlights your ignorance with a search light and flashing neon arrows. You say that they shouldn't be taking medication for anything less than a physical problem. ADD, ADHD, Aspergers and the like ARE PHYSICAL PROBLEMS. Your brain is part of your body. Those conditions are as physical as diabetes.

      The last sentence makes me wonder if you're trolling. It's so unhinged that it seems like satire or concern trolling.

      Become less ignorant:
      http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/9679423
      http://www.crimetimes.org/02b/w02bp1.htm
      http://www.bhsi.org/stats.htm
      http://enhs.umn.edu/current/6120/bicycle/index.html

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    112. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by orzetto · · Score: 1

      [...] Marco Pantani in the Tour in 2002, no helmet. I'm guessing he is well aware of the risk.

      Taking risk assessment tips from a constantly doped biker who died of cocaine overdose seems slightly preposterous to me.

      Then again, wearing helmets depends also on conditions. When I lived in Norway and I had to bike up- and downhill often, sharing the road with cars on snow and ice, I always wore a helmet. Now I live in Germany, in a place as flat as a very, very flat place, with a lot of bike lanes, and I do not.

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    113. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Only if you can get a good crack with the belt.

      Especially the buckle end of the belt - yowza!

    114. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      There's a huge difference between rejecting over-cautiousness and being reckless. Wear a helmet. You don't lose anything in doing so, and you gain an increased chance of walking away from an accident. It's the rational thing to do.

    115. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by maxume · · Score: 1

      I went to a large state university and I didn't have any enforced lecture attendance (there were lots that it would have been really stupid to miss), and I had essentially zero supervised tutorial time (there were labs, but that can't be what you mean, and there were office hours, but there was never a requirement to attend).

      This was ~10 years ago.

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    116. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      What are you talking about? I attended two universities in the US. Neither one had forced lectures, or any hand-holding at all. Students were considered grown up enough to be responsible for themselves. I wasn't "spoon-feed" anything. Nothing was handed to me. Is this more of that "stupid Americans" crap, because it's getting old.

    117. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by oxygenox · · Score: 1

      Do you honestly think the extremely minor inconvenience of wearing a helmet outweighs the significantly reduced chance of serious injury, brain damage and death?

      Similarly, wearing a life vest significantly reduces the chance of drowning while biking.

    118. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by russotto · · Score: 1

      I'm my experience, most children on ADHD medication don't need the medication, they are acting out for other reasons that the parent don't want to deal with.

      Or, as the caption of a cartoon I once saw read, "No, he doesn't have A-D-D. He has B-O-Y."

    119. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by atomic777 · · Score: 3, Interesting

      If ever there was a post i wish i could mod up...

      I believe we are seeing a large-scale, mental health version of the tragedy of the commons that has gone completely unregulated and will likely end even worse than the unregulated financial mess we're dealing with now. An ever-escalating war for the ever-decreasing attention span our mush-like minds still have left.

      Media and advertising companies have incentives to continue to use ever more intrusive tactics to get access to our minds, and now the analytical tools to optimize those tactics. When I lived in LA, i was amazed that in some areas around hollywood I found it actually dangerous to drive, because every now and then BOOM, there's a 100ft tall poster of basically a naked woman advertising some brand of jeans or whatever. Equally potent for men and women -- the jeans you need to wear if you want the guys to want you, ladies, and to the men, a mental cue: this is what you should want.

    120. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by cbope · · Score: 1

      Exactly. I grew up in the 70's, rode my bike everywhere. I never even heard of a bike helmet until the very late 80's at the earliest. Motorcycle helmets, yes, bike helmets, no.

    121. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by Opportunist · · Score: 1

      That was actually quite a change for me when I took a semester abroad in the US.

      Our universities are offering. They don't force-feed you. Your prof will hold a lecture and if you're there, great. If not, so be it. If you want, you can just turn up for the tests (and actually a few students did just that for courses they knew from the degrees they already had, if you have a masters in math, listening to introductory lectures in graph theory for CS is rather pointless). If you don't show up for the tests, nobody will bother to tell you to come (or that there's one), the dates are shown on papers in front of their office, if you go there and take note of it (and find out where the office is in the first place), fine, if not, your problem.

      You will be given an assignment, they will tell you what is expected to be delivered and when, and from then on, you're on your own. Sometimes older students will work as guides, most of the time for free (or in exchange for some perks like a "personal" computer for their studies, which used to be quite a perk when I was studying, especially when you wanted to go for graphics work and managed to get a hand on one of their SGI stations), but else you're pretty much required to find and discover everything for yourself. Part of the degree is actually to display your ability to research and assemble your material yourself, including the solution of the question where to search and how.

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    122. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by cyphercell · · Score: 1

      Yea, this whole kids being depressed thing is a real fucking mystery. I think it's the Internet, I mean you wouldn't actually say that to a kid in just that way, the both of you would do a lot more to qualify your views. This is damned if you do, damned if you don't cynicism. The kid said "it's a bit cold outside", referring to whether or not they would wear a coat, you're right, kids shouldn't have to break the law in order to learn they shouldn't, but that doesn't apply. Also, the Police are a lot less likely to "catch and release" these days, so back in the day a kid could actually break the law a bit and they were treated like kids testing their boundaries, nowadays a kid with joint is a potential high school blood bath.

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    123. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Go crawl in a hole and die, you pathetic excuse for a human being.

    124. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by xaxa · · Score: 1

      Are you one of those people who refuse to wear a seatbelt?

      I wear a seatbelt whenever I'm in a car. (Although I hardly ever travel in a car -- much less than 500km/year.)

      But you didn't answer my question. Do you wear a helmet when you're in a car?

    125. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      his is a pet peeve of mine. While there are kids that really do need help, too often the system just wants to put a label on the kid and shove a pill down his throat instead od dealing with what is really going on.

      I can only sign this, and add that it applies to older people, too.

      A couple of years ago, I kept feeling sicker and sicker, and sleepy as hell - after a while of hoping it would get better, I finally decided not to put up with it any longer and to visit a physician. After going through a lengthy diagnosis process, I was diagnosed with some mild social issues and one of my doctors suspected me to be depressive.

      I kept visiting the doctor who made the diagnosis for counseling and another for said social issues. While I at first rejected the antidepressants the former doctor recommended, she eventually (after a couple of months of unsuccessful counseling) convinced me to give them a try. Well, guess what - they didn't work a bit. After I told the other doctor more about my symptoms and about his colleague's diagnoses that I was depressive (which I strongly disagreed with) he chuckled and told me it was most likely that I had a minor issue with my blood circulation system which, if left untreated for a long time, would show the same symptoms I was describing, and prescribed me some medicine against it. I instantly stopped taking my antidepressants in favor of my new medicine.

      Guess what - it helped. In barely a month and a half, I recovered from pretty much every issue that had plagued me and, after doing some catching-up, became a perfectly happy, social person (which I still am today).

      Posting anon for obvious reasons.

    126. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by Opportunist · · Score: 1

      So it's better to coddle and pamper our kids 'til they're 18 and then toss them out into the world to survive on their own? How? How should they? When you look at the Darwin Awards, most of them make me shake my head and wonder "didn't he learn that this is EFFIN' STUPID"?

      It's also the reason why so many young people manage to end up deeply in debt even though they didn't bother to study at some expensive college, simply because they had no concept of handling money or they make stupid mistakes that would have been a lot cheaper if they weren't considered adults when they finally were "allowed" to make them.

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    127. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      as someone who was actually diagnosed with and is a veritable textbook case for Asperger's ...

      Yeah, right.

    128. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by TheVelvetFlamebait · · Score: 2, Funny

      Yeah. Fucking doctors and scientists brainwashing parents and kids. If they just thought for themselves, I'm sure they could figure out what's happening to their kids better than some overweight ivory tower intellectual with a piece of paper saying he's better than me, and that he gets to call me stupid in front of all my friends, and make that totally cute girl laugh at me. Jerk.

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    129. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by Opportunist · · Score: 1

      Yet for some odd reason we rode our bikes and are still alive. Do kids these days have softer skulls or what changed?

      Or is it just that we're The 70s Generation, the indistructible ones!

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    130. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by Abstrackt · · Score: 1

      You don't give a kid powerful psychotropic drugs just because they're rebellious or shy.

      Perhaps that's part of the problem. More LSD!!

      I can't help but hear Walter Bishop saying that.

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    131. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by ElectricTurtle · · Score: 1

      Speaking as somebody who nonetheless wears seatbelts, it's still something of a Russian Roulette. You're betting that because the seatbelt is more likely to prevent injuries than cause them that you won't be the unlucky guy that hits things just right such that the seatbelt decapitates you. Some people are uncomfortable with the tradeoff, and for adults the decision, regardless of how rational it may or may not be, should not be enforced by law.

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    132. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by Nutria · · Score: 1

      Only if you can get a good crack with the belt.

      Only for certain perverse definitions of "good".

      I preferred (to give, not receive, via) a big wooden spoon.

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    133. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Eh, depressive - clinically depressive. Something they love to diagnose you with, just like hyperactivity...

    134. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by PachmanP · · Score: 1

      ..."LEAVE KIDS ALONE!"...

      That's ignorant. Don't be ignorant.

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    135. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by lorenlal · · Score: 1

      In all seriousness, the big wooden spoon wasn't the one I was afraid of... It was the long one with the small spoon part.

      That thing had velocity, no wind resistance, and it hurt like hell.

      I can't remember the lessons I supposedly learned from time outs... But I remember to not talk back at her after getting cracked by that thing.

    136. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by The+Spoonman · · Score: 3, Interesting

      Stop being a bunch of wussies!

      I see someone just finished their copy of How To Win Friends and Influence People.

      Seriously, kids today have to wear helmets just to ride a bike

      Bicycle helmets reduce the severity of head injuries in an accident by 88%, so what's your point?

      have some pediatrician putting them on powerful Autism medication if they don't start talking at just the right time

      My daughter is 20 months old. Her "best friend" is the same age. My daughter has a huge vocabulary already, her friend doesn't speak at all. The friend was taken to her pediatrician, who FIRST tested to make sure she wasn't deaf. She was then sent to a child psychologist to determine her mental facilities. At that point, she was put into a speech therapy program where she has been taught sign language in order to communicate. That, BTW, is the standard protocol used when a child hasn't started speaking at an appropriate time. Is it true that some pediatricians will resort to medicinal treatments first? Sure, but they are the extreme exception not the norm. Your statement is blatent fear-mongering with no factual basis.

      are diagnosed with Asperger's the second they show the least bit of shyness

      Pure bullshit.

      are taught by teachers who scream "AHDHD--Drug him up!" the first time they act out in class

      You must be a farmer, 'cause you're just full of bullshit. First of all, ADHD (you'd think someone who wants to come off as intelligent would have no problem spelling an ACRONYM!) is a very real issue. As someone who has it, my first response to ADHD deniers is to tell you to fuck off. My second is to lambaste you for stupid statements like the above. Teachers have no say in if a child is placed on drugs. Teachers will refer students who are consistently poor performers, not those who simply "act out" once. They're then tested to ensure there are no underlying impediments to learning and if there are, they're treated. I'll break out the important point you're choosing to overlook:

      Medicinal treatments for learning disorders are prescribed so that all children, regardless of ability, are given the chance to learn the same as those who do not have the disability.

      and come home to parents who think that a child molester is hanging out on ever street corner just waiting to kidnap their kid. *They're* not the ones who are screwed up, it's the adults around them that are screwed up.

      On this, we can agree that the chance of a child being kidnapped is less than their chance of being killed in a terrorist attack (which is fairly close to nil itself). That being said, the percentage of parents who spend any real mental effort worrying about such things is even smaller. Yes, as a parent, I've used the resources on the Internet to find out what kinds of sex offenders are close by, but don't check regularly.

      JUST LET THEM BE KIDS, for Christ sake! Stop acting like there is something wrong with them because they're not perfect, or act differently than you expect, or make stupid mistakes.

      The problem, dear dimwit, is that you have made up a world in which all parents spend all of their time doting on their children and completely missed the point of the article that these same children ARE dealing with significant issues. Your desire to simply ignore the problem in the hopes it will go away is the ignorant position.

      BTW, forgot to ask the obvious question: how many kids do you have? I have a feeling it won't be a positive number. People will inane opinions like yours never have kids.

      A kid shouldn't be taking medication for anything less than a serious physical problem.

      Because of ignorant dimwits like you spreading bullshit like this, the kids in the article are suffering with issues that can easily be treated both by talk therapy and medicine. Your whole point is "parents are ignorant and don't know how to raise their kids", but really it's you who has absolutely no idea what they're talking about.

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    137. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by locallyunscene · · Score: 1

      Because people have beat their children and practiced infanticide since the beginning of humanity that means we should accept it as human nature and not interfere?

      If you like history this guy has an interesting take on it.

    138. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by loshwomp · · Score: 1

      Do you honestly think the extremely minor inconvenience of wearing a helmet outweighs the significantly reduced chance of serious injury, brain damage and death?

      Yes, because bicycling is not dangerous. See the following table from the BHSI web site, revealing that, per unit time spent, you're about twice as likely to die in your car as on a bicycle. (Per unit distance, it's roughly equal.) You'd be *far* better off wearing a helmet while driving. So why don't you?

      # Fatalities per 1,000,000 exposure hours / Activity
      ----------------
      128.71 Skydiving
        15.58 General Aviation
        8.80 On-road Motorcycling
        1.98 Scuba Diving
        1.53 Living (all causes of death)
        1.07 Swimming
      .88 Snowmobiling
      .47 Passenger cars
      .28 Water skiing
      .26 Bicycling
      .15 Flying (scheduled domestic airlines)
      .08 Hunting
      .035 Cosmic Radiation from transcontinental flights
      .027 Home Living (active)
      .022 Traveling in a School Bus
      .017 Passenger Car Post-collision fire
      .014 Home Living, active & passive (sleeping)
      .003 Residential Fire

    139. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by GooberToo · · Score: 1

      So it's better to coddle and pamper our kids 'til they're 18 and then toss them out into the world to survive on their own?

      I never said anything even remote close to your assertion.

    140. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      actually you will die, one day

      hopefully with advancements in anti aging and such we will be able to prolong that till a distant future

      but you will die, that is a fact of life

    141. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by DrLang21 · · Score: 1

      yet they know that Autism is a spectrum and that everyone is on it to some extent

      This is the problem with the diagnosis of many mental disorders in general such as ADHD and depression. To some extend, everyone is on the spectrum, and doctors are tasked with trying to judge at what point it becomes a disorder for a patient, where it negatively impacts their ability to function.

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    142. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by conureman · · Score: 1

      Here in the People's Republic of California, helmets are mandatory for anyone under 18, on any sort of wheel. Skates, bikes, &c. My son will probably cease to bear the embarrassment when he turns 18 next month; I wear mine if I ride to the mailbox. I've had enough of the negative reinforcement to retain the lessons. If a car knocks you off your bike, you could land on your head. (A van knocked me down once but I didn't happen to land on my head. Pure chance, he snuck up from behind so I had no influence whatever on how I bounced.)

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    143. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by The+Spoonman · · Score: 4, Insightful

      Fantastic, your stepson had been misdiagnosed by the first doctor and didn't have ADHD. That doesn't mean the disorder doesn't exist and that some children need to be treated medically for it. As someone who has it, I can tell you first hand that all of the "discipline", "sports" and "activities" do nothing to treat kids who really do have ADHD.

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    144. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by 192939495969798999 · · Score: 1

      Yeah, if you get hit by a car when you're on a bike, you should be a vegetable for life. That's how we did it in my day!

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    145. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by PachmanP · · Score: 1

      By the way, do you wear a helmet while driving mommy's Subaru?

      Of course! It's SCCA rules! Oh you mean when I'm not tracking my mom's rally car. nm.

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    146. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Don't piss on our parade...
      Some of us like being handed amphetamines for no good reason, especially when your insurance covers it. ;)

    147. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by Nutria · · Score: 1

      It was the long one with the small spoon part.

      That thing had velocity, no wind resistance, and it hurt like hell.

      The one I used was a long wooden cooking spoon. Maybe we are referring to the same thing?

      My grandparents used a ping-pong paddle on me...

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    148. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Yes, those are known as Video Game Kidz. Take their XBOX away and make them go outside, and they, too, will be A-OK.

    149. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I was under the impression that helmets were unequivocally a necessary safety measure

      A helmet will unequivocally protect your head and increase your probability of surviving an accident. If you're in an accident, you'd absolutely rather be wearing a helmet than not wearing a helmet, and the only way to be sure you're wearing a helmet on the one ride in which you have an accident is to always wear the helmet.

      Same with walking, actually. Many of the pedestrians killed each year either by falls or by motor vehicles would have lived if they had only been wearing helmets. How many time have you gotten a good head-rap while walking across an icy parking lot? How many serious bike accidents have you had?

      All safety measures have a balance of risk and cost. Language like "unequivocally a necessary safety measure" suggests that the likelihood of head injury is so serious that you wouldn't even trust yourself to ride from the garage door to the driveway without running your head into a solid object. Really: no conditions under which you would sit on a bicycle without a helmet?

      "No price is too high if it saves even a single life," is a nice sentiment, but completely unworkable. We won't slow down from 75mph to 65mph, even though that saves lives. We won't even slow down from 35 to 25 past the school or the park, and that costs what, 60 seconds? We definitely won't pay to make breathalyzer ignition interlocks mandatory, despite the well known risk of drunk driving. Safety is a good idea. Zero tolerance for risk is as bad as zero tolerance for anything else.

    150. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Generally when you reply to a post with "This", it should be in response to an article/OP that is phrased as a question, so that your "this" is an answer to that question.

      Would you walk into a conversation and say "Yes." without any question having been asked?

    151. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 2, Insightful

      Stop the stimulants, clean up your diet, go out and exercise.
      Problem solved.
      ADHD is something Big Pharma made up to sell drugs.

    152. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by onepoint · · Score: 1

      as a parent of 2 girls, the stress they give me is also joyful. I got to admit, it was funny this week when my daughter said to a boy that "he smelled like shit". yep used a curse word, I almost burst into laughter. but in reference to pressure of growing "perfect children" :

      I like to call it "punishment".

      see, we have a few basic punishments:
      Grounding works wonders when you ground them in the living room full of book, they have no choice but to pick-up a book.
      now in winter, Snow Shoveling does wonders
      in summer it's under the tree ( hand them a book ) this year my daughter read The Illiad and hated every moment of it but can curse me using classic likes like " I'm so angry I could cut Paris's head off " which I think is cute.
      another dirty trick is to spend the evening doing a play, I have to admit I dislike it a lot, but everyone get's a part and we read out loud. even my 6 yearold get's a part. I guess when I am in my 70's I'll look back at it fondly.

      schooling: I dislike most of the teachers because they choose not to explain the practical side of anything, for example math, they never explain why algebra is important ( I explained it with fashion clothing to my older daughter and she understood it perfectly, I used a combination of how to make a wardrobe using fixed prices and have the most outfits ). Science, not that I understood much of what I was explaining but menthos and cola does create pressure, there is a chemical reaction and you get dirty LOL. also I taught her to use it as a deterrent against aggressive boy's. Geography, the crap these teachers teach, how much more exacting can you get, a place is located on a continent, it has xyz as it neighbor's, it's famous for ... my daughter loves this stuff but the teachers don't know anything about them ( thank you Wikipedia ( oh by the way, did you donate to it? ))

      Sports: what the heck is it with everyone is a winner, NO!!! only 1 person is the best, and my daughter is not the best, I admit that and she does too... but I require her to play and try, failure is ok, not trying is failure!

       

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    153. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by cayenne8 · · Score: 1
      "After I told the other doctor more about my symptoms and about his colleague's diagnoses that I was depressive (which I strongly disagreed with) he chuckled and told me it was most likely that I had a minor issue with my blood circulation system which, if left untreated for a long time, would show the same symptoms I was describing, and prescribed me some medicine against it. I instantly stopped taking my antidepressants in favor of my new medicine."

      Would you mind posting what the new meds were?

      Your story is very interesting!!

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    154. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by billius · · Score: 1

      When I was a small child, my father (who rode his bike every day to work) was struck by a flatbed truck because the driver wasn't paying attention to traffic. He was thrown off of his bike and hurled head first into a tree. Although he broke his arm very badly and still has trouble with it sometimes to this day, he didn't die or receive permanent brain damage because he was wearing a helmet. Wearing a helmet, especially in an environment like the American Southwest (I'm from Arizona) where generally not that many people bike and roads are designed for driving giant SUVs, isn't necessarily about protecting yourself from getting a bump on the head because you were careless but rather reducing the impulse of an impact of an auto accident so that you're not killed by it. Cars have crumple zones, bikes don't, and dead children can't learn from their mistakes.

    155. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by Hurricane78 · · Score: 1

      Hey, the 60s called! They want their ignorance of mental diseases back!

      You are right that we should just let them be kids. But what you forget, is that our food and our environment is seriously extremely fucked up compared to e.g. a 100 years ago.
      How many kids still eat actual food? Pizza, fries, sodas and fried mars bars are NOT food!
      How many unhealthy chemicals does a kid come in contact with nowadays?

      Add to that actual social problems around them. You know, the stuff that the retards in the 60s repressed, because they thought it would be cool and manly, to first act all cool, and later get all kinds of fucked up behaviors because they never learned to face their problems.

      That is the reason for the mental problems. And you add to the problem, by acting like those things weren’t real, when they can easily be measured.

      But I completely agree, that meds are the worst possible thing one can do in that situation. Because all meds for mental problems you can get nowadays, are just an automation and assistance in repressing it. They remove the symptoms, so you don’t notice it anymore. Which is like cutting your nerves so you don’t notice that you have your hand on the cooing plate anymore. Totally and utterly retarded. And on top of that they usually are highly addictive, sometimes worse than cocaine. (I’m talking from second hand experience with friends here.)
      Instead of fixing the real causes, by stop eating crap, and facing your social problems. Hell, most men still think that crying would be weak. Yeah, in front of others it shows weakness. But if you are alone or with someone you trust, it gives you strength! The exact strength that allows you to stay cool and all manly in bad situations in the first place!
      And most people (especially in the USA) think you are a “treehugging fag“ if you eat what is actually the exact species-appropriate food that your body was built to eat! As if it were cool to intoxicate yourself...

      Sorry, but to those who can’t learn that I can only say, to then fully go their way. Because this will only mean that their mindset will die faster.

      My other computer is my brain! My other car is my body! And understanding, optimizing and hacking them is a thousand times cooler than doing it with those ridiculously simple machines.
      Plus: It gets you laid!! ^^ (Women can smell a healthy body. And they can see it. AND they feel attracted to a well-managed mind. And rightfully so!)

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    156. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by cayenne8 · · Score: 1
      "Everyone knows that corporal punishment permanently scars children for life."

      I can't tell if you're joking or not...from some of your other posts...it almost seems you are being serious here??

      If so, I gotta disagree, in fact I think many of the discipline problems we see today in kids is because we've "spared the rod" so to speak.

      I got a fair number of ass-whuppins' growing up, and deserved most all of them. I honestly believe I am better off as a person today with being raised in that manner, otherwise, I'd have been and likely would still be out of control.

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    157. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Do you honestly think the extremely minor inconvenience of wearing a helmet outweighs the significantly reduced chance of serious injury, brain damage and death?

      As someone who never wore a helmet as a kid, even after being hit by a car, I can say helmets are pretty unnecessary. My head cracked the windshield of a car going about 100 mph and I came out with only half a dozen stitches to it.

      Helmets are more to keep your face pretty in the rare chance that a car nails you.

    158. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by Chemisor · · Score: 1

      > Do you honestly think the extremely minor inconvenience of wearing a helmet outweighs
      > the significantly reduced chance of serious injury, brain damage and death.

      Damn right it does! Force me to wear a helmet and I'd probably skip riding the bike in the first place. And the tone of your post just makes me mad. How dare you nanny state liberals dictate whether I choose to risk my head or not? If I crash my head into a pole, that's none of your goddamned business. My life is my own to live or to risk or to do away with, and nobody has a right to tell me how much risk is acceptable for me to take.

    159. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by Kijori · · Score: 1

      The problem is that often, and maybe even in the case of bicycle helmets, the actual dangers are grossly overblown.

      Surely what's important is less the probability of a serious injury than the advantage:disadvantage ratio. Even if you're just cycling down the street, and conditions are perfect, and you're totally awesome at cycling and nothing could possibly go wrong, putting on a helmet requires so little effort and inconvenience that it's probably still worth it.

    160. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Sorry, forgot about their brand and name - just, as said, they were against a dysfunction of my circulatory system located somewhere in one (or both) of my feet.

    161. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      "Helmets? Shit Peter, you show up wearin some shit like that, you'll get your ass kicked."

      I grew up biking DAILY in the 1970s. Never owned a helmet, jumped everything in sight.

      The thing about head injuries, is all you need is one or two minor ones as a kid, and then you develop this innate protective sense whereby you will throw anything and everything into the way in order to protect your head during a bike or skateboarding crash. Including your cock.

      I've got a medical record 4 miles long spanning almost 40 years, been in and out of ambulances, hospitals, doctor's offices...and I haven't hit my head on anything since I was like 7 or 8 years old. Head impact is a NON OPTION.

      I'm not against helmets, I just never needed one. That's what broken arms are for.

    162. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      "are diagnosed with Asperger's the second they show the least bit of shyness"

      Uhmmm no, maybe in the states but here in canada you usually only get diagnosed after a major life episode (think suicide).

    163. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by TheSoepkip · · Score: 1

      The Dutch do relatively well without being too worried about helmets... bet this will be ground for a heart attack or overblown reaction or two ...

    164. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by buswolley · · Score: 1

      How about these problems are real, and it is due to environmental pollution (endocrine disruptors, pesticides, etc). Discuss.

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    165. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by PanchoVilla · · Score: 1

      I grew up in the 80's and I never wore a helmet on bikes or skateboards. I have several nice bails including the time I rode straight into the back of a pickup truck with a shell on it. Guess what, I made it. I remember there was ONE kid at my school that always wore his helmet on his skateboard and bike because his parents made him. Now if you are riding a bike on the road with cars on hills and doing 20+ mph yes you absolutely should wear a helmet. If you are riding your bike in the park on the walkways at 4+ mph, im not so sure its required.

    166. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by xandroid · · Score: 2, Insightful

      Also, the roads on the Tour are closed. I wear a helmet when I ride my bicycle because I don't trust the moron drivers of America to not hit me with their vehicles.

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    167. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by RockoTDF · · Score: 1

      The problem with those problems is that they are totally untestable. Everything (almost literally) has been correlated with ADHD or autism. For the latter there is specifically a study showing that rainfall during pregnancy (IIRC it was pregnancy) correlated with it, as well as having linoleum floors in your kitchen. The list goes on.

      You can do animal models with the neuroendocrinological stuff, but those are also controversial for reasons of realism.

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    168. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1, Informative

      It's sad that this passes for insight. ADHD is an actual learning disability. Even if it is currently over diagnosed and over treated, that doesn't mean it's not real. I have it, my son has it, and if he doesn't get treatment he can't do basic math. If he takes his meds, he's top of the class. I don't know why you bother posting this sort of poorly thought out crap. Is it because you don't believe is science? Or are you a numerological researcher? No? Then why do you think you are informed enough to make these kinds of statements? Why is it that everyone thinks they are an expert on this? To take ADHD as an example, there are decades of studies that show that the kids the get the medications are more likely to go to college and generally have better outcomes that the kids who don't. Maybe next time you should think a while before you post something that ignorant.

    169. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by sorak · · Score: 1

      Society changes. Now, I am not going to argue about whether ADHD is overdiagnosed, or underdiagnosed, but the fact that someone had a learning disorder at a time when the US was primarily an agrarian society, and he become a war hero, is not a good indicator of whether someone with the same trait will be at a disadvantage when trying to find a job in 2025.

    170. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by Heian-794 · · Score: 1

      I agree wholeheartedly, and also wonder if the mania for helmets comes from car-centric culture. In my experience the people who are most vocal about forcing cyclists to wear helmets are not cyclists themselves, but automobile drivers. When someone who drives or rides in a car thinks "accident", they imagine being thrown forward through a windshield, head-first. *Those* people would do great to have a cycling helmet on, but when you consider what happens to a cyclist who falls off the bike or is thrown off, it's not the top of your head that's in danger -- it's everywhere else.

      Speaking as someone who does a few thousand kilometers a year on urban roads (and who has never owned a car), I'd rather have some kind of protection for my wrists (since it's instinctive to use your hand to break a fall), and knees. If you're thrown off a bicycle and do a faceplant into the ground, you want protection for your chin (which I've never seen before). But the top of your head? I don't think I could land on the top of my head, flying off a bicycle, if I tried. *Maybe* if I were riding near a cliff that could be tumbled down, but at a child's speed (under 10 MPH, surely) on regular streets?

      I also find the small increase in the size and weight of my head to be surprisingly disorienting; that difference might slow my reaction time by just enough to prevent me from seeing an oncoming car or other danger. Maybe that's just me, but still, I'd give my kid knee and elbow pads and some kind of wrist guard instead. That's where the realistic danger is, and where the increase in safety is less equivocal.

    171. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      This is all part of the Jews' plan... they are rubbing their JEWISH hands with glee, up on Capitol Hill, at all the damage they have done to their 'goyim'...

      Until you all start finding out just what the JEWS are doing to you, they will continue to destroy your country.

    172. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Yes.

      Sort of anyway. The problem is that often, and maybe even in the case of bicycle helmets, the actual dangers are grossly overblown. You have people thinking that peddling a few meters on a bike without a helmet is some huge risk when, statistically, it isn't. Here is Marco Pantani in the Tour in 2002, no helmet. I'm guessing he is well aware of the risk.

      Everywhere you look there are similar fractions of a percent chance of getting hurt that you'll need to guard against. So the bike helmet, in this instance, is just a convenient scapegoat.

      Poor example with Marco Pantani...

      first - he is a professional bike rider, on CLOSED roads, with only other cyclists
      secondly, the tour, and the rest of the ICU, has decided that wearing helmets is now mandatory, why?? because it does actually help in preventing head injuries

      now, does some 8 year old who just got of training wheels riding solely in the driveway necessarily need one? no - but stranger things have happened, you know, like babies drowning in the tub in less than a few inches of water...So, for young kids who has developing coordination and decision skills, yes, a bike helmet in reducing/preventing head injuries

      if a twentysomething plus decides it isn't "cool" to wear a helmet and ends up in the hospital, that one is going to wish they had one one - if at least for the possibility of being able to change his/herself....

    173. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by VisceralLogic · · Score: 1

      Interesting. I was under the impression that helmets were unequivocally a necessary safety measure. I'll look into that.

      Helmets should, in fact, be worn at all times. One is constantly in danger of tripping, and injuring the head. In fact, the proper type of helmet to be worn is not a bicycle helmet, but a football helmet, since that protects the face, also. Unfortunately, the additional weight can put a lot of strain on the necks of smaller persons, so additional neck supports should also be worn.

      Helmets should only be removed for brief operations such as showers or haircuts.

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    174. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by Reziac · · Score: 2, Interesting

      This reminds me of a study a while back that concluded that kids actually do NOT get a "sugar high". And on thinking about that...

      Adults eat 3 times a day. But that's not often enough for kids. By the time the next meal rolls around they've run out of fuel and are dragging. Give 'em sugar and that fuel is replenished (remember, everything in your body ultimately runs on sugar), and they rebound to the merely NORMAL kid energy level, which is a LOT more than most modern adults think. (At least, now that we're all supposed to be full-time couch potatoes and never go outdoors.)

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    175. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Stay AWAY from me and children!!!!!

      just kidding... ..well, stay away, please, but I'm not that worried....

    176. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Don't forget the unrealistic expectations from the "No One Can Fail" policies meant to increase self-esteem. If one is overly optimistic and over confident, they are destined to disappointment.

    177. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by Xabraxas · · Score: 1

      Alrighty, enough sarcasm. Why is it that there's always at least one guy in every crowd without any empathy, but with plenty of (wrong) answers?

      Because lacking empathy is a common trait amongst some personality disorders like narcissistic personality disorder and antisocial personality disorder and as the article noted mental health issues have skyrocketed. It makes perfect sense.

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    178. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by Xabraxas · · Score: 2, Insightful

      They tried to tell me my son needed Ritalin and that he had ADHD because he acted up in class and wouldn't pay attention. I took him home, busted his little butt and things were fine from then on.

      So you traded medication for physical abuse? It may work well while he is a child but he's probably going to need those meds when he's older now.

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    179. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by cats-paw · · Score: 1

      I came out of the parking lot on a very cold morning.

      oh shit ! ICE I thought and then went flying off the bike and hit the back of my head VERY hard on the asphalt. Helmet cracked. Gave me a sore neck. Would it have killed me ? Probably not. A concussion for sure. But what if I hemorrhaged and died the next day ?

      So there's the discussion. Should I wear a helmet my entire life of bike riding to prevent one such incidence ? I think it's worth it. On a strict probability basis watching out for stupid fucking drivers is more important than a helmet.

      Also the use of helmet depends on where, when and how often you ride. I commute and spend many hours on a bike.

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    180. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      That is one of the most ignorant posts I've read in a long time. Do you have any evidence backing up your position? Do you actually know anything at all about how mental health disorders are diagnosed and treated? Is it that you don't believe in science? Or is it just neurology you are skeptical about? Did you hear this on Fox news?

    181. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by Xabraxas · · Score: 1

      Especially the buckle end of the belt - yowza!

      You may think it is funny but some of us actually had to endure this kind of punishment as children.

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    182. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by Xabraxas · · Score: 3, Insightful

      If so, I gotta disagree, in fact I think many of the discipline problems we see today in kids is because we've "spared the rod" so to speak.

      As someone who grew up in a time when it was ok to be hit as a child I gotta disagree with you. Of everyone I grew up with the most stable and well adjusted of my friends were the ones who were not hit as children. I would have agreed with you when I was an adolescent because I was hit when I was a child and I thought I was fine for the longest time. As it turns out childhood abuse and neglect can rear its head much later in life. My personal opinion now is that if you have to hit a child to discipline them then you lack real parenting and problem solving skills. Resorting to violence is just a symptom of these deficiencies.

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    183. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by frogzilla · · Score: 1

      I know you're being sardonic and I agree with you. Unfortunately, my cousin was hit in the head by a truck while riding his birthday present moments after receiving it. There is no guarantee that a helmet would have prevented his permanent brain damage but one has to wonder if it is so terribly onerous a requirement to put on children. I think it is probably a useful lesson. One can have fun but one should have a regard for one's self. Doesn't seem so terrible really.

    184. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by MaskedSlacker · · Score: 1

      You're a moron. In the Blitz, bombs fell on kids houses in London. Their friends didn't show up the next day, what with being dead and all. Nothing kids in the US today deal with compares, even a little, unless they were on the sidewalk in New York that day.

      Your Dad might not have heard about it? Pearl Harbor was on the front page of every newspaper in the country, newspapers hand delivered by kids in many cases.

    185. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Let's see those "chances" of not having ADHD are, say, 95%, with a 5% chance that it's actually ADHD after all. Now look at, say, a million children that are acting up in some way. (Not unrealistic, given that there's many, many more children in the USA.) Now you would probably conclude, for each individual child, that they don't have ADHD; after all, the chances for that are 95%, right?

      So all in all, you'd conclude that since no individual child does, none of the children have ADHD. In fact, you might even conclude that ADHD probably doesn't exist.

      My grandmother can't calculate a 15% tip without a little printed chart. Even she would think this is the dumbest line of reasoning in the history of the world.

      It should be obvious what went wrong there

      Yes, you set up a straw man that no one on /. would agree with. Good job.

      Well, maybe "no one on /." is a little generous. Let's call it 5%.

    186. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      You forgot to call GP an insensitive clod.

    187. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by shutdown+-p+now · · Score: 3, Informative

      Yet for some odd reason we rode our bikes and are still alive.

      Not all of you; only those who lived to brag about it. GGP told his anecdote of someone who did not.

      I would expect that vast majority didn't have any problems, naturally (I rode my bike without a helmet since I was... 5 I think?.. for as long as I was still living in my country, where it's legal; everyone else did, too, and I don't recall anyone hurt in a way that a helmet would prevent).

      But there's always a chance, and it might just be you who draws the unlucky ticket next... and if a helmet helps with that, then why not?

    188. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by Proteus+Child · · Score: 1

      Or a wooden spoon across the ass. Goddamn, that hurt. Never did what I got a whoopin' for again, though.

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    189. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I'm not absolutely sure about all of that. I remember when I was a kid, the nuclear war was not an if but a when.

    190. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I live in Holland; everyone here rides bikes and most people have a couple of them. They ride them to everything: work, school, friends, the supermarket, everything. No one wears a helmet. And yet we have way fewer casualties in traffic than the usa. Why do you think that is? Bikes are inherently more safe than cars; if you ride a bike you're already doing it right.

      Helmets are unpractical, they make it harder to look around and can be really annoying which causes you to fidget with 'em which is something that can actually get you into an accident, rather than worsen it. On top of that, they make you look like a complete idiot. I've never in my life seen anyone falling of their bike and wounding their head, it's always the arms, legs, etc.

    191. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by Nutria · · Score: 1

      I can't tell if you're joking or not...from some of your other posts...it almost seems you are being serious here??

      Not serious, but sarcastic.

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    192. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by Chyeld · · Score: 1

      Because of course, you are so much more likely to wear the helmet when you are going 20+ mph if you've grown up thinking wearing a helmet is for sissy's back when all you could go was 4+ mph.

      Sometimes it's coddling the kid, sometimes it's trying to instill values in them that will actually protect them when they grow up. It's a lot easier to teach them when a mistake just means a bump on the head and not brains leaking out.

    193. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by NeutronCowboy · · Score: 1

      You're comparing a professional rider riding on a closed course with paramedics available in under 5 minutes to an amateur riding on crowded streets with motorists who sometimes outright hate cyclists.

      I personally know one guy who is alive because of his bike helmet. And know of another who didn't die (but needs plenty of reconstructive surgery) after being clipped by a car. So the bike helmet is like a seat belt. You might not need your entire life, but there are plenty of people out there who are saved by them. Don't extrapolate to others from your personal experience.

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    194. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Yep. It's totally worth it. Ballpark estimate of the number of bike riders in the US: 80,000,000. Ballpark estimate of the number of serious injuries to bike riders: 30,000. (Both based on some quasi-legitimate internet stats.) That's roughly a 0.04% chance of being hospitalized for a serious injury due to bike riding. That's 4/10,000 riders. 90% of those are hit by cars, as well.

      This statistic by itself isn't worth all that much, since it doesn't tell you important things like the distribution of injury rates vs. age and/or experience, and vs. specific biking activities (trail riding) and location (city streets).

      Helmets are a good idea for kids, because they're more likely to be injured in a biking accident due to their inexperience with bikes, tendency to do stupid stuff on bikes, and less-refined motor skills.

      Of course, I don't have any statistics to back my point up, either. So there. :)

    195. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      All I wanted was Pepsi.

    196. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by frogzilla · · Score: 1

      How many kids still eat actual food? Pizza, fries, sodas and fried mars bars are NOT food!

      I have to point out that it is rather a big deal at my house that we make our own pizza from scratch (ie. flour and water etc.) on Sunday evenings. The kids help by choosing what they want on top. We sometimes bake them on a stone so they are especially yummy. I don't think pizza is inherently bad. Fried mars bars, an obscure and I assume little eaten oddity, are certainly bad. However, we recently used melted Mars bars in a fondue pot.

      The point I am trying to make is that it's wrong to just list a bunch of foods and call them evil. The problem isn't with specific foods, it's with diet overall. And exercise.

      Maybe it's with "lifestyle"? Involving (your) children in their own lives is pretty crucial to helping them become healthy adults who lead happy productive lives. Whenever you're in doubt imagine how your children would have been living (if they survived) in millennia past. They would probably be at your side, mimicking the things you do as they learn how to get through the day. Obviously we don't live in the past and we have to adjust for present circumstances. Sorry I don't have a bold conclusion to make beyond that.

      Beyond all of that there are certainly some mental illnesses. People with these can sometimes benefit from treatment. Some beneficial treatments involve special chemicals. I am not remotely an expert on that though (or any of this really).

    197. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by Rene+S.+Hollan · · Score: 1

      Sure, if you're going to do something really dangerous, like racing or tricks on a bike, skateboard, or scooter, then, yes, protection is a must.

      But, riding your bike on a residential street in a sane manner does not carry those risks.

      Still, if your kid does not have a helmet the neighborhood busybodies will turn you in to CPS for neglect.

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    198. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      But, of course, you really do have it, right? Everyone ELSE was just incorrectly diagnosed.

    199. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      [...]then you develop this innate [...]

      This word does not mean what you think it means.

    200. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by radtea · · Score: 1

      Yet for some odd reason we rode our bikes and are still alive.

      But have apparently been hit on the head too hard to bother looking at the data, which shows that childhood death from bicycle-induced head injuries has dropped dramatically in the past 30 years.

      You survived. So did I. Lots of others didn't, and if we'd all been wearing helmets most of them would have.

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    201. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by radtea · · Score: 1

      Here [topfoto.co.uk] is Marco Pantani in the Tour in 2002, no helmet. I'm guessing he is well aware of the risk.

      So you're answering a large and statistically valid body of data and the conclusions drawn from it with an anecdote about some guy who you guess is more knowledgeable about the risk/reward trade-off than the scientists who actually study the subject.

      Ok, I guess that makes perfect sense. What a compelling argument!

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    202. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by MaskedSlacker · · Score: 1

      Elsewhere, lectures attendance is not enforced, you're expected to be able to motivate yourself to turn up, and if you don't then you either learn by yourself or you fail. They're places where you can acquire an education, not places where lecturers try to spoon feed you with one.

      Uh, I'm not sure what alternate reality you're living in, but not a single one of the several US universities I've attended (all public institutions at that) work anything like you seem to think they do.

      I once showed up to a class six times in total, and still passed (just took the exams, skipped the lectures). No one cared.

      US universities are more structured than the Oxford/Cambridge model, this is true, but your description of what they're supposedly not is a much better description of what they actually are.

    203. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by MaskedSlacker · · Score: 1

      Again, you've just described almost every class I've ever taken at a US university.

    204. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I used to think I had ADHD. I didn't bother getting diagnosed because I wasn't interested in getting on drugs such as Ritalin. Recently I read about Vitamin D and how great it is (http://www.vitamindcouncil.org/). So I started taking 2,000iu per day. Amazingly my ADHD symptoms have disappeared overnight! I can actually get things done without resorting to stimulants. I googled ADHD and Vitamin D and found that a deficiency of Vitamin D is a commonly misdiagnosed as ADHD. So perhaps the sudden rise in ADHD has something to do with kids being indoors far more than before?

    205. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I grew up in the '80s and I never wore a helmet and took many falls on my bike, what it taught me was to learn how to ride my bike better.

      Also I remember that wearing a helmet was also considered a nerdy thing to do.

    206. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by Omestes · · Score: 1

      I don't think the OP lacks empathy. I was discussing this with my girlfriend who is getting her masters in education the other day, we're trading the short term happiness of our children for their long term viability as human beings. Think back to the stories you have from when you were a kid, or when your parents were kids, how much of it would be illegal, immoral, bad child rearing, etc.. now? Yet most of our parents are fine.

      Hell, all of the things we discuss as being psychologically damaging to children were ubiquitous not 40 years ago, and yet somehow our species managed to exist, reproduce, and be productive members of whatever society we claim membership to. The goal of childhood is to become an adult, thats it. Yes, your kid should have fun and be safe, but there is a limit to that. You coddle them to much and they become gimped adults (or as it seems, they don't grow up ever).

      Just think, with all the unfair, terrible, and emotionally scarring practices of yesteryear, our society ticked on, and somehow America managed to become the world powerhouse of technology and science, our children could read and do basic math, they didn't have drastic amounts of depression, ADD, and autism (and other psuedo-diseases), they didn't run around and shoot their classmates, or end up at 30 sitting in their mothers basements huffing paint. They generally weren't morbidly obese and suffer from asthma and diabetes. They didn't have some idiotic sense of entitlement with no achievement (self-esteem). Actually, we were healthier and smarter before we started treating our children like fragile little butterflies. \\

      Something isn't working. To claim that our practices are better is rather dumb, since there isn't any observable improvement over what we've done of course of history (pre-60's). Children need to learn, they can't learn in a bubble. And we forget that children are MUCH more resilient than us adults, again think of the things you, and your parents, survived and prospered from as children, that we won't allow our children to experience.

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    207. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by Omestes · · Score: 1

      This being /., I'm not entirely sure whether your being sarcastic, or serious (sad isn't it).

      If you are being sarcastic, you should know that there is very little actual science in child rearing practices. The science involved is much like the science involved in fad diets, they latch onto a small correlation, and turn it into a huge theory, with no actual empirical data or theory to back it up.

      If you're being serious; you might be a jerk.

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    208. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by TerranFury · · Score: 1

      This is absolutely stupid. There are lots of excessive safety measures that deprive kids of useful learning experiences, but wearing a bicycle helmet is hardly one of them. What exactly is the benefit of not wearing one? Gaining the 10 seconds it takes to put one on?

      A better example would simply biking or walking to school at all, vs being driven in the minivan/SUV. The former teaches independence and gives some exercise; the latter doesn't.

      Another good example would be our now-anemic chemistry sets. Once you take out all the cool chemicals, there's no incentive to play with the thing (and thereby learn).

      But bicycle helmets seem like a silly thing to get worked up about and start opposing. They do no harm.

    209. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by cayenne8 · · Score: 2, Informative
      "I would have agreed with you when I was an adolescent because I was hit when I was a child and I thought I was fine for the longest time. As it turns out childhood abuse and neglect can rear its head much later in life."

      There is a difference between corporal punishment, and childhood abuse/neglect!!

      They are not the same. I got spanked growing up, most everyone I know did. Everyone of them is well adjusted, and successful in life and in family.

      Sure, different kids respond to different things...not everyone needs to be spanked, some not as often, some not at all....some until they get the message that it is wrong to do certain things and that there are consequences for actions.

      I got spanked. I was NEVER beat or abused though. I know now even from speaking with my parents...my spankings were sometimes held off for a short time from my infraction till punishment was given. I found out later, it was to give my parents time to cool off, and not be angry when spanking me...so that it was punishment, and not anything more with emotion behind it. There is a difference.

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    210. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      You can still get road rash, stitches, etc., while wearing a helmet...

    211. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by cayenne8 · · Score: 1
      "How about these problems are real, and it is due to environmental pollution (endocrine disruptors, pesticides, etc). Discuss."

      While I would concede that these problems CAN be real, and caused by the situations/ailments that you mentioned....I'd venture to make a wild ass guess that the vast majority of kids diagnosed today, are free from any REAL disease...and are, in fact, just being what in my day was known as 'being a kid'.

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    212. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      no u

    213. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by log0n · · Score: 1

      No, it really isn't.

      I'm not going to put words in your mouth, but if you are also of the belief that depressed people need to cheer up and autistic kids just need a slap upside the head... than your world view and exposure has been extremely narrow.

    214. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by thetoadwarrior · · Score: 1

      Clearly you're not a parent and don't understand. That's what they always say but if you don't understand kids before having kids should you really be trying to have kids when you're so clueless about kids?

    215. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by Omestes · · Score: 2, Informative

      I'm not a big fan of corporal punishment, though I can see its uses. My dad, from time to time reddened my butt when I was being a little terror, and while these aren't among my fondest childhood memories, I don't see then rising up in a couple years and causing me neurosis either. Sure, my childhood wasn't as rod ridden as my dad's, who managed to wear out a couple of his dad's belts, but then again my dad is also doing rather well mental health wise (a bit of a workaholic, but I attribute that to growing up very poor, and very Irish).

      When I breed, I probably won't whoop my children, though. Not because of any humanistic, or "inner child scaring" reason, though, but because it isn't psychologically effective as a conditioning technique. Punishment must be linked to the dead punished both in time, and in method in order to stick in the brain. Most of the time spanking don't do this ("just wait until your father gets home!"), so it isn't effective most of the time. Also, often, corporal punishment goes over-board and serves more to vent the anger of the parents, than to correct the behavior of the child. A rap on the knuckles is just as strong a negative reinforcer than a large welt on the ass, but one is much more satisfying to an angry parent.

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    216. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      'helmets just to ride a bike'?
      Are you kidding? Could we keep bike helmets out of the same category as medicating children?

    217. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by mewshi_nya · · Score: 1

      I remember reading somewhere that ADD/ADHD diagnoses are more than casually linked with diagnosis of more severe disorders, such as bipolar, later in life. Can't remember where, though.

    218. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      To be honest, I wore a helmet half the time I rode on the streets as a kid and it saved my wellbeing. Taking a corner going rather fast, I had not noticed that there was a little more dirt in the rode than usual and the bike slipped from under me. My body rotated sideways and my head immediately cracked against the raised curbs you see in suburbs, my neck and shoulder hit the asphalt right afterwords. Given the force of the impact I would not have gotten up and walked away.

      That said, I threw the helmet away and stopped wearing it afterwards, go figure.

    219. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1, Interesting

      I'm not into psychology, but I find it interesting. My findings (no citations or references, just my opinion) are:
      1. Human brains like challenges and are always looking for problems to solve. You give a person a happy life and that person will find a way to find problems so it will need to solve.
      2. The exercise to me, helps to relieve that need of the brain to look for challenges and problems to solve.
      3. If you or your kid doesn't do exercise or properly challenge itself, it will find another way, probably getting into troubles.
      4. I believe most of humans have a trend to become obsessive at something. Some would be bad, some others, may not sound "that bad". Some for example could be addicted to heroin, some others to work or programming.
      The "media" era, has caused that these addictions can be easily obtained online. (Porn, movies, music, news, flaming, trolling). The moment they make this access more complicated (no internet at home, no TV), the person will probably tend to do different things, which could keep it out of trouble and challenged. Watching movies or TV for extended periods of time, give the time to the brain also to look for problems, given that this type of activity requires little brain activity.

      I'm certainly not an expert (although in /. everyone is), but I hope I can challenge my kids in different ways, and keep them a schedule, so they can do different things. And I need to promise myself too, that I will stay away of some of these no-brain activities too.

    220. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by Marxist+Hacker+42 · · Score: 1

      One good point here: At least half of these mental problems *were not mental problems* in the 1930s. The DSM-IV, and the new DSM-V have many more pages than the original DSM.

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    221. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Bullshit. "Big Pharma" doesn't make up disorders. They make drugs and then test which disorders they might be able to target.

    222. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by GooberToo · · Score: 1

      Also, the Police are a lot less likely to "catch and release" these days, so back in the day a kid could actually break the law a bit and they were treated like kids testing their boundaries, nowadays a kid with joint is a potential high school blood bath.

      That's exactly the point. These days kids are not only willing to push far beyond what "common sense" says is absolutely idiotic, but police are far, far less likely to be understanding and dismiss it as, "kids being kids - no body got hurt."

      An adult telling you that getting hit by a car is bad, don't let it happen, really should be all that's required. That should be the end of it - but not with many of this current generation.

    223. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by buswolley · · Score: 1
      Yes, there is that.

      Also, there is the hormone contamination that is changing us to be more feminine. Coincidence?

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    224. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      cool story, bro

    225. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by GooberToo · · Score: 1

      The fact that the parent post was modded down does wonders to highlight the mental dysfunction that is seemingly common with the current generation. Such moderating screams that either the moderator is a completely idiot or they failed to read the entire post. Either way, negative moderation of the parent post is trolling at best.

    226. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by infodragon · · Score: 1

      Grammer and Spelling Nazis beware, I'm the worlds worst speller and terrible with grammer.

      Aspergers is a spectrum disorder, meaning you can have it lightly in one symptom, not at all in another symptom, and have it strongly in another symptom.

      You must first "qualify" by these diagnostic criteria

      http://www.aspergers.com/aspcrit.htm

      There is not one that I didn't qualify. Also I have sensory cross over, I "see sound and hear light" all the time. Differnt sounds produce differnt noice in my vision and differnt colors produce differnt pitch sounds in my ears.

      It is difficult to diagnose due to the later emmergance of the symptomms over autisim or *REAL* ADHD. Also it is coupled with high intelligence (Hans Asperger had high intelligence listed as a pre-requesit to be diagnosed) This gives idiot parents the ability to fit two needs; 1. My child is very intelligent, see this diagnosis from the High Priest^H^H^H^H^H^H^H^H^H^HDoctor, 2. Oh poor me, my child is disabled and needs every med (secrectly joyus that they don't have to deal with the little hellion they've created; their out being doping them up and giving themselves the pat on the back that it is not their fault littly Jonny has Aspergers or whatever) again they show the diagnosis from the High Priest to reinforce their denail.

      Anybody doing some serious research finds that it is a mild disability that can create some pretty signifigant complications if the enviornment is not proper, i.e. parents.

      I was diagnosed when I was 26, 4 years after I got married. I'm 32 now, married 10, and I can say one thing. The diagnosis changed everything. First I was relieved that most of the areas of my life were a little different because I'm a little different and not just in my head. Second I became angry because everybody missed it, including my parents and myself. Thrid I became a bit down on my self (depression too hard a term to describe what was going on). Forth I started to slip in many of the areas of my life because I had a disability and that allowed me to slip, i.e. an execuse to slack off. Fith I realized I lived 26 years of my life not knowing, an execuse was stupid at this point and really took a look at what it meant, I read voraciously on the subject and got a life coach that had an amazing ability to intutivly get in my head and pull out things. It was basicaly mild behavior modification therapy. I leared what were my triggers for causing bad episodes and to notice the stages before things got bad. My productivity skyrockted by over 600%, and that's extremly concervative and tracked over a period of 3 years.

      I've never been on any meds except for ritalin for a few weeks, the stuff sucks bad. I've found a combination of vitamins and herbs that make a world of difference, the primary being bitter orange extract combined with ginko. Alone they both do squat. I've changed my diet quite a bit finding that processed sugar and dairy can cause seroius issues with irritation which triggers many other symptoms.

      Each person is differnt and each journy of discovery will be differnt, meaning there is no magic cure all. Parents need to employ a bit of creativity to better raise their children, basicaly they need to spend time with their children. Adults need to employ creativity to deal with the issues, and they need to learn as much as they can. "Thinking in Pictures" by Temple Granden seriously helped me. Much of what was in the book described me. I'd read a portion of the book to my Wife, who was in the other room, she had to ask, "Are you describing yourself or reading the book?" So the last thing is you need a *SAFE* relationship that you can bounce ideas around of your behavior and experiences, in which you can brainstorm how to address the issues that come from them to better function as a human being.

      I've reached a point in my life that nobody notices that I have anything different about me, unless I'm having a bad day. In which case

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    227. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Surprisingly the same country that drug kids is doing "War on drugs".

    228. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 2, Informative

      I know this will simply be ignored by all the whiners (and the sycophants who constantly mod them up) who still think ADHD doesn't exist, but as every legitimate ADHD researcher will quickly point out, there is a real difference between a rambunctious, highly active child who can sit down and be quiet after a quick smack on the ass, and an ADHD child who CAN'T sit still and pay attention for more than 10 seconds no matter how much you discipline them. There is a laboratory-measurable biological difference between normal and ADHD brains. It's not easy to actually measure it in every individual because it requires, if I remember correctly, an fMRI type test which of course is very expensive. However, I don't believe ADHD is over-diagnosed nearly as much as most of you think it is. The diagnostic procedures have been highly refined over the years and are very accurate now. Besides that, any competent doctor knows that the powerful stimulants (mostly various forms of amphetamines) used to treat ADHD are extremely dangerous for non-ADHD brains and even mildly dangerous for real ADHD brains if not dosed properly. Of course, there are incompetent doctors all over the place, so it's not unheard of for any particular medical condition to be misdiagnosed.

      Be that as it may, every idiot here who is pretending to be a psychologist and claiming that ADHD doesn't exist because any child that runs around like mad and screams ALL DAY LONG every day of his life is "just being a kid" is doing a grave disservice to all the people in the world who are actually ADHD. For many people it is a very debilitating life-long neurological condition. Unfortunately people like you folks who think you know everything only change your tune once you're finally faced with a child of your own whom everyone believes is mentally retarded after he goes through grade school failing to learn anything. Throughout history the typical response to such "lazy" or "bad" children was to beat them daily and send them to bed without supper, etc. What no one ever realized until this century was that the biological differences in the brain make it nearly impossible for ADHD people to change their behavior. The sort of discipline that modifies the behavior of normal children simply has no effect in most ADHD cases due to the peculiar neurology of the ADHD brain. In fact, the ADHD brain often thrives on the excitement (adrenalin, a natural stimulant) of being surrounded by angry people who are continually trying to force them to conform in various ways, mostly involving physical and verbal abuse.

      All of you who are berating the medical/educational establishment for "drugging the youth of America" need to just shut the hell up. You don't know as much as you think you do, and a good portion of you who use anecdotes from your own childhood to explain how certain behavior is normal, well, guess what? A lot of you are probably undiagnosed ADHD people who just happened to come from a strongly structured parenting environment that allowed you to compensate and survive a childhood with mild-to-medium ADHD. You still have ADHD, you just learned how to cope by compensating for your weaknesses and focusing on your strengths, and living in a structured environment that was exactly what your ADHD brain needed. Your individual success in life doesn't make you correct in thinking that ADHD is highly over-diagnosed or doesn't exist or isn't highly debilitating in other ADHD individuals. If anything, the clinical evidence based on all the established, statistically significant medical research done over the last century indicates that ADHD is still severely under-diagnosed, especially outside the U.S.

      Yes, there are many possible reasons for a child to have difficulty learning or paying attention in class. Yes, there are many children who are highly active and loud without being ADHD. Yes, there is far too much coddling of children and a lack of discipline in modern society, especially in America. But even with all that being true, ADHD is a real neurological condition

    229. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by mcmonkey · · Score: 1

      My daughter is 20 months old. Her "best friend" is the same age. My daughter has a huge vocabulary already, her friend doesn't speak at all. The friend was taken to her pediatrician, who FIRST tested to make sure she wasn't deaf. She was then sent to a child psychologist to determine her mental facilities. At that point, she was put into a speech therapy program where she has been taught sign language in order to communicate. That, BTW, is the standard protocol used when a child hasn't started speaking at an appropriate time. Is it true that some pediatricians will resort to medicinal treatments first? Sure, but they are the extreme exception not the norm. Your statement is blatent fear-mongering with no factual basis.

      Your example isn't the same a being put on medication, but a psychologist and speech therapy? I think you provide anecdotal support for the post you are trying to refute.

      Really, is the kid deaf? No. Is the kid brain damaged? No. Anything you do after that makes me think "parents are ignorant and don't know how to raise their kids."

      That "standard protocol" is insane. When a child hasn't started speaking at an appropriate time? WTF does that mean? There is no appropriate time to start speaking. OK, maybe if your child doesn't talk by high school, there might be an issue. Or maybe she/he just doesn't have anything to say.

      But to have a 20-month old in therapy? Your example doesn't involve medication (yet, I'm sure) but is a data point to support the parent post. Over-diagnosis, over-medication, anything that isn't exactly what we expect is a syndrome .

      Medicinal treatments for learning disorders are prescribed so that all children, regardless of ability, are given the chance to learn the same as those who do not have the disability.

      Because we wouldn't want people to be different. Should we feed lead paint chips to the smart kids to bring them down to average? That way they are given the chance to learn the same as those who do not have the ability.

      What about those weak, scrawny kids? They should get steroids and HGH! Can't leave things like hormones to chance. We might end up with different kids with different levels of ability that way.

      I was a late-bloomer physically, intellectually, and socially. But I did bloom eventually. I'm not perfect, but I do like the person I am. It scares me to think about what sort of lab experiment I would have turned in to if my parents had been like your daughter's best friend's.

    230. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by compro01 · · Score: 1

      Last time I saw a game, rugby players wear helmets, pads, and mouthguards. They're a completely different type than football equipment (scrum cap and limited light padding on the neck and shoulders), but they are worn.

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    231. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I agree completely. The Drug Business (at least in the US) is corrupting everyone, especially the children, by the continuous bombardment of advertising for every trivial ailment or abnormality. They manage to get everybody on board with this abuse of prescription drugs. Everybody from the medics that are afraid of being sued by not prescribing something when someone ones drugs, to the pharmacies that sell the generic version of drugs that do the same thing as the non-generic ones, but manage to sell both because brand-media-bombardment makes money. And finally the health insurance companies that profit with the fact the when a drug helps you with something, a slur of secondary effects screws up something else, making you spend more on new drugs, and so for. Instead of accepting who they are and striving to overcome naturally, all we are doing is become paranoid about not being “normal” or anxious of dying if we don’t take a pill right away. I got kids, and other than antibiotics when they have a bacterial infection (not when they have a viral one), I will not give them any drug or medicine, without letting their bodies have a fighting chance. And if they are excited and overactive, I channel these behaviors through sports, and chores. When they are depressed or shy, I talk to them to find out what’s wrong, and find some activity to make them feel better about themselves. I give them time, not drugs. Drugs are absolutely the last recourse.

    232. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Stop being a bunch of wussies!

      Seriously, kids today have to wear helmets just to ride a bike, have some pediatrician putting them on powerful Autism medication if they don't start talking at just the right time, are diagnosed with Asperger's the second they show the least bit of shyness, are taught by teachers who scream "AHDHD--Drug him up!" the first time they act out in class, and come home to parents who think that a child molester is hanging out on ever street corner just waiting to kidnap their kid. *They're* not the ones who are screwed up, it's the adults around them that are screwed up.

      JUST LET THEM BE KIDS, for Christ sake! Stop acting like there is something wrong with them because they're not perfect, or act differently than you expect, or make stupid mistakes. That's what makes them kids. Stop cocooning them like they're delicate eggs who will crack at the slightest risk or challenge. And, above all, stop drugging them up. A kid shouldn't be taking medication for anything less than a serious physical problem. You don't give a kid powerful psychotropic drugs just because they're rebellious or shy. They'll have plenty of time to dope themselves into a stupor and cry at a psychologist's office when they're adults.

      Or you could have said, raised by single mothers.

    233. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by AmazinglySmooth · · Score: 1

      I agree. Plus, if you want 6-sigma adults (a.k.a. high achievers) you need to allow people to grow up as they are. Otherwise, you risk forming someone into just another worker bee. 6-sigma adults were likely 6-sigma kids.

    234. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Personally, I think the issue at hand is the "expectation of absolute safety".

      It's left people with absolutely zero skills to cope with loss and pain and adversity.

      While bicycle helmets are a tiny example in the sea of reality, it's the CONCEPT of "everything must be safe" that causes a non-trivial chunk of the social maladjustment, in my humble opinion.

      I grew up taking a boat out on the ocean by myself when I was 12 and backpacking in the Canadian wilderness alone with my father (2-3 days hike from any sort of rescue possibility), when I was 8.

      Frankly, these experiences were far more "dangerous" than riding a bike without a helmet and we could have easily hiked along a trailhead just outside the city, but I don't think I would have learned the same life skills from it.

      Today, I'm in my 20s, I travel the world and run several companies. There's no way I would have had the balls to do these things and to bounce back from inevitable failures, without having the experience of willingly putting my life on the line for no other reason than "it's a good life experience"

      I've heard people argue that it would be "irresponsible" to take a kid into the wilderness where there is no communication capability and no hope of rescue from a very serious injury. Personally, I scoff at that idea. It is, fundamentally, the risk... the KNOWLEDGE that you're taking your life into your hands.

      Having a friend drown in the ocean when I was a teenager (and still active surfing, boating, etc) was terrible for his family and friends, but I know with some degree of certainty, that I'm a better person for having been through that pain and loss because it allowed me to with some pretty powerful setbacks as an adult.

      The concept of "if just one child is saved by this" is a noble one, but falls in line with the "quantity over quality" concept to living an I just don't buy it.

      And yes, I do have a young son now, since that's always the first criticism "oh, well if you only had kids, you would understand".

    235. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I use my bike quite a bit. I ride it more than I drive my car or take public transit. I use it for fun riding in the river valley and for commuting. I always wear my helmet and am happy I do. I have had too many close calls to not wear a helmet. I have been hit by a car once (got lucky and wasn't hurt). I have also flipped over my handlebars a few times for things like stopping too fast at a red light or going too slowly down a steep hill. Wearing a helmet a helmet is very comparable to wearing a seatbelt. You don't have many accidents in either case, and most of them don't happen on your way to the corner store, but they do happen unexpectedly and everywhere. It's not a big inconvenience in either case, so worth the effort.

      Suggesting wearing a helmet is a smart idea. Suggesting driving over biking because you might hit a rock and kill yourself is stupid paranoia.

    236. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by Omestes · · Score: 1

      This would have been in the '70s, so I have no clue how common bike helmets were then, but the point still remains.

      Growing up in the 80's, I would say that no one wore bike helmets, since no one wore them when I was growing up either. And, as for anecdotal stories go, I never knew a single person who died from not wearing one. Though once I ran, full speed, into an extended truck mirror, and chipped some teeth and ended up with a small (non-treated) concussion. Its a good thing that kids contain the magic property of healing. Though most of the people I ran with then (myself included) made some pretty good spills. The only head injury I'm aware of came from a skate board spill, so I'm confused at why we don't mandate skate-board helmets now.

      But then again, I broke my arm (and my parents left it untreated for 2 weeks, thinking it was nothing more than a sprain) on an antique "kick-and-go" scooter, so I think we should mandate fully body armor for all recreational activities that involve wheels.

      If you can only count the times you could have died as a kid on one hand, you had a sad, sad, boring childhood.

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    237. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      There's actually no physical basis or test for ADHD.

    238. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by kc2keo · · Score: 1

      Also, spending time outside in the elements will build your immune system and you won't end up with all those allergies all the kids are suffering from today because they are protected indoors not building up their immune system.

    239. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by DuckDodgers · · Score: 1

      I agree with Xabraxas. I got spanked or slapped a lot, and while I'm well adjusted I've managed to get excellent behavior out of my four year old boy and six year old boy without hitting them more than half a dozen times since they were 2.

      Now, don't confuse "no spanking" with "no discipline". If my kids cause trouble I take toys away, shut the TV off, stop reading the book, and so forth and they get to sit without speaking for a few minutes. The rule of thumb is one minute per year of the child's age. If the kid won't sit still on their own, I pin them. When something especially bad happens I toss a favorite toy, movie, or piece of clothing into the garbage. If something moderately bad happens they lose access to it for a few days. If they make too much trouble in a store or restaurant they get to sit quietly in the car with one parent while the other parent finishes eating or shopping.

      I'm sure there are some kids that only react to hitting. But I would bet a lot of kids would react just fine without it, and many others only react to hitting because they've been hit enough that nothing less even gets their attention. And I am certainly not saying that "no-hitting" or "rare hitting" parenthood is easy. I had a devil of a time getting into the habit of not smacking the kids when they upset me. It's still worth doing.

    240. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by turbidostato · · Score: 2, Interesting

      "I'm not going to put words in your mouth"

      But you seem to do it quite good.

      "but if you are also of the belief"

      He isn't.

      "that depressed people need to cheer up and autistic kids just need a slap upside the head"

      He don't think so. Instead, he does think (and so do I) that most children diagnosed autistic, depressed or hiperactive are not but just children in all his glory diversity and/or without enough careness.

      I also have my own opinions about why a doctor would tend to diagnose something to belong to his discipline (for a man with a hammer...) or why pharmas would prefer 30% of global population consuming their pills instad of only 1% or why overburdened/careless parents would prefer to cope with their children by means of pills instead of their own energy and/or why they prefer to hear that any misconduct from their breed is not their fault but some illness out of their control.

    241. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by IICV · · Score: 1

      Have you ever actually looked at an adult bicycle helmet? The top is basically just a thin shell to keep the thing from sliding over your ears. Most of the padding and protection is around the rim of the helmet, and projects out pretty far - which means that if you fall off your bike somehow and hit something, the rim of the helmet will hit the ground before your head does.

      Bicycles under normal conditions simply do not go fast enough to pose a serious threat to any part of you besides your head. You can mess up your joints if you fall on them badly, maybe even break a limb - but if you fall off your bicycle and hit your head, you may die.

    242. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by Locke2005 · · Score: 2, Interesting

      We learn by making mistakes Well, those that survive do, anyway...

      I think the problem you're hinting at is that with smaller and smaller families, kids are no longer considered expendable.

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    243. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by Locke2005 · · Score: 1

      my mother did NOT have a friend who died after riding their bike into a pole. Sure, she survived riding into the Pole, but she died after the collision with the Hungarian...

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    244. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by Omestes · · Score: 1

      First: as a "nanny state" liberal, I agree with you. Its your head, do what you want with it. I hate helmet and seat-belt laws. (Okay, I'm not a nanny state liberal, more of a liberal-socialist libertarian)

      But the discussion here isn't about you, an adult, but about kids. On this I personally think that helmets shouldn't be mandated. But a parent can require that their child wear a helmet with no loss of liberty. Think seat belt laws: you should have the right to not wear a seat belt in a car, but you shouldn't have the right to keep your kid from wearing on. You might not hold your life in esteem, and that is fine, but you shouldn't be able to risk your kids life for your own mental pathologies (see also, the vaccine issue).

      Again, I think we molly coddle our children too much, and mandatory helmet laws are moronic.

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    245. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by IICV · · Score: 1

      My fiancee's father grew up poor, and so has untreated and undiagnosed ADD mixed in with anger issues. At various times as a child he broke a couple of his siblings limbs and punched holes in a few walls. He's learned to control it (primarily by being passive-aggressive, instead of aggressive-aggressive), but you can tell it's a struggle sometimes. He's lucky - he would probably be in jail for aggravated assault and battery, not a researcher.

      One of my fiancee's sisters inherited all of these traits and more from her father. She takes about four different pills a day and is much shorter than everyone else in the family (we think the pills stunted her growth). She's also currently attending a good college, and is not in juvenile hall because she clawed someone's eyes out. Would she have been able to learn to control herself like her father did, without medication? Maybe, maybe not. This way, she can definitely control herself, without risking her sister's limbs.

    246. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by drpentode · · Score: 1

      A helmet also saved my life. It shattered into little pieces instead of my skull. However, I draw the line at knee and elbow pads. Scraping your knee won't kill you, and stitches are something to brag about.

    247. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by Locke2005 · · Score: 1

      I have suffered for years from the cruel effects of Asshole Disorder, you insensitive clod!

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    248. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by NiteShaed · · Score: 1

      Your example isn't the same a being put on medication, but a psychologist and speech therapy? I think you provide anecdotal support for the post you are trying to refute.

      He's refuting the claim that children who don't start speaking when expected to get put on "powerful Autism medication". Unless you'd like to claim that speech therapy is a powerful medication, I'd say he's perfectly on target.

      Really, is the kid deaf? No. Is the kid brain damaged? No. Anything you do after that makes me think "parents are ignorant and don't know how to raise their kids."

      So doing anything to help a child "catch up" to where they normally would be expected to be is "ignorant"? Wow.

      That "standard protocol" is insane. When a child hasn't started speaking at an appropriate time? WTF does that mean? There is no appropriate time to start speaking. OK, maybe if your child doesn't talk by high school, there might be an issue. Or maybe she/he just doesn't have anything to say.

      Children start with their first words around 5 or 6 months, give or take a little. 20 months without any speech is clearly behind the developmental norm. Why do you think it's important that a child like this not be given any alternative means to communicate with others?

      But to have a 20-month old in therapy? Your example doesn't involve medication (yet, I'm sure) but is a data point to support the parent post. Over-diagnosis, over-medication, anything that isn't exactly what we expect is a syndrome .

      SPEECH therapy. They're not lying the kid on a couch and asking her about her phobias, they're teaching her sign language so she can communicate with others until, hopefully, she can communicate verbally. That hardly seems sinister or crazy.

      Because we wouldn't want people to be different. Should we feed lead paint chips to the smart kids to bring them down to average? That way they are given the chance to learn the same as those who do not have the ability.

      So you're against teaching a child how to communicate why? I don't see what teaching this kid sign language has to do with "dumbing down" the smart kids. Do you want to return to the halcyon days where Hellen Keller was treated like an animal because she was unable to speak like everyone else around her?

      What about those weak, scrawny kids? They should get steroids and HGH! Can't leave things like hormones to chance. We might end up with different kids with different levels of ability that way.

      Yeah, I've got news for you, if a kid is so weak that he's considered developmentally challenged, he *will* get medical treatment, possibly HGH, or a wheelchair, or crutches, or whatever is appropriate to help him live a normal life. Would you be more comfortable if they were told "too bad, stay in bed and watch life through a window"?

      I was a late-bloomer physically, intellectually, and socially. But I did bloom eventually. I'm not perfect, but I do like the person I am. It scares me to think about what sort of lab experiment I would have turned in to if my parents had been like your daughter's best friend's.

      First of all, you'd need to define "late bloomer" for it to make any impact on this conversation. Do you mean to say you never uttered a single word until you were older than two years old? Were you unable to walk on your own before you were five? What exactly is it in your past that makes you think your personal experience is in any way applicable to the story of the girl getting speech therapy?
      Secondly, I think it's a debatable point that you've bloomed either socially or intellectually, because your post is complete and total trash. Staggeringly ignorant at best, and mean-spirited at worst.

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    249. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by guardiangod · · Score: 1

      As an econ. major I am surprised no one has given any reference to cost and benefit analysis.
      From a pure minimize cost point of few, there is absolutely no reason NOT to enforce wearing helmets. Here is one of the studies that I analyzed in the past:
       
      http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC1614783/

      Legislation requiring bicyclists to wear helmets in Israel will, over a helmet's 5-year duration (assuming 85% compliancy, 83.2% helmet efficiency for morbidity, and 70% helmet efficiency for mortality), save approximately 57 lives and result in approximately 2544 fewer hospitalizations; 13,355 and 26,634 fewer emergency room and ambulatory visits, respectively; and 832 and 115 fewer short-term and long-term rehabilitation cases, respectively. Total benefits ($60.7 million) from reductions in health service use ($44.2 million), work absences ($7.5 million), and mortality ($8.9 million) would exceed program costs ($20.1 million), resulting in a benefit-cost ratio of 3.01:1.

       
      Barring signicificant difference between Israel and US people (no, getting hit by RPGs don't count), the benefit grossly offset the cost.

    250. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by Svartalf · · Score: 1

      ADHD is something Big Pharma made up to sell drugs.

      No, ADHD is something that is more a personality trait that's been labeled as a disorder- mainly because there ARE characteristics of the trait that could be deemed to be disruptive within the context of a manufacturing based society.

      You do have something right within that remark, though... Big Pharma has it's meathooks into the mix. Vastly more people are diagnosed with ADD and ADHD than really, really have the "problem" in question- more because Big Pharma has taught everyone and his dog that we can all have better living through chemistry than anything else. Most of the people don't need to be on things like Methylphenidate (Ritalin, a chemical relative to Meth and Cocaine and used for replacement therapy for those abused substances- with a similar potency and a slightly less risk of addiction and abuse than the other two...)- most people that really DO have ADHD typically just need to learn to rein in the thought shifts (it IS possible!) and learn coping skills for when they end up in situations where they can get into problems.

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    251. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by The+Spoonman · · Score: 1

      Your example isn't the same a being put on medication, but a psychologist and speech therapy? I think you provide anecdotal support for the post you are trying to refute.

      No, it's not the same as being put on medication. The OP said that all kids are put on "powerful Autism medication if they don't start talking at just the right time". My point was to refute that claim. You, however, obviously have a problem with any kid being given the opportunity to overcome whatever might be holding them back.

      Anything you do after that makes me think "parents are ignorant and don't know how to raise their kids."

      And, how many kids do you have?

      WTF does that mean? There is no appropriate time to start speaking. OK, maybe if your child doesn't talk by high school, there might be an issue. Or maybe she/he just doesn't have anything to say.

      Actually, there is. They should start talking between 10 & 26 months. If, however, a child hasn't started talking by 16-18 months, it's usually indicitive of a problem.

      But to have a 20-month old in therapy? Your example doesn't involve medication (yet, I'm sure) but is a data point to support the parent post. Over-diagnosis, over-medication, anything that isn't exactly what we expect is a syndrom.

      So dying to hear how many kids you have. I'd also like to know what your credentials are as a doctor? Are you a pediatrician? Child psychologist? Clueless twit with an opinion? Based on your lack of understanding, I'm going to go with the latter. No one said was a syndrome. It IS, however, something that's correctable. These are the formative years, the years in which parents are instructing their children in the basics of how to operate in the world. How exactly are we supposed to do that if the child can't communicate? My daughter's friend has a LOT to say, she just doesn't do it vocally, so you fail.

      Because we wouldn't want people to be different. Should we feed lead paint chips to the smart kids to bring them down to average? That way they are given the chance to learn the same as those who do not have the ability.

      Is that what happened to you? Because it's obvious you're severely deficient in a lot of areas. Giving every child the same opportunity to learn and advance is not the same as making everyone the same.

      What about those weak, scrawny kids? They should get steroids and HGH! Can't leave things like hormones to chance.

      Sigh...you really like going into irrelevant areas to make flawed points, don't you? What about the kids in wheelchairs? Should we take them away from them as well? Shouldn't they just appreciate that they'll never be as good as the other kids and should just suck up and live the life of obscurity you so want them too?

      We might end up with different kids with different levels of ability that way.

      Okay, I'll bite: what's wrong with everyone having the same level of ability?

      I was a late-bloomer physically, intellectually, and socially. But I did bloom eventually.

      Arguable, especially the last two.

      I'm not perfect, but I do like the person I am. It scares me to think about what sort of lab experiment I would have turned in to if my parents had been like your daughter's best friend's.

      You might not be so a sad little creature who very obviously DOES NOT like who they are. I don't blame you, though, you don't appear to be a likeable person. You have no idea what you're talking about, yet that doesn't stop you having an opinion on it. You're also very upset at your parents for forcing you to live with whatever was holding you back rather than giving you the opportunity to flourish. I feel sorry for you, I really do, but you're a lost cause. No sense holding others back because you're a failure. That little girl is extremely happy now that she can talk to her mother, she's not a lab experiment. She's been given an opporunity that she wouldn't have had if she had been YOUR kid. I'm so glad you don't have kids.

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    252. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by Arthur+Grumbine · · Score: 2, Insightful

      But there's always a chance, and it might just be you who draws the unlucky ticket next... and if a helmet helps with that, then why not?

      Because you are creating a culture of fear of any harm instead of accepting a certain degree of risk (yes, even of death!) as a part of living a full and satisfying life. There are risks in almost every activity of life (driving a car, walking on a sidewalk, hiking, swimming) that could be partially mitigated with greater safety equipment (floaties for swimming, football pads for a walk down the street) or abstaining from the activity altogether.

      The key is to not be caught up in the fear caused by anecdotes and evaluate the risk with proper perspective. A 3-year-old who has just learned the basics of swimming may have 25% likelihood of drowning when unwatched in the pool for more than a couple minutes, a 12-year-old with 9 years swimming experience may have 0.00001% likelihood of drowning when left unwatched for a couple minutes. I know parents who have that "might be you who draws the unlucky ticket next" mentality regarding their 12-year-olds swimming - and have made them wear floaties their entire life. These kids have an irrational fear about the dangers of water/swimming that decreases their enjoyment of the activity. I would argue that this decrease in enjoyment due to incorrectly perceived risk is true for many kids of parents who do not have the ability to properly assess risk vs. enjoyment.

      And yes, for every 1 million 12-year-olds whose parents make them wear floaties every time they swim - one of them is saved from a tragic death. The other 999,999 have, for their entire life, lost a great deal of happiness and enjoyment they would have had with a rational awareness of the risks of swimming.

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    253. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      1. The GP is YOU. Unless you have multiple personalities, it's akin to yelling "everyone who thinks my argument is lame is wrong". In third person.
      2. If you know what trolling means, you're doing it right now. Unfortunately, if you don't, there's a chance you're not doing it, so you cannot use this for learning from an example.

    254. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by natehoy · · Score: 1

      Original statement:

      The few lucky kids living in rural parts may still be able to grab a fishing pole and get out of sight for a while.

      Your response:

      Have you ever been to suburbia?

      Suburbia is not "rural". Suburbia is exactly what it says - "Sub-urban". It's worker-storage. It's a moderately nicer version of an apartment with all the disadvantages of ownership (you're responsible for all maintenance and upkeep) and all the disadvantages of apartment dwelling (when you repaint it, you're given a choice of 4 shades of sandalwood that you're allowed to buy from a pre-approved vendor at your expense). In return, you get the illusion that the small green space bordered by the big wooden picket fence is "outdoors".

      Suburbs are a great place to store a family, but generally, IMHO, generally a terrible place to raise one.

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    255. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      TL;DR

    256. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by LanMan04 · · Score: 1

      Anmd instead of having a bump on their head, now the helmet they fall on breaks their jaw.

      If the fall broke their jaw, I think it would create more than a "bump on the head" if they weren't wearing a helmet.

      Head injuries are one of the very, very few safety issues I'm really concerned about when it comes to kids.

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    257. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      4, Insightful, really??

      From the comment DIRECTLY above yours, V50, the one you are (in theory) responding to:
      "When I rode ATVs and snowmobiles, I wore a helmet. When I rode in cars, I wore a seatbelt."

    258. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by dov_0 · · Score: 1

      They tried to tell me my son needed Ritalin and that he had ADHD because he acted up in class and wouldn’t pay attention. I took him home, busted his little butt and things were fine from then on. This is a pet peeve of mine. While there are kids that really do need help, too often the system just wants to put a label on the kid and shove a pill down his throat instead od dealing with what is really going on. I had a stepson that was on all that ADHD krud. When we got custody the first thing I did was take him to a new doctor and then started disciplining him when he needed it. He was fine and still is. It is so much easier to not have to deal with a situation, lets just make a generation of zombies and forget about them.

      I just with I could mod this one 'good and loving father'. After working around kids for years, it's the ones who are consistently and fairly disciplined that know not only where the boundaries are, but they know that they're loved and as a result tend to be a lot more balanced emotionally.

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    259. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Dip shit alert.

      Due to the nature of multiple posts, you must have a qualifier of some sort. Simply saying, "my" doesn't cut it. Thusly, saying, "parent" is completely accurate and concise. But, since you're too fucking stupid to figure out how communication works, let me guess, you're also the moron that troll moderated? Likely a good guess since contrary to your fucktard post (notice I don't further qualify as its safe to assume to refers to all of them), I do not refer to myself in the third person.

      I see dumb people....

    260. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by Omestes · · Score: 1

      Way to miss the shades of grey. These diseases are over diagnosed, unless you really think there is an outside source causing them to go from being nearly non-existent diseases to affecting a VERY large portion of children in less than a single generation. I knew a couple kids with full autism when I was young (and my girlfriend worked with them in her job), they were VERY distinct. Now when I meet parents of "so-called" autistic kids, I ponder how damn functional these kids are. 10 years ago, these kids would be called "shy", or "loners", but somehow magically they are all now mentally ill. ADD ios the same. As a kid, me and my friend were nerds. I got bored in school and caused stimulus, he got bored in school and got introverted and quiet. I was diagnosed with ADD, and he got into gifted classes (lucky this is before the advent of widespread autism). I got held back years for it, he got to college at 16. One day, my dad took me hiking, and "forgot" the amphetamines. Ever after I was fine, as long as my parents gave me lots of books to read. Did I really have ADD? Odd disease, being that it never effected me except in school. It must be the first disease ever to ONLY strike at one location, and only during a certain set of time during the day.

      My parents would have pulled the meds earlier, but I would have been kicked out of school, and CPS would have been called.

      I am sure that there is a small portion of people with ADD who actually have a somatic disorder, but being that diagnosis does not require any proof of an underlying physical condition, we will never know. I really doubt though that 20-30% of the children in the US are mentally abnormal all of a sudden (30% of the population is still within the "fat" part of a normal distribution, btw). I think they our culture is abnormal now, and we are still normal. Normal kids run around screaming and questioning authority, and abnormal culture doesn't find an outlet for this.

      We, at some point, have decided that people must match society, and not society must match individual psychology. Society is sick, our children are healthy.

      Aspergers, though, is fake. 100% completely fake. Autism is a spectrum disorder, meaning there can be mild cases, and the symptoms vary between individuals within the spectrum. No one, though, actually knows a somatic cause to autism, it is a mystery. You can't diagnose autism with a MRI, or with blood work. But when we admit highly functioning autism into the mix, we don't have autism. Notice the term "DIS-order", if you can life a normal life, you can't have a "disorder". Also, go read the diagnostic criteria for Aspergers, I'm guessing you, and everyone you know, will have a significant portion of the symptoms. Pretty good for a disease that has only existed since 1980, no? Before 1980, what we called aspergers we would have called a nerd, an introvert, or a late-bloomer. Obvious these people were mentally disabled, and in need of medication.

      I'm sorry you can't sleep. Perhaps you have stress, perhaps your life is incredibly boring. Perhaps your brain is telling you to change your environment since it isn't healthy for human psychology. Perhaps you are one of the few people with actual ADD (doubtful, since adults couldn't have ADD until 2000)

      But then again, its the DSM, so all of your "real" diagnosis are voted on by a committee, with no need of empirical evidence or physical cause. I myself prefer the 1980's DSM, so gay people can be diagnosed as mentally ill... oh wait.

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    261. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by Omestes · · Score: 1

      Sure, in some cases there may be a somatic cause to ADD. But sadly proof of a physical cause isn't needed for diagnosis, and a regimen of amphetamines.

      I doubt that a disease can go from less than 5% of the young population to 20-30% in less than a generation without some diagnostic wonkyness involved.

      Treating people for a disease they don't have is also a VERY bad thing. I would rather not drug my children just because school is boring.

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    262. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by Carnildo · · Score: 1

      If you can get your kid riding somewhere where they aren't likely to be hit by a car, fuck a helmet...

      It's hard (not impossible, but hard) to kill yourself doing 20 mph on a bike. If you're around cars, wear a helmet. If you're not, don't. Pick up some scars, get some stitches, cry washing gravel out of road rash, and live life.

      When I was seven, I took out a neighbor's mailbox with my head while riding a bike. I'm very glad I was wearing a hard-shell helmet at the time -- the only injury I got was a bruise where the helmet strap ran under my chin. Things would have been far less pleasant if I hadn't been wearing a helmet.

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    263. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1, Insightful

      [...] (well, 22 isn't old) [..] Parents need to take responsibility and learn that a child is a 20+ year commitment[...]

      I take it your parents have been telling you to move out for some time?

    264. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by Profane+MuthaFucka · · Score: 2, Insightful

      Taking your idea to the next level:

      Children have lived through wars and turned out fine. Therefore, children should be raised in war zones?

      Where does this stop? Should we disregard the research which demonstrates actual harm in harmful practices? Should a parent with a well-adjusted and well-behaved child ignore their lyin' eyes and start beating the child?

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    265. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by An+Onerous+Coward · · Score: 2, Informative

      It never ends, kid. I'm in my mid-thirties, and mom still gets after me when she thinks I'm not dressed warmly enough. :)

      There are a lot of things that we can blame it on, but parents today are just more hyperaware of potential dangers (real or imagined) that their kids face.

      I once attended a lecture by Jared Diamond, where he talked about a tribe he studied. The kids there were free to make mistakes. He would often see eighteen month old babies playing with big, scary looking knives, right next to the fire. Every adult had a few burn scars to show for it, but actual deaths were astonishingly rare.

      Read anything you can by Diamond, by the way.

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    266. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      This news correlates perfectly with the rise in the number of politically correct laws on the books. Political correctness is a godless religion invented by the communists to overcome the west from within. It's working. Countries which once ran on scientific bases now are theocracies. It'd drive anyone mad.

    267. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by xaxa · · Score: 1

      putting on a helmet requires so little effort and inconvenience that it's probably still worth it.

      So how come, after helmet laws are introduced, adult cycling drops by about a quarter? (See: Australia and New Zealand.)

      They make your head get hot, mess up your hair, you have to carry them round with you, and after all that they're of debatable usefulness anyway.

      Pedestrians get a greater benefit from wearing a helmet, but I've yet to see a pedestrian older than about 4 wearing one (and I wonder why you'd make a 4-year-old wear one).

    268. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by xaxa · · Score: 1

      You/they are assuming everyone keeps on cycling. In Australia, loads of people simply stopped cycling when the helmet laws were introduced.

      You need to add in the cost of the resulting extra roads/rails (whatever), road accidents etc.

      Incidentally, Isreal is considering removing the helmet law in cities.

    269. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Exercise works, but it takes a lot of exercise. If I was overweight I don't think I could exercise enough to compensate.

    270. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by alexo · · Score: 1

      Do you wear a helmet when you're in a car?

      Can you point me to a study showing that wearing a helmet in a car is safer (in a statistically significant way) than wearing a seatbelt?

    271. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by alexo · · Score: 1

      But, riding your bike on a residential street in a sane manner does not carry those risks.

      No matter how sane and responsible you are, it only takes one distracted driver.

    272. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Nope. If I weren't a "true" AC, I'd have selected 5 "worse than average" posts of you and modded them down instead.

    273. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by An+Onerous+Coward · · Score: 1

      Way to miss the shades of grey. These diseases are over diagnosed, unless you really think there is an outside source causing them to go from being nearly non-existent diseases to affecting a VERY large portion of children in less than a single generation.

      The alternative, of course, is that we've actually gotten better at diagnosing them, and that they were severely underdiagnosed before.

      It must be the first disease ever to ONLY strike at one location, and only during a certain set of time during the day.

      Psychological disorders with environmental triggers are not at all farfetched.

      30% of the population is still within the "fat" part of a normal distribution, btw

      Obesity is a really good counterexample to your own arguments. Like mental health issues, obesity has skyrocketed in the last generation or so, and one in four of us is obese today. But you can see the results waddling down the street. It's clearly not a problem of personal laziness or lack of willpower. Something epidemiological is going on here.

      I'm sure that -- just like when you went hiking -- if obese Americans were suddenly dropped into a vastly different (and more sane) food culture, the pounds would slide off of many of them.

      Perhaps you are one of the few people with actual ADD (doubtful, since adults couldn't have ADD until 2000) ...

      I myself prefer the 1980's DSM, so gay people can be diagnosed as mentally ill... oh wait.

      Yes, diagnostic criteria change over time. Usually it's because we gain a better understanding of the phenomenon.

      Whether we as a society treat Aspergers as an incapacity or just a different approach to the world is irrelevant to whether or not it is a real phenomenon. After all, when the APA dropped homosexuality as a category of mental disorder, it didn't mean gay people were just imagining things.

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    274. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by An+Onerous+Coward · · Score: 1

      Technically, Aspergers would be merged into the high-functioning autism spectrum, because that's where it seems to fit better.

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    275. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by rizole · · Score: 1

      It was years ago I read this so I can't quote a source for it but; You are more likely to be in an accident with a car if you are a helmet wearing cyclist. The study suggested car drivers drive more carefully around cyclists without head protection and more carelessly around those with.

    276. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by An+Onerous+Coward · · Score: 2, Interesting

      My understanding is that the emotional trauma of a punishment has a lot to do with the culture in which it happens. In a culture where spanking is the norm, a kid who gets spanked has received the standard, culturally approved punishment, and is therefore still in the good graces of the culture. In a culture where it is almost unheard of, being the recipient of a spanking is a sign that you have done something exceptionally awful, and therefore that your place within the society was at risk.

      At least, that was my interpretation of something Jared Diamond once tried to say. It kind of makes sense. My family didn't spank, as a rule. That's probably why I remember vividly every one of the exceptions to that rule.

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    277. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by budgenator · · Score: 1

      The one that makes me laugh the most is a little girl that's "shy" and was diagnosed as Autistic. She was on medication for it and after two years a psychiatrist told her parents the medication was effective and there daughter was becoming much more "normal" in her development later her parents found out that out she had been spitting the pills out, throwing them away and hiding them in a compartment of her jewelry box.

      There is no medication for Autism, hopefully it was for a comorbid condition.

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    278. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by sjames · · Score: 1

      Agreed.

      While I usually wear a seatbelt, one time years ago, I didn't. We were in an accident and I was ejected through the window just before the roof got caved in down to the seat. I would be dead if I had been belted in.

      That's the funny thing about anecdotes vs. statistics. I wear the belt now because statistics support it even if my personal anecdote doesn't. Part of the problem is that stories like "my child walked to the store alone and nothing happened" aren't told. Ironically, because they are far too common to be worth comment.

    279. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by dunkelfalke · · Score: 1

      Trust me, it does. At least when blood flows. Still have some scars.

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    280. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Are you one of those people who refuse to wear a seatbelt?

      Moron. He said "When I rode in cars, I wore a seatbelt."

    281. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Are you one of those people who refuse to wear a seatbelt?

      I wouldn't have replied if you hadn't (amazingly) been modded up to 5. Did you even read his post?

      "When I rode ATVs and snowmobiles, I wore a helmet. When I rode in cars, I wore a seatbelt. Those are places where you're far, far more likely to get hurt than riding a bike."

    282. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      On a side note..... The issue of compulsory seatbelt wearing is an interesting one, and it's enforcement on most western countries is pretty much due to one interesting man; An Australian Professor, Peter Joubert.

      Peter Joubert was a World War II fighter pilot and while on active duty in New Guinea , personally experienced the role that seat belts could play in saving lives. His research on road safety has led him to be widely sought out as a consultant on road safety issues, and he has often acted as an expert witness in road accident cases. He has been an advisor on road safety to the Commonwealth and State Governments. He chaired specialist committees and is credited with being the instigator of legislation leading to the compulsory use of seat belts in motor vehicles, now adopted in all major countries and proven to have saved thousands of lives. He was awarded a medal in the Order of Australia in 1996 for his contributions to road and yacht safety.

    283. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by Rufty · · Score: 1

      In this weather - where's a bike helmet that is warm and waterproof? Chance of a head injury or guaranteed headcold+week off work...

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    284. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by jafac · · Score: 1

      bicycle helmets didn't EXIST in the 1970's. I think maybe olympic cyclists wore them to help with aerodynamics on the track. It wasn't until the mid 1980's that they started to become mandatory. Seat belts? In the 1970's we stood up in the back seat and leaned over the back of the front seat so we could hassle mom or dad and see where we were going.

      It is a very different world today.

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    285. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by Nutria · · Score: 1

      At least when blood flows.

      There's the significant proviso...

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    286. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by HazMathew · · Score: 1

      Did you go to university in the USA? It doesn't sound like it because you have no idea what you are talking about. I went to school in the US and my engineering degree was not spoon-fed, I had to work for it thank you very much.

    287. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      When I rode ATVs and snowmobiles, I wore a helmet. When I rode in cars, I wore a seatbelt.

      Probably not.

    288. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Are you one of those people who don't read posts before replying to them?

    289. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by mcmonkey · · Score: 1

      Okay, I'll bite: what's wrong with everyone having the same level of ability?

      Because it's not natural. This idea of a rigidly defined target of "normal" is not natural. And, worst of all, it's boring. I much prefer a world of variety.

      You have no idea what you're talking about, yet that doesn't stop you having an opinion on it.

      This is /. It's what I'm here for.

      You're also very upset at your parents for forcing you to live with whatever was holding you back rather than giving you the opportunity to flourish.

      Actually quite the opposite. I wasn't made to feel there was something wrong with me for being different--for not being able to read when all the other little kids could, or learning to swim or ride when all my friend did.

      So perhaps it is not a coincidence when I did bloom and excelled academically and was a varsity athlete, I didn't feel there was anything wrong with not having the same level of ability as everyone else, just on the other end of the bell curve.

      Teaching kids sign language before they can talk (and after, too) is great. I am not a doctor, and even if I was, I couldn't make a diagnosis from a third hand account through a short /. post.

      But as a big person who used to be a little person, I still do not see what needed to be "corrected" in this case.

    290. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by ignavus · · Score: 1

      It's hard (not impossible, but hard) to kill yourself doing 20 mph on a bike.

      It is easy to kill yourself doing just 1 mile per hour on a bike.

      Ride it slowly over a high cliff.

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    291. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by merockstar · · Score: 1

      thank you.

    292. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by merockstar · · Score: 1

      "I took him home, busted his little butt and things were fine from then on." Child abuser. Who needs drugs when you can use pain to make your kids behave. If I beat my kid I wouldn't have to give him drugs either. It's much more morally correct to alter a kids behavior with drugs than with discipline. I'm of course being sarcastic.

    293. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by DamienNightbane · · Score: 1

      Sounds to me like your only problem is that your parents raised you to be a pussy.

    294. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by apoc.famine · · Score: 1

      If you drive your car on an icy road you might die too. If you don't cook your meats all the way, you might die. If you reach for your wallet to give a cop your ID, you might die.
       
      The question of the grandparent was "where do you draw the line when it comes to protecting kids?" It seems pretty clear that we're way too far over that line now. I used to walk the railroad tracks 3 miles home when I was in high school sometimes. Just for the hell of it. I'd have to guess where the 3 mile mark was, then cut through thick woods, skirt a swamp, and go through a mining operation. I rode a bike with no helmet, was given guns to shoot, had a pocket knife at age 6-7, (and scars on my left hand to prove it...) and drove a farm truck around a field when I was 13.
       
      But you look at most parents today, and very, very few would let their kids do any of that. The paranoia that "oh my god, something will happen to them!" is so huge, that they end up sheltered, fragile, with all sorts of mental issues. (The topic of this article, actually.)
       
      My point was that kids bounce. Yes, some of them break physically. But which is worse? A generation of them broken mentally, or a handful broken physically?
       
      Very few of the kids I grew up with have massive depression, anxiety disorders, ADHD, etc. I attribute that to the fact that we were allowed the freedom to be rough and tumble and hurt ourselves in a small, rural community. None of us were treated like porcelain dishes and locked away safe.

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    295. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by apoc.famine · · Score: 1

      I wonder what the additional visibility and hearing does for a non-helmet wearer, and if they might be more cautious as well.
       
      However, accidents aren't the big issue - what percent died or had brain damage with helmets on than without them? If you're 10% less likely to get into an accident, but 50% more likely to die, it's probably worth the helmet. :)

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    296. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by Lunzo · · Score: 1

      How come cycling is at an all time high in Australia? (source: Sydney Morning Herald a couple of weeks ago) I guess making helmets compulsory hasn't put people off cycling in the long term.

    297. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by TheVelvetFlamebait · · Score: 1

      Yeah, I was being sarcastic. But, that doesn't preclude me from being a jerk. ;)

      If you are being sarcastic, you should know that there is very little actual science in child rearing practices. The science involved is much like the science involved in fad diets, they latch onto a small correlation, and turn it into a huge theory, with no actual empirical data or theory to back it up.

      'Tis true, but some of it is science and medicine, even if it's "bad" science or "bad" medicine. And of course, bad science and bad medicine are significant problems; I just find it funny when people think they know better than the doctor or the scientist whether or not their work is bad.

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    298. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by Steauengeglase · · Score: 1

      As a child there was no worse punishment than: "just wait until your father gets home!"

    299. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by Steauengeglase · · Score: 1

      It seems like a lot of the complaints about coddling our kids has a lot less to do with neurotic parents than liability concerns. We say we don't want to give our kids a .22 or allow them to ride on the back of a hay wagon because they might get hurt, but really it is because we don't want to go jail (hand of one) if our kid shoots someone or the farmer doesn't want to lose his farm because of some stupid kid. On the other hand, you don't have those worries with PlayStation or 4 hours of PBS.

    300. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by inKubus · · Score: 1

      I hear that muthafucka! It's all this self esteem shit they teach them now. That everyone is equal, and everyone has a chance to become president. In a global society that is rapidly approaching the end of growth phase and after that entering the stratfication phase. Look at India today, that's the world 100 years from now. The rich stay rich, the poor stay poor, everyone knows there fucking place. In America, no one knows their place. No one thinks they have to do anything because teachers aren't allowed to discipline any more for fear of lawsuits. So the parent's individual right to sue has led to the disintegration of society as we know it. The expoential growth of code and law in this country has gotten us to a point where everyone is scared shitless. Today's kids do not have the tools to deal with the crumbing social and economic fabric. Hence the mania/depression cycles. Mania, because they are floating along with no one telling them anything's wrong and then if they ever get corrected even slightly they get depressed. Get your ass paddled for being a stupid fuck and yes, maybe you won't be as happy, but you won't be as sad either. Stability and balance are good. And the hallmark of stability and balance is a neutral attitude aobut everything. If you're too happy, there's something wrong..

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    301. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by uninformedLuddite · · Score: 1

      If it hadn't been for LSD I would never have obtained a tertiary education.

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    302. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by uninformedLuddite · · Score: 1

      I don't want to advocate Nazi style killing off of the weak

      In nature it's called survival of the fittest. I once made the mistake of stating in public how I felt about a severely disabled couple having children(who would be also be severely disabled themelves) and was labelled all sorts of terrible things that are so far from my true nature it isn't funny. Then I heard about parents using the IVF program to guarantee that their child has the same defect as themselves and finally realised that I must be the one with the screwed up value system.

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    303. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by Ihlosi · · Score: 1

      In nature it's called survival of the fittest.

      For that, you need to let nature run its course. Literally. And that doesn't need require interference by someone who "knows" who's fit and who's not.

      I once made the mistake of stating in public how I felt about a severely disabled couple having children(who would be also be severely disabled themelves) and was labelled all sorts of terrible things that are so far from my true nature it isn't funny.

      So? If they were really "not fit", then this would manifest itself in a generation or two anyway. Absofrickinlutely no need to decide for yourself and hurry things up.

    304. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by uninformedLuddite · · Score: 1

      Yet for some odd reason we rode our bikes and are still alive. Do kids these days have softer skulls or what changed?

      The problem is that the kids today are all so stoned on legal drugs that they have lots more serious crashes.

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    305. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by Ihlosi · · Score: 1
      But, riding your bike on a residential street in a sane manner does not carry those risks.

      Riding your bike in a sane manner doesn't guarantee that all the other riders and drivers on the road behave in a sane manner. That's the problem.

    306. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by uninformedLuddite · · Score: 1

      It had already been determined by professionals that the children had no hope at all of being anything but profoundly disabled and unable to look after themselves ever. The two parents lived in a residential care facility as they needed help to do such mundane things as to go to the toilet. They were incapable of caring for the child in any meaningful way at all.
      We could bundle up entire extended families of them as an 'exotic' financial instrument. Call them Care Based Derivative Options and guarantee a minimum 17% return per annum over 90 years. We could make out like bandits (or at least Japanese schoolgirls).

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    307. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by Opportunist · · Score: 1

      Probably rather that we knew that crashing with your bike effing HURTS! Skin your knees once and you start thinking twice about taking really stupid risks.

      But when small accidents don't hurt because, hey, those protectors kept me from getting but a scratch and a new bike is something my parents will shell out (even though they gimme that ol' lecture... lalala, talk all you want, how long does it take you, yeah, yeah, whatever, just gimme a new bike...), risks become boring. Let's up the stakes...

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    308. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by uninformedLuddite · · Score: 1

      I saw a picture of a British lake that was frozen over with thin ice warning signs everywhere and there were kids jumping up and down on it. Probably should have worn a helmet. A bike on ice would be great fun (I have never seen snow)

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    309. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by Vanderhoth · · Score: 1

      LOL, you're funny. I delivered news papers by hand to. I didn't get paid to read them.

      All I'm saying is if something like Pearl Harbor happened today it wouldn't have just been in the paper. There would be non-stop coverage on every channel, radio station, news paper, internet blog, tweet and face book page. We wouldn't be able to NOT hear about it. My much younger siblings are way more informed then I was at their age; my 16 year old sister is constantly asking me if I've heard about xyz where I have to respond "Huh?", then I read about it in the paper the next day.

      I'm sorry if my earlier comment came off as being insensitive. My Grandfather was stationed in London during WW2 as part of the Canadian Air Force. He NEVER made it sound like a pleasant place to be. However, the intention of the comments was relating to the speed and persistence of communications today as opposed to 60 - 70 years ago.

      Besides someone else brought up the Blitz, and I have to say I think you're using it as more of a shield to mask your own inability to come up with and state a valid argument. I'd equate it to the Prim Minister claiming anyone that thinks the war in Afghanistan is bad, doesn't support the troops and should be put to death for treason.

      And from the 4 year old point of view, I know you are but what am I. :P

    310. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by cffrost · · Score: 1

      [...] to guilt out the parents.

      That should be guilt up the parents.

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    311. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by Vanderhoth · · Score: 1

      You're right, I should have checked my facts more closely. I had mentioned this conversation to her parents last night. They thought she was schizophrenic because of she was quite, didn't like to play with groups of other children and was "overly imaginative". She's been "off" her meds for about 3 months now, not that she was taking them in the first place, and they're waiting to see if there is any kind of regression.

    312. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by Spugglefink · · Score: 1

      But you look at most parents today, and very, very few would let their kids do any of that. The paranoia that "oh my god, something will happen to them!" is so huge, that they end up sheltered, fragile, with all sorts of mental issues. (The topic of this article, actually.)

      Another aspect to all of this that I haven't seen mentioned yet is that parents today are afraid of Social Services crawling up their ass because some busybody parent next door called to complain that little Jeffy wasn't wearing a helmet, little Jeffy was seen walking on the railroad tracks, etc. Even parents who don't have their head up their ass have to watch out for those who do.

      I'm going through the whole ADHD thing myself right now too. My son hates school, and he's emo and depressed because even if he got good enough grades to win some magical scholarship to pay for the education we can't remotely dream of affording and do not promise to provide, both of his parents have lousy dreck jobs in spite of their good grades and education, and we haven't blown smoke up the kid's ass about his chances of living some fairy tale.

      Real life is hard, and it's getting harder. In my parents' day, you could have a BA in basket weaving and work into a good job. In my day, you need a PhD in basket weaving, or you need to study something useful and in demand, which is anybody's guess in this job market. Learning to cope with that in a world where they teach you that every numbnuts who can rub two sticks together can become a brain surgeon or a nuclear physicist if only he tries hard and gets good grades makes the bitter pill that much harder to swallow.

    313. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      You insensitive clod!

    314. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by GameboyRMH · · Score: 1

      I like to tell people about how I had 7lb. rusty steel Tonka trucks with sharp "pinch points," sharp edges, pointy corners and lead paint when I was a kid. And you could actually use them for playing with DIRT that had PATHOGENS in it! They would shovel it and carry it and everything! To today's parents that would seem as horrifying as giving their kids medieval weapons and telling them to go play in a garbage dump!

      Actually I wish I still had them, if only as conversation pieces...

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    315. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      At least we both agree you're a fucking idiot.

    316. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by stewbacca · · Score: 1

      Uh, I ride a bike and wear a helmet and I'm NOT a kid. You can't control being hit by an inattentive driver, but you can control (to an extent) the amount of head trauma you receive.

      It's a simple tradeoff. There's not a great chance I'll be hit by a car, but if I am and I'm NOT wearing a helmet, there's a good chance I die. Simply putting on a helmet increases my chances of survival in the unlikely event of getting hit.

      Then there's the whole issue that small kids don't have very good control over their bike so they have a greater chance of crashing...not to mention their lack responsibility (which also leads to higher chance of being hit or crashing).

      Simply put, railing against helmets on bikes is pretty dumb. I'm not even saying that NOT wearing a helmet is dumb, only that people who rail against the idea of wearing a helmet make no sense to me.

      Agree 100% on the ADHD over-medication, but America in general is over-medicated (drug store on every corner). We are a nation of hypochondriacs. This is not limited to letting kids be kids.

    317. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by stewbacca · · Score: 1

      Yeah. Fucking pharmaceuticals and insurance companies bilking parents and kids

      Fixed that for you.

    318. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by Omestes · · Score: 1

      True, but it is psychologically ineffective. Punishment must be temporally linked with the behavior being punished to actually be an effective conditioning technique.

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    319. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by stewbacca · · Score: 1

      I had a friend growing up who was "hyperactive". He's now enjoying his 18th year as a US Navy SEAL. He found the appropriate outlet, and it wasn't in the form of unpronounceable pharmaceutical.

    320. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by stewbacca · · Score: 1

      Asshole Disorder...tee hee.

      I personally believe (and have a spouse I suspect is Asperger-y) that there are varying degrees of Aspberger's from the casually kooky to the clinical diagnosis. In any case, I think calling it a syndrome or a disorder stigmatizes those with Asperger's. It makes it sound like something that is bad, when it isn't--it's just different.

    321. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by stewbacca · · Score: 1

      Yet for some odd reason we rode our bikes and are still alive. Do kids these days have softer skulls or what changed?

      Or is it just that we're The 70s Generation, the indistructible ones!

      May I copy and paste your post as an example for a new wiki entry on "LOGICAL FALLACIES"?

    322. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by stewbacca · · Score: 1

      Agreed. There is being tough and then there is just being stupid.

      For a good example, read the Dale Earnhardt Sr. autopsy reports of how he died, and how it would have been prevented had he used a full-faced helmet instead of his tough-guy 50s era helmet. (Hint: his seat belt failed slightly, allowing his face to proceed forward into the steering wheel, which shoved his jaw bone into the base of his skull, severing his spine.)

    323. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by stewbacca · · Score: 1

      I own a cycle helmet. I wear it if I'm doing something with an increased risk of falling off,

      Me too, like when riding my bike in traffic (i.e. 99% of the time)

    324. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by Omestes · · Score: 1

      Whether we as a society treat Aspergers as an incapacity or just a different approach to the world is irrelevant to whether or not it is a real phenomenon. After all, when the APA dropped homosexuality as a category of mental disorder, it didn't mean gay people were just imagining things.

      There is currently talk of dropping Aspergers from the next DSM due to over-diagnosis. The drop would force doctors to pick either "autism" or "not-autism". This move would be very nice, since the main problem I have with Aspergers is that is is such a vague thing, and most of the people I know who carry the diagnosis (and oddly tell everyone that they have it) are HIGHLY functional, meaning that there is no apparent hindrance to their ability to work and have a family, even if they exhibit very mild autism-like symptoms. It is a very vague diagnosis, looking at the criteria (http://www.autreat.com/dsm4-aspergers.html) you find that 90% of the people here on /. (nerds and geeks, in other words) are mentally ill.

      The problem with Apsergers and ADD is that doctors often ignore the "The disturbance causes clinically significant impairments in social, occupational, or other important areas of functioning." clause. Or take that clause in a very "pragmatic" way (i.e. talks in class, hard to control in a class with 40+ students; bored at work; etc...). If you can change the environment and remove the impairment, then there isn't a mental illness.

      Hell, going through the diagnostic criteria of the big, growing, diagnosis (ADD/Aspergers), I could easily be diagnosed with them. As could most of the people I know. If Aspergers and autism was the child psychology fad that it is today when I was growing up, I'm sure I'd have one of them as well.

      Obesity is a really good counterexample to your own arguments. Like mental health issues, obesity has skyrocketed in the last generation or so, and one in four of us is obese today. But you can see the results waddling down the street. It's clearly not a problem of personal laziness or lack of willpower. Something epidemiological is going on here.

      You are correct, but not in the way you think. Obesity is also caused by external forces, and not internal, somatic, ones. There isn't a new virus causing us to become fat, or such. Society changed in a way that is harmful to us. The problem is our interaction to society. In the case of obesity, we need to change both ourselves and society. The same goes for most affective disorders as well. Nothing suddenly changed in us physically, the change was how we interact with society.

      Psychological disorders with environmental triggers are not at all farfetched.

      No, they are not. But in this case the trigger was boredom. I had a hard time paying attention to things which I already knew, or lessons repeated ad naseum until the dimmest bulb grasped it. At school I bounced around, at home my parents bought me a C-64, some BASIC programming books, and marveled at the fact I could sit there for hours, completely oblivious to the world, completely the opposite as my experience in school. Hell, I would sit in a corner behind a chair and read for a full day without moving. At school I would run around screaming, and being a general terror because no one was teaching to me, I could read at a high school level by 4th grade, but I still had to read "Dick and Jane" for school.

      Boredom is not a mental illness.

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    325. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by Omestes · · Score: 1

      Taking it a bit far, no?

      I'm just saying the detrimental effects might be a bit overstated.

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    326. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by Muad'Dave · · Score: 1

      Punishment must be temporally linked with the behavior being punished to actually be an effective conditioning technique.

      If you're a dog or rat. Humans, including human children, can be reminded quite effectively of which exact act provoked the punishment. Sometimes the reminder continues for years. "Do you remember when you broke your father's favorite $OBJECT? Boy was he mad!"

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    327. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by The+Spoonman · · Score: 1

      Because it's not natural

      THAT is your answer? Really? It's not natural that I am talking to you via an electronic device hundreds of miles away on a site that 20 million+ visitors/day from all around the world...you don't have a problem with that. But, that unnaturalness benefits you, so it's ok, right?

      This idea of a rigidly defined target of "normal" is not natural.

      No one's defining normal. Necessity defines that all members of society, however posess certain levels of knowledge and training in order to be fully productive and happy. Those that don't posess that training are relageted to the lower escelons of that society. By giving kids with ADHD a simple pill each day, we ensure they can learn and acquire the necessary tools to be productive members of society and lead a happy life. Again, this is NO different from giving parapalegic kids a wheelchair with which they can go to school. You skirted that issue, so I assume you have a problem with taking away wheelchairs from kids that need them. So why would you take away a cure from those who have a learning disability? To satisfy your sense of "natural"? How also does that force conformity on those children?

      Actually quite the opposite. I wasn't made to feel there was something wrong with me for being different--for not being able to read when all the other little kids could, or learning to swim or ride when all my friend did.

      That's great. And, yet you managed to, arguably, acquire the same level of education as your peers, meaning your issues were not so great and therefore not in need of any kind of intervention. Since you didn't have ADHD, you have no idea how hard it is on a child who's made to feel inferior because they learn differently from other students in the class. They're told they're just not trying hard enough, or that their parents aren't, when the fact is they're more likely working harder than all of the other kids in class just because they can't focus on their homework for more than seconds at a time. By giving those kids a simple pill, they can participate in class just like everyone else. Your position means that all kids who aren't as "capable" as all of the others must suffer because that's how nature intended it.

      Teaching kids sign language before they can talk (and after, too) is great. I am not a doctor, and even if I was, I couldn't make a diagnosis from a third hand account through a short /. post. But as a big person who used to be a little person, I still do not see what needed to be "corrected" in this case.

      Then, you're not a big person yet.

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    328. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by Profane+MuthaFucka · · Score: 2, Insightful

      Yes, it's more than a bit far, its absurd.

      It was an illustration, through the use of absurdity, of the fallacious logic of the post I was responding to.

      Just because children can have good outcomes from a specific situation doesn't mean that situation is a desirable one. There may be other situations which may be better, or worse, than the situation argued for.

      The detrimental effects may indeed have been overstated, but the beneficial effects may also be overstated. How do you compare them?

      You compare them through multiple studies which in the past have indicated fairly conclusively that a nonviolent upbringing is better than a violent upbringing, and that less violent upbringing is better than a more violent upbringing. That last part is why lightly abused children generally fare much better than heavily abused children. It's not a black-and-white situation.

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    329. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I have to imagine you're replying to someone who replied to the parent poster but... I don't see it.
      "When I rode ATVs and snowmobiles, I wore a helmet. When I rode in cars, I wore a seatbelt. Those are places where you're far, far more likely to get hurt than riding a bike."

      That pretty much answers your question.

    330. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by Rene+S.+Hollan · · Score: 1

      You missed the word residential methinks.

      I consider residential streets relatively safe.

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    331. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Another thing about sports is energy. Kids can pay attention if they aren't always full of energy and ready to jump around. I wouldn't be surprised if there was a correlation between schools without recess anymore and ADHD cases.

      My son was diagnosed with mild Aspberger's (yes its real - just spend a few hours with him and it is painfully obvious). One of the AS components with him is something called Sensory Integration Disorder - he's often very fidgety while his brain tries to get enough input from his internal sensory systems. Quite by accident we found that swimming helps him a lot (both touch and motion) and he is doing so much better now with 3-4 workouts a week.

      So I agree that exercise can be very good for a lot of what ails kids these days, but I also think it helps to have a more detailed understanding of the issues. We didn't know swimming would be good for him, but it was rather obvious in hindsight.

    332. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by rident · · Score: 1

      Yes!! Go Walter! :)

    333. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by Omestes · · Score: 1

      Calling all forms of corporal punishment "violent" is a bit extreme too. Corporal punishment doesn't have to be, nor should be, actually violent.

      Also when you look at how the real world has changed since we decided to be non-violent and overly protective, it forces us to realize that something has gone wrong. While it may not be the fault of us no longer punishing our children, or the fault of us treating our children like stupid fragile pets, it should cause us to at least reevaluate our conclusions.

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    334. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by Omestes · · Score: 1

      Actually, in most psychological tests the effectiveness of punishment (in humans) was also linked mostly by time. At a base psychological level, humans really aren't much different than rats.

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    335. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      You missed the word residential methinks.

      I consider residential streets relatively safe.

      Well they are usually safe except for the people that insist on driving their cars, trucks, minivans, or SUVs +15 MPH over the speed limit on residential roads. A helmet may or may not help in all such collisions, but in most of those cases it helps more than it hurts.

    336. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by Profane+MuthaFucka · · Score: 2, Insightful

      That the problem is a lack of spanking seems like a false attribution. The data backs me up on that one.

      That the problem is proper treatment for brain disorders/mental illnesses/behavioral problems/etc. seems like a false attribution. The data backs me up on that one too.

      The theory that kids are not facing quite enough of the consequences of their actions might not be a false attribution.

      Unlike some of the brainiacs in this thread, I know that blurting out some wild-eyed half-political theory about "kids these days", declaring it to be the true answer, is actually pretty stupid, so I will be happy to wait for the data to come in.

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    337. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by Omestes · · Score: 1

      That the problem is a lack of spanking seems like a false attribution. The data backs me up on that one.

      I actually haven't seen this conclusive data you speak of. Last time I read an article on it, it did say that spanking was actually effective for conditioning if used sparingly and properly. Used moderately it has no ill, long term, effects, though the caveat is that it is easy to abuse, so not recommended.

      I haven't seen, again, any data saying that mild, and infrequent, corporal punishment leads to long term problems. If you know of any reputable studies that contradict this, please pass the links along.

      The theory that kids are not facing quite enough of the consequences of their actions might not be a false attribution.

      I don't know how you would quantify this for a valid study, to be completely honest. Though I can argue that telling every kid "your bad behavior is beyond your control, take meds to be a better person" is deferring a huge amount of responsibility for ones actions. There are also studies stating that sheltering children DO lead to long term negative effects.

      Unlike some of the brainiacs in this thread, I know that blurting out some wild-eyed half-political theory about "kids these days", declaring it to be the true answer, is actually pretty stupid, so I will be happy to wait for the data to come in.

      Please go re-read my previous comment; I just said that there is something wrong, and this might be cause to re-evaluate some "proven" wisdom. A lot of the "science" behind juvenile education and child rearing is science is the same flavor of science as behind fad diets, or cosmetic fads. I'm not stating that "spare the rod; spoil the child" is an ideology we should resurrect, nor am I stating that we should allow our children to lie bloody in ditches.

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    338. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by Profane+MuthaFucka · · Score: 1

      RE: spanking - meta-studies show the harm is a continuum, with sparing spanking barely harmful, but getting worse with increasing frequency. More spanking would move the kid down the scale towards worse outcomes.

      RE: quantifying consequences - I don't have an answer either. Designing studies is a tricky business, and honestly I'm better at poking holes in bad ones than coming up with good ones.

      RE: brainiacs - wasn't referring to you. I said "some of the brainiacs" in the third person because some of the others are frankly blowhards who don't let the findings of people who actually study things get in the way of their opinions.

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    339. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by fredma123 · · Score: 1

      I agree. If Parents would just stop worrying and let us make mistakes, things would be a lot better for us. We learn by making mistakes, not by parents trying to prevent every little thing from happening. It's a bit cold outside. So what? I'm not going to die.

      The problem is, too many kids run around with this misconception. And when they make that mistake from which they've *maybe* learned from, mommy and daddy have to come behind and pay thousands of dollars to keep little Johny out of jail and/or prison - or worse. In the end, its often the parents and/or the rest of the family that suffers from the broken, "let us make our own mistakes", mentality.

      Ultimately, you can't help but look at some of the kids that run around with this broken mentality as, "how stupid are you?" Some things you just shouldn't have to learn first hand unless you have a serious mental disability. Obviously, people do need to learn from their own mistakes - but that has limits which seems to be beyond comprehension of so many young these days.

      What I'm saying is that some parents care so much and I'm not saying we should have total freedom to do anything we want. Yes, some things you should just know. But my point still stands. If it's a little cold outside, I'm not going to die. If I have to cross a street, I'm not going to die. Because I know the dangers so I would be careful. A parent who just keeps reminding you of things you already know is just annoying sometimes. Worrying so much won't help. Sometimes you should trust your kids, especially once they're actually legal adults.

    340. Re:In the words of the great Ken Titus... by Xabraxas · · Score: 1

      You gotta love projection. I'm sorry that you feel so badly about yourself.

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  2. That's not news by VincenzoRomano · · Score: 1

    Not every American boy or girl read Slashdot!

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  3. So American youths by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    They're calling you crazy. Are you going to let them get away with that?

    1. Re:So American youths by localman57 · · Score: 1

      Eh... Whatever...

    2. Re:So American youths by mewshi_nya · · Score: 1

      Crazy and mentally ill are different things.

      I, for example, have bipolar, but I'm not insane or anything...

  4. And? by FredFredrickson · · Score: 5, Informative

    I'd say a majority of adults I've met don't exactly lead healthy balanced lives either. Most of the stress and anxiety that I see in people I meet is due to their inability to deal with issues and conflicts in their every day lives in a logically and emotionally balanced way (intentionality).

    A lot of people spend their entire lives without ever understanding the idea of being intentional, instead of a victim to what appears to be a random array of emotions.

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    1. Re:And? by mcgrew · · Score: 1

      I'd say a majority of adults I've met don't exactly lead healthy balanced lives either.

      I wonder if they actually ever did? Violence is certainly an indicator of poor mental health, but there was a lot more of it in previous centuries.

    2. Re:And? by FredFredrickson · · Score: 1

      I'm not indicating that I believe that "these days" are worse than any other time in history. I'm sure we're getting better as a species.. I just worry that some of us are coming up to speed faster than others, if parents are stunting the evolution of the mind of their children...

      I've never met an idiot who didn't have at least one bad role model.

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    3. Re:And? by mcgrew · · Score: 1

      I've never mnet anyone who didn't have at least one bad role model. The smart ones rebel against those, though.

    4. Re:And? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Strange--the problem that I see is that logic and emotional balance have no relation to the problems that I encounter.

    5. Re:And? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      A lot of people spend their entire lives without ever understanding the idea of being intentional, instead of a victim to what appears to be a random array of emotions.

      This is exactly what I have been thinking, expressed well. I hear ditsy girls and occasionally guys having conversations all the time that indicate that they simply respond to their emotions rather being deliberately rational about things. (I certainly don't mean to be sexist here, but I do suspect that this mindset is more socially acceptable amongst some groups of girls).

    6. Re:And? by Reziac · · Score: 2, Interesting

      Maybe not. Have you ever watched how other animals deal with each other? They hit, bite, kick, scratch, and generally knock each other around, both for fun and to discipline an underling. And they don't wind up "scarred for life" by it. Why are humans so fragile??

      I think the truth is that we're NOT, and that a certain level of interpersonal violence is actually normal, simply because we're animals, and that's how animals instinctively behave.

      Hell, watch how children discipline one another when there's no adult intervention -- one hits, the other hits back; the first learns that there are direct consequences to being a jerk, and the 2nd learns that it's okay to defend yourself. But if an adult intervenes, the first kid fails to receive the lesson (other than "don't let 'em see you do it"), and the 2nd learns to be a victim. This is a recipe for creating bullies and wimps, but it won't lead to normally-adjusted kids who figure out that you can only go so far before you reap consequences.

      Until less than a century ago, this is how most kids grew up. Then we started overprotecting all the kids just like some pampered royalty had been, and now what? We have a generation of spoiled brats and victims, and now we're seeing the consequences of these maladjusted children raising children.

      As to violence that goes too far and kills someone -- all species engage in a certain amount of culling behaviour, and human children are no different. A child that is "odd" or sub-normal will get picked on by other kids, because instinct says "cull the weakling". But now we rescue those weaklings, because it's not PC to let anyone be maltreated. While this benefits those weaklings, what is it doing to our society and our gene pool, over the long term?? Nothing good, I suspect.

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    7. Re:And? by Reziac · · Score: 1

      TFA puts this in a nutshell:
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      Experts say such high expectations are a recipe for disappointment. Meanwhile, they also note some well-meaning but overprotective parents have left their children with few real-world coping skills, whether that means doing their own budget or confronting professors on their own.

      "If you don't have these skills, then it's very normal to become anxious," says Dr. Elizabeth Alderman, an adolescent medicine specialist at Montefiore Medical Center in New York City who hopes the new study will be a wake-up call to those parents.
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    8. Re:And? by mcgrew · · Score: 2, Interesting

      Have you ever watched how other animals deal with each other? They hit, bite, kick, scratch, and generally knock each other around, both for fun and to discipline an underling.

      A mother cat will discipline her kitten by slapping it on the head. Kittens play similarly, as do adult cats. But they don't kill, maim, or seriously hurt their offspring unless they're mentally unbalanced, just like humans. I'm not one of those who is against corporal punishment so long as it's done right; spanking with a hand is good parenting, beating with a belt is not.

      Children don't discipline each other -- they fight, just as violent adults do. I won't forget the 7th grade when I was bullied by a kid taller and heavier than me, until he crossed the line and hit me. I beat the holy hell out of him. I got a swat for my troubles, he got eighteen swats. And I got respect from the other kids after that.

      A child that is "odd" or sub-normal will get picked on by other kids, because instinct says "cull the weakling".

      Unlike other species, we're supposed to have the intellect to overcome our instincts. If we didn't, rape would be the primary means of copulation.

      it's not PC to let anyone be maltreated.

      PC or not I don't like to see anyone get mistreated. And the only thing I care about the human gene pool is that my genes are passed on. We are at the stage of controlling our own evolution, and on the cusp of being able to engineer undesirable traits out.

  5. Too much input by proslack · · Score: 1

    People are suffering from information and media overload...no down time for the brain. The whole GIGO business.

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    1. Re:Too much input by netsavior · · Score: 1

      Nerve Attenuation Syndrome (NAS) also referred to as "The black shakes"
      At least that's what Henry Rollins told me.

    2. Re:Too much input by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1, Funny

      You can't go by him. He's a liar

    3. Re:Too much input by Zarf · · Score: 3, Insightful

      People are suffering from information and media overload...no down time for the brain. The whole GIGO business.

      Suffering? Suffering? I'm enjoying it!

      But seriously, I think humanity is going to have to find a new way to live. All our new technologies change the rules that our bodies and minds are adapted for. Either that or these technologies can't be sustained. We are fast approaching either total environmental burn-out or a new era of abundance... perhaps both at the same time. We are drowning in information, pollution, and choice. Most of human history has been a battle against starvation followed by a battle against ignorance followed by a battle for individual liberty.

      It was easier to eliminate information scarcity. Water, food, power supply will be harder to fix. Abundance of each of these unleashes new problems. Abundance does not equate with quality.

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    4. Re:Too much input by goltzc · · Score: 5, Insightful

      I couldn't agree more. Whenever I have moved to a new apartment/house there is always a 1-3 week period where I have no cable or internet. After I would get home from work my wife and I would pretty much make dinner read a book and go to bed. It was absolutely amazing how our stress levels went down and how much more recharged we were waking up after calm evenings like that.

      Now of course like most people, once my cable and internet showed up, my tv was always on, I was checking my email and working in the evenings. Long story short, I think the mind really does need some time to relax.

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    5. Re:Too much input by mcgrew · · Score: 1

      No different from the '50s and '60s when I was a kid. TV, newspapers, magazines, movies. And looking back, I think adults were as screwed up then as adults are today. Maybe more so.

    6. Re:Too much input by kramerd · · Score: 1

      Do you move on 1 day's notice? Nowadays, when you sign the contract to move to a new place, you sign up for cable/internet weeks in advance, so the same day the movers bring your stuff over, comcast/AT&T/whoever shows up in the same window. You are gonna be around 2-3 hours minimum (and likely 5-6) on a move anyway, so so you have everything by the time your bed is set up and you take a nap to recuperate from the stress of the day. Of course, these days, if you have internet, you have no need for cable anyway.

    7. Re:Too much input by uninformedLuddite · · Score: 1

      My wife and I made a conscious decision to remove the television from our lives(No TV for about 15 years now) and I believe that this decision has enriched our lives in a major way. It also makes one thing very obvious to us and that is, when we visit friends who have a television it draws our attention every time without fail. There is something about TV that just sucks you int. When you haven't had a TV for so long it really is fascinating to experience this. It is a creepy feeling.

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    8. Re:Too much input by bhiestand · · Score: 1

      I'll second this, I made the same conscious decision about seven years ago. I still watch some TV shows, but either in DVD form or downloads.

      The most interesting part for me, though, is to watch new memes and ideas spread throughout society. I feel like an independent observer. It seems that, nearly overnight, every conservative I knew was saying the same things about Obama... then I watched Fox News at a friends' house and saw where they were getting all of their lines.

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  6. I blame women by hort_wort · · Score: 1

    Back when women stayed in the kitchen, this kind of thing never happened!!

    Seriously though, I'd like to see what type of lifestyle changes people think contributed to this. Is it the internet porn? Cell phone text messaging? Cell phone cameras in bathrooms? Air conditioning? What?

    1. Re:I blame women by Anonymusing · · Score: 1

      Could be nutritional... widespread use of high fructose corn syrup, for example.

      Could be ethical... an increase in celebrity worship, for example.

      Could be psychological... an increase of anxiety-producing news on every media channel, for example.

      Could be all of the above.

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    2. Re:I blame women by vlm · · Score: 2, Insightful

      Seriously though, I'd like to see what type of lifestyle changes people think contributed to this.

      Culture of fear.

      I grew up in the cold war and its very politically correct and proper to say we were all scared shitless about nuclear war, but lets me honest here, most of us never cared about it, or only thought about it for about 2 hours per decade, like while watching the movie "the day after" or being indoctrinated about it in school. I suppose children living on a missile base or in D.C. might have had a different outlook, but I'd say I'm pretty much correct on average. Remember you only hear the LOUD ones whom claim they cared, not the majority.

      Now all "news" is nothing but terrorism. Be scared of this, be scared of that. All adults are out to molest all children. Everything causes cancer. Anyone you don't know is a criminal, and all family members are merely latent abusers. All "dual use" inanimate objects like guns, knives, etc, are inherently in and of themselves evil like its in their chemical makeup. If you don't understand it (and our education system will make certain of that) you must fear it. The TV says, that all forms of childhood recreation (other than watching TV, suspiciously) are too dangerous for kids. Ask for a slogan and you'll hear the words that we're not supposed to be cowards, look at the actions which are all the opposite.

      Add in some strange cultural values about entertainment (violence is great, sex is evil) mix that with most peoples actual lifestyles (vaguely pacifist, sex all the time)...

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    3. Re:I blame women by Machtyn · · Score: 1

      From the summary, it appears the kids in the depression had no optimism and were happy about it (reference Monty Python). While kids today are optimistic but not happy about that.

      Seriously, hort_wort, I don't think you are far off. Kids need both parents and if a mother can stay at home while the father brings in the earnings (or vice-versa) and they will be much better adjusted. I don't earn much, but my wife stays home (out of choice). My mom and her mom stayed home, most of my friends mothers (while I was growing up) stayed home and we all turned out really good.

    4. Re:I blame women by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Consumerism raised to the status of a religion. When I went to school it was just creeping in (1970's - digital watches, early calculators, trainers, stuff like that) but it still didn't matter. Kids who had none of this could still be 'part of it', most stuff we/they did was still free/cheap. Now, I get the impression kids all judge each other more by their possessions and appearance rather than if they're fun to be with etc. Marketing ruthlessly aimed at small children is creating an atmosphere of constant greed and fear among them. In the 70's UK virtually no-one - girls or boys - worried much about appearance and clothes until they were at least in their teens. These days that stuff seems to start around five. And don't get me started on 'text bullying' etc...

    5. Re:I blame women by cyphercell · · Score: 1

      I think communication has changed. The Internet allows for both communicating more information and miscommunicating more information. A myspace page is a snapshot of how someone was feeling at one point, it might not stick with their identity for a long period of time, so the people they communicate with become biased to that representation. I've had half-hour long conversations in text messages where I and the other person were just trying to figure out what the other was saying. You hang up and call because talking on the phone is a better way to communicate. You see it all the time, trolls, flamebait, religion vs atheism. Everybody's got to throw their little point in, then those points get misinterpreted and you've got an agonizing flamewar. Really, everyone on Slashdot is a fanboy/troll at some time or another and at those points, we value our argument over the people we are trying to communicate with. Therefore, we get more communication and more isolation.

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  7. unrealistic optimism by slashmojo · · Score: 0, Troll

    unrealistic optimism

    Isn't that just "The American Dream"?

    1. Re:unrealistic optimism by jgtg32a · · Score: 5, Insightful

      I don't think so, to me the "unrealistic optimism" speaks more to the sense of "entitlement" that people seem to have these days. Which is in contrast to what the "American Dream" was to me "Yes anything is possible but there will be a lot of work"

    2. Re:unrealistic optimism by unixfan · · Score: 1

      [Mod parent up.]
      Exactly, but we need reasons to overcome peoples natural resistance to being drugged into oblivion. If every urge you have is a "decease" then more people will contribute to the income of the poor drug companies.
      If you can be convinced that, for example, anything perfectly normal such as being nervous when meeting your girlfriends parents is a sign of some newly discovered decease that they just happen to have a drug for, then it's harder to argue that it is not a decease because it sure makes you nervous. People who "suffer" from this can swear it is real, in spite of it being completely the wrong why.
      They have, for example, labeled jet lag as a mental decease. The fact that you are messing with your body's sleeping rhythm is really not the point - you need to be on drugs now to handle this problem. Of course the easy solution to jet lag, besides not flying over too many time zones, is just good ol' fashion sleep.
      The side effects if most of the drugs ARE insane. The drug will help you sleep, or solve something else, but might kill you or some such. Which is indeed the case, as a lot of people have died from these drugs.
      Depression is a very real thing to people who are depressed. But what if the natural solution was, let's say, being productive. If the insurance companies then instead of paying for drugs, paid you for doing some worthwhile work. Then you would be productive, something worthwhile was being done and you did not have to be on drugs.
      Of course there are people who want to be as close to oblivion as possible, who will take any drug to get there. But for everyone else to follow suit just because someone tells them they should be on drugs might not be the optimum way to go.

    3. Re:unrealistic optimism by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Ahh yes fuck the entitlement of my generation, I'm 24, every time I hear I have a right to this or a right to that or I should have this or why hasn't this been done to me I want to punch them in the face. You know what you're entitled to in life? Busting your ass to try and survive another day. That's it. No one owes you the next meal or a place to rest your head. Like it or not you have to go out into the world and fight everyone else for it, that's nature.

  8. unrealistic optimism? by alen · · Score: 1

    i'll take that over 1989 - 1992 when i went to high school. we were told the US was screwed, the japaneese were taking over, and we would never be able to find a job. for all the good memories of the 1990's, i don't think it was as good as people remember. high interest rates, higher average unemployment than this decade, crappy RE market made it hard to sell property.

    1. Re:unrealistic optimism? by mcgrew · · Score: 3, Informative

      How about 1959 when I started grade school. We were two itchy trigger fingers away from nuclear anhaillation. Terrorists? Pshaw, those of us who had "duck and cover" drills don't worry about terrorists. Nuclear war with thousands upon thousands of warheads going off is REAL terror.

    2. Re:unrealistic optimism? by Hal_Porter · · Score: 1

      Maybe terrorism is an attempt by the CIA to stress people a bit and give them the sense of perspective and appreciation for the simple things life like Dad's moonshine and Mom's Possum Pie that imminent nuclear annihilation did in the good old 1950's. If so I'd say it is mighty public spirited of them.

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    3. Re:unrealistic optimism? by Maltheus · · Score: 2, Insightful

      Funny, I graduated in '91 and never felt that way at all back then. The Japan fears were over by the late 80s, computers were just starting to come on the scene in a big way. And given that I going to school for computers (which would never be outsourced like those lousy manufacturing jobs), I felt that my future was relatively secure. Twenty years later, I'm thinking it would be wise to have a healthy supply of food in hand, just in case of a sudden dollar collapse, and I'm taking side jobs to keep my options open. Make no mistake, we're not out of this by a long shot and the next 10 years will be substantially worse than the previous 10. Wait until our debt has grown so large that the world simply can't afford to keep buying it up anymore. That's when the real fireworks will start and you won't have to wait long to see it. The 90s were a freakin' golden age by comparison.

    4. Re:unrealistic optimism? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      i'll take that over 1989 - 1992 when i went to high school. we were told the US was screwed, the japaneese were taking over, and we would never be able to find a job.

      The only thing that has changed since then is it's the Chinese and Indians now.

    5. Re:unrealistic optimism? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      How about 1959 when I started grade school. We were two itchy trigger fingers away from nuclear anhaillation. Terrorists? Pshaw, those of us who had "duck and cover" drills don't worry about terrorists. Nuclear war with thousands upon thousands of warheads going off is REAL terror.

      Didn't happen though did it. While the nuclear threat then was (arguably) more likely then than the terrorism threat now, both are highly unlikely in general. Only nation to drop nukes on people have been the USA and don't forget that.

    6. Re:unrealistic optimism? by uninformedLuddite · · Score: 1

      I thought the 90s were more of a polished dog turd

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    7. Re:unrealistic optimism? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I disagree. You knew where the nukes were. Your enemy had a face.
      They had a political agenda driven by self-preservation and the preservation of their regime at the time.

      The current day threat?
      Religious extremists bent on our complete annihilation at any cost. Oh, and they could be literally anywhere. At any time.
      With not just a nuke that fits in a suitcase. But laboratory cultured poisons that can probably kill you in the most painful way possible, or maybe take a crack at one of our vulnerable infrastructures.

      Don't forget that as science progresses, our weapons become ever more sophisticated and destructive.
      We can't accurately compare one generation with another because of the simple fact that things change.
      The variables that you faced and the variables that today's youth face may appear similar, and some of the basic ones are.

      With the progression of our society, the fundamental goals shift from survival to...
      Well, I'm not really sure. Self-Definition? Purpose? Individuality?
      At any case, I wouldn't say the kids of today have it any better OR worse than previous generations. Their problems are just different and fit society as it is now.

      I'm sure I'll be sitting here in the future, saying the same things you guys are now about the next generation.
      The more things change...

  9. Things were harder back then by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 5, Insightful

    With myself (sample size of one) I find that I have a near constant level of neurosis (which does thankfully decline overall as I get older). When things are going badly in some area, I can direct my dwelling towards real anxieties that actually exist. Dealing with relationship, earning a buck, dealing with family etc. When everything is going well I find some new unrealistic area to direct those anxieties.

    I suspect in the good old days, people were too busy trying to feed themselves to worry about needless shit. In this age of relative abundance and leisure time, we have much more time to devote to our neurotic navel gazing. And our self survey results reflect that.

  10. Children haven't changed much in Thirty Years! by TropoJoe · · Score: 2, Informative

    Related to Hypomania the children of the great depression certainly were not very optimistic about anything. The numbers of course are skewed by the time frame of the studies. I'm sure the numbers wouldn't be that remarkably different from the mid 80's if not even improved to a degree.

    1. Re:Children haven't changed much in Thirty Years! by Zantac69 · · Score: 4, Insightful

      I dunno...I think there is a huge difference even in the past 20 years. I was born in 1974 and was told that basically not everyone is a winner - there are some losers, the world needs astronauts and ditch diggers, we cant all drive a hot rod camaro - sometimes you have to have the brown LTD that smokes a little when it starts up. It conditioned to me the inevitable failures that I would have in life and I did not overreact. Life sucks, get a helmet.

      Kids these days (hell, my 17 year old cousin is like this) are told that EVERYONE is a winner and a unique and beautiful snowflake, that everyone can be whatever they want to be, and that we all can have whatever we want. These kids have no exposure to failure...and have a meltdown when they meet it for the first time.

      My wife and I have had this discussion (and its gone interesting since she is Swedish and was not raised around corporal punishment - while I got whippings if I deserved it) and we are going to raise our kids to not bullshit them about the reality of life. That there is always going to be someone better at them at something - but that its ok. Life goes on and there is no reason to freak if you get a B- when you did your best, get picked last at kick ball because you dont run as fast as some of the other kids, or the girl/boy of you have been having wet dreams about is not interested in you.

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    2. Re:Children haven't changed much in Thirty Years! by mcgrew · · Score: 1

      When I was a kid there was no such thing as ADD or ritalin. But... I think I may have suffered some attention defecits, even if they didn't have a name for it then, or drugs to treat it.

      It was the eighties before Prozac and other antidepressants were invented, an untreatable mental illness is less likely to be reported than a treatable illness. Plus, there's the cost of mental health treatmenet; most insurance plans still don't cover it.

    3. Re:Children haven't changed much in Thirty Years! by IndustrialComplex · · Score: 4, Insightful

      Life goes on and there is no reason to freak if you get a B- when you did your best

      You know who whines about their best.

      In all seriousness though, it's very easy to make the statement "This is how we will raise our kids" and point fingers at parents who have even the slightest difficulty raising their children. I think that is unfair. If there was some magic formula that you could follow and end up with perfect children and no problems, we would have figured it out millenia ago. Reality is never so simple that you can say with any confidence that you will raise your children the 'correct' way, as there are so many things that can cause things to go off the rails.

      Even if I had 100% of my time to devote to my children, there is no guarantee that they will turn out the way we expect them to, and while bad parenting may be the root cause for a lot of issues that we see in children, it isn't some blame catch-all for every problem we see.

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    4. Re:Children haven't changed much in Thirty Years! by Nite_Hawk · · Score: 1

      I think you kind of missed his point. The goal isn't to end up with perfect kids. It's to end up with kids that can cope when life doesn't go the way they planned. You are absolutely correct that there is no formula to raise perfect (whatever that means) children, but you can definitely teach them how to deal with failure and rejection in a productive way. That might mean learning how to cope with being a single teenage parent, or trying to decide what to do with their life after failing to pass the bar exam. They may not end up with the life either they (or you) invisioned, but those kinds of lessons will help them to make the most of it and find success in unexpected places.

    5. Re:Children haven't changed much in Thirty Years! by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      You know who whines about their best.

      People who forget the correct punctuation?

    6. Re:Children haven't changed much in Thirty Years! by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      My wife and I (...) gone interesting (...) she is Swedish (...) whippings

      What? Sorry, you kinda lost me after that...

  11. "Unrealistic Optimism" by ruiner13 · · Score: 4, Insightful

    Well, what do they expect when they remove all competition from a kid's life? I've seen parents that refuse to let their kids participate in anything competitive, for fear that if they should lose their child's dreams will be permanently shattered. All this leads to is the kid thinking they really can do anything, when the actual fact is that everyone has limitations in some form, and in a competitive world, sometimes you lose. I assume this is what generates the majority of this "unrealistic optimism". Coddling children and not allowing them to experience real situations will not prepare them for the real world.

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    1. Re:"Unrealistic Optimism" by Asadullah+Ahmad · · Score: 2, Funny

      with six times as many scoring high in two areas: 'hypomania,' a measure of anxiety and unrealistic optimism

      Wait a minute, does that mean Facebook groups like "I just study before the exam day.." are not meant as a joke?

    2. Re:"Unrealistic Optimism" by jgtg32a · · Score: 1

      I was more of a fan on the group F.I.N.A.L.S.
      Fuck I never actually learned this shit.

    3. Re:"Unrealistic Optimism" by Thelasko · · Score: 4, Interesting

      While searching for a job, I've discovered that many companies desire this "unrealistic optimism." A recruiter I was using sent me a list of questions the company was going to ask me, and "mistakenly" included the correct answers. Questions like, "How important is it for you to be the best?" have answers listed as, "Very important to be the best, not just 'do my best.'" Another question asks, "Are you a perfectionist?" and then lists, "must say yes," as the correct answer.

      I think kids have such "unrealistic optimism" because it's desired in today's society. Unfortunately for me, I found college to be a very humbling experience, and I fear these kids will too.

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    4. Re:"Unrealistic Optimism" by nxtw · · Score: 0, Troll

      Wait a minute, does that mean Facebook groups like "I just study before the exam day.." are not meant as a joke?

      It is quite easy for intelligent students to excel in many US undergraduate programs with minimal effort. Many students can succeed without lots of studying.

    5. Re:"Unrealistic Optimism" by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I figured unrealistic optimism came from the fundamentalist Christians telling them that they would live in heaven after they died.

    6. Re:"Unrealistic Optimism" by dbcad7 · · Score: 1

      It seems to me that our society suffers more from unrealistic pessimism.. Loss of personal freedoms, wars, layoffs...

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    7. Re:"Unrealistic Optimism" by KharmaWidow · · Score: 1

      I agree with your comments about lack of competition.

      However, what the hell is unrealistic optimism? What happend to AIM high? Everyone I know is on Prozac. No one I know has an ounce of optimism. I'd say if there was a general problem regarding optimism in American society is that too many vocal people - and people who make things happen lack optimism and are always advocating compensation for their pessimistic viewpoints.

    8. Re:"Unrealistic Optimism" by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      In my opinion, the health teachers and school counselors are a big part of the problem, promoting pointless cliches and such.

      "Shoot for the moon, even if you miss you will still land with the stars!"
      Actually, aiming too high and being over ambitious usually has bad results.

      Sure the intentions are good, doesn't do anything to solve the problem. I know many kids who believe these to the point that they don't even understand them, they just blurt them out whenever anything "negative" happens.

  12. The Criticisms as Outlined in the Article by eldavojohn · · Score: 5, Interesting
    Before you hop all over this like we love to, keep in mind that the article does a pretty good job of representing the skeptical side of this study:

    Though the study, released Monday, does not provide a definitive correlation, Twenge and mental health professionals speculate that a popular culture increasingly focused on the external - from wealth to looks and status - has contributed to the uptick in mental health issues.

    And also:

    The study is not without its skeptics, among them Richard Shadick, a psychologist who directs the counsellingcentre at Pace University in New York. He says, for instance, that the sample data weren't necessarily representative of all college students. (Many who answered the MMPI questionnaire were students in introductory psychology courses at four-year institutions.)

    I have a cute anecdote about a friend who graduated with a psychology degree and left her job as an assistant to become a grade school teacher because most of the psychologists at the Manhattan practice had more psychological problems than their patients.

    Emphasis mine. Now, another interesting thing about Jean Twenge is that the books she writes aren't universally accepted by her peers:

    "Generation Me" inspired a slew of articles in the popular press with headlines like "It’s all about me," "Superflagilistic, Extra Egotistic" and "Big Babies: Think the Boomers are self-absorbed? Wait until you meet their kids."

    Ms. Twenge is working on another book with W. Keith Campbell of the University of Georgia, this one tentatively called "The Narcissism Epidemic."

    However, some scholars argue that a spike in selfishness among young people is, like the story of Narcissus, a myth.

    "It’s like a cottage industry of putting them down and complaining about them and whining about why they don’t grow up," said Jeffrey Jensen Arnett, a developmental psychologist, referring to young Americans. Mr. Arnett, the author of "Emerging Adulthood: The Winding Road From the Late Teens through the Twenties" (2004, Oxford University Press), has written a critique of Ms. Twenge’s book, which is to be published in the American Journal of Psychology.

    Granted you could claim that this is just one example of two camps infighting in a field that plagues even physics and hard sciences but I think it's important to realize that this study might be a little self serving. Personally I share two concerns. The first being similar to Shadick's in that I'm not sure how these two studies were normalized samples and the second questioning if we have any idea what the 'norm' is for these 'diseases.' How subjective is this test and would a variance of 1% to 6% for depression be unrealistic if we knew that it's been as high as 10% at other points in time between 1938 and 2007?

    The curmudgeon in me wants to chalk this up to kids having it too good these days. No polio to worry about, no eight hour shifts to support the family and more information swarming them. A lot of today's youth have the luxury of being diagnosed with hypomania. Now I know that there are serious cases of depression and always have been ... but sometimes I encounter a youth who says, "My boyfriend just broke up with me and now I sit in my room and listen to depressing music." And they (or their over protective parents) think they need medication for that. They don't. Sounds to me like they need to be picking rock and bailing hay to help take their mind off that. We're overmedicated as it is. If Ms. Twenge continues to push this idea it might just get worse. How many people read news of this study and though "maybe my kid needs to see a psychologist for depression?" It's hard to look past this and assume the motives for this study are pure.

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    1. Re:The Criticisms as Outlined in the Article by je+ne+sais+quoi · · Score: 1
      I agree that we as a society are overmedicated, but I think that the blame for that rests solely on the shoulders of the people taking the medications (or parents in this case) and the medical/pharmaceutical industry and has nothing to do with "kids these days" being whiny or whatever. I don't think this has anything to do with the children themselves or their state of mind, its the society as a whole, we've been led to believe that the solution to life's problems is more big pharma and taking more drugs and more powerful drugs with cleverly marketed names to make them sound innocuous. Moreover, from your post:

      but sometimes I encounter a youth who says, "My boyfriend just broke up with me and now I sit in my room and listen to depressing music."

      This sort of thing has been happening as long as people have been writing this stuff down. For a reference from the 80s generation, go watch High Fidelity.

      Rob: What came first, the music or the misery? People worry about kids playing with guns, or watching violent videos, that some sort of culture of violence will take them over. Nobody worries about kids listening to thousands, literally thousands of songs about heartbreak, rejection, pain, misery and loss. Did I listen to pop music because I was miserable? Or was I miserable because I listened to pop music?

      Secondly, you can see this type of thing happening in ballades and chansons that were literally written hundreds of years ago. E.g. in the song Barbara Allen, the two kids both die of depression because their relationship wasn't working the way they wanted it to. Granted it's an exaggeration, but you can't say a song like that, written in 1750, doesn't reflect similar sentiments as what you wrote.

      So I don't think that there's anything especially wrong with people nowadays, or that the study has really any merit, it's just our society has developed this weird idea that more and more powerful drugs are better. Even if you don't take drugs yourself, there may be some effect from all the chemicals in the drinking water, like estrogen. The only way to stop that is to reign in the medical industry, and have more powerful water quality laws.

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    2. Re:The Criticisms as Outlined in the Article by je+ne+sais+quoi · · Score: 1

      I have to correct myself, it was first written down in 1750, but the earliest known mention of Barbara Allen was 1666 by Samuel Pepys. There you go, 344 years of teenagers whining about breaking up with their boy- and girlfriends.

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    3. Re:The Criticisms as Outlined in the Article by mcgrew · · Score: 4, Insightful

      In a psychology class I took in college, the instructor said "there isn't a psychologist alive that doesn't have another psychologist calling him a gold plated liar."

      I suspect many if not most psycologists study psychology to find an answer to their own mental health problems.

    4. Re:The Criticisms as Outlined in the Article by naasking · · Score: 0, Troll

      but sometimes I encounter a youth who says, "My boyfriend just broke up with me and now I sit in my room and listen to depressing music." And they (or their over protective parents) think they need medication for that. They don't. Sounds to me like they need to be picking rock and bailing hay to help take their mind off that.

      Awesome. I hope this becomes a standard treatment. Karl Marx said it well, "The only antidote to mental suffering is physical pain." Heavy physical exertion quickly takes the mind off of its own self-serving merry-go-round.

    5. Re:The Criticisms as Outlined in the Article by catmistake · · Score: 1

      However, some scholars argue that a spike in selfishness among young people is, like the story of Narcissus, a myth.

      No doubt this conclusion by some scholars is only natural after a common theme in social unconscious imagery emerged from thousands of years of retelling of the ancient and universal tale of the teenager taking the car without asking.

      Off topic, but, I really miss having a word to describe what "myth" described prior to it being selfishly and ambiguously redefined by a generation of sarcastic linguists.

    6. Re:The Criticisms as Outlined in the Article by nine-times · · Score: 1

      I have a cute anecdote about a friend who graduated with a psychology degree and left her job as an assistant to become a grade school teacher because most of the psychologists at the Manhattan practice had more psychological problems than their patients.

      I've always had the theory that people who are psychiatrists are psychiatrists because they're interested in the cause of psychological problems (obviously), and that people who are highly interested in psychological problems are usually trying to diagnose themselves. Therefore, a high level of psychiatrists are probably crazy.

    7. Re:The Criticisms as Outlined in the Article by yuna49 · · Score: 1

      Thank you for injecting a bit of scientific realism into a discussion that has so far consisted of opinion and anecdote.

      Whenever I read studies like these my first question is whether the samples involved are comparable. What kinds of kids were taking the MMPI in 1938? What kinds of kids take them today? Might the differences in the samples be sufficient to account for the observed differences in scores? If there are differences, are they controlled for in the study design? I visited Dr. Twenge's website and didn't see any obvious links to the study in question so we can begin to evaluate its scientific validity. I did skim one study comparing student responses from the "Measuring the Future" surveys in 1975 and 2006, which claims to show that "there has been a small increase in positive self-views across the generations, but that this has not been accompanied by an increase in general self-competence." Yet I saw no sophisticated multivariate analysis that might tell us whether these were "real" changes in attitudes, what other variables were correlated with those attitudes, or how changes in those other variables might affect the observed change in attitudes.

      For those interested in methodlogical problems in the social sciences, there's no better place to start than with Donald Campbell and Julian Stanley's Experimental and Quasi-Experimental Designs for Research . For a highly-readable introduction to what they call "threats to validity" in social scientific research, Campbell's "Reforms as Experiments" [pdf] is a good place to start.

    8. Re:The Criticisms as Outlined in the Article by MRe_nl · · Score: 1

      Only 344 years? I would think Lucy whined about her breakup 3.2 million years ago.

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    9. Re:The Criticisms as Outlined in the Article by phantomfive · · Score: 1

      I think the real problem with kids is this:

      When they are kids, they are incompetent, and everything needs to be done for them, but that's ok because they are kids.

      When they hit around age 11, they start to notice they are incompetent, and that they don't have the respect and capabilities that an adult gets. This is fairly well established. If they like to draw, for example, around that age they get frustrated because their pictures aren't realistic.

      What they need from that point is a clear pathway to getting that respect and competence. For example, they need to know that if they get good grades, go to college, then they will be a full and respected adult (in that case they may also need to be taught how to get good grades). Or they need to know that if they learn to play golf well they will get respect, and to get there they need to listen to their golf-teacher. Or in other cultures, it may be to get respect they need to kill a buffalo, and to get there by practicing with rabbits, etc.

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    10. Re:The Criticisms as Outlined in the Article by mschuyler · · Score: 1

      WTF???? You actually READ the article? What's wrong with you???

      And for the record, Ted Bundy was a psychology major, class of 1972, University of Washington.

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    11. Re:The Criticisms as Outlined in the Article by Taibhsear · · Score: 1

      I suspect many if not most psychologists study psychology to find an answer to their own mental health problems.

      Which is why in every one of my psychology classes on day one they tell you 3 times in a row. "Do NOT self diagnose." They also mention that these are RARE and EXTREME cases and not to be taken lightly. Otherwise you will think you and everyone you know are full blown psychopaths.

    12. Re:The Criticisms as Outlined in the Article by rizole · · Score: 1
      I'll second that. I did it myself and it did me a world of good. (Also, co-incidentally, saving me a lot of money in tharapy fees.)

      I ended up married a counsellor. Luckyly we'd both mostly sorted ourselves out before hooking up so the whole dysfunctional co-dependancy thing was not much of an issue but because of the circles we've both moved through through the years, I've known a lot of these people; and a majority of them seem to be self selected borderline nutso gaga, in it for the fix and sometimes quite open about thier own little screwball tendancies; using social situations with thier peers as some kind of opportunity for ongoing theraputic work.

      Me? Well I used to have a split personality but we're both alright now.*twitch, twitch, spasm*

    13. Re:The Criticisms as Outlined in the Article by jafac · · Score: 2, Interesting

      I think it's really mostly just a matter of opinion, or point-of-view.

      The most toxic attitude I see most people having, is this horrid irrational fear that they're a selfish person, or too self-centered or not good enough, not likeable enough, don't pay enough attention to other people's "moods" or "signals", don't fulfill our partner's "wants" and "needs" - - - and then they madly scramble around trying to make other people happy, because they believe that is the key to their own happiness. And every religion - on the SURFACE, preaches this crap too. And it's complete bullshit.

      Do what they tell you in the pre-flight safety briefing. In case of sudden loss of cabin pressure, put your own damn oxygen mask on FIRST. THEN help the person next to you (if they need it). Because if you try to help the other person, and fail, then you both fucking DIE.

      I mean, there's this email thing. If we don't check our email enough, we're terrified we're going to miss someone's important email, and offend someone, miss an important opportunity. TV? If we miss that one episode of Glee, then tomorrow at work, when everyone's talking about it, you're going to be standing there like a dork. Excluded. Ostracized. Like those nerds in glee club back in high school. Money? Hey, let's all talk about the car we bought last year. And of course - it LOOKS like selfishness, but it's not. It's people - in sheer terror of that inner-critic, telling them they're not a good-enough person. The disease is anti-selfishness. It's overcompensation for a perceived weakness, that for most people, just isn't there.

      And our culture reinforces it, it's a closed feedback loop. Because it sells stuff. And keeps people employed. And keeps us prosperous. So we can maybe get that Lexus with the leather seats next year, instead of cloth. So our peers will like us. Because that's what the commercial implies.

      Depression?

      It has nothing to do with drugs, or bicycle helmets, or being selfish, or not trusting God, or not contemplating one's navel, or not thinking positively, or having parents who were narcissistic (except in the capacity that they're too damn ashamed to face their own imaginary demons to be authentic with their kids, and modeling that emotional authenticity for them). Is it neurotransmitters? Or is overactive neurotransmitter reuptake another symptom?

      What's the solution?

      There is no solution. We, as a culture, self-destruct. (hopefully). That's the path most of us are on, as individuals.

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    14. Re:The Criticisms as Outlined in the Article by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I've long thought the same thing.

  13. regarding Hypomania by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    from wikipedia

    "Classic symptoms of hypomania include mild euphoria, a flood of ideas, endless energy, and a desire and drive for success."

    I'd attribute that to pharm parties, adderall and redbull.

    Nothing to see here. Move along.

  14. All teens are insane, it's called growing up. by goodmanj · · Score: 1

    "anxiety and unrealistic optimism"

    Congrats, psychologists. You've just defined the modern teenager.

    1. Re:All teens are insane, it's called growing up. by xZgf6xHx2uhoAj9D · · Score: 1

      Yes, but evidently that doesn't define teenagers from previous generations. That's the whole point of the study.

    2. Re:All teens are insane, it's called growing up. by dzfoo · · Score: 1

      Right, because being an emo, sulky kid never happened before this generation. EVAHR!!1

              http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Sorrows_of_Young_Werther

              -dZ.

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    3. Re:All teens are insane, it's called growing up. by goodmanj · · Score: 1

      Simple explanation: we lie to our kids.

      In the 1930s, a kid's modest future was all planned out for him/her. If you were a girl, get married. If a boy, work in a factory or on the farm, go into your father's business, by your teens you knew where you were headed.

      Today we teach kids that the sky's the limit, and they can do anything. Which makes them unrealistically optimistic, and leads to anxiety when they figure out that while *somebody* gets to be president, it's not going to be them.

  15. TFA backs up parent.... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 3, Insightful

    FTFA:

    Experts say such high expectations are a recipe for disappointment. Meanwhile, they also note some well-meaning but overprotective parents have left their children with few real-world coping skills, whether that means doing their own budget or confronting professors on their own.

    So by bringing up our kids like wusses, we're creating wusses. That's not to say we need to go back to beating them "spare the rod spoil the child" BS, but giving them healthy limits and letting them screw up and pay the consequences.

    That's were modern parents fail: they're either too strict and pushy or they're overly permissive and rescue the kid whenever they screw-up - even if it means getting them out of jail.

    The above, of course, is in general. There are some wonderful parents out there.

    1. Re:TFA backs up parent.... by Xtravar · · Score: 1

      giving them healthy limits and letting them screw up and pay the consequences.

      Maybe it's because very few people in this country actually know what consequences are. Myself included.

      Just look at our economy over the last year. No consequences for abusing the financial system, no consequences for going bankrupt. Someday, someone is going to have to pay.

      I blame it on the WW2 generation, who upon coming home from war decided to raise children without any hardships. I have no facts to back up my claim, though.

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    2. Re:TFA backs up parent.... by Nutria · · Score: 1

      That's not to say we need to go back to beating them "spare the rod spoil the child" BS

      a) It's not "beating",
      b) it's not BS.

      pay the consequences.

      What exactly are those consequences? Sending him to time-out?

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    3. Re:TFA backs up parent.... by lorenlal · · Score: 1

      I don't disagree. I do wonder, did previous generations struggle with the same feelings and opinions of the next? You know, the whole, "Back in my day..." thing. I have a feeling that this isn't a new problem, it's just crossing a threshold where you can't help but notice how many kids aren't expected to be kids anymore.

      I'm only 29, and these problems certainly existed when I was a kid... Of course, to some of you I still am one :D

      The biggest difference I'm seeing is that many of these grown-ups who were raised exactly like this are now having kids, and we're only seeing the beginning of how bad they can make it for the next generation.

    4. Re:TFA backs up parent.... by pandaman9000 · · Score: 1

      Sure! .... And time out is universally effective. Take my son, for example. Like his father, he has a very creative and active imagination. Put him in time out in the corner, and all he needs is some pocket lint and any random debris from the carpet, and he's got enough material for 2 hours' entertainment.

      Oh, wait, that's a bad example.

      How about we give up on being "superior" to our animal species brethren, if a technique is tried and true. A good parent, whether animal or human, frequently takes food from their own mouth (literally/metaphorically), to care for the next generation. More food is given if the offspring assist in the hunt or seem very promising. This is positive reinforcement. As humans, we seem to believe that eliminating all REAL negative reinforcement somehow makes us better, or more "humane", ergo, superior. It doesn't. Lack of true discipline sends our offspring into the world unprepared for possible outcomes of their misdeeds. Sometimes these outcomes have a very final, and fatal, impact.

      If you are about to do harm, or lie/steal from another, directly or indirectly, and your get a bit of a tingle down your neck, a sense of foreboding, or panicky feeling, that is probably a sign of good negative reinforcement by your parent(s). If you happily strive for achievement, and the recognition and rewards it offers, that is likely good positive reinforcement. If you push others aside, lie, cheat, steal and (politically) backstab in your struggle for achievement, you are probably a sociopath, and likely destined for Presidency, or a top spot in a company.

      All evidence is anecdotal. I am not a doctor, lawyer, or politician. Any opinions expressed here are the author's or an alien being's. All characterizations were created on the spot, and any resemblance to family, friends, or enemies of the reader are strictly intentional. No sheep were harmed in the creation of this post.
      This time.....

    5. Re:TFA backs up parent.... by HideyoshiJP · · Score: 0

      Yeah, they were clamoring about those damned hippies. Their parents were complaining about those damned hipsters. The generation before that was going on about those damned flapper girls.

    6. Re:TFA backs up parent.... by Red.Baron.sc · · Score: 1

      Maybe it's because very few people in this country actually know what consequences are. Myself included.

      Just look at our economy over the last year. No consequences for abusing the financial system, no consequences for going bankrupt. Someday, someone is going to have to pay.

      I blame it on the WW2 generation, who upon coming home from war decided to raise children without any hardships. I have no facts to back up my claim, though.

      I say we can only blame ourselves, if *our* society is in poor condition. While parenting does have an enormous effect on us, part of *growing up* is taking responsibility and making our own decisions, especially about *who we will be*. I believe that if one does nothing to change who they are, they will end up like (their perception of) their parents.

      I agree, who wants to pay consequences...to be disciplined? I hold myself to very strict discipline at (appropriate) times, but then I believe it is *very difficult* to master anything to a greater degree than one has mastered themselves.

      "Tolerance and Apathy are the last virtue of a dying society" Aristotle

      Physiology is not a cut and dried science any more than you can hold a brain in your hand. It is hard to understand something as complex as ourselves (show me a super computer than *understands* itself)....Can we find anyone with a degree in child development that can comment on this article (I don't think such people normally read slashdot.. :p )

    7. Re:TFA backs up parent.... by RobertLTux · · Score: 1

      the trick is getting the right amount of pain (hint this is where you need to know your own kids)
      some kids you can just look at them funny
      some kids you need to apply the board of education to the seat of knowledge (note never a bare hand never in anger)

      but the very first thing you need to teach is the concept of NO (the very next thing is that they can learn and how to think)

      note not a parent but the second of six kids (im not swimming in the gene pool because i know id botch the raising kids thing)

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    8. Re:TFA backs up parent.... by DrLang21 · · Score: 1

      What exactly are those consequences? Sending him to time-out?

      Sure! When I was a kid, I freaking hated getting sent to my room. It didn't matter if I had toys in there, I was bored. The only punishment that was worse than being bored was the genuine disappointment of a parent. If you spank a kid as a regular punishment, it quickly loses it's meaning and just tells the kid that physical aggression is how you tell people off. It's one thing if a kid gets spanked on a rare extreme occasion. But spanking is not appropriate, nor is it even effective, as a normal punishment. "Spare the rod..." doesn't just refer to corporal punishment. It refers to shielding your child from consequences in general.

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    9. Re:TFA backs up parent.... by Nutria · · Score: 1, Informative

      I freaking hated getting sent to my room. It didn't matter if I had toys in there, I was bored.

      You didn't read a book?

      The only punishment that was worse than being bored was the genuine disappointment of a parent.

      Not me. Too defiant. The desire for non-pain motivated me...

      If you spank a kid as a regular punishment, it quickly loses it's meaning

      How "regular" is regular? Daily, hourly?

      just tells the kid that physical aggression is how you tell people off.

      As opposed to "I'm very disappointed in you!"? Oh puh-leeze. Water off a duck's back.

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    10. Re:TFA backs up parent.... by DrLang21 · · Score: 1

      You didn't read a book?

      When I was a kid? Talk about boring.

      Not me. Too defiant. The desire for non-pain motivated me...

      Sounds like you had some real issues going on if you're that defiant. Constant defiance without rationality is not normal.

      How "regular" is regular? Daily, hourly?

      Regular refers to you use spanking as a typical punishment for everything from stealing a cookie from the cookie jar to taking little Timmy's toy. Spanking if ever used should be reserved for those instances where had the kid not been stopped, the consequences would have been dire.

      As opposed to "I'm very disappointed in you!"? Oh puh-leeze. Water off a duck's back.

      Well that explains why you were so defiant. If your kid has that little respect for you, then you're doing something wrong. You don't have to beat your kids into respecting authority. If your kids respect you as a parent, they will respect those in authority positions in general.

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    11. Re:TFA backs up parent.... by Nutria · · Score: 1

      Talk about boring.

      Very disappointing. Did your parents not read enough to you?

      if you're that defiant. Constant defiance without rationality is not normal.

      I'm mostly Irish and Scots and Spanish. Genetically hard-headed.

      Regular refers to you use spanking as a typical punishment for everything from stealing a cookie from the cookie jar to taking little Timmy's toy.

      Ah... Spanking is an "escalation punishment".

      I've never needed to spank for cookie stealing, but hand slapping was not unheard of.

      My son did get occasional toy-stealing spanks, but that was only after repeated defiance.

      Now, he and my daughter are old enough to get the Golden Rule "do you want him to take your toy?" lecture.

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    12. Re:TFA backs up parent.... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      So by bringing up our kids like wusses, we're creating wusses. That's not to say we need to go back to beating them "spare the rod spoil the child" BS, but giving them healthy limits and letting them screw up and pay the consequences.

      I should hope not. I'm one of those who didn't get the rod spared. My mom used to beat me, and then beat me more for "hurting her arms with my face". You can be damn fucking sure I had, and have serious anxiety problems. And that I am no wuss. But I can hardly even leave my house anymore. At least it's my own house. I'm so lonely. :0(

    13. Re:TFA backs up parent.... by Omestes · · Score: 1

      Sounds like you had some real issues going on if you're that defiant. Constant defiance without rationality is not normal.Sounds like you had some real issues going on if you're that defiant. Constant defiance without rationality is not normal.

      Some people's parents wanted to raise their children to be individuals. Some people see a certain level of defiance as a positive thing. As a kid, who did get walloped from time to time, I was also encouraged to question my parents, and was allowed to disagree with them, as long as I could present a case. My parents had a very hard time putting many limits on me (outside of things that could be harmful to myself or others, of things that were antisocial, or made me seem a spoiled brat), since they both grew up in a rural area, and had almost unlimited freedom to get in trouble.

      You didn't read a book?

      When I was a kid? Talk about boring.

      This makes me somewhat sad. When my parents grounded me, I would sit around reading old Tom Swift novels, and never even notice that I was grounded. But then again, I could also play with a fingernail clipping for hours, oblivious to the world at large ("holy cow, its a SPACE ship!")

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    14. Re:TFA backs up parent.... by Pentavirate · · Score: 1

      Maybe it's because very few people in this country actually know what consequences are. Myself included.... I blame it on the WW2 generation

      That totally made me laugh. It almost made Dr. Pepper come out my nose!

    15. Re:TFA backs up parent.... by DuckDodgers · · Score: 2, Insightful

      Time outs, and losing privileges. For most of our meals we give the kids a choice between two or three (reasonably) healthy things, and they pick what we cook. When they misbehave, my wife and I pick. Normally the kids get to watch one movie a day, two when we're especially busy. Most times they pick the film. When they misbehave, they watch nothing or I pick something I want to see. Likewise you can take away toys, trips to the park, favorite items of clothing, and so forth. When they act like a baby, they're forced to take extra two hour naps just like a baby. If the child won't sit still and be quiet for their time out, three minutes are added (more if the kid is older) and I physically pin them down.

      It works just fine. My wife and I don't hit our kids, except for the very young ones who understand nothing else. They behave better than I did at their age, and my parents whacked my behind with a wooden spoon or a paddle all of the time.

      Or to look at it another way, watch a dog trainer. Some of the best ones out there don't need to hit the dogs at all. My dog is a big Rottweiler mix, and I've never had to hit him. If he gets in trouble, I just yell at him to get into his crate, and he walks in on his own. I lock the door, and he's stuck in there for an hour.

      It's normal to get very defensive when the discipline techniques your own parents used are criticized. I was a big defender of spanking for years. But just because you didn't grow up with anxiety problems, depression, or alcoholism doesn't change the fact that statistically, kids who are hit are more likely to grow up with those problems.

    16. Re:TFA backs up parent.... by PRMan · · Score: 1

      Not me.

      I LOVED being sent to my room. Much better than being spanked. The only "abuse" from being spanked is that I think my parents used it far too often when just telling me what they wanted from me would have worked.

      For example, one time the next door neighbors said that there were 2 ways to spell "but(t)". I asked my parents about it (genuinely curious) and they spanked me immediately for swearing. All they had to do was say that it was a slang term for a person's rear end and that they didn't want me to use it because they didn't think it was polite. I would have complied. I didn't need to be spanked for that. That type of thing happened more than a few times.

      When I got older (too old to spank, really), my mom started sending me to my room. That was GREAT! My Atari 800XL was up there and there was nothing I wanted more than to get away from them arguing about stupid nonsense all day long anyway. They would send me up there at 2:30 PM and forget about it until I came down for dinner at 6:00 PM. Fine by me.

      Overall, though, I am glad I was spanked and I think that a lot of problems come from kids with no respect of society or their elders. In fact, even schools in good areas are starting to get completely out of control because of undisciplined children.

      With my own children, we reserved spanking for when nothing else was working. My older daughter was spanked about once a year on average and the younger about 1.5 times a year. I discovered, though, that she HATES being sent to her room, so now I choose that for her instead.

      Everyone is always commenting how our kids are really good, without any prompting, so I think we are doing OK.

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    17. Re:TFA backs up parent.... by uniquename72 · · Score: 0, Flamebait

      The only thing more boring than hearing about someone else's dreams is hearing anecdotes about someone else's upbringing or parenting style.

    18. Re:TFA backs up parent.... by Svartalf · · Score: 1

      Sounds like you had some real issues going on if you're that defiant. Constant defiance without rationality is not normal.

      Please define as "rationality" and "normal".

      Keep in mind, though, that a "Type-A" or "Alpha" personality (and these DO exist...) will not fit within the confines of what you're defining as normal- at least during the period we call "youth". There's nothing wrong with those kids other than they have dominant personalities.

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    19. Re:TFA backs up parent.... by Ksisanth · · Score: 1

      I do wonder, did previous generations struggle with the same feelings and opinions of the next?

      From Rousseau's Origin of Inequality :

      Discontented with your present state, for reasons which threaten your unfortunate descendants with still greater discontent, you will perhaps wish it were in your power to go back; and this feeling should be a panegyric on your first ancestors, a criticism of your contemporaries, and a terror to the unfortunates who will come after you.

    20. Re:TFA backs up parent.... by budgenator · · Score: 1

      The Indians had a saying "Don't judge a man by his Children, judge him by his Grand-Children.", I'd have to say my generation came up short by that standard. Kids need discipline, firm, fair and parents that lead by example. Kids are best disciplined within clearly defined behavioral limits by the application of both positive reinforcement for good behavior, and negative reinforcement for bad behavior. How much positive and negative reinforcement has to be appropriate for the individual temperament of the child. Rewarding mediocrity, is as bad as excessive punishment trivial offenses. Don't try to micro-manage children's behavior, but keep them within behavioral boundaries appropriate for the environment.

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    21. Re:TFA backs up parent.... by Nutria · · Score: 1

      very young (kids) understand nothing else (than being hit)

      That's a very interesting observation from someone who doesn't believe in corporal punishment...

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    22. Re:TFA backs up parent.... by HazMathew · · Score: 1

      So um... which "Indians"? They had the saying because they don't say it anymore or because the people don't exist anymore?

    23. Re:TFA backs up parent.... by stewbacca · · Score: 1

      Yes, because I'm sure the "right amount of pain" will NEVER lead to emotional pain over the long run.

      The only time I smack my kids IS with a bare hand and only in anger. Why the hell would anyone hit their kid with a heavy blunt object when they WEREN'T angry at them?

    24. Re:TFA backs up parent.... by DuckDodgers · · Score: 1

      When you figure out how to get a one year old to stop biting without hitting them, I'm willing to listen. I haven't figured it out.

    25. Re:TFA backs up parent.... by Nutria · · Score: 1

      No, no, no, I'm on the corporal punishment side! (Hopefully, it's just a stinging hand-slap or diapered butt-whack.)

      There must be, though, How To books and web sites from the anti-CP crowd with advice...

      (This might be a good time to mention why I think Americans are more sensitive to not wanting their children to watching "sex" on TV/movies/games than "violence": kids are born knowing and acting violently, but don't get into the whole "sex" thing until their early/mid-teens. Well, that's how it was until Big Media and Big Fashion hypersexualized society while so many parents abdicated complete control.)

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    26. Re:TFA backs up parent.... by MrResistor · · Score: 1

      One year olds bite because they're teething. Just give them something else to chew on. Pork rib bones are excellent for this.

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    27. Re:TFA backs up parent.... by DuckDodgers · · Score: 1

      Well, be warned - a fair number of books on "non spanking parenting" are totally obnoxious. "Instead of wrapping a fence post in barbed wire, holding it over a fire, and dipping it into sulphuric acid before beating your child into a slab of meat for the offense of dropping a few drops of milk onto the table, you might try...." The idea that a parent who believes in spanking is intelligent and well meaning but may not have been exposed to effective non-spanking techniques is alien to some writers, and they present the topic as though we were just too mean and stupid to consider other methods before.

      But I found 1 2 3 Magic helpful, and spending time with experienced Daycare staff - they have to control a horde of children without hitting them, they get very good at control without violence.

  16. It seems pretty simple to me. by netsavior · · Score: 0, Troll

    Children today are encouraged to speak their feelings, to elaborate on their dreams and their worries, the technology and culture to do so are omnipresent.

    Women didn't suddenly develop personal politics the instant the 19th amendment was passed, they were simply more allowed to exercise it.

    Children are more deep, complex, disturbed, ADD, Autistic, sexual, etc etc, because they are allowed to communicate in a more meaningful way than they were before.

    In a "Don't speak unless spoken to" culture, it takes a fool to wonder why nobody knew what children were thinking.

    1. Re:It seems pretty simple to me. by The+Mighty+Buzzard · · Score: 1

      Yeah, that would have been because children are self-centered idiots and it's barely worth listening to them if they're yelling fire.

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    2. Re:It seems pretty simple to me. by netsavior · · Score: 1

      weird, that is the most bizarre troll mod down I have ever had.

    3. Re:It seems pretty simple to me. by odd42 · · Score: 1

      removing mod

  17. American youth have it easy. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 5, Insightful

    American youth today have it very easy.

    When I grew up in Hungary in the 1950s, life was somewhat difficult. My family was lucky, as my father was a supervisor at a washing machine factory, and my mother was lucky to have a job as a seamstress. We at least had food, and did not go hungry like so many of our neighbors!

    We had one neighbor, Piotr, who had several children. One of them died just after birth, and another drowned. His three remaining children grew to be adults. But when they were young, old Piotr did not have enough food to feed his entire family! He would provide the best nourishment to his children and wife, while during tough times he would eat grass, paper and sawdust.

    But let me tell you, what the children ate was not so good compared to today's food! The bread, it was almost always stale. So it was used in horrid stews of left over meat and dirty water. On rare occasion there was chocolate (maybe once or twice a year). There were no Coca Colas! There were no potato chips! There were no McDonalds or Burger Kings!

    When you have not any food, then social pressures become quite irrelevant. Success becomes defined by the meager foodstuffs in your pantry, not by the newness of your cellular telephone or the shine of your gold ganger jewelery or the brand name shirt with a stupid logo on it.

    1. Re:American youth have it easy. by FooAtWFU · · Score: 2, Interesting
      I don't know about sawdust, but whenever I'd complain, my mother would point out that at least I'm not eating Crisco sandwiches. (Not that she ever got quite to that point, but other kids at her school did).

      Take that, Mr. Standard-Of-Living.

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    2. Re:American youth have it easy. by lxs · · Score: 1, Insightful

      And yet those horrid stews were probably more nutritious than the food substitute served at Burger King.

    3. Re:American youth have it easy. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 4, Interesting

      This isn't funny, it's probably true. My father went through the Hungarian revolution, and he has stories of the entire family of 5 splitting one egg for a meal. He has a thing about cleaning off plates. He still (literally!) licks his plate clean at home.

    4. Re:American youth have it easy. by tehcyder · · Score: 4, Funny

      There were no Coca Colas! There were no potato chips! There were no McDonalds or Burger Kings!

      So it wasn't all bad then.

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    5. Re:American youth have it easy. by Sir_Lewk · · Score: 1

      /me bows his head and respectfully steps off the Anonymous Coward's lawn.

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    6. Re:American youth have it easy. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I had similar experience growing up, but it was easier for me because my sister was number one whore in all of kazakhstan

    7. Re:American youth have it easy. by rev_sanchez · · Score: 3, Funny

      Wow, that place was aptly named.

      Now that China has over 24 million more men than women because of the One Child Per Family program they should follow that example and name their country Horny. Chile should give that name up to Canada and spell it Chilly. North Korea should hencforth be known as Korazy.

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    8. Re:American youth have it easy. by Jodka · · Score: 2, Funny

      When I grew up in Hungary... life was somewhat difficult...Piotr did not have enough food to feed his entire family! He would provide the best nourishment to his children and wife, while during tough times he would eat grass, paper and sawdust....

      So is that why they named it "Hungary"?

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    9. Re:American youth have it easy. by timeOday · · Score: 5, Insightful

      American youth today have it very easy.

      That's why findings like this are so interesting. Maybe having it easy and being happy aren't synonymous after all?

    10. Re:American youth have it easy. by Nadaka · · Score: 5, Insightful

      You are right, social pressure means nothing when you are barely surviving.

      I had it a "little easier" growing up in the America in the 80s, at least in terms of food. My father would hunt anything in season, and poach anything out of season so we had meat. My family would go out in the fields after the combine harvesters and gather the vegetables that were missed. My family would buy cheap hogs feed at the farm store and mill it for bread. We had food, even if it was green beans for breakfast, green beans and bread for lunch, green beans and antelope for dinner for six months strait. And that was the good part. After my parents divorced (my father was a brutal, violent sociopath) I got to live on "welfare" while my mother struggled to get an education. I was served inedible food at school, red grease on a slice of bread and a scoop of grey spoiled vegetables. The foodstamp budget had to be split 5 ways, so I got at most one decent meal a day at home.

      Kids today get emo and suicidal because they have been given everything, never had to earn anything, never been hungry, never had anything real to fear, never been punished for their behavior and are bored with having to much entertainment. I wouldn't wish my childhood on my worst enemy, but from what I see for other people, completely pampering children is at least as destructive as the brutal abuse, crushing poverty and neglect that I endured.

    11. Re:American youth have it easy. by ObsessiveMathsFreak · · Score: 1, Funny

      The bread, it was almost always stale.

      Stale Bread!! Luxury! We've lived like kings on stale bread. No, it was potato jackets for us; mouldy ones of course. And we were happier for them!

      ...Indeed, we were happy, because of them.

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    12. Re:American youth have it easy. by RockoTDF · · Score: 1

      He said he ate glass, ergo it was a joke.

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    13. Re:American youth have it easy. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      There's some truth in what you say, but there's a lot that focuses on your youth, not the youth of the actual children studied.

      Perhaps schools took fewer security lessons from prisons,mental health in children would improve. Have you visited a high / middle school in the US? Some of them are not far from what you would remember, but many are under so much lock down that it's quite scary (to an adult).

    14. Re:American youth have it easy. by Zarf · · Score: 4, Insightful

      American youth today have it very easy.

      In America we have obese kids with rickets because they are starving for nutrients while gorging on cheap processed food. Some Americans have it easy. Some are dying from false-wisdom and false-plenty.

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    15. Re:American youth have it easy. by MobyDisk · · Score: 2, Insightful

      Agent Smith:

      Did you know that the first Matrix was designed to be a perfect human world? Where none suffered, where everyone would be happy. It was a disaster. No one would accept the program. Entire crops were lost...I believe that, as a species, human beings define their reality through suffering and misery. The perfect world was a dream that your primitive cerebrum kept trying to wake up from

    16. Re:American youth have it easy. by Culture20 · · Score: 3, Informative

      He said he ate glass, ergo it was a joke.

      "during tough times he would eat grass , paper and sawdust."
      grass will provide some vitamins and fill you up, but you can't digest it very well at all, so I bet it was cooked or stewed. Paper and sawdust (and mud) are often eaten as filling, and the mud can provide needed nutrients like iron. Your ID isn't very new; you should know these things.

    17. Re:American youth have it easy. by conureman · · Score: 1

      Ah, but you try tellin' the kids nowadays, they won't believe ya!

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    18. Re:American youth have it easy. by tjbassoon · · Score: 1

      That's "Grass" not "glass". Read the story again.

    19. Re:American youth have it easy. by smchris · · Score: 0, Troll

      Things aren't everything. America is pretty much "dead man walking" as a viable culture today.

    20. Re:American youth have it easy. by CaseM · · Score: 1

      I'd mod you up if I had the points :)

    21. Re:American youth have it easy. by colmore · · Score: 2, Insightful

      I know you may find this hard to believe, but just because you and the people you know are more successful than the people you knew when you were a kid, doesn't mean that tens of millions don't still live in dire poverty.

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    22. Re:American youth have it easy. by Reservoir+Penguin · · Score: 1

      It is not completely clear excatly whast period he is talking about, but in general Hungary was one of the richer Eastern Europe countries, and I am quite certain no one went hungry in the Eastwern Europe, even in the Soviet Union where I grew up which alwayds had the early "struggle for the harvest".

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    23. Re:American youth have it easy. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      We had one neighbor, Piotr

      How come your neighbour's name was Piotr and not Péter - was he Russian?

    24. Re:American youth have it easy. by onepoint · · Score: 1

      I know that feeling from a test I force myself in. There are many things worst than starving, but testing one's resolve to limit yourself on your food intake is knowing your limits. I'll never do that again in my life, nor do I ever want to be in situation again.

      what I learned from that test:
      a) I clean my plate completely
      b) I always have a full pantry
      c) when someone comes to my home, I am always asking them if they are hungry or would enjoy a meal or snack.
      d) I donate to a food shelter and a food bank
      e) I try not to cook to have any leftovers
      f) I have a small garden
      g) I always have rice, beans and peanut butter in my pantry.

      I would not advise anyone to do this sort of test, it's harsh and cruel to yourself, and you might not walk away happy with the results.

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    25. Re:American youth have it easy. by Opportunist · · Score: 1

      Physically they sure had it harder. Mentally, as odd as it may sound, it was actually easier. Yes, the stress is quite painful when you don't know whether you have food tomorrow (coming from a country not far from Hungary I know what it's like). But you may also remember that the social cohesion was probably much like it was for me: It was quite strong. At least from my experience, the readiness to share is much higher when you have little and your neighbor has nothing, compared to you being filthy rich and your neighbor barely manages to keep up with his bills. It was not a matter of showing off and excluding those "have nots". We were all kids, and we all had precious little, so there was no use "showing off". There was nothing to show off!

      My family wasn't rich, but compared to some of our neighbors we were. We had food, we had a water proof roof (ok, after my dad invested a lot of time to fix it), my parents had "good" jobs, yet we kids played together. And it wasn't about who had the brand shirt (hey, we had shirts, yay!), some cell phone or other status symbols. It was who would dare to climb higher and who could look cooler jumping into the lake. Who could come up with a new game? Who could invent the best toys from the scrap we found? What you had or what you didn't didn't determine whether you have friends.

      Today, it does.

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    26. Re:American youth have it easy. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      don't you think that this kind of disconnect (rich/poor) from reality is another symptom of what is obviously a disturbed national character?

      personally i think the collective greed, arrogance and ignorance of the US go hand in hand with the right-wing mentality that dominates - and although this is the main problem, there are individual expressions of that reflect and contribute towards this malaise.

    27. Re:American youth have it easy. by PmanAce · · Score: 1

      "There were no Coca Colas! There were no potato chips! There were no McDonalds or Burger Kings!" That is a good thing, trust me. On a side note, I live one year in Madrid, Spain, in the 80s and there were no fast food places there (like in NA). Folks and kids would usually eat at home and the average Spaniard was not as fat as they are today (considerably less than NA though).

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    28. Re:American youth have it easy. by ElectricTurtle · · Score: 3, Insightful

      I am sure the millions of people who died of starvation in the USSR would be rather wryly amused by your personal anecdote. Anecdotes and personal experience do not by themselves make for a good historical record.

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    29. Re:American youth have it easy. by russotto · · Score: 1

      I don't know about sawdust, but whenever I'd complain, my mother would point out that at least I'm not eating Crisco sandwiches.

      The secret to a Crisco sandwich is to use a crunchy and vaguely-chocolate-flavored wafer instead of bread, and to add a lot of sugar to the Crisco. Then people eat 'em by the millions.

    30. Re:American youth have it easy. by Ginger+Unicorn · · Score: 1

      i signed up no earlier than 2005 and i have a 90,000 lower uid than his (just under yours). Slashdot hasn't changed in any way that i've noticed since then so I can't see that our uids are low enough to distinguish us from anyone signing up today. Also I've seen some 4 digit IDs say the most inane things at times. I'm pretty sure that anyone who bothers to get an account and post here is fairly science/tech savvy. And with any group of humans there is a large contingent of idiots, regardless of age/knowledge level. That having been said i thought grass, paper and mud were all indigestible, not that i'm any kind fount of knowledge, but it does seem an obscure bit of trivia.

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    31. Re:American youth have it easy. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      That's why findings like this are so interesting. Maybe having it easy and being happy aren't synonymous after all?

      Except having it a bit easier in some ways, does not mean having it easy. We do not need such studies to see how mediocre everyone's life is, rich or poor. We all know it. For some, it's just blocked in most of the time. For half the world, only half the time. For the other half, they are shouting and crying right now. No one have it easy, no one is happy. This is today society, since apparently the dawn of mankind. The problem is, blocking it, leads to unconsciousness, which generally leads to even more problems. There are various similar circle, which lead, in the end, to complete prostration and apathy, with nothing really being ever solved, and various knew problems always arising. This is today society.

      Reflecting, reasoning, and analyzing, the causes, the effects, and the consequences, leads to the solutions. We only have to do it. It's hard, because of our current situation, but not that complex in itself, although surely quite massive. The way is clear.

    32. Re:American youth have it easy. by tburkhol · · Score: 1

      Maybe having it easy and being happy aren't synonymous after all?

      If 31% of respondents have "unreasonable optimism" but only 6% are depressed, then I'd say having it easy contributes pretty well to being so happy they qualify it as a mental health issue.

    33. Re:American youth have it easy. by TheVelvetFlamebait · · Score: 1

      There were no Coca Colas! There were no potato chips! There were no McDonalds or Burger Kings!

      Don't stop! I can picture it now...

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    34. Re:American youth have it easy. by Da_Biz · · Score: 1

      American youth today have it very easy.

      I tire of this sort of statement. One could just as easily retort that Hungarian youth had it easier than paleolithic youth: a house really beats a cave with no door. And geez, you haven't lived life until you have to run after an antelope and kill it with one strike of your fist! Miss, and it's back to food from swidden farming for you!

      The crux of the matter is how well we, as a society, provide perspectives to our youth about the nature of happiness. Both ancient thinking (Buddhism, for example) and modern behavioral sciences give a lot of merit to the notion of happiness being a learned trait. How well are we, as individuals, local communities and a nation, teaching our kids about the value of compassion, the purposelessness of materialism, and the importance of sympathy for others?

    35. Re:American youth have it easy. by Foolicious · · Score: 1

      I don't want to dismiss what you've written, but based on what you've said, then how did your father become a brutal, social violent sociopath? Was he "given everything, never had to earn anything, never been hungry, never had anything real to fear, never been punished for their behavior and are bored with having to much entertainment"? Again - I am not trying to be cute, but am just suggesting that people are complicated.

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    36. Re:American youth have it easy. by Abstrackt · · Score: 2, Insightful

      American youth today have it very easy.

      That's why findings like this are so interesting. Maybe having it easy and being happy aren't synonymous after all?

      The problem is that easy is subjective. If you have nothing to compare it to, easy doesn't register as "easy", it registers as "normal". If you've encountered a large problem, others seem smaller by comparison. If you only ever encounter small problems they seem larger than they are.

      My leg was crushed in an accident; I never appreciated being able to walk until I couldn't because up to that point, it was normal. Now I have a hard time seeing people drive to the store instead of walking across the street when they're in the mood for a snack. I imagine having experienced starvation or homelessness would cause the same effect hearing people complain about the doneness of their steak or the color of the paint in their house.

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    37. Re:American youth have it easy. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I suppose English isn't your first language, but he clearly wrote, "When I grew up in Hungary in the 1950s, life was somewhat difficult."

      That pretty much nails the time period.

    38. Re:American youth have it easy. by CastrTroy · · Score: 1

      I grew up in a small town in Ontario in the 80's/90's. Nobody there was particularly bad off, in fact, most families had quite a bit of money. I still don't remember it making a different which clothes you wore, or which cool toys you had. Rich kids hung out with poor kids, and nobody really cared. I'm not sure when things changed, or why money matters so much now. I don't know if it's to do with the parenting, or marketing, or what, but I do feel that things have changed.

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    39. Re:American youth have it easy. by bill_kress · · Score: 1

      Having it "Easy" is not healthy for human beings. It causes--well--the issues listed in this research. Everyone knows the concept of a spoiled child--this doesn't just apply to rich and pampered. Humans need increasing challenges and the ability to overcome them.

      Being able to meet challenges that really matter--like putting food in your families cupboards--is especially rewarding. I think that's why depression children seemed to have so much more character than the spoiled, unchallenged children of today.

      It's happened before (Rome burned, right?)

      It'll happen again--people will become increasingly incompetent until we cause some kind of major disaster, then we'll get another few generations of people who are actually competent.

    40. Re:American youth have it easy. by Eravnrekaree · · Score: 1

      Terrible thing that situation. One of the primary reasons this happens is overpopulation. People will scoff at this. Because it makes people uncomfortable and is too politically incorrect.

      But consider. if you were so hungry, why not go plants soom food and crops in the ground and grow your own food, take matters into your own hands. You complain in Hungary you were starving, of course some would say, are you helpless, crow carrots, celery, squash, beans, all the other things you need. If you could grow your own food, there would be no reason for starvation. I am not an idiot, and i know the answers to these questions. In the real world there are very real legal constructions and monetary and resource control systems that would stop people from doing so even if they wanted to do so. Through this the economy has been turned into a weapon of mass destruction and people have become completely dependant on external economic and societal systems, independant survival is no longer possible.

      Even in the US a modest sized farm can costs hundreds of thousands of dollars. Sustinance agriculture is virtually impossible in many parts of the country. This is a direct result of land being scarce and there being little excess land. With an oversupply of land, it would be cheap. When the US was first taken over by Europeans, after they had removed the natives, land was virtually being given away, there was so much of it. As population has grown tremendously it has grown more scarce. That this makes it more difficult for people to take matters into their own hands, is beyond question. Because of this, the high cost of land and the various legal constructions of society, it is not impossible to grow your own food unless you own expensive land, and are heavily involved in a highly centralised and manipulated monetary and corporate systems. It is now almost impossible to be independant of these massive systems of control including monetary system. The overpopulation and resulting high valuation of land, tying it to monetary systems controlled increasingly by corporations and governments, has led directly into this.

      In the USSR there was state control through seizure of land and resources. This is State Capitalism. The same process is under way under a different disquise in the US which is being consumed by corporate collectives, Corporate Capitalism, who are using private property ownership and control of markets and revenue, to achieve a similar outcome to the USSR. People dont see it because they are calling it by different names. It is aided by overpopulation which has been valuable in leading to this consolidation that has allowed elites to consolidate their power, by linking things to money and then by controlling money and property by gradual consolidation of markets and resources.

    41. Re:American youth have it easy. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Not having enough food is bad. Having a father who doesn't run off, beat you, and furthermore sacrifices of himself to make sure that his family is fed is good. Which one is more important? Which one is more likely to cause mental illness?

    42. Re:American youth have it easy. by blahplusplus · · Score: 4, Insightful

      "Kids today get emo and suicidal because they have been given everything"

      No kids to day get emo and suicidal because the demands on them are OVERWHELMING, in our hyper competitive world the pressure on them is unreal, while they are not perfect or any better then previous generations, they feel they exist in a world of mutual hostility and financial insecurity. Not only that but most kids get the message at home "go to university to find a securejob or you will be poor!"

      So kids go to university rack up a bunch of debt, figure out that job security is rare, and they may not have the lifestyle their parents had and have to work longer hours for less pay with lots of debt and in shitty long hours work culture.

      You'd have to be out of your effin mind to say kids have it easy today.

    43. Re:American youth have it easy. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Blah blah blah. That really doesn't mean much at all when it comes to the MENTAL HEALTH of kids.. My own theory is that it's america's society, which has been slowly bred to be a consumer society, complete with large personal debt and not much of a social net (inadequate healthcare coverage for many is included here), which is to blame. If family and friends are seen as being insecure, then the kids are insecure also. That is on top of normal everyday issues that kids face. Every person has a breaking point, and for kids who haven't yet learnt coping skills, it can be quite devastating.

      You see similar stresses in children in other well off societies, such as Canada and Germany..

      The best thing you can do for your kids when they're young is to provide them with a loving home and the impression of security, at least as much as you can give them!

    44. Re:American youth have it easy. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      That is officially the oldest joke in the book.

    45. Re:American youth have it easy. by shutdown+-p+now · · Score: 1

      There's no contradiction here. The last major famine in the USSR was still in Stalin's time, and I very much doubt that GP was born at that moment. If so, he is entirely correct that, in USSR of his lifetime there were no famines, and people didn't die from hunger.

      I can't vouch for that personally (I've only seen USSR of Gorbachev's times, being born in '85), but, judging by what my parents and grandparents say, this is broadly correct. After the post-WW2 devastation was dealt with, starvation was effectively non-existent. Reason being, a job was guaranteed to everyone by the state, and any job would pay enough to feed yourself - not with any hint of luxury, mind you, but bread and milk and greens and some meat, you'd have for sure.

    46. Re:American youth have it easy. by NeutronCowboy · · Score: 1

      There are antelopes in the US? The things you learn on slashdot....

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    47. Re:American youth have it easy. by MaskedSlacker · · Score: 1

      SHHH! Do not question the comrade's historical propaganda!

    48. Re:American youth have it easy. by Nadaka · · Score: 1

      I know people are complicated. Sometimes, they are not as complicated as you might suspect.
      My father most likely became a brutal, violent sociopath for a couple reasons.

      He was beaten relentlessly by a father almost as bad as the one he became.
      He fought in Vietnam.
      His actions were supported or dismissed every time they were brought to the attention of family, the church, his superior officers and even law enforcement.
      He was a member of a typical fundamentalist christian church. A church that believes in the absolute power of the patriarch.
      They believe that children and wife are to be absolutely subservient to a mans will or face the righteous wrath of god.
      They believed that children or wife who were beaten had obviously sinned and displeased the man, and that they should pray to god for forgiveness and guidance to please their master.

      Like I said, I wouldn't wish my childhood on anyone. But I survived, we all did. I and my siblings may be a little odd each in our own way, but for the most part we turned out ok. I see a lot of people, especially younger people, who have never been given responsibility, almost always been given what they ask for, never so much as scolded for misbehavior much less had to live through hunger, suffering or brainwashing like I did. And they just can not deal with the basics of life like teenage hormones, occasionally not getting their way, people "being mean" AKA (not giving them everything in exchange for contempt) or being rejected by someone they like.

    49. Re:American youth have it easy. by techhead79 · · Score: 1

      I would have to agree. Just about everyone that I have met that is "emo" or has some sort of mental issue where either sexually abused growing up or had parents that were hardly parents...and usually that cycle continues and continues until one or two children break the cycle and become "normal". Granted there are many that have been given everything and still complain...but at least from where I'm standing they are in the minority in the group of youth with mental issues.

    50. Re:American youth have it easy. by Gibbs-Duhem · · Score: 1

      I think a large part of it is physical exercise. It's massively undervalued as a way to deal with anxiety. I never had anxiety or depression issues as a kid, and I was always running around.

      I am now irregularly taking anti-anxiety medication (and have good reasons for the anxiety, which I find I legally can't escape from), and I find that when I am actively teaching karate (my hobby) or attending classes where I get to get some physical exercise, I have immensely less difficulty sleeping, working, or otherwise functioning.

      I wonder if the correlation could be more related to "kids don't exercise as much, and kids are also more anxious" than any particular immaturity in dealing with stress. The human body was definitely not intended to be lethargic, and I wonder how much of these problems are a result of our biology not being tuned to an environment with no exercise. It's also not designed to have such poor nutrition -- obviously my sample size is small, but I notice very clear differences in my state of mind depending on my diet and exercise that day (or for a day or two prior).

    51. Re:American youth have it easy. by stuntpope · · Score: 1

      Turkey would like to have a word with you.

    52. Re:American youth have it easy. by oatworm · · Score: 1

      Hungary was actually facing some rather serious economic conditions immediately following World War 2. For example, the biggest documented incidence of hyperinflation (bigger than Zimbabwe!) occurred in Hungary in 1945. This would certainly explain the issues people were having getting sufficient nutrition.

    53. Re:American youth have it easy. by lowrydr310 · · Score: 1

      Crisco is nasty, but lard sandwiches are pretty tasty (especially if the lard is leftover bacon grease).

    54. Re:American youth have it easy. by thetoadwarrior · · Score: 1

      He should consider himself lucky. McDonalds doesn't even put real saw dust in their saw dust McNuggets.

    55. Re:American youth have it easy. by newcastlejon · · Score: 1

      I imagine having experienced starvation or homelessness would cause the same effect hearing people complain about the doneness of their steak or the color of the paint in their house.

      I would have thought the opposite: when you only rarely (sorry) have a steak, you want the ones you do have to be just right. You've had a lot of time to think about how you want it. I suppose the same goes for a house; once you get over how great it is you start to think "Hey, I'm going to make this great."

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    56. Re:American youth have it easy. by Kattspya · · Score: 1

      How the fuck is the plenty false because people purposely disregard needed foodstuffs?

    57. Re:American youth have it easy. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Huh? All bread and processed grain foods in the US come with B vitamins in order to prevent rickets. Milk has vitamin D added too. Juice has vitamin C.

    58. Re:American youth have it easy. by QRDeNameland · · Score: 1

      As a child, I always wondered why Hungary didn't just eat Turkey. ;-)

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    59. Re:American youth have it easy. by StikyPad · · Score: 1

      Exactly. Anyone who's traveled outside of our own borders will discover far deeper practical problems than "what should I wear to school?" I think the human mind is wired to deal with problems such that the highest ranking problem always causes the most stress, regardless of its absolute importance. It's only when presented with *more* urgent problems that the mind can put things in perspective.

      Since many youth have no real problems, fitting in socially becomes an obsession. Additionally, there is no shared struggle to form real bonds around, so common ground such as fashion or hobbies take on a larger-than-life role.

      I think this also explains depression from returning soldiers, in that nothing feels particularly important compared to fighting for your life. Once that struggle is gone, it's hard to feel strongly about the things that are a part of normal life.

      At least, that's my theory...

    60. Re:American youth have it easy. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Maybe having it easy and being happy aren't synonymous after all?

      This was understood for centuries by nearly everyone as "common sense" wisdom. Then one generation decided it was time to "reboot" human thinking. "Don't trust anyone over 30" was more than just a flippant remark. All the hard-earned "old" wisdom was suddenly suspect, and tossed aside. Now we can only watch patiently while the "enlightened" among us re-learn the same ancient wisdom, point by painful point.

    61. Re:American youth have it easy. by DrFalkyn · · Score: 1

      American youth today have it very easy.

      When I grew up in Hungary in the 1950s, life was somewhat difficult. My family was lucky, as my father was a supervisor at a washing machine factory, and my mother was lucky to have a job as a seamstress. W

      Apparently, you had one thing that alot of US kids don't ahve these days - a two parent family.

    62. Re:American youth have it easy. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      They are not synonyms in the dictionary. I am sure there are many billionaires who have many things easy but are not as happy as many other people who are earning much lesser than them.

    63. Re:American youth have it easy. by tmosley · · Score: 1

      I always lick my plate, and I'm a 26 year old American who grew up in a middle class family.

      But then, I'm a weird guy in general. I save money rather than spending it all as soon as I get it too.

    64. Re:American youth have it easy. by joggle · · Score: 1

      However you feel about kids in America, in Japan the pressure is much higher. Of course, it's not a coincidence that they have one of the highest suicide rates in the world.

      There's enormous pressure on kids to study hard and get into a good college. Almost every child in Japan has to take an enormously important exam at the end of high school that essentially determines their fate (from their point of view) by determining which college they get into, from the most prestigious (Tokyo University) to not getting in one at all, at which point they can either become 'ronin' (literal interpretation is 'wandering samuri'--they work part time jobs and study to try to take the test again later) or simply give up on college but are permanently regulated to lower paying, unskilled jobs likely for the rest of their lives.

      There's also great social pressure to conform to societal norms, with only an exception for when they are in college. Before and especially afterward they cannot stand out too much in any way (at least that's what I've seen and what friends that have lived in Japan have told me).

      And God help you if you become unemployed--that's where many of the suicides come from. In many ways they are still a very traditional society and there's probably few people in Japan that have more pressure (and guilt) on them than unemployed, married men.

      I don't believe they have the rates of overall mental illness in children that we do, but I don't know that for a fact.

    65. Re:American youth have it easy. by An+Onerous+Coward · · Score: 1

      You make some fair points, but honestly I wish every kid was suffering from the overabundance of love and attention you describe. We still have rampant physical, sexual, and emotional child abuse. The schools we send kids to are a cross between a prison, a sensory deprivation chamber, and (if Paul Graham is to be believed) a corrupt and indolent royal court.
          Parents have less time for them, due mostly to more hours worked, and I suspect we Americans move around a lot more than we did in the past, which is disruptive.

      I think that kids are far less useful in our society than kids of previous generations, and they're smart enough to recognize it. They also have less unstructured time, less freedom to roam, and less accessible wilderness than their parents and grandparents did. And don't even get me started on the flood of cheap, trash calories we put in them.

      Some kids get over-pampered, and I'm sure it causes real psychological problems. But I don't think that's the primary factor.

      Last point: I would point out that the lead author of the study has spent the bulk of her career castigating the youth of today as spoiled, narcissistic whiners. Something about Jean Twinge just triggers my evil detector.

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    66. Re:American youth have it easy. by xaxa · · Score: 1

      It would be worth comparing American children to, say, Dutch children.

      UNICEF produced a report on children from some western countries, and the British and Americans came bottom. It doesn't surprise me.

      If I was starting a family now I'd consider emigrating.

    67. Re:American youth have it easy. by xaxa · · Score: 1

      Sorry, I forgot to link to the report (it's a PDF, scroll to the bottom).

      I'd like to see some political action as a result of studies like that, but nothing useful seems to happen. Politicians like to throw money at the problem, but that's not going to fix a broken society.

    68. Re:American youth have it easy. by Whorhay · · Score: 1

      I don't understand "e) I try not to cook to have any leftovers"

      Is this from the standpoint that if you can't refrigerate the leftovers then they will be wasted as spoilage or something? Personally I always try and cook or bake enough for several meals of leftovers. This way I can spend less time cooking. Which is more economical of my time and possibly also a better use of resources, such as electricity, gas and food if you get it cheaper in bulk.

    69. Re:American youth have it easy. by xaxa · · Score: 1

      I had mild-moderate depression a couple of years ago. I wasn't looking forward to using drugs to treat it, although I was expecting the doctor to offer them -- she didn't, she told me the best thing I could do for myself was exercise more.

      I also made other changes to my life, which helped a lot, but when I eventually got round to exercising regularly I felt loads better.

    70. Re:American youth have it easy. by Belial6 · · Score: 1

      It doesn't help that doctors will tell people that they will still be over weight if they get to 0% body fat.

    71. Re:American youth have it easy. by dunkelfalke · · Score: 1

      Dude, when Russia was still an empire, many more people died of starvation, and at the same time Russia was a large grain exporter.

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    72. Re:American youth have it easy. by Pharmboy · · Score: 0

      It has been said, but yes, you are correct. We are humans and have evolved over hundreds of thousands of years to be problem solvers. Parents give their kids all kinds of "stuff" and make their lives as worry free as possible, which (ironically) is more damaging than having a slightly abusive alcoholic single parent, in the long run. It also makes for sorry ass kids who take everything for granted.

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    73. Re:American youth have it easy. by Lunzo · · Score: 1

      Mind and body and emotions (and soul if you believe in that) are all linked. This isn't new, although at some point the West has decided to try and separate them all (I'm thinking this idea arose during the Renaissance or Enlightenment but I might be wrong). What is new is re-discovering things like a bit of exercise makes you feel better about yourself.

    74. Re:American youth have it easy. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      PLEASE SPEAK UP MORE OFTEN! It seems to me that so many of America's youth believe that more government and spending solves problems. They are taught that soaking the rich will create jobs by giving the government more money to spend on taking care of them! You my friend lived through what happens when socialism takes over! (Also, I might add that Hungary was considered the most Western of the Eastern Bloc countries! Life in under socialism sucked and that was the best that Socialism could do! Why does this country insist on going down the same road?)

    75. Re:American youth have it easy. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      they feel they exist in a world of mutual hostility and financial insecurity.

      This isn't a "feeling." This is a belief -- a realistic belief one. Objective insecurity pervades contemporary life.

    76. Re:American youth have it easy. by inKubus · · Score: 1

      Isn't this the part where you:

      Mention that because of scarce resources, gold was not valuable then;
      Mention your neighbor stashed away a significant amount of it, and has since been taken away by the secret police;
      Mention that you just need to get the gold to the United States and you'll share it with the person who can secure $10,000 in cash or bearer's bonds to pay the duties on the gold shipment.

      Oh, HUNGarian, never mind.

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    77. Re:American youth have it easy. by uninformedLuddite · · Score: 1

      shenanigans

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    78. Re:American youth have it easy. by drkim · · Score: 1

      Well, of course, we had it tough. We used to 'ave to get up out of shoebox at twelve o'clock at night and lick road clean wit' tongue. We had two bits of cold gravel, worked twenty-four hours a day at mill for sixpence every four years, and when we got home our Dad would slice us in two wit' bread knife.

      (full text: http://www.phespirit.info/montypython/four_yorkshiremen.htm)

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    79. Re:American youth have it easy. by beguyld · · Score: 1

      ... they may not have the lifestyle their parents had and have to work longer hours for less pay with lots of debt and in shitty long hours work culture.

      Oh yeah, that is much worse than starving and being beaten....

      And yes, I mean having the shit kicked out of you for real. Multiple times a month. In the actual physical world. Not in a video game.

      Unless you actually meant to be sarcastic... which case your post was brilliant! (yet strangely, rated "insightful" which implies there are other completely clueless whiners out there...)

    80. Re:American youth have it easy. by Opportunist · · Score: 1

      I think it's both. Parents not caring about their kids and giving them "values", and marketing stepping in and giving them some.

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    81. Re:American youth have it easy. by cffrost · · Score: 1

      He still (literally!) licks his plate clean at home.

      Scientific American Mind recently published an article entitled Dangerous Liaisons: How to Deal with a Drama Queen.

      Hopefully the tips therein will help you respond to your father's more outlandish displays. =)

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    82. Re:American youth have it easy. by ElectricTurtle · · Score: 1

      At no time did I say or imply that Imperial Russia was a better place than Soviet Russia. I was simply disagreeing with Reservoir Penguin that famines didn't occur and didn't kill anybody in Soviet Russia. Quite frankly Russia hasn't been a comfortable place to live for most of its people for the entirety of its history, regardless of the regime.

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    83. Re:American youth have it easy. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      "Oh yeah, that is much worse than starving and being beaten...."

      The thing you have to learn about pain son, is that everyone's pain matters to them, and you're foolish to play "my pain is worse then your pain is" card.

      Your inability to see there are hard problems and lots of stress in modern life that's just as life sucking as being beaten and starving is your own blindness.

    84. Re:American youth have it easy. by Reservoir+Penguin · · Score: 1

      Thank you, actually I always found it's funny that our supposed sattelite states always had a better standard of living than Mother Russia. Goods from Poland, DDR, Hungary, from Polish vinil records and rock and fashine magazines to electric household eqipment from DDR were wery highly valued in the USSR. I guess we spent most of our industril capacity on weapons.

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    85. Re:American youth have it easy. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Somehow I'm having a hard time with your notion that a competitive business environment (and really, despite the hype it's not that bad compared to other parts of the world) is "overwhelming" when held up against the risk of starving to death or dying of disease.

      Job security is rare, sure, and no you won't have your parent's lifestyle. But even if you're a complete fuckup, you won't go hungry.

    86. Re:American youth have it easy. by onepoint · · Score: 1

      cooking for me is relaxing, and joyful. So resources spent doing it ( time and energy ) are not considered.

      as for leftovers, fresh foods taste the best, so having leftovers ( unless it's chicken soup ) don't taste as good.

      Now if you really want to taste some great meat. try online ordering of bison and if you can afford it, try yak ( expensive as heck ). Yak burgers are the best when served with some local fresh baked bread ( not burger bun's ) and a good wheat beer, it's a great flavor, but more with a hint of sweetness.

      something that is fun to do, and it will stock up your fridge is making pasta ( tortellini's and ravioli's ), nothing better in getting frustrations out than mixing dough.

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    87. Re:American youth have it easy. by beguyld · · Score: 1

      "Son"? Odds are I'm older than you are, and I've experienced both types of stress.

      Yes, when my daughters were teens, not attending some party was the end of the world for them. Their pain mattered to them. I cared, but not so much it blinded me to the bigger picture; and what my job was as a parent: to keep them alive and healthy, and to make them ready for the real world, where they might have to endure some things they would rather not. (to put it mildly...)

      My having to sometimes work my ass off for idiots to make sure they had food and a place to live sucked. But not like starving. Not like watching your children go hungry. Not like being physically beaten.

      Yes, the modern world can suck the life out of you. But first you have to physically survive.

      And much of "modern stress" is self-imposed by people's choices; including their choice of beliefs about what is "necessary" to happiness. We often create our own heaven or hell, with no help from anyone else.

      I have to assume you haven't suffered any real physical challenges, or you'd understand the difference.

      Check out Maslow's hierarchy of needs...

    88. Re:American youth have it easy. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Not only that but most kids get the message at home "go to university to find a securejob or you will be poor!"

      It doesn't help that our definition of poor is "only one car and a television more than six months old means you must be destitute."

      Ironically, my captcha is "gladness"

    89. Re:American youth have it easy. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      As you simplify your life, the laws of the universe will be simpler; solitude will not be solitude, poverty will not be poverty, nor weakness weakness.
      Henry David Thoreau

    90. Re:American youth have it easy. by Alex+Belits · · Score: 1

      Oh yeah, you told them!

      I am another person who grew up in USSR, and can confirm that starvation was unheard of in post-WWII times.

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    91. Re:American youth have it easy. by Alex+Belits · · Score: 1

      Quite frankly Russia hasn't been a comfortable place for arrogant Americans for the entirety of its history, regardless of the regime.

      And I hope, it's going to stay that way.

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    92. Re:American youth have it easy. by ElectricTurtle · · Score: 1

      Quite true, does American arrogance know no limits that they would try to hold other countries to such ludicrous standards as possessing the basic infrastructure necessary to prevent millions from starving to death? I mean really, the sheer degenerate decadence of providing enough basic resources to actually live normal life spans...

      I think you've allowed me to achieve new heights in sarcasm. I should thank you for being so irrational as to provide me the opportunity.

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    93. Re:American youth have it easy. by MaskedSlacker · · Score: 1

      Which the article already linked to agrees with (well, last major famine in 1947), and doesn't negate that millions of people died of starvation in the USSR. Was it pre-war? Well, mostly, but also during and immediately after WWII as well. Point is, millions did die from famine in the USSR.

      Were you trying to add to the conversation, or just going for Funny mods like I was? If the latter, you're even worse at this than I am.

    94. Re:American youth have it easy. by Alex+Belits · · Score: 1

      ludicrous standards as possessing the basic infrastructure necessary to prevent millions from starving to death?

      I see, Americans still didn't develop knowledge of history, and think that 1930's lasted until 1980's in USSR.

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    95. Re:American youth have it easy. by Zarf · · Score: 1

      I was trying to be poetic. I fail. But, it is cheaper to eat junk food than it is to eat good food. I suppose this is just natural selection.

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    96. Re:American youth have it easy. by Zarf · · Score: 1

      In all honestly, I may be conflating the Rickets and Obesity thing. I do remember malnutrition and obesity are linked... or supposedly so by crackpots like me.

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    97. Re:American youth have it easy. by Zarf · · Score: 1

      I do find it amazing that every body type in the world is healthy with the same BMI. It's remarkable. You'd think that with all the different body shapes, chemistries, and metabolisms that there would be a great number of definitions of "healthy" ... yet, that isn't so. Everyone has the same range of ideal weights. Truly, we are living in a wonderful age of enlightenment.

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    98. Re:American youth have it easy. by MrResistor · · Score: 1

      It depends a lot on the society. I have a friend who grew up very poor (as in one meal every few days) in China, yet talking about it today her main complaints have to do with the social stigma of poverty in Chinese society. She was discriminated against by both students and teachers due to her economic status, since Chinese society tends to assume that any problem you're having is your own fault. Additionally, appearances are extremely important, so that fact that she had only one school uniform, which was faded and patched, was a big problem for her.

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  18. This is any different from adults? by Drethon · · Score: 1

    Between getting laid off then working a contract plus overtime with no benefits (most importaintly health insurance) and taking two code project heavy graduate classes my sanity has been on edge lately.

    There is a lot of stress when you are competing to work towards the top levels of your fiel as you have to work very hard or be very smart to be noticed among a large group of very smart people.

    I've read that there is less stress when you are just working what ever odd jobs come your way instead of pushing to be at a higher level. Is this true or are these articles (and as a result now me) talking out of their a$$.
    (I am probably middle or upper middle class)

    1. Re:This is any different from adults? by FTWinston · · Score: 1

      I've read that there is less stress when you are just working what ever odd jobs come your way instead of pushing to be at a higher level. Is this true or are these articles (and as a result now me) talking out of their a$$.

      Well, the stress comes from pushing yourself really hard, right? If you're not pushing as hard... you're exposing yourself to less of the stressor, so unless the alternate situation involves additional, greater stressors, it would seem to me like it would be true. YMMV.

  19. Is it even a valid comparison? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    The original MMPI was developed in the 30's based on people in Minnesota who had psychological problems. Is the comparison even valid due to the present ways of thinking, greater blending of cultures, etc.?

  20. Greater Knowledge by V50 · · Score: 2, Insightful

    This reminds me of some comments I've seen old people make. That things were better in the '50s because people didn't have "these problems" with mental health, minorities and whatnot. And how they act as if homosexuality was something invented in the '80s or '90s to shock and offend them. Forgetting or course that many of the mental health problems existed but were classified as demonic possession or something stupid, and people were generally less likely to seek assistance because of both societal disapproval, and lack of knowledge on their part. Also, obviously, so called "problems" like homosexuality have existed forever, it's only in recent decades that society has become tolerant enough that some people are no longer hiding it.

    I didn't read the article and am in no way commenting on it. The writeup and headline just reminded me of my grandmother's husband.

    1. Re:Greater Knowledge by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Actually, I think the main reason most people didn't talk to psychologists back then was that psychologists liked to LOBOTOMIZE people for relatively mild conditions.

      If talking to someone about your anxieties can get an icepick stuck in your brain, you keep your mouth shut!!!

      Interesting that nobody ever brings that up when they discuss so-called rates of psychological treatment.

    2. Re:Greater Knowledge by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I know it's not PC but I would argue that the fact that we have become tolerant of sexual deviancy is a problem of society.

    3. Re:Greater Knowledge by minvaren · · Score: 1

      As a professor I had once said, "depression existed before 1950 - they called it alcoholism."

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    4. Re:Greater Knowledge by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1, Insightful

      The writeup and headline just reminded me of my grandmother's husband

      You mean your grandfather? You have basically 'demonized' him by calling him something else. As someone once put it to me you can pick your friends but you rarely get to pick your family.

      Perhaps you need to see it from his point of view instead of just assuming that whatever you were taught/thought up is THE RIGHT WAY. Maybe he is wrong. But you belittle him and treat him like a child. When in fact it is you who are acting as the know-it-all brat. In fact you go out of your way to make sure you do not show any sort of respect for him. Maybe he is deserving of this but you play into it and only make matters worse. In fact you are doing exactly what you hate him for. That is 'classifying' him as something else. If you do not change this it will only get worse.

      I have known many homosexuals. There are the flaming queens, and the conservatives. The flaming queens are just trying to draw attention to themselves. Most queens are rude and in your face only for one reason. That is to offend. It is not about their orientation or whatever. They like the attention (good or bad) they get from it. They will tell you this (Ive asked many).

      Let me also show you something. Your first encounter with me and I already think you are an arrogant jerk. Is that really the way you present yourself to others? People with real knowledge share it when others need it to help them at the right moment. You need this because even when someone does you wrong in some way you should still treat those around you with respect. You will find others respect you when you give respect away. If you show up and act like you have a chip on your shoulder people for some reason instinctively want to knock it off. Why do I tell you this? You showed up and started ranting about "old people" and your "grandmother's husband". You are showing just as much intolerance as they do to others.

    5. Re:Greater Knowledge by el3mentary · · Score: 1

      How do you know his grandfather didn't die and she just remarried?

      In fact your entire post is just flamebait

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    6. Re:Greater Knowledge by V50 · · Score: 1

      No, my grandfather died and the man I'm referring to is the man my grandmother married afterword. I'm not going to deny I'm likely biased against him, if you're a TV tropes reader, he's basically a personal Replacement Scrappy of mine. I really liked my grandfather and aren't a huge fan of the man in question. I wasn't trying to show any disrespect for him, I like some of what he does, but that just seemed a natural thing to call him. He doesn't consider me a grandson (and he's made that clear) and I don't consider him a grandfather.

      What do you think I should call my grandmother's second husband, if not my grandmother's husband? I'm honestly curious.

      Also, that's hardly the only situation where the husband of my grandmother wouldn't be my grandfather. Divorce, affairs, polygamy, whatever. :)

    7. Re:Greater Knowledge by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      What are you, dense, are you retarded or something?

      When people get to be the age of old, they start to die. Frequently, the widow(er) then remarries. Think, man.

      Your entire rant is invalidated by a simple two second thought process.

    8. Re:Greater Knowledge by nedlohs · · Score: 1

      My father's wife isn't my mother, does that mean I demonize her by not calling her something she is not?

      Wow, you do have an amazingly closed small mind.

    9. Re:Greater Knowledge by saiha · · Score: 1

      That would imply that tolerance of sexual "deviancy" encourages it. I'm not sure if there is any indication that there are more homosexuals now than in previous generations, its just that you don't get auto-shunned by everyone if you come out.

    10. Re:Greater Knowledge by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      He doesn't consider me a grandson (and he's made that clear) and I don't consider him a grandfather.

      Perhaps you have given him reason to be that way? If he is treating you that way perhaps you should ask him why (or you my already know and are not sharing with the class)? It comes back to respect. Like it or not he is your grandfather. Maybe not the one you miss and love but still is at this point by marge. If he doesnt accept that fact then ask him why he shows such disrespect towards his wifes family...

    11. Re:Greater Knowledge by V50 · · Score: 1

      Lol, you really don't know the man, and are reading way too much into that.

      I don't like him, but I don't hate him. We just have pretty much nothing to do with each other. He has a few families already, from his first four wives.

      Not considering someone "family" doesn't mean we hate each other. For the most part, we get along just fine, if not very often. He just bugs me often with many of his attitudes and opinions.

      Either way, you read way too much into that. I didn't mean that comment as a negative, just a fact. :)

  21. Actual Data or Trendy Teen? by geekmux · · Score: 2, Interesting

    I know that this data spanned several decades, but one has to wonder what the impact of "teen angst", complete with its own social class (Jock, Geek, "Emo") has now, against a survey like this?

    Yes, large amounts of data through several decades is nice, but when it's now "popular" to act like a Tim Burton character or a "death for true love" torn "Vampire", I can't help but take this data with a grain of salt.

    1. Re:Actual Data or Trendy Teen? by maxume · · Score: 1

      It's all smoke and mirrors anyway. Here are (some of) the researchers publications:

      http://www.psychology.sdsu.edu/new-web/FacultyLabs/twenge/TwengePublications.htm

      In the most recent one, they selected a set of questions from the overall data set and then assigned scores to the various responses to those questions, and then analyzed the scored responses for correlations. The results are on the last page of this pdf:

      http://www.psychology.sdsu.edu/new-web/FacultyLabs/twenge/MTFself-views508.pdf

      I don't really have the knowledge to have much of an opinion about the statistical significance of the changes, but even in the case where the results are extremely statistically significant, they don't appear to be particularly meaningful (that is, given the results, you still wouldn't have much reason to predict that someone from the beginning of the study was less narcissistic than someone from the end, the differences within the groups are much larger than the differences between them).

      So assuming a similar methodology, the information presented in the article isn't anywhere near enough to draw any conclusions about whether the ideas presented are interesting, or simply the researchers personal axe.

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  22. I'm sure it has nothing to do with Big Pharma by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    I'm sure that the increase in number of youth diagnosed with serious mental health issues has absolutely nothing to do with Big Pharma selling drugs that can cure any disease. Well, treat any disease. There's no money to be made in curing diseases, you want something like a nice vague mental disorder - with a completely subjective diagnosis - which you can sell pills to treat to people for the rest of their lives.

  23. Information Anxiety is the new ADD. by ProppaT · · Score: 4, Insightful

    Welcome to the year 2000 (er, 2010) and meet your new friend Information Anxiety. I'm 30 years old and I feel it. I constantly feel like I need to keep up with news, this and that, hobbies and interests that are fueled by easy access to information on the internet, social networking, friends, internet friends, real life friends that I only really see on the internet these days. Now compound all of that into a teenager's mind along with high school pressures, school work, trying to find themselves, hormones and being awkward, the opposite sex (or even harder yet, maybe the same sex), etc.

    100 years ago, our main concerns were food, shelter, and family. These are second thoughts for many these days. I recently quit social networking for half a year and it was one of the best things I've ever done for myself.

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    1. Re:Information Anxiety is the new ADD. by Aphoxema · · Score: 1

      Welcome to the year 2000 (er, 2010) and meet your new friend Information Anxiety. I'm 30 years old and I feel it. I constantly feel like I need to keep up with news, this and that, hobbies and interests that are fueled by easy access to information on the internet, social networking, friends, internet friends, real life friends that I only really see on the internet these days. Now compound all of that into a teenager's mind along with high school pressures, school work, trying to find themselves, hormones and being awkward, the opposite sex (or even harder yet, maybe the same sex), etc.

      100 years ago, our main concerns were food, shelter, and family. These are second thoughts for many these days. I recently quit social networking for half a year and it was one of the best things I've ever done for myself.

      I stopped watching TV (not that I desperately wrench my head away when one comes on) when I was in my early teens, right after I got dial-up. I just felt so comfortable choosing what I experienced instead of having it hand-picked for my demographic.

      That was the problem, though... life isn't about anyone choosing, it's about whatever comes.

      I don't think the problem is what teenagers have to worry about in any era... being a teenager is just hard by incidence of evolution. All the changes happening at once and it never really ends until decades later.

      I would like to see how teenagers thrive in paradise without any fears and only the barest of vital responsibilities.

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    2. Re:Information Anxiety is the new ADD. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      sounds like you need to take a couple of pills all right, a pill of "harden the fuk up" and a "chill pill" is what the doc prescribes...

    3. Re:Information Anxiety is the new ADD. by neurospyder · · Score: 1

      I cannot fathom a utopia that does not fall apart. No matter how perfect, people are prone to failure.

    4. Re:Information Anxiety is the new ADD. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Welcome to the year 2000 (er, 2010) and meet your new friend Information Anxiety. I'm 30 years old and I feel it. I constantly feel like I need to keep up with news, this and that, hobbies and interests that are fueled by easy access to information on the internet, social networking, friends, internet friends, real life friends that I only really see on the internet these days. Now compound all of that into a teenager's mind along with high school pressures, school work, trying to find themselves, hormones and being awkward, the opposite sex (or even harder yet, maybe the same sex), etc.

      100 years ago, our main concerns were food, shelter, and family. These are second thoughts for many these days. I recently quit social networking for half a year and it was one of the best things I've ever done for myself.

      I moved recently (one week ago) and did not get around to set up my private computer stuff yet (the stove&kitchen does take precedence...), and the phone company takes it time, therefore there is no Internet via laptop. I have the best time of my life since the last... 10 years? I spend my evenings listening to the radio (there are still good [publicly funded] stations here in Germany) and actually reading those books that accumulated during the last years. Or toying with small handiworks. Or just thinking about things.

      In retrospect, I slipped into an almost exclusive consumption of "new media" (games, Internet, "News") at the expense of the "old media" in my early teens (12-15). Checking "the News" (while there is rarely anything actually *new*), playing "the next great game", etc. became a rather deeply rooted habit. I am even toying with the thought that the - back then emphatically refused - strange idea of (former) adults that children's minds and certain characteristics/habits are to significant part shaped by their surroundings holds some merit, and that while the Internet and games have given me quite a lot of ideas/perspectives, they have also blinded me to other, equally valuable ones.

      And I am suddenly very happy that many of those antiquated (theater, radio, books, etc.) have not yet been sucked into "the cloud"...

    5. Re:Information Anxiety is the new ADD. by Aphoxema · · Score: 1

      Just because you have no experienced it doesn't mean it doesn't exist. Death is fairly permanent and unchanging and oblivion is as perfect an existence as I can imagine.

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  24. More or...? by RyuuzakiTetsuya · · Score: 1

    I think another weakness of this article is the fact that reporting is *much* better now than it was in the 30's. Like how the autism rates are shooting up. More and better reporting, not more afflicted people.

    Life isn't very mentally healthy, in general.

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  25. How does this make you FEEL? by JRHelgeson · · Score: 5, Insightful

    Let's see; when you give kids a trophy for just showing up to the game, and high school kids make 'A' grades for minimal effort... kids today are conditioned to believe that life is easy, and they are 'super-duper'. This is the post accomplishment era we live in. Their actual test scores are among the lowest of civilized nations, yet their confidence levels are among the highest. What does this tell us? They don't know anything but they FEEL really good about it. This is what we get when the school system focuses on the importance of feeling rather than the importance of achieving. When kids discover that the real world doesn't care how you FEEL, it is rather anxiety inducing. The employer stance has necessarily become one of: I DON'T CARE how you feel, can you do the job or not?" Pay is based upon accomplishment and achievement, not on feelings.

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    1. Re:How does this make you FEEL? by Thaelon · · Score: 1

      I have a fledgling theory that this is largely the result of women in the workplace (and school is a workplace). Women are more concerned with feelings. Their own, and others. I'm not saying this by itself is necessarily bad, by itself, but when feelings take a back seat to actually getting things done, you end up precisely where we are. People feel better, but are less useful.

      here's a perfect example.

      It's completely irrational to broadcast that everyone reading a site is a strong, confidant woman.

      Those things are feelings, not quantifiable qualities, or concrete measures of worth, just feelings.

      Besides, when a woman says, "strong, confidant woman", the second poster in this picture is who comes to mind.

      Absolutely strong and confidant.

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    2. Re:How does this make you FEEL? by 0xdeadbeef · · Score: 1

      Pay is based upon accomplishment and achievement, not on feelings.

      Wrong. Accomplishment and achievement get you pats on the back. Supply and demand get you paid.

    3. Re:How does this make you FEEL? by scamper_22 · · Score: 1

      It's not just the school system. We have essentially created a two-tier society.

      You can have people live their entire lives in the feel 'good' system.
      Go to public school.
      Go to public university.
      Get a job in the public sector, or academia.

      They can go through their entire lives in a system that has at is philosophy 'as long as you feel like you're doing good... that is all that counts... and you deserve lots of money for it too'.

      Naturally, they end up in the political class and have an over-inflated sense of their worth, because that's the only system they've lived in.

      They never have to make real decisions or bare the consequences of their policies. Because well... as long as they tried...

      Their work attitude is just sad as well. We just recently had a young new grad join. Lazy and incompetent. But she would rant on upon how the government must have light rail and high speed rail everywhere. I'm thinking... you know... those cost money. Transit workers are expensive, especially when they're unionized. How do you propose to fund this with lazy people like yourself? Of course I didn't say that... but that was going through my mind.

      I guess her answer was... tax other people.

      The sad part is... the US youth who grow up in the public school system and this mentality... but are unable to leech off others by getting a job in the public sector... now they end up really hitting a wall when reality hits so to speak. It's not unsolvable though. Humans are pretty resilient. The US youth will adapt if given the chance.

    4. Re:How does this make you FEEL? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Get a job in the public sector, or academia.

      They can go through their entire lives in a system that has at is philosophy 'as long as you feel like you're doing good... that is all that counts... and you deserve lots of money for it too'.

      Emphasis mine and the embolded part is completely wrong, at least for the rake and file in any part of the Executive Branch of the US Federal Government. I've spent some time working with a Federal Agency a few years ago as an engineer, for professional jobs (GS 7 or higher) you tend to get paid as little as 2/3rds the average pay in the private sector, for an equivalent position with similar experience. The health and retirement benefits do raise the total compensation costs per employee, but not by that much! Now the equivalent to most senior management and executive positions in the Federal Government are either on the SES or some other pay scale and doesn't necessarily follow the same trend, but they are still often less than what you would find in any medium to large corporation.

      Now, I suppose some posters here are against almost any government job beyond law enforcement and the military (if that), so any amount would be too much for them. However, for most white-collar workers you will most likely take an appreciable pay cut moving from the private sector to the Federal Government. For a concrete example, the national mean annual salary for an engineering manager is $120,580. However, such a job in the Federal Government would normally be at GS 11 or 12, and with the highest locality pay increase to the base rate (an additional 2.42%) the last step of GS 12 is only $97,333!

    5. Re:How does this make you FEEL? by dtmancom · · Score: 1

      Let's see; when you give kids a trophy for just showing up to the game, and high school kids make 'A' grades for minimal effort... kids today are conditioned to believe that life is easy, and they are 'super-duper'. This is the post accomplishment era we live in. Their actual test scores are among the lowest of civilized nations, yet their confidence levels are among the highest. What does this tell us?
      It tells me that in the global economy foreign kids will be the worker bees getting things done, and American kids are going to be management.

    6. Re:How does this make you FEEL? by JRHelgeson · · Score: 1

      Supply and demand are irrelevant if you sit on your ass, do nothing, and feel really good about yourself.

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    7. Re:How does this make you FEEL? by mahadiga · · Score: 1

      They don't know anything but they FEEL really good about it

      As per research studies there is no such thing as intrinsic motivation.

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  26. What about Europe and Asia? by simp · · Score: 4, Informative

    Does anybody have the numbers for EU and Asia? For some reason I'm not seeing the same stories here in the EU. Personally I think that in the US there is a real drive to get everybody who shows a bit of a problem directly on heavy medication instead of dealing with it while they grow up.

    1. Re:What about Europe and Asia? by hackstraw · · Score: 1

      I don't have data on EU or Asia, but here is a piece of data for the US:

      In 2008, Zyprexa was Lilly's best-selling drug, with $4.7 billion in sales, ...

      Zyprexa is an atypical antipsychotic. When an atypical psychotic is the number one selling drug for a drug company, it makes me wonder.

    2. Re:What about Europe and Asia? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      We have big problems in the UK, partly because we've followed a lot of the stupidity from the USA (you are great in other ways though, I'm not slagging you off). Many other EU countries have far fewer problems because they prioritise things like community and happiness, not just money.

    3. Re:What about Europe and Asia? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Asia? Most Asian countries are too busy for this kind of silly stuff. Just a US was in the '30s.

    4. Re:What about Europe and Asia? by phorm · · Score: 1

      That's the real question, isn't it. Is the number of incidences actually up, or simply the number of diagnoses (or hell, "syndromes" that a person can be diagnosed with) up?

      Are people of lesser mental health now, or is it just more acceptable to complain of and/or diagnose as such?

      That's not to say that in some cases it isn't a good thing. If "person X" comes in to see a doctor because of major personal/emotional issues and gets some counselling or possibly medication, when he/she would have ended up on a rooftop with a high-powered rifle otherwise, that's a good thing.
      If that person gets a measured and monitored dosage of pills that actually works, rather than "drinking away the pain" with several liters of booze every night (and beating his wife/kids), the pills may be a better solution.
      If "Mike Hardcore" goes to the hospital after accidentally shooting himself in the skull with a nail gun, rather than "manning up" by pulling it out himself, sticking on a bandaid, and applying some iodine... probably better.

      However, if Joe Usual has to go see the shrink every time he gets dumped by a girlfriend, passed up for a promotion, or doesn't win the lottery and a ticket to all-play-and-no-work for the rest of eternity, because he's an spoiled ass with an expanded sense of entitlement, that's worse. If Jane Usual won't let her son play on the school playground for fear of any little injury, or worse, sues the school when he falls from the monkey bars and skins his knee, that's worse.
      When Jane takes her daughter to the emergency room (also overfilled with other Jane Usuals) every time she has a coughs, cries for more than two minutes, or "her poop was a funny color" (after having eating a stomach-full of food-colouring filled candies), that's bad.

      So yeah, good for some people, bad for others. There are definitely a lot of whiny, lazy people out there who would do anything to get out of working and/or dealing with life. There are also a lot of people who genuinely just need a little help.

      I know one person who definitely had some major depression issues going. She got some temporarily chill-pills, which gave her time to reorganize her life, and things came out OK. It's not that uncommon.
      I also know of plenty of people who are perfectly capable of working and leading normal lives, but would rather be hand-held through everything, live off welfare, and generally do nothing to contribute to society other than bearing multiple children who are ignored, mistreated, and will otherwise be good candidates for seeing a shrink in the future themselves.

    5. Re:What about Europe and Asia? by bosef1 · · Score: 1

      Zyprexa is still under patent (until 2011), so Eli Lilly can charge whatever they want for it. So it is probably one of their most profitable drugs just because they are still able to have a good (non-competitive) margin on it. They probably don't manufacture or sell as many pills as whatever painkillers they make, but I'd bet each Zyprexa pill sells for a lot more per pill.

      What would be interesting to know is how many individual pills and perscriptions were manufactured / written for each drug sold in the past year.

  27. Or maybe it's just diagnosed more by dkleinsc · · Score: 5, Insightful

    When poorer kids in the 1930's started having problems in school, they were labeled as "stupid" or "lazy", given D's and F's, and that was it. Now, a school counselor is brought in and a much more specific and medically accurate label for their problem and recommend a treatment for them.

    For wealthier kids, it seems to be partially a way of ensuring that their kid does well in school and other activities. A lot of these parents are going to start thinking something is medically wrong if the kid's grades start slipping into the B-/C range, and will find a counselor who will tell them just that and create a treatment. A diagnosed mental illness can turn a C student into a B+/A student due to extra time on exams, special help on projects, and so forth, as well as drugs that improve concentration (among other things).

    The upside of this pattern is that more kids who do have real mental illnesses are getting treated properly and are able to handle their schoolwork better, rather than being simply dismissed as bad students. The downside is that you now have a large population of kids (and adults for that matter) who are wandering around drugged and a much narrower understanding of what behavior is "normal" enough to be *not* indicative of a mental illness.

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    1. Re:Or maybe it's just diagnosed more by Vahokif · · Score: 1

      On the other hand, shy kids and kids who daydreamed (as all kids should) weren't medicated, and they grew up fine without it.

    2. Re:Or maybe it's just diagnosed more by MarcQuadra · · Score: 1

      My grandfather's stories about the depression were the best. He was a little boy when things went sour, so while mom stayed home and made clothes, food, and kept the fire going, dad had to get himself miles to the town center to wait for milk and bread. What did my grandfather and his brothers do? They started a gang, beating up local drunks and taking their whiskey money.

      There are a couple of pictures of my grandfather as a twelve year-old, skinny as a rail, wearing 1930s 'thug life' outfits (newsboy caps, home-sewn knee-length trousers, white t-shirts, and no shoes) with his friends. All were wielding leather-wrapped sticks (horse whips?) to accost their prey.

      Just imagine that when you think of how 'bad' things are today. Imagine if every ten year-old armed himself and started (basically) car-jacking people for their wallets... It would be like Los Angeles.

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  28. News at 11, Maslow's Hierarchy of Needs by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Newsflash, when starvation is a concern then self-actualization and minor mental/behavioural issues are less of a concern.

  29. yes, sir... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 5, Insightful

    The title should have read:

    US Adults Have Serious Mental Health Issues and Poor Parenting Skills

  30. It's the cheese! by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Correlate the results against cheese consumption. No really!

    Cheese is mostly the protein casein. And that is molecularly similar to... wait for it... morphine. As is gluten. So people are getting low level opiate hits when they eat cheese or wheat. There are stories of a gluten free, casein free diet helping people diagnosed with schizophrenia.

    Cheese was pretty rare in the American diet in the 20s. But Velveeta introduced a shelf stable, consistent 'cheese' and made in-roads into the American diet. As refrigeration became more common, people started trying more kinds of cheese. Throw in a big advertizing budget and some cozy ties with the government, and cheese has been on the rise for years. I read the history of cheese in an "Invention and Technology" article a while back.

  31. Every generation thinks the kids are nuts by SlappyBastard · · Score: 2, Insightful

    We just now have entire industries backed by science to prove it! Haha!

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    1. Re:Every generation thinks the kids are nuts by locallyunscene · · Score: 1

      Thank you. I'm surprised it took so long for someone to say this.

    2. Re:Every generation thinks the kids are nuts by SlappyBastard · · Score: 1

      It's kinda sad when you think about it.

      I was watching a documentary a while back on PBS about the runaway problem during the early 1960s. You watch video of all these kids -- tens of thousands -- suddenly all descending on one neighborhood in San Francisco all during the same summer. And you watch the interviews with the police, who are basically standing there saying, "Holy fuck! Where did all these runaways come from? Why the hell did they all show up at once?"

      I look at stuff like that and think it takes a certain audacity to say today's kids are more fucked up.

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  32. previous generations by circletimessquare · · Score: 3, Insightful

    dealt with things like world war i, world war ii, the bubonic plague, the american revolution... etc.

    all with less media resources, lower quality nutrition (we don't have lower quality nutrition these days, we have TOO MUCH nutrition), a worse set of ideologies, lower socioeconomic status, etc.

    whatever stresses today's youth are going through, its fucking easy in comparison stresses previous generations have faced

    get over it, grow the fuck up. sorry you're daily video game hours or facebook/ twitter diddling hours has been reduced. i think you'll find the ability to deal somewhere deep in your rich bounty of character. pffffffft

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    1. Re:previous generations by geoffrobinson · · Score: 4, Insightful

      I have wondered if less "real" problems (such as not having to struggle to sustain your existence) manifests itself in more depression, anxiety, etc.

      When you are busy just surviving you have less time to dwell on your problems.

      Just a theory. Not that mental issues didn't exist in the past.

      I know from my own experience and of some close to me, when you are sitting around thinking and are prone to these issues that's not a good thing.

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    2. Re:previous generations by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1, Interesting

      Yes. It's called purposelessness. Struggling to survive may be unpleasant, but it's a purpose. When everything is handed to you on a silver platter and you are never challenged, there is no obvious purpose to life. You either find a purpose, you become lazy, or you become depressed.

      And somewhat related to this is a possible interpretation of what older generations think is a constant need for praise. I'd suggested that although that's sometimes, possibly usually, the case, in some cases what younger generations want isn't unconditional praise, but honest feedback. If you're trying to find a purpose or think you've found one, you need feedback on the worth of that purpose and how effectively you are fulfilling it. Without feedback there's no way to know if that effort is really a good purpose for life or not. If you think a kid is coming to you just to receive praise, don't brush them off. Give honest feedback, and see what happens.

    3. Re:previous generations by alobar72 · · Score: 1

      theese are the problems of a generation, that has no real problems...

    4. Re:previous generations by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      The depression and anxiety were probably present, too, but you couldn't allow yourself to prioritize them as people do today. Surviving was just more important and that's why you just had to pull yourself together, no matter how fucked up.

    5. Re:previous generations by flabordec · · Score: 1

      According to the UNICEF, about 600 million kids live on less than US $1 a day. According to another source, 15 million kids in the USA are below the poverty line. Those kids are having it pretty bad right now, some of them are even dying of hunger every day. Fortunately neither you nor me are in that position, but some poor kids these days have it very tough.

      I agree with you that many kids have become prima donnas and they don't really know what is having a hard time. I think that many kids are blaming any of their shortcomings on their parents or on social pressure or on tons of other stuff instead of manning up and taking responsability. But I wouldn't say that didn't happen during my generation and I wouldn't say that today's stresses aren't comparable to yesterday's. You know what they say: nostalgia ain't what it used to be.

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    6. Re:previous generations by CaseM · · Score: 1

      Your comments reminds me of H.G. Wells' The Time Machine, which I recently read.

      In it, the Time Traveler meets with a type of humanoid 800,000 years into the future who are a shadow of their ancestors (i.e. us) precisely because they've carefully wiped out all forms of conflict - from food shortages to weeds and right on down to troublesome gnats - and so they evolved or adapted by becoming small and frail while also becoming extremely complacent about maintaining order in their world. The Time Traveler's theory is that humans need conflict in some form or another to stay healthy as a species.

    7. Re:previous generations by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      dealt with things like world war i, world war ii, the bubonic plague, the american revolution... etc.

      Well, we have the H1 N1 flu... I guess it's an adequate pandemic for this age.

    8. Re:previous generations by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Were you too lazy to read the article, or too dumb to understand it? Your post proves that those are the ONLY possible answers.

    9. Re:previous generations by phantomfive · · Score: 1

      That theory is reflected in music, as well. Songs like "You are my Sunshine" were popular during the depression. No one wanted to hear about how bad things were, they already knew. Now we have songs like "Happiness in Slavery" talking about how horrible the world is, even though it's really not that bad.

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    10. Re:previous generations by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      "What is Happiness? The feeling that power is growing, that resistance is overcome." Nietzsche.

      Start with every advantage and there may be nowhere to go but down.
      Previous generations struggled to overcome significant obstacles and managed to create great opportunities and prosperity for us, their children.
      For many of us the challenge we face is simply to maintain this level of prosperity. It doesn't seem quite as psychologically rewarding.

      Now one could look at that and think "We (older folks) were tough, we got shit done and didn't whine about our feelings." "This generation is a bunch of whiny pansies!"
      On the other hand, if for the sake of argument we consider Nietzsche' thoughts on happiness to be correct then we may conclude that the modern world (our little rich western corner of it) is a recipe for unhappiness.
      The salient point is that it is not prosperity itself which drives happiness rather it is striving and making progress towards it that we find so rewarding.

  33. You get what you pay for. by argStyopa · · Score: 4, Insightful

    I'd agree, although the excessive narcissism is probably the more significant root cause.

    Since the 1960s (Surprised? No.) the emphasis on social promotion, 'feeling good about yourself', rewards for non-achievement, and a slippery sort of moral relativism all have combined to leave our children emotionally retarded, and frankly incapable of dealing with reality.

    Ontogeny recapitulates phylogeny, and evolution is fucking painful. Deadly, in fact. Remove the pain from growing up, and you end up with emotionally undeveloped people, with no ability to cope with hardship, no capacity to comprehend the shitty things life is going to inevitably hand them, and (seemingly) very little resilience to survive.

    Go back and read Generation X. His book describes the glimmerings of the future. I'm 42 - a real GenX'er (turned 13 in 1980, graduated from college in 1990), and I see the beginnings of it in myself and my demographic. Lack of ambition, ennui, a juvenile inability to focus, as well as a difficulty being happy with much of anything. I'd attribute it in myself to a lack of hardship and challenge, and believe me it's a bastard to cope with on a day to day basis.

    And yes, I'm aware that I'm essentially yelling "Get off my lawn!" but when I look at teens today, it's terrifying how basically ignorant they are, and how amazingly short their attention spans are. They have a facility with electronics that amazes me, and I thought myself a fairly gadget-oriented guy. I regard them as "ignorant" because they don't know basic facts of geography, history, or culture - but then if one is permanently connected (as this twittering generation pretty much assumes) does one really need to store facts in their wetware? I think its necessary to have a basis of knowledge to understand the things going on around us, and to be usefully participatory adults, but then I'm old, I guess.

    Oh, by the way, ROCK THE VOTE!! Ha ha ha /cry. And we thought we're screwed already....

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    1. Re:You get what you pay for. by DutchUncle · · Score: 1

      >>>when I look at teens today, it's terrifying how basically ignorant they are, and how amazingly short their attention spans are. Gee, us 50+ folks thought the same about *you*. :-) Then realized we sounded like our parents. :-) :-) :-)

      The problem is there's truth in it. The pace of technological change has been much faster than the pace at which society and individuals can adjust in a sensible fashion. Witness the thread about privacy expectations.

    2. Re:You get what you pay for. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Ontogeny recapitulates phylogeny

      What does evolution being "replayed" during a mammal's gestation period have to do with anything?

    3. Re:You get what you pay for. by colmore · · Score: 1

      Lack of hardship may be a common trait among slashdot posters and the less than half of americans who go to college, but don't doubt that there's still a great amount of hardship going around and a whole lot of people still live in dire poverty.

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    4. Re:You get what you pay for. by nomadic · · Score: 1

      I regard them as "ignorant" because they don't know basic facts of geography, history, or culture

      As opposed to the philosopher-kings who were teens of other decades?

    5. Re:You get what you pay for. by 386spart · · Score: 2, Insightful

      I've been thinking along the same lines. It is a generalisation of course every fate is different, but I think many people growing up today in the western world seem less happy, more cynical and depressed, unable to focus etc. Basically the symptoms you describe.
      I also agree it's related to having it too easy when they (we) were young. Many were born into a high standard of living and nothing was hard until they moved out of their parents home. Life was good then suddenly gets dramatically worse (Not bad, in any objective way of measuring it, but worse than they are used to.)

      Compare this to their parents, who grew up from the 40s to the 80s. From the hardships of life in the 40s to the luxury of the 80s they managed to increase their quality of life little by little throughout their entire lives ending up with houses, fine cars, big salaries and stable employment. To see this progress year by year is motivating and makes people happy.

      People today often struggle to reach the same standard they had when they were living at home, let alone seeing some consistent improvement. They are fighting to get "back to even", basically. You work for years in order to pay down on a house half the size of the one you grew up in, if you can even dream of affording a house at all. You save for years to go to some exotic place you already visited several times with your parents. Having a stable job in the area where you grew up and all your childhood friends still live is a fantasy, most of your co-workers are basically strangers and so on. All the things the world has to offer - you did most of them already and watched the rest in Cinemascope. The experiences are clichés before you even get there.

      There are other factors as well of course, general lack of honest interaction with people, information overload, companies so large that you become anonymous, etc etc, but I think this is a big part of it. Simply put, there are many more rich people having to deal with becoming poorer today than it used to be. People are reaching goals lower than their expectations. This has always been depressing, so a certain percentage of people will be depressed by it, for a while.

    6. Re:You get what you pay for. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      'feeling good about yourself'

      Thanks for bringing this up. Who is this you anyway? What is this feeling good? Since when did the sperm of your father and egg of your mother ever belong to you??

       

    7. Re:You get what you pay for. by nine-times · · Score: 1

      Lack of ambition, ennui, a juvenile inability to focus, as well as a difficulty being happy with much of anything. I'd attribute it in myself to a lack of hardship and challenge, and believe me it's a bastard to cope with on a day to day basis.

      You can attribute it to a lack of hardship, but I suspect that it has more to do with mankind being terrific at discovering misery in everything. People with lots of hardship can also have difficulty being happy with much of anything, but it doesn't stand out as much and they seem to have an excuse. What's more, they just don't have time to worry about being unhappy, because they're dealing with their hardships.

      So the trick isn't to defeat your ennui by rationalizing that you only have it because of crappy upbringing. Instead, try to be thankful that ennui is your largest problem. You could have all the same lack of ambition, ennui, inability to focus, and difficulty being happy, but be poor and miserable on top of that. Then where would you be?

    8. Re:You get what you pay for. by david_thornley · · Score: 1

      when I look at teens today, it's terrifying how basically ignorant they are, and how amazingly short their attention spans are

      Is there a period in history when this hasn't been true?

      Teens simply haven't had time to learn all that much about history or culture or geography. They lack the experience and maturity to have fully adult attention spans. Their brains aren't fully developed, and they don't have full adult language skills. These are the basic biological and developmental facts.

      You think of yourself as the person you are today, and very likely project that back on your teen years. At the least, you're probably not as conscious of being ignorant, because you were learning, or flighty, since you didn't stand out as such.

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    9. Re:You get what you pay for. by ElectricTurtle · · Score: 1, Insightful

      You rang? Although categorically Gen Y (aka Net Gen) I was reading Aristotle's Metaphysics at 16, right after I finished a collection of Cicero's orations, letters, and commentaries. In fact I read usually over 100 books a year, albeit many of them fictional, and when I went to undergrad everything felt like a review.

      There is nothing inherently limiting about age. Nobody asked me to read what I read. People are too keen to give teenagers a pass, and it dilutes the development of the whole society. Each person can choose, regardless of their age, to spend their time enriching themselves and becoming informed or to spend their time watching the latest 'reality' TV shows or IMing all their idiot peers about what idiot peer A said to idiot peer B during class yesterday. Who needs history and culture when you have idle gossip?

      Trying to use the capacity of technology as an excuse for personal laziness doesn't work. Yeah, I can look up nearly any important data in human experience, but if I don't at least understand the framework, I won't even know what question to ask, let alone how to answer it. More than anything else, 'kids these days' don't ask meaningful questions. It is said there are no such things as stupid questions, but I beg to differ. Understanding is a reduction. You start with what you know, think about what is most important in that knowledge, and ask questions about the origins of those conditions, and when you get that information, you ask questions about the new data, until you have a satisfactory foundation you can do real work from. If all you have as a baseline is TV and gossip, you'll never have anything meaningful to reduce, no pathway to follow to real insights, real applications of ideas that enrich and improve. It is as has been said elsewhere in comments on this topic, GIGO.

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    10. Re:You get what you pay for. by ElectricTurtle · · Score: 1

      Ah, I see I have already been modded 'Troll' for committing the mortal sin of being rationally proud of my actual knowledge and how I accrued it. Of course I should flay and deprecate myself in false modesty lest somebody who has been raised in the BS 'self-esteem for its own sake' culture take offense and feel inferior as though it's my fault for who they are and what they do.

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    11. Re:You get what you pay for. by nomadic · · Score: 1

      You rang? Although categorically Gen Y (aka Net Gen) I was reading Aristotle's Metaphysics at 16, right after I finished a collection of Cicero's orations, letters, and commentaries. In fact I read usually over 100 books a year, albeit many of them fictional, and when I went to undergrad everything felt like a review.

      Yet I'm sure when you were a kid someone probably looked at you and despaired. You make the mistake of thinking you are on some rarefied level of intellectual achievement, but the truth of the matter is there were plenty of kids like you, and that fact isn't negated just because there are a lot more who weren't. My point was in every generation you're going to have the majority of people not really going anywhere special mentally, and no matter how far you go back you're not going to find a generation of Renaissance men/women--not even in the Renaissance. This ridiculous generational generalizations are just plain wrong.

    12. Re:You get what you pay for. by jafac · · Score: 1

      I disagree with you on the narcisissm bit - but I do agree that the "self esteem movement" - as a whole, has completely missed the mark, on how to deal with the problem. The problem is: In our culture, it's not okay to have "bad feelings". And so the previous generations would deny them, or generally come up with various psychotic coping mechanisms like blame shifting and such, to avoid them.

      This generation, has an entire commercial apparatus of philosophy, religion, pharmaceuticals, entertainment, and what-have-you, designed to help people AVOID having bad feelings. As if that's the cure for poor self esteem. Yes, the problem for most of these neuroses is low self esteem. And the common cause is often people being trained that having feelings, and expressing them is bad, and wrong. So what did we end up with? pee-wee basketball leagues where they don't keep score, so the losers don't "feel bad". Tell you what. These kids feel bad. They KNOW they're getting their asses kicked. They're clumsy (perhaps), not stupid. What did they learn? That we gotta sweep all the bad stuff under the rug. These are the folks who grow up to hide liquor bottles under the sofa cushions. Not a whole lot different than when our parents told us "shut up! I'll give you something to cry about!".

      What I don't get, is how this isn't completely obvious to everyone.
      I guess that must be how denial works, on a mass-scale.

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    13. Re:You get what you pay for. by HazMathew · · Score: 1

      He's a douche

    14. Re:You get what you pay for. by ElectricTurtle · · Score: 1

      Tell that to Strauss and Howe. I'm sure that their decades of scholarship will quickly wither under your unstudied personal opinion.

      I would further say that you presume much to say how plentiful kids of the caliber I was are supposed to be. In the first place, I have an IQ of 144, which, depending on whose categorizations and standard deviations you use, puts me in the top 0.2%. Of course based on current US population, that still leaves ~617k people who are as intelligent or moreso than I am, but put in personal terms, I think it's meaningful that for every five hundred people I meet, statistically only one is likely to be as intelligent as I am.

      Speaking anecdotally again, if you can find another person who at the age of 10 read Rise and Fall of the Third Reich or any comparable non-fiction of the humanities ~1200 pages or more I will buy you lunch.

      People, however, did look on me and despair, because I was (and by the standards of most people, still am) an arrogant bastard. When I was a teenager I was an intellectual bully, and it took years for me to develop socially enough not to rip everybody to rhetorical shreds with encyclopedic knowledge and synthetic understanding in public conversation.

      However, this isn't about me and how you think you can generalize about me without knowing me, but rather society as a whole. I don't suggest that a genius can be chiseled out of every tot, though I wish it were so easy, but rather than teenagers and children as a whole are not held to a high enough standard. Especially children. Too often they are dismissed and dissuaded by adults who say 'you're too young to understand' or something to that effect before even trying to teach them. Only a few driven individuals have the wherewithal to say 'screw you guys I'm learning it anyway.' Rather in most cases the desire to learn is crushed out of them, and they gravitate toward whatever is easy, often for the rest of their lives. That is the crux of the problem, children are actively dissuaded, teenagers are ignored, and this produces lackluster, underachieving, vacuous adults.

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    15. Re:You get what you pay for. by nomadic · · Score: 1

      Tell that to Strauss and Howe. I'm sure that their decades of scholarship will quickly wither under your unstudied personal opinion.

      If you call that pseudosociology "scholarship" then perhaps you should have done a bit more reading as a child. It's pop cultural studies, not any sort of systematic research. But then again one of the degrees I got was in the social sciences so maybe I just personally have a very low tolerance for that sort of nonsense.

      Speaking anecdotally again, if you can find another person who at the age of 10 read Rise and Fall of the Third Reich or any comparable non-fiction of the humanities ~1200 pages or more I will buy you lunch.

      At 10 I was reading comparable things. I know you and I weren't the only ones.

      I would further say that you presume much to say how plentiful kids of the caliber I was are supposed to be. In the first place, I have an IQ of 144, which, depending on whose categorizations and standard deviations you use, puts me in the top 0.2%. Of course based on current US population, that still leaves ~617k people who are as intelligent or moreso than I am, but put in personal terms, I think it's meaningful that for every five hundred people I meet, statistically only one is likely to be as intelligent as I am.

      (A) Don't overestimate the measuring capacity of the IQ test, and I say this as someone who tested off the charts as a child; and (B) even if you were incorrect about the distribution of IQs, your statement would only hold true if you were in a situation where you were meeting a completely random cross-section of people. Walk into an office building and your chances of meeting someone smarter than you increase significantly. Drop into a medical conference or bar association meeting or astrophysics lecture and it increases significantly again.

      People, however, did look on me and despair, because I was (and by the standards of most people, still am) an arrogant bastard. When I was a teenager I was an intellectual bully, and it took years for me to develop socially enough not to rip everybody to rhetorical shreds with encyclopedic knowledge and synthetic understanding in public conversation.

      In my experience people who boast about doing that aren't really able to; or at least they THINK they won the argument. I took the other track; I learned because I liked to, and not as a weapon to use against other people. When my friends need to know something about history or political science or literature they usually come to me because they know I'll be able to not only answer them, but not to be arrogant about it.

      And just out of curiousity, what do you actually do as an occupation? I'm curious where this purportedly encyclopedic knowledge brought you to.

    16. Re:You get what you pay for. by ElectricTurtle · · Score: 1

      I will admit that Strauss and Howe's ideas suffer from a selection bias that is inextricable from the model. However I think that if there are patterns in history (like those additionally posited by Dr. J. S. Lee to which I wish I could provide a link, but despite being listed frequently as source material I can't find the original of 'The Periodic Recurrence of Internecine Wars in China' online) may be necessary to look outside of conventional restrictions on modelling to begin to understand them. As long as one remains conscious of changes to normal parameters of inquiry, there may be valuable ideas that can later be refined back into parameters. Straight-jacketed methodology can be detrimental to the leaps of analysis that have been key to major advancements.

      You're quite vague about 'comparable things' ... name one.

      Yes, yes, you're fully correct about context adjusting probabilities, but that sword cuts both ways, in that outside of places where intellect is concentrated the probability decreases.

      And actually my boasting days are largely behind me. The only reason we're having this conversation is that you came in saying essentially that no teenage philosopher kings existed, to which I could not help but differ. Ironically, you undermine your own argument throughout your responses by frequently talking about how we aren't the only ones who at 10 years old were reading thousand page non-fiction of the humanities. So which is it really?

      I get nervous about saying too much about my occupation (clearances get revoked), suffice to say I work as a contractor for the US government in a security support role. For what it's worth, it manages to support a wife and kid and a mortgage on a suburban house. That's enough for me at 26. Bigger question is will I manage to get a PhD before I'm 40...

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    17. Re:You get what you pay for. by nomadic · · Score: 1

      Straight-jacketed methodology can be detrimental to the leaps of analysis that have been key to major advancements.

      But lack of rigorous methodology can be especially counterproductive in sociological inquiries, because it's so easy to be convinced by convenient categorizations and correlations. For example, geography as an academic subject was discredited in the first half of the 20th century by a series of unfortunate theories regarding geographical determination of racial characteristics. Anthropology as a discipline narrowly missed a lot of the same problems. This idea of generational types sounds like a lot of the same thing.

      You're quite vague about 'comparable things' ... name one.

      Of course I'm vague, this was 24 years ago. I don't remember specific book titles, but I do remember reading them, and having an educated adult-level grasp of say, history, through my entire life. After a few thousand books they kind of get blurry.

      And actually my boasting days are largely behind me. The only reason we're having this conversation is that you came in saying essentially that no teenage philosopher kings existed, to which I could not help but differ. Ironically, you undermine your own argument throughout your responses by frequently talking about how we aren't the only ones who at 10 years old were reading thousand page non-fiction of the humanities. So which is it really?

      No, my position has been clear throughout: no generation is somehow more intellectual or significantly more educated than the others. I never said "no philosopher kings," but simply that if you were to essentially put a 15 year old kid now against a 15 year old kid from the 80s, 70s, 60s, etc. you are, on average, not going to notice that extreme a difference. In every generation you are going to have a small yet not insignificant number of people who are smart and well-educated. It's unfair to the current generation to somehow portray them as ignorant savages.

      I get nervous about saying too much about my occupation (clearances get revoked), suffice to say I work as a contractor for the US government in a security support role. For what it's worth, it manages to support a wife and kid and a mortgage on a suburban house. That's enough for me at 26. Bigger question is will I manage to get a PhD before I'm 40...

      Well good luck with that, I always felt like I'd be missing out if I didn't get a PhD by 30 (which I didn't, just a JD), though I guess it's tough with a family, and after meeting a lot of PhDs I find myself far less impressed by the title than I used to be.

  34. It really bothered me by whitedsepdivine · · Score: 0

    It is spelled percent not "per cent".

  35. yes: neuroticism, hypochondria by circletimessquare · · Score: 1

    are modern ailments

    when you are deeply involved in making sure you simply have a meal to eat, you don't have the opportunity to dwell on the absence of a problem producing anxiety about having an absence of a problem

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  36. Yes, but... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    ...what about the euthanasia?

  37. Meta-diagnoses by jones_supa · · Score: 2, Interesting

    Autism ... Asperger's ... "AHDHD--Drug him up!"

    The stuff I quoted - today we have these what I call "meta-diagnoses". Some people might actually medically suffer from these, but they are also slapped around negligently with the basic message "something's wrong in you". It's increasingly hard to distinguish whether they really mean anything or not.

    Same thing with the anti-depressants which are distributed like candy. Of course now that we've begun to call mental illness a "disease" it works great for the pharmaceutical companies to sell their crap. Medication for a disease, right. But mostly it's just a wrecked mental state, how can you call that disease?

    1. Re:Meta-diagnoses by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      But mostly it's just a wrecked mental state, how can you call that disease?

      Because in some people, there is a physical problem that causes them to be depressed.

      The problem is that some people are "depressed" because they broke up, their dog died, or maybe their life just sucks. They get drugged silly too.

    2. Re:Meta-diagnoses by remmelt · · Score: 1

      Same thing with the anti-depressants which are distributed like candy. Of course now that we've begun to call mental illness a "disease" it works great for the pharmaceutical companies to sell their crap. Medication for a disease, right. But mostly it's just a wrecked mental state, how can you call that disease?

      How are you, Tom Cruise?

  38. Um hello by Broken+scope · · Score: 1

    Kids who were still in school or College during the depression were doing pretty fucking well. It typically meant there parents still had some kind of money, or it meant that there parent didn't need their help scraping together food money.

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  39. Therapies other than drugs exist by tepples · · Score: 1

    For the record, ADHD is aneurodevelopmental disorder. It can certainly _cause_ many mental health issues if left undiagnosed and untreated

    Treatment, yes; medication, not immediately. I read grandparent as implying only that parents and teachers shouldn't knee-jerk to get a psychiatrist to prescribe controlled stimulants before trying other therapies. For example, failure to concentrate in school could come from not being able to read what the teacher is writing on the whiteboard.

    1. Re:Therapies other than drugs exist by Runaway1956 · · Score: 2, Insightful

      "able to read what the teacher is writing on the whiteboard."

      How 'bout a touch of humor and nostalgia mixed together? When I was in school, we had blackboards. Mostly, they really were black - but sometimes they were a dark green, or a dark blue. But, we wrote on those blackboards with chalk - not some newfangled dry-wipe markers.

      Anyway - at some point, I remember learning that we no longer had "blackboards", but "chalkboards". "Huh?" says I. "It's the same old blackboard it's always been!"

      But, no, with the civil rights movement, it was somehow derogatory toward black PEOPLE to notice that a black BOARD was black.

      Oh-key - here's the humor. I'm gonna sue people for calling a white board a white board.

      I'm not even really white, but most people assume I'm white when they meet me, so that's close enough for my discrimination lawsuit!

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      "Windows is like the faint smell of piss in a subway: it's there, and there's nothing you can do about it." - Charlie Br
    2. Re:Therapies other than drugs exist by biryokumaru · · Score: 1

      Sorry, but there's no such thing as racism against white people.

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    3. Re:Therapies other than drugs exist by Gilmoure · · Score: 1

      The man's keepin' you down whitey. You gonna' take it? /sarc

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      I drank what? -- Socrates
    4. Re:Therapies other than drugs exist by Cyrus20 · · Score: 2, Funny

      dry erase board then if you will

    5. Re:Therapies other than drugs exist by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      They're not called "chalkboards" for some kind of anti-racist paranoia. "Chalkboard" is a more generic term that includes the kind that are green in addition to the kind that are black. Furthermore, "chalkboard" dates to 1935-1940 (according to http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Chalkboard), which is way before the civil rights movement.

    6. Re:Therapies other than drugs exist by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      "Sorry, but there's no such thing as racism against white people."

      Of course not, Mr. Black Panther.

    7. Re:Therapies other than drugs exist by An+Onerous+Coward · · Score: 2, Informative

      Yes there is.

      The first time hate crime legislation was tested in the Supreme Court, the legislation was being used against a group of black men who beat up a white teenager. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Wisconsin_v._Mitchell

      Something I wrote elsewhere:

      Hate crimes legislation does not say "the punishment for X is greater if the victim is (black, gay, disabled, atheist, etc.)" Laws like that have been passed, but are invariably struck down as unconstitutional.

      What the legislation says is that, if a person was targeted for having a certain religious viewpoint (regardless of what that viewpoint may be), or for their orientation (again, regardless of what it might be). Hate crime laws protect gay and straight, Mormon, Jew, and atheist equally. It's not a message that one group is more valuable than another, but a simple recognition that differences exist, hatreds and biases exist, and we there are certain ways that we cannot react to those feelings.

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  40. Self-Esteem Movement by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    I personally blame the self-esteem movement which encouraged the children of the 80's and 90's to feel invincible and that we hold the ability to do anything. This can be VERY overwhelming. On the other hand, a child, that grows up only knowing the career that his mother/father laid out for them, will be more content have no reason to set him/herself up for failure. Is happiness really worth the innovation? I think so. It's a pain of life that everyone has to go through eventually. If you can handle anxiety and depression, then how do you expect to leave college/high school?

    Secondly, I also blame the public school system. Like always. Anyway, The United States public school system is built to be very broad and universal. Cookie cutter education. Meanwhile in Germany, students are tested in the 4th grade in order to decide, which type of career they would like to have. At the age of 9 or 10 they are already planning out their lives, without anxiety. This sets them on a track until they reach Secondary Education, which is separated into 4 different types of schools(Hauptschule, Realschule, Gesamtschule, and Gymnasium). Each with a different path. Hauptschule is considered the least academic, which you graduate in 9th grade. The Realschule requires a certain level of academic success, but only lasts until 10th grade. The Gesamtschule is considered to be situated between Hauptschule and Realschule, it requires no level, but can lead to college and the length of time varies. The Gymnasium is considered the high level education that precedes the University. It heavly prepares you for university, while also requiring certain academic marks to gain entry. It lasts until 13th grade, but can be cut short. Each level of school has a different diploma or Abschluss. Also, if a student finishes Gymnasium and passes his/her exit exam(Abitur), (s)he will be automatically accepted to any university at the cost of the government. To receive Abitur is a big accomplishment, which can only be compared to the International Baccalaureate Program.

    This means that you could be 18 with 2 years of work experience already on your belt, while here in the states we are pressured to attend college. The university is where everyone is flocking. It's turning more into Baby Sitting than education. The University is miserable. It requires you to attend a class that you teaches you how to use charts. And they will label a business class. Really? I felt like I was in elementary school looking at the times tables. I was able to obtain a full-time career without a degree in the field that I love. I am a software developer. With maybe 2 years of college. And everything I learned there was practically useless. Even the classes that I loved are not helping me now. Currently, I am a PHP/MySQL developer, but my school only offers some simple database classes that I already learned in High School. Don't even try and find a PHP programming class.

  41. Finally an explanation.... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    ...of how Obama got into the white house.

    Rest comfortably tonight folks - with 1 eye open if you have a teenager in the house.

  42. "Orchid Children" by RevWaldo · · Score: 4, Interesting

    An interesting article from The Atlantic discusses a new view of children with genetic dispositions to "flawed" personality traits, such as ADHD. Much of it is based on a long-term study of a captive colony of rhesus monkeys.

    In the barest of nutshells: while many children are like dandelions, and could survive and even prosper in any environment (poor, lousy parents, bad schools, etc.), others are like orchids. Raised in the wrong environment they become screw-ups. Raised in the right environment they thrive, and the traits that are considered flaws become strengths, even allowing them success beyond their dandelion brethren.

    A good read even if you think they're wrong. One nice takeaway from the rhesus monkey study: in the long run, bullies never win.

    1. Re:"Orchid Children" by troll8901 · · Score: 1

      One nice takeaway from the rhesus monkey study: in the long run, bullies never win.

      Would you be willing to share a bit more of this?

    2. Re:"Orchid Children" by Reziac · · Score: 1

      This is all fine and dandy, but the problem arises when you cultivate the orchids to the point that they dominate the population. The fact is, without the majority being dandelions, the species won't survive. You need a lot of dandelions to take care of even just a few orchids. Conversely, orchids cannot take care of dandelions, or even of themselves should their world go pear-shaped.

      Civilized society may be approaching that point where the orchids begin to dominate -- and then what happens next time there's a major upheaval??

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    3. Re:"Orchid Children" by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I'm a bully, you insensitive clod. Now who wins?

    4. Re:"Orchid Children" by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0
      The article addresses this:

      Thats what Suomi thinks may have happened in the run-up to what he calls the Palace Revolt (a dominant family in the monkey colony lost control to a usually deferring one, after some of the dominant family's members fell ill). Fionas injudicious aggression proved disastrous for her and Family 1. But Family 3, a group that had been diplomatically deferring to Family 1 for years, dramatically improved its fortunes by mounting an uncharacteristically aggressive and sustained counterattack. Suomi speculates that in the tenser, more crowded conditions of the large colony, gene-environment interactions had made some of the monkeys in Family 3, particularly those with more-reactive orchid alleles, not more aggressive but more potentially aggressive. During the period when they could not afford to challenge the hierarchy - the period before Pearls departure - aggressiveness would have led them into unwinnable, possibly fatal conflicts. But in Pearls absence the odds changed - and the Family 3 monkeys exploited a rare and decisive opportunity by unleashing their aggressive potential.

      The coup also showed something more straightforward: that a genetic trait tremendously maladaptive in one situation can prove highly adaptive in another. We neednt look far to see this in human behavior. To survive and evolve, every society needs some individuals who are more aggressive, restless, stubborn, submissive, social, hyperactive, flexible, solitary, anxious, introspective, vigilant - and even more morose, irritable, or outright violent - than the norm.

      All of this helps answer that fundamental evolutionary question about how risk alleles have endured. We have survived not despite these alleles but because of them. And those alleles havent merely managed to slip through the selection process; they have been actively selected for. Recent analyses, in fact, suggest that many orchid-gene alleles, including those mentioned in this story, have emerged in humans only during the past 50,000 or so years. Each of these alleles, it seems, arose via chance mutation in one person or a few people, and began rapidly proliferating. Rhesus monkeys and human beings split from their common lineage about 25 million to 30 million years ago, so these polymorphisms must have mutated and spread on separate tracks in the two species. Yet in both species, these new alleles proved so valuable that they spread far and wide.

      As the evolutionary anthropologists Gregory Cochran and Henry Harpending have pointed out, in The 10,000 Year Explosion (2009), the past 50,000 years - the period in which orchid genes seem to have emerged and expanded - is also the period during which Homo sapiens started to get seriously human, and during which sparse populations in Africa expanded to cover the globe in great numbers. Though Cochran and Harpending dont explicitly incorporate the orchid-gene hypothesis into their argument, they make the case that human beings have come to dominate the planet because certain key mutations allowed human evolution to accelerate - a process that the orchid-dandelion hypothesis certainly helps explain.

      How this happened must have varied from context to context. If you have too many aggressive people, for example, conflict runs rampant, and aggression is selected out, because it becomes costly; when aggression decreases enough to be less risky, it becomes more valuable, and its prevalence again rises. Changes in environment or culture would likewise affect an alleles prevalence. The orchid variant of the DRD4 gene, for instance, increases risk of ADHD (a syndrome best characterized, Cochran and Harpending write, by actions that annoy elementary-school teachers). Yet attentional restlessness can serve people well in environments that reward sensitivity to new stimuli. The current growth of multitasking, for instance, may help select for just such attentional agility. Complain all you want that its an increasingly ADHD world these days - but to judge by the spread of DRD4s risk allele, its been an increasingly ADHD world for about 50,000 years.

    5. Re:"Orchid Children" by radtea · · Score: 1

      Raised in the right environment they thrive, and the traits that are considered flaws become strengths, even allowing them success beyond their dandelion brethren.

      Thanks for this article, although it is written in that annoyingly formulaic Atlantic Monthly style, right down to the personal annecdote.

      Threre's a lot of really interesting material there, though, and it's good to see our understanding of the role of enviornment/gene interaction becoming a primary focus of study. The role of parents simply getting down on the floor and being with their kids can't be underestimated.

      But I'm as certain as anything that on /. in 2025 there will still be people asking, "So is it nature or nurture?" as if the two were orthogonal. And there'll be people ignoring these results because they are based on evolution. And there will be "spare the rod and spoil the child" types who just like to hit people, and aren't about to let science or the well-being of their kids stand in their way.

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    6. Re:"Orchid Children" by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      > One nice takeaway from the rhesus monkey study: in the long run, bullies never win.

      Hmm. But if the orchid theory is true, doesn't that mean that bullies really DO destroy the lives of those around them before the bullies themselves fail?

  43. The FDA depends on the pharmaceutical industry by copponex · · Score: 1

    Until the FDA is publicly funded again, the pharmaceutical industry will continue to abuse the entire medical industry.

    For the first 86 years of FDA's existence, from 1906-1992, all of FDA's funding came through the U.S. Treasury. In other words, everyone -- industry, people -- paid their taxes, and FDA got appropriations out of the budget.

    Starting in 1992, unfortunately, a law was passed that said for a large proportion of the work done by the FDA on new drug applications, the money's going to come directly, quid pro quo, from the industry. If they want a drug reviewed, they pay directly to the FDA to have the drug reviewed.

    -Sidney Wolfe, Director of Public Citizen's Health Research Group

    source

  44. Just maybe... by shrtcircuit · · Score: 2, Informative

    Perhaps if parents took the time to PARENT, got their kids off the venti mocha-latte-quad-shot-whipped-lookatmeI'msocool drinks, made them put down the cell phones and television, and taught them how to live like real actual people in the real actual world, this wouldn't be an issue.

    No shit they have unrealistic optimism! In a world where you can't fail, where it's everyone else's responsibility to prop you up and deal with your shit, you are probably the most optimistic motherfucker on the planet! The problem is once it becomes everyone else's responsibility, it becomes nobody's responsibility, and we're left with a bunch of dysfunctional retards sitting there whining because mommy and daddy can't give them their lattes and tell them it's going to be OK.

    These kids don't have anxiety, they have a lack of understanding of life. They're freaked out over what is quite honestly stupid, piddly things because they're not allowed to experience failure anymore. The answer, according to a bunch of "experts", is to drug them up so they stop caring about it and go back to being irrelevant little twats.

    1. Re:Just maybe... by russotto · · Score: 1

      Perhaps if parents took the time to PARENT, got their kids off the venti mocha-latte-quad-shot-whipped-lookatmeI'msocool drinks, made them put down the cell phones and television, and taught them how to live like real actual people in the real actual world, this wouldn't be an issue.

      If you'd examine the real world (beyond your pristine lawn) a bit more carefully, you'd notice that the real world is full of cell phones, television, and 20-oz coffee drinks. So taking the kids away from them does not get them in touch with the real world; quite the opposite.

  45. Stop projecting.... by Temujin_12 · · Score: 1

    I've noticed that often children suffer at the hand of their parent projecting things that happened (or didn't happen) to them when they were growing up onto the child.

    * Pageant parents
    * Religious or atheistic fanaticism
    * Overly protective parents
    * Parents who don't discipline
    * Parents who insist on treating their children the same as adults
    * Overly pushy with sports/music/school (or any other subject)
    * etc. etc. etc.

    I've found that I've had to stop myself sometimes from projecting onto my own kids and remind myself that while I've had both positive experiences I want (and should) share/teach to my children and negative experiences I don't want them to have, I have to remember that they have their own personalities and desires and that that is what I should be fostering, not my own.

    I bit that often if you sat down and talked with parents who go to extremes in parenting, the root of the problem could be found in something that happened or didn't happen to them in their childhood. Of course, there are kids who really are mentally ill and do need help. But that is a decision meant solely for a trained, competent medical physician, the parents, and the child.... NOT teachers who simply want a classroom that is easier to deal with.

    On that note, if I have a teacher of my children come and tell me they have a mental disorder, I'll thank them for their feedback but then ask them to present their degree in medicine. When they can't I'll politely tell them to keep their mouth shut unless they are qualified to make such a diagnosis.

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    1. Re:Stop projecting.... by vlm · · Score: 3, Funny

      atheistic fanaticism

      What is that? A "deafening silence" when teaching your kids about "creation science" or is it some other combination of oxymorons?

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    2. Re:Stop projecting.... by Temujin_12 · · Score: 1

      atheistic fanaticism

      What is that? A "deafening silence" when teaching your kids about "creation science" or is it some other combination of oxymorons?

      Fanatic: a person motivated by irrational enthusiasm
      Atheist: someone who denies the existence of god

      So atheistic fanaticism would be a person who holds atheistic views with irrational enthusiasm. Generally, fanaticism is rooted in the refusal to accept or respect people with differing viewpoints on a matter you feel passionate about. I short, it's intolerance.

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    3. Re:Stop projecting.... by happy_place · · Score: 1

      Good points. IMO, the real underlying trouble is that kids are facing adult situations earlier and earlier. In each of your bullet points above, you could put them all under the same category, that children are being asked to perform as adults before their minds are developed to do so. There are additional issues as well, including sexuality (something that has been proven not to be fully formed in many people until well into their twenties) and more adults forms of entertainment. Remember when you were a kid and were afraid of the dark? Kids aren't allowed to be afraid of the dark, cuz they've already seen hundreds of murders and are afraid of being morbidly obese and victims of terrorism. Parents didn't used to share every fear, every urge, every craving with their children. They allowed their children to be children. Now, it's kinda like that guy that puts a beer-can in a baby's hand and then laughs it up...

      And the schools don't help, much. They've got more and more to teach, including things like "how not to be a bully". Academic pressure to read before kindergarten is enormous these days. And many parents have nothing better to do with their 1.5 children, than to turn their kids into their own personal hobbies. They almost have too much attention. Even some of the organizational skills they try to teach to children in early school, imo, can have detrimental effects if a child isn't ready to be an accountant at age 6. Honors programs are great if a kid is self-motivated, but too often parents see it as a failure on their part if their child didn't make it into the top tier math class.

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    4. Re:Stop projecting.... by mikael_j · · Score: 2, Insightful

      Atheist: someone who denies the existence of god

      I noticed a couple of things, first off you didn't write "a god", you wrote "god" in a way that implies that you assume there is a specific god.

      Secondly, an atheist is generally considered "one who believes that there is no deity" (from my dictionary and from what I can tell most dictionaries seem to agree with that definition) which would basically make fanatic atheism some form of fanatic disbelief.

      /Mikael

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    5. Re:Stop projecting.... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      More irony please!

    6. Re:Stop projecting.... by Velodra · · Score: 1

      an atheist is generally considered "one who believes that there is no deity" (from my dictionary and from what I can tell most dictionaries seem to agree with that definition)

      Atheism is often used to mean "not believing in a god", and many who call themselves atheists use that definition. There are of course different degrees of atheism, some atheists believe that there is no god, some see the existence of a god as possible, but very unlikely, and some just don't believe in any particular god. You could argue that only the strongest form of atheism is "true atheism" and use other names for the others, but it is often useful to group all these together, and atheism is usually the word we use to describe that group.

  46. you americans are f*ck-d up, by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    neo-fascism at work, besides being screwed by own government now becoming cows of the farma-corporate - between others - that's the price you pay for living the brain-washing dream of the american life,
    they wanted you as oxes - now they have you.
     

  47. Please die quickly. by FatSean · · Score: 4, Interesting

    If you want more hardship in your life, go find it. Go join the army or something.

    I consider my 'laziness' to be an adult realization that the 'go go go work till you drop' culture in this country is poisonous.

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    1. Re:Please die quickly. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      "I consider my 'laziness' to be an adult realization that the 'go go go work till you drop' culture in this country is poisonous."

      We're looking forward to paying for your welfare. Thanks.

    2. Re:Please die quickly. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      You sound fat.

    3. Re:Please die quickly. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I second this. Go find hardship. Dosn't have to be joining the army though. Try hitch hiking, and don't let your self give up even if it takes all day, don't bring money, or food, and set out to go 20 miles or more. Some times something as simple as that can change your life.

    4. Re:Please die quickly. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Or that there is no contradiction in being mindful of hardships and inconveniences and maintaining a casual/informal/gentlemanly attitude. You don't need to (and probably ought not to) work endlessly or endure perpetual hardships. However it should be realized that those things are unavoidable or even necessary in society, and often results in the exclusion of leisure. All that means that leisure needs to be appreciated rather than just consumed. James Bond is an example, even if it is fanciful and exaggerated.

      Perhaps the USA has its own peculiarities, however the principle of moderation and balance applies to life in any society.

  48. which class? by nten · · Score: 1

    I'm guessing spelling class.

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    1. Re:which class? by jgtg32a · · Score: 1

      Eye halve a spelling chequer

      It came with my pea sea

      It plainly marques four my revue

      Miss steaks eye kin knot sea.

      Eye strike a key and type a word

      And weight four it two say

      Weather eye am wrong oar write

      It shows me strait a weigh.

      As soon as a mist ache is maid

      It nose bee fore two long

      And eye can put the error rite

      Its rare lea ever wrong.

      Eye have run this poem threw it

      I am shore your pleased two no

      Its letter perfect awl the weigh

      My chequer tolled me sew.

        But seriously what did I spell wrong?

    2. Re:which class? by jridley · · Score: 1

      I think you meant that you were bored in class, not that you were a flat piece of wood in class. I could be wrong though.

    3. Re:which class? by zmollusc · · Score: 1

      In context, I reckon you miss-spelt everything bar 'a spelling it came with my It plainly my Eye strike a key and type a word And it say am wrong It shows me a As soon as a is It long And can put the error ever wrong have run this poem it I am pleased letter perfect the My me'

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    4. Re:which class? by PakProtector · · Score: 1

      We need a +5, Thing of Beauty moderation.

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    5. Re:which class? by jgtg32a · · Score: 1

      Hold up a sec I didn't write this,
       
      http://www.latech.edu/tech/liberal-arts/geography/courses/spellchecker.htm
       
      I got it from there, I have a habit of throwing it down when people get pissy about homophones (excluding their/its)

    6. Re:which class? by shentino · · Score: 1

      Since all the words appear in the dictionary, your spelling is spot on.

      Your grammar, however, sucks.

      Grammar is a high level mechanism that is context, meaning, and even situationally dependent. Asking a computer to verify grammar and expect perfection is an exercise in folly.

      So instead, computers focus on the spelling, and rightfully trust the humans running them to handle the complex grammar according to what circumstances demand.

  49. Hypomania and mania are not "happy" by quintin3265 · · Score: 5, Insightful

    A lot of people here seem to be of the opinion that mental illness is something that is simply being overdiagnosed; people can "get over it," that medications are evil, and that kids should be kids. Obviously, these people have never been mentally ill.

    Sure, it is true that today's kids' lives are nothing like the brutal, short, backbreaking existences that were lived by our predecessors, who in 1850 worked over 60 hours a week and barely managed to stay alive for 30 or 40 years. On the other hand, if you've ever had a manic or hypomanic episode, you will know that mania is not a positive state of mind. Mania is one of the worst possible states of existing, only barely better than death and far worse than depression. Imagine not being able to keep a thought in your head for more than 1 second at a time. Imagine how, one day you can go from being considered for a promotion at your office to being fired a month later because you can no longer comprehend programming concepts or remember what was going on a few minutes ago. Imagine it becoming impossible to function with people because you have lost the ability to determine what is the appropriate thing to say in social situations, and so as a result you say nothing.

    Most importantly of all, imagine that nobody believes that anything is wrong, that doctor after doctor can't come up with any diagnosis for years, and when you try to get help for yourself people hang up on you because you can't follow the conversation to understand what's being talked about. Imagine that sometimes you are so unable to think that you have trouble determining whether someone is speaking to you or not. Imagine that the rest of the world just keeps going on while you see no reason to keep living through such hell if nobody can figure out what's wrong with you. So you just sit in front of the TV night after night while the images go by too fast to process. Mania is perhaps the most depressing thing that one can experience. This explanation of mania being a sense of extreme well-being is wrong and needs to be better communicated in the mainstream sources, who tend to simplify these diseases as some kind of "excess happiness." There is no happiness in mania.

    Of course there is an increase in the incidence of these diseases among people living today. In the past, why would someone want to continue living if their new life was as a stupid and uncontrollable shell of their former selves? The only solution back then was suicide. While suicide is not a good choice today because there are many treatments available, it may be shocking to hear that death certainly would be better than living like that with no hope for a cure. Is it so far-fetched to say that the diseases were less widespread because people culled themselves?

    Stating that kids should go off drugs because of the "evil pharmaceutical companies" is naive. The scientific literature does not adequately describe these diseases, and probably never could. Everyone has felt pain, so it's easy to describe the treatment for a headache. But while there are some very smart people here, those who are not ill are simply not able to comprehend what mental illness really is, and should not be offering comments about whether suffers should undergo treatment.

    1. Re:Hypomania and mania are not "happy" by FoolishOwl · · Score: 1

      I appreciate your post. While responses on Slashdot are often toxic, I was astonished that the responses here were so uniformly hostile to the very concept of mental illness. Mental illness may be over-diagnosed; however, I've known a lot of people who undoubtedly suffered from mood disorders, and had to find ways to cope with those disorders. I was clinically depressed for years -- it was a real problem.

      I do find the original article's claims dubious; in particular, I don't think it makes much sense to compare rates of mental illness in the present with the rates of mental illness in an era in which only a minority of intellectuals and medical professionals had a meaningful understanding of mental illness.

    2. Re:Hypomania and mania are not "happy" by kramerd · · Score: 1

      Except that all of that is irrelevant to the fact that mental illness is overdiagnosed. The people who actually have problems aren't being ignored. Those are generally obvious, and the ones that aren't can still tell that something isnt quite right. If it was just borderline cases that were overprescribed, I would be OK with it. Its the ones who don't have issues but get medication that are the problem.

      I went to public school and was socially inept. Luckily, my parents were smart enough to recognize that I was just smarter than my peers, not mentally incompetent. This probably happened because my father is a psychiatrist, not a psychologist.

      Its not because a company makes money that kids should go off drugs. Its because they dont need drugs.

    3. Re:Hypomania and mania are not "happy" by Ihlosi · · Score: 1
      While responses on Slashdot are often toxic, I was astonished that the responses here were so uniformly hostile to the very concept of mental illness.

      Here? It's the same everywhere. People who have never been affected by mental illness (directly or indirectly) don't "get it" since it's not a visible impairment (like having no arms or legs) or even one that's easy to understand (being blind or deaf). They just think "Hey, my brain's working within its normal operating parameters, and so must be everyone elses."

    4. Re:Hypomania and mania are not "happy" by AbRASiON · · Score: 1

      Really depends on the person pal, I can assure you when I'm in mania, god I wish I could stay there. It's too good to be true (literally) the other side, that is so vastly worse it's not even funny.

  50. This is a problem? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    So what if kids have more disorders now? Is this a bad thing? Seems to me like they'll just be more interesting people than old farts from the 50s who always talk about the "good old days."

    1. Re:This is a problem? by dwiget001 · · Score: 0, Troll

      >

      Ah, great question.

      They have more now, because the mental health industry says they have more, so people in the mental health industry can use this to justify even more dollars poured into their worthless hands (psychiatrists and big pharma).

      Plus, a lot of new "disorders" have been invented since then, so go figure.

      They are almost as bad as the Man-Made Global Warming -- er -- Climate Change -- er -- Global Cooling fear-mongers.

    2. Re:This is a problem? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Yes, with all this hypomania floating about, they'll be ranting and raving about hope, change, and good days to come!

      Oh wait.

  51. Yeah, right... by gillbates · · Score: 4, Interesting

    Pay is based on accomplishment and achievements...

    No, it is not.

    My investment banker counterpart earns about twice what an engineer does, and does even less work. True, the world does not care about your feelings, but the salary you receive is largely dependent on:

    1. The position you work (or career field), and
    2. How well you can sell yourself to your employer.

    The first is usually a matter of education, the second, largely a matter of confidence.

    One thing that negotiating a higher salary has taught me is that companies will always attempt to hire at the lowest possible salary. Being able to do a job 10 times better than the other guy doesn't mean a thing (wrt salary) if you don't exhibit confidence during the interview. Confidence goes a long way toward convincing an employer that you are worth more than the average guy.

    I realize people *should* be paid in proportion to their ability and work ethic, but that's not how the real world works.

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    1. Re:Yeah, right... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1, Informative
    2. Re:Yeah, right... by techhead79 · · Score: 1

      I think for everyone that has been passed up for promotion cause they other guy knew the right people or had leverage on the same system that you don't sees things the same way. The real world is in no way related to the work you do or how impressive you are. It's about selling yourself to the other guy. Selling a piece of trash and getting them to think it's a rose. Perception of others is far more important than any actual work you do. No point in bitching and whining about it...just how it is. not that you are...I'm bitching and whining!

    3. Re:Yeah, right... by TerranFury · · Score: 1

      I'd agree with your overall sentiment, but

      My investment banker counterpart earns about twice what an engineer does, and does even less work

      isn't really true. They do make a ton of money, but they work absolutely insane hours -- to start at least. I think in large part it's hazing of the new guys by the older ones.

      Still, they're paid too much relative to the net value they contribute to society.

    4. Re:Yeah, right... by phantomfive · · Score: 1

      So what? That doesn't mean anything, any smart employee will try to get hired at the highest possible salary. Usually if you are into salary negotiation time, the company has already decided to hire you, so you can negotiate hard. In the worst case they will just say, "that's too high" and you can offer lower. Because they definitely want you by that point.

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    5. Re:Yeah, right... by JesseMcDonald · · Score: 1

      I realize people *should* be paid in proportion to their ability and work ethic, but that's not how the real world works.

      Whatever gave you that idea? People "should" be paid according to their productivity. Ability and work-ethic are irrelevant unless others want what you're producing and are willing to pay for it.

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    6. Re:Yeah, right... by JRHelgeson · · Score: 1

      Pay is based on accomplishment and achievements...

      No, it is not.

      Funny, you say "No it's not" and then proceed to agree with me. If the investment banker accomplished nothing, do you think he'd be highly paid? If you accomplish nothing, you provide value to NOBODY, even if you do really feel good about yourself - you're still worthless! Who cares how much someone sells themselves to their employer, if they do not perform, they're not just worth less, they're worthless!

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  52. I blame the Caesarean Section by scorp1us · · Score: 1, Interesting

    I've seen claims that mothers who have a Caesarean section give birth to kids who don' have the ability to handle stress. The theory goes something like: the final pains labor trigger the a release of hormones into the fetus that then give the child the ability to deal with stress. I would also assume that a woman too afraid to go natural might also have a genetic predisposition of an inability to handle stress, but that is my own conjecture.

    Unfortunately all the articles I found to link to are behind a paywall. I did however find this about a possible asthma link

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    1. Re:I blame the Caesarean Section by xandroid · · Score: 1

      I'll call bullshit. I was born via a C-section and I can handle stress fine, and don't have Asperger's nor ADHD nor asthma.

      Also, C-sections aren't always because a woman is "too afraid to go natural". My and my sister's infant skulls were too large to fit through our mother's pelvis.

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    2. Re:I blame the Caesarean Section by rochberg · · Score: 1

      I've seen claims that mothers who have a Caesarean section give birth to kids who don' have the ability to handle stress. The theory goes something like: the final pains labor trigger the a release of hormones into the fetus that then give the child the ability to deal with stress.

      I am extremely skeptical of these claims. The idea that there are particular hormones that are released during such a short time period with such life-long effects seems a bit of a stretch to me. I'm not saying it's impossible, but it does seem like a bit of deus ex machina to imply that there is some omnipotent hormone behind it all.

      I find it much more likely that a combination of factors, particularly cultural and social, offers a better explanation. See here and here for a couple of articles examining the link between Cesareans and psychosocial effects. Cesareans often result in a certain amount of psychological trauma for the mother that often impairs the mother's ability to bond with her child immediately. To complicate matters, for multiple reasons, delivery rooms often take the child for a number of examinations immediately after the birth. As a result, some mothers do not get to see their child's face until almost an hour after they are born. In my opinion, it would be better to let the mother see the child right away, even if only for a few seconds, before whisking them away. Additionally, better post-partum psychological support would be greatly beneficial toward reducing the effect of this trauma.

      Another factor to consider is what became the dominant US culture for child-rearing in the 20th century. Breastfeeding declined immensely (though it's been making a comeback recently). There is also a cultural bias toward early detachment (such as letting babies "cry it out") that is unique in the history of the world. Co-sleeping is another common element in other cultures that is frowned upon in the US. (And if you are concerned about the risks, there are plenty of products that place a barrier around the baby that makes it nearly impossible to roll onto them. There are also bed-side cribs that offer nearly the same benefits of co-sleeping without the risk of roll overs.) As an alternative, my wife and I adopted the attachment parenting philosophy. The basic idea behind AP is that developing a strong bond with your infant and toddler helps to create a much better foundation for life-long emotional and psychological stability. That is, babies first need to feel secure and loved before they can begin to mature into independent children. You may disagree, but we've been happy with the results.

      I would also assume that a woman too afraid to go natural might also have a genetic predisposition of an inability to handle stress, but that is my own conjecture.

      Wow. That is one hell of an audacious statement. I have yet to find a woman who is "too afraid to go natural" and would prefer to have a Cesarean. My wife and I spent months going through Bradley method classes (i.e., no medication at all), and still ended up with a Cesarean. The reality is that the vast majority of women do not want to have a Cesarean. But the current state of the American health care system has lead to a dramatic rise in their occurrence. Two major factors are the lack of adequate childbirth preparation and the scarcity of doulas to advocate for the mothers. The decision to have a Cesarean is often

  53. That's because... by rgviza · · Score: 1

    There have been a lot of mental diseases invented between 1938 and now.

    My non professional opinion is that they are mostly all the same disease. It's called "the human condition".

    Life sucks and everyone is different. When a common coping mechanism, which is viewed as negative, is found in lots of people BINGO! New disease, new drug created to treat it, $$$$! This is not exactly a good thing unless you own a drug company or get paid $200 an hour to be their friend.

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  54. Been there by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Three years ago I would have had the same opinions on the topic as many others on this site. All spouting off with no personal experience. Until you live it like I have you know absolutely nothing about what it is like dealing with a child with mental health issues.

    I can't explain why my 12 year old became anxiety-ridden, depressed, self-destructive, possibly even suicidal. I can tell you it was a horrible couple of years filled with a lot of experiences I thought would never happen to me and my family. There were times I thought my wife would lose it from the stress.

    Whatever it was, he seems to be mostly past it now that he is close to 15. He's back in regular school, and is as pleasant as a typical teen. I hope he stays that way. But I've learned that a lot of things are completely out of my control.

  55. 1938 to 2007 by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    there are already some decent criticism of the study already here (and some not-so-decent criticism). The closest is the criticism of normalizing the data, for reporting, presumably. But it seems to me, that there is a much larger proportion of youth in high school now to take part in the study that would not have been available to take it in 1938. And I don't mean in a there-are-a-lot-more-youth-today kind of way, but rather, a greater proportion would be on the farm or taking care of the local corner store or shining shoes, perhaps, than trying to make it in an adult society that expects study, but peers expect to take it easy (and sell on the street corner?).

    Now, Yale is still a very prestigious school with a great deal of competition for entry, but anxiety over a place in society must be considerably less when amassed wealth is almost required for entry.

    it does make for stunning political statements when one can say that youth in the country would appear to be more anxious about the future during a time of plenty (the study is from data collected in 2007) than at the tail end of the Great Depression, at the end of the Dust Bowl era, and even if I might agree (with other slashdot intelligentsia) that the kids now have it easy and they should get off my lawn, but i don't see how their data can possibly correct the discrepancies.

  56. skewed measure; biased sample by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 2, Informative

    As a recently licensed psychologist, I have this to offer:

    First, the study primarily used the MMPI (and presumably the MMPI-2) as its basis for symptom measurement. Any reasonable clinical psychologist would not use a single measure to outline a person's psychological profile. To do so would be unethical at best. Secondly, the MMPI-2 (and its precursor) has its share of validity questions. So the MMPI(-2) does not exactly provide the most accurate representation of symptom measurement. Another nitpicky detail: the MMPI-2 has not been validated for use with individuals under the age of 18. Thus the people represented are not exactly children any more.

    Second, the study used a sample that consisted primarily of college students. Now if it had used a wider sample, including those from families who cannot afford to send their children to college, I would expect that the range and severity of psychological problems would be more pronounced. I work in a clinic that works primarily with children and families in an urban area where there are chronic concerns of unemployment, community violence, and child maltreatment (i.e., sexual abuse, physical abuse, exposure to domestic violence, neglect). Granted, this is an entirely different population than what the study addressed, but the notion of telling kids that they don't have problems and should stop being wussies shows a notion of that speaker being trapped inside his/her own bubble and not realizing a much broader world where someone can have a completely different life than him/herself.

  57. Forgot to mention... by Nutria · · Score: 1

    I had a stepson that was on all that ADHD krud. When we got custody the first thing I did was ... started disciplining him when he needed it.

    I'm VERY surprised

    1. he didn't run back to the other parent, or
    2. your wife didn't have a cow when you first were stern with him.
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    1. Re:Forgot to mention... by TrisexualPuppy · · Score: 1

      Wife's a strict disciplinarian, and we got full custody for a good reason.

    2. Re:Forgot to mention... by Nutria · · Score: 1

      Wife's a strict disciplinarian

      Well that's good...

      we got full custody for a good reason.

      Hmmm. There are other ways for a child to make hell of a parent's life. Go to the school counselor and claim, "they beat me!!!"

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  58. Lack of sleep by LordSnooty · · Score: 1

    Could it be due to lack of sleep? Recent studies suggest a link. http://www.timesonline.co.uk/tol/life_and_style/health/child_health/article6916053.ece

  59. Diet changes? by vlm · · Score: 1

    Overall, an average of five times as many students in 2007 surpassed thresholds in one or more mental health categories, compared with those who did so in 1938.

    Did they correct for dietary changes such as massive caffeine intake, and HFCS intake causing huge blood sugar level spikes and troughs, tending to exaggerate and encourage anxiety related incidents?

    Also did they correct for illegal drug use? Not so much that illegal drugs "make you crazy", but they make it more difficult for borderline people to pretend that you're not crazy, lack of inhibition, strange new motivational factors, side effects of physical or psychological addiction, etc?

    Finally, in the olden days, slightly "off" people were simply locked in the attic, more or less, and would probably not have been tested, but now they'd be mainstreamed into classrooms and tested, I hope they corrected for that.

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  60. Some really desolate lawns by Angst+Badger · · Score: 5, Interesting

    One of the things I find most annoying about Slashdot is the knee-jerk reflex some people have to respond to any unflattering comparison of the present day to some time in the past with, "Get off my lawn!" Yet strangely, when such mockery is genuinely appropriate in response to most of the comments here, it's nowhere to be seen.

    I don't know what parallel universe most of the commenters are coming from -- whether most of them are childless or just get their version of reality from FOX News, I don't know -- but the environment in which my teenager finds herself is highly competitive, not remotely cocooning or coddling, and in many ways significantly more stressful than the one I grew up in. And I don't have her on any medication.

    The thing that strikes me about today's kids is how obsessively schedule-driven they are. My daughter never seems to actually stop thinking about school or what she has to do next, and most of her friends are the same way. I suspect that this is at least partly responsible for the level of anxiety and depression in kids today. Far from lacking competition and discipline, the environment in which they move seems to have a surfeit of it, at least compared to my teenage experience in the 1980's, which was notoriously manic in its time but seems comparatively relaxed today.

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    1. Re:Some really desolate lawns by yuna49 · · Score: 1

      I don't know what parallel universe most of the commenters are coming from -- whether most of them are childless or just get their version of reality from FOX News, I don't know -- but the environment in which my teenager finds herself is highly competitive, not remotely cocooning or coddling, and in many ways significantly more stressful than the one I grew up in. And I don't have her on any medication.

      I gave up my mod points to make another comment in this thread, but I have to endorse the parent comment as spot on. My daughter, a senior in high school, works harder than I ever did and carries a much larger load of homework than I ever did, despite the fact that I graduated from what was then a competitive private high school and attended an Ivy League college. We're just wrapping up the college admissions grind, and it's far more competitive and stressful out there than it was when I graduated in 1967. In her suburban Boston public high school, kids are told they must apply to at least eight colleges in varying categories of selectivity. Applying even to five colleges was pretty rare in my day; a minimum of eight would have seemed overkill.

    2. Re:Some really desolate lawns by zzsmirkzz · · Score: 1

      at least eight???? What the hell are they smoking?? I applied to three was accepted to them all and picked the one I thought I wanted. In retrospect, I was completely lazy and didn't even do basic research on any of the schools to ensure they fit my lifestyle. I picked popular schools that sounded good to ensure I'd know people when I got there. But applying to eigth schools is completely nuts looking at the work the should be done on selecting one.

    3. Re:Some really desolate lawns by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      One of the things I find most annoying about Slashdot is the knee-jerk reflex some people have to respond to any unflattering comparison of the present day to some time in the past with, "Get off my lawn!" Yet strangely, when such mockery is genuinely appropriate in response to most of the comments here, it's nowhere to be seen.

      Are you suggesting that the Slashdot demographic is not the most obvious source for parenting advice? Preposterous! What parent wouldn't want to the hear the insights from a crowd of fat loosers sitting in their mother's basement all day, living off burritos and soda??

    4. Re:Some really desolate lawns by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1, Interesting

      Obsessively schedule-driven is not the same as competitive, nor necessarily disciplined. Although punctuality implies at least some level of discipline, unless the kid themselves are drawing up and implementing the schedules, it doesn't mean much. If someone else is doing all the scheduling, that just means someone else is doing all the thinking and planning for them, and they're just following instructions.

      If they're being kept constantly in motion moving from micro-managed pre-planned activity to micro-managed pre-planned activity, how do you expect them to ever be able to think and plan for themselves? Or be at ease with doing something without being told when and what to do?

      This kind of silliness seems to be just as long-term poisonous as the general attitude the GP describes. The US seems to be a mix of both, depending on location and demographic.

      "There are only two places in our world where time takes precedence over the job to be done: school and prison." William Glasser

    5. Re:Some really desolate lawns by FoolishOwl · · Score: 2, Insightful

      I agree, generally. I'm writing this while taking a break from going over my stepson's high school applications. The applications for high schools are more complex and difficult than the applications for colleges I remember in the late 80s.

      Another thing that's concerned me for some time is the near-complete absence of a positive vision of the future. Such a vision can help one overcome any tribulation; the absence of one can make any tribulation seem crushing. In the late 1930s, there were many such visions in play: the democratic republic were still a new idea in much of the world; that science could lead rapidly and directly to practical improvements in daily life was a new phenomenon; the labor movement was broadening its base and establishing its legitimacy; the several varieties of socialism were attracting mass followings; and, hideous as most now recognize it to be, fascism and totalitarianism were seen as visions for a future.

      Now, most visions of the future seem to be nothing more than the belief that if we overcome various threats, to the global environment in particular, we may continue to live as we do now, except maybe with better web browsers. Even radicals seem to have very circumscribed visions of what may be accomplished. So, the kids I meet seem to look forward to individual prosperity, or to helping forestall various potential crises, and that's it. It's not much to lean on in times of trouble.

  61. Recent trip outside of Canada/USA by Vamman · · Score: 1

    Recently, I've taken a trip outside of North America to Cuba. A nation that receives some really bad vibes among the American capitalists, even today. While visiting Cuba we stayed at a 5 star resort which I have to say was one of the most beautiful resorts I have ever seen. The people work hard for what they have. They live in a socialist society there where everyone contributes back to the government which is suppose to equally disperse among the nation. People have literally nothing there for the most part. It intriqued me while driving from the airport to the resort watching people in the local villages so when I arrived at the resort I walked right back off of it and walked for 6 miles and I quickly realized that this simplistic "savage" life - as one British snob blond said, was actually a life that people appeared to be happy with. Life seemed very simple but pleasant among the children, youth, and adults. People obviously strive for more and there is more in a nation where the mega corporate empire above them has put down the movements of Cuba as a movement of the enemy. While I don't agree with the socialist movement in the way it was designed in Cuba, I can agree that the hungry mothers, with little or no processions, living in grass shacks with 6 kids appear less stressed than the imperialists soccer mom with 1 kid stressing over those SUV and $1 million dollar suburb payments. We need to reach a balance in North America where the chicken tastes great, the cellphones work well, and people live a little more simpler than we have been trying to do since WWII. Make a year of military school mandatory for all children, shut down the local grocery store for a day in a normal week, provide people with access to the land like we once had, stop encouraging everyone to live in NYC, and just maybe people will realize what they already have and appreciate it a little more and stop stressing over wanting more, more, more.

    1. Re:Recent trip outside of Canada/USA by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Recently, I've taken a trip outside of North America to Cuba. A nation that receives some really bad vibes among the American capitalists, even today. While visiting Cuba we stayed at a 5 star resort which I have to say was one of the most beautiful resorts I have ever seen. The people work hard for what they have. They live in a socialist society there where everyone contributes back to the government which is suppose to equally disperse among the nation. People have literally nothing there for the most part. It intriqued me while driving from the airport to the resort watching people in the local villages so when I arrived at the resort I walked right back off of it and walked for 6 miles and I quickly realized that this simplistic "savage" life - as one British snob blond said, was actually a life that people appeared to be happy with. Life seemed very simple but pleasant among the children, youth, and adults. People obviously strive for more and there is more in a nation where the mega corporate empire above them has put down the movements of Cuba as a movement of the enemy.

      Of course the resort was beautiful. The Cuban government spends lots of the money that it is supposed to be redistributing to the people of Cuba in order to make the resort attractive to tourists. Tourists who will in turn shell out more money to the Cuban government who can then use that money to buy luxuries for the muy importante members of the government and their loyal lackeys, leaving whatever remains to be used for the benefit of the downtrodden slaves it calls citizens.

      These slaves do work very hard for what they have, which amounts to basically jack-fucking-squat. And of course they strive for more. They know their lives could be much better than they are now, where they have jack-fucking-squat, and are simply glad to have barely enough to eat.

    2. Re:Recent trip outside of Canada/USA by OrangeTide · · Score: 1

      well most of the stress and anxiety in modern life we inflict on ourselves. People in the US tried to move out to the suburbs in the 40s and 50s to get away from the stress. (creating rush hours as everyone has to commute long distances)

      When you have nothing your stress is simple and not self-inflicted. You worry about food and shelter, if you have it, you're alive and happy to be so. If you don't have it, you're soon dead and you have no more worries.

      Tossing the wrong sort of kids in military school would likely induce a great more anxiety in them than just continuing to do what we already do. I really must say that pat answers that try to cover a broad range of people and cultures is a little bit offensive.

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    3. Re:Recent trip outside of Canada/USA by Vamman · · Score: 1

      Soon dead? Life expectancy in Cuba is 78 years old. That is better than many countries. It is a bit offensive I agree but so is saying that our youth are suffering mentally because everyone in today's society is a bad parent. The subs came about more in the 50s and 60s. In the 40s people had much bigger things to worry about namely the threat of war. I believe military school or something like it (hell even our high schools lack a fitness program) for teens to better themselves in many ways including discipline and health. Kids the have obvious problems physically and mentally should not be placed in these types of environments but kids that can be should be. This is not a novel concept. If you look to many European and Asian countries, the concept of sending kids to military school (or boarding schools) is very common. The USA and Canada only seems to be worried about this practice when their national safety is at risk. This is seriously flawed. The current youth don't seem to have much respect for others. When an old couple gets on the bus, kids should give up their seats, not laugh at the old fools and crank up their IPods. Kids are not very thankful for what they have overall in North America and we need to address that with instilling a little bit of respect for each other and what we have. When that is realized so will our freedom and happiness.

    4. Re:Recent trip outside of Canada/USA by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      If you're so smart why don't you go live there?

    5. Re:Recent trip outside of Canada/USA by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      If you're so smart why don't you go live there?

      Probably because Vamman thinks we Westerners can learn to appreciate life like the Cubans, without having to adopt all or most of their lifestyle.

  62. Hypomania: disorder, or adaptation? by DCheesi · · Score: 1

    As other posters have noted, current social and cultural conditions in the USA not only allow hypomania to run unchecked, but in some cases actively promote it (eg. universal self-esteem campaigns). The general assumption so far seems to be that this a negative outcome, the result of decadent living and misguided parenting. But what if it's actually advantageous?

    In the past, the flighty, risk-taking behavior that characterizes the condition had clear disadvantages; eg., spend all your money, and you might starve when times get bad. But it also has clear advantages; people with lots of energy, drive, and optimism tend to be more successful in modern social/business life.

    The thing that's changed is that in our current society, it's almost impossible to starve to death unless you have addictions, psychosis, or other major obstacles to normal functioning. Simply put, there's always a way to get by, *especially* if you're energetic and positively motivated. Meanwhile, the advantages associated with hypomanic personality traits are as strong as ever. I would argue that things have moved to a point where the benefits of some mild degree of hypomania outweigh the risks.

    Yes, the "self-esteem brigade" may be raising intolerably flighty, frivolous young adults, but in the end that may the best thing for them. (At least until TEOTWAWKI hits, and those young whipper-snappers are the first to get eaten by the zombies ;-)

    1. Re:Hypomania: disorder, or adaptation? by nomadic · · Score: 1

      As other posters have noted, current social and cultural conditions in the USA not only allow hypomania to run unchecked, but in some cases actively promote it (eg. universal self-esteem campaigns).

      Uhhh...huh? Where? I know in the 70s-early 90s those kinds of campaigns were common, but late 90s to the present I haven't seen much evidence of this. Are there any you can link to?

    2. Re:Hypomania: disorder, or adaptation? by DCheesi · · Score: 1

      As other posters have noted, current social and cultural conditions in the USA not only allow hypomania to run unchecked, but in some cases actively promote it (eg. universal self-esteem campaigns).

      Uhhh...huh? Where? I know in the 70s-early 90s those kinds of campaigns were common, but late 90s to the present I haven't seen much evidence of this. Are there any you can link to?

      The situation is indeed improving, but plenty of schools and organizations (and individual parents) are behind the curve and still promoting self-esteem with an "awards/praise for everything" approach. And the kids who are in high-school and college today were in on the tail end of the universal self-esteem bandwagon days, so they can still be considered products of that era.

      It's also important to realize that the deliberate campaigns of 20 years ago become the quiet status quo culture of today. People aren't yelling about self-esteem simply because they are already saturated in a culture of self-esteem promotion. Though the confidence-building programs have evolved over the years to reject the worst excesses, they certainly do exist in schools today; they're just a standard part of the curriculum, and are executed without much fanfare.

      Here's an article that discusses both the evolution of self-esteem programs and the changes they wrought on kids hitting college in 2005 (just two years prior to last date included in the original topic study):

      http://www.usatoday.com/life/lifestyle/2005-02-15-self-esteem_x.htm

    3. Re:Hypomania: disorder, or adaptation? by FoolishOwl · · Score: 1

      There's "The Secret,", for example.

    4. Re:Hypomania: disorder, or adaptation? by nomadic · · Score: 1

      The situation is indeed improving, but plenty of schools and organizations (and individual parents) are behind the curve and still promoting self-esteem with an "awards/praise for everything" approach. And the kids who are in high-school and college today were in on the tail end of the universal self-esteem bandwagon days, so they can still be considered products of that era.

      No, they're not. Look at the posters on this thread with children actually in high school today; they unanimously agree that high school students today are in more competitive situations than they had. You're relying on a sort of water-cooler "common knowledge" that people just repeat to each other enough that it suddenly becomes accepted "truth."

  63. A word from the young by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    As a college age student who was raised in a family that taught the value of working hard and doing well in school (without meds or coddling, thank you very much) I have seen the progression of my generation first hand. I think that causes of depression aren't so much that we expect things to go easily (though it maybe for other peers, I can only speak for myself), but that we're being forced to grow up in a world where the emphasis seems to be on the wrong things.
    High school classes are aimed at getting good grades rather than learning.
    Kids aren't taught to take responsibility for their actions, so for the few that do actually take responsibility it's hard to look around and see a bunch of jerks your age effing off, getting good grades regardless but uneducated.
    We're sent off to college, start degrees and, only being able to pay for so many classes, are stuck with our one option - whether or not it's actually what's right.
    It seems as if no one (or the school financial/scholarship system) will let it be acceptable to take off a year to work or to do a vocational skill (like being an electrician, a plumber, etc). For some reason the emphasis is on going through college as quickly as possible and working in your field right off the bat. I understand a parent's desire for their child to succeed, but how many top-level executives do we really need if kids are fine being lower level execs?
    The people who are depressed are the ones who are actually seeing the bullshit that is going on around them and are trying to be serious about their education.

    That aside, college is awkward. It's a time to grow up, usually the hard way. It's just that during the time it seems like you're the only person going through it. I'd say that most people in college go through at least one depressive stage - it's just that now we have a name for it.
    If people would take a moment to step back and stop obsessing over the motions, would talk (in person, please) one-on-one and had a little faith in honesty, you wouldn't need shrinks and pills, you could actually talk to a friend/mentor and put things in perspective.

  64. a natural side effect by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    issues come from thinking a lot about something and caring a lot about "it". in todays world, we are soo in tune with everything and every issue that you need to pay attention to everything you do. and mental issues stem from worrying. so this is a natural effect of what happens to a society that keeps on "trying" correcting itself, in my opinion.

    also, if you think about our population and whatever topic has a bell curve of opinions, it just means that the percentages stay the same on the outside of those whom have problems, but the numbers are always increasing because our population is increasing.

  65. NOT ME! I'VE GOT NEW MEDS!! by Ceriel+Nosforit · · Score: 1

    They make me drowsy and hungry. I asked for medical cannabis.

    Oh, the ironing. It shirts.

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  66. Fuck.. You by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    How convenient to blame it on this abstract group, "parents", when you know very well that it is people like yourself who are the cause of these disorders.

  67. This just in... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    America's children are spoiled rotten. Film at 11!

  68. The Cure For Youth Serious Mental Health Problems by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    TRIPLE the nightly homework assignment !

    That should keep them from ipodding and texting and so on and so forth.

    No wonder the former U.S.A. is behind China on university education.

    Yours In Perm,
    Kilgore Trout

  69. What a useless comparison by ActusReus · · Score: 3, Informative

    You can't compare "polls" or "studies" from the 1930's to 2010 because definitions and attitudes have changed so dramatically during that timeframe. For Christ's sake... LABATOMIES were still a standard and mainstream mental health practice at that time! Today pretty much anyone who's down in the dumps would say they feel "depressed", and anyone who is high-strung would say they experience "anxiety". Eighty years ago, however, they would simply say they feel "sad", or "nervous". It would be far less likely for them to REPORT such common feelings, and far less likely for the medical butchers of the time to label it as mental illness unless it were truly asylum-worthy.

    It's preposterous to say that depression and anxiety are more prevalent today than during the Great Depression, and the worst war the planet has ever known. The only thing more prevalent today is our willingness to label those states of mind as such.

    1. Re:What a useless comparison by John+Hasler · · Score: 1

      Mod parent up. It's ridiculous to compare MMPI results from 1938 to those from the 2000 version of the test. The society has changed too much.

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    2. Re:What a useless comparison by tedgyz · · Score: 1

      Thank you for saying so well what I was thinking.

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  70. It's No Wonder by b4upoo · · Score: 1

    Society has done a tremendous job in assaulting youth with actions and ideas that lead to mental illness.
                      For example the neighborhood school and the idea of growing up with classmates from similar backgrounds, similar religions and similar race give children a more stress free way to grow up. Cultural diversity is not good news for everyone. The degree of stress caused by busing and mixing varies with regions and customs. Just spending a couple of hours a day on a school bus is in itself enough to disrupt normal development.
                      Then we have insulated our kids from reality to such a degree that functioning well in the real world isn't likely to occur. As an example picture a young fellow jumping from high school into the work environment. He has no reality at all in the notion that he is viewed like a shovel. He is simply a tool to use and exploit. Yet he has stepped out of a school system which no longer allows declarations of real worth. When the worst kid in the class is defined as our last, first place, scholar reality gets shattered.
                      People have not been trained to apply less than social modes of thought. We know that schools are designed to push people away from education. We know that simply because that is what they actually do. That eighth grade teacher may preach the loving doctrine of keeping kids in school but the reality is that we sort them and dump them as they progress. One way to do that is to have colleges that are expensive. That fact alone is sufficient to dump half of all potential college students before they even get started. Then we have the loans available to potential college students. They are enough to insure that most who take those loans will be beaten down financially for most if not all of their lives.
                      To get the 30% or 40% who do drop out of school prior to college the fastest way is to teach towards the dumbest in the class. Instead of insuring that the dumb and the lazy and the misbehaved are rapidly removed from schools we push teachers to save them which translates instantly into ignoring the better students in order to meet testing standards.
                      By the time these kids are old enough to confront reality they are so twisted that they can not cope. The idea that society is more than willing to throw them into endless wars, work them to death or put them in deadly positions such as convenience store clerks in bad neighborhoods overwhelms them. Dope and booze will usually finish them off as anything more than redeemed wrecks who can somehow get by in low level situations until they die.

  71. Relax folks our social norms have shifted by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    The biggest problem with the MMPI is that it is easy to abuse. The test itself is a disturbing set of True/False questions. Google MMPI to see some samples. They aren't joking, those are real questions.

    One's answers are profiled against scales composed of how other groups answer the questions, including groups diagnosed with mental illnesses. A quick way to generate a scholarly article is to propose a new category, profile that group with MMPI and show statistical differences. A friend of mine did her entire dissertation on profiling gang members with the MMPI, and developing a index for one's liklihood to join a gang.

    The MMPI is easy to administer, but difficult to interpret correctly. It requires trained professionals. Often novices end up over-classifying someone as mentally ill. In some states the administration of the MMPI is limited by law, since one can misuse it so easily. So while it takes a lot of training to use the MMPI correctly, it takes very little to create a pop-psychology article with MMPI results.

    Given changes in society over time, the MMPI norms do shift. As a famous example, after the sexual revolution in the 70's the whole gender identification and sexual preference scales had to be completely re-worked.

    Today, I know that there are people in the world who would like to kill me (Al Queda). I do hear sometimes voices in the room that only I can hear (when I'm using my cell phone). I do know more job than my boss does.(He's a people manager; I'm an IT architect). I do feel that something is going on right now that I should know about. My friends and family are often not happy with my career. (Because the job market is bad and they worry about me.)

    Am I hypo-manic paranoid, with a touch of megalomania? Maybe that's just the way most people would answer a particular set MMPI questions today. We have devices to spread information much faster, and different expectations about the immediacy of knowledge than in 1938. So feeling the need for more information now is common, and not an indication of mental illness.

    (And no, my bowels are not black and tarry, why do you keep asking, MMPI?)

  72. The amusing part of this thread by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Is all the relentless old man posturing going on. There is quite a bit of "kids these days have it so easy, back in World War I / The Depression / The Stone Age" etc. going on.

    Sorry if I find it hard to believe that any number of Slashdot users actually lived through the first or second world wars, or the great depression, or any other number of extremely trying times in our countries history, most of which happened long before the average slashdot user was born.

    Yes, you have a legitimate point about not treating the children like porcelain dolls, but don't act all high and mighty about it. We all read the same history textbooks / wikipedia articles you did. None of us have experienced the kind of difficulty people are referencing in this thread.

    Stop trivializing the challenges and difficulties of an entire generation just for mod points. You have NO idea how these people lived, and your ridiculous posturing overt second hand information is embarassing.

  73. American kids have mental issues? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Anyone who has watched Jerry Springer knows that, and you know where we got it? We inherited it from our parents.

  74. Parenting: The problem ... and solution by Hellasboy · · Score: 1

    This is just my idea why more children exhibit issues with anxiety and other mental issues.
    I believe it's because of the overparenting kids have had in the last 20-30 years. Kids don't learn disappointment, they don't learn failure. We tell them that they are all special. These kids are growing up so afraid to fail and take risks that when they inevitably fail; their ego, psyche, whatever just crashes. Their just so overloaded with these emotions that would have been dealt with if they had failed before. They've grown up with their parents/government/teachers/anyone elder caring for them to the point where they can't do anything for themselves. There are lucky ones who reject this over coddling but they are the exception.

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  75. Mmmrf... nom nom nom by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    (stuffing face with Twinkies) I donfrt haf any idea wfut your talking abouftr.

  76. Dividing society by ElusiveJoe · · Score: 0

    Hypomania and depression - looks like two opposite forces. Or more like two sides of the same coin. Although I live in Russia, I have a feeling this tendency apply to this country as well. What I write below is only my personal opinion on what's happening.

    I think that society is dividing again, like in the Industrialization period, although this time it's not about wealth or power. It's about "spirit", if you pardon me this unscientific word. I can see two groups emerging (but it doesn't mean that these groups form all the generation).

    One consists of super confident, narcissistic, healthy, social, hyper optimistic, sometimes ignorant and impudent people. In fact, optimism is their meaning of life, keep optimism at all costs. If something gives (or should give) you positive emotions - this is it, this is life. Share it with your community, the more "positiv" (Russian word) you share, the more valuable you become. If something is sad, disturbing or just complicated - filter it, censor it, ignore it or become an exile. Their motto could be: the world is yours to play, you’re the best.

    The second group represents highly unconfident, depressed, unhealthy, society avoiding, sometimes violent and reluctant people. They feel they cannot live to modern standards. They think something is seriously wrong with them and they are obsessed with finding what is wrong with them instead of living. The world is hostile, they believe they have to strain themselves and plan everything ahead in order to survive. But the more they tighten their grip and the more planning they do, the less control they have, becoming like broken robots.

    I have no idea what reasons might be leading to this.

  77. A out of this world explication... by jeanph01 · · Score: 1

    I am currently studying the phenomenon of spirit possession. I know it is designated as crazy on this newsgroup but I take the risk of a least writing about it. From my readings, I would say that most young people today are likely to be owned by one or more bodies of deceased persons. The fact that religion and interest in what happens after death is rejected as a whole since the 40-50 could explain a large mass of people died since the last 15-20 years, with no or little spiritual cue, come back to haunt consciously or not the spirit of young people who are easy prey.
    The solution is therapies based on hypnosis and regression.

    1. Re:A out of this world explication... by gestalt_n_pepper · · Score: 1

      Why deceased persons? Why not some other sort of non-material and/or possibly intelligent entities that cause problems?

      Oh, and by the way, I hereby designate you "crazy."

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    2. Re:A out of this world explication... by jeanph01 · · Score: 1

      You're welcome ! :-)
      It's probably because of the body of a deceased person. ;-p

  78. i blame culture by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    dungeons and dragons and twilight have ruined society.

  79. Context in which data were gathered by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Conditions such as hypomania were poorly, if at all, defined during the great depression and diagnoses of such conditions would assumedly be relatively low as compared to today. Don't sensationalize the results, look at what context the data are in.

  80. Fast-food everything. by sackvillian · · Score: 1

    I think a lot of the problematic aspects of kids' lives that may be responsible for this effect come down to the fast-foodization of everything. If you define fast food as the instantaneous satisfying of urges without satisfying the underlying reasons for those urges using shit we understand to be worthless.

    Constant connectedness provides the information that we crave, but so much of it and so cheaply that we don't place much value on much of it, including the stuff that actually affects us - how many people know more about international goings-on than local?

    Social media sites allow us a steady supply of the gossip and egotism we crave without the meaningful social relationships that we really need. So many human relationships are now plagued by irony and an utter lack of sincerity

    Hours and hours of television and movies act similarly, quenching our interest in humankind and stories, but often in a eye-candy-filled, superficial way.

    Prescription and non-prescription drugs for absolutely every condition one can name, even conditions that are simply human nature.

    And obviously, fast foods (including junk food) please our taste buds but offer next to nothing in terms of nutrition. The list goes on, ad nausem. Good food, good (that are ideally physically present) friends, something challenging to labour on earnestly (while improving a skill or two), and a little relaxation does miracles.

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  81. the "victimhood industry" by peter303 · · Score: 1

    Several factions benefit from people becoming perpetual victims of some perceived illness. First are the so-called victims themselves whom qualify for remedy programs and government disability. Second are the venders of these programs like psychiatrists and drug companies. Third are politician who leverage these slights to further these careers.

  82. Really? by BitHive · · Score: 1

    Dis-ease. You really don't get how a "wrecked mental state" would be dis-ease?

  83. Wait... by The+Wooden+Badger · · Score: 1

    There is "powerful autism medication"? What is it and how can I get some prescribed? Funny thing is that I believe that some of the problem with today's kids is that there are far too many parents who refuse to medicate their kids. Anyone with a kid who honestly is attention deficit knows the difference between kid with and kid without medication. There are far too many kids today that go without medication causing problems. I don't think that it is so much an instance of more mental health problems today as it is the problems were there all along, but the understanding and diagnostic tools were either poor or non-existent. There is a whole lot of busybody parenting these days, and there needs to be more of the so-called "free range parent" philosophy, but I think there could be a whole lot more properly diagnosed and medicated conditions.

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  84. Gadgets, social networking, games by bondjamesbond · · Score: 0

    The trilogy of always on instant gratification erodes young minds at an alarming rate. Turn off the electricity, take away the smart phone, plant a garden, go camping, go to the library, don't treat them like quail eggs, and your kids will rebound at a very brisk, healthy rate. Been there, done that with my kids. No more anxiety, no more cutting - presto chango.

  85. Part of the "problem" is Time Till N People Know by RobertLTux · · Score: 1

    In this day and age if somebody "important" does something out of the ordinary (Governor Blank has a taco instead of a hotdog with lunch) then within hours of the "event"

    1 40% chance somebody will have cell phone footage of the "event" on Youtube within 2 hours
    2 traditional media will pick it up and have "coverage" on the five o'clock news
    3 by ten o'clock some outlet will have 2 talking heads analyzing his choice of toppings
    4 the next week will have various segments about how unpatriotic Governor Blank is and the calls for him to be removed from office

    (it used to be that even if we found out we would not care [and the truth was the hotdog guy was sick that day])

    yeah being in london and having to worry which kind of irish that guy is was a bit of a bad scene

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  86. Philip Larkin - This Be The Verse by kootsoop · · Score: 1
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  87. H1N1 has proven to be wimpy by circletimessquare · · Score: 1

    i actually thought SARS was going to be our grim reaper on the order of bubonic plague, and was shocked and pleasantly surprised at our ability to transcend petty international squabbles and monetary concerns to nip that killer in the bud

    AIDS has been a slow burn killer, but even that is manageable

    the bubonic plague meanwhile, occurred in the days before international media, hygiene, modern science, etc. if the bubonic plague happened today (actually, it DOES happen today, a dozen or so cases every year), it would be nipped in the bud like SARS

    what i really fear is the QUICK pandemic. the one that overwhelms our ability to isolate it and adapt to it and get ahead of it with efficient countermeasures

    if physics teaches us that mother nature abhors a vacuum, biology teaches is that mother nature abhors large monoclonal populations. humanity is hugely overpopulated, and somewhere, in the stew of microbes and viruses out there, is brewing our comeuppance. could be tomorrow, could be in 50 years, but its coming: some grim reaper is going to come and swing its scythe across the world population and hit it at 10-25% dead. i really think its inevitable. biological history says so

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  88. Divorce's are far to easy to get by Stan92057 · · Score: 0

    Divorce's are far to easy to get,we must fear the law in order to discipline our children,strangers are raising our kids because both parents MUST work to get by.Pornography/nudity is only a key touch away.Parents fear for the childrens lives so much they are not allowed outside by themselfs for fear of being taken by a child murder, Its no wonder our children are going crazy,were forcing them to be adults long before there time.

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  89. SImple: Move Out of the United States by cenc · · Score: 5, Interesting

    I am serious. I left the United States in my early 20's for good, and all my mental health problems started going away. I am happy, healthy, less stressed, sleeping good, eating proper food, more successful, and most importantly less paranoid about every little frigen thing around me. It has take years however to repair the damage caused by living in the U.S., but I continue to see it in Americans that leave the United States for good all the time vs. those that are just on vacation. They go through a decompression process that progressively that typically takes at least a couple of years for them to "normalize" when they are adults. When kids move out before the teenage years are over, they are well adjusted, happy, more engaged in the World around them.

    American culture is really really one of the sickest cultures I have seen anywhere in the World, and most of the damage is done in the teenage years. Any parent that sends their kids to a U.S. school, should be arrested for child abuse.

    1. Re:SImple: Move Out of the United States by szilagyi · · Score: 1

      Where did you live in the US? There is such variety, from moderately to quite severely warped. Unfortunately, I'm pretty sure where I live now is not one of the least warped places...

    2. Re:SImple: Move Out of the United States by skydyr · · Score: 1

      Intriguingly, studies show that people who move to a foreign culture have significantly lower incidences of mental illness, and this benefit confers to their children to some degree, though it's mostly gone by the third generation. It does not seem to matter, however, which culture you come from, and which you go to.

    3. Re:SImple: Move Out of the United States by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I'm an American college student attempting to figure out how to get out of this country, get foreign citizenship, etc. Any chance I could talk to you about the specifics of your experience? You can get in touch with me at SoulManX @ gmail.com (minus spaces). Thanks.

  90. There's a reason adults are messed up by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Several posters have pointed out that many adults are screwed up, so we shouldn't worry so much about kids. Of course, the reason adults are screwed up is because of what happened when they were children.

    Also, don't tell me how your parents treated you badly in the 70s, and you're better off for it. Looking at the world around me, it's quite obvious that it is not full of happy, well-adjusted adults.

  91. Blame neurotoxins in food and environment by dtjohnson · · Score: 0, Troll

    The food that most kids eat often contains flavor enhancers such as aspartame, sucralose, splenda, and MSG (aka 'autolyzed plant protein,' 'hydrolyzed plant protein') that have powerful neurological effects (that's why they are effective in stimulating the tongue nerve cells). Unfortunately, though, many of these substances also have toxic effects on nerve cells due to overstimulation or other means. Other neurotoxins in widespread use (compared with 1938) include solvents, lead, cell phone radiation, mercury, drugs, and high blood sugar (diabetes and pre-diabetes are much more widespread due in part to increased sugar consumption). It's likely that the increased environmental exposure of children to neurotoxins since 1938 has caused much of the increase in mental illness.

  92. Draft by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    I'm sure that it's nothing a couple of tours in the Armed Forces can't cure. It's not like there's room for them in the economy, anyway.

  93. What the hell by bytesex · · Score: 1

    Anybody posted the http://www.theonion.com/content/news/more_u_s_children_being_diagnosed - youthful tendency disorder link yet ?

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  94. Tests are too long to be taken seriously by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Psychological test have two fails:

    One is that the subjects may dissimulate their true condition, so a trend may simply result from people being more sincere.

    The other is that tests are too long. Anyone who checks the correct 200 of 1000 checkboxes and doesn't go dull and unattentive after the first 50 clearly has some condition of being differently motivated.

  95. Re: What I miss from Los Angeles... by conureman · · Score: 1

    Angelyne!

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  96. Overpopulation by Chemisor · · Score: 2, Insightful

    > Old Piotr did not have enough food to feed his entire family!

    Gee, I wonder why. Maybe having five children when he couldn't even afford to feed himself had something to do with that. The poor with a brood of children have no one to blame for their poverty except their penises.

  97. Fear is the Answer by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    I was scared to death of my parents. Today, the parents are the ones that are afraid. My brother, who was in one of the first groups of school kids to be preached to about "their rights" and "spanking is abuse" has no respect or fear for my parents and tells them off all the time (even now, as an adult). I believe the lack of the element of fear is why the kids are so screwed up today. Injuries are prevented with ridiculous amounts of protective gear, there is no repercussion for illegal activities (in Canada at least, I may not be speaking for everywhere) due to the Young Offenders Act (I know a kid that defrauded a bank and had no charges pressed because the legal fees would have cost the bank too much money, if I defrauded the bank I would have gotten locked up) and on top of all that parents are afraid to discipline their children because they believe that Social Services will take their kids away. I got the belt on the arse or the bare hand if the belt was too far away. Bring back corporal punishment, at least in the home if not in the schools as well.

  98. Where's the study? by seandiggity · · Score: 1

    This story has been carried verbatim by (at least) two dozen big news outlets. But I really, really wish the study was made available when the researchers decided to speak to the press; what this story amounts to is an ad for the upcoming issue of Clinical Psychology Review. It might be important to, y'know, take a look at the data and methodology of the study before discussing its conclusions all over the Web. What good is RTFA when the primary source is currently unpublished?

    Anyone else wanna see scholarly print journals replaced with something like arXiv?

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  99. The real name of "Mental Problems" by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    This simply reflects the flaws in the liberal concept of everybody wins, nobody loses, as well as the concept of not being responsible for your own actions. Back in that time period, people realized that if you screwed up, you would pay the price. They also knew that "you win some, you lose some". Children of a great many countries have never had to face these facts. It may also be due to the fact that they can see that the powers that be have sold them down the river, considering them no more than fodder for their personal gain. In short, they have been broken, to the will of the power elite. Orwell saw this coming as far back as the 1940s. Most kids can't even form an opinion of their own because they can't. They have been "dumbed down", and therefore lack the mental acuity, and indeed the tools to do so. Mental health? I would call it despair.

  100. A modest counterpoint: help the needy by jonaskoelker · · Score: 2, Interesting

    I think you good a good point. I think I have a good counterpoint. I also think the best point is somewhere in between: figuring out where your point applies, where mine applies, and where some compromise or alternative applies.

    Stop being a bunch of wussies!

    Agreed---to the extent that this is the right solution. Some people need to stop being wussies.

    A kid shouldn't be taking medication for anything less than a serious physical problem. You don't give a kid powerful psychotropic drugs just because they're rebellious or shy.

    That's an interesting opinion. Is that based on any evidence regarding the safety and effectiveness of the "null" treatment plan? Does it depend on what the psychiatric diagnosis is?

    In any case, on to what I think people may want to think about:

    Some people really need help!

    It may very well be that people are being overdiagnosed. But some people are being diagnosed correctly.

    Imagine being bullied every day; each day someone makes fun of you for no reason. They criticize your clothing, your hair, your way of speech, anything, everything. Nobody helps you, even when you cry for help. Nobody comes and talks to you. Nobody tries to be your friend.

    Might you start to get the impression that nobody likes you? Or that nobody will ever like you? Nobody will ever love you?

    Will that make you shy away from trying to make friends? From asking girls out on a date? Will your subsequent loneliness and lack of affection, love and sex throw you into a depression? Will it make you commit suicide?

    If there's a person in this situation, do you think they deserve help? If they could be made less shy, could be taught to approach people and say "Hi, I see you're into ${interest} too. Want to hang out and ${interest} some time?" or "Would you go out with me?" (and have someone answer yes), and that makes said person happy and have a normal (if modest) social and romantic life, isn't that an improvement?

    Granted, just because someone calls you ugly and you feel unhappy about it for a few days doesn't mean you should be doped up and talk to a shrink. But if you get into a negative spiral, you should be pulled out.

    They'll have plenty of time to dope themselves into a stupor and cry at a psychologist's office when they're adults.

    Why not intervene early? If you have poor social skills which causes rejection which causes fewer opportunities to practice your social skills which causes poor social skills---and so forth in a negative spiral---wouldn't you want to be pulled out of it sooner rather than later?

    For those who really need help, what you're suggesting is postponing treatment until the condition has worsened and the patient has suffered a very unhappy childhood and adolescence.

    You don't want that to happen to anyone, do you?

  101. On a related note... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    99.99% more U.S. adolescents in 2009 believe it's 2009 than the same age group in the depression era...

    1. Re:On a related note... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Apparently a small percentage believe it is still 2009...

  102. what an adorable post! by nimbius · · Score: 1

    "kids today" also have an incredibly diverse environment of bioaccumulative toxins and endocrine disrupters found in millions of household products they use everyday. everything from the gel in their hair to the shoes on their feet include a myriad of complex polymers and synthetics known for everything from cellular level mutagenic interaction to neurologic damage and reproductive harm. Every pot and pan theyve used since birth has likely been frosted with a thick coating of teflon as well. to simply assume this scientific study implies kids are whiny is bordering on criminally irresponsible. I'll presume youve concluded climate change is bogus science, and the product of and over-reactive, conspiratorial scientific community as well?

    We are slowly poisoning ourselves, and indirect scientific research of component ingredients in most of the average household chemicals and products we use every day seems to substantiate this hypothesis from the scientific community. As corporations like dupont and dow chemical are loathe to provide any specifics whatsoever on some of their most complex and unstudied chemical compounds, we will likely continue to see an increase in pharmaceuticals designed to combat the symptons many of these chemicals induce.

    Foreign manufacturers arent to be excluded from this claim either. third-world and developing nations have played their fair share in ensuring flagrantly toxic chemical compounds such as cadmium, lead, arsenic, and melamine are found in a swath of everyday low-priced value-centric family-oriented products at your local big box store.

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  103. All I wanted was a Pepsi by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    I was in my room and I was just like staring at the wall thinking about everything, but then again I was thinking about nothing. And then my mom came in, and I didn't even know she was there. She called my name and I didn't hear her and then she started screaming "Mike, Mike!" And I go "what? Whats the matter?" She goes "whats the matter with you?" I go "theres nothing wrong, mom." Shes all "don't tell me that! You're on drugs!" I go "no mom I'm not on drugs. I'm ok, I'm just thinking, you know? Why don't you get me a Pepsi?" She goes "No! You're on drugs!" I go "mom, I'm ok. I'm just thinking." She goes "No! You're not thinking, you're on drugs! Normal people don't be acting that way!" I go "mom, just get me a Pepsi! Please, all I want is a Pepsi!" And she wouldn't give it to me! All I wanted was a Pepsi, just one Pepsi, and she wouldn't give it to me! Just a Pepsi!

  104. Hypomania is almost normal by forceofyoda · · Score: 1

    Once we diagnose 51 percent of them with something, doesn't that just make it "normal"?

    1. Re:Hypomania is almost normal by foobsr · · Score: 1

      Once we diagnose 51 percent of them with something, doesn't that just make it "normal"?

      Good point, if the distribution is proper, even 30% will do (like 'normal' intelligence).

      On a side note, the administered MMPI was already characterised 'crap' when I was a student (~1970++), though I well understand comparability issues in a longitudinal study.

      CC.

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  105. -Wa clean compile by epine · · Score: 1

    Overall, an average of five times as many students in 2007 surpassed thresholds in one or more mental health categories, compared with those who did so in 1938.

    It only takes two words to frame the result with intelligence, yet so few reporters surpass this easy threshold. A gem of a sentence. I'm rendered completely unable to snark.

  106. Less time in Church by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    They need to spend less time in Church worrying about the rapture, and more time enjoying life.

  107. I call bullshit! by pigwiggle · · Score: 1

    It just so happens I recently looked into the emerging childhood rickets epidemic here in the US. My wife and I just had our first child, and an article in the New England Journal of Medicine (my wife is a physician and subscriber) caught our attention. The emerging rickets epidemic is due to the lack of vitamin D, as well as other fat soluble vitamins, in breast milk. Women are breastfeeding longer, and parents are prolonging introduction of solid foods until later, and further infants are sheltered from the sun. At around 6 months an infants pre-birth stores of vitamin D become depleted and they begin to develop a deficiency. If you have any credible evidence that there are a significant number of malnourished obese children in the US, lets see it.

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    1. Re:I call bullshit! by Zarf · · Score: 1
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    2. Re:I call bullshit! by Zarf · · Score: 1

      I also like this link
      http://evoandproud.blogspot.com/2009/06/what-caused-rickets-epidemic.html ... but it's no way reputable and does not prove my point. In fact, you win. See... I can't define the terms of winning and you can. So I concede.

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  108. What. The. Fuck. by Soldats · · Score: 1

    Ok I have had enough of the knee jerk reaction comments here let me tell you a little story about myself .

    I am 22 I am pretty much part of this generation that has the higher mental illness rate and I believe every fucking word of it. The environment kids have to go to everyday is truly depressing you have enormous amounts of social pressure to conform, I know because I was different and payed for it in the form of social death. I moved to where I live now when I was 7 I moved from an all Italian neighborhood where I couldn't walk 5 feet without bumping in to a friend/family member to a northeast suburb where I could walk a mile without meeting anyone my own age and when I went to my new school I met with a hugely different environment in which no matter how hard I tried to make friends no one wanted to be mine because I had an imagination and was therefore "weird". So now I am about 9 to 10 years old with no friends because if you talked to me you were "uncool" (which is the end all be all in this place) wondering why this is all happening and that's when I start feeling angry, not just "pissed in my cheerios" angry but extreme uncontrollable rage angry, naturally my grade's started falling and my teachers noticed I wasn't doing my homework anymore and if they tried to talk to me about it it wouldn't even seem like I was listening because I wasn't. School transformed for me it became a place of daily torture that was to be endured because I "had to go" and there was no fucking way I was taking it home with me in the form of homework or school projects. around the 6th and 7th grade my parents were seeing a trend in me the whole not doing homework and increased outbursts at school weren't going away so my parents decide to take my to a psychologist fast forward about 2 years and 3 suicide attempts later and im getting out of grade school getting ready to enter highschool working 14 hours a day 7 days a week for no pay (we had a kitchen were running at a local pool club that wasn't bringing in any money) at this point I am "cured" and I say "cured" because you never really are truly cured of the injuries I received you just learn how to cope with it. I go into highschool have a great time and for the first time in a very long time I was happy (straight A's btw for all of those who like to call the kids of this generation lazy/stupid) , but when I got to college I encountered a highly social environment but I found myself unable to get close enough to anyone to be friends or more because I still had an irrational fear of people from when I was in grade school so I drop out after the first semester and go into a deep depression and start seeing my psychologist again fast forward about another three years and that brings us to present day where I have had a few jobs (all of which have terrible pay and no benefits) am once again "cured", doing the best I can and looking for a girl who understands me ( I met one quite by accident but due to a truly tragic set of circumstances I didnt have chance to date her but that's another sad story) and I am once again approaching that state we all call Happiness.

    Thats where the story ends for now but its not over I still have to carry with me the scars I received as a child I have few friends but I keep close those that I have, I have fallen in love and been heartbroken(which btw was worse than any other emotional pain I have experienced before). I am the nicest guy in the world these days I am friendly but quiet and will help anyone out with almost anything they ask of me, which is needless to say a far cry from what I once was.

    Every now and then I'll see specials on TV trying to get to the root cause of why these kids going into schools and public places with assault rifles and explosives and I laugh because I know EXACTLY why they do it, and when you get lucky and get a guy or girl that doesn't shoot themselves at the end and people ask them why they did it, the response is invariably either an vicious insult or a "I had to do it" but no one understands. Yes the

    1. Re:What. The. Fuck. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Its quite saddening to see many in here blame the victims for their misfortune.

      See http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Victim_blaming

      Every person has his/her own sad story to tell. It especially hurts when a person is betrayed within a society in the form of exclusion or abuse. I wouldn't expect a child or even a young adult to have developed an effective way to deal with such situations on their own.

      I'm actually glad psychiatry has advanced so much in the last couple of decades that many have access to proper treatment and care rather than ridicule that was prevalent not so far back in the past.

  109. The school system is to blame... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    School systems today are more or less prisons. Every moment there you have to worry about being bullied. Given the overcrowding and overly apathetic teachers and school administrators it's no wonder anxiety is such a problem. I remember every day walking home I had to wonder if I was going to be attacked or harassed by one of the gangs.

  110. Blame women by thetoadwarrior · · Score: 1

    We've seen an increase in children being over mothered and even the government becoming more of a nanny state while women have gained more power.

    Coincidence? I think not.

    1. Re:Blame women by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      We've seen an increase in children being over mothered and even the government becoming more of a nanny state while women have gained more power.

      Coincidence? I think not.

      Is that you, Ann Coulter?

  111. Re:American youth have it easy - even though... by KharmaWidow · · Score: 1

    "We had one neighbor, Piotr, who had several children." If he was poor, why did he have "several" if any children? People who have children and cannot afford them create their own circumstances. Was Piotr unable to do basic math?

  112. MODERATORS!! MOD PARENT DOWN!!!!!!!!!! by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Attention, moderators. This man is posting a piece of flamebait to try to get a troll to get the parent poster to troll. Please watch out for log0n!

  113. Wag the dog by jvonk · · Score: 3, Funny

    Bullshit. "Big Pharma" doesn't make up disorders. They make drugs and then test which disorders they might be able to target.

    ...and then popularize the disorders that are matches.

    "Do you have P.A.D.? Nearly eleventy billion Americans have this potentially deadly disorder. Why have you never heard of this before? We at the *cough*bristolmeyerssquibb*cough* P.A.D. Coalition are trying to get the word out about P.A.D. now that we found that Plavix can be used to treat it! Call your doctor *now*... you may already be dying of something no one has ever heard of before last year!"

    That pretty much summarizes the TV commercial I saw last week. Wag the dog, indeed.

    1. Re:Wag the dog by Svartalf · · Score: 1

      Heh... The way they got a chemical relative to Methamphetamine and Cocaine (Methylphenidate, otherwise known as Ritalin to the public...) to be prescribed to kids was very similar.

      They're flogging Peripheral Artery Disease cures now on TV? One wonders just precisely what side effects that crap has. I shuddered at the lists of some of the more recent meds for things like depression and cholesterol control...I would think that the illness that the med is fixing would be less severe than the "cure" if that list is even remotely true.

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    2. Re:Wag the dog by jvonk · · Score: 1
      My favorite are the drugs with ironic or egregious side effects. Off the top of my head...
      • Abilify - for "breakthrough" depression that your other depression meds aren't handling. Side effects: suicidal thoughts
      • Symbicort - for chronic asthma control. Side effects: increased risk of asthma-related death
      • Elildel - for eczema (dandruff is an example, no doubt this is for more than that). Side effects: death
  114. Wait a minute! by hesaigo999ca · · Score: 1

    >Overall, an average of five times as many students in 2007 surpassed thresholds in one or more mental health categories, compared with those who did so in 1938

    We also have 5 times more population you gnit. No one ever factors time into their equation.

    Same as with Avatar....wow the biggest grossing movie, the biggest expenditure, etc...etc...
    You can't even compare this to 10 years ago to Titanic for christ's sake. We don't pay the same anymore to go see a movie!
    As well, the cost of making the props or the film or paying the actors has gone up...so of course it costs more today then yesterday!

  115. A triumph of pharmacology! by Locke2005 · · Score: 1

    Today's kids are medicated more than any other generation in history, and yet, by high school, they have worse mental health than any other generation in history! Obviously, we're not giving these kids enough drugs!

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  116. 2nd Generation effect... by refactored · · Score: 1
    Yip. You guys had it tough... and were tough. Those who weren't tough enough died.

    And now you have created a world view where being tough and succeeding is all that matters.... small wonder that the 2nd generation is a trifle stressed even in the midst of seeming plenty. I dare say if conditions get that tough again they'd either "harden the fuck you", or die... or fall back on alcoholism and the "gin and valium" of your forgotten peers.

  117. Thanks, Rush! by serutan · · Score: 1

    Blaming the problem on one thing is Limbaugh-esque simplemindedness. Kids don't need overprotective parents to make them think something's wrong with them. Modern advertising hammers that message home hundreds of times a day, because telling people they're okay the way they are doesn't sell products. The whole structure of our society today is different from 1938. Kids whose original parents are still together are in the minority. Large families were the norm in 1938, but today most kids have at most one sibling to emulate, learn from and commiserate with. The majority of today's moms work outside of the home, whereas they didn't in 1938. People make and do far fewer things for themselves today, from food preparation to car maintenance. Solitary activities like web surfing and computer games have replaced most family time. Parents seem to have plenty of time for their careers and very little for their kids. Maybe the preoccupation with child safety is an attempt to compensate for that. But what do I know? Do I look like a psychiatrist? Get off my lawn!

  118. Same test used in 1938? by binaryartist · · Score: 2, Interesting

    I dont know if anyone wondered whether a test used 1938 would be relevant in 2010? For eg: If a kid was question about being gay in 1938 and if he thought that being gay was OK, he would have been judged abnormal...I would guess? This question does not make much sense in the world today

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  119. Make sure the cure isn't worse from the disease by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    I suffer from diabetes. One of the side effects of diabetes is depression. So my doctor gave my fluoxetine (Prozac) for depression. One of the side effects of fluoxetine, in addition to the diarrhea, dehydration, sweats, and flushing (all of which I've been experiencing lately) is that it... (wait for it!)... raises your blood sugar! No, really... the drug given to combat the side effect of diabetes makes the diabetes worse!

    Then of course there is this study, which shows that the effects of most major "antidepressants" are indistinguishable from that of placebos!

    Now I'm really depressed!

  120. Lack of limits are the problem by Roger+W+Moore · · Score: 2, Interesting

    Kids today get emo and suicidal because they have been given everything

    I strongly disagree. I was extremely fortunate and had an excellent childhood. Certainly I never wanted for the essentials and had plenty of toys, games etc. However, growing up the the UK of the 70's and 80's, I also had limits. If I messed around at school I got into trouble with the teachers, if I got unruly at home I got into trouble with my parents. The problem I see today is that kids actions have no real consequences: somehow it is never their fault its a "syndrome" or a mental health problem or whatever.

    If your actions never have consequences then is it any wonder people lose the will to live and develop mental health issues? After all life is all about interacting with society and changing things. Of course having consequences also means that sometimes you are wrongly punished: someone will lie about what you did, you won't be believed etc. but, while you obviously want to minimize this (so no crazy "zero tolerance" policies), I really believe that this is a good thing in the end because it gives kids a practical lesson in WHY they need to behave e.g. make sure that you behave honestly so that people will believe you when it really matters, always treat people fairly because it makes you really mad when you are not treated fairly etc. The problem is that nowadays this is hard to implement because kids parents call in the lawyers and you end up with judges applying laws intended to deal with adult crimes and not with kids misbehaving at school or in public.

    1. Re:Lack of limits are the problem by Nadaka · · Score: 1

      I fail to see how you are actually disagreeing with me? Perhaps it is because I didn't express myself clearly? The argument you are making is the same as mine, except that it appears you are placing the onus of providing children with structure and consequences on the educational system instead of the parents.

    2. Re:Lack of limits are the problem by Roger+W+Moore · · Score: 1

      Sorry - I read your post to put the major emphasis on the material things whereas I think it is the structure and consequences, regardless of wealth.

      In the same vein I was not intending to put the onus on the educational system instead of the parents: it needs to be both. Given that we are a somewhat disappointed in the discipline at our kids' school that may have leaked through into the post more than was warranted!

  121. Not really. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    The adult-children will simply ask their parents to hire a lawyer to sue the college into awarding them a 4.0 and a diploma simply for enrolling.

  122. Of course... by Windwraith · · Score: 1

    ...We are paying the mistakes of the previous generations. The #1 cause of "messed up individuals" is bad parenting.
    When I was a child, my mother physically abused me until she broke her own hands. Then she swapped to tactics of power-mongering and psychological abuse that still keeps to this day. Any mistake or anything she saw as a offense (not as a "wrong thing", she doesn't care about education), it meant to sleep on the street for days. She suffers a form of autism and paranoid behavoir inherited from her family branch.
    That person suffered 2 or 3 years of her life and made sure my brother's and my life was a mess. We got no basic education or "street wisdom" at all. I had absolute prohibition to go out or hang out with friends, so I turned distant. Fuck, when my brother was like 7 she made him swallow soap to "cleanse him up".
    Every single mistake is punished harshly with insults, and any new info she obtains on you is used as a weapon immediately.
    This person doesn't leave home anymore except for groceries, and has one of those phobias to bacteries and stuff, wearing gloves to do any single action. My brother eventually followed her steps, and is now unable to leave home out of paranoia and "following her example". I live with them as I can't afford an apartment with my low salary.
    My father divorced her when I was a kid, it was relatively new back then. I didn't care much but we lived without moneys for some years, which was hard. He also is the most distant person ever, being extremely friendly on presence but never remembering about his offspring otherwise. No birthdays or holidays, he's totally oblivious.

    Sounds like "I just need to do things right", but it's easy to say when I don't know how the hell the right way is. I can have an idea but I don't know for certain, only theories, and there are things I am still realizing at this point, realizing how non-existent my education was. I was forcefully isolated and shaped to the whims of a mentally unstable person, and it took me several years to realize what the fuck was going on. At this point I might still carry her fucking stigma without realizing. It's hard to undo bad parenting even knowing the problem. Every week I had to heard how I was a failure in a condom, and taunts that are more out of a verbal fight than any attempt at education.

    All of this caused a large number of mental diseases, most importantly Narcolepsy (falling asleep anywhere without notice except at bed. I can even fall asleep walking, on the bus, at work...) and Irritable Bowel Syndrome from the lack of sleep, which only allows one meal a day under risk of severe diarrhea and pain. I can only medicate the second because I get funky side effects from the benzodiazepamines I was prescripted for narcolepsy, and that helps getting a relatively normal life. Still, no one will ever recognize it as a handicap, they will just think of a day they didn't sleep well and consider it a minor thing...but I have had accidents for falling asleep without noticing, with multiple injuries. Also the lack of energy and willpower and depressions triggered by lacking sleep.

    Anyway I digress. Everyone I know who is miserable even with money and survival means, has parents that shouldn't have been allowed to bear children, simply. I regard my mother as garbage, for being such an evil, arrogant and energy-draining bitch, and for not doing what she had to do. I know that when I can hold myself without taking care of those close-ins (rentals here are way more expensive than the US with lower minimum wage), I am not seeing her again. Maybe my brother...he was made a subhuman by her actions but he kicked ass when he was a kid.

    Don't blame youth, blame who made them whiny, diseased bitches. You will find the one that gave them life is the reason that life is miserable, more often than not.

    Hey, at least no one in that shitwad of a family I have gets drunk, it's a definite plus.

  123. Yep, Our Generation, the Worst Yet by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1, Interesting

    Give me a break. I am 23 years old. I was born in the 80's and went to college in the latter half of the 2000's. I just completed my Bachelor's degree a year and a half ago. Most of my friends are still in college or are just now graduating. I am a part of this generation that the study seems to declare as having serious mental health problems. I call bullshit. But, as another poster pointed out, some other psychologists have also called bullshit on this study and it seems, at best, to be a semi-accurate or maybe best guess look at the mental faculties of my generation.

    So, instead of wasting my time typing a rebuke to study created by self-reported statistics, I am going to waste my time rebuking half of the old crotchety wanks that have declared my generation, my peers, to be a bunch of narcissistic, incompetent, entitled, whiny brats. To each and every one of you old fogies that are so convinced that everything wrong with our generation comes from bad parenting and a lack of hardship and what not, let me ask you, "How many folk below the age of 25 or so do you spend time with on a daily basis? As a peer?"

    Honestly, to all of you who are bemoaning my generation, answer me that question. I would wager that very few of you actually work on a daily basis with folk my age or younger. I, personally, hang out with people my age and younger every day. I don't spend time with them trying to teach them. I don't spend time with them judging them. I spend time hanging out with them, meeting them, getting to know them, laughing, crying, fighting, and working together with them. And you know what? My anecdote says that we are a pretty damned impressive lot of individuals. We face difficult challenges every day, for instance: "Should I continue working on this paper that is due in four hours or should I eat? Well, I haven't eaten since yesterday, but if I don't finish this paper and crash my grade, it will cost me another semester of school and another $15,000. Yeah, I can skip meals for another day, I am not starving yet."

    Or my favorite one. For those of us that are competent and happy and fed and living peacefully, how about all of the in-your-face, "What are you doing to save these starving children in Abu Dhabi? Or save those dogs that are being beaten to death by drug peddling masters? Or, why aren't you trying to save the world from Global Warming, Darfur evil people, zombie H1N1 flu, etc etc etc.?" In other words, even when kids in my generation get to the point where they are comfortable and supporting themselves, we are not allowed any peace. Rather we are guilted into thinking that unless we are saving the world every waking minute, we are horribly corrupt evil bastards that deserve fire and brimstone. Yup, that's easy to cope with, just stop sleeping and enjoying any free time, then you will be a good person.

    Of course that's not all. We also have to face the constant question as to whether or not our genitals, and any attention we give them, will be our black ticket to hell for eternity. And don't think that question remains in the realm of the church goers. No, now those zealous asshats are on the streets telling me that I am a sinner and will burn a fiery death for looking at the blonde walking by. So what do I do? Should I punch the doofus in the face for being an asshole? Nah, then I get arrested for assault, labeled as a felony committer for life, and raped for the next 3-5 in prison.

    This leads me to my next point. Even if we see something wrong with our environment, there is a legitimate chance that whatever we do to workaround said concern will come with punishments like unpayable financial burdens or a few years of getting our asses beat up and down the cell block because we just had to deal with some business. Yup, that's fair, create a world in which 90% of the stuff that is the most 'in-your-face' sucks, and then punish us for trying to change anything.

    So what am I getting at? Am I just whining that oh we have it so much harder than anyone seems to

  124. Well said, good sir by jonaskoelker · · Score: 1

    You expressed my thoughts much more eloquently than I ever could. Thank you very much---it was important for me to see you express my ideas the way I meant them.

    Also, good luck getting that radio in your head tuned into where it needs to be.

  125. Re:American youth have it easy - even though... by Sabriel · · Score: 2, Insightful

    Consider that the Piotr in question was apparently an impoverished resident of 1950s Hungary (i.e. just-post-WW2 europe, near to poland and austria)... and that of his five offspring, which one cannot assume he had simultaneously, one died in infancy and another drowned in childhood. Consider also the links between subsistence living, mortality and birth rates, etcetera. Do I need to explain further?

  126. Youth are the same as they were by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Isn't it more likely that rather than their being more youth's with mental problems, that there are simply more diagnosed cases due to better diagnosis, or in some people's view, over diagnosis?
    A lot of psychologists have the view that there are the same amount of children with aspergers now then there were 40 years ago, however diagnosed cases have gone up, simply because it is better recognised now then it was in the past. You don't see the same amount of aspergers as adults because people with aspergers improve their social skills as they age (More so than non-aspergers, who usually plane out some time in their 20's), My dad reckons he had aspergers as a kid, but the diagnosis wasn't there because he never did quite understand social norms, and yet each year of his life, continuing right to this day he gradually improved his social skills, and reckons that he didn't get rid of it to a degree or no one noticing until mid 20's. I meet a lot of people every day who when you delve into their childhood talk about having some form of undiagnosed psychological problems like aspergers, or depression. However today it's a lot more common for a child to be diagnosed at the drop of a hat.

    My point is basically that diagnosis for psychological problems was definitely not what it was nowadays. How can you compare the times?

  127. This Has Been A Test Of The Clinicians BS System by DynaSoar · · Score: 1

    Had this been real science you'd have been instructed to turn to page 1 of a psychological science methodology text. Now follow along as we point out the problems that occur when clinicians conduct "studies" unsupervised. And you clinicians, use your finger so you don't lose your place.

    What's first? The title. "Have" implies proven validity. There is none. "Serious" implies something more than mild. But the text states "surpassed threshhold" which means the measures were as low as the absolute minimum. When you can start an article biopsy with the title, you can expect many more such morsels to enjoy. And on.

    The article, like the test, convolves the concepts of personality and clinical manifestations of psychopathology. The latter as tacked on after the original construction.

    TFA is using entirely self-report data, the worst source. Current versions of MMPI have scales built in to detect falsification of answers, although those scales are criticized. The original version, used through most of the time frame of this study, had no internal validity testing.

    Between the greater acceptability of admitting problems on one hand, and the victim/disease sufferer mentality towards any problems, it is not surprising that recent test takers would admit to having problems. In fact this result should be expected because of these. More people today are more aware of more kinds of problems and the symptoms that go with them. They're more likely to recognize the problem if they have it. They're also more likely to think they have the problem if they think they recognize some of the symptoms in themselves (in training we call it 'symptomitis'). In 1938 most students didn't know squat about mental health and disorder and so wouldn't recognize them as this.

    In 1938 and for some time after (the Great Depression being still fresh in their minds), there was great emphasis on self-reliance and of being of help or use to others, with de-emphasis on relying on others. If one is to stand on ones' own feet and especially if one is to support others, then one does not admit to a weakness (as mental problems were considered then). If you had problems, then that was the hand you were dealt and you played it, and you accepted that, rather than asking someone else to come along and make things OK for you. Nowdays it's far more acceptable, and in many situations expected, for one to admit problems and seek help. And all this is exactly how people would answer questions about these things.

    The scales looked at in TFA were the clinical scales. The scales themselves are of questionable validity, as are the concepts on which they were supposedly based. For instance, hyster-ia, a throwback all the way to ancient Greece and carried forward all the way into the 20th century, with the original construct being this is a common malady among women, for which the only real solution (until Freud's 'talking cure', which never worked) was a hyster-ectomy. Just to remind you, the data go all the way to 2007. Try to find hysteria in any insurance company's coverage descriptions or any diagnostic manuals.

    As cultural definitions change, psychological definitions change. Hopefully for the better, but at least keeping up with culture's changes. The culture of 1938 put several things into the primary diagnostic tool (the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of the APA) which were later removed. Homosexuality for example. In any case, these change, making any attempt at valid correlations wrong to some degree in every case.

    The entire clinical scale section is so out of date and invalidated that it's being completely rewritten and replaced. So what does that say for previous data? How far back is it invalid, and/or how old does it have to be in order to be any good? And with the advances made in the last 70 years, how many of the originals that were accepted then have been found to have been incorrect, and thus the related data worthless?

    From TFA: "the clinical scales were derived by selecting items that were endorsed

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  128. Charles Manson said it best by Kitkoan · · Score: 1

    "You know, a long time ago being crazy meant something. Nowadays everybody's crazy." On a more serious note, I think a big part of the issues isn't that they are being more crazy then there is just a bigger list of mental issues to choose from, and people wanting to pidgin hole any personality quirk as some form of mental disorder. A child isn't just full of energy anymore, they've got a form of ADD. They aren't exhausted or felt put upon by impossibly high expectations, they are depressed or suffering from some other disorder. This is further made into problems with so many drug company's hawking a pill to cure whatever ails your child. A form of Aldous Huxley's 'Brave New World' with everyone taking a pill, but instead of it being the single pill Soma it's a more type of 'personalized' pill to as one song put it "A pill to make you numb, ..., a pill to make you anybody else'. We are reaching a point that if you or your parents don't like you for who you are with negative personality issues then they can almost trade the core of who you are for a prescription to making you someone else. Tired a lot? Take a stimulate to make your child a more active one. How about too much energy? Are they too much for you to control and distracting you from doing whatever else you want to do? Try something like Ritalin so you can go back to whatever you want to do. Parents are given offers to help make raising a child more of a state of existance then a process done over time without thought to what it will cause in the future, but then again when those new problems happen there are some OTHER pills to help with those problems too. And lets not forget options of a form of mental illness hypochondriac within the child because mommy and daddy told them too many times that this is truly what they have and this is what they've been told it does and even though it's not the child's fault that they have these issues, they still believe deep down they do since mommy and daddy said it was and promised me the problem quirks would go away if I just keep taking those pills.

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  129. Thats great, but... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    ...how illnesses, mental, physical, or otherwise, were classified and measured has changed since 1938. More than demonstrating that today's youth might be mentally out of kilter is that the article demonstrates that the classification of what constituted a mental illness has changed between 1938 and now. Should this seem a shock to us, remember that prior to the early 1940s, eugenics still held considerable influence in both scientific and non-scientific circles.

  130. Re:American youth have it easy - even though... by uninformedLuddite · · Score: 1

    Do I need to explain further?

    Only if you aren't yet tired of banging your head against a brick wall.

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  131. You are more right then you know. by merauder · · Score: 1

    I worked on a contract at a university for a psychology dept. The OCD prof suffered from it himself, the former gambler taught about addictions. The woman prof who taught early child development couldn't have kids of her own, etc etc.

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    ..and knowing is half the battle.

  132. Has anyone considered the possibility... by hallux.sinister · · Score: 1
    That something is different now, environmentally? Maybe the kids haven't changed, and if you took a time-machine, and grabbed pre-teens from the depression-era and dropped them into, well, now, you might end up with kids having the same problems.

    Between immense changes in diet, the radical changes in culture, degradation of the quality of the air they've grown up breathing, (in the last 20 years, versus 80-100 years ago,) the near non-potability of most American municipal water supplies, all manner of heavy metals making it into their brains from aluminum leaching out of their soda cans, to fugitive dust containing toxic, carcinogenic, and even occasionally radioactive materials, it's a wonder their turning out as well as they are.

    I've read a lot of posts here on /. under this heading that suggests kids today are whiny, bitchy, spoiled brats, who should not exhibit signs of mental illness, implying being susceptible to such problems as a weakness, or form of character flaw -- as if they're doing this on purpose. To those of you who think that, before you call kids today 'pussies' for having all manner of mental problems, consider there may be other possible causes beyond their individual or collective control.

  133. It's because the psych "industry" is just that... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Per my subject-line above: It's an industry, & like ANY OTHER INDUSTRY OUT THERE? The psych field seeks growth, for profit... how to do that? Well, that which you stated...

    Who really pays, & in far more than just monetary terms?

    Those paying for the "treatments" of course, AND, those being made victims from the drugs taken (which later they find out have MASSIVE BAD SIDE-EFFECTS (or, isn't prozac indicative of that, & the psychotic rages those who took it underwent)).

    APK

    P.S.=> I watched a film called "EQUILIBRIUM" the other night, and it really "got to me" (for those who have NOT seen it? DO! It's about an entire society in the future of humanity in a dystopian future, where all emotion is "stomped out" by PROZIUM, the drug used to do so in that view of a horrible future imo)...

    Yes - It made me sad (especially the part where Cleric John Preston's (Christian Bale's) colleagues as "Tetragrammaton Clerics" were gunning down dogs! Man, & I personally have a "soft-spot" for those animals, because if you want a LOYAL FRIEND? A dog is your BEST bet, by far (& imo, largely + unfortunately? I say this a lot & mean it -> "Dogs are BETTER PEOPLE THAN PEOPLE" many/most times... which is why, in my estimation @ least, they are SO HIGHLY ESTEEMED BY HUMAN BEINGS IN OUR CULTURES WORLDWIDE usually as companions)).

    This outright indiscriminate & totally non-judicious use of mind altering drugs, especially on kids? BAD!

    The psych industry is an INFACT and attempting to quantify the human psyche... good luck to THAT - there are so many "shades of gray" to human beings, it's not funny (& we are ALL "wired differently" mentally too, of course, due to both genetics and also environments we are shaped by as well)...

    Especially considering that the stats I have heard are the 1/5 people out there are on some sort of mind-altering chemical proscribed by some shrink. Now, people lately are calling Tom Cruise nuts, but, he also is HIGHLY AGAINST the use of these chemicals (ala prozac which I noted above), & I have to agree on that account - or, is what happened with prozac to the unwitting people that took it just a joke? I think not... apk

  134. Wrist Cutter Music by stewbacca · · Score: 1

    I blame AFI and the rest of the wimp-ass wrist cutters, not the economy.

  135. Re:American youth have it easy - even though... by KharmaWidow · · Score: 1

    How many children should one have - simultaneously or consecutively - if one is so poor they are eating stale bread and dirty water soup!? I don't think the year effects the answer...

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  137. Re:American youth have it easy - even though... by Sabriel · · Score: 1

    The year affects the answer, because it helps define the context, and the context is 1950s Hungary - so you need to replace all occurrences of "one" in your question with "everyone".

    If that doesn't help - are you asking me as a biologist, an economist, a spiritualist, a historian, or in some other framework?

    Biologically, there were only five offspring, and two died before maturity, so that's an achievement of positive population growth despite adverse environmental conditions.

    Economically, he was able to maintain and even increase his assets in the long-term despite limited income, periods of debt, and two collapsed ventures, whilst operating in a severely depressed location.

    Spiritually, he had the moral strength to risk his own health so that his wife and children could eat enough to survive (we presume the infant death and the drowned child were beyond his control) rather than resort to robbery or worse, setting a good example of how people should act in times of adversity.

    Historically, the country was *systemically* poor (as what WW2 didn't ruin, Soviet occupation post-WW2 did). If the "poor" shouldn't have children, and "everyone" is poor... well, math doesn't get much more basic than that.

  138. Re:American youth have it easy - even though... by KharmaWidow · · Score: 1

    OK - let me make it simple...

    a) Having children is a choice.

    b) Parents are responsible for their children before anyone else. The choice should not be made lightly.

    c) If one is so poor that they are eating stale bread and eating dirty water they are too poor to have any children. Simultaneously or consecutively. If one bears children in these circumstances, then they are abusing the children willfully and intentionally.

    d) This applies in the US or Hungary. In 2010 or 1950.

    If your point is simply these are the general persuasive conditions of 1950s Hungry then why should I care or have any sympathy!? Your analogy amounts to "Bob, stop complaining its hot in California - I, Gill, was born on the Sun..."

    We are talking about change relative to our own culture. Hungary has always been at a different stage of economic and social development - never at the same stage as the US. Pulling some conditions abstractly out of time and location is a ridiculous argument. There will always be better or worse condition somewhere else.

    In regards to children: People need to start being responsible for their actions and choices. I don't care where or when the live.

  139. Re:American youth have it easy - even though... by Sabriel · · Score: 1

    a) True (mostly; e.g. infertility, lack of education; pedantry, I know)

    b) True

    c1) Ah. The OP notes that Piotr "would provide the best nourishment to his children and wife, while during tough times he would eat grass, paper and sawdust." Piotr chose that *he* would eat the worst, giving his children the best.

    c2) Poverty vs Abuse - is it better for a child to be happy and hungry or sad and fed? At what points in the emotional/nutritional space would you draw a line, if any, and how thickly, if so?

    d etc) I am uncertain - that reads like you are suggesting we should have no sympathy for those who lived in 1950s Hungary?

    Your statement that the use of Hungary wrt US is pointlessly abstract - would comparing the US in the 1930s be of value? The OP was using comparative analogy; your approach appears to rely on absolutes?

    In regards to your last line: you and me both. Trouble is, some don't care what anyone else thinks. What then?