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Teacher Suspended Over Blog About Students

English teacher Natalie Munroe is in a bit of hot water after she described the precious snowflakes in her class as: “Frightfully dim,” “Rat-like,” “Am concerned your kid is going to open fire on the school,” “I hate your kid,” and “Seems smarter than she actually is,” on her blog. The Central Bucks School District has suspended Natalie after parents complained to administrators. “It’s hard to know that you sat in her class for an hour and a half a day and for her to feel that way it is like, it is an awful feeling,” student Alli Woloshyn said.

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  1. O tempora o mores by menegator · · Score: 2

    as subject says

    1. Re:O tempora o mores by spun · · Score: 1

      Quoting Cicero, are we? I think he had a bit of advice that would apply to most Slashdot readers: "Nemo enim fere saltat sobrius, nisi forte insanit." Or maybe that's just me and my two left feet. Seriously though, if we are going to apply famous quotes to this story, don't you think someone should mention something about bricks and walls?

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    2. Re:O tempora o mores by C_amiga_fan · · Score: 1

      Oh the times! Oh the customs! "Actually almost no one dances sober, unless he has gone crazy" The last sentence I find amusing: "Itâ(TM)s hard to know that you sat in her class for an hour and a half a day and for her to feel that way it is like, it is an awful feeling." Welcome to the real world. My managers think the same of me and all us engineers (and try to squeeze as many unpaid hours as possible from us).

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    3. Re:O tempora o mores by jason.sweet · · Score: 1

      Tat. Doctor. Sinite illos filii tantum.

    4. Re:O tempora o mores by sortius_nod · · Score: 1

      My response to the kids:

      Get a fucking crash helmet.

    5. Re:O tempora o mores by Phreakiture · · Score: 2

      Quidquid latine dictum sit altum viditur, quod si hoc comprehendere scis, nimium eruditionis habes,

      ...or so they say.

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    6. Re:O tempora o mores by uberjack · · Score: 3, Funny

      Romanes eunt domus

    7. Re:O tempora o mores by SpasticWeasel · · Score: 1

      Romanes, they go the house?

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    8. Re:O tempora o mores by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Holy crap- I'll bet you're the life of any party.

    9. Re:O tempora o mores by sgt+scrub · · Score: 1

      you were able to understand that quote? you must be a professional translator in addition to your other job. by the time it got to "it is like it is".i vomited. i definitely believe the kid has a hard time knowing she sat in that, or ANY, class for an hour and a half. i certainly don't believe it.

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    10. Re:O tempora o mores by Quiet_Desperation · · Score: 2

      Klaatu Barada Nikto

    11. Re:O tempora o mores by Shag · · Score: 1

      you were able to understand that quote? you must be a professional translator in addition to your other job.

      This. Young Miss Woloshyn needs to decide whether to express her opinion in two sentences or three, rather than cramming them all into a single run-on abomination against structure.

      For the sake of summary, I suggest she consider a more concise "Waah." It more than adequately conveys what she's trying to pass off as thoughts.

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    12. Re:O tempora o mores by darkpixel2k · · Score: 1

      Romanes, they go the house?

      I got Romans eat doughnuts...

      Can someone else try a translation?

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    13. Re:O tempora o mores by FatdogHaiku · · Score: 1

      Damn, I thought it was "Romaine with house dressing".
      Back at the story, I guess there are much worse things the teacher could have been feeling about the "rat like" urchins...

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    14. Re:O tempora o mores by Call+Me+Black+Cloud · · Score: 1

      Come on you guys...at least put the translation there. Yes, I could look it up but since you already know what it means why not include it for the Latin-challenged among us? I might learn something along the way. I don't know that I'll ever use it...I have no plans to travel to Latin America...but it would still be nice to be in on your joke.

    15. Re:O tempora o mores by dsanfte · · Score: 1

      Indeed, no one dances sober, unless by chance they're insane.

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    16. Re:O tempora o mores by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Cha-Cha-Cha-Chia!!

    17. Re:O tempora o mores by jason.sweet · · Score: 1

      The only thing worse than a grammar Nazi is a grammar Praetorian.

    18. Re:O tempora o mores by Call+Me+Black+Cloud · · Score: 1

      Thanks...now I'm off to translate your sig :)

  2. Less Honesty Please... by Haedrian · · Score: 0

    If you feel this way about our precious kiddies then please keep it to yourself. We don't want to shatter our impression of our kiddies.

    1. Re:Less Honesty Please... by bigstrat2003 · · Score: 3, Insightful

      That's not the issue. If she had spoken to the parents, privately, about their children that's one thing. To speak about the children in this fashion on a public forum is extremely unprofessional behavior.

      Normally I'm aghast when someone gets in trouble at work for their private blog/whatever, but in this case it's perfectly reasonable.

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    2. Re:Less Honesty Please... by TheWanderingHermit · · Score: 5, Insightful

      I not only have to agree with everything the parent says, but add two points:

      1) This opens the school up for a big "emotional distress" lawsuit, and

      2) I taught emotionally disturbed kids and normal kids. Even for teens, teachers are still enough of an authority that for a student to realize this is being said about them in a very public forum (not just the teacher's lounge, for example) could have repercussions for decades. I've known people that have been insulted by teachers that took it to heart because they respected the teacher and took years to understand the comments were not only inappropriate but not worth paying attention to.

      All teachers want to be remembered as an influence and want to change lives, but not in the way this teacher has changed some young lives.

    3. Re:Less Honesty Please... by JackOfAllGeeks · · Score: 4, Interesting

      Depending on the status of her blog, it's arguable how public that kind of communication should be considered. While I think it's dumb that she would post such brutally honest feelings somewhere the parents could find it, I'm not sure it's much different than if she were to say the same things to friends at a bar -- and in the bar situation I would definitely say it's her right to say what she wants without this kind of disciplionary action.

      The fact of the matter is, sometimes this stuff is true. And it's definitely true that despite the best intentions, lots of teachers feel this way, even if it's only for the space of an afternoon after a particularly difficult week. Are we meant to fire every teacher who has a negative thought about her students? It's probable that there's more to the story that would change my mind, but I don't see how this is any different that suspending a student because he said he hates his Principal on Facebook.

    4. Re:Less Honesty Please... by j00r0m4nc3r · · Score: 1

      If you feel this way about our precious kiddies then please keep it to yourself. We don't want to shatter our impression of our kiddies.

      That's right. We should just bottle everything up because the truth might hurt someone's feelings. And we should teach our kids to never speak out or tell the truth because it might get you fired. Talking shit behind peoples' backs is much more honorable and beneficial to society.

    5. Re:Less Honesty Please... by I8TheWorm · · Score: 1

      Not to mention illegal in many places. Juvenile law is a pretty different animal, which is why you often see news reports about teenagers with no name or picture associated.

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    6. Re:Less Honesty Please... by j00r0m4nc3r · · Score: 5, Interesting

      Normally I'm aghast when someone gets in trouble at work for their private blog/whatever, but in this case it's perfectly reasonable.

      Why is it reasonable in this case? What does it matter what she thinks about her students, and why does it matter that people actually know the truth about how she feels? "Oh no! She might hurt the kids' feelings. Their precious self-esteem will be destroyed," you say. Kids so desperately need to learn to hear shit they won't like -- this is something that's missing from our society. Kids need thick skin. If she can get through to the kids and teach them the material, she has done her job superbly. In fact, showing her kids that it's ok to not be scared to speak the truth despite possible retribution is a vitally important lesson, one which too few kids even learn in their entire lives... Instead they turn into Compliance Sheep who never speak up or fight for what they believe in.

    7. Re:Less Honesty Please... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Problem is she is almost certainly bang on the money and if the parents of the little sewer rats dont like it tough get with it and start improving their attitude to school and teachers then they would not need staling of perfectly correctly in public a bit of shame for some of these modern day morons works wonders

    8. Re:Less Honesty Please... by thrillseeker · · Score: 1

      On the flip side, imagine the strokes she'd get if she'd simply claimed 'all our children are above average'.

    9. Re:Less Honesty Please... by spun · · Score: 4, Funny

      Oh, no! Someone said mean words to me! For some reason, I absolutely must get offended by this!

      Shut your festering gob, you tit! Your type really makes me puke, you vacuous, toffee-nosed, malodorous, pervert!

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    10. Re:Less Honesty Please... by cheekyjohnson · · Score: 2

      But... that would mean that kids actually need to take a step out of their bubbles that society desperately wants to keep them in! Unacceptable! Censor violent media for children, fire teachers who state their opinions about their students, and blame everything but the child for their behavior! Learning that you don't have to be offended by mere words is just... unacceptable!

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    11. Re:Less Honesty Please... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      If you feel this way about our precious kiddies then please keep it to yourself. We don't want to shatter our impression of our kiddies.

      That's right. We should just bottle everything up because the truth might hurt someone's feelings. And we should teach our kids to never speak out or tell the truth because it might get you fired. Talking shit behind peoples' backs is much more honorable and beneficial to society.

      Are you serious? There's such a thing as professional discretion. She showed none. She's supposed to be a professional educator. That means she's obligated to keep her personal feelings about the children under her tutelage private except in appropriate venues where her personal opinions can be a constructive tool to further the children's education. Her public blog doesn't qualify. I can just imagine how devastating some of her comments might have been to some of those kids, particularly the ones who are struggling academically or who have depression-inducing self-esteem issues.

      BTW, it's easy to excuse this kind of behavior when you or your loved ones aren't the target. Try putting yourself in someone else's shoes once in a while.

    12. Re:Less Honesty Please... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I think it's dumb that she would post such brutally honest feelings somewhere the parents could find it

      true, but If the kids couldn't find it themselves then they probably are as retarded as she claimed.

    13. Re:Less Honesty Please... by gstoddart · · Score: 3, Insightful

      If she had spoken to the parents, privately, about their children that's one thing. To speak about the children in this fashion on a public forum is extremely unprofessional behavior.

      Purely playing Devil's Advocate here ....

      But haven't kids repeatedly gotten their right to say what they want about teachers online upheld over and over?

      I've know a fair few teachers ... as much as they start out really giving a shit, after a sufficiently long period of time babysitting other people's ill-behaved, spoiled brats with various anti-social disorders ... well, eventually, they're mostly just putting in time.

      Nowadays they're so hand-cuffed by not wanting to hurt little Billy's feelings by telling him he can't spell, I can see why she would be ranting about the things she'd like to say.

      Everyone keeps lamenting how we need more educators -- make it less of a thankless job, and let teachers actually fail kids and be able to enforce some form of discipline.

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    14. Re:Less Honesty Please... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      He can't reply to you. He's locked himself in the bathroom, crying.

    15. Re:Less Honesty Please... by DrgnDancer · · Score: 1

      This was my thought as well. There was very little information given about the type of blog, how anonymous it was, how locked down it was to outside readership, etc. A very locked down blog that a parent happened to get accidental access to (say from being "friended" by a friend or some such) would seem completely reasonable. A very public blog that was highly anonymous (say the only indication of who the author actually is being a small copyright notice at the bottom or something) would seem pretty reasonable. A fully public blog with her name plastered all over it, or (worse) students actual names in it would be much more obviously a breach of etiquette and/or rules. The article doesn't really give any information that might allow a reasonable judgment of the situation. For all we know she had a private blog with all anonymous stories that some overly industrious parent linked to her through subtle clues and complained about.

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    16. Re:Less Honesty Please... by nrgy · · Score: 0

      And your type really makes me puke. Raising kids to be emotional nutjobs because they are never taught how to deal with negative feedback.

    17. Re:Less Honesty Please... by TheWanderingHermit · · Score: 4, Insightful

      1) This opens the school up for a big "emotional distress" lawsuit, and

      Oh, no! Someone said mean words to me! For some reason, I absolutely must get offended by this!

      You may not feel it's appropriate, but this is the reality of the world we live in. The school could be facing lawsuits like this, whether the plaintiffs are just trying to make a buck, or if they feel it's the only way to make sure it doesn't happen again, they are still open to liability issues surrounding this.

      Even for teens, teachers are still enough of an authority that for a student to realize this is being said about them in a very public forum (not just the teacher's lounge, for example) could have repercussions for decades.

      Decades? No, even for a moment? Why are some people so afraid of words? If there's anything people need to be taught, it's that you do not need to be offended by mere words, and indeed, it is far more efficient not to be. If you made a mistake, don't make the same one again. If you didn't, shrug it off. Whining about things (especially words) and getting offended doesn't change anything.

      I've heard people say this, and it sounds like good logic, but it's good in theory and not in face. The phrase "I love you" is just words. The Constitution is just words. Hitler's speeches that riled up so many people is just words.

      But words are how we communicate, they are how we express our thoughts and feelings. They are how we transmit facts and opinions, so the "Just words" argument really doesn't work.

      These words are letting a number of students know that someone they respected and whom they thought respected them did not respect them. They are telling them that someone, a trained and recognized authority, has judged them to be inferior. So it's more than just words, there's a lot more involved. Even for people that will just "shrug it off," there's still damage that hits in ways we don't always see for a long time.

      So it's not about words. It's what those words convey, communicate, and represent.

    18. Re:Less Honesty Please... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Yes, but I came here for an argument

    19. Re:Less Honesty Please... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      but I came here for a good argument!

    20. Re:Less Honesty Please... by EllisDees · · Score: 1

      >This opens the school up for a big "emotional distress" lawsuit

      By whom? Unless she named specific children, who is going to sue?

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    21. Re:Less Honesty Please... by C_amiga_fan · · Score: 1

      I have a former teacher that described finding two kids in the closet, having sex. She said, "They acted like they had not done anything wrong!" She also described the sex going-on at school dances (which led to them being canceled).

      Personally if I was a parent I'd WANT to know these things are going on, rather than prevent the teacher from sharing.

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    22. Re:Less Honesty Please... by spun · · Score: 2

      And your type really makes me puke.

      Raising kids to be emotional nutjobs because they are never taught how to deal with negative feedback.

      FAIL.

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    23. Re:Less Honesty Please... by spun · · Score: 1

      Ah yes, you want room 12A, Just along the corridor. Stupid git.

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    24. Re:Less Honesty Please... by iamhassi · · Score: 1

      That's not the issue. If she had spoken to the parents, privately, about their children that's one thing. To speak about the children in this fashion on a public forum is extremely unprofessional behavior.

      Normally I'm aghast when someone gets in trouble at work for their private blog/whatever, but in this case it's perfectly reasonable.

      Agreed. Also shows horrible judgement, which is really the reason I'd be firing her if I was the principal or superintendence. If she's dumb enough to post this all over the internet what other really stupid things is she capable of? The fact that she claims to have done this years ago and the posts are still live doesn't help her case either.

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    25. Re:Less Honesty Please... by bjourne · · Score: 0

      You're a retarded asshole. School is a completely different situation than any other in the world. Kids are forced to go to school, they are forced to put up with their classmates and their teachers. A kid can't just decide not to go to school or even to transfer to another class if the teacher is a jerk. If the teacher insults him, he can't even shoot back because that would jeopardize his grades which could have severe repercussions for his future career.

    26. Re:Less Honesty Please... by cheekyjohnson · · Score: 1

      You may not feel it's appropriate, but this is the reality of the world we live in. The school could be facing lawsuits like this, whether the plaintiffs are just trying to make a buck, or if they feel it's the only way to make sure it doesn't happen again, they are still open to liability issues surrounding this.

      I know it's a reality, but that doesn't make it logical.

      But words are how we communicate, they are how we express our thoughts and feelings. They are how we transmit facts and opinions, so the "Just words" argument really doesn't work.

      It works just fine. I think about it like this: do not let yourself be controlled by negative emotions. Positive ones are okay.

      Never once did I say "ignore facts and opinions" or anything of the sort. I said to not let yourself be offended (and thereby be controlled by negative emotions) by mere words. Respond to things logically, not emotionally.

      So it's more than just words

      By definition, it isn't.

      Even for people that will just "shrug it off," there's still damage that hits in ways we don't always see for a long time.

      Fine. By "shrug it off," I meant to not let yourself get offended in the first place. They absolutely are just words, and there is no need to be offended by them. I don't care if it was a speech by Hitler, or by this teacher. Actually, getting angry or sad doesn't help any situation. As I said above, respond logically, not emotionally.

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    27. Re:Less Honesty Please... by joeman3429 · · Score: 1

      On the flip side, imagine the strokes she'd get if she'd simply claimed 'all our children are above average'.

      We'd know it was a lie, because she doesn't live in Lake Wobegon

    28. Re:Less Honesty Please... by cheekyjohnson · · Score: 1

      Kids are forced to go to school

      They are? What about home school? Alright, that's not always possible. But there's one thing that kids aren't forced to do: be offended by words. If they are, then that is ultimately their own fault.

      If the teacher insults him, he can't even shoot back because that would jeopardize his grades which could have severe repercussions for his future career.

      I do disagree with this, though. A teacher found failing students because of their opinions really should be fired.

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    29. Re:Less Honesty Please... by Asklepius+M.D. · · Score: 1

      Words are important. To convey, communicate, and represent an idea accurately is a difficult skill. But words do not do damage. As you say above, words are "how we transmit facts and opinions". Communication, however involves more than simple broadcasting. Communication requires that the message be both received, and understood. To blame the protocol by which the message is sent for "causing damage" is illogical (both in theory and face ? ). Discomfort does not necessarily indicate damage. Responsibility resides with all parties. The teacher's choice of words, if not her actual meaning, are ill-suited to the audience (whether intended or no) that read, and (mis)interpreted them. The audience bears responsibility for attempting to reconcile context, intended audience, and personal empathy in understanding the words on the blog. Two participants in a conversation each blaming the other for "bad words" reflects poorly on the communicators, not the terminology.

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    30. Re:Less Honesty Please... by DarkOx · · Score: 1

      The thing about words are it matters who is doing the talking. If someone you "respect" pays you a compliment, you probably feel validated, if they call you a "mindless git" you probably feel pretty bad about it. If someone you don't respect says either on of those things to you well you probably don't feel much of anything at all.

      Most kids, yonger ones anyway resepect their teachers. They control lots of knowledge and have much more experience then the students. The students are not in much of a position to jude the merits of the teacher. In fact this is a situation where respect really is unearned it must simply be given.
      Teachers really are in a postion to give kids a pretty false sense of self worth and that can be over valued or under valued, both are bad.

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    31. Re:Less Honesty Please... by Richard+Steiner · · Score: 1

      I know it's a reality, but that doesn't make it logical.

      How is defending oneself against a potential lawsuit not logical?

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    32. Re:Less Honesty Please... by 1310nm · · Score: 1

      Precisely, this. If we really dig into the cause of this, I think it would take us back to the premise behind a comic I saw recently. Can't find it now, but basically there were 2 panes: one from the past with the mother asking the child if she was nice to her teacher today, and the second with the mother of today asking her child if the teacher was nice to her today. All that can be expected from a parent/teacher conference about how bad your child is doing or behaving is confrontation.

    33. Re:Less Honesty Please... by cheekyjohnson · · Score: 1

      I meant that the fact that there would ever be a lawsuit in the first place is illogical.

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    34. Re:Less Honesty Please... by kiwimate · · Score: 1

      Sigh. Seriously?

      What do you think about Bradley Manning - is he being tortured because he's being kept in solitary confinement? Plenty of people here have stated, with some degree of passion and assurance, that this is torture because it has long term effects on the psyche.

      So, now let's consider a school age child. This is the most fragile time in a person's life, pschologically. They may already be dealing with severely stressful situations outside of school, such as parents getting divorced, parents out of work, a close family member dying from cancer, the death of a pet, moving away from all their friends, and any of a number of other issues which are recognized as the most stressful situations possible in an adult's life, never mind a child. They may be getting bullied at school. They may be struggling with poor grades thanks to any number of mitigating circumstances. They may be sick themselves, with a severe illness.

      And then they learn that a person who is in a position of authority and has a high degree of control over their life has blasted allegations in a forum that is publicly accessible to their peers as well as thousands or even millions of strangers.

      And you think that's okay...

    35. Re:Less Honesty Please... by MoonBuggy · · Score: 1

      But words are how we communicate, they are how we express our thoughts and feelings. They are how we transmit facts and opinions, so the "Just words" argument really doesn't work.

      A reasonable argument in itself, but the logical conclusion of that is not, IMO, that it's appropriate or sensible for people to get so riled up over someone else's opinion of them.

      These words are letting a number of students know that someone they respected and whom they thought respected them did not respect them. They are telling them that someone, a trained and recognized authority, has judged them to be inferior. So it's more than just words, there's a lot more involved. Even for people that will just "shrug it off," there's still damage that hits in ways we don't always see for a long time.

      Either the teacher was a decent person and the kids really were a bunch of lying, scheming little shits, or the kids were decent people and the teacher was a vindictive asshole. My experience of the education system suggests that either is entirely plausible. If it was the former, the kids either can't cope with the hard truth or (more likely) don't really care but are playing the "poor, innocent offended child" act as manipulative payback to the teacher for daring to insult them. If it was the latter, then the teacher does not in any way deserve their respect and, more importantly, almost certainly didn't have it - it's damn near impossible to get most school kids to respect you as a teacher at the best of times, so I would put a lot of money on the fact that a teacher who would say things like that unjustly would not have earned the kids' respect in the first place.

      In either case, nobody has suffered some great emotional burden placed upon them by a shining figure in their life.

    36. Re:Less Honesty Please... by Sam+Nitzberg · · Score: 4, Funny

      >This opens the school up for a big "emotional distress" lawsuit

      By whom? Unless she named specific children, who is going to sue?

      Class action ?
      (Pun intended)

    37. Re:Less Honesty Please... by BarryJacobsen · · Score: 1

      >This opens the school up for a big "emotional distress" lawsuit

      By whom? Unless she named specific children, who is going to sue?

      Any parent that knows their child is a dimwit, as the comments were then obviously about their child. Then the child can sue the parents for admitting he/she is a dimwit in a public forum.

    38. Re:Less Honesty Please... by thePowerOfGrayskull · · Score: 1

      Decades? No, even for a moment? Why are some people so afraid of words? If there's anything people need to be taught, it's that you do not need to be offended by mere words, and indeed, it is far more efficient not to be. If you made a mistake, don't make the same one again. If you didn't, shrug it off. Whining about things (especially words) and getting offended doesn't change anything.

      I'm sure your ego is iron-clad and not subject to the same frailties that most mortals have to contend with*. We get it, you're secure and don't care about anyone's opinions. Good on ya, bully for you, et cetera. But believe it or not, a large number of folks (teens, younger, and *gasp* even some older) do care about the opinions held by people they respect - and when younger, especially those opinions of authority figures.

      *Anecdotal tidbit -- the people I've known who most vehemently proclaim their immunity to such foolishness are the ones who've coincidentally been exposed to the most negative feedback in their past; and several are among the least secure people I've known.

    39. Re:Less Honesty Please... by Dog-Cow · · Score: 1

      Your advice is to stop being human. I'm sure that will work well for the general, um... human, population.

      You're an ignorant and sociopathic shithead.

    40. Re:Less Honesty Please... by cheekyjohnson · · Score: 1

      But believe it or not, a large number of folks (teens, younger, and *gasp* even some older) do care about the opinions held by people they respect - and when younger, especially those opinions of authority figures.

      Which is who I'm speaking out against. I know this because it's obvious. But that's why I believe these people need to be taught that there is no need to act in such a manner.

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    41. Re:Less Honesty Please... by Dog-Cow · · Score: 1

      I hope your family are violently raped and murdered while you are forced to watch. Seriously. Telling someone not to be offended is like telling them not to think about pink elephants. You're basically telling them they are babies for being offended. They're just going to be more offended.

    42. Re:Less Honesty Please... by C_amiga_fan · · Score: 1

      >>>pervert!

      Ahhh..... you've seen my Opera bookmarks. Maybe I should change them to "private".

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    43. Re:Less Honesty Please... by nospam007 · · Score: 1

      "That's not the issue. If she had spoken to the parents, privately, about their children that's one thing. To speak about the children in this fashion on a public forum is extremely unprofessional behavior."

      Oddly enough if the kids speak badly about their teachers in public forums, it's free speech.

    44. Re:Less Honesty Please... by cheekyjohnson · · Score: 2

      Your advice is to stop being human.

      Actually, I never claimed that you should get rid of positive emotions. I just said that you should not let negative ones control you and effect your state of mind by not getting offended in the first place.

      I'm sure that will work well for the general, um... human, population.

      There's no reason that humans have to be offended by everything. And indeed, a more logical mindset probably would benefit a majority of the population (or so I believe).

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    45. Re:Less Honesty Please... by Dog-Cow · · Score: 1

      Other than it being against school rules, what exactly would they have been doing wrong? I doubt either was married.

    46. Re:Less Honesty Please... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      The entire legal system, in itself, is illogical.

    47. Re:Less Honesty Please... by silanea · · Score: 1

      [...] "They acted like they had not done anything wrong!" [...]

      Christ Almighty! Kids, having sex, and without giving due notice prior to the event to all parties concerned! What has this world come to?

      Seriously, what the hell? Unless one of them was coerced or emotionally incapable of making an informed choice on the matter, or unless they were not using a condom I fail to see any wrongdoing beyond a very poor choice of location.

      There is so much wrong with today's kids. Self esteem issues, aggression, substance abuse, lack of basic social skills and manners - them having sex is the least of those issues. Or rather it would be, if they were taught how to do it responsibly instead of the moral panicking they are being subjected to. Well, that and the abstinence bullshit.

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    48. Re:Less Honesty Please... by jaxtherat · · Score: 1

      As I said above, respond logically, not emotionally.

      Emotions are alien to me. I'm a scientist.
      -- Spock, "This Side of Paradise", stardate 3417.3

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    49. Re:Less Honesty Please... by cheekyjohnson · · Score: 1

      Telling someone not to be offended is like telling them not to think about pink elephants.

      I'm telling them that there is no reason to be offended by mere words. They have no obligation to do so, and there is no universal law that states that they must. I ask them to realize that they will be better off approaching the situation logically.

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    50. Re:Less Honesty Please... by Stregano · · Score: 0

      Well if your kid is the tard in the corner that always eats paste, it will be easy to know

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    51. Re:Less Honesty Please... by cheekyjohnson · · Score: 1

      How so?

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    52. Re:Less Honesty Please... by SanityInAnarchy · · Score: 1

      I've heard people say this, and it sounds like good logic, but it's good in theory and not in face.

      Speaking from experience, it definitely helps.

      The phrase "I love you" is just words. The Constitution is just words. Hitler's speeches that riled up so many people is just words.

      Yes, yes, and yes. What's your point?

      Now, in addition, "I love you" can have significant emotional impact if I care that the person loves me. The Constitution is in fact just a sequence of words -- it's how we interpret it that matters. Hitler's speeches were words, but designed for a deliberate impact (so he shouldn't have said them) -- yet it was entirely up to those listening whether they would be moved by those speeches, so they share the blame.

      Consider the case of a teacher insulting a student. In high school, kids might not have built up these skills yet, but it's never too early to start. It's not the words that hurt, it's what they mean -- which in this case may be that the teacher doesn't like you. In that case, you have to decide whether you care, and one essential skill is to recognized when you shouldn't. For instance, a teacher who hates you, but never really bothered to get to know you, isn't really someone you need to care about.

      But the "just words" part is important, too. Do the words really mean the teacher hates you? In this case, maybe, but quite often, it's not what you think. This runs the full range from a teacher being hard on you because they like you, to misinterpreting the intent behind some words, to actually mishearing them, and everything in between -- like the difference between "Don't stop!" and "Stop! Don't!" If you immediately react emotionally to everything, you could be missing things like that.

      So you're on to something here:

      But words are how we communicate, they are how we express our thoughts and feelings. They are how we transmit facts and opinions, so the "Just words" argument really doesn't work.

      But that's just it -- it's our thoughts and feelings, our facts and opinions, which actually matter.

      And again, that's assuming that this opinion does matter. Without knowing more about the situation, I really can't say, but if you're emotionally devastated because one high-school teacher doesn't like you, you're not going to survive college. Not everyone is going to like you, certainly not everyone with authority or training, and if you are to participate in our society at all, you have to come to terms with that, and with the fact that it's not always your fault.

      None of this excuses the teacher, but I have to agree that it is almost certainly the student's own problem if one bad teacher screws them up emotionally for decades -- not because it's fair, but because they're the ones who can fix it.

      Even for people that will just "shrug it off," there's still damage that hits in ways we don't always see for a long time.

      Why are you assuming there's damage? A lot of people are truly driven by a desire to prove someone wrong, someone who said something like "You'll never amount to anything!" That's not damage, that's healthy.

      And I agree with cheekyjohnson in this respect -- the slower you are to emotion, or at least to being controlled by emotion, the more of a chance you have to see something like this for what it is -- in this case, a sad, bitter old woman whose opinion isn't worth the bits it's written on. Being able to see that means it's not a matter of "shrugging it off", it's a matter of not getting hit with the emotional payload at all.

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    53. Re:Less Honesty Please... by spun · · Score: 2
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    54. Re:Less Honesty Please... by JackOfAllGeeks · · Score: 1

      it would be much more obviously a breach of etiquette and/or rules.

      I'm not even sure of that. I'd like to see the code of conduct/employment agreement that she signed that censors her off-campus speech.

      It's likely that it was a personal blog with no security controls to speak of, but also no specific names of students. If that's the case, I don't see the problem with what she said

      .

    55. Re:Less Honesty Please... by MobileTatsu-NJG · · Score: 1

      Oh, no! Someone said mean words to me! For some reason, I absolutely must get offended by this! ...

        If you made a mistake, don't make the same one again. ...

        Why are some people so afraid of words?

      How come you've learned this lesson but don't remember what caused you to learn it?

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    56. Re:Less Honesty Please... by celle · · Score: 1

      "In fact, showing her kids that it's ok to not be scared to speak the truth despite possible retribution is a vitally important lesson, one which too few kids even learn in their entire lives... Instead they turn into Compliance Sheep who never speak up or fight for what they believe in."

      Congrats, you just described one of the reasons why America is in freefall.

      I have friends and siblings that used to teach. I asked them the same question before, during, and after, "Do you want to have kids?" Their responses yes and maybe before they were teaching. A solid no while they were teaching and all of them have kids now. But it took several years before any of them would have kids after they quit teaching. No one seems to realize the damage teaching other peoples spawn does to the teachers themselves.

      Parents need to stop being spoiled about their kids and face the facts. Your kids just aren't perfect. Multiple George Carlin monologues about other people kids cover this better than I can, look them up yourself.

      I have a simple fix for parents who bitch, close the schools and have the kids learn from home over the internet thereby sticking the parents with the responsibility of sacrificing their career to stay at home to see their kids learn instead of dumping the responsibility on the rest of us. And don't give me that socialization psycho-babble that's what the mall/community center/park/town square is for. After a couple of months I'm sure most of those parents would gladly pay the schools to take their spawn back then face their own mistakes full time any longer.

    57. Re:Less Honesty Please... by DNS-and-BIND · · Score: 1

      The poster doesn't say which country it was in. If it were a country like Egypt, the girl would be killed and the boy would be punished as well. In China it would be a serious loss of face for both families. But keep up that "assuming everywhere is the same as here" idea.

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    58. Re:Less Honesty Please... by Stregano · · Score: 1
      Hello 1954, this is the real world, and you have no clue what happens in this time do you.

      Let's break it down:

      You're a retarded asshole.

      Yeah, he probably is, but that has nothing to do with the subject at hand and is more of you looking as though you are offended by mere words, which happens to be the subject at hand Old Man Rivers (for the rest of this specific post, I will call you Old Man Rivers since you tone comes off in that fashion).

      School is a completely different situation than any other in the world.

      So is being a coal miner. What is your point?

      Kids are forced to go to school, they are forced to put up with their classmates and their teachers.

      No they're not. You can drop out. I have a friend who dropped out in the 7th grade and is an incredible programmer. If you have issues with classmates or teachers, you can definitely get transferred to another class. So those are out the window for you Old Man Rivers.

      A kid can't just decide not to go to school or even to transfer to another class if the teacher is a jerk

      Yes, they can. Any kid in any grade can transfer to another class. I am guessing you have not had a kid with issues in school, but yes, you can transfer them (well, in public school you can). If they are going to private school and need to be transferred, transfer them to public school so they can get the dumb punched out of them.

      If the teacher insults him, he can't even shoot back because that would jeopardize his grades which could have severe repercussions for his future career.

      I don't know which prison you child went to school in, but that is incorrect. When I was in the 7th grade, in gym class, my gym teacher actually said to me, "If that was a cheeseburger I bet you would run faster" See, I was a big kid. Do you know what I did? I told him to fuck off and pushed him. Do you know what grade I got in the class? an A. If the teacher insults for no good reason, then it is almost a guarenteed A. That is the perfect time to shout the the instructor.

      Now, did you learn anything today Old Man Rivers? School is not a prison. School is not mandatory. In this day and age, you can say whatever the hell you feel like, as teachers are so afraid of offending the kids to where many of them will let you shout at them (I know this from experience, and I was in high school 8 years ago, and I am 99% sure nothing has changed).

      I will go ahead and give you a grade of a D- on that comment because, well frankly, you are soft and are completely misinformed about school today (either that or you went to private schools, but then you would just be stuck up, and hence you would understand why I called you Old Man Rivers)

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    59. Re:Less Honesty Please... by SanityInAnarchy · · Score: 1

      do not let yourself be controlled by negative emotions. Positive ones are okay.

      So it's okay to be controlled by a positive emotion?

      Out of curiosity, would you consider lust to be a positive emotion? What about love? Even letting love control you has consequences. Feeling them is ok, letting them control you isn't necessarily better than letting anger or fear control you.

      Actually, getting angry or sad doesn't help any situation.

      I disagree, and I can provide two examples:

      Sadness can lead to compassion. For example, recently, I volunteered for a few hours at a shelter for victims of sexual abuse. Just looking at the place it was is sad. So was the work -- sorting through donations. What kind of things do they actually need? Clothing that's whole, especially underwear. Soap, shampoo, deodorant. Food. Movies to pass the time while you're effectively locked away from everything you care about, for your own safety.

      Now, bawling wouldn't help, certainly. But getting sad means I care what happens there. It means I'm going to go back there from time to time -- and it means when I see an opportunity to help prevent this sort of thing, like, say, help teach a self-defense seminar, I'm going to do that. Without the sadness, I'm not sure I'd be motivated to do these things.

      Next, anger can be channeled into energy. For example, I've been in a few scenarios where my computer -- or worse, some server I'm responsible for -- isn't working. Now, smashing it in a fit of rage wouldn't help, and I want to make sure I stay cool enough to work, but the anger means I'm going to go at this full-speed until it's done.

      I suppose you're right in this sense: There's a difference between feeling emotion and becoming that emotion. I don't get angry, I feel angry, but I'm still myself, I'm still in control.

      But drawing a strict dichotomy between a logical response and an emotional one is artificial. Even if we disregard the fact that most of us are likely to make snap decisions based on emotion before we're even aware of them, and rationalize them after the fact most of the time, what are your logical premises for how you live your life, and how are they not ultimately based on at least your own personal preference, if not an actual emotional reaction?

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    60. Re:Less Honesty Please... by PCM2 · · Score: 1

      So, now let's consider a school age child. This is the most fragile time in a person's life, pschologically.

      Really?

      They may already be dealing with severely stressful situations outside of school, such as parents getting divorced, parents out of work, a close family member dying from cancer, the death of a pet, moving away from all their friends

      On the other hand, adults have to deal with stuff like actually getting divorced, losing a job (and not being able to feed their kids), people actually dying (and more often, as they get older), pets dying, and all their friends moving away while they're stuck in a dead-end job teaching other parent's spoiled, stupid rugrats.

      The way I remember it, when I was in school I didn't have to worry about rent, food, real romantic relationships, real financial responsibilities, or anything of the kind. Yeah, some of those things you mention happened to me, but I wasn't "fragile." I had a gigantic safety net beneath me that made it OK to explore the world and my place in it.

      On the other hand, if my parents had mollycoddled me to the extent that I could snitch out my teacher for saying mean things about (unnamed) children and that teacher would actually get fired -- well then I figure I would grow up to be a scared, vindictive, grasping, needy adult, and then the whole rest of my life would be my "most fragile" time.

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    61. Re:Less Honesty Please... by cheekyjohnson · · Score: 1

      What lesson? I learned not to be afraid of words through rational thinking. They have not hurt me, and I have no obligation to be offended by them (nor does it do many any good to be offended by them, and in many cases, getting offended will lead to irrational behavior).

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    62. Re:Less Honesty Please... by MobileTatsu-NJG · · Score: 1

      So you've never gotten in a shoving match with any of the kids in school?

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    63. Re:Less Honesty Please... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Respond to things logically, not emotionally.

      Wow. That takes care of that, doesn't it, Sparky? Make sure and take this logically:

      You are -incredibly- fucking naive, and if you're not young, you're just incredibly fucking stupid regarding interactions with people. Please, please, please tell me you're a hyper engineer-type and have nothing to do with actually raising, caring for, or managing human beings, dogs, or plants, in -any- capacity. Yes, everything should be handled logically, and we should never be offended by words. I would like to add to that: "I should have fucking wings because I like to fly" and "my dead grandmother should be brought back to life because she was a nice person". You can espouse this "we should all be logical" masturbation until you're satisfied, but rest assured, my smug little friend, that people who truly understand the subtleties of how other people react emotionally to "just words" will always, in some form or fashion, be in control over people like you.

    64. Re:Less Honesty Please... by kaatochacha · · Score: 1

      I'm sorry, but I believed you missed the in the closet part,and with a teacher discovering it the closet must be at school. And if you don't have any problem with that, perhaps I can come on over to your house and have sex on your kitchen counter.

    65. Re:Less Honesty Please... by HiThere · · Score: 1

      They are, however, in an asymmetrical relationship. The teacher has power over the children, and, at least theoretically, not the reverse.

      This means that when the teacher speaks harshly about the students, this should be seen as a threat. When the student speaks harshly about the teacher, no threat should be assumed.

      I'm not sure that this theoretical picture, however, is quite accurate. I have encountered reports of teachers who are afraid to even criticize certain of their students for fear of threats to their lives (from the parents). I don't know how rational the fear is, but the threat was made, and apparently made seriously. In another case, the teacher was legally required to report evidence of physical child abuse (bruises, lash markes, etc.) but was afraid to. (I don't recall the resolution, but I suspect that no report was made.)

      So as I said, the theoretical picture doesn't seem to match the reality. If, however, you believe the theory, then it makes perfect sense that the teacher not be allowed to criticize the students in public. So to people who have no direct contact with the schools, it may make sense. Personally, I'm unsure HOW it should be dealt with. Most teachers seem to be in a nearly intolerable position. *I* couldn't stand it. But many teachers seem to feel that they'd still rather be teachers than something else. (At least for awhile.) Possibly teachers college and university schools of education contribute to this. They may not prepare you to teach, but they certainly don't prepare you for anything else.

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    66. Re:Less Honesty Please... by Stregano · · Score: 1

      I am not really into British humor. And what did I say about leaving your corner? No lollipop for you young man. No go to your room and think about what you just said

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    67. Re:Less Honesty Please... by cheekyjohnson · · Score: 1

      So it's okay to be controlled by a positive emotion?

      Well, that's not really what I meant to say. Negative emotions often have negative effects (loss of rational behavior, critical thinking, and perhaps even stress). No, you shouldn't be controlled by 'positive' emotions, but merely having them is okay, I think. Responding to situations logically is still important.

      Feeling them is ok, letting them control you isn't necessarily better than letting anger or fear control you.

      I agree.

      But getting sad means I care what happens there.

      You could just help them to get a sense of satisfaction. You don't have to be sad or angry to take action or have goals. You don't go back there because you are sad, but it is likely because you feel good helping them, I would think.

      but the anger means I'm going to go at this full-speed until it's done.

      Rational thinking can do that, too. I am of the opinion that getting things done sooner, rather than later, is the more intelligent decision because you do not know what the future holds (not to mention that you would likely feel a sense of satisfaction out of getting it done).

      and how are they not ultimately based on at least your own personal preference

      They are. However, that doesn't mean that any one emotion is completely controlling you.

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    68. Re:Less Honesty Please... by BitterOak · · Score: 2

      So when students post disparaging comments about their teachers on their Facebook pages and they are disciplined for doing that, everyone seems to get all up in arms about the students' First Amendment rights.

      But when a teacher does the same to their students, it is justifiable to suspend them?

      You can't have it both ways!

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    69. Re:Less Honesty Please... by cheekyjohnson · · Score: 1

      No, when I was in school, I avoided such things. However, at the time, I had not yet come to the conclusion that words are just that: words. It would have been nice if someone informed me of such.

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    70. Re:Less Honesty Please... by spun · · Score: 1

      spun (1532) (older than dirt)
      stregano(1285764) (who the fuck is this newcomer?)

      Child, you aren't into humor, period. Everyone else got it. Except for, apparently, you and another window-licker. Do you both ride the same short bus? My original "insult" was phrased in such a way that no one except a fucking moron or someone with an ideological axe to grind could have taken it seriously. I am frankly shocked that someone could be thick enough to miss that. Who calls someone "toffee-nosed" or "malodorous?"

      So, which are you, a moron or an ideologue?

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    71. Re:Less Honesty Please... by PrimaryConsult · · Score: 3, Insightful

      Everyone keeps lamenting how we need more educators -- make it less of a thankless job, and let teachers actually fail kids and be able to enforce some form of discipline.

      Sadly that right is reserved only for private schools (and even then only ones with standards, ones that are not afraid to lose students for the sake of the bottom line). This works because public schools are always there to catch the dumb, delinquent and violent of the bunch. Sadly also the poor.

      The system does work for those with money or exceptionally intelligent children (Catholic schools can offer scholarships even at grade school level). For everyone else... well, that's not where politicians' kids are anyway...

    72. Re:Less Honesty Please... by cheekyjohnson · · Score: 1

      Please, please, please tell me you're a hyper engineer-type and have nothing to do with actually raising, caring for, or managing human beings, dogs, or plants, in -any- capacity.

      I didn't say that positive emotions are bad. I just believe that you should not let them affect your rationality too much. Feeling happy is okay to me, depending on the situation, because it doesn't typically have severe consequences like that of anger or sadness.

      Yes, everything should be handled logically, and we should never be offended by words.

      Yes. Why should you be offended by words? They haven't hurt you, you are under no obligation to do so, and getting angry or sad usually leads to negative consequences (irrational behavior). Just don't let it effect you in the first place.

      You can espouse this "we should all be logical" masturbation until you're satisfied, but rest assured, my smug little friend, that people who truly understand the subtleties of how other people react emotionally to "just words" will always, in some form or fashion, be in control over people like you.

      How so?

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    73. Re:Less Honesty Please... by Peristaltic · · Score: 1

      Déjà vu- Both of the shittiest bosses I've ever had talked just like that.

    74. Re:Less Honesty Please... by khelms · · Score: 1

      Now run away or I shall taunt you a second time.

    75. Re:Less Honesty Please... by HomelessInLaJolla · · Score: 1

      Consider the case of a teacher insulting a student. In high school, kids might not have built up these skills yet

      I was in high school quite a long time ago and, allow me to remind everyone, it was every high school clique leader's dream to be able to break a teacher, especially substitute teachers, down to the point of crying.

      It happened in fourth grade. Some of the other boys in the back, trying to impress the girls, started a little routine against our art teacher which brought her to tears by the end of the class. I felt bad for her. :-\

      It happened in seventh grade. A few of the rich kids in the back had been trying to get the whole class up on the gossip that she was a flake. She was a French teacher... The French have that part of humor which allows them to laugh at just about anything, Americans see this as flaky because Americans are taught to have things to hate. There was a class period where they managed to break her down to crying.

      They did it to one of the substitute teachers in eleventh grade. The guy had lost a hand somewhere somehow sometime. So he had one of the early 90s prosthetics. One of the kids drew a cartoon titled "Robo-Sub 2000". It wasn't supposed to make it to him but it did. He didn't even make it to the end of the class period. He left the room and the principle arrived a few minutes later to finish that hour.

      I don't feel sorry for the students and I don't empathize with the parents. We all know the students are rabid animals trying to break their teachers down. If the teacher wrote a few things in her personal accounts of her occupation then... more power to her.

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    76. Re:Less Honesty Please... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I see no problem with anything there.

    77. Re:Less Honesty Please... by Unkyjar · · Score: 1

      You're supposed to come out of the closet BEFORE you have sex. Otherwise it just adds to the psychiatric bills.

    78. Re:Less Honesty Please... by jellomizer · · Score: 1

      Exactly that is the part I am not getting is she naming individual students or giving enough detail to know it is them. Or is she just being vague and it could or couldn't be any particular one.

      Having gone threw high school Like most other adults. The idea that kids are good and bright is false. Their brains art developed in particular areas so in some areas they are quite smart in other they are quite dumb. So they do act animals and do a lot of bad thing, and they are proud of it. The Good kids are being good just out of fear, as it could block them from getting into college or being punished by the parents, not because they truly understand why such rules are really in place.

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    79. Re:Less Honesty Please... by Pseudonym+Authority · · Score: 1

      So you'll take advice from a doctor but not the crack-whore handcuffed in the police station?
      You can't have it both ways!

      The teacher gets paid to teach students, if she called the kids a fucking idiot, she is not doing her job because the kid is now never going to respect her enough to learn from her.

      And who is the adult here anyway?

    80. Re:Less Honesty Please... by spun · · Score: 0

      Still trying to save face?

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    81. Re:Less Honesty Please... by exomondo · · Score: 1

      But when a teacher does the same to their students, it is justifiable to suspend them?

      You can't have it both ways!

      Perhaps some derivation of 'the customer is always right'?

      For the record I agree with you wholeheartedly, im just thinking of how they are justifying this action.

    82. Re:Less Honesty Please... by masmullin · · Score: 2

      HEY *nom nom nom* I like paste!

    83. Re:Less Honesty Please... by HungryHobo · · Score: 2

      "You can't have it both ways!"

      yes. yes you can.

      If my doctor fucks up my surgery I should be able to complain about them providing crappy service.
      The doctor on the other hand still has to respect doctor patient privilege.

      The students are not professionals, they have no duty to act professionally.
      The teachers are supposed to be professionals and are supposed to act professionally.

    84. Re:Less Honesty Please... by spun · · Score: 0

      But I'm not pissed. This whole thread is a joke. Allow me to explain. Someone posted a dig at people who get offended by mean words. I posted some words that a humorless idiot might find insulting, but the vast majority of people would recognize as a joke. Then I simply waited for someone like you to come along and take me seriously. When you did, I insulted you. At that point, you had two options: let your hurt feelings show, or don't. By letting everyone see that your feelings actually are hurt by someone else's "mean words" you negate both your point and that of the original poster.

      Congratulations. You've fallen for the oldest trick in the troll handbook, helped make your opponent's point for him, and shown the world you are a thin skinned humorless twat.

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    85. Re:Less Honesty Please... by exomondo · · Score: 2

      Nowadays they're so hand-cuffed by not wanting to hurt little Billy's feelings by telling him he can't spell, I can see why she would be ranting about the things she'd like to say.

      People need to harden the fuck up. Billy isn't 'differently-abled', he's just bad at it, and he's probably good at something else so just tell him he's bad at this. No-one is going to want to teach if teachers don't have the power to put kids in their place when they get out of line.
      It's getting to the stage when a teacher's response to 'fuck you, you fat slut' can be little more than 'thankyou sir may i have another?'.

    86. Re:Less Honesty Please... by SanityInAnarchy · · Score: 1

      You could just help them to get a sense of satisfaction.

      First, I'm not sure that sense of satisfaction really gives me a clue that I should be doing this instead of, say, having a satisfying meal.

      Second, I'm not sure I'd have the same sense of satisfaction if I didn't feel that way. What these women (and men) have gone through is horrifying, and that this place has to exist is undeniably sad.

      But I suppose at this point, there's little difference. Being sad did help the situation, even if another emotion might've helped more. The important point was that they were appropriate, and that I controlled them, rather than the other way around.

      You don't go back there because you are sad, but it is likely because you feel good helping them, I would think.

      But I don't. In fact, I can't help but feel a little depressed helping them. The work itself is pretty much drudgery, the surroundings are kind of claustrophobic...

      Now, I do feel good about what I'm helping to accomplish, what kind of an impact I've had. I feel good about the consequences of what I did there. But even that is a lot more real having actually been there, and knowing what kind of a situation it is.

      but the anger means I'm going to go at this full-speed until it's done.

      Rational thinking can do that, too.

      Sometimes, yes, but for what I'm talking about, the adrenaline was very necessary, and I think anger is going to lead to better results in this case than fear.

      I am of the opinion that getting things done sooner, rather than later, is the more intelligent decision because you do not know what the future holds (not to mention that you would likely feel a sense of satisfaction out of getting it done).

      Oh, certainly, but there's a difference between getting a head start on stuff I need to have done, and "Oh shit the server is down and the entire office is offline!" That's not a case of working efficiently and ahead of schedule. That's a case of running through the office as you try to get a handle on things. It's not getting stuff unpacked sooner rather than later, it's ripping the box open that has the replacement hardware in it. It's not a matter of getting the most out of your eight-hour day, it's "I'm going to work on this non-fucking-stop until it's done, and you are not going to interrupt me unless it's to bring me coffee or pizza."

      They are. However, that doesn't mean that any one emotion is completely controlling you.

      I agree. My point was, saying you act out of logic instead of emotion is nonsensical, if your emotions are necessary predicates for your logic.

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    87. Re:Less Honesty Please... by Peristaltic · · Score: 1

      ... because they're the ones who can fix it.

      You've made a statement that is important to your argument, yet sparse in detail. Could you elaborate upon how a child might accomplish this?

    88. Re:Less Honesty Please... by SanityInAnarchy · · Score: 1

      Some students are terrible, but so are some teachers. These aren't mutually exclusive.

      I know I've been especially lucky so far, but then, none of my teachers have ever said anything like this to me, or to any of my peers. Consider that most students are not and never will be clique leaders. Even the worst of them, it's not really helping anything for the teacher to say "I hate you." That's essentially what she was doing.

      In private? Sure, though I have to say, if you have that much contempt for your students, you shouldn't be teaching. It's not really clear if this was in private or not, though. If this was in public, and if it was using the students' actual names, that's really not ok.

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    89. Re:Less Honesty Please... by shentino · · Score: 1

      To hell with it being a private blog, the students are minors.

    90. Re:Less Honesty Please... by shentino · · Score: 0

      Mod parent up: funny

    91. Re:Less Honesty Please... by shentino · · Score: 1

      Teachers failing students because of their opinions may not be fair, but sadly it's very good practice for how the real world is going to work, where having the wrong opinion can get you fired by a boss that has no incentive to care.

    92. Re:Less Honesty Please... by Peristaltic · · Score: 1

      Which is who I'm speaking out against. I know this because it's obvious. But that's why I believe these people need to be taught that there is no need to act in such a manner.

      This is a reasonable idea, and is important to the discussion- Could you therefore detail how these people could be taught?

    93. Re:Less Honesty Please... by cheekyjohnson · · Score: 1

      First, I'm not sure that sense of satisfaction really gives me a clue that I should be doing this instead of, say, having a satisfying meal.

      Well, if you care more about a meal than helping others, then that is your own problem.

      Being sad did help the situation

      So would visiting there under the pretense of helping others, and potentially society.

      Sometimes, yes, but for what I'm talking about, the adrenaline was very necessary, and I think anger is going to lead to better results in this case than fear.

      You can get motivated without anger.

      My point was, saying you act out of logic instead of emotion is nonsensical, if your emotions are necessary predicates for your logic.

      I seem to do fine without anger or sadness, but as long as you don't do anything illogical due to those emotions (and people often do), then they might not be so terrible in certain situations.

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    94. Re:Less Honesty Please... by kiwimate · · Score: 1

      So, now let's consider a school age child. This is the most fragile time in a person's life, pschologically.

      Really?

      Err..yes, actually, really. I think Bowlby made that pretty clear - not that he was the only one, but I do like his work. Also Hazen and Shaver. There is a ton of excellent work out there, and it's pretty consistent.

      I think the rest of your post is a bit of a question-begging assumption, to be honest.

    95. Re:Less Honesty Please... by tsm_sf · · Score: 1

      I know it's a reality, but that doesn't make it logical.

      In a perfectly logical reality we would be (at our kindest) sterilizing people incapable of empathy.

      ((please imagine a significant look delivered at you over lowered eyeglasses. Maybe a slightly raised eyebrow.))

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    96. Re:Less Honesty Please... by cheekyjohnson · · Score: 1

      But for a teacher who is supposed to be educating the students (and their grades may affect future job availability), that is not acceptable, despite it happening in the real world. Especially when they're getting paid to educate.

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    97. Re:Less Honesty Please... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      don't hold your breath

    98. Re:Less Honesty Please... by cheekyjohnson · · Score: 1

      Sure. You can summarize it in a few lines of text. "There is no reason for you to be offended by mere words. The words have not hurt you, and there is no universal law that states that you must be offended, sad, or angry. Realize how pointless it is to succumb to negative emotions in such a situation, and realize that it is not necessary, and in some cases, detrimental, due to the fact that anger and sadness can lead to irrational behavior."

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    99. Re:Less Honesty Please... by cheekyjohnson · · Score: 1

      In a perfectly logical reality we would be (at our kindest) sterilizing people incapable of empathy.

      I'll ask again: what good does it do to succumb to anger or sadness? In many cases, it merely temporarily deprives you of your rationality, leading to illogical decisions. I never said that you should not feel positive emotions (such as happiness). Though, you shouldn't let them control you all the same.

      That said, sterilization needs to be employed, anyway. There are simply too many people inhabiting this planet as it is.

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    100. Re:Less Honesty Please... by Peristaltic · · Score: 1

      Your statements make sense on a certain level. However teaching a logical concept that is meant to take the place of a powerful emotional state on the mind's stage typically requires more than a succinct and logically correct argument. Human beings are known for their irrational behavior and beliefs- Beliefs that often do not succumb easily to rational statements. Many times empathy and emotion-based concepts will produce better outcomes when dealing with a child's problems than could purely rational statements, however accurate.

      While I agree with you in principle, in practice I have found the approach you mention above to be ineffective.

      The vast majority of humans I've dealt with, children as well as adults, are emotional creatures prone to bouts of rational behavior, and must often be counseled at that "level" when dealing with painful beliefs that incorrectly model the world around them.

    101. Re:Less Honesty Please... by cheekyjohnson · · Score: 1

      I know this as well. However, you asked me how they could be taught, not whether it would be effective or not. For most, it probably wouldn't be. All you can really do is advocate the idea whenever possible. Some will vehemently reject it, others simply won't change, but others will. Other than that, there's not much you can do, as far as I know.

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    102. Re:Less Honesty Please... by enjerth · · Score: 1

      Finding a way to wiggle a little Python into slashdot conversation is a long-standing meme. I'm sorry you missed out on that.

      What you're looking for is an argument.

    103. Re:Less Honesty Please... by pspahn · · Score: 1

      I agree also, but I think it's worth mentioning that sometimes you have to say things that are unpleasant to children to get their attention.

      As someone who previously taught disturbed kids (I as well), you should know this. I'm not saying what she said was okay (I'm kind of indifferent, not my children after all), but there are definitely times when what seems inappropriate might just actually be the thing that catalyzes a child's turnaround.

      Of course, this lady is a just a whiner, and these words don't appear to be those of a motivator.

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    104. Re:Less Honesty Please... by Nursie · · Score: 1

      I can't believe nobody mentioned tardblog so far. You we're closest but it just goes to a pythong sketch.

      tardblog is a long defunct blog that was one of the funniest things on the net. I have no idea if it was real, but it does feel that way. It's one of things you read, you guffaw, and then you realise you're a terrible person for laughing at disabled children.

    105. Re:Less Honesty Please... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I seem to do fine without anger or sadness

      You're kidding yourself.

    106. Re:Less Honesty Please... by cheekyjohnson · · Score: 1

      What makes you say that?

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    107. Re:Less Honesty Please... by Bobakitoo · · Score: 1

      Actually, I never claimed that you should get rid of positive emotions. I just said that you should not let negative ones control you and effect your state of mind by not getting offended in the first place.

      They would not be called "emotions" if the did not affect the mind uncontrollably. Believing we have control over them is what lead to mistakes.

      But i am the odd one that prefer been offended over been bored...

    108. Re:Less Honesty Please... by cheekyjohnson · · Score: 1

      They would not be called "emotions" if the did not affect the mind uncontrollably.

      Sure they would. You can feel happy without being irrational. That is much harder to do with anger or sadness, however.

      But i am the odd one that prefer been offended over been bored...

      You don't have to be bored or irrational. All I'm saying is to not let mere words offend you.

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    109. Re:Less Honesty Please... by rtb61 · · Score: 1

      Point of fact, watch the stream and you will see no students were named, so unless the parents agree with the comments they have no idea about which comments are about which students.

      Whilst a teacher venting their frustrations trying to teach modern students more interested in empty texting than learning, especially English, when current trends indicate they find even email all to bothersome, is somewhat immature, it is understandable.

      Of course english teacher's have struck me as always being pretty, well, anal about expression and the use of language ie. grammar nazis.

      So yet another offline mountain about an online molehill. The real answer is of course, if you must vent on line to relieve frustrations, create two identities and cultivate them to your heart's content, one to create a good public image and the other to rant.

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    110. Re:Less Honesty Please... by Peristaltic · · Score: 1

      For most, it probably wouldn't be. All you can really do is advocate the idea whenever possible.

      Why would I advocate your approach if both you and I agree that it is ineffective for most?

      Other than that, there's not much you can do, as far as I know.

      As I said above, there is, in my experience.

    111. Re:Less Honesty Please... by cheekyjohnson · · Score: 1

      Why would I advocate your approach if both you and I agree that it is ineffective for most?

      Because there are few options and it is simple.

      Many times empathy and emotion-based concepts will produce better outcomes when dealing with a child's problems than could purely rational statements, however accurate.

      Then it looks like they will have to learn through experience.

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    112. Re:Less Honesty Please... by tftp · · Score: 1

      So you'll take advice from a doctor but not the crack-whore handcuffed in the police station?

      It highly depends on the nature of the advice.

    113. Re:Less Honesty Please... by Xebikr · · Score: 1

      Thanks for the link! I knew that toffee couldn't be right.

    114. Re:Less Honesty Please... by ooshna · · Score: 1

      I want to know if she named specific kids or not. If she did then yeah fire her. But if she didn't name specific names or indication to which child she was talking about. I don't see the harm b/c honestly if I saw a blog of one of my old teachers and just talking about his past students without pointing out who he was talking about I'd read through it and laugh.

    115. Re:Less Honesty Please... by GooberToo · · Score: 1

      Any parent that knows their child is a dimwit, as the comments were then obviously about their child. Then the child can sue the parents for admitting he/she is a dimwit in a public forum.

      And when all the children's parents sue, the judge will be forced to dismiss the cases because of admission by the parents.

    116. Re:Less Honesty Please... by PCM2 · · Score: 1

      I think Bowlby made that pretty clear - not that he was the only one, but I do like his work.

      Bowlby worked on separation anxiety, not childhood fragility. Hazen and Shaver could be anybody, but I can only assume you're spinning their research to suit your point, too. Quote me some research that says the 11th grade (the grade this teacher taught) is the most emotionally fragile time of a person's life and I'll concede you have a point.

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    117. Re:Less Honesty Please... by ultranova · · Score: 1

      If there's anything people need to be taught, it's that you do not need to be offended by mere words, and indeed, it is far more efficient not to be.

      Humans have been social animals for so long now that it's almost as difficult to ignore mean words from someone you're supposed to have a somewhat friendly relationship with - especially an authority figure - than pain nerves firing. It's especially unreasonable to expect the young to have mastered this skill.

      More generally, it might not be such a good idea to train people to ignore what other people think. Society is already falling apart as psychopaths and hard-line individualists squeeze it dry. The last thing we need is our young to learn to ignore negative feedback.

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    118. Re:Less Honesty Please... by Methuseus · · Score: 1

      As said above, you failed to continue the sketch.

      Fortunately you updated it in a funny way.

      No mod points by the way.

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    119. Re:Less Honesty Please... by kiwimate · · Score: 1

      Out of interest, have you read Bowlby? As for Hazen and Shaver, they could be anybody, but a search of Hazen Shaver turns up the people I'm talking about in the very first links. I do not consider that I'm twisting either set of research, frankly. I believe the implications are fairly clear, although I'll grant you it's not the primary topic. I assume you're also familiar with Hall's "Storm and Stress", and how Lerner and Anna Freud reacted to that?

      If you're genuinely interested in the research, look at:

      • Pyne, K. B. (2006). "Good teachers" require "better students": Identity crisis in the search for empowering pedagogy.
      • Kohnke, J. F. (2005). Fatherlessness: An adolescent's point of view.

      At the risk of you thinking I'm twisting something to my own ends, I'll also suggest Austin and Kortum (2004).

      Obviously I'm professionally interested in this area and like discussing it. If, on the other hand, you just want to debate or make a point, have fun, but I'm out.

    120. Re:Less Honesty Please... by joebagodonuts · · Score: 1

      1 Location.
      2 It's inconsiderate. But kids don't think. They really believe the world is there for their whims.

      The school closet, or a school dance is a school function, not a private one. If they want some privacy for sex they can get a room, or take a chance on doing it in a car.

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    121. Re:Less Honesty Please... by Stradivarius · · Score: 1

      Couple of points:

      1. The teacher is a representative of the school. It reflects poorly on the school when their employee goes around demeaning their customers in a public forum. If you did this in any other business, you'd be fired by any half-intelligent employer. The teacher is being paid to provide a service, namely to educate kids. That position includes behavioral expectations so that they are not detracting from the educational mission. If they can't handle the job, they should be fired.

      The kids and their parents, on the other hand, are customers (not to mention that they are customers being compelled to pay for, and attend, a particular school by force of law, simply by virtue of where they can afford to live). Customers should expect to be treated with civility, not personal insults.

      2. Kids are required to attend, as well as to follow the instructions of the teachers. Because we give teachers authority, it is reasonable to hold them to a higher standard.

    122. Re:Less Honesty Please... by thePowerOfGrayskull · · Score: 1

      Logic often fails in these situations - pain is emotional, and emotions seldom heed the rules of logic. .

    123. Re:Less Honesty Please... by Stradivarius · · Score: 1

      I don't see what good thing the kids are going to learn from this episode, other than that their teacher lacks maturity. If they didn't respect her before, they sure as hell won't now. By throwing a public temper tantrum, this woman has utterly undermined any authority she may have had with the kids. Good luck getting them to learn anything from her now.

      Being "compliance sheep" isn't the only possible bad outcome. The kids could also turn into self-absorbed twits with an unjustified sense of entitlement. Seems to me her rant just makes bad outcome B more likely than bad outcome A, rather than doing anything to improve the kids' learning or emotional skills.

    124. Re:Less Honesty Please... by Stradivarius · · Score: 1

      A teacher found failing students because of their opinions really should be fired.

      They won't call it that. It will be "disruptive behavior" or "disciplinary problems" or some such thing. But really, if a teacher and a student are trading insults, it's a sign the teacher has no more maturity than the student, and thus should not be a teacher.

    125. Re:Less Honesty Please... by silanea · · Score: 1

      I am sorry as well, for I believe you missed the "beyond a very poor choice of location" part. Children have to learn how to behave appropriately. And the two most common ways to learn is from examples and from mistakes. Those kids made a mistake. They should have confined their sexual activity to areas where it is appropriate. They should have received a stern lecture on the subject of decency and be done with. PP's comment, though, sounds to me like those kids were doing something despicably horrible by having sex. Cancelling school dances? Oh dear! That is going to make them stop having sex. Right. And it is so very pedagogically sound to simply ban the dances instead of addressing the inappropriate behaviour. Wonderful. And the kids' intimate contacts should all be dutifully reported to the parents. Because that helps to, ahm, well, it certainly must be for the child's best. Oh, and they do not have any right to privacy, anyways. Teachers are absolutely free to report anything about their students to the parents. (In case you are wondering, that is not the case under every jurisdiction. In many places children's privacy enjoys quite strong protection even against their parents' right - and duty - to keep tabs on their offspring.)

      C_amiga_fan's comment nicely sums up what in my humble opinion is wrong with today's parents and, by that, today's kids: Constant monitoring and ever stricter regulations have replaced a proper upbringing that empowers kids to make sensible and informed choices about what they do, thereby stripping them of any sense of responsibility for their actions. Parents should not need to know whether their kids engage in sexual intercourse; They should be able to trust them to be smart about it.

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    126. Re:Less Honesty Please... by Lil'wombat · · Score: 1

      Actually you and I are the only real readers of Slashdot. All the rest are insane or a bot.

      Although sometimes I wonder about you...

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    127. Re:Less Honesty Please... by cheekyjohnson · · Score: 1

      More generally, it might not be such a good idea to train people to ignore what other people think.

      I didn't say that anyone should. I said that people should not get offended. That does not translate to "ignore everyone." Basically, respond to the situation logically. Getting offended will only make it worse.

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    128. Re:Less Honesty Please... by Bobakitoo · · Score: 1

      Sure they would. You can feel happy without being irrational.

      You think you are, but your not rational. Hapiness is no more rational then anger. Like all emotions, they are both irrational and they make you act uppon them. Not recognizing this open the door to the delusion of rationality when feeling hate. We all know how that end...

    129. Re:Less Honesty Please... by cheekyjohnson · · Score: 1

      Hapiness is no more rational then anger.

      No, but it's easier to control. Not to mention that feeling of sadness and anger can lead to further problems (such as stress).

      I never said you should believe whatever makes you happy, though. I just said that merely feeling happy (but still responding to situations logically) isn't necessarily a bad thing.

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    130. Re:Less Honesty Please... by Bobakitoo · · Score: 1

      If you feel happy you do not respond logically, you see the world through pink glasses. Not becoming violent is not the same thing as been rational. One can be very calm and delusional.

      Been moved by feeling is not worng. What is dangerous is believing we remain in control.

      Only once we understand this that we can express them freely and enjoy them.

    131. Re:Less Honesty Please... by cheekyjohnson · · Score: 1

      If you feel happy you do not respond logically, you see the world through pink glasses.

      Which is not what I said to do. I said that, when the situation permits it, feeling happy does no harm.

      Been moved by feeling is not worng.

      It is when you're being irrational. Tell me, who do you believe is more likely to spout illogical arguments: someone who is perfectly calm and who can think clearly, or someone whose mind is clouded with anger and is constantly interrupting and insulting the other person? You'd likely pick the second person because instead of calming down and trying to come up with a logical argument, they let their anger control them and became irrational and impossible to deal with. This is a bad thing, and so many people fall victim to this. The same goes for sadness (and probably other emotions if you let them control your actions at the wrong times).

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    132. Re:Less Honesty Please... by Bobakitoo · · Score: 1

      The clam one is a perfect troll. Don't listen to him.

      Picking the clam one without listening to both arguments is not rational. It just prove your bias toward some type of emotion. It lead to the support of a relaxed, psychopath, torturer and the condemnation of it's victim that is overwhelmed by his pain. (eg: He is not a credible witness)

      What i am trying to explain is that you are never fully rational. We are emotive animals and no matter how light or strong are the feeling, we are never really in control.

    133. Re:Less Honesty Please... by cheekyjohnson · · Score: 1

      "The clam one"?

      It just prove your bias toward some type of emotion.

      Well, of course. Anger and sadness can lead to stress, just like relying on any emotion can lead to irrationality. Neither are wise decisions.

      It lead to the support of a relaxed, psychopath, torturer and the condemnation of it's victim that is overwhelmed by his pain.

      What?

      What i am trying to explain is that you are never fully rational.

      I never claimed that we were, either. I just said you should try to be rational to the best of your ability.

      You're probably trolling at this point, but it doesn't matter.

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    134. Re:Less Honesty Please... by SanityInAnarchy · · Score: 1

      I think I did elaborate on how a person might accomplish this.

      In any case, my point is better written as, "they're the only ones who can fix it." We cannot shield our children entirely, even from teachers. If we did, all we'd be doing is pushing the problem back to their first boss.

      I can offer one specific piece of advice which helped me: "I am not a Volkswagen." It doesn't matter what they call me if it isn't true -- after all, if they called me a Volkswagen, it wouldn't make me any more an automobile or less a human being than I am now.

      Or, in more "adult" terms, don't depend on others for your self-worth, and don't allow them to define you -- or at least be careful who you trust with your emotional stability. When someone says something cruel about you which you know isn't true, unless you have good reason to trust them more than you trust yourself, you can treat this as a blatant demonstration of the kind of person this is and just how little their opinion or companionship is worth.

      I leave "adult" in quotes because children, especially teenagers, are much smarter than they get credit for. These aren't hard concepts, but they take practice to develop.

      I'm not saying we should deliberately hire teachers like this, any more than I would advocate rubbing your child's face in manure to build up their immune system. I certainly don't mean the children should have any blame for this. I do think they should be able to deal with it, and if they can't, now is an excellent time to learn.

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    135. Re:Less Honesty Please... by SanityInAnarchy · · Score: 1

      First, I'm not sure that sense of satisfaction really gives me a clue that I should be doing this instead of, say, having a satisfying meal.

      Well, if you care more about a meal than helping others, then that is your own problem.

      I never said that. All I'm saying is that the reason I care isn't necessarily connected with a sense of satisfaction.

      You can get motivated without anger.

      I get the feeling you didn't read what you're quoting here. This isn't "getting motivated" -- here, I needed adrenaline.

      I seem to do fine without anger or sadness, but as long as you don't do anything illogical due to those emotions...

      I'd like to think I don't, but you are falling back into the same dichotomy I just destroyed in what you're quoting.

      I feel like we're not really having a dialog anymore -- you're just quoting what you think is relevant and repeating your previous argument.

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    136. Re:Less Honesty Please... by cheekyjohnson · · Score: 1

      I'd like to think I don't, but you are falling back into the same dichotomy I just destroyed in what you're quoting.

      I feel like we're not really having a dialog anymore -- you're just quoting what you think is relevant and repeating your previous argument.

      Where did you come to this conclusion? I said that, as long as you're in control (and you take care not to get stressed out), I don't see a problem with it. Where did I repeat my previous arguments (besides about being able to do things without anger or sadness)? It's just that most people can't control themselves, which is why I advise against it.

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    137. Re:Less Honesty Please... by p3d0 · · Score: 1

      Really? You see those as the only two alternatives? Either teachers can say anything about any student on any forum OR they can say nothing about any student ever?

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    138. Re:Less Honesty Please... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      For one thing, it shows a bias, which already sets up those she feels negatively about for an unfair grade.
      She's an ENGLISH teacher, we all know how opinionated that subject can be. I personally always got a B on all my English papers, even after trading papers with someone who always got a C / D (yes, they still got a C / D on MY "B" PAPER, and I got a B with their paper. I eventually gave up and just copied my papers online and got a B regardless, and this is from multiple(3+) English teachers).
      Where arbitrary points are deducted because you used "She's" instead of "She is" at random spots, or the opposite scenario.

  3. Not an YRO by Sonny+Yatsen · · Score: 5, Insightful

    I don't think this teacher's suspension over the blog is a violation of her rights online. Everyone is free to say what they wish without risk of government censorship. But on the flip side of the coin, everyone must also bear the consequences of their speech. She went online, said something stupid and now she has to deal with the consequences of that.

    And frankly, she deserves to be suspended. Clearly, if she's posting this kind of stuff, her ability to teach those kids she refers to as idiots and rats is compromised. Does anyone want to be taught by someone who feels nothing but contempt for them?

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    1. Re:Not an YRO by Nidi62 · · Score: 1

      Does anyone want to be taught by someone who feels nothing but contempt for them?

      Does anyone want to teach people who feel nothing but contempt for them? No, but they do anyway, and for a pittance compared to what they have to deal with. I say good for her.

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    2. Re:Not an YRO by DurendalMac · · Score: 4, Insightful

      THIS. I anticipate a lot of kneejerking posts in this thread, but come on, she deserved it. When you continuously insult and degrade your students publicly, whether it's in person or online, don't be surprised when the school fires your ass, and for good reason.

      I have a friend who teaches in high school. He comments about his students and their silliness from time to time on Facebook, but nothing even remotely like this. He has sense enough to do it very tactfully and in ways that are not degrading.

    3. Re:Not an YRO by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      And if she's RIGHT about them?

    4. Re:Not an YRO by RightSaidFred99 · · Score: 2

      The problem is most Slashdotters were hailing as "free speech" the Facebook thing where someone decided an employer couldn't fire an employee for blatantly badmouthing him on Faceboook.

      So which is it?

    5. Re:Not an YRO by rolfwind · · Score: 0

      Teachers in that area are well paid. Overpaid in fact, considering all the benefits.

      Suburban teachers are not in the same poor position as urban or rural teachers.

    6. Re:Not an YRO by Hatta · · Score: 3, Insightful

      I would want to be taught by someone who is honest. If a dimwitted student is holding back the rest of the class, I want the teachers empowered to say so and do something about it. In my experience, the more patronizing a teacher, the less effective he or she is.

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    7. Re:Not an YRO by hedwards · · Score: 4, Insightful

      That might be, but nobody forced her to take the job or change her feelings. If the children were that dim there are ways of handling it. Sometimes parents do need to be told that the student isn't performing adequately. Typically that's done via report card, note home or possible home visit. Handling it via social networking site is completely unforgivable.

      Typically I'm against employers holding employees accountable for personal writings, but in this case it's not really a personal writing so much as a violation of the students right to privacy and a general violation of professional ethics.

      I've spent a lot of time personally undoing the damage that poor instruction has caused, and that was more legitimate lack of training without malice. Something like this could definitely haunt the students for years and possibly the rest of their lives. And no, I'm not exaggerating, a surprising number of late diagnosed "learning disorders" aren't really anxiety driven rather than whatever the diagnosis was.

    8. Re:Not an YRO by Xaositecte · · Score: 3, Insightful

      I agree with you completely, I've got a few teacher friends who say similar things to what this woman said in the article. But, they say it privately, usually over drinks with non-associated friends, and they're well aware that saying them in public would get them fired.

      Teaching kids is frustrating, and people need to vent sometimes. The only thing to remember is, if you need to work with people you're venting about, don't vent where they can hear you!

    9. Re:Not an YRO by mldi · · Score: 0

      Give me a break. Frankly, I'm tired of teachers being regarded automatically as "underpaid, unsung heroes". Yeah right. First of all, a good teacher is a rare one. We should praise those. But really, I should praise the guy who goes around unclogging sewers for a living just as much. They put up with a HELLUVA lot more than someone who interacts with some brats all day... and then takes a 3 month vacation from that. Don't get me wrong because we need teachers, but we need everybody else too and everyone plays a role in our society. They certainly don't automatically deserve to get paid more, and throwing money at teachers won't do an iota to fix our public schools problem in the US. They should be treated like everybody else instead of these untouchable saints - pay those who perform, punish those who don't, and definitely hold them responsible for stupid shit they publicly say.

      Back to the point: the dummy got caught saying some stupid shit, and she has to face consequences. Simple as that, and it should happen more often. After all, this wasn't a private conversation she was having, it was a public podium.

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    10. Re:Not an YRO by eln · · Score: 3, Interesting

      I don't think her ability to teach is compromised, but her ability to play the politics necessary to educate kids while keeping their parents happy definitely is. She actually got off light. One of my kids' old elementary teachers got fired on the spot for having a blog about her kids, and she wasn't saying anything nearly so mean about them. She had just been awarded the district's teacher of the year award the year before, too. Combine privacy concerns with angry parents, and you can pretty much pack your bags.

      That said, I can sort of understand why she was doing it. I've known lots of teachers, and they almost universally say the worst part about teaching is dealing with the parents. Some parents try to micromanage the teachers, others won't ever show any interest in their kids' education at all no matter how hard the teacher tries. Plus, kids come in with a variety of emotional, mental, and/or developmental problems that many times the parents simply refuse to acknowledge.

      All of this, along with the daily frustrations of shrinking budgets, increasing numbers of kids per classroom, and administrations that don't seem to care about anything but their own political ambitions, means most teachers really need a place to vent. Sometimes they bitch to each other, but schools can be nasty gossip factories, so it doesn't pay to do that too much. Sometimes you see your kid's second grade teacher in a bar. Sometimes, especially recently, they vent on blogs. The problem is, they don't anonymize themselves or the stories they tell sufficiently (or in this case, not at all), someone who has an axe to grind with them anyway (such as a parent) finds out about it, and it's all downhill from there.

    11. Re:Not an YRO by melchoir55 · · Score: 4, Insightful

      Teaching kids is not about getting something from the kids. It isn't about mutual respect. It isn't about them asking "how high" when you say "jump". It isn't about having kids revere you as their mentor.

      Teaching kids is about *helping the kids*. If they are great at algebra, then teach them polynomials. If they can barely handle addition, teach them addition. If they can barely pay attention to addition, work on getting them to pay attention/have self confidence/etc. Someone with the attitude of this teacher (or yours) is certainly not doing this. She deserves a suspension. Her attitude betrays a point of view toxic to pedagogy. In a perfect world where she could easily find work elsewhere and where the school could easily replace her then she should be asked to leave. Hopefully she takes her suspension as a wake up call. I doubt it, but we can hope.

    12. Re:Not an YRO by Saishuuheiki · · Score: 1

      Personally, as long as the teacher didn't give specific names I don't think it's a big deal.

      My mother used to be a teacher and one of my cousins is a teacher, and they will openly talk about how bad or stupid their students act. There shouldn't be anything wrong with publicly saying bad things about your students in general.

      And although I'm in my late 20s, I can clearly remember how me and my classmates would act in our classes. There was little respect for the teacher, and seeing some of the things written for homework or tests by students who simply didn't care about that subject, it could be scary for a teacher.

      Plus, I'm sure most of you can remember talking equally bad about some of your teachers. Now as long as this was a personal blog, and not like a blog put on the schools website, I find nothing wrong with this.

      Being a teacher in the US these days, you have little you can actually do about your students. To say that a teacher can't even talk negatively about their students in general in public is laughable.

    13. Re:Not an YRO by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I was thinking the exact same thing. Yesterday, it was obvious to so many on Slashdot that an employer can not punish an employee's disparaging remarks about her boss/co-workers on her personal time. Now, a teacher portrays her students in a negative light on her personal time and it is obvious that her employer can punish her for that. Really, Slashdot?

    14. Re:Not an YRO by JackOfAllGeeks · · Score: 1
      Would you say the same thing if it was a student suspended for off-campus speach about his teachers? It seems Slashdot has a problem with punishing the students for this kind of behavior, and I don't see anything that would negate that principle here.

      THIS. I anticipate a lot of kneejerking posts in this thread, but come on, she deserved it. When you continuously insult and degrade your teachers publicly, whether it's in person or online, don't be surprised when the school suspends your ass, and for good reason.

    15. Re:Not an YRO by pclminion · · Score: 2

      If a dimwitted student is holding back the rest of the class, I want the teachers empowered to say so and do something about it.

      There are ways to do that that don't involve ridiculing the "dimwitted" students. This isn't about protecting the self-images of precious little snowflakes, it's about basic human decency and the fact that it's fucking rude to talk about people that way, children or otherwise, especially in a public forum.

      It's not the idea she communicated that got her fired, it's the unprofessional manner in which she did so. What happened here isn't "bad speech, you get fired," it's "unprofessional behavior is not tolerated."

    16. Re:Not an YRO by operagost · · Score: 0

      She got fired? I didn't know that there were any non-union teachers.

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    17. Re:Not an YRO by Wyatt+Earp · · Score: 0

      She didn't bad mouth her place of business or her employer, she bad mouthed her students.

      Fire her ass.

    18. Re:Not an YRO by MayonakaHa · · Score: 3, Insightful

      Students are neither paid to teach people and assist in the development of their minds nor are they given a choice for what they do in life at this point. Teachers are expected to lead their charges in the right direction and have made the choice to be a teacher in the first place.

    19. Re:Not an YRO by Space+cowboy · · Score: 4, Insightful

      Does anyone want to be taught by someone who feels nothing but contempt for them?

      I had teachers who regularly called students (me included) "stupid bastard", and that wasn't by any means the worst of it. Never did me any harm - in fact the teacher who was polite and formal all the time was the universally despised one - nicknamed "Timmy!". His kid went to the same school, and was thrown out of a second-storey window because his father was such a pratt. Not defending that, I think it's reprehensible, but it happened.

      I had a Spanish teacher (Geoffrey Park) who used to throw a padlock at kids who weren't paying attention, a maths teacher who threw chalk (he was far more accurate...) and it was all fine. I remember getting my own back at the kids-v-teachers football match by starting a chant "Geoffrey Park, super-star!, walks like a woman and he wears a bra". All in fun, and I didn't expect (or get) any comeback in class later.

      Of course, I went to school in the UK, in a northern town, and it was far-and-away rougher than the US (at least in CA where I live). No guns or knives (considered the tools of cowards, where I'm from), but it was easy to come home bruised every single day for a year or so, with occasional visits to hospital.

      Sometimes the comparison between my school-life and the "issues" and "problems" facing todays youth seems very amusing ...

      Of course, it wasn't all bad. I had teachers who shot down thrown paper airplanes with the fire-extinguisher, or who came out to the pub with us for a drink after driving us to 'Bridge night' (I was in the school bridge team, and yes, we were under-age :). We dissected things (bulls eye, frog, ...) from age-11 onwards; I took an explosives option in Chemistry, used woodworking and metalworking power tools from age 12, etc. etc. Basically they treated us as young adults, and expected us to behave the same. Part of that is coping with being told you're a stupid bastard. Because, sometimes, everyone is (the stupid part - the bastard part is just to drive home the stupid part...)

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    20. Re:Not an YRO by Byzantine · · Score: 1

      Would you say the same thing if it was a student suspended for off-campus speach about his teachers? It seems Slashdot has a problem with punishing the students for this kind of behavior, and I don't see anything that would negate that principle here.

      You mean besides the fact that they're minors and not held to the same standard as adults?

    21. Re:Not an YRO by jIyajbe · · Score: 1

      So which is it?

      Neither. She was not complaining about her employer, so it is a false comparison./p>

      The closest I think you could come to it is that she was complaining about her working conditions. Not the same thing.

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    22. Re:Not an YRO by Locke2005 · · Score: 2

      Even if she's right about them, she is still if violation of Federal FERPA statutes for disclosing educational records, which are supposed to be kept confidential.

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    23. Re:Not an YRO by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      My parents, sister, two aunts and three cousins are all suburban school teachers, and I assure you that they're paid just as shittily as their urban counterparts.

    24. Re:Not an YRO by Millennium · · Score: 1

      Basically, yeah. She committed a gross breach of professionalism, and the First Amendment neither can nor should save her from the just consequences of her actions.

    25. Re:Not an YRO by Myopic · · Score: 1

      So, what's the difference between "risk of government censorship" (which you say she is free of) and "consequences of their speech" (which you say she must bear)?

      This is an honest question. How do we differentiate acceptable retribution and unacceptable retribution?

    26. Re:Not an YRO by Hognoxious · · Score: 3, Insightful

      There's quite a strong bias against teachers here. There's also a lot of self-proclaimed geniuses who don't get recognized because ["the system" is biased against them | they test badly | they have assburgers | other lame-ass excuse].

      I wonder if these two facts are connected?

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    27. Re:Not an YRO by cheekyjohnson · · Score: 1

      That makes complete sense. Minors can say whatever they like, but not an adult! The adult might hurt some feels of people too weak-minded to understand that they don't have to be offended by mere words.

      If a minor did the same thing, why shouldn't they be held to the same standard (not that I believe either should be fired/suspended)? What is the logical reason for this?

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    28. Re:Not an YRO by smcn · · Score: 4, Insightful

      A teacher's obligation is to help her students learn, is it not? An appropriate response to a student "holding back the rest of the class" is to confer with the parent and recommend alternatives, not complain about it on a publicly accessible blog. Honesty does not require being an asshole.

    29. Re:Not an YRO by CatsupBoy · · Score: 1

      The problem is most Slashdotters were hailing as "free speech" the Facebook thing where someone decided an employer couldn't fire an employee for blatantly badmouthing him on Faceboook.

      I think in this case there is some implied confidentiality given to the student. Maybe she didnt name names (I did not RTFA), but perhaps the identity could have been inferred by those in the class or their parents.

      Frankly though, if i were a school administrator, trying to keep students in school, or attract more students to the school, i would argue that she is damaging the public image of the institution and thus financially harming it.

    30. Re:Not an YRO by Reapman · · Score: 1

      Soo... calling you a dimwitted idiot on a blog is empowering you now? Wow Web 2.0 is AWESOME.

    31. Re:Not an YRO by nomadic · · Score: 1

      Everyone is free to say what they wish without risk of government censorship. But on the flip side of the coin, everyone must also bear the consequences of their speech.

      These are mutually exclusive propositions; "censorship" takes many forms, including punishing the speaker after the speech is made.

    32. Re:Not an YRO by jahudabudy · · Score: 1

      Everyone is free to say what they wish without risk of government censorship.

      Assuming this is a public school, i.e. government institution, which it sounds very much like it is, I would say getting fired for saying the wrong thing online is about as blatant as censorship gets.

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    33. Re:Not an YRO by Duradin · · Score: 0

      /. hates authority other than the GPL and its prophet.

    34. Re:Not an YRO by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Does anyone want to be taught by someone who feels nothing but contempt for them?

      Hey, you leave my parents out of this!

    35. Re:Not an YRO by cheekyjohnson · · Score: 1

      Frankly though, if i were a school administrator, trying to keep students in school, or attract more students to the school, i would argue that she is damaging the public image of the institution and thus financially harming it.

      Couldn't the employer he was talking about in his post claim the exact same thing?

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    36. Re:Not an YRO by LifesABeach · · Score: 1

      When a parent, or student denounces an educator, is the student sent to another school? Also, I can't help but wonder if Blogging is a violation of the educator's contract? If the educator's actions are not a violation of contract, then the educator still gets paid; I'd like to think of it as a quasi reward for ditching school, the student is sent home.

    37. Re:Not an YRO by MrSenile · · Score: 4, Insightful
      Actually, you made good points, let's break them down.

      Teaching kids is about *helping the kids*.

      How is the 'no kid left behind' doctrine helping kids? How is dumbing down the curriculum to help the under achiever helping the brilliant student?

      If they are great at algebra, then teach them polynomials. If they can barely handle addition, teach them addition.

      And here we have the crux of the problem with education in the United States. Teachers are unable to individually teach students, and thus, those that shine in their area of expertise suffer for those who are average. In fact, some school systems enforce average teaching because singling out students tend to get the teacher in question in trouble with the school boards.

      If they can barely pay attention to addition, work on getting them to pay attention/have self confidence/etc.

      And how does one enforce this? Spanking no longer is an option. Sending to the principles office? Most kids causing the problems really don't care if they're in trouble because they know the school system can't do -anything- to them if their parents don't care either, which is most always the case for troubled youth to begin with. Teachers can't do anything when the legal system and government and school boards take their power away to help them.

      Someone with the attitude of this teacher (or yours) is certainly not doing this. She deserves a suspension.

      Then you should suspend all teachers. I guarentee you that every single teacher out there, good or not, have felt this at least once. They vent to family, friends, and each other all the time. The only mistake this teacher did was to vent on a public forum where it was visible when she probably should have kept it private.

      Her attitude betrays a point of view toxic to pedagogy.

      Point your finger to the Government system that have ham-strung our education system. The teachers are as much a product of it as the piss-poor education our children are suffering through. She's a symptom of the problem, not the problem itself.

      Hopefully she takes her suspension as a wake up call. I doubt it, but we can hope.

      Why should she? She will likely do the exact same thing that students under her do who also cause problems. Not a damn thing. Why? Because it won't matter. Why care when no one else does. You've shown what the majority of people think already. You never once considered her view point. Why she felt the way she did. Why she felt she needed to vent. You automatically accused her because... why? The children could do no wrong?

      Smell reality sometime. It's different than the fiction you're sniffing.

    38. Re:Not an YRO by Duradin · · Score: 3, Insightful

      And then the parents go "LA LA LA Our crotchfruit is perfect! WE CAN'T HEAR YOU!" while plugging their ears.

    39. Re:Not an YRO by wowwser · · Score: 1

      She is just complaining about her work environment - http://www.suntimes.com/news/metro/3725380-418/changes-after-facebook-ruling.html

    40. Re:Not an YRO by Hognoxious · · Score: 2

      There are ways to do that that don't involve ridiculing the "dimwitted" students.

      Not since grades of B and lower were abolished.

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    41. Re:Not an YRO by OverlordQ · · Score: 1

      I don't think this teacher's suspension over the blog is a violation of her rights online. Everyone is free to say what they wish without risk of government censorship. But on the flip side of the coin, everyone must also bear the consequences of their speech. She went online, said something stupid and now she has to deal with the consequences of that.

      If it was the other way around, how many of you would be arguing that it's the student's right to be able to say what they want about their teacher.

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    42. Re:Not an YRO by C_amiga_fan · · Score: 2

      $50,000 a year is "overpaid"? I make 3 times that (almost) and my job's a hell of a lot easier (and less important) than a teacher's job.

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    43. Re:Not an YRO by LSU_ADT_Geek · · Score: 1

      I hope you live or die by that opinion Sonny. Like everyone else, I believe you and I make comments about coworkers and bosses to the same extent this teacher makes about her kids, so do these comments and feelings preventing us from being effective employees? Does gossiping with coworkers introduce instability within the ranks? Honestly, the teacher is reacting as humanly as the rest of do, so I think suspension is a little borderline as a simple reprimand might be enough. Reality is that people's kids suck, which is why wife and I are seriously thinking about raising cats.

    44. Re:Not an YRO by RightSaidFred99 · · Score: 1

      Your pathetic attempt at sophistry is noted, and ignored. It's not a false comparison - an employee said something concerning her place of employment on her personal time and in a public forum, and employer fired her for it.

    45. Re:Not an YRO by RightSaidFred99 · · Score: 0

      I agree. And I would have fired the bitch in the other case, too. Talk bad about your employer or customers in public, get fired. The point is most Slashdotters are neckbeard hypocrites.

    46. Re:Not an YRO by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Well, if someone took the case to the authorities, there was certainly a rat in her class. But yes, she should assume the consequences of having that kind of students.

      What is interesting is that normally kids can mess with the teacher's life coming up with fake rape and abuse stories, but when the teacher complains (probably sincerely) then it's just plain miserable. I'm sorry but recently people put their feelings through many outlets, unluckily most of the public, such as blogs or facebook. Not too long ago there was the story of the guy that was fired for writing stuff about his boss on facebook.

    47. Re:Not an YRO by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Neither are teachers when they're outside of the classroom. Isn't that a double standard?

      I can criticize my co-workers outside of the workplace but a teacher can't criticize their students outside of the workplace?

    48. Re:Not an YRO by brainboyz · · Score: 4, Insightful

      I disagree. Some of my BEST teachers (based on the measure of how much I learned/gained from a class) had no problem calling a student out in front of the WHOLE class with a cuttingly honest remark. Why? Because they would point out the faults and pressure you to work towards fixing them. Sure, there was a student here or there that merely gave up in the class after such remarks, but those were the same students that put no effort in elsewhere either. On the flip side, these same teachers gave out praise for exemplary work, and you can bet when you got it you felt great.

      At this point, too many students are coddled when they need to be slapped up-side the head with reality. Lazy, disrespectful, and borderline criminal students need not be told it's "okay" but rather need to be told to shape up. Too many are coming out of school expecting things to be handed to them, or to "pass" with minimum effort.

    49. Re:Not an YRO by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Why not, you'll end up working with the same type of person anyway. ; ^ |

      Personally, I think she should have been reprimanded, asked to remove the postings and gone to sensitivity training before being fired.

    50. Re:Not an YRO by pclminion · · Score: 1

      So, because administrators and legislators make bad decisions, it's okay to sling insults at little kids?

      Just because I have a bad day at work, I don't feel entitled to slap someone on my way home...

    51. Re:Not an YRO by demonlapin · · Score: 1

      They didn't prohibit her from saying it. She wasn't censored. Retribution is an entirely different thing.

    52. Re:Not an YRO by hairyfeet · · Score: 2

      Exactly! I had a truly wonderful tutor for HS (eating pavement at 60MPH+ tends to tear up one somewhat) and she told me flat footed "I'm going to concentrate on math because honestly you and flowery prose don't mix" and she was absolutely right, I hated comp and strictly was a "noun verb noun" kind of guy, whereas I excelled at math and science.

      Of course I thought it hilarious when at my year end test out one of the teachers accused me of cheating on the English portion because I used words so far above my peers. Ms Edwards (wonderful tutor..you rocked Ms Edwards!) took one look at my supposed "cheating" and laughed right at the teacher in front of me. She said "His mom was reading Asimov to him when other kids got "Horton hears a Who" but it is beyond easy to tell if Kevin wrote anything, as he strictly writes "noun verb noun" and that is what this is. You can't blame the kid because he reads higher books and frankly he deserves an apology" which I got.

      The difference between a teacher and a great teacher is a great teacher learns enough about her students that she knows what they are and aren't capable of. Ms Edwards knew that getting me to think in flowery prose simply wasn't going to happen and with my love of all things tech was pointless so she concentrated on mathematics and science and gave me just enough English comp that I could use it when I needed it. But she was never insulting or made me feel like it wasn't possible for me to pick something up, she just knew "my brain didn't work that way" and tailored my education towards the things I excelled at while giving me enough of the others to get by.

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    53. Re:Not an YRO by Hatta · · Score: 2

      Being an asshole is often a prerequisite to getting things accomplished.

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    54. Re:Not an YRO by Garridan · · Score: 1

      The problem is not that our current teachers deserve to be paid more. The problem is that teachers are paid so little, nobody with a decent level of education is willing to do it. If teachers were paid a competitive salary, we'd have smarter teachers. Instead, what we get are a few great, passionate teachers who really want to be there; and the majority are education majors who ended up in that career path to avoid flunking out of college.

      Pay teachers a competitive salary, and we'll have more smart teachers. Education departments around the country will be able to base students' grades on something other than attendance (true story: you can't fail an education course if you show up more than 3 times in a semester), and the quality of education will go up.

      Not overnight, and not even in 5 years. It takes about 20 years to turn around the education system in a country -- you need to raise an entire generation on good education before you can expect a graduating class full of good educators. The problem with today's society is that we've gotten used to immediate results, and foolishly expect them in every aspect of our lives.

    55. Re:Not an YRO by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      If a dimwitted student is holding back the rest of the class, I want the teachers empowered to say so and do something about it

      If a student is holding back a class, then I'd certainly want for the teacher to be able to remedy that, too. However, I don't think going online and describing kids as "rat-like" is going to accomplish anything at all.

    56. Re:Not an YRO by Wyatt+Earp · · Score: 2

      Naw, I think the badmouthing an employer is just fine, however teachers, doctors, nurses, lawyers and religious professionals have to live up to a higher standard professionally and never ever openly insult the people they support in a venue where it might get back to them.

      Saying to friends over a drink that Timmy is a felonious piece of crap and he deserves to be kicked out of school is one thing.
      Posting on live journal that Timmy is a felonious piece of crap and he deserves to be kicked out of school is quite another.

    57. Re:Not an YRO by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Does anyone want to teach people who feel nothing but contempt for them? No, but they do anyway, and for a pittance compared to what they have to deal with. I say good for her.

      If she didn't want to teach the little brats, she shouldn't be in that job. The kids, on the other hand, have no choice.

    58. Re:Not an YRO by NoSig · · Score: 1

      Then her insulting their intelligence will hurt them that much more seeing as it will hit close to home.

    59. Re:Not an YRO by ciaohound · · Score: 1

      Being an asshole is often a prerequisite to getting things accomplished.

      Certainly true if you mean "getting shit done."

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    60. Re:Not an YRO by NoSig · · Score: 1

      It would be bad for the teacher to say in class "you're all a bunch of idiots and you are simply too stupid for this to be worth the effort" even if it's true, because that would negatively impact the teacher's ability to teach the class. Saying it on a blog has the same problem because the students can access her blog. Saying it to a friend is not as bad, unless the students are close enough to hear.

    61. Re:Not an YRO by newcastlejon · · Score: 1

      I agree with your points on performance-based pay and "throwing" money at teachers* but not your comparison with sewer cleaners. Sewers are not children and teachers have to endure shit of an entirely different kind.

      *A bit of a cart and horse situation there.

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    62. Re:Not an YRO by sourcerror · · Score: 1

      Hey, how about your doctor/psychologist telling the world about your conditions? It relates to his/her work as well.

    63. Re:Not an YRO by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Interesting post, and all, but I'm still trying to figure out what that parenthetical had to do with its context:

      (eating pavement at 60MPH+ tends to tear up one somewhat)

    64. Re:Not an YRO by lgw · · Score: 1

      Teachers are paid what supply and demand dictate, except for those paid more due to unions. Their salaraies are quite competivite, otherwise you wouldn't find anyone who wants the work.

      Now, if you changed the job description, raised the stakes, raised expectations about teachers actually teaching, so that only a few could do the job, then wages would go way up. But we're as unwilling to fire crap teachers as we are to let techers complain about crap students, so we have what we have - a bunch of glorified babysitters with the occasional star.

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    65. Re:Not an YRO by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Don't be ridiculous. Unless "Suzy is a dumb cunt" is written somewhere in Suzy's student record file, a teacher stating it is still nothing more than the teacher's personal opinion. It's not part of her "educational record".

    66. Re:Not an YRO by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I want the teachers empowered to say so and do something about it.

      And by doing something about it, you mean whine about it on an internet blog? Yeah, that'll get results.

    67. Re:Not an YRO by xero314 · · Score: 2

      Clearly, if she's posting this kind of stuff, her ability to teach those kids she refers to as idiots and rats is compromised.

      And you know this how? If there is no proof of any lack of ability on her part then this should have no barring on her employment. People often go home and complain about their clients, yet still do damn good job for them.

      Does anyone want to be taught by someone who feels nothing but contempt for them?

      I don't care how someone feels about me as long as they are doing there job. In this case no one cares what the teacher thinks, just what they post online.

    68. Re:Not an YRO by RapmasterT · · Score: 1

      $50,000 a year is "overpaid"? I make 3 times that (almost) and my job's a hell of a lot easier (and less important) than a teacher's job.

      Do you work an average of 190 days a year too? The idea that teachers are underpaid is a fallacy whose time has come to and end. The worst you can say is that teachers make less per year of education than most professions, but not all and it is something you know going in.

      If nothing else, having 3 months a year off sure helps take the sting out of that measly $50K paycheck. I may make 2.5 times as much, but teachers get almost 10x as many days off a year.

    69. Re:Not an YRO by JackOfAllGeeks · · Score: 3, Insightful

      Teachers are expected to lead their charges in the right direction and have made the choice to be a teacher in the first place.

      And if a teacher is doing that when acting in her position at school, I don't see a problem with her holding or expressing negative opinions outside of school. Writing in her blog is not the same as neglecting or mistreating her students. Just as I can work with co-workers I don't like or respect, I'm sure she's capable of instructing people she doesn't like or respect.

    70. Re:Not an YRO by Albanach · · Score: 1

      in this case it's not really a personal writing so much as a violation of the students right to privacy and a general violation of professional ethics.

      Is there another article? I don't see any suggestion that she actually named any pupils. The video says they didn't see any individual students mentioned.

      If their names were not released, in what way do you feel their privacy was violated?

    71. Re:Not an YRO by RightSaidFred99 · · Score: 1

      Yeah, you're not grasping something. I think she should have been fired. I also think the person in the other story should have been fired, too. But Slashdot (generally) seemed to think that other one was a "free speech" issue, when in fact it most certainly wasn't. Free speech doesn't mean your boss can't fire you for publicly criticizing him.

    72. Re:Not an YRO by Myopic · · Score: 1

      And by saying they are overpaid, you mean that there are many more people clamoring to become teachers, than there are teachers needed? That is the one and only way to judge how "overpaid" a person is. For instance, the evidence suggests that the President and all Fortune 500 CEOs are overpaid, but I've only heard of teachers being paid "enough", never "overpaid", although I am open to the possibility, if you can demonstrate it.

    73. Re:Not an YRO by kalirion · · Score: 1

      I think the problem is not the fact that she wrote it (Free Speech, yada-yada) but the fact that it's now out that this is how she feels about the students. Would you want someone who hate's your kids to be responsible for their education?

    74. Re:Not an YRO by LordLucless · · Score: 1

      Would you say the same thing if it was a student suspended for off-campus speach about his teachers? It seems Slashdot has a problem with punishing the students for this kind of behavior, and I don't see anything that would negate that principle here.

      When you pay students a salary, you can fire them for bitching about their teachers as much as you like.

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    75. Re:Not an YRO by izomiac · · Score: 1

      Back in the middle ages you could say anything you wanted about the king, if you were prepared for the consequences. I don't think many would call that freedom of speech. Censorship doesn't need to take place before something is said, removing a person after they say something still qualifies. The term applies equally to preventing a book from being published or burning it afterwards.

    76. Re:Not an YRO by theexaptation · · Score: 1

      Does anyone want to be taught by someone who feels nothing but contempt for them?

      Ever asked for help in a Debian forum as a newbie? (muahahahah sorry could not help myself please don't troll me)

      Seriously though, thinking about outcomes instead of emotions, these parents should probably spend more time looking at themselves and how they are raising their children rather than attacking the source of the information.

      I see two general options upon hearing this sort of information and I think about the outcomes of each.

      Option A, Internalize the information, take ownership of the problem, become more involved, and change how you raise your kids.

      Option B, Maintain an emotionally rewarding delusion, absolve the responsibility of your child's future to the state, and attack anything that might disrupt that delusion.

      IMHO it was seriously unprofessional for her to write about such things publicly because of the negative impact on her school and classroom. That being said, I don't feel our education system bears sole (or even majority) responsibility for the education of our children. It is good that we try to for our collective good, but push come to shove it is the parents' responsibility alone.

      Sadly once again a messenger suffers for delivering a little truth.

    77. Re:Not an YRO by sjames · · Score: 1

      There are good reasons to treat the two cases differently. First, the teacher is supposed to be the adult, the students cannot be expected to be fully mature yet. The teacher isn't necessarily being punished for wrongdoing, but having her suitability as a teacher questioned given how she feels about students. Then there's the fact that the students are there involuntarily (literally by law until they turn 16, and for all practical purposes after that).

      At the same time, I would think the most appropriate response would be job counseling for the teacher, perhaps some mentoring from a senior teacher. She needs help either developing a better attitude about students, deciding she needs a different career or at least learning to be more discreet and perhaps a transfer. It's hard to say based on the information in a single article. Of course, this could also be a last straw situation.

    78. Re:Not an YRO by MrTester · · Score: 3, Insightful

      I agree with everything you said, but it has nothing to do with this situation.

      There is a big difference between calling a students failings out in the class room vs any public forum, electronic or otherwise.

      And I would also expect a teacher who says "I hate your kid" to get fired no matter what the forum.

    79. Re:Not an YRO by sjames · · Score: 3, Insightful

      You're talking about constructive criticism. It does have it's place. TFA is about a teacher writing snarky comments (that seemed to be mostly name calling rather than constructive) in her blog where they wouldn't likely do the students any good.

    80. Re:Not an YRO by HiThere · · Score: 1

      I don't know about you, but the teachers I know generally put in 10 or more hours a day. Contact time isn't the only part of the job, you know. (And in our area one day a week there's a half day of school to theoretically allow the teachers to catch up on what they can't do during class. It helps, but not that much. Tests need to be corrected overnight. Essays need to be evaluated, etc. They might get lesson planning done during that time period, but some of that needs to be done overnight too.

      Maybe 12 hours is closer to the average. Maybe 10. Not less. (Of course, some don't care, and don't bother. And *those* are the ones that we should get rid of.) Also, at least in the past that "summer vacation" was when the teachers took the professional classes required to keep their credentials current. It was definitely a lower pressure time of year, but definitely not free time.

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      I think we've pushed this "anyone can grow up to be president" thing too far.
    81. Re:Not an YRO by GMFTatsujin · · Score: 1

      Looking at this through the flip test, students who critique, berate, and abuse their teachers' image should fairly expect summary expulsion, unwanted publicity, and the destruction of their future employment.

      That's what the teacher got.

      Saying something stupid is one thing, consequences are a related thing, but keep it in perspective. Teachers and students both have the right to speak, to write, and to express. This teacher is indicative of a major issue in school -- lack of respect on both sides of the desk -- but she is not the cause of it.

      Call her out on it, yeah. Maybe put some of her troubled students in they fray as well. Treat it like what it should be: a reconciliation of students and teachers, though. The educational system won't survive inquisitions, whoever gets staked.

    82. Re:Not an YRO by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Would you say the same thing if it was a student suspended for off-campus speach about his teachers?

      No, the relationship between teachers and students is not symmetric, and their contractual relationship with the school is also different.

    83. Re:Not an YRO by CookieForYou · · Score: 1

      Realistically, good teachers are going to be teaching right over the head of the bottom 10 or 20 percent of the class. Otherwise they're not good teachers.

      The class cannot stop, or hold back the remainder of the students for a minority who are having trouble. This one of the myriad issues in American education. The whole mantra of "no child left behind" is a farce.

      That said, the teacher was in the wrong posting about it publicly.

      So, in that sense, I feel like you are both right, and wrong.

    84. Re:Not an YRO by HiThere · · Score: 1

      What I got was:
      He got in a motorcycle accident, and had to spend time recovering. So he had a tutor rather than going to school. This allowed him to get individualized education. And he got an excellent tutor named Ms. Edwards.

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      I think we've pushed this "anyone can grow up to be president" thing too far.
    85. Re:Not an YRO by HiThere · · Score: 1

      After you get a degree in education, you can't do much else. Sales, perhaps. But McDonald's wouldn't hire someone that old.

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      I think we've pushed this "anyone can grow up to be president" thing too far.
    86. Re:Not an YRO by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Fine, we'll get off your lawn... Jeez.

    87. Re:Not an YRO by turtledawn · · Score: 1

      I'm assuming car or perhaps dirt bike accident, which led to him being physically unable to attend regular classes due to injuries and rehabilitation schedules- thus, the private tutor.

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    88. Re:Not an YRO by kubernet3s · · Score: 1

      Go home and complain. At their home. In private. This is the fire in a crowded movie theater scenario, and we don't need to do it again here. The teacher actively damaged her relationship with her students, and no matter what the "Stern Teacher" crowd on Slashdot seems to think, calling a child ugly, stupid, or annoying will not only fail to teach them better, but make it harder to teach them at all. Yes, you may not care how someone feels about me as long as they are doing their job, that is a very mature attitude: something the average student is not. I personally wouldn't attend that class: I can hang out with someone who calls me names during lunch.

      If a teacher makes it clear that through diligent schoolwork, I can earn their approval, that is one thing. It is quite another for them to tell me they think I'm a ratty little moron who will never amount to anything. No one has a positive scholastic experience with such a teacher. No one, I don't care how many hard knock stories you have: you would have been better served by a teacher who didn't hate children. I have seen teachers get fired for establishing antagonistic relationships with the student body: just because she chose to do it on a blog doesn't mean they're stripping her of her e-rights/

      tl;dr If I work for a PR firm, and a client hires me, I am not allowed to go home and post drawings of them blowing a horse online, and claim I was "just complaining about work" when they fire me. (Unless of course, this client is the CEO of Horseblowers Unlimited)

    89. Re:Not an YRO by b4upoo · · Score: 0

      I am shocked that more folks do not support freedom of speech. If the lady is on her own time and blows of steam by cracking wise about her students I say so what. If she were singling out individuals by name and posting information about them I might consider some modification of her behavior. But there are times in life when all of us must deal with human tubes. You know, food in, food out and nothing of worth in the being at all. Teachers do get overloaded with kids at times and are aware when the bulk of them will do nothing more than breath air and clog the roads from cradle to grave. We really do produce large numbers of rather worthless kids. In some schools the teacher deserves bravery commendations just for entering the school each day.
                    Reality has to count for something even when the facts hurt. Most people are not studied as groups but black people frequently are studied as a group. We know that the chances of a black student going to prison are greater than that of going to college. Now suppose you are a teacher and you walk into an auditorium with 2000 black students and only a half dozen white kids. You already know the odds are that you are speaking to quite a few criminals waiting to bloom. Would you be thrilled? Or would you rather be somewhere else for your own safety?

    90. Re:Not an YRO by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      There's a difference between criticism and insult.

    91. Re:Not an YRO by kubernet3s · · Score: 1

      The teacher is an adult. The students are children. By your logic, we should allow kindergarten teachers who throw tantrums and cannot read. One of the functions of any scholastic institution, higher or otherwise, is to TEACH the kind of respect you are asking the students to have. The teacher is the source of the respect you find in the classroom: none of it comes from the students because students don't have respect. Yes, if the student fails to learn the lesson of creating a respectful learning environment, you discipline them, but you don't abandon the ideals of respect you're trying to teach. If you do, the school needs to find someone who does, because you are not fit to be a teacher.

      Despite a lot of big talk in this thread, there is not a single educated person on here who did not lack very many of the qualities of a functional adult possesses before their education, and who does not owe their maturity to an adult who saw fit to instruct them in those qualities without any help from them as students. If a teacher begins teaching that 2+2=7, one does not rationalize this by saying that this is what her students believe, so it cannot be helped: one fires her because she is teaching incorrect behavior. What the teacher has done is publicly (remember, the internet is in fact public) abandon the creation of a respectful class environment, and the school board needs to find someone who will not do that.

      And I do not think you are reading the situation correctly: the teacher is not bemoaning the fact that her students are troubled, she is calling them names in the manner of a middle schooler How exactly are students going to be "thrown into the fray" for being "dim" and "ratlike"? Will they be summoned to the principle and told that they will be expelled if they don't stop being such an ugly little git? What this amounts to is a teacher expected to teach kids maturity behaving immaturely, demonstrating her unfitness for employment. Speech is an action, and if you are hired on the basis of being a person who acts in a certain way, don't act surprised when acting contrary to that gets you fired.

    92. Re:Not an YRO by Hatta · · Score: 1

      No, but an empowered teacher wouldn't have to vent on the web. This teacher shouldn't have said those things on his blog, but he shouldn't have had to say those things on his blog either.

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    93. Re:Not an YRO by celle · · Score: 1

      Except that public schools are a government entity. I see a potential first amendment violation in this. I doubt she'll press anyway as I'm sure she still cares about her kids. Why bitch if you don't?
          Professional behavior is often just a red-herring to hide things, public schools are public already so her bitching on a public forum is irrelevant. They're just mad it was on a forum the school couldn't censor. She just described the big elephant in the room when everyone else is attacking the schools and teachers and ignoring the rest.
          A kids behavior starts at home with the parents. If a teacher feels under siege and holding the kids and their parents publicly responsible for their behavior works, well lets see. It's not like it hasn't been done before to other groups. She didn't single out anyone by name, so there's no the privacy violation. It's amazing that telling the truth is little more than a crime. Little white lies everywhere, they're still lies, what an example for kids.

      "Does anyone want to be taught by someone who feels nothing but contempt for them?"

      Ever been trained by someone you're replacing?

          I do see fewer students wanting to be teachers with the low pay, shitty hours, district money games(paying for supplies), legal issues, parents/student behavior, ever larger class populations, and administration/school board political games.

          Although what she did was stupid in the current public climate that teachers are just overpaid babysitters. That's instead of underpaid and overworked educators of many peoples most important assets. She still made her complaints about completely ignored problems known and probably knew what the expected response would be. Maybe she is brave. If you Consider many teachers have four year or more degrees and associated debt this kind of shitty response is just going to kill the pool of talent even more.

      I'm still waiting for someone to accuse her of telling lies. If it's all the truth then the school response is just BS. The school needs to grow a pair and tell the parents to "really" talk to their kids more often than the holidays.

      Having family members in the teaching profession I've heard my share of this.

    94. Re:Not an YRO by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      MrTester is right.
      +insightful imo

    95. Re:Not an YRO by shentino · · Score: 1

      If I were the principal I would probably throw her to the wolves just to placate lawsuit happy parents.

      I wonder if any of little johnny's parents threatened legal action prior to the decision to suspend.

    96. Re:Not an YRO by Lunzo · · Score: 2

      Mod parent up for "crotchfruit" :D

    97. Re:Not an YRO by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      When I went to school, it was pretty clear that the teachers hated a lot of students. And most of them deserved it, those kids went out of their way to be third wheels.

    98. Re:Not an YRO by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I think you'd find the opinion was different if an employee were disparaging her customers publicly on personal time, which is a more fair comparison.

    99. Re:Not an YRO by melchoir55 · · Score: 0

      You are right that many government mandates placed on teachers do more harm than good. You are wrong in that you think her attitude is a symptom rather than part of the underlying cause.

      You are wrong also in seeming to think teachers are justified in becoming cynical. You ask "the children could do no wrong?" with sarcasm, yet this is just the philosophy an educator must maintain. Children are not your equals. You are better than they in any measurable regard. It is like shooting fish in a barrel to point out moral, motivational, analytical, or any other deficiency in a child under your tutelage. Being a teacher is understanding this. It is recognizing that you are there to better them as people despite any challenge which lays before you.

      In the end we are human. Indeed, we feel frustration. This is quite different from holding the attitude "these kids are a lost cause " or "they don't meet my expectations so I'm done working to help them". This is the attitude we see in the teacher mentioned above. To teach is to adopt the philosophy I espouse. To do otherwise is to become a hindrance.

      You seem to think these musing come from someone looking in on the system rather than existing within it. A strange assumption.

      "You've shown what the majority of people think already"
      No, you are displaying the viewpoint that most Americans have. That the teacher has no duty to care because her students have somehow offended her, as if those two groups are somehow on equal ground. You seem to think the children have some responsibility to the teacher. They do not. They are *children*. It is your own view which is destroying education; teachers giving up because they think they are morally justified based on these and other problems. "Be the bigger person" has no better application than when your position is that of an educator.

    100. Re:Not an YRO by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I suspect you're not thinking about realistic conditions that most teachers face, and get paid very little for. You may also be overlooking the fact that they are human and have flaws like the rest of us.

      If they fired every teacher who ever said "I hate your kid" we'd have NO teachers left. Perhaps you'd like to step in and do the job?

    101. Re:Not an YRO by mgblst · · Score: 1

      Agree to a certain extent, but it hard not to feel contempt for SOME students, the disruptive ones who do not want to learn or behave. They interrupt your class, and slow the learning process of other kids. Dealing with these students day in, and day out, it is hard not to feel like she clearly does.

      You have clearly never taught a class before, or have been incredibly lucky in the students you have.

      I think this is a decision for teachers to make, not ignorant parents.

    102. Re:Not an YRO by flimflammer · · Score: 1

      She didn't "continuously" insult and degrade her students publicly. She made one (rather unprofessional) rant on a blog post that was over a year old without actually identifying anyone, and someone just happened to catch notice of it much later.

      On the contrary, I think people gunning to fire her are overreacting, and I hope she doesn't lose her tenure over telling the truth one time on the internet. Sorry parents, your little gems aren't as great as you think they are. Most of them are lazy assholes spending all their time trying to get out of work instead of actually doing it.

    103. Re:Not an YRO by nine932038 · · Score: 2

      Think back to those classes. I'm willing to bet that those teachers, the ones you remember as being the best teachers, had earned some measure of respect from you or your fellow students. What you can get away with in a class, as a teacher, varies tremendously depending on the class dynamic. I have some classes that I, necessarily, must handle with delicacy, and I have some classes where I can call out kids for acting stupid.

      Credit where credit is due, after all, and blame where blame is due. This teacher wasn't very smart in her venting, and she essentially got what she deserved. If she's going to say, in a reasonably public place, that her kids are dumb, well, she gets to reap the rewards of that.

    104. Re:Not an YRO by flimflammer · · Score: 1

      I don't think so, MrTester.

    105. Re:Not an YRO by Drgnkght · · Score: 2

      Basically they treated us as young adults, and expected us to behave the same.

      I think you've hit the exact problem with schools in the U.S. and most likely elsewhere. This simply isn't true anymore and I think we're all the worse for it.

    106. Re:Not an YRO by bwayne314 · · Score: 2

      I totally agree, my most influential teacher pre-college followed a 'no holds barred' mentality, he routinely pointed out our flaws in the class, ridiculed us for not knowing our shit when we should have but at the same time praised success in a similar manner.... It been almost a decade since I left his classroom but i still keep in touch with the guy, as do many of his other students. It is no accident that he had the top slot state-wise in how well his students did on the AP test for that subject. The year I took it, of the 60ish kids that were in the two classes he taught, 56 got 5s, the other four all got fours.

      The classroom was personal, it was almost like a grudge-match, "You vs. the Teach" he would throw a challenge your way, and if you handled it you laughed in his face, if you slacked, he would call you out on it in front of the room, you got pissed and studied extra hard the next time around.

      Now that I am in a teaching position myself, at university instead of high school, I sometimes experience these feelings myself - many of the kids are too coddled, too pampered, too entitled, thinking that they can slide by with a barely passing grade if they just do minimum work. If I were to speak up early and tell them exactly where they are, then they may get their act together and do well. This isn't the case, political correctness wires my jaws shut, I have to interact with students using "formal-speak" only, lest I offend anyone. I am not allowed to appeal to a student sense of "hey, im an idiot for partying 4 days straight before an exam" because it might hurt someone's feelings.

      OF COURSE publishing this type of thing for the world to see is wrong also, there are things that happen in the classroom that should stay in the classroom. If you feel that one of your students is a moron, there is no reason to tell the world and make them unemplyable forever, .... tell them in person and convince them to work and change your opinion.

    107. Re:Not an YRO by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      That was my first reaction. Then I read what she actually wrote.

      Her comments aren't linked to specific students and she isn't suggesting that most (or even many) of her students deserve such comments. This looks to me like unfocused venting. Unless a comment can be linked to a specific student, the school overreacted IMO.

    108. Re:Not an YRO by bwayne314 · · Score: 1

      Also has anyone who actually read TFA considered the fact that the students mentioned MIGHT have actually been lazy and/or rude ?
      Maybe this was the only way the *bad* teach could voice her frustration?

    109. Re:Not an YRO by Imrik · · Score: 1

      This is more akin to an employer badmouthing employees on Facebook and getting fired by his boss. There's a difference between complaining about those who have authority over you and complaining about those you have authority over.

    110. Re:Not an YRO by Imrik · · Score: 1

      The student has no authority over the teacher and is not paid to act in a professional manner.

    111. Re:Not an YRO by scottv67 · · Score: 1

      >but I'm still trying to figure out what that parenthetical had to do with its context:

      The author of that post offered background information that established why he had a private tutor instead of attending "normal" classes with the other kids.

    112. Re:Not an YRO by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I have had similar teachers, and they were great. This is different though. It is ok hit students with a little harsh reality within the classroom, but what this teacher did was equivalent to calling students out over the school intercom.

    113. Re:Not an YRO by Shotgun · · Score: 1

      It's like the acquaintance I had the misfortune of knowing. He was a personal trainer who, by his own words, only wanted to train clients that were motivated and in shape.

      If the clients are motivated and in shape, WHAT THE HELL DO THEY NEED *YOU* FOR, you nimrod!!

      He was (is?) a basket case that is worthless as a personal trainer, and this nimrod is worthless as a teacher.

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      Aah, change is good. -- Rafiki
      Yeah, but it ain't easy. -- Simba
    114. Re:Not an YRO by shentino · · Score: 1

      As a matter of principle, you should be able to do as you please on your own time unless you've made an agreement to the contrary.

      In practice, if your boss has enough leverage, he can get away with pretty much anything.

    115. Re:Not an YRO by shentino · · Score: 1

      How many of the coddling teachers coddle out of fear from litigious parents? Or under orders from administrators who have that fear on their own heads?

    116. Re:Not an YRO by shentino · · Score: 1

      The teacher in that case would likely get fired for attracting a lawsuit for slander against the school district.

    117. Re:Not an YRO by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      It depends on what they're patronizing you with. If it's Calculus or Physics, that's a great teacher. If it's history or philosophy, it's a bunch of BS. Why is a BS degree science and a BA degree full of BS?

    118. Re:Not an YRO by shentino · · Score: 1

      My doctor/psychologist would probably lose his license and even risk jail time. HIPAA and all that.

      That would be a better analogy for a company manager blabbering trade secrets in public, in that the distinguishing attribute of the information that makes its release heinous is confidentiality instead of how bad a light it puts someone in.

    119. Re:Not an YRO by DurendalMac · · Score: 1

      So if a teacher publicly writes on her blog, "Johnny Wilson is a worthless little shitpile. I wish he'd jump off a goddamned bridge", that would be okay? She's in a position of authority over a bunch of minors. You expect the teenagers to be shitheads because they're TEENAGERS. You expect the teachers to be held to a higher standard because they're ADULTS. Pretty simple.

    120. Re:Not an YRO by shentino · · Score: 1

      Or worse, sue said teacher to pieces for slander. Threatening people with lawsuits is a very effective tactic.

    121. Re:Not an YRO by DurendalMac · · Score: 1

      If you can't tell the difference between an adult and a minor then you are almost certainly the latter.

    122. Re:Not an YRO by DurendalMac · · Score: 3, Insightful

      There's a difference between saying, "Your performance is subpar. You really need to pick up the slack" and "You're a rat-like, miserable little shit". There's a big difference between being cuttingly honest and just dickheaded.

    123. Re:Not an YRO by cheekyjohnson · · Score: 1

      Did I say that I can't tell the difference? I asked for a logical reason for treating them differently in a situation like this. More specifically, why should a minor be able to say anything they please without consequence whilst a teacher would be fired?

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    124. Re:Not an YRO by Pstrobus · · Score: 1

      You are wrong also in seeming to think teachers are justified in becoming cynical. You ask "the children could do no wrong?" with sarcasm, yet this is just the philosophy an educator must maintain. Children are not your equals. You are better than they in any measurable regard.

      Children are being taught, they are not empowered consumers who are your equal. Children are often wrong and they are generally ignorant, that is why they are being taught. "I am going to be a rock star so I don't need to know history" is not a valid answer.

      I agree that teachers are better than the kids and so contempt is out of line, I also know that teachers are treated with contempt from admin, parent, and student. Dumping contempt on a person who is trying to teach you anything is not a good working relationship. Giving a person responsibility without authority is an invitation for disaster.

      She is out of line and should have kept her venting private or taken them to someone who could help here with the underlying issue. She should be mentored/tutored/counseled to improve her ability to work. The one question I have to ask, in addition to the above, is 'did the students do anything to earn this contempt?'

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    125. Re:Not an YRO by Kozz · · Score: 1

      What you've described of your teachers sounds reasonable to me, but your attempt to defend this teacher might be more relevant had the remarks made not been abusive, name-calling, unconstructive, and behind the students' backs.

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      I only post comments when someone on the internet is wrong.
    126. Re:Not an YRO by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      But I doubt that same teacher would call out the same student in front of the entire school whilst in the cafeteria or gymnasium, because that is not a teaching forum. This was the equivalent of doing it in the town square.

    127. Re:Not an YRO by mywhitewolf · · Score: 1
      Wow, just... wow. Elitist much? who are you to say that just because someone doesn't excel in education or business that they are without value? and calling kids worthless. the same people you have decided are worthless have the full human range of emotions that you do, they want, crave and desire, they want to be accepted by their peers. the contribute to others lives in entertainment and joy as much as you would contribute to society and business. you aren't all that different regardless of how special you think you are, you just have different focus.

      Now suppose you are a teacher and you walk into an auditorium with 2000 black students and only a half dozen white kids. You already know the odds are that you are speaking to quite a few criminals waiting to bloom. Would you be thrilled? Or would you rather be somewhere else for your own safety?

      the black people that go to jail aren't the ones filling an auditorium. More murder suicide school shootings (all iirc) were done by white students.

    128. Re:Not an YRO by Totenglocke · · Score: 1

      I don't recall it mentioning her insulting ALL students, only select ones. And you know what? Some kids are unteachable. I know many teachers and every one of them complains about the idiot students who have no desire to learn or are just flat out incapable of it. This whole notion of "all students are of equal ability / work ethic" mentality is just foolish. Just like how people in IT complain about having to deal with moronic customers, teachers complain about having to deal with the same thing. Or do you think all IT workers who complain about morons who can't figure out where the "any" key is should be fired as well?

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    129. Re:Not an YRO by Totenglocke · · Score: 1, Interesting

      The "logical" reason behind it is because, for some unknown reason, Slashdot has developed a love of the incompetent in recent times. I remember years ago when people on here would complain about all of the stupid people in the world, yet now they demand that you love and adore the stupid people and you should be punished if you expect them to use their brains.

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    130. Re:Not an YRO by Xyrus · · Score: 1

      Does anyone want to be taught by someone who feels nothing but contempt for them?

      Drill sergeants and special forces training seem to do a pretty good job.

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    131. Re:Not an YRO by Xyrus · · Score: 1

      Then what about students who publicly denigrate teachers? Can the teachers and/or schoolboard handout detentions and/or expel students from school for being disrespectful little pricks? Or are double standards okay in this case?

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    132. Re:Not an YRO by Totenglocke · · Score: 1

      Why? Why the hell can't a teacher be honest? If a kid is stupid / unwilling to learn, then why should the teacher kiss their ass and pretend like they're wonderful?

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    133. Re:Not an YRO by vaporland · · Score: 1

      Does anyone want to be taught by someone who feels nothing but contempt for them?

      it prepares students for adult life, where their supervisors will feel exactly the same . . .

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    134. Re:Not an YRO by Totenglocke · · Score: 1

      She did not say "Johny Storm is a fucking moron", she said an unnamed student is a moron. That's hardly the same thing. There's no "rudeness" about it, you just cannot accept the reality that some kids are goddamn idiots and schools would be better off if they were tossed out. Grow up, quit crying that someone doesn't think the sun shines out of your ass, and live in the real world.

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    135. Re:Not an YRO by Totenglocke · · Score: 1

      So you've never said "customer / co-worker X is a moron" on one of those days? I highly, HIGHLY doubt it. This was something she wrote on her personal blog, not something she said in class or emailed out to parents. Would you support yourself being fired if you were talking to friends and said "God, this guy X today at work was so stupid I wanted to smack him" and he overheard you? I doubt it.

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    136. Re:Not an YRO by Totenglocke · · Score: 1

      Bull. It has no effect on her ability to teach. Plenty of college professors will openly tell you to your face in front of the whole class if you're an idiot. This was talking about unnamed students where they couldn't see unless they happened to stumble across it. I fully support calling out idiots - I had a history class once where a moron wrote about how Hitler was with the Allies during WWII - and the teacher read this in front of everyone and called him a moron in class. If you don't want to be humiliated for being stupid, then try using your brain.

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    137. Re:Not an YRO by Totenglocke · · Score: 1

      Saying "Don't be honest about the mental abilities of your students or you'll be fired" is censoring.

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    138. Re:Not an YRO by farble1670 · · Score: 2

      1. dishing out of public humiliation is not in a teacher's job description.it's not her choice or prerogative.
      2. her comments were not constructive.
      3. her comments were subjective ("rat-like", "dim", "i hate ...")

    139. Re:Not an YRO by farble1670 · · Score: 1

      do you think calling a dimwitted student such is going to make them smarter? "dim" is not a measurement of someone's effort, but rather of their mental capacity.

      i agree, if a "slow" student is holding the class back, get them out of there, into special ed. for example. same thing if their behavior is disrupting the class. but insulting them serves no purpose.

    140. Re:Not an YRO by farble1670 · · Score: 1

      in what universe / field of work? i've found that it *always* involves the cooperation of others, and being an asshole doesn't exactly make folks want to cooperate.

    141. Re:Not an YRO by farble1670 · · Score: 1

      means most teachers really need a place to vent

      news flash ... any job you have, any, you are going to screw yourself by publicly calling the people you work with dim-witted and rat-like. if it doesn't get you straight up fired, you will at least lose your ability to influence and cooperate with your colleagues.

    142. Re:Not an YRO by farble1670 · · Score: 1

      And you know this how? If there is no proof of any lack of ability on her part then this should have no barring on her employment. People often go home and complain about their clients, yet still do damn good job for them.

      did you really think before you wrote that? try writing a public blog about a client calling them names. let me know how that works out.

      if that doesn't make anything click for you, try this: you give your financial information to your accountant for yearly tax prep. the next day he posts on his blog how stupid you are with your money. he doesn't tell you directly. he doesn't offer any constructive advice; he just calls you a dummy. would you still use him? would you think he's doing his job well?

    143. Re:Not an YRO by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Yeah, but there's a difference between calling a student out in person in class about something they did and writing about it online. Yes, I would want the teacher to confront me about issues that I need to improve on. But I don't need that broadcasted to everybody.

      If the teacher had written a newspaper article the same way, it wouldn't seem like something reasonable to do.

      You're free to say whatever you want. But there are such things as professionalism and professional ethics. Just because you're free to do something doesn't mean you SHOULD.

    144. Re:Not an YRO by shentino · · Score: 1

      The only wrinkle I'd buy is that the students were minors.

    145. Re:Not an YRO by BlackBloq · · Score: 1

      You are a fucking moron. Quit calling evil shit nice to make your childhood seem better. Now I've called you out, feel better you fucking moron?

    146. Re:Not an YRO by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I got the impression from RTA that it was a joke - the comments she would have liked to have written on the student's reports rather than the standardized ones. I didn't see anywhere that she identified any particular stundent.

      I agree that a public blog is the wrong place to do it, but I can't see the problem.

    147. Re:Not an YRO by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      She was complaining about the generic comments that are handed out to students on report cards (e.g. co-operative in class) and provides a joke list of new comments that should become standard. Excerpt from the blog below.

      p.s. Her English is not good enough for an English Teacher.

        From her blog: "Also, as the kids get worse and worse, I find that the canned comments don't accurately express my true sentiments about them. So now I pretty much choose "Cooperative in Class" for every kid (or, in some instances, will speak in other codes. For instance, if they talk a lot, I'll put "is easily distracted" or "talks persistently"; if it's a kid that has no personality, I'll put "ability to work independently"). For some kids, though, my scornful feelings reach such fever pitch that I have a hard time even putting "cooperative in class" and have, sadly, had some kids for which none of the comments fit. (Again, this was NOT me. It couldn't have been. I was a delight!!).

      Thus, for this blog, I will list the comments I'd like to see added to the canned comment list, as an accurate reflection of what we really want to say to these parents. Here they are, in no particular order:

      Concerned your kid is automaton, as she just sits there emotionless for an entire 90 minutes, staring into the abyss, never volunteering to speak or do anything.
      Seems smarter than she actually is.
      Has a massive chip on her shoulder.
      Too smart for her own good and refuses to play the school 'game' such that she'll never live up to her true potential here.
      Has no business being in Honors.
      A complete and utter jerk in all ways. Although academically ok, your child has no other redeeming qualities.
      Lazy.
      Shy isn't cute in 11th grade; it's annoying. Must learn to advocate for himself instead of having Mommy do it.
      One of the few students I can abide this semester!
      Two words come to mind: brown AND nose.
      Dunderhead.
      Complainer.
      Gimme an A. I. R. H. E. A. D. What's that spell? Your kid!
      There is such a thing as too loud in oral presentations. We shouldn't need earplugs.
      Att-i-tude!
      Nowhere near as good as her sibling. Are you sure they're related?
      I won't even remember her name next semester if I see her in the hall.
      Asked too many questions and took too long to ask them. The bell means it's time to leave!
      Has no business being in Academic.
      Rat-like.
      Lazy asshole.
      Just as bad as his sibling. Don't you know how to raise kids?
      Sneaky, complaining, jerkoff.
      Frightfully dim.
      Dresses like a street walker.
      Whiny, simpering grade-grubber with an unrealistically high perception of own ability level.
      One of the most annoying students I've had the displeasure of being locked in a room with for an extended time.
      Rude, beligerent, argumentative fuck.
      Tactless.
      Weirdest kid I've ever met.
      Am concerned that your kid is going to come in one day and open fire on the school. (Wish I was kidding.)
      I didn't realize one person could have this many problems.
      Your daughter is royalty. (The Queen of Drama)
      Liar and cheater.
      Unable to think for himself.
      I hear the trash company is hiring...
      Utterly loathsome in all imaginable ways.
      I called out sick a couple of days just to avoid your son.
      There's no other way to say this: I hate your kid.

      These comments, I think, would serve me well when filling out the cards. Only, I don't think parents want to hear these truths." ...say "cooperative in class."
       

    148. Re:Not an YRO by Draek · · Score: 1

      A teacher's obligation is to help her students learn, is it not?

      Yeah. In school. Not 24 hours a day, every day of the year, and certainly not during her personal time that she uses to write her personal blog that has absolutely no relation whatsoever to said school other than it being a frequent subject of her rants.

      Being a teacher is a job, not some mystical position that only the most pure can aspire to.

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    149. Re:Not an YRO by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      and how does insulting them online help at all?

    150. Re:Not an YRO by hairyfeet · · Score: 1

      Street bike actually, summer of my 16th year I hit a dog at 60MPH plus coming back from swimming wearing nothing but a pair of PE shorts...ouch. Didn't break a bone but knocked out all the front teeth, ripped the jaw just like the Joker, and peeled the hide off from top to bottom (Thank God for those PE shorts!) which left me prone to infections and unable to do much more than lay around when not in rehab for nearly two years.

      But I have to say in a way it was one of the best things that could have happened to me, because while the other kids got a cookie cutter education I got MS Edwards who was frankly one of the best teachers a kid could have, her and Mr Stone really knew how to make a kid think. Mr Stone had his own version of "six degrees" only he was an old hippie and his focal point was Woodstock. He could tie ANY event in American history to Woodstock in 6 moves or less. I don't know how many hours I spent pouring over American history trying to find an event that would stump him, and I never did.

      Sadly he also taught JHS history and ended up fired soon after I got better because he showed the class Woodstock as a reward for all the hard work they had put in, and they fired him for "showing an inappropriate movie with drug references" in class. But what do you expect from a "football school" where they dumb things down to make sure little Johnny can keep making those 30 yard passes. They may have lousy equipment everywhere else, but the gym is always top notch and stocked as well as any AAA college athletic program.

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    151. Re:Not an YRO by tftp · · Score: 1

      There's a difference between saying, "Your performance is subpar. You really need to pick up the slack" and "You're a rat-like, miserable little shit".

      That's the difference between two students.

      When I was in school one of the guys knifed another one during the class, just for fun. Do you think you can say that his classroom performance was just subpar?

    152. Re:Not an YRO by sjwt · · Score: 1

      I think the implication is an accident lead to the OP being home schooled for part of a year.

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    153. Re:Not an YRO by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      My child is an Honor Student at Future Sociopath Secondary

    154. Re:Not an YRO by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I'd agree with you, if the same was expected of the students. When was the last time a student got suspended or expelled for abusing their teachers online? Or physically in class, for that matter? Never?

    155. Re:Not an YRO by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      If they said they hate your kid then you are dealing with revealing personal information. Any teachers opinion (including hate) mentioned in any public forum including the school room should be fired. Grades, opinions, and the likes need to be kept to the papers and if they aren't appropriate fired. However generalised statements about a class, school, etc. on a blog should NEVER be used against teachers. Teachers are unelected public figures. They have to take shit from students if students post comments about the teacher online and if a teacher hates a student it very well may be justified. However unlike the student the teacher can't respond in kind. Responding as a generalised statements about a class though is tolerable. Unless they are making degrading statements against a class of pupils. IE like based on race, sexual preferences, ability, etc. But a general statement that THE (not a class) class is lazy should not be grounds for suspension or being fired. Teachers are government employees and the government can't do shit against people for stating personal opinions. They do have to act in accordance with the law and not exhibit prejudice against any student or students. Basically if it didn't happen in the class room... and it wasn't revealing personal information about a student or maybe a group of students (other than ones class because that is just general and not specific) they should be fine. Unless a teacher was teaching special needs kids or something because that is a specific group, etc.

    156. Re:Not an YRO by NoSig · · Score: 1

      If you think it has no effect on teaching then you would be a terrible teacher just like some college professors indeed are.

    157. Re:Not an YRO by Totenglocke · · Score: 1

      And you would be a terrible teacher because, instead of teaching and holding them to some semblance of standards, you just spend the whole time telling them that they're perfect just the way they are and they don't need to learn anything.

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    158. Re:Not an YRO by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      it's this what the school grades were created for ?

    159. Re:Not an YRO by Mal-2 · · Score: 1

      Drill sergeants and special forces training seem to do a pretty good job.

      But they are also allowed to fail those who deserve it. Not everyone is expected to pass, it's designed to be an ordeal not everyone is up to -- just like being shot at.

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    160. Re:Not an YRO by dcollins · · Score: 1

      "Not an YRO... I don't think this teacher's suspension over the blog is a violation of her rights online."

      Note that linguistically, "Your rights online" != "Violations of your rights online". For example, an exploration of "Do people have right X online?" would fall in the category.

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    161. Re:Not an YRO by Kokuyo · · Score: 1

      *stands up and applauds*

    162. Re:Not an YRO by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      It is a teacher's job to teach every single child in a class. A teacher that considers any student "dimwitted" and "holding back the rest" should get another job. Allowing for different learning speeds in a class is a matter of didactics. If you fail at that you fail at teaching.

    163. Re:Not an YRO by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      So you want to live in a society where people cannot express their true feeling and lie all of the time. You want people who are liars to teach your children.

      Yeah, fuck you, tool.

    164. Re:Not an YRO by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I agree with you completely, I've got a few teacher friends who say similar things to what this woman said in the article. But, they say it privately, usually over drinks with non-associated friends, and they're well aware that saying them in public would get them fired.

      Teaching kids is frustrating, and people need to vent sometimes. The only thing to remember is, if you need to work with people you're venting about, don't vent where they can hear you!

      If you don't think the teacher said anything wrong then she shouldn't be punished. She is just being made a scape goat for PUBLICLY stating what probably the majority of teachers think about their students.

      Instead of solving a problem, the administrators and Managers are just engaging in a public relations stunt by suspending and possibly firing her instead of trying to fix the problem.

      Right now teachers get hired and promoted based on "socialization" skills instead of an ability or aptitude to teach. Unfortunately HR Managers rely on job and school references and academic performance to hire instead of actual teaching ability. If that were the case in other industries then somebody like Albert Einstein would have never gotten a position at a university, instead he may have ended up getting a job as patent clerk or call centre representative.

      If you have any morals, you would ask those "friends" of yours to quit their jobs and get a job as sales professionals instead, where they can socialize all they want and not be inappropriate about it.

      Personally, I would fix the system by:
      a) Not hiring anybody who has positive job references (because we don't want liars and cheaters in the school system, or people who associate with them). Lets face it, people in authority hate honest people and love ass-kissers, so we all know what type of people will get hired based on references from Managers.
      b) counsel teachers to be honest toward their students, especially if it means being politically incorrect (this would help ensure problems can be corrected instead of hidden and ignored). So no more canned answers during assessments.
      ... etc and so on....

      Well I could go on, but you are probably the type of person who thinks I'm an idiot. Many teachers have thought the same of me. They didn't need to say it. Neither do your friends. Kids know if they are being discriminated against. Too bad your friends are cowards and assholes. We tend to be the same type of person that we associate with. I'm sorry you are an asshole. I'm sorry that the moderators are often largely assholes. I'm glad I no longer moderate or even bother signing in and reading here anymore.

    165. Re:Not an YRO by BitZtream · · Score: 1

      I have a particular dislike of American teachers, most of them are nothing but money grabbing morons who think they deserve to get paid more 'because they are a teacher' and their ability to teach has nothing to do with it, and if you don't give them tenure in 2 years you're an evil heartless bastard.

      With that said ...

      The kid is probably a complete worthless pile of shit because his parents let him get by with anything he/she wants. The kid more than likely is a waste of flesh, food and oxygen.

      Yes, she should expect to be fired for posting it publicly, but the reality of it is, you'd probably say the exact same thing. When teachers get in trouble for punishing their students who disrupt class, you can't blame them for hating the bastards. They've been turned into watchers. They aren't even baby sitters, baby sitters actually have some sort of authority. They basically get to sit and watch, and locally if you want to send a kid to the office, you have to wait for the campus cop to show up to escort him/her because if little Johnny in high school doesn't go to the office and instead walks off campus and gets hit by a car or abducted ... its the teachers fault.

      More of this sort of thing should be expected until we stop giving children more control than the adults that are responsible for them.

      Without reading the article though, $100 bets the teacher is only a few years older than the students she teaches ... which means she's just as much of a kid as they are.

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    166. Re:Not an YRO by BitZtream · · Score: 1

      It does now days when parents seem to be completely unable to comprehend that little Susie or Bobbie is a worthless pile of shit with no manners and no consideration for anyone else.

      Teachers aren't holding back the class to confer with parents about students, teachers are holding back the class because they can't get anything accomplished because they spend all their time fighting students they can't control and have had all their authority to do so removed from them.

      Contrary to popular belief it can infact be the childs fault, and it most CERTAINLY is the parents fault.

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    167. Re:Not an YRO by AmiMoJo · · Score: 1

      So the moral of the story is that anonymity is necessary for free speech. Otherwise you are not free to speak your mind for fear or the consequences.

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    168. Re:Not an YRO by AmiMoJo · · Score: 1

      Most parents don't think their kids are perfect, but they do expect them to get a good education and, rightly or wrongly, attribute much of their success or failure to the teachers.

      There are basically two points of view here. The predominant one in the west seems to be that some people are just not good at certain things. A kid who is bad a maths will never be Professor of Mathematics at Oxford and they should divert their energy elsewhere once a certain minimum level of proficiency has been reached. People often say things like "I just don't get maths" or "I'm no good at languages".

      In the far east, particularly Japan, the view is that everyone is capable of mastering a subject. Well, barring those who are handicapped. But any normal person can become Professor of Mathematics if they put in enough time and effort learning it. There was a drama a few years about a bunch of delinquents who manage to go from barely attending school to getting into Tokyo University by studying hard. It was mainly a vehicle to show some novel methods of learning material and passing exams, but there is a genuine belief that anyone can do it.

      So if you take the latter view, which most parents do when it comes to their own kids because they are unwilling to see them as inherently incapable of academic achievement, then it is easy to blame the teacher for their lack of progress.

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    169. Re:Not an YRO by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Same thing - school in UK in 80's we had teachers who threw wooden backed board rubbers at the inatentive. But equally i had a mate pull a replica pistol on our maths (trig) teacher who had just joined having moved from s.africa where he had done military service - after the teacher picked himself up from where he had dived he physically threw my mate through the class doorway. But we both stayed in his class and at the end of the year my mate got A,A in his Maths further Maths A-Levels. We also would drink with teachers on geography field trips and do the thermite reaction ourselves in chem class using a ribbon of magnesium as the fuse

    170. Re:Not an YRO by demonlapin · · Score: 1

      She wasn't fired for being honest about the mental abilities of her students. She was fired for doing it publicly, rather than in parent-teacher meetings, and for being an ass about it.

      Maybe the kids should toughen up. Or maybe it's trivially easy for an adult to pick out the weaker members of the class and hold them up to ridicule for her own amusement, especially when they're forced to spend an hour or more a day with her, and so we don't let them get away with it.

    171. Re:Not an YRO by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I don't think most kids would mind being called a "stupid bastard" in front of their face (depends on the context and circumstances of course), but most kids would feel uncomfortable being talked about or written about without their knowledge.

      So you can call a kid a stupid bastard in front of his face. But if you call a kid a stupid bastard behind his back and as part of gossip with your Facebook friends then that's a different story.

    172. Re:Not an YRO by Ledgem · · Score: 1

      Why? Why the hell can't a teacher be honest? If a kid is stupid / unwilling to learn, then why should the teacher kiss their ass and pretend like they're wonderful?

      It's not always a simple matter of "the child is stupid" or "the child is unwilling to learn." Perhaps that subject is particularly difficult for that child, or perhaps there are problems occurring within the child's life that is preventing him/her from performing well. Depending on the community that we're talking about, it's not always a case of the kid being spoiled.

      I agree with what someone mentioned above, that many people simply go through the system in an uninspired manner and then come out feeling entitled. Having tougher teachers might help with that. However, these children are also developing as people (not just as learners). Negative reinforcement has its place, but positive reinforcement is far better. Based on my experiences both in and out of the education system, people tend to over-use the negative (even inappropriately) and rarely utilize the positive. I would value a teacher's honest opinion, but I would not want a judgmental teacher taking their shit out on my child.

    173. Re:Not an YRO by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Does anyone want to be taught by someone who feels nothing but contempt for them?

      a maths teacher who threw chalk (he was far more accurate...) and it was all fine.

      I've had at least four math teatchers who were chalk-thowers; in High School AND in College...

      Wonder if it's a pattern...

    174. Re:Not an YRO by Custard+Horse · · Score: 1

      That might be, but nobody forced her to take the job or change her feelings. If the children were that dim there are ways of handling it. Sometimes parents do need to be told that the student isn't performing adequately. Typically that's done via report card, note home or possible home visit. Handling it via social networking site is completely unforgivable.

      Dear parent, I am concerned about your son's 'rat-like' appearance. Whilst this does not effect the other children it does make me feel slightly bilious whilst teaching him. As such, your son's presence in class is deemed as disruptive.

      In order to address this unfortunate 'problem' I request that your son is sent to school in headwear large enough to obscure his face. In the Summer months a large wide-brimmed would be appropriate subject to the brim casting a full shadow over his sickening rat-like features.

      I trust that you will be in agreement with the proposed change in school attire.

      Yours sincerely

      Natalie Munroe

      PS Well done on last terms charity obstacle course. Your son aced the drain-pipe obstable!

    175. Re:Not an YRO by joebagodonuts · · Score: 1

      I think that was the reason he had a tutor.

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    176. Re:Not an YRO by thesandtiger · · Score: 1

      Please explain how "rat-like" is remotely corrective for any student who is not, literally, behaving like a rodent.

      You won't be able to because it's not. It's just an attack with absolutely zero corrective, constructive value.

      Please explain how doing this correction on a blog, as a way of blowing off steam, is remotely corrective.

      You won't be able to because it's not. It's, again, just a string of attacks with no corrective value, and intended to humiliate rather than instruct.

      Please explain how these kids were being disruptive or misbehaving in such a way to warrant that kind of commentary about them.

      You won't be able to because you don't know what the hell they were doing, and all of her comments were just personal attacks.

      I've had some truly awful teachers in my life. Some teachers would use a cutting remark to restore order or take the wind out of a disruptive student - that's fine. But some - many - of the worst teachers I ran across seemed to truly hate their students and want to use their position of authority to inflict pain. That's what this woman is doing - because there is no useful purpose to what she's doing here at all. None. Not a whit.

      I don't disagree with you that students these days tend to be coddled too much in some ways (and completely have their basic rights trampled in others), and that there are valid ways to shame them into shaping up. This is not one of them.

      It would be rather different if these weren't children - if they were adults, I could see them having the emotional resources and maturity to approach her on more of an equal footing. But there is such a vast, vast developmental gulf here and a massive power imbalance that it's simply wrong.

      I will admit that I can be a total bitch to people from time to time - I'm sarcastic, snarky, and often assume that people should just suck it up and deal. However, I don't do that kind of thing to people who are essentially unable to respond back because that's just flat out cruel.

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    177. Re:Not an YRO by thesandtiger · · Score: 1

      The problem is that if the students did the same thing writing about her and it was found, they'd get in trouble, with some explanation along the lines that by publicly insulting their teacher they were making her an object of ridicule and diminishing her ability to teach. I've seen that happen.

      By publicly naming and insulting her students in this way, she's being a bully. She's also opening them up to tons of harassment and humiliation at school, and essentially diminishing THEIR ability to learn by turning that environment hostile.

      There's also a difference in power here. She's a teacher, and so has authority of position, and also an adult, so has emotional resources and (supposed) maturity that her students simply do not have. It's about like a grown man punching a 10 year old boy in the face - that 10 year old boy is NOT going to have the resources to deal with that situation.

      It *is* abusing her students because her students are in no way, shape, or form able to, by themselves, deal with the situation. It makes their learning environment needlessly hostile and opens them up to more abuse.

      I work with people I don't like or respect, many of whom do not like or respect me. However, if I went to my blog and wrote insults about them and put their full names on them, I would fully expect consequences at work. And that's with people who, at least, I don't necessarily have authority over and who are, in theory, at the same level of emotional development as I am.

      Now, she may be capable of instructing people she doesn't like or respect, but who cares about her? Can the kids learn from someone who has publicly humiliated them? From someone they know hates them? Do you think the kids are saying, "Well, my teacher thinks I'm a drooling moron who is rat-like and stinky, but hey, it's time to focus on maths so that's what I'm going to do"?

      You're also completely missing the point by trying to compare what these kids are having to deal with to what you have to deal with at work. You aren't a child, you aren't being publicly humiliated by someone who has vastly more authority than you do - it's just entirely different.

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    178. Re:Not an YRO by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Might I ask approximately how long ago it was that you were in school? Experiences like that in the US seem to be from about 40 years ago or so at this point. Just curious if there are other parts of the world where education is still conducted with that approach more recently.

    179. Re:Not an YRO by JackOfAllGeeks · · Score: 1

      The problem is that if the students did the same thing writing about her and it was found, they'd get in trouble, with some explanation along the lines that by publicly insulting their teacher they were making her an object of ridicule and diminishing her ability to teach. I've seen that happen.

      I've seen the same thing, and seen arguments about how that's unreasonable because they're off campus and should be allowed to express themselves. Writing on a blog at home is not the same as interrupting the class while in session.

      By publicly naming and insulting her students in this way, she's being a bully.

      I saw nothing that said she named names, and I'm skeptical how "public" this was. If she had a blogspot account that some parent stumbled upon that's different than if this was written in Wired magazine, or even if it was a blog she regularly shared with her students. I doubt that either of the latter cases are what happened here, and so it's no more public than if she was talking to her friends at a restraunt and someone overheard her.

      ...diminishing THEIR ability to learn by turning that environment hostile.

      I think you have a point here, but ONLY if she was actually making the environment hostile. If, before the blog was found, her students were none the wiser, I don't see that it's an issue. In fact, if that was the case, I would be inclined to blame whatever "concerned parent" decided to tell everyone that their teacher disliked them. In that case the parent would have made the environment hostile, not the teacher.

      It's about like a grown man punching a 10 year old boy in the face - that 10 year old boy is NOT going to have the resources to deal with that situation.

      As I stated above, that only holds if the teacher insulted the kids to their face; saying "he should be punched" and actually punching someone are very different. And telling a kid "you're teacher thinks you should be punched" is irrisponsible on your part, regardless of how true the statement might be.

      However, if I went to my blog and wrote insults about them and put their full names on them, I would fully expect consequences at work.

      But I don't think you should expect to be fired. And recent court settlements would agree with me.

      Now, she may be capable of instructing people she doesn't like or respect, but who cares about her? Can the kids learn from someone who has publicly humiliated them?

      As noted, unless I've missed something the teacher didn't publicly humiliate them; whoever made her feelings public is the one who xcaused the humiliation and hostile environment. If she's able to teach them despite her feelings then there's no problem with what her private feelings are. If instead she was unable to teach them, we should be talking about her inability to teach, not her personal feelings.

      You're also completely missing the point by trying to compare what these kids are having to deal with to what you have to deal with at work. You aren't a child, you aren't being publicly humiliated by someone who has vastly more authority than you do - it's just entirely different.

      I don't think you're giving kids enough credit here, actually.

    180. Re:Not an YRO by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Okay, so let me see if I understand the collective /. wisdom:

      It is okay for any student to say anything they like on their blog/FB/twitter account they want and the school has no right or obligation to do anything.

      It is wrong for a teacher to say anything they like on their blog/FB/twitter account on their own time, after work is over. EVER.

      Do I sense some double standards here?

    181. Re:Not an YRO by thesandtiger · · Score: 1

      Anything on the internet that is not explicitly protected by a password is, essentially, public. Nothing is obscure - and saying that there's a difference between some blogspot blog and Wired magazine is not relevant to this particular issue. Sure, the blog will likely be lower ranked than the Wired article, but for a search by name, they'd both likely show up on the first page or three of results. It's public enough. More to the point, this kind of thing (someone finding a supposedly "obscure" comment or post or picture) happens frequently enough that it should be considered reasonable to assume that it will be found rather than it won't. I've had students who come to work for me tell me that they Googled me and found stuff that I wrote in a casual usenet post almost 20 years previous - no kidding, one of my student workers asked me about some posts I wrote in various game groups. Certainly she could expect her students to google her or look her up - they're curious about this person they see every day.

      As to the consequences - in the cases that have said you shouldn't expect to be fired for on-line statements about your workplace - it would be interesting to compare the decisions to the question as to whether those on-line statements had an impact on the ability to perform at your job, or on your co-worker's ability to work with you. Harassment, on-line or off, is still grounds to be fired because it creates a hostile environment; this, I think, goes far to creating a hostile environment.

      My tone is a little fierce (in other posts replying to you) with this because I actually do work with youth (specifically highly at-risk youth who have often been severely mistreated by adults and other authority figures in their lives), and it is extremely hard for a kid who has been attacked in this way to get past it and still work with the people who transgressed. Maybe I'm giving too little credit, but seeing the rather profound effects that this kind of bullying can have on a vulnerable population - it's just not something I'm willing to chalk up to "shit happens, people need to learn to deal."

      I'm also, I admit, way more protective of my young people and young people in general, because there really IS a lot of incredibly awful shit that gets heaped on kids with the idea of "they'll get over it" or "they need to learn to deal with this because the real world is worse." The fact is, though, that 99% of that awful shit that they have to learn to deal with is completely unnecessary and wouldn't need to be dealt with if people who were in positions of responsibility would actually behave like menschen rather than just shrugging and saying that's how it is. I'm certainly not advocating helicopter parenting or a "think of the children!" mindset, nor do I think young people are incapable of handling adversity - it's just that they have enough of that to deal with, and pointless abuse from adults who should know better should be something we can help them not have to put up with.

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    182. Re:Not an YRO by MrSenile · · Score: 1

      You are wrong in that you think her attitude is a symptom rather than part of the underlying cause.

      You are wrong also in seeming to think teachers are justified in becoming cynical. You ask "the children could do no wrong?" with sarcasm, yet this is just the philosophy an educator must maintain. Children are not your equals. You are better than they in any measurable regard. It is like shooting fish in a barrel to point out moral, motivational, analytical, or any other deficiency in a child under your tutelage. Being a teacher is understanding this. It is recognizing that you are there to better them as people despite any challenge which lays before you.

      I respectively disagree. If her environment is harsh, de-powering, violent, harassing, and cynical, why shouldn't she, a 'simple human', fall to the very same vulnerabilities that everyone else in every work force fall victim to? You seem to have pre-conceived notions that teachers are to be above the standard everyone else is placed on simply because children are part of the equation.

      Funny enough, parents, which are far more visible and far more important to the children, are seldom, if ever, held to the same standards you are placing on this very teacher. So frankly sir, my cynical attitude is justified on that case alone, not to mention that these very parents, being hypocritical, turn around and blame the teacher for not having authority that they don't want her to have anyway. Then these same parents let TV, radio, and government raise their own child more times than not, so what do these children learn? That they can do anything. That -they- are the ones empowered, and they walk into these schools knowing fully that they have the power. And you dare to blame the teacher for having a weak moment?

      Children, while not our equals, the parents and groups who back these children are ALSO not the teachers equals. They're above them. The teachers are, as was stated by someone else in this thread, watchers. They can't do anything but accept whatever happens in class and put on a bright smiley face. That's the recipe for suicide by any stretch of the imagination.

      Also, I beg to differ but the sarcastic 'children can do no wrong' was intended the way I say it. You, like every other brainwashed individual out there believe their little child can do no wrong, can be anything they want, and should just be pampered until they achieve those unrealistic goals. Yes. Unrealistic. Some children should be swayed from directions they think they should be on (or should I say parents think their children should be on) because they don't have the skill sets. It doesn't mean they're not brilliant at something, just not what they have their mind set at. Teachers, more times than not, who dis-sway children from these goals become put on probation because they dare to say a child can't succeed. Well, news flash! They CAN'T! We are too much into the 'every child is the same, and every child can do anything' mentality. Smell reality. That has never been, and never will be, the case. Each child has their own gifts and abilities, we should nurture them on those skills, not on what they, or their parents, think is best for them.

      So yes, children have issues. Children make mistakes. Children can be holy terrors. The problem is teachers can't do a damn thing about children because of parents, likely like you. So the children remain the same, and you blame the teacher. How about looking in a mirror and blaming yourself.

      In the end we are human. Indeed, we feel frustration. This is quite different from holding the attitude "these kids are a lost cause " or "they don't meet my expectations so I'm done working to help them". This is the attitude we see in the teacher mentioned above. To teach is to adopt the philosophy I espouse. To do otherwise is to become a hindrance.

      This I agree with, but what is a teacher to do? They have no power to change children

    183. Re:Not an YRO by JackOfAllGeeks · · Score: 1

      Anything on the internet that is not explicitly protected by a password is, essentially, public.

      So is a conversation in a restraunt, but I don't think we should expect people to be fired for venting about work in their off time. That's a recipe for disaster. People should feel free to express themselves, and as long as it doesn't directly impact their performance then it shouldn't affect their employment. Show me where it has measurably affected her treatment of her students and I'm on board 100%.

      Nothing is obscure - and saying that there's a difference between some blogspot blog and Wired magazine is not relevant to this particular issue. Sure, the blog will likely be lower ranked than the Wired article, but for a search by name, they'd both likely show up on the first page or three of results. It's public enough. More to the point, this kind of thing (someone finding a supposedly "obscure" comment or post or picture) happens frequently enough that it should be considered reasonable to assume that it will be found rather than it won't.

      I'm well aware of this, and while saying things "in public" like this might make her foolish, impolitic, tech-impaired, or even a "bad person," I don't think it passes muster for suspending her, that's all I'm saying. If the things you say about her being a bully, losing her students' confidence, or letting personal feelings impact her ability to teach are true, then suspend her for those.

      Harassment, on-line or off, is still grounds to be fired because it creates a hostile environment; this, I think, goes far to creating a hostile environment.

      It's not harrassment if you don't know I'm saying it. It's not harrassment if someone else tells you I'm saying it. It's not harrassment if there's no confrontation between you and me. What this teacher posted on her blog is not harrassment.

      My tone is a little fierce (in other posts replying to you) with this because I actually do work with youth (specifically highly at-risk youth who have often been severely mistreated by adults and other authority figures in their lives), and it is extremely hard for a kid who has been attacked in this way to get past it and still work with the people who transgressed.

      Don't take this the wrong way, as I greatly respect your line of work, but it may be that your personal experiences and proximity to highly at-risk youth puts you a bit too close to the subject at hand. Not all kids are at-risk, not all kids have been burned as badly as the ones you work with. I propose that most kids are better able to deal with situations like this if they haven't had the severe and/or recurrent mistreatment that I assume your charges have. I'm decidedly not in the "shit happens, learn to deal, get over it, welcome to the real world" camp, but I do have faith that most people underestimate what kids are capable of understanding and dealing with, especially if they have positive support groups.

      pointless abuse from adults who should know better should be something we can help them not have to put up with.

      My point is that unless there's information we haven't been given, the only reason these kids have to "deal with" anything from this teacher is because some "concerned parent" felt it was their duty to expose what the teacher really thought of them. My point is that it was irresposible of that parent and, unless there was actual problems with the teacher prior to this becoming well-known, totally unnecessary.

    184. Re:Not an YRO by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Totally true. Parents today are raising a bunch of panty-waisted retards and care more about their children's feelings than their education. While I don't believe the teacher acted professional, I can completely understand where her frustration comes from. People need to learn to deal with rejection at an early age and that just doesn't happen anymore due the level of pandering that parents have for their children; they simply can't tell them no.

      Kids today can't handle being told to do anything due to entitlement complexes and a single failure is the end of their miserable lives. My parents constantly told me what I was doing wrong and almost never what I was doing right because you should always do everything as well as possible to begin with; I am possibly the most well-adjusted person I know.

    185. Re:Not an YRO by NoSig · · Score: 1

      That's a false dichotomy and an absurd one at that - it is only designed to enable teachers to abuse their position of authority. You can tell someone how to improve without insulting them at the same time. You can scold a child without telling the child that it is worthless. Someone without those skills is an incompetent teacher. That goes both ways, so a teacher who won't criticize is also a problem. In your previous post you also made the comment that being stupid is a choice, as in stupid people should choose to use their brain. Sometimes it is, but often it is not and continually insulting a slow child for being unintelligent goes beyond incompetent teaching into child abuse.

    186. Re:Not an YRO by FtDFtM · · Score: 1

      Does anyone remember Marshall McLuhan? There is a reason newspapers have (had?) editors.

    187. Re:Not an YRO by thesandtiger · · Score: 1

      So is a conversation in a restraunt, but I don't think we should expect people to be fired for venting about work in their off time. That's a recipe for disaster. People should feel free to express themselves, and as long as it doesn't directly impact their performance then it shouldn't affect their employment. Show me where it has measurably affected her treatment of her students and I'm on board 100%.

      I agree that people should feel free to express themselves, but at the same time, I think people should also be ready to accept the consequences of that expression when they do so in a forum that could, potentially, be public. Basically, exercise discretion if they are worried about potential consequences.

      Maybe I'm weird, but when I go out with friends and we are venting our frustrations about the day, I do make it a habit to look around and make sure that I'm not about to do so while someone I work with is sitting at the table right behind me, unless I'm willing to accept whatever consequences might come from them overhearing.

      With regards to having a rather more, uh, vehement... reaction to this kind of behavior on the teacher's part, I don't disagree that it may be so.

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    188. Re:Not an YRO by JackOfAllGeeks · · Score: 1

      I agree that people should feel free to express themselves, but at the same time, I think people should also be ready to accept the consequences of that expression when they do so in a forum that could, potentially, be public. Basically, exercise discretion if they are worried about potential consequences.

      And that's fair. I think people should be willing to accept the consequences of their words and deeds, too. I'm just questioning the particular response here. Monitoring, or having someone observe her for a time, or some kind of an investigation into her performance at work -- those things I think would be appropriate. I don't think being suspended for venting about work when you're off-duty and away from your charges is a reasonable response.

      That might just be an irreconcileble difference between you and me, but it seems that in your scenario one would rightly live in a state of constant fear, lest Something Bad happen. I'm not saying give her a pass, just be reasonable about the response.

      Aside: <i> doesn't seem to be working, but I think I got <em> to give me italics...

    189. Re:Not an YRO by hedwards · · Score: 1

      Read between the lines, it's hardly opaque when a teacher is talking about students who the students are to the people that matter. One of the reasons why America can be such a miserable place to live is that there's this presumption that only if in the strictest most literal sense has something been said has anything been said.

      If there's enough information to presume who the individual is talking about then there's enough information to complain of privacy violations. Beyond that it makes the school district and school look bad for employing somebody so lacking in professionalism.

    190. Re:Not an YRO by Locke2005 · · Score: 1

      Well, if he missed the other student's heart and didn't get a clean kill, I'd have to say his performance was subpar!

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    191. Re:Not an YRO by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Would you want someone who hate's your kids to be responsible for their education?

      I'm pretty sure your English teacher hates you right about now.

    192. Re:Not an YRO by gfreeman · · Score: 1

      As far as I can tell, no-one was named. In which case, I'd love, indeed probably pay for some stories from my doctor/psychologist.

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    193. Re:Not an YRO by gfreeman · · Score: 1

      Couldn't the employer he was talking about in his post claim the exact same thing?

      No. She has many students, but only one employer. It's a certainty who she'd be referring to by "my employer", but enough plausible deniability when referring to "one of my students".

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    194. Re:Not an YRO by ormondotvos · · Score: 1

      I agree. The best teachers are honest.

    195. Re:Not an YRO by brainboyz · · Score: 1

      For those making the constructive criticism vs. snarky remark distinction, I specifically didn't use "constructive criticism" for a reason. More than once I heard students told, "With that attitude, get used to asking if they'd like fries with that," "so did you not pass 3rd grade arithmetic?" and similar remarks that would definitely qualify as snarky comments specifically intended to publicly humiliate. Personally, those students deserve to hear the truth. Sure, she should probably offer a path to redemption but many students really don't care.

    196. Re:Not an YRO by Byzantine · · Score: 1

      Minors are not held—legally—to the same standard. This is for their protection. The legal presumption is that the judgment of minors is not as sound as adults', and that therefore they cannot be held accountable to the same extent as an adult would be. Basically, the law believes that minors are too dumb and easily-influenced to know what they're doing. (We can argue about whether that's a valid belief, but that's a different argument.)

      That's not the same as being able to "say anything they please without consequence."

    197. Re:Not an YRO by cheekyjohnson · · Score: 1

      legally

      We're talking about school suspensions.

      Basically, the law believes that minors are too dumb and easily-influenced to know what they're doing.

      Depends on the person. The population at large seems to have a herd mentality.

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    198. Re:Not an YRO by frozentier · · Score: 1

      Teachers around here where the population is around 7,000 average $50,000 a year. I hardly call that a pittance.

    199. Re:Not an YRO by DurendalMac · · Score: 1

      Is the student on the school's payroll?

    200. Re:Not an YRO by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Good teachers are one in a million. I know a ton of teachers and let me tell you none of the ones I know are very smart. Go visit one of our universities and I bet you will find absent from the education track the best and brightest the US has to offer.

      Teachers are arrogent when dealing with parents. They are not diplomatic and never believe they have done anything improper. They bulldoze through their curriculum so they can get to the end of the year and wonder why half their class fail to meet standard. Yup it's the parent's fault or it's that half the kids this year were idiots.

      Rarely have I experienced a teacher consider disabilities in the classroom. Only when there is hardware associated with that dissability do they actual spend some effort (not talking about spec. ed). I had a teacher pull me aside and complain that the IEP for a child written by the school's phsycologist wasn't needed because the child suffered not from a neurological dissorder but from bad parenting. This IEP required the teacher to fill out some additional paperwork and accomadate this child's dissability by sitting them in the front row. Previously she had this child in the back row. This saint of a teacher wanted it her own way and the doctors and laws be damned.

      Teachers have it no harder than any other proffessional career. But they will sing you a hardship song given half the chance. No it is never the teacher's fault because of all the bad parents, children and administrators out there.

    201. Re:Not an YRO by pclminion · · Score: 1

      Would you support yourself being fired if you were talking to friends and said "God, this guy X today at work was so stupid I wanted to smack him" and he overheard you? I doubt it.

      I would never say such a thing so the question is irrelevant. The fact that a lot of people can't even control themselves to the point of refraining from insulting other people, is something I don't understand.

    202. Re:Not an YRO by Hognoxious · · Score: 1

      I would never say such a thing so the question is irrelevant.

      You're either Mahatma Gandhi or a liar, and he's dead.

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  4. she should quit if she doesn't like her job by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Whether or not she mentioned student's names it would be quite humiliating for a child to be in her class and read those comments and she is certainly not setting a good example.

    1. Re:she should quit if she doesn't like her job by MightyMartian · · Score: 1

      I don't know about you, but I always was pretty clear on what my teachers thought of me, and generally it wasn't all that positive...

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    2. Re:she should quit if she doesn't like her job by danbert8 · · Score: 3, Insightful

      Quit yer whinin! When I was in school, we had nuns for teachers, and they'd tell you worse shit than this TO YOUR FACE. And then the rest of the class would laugh at you while the nun basked in your ridicule. It made you stronger, or at least work hard enough to not be below average.

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    3. Re:she should quit if she doesn't like her job by jayme0227 · · Score: 1

      Disclaimer: I have not read the blog in question.

      Just because she thinks some of her students aren't worth the time she spends on them doesn't mean she hates her job per se. She could feel that some of the students aren't great to be around and a joy to teach. It's just that those students aren't rant-worthy on a personal blog.

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  5. If she were smart.... by KhabaLox · · Score: 1

    ...she would have included at least one post about union activity.

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    1. Re:If she were smart.... by RightSaidFred99 · · Score: 1

      Exactly. I think the hypocrisy in this article's replies will be funny. Most people were all "ra ra, free speech!" in the Facebook incident, now all of the sudden I bet most will be "umm, duh, you can't do that!".

    2. Re:If she were smart.... by hedwards · · Score: 1

      That might get you off the hook for ambiguous violations of policy, but for something this blatant I don't think it would. Despite some of the comments here, that's a pretty serious violation of professional ethics. When I'm working with a student I am extremely careful as to how I phrase criticism, because a lot of students magnify whatever is said and it's really not productive to have students crying if you can reasonably avoid it.

      You're not always going to be able to avoid it without watering things down, but as a general rule if the student is crying or likely to cry, there's something that isn't working as it should.

  6. So... by TheSpoom · · Score: 1

    Link to the blog and/or archived copy?

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  7. Anonymous has it right by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    She could've said all the bad things she wanted about her kids online, if only she'd stayed anonymous.

    As long as Sk8rgrl1 is separated from the real person, nobody suspects the garbage they spew onto blogs and forums is from the same hands that grade their children's tests.

    1. Re:Anonymous has it right by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      People say worse stuff online every day and suffer ZERO consequences because they remain hidden behind their pseudonyms.

      If she is posting on a blog where she can be held accountable for her actions, and that is truly how she felt about her kids, she should just do what people have done for thousands of years: held her tongue.

      So you don't like your students.. In a few months you'll never have to deal with them again.

    2. Re:Anonymous has it right by shentino · · Score: 1

      If you have to remain anonymous to avoid retribution, you don't have freedom of speech.

      Doubly so if a weak kneed service assisting your anonymity can be pushed over by a subpoena.

  8. She should be fired for being a bad teacher by Locke2005 · · Score: 5, Interesting

    Kids have a way of living up to people's expectations. She expects these kids to act like animals, and they're fulfilling her expectations. I'd expect teachers to vent to each other about the students (and parents) they have to deal with, but venting in an online forum displays terrible judgement.

    My mother works as a substitute teacher. She takes troubled kids that every else badmouths, treats them with respect, and gets them to open up, stop being disruptive, and actually start learning. If a teacher is having problems with kids, it is as much an indictment of the teacher as it is of the kids.

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    1. Re:She should be fired for being a bad teacher by Aerynvala · · Score: 1

      Exactly. Several of my friends are teachers and one is a teacher of first & second grade. She invariably ends up with all the special needs children because she's the only one willing or able to take the time and treat them with the respect and care they need to behave well in school. She works miracles with kids that other people would write off and leave in a corner to stagnate.

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    2. Re:She should be fired for being a bad teacher by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

      My mom could beat up your mom

    3. Re:She should be fired for being a bad teacher by Nukenbar · · Score: 1

      Your mother sounds like an lifetime movie. Some kids suck and thinking that you can get everyone of them to open up and want to learn is ridiculous.

    4. Re:She should be fired for being a bad teacher by Tranzistors · · Score: 1

      Is she a bad teacher or simply not being Mary Poppins? You talk as if children have no will of their own and just reflect the what teachers expect. This is quite absurd. I have worked as a teacher for few years and I have seen all sorts. And just being nice/respectful/whatever helps, but if you happen to be in a class full of psychopathic bastards, just respecting them is not going to help.

      So, if teacher has to deal with difficult kids and she can't turn them into normal human beings, is she a bad teacher, or just not a super teacher?

    5. Re:She should be fired for being a bad teacher by The+Moof · · Score: 1

      Is she a bad teacher or simply not being Mary Poppins?

      Yea, she's a bad teacher. From TFA:

      The Central Bucks School District has suspended a high school English teacher after parents complained to administrators about her blog in which she railed on her students for more than a year.

      Phrases on the blog include; “Frightfully dim,” “Rat-like,” “Am concerned your kid is going to open fire on the school,” “I hate your kid,” and “Seems smarter than she actually is.”

      And this was all public on a blog, not in a private conference (neither with the parents, nor the administration).

    6. Re:She should be fired for being a bad teacher by Locke2005 · · Score: 1

      The reason why black students consistently do worse on math testing is partially due to teachers having lower expectations for black students; the teachers themselves usually don't think blacks are good at math. The other significant factors may be coming from a culture that doesn't value doing well in school, and the black students themselves not believing they should be good at math. And yet my African friends' kids are all honor students...

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    7. Re:She should be fired for being a bad teacher by Haxzaw · · Score: 1

      Is your mother's name Gabe Kotter?

    8. Re:She should be fired for being a bad teacher by fermion · · Score: 1
      She is not necessarily a bad teacher any more then Petraeus was a bad General. In both cases these are public servants who are paid to carry our the public interest. In both cases they had seemed to have reservations about why they were doing, most public servants do, which made it difficult to professionally carry out their duties.. And in both cases they disrespected the taxpayers who slave away every day to pay their salaries by putting personal feeling in front of the mission. Teachers missions are to teach the curriculum they are paid to tech to children they are paid to teach. If they cannot do so, and cannot keep personal feeling personal, they they need to find another job instead of wasting taxpayer money. This is even more so for military people who are under command of the entire civilian authority, including the voters. If someone is not going to work for the mission decided by the people, it is insulting to the people to take their money.

      So the question becomes is she a good teacher who can be made into a better teacher of a good teacher that can no longer push foward the mission effectively. Should she be fired, or like Petraeus, reassigned in light of previous work. The kneejerk is to fire these people, but teaching is stressful. While the taxpayers have every right to demand superior performance from their employees, we must make decisions based on the mission, not personal feeling.

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    9. Re:She should be fired for being a bad teacher by Locke2005 · · Score: 1

      No, but she does have the hair for it... and the mustache too!

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    10. Re:She should be fired for being a bad teacher by Tranzistors · · Score: 1

      I guess we should establish what does a good teacher is. Someone, who actually teaches the subject (and students learn)? Or is it a good person, who would never say anything, that could hurt someone? At least in the video it was pointed out, that no particular student was named.

    11. Re:She should be fired for being a bad teacher by Locke2005 · · Score: 1

      No, not every child can be reached, and the ones that can't should be isolated from the general population. The point was that a lot of kids that most people give up on CAN be reached. Also, that there are huge differences between different teachers' ability to relate to students.

      My father used to teach community college. He always said all he had to do to teach a class was read the textbook before the students did. It's not knowing the subject that makes an effective teacher, it's knowing your target audience. That audience includes both the students in your class and their parents. By this criteria, Munroe was an epic failure.

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    12. Re:She should be fired for being a bad teacher by Tranzistors · · Score: 1

      I sure hope that as a English teacher she doesn't teach math. And why you are accusing her of racism is beyond me. Do you know anything we don't?

    13. Re:She should be fired for being a bad teacher by Locke2005 · · Score: 1

      The point of the example was that expectations do affect performance, not that this particular teacher was racist. Please work on your reading comprehension skills.

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    14. Re:She should be fired for being a bad teacher by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      So your mother concentrates all her efforts on one troubled student, while the rest of the class gets nothing. Then she wonders why Timmy can't read, while Gorgonzola graduates with a third grade reading level. If Timmy would just bring a gun to class, and blow away several other students, then maybe she would bother teaching him.

    15. Re:She should be fired for being a bad teacher by Tranzistors · · Score: 1

      This story is quite short on any significant details, so this is all speculation.

      • Did she see all her students as dim, or only some of them?
      • If only some, where they considered such because of stereotypes (race, accent, disabilities) or because it was good assessment? Some people are slow minded, you know.
      • Would it be more helpful, if she really couldn't tell, if some students were less capable or outright didn't care about school?

      My main problem with your post is that I can't you make analogy with something related to education, but don't point out, how is your example relevant to this case. And I believe that form the friendly (yet scarce) article you could not make this link.

    16. Re:She should be fired for being a bad teacher by DerekLyons · · Score: 1

      Kids have a way of living up to people's expectations. She expects these kids to act like animals, and they're fulfilling her expectations.

      My mother works as a substitute teacher. She takes troubled kids that every else badmouths, treats them with respect, and gets them to open up, stop being disruptive, and actually start learning.

      That's a nice pretty story - it would make a wonderful movie. But, as Paul Harvey said there's the rest of the story - and you rarely hear it.
       
      A friend of mine is a full time teacher. She does her damnedest to do exactly what your mother does. Some students do respond - but many do not. Many remain animals and disruptive no matter how you treat them.

    17. Re:She should be fired for being a bad teacher by lolololol · · Score: 1

      Her expectations were set by the students actions. You obviously haven't been in the average high school classroom lately. It's ridiculous. Kids get away with saying almost anything in class, and the teacher is near powerless to stop them. All it takes are a few to start the disruption and a few more to join in and then there is no more learning happening. Like someone else said, what can the teacher do to stop them? Kick them out, so they go sit in ISS, then come back the next day and disrupt even more? And your view of your mother's work is extremely childish. "My mom changes kid's lives, she can make them learn no matter what the problem!" The students enjoy disrupting class because others think it's funny. I'm not some white knight for teachers, they have a lot of faults, but give them some credit. Most kids in my generation are pieces of shit, mostly because of bad parenting. And the cycle will continue...

    18. Re:She should be fired for being a bad teacher by lolololol · · Score: 1

      Please please please stop with the race card excuse. It is sooooo over used and most often untrue. If the black student is bad at math, it is most likely a product of his economic class. (Not much emphasis placed on school, lack of solid parenting etc.) This happens with any poor person, it's not because he's black. This is 2011, most people don't see a black kid and think "Oh he must be stupid because he is black."

    19. Re:She should be fired for being a bad teacher by Kreplock · · Score: 1

      I am not a teacher but I have a couple kids in elementary school and get to see the instantiation of mediocrity when some parents sit back and allow their kids to become someone else's problem. It's clear that reproduction is not just physical, but is also behavioral. Big douchebags unleash little douchebags unto our society, in some cases with barely disguised relish. And it's not so rare that these same people expect to bring their little psychopathic bastards to public school to have an Anne Sullivan/Helen Keller moment at the water pump with nary an effort on their own part. Sure, the teacher made some idiotic judgements, but I'd applaud the interviewers if they asked the indignant parents whether any of the teacher's claims might be true and, if so, what should be done about it.

    20. Re:She should be fired for being a bad teacher by nido · · Score: 1

      Kids have a way of living up to people's expectations.

      This is called the Pygmalion effect:

      The Pygmalion effect, or Rosenthal effect, refers to the phenomenon in which the greater the expectation placed upon people, often children or students and employees, the better they perform. ...

      The Pygmalion effect is a form of self-fulfilling prophecy, and, in this respect, people with poor expectations internalize their negative label, and those with positive labels succeed accordingly.

      My mother works as a substitute teacher. She takes troubled kids that every else badmouths, treats them with respect, and gets them to open up, stop being disruptive, and actually start learning. If a teacher is having problems with kids, it is as much an indictment of the teacher as it is of the kids.

      That's cool. I think this story is an indictment of the compulsory nature of the system. Children find it hard to care when their so-called "education" is done to them under threat. John Gatto experimentally found a way to help cultivate his student's diverse interests. I highly recommend his books, or search for "the paradox of extended childhood" (mp3) at archive.org.

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    21. Re:She should be fired for being a bad teacher by The+Moof · · Score: 1

      what a good teacher is

      I person who doesn't openly and publicly say "I hate you" to a student would be a good start. Teachers are supposed to guide and teach kids, help them when needed. It's not like she said "I feel Johnny is slow" to the parents, she told the world "I hate my student, Johnny." Suggesting your kid will be a future school shooter also isn't helping the case for being a good teacher.

    22. Re:She should be fired for being a bad teacher by hey! · · Score: 1

      I think you're kind of missing the point of education. Kids are supposed to go in ignorant little barbarians and come out worthy to be citizens of a great democracy. If you start from the fatalistic standpoint that kids are what they are and won't ever become more, why bother educating them at all? You could be investing all that money in razor wire and ammo.

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    23. Re:She should be fired for being a bad teacher by mgblst · · Score: 2

      What a load of bullshit. Oh yeah, your miracle mum is all these kids need.

      I have seen teachers like that, they are very liberal with what they describe as learning.

      And so she wastes a lot of her time on these trouble students, where as students who are willing to learn and not be disruptive are ignored and set long tasks, rather than helped.

      You are the worst sort of parent, yes, it is all the teachers fault, there are no bad kids. I am not even a teacher, and fuckheads like you are just too dumb to educate to reality.

      Yeah, your miracle mum is all we need.

    24. Re:She should be fired for being a bad teacher by nine932038 · · Score: 1

      That's... interesting. I'm not going to disparage your mother's teaching ability - obviously, I've never met her or seen her teach classes, so I have nothing to say on that score.

      However, it is a fact that substitute teachers often get a break from troubled classes. See, when a 'nightmare' kid sees the same teacher every day, they grow comfortable enough to, well, become nightmares. However, when a new teacher comes in, that very same kid will be quiet and respectful for a short period of time - say, a day or two - because they don't know how far they can push the envelope. They're nervous, in other words.

      I won't say that you're wrong to have great expectations of kids, but teachers are human, too. And if some *individual* kid causes trouble every day, well, it's not going to take more than a few days before expectations of that kid drop precipitously...

    25. Re:She should be fired for being a bad teacher by Totenglocke · · Score: 1

      And yet my African friends' kids are all honor students..

      Because the biggest factor, besides natural ability, is parents. Parents, white or black, who say "School isn't important" or the black parents saying that doing well in school is "selling out to the white man" will have kids who don't do well in school. A teacher trying to get a kid to do well when every time they go home they're told not to try because school is for losers, is not going to be able to help those kids. That is the biggest problem with education in the US - the fact that we have a culture that promotes being uneducated (for all races, but especially for blacks).

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    26. Re:She should be fired for being a bad teacher by Comrade+Ogilvy · · Score: 1

      To be fair, your points all make sense.

      On the other hand... it is sure "funny" how we constantly talk about troubled kids; and how teachers need put on their cape, chalk an "S" on their chest, and fly to save them...but the parents themselves are not within the topic of discussion.

    27. Re:She should be fired for being a bad teacher by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Not when this wasn't a problem just 30-40 years ago. The parenting has changed and the teachers can't adapt fast enough and freely enough anymore. Teachers are hand-cuffed and kids rule the roost. They aren't allowed to be told they aren't doing a good job anymore. Teachers are basically required to coddle their students into ineffectualness; they're prohibited the tools required anymore and the ratio of teachers/students is rapidly increasing out of proportion.

      The proven teachers are being pushed out because they are unforgiving in their manners and that just hurts their sensitive parents' feelings a little too much. Replacing them with much younger, ultra-emotional, teachers with no real world experience or failures to draw upon has only exacerbated the problem. Tiger Moms are right and China will quickly replace America as the dominant superpower in the world; America will be saturated with 40 year olds still living in their parents' house playing XBOX360 and PS3 telling us that games improve your reflexes and mental acumen...

  9. Newsflash by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Not everyone likes you, nor should you expect as much; teacher or not.

  10. Wrong job by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Seeing where your students have deficiencies and addressing them is one thing. Being derogatory about it is something else. Teaching isn't the right job for her. The snide "precious snowflakes" remark is out of place. If your teacher talks that way about you, the trust relationship is shattered, no matter how strong your personality is.

  11. Says the blog was shut down. by DurendalMac · · Score: 2

    Anyone got a link to a cached copy of it? I'm interested in seeing just what was written.

    1. Re:Says the blog was shut down. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0
    2. Re:Says the blog was shut down. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Poor Brian Jenson. I wonder how he's handling Natalie getting into such hot water. Things at 1226 Irma Road in Warminster Heights, PA must be pretty crazy right now. Let's forget her beaver bumping buddy Jamie Jenson cheering her friend along. Did you know she acknowledges that she's a felon and still teaches children? Right out of Bala Cynwyd! Who knew!!!

    3. Re:Says the blog was shut down. by downhole · · Score: 2

      Interesting... it's hard to really judge without seeing more of what she's written, but it sounds more like someone venting a little after a rough day than someone really nasty.

      Either way, it looks like her real crime is being identifiable while ranting about her workplace on the internet. Yeah, we all need to rant a little about how our job stinks without being worried about who we're offending, but doing it in such a way that your boss, co-workers, subordinates, or students and their parents can find it and associate it with you personally is just dumb. If your blog is public and you can be identified from it, then people who know you in real life are going to find it eventually. So if you're gonna blog, there's only two ways to go - squeaky clean and under your real name, or under a pseudonym with no personally identifiable information and telling the world exactly what you think. Anything in between is going to get you in trouble eventually.

      Of course it's ironic that she's ranting about how dumb some of her kids are while getting caught for it...

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    4. Re:Says the blog was shut down. by Darinbob · · Score: 1

      Reading all the comments, the kids are 100 times worse than she is. Of course, they can be forgiven, since they're so adorable at that age.

      So what if the teacher is disliked by the students? These responses are beyond the pale compared to the teacher's blog. There's nothing that teacher wrote that most teachers don't feel in some way. There's something wrong with that school for so much raw hatred to exist in the students, and it's not just from this teacher. My guess, it's all the "my kid is precious" syndrome. One misguided student wrote "you should revolve around the students' lives" and I know that students at that age thinks the world revolves around them to have someone blurt it out like that is amazing.

      I'm not defending the teacher here. She should not have written this (much less start the blog while at school and admit it). But with students like that I can see where she'd need an outlet to rant.

    5. Re:Says the blog was shut down. by masterwit · · Score: 1

      The best was the first comment at the bottom which really says and/or reinforces what I think a lot of /. readers are thinking:

      Ms. Munroe,

      I graduated last year. While your students may not have always liked you, as evidenced in comments above, I didn't really mind you. This may be because I only had homeroom with you, or because I was a kid who was never in much trouble in high school. Personally, I don’t think you were the most hated teacher in the school; possibly not even in the English Department.

      More than anything, I think it's sad you ended up here. It doesn't surprise me that you blogged from a school computer. I mean that as no slight to you; many people use work computers for personal business. However, I’d have hoped you’d be smarter than to post things you should know any respectable institution would fire you for, CB included.

      This being said, what you posted is a disgrace. Everyone is entitled to his or her opinion, and no one respects the right of free speech more than I. However, I was shocked when I saw you posted these sentiments on the Internet. Like I said before, I thought you were smarter than that. I understand some of your comments. Yes, kids are lazy. Nearly everyone slacked off in high school, from the top of our class right down to the kids who barely graduated. I understand many people are difficult to deal with at times; throughout life, everyone must deal with people they dislike. But I agree with Jeff, it was your job to put up with us. Jeff, if you read this, overall (perhaps with a few exceptions) I thought you summed up very well what many of us are thinking.

      You may not have liked your job, Ms. Munroe, and I ensure you that you are not alone. But the fact is, this is the career you chose. You have a duty to teach to the best of your ability. What saddens me, and I believe most parents, the most, is your comment about wanting kids to just leave after class. This disgusts me. I remember one individual (I was in either 11th or 12th grade) who stayed after 2nd block into homeroom everyday. Obviously, he was the exception. He annoyed me as much as you and everyone in our homeroom. But to kids like me, and others who would occasionally stay late to ask questions, I find this extremely disheartening. You should never discourage anyone's desire to learn, especially as a teacher, when your job is to educate students to the best of your ability. This isn’t a choice. If you don’t like it, quit. There are many others willing to take your place.

      Fortunately, despite your lack of willingness to perform even the minimum duties associated with your job, let alone go the extra mile, students at East still receive a remarkable education. Though you put your students down, many drama queens, lazy kids, potheads, and kids going to “bangers” will grow up to be very successful. Trust me, I’m friends with many of these kids even now, and I know that regardless of their flaws, they will be able to hold a steady job.

      Regardless of your comments or any feelings you may have about your students, in my opinion, you should be fired simply for your use of the English language. Spelling words such as “belligerent” wrong does not reflect highly upon an English teacher. Taking into consideration the fact that you clearly do not want to be here, I would grant your wish and you’d be given the “pink slip” promptly, before the first bell rings at 7:25 tomorrow morning.

      Honestly, I’m surprised it has taken this long to find this blog. I’d consider yourself lucky. I’m sorry for the rest of East’s faculty; overall I think they did a great job. I know I was well-educated, and came out of high school prepared for a great college, tha

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    6. Re:Says the blog was shut down. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      This is just golden.

      Enjoy unemployment and being shit on by *everyone* who has been in the same room as you, Natalie.

    7. Re:Says the blog was shut down. by alphaseven · · Score: 1
      • I called out sick a couple of days just to avoid your son.

      I'd consider that statement as justifying a firing.

    8. Re:Says the blog was shut down. by BillX · · Score: 4, Informative

      I dug up the last year's worth of posts (all two of them since this one). One refers nonspecifically about a co-worker's going-away party, and the other is a review of a fast-food restaurant.

      All the "firing-worthy" comments cited in the news are from a single blog post from over a year ago? Somehow I'm underwhelmed. For those who can't be bothered to read it, it's simply a generic bulleted list of "I wish these were allowed canned report card comments"; it doesn't refer to any particular students, classroom or even year. Not exactly professional conduct, but... isn't this the same Slashdot that was rejoicing not one week ago about a ruling that a different state worker couldn't be fired for personal blog comments about her employer?

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    9. Re:Says the blog was shut down. by mysidia · · Score: 1

      I'd consider that statement as justifying a firing.

      I don't think the comment is serious. It is obvious sarcasm. The whole post looks like tongue in cheek humor.

      Her blog post indicates she wanted that on her list of canned comments, meaning she thinks it a suitable remark in general for some students.

      Anyone who's ever had to tame a room with some unruly kids should be able to understand that one.

    10. Re:Says the blog was shut down. by mysidia · · Score: 1

      There seem to be more interesting tidbits avail via webcache if you search around... check out this one

      Frustration Incorporation; Iratation Nation; Saturday April 17, 2010: Natalie M.

      The first semester of this school year, when I had a parade of whiny, entitled kids run to the guidance department to tell on me for giving them the low grades they earned on their shoddy papers, sort of scarred me. I consider myself very fair with my grading There is an expectation which I set forth at the onset ... Then, when kids get their graded papers returned to them, there's a strange level of surprise and cries ....

      For the second paper, then, my first order of business was to decide that I was going to give them the paper topic question up front before we even read the literature....

      The second order of business was to assess the previous results from past compare-contrast papers. Those papers are classically not very good. Why, I wondered? I know why: because I usually have them compare 2 pieces of literature, and those 2 pieces are often in verse (poetry) form, so maybe they'd have better things to say if they didn't have so much working against them. So I chose a prose version of Beowulf (one that I usually do with the Basic kids, which is certainly accessible to Academic level students) and decided to have them compare images of light and dark within in it (which are so prevalent that to miss them would mean one didn't read the text)

      As I've been grading them (since Wednesday. They are averaging Cs with me being generous in the grading), I've become increasingly disgruntled. It's as though I didn't give them any instruction at any point in time. I might as well have said, "Write a paper on this book. But don't bother reading the book!" Here's the major issues I've seen: ....

      I can say with some degree of certainty that I have spent longer grading and commenting on some of their papers than they did writing them in the first place. I am absolutely giving them a lot more thought.

      I don't know when it happened that thinking and working and effort became impossible tasks. But I do know that I have just about had it. I'm at the end of my rope.

      ..... I'm not even supposed to enforce my late penalties (even though I'm doing it anyway) because the shift is toward separating so-called behavioral characteristics (responsibility, meeting deadlines, being awake in class, for instance) from summative assessments (the paper quality itself). This means, for example, that if the kid who handed in his paper on Thursday had written an A paper, that he should get an A on it despite it being 2 days late.

      It doesn't matter what we do in the classroom, because kids today just don't care. They don't want to learn. They don't want to work. They don't want to think. And if we try to hold them accountable, we're the bad guys.

    11. Re:Says the blog was shut down. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      The blog post is mostly harmless. The shortbus picture is not. Whoever posts that approvingly on their blog shouldn't be allowed to be a teacher. This is Sue Sylvester. It's bullying from a position of power.

      Oh, and
      > just one more thing standing between me and being done the report cards
      > Thus, the old addage...
      She's an English teacher?

    12. Re:Says the blog was shut down. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      And look at those comments from students at the bottom of the page. No wonder!

      --haha shes leaving due to being knocked up... she probably found a piece of toilet paper in the trash that a guy cleaned up after himself with and impregnated herself; i can think of no other way this homely ass cunt could get fucked

      --Jokes on you because this link is being cycled throughout the students of CB East via facebook. Have fun applying for unemployment.

      --Well..good luck getting a job as a teacher anywhere else. If you're in a school district as prestigious as CB East, you should act like it and stop blubbering to people who couldn't care less about your life. Just because you hate your job, doesn't make it okay to whine about it on the internet. And I can guarantee that at least 50% of the students you just spent making fun of will become a lot more successful than you. How sad is it that you're way too busy blogging about your students that you have no time to actually leave a mark/make a difference on their lives. I can't imagine that you do not aspire to be that one teacher that changes someone's life, and if you do not..why are you a teacher? If you hate kids, your own intellect would tell you to choose a career avoiding them.

      Entitled, self-important, vulgar little pricks.

    13. Re:Says the blog was shut down. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Yes, and I want her to never teach again so she can do stand up. That SHIT WAS COMEDY! COMEDY MAN! I was a terrible student, and I'm sure I deserved many of these comments. Perhaps hearing the truth once in awhile, a person can really grow. Sometimes the truth hurts, and sometimes it makes you laugh so hard you have to look around to make sure people aren't staring at you. My personal experience is more of the latter.

  12. still in the google cache by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    http://webcache.googleusercontent.com/search?q=cache:sOtUI146FXAJ:natalieshandbasket.blogspot.com/2010/01/if-you-dont-have-anything-nice-to-say.html%3FshowComment%3D1297206567911+%22where+are+we+going+and+why+are+we+in+this+handbasket%22+if+you+dont+ahve+anything+nice+to+say&cd=1&hl=en&ct=clnk&gl=us&client=firefox-a&source=www.google.com

    1. Re:still in the google cache by hypergreatthing · · Score: 1

      The comments in that link are golden.

  13. Pot, meet Kettle by asdbffg · · Score: 3, Insightful

    "Frightfully dim," indeed.

    1. Re:Pot, meet Kettle by screwzloos · · Score: 2

      I found it interesting that one of the items in her list was "Tactless".

    2. Re:Pot, meet Kettle by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      The very reason, at bottom, this country is in such sad shape and destined for rule by China.
      Very clever of them claiming to block the internet for political reasons, when the real and right reason is to prevent their children's brains from deteriorating as have ours.

  14. She's the idiot by Aerynvala · · Score: 2

    I get hating your job, I get finding the students to be morons and unteachable, but to post about it in a way that you could be identified? Idiot.

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  15. From the video in TFA by vgerclover · · Score: 1

    That teacher is being accused of posting the kind of things no student likes to hear about themselves.

    Since when that should be a fireable offense?

    “I think she should be fired. Hopefully that is what will happen,” said parent Wendy Yazujian.

    I think she should be able to say whatever she wants to as long as she doesn't fall into libel. Sadly, that is beyond a lot of people.

    1. Re:From the video in TFA by Skidborg · · Score: 4, Insightful

      If you tell a child that they are stupid, then you aren't going to be able to teach them anything no matter how smart they are. They will simply stop caring about what you want from them. What she did would no be a problem... if she wasn't paid to be educating these kids. Since she is being paid to educate them, then she should be doing that instead of whining about how little they are learning.

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    2. Re:From the video in TFA by CookieForYou · · Score: 1

      The blog doesn't name any names. Just lists a few nasty comments that "might apply to some students".

      Shrug. Borderline.

    3. Re:From the video in TFA by mgblst · · Score: 1

      Except she did no such thing. She never said anything about to any students, or linked her comments to a student.

      Here is a full list of what she said, any teacher would at sometime during there teaching career have felt similar about some of their kids. And this is clearly just venting, and a bit of fun.

              * Concerned your kid is automaton, as she just sits there emotionless for an entire 90 minutes, staring into the abyss, never volunteering to speak or do anything.

              * Seems smarter than she actually is.

              * Has a massive chip on her shoulder.

              * Too smart for her own good and refuses to play the school 'game' such that she'll never live up to her true potential here.

              * Has no business being in Honors.

              * A complete and utter jerk in all ways. Although academically ok, your child has no other redeeming qualities.

              * Lazy.

              * Shy isn't cute in 11th grade; it's annoying. Must learn to advocate for himself instead of having Mommy do it.

              * One of the few students I can abide this semester!

              * Two words come to mind: brown AND nose.

              * Dunderhead.

              * Complainer.

              * Gimme an A. I. R. H. E. A. D. What's that spell? Your kid!

              * There is such a thing as too loud in oral presentations. We shouldn't need earplugs.

              * Att-i-tude!

              * Nowhere near as good as her sibling. Are you sure they're related?

              * I won't even remember her name next semester if I see her in the hall.

              * Asked too many questions and took too long to ask them. The bell means it's time to leave!

              * Has no business being in Academic.

              * Rat-like.

              * Lazy asshole.

              * Just as bad as his sibling. Don't you know how to raise kids?

              * Sneaky, complaining, jerkoff.

              * Frightfully dim.

              * Dresses like a street walker.

              * Whiny, simpering grade-grubber with an unrealistically high perception of own ability level.

              * One of the most annoying students I've had the displeasure of being locked in a room with for an extended time.

              * Rude, beligerent, argumentative fuck.

              * Tactless.

              * Weirdest kid I've ever met.

              * Am concerned that your kid is going to come in one day and open fire on the school. (Wish I was kidding.)

              * I didn't realize one person could have this many problems.

              * Your daughter is royalty. (The Queen of Drama)

              * Liar and cheater.

              * Unable to think for himself.

              * I hear the trash company is hiring...

              * Utterly loathsome in all imaginable ways.

              * I called out sick a couple of days just to avoid your son.

              * There's no other way to say this: I hate your kid.

    4. Re:From the video in TFA by vidnet · · Score: 1

      Google's cache of the blog

      The list you posted is a not a compilation of things she said about anyone, but a list she created of things she would want to put on unspecified people's report cards:

      These comments, I think, would serve me well when filling out the cards. Only, I don't think parents want to hear these truths.

      Thus, the old addage... if you don't have anything nice to say... ...say "cooperative in class."

      The blog is otherwise a reasonably, fairly well written lamentation about students today.

      No, it was not great judgement to post these things about her current class under her identifiable name, but it's not a mad woman posting nasty comments.

  16. Hmm by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Well maybe if you weren't such a stupid little whore Alli Woloshyn your teacher wouldn't think that way...

  17. Sheesh, how long has she been a teacher? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    She oughta know that the only appropriate place to make disparaging comments about her students would be in the teacher's lounge amongst her fellow teachers.

  18. /. News Network by Even+on+Slashdot+FOE · · Score: 1

    Insulting children in a public forum causes parents to complain and get the teacher in trouble. In related news, the new model of ship, the trireme is entering production.

    1. Re:/. News Network by deadhammer · · Score: 1

      In related news, the new model of ship, the trireme is entering production.

      Shit, already? I barely just got my phalanxes deployed. They'll be at tanks in no time at this rate.

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      I'll be honest, we're throwing science against the wall to see what sticks. -Cave Johnson
    2. Re:/. News Network by Hognoxious · · Score: 1

      the new model of ship, the trireme is entering production.

      If galley 3.0 is as good as slashdot 3.0 I'll just stick with a hollowed out log.

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      Confucius say, "Find worm in apple - bad. Find half a worm - worse."
  19. all your kids by gearsmithy · · Score: 1

    are stupid

  20. Hell yes! by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Well, apparently we only want to buy from those who feel nothing but contempt for us, be employed by those who feel nothing but contempt for us, and be led by those who feel nothing but contempt for us. Why should this be any different?

  21. Dear Diary... by SoBeKing · · Score: 1

    I don't know why people have to make everything public these days. Whatever happened to the good old journal or diary? Call me old fashioned but if it's not meant to be public, then don't let it be public.

  22. All that's changed is the medium. by Harold+Halloway · · Score: 1

    I went to school in the UK in the 70s and early 80s. The only difference between then and now is that in those days the teachers used to say it to your face.

    1. Re:All that's changed is the medium. by Darinbob · · Score: 1

      When it was said in your face, students used to be able to recognize that maybe they have problems that need fixing. Today though teachers are not allowed to say anything like this. The whole point of the blog is that she was restricted to utter blandness in report card comments since no negativity was allowed. That's a bigger sign of problems there, not the fact that she blew it online. If you're forbidden from telling the lazy student from working harder, they won't actually start working harder on their own.

      Everyone has teachers they disliked in school. In the past though this generally meant that you worked harder, you built up some character by dealing with it, or sometimes you actually learned something. Today a disliked teacher is an open target for abuse, and someone the admins will likely replace with a teacher more able to coddle the students.

  23. Highly unprofessional by lpfarris · · Score: 2

    What she says may or may not be true. However, if your lawyer, your doctor, your martial arts instructor posted crap like this, how long do you think they would stay in business? Kids attending a public school don't have the option of shopping around.

    1. Re:Highly unprofessional by Millennium · · Score: 1

      This. While the teacher is certainly entitled to her own opinions, and even to speak privately about them with uninvolved parties, posting things like this publicly is a gross breach of professionalism. The teacher/student relationship doesn't really have anything to do with it; the same would apply between bosses and workers, professionals of other types and their clients, or even coworkers in a business setting.

      Or, to put it another way: I have no sympathy for those with no discretion.

    2. Re:Highly unprofessional by Shadow99_1 · · Score: 1

      I had an uncle who was my martial arts instructor as a kid. He had no problem telling me or anyone else that we sucked and needed to shape up or get out. Though that may have alot to do with being a special forces instructor in the marines... It never seemed to effect how many of us he was working with though...

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    3. Re:Highly unprofessional by lpfarris · · Score: 1

      He said it to you directly. He didn't post it on his blog.

  24. 1 Cor. 10.23 by dosius · · Score: 2

    "All things are legal to me, but not all things are conducive. All things are legal to me, but not all things are constructive."

    Think about what you do before you do it, what potential ramifications it may have. Just because you CAN do it doesn't mean you SHOULD. And remember: anything you say on a publicly accessible Web site is publicly accessible (it should go without saying).

    -uso.

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    1. Re:1 Cor. 10.23 by Locke2005 · · Score: 1

      "Drink ye then not water, but take thee a little wine for thy stomach's sake and thine other infirmaties," 1 Timothy 5:23

      See, I can quote the bible too!

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      I've abandoned my search for truth; now I'm just looking for some useful delusions.
    2. Re:1 Cor. 10.23 by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      1. It's advocating drinking a little, not a lot - there's plenty of passages against drunkenness
      2. Wine has been shown to be beneficial to health
      3. The alcohol in wine helps make it safer than drinking water in that age
      4. The alcohol content was much lower in those days compared to now for wine

    3. Re:1 Cor. 10.23 by ChinggisK · · Score: 1

      Aye, anyone who says the Bible is against drinking alcohol is an idiot. The whole "water into wine" thing and all that.

    4. Re:1 Cor. 10.23 by Hognoxious · · Score: 0

      I thought we were all in favour of freedom of speech around here?

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      Confucius say, "Find worm in apple - bad. Find half a worm - worse."
    5. Re:1 Cor. 10.23 by cforciea · · Score: 1

      "If anyone comes to me and does not hate father and mother, wife and children, brothers and sisters—yes, even their own life—such a person cannot be my disciple." Luke 14:26 I don't know, I think the Bible has her back on this one.

    6. Re:1 Cor. 10.23 by Draek · · Score: 1

      You don't remember Lori Drew, do you? here in Slashdot, the policy is "I'll defend your right to say anything, as long as you don't say anything I dislike".

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    7. Re:1 Cor. 10.23 by Hognoxious · · Score: 1

      You don't remember Lori Drew, do you?

      No. Was she something to do with The Alamo, whatever that was?

      here in Slashdot, the policy is "I'll defend your right to say anything, as long as you don't say anything I dislike".

      That's a bit unfair. Why single out slashdot like that?

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      Confucius say, "Find worm in apple - bad. Find half a worm - worse."
  25. the list is great by retchdog · · Score: 1

    between "too smart for her own good" and "seems smarter than she actually is," there isn't much room in formal schooling i'm afraid.

    also, note the sweet irony of her including the derogations: "complainer," "rude, beligerent [sic], argumentative fuck," and "tactless."

    see you in hell, bitch.

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    "They were pure niggers." – Noam Chomsky
  26. No sympathy by Locke2005 · · Score: 1, Interesting

    I criticized my child's teacher for her blatant discrimination against my daughter; she had her teachers' union lawyer threaten me with a libel suit and the school district told me I was no longer allowed to communicate with any school district staff. The next year, I complained because her new teacher gave every other child in the class the choice to sit in a chair, but insisted my daughter sit on a blue "X" on the floor, again a violation of state educational discrimination statutes. The school's response was to lie about what what going on the the classroom, again insist I was not allowed to contact any school staff, and a trespass order restricting me from school property (for simply saying "discrimination is illegal, stop it" in the school office). Let's face it, schools are NOT bastions of free speech. If they insist on bitchslapping students and parents for speaking their minds, they need to apply the same standards to the teachers and staff!

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    I've abandoned my search for truth; now I'm just looking for some useful delusions.
    1. Re:No sympathy by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      The 'blue x' thing sounds like a punishment for a kid who can't behave. Was the teacher by any chance 'discriminating' against your precious little snowflake for being an insufferable, undisciplined brat?

    2. Re:No sympathy by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      +1

    3. Re:No sympathy by Locke2005 · · Score: 1

      She was required to sit on the blue x every day, regardless of behavior. She was told she would never be allowed to sit in a chair, regardless of her behavior. Then they lied and said being allowed to sit in seats were a reward for good behavior, and that only 1 or 2 children got that reward. Except when the school's lawyer visited the classroom and found 5 kids were sitting in chairs, and none of the kids were ever told it was a reward. Oh, and by the way... she was the only black student in the class. Plus, when confronted with this, they refused to change their treatment until the school district lawyer got involved. Now, why would they blatantly lie about what was going on in the classroom if they didn't know they were violating the law?

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      I've abandoned my search for truth; now I'm just looking for some useful delusions.
    4. Re:No sympathy by Locke2005 · · Score: 1

      One more thing... the teacher she had before Mrs. Simpkins-Moore had zero problems with her, and the teacher she got after I transferred her out of this bigot's class had zero problem's with her. So all evidence points to the problem being the environment, not the student. Her current teacher absolutely adores her -- but then her current teacher has enough experience to actually know how to deal with children and their parents well.

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      I've abandoned my search for truth; now I'm just looking for some useful delusions.
    5. Re:No sympathy by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      My kid sister is a kindergarden teacher. She was repeatedly physically threatened (once with a knife) by a couple of 6th graders after she chided them for barreling through a group of 5 year olds. Despite witnesses and repeatedly going to the administration about them, NOTHING to date has happened to these little shitheads. It seems that something started to happen, but that the parents of these little snowflakes threatened to both sue and get the principal fired. One of then appears to have some connection to the school board.

      My sister now has instructions that if she's threatened again, she's to call me immediately an I will handle it. I have no problem following these little shits home and dealing with their parents directly. I also have no problem hitting either one of those kids if they give me any shit.

      By and large, PARENTS are so much bigger a problem than the kids.

    6. Re:No sympathy by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Assuming your story is true, why is your daughter still in that school?

    7. Re:No sympathy by Locke2005 · · Score: 1

      I call bullshit -- virtually every school district has a zero-tolerance policy on weapons, and possession of a knife on school property would not be ignored. It would generate an immediate call to the district head of security, who would investigate.

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      I've abandoned my search for truth; now I'm just looking for some useful delusions.
    8. Re:No sympathy by Wyatt+Earp · · Score: 2

      Have fun in prison.

    9. Re:No sympathy by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Your kid sounds like a little monster with serious issues. And you sound like a real gem of a parent.
      It must be the teachers fault. Yeah.

      You sound like any number of parents who have forgotten what school was really like. Or you lived a very sheltered life.

    10. Re:No sympathy by Locke2005 · · Score: 1

      She's not... I transferred her to a different school as soon as possible, despite having to fight the principal's and district's lack of cooperation.

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      I've abandoned my search for truth; now I'm just looking for some useful delusions.
    11. Re:No sympathy by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      While that sound just way over the top, there are too many instances of teachers being discipline or fired over ONE parent complaint.

      That's just cowardice on behalf of the teacher's superiors in not sticking up for them.

    12. Re:No sympathy by Anubis+IV · · Score: 1

      Uhh...when you talk about trespass orders being issued against you and repeated requests that you not contact school officials, that generally tells the rest of us that you managed to piss off a lot of different people, including some neutral third-parties that weren't even involved in the original cases. This could happen for two different reasons:
      1) They're corrupt and in cahoots with each other.
      2) You're leaving out a lot of the story in order to make yourself look better.

      Since #2 happens a lot more often than #1...well...Occam's razor and all that.

    13. Re:No sympathy by lolololol · · Score: 1

      Third strike for you here (this is the third nonsense post you have made on this story alone.) Maybe you should take the time out to consider the situation. Maybe you child was misbehaving? Most likely. Maybe your bad parenting caused it? Possibly. If she is misbehaving in the classroom, then maybe your defense of her actions is going to tell her it's ok to continue doing that? Definitely.

    14. Re:No sympathy by Locke2005 · · Score: 1

      Nope, all I did was accuse them of mistreatment of my daughter. The no trespass order was literally for saying "Discrimination is illegal, stop it" in the school office loudly enough for the staff to hear it -- there were no children present except for my daughter. Yes, when you embarrass a principal by accusing them of discrimination, it does piss them off, and they do retaliate like the petty bureaucrats that they are. Yes, at that point I had a history of complaining about district staff's treatment of me and my daughter. Oh, and as soon as the lawyer found out was was really going on in the classroom, they removed the blue "X", but the teacher still encouraged the other students to yell at my daughter to "go sit in your spot!" Feel free to contact Ms. Nicole Will at Cooper Mountain Elementary School, 503 259-6820 (nicole_will@beavton.k12.or.us) if you really feel the need to get "the other side of the story". I threatened no one, and never disrupted the educational process because I was never in the classroom. Currently, I am a volunteer at my daughter's new school -- hardly sounds like I'm a threat to the school, does it? I haven't changed anything, but they've stopped mistreating my daughter.

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      I've abandoned my search for truth; now I'm just looking for some useful delusions.
    15. Re:No sympathy by Locke2005 · · Score: 1

      Again, the fact that all problems with her ceased the moment she was transferred out of that classroom appears to indicate that the problem was with the abusive environment she was placed with, not the student. And she continues to be an excellent student, now that the school has agreed to simply treat her like all the other students, which is what I asked them to do in the first place. Accusing a student of "misbehaving" because she reacts badly to being treated like an animal hardly seems fair, does it?

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      I've abandoned my search for truth; now I'm just looking for some useful delusions.
    16. Re:No sympathy by celle · · Score: 1

      Then teach your kid at home. I've met several people just in the last couple of years who now do that in response to "abusive schools".

    17. Re:No sympathy by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      You have peaked my curiosity. Why were they making your daughter sit on the floor? What was their reason? I am guessing they had one.

      I am all for complaining loudly when you are getting screwed over but I've seen the kind of nutters that you will find in the administration areas of local school districts and would contact a lawyer instead of making a scene. Legal action, even possible legal action, will get into the local newspaper which they fear a lot more than some angry parent.

    18. Re:No sympathy by mgblst · · Score: 1

      Wow, you are a dickhead parent, you see them all the time, my sister is one. Their kid can do no wrong, every teacher is picking on their little kid.

      Wake up, in all probability your kid is a dick, or trouble maker. Fuck you for being too stupid to figure this out yourself.

      And you are too stupid to understand why school is not "free speech", but his does not extend to outside school and its workers. Wow, this is why you should need a license to breed, too many morons are having kids.

    19. Re:No sympathy by I_want_information · · Score: 1

      Good for you! My mother had the same reputation but they couldn't threaten her because she dotted her i's and crossed her t's (meaning that she documented EVERYTHING) and my district is lucky we didn't sue them. I've been there and know exactly what you are talking about. I applaud you for sticking up for your daughter.

  27. How is this any different than.... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    ...being a on a public street and stating "my students are dumb as bricks". It's not. It is simply a matter of fact that this teacher posted it on Facebook? So what. Why do teachers have to be so politically correct outside of their jobs? They shouldn't have to. Did she specifically name a person? If she spoke generically, then she should not be suspended. If she spoke about an specific individual and called them out via Facebook, then this is another matter. Frankly, I feel teacher have been too restricted over the last half century. They are the people who spend a lot of time around your children. If they observe extreme ignorance or stupidity and are frustrated then they should be able to vent.

    And frankly, all these parents whose children are in her classroom, might just want to stop and start taking a real interest in their children's education.

    1. Re:How is this any different than.... by NoSig · · Score: 1

      It's the same as being on a public street and stating "my students are dumb as bricks" while those students are standing right near by to hear it. It's not good.

  28. Analogy by killmenow · · Score: 1

    This one time when there was a teacher in a rural town way back when. She taught in a one room school house. One day she went out into the town square and loudly proclaimed for all the towns folk to hear how stupid her students were. She was sacked.

    Then a new teacher was hired. Whenever her small group of close friends came over for a dinner party, she would tell them all how stupid her students were in the privacy of her own home. She kept her job.

    If you don't like your students, that's fine. You can think they are all dumb as a box of rocks even. And you are welcome to rant about them in private. But in public, unless you want to lose your job, keep your fool mouth shut.

    1. Re:Analogy by Hognoxious · · Score: 1

      I initially read the subject line as "Astrology".

      A reasonable mistake, given that the amount of useful information was about the same.

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      Confucius say, "Find worm in apple - bad. Find half a worm - worse."
  29. +1 this is the real deal by PCM2 · · Score: 1

    This is a real link to the text of the original blog and, shockingly enough ... it's just a blog.

    The teacher does not call out any particular students by name. She is talking about her feelings about teaching students in aggregate, with the overall impression that she's considering several years' worth of students.

    The list of comments reads like a joke -- she's making up comments that she'd like to say, but doesn't. It's a wacky list.

    The students' comments in TFA are still spot-on -- you wouldn't like to sit in a classroom where you had a teacher who thought of you this way -- but you know what? You did. We've all had teachers like this. The difference is, in our day the teacher couldn't be summarily canned for holding opinions. Welcome to the 21st century, where even teachers aren't allowed to think.

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  30. Look a little higher up the example chain... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Yet the President of the United States can openly cheat on his wife and have no repercussions!

    1. Re:Look a little higher up the example chain... by sabs · · Score: 1

      Dude that was 12 years ago.. LET IT GO.

  31. Wait a minute... by MoldySpore · · Score: 1

    There have been many many articles over the years about a major problem in our schools where kids just get shuffled through the system, without issues being addressed, because teachers are afraid of backlash from p parents and administrators when they want to hold a kid back a grade or put them in a remedial program, or TEACH THEM HOW TO READ at the level they are supposed to be at. Also everyone always complains about how teachers are so "bad". So when a teacher decides to take it upon themselves to call out some of these problem kids it is met with suspension and ridicule? Perhaps a public blog wasn't the best place for this analysis but if we are going to suspend teachers for voicing their professional opinion on a kids academic and personal situation, how will this problem be fixed? They are already scared to even teach certain things. Are we going to scare them into not even wanting to care about our kids at all? Just push them through and get to summer vacation, right?

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    1. Re:Wait a minute... by ScentCone · · Score: 2

      TEACH THEM HOW TO READ at the level they are supposed to be at

      *you have been killed by irony*

      Try Again? [y/n]

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    2. Re:Wait a minute... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      There have been many many articles over the years about a major problem in our schools where kids just get shuffled through the system, without issues being addressed, because teachers are afraid of backlash from p parents and administrators when they want to hold a kid back a grade or put them in a remedial program, or TEACH THEM HOW TO READ at the level they are supposed to be at. Also everyone always complains about how teachers are so "bad". So when a teacher decides to take it upon themselves to call out some of these problem kids it is met with suspension and ridicule? Perhaps a public blog wasn't the best place for this analysis but if we are going to suspend teachers for voicing their professional opinion on a kids academic and personal situation, how will this problem be fixed? They are already scared to even teach certain things. Are we going to scare them into not even wanting to care about our kids at all? Just push them through and get to summer vacation, right?

      You lost me at "voicing their professional opinion".

  32. I want my kid's teachers to be intelligent by 93+Escort+Wagon · · Score: 2

    Barring that, I want them to at least have wisdom and common sense. This lady, by writing what she did, is obviously neither wise enough nor smart enough to have figured out that it was a stupid thing to do. That puts her on par with those teenagers that post public pictures of themselves french-kissing a shoe while drunk.

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    1. Re:I want my kid's teachers to be intelligent by BJ_Covert_Action · · Score: 2

      Hey now, that shoe came on to me! I swear!

    2. Re:I want my kid's teachers to be intelligent by auLucifer · · Score: 1

      That explains why you require to get some BJ action covertly.

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      If I was witty I'd put something funny here but, as it stands, I am not and have just wasted seconds of your life
    3. Re:I want my kid's teachers to be intelligent by ndogg · · Score: 1

      That puts her on par with those teenagers that post public pictures of themselves french-kissing a shoe while drunk.

      I disagree. It puts her on a lower level because she's an adult. She should know better.

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    4. Re:I want my kid's teachers to be intelligent by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I agree it was not a smart thing, but the group of young people growing up and entering the work force currently seem to have a large number of epople that must tweet/facebook everything they did that day.

      These people are going to fall over these sorts of issues left, right and centre without fail I suspect.

    5. Re:I want my kid's teachers to be intelligent by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Wouldn't it be nice if your kid's parents were intelligent, had wisdom, and common sense too?

      We can't have everything.

    6. Re:I want my kid's teachers to be intelligent by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I only rimmed the loafer, I swear!

      No really, my 7th grade English teacher sent me to the Principle's office because I complained when she demanded that there really wasn't any such word as "than", and that she was using the word "then" incorrectly (which she was). Her name was Mrs. Witcher..

  33. She's probably right about being dimwits, but... by JustAnotherIdiot · · Score: 4, Insightful

    ...that's sadly still no excuse. My cousin recently became a teacher, and had to delete pretty much his entire online identity (or at least, the ones the school system knows about, like facebook, twitter, myspace, etc), as the school had warned him that stuff like this can and will happen, and they would rather avoid it.

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  34. Well They Are Your Students... by BJ_Covert_Action · · Score: 2

    Dear Ms. Munroe,

    Okay. I get it. Parents should take an active role in educating their children. That makes sense Ms. Munroe.

    But you are also responsible for those students' educations to some extent. If they are frightfully dim, less intelligent than they appear, and so on, isn't it sort of your job to help them with that? So they suck at abstract reasoning? Teach them how to reason better. So they can't do well in mathematics? Find a better way to teach mathematics. So they are petty and dramatic? Well they are only kids, at least they have that excuse. You, however, are supposed to be a responsible adult. Insulting children on the internet is just a bit petty don't you think? Maybe they are simply learning from example.

    Of course, you can only do so much. And I can understand how that could be frustrating. However, the rest of us professionals have to deal with frustrating shit in our jobs every day as well. The difference is, we don't necessarily go home to insult our coworkers on the internet after a bad day. So, yes, children should be smarter. Rather than bitch about that, how's about you do your damned job and help them along that path?

    Sincerely,
    An Adult

    If anything, it sounds like Ms. Munroe was insulting her own teaching abilities more than anything.

    1. Re:Well They Are Your Students... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Actually, no. The teacher is in charge of educating and teaching the wild animals you ship off to school. What you've done is remove the tools that used to be able to calm down and discipline the little shits by smacking them in the ass when they needed it. And since no one can touch your spawn without being put in jail and you certainly won't impede them by instilling responsibility for their actions - I guess we're pretty much all screwed. Abdicating responsibility for parental discipline and instilling good manners, ethics and behaviour pretty much removes you from the loop. You could probably help the whole situation by stop repeating to them how special and unique they are and that the world is theirs. It's not. It's pretty probable that they'll end up in the same soul killing type of job you are railing against right now. And that's if they're lucky. They might just be idiots and will end up flipping burgers at Mickey D's.

    2. Re:Well They Are Your Students... by mgblst · · Score: 1

      If a kid does not want to learn, there is nothing a teacher can do about it.
      If a kid does not want to learn, a parent can actually change that, and it is up to parents to help educate the child.

    3. Re:Well They Are Your Students... by Xyrus · · Score: 1

      However, the rest of us professionals have to deal with frustrating shit in our jobs every day as well.

      No. No you don't.

      One of the definitions of hell is teaching a US high school class at a medium to large school. You get paid shit. The parents treat you like shit. The kids treat you like shit. The public treats you like shit. And the best part is? There is nothing you can do about it.

      Teaching is one of the most stressful professions in the US.

      Rather than bitch about that, how's about you do your damned job and help them along that path?

      If parents would do their damn job, teachers would be able to theirs. Having a room of 30+ TV medicated, over-hormoned, semi-sociopathic, hellions locked up for 8 hours a day is not conducive to a teaching environment. Especially when teachers have a paltry and laughable array of disciplinary tools.

      Why is the US falling behind in education? It's more than just the teachers. It's cultural.

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    4. Re:Well They Are Your Students... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      How come the parents always get away scot free, and it's always the teachers fault? They spend 6 hours with your children, the other 18 hours are your responsibility. If your kids are uneducated you better look at the four fingers pointing back at you when you point the blame at the teacher.

      My generation likes to blame everyone else, but if your kids aren't learning what they need to in school, then as parents you need to step up and get involved.

      When I went to school if the teacher called home, they were believed by my parents. Now when the teacher phones home and speaks to most of my generation, they argue and can't believe their little angel could ever do anything negative. Your kids are not anymore special than the next kid, and if they are anything like the majority of the breeders out there, they are as thick as a brick.

      The comments on the blog remind me of the Carly Simon song about being so vain and thinking the world revolves around you. And how the listener is so vain that they probably think the song is about them. Well these kids sure thinks the world revolves around them, there is no mention of any person in the blog, but each one of them have taken it personally . Besides these buttercups better suck it up because I can guarantee that if they can't take this critic, just wait until they get to college.
      But then again I watched a show where the current kids now have their parents showing up and arguing grades in University. So we are screwed.....

    5. Re:Well They Are Your Students... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Grow up. That stuff she said was funny.

  35. Won't Someone Think of the Teachers? by twoallbeefpatties · · Score: 2

    I'm divided on this controversy, because I also know a couple of teachers. They post on Facebook, or they show up in IRC chat, and the number one thing that seem to like to talk about is how there's this one kid that they just absolutely want to strangle some days. Or lesser injustices like kids not doing their homework and such. Considering the stress of the environment and the lack of discipline in some kids, I think it's fair that teachers should want to vent now and then.

    What bothers me more about the OP is that the teacher didn't blog behind a pseudonym or behind a locked Facebook post. I'm not sure that putting your actual name on a blog and making it moderately clear which kids you're dissing is a mature thing to do in any case.

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    1. Re:Won't Someone Think of the Teachers? by gstoddart · · Score: 1

      I'm not sure that putting your actual name on a blog and making it moderately clear which kids you're dissing is a mature thing to do in any case.

      OK, I admit ... while I R'd TFA, I didn't W TFV -- I never W TFV. ;-)

      So, I hadn't realized that it was fairly clear which kids she was talking about -- I was more thinking it was something in the abstract.

      Yeah, if she's railing on about identifiable students, and not under a pseudonym, she might be "frightfully dim" herself.

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    2. Re:Won't Someone Think of the Teachers? by twoallbeefpatties · · Score: 1

      Ah, so it was moderately pseudonym'ed. I abscond.

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  36. If it walks like a duck by stewbacca · · Score: 4, Insightful

    What exactly is wrong with calling lazy, sneaky, rude teenagers "lazy", "sneaky" and "rude"?

    1. Re:If it walks like a duck by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      What exactly is wrong with calling lazy, sneaky, rude teenagers "lazy", "sneaky" and "rude"?

      Prove all three. We're waiting.

    2. Re:If it walks like a duck by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      If a teacher calls one or two students lazy, sneaky, or rude, then they may very well be right. If, like her, they say that about the entire class (or even the majority of the class) then they are probably the one at fault.

      Which do you think is more likely: That, year after year, every student in her class is a moron, or that she is an arrogant, incompetent teacher?

    3. Re:If it walks like a duck by Darinbob · · Score: 2

      You might hurt their self esteem.

    4. Re:If it walks like a duck by ArundelCastle · · Score: 1

      The same thing that's wrong with calling you an insensitive clod.
      If you actually make people believe that they are bad, they have no incentive to change. They just get angrier, more antisocial and bitter.
      Start treating people like they're worth something, and they might start to like it.
      You insensitive clod.

    5. Re:If it walks like a duck by I_want_information · · Score: 1

      I teach a general education course for my state university system. My students are third year students.

      I have to tell them in writing that plagiarism is not allowed.

      I have to tell them in writing that they need to attend class.

      From an actual student email: "I also want to know if coming into class is a big deal for the sake of importance in missing something big?"

      Another student decided to ignore the course URL on the syllabus but remembered I use Moodle, so has spent the last THREE WEEKS wandering aimlessly around moodle.org looking for his class' website.

      At least four of them had problems with a login that was their first initial followed by their last name, with their password being the same.

      I have students openly either sleeping or surfing porn in class.

    6. Re:If it walks like a duck by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      You need to call them "cooperative in class"

    7. Re:If it walks like a duck by Reason58 · · Score: 1

      Call them "lazy", "sneaky", and "rude" to their face; or at least to their parents' faces. Do not post it to the entire world on Facebook. At the very least do not act surprised when you are fired for it.

    8. Re:If it walks like a duck by syousef · · Score: 1

      What exactly is wrong with calling lazy, sneaky, rude teenagers "lazy", "sneaky" and "rude"?

      Nothing, unless you happen to have a duty of care to the lazy, sneaky, rude teenagers in which case it is your job to make their lives better by teaching them, and not to harm them by spreading gossip about them.

      My wife's a teacher and she would never EVER disparage her kids in any public forum. Aside from the duty of care it's unprofessional to do so.

      Teacher should absolutely be suspended.

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    9. Re:If it walks like a duck by BitZtream · · Score: 1

      There parents are whiney bitches who can't possibly have bad children. I mean, NOT MY CHILDREN, MY CHILDREN ARE ANGELS! When what they really mean is angles ... obtuse ones at that.

      Parents bitch to principle and/or school board. These people too are a bunch of pussies who won't stand up to the parents so they pass it down the line. Remember, she flows down hill, the teacher is at the bottom.

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    10. Re:If it walks like a duck by stewbacca · · Score: 1

      First, "you insensitive clod" is used around ironically...

      Second, we don't know if the teacher was making the students believe they are bad, as her comments were, in her mind, private.

      And I'm an educator, so nothing you just posted is news to me.

    11. Re:If it walks like a duck by stewbacca · · Score: 1

      It wasn't on facebook, and she hasn't been fired...yet.

    12. Re:If it walks like a duck by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      What exactly is wrong with calling lazy, sneaky, rude teenagers "lazy", "sneaky" and "rude"?

      It's wrong because it's now on Google forever.

    13. Re:If it walks like a duck by Locke2005 · · Score: 1

      I have students openly either sleeping or surfing porn in class.

      You need a better firewall on the network... and a ruler with which to wake sleeping students. Or, you could just try throwing a board eraser at them... that usually worked for my teachers.

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      I've abandoned my search for truth; now I'm just looking for some useful delusions.
    14. Re:If it walks like a duck by maraist · · Score: 1

      The teachers I respected the most either had interesting course material (though they didn't matter at all), or were brutally honest about their disdain for our lack of quality / effort (though I didn't take it personally because I was the rare exception - so I guess it's not a good example in terms of effects on personal motivation). Jerimiad was once written on the class board after a mid-term with an average grade of 20%. The next two lectures were not fun. Some of my teachers referred to us as peons. And all I can say is that this is the result of successive grade-inflation. Beware the demise of American society. The two class system is upon us.

      When did sports players worry about feelings when their coach told them they're the worst excuse for a foot-ball player they've ever seen in their lives? No, these players kick their testosterone into gear and try and earn the respect of their fallen coach (or they wash out - because they are already giving their all). Likewise, a person who knows they can do better take criticism as a challenge. This femaleification of our education system is destroying america. We need to challenge students, and stop worrying about their (or their parent's) feelings. Wash outs are SUPPOSED to happen. This is how you pick what you want to be when you grow up.. By washing out of stuff you have a delusion of adequacy about, and boning up and accepting that you need to be a mechanic or street-cleaner or starving-artist.

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  37. Not an issue about rights by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    This has nothing to do with rights. Her rights weren't violated. If I created a blog an posted angry and insulting comments about my employer's customers, I would expect to get fired.

  38. Irony. by DarthVain · · Score: 1

    A teacher going online and calling her students stupid, then getting suspended for doing so.

    To quote the illustrious Forrest Gump: "Stupid is as stupid does."

  39. tard blog by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    reading the headline I though the writer(s) of tard blog was finally outed.

  40. Or we can consider the flipside... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Maybe she does have a class full of idiots.

    You can't tell me that it's impossible, nor even statistically improbable, that she has an entire class of sub-average students.

    1. Re:Or we can consider the flipside... by Wyatt+Earp · · Score: 1

      Not in the suburbs in one of the best school districts in Pennsylvania.

      In the city or in a rural district theres a good chance of it, but not in a good suburban district.

      This teacher taught at one of the thirteen best schools in the state.

      http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Central_Bucks_School_District

  41. I don't get it. by Jane+Q.+Public · · Score: 1

    When people run across something like that, why don't they copy it? So that even if it's later taken down, they can post a copy for others to see?

    I mean, in Firefox it's as simple as File | Save Page As...

    I suppose in some cases there might be copyright issues, but in other cases there would not. But I don't think I have ever seen it done.

    1. Re:I don't get it. by Jane+Q.+Public · · Score: 1

      Haha. Now that I've actually seen the article, I like her. I don't think she did anything wrong at all; it was obviously satire.

      And not bad satire, either.

      She did not aim any of those comments at individual students, much less by name. When students blogged similar things about teachers, the courts said it was okay. Frankly, I think this was a satirical comment about teaching in general, and it could easily have appeared some years ago in one of the humor sections of the Reader's Digest and nobody would have cared.

      I think this is much ado about nothing.

  42. What Bothers Me... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Well, the suspension doesn't bother me, either.

    What bothers me is that NOW I WANT TO READ THE BLOG!

  43. Complaint about her work environment by wowwser · · Score: 1

    Is she not just complaining about her work environment? http://www.suntimes.com/news/metro/3725380-418/changes-after-facebook-ruling.html

  44. why post by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    You can't fucking see it here. Fuck slashdot up the ass and set it on fire. You're motherfucking done.

  45. News Flash by Mr.+McGibby · · Score: 1

    All teachers think this about their students sometimes. Maybe this one shouldn't have posted it for the world to see, but what do you think the teachers talk about in the teacher's lounge?

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    1. Re:News Flash by Locke2005 · · Score: 1

      I thought the teachers just talked about the students they'd had sex with...

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  46. Link to her blog post by iammani · · Score: 1

    Here is a google cache of her blog post. To me, its seems she just had to vent it out. Judge it for yourselves.

    1. Re:Link to her blog post by BJ_Covert_Action · · Score: 2

      Yeah, reading the blog post myself, now, I have to say I think the summary is a bit sensationalist. She didn't describe any particular kid as dim or lazy or anything. It seemed more like she was just trying to make some bad jokes about, "What teachers really think." It's not like she was actually attacking any particular students or posting these specific comments in a format linked to specific individuals.

      Like you said, it seems like she was just venting from teacher burnout. Maybe she should have had more tact, but honestly, the comments list is a bit funny.

  47. Home school by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    So glad we will be home schooling our children. The public school system is a giant mess.

    1. Re:Home school by adamofgreyskull · · Score: 1

      Looking forward to your blog...

  48. Re:Quid Pro Quo? by RingDev · · Score: 1

    Not sure about highschool, but in college I was threatened with a libel lawsuit and expulsion after publicly stating that Mrs Rainy-Moore "couldn't teach a toddler how to crap itself."

    The lawsuit was a joke of a threat, but when the dean tells you to apologize or you'll get booted 4 credits from being done and over $20k in debt, you do what he says.

    -Rick

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    "Most people in the U.S. wouldn't know they live in a tyrannical state if it walked up and grabbed their junk." - MyFirs
  49. Contempt in a teacher's heart by Announcer · · Score: 1

    I had a second grade teacher, who made NO efforts to disguise or withhold her contempt for some of her students! In fact, she openly showed it, daily. I remember so well, because I was one of those students for which she held contempt. I showed her, tho! In true GEEK fashion, I excelled in my work... IN HER FACE! :)

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    1. Re:Contempt in a teacher's heart by Jason+Levine · · Score: 1

      Did you have my second grade teacher by any chance? My second grade teacher, Mrs. D., hated kids, especially me. She would tell me I'd never succeed in life because I didn't cut or color within the lines. She made fun of me in front of the class. I was actually a 2nd grade dropout for a bit because I hated school so much. The principal refused to let me change rooms because she was his "best teacher."

      Luckily, my 3rd grade teacher noticed that I aced the reading test and gave me the advanced test. When I did well on that one, she put me in the advanced reading group. That turned into honors classes which led to AP and college level courses. I credit my 3rd grade teacher for my successes in the 3rd-12th grades. A few years after leaving elementary school, I decided to rub it in Mrs. D's face that I was doing well. Wouldn't you know, she retired the previous year!

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    2. Re:Contempt in a teacher's heart by Announcer · · Score: 1

      I'm sure that my horrible 2'nd grade teacher must have passed away by now. There were a number of parents who had complained about her. Mrs Giordano, of Edison School, Bridgeport, CT. She was unbelievable. Interestingly enough, one of my classmates has GOOD memories of being treated well in that class! So, obviously, this lady had "favorites", while those that were NOT in her favor, were insulted, demeaned, and openly mocked.

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      Willie...
    3. Re:Contempt in a teacher's heart by Jason+Levine · · Score: 1

      Not the same teacher as mine (Mrs. Demperio, Branch Brook Elementary, Smithtown NY). It's sad to think of a teacher acting the way our 2nd grade teachers did to kids. Teachers should inspire and instill a love of learning. It's not an easy task by any means, but the right teacher can take a kid who hates school and turn them into someone who wants to learn more.

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  50. What if it was reversed? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    If a student or the parents of a student made similar comments about the teacher, would the student be suspended?

  51. Spectacular! by Ynsats · · Score: 2

    There is so much awesomeness and win in that story that I'm going to go to Doylestown, PA and protest her suspension and demand her immediate promotion to Supernintendo Chalmers!

    1. Re:Spectacular! by MenThal · · Score: 1

      ...protest her suspension and demand her immediate promotion to Supernintendo Chalmers!

      Hey, where can I buy that game? Sounds awsome! "Seeeeeeeymooooooore!!!!!"

  52. Her own Fault by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Considering that it's her job to teach them, isn't it really her fault that they are "frightfully dim?"

  53. huh by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    so it's cool for kids to do it but not teachers?

  54. Re:Snowflake by Minwee · · Score: 1

    You seem to have missed out on the required reading for this class.

  55. Re:Snowflake by David_W · · Score: 1

    Why the term "snowflake" in the summary? Not enough racism going around to suit Slashdot these days?

    It's not intended as a racist term, at least not when put together with "precious". See:

    It has origins in the old sayings about every snowflake being unique (hence, "precious").

  56. Further proving... by emptycorp · · Score: 0

    that dumbing down is in effect and anyone who speaks out against it will be removed.

  57. Re:Snowflake by Aero77 · · Score: 1

    "Beautiful Snowflakes" - its a reference to the belief that we are unique individuals, just like snowflakes. Rationally, of course, that isn't the case. Personalities, backgrounds, and other observable/measurable traits can be classified into several neat categories and dealt with using common techniques. Snowflakes are not unique either. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Snowflake#Uniqueness I'm sorry, but you are the only one here seeing racism...

  58. We all hate teenagers, that's why we don't teach by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Children are there to learn and fear of being publicly insulted as unintelligent for giving a wrong answer is counter-productive to the job of an educator. My aunts were teachers for 40 years each. They had kids that they complained about. One student was so bad, she even ended up costing my aunt her annual achievement bonus. But to do it in a public forum is not in the best interest of the student and I can see firing this teacher.

    Let's admit it. We all hate teenagers. They often remind us of what we did not like about ourselves at that age. The arrogance, naivety and ignorance combined to make one annoying package. We hate to admit that at one time we were like that, but we were (and some still are). We blame the technology as a differentiator between the generations, but in the end it is just another channel to exhibit the same flaws we shared at those times in our development. That being said, those of us who, despite all this, do not hate teenagers should become educators. Those who do, need to find new employment as you cannot have the best interest of the student in mind when you secretly (or in this case publicly) despise them.

  59. If the kids can post on blogs without penalty by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Then so can the teachers.

  60. cached link from google by Laxori666 · · Score: 3, Informative

    Link! .

    I don't know about you but her comments are pretty funny. True though, it's probably not the best thing to blog about as a teacher. The students' comments were pretty great.

    1. Re:cached link from google by SpaghettiPattern · · Score: 1

      Thanks for the link. I couldn't see anyone being named personally. IMHO this is a humorous piece of work and does not accurately portray the true feelings towards the kids. I'm on the teacher's side here.

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      I hadn't the slightest objection to his spending his time planning massacres for the bourgeoisie... (P.G. Wodehouse)
    2. Re:cached link from google by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I think she might have just given them lower grades.

    3. Re:cached link from google by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      From the /. summary I was wavering on what should be done, but having actually read the thing I don't think the teacher should be punished for this. She just stated generalities that we all know to be the truth. No privacy implications or anything else at all.

    4. Re:cached link from google by Locke2005 · · Score: 1

      Let's see, she freely admits that she is blogging on school time, using school equipment, instead of doing her job... shouldn't she be fired for that alone? (Yes, I appreciate the irony that I'm posting to slashdot from work, on work time... but I really don't have anything else to do right now.)

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    5. Re:cached link from google by Locke2005 · · Score: 1

      Wow... reading the comments from all the students, I have a newfound faith in the future of our youth. Go, kids, go!

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  61. The Truth Hurts by nevermore94 · · Score: 1

    Sounds like:
    A. The truth hurts
    B. She may be as "Frightfully dim" as she accuses her students of being.

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  62. "hour and a half a day"? by slapout · · Score: 1

    Their classes are an hour and a half long? When I was in school classes were 50 minutes.

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    1. Re:"hour and a half a day"? by ciaohound · · Score: 1

      It's called a block schedule. It can work really well if you have a skilled teacher who knows how to change activities effectively. Of course, if you don't, it can be deadly.

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    2. Re:"hour and a half a day"? by raftpeople · · Score: 1

      Their classes are an hour and a half long? When I was in school classes were 50 minutes.

      If my calculations are correct, sounds like they are getting 60% more education than you did.

  63. The best teacher blog: Riti Sped's Tard Blog by adamofgreyskull · · Score: 1

    Mirrored here.

  64. Quoting Cicero by mariox19 · · Score: 1

    Nemo enim fere saltat sobrius, nisi forte insanit.

    For those whose Latin is rusty, try William Whitaker's Words. Cicero's proverb will give you a good laugh.

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    1. Re:Quoting Cicero by ekgringo · · Score: 1

      I tried the link. Pasting in the text resulted in something that was even less comprehensible than the original Latin!

  65. You Forget. Teachers are Scum by QuincyDurant · · Score: 5, Insightful

    They have no right to a union, no right to speak, no right to demand respect from students. Everybody except teachers knows exactly how to teach just as those who use computers or cars know everything there is about how to design and build them. Education is a mess because of worthless, lowlife teachers and despite the heroic efforts of principals, administrators, parents, taxpayers, and former students. All the smart people on Slashdot taught themselves everything they know, and, as former students, are experts not only at being students but also on being teachers. Teachers should be fed to the hogs, or better still, the students. Just imagine how much money it would save if students taught themselves and ate ground teacher instead of tax-payer supported lunchmeat.

    I don't work for a school district, or, of course, I would be suspended and muzzled for this post. Quite right, too.

    1. Re:You Forget. Teachers are Scum by Asm-Coder · · Score: 1

      I think you are to hard on the teachers. Many of them are trying their hardest, many on them succeeding in the face of great educational challenges. (See: Stand and Deliver) ; )

      I'll admit a somewhat biased opinion, I was in the AP program and therefore had the better teachers of the school. However, I don't think the primary problem lies with the teachers, but with the school administrators, (ok, some of the teachers are a problem, but they get promoted to administration fairly quickly) and with some of the parents.
      The thing slowing classrooms down isn't lazy teachers, but unruly and lazy students. They are the ones that lower the class average so that it becomes necessary to curve the scores so you don't have to hold back most of the students. Arguably the teachers could hold them back anyway, but the administration frowns on that. (I actually had one teacher that consistently flunked 30-50% of his class. It wasn't because he was a bad teacher, he had a 100% pass rate on the Chemistry AP exam 3 years in a row. He just didn't put up with any of the students who didn't do the work. The first year he was required to pass at a minimum percentage of students was the first year he didn't have a 100% AP pass rate. It was about 60% that year IIRC. He no longer works for the school district.) They are also the students who disrupt the students who are actually there to learn.
      Teachers need to be given the ability to punish students in a meaningful way again. There are some parents who don't teach their kids good behavior anymore, and ultimately those students slow the rest of the class down. However, those same parents as well as the administration refuse to let teachers assign punishments that will get the students to shape up. The parents and administrators also need to back the teachers up. How many of the bad students do you remember from your school who were as afraid of their parents finding out about being assigned detention as you were of yours?

  66. Re:We all hate teenagers, that's why we don't teac by cheekyjohnson · · Score: 1

    I don't hate teenagers. I hate humans that are arrogant, naive, and ignorant. You might say "many teenagers are that way," but in my experience, I've found that the average member of society has all three of those traits, not just teenagers. However, I'd never even think about becoming an educator (due to how badly the 'educational' system is handled as of now).

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  67. Listen up parents by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    These are probably the most honest and factual assessments of you darling children that you will ever hear. But you are deaf to it.

    If she didn't reveal her identity, or the student's identities, I think she has every right to say what she does. But if the teacher wasn't smart enough to think that one through, then I guess she had it coming to her.

  68. Self-Reply. Mod Down. I Was Wrong. by BJ_Covert_Action · · Score: 1

    Meh, mod this crap down, I followed a link to her blog post and read it myself. I'll admit, she lacked tact in that she posted some pretty poor taste humor. But she wasn't actually insulting any of her students directly.

  69. So did she name names or did the truth just hurt? by grapeape · · Score: 2

    What I find remarkable is that so many parents got upset its like they picked on and noticed her comment matched their kid. You would would think most parents would just wonder who the heck she was talking about and assume it wasnt their child.

  70. The comments thread is hysterical by sean.peters · · Score: 1

    I nearly wet myself while reading the comments thread over at TFA. Post after post bitching about how stupid the kids are these days... and these same posts are riddled with spelling and grammatical errors. Wasn't there a Bible verse, I don't know, something about motes and beams? Holy crap.

    Then there are the posts that on one hand, bitch about the "arbitrary" firing of the teacher, and the evils of teacher's unions... in the same post!

    People are nuts.

  71. Oh, come on by sean.peters · · Score: 1

    Seriously? You can't understand the difference between a student complaining about the teacher, and the teacher complaining about the student? Here's a hint: the teacher is supposed to be the RESPONSIBLE one of this matchup.

    1. Re:Oh, come on by JackOfAllGeeks · · Score: 3, Insightful

      Here's a hint: the teacher is supposed to be the RESPONSIBLE one of this matchup.

      No, I don't see how that's pertinent. Just because she doesn't like her students doesn't mean she's not doing her job. It's not irresponsible to complain about people you don't like. Impolitic, maybe, but I'm less interested in politically-savvy teachers than I am in capable educators.

      If she's not doing her job that's irresponsible, but if she's doing it despite personal feelings, I'd say that's the definition of responsibility.

    2. Re:Oh, come on by thesandtiger · · Score: 1

      Except it's a two way street. Her students need to be able to learn from her, and if her behavior impacts her students' ability to learn, she is not doing her job.

      The students wouldn't be sitting in the class focusing on the lesson. They would very likely be focusing on how their teacher is probably going to go and humiliate them - publicly - and how other students will make fun of them and call them a rat or whatever it is the teacher has done.

      When her students are unable to learn effectively because she has created a hostile environment, she is not able to do her job.

      This even happens in workplaces all the time. If someone does something to create a hostile work environment, they are held responsible, even if their work doesn't necessarily suffer. It's because, by being an asshole, they cause other people to have difficulty working with them.

      She has not behaved responsibly because she didn't take responsibility for the way her own outrageous behavior might affect other people.

      And, to pre-empt any kind of ridiculous "But she can't be responsible for how other people react!" argument: If people respond poorly to behavior that is within the normally accepted bounds of a workplace, then the person responding poorly is culpable. But when someone behaves in a way that transgresses those boundaries, they then become responsible for the reaction of other people because their behavior is poor.

      Ex: A co-worker makes an error in a formula on a spreadsheet and I say, "Oh, hey, Bob, this field has an error in it - would you mind fixing it and getting it back to me?" If Bob is then unable to handle that gentle criticism, it's on him because my request was perfectly normal.

      Ex 2: A co-worker makes an error in a formula on a spreadsheet and I say, "Oh, Bob, you are a fucking moron. How can you be SO FUCKING DUMB? Hey everyone, Bob fucked up this spreadsheet!" and then I blog about it, naming Bob, the company, and just talking about what a drooling moron Bob is, how he's sub-human filth, etc... Yeah, if Bob has a poor reaction to that and can't work with me, then his reaction is entirely my fault because my behavior was transgressive.

      Teachers publicly humiliating and insulting students, by name, in a public forum that reaches far past the classroom, is transgressive. If her students are not able to work with her, it's her fault.

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    3. Re:Oh, come on by JackOfAllGeeks · · Score: 1

      If people respond poorly to behavior that is within the normally accepted bounds of a workplace, then the person responding poorly is culpable. But when someone behaves in a way that transgresses those boundaries, they then become responsible for the reaction of other people because their behavior is poor.

      This happened outside of the workplace, and was only brought INTO the workplace by someone else. The "someone else" made the work environmernt hostile.

      Teachers publicly humiliating and insulting students, by name, in a public forum that reaches far past the classroom, is transgressive. If her students are not able to work with her, it's her fault.

      There's no indication that that's what happened. No names and dubious claims of "in public."

  72. In related news... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Parents who are stupid have children who are stupid.

  73. Why fire her? by makubesu · · Score: 1

    Just mod down her blog. Then nobody will see it. Trolling about kids is no reason for a perma-ban.

  74. yet if she said it about here boss by Shivetya · · Score: 1

    would she be fired? I seem to recall many people lauding the labor board's decision against an employer who took action against an upset employee who bad mouthed her employer.

    Or do we need to pass a certain threshold of being mean?

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    1. Re:yet if she said it about here boss by hrvatska · · Score: 1

      would she be fired? I seem to recall many people lauding the labor board's decision against an employer who took action against an upset employee who bad mouthed her employer.

      Or do we need to pass a certain threshold of being mean?

      There's a difference between saying your workplace sucks and your company's products suck.

    2. Re:yet if she said it about here boss by julesh · · Score: 1

      The question is whether it interferes with the employee's ability to do their job. An employee making snide comments about their employer doesn't necessarily do that (unless the employee works in PR, for example); OTOH a teacher making demeaning remarks about their students that then get back to those students *and their classmates* is very likely to interfere with the job of educating those students. It's hard to take a teacher seriously who resorts to calling you names behind your back.

  75. The Truth Hurts by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Learning the hard truth that your little precious is actually a sniveling little shit that has a sense of self-entitlement that dwarfs many countries is a hard thing. Not that the truth shouldn't be known, but you shouldn't fire the bringer of said truth.

  76. It depends on the circumstances by bl968 · · Score: 1

    As long as she didn't disclose the names of any students the comments were directed at it is free speech. If she did disclose the names of individual students in connection with the comments then she should be fired.

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  77. This is in contrast to... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    The settled court case where an employee complained about their boss(es) on Facebook. Granted, the employee had a union backing them up and there wasn't an actual court ruling, but still. How is it that /.ers approve of punishing the employer for retaliation in one case but not the other?

  78. Uhm, no... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    They are not paid to assist in the development of anything. They are paid to make sure the kids get a passing grade on a test so the school can continue to receive government funding, so the school can remain open and pay the faculty and administrators.

    Your kid fights at school? They call the cops now and let them deal with it.

    Your kid threatens another kid? Both get suspended and its the parents issue to deal with it.

    Your kid being a normal kid and wanting to play/explore/do anything but sit in a chair for 2 hours straight? You are told your kid as ADHD by a non-qualified wanna be student counselor and advised if you don't get him or her on meds they will suspend your kid and report you to Social Services.

    Teachers don't do shit now to raise your kids. They aren't babysitters, but they are not surrogate parents anymore either. They do not teach your children how to socialize and deal with social problems, they teach them to run to authority and take whatever justice they are handed, and that most of the time they won't get in any real trouble anyways. They teach them that adults don't care and won't listen to them and gee, we wonder why they crawl inside computers when they get home rather than going outside to play...

    The fact a teacher spends more of their day with your kid than you do....by law!...means yes, they share a part of the burden for raising these kids. The government and the administration don't see it like this anymore though. And now neither do the teachers. They are neither role model nor inspiration. We took away their power to be a surrogate parent when we said corporal punishment was bad, when we said the kid has more say in court than an adult does. For a Nanny State we sure as hell are doing a great job of ignoring our kids into delinquency. If you can't see that, you really are a part of the problem.

  79. Lazy Journalists by cowtamer · · Score: 1

    Who were apparently educated by teachers like this one.

    Her comments, actually, are not about specific students but what she would like to have available as report card comments. Still inappropriate and not very smart blogging in such an identifiable manner.

    Here's a Google cache, which I'm sure will go away, leaving us with 4th hand rehashed content as a 'primary' source in this story

    http://webcache.googleusercontent.com/search?oe=utf-8&rls=com.mandriva%3Aen-US%3Aofficial&client=firefox-a&hl=en&q=cache:sALNOuknr30J:http://natalieshandbasket.blogspot.com/2010/01/if-you-dont-have-anything-nice-to-say.html+http%3A//natalieshandbasket.blogspot.com/2010/01/if-you-dont-have-anything-nice-to-say.html&ct=clnk

    1. Re:Lazy Journalists by mysidia · · Score: 2

      actually, are not about specific students but what she would like to have available as report card comments. Still inappropriate and not very smart blogging in such an identifiable manner.

      Perhaps she just had a moment of irrationality back in Jan 2010 when she wrote it? Perhaps the comments really were accurate for some students, if frank. Obviously she didn't use those comments on their report cards which is what counts. What she posted online was some rant in a personal blog entry, not directed comments about her students.

      Check out this one.... And she teaches advanced honors-level courses to high school students who exhibit such behavior?

      Journals are graded on the attitude and enthusiasm the students display regarding and during SSR time, and the quality and quantity of the journal responses. The aforementioned student suffered a bit of a set back when he decided he didn't like the book he was reading....

      He ranted and raved and made a spectacle, ended up not reading, and pretty much displayed the same behavior the next SSR day

      So, accordingly, I took points off for attitude and for entry quality (since he didn't actually READ on a couple of his ranty days), and I wrote to him in the grade comments section that he doesn't deal well with setbacks, had displayed a negative attitude and needs to learn how to move past disappointments with not having the book he'd prefer reading available to him, and that his language was inappropriate.

      When handing back the sheets, he immediately made a big show exclaiming how he didn't curse in his book and how it's not fair how I took off points, etc. Then he demanded that I show him where he'd displayed this negative attitude and where the curses were. I ignored him at first, correcting him only to say that I'd said his language was inappropriate but didn't say he'd cursed. He forced the issue, though, by stomping over with his journal and slapping it on the desk making his demand again. This time, since we now had an entire audience and I knew the words would speak for themselves and damn him, I obliged. I said, "Not that I need to justify your grade to you, but here..." and I proceeded--after a short pause during which time I was leafing through to find the offending passages and the students were starting to snicker, thinking he'd called my bluff--to read, verbatim, the offending passages. I read all 3 of them, and he started getting annoyed, trying to stop me by saying, "Alright alrightalright!" but I kept going until I was done, then I finished off by noting, "And for the record, this is exactly the type of behavior I was referring to, also. Your arguing has just eaten into your grade for this batch of SSR reading and journaling. Perhaps you should just get to work." He did.

  80. Limits always to be tested by erroneus · · Score: 1

    This is yet another example of people testing limits. Is it too far to say what you feel without naming names? That's a really good question for this case. When I was younger, kids respected adults. These days, kids have it in their heads that they can sue for anything and everything and have no need to fear or respect adults. This comes from society and parents and it's a damned shame. And this teacher is literally a product of the generation when I think things started to go bad. Not only did her students lack respect, but she did she and clearly she saw nothing wrong with it.

    So what do we have? Well, we have children growing up without that essential "life/social skill" called respect. They grow up into adults without that life/social skill and are then left wondering what went wrong when their lack of respect bites them in the ass.

    Childhood is about teaching children to be GOOD ADULTS. It is not only about protecting them from the evil world. It is about teaching them to deal with and survive in this evil world and maybe even to help it be less evil. Sure, protect your kids, but you're not doing your job as a parent if that's ALL you do.

    1. Re:Limits always to be tested by mysidia · · Score: 1

      Childhood is about teaching children to be GOOD ADULTS. It is not only about protecting them from the evil world. It is about teaching them to deal with and survive in this evil world and maybe even to help it be less evil. Sure, protect your kids, but you're not doing your job as a parent if that's ALL you do.

      She teaches 11th grade Honors English students. 11th Grade High school students are adults, not children. If the students have not learned proper respect, discipline, and proper academic behavior and attitude long before that point, there is little chance of them learning any of that the easy way.

      The teacher said nothing that is not true of some students at any level. There are always plenty of "lazy" students; of course, that is a matter of opinion. A teacher might perceive a student as lazy who is just busy with something else.

      Lack of respect would be if the teacher had actually used those comments, rather than just talking on some random blog about wanting to put those comments on some students' grade reports.

      It's a frickin' personal weblog... so it's not even obvious whether that was a serious desire, a joke, random comments, or just the product of one day's frustrations over a year ago.

      Seems like if anyone had a rational reason to object to the post, they should have done so back when it was written in Jan 2010, not 13 months later. Especially seeing as, well, the post doesn't even exist anymore online.

  81. Here's the breakdown for those keeping score by spun · · Score: 0

    Is somebody a little distressed from not being spanked enough as a kid? Ah, I tell you what little guy. How about you go play in the corner with your GI Joes while us adults talk about this, ok? If you stay in that corner and play with your toys, you will get a sucker if you are good. How does that sound?

    Here, you take me seriously, thinking I am actually insulting the original poster for saying people should not be offended by words. But if I am being insulting, aren't I negating my own point? First fucking clue you should have seen.

    Back to the adults talking now: Teacher or any profession, it is known that while employed, you do not talk about your dislike of the job anywhere and let people know it is you. I don't really care that she is a teacher, as this applies to all fields. You talk trash, you get fired.

    Can't fault you for this, it is absolutely true.

    As for the kids/parents: stop being so damn shocked that your kid is stupid. Today, everybody thinks their kid is the best and smartest. Well, many of your's are not. Face it. Maybe get them to bulk up and play football or a sport that they don't have to think about so that they can still send you a check. Either that or let them work in a kitchen until they retire. Who knows, I have seem some idiot Kitchen Managers. Maybe he can work his way up the Chiilli's ladder. Sorry, but your kid sucks. Stop getting all offended when you know it is true and somebody tells you the truth.

    Stop being so offended that someone insulted someone else on the Internet. Stop giving advice no one needs. Stop trying to sound so superior to everyone else, it isn't working.

    For the parents that were offended: If you visit /. at all, you kid sucks. Teach them to cook or get them into sports. That is about all you can hope for.

    Okay, rereading this it is obvious you were, as the Brits say, taking the piss. Damn it, maybe the troll has been trolled. What fun is that, two trolls trolling each other? Stick to civilians, don't bust into someone else's troll thread and ruin the fun.

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    1. Re:Here's the breakdown for those keeping score by Stregano · · Score: 0

      Ok, I will give you this battle since you figured me out. Touche sir, Touche

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  82. What about freedom of speech? by Dcnjoe60 · · Score: 1

    Wasn't it reported just last week that a child could not be suspended for posting about their teacher on facebook? Then why can't a teacher post generic comments about students? The ACLU took up the student's case, who will take up the teacher's (and what she said was less inflammatory than the student's posting)

  83. Because it's written by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    You know this is only because it was written down

    She could have just stuck to bitching to friends, in a public coffee shop, within ear of the world - and no-one would care.

  84. What a bitch by tkprit · · Score: 1

    I'm not into preying on children (in this case, I'll include >16yo) if it's sexually, emotionally, etc abusive. Imo what she did was no better than what Letourneau did. (Of course, maybe she has severe mental issues like Letourneau, too.)

    First thing's first: if she believed a kid was going to OPEN FIRE on a classroom, it's her responsibility to make it official to keep everyone else safe. Hello, VA Tech shootings.

    "Frightfully dim" and other negative epithets — her job is to teach and grade their work, not judge a student. She's clearly not in the right profession. And yeah, let's go Letourneau again: what if she'd found a "hot yummy sex god".

    Don't they have psychological evals for teachers?! It's one thing to THINK things, but completely unprofessional and off-balanced to publish the thoughts. If Natalie Munroe's sane, what a bitch!

    1. Re:What a bitch by BitZtream · · Score: 1

      You need some perspective.

      You also need to learn to detect when someone is venting.

      All she did was wrote in her diary. The stupid part was that she thought:

      A) Someone would be interested in reading her personal thoughts

      B) Making really offensive statements about customers in a public forum is a good idea

      her job is to teach and grade their work, not judge a student

      Just to verify, you do realize that 'grade their work' is 'judge a student' right? Her job IS to judge students, to assess their position in the class and if they are ready to move on. Her ability to judge students directly impacts her ability to teach them. If she has no idea what they are like she can't possibly tailor her teaching to that student to be as effective as possible. Whats she supposed to do, put notes on a projector, lecture the students all day as if they were just voice recorders and assume they'll all just suck it in and know everything, and will all one day turn out to be presidents of the country, astronauts and neural surgeons ... at the same time? You need to get over this silly idea that people shouldn't be judged, all its going to do is make sure you stay at the bottom of the barrel as the rest of us are going to judge you to be a pussy and walk right over you on our way to the top.

      As far as thinking but not saying these things. As a general rule, if you think things but don't have the balls to say them out loud to someone, even if its just your family/close friends, THAT is generally an indication of psychological problems. Keeping things bottled up is generally what ends up making people go postal. Venting is a very natural, acceptable and healthy part of life. Bottling things up is dangerous, venting is not. How you handle it is whats important. She didn't beat the kids, which they probably deserved and would have been far more productive. She went online and ranted about it without even naming any names. She's just stupid, not mean or unbalanced.

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    2. Re:What a bitch by tkprit · · Score: 1

      'rat face' — about a kid she's responsible for teaching and improving — is not the kind of judgment a professional should make. That's simply mean.

      And even if she wasn't serious and was just 'venting', her fixation on students' physical attributes and personalities (esp the potential Columbine massacre kid) instead of the subject matter and the students' work, baffles me. I've BEEN to plenty of teacher conferences; SEEN notes they make... teachers are usually too busy keeping up with grading and actual teaching, and the 'notes' tend to be quickly-scribbled comments regarding the child's understanding of a particular topic.

      And from what I understand, 'problem kids' (distracting in class, rude, bullying) get SENT TO THE OFFICE so the teacher can focus on the teaching, esp. since teachers are judged on SOL scores now. [I asked about this a few years ago because I didn't think sending kids to the office was good practice and set a bad example for other kids in classroom about how to handle distractions in real life; but to a one, the teachers said they had a tight schedule to teach a bunch of kids federally-mandated knowledge and didn't have time to mess with the problem kids, and treated those kids' issues as 'administrative' problems.]

      Of course, I suppose she can't send a kid to the office because he's 'rat-faced'.

      If she needs to 'vent' about her students' appearances and personalities, she needs a professional with whom she can vent privately. Scribbling down hurtful, potentially illegal (libelous) notes about kids you're responsible for teaching would seem to incite her anger MORE since she's not getting any feedback. And her position (teacher) is too important for her mental state to be a question.

  85. I don't think so by tkprit · · Score: 1

    I think it's her responsibility as a teacher to report someone she believes might SHOOT UP a classroom — she completely dropped the ball there. It's thanks to "teachers" (heh) like her that school massacres happen. Forget her identity or the students', she needed to REPORT that shiznit. Maybe get the guy some help if nothing else.

    Re: negative epithets, they CAN go on a report card. I got all As, but PLENTY of remarks from teachers that weren't complimentary AT ALL. Now as a parent, when I get 'canned responses' from teachers, I go face-to-face with them and ask questions. Plenty of teachers put concerns, etc on report cards (though maybe phrased a bit more diplomatically, ie, "X is making fine grades but isn't living up to full potential.") A teacher's thoughts, if they're 'imporant' enough to be published and aren't just split-second angry moments, SHOULD be discussed w/ other teachers and parents.

    Of course, a child can't help his/her appearance, so 'rat face' isn't going to go over well in any venue. But she's a teacher, not a Project Runway judge.

  86. Clearly... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    the vast majority of these comments are by people who don't have to endure a high school classroom daily. High school freshmen in particular are some of the most ill-behaved specimens of human beings you can find. I frankly don't blame this teacher in the least, except for her failure to blog anonymously

  87. I always side with the teachers by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    I've had plenty of good teachers, but very few classes with respectful, disciplined students. If there is a problem with public schools today, it's that parents don't teach their kids proper manners and respect. Frankly, given the garbage that is the youth of today, I wonder how anyone can possibly want to teach.

  88. Oh yeah, by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    After reading her post, and thinking about some of the kids in my kids' school, and some of the students at the college I work at, I find her views refreshingly honest and to the point. There are high school seniors in our town that need several tries to spell their own names correctly (they never figured out how to add the correct spelling to their Spell-Check) and college students who can't multiply a series of numbers by 1 or 0, or find the average of two 2-digit numbers in their heads (petulantly demanding that "I didn't think this course would require so much math, I'm not very good at math, can I use a calculator?"). Our school systems in the States are overflowing with smarmy goodness: every child is just the way they were meant to be, and destined for greatness if they can take two consecutive frickin' breaths without choking on their own spittle. In contrast, when I was in 7-8th grade I had a teacher who would slam a yardstick edge-on onto our knuckles if we misbehaved. We didn't do it more than once or twice.

  89. the high school response is by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    i'll catch you in the parking lot

    but seeing how she NEVER IDENTIFIES ANY PERSON I don't see how her rant matters

  90. See the comment right above you. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Yet you post with your handle attached? Idiot.

  91. Honest student ratings by formfeed · · Score: 1
    For a long time I've had this exact great idea: One could have a website with student ratings.

    Professors could warn others not to let that one angry anti-scocial kid enroll, or watch out for the guy that really copies all of his assignments.

    I would call it "Rate my student" and professors could click on a dimness scale, or give three tears for really, really whiny..

  92. Anything you post... by Organic+Brain+Damage · · Score: 1

    ...can and will be used against you. So never, ever post anything with your real name attached. There's nothing in it for you but grief.

  93. Re:So did she name names or did the truth just hur by mysidia · · Score: 1

    No... she did not. She was very vague and just listed some general comments she "wished she could use" for some students.

    Also, this is dated January 2010. What are the chances that she would be teaching the same students in 2011, anyways?

  94. "continuously"? Cite, please. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Neither the article nor the TV segment said that she "continuously" insulted or degraded anybody. Quite the contrary, actually. From the way they reported it, most of the quotes they were using were not only explicitly said by the report NOT to refer to any one student by name but, in fact, most of the rough stuff, if it can even be considered that, sounds like it came from one rant on an active blog with many posts. And oh, by the way, what you're so upset with is not stuff she said to kids but on a blog done on her free time that none of them were even aware of for years. Looks like this is punishment for thought crime to me.

    So who's kneejerking? I'd say that's YOU, cobber.

    Oh, and by the way, look at the quotes they give. Most of them are things like "rude" that apply to most high school kids at least half the week. What kind of teachers did you have that you think they shouldn't admit even basic truths like those?

  95. Terrible by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    You're all terrible. Because if you work a certain you're somehow exempt from freedom of speech. Whatever the teacher says in her spare time is her own damn business. And if she wants to express her frustration with her students then she has the right to do it

    Or should we also fire teachers that go out and get drunk during their weekends off because they're being bad role models. Also, we should monitor them 24/7 with cameras and bugs to make sure they're living up to that good role model status.

    It's a bunch of parents getting in a fuss because some teacher called their students dim witted and lazy. Which, if you've noticed the parent can't possibly accept that their child is dim witted or lazy, even if they are. Also, little bobby would never get drunk or have sex, he would just never do such a thing. Parents are most often the worst judge of character of their children. Quit heckling this teacher for saying what she thinks. At least she has the balls to step forward and speak the probable truth.

  96. in context ... by farble1670 · · Score: 1

    i just read through the entire blog, including comments. here's the cache link,
    http://webcache.googleusercontent.com/search?q=cache:sOtUI146FXAJ:natalieshandbasket.blogspot.com/2010/01/if-you-dont-have-anything-nice-to-say.html%3FshowComment%3D1297206567911+natalieshandbasket.blogspot.com+rat+dim&cd=1&hl=en&ct=clnk&gl=us&source=www.google.com

    for those that don't have time to read it and take the quotes in context, here's the jist of it. she's complaining about the process of writing comments on report cards. she says it takes too long, and talks about how she was to sugar-coat her thoughts. for example, "socially awkward" ==> "works well independently". she then takes this idea to an extreme and creates a bullet list of what she'd really like to say ... which is where the "dim-witted" and "rat-like" quotes are coming from (and it there are lots of other good ones in her blog). i think maybe she was trying to get her point across with humor, i'm not sure.

    if we took 100 high schoolers are evaluated them, i am sure most of us would judge a large percentage of them awkward, or self-centered, lazy, air-headed, etc. that's just how high-schoolers come across. it's an awkward time in a human's life. if i met myself at 16, i am sure i'd think i was a jerk (and the 16 yo me would think the current me if a jerk also, probably). sure there are the exceptional high schoolers that managed to grow up early and are already well on their way to well adjusted adults, but that is not the norm.

    which is this teacher's mistake. you can't expect high school kids to have it figured out, and if you can't handle that, then don't get involved with them.

    about 1/2 of the comments were from current or former students. it was quite sad. there was one person who thought (knew) that some of the blog text was referring to her specifically. a lot of students were just hurt to find out that their instructor has these thoughts running through her head about them. she didn't mention names in ber blog thank god, but then again, that leaves every student wondering if they are the "dim-witted" one. say what you want about the value of honesty, but respect earns respect. she just lost any ability to teach any student that is aware of that blog.

  97. Re:Not a YRO by celtic_hackr · · Score: 1

    The BEST teacher I ever had never insulted anyone in class or public, that I know of. My FAVORITE, and one of the best, teachers I had routinely insulted the kids in his class. He was generally hated and feared by most students. But even the worst student in the school got better grades in his class than in years before or after. He was a great teacher, but routinely hit students with flying chalk or erasers if they weren't paying attention (impressive for a one-armed man). Today he'd be canned in a heartbeat. To the loss of the students. His aim and timing were finely honed. I'll never forget the chalk smoke flying off the back of George's head when caught talking in class, yet again.

  98. Not a government. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    So in other words much like for Egypt, teachers need means to avoid censorship and punishment from the "government" at large.

  99. Bad teacher by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    “It’s hard to know that you sat in her class for an hour and a half a day and for her to feel that way it is like, it is an awful feeling,” student Alli Woloshyn said.

    It's hard to know what this student is trying to say. Ms Munroe clearly failed as an English teacher.

  100. Re:So did she name names or did the truth just hur by julesh · · Score: 1

    Name names? No. But, if you read the post via one of the cache links posted here, you'll see that what she did was effectively say "if I wrote this particular thing on your report card, it means I couldn't think of anything nice to say about you," so each student will know whether or not any of the comments should apply to them... they can then pick and choose which one of the insults is most relevant.

  101. Isn't it great by Evtim · · Score: 1

    how the Net opened our eyes to who we are? I mean, we are all afraid of surveillance and data mining by great powers - corporations and governments. But the greatest abuse IMO is done by common people on other common people.

    Think about it - nowadays you go to an interview for a job. It usually starts with the HR department. They check your online activities and find something that makes you unsuitable in their opinion. But wait, who is deciding you are unsuitable? A common employee from the HR. Sometimes there are company guidelines but often there aren't any. The spread of information gives EVERYONE the possibility to evaluate everyone else and all of a sudden not only your professional credentials are under scrutiny but also the rest of your character. The availability of this personal information makes the process EVER MORE SUBJECTIVE. We are people - we are "trained" by evolution and society to judge. Constantly. And we are always biased.

    What I want to say but cannot find the right expressions is that perhaps the sharing of so much personal information is not good. For all of us. We cannot handle it. Just like personal freedom in society is difficult to handle, because it comes with responsibility, this access to personal information also demands that we are not blinded by our own bias (or keep it to a minimum at least). That's a very tall order for most humans. Very tall...

  102. Re:She's probably right about being dimwits, but.. by BitZtream · · Score: 1

    Whats sad is that the teacher wasn't bright enough to realize this themselves.

    WTF is it going to take to get people to realize that posting private thoughts online is an incredible retarded thing to do?

    Personally, I think anyone who uses Facebook shouldn't be allowed to teach in general. There should be a certain required level of intelligence to be a teacher and I'm pretty sure that using Facebook and Twitter are big red flags that you don't meet that level of intelligence.

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  103. Maybe... by slackbheep · · Score: 1

    IMO the parents should be more worried about their frightfully dim, ratlike, and hateful children. That said the teacher was saying these things on her public blog under her own name, she deserves what she's getting for being frightfully dim herself.

  104. From a former teacher by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    There is a fine line and a large difference between calling a student out for something they need to called on and being mean. The difference is love and the kids know it when they see it. As a teacher you develop a lot of sayings that come in handy. Here's one of my favs: "An easy teacher is loved by students while they are in their class. A hard teacher is loved after they leave." She, unfortunately, was neither.

  105. Pretty sad, but world we live in... by hesaigo999ca · · Score: 1

    I am saddened for that little girl, she will be stunted from having growth, all because one teacher could not spend the time to find the key to
    breaking through to the girl in a mature and teaching manner. No let's just keep talking sh*t all the time in people's backs, yeah that's it,
    this definitely shows the kid, that 1) you can't trust anyone, not even your supposed teachers, 2) no matter how good you do, there will always be some out there that do not try to help you, they only try to undermine you, 3) that this is the world we live in....

    I hope the girl can find a good tutor for awhile until they change her schools.

  106. Right. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Because nobody here goes on and on about how stupid their clients/coworkers are. If this had been a sysadm getting fired for posting about his users' willful ignorance in regard to basic computing tasks I'm sure your reaction would be the same.

  107. Re:She's probably right about being dimwits, but.. by JustAnotherIdiot · · Score: 1

    Having a twitter or facebook doesn't indicate a level of intelligence. Are you saying companies like zynga are idiots? As they are probably rolling in more money than they know what to do with. I know an indie musician who has both a twitter and a facebook, and he's gained quite a few fans (and it turn quite a bit of cash) through both services. The fact is these services are just tools, in the hands of a good mind they can do wonders. In the hands of the masses, it's just another shiny object to poke at.

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  108. No one considers? by WillyWanker · · Score: 1

    I guess no one has considered the possibility that these kids really are lazy, despicable, and sociopathic, and not the little angels their parents think? Oh golly, now there's a newsflash. So this lady decides not to sugar coat how horrible kids have become and gets suspended for it. Bravo to the parents and school board who think it's best to just keep sweeping the problem under the rug, or worse, refusing to admit there is one.

    You really have to be a masochist to want to be a school teacher these days. Does the entire system need to implode before anyone starts to realize how fucked up it is and tries to do something about it?

  109. Teachers..hoo boy. by hardware1949 · · Score: 0

    I know that not every teacher is intelligent or ambitious. My next door neighbor is a teacher and I wish she would return to college and earn an advanced degree. That way she might learn how to use a lawnmower, a garden hose, a rake, and a snow shovel.

  110. Wow by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Really she seems to hate all the kids. You hate on a kid who is shy? One that "gasp" ask questions while you just won't to get out of class, I won't even remember her name next semester if I see her in the hall? O so you even hate the kids is not doing any of the other problems you hate? Hate the weird kid? Hate the kid who is just not super smart (hey you will be glad for him when you need some plumbing, AC, Electrical, or labor done). I guess it is a good thing she did not have a Down syndrome kid in her class because she would have called him a retard probably. I hope this woman never is allowed to teach anywhere because she is just not a good person. The fact that she blogged about it online just shows how stupid she is as well. As a father of 3 girls from 23 to 12 I have to say that some of these types of kids might be mine. They all have different personalities like very shy and easy going, driven and obsessive, outspoken and energetic. All good kids for the most part but you can't expect a class full of kids to all have the same personality. I hope this woman has no children ever.

  111. slashdot double standard by milkmage · · Score: 1

    a lot of these comments side with the school district.

    but a lot of the comments here (where someone WON a lawsuit against their employer because of dispariging comments about the boss) side with the employee
    http://yro.slashdot.org/story/11/02/09/0233227/Feds-Settle-Case-of-Woman-Fired-Over-Facebook-Posts#comments

    i do not see the difference. the teacher, and the person in the other artcile are making comments about their lives on their own time.

  112. I was one of her students by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Sorry for posting anonymously (can't log in here at work), but I was one of her students. Graduated class of 08 from CB east.
    Munroe was a bitch, but honestly... i can't help but agree with most of the things she wrote in the blog. The vast majority of students in that school are shallow, unintelligent, spoiled little shit heads.

  113. Re:So did she name names or did the truth just hur by Francofille · · Score: 1

    People have just never understood satire very well. It's too sophisticated and you get more attention if you get pissed and shout louder than the next guy.

    This poor teacher could have posted that they should serve Irish babies for lunch in the cafeteria and the parents would've been just as UP IN ARMS and clamoring for her head.

  114. I love this woman! by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    I saw an interview with her on FOX tonight and Judge Jeanine Pirro was raking her over the coals. She's a sarcastic comedy-style writer and I think most people are not getting that. I love her style because it is MY style. I didn't read this and actually think "Oh, she hates every kid in her class." I thought-here is a teacher who deals with this entitled generation everyday and she makes a joke of it to keep her sanity.

    I have a 14 year old in H.S. and most of the people he attends with and many of his friends make me want to say the same things and I have occasionally in various blogs in my lifetime. The fact is-if anyone is to blame, for how this teacher feels, it is the parents! I raise my kids to be independent and kind and be empathetic and respectful and even things like modesty, putting others first, making a good impression, respecting his elders, not using profanity, not making fun of people, etc but he goes to school with a bunch of animals and then he doesn't understand why we have rules and they don't.

    I home school my 5 year old. Why? because I have seen what kind of kids attend my older son's public H.S. and frankly,. I don't want my younger son around it. My older son was too old to yank out of school and I gave him a choice and he wanted to stay in Public school.

    This teacher is right about many of your kids. They dress like streetwalkers, backtalk, are mean, rude, entitled, are use to being treated like the princesses they definitely are NOT, they lack empathy, judgment, character, and discipline and when a teacher dares to write a funny blog laughing at it all in order to keep her sanity, overly-sensitive parents cry about it and get her fired. Shame on them. WHat these kids need is for the schools to bring back capital punishment where you got a paddling for these types of behaviors. Instead, we fire a teacher for daring to even TALK about it in a blog that only 7 of her closest friends were subscribed to and her full name was not attached to it. (at least from the interview, she said)

  115. It starts at Home!!! by prepharm · · Score: 1

    I don't blame her for talking bout these damn fools these so call parents are raising because when I do start teaching I dare one of my student to act crazy cause I going to check them and there parents...hell no one want to wake up every morning to go teach some disrespectful immature kids I Blane the parents if u raise our kids right at home you would not have to worry about any body blogging about these animals now who going to check me.... JaCoby

  116. Dear Alli by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Dear Alli the offended student,
    Perhaps you should take your teacher's feelings as a cue to modify your own behavior and/or performance so that she might no longer feel as she does. It's really better you confront reality now, in school, before you have to go out into the world and have to deal with the opinions of those who will have influence and/or control over your career. In other words, time to grow up!
    How would you feel having to deal with class after class of ill-mannered dimwit students all day long week in week out month after month? You'd have to let it all out somehow, that's how!
    Your feelings matter little.