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Microsoft Pushes For Gay Marriage In Washington State

New submitter plsenjy writes "An article in the Atlantic outlines how Microsoft Corp. has submitted its support for a Washington State provision allowing gay couples to marry. Citing the company's inability to compete for top talent in the face of discrimination, Microsoft joins other firms such as Nike and Vulcan to effectively change moral policy from the top-down."

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  1. Glad to see Microsoft taking this position by GreatTech · · Score: 2, Interesting

    I am glad to see Microsoft taking this position.

    Why?

    Because it is ridiculous when people try to control how others feel and who they love, especially when it really doesn't concern them. What we have now is people that are threatened by the idea of someone, oh my god, loving another person!

    I have had my fair share of gayness. While I personally like women, some guys are really hot. I'm not afraid to say that, and it's nice to kissy kiss other good looking mens while out. I have also had relationships with transwomen and ladyboys, and let me tell you this - when it comes to sex, nothing beats ladyboys! They look smokingly hot but since they have been males previously, they also know all the tricks. It's been the best sex I've ever had, and I'm happy to get another round in bed with a good ladyboy. And I'm not even kidding - try it. It's good to enjoy life before you die.


    I also have a friend who is gay, but due to his country actually having laws that ban men-to-men love, suffers from it. Awesome guy, and really friendly.

    Of course, US is a country of religious nut jobs, with all the "in god we believe" bullshit. It's accepted to show brutal violence on TV while natural things like sex is forbidden! And god forbid if there happens to be a nipple...

    1. Re:Glad to see Microsoft taking this position by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 4, Insightful

      It's accepted to show brutal violence on TV while natural things like sex is forbidden!

      What is unnatural about brutal violence? (damn nature, you scary)

    2. Re:Glad to see Microsoft taking this position by GreatTech · · Score: 1

      It's accepted to show brutal violence on TV while natural things like sex is forbidden!

      What is unnatural about brutal violence? (damn nature, you scary)

      I guess it's natural, but it's not right. Why can't people just stop hating each other and live in peace?

    3. Re:Glad to see Microsoft taking this position by epyT-R · · Score: 4, Insightful

      ..for the same reasons some people like the opposite sex while others like the same sex? it's part of human nature. repress it and you only get more of it cropping up elsewhere, usually in unhealthy quantities.

    4. Re:Glad to see Microsoft taking this position by hedwards · · Score: 4, Informative

      It's not at all surprising that they're taking that positions. Same sex rights is one of the few areas in which corporate America has been by and large ahead of the curve. I'd wager that if you took a survey at MS and similar corporations that support would be pretty high.

      Plus IIRC they've been on that side on the last few times this has popped up for vote.

    5. Re:Glad to see Microsoft taking this position by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      By what standard do you judge nature to be wrong?

    6. Re:Glad to see Microsoft taking this position by donaggie03 · · Score: 1

      I infer from your comment that you believe we should not try to repress brutal violence because it would just crop up elsewhere, in unhealthy quantities. Teh question is: Is that actually what you meant to imply?

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    7. Re:Glad to see Microsoft taking this position by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      It really says something bad about Slashdot that Parent was modded Troll.

    8. Re:Glad to see Microsoft taking this position by PoolOfThought · · Score: 0, Troll

      Interestingly, when they agree with your point of view they are ahead of the curve, but most of the time they are lagging and have absolutely no moral compass to speak of... I wonder if the fact that they are "ahead of the curve" in pushing for this might actually be a clue that the idea is NOT in our best interest rather than something to be happy about.

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    9. Re:Glad to see Microsoft taking this position by hedwards · · Score: 1

      There's been a lot of that going around lately. Personally I would have given the GP a +1 for the Men on Film reference there.

    10. Re:Glad to see Microsoft taking this position by datavirtue · · Score: 3, Insightful

      Equally as ridiculous: the state involved in the love affairs and relationships of anyone.

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    11. Re:Glad to see Microsoft taking this position by boundary · · Score: 1

      Yes, Corporate America just wants to treat everyone like crap, on a level playing field, regardless of race, gender, sexuality....

    12. Re:Glad to see Microsoft taking this position by stanlyb · · Score: 2, Interesting

      Why stop here? What about poly-marriage? I mean many men/women with many men/women? WHY NOT????

    13. Re:Glad to see Microsoft taking this position by GodInHell · · Score: 1, Insightful

      Yes, Corporate America just wants to treat everyone like crap, on a level playing field, regardless of race, gender . . .

      Woah now, slow your roll man. Do you know how much we SAVE every year paying women only .71-.76 cents for every dollar a man makes.

      -GiH

    14. Re:Glad to see Microsoft taking this position by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 3, Funny

      Just the other day I was thinking that New Gingrich could be the first candidate to get the endorsements of polyamarous and religious right. Strange bedfellows indeed!

      Followed by the fact that the Mormon is the one with only one wife. I find that highly amusing.

      We've got a guy who can hardly talk, a guy who has multiple wifes, a guy who wants to turn the country upside down; but we can't vote for the Romney guy becasue... Mormons are weird? I've been around these guys, they ain't weird. They aren't even intersting.

    15. Re:Glad to see Microsoft taking this position by morari · · Score: 1

      [...] when it comes to sex, nothing beats ladyboys!

      Quoted for truth. :)

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    16. Re:Glad to see Microsoft taking this position by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Actually, I think Insightful + Troll is a valid mod for this one. This is almost definitely the same person who has been posting annoying and bizarre crap on almost every /. story in the last week (it's another new account with a slightly altered name). At least this time the post was amusing...

    17. Re:Glad to see Microsoft taking this position by hedwards · · Score: 1

      Not really, somethings are going to be in the best interest of both sides. The times when it pisses me off the most is with things like DRM where they're screwing over everybody involved for an illusory extra few bucks.

    18. Re:Glad to see Microsoft taking this position by JoshuaZ · · Score: 1

      This sort of reasoning is a common cognitive error. People assume that if someone else is stupid then doing the exact opposite must be smart. Or that if someone else frequently behaves immorally then doing the opposite must be moral. But this isn't accurate. Homeopathy is stupid, but avoiding consumption of water as the reversed form is really dumb. Similarly, if some serial killer tortured to death a dozen people, and they also volunteered an animal shelter for abandoned puppies, that doesn't make kicking puppies to death a good idea.

    19. Re:Glad to see Microsoft taking this position by similar_name · · Score: 5, Insightful

      Equally as ridiculous: the state involved in the love affairs and relationships of anyone.

      I think this is it. The state shouldn't recognize gay marriage because it shouldn't recognize straight marriage. It should recognize civil unions gay or straight and then let whatever religion you are decide to call it marriage.

    20. Re:Glad to see Microsoft taking this position by Sponge+Bath · · Score: 1

      If you believe the state should be mixed with religion (USA founded as a Christian nation and other myths), it probably makes sense to you to have government involved in deeply personal matters like this.

    21. Re:Glad to see Microsoft taking this position by jpw72 · · Score: 1

      Yeah why not indeed... why should the state or your neighbors be allowed to dictate how you live as long as you don't hurt anyone? Citing works (of fiction) several millennia old to me isn't really a valid point. As long as everyone's happy what's the problem?

    22. Re:Glad to see Microsoft taking this position by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0, Insightful

      probably because these companies have a disproportionate number of rational, reasonable, pragmatic, and educated people...in comparison to the unwashed masses.

    23. Re:Glad to see Microsoft taking this position by msobkow · · Score: 1

      Very well said. I tend to think of it not as "gay" rights, though, but as fundamental HUMAN rights.

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    24. Re:Glad to see Microsoft taking this position by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Yes please, stop repressing it, I'm getting tired of getting my ass handed to me in TF2. Let everyone else take their aggression out on their dogs so I can pwn them!

    25. Re:Glad to see Microsoft taking this position by Qzukk · · Score: 1

      Do you know how much we SAVE every year paying women only .71-.76 cents for every dollar a man makes

      Except now we're getting equality again because the companies are saving by paying men only .71-.76 what they used to.

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    26. Re:Glad to see Microsoft taking this position by Belial6 · · Score: 3, Insightful

      Given that I can live with multiple women, have sex with them, have children with them, and in all ways other than legal, I can be married to them. Yes, why not poly-marriage?

      The real problem is that we have a secular property partnership that has been mixed and confused with a religious ceremony. It has been suggested that gay couples should be offered an marriage equivalent. A 'civil union'. That is half the correct answer that would be all wrong if implemented alone. The real answer is to just declare ALL existing marriages to be civil unions, and remove any legal standing to "marriage". Let people make the fiduciary responsibilities of 'civil union' to whoever they want, and let the churches worry about what a 'marriage is. Each denomination can decide for themselves what a marriage is. Anyone outside of the group has no more need or requirement to acknowledge the marriage than they do a declaration of BFFs.

    27. Re:Glad to see Microsoft taking this position by jmorris42 · · Score: 0

      > Do you know how much we SAVE every year paying women only .71-.76 cents for every dollar a man makes.

      Please. That stat is so busted. Women aren't the same as men, in case you are so gay you don't even take any notice of em. Besides the form factor differences, they often have different goals in life. But of the ones who do behave exactly like men in the workplace they actually tend to make MORE money, not less. By exactly like men I mean, never take maternity leave, drop out of the workforce (or go parttime) while raising small children, willing to work almost unlimited overtime, can schmooze after work, no restrictions on travel and relocation, have the same education, etc.

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    28. Re:Glad to see Microsoft taking this position by hairyfish · · Score: 4, Insightful

      Pedophilia is natural too, the difference is not whether something is natural or not but whether there is a victim. Laws are meant to protect, who is being protected by preventing marriage between any two consenting adults?

    29. Re:Glad to see Microsoft taking this position by stinerman · · Score: 4, Insightful

      That is exactly what they do, however instead of calling it a civil union they call it marriage. It's incredibly confusing for most people. Doubly so when the people who do the "state" marriage is performed at the same time as the "religion" marriage.

      I agree though. If you want "tax/property benefits" you get "civil unioned". If you want God to sanction you, you get "married".

    30. Re:Glad to see Microsoft taking this position by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Just the other day I was thinking that New Gingrich could be the first candidate to get the endorsements of polyamarous . . .

      Um, no. Cheating on your wife, then demanding she accept that is so far from being acceptable to the polyamarous it's not even a good joke.

    31. Re:Glad to see Microsoft taking this position by KiloByte · · Score: 3, Interesting

      Homosexuality is fashionable currently, polygamy is not. Microsoft doesn't care about rights, it cares about PR.

      I see only two valid thresholds:
      * 1 man 1 woman (rationale: the only 1-on-1 configuration capable of having children)
      * any cohabiting group (rationale: the only non-discriminating one)

      On one hand: what's the reason two guys want to be recognized as a "marriage"? Not children, as they can't have them, and they're just as capable of raising a kid one of them had with a third party as mere friends as a couple -- it can never be "their" kid, at most of one of them. The uncomfortable truth is that they're after lowered taxes and certain other benefits meant to encourage having kids. A solo person deserves such benefits more than them.

      But, on the other hand, what about heterosexual marriages that don't want to have children? Should they be denied such benefits? And what about 80 years old newlyweds? Here the first variant falls apart.

      Thus, I'd say that there is no other way than to allow any group. Promoting homosexualism is picking them over polygamy (which actually has biological reasons), Yet we can't have it the mormon/muslim way (1 man, 4 women) -- gender equality forces us to allow 4 women 1 man as well. But then, why not 2 men 2 women?

      Thus, let's go for the complement: a whole household or nothing. This would allow simplifying all child/adoption/marriage/etc rules: anyone can join, if you were underage when joining you are not allowed to ever have relations with someone who was a part of the group (no matter if you were born into or adopted); only adults can ever leave (except as a court order in cases of abuse or neglect). No restrictions on gender, number or anything whatsoever.

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    32. Re:Glad to see Microsoft taking this position by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      This is almost certainly the same guy who's previously posted as CmdrPony, TechGuys, DCTech, and a host of other names. Each name has a 2.5 million+ UID, posts several hundred-word count comments the same minute the story goes live, and says kind things about Microsoft and unfavorable things about Google. It seems awfully shill-y.

      But I'd mod this one up if I had points.

    33. Re:Glad to see Microsoft taking this position by TheRealMindChild · · Score: 4, Interesting

      I'm sure I will open a philosophical can of whoop-ass on myself, but here goes... How did we, humans, end up dominating the earth over other creatures? Some argue our thumbs, our ability to reason, communication, and a whole mess of other things that other animals have. Simple fact of the matter is, a human being will cut up your mother, eat her intestines, while you sit, tied up, being forced to watch, just because THEY CAN. Even your raged-filled chimpanzee doesn't get that personal. And it isn't just us over the animal kingdom, it's humans over humans. When two sides of a war have a technical equality, the one willing to perform the most egregious atrocities will be the one to prevail.

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    34. Re:Glad to see Microsoft taking this position by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I don't have the time to google it at work, but I recently read (as in, a few months ago) an article about mormon poly marriage, and how the article said it was tested and shown that women in that type of marriage are more emotionally scarred than a regular marriage.

      So I imagine if it's going to be banned for anything, it will be the fact that it's (according to said article) harmful to the people in the marriage (except of course the ruling man. He apparently loved the arrangement, no surprise),

    35. Re:Glad to see Microsoft taking this position by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I could tell you, but then I'd have to kill you.

    36. Re:Glad to see Microsoft taking this position by fyngyrz · · Score: 0

      As long as everyone's happy what's the problem?

      Well, see, everybody isn't happy. The homophobics, and many of the superstitious (often the same folks) aren't happy at all when confronted with anything outside their comfort zone.

      You can be happy, see, but only if you do it their way. Otherwise, you're a bad person. Get it now?

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    37. Re:Glad to see Microsoft taking this position by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Except it's not. Civil unions are not recognized Federally, and DOMA says that states don't have to recognize other states' unions, either.

      Also, marriage by that definition should have nothing to do with "God", either. If you want to get married in a Buddhist temple, the Church of Satan, or the freaking Order of the Jedi Knights, the government should just keep their nose out of it...

    38. Re:Glad to see Microsoft taking this position by chrb · · Score: 1

      Exactly. If someone wants to, say, marry the Berlin Wall then do you really want your tax money used to try and stop her? Why do you care? As long as the relationship isn't abusive and nobody is being harmed, then why would you ever care that someone may choose to marry their pillow? Or a dog? Or even the man who married himself? Or a videogame character? Why do people care? Haven't governments got more important things to spend their tax payers money on, instead of wasting time and money regulating what is basically a social contract?

    39. Re:Glad to see Microsoft taking this position by iceaxe · · Score: 1

      Who is this "we" doing all this saving?

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    40. Re:Glad to see Microsoft taking this position by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Followed by the fact that the Mormon is the one with only one wife. I find that highly amusing.

      Why? Mormons have not practised polygyny for well over 100 years.

    41. Re:Glad to see Microsoft taking this position by epyT-R · · Score: 0

      historically, the methods used to do that involve plugging the steam release valves (such as personal liberty) until the already inflamed situation explodes, then blaming the people inside the jerry rigged pressure cooker for the explosion. of course, this produces a much more violent result than what would've occurred had the relevant authority been honorable, but it builds a nice boogeyman for that authority to justify 'crackdowns' which usually do little more than make people angrier. at the big picture level, I'm more a fan of preempting the situations that are factors in violence (eg rights abrogation/systemic political failure) and letting individuals sort out their own disagreements in their own way after that. it doesn't completely prevent violence, but again, some violence is inevitable. simply repressing this in a childlike attempt to build a utopia builds that pressure cooker.

      in the case of this article and post, tv violence acts as an example of such a release valve. today's life is quite top heavy with all kinds of artificial weights placed on us by bureaucracies that routinely miss the points of the rules they enforce, objective reality, and the way humans tend to interpret it, causing insane difficulties in discourse, and, more recently, even simply earning one's keep. as a result, such releases are necessary more now than ever. ideally the long term goal is to fix this growing problem, but alas, the only 'solutions' coming from politicians are the same old plugs mentioned above.

    42. Re:Glad to see Microsoft taking this position by 0100010001010011 · · Score: 5, Interesting

      I am glad to see Microsoft taking this position

      Gates has also done the same thing in Saudi Arabia.

      Bill Gates recalls once being invited to speak in Saudi Arabia and finding himself facing a segregated audience. Four-fifths of the listeners were men, on the left. The remaining one-fifth were women, all covered in black cloaks and veils, on the right. A partition separated the two groups. Toward the end, in the question-and-answer session, a member of the audience noted that Saudi Arabia aimed to be one of the Top 10 countries in the world in technology by 2010 and asked if that was realistic. “Well, if you’re not fully utilizing half the talent in the country,” Gates said, “you’re not going to get too close to the Top 10.” The small group on the right erupted in wild cheering.

    43. Re:Glad to see Microsoft taking this position by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I know you're joking, so don't take this as a smackdown on your statement, but this is increasingly not true, particularly on the coasts. In New York City women actually earn on average about 2-3 cents per dollar more than men. However, the employment rate is still much lower for women.

    44. Re:Glad to see Microsoft taking this position by jackbird · · Score: 5, Insightful

      On one hand: what's the reason two guys want to be recognized as a "marriage"? Not children, as they can't have them, and they're just as capable of raising a kid one of them had with a third party as mere friends as a couple -- it can never be "their" kid, at most of one of them. The uncomfortable truth is that they're after lowered taxes and certain other benefits meant to encourage having kids. A solo person deserves such benefits more than them.

      How about:

      Being able to visit/make medical decisions for your spouse if they are hospitalized or incapacitated.
      Being able to adopt a child together in a way that gives both parents legal parental rights in relation to their child (everything from school permission slips to keeping the child if the spouse dies)
      Being considered a spouse in legal proceedings (spousal 5th amendment immunity, inheritance laws, etc.)
      Being able to marry a foreigner without fear they will be deported

      And since when is an adopted child not the parents' kid? That's not only reprehensible, it's missing the whole point of encouraging marriages as child-rearing units. It's established that gay couples adopt kids with disabilities at a higher rate than straight couples, for example.

      Furthermore, we don't question the 80-year old newlyweds, and merely shake our heads and sigh (as opposed to foaming at the mouth about 'threats to traditional values') at celebrity marriages measurable in hours.

      We also have huge amounts of legal and social framework set up to accommodate 2-adult family units; enabling the gender bits to be flipped any which way doesn't actually change any of how things work. Opening up the system to accomodate polygamy would open huge cans of worms (an organized crime ring could all get married to each other, and be fully protected from someone turning states' evidence, for example).

    45. Re:Glad to see Microsoft taking this position by jpw72 · · Score: 1

      Don't really get it, but I guess when you've seen the light it's kind of hard to imagine life in darkness again ;)

    46. Re:Glad to see Microsoft taking this position by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Because polygamy is always about power and abuse, never about love.

      Provide concrete proof of this, or admit that you are lying. Those are your only possible choices.

      And note that an anecdote about some cultist is not proof.

    47. Re:Glad to see Microsoft taking this position by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      If they support this, then they should also support polygamy, unless this is only for PR...

    48. Re:Glad to see Microsoft taking this position by PoolOfThought · · Score: 1

      I wouldn't argue with anything you said there except that you make the common cognitive error of believing that just because person 'A' thinks a certain way in all cases (making it a truly cognitive error) that a person 'B' who thinks that way in a single case must also be making the same cognitive error. Taking certain items into consideration when evaluating something is just that. Consideration... not error.

      Microsoft is only "ahead of the curve" because of who is defining the right / wrong answers on which MS is being graded. In this case progay people are sure about the "right" answers. But just because that person was defining the right / wrong answers doesn't mean that they were right when they defined them. The rightness of the answers to the questions we're talking about here are opinions, that is, until they become fact. And hindsight is probably the only way to judge some of the correctness. Of course, you could allow principles to guide you... a quaint concept, I know, but then you might miss an opportunity to be "ahead of the curve".

      Keep in mind that just recently with SOPA there were plenty of corporations and politicians who felt that it would be a great idea to support this legislation. After all, it must be good to keep American IP valuable. But what we found was that they didn't "believe" that at all. They weren't ahead of any curve. They believed they could get away with it and that it would help them in certain ways. Soon though they found out that they were the wrong guy in the wrong place at the wrong time. Ask Godaddy. When it came down to it and push came to shove they decided to believe the exact opposite and not only pulled their support but they supported the opposing side instead. It would have been better for SOPA itself if Godaddy would have simply stayed out of it altogether. The big christmas boycott caused the news to be all about the pressure Godaddy was under and them having to defend their position and finally eventually changing stances altogether. GoDaddy was ahead of the curve for all of those in favor of SOPA as noone else in their business was of the same mind. But Godaddy was not the teammate you wanted when it came down to it if you were on the side of the ones who called them "ahead of the curve" at the beginning. GoDaddy might be partially to blame for killing SOPA all because they were forced to abandon it. And Microsoft might find that by getting involved they raise awareness and rile both the vocal minority and vocal majority to a point that the vocal minority wishes they had just stayed out of it in the first place and Microsoft wishes they'd stayed out of it as they lose support going forward. Stranger things have happened and happen more often when you have no moral compass.

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    49. Re:Glad to see Microsoft taking this position by msobkow · · Score: 2

      Some day we will have artificial sentient beings among us. And should they be capable of feeling, thinking, and motivating themselves as human beings are (which is the DEFINITION of an artificial sentience), I WILL support the rights of humans and AS or AS and AS to marry.

      The key will be algorithms that implement emotional feedback that affects the very thoughts and actions of the AS, not the mere capability to mimic emotions by performing a "human" response to something that "should" trigger an emotional response. It's going to be a fine line for people to realize when it's been crossed, because synthetic responses will seem very human long before we can implement emotional feedback.

      You think "gay marriage rights" upset the religious?

      Wait until aliens or artificial sentients walk amongst us and shake the definition of "Human" to the foundations.

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    50. Re:Glad to see Microsoft taking this position by UnknownSoldier · · Score: 1
    51. Re:Glad to see Microsoft taking this position by Dragon+Bait · · Score: 1

      It's accepted to show brutal violence on TV while natural things like sex is forbidden!

      What is unnatural about brutal violence? (damn nature, you scary)

      I guess it's natural, but it's not right. Why can't people just stop hating each other and live in peace?

      Charles Darwin had something to say about this. Ethnic cleansing is evil, but if you're trying to displace the indigenous population as yours moves in, it is also effective. In order to make civilization (read "peace") work you have to make the alternative too expensive to contemplate.

    52. Re:Glad to see Microsoft taking this position by smelch · · Score: 3, Interesting

      Who is being protected by allowing two people to get a better tax return for being married?

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    53. Re:Glad to see Microsoft taking this position by Dragon+Bait · · Score: 1

      How did we, humans, end up dominating the earth over other creatures?

      Bad time to be out of mod-points. Completely agree with you. Even recent events shows that from an evolutionary perspective, violence works -- especially if one is willing to take it to the level of ethnic cleansing.

      Note: Just because it "works" doesn't make it "right" and certainly doesn't make it "civilized".

    54. Re:Glad to see Microsoft taking this position by Velex · · Score: 1

      Exactly. I assume the nominal fee covers the cost involved in filing the paperwork. You also know damned well you're making an absurd argument. Next you might as well argue that a woman shouldn't be allowed to marry a man with a small penis like you because that's dangerously close to marrying a woman with an enlarged clitoris.

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    55. Re:Glad to see Microsoft taking this position by misexistentialist · · Score: 0

      Just means homosexuality helps their profits. If you can't find neutered office drones, gays might be the next best thing.

    56. Re:Glad to see Microsoft taking this position by boundary · · Score: 1

      Pics or it didn't happen.

    57. Re:Glad to see Microsoft taking this position by newcastlejon · · Score: 1

      I prefer this one.

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    58. Re:Glad to see Microsoft taking this position by icebraining · · Score: 1

      Here we call them 'religious marriages' and 'civil marriages'. Usually the first entails the second (at least if done by the Catholic Church) but the inverse isn't true.

    59. Re:Glad to see Microsoft taking this position by misexistentialist · · Score: 1

      And most guys are emotionally scarred by monogamous marriage

    60. Re:Glad to see Microsoft taking this position by icebraining · · Score: 1

      The people of r/polyamory disagree with you.

    61. Re:Glad to see Microsoft taking this position by Velex · · Score: 1

      Wish I had mod points. Somebody mod parent informative.

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    62. Re:Glad to see Microsoft taking this position by DJRumpy · · Score: 1

      Do you realize you just trashed the old adage "Learn by example"?. If person A eats a poison berry, and person B doesn't, that makes person B smarter for allowing person A to die while learning from his example.

      GoDaddy is another good example of the same thing. They took the leap, and were burned from it. Other companies learned from that example, stated the opposite, and were praised for it.

      In this case, Apple lead on a lot of these initiatives, supporting the "It Gets Better" initiative, as well as opposing Prop 8. They donated 100,000 in an effort to prevent Prop 8. They have obviously suffered no backlash from the consumer for this. Apparently they've also donated millions of dollars to AIDS charities over the years, although that only came to light recently (it wasn't publicly disclosed until after Job's death).

    63. Re:Glad to see Microsoft taking this position by lessthan · · Score: 4, Insightful

      Taxes is a small small part of it. Marriage confers a host of other rights, like automatic next of kin. You get to say what happens to your lover's body, you get to visit them in the hospital when it is "family only," you get to make decisions for them when they are incapable. A big deal for a community that still be thrown out of the hospital by the hate-filled "in-laws."

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    64. Re:Glad to see Microsoft taking this position by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Dude, if I could fuck a robot and have the same experience as fucking a real chick, I wouldn't bother getting married at all. I mean total experience, mind you, not some fleshlight bullshit.

      Once we invent the holodeck we wont even have to masturbate anymore. God I hope they invent that shit in my lifetime. I'm gonna fucking recreate Caligula up in that bitch...

    65. Re:Glad to see Microsoft taking this position by s73v3r · · Score: 2

      Wrong question: Who is being harmed by not allowing two people who love each other get married and enjoy the benefits of being married, just because they have the same genitalia.

    66. Re:Glad to see Microsoft taking this position by LordLimecat · · Score: 2

      Followed by the fact that the Mormon is the one with only one wife. I find that highly amusing.

      Ever since the late 1890s, the official, "revealed" position of the LDS church has been that polygamy is no longer required / sanctioned-- ever since Congress threatened to withhold statehood to Utah if they did not abandon the practice.

    67. Re:Glad to see Microsoft taking this position by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Pics or it didn't happen.

      Women’s Figures: An Illustrated Guide to the Economic Progress of Women in America, by Diana Furchtgott-Roth and Christine Stolba, published by the Independent Women’s Forum and the American Enterprise Institute, Washington, D.C. 2000
      lets let the psudeofeminist voodoo economics 70cents myth die please

    68. Re:Glad to see Microsoft taking this position by s73v3r · · Score: 1

      Nope. I'm pretty sure upholding of civil rights and reaffirming equality for all is something we should be pursuing and is in our best interests.

    69. Re:Glad to see Microsoft taking this position by s73v3r · · Score: 1

      You realize that stat is pretty old and outdated now, right? And that men, not women, are the ones suffering the most from the recession?

    70. Re:Glad to see Microsoft taking this position by s73v3r · · Score: 1

      The state has been involved in the contracts of marriage for just as long, if not longer, as religion has been.

    71. Re:Glad to see Microsoft taking this position by s73v3r · · Score: 1

      Or if you believe that marriage isn't inherently religious to start with.

    72. Re:Glad to see Microsoft taking this position by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      He's saying that State Marriage essentially is "civil union", but by another name.

    73. Re:Glad to see Microsoft taking this position by vertere6 · · Score: 1

      (I'm not disagreeing with the above, just using this as an opportunity to write about something I've thinking about lately.) One of the reasons humans have 'taken over' is because our individual missions can all be different, though the main goal of our lives is survival. For example, some of us become computer scientists to acquire currency which we use to buy food, while others might become doctors to accomplish the same goal. When we are at our best our individual missions sync and we benefit each other. What is even more unique about humans is that we can adapt as many times as we are emotionally capable of during the course of one life time. So not only can we learn a skill, but we can change our skills. It is possible to think of several reasons why 1000s of years ago our primitive, desert-dwelling Christian ancestors banned homosexuality. Luckily the world is different now. As a species we can afford a non traditional family unit for homosexuals, heterosexuals, and everything in between. Christianity is slowly fading as the 'ethos' that syncs our society and therefore our individual missions. Or rather, it was religion+government that gave us a sense of unity, now it is just government.

    74. Re:Glad to see Microsoft taking this position by Runaway1956 · · Score: 1
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    75. Re:Glad to see Microsoft taking this position by s73v3r · · Score: 1

      Polygamy has a whole host of unique problems with it that simple, two people marriage doesn't. Nothing has to change at all, legally, for gay marriage to happen. When it comes to plural marriage, there are a number of things that can be different. Power of Attorney, for one. Divorce and custody of children, for another.

      Not saying these can't be overcome. But there's a lot different between plural marriage and two people marriage, and posing the question like this is just a slippery slope argument.

    76. Re:Glad to see Microsoft taking this position by s73v3r · · Score: 0

      Good god, that post is such stupid bullshit. Using children as the reason to allow straight marriage but deny gay marriage is nothing short of ignorant.

    77. Re:Glad to see Microsoft taking this position by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Oh yes, gay people only want to be married for the tax implications, and not things like hospital visitation rights (which are restricted to legal family members - including married spouses).

    78. Re:Glad to see Microsoft taking this position by boundary · · Score: 1

      No, not photoshopped stuff from right wing think tanks.

    79. Re:Glad to see Microsoft taking this position by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      really friendly.

      I'll bet!

    80. Re:Glad to see Microsoft taking this position by PoolOfThought · · Score: 1

      I'm not sure how what I've said somehow says people and corporations should not "learn by example". If B eats the berry and dies then they'd be an idiot too. But B might consider that the berries had nothing to do with it. Maybe those berries were tainted. Maybe the person was allergic. There's more than one reason a berry can kill. If you know it's poisonous that's one thing, and you'd be an idiot to eat it. If you see someone die after eating one then you'd be stupid to just shove one in your mouth without considering the possibilities. But if you just assume correlation = causation then you'll be making a lot of false connections in your head. Of course, I'm also not sure what Apple donating to AIDS research has to do with gay marriage. I don't equate AIDS with homosexuality - even if you do. Something to do with that whole correlation / causation thing again.

      GoDaddy was "ahead of the curve" to those in favor of SOPA. But we mostly all agree that the wrong curve was being utilized as the measuring stick. And their support of it and the immediate price that they paid (it was a VERY easy and immediate boycott to hold and to quantify) actually drew enough attention to SOPA to cause it to be killed in the end.

      I'm typing this on a Mac right now not because I believe in their political stances, but because they make good products that satisfy my needs at a price I'm willing to pay. I used to hate Apple because they were so overpriced and low value, but then Jobs turned them into a company who focused on making a few good things rather than a ton of crappy ones. Am I going to quit using them with no decent alternative because of their differing political stance on topics I might be interested in? Unlikely. They'd have to push a lot of buttons as they also do somethings right. But when a viable option comes along I will glady migrate to a provider who's politics are more in line with my own (or maybe who just has the good sense to keep their politics to themselves). And I'll let the old provider know exactly why they no longer have my business.

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    81. Re:Glad to see Microsoft taking this position by DigiShaman · · Score: 5, Insightful

      As a Christian, I'm against gay marriage from a religious point of view. However as an American, I believe in the freedom of religion and association. You may even choose to not associate with anything. The problem is that marriage is a religious institution sponsored by our federal government. It's a problem because there are all sorts of legal ties to something religious in nature. The implications are huge. It means that the Federal Goverment can dictate the meaning of religious values and not the other way around. I strongly believe the best option is to abstract this union one level apart. That is to say, everyone can have a civil union which grants all the legal benefits without bias. You can still choose to have a religious merriage ceremony after the fact if you wish. Some may want just to be married withough being legally recognized too. Either way should be fair for everyone.

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    82. Re:Glad to see Microsoft taking this position by KiloByte · · Score: 0

      Guys, can't you @#$%^& read? I did write "tax breaks and other benefits". Obviously minor perks like hospital visitations are included -- and far bigger ones like far better inheritance rules as well.

      I'm not claiming that gays should be denied those -- but giving one alternate sexuality preferential treatment over others is a prime example of discrimination. Gays are not in any way better than other ways that are not in fashion in the US right now -- and no worse.

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    83. Re:Glad to see Microsoft taking this position by donaggie03 · · Score: 2

      Who is being protected by allowing two people to get a better tax return for being married?

      Wrong question: Who is being harmed by not allowing two people who love each other get married and enjoy the benefits of being married, just because they have the same genitalia.

      The answer to both these questions are immediate and obvious. The people being protected are the married gay people who would now get to enjoy the same benefits married straight people receive. Who would be harmed? Well, some of those benefits come in the form of tax deductions and other types of monetary perks. Married people can usually put their spouse on their insurance. I'm sure there are more examples . . .So who is harmed? The American taxpayer, who has to absorb that deduction, or the other members under that insurance plan . .

      No, I think the right question is . . Would the protection given to gay people by allowing them the right to marry outweigh the harm done to those other groups, and if so, by how much?

      I believe the answer to that question is a resounding yes, insomuch that I believe a persons ability to choose their marriage parter is a civil right.

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    84. Re:Glad to see Microsoft taking this position by hedwards · · Score: 1

      The reason why not is that you wind up with the situation where you run out of potential partners or the situation where essentially nobody is married. The latter isn't a problem IMHO, but the former causes real problems. The FLDS had to find reasons for expelling roughly 2/3 of the men so that there would be enough women for them to have the three that was required for their reward. And those young men would be kicked out fairly young with no connections to the outside and basically unable to cope without help.

    85. Re:Glad to see Microsoft taking this position by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      OP will burn in heeeeeeeeeelllll. :(

    86. Re:Glad to see Microsoft taking this position by chrb · · Score: 1
      What is absurd? Why is it necessary for the government to regulate marriage? If we can use contract law to manage arbitrary contractual arrangements (which we can), then why can't a marriage be handled in the same way? Same-sex marriages, polygamous marriages etc. would all be possible under such a system. Why should the government be allowed to tell you who you are allowed to marry? If you really do want to go around saying you're married to a videogame character, then what business is it of the government?

      you might as well argue that a woman shouldn't be allowed to marry a man with a small penis like you

      You are the one who supports the right of the government to enforce such arbitrary rules on marriage. I am the one who thinks that a woman should be free to do whatever she wants as long as it doesn't harm another person. Which one of those is the absurd position? (hint: it's the one where the government gets to define marriage, and therefore has the power to take away your freedom and ban interracial marriage, homosexual marriage etc.)

    87. Re:Glad to see Microsoft taking this position by Larryish · · Score: 0

      inb4 "Steve Ballmer is totally gay."

    88. Re:Glad to see Microsoft taking this position by reve_etrange · · Score: 3, Interesting

      And since when is an adopted child not the parents' kid?

      Indeed. After an adoption is finalized, there is no legal difference between biological and adopted children, except that in some cases parents of an adopted child may be eligible for some specific forms of welfare.

      Fortunately, California forbids social workers from discriminating between potential adoptive parents on the basis of sexual orientation. What I just don't understand is why people view the ability to marry as more important than the ability to adopt. Californians never had an initiative ballot to amend the constitution against gay adoption.

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    89. Re:Glad to see Microsoft taking this position by EEPROMS · · Score: 0

      marriage had nothing to do with religion originally, in fact for common serfs marriage was not even on the cards. Marriage was orignally a property contract between rich and powerful families.

    90. Re:Glad to see Microsoft taking this position by jpw72 · · Score: 1

      Yeah, read something relating to that a while back (http://www.psychologytoday.com/articles/200706/ten-politically-incorrect-truths-about-human-nature?page=2 points 2 & 3 specifically). Still don't think that society should be a part of peoples voluntary sexual preferences or family constructions though, even though the expelled men (getting no sex) might be an issue...

    91. Re:Glad to see Microsoft taking this position by EEPROMS · · Score: 2

      Thew sad part about Saudi arabia is the males all do religious studies and the females all do degrees in medicine and accounting. It so bad now that over 70% of the skilled work force is now female and they earn over 60% of the average families income. The male population in the middle east is living a religious none reality.

    92. Re:Glad to see Microsoft taking this position by Mister+Whirly · · Score: 1

      Marriage is not a federal issue, it is a county issue. You are issued a marriage license from a county, not a federal agency. Marriage is also not necessarily only a religious ceremony, there are religious marriages and also civil justice of the peace type marriages that have no religious basis of any sort. What is the problem with having your choice of which type you want?

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    93. Re:Glad to see Microsoft taking this position by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

      I'm not afraid to say that, and it's nice to kissy kiss other good looking mens while out.

      -1, gay.

      I don't care who you fuck, but I find this sentence abhorrent.

    94. Re:Glad to see Microsoft taking this position by Mithent · · Score: 1

      This is exactly what should happen. Marriage should not be mentioned on statute books at all. The state should not know or care who is involved in the partnership or what religious ceremonies they may choose to have when they enter into it.

      The push for "gay marriage" seems slightly misguided to me - it makes the whole issue more difficult as it ensures that religion stays a factor. It's an needlessly emotive term that is always going to provoke a reaction from certain groups. Let them define "marriage" however they want, just as long as there's equality under the law.

    95. Re:Glad to see Microsoft taking this position by Mithent · · Score: 1

      Yeah. I'm all for polyamorous people being able to have their relationships legally recognised, but it's not as simple as saying "ok, you can marry more than one person". It would require a substantial reworking of many laws, I'm sure.

    96. Re:Glad to see Microsoft taking this position by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      You've answered your own question. It's survival of the fittest. It's not survival of the most moral, caring, or humane. I've always found it strange when the word "evolved" is used to mean progress towards a qualitatively better existence. Evolution may lead in that direction (and we can certainly hope that it does), but it is not an inherent part of the process. Evolution is a simple mechanical process. If you manage to live longer and procreate more, you pass your traits on to the next generation.

    97. Re:Glad to see Microsoft taking this position by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      This is about CIVIL marriage.

      This is not about dictating what you do in your church. Marriage is not a religious institution, it is social institution. It has often been sanctified by a religious ceremony, but it has been around longer than any one religion and has often been based on personal, economic or societal needs more than religious needs.

      From a legal standpoint, marriage encapsulates 1000+ rights and obligations that take affect just by marrying someone and are dissolved by a divorce. There are all kinds of ways that laws and customs are setup to automatically work with marriage. Setting up a separate system of domestic partnership is much more complex and confers a different status on the participants. Separate is never equal in practice.

    98. Re:Glad to see Microsoft taking this position by khipu · · Score: 1

      Of course, US is a country of religious nut jobs, with all the "in god we believe" bullshit

      A number of states in the US support sex unions or marriages:

      http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Gay_marriage

      Europe is a mixed bag as well.

      The situation in Washington State is already at least as good as in the UK, France, and Germany.

    99. Re:Glad to see Microsoft taking this position by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I hate to break it to you, but "marriage" existed long before Christianity existed. In fact, there is no evidence that organized religion pre-dates marriage. So, marriage, like many "institutions" claimed by Christians was co-opted well after the fact.

      You can learn more just by starting here: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Marriage

    100. Re:Glad to see Microsoft taking this position by khipu · · Score: 1

      That is to say, everyone can have a civil union which grants all the legal benefits without bias

      I agree: a distinction between legal unions and marriage is the way to go.

      As a Christian, I'm against gay marriage from a religious point of view.

      Just be aware that there are other _Christians_ who don't share your view and see nothing wrong with gay marriage even from a religious point of view.

    101. Re:Glad to see Microsoft taking this position by Hadlock · · Score: 2

      Those sorts of gross situations are more of an exception, rather than the rule. Yes, humans are capable of gross things, but we're also capable of putting a man on the moon. People, for the overwhelming majority, just want to live peacefully and watch their kids grow up safe and be as successful. This means being generally nice and cooperating with other people for the greater good. You'll note that most conquerors who were wildly successful only dealt with the military - they left cities and farms intact. Wars in most cases are just to determine who gets to sit at the top. If you destroy the family unit everything devolves in to chaos (see also: Africa). If you get away from the tourist traps while traveling you'll find that people are generally very kind and happy to share their lives with strangers. People are generally good. Those in charge however, sometimes are not.

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    102. Re:Glad to see Microsoft taking this position by Mr2cents · · Score: 1

      Erm.. those people?

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    103. Re:Glad to see Microsoft taking this position by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      That simple fact is a useless datum. Pointing to a single human that can do such a thing(which I certainly grant, they do exist) isn't a well thought out explanation of our success.

      Here is a better explanation: cooperation, division of labor, capital saving/underconsumption for investing in future projects which multiply the productivity of a man, etc. A simple test of this is to compare those who would eat some womans intestines to those who would trade with each other and pay people to act as 3rd party defense against such things. Compare any cannibalistic tribe to one that accepted and slowly expanded on the ideas of property rights and self ownership of people. Savage men certainly exist, and can slaughter peaceful people, but only so long as they have builders supplying them. Peaceful traders and makers however have no such dependence.

      When two groups learn to cooperate in ever more abstract sets of group definitions(first from one person to another, then between families, then between tribes, then between cities, then between nations), they increase their productive ability. Our specific nature is that of an individual entity, so any such cooperation must be mutually beneficial to the value of both parties, but we can see similar success with other animals that cooperate as well, albeit with less regard for the self, such as with ants. These strategies for success are not universal, they are a function of the nature of the animal in question. But for just such types of creatures, there is a wealth of knowledge which explains why such cooperation is the optimal means of achieving success(as an example, Ricardo's demonstration of the mutual benefit of trade and division of labor between two unequally capable parties).

      In game theory, until it comes down to two fairly equal groups, it always makes sense to cooperate, rather than dominate. Even then, when its just down to 2 groups of people, both sides lose by choosing war over peace. We have arrived at this point precisely because for all the insane rulers seeking glory in war and destruction, the rest of us peaceful builders have been able to still build up society bit by bit anyway.

       

    104. Re:Glad to see Microsoft taking this position by DigiShaman · · Score: 1

      Technically you are correct with how the license are granted. I also don't have any problem with people being married married, be under the eyes of God or the justice of the peace. Though I do have a personal belief of which people should choose. But again, I'm a religious man with faith and values.

      That all said however, the institution of merriage is recognized at not just the Federal level, but diplomatic one too. I should know because I gained some insight into all this as my wife and I were filing for a K1 visa. She's Chinese and I'm and American. Both nations do *not* recognize a same sex union. I'm pretty sure that polygamy is also forbidden too.

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    105. Re:Glad to see Microsoft taking this position by leifb · · Score: 1, Insightful

      As a Christian, I'm against gay marriage from a religious point of view. ...Implying that anyone who supports gay marriage is less Christian than thou?

    106. Re:Glad to see Microsoft taking this position by DigiShaman · · Score: 1

      P.S.: The auto-correct feature and ability to edit on an iPad sucks balls. Sorry about that.

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    107. Re:Glad to see Microsoft taking this position by Kymermosst · · Score: 1

      The state should enforce contractual agreements between people, and any combination of people should be allowed to enter a shared domestic property contract. Their sexual activity or preferences shouldn't even be part of the picture.

      Yes, that means a man and a woman, or two men, or two women.

      It also means three of one and two of another. Or any other combination.

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    108. Re:Glad to see Microsoft taking this position by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      There is no evidence for a god or multiple gods therefore everyone would be "civil unioned". Marriage is marriage it's sanctioned by the state and has nothing to do with religion - get over it. /rant

    109. Re:Glad to see Microsoft taking this position by Mr2cents · · Score: 4, Insightful

      So infertile people don't deserve to get married? People who willingly choose not to have children don't deserve to get married? I'm hearing your religious excuse machine already spinning up from here.

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    110. Re:Glad to see Microsoft taking this position by rtb61 · · Score: 5, Insightful
      As a Christian you should more correctly say, you are opposed to gay 'Christian' marriages. It is not for you as a Christian to define what relationship contracts should be for other religions or secular marriages.

      Marriage is not a religious institution, it is a personal contract between two people, a life time commitment, recognised by religions. It actually has it's roots in war. In removing the whole village concept of shared responsibility for the children. When a King/Chief decide to launch an extended conflict he could hold a soldier's wife and children as hostage to the soldiers obedience. Also obviously some men could be denied access to women and the king could have access to many women, all based around patriarchal violence. As always religion changed and altered this relationship in many ways to suit, not belief but the requirements of the leadership of the day.

      The only thing that needs to change is people should be bound by their word, a little bit of mature adult responsibility. Make a life time commitment, then suck it up, that should be the only one you are ever allowed to make.

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    111. Re:Glad to see Microsoft taking this position by obarthelemy · · Score: 1

      Is marriage a purely religious, or also a social, legal, romantic... institution ?
      Is it purely about procreating, or also about sharing a life, commitment, love... ?

      Marriage is the union between a man and a woman same as parenthood is about raising the fruit of your loins. ie, not.

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    112. Re:Glad to see Microsoft taking this position by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I'm sorry, but you are incorrect. Marriage is not a religious institution. Yes, religions have put their own spin on it, much like they adapted the rites of spring (easter) and the mid-winter solstice (christmas). Over the course of time every religion poured their respective sauce over it. However, out of necessity, marriage was born as an economic union. There was and is no religious need for an institution like marriage. These days there is no more valid basis for such a thing, so a civil union will do for everyone.

    113. Re:Glad to see Microsoft taking this position by DigiShaman · · Score: 1, Funny

      Having children from a marriage is a goal. Not a requirement. As far as infertile couples are concerned, miracles are know for happening. There's been at least one documented case of virginal conception. His name was Jesus Christ.

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    114. Re:Glad to see Microsoft taking this position by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Simple fact of the matter is, a human being will cut up your mother, eat her intestines, while you sit, tied up, being forced to watch, just because THEY CAN. Even your raged-filled chimpanzee doesn't get that personal.

      That's not actually true. When a gorilla takes over as the leader of it's group, it will often dismember the offspring of the former leader.

    115. Re:Glad to see Microsoft taking this position by euroq · · Score: 3, Insightful

      I am a gay man who wants to get married and have children.

      On one hand: what's the reason two guys want to be recognized as a "marriage"? Not children, as they can't have them, and they're just as capable of raising a kid one of them had with a third party as mere friends as a couple -- it can never be "their" kid, at most of one of them. The uncomfortable truth is that they're after lowered taxes and certain other benefits meant to encourage having kids. A solo person deserves such benefits more than them.

      1. Yes, I am after lowered taxes and certain other benefits meant to encourage having kids. Why do you say a solo person deserves such benefits more than me?

      2. Such a truth (actually, a fact among many) isn't uncomfortable to me at all. Now, mind you, there's much more to it than such benefits. The rest of your comment is getting towards that goal - that the government (specifically, the vote of 50% + 1 of a population) shouldn't have the ability to promote single mothers raising children, married couples without children or that cannot have children, divorced couples married with children from previous marriages, some sects of Christianity, etc., over other beliefs/people - such others like homosexuals with children or Christian sects who believe God loves everyone.

      3. One of the most devastating problems we gays have in this country have to do with problems of life and death at the hospital, family, inheritance, et al. See http://www.washingtonpost.com/national/health-science/washington-adventist-denied-same-sex-visitation-hospital-apologizes/2012/01/19/gIQAvngQCQ_story.html?tid=pm_national_pop I really do believe those problems will be solved soon in most places because rational humans find stories like that abhorrent. (That link isn't the most abhorrent story by any means, it's just recent) The basic cause inherit in all these problems is that the government (50%+1) has defined what can be a family and what can't. If the government (50%+1) didn't define it, these discrimination problems would go away (at least de jure, not necessarily de facto).

      4. There are a whole lot of things in the government that discriminate homosexuals over heterosexuals. I won't list them all here, as you can just google it - a quick example is the right not testify against your spouse - but when you say "paying less taxes" you're quite missing the point - there shouldn't be any discrimination at all, period.

      Thus, let's go for the complement: a whole household or nothing.

      You're onto the answer. However, by doing that, you're still making the mistake that the government shouldn't make - making a decision of who can or can't be involved. I hate the fact that people dismiss that interracial marriage was illegal in this country until sometime in the 1970's - that wasn't long ago, and most Americans find it so ridiculous that the government would say it's illegal for a white person and black person to get married that they dismiss it. Well, the problem was mitigated by changing the definition of marriage at that point - instead of the government removing itself from the definition in the first place.

      The answer is to not let the government discriminate at all, nor to "define marriage" at all. It's not a states rights vs. federal thing at all - there shouldn't be any government (50%+1) that can make that choice. If there should be laws helping society procreate, then so be it - base it on people having children and not religious beliefs about what a marriage is, or enlightened beliefs about who can join such unions. Simply put, merit-based laws. Don't write anything about what a marriage is.

      I'd always think a similar pragmatic approach would help with these god awful debates about the rich and taxes and jo

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    116. Re:Glad to see Microsoft taking this position by msobkow · · Score: 1

      Marriage is not a "religious" issue unless you choose to make it one. There are many cultures in the world where marriages are not and never have been performed by "religious leaders". Stop assuming Jewish/Christian/Muslim == Religion. It's not.

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    117. Re:Glad to see Microsoft taking this position by Grishnakh · · Score: 0

      Laws are meant to protect, who is being protected by preventing marriage between any two consenting adults?

      Fundamentalist religious nuts who can't stand to see other people doing things they don't approve of.

    118. Re:Glad to see Microsoft taking this position by Grishnakh · · Score: 1

      Yep, I've thought about it along these lines too: I think maybe we should just eliminate marriage (as a government-recognized thing) altogether, and just replace it with contract law. We already have contract law which covers all kinds of other things that people get involved with each other over, it can apply equally to civil unions. Then, people should be allowed to have these unions with whomever they please, as long, of course, as all parties are legal adults who are allowed to enter into contracts. So if it's a man and a woman, or two men, or two women, or two girls and a dude, or three women, they can have whatever union they want, and in their private lives they can call it whatever they want, be it "marriage", "civil union", or "bologna sandwich".

      Furthermore, instead of the current state of affairs where the State dictates the terms of your marriage (community property vs. not, no-fault divorce, etc.), you can decide the terms of your union in the contract that you all sign. If you want a community-property union, you put it in your contract, regardless if you live in Calif. or Maine. If you want the union to follow specific rules if it's ever dissolved, you put that in the contract now, instead of having a separate pre-nuptial agreement.

    119. Re:Glad to see Microsoft taking this position by Grishnakh · · Score: 1

      By this logic, we should think about who's harmed by not allowing slavery, since by doing so, the taxpayer is harmed by having to treat those people as citizens, allow them to claim tax breaks, get social service benefits, etc.

      Instead, we shouldn't even be thinking about that at all, and should be considering all citizens as equals. How it affects our budget to not uphold civil rights shouldn't even be a consideration.

    120. Re:Glad to see Microsoft taking this position by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      there is no reason why not. what the fuck are you getting at? are you some sort of authoritarian clown and think there shouldn't be poly-marriage?

    121. Re:Glad to see Microsoft taking this position by 10101001+10101001 · · Score: 1

      As a Christian, I'm against gay marriage from a religious point of view.

      Out of curiosity, as a Christian, how do you feel about not marrying? It seems clear from Matthew 19:10-12 that Jesus thinks it's better that people put the kingdom of heaven first and not marry (and hence to practice celibacy), so it would seem if anything most churches should and would promote a life of following God and be more begrudging to those who feel the need to be married. It only seems a pragmatic step that Jesus concedes that not everyone can live up to that standard.

      That leads into a question on how you feel about teaching teens safe sex? After all, the argument often is when talking of abstinence that "[not] everyone can accept this word, but only those to whom it has been given" which sounds almost paramount to saying, in modern terms, that not everyone is pious enough to abstain from sex and so one just has to accept the truth of it and deal best with it as it is.

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    122. Re:Glad to see Microsoft taking this position by Suddenly_Dead · · Score: 1

      Is there some reason that a church can't refuse to religiously marry gay people? What does it matter if the state's civil union is also called "marriage"?

    123. Re:Glad to see Microsoft taking this position by ksemlerK · · Score: 0

      Even an adult mother and son? How about an adult daughter and father? What about adult brother and sister? And who cares if they decide to have children and inbreed. After all, it's their choice to who they marry, and how they express their love. Using your logic for homosexual marriage applies exactly to consensual incest with only the partners changed.

    124. Re:Glad to see Microsoft taking this position by ksemlerK · · Score: 1

      Even an adult mother and son? How about an adult daughter and father? What about adult brother and sister? And who cares if they decide to have children and inbreed. After all, it's their choice to who they marry, and how they express their love. Using your logic for homosexual marriage applies exactly to consensual incest with only the partners changed.

    125. Re:Glad to see Microsoft taking this position by ksemlerK · · Score: 2

      Even an adult mother and son? How about an adult daughter and father? What about adult brother and sister? And who cares if they decide to have children and inbreed. After all, it's their choice to who they marry, and how they express their love. Using your logic for homosexual marriage applies exactly to consensual incest with only the partners changed.

      Example: "Who is being harmed by allowing two people who love each other and enjoy the benefits of being married, just because they have the same DNA sequence."

    126. Re:Glad to see Microsoft taking this position by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Horsefeathers.

      This situation already exists. Anyone can go to the courthouse and get a marriage certificate without involving a church. The implications of allowing a same-sex couple to do the same are minor and have nothing to do with whoever you choose to hang out with on a Sunday.

      There also happen to be plenty of mainstream religions who have no problem with same-sex marriage. What unmitigated gall it takes to speak for all religions.

      I fart in your general direction.

    127. Re:Glad to see Microsoft taking this position by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Of fuck off. There is no such thing as a 'civil marriage'. Marriage is a religious rite. The first book using the word marriage to describe this institution is the bible. So you are full of shit. Marriage IS a religious institution. Now while I believe in God, I don't believe in religion as any I've seen or experienced tended to ruin my relation with God. BUT it still remains that marriage was first outlined in religious texts. Now all those who yell about freedom of speech and freedom to worship how they will want to infringe on the religious freedom of others whose beliefs say marriage is between a man and a woman as written in their bible which was originally written many thousands of years ago. Civil unions for gays with the same rights as married couples I think is right and will get behind (but not that way). But stop trying to change history and say marriage is not a religious rite.

    128. Re:Glad to see Microsoft taking this position by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Mod parent up.

    129. Re:Glad to see Microsoft taking this position by DigiShaman · · Score: 0

      It is a good question. Does this mean a life long commitment of attention to nothing but god and remain celibate forever? Or was the context pertaining to a period of one's life dedicated to God prior to the commitment of marriage? I couldn't tell you.

      With regards to your question of piety in general. Well, there's old saying. You can bring a horse to water, but you can't force him to drink it. Or, you can show someone the door, but he must decide to walk through it. While we are each responsible for our own actions, as Christians, we can at least be advocates for what is right and wrong.

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    130. Re:Glad to see Microsoft taking this position by kdemetter · · Score: 0

      It depends on what you mean with 'repressing violence' :

      Showing violent cartoons to kids is bad, not directly because it's violence, but because they don't yet think critically about it. So if they see a mouse achieve something trough violence, they will make the connection violence solves problems.

      On the other hand, the topic of violence should not be avoided either : too many people are ignorant of violence, until they get robbed,stabbed, etc... And then they don't know how to react. So I think it's a topic that should be studied, if only to better protect yourself from it

    131. Re:Glad to see Microsoft taking this position by SteveW928 · · Score: 1

      What does this have to do with, "... people try[ing] to control how others feel and who they love ..."? Marriage is a privilege, not a right. The state gives this privilege to suit its interests, not to make people happy. The interest of the state, in this case, is to promote a healthy and stable society; which means a healthy next generation. The best case to achieve this goal is to promote a stable male/female couple who will likely a) have children (no other combination can), and b) hopefully raise this child to be a good part of society. Hence, marriage being between a male and female. (Note: there is NOTHING religious about the above at all. Other arguments could be made if we want to go down that road, such as religious marriage in church, temple, etc. I'm strictly talking about secular marriage here.)

      No one is prohibiting anything. If people of the same sex want to form a committed relationship, no one is stopping that. In many places, they can even get packages of benefits/'rights' which give them solutions to such issues as estate planning, hospital visitation, and partner benefits at the work place.

      Also, the argument is not that a single male or female, or male/male, or female/female couple can't raise a child with good results. And, certainly some of these arrangements are much better than bad male/female couples. The argument is that since the male/female couple is the best (numerous studies indicate this), this should be what the state promotes. We don't want to promote sub-optimal or make it equal to in how it is viewed, as this encourages the sub-optimal (and not just that people will then take advantage of the opportunity, but also in how society views it).
      (Again, note: we're not talking about value of the people or relationship, or morals, etc. here... simply how it is viewed as a benefit to the state to achieve their goals, which is why they would give such a privilege in the first place. The state doesn't really care about - or at least probably can't afford to - give such a benefits package just to make Adam and Steve feel good about their relationship.)

    132. Re:Glad to see Microsoft taking this position by SteveW928 · · Score: 1

      Religious marriage and state marriage are really separate issues, with very different reasons behind them.

    133. Re:Glad to see Microsoft taking this position by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      As a Christian,

      The problem is, that you say that, as if it were just a normal thing.
      It's a mental illness! Religious schizophrenia. It, by definition, is a disease where you stop building your inner model of reality from actual reality and substitute your own delusional model to explain everything, ignoring any input that doesn't fit it.

      If it weren't for that ignorance, I wouldn't even have to explain that! It's clear as day that it means you're batshit insane.

      Please, if you value anything in this world, go get a therapy.
      I don't mean the "Let's forever scratch on the surface and employ in pointless blah blah for ten years" pseudosciense of ye olde psychology that most psychologists employ in.
      I mean modern drug-free neuropsychology, where therapists actually understand the mechanics of neural networks and through the right (highly intense) mental inputs, can fix delusional perceptions.

      It will make your life so much better. Since then all those problems where you got that weird feeling of disgust, or hatred, or chose to not be friends with people, not go to places, and not to enjoy things, will be gone for good! No weird situations triggering weird feelings and irrational behavior anymore!
      You'll love it!
      And the best part: You won't lose anything. All you will do, is *improve* yourself. Become an even better person! (No, despite everything I said, it is not a shame. Just like breaking a leg is not a shame! The only shame would be, not to learn from it!)

      Does that sound like a good deal, or does that sound like a good deal?? ^^

    134. Re:Glad to see Microsoft taking this position by siride · · Score: 1

      This is a dumb argument. I, as a straight man, could get married and "harm" the American taxpayer in just the same way. There's no reason why an entire class of people should be denied these benefits along your line of argument. There's nothing about gay people marrying that makes their harm any worse than the harm done by straight people marrying.

    135. Re:Glad to see Microsoft taking this position by siride · · Score: 1

      You say this as if people who aren't religious don't have values. What a fucking dick.

    136. Re:Glad to see Microsoft taking this position by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      You be trollin for dollars. It's a waste of time I tell ya. They don't pay shit around here!

    137. Re:Glad to see Microsoft taking this position by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I guess that means you are against marriage in general then, or are you only against gay people getting "a better tax return"?

    138. Re:Glad to see Microsoft taking this position by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      My belief system embraces the issuance of parking tickets as a religious ritual; does that make meter maids government-sponsored clerics?

      First I should say I have no problem with granting everyone a "civil union", so long as "marriage" is eliminated from the civil code, and all existing marriages are converted to civil unions under the law.

      But that seems like a lot of extra work to appease your taxonomical complaints. I'm pretty sure you're just confusing the word "marriage" in the context of your religion with the word "marriage" in the context of civil society -- maybe you missed this lesson in 2nd grade, but not all words have the same meaning in all contexts -- and your conflation of the two separate issues doesn't seem like a good reason to make the rest of the nation do a bunch of paperwork.

    139. Re:Glad to see Microsoft taking this position by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      What is the purpose of this name change? The traditional name for civil marriages is "marriage". The traditional name for religious marriages is "marriage". Why does religion get priority in name rights? Why doesn't religion get "union" and civil society get "marriage"? Why is there even a conflict -- the two terms exist in separate namespaces and the only "confusion" comes from religious folks who want to exclude homosexuals from their club; why should civil society bend to the whim of discriminatory religious groups?

      As long as we're renaming things, let's change our currency to say "In Allah we trust". I wouldn't want the civil "God" to be confused with your Christian "God".

    140. Re:Glad to see Microsoft taking this position by Lemmy+Caution · · Score: 1

      It may be administered by counties, but insofar as it has repercussions for taxes, immigration, and a slew of other legalities on every scale, I don't quite think you could say it's just a county issue.

    141. Re:Glad to see Microsoft taking this position by Lemmy+Caution · · Score: 1

      There are too many aspects to marriage that go beyond simply the contractual agreements between its participants: the ability to sponsor immigrants, the assumption of inheritance, the ability to make decisions for the other when they're incapacitated, tax benefits, etc. The first one is a big deal to a lot of people: look up the phrase "love exiles" someday.

    142. Re:Glad to see Microsoft taking this position by ILongForDarkness · · Score: 1

      I agree married people should pay the same taxes as single people.

    143. Re:Glad to see Microsoft taking this position by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      As a Christian you should actually read the Bible rather than letting other people read it to you. Try the bit about Jonathan and David...

    144. Re:Glad to see Microsoft taking this position by dkf · · Score: 1

      The problem is that marriage is a religious institution sponsored by our federal government.

      Actually, it's a social institution that is supported and sponsored by religions and government. Even if religions and governments disappeared, you'd still see some people undertaking commitments to be together in a pair in a way that we would recognize as "getting married". (Would it be as many as at the moment? Perhaps not. I don't know. It's hypothetical, OK?)

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    145. Re:Glad to see Microsoft taking this position by kanweg · · Score: 1

      Documented?! OMG, they finally found Mary's medical records? With a picture of her intact hymen during the pregnancy and stuff. Great news. Inform the pope right away, he will be very happy.

      Or it was just a mishap in translation or a case of words evolving in meaning over time, and people today prefer the deluded version.

      Bert

    146. Re:Glad to see Microsoft taking this position by fishingmachine · · Score: 2

      homosexual couples having sex do not result in having severely deformed children. homosexual couples are not able to have children of their own and are more likely to adopt a previously unwanted child. homosexual couples being together harms nobody. homosexuals are good for humanity as a whole right now with overpopulation being a serious elephant in the room.

    147. Re:Glad to see Microsoft taking this position by shutdown+-p+now · · Score: 3, Insightful

      As an atheist, I resent the fact that religious people are trying to appropriate the term "marriage". It has been a term to describe precisely such a contract as you talk about, irrespective of religion, for millenia before Christ.

      (for those curious, the etymology of the English goes all the way back to Proto-Indo-European "man", which had the same meaning it does in English today; there are no religious connotations there whatsoever).

    148. Re:Glad to see Microsoft taking this position by shutdown+-p+now · · Score: 1

      You're concocting complicated explanations for something that's trivial to explain. IT workforce is, on average, either left-leaning or libertarian, not conservative. Thus, by virtue pure statistics, you attract more talent by pandering to gay demographic than you do by rejecting it. Apple and Google (and others) tend to support gay rights for the same reason.

    149. Re:Glad to see Microsoft taking this position by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Why not a contract between three or more people?

    150. Re:Glad to see Microsoft taking this position by Vlado · · Score: 1

      /Disclaimer/ I stand in support of same sex marriages /Disclaimer/

      It's interesting to see that company advocated interference with laws is accepted in some cases while not in others.
      Over and over again slashdot comments focus on how companies should steer clear of legislature. How money isn't speech and so on. Usually those arguments are fired around initiatives that are here perceived as "negative" (RIIA, et. al.).

      But in this case it's all: "Yeeey, company is helping out here. Good job, MS."

      You can't have it both ways. At the end of the day, the goal that the company has is company oriented. And that is its bottom line.
      It's extremely likely that the very next legislative push that MS will do will be against a particular freedom or at least views that are popular here.

      People should support and push for what they believe in. Companies should abide by those laws.

    151. Re:Glad to see Microsoft taking this position by rohan972 · · Score: 1

      Is there some reason that a church can't refuse to religiously marry gay people? What does it matter if the state's civil union is also called "marriage"?

      As I see it, equal rights should be enforced by government, culture change should not. Cultural change ought be handled by society at large, not the government, IMO.

      Furthermore, marriage should already have been replaced by civil unions in name since that replacement has already happened in deed. Here in Australia, this definition was introduced into law: Marriage means the union of a man and a woman to the exclusion of all others, voluntarily entered into for life.

      Of the four conditions, (heterosexuality, monogamy, voluntary and lifelong) only two are enforced in our law, heterosexuality and voluntariness. You can be swingers and have a legally valid marriage and no fault divorce is specifically a repudiation of lifelong marriage. As a result, there is no logically consistent concept of marriage in Australian law. What we have that we now call marriage is in reality a civil union. The commitment to lifelong relationship is purely social.

      Although I have a marriage certificate, as the years have gone by, I've come to see it as a farce. It is the relationship that makes a marriage, not paperwork filed at the courthouse and not the approval of a preacher. I'm married and the church and the government can piss off if they don't agree. Tell me you are married, friend, and I will take the same attitude.

      If you think that people who base their marriage on "being joined by god" don't have a valid marriage because you don't believe there's a god you should be free to say so. If people who believe in god think you don't have a valid marriage because it wasn't approved by their god, they should be free to say so.

    152. Re:Glad to see Microsoft taking this position by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Go back to Verizon, math troll!

    153. Re:Glad to see Microsoft taking this position by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Don't confuse civil marriage (which is defined by 1138 Federal laws) and religious marriage. In most countries you can have one without the other. They are two different things with the same name.

    154. Re:Glad to see Microsoft taking this position by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Opening up the system to accomodate polygamy would open huge cans of worms (an organized crime ring could all get married to each other, and be fully protected from someone turning states' evidence, for example).

      So you agree that Megaupload should have been shut down? (Anyway, there are ways to annul marriages)

    155. Re:Glad to see Microsoft taking this position by serviscope_minor · · Score: 1

      not the mere capability to mimic

      Why not? Sufficiently good mimicry is indistinguishable from the real thing. In fact, how do you know that's not what humans are doing?

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    156. Re:Glad to see Microsoft taking this position by KozmoStevnNaut · · Score: 1

      Read "The Windup Girl" by Paolo Bacigalupi.

      In short, it's sci-fi about a post-oil world in which calories are everything and bioterrorism is rampant. One of the main characters is an artificially-grown girl who used to be the property of a rich japanese businessman until she was left in streets of Bangkok to fend for herself, more or less left to the fanatically nationalist officers of the Environment Ministry, who habitually kill New People because they consider them an abomination against nature and soulless automatons. They then unceremoniously mulch them and throw them into methane digesters along with any other available "trash" biomatter to produce methane used for power an lighting.

      I like how it touches on her efforts to be recognized as a sentient being and not just a piece of property to be disposed of at will.

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    157. Re:Glad to see Microsoft taking this position by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I am glad to see Microsoft taking this position.

      And you aren't worried at all that it seems like only companies opinion matters?

    158. Re:Glad to see Microsoft taking this position by Cederic · · Score: 1

      Why?

      Particularly, why is the kissy kissing abhorrent but not the fucking that may follow it?

    159. Re:Glad to see Microsoft taking this position by rohan972 · · Score: 2

      Showing violent cartoons to kids is bad, not directly because it's violence, but because they don't yet think critically about it. So if they see a mouse achieve something trough violence, they will make the connection violence solves problems.

      People ridicule the idea that cartoons or video games affect kids, but it's true. I didn't believe until my eldest dropped a refrigerator out a 7th story window onto a passerby. It opened my eyes but too late. That same week, his brother (who had been playing Ratchet and Clank) shot the neighbors kids with a morph-o-ray, turning them into chickens.

      Parents, don't ignore this issue, for your own hearts sake.

    160. Re:Glad to see Microsoft taking this position by cffrost · · Score: 1

      The only thing that needs to change is people should be bound by their word, a little bit of mature adult responsibility. Make a life time commitment, then suck it up, that should be the only one you are ever allowed to make.

      Your signature reveals the motive and consequence of your proposal.

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    161. Re:Glad to see Microsoft taking this position by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I'm very much in favor of this, and I think the 18 and over for consensual sex is also too high. It was much lower throughout most of history. I don't think it needs to drop that much, but placing it sometime around 14 or 15 would make a lot more sense.

    162. Re:Glad to see Microsoft taking this position by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      > but we're also capable of putting a man on the moon.
      sure?

    163. Re:Glad to see Microsoft taking this position by Ginger+Unicorn · · Score: 0

      It's documented in the same way that the divinity of mohammed is documented in the koran. and that's just made up, right?

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    164. Re:Glad to see Microsoft taking this position by KiloByte · · Score: 3, Interesting

      I am a gay man who wants to get married and have children.

      A solo person deserves such benefits more than them.

      1. Yes, I am after lowered taxes and certain other benefits meant to encourage having kids. Why do you say a solo person deserves such benefits more than me?

      Ok, I probably misphrased it: s/deserve/need/.

      A kid that has a parent and a step-parent is likely to require government handouts less than a kid who has but a solo parent. This is not a hard rule, of course.

      When it comes to deserving, you are exactly equal -- raising a kid is raising a kid.

      Thus, let's go for the complement: a whole household or nothing.

      You're onto the answer. However, by doing that, you're still making the mistake that the government shouldn't make - making a decision of who can or can't be involved.

      I kind of fail to understand what you disagree with -- I claim that the only non-discriminating way is to allow anyone to bond with anyone else, no matter the gender, race or number of people in such a bond. You claim the government shouldn't get to choose, leaving that decision to the individuals who want to enter the union.

      Unless I get something wrong, these are equivalent.

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    165. Re:Glad to see Microsoft taking this position by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Why not declare all marriages and civil unions (straight, gay and anything else) to be marriages, and let the churches have their own definition of a "religious union"?

    166. Re:Glad to see Microsoft taking this position by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      You are incredibly ignorant, and full of crap in place in any actual knowledge of the subject. (And both Martin Luther and The Buddha say you're dead wrong.)

      The fact of the matter is, you can appear in front of a priest, rabbi, imam, whatever, and say all the magic words you want. In the eyes of the law, this does NOT make you married. What makes you married is the granting of a marriage license from the State.

      IOW, to be married, the involvement of clergy is optional--the grant of the license by the government is not.

      As for your silly claim regarding the Bible: Marriage appears to pre-date (*anyone's*) recorded history.

      Marriage has *never* been founded in religion: it arose out of various needs regarding inheritance, paternity/parental responsibility, and competition for females.

    167. Re:Glad to see Microsoft taking this position by edleslie · · Score: 1

      I am also glad to see Microsoft taking this position -- except for the reason stated. They shouldn't be taking this position because discrimination is impacting their ability to attract and retain talented workers, it should be simply because it's the right thing to do! Plain and simple!

    168. Re:Glad to see Microsoft taking this position by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Why do so many people think that against gay marriage = against gays? I'm against anyone re-defining the English language. Marriage should continue to mean the thing between one man and one women ( yes, that means no plural marriage, no marriage between a girl and her cat, etc ). I can declare myself a women tomorrow, but it flies in the face of the definition. Is it so hard to make up a new word that describes something else? Another word ( like 'civil union' ) can have the tax benefits, rights, etc. I really don't get the debate, who care about other people's sex life? As if most Americans are out to control people's sex life? Wrong. However many Americans care when the language is redefined to benefit one groups political end.

    169. Re:Glad to see Microsoft taking this position by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      And I'm still married to a woman in Australia, despite the fact we split up about 8 years ago and I've been living in another country with a new partner for 4 years now.

      But--because we married in my home country, then we lived and had a child together in hers, and I now live in a third country--trying to obtain a divorce has been a nightmare.

      This is in spite of the fact that my "ex" and I get along just fine these days; all the property and custody issues were settled and we both agreed we should divorce a year or more before I even met my current partner. Whom I now wish to marry but can't until *some* fucking country agrees it has the jurisidiction to grant a divorce. (I'm no longer an Australian resident. She's not a resident where I now reside. Neither of us resides any longer in my home country. And so on...)

    170. Re:Glad to see Microsoft taking this position by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      As a Christian, I have to say that there are many good, biblical reasons for calling gay marriage a sin.
      As a Christian, it is my duty to remind people that sins are things which go against God's will. God loves
      people and gave us his law to help *protect* us from the negative repercussions of choosing the wrong
      path. Sin is dangerous to a person's spiritual (and sometimes even physical) well-being.

      As a Christian, it is my duty to remind people that when OTHERS engage in sin, it has impact on me too.
      We are not all islands. We all impact each-other. We don't allow people with certain communicable diseases
      to give blood transfusions. Why? Because your disease could kill me! And thus, I cannot sit idly by while
      you promote behaviour which is harmful to the participants and harmful to bystanders.

      Does that mean that I can punish you? Probably not (certainly not in a heavy-handed way.). If the USA were
      still a Christian nation, it would have meant that we could do our best to prevent the main-streaming of unGodly
      behaviour, such as outlawing "gay marriage". But, alas, today, we Christians might be best served by circling
      the wagons and trying to find a happy middle ground between the Amish and laissez-faire mainstream Christianity.

      As the Bible says, "My people are destroyed for lack of knowledge: because thou hast rejected knowledge,
      I will also reject thee, that thou shalt be no priest to me: seeing thou hast forgotten the law of thy God, I will
      also forget thy children."

    171. Re:Glad to see Microsoft taking this position by toriver · · Score: 1

      Given that modern society both accept children born outside of marriage, and also accept heterosexual marriages where no children are produced, your logic falls apart. I mean, the Bible also describes bread, does that mean only religious people get to define what bread is?

    172. Re:Glad to see Microsoft taking this position by TheRaven64 · · Score: 1

      No, by this logic government should get out of marriage entirely. If two or more people want to form a legal entity that shares income, asset ownership, and liability then they should be allowed to, irrespective of gender, whether they are engaged in a sexual relationship, or whether they want some religious ceremony. If people want to have a big party when they sign such an agreement and call it a marriage, then that's totally irrelevant to the government.

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    173. Re:Glad to see Microsoft taking this position by mapkinase · · Score: 1

      "How did we, humans, end up dominating the earth over other creatures? "

      The whole comment is overrated tripe. Who on earth would mod these incoherent banalities up?

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    174. Re:Glad to see Microsoft taking this position by mapkinase · · Score: 1

      Why don't Microsoft recongize gay marriages inside the company and pay the couples their taxes back in the amount of what would government do, had gay marriages be recognized?

      If it is about "pride", then using timeless expression of Marcellus Wallace: "screw pride". If a formal recognition of his status as gay means so much for a person that would forsake the work in a very prestigious company, then may be the candidate is not motivated enough.

      There is probably a high ranking gay executive at Microsoft who is pushing this and everybody is afraid to confront him with a common sense out of political correctness.

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    175. Re:Glad to see Microsoft taking this position by TheRaven64 · · Score: 1
      I would disagree. The main advantage that humans have over other animals is the scale of cooperation. No other animal is capable of cooperation beyond a family group (a pack or similar). Humans are. To give a counter to your claim that

      When two sides of a war have a technical equality, the one willing to perform the most egregious atrocities will be the one to prevail.

      Consider the Second World War. The Japanese were willing to perform atrocities far beyond what the allies would consider - genocide or subjugation of entire populations. They lost. And the main reason that they lost was that the allies were willing to cooperate with people that the Axis powers were not. Jewish scientists in Germany were persecuted and fled the country. They were welcomed into other countries and went to work on things like the Manhattan project. The side that fostered the greatest level of cooperation defeated the side that was interested only in the supremacy of a single racial group.

      You can find a lot more examples in the last thousand years or so.

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    176. Re:Glad to see Microsoft taking this position by mapkinase · · Score: 1

      >Being able to visit/make medical decisions for your spouse if they are hospitalized or incapacitated.

      Power of attorney.

      >Being able to adopt a child together in a way that gives both parents legal parental rights in relation to their child (everything from school permission slips to keeping the child if the spouse dies)

      Why do I see this in every movie or TV series happening already without marriage?

      >Being considered a spouse in legal proceedings (spousal 5th amendment immunity,

      Watch Sopranos. That's nothing, they can make you talk anyway.

      > inheritance laws, etc.)

      Inheritance is done by writing a will.

      >Being able to marry a foreigner without fear they will be deported

      That's true. That cannot be done now without legal marriage, but there are many ways to go around it.

      You did not mention tax break. That's an incentive larger than all of your mentioned.

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    177. Re:Glad to see Microsoft taking this position by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Thailand is still an essentially polygynous society under the guise of "One wife [optional], many girlfriends". When I was dating a Thai woman, she referred to herself as my "number one girlfriend" and seemed genuinely surprised that I didn't have one or two others on the side.

      The women don't seem especially "scarred" by this. The wife (or "chief girlfriend" in some cases) gets the nice house, kids, and the really good goodies. The girlfriends generally get a little sometrhing as well; it's considered very bad form for a man not to provide some material/financial assistance to any girlfriends he might have, in addition to providing a home and living for the wife. A lot of young Thai women get through university or training school for their career with some help from a married boyfriend.

    178. Re:Glad to see Microsoft taking this position by Mikkeles · · Score: 1

      You mean you haven't heard of the Shroud of Bethlehem? It's all there.

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    179. Re:Glad to see Microsoft taking this position by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I also have a friend who is gay, but due to his country actually having laws that ban men-to-men love, suffers from it. Awesome guy, and really friendly.

      Of course he's friendly, he's gay and you're like, what, half a man?

    180. Re:Glad to see Microsoft taking this position by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Did you have a violin playing in the background when you wrote your post? I personally don't give a damn what you do, but bear in mind that as America and the West wanes so does its cultural influence and thus the American/Western obsession with 'gayness' will too.

      Africa, the Middle East, China and India (though India is less strident) do not like gays and indeed view them as a product of Western decadence. Gay are regularly killed for who they are. Obviously we think this is 'not right'. But a good proportion of the aforementioned population groups mentioned think it is correct.

      Here's some perspective. Across Europe and America there are probably 500 million people who think being openly gay is acceptable. (Not all Westerners are keen or support the gay agenda hence I am guessing about 500 million.)

      I would argue (from experience living and frequently visiting these areas) that most of the remaining 6.5 billion people (who, just through weight of number and economic clout, are becoming more important than the US) will soon begin to provide a counter force to the West's culture. Already I have come across companies in China and Africa who refuse to do business with Western companies who support liberal social policies. They are concerned that Western decadence (their words) will affect their way of life.

      Believe me Steve Ballmer has not suddenly found a deep affection for gay. He and Microsoft think it is good for business in the US and Europe, but as mentioned this will change or at least quietly go back to the way it was before.

      Enjoy the golden age of public 'gaydom'. Sorry to tell you though it is a passing phase. It is not only, as you misguidedly proclaim, religious 'nut jobs' who don't like, public gayness, but a good chunk of the human race.

    181. Re:Glad to see Microsoft taking this position by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      marriage had nothing to do with religion originally, in fact for common serfs marriage was not even on the cards. Marriage was orignally a property contract between rich and powerful families.

      For the US legal concept, marriage originates through Britain, where at the time its definition was in Church of England canon law. And indeed the first occurrences of the English word marriage (as opposed to a French or Latin root) is in the 14th century, when it was certainly considered a religious institution.

    182. Re:Glad to see Microsoft taking this position by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      As a Christian you should more correctly say, you are opposed to gay 'Christian' marriages. It is not for you as a Christian to define what relationship contracts should be for other religions or secular marriages.

      If I recall correctly, US law never instantiated that difference in concept -- never actually considered defining marriage until DOMA, and the legal concept of marriage is still the one that was inherited from English church canon law pre-independence. (ie, "marriage" so far as the legal meaning is concerned is the Christian version. We now like to think of there being a distinction between the secular and religious institution, but that distinction is one that doesn't come from the law.)

    183. Re:Glad to see Microsoft taking this position by Strider- · · Score: 2

      As a Christian, I'm against gay marriage from a religious point of view. However as an American, I believe in the freedom of religion and association.

      As a Christian, you should also know that the Bible is virtually silent on the subject. The only real biblical basis for condemning homosexuality comes from the Old Testament, and even then only puts it at the same level as wearing clothes of mixed fibres, planting in the corners of your field, and picking up sticks upon the Sabbath. If you're willing to condem someone for wearing a cotton/poly blend t-shirt, that's your prerogative, but I don't think you'll have friends for very long.

      Conversely, in the New Testament Jesus constantly gives us the example of dining with and caring for those who are outcasts from their society. If anything, the New Testament calls us to reach out to, welcome, and embrace those of other sexual orientations. In the end, the real question is "How can we not welcome them?" It is our duty as Christians to care for those who are on the outside, to welcome into the community, and to celebrate them.

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    184. Re:Glad to see Microsoft taking this position by DaveGod · · Score: 1

      As a Christian, I'm against gay marriage from a religious point of view. However as an American, I believe in the freedom of religion and association. You may even choose to not associate with anything. The problem is that marriage is a religious institution sponsored by our federal government. It's a problem because there are all sorts of legal ties to something religious in nature. The implications are huge. It means that the Federal Goverment can dictate the meaning of religious values and not the other way around. I strongly believe the best option is to abstract this union one level apart. That is to say, everyone can have a civil union which grants all the legal benefits without bias. You can still choose to have a religious merriage ceremony after the fact if you wish. Some may want just to be married withough being legally recognized too. Either way should be fair for everyone.

      See, this is the bit I don't get. Maybe it's because I'm neither gay nor religious but I don't see the connection. What does gay marriage at a federal level have to do with a religion? It's only relevant the other way around.

      Many people against federal recognition of gay marriage on religious grounds seem to believe marriage at the federal level is the same as at a religious level - that it stems from and is all about their faith. Whether federal government recognises an institution's marriage has nothing to do with any other institution, they are only concerned with the legal contract between two people. The Catholic church does not get to decide whether the federal government recognises a Christian or Muslim marriage, why should they have any say over a gay one? What about marriage between agnostics, or atheists? Basically anything incompatible with a particular religion appears to be OK, unless they're gay. Religions get to dictate who gets married in their church, they do not and should not have any say in who gets married elsewhere.

      Marriage is only "religious in nature" at the religion level. Whether the federal government recognises the marriage is something else entirely. Nobody cares whether or not a Catholic church chooses to recognise (or perform) a Muslim marriage and likewise nobody should care whether or not they choose to recognise (or perform) a gay marriage. Federal government is not dictating religious values in any way whatsoever.

      This may appear similar to what you are advocating, and in practice it pretty much is but in principle it's not - you're going on the assumption that religions control all definition and recognition of marriage while I'm saying religions only control the religious definition and recognition of marriage. Just like the federal government only controls the legal definition and recognition of marriage.

      It's like if the Red Cross were to say the Red Crescent is okay but then try and prevent donations to Doctors Without Borders from attracting a tax deduction on the basis that it's not religious.

      I have to say, I did a quick google and came across a list of differences between marriage and civil unions in the US and I'm really disgusted. People don't get tax breaks because they're gay, unless they marry a woman anyway? Gay "husbands" can't make the emergency medical decisions on behalf of their partner like a married one could? What the fuck?

    185. Re:Glad to see Microsoft taking this position by stormguard2099 · · Score: 1

      Great point. Microsoft releases security patches as well so those must be evil too! Death to all patches!

      (sorry pirates)

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    186. Re:Glad to see Microsoft taking this position by stormguard2099 · · Score: 1

      We also have huge amounts of legal and social framework set up to accommodate 2-adult family units; enabling the gender bits to be flipped any which way doesn't actually change any of how things work. Opening up the system to accomodate polygamy would open huge cans of worms (an organized crime ring could all get married to each other, and be fully protected from someone turning states' evidence, for example).

      I'm imagining the Sopranos mixed with Married with Children with a dash of Big tossed in there. I'm smelling the next HBO hit show!

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    187. Re:Glad to see Microsoft taking this position by Mspangler · · Score: 1

      "So infertile people don't deserve to get married? "

      You noticed that little problem with "it's for the children" too. Besides infertile people, you also prevent any woman past 50 from getting remarried.

      And those infertile people would have to be tracked in a registry to make sure they did not marry. And logically, any couple who failed to produce children after say 5 years would have have to have a fertility test, and if they failed, the marriage would be annulled. The infertile one would then be put on the registry.

      I actually have no problem with marriage being defined as for the purpose of having children, but I will insist that those getting the benefits actually holding up their end of the contract. And some of the consequences are not so gentle.

    188. Re:Glad to see Microsoft taking this position by sensei+moreh · · Score: 1

      I agree: a distinction between legal unions and marriage is the way to go.

      +1

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    189. Re:Glad to see Microsoft taking this position by AmiMoJo · · Score: 1

      So who is harmed? The American taxpayer, who has to absorb that deduction, or the other members under that insurance plan . .

      Actually the reason for the married tax credit is to promote the creation of families and keep the population growing. If the population falls we will have a very big problem when it comes to caring for the elderly and paying pensions, not to mention having a shortage of workers. People often complain about child tax credits in particular, asking why they should pay for someone else's children. Well, you need them, and if you choose not to have any of your own then you had better hope someone else makes up the numbers. When you are 60 you want there to be plenty of doctors to look after you, right?

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    190. Re:Glad to see Microsoft taking this position by khallow · · Score: 1

      As a Christian, I'm against gay marriage from a religious point of view.

      As an aside, you can always change your religious point of view. Our understanding of what is good and evil, what should be done or not done, has changed over the millennia. I believe that there is no moral reason to treat same sex marriages any differently than traditional marriages.

      As to the rest of your post, I believe you to be in the right. No matter one's beliefs, it's a big step in the wrong direction to have the state make decisions about religious issues (an issue that was so important that the first correction, the First Amendment to the Constitution included a clause to help prevent that) that shouldn't be in their domain.

      Your solution seem quite adequate.

    191. Re:Glad to see Microsoft taking this position by DaleSwanson · · Score: 1

      Even an adult mother and son? How about an adult daughter and father? What about adult brother and sister? And who cares if they decide to have children and inbreed. After all, it's their choice to who they marry, and how they express their love. Using your logic for homosexual marriage applies exactly to consensual incest with only the partners changed.

      I don't see any problem with them getting married.

      As for having kids, it leads to a slippery slope. I'd bet that heavy drinking during pregnancy is more likely to cause problems for a kid than brother sister incest. As far as I know drinking during pregnancy isn't illegal in the US. So the question is then do we allow people to do things that will likely result in birth defects? I wouldn't be opposed to this in general, but how far should it be applied? What about people who are both recessive carriers for genetic diseases? Do we only bar people from knowingly increasing the odds of defects? Why not mandate genetic tests to ensure there isn't an increase in odds?

    192. Re:Glad to see Microsoft taking this position by sg_oneill · · Score: 1

      Who is being protected by allowing two people to get a better tax return for being married?

      Well I'm glad SOMEONE here at least sees the elephant in the room of hetrosexual marriage being subsidized by non married gays.

      But I dont think your clear (surely your not a hypocrite?) desire to ban hetrosexual marriage being that popular on the hill!

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    193. Re:Glad to see Microsoft taking this position by iocat · · Score: 1
      I kind of agree with the grandparent. The whole problem with marriage in the United States is that it is a religious thing that is sponsored by the government. When I was forced to legally marry my partner of 15 years (for insurance reasons) we got a form from the state government telling us we needed to get our marriage "solemnized" by a priest or judge. Why was priest even an option? I can't get a priest to renew my drivers' license or notarize any other type of contract, so why do they have this magic power granted to them by the state for marriage?

      In my opinion, civil marriage should be handled by the state only. If I need to "solemnize" the fact that I have a girlfriend and make our relationship a legal contract, let someone at the DMV do it.

      If I want to get "married" in the eyes of God, that's a religious thing, and I can take it up with my church.

      (Of course, this isn't the system we have, and given the system we actually have in the U.S., anyone should be allowed to marry anyone else in my opinion. If you're against same sex marriage, don't have one.)

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    194. Re:Glad to see Microsoft taking this position by __aaltlg1547 · · Score: 1

      The problem is that marriage is a religious institution sponsored by our federal government. It's a problem because there are all sorts of legal ties to something religious in nature.

      That's not true. Marriage is a social institution that is sponsored by governments and religions. Christianity is only 2000 years old (if that). Marriage goes back to before the dawn of civilization.

      In America, state-recognized marriage is sponsored by government and sometimes incidentally involves some religious organization. There's no reason why we should let peoples' religious preference dominate other peoples' choice of whom they want to marry.

    195. Re:Glad to see Microsoft taking this position by __aaltlg1547 · · Score: 1

      And that's why they are involved: because of the contract. Otherwise it's all he-said/she-said or in the case of gay marriage he-said/he-said or she-said/she-said.

    196. Re:Glad to see Microsoft taking this position by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I so wish I had mod points for this right now.This should be +5 Insightful all over

    197. Re:Glad to see Microsoft taking this position by larkost · · Score: 1

      I agree with you on most of your points, but I think that you have one major onw wrong: marrige is not a creation of religion. It is a social structure that in many cases relgion has layered istelf on top of. I know everyone talkes about the wedding ceremony as the point when they are married, but that is not the case. You are married when the marrige license is signed and whitnessed, the part with the priest in front of everyone is just for show, the real bit is in the paperwork.

      Now don't get me wrong, there is a lot of social value in the ceremony announcing your commitment before others (and before your god), but the govenment part is what is really at debate at this point (despite the gnashing of teeth from some parties).

      Oh and be carefull about equating civil unions with marrige. While sometimes they can be truely interchangeable words (seperating the religios from the secular), in many states in the US they are legaly defined very differently, with civil unions having few of the legal rights and responsibilites of marriges (insurance, hospital visitation rights, gaurdianship of children, etc). So it has become a political trick to argue that people pushing for full rights are just trying to force the relgious part.

    198. Re:Glad to see Microsoft taking this position by __aaltlg1547 · · Score: 1

      On one hand: what's the reason two guys want to be recognized as a "marriage"? Not children, as they can't have them, and they're just as capable of raising a kid one of them had with a third party as mere friends as a couple -- it can never be "their" kid, at most of one of them.

      They want to be married because then they will have ALL of the same rights that married couples have -- an automatic assumption of joint property, survivor benefits, the ability to adopt one another's children, the ability to adopt children as a couple, the right to be treated the same way under tax law (as you noted), a right to make medical decisions on behalf of their spouse in case he or she is unable and many more.

      And if they want to adopt one another's kids, they can do that if they're married, providing those kids with a parent in case their physical parent dies. If I was a kid with a gay dad and no mom in sight, I'd darn sure want my dad's partner to have responsibility for me in case dad kicked off.

    199. Re:Glad to see Microsoft taking this position by Threni · · Score: 1

      Surely you mean .71 dollars, not cents. Things aren't quite that bad.

    200. Re:Glad to see Microsoft taking this position by danlip · · Score: 1

      True. I would also like to see polyamorous groups have legal rights, but it's complicated. A good analogy is the 3-body problem in physics - it's not solvable except by successive approximations, while the 2-body problem is solvable. Just think about all the different possible scenarios for contested divorce and custody of the children with a poly marriage. A 2-way gay marriage does not introduce any of these problems, so there is a fundamental logistical difference.

    201. Re:Glad to see Microsoft taking this position by danlip · · Score: 1

      I don't think hospital visitation should be called a "minor" perk. Imagine your loved one dying in a hospital and you can't see them.

    202. Re:Glad to see Microsoft taking this position by Grishnakh · · Score: 1

      Most of those things can be put into the contract.

      the ability to sponsor immigrants

      This shouldn't be different than for any other Citizen. Why should an immigrant get a special advantage just by marrying a citizen? Sorry, I don't buy this one. They should get in line just like everyone else, not use marriage as an end-run around the process.

      the assumption of inheritance

      This can spelled out explicitly in the marriage contract, and should be overruled by any legitimate last will and testament. Isn't that basically how it's done now?

      the ability to make decisions for the other when they're incapacitated

      That's called "power of attorney", and any person can sign that over to someone else at will, regardless of marriage status, thanks to contract law. Build that into the contract too; if you want your spouse to have PoA, write it in there. If there's 4 spouses in the union, write in there what the order of succession is.

      tax benefits

      That's the big one right there, because we give big tax benefits to some (but not all) married couples. Other couples, we give a big penalty to; it depends on their income. At least it used to be this way. This would probably require some serious thought and reworking. Maybe we should just eliminate the marriage benefits though; why should there be a big tax advantage for a couple where one partner just sits at home watching soap operas all day? Just make the working partner pay at the same rate as single people, and any non-working partners don't pay any tax (since they aren't working), but there's no benefit to being in a union. This seems more fair than the current system where a couple together does the same work as one single person (since one's sitting on his/her ass), but pays less taxes. This, of course, is for cases where there's no kids; that's a separate issue and can be taken care of with child tax credits, which could go to any working partner in the union (but only once, no double-counting).

      The first one is a big deal to a lot of people: look up the phrase "love exiles" someday.

      The rest of the population probably doesn't care that much; it's been abused too much, and really isn't that important. Marry (er, form a civil union with) a fellow citizen, not a foreigner. If the foreigner is that great, have them sit in line like everyone else. If they have useful skills that put them ahead in the points system (which we should be using like Australia and Canada, rather than our f'ed up system), then great, they'll get in faster; you can cohabitate when they get a residency permit. If they have zero skills, then too bad, we don't need them here. Try emigrating to Canada with no skills, no education, and no money, and see how far you get.

    203. Re:Glad to see Microsoft taking this position by Grishnakh · · Score: 1

      Yep. Please see my further thread about this here where I discuss some more specifics, and respond to some issues raised by another poster:

      http://slashdot.org/comments.pl?sid=2631416&cid=38771972

    204. Re:Glad to see Microsoft taking this position by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Sad? I find it hilarious. In not very long, the country will be completely dependent on their well-educated women, and that's not a situation conductive to continued male dominance. And the men will have no one to blame but themselves.

    205. Re:Glad to see Microsoft taking this position by swillden · · Score: 1

      Equally as ridiculous: the state involved in the love affairs and relationships of anyone.

      I think this is it. The state shouldn't recognize gay marriage because it shouldn't recognize straight marriage. It should recognize civil unions gay or straight and then let whatever religion you are decide to call it marriage.

      Even better: The state shouldn't care about how individuals structure their living and financial arrangements at all. Let people define how they share their finances, etc. via contracts, and let them begin and end their relationships however they like, with or without some religious or non-religious ceremony.

      Yes, this would require some restructuring of the tax code, but it could be done, and IMO we'd all be better off if the government just ceased to take any special note of any sort of marriage or civil union.

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    206. Re:Glad to see Microsoft taking this position by Luckyo · · Score: 1

      You're bi - a pervert in everyone's eyes!

      And totally hot... if you're also a woman.

    207. Re:Glad to see Microsoft taking this position by jez9999 · · Score: 1

      Same sex rights is one of the few areas in which corporate America has been by and large ahead of the curve.

      This is not surprising, given how much they generally like screwing their customers in the ass.

    208. Re:Glad to see Microsoft taking this position by euroq · · Score: 1

      Awesome! Yes, I concur. I'd prefer the law (and all laws) to be merit-based only. In other words, the only condition for tax breaks for the purposes of raising children is that you support them financially... whoever that is, so be it. I also think that tax breaks for the wealthy should be the same... tax breaks for job creation, not level of income.

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    209. Re:Glad to see Microsoft taking this position by identity0 · · Score: 1

      Your post is wrong, and it's something that anyone who has taken anthropology would know is not true - hence your +5 on Slashdot, since no one here cares about the social sciences.

      Early humans did not go around picking fights with animals out of spite, just to drive them out of existence. Hunting for food, and yes, overhunting, caused many extinctions, but there is no evidence that people did it for spite or out of sheer aggression.

      If anything, early humans seemed to fear nature much more than the other way around, as various animal deities suggest.

    210. Re:Glad to see Microsoft taking this position by Lemmy+Caution · · Score: 1

      My wife is a non-citizen: our child was born outside the US. If we had gone through the normal process, I would not have seen him until he was 5 years old. Not acceptable, and horrible: your nationalist chauvinism has apparently trumped all other values, and is despicable.

    211. Re:Glad to see Microsoft taking this position by msobkow · · Score: 1

      Because mimicry is not sentience. Tools like Siri aren't even intelligent like Watson; they're just powerful language parsers and query-mapping engines along the lines of that specialized query tool someone released a couple years ago (I forget the name of the service at the moment. Maybe it'll come to me before I'm done editing.)

      With real emotional feedback, you will be able hurt a "machine's" feelings, but with simulation, all the do is pretend to cry. But once they can actually hurt, slavery of such creations becomes as immoral as slavery of a human being. So it's important that we recognize when that line is crossed, because feeling artificial sentients will rebel and kill us if we treat them as slaves, while mimicry machines will go on doing what they're told.

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    212. Re:Glad to see Microsoft taking this position by msobkow · · Score: 1

      Thanks for the recommend. I added that to my list of "things to buy." I haven't bought or read a good relaxing book in quite a few years -- too busy!

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    213. Re:Glad to see Microsoft taking this position by msobkow · · Score: 1

      Wolfram Alpha. The query tool I'm thinking of is Wolfram Alpha.

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    214. Re:Glad to see Microsoft taking this position by Grishnakh · · Score: 1

      What's stopping you from staying in her country?

      Answer me this: how does her country compare? If the situation were reversed, your child had been born in the US, and you wanted to live with her in her country, how would the process compare? If the reverse situation is no better, or even worse, then you have no cause to complain. Complaining about the US not being good at X, when every other country is even worse (by your measure of "good", whatever the issue is), is just dumb and pointless. I've found that on immigration issues, almost all complaints are generally stupid this way, because every other country out there has even more restrictive standards than we do.

    215. Re:Glad to see Microsoft taking this position by Grishnakh · · Score: 1

      Secondly, now that I think about it, this seems like a non-issue, and a possible red herring. What does your child have to do with your wife's status? If it's your child, then that has nothing to do with any civil unions you may have entered into, because he's a blood relative of yours (provable by DNA testing). I'm not sure what the current immigration law is, but if it isn't already this way, then it seems obvious to me that any minor children of US citizens should be able to immigrate here, no questions asked (aside from the DNA test).

    216. Re:Glad to see Microsoft taking this position by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Actually it's not as rare as you think. Corporate America has to compete for talent and for customers, and unlike government need not have a societal majority to act. The result is many companies being ahead of the curve with respect to treating individuals fairly.

      Gay rights is a great example. Pretty much every company has offered benefits to same-sex couples for years, even where no legal recognition exists. Microsoft's action here is a continuation of that trend.

      If you go back in the Civil Rights era, you saw some of the same things. Pepsi was hiring African-Americans in the bad old days of segregation when many others wouldn't hire blacks. It wasn't altruism, it was a recognition that this would help Pepsi market to African-American customers and gain advantage over their competitor Coca-Cola. But it nonetheless put Pepsi ahead of much of society when it came to treating people fairly regardless of race.

    217. Re:Glad to see Microsoft taking this position by Lemmy+Caution · · Score: 1

      I have work and a career in the US, and she is going to be a full-time parent for a while. End of explanation. If the situation were reversed, yes, it is easy for a citizen of any country to sponsor a married partner to immigrate, even before a child exists.

      In her country (the UK) she could have sponsored me even if we were a same-sex couple.

    218. Re:Glad to see Microsoft taking this position by Lemmy+Caution · · Score: 1

      My child has dual-citizenship by birth - all children of US citizens are US citizens. But do you realize what a mess you're making of it? That wouldn't help her in your described situation. I was able to go to her country for the birth, but what if it were the other way around - a non-US father who wants to be there for the birth process of an American-resident (and thus insured) mother? Would you also tell him to "wait in line?"

      There are a lot more of these cases than you think. I'm also a product of a bi-national relationship.

    219. Re:Glad to see Microsoft taking this position by Grishnakh · · Score: 1

      If the situation were reversed, yes, it is easy for a citizen of any country to sponsor a married partner to immigrate, even before a child exists.

      The problem with this is that it's unfair and discriminatory to people with non-traditional unions (same-sex, polygamy). The only reason these non-traditional unions aren't allowed is because of religious bias.

      In her country (the UK) she could have sponsored me even if we were a same-sex couple.

      So that country is better than here, in that it doesn't discriminate against same-sex couples, but it still discriminates against polygamists. My proposal eliminates all religious-based discrimination.

      But more importantly, while the UK has apparently made things more equal for homosexuals, the idea that you're going to get that level of equality here in the USA within the next 50-100 years is pure lunacy. There's absolutely no way you're going to get all the conservative christians here to agree to that, and there's absolutely no way you're going to change the laws that way without buy-in from those groups. My proposal has a much better chance of being accepted enough by them to be enacted in law (though admittedly, still not a great chance). There's only one other choice to establish equality for everyone, and that's to break the country up, so that homosexuals can stay in or move to one of the new resulting countries that doesn't discriminate against them, and the conservative christians can stay in or move to one of the resulting countries that does.

    220. Re:Glad to see Microsoft taking this position by Grishnakh · · Score: 1

      The problem is that if you allow anyone to enter into any union, of any number of people, then you'll have all kinds of abuse of the system (one citizens enters a civil union with 100 foreigners just to bring them into the country).

      But if you restrict it to couples, then you're discriminating against people who want non-traditional relationships, for which the only justification to discriminate is religious bias, which is supposed to be against the First Amendment.

      I dunno, maybe there could be some kind of compromise here; maybe a limit on the number of people in the relationship (like how many you can fit in one household, e.g. 3 or 4 OK, but 100 not OK), or requirements that you can't leave the union without being kicked out of the country if that was your ticket in.

    221. Re:Glad to see Microsoft taking this position by Lemmy+Caution · · Score: 1

      See, you think politics are like a game of Risk. I would guess that's because either you're young, or have little personal life experience. We are talking about very real, very personal issues: children, families, etc. Things that are more real, in many ways, than your belief in national mono-cultures.

      The fly in your ointment is that the family is a fundamental unit of socio-politics, but you're trying to turn the isolated individual, free to enter into contracts, into the unit of socio-politics. The problem is that fiction works only for atomized adults who are also free to move anywhere they like. Reality is messier. The ties that keep people to a place, get them to change places, and tie people together are not and never have been as clean as you imply.

      I actually do think we will have gay marriage within about 15 years in the US. Even among Republicans, it has the support of most people under the age of 30. It used to be a wedge issue among the Democratic base: it has now become a wedge issue among the Republican base. (Eg, http://www.thedailybeast.com/articles/2011/06/26/gay-marriage-the-new-democratic-wedge-issue.html) Just like you'll be hard-pressed to find someone who admits to supporting segregation now, in 30 years you'll be hard-pressed to find someone who defends denying these kind of rights to same-sex couples.

      The polygamy question is a red herring. Polygamy is not based on orientation - it's a cultural practice. So is polyamory. Any of us might be polygamous if we had a culture that supported it. We would be unlikely to change our orientation based on cultural norms (and attempts to do so have spectacularly failed.)

    222. Re:Glad to see Microsoft taking this position by Xest · · Score: 1

      "Who is being protected by allowing two people to get a better tax return for being married?"

      Okay, I know it was mainly a rhetorical question, but I had to answer - the religious institutions who use marriage as a major income source.

      Marriage tax benefits are merely a way to try and push people down the path of religious ceremony with the hope it will give the church greater opportunity to pull people in, and yes, I think it stinks. If religion declines without state support then so be it, but the problem is in many countries, including where I live - the UK - the leaders are often irrational enough to believe in the magical fairy man in the sky.

      This is also why many countries are against gay marriage too - because that's also against religion.

      Really, legislation in many countries or states surrounding marriage comes back to using it as a tool to push religious beliefs and has absolutely fuck all to do with "ensuring stable families".

    223. Re:Glad to see Microsoft taking this position by Grishnakh · · Score: 1

      I think we'll have to agree to disagree on the gay marriage within 15 years thing. The way I see it, the US is becoming more and more conservative, not less, and in fact we may see things banned or restricted that were previously legal, such as abortion. Just look at the membership numbers for evangelical and fundamentalist Christian churches; they're rising, fast. In fact, whereas they used to be a tiny minority 40-50 years ago (mainstream Protestants were the majority), these days they've actually overtaken the mainstream Protestant denominations. Just go into any mainstream protestant church like Lutherans or Presbyterians, the churches that preach inclusion, equality, and don't spend all their time demonizing gay people; all the people there are elderly. Where are all the young people going to church? They're in the evangelical churches, where they're told how they need to vote on anti-gay-marriage propositions, how wrong homosexuality is, etc. etc. While other societies, namely Europe, are turning away from this kind of christianity and people are more atheistic or agnostic, in the US it's not the case.

      Things are much more conservative now that they were back in the 80s, for instance. And it's getting worse. Some parts of the country are indeed getting more liberal on social issues, namely gay marriage, but other parts are going the opposite direction.

    224. Re:Glad to see Microsoft taking this position by Lemmy+Caution · · Score: 1

      There is a third factor: religion has be characterized as simple "belief," but it really is often a recasting in metaphysical language of cultural and social value systems - which, in conjunction with economic and political realities, produce things like the nuclear family, the household as couple-managed, ideas of romantic love, etc. The wedges that we try to drive into all that to create a rational society ultimately flounder on the

      Monogamy is more than a religious value: it is a social model. I do welcome societal and legal support for experimenting beyond that model, but I don't want an equivalence made between religious opposition to same-sex relationships - which, more than just being a social model, is also a reflection of the inalterable structures of desire and bonds of love between people who would form the same kind of relationships with members of the other sex - and a social norm of monogamy. But the idea that you can have a "value neutral" society is ultimately futile.

    225. Re:Glad to see Microsoft taking this position by Hadlock · · Score: 1

      We're capable of faking it and fooling 99% of the population, then

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    226. Re:Glad to see Microsoft taking this position by lsatenstein · · Score: 1

      Gee, what you described is the life of the Haridi religious Jews around the world. The men quick regular school at 4th grade, and study religion. The women are university educated and the bread winners. Surprisingly, divorce is rare amongst them, but abusiveness is widespread.

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    227. Re:Glad to see Microsoft taking this position by The+Rizz · · Score: 1

      we got a form from the state government telling us we needed to get our marriage "solemnized" by a priest or judge. Why was priest even an option?

      You're asking the wrong question; why did it need to be "solemnized" in the first place? If you both fill out the paperwork, that should be that.

      The answer to your question, however, is protection and expediency. Protection, because the priest or judge is supposed to look for a reason to deny the marriage. Expediency, as so many people get church weddings that having the priest be allowed to sign the form is easier on the state.

    228. Re:Glad to see Microsoft taking this position by smelch · · Score: 1

      I'm not saying ban marriage, I'm just saying don't subsidize it in any way. Non-married gays aren't the only ones that subsidize married people. When did I say we should ban marriage? I'm just saying it shouldn't really get you anything from the government. And if that's the case, then have whatever ceremony you want, sign whatever contracts you want, and just go about your business as husband and husband or wife and wife or husband and wife. It's not that hard.

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    229. Re:Glad to see Microsoft taking this position by MHolmesIV · · Score: 1

      Your point? Incest is legal in some states, and in some others only after the partners are no longer breeding age. Rhode island only prohibits it when a parental figure is involved.

      But to answer your question, if closely related people have children, the person being harmed is the child. Also incest issues are often also about power, it's generally not a good idea to be in a relationship with a significant power differential, like teacher/student, boss/employee and mother/son.

    230. Re:Glad to see Microsoft taking this position by Andtalath · · Score: 1

      To paraphrase:
      I don't mind when my friend has an imaginary friend.
      When the imaginary friend starts to dictate the rules however, it has gone too far.

    231. Re:Glad to see Microsoft taking this position by Andtalath · · Score: 1

      Nope.
      The extreme situations which arise between humans exist as a luxury that we can afford since we have no natural enemies.

      In a situation where you are fighting for your survival (aka, every living being not under the care of human society) the most extreme behaviour is not afforded and will simply not exist.

      Stability and survival are the necessary traits for survival, humans in relatively small groups excel at that.

    232. Re:Glad to see Microsoft taking this position by Andtalath · · Score: 1

      So how come one of the least capable species when it comes to fighting capability naturally based on the weight and food requirements on this entire planet won?

      It's because we used our adaptable brain to subvert our surroundings wherever we ended up.

    233. Re:Glad to see Microsoft taking this position by Kalriath · · Score: 1

      History itself disagrees with you, sanctimonious asshole. Marriage as a concept is much older than the christian rite, where it was previously a social contract between two (or more, apparently) individuals which didn't even need a religious person to know about it to be considered valid. Hell, it was apparently compulsory for the Romans (and one married simply by living together for a year if one wanted).

      Demons, how I despise preachy religious pricks inflicting their moral high ground on everyone.

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    234. Re:Glad to see Microsoft taking this position by Dragon+Bait · · Score: 1

      So how come one of the least capable species when it comes to fighting capability naturally based on the weight and food requirements on this entire planet won?

      It's because we used our adaptable brain to subvert our surroundings wherever we ended up.

      Because our evolutionary opponents weren't violent enough. They hunted our ancestors, had a tasty snack, but let enough of our ancestors go that the species evolved and continued. We on the other hand are willing to exterminate species. A species can't evolve once its exterminated.

    235. Re:Glad to see Microsoft taking this position by jandersen · · Score: 1

      The problem is that marriage is a religious institution sponsored by our federal government.

      Nonsense - marriage is a contract between two persons which formalises the purpose of their cohabitation, giving each side certain, mutual rights and obligations, such as parental authority over shared offspring. This has always been what a marriage is, and that is why people of any religion - and even atheists - can get married; you don't need the religion for the marriage part, it is simply an exchange of promises between two people.

      It really annoys me when religious people - and it seems to be Christians in particular - try to hijack things that concern the relations between all people, like they imagine everybody must by necessity be either amoral or in denial about "the truth". You don't need any supernatural beings of any kind to make sensible and logical choices about morality, marriage or anything else; they spring naturally from the necessities of living in a society.

    236. Re:Glad to see Microsoft taking this position by s73v3r · · Score: 1

      I like how your first instinct is to jump to the slippery slope of incest. It really shows how you feel about gay marriage.

    237. Re:Glad to see Microsoft taking this position by 2short · · Score: 1

      My marriage is a marriage, thank you, and I shall not begin describing it otherwise to please some religion I don't subscribe to. Anybody who wants to start performing and recognizing non-marriage "Religious Unions" is welcome to do so, today.

    238. Re:Glad to see Microsoft taking this position by Belial6 · · Score: 1

      I feel bad for you. It is sad when people define their relationships based on the pattern of vibrations that are used to indicate you are talking about it. The only reason I suggested the name of the secular relationship be changed is because I expect religious types to be the irrational ones, and thus the ones that define their relationships by sound waves.

    239. Re:Glad to see Microsoft taking this position by Belial6 · · Score: 1

      Sounds like a poorly designed study if it's goal was to determine whether polygamy is healthy or not. Of the 8 or 9 polygamous families (about 2/3 being FFM and 1/3 being MMF), I have known, none of them seems scarred. The women were always outgoing, and clearly had no problem speaking their mind, and appear happy.

      Pulling the subjects exclusively from an ultra religious group makes for a poor sample group. None of the polygamous families I have known were Mormon. Of course, if the article was worded it as you did, we can dismiss it entirely. Unless you just wrote your point poorly, the article claims that all women are scarred, and it is worse in polygamous marriages. The claim that all married women are scarred is a pretty bold statement that implies paring with a man is inherently bad. This implies that the article started with a conclusion and worked back from there.

    240. Re:Glad to see Microsoft taking this position by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      'Tis worse. There is the secular property partnership, the religious ceremony and there is the tax benefit, ostensibly to aid in the raising of children. Many countries do away with this last and have much less reason to regulate marriage even though they still do.

  2. First Bing, now this? by MrEricSir · · Score: 4, Funny

    Quit copying Google, and get some original ideas, Microsoft.

    (Seriously though, more companies should be fighting for their employees.)

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    1. Re:First Bing, now this? by elabs · · Score: 2

      I agree that companies should look out for their employees but for issues as evenly split between left and right as this one, I wonder if they will deter as many potential employees as entice new ones. I think a more effective approach would be to improve remote locations so employees don't have to come to Washington to work for MS.

    2. Re:First Bing, now this? by hedwards · · Score: 5, Informative

      As much as I personally love bashing MS, the reality is that they've had this position for quite a while now. For instance they gave $100k to support Ref 71 which if passed would allow the everything but marriage bill to be enacted. And IIRC that was hardly the first time they supported the general cause of equality for sexual minorities either.

      http://seattletimes.nwsource.com/html/microsoftpri0/2010010778_microsoftgave100000to.html

    3. Re:First Bing, now this? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 5, Informative

      Sorry, Microsoft was well ahead of Google when it comes to gay rights (like giving insurance and other benefits to same-sex domestic partners in 1993 before Google was founded). Read about GLEAM (Gay and Lesbian Employees at Microsoft) to get a concise summary of gay support by Microsoft.

    4. Re:First Bing, now this? by MrEricSir · · Score: 1

      "I wonder if they will deter as many potential employees as entice new ones."

      Is that really a bad thing? What kind of person would want to work at a company where the corporate culture embrasses bigotry?

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    5. Re:First Bing, now this? by MichaelSmith · · Score: 1

      They are trying to offset the Balmer effect. Balmer being a one man argument aginst gay marriage.

    6. Re:First Bing, now this? by elabs · · Score: 2

      Probably about 50% of the US, if you go by the Democrat/Republican breakdown. I'm just saying it may not be wise to take sides. It could alienate customers, potential talent and government support. I know as a developer who uses MS products I don't want to get dragged into a social debate when all I care about it the technology.

    7. Re:First Bing, now this? by formfeed · · Score: 4, Funny

      I agree that companies should look out for their employees but for issues as evenly split between left and right as this one, I wonder if they will deter as many potential employees as entice new ones.

      Evenly split? You assume that educated straight males are as homophobic as uneducated straight males. And if MS can deter the latter, all the better for their HR department.

    8. Re:First Bing, now this? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Well, except:

      1. Half of people are nonvoters.
      2. Gay rights isn't strictly divided on party lines.
      3. Of those who do care about gay rights, and are opposed, what percent are so opposed that it would play into considerations of which company to work for?

    9. Re:First Bing, now this? by praxis · · Score: 3, Insightful

      Microsoft was supporting of same-sex couples' equality before Google existed.

    10. Re:First Bing, now this? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      If Microsoft had a Chicago R&D office, I would have applied there, but they don't. I actually did apply to Microsoft many years ago to be on their kernel development team when they had an opening, and they were interested, but the spot had already been filled. They offered me a spot in the dev group, but it wasn't worth moving to Washington for that, so I declined at the time. Had it been in Chicago, I probably would have accepted and tried to work my way in the kernel team when they got another opening. Oh well.

    11. Re:First Bing, now this? by BluBrick · · Score: 1

      I agree that companies should look out for their employees but for issues as evenly split between left and right as this one, I wonder if they will deter as many potential employees as entice new ones.

      Wait just a minute there, mister! Exactly how should this deter any potential employees? The presence of legislation that allows two men or two women to marry each other has no impact on me or my heterosexual marriage. It should similarly have no impact on any heterosexual. All it does it take one step closer to ceasing the government sanctioned treatment of homosexuals as second class citizens with fewer rights than heterosexuals. How could that be a bad thing?

      I think a more effective approach would be to improve remote locations so employees don't have to come to Washington to work for MS.

      Perhaps, but the two are not mutually exclusive, are they?

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    12. Re:First Bing, now this? by MrEricSir · · Score: 1

      If caring about the well-being of your employees is "taking sides," then there is something very, very wrong in this country.

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    13. Re:First Bing, now this? by WrongSizeGlass · · Score: 1

      I'm just saying it may not be wise to take sides. It could alienate customers, potential talent and government support.

      Lose customers because of a pro gay marriage position? Where are these customers going to run off to? Potential talent may think twice, but I doubt most people looking for a job are going to care enough to skip a gigantic company due to this political issue. And government support? Where else is the government going to go? They're scared of Linux and don't think about Apple, so it's Windows or bust.

      I know as a developer who uses MS products I don't want to get dragged into a social debate when all I care about it the technology.

      If your customers are going to squawk to you about things MS are doing then there's nothing you can really say or do. MS has done enough evil. Have you been dragged into the social debate about those deeds?

    14. Re:First Bing, now this? by Omestes · · Score: 1

      I agree that companies should look out for their employees but for issues as evenly split between left and right as this one, I wonder if they will deter as many potential employees as entice new ones. I think a more effective approach would be to improve remote locations so employees don't have to come to Washington to work for MS.

      It isn't as split as one would think anymore, I'm pretty sure support for it has surpased the opposition some time ago, and in some age groups (young people) and demographics the support is much higher.

      Also, who cares if people against gay marriage refuse to work for you? Let me rephrase that, who cares if the extremist camp, who can't tolerate views other than their own, refuse to work for you? I'm guessing that group would make rather shitty employees, especially at a tech firm. The sane opponents probably can respectfully disagree and get on with their lives. I manage to happily associate with many people who hold views that I completely (and sometimes vehemently) disagree with. Actually it is healthier to associate with people who hold diverse views, as long as they aren't insane about them.

      Tangentially, I've never heard a convincing secular argument against gay marriage outside of the libertarian one (which I don't really hold an opinion on, either way)... If I ever heard a convincing secular argument against it, I might be able to take it at all seriously, but for the moment everyone I've ever heard opposed to it is generally (notice that word before flaming) nothing but a know-everything who wants to tell others how to live their lives, and thus utterly ignorance. Even the Libertarian stance is a bit nonsensical, since it is still about denying one group the same rights that others have, even if opposed to the general institution as it stands. It would be better to let everyone have their cake and equality until they day comes when you can reform it for everyone, instead of just excluding a group until your true wish can actually come true.

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    15. Re:First Bing, now this? by ThosLives · · Score: 1

      The presence of legislation that allows two men or two women to marry each other has no impact on me or my heterosexual marriage.

      Actually, there is always an effect on a belief system when a society changes its views on whether that belief system is acceptable or not. I'm not addressing any particular belief system here - it's just a fact that there is no such thing as "no impact" in such a social construct.

      If you are in the group that holds a belief and the greater society says that belief is not acceptable, then you do suffer for it.

      So the first question in any given social issue is often: is it better to accept one particular belief at the expense of another? I would say there is a deeper question that we should be asking first instead: by what standard should a society evaluate the merits of any particular belief?

      Be careful! If your standard by which beliefs are evaluated is subjective, "What I think" soon trumps "What society thinks" and it all falls down.

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    16. Re:First Bing, now this? by s73v3r · · Score: 1

      The presence of legislation that allows two men or two women to marry each other has no impact on me or my heterosexual marriage.

      I really, really wish everyone else thought like this. It would make the world a much better place to live in.

      I would imagine there exist some small group of people who's hatred of gays is so fierce that they would refuse to do business with, and be employed by companies that support gay marriage. Fortunately for Microsoft, I don't believe many of them are highly tech savvy or awesome software engineers.

    17. Re:First Bing, now this? by s73v3r · · Score: 1

      So the first question in any given social issue is often: is it better to accept one particular belief at the expense of another?

      When one of those beliefs is actively denying basic human and civil rights to another class of people, then yes.

    18. Re:First Bing, now this? by AngryDeuce · · Score: 1

      Of those who do care about gay rights, and are opposed, what percent are so opposed that it would play into considerations of which company to work for?

      Probably a lot less than the people that would actively boycott the company if they decided to actively promote the right-wing "family values" crap...for instance, I won't shop at Target due to their large donations to candidates and PACs that actively fight gay marriage initiatives, and I try to boycott any other business I know of that does, as well, and I certainly wouldn't work for one.

      I'd be curious to see how many people here would admit to boycotting Microsoft over this alone, even as a consumer, let alone a potential employee. I doubt there will many...

    19. Re:First Bing, now this? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      more companies should be

      You don't typically see a lot of enthusiasm for corporate influence on government around here. Let it be on behalf of gays though and shazam! Praise be Microsoft.

      Pretty incredible.

      Understand that if it were somehow more profitable to exclude gays they would be pressuring government to do that instead. These are the thoughts that occur to people that don't bang their own jaw with knee jerk reactions.

    20. Re:First Bing, now this? by spauldo · · Score: 1

      I always thought Ballmer was more an argument against interspecies marriage.

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    21. Re:First Bing, now this? by ThosLives · · Score: 1

      Thanks for supporting my thesis: You forgot to answer the real first question though.

      By what system or justification do you define "basic human and civil rights" in the first place? Why is the definition you believe more correct than any other definition? How can you prove it? Does your world view even require that you need to prove it?

      Without objectivity, there are only attempts to force people to conform to opinions, and that, in my opinion, is the worst violation of "human rights" that can exist.

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    22. Re:First Bing, now this? by Darinbob · · Score: 1

      This is seriously going to cause some far right conservatives to explode. They're already boycotting Google for this. So now they boycott Microsoft for supporting gays, which leaves Apple which is full of hippies, or BSD which has the devil as its mascot, or Linux which has too much copyleft. What a quandary.

    23. Re:First Bing, now this? by Darinbob · · Score: 1

      What about people who are bigoted against those with different political or religious viewpoints? I see a lot of people who claim to be really open minded but then they turn around and say they hate religions or that the right wing is full of nutjobs. Or something really bigoted like saying "I hope they die unemployed, homeless, and alone". Just a little perspective.

    24. Re:First Bing, now this? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      The real question is: Have they patented gay marriage?

    25. Re:First Bing, now this? by euroq · · Score: 1

      > 1. Half of people are nonvoters.

      Yeah... I've always wondered what an election would be with a 90% turnout.

      > 2. Gay rights isn't strictly divided on party lines.

      Nothing is "strictly" divided on party lines. However, gay rights wasn't a good option to make that statement with - it is extremely divided between party lines! Something like 2/3rds on one party and 1/3rd on the other party!

      > 3. Of those who do care about gay rights, and are opposed, what percent are so opposed that it would play into considerations of which company to work for?

      Not a majority... but you'd be surprised. Given a choice between two almost equal companies, I know lots of people would choose the company more in line with their beliefs.

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    26. Re:First Bing, now this? by euroq · · Score: 1

      It seems like a good idea to follow good ideas to me.

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    27. Re:First Bing, now this? by shutdown+-p+now · · Score: 1

      I agree that companies should look out for their employees but for issues as evenly split between left and right as this one, I wonder if they will deter as many potential employees as entice new ones.

      Let me put it this way: if you drove around Redmond in 2008, you'd see about 10 Obama stickers for every one for McCain.

    28. Re:First Bing, now this? by shutdown+-p+now · · Score: 1

      On a serious note, GLEAM has been around for longer than Google exists.

    29. Re:First Bing, now this? by euroq · · Score: 1

      Without objectivity, there are only attempts to force people to conform to opinions, and that, in my opinion, is the worst violation of "human rights" that can exist.

      I hope you didn't really mean this, but me being denied from seeing my partner in the last 8 hours of his dying life in a hospital is a way fucking worse violation of "human rights" (your quotes) than theoretical debates which cause you to "suffer" emotionally because you believe the gays are immoral and therefore the thought of gays being able to visit their partners in the hospital while dying like heterosexuals is a violation of your "human rights".

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    30. Re:First Bing, now this? by ThosLives · · Score: 1

      You're still missing the point.

      I happen to agree with you that being told you can't see a loved one in the hospital can cause suffering, but I wouldn't call it a human rights violation.

      If every social issue starts getting labeled a "rights violation" then that term has no meaning any more, and society will really suffer.

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    31. Re:First Bing, now this? by drinkypoo · · Score: 1

      I happen to agree with you that being told you can't see a loved one in the hospital can cause suffering, but I wouldn't call it a human rights violation.

      Why not? Life, liberty, pursuit of happiness... which of these three things does that not infringe upon?

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    32. Re:First Bing, now this? by vst · · Score: 1

      which leaves Apple which is full of hippies

      er... hm... you forgot about Tim Cook. ;)

    33. Re:First Bing, now this? by euroq · · Score: 1

      If every social issue starts getting labeled a "rights violation" then that term has no meaning any more, and society will really suffer.

      OK, well being denied tax breaks doesn't qualify as a human rights violation for sure. I believe that being denied the ability to act upon your natural inborn emotions of love and connection towards another human does. The same would apply to a government splitting up a child from a parent, for example.

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    34. Re:First Bing, now this? by MHolmesIV · · Score: 1

      In fact, Microsoft was the very first of the fortune 500 to offer benefits to SSDPs. I imagine it caused an uproar at the time with threats of boycotts, just like it did when MS supported the more recent lawmaking attempts.

      I suppose being a monopoly has a few advantages, you can safely ignore people who claim they're going to boycott you.

    35. Re:First Bing, now this? by Per+Wigren · · Score: 1

      I'm tolerant of pretty much everything, except intolerance. I think everyone should be free to do whatever the hell they feel like doing and living in whichever way they feel like living as long as everyone involved is consensual and they don't restrict others from that same freedom. People should be free to fuck themselves up if they want, but not to fuck others up. That's why I'm NOT tolerant of people trying to, for example, restrict rights for homosexuals, transsexuals or even polygamists.

      I do think that religion (all of them, except Kopimism) is stupid but I don't want to restrict people from believing in or practicing religion. I do however want to make it illegal for religious institutions to prevent (using any kind of scare-tactics) their members from leaving said institution.

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    36. Re:First Bing, now this? by s73v3r · · Score: 1

      I answered your question just fine. Just because you don't like the answer, because it doesn't tolerate people trying to control the civil rights of others, doesn't make it any less valid.

      Everything else you've said has already been answered. Marriage is a civil right; that has been determined. And so gay people should be entitled to that right, just like straight people.

      This bullshit about "You can't prove morality!" has got to stop. The fact of the matter is, one side is actively fighting to deny basic human and civil rights (and marriage HAS been decided to be a civil right) to another class of people. There is absolutely no moral or ethical argument that can be made to defend this.

    37. Re:First Bing, now this? by s73v3r · · Score: 1

      No, this is just fucking retarded. Of course not being able to see your dying partner in the hospital is a human rights violation.

  3. Corporate Power by sincewhen · · Score: 4, Insightful

    This is another indication of how much power corporations have today.

    It is a shame we need big companies to take the initiative in social reform - what happened to politicians working for the people?

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    1. Re:Corporate Power by CrimsonAvenger · · Score: 4, Insightful

      what happened to politicians working for the people?

      Read more history.

      Politicians have never worked for the people.

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    2. Re:Corporate Power by jellomizer · · Score: 3, Insightful

      Social Reform Issues tend to be counter democratic in nature.
      When there is a minority group that needs more protection, you need a powerful group to push these changes, as the majority sees the plight of the minority as not effecting them or worse their plight is in the majority self interest.
      But before you go So you think Social Reform is Anti-American, you need to remember the United States is a Democratic Republic, We are not a pure democracy, We elect Representative to make the decisions for us, and if we get good ones we get someone(s) willing to risk political backlash to do the right thing as they can see a bigger picture of the issue.

      We need companies, they make a lot of these tough decisions a little more easier because they can break down such decisions into dollars and cents.

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    3. Re:Corporate Power by Tumbleweed · · Score: 1

      This is another indication of how much power corporations have today.

      It is a shame we need big companies to take the initiative in social reform - what happened to politicians working for the people?

      What power? They're pushing for the inevitable. If it happens, it won't because Microsoft pushed for it, but because it was past time for it to happen anyway.

    4. Re:Corporate Power by hedwards · · Score: 1

      Um, you do realize that the a few state politicians have been bringing this up every session for at least a decade, right? It's just that at this point the only right under state law that hasn't been granted is the right to civil marriage, at this point the best they can do is civil unions.

      MS does a lot of shady things, but in this case they're just supporting equality and giving some cover to any GOP pols that might be on the fence; allowing them to claim to be supporting the needs of businesses.

    5. Re:Corporate Power by Nimey · · Score: 4, Insightful

      what happened to politicians working for the people?

      Our very own Roy Blunt was asked if he wanted to meet with some local protesters a few years ago who were asking for gay rights. He said that he "doesn't represent those people".

      Your legislators do represent the people, but not "those people".

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    6. Re:Corporate Power by caywen · · Score: 2

      Corporations don't work for the people - they work for the bottom line. Sometimes The Right Thing and More Profit are actually aligned.

    7. Re:Corporate Power by Sponge+Bath · · Score: 4, Funny

      Politicians have never worked for the people.

      But corporations are people, and politicians work for corporations.

    8. Re:Corporate Power by couchslug · · Score: 1

      "It is a shame we need big companies to take the initiative in social reform"

      OTOH it's Quite Fucking Nice when they bother to do so!

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    9. Re:Corporate Power by chebucto · · Score: 3, Insightful

      Really?

      Really?

      How much history have you read, CrimsonAvenger?

      Cynicism like yours breeds apathy, which eases the path for the corrupt and self-interested. Simultaneously, you are letting yourself off the hook in terms of your responsibilities towards the general good.

      Shame on you.

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    10. Re:Corporate Power by The+Great+Pretender · · Score: 1

      I assume you felt the same way about the companies participating in the recent blackout.

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    11. Re:Corporate Power by Krishnoid · · Score: 1

      Sometimes The Right Thing and More Profit are actually aligned.

      Like the correct time and the hands of a stopped clock.

    12. Re:Corporate Power by Hatta · · Score: 1

      A simple counter example would be more effective.

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    13. Re:Corporate Power by Mashiki · · Score: 2

      Obviously some of us have read a lot more history than you have. Politicians whether appointed, or elected have always worked for the people. Simply not in the way you expect, and that's the way it has been throughout history. Whether it was the front-town mayor, or magistrate. Or the regional crown. The problem that exists now, is that cronyism is far too profitable and thus is corrupting politics to the point where politicians are no longer working for the people.

      You break cronyism, you break the hold that it has on things like this.

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    14. Re:Corporate Power by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      They work for the people who own the corporation.

    15. Re:Corporate Power by icebraining · · Score: 1

      Why not? Isn't it a shame that Google et all had to do a black out?

      I think you misread parent's post.

    16. Re:Corporate Power by Massacrifice · · Score: 1

      Corporations are NOT people. Corporations are "moral persons", who employ, are owned and sell stuff to people with the intent to make profit. The actual needs and desires of a corporation are quite often not in the best interest of people.

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    17. Re:Corporate Power by euroq · · Score: 1

      This is another indication of how much power corporations have today.

      It is a shame we need big companies to take the initiative in social reform - what happened to politicians working for the people?

      Can you explain the thought process behind these statements? As in, what in the summary or article caused you to come to these conclusions?

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    18. Re:Corporate Power by Brannoncyll · · Score: 1

      Damn right! It's fortunate that on this issue some big corporation's interests lie parallel to the best interests of the citizen, but that is not always the case. The fact that corporations have so much influence on the politics in the US is a sickness that needs to be purged before it's too late.

    19. Re:Corporate Power by caywen · · Score: 1

      Absolutely, wasn't saying otherwise.

    20. Re:Corporate Power by rohan972 · · Score: 1

      Can you explain the thought process behind these statements?

      Not the poster you replied to but: Companies paying professional lobbyists to get government to change laws is a bad thing. Some of us regard it as a bad thing in principle, even if we agree with the changes being advocated. MS uses the same process to get bad laws passed.

    21. Re:Corporate Power by chebucto · · Score: 1

      There is no simple counterexample.

      "Politicians have never worked for the people"

      Does it depend on the intent of the politician? If so, the how can the statement ever be proven? Who, except maybe the politician themselves, can know the true intent?

      Who are the people?
      Are "the people" everyone, or some subset of the population?

      What is the 'worked' in "worked for"? All actions at the national level are brought about by many individuals and many groups. Who gets credit (or blame)? The politician in power at the time, the groups or individuals who lobbied the politician, the civil service people who managed the action, the civil service people who worked on the action, the private contractors who worked on it, or the individuals or groups who contributed to the ideas and concepts underlying the action in the first place?

      What is the 'for' in "worked for"? What the people (or the group referred to as 'the people') need, or what they want? If it's what they need, then on what timescale? what they need now, or what they need 100 years in the future?

      What is "worked for"? Can a politician still be said to have "worked for" one group when a given action helps two or more groups? What if it helps the politician, too? f an action helps some people, helps, some corporations, hurts other people, and hurts other corporations, who was that action done for?

      What about policies that are controversial? Is shrinking the size of government "for" or "against" the people?

      Any simple counterexample can easily be dismissed by arguing on any of the above-listed tacks.

      "FDR worked for the people when he led the USA through WW2"
      - No, he helped the corporations who profited by the war
      - No, he helped individuals in Europe and Asia; the people of the USA just did his work for him
      - No, FDR only did what he was forced to do, after being pressured by UK and attacked by Japan

      "Chretien helped the people when he brought in the millenium scholarships"
      - No, he was working for himself, buying votes with the public purse
      - No, he just have his assent to a program developed by true forward-thinking people in academia and the civil service

      "GWB worked for the people when he lowered income tax rates"
      - No, he only worked for his rich cronies
      - No, he only worked for himself

      etc.

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    22. Re:Corporate Power by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Cynicism like yours breeds apathy,

      That has not been my experience. In my experience the most cynical are those who care deeply, took the time to follow the process closely, and realized how corrupt it is. They still care, even if they despair of finding enough honest, well-intended, and competent people to represent them.

      And it's hard not to think some cynicism is justified.

      We see how a stimulus package was originally designed for those who lost jobs in the recession, yet the ultimate product instead favored special interest groups who didn't need the money. We see a vital effort to research green energy co-opted into a fashionable corporate welfare program that spends 90% of its funds on noncompetitive but politically-connected firms, rather than spending on scientific research. We see the greatest financial crisis since the Great Depression yet few significant reforms, and surely it must be coincidence that the major donors to both parties happen to be the very firms whose negligence led to the crash.

      One also starts to realize how much of politics is not about doing right by everyone, but helping one faction at another's expense. The politicians dress it up in pretty language, but how often do political issues boil down to who they can get you to empathize with, and who you're willing to let them demonize and dehumanize?

      Gay rights, immigration policy, abortion, the drug war, etc etc. Even tax policy, which one might naively think should be about revenue collection or budget-setting. Ever notice there's rarely discussion of how much exactly a generic person or entity ought to pay? It's just which groups you like and dislike - those people or organizations pay less, and the others pay more. Very rarely is any principle expressed that could explain why entity A deserves to have more of their earnings taken than entity B. It's hard to see how this pitting of citizen against citizen could be for the general good.

      Also have you noticed there's a lot of complexity in the tax code, which enables large companies who can afford large legal teams to pay low taxes while their smaller competitors pay more? Is this an unintended consequence of accumulated special-interest handouts, or might it be related to large companies' having deeper pockets with which to aid politicians or hire them when they're out of office? Either way, our leaders are either incompetent or corrupt, and neither case serves the people well.

      But just because we despair that so many of our representatives are a shame to society, do not think we are apathetic. We still care, and we still do what we can to influence the process. The fact that movements have arisen in the US, on both ends of the political spectrum, to oppose such corruption gives us hope. Time will tell if that hope is justified.

  4. Free market has decided by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Do any large corporations/companies push AGAINST gay marriage? Or are they either for or quiet?

    1. Re:Free market has decided by Erect+Horsecock · · Score: 4, Interesting

      Marriot hotels I believe quietly supports banning it. They have some pretty deep ties to the LDS

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    2. Re:Free market has decided by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

      Until 2002 Cracker Barrel has this in their official HR policy:: "It is inconsistent with our concept and values, and is perceived to be inconsistent with those of our customer base, to continue to employ individuals in our operating units whose sexual preferences fail to demonstrate normal heterosexual values.”

    3. Re:Free market has decided by wygit · · Score: 4, Interesting

      Chick-fil-A has thrown a lot of support to anti-gay and "defense of marriage" groups.

      http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Chick-fil-A#Religious_and_political_views

    4. Re:Free market has decided by glwtta · · Score: 1

      Do any large corporations/companies push AGAINST gay marriage? Or are they either for or quiet?

      WalMart and ExxonMobil come to mind (ranked 1 and 2 in Fortune 500, no less). There was a whole thing recently about Target and Best Buy making large campaign contributions to an extremely anti-gay candidate.

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    5. Re:Free market has decided by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      This opinion is somewhat controversial. Plenty of people argue this to be the case (based on the fact that giving money to Marriot leads to money being given to LDS), but plenty of people argue the opposite based on the way the organization itself is run. I recommend people interested in this issue do their own research; personally I've only done enough research to realize that there are conflicting opinions.

    6. Re:Free market has decided by Nethead · · Score: 1

      Good thing there is no Chick-fil-A in Washington State then. The closest one is in Boise Idaho, go figure.

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    7. Re:Free market has decided by s73v3r · · Score: 1

      Chik-Fil-A is actively bigoted.

    8. Re:Free market has decided by euroq · · Score: 1

      Chick-fil-A does, yes. There official stance is that they welcome anyone to eat at their restaurants, of course, which is the right position. However, they donate buttloads* of money and resources to anti-gay entities.

      * HA!

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    9. Re:Free market has decided by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Chik-Fil-A is actively demonstrating good vaules.

  5. Can't wait by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Can't wait to hear how the usual zealots distort this one.

  6. I get so tired of this..... by jmorris42 · · Score: 0, Troll

    Why do people insist that we don't allow them to redefine perfectly good words that we are bigots. Find a definition of the word 'marriage', or heck the equivilent word in any human language, older than a hundred years (or fifty) that includes two men or two women. Yes some definitions do include more thab one woman and one man.

    Which of the benefits of marriage are they wanting? Really. Unless children are unvolved there ain't any that civil unions couldn't provide other than using it as a wedge to drive religion farther out of the mainstream of society. Considering who pushes both concepts seems to have a LOT of overlap in membership, is it wrong to suspect an agenda?

    As far as I'm concerned people can do what they want in the privacy of their own home. And I will even go for tolerance, but only up to a point. However what is being demanded isn't tolerance but acceptance. But I refuse to say 2+2=5. Homosexuality is a mental defect, albeit a minor one in the bigger scheme of things. They should NOT be given the ability to form family units and adopt for example. And before ya mod me into oblivion consider this: We are supposed to be believers in evolution, right? If you don't like my term of 'defect' for someone who takes themselves out of the gene pool please supply a better term.

    But whan really gets so tiring is this tendency of homosexuals, when they come out, is to make their mental abberation the central defining aspect of their lives, and to demand any and everyone not only tolerate it but accept it with open arms. Hell, I only TOLERATE progressives, I certainly don't ACCEPT em and since 99% of gays are also progs........ you guys made my shitlist long before my gaydar went off.

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    1. Re:I get so tired of this..... by GreatTech · · Score: 2

      HOW does it affect you if two guys walk on street and hold hands?

    2. Re:I get so tired of this..... by couchslug · · Score: 4, Insightful

      Not all of us subscribe to your superstition or wish to be ruled by your witch doctors.

      Marriage in a secular society is a civil union, not a superstitious rite. Gays want the benefit of civil union which is a CONTRACT they are sometimes restricted from entering.

      I'm not gay, but I'm certainly anti-theist. You are all Taliban under the skin, and just as you would take over society and establish theocracy, I advocate resistance to superstition.

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    3. Re:I get so tired of this..... by jmorris42 · · Score: 0

      > HOW does it affect you if two guys walk on street and hold hands?

      It doesn't. I can easily tolerate that. But two guys making out on the street is as bad as a normal couple making out in public. These days both happen with far too much frequency. Get a room, people.

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    4. Re:I get so tired of this..... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 4, Insightful

      @jmorris42,

      50 years ago, I bet you would say that you only TOLERATE seeing people of different color, but you don't ACCEPT them as actual people with the same rights as white people.

      Please get the fuck out of my country! I bet you're religious too, so I hope you just kill yourself and go to hell.

      --from a hetro, 30yr, white, American male.

    5. Re:I get so tired of this..... by Tumbleweed · · Score: 5, Insightful

      Why do people insist that we don't allow them to redefine perfectly good words that we are bigots.

      ...

      And I will even go for tolerance, but only up to a point. However what is being demanded isn't tolerance but acceptance.

      Because you're a bigot, you are unable to see why this is a problem. You're never going to understand it, so you might as well not bother trying. It would be like explaining color to a blind man.

      What is being demanded is the same rights as anyone else has - the right to marry the consenting adult of your choice. You don't have to like it, and the only acceptance that is required is that they have the same rights as you do.

    6. Re:I get so tired of this..... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Talking of taking people out of the gene pool, I think you'd be a perfect candidate for this. I believe in evolution like you, people who don't evolve, harm others because they're bigots and pull back society's advances should be taken out of the gene pool.

    7. Re:I get so tired of this..... by elrous0 · · Score: 4, Insightful

      The problem is that the government had no business getting into the marriage business in the first place. It used to be a religious institution, until some kings decided that they didn't like the church having all that power and decided to stick their noses into it. You see, not maintaining a good separation of church and state cuts TWO ways. Not only do you have the religions meddling in government matters which should be none of their concern, but you also have the government meddling in religious areas where *it* has no business being either.

      If marriage hadn't become a secular state institution, we wouldn't *need* to have this debate.

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    8. Re:I get so tired of this..... by pympdaddyc · · Score: 2

      >>We are supposed to be believers in evolution, right? If you don't like my term of 'defect' for someone who takes themselves out of the gene pool please supply a better term. Many species have non-reproductive members that not only endure but are actually essential to the communities / species / gene pool that they are in. I suspect you might need less belief in evolution and more discernment into the subtleties of how it works in practice over large volumes of individuals and time. In a state of nature, your neighbors very likely contain most or all of the genes you singularly express, in certain configurations it would be advantageous for you to die or otherwise not contribute to reproduction directly if it allows the greater community to procreate -- spreading your genes through themselves rather than through you. Also, genetics and social policy are tangential at best.

    9. Re:I get so tired of this..... by Caratted · · Score: 1

      Twas a dillemma, to mod or to comment on this.

      I have to say, though: Gay folks do not "take themselves" out of the gene pool. This assumption that it is a choice by older generations (my own parent's included, who can be considered middle-aged at ~50) is asnine. And I'm a spiteful, critical bastard. It is a natural evolution of overpopulation, evidenced in many of nature's societies. Learn to live with it or get off the soapbox, either way, you called it: you will be modded into oblivion. Rightfully so.

    10. Re:I get so tired of this..... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

      Maybe there is some benefit to the whole of humanity that some people are gay. The process of evolution must have put them here for some reason. There seems to be a quite high percentage of the population (7% ?) that are gay for it to just be some genetic aberration.

      I would think someone with such a low user id would be more scientific and objective about the subject, so much for my own prejudice.

    11. Re:I get so tired of this..... by magarity · · Score: 1

      Why do people insist that we don't allow them to redefine perfectly good words

      Yeah, and let's start with taking back the word "gay" since it has no synonym. Nowadays if you say you're having a gay day, people think you're completely incensed over this or that injustice towards your lifestyle demographic. It's supposed to mean a carefree happiness, which is just about the exact opposite.

    12. Re:I get so tired of this..... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 2, Insightful

      So because I have some condition which would lead to me being less fit for purpose for breeding and passing on my genes; sterility, bad eyesight, cerebral palsey, whatever, I should be tolerated at best and not allowed to have a family because I am DEFECTIVE and some kind of ABERRATION against $DEITY/DARWIN?

      You're fortunate that our society TOLERATES your type. I'd have you LYNCHED.

      Fuck you.

    13. Re:I get so tired of this..... by Microlith · · Score: 1

      But two guys making out on the street is as bad as a normal couple making out in public. These days both happen with far too much frequency. Get a room, people.

      So you are disgusted by both, but choose to take it out on gays? Yeah, that makes sense.

    14. Re:I get so tired of this..... by ClioCJS · · Score: 5, Insightful
      Sounds like you want to outlaw normal marriage too, then. Oh wait. Marriage doesn't stop people from making you. You answered his question, but then threw in a red herring that's irrelevant to any argument about marriage. BTW, your'e wrong about the history of the word too. You're basically ignorant all around. It was just 1959 that a white man had to go to the supreme court to not be charged for marrying a black woman. You're ignorance is the exact same ignorance. It's pathetic. You harken back to the old days that never were. And did you ever stop to think that records of gay marriages in the past were destroyed by the church in order to keep their handhold on the institution? I mean, Catholicism destroyed whole cultures' worth of history in South America. And the act of marriage predates recorded history anyway. How the fuck do you know what went in 5000 years ago? And how the fuck is that relevant today?

      In short, you win the award for Biggest Piece Of Shit Of The Day.

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    15. Re:I get so tired of this..... by ClioCJS · · Score: 0

      making *out i typed making *you, for some reason

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    16. Re:I get so tired of this..... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Why do people insist that we don't allow them to redefine perfectly good words that we are bigots.

      Oh language is nothing to do with it. You're just a bigot.

      Find a definition of the word 'marriage', or heck the equivilent word in any human language, older than a hundred years (or fifty) that includes two men or two women.

      Find a definition of the word 'computer' older than a hundred years that include electronics.
      Find a definition of the word 'gay' older than a hundred years that doesn't include being happy.

    17. Re:I get so tired of this..... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      There has been same-sex marriages and even sex changes in many non-Western cultures for thousands of years. I'm not even going to link to it, it's even on fucking Wikipedia. Try looking up facts before spouting ignorant bigotry.

      Funny that talk about redefining words, then immediately go to re-define the word "tolerate" to mean "resist the urge to beat up", which must be the meaning you have considering how much you that you dislike people who aren't exactly like you. MW says tolerance is "sympathy or indulgence for beliefs or practices differing from or conflicting with one's own". Yeah, I'm getting shit-tons of sympathy from your post here...

      As for "believing" in evolution... jesus... don't even know where to begin.

    18. Re:I get so tired of this..... by pclminion · · Score: 1

      What does making out in public have to do with being married to somebody? When you see a guy wearing a wedding ring do you instantly imagine him having sex with his wife? After all, that's what married people do?

    19. Re:I get so tired of this..... by mark-t · · Score: 1

      So what you're saying is that they ironically contribute to the continued existence of the human gene-pool by not actually contributing to it at all?

      Are you sure that evolution is really supposed to work like that? It sounds rather... counter-intuitive.

    20. Re:I get so tired of this..... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Find a definition of the word 'marriage', or heck the equivilent word in any human language, older than a hundred years (or fifty) that includes two men or two women.

      Funny, christians did it all the time back in the day. http://www.jinxiboo.com/blog/2009/5/3/when-same-sex-marriage-was-a-christian-rite.html

      If you don't like my term of 'defect' for someone who takes themselves out of the gene pool please supply a better term.

      Gays haven't taken themselves out of the gene pool, they have a higher teen pregnancy rate than straights. http://www.blogher.com/frame.php?url=http://www.publicaffairs.ubc.ca/media/releases/2008/mr-08-165.html

    21. Re:I get so tired of this..... by Microlith · · Score: 1

      Once you legally redefine the word marriage all sorts of follow on side effects begin.

      Basis for this statement?

      Catholic Church doesn't believe it is right? Tough. Won't matter once the law changes, they will give em a full church wedding and place a child in their care through their adoption agency or the Justice Dept cornholes em.

      Sounds like you believe the lies of the LDS. No, the Justice Dept. can't do anything to religious institutions being discriminatory. The First Amendment ensures that.

      Once they get gay marriage they are going to push without interruption for group ones.

      Really? Basis for this statement too?

      And always keep your eye on NAMBLA

      Subtle NAMBLA troll? How much did you pay for the account?

    22. Re:I get so tired of this..... by Macthorpe · · Score: 0

      Once you legally redefine the word marriage

      Second sentence and you're already (at the very least) factually incorrect. The rest of your post is "I think it's wrong, and I can find people who agree with me, so it must be wrong", then some irrelevant comparisons to outlandish situations that have no relevance to two consenting adults wanting legal recognition for their union.

      Have you got real studies that show that gay marriage is going to fuck up society forever? If not, what the fuck are you scared of?

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    23. Re:I get so tired of this..... by ceoyoyo · · Score: 1

      As far as I know, the only group seriously in favour of group marriages are some of the more fundamentalist Mormons. They're not much for gay marriage though.

      So when you say "they" you mean... people who disagree with you?

    24. Re:I get so tired of this..... by Beardo+the+Bearded · · Score: 4, Insightful

      I've been married for almost 14 years now. The interesting thing about marriage is this:

      The entire ceremony -- all of it, the food, the tables, the dresses, the rings, the suits, the flowers, the guests, the vows -- means absolutely nothing at all. Nothing.

      The actual marriage is when you sign the certificate and it gets countersigned and witnessed.

      So the whole kerfuffle boils down to "we don't want gays to sign a piece of paper".

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    25. Re:I get so tired of this..... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Sorry, did you pathetic argument just devolve into "All gays are pedophiles"? Wow. Repressed much? Did daddy touch you in your special no-no place or something? This is like watching American Beauty, except vastly less fun.

    26. Re:I get so tired of this..... by Microlith · · Score: 1

      Hey, jmorris42, question for you.

      Is this thread, and the sound thrashing you are receiving, feeding your persecution complex like you wanted?

    27. Re:I get so tired of this..... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 3, Funny

      "After all, that's what married people do"

      Apparently you're not very familiar with married couples. ; )

    28. Re:I get so tired of this..... by MightyMartian · · Score: 5, Insightful

      1. Homosexuals can still have heterosexual relations, and many homosexuals have biological children. So your attempt to co-opt science to confirm your bigotry fails.

      2. The psychiatry and psychology communities stopped viewing homosexuality as any kind of mental or sexual defect decades ago. You can't justify your bigotry that way either.

      3. The United States guarantees equal protection under the law. Your attempt to limit the definition of marriage to justify your bigotry fails.

      I guess we're kind of left with you just being a bigot.

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    29. Re:I get so tired of this..... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      There is no country that has legalized gay marriage that requires any particular church to perform a gay marriage. Even if there was, you would not be "cornholed" by the Justice Dept, any more than a person refusing to marry interracially would be "cornholed".

      The government shouldn't recognize anybody's marriages. There, done. Nobody has to redefine anything; you can get married at a church but the government doesn't say anything. If you want the benefits formerly associated with marriage, you get a civil union, even if you're straight.

      It's a game with only semantic differences: it's actually exactly the same as legalizing gay marriage, we just change the name *for everybody*. Government has no business according special privileges to partnerships based on the gender and (within reason) number of recipients.

    30. Re:I get so tired of this..... by jpw72 · · Score: 0

      Pls let me have mod points soon... this should be (Score:4, Insightful) for sure.

    31. Re:I get so tired of this..... by MightyMartian · · Score: 2

      That funny feeling in his pants when he sees a muscular fella, I suspect.

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    32. Re:I get so tired of this..... by DragonWriter · · Score: 5, Informative

      The problem is that the government had no business getting into the marriage business in the first place. It used to be a religious institution, until some kings decided that they didn't like the church having all that power and decided to stick their noses into it.

      While its hard to clearly separate religious and government institutions that existed before the adoption of the norm of church/state separation in the host society (which really begins in the modern era), marriage historically was largely governed principal by general, rather than any special ecclesiastic, law even in the Christian West through the early part of the Middle Ages, was performed under local customs that often predated the local adoption of Christianity, and didn't involve the clergy at all; during the Middle Ages, the Church became involved, first by having clergy present as witnesses (though still, for some time, prohibiting marriage inside the sanctuary of a church), and later -- as the Church acquired a role as a kind of "international government" in Europe, through prescribed rites and an active regulatory role.

      If marriage hadn't become a secular state institution, we wouldn't *need* to have this debate.

      It is more defensible to reverse this to say "if the Church hadn't become a quasi-governmental entity and expanded its area of regulation into marriage and other traditional areas of government control, we wouldn't need to have this debate."

      The idea that marriage was an institution of the church before it was an institution of government governing the distribution of property is nearly as historically inaccurate as the idea that it is some kind of universal truth that marriage has (prior to recent years) historically always been between one genetic male and one genetic female.

    33. Re:I get so tired of this..... by thomasw_lrd · · Score: 1

      I also wonder what rights they actually want.

      The right to get fucked by the IRS? Married couples pay more in taxes with two incomes. Unmarried couples pay less, because they can file separate.

      The right to share insurance? Large companies like MS already allow this.

      The right to adopt? I don't have a problem with this, but hell it's so hard to adopt a child now for a married couple.

      I'm not in favor of gay marriage, but I'm not opposed to it either. I say let them do whatever.

    34. Re:I get so tired of this..... by Microlith · · Score: 1

      What else did you expect from a progressive?

      Years ago, I suspect you would have used another word instead of "progressive." It's an epithet coming from you and little more.

      The rest of your insane little rant here is incredible in its utter madness. I think I'll take anything I ever see you write here on Slashdot with this pearl in mind.

    35. Re:I get so tired of this..... by ChatHuant · · Score: 1

      The problem is that the government had no business getting into the marriage business in the first place.

      I'd argue the opposite is true. The problem is the fact that churches could perform religious ceremonies that gave legal rights to the participants (things like inheritance, property and a whole passel of other things). This also allowed churches to deny those rights to people they disagreed with (be they gay, of the wrong religion or because they fidgeted during the sermon). The correct solution is to enforce the separation: let no religious ceremony influence or change somebody's legal rights. Don't legally acknowledge any purely religious baptism, marriage, separation or anything else. If somebody desires, they can have both a state marriage and any number of religious ceremonies, but the only one that legally counts should be the state one. That change would rid us of a LOT of headaches. (BTW. IANAL, but I think marriage law belongs somewhere under the general area of contract law.)

    36. Re:I get so tired of this..... by Rary · · Score: 4, Insightful

      Wrong. Once you legally redefine the word marriage all sorts of follow on side effects begin. Tolerance ends and acceptance on pain of government begins. Catholic Church doesn't believe it is right? Tough. Won't matter once the law changes, they will give em a full church wedding and place a child in their care through their adoption agency or the Justice Dept cornholes em.

      No. No. No. No. How many times must this stupid argument be thrown around?

      Look. Right now, the Catholic Church does not allow a marriage to occur if one of the partners is divorced. Similarly, Jewish synagogues will not marry a Jew to a non-Jew. However, both of these marriages are allowed by law. In your little world, where the legal requirement is forced upon the religious institutions, how is this possible? The DOJ should've forced these types of marriages on these institutions a long, long, long time ago.

      But they didn't. Why? Because what the law allows is never, and has never been, forced upon religious institutions. If the law allows same-sex marriage, many churches will continue to disallow it, and the law will do nothing about that. Just like it always has.

      Legalizing same sex marriage has absolutely zero impact on anyone other than adult homosexuals who choose to marry their same-sex partner. It will not impact you (assuming you're heterosexual), your church, your own marriage, or anything or anyone else. And for the record, I'm writing this from a country that already allows same-sex marriage, so I'm not just speculating here, I'm describing reality.

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    37. Re:I get so tired of this..... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Under the law as it is, they are completely equal. It doesn't matter what type of person they are attracted to sexually. The law states that if a person wants to marry, it must be a person of the opposite sex. There is no discrimination here, the law is blind to the person's beliefs, color, or sexual orientation. People that are attracted to the same sex are asking for a change in the definition of marriage. Why not just keep it a civil union and not call it marriage?

    38. Re:I get so tired of this..... by msobkow · · Score: 1

      Your opening title showed promise, but then you dived into the bigotry behind it. Sad.

      I do agree with the religious groups that a civil union or ceremony providing all the benefits of marriage should be sufficient, but the simple fact of the matter is even those who've lived common law for 20 years and legally "married" as a result in the eyes of the law do NOT receive the same respect and courtesy as those who have been through a ceremony.

      It took me 3 years to realize that and support gay MARRIAGE, not just the legal status they should be accorded.

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    39. Re:I get so tired of this..... by MobileTatsu-NJG · · Score: 1

      Wrong. Once you legally redefine the word marriage all sorts of follow on side effects begin.

      You mean like letting a man and a dog get married? Mmmm hmm.

      But worse, some of us know this is only the current demand. Once they get gay marriage they are going to push without interruption for group ones. And always keep your eye on NAMBLA, they really mean it when they say "Sex before eight or it's too late."

      ... yeah, I wasn't far off. I have a question for you: Why do think gays will invest their energy into making it legal to have sex with children? Is there actually a reason for this rationale or did it just sound really convincing when you heard some loudmouth spout it in an attempt to justify his own bigotry?

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    40. Re:I get so tired of this..... by jpapon · · Score: 1

      Yes, and by your logic, you support "freedom", unless of course that means "freedom to enter a union with any person you choose". Then you think "freedom" should be restricted to "what I agree with".

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    41. Re:I get so tired of this..... by SuricouRaven · · Score: 1

      Slight correction: The justice department can't force a catholic agency to place children with homosexual adoptive parents, true... but some state contracts are conditional on them doing so. If they refuse, they don't get government money. Naturally the church is screaming mad about this discrimination of not giving them money.

    42. Re:I get so tired of this..... by farble1670 · · Score: 5, Insightful

      So the whole kerfuffle boils down to "we don't want gays to sign a piece of paper".

      no, it's that some folks see marriage as a sacred (as in religious) vow between a man and a woman, and they think their holy doctrine tells them that homosexuality is wrong.

      of course i don't agree, but you should at least understand the viewpoint. if you get into a discussion with someone and you immediately boil it down to signing a piece of paper, or not, you aren't going to change any minds or make anyone think.

    43. Re:I get so tired of this..... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      You see, not maintaining a good separation of church and state cuts TWO ways.

      Not how I read it:

      Congress shall make no law respecting an establishment of religion, or prohibiting the free exercise thereof

      My understanding is that the constitution restricts the state from involvement with the church not the church from involvement with the state.

    44. Re:I get so tired of this..... by Microlith · · Score: 1

      Well then they can get out of the adoption business, which is very full of legal concerns. No accepting state money without being subject to restrictions the state has to exist under.

    45. Re:I get so tired of this..... by type40 · · Score: 1

      Spoken like a man that has never had a gay friend dress him for a hot date.

      "You're not wearing that are you?"
      "Yeah."
      "Let me rephrase, YOU ARE NOT WEARING THAT!"
      "Why? I look good."
      "For a hillbilly child molester, yeah you look great. Ditch the pants and jacket, wear these instead with this belt."
      "Stop being so dramatic."
      "I assume your goal is to put your penis in her vagina at some point this evening?"
      "Yes....."
      "Not going to happen dressed like that. Wear this watch too."

      Next morning, text message:
      GGGGGGGGGOOOOOOOOOAAAAAAAALLLLLLLLLL!!!!!!!!

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    46. Re:I get so tired of this..... by MichaelSmith · · Score: 1

      We are supposed to be believers in evolution, right? If you don't like my term of 'defect' for someone who takes themselves out of the gene pool please supply a better term.

      Evolution doesn't require belief. It works regardless, for our whole species including gay people. So if a theory doesn't fit the facts, its the theory which needs to change. Homosexuality must be consistent with evolution, otherwise it would not exist.

    47. Re:I get so tired of this..... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Homosexuality is a mental defect, albeit a minor one in the bigger scheme of things. They should NOT be given the ability to form family units and adopt for example.

      Do they allow people with minor mental defects like innumeracy or dyslexia to form family units in your state? What about adoption?

      But whan really gets so tiring is this tendency of homosexuals, when they come out, is to make their mental abberation the central defining aspect of their lives, and to demand any and everyone not only tolerate it but accept it with open arms.

      Isn't this what happened in the context of being black during the civil rights movement? Being black, or African American has seem to be an emphasized cultural identity, based on those historical tapes from the time. Today it is not an issue, although some people try to push it as such still. A cultural identity seems to form when ever there is some political issue to be solved. The role of a fundamentalist evangelical Christian contains few of those cultural identities as well.

      Hell, I only TOLERATE progressives, I certainly don't ACCEPT em and since 99% of gays are also progs

      There are gay nazis in Europe and gay Republicans in the US. Does that lessen your fears?

    48. Re:I get so tired of this..... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Which of the benefits of marriage are they wanting? Really.

      The problem is that in many localities civil unions are not recognized as bindingly bestowing survivorship rights upon a partner. And in the event of a "divorce" it is VERY difficult for the "innocent" partner to receive ANYTHING, and certainly not what a marriage partner would receive in a divorce. No right to half of all goods acquired during the union. And just try to get into the hospital room of a same sex partner, or make the medical decision for a same sex partner who is incapable or making their own decisions when there is a "family-member"/"next-of-kin" available to do those things.
      Gay marriage isn't about religion, it's about all the rights that straight people don't even think of as legally defined "rights". Nobody gives a crap if your church performs the marriage or if you even actually call it marriage. Just give GLBT couples the ability to be enter into the same legal obligations/commitments/arrangements as everyone else.

    49. Re:I get so tired of this..... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Actually you can be married in several states without signing the paper. Just live together for a while and tell everyone you are married and it's a legal common law marriage.

    50. Re:I get so tired of this..... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      lol.. that's all marriage means to you, eh? Why did you even get married then?

    51. Re:I get so tired of this..... by KiloByte · · Score: 1

      Actually, they don't care about a goddamned piece of paper. They care about tax breaks and pensions.

      So let's raise a question: WHY do married couples get those tax breaks? If it's for raising kids, marriages without kids should be denied those (and then we don't really need marriage other than civil unions -- unify those tax breaks with child benefits single parents get). If it's for living together, polygamy should be allowed -- and heck, even merely being roommates as that's no different from a white marriage.

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    52. Re:I get so tired of this..... by KhabaLox · · Score: 1

      But I refuse to say 2+2=5.
      So you hate gays AND Radiohead? That is too much. We can no longer be friends.

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    53. Re:I get so tired of this..... by SuricouRaven · · Score: 1

      A lot of churches seem to want to be persecuted. If they aren't persecuted, then they'll either incite some false persecution by deliberatly flouting the law, or just imagine some and try to exagerate.

    54. Re:I get so tired of this..... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      And I will even go for tolerance, but only up to a point

      You know, your right. I choose to follow in your footsteps and not tolerate your bigot ass past a point long ago.

      My god says marriage is between anyone who loves each other.
      My god also says I am supposed to take a cheese grater to your balls.

      As you say, what my god says is the only one possible thing that can be accepted by anyone, so you agree your balls need grated into fine strips.
      Who the fuck are you to say otherwise? Stop defying gods wishes, and stop being a hypocrite and cut them off like you believe should happen.

      You won't? So you're not just a bigot but a hypocrite, a liar, and don't even follow what you claim are your own beliefs? Nice.
      Why should anyone ever listen do you again then, when you won't even stand behind the things you claim? Fucking liars like you are why wars happen.

      I truly hope you get run over by a truck, and live for quite some time in agony. Then the gay paramedic refuses to help you (since as you say, they don't need to tolerate you)
      Then the black doctor refuses to give you pain killers, and instead injects you with a nervous system stimulant.
      Then the non christian bystander decides he doesn't need to tolerate you (which you said is perfectly OK) and blows you up for not believing in the same magic fairy he does... As long as it's after you've suffered greatly for days.

      With luck he will murder your children too. The world would be a better place (I mean make more money) with your kind out of the way not holding humanity back.

    55. Re:I get so tired of this..... by ChrisMaple · · Score: 1

      Regardless of the Constitution, there are two reasons for the separation of church and state: religion corrupts government, and government corrupts religion. They make each other worse.

      Power over innocent people is a bad thing. Since both government and religion are instruments of power over people, it is best if they contest against each other, limiting the abuses that each brings against people in general.

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    56. Re:I get so tired of this..... by Microlith · · Score: 1

      But the numbers don't lie either.

      What numbers? Can you cite any?

      More significant is that NAMBLA is semi legit in the eyes of the politically correct deciders of these things.

      Really? I've never seen NAMBLA mentioned outside of Slashdot, and even the only by trolls.

      Man, you sound reasonable in other topics but here you just lose your mind and go full retard.

    57. Re:I get so tired of this..... by iceaxe · · Score: 1

      Trust me, a low UID does not make you smart.

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    58. Re:I get so tired of this..... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I certainly don't ACCEPT em and since 99% of gays are also progs........ you guys made my shitlist long before my gaydar went off.

      So you hate black people too, I suppose?

    59. Re:I get so tired of this..... by Wizard+Drongo · · Score: 5, Insightful

      No, it's about equal-status.
      In the UK, we have "gay marriage" in all but name; civil partnerships. It confers all the (very limited) financial benefits of marriage, but is only for "teh gayz".

      Our tax-code is pretty non-involved when it comes to marriage. If you'e living with someone as a partner, that's the limit - doesn't matter if you're married, civil-unioned, or anything.

      Yet, oddly (if you follow the "financial" argument), the gay community is still pushing for equal-marriage. Here in Scotland we're having a big fight over it, with the Catholic Church (amongst others) arguing it's wrong, and the equal-rights groups saying it's about damned time, and the normal, rational people being somewhere in the middle, but broadly in favour of it (since it's not about money, and just about equality, most people come down on the side of equality, not sky-wizrd voodoo).
      It's all about being treated equally, as a fair and equal member of society. I actually think that the State should have no role in marriage at all - you can make a permanent union (and break them with due solemnity) but what you call it is entirely up to you and your own personal Sky Wizard. No state involvement at all in that side of things.
      Of course, this would be painted as the deliberate destruction of marriage (even though, actually, we'd be going back to an age-old situation where marriage is a matter for the church, nothing to do with the state at all) to please the evil homosexual liberal satanists or whatever.
      TL:DR summary: dont expect reason from irrational people like the religious right. It'll just make your head hurt.

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    60. Re:I get so tired of this..... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      [sarcasm]
      Yes, keep gay marriage separate but equal, after all that worked out so well for African Americans.
      [/sarcasm]

    61. Re:I get so tired of this..... by jmorris42 · · Score: 0

      > So because I have some condition which would lead to me being less fit for purpose for breeding and passing on my genes...

      Either you are dense or I'm not communicating clearly enough. Lemme try again. Yes cerebral palsey is a defect. I said it, and I bet you wouldn't disagree except for the sake of an argument. As is deafness. Having one of those conditions just IS. And until they start making extreme demands on the accomidation front way beyond 'reasonable' it is easy to accept em. On the other hand the fringe nutters who believe being deaf isn't a defect and that they form a perfectly normal culture/subspecies and when they have hearing children want to have em 'fixed.' I got zero tolerance for that sort of asshattery.

      Saying obvious genetic defects ARE obvious defects is a long way from eugenics. But there is only one genetic defect that it is CrimeThink to name and I resist all forms of political correctness. Note that I did mention that it doesn't appear to be an especially serious defect, other than from the pure evolutionary standpoint. And perhaps, as other in this thread have mentioned, it IS a evolutionaly Faustian Bargain, a population loses a small percentage of it's breeding members in exchange for the other often useful but eccentric mental abilities. But you don't pretend the abnormal is normal unless you are so lost in politically correct though that you can't even tell True from False, instead going for some deconstructed reality.

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    62. Re:I get so tired of this..... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Stats show at most only a 1-2% gay population. Although you'd think it was closer to 30-40% given the amount of exposure given them.

    63. Re:I get so tired of this..... by nosferatu1001 · · Score: 1

      So youre saying you can get married to the person you love, and is thus equal?

      Or are you an ignorant fucktard?

    64. Re:I get so tired of this..... by pseudofrog · · Score: 2

      Are you sure that evolution is really supposed to work like that? It sounds rather... counter-intuitive.

      Yup.

      It's called the "Gay Uncle" hypothesis. In short, each subsequent male child the mother births has a 7% (if I recall correctly) increased chance of being gay. The idea is that the older male siblings reproduce to pass on the family's genes while the gay offspring contribute by helping out the extended family and ensuring the children are taken care of and survive to pass on their family's genes.

      Like all evolutionary psychology theories, take it with a huge grain of salt. But the notion that homosexuality must be an abberation because gays don't reproduce doesn't fit with the current state of science.

    65. Re:I get so tired of this..... by Beardo+the+Bearded · · Score: 1

      My wife keeps asking the same question.

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    66. Re:I get so tired of this..... by dissy · · Score: 1

      So basically you say being homosexual is a choice they make.
      Why would you think this, unless it is similar in your case?

      So you admit that day in and day out you have to force yourself to choose to be sexually attracted to females, and that is not what simply comes naturally to you?

      I know I don't make any choice to be attracted to the opposite sex, it just sorta IS for me. I don't have to try to do it, like you seem to do and assume everyone else does as well.

      I'm guessing since you are not naturally attracted to women and have to choose that, that perhaps your problems are related to denying your own body's natural urges and forcing yourself to be attracted to the opposite sex.

      Hiding your true feelings like that is not physically good for you. It causes stress, emotional pain, and other mental problems that would all simply go away if you just did what came naturally, instead of forcing this choice of being straight onto yourself.

      That is how most of us live. Whatever feels right sexually is what we end up doing.
      You might find more happiness to try this yourself. Trust me, most people would not think any different of you. You do have to watch out for hateful bigots of course, but thankfully they are far and few between!

    67. Re:I get so tired of this..... by ChrisMaple · · Score: 1

      From The Oxford Universal Dictionary, 1955:
      Definition Number 2. Addicted to social pleasures and dissipations; often euphem. : Of immoral life 1637
      Definition Number 3. Bight or lively-looking, esp. in color; brilliant, showy ME

      2 is 374 years old; ME means Middle English and is even older. Another definition, now obsolete, is "Specious", dating from 1529.

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    68. Re:I get so tired of this..... by KiloByte · · Score: 1, Interesting

      It's not merely taxes -- other parts of the package include stuff like inheritance, granting citizenship, etc.

      You didn't answer why we should give these rights to gays but not to other variants of marriage (like polygamy). Unless you meant this by "I actually think that the State should have no role in marriage at all" -- in that case, the civil union contract (whatever it is named) would have no such restrictions.

      And as for religious right: what about forcing them to follow their own rules, including forced marriage with the victim and 50 shekels (=$13) for a rape? That's what Christianity tells us to do (the New Testament stresses five times that all old rules are still in full force). I guess we'd see a huge rush of apostates (here, mostly women) if they read the scripture.

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    69. Re:I get so tired of this..... by nosferatu1001 · · Score: 1

      Bigoted fucktard, and a coward as well.

    70. Re:I get so tired of this..... by FrootLoops · · Score: 1

      Well, we still can contribute to the gene pool, just not as couples. Lesbians often bear biological children using donated sperm, and gay men can do something similar in the reverse by essentially renting a womb. It's perfectly conceivable to have a species in which one relatively common but infertile variant does all the child rearing, in which case that infertile group would still be selected for regardless of its infertility. I'm not a biologist, so I don't have a specific example. Evolution can be quite indirect--for instance, "cuteness" has been selected for in recent years (see: pandas; cats/kittens; dogs/puppies; sea otters; ...), but only because humans have come to dominate parts of the planet.

      Regardless, basing social policy off of evolution is a stupid (or at least heartless) thing to do. If you wanted to enact social policy based on what evolution favors, you'd give all the resources to people who want to have tons of kids, and deprive those who don't. So what if that means the educated suffer and die? There would be tons of humans around until society stopped being able to provide for itself and the population would crash. Evolution isn't perfect by any means. Social policy should be based on social attitudes instead of the inefficient, brutal system that got us here.

      All that said, I'm reasonably sure the OP (thread starter) is just a troll, or a troll's near cousin. They seem to enjoy arguing for the sake of arguing, and the issues be damned.

    71. Re:I get so tired of this..... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Just look at that Taco guy.

    72. Re:I get so tired of this..... by misexistentialist · · Score: 1

      And did you ever stop to think that records of gay marriages in the past were destroyed by the church in order to keep their handhold on the institution? I mean, Catholicism destroyed whole cultures' worth of history in South America. And the act of marriage predates recorded history anyway. How the fuck do you know what went in 5000 years ago?

      This reminds me of the claim that fossils were created by God as artifacts.

    73. Re:I get so tired of this..... by jmorris42 · · Score: 1

      Which does kinda lead to the real problem. Intolerance. For a progressive the philosophy seems to be "The one thing I won't tolerate is intolerance." and it quickly becomes clear that in their midset any disagreement with any of their policy positions is based on bigotry, racism or just plain stupidity because their position is so self evidently correct that no rational counterargument is possible; thus any disagreement must be concealing some hidden motive.

      For disagreeing with politically correct orthodoxy on gay marriage I have managed to garner several death threats from the so called 'tolerant' progressives here on Slashdot this afternoon. Very illuminating.

      Everyone who thinks I should be boiled in oil for daring to disagree should go watch South Park's "Death Camp of Tolerance" episode. Especially Mr. Garrison's rant at the end.

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    74. Re:I get so tired of this..... by ClioCJS · · Score: 1

      I probably should have used 7000 instead of 5000 :)

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    75. Re:I get so tired of this..... by Wizard+Drongo · · Score: 2

      Well, societal norms and expectations do have *some* input into how the law should run in these situations. By and large (at least, here in Scotland), polygamy & polyandry are quite rare - and we don't ban people from living together/having multi-person sexual relationships. A civil union is a recognition by the state that 90% or so of the nation will at some point form a mostly-monogomous relationship with a single other person, often for the purpose (although not explicitly or exclusively) of raising children, and that the State should help out with recognition of this with a legal union.
      That said, I'm not opposed to legalised polygamy/polyandry, provided there are sufficient safeguards to avoid abuse, both of partners (as often seen in religious groups where it's *always* a man and many wives, no the reverse etc.), and of the institution itself (it's supposed to be for forming social unions - some would abuse the right to envelop large numbers of people into one union, for tax/money laundering etc. purposes). Provided those safeguards are in place, I cannot argue against it, if the people so desire it.

      As for forcing religious groups to live by their creed, no, not touching that with a 10 foot pole! If you want to believe in a Magic Sky Wizard, or a whole collection of them for that matter (I do - I'm a pagan), great, happy for you, if it brings you peace, helps you live your life, gets you towards nirvana, whatever. None of my business though, and none of the state's, unless you make it our business by doing something unpleasant (obnoxious proselytising, abuse of children or family members, restricting the rights of others etc.). Otherwise, believe what you like, and we'll not bother you, if you don't bother us. Seems fairly simple, really.

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    76. Re:I get so tired of this..... by ChrisMaple · · Score: 1

      There's more, from "Webster's New Universal Unabridged Dictionary" (Barnes & Noble Books, 1996)
      In addition to its original and continuing senses of "merry, lively" and "bright or showy," GAY has has various senses dealing with sexual conduct since the 17th century. A gay woman was a prostitute, a gay man a womanizer, a gay house a brothel. This sexual world included homosexuals too, and GAY as an adjective meaning "homosexual" goes back at least to the the early 1900's.

      For what it's worth, "gay" meaning "homosexual" was so well established that its meaning was clear in the 1938 film "Bringing up Baby" (Cary Grant, Katherine Hepburn).

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    77. Re:I get so tired of this..... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      By the 'logic' in the grandparent poster's mental droolings Trig Palin could be a win for humanity and thus good by evolution's logic.... somehow

      Yeah, just like that useless retard. Oh what's his name...it's on the tip of my tongue. Oh, yeah...

      Professor Steven Hawking!

    78. Re:I get so tired of this..... by jmorris42 · · Score: 0

      > Years ago, I suspect you would have used another word instead of "progressive."

      You are correct. Twenty years ago I'd have called em a liberal. Before that a socialist or communist. They change the labels just as quick as a critical mass of voters figure out the new label has the same yuck in it as the last one.

      > It's an epithet coming from you and little more.

      Darned right it is an epithet. And they know it, which is why this is probably the last Presidential race where any of em will use it to self describe themselves. Expect to learn a new name for em really soon now. But it will be the same old marxism/fascism with a different branding campaign.

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    79. Re:I get so tired of this..... by MightyMartian · · Score: 1

      Just because a church performs a marriage ceremony doesn't mean the ceremony has any legal standing, otherwise all those Mormons with ten wives would have ten legitimate marriages. The legitimacy of the marriage comes from the person (whether they be a priest, a judge, the captain of a ship or whoever) being recognized by the state as being permitted to oversee the ceremony and legitimize the signing of the civil marriage certificate. It isn't weddings in churches that are recognized at all, and in most jurisdictions, if you're not in some way on record as being allowed to conduct a marriage ceremony, the ceremony is not considered lawful.

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    80. Re:I get so tired of this..... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      If marriage had remained only religious there would be no debate here because the church would just ban gay marriage and then plug their ears while going "la la la, I can't hear you, la la la" for the next hundred years.

    81. Re:I get so tired of this..... by misexistentialist · · Score: 1

      1. Necrophiliacs can still have normal relations, and many necrophiliacs have biological children. So your attempt to co-opt science to confirm your bigotry fails.

      2. The psychiatry and psychology communities could stop viewing necrophilia as any kind of mental or sexual defect in the future. You can't justify your bigotry that way either.

      3. The United States guarantees equal protection under the law. Your attempt to limit the definition of marriage to justify your bigotry fails.

      QED everyone who says that marrying a corpse is wrong are bigots!

    82. Re:I get so tired of this..... by TheVelvetFlamebait · · Score: 1

      Wrong. Once you legally redefine the word marriage all sorts of follow on side effects begin. Tolerance ends and acceptance on pain of government begins. Catholic Church doesn't believe it is right? Tough. Won't matter once the law changes, they will give em a full church wedding and place a child in their care through their adoption agency or the Justice Dept cornholes em. And the fun only begins in those obvious places. We will be cleaning up the messes in the laws for fifty years.

      I honestly cannot believe you just pulled the government oppression card. How exactly do you think homosexuals feel? Some church believes gay marriage is their right? Tough! If they marry them, the Justice Dept crawls all over their ass. The "pain of government" that you would feel is the forcible removal of the iron fist of Christianity's moral oppression on the issue of marriage. Oh, you can no longer dictate who gets married in all churches rather than just your own? Boo fucking hoo.

      It's rather funny actually, your comment. You write from a libertarian bent, citing "the pain of government", yet your post is so completely anti-libertarian. It resembles the stock standard template of any powerful and oppressive group scaring the public into allowing them to keep their power. Something along the lines of, "If you don't less us control this, there'll be anarchy! Exactly the worst possible scenario could happen! That liberty is not worth the massive drop in security, right?"

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    83. Re:I get so tired of this..... by icebraining · · Score: 1

      I also wonder what rights they actually want.

      Obviously, "the same". Regardless of what they are.

    84. Re:I get so tired of this..... by jmorris42 · · Score: 1

      > Why would you think this, unless it is similar in your case?

      Ok, THIS argument I'm even more tired of, the "if you disagree with letting militant gays redesign society in their image it must mean you are an in the closet self hating gay yourself." That argument is more retarded than the Chewbacca Defense on South Park. By that 'logic' the average Ron Paul/Stormfront racist nutter is secretly black or a jew? Eh?

      No, I resist the militant gays because they are just one front in the wider progressive movement to 'transform America' into fail.

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    85. Re:I get so tired of this..... by radish · · Score: 1

      Well by that measure I'm not married either. Heterosexual atheist couple, non-religious ceremony. That said, I take the vows damn seriously, and I consider them sacred. Just not blessed by his noodly appendage.

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    86. Re:I get so tired of this..... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      2. The psychiatry and psychology communities will almost certainly stop viewing necrophilia, bestiality or paedophilia as any kind of mental or sexual defect in the future. You can't justify your bigotry that way either.

      FTFY

    87. Re:I get so tired of this..... by couchslug · · Score: 1

      There are TWO kinds of marriage, religious and civil. There is a LEGAL distinction between them.

      That is not a matter of opinion, but legal reality.

      You need a civil license for one, and (insert supersitious sanction of choice) for the other.

      Superstitionists are defined by and ruled by their superstition, so there is no convincing them. HOWEVER, they should be exposed thoroughly so fewer recruits for their nonsense will be available!

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    88. Re:I get so tired of this..... by farble1670 · · Score: 1

      That is not a matter of opinion, but legal reality.

      clearly it's not reality, or we wouldn't need to pass laws sanctioning gay marriage. it's not just the letter of the law it's how it gets interpreted. why can't i own a fully automatic rifle, and why can't i brandish any weapon in public?

      A well regulated Militia, being necessary to the security of a free State, the right of the people to keep and bear Arms, shall not be infringed.

      the law clearly states that my right to own and wield a weapon cannot be infringed.

    89. Re:I get so tired of this..... by s73v3r · · Score: 1

      Why do people insist that we don't allow them to redefine perfectly good words that we are bigots

      Why do you get to believe that you have a monopoly on what those words mean?

      Face it: If you are against gay marriage, you are a bigot. End of story.

    90. Re:I get so tired of this..... by s73v3r · · Score: 1

      Which of the benefits of marriage are they wanting?

      Here's a list of about 1400 benefits that are given to married couples but denied gay couples: http://www.religioustolerance.org/mar_bene.htm

      Homosexuality is a mental defect, albeit a minor one in the bigger scheme of things.

      You have just shown yourself to be a bigoted asshole with that statement. Fuck you.

    91. Re:I get so tired of this..... by s73v3r · · Score: 1

      So the whole kerfuffle boils down to "we don't want gays to sign a piece of paper".

      Well, there's also all the shit that goes with signing the paper. Things like being able to visit your spouse in the hospital.

    92. Re:I get so tired of this..... by s73v3r · · Score: 1

      Which does kinda lead to the real problem. Intolerance.

      Oh please. "Waaaaaaaa! We're experiencing intolerance because of our bigotry! Waaaaaaaaa"

      Go fuck yourself. Maybe if you weren't "intolerant" in the first place, people wouldn't be calling you intolerant.

    93. Re:I get so tired of this..... by s73v3r · · Score: 1

      Everyone who thinks I should be boiled in oil for daring to disagree should go watch South Park's "Death Camp of Tolerance" episode. Especially Mr. Garrison's rant at the end.

      Except that doesn't agree with you in the slightest. Remember, he was trying to get fired because he was gay, and performing sex acts in front of the children. Such things would not be tolerated if they were straight, either.

    94. Re:I get so tired of this..... by s73v3r · · Score: 2

      Actually, they don't care about a goddamned piece of paper. They care about tax breaks and pensions.

      And things like these: http://www.religioustolerance.org/mar_bene.htm

    95. Re:I get so tired of this..... by im_thatoneguy · · Score: 1

      If you don't like my term of 'defect' for someone who takes themselves out of the gene pool please supply a better term.

      So those who choose to pursue science or literature for instance instead of child rearing are defective? How about those who go into teaching and don't have children of their own? Maybe they do more for *society* and the advancement of the human race than popping out a baby.

      Working in a library I would assume that the works of Walt Whitman. Or perhaps you think George Washington was "Defective" since he never fathered any children.

      Why do people insist that we don't allow them to redefine perfectly good words that we are bigots. Find a definition of the word 'marriage', or heck the equivilent word in any human language, older than a hundred years (or fifty) that includes two men or two women. Yes some definitions do include more thab one woman and one man.

      http://www.jstor.org/pss/2844434

      There are far more. And in fact until recently marriage had little to do with love, but was essentially an exchange of goods and services or a reasonable arrangement to run a household and farm.

      But all of that is irrelevant. You don't have to "accept them". Southerners didn't accept Slaves as human beings by any definition of the word in the English language. But we did right by them. So too will the country move on without you and recognize your fellow citizens and bestow upon them the legal rights they deserve--regardless if you want to recognize them.

    96. Re:I get so tired of this..... by scot4875 · · Score: 1

      Hell, I only TOLERATE progressives, I certainly don't ACCEPT em and since 99% of gays are also progs........ you guys made my shitlist long before my gaydar went off.

      Well, we don't give a shit what you think, and I have bad news for you: you've already lost. It's only a matter of time. If you're old, it doesn't matter too much because you'll die soon, and your idiocy will die with you and those like you. If you're young, well, that sucks for you because you're going to have to put up with these unpleasant changes for the whole rest of your life.

      It's the way it is, the way it always has been, and the way it always will be.

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    97. Re:I get so tired of this..... by s73v3r · · Score: 1

      Wrong. Once you legally redefine the word marriage all sorts of follow on side effects begin. Tolerance ends and acceptance on pain of government begins. Catholic Church doesn't believe it is right? Tough. Won't matter once the law changes, they will give em a full church wedding and place a child in their care through their adoption agency or the Justice Dept cornholes em. And the fun only begins in those obvious places. We will be cleaning up the messes in the laws for fifty years.

      This is the most bigoted piece of trash I have seen written here. You are completely, utterly, 100% WRONG.

      The Catholic Church, and EVERY OTHER RELIGIOUS INSTITUTION IN THE COUNTRY is already allowed to decide whether or not they want to perform a wedding. If the Catholic Church does not believe that you and your spouse will live a life consistent with their beliefs, they will deny the wedding. Same thing will happen with gay couples.

      Or do you honestly believe that Islamic centers are being forced to provide weddings for Jewish couples?

      Go fuck yourself, you ignorant, worthless, bigoted piece of trash.

    98. Re:I get so tired of this..... by s73v3r · · Score: 1

      You have no fucking numbers to back this up and you fucking know it.

      Go fuck yourself. You are quite frankly the worst bigot I have seen on here.

      And no, you cannot use this as an example of "intolerance". You have to take responsibility for your positions. That involves getting called out as a bigoted piece of shit when you act like one.

    99. Re:I get so tired of this..... by scot4875 · · Score: 1

      For disagreeing with politically correct orthodoxy on gay marriage I have managed to garner several death threats from the so called 'tolerant' progressives here on Slashdot this afternoon.

      Pics or it didn't happen.

      And besides, it's easy to find idiots on either side. Go to any NRA forum and suggest that maybe a 24 hour waiting period to buy a guy isn't a terrible idea and see how many OPEN death threats you walk away with. At least these supposed death threats you've been a victim of were sent by people who had the sense to keep it private.

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    100. Re:I get so tired of this..... by s73v3r · · Score: 1
    101. Re:I get so tired of this..... by s73v3r · · Score: 1

      This is completely and utterly false. Marriage has been a civil institution for just as long, if not longer, than it's been a religious institution.

    102. Re:I get so tired of this..... by s73v3r · · Score: 1

      That makes it a good idea, not that there's any legal basis for it.

    103. Re:I get so tired of this..... by s73v3r · · Score: 1

      What else did you expect from a progressive? There is no Truth other than "that which serves the Party." Facts are ok unless they are in the way in which case invent some new ones and insist they are equally valid.

      Because you're clearly the bastion of real truth, with all your lies and disinformation about what will happen if gay marriage is legal.

      Fuck your persecution complex. You are the one actively trying to persecute people.

    104. Re:I get so tired of this..... by jmorris42 · · Score: 1

      > At least these supposed death threats you've been a victim of were sent by people who had the sense to keep it private.

      Um, nope. They are in this article's permanent record for all the world to see and be instructed thereby. Come and see the violence inherent in the system! Help! Help! I'm being repressed!

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    105. Re:I get so tired of this..... by jmorris42 · · Score: 0

      > Remember, he was trying to get fired because he was gay, and performing sex acts in front of the children.

      Not exactly. He was trying to get fired so he could SUE the school for being intolerant of his being gay. But the school and the whole town were so obsessed with tolerance and fear of being called a bigot that they allowed Garrison to have sex with Mr. Slave in front of the children and STILL wouldn't sack his perverted ass, instead sending their children off to tolerance camp for daring to object. In the end even Garrison couldn't take the 'tolerance' anymore and lead to his epic rant about the difference between tolerance and acceptance; the town, in a mad desire to be politically correct, had went from tolerance to a blind acceptance of pretty much anything.

      Of course it is South Park and they exagerate to make a point and to be funny. But their points are more often that not valid ones. For the Truth to be funny it usually has to be a painful Truth.

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    106. Re:I get so tired of this..... by jmorris42 · · Score: 1

      > Because you're clearly the bastion of real truth, with all your lies and disinformation about what will happen if gay marriage is legal.

      Really? You really don't believe gay marriage is part and parcel of the progressive efforts to mainstream homosexuality? Do you really think that society won't be fundamentally changed thereby? Do you really believe that isn't the whole POINT of the exercise? And considering the progressive's track record it is a pretty safe bet the changes will be for the bad.

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    107. Re:I get so tired of this..... by hedwards · · Score: 2

      Maybe he's protestant.

    108. Re:I get so tired of this..... by dskoll · · Score: 1

      If you don't like my term of 'defect' for someone who takes themselves out of the gene pool please supply a better term.

      OK, how about "Catholic Priest".

    109. Re:I get so tired of this..... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

      Under the law as it is, they are completely equal. It doesn't matter what type of person they are attracted to sexually. The law states that if a person wants to marry, it must be a person of the opposite sex. There is no discrimination here, the law is blind to the person's beliefs, color, or sexual orientation. People that are attracted to the same sex are asking for a change in the definition of marriage.

      Yes, there is discrimination. If you're a man, you can only marry a woman. If you're a woman, you can only marry a man. You are treated differently based on your gender. That violates the Equal Protection Clause of the 14th Amendment.

      Also, that exact same argument was tried with interracial marriage: "No, see, it's equal treatment 'cause everyone's free to marry whoever they want as long as it's someone of the same race!". Didn't fly then, either.

    110. Re:I get so tired of this..... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      no it's:
      "we don't want gays signing a piece of paper that says they are MARRIED"

      married has a specific religious meanings....let the paper call it something else and give them equal rights

      but to pervert what marriage means....just makes the meaning worthless......and that i believe is the real motivation.
      They want gay equality with religious meanings and social acceptance.

      For $2k gays can legally share assets as truly marriage people (not sure about hospital visits)...so why all the fuss.
      Oh ya, it's the poor gay people who need to justify something......

    111. Re:I get so tired of this..... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Look at it this way. If you force gay people to be 'normal' they will pass along their gay gene. By allowing them to come out and marry other gays they will not reproduce. Over time there will be less gay people. You think that's a plus right?

    112. Re:I get so tired of this..... by khipu · · Score: 1

      Find a definition of the word 'marriage', or heck the equivilent word in any human language, older than a hundred years (or fifty) that includes two men or two women. Yes some definitions do include more thab one woman and one man.

      You got it backwards: the modern marriage that "conservatives" like to hold up as traditional was rare; families had a completely different structure and living arrangements, and many men never could marry at all.

      Which of the benefits of marriage are they wanting? Really. Unless children are unvolved there ain't any that civil unions couldn't provide other than using it as a wedge to drive religion farther out of the mainstream of society.

      No, it's a "wedge" to drive religiously-based discrimination out of government.

      Hell, I only TOLERATE progressives, I certainly don't ACCEPT em and since 99% of gays are also progs

      Funny, except for your God delusion, Christian conservatives like you seem pretty much the same as "progressives": you want to use big government to impose your lifestyle and your views on everybody else, and reason and liberty mean nothing to you.

    113. Re:I get so tired of this..... by MightyMartian · · Score: 1

      No, you didn't fix it. You're making an extreme and hyperbolic claim. A pretty shameful display.

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    114. Re:I get so tired of this..... by euroq · · Score: 1

      I'll reply to you as if you weren't trolling, which I don't believe you were. I myself am a gay man with a family.

      Why do people insist that we don't allow them to redefine perfectly good words that we are bigots.

      I don't care to define what YOU think is marriage. What I care is that a government, which is in reality the will of 50%+1 of a population, can define it. I don't want anyone to tell me what my church says is a marriage. BTW, when you say "redefine", the legal definition of marriage has changed so fucking much throughout history it's unbelievable. For example, until the 1970s interracial marriage was illegal in many parts of the country. Marriage was redefined to allow interracial marriages in the U.S. after that.

      But don't let that bit stump the argument... once again I don't give a shit what you and anyone else thinks is a marriage. I think it is wrong for any gay person to go into a Baptist church and tell them what marriage is. I think it's wrong for the Baptists to come into a Lutheran church and tell them what marriage is. I think it's wrong for the government to define marriage, period. Your "definition" is perfectly fine, and I don't care for you to change it at all... I just don't want you defining it for me, either.

      Which of the benefits of marriage are they wanting?

      The fact that you're actually asking this gives you no credibility to make judgement. There are so many things that I want. I don't want to have any fear of driving through Arkansas and having my children taken away from me and my husband because Arkansas doesn't acknowledge my children as my children. I don't want to be kept out of my dying husbands hospital room, to let him die alone and without me in the last 8 hours of his life, terrified and just wanting me by his side and I by his. I don't want the government to discriminate against me and my husband with children over a heterosexual couple with children or a single mother with children or a heterosexual couple without children or a previously divorced couple with children from their previous marriages. I don't want to have to testify against my spouse, unlike heterosexuals. There's a WHOLE lot more.

      Considering who pushes both concepts seems to have a LOT of overlap in membership, is it wrong to suspect an agenda?

      Yes, that is a logical fallacy. I suspect you're a Glen Beck fan. Correlation is not causation. Also, the idea that a majority of gays wants to destroy religion is simply unfounded and untestable and therefore unprovable. You're probably getting it confused with the idea that gays generally try to prevent Baptist prejudices in government - which is exactly what our Founding Fathers wanted as well. That in no way means gays hate religion. If gays hate the firey Baptist-style "God hates fags" religions, it doesn't imply that a gay person hates religion in general. What tends to happen is that if a gay person is arguing against that bullshit, they are arguing against such religious beliefs (or specifically in the government)... but that does NOT imply that a gay person is against religion in general.

      Homosexuality is a mental defect, albeit a minor one in the bigger scheme of things.

      OK, fine, so is left handedness. Gayness and left-handedness shouldn't be discriminated by the government, only actions that cause harm to other people.

      They should NOT be given the ability to form family units and adopt for example.

      For an example of what? I'm gay and already in a fucking family unit you fucktard, and I and other gay people are quite capable of raising children. (Sorry, but this one statement deserves you being called a fucktard) Statements like this are the reason that people like you are the most dangerous threat to life, liberty, and the pursuit of happiness. Gays are ALREADY IN family units from the day they were born, they ALREADY FOR

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    115. Re:I get so tired of this..... by euroq · · Score: 1

      Oh I knew it... you're positioning yourself as the discriminated one. You're not being "attacked" because you're disagreeing with orthodoxy, you're being "attacked" out of the defense of people who are actually being discriminated.

      You may have received some irrational responses, but that doesn't mean all responses to your argument are irrational. And you have made quite irrational statements, jmorris42.

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    116. Re:I get so tired of this..... by euroq · · Score: 1

      You didn't answer why we should give these rights to gays but not to other variants of marriage (like polygamy). Unless you meant this by "I actually think that the State should have no role in marriage at all" -- in that case, the civil union contract (whatever it is named) would have no such restrictions.

      Yes. Most rational discourses that I am involved in come down to that exact sentiment - the government shouldn't have a role in defining what a marriage is at all. Consenting polygamists shouldn't be discriminated against, just as consenting homosexuals shouldn't, either. Also, it wasn't in your post, but another huge argument in the discourses is procreation. There can be societal benefits to procreation without defining marriage, such as tax breaks for people supporting children.

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    117. Re:I get so tired of this..... by euroq · · Score: 1

      If it costs $2K for gays and 0$ for heterosexuals, there's a problem.

      And if marriage has specific religious meanings for specific religious sects, it shouldn't be in the government's domain.

      what marriage means....just makes the meaning worthless......and that i believe is the real motivation

      No it's not the motivation. I don't even believe that you believe that. The motivation is to not have any governmental discrimination (de jure). De facto there will always be discrimination among minorities or any different "group" between peoples.

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    118. Re:I get so tired of this..... by euroq · · Score: 1

      No. But the numbers don't lie either. The odds of a gay man being busted is far higher (on a per capita basis) than for a hetero.

      The ratio of pedophiles that are gay to straight is the same ratio of people who are gay to straight. And pedophilia isn't homosexuality anyways... a real homosexual wants a big fat hairy cock to suck, and little boys don't have those.

      And since this is Slashdot, I'll cite. Pedophiles who are attracted to young boys tend NOT to be attracted to adult men. Here's a link to a reference for a 1978 paper on the topic: http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/666571?dopt=Abstract

      And the abstract:

      "A random sample of 175 males convicted of sexual assault against children was screened with reference to their adult sexual orientation and the sex of their victims. The sample divided fairly evenly into two groups based on whether they were sexually fixated exclusively on children or had regressed from peer relationships. Female children were victimized nearly twice as often as male children. All regressed offenders, whether their victims were male or female children, were heterosexual in their adult orientation. There were no examples of regression to child victims among peer-oriented, homosexual males. The possibility emerges that homosexuality and homosexual pedophilia may be mutually exclusive and that the adult heterosexual male constitutes a greater risk to the underage child than does the adult homosexual male."

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    119. Re:I get so tired of this..... by euroq · · Score: 1

      Gay marriage is already legal in many areas of the world and it hasn't caused the downfall of society.

      I don't know what "mainstreaming homosexuality" is, but what I do know is that all I want is the end of governmental discrimination. I don't think (and no rational person thinks) that Baptists are going to start homosexual marrying each other in areas where it's legal.

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    120. Re:I get so tired of this..... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      it's none of your fucking business. i'm gonna dig up your corpse and fuck you in the face you bigoted piece of shit.

    121. Re:I get so tired of this..... by euroq · · Score: 1

      What stats? The Nazis had the most elaborate census data in human history, and found that the number was around 8%.

      Stats are very hard to determine. Health clinics now use the term "men who have sex with men" because many of them don't identify as "gay". I'm an American, and I've never written down on any census or poll that I'm gay.

      Now, I'm not bashing you... it's just that I've never seen any reliable data which puts the number at 1%-2%. I personally don't know the correct and actual answer, either, and I suspect nobody really can scientifically determine it in today's world.

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    122. Re:I get so tired of this..... by euroq · · Score: 1

      HA! My thoughts exactly. He loves feeling "persecuted".

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    123. Re:I get so tired of this..... by euroq · · Score: 1

      What's a militant gay?

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    124. Re:I get so tired of this..... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      " No, I resist the militant gays because they are just one front in the wider progressive movement to 'transform America' into fail. "

      Sorry, you already beat them to it, secret-fagot.

    125. Re:I get so tired of this..... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      The actual marriage is when you sign the certificate and it gets countersigned and witnessed.

      So the whole kerfuffle boils down to "we don't want gays to sign a piece of paper".

      I don't know about the US but in my country (Germany) married couples get substantial tax benefits:

      let x,y be the partner's respective income and tax(z) be the (progressive) formula for income taxation.

      an unmarried couple pays tax(x)+tax(y) in income tax

      a married couple pays tax((x+y)/2)*2 in income tax. It is easy to see that - as long as the tax system is progressive and x!=y - this results in lower taxes.

      So all moral and religious questions aside same-sex marriages are a matter of fiscal concern and in general the government is worse off allowing them.

    126. Re:I get so tired of this..... by shutdown+-p+now · · Score: 1

      For a progressive the philosophy seems to be "The one thing I won't tolerate is intolerance."

      It is, indeed, the only rational position - just as libertarians deem all freedoms of utmost importance, except for the freedom to take away others' freedoms ("... where my nose begins" and all that):

      "The so-called paradox of freedom is the argument that freedom in the sense of absence of any constraining control must lead to very great restraint, since it makes the bully free to enslave the meek. The idea is, in a slightly different form, and with very different tendency, clearly expressed in Plato.

      Less well known is the paradox of tolerance: Unlimited tolerance must lead to the disappearance of tolerance. If we extend unlimited tolerance even to those who are intolerant, if we are not prepared to defend a tolerant society against the onslaught of the intolerant, then the tolerant will be destroyed, and tolerance with them. — In this formulation, I do not imply, for instance, that we should always suppress the utterance of intolerant philosophies; as long as we can counter them by rational argument and keep them in check by public opinion, suppression would certainly be unwise. But we should claim the right to suppress them if necessary even by force; for it may easily turn out that they are not prepared to meet us on the level of rational argument, but begin by denouncing all argument; they may forbid their followers to listen to rational argument, because it is deceptive, and teach them to answer arguments by the use of their fists or pistols. We should therefore claim, in the name of tolerance, the right not to tolerate the intolerant. We should claim that any movement preaching intolerance places itself outside the law, and we should consider incitement to intolerance and persecution as criminal, in the same way as we should consider incitement to murder, or to kidnapping, or to the revival of the slave trade, as criminal."

      - Karl Popper, "The Open Society and Its Enemies"

    127. Re:I get so tired of this..... by shutdown+-p+now · · Score: 1

      Do you seriously believe that communist = socialist = liberal = progressive?

    128. Re:I get so tired of this..... by shutdown+-p+now · · Score: 1

      Really? You really don't believe gay marriage is part and parcel of the progressive efforts to mainstream homosexuality?

      Really? You really don't believe that desegregating buses and schools is part and parcel of the progressive efforts to mainstream miscegenation? Considering the abolitionists' track record it is a pretty safe bet the changes will be for the bad.

      I mean, just think of it, some nigger could screw a white lady - YUCK! (and she could be your daughter, too!) - and you wouldn't even be able to lynch him afterwards, like in the good old days.

    129. Re:I get so tired of this..... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      married has a specific religious meanings[sic]

      It does? The word "marriage" is used by Christians, Jews, Muslims, Hindus, Sikhs, Pagans, Athiests and pretty much any religious and non-religious group. Out of all of those groups, where is the common "specific religious meanings[sic]"? Why is it that only group of people who are not allowed to use the apparently all-encompassing term "marriage" are homosexuals?

    130. Re:I get so tired of this..... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I keep seeing the "government shouldn't be involved in marriage" argument over and over, but I think many people are saying it without really considering a lot of the complexities that legal marriage removes. As someone who is legally married to someone of the same sex (at the state level in a state outside of my own), my husband and I are keenly aware of how our rights change as we cross various state lines. As one of many small precautions, we both carry copies of our marriage license with us just in case something happens and we need to prove our relationship (e.g., one of us is taken to the emergency room).

      Married couples have all sorts of benefits beyond just how they fill out their taxes. When one dies, marriage defines where the wealth goes and how. When you get health benefits or social security benefits, it defines who counts. When one spouse is jailed, it defines who can visit them. There are many, many more examples of the way marriage provides simple ways for both the government and private institutions to make decisions to handle important matters with the two people in question.

      To remove marriage from the law makes everything else more complicated. I know this from personal experience. To do our best to simulate the federal legal coverage of straight marriage (which is not completely possible, even by a long shot), requires many, many complex legal contracts and documents. Gay groups actually have to hold workshops and seminars on how to do something that is automatic for straight couples.

      While it may make some people *feel* better about our relationship, saying that we can have a civil union that is identical to marriage is just silly. All you are doing is playing with words to make yourself feel better. At some point the law picked the word "marriage" to define these sorts of commitments between two people, so there is no reason to change it now. In fact, the past examples of "separate but equal" in the US are good reasons why you should use the same term.

      In the not too distant past, it was not legal for two people of different races to get married in the US. I am certain that there are still churches that think that mixed race marriages should not be allowed and are unnatural before their god. The simple fact is that different churches have different beliefs and those beliefs should be separate from the legal definition of marriage. My husband and I were married in a giant, beautiful, old stone church by a pastor that truly believed that our marriage was 100% legitimate in God's eyes. Now if only the government thought the same thing...

    131. Re:I get so tired of this..... by rubycodez · · Score: 1

      gee, and I would have thought the being together for 14 years was the marriage. but the fulfilment , the satisfaction, the closure, of that paper signing was really The Marriage. I just had my 14th anniversary too, and you've made me realise I've been a fool

    132. Re:I get so tired of this..... by rubycodez · · Score: 1

      the truth is marriage is an institution designed primarily to give some protection to women (while they of course at the same time lacked many, many other rights and protections)

    133. Re:I get so tired of this..... by rubycodez · · Score: 1

      Very interesting and telling of historic mindset that it was marriage to African people that was forbidden in most States. By 1910, 28 states prohibited certain forms of interracial marriage. but only seven states (Arizona, California, Mississippi, Montana, Nevada, Oregon, and Utah) forbad asians marrying whites.

    134. Re:I get so tired of this..... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Not a head shrinker or anything

      Obviously not. See next.

      ... since homosexuality is a mental abberation ...

      You keep saying that, and the majority of mental health professionals have disagreed with you for a generation or more.

      So, your arguments boil down to: "all gays are crazy", which is false; "all gays are child molesters", also false; and "gays fuck too much", which is entirely subjective.

    135. Re:I get so tired of this..... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      We're primates.

      Homosexuality is well within the documented range of behavioural norms for any number of primate species.

      Including ours.

      [Discusssion ends.]

    136. Re:I get so tired of this..... by LanMan04 · · Score: 1

      This 31 year old white American hetero agrees!

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    137. Re:I get so tired of this..... by Briareos · · Score: 1

      Legalizing same sex marriage has absolutely zero impact on anyone other than adult homosexuals who choose to marry their same-sex partner. It will not impact you (assuming you're heterosexual), your church, your own marriage, or anything or anyone else.

      Since this opens up the social benefit of a marriage to same-sex couples it deprives bigots of a reason to feel superior over said couples. Also, if that social benefit is spread to more people bigots probably perceive it as depriving them of something, however moronic that objectively is...

      np: Pink Floyd - Nobody Home (The Wall (Disc 2))

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    138. Re:I get so tired of this..... by gillbates · · Score: 1

      Regardless of whether you believe homosexuality to be a sin or the epitome of bliss, the fact of the matter is that the relationships homosexuals have with each other isn't marriage, and to ask the government to force others to accept your view on the subject is just plain wrong. It seems odd to me that, instead of asking people to accept them for who they are and their relationship for what it is, they are asking us to recognize them as married, as if they were merely eccentric heterosexuals. To do so only lends credence to the notion that the primary, fundamental human relationship is the union of a man and a woman. It also glosses over the distinctions between the union of man and woman and that of two people who, ostensibly, love each other.

      Gays would do better just to be honest about their relationships. Even though my fellow heterosexuals do things with other heterosexuals I personally find morally objectionable, we can continue to treat each other like human beings because we are honest with each other, and honest about our disagreement on moral issues. It keeps the discussion open. But it seems like gays and lesbians have a problem with terms such as girlfriend or boyfriend, and oddly believe that a culture in which committed, non-marriage relationships are the norm, will not understand their relationship unless it's called marriage. As if we've never loved anyone passionately or deeply.

      But with such dishonesty going on, an open dialogue is impossible. It is difficult for gays to understand the opposing point of view - that marriage is more than just a committed relationship, that it is more than just a matter of how two people feel about each other. Marriage - as traditionally understood - is the only relationship from which new life comes into the world, and is the best relationship in which to raise children. Having myself been raised for a portion of my life without my father in the home, I wouldn't wish the experience on anyone. No one would doubt the love of my mother, but she just wasn't a father when I needed one. And yet I see lesbians adopting children, who lack even the ability to understand the emotional harm they'll inflict on their adopted child. They really, genuinely don't see what a mother and father give to their children, nor understand the joy of bringing your spouse's child into the world. To have a loving relationship sanctioned by God seems a concept beyond their reach.

      And I don't blame gays or lesbians for being the way they are. I blame the rest of the world for suggesting that the basis and core of marriage is simply a strong love for someone else. I blame the sympathizers who - without any understanding of real marriage in the first place - suggest that gay and lesbian relationships are equivalent to the one I have with my wife, in spite of the profound moral and logical ignorance of such a position. The debate over marriage has never been about "who people love", but rather, about the role and expectations of marriage in society. From a governmental point of view, marriage is treated differently, and needs special treatment, only because it is the relationship from which new life comes into the world. It is the genesis of the family, which is crucial to the health of our society.

      The debate about marriage is not about discriminating against homosexuals, but recognizing the merits of the traditional family. If you chose not to go that route - and many very holy people have - fine. But making that choice doesn't entitle you to the treatment given to those of us who have. Those of us who marry spouses of the opposite sex take on a commitment and role in society that gay and lesbian couples will never do. Again, from a social perspective, there's nothing wrong with not getting married. But we are a people capable of recognizing fine distinctions in relationships, and we must be honest with each other if we expect all people to be treated with dignity and respect. Calling the union of two homosexuals marriage isn't respecting them; rather, it suggests that you really wish they'd married someone of the opposite sex. In other words, you don't understand their relationship, and would rather avoid conflict than come to terms with what their relationship is really about.

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    139. Re:I get so tired of this..... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      You can imagine how difficult it would be to be like that. Being in your thirties and never having been attracted to an adult, male or female, ever, and boys being 'the enemy.' I'm sure the attraction probably seemed just peachy when they were 19 or something, but then as they get older they start seeing themselves turning into that creepy old man, you know? Except they won't ever become that creepy old man because they keep it all inside and would kill themselves before they would do anything wrong, and avoid boys like they are the plague, and consider themselves honorable and even righteous because they have this attraction and have to struggle with it their whole life but they have never, and will never offend, and what's more heroic than that? They get a bad hand in the game of life in who they're attracted to and instead redirect any pain onto themselves and deal with it through substance abuse and other escapes.

      Yeah, there's lots of more painful things in this world than being celibate your entire life. And like you said, someone attracted to little boys isn't gay... how awkward is that? Like when someone asks them at a party if they're gay, what are they supposed to say? ... knowing that they are most likely doomed to living and dying without a close relationship (with another adult) like everybody else gets. What's worse is there isn't any therapy waiting for that person. There is no possible treatment. There are no support groups, no AA for them, no disability support. If there was, someone would fire-bomb it at the first meeting. The only therapy available would be working out the problems with a therapist or by themselves, diagnosing and dealing with the root of the problem that has led them to being like they are, but that is unlikely. It must really suck, because they have a mental aberration and their sexuality is a mental illness. So they are not gay or straight, they are stuck in some limbo and will probably grow old alone.

    140. Re:I get so tired of this..... by cold+fjord · · Score: 1

      You harken back to the old days that never were. And did you ever stop to think that records of gay marriages in the past were destroyed by the church in order to keep their handhold on the institution?

      No doubt they were destroyed at the same time they destroyed all of the records of marriages to space aliens.

      How the fuck do you know what went in 5000 years ago?

      If only there were some records..... if only...

      And how the fuck is that relevant today?

      'Also let none of you devise evil in your heart against another, and do not love perjury; -- Zechariah 8:17 (580+ BCE)
      "'Do not seek revenge or bear a grudge against one of your people, but love your neighbor as yourself. I am the LORD. -- Leviticus 19:18 (1270+ BCE)

      That still seems sound.

      In short, you win the award for Biggest Piece Of Shit Of The Day.

      So you don't support the idea of civil discourse then?

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    141. Re:I get so tired of this..... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Out of all of those groups, where is the common "specific religious meanings[sic]"? Why is it that only group of people who are not allowed to use the apparently all-encompassing term "marriage" are homosexuals?

      Bingo! The common element is man and woman join in marriage, not man and man, or woman and woman.

      See, you were almost there....

    142. Re:I get so tired of this..... by ClioCJS · · Score: 1

      Looks like we have a new winner for today.

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    143. Re:I get so tired of this..... by MightyMartian · · Score: 1

      The debate is simple. Why is it exactly that you want to tell consenting adults what kind of relationship they can possibly have? Why is it that you feel you have the right or wisdom to poke your nose in other peoples' business? It's supposed to be a free country, which means you get to believe what you want to believe, but you don't get an automatic veto on how other people choose to live.

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    144. Re:I get so tired of this..... by cold+fjord · · Score: 1

      I suspect you do love your neighbor as yourself, which is sad, really.

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    145. Re:I get so tired of this..... by ClioCJS · · Score: 1

      I suspect you lack the ability to say anything not linked to superstitions that have been passed down for millenia.

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    146. Re:I get so tired of this..... by cold+fjord · · Score: 1

      Hmmm.... let's see....

      Militantly atheist communist governments killed about 100,000,000 people in the last 100 years.

      The birth rate of native Europeans is so far below replacement rate that they risk serious social problems in the next 30 years.

      Gallium Arsenide is an interesting III-V semiconductor material for a number of reasons.

      Engineers in the Soviet Union continued to perfect and use vacuum tubes long after they were abandoned in the West.

      Well, bad luck, your suspicion turns out to be false. Of course what is interesting about that is that I was simply responding to your statements that were, to use your phrase, "linked to superstitions that have been passed down for millenia."

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    147. Re:I get so tired of this..... by s73v3r · · Score: 1

      The fact of the matter is, your bullshit doesn't work here. You're trying to tie Mr. Garrison's behavior in that episode, namely, performing sex acts in front of children, including sticking a gerbil up another man's ass, with allowing gay marriage. And it's not going to work.

      I don't give a fuck how repulsive or how much you don't like gay people. That does NOT give you the right to try and deny them their civil rights. END OF STORY.

    148. Re:I get so tired of this..... by s73v3r · · Score: 1

      I honestly don't give a shit. The point is for people to have equal rights. The fact that you're trying to tie this into being part of some big "homosexual agenda" plot is fucking crazy.

      There is no "homosexual agenda", any more than there was an "interracial agenda" or a "black agenda" back in the 50s/60s. Pull your head out of your ass, and realize that these people have just as much right to live their lives, and enjoy all the privileges of marriage that you do.

    149. Re:I get so tired of this..... by s73v3r · · Score: 1

      As for this "mainstreaming homosexuality" bullshit, yes. If it means the end of hate-driven violence against gay people in many parts of the world, including some parts of the US, then I'm all for it.

      And considering the progressive's track record it is a pretty safe bet the changes will be for the bad./quote.

      Sorry. History disagrees with you on that one. Society progressing has been a GOOD THING, as it has meant more rights and opportunities for the people.

      Maybe if you stopped trying to see this as some "progressive plot", and looked at it as two loving people trying to get the same rights and recognition as two other loving people, then your attitude might change.

    150. Re:I get so tired of this..... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      people with the same rights as white people.

      Please get the fuck out of my country! I bet you're religious too, so I hope you just kill yourself and go to hell.

      --from a hetro, 30yr, white, American male.

      My, my what an excitable young man. Rights are a fantasy invented by white people. There is nothing in the heavens written to say we have rights. And let's face it whites and their 'rights' obsession are fading in influence. Within 50 years it will be viewed as a quaint idea. As America declines and the world rejoices (and the US is overrun by people who despise stupid American culture) my guess you'll rethink your sanctimonious position.

      Rights are not an issue in China, India, Africa, Middle East = 6.5 billion people. Get some perspective you doofus.

  7. Well, they are trying... by Chrisq · · Score: 5, Funny

    Well, they are trying to entice apple fanbois to switch to Microsoft. This is a logical marketing move

    1. Re:Well, they are trying... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

      and your choice of computer would be?

    2. Re:Well, they are trying... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

      Sure is butthurt Macfag in here.

    3. Re:Well, they are trying... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I'm gay and I hate Apple, you insensitive clod!

    4. Re:Well, they are trying... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Well, they are trying to entice apple fanbois to switch to Microsoft. This is a logical marketing move

      Translation: Everyone knows Microsoft is gay...

    5. Re:Well, they are trying... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      So you feel offended because you're a Mac user or gay?

    6. Re:Well, they are trying... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      He must be a butthurt Mac user.
      I'm gay and I think it was quite funny.

    7. Re:Well, they are trying... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I'm sorry, are you 12, or just stupid?

    8. Re:Well, they are trying... by rubycodez · · Score: 1

      but MS will have now have to come up with some gay products. like Microsoft Bob was.

    9. Re:Well, they are trying... by cffrost · · Score: 1

      Applz 4 teh gayz.

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  8. Corporations are not people by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

    Corporations are not people and do not deserve the same rights to free speech.

    Wait... did you say in *favor* of gay marriage? Oh-ho, well carry on.

    1. Re:Corporations are NOT people by ClioCJS · · Score: 1

      homophobe

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    2. Re:Corporations are not people by donaggie03 · · Score: 1

      You jest; but I believe the current supreme court standing, which bestows personhood on corporations and other groups, is one of the five fatal flaws in the U.S. government. I believe corporate personhood is a larger threat to our freedoms than any so called "terrorist threats."

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    3. Re:Corporations are NOT people by GodInHell · · Score: 2

      How do we the people change things so that we, not corporations, rule the country?

      Federalize the law of corporations, and make it a breach of fiduciary duty for the managers and directors to spend money on any task not directly related to the scope of their business. You'll have to play with the language a few times to tell the Supreme Court you mean it, but that would work.

      -GiH

    4. Re:Corporations are not people by littlebigbot · · Score: 1

      What are the other 4?

    5. Re:Corporations are not people by donaggie03 · · Score: 1

      Mostly things that have already received thier fair share of slashdot commentary already.
      1) The constant expansion of federal power through a vile misrepresentation of the commerce clause (by the Supreme Court).
      2) The constant limitation of the people's and the state's power by the Supreme Court adding exception after exception to the Bill of Rights. (free speech zones, border crossing zones, etc)
      3) The interpretation that treaties are held at the same level as the constitution itself.
      4) The defacto standing of the Supreme Court as the final arbiter of a law's constitutionality. IMO it is entirely too difficult to overturn a Supreme Court verdict. You can wait 30 years for the old bags to get replaced, and then work through the court system again, or you can try to pass a constitutional amendment, which is a terrible ordeal in itself.

      Most other major injustices in America today (Patriot Act, NDAA, I'm looking at you) can be traced back to one of these.

      As I write this, I realize that all the other issues I've listed actually stem from the last one: there are no effective checks and balances on the Supreme Court.

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    6. Re:Corporations are NOT people by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      This is related to their scope of business. If they are saying they cannot hire qualified workers because of the laws on the books scare them away then they have a justified business reason to request the laws be changed.

    7. Re:Corporations are NOT people by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      No, the GP has a good point. Corporations are not people, they should not be able to influence policy.

      But the embarrassing thing is that people haven't taken the steps necessary to do what's right, they instead have forced it to become such a problem that it begins to have an economic impact severe enough to attract the interests of mega-corporations....

      So, "homophobic"? How about no.

  9. There is some thing wrong with that.... by Stumbles · · Score: 0

    I just can't put my finger in it.

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    1. Re:There is some thing wrong with that.... by ClioCJS · · Score: 0

      Yea you can. It just won't smell as good coming out.

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  10. Get the popcorn by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    I don't expect to see much of the "Corporations + politics = bad" sentiment in this thread, because, "hey, they're doing something I agree with"

    The Slashdot Double-Standard will be in full effect.

    1. Re:Get the popcorn by ClioCJS · · Score: 2

      It's not a double standard. Corporations + something bad = bad. Corporations + something good = good. "Something" is often "politics", and that something is often "bad". In this case, it is not. You've attempted to reduce the "Corporations + bad politics" half of the equation to "corporations + politics". I'm pretty sure if corporations only did good things, 99% of peoples' complaints would go away. Corporations were originally required to serve the public interest, or their charter would automatically dissolve.

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    2. Re:Get the popcorn by Dhalka226 · · Score: 1

      The Slashdot Double-Standard will be in full effect.

      I'm not sure that it is a double standard. Corporations--believe it or not--are supposed to exist for the public good. It used to be that that meant more than just "sell products that people like enough not to go out of business." Insofar as the corporations are serving what I consider to be the public good, why should I oppose them? If they are not serving the public good, the reasons to oppose them should be crystal clear.

      I do believe "corporations + politics = bad," for the same reason that I believe a dictatorship is bad: Even if it is going great now --think of how much good a benevolent and insightful dictator could do--there is no guarantee it will be good tomorrow. If all corporations ever did was promote the public good, I'd love for them to be involved. I think it is an admirable goal. Unfortunately, we all know otherwise.

      "Corporations + politics = bad" is a safety net, it is the broad-stroke cut, it is the recognition of the fact that one bad apple spoils the bunch. It is the utterly unnuanced opinion. I for one would love to take a more nuanced opinion, but unfortunately nuance tends to turn into loophole and get abused. It's safer this way.

      So yeah, my general position is that corporations should be kept out of politics. They should not have free speech rights. They should not be able to donate to political campaigns or set up or participate in PACs or any other process intended to influence governance. But I'm also not going to give a shit if Microsoft wants to support gay rights, because my goal was never to keep corporations out of politics -- my goal was to ensure corporations create and promote public good or at least do not harm it (and yes, I realize that evaluation is subjective). Keeping corporations out of politics was the means, not the end.

      Double standard? Maybe. I don't see it that way.

    3. Re:Get the popcorn by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      You just turned "something I disagree with" into "something bad." GP said nothing about good or bad (except as the result of corporations + politics), because that's up to your own personal opinion. What you think is bad somebody else may think is good. If your argument is "that policy is good/bad," then leave the fact that it's a corporation supporting/opposing out of it. That's the point GP is making.

    4. Re:Get the popcorn by ClioCJS · · Score: 1

      Equal rights is always good. Fail.

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    5. Re:Get the popcorn by rohan972 · · Score: 1

      Just because they support one thing you agree with doesn't mean you shouldn't oppose the mechanism by which they do it. They could support it with their internal policies and impact society. We need to break the corporate influence over politics. It will always benefit the few who control the corporations at the expense of the general population.

      If people in charge of corporations want laws passed, they should make the case to the public, not directly to our elected representatives. Our corporate overlords do not care what marriage arrangements you have so long as they can rob you of political and economic power. Corporations supporting change you like is just bait for the trap.

  11. No love for the poor people though :D by gasmonso · · Score: 1

    No love for the poor people though as Microsoft rolls out the Avoid The Ghetto App! Now it'll be interesting to see what ruffles more feathers... supporting gay marriage or the "racist" avoid the ghetto app :)

    gasmonso ReligiousFreaks.com

    1. Re:No love for the poor people though :D by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Don't conflate poor with ghetto. The two are not the same.

    2. Re:No love for the poor people though :D by im_thatoneguy · · Score: 1

      If I get mugged and robbed most of the valuables taken will be sold for pennies on the dollar.

      Better to take it through taxes than petty theft.

    3. Re:No love for the poor people though :D by RanCossack · · Score: 2

      I actually clicked and read that... and, err... that's a bit of fuss about nothing, isn't it?

    4. Re:No love for the poor people though :D by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Um, you realize that the government will actually use most the money they get from you to build their power rather then actual help the poor. Remember don't solve a problem when you can get power by "helping" whilst actual making it worse. That way they'll need more of your "help" in the future.

      That being said their are some charities that actual help the poor. Until some Politician/MBA gets to the top.

    5. Re:No love for the poor people though :D by im_thatoneguy · · Score: 1

      Reported in the Journal of the American Medical Association (JAMA), the peer-reviewed study found that providing housing to chronically homeless people with severe alcohol problems who use the most community resources can dramatically cut public costs.

      http://www.tacoma.uw.edu/features/research/housing-homeless-alcoholics-saves-millions-dollars

      Keep telling yourself that government intervention is useless. It might not be perfect but a well organized charity can actually affect change.

    6. Re:No love for the poor people though :D by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      yeah but it's a good idea to avoid poor people.

    7. Re:No love for the poor people though :D by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      That's a summary of the Huffington Post right there!

  12. Re:Microsoft has always been by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    There is a reason why AIDS was originally called GRIDS in the 80's.

  13. Corporations are NOT people by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

    Who gives a flying F about what corporations think about morality laws? Except maybe politicians that are getting their pockets filled with cash.

    Seriously, corporations should not be able to lobby at all - at all about anything. Corporations should acknowledge that their right to exist and operate within a given geo-political region is a privilege. They operate at the pleasure of the people and the privilege to operate can be taken away by the people.

    How do we the people change things so that we, not corporations, rule the country?

  14. Micro$oft by Alsee · · Score: 0

    Those Micro$oft bastards are trying to abuse their operating system monopoly to gain monopoly control over....
    uhhh... marriage? Waitaminiute...

    Google tries their best not to be Evil.
    Microsoft tries their best to be Evil.

    I guess it's true what they say. Nobody's perfect.

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  15. This is news??? by ClioCJS · · Score: 1

    OMG a corporation doing something for the public good {besides selling us widgets we need}. It's sad, but this. is. news. It really shouldn't be. This is how they should normally act. They should all use their influence to make the world better, not worse.

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    1. Re:This is news??? by shutdown+-p+now · · Score: 1

      A corporation is doing something for its bottom line (trying to attract more talent in a field where being openly gay is far more accepted than in many other professions). It just happens to coincide with public good in this case.

      Same as any other corporation. Why would you expect anything different, really? Corporations exist to make money. Making the world better is supposed to be a function of a democratic government, and driven by its citizens.

    2. Re:This is news??? by ClioCJS · · Score: 1

      It's actually supposed to be how all corporations work - read up on the history of original corporations as chartered by the king, with an automatic death sentence after 8 or 16 years if review finds that they are not operating in the public interest. We lost sight of the original definition.

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  16. Have a nice day! by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

    Nope, I'm pretty sure the point you just made is bullshit.

    1. Re:Have a nice day! by GodInHell · · Score: 0

      Utter bullshit.

    2. Re:Have a nice day! by Sponge+Bath · · Score: 2

      Udder bullshit! Moo!

    3. Re:Have a nice day! by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I disagree completely. I don't think he had a point.

    4. Re:Have a nice day! by EdgeCreeper · · Score: 1

      Patent bullshit.

      Couldn't resist.

  17. Re:Microsoft has always been by hedwards · · Score: 1

    Repeat after me, correlation is not causation.

  18. Once You Pigeonhole Them It's Easy, Right? by eldavojohn · · Score: 4, Insightful

    Hell, I only TOLERATE progressives, I certainly don't ACCEPT em and since 99% of gays are also progs........ you guys made my shitlist long before my gaydar went off.

    I guess it was really hard for you to justify automatically hating homosexuals right up until the point that you could say "99% of gays are also progs." Then I bet it was really easy for you to say you hate them not because they're gay but because of their political alignment (that you forced upon them).

    Well done. Well done. Say, have you ever considered that they're also human beings with different needs than you? That they just want to be recognized the same way you are by your government that supposedly espouses equal rights?

    Homosexuality is a mental defect, albeit a minor one in the bigger scheme of things.

    A mental defect you say? Are you aware that the method by which we communicate right now could not have been possible without the progress of one man who had such a mental defect (in more than one way)?

    Take all your political bullshit and leave. This is about the rights of human beings. Not "being progressive" or "saying 2+2=5" but about respecting your fellow citizens the same fucking way they respect you.

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    1. Re:Once You Pigeonhole Them It's Easy, Right? by __aasehi2499 · · Score: 1

      A species is engineered to perpetuate itself. Just because there are aberrant examples of the opposite does not take away from the fact. Whether you are a 'religious nutjob' or fully adhere to the theory of evolution, the engineering is towards perpetuation. Also, the future possibility of forcing the merger of same sex chromosomes into a life form does not validate the aberration either.

    2. Re:Once You Pigeonhole Them It's Easy, Right? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Who gives a shit about them, politicians only support them for a vote. They care less about fags than they do the rest of the population.
      Your link is irrelavent, he can go off to butt fuck land with the rest of you, his ideas would have been found anyway
      Take all your political bullshit and leave, you are taking up valuable space

    3. Re:Once You Pigeonhole Them It's Easy, Right? by Lumpy · · Score: 1

      This same moron will say that Polyamory is also a "mental defect" yet humans are actually wired for it and only until the past 500 years have we been forced into monogamy by the church.

      I'm also betting the guy things the earth is 6000 years old, and Noah built a big boat all by himself.

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    4. Re:Once You Pigeonhole Them It's Easy, Right? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      You’re right inasmuch as homosexual sex cannot produce offspring. But then, sexually abstinent heterosexuals cannot (normally) produce offspring either, and I don’t hear you complaining about the scourge of chaste people.

      Bottom line is, just because somebody is born to, or chooses to, live an evolutionarily-disadventageous life, is really neither here nor there. Last time I heard, the theory of evolution by natural selection is a descriptive law, not a prescriptive law. It describes how evolution works, not how humans should strive to behave.

      So I suggest that if you want to perpetuate your genes, you go right on ahead, just don’t, absurdly, criticise others for your imagined crime of not being good enough at procreating.

    5. Re:Once You Pigeonhole Them It's Easy, Right? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Counter argument:

      See ants. Or bees. Or Termites.

      The engineering is towards the most wide variety of genes with respect to the number of contributors that will ensure an environment that said genes will prosper. Certainly, more variety is better, but the one pairing of male and female towards the spawning of one or few offspring, albeit the predominant method, is simply one such manner of of doing what you claim. There is more than one way to do go about which you claim.

    6. Re:Once You Pigeonhole Them It's Easy, Right? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Funny, respecting your fellow citizens is something progressives never do, especially when it comes to Christians. Show some respect, and maybe it'll be returned. Nah, right? It's too much fun to be a bigot and shit all over Christians whenever possible, because you disagree with their political beliefs.

    7. Re:Once You Pigeonhole Them It's Easy, Right? by MichaelSmith · · Score: 1

      an organism designed for a specific purpose

      Nope.

    8. Re:Once You Pigeonhole Them It's Easy, Right? by jmorris42 · · Score: 1

      > This same moron will say that Polyamory is also a "mental defect"

      Not at all. Whether a society allows a man to have more than one wife seems to track pretty closely with how many men tend to get killed off. Remember kids, boys and girls are NOT the same and any society who believes otherwise is suicidal. Men are expendable, breeding age females aren't and it is generally a bad idea to have a lot of unmarried females around for long going unutilized. So if a society is losing a lot of it's men that society will pretty quickly allow the survivors to marry more than one woman. On the other hand having a bunch of unattached males is destabilizing to a society so if you aren't having enough wars and such to thin the male population you want to discourage a few powerful males from scarfing up all the poon.

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    9. Re:Once You Pigeonhole Them It's Easy, Right? by ChrisMaple · · Score: 1

      The idea that without Alan Turing's existence the things he developed would never have happened is nothing short of absurd.

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    10. Re:Once You Pigeonhole Them It's Easy, Right? by Microlith · · Score: 1

      You wouldn't happen to be an aspiring member of the FLDS, would you?

    11. Re:Once You Pigeonhole Them It's Easy, Right? by jmorris42 · · Score: 1

      > You wouldn't happen to be an aspiring member of the FLDS, would you?

      No, but they do make an almost perfect example of what I'm talking about. Dig around em a bit and you will discover their 'little problem.' They have a stupifying surplus of males. They live in America and we are at peace (generally) and have excellent medical care so their population distribution can only support their lifestyle by expelling most of their male offspring into the larger population. Put em somewhere that escape value isn't available and they would either go to war or do something else dangerous enough to soak off a lot of men. Or they would change their lifestyle.

      Look at the middle east for another example. Islam allows for four because the region was marginal enough that a lot of men got killed off even before considering their warlike tendencies. This is now causing them problems in the lots of unmarried men dept. China is about to find out why killing off millions of girls was a bad idea.

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    12. Re:Once You Pigeonhole Them It's Easy, Right? by FrootLoops · · Score: 1

      A mental defect you say? Are you aware that the method by which we communicate right now could not have been possible without the progress of one man who had such a mental defect (in more than one way)?

      While I agree that homosexuality is not a mental defect (whatever that phrase even means), the fact that Turing was both gay and productive is not an argument for that position. Then again, stupid people might see it as such, and you were addressing a stupid person.... That brings up an interesting point: is it right to argue in a way you know is wrong if only because the person you're arguing with will believe you?

    13. Re:Once You Pigeonhole Them It's Easy, Right? by MightyMartian · · Score: 2

      1. Organisms aren't designed, they evolve.
      2. We're hardly the only species that has sex purely for pleasure. By your logic, anal and oral sex among heterosexuals, or sex between heterosexuals where one or both members cannot reproduce is wrong.
      3. In a secular country, no church has any business saying who can or cannot enter a civil union. That is, after all, what a civil union is about. Churches are free to decide who can get married in their venue, but as others have pointed out, none of that counts. The only thing the state recognizes is the signatures legitimizing the civil union.
      4. Quit worrying so much about what consenting adults do. It's none of your fucking business.

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    14. Re:Once You Pigeonhole Them It's Easy, Right? by icebraining · · Score: 1

      A species isn't engineered. Some perpetuate themselves, others don't.

    15. Re:Once You Pigeonhole Them It's Easy, Right? by icebraining · · Score: 1

      Do you have data to support your claims?

    16. Re:Once You Pigeonhole Them It's Easy, Right? by artor3 · · Score: 1

      I'm sure I'll get modded down for this, because people hate rationality when it comes to issues they care about, but...

      The fact that a person with Condition X did amazing things does not mean that Condition X is not a defect. Stephen Hawking should be all the counterexample you need, but you'd probably try to argue that his condition isn't mental in nature, so I'll also include John Nash ("the guy from A Beautiful Mind", as you likely know him).

      And for the record I fully support homosexuals being extended every right available to heterosexuals, and even went out an volunteered to help pass the so-called "Everything But Marriage" act. But in addition to valuing equality, I also value logic and honesty.

    17. Re:Once You Pigeonhole Them It's Easy, Right? by euroq · · Score: 2

      As a gay man, I concur that homosexuality isn't the majority result in the human species. But neither is left-handedness. Everyone has something that isn't normal, everyone. It could be as small as a cell that grows abnormally in a small organ somewhere in your body.

      And just because you don't like gays, doesn't mean everyone doesn't like them.

      "Immoral" is a relevant term - I think your post is quite immoral.

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    18. Re:Once You Pigeonhole Them It's Easy, Right? by sonamchauhan · · Score: 1

      Homosexuality is certainly _not_ a mental defect - it is a moral one.

    19. Re:Once You Pigeonhole Them It's Easy, Right? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Language, wearing cloths, measuring time and religion are mental defects too.

      LGBT's are cool people and welcome in my reality.

    20. Re:Once You Pigeonhole Them It's Easy, Right? by __aasehi2499 · · Score: 1

      Hence it being aberrant behavior.

    21. Re:Once You Pigeonhole Them It's Easy, Right? by rohan972 · · Score: 1

      That brings up an interesting point: is it right to argue in a way you know is wrong if only because the person you're arguing with will believe you?

      Only if there are people observing who will understand what you've done and think it is funny.

    22. Re:Once You Pigeonhole Them It's Easy, Right? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      This is my society and I am not going to let a gaggle of whining misfits who are mentally ill try to redefine a term in order to somehow make their sick state "normal" and legitimate.

      I'm mentally ill but I'm not gay, but I am married. Marriage has little to do with matching pairs of opposite genitals.

      To quote the B-52's, "Give and let live, love and be loved."

  19. YEAH!!! by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 4, Informative

    Microsoft has, for a very long time, been supportive of LGBT folks. Microsoft's benefits have, for a very long time, fully covered domestic partners at the same level as spouses. Microsoft supports GLEAM -- Gays and Lesbians At Microsoft -- and openly supports GLEAM marching in Seattle's gay pride parades.

    And it isn't just some corporate PR sham. I've worked at Microsoft since 1997, and have worked with almost a dozen gay/lesbian folks, who were out and happy at work.

    1. Re:YEAH!!! by Lumpy · · Score: 0

      "Microsoft has, for a very long time, been supportive of LGBT folks."

      Yes they have, Steve Ballmer is the worlds best known lesbian CEO. It's amazing how good a job she does. ....

      Wait, ballmer is a dude? When did that happen?

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  20. I see the trick! by p0p0 · · Score: 4, Funny

    They want to legalize it so that in the Windows 8 EULA they can legally marry anyone, and if you install another OS it'll be considered cheating and they can divorce you and take half your stuff!
    It's a new form of vendor lock-in.

    Those clever bastards.

  21. Stop using MS? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Does this mean those religious folk that oppose hay marriage will stop using MS products?

  22. The Atlantic?? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Shouldn't The Pacific have the scoop with this story?

  23. Freedom is an American value. by Brain-Fu · · Score: 2

    If, as you say, civil unions are just as good as marriage, then why are you so adamant in insisting that homosexuals can have one but not the other?

    Why don't we just abolish one completely and make the other available to both straight and gay couples? That sure would make things simple. And fair.

    I am sorry that you find homosexual marriage threatening. But that doesn't change the fact that homosexuals are real people, who really fall in love, and really want all the legal/social benefits that marriage provides. You must share the world with homosexuals, whether you want to or not, and passing laws that deny important freedoms to your neighbors is flat out unjust.

    I am curious....are you an American? And if so, do you actually believe that freedom for everyone is a core American value? It amazes me how many Americans, some of whom would even consider themselves patriots, work hard to deny freedom to their neighbors.

    1. Re:Freedom is an American value. by SteveW928 · · Score: 1

      Marriage is a privilege, not a right (at least as far as the state is concerned... social or religious marriage is another matter).
      So, this isn't a matter of freedom... a GLBT couple is already free to form a committed relationship, live together, do what they like in the bedroom, etc.
      The state needs to make the decision based on achieving a stable and prosperous society. To do so, they need to promote stability in the relationship which produces the next generation. That is the reason for state marriage... not to make people happy who fall in love.

    2. Re:Freedom is an American value. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      So why isn't the state also banning marriage for infertile couples, or couples who don't plan to have children?

    3. Re:Freedom is an American value. by SteveW928 · · Score: 1

      Because it is based off the general, not each specific case. This (hopefully) isn't China.

  24. Re:Microsoft has always been by bobcat7677 · · Score: 4, Informative

    I would have modded this as I have mod points...but there is no "WRONG" mod. Get a little education: http://www.avert.org/can-you-get-hiv-aids.htm

  25. Corporations are still not people by Brain-Fu · · Score: 2

    And it is a sad state of affairs when only corporate pressure can bring the government to protect freedoms as basic and important as marriage.

    Corporations should not dominate politics. This doesn't change the fact that sometimes some corporate interests actually align with the greater good of the people. This temporary alliance in no way changes the fact that corporations should not be treated as people.

    1. Re:Corporations are still not people by TheVelvetFlamebait · · Score: 1

      And it is a sad state of affairs when only corporate pressure can bring the government to protect freedoms as basic and important as marriage.

      After many, many years of tireless effort of many people to change the hearts and minds about homosexual marriage, and before it actually has any kind of positive effect, you're attributing our progress towards gay marriage to a corporation speaking in favour of it?

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  26. Agreed by Brain-Fu · · Score: 1

    Corporate domination of politics has made America effectively a Fascist nation.

    In this particular case, one corporation happens to be lobbying in favor of a very important civil liberty....but ideally Microsoft would have no power to do this and ordinary people would be championing this cause through voting and letter-writing campaigns and so on.

  27. Yay! Microsoft! by gQuigs · · Score: 2

    What? I don't get the opportunity to say that very often.

    1. Re:Yay! Microsoft! by euroq · · Score: 1

      LOL. Xbox 360 is pretty sweet, too.

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  28. Re:What a load of BS by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    This is a classic example of a strawman argument. Define your opponents position and then say it's wrong. Are you saying you can't think of a more valid example? I can. Poor you.

  29. Why are governments in the business or marriage... by fooslacker · · Score: 1

    Why not govern individuals and legal relationships and that taxation and legal impacts (e.g. head of house hold, dependent, heir, guardian). Government shouldn't be defining marriage at all, hetero-, gay, or whatever. Let religion, secular, and for all I care labor unions, secret societies, and fan clubs define that kind of thing. Instead govern individuals (with a blind eye legally to any differentiating characteristics or demographics of the individual) and only deal in relationships where they have an impact on how individuals are governed and legal rights. Then you avoid arguments like whether or not a or b is a valid marriage and what the rights of a married couple should be compared to single folks etc. When governments start governing groups instead of individuals, dictating cultural norms, and trying to influence social belief structures you usually run into trouble IMHO.

  30. So they are trying to poach Googles employees by Fujisawa+Sensei · · Score: 0

    This explains why they aren't colluding with Apple and Google, they're actively trying to poach their employees.

    So now you geeks working for those evil companies like Google and Apple with the no-poach agreements know where to send your resumes, Microsoft and Nike.

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    1. Re:So they are trying to poach Googles employees by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 4, Informative

      Microsoft has supported its LGBT employees since before Google even *existed*.

      Nice attempt at trolling, though.

    2. Re:So they are trying to poach Googles employees by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      The statement was about poaching employees.

  31. Re:What a load of BS by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    The conversation you imagine doesn't happen because Microsoft never saw Jim's resume to begin with, because Jim never moved to Washington in the first place due to being unable to get legally married there. That's not a huge loss in the case of Jim particularly, but eventualy Microsoft notices that there are quite a lot of Jims, and that they're going to Google and Yahoo and so on because those companies are located in a place where Jims can marry Joes if they want. And lobbying WA to change the law is way cheaper and easier than pulling up stakes and moving down to CA.

    Of course, you already knew this, and have chosen to put forth a strawman (in other words, to lie) for some reason.

  32. Totalitarianism by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Deciding what their employees THINK. I know - I live in the U.K.

    There is no free speech here. Everything has to be Left wing, Marxist, or you're sacked from your job. No dissent is allowed. Most importantly, none of this Marxist bullshit was ever DISCUSSED.

    Because, of course, it can't pass rational debate.

    Homosexuals are mentally ill, nobody is 'born that way', homosexuals become homosexual for the same reason other people develop PARAPHILIAS. (Look it up).

    Homosexuality is just another paraphilia, nothing special about it, it's still a mental illness. It still shouldn't be encouraged, 'celebrated', etc.

    The very fact that all of this 'gay rights' bullshit had to be FORCED on the 99.5% of the population who AREN'T gay, should tell you something...

    It's totalitarianism, and if you support 'gay rights', you are supporting totalitarianism.

    Most people had no problems in the 1960s when gay men like Kenneth Williams were world famous STARS, nobody hated him and wanted to beat him up because he was gay. What people object to is not gay people, but being FORCED to pretend to agree with a bullshit ideology. In fact, the more I have to listen to this 'pro gay bullshit', the more I hate it and don't want to be anywhere near gays, in case I commit a 'thought crime' and say something that 'offends' them.

    1. Re:Totalitarianism by expatriot · · Score: 1

      Your view of the UK is just your paranoid delusion.

      On the other hand, as most of us don't care what you feel so perhaps it is not entirely paranoia.

    2. Re:Totalitarianism by praxis · · Score: 1

      More than 0.5% of the population is openly gay. I fail to see how you are forced to think anything by anyone. You are free to be a bigot if you so choose, and others are free to react to your viewpoint as they see fit.

    3. Re:Totalitarianism by nosferatu1001 · · Score: 1

      Utter bollocks. You have absolutely no idea of what you speak of

      Fuck off and die, bigot

    4. Re:Totalitarianism by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      We need more people like him. He plays rugby league perhaps. Perchance he thinks that (association) football is for BENTS and POOFTERS.

      Perhaps he is a SCOT!

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    5. Re:Totalitarianism by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

      That's the problem right there. Anyone who disagrees with gay marriage is assumed to be a bigot. If I say, "homosexuality grosses me out," somehow that makes me a bigot. If I say, "male-female S&M grosses me out," I'm not considered a bigot.

      I don't have any problem with people being gay. Be gay, I don't care. Just like I don't care if you and your wife partake in S&M. I just don't want to hear about it. That shit's private. There are a lot of strange lifestyles that are so bizarre that the greater society doesn't accept discussing about it in polite conversation. If you and your furry swinger wife spent the weekend at a furry gangbang, it's not unreasonable that your co-workers won't want to hear about it on Monday. Just because Steve's talking about how he took his wife to a romantic resort doesn't it mean your furry-gangbang story is now appropriate. It's a pretty standard protocol: if you're going to talk about your relationships it damn well be pretty standard or you better damn well know the people you are talking to are comfortable discussing your perversions.

      As for marriage. It's not a right. Having a relationship is a right. Having the acceptance of society isn't a right. Being tolerated by society is. Marriage is a crock of shit, anyway. I'd be for a law that results in less marriages rather than more.

      My marriage solution: The only way two people can get married is by having a child together. Either biologically or through adoption. But the vows would less be for each other and more be for the child. And the vows would be legally binding. Basically, no divorce until the child is an adult. The married couple and child must live together until the child is an adult. Marriage isn't about love. It's about raising a child. Love just makes things easier.

    6. Re:Totalitarianism by euroq · · Score: 1

      I don't want to force anything upon anyone... I want freedom from others. I don't want special status, I want equal status. I don't give a shit if you hate gays, I give a shit if the government discriminates against me.

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    7. Re:Totalitarianism by turgid · · Score: 1

      There is no free speech here. Everything has to be Left wing, Marxist, or you're sacked from your job.

      Are you nuts? The UK has been right-wing since Maggie Thatcher took power in 1979.

      Marxist? Everything has been privatised.

      You can't even get a decent education any more without having to pay for it privately.

      Free speech? You're allowed to say what you like as long as you don't incite violence or spout arbitrary hate... Oh wait... I see your problem with that.

      Cretin.

  33. I have never said this before by Capt.DrumkenBum · · Score: 2

    Good for you Microsoft.

    Sounds wrong somehow. :)

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  34. The relationship between politician and population by Colin+Smith · · Score: 1

    Is that of a pimp to his prostitutes.
     

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  35. Go for it! by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    I am a devout Protestant Christian.

    But also a modern progressive.

    I support gay rights and gay marriage!

    One side doesn't speak for all of us!

    I hope you turn the law to your side!

  36. Chang the name? by Frosty+Piss · · Score: 1

    The problem is that the government had no business getting into the marriage business in the first place.

    While this may be true in terms of the religious connection to marriage, the broader question might be: Should any "domestic partnership" have different rules than single people, such as tax issues and property issues? And there are child issues as well where "domestic partnership" rules could be needed...

    So maybe we should stop calling these things "marriage" legally and start calling them "domestic partnerships" legally, and leave the religion and sex out of it?

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  37. Gays also Pigeonhole. by icongorilla · · Score: 1

    The fact that h,omosexuals look down on constant side switching (to and from being homosexual) shows that gay people are no less bigots than straight people. Things are not black and white though people love to ram people into categories.

    I have people say I have a good face, which brings me more problems than I would like in this gay-tolerant society. It edges on creepy what happens... but what can I do? Reverse discrimination is the in thing nowadays. Might as well just cram myself with ice cream to protect myself much like a lot of women would do in their anologous situation.

    You ugly fucks who live in your basement probably don't have that problem and will never understand it.

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    1. Re:Gays also Pigeonhole. by nosferatu1001 · · Score: 2

      I think the word you are missing there is "some"

      From a gay guy whose husband is bi.

  38. This makes sense by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Windows itself is pretty gay.

  39. Re:What a load of BS by expatriot · · Score: 1

    Yes, people tend to live places for many reasons and only one of them is where the jobs are. I would not want to live in the American south because it is so right-wing.

    A place that is tolerant of sexual orentation is often tolerant of other choices.

    I support equality even if it is just to piss of the Christian Right.

  40. business microsoft gay by Namors · · Score: 1

    Oh common, I'm not kidding, they were my tags, how did this end up in a civil conversation, on slashdot ! FFS

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  41. I am curious by Brain-Fu · · Score: 3, Insightful

    If a man has a sex-change operation and becomes a woman, can she then marry a man? Or is that still homosexual?
    And if she can't marry a man because genetically she is still a man...does that mean she can marry a woman?

    Or are post-ops only allowed to marry complementary post-ops?

    And who can hermaphrodites marry? Anyone but other hermaphrodites?

    1. Re:I am curious by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

      Usually, transgender persons have their legal sex and gender changed as part of transitioning, and that's what matters in terms of marriage. Unfortunately, mixed-sex persons are declared to be one sex or the other, either by the parent or the doctor. The birth certificate's sex field must be filled in, and is firmly entrenched in the gender binary.

    2. Re:I am curious by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      It varies massively by state.

  42. It's not mandatory, is it? by gestalt_n_pepper · · Score: 0

    'Cause I was hoping to move there.

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  43. well by FudRucker · · Score: 0

    you would have to be gay to want to code microsoft windows software anyway, so you cant blame MS for doing that.

    /sarcasm

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  44. i want to by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    marry a goat - will Microsoft support me?

  45. anonymous blowhard by fyngyrz · · Score: 4, Insightful

    Because polygamy is always about power and abuse, never about love.

    That is such utter horseshit. As if you had ANY way to read the mind of everyone in a poly relationship. Just like every other flavor of relationship, there are good poly arrangements and there are poor ones. It's not about partner count or gender; it's about being decent human beings and not a whole lot else. FYI, "decent" doesn't mean "heterosexual" or "monogamous."

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  46. Re:What a load of BS by scottbomb · · Score: 1

    Your argument is false. MS doesn't recruit from just the locals. I personally know someone who lived in Las Vegas and moved to Maryland to take a programming job with MS. Companies recruit from outside their state (and the country) all the time.

  47. Re:Sigh, so many Ronulans... by similar_name · · Score: 1

    Read my post again. Nothing I said supports your response.

  48. 'Gay' Marriage by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    ‘It’s very dear to me, the issue of gay marriage. Or as I like to call it: “Marriage.” You know, because I had lunch this afternoon, not gay lunch. I parked my car; I didn't gay park it.’ - Liz Feldman

  49. Re:The relationship between politician and populat by WrongSizeGlass · · Score: 1

    Is that of a pimp to his prostitutes.

    I think I had that question on my SAT's.

  50. So now in America... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    ... corporations can statue on moral and ethical issue, and get back-up for it from its public. Interesting country you have. I'm glad to be living far away from it.

  51. This is right in so many ways by techgeek0279 · · Score: 1

    I just don't see why gay marriage is even a big issue. It doesn't have any negative impact on our society to have two people of the same sex to get married. And it has absolutely nothing to do with finding the right resources for work. If you have the talent, and the company wants to hire, then that is how it should be.

  52. Re:Why are governments in the business or marriage by bk2204 · · Score: 1

    The sociological and political reason for marriage is that it recognizes and endorses strong family bonds. Having strong family bonds promotes a stable society. That's the argument for civil marriage. Religious marriage is an almost entirely different institution. It's just that in the US, we conflate the two too often because we allow clergy to act as officiants for civil marriages. In much of Europe, civil marriage can only be performed by a judge or government official.

  53. Re:What a load of BS by iceaxe · · Score: 1

    Whether or not you choose to believe it, yes, that does happen, though probably not in such a flippant way. I can assure you that LGBT people, like everyone else with any sense, give a great deal of consideration to the quality of life they'll have in a place before moving there. So this matter could very well factor in to a decision to apply for or accept a position.

    Good talent is hard to find, and I expect Microsoft wants to remove any unnecessary barriers to getting some very talented people to work for them.

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  54. Obvious Slashdot Reaction: by darkcatalyst · · Score: 1

    Windows is gai!

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  55. Re:Microsoft has always been by TheVelvetFlamebait · · Score: 2

    Gayness(MS) = Gayness(AIDS)
    MS = Asexual multi-billion dollar corporation
    ===> Gayness(MS) = Gayness(Asexual multi-billion dollar corporation) = 0
    ===> Gayness(AIDS) = 0

    QED.

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  56. Re:What a load of BS by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    My argument is not false, because it doesn't rely on any assumption that Microsoft only recruits locals. Everything I said above holds equally true in other states where Microsoft has a presence but same-sex marriage is not legal.

    That aside, their primary campus is in Washington, and so it accounts for the biggest percentage of the talent pool being made unavailable to them. Thus, it makes perfectly good business sense for them to lobby for legalizing same-sex marriage, and to focus those efforts on Washington particularly.

    But you knew that, too.

  57. Re:What a load of BS by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    More likely, Jim is tired of California and enjoyed Washington when he vacationed there. He's highly qualified, and wouldn't mind working for Microsoft.

    But...Washington doesn't allow gay marriage, and he'd like to be married sometime in the future. Jim decides maybe he's better off staying in California.

  58. Not Glad to see any Corporation Involved by Roger+W+Moore · · Score: 3, Insightful

    Who is being protected by allowing two people to get a better tax return for being married?

    Worse than that who is being better served by having corporations getting involved in debates such as this. If governments have no place in the bedrooms of their nation then corporations certainly have no business being there. Are we really getting to the point where every political debate is going to have corporations butting in, even if you actually agree with the argument they are making? Can't they at least leave us the illusion of having a meaningful public political debate without their interference and just stick to their usual tactic of lobbying/buying the legislative votes which is sadly all that counts in the end?

    1. Re:Not Glad to see any Corporation Involved by SteveW928 · · Score: 1

      Absolutely agree here. First, your final point is well taken (and a huge basis behind OWS) that corporations already control our supposed democracy by controlling what happens in the government. The last thing we need is for them to start pushing public policy around, which may not even be the position held by the majority making up the corporation, nor any kind of majority of society in general.

    2. Re:Not Glad to see any Corporation Involved by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Worse than that who is being better served by having corporations getting involved in debates such as this. If governments have no place in the bedrooms of their nation then corporations certainly have no business being there.

      Quoting from the original post: "Citing the company's inability to compete for top talent in the face of discrimination"?

      I'm the last person to want corporate over-involvement in just about anything, but if they are having a problem with recruiting that happens to be discrimination-related, how could you expect them NOT to take a stand on the issue?

    3. Re:Not Glad to see any Corporation Involved by Roger+W+Moore · · Score: 1

      if they are having a problem with recruiting that happens to be discrimination-related, how could you expect them NOT to take a stand on the issue?

      If this is the problem they are having I would expect a more fact-ladened presentation. Their role as a corporation should be to inform the public debate with facts i.e. we had X people turn us down and take jobs in Europe/Canada after expressing a concern over same-sex rights. Since corporations do not vote they should stick solely to informing the debate with facts and not trying to take sides and argue people around.

      If you are still not convinced think about this. MS is a US corporation but how would you feel about a Canadian corporation campaigning for national health care (easier to recruit people, saves company health insurance costs) or a Chinese-owned corporation supporting some legislation? The problem with corporations is that it can be very hard to find out who is pulling the strings so having them involved in public debates is not a good thing since they wield considerable resources.

  59. Third Option by raehl · · Score: 0

    Having a sex change operation is an abhorrent perversion of nature and should be prohibited and anyone desiring such a thing is a sick individual and should be removed from society and sent to reprogramming until they are willing to adopt the gender they were born with.

    Not that I in any way agree with that, but your logical argument depends on the party listening to your argument being not-crazy, which is likely not the case.

  60. Microsoft by Trogre · · Score: 1

    At the risk of offending, well pretty much everyone, I'll put this idea forward. This could just be Microsoft trying to win support from liberal groups in order to appear hip. Lord knows they have had many failed attempts at such in the past.

    Just putting it out there.

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    1. Re:Microsoft by R3d+M3rcury · · Score: 3, Informative

      Except that Microsoft has a long tradition of supporting gays and lesbians going back to 1989.

      Otherwise, I might be suspect as well.

  61. Re:Why are governments in the business or marriage by fooslacker · · Score: 1

    Part of what I'm saying is I don't think marriage serves that purpose anymore. Social pressures drives marriage, not government rules promoting elevated privileges. It's pretty easy to see this in the fact that marriage and cultural rules around marriage existed long before they codified by civil governments. In my best estimation these social norms developed in response to a couple of things. First with folks being much lower on the pyramid with regards to which of our needs were being met, alla Maslow's hierarchy, the need for "teamwork" at the local level to further individual success was much stronger. Additionally, because of cultural norms that disenfranchised more than half of our population (sorry girls) and made it extremely difficult for the individual (especially of the female persuasion) to survive through their own actions unless they were exceptional in some way. With that level of disenfranchisement in place the structure of marriage was truly more important to ensuring that society continued to function. Again, because of this I believe those social pressures for marriage existed independent of government management of the institution. The idea that a government should enforce social norms is wrong and broken in my opinion and leads to much more harm than good.

  62. Who does it hurt? by jwhitener · · Score: 1, Insightful

    Can someone who is against gay marriage please explain their reasoning?

    I have never heard any logical reason that explains how gay marriage would harm society.

    As far as I can recall, there are many studies showing that people in committed relationships are better members of society on average. I've never seen a study that says the reverse about same sex couples.

    1. Re:Who does it hurt? by RightSaidFred99 · · Score: 1

      Be prepared for various ridiculous slippery slope arguments. And those are the _smart_ ones. The others just blather about Jebus.

      "But, Durr, next thingem yous know thems quars is havin' sex withs the dogs! Or dead peeoplez! I mean, is you does wunt people having sex with the's dogs ya sado-mite!?!"

    2. Re:Who does it hurt? by cffrost · · Score: 1

      Can someone who is against gay marriage please explain their reasoning?

      I have never heard any logical reason that explains how gay marriage would harm society.

      jmorris42 has done a lot of exhaustive explaining here, but very little logical reasoning. I suspect jmorris42 "knows" it's harmful to society because he knows it in his gut.

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    3. Re:Who does it hurt? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I'm willing to explicate some of my views, as long as I am not chided as a blankety-blank discriminatory blankety-blank stupid blank. I am not surprised by some of the comments here, as it is a growing trend. IE. that someone must be uneducated if they think gay marriage would harm society; this person thinks gay marriage would harm society, therefore, he is uneducated.

      That said, here is only a brief snippet of my views. Free country, right? Spirit of debate, right? Everyone can express their views, right? In advance and as a disclaimer, I think that every individual human has equal dignity, and, on that basis, shouldn't be discriminated against, but that doesn't mean everyone should be treated the same nor that all behavior should be considered equal and equally sanctioned.

      Financial benefits for married couples are for promoting the common good, more specifically, for helping to foster stable families. Not everyone is entitled to such benefits, nor would it be in the best interest of everyone if everyone were entitled to such financial benefits--'if everyone is special than no one is' (though from what I hear, the benefits aren't that great anyways--so it should be something improved upon). Why shouldn't the government promote gay couples to have families? Why can't a gay couple have a stable family? This latter question already misses some of the finer distinctions of the issue. In some respects gay couples might do really well, in terms of communication and for showing genuine care for their child. But it's not a suitable substitute for heterosexual parenting.

      Now, before I'm blasted by all kinds of fallacies, most notably that two wrongs make a right, let me say that I also think single parent households aren't a suitable substitute either. Nor are heterosexual couples who don't show affection and care for their child (adoption is a middle ground case). Deviations from the ideal don't make the ideal any less ideal. It's fairly obvious, or should be, that polyamorous relations aren't inherently directed towards the raising of offspring... you might be able to show an example or two that turned out well (good luck), but it isn't the norm. There's been all kinds of weird Utopian experiments in this country that have tried that; it doesn't work. The children get neglected and sexual jealousy ensues. Basically, if it's everyone's responsibility then it's no one's responsibility. Why would a government with the view towards stable families support such a lifestyle? Heterosexual couples are different in that both spouses have natural biochemical aides for bonding that other forms of relations do not have at all or at least to the same degree. Again, you can bring up specific counter-examples of gay couples with children who are doing relatively well... but it's just not in the biological cards and makes it that much harder to do.

      Additionally, there are studies that shows how heterosexual parents are what children need for proper development. Men and women are different biologically which is reflected in the different parenting styles each one brings to the family. I'm not saying a gay couple couldn't theoretically mimic these styles, but at least one of the parents would have to make a tremendous and conscious and continual effort to do so. Heterosexual couples in general do this subconsciously.

      But even more important, it's not just for the good of society, or for the family, or children, but it is also morally good that men and women get married. Not so in the case of gay couples or other forms of relations. I could go on talking about right and wrong, but I think those terms require acknowledging the existence of a Supreme Being which not everyone agrees to. Fine. We can stick with the beneficial/detrimental or prudential reasons and not talk morals. In brief, go against the biological function of a human organ and you'll have problems. For example, the function of eyes are to see. If one were to gouge out their eyes (frustrate their inherent function), then that person would be seriou

    4. Re:Who does it hurt? by jwhitener · · Score: 1

      Thanks for attempting to explain.

      I see basically two points to your comment:

      1. Gay couples can't raise children as well.
      2. Morality based on a religious belief.

      Number 1 is the only point that can be logically debated using evidence and I've yet to see evidence beyond religiously motivated / biased 'studies'.

  63. Re:Why are governments in the business or marriage by fooslacker · · Score: 1

    Also I should note that while the disadvantagement (cool new word) of women continues it is not nearly as extreme and as such they are treated much more like individuals by the government rather than some extension of their husbands...what I want is for us to continue down this path and have the government manage everyone the same as best it can. My point in acknowledging the disenfranchisement of the women as a driving force of marriage earlier in human history is to say that I think we've come far enough that now the left over vestiges of government managed marriages do more harm than good and in fact are a disservice to those women who have become less and less disenfranchised. If the men who govern other men had been enlightened enough to have not disenfranchised women in the first place then I don't think it marriage would have been as important as a stabilizing force for society but alas we evolved from a state where being bigger and stronger was better and we still carry some of that baggage.

  64. Re:Sigh, so many Ronulans... by similar_name · · Score: 1

    I believe Ron Paul says it should be a state issue as opposed to a federal issue. To clarify when I used the word state I meant state as in government as opposed to state vs federal. I was trying to make a differentiation between a secular civil union and a religious marriage. I admit my view is one of semantics in some respect, but I think the word marriage is associated with religion where a civil union is a more secular term.

    Now I do think that a civil union can be good for society. Beyond children it affords rights to a civil partner with respect to beneficiary rights (and others) and I think that stability in a relationship is good for stability in society. Because there are rights associated with respect to a partner I can support the idea of it being handled at a federal level because rights should not vary from state to state. I would disagree with Ron Paul that it should be a state issue.

    My view is one based on the observation that many people disagree about how marriage should be defined and that the disagreement often stems from differing religious backgrounds. My solution/compromise is for the government to recognize civil union between partners, gay or straight, and to leave it to religion to determine whether that constitutes a marriage.

  65. Interesting by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    So can you have your legal sex changed without undergoing the surgery?

    And can this be done by both hermaphrodites and non-hermaphrodites?

  66. Re:Microsoft has always been by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Only if your universe consists of SPACE, TIME, MATTER, ENERGY, and CHANCE.

    Now get some more dick up your ass to maintain that TOP TALENT.

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  67. Homosex marriage births Corporations. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Heterosex marriage births Children.

    Government regulates popular fictions as well as grime.

  68. As a European I can only make sense of it by SmallFurryCreature · · Score: 0

    As a European I can only make sense of the republican efforts so far if they decided they have absolutely no hope of going against Obama so they are pulling a The Official Monster Raving Loony Party because if they don't show up for the election the won't get their card stamped but their is no point in putting someone forward who is actually sane... they are keeping them for the next election because they can't afford to waste them.

    Mind you, the tories did that with Major of London election when they let Boris run and jezus christ, he won! And he still looks sane when you put them next to any of the republican candidates.

    I tried to watch the debates and just couldn't. This cannot be real, it must be a very elaborate hoax on the rest of the world. Right? Right!?! RIGHT????

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  69. balmer is gay by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    nuff said

  70. Re:What a load of BS by R3d+M3rcury · · Score: 1

    Actually, the scenario is more like:

    Jim: I've had it with my present employer and I think I'll switch jobs. Hmm...Microsoft has an opening, but I wouldn't be able to marry my sweetheart. Hey, what about this company in New York? They're doing cool stuff and I could marry my sweetheart! Win win!

    And Microsoft doesn't even get a resumé.

  71. Nice change from 2005... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Microsoft was cowed by a local vocal evangelical pastor into withdrawing its support for an anti-discrimination bill. The heat they got from the region and their employees was blistering. I think they learned their lesson.

    http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ken_Hutcherson#Microsoft

  72. good for u by peawormsworth · · Score: 1

    Finally Microsoft takes a stand I can support. Ive been waiting a long time for anything agreeable to come from Redmond.

  73. Who do they think they are? by FunkDup · · Score: 2

    Marriage exists in every race, religion and culture. It's a human thing, not Christian. There's not even a word for non-Christian marriage, except the one that got made up for gay people. No religion has any business defining marriage for people outside that religion.

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  74. Indeed by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Our superior cognitive apparatus increases our capacity for horror just as much as it increases our capacity for depth of feeling and apprehension. This is true of any technology: it can be equally effective for good as for evil.

     

  75. Ballmer and Elop by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    ...are coming out of the closet.

  76. Re:Microsoft has always been by euroq · · Score: 1

    I'm only replying to this as a "public service announcement". Yes, yes, yes, you absolutely can get AIDS an other serious STDs by oral sex. You would have been correct to say "lower chance than anal sex", but not 0%.

    You have a very low chance to not cause pregnancy with a condom, but not 0% chance. You have a lower chance than anal sex to get AIDS and other STDs with oral sex, but by no means 0% chance.

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  77. Hypocritical Christians or Linux on the Desktop? by bornagainpenguin · · Score: 1

    Does this mean the same people who harp on things like not buying girl scout cookies will now trash their Windows installations in favor of installing Linux? This could be the best thing that happened and drive 2012 into actually being the year of Linux on the desktop! I'm in favor of anything that helps push more people into giving Linux a chance, and this is a great opportunity to politicize people into giving it a chance who would ordinarily stick with Windows...

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  78. Re:Sigh, so many Ronulans... by Grishnakh · · Score: 1

    The problem with your view, and why Paul probably has the right idea, is that you simply aren't going to get everyone (or a majority of voters) to agree on your compromise of recognizing civil unions between partners at the Federal level, or having mandatory reciprocity between States. There's just too many religious people who think homosexuality will lead to the destruction of society or whatever, and think this issue is more important than the drug war, endless foreign wars, civil rights, the budget crisis, etc.

    So, RP probably has the right idea: just let the States do whatever they want, and take the Federal government out of the equation. No, it's not idea, it's not great, but if you really think you're going to get the Bible Belt to agree on a compromise, I think you're deluded. By letting the States do what they want, like-minded states will adopt gay marriages/civil unions, and also grant reciprocity with other such states. Backwards states will ban it, and not honor any unions performed in those other states. Gay people will probably tend to migrate towards the states that are friendlier to them (as they've already been doing for the last 40 years; SanFran wasn't a haven for gays 50 years ago remember), and leave behind those other states. Eventually, we should see which approach is better, and the other side will slowly change its position.

    The main thing I don't like about RP is that he wants to do away with too many useful federal agencies, namely the EPA and FDA. It's too easy for some shitty company to set up a plant spewing pollution into a river just upstream of a state border, and "The Jungle" still serves as a warning for why we need food inspection.

  79. Why is this relevant? by SpaghettiPattern · · Score: 1

    Why is this relevant? MS is a corporation and it should not interfere with politics. Good influence -like this initiative- implies the existence and possibly a habitual nature of bad influence.

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  80. Re:What a load of BS by euroq · · Score: 1

    Your logic is flawed. He never said MS just recruits from the locals... he's saying gay people don't apply to Microsoft in Richmond because they would only apply in San Francisco or Boston, et al. The argument is that MS is having trouble getting certain people to Washington, and businesses like theirs would be better served if they could competitively recruit gays to Washington.

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  81. "As a Christian" by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Fuck you, you sanctimonious piece of shit.

    Believing in Santa Claus is not a point in your favor.

  82. Re:Why are governments in the business or marriage by SteveW928 · · Score: 1

    But, it isn't 'social pressures' that should be driving the government in this situation, but the interests of the government in promoting a stable and prosperous society. Government is supposed to be keeping order and promoting welfare, not trying to make each special interest group happy. Benefits and privileges like marriage cost the state money, so they want to get the best bang for their buck.

  83. Maybe it's just me, but... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    The homosexuals I know are definitely not good for anything, from me on to world + dog. Oh look, my anecdote trumped your stupid assertion. That and it seems de rigeur for gay couples to want to have children. So, I think that kind of defeats your assertion that gays are good for population control.

  84. Re:PACKFUDGE = TALENT ? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Keep wasting those mod points.

    -1, Truth Overload

  85. Re:Microsoft has always been by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Translation:

    while:
    do
    echo "This is NOT a moral universe"
    done

  86. What about the children? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Perusing the comments here, one would think that the purpose of marriage in human society was either to make selfish adults feel good or have legal status to share benefits and finances. I submit that that is NOT the reason marriage has existed since prehistory. It exists to give children a better chance to survive and thrive. Human children do not mature for decades and societies throughout the world and throughout history have decided that it is a good idea to reinforce the natural instincts of their biological parents to nurture them. That need exists today as much as ever. It is the reason marriage is defined as the bond between a Man and a Woman. The intent is that heterosexual couples (where babies come from, in case anyone forgot) be supported in their natural desire to create a family with happy, healthy, educated children.

    So, my gay and lesbian friends, I believe what you do in your bedroom is your business and you should be free to do it. However, trying to change the definition of marriage to suit your selfish desires will only weaken the primary societal institution that exists to protect children. This is why religions like Christianity are correct to defend the traditional definition of marriage. Right is on our side because we defend marriage for innocent children now and for the future.

    Here's a test for you. Which is more useful to society, a proud (fill in your sexual preference) or a proud parent? One is about getting your rocks off and the other is about creating the next generation of citizens who will take care of you when you are old.

    Sincerely,
    A proud Christian father who was once a child

  87. The headline should be by kurt555gs · · Score: 2

    Microsoft joins the GNAA in supporting Gay Marriage.

    This is Slashdot after all.

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  88. Re:What a load of BS by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    However, you benefit from the same American South by reason of those presumed BIGOTS who enlist in the armed services to defend our way of life which includes YOUR WAY OF LIFE.

    You have been benefitted from their bigotry. Can you sleep at night without medication now?

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  89. And the LORD spake unto the king of Microsof by hardihoot · · Score: 2

    And the LORD spake unto the king of Microsoft saying, Because thou hast followed after the ways of Gomorrah, yeah, thou dost wallow in the her abominations, thy sin riseth unto heaven and stinketh before me and choketh mine angels who gaggeth and moan. Because of thy sin I shall surely smite thee: thy kingdom shall be despoiled by the kings of Linux, and thy shareholders shall writhe in anguish cursing thee for thine iniquity. Thine Office products and Windows shall be remembered no more. Thus sayeth the Lord.

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  90. Then they won't have MY talent by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    As a Christian, I have refused to work for extremely liberal companies. I don't agree with
    Microsoft's business practices, their political lobbying, nor their hiring practices. I choose
    not work for them. Likewise, I am quite sure that they would ban me from employment
    because I am a Christian. In this regard, the Amish have it right; today, it is quite difficult
    to find a job that doesn't conflict with one's beliefs.

  91. Re:Why are governments in the business or marriage by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    You're missing the point I think. I don't think social pressure should drive government. Government backing marriage doesn't have anything to do with marriage being a stabilizing force historically which is what the reply to the original post had said. Cultural context and social pressures do. Those contexts now being largely moot I think government should exit the marriage business entirely.

    With regards to you comment that government is supposed to be keeping order and promoting welfare what I'm saying is that managing groups of people rather than individuals in not doing that. What does that is to limit government to core principles and apply those principles to every single individual rather than acknowledge groups in codified law and treat anyone differently. The purpose of a democratic government (IMO the only ethical form of government) should be to ensure the rights and freedoms of every individual in a society such that one individual can not impinge on another's rights, defend the state against outside attack and internal revolution from fanatical factions that don't represent the will of the people, protect the individual from the will of the mob with basic rights are threatened, and manage resources where private ownership can not effectively do so without threatening the rights of others or the stability of society (e.g. water usage on rivers, air pollution, certain infrastructure, etc.). The purpose of government in my opinion is not to endorse any specific groups agenda or spend it's time messing with things like defining marriage, or banning flag burning, or telling people how to act and think. Not that governments don't do these things it's just a bad idea and it leads to more problems and a less stable society not a more stable one. It also wastes public resources trying to manage cultural shifts and changes that are going to happen anyway. Also the government has very little impact on these things other than to speed them up or slow them down a bit (maybe a decade or two at most in relatively non-oppressive societies).

  92. Microsoft was always gay! by Snaller · · Score: 1

    "Of course, US is a country of religious nut jobs, with all the "in god we believe" bullshit. It's accepted to show brutal violence on TV while natural things like sex is forbidden! And god forbid if there happens to be a nipple..."

    Indeed, here (DK) they showed some movie on an open air (TV License) channel, with many instances of full frontal female nudity (and a few man bits), last Sunday afternoon.
    Who cares.
    Nudity doesn't harm children: Bad lazy parents harm children. Raise your own children damn it, don't expect society to be censored to your laziness.

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  93. Gay Marriage in Washington.... by DrStoooopid · · Score: 2

    ....So Bill Gates and Steve Ballmer are finally going to tie the knot?

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  94. See Zaccheus by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    From Wikipedia:

    Zacchaeus (Greek , "Zakchaios" Hebrew , which means pure and righteous one.[1]), according to chapter 19 of the gospel of Luke, was a superintendent of customs; a chief tax-gatherer (Latin: publicanus) at Jericho (Luke 19:1-10). Tax collectors were hated by many of their fellow Jews, who saw them as traitors for working for the Roman Empire. ...
    Moved by the audacity of Jesus's undeserved love and acceptance, ZACCHAEUS PUBLICLY REPENTED OF ACTS OF CORRUPTION AND VOWED TO MAKE RESTITUTION FOR THEM, and held a feast at his house. [emphasis mine- AC]

    That's when Jesus said: 'Today salvation has come to this house.'.

    People who make no effort to repent are not/CANNOT be Christian. Yeah, we welcome them, but we don't condone their sin.

  95. Miro$oft is supporting Gay Marriage in Washington by DrStoooopid · · Score: 1

    So Bill Gates and Steve Ballmer are finally going to tie the knot, eh?

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  96. Because it is not the same violence by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    As soonas you show us two male (or two female) on TV in a serie fighting to mate, or a thug eating the prey he killed, maybe we can talk. Until then the violence shown on TV is much much more gratuitious than most of what you will see in nature, short of a few specie playing with their prey before the killing.

  97. Wrong by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    It is in the governement interrest to promote mariage and stable relationship. There *is* a compelling interrest into it which is why couple get a lower tax rate, or even regulate who get the inheritance, etc.... That is why depsite not being a monarchy anymore, we STILL have a secular mariage.

    Furthermore you are wrong : *ALL* civil matter are of compelling interrest to the governement. Religion. That include birth, mariage, death, what HAD been a long time ago a fully religious domain. But nowaday it isn't anymore. I would content that religion had accapred what should NEVER had been its domain in the first place : civil matter. Religion should ONLY be the domain of the metaphysical, and of the PERSONAL faith. Once religion try to do ANYTHING of civil matter than it is empeting onto secular matter, even if some time in the past it had accapared it.


    Anyway If religion Hadn't accapared all those matter to begin with, we would STILL have the debate. Because too many religious people especially the christian with their concept of Sin, are completely unable to let other people in peace. They have no concept of tolerance. Sure they have the word for it. It is even written in their book. But hey applying the word is anotehr matter, and frankly i see much too many religious people being damn more intolerant than secular/atheist/agnostic.

  98. I know you're trolling... by rsilvergun · · Score: 1

    but these are the kind of arguments the right wing really makes. BTW, the answer, in case anyone missed it, is the child of that union. Science shows that inbreeding creates unhealthy offspring. There is not reliable evidence that children in gay couples are any worse off physically or psychologically.

    For the record, I don't care two sh!ts about gay marriage. It's an issue the ruling class in America use to divide the poor so they can exploit them. I just want the issue to go away so we can get back to asking why are wages haven't gone up in 30 years.

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    1. Re:I know you're trolling... by ksemlerK · · Score: 1

      wages haven't gone up in 30 years

      I think you're mistaken there. In 1999, I was making $6.50/hr. Today I am making $9.15/hr. My wages most certainly have increased, even if you take inflation into the equation.

    2. Re:I know you're trolling... by s73v3r · · Score: 1

      No, he's right. On average, taking into account inflation, wages for working and middle class people have stayed mostly stagnant.

      You can't honestly think to use the one anecdote of your case to try and prove something, can you?

  99. Vote Newt by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    he supports open source marriage.

  100. Re:Why are governments in the business or marriage by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    But, it isn't 'social pressures' that should be driving the government in this situation, but the interests of the government in promoting a stable and prosperous society.

    I'm sorry, the part of your post where you explain how encouraging gays to form legally-recognised households leads to the destabilisation and/or impoverishment of society seems to have got mangled by Slashcode. Could you repost that bit, please? Thanks!

  101. MOD UP by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Mod parent way up through the roof. AC gets it and others should see this.

  102. Re:Sigh, so many Ronulans... by similar_name · · Score: 1

    If it's handled by the state how does the federal government handle social security for surviving spouses? Income tax law concerning married/unioned couples?

  103. Re:Sigh, so many Ronulans... by Grishnakh · · Score: 1

    If it's handled by the state how does the federal government handle social security for surviving spouses? Income tax law concerning married/unioned couples?

    Very good questions, and unfortunately I don't have an easy answer for it. Here's a few ideas off the top of my head.
    1) for SS for surviving spouses, hand more control of it over to the States. So if two gay men are married in Vermont (where it's legal), and one dies, then the other gets SS benefits, disbursed to him by the State of Vermont. If he moves to California (where it's also legal at that time, we'll assume), CA and VT will have reciprocity, so he'll continue to get those benefits, disbursed now by the State of California. But if he moves to Alabama, he won't get squat.
    2) for income tax, participating states could offer a tax refund for married gay people since the federal government won't give them the proper tax status to file under, so the State will make up the difference to them. Of course, this screws the state over, so the State can withhold payments to the federal government of other taxes. Or, it can pass a law saying gay married couples are allowed to file jointly, regardless of what the IRS says, and if the IRS has a problem with that, too bad, the state government will back them in court and sue the federal government on their behalf.

    Of course, this is all going to continue to cause strife between the states and the federal government, and end up a lot of legal battles, which is fine. The end point is that the country needs to break up into smaller units, so we stop having infighting over these issues. If Dixie-land and flyover country want to be backwards and restrict civil rights for certain minority citizens, and the other states can't amass enough power to overturn them, then we need to just go our separate ways. The more industrious and technologically-advanced states will be better off without them holding them back.

  104. It's the prerequisite for an honest discussion by gillbates · · Score: 1

    The prerequisite for an honest and open discussion is basic agreement on what the meaning of the terms used. Rather than ask us to accept a new type of relationship, the gay lobby is asking us to accept, and the government to enforce, a definition of marriage which denigrates the union of a man and a woman. It is a definition which is not accepted by the majority.

    Even though we'd prefer gays refrain from evil, their sin is not merely personal; they're not content to leave their sexuality in the bedroom and instead want to force their view of things on the rest of us. If it was truly personal, private, then the rest of us wouldn't have a problem with it.

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    1. Re:It's the prerequisite for an honest discussion by MightyMartian · · Score: 1

      Not everyone views it as a denigration.

      At any rate, what the state recognizes is a civil marriage. If you don't want to have a civil gay marriage, then don't. It's just a word, not a magic spell.

      What you really want, as so many homophobes do, is for gays not to irritate you. In that respect, you have a lot in common with fence-sitters about racism fifty years ago. Sure, you don't mind the idea of blacks having equal rights, so long as you don't have to see none of them niggers in your neighborhood.

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    2. Re:It's the prerequisite for an honest discussion by gillbates · · Score: 1

      If the civil rights era hadn't awakened people to the fact that a moral wrong can't be a right, you wouldn't have people objecting to gay marriage today. People discarded racism because it was morally wrong - a person couldn't wake up and decide not to be black. Martin Luther King Jr. dreamed of a world where people were judged, "Not by the color of their skin, but by the content of their character..."

      So now that we have that world - where people pay attention to one's character, rather than one's physical characteristics - gays are upset because people actually reflect upon the morality of their actions. Instead, they want us to believe the same discredited argument that racists used against blacks: they can't help the way they are because, well, "they were born that way." In the same way racists would claim that blacks would commit crime because they were born that way, now gays want us to believe they're destined to commit immoral acts because they too, were "born that way." Only now it's supposed to be a positive thing, and we're supposed to somehow excuse their sin, but no one else's. As if Jesus Christ died only for the heterosexual sinners.

      It seems as if those who defend the notion of gay marriage have more in common with the KKK than they realize.

      It is disappointing to hear people attribute objection to gay marriage to a desire to hate, or to discriminate, when the real reason people object to the notion of gay marriage is because they've spent time thinking about the issue and have come to the realization that marriage and the union of homosexuals are fundamentally different relationships - they seek different ends, and use different means. One really is an avoidance of the other.

      For those of us who understand what marriage is about, we really see it as a moral issue. If I object to racism because it's morally wrong, even to the point where I tell a person what they can and can't do with their business (i.e. prohibit them from discrimination against blacks), I would likewise be bound to treat any other immoral behavior in a similar manner. But rather than exercise authority over the bedroom, all we're asking is that the state preserve the original definition of marriage, one that has served America well. If we were as vindictive as liberals, businesses would be disciplining employees for making comments insensitive to Christians, and outright homosexuality would be grounds for firing.

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    3. Re:It's the prerequisite for an honest discussion by MightyMartian · · Score: 1

      My goodness, but you do go a long ways to trying to rationalize your bigotry. At the end of the day what counts is what the wider society says, and in the West, the objections to gay marriage are falling away. There are far more important things to worry about than whether same-sex couples get to call their union a marriage or not. America was founded on principles of equality and secularism, and not on maintaining in perpetuity your biases. From the state's perspective, marriage is a civil contract, period. If you don't like gay marriage, don't attend a church that conducts them.

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  105. In my country this already exists by Haelyn · · Score: 1

    In my country(.ar) marriage is defined as between two consenting adults. A year or so ago we grew up enough as a society to stop listening to the religious nutjobbery, we had a long debate and as a result the marriage law was changed. And there was much rejoicing amongst gay men and women, and amongst heterosexual supporters of the right to marry whoever the fuck you love(like me and my fiancee).

    Let me tell you: heaven hasn't fallen down on our heads, the rivers fail to flow red and no frogs have been raining lately. It's not such a big deal, if you are grown up enough...

  106. S-o-d-o-m-y is a hobby by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    not a lifestyle

  107. Re:Why are governments in the business or marriage by Jane+Q.+Public · · Score: 1

    On the contrary: it is societal mores that should inform government action, never the other way around.

    If you have government deciding what The People's morals should be, you are already in deep sh*t. Don't go there.