The Day Leo Traynor Confronted His Troll
McGruber writes "Dublin-based writer Leo Traynor has written a piece about confronting the troll who drove him off Twitter, hacked his Facebook, and abused and terrified his family. Quoting: 'I blocked the account and reported it as spam. The following week it happened again in an identical manner. A new follower, I followed back, received a string of abusive DMs, blocked and reported for spam. Two or three times a week. Sometimes two or three times a day. An almost daily cycle of blocking and reporting and intense verbal abuse. ... Then one day something happened that truly frightened me. I don't scare easily but this was vile. I received a parcel at my home address. Nothing unusual there – I get lots of post. I ripped it open and there was a Tupperware lunchbox inside full of ashes. There was a note included, saying, "Say hello to your relatives from Auschwitz." I was physically sick. ... In July I was approached by a friend who's basically an IT genius, and he offered some help. He said that he could trace the hackers and trolls for me using perfectly legal technology, which would lead to their IP addresses. I said yes. Then I baited them – I was deliberately more provocative toward them than ever I'd been before.'"
Compared to the typical trolling found on the internet, this seems a bit more like harassment or stalking, no?
So, do we actually believe that a college-age man is sufficiently motivated to troll the same person, including offline, for weeks on end; but so obtuse that he doesn't realize such trolling's effects, or did TFA's author just get played by a sociopathic little fucker's crocodile tears?
I'm voting for #2, personally. Wholly anonymous mob pile-ons can easily enough sweep up ethically-unimpressive-but-basically-standard-issue people; and some damaged-but-mostly-harmless types actually seem willing to spend their time dumping copypasta on entire forums; but solitary, prolonged, systematic trolling of one target chosen for no reason? Kid is bad seed.
I bet they used a GUI interface using Visual Basic!
If there's anything more important than my ego around here, I want it caught and shot immediately.
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Yes. Smoking can kill you.
Any insufficiently advanced magic is indistinguishable from technology.
Keywords in the original text:
"basically an IT genius,"
"hacked my facebook account"
"trace the hackers and trolls for me using perfectly legal technology, which would lead to their IP addresses."
"the abuse had emanated from three separate IP addresses in different corners of Ireland."
"The third location was a friend's house."
so, you can know the house location of each poster on twitter ? - troll-
Sounds like a lifetime movie to me.
At what point would a sane person just call the cops?
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Oddly heartwarming ending. It's awesome when people can take the high road and restrain themselves from lashing back at abusers, who do this stuff out of boredom, insecurity, and immaturity (or sometimes mental instability issues, alas). But recognizing that people do stupid regrettable crap, and that maybe their lives need not be ruined over it, and that maybe some good might come out of something bad... that's great strength and maturity. Kudos.
Asking people to think is like asking them to buy you a new car
...being basically! As if a real I.T. genius would ever use basic!
I'm honest enough to admit I lie to myself.
This is why content delivery systems need to be licensed by governments. This wouldn't have happened if Twitter were prohibited because it's unlicensed.
It's a safety issue. Just like the license you need before you can drive your own car. Just like the license you need to be a barber. Or the permit that those kids should have gotten before the cops shut down their lemonade stand. Or the license that that guy in North Carolina needs to publish dietary advice on his blog. Or the law license that Elizabeth Warren doesn't need because she's one of the special people.
Leo Traynor should be ashamed for having an unlicensed conversation with his Troll. Is he a certified criminal counselor? He should have gotten the authorities involved, because they should always be involved. In everything.
"I was deliberately more provocative toward them than ever I'd been before."
This sentence makes me think that, however vile the "troll" could have turned out to be, this wasn't an entirely black-versus-white situation. I suspect this guy was being a jerk back at anyone who was a jerk to him, and it escalated further than he thought it would.
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This is stalking
Its like calling arson vandalism
Identify the nature of the transgression correctly
intellectual property law is philosophically incoherent. it is your moral duty to ignore it or sabotage it
A kid basically ruined the guy's life, essentially just for lulz -- or for lack of anything constructive to do with his time. Fortunately, the kid did not understand how traceable IP addresses are and he was caught and confronted. Most interesting part of it was that the kid really didn't seem to truly comprehend what devastation he was causing to another human being, because he did it all remotely from the safety of his computer.
Reality is that this is just an extreme example of what goes on daily on semi-anonymous message boards (like this one). If we all had to show our faces, I'm sure we'd be a little more civil toward one another. Personally, I don't think I run a very high risk of ending up in the situation that this guy was in, since I value my online anonymity too much. I realize that for many, the temptation to spread their personal misery is just too great, and so they troll, which is really just a cry for attention -- something they probably didn't get enough of growing up.
Anyway, enough pontificating. Queue the trolls...
See also the radio troll Alan Jones in Australia - very upset this weekend because he was caught the second time he said he publicly addressed a group of people with a comment about the Australian Leader's recently deceased father dying of shame. Stirring up a race riot a couple of years back and getting away with it probably made him think he could get away with anything.
What god? Cthulu hates everyone.
Yeah ... this is being pushed all over the web - likely by Traynor himself and it stinks of fakery.
...Facebook (wtf??) ? And how does he use that without a court order issued to an ISP to track it to a physical address?
/. has seen a LOT of Munchausen's by Internet over the years - from sad cancer tales that never were to stories of little children dying of diseases who never did and now this. It has fake written all over it and I SO wish someone would look closely at Traynor and get to the bottom of this.
1. Are we really to believe that Traynor and his wife get physicaly threatened for THREE years and Traynor does literally nothing about it? No restraining order after he finds out? He just decides to let it all go away.
2. Conveniently Traynor doesn't prosecute so there is no real record of this actually happening
3. How does Traynor's "genius" I.T. friend get an IP address from
4. After the very first drop off of a message and ashes at his doorstep Traynor NEVER puts up a cam so he never sees the OTHER TWO drop offs of messages on his doorstep? W.T.F.??! He lets at least two chances go by and NEVER goes to the police and files a report we can verify. Bogus
----- In Your Cubicle No One Can Hear You Scream...
It's a nice moralistic story but it doesn't pass the smell test
intellectual property law is philosophically incoherent. it is your moral duty to ignore it or sabotage it
"There are a lot of people arguing that this whole story is a fable; the IT guy the author presents to defend his account is a feckless bullshitter. Basically it's a case of two guys who don't know that they don't know the technical difficulties in what they claim to have done. The whole thing is embarrassing and annoying."
Are we getting ... wait for it ... trolled? (Can I start a meme? Rick-Trolled?)
What's really out of whack is the sequence of events. So the cops can't find this guy, they're wringing their hands in helplessness. Along comes "An IT Genius" that traces the house by IP ... and the cops couldn't call any of their guys on the entire force to do that? However if the kid torrented a Song they would have found him pronto.
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Cthulu want more brownies!
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With a dash of terroristic threating thrown in. All perfectly NOT legal, even over here. This is something Usama taught us. Now get those shoes off, and let's see your pretty little thing in the booth.
The author is just too naive, or cowardly to deliver his friend's son with legal action.
In the end the author tries to spin this little story as a 'I'm the bigger man' tale instead.
The author is at this point just enabling him, like his parents.
This is a 17 year old who's in college. He's a danger to himself and others, and any additional damage caused by him will also be in the author's head.
What did he learn from this? Cry when you get caugh, and your actions have no consequences.
Post a link for a guy to click on. He clicks on it. It goes to a page you publish on your server. You look in the server logs. You know his IP address. Then you can find his city and possibly his neighborhood from that. And you know his ISP.
After that it can become more difficult. But it's hardly impossible. If a friend at the guy's ISP will do you a favor (the troll in the story is local), or if you can simply guess the right answer and check it, it's easy again. If you can read someone's cookies with a cross-site scripting vulnerability or trick them into installing malware, it's not going to be too hard to find them.
All the symbolic deliveries of ashes and dead roses was very romantic, but I guess that could happen. However, what's up with the "IT genius friend" part, who can somehow get the message senders' IP addresses and then trace them up to an accuracy of a house? I think the story got a bit twisted or is missing some information there.
This is pretty much the definition of Idle, is it not?
Cool story bro seem appropriate.
Do what thou wilt shall be the whole of the Law
Queue the trolls...
It may be that you intended to use the homophone of the word, which would be typical. However, either form could be potentially valid semantically, despite having distinct meanings.
Either way, encountering this part of your comment effected my reaction.
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My web domain.
Happened to me in high school.
I blocked at least a dozen AIM accounts a night for weeks (maybe months); I can be fortunate there was no "twitter" then, nor this "book of faces", and that smartphones were this exciting new thing Handspring was just introducing to the market that nobody could afford.
Then I got two unsolicited copies of the TSR novel "Death of the Dragon" in the mail - this may have been an error by a small book distributor I did business with, so I can't be sure -- but "Dragon" was part of the IM name I used at the time, and I could never be sure. I still have both copies, and I haven't read either. I don't actually think I even touched either after I put them on the bookshelf those years ago.
Then the fella proved himself grossly incompetent, and threatened to beat me to death. In a public library, where I "was", he was "behind" me. I was sitting at a desk, at home, with a baseball bat within arms' reach. I mocked him for the rest of the night, and then it ended. He failed. Epically. His confrontation... wasn't.
But I'm not in high school any more. I spent the next couple years reading books like "Shooting To Live" and "Kill or Get Killed". I took years of aikido, tae kwon do, and studied a few forms of swordplay for a few more years. I carry a gun, and enough ammo to get through the statistically average civilian-defense gunfight, and then a little more. Sometimes, more than one. I'm seriously considering building some ghetto-but-effective body armor. (Steel rifle plates went out of style because they're heavy and unconcealable, but they offer an awful lot of protection). I don't carry a gun because I expect to get in a fight; I carry because I don't expect to get in a fight. If I expected one, I'd simply send a SWAT team in my stead, and sip Starbucks in the mobile command center. (No police department takes documentable, documented conspiracy to commit murder lightly in this age of lawsuits!) I don't sit with my back to the door at restaurants any more, I know what phrases like "condition yellow" mean, and I look for the bulge of a poorly-concealed weapon now when someone walks into the gas station while I'm fueling up.
Fortunately, for the most part, I don't mind living like this. In practice, 98% of the time, it just means I can make unplanned trips to the gun range without going home for weapons. And - unlike most liberals - I know a secret: The shooting sports are fun. I hesitate to say it, but it's a blast to put 20 shots into a single hole not any bigger than a nickel; mastery for its own sake is one of the most rewarding things.
But somewhere, deep down, I know and cannot forget: I found this thing I enjoy because someone threatened to kill me in a public place, in front of witnesses, and get away with it. And other geeks may not get through it as well as I did. I may enjoy the trappings, but I wouldn't want to put anyone through the scary parts on the way to where I am today.
Let us not mistake this for an isolated incident; it is not. Let us not mistake it for something new; it is not. Let us not allow this to happen again; it should not.
I am exploring the hypothesis that motor skill development in children, and in particular, the failure of certain children to learn certain motor skills lays the groundwork for the later development of toxic and unhealthy behaviours such as harassment described in the original post and related behaviours such as bullying, a recently widely reported socially destructive behaviour.
What do I mean by "explore a hypothesis"? I work with severely disabled kids. Kids that have huge time delay around a simple task like holding a pencil and making a mark on a sheet of paper. This has lead me to observe non-disabled elementary school kids and the extreme rapidity where every month every child develops new abilities to play games. Kids quickly move from "throw it to me" to performing screen passes and showing new control as they play basketball.
The same learning process, in public school, trails off into disorder and incompleteness in matters of moving from motor skills to social skills like befriending and interacting socially in a group at lunch. Some kids stand in clusters, trying to figure out how to get and give attention. Other kids are silent. All of them floundering around gradually falling into a gelled relationship. Whatever that relationship is, it is not formally a part of "school" (but I see the same processes taking place as when I went to elementary school some 50 years ago). The capability of making a friend, being a friend and being able to keep becoming socially healthy is something of great importance and real delicacy.
The hypothesis applies to this kid and this cruel trolling or harassment like this: many years beforehand this person failed to learn some motor skill, then failed to pick up the game, then failed to learn the ideas and rules embedded in the game. When his motor skill apparatus had matured to the point where he was able to engage in sophisticated motor skill planning he lacked an adequate experience and capability base to conduct himself in a constructive manner.
The past few years it seems like lots and lots of kids are getting to their high school and college years and displaying highly developed motor skills and planning skills with a really grave absence of the high level part of culture. Are the number of socially deficient young people greater now than in past years? I don't know.
I feel tracing the bad social behaviour back to motor skill acquisition in elementary school points to a way to address the behaviour problem at it's inception.
He's was being a complete dick. I hope his parents neuter him.
The article is most likely a fake.
Tracking someones home simply by having an IP adress with no help from the ISP and various legal procedures? Yeah, sure.
*Not* going to the police over physical world death-threats? Yeah, sure.
I bet money that this is a fabricated news story by a loony pseudo journalist. Or that Leo Traynor simply doesn't exist. There are accounts on the interweb that indicate this.
We suffer more in our imagination than in reality. - Seneca
360 degrees means you're looking directly at the xbox again ...
I've never heard of this guy. He's supposed to be a "writer", but the only thing I can find about him is his blog, and this article which he's managed to get plastered everywhere. Why do I care that his neighbor's kid was harassing him?
It's people like this (troll) who make it hard to argue for universal free speech. So we're stuck with some lame subjective standard for harassment.
Leo Traynor is a fiction. Apparently he has lived in no less than seventeen countries over the past eight years, including some of the most politically unstable regions on the planet; more that he has managed to stay still long enough to gain a DPhil in international politics (no school anywhere has any record of him), that he has worked for all three main parties in the UK as a press liaison officer (yet no mention of him in the Press, ever). That he has worked for both parties in the US as a Press liaison officer (ditto). His story is so full of holes you could drain chips with it.
Leo Traynor, you are a bullshitter.
Operation Guillotine is in effect.
If you've ever seen very young puppies playing, you know that it's not as cute as it sounds. There's yelping and pain, and often even blood as the puppies bite one another mercilessly. But as the days and weeks pass, that stops; by being bitten, the puppies learn that biting hurts. It takes a little while, and is perhaps not the most pleasant of methods, but it's what their minds can process.
Some people are the same way. It's a cruel thing to force a bully (or its net-cousin, the troll) to look in the mirror and see what they've really done; what they really are. It messes with a person's head in a way that those who haven't experienced it cannot understand. But many of them legitimately NEED that kind of cruelty; it's the language they speak, the stimulus they know how to sense.
It's still cruel, mind you; it shouldn't be shied away from, but it shouldn't be glorified or looked forward to either. Sometimes it's not even possible, especially in the age of the Internet. But when it can be done, I'd call it preferable to bringing in the authorities. It's less wasteful, on account of not throwing up lifelong obstacles for the troll to overcome, and when properly applied it hurts worse than the law would allow our authorities to inflict anyway. Justice and vengeance, all wrapped up in a nice, neat package.
One beautiful Sunday morning in Queens, N.Y., I am in my car, parked along a nice open-field park. It's,for the 19 year old me, a great morning! I'm enjoying my coffee and breakfast sandwich while listening to a great Dr. Demento show on the radio, and all is right in my world. Until I look in my rearview mirror and see something that doesn't 'fit' with my perfect morning. It's a straight road and far behind me a van is parked, and there are three young men around the driver's door, and they are yelling a great deal. I want to ignore this and go back to my Sunday comics, but I'm bothered by not knowing what to do. More upset that it's ruining my perfect morning,, I get out and walk a beeline course straight to them, not knowing what I'm going to do, but I do know what's happening is wrong.
The last 40 feet, one of the guys notice me, and the leader of their group walks tough up to me, words are exchanged. And yes, I am scared. He's bigger than I am, and if it came to a fight I'd lose. But a few weeks earlier I'd heard somewhere that when it comes to bullies, never show fear. Never 'back' from a bully, not even in your eye. They will sense your fear, once you show fear, the fight's over, you've already lost, and you may as well lay down and 'take your beating'. So when the tough moves toward me, I don't move, words get exchanged. I mention coolly (in my best Clint Eastwood voice) that three on one isn't fair, and that I'm just here to "even up the odds." And an amazing thing happened. He backed down, unsure of what I might know. They walk off, I check the driver who has a pretty girlfiend in his passenger seat. Ask if he's ok, he says "Yeah, thanks.", I walk back to my car feeling shaky from the adrenaline effect, and go back to my fine Sunday morning, feeling kind of good about the way that episode turned out.
I learned that day that bullies are mostly hot air, and also that I'm a pretty damn good 'bluffer'. It's a poker game, really. That bully didn't know me, and I acted confidant enough so that he felt I wasn't worth the risk, and 'folded' his hand. I've used this 'never show fear to a bully' technique throughout my life, and it works on some of the biggest guys! Now, there are situations where "walking away" is what a man must do, not all confrontations 'need' to be 'won', and some can't be won, best to leave. But know your local laws so you don't get arrested a lot. This post may get modded down, or off-topic. I'm typing it in so maybe some young man or woman reading this will be helped if they ever have dealings with a bully. They come in all shapes, sizes and types in life. 'Trolls should be treated the same way, never let 'em see you sweat.
They call it the Xbox 360 because when you see it, you turn 360 degrees and walk right back the way you came!
I assume you're meant to moonwalk on your outbound trip. I thought that was a Genesis game...
"You're right," Fisheye says. "I should have set it on 'whip' or 'chop.'"
That's an interesting case of Prisoner's Dilemma there. If everyone is anonymous, nobody can stalk anybody, but there will be relatively many rude people. If only some people are anonymous (and potentially rude) and others aren't (and are civil), then the civil folks run the risk of being stalked by anonymous rude people. If nobody is anonymous, nobody can stalk anybody, at least not while escaping punishment, and we'll have fewer rude people.
In the Prisoner's Dilemma, there are several solutions to this. One is having an external authority that keeps both prisoner's from talking. Another strategy that works well (in the sense of fostering cooperation) is tit-for-tat with random altruism, where in each round of Prisoner's Dilemma you cooperate if the other person cooperated with you in the previous one, and betray if they betrayed you, except that you occasionally give them a break and cooperate even if they betrayed you. This latter feature keeps the system from getting stuck in endless loops of betrayal. The analogues in the case of Internet anonymity would be a real-name policy, and letting users selectively share their personal information with others. Note that for the user to follow the tit-for-tat strategy, users have to know that it's the same person who betrayed them last time, so you can't have multiple accounts per person (another reason for a real-name policy). Of course, there are also good valid uses of anonymity and anonymous speech, and there should be a place for them as well.
Exactly, and that is why the solution that Traynor chose is the right solution, and it's quite admirable that he did so. But even if all he would consider would be self-interest, this would have been the correct solution. Prisons and other punishment don't solve the problem of crime in a society. They just repress the symptoms, and they deflect and channel feelings of revenge into something more civilised than a lynching. If you actually want to solve the crime problem, you have to prevent people from becoming criminals, because once they are there is very little you can do to turn them into good citizens again. That means keeping a very close eye on 12-18 year olds who are running with the wrong crowd, who live in unstable families, and so on, and intervening where necessary. Keep them on the straight during puberty and adolescence, make sure they finish school and find a job and start a family, that's basically all you have to do (see also the recent find-hackers-girlfriends item). And for the ones for which it's too late, and the ones with mental disorders, well, so far prisons and closed institutions is the best we can do it seems. But if Traynor had had this kid sent to prison, the kid would have been out in a couple years, and would probably have got right back into stalking people or worse. The path he chose to take gives Traynor a much better chance of never having to deal with this again.
So the cops can't find this guy, they're wringing their hands in helplessness. Along comes "An IT Genius" that traces the house by IP ... and the cops couldn't call any of their guys on the entire force to do that?
As far as I've heard from friends and experienced myself, the cops don't give much of a shit unless child porn or something similar is involved, or you lead them at the person who did it yourself.
This story makes absolutely no sense whatsoever, and I see basically two possibilities:
1.The events described, as a whole, actually happened, but the technical issues described(finding the IP and hacking the facebook page) were misinterpreted by the author.
2. The entire thing is false.
I don't know which one it is, personally I think the latter as it sounds implausible and reads like a work of fiction.
The claim of the "IT genius friend" finding the house from the IP obviously makes no sense for two reasons:
1.Twitter and Facebook do not reveal their user's IPs, nor do most email services. Depending on the blog host, it's possible he could have found the IP there, but obviously there would be no way to be sure it was the same as the stalker(troll is the wrong word) on FB and Twitter.
2.Converting the IP to a physical address obviously is not possible without cooperation from the ISP. The author claims that his friend was able to deduce not one, not two, but THREE physical addresses from the IP addresses, including his friend's house. I don't see an ISP doing that without police or court involvement first, as giving a customer's physical location out opens them up to significant liability.
The overall story appears false as it is practically written to appeal to those who fear young people using computers. "His son was glued to the computer...couldn't watch TV without tweeting" "engrossed in conspiracy sites". This reads like a work of fiction pushing an agenda, an anti-youth, anti-internet hit piece.
When I started writing this post, I honestly wasn't sure which of the two possibilities was true, whether the author misconstrued the events or whether the whole thing was a hoax. Having re-read the article a few times now, I'm sure this is false and a hoax, and I hope it is exposed.
God also hates bullies: 2 Kings 2:23-24
Sorry to burst bubbles, but this overly dramatic and sappy story is obviously designed for readership consumption and to get famous. It's 100% fake, doubled-down vague on details.
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Young people setting fires, torturing animals, and yes sending threats via computer are obvious sing of psychopathic personalities. I predict the boy will eventually cause serious harm to someone.
Mr Traynor has made a grave mistake. Merciful to a wicked is wicked to the merciful. Hopefully the next victim of the little shitface will also have an IT Genius friend. Reporting the little shit to GARDA would have been THE RIGHT THING.
I respectfully disagree. He showed 'mercy' to the confused young man, an admirable quality. Whether ot not this story actually happened, just because you 'can' seek retribution does not mean you always 'should'. That boy learned an important lesson, and the situation ended., that was what the man wanted. You don't always get 'justice' in life. And sometimes, people who seek out revenge oftentimes turn into a worse person for it. I've had times when I would have been entirely 'justified' in making someone's life worse by seeking 'righteous justice', instead I forgave them. It lifts a heavy negativeness off of me by forgiving. The people I forgive may still be the same, that really doesn't impact my life at all, I've found. But I can tell myself, "I'm SO glad I'm not like THAT person!" It helps me to get a sense of satisfaction, knowing I didn't allow myself to become another fool who shouts to anyone who'll listen, "But, I was right!" They let their sense of needing to be 'right' eat away at the good inside them, leaving them bitter and angry. That's not who I choose to be.
That's basically what this guy was, a bully. He was picking out someone he deemed weaker, he looked for a trigger that he could push to make his victim cower in fear and he went for it. That's the same shit that has been going down schoolyards for ages now.
The only reason this gets some attention is that it can happen to someone of voting age.
We used to have a Bill of Rights. Now, with the rights gone, all we have left is the bill.
Did the guy ever try to understand what drove this "Internet troll" to hate/despise him so much, or did he just assume it was baseless racism and he was crazy?
A good beating will modify the behaviour of anyone dramatically.
Evidence shows that punishment like this only modifies behaviour whilst the threat continues. Remove the threat, and you'll find nothing changed. This has been very precisely studied.
Medieval crowd control methods as practised by the Catholic Church and Vlad the Impaler, still work just as efficiently today, as it did back then.
Gee... you must be an authoritarian personality. People are different. They are not all like you. Most are not like you. You cannot project your experience of life onto others. Perhaps medieval crowd control would be good for you -- but for the rest of us, it will just create a spiral of violence. Like the violence in medieval times.
Like all pain, suffering is a signal that something isn't right
Or the kid did a bit of research and figured out what would push Traynor's buttons. He doesn't necessarily have to believe it. He just has to know what will get someone's goat.
Have gnu, will travel.
Whether the story is true or an attention grab, what occurs to me is that the end is unusual and in some ways unrealistic. It depends on the troll having some decency in them that they had not managed to suppress by their hatred or disdain of their quarry.
Yes, it is possible to track down an harasser. I've done it. (It was a team effort, and the guy eventually lost his job and will probably never work in that field again.) It needs to be someone who can manipulate the tools without knowing how they operate, and without the knowledge and experience to adequately cover their tracks. Lots of people are full of venom but not intelligence.
The thing is, just telling them what kind of person you are and how badly they hurt you is, if anything, added motive to (in my opinion) the great majority of scum out there. They don't care who you are, and the fact that they've caused you pain is invigorating. Making the world crash down on them is in most cases the only solution.
In this particular case (again, if true and not just a marketing effort), given that the troll was the son of a friend, confronting the kid with parents present is a necessary first step, but I'd be surprised as hell if it worked. Real life is seldom so accommodating.
Oliver's law of assumed responsibility: If you're seen fixing it, you will be blamed for breaking it.
What a crock of shit.
The thing that gets me about this story is the "IT genius" family. We are told basically nothing about them other than it consists of a husband, wife, and 17 year old son. We are told that the father did notice his son always being online and never watching TV. Didn't they start to suspect something was up with their son? If this boy truly does lack any empathy it would of shown up prior to this incident.
The story just doesn't go deep enough to provide context to the boy's actions. Yeah, taken at face value, that was easily premeditated harassment and deserves some kind of punishment. If his brain is lacking in chemicals that keep him from realizing what wrong he is doing, then it needs to be treated. Everybody deserves a shot at happiness in their lives.
Ruining somebodies life via the Internet, eh? I could say something like, "if that is possible you didn't have a life to begin with". Unfortunately, some of us are forced to use the internet via sites like Facebook and Twitter since the aggregate number of users there has become so large it has become sensible to attach your commercial interests to it.
Beyond that I do value my semi-anonymity here at slashdot and think people here are more civil than you portait them to be. I did meet bigger assholes in real life.
Je me souviens.
Cool story, bro. :>
For the hive mind!
Exactly! Like when you post "TLDR" to a post, you get rewarded with another TLDR post and a guy posting that you should answer him to disprove the facts on his TLDR post on all your other Slashdot replies!
I call you "The hosts file guy".
Change is certain; progress is not obligatory.
But it's feasible that the author's statements that he baited the troll on might indicate he used some sort of honeypot to get the troll to cough up his IP address. As far as getting him to reveal his ACTUAL location, it seems like it might take a lot to get him to do it even once. But three times? I have to admit this would be quite a stretch without maybe some sort of actual hacking or something. But maybe he did indeed bait the troll into somehow installing something on his machine, that'd be illegal and he couldn't ever write about that, he'd have to sanitize his story a bit. Also the geolocation site could be something, If I had a friend who lived in a relatively small city in ireland and an IP showed up there. I might ask my friend... "hey this isn't your IP is it?" especially if my antagonist seemed to know a lot about me. But why your father's friend??? It's not like there aren't an endless supply of superior trolling targets on the internet, though I have encountered these sorts of trolls in the past, really angry and abrasive but not actually funny.
I think your points are hard to argue with though.
Fun fact, per the DSM-IV Sociopathy, or actually Antisocial Personality Disorder, as it's now known, can't be diagnosed before age 18.
Technically correct, because the childhood version has its own separate equivalent, known as Conduct Disorder, in which the criteria are appropriately tailored for the characteristics of younger individuals. Note that the criteria list for Antisocial Personality Disorder includes an item for past history of Conduct Disorder, too.
Lemme save you some time: NONE OF THIS ACTUALLY HAPPENED. SOME TWISTED ATTENTION WHORE MADE IT ALL UP. And he's not real good at makin' stuff up, hence the huge friggin' holes in the story. The author is not "stupid," he's just nowhere near as bright as he thinks he is.
Sent from the iPad I found in your car.
According to the article:
"My Twitter account was deactivated but before doing so I posted links to my Google+ account, blog and invited people to contact me on Facebook. I'm delighted that a lot of my lovely friends did. I'm also delighted that The Troll did too."
So can anyone explain how you get to someones IP address by inviting people to contact you on Facebook?
Yes going by the test there is a suggestion of Irish locality, but It seems it was composed by a Yank to me.
I thought it was fake too. Reminded me of made up journo crap straight away, like half the shit found in any Murdoch rag & in many other rags too.
The author of this story typifies everything that is wrong with today's no-accountability culture.
He's weak in the exact way that fosters the troll that tortured him. I honestly find myself disgusted with him. I imagine, though she may not admit it, his wife was not thrilled and consciously or subconsciously thinks less of his approach to "defending" the family.
I don't care if it's a friend's kid or my kid. He needed to fail at manipulating his way out of trouble. He needed to go before the police and the courts.
Now others will suffer because of the author's common, and absolutely awful, "the past is the past, I forgive you" approach to dealing with crime.
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No, the kid wasn't a troll. He was, rather, a stalker. In the US, if he'd been after me, I'd have tried a couple of things: one, as much as I despise them, I would have called the FBI. This is possibly wire fraud, and is certainly a death threat. The Men In Black showing up at the kid's door, and probably taking his computer, might have gotten his attention to the RW.
Two: I could do my own tracking. The thought of either threatening to show up at his door with a real sword, which I know how to use, is vastly entertaining.
Three: possibly the simplest one, and the one I'd start with: I'd contact my 'Net provider, a phone company, and talk to their Fraud and Abuse dept. I can say, from having worked for several US telecoms, they do *NOT* take this kind of thing kindly... and they can talk to other phone co.s....
mark, who needs to sharpen his sword....
It's a fiction. There's no reason the troll shouldn't be in jail, and there's no way that the author, if he were telling the truth, wouldn't go tot he authorities and have the little asshole arrested and hailed.
I get the gist of the article, it's supposed to imply that game play and tech addiction is responsible for the trend of people being cowardly little shits.
The reality, though, is that it' not the tech, it's the culture and sociopathy. Don't confront trolls like this, that can get you killed. Gather the information and report them to the authorities, get a lawyer, sue them, and send them to jail.
It's where they belong.
No way is an adult man that's received a note about his wife's throat being slit someday going to just let something like this slide; nor should he. The article is fake, the guy is a liar, and his message is stupid.
(Can I start a meme? Rick-Trolled?)
No, but you could channel Ed Khil...
"Trollolo-Leo! Troll Leo! Troll Leo! Low, low, low, low..."
So the cops can't find this guy, they're wringing their hands in helplessness. Along comes "An IT Genius" that traces the house by IP ... and the cops couldn't call any of their guys on the entire force to do that? However if the kid torrented a Song they would have found him pronto.
Once heard on the radio, that a body had been found in a suitcase washed up on the shore of the Liffey (Dublin). The radio advised that Gardai (police) were treating the death as suspicious.
I do not want your cheap brainburning drugs. They are useless for work. And I am a working man today.
No one ever learns if there are no consequences other than having to cry when you torture someone's entire family for months (in the most vile way imaginable).
You get your second chance when the police and the courts are done with you. They give plenty of ill-advised second chances as it is, especially to kids.
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Made me run? Not really, you just reinforced my points.
You're so tense, it's amazing.
Change is certain; progress is not obligatory.
Ran? I gave advice not to go down to your level, that was all.
Your posting style upmodded many times, let's reference the posts you linked...
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Your mass posting style sure gets you upmodded...
Cool story, bro.
why so tense, bro?
It's interesting to find out that following me all over Slashdot, posting replies to me that go on for many lines is considered "too easy" as opposed to me posting "TLDR" to one of your posts.
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Not really, I just stumble on your posts from time to time. Now you on the other hand, five minute difference between each reply to one of my posts? Cool story, bro :>
I find your posts to be "TL;DR" and you insinuate that I some how have the will power to maintain sock puppet accounts? Cool story, bro.
Change is certain; progress is not obligatory.
I already answered that in the previous post, reading comprehension issues again?
Well, it's certainly not being paranoid there is a guy out there who has many sock puppet accounts to harass just me because I wrote a hosts file management utility.
For the hive mind!
Change is certain; progress is not obligatory.
My current project is Exodus Viewer.
Nope, I'm making humor based off your plural form of representing yourself.
Since you're mad, bro.
Stalking you? Hardly. Stumble across your posts? Yes.
You didn't search very hard, did you?
I am a born again virgin.
Are you trying to imply I don't pay my taxes? I resent such allegations sir!
Change is certain; progress is not obligatory.
I wouldn't be surprised if I've been involved in more, but I haven't been counting.
You sound fairly difficult to work with in general, I'm sceptical.
NDAs prevent me from talking about commercial solutions I've co-developed.
Stumbled across your posts, Mr. Hosts file guy. I don't go seeking them out.
Cool story.
Which reinforces my point that you didn't search very hard.
More reading comprehension issues. I've done far more than just one project.
Change is certain; progress is not obligatory.
It's 23:51 here, tldr.
Change is certain; progress is not obligatory.
http://exodusviewer.com/apk.txt
Sure I can. I'm just not easily motivated to do anything for a random angry guy on the Internet.
Was it this guy (first result when searching your name)?
http://www.jaylittle.com/jaylittle/?cmd=article&sub=display&id=30
Change is certain; progress is not obligatory.
I didn't get that far, I read the first search result on you instead, as I said earlier, I'm just not easily motivated to do anything for a random angry guy on the Internet.
Regardless, that fulfills your "IF you would have come up with 1 piece of proof of YOU being a developer on that project" requirement. I don't care for your changing of goal posts.
According to the first search result on your name, you harass people's ISPs and other crap. Why would I knowingly give that information to you? I don't care enough to deal with your tantrums.
Easy, it goes along the lines of "Developed an ecommerce system for a major retailer using Oracle's ATG framework" etc.
Your bold and caps says otherwise, guy.
Two points.
1) Microsoft doesn't have a good reputation here.
2) Microsoft is a huge company and bound to make mistakes.
In my opinion, defeat is when I type your name in a search box and click "I'm feeling lucky" and find out you're a well known "asshole", "troll" and gloat a lot.
Change is certain; progress is not obligatory.
The second search result I got on Google was this:
http://www.thorschrock.com/2008/05/19/how-to-respond-when-people-threaten-to-sue-you-on-the-web/
In my opinion, you got played.
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tl;dr - But from the length I assume you disagree.
Do you think you got played on the third Google search result?
http://www.jeremyreimer.com/phpbb2/viewtopic.php?t=4128
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Tell me more.
Change is certain; progress is not obligatory.
Attacks? Nope, never did/attempt or otherwise any attacks against you. You're really paranoid.
I see these posts as being very good examples of exposing your nature and your inability to process the reality of the situation.
How much more effort to you expend into replying to "tell me more", than I spent writing that reply again?
Funny how you say you're willing to accept proof and then suddenly change the goal posts when I show it to you. I can equally produce proof if I want to, I just don't feel inclined to because of your behavior.
Change is certain; progress is not obligatory.
You are mistaken, you didn't blow them away. If you did, they wouldn't be the first results when Googling your name.
Considering the topic of this article, nope.
I used them as counters to your point and wondering if you left search results up because you respected them, as opposed to failing to get rid of them.
Cool story, Bro. I'm not the one getting all tense and writing in capitals and bold etc.
LOL!
And I gave it to you and then you started the whole goal post changing again.
So tense...
You tell me, since I don't recall that happening.
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