U.S. Supreme Court To Rule On Online Porn Law
froggle2003 writes "Sites like goodfig.org and NEWS.com.au are among the first to report that the U.S. Supreme Court has decided to rule on the constitutionality of the Child Online Protection Act (COPA). The COPA was passed in 1998 in an effort to crack down on sites that don't block porn from children. It calls for 6 months in jail and $50,000 in fines for first-time violaters. Opponents of the COPA led by the ACLU are quick to note that the COPA makes criminals of many individuals using the internet for legitimate purposes such as providing information on anatomy, gynecology, safe-sex advice, etc."
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They should be locked away for longer IMHO.
Opponents of the COPA led by the ACLU are quick to note that the COPA makes criminals of many individuals using the internet for legitimate purposes such as providing information on anatomy, gynecology, safe-sex advice, etc."
But porn (for adults) is a legitimate purpose. Unsavory, perhaps, but legitimate.
I personally like the sites that require you to click and confirm that you are of right age. That would be better than having libraries or any other place censor your ability to view web sites.
50,000?
I have to say, with every new ruling of this type that the U.S.A. has to endure, I'm increasingly happy I don't live there.
It sees like the U.S. judicial system has lost any grasp of what's important in society.
No, it's not that important to protect children from pr0n. No it's not that important to protect an overgrown music industry from pirates. Yes it's that important to legalize it.
COPA makes criminals of many individuals using the internet for legitimate purposes such as providing information on anatomy...
What about sex toys, dildos et al? IMHO, a picture of a dildo (on it's own...) isn't porn (well, at least, looking at a picture of a dildo in its packaging box doesn't float my boat); are purveyors of such goods criminals? Would such a site require age verification?
No Norm, those are your safety glasses; I'll wear my own thanks...
I don't know if this is a cleat-cut as it could be, and the point about this filtering out sites on safe-sex is slightly preterbing.
The main thing is "children" is a very broad term, and while I wouldn't want a 4 year-old viewing information on contraceptives, I would if they are at an age where this information is relevant and important.
I think the definitions need to be tidied more than they are now, and also feel that this could possibly include sites to do with mutilation etc. With some of the horrific things out there, a child could easily see something really traumatic.
I don't know, this just feels a little like all the SPAM legislation, a nice idea but something which is going to take much more than a law to counteract.
I can't help but feel that better parenting would help. After all there are schemes in the UK which are predominantly to educate parents to watch what their children are doing etc.
People involved with the bill can be found with this press release.
COPA has its own site and a commision that put it together. Interestingly, they link to a bunch of research papers (many pdfs) Hearings and meetings too. Just skimming, it appears they made something of at least an attempt at a balanced inqury.
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This was a typical example of the government imposing unenforcable rules on the internet in the classical why-can't-they-just-hold-their-ID-up-to-the-screen style. Almost never before the internet came along did you have people who genuinely wanted to act legally but had no idea how. Credit-card verification is out, kids can have credit/debit cards at 13 now. No using checking accounts for verification, those can be had by kids even younger. Driver's licenses? Not nationalized. I guess until a generation which grew up with computer-in-hand runs the legislature, we'll be seeing more and more of this absurdity...
Actually I find that american culture tries too hard to keep thier children "innocent". They do this by "protecting" them from the harmless truth. And what purpose does it serve? Maybe pornography will keep some of those hormones back at home, and out of school. There is more good then bad in porn.
1. The actresses make money to support them.
2. Look at other countries and how they deal with porn, and how many rapes they have. I dont think that a sex open society is going to have as many rapes as one that isnt.
3. Its good clean fun...... Admit it, we all know you like porn, dont deny. and if you do deny(and your a man) then likelyhood is that your a liar.
Besides shouldnt we be more busy protecting our kids from voilence than from porn. Whats worse, having sex, or killing people. I would like to have any person prove to me why pornography is morally wrong, and no "they will become a sexual deviant" bullshit.
Ben Barber
Here's the BBC's story: http://news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/technology/3191676.stm.
The article also contains some interesting links, to the Internet Watch Foundation, ACLU, etc.
There are huge freedom of speech implications here. I'm not condoning pornographic content where it's likely to be seen by young, impressionable kids but it seems to me that you can't truly have freedom of speech unless you recognise everyone's freedom of speech, and not just freedom for those you deem morally or politically acceptable.
Sometimes you can't have your cake and eat it too. This looks like one of those times.
"Accept that some days you are the pigeon, and some days you are the statue." - David Brent, Wernham Hogg
What I fail to understand is how they imagine to enforce this kind of law unless the US efficiently filter out all Internet traffic in and out of the country.
I am Danish and I am absolutely positive I can put all the porn (using models aged 18 and above)on my web-site that I like (which means zero - but that's besides the point) and I am equally positive that every online person in the US can access that page. Now - this is perfectly legal and acceptable in the country where my web-server is located, so I absolutely fail to understand the relevance of these laws.
Seems like an incredible waste of resources and energy implementing something that won't provide any child protection at all.
Hey! Are you trying to imply that pr0n isn't a legitimate online activity?
Our intelligent designer has never created an animal that we couldn't improve by strapping a bomb to it.
>I personally like the sites that require you to click and confirm that you are of right age. That would be better than having libraries or any other place censor your ability to view web sites.
You look at porn in the library!
It really bothers me when the government tries to legislate morality. Everything is up for interpretation, and what I may feel is ok for my child to view may not be the same as what the legislature has in mind. Reading through the COPA, it has vague statements such as:
(C) taken as a whole, lacks serious literary, artistic, political, or scientific value for minors.
or this:
(A) the average person, applying contemporary community standards, would find, taking the material as a whole and with respect to minors, is designed to appeal to, or is designed to pander to, the prurient interest
What is art is certainly debateable. Magazines such as Playboy come across as more artsy to me than pornographic. Although, I'm sure if we apply "contemporary community standards" the law would be in disagreement with me. As for how they are to attain those standards, or whether the opinions of the community should dictate what every kid is exposed to is questionable at best.
- b
I don't know about the rest of the world, but personally, I believe that the best way to keep your kids from viewing things you dont want them to view is to SUPERVISE them when they are on the internet. If this means not giving them the password to your ISP or going so far as to password the BIOS on the computer so they cant even boot it up, then so be it. Parents have gotten way too lazy when dealing with their kids IMHO. You wouldnt let your 10 year old kid walk into an adult bookstore, but letting them wander the internet unaccompanied is just fine it seems these days. But, OH NO, that would be an invasion of their privacy......
that said
Get Moose and Squirrel!
I do realize that it's important for sites to provide disclaimers, but shouldn't parents have the ultimate responsibility? Kids shouln't be allowed to browse alone, if you ask me.
.: Max Romantschuk
Could it be that this law is responsible for the decline of many of my favorite sites? Maybe, but I would rather blame the government than the fickle porn market.
If getting rid of this law means that Isabella, Michelle7, SDG, and Mea Culpa will have more content, I will kill to make it happen.
(don't click any of those links at work, dummy!)
...that online porn rules! ;)
Yes.
As a geek, I don't wish abstinence on even my worst enemies...
I agree, and so do many others. It is for those exact reasons that the Freenet project was created to allow all us right minded individuals to distribute child pornography without fear of retrtribution. However that dream has turned sour, due to one simple fact: FreeNet simply does not work.
While some people would like you believe that FreeNet is awash with quality child pornography, all easily available at the click of a mouse, the reality is that Freenet itself is a badly written hack of a peice of software, based on a theoretical research paper which is flawed. There is no content on Freenet. No child porn, no political speech, nothing. Freenet is nothing but a scam.
In general, people like you and I expect to be able to click on a link titled "12 year old anal" and view high quality pictures of child rape within seconds. The reality of Freenet is that the link leads nowhere but a 60second timeout, while your bandwidth is sucked up by the outragously bloated protocol. After those 60 seconds you try again, but of course none of the links work.
Of course who in their right minds would create a network (Assuming that it worked) which is unsearchable? Then, when this fatal flaw is pointed out to them, claim it is a "feature"? Only one conclusion can be drawn from this fact; the designers of Freenet are incompetent, lazy and unable to create something as simple as a search engine.
Child porn? Just say NO to Freenet!
Just because some parents start to let their kids freely roam the web, doesn't mean we can prevent people from freeely posting whatever they want (ass long as copyrights are respected). It is their responsibiliry to supervise their children, not the web's. Like Mark Twain said: Censorship is like telling a man cannot have a steak because a baby cannot chew it.
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Instead of passing stupid free speech infringing censorship laws and suddenly deciding that chat-rooms are bad, why not just keep kids off the internet. Its never going to be enforcable to censor web-sites outside america and barely enforcable inside, it only takes one site for some one to see it and if you've seen one hardcore-goatsex scene, you've really seen them all, the laws are really pointless and do more harm than good. If your worried about kids, just keep them offline or supervise them its pretty simple.
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I'd be in favour of making it an offence to allow a minor unsupervised access to the Internet. We didn't have such things when I was a kid. It didn't do me any harm. Of course, alongside that would have to be making it an offence to deny adults access to "objectionable" content.
There are many districts in many cities where all sorts of stuff goes on that you wouldn't want young kids being around. Solution? Don't let your kids go there, at least, not on their own.
We live in an adult world. The Internet is an adult invention. Nobody ever intended it to be suitable for children. Deal with it. For crying out loud! You can't watch certain films till you're 12 or 15; you can't buy fags or have sex till you're 16; you can't drink booze, bet on sporting events or watch other people having sex till you're 18. Anybody complaining about adults smoking, drinking, gambling, having sex and watching certain kinds of films is rightly denounced. What's to complain about? Sooner or later you'll be old enough.
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Theres so much legitimate (ie: non-pornographic) sex content on the web, its really the only place to go for that sort of thing. Where else is a 15 year old gonna find a nice explanation of where the clitoris is and what to do so his girlfriend doesn't get that bored look on her face whenever they fool around. Really, thats one of those things you cant ask your mom about.
"Sic Semper Tyrannosaurus Rex."
I just skimmed it.. this seems to make it quite clear that it only applies to commercial sites. While I'm against trying to limit people's access to information of any sort, surely there's no harm in saying you can't profit from it.
As for someone selling an online version of an anatomy book being challenged- well, I guess I'll just be naive and say that it doesnt seem like the kind of thing this law is intended to block. May require actually going to court, but certainly doesnt sound like something that wouldnt eventually be laughed at.
The power of a bunch of whiny parents who don't know how to teach they're kids through any means other than ignorance seems less of a threat to me than some huge multinational corperation trying to protect its copyright intrests
-- 'The' Lord and Master Bitman On High, Master Of All
Most realy younf kids find such things boring
Come the revolution, the Bourgeois, Capitalistic, "A PARKING STICKER HOLDERS", will be first against the wall!
Could you please be more precise as to what kind of "damage" the ACLU is doing?
Some organizations damage the economy, some damage the environment, some reckless ones even endanger the safety of their employees or consumers.
What damage has the ACLU done?
Kids play in the street all the time, even though they could be hit by a car. There are laws which attempt to minimise the risk (speed limits, speed bumps, really soft bumpers) but it is still risky. Responsible parents teach their kids road safety, and in a similar vain, parents should be responsible in what they let their children use the internet for. I think sexual deviancy is more prolific (or considered to be) in this modern age where we are told what we can and cannot do with our naughty bits. I think we should all take a step back and examine whose responsibility keeping our kids safe is. p.s. even with good road safety, etc. kids still get hit by cars.
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Well, have you tried FreeBSD?
Apple have. MasOSX is basically FreeBSD underneath. Come to think of it, so have Microsoft. Nearly all the more-stable-than-9X bits of XP are taken from FreeBSD.
And KPackage lets you install software without using the command line.
Even if I had mod points today, I wouldn't mod you down as a troll because this post is a bad troll. I'd rather mod someone else up.
Thanks! Your post just convinced me to join the ACLU, I was wondering exactly which organization was causing the US the most damage and now I know. 50 bucks off to it!
The ACLU opperates on pure principle. In this I think they're right. We need anti-child porn laws, but it's important that the laws don't go beyond what they were intended to. Too many blanket laws, like the patriot act (any substance that can harm humans is a chemical weapon) make it possible to prosecute anyone without charging them with anything they actually did.
Which leads to a situation there was in the Soviet Union, where anyone they didn't like was charged with treason, which was really easy to pin on someone.
Just like it's really easy to call someone a 'terrorist' or 'enemy combatant'. We need laws that make bad things illegal, not laws that make innocent people criminals. That kind of thing is a real threat the country. While child abuse is terrible and very ugly, it isn't exactly about tear our country apart.
Everything seemed to be going so nice
'till the end of all beings punched right through the ice
Yeah they damage the country by standing adamantly behind the constitution and bill of rights. People trying to force their worldviews on to other people absolutely *hate* that. Nothing funnier than seeing people afraid of truly free speech.
He's not even an original troll!
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Yeah, Donald Rumsfeld is doing a much better job of it.
I just searched some "sexual health" questions two days ago and found so much advice it was sickening. I laughed because it seemed like every advice site out there wanted to assure a girls *insert female part* was fine and dandy.
So either every site I looked at was outside the US, they aren't enforcing the law, or they let alone all the non-porn sites that educate.
OK, I agree that pr0n is, in theory, fun and not inherently evil. You or I can surf for naughty pictures and so on with few harmful effects. But, let's be honest, I wouldn't really want a child to view some of the stuff I see.
Why? Context. I understand that the "freaky weird" stuff is a part of natural human sexuality - hermaphrodites & dwarves need love too after all! As a well-adjusted adult, I understand that group sex is just another sexual option if done safely and sanely. But... a child might not. I think kids need to go through a GOOD "mommy and daddy love each other very much and sometimes..." talk, or a GOOD sex ed program (none of this abstinence-only Jesus bullshiat), before they start seeing the less vanilla stuff that's out there. Kids are really impressionable - it's better for them to develop their own ideas and preferences about sexuality, rather than be heavily influenced by whatever variety of pornography they're first exposed to.
Which is not to say that censorship isn't evil. Parents/teachers have to do their best to guide kids' online activity and that's about the best we can justly expect in our society.
Freedom: "I won't!"
And why else would they make HTTP: HyperText Transfer Pr0n? Not to mention SMTP, SNMP, FTP or even TCP/IP. (You thought the P was for protocol? Oh sure, that's what they put of the research/grant papers, but that was just to fool the suits. Didn't you get the memo?)
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Those sites are not the first to report. The first places I saw it were SCOTUSBlog and CNN. After seeing the idiots responding to the Pledge posting here, not having any idea what the legal issues really are, I figured it wasn't worth my time to submit this SCOTUS news.
Slashdot is great for geek news, but please don't pretend you're lawyers.
If you're opposed to free speech there are plenty of other countries for you to choose from.
Incidentally, do you have a reference to the ACLU supporting that organization? It wouldn't completely surprise me if they were supporting free speech aspects, but I'm not going to just blindly believe it without a reference.
I'm sorry, those three are not very strong arguments.
No. 1: "actresses make money..."
arms smugglers make money....
No. 2 isn't even an argument. You are just speculating that there might be statistics in favor of your argument. You don't even know if such statistics exist.
No. 3: "Admit it, you like it"
Are you allowed to kill innocent babies if you like it?
Ok, now what am I going to do for halloween? I wanted to be the most evil thing imaganible (an SCO lawyer) now I'll have to settle for second most terryfing thing and be a clown. (What, they don't frighten you?)
Little Brother, watching the watchers
No research here, but there is only one thing, it could hurt the child's self esteem when he realizes he will NEVER be that big. (And might set unrealistic expectations of what his partner should be willing/able to do).
Little Brother, watching the watchers
Maybe he could actually talk to his girlfriend... Devellop a real relationship based on comprehension and understanding, then they could work together on satisfying both their sexual needs. Looking at picture on the Internet won't help you understand what you girlfriend wants and likes, only her can tell you that.
I would like to know is who the hell said the internet is a product/service/playground for children??? If the childs safty is a priority for the US goverment, then how about simply banning the use of internet for anyone under 18 (or 21 like your silly alchohol laws). Or hey how bout a corporet sponsored Internet by I don't know uhmmm Cartoon Network or something of the like. Then your children will be safe as they would be parented by them! Hey you could save all the trouble of actually having to bring your child up!
So our entire future should be built on lowest common denominators?
Perhaps we should also ban all scientific discussion that is beyond "most people"?
Whats worse, having sex, or killing people. I would like to have any person prove to me why pornography is morally wrong
;-)
OK, I'll take the trollbait.
What's worse? Neither, when 'having sex' is in the context of pornography. Both are about the same thing. They are about the objectification of other people.
Murder (notice I did not say killing) is the ultimate act of human objectification. It occurs only after a person has decided that another person is too much of an inconvenience or annoyance to let that other person continue to live. The victim is seen only as a means to an end and the murderer decides the means to his end, in this case, has outlived its usefulness. The victim is objectified.
Pornography (notice I did not say sex) is the ultimate expression of human-as-object. In pornography, we take one or more people and show them treating each other like objects upon which to achieve pleasure...ie, the participants in pornography demonstrate that they believe the other people in the scene are means to an end (the ends being self-gratification).
Under no circumstances should we ever forget that other people are ends in and of themselves and not a means to an end. When someone else annoys us or cuases us problems, we must remind ourselves that unlike a tool or other object in the world, these 'annoyances' or 'roadblocks' are people and are not here to serve us or anyone else. Likewise, when someone entices us or titilates us, we must remind ourselves that unlike a sextoy, these 'titillations' are people. They are someone's daughter or son. Even when they choose to act like a tool for our pleasure, we should never treat them like they are. They are worth more than that. Consensual sex isn't necessarily moral sex. And filming it so that others can also objectify the participants only makes it yet less moral.
Furthermore, even if you totally disregard the idea that other people are exactly as valuable as you and that you are too valuable to demean yourself, you must at least acknowledge that what we see and what we experience does affect who we are and who we become. That, in fact, is how we become who we are. We are an amalgamation of our nature and our experiences, with a dash of human spirit thrown in to offset the mix. When our experiences are pornographic, it affects us. Like it or not, there is no reputable psychiatrist who would suggest otherwise. Watching pornography does change who we are as does everything else we do and experience. The question is not "Does it affect who we are?" but rather "How does it affect who we are?" I hope you aren't going to argue that it affects us in a good way?!?
-Tom
-Tom
No, I am not opposed to free speech. The assumption alone that this is the only country which offers it is also faulty, but I wont venture down that road. NAMBLA is the North American Man Boy Love Association. Here's an ABC article: http://abcnews.go.com/sections/us/DailyNews/nambla 000831.html
Too much free speech is detrimental to the well-being of any country. In theory, it is thought of as the greatest gift this country bestows upon us, but how far is too far? Do some research on the NAMBLA case and you'll see what I mean. I'm not here to convince you - you can believe in whatever the hell you want, but at least get the full story before doing making foolish comments.
A blog like any other.
It's funny anyone should stop his children from seeing sex scenes but feel ok if they see violence and killings (which seems to be the case with many people).
However everyone wants his children to grow up to have sex but not kill anyone.
Sindri Traustason.
A quick Google search turned up this.
Summary: Pedophile rapes/kills 10-year-old boy. Turns out he was a fan of NAMBLA. So, family of boy decides to sue NAMBLA.
Personally, while I obviouly agree that NAMBLA is sick and twisted, I think the ACLU was completely right in defending them here. It's not NAMBLA's fault if someone who reads their page goes out and commits murder. NAMBLA may avocate things which are illegal and immoral (note that murder is not among them), but it wasn't NAMBLA that committed the crime. It looks like the parents, being understandably blind with rage, just wanted to sue anyone they could, and figured that NAMBLA was the sort of target that no judge or jury would rule in favor of.
The ACLU wasn't defending NAMBLA's right to have sex with kids. It was defending NAMBLA's right to say whatever it wants on its web page. The whole point of free speech is that people should be allowed to say things even if they are sick and twisted.
Similarily, it's not a video game maker's fault if a fan of their game decides to go on a real-life killing spree. It's not the game's fault that the kid was insane.
Thanks for the reference. I don't agree with defending that group, but I don't agree with your foolish assertion that "too much free speech is detrimental to the well-being of any country". You are completely wrong in thinking that it's all right to restrict free speech. If all that group did was talk there would be no problem. The problem arises because we all know that they do more than talk and in this specific case there was definitely more than talk.
As for thinking my comment is foolish, you're certainly entitled to your opinion but you haven't changed mine. If you think it's acceptable to restrict free speech because it's unpopular then the US is not the country for you.
At this point I expect you to make a pathetic attempt to twist my words to claim that I support harming children. Don't disappoint me now.
Even when they choose to act like a tool for our pleasure, we should never treat them like they are.
What of those that enjoy being treated like a tool for pleasure? Who are you to deny them their pleasure?
However alien it may be to you, there are people that enjoy being objectified.
I've had enough abrasive sigs. Kittens are cute and fuzzy.
Your argument equating pornography with murder conveniently forgets the fact that while most poeople highly object to being killed, attitutes towards sex are somewhat more variable. A lot of people will agree to participate in a sex act for a few bucks. They simply aren't being murdered against their will.
Hi. I know who NAMBLA is, and I agree that they are dispicable. But, the ACLU was completely right in defending them in this case. NAMBLA did not commit the murder. NAMBLA does not even avocate murder. Just because NAMBLA is sick and twisted doesn't mean that they are automatically wrong in every case. It is not NAMBLA's responsibility to make sure their fans do not commit crimes.
Imagine a country where you are held liable for the consequences of everything you say, and can be sued if someone thinks something you said might have inspired someone else to break the law. How dumb would that be? If I say that the speed limit is too low and that there's no problem with breaking it, and as a result my friend decides to drive faster and gets a speeding ticket, should I get a ticket too? Absolutely not.
The point of free speech is that you should be able to say absolutely anyhting you want, no matter how sick and twisted it is. Words sitting on your web site harm no one. Someone has to actually act on those words before it becomes an issue. Certainly, the guys who murdered this kid should be (and were) put in jail. But it is their own fault, not NAMBLA's. What kind of an excuse would it be for these guys to say "it's not my fault, the web page made me do it"? That's just stupid.
You are implying that it should be illegal to hold certain opinions. Even though I completely agree with you that NAMBLA's opinions are wrong, they have every right to believe whatever they want to believe, and to tell people what they believe. It is not until they actually act on their opinions that it becomes a crime. This is a very important principle, and, believe it or not, our country would be nowhere near as successful as it is without this. Ever notice how just about all of the most successful countries in the world support free speech?
No, there should not be limits on the freedom to express one's opinions. Period.
I've been told that 40% of the people who collect child porn have committed (or will commit) a sexual crime against a child. Would some one like to suggest the supposed postive (or benign) motives of the other 60%? The creation/possession/viewing of this material is evil - no matter what your age.
Your monitor is staring at you.
I am a lifelong supporter of pornography, masturbation and prostitution, always touting it as victimless and supporting legalization of prostitution. But earlier this year, I entered a 12-step sexual recovery program (similar to AA) as a recovering sex, love and relationship addict. Through this program of recovery, I have realized that my view of the world was skewed, including my view of pornography, lust, intimacy and love.
Pornography became an escape for me as a teenager. Everything from Playboy to Penthouse to Hustler to Swank to harder stuff that I only occasionally got my hands on... until I got older, of course. When I discovered XXX videos, I entered a whole new chapter. Then I joined the military and went around the world, discovering the world of adult entertainment and prostitution.
Long story short, while on the outside I was outgoing and personable, I had no true sense of love or intimacy. I eventually got married to a woman that I cared about, although it was primarily because she was pregnant. I'm still in that marriage, although it has been rocky, because of my progressive addiction, not only because of my continued escapes to pornography and masturbation, but also because of my emotional emptiness towards my wife. See, my addiction has caused me to see women as little more than objects of lust, affecting the respect with which I treat my wife in daily life. Thankfully, she's still with me as I fact this addiction.
I realize that not everybody is like me. I take full responsibility for all of my actions, as my recovery program and my higher power guide me to do. But I believe, though the literature of my recovery program and hearing the stories of fellow addicts, that there is a significant correlation between exposure to pornography at a young age and sexual addiction. Yes, there are emotional issues as well, including the divorce of my parents and various issues that might have created an environment in which I was suseptable. And you could rightly argue that I became an addict before the Internet. But I believe we will see an increase in sexual addiction in coming years due to the availability of pornography on the internet, and as a parent of a boy and a girl, I'd like to believe something can be done about it.
But, as a Libertarian, I'm at a loss about what the answer is. Filters can only go so far, as can parental supervision. I know better than anybody that anyone who wants to see pornography on the internet will find a way. Government censorship is certainly not the answer (wouldn't you love to see the government try to define "adult material"?). ID checks through the use of credit cards are an interesting idea but I have personally never liked or completely trusted those. The "I'm a grownup, let me in" buttons are downright silly.
I'm afraid there will be no real solution until we realize, as a society, that we are much worse off in this area than we used to be. Perhaps it will be when sexual recovery groups become just as big and plentiful as AA groups and when sexual addiction is talked about more commonly and associated with pornography.
I saw a report just the other day about sex having become "nothing special" to many college students. It's something people do on the first day now more often than on the third date when I was that age. There's no mystery, no magic. Everybody is exposed to the hardest stuff they can imagine at the click of a mouse.
I don't have much in the way of answers in this post, I realize. But the attitude of the author of the parent post sounded a lot like the attitude that I have always had, and that the addict in me still has. It's victimless, it's a good release, the girls make money, etc. I'm not arguing in this post that every boy in America is going to grow up to be a rapist or a molester. I'm not either of those things, although I admit that my addiction is progressive and I don't know what the future holds without recovery.
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Yes. But that doesn't mean that both are evil.
This is not true. The "participants in porn" don't demonstrate anything. They earn money, maybe they even have fun. That they fuck each other doesn't mean that they hate each other, or that every "participant" thinks he's better than anyone else. That they have sex doesn't mean that they think the other person is an object. During the act of making porn everyone does what the script says. This maybe rough, but it's just acting after all. Of course they have real sex, maybe they do things to each other, which are not quite normal - but that doesn't mean they aren't normal people when they're not acting.
In normal life: no. But that wisdom can't be transfered to the world of fantasy. Don't confuse that with reality.
That doesn't have anything to do with porn.
Tell me, when you're fucking with your wife, you both choose to "act like a tool for your pleasure". What's bad about that? Nothing. The same thing happens when two random people have consensual sex. What's bad about that? Nothing. Filming it doesn't change anything about the badness. You however speak of "moral". You say that consensual sex isn't necessarily moral sex. What's "moral sex" and who defines that? You? Your church? OK. That's fine. But please don't impose your standarts on everyone else.
I agree with you that anyone is as valuable as me.
But I don't believe that somebody demeans himself when he has sex. If you think that, the problem lies within you. I also acknowledge that what we see affects us, but only the things we see in reality. Movies affect our moods. A movie can make you horny, or agressive, or tired, or whatever. But it can't change your mindset or personality. I know a guy who nearly exclusively watches splatter horror movies. He's an absolutely nice guy. He probably doesn't even have a screwed fantasy. Millions of children nowadays play Quake, Doom and Counterstrike, however no kid ever decides he want's to kill his neighbors with a chainsaw or kill random people with a sniper rifl
What do you do when you see an endangered animal eating an endangered plant?
It shouldn't be COPA, it should be Iaipwcrmcpaticpboisiwnstidl (I'm an incompetent parent who can't raise my child properly and that i can put blinders on it so it will never see things i don't like) - harder to pronounce though...
If Google really cared they would fix Android Chrome to reflow text, instead of discriminating
"the only 'safe sex' is no sex at all"
Which includes not even being born. After all, you spend the first 9 months of your life in there. If it was so bad, don't you think the "religios right" would have found a better way?
I'd rather believe that the only "safe" sex, is that which is entered into intelligently, with full knowledge of your partner.
After all, isn't the purpose of sex to procreate? Therefore you should have a stable relationship before you procreate, therefore you should have a solid understanding of your partner and their past. Then you can decide if sex is an option.
While I agree with you on general pricipals, I do think that pornography should be clearly labeled, First, it makes it easier for a parent to say "Hmm, well vannila porn is ok, and gay porn, well if my kids realy are intersted in it, but no bondage, they can't understand that the man/woman getting tied down and/or whipped likes being tied down and whipped." conversly it makes it easier for me to find pictures of sadomasochism and bondage.
On the flip side, once it's clearly labeled, it becomes the parent's responcibility to restrict the pornography if they so desire. This allows for far more fine grained control than currently exists. For example I know there are some 28 year old "adults" I wouldn't trust to look at bondage porn, and there are some 17 year old "kids" I would.
That which is done from love exists beyond good and evil
If we created a .XXX extension, alot of these problems would go away.
1. Filtering would be 100% easier.
2. Medical, self help, art would not go there.
3. Free speech would be uneffected.
If you put a porn site on anything but this extension, large fines occur.
I know its too late but if we had controlled who we gave out extension too, figuring out what you are getting would be alot easier.
...so why am I supposed to babysit them? Take responsibility for your own kid and get a piece of software, or monitor them, or some shit. Whatever you decide, it isn't my problem. Just because YOU had kids and YOU don't want to babysit doesn't make it MY problem.
You do not block the mail, you bust the guy who has the stuff that is beyond that community's standards. You can not bust the Amsterdam seller. You cannot create a magazine that only opens for adults and not for children. You must have parents that monitor what that child is doing. NOT A FUCKING VILLAGE!! It takes a village to raise an idiot! Parents and those who buy the individual computers are responsible for what the children see on it. Not the supremes in DC.
Ok, I'm going to feed the trolls and take your bait, Yes I feel pornography is a good thing. It's a very beautiful expression of humanity. In pornographic art you see the entire range of the human experiance, even what I consider to be "bad" pornography, which incidently, I could consider very poorly done pornography to be "good". by good or bad, I speak of the willingness of the models, not of the quality or content of the picture. I consider "Bad" porn to be the most utterly reprehensable of acts, and do not condone it on artistic, aestetic, or moral grounds, however "good" porn, so long as the audiance can understand it, is a VERY powerfull medium. Art is the act of communicating emotion to another person, and quite frankly I can't think of a more powerfull form of art than pornography. You're more than welcome to dislike the content of those emotions, however other people do want to experiance those emotions.
That which is done from love exists beyond good and evil
At the COPA, COPA Commission
Music and fashion were always the passion
At the COPA, they fell in love
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Strike 2.
"and doesn't display some sites correctly. That makes it worse than IE. Period."
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Strike 3.
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whsats wrong with it?? sorry abuot my typing but im doing thsi all with my left hand
Porn sites should be required to verify age by asking age related questions like the Leisure Suit Larry games did. That way, if the kids are looking at porn, at least they'll get a history lesson too. :)
Pornography is not in it self moraly wrong, but in general...
Which, if applied as the only source of sex education, leads to bad lovers.
This, IMHO, is moraly wrong. =)
That has got to be the most idiotic viewpoint I've seen posted on slashdot in at least 3 months.
You make the Goatse guy look like Mother Theresa!
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That's all.
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Not the world's job to be "safe for kids".
The world is not safe for children. I don't want a world that's safe for children. It would be unproductive and dull.
Too many don't want to be responsible for their own children? Why? Takes too much effort to teach them? Just yell louder when they don't understand what you want them to do. Works when the waiter doesn't speak your native language, right?
Get real, people. They're your kids. You tell them what's safe and what's not safe. You tell them what's morally correct or evil. And you get to define right and wrong for them--that's your duty and your perogative.
Discipline your children. Look up the word "discipline". It means "learning", "knowledge" or "to teach". Quality of discipline is not measured by severity of punishment. Discipline is teaching the kid the things he's going to need to get along in life.
You've been around. You can teach your kid something. He doesn't know that; he thinks you're an old fool. He doesn't want to listen. So you gotta sell it. Carrot and stick. Voice of Authority. At some point, intelligent discussion (they're probably out of the house by then
It's a lot of work, I know. If you look into your living room and see an impromptu performance of Lord_of_the_Flies, you're not doing your job! You--not Id Software, not Jenna Jameson--are responsible.
You can cry for regulation, and even get it. It doesn't help, though, does it? Love your children. Spend your valuable time, care, and effort to raise them.
Legislating a world where children can be safe, yet unprepared does not work. There is no such world. Deluding yourself that there is denies your own responsibility. And aggravates the problem you claim the regulation will solve.
"Reality is that which, when you stop believing in it, it doesn't go away." - Philip K. Dick
To hit a first offender kiddie with. It's probably just youthful curiosity.
What's that? You mean it's supposed to apply to the adults providing services to other adults because they didn't telepathically detect a kiddie browsing their site?
While we're at it, why not just jail librarians for failing to stop kiddies peeking at anatomy books?
Hell, why not just burn the books? It's the only way to be sure.
If you were blocking sigs, you wouldn't have to read this.
he realizes he will NEVER be that big
I'll be honest with you, I generally avoid cock when I'm looking for porn, you might want to try it some time. There's nothing quite like a couple of lesbiens doing a 69.
I started masturbating 6 years ago when I was 10... and you know what? I've lost 20 kilos since (while also gaining height)... Yeah... thats right! USA's drakonian anti porn laws is what makes their kids so fat!
Someone mentioned that cigarettes and alcohol are also legitimate but illegal to minors, therefor regulated by government. However, those are things that you must leave the house to purchase. if you are a parent of a child, the means to receive pr0n is right in your home and you have all the means to restrain its distribution to your children.
let's not make another law that unnecesarily impedes others without thinking about it, read US PATRIOT Act.
What's 500,000 lawyers at the bottom of the ocean? A danged good start.
.com address (http://www.whitehouse.com instead of .gov). What happens? Nothing. I can view the logs and if there are some attempts and I couldn't have made the same mistake (.com instead of .gov or .net) then we have a chat. I don't bust their b@lls or talk to their supervisor, I talk to the person. Why the H3LL can't parents do the same thing?
The problems with the laws in the US (which I am definitely proud to be a citizen of and live in) is that the lawyers and people are too danged sue happy. Whatever happen to being seen by 3 people killing someone and that killer being either 1. killed while escaping or 2. convicted of murder and hung from the gallows as soon as the gallows are ready? What happened is the "morally correct" said "that's not nice" and "prisoners have protection" and that is plain BS. Now they are wanting to make ME have to deal with THEIR inability to babysit and monitor their own children.
I have a firewall at the office and it has content filters on it, however I have NOT turned on the "reporting" features of it, why? Because I know in my offices that anyone going to a p0rn site is getting them from either SPAM or a blind bounce from a "site finder" service when they have keyed in a wrong
Porn on the net will exist, IMHO there are 2 places that filters should be mandated -> Libraries and high-school and lower schools. Why libraries? Because *I* would not like to walk in and see a 50 yr old man or woman checking out pictures of donkey sex and printing them out to take them home. At my alma-mater the rule was no porn display on the screen, however if you were up late and there was nobody in there sitting near you, you could hit a good site or 2, download some pics or vids, and then do whatever. Nobody came to talk to you unless you pulled up something during the day and the lab was half full or more.
But it all comes down to the "morally correct" having their heads up their own @sses. I personally enjoy BDSM action, I like sites on the topic and even mentor and teach some aspects of it. Just because I can snuff a candle from 6' away with a whip doesn't mean I am going to kill a woman who I am dating/playing with. However don't off someone in my family or I WILL off you. I strictly believe in an eye-for-an-eye; however all the "MC" folks would say is "johnny had a rough childhood" and my johnson is 3 feet long.
UGH!
AHA!
So Ben Barber, you are the Anonymous Coward who has some much to say so much of the time!
Not so cheeky now, are you??
Fnord.
But judge, this is the NEW "group" approach that gynecologists are taking to cure problems these days!!
I agree with you, it has been shown that lack of sex and violence are corellated. That could be why, for example, europe has FAR less rapes, as well as othe sex crimes, than the United States. Nevertheless, the legal age of consent in europe is, typically, 14 (and, in some cases, younger). Also, at that age in italy (and many other countries) you can legally buy soft porn (playboy...) without anyone really careing or people rallying "think of the children!" and boycotting anything and everything immaginable. Its just not a big deal. Not to mention the fact that many public changing rooms/shower rooms are coed....and yet...you rarely hear cases about the creepy guy jacking off looking at a woman on the other side of the stall. Interestingly enough, also, NONE of the people i know from europe have children...yet. I can name, offhand, at least 1/2 dozen americans who, buy the age of 20 already have 1 or 2 children. (so much for the children-empregnating thongs theory) personally, i strongly believe that all this prohibitionism is countereffective - think of the 20s and alcohol. i think its time we deal with the real issues and problems of society instead of "protecting" our children from immaginary ones. CC p.s. i like how you posted as anonymous coward, yet signed your name at the end. lol.
The main problem with adult material and the Internet is how can you tell if a person is an adult without having them prove their identity? The current least worst solution is to require a credit card number, which somehow proves you're old (or clever) enough.
Instead, perhaps you could ask questions that only adults would know the answers to, say questions about engineering, calculus or physics. Of course you'd then be allowing child progodies to access pornography (which may not be a such bad thing) and you'd obviously be locking out the 'not the full six-pack crowd'.
A seconday problem with adult material is that there are powerful lobbying groups that are trying to ban it completely. They make use of various arguments, which basically all boil down to a personal moral choice that is being made by them and not by you. This flies in the face of the freedoms supposedly allowed by western democracies. Particularly irritating is when this is done by country A which causes effects ripple effects in country B.
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Those criteria are nothing new, they've been around for decades as part of the Miller Test to determine whether material is obscene.
In... 1973, in Miller v. California, I believe, the Supreme Court ruled that obscenity is not free speech, and established three guidelines (including those mentioned above, minus the "minors" part) to determine what exactly obscenity is. States can restrict obscene material as much as their hearts desire.
The major problem, recently, has come from the Internet. What exactly is the community?
It seems that a lot of people are just flat out unaware of the scientific reasons (well... as far as psychology is a science) behind the 'keep kids away from porn' argument.
Children do not have the cognitive maturity to understand what it is they're looking at. Exposing them to it when they are too young to understand it warps their perceptions and confuses their understanding of a relationship. This is a fundamental truth.
For example - a 3 to 4 year old believes they can do anything... literally. In their mind they can climb as fast and as high as any world class rock climber. They'll believe this even after they've fallen off a 2 foot high chair 10 times in a row. They'll believe it in the face of every scrap of empirical evidence to the contrary, and if you tell them they can't they'll just try harder.
4 year olds can't lie - they believe you know the truth even before you ask the question. They don't understand that their thoughts are private to them, and even if you try to explain it to them, they still won't make the connection.
Sexual maturity starts between 9 and 14 (if I remember right), and it's a natural process that they go through with their peers all the way up through adulthood (19 to 22). They become progressively more curious as they get older, and willing to experiment. This provides normal healthy development, and they work it out by talking with thier peers (not you, as many parents would like to believe). Porn throws that development off a cliff - most will end up thinking that sex IS the relationship, and if they don't get it from their significant other, they get seriously confused. This confusion is manifested in everything from why doesn't he/she like me to violence (defense against rejection) and force. It also results in a fair amount of alienation from their peers (slut for girls / pervert for guys), which aggravates the confusion and reduces the pool of peers they can talk to about it (or are willing to talk to). It's also not something that works itself out when they get older, it's a belief system that's pretty hard to break.
So you see, it's not a morality thing, it's a social impact thing. Children should be protected from porn.
That doesn't mean censorship, it just means take reasonable steps to keep kids out - it's the beaded curtain at the video store or the entrance ID check at the local strip club. I'd say it's pretty simple - self regulation and common sense. If you try to pull the free speech defense when you're running a free porn site without a barrier to entry, your... screwed.
Why bother when you can have fun with Google instead... *sigh* This is how we get so many sick perverts in our society. Besides, sex with 15 year old child is illegal not without a reason. Children are not ready for sex and no amount of pornography can change it.
Sincerely,
Pan Tarhei Hosé, PhD.
"Homo sum et cogito ergo odi profanum vulgus et libido."
It is stupid to make another (or uphold another) censorship law. If these religious wing-nuts want to make the internet safe for their children, fine. Make a law establishing the guidelines for a "child-safe" site and put a $50 gazillion dollar fine on any site that registers as "child-safe" but isn't and then let people download V-chip plugins for their kids browsers. The world is a place for adults. I have no problem with a small segment being carved out for children. But to try to make the world a place for children with a small place carved out for adults is perverse.
why did you look again?
Belive me, mo system is that good at verifying age on porn sites. And it is not like people are going to be giving out their SS number to get in when there is services like P2P.
-Seriv
get real...saying objectification is illegal is outright silly. My watching porn impinges not one bit on your rights. Your kid watching porn impinges not one bit on your rights. YOU making a law such that someone cannot watch porn DOES impinge on others.
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I don't know why your perfectly legitimate question was down modded. I suspect you hit a nerve.
What I want to know is where these rules about what is and isn't pornographic came from. For instance, you can view bare buttocks in movies, and sometimes on television, but if the cheeks are spread, then the depiction is given an age restricted rating. I've seen many R rated films that show women's pubic hair, but none that show the labia minora.
Where does it say that people of any age shouldn't see the anus or labia? I notice a trend in the rating system, but I must have missed the memo that forbids photos of labia. I don't think the bible says anything about labia. I honestly want to know where this taboo comes from.
Can anyone help?
The thing people are forgetting is that the porn out there isn't just sex. There are many S&M sites, scat sites, bestiality sites, even rape porn sites. I think children should be protected from that.
Along those lines, the COPA is too broad. I agree that sex in and of itself is not bad. But, consider the child aged 12-16 who has been raped, maybe by a family member. They go in search of help without having to tell anyone... they google for rape support. The first 2-3 pages are legitimate help sites, but then they start seeing rape porn sites. That would be disturbing for anyone, but think of a child who isn't even emotionally capable of handling what happened to them, and then seeing that. So, in comes the COPA, which blocks sites like that. Great! That's good news! But then it also blocks online support groups and resources. Now the child is left to either try to tell someone or handle it on their own. Both instances are really scarey, and can have serious consequences.
Long story short, I think the COPA is good, but it needs seriously narrowed down. And, think of the whole picture before you cut things down.
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It's fine to take the son, daughter, and wife out to see a WWF event, where two people pretend to severely injure each other, or perhaps out to the latest Terminator flick (wait a sec, Arnie's governor of California now, so there probably won't be any more Terminator flicks), but let a child see two adults in an act of consensual love-making, and you can go to jail. What's wrong with this picture?
You are just expressing disapproval, and not supporting your statements. I think children should be "protected" from Barney and Lamb Chop's sing-along, but that doesn't give me the right to ban or restrict people's access to it.
Your scenario only demonstrates the need to teach people better research skills and insulate ourselves so we may deal with information that makes us uncomfortable.
And yes, the COPA does indeed restrict depictions of conventional sex.
- Aged <= 13: and we're more-or-less in the child ballpark for most people
- Aged 13-16: mid teens, youths... hormones are prevalent and frankly some extra education about sexuality is probably a good thing if you want to reduce pregnancies/STD's
- 17-18+: Young adults. How many people didn't know what it was all about by this age, at least in concept. How many people hadn't already experienced personal physical interaction with the opposite sex some years before (excluding many slashdotters, I know)
I think that, realistically, it's stupid to classify under 18 in the "child" demographic. Especially with trends towards early sexuality and other issues, many individuals - while not 100% coherent of the consequences of their actions - are engaging in "adult" activities. Most are self-aware in a sexual manner, but quite possibly lacking in necessary personal education that might be required for safety's sake. While I'd rather not see 14-yr-olds engaging in such activity, it's much better than seeing them pregnant at such an age because they lack knowledge.I also hate to see "minors" get away with violence that would make most adults wince. Age is not necessarily a discriminator here, people, experience and maturity is.
Don't lock our youths away because of some fondly remembered concept of "protecting their innocence", and at the same time don't let them shrug off the consequences of their actions because said supposed innocence was tainted by media, video games, etc.
Basically in short, if your kids are giggling at "boobies" it's not going to kill em. If they're actively searching out hardcore stuff, or looking up STD info, they probably already know a bit on their own. The same applies to violence, etc... if they're acting in a manner which demonstrates an matured capability for violence... chances are that it's not the internet/video-games/etc that brought it about.
All "minors" are not equal... I just wish the gov't and general public would start realizing this.
If Europe is so liberal with their sexual attitudes then why aren't they having more babies? :)
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You start with a valid point - over protecting kids. I agree with that. Someday, they will face a "bad thing" and need to be prepared to deal with it. Overprotecting them prevents them from developing methods for dealing with bad stuff.
Unfortunately, you then moved on and spent the bulk of your message in something completely different - pretending that porn is a good thing in and of itself. It is NOT "good clean fun" for all parties. You may not feel the pain of it - but the woman who is objectified feels the pain. Do you want your daughter to learn that her only value or worth is her appearance or her ability to get people to look at her in a way for their own desires?
Society can not pick itself up by pushing others down. Women (who are the subject of 90+% of porn) are being degraded. Sure they can make money, but what about their dignity? Are they given a chance to do anything else? They are just as capable, given the training, of doing anything you do.
Oh, and porn and "open sexuality" are not the same thing.
Actually, your point applies with equal force to legalized prostitution.
No, I don't agree with prostitution. That is a moral point for me. I don't think it is psychologically healthy. Of course, hard core porn isn't really good for mental health either, I'm sure. But not everything immoral should necessarily be illegal.
Suppressing prostitution is more unhealthy than allowing it under a sensible regulatory regime. Making prostition illegal transforms the women who engage in the activity into criminals, leaves them vulnerable to dangerous pimps, dishonest cops and international slavers, and deprives them of what little dignity might come from being able to control their own bodies and do business.
Moreover, by suppressing prostitution, you undermine the only remaining argument for criminalizing sex between consenting adults for financial gain -- disease. Illegal prostitution is necessarily unregulated. You cannot require the women who participate in the business to get regular checkups as the price of having a license to do business. If fact, legalized prostitution might actually reduce the incidence of certain kinds of diseases by providing at least one outlet for sex that is regulated on that basis. How often does that guy or girl in the bar have a health card showing that they checked out as disease free at the beginning of the month, eh?
Thomas Aquinas even argued that the availabilty of a small population of prostitutes diminished adultery and promoted chastity among unmarried women. Hey, don't take my word for it, read Summa Theologica.
Yes, this is a little off the main topic, but the issues are somewhat related -- our esteemed legislators need to stop using a chainsaw where a scalpel is required. I would be interested to see a comparison of the benefits of legalized prostitution in places like Europe where the activity is regulated as opposed to the illegal prostitution you see in other places.
Incidentally, I know I am referring to women, and there are prostitutes of both sexes, sure. But the vast majority of sex workers are women, and they will be the primary beneficiaries of legalization.
Uh, did he specifically mention Europe? Go back to your god damn Bush loving republican shithole.
Do you want your daughter to learn that her only value or worth is her appearance or her ability to get people to look at her in a way for their own desires?
Uhm, hasn't this already happened over here anyway? Since sex is such taboo in the US girls tap into it as a way to give themselves some kind of allure they feel they would otherwise lack.
Society has already gone to the shitter over here and its STILL a society where sex is a behind-closed-doors type thing. Not saying that letting porn all out in the open will help, but shit, doing the current alternative doesn't work at all.
The conservatives are the ones who are pushing this kind of dumbass legislation. Them and their backwards set of values fuck things up far more than they help.
which of course why Europe will be overrun by immigrants from the Middle East, India, & Africa in 20 or so years: Europeans aren't having enough kids. Want to keep the economy growing with a static or shrinking population? fat chance. social programs will fare even worse. think these US laws are bad? You'll have fun when the EU states start voting in Sharia law.
What I always wondered is the following :
if two ten years olds take their own pictures of themselves having sex, then wait till they are old enough to view said material, and post it on their own website, is this still illegal ?
Back in my day, all you had to do was log on to an adult BBS and claim to be over 18. Then you could download all the lo-res gifs and erotic stories you wanted.
I looked at porn from the moment I hit puberty (possibly before). I am now happily married with a healthy sex life. I still look at porn. The theory that it "harms" children is based on no evidence, no research studies, nothing but outdated puritanical values.
My message to Congress: Some of us in America still like the First Amendment. If you want to repeal it, get 66% of the Senate and 66% of the House to agree, and get 75% of the states to ratify it. That's how it's done (See Article V, US Constitution). Until then, QUIT FUCKING WITH FREEDOM OF SPEECH!
The point of free speech is NOT that you should be able to say absolutely anything you want. The point of free speech is that you should be able to say what you want AS LONG AS you don't infringe upon the rights of others. Free speech is a balancing act.
For instance, if anyone were able to freely shout "bomb" on an airplane, other people's rights would then be infringed upon. Another example (much more debatable) would be someone airing a "How to make an atomic bomb and where you can buy all the materials" program on NBC. Surely, the right of the person to spout such information exists, but the safety of the public is at risk.
Freedoms in general were meant to be balancing acts. Consider freedom of religion: You can do what you want in your religion, but if you start killing people then your religion is infringing upon the rights of others. Thus, all religions (in the US) are (and if not, should be) prevented from using murder as one of their practices.
Protesters often say that their rights are being infringed upon when they are forced to disperse. Well, the reasoning goes that the protesters were infringing on the rights of others to move freely about the area, to walk around, to go into a building, to go to work, etc.
The only reason anyone lost any "dignity" from doing porn is because people like you put them down for it. I, for one, congradulate them on having the confidence and skill to do such a job, who, like regular movie actors, provide countless hours of wonderful entertainment.
And what the shit is this:Yea, a buddy of mine's girlfriend is religious against porn and always rambles off about some kind of women degrading thing and then bitches about how women are just as capable as men...Honestly, what the hell? No one said ANYTHING about anyone being incapable to do something else.
Oh, I'm sorry, no I forgot. 90% of women are forced to do porn, and kept in cages, and off camera they are beaten and told that they're worthless little tarts. Porn is so bad for the women. Save the women.
Men definately do not ever appear naked in pictures or films, and therefore are much less "degraded" than women.
Put down your Bible and look at the real world for a few minutes. Seeing someone have sex is not bad for you, and it's certainly not "degrading" for the woman who AUDITIONED for the part.
CAn'T CompreHend SARcaSm?
and unfortunately, there are too many like you. what used to make perfect sense is now 'quaint, odd, or backwards'. sorry. human interaction hasn't changed that much over the centuries. what was right & wrong years ago is still true today. you just ignore that fact so you can satisfy your selfish desires.
What of those that enjoy being treated like a tool for pleasure? Who are you to deny them their pleasure? However alien it may be to you, there are people that enjoy being objectified.
I don't find it alien, I find it sad. Further I don't deny them anything. I simply called it what it is...the objectification of humanity. I never said it should be illegal, only that it is immoral.
-Tom
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Tell me, when you're fucking with your wife, you both choose to "act like a tool for your pleasure". What's bad about that? Nothing.
If you think that making love is about making treating the other person as a tool for your pleasure, then you've never done it. It also explains a lot of the rest of your argument. You seem unwilling to see that sex could be different from that. For the record, that is one of the bad effects I associate with a society that considers pornography normal and moral.
You say that consensual sex isn't necessarily moral sex. What's "moral sex" and who defines that? You? Your church? OK. That's fine. But please don't impose your standarts on everyone else.
I never imposed anything. I was asked a question and I answered it honestly. He wanted to know why people find pornography immoral. I told him. I never said my will should be imposed on anyone. Don't put words in my mouth.
-Tom
-Tom
Yes. But that doesn't mean that both are evil.
Sex outside of marriage is evil and is why it is classified as a sin. Think about all the money that is wasted on R&D and the suffering of people around the globe due to STDs. Think of all the heartache and suffering caused by people cheating on their spouses, illegitimate children w/o two supporting parents, etc. It's quite easy to see how many of the world's ill would be solved by guys keeping their dick in their pants until they get home with the Mrs and women telling guys to buzz off until they get hitched.
But no, we spend billions to save people from the consquences of their immoral lifestyle. The best course would be to terminate all of this funding, let those people die and become a warning to the rest. Porn encourages people to get involved in this self destructive behavior before they are mentally and economically able to get married - which is where sex is meant to occur to help grow strong, stable families and nations.
I don't expect anyone on here to accept it because you've been programmed by advertisers that sex anywhere & anytime is a good thing. However, if you examine the facts with an open mind, you will recognize that I'm right. This is why all the 'old fashioned' religions imposed these sort of laws - not doing so led to a diseased, weak nation.
I'm always wary of such laws. Always seems we are trying to block america's kids from information, rather than making them understand what they see... and i know, some restrictions are necessary, but it should fall back to the parents, and they should be held responsible. All i can hear when i read things like this is maude flanders screaming "Who will think of the children!"
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The important argument that you've made is that it's wrong to objectify people, and that pornography always objectifies people, so it's wrong.
This to me is a very real moral argument, and one that I struggle with. This problem is that pornography is not the only way that we objectify people in our society. In fact, our society (in particular the economy) is based on the objectification of many of the people that we deal with every day.
A waitress takes our order, and brings us food for money. I like that, and find it useful. I'm willing to pay for it, and pay more if they do a good job. That doesn't mean I want to know her, or connect with her on a personal level. In fact, she'd probably get pretty nervious and unhappy if I really tried to do so. That waitress is a means to and end (the delivery of food). Not really a person.
When I take my car to the shop, I probably won't even meet the mechanic that will fix it. I don't know or want to know their name, that their first grandkid was born last week, or anything else. I want my car fixed. I don't wish the person ill, in fact, I am hoping that they are good at their job, and will profit from it. But I only care about that in a vague impersonal way.
Actors and actresses are the same way. Even through people think they know them, and think they want too. My experience is that they don't really. All of the off screen interest and news is just another part of the show. The people behind the show don't matter, just the entertainment.
Pornography objectifies people for a purpose, and that is troubling. But I don't think that gives any moral stigma to it that doesn't apply to all of these other situations that we all take for granted.
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Where else is a 15 year old gonna find a nice explanation of where the clitoris is and what to do so his girlfriend doesn't get that bored look on her face whenever they fool around. Really, thats one of those things you cant ask your mom about.
when i was 15 my girlfriend for some reason didn't get anything from her clit. she never masturbated either. we had to skip right to the fisting and anal sex. thank you internet!
Are you allowed to kill innocent babies if you like it?
yes. It's called being a doctor that specializes in abortions.
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Why does the Supreme Court waste its time with such stupid stuff? What's more important than porn sites not being accessible to children (most of which you have to go LOOKING for) is putting a stop to the vulgar emails containing pictures of girls with animals and other farms of stupidity and the sites that hijack legitimate website addresses (yes, I know that's been dealt with already) to send the user of a mistyped URI to a porn site. While I don't agree with porn I think THOSE are the more pressing issues that this ineffective and posturing court needs to address.
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Let's put it this way: I believe that anyone should be allowed to publish absolutely any text they want, as long as it is their own creation. No, you can't say "bomb" on a plane or "fire" in a theater, but that's entirely beside the point. And, obviously, it doesn't give you a free pass to break other laws as part of your "expression". The only example you give that is even remotely relevant is the atomic bomb one... and, I would say, if someone had the knowledge necessary to create an atomic bomb and wanted to publish it, they should have that right. Fortunately it's been kept relatively secret... and, of course, the materials you need to make one aren't exactly easy to come by.
Truth is, in % US has one of the record of prison population. truth is, USA had one of the worst propaganda during maccarthysm era, and APPLIED it (thus joining the rank of the "operessor"), truth is you may have many freedom written on paper, but as the parent post pointed out, if people FEAR the repression be it governemental or by its citizenon opinion, then you failed as much as any other country.
I do not say other country have more freedom, I only say that the freedom you tout so much is as good or as bad as the average western EU country. We may not have it written in our consitution, but we use it as freely as you.
Actually one has to wonder why you feel you have to scream so much about your freedom to speak up, and never really use it but that is my opinion. Oh yes, I forgot. This is Anti Patriotic to speak up.
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"Children", for purposes of the act, is someone 13 and under (Or under 13, I forget). Its very arbitrary.
The ACLU in defending NAMBLA pro-bono is indirectly supporting their promotion of views that encourge the abduction, rape, and murder of young boys. In Kansas they are actively promoting the idea that sex between children and adults is a child rights issue and legitimate. I defy you to find an instance were the ACLU defends the free speech rights of a right wing christian organization. They do however defend the free speech rights of anti-american muslim organizations. The ACLU is not a free speech organization. It is an organization dedicated to promoting any cause that is anti-child, anti-american, anti-right wing. I have children and I guess thats why I would like to see more policies and tools that allow for the freedom of adults to persue their prefered perversion while at the same time allow my kids to enjoy the benefits of the internet without being exposed to stuff that at a tender age confuses and upsets them. Why cant my kids wait until they are adults to be exposed to such things? Then if they want to spend their 18-80 years wallowing in degenerasy and smutt thats their choice.
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It may not be about "treating the other person like a tool for your pleasure", but I read it a lot different than you. I inferred that the poster had enjoyable sex with his partner, and she did as well. Sex is supposed to be enjoyable, right? Pornography is no more immoral than a documentary about growing trees. People have sex. They do it different ways. Many (most?) people enjoy watching it to a certain extent. Is it immoral because it's enjoyable, or for some other reason?
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Pornography is no more immoral than a documentary about growing trees. People have sex.
There is a qualitative difference between watching an act designed to help you forget another's humanity for the sake of personal pleasure and an watching a tree grow.
Is it immoral because it's enjoyable, or for some other reason?
Man, I hope it isn't immoral because it's enjoyable! Life would suck if it worked that way. I'm not sure why, though, you'd assume that it was immoral for that reason. I never said that. I never hinted that. Heck, I certainly don't beleive that. All I said was that it is immoral to treat a person like an object to be used and pornography does just that.
This thread has filled with people looking to put words in my mouth. They've suggested that I want to legislate my opinion (which I never said), that I find sex inherantly immoral (which I never said), and now that I find enjoyment immoral (which I never said).
My point is a simple one. Pornography is a medium designed to allow us to take pleasure from an act without true concern for the affect it may have on the other people involved. It fosters an attitude of gratification without consequence at the expense of others. That is wrong.
I'm not taking moral high ground here. I've seen my share of pornography. I am guilty of a great deal of objectification of other people. But whatever I do, I won't delude myself into thinking it's moral. I don't have much tolerance for self-deception.
-Tom
-Tom
That said, I disagree with your view that pornography does anything at the expense of others. I can understand that based on that view you think that pornography is morally wrong. My view is that pornography is a form of entertainment that involves sex and/or nudity. I don't see that viewing sexual acts or nudity of others is done at their expense any more than viewing a movie of a more mainstream sort is done at the expense of the actors.
The individuals taking part in the pornography are typically either professionals or exhibitionists, and in neither case do I feel that me seeing them "get it on" is morally wrong. If they want me to be able to see it for kicks or for money, then I don't feel the objectification involved is wrong. In the case of porn where people are involved unwillingly, there is a crime being committed, and it has little to do with whether porn is moral or not...forcing someone to do something against their will is typically wrong.
I'm not deluding myself any more than you are, I just see things slightly differently.
"Murphy was an optimist" - O'Toole's commentary on Murphy's Law
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If I can be modded down for being a troll, can I be modded up for being an orc, or a balrog?
"The important argument that you've made is that it's wrong to objectify people, and that pornography always objectifies people, so it's wrong."
It's not people being objectified, it's an image, which is an object. You can use porn without objectifying anybody, even the person in the image. Simply put, you can not oversimplify the situation.
There's a difference between looking at an image and getting tingly in the pants feelings and looking at an image and thinking that all women are here for our sexual enjoyment.
"Derp de derp."
The ACLU makes a point of defending those whos free speech rights are unfairly attacked. 95% of the time, these are going to be groups that most people don't like, simply because people tend to feel like it is OK to censor any opinion which is generally viewed as wrong. It is absolutely not OK. When you make that OK, and start punishing people with different opinions, you soon find yourself in a country where people are afraid to express any view they have which is not generally accepted. As history has plainly shown, this would be very bad for our country.
Meanwhile, right-wing christian groups are generally not despised nearly so much, and so don't have their rights constantly trampled on. Of course, many of them feel free to trample on other people's rights, trying to impose their moral views on the rest of the world.
Now, here is where I could say something like "I think right-wing bible-thumpers should be shut up by law", because I sure as hell don't agree with them, nor do I think anything they say is productive. However, I respect their right to express their opinions, however misguided or offensive they may be.
As for parenting your kids, that's your job. How about, instead of trying to hide the world from your children, you let them see it for what it is, so that they're prepared for it later?
Sex, in and of itself, is not evil. The way in which many people react to the thought of it, however, is. Children do not maintain that dewey-eyed innocence much past the age of six, no matter how much society romanticizes the ideal, and tries to keep them at that stage. And, as a woman (since there had been a lot of discourse about how pr0n objectifies the gender), I would far rather have my hypothetical 8-year-old stumble across a picture of a man and a woman having sex on the 'Net, than have that same child absorb thousands of graphically violent images piped into the home courtesy of network TV.
Ultimately, I think that this is about parental responsibility. In short, if you don't intend to do your job as a parent, and guide your children as they grow up, then don't have kids in the first place. It really is that simple.
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Either a liar, or Viagra-dependent, a.k.a. impotent.
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Speaking as a woman: Nope.
That's just, I'm sorry, a complete load of rubbish.
Two of the most over-subscribed workshops at my local womens' sexuality boutique are:
Personally, I'm a fan of one of the most extreme objectification (which is it's own kinky sub-genre, btw) porn sites on the web, and all their (women) models are volunteers. The FAQ has the question "Where do you find models" to which the answer is "We don't; they find us." I believe this for the simple reason that my first thought on seeing the site was, "I wonder if they'd take me."
So it's not that porn demeans women. It's that you demean women who do and like porn; you and people like you.
Only victorians like you would come up with the idea that if a woman does porn she would "learn that her only value or worth is her appearance or her ability to get people to look at her in a way for their own desires". Actually, in reality, women are just as complex as men and are capable of enjoying an understanding of their value and worth which spans many social roles, and consists of more than her sexuality. It is possible -- perhaps even common -- for a woman who does porn to think her sex-work is a perfectly valuable and worthy component in a larger identity which includes being a good daughter, wife, parent, professional, etc.
Feh.
I went to a store today and treated a person like an object. I shoved a few items in front of them, said little or nothing to them, swiped a card through a machine, took my stuff and left. Was a really interseted in them as a person? No, I just wanted my groceries. I have vague recollections of gender and appearance, but I could hardly say I thought of them as a person until this moment. Nor, for that matter, have I thought of you as anything but a wrong opinion.
Ooh, a sarcasm detector. Oh, that's a real useful invention.
This man will not be happy until everything that we (by we I mean the world, not just US citizens and residents) see, read, and hear, is controlled by the US government and sanitised to determine whether or not it is "appropriate".
Anything they don't want you to see/read/hear they will block it and justify it as either
A) involving "terrorism"
or
B) now "inappropriate for children".
Fuck Bush and the horse he rode in on.
I think you mean 3 minutes.
Either that or you've been away for a while. Welcome back!
For example, your typical action movie with some "big stunts" - people take pleasure in the stunt, but they have zero concern for the affect that jumping over a clff face and having a parachute snap open gave the (poor, taken advantage of) stunt man a broken collar-bone.
Q.E.D, gratification (watching the stunt) without consequence, at the expense of others.
But do you consider it immoral, no, of course not, how can you, the stunt man knew the risks, he got paid, he likes doing stunts, and he likes that people get enjoyment out of doing stunts.
I'm not saying that pr0n is all good, there is a seediness to (parts of) the industry, mixed with good helpings of crime and brutality - but you can't legitimately call all porn immoral, just because it's gratification without consequence at the expense of others - because that's a perfectly normal thing, unless you've never laughed at someone slipping on a banana peel.
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Take a look at what kind of speech was tolerated in 1950 and what is tolerated now and tell me who's speech has been restricted. You can't say anything negitive where I work about the religion of peace Islam or homosexualty or anyone of any race other than white folks. You cant pray publicly in most work places as if that hurts others. To say that "right-wing christian groups are generally not despised nearly so much" sounds like you don't listen to anything but NPR. Doctor Laura, Michael Savage and others have lost their television programs because left wing hate groups like GLADD, ACLU, ADL targeted there speech. Tell me what left wing Idealogs have been targeted by the right and have lost there shows because of right wing hate groups if you can think of any since Anita Briant. You dont need to say "I think right-wing bible-thumpers should be shut up by law" because its already happening. The ACLU is doing it for you. I am always amazed by those that
talk of tolerance for their views but go straight to the courts to have the views of others silenced by law. I know its my job to parent my kids and I dont need any advice from a non parent that suggests they be exposed to people rubbing fecal mater all over themselves to enlighten them. How does this prepare them for the world? This is something they need to see to help them have a good life? Bullcrap. Please show me the success stories of those exposed to such trash. Is this how you have become so wise? I also respect the right of those I dont agree with to express there opinions but not to my children. Are you going to invite pedophiles into your home to broaden the horizon of your children? I doubt it. Once you have children your liberal attitude towards such matters will probably change.
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The fact that someone will never equal the airbrushed porn stars doesn't mean that they are the lowest common denominators, just that they are human.
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That's what is happening here. They don't have a very good shot at getting rid of pornography altogether, or they would try for that. So they claim "Lets protect the children" and use it to try and make pornography illegal/unprofitable.
Pornography has a history of being one of the first (and most) profitable businesses on the web. The religious folks hate that. But there are a number of unscrupulous people in that business, too, and if they can set things up so that the only way you can see pr0n is to give out your credit card number (which does *nothing* to prove that it isn't little Johnny with his dads card, or 14 year old Sally with her sisters card - or her own, for that matter) then they know that a lot of people who will look at it now won't take the chance.
Having your speach restricted at work is beside the point; you have every right to express your opinions, and your employer has every right to fire you if you're making the company look bad with those opinions. If your employer is stopping you from writing your opinions on your web site it your own time, that's a problem, but it is apparent that they are not.
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Being removed from your talk show because your sponsors don't like what you're saying is also beside the point. Yeah, you're going to have a hard time finding sponsors if you are spouting racist or religious hade speech. Note that Pat Robertson doesn't seem to have a hard time keeping his show, despite all the garbage he spews.
You say the ACLU is evil because it defends left-wing hate groups but not right-wing hade groups? Well I'm not sure, but I do believe they have defended groups like the neo nazis on several occasions. Yes, they'd be right-wing. I know your response to this will probably be to point out that the neo nazis are evil, and obviously I agree, but regardless of what you think of their opinions, they have the right to state them. Remember, once upon a time christian protestants were the ones being persecuted because everyone thought they were evil.
Now, if right-wing christian groups are really so opressed as you seem to think, then why is it that every time I walk out of a baseball game, there's two guys across the street telling me that I am going to be sent to hell if I don't believe in God? Essentially, they are telling me that a benevolent, loving God has created a world where there is no scientific evidence for his existence whatsoever, and yet if I fall for his ruse he will send me into eternal suffering. Frankly, I'd call any such god malevolent. When people tell me crap like that, they are insulting my intelligence. Why aren't such people rounded up and removed? Oh, that's right, freedom of speech. And, again, I would defend their right to be there, even though I despise them. I'm sure the ACLU would defend them as well, but it seems no one is trying to stop them.
Meanwhile you've got your ultra-christian groups who are out there lobbying congress to allow (or even require) the bible to be taught in public schools. How ludicrous is that? When I have kids, I sure as hell don't want them going to a school that teaches them a distorted view of morality and tries to tell them that they can't be good people without believing in a bunch of tall tales about a guy who lived 2000 years ago.
Throughout history, humans have shown a tendancy to accept beliefs regardless of how much sense they make, and to persecute anyone who believes differently from them. As an advanced, civilized nation, it is our responsilibily to make sure that doesn't happen; that people can believe whatever they want without fearing that they are going to be sued or put in jail for it. I know I'm never going to convince you of this. I'm sure at this point you think I must be pure evil just for being athiest (and I take offense to that). But I'm having fun debating regardless.
But do you consider it immoral, no, of course not
I'm gonna tell you the same thing I've told everyone else in this thread. Don't put words in my mouth.
Yes, there is an element of immorality to watching people harm, endanger, or otherwise devalue themselves for pleasure in any context.
unless you've never laughed at someone slipping on a banana peel.
What does me doing something have to do with whether or not it's immoral? I do immoral things all the time.
I'll say this one more time. The original poster simply asked me why people found porn immoral and I answered him. That is not the same as saying I've never watched porn, nor is it the same as saying I want porn made illegal, nor is it the same as saying I am a prudish twit, all of which are things people seem so to be pulling from my comment and none of which have I said or suggested.
-Tom
-Tom
I hope you aren't going to argue that it affects us in a good way?!?
If he won't, I will. Watching pornography may not affect everyone in a good way but it certainly can affect some people in a good way. For the overwhelming majority, porn is neither harmful nor harmelss - it is mostly inert. Furthermore, if you are arging that viewing porn is harmful, you have absolutely no scientific evidence to back you up. You are certainly welcome to apply your moral ideology to your own porn viewing habits, but not to mine. I don't know why you christians can't understand that not everyone wants to be like you.
It's simple: I demand prosecution for torture.
Using Pat Robertson and most evangelicals as your gauge of the teachings of christ I can completely understand your atheism. Plus I think it is a very mean thing to take advantage of depressed cub fans to further your religious beliefs. Christ taught that there were consequences to your actions in life not that you should have morality dictated to you by force. In my opinion most evangelical fundamentalists and radical muslims are guilty of the same thing which is forced morality. That has nothing in common with the teachings of Christ. As for my "thinking right wing christian are so oppressed", This also is an incorrect assumption on your part. I have almost as much disdain for the great majority of these groups as I do for the the left wing hate groups. My problem with the ACLU is that they portray themselves as the champions of free speech which is half true. They are only for the free speech of those that they agree with which is proved by who they defend. And yes I think they defended the Neo Nazis because they share common beliefs. To call the neo nazis right wing is the equivalent to calling Stalin, and Castro left wing which is not relevant in our current system of government in the US. I think you and I feel the same way about free speech rights its just that we have different opinions of who is trying to infringe on those rights. My belief is that your rights end where mine begin. I believe I have the right to keep my children sheltered and innocent and your rights do not supersede those parental rights even if you disagree about the outcome of sheltering children. I realize when I let my children access the internet for any reason they are in danger of seeing things I don't want them to see at this age because others have the right to express themselves in any way they see fit that does not infringe on the rights of others. I would just like to see a more common sense approach to enabling your rights and mine. Like for instance having something like .porn for adults and .kid for children. I don't care what you want to do with your rights until they impose on mine. The ACLU is actively promoting the idea that a 60 year old man has the right to sodomize an infant because we don't really know what that infant wants and the parent has no right interfere with so called child rights. These are the ideas of NAMBLA which the ACLU happily defends. This is also where I draw the line.
I also agree that a god that would condemn a man to eternal punishment for doing the best he can with what knowledge he possesses would be one I would not believe in. The God I believe in is a just one that will reward a man for doing the best he can with what
he has been given. The God I believe in will not reward me for infringing on your free will to do exactly that. You sir will get exactly what you deserve in the after life which for most folks will truly be heaven because that's what most people like yourself deserve. This I believe is true regardless of weather you are an Atheist or an Evangelical Christian. To think that men will suffer eternal torment because they were in the wrong place and time and didn't hear the right message is just plain insanity.
Keep your free speech on the internet just give me the tools to raise my kids the way I see fit which is my right god given or government given.
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i heard of this incredible new filter that not only blocks porn on the internet, but TV shows that you feel are inapropriate for your children.
no new laws need be passed to enact it. it doesn't interfere with content that others want to see. nothing needs to be installed either!
what is this revolutionary inovative new device?
it's called the parent.
put filters on your computer, don't order porn channels on your tv, don't keep a collection of porn in your house, educate your children about sex and the objectification of women through pornography, talk to your kids about love and the difference between that and sex.
meawhile society can require identification as an adult before distributing adult material.
but don't put your laws in my face and tell me what i can and can't do because you don't want to put the work into parenting.
sound too rough? then don't have kids.
Yeah, sorry, I got a little carried away there. I have no problem with the majority of christians who are reasonable people and don't try to impose their beliefs on me. And I respect the teachings of Jesus Christ, I just don't buy the "magical" stuff. But that's a different story.
Sure, it would be nice if we had some way to allow parents to set up their computers so that they can't access porn. Unfortunately, it's not as simple as it sounds. It scares me to think that I could be sent to jail if I were to put a picture on a personal web site that someone else judged to be pornographic. I don't think the law should have anything to do with this. I think it should be up to private software companies to develop solutions to this problem ("censorware").
As far as the ACLU goes, I am glad that they are there simply because it could be me needing their defense someday. I have seen plenty of examples of perfectly reasonable people expressing perfectly reasonable opinions on the web and getting sued over it. For every case that you see where the ACLU is defending some disgusting group like NAMBLA or neo-nazis, there are a hundred cases of them defending normal people who have been sued unreasonably and don't have the money to defend themselves. I also like knowing that someone out there is actively fighting things like the so-called Patriot Act, and other attempts by the government to commit unreasonable invasions of privacy and limitations of our rights. And, I think that the fact that they are willing to defend the rights even of groups they hate (I'm sure no one at the ACLU actually likes NAMBLA) only shows that they are willing to stick to their principles even when it makes them look bad. I can understand why you would believe otherwise, and I guess that's up to you.
I guess the main point of disagreement between us is the integrity and intentions of the ACLU. I see an organization that started with a grand purpose and has be perverted to serve special interest over the common good. I don't even think most of the major players in the ACLU understand the harm they are doing. I don't see how the use of the word god or praying in a public building harms anyone. I would however give my life to stop the government from instituting one religion by force. Even if it was my own religion because the mere act of trying to do that would be contrary to the tenants of the religion. I feel the ACLU is trying to do just that by instituting secularism as the de facto government standard which is just the same. The ACLU has effectively become another wing of the government by pushing their agenda. The government should stay out of my bedroom and my thoughts. I realize you see right wing zelots as trying to do the same thing I perseive the ACLU of doing and I believe you are right about that in many cases. I want to see freedom increase not decrease so long as it is used without infringing on the rights of others.
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I can't say for sure, but I'd venture a guess its because over in Europe they teach kids about methods of birth control other than 'don't have sex'
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Whether or not you do something doesn't make it immoral or moral, but it could be argued that what a *majority* of people do without guilty conscience is moral...that's where morals come from, when not suggested or demanded by one's spiritual beliefs or parents.
Your stance on porn, history of watching it, and prudish or non-prudish tendencies don't change the fact that your comments have a particular *feel* to them, and you speak well enough to understand how they must appear to others reading here, regardless of whether their interpretation is technically correct.
I think I've demonstrated (a few posts back) that I won't try to put words in your mouth, and will correct myself when it's pointed out that I have done so, but I want to quibble on one statement you just made.
Yes, there is an element of immorality to watching people harm, endanger, or otherwise devalue themselves for pleasure in any context.
Had that read "Yes, I think there is...", I wouldn't have a problem with that statement (and I almost feel that you argue a little bit the same way I do...sometimes for the sake of bringing a logical alternative to a popular viewpoint).
So, Tom...I don't believe you are a prudish twit, but you are getting a bit more irritated than I would expect from someone as seemingly well-spoken and thoughtful as you appear to be.
"Murphy was an optimist" - O'Toole's commentary on Murphy's Law
Probably, but that's not as funny.
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So all images that include women's faces have to be moved to .porn? That's what sharia law requires. An adult-only gTLD doesn't make sense, because which content is considered adult-only varies tremendously by country.
They have the right to express their ideas, even if we all think they're wrong. I doubt the ACLU "happily" defends NAMBLA's First Amendment rights, but I applaud them for recognizing that those rights must be defended or we are no longer a free society.
it could be argued that what a *majority* of people do without guilty conscience is moral
:-)
That's a fair counter-claim. Not one I subscribe to, but fair, nonetheless. Both positions are leaps of faith, I make the assumption that Good is defined as the Will of God (and as Christian, I further assert that Jesus Christ is the revelation of that Will), while your statement above makes the assumption that morality is a shared agreement. That former is the standard religious claim and the latter is the standard humanistic claim. Both have reasonable logic but flow from very different assumptions. A good book that delves further into this question from the humanist perspective is "The New Skepticism: Inquiry and Reliable Knowledge" by Paul Kurtz. As you may guess, I totally disagree with him (I can explain why if it matters to anyone), but his arguments aren't as easy to dismiss as some religious folk would like to think.
Had that read "Yes, I think there is..."
True, and you are right when you suggest that I really was just trying to show people that there are other ways of thinking about the problem, but I'd add that I could add "I think [...]" to everything I say. The College years drummed that notion out of my head. It's the natural predessor to all claims by everyone so it isn't really needed by anyone except for the sole purpose of softening the blow of the assertion. In this context, maybe softening it would've gotten me fewer enemies (it's amazing how fast my fan/freak lists filled up after this one post!) but I wanted my answer to be as direct as the questioner, and I've kept that direct tone through all these posts (for better or worse).
you are getting a bit more irritated than I would expect
Yeah. Sorry about that. I just started getting frustrated at all the flak I got from others for answering that one guy's question.
-Tom
-Tom
That's a fair counter-claim. Not one I subscribe to, but fair, nonetheless. Both positions are leaps of faith, I make the assumption that Good is defined as the Will of God (and as Christian, I further assert that Jesus Christ is the revelation of that Will), while your statement above makes the assumption that morality is a shared agreement. That former is the standard religious claim and the latter is the standard humanistic claim. Both have reasonable logic but flow from very different assumptions.
An interesting note here is that even your assumption that good is defined as the will of god is based on a shared agreement...there are a number of different shared agreements on that very topic, as I'm sure you know. My basic beliefs (aside from some sex/nudity-related issues and a specific one about alcohol and marijuana) are pretty much in line with all of the major religions that I'm aware of. I think that generally speaking, people have views on good and bad that are basically the same, regardless of their religious background or upbringing (although some do bad things anyway).
I won't hold you getting irritated against you (hey, I've been there), and I'm glad to be getting to know you.
"Murphy was an optimist" - O'Toole's commentary on Murphy's Law
And nudity has nothing to do with porn. This american puritanism is responsible for most of the problems we face regarding "porn." If people weren't so damn hung up on a little nudity, the MTV type flesh trade would have significantly less power.
And THAT is why it is perpeptuated. The thumpers are just too stupid to realize they are being played to serve the secular corporate agenda.