In Booming Job Market, Workers Are 'Ghosting' Their Employers (washingtonpost.com)
A notorious millennial dating practice is starting to creep into the workplace: ghosting. Employers are noticing with increasing frequency that workers are leaving their jobs by simply not showing up and cutting off contact with their companies [Editor's note: the link may be paywalled; syndicated source]. From a report: "A number of contacts said that they had been 'ghosted,' a situation in which a worker stops coming to work without notice and then is impossible to contact," the Federal Reserve Bank of Chicago noted in December's Beige Book, which tracks employment trends. National data on economic "ghosting" is lacking. The term, which usually applies to dating, first surfaced in 2016 on Dictionary.com. But companies across the country say silent exits are on the rise. Analysts blame America's increasingly tight labor market. Job openings have surpassed the number of seekers for eight straight months, and the unemployment rate has clung to a 49-year low of 3.7 percent since September. Janitors, baristas, welders, accountants, engineers -- they're all in demand, said Michael Hicks, a labor economist at Ball State University in Indiana. More people may opt to skip tough conversations and slide right into the next thing.
I have never done this except perhaps as a teenager. If I leave I tell you in no uncertain terms.
... is good for the gander
If your company is going to lay you off, it's not like they give you a whole lot of notice in most cases. You turn up for work, bright and eyed and bushy tailed, only to find a Manager and HR type waiting to give you some really bad news
Sure, most places have severance, but it's not like they take your feelings into consideration so if employees are just up and leaving, that's behavior the corporation does all the time
at will employment goes both ways!
Fuck you bill I'm not working weekends after being told at 4:55 PM on Friday and go fuck your self and put that in the TPS report.
Isn't this what your emergency contact is for? So they can contact your dad or brother and tell them you've dropped off the face of the earth, go to his house to see if he's dead in front of the computer, pantsdown.
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While you may feel like a boss by not giving a notice to your former employer, there's a strong possibility it will come back to bite you in the arse when it's time for references.
How many times is this subject going to be posted here?
I'd be hesitant about using this practice, especially in small markets where everyone knows each other. Our college placement office had a story of a student who accepted an offer from a company but continued to go on interviews afterward. They got another offer, but the partners of the two companies (accounting firms) talked to each other and found out what happened and both rescinded their offers. If you get a reputation of being unreliable and leaving without any contact, it may haunt you in the next downturn. Two weeks isn't much time to stick it out, and if you have an immediate offer, at least tell the previous employer why (and probably expect to not work there again).
People always seem to forget this. Nobody is forcing you to work for your employer. They can *ask* for a two week notice but they can't *make* you give them *any* notice.
If your company is going to lay you off, it's not like they give you a whole lot of notice in most cases.
Do you WANT more companies to do that?
If not why escalate like that?
Telling other people you plan to leave, is just basic human decency.
There is nothing good about either side giving the other one no warning about actions like this.
Besides, the equivalent to what YOU are talking about it not a company laying you off unexpectedly. It's more like if you kept coming to work and after two weeks you just got no paycheck, and the company said "we fired you but dd not tell you".
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If everyone adopts your reasoning, employees will quit without giving notice. Employers will let employees go without severance or adequate notice.
For the best outcome, everyone has to be considerate of each other. Employers have to give employees adequate notice, and provide severance to help carry the ex-employee through while they find another job. Employees have to give their employers adequate notice, and wrap up their projects and help train their replacement employee before they leave.
Also, being a jerk to a company you work at just because another company screwed you over, is no different from a company being a jerk to an employee just because another employee screwed them over. Again, that sort of behavior just creates a race to the bottom, and is in fact the basis of all discrimination. Retribution needs to target the company or individual who wronged you, not someone else who just happens to belong to the same class, type, race, gender, etc.
This has been around at least a decade. I don't know if it was a cultural thing or a coincidence, but place I was working at about a decade ago we had three employees do this in the course of 2 months; interestingly they were all Indian (from India not Native American)- I don't know if it is part of their culture.
I remember thinking it was odd then- and I still do. One of them we found out ended up in New York, so I guess he figured what happened in smallish town South Carolina wouldn't bit him in the butt- I don't know what happened to the other two. Around here you want to behave because there are only 3 or 4 big employers. Chances are if you piss one off, when it's time to look next time you will have former co-workers at the other locations ready to say what you did.
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Has anything changed from 6 months ago when we saw this story?
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This wouldn't happen if companies...
Paid their employees a proper wage
Didn't over work employees
Didn't fire them on a whim
The current job market is giving employees some power as they are no longer disposable. Companies are still treating employees as if they were. Ergo employees are rightfully shitting on them.
I now make $400,000 a year and their shitty businesses are failing lollllllll.
Guess they should have treated their employees better? Why, they can fire you instantly too anytime they please, with no notice.
if the culture of the job is bad enough, why not collect a few extra paychecks by just leaving without notice. It's better than waiting around to be laid off because you're too old or your management doesn't value your contributions.
It's not like conditions will improve for the people left behind.
I've seen people commit employment Hari-Kari by trying to use HR to address work issues. (Hint: HR doesn't work for you, and your complaints are not confidential, no matter what they tell you)
Janitors, baristas, welders, accountants, engineers -- they're all in demand, said Michael Hicks, a labor economist at Ball State University in Indiana.
I keep reading and hearing about the tight labor pool. But, I have two family members who have been unable to find a job for 6-12 months.
One Is experienced with a good work history, laid off 6 months ago. Virtually no call backs or interviews. The suspicion is that she's "too old" at 46? 46 is too old? WTF?
The other is a "recent" BioMed Science grad with no work history. No call backs and no interviews in 12 months. He's looking at fast food now.
Who in the recent decade of depression saw numerous companies a) let workers go with little to no warning and no compensation or b) witnessed the extremely common scenario where an employee informs their employer they are taking a new job, gives their two weeks notice, and are immediately escorted out the building and left with no job for two weeks.
Companies keep trying to pull shit on employees. I don't think these greedy CEO's realize that there are consequences for their policies. If employers fail to respect 2 weeks notice, than they cannot expect their employees to do so. If corporations find every loophole and means to pay their employees less regardless of the effect on their employees. Than employers can't complain when those same folks keep jumping jobs for more money - if YOU make it ALL about money, than expect it to be all about MONEY.
Back in the 1990s, if you didn't switch employers every two or so years, you were considered someone who wasn't willing to "grow".
After the dot.bomb crash, you were a job hopper.
I never screwed over an employer - a couple screwed me over, though. But sticking to the high ground pays off. Future employers will realize they were dicks to you - some were ALSO screwed over - RIGHT fellow IBM'ers?!
Follow the Golden Rule as Confucius wrote over 3,000 years ago, and it'll work out in the end.
Yeah, there are some assholes out there who think you should sell your soul to your employer; but most? Nope.
Give two weeks notice - if it's that horrible that you have to leave immediately, consult a labor attorney and then listen to his advice.
Been through this shit and many asshole employers (And mostly great ones), and let me tell you, we workers are ALWAYS at a disadvantage.
Most larger companies simply offer that the individual was employed and nothing more. Too much legal potential for libel lawsuits if they say much more....
And all they have to do is say, well, I saw them repeatedly terminate employees the same day they gave notice.
You witnessed someone being done a favor, at the expense of your department's budget, put on the books without any expectation to show up, in a job that's very difficult to define personal employee benchmarks/metrics for. That's not the same as ghosting.
Whom in upper management was this person related to, having sexual intercourse with, or blackmailing? Because I can't think of another reason why this person would be placed on the payroll for a job that they're not doing unless they somehow had leverage over someone with the power to make it happen.
Do not look into laser with remaining eye.
So if there is this huge demand for labor...... why are we still waiting for wages to go up?
There is a certain level of self-respect in maintaining professional behavior.
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Why leave like that? You miss out on cake, and sincere heartfelt wishes from your fellow employees, as well as earnest conversations about “we must catch up some time soon”.
When they came for the communists, I said "He's next door. Take him away. Goddam commies."
So the "gig economy" isn't just a one way street. Good. There are some good employers out there, but there are a lot more who have been mercilessly screwing over their employees for years. If some of them get a little of their own medicine back, I'm all for it. I'm lucky. My current employer is amazing, and I'd bend over backward to help them out. A place where I worked earlier in my career, though, was a different story...vile people running a crooked operation. If I heard their head of HR had cancer, I'd send him a "Hope You Die Screaming" card.
Only two things are infinite, the universe and human stupidity, and I'm not sure about the former.
people have been quitting jobs without notice forever. This is hardly anything new. Meanwhile real wages are barely climbing despite almost daily record stock numbers (save the occasional drop because they're skittish over a trade war brewing).
This means folks are leaving jobs so crappy they want to burn their bridges. But that doesn't necessarily mean they're going off to greener pastures.
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Much of this all comes down to two basic problems, lack of humanity and lack of respect; on both sides. It is a vicious circle that will never end unless everyone, from CEOs down, regain empathy and humanity for all persons. Yeah - I'm a dreamer, just IMAGINE.
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Depending on where you work, you hear all kinds of stories. Had someone go out for break on their 2nd or 3rd day, get in their car and leave, and we never heard from them again. Apparently right before they left they told their co-worker, "Yeah, I'm just not feeling it here." Lots of people accept the offer and don't show up on their first day. The good ones call and explain they got a better off somewhere else, which is completely reasonable to me. There are lots of reasons out of our control why another job might be a better fit for someone, especially location. Not showing up is just completely unprofessional.
"I have never let my schooling interfere with my education." - Mark Twain
While not exactly the same thing, I've had in-person interviews with companies where they later simply changed my status to "not selected" on my application without giving/sending me any other notification -- no phone call or email. I only found out when I logged into my account on their career site. I can see this when one has simply submitted an application and nothing else has happened, but I actually met and talked to people, usually several, in person, at their office. How hard is it to send an email, even an automated one?
With respect to this thread, sack up and tell your employer you're leaving. It's called, "being professional".
In addition, we need more civility in the World, especially now, not less.
It must have been something you assimilated. . . .
Companies cannot collude to hold down wages. Apple and Google had to pay a multimillion dollar settlement because they were colluding.
He should have sued.
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I fully admit I'm old school at 43 years old. I'm not a hipster full stack developer stroking my goatee and downing another Red Bull so I can spend 7 more hours debugging JavaScript or Go or whatever my startup's phone app back end is running. But one thing I have experienced is cyclical labor markets. Being a professional may be looked down on today, but I think this is what allows people to survive in the down-swings of these cycles. 1998-2000 was almost exactly like this in the tech world...the only difference is the buzzwords and a lower number of pump and dump IPOs. Back them, if you could write HTML or do basic sysadmin work, you were hopping jobs every 6 months for 20% pay increases, just like web devs and cloud admins are now. You can't swing a dead cat without hitting a high paying job if you have certain skills in certain markets.
I have a feeling in the next 2 years we're going to experience another "interesting time"...maybe not as painful as 2000 or 2008, but bad for IT and developers. The free food, hip work environments and high compensation are going to evaporate and it will instantly become a buyers' market again. Anyone pulling this ghosting stuff, or doing the "Talk with my agent, I know Kubernetes!" rockstar prima donna thing is going to be remembered and not in a good way.
I know a lot of tech people are saying something like, "Good, sweet revenge for the crap companies pull" and I agree somewhat. But, do we really want to pull the two sides even further apart by cementing the idea that all IT people are a bunch of flaky, unprofessional ill-tempered nerds? Because if we do, I know several Indian consulting firms with thousands of perfectly polite needful-doers who are selling executives on that very premise.
My preferred solution? Ghost the crappy companies and work the system from within good environments. There are some out there. It's the only way to fix labor/management relations long term and bring it back to the time where companies actually wanted to keep employees.
> You think that shit does not get around?
It's very easy for a young employee to think that the industry is just an endless field of hot-swappable engineers and developers. Especially in certain markets (SF, Seattle, etc.) I hear there are thousands of nearly-identical openings. Never forget that it's very possible for that list of thousands to go down to a couple hundred, right after a massive tech company dumps 50,000 engineers onto the street in one shot (HP/HPE/CSC is a perfect example, or the mass firings at Microsoft.)
People talk. The industry is smaller than you think. If you're in any sort of specialty that makes you less hot-swappable, the talent pool and list of employers gets smaller. Companies have no-hire lists and acting like a jerk either on your way in or out is a good way to get on them.
I think if I felt bad enough about a company that I didn't mind burning bridges, I'd want the satisfaction of telling my boss in-person, "Take this job and shove it".
Slow down, cowboy! It has been 4 hours since you last posted. You must wait another few hours.
I have no sympathy for the Companies here.
Companies rarely have any respect for their workforce, so I'm curious why they demand and / or expect it from their employees ?
It's not like they're going to give you much ( if any ) notice of being laid off, fired, terminated, whatever.
Hell, in some cases, they won't even let you collect your things from your desk. They box it all up and mail it to you.
If they want respect, they should start by giving some.
This happens a lot.
We had a paid intern at work (I don't know how much but it sounded like north of $70k per year). He never showed up, never did any work. Found out he was the son of a VP in another department, and HR rules said he couldn't be in VP's department, so we paid it out of our budget. Fortunately we don't have this paid intern anymore and we can actually use the money for people who actually do work.
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What people never seem to realize is that reference checks are rarely just the ones the candidate provides on their resume.
The hiring manager looks on LinkedIn and, more often than not, finds someone that they know (directly or indirectly) that worked with the candidate. Those are the reference checks that tell the real story.
I'm surprised no one complained about interviewing for government jobs where they already know who they want to hire but are going through the motion to follow show it was a competitive process.
I had a job where we had a voluntary salary reduction of 20% and got one day a week off for 6 months. In Canada, a company has to offer you a choice to accept such a cut and give you severance if you don't. If you don't have a job to go to you have no real choice but to accept the cut but immediately started looking for a new job. I waited till the end of the 6 months for my current company to communicate what they intended to do with the 20% cut. This time if they repeated the 20% offer I was taking the severance. The day the 6 month reduction finished came and went and the company didn't say anything. I wasn't going to say anything and weaken my position with respect to the severance. I wanted a written offer for the extension of the 20% reduction that I could refuse. In the end time ran out. I was starting the new job on the Monday and it was Friday afternoon when I quit.
Let me propose a different reason people might be doing this: risk aversion. If something happens and they suddenly regret starting the new job, if they haven't notified their previous employee there's a chance they could talk their way into keeping their old job. Perhaps they were gravely ill and bed ridden for the past week...
No, but the people you screwed / worked with are, so the bridges you burn are still just a short hop away.
Or the company refuses to issue W2 for these employees and informs IRS that W2 is pending. What happens to these ghosts at tax time?
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The companies deserve it.
In the 1944-1974 period, the split between capital and labor was 50:50 (you kept half of the profit from productivity gains from your work).
In the 1974-2018 period, the split between capital and labor was 90:10 (you get 10 cents of the extra dollar profit your employer "earned" from your work). Frequently that was less than increased costs of living for employees.
Ghost away!
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needs to step in on the employees side. Very high paying jobs have severance to encourage you to give notice and plan your departure. That's maybe the top 30% of jobs if I'm being charitable. Meanwhile the bottom 70% get laid off the week before or of Christmas.
The reason workers need these protections is that we don't have enough information to function in a free market. We don't know if our boss is going to lay us off. But he does. He's got the entire company's books to go over. We've got what they make public every quarter if we're lucky. The prefect free market only works in a world of perfect information being applied perfectly.
Oh, and for my readers over one of the ponds, we don't really have unemployment insurance. This is something even folks living here have a hard time believing, but again if you're not in that top 30% then when you go for unemployment insurance the company will fight you for it.
Let me explain: Unemployment insurance is just that, insurance. Companies pay for it. It's not a tax and it's not paid out of the General fund. In America it's literally an insurance program with premiums. And it's optional. The only requirement is that if an employee applies and gets it and you're not paying the premiums you have to pay out of pocket for their payments. If course, if you fire the employee "with cause" or they willingly quit they're not eligible, and you don't pay. Furthermore if they do apply you can appeal their application... to an arbitration board... that you appointed.
I shit you not, at a place I worked that did mass layoffs they brought out the local Sheriff to intimidate the workers into signing paperwork that said they quit. Stuck 'em in a room (this was pre-cell phones for poor people) and wouldn't let 'em leave until they signed away their rights. I also had a legally blind buddy of mine who had to quit a job when the site moved to a place with no bus lines. He applied for unemployment, got it, then had to pay it all back with interest when the company won in arbitration because he could have use the company car pool program... that was started a week after he applied for his benefits at the new site... a month after we moved... and had no one in it except other folks without reliable transportation looking for rides.
Once again, the free market isn't.
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and there are increasingly fewer employers ever year thanks to all the mergers and acquisitions.
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The job market still sucks except for college grads with STEM degrees. And that's about 15-20% of the population. They'll have 200 applications for qualified employees in two days and they'll probably still grab an H1-B off the rack at Wipro.
We've completely tipped the balance of power towards the ruling class and the CEOs (same thing really). What I don't understand is why folks don't understand this.
There's a left of center billionaire, mighta been Warren Buffett, can't remember, who remarked: There is a class war going on, and my class is winning.
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Study their past. Their online life. Did they study a lot for their education? Have a part time job? Wealthy but always studied a lot?
Did they study their way to a great job?
Get free non academic consideration for "demographics"? Never really show an ability to study, move from job to job for "reasons"?
Become friends with political activists, take part in party political activism? Show any interest in unions?
Look for personality traits and changes over a person working life and their education level. Work and how they present their past when seeking employment with your company.
Do they lie directly when asked about the years worked? Trying to span missing months and years with one "job".
Strange gaps in their working life? Months and years "missing" that get covered over by a past job extended on a resume to cover the gap?
Look into their actual start and stop dates for all their past work before an interview. Do the actual working years follow their "up to date" resume and lies told during an interview?
A wealthy person can afford to enjoy life and not work. See what they did over that time and why they needed to hide that time.
Will they have the same lifestyle need to walk out again?
A poor person was doing "something" at that time, but now wants to hide something. Look into what they did and why they feel the need to hide that time span.
Will they walk away again?
Needed a "holiday" in anther nation but try to hide that lost time? Do their mil service in another nation? Have a split loyalty to your nation and all work in any company? Faith and cult considerations that needed years that will not be talked about? An under cover journalist who had to hide some years?
Undercover police who rushed their resume preparation and will only be staying weeks to place spy hardware?
Dont hire people who cant work, never learned how to study, who did not show a good attitude when learning. Who lie on applications. Who have pasts they want to hide.
Who got a free pass on their academic results for non academic reasons.
In todays networked and digital world its hard to totally hide a working past.
Some investigation over every part of a resume before accepting a person can ensure only the best workers get hired on merit.
Got ghosted?
Look back over every aspect of the present story and how that person got work.
Police? Spy? Under cover journalist? Worker with no ability to work?
Did they do something to your network firewall, security, take data? Do searches for projects and terms they did not work on and should have no normal reason to know about?
Learn how they got their resume in and got a job. Do someone help them get work?
Look for their same traits in all other workers and anyone seeking work.
Domestic spying is now "Benign Information Gathering"
I was just a kid back then, but what I heard bothered me, and in the years since, I've said that I think Clinton should have been prosecuted for lying under oath after he left office -- I didn't think it warranted impeachment because it wasn't a lie regarding the country or economy or anything related to the office. But, to be fair, we should forgive Trump one felony level lie. So, pick one of the 14 from the list, forgive it, and we'll only focus on the remaining 13. And the violation of the emoluments clause.
During employments and when trying to get employed. :(
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of course if you ghost your employer resulting in damages then you are an asshole
Not always, sometimes they are the asshole and they deserve it.
That's why you find a new job that starts just after you get back from vacation.
some karma... and kinda lukewarm about it.
In california they must pay you for your earned vacation regardless of why you exit. It would be like not paying you for the last two weeks of work. You already did the work and earned it.
It's about time employers get a taste of their own medicine. A corporation can let someone go with no notice and it completely disrupts that person's life. It's time the corporation feel that same kind of pain!